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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened a few years ago ago. I'm 19 now, I was 17 then and I was at a charity walk for the blind, because my mom's boyfriend's mother has macular degeneration.\n\nAnyway, I was walking, and I was playing with a white cane because I'm a juvenile. i was swinging it around recklessly while walking through a sort-of-dense crowd, when I felt it hit something and I felt a thud (we were walking on the docks of a beach, so I could feel it) a poor kid, could not have been more than 7 or 8 years old, was on the ground and had broken his glasses. I felt bad, and I quickly ran over, but I slipped on the wet dock and I could not stop myself from sliding into him, with my shoes meeting his face. His mother, whose hand he was holding, was yelling at me and I deserved it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened a few years ago ago. I'm 19 now, I was 17 then and I was at a charity walk for the blind, because my mom's boyfriend's mother has macular degeneration.\n\nAnyway, I was walking, and I was playing with a white cane because I'm a juvenile. i was swinging it around recklessly while walking through a sort-of-dense crowd, when I felt it hit something and I felt a thud (we were walking on the docks of a beach, so I could feel it) a poor kid, could not have been more than 7 or 8 years old, was on the ground and had broken his glasses. I felt bad, and I quickly ran over, but I slipped on the wet dock and I could not stop myself from sliding into him, with my shoes meeting his face. His mother, whose hand he was holding, was yelling at me and I deserved it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened a few years ago ago. I'm 19 now, I was 17 then and I was at a charity walk for the blind, because my mom's boyfriend's mother has macular degeneration.\n\nAnyway, I was walking, and I was playing with a white cane because I'm a juvenile. i was swinging it around recklessly while walking through a sort-of-dense crowd, when I felt it hit something and I felt a thud (we were walking on the docks of a beach, so I could feel it) a poor kid, could not have been more than 7 or 8 years old, was on the ground and had broken his glasses. I felt bad, and I quickly ran over, but I slipped on the wet dock and I could not stop myself from sliding into him, with my shoes meeting his face. His mother, whose hand he was holding, was yelling at me and I deserved it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nSo I [25/F] am getting married in about 2 months. I had planned to have 3 bridesmaids and a maid of honor. However, one of my bridesmaids [25/F] has been really out of the loop (not answering calls/texts/emails/fb messages). This was also the case when I was trying to ask her to be a bridesmaid (a process which took months to get in touch with her!). My fiancé and I recently moved to another state, so most of our people from our wedding party are from out of town (which I understand limits what they can do to help); however, all my bridal party have gotten matching dresses (of different shades of blue) and she still hasn't even responded to any of their messages either. She always comes up with lame excuses (her phone broke/ she got a new computer- which SHE WOULD STILL BE ABLE TO CHECK FB MESSAGES AND EMAILS!). \n\nShe has been a very close friend since we were young (since 11 years old!). I love her to death and we have always had the kind of relationship were we don't need to talk or hang out every weekend to be able to maintain our friendship (we have always been there for any crisis and told each other everything even after months of not talking). I feel like she is really dropping the ball on this tough… It's not like I'm asking her to help with ANY PREPARATIONS for the wedding, just get ANY dress that is blue. I would even help financially but she doesn't respond to ANYTHING.\n\nI have thought about asking her to step down because I find it really rude of her BUT HOW if I can't even get in touch with her?! I am also scared about messing up the friendship… but… I think she already has."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nSo I [25/F] am getting married in about 2 months. I had planned to have 3 bridesmaids and a maid of honor. However, one of my bridesmaids [25/F] has been really out of the loop (not answering calls/texts/emails/fb messages). This was also the case when I was trying to ask her to be a bridesmaid (a process which took months to get in touch with her!). My fiancé and I recently moved to another state, so most of our people from our wedding party are from out of town (which I understand limits what they can do to help); however, all my bridal party have gotten matching dresses (of different shades of blue) and she still hasn't even responded to any of their messages either. She always comes up with lame excuses (her phone broke/ she got a new computer- which SHE WOULD STILL BE ABLE TO CHECK FB MESSAGES AND EMAILS!). \n\nShe has been a very close friend since we were young (since 11 years old!). I love her to death and we have always had the kind of relationship were we don't need to talk or hang out every weekend to be able to maintain our friendship (we have always been there for any crisis and told each other everything even after months of not talking). I feel like she is really dropping the ball on this tough… It's not like I'm asking her to help with ANY PREPARATIONS for the wedding, just get ANY dress that is blue. I would even help financially but she doesn't respond to ANYTHING.\n\nI have thought about asking her to step down because I find it really rude of her BUT HOW if I can't even get in touch with her?! I am also scared about messing up the friendship… but… I think she already has."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nSo I [25/F] am getting married in about 2 months. I had planned to have 3 bridesmaids and a maid of honor. However, one of my bridesmaids [25/F] has been really out of the loop (not answering calls/texts/emails/fb messages). This was also the case when I was trying to ask her to be a bridesmaid (a process which took months to get in touch with her!). My fiancé and I recently moved to another state, so most of our people from our wedding party are from out of town (which I understand limits what they can do to help); however, all my bridal party have gotten matching dresses (of different shades of blue) and she still hasn't even responded to any of their messages either. She always comes up with lame excuses (her phone broke/ she got a new computer- which SHE WOULD STILL BE ABLE TO CHECK FB MESSAGES AND EMAILS!). \n\nShe has been a very close friend since we were young (since 11 years old!). I love her to death and we have always had the kind of relationship were we don't need to talk or hang out every weekend to be able to maintain our friendship (we have always been there for any crisis and told each other everything even after months of not talking). I feel like she is really dropping the ball on this tough… It's not like I'm asking her to help with ANY PREPARATIONS for the wedding, just get ANY dress that is blue. I would even help financially but she doesn't respond to ANYTHING.\n\nI have thought about asking her to step down because I find it really rude of her BUT HOW if I can't even get in touch with her?! I am also scared about messing up the friendship… but… I think she already has."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let's just say that I ended up catching feelings for my surfing instructor. We aren't even far in age he is only 2 years younger than me- in a way, it's a little of a little set back for me because i feel like a cougar. But anyways, our time spent together during our surf session is ALWAYS AMAZING! I really felt the connection with him, I could totally see him being both my best friend and a boyfriend. \n\nHe's very encouraging and even went out of his way to make sure I got it all in my camera since i'm so into photography and stuff. This Sunday our session is done and so I texted him 2 days later. \n\nAt first it was about surfing. I sent him a copy of our surfing that he recorded.I was flirting a bit too with my texting while keeping the surf aspect of it (if you guys know what I mean) He was going along with it so I then tried to geared it away from the surf topic and I finally said, \"Curious, what are you doing right now?\"\n\nHis response: I'm just hanging about to hit the hay soon, got surfing class tomorrow! \nHe didn't even asked about what I was up to, or initiated anything else"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let's just say that I ended up catching feelings for my surfing instructor. We aren't even far in age he is only 2 years younger than me- in a way, it's a little of a little set back for me because i feel like a cougar. But anyways, our time spent together during our surf session is ALWAYS AMAZING! I really felt the connection with him, I could totally see him being both my best friend and a boyfriend. \n\nHe's very encouraging and even went out of his way to make sure I got it all in my camera since i'm so into photography and stuff. This Sunday our session is done and so I texted him 2 days later. \n\nAt first it was about surfing. I sent him a copy of our surfing that he recorded.I was flirting a bit too with my texting while keeping the surf aspect of it (if you guys know what I mean) He was going along with it so I then tried to geared it away from the surf topic and I finally said, \"Curious, what are you doing right now?\"\n\nHis response: I'm just hanging about to hit the hay soon, got surfing class tomorrow! \nHe didn't even asked about what I was up to, or initiated anything else"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let's just say that I ended up catching feelings for my surfing instructor. We aren't even far in age he is only 2 years younger than me- in a way, it's a little of a little set back for me because i feel like a cougar. But anyways, our time spent together during our surf session is ALWAYS AMAZING! I really felt the connection with him, I could totally see him being both my best friend and a boyfriend. \n\nHe's very encouraging and even went out of his way to make sure I got it all in my camera since i'm so into photography and stuff. This Sunday our session is done and so I texted him 2 days later. \n\nAt first it was about surfing. I sent him a copy of our surfing that he recorded.I was flirting a bit too with my texting while keeping the surf aspect of it (if you guys know what I mean) He was going along with it so I then tried to geared it away from the surf topic and I finally said, \"Curious, what are you doing right now?\"\n\nHis response: I'm just hanging about to hit the hay soon, got surfing class tomorrow! \nHe didn't even asked about what I was up to, or initiated anything else"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: PSA: i suffer from mental illness, including extreme anxiety and panic disorder, so please try to be gentle.\n\ni have a lot of insecurity when it comes to my long distance relationship. fortunately for me, cheating is not one of the things i worry about. however, he and i haven't seen each other in about six weeks. this is my first ldr, and i'm trying to keep in mind that he's not avoiding seeing me and that this is just the nature of a long distance relationship. we have tentative plans for next weekend but he hasn't confirmed yet and it's been the source of a lot of anxiety for me.\n\ntoday i kind of took that out on him, telling him i was afraid that he was embarrassed of me or stringing me along, and asking him to explain to me why he couldn't commit to our plans yet and telling him it was the only way i could calm down. i sent him a lot of panicked texts and it was kind of intense. \n\ni have since calmed down, and we talked briefly, and i'm just trying to gauge how angry he is with me right now. when he got back to me he texted me \"woah, holy shit, what did i just walk back into\" but then after that he told me that he hasn't committed yet is only because he doesn't know exactly what is going on yet for next weekend and he's uncomfortable finalizing everything if he doesn't have a solid plan.\n\ni'm very anxious about the status of our relationship right now. to me it seems like he's definitely a little angry, but i don't think he would have tried to reassure me like he did if he was thinking of breaking up with me or something like that. is that a reasonable conclusion? how can i better handle things like this in the future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: PSA: i suffer from mental illness, including extreme anxiety and panic disorder, so please try to be gentle.\n\ni have a lot of insecurity when it comes to my long distance relationship. fortunately for me, cheating is not one of the things i worry about. however, he and i haven't seen each other in about six weeks. this is my first ldr, and i'm trying to keep in mind that he's not avoiding seeing me and that this is just the nature of a long distance relationship. we have tentative plans for next weekend but he hasn't confirmed yet and it's been the source of a lot of anxiety for me.\n\ntoday i kind of took that out on him, telling him i was afraid that he was embarrassed of me or stringing me along, and asking him to explain to me why he couldn't commit to our plans yet and telling him it was the only way i could calm down. i sent him a lot of panicked texts and it was kind of intense. \n\ni have since calmed down, and we talked briefly, and i'm just trying to gauge how angry he is with me right now. when he got back to me he texted me \"woah, holy shit, what did i just walk back into\" but then after that he told me that he hasn't committed yet is only because he doesn't know exactly what is going on yet for next weekend and he's uncomfortable finalizing everything if he doesn't have a solid plan.\n\ni'm very anxious about the status of our relationship right now. to me it seems like he's definitely a little angry, but i don't think he would have tried to reassure me like he did if he was thinking of breaking up with me or something like that. is that a reasonable conclusion? how can i better handle things like this in the future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: PSA: i suffer from mental illness, including extreme anxiety and panic disorder, so please try to be gentle.\n\ni have a lot of insecurity when it comes to my long distance relationship. fortunately for me, cheating is not one of the things i worry about. however, he and i haven't seen each other in about six weeks. this is my first ldr, and i'm trying to keep in mind that he's not avoiding seeing me and that this is just the nature of a long distance relationship. we have tentative plans for next weekend but he hasn't confirmed yet and it's been the source of a lot of anxiety for me.\n\ntoday i kind of took that out on him, telling him i was afraid that he was embarrassed of me or stringing me along, and asking him to explain to me why he couldn't commit to our plans yet and telling him it was the only way i could calm down. i sent him a lot of panicked texts and it was kind of intense. \n\ni have since calmed down, and we talked briefly, and i'm just trying to gauge how angry he is with me right now. when he got back to me he texted me \"woah, holy shit, what did i just walk back into\" but then after that he told me that he hasn't committed yet is only because he doesn't know exactly what is going on yet for next weekend and he's uncomfortable finalizing everything if he doesn't have a solid plan.\n\ni'm very anxious about the status of our relationship right now. to me it seems like he's definitely a little angry, but i don't think he would have tried to reassure me like he did if he was thinking of breaking up with me or something like that. is that a reasonable conclusion? how can i better handle things like this in the future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I went out to eat with one of my female friends( ill call her Andrea)from school(we go out to eat often) we talked about relationships and she said how she thinks highschool relationships are stupid and pointless she said she would much rather prefer a Fuckbuddy and we discussed highschool relationships from a third person perspective amd FWB relationships.