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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I were on a date yesterday when she had to get something off her chest.\n\nShe said that I am not her second guy (sex) that shes been with. There were two others before me.\n\nShe wanted to be honest with me and I was hurt that she kept this the whole time. I thought we had open communication this whole time.\n\nI respect that she wanted to tell me but I would have either wanted to know from the beginning to know what I was getting myself into or just never know.\n\nI cried because it hurt when this whole time I thought we were each other second partner. \n\nShe had sex with 2 other guys in between her ex and me. she said she was angry and felt like giving up on dating until a mutual friend introduced us. \n\nShe keeps telling me that I am perfect for her and surprised that how I treat like no other guy before. Which I am glad at what i'm doing is right because before it was not appreciated. \n\nI feel like marrying her one day but this idk of our relationship will be the same. \n\nI want things to be the same before she told me. Like I wish I could forget about it.\n\nWhat to do? Did I overreacted?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I were on a date yesterday when she had to get something off her chest.\n\nShe said that I am not her second guy (sex) that shes been with. There were two others before me.\n\nShe wanted to be honest with me and I was hurt that she kept this the whole time. I thought we had open communication this whole time.\n\nI respect that she wanted to tell me but I would have either wanted to know from the beginning to know what I was getting myself into or just never know.\n\nI cried because it hurt when this whole time I thought we were each other second partner. \n\nShe had sex with 2 other guys in between her ex and me. she said she was angry and felt like giving up on dating until a mutual friend introduced us. \n\nShe keeps telling me that I am perfect for her and surprised that how I treat like no other guy before. Which I am glad at what i'm doing is right because before it was not appreciated. \n\nI feel like marrying her one day but this idk of our relationship will be the same. \n\nI want things to be the same before she told me. Like I wish I could forget about it.\n\nWhat to do? Did I overreacted?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I were on a date yesterday when she had to get something off her chest.\n\nShe said that I am not her second guy (sex) that shes been with. There were two others before me.\n\nShe wanted to be honest with me and I was hurt that she kept this the whole time. I thought we had open communication this whole time.\n\nI respect that she wanted to tell me but I would have either wanted to know from the beginning to know what I was getting myself into or just never know.\n\nI cried because it hurt when this whole time I thought we were each other second partner. \n\nShe had sex with 2 other guys in between her ex and me. she said she was angry and felt like giving up on dating until a mutual friend introduced us. \n\nShe keeps telling me that I am perfect for her and surprised that how I treat like no other guy before. Which I am glad at what i'm doing is right because before it was not appreciated. \n\nI feel like marrying her one day but this idk of our relationship will be the same. \n\nI want things to be the same before she told me. Like I wish I could forget about it.\n\nWhat to do? Did I overreacted?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. I'm a 20 years old male and I would love some advice, I'm sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to post this.\n\nI will start out with the background info.\nI recently got out of a long relationship and the reason it fell apart basiclly was that there was a rumor that said I hooked up with one of my closest friends which is a girl lets call her Emma. This never happend, both Emma and I got a lot of shit because of it in both our reletionships. My relationship failed when my GF was deadset that this rumor was the truth and cheated on me because of it as a sort of payback. I can not deny that there is a attraction between Emma and me, but we have never acted on it. Emma just got out her relationship aswell because she got tired of her BF being a douche about this rumor. \n\nThe problem\nEmma and I always sort of hanged out with other friends when we both had a partner. But I got a text from Emma tonight asking if we should hang out just the two of us tomorrow night playing video games, watching movies and drink some. This will propbably lead to us hooking up and I would not be far out by saying it will probably lead to sex aswell. I would also not be far out by saying this will lead us to becoming fuck friends aswell. While I can honstley say that I have fantasized about having sex with her, now that the opportunity has presented itself I'm not sure what to do. \nOne part of me wants to have sex with her and see how it is since it ruined my relationship and I wouldn't mind having her as a fuck friend(she is smoking hot). But another part of me wonders if this will make it akward to stay friends, I really treasure her as one of my best friends and I really don't want to lose her as my friend because of this. \n\nAnd that is my problem Reddit, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. I'm a 20 years old male and I would love some advice, I'm sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to post this.\n\nI will start out with the background info.\nI recently got out of a long relationship and the reason it fell apart basiclly was that there was a rumor that said I hooked up with one of my closest friends which is a girl lets call her Emma. This never happend, both Emma and I got a lot of shit because of it in both our reletionships. My relationship failed when my GF was deadset that this rumor was the truth and cheated on me because of it as a sort of payback. I can not deny that there is a attraction between Emma and me, but we have never acted on it. Emma just got out her relationship aswell because she got tired of her BF being a douche about this rumor. \n\nThe problem\nEmma and I always sort of hanged out with other friends when we both had a partner. But I got a text from Emma tonight asking if we should hang out just the two of us tomorrow night playing video games, watching movies and drink some. This will propbably lead to us hooking up and I would not be far out by saying it will probably lead to sex aswell. I would also not be far out by saying this will lead us to becoming fuck friends aswell. While I can honstley say that I have fantasized about having sex with her, now that the opportunity has presented itself I'm not sure what to do. \nOne part of me wants to have sex with her and see how it is since it ruined my relationship and I wouldn't mind having her as a fuck friend(she is smoking hot). But another part of me wonders if this will make it akward to stay friends, I really treasure her as one of my best friends and I really don't want to lose her as my friend because of this. \n\nAnd that is my problem Reddit, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. I'm a 20 years old male and I would love some advice, I'm sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to post this.\n\nI will start out with the background info.\nI recently got out of a long relationship and the reason it fell apart basiclly was that there was a rumor that said I hooked up with one of my closest friends which is a girl lets call her Emma. This never happend, both Emma and I got a lot of shit because of it in both our reletionships. My relationship failed when my GF was deadset that this rumor was the truth and cheated on me because of it as a sort of payback. I can not deny that there is a attraction between Emma and me, but we have never acted on it. Emma just got out her relationship aswell because she got tired of her BF being a douche about this rumor. \n\nThe problem\nEmma and I always sort of hanged out with other friends when we both had a partner. But I got a text from Emma tonight asking if we should hang out just the two of us tomorrow night playing video games, watching movies and drink some. This will propbably lead to us hooking up and I would not be far out by saying it will probably lead to sex aswell. I would also not be far out by saying this will lead us to becoming fuck friends aswell. While I can honstley say that I have fantasized about having sex with her, now that the opportunity has presented itself I'm not sure what to do. \nOne part of me wants to have sex with her and see how it is since it ruined my relationship and I wouldn't mind having her as a fuck friend(she is smoking hot). But another part of me wonders if this will make it akward to stay friends, I really treasure her as one of my best friends and I really don't want to lose her as my friend because of this. \n\nAnd that is my problem Reddit, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. I'm a 20 years old male and I would love some advice, I'm sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to post this.