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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm really happy with my boyfriend, but my one (kinda big) issue is that he doesn't want to know anything about my previous relationships. He doesn't like to talk about his either, but the other night he ended up telling me a lot about his previous relationships. I liked hearing about his other gfs, because it helped me learn more about him. However, he doesn't want to know anything about mine; he says he wants to learn about me on his own. This upsets me because it makes me feel like he doesn't care, and there are things I would like him to know! \n\nr/relationships, what's your perspective on this? Am I asking too much or being unreasonable? How much do you know about your s/o past? Do you share anything from your past? Why or why not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened to me a month or two ago. Having a nice relaxing shower after a hard day at work. Shower is going along good, lathering shampoo on my head when I decide the beard could use a lather as well. Get a nice thorough coating on the beard when I decide to take a breath, that was a terrible mistake. The shampoo foam made its way to the back of my throat and completely blocked off my airways. Im standing there completely unable to breath, trying to gasp for air when my SO hears the ordeal from the living room and rushes in to check on me. There I am choking and in full panic whilst covering my junk. Finally she calms me down to the point where I'm finally able to take light short breaths without closing off my airways completely again. I was very cautious the remainder of that shower. I will never underestimate the power of shampoo again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened to me a month or two ago. Having a nice relaxing shower after a hard day at work. Shower is going along good, lathering shampoo on my head when I decide the beard could use a lather as well. Get a nice thorough coating on the beard when I decide to take a breath, that was a terrible mistake. The shampoo foam made its way to the back of my throat and completely blocked off my airways. Im standing there completely unable to breath, trying to gasp for air when my SO hears the ordeal from the living room and rushes in to check on me. There I am choking and in full panic whilst covering my junk. Finally she calms me down to the point where I'm finally able to take light short breaths without closing off my airways completely again. I was very cautious the remainder of that shower. I will never underestimate the power of shampoo again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened to me a month or two ago. Having a nice relaxing shower after a hard day at work. Shower is going along good, lathering shampoo on my head when I decide the beard could use a lather as well. Get a nice thorough coating on the beard when I decide to take a breath, that was a terrible mistake. The shampoo foam made its way to the back of my throat and completely blocked off my airways. Im standing there completely unable to breath, trying to gasp for air when my SO hears the ordeal from the living room and rushes in to check on me. There I am choking and in full panic whilst covering my junk. Finally she calms me down to the point where I'm finally able to take light short breaths without closing off my airways completely again. I was very cautious the remainder of that shower. I will never underestimate the power of shampoo again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The past couple of years have revealed a pattern I'm finding a little concerning - I date a guy for a while and hold myself back from gestures or being too forward, then I get a little relaxed (which can be anything from a few weeks to a few months) and within days of me being nicer (texting him first, planning a date, settling for going round to his apartment if he's feeling tired, etc.) then suddenly he loses interest. I once baked cookies on Valentine's Day when we'd been together a few months and the guy freaked out. \n\nSo now I have been dating a guy for a month and he's lovely, but I'm just waiting for it to end - and I feel as soon as I relax or, heaven forbid give him a compliment or say I like him, he's going to bolt.\n\nThe big problem is that he's picking me up from the airport after the Christmas break, and I can't be so ungrateful as to just say thank you, but I'm afraid if I do anything nice he'll run. \n\nSo how can I be affectionate and kind to a guy without him losing interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The past couple of years have revealed a pattern I'm finding a little concerning - I date a guy for a while and hold myself back from gestures or being too forward, then I get a little relaxed (which can be anything from a few weeks to a few months) and within days of me being nicer (texting him first, planning a date, settling for going round to his apartment if he's feeling tired, etc.) then suddenly he loses interest. I once baked cookies on Valentine's Day when we'd been together a few months and the guy freaked out. \n\nSo now I have been dating a guy for a month and he's lovely, but I'm just waiting for it to end - and I feel as soon as I relax or, heaven forbid give him a compliment or say I like him, he's going to bolt.\n\nThe big problem is that he's picking me up from the airport after the Christmas break, and I can't be so ungrateful as to just say thank you, but I'm afraid if I do anything nice he'll run. \n\nSo how can I be affectionate and kind to a guy without him losing interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The past couple of years have revealed a pattern I'm finding a little concerning - I date a guy for a while and hold myself back from gestures or being too forward, then I get a little relaxed (which can be anything from a few weeks to a few months) and within days of me being nicer (texting him first, planning a date, settling for going round to his apartment if he's feeling tired, etc.) then suddenly he loses interest. I once baked cookies on Valentine's Day when we'd been together a few months and the guy freaked out. \n\nSo now I have been dating a guy for a month and he's lovely, but I'm just waiting for it to end - and I feel as soon as I relax or, heaven forbid give him a compliment or say I like him, he's going to bolt.\n\nThe big problem is that he's picking me up from the airport after the Christmas break, and I can't be so ungrateful as to just say thank you, but I'm afraid if I do anything nice he'll run. \n\nSo how can I be affectionate and kind to a guy without him losing interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So,i'll start of with saying i am fortunate to have everything given to me. My parents have always taken care of everything i ever needed. The problems starting coming up when I was done with community college. Up until last year (fall 2013) everything was going amazingly. Then I applied to my local university and I ran into a problem. I was 3 units shy because one my courses was remedial. I did not know this when i initially applied. I was not informed of their decision until after summer 2013 was done.(this is important)\n\nI get rejected and I decided to apply to spring 2014 for the university while taking a course during fall 2013 at my community college. I pass the course with a B and i receive my units. Unfortunately the university tells me, they don't accept grades from fall 2013 for spring 2014. they only accept them from summer 2013. So here i am, rejected again, and I can't apply to fall 2014 because the school has closed registrations for it. So once again i have failed to get in, but now it will be postponed even more.\n\nI don't know what to do. I am being threatened to be kicked out if i don't attend that school, i am stressing out because where i live, (San Jose California, rent is extremely expensive and full time jobs are almost non existent.(without a degree). If i get kicked out I have never had a responsibility before in my life that involved money.(I.E RENT, bills) I currently have a part time job that i have asked for full time but will not give it to me.\nI really need help, i am stressing and I feel like I've ruined all my opportunities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So,i'll start of with saying i am fortunate to have everything given to me. My parents have always taken care of everything i ever needed. The problems starting coming up when I was done with community college. Up until last year (fall 2013) everything was going amazingly. Then I applied to my local university and I ran into a problem. I was 3 units shy because one my courses was remedial. I did not know this when i initially applied. I was not informed of their decision until after summer 2013 was done.(this is important)\n\nI get rejected and I decided to apply to spring 2014 for the university while taking a course during fall 2013 at my community college. I pass the course with a B and i receive my units. Unfortunately the university tells me, they don't accept grades from fall 2013 for spring 2014. they only accept them from summer 2013. So here i am, rejected again, and I can't apply to fall 2014 because the school has closed registrations for it. So once again i have failed to get in, but now it will be postponed even more.\n\nI don't know what to do. I am being threatened to be kicked out if i don't attend that school, i am stressing out because where i live, (San Jose California, rent is extremely expensive and full time jobs are almost non existent.