\n\n When I took her home she asked,me if I was a virgin and unfortunately I told the truth which was that I was.She disclosed that she wasn't a virgin by this time I was already at her car and we departed. Should I follow up? I like her a little bit but not enough to ruin a FWB relationship? Sorry if this is,the wrong thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I went out to eat with one of my female friends( ill call her Andrea)from school(we go out to eat often) we talked about relationships and she said how she thinks highschool relationships are stupid and pointless she said she would much rather prefer a Fuckbuddy and we discussed highschool relationships from a third person perspective amd FWB relationships.\n\n When I took her home she asked,me if I was a virgin and unfortunately I told the truth which was that I was.She disclosed that she wasn't a virgin by this time I was already at her car and we departed. Should I follow up? I like her a little bit but not enough to ruin a FWB relationship? Sorry if this is,the wrong thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I went out to eat with one of my female friends( ill call her Andrea)from school(we go out to eat often) we talked about relationships and she said how she thinks highschool relationships are stupid and pointless she said she would much rather prefer a Fuckbuddy and we discussed highschool relationships from a third person perspective amd FWB relationships.\n\n When I took her home she asked,me if I was a virgin and unfortunately I told the truth which was that I was.She disclosed that she wasn't a virgin by this time I was already at her car and we departed. Should I follow up? I like her a little bit but not enough to ruin a FWB relationship? Sorry if this is,the wrong thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I went out to eat with one of my female friends( ill call her Andrea)from school(we go out to eat often) we talked about relationships and she said how she thinks highschool relationships are stupid and pointless she said she would much rather prefer a Fuckbuddy and we discussed highschool relationships from a third person perspective amd FWB relationships.\n\n When I took her home she asked,me if I was a virgin and unfortunately I told the truth which was that I was.She disclosed that she wasn't a virgin by this time I was already at her car and we departed. Should I follow up? I like her a little bit but not enough to ruin a FWB relationship? Sorry if this is,the wrong thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday I went out to eat with one of my female friends( ill call her Andrea)from school(we go out to eat often) we talked about relationships and she said how she thinks highschool relationships are stupid and pointless she said she would much rather prefer a Fuckbuddy and we discussed highschool relationships from a third person perspective amd FWB relationships.\n\n When I took her home she asked,me if I was a virgin and unfortunately I told the truth which was that I was.She disclosed that she wasn't a virgin by this time I was already at her car and we departed. Should I follow up? I like her a little bit but not enough to ruin a FWB relationship? Sorry if this is,the wrong thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm friends with this girl. I've only met her recently and I have a crush on her. She's so much fun and she's really funny. We have really similar senses of humor and always talk super fast when we're together. She's just as weird as I am. I usually can figure out what she's going to say and vice versa. When it's just her I feel like we could talk for hours and hours.\n\nShe has a BF though, which is fine. I can respect that. She's been with the guy for several years. But the problem is I thought I could be friends with her, but the truth is, it hurts when I'm around her. And she's always weird with me whenever her boyfriend is around. It's like suddenly we're not cool anymore. It's starting to not feel good to be around her cause it's painful.\n\nThe other problem is she's good friends with a bunch of people from my friend group. And we hang out as a group often. I want to preserve the sanctity of the group so it's not like I wanna stop talking to her completely (otherwise I would). But I also don't want to talk to her too much because it just makes me depressed. What should I do, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm friends with this girl. I've only met her recently and I have a crush on her. She's so much fun and she's really funny. We have really similar senses of humor and always talk super fast when we're together. She's just as weird as I am. I usually can figure out what she's going to say and vice versa. When it's just her I feel like we could talk for hours and hours.\n\nShe has a BF though, which is fine. I can respect that. She's been with the guy for several years. But the problem is I thought I could be friends with her, but the truth is, it hurts when I'm around her. And she's always weird with me whenever her boyfriend is around. It's like suddenly we're not cool anymore. It's starting to not feel good to be around her cause it's painful.\n\nThe other problem is she's good friends with a bunch of people from my friend group. And we hang out as a group often. I want to preserve the sanctity of the group so it's not like I wanna stop talking to her completely (otherwise I would). But I also don't want to talk to her too much because it just makes me depressed. What should I do, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm friends with this girl. I've only met her recently and I have a crush on her. She's so much fun and she's really funny. We have really similar senses of humor and always talk super fast when we're together. She's just as weird as I am. I usually can figure out what she's going to say and vice versa. When it's just her I feel like we could talk for hours and hours.\n\nShe has a BF though, which is fine. I can respect that. She's been with the guy for several years. But the problem is I thought I could be friends with her, but the truth is, it hurts when I'm around her. And she's always weird with me whenever her boyfriend is around. It's like suddenly we're not cool anymore. It's starting to not feel good to be around her cause it's painful.\n\nThe other problem is she's good friends with a bunch of people from my friend group. And we hang out as a group often. I want to preserve the sanctity of the group so it's not like I wanna stop talking to her completely (otherwise I would). But I also don't want to talk to her too much because it just makes me depressed. What should I do, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm friends with this girl. I've only met her recently and I have a crush on her. She's so much fun and she's really funny. We have really similar senses of humor and always talk super fast when we're together. She's just as weird as I am. I usually can figure out what she's going to say and vice versa. When it's just her I feel like we could talk for hours and hours.\n\nShe has a BF though, which is fine. I can respect that. She's been with the guy for several years. But the problem is I thought I could be friends with her, but the truth is, it hurts when I'm around her. And she's always weird with me whenever her boyfriend is around. It's like suddenly we're not cool anymore. It's starting to not feel good to be around her cause it's painful.\n\nThe other problem is she's good friends with a bunch of people from my friend group. And we hang out as a group often. I want to preserve the sanctity of the group so it's not like I wanna stop talking to her completely (otherwise I would). But I also don't want to talk to her too much because it just makes me depressed. What should I do, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm friends with this girl. I've only met her recently and I have a crush on her. She's so much fun and she's really funny. We have really similar senses of humor and always talk super fast when we're together. She's just as weird as I am. I usually can figure out what she's going to say and vice versa. When it's just her I feel like we could talk for hours and hours.\n\nShe has a BF though, which is fine. I can respect that. She's been with the guy for several years. But the problem is I thought I could be friends with her, but the truth is, it hurts when I'm around her. And she's always weird with me whenever her boyfriend is around. It's like suddenly we're not cool anymore. It's starting to not feel good to be around her cause it's painful.\n\nThe other problem is she's good friends with a bunch of people from my friend group. And we hang out as a group often. I want to preserve the sanctity of the group so it's not like I wanna stop talking to her completely (otherwise I would). But I also don't want to talk to her too much because it just makes me depressed. What should I do, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, not sure if I selected the right tag or not but I wanted to get your opinions and advice on a predicament I have.\n\nNext year my wife and child are going to move out as we are going to get divorced. As horrible as this will be, I need to focus on the future and for myself to be happy.\n\nOne thing I have always wanted to do and couldn't when my wife was here was to get a dog. I grew up with dogs and love them. I have really wanted a dog for years but my wife didn't want them. \n\nAnyway, as I would be divorced, it would mean I would be living on my own (in an apartment). I am concerned that it wouldn't really be fair on the dog to work a full time job and only spend time with it in the evenings and have it stay at home all day on its on.\n\nWhat are your thoughts and opinions on this sort of case? Particularly dog owners who live on their own - what do you do? \n\nAnother important matter is that I live in this country on my own, so I couldn't have family come over and see it etc (they are all back in England, whilst I'm in the USA).\n\nAnyway, sorry for the long post, but I wanted to see what you all thought on this? What advice you may have or if you can think of any tips? As much as I would love to get a dog, I want to get it in the right circumstances so I can be sure it is happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, not sure if I selected the right tag or not but I wanted to get your opinions and advice on a predicament I have.\n\nNext year my wife and child are going to move out as we are going to get divorced. As horrible as this will be, I need to focus on the future and for myself to be happy.\n\nOne thing I have always wanted to do and couldn't when my wife was here was to get a dog. I grew up with dogs and love them. I have really wanted a dog for years but my wife didn't want them. \n\nAnyway, as I would be divorced, it would mean I would be living on my own (in an apartment). I am concerned that it wouldn't really be fair on the dog to work a full time job and only spend time with it in the evenings and have it stay at home all day on its on.\n\nWhat are your thoughts and opinions on this sort of case? Particularly dog owners who live on their own - what do you do? \n\nAnother important matter is that I live in this country on my own, so I couldn't have family come over and see it etc (they are all back in England, whilst I'm in the USA).\n\nAnyway, sorry for the long post, but I wanted to see what you all thought on this? What advice you may have or if you can think of any tips? As much as I would love to get a dog, I want to get it in the right circumstances so I can be sure it is happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, not sure if I selected the right tag or not but I wanted to get your opinions and advice on a predicament I have.\n\nNext year my wife and child are going to move out as we are going to get divorced. As horrible as this will be, I need to focus on the future and for myself to be happy.\n\nOne thing I have always wanted to do and couldn't when my wife was here was to get a dog. I grew up with dogs and love them. I have really wanted a dog for years but my wife didn't want them. \n\nAnyway, as I would be divorced, it would mean I would be living on my own (in an apartment). I am concerned that it wouldn't really be fair on the dog to work a full time job and only spend time with it in the evenings and have it stay at home all day on its on.\n\nWhat are your thoughts and opinions on this sort of case? Particularly dog owners who live on their own - what do you do? \n\nAnother important matter is that I live in this country on my own, so I couldn't have family come over and see it etc (they are all back in England, whilst I'm in the USA).\n\nAnyway, sorry for the long post, but I wanted to see what you all thought on this? What advice you may have or if you can think of any tips? As much as I would love to get a dog, I want to get it in the right circumstances so I can be sure it is happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of my friends were planning on going to a holiday for a week and they asked me if I am 100% certain and I kept saying yes. My dad is supportive but mom is really scary about everything and kept saying no but then she said I'll think about it. \n\nSo yesterday I had to tell one of the friends that was organizing the thing if I'm 100% confirmed, but that \"i'll think about it\" turned out to be a no. She just spills reason after reason after reason for me not to go and it pisses me off. I had to tell the guy i probably wont make it and he sounded as disappointing as me. I am pissed off because i feel embarrassed, everybody is letting the other guys go but not me. Sure they are one or two years older but its not that big of a difference. And now if I am not going the group will be probably smaller than expected because couple of other guys also can't make it due to different reasons. I kept telling my self I will go to this no matter what, and I probably can despite moms will but I know this will make things worse and I will basically be coming home to a battlefield if it happens. \n\nI am so stressed and pissed off right now I feel like breaking everything around me. I am certainty not going to be talking to my mother for the foreseeable future. I'm just thinking what to tell the other guys who plan on going (if they are even gonna be going, because as I said a lot of people backed out and with me too I dont know whats gonna happen) so I don't look like a fool. Any thoughts and advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of my friends were planning on going to a holiday for a week and they asked me if I am 100% certain and I kept saying yes. My dad is supportive but mom is really scary about everything and kept saying no but then she said I'll think about it. \n\nSo yesterday I had to tell one of the friends that was organizing the thing if I'm 100% confirmed, but that \"i'll think about it\" turned out to be a no. She just spills reason after reason after reason for me not to go and it pisses me off. I had to tell the guy i probably wont make it and he sounded as disappointing as me. I am pissed off because i feel embarrassed, everybody is letting the other guys go but not me. Sure they are one or two years older but its not that big of a difference. And now if I am not going the group will be probably smaller than expected because couple of other guys also can't make it due to different reasons. I kept telling my self I will go to this no matter what, and I probably can despite moms will but I know this will make things worse and I will basically be coming home to a battlefield if it happens. \n\nI am so stressed and pissed off right now I feel like breaking everything around me. I am certainty not going to be talking to my mother for the foreseeable future. I'm just thinking what to tell the other guys who plan on going (if they are even gonna be going, because as I said a lot of people backed out and with me too I dont know whats gonna happen) so I don't look like a fool. Any thoughts and advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of my friends were planning on going to a holiday for a week and they asked me if I am 100% certain and I kept saying yes. My dad is supportive but mom is really scary about everything and kept saying no but then she said I'll think about it. \n\nSo yesterday I had to tell one of the friends that was organizing the thing if I'm 100% confirmed, but that \"i'll think about it\" turned out to be a no. She just spills reason after reason after reason for me not to go and it pisses me off. I had to tell the guy i probably wont make it and he sounded as disappointing as me. I am pissed off because i feel embarrassed, everybody is letting the other guys go but not me. Sure they are one or two years older but its not that big of a difference. And now if I am not going the group will be probably smaller than expected because couple of other guys also can't make it due to different reasons. I kept telling my self I will go to this no matter what, and I probably can despite moms will but I know this will make things worse and I will basically be coming home to a battlefield if it happens. \n\nI am so stressed and pissed off right now I feel like breaking everything around me. I am certainty not going to be talking to my mother for the foreseeable future. I'm just thinking what to tell the other guys who plan on going (if they are even gonna be going, because as I said a lot of people backed out and with me too I dont know whats gonna happen) so I don't look like a fool. Any thoughts and advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of my friends were planning on going to a holiday for a week and they asked me if I am 100% certain and I kept saying yes. My dad is supportive but mom is really scary about everything and kept saying no but then she said I'll think about it. \n\nSo yesterday I had to tell one of the friends that was organizing the thing if I'm 100% confirmed, but that \"i'll think about it\" turned out to be a no. She just spills reason after reason after reason for me not to go and it pisses me off. I had to tell the guy i probably wont make it and he sounded as disappointing as me. I am pissed off because i feel embarrassed, everybody is letting the other guys go but not me. Sure they are one or two years older but its not that big of a difference. And now if I am not going the group will be probably smaller than expected because couple of other guys also can't make it due to different reasons. I kept telling my self I will go to this no matter what, and I probably can despite moms will but I know this will make things worse and I will basically be coming home to a battlefield if it happens. \n\nI am so stressed and pissed off right now I feel like breaking everything around me. I am certainty not going to be talking to my mother for the foreseeable future. I'm just thinking what to tell the other guys who plan on going (if they are even gonna be going, because as I said a lot of people backed out and with me too I dont know whats gonna happen) so I don't look like a fool. Any thoughts and advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of my friends were planning on going to a holiday for a week and they asked me if I am 100% certain and I kept saying yes. My dad is supportive but mom is really scary about everything and kept saying no but then she said I'll think about it. \n\nSo yesterday I had to tell one of the friends that was organizing the thing if I'm 100% confirmed, but that \"i'll think about it\" turned out to be a no. She just spills reason after reason after reason for me not to go and it pisses me off. I had to tell the guy i probably wont make it and he sounded as disappointing as me. I am pissed off because i feel embarrassed, everybody is letting the other guys go but not me. Sure they are one or two years older but its not that big of a difference. And now if I am not going the group will be probably smaller than expected because couple of other guys also can't make it due to different reasons. I kept telling my self I will go to this no matter what, and I probably can despite moms will but I know this will make things worse and I will basically be coming home to a battlefield if it happens. \n\nI am so stressed and pissed off right now I feel like breaking everything around me. I am certainty not going to be talking to my mother for the foreseeable future. I'm just thinking what to tell the other guys who plan on going (if they are even gonna be going, because as I said a lot of people backed out and with me too I dont know whats gonna happen) so I don't look like a fool. Any thoughts and advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Couple of my friends were planning on going to a holiday for a week and they asked me if I am 100% certain and I kept saying yes. My dad is supportive but mom is really scary about everything and kept saying no but then she said I'll think about it. \n\nSo yesterday I had to tell one of the friends that was organizing the thing if I'm 100% confirmed, but that \"i'll think about it\" turned out to be a no. She just spills reason after reason after reason for me not to go and it pisses me off. I had to tell the guy i probably wont make it and he sounded as disappointing as me. I am pissed off because i feel embarrassed, everybody is letting the other guys go but not me. Sure they are one or two years older but its not that big of a difference. And now if I am not going the group will be probably smaller than expected because couple of other guys also can't make it due to different reasons. I kept telling my self I will go to this no matter what, and I probably can despite moms will but I know this will make things worse and I will basically be coming home to a battlefield if it happens. \n\nI am so stressed and pissed off right now I feel like breaking everything around me. I am certainty not going to be talking to my mother for the foreseeable future. I'm just thinking what to tell the other guys who plan on going (if they are even gonna be going, because as I said a lot of people backed out and with me too I dont know whats gonna happen) so I don't look like a fool. Any thoughts and advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So fresh out of college, Northwestern Mutual talked us into a 80-year term life insurance plans for 300k each (wife and I). Premiums were around $70 monthly combined. We since rolled 75k of each into permanent life insurance. Now premiums are in excess of 200 monthly.\n\nSo I'm setting up a meeting to cancel all these and get them into a 30-year term plan with them, largely due to recommendations on this sub. That should free up a lot more budget for me. And I plan to take care of a couple debts with the difference, and eventually start rolling the difference into a RothIRA.\n\nI plan on keeping the 30-year insurance through them. But when I get into a Roth IRA, I'll do that through vangaard or something lower fees. NWM is notorious for getting 5% year on year, and I've seen many other options that yield better interest.\n\nHopefully, in 30 years (I'm 27), I'll be pretty financially set, and I'll either take another term life insurance at a higher rate, or ideally have enough of a retirement account not to have to worry about it.\n\nMy financial advisor there, I'm sure, will be adamant that I'm making a mistake. He already alluded to that in an email. I just want to make sure I'm armed with the right info and am confident in my decision going into it, and I\"m pretty new with all this.\n\nI'm doing the right thing, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So fresh out of college, Northwestern Mutual talked us into a 80-year term life insurance plans for 300k each (wife and I). Premiums were around $70 monthly combined. We since rolled 75k of each into permanent life insurance. Now premiums are in excess of 200 monthly.\n\nSo I'm setting up a meeting to cancel all these and get them into a 30-year term plan with them, largely due to recommendations on this sub. That should free up a lot more budget for me. And I plan to take care of a couple debts with the difference, and eventually start rolling the difference into a RothIRA.\n\nI plan on keeping the 30-year insurance through them. But when I get into a Roth IRA, I'll do that through vangaard or something lower fees. NWM is notorious for getting 5% year on year, and I've seen many other options that yield better interest.\n\nHopefully, in 30 years (I'm 27), I'll be pretty financially set, and I'll either take another term life insurance at a higher rate, or ideally have enough of a retirement account not to have to worry about it.\n\nMy financial advisor there, I'm sure, will be adamant that I'm making a mistake. He already alluded to that in an email. I just want to make sure I'm armed with the right info and am confident in my decision going into it, and I\"m pretty new with all this.\n\nI'm doing the right thing, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So fresh out of college, Northwestern Mutual talked us into a 80-year term life insurance plans for 300k each (wife and I). Premiums were around $70 monthly combined. We since rolled 75k of each into permanent life insurance. Now premiums are in excess of 200 monthly.\n\nSo I'm setting up a meeting to cancel all these and get them into a 30-year term plan with them, largely due to recommendations on this sub. That should free up a lot more budget for me. And I plan to take care of a couple debts with the difference, and eventually start rolling the difference into a RothIRA.\n\nI plan on keeping the 30-year insurance through them. But when I get into a Roth IRA, I'll do that through vangaard or something lower fees. NWM is notorious for getting 5% year on year, and I've seen many other options that yield better interest.\n\nHopefully, in 30 years (I'm 27), I'll be pretty financially set, and I'll either take another term life insurance at a higher rate, or ideally have enough of a retirement account not to have to worry about it.\n\nMy financial advisor there, I'm sure, will be adamant that I'm making a mistake. He already alluded to that in an email. I just want to make sure I'm armed with the right info and am confident in my decision going into it, and I\"m pretty new with all this.\n\nI'm doing the right thing, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So fresh out of college, Northwestern Mutual talked us into a 80-year term life insurance plans for 300k each (wife and I). Premiums were around $70 monthly combined. We since rolled 75k of each into permanent life insurance. Now premiums are in excess of 200 monthly.\n\nSo I'm setting up a meeting to cancel all these and get them into a 30-year term plan with them, largely due to recommendations on this sub. That should free up a lot more budget for me. And I plan to take care of a couple debts with the difference, and eventually start rolling the difference into a RothIRA.\n\nI plan on keeping the 30-year insurance through them. But when I get into a Roth IRA, I'll do that through vangaard or something lower fees. NWM is notorious for getting 5% year on year, and I've seen many other options that yield better interest.\n\nHopefully, in 30 years (I'm 27), I'll be pretty financially set, and I'll either take another term life insurance at a higher rate, or ideally have enough of a retirement account not to have to worry about it.\n\nMy financial advisor there, I'm sure, will be adamant that I'm making a mistake. He already alluded to that in an email. I just want to make sure I'm armed with the right info and am confident in my decision going into it, and I\"m pretty new with all this.\n\nI'm doing the right thing, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So fresh out of college, Northwestern Mutual talked us into a 80-year term life insurance plans for 300k each (wife and I). Premiums were around $70 monthly combined. We since rolled 75k of each into permanent life insurance. Now premiums are in excess of 200 monthly.\n\nSo I'm setting up a meeting to cancel all these and get them into a 30-year term plan with them, largely due to recommendations on this sub. That should free up a lot more budget for me. And I plan to take care of a couple debts with the difference, and eventually start rolling the difference into a RothIRA.\n\nI plan on keeping the 30-year insurance through them. But when I get into a Roth IRA, I'll do that through vangaard or something lower fees. NWM is notorious for getting 5% year on year, and I've seen many other options that yield better interest.\n\nHopefully, in 30 years (I'm 27), I'll be pretty financially set, and I'll either take another term life insurance at a higher rate, or ideally have enough of a retirement account not to have to worry about it.\n\nMy financial advisor there, I'm sure, will be adamant that I'm making a mistake. He already alluded to that in an email. I just want to make sure I'm armed with the right info and am confident in my decision going into it, and I\"m pretty new with all this.\n\nI'm doing the right thing, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So fresh out of college, Northwestern Mutual talked us into a 80-year term life insurance plans for 300k each (wife and I). Premiums were around $70 monthly combined. We since rolled 75k of each into permanent life insurance. Now premiums are in excess of 200 monthly.\n\nSo I'm setting up a meeting to cancel all these and get them into a 30-year term plan with them, largely due to recommendations on this sub. That should free up a lot more budget for me. And I plan to take care of a couple debts with the difference, and eventually start rolling the difference into a RothIRA.\n\nI plan on keeping the 30-year insurance through them. But when I get into a Roth IRA, I'll do that through vangaard or something lower fees. NWM is notorious for getting 5% year on year, and I've seen many other options that yield better interest.\n\nHopefully, in 30 years (I'm 27), I'll be pretty financially set, and I'll either take another term life insurance at a higher rate, or ideally have enough of a retirement account not to have to worry about it.\n\nMy financial advisor there, I'm sure, will be adamant that I'm making a mistake. He already alluded to that in an email. I just want to make sure I'm armed with the right info and am confident in my decision going into it, and I\"m pretty new with all this.\n\nI'm doing the right thing, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have dated for 5 month now and she is my official GF for 1,5month and I am afraid I might get over-attached and that I am turning into someone I do not want to be. One example, an old-highschool friend visited her and they went out partying (I went somewhere else) and he spent the night at her place (we dont live together and he doesnt live close). I am totally okay with that and I know that since she only has one huge bed and no couch that he slept in one bed with her. I trust her and I know that she would never cheat on me but still I become paranoid. She accidentally called me by his name today (and she was so embarrassed and sorry) and that freaked me the fuck out. I know that she loves me a lot and she told me that she never felt that much in love before and I believe her. Why do I still become paranoid? I couldnt sleep tonight because I was creating scenarios in my head in which she cheated on me or something else bad happened.\n\nDo I have self-esteem issues or something?\n\nI am someone who needs a lot of freedom in relationships. If I wanted to visit a female friend and platonically spend the night and I couldn't because my GF wouldnt let me, I would be so annoyed, so it seems just natural to me to give her the same freedom I am expecting of her but why can't I just be cooler about this? It feels like my emotional shields protecting me from my own paranoia are completely shut down. It feels a little like I am tripping out on MDMA or something."