\n\nI will start out with the background info.\nI recently got out of a long relationship and the reason it fell apart basiclly was that there was a rumor that said I hooked up with one of my closest friends which is a girl lets call her Emma. This never happend, both Emma and I got a lot of shit because of it in both our reletionships. My relationship failed when my GF was deadset that this rumor was the truth and cheated on me because of it as a sort of payback. I can not deny that there is a attraction between Emma and me, but we have never acted on it. Emma just got out her relationship aswell because she got tired of her BF being a douche about this rumor. \n\nThe problem\nEmma and I always sort of hanged out with other friends when we both had a partner. But I got a text from Emma tonight asking if we should hang out just the two of us tomorrow night playing video games, watching movies and drink some. This will propbably lead to us hooking up and I would not be far out by saying it will probably lead to sex aswell. I would also not be far out by saying this will lead us to becoming fuck friends aswell. While I can honstley say that I have fantasized about having sex with her, now that the opportunity has presented itself I'm not sure what to do. \nOne part of me wants to have sex with her and see how it is since it ruined my relationship and I wouldn't mind having her as a fuck friend(she is smoking hot). But another part of me wonders if this will make it akward to stay friends, I really treasure her as one of my best friends and I really don't want to lose her as my friend because of this. \n\nAnd that is my problem Reddit, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. I'm a 20 years old male and I would love some advice, I'm sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to post this.\n\nI will start out with the background info.\nI recently got out of a long relationship and the reason it fell apart basiclly was that there was a rumor that said I hooked up with one of my closest friends which is a girl lets call her Emma. This never happend, both Emma and I got a lot of shit because of it in both our reletionships. My relationship failed when my GF was deadset that this rumor was the truth and cheated on me because of it as a sort of payback. I can not deny that there is a attraction between Emma and me, but we have never acted on it. Emma just got out her relationship aswell because she got tired of her BF being a douche about this rumor. \n\nThe problem\nEmma and I always sort of hanged out with other friends when we both had a partner. But I got a text from Emma tonight asking if we should hang out just the two of us tomorrow night playing video games, watching movies and drink some. This will propbably lead to us hooking up and I would not be far out by saying it will probably lead to sex aswell. I would also not be far out by saying this will lead us to becoming fuck friends aswell. While I can honstley say that I have fantasized about having sex with her, now that the opportunity has presented itself I'm not sure what to do. \nOne part of me wants to have sex with her and see how it is since it ruined my relationship and I wouldn't mind having her as a fuck friend(she is smoking hot). But another part of me wonders if this will make it akward to stay friends, I really treasure her as one of my best friends and I really don't want to lose her as my friend because of this. \n\nAnd that is my problem Reddit, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. I'm a 20 years old male and I would love some advice, I'm sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to post this.\n\nI will start out with the background info.\nI recently got out of a long relationship and the reason it fell apart basiclly was that there was a rumor that said I hooked up with one of my closest friends which is a girl lets call her Emma. This never happend, both Emma and I got a lot of shit because of it in both our reletionships. My relationship failed when my GF was deadset that this rumor was the truth and cheated on me because of it as a sort of payback. I can not deny that there is a attraction between Emma and me, but we have never acted on it. Emma just got out her relationship aswell because she got tired of her BF being a douche about this rumor. \n\nThe problem\nEmma and I always sort of hanged out with other friends when we both had a partner. But I got a text from Emma tonight asking if we should hang out just the two of us tomorrow night playing video games, watching movies and drink some. This will propbably lead to us hooking up and I would not be far out by saying it will probably lead to sex aswell. I would also not be far out by saying this will lead us to becoming fuck friends aswell. While I can honstley say that I have fantasized about having sex with her, now that the opportunity has presented itself I'm not sure what to do. \nOne part of me wants to have sex with her and see how it is since it ruined my relationship and I wouldn't mind having her as a fuck friend(she is smoking hot). But another part of me wonders if this will make it akward to stay friends, I really treasure her as one of my best friends and I really don't want to lose her as my friend because of this. \n\nAnd that is my problem Reddit, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post: \n\nI ended up telling her I was in love with her. I literally opened my mouth five times over a span of an hour to say it, but I couldn't. Nothing would come out. She had no idea it was coming and was totally caught off guard. Of course after I left, I got on the bus an hour later and she was right there -_-. Anyways, it was awkward for about 2-3 weeks.\n\nWe started to get back to normal at about the start of March, and on St. Patrick's day, with both of us very wasted, she tried to fuck me. I somehow stopped her (I was nearly blackout but I sobered up for this) and lots of making out/cuddling happened for the next month. No sex, though. She was worried it would ruin our friendship. \n\nThen mid-April we went out to a party and both blacked. I came to while I was mid-fuck with her, but at that point I decided to just go with it cuz the deed was done. After about 2 weeks of sneaking around and fucking, she very awkwardly asked to date me while I was mid-stroke inside of her. We talked and now we have been dating for five months strong. \n\nThanks reddit :)!\n\nSpecial thanks to Fubar904; his advice helped me the most."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post: \n\nI ended up telling her I was in love with her. I literally opened my mouth five times over a span of an hour to say it, but I couldn't. Nothing would come out. She had no idea it was coming and was totally caught off guard. Of course after I left, I got on the bus an hour later and she was right there -_-. Anyways, it was awkward for about 2-3 weeks.\n\nWe started to get back to normal at about the start of March, and on St. Patrick's day, with both of us very wasted, she tried to fuck me. I somehow stopped her (I was nearly blackout but I sobered up for this) and lots of making out/cuddling happened for the next month. No sex, though. She was worried it would ruin our friendship. \n\nThen mid-April we went out to a party and both blacked. I came to while I was mid-fuck with her, but at that point I decided to just go with it cuz the deed was done. After about 2 weeks of sneaking around and fucking, she very awkwardly asked to date me while I was mid-stroke inside of her. We talked and now we have been dating for five months strong. \n\nThanks reddit :)!\n\nSpecial thanks to Fubar904; his advice helped me the most."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Previous post: \n\nI ended up telling her I was in love with her. I literally opened my mouth five times over a span of an hour to say it, but I couldn't. Nothing would come out. She had no idea it was coming and was totally caught off guard. Of course after I left, I got on the bus an hour later and she was right there -_-. Anyways, it was awkward for about 2-3 weeks.\n\nWe started to get back to normal at about the start of March, and on St. Patrick's day, with both of us very wasted, she tried to fuck me. I somehow stopped her (I was nearly blackout but I sobered up for this) and lots of making out/cuddling happened for the next month. No sex, though. She was worried it would ruin our friendship. \n\nThen mid-April we went out to a party and both blacked. I came to while I was mid-fuck with her, but at that point I decided to just go with it cuz the deed was done. After about 2 weeks of sneaking around and fucking, she very awkwardly asked to date me while I was mid-stroke inside of her. We talked and now we have been dating for five months strong. \n\nThanks reddit :)!