(without a degree). If i get kicked out I have never had a responsibility before in my life that involved money.(I.E RENT, bills) I currently have a part time job that i have asked for full time but will not give it to me.\nI really need help, i am stressing and I feel like I've ruined all my opportunities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So,i'll start of with saying i am fortunate to have everything given to me. My parents have always taken care of everything i ever needed. The problems starting coming up when I was done with community college. Up until last year (fall 2013) everything was going amazingly. Then I applied to my local university and I ran into a problem. I was 3 units shy because one my courses was remedial. I did not know this when i initially applied. I was not informed of their decision until after summer 2013 was done.(this is important)\n\nI get rejected and I decided to apply to spring 2014 for the university while taking a course during fall 2013 at my community college. I pass the course with a B and i receive my units. Unfortunately the university tells me, they don't accept grades from fall 2013 for spring 2014. they only accept them from summer 2013. So here i am, rejected again, and I can't apply to fall 2014 because the school has closed registrations for it. So once again i have failed to get in, but now it will be postponed even more.\n\nI don't know what to do. I am being threatened to be kicked out if i don't attend that school, i am stressing out because where i live, (San Jose California, rent is extremely expensive and full time jobs are almost non existent.(without a degree). If i get kicked out I have never had a responsibility before in my life that involved money.(I.E RENT, bills) I currently have a part time job that i have asked for full time but will not give it to me.\nI really need help, i am stressing and I feel like I've ruined all my opportunities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 8 months, she has been with 11 guys sexually before me, and me 10, and she'll still keep in contact with former FWB's or crushes. She's very low maintenance, and sometimes I'll actually meet some of these guys. I can put on a good face and be cordial, but afterwards, I feel all weird. Like insecure as if she would run away from me for these guys. I feel I am in the right for feeling this way, but I do not want to be needy with her and tell her she has to stop talking to these guys once in a while. Is she just looking for attention? She'll talk to at least one of them a few times a month, but mostly not more than that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 8 months, she has been with 11 guys sexually before me, and me 10, and she'll still keep in contact with former FWB's or crushes. She's very low maintenance, and sometimes I'll actually meet some of these guys. I can put on a good face and be cordial, but afterwards, I feel all weird. Like insecure as if she would run away from me for these guys. I feel I am in the right for feeling this way, but I do not want to be needy with her and tell her she has to stop talking to these guys once in a while. Is she just looking for attention? She'll talk to at least one of them a few times a month, but mostly not more than that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 8 months, she has been with 11 guys sexually before me, and me 10, and she'll still keep in contact with former FWB's or crushes. She's very low maintenance, and sometimes I'll actually meet some of these guys. I can put on a good face and be cordial, but afterwards, I feel all weird. Like insecure as if she would run away from me for these guys. I feel I am in the right for feeling this way, but I do not want to be needy with her and tell her she has to stop talking to these guys once in a while. Is she just looking for attention? She'll talk to at least one of them a few times a month, but mostly not more than that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For most of my life I was pretty hopeless about dating, mostly because I could not be myself when with women; I put on a man act because I was afraid of losing their interest.\n\nI thought I was gay, but the only thing I'm missing is an enjoyment for sex with men. I've tried it many times and couldn't stay hard. I was resigned to being a foreveralone with no hope and I was pretty hopeless about life.\n\nI used to joke to myself about being a lesbian in a man's body, but it turns out that's not far from the truth. I'm going to be transitioning and living as a female in the next 6-12 months with the help of hormones and a lot of work, but I feel like I am unable to form meaningful relationships with women in the mean time.\n\nI don't find straight women that appealing because they prefer, and expect, masculinity from me and assume the submissive role that I would normally take in a relationship. But while dating a lesbian girl who assumes the dominant role would be perfect, they don't find me attractive now and may lesbians seem to have a militant aversion to trans women.\n\nIt seems that either I somehow must act masculine and have women attracted to me (hasn't worked, would rather play in traffic) or I be myself and no one will want me for at least another 1-2 years when I presumably pass as a woman at some level. How can I make female friends and possibly more than friends in the mean time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For most of my life I was pretty hopeless about dating, mostly because I could not be myself when with women; I put on a man act because I was afraid of losing their interest.\n\nI thought I was gay, but the only thing I'm missing is an enjoyment for sex with men. I've tried it many times and couldn't stay hard. I was resigned to being a foreveralone with no hope and I was pretty hopeless about life.\n\nI used to joke to myself about being a lesbian in a man's body, but it turns out that's not far from the truth. I'm going to be transitioning and living as a female in the next 6-12 months with the help of hormones and a lot of work, but I feel like I am unable to form meaningful relationships with women in the mean time.\n\nI don't find straight women that appealing because they prefer, and expect, masculinity from me and assume the submissive role that I would normally take in a relationship. But while dating a lesbian girl who assumes the dominant role would be perfect, they don't find me attractive now and may lesbians seem to have a militant aversion to trans women.\n\nIt seems that either I somehow must act masculine and have women attracted to me (hasn't worked, would rather play in traffic) or I be myself and no one will want me for at least another 1-2 years when I presumably pass as a woman at some level. How can I make female friends and possibly more than friends in the mean time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For most of my life I was pretty hopeless about dating, mostly because I could not be myself when with women; I put on a man act because I was afraid of losing their interest.\n\nI thought I was gay, but the only thing I'm missing is an enjoyment for sex with men. I've tried it many times and couldn't stay hard. I was resigned to being a foreveralone with no hope and I was pretty hopeless about life.\n\nI used to joke to myself about being a lesbian in a man's body, but it turns out that's not far from the truth. I'm going to be transitioning and living as a female in the next 6-12 months with the help of hormones and a lot of work, but I feel like I am unable to form meaningful relationships with women in the mean time.\n\nI don't find straight women that appealing because they prefer, and expect, masculinity from me and assume the submissive role that I would normally take in a relationship. But while dating a lesbian girl who assumes the dominant role would be perfect, they don't find me attractive now and may lesbians seem to have a militant aversion to trans women.\n\nIt seems that either I somehow must act masculine and have women attracted to me (hasn't worked, would rather play in traffic) or I be myself and no one will want me for at least another 1-2 years when I presumably pass as a woman at some level. How can I make female friends and possibly more than friends in the mean time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For most of my life I was pretty hopeless about dating, mostly because I could not be myself when with women; I put on a man act because I was afraid of losing their interest.\n\nI thought I was gay, but the only thing I'm missing is an enjoyment for sex with men. I've tried it many times and couldn't stay hard. I was resigned to being a foreveralone with no hope and I was pretty hopeless about life.\n\nI used to joke to myself about being a lesbian in a man's body, but it turns out that's not far from the truth. I'm going to be transitioning and living as a female in the next 6-12 months with the help of hormones and a lot of work, but I feel like I am unable to form meaningful relationships with women in the mean time.\n\nI don't find straight women that appealing because they prefer, and expect, masculinity from me and assume the submissive role that I would normally take in a relationship. But while dating a lesbian girl who assumes the dominant role would be perfect, they don't find me attractive now and may lesbians seem to have a militant aversion to trans women.