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have dated for 5 month now and she is my official GF for 1,5month and I am afraid I might get over-attached and that I am turning into someone I do not want to be. One example, an old-highschool friend visited her and they went out partying (I went somewhere else) and he spent the night at her place (we dont live together and he doesnt live close). I am totally okay with that and I know that since she only has one huge bed and no couch that he slept in one bed with her. I trust her and I know that she would never cheat on me but still I become paranoid. She accidentally called me by his name today (and she was so embarrassed and sorry) and that freaked me the fuck out. I know that she loves me a lot and she told me that she never felt that much in love before and I believe her. Why do I still become paranoid? I couldnt sleep tonight because I was creating scenarios in my head in which she cheated on me or something else bad happened.\n\nDo I have self-esteem issues or something?\n\nI am someone who needs a lot of freedom in relationships. If I wanted to visit a female friend and platonically spend the night and I couldn't because my GF wouldnt let me, I would be so annoyed, so it seems just natural to me to give her the same freedom I am expecting of her but why can't I just be cooler about this? It feels like my emotional shields protecting me from my own paranoia are completely shut down. It feels a little like I am tripping out on MDMA or something."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. His ex-gf (first love) who he was still friends with but wanted to date again died about 3 years ago. He has a tattoo in memory of her and art and things she made him hung up in his room and car. The first year we dated was touch and go as to if he was ready to be in a relationship. I tried to be there for him as much as I could but it was hard for a beginning of a relationship. We have since moved forward and are in a very good place. I had been OK with her things everywhere because I knew it was understandable.he was grieving and it was not my place. Now we are moving in together and I feel weird having her things hung up in our place. We got in an argument about it and he got angry and said I shouldn't feel weird about her stuff and that I should look at it like these are things in memory of his friend, not ex. Am I being insensitive or is this understandable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. His ex-gf (first love) who he was still friends with but wanted to date again died about 3 years ago. He has a tattoo in memory of her and art and things she made him hung up in his room and car. The first year we dated was touch and go as to if he was ready to be in a relationship. I tried to be there for him as much as I could but it was hard for a beginning of a relationship. We have since moved forward and are in a very good place. I had been OK with her things everywhere because I knew it was understandable.he was grieving and it was not my place. Now we are moving in together and I feel weird having her things hung up in our place. We got in an argument about it and he got angry and said I shouldn't feel weird about her stuff and that I should look at it like these are things in memory of his friend, not ex. Am I being insensitive or is this understandable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. His ex-gf (first love) who he was still friends with but wanted to date again died about 3 years ago. He has a tattoo in memory of her and art and things she made him hung up in his room and car. The first year we dated was touch and go as to if he was ready to be in a relationship. I tried to be there for him as much as I could but it was hard for a beginning of a relationship. We have since moved forward and are in a very good place. I had been OK with her things everywhere because I knew it was understandable.he was grieving and it was not my place. Now we are moving in together and I feel weird having her things hung up in our place. We got in an argument about it and he got angry and said I shouldn't feel weird about her stuff and that I should look at it like these are things in memory of his friend, not ex. Am I being insensitive or is this understandable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been together for just over half a year and enjoy a great relationship, we are very understanding and communicate well. The main issue is that my gf is a little bit of a \"follower\" when it comes to her friends. She always tries to please everyone rather than make compromises and has trouble saying no to her friends.\n\nThis is a perfect example of that. In Australia we have this massive event called schoolies after graduating high school where graduates gather, usually along the beach in Queensland to drink, do drugs and just celebrate the end of high school in general. Well My GF's friends basically said that they don't want me to come with her cause they want it to be a \"girl's thing\". And of course my gf agrees and doesn't counter or say why she wants me to come. She's just like \"well I tried but the girls don't want you there.\" And this isn't just for a few nights it's a whole two weeks of her going up there. \n\nShe was raised in a very strict Jewish household so she is definitely going to be drinking, smoking pot and doing drugs as a way of rebelling against her parents. Which is all fine cause I like that stuff too, I just feel like I'm missing out on all the fun, you know?\n\nAlso lastly my gf is incredibly good looking, has a very nice body and her face is very symmetrical (attractive). Whenever we go to clubs or bars together she gets approached by at least 3 or 4 guys a night so is it wrong for me to be worried about that sort of stuff?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been together for just over half a year and enjoy a great relationship, we are very understanding and communicate well. The main issue is that my gf is a little bit of a \"follower\" when it comes to her friends. She always tries to please everyone rather than make compromises and has trouble saying no to her friends.\n\nThis is a perfect example of that. In Australia we have this massive event called schoolies after graduating high school where graduates gather, usually along the beach in Queensland to drink, do drugs and just celebrate the end of high school in general. Well My GF's friends basically said that they don't want me to come with her cause they want it to be a \"girl's thing\". And of course my gf agrees and doesn't counter or say why she wants me to come. She's just like \"well I tried but the girls don't want you there.\" And this isn't just for a few nights it's a whole two weeks of her going up there. \n\nShe was raised in a very strict Jewish household so she is definitely going to be drinking, smoking pot and doing drugs as a way of rebelling against her parents. Which is all fine cause I like that stuff too, I just feel like I'm missing out on all the fun, you know?\n\nAlso lastly my gf is incredibly good looking, has a very nice body and her face is very symmetrical (attractive). Whenever we go to clubs or bars together she gets approached by at least 3 or 4 guys a night so is it wrong for me to be worried about that sort of stuff?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my GF and I have been together for just over half a year and enjoy a great relationship, we are very understanding and communicate well. The main issue is that my gf is a little bit of a \"follower\" when it comes to her friends. She always tries to please everyone rather than make compromises and has trouble saying no to her friends.\n\nThis is a perfect example of that. In Australia we have this massive event called schoolies after graduating high school where graduates gather, usually along the beach in Queensland to drink, do drugs and just celebrate the end of high school in general. Well My GF's friends basically said that they don't want me to come with her cause they want it to be a \"girl's thing\". And of course my gf agrees and doesn't counter or say why she wants me to come. She's just like \"well I tried but the girls don't want you there.\" And this isn't just for a few nights it's a whole two weeks of her going up there. \n\nShe was raised in a very strict Jewish household so she is definitely going to be drinking, smoking pot and doing drugs as a way of rebelling against her parents. Which is all fine cause I like that stuff too, I just feel like I'm missing out on all the fun, you know?\n\nAlso lastly my gf is incredibly good looking, has a very nice body and her face is very symmetrical (attractive). Whenever we go to clubs or bars together she gets approached by at least 3 or 4 guys a night so is it wrong for me to be worried about that sort of stuff?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I like the little cartons of flavoured milk and before you open then you give them a quick shake to stir it up. I don't usually have soft drink but in the case of a University musical theory exam I thought I could use something fizzy. \n\nI sit down, exam begins. I pick up my bottle of coke and give it two quick shakes and immediately open it, not realising what hell I have unleashed. It spews all over me, my phone and the chick sitting in front of me drenching her. She screeches like a wild yeti and here I am holding a now completely empty bottle with ruined exams in a 3 metre radius. I look like a complete jack ass and the professor didn't have any spare exams left so I will have to do it tomorrow. The chick I soaked burst into tears too, I apologised but it was too late for that. \n\nPhone is toast too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I like the little cartons of flavoured milk and before you open then you give them a quick shake to stir it up. I don't usually have soft drink but in the case of a University musical theory exam I thought I could use something fizzy. \n\nI sit down, exam begins. I pick up my bottle of coke and give it two quick shakes and immediately open it, not realising what hell I have unleashed. It spews all over me, my phone and the chick sitting in front of me drenching her. She screeches like a wild yeti and here I am holding a now completely empty bottle with ruined exams in a 3 metre radius. I look like a complete jack ass and the professor didn't have any spare exams left so I will have to do it tomorrow. The chick I soaked burst into tears too, I apologised but it was too late for that. \n\nPhone is toast too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I like the little cartons of flavoured milk and before you open then you give them a quick shake to stir it up. I don't usually have soft drink but in the case of a University musical theory exam I thought I could use something fizzy. \n\nI sit down, exam begins. I pick up my bottle of coke and give it two quick shakes and immediately open it, not realising what hell I have unleashed. It spews all over me, my phone and the chick sitting in front of me drenching her. She screeches like a wild yeti and here I am holding a now completely empty bottle with ruined exams in a 3 metre radius. I look like a complete jack ass and the professor didn't have any spare exams left so I will have to do it tomorrow. The chick I soaked burst into tears too, I apologised but it was too late for that. \n\nPhone is toast too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me (19M) and my girlfriend(19F) are in a relationship for about 4.6 years now. But then recently I haven't been in touch with her because of school work, and maybe she felt ignored that time, she broke up with me saying that she wants for us to grow individually (to become mature perhaps), and she said that I should give her time and space, and MAYBE when she is ready AGAIN, we COULD start all over again with our relationship, she also said that she would entertain guys who want to court her (why tho? I thought she still loves me?). After the break up she said she still loves me. And when I try to text her or message her on facebook she doesnt reply. She's a really lovely girl, and I know that her guy friends are just waiting for us to break up just to get a chance at her, I don't want her to be with other guys, I'm really afraid for that to happen. What do I need to do in order for that to not happen? What do I need to do so she would realize that the break up is not worth it?\nI still love her so much, that's why I'm really depressed right now, I can't even do my school projects, there are instances when I want to die(well dying because of a break up is perhaps pathetic for some of you but you don't realize how I really love her). Help I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me (19M) and my girlfriend(19F) are in a relationship for about 4.6 years now. But then recently I haven't been in touch with her because of school work, and maybe she felt ignored that time, she broke up with me saying that she wants for us to grow individually (to become mature perhaps), and she said that I should give her time and space, and MAYBE when she is ready AGAIN, we COULD start all over again with our relationship, she also said that she would entertain guys who want to court her (why tho? I thought she still loves me?). After the break up she said she still loves me. And when I try to text her or message her on facebook she doesnt reply. She's a really lovely girl, and I know that her guy friends are just waiting for us to break up just to get a chance at her, I don't want her to be with other guys, I'm really afraid for that to happen. What do I need to do in order for that to not happen? What do I need to do so she would realize that the break up is not worth it?\nI still love her so much, that's why I'm really depressed right now, I can't even do my school projects, there are instances when I want to die(well dying because of a break up is perhaps pathetic for some of you but you don't realize how I really love her). Help I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me (19M) and my girlfriend(19F) are in a relationship for about 4.6 years now. But then recently I haven't been in touch with her because of school work, and maybe she felt ignored that time, she broke up with me saying that she wants for us to grow individually (to become mature perhaps), and she said that I should give her time and space, and MAYBE when she is ready AGAIN, we COULD start all over again with our relationship, she also said that she would entertain guys who want to court her (why tho? I thought she still loves me?). After the break up she said she still loves me. And when I try to text her or message her on facebook she doesnt reply. She's a really lovely girl, and I know that her guy friends are just waiting for us to break up just to get a chance at her, I don't want her to be with other guys, I'm really afraid for that to happen. What do I need to do in order for that to not happen? What do I need to do so she would realize that the break up is not worth it?\nI still love her so much, that's why I'm really depressed right now, I can't even do my school projects, there are instances when I want to die(well dying because of a break up is perhaps pathetic for some of you but you don't realize how I really love her). Help I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me (19M) and my girlfriend(19F) are in a relationship for about 4.6 years now. But then recently I haven't been in touch with her because of school work, and maybe she felt ignored that time, she broke up with me saying that she wants for us to grow individually (to become mature perhaps), and she said that I should give her time and space, and MAYBE when she is ready AGAIN, we COULD start all over again with our relationship, she also said that she would entertain guys who want to court her (why tho? I thought she still loves me?). After the break up she said she still loves me. And when I try to text her or message her on facebook she doesnt reply. She's a really lovely girl, and I know that her guy friends are just waiting for us to break up just to get a chance at her, I don't want her to be with other guys, I'm really afraid for that to happen. What do I need to do in order for that to not happen? What do I need to do so she would realize that the break up is not worth it?