\n\nSpecial thanks to Fubar904; his advice helped me the most."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Boy x (me) and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. We had an \"off and back on\" time abkut a year ago (relevant later). Boy and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend (labor day) as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments.\n\nBoy y lives 4-5hours from girl x. They are friends. boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc, while sleeping on girl X's couch. Boy y and girl x dated once during the \"off and on time\" but nothing came of it. Communication between girl x and boy y is roughly equivalent to boy x, maybe a little less (I mean, they are like 52 days in a row on Snapchat last I saw). Communication with boy x has dropped to almost nothing since (when I assume he got there, idk cus she never told me) boy y arrived. \n\nIs Boy X screwed?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Boy x (me) and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. We had an \"off and back on\" time abkut a year ago (relevant later). Boy and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend (labor day) as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments.\n\nBoy y lives 4-5hours from girl x. They are friends. boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc, while sleeping on girl X's couch. Boy y and girl x dated once during the \"off and on time\" but nothing came of it. Communication between girl x and boy y is roughly equivalent to boy x, maybe a little less (I mean, they are like 52 days in a row on Snapchat last I saw). Communication with boy x has dropped to almost nothing since (when I assume he got there, idk cus she never told me) boy y arrived. \n\nIs Boy X screwed?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Boy x (me) and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. We had an \"off and back on\" time abkut a year ago (relevant later). Boy and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend (labor day) as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments.\n\nBoy y lives 4-5hours from girl x. They are friends. boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc, while sleeping on girl X's couch. Boy y and girl x dated once during the \"off and on time\" but nothing came of it. Communication between girl x and boy y is roughly equivalent to boy x, maybe a little less (I mean, they are like 52 days in a row on Snapchat last I saw). Communication with boy x has dropped to almost nothing since (when I assume he got there, idk cus she never told me) boy y arrived. \n\nIs Boy X screwed?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Boy x (me) and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. We had an \"off and back on\" time abkut a year ago (relevant later). Boy and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend (labor day) as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments.\n\nBoy y lives 4-5hours from girl x. They are friends. boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc, while sleeping on girl X's couch. Boy y and girl x dated once during the \"off and on time\" but nothing came of it. Communication between girl x and boy y is roughly equivalent to boy x, maybe a little less (I mean, they are like 52 days in a row on Snapchat last I saw). Communication with boy x has dropped to almost nothing since (when I assume he got there, idk cus she never told me) boy y arrived. \n\nIs Boy X screwed?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Boy x (me) and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. We had an \"off and back on\" time abkut a year ago (relevant later). Boy and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend (labor day) as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments.\n\nBoy y lives 4-5hours from girl x. They are friends. boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc, while sleeping on girl X's couch. Boy y and girl x dated once during the \"off and on time\" but nothing came of it. Communication between girl x and boy y is roughly equivalent to boy x, maybe a little less (I mean, they are like 52 days in a row on Snapchat last I saw). Communication with boy x has dropped to almost nothing since (when I assume he got there, idk cus she never told me) boy y arrived. \n\nIs Boy X screwed?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Boy x (me) and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. We had an \"off and back on\" time abkut a year ago (relevant later). Boy and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend (labor day) as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments.\n\nBoy y lives 4-5hours from girl x. They are friends. boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc, while sleeping on girl X's couch. Boy y and girl x dated once during the \"off and on time\" but nothing came of it. Communication between girl x and boy y is roughly equivalent to boy x, maybe a little less (I mean, they are like 52 days in a row on Snapchat last I saw). Communication with boy x has dropped to almost nothing since (when I assume he got there, idk cus she never told me) boy y arrived. \n\nIs Boy X screwed?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I (24 and 25) bought an investment property recently in a C neighborhood in Philadelphia. Costs 70k, piti is 489, and we collect 1250 a month in rent. So were cash flowing pretty damn well, have had no problems getting rent, and besides a bed bug issue no maintenance issues. \n\nWell, on Sunday, we went out with my fiancees grandparents for lunch. They are old, wealthy wasps. on the ride up, my fiancee's mom mentioned that the last time she went out to lunch with them (with two other members of their family) her grandpa had a fit about our rental property. \n\n He was amazed that my fiancees parents would \"let us\" buy a property in Port Richmond (the neighborhood in philly), that it was a crime infested hell hole and that we were in over our heads. The other two family members had to calm him down apparently, as they both were more familiar with Port richmond and knew that while its not the Hamptons, its not a horrible place and has started gentrifying. \n\nMy main issue is the fact that her grandpa was essentially attacking a decision that we had both heavily researched, and has been working out fine, without either of us present to defend it, or give him the concrete facts. Actually i'm having a hard time figuring out how that even came up without us there. Am I over reacting or is he crossing a line?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I (24 and 25) bought an investment property recently in a C neighborhood in Philadelphia. Costs 70k, piti is 489, and we collect 1250 a month in rent. So were cash flowing pretty damn well, have had no problems getting rent, and besides a bed bug issue no maintenance issues. \n\nWell, on Sunday, we went out with my fiancees grandparents for lunch. They are old, wealthy wasps. on the ride up, my fiancee's mom mentioned that the last time she went out to lunch with them (with two other members of their family) her grandpa had a fit about our rental property. \n\n He was amazed that my fiancees parents would \"let us\" buy a property in Port Richmond (the neighborhood in philly), that it was a crime infested hell hole and that we were in over our heads. The other two family members had to calm him down apparently, as they both were more familiar with Port richmond and knew that while its not the Hamptons, its not a horrible place and has started gentrifying. \n\nMy main issue is the fact that her grandpa was essentially attacking a decision that we had both heavily researched, and has been working out fine, without either of us present to defend it, or give him the concrete facts. Actually i'm having a hard time figuring out how that even came up without us there. Am I over reacting or is he crossing a line?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee and I (24 and 25) bought an investment property recently in a C neighborhood in Philadelphia. Costs 70k, piti is 489, and we collect 1250 a month in rent. So were cash flowing pretty damn well, have had no problems getting rent, and besides a bed bug issue no maintenance issues. \n\nWell, on Sunday, we went out with my fiancees grandparents for lunch. They are old, wealthy wasps. on the ride up, my fiancee's mom mentioned that the last time she went out to lunch with them (with two other members of their family) her grandpa had a fit about our rental property. \n\n He was amazed that my fiancees parents would \"let us\" buy a property in Port Richmond (the neighborhood in philly), that it was a crime infested hell hole and that we were in over our heads. The other two family members had to calm him down apparently, as they both were more familiar with Port richmond and knew that while its not the Hamptons, its not a horrible place and has started gentrifying. \n\nMy main issue is the fact that her grandpa was essentially attacking a decision that we had both heavily researched, and has been working out fine, without either of us present to defend it, or give him the concrete facts. Actually i'm having a hard time figuring out how that even came up without us there. Am I over reacting or is he crossing a line?