\n\nIt seems that either I somehow must act masculine and have women attracted to me (hasn't worked, would rather play in traffic) or I be myself and no one will want me for at least another 1-2 years when I presumably pass as a woman at some level. How can I make female friends and possibly more than friends in the mean time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For most of my life I was pretty hopeless about dating, mostly because I could not be myself when with women; I put on a man act because I was afraid of losing their interest.\n\nI thought I was gay, but the only thing I'm missing is an enjoyment for sex with men. I've tried it many times and couldn't stay hard. I was resigned to being a foreveralone with no hope and I was pretty hopeless about life.\n\nI used to joke to myself about being a lesbian in a man's body, but it turns out that's not far from the truth. I'm going to be transitioning and living as a female in the next 6-12 months with the help of hormones and a lot of work, but I feel like I am unable to form meaningful relationships with women in the mean time.\n\nI don't find straight women that appealing because they prefer, and expect, masculinity from me and assume the submissive role that I would normally take in a relationship. But while dating a lesbian girl who assumes the dominant role would be perfect, they don't find me attractive now and may lesbians seem to have a militant aversion to trans women.\n\nIt seems that either I somehow must act masculine and have women attracted to me (hasn't worked, would rather play in traffic) or I be myself and no one will want me for at least another 1-2 years when I presumably pass as a woman at some level. How can I make female friends and possibly more than friends in the mean time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For most of my life I was pretty hopeless about dating, mostly because I could not be myself when with women; I put on a man act because I was afraid of losing their interest.\n\nI thought I was gay, but the only thing I'm missing is an enjoyment for sex with men. I've tried it many times and couldn't stay hard. I was resigned to being a foreveralone with no hope and I was pretty hopeless about life.\n\nI used to joke to myself about being a lesbian in a man's body, but it turns out that's not far from the truth. I'm going to be transitioning and living as a female in the next 6-12 months with the help of hormones and a lot of work, but I feel like I am unable to form meaningful relationships with women in the mean time.\n\nI don't find straight women that appealing because they prefer, and expect, masculinity from me and assume the submissive role that I would normally take in a relationship. But while dating a lesbian girl who assumes the dominant role would be perfect, they don't find me attractive now and may lesbians seem to have a militant aversion to trans women.\n\nIt seems that either I somehow must act masculine and have women attracted to me (hasn't worked, would rather play in traffic) or I be myself and no one will want me for at least another 1-2 years when I presumably pass as a woman at some level. How can I make female friends and possibly more than friends in the mean time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'[M] 25 and single. I was wondering if you guys could please help me out with some advice on asking a girl out. I met this [F23], Elizabeth (pseudonym), last year at university while she and I were in a one year program together - we never met prior to this. We spent the better part of a year in close proximity, having mutual friends and hanging out. From the moment I saw her I was attracted - she was smart and pretty. Unfortunately, I could never get myself to ask her out. A part of me kept saying she's not interested because I never talked to her everyday, just whenever there was the occasional get together with mutual friends would there be some small talk. With the program over since last December 2014, I have never been able to get her off my mind. I have her on Facebook and I have her cell phone number, but I've never messaged her. I really want to ask her out, but I don't know what to do. Also, she lives in a different city than I do (~45 mins away). What should I do? Your help is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'[M] 25 and single. I was wondering if you guys could please help me out with some advice on asking a girl out. I met this [F23], Elizabeth (pseudonym), last year at university while she and I were in a one year program together - we never met prior to this. We spent the better part of a year in close proximity, having mutual friends and hanging out. From the moment I saw her I was attracted - she was smart and pretty. Unfortunately, I could never get myself to ask her out. A part of me kept saying she's not interested because I never talked to her everyday, just whenever there was the occasional get together with mutual friends would there be some small talk. With the program over since last December 2014, I have never been able to get her off my mind. I have her on Facebook and I have her cell phone number, but I've never messaged her. I really want to ask her out, but I don't know what to do. Also, she lives in a different city than I do (~45 mins away). What should I do? Your help is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! I'[M] 25 and single. I was wondering if you guys could please help me out with some advice on asking a girl out. I met this [F23], Elizabeth (pseudonym), last year at university while she and I were in a one year program together - we never met prior to this. We spent the better part of a year in close proximity, having mutual friends and hanging out. From the moment I saw her I was attracted - she was smart and pretty. Unfortunately, I could never get myself to ask her out. A part of me kept saying she's not interested because I never talked to her everyday, just whenever there was the occasional get together with mutual friends would there be some small talk. With the program over since last December 2014, I have never been able to get her off my mind. I have her on Facebook and I have her cell phone number, but I've never messaged her. I really want to ask her out, but I don't know what to do. Also, she lives in a different city than I do (~45 mins away). What should I do? Your help is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been bothered all week about the fact that my now husband and I eloped over a month ago and he still hasn't told most of his friends and family. I talked to my husband about how this made me feel last weekend and he was very apologetic. He told me that he thought I wanted to keep it a secret but now that he heard how I felt, he claimed he would tell everyone. Since then he has told one friend. He told me that his friend was upset and that she felt hurt. I became so angry at her selfishness and I wonder if it's the reason that he hasn't told anyone else. He claims that he thinks most of his friends will be hurt. I now feel like I'm having to prepare to justify and defend my marriage. This time that should be happy and exciting for us has been turned into a guilt ridden, stressful situation that just feels downright negative. My husband is attempting to spare people's feelings, but in turn is hurting mine. I feel like his mistress instead of his wife. Has anyone else been through this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been bothered all week about the fact that my now husband and I eloped over a month ago and he still hasn't told most of his friends and family. I talked to my husband about how this made me feel last weekend and he was very apologetic. He told me that he thought I wanted to keep it a secret but now that he heard how I felt, he claimed he would tell everyone. Since then he has told one friend. He told me that his friend was upset and that she felt hurt. I became so angry at her selfishness and I wonder if it's the reason that he hasn't told anyone else. He claims that he thinks most of his friends will be hurt. I now feel like I'm having to prepare to justify and defend my marriage. This time that should be happy and exciting for us has been turned into a guilt ridden, stressful situation that just feels downright negative. My husband is attempting to spare people's feelings, but in turn is hurting mine. I feel like his mistress instead of his wife. Has anyone else been through this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been bothered all week about the fact that my now husband and I eloped over a month ago and he still hasn't told most of his friends and family. I talked to my husband about how this made me feel last weekend and he was very apologetic. He told me that he thought I wanted to keep it a secret but now that he heard how I felt, he claimed he would tell everyone. Since then he has told one friend. He told me that his friend was upset and that she felt hurt. I became so angry at her selfishness and I wonder if it's the reason that he hasn't told anyone else. He claims that he thinks most of his friends will be hurt. I now feel like I'm having to prepare to justify and defend my marriage. This time that should be happy and exciting for us has been turned into a guilt ridden, stressful situation that just feels downright negative. My husband is attempting to spare people's feelings, but in turn is hurting mine. I feel like his mistress instead of his wife. Has anyone else been through this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last month (July 19th to be exact) I went for a 6 mile run and totally blew my knee. I RICE'd it and saw my PT, but no matter what I was doing I still had to take some time off of running.