\nI still love her so much, that's why I'm really depressed right now, I can't even do my school projects, there are instances when I want to die(well dying because of a break up is perhaps pathetic for some of you but you don't realize how I really love her). Help I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me (19M) and my girlfriend(19F) are in a relationship for about 4.6 years now. But then recently I haven't been in touch with her because of school work, and maybe she felt ignored that time, she broke up with me saying that she wants for us to grow individually (to become mature perhaps), and she said that I should give her time and space, and MAYBE when she is ready AGAIN, we COULD start all over again with our relationship, she also said that she would entertain guys who want to court her (why tho? I thought she still loves me?). After the break up she said she still loves me. And when I try to text her or message her on facebook she doesnt reply. She's a really lovely girl, and I know that her guy friends are just waiting for us to break up just to get a chance at her, I don't want her to be with other guys, I'm really afraid for that to happen. What do I need to do in order for that to not happen? What do I need to do so she would realize that the break up is not worth it?\nI still love her so much, that's why I'm really depressed right now, I can't even do my school projects, there are instances when I want to die(well dying because of a break up is perhaps pathetic for some of you but you don't realize how I really love her). Help I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me (19M) and my girlfriend(19F) are in a relationship for about 4.6 years now. But then recently I haven't been in touch with her because of school work, and maybe she felt ignored that time, she broke up with me saying that she wants for us to grow individually (to become mature perhaps), and she said that I should give her time and space, and MAYBE when she is ready AGAIN, we COULD start all over again with our relationship, she also said that she would entertain guys who want to court her (why tho? I thought she still loves me?). After the break up she said she still loves me. And when I try to text her or message her on facebook she doesnt reply. She's a really lovely girl, and I know that her guy friends are just waiting for us to break up just to get a chance at her, I don't want her to be with other guys, I'm really afraid for that to happen. What do I need to do in order for that to not happen? What do I need to do so she would realize that the break up is not worth it?\nI still love her so much, that's why I'm really depressed right now, I can't even do my school projects, there are instances when I want to die(well dying because of a break up is perhaps pathetic for some of you but you don't realize how I really love her). Help I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA, so I need some help. I (18M) had been in a committed relationship with my ex (24M) for a good few months, but recently he broke up with me. It wasn't a bitter break up by any means. It wasn't something either of us did, it was just that he is having personal issues (he really is it's not a lie like I originally thought) and doesn't think he could do a relationship right now and doesn't want to give me the burden of his issues. In fact, we both agreed that we would remain friends and see what the future holds for us, but not to make any expectations. I am ok with that, I just miss him so much. We broke up on Tuesday night and I just need some advice of where to go from here. I have started talking to a few other guys and one guy (22M) is really nice and is just a good decent guy, but every few hours or so I think of my ex and I don't want to. Is it wrong for me to still like my ex or is it normal since it's only been a few days? I do have alittle bit of an emotional attachment to my ex and I don't want to cut him out of my life cause we are such great friends and I don't want to close the door on a friendship. Thoughts keep rolling through my head of whether or not he's out tonight and sleeping with someone else or on another date. I feel bad for being hypocritical but I can't help it, my mind lingers towards it. So I guess I just need some advice on what would be best for me. Thank you guys so much and I'm sorry if I rambled on a little bit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA, so I need some help. I (18M) had been in a committed relationship with my ex (24M) for a good few months, but recently he broke up with me. It wasn't a bitter break up by any means. It wasn't something either of us did, it was just that he is having personal issues (he really is it's not a lie like I originally thought) and doesn't think he could do a relationship right now and doesn't want to give me the burden of his issues. In fact, we both agreed that we would remain friends and see what the future holds for us, but not to make any expectations. I am ok with that, I just miss him so much. We broke up on Tuesday night and I just need some advice of where to go from here. I have started talking to a few other guys and one guy (22M) is really nice and is just a good decent guy, but every few hours or so I think of my ex and I don't want to. Is it wrong for me to still like my ex or is it normal since it's only been a few days? I do have alittle bit of an emotional attachment to my ex and I don't want to cut him out of my life cause we are such great friends and I don't want to close the door on a friendship. Thoughts keep rolling through my head of whether or not he's out tonight and sleeping with someone else or on another date. I feel bad for being hypocritical but I can't help it, my mind lingers towards it. So I guess I just need some advice on what would be best for me. Thank you guys so much and I'm sorry if I rambled on a little bit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey RA, so I need some help. I (18M) had been in a committed relationship with my ex (24M) for a good few months, but recently he broke up with me. It wasn't a bitter break up by any means. It wasn't something either of us did, it was just that he is having personal issues (he really is it's not a lie like I originally thought) and doesn't think he could do a relationship right now and doesn't want to give me the burden of his issues. In fact, we both agreed that we would remain friends and see what the future holds for us, but not to make any expectations. I am ok with that, I just miss him so much. We broke up on Tuesday night and I just need some advice of where to go from here. I have started talking to a few other guys and one guy (22M) is really nice and is just a good decent guy, but every few hours or so I think of my ex and I don't want to. Is it wrong for me to still like my ex or is it normal since it's only been a few days? I do have alittle bit of an emotional attachment to my ex and I don't want to cut him out of my life cause we are such great friends and I don't want to close the door on a friendship. Thoughts keep rolling through my head of whether or not he's out tonight and sleeping with someone else or on another date. I feel bad for being hypocritical but I can't help it, my mind lingers towards it. So I guess I just need some advice on what would be best for me. Thank you guys so much and I'm sorry if I rambled on a little bit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Newcomer, here! I've been lurking for ages. Too long, in fact. So this was an excuse to change that because Reddit is the best place for this. My name was originally just to be quick, but now I'm going to continue with it!\n\nHere's the fuckin' deal. I am a college freshman currently taking English 102. My research topic is Internet Censorship. I'm supposed to do an observational study. I am allowed to use the internet itself, for example, a forum or, hell, even Reddit. Somebody viewed Occupy Wall Street for a paper about a person's voice in the world. Another person attended a lecture about Transcendentalism for her chosen topic of Thoreau. \n\nMy problem, what the fuck can I do? I am at a complete loss for this. \nThe stance I will be taking is AGAINST censorship of the internet. I've thought about pushing the envelope on a forum to see how much I can get away with before I begin getting censored\nAlso, if internet censorship has affected you, whether financially, emotionally, or in ANY form, I would enjoy an email interview with you. \nI need interviews as well.\n\nSORRY for the wall of text. Be like Good Guy Greg and help me out, please! I will be in your debt forever. \n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Newcomer, here! I've been lurking for ages. Too long, in fact. So this was an excuse to change that because Reddit is the best place for this. My name was originally just to be quick, but now I'm going to continue with it!\n\nHere's the fuckin' deal. I am a college freshman currently taking English 102. My research topic is Internet Censorship. I'm supposed to do an observational study. I am allowed to use the internet itself, for example, a forum or, hell, even Reddit. Somebody viewed Occupy Wall Street for a paper about a person's voice in the world. Another person attended a lecture about Transcendentalism for her chosen topic of Thoreau. \n\nMy problem, what the fuck can I do? I am at a complete loss for this. \nThe stance I will be taking is AGAINST censorship of the internet. I've thought about pushing the envelope on a forum to see how much I can get away with before I begin getting censored\nAlso, if internet censorship has affected you, whether financially, emotionally, or in ANY form, I would enjoy an email interview with you. \nI need interviews as well.\n\nSORRY for the wall of text. Be like Good Guy Greg and help me out, please! I will be in your debt forever. \n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Newcomer, here! I've been lurking for ages. Too long, in fact. So this was an excuse to change that because Reddit is the best place for this. My name was originally just to be quick, but now I'm going to continue with it!\n\nHere's the fuckin' deal. I am a college freshman currently taking English 102. My research topic is Internet Censorship. I'm supposed to do an observational study. I am allowed to use the internet itself, for example, a forum or, hell, even Reddit. Somebody viewed Occupy Wall Street for a paper about a person's voice in the world. Another person attended a lecture about Transcendentalism for her chosen topic of Thoreau. \n\nMy problem, what the fuck can I do? I am at a complete loss for this. \nThe stance I will be taking is AGAINST censorship of the internet. I've thought about pushing the envelope on a forum to see how much I can get away with before I begin getting censored\nAlso, if internet censorship has affected you, whether financially, emotionally, or in ANY form, I would enjoy an email interview with you. \nI need interviews as well.\n\nSORRY for the wall of text. Be like Good Guy Greg and help me out, please! I will be in your debt forever. \n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Newcomer, here! I've been lurking for ages. Too long, in fact. So this was an excuse to change that because Reddit is the best place for this. My name was originally just to be quick, but now I'm going to continue with it!\n\nHere's the fuckin' deal. I am a college freshman currently taking English 102. My research topic is Internet Censorship. I'm supposed to do an observational study. I am allowed to use the internet itself, for example, a forum or, hell, even Reddit. Somebody viewed Occupy Wall Street for a paper about a person's voice in the world. Another person attended a lecture about Transcendentalism for her chosen topic of Thoreau. \n\nMy problem, what the fuck can I do? I am at a complete loss for this. \nThe stance I will be taking is AGAINST censorship of the internet. I've thought about pushing the envelope on a forum to see how much I can get away with before I begin getting censored\nAlso, if internet censorship has affected you, whether financially, emotionally, or in ANY form, I would enjoy an email interview with you. \nI need interviews as well.\n\nSORRY for the wall of text. Be like Good Guy Greg and help me out, please! I will be in your debt forever. \n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Newcomer, here! I've been lurking for ages. Too long, in fact. So this was an excuse to change that because Reddit is the best place for this. My name was originally just to be quick, but now I'm going to continue with it!\n\nHere's the fuckin' deal. I am a college freshman currently taking English 102. My research topic is Internet Censorship. I'm supposed to do an observational study. I am allowed to use the internet itself, for example, a forum or, hell, even Reddit. Somebody viewed Occupy Wall Street for a paper about a person's voice in the world. Another person attended a lecture about Transcendentalism for her chosen topic of Thoreau. \n\nMy problem, what the fuck can I do? I am at a complete loss for this. \nThe stance I will be taking is AGAINST censorship of the internet. I've thought about pushing the envelope on a forum to see how much I can get away with before I begin getting censored\nAlso, if internet censorship has affected you, whether financially, emotionally, or in ANY form, I would enjoy an email interview with you. \nI need interviews as well.\n\nSORRY for the wall of text. Be like Good Guy Greg and help me out, please! I will be in your debt forever. \n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Newcomer, here! I've been lurking for ages. Too long, in fact. So this was an excuse to change that because Reddit is the best place for this. My name was originally just to be quick, but now I'm going to continue with it!\n\nHere's the fuckin' deal. I am a college freshman currently taking English 102. My research topic is Internet Censorship. I'm supposed to do an observational study. I am allowed to use the internet itself, for example, a forum or, hell, even Reddit. Somebody viewed Occupy Wall Street for a paper about a person's voice in the world. Another person attended a lecture about Transcendentalism for her chosen topic of Thoreau. \n\nMy problem, what the fuck can I do? I am at a complete loss for this. \nThe stance I will be taking is AGAINST censorship of the internet. I've thought about pushing the envelope on a forum to see how much I can get away with before I begin getting censored\nAlso, if internet censorship has affected you, whether financially, emotionally, or in ANY form, I would enjoy an email interview with you. \nI need interviews as well.