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My grandmother suffered through the depression, and her entire life never borrowing so much as a dime from anyone. She built her life from the bottom up. She eventually became a published author as the housewife of a social security employee in a time when women were not expected to break the post-war stereotypes. Her husband of 50+ years died in 1996. The last few years she suffered crushing illness and was placed in a nursing home by her daughters. Today I found out her wedding ring was stolen off her finger. She is immobile and pitiful. I can't decide whether I am more angry or depressed that someone would stoop so low as to steal the wedding ring off of a defenseless crippled old lady with no possessions of value in her life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My grandmother suffered through the depression, and her entire life never borrowing so much as a dime from anyone. She built her life from the bottom up. She eventually became a published author as the housewife of a social security employee in a time when women were not expected to break the post-war stereotypes. Her husband of 50+ years died in 1996. The last few years she suffered crushing illness and was placed in a nursing home by her daughters. Today I found out her wedding ring was stolen off her finger. She is immobile and pitiful. I can't decide whether I am more angry or depressed that someone would stoop so low as to steal the wedding ring off of a defenseless crippled old lady with no possessions of value in her life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current g/f (she is 24) of 5 years and I (am 28 turn 29 in Jan) are living together. She works in the financial business at a call center and I work at a engineering company designing and building plants. I am a recent grad and got a job here in the town she grew up in and where we both went to college. We have been talking and I told her at some point I will prob wind up in the field or will move to a job site for awhile to gain experience to advance. She straight up said if your career means that much to you then go. She refuses to leave our area b/c of family. I then asked what if I go to field and come home every other weekend or every weekend if it is close enough (a bunch of people do that in our office) and she said no, she doesn't do long distance relationships. She called me selfish and I should want to be with her. I tried to explain at some point I will need to go to advance my career and I cant work at the same job and the same area my entire life and her response was just find another job in the area. She responded we can't just get married and buy/build a house and just turn around and sell it, that it makes no sense we might as just rent. I am not looking to move nor do I want to really atm. If I do I want to come back to the area eventually. I just feel if the opportunity for a better job or good experience was come along in a different area i should be able to take it or at least discuss the options at the time and have the ability to maybe take it but she is basically say no now. I know it is kind of hard to play the what if game but feel this is something we would talk about before we think of marriage which i have been thinking about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current g/f (she is 24) of 5 years and I (am 28 turn 29 in Jan) are living together. She works in the financial business at a call center and I work at a engineering company designing and building plants. I am a recent grad and got a job here in the town she grew up in and where we both went to college. We have been talking and I told her at some point I will prob wind up in the field or will move to a job site for awhile to gain experience to advance. She straight up said if your career means that much to you then go. She refuses to leave our area b/c of family. I then asked what if I go to field and come home every other weekend or every weekend if it is close enough (a bunch of people do that in our office) and she said no, she doesn't do long distance relationships. She called me selfish and I should want to be with her. I tried to explain at some point I will need to go to advance my career and I cant work at the same job and the same area my entire life and her response was just find another job in the area. She responded we can't just get married and buy/build a house and just turn around and sell it, that it makes no sense we might as just rent. I am not looking to move nor do I want to really atm. If I do I want to come back to the area eventually. I just feel if the opportunity for a better job or good experience was come along in a different area i should be able to take it or at least discuss the options at the time and have the ability to maybe take it but she is basically say no now. I know it is kind of hard to play the what if game but feel this is something we would talk about before we think of marriage which i have been thinking about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current g/f (she is 24) of 5 years and I (am 28 turn 29 in Jan) are living together. She works in the financial business at a call center and I work at a engineering company designing and building plants. I am a recent grad and got a job here in the town she grew up in and where we both went to college. We have been talking and I told her at some point I will prob wind up in the field or will move to a job site for awhile to gain experience to advance. She straight up said if your career means that much to you then go. She refuses to leave our area b/c of family. I then asked what if I go to field and come home every other weekend or every weekend if it is close enough (a bunch of people do that in our office) and she said no, she doesn't do long distance relationships. She called me selfish and I should want to be with her. I tried to explain at some point I will need to go to advance my career and I cant work at the same job and the same area my entire life and her response was just find another job in the area. She responded we can't just get married and buy/build a house and just turn around and sell it, that it makes no sense we might as just rent. I am not looking to move nor do I want to really atm. If I do I want to come back to the area eventually. I just feel if the opportunity for a better job or good experience was come along in a different area i should be able to take it or at least discuss the options at the time and have the ability to maybe take it but she is basically say no now. I know it is kind of hard to play the what if game but feel this is something we would talk about before we think of marriage which i have been thinking about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current g/f (she is 24) of 5 years and I (am 28 turn 29 in Jan) are living together. She works in the financial business at a call center and I work at a engineering company designing and building plants. I am a recent grad and got a job here in the town she grew up in and where we both went to college. We have been talking and I told her at some point I will prob wind up in the field or will move to a job site for awhile to gain experience to advance. She straight up said if your career means that much to you then go. She refuses to leave our area b/c of family. I then asked what if I go to field and come home every other weekend or every weekend if it is close enough (a bunch of people do that in our office) and she said no, she doesn't do long distance relationships. She called me selfish and I should want to be with her. I tried to explain at some point I will need to go to advance my career and I cant work at the same job and the same area my entire life and her response was just find another job in the area. She responded we can't just get married and buy/build a house and just turn around and sell it, that it makes no sense we might as just rent. I am not looking to move nor do I want to really atm. If I do I want to come back to the area eventually. I just feel if the opportunity for a better job or good experience was come along in a different area i should be able to take it or at least discuss the options at the time and have the ability to maybe take it but she is basically say no now. I know it is kind of hard to play the what if game but feel this is something we would talk about before we think of marriage which i have been thinking about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current