\n\nI got really depressed pretty much right away and in an effort to keep myself sane I turned all of my normal running energy to strength training. I had been running about 25 miles per week, 5 days per week, and did two short (15 minute) basic calisthenics workouts on short run days.\n\nWhen I had to stop running I started working out 4 days a week doing about 30-40 minutes on a hill climber set to maximum incline and resistance and was doing about 30-40 minutes of core and upper body strength training. Over the last 5 weeks, no running, I have unintentionally dropped about 3 pounds with no dietary change. I tripled the number of push up I can do and I quadrupled the length of time I can hold plank.\n\nBut here's the amazing part- today I went out for my first run since July 19th and I felt so good and so light, yet strong. I felt fast but I told myself that it was probably just because it'd been so long. But when I checked my pace at the end- sure enough it was about 25 seconds faster than my old \"normal\" pace. In fact, my pace was the fastest I've ever run that distance (3 miles). And I didn't stop running because my body had to, I felt like I could've kept going for another hour at that same pace! I only stopped because I didn't want to go from zero to 60 and risk reinjury. I feel like a million bucks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last month (July 19th to be exact) I went for a 6 mile run and totally blew my knee. I RICE'd it and saw my PT, but no matter what I was doing I still had to take some time off of running.\n\nI got really depressed pretty much right away and in an effort to keep myself sane I turned all of my normal running energy to strength training. I had been running about 25 miles per week, 5 days per week, and did two short (15 minute) basic calisthenics workouts on short run days.\n\nWhen I had to stop running I started working out 4 days a week doing about 30-40 minutes on a hill climber set to maximum incline and resistance and was doing about 30-40 minutes of core and upper body strength training. Over the last 5 weeks, no running, I have unintentionally dropped about 3 pounds with no dietary change. I tripled the number of push up I can do and I quadrupled the length of time I can hold plank.\n\nBut here's the amazing part- today I went out for my first run since July 19th and I felt so good and so light, yet strong. I felt fast but I told myself that it was probably just because it'd been so long. But when I checked my pace at the end- sure enough it was about 25 seconds faster than my old \"normal\" pace. In fact, my pace was the fastest I've ever run that distance (3 miles). And I didn't stop running because my body had to, I felt like I could've kept going for another hour at that same pace! I only stopped because I didn't want to go from zero to 60 and risk reinjury. I feel like a million bucks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last month (July 19th to be exact) I went for a 6 mile run and totally blew my knee. I RICE'd it and saw my PT, but no matter what I was doing I still had to take some time off of running.\n\nI got really depressed pretty much right away and in an effort to keep myself sane I turned all of my normal running energy to strength training. I had been running about 25 miles per week, 5 days per week, and did two short (15 minute) basic calisthenics workouts on short run days.\n\nWhen I had to stop running I started working out 4 days a week doing about 30-40 minutes on a hill climber set to maximum incline and resistance and was doing about 30-40 minutes of core and upper body strength training. Over the last 5 weeks, no running, I have unintentionally dropped about 3 pounds with no dietary change. I tripled the number of push up I can do and I quadrupled the length of time I can hold plank.\n\nBut here's the amazing part- today I went out for my first run since July 19th and I felt so good and so light, yet strong. I felt fast but I told myself that it was probably just because it'd been so long. But when I checked my pace at the end- sure enough it was about 25 seconds faster than my old \"normal\" pace. In fact, my pace was the fastest I've ever run that distance (3 miles). And I didn't stop running because my body had to, I felt like I could've kept going for another hour at that same pace! I only stopped because I didn't want to go from zero to 60 and risk reinjury. I feel like a million bucks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: original: \n\nAfter battling something (I don't know if it's depression or not)for the past 10+ years, I've finally decided to cave and see a therapist. My mental health is very obviously getting worse and it's getting harder and harder to fool myself. Going bald and being lonely is a large part of it but I can't continue like this. With my mental health deteriorating, it has started to affect me physically. I have small injuries that are not healing, I have chronic pain, and I'm sure a lot of it is mental\n\nI was always under the impression that finding a nice job would help at least a little bit. Well I went from being unemployed at 26 to making $80k now at 29 and things are worse than ever. I feel like finding a girlfriend and getting regular intimacy will help me a lot but who knows, it's impossible to find someone at my current state.\n\nSo my question is, how do I go about finding someone? Therapy is seen as faux pas in my culture so I have to do this on the downlow (especially since I've fooled everyone into thinking I'm this confident guy who has his shit together)\n\nSorry if this is all over the place"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: original: \n\nAfter battling something (I don't know if it's depression or not)for the past 10+ years, I've finally decided to cave and see a therapist. My mental health is very obviously getting worse and it's getting harder and harder to fool myself. Going bald and being lonely is a large part of it but I can't continue like this. With my mental health deteriorating, it has started to affect me physically. I have small injuries that are not healing, I have chronic pain, and I'm sure a lot of it is mental\n\nI was always under the impression that finding a nice job would help at least a little bit. Well I went from being unemployed at 26 to making $80k now at 29 and things are worse than ever. I feel like finding a girlfriend and getting regular intimacy will help me a lot but who knows, it's impossible to find someone at my current state.\n\nSo my question is, how do I go about finding someone? Therapy is seen as faux pas in my culture so I have to do this on the downlow (especially since I've fooled everyone into thinking I'm this confident guy who has his shit together)\n\nSorry if this is all over the place"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: original: \n\nAfter battling something (I don't know if it's depression or not)for the past 10+ years, I've finally decided to cave and see a therapist. My mental health is very obviously getting worse and it's getting harder and harder to fool myself. Going bald and being lonely is a large part of it but I can't continue like this. With my mental health deteriorating, it has started to affect me physically. I have small injuries that are not healing, I have chronic pain, and I'm sure a lot of it is mental\n\nI was always under the impression that finding a nice job would help at least a little bit. Well I went from being unemployed at 26 to making $80k now at 29 and things are worse than ever. I feel like finding a girlfriend and getting regular intimacy will help me a lot but who knows, it's impossible to find someone at my current state.\n\nSo my question is, how do I go about finding someone? Therapy is seen as faux pas in my culture so I have to do this on the downlow (especially since I've fooled everyone into thinking I'm this confident guy who has his shit together)\n\nSorry if this is all over the place"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm currently in Finland with my parents on a skiing trip - first time here, can't speak a single word of finnish, let alone understand when it's being spoken.\n\nThe resort where I'm skiing is pretty boring tbh, maybe 1/3 of slopes are actually open and the ones that are, take maybe 5-10 minutes to reach the bottom (if you're going slowly). As a result of a lack of things to do, I decide it would be great to go off-piste (against my parents, insurers and slope signage's advice).\n\nThe deep snow is not a problem for me, I can handle most conditions pretty well, *BUT* I often make the rookie error of 'leaping before you look', and found myself stopping just short of a small cliff. In most cases I probably would've tried to land on the snow below the cliffy part, but fallen trees gave me the middle branch and started laughing. So with a cliff on one side and fuck all on the other I try my best to turn around, and go the other way.\n\nThat went good, I got pointed in the direction I wanted to go and carried on my merry way. I got to a point where I could make it to one of the closed off runs, and nearly got there without any mishaps. *Nearly*\n\nI misjudged where the new cliff ended, and went arse over tit into the snow below, with my back stopping just short of one of those, evil fallen trees.\n\nNever in my life have I ever been so glad to be on a marked ski run."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm currently in Finland with my parents on a skiing trip - first time here, can't speak a single word of finnish, let alone understand when it's being spoken.