\n\nSORRY for the wall of text. Be like Good Guy Greg and help me out, please! I will be in your debt forever. \n\nThank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on a couple dates with a 25F, I'm a 24M. We met on tinder and I really like her. We've only been on two dates and made-out both times. It's nothing serious but when I think about how this might play out, I am a bit confused. I guess I'm just now starting to think about the dynamics of real relationship with her. \n\nA couple factors:\nWe live in different cities about a half hour away, and we both have cars. She works in my city. But my worry is that we have no real connections (ie work or shared hobbies). As a result, I feel that our scheduling of dates is rather forced and there isn't any casual way just to hangout (essentially we are either on a date, or not hanging out at all). Is this normal at my age? This dynamic is new to me because I've never really dated outside of college (where at least we had our studies in common). In the past, it's always just been natural to hangout with things like studying and then schedule actual dates intermittently, but now it seems that \"dating\" is the only way to hangout with this girl. In essence its \"dating to date\" rather than knowing each other as friends and then dating. It just feels forced to me. That said, I'd love to be in a committed relationship and I am up to give this a real commitment. \n\nSo I guess my questions are: how does dating change after college change? in general, are you/the general populace in their mid 20's more inclined to make strong efforts to make a relationship work? How do relationships at this age progress into casual, just sitting in front of a TV sort of thing? \n\nMy inclination as of now is just go with the flow and see how things play out. But a part of me gets anxious knowing that I like her but not seeing a way of making it work"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on a couple dates with a 25F, I'm a 24M. We met on tinder and I really like her. We've only been on two dates and made-out both times. It's nothing serious but when I think about how this might play out, I am a bit confused. I guess I'm just now starting to think about the dynamics of real relationship with her. \n\nA couple factors:\nWe live in different cities about a half hour away, and we both have cars. She works in my city. But my worry is that we have no real connections (ie work or shared hobbies). As a result, I feel that our scheduling of dates is rather forced and there isn't any casual way just to hangout (essentially we are either on a date, or not hanging out at all). Is this normal at my age? This dynamic is new to me because I've never really dated outside of college (where at least we had our studies in common). In the past, it's always just been natural to hangout with things like studying and then schedule actual dates intermittently, but now it seems that \"dating\" is the only way to hangout with this girl. In essence its \"dating to date\" rather than knowing each other as friends and then dating. It just feels forced to me. That said, I'd love to be in a committed relationship and I am up to give this a real commitment. \n\nSo I guess my questions are: how does dating change after college change? in general, are you/the general populace in their mid 20's more inclined to make strong efforts to make a relationship work? How do relationships at this age progress into casual, just sitting in front of a TV sort of thing? \n\nMy inclination as of now is just go with the flow and see how things play out. But a part of me gets anxious knowing that I like her but not seeing a way of making it work"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been on a couple dates with a 25F, I'm a 24M. We met on tinder and I really like her. We've only been on two dates and made-out both times. It's nothing serious but when I think about how this might play out, I am a bit confused. I guess I'm just now starting to think about the dynamics of real relationship with her. \n\nA couple factors:\nWe live in different cities about a half hour away, and we both have cars. She works in my city. But my worry is that we have no real connections (ie work or shared hobbies). As a result, I feel that our scheduling of dates is rather forced and there isn't any casual way just to hangout (essentially we are either on a date, or not hanging out at all). Is this normal at my age? This dynamic is new to me because I've never really dated outside of college (where at least we had our studies in common). In the past, it's always just been natural to hangout with things like studying and then schedule actual dates intermittently, but now it seems that \"dating\" is the only way to hangout with this girl. In essence its \"dating to date\" rather than knowing each other as friends and then dating. It just feels forced to me. That said, I'd love to be in a committed relationship and I am up to give this a real commitment. \n\nSo I guess my questions are: how does dating change after college change? in general, are you/the general populace in their mid 20's more inclined to make strong efforts to make a relationship work? How do relationships at this age progress into casual, just sitting in front of a TV sort of thing? \n\nMy inclination as of now is just go with the flow and see how things play out. But a part of me gets anxious knowing that I like her but not seeing a way of making it work"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My former best friend[24F], Marie has never met my husband[33M]. When he and I started dating she wanted to see a picture of him,when I showed her one she immediately proclaimed him a racist and psycho. Eventually we stopped speak and haven't for 4 years.\n\nShe contacted me last weekend, she wants to go to lunch together and meet my husband. He says he'll go if I want him to.\n\nI don't know if we should meet her for lunch. I miss her sometimes, we were friends for 7 years. But I don't want her freaking out on us.\n\nShould we meet her for lunch or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My former best friend[24F], Marie has never met my husband[33M]. When he and I started dating she wanted to see a picture of him,when I showed her one she immediately proclaimed him a racist and psycho. Eventually we stopped speak and haven't for 4 years.\n\nShe contacted me last weekend, she wants to go to lunch together and meet my husband. He says he'll go if I want him to.\n\nI don't know if we should meet her for lunch. I miss her sometimes, we were friends for 7 years. But I don't want her freaking out on us.\n\nShould we meet her for lunch or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My former best friend[24F], Marie has never met my husband[33M]. When he and I started dating she wanted to see a picture of him,when I showed her one she immediately proclaimed him a racist and psycho. Eventually we stopped speak and haven't for 4 years.\n\nShe contacted me last weekend, she wants to go to lunch together and meet my husband. He says he'll go if I want him to.\n\nI don't know if we should meet her for lunch. I miss her sometimes, we were friends for 7 years. But I don't want her freaking out on us.\n\nShould we meet her for lunch or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm dating an amazing guy and I can see this relationship being long-term for sure. We love spending time together and crack each other up, we balance each other, the sex is bomb, etc.\n\nI am at a point in my life where I am extremely happy - with my body image, my job, my friends, just my life in general. He is not. He has a great job and is VERY successful financially, but doesn't like this city and struggles with feeling lonely. He's lived here for two years and hasn't tried much to branch out and meet people or explore the city. \n\nHe had his heart broken several years ago and I kind of think he's been moving around, switching jobs, running away from how hurt he was. He definitely hides behind how funny he is and I don't think he lets people see that there is more to him than that.\n\nWe had a heart to heart last night about all this and he seemed really touched that I cared and said no one had ever asked him these things before.\n\nSo, my question is, is it risky to date someone who isn't happy with himself as a person yet? Is it possible for him to \"catch up\" or am I setting myself up to be a crutch?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm dating an amazing guy and I can see this relationship being long-term for sure. We love spending time together and crack each other up, we balance each other, the sex is bomb, etc.\n\nI am at a point in my life where I am extremely happy - with my body image, my job, my friends, just my life in general. He is not. He has a great job and is VERY successful financially, but doesn't like this city and struggles with feeling lonely. He's lived here for two years and hasn't tried much to branch out and meet people or explore the city. \n\nHe had his heart broken several years ago and I kind of think he's been moving around, switching jobs, running away from how hurt he was. He definitely hides behind how funny he is and I don't think he lets people see that there is more to him than that.\n\nWe had a heart to heart last night about all this and he seemed really touched that I cared and said no one had ever asked him these things before.\n\nSo, my question is, is it risky to date someone who isn't happy with himself as a person yet? Is it possible for him to \"catch up\" or am I setting myself up to be a crutch?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm dating an amazing guy and I can see this relationship being long-term for sure. We love spending time together and crack each other up, we balance each other, the sex is bomb, etc.\n\nI am at a point in my life where I am extremely happy - with my body image, my job, my friends, just my life in general. He is not. He has a great job and is VERY successful financially, but doesn't like this city and struggles with feeling lonely. He's lived here for two years and hasn't tried much to branch out and meet people or explore the city. \n\nHe had his heart broken several years ago and I kind of think he's been moving around, switching jobs, running away from how hurt he was. He definitely hides behind how funny he is and I don't think he lets people see that there is more to him than that.\n\nWe had a heart to heart last night about all this and he seemed really touched that I cared and said no one had ever asked him these things before.\n\nSo, my question is, is it risky to date someone who isn't happy with himself as a person yet? Is it possible for him to \"catch up\" or am I setting myself up to be a crutch?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm dating an amazing guy and I can see this relationship being long-term for sure. We love spending time together and crack each other up, we balance each other, the sex is bomb, etc.\n\nI am at a point in my life where I am extremely happy - with my body image, my job, my friends, just my life in general. He is not. He has a great job and is VERY successful financially, but doesn't like this city and struggles with feeling lonely. He's lived here for two years and hasn't tried much to branch out and meet people or explore the city. \n\nHe had his heart broken several years ago and I kind of think he's been moving around, switching jobs, running away from how hurt he was. He definitely hides behind how funny he is and I don't think he lets people see that there is more to him than that.\n\nWe had a heart to heart last night about all this and he seemed really touched that I cared and said no one had ever asked him these things before.\n\nSo, my question is, is it risky to date someone who isn't happy with himself as a person yet? Is it possible for him to \"catch up\" or am I setting myself up to be a crutch?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm dating an amazing guy and I can see this relationship being long-term for sure. We love spending time together and crack each other up, we balance each other, the sex is bomb, etc.\n\nI am at a point in my life where I am extremely happy - with my body image, my job, my friends, just my life in general. He is not. He has a great job and is VERY successful financially, but doesn't like this city and struggles with feeling lonely. He's lived here for two years and hasn't tried much to branch out and meet people or explore the city. \n\nHe had his heart broken several years ago and I kind of think he's been moving around, switching jobs, running away from how hurt he was. He definitely hides behind how funny he is and I don't think he lets people see that there is more to him than that.\n\nWe had a heart to heart last night about all this and he seemed really touched that I cared and said no one had ever asked him these things before.\n\nSo, my question is, is it risky to date someone who isn't happy with himself as a person yet? Is it possible for him to \"catch up\" or am I setting myself up to be a crutch?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm dating an amazing guy and I can see this relationship being long-term for sure. We love spending time together and crack each other up, we balance each other, the sex is bomb, etc.\n\nI am at a point in my life where I am extremely happy - with my body image, my job, my friends, just my life in general. He is not. He has a great job and is VERY successful financially, but doesn't like this city and struggles with feeling lonely. He's lived here for two years and hasn't tried much to branch out and meet people or explore the city. \n\nHe had his heart broken several years ago and I kind of think he's been moving around, switching jobs, running away from how hurt he was. He definitely hides behind how funny he is and I don't think he lets people see that there is more to him than that.\n\nWe had a heart to heart last night about all this and he seemed really touched that I cared and said no one had ever asked him these things before.\n\nSo, my question is, is it risky to date someone who isn't happy with himself as a person yet? Is it possible for him to \"catch up\" or am I setting myself up to be a crutch?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends dad passed away in early December of last year, before he and I even met. We met in late December/early January, and it actually took me a while to find out that that had happened (his friends told me, because they didn't want either he or I getting hurt). We started dating in the middle of February, and so far as I can tell from what he's told me and the interactions we've had, I don't think he's grieved much since that time, unfortunately we are also long distance most of the time because I'm attending college in a neighboring state. So, the anniversary of his dads passing will be coming up before I'm back in town for winter break (mid December to mid January). I also am not sure if Christmas is a touchy subject, I haven't really brought it up with him because he's never brought it up with me and I don't want to cause him to feel sad by taking about it and asking questions. \n\nIf it helps for advice, he and his father weren't very close, his dad was strict and my boyfriend was a pretty rebellious adolescent, so they were always at odds until my boyfriend got older and they understood each other a bit more. I also am slightly concerned that he feels a small amount of responsibility, for reasons that it's not my place to talk about. \n\nI've never had a close friend who has lost a parent, so I'm really lost on how to give him my support without dragging up a lot of pain. Thank you for any help you can provide."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends dad passed away in early December of last year, before he and I even met. We met in late December/early January, and it actually took me a while to find out that that had happened (his friends told me, because they didn't want either he or I getting hurt). We started dating in the middle of February, and so far as I can tell from what he's told me and the interactions we've had, I don't think he's grieved much since that time, unfortunately we are also long distance most of the time because I'm attending college in a neighboring state. So, the anniversary of his dads passing will be coming up before I'm back in town for winter break (mid December to mid January). I also am not sure if Christmas is a touchy subject, I haven't really brought it up with him because he's never brought it up with me and I don't want to cause him to feel sad by taking about it and asking questions. \n\nIf it helps for advice, he and his father weren't very close, his dad was strict and my boyfriend was a pretty rebellious adolescent, so they were always at odds until my boyfriend got older and they understood each other a bit more. I also am slightly concerned that he feels a small amount of responsibility, for reasons that it's not my place to talk about. \n\nI've never had a close friend who has lost a parent, so I'm really lost on how to give him my support without dragging up a lot of pain. Thank you for any help you can provide."