g/f (she is 24) of 5 years and I (am 28 turn 29 in Jan) are living together. She works in the financial business at a call center and I work at a engineering company designing and building plants. I am a recent grad and got a job here in the town she grew up in and where we both went to college. We have been talking and I told her at some point I will prob wind up in the field or will move to a job site for awhile to gain experience to advance. She straight up said if your career means that much to you then go. She refuses to leave our area b/c of family. I then asked what if I go to field and come home every other weekend or every weekend if it is close enough (a bunch of people do that in our office) and she said no, she doesn't do long distance relationships. She called me selfish and I should want to be with her. I tried to explain at some point I will need to go to advance my career and I cant work at the same job and the same area my entire life and her response was just find another job in the area. She responded we can't just get married and buy/build a house and just turn around and sell it, that it makes no sense we might as just rent. I am not looking to move nor do I want to really atm. If I do I want to come back to the area eventually. I just feel if the opportunity for a better job or good experience was come along in a different area i should be able to take it or at least discuss the options at the time and have the ability to maybe take it but she is basically say no now. I know it is kind of hard to play the what if game but feel this is something we would talk about before we think of marriage which i have been thinking about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My current g/f (she is 24) of 5 years and I (am 28 turn 29 in Jan) are living together. She works in the financial business at a call center and I work at a engineering company designing and building plants. I am a recent grad and got a job here in the town she grew up in and where we both went to college. We have been talking and I told her at some point I will prob wind up in the field or will move to a job site for awhile to gain experience to advance. She straight up said if your career means that much to you then go. She refuses to leave our area b/c of family. I then asked what if I go to field and come home every other weekend or every weekend if it is close enough (a bunch of people do that in our office) and she said no, she doesn't do long distance relationships. She called me selfish and I should want to be with her. I tried to explain at some point I will need to go to advance my career and I cant work at the same job and the same area my entire life and her response was just find another job in the area. She responded we can't just get married and buy/build a house and just turn around and sell it, that it makes no sense we might as just rent. I am not looking to move nor do I want to really atm. If I do I want to come back to the area eventually. I just feel if the opportunity for a better job or good experience was come along in a different area i should be able to take it or at least discuss the options at the time and have the ability to maybe take it but she is basically say no now. I know it is kind of hard to play the what if game but feel this is something we would talk about before we think of marriage which i have been thinking about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: heres the catch. we are both working on associate degrees at a community college. her major is photography and i don't have a major established yet. she believes that by moving to california after she earns her degree will put her at better odds to get a job in photography. we are still two years away from earning our associates but she wants me to decide right now if i want to move with her or not. we have been dating for almost 8 month and apparently not wanting to move to cali due to my uneasy feelings about leaving my life is a deal breaker for our relationship. she is so certain that her life will take her to california that she wont allow for the possibility of ending up somewhere else. what should i do? i really love her but what about my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: heres the catch. we are both working on associate degrees at a community college. her major is photography and i don't have a major established yet. she believes that by moving to california after she earns her degree will put her at better odds to get a job in photography. we are still two years away from earning our associates but she wants me to decide right now if i want to move with her or not. we have been dating for almost 8 month and apparently not wanting to move to cali due to my uneasy feelings about leaving my life is a deal breaker for our relationship. she is so certain that her life will take her to california that she wont allow for the possibility of ending up somewhere else. what should i do? i really love her but what about my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met in freshman year (I was 18, she 17) as neighbors in our dorm. We lived together for several years (about 3) but at some point started to have our insecurities interfere with our relationship. Our friendship faced several set backs and pretty much fizzled out in a rather dramatic fashion. At first this was okay. I was angry and couldn't communicate or forgive. At the time I didn't want to acknowledge that I had made mistakes too. \n\nA long while had gone by since I'd thought about her. I've been dealing with a lot and have kind of gone down this hermit path, I honestly have no friends in the city I live in. In my loneliness, the thoughts of our good times came to mind and I just started missing her so much. Now go to several days ago - I sent my friend an anonymous message on tumblr basically saying I loved them and always will. Of course this could be interpreted both as friendship-love or romantic, so this could have been unclear. A few messages later (still anonymous) it was basically said that she had realized who it was and that they had let it go (meaning our past problems). \n\nQUESTION: Now in my note I had hinted I wanted to rekindle our friendship so, should I take this 'all is forgiven' attitude as she is over the past and that's it- no chance; or, is the person over the past and open to something? Sorry that was pretty drawn out or if this all seems petty. It's just this person meant so much to me at one point. My feelings got hurt and I hurt their feelings, and then it was just done. Time has passed, making reconciliation that much more unlikely.\n\nAm I being delusional or weird for holding on to some memory of a person?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met in freshman year (I was 18, she 17) as neighbors in our dorm. We lived together for several years (about 3) but at some point started to have our insecurities interfere with our relationship. Our friendship faced several set backs and pretty much fizzled out in a rather dramatic fashion. At first this was okay. I was angry and couldn't communicate or forgive. At the time I didn't want to acknowledge that I had made mistakes too. \n\nA long while had gone by since I'd thought about her. I've been dealing with a lot and have kind of gone down this hermit path, I honestly have no friends in the city I live in. In my loneliness, the thoughts of our good times came to mind and I just started missing her so much. Now go to several days ago - I sent my friend an anonymous message on tumblr basically saying I loved them and always will. Of course this could be interpreted both as friendship-love or romantic, so this could have been unclear. A few messages later (still anonymous) it was basically said that she had realized who it was and that they had let it go (meaning our past problems). \n\nQUESTION: Now in my note I had hinted I wanted to rekindle our friendship so, should I take this 'all is forgiven' attitude as she is over the past and that's it- no chance; or, is the person over the past and open to something? Sorry that was pretty drawn out or if this all seems petty. It's just this person meant so much to me at one point. My feelings got hurt and I hurt their feelings, and then it was just done. Time has passed, making reconciliation that much more unlikely.\n\nAm I being delusional or weird for holding on to some memory of a person?