\n\nThe resort where I'm skiing is pretty boring tbh, maybe 1/3 of slopes are actually open and the ones that are, take maybe 5-10 minutes to reach the bottom (if you're going slowly). As a result of a lack of things to do, I decide it would be great to go off-piste (against my parents, insurers and slope signage's advice).\n\nThe deep snow is not a problem for me, I can handle most conditions pretty well, *BUT* I often make the rookie error of 'leaping before you look', and found myself stopping just short of a small cliff. In most cases I probably would've tried to land on the snow below the cliffy part, but fallen trees gave me the middle branch and started laughing. So with a cliff on one side and fuck all on the other I try my best to turn around, and go the other way.\n\nThat went good, I got pointed in the direction I wanted to go and carried on my merry way. I got to a point where I could make it to one of the closed off runs, and nearly got there without any mishaps. *Nearly*\n\nI misjudged where the new cliff ended, and went arse over tit into the snow below, with my back stopping just short of one of those, evil fallen trees.\n\nNever in my life have I ever been so glad to be on a marked ski run."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm currently in Finland with my parents on a skiing trip - first time here, can't speak a single word of finnish, let alone understand when it's being spoken.\n\nThe resort where I'm skiing is pretty boring tbh, maybe 1/3 of slopes are actually open and the ones that are, take maybe 5-10 minutes to reach the bottom (if you're going slowly). As a result of a lack of things to do, I decide it would be great to go off-piste (against my parents, insurers and slope signage's advice).\n\nThe deep snow is not a problem for me, I can handle most conditions pretty well, *BUT* I often make the rookie error of 'leaping before you look', and found myself stopping just short of a small cliff. In most cases I probably would've tried to land on the snow below the cliffy part, but fallen trees gave me the middle branch and started laughing. So with a cliff on one side and fuck all on the other I try my best to turn around, and go the other way.\n\nThat went good, I got pointed in the direction I wanted to go and carried on my merry way. I got to a point where I could make it to one of the closed off runs, and nearly got there without any mishaps. *Nearly*\n\nI misjudged where the new cliff ended, and went arse over tit into the snow below, with my back stopping just short of one of those, evil fallen trees.\n\nNever in my life have I ever been so glad to be on a marked ski run."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm currently in Finland with my parents on a skiing trip - first time here, can't speak a single word of finnish, let alone understand when it's being spoken.\n\nThe resort where I'm skiing is pretty boring tbh, maybe 1/3 of slopes are actually open and the ones that are, take maybe 5-10 minutes to reach the bottom (if you're going slowly). As a result of a lack of things to do, I decide it would be great to go off-piste (against my parents, insurers and slope signage's advice).\n\nThe deep snow is not a problem for me, I can handle most conditions pretty well, *BUT* I often make the rookie error of 'leaping before you look', and found myself stopping just short of a small cliff. In most cases I probably would've tried to land on the snow below the cliffy part, but fallen trees gave me the middle branch and started laughing. So with a cliff on one side and fuck all on the other I try my best to turn around, and go the other way.\n\nThat went good, I got pointed in the direction I wanted to go and carried on my merry way. I got to a point where I could make it to one of the closed off runs, and nearly got there without any mishaps. *Nearly*\n\nI misjudged where the new cliff ended, and went arse over tit into the snow below, with my back stopping just short of one of those, evil fallen trees.\n\nNever in my life have I ever been so glad to be on a marked ski run."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm currently in Finland with my parents on a skiing trip - first time here, can't speak a single word of finnish, let alone understand when it's being spoken.\n\nThe resort where I'm skiing is pretty boring tbh, maybe 1/3 of slopes are actually open and the ones that are, take maybe 5-10 minutes to reach the bottom (if you're going slowly). As a result of a lack of things to do, I decide it would be great to go off-piste (against my parents, insurers and slope signage's advice).\n\nThe deep snow is not a problem for me, I can handle most conditions pretty well, *BUT* I often make the rookie error of 'leaping before you look', and found myself stopping just short of a small cliff. In most cases I probably would've tried to land on the snow below the cliffy part, but fallen trees gave me the middle branch and started laughing. So with a cliff on one side and fuck all on the other I try my best to turn around, and go the other way.\n\nThat went good, I got pointed in the direction I wanted to go and carried on my merry way. I got to a point where I could make it to one of the closed off runs, and nearly got there without any mishaps. *Nearly*\n\nI misjudged where the new cliff ended, and went arse over tit into the snow below, with my back stopping just short of one of those, evil fallen trees.\n\nNever in my life have I ever been so glad to be on a marked ski run."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm currently in Finland with my parents on a skiing trip - first time here, can't speak a single word of finnish, let alone understand when it's being spoken.\n\nThe resort where I'm skiing is pretty boring tbh, maybe 1/3 of slopes are actually open and the ones that are, take maybe 5-10 minutes to reach the bottom (if you're going slowly). As a result of a lack of things to do, I decide it would be great to go off-piste (against my parents, insurers and slope signage's advice).\n\nThe deep snow is not a problem for me, I can handle most conditions pretty well, *BUT* I often make the rookie error of 'leaping before you look', and found myself stopping just short of a small cliff. In most cases I probably would've tried to land on the snow below the cliffy part, but fallen trees gave me the middle branch and started laughing. So with a cliff on one side and fuck all on the other I try my best to turn around, and go the other way.\n\nThat went good, I got pointed in the direction I wanted to go and carried on my merry way. I got to a point where I could make it to one of the closed off runs, and nearly got there without any mishaps. *Nearly*\n\nI misjudged where the new cliff ended, and went arse over tit into the snow below, with my back stopping just short of one of those, evil fallen trees.\n\nNever in my life have I ever been so glad to be on a marked ski run."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I wanted to sweeten up my bosses this morning by showing up early and with a box of doughnuts. Went to the local bakery and asked for an assorted dozen. Well either the baker knew what I was in for or it was just fate. Packed in that floppy white box was a blueberry muffin doughnut with a hint of glaze on top. After realizing that showing up early and getting no thanks for the doughnuts I said screw it I'm going to get one. I chose that blueberry muffin doughnut. I split it in half and took a bite.I felt like I have never been awake in my entire life until just then. This was almost 16 hours ago and I can't stop thinking about that doughnut. So much that I don't want to eat it again at the chance it might not be as good as the first time around."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I wanted to sweeten up my bosses this morning by showing up early and with a box of doughnuts. Went to the local bakery and asked for an assorted dozen. Well either the baker knew what I was in for or it was just fate. Packed in that floppy white box was a blueberry muffin doughnut with a hint of glaze on top. After realizing that showing up early and getting no thanks for the doughnuts I said screw it I'm going to get one. I chose that blueberry muffin doughnut. I split it in half and took a bite.I felt like I have never been awake in my entire life until just then. This was almost 16 hours ago and I can't stop thinking about that doughnut. So much that I don't want to eat it again at the chance it might not be as good as the first time around."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I wanted to sweeten up my bosses this morning by showing up early and with a box of doughnuts. Went to the local bakery and asked for an assorted dozen. Well either the baker knew what I was in for or it was just fate. Packed in that floppy white box was a blueberry muffin doughnut with a hint of glaze on top. After realizing that showing up early and getting no thanks for the doughnuts I said screw it I'm going to get one. I chose that blueberry muffin doughnut. I split it in half and took a bite.I felt like I have never been awake in my entire life until just then. This was almost 16 hours ago and I can't stop thinking about that doughnut. So much that I don't want to eat it again at the chance it might not be as good as the first time around."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I wanted to sweeten up my bosses this morning by showing up early and with a box of doughnuts. Went to the local bakery and asked for an assorted dozen. Well either the baker knew what I was in for or it was just fate. Packed in that floppy white box was a blueberry muffin doughnut with a hint of glaze on top. After realizing that showing up early and getting no thanks for the doughnuts I said screw it I'm going to get one. I chose that blueberry muffin doughnut. I split it in half and took a bite.I felt like I have never been awake in my entire life until just then. This was almost 16 hours ago and I can't stop thinking about that doughnut. So much that I don't want to eat it again at the chance it might not be as good as the first time around."