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriends dad passed away in early December of last year, before he and I even met. We met in late December/early January, and it actually took me a while to find out that that had happened (his friends told me, because they didn't want either he or I getting hurt). We started dating in the middle of February, and so far as I can tell from what he's told me and the interactions we've had, I don't think he's grieved much since that time, unfortunately we are also long distance most of the time because I'm attending college in a neighboring state. So, the anniversary of his dads passing will be coming up before I'm back in town for winter break (mid December to mid January). I also am not sure if Christmas is a touchy subject, I haven't really brought it up with him because he's never brought it up with me and I don't want to cause him to feel sad by taking about it and asking questions. \n\nIf it helps for advice, he and his father weren't very close, his dad was strict and my boyfriend was a pretty rebellious adolescent, so they were always at odds until my boyfriend got older and they understood each other a bit more. I also am slightly concerned that he feels a small amount of responsibility, for reasons that it's not my place to talk about. \n\nI've never had a close friend who has lost a parent, so I'm really lost on how to give him my support without dragging up a lot of pain. Thank you for any help you can provide."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17, and recently started seeing a 20 year old. We've become extremely close, and since I met him I've been much happier and more motivated to do well in other areas of my life. I already get good grades at a difficult school, play sports, and have never had problems with drinking or drugs. Our relationship is what keeps me balanced.\n\nMy parents have been divorced for several years, and I live with my dad nearly full time. My mother is a bit over-protective, so I anticipated some difficulty, but not like this. She thinks that the age difference is too great for somebody my age, and doesn't want me to date him. This, I understand; it's her prerogative to be concerned. It can be worked around. The real problem is that she is now trying to attack my dad legally for being a bad parent, neglecting my safety, etc. On top of this, she refuses to talk to me about how we can compromise, just insists that this is in my best interest in the long run. \n\nI've been looking for articles about how being in a stable, loving relationship is healthy for young adults (articles seem to be the best way to get through to her), but I can't find many that address the pros of teenage relationships. What I really need is to convince her that this is a healthy thing, something that falls in line with her need to 'shape me into a good young lady'.\n\nAny ideas?\n\nNote: \"you're 17, you're too young to be dating, just enjoy life and don't feel like you need to be with somebody.\" Yes, yes I know. This boy fell right out of the fucking sky, and I care about him and trust him more than almost anybody. I'm not going to give up on this just because of some age/family issues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17, and recently started seeing a 20 year old. We've become extremely close, and since I met him I've been much happier and more motivated to do well in other areas of my life. I already get good grades at a difficult school, play sports, and have never had problems with drinking or drugs. Our relationship is what keeps me balanced.\n\nMy parents have been divorced for several years, and I live with my dad nearly full time. My mother is a bit over-protective, so I anticipated some difficulty, but not like this. She thinks that the age difference is too great for somebody my age, and doesn't want me to date him. This, I understand; it's her prerogative to be concerned. It can be worked around. The real problem is that she is now trying to attack my dad legally for being a bad parent, neglecting my safety, etc. On top of this, she refuses to talk to me about how we can compromise, just insists that this is in my best interest in the long run. \n\nI've been looking for articles about how being in a stable, loving relationship is healthy for young adults (articles seem to be the best way to get through to her), but I can't find many that address the pros of teenage relationships. What I really need is to convince her that this is a healthy thing, something that falls in line with her need to 'shape me into a good young lady'.\n\nAny ideas?\n\nNote: \"you're 17, you're too young to be dating, just enjoy life and don't feel like you need to be with somebody.\" Yes, yes I know. This boy fell right out of the fucking sky, and I care about him and trust him more than almost anybody. I'm not going to give up on this just because of some age/family issues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 17, and recently started seeing a 20 year old. We've become extremely close, and since I met him I've been much happier and more motivated to do well in other areas of my life. I already get good grades at a difficult school, play sports, and have never had problems with drinking or drugs. Our relationship is what keeps me balanced.\n\nMy parents have been divorced for several years, and I live with my dad nearly full time. My mother is a bit over-protective, so I anticipated some difficulty, but not like this. She thinks that the age difference is too great for somebody my age, and doesn't want me to date him. This, I understand; it's her prerogative to be concerned. It can be worked around. The real problem is that she is now trying to attack my dad legally for being a bad parent, neglecting my safety, etc. On top of this, she refuses to talk to me about how we can compromise, just insists that this is in my best interest in the long run. \n\nI've been looking for articles about how being in a stable, loving relationship is healthy for young adults (articles seem to be the best way to get through to her), but I can't find many that address the pros of teenage relationships. What I really need is to convince her that this is a healthy thing, something that falls in line with her need to 'shape me into a good young lady'.\n\nAny ideas?\n\nNote: \"you're 17, you're too young to be dating, just enjoy life and don't feel like you need to be with somebody.\" Yes, yes I know. This boy fell right out of the fucking sky, and I care about him and trust him more than almost anybody. I'm not going to give up on this just because of some age/family issues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unlike most stories on this sub, this actually happened today. \n\nGiven that me and my girlfriend had an empty house, we decided to engage in some rougher-and-louder than usual sex. By rougher, I mean we had discussed face slapping and choking and the like. So during, I started going to town - basically slapping the shit out of my girlfriends face. \n\nThe more I did it, the more into it she seemed to be and as a result the more I did it. It was a vicious cycle. \n\nAnyway, after finishing up and engaging in some post-coitus snuggling I noticed that the area had bruised slightly. Slightly became more noticeably, which became a large bruised area and a blackened eye. This is obviously a pretty big problem, however the real piss-icing on this shit-cake is that tomorrow evening we have a barbecue with her family. \n\nOh I forgot to mention, afterwards both of us revealed that neither of us are actually into the face slapping. She was into how into it I was, and I was into how into it she was. So this entire experience has been for naught."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unlike most stories on this sub, this actually happened today. \n\nGiven that me and my girlfriend had an empty house, we decided to engage in some rougher-and-louder than usual sex. By rougher, I mean we had discussed face slapping and choking and the like. So during, I started going to town - basically slapping the shit out of my girlfriends face. \n\nThe more I did it, the more into it she seemed to be and as a result the more I did it. It was a vicious cycle. \n\nAnyway, after finishing up and engaging in some post-coitus snuggling I noticed that the area had bruised slightly. Slightly became more noticeably, which became a large bruised area and a blackened eye. This is obviously a pretty big problem, however the real piss-icing on this shit-cake is that tomorrow evening we have a barbecue with her family. \n\nOh I forgot to mention, afterwards both of us revealed that neither of us are actually into the face slapping. She was into how into it I was, and I was into how into it she was. So this entire experience has been for naught."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Unlike most stories on this sub, this actually happened today. \n\nGiven that me and my girlfriend had an empty house, we decided to engage in some rougher-and-louder than usual sex. By rougher, I mean we had discussed face slapping and choking and the like. So during, I started going to town - basically slapping the shit out of my girlfriends face. \n\nThe more I did it, the more into it she seemed to be and as a result the more I did it. It was a vicious cycle. \n\nAnyway, after finishing up and engaging in some post-coitus snuggling I noticed that the area had bruised slightly. Slightly became more noticeably, which became a large bruised area and a blackened eye. This is obviously a pretty big problem, however the real piss-icing on this shit-cake is that tomorrow evening we have a barbecue with her family. \n\nOh I forgot to mention, afterwards both of us revealed that neither of us are actually into the face slapping. She was into how into it I was, and I was into how into it she was. So this entire experience has been for naught."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, there's a lot going on here.\n\nI'm starting to wonder if I ever really loved my girlfriend. We just started hooking up and we're both \"nice\" people so it just grew from that. It is an \"ok\" relationship, functional and mature but there's never been much chemistry. I just feel like it's run it's course and we're not a good long term fit for living together/marriage/kids etc.\n\nI'm only really thinking about this because we've actually been quite close for the last year because her father was ill. Being supportive was the right thing to do and it's actually an easy role to do for someone you care about. He died recently and we can once again focus on each other but I find myself not really reentering the relationship or being particularly happy in the relationship. \n\nAt the same time, I've fallen in love with a new friend of a friend. We spend a lot of time together and I just click with her. She's amazing. I know she's not perfect and no one is but I can't help feeling this way (I'm not one to easily fall in love). I find myself smiling when I just think of her and she's always on my mind. I don't know how she feels at all (she's single but it's complicated) and I would never cheat on my girlfriend.\n\nMy girlfriend is still sort of recovering from her grieving process and with the holidays coming I feel like I'm trapped. I want to break up with her and I don't feel like I can as it would be so much more painful to her now. On the other hand, I feel awful that every minute I'm with her I'd rather be with this other girl or even alone.\n\nWhat should I do? I feel like I can't tell anyone because all my friends know at least one of the people. I don't want to break up with my girlfriend so soon after her father dying but I feel horrible that I love someone else and I'm not interested anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, there's a lot going on here.\n\nI'm starting to wonder if I ever really loved my girlfriend. We just started hooking up and we're both \"nice\" people so it just grew from that. It is an \"ok\" relationship, functional and mature but there's never been much chemistry. I just feel like it's run it's course and we're not a good long term fit for living together/marriage/kids etc.\n\nI'm only really thinking about this because we've actually been quite close for the last year because her father was ill. Being supportive was the right thing to do and it's actually an easy role to do for someone you care about. He died recently and we can once again focus on each other but I find myself not really reentering the relationship or being particularly happy in the relationship. \n\nAt the same time, I've fallen in love with a new friend of a friend. We spend a lot of time together and I just click with her. She's amazing. I know she's not perfect and no one is but I can't help feeling this way (I'm not one to easily fall in love). I find myself smiling when I just think of her and she's always on my mind. I don't know how she feels at all (she's single but it's complicated) and I would never cheat on my girlfriend.\n\nMy girlfriend is still sort of recovering from her grieving process and with the holidays coming I feel like I'm trapped. I want to break up with her and I don't feel like I can as it would be so much more painful to her now. On the other hand, I feel awful that every minute I'm with her I'd rather be with this other girl or even alone.\n\nWhat should I do? I feel like I can't tell anyone because all my friends know at least one of the people. I don't want to break up with my girlfriend so soon after her father dying but I feel horrible that I love someone else and I'm not interested anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, there's a lot going on here.\n\nI'm starting to wonder if I ever really loved my girlfriend. We just started hooking up and we're both \"nice\" people so it just grew from that. It is an \"ok\" relationship, functional and mature but there's never been much chemistry. I just feel like it's run it's course and we're not a good long term fit for living together/marriage/kids etc.\n\nI'm only really thinking about this because we've actually been quite close for the last year because her father was ill. Being supportive was the right thing to do and it's actually an easy role to do for someone you care about. He died recently and we can once again focus on each other but I find myself not really reentering the relationship or being particularly happy in the relationship. \n\nAt the same time, I've fallen in love with a new friend of a friend. We spend a lot of time together and I just click with her. She's amazing. I know she's not perfect and no one is but I can't help feeling this way (I'm not one to easily fall in love). I find myself smiling when I just think of her and she's always on my mind. I don't know how she feels at all (she's single but it's complicated) and I would never cheat on my girlfriend.\n\nMy girlfriend is still sort of recovering from her grieving process and with the holidays coming I feel like I'm trapped. I want to break up with her and I don't feel like I can as it would be so much more painful to her now. On the other hand, I feel awful that every minute I'm with her I'd rather be with this other girl or even alone.