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met in freshman year (I was 18, she 17) as neighbors in our dorm. We lived together for several years (about 3) but at some point started to have our insecurities interfere with our relationship. Our friendship faced several set backs and pretty much fizzled out in a rather dramatic fashion. At first this was okay. I was angry and couldn't communicate or forgive. At the time I didn't want to acknowledge that I had made mistakes too. \n\nA long while had gone by since I'd thought about her. I've been dealing with a lot and have kind of gone down this hermit path, I honestly have no friends in the city I live in. In my loneliness, the thoughts of our good times came to mind and I just started missing her so much. Now go to several days ago - I sent my friend an anonymous message on tumblr basically saying I loved them and always will. Of course this could be interpreted both as friendship-love or romantic, so this could have been unclear. A few messages later (still anonymous) it was basically said that she had realized who it was and that they had let it go (meaning our past problems). \n\nQUESTION: Now in my note I had hinted I wanted to rekindle our friendship so, should I take this 'all is forgiven' attitude as she is over the past and that's it- no chance; or, is the person over the past and open to something? Sorry that was pretty drawn out or if this all seems petty. It's just this person meant so much to me at one point. My feelings got hurt and I hurt their feelings, and then it was just done. Time has passed, making reconciliation that much more unlikely.\n\nAm I being delusional or weird for holding on to some memory of a person?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay well, not *leaving* leaving. I'm not very good with crowds- they make me incredibly anxious to the point where I'll have a panic attack. Knowing my husband will, at least, be there with me usually helps me feel more comfortable around crowds. I'll know a fair bit of people there, so it's not like I won't have anyone to talk to. It's just the sheer amount of people that makes me freak out. \n\nMy husband, however, doesn't understand this. He enjoys going from one set of people he likes to another, and usually in ways that would a) be impossible for me to follow him or b) make it very creepy if I were to try. He always tells me I should just try opening up and talking to people without him, but with the amount (even over 20 people) will start to make me nervous. \n\nI don't want to hinder him in any way, and I don't want to be a \"ball and chain\" to him. But I also feel like he's a little bit obligated to me as his wife to reassure me if I'm scared or anxious. What should I do? Is there a way of explaining this rationally, or am I just being unreasonable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay well, not *leaving* leaving. I'm not very good with crowds- they make me incredibly anxious to the point where I'll have a panic attack. Knowing my husband will, at least, be there with me usually helps me feel more comfortable around crowds. I'll know a fair bit of people there, so it's not like I won't have anyone to talk to. It's just the sheer amount of people that makes me freak out. \n\nMy husband, however, doesn't understand this. He enjoys going from one set of people he likes to another, and usually in ways that would a) be impossible for me to follow him or b) make it very creepy if I were to try. He always tells me I should just try opening up and talking to people without him, but with the amount (even over 20 people) will start to make me nervous. \n\nI don't want to hinder him in any way, and I don't want to be a \"ball and chain\" to him. But I also feel like he's a little bit obligated to me as his wife to reassure me if I'm scared or anxious. What should I do? Is there a way of explaining this rationally, or am I just being unreasonable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay well, not *leaving* leaving. I'm not very good with crowds- they make me incredibly anxious to the point where I'll have a panic attack. Knowing my husband will, at least, be there with me usually helps me feel more comfortable around crowds. I'll know a fair bit of people there, so it's not like I won't have anyone to talk to. It's just the sheer amount of people that makes me freak out. \n\nMy husband, however, doesn't understand this. He enjoys going from one set of people he likes to another, and usually in ways that would a) be impossible for me to follow him or b) make it very creepy if I were to try. He always tells me I should just try opening up and talking to people without him, but with the amount (even over 20 people) will start to make me nervous. \n\nI don't want to hinder him in any way, and I don't want to be a \"ball and chain\" to him. But I also feel like he's a little bit obligated to me as his wife to reassure me if I'm scared or anxious. What should I do? Is there a way of explaining this rationally, or am I just being unreasonable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every day of this week, I have pushed myself to increase my pace while doing the workout. I am running on a treadmill since I already have a gym membership so I can measure exactly how much faster I am going. I went from day 1 at 6.5 miles per hour to Day 2 at 6.7mph and then today all my run intervals were at 7mph. Even though each workout is the same, I found that this keeps it challenging instead of resorting back to the idea that its something I've already achieved.\n\nSo here's the unintended part: I have noticed that with my continued success in losing weight, dieting properly, and keeping to my exercise goals that my confidence in myself is going up. I know that is to be expected but its also effecting my ability to be better in other areas of my life that I never could stick with like my hygiene, my schedule, my budget, keeping in touch with people, etc etc. It's like seeing that when I am determined to do something I can achieve is pushing me to reassess those other things and know that I can improve them too. I get more enjoyment out of striving to be an all around better adult and improving myself now so I have seen much more improvement in all aspects of my life. It's a great feeling as there things have been nagging me for years."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every day of this week, I have pushed myself to increase my pace while doing the workout. I am running on a treadmill since I already have a gym membership so I can measure exactly how much faster I am going. I went from day 1 at 6.5 miles per hour to Day 2 at 6.7mph and then today all my run intervals were at 7mph. Even though each workout is the same, I found that this keeps it challenging instead of resorting back to the idea that its something I've already achieved.\n\nSo here's the unintended part: I have noticed that with my continued success in losing weight, dieting properly, and keeping to my exercise goals that my confidence in myself is going up. I know that is to be expected but its also effecting my ability to be better in other areas of my life that I never could stick with like my hygiene, my schedule, my budget, keeping in touch with people, etc etc. It's like seeing that when I am determined to do something I can achieve is pushing me to reassess those other things and know that I can improve them too. I get more enjoyment out of striving to be an all around better adult and improving myself now so I have seen much more improvement in all aspects of my life. It's a great feeling as there things have been nagging me for years."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every day of this week, I have pushed myself to increase my pace while doing the workout. I am running on a treadmill since I already have a gym membership so I can measure exactly how much faster I am going. I went from day 1 at 6.5 miles per hour to Day 2 at 6.7mph and then today all my run intervals were at 7mph. Even though each workout is the same, I found that this keeps it challenging instead of resorting back to the idea that its something I've already achieved.\n\nSo here's the unintended part: I have noticed that with my continued success in losing weight, dieting properly, and keeping to my exercise goals that my confidence in myself is going up. I know that is to be expected but its also effecting my ability to be better in other areas of my life that I never could stick with like my hygiene, my schedule, my budget, keeping in touch with people, etc etc. It's like seeing that when I am determined to do something I can achieve is pushing me to reassess those other things and know that I can improve them too. I get more enjoyment out of striving to be an all around better adult and improving myself now so I have seen much more improvement in all aspects of my life. It's a great feeling as there things have been nagging me for years."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We went a few days without talking at all so I finally ask him what's up. He keeps saying he can't explain it but he's sorry and that the fire is gone from the relationship. We meet up to talk about it in person and he says he lately has no sex drive, asks me why we need to have sex every time we hang out (2-3 times per week usually).