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I wanted to sweeten up my bosses this morning by showing up early and with a box of doughnuts. Went to the local bakery and asked for an assorted dozen. Well either the baker knew what I was in for or it was just fate. Packed in that floppy white box was a blueberry muffin doughnut with a hint of glaze on top. After realizing that showing up early and getting no thanks for the doughnuts I said screw it I'm going to get one. I chose that blueberry muffin doughnut. I split it in half and took a bite.I felt like I have never been awake in my entire life until just then. This was almost 16 hours ago and I can't stop thinking about that doughnut. So much that I don't want to eat it again at the chance it might not be as good as the first time around."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I wanted to sweeten up my bosses this morning by showing up early and with a box of doughnuts. Went to the local bakery and asked for an assorted dozen. Well either the baker knew what I was in for or it was just fate. Packed in that floppy white box was a blueberry muffin doughnut with a hint of glaze on top. After realizing that showing up early and getting no thanks for the doughnuts I said screw it I'm going to get one. I chose that blueberry muffin doughnut. I split it in half and took a bite.I felt like I have never been awake in my entire life until just then. This was almost 16 hours ago and I can't stop thinking about that doughnut. So much that I don't want to eat it again at the chance it might not be as good as the first time around."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For Halloween this year, I am considering going as Private First Class Bradley Manning (if you don't know who he is, Google the name). It's certainly not your typical Halloween costume by any means, but I usually don't do the typical thing.\n\nI want to represent Bradley in good taste while offering information to my friends and co-workers about the history of what lead up to the charges against him, the current state of the trial, info about Wikileaks and what we have learned from the various leaks, Julian Assange and the allegations against him, etc. I only intend on dressing up at work and at home on Halloween so as to not be viewed as impersonating a soldier or breaking the uniform law in any way. I'm not going to force my opinion onto anyone, just offer only the facts if asked.\n\nThere has been some controversial costumes worn in the past, so I don't have any reason to believe that it would be taken the wrong way, but I also don't want to tread on taboo or anything that might offend or upset anyone at my work place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For Halloween this year, I am considering going as Private First Class Bradley Manning (if you don't know who he is, Google the name). It's certainly not your typical Halloween costume by any means, but I usually don't do the typical thing.\n\nI want to represent Bradley in good taste while offering information to my friends and co-workers about the history of what lead up to the charges against him, the current state of the trial, info about Wikileaks and what we have learned from the various leaks, Julian Assange and the allegations against him, etc. I only intend on dressing up at work and at home on Halloween so as to not be viewed as impersonating a soldier or breaking the uniform law in any way. I'm not going to force my opinion onto anyone, just offer only the facts if asked.\n\nThere has been some controversial costumes worn in the past, so I don't have any reason to believe that it would be taken the wrong way, but I also don't want to tread on taboo or anything that might offend or upset anyone at my work place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For Halloween this year, I am considering going as Private First Class Bradley Manning (if you don't know who he is, Google the name). It's certainly not your typical Halloween costume by any means, but I usually don't do the typical thing.\n\nI want to represent Bradley in good taste while offering information to my friends and co-workers about the history of what lead up to the charges against him, the current state of the trial, info about Wikileaks and what we have learned from the various leaks, Julian Assange and the allegations against him, etc. I only intend on dressing up at work and at home on Halloween so as to not be viewed as impersonating a soldier or breaking the uniform law in any way. I'm not going to force my opinion onto anyone, just offer only the facts if asked.\n\nThere has been some controversial costumes worn in the past, so I don't have any reason to believe that it would be taken the wrong way, but I also don't want to tread on taboo or anything that might offend or upset anyone at my work place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a very co-dependent relationship by nature with an old friend from high school. We never dated, but he was generally always in my life for about four years (15-19 years old). I would classify him as a best friend at that time, but it was volatile, and we ended up both getting hurt and cutting ties. \n Two years later, we reconnect on Facebook, and my fiancé expresses that he isn't comfortable with me talking to him because I'm in a very unstable place of my life, and he (the friend) has a tendency to be cruel and manipulative. \n I agree with my fiancé, but after having talked to my friend for a few weeks now, we already have a daily banter established- and he does seem to have changed his ways since being in college.\n I'm struggling crafting a message, and feel guilt for simply \"not replying\" for about three days now. I just don't know what to say without seeming. Invalidating, or offensive, or dismissive."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in the Navy and stationed domestically, but several states away from home. I came home for a couple of weeks, had a lot of sex, and now she's pregnant (according to a test she bought).\n\nMy dad, my stepmom, their son (my half brother), and everyone they interact with dislike her for stupid reasons. My mother loves her to death.\n\nI am scared to tell my family. I am scared that my family will disown me. My dad's family has disowned his sister, and I am afraid that they might do the same to me one day.\n\nI am scared that I'll be like my mom and either become an alcoholic or leave my child. And it wouldn't be hard being so far away from home.\n\nI am scared that my girlfriend and I will grow up and hate each other or be forced into a marriage we're not ready to be in yet.\n\nI am scared I'll be a failure. I just got into the Navy, got into my first command recently, and I'm afraid my performance and everything will go to shit.\n\nI'm afraid I won't ever go to college and get a good job. I'm afraid that I'm leaving my girlfriend with a kid at home and she'll resent me for still being able to pursue my career and ambitions, and she's at home taking care of a baby instead of following her own dreams.\n\nI'm scared people will make fun of her for getting pregnant so young.\n\nI'm scared I won't be able to provide adequately or be a shitty father.\n\nI'm scared that I didn't realize I was so stupid and not careful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in the Navy and stationed domestically, but several states away from home. I came home for a couple of weeks, had a lot of sex, and now she's pregnant (according to a test she bought).\n\nMy dad, my stepmom, their son (my half brother), and everyone they interact with dislike her for stupid reasons. My mother loves her to death.\n\nI am scared to tell my family. I am scared that my family will disown me. My dad's family has disowned his sister, and I am afraid that they might do the same to me one day.\n\nI am scared that I'll be like my mom and either become an alcoholic or leave my child. And it wouldn't be hard being so far away from home.\n\nI am scared that my girlfriend and I will grow up and hate each other or be forced into a marriage we're not ready to be in yet.\n\nI am scared I'll be a failure. I just got into the Navy, got into my first command recently, and I'm afraid my performance and everything will go to shit.\n\nI'm afraid I won't ever go to college and get a good job. I'm afraid that I'm leaving my girlfriend with a kid at home and she'll resent me for still being able to pursue my career and ambitions, and she's at home taking care of a baby instead of following her own dreams.\n\nI'm scared people will make fun of her for getting pregnant so young.\n\nI'm scared I won't be able to provide adequately or be a shitty father.\n\nI'm scared that I didn't realize I was so stupid and not careful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in the Navy and stationed domestically, but several states away from home. I came home for a couple of weeks, had a lot of sex, and now she's pregnant (according to a test she bought).\n\nMy dad, my stepmom, their son (my half brother), and everyone they interact with dislike her for stupid reasons. My mother loves her to death.\n\nI am scared to tell my family. I am scared that my family will disown me. My dad's family has disowned his sister, and I am afraid that they might do the same to me one day.