\n\nWhat should I do? I feel like I can't tell anyone because all my friends know at least one of the people. I don't want to break up with my girlfriend so soon after her father dying but I feel horrible that I love someone else and I'm not interested anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post [here](\n. I forgot my password for the original account, so I hope this is ok. \n\nI ended up emailing her on the Sunday afternoon, after I had messaged him a couple times. Turns out he didn't see my messages because he was talking to me on a separate phone, and didn't have it with him when she was over. \n\n She responded to me, absolutely devastated, asking for more information, which I provided. Then she said she hates that I told her before the wedding, because either her wedding day is ruined while they try to work it out, or she has to cancel and then everyone will know. She wishes I had either waited or not told her. This was exactly my concern with telling her when I did and I feel awful. \n\nMaybe she will eventually appreciate it, but I'm no longer convinced I did the correct thing. Maybe it was morally right, but it doesn't seem to have benefited anyone in the situation. And selfishly, it means that I probably won't ever understand for myself why this all happened, and what was real and what was a lie, especially if the wedding still happens. I know her feelings are really the important ones here, but I'm struggling as well. I sent him one more text asking him to give me some answers, with the note that if she asked him to stop corresponding with me to just ignore my text. I haven't heard anything back yet and I'm doubting I ever will. \n\nI guess I'm looking for any advice on how I can move forward from this, because I don't know how. This is the first time I've ever been in any kind of relationship/FwB situation outside of my previous 7 year relationship, and I'm struggling to understand how someone could do this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post [here](\n. I forgot my password for the original account, so I hope this is ok. \n\nI ended up emailing her on the Sunday afternoon, after I had messaged him a couple times. Turns out he didn't see my messages because he was talking to me on a separate phone, and didn't have it with him when she was over. \n\n She responded to me, absolutely devastated, asking for more information, which I provided. Then she said she hates that I told her before the wedding, because either her wedding day is ruined while they try to work it out, or she has to cancel and then everyone will know. She wishes I had either waited or not told her. This was exactly my concern with telling her when I did and I feel awful. \n\nMaybe she will eventually appreciate it, but I'm no longer convinced I did the correct thing. Maybe it was morally right, but it doesn't seem to have benefited anyone in the situation. And selfishly, it means that I probably won't ever understand for myself why this all happened, and what was real and what was a lie, especially if the wedding still happens. I know her feelings are really the important ones here, but I'm struggling as well. I sent him one more text asking him to give me some answers, with the note that if she asked him to stop corresponding with me to just ignore my text. I haven't heard anything back yet and I'm doubting I ever will. \n\nI guess I'm looking for any advice on how I can move forward from this, because I don't know how. This is the first time I've ever been in any kind of relationship/FwB situation outside of my previous 7 year relationship, and I'm struggling to understand how someone could do this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post [here](\n. I forgot my password for the original account, so I hope this is ok. \n\nI ended up emailing her on the Sunday afternoon, after I had messaged him a couple times. Turns out he didn't see my messages because he was talking to me on a separate phone, and didn't have it with him when she was over. \n\n She responded to me, absolutely devastated, asking for more information, which I provided. Then she said she hates that I told her before the wedding, because either her wedding day is ruined while they try to work it out, or she has to cancel and then everyone will know. She wishes I had either waited or not told her. This was exactly my concern with telling her when I did and I feel awful. \n\nMaybe she will eventually appreciate it, but I'm no longer convinced I did the correct thing. Maybe it was morally right, but it doesn't seem to have benefited anyone in the situation. And selfishly, it means that I probably won't ever understand for myself why this all happened, and what was real and what was a lie, especially if the wedding still happens. I know her feelings are really the important ones here, but I'm struggling as well. I sent him one more text asking him to give me some answers, with the note that if she asked him to stop corresponding with me to just ignore my text. I haven't heard anything back yet and I'm doubting I ever will. \n\nI guess I'm looking for any advice on how I can move forward from this, because I don't know how. This is the first time I've ever been in any kind of relationship/FwB situation outside of my previous 7 year relationship, and I'm struggling to understand how someone could do this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post [here](\n. I forgot my password for the original account, so I hope this is ok. \n\nI ended up emailing her on the Sunday afternoon, after I had messaged him a couple times. Turns out he didn't see my messages because he was talking to me on a separate phone, and didn't have it with him when she was over. \n\n She responded to me, absolutely devastated, asking for more information, which I provided. Then she said she hates that I told her before the wedding, because either her wedding day is ruined while they try to work it out, or she has to cancel and then everyone will know. She wishes I had either waited or not told her. This was exactly my concern with telling her when I did and I feel awful. \n\nMaybe she will eventually appreciate it, but I'm no longer convinced I did the correct thing. Maybe it was morally right, but it doesn't seem to have benefited anyone in the situation. And selfishly, it means that I probably won't ever understand for myself why this all happened, and what was real and what was a lie, especially if the wedding still happens. I know her feelings are really the important ones here, but I'm struggling as well. I sent him one more text asking him to give me some answers, with the note that if she asked him to stop corresponding with me to just ignore my text. I haven't heard anything back yet and I'm doubting I ever will. \n\nI guess I'm looking for any advice on how I can move forward from this, because I don't know how. This is the first time I've ever been in any kind of relationship/FwB situation outside of my previous 7 year relationship, and I'm struggling to understand how someone could do this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post [here](\n. I forgot my password for the original account, so I hope this is ok. \n\nI ended up emailing her on the Sunday afternoon, after I had messaged him a couple times. Turns out he didn't see my messages because he was talking to me on a separate phone, and didn't have it with him when she was over. \n\n She responded to me, absolutely devastated, asking for more information, which I provided. Then she said she hates that I told her before the wedding, because either her wedding day is ruined while they try to work it out, or she has to cancel and then everyone will know. She wishes I had either waited or not told her. This was exactly my concern with telling her when I did and I feel awful. \n\nMaybe she will eventually appreciate it, but I'm no longer convinced I did the correct thing. Maybe it was morally right, but it doesn't seem to have benefited anyone in the situation. And selfishly, it means that I probably won't ever understand for myself why this all happened, and what was real and what was a lie, especially if the wedding still happens. I know her feelings are really the important ones here, but I'm struggling as well. I sent him one more text asking him to give me some answers, with the note that if she asked him to stop corresponding with me to just ignore my text. I haven't heard anything back yet and I'm doubting I ever will. \n\nI guess I'm looking for any advice on how I can move forward from this, because I don't know how. This is the first time I've ever been in any kind of relationship/FwB situation outside of my previous 7 year relationship, and I'm struggling to understand how someone could do this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post [here](\n. I forgot my password for the original account, so I hope this is ok. \n\nI ended up emailing her on the Sunday afternoon, after I had messaged him a couple times. Turns out he didn't see my messages because he was talking to me on a separate phone, and didn't have it with him when she was over. \n\n She responded to me, absolutely devastated, asking for more information, which I provided. Then she said she hates that I told her before the wedding, because either her wedding day is ruined while they try to work it out, or she has to cancel and then everyone will know. She wishes I had either waited or not told her. This was exactly my concern with telling her when I did and I feel awful. \n\nMaybe she will eventually appreciate it, but I'm no longer convinced I did the correct thing. Maybe it was morally right, but it doesn't seem to have benefited anyone in the situation. And selfishly, it means that I probably won't ever understand for myself why this all happened, and what was real and what was a lie, especially if the wedding still happens. I know her feelings are really the important ones here, but I'm struggling as well. I sent him one more text asking him to give me some answers, with the note that if she asked him to stop corresponding with me to just ignore my text. I haven't heard anything back yet and I'm doubting I ever will. \n\nI guess I'm looking for any advice on how I can move forward from this, because I don't know how. This is the first time I've ever been in any kind of relationship/FwB situation outside of my previous 7 year relationship, and I'm struggling to understand how someone could do this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is kind, loving, sweet, really hot etc and tells me she loves me all the time, but I can't shake the feeling that she's not the one. I know I'm young and so is she, and being my first girlfriend this is probably a pretty generic case. I don't know why I feel this way which is why the prospect of breaking up is so hard, I'd want to give her a reason other than \"I just don't feel the same\"!\n\nOne thing that does bug me is the fact that she says she loves me SO much, like, at least 2-3 times an hour when we're together. I feel like she doesn't trust that I'll say it back? I also feel sometimes that she wants to keep me for the company, as she doesn't have many friends (she wouldn't have any trouble getting any if she put herself out there a bit more) of her own and is often alone in her flat. I, on the other hand have no problems being by myself for a length of time. \n\nOh, and I'm moving to Sydney for 5 months in 8 weeks or so.\n\nI feel like I'm answering some of my own questions simply by typing my thoughts out here, but I'd much appreciate other people's opinions.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is kind, loving, sweet, really hot etc and tells me she loves me all the time, but I can't shake the feeling that she's not the one. I know I'm young and so is she, and being my first girlfriend this is probably a pretty generic case. I don't know why I feel this way which is why the prospect of breaking up is so hard, I'd want to give her a reason other than \"I just don't feel the same\"!\n\nOne thing that does bug me is the fact that she says she loves me SO much, like, at least 2-3 times an hour when we're together. I feel like she doesn't trust that I'll say it back? I also feel sometimes that she wants to keep me for the company, as she doesn't have many friends (she wouldn't have any trouble getting any if she put herself out there a bit more) of her own and is often alone in her flat. I, on the other hand have no problems being by myself for a length of time. \n\nOh, and I'm moving to Sydney for 5 months in 8 weeks or so.\n\nI feel like I'm answering some of my own questions simply by typing my thoughts out here, but I'd much appreciate other people's opinions.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend is kind, loving, sweet, really hot etc and tells me she loves me all the time, but I can't shake the feeling that she's not the one. I know I'm young and so is she, and being my first girlfriend this is probably a pretty generic case. I don't know why I feel this way which is why the prospect of breaking up is so hard, I'd want to give her a reason other than \"I just don't feel the same\"!\n\nOne thing that does bug me is the fact that she says she loves me SO much, like, at least 2-3 times an hour when we're together. I feel like she doesn't trust that I'll say it back? I also feel sometimes that she wants to keep me for the company, as she doesn't have many friends (she wouldn't have any trouble getting any if she put herself out there a bit more) of her own and is often alone in her flat. I, on the other hand have no problems being by myself for a length of time. \n\nOh, and I'm moving to Sydney for 5 months in 8 weeks or so.\n\nI feel like I'm answering some of my own questions simply by typing my thoughts out here, but I'd much appreciate other people's opinions.\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background. We dated on and off for about a year. I'd been through two serious relationships before and feel I have a pretty good grasp on what I am looking for. After about six months of being apart but still great friends, she started dating my roommate's friend. A month in to them dating, I came to realize what an idiot I had been and asked her to take me back. It didn't go well and now we aren't even friends. I know I brought this on myself but I've never met anyone like her and can't see myself finding anyone more perfect for me. So please Reddit, give a guy some hope for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background. We dated on and off for about a year. I'd been through two serious relationships before and feel I have a pretty good grasp on what I am looking for. After about six months of being apart but still great friends, she started dating my roommate's friend. A month in to them dating, I came to realize what an idiot I had been and asked her to take me back. It didn't go well and now we aren't even friends. I know I brought this on myself but I've never met anyone like her and can't see myself finding anyone more perfect for me. So please Reddit, give a guy some hope for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background. We dated on and off for about a year. I'd been through two serious relationships before and feel I have a pretty good grasp on what I am looking for. After about six months of being apart but still great friends, she started dating my roommate's friend. A month in to them dating, I came to realize what an idiot I had been and asked her to take me back. It didn't go well and now we aren't even friends. I know I brought this on myself but I've never met anyone like her and can't see myself finding anyone more perfect for me. So please Reddit, give a guy some hope for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a year ago on the 28th I met the girl of my dreams. Everything was just fantastic, there was great chemistry, attraction, you name it it was there.\n\nFast forward 2 months (yes I know) I get my ass dumped for \"not showing her I was serious\". at the same time she she we might be moving fast. I was okay with her wanting to slow down. A kiss each night would have been enough, I didn't need sex. She left me and I've been devastated since. She said she needed time. I was waiting.\n\nI wasn't perfect though, I lied. When we first started talking I implied I had relationship and sexual history, I was tired of being laughed at for being a virgin by choice, yes it happened several times. So I let her think I had experience.\n\nI told her about this after she dumped me. It pissed her off so much and basically got to where she said \"I hate myself for letting you in\". Midsummer this was and then 2 weeks later she has a new bf. I guess she just needed time without me in the picture. That's fine, I messed this up and will have to try and live with that.\n\nMy question, how can I really get over her? I fell hard and fast. I've been living in this personal agony since March. I try and forget her, I try to tell myself if she was my one she wouldn't have let her ex's sins become problems I paid for. What should I do? Anything, everything, I just need to hear any advice. Because I can't figure it out myself."
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