\n\nThis made me feel really insecure and took my self-esteem down a notch but told him I wanted to fix it. His solution was to keep on doing everything else the same but just take a break from sex to see if that fixes things. I feel that there is an underlying issue with the relationship such as him just losing interest because we've been together for a while. So I suggested a break from seeing each other/talking entirely and see how it feels.\n\nOn my end it feels like shit. I want to call him just to talk about our day or to say I miss him. I don't want to sound pathetic or desperate to him. It gets a little easier each day so I'm wondering if I should break it off completely so there's no lingering hope of getting back together. That's the only way I see myself truly moving on.\n\nShould I stay in a relationship where he is confused about his feelings and physically uninterested? Or should I break things off and try to move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We went a few days without talking at all so I finally ask him what's up. He keeps saying he can't explain it but he's sorry and that the fire is gone from the relationship. We meet up to talk about it in person and he says he lately has no sex drive, asks me why we need to have sex every time we hang out (2-3 times per week usually).\n\nThis made me feel really insecure and took my self-esteem down a notch but told him I wanted to fix it. His solution was to keep on doing everything else the same but just take a break from sex to see if that fixes things. I feel that there is an underlying issue with the relationship such as him just losing interest because we've been together for a while. So I suggested a break from seeing each other/talking entirely and see how it feels.\n\nOn my end it feels like shit. I want to call him just to talk about our day or to say I miss him. I don't want to sound pathetic or desperate to him. It gets a little easier each day so I'm wondering if I should break it off completely so there's no lingering hope of getting back together. That's the only way I see myself truly moving on.\n\nShould I stay in a relationship where he is confused about his feelings and physically uninterested? Or should I break things off and try to move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We went a few days without talking at all so I finally ask him what's up. He keeps saying he can't explain it but he's sorry and that the fire is gone from the relationship. We meet up to talk about it in person and he says he lately has no sex drive, asks me why we need to have sex every time we hang out (2-3 times per week usually).\n\nThis made me feel really insecure and took my self-esteem down a notch but told him I wanted to fix it. His solution was to keep on doing everything else the same but just take a break from sex to see if that fixes things. I feel that there is an underlying issue with the relationship such as him just losing interest because we've been together for a while. So I suggested a break from seeing each other/talking entirely and see how it feels.\n\nOn my end it feels like shit. I want to call him just to talk about our day or to say I miss him. I don't want to sound pathetic or desperate to him. It gets a little easier each day so I'm wondering if I should break it off completely so there's no lingering hope of getting back together. That's the only way I see myself truly moving on.\n\nShould I stay in a relationship where he is confused about his feelings and physically uninterested? Or should I break things off and try to move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is a pro chef. During the last year, he has set up or rehauled the menus of several restaurants. In all of them he has introduced his favourite providers (there might be a different word for this in English; I'm talking about the companies who sell produce) because they offered the best service, price or quality. My husband has NEVER gotten any kickbacks from this: he really chooses the sellers he thinks are best and doesn't get a commission or gifts from them.\n\nOne of these sellers is located in the nearest market from our house, so we often buy from him for our own meals. During the last six weeks we have bought from him maybe seven times and out of those seven, three times he has refused to charge us and two other times he has undercharged us (one time he mentioned the discount and the other time he didn't, but I noticed). The first time we were fine with it because it was a small sale, but it's gotten to the point where both my husband and I are uncomfortable with this.\n\nWe have told the seller that he shouldn't keep refusing to charge us or we'll be too embarrassed and won't buy from him anymore, but he just laughs it off. I do not want to stop buying from him: his produce is the best in the market! But I don't want him to keep giving us free food. The worst part is that every time he gives us free stuff we feel obligated to go and make a big purchase from him so he'll charge us (he usually charges us for the big purchases, gives us the small purchases for free). \n\nI do not think this can have negative effects in my husband's job, but it's making us uncomfortable and the whole thing is a bit ridiculous. How can we make this guy understand that we really want him to charge us for all of our purchases?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is a pro chef. During the last year, he has set up or rehauled the menus of several restaurants. In all of them he has introduced his favourite providers (there might be a different word for this in English; I'm talking about the companies who sell produce) because they offered the best service, price or quality. My husband has NEVER gotten any kickbacks from this: he really chooses the sellers he thinks are best and doesn't get a commission or gifts from them.\n\nOne of these sellers is located in the nearest market from our house, so we often buy from him for our own meals. During the last six weeks we have bought from him maybe seven times and out of those seven, three times he has refused to charge us and two other times he has undercharged us (one time he mentioned the discount and the other time he didn't, but I noticed). The first time we were fine with it because it was a small sale, but it's gotten to the point where both my husband and I are uncomfortable with this.\n\nWe have told the seller that he shouldn't keep refusing to charge us or we'll be too embarrassed and won't buy from him anymore, but he just laughs it off. I do not want to stop buying from him: his produce is the best in the market! But I don't want him to keep giving us free food. The worst part is that every time he gives us free stuff we feel obligated to go and make a big purchase from him so he'll charge us (he usually charges us for the big purchases, gives us the small purchases for free). \n\nI do not think this can have negative effects in my husband's job, but it's making us uncomfortable and the whole thing is a bit ridiculous. How can we make this guy understand that we really want him to charge us for all of our purchases?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is a pro chef. During the last year, he has set up or rehauled the menus of several restaurants. In all of them he has introduced his favourite providers (there might be a different word for this in English; I'm talking about the companies who sell produce) because they offered the best service, price or quality. My husband has NEVER gotten any kickbacks from this: he really chooses the sellers he thinks are best and doesn't get a commission or gifts from them.\n\nOne of these sellers is located in the nearest market from our house, so we often buy from him for our own meals. During the last six weeks we have bought from him maybe seven times and out of those seven, three times he has refused to charge us and two other times he has undercharged us (one time he mentioned the discount and the other time he didn't, but I noticed). The first time we were fine with it because it was a small sale, but it's gotten to the point where both my husband and I are uncomfortable with this.\n\nWe have told the seller that he shouldn't keep refusing to charge us or we'll be too embarrassed and won't buy from him anymore, but he just laughs it off. I do not want to stop buying from him: his produce is the best in the market! But I don't want him to keep giving us free food. The worst part is that every time he gives us free stuff we feel obligated to go and make a big purchase from him so he'll charge us (he usually charges us for the big purchases, gives us the small purchases for free). \n\nI do not think this can have negative effects in my husband's job, but it's making us uncomfortable and the whole thing is a bit ridiculous. How can we make this guy understand that we really want him to charge us for all of our purchases?