\n\nI am scared that I'll be like my mom and either become an alcoholic or leave my child. And it wouldn't be hard being so far away from home.\n\nI am scared that my girlfriend and I will grow up and hate each other or be forced into a marriage we're not ready to be in yet.\n\nI am scared I'll be a failure. I just got into the Navy, got into my first command recently, and I'm afraid my performance and everything will go to shit.\n\nI'm afraid I won't ever go to college and get a good job. I'm afraid that I'm leaving my girlfriend with a kid at home and she'll resent me for still being able to pursue my career and ambitions, and she's at home taking care of a baby instead of following her own dreams.\n\nI'm scared people will make fun of her for getting pregnant so young.\n\nI'm scared I won't be able to provide adequately or be a shitty father.\n\nI'm scared that I didn't realize I was so stupid and not careful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help/advice. I'm 22 now, so most of my friends are in different states for college. I am anxious most of the time, crave alone time when I'm out with a friend, and can be very introverted. I like hanging out with large groups of friends, as almost anything can be made fun this way. However, due to my location, this is hardly ever the case.\n\nI haven't seen or talked to any of my friends in a very very long time now. The only person I see regularly is my girlfriend. I have friends I talk to, but no actual close friends. I complain of feeling lonely, but if a friends asks to hang out, I feel almost sick just thinking about it. This leads my friends to think I'm being distant, or that I don't value their friendship. \n\nIt's just so awkward when it's me and 1 other friend alone. Nothing fun to do. Mostly quiet awkward talks. \n\nAny advice?.anything? Not sure what's wrong with me.\n\nThank you,\n-Heather"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help/advice. I'm 22 now, so most of my friends are in different states for college. I am anxious most of the time, crave alone time when I'm out with a friend, and can be very introverted. I like hanging out with large groups of friends, as almost anything can be made fun this way. However, due to my location, this is hardly ever the case.\n\nI haven't seen or talked to any of my friends in a very very long time now. The only person I see regularly is my girlfriend. I have friends I talk to, but no actual close friends. I complain of feeling lonely, but if a friends asks to hang out, I feel almost sick just thinking about it. This leads my friends to think I'm being distant, or that I don't value their friendship. \n\nIt's just so awkward when it's me and 1 other friend alone. Nothing fun to do. Mostly quiet awkward talks. \n\nAny advice?.anything? Not sure what's wrong with me.\n\nThank you,\n-Heather"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help/advice. I'm 22 now, so most of my friends are in different states for college. I am anxious most of the time, crave alone time when I'm out with a friend, and can be very introverted. I like hanging out with large groups of friends, as almost anything can be made fun this way. However, due to my location, this is hardly ever the case.\n\nI haven't seen or talked to any of my friends in a very very long time now. The only person I see regularly is my girlfriend. I have friends I talk to, but no actual close friends. I complain of feeling lonely, but if a friends asks to hang out, I feel almost sick just thinking about it. This leads my friends to think I'm being distant, or that I don't value their friendship. \n\nIt's just so awkward when it's me and 1 other friend alone. Nothing fun to do. Mostly quiet awkward talks. \n\nAny advice?.anything? Not sure what's wrong with me.\n\nThank you,\n-Heather"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [25/m] have been dating my girlfriend [21/f] for nearly 10 months. This is my second longest, first being 4 plus years, and her longest currently. When we first got together I had been experiencing severe anxiety and panic attacks and they only got worse. She would always ask of I was ok or feeling alright. At first it was great, but soon turned into me feeling like there was something wrong with me when that's all we talked about. It's another story but the shortened version is I quit drinking, 1 month sober yesterday, and I'm in much better health. The issue is that for a few weeks now she's been really worried and concerned about our relationship and it's progressively getting worse. It's turning into an all the time thing. All I hear is \"are we ok?\" \"We're good right?\" \"You still love me?\" And so on. It's driving me up the wall and I keep telling her to just go with it. That I'm getting over anxiety and a 3 year drinking binge. I also have no clue where this came from. I asked her and she always says she was just checking or it was on her mind. Any tips or input? Male or female perspectives welcomed. I'm not looking to break up cause I love her. Maybe just know what she's going through and all that jazz."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [25/m] have been dating my girlfriend [21/f] for nearly 10 months. This is my second longest, first being 4 plus years, and her longest currently. When we first got together I had been experiencing severe anxiety and panic attacks and they only got worse. She would always ask of I was ok or feeling alright. At first it was great, but soon turned into me feeling like there was something wrong with me when that's all we talked about. It's another story but the shortened version is I quit drinking, 1 month sober yesterday, and I'm in much better health. The issue is that for a few weeks now she's been really worried and concerned about our relationship and it's progressively getting worse. It's turning into an all the time thing. All I hear is \"are we ok?\" \"We're good right?\" \"You still love me?\" And so on. It's driving me up the wall and I keep telling her to just go with it. That I'm getting over anxiety and a 3 year drinking binge. I also have no clue where this came from. I asked her and she always says she was just checking or it was on her mind. Any tips or input? Male or female perspectives welcomed. I'm not looking to break up cause I love her. Maybe just know what she's going through and all that jazz."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [25/m] have been dating my girlfriend [21/f] for nearly 10 months. This is my second longest, first being 4 plus years, and her longest currently. When we first got together I had been experiencing severe anxiety and panic attacks and they only got worse. She would always ask of I was ok or feeling alright. At first it was great, but soon turned into me feeling like there was something wrong with me when that's all we talked about. It's another story but the shortened version is I quit drinking, 1 month sober yesterday, and I'm in much better health. The issue is that for a few weeks now she's been really worried and concerned about our relationship and it's progressively getting worse. It's turning into an all the time thing. All I hear is \"are we ok?\" \"We're good right?\" \"You still love me?\" And so on. It's driving me up the wall and I keep telling her to just go with it. That I'm getting over anxiety and a 3 year drinking binge. I also have no clue where this came from. I asked her and she always says she was just checking or it was on her mind. Any tips or input? Male or female perspectives welcomed. I'm not looking to break up cause I love her. Maybe just know what she's going through and all that jazz."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI have been in a relationship for about three + years now. \nShort summary: Long distance relationship, will live together in a month, happy relationship, skyping a lot daily; result of that is that I have only 1 close friend (who's moving 300 kilometers away this august) and 2 friends I do not see often. Because I skype a lot and don't do sports anymore I do not have many contacts outside my SO/family. \n\nI miss laughing, netflix'ing and being lazy with someone (other than my SO) to socialize with. The thing is, he's kind of jealous (distance makes it hard to not go crazy sometimes) and he thinks everyone I meet (example: at work or study) is somehow into me. I do not engage into a social/more-than-colleague relationship because I do not want to cause any trouble. \n\nDoes anyone of you have advice for me about finding a balance? Or how to make my SO accept male-friends/contacts? Make him less jealous? My relationship is very important for me and keeps me going every day. \n\nSometimes I just feel like talking about the stuff going on in my head other than my SO [he knows everything anyway] and want to hear another opinion. Right now I feel like I have no one to talk to beside him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI have been in a relationship for about three + years now. \nShort summary: Long distance relationship, will live together in a month, happy relationship, skyping a lot daily; result of that is that I have only 1 close friend (who's moving 300 kilometers away this august) and 2 friends I do not see often. Because I skype a lot and don't do sports anymore I do not have many contacts outside my SO/family. \n\nI miss laughing, netflix'ing and being lazy with someone (other than my SO) to socialize with. The thing is, he's kind of jealous (distance makes it hard to not go crazy sometimes) and he thinks everyone I meet (example: at work or study) is somehow into me. I do not engage into a social/more-than-colleague relationship because I do not want to cause any trouble. \n\nDoes anyone of you have advice for me about finding a balance? Or how to make my SO accept male-friends/contacts? Make him less jealous? My relationship is very important for me and keeps me going every day. \n\nSometimes I just feel like talking about the stuff going on in my head other than my SO [he knows everything anyway] and want to hear another opinion. Right now I feel like I have no one to talk to beside him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \n\nI have been in a relationship for about three + years now. \nShort summary: Long distance relationship, will live together in a month, happy relationship, skyping a lot daily; result of that is that I have only 1 close friend (who's moving 300 kilometers away this august) and 2 friends I do not see often. Because I skype a lot and don't do sports anymore I do not have many contacts outside my SO/family. \n\nI miss laughing, netflix'ing and being lazy with someone (other than my SO) to socialize with. The thing is, he's kind of jealous (distance makes it hard to not go crazy sometimes) and he thinks everyone I meet (example: at work or study) is somehow into me. I do not engage into a social/more-than-colleague relationship because I do not want to cause any trouble. \n\nDoes anyone of you have advice for me about finding a balance? Or how to make my SO accept male-friends/contacts? Make him less jealous? My relationship is very important for me and keeps me going every day. \n\nSometimes I just feel like talking about the stuff going on in my head other than my SO [he knows everything anyway] and want to hear another opinion. Right now I feel like I have no one to talk to beside him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let's limit my question to parties where there are a bunch of folks who at least all share the host(ess) in common (as opposed to bars). I have no problem connecting with strangers in this type of situation and love to engage people and talk.\n\nOccasionally, I'll click really well with someone. We'll have had a great conversation, a lot of flirting, and there's clearly some interest. But when it comes time to actually ask the person out/suggest they come home with me, I freeze up and end in a, \"Welp! Great talking to you!\"\n\nI find this applies both to potential casual hookups and potential dates. Though there is more pressure if it's a potential hookup.\n\nI feel like there is never a good time to ask either question. I feel like everyone around us is watching me and listening in, waiting to hear me ask this person this question and either ready to laugh or shake their heads in solemn shame.\n\nThis happened twice this weekend. Saturday party, met a fantastic woman, but could not bring myself to ask her out (though, she is the sister of a friend, so that added a bit of pressure to it). Then, Sunday BBQ at my own apartment, cute girl shows up, is clearly into the idea of maybe sticking around until morning (the hints were not very subtle, and I was totally into the idea), but I just can't make it happen because she's my roommate's girlfriend's friend, and I feel like they'll get all judgy. Even though they'd probably encourage it in the end.\n\nI met my last girlfriend at a party in this sort of situation, but could not bring myself to ask her out in front of people, and instead found her and messaged her on Facebook (which she was surprisingly ok with). I'd like to not have to do that again and just ask someone out like a normal person.\n\nAgain, I generally have no social anxieties and can hold myself in a crowd of strangers. But this triggers some sort of fear in me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating this girl for about 7-8 months. We have had some conversations about how neither of us is looking for anything too \"serious.\" I just got out of a very long term relationship about 6 months before I met her, and have had difficulty with relationships since then (ex was mentally abusive and relationship was terrible). \n\nI try to be a good BF, take her out, make her feel special, and am generally a nice guy. She means a lot to me, is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and is a really genuine, caring person. \n\nLong story short, she recently told me she loves me. I was sort of dreading this moment, responded sort of awkwardly of course with a \"thanks\" (not joking, I said thanks). Its not that I don't care about her, I just don't feel that emotion towards her and don't really expect to. I am not a very emotional guy, and have only told one person before that I love them. \n\nTo my surprise, she just said \"I know\" when I told her this. She wasn't expecting me to say it back. She said she doesn't mind at all that she loves me and I don't love her, because she knows how I am. Not gonna lie, this blew my mind. Now I'm struggling with the feeling that I am somehow wronging her, or taking advantage of her, because she is more invested than me in this relationship. \n\nI don't want to react wrongly, but am I crazy for feeling that its just wrong for both parties to a relationship to know that one loves the other, but the second doesn't love back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On an early morning, I was walking my little brother to school, it was pretty hot, a temperature of about 33 degrees Celsius for the morning.\nAs we were walking along a footpath, we were getting closer towards the school. This school has 2 entrances down a side street or a quicker walk up the hill.\n\nHe suggested that we take side street because it was hot but then I suggested let's just go up the hill. As we we're walking around the corner to cross the road, I then murmured It's very little. Just as I said that a dwarf walked around the corner and gave me the biggest death stare of my life. I didn't even notice\n\nMy face went bright red, my intention of the word It's very little, was in regards to the hill, but anyway we keep walking and I felt a little embarrassed. I dropped him off at the school and then I begin to walk home. Guess who's waiting at the bus stop? The dwarf. \n\nAs I walked past him, he again gave me the biggest death stare, I felt like stopping and explaining what I meant, but instead I thought stuff it I'll keep walking and won't say anything.\n\nI feel like a c*nt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On an early morning, I was walking my little brother to school, it was pretty hot, a temperature of about 33 degrees Celsius for the morning.\nAs we were walking along a footpath, we were getting closer towards the school. This school has 2 entrances down a side street or a quicker walk up the hill.\n\nHe suggested that we take side street because it was hot but then I suggested let's just go up the hill. As we we're walking around the corner to cross the road, I then murmured It's very little. Just as I said that a dwarf walked around the corner and gave me the biggest death stare of my life. I didn't even notice\n\nMy face went bright red, my intention of the word It's very little, was in regards to the hill, but anyway we keep walking and I felt a little embarrassed. I dropped him off at the school and then I begin to walk home. Guess who's waiting at the bus stop? The dwarf. \n\nAs I walked past him, he again gave me the biggest death stare, I felt like stopping and explaining what I meant, but instead I thought stuff it I'll keep walking and won't say anything.\n\nI feel like a c*nt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On an early morning, I was walking my little brother to school, it was pretty hot, a temperature of about 33 degrees Celsius for the morning.\nAs we were walking along a footpath, we were getting closer towards the school. This school has 2 entrances down a side street or a quicker walk up the hill.\n\nHe suggested that we take side street because it was hot but then I suggested let's just go up the hill. As we we're walking around the corner to cross the road, I then murmured It's very little. Just as I said that a dwarf walked around the corner and gave me the biggest death stare of my life. I didn't even notice\n\nMy face went bright red, my intention of the word It's very little, was in regards to the hill, but anyway we keep walking and I felt a little embarrassed. I dropped him off at the school and then I begin to walk home. Guess who's waiting at the bus stop? The dwarf. \n\nAs I walked past him, he again gave me the biggest death stare, I felt like stopping and explaining what I meant, but instead I thought stuff it I'll keep walking and won't say anything.\n\nI feel like a c*nt."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So Tuesday I noticed that my 5yr old neutered cat kept trying to urinate but couldn't so I immediately took him to the vet. His bladder was full and plugged. He was put under and cathed and has been at the vet on antibiotics and fluids for the past 36 hours. In short, he was diagnosed with FLUTD and had crystals. I get to pick him up tomorrow and was told that he will be put of Royal Canin S/O. I am planning on buying the food but after looking up the ingredients I'm not sure if I want him to be eating that long term. He previously was eating Wellness (grainfree) and although the vet suspects that the food could of caused the issue I was wondering if anyone had any experience with a cat with crystals on a healthier food than the vet's prescription. I am going to get a second opinion about his diet from another vet; I'm currently researching what type of questions to ask."
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