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is a pro chef. During the last year, he has set up or rehauled the menus of several restaurants. In all of them he has introduced his favourite providers (there might be a different word for this in English; I'm talking about the companies who sell produce) because they offered the best service, price or quality. My husband has NEVER gotten any kickbacks from this: he really chooses the sellers he thinks are best and doesn't get a commission or gifts from them.\n\nOne of these sellers is located in the nearest market from our house, so we often buy from him for our own meals. During the last six weeks we have bought from him maybe seven times and out of those seven, three times he has refused to charge us and two other times he has undercharged us (one time he mentioned the discount and the other time he didn't, but I noticed). The first time we were fine with it because it was a small sale, but it's gotten to the point where both my husband and I are uncomfortable with this.\n\nWe have told the seller that he shouldn't keep refusing to charge us or we'll be too embarrassed and won't buy from him anymore, but he just laughs it off. I do not want to stop buying from him: his produce is the best in the market! But I don't want him to keep giving us free food. The worst part is that every time he gives us free stuff we feel obligated to go and make a big purchase from him so he'll charge us (he usually charges us for the big purchases, gives us the small purchases for free). \n\nI do not think this can have negative effects in my husband's job, but it's making us uncomfortable and the whole thing is a bit ridiculous. How can we make this guy understand that we really want him to charge us for all of our purchases?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is a pro chef. During the last year, he has set up or rehauled the menus of several restaurants. In all of them he has introduced his favourite providers (there might be a different word for this in English; I'm talking about the companies who sell produce) because they offered the best service, price or quality. My husband has NEVER gotten any kickbacks from this: he really chooses the sellers he thinks are best and doesn't get a commission or gifts from them.\n\nOne of these sellers is located in the nearest market from our house, so we often buy from him for our own meals. During the last six weeks we have bought from him maybe seven times and out of those seven, three times he has refused to charge us and two other times he has undercharged us (one time he mentioned the discount and the other time he didn't, but I noticed). The first time we were fine with it because it was a small sale, but it's gotten to the point where both my husband and I are uncomfortable with this.\n\nWe have told the seller that he shouldn't keep refusing to charge us or we'll be too embarrassed and won't buy from him anymore, but he just laughs it off. I do not want to stop buying from him: his produce is the best in the market! But I don't want him to keep giving us free food. The worst part is that every time he gives us free stuff we feel obligated to go and make a big purchase from him so he'll charge us (he usually charges us for the big purchases, gives us the small purchases for free). \n\nI do not think this can have negative effects in my husband's job, but it's making us uncomfortable and the whole thing is a bit ridiculous. How can we make this guy understand that we really want him to charge us for all of our purchases?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is a pro chef. During the last year, he has set up or rehauled the menus of several restaurants. In all of them he has introduced his favourite providers (there might be a different word for this in English; I'm talking about the companies who sell produce) because they offered the best service, price or quality. My husband has NEVER gotten any kickbacks from this: he really chooses the sellers he thinks are best and doesn't get a commission or gifts from them.\n\nOne of these sellers is located in the nearest market from our house, so we often buy from him for our own meals. During the last six weeks we have bought from him maybe seven times and out of those seven, three times he has refused to charge us and two other times he has undercharged us (one time he mentioned the discount and the other time he didn't, but I noticed). The first time we were fine with it because it was a small sale, but it's gotten to the point where both my husband and I are uncomfortable with this.\n\nWe have told the seller that he shouldn't keep refusing to charge us or we'll be too embarrassed and won't buy from him anymore, but he just laughs it off. I do not want to stop buying from him: his produce is the best in the market! But I don't want him to keep giving us free food. The worst part is that every time he gives us free stuff we feel obligated to go and make a big purchase from him so he'll charge us (he usually charges us for the big purchases, gives us the small purchases for free). \n\nI do not think this can have negative effects in my husband's job, but it's making us uncomfortable and the whole thing is a bit ridiculous. How can we make this guy understand that we really want him to charge us for all of our purchases?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There is no such legal contract as a marriage anymore. at all. You could \"marry\" ANY consenting adult, but it's just a personal thing. No religious (which i guess is where marriage originated)/legal consequences at all.\n\nNo marriage tax breaks for anyone. Divorce would be more like a normal break-up, just a decision to no longer be together.\n\nAn SO would not have claim to any of your stuff unless you signed a different contract saying so.\n\nAn SO would not be the guardian of your children unless you went through the appropriate legal channels, whatever they may be.\n\nAn SO would be included in your health insurance only if you purchased health insurance that included such an option.\n\nNote: alternate tax breaks could be introduced/reinforced. ex. a larger tax break for having a child dependent on you, but only legal guardians get it. everyone else in the marriage pays normal individual tax rates."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There is no such legal contract as a marriage anymore. at all. You could \"marry\" ANY consenting adult, but it's just a personal thing. No religious (which i guess is where marriage originated)/legal consequences at all.\n\nNo marriage tax breaks for anyone. Divorce would be more like a normal break-up, just a decision to no longer be together.\n\nAn SO would not have claim to any of your stuff unless you signed a different contract saying so.\n\nAn SO would not be the guardian of your children unless you went through the appropriate legal channels, whatever they may be.\n\nAn SO would be included in your health insurance only if you purchased health insurance that included such an option.\n\nNote: alternate tax breaks could be introduced/reinforced. ex. a larger tax break for having a child dependent on you, but only legal guardians get it. everyone else in the marriage pays normal individual tax rates."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There is no such legal contract as a marriage anymore. at all. You could \"marry\" ANY consenting adult, but it's just a personal thing. No religious (which i guess is where marriage originated)/legal consequences at all.\n\nNo marriage tax breaks for anyone. Divorce would be more like a normal break-up, just a decision to no longer be together.\n\nAn SO would not have claim to any of your stuff unless you signed a different contract saying so.\n\nAn SO would not be the guardian of your children unless you went through the appropriate legal channels, whatever they may be.\n\nAn SO would be included in your health insurance only if you purchased health insurance that included such an option.\n\nNote: alternate tax breaks could be introduced/reinforced. ex. a larger tax break for having a child dependent on you, but only legal guardians get it. everyone else in the marriage pays normal individual tax rates."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The main story that stuck with me involved my roommate and this guy that everyone in the band absolutely hated. For the life of me, I can't remember his name, so I'll call him \"Dave\". Dave apparently was an asshole to everyone and if there's anything to take away from this story, it's to not piss off band geeks.\n\nMy roommate's high school band was traveling by bus to a school in a different city for a competition. Dave had been messing with the people in band all week and as a band member himself, would be accompanying them to the competition. The bus ride was going to take around 4-5 hours and a group of trombone guys (including my roommate) decided it would be a great opportunity to get back at Dave. They sneaked into the band room, opened Dave's trombone case, and stole his mouthpiece.\n\nOne by one, the guys took turns jacking off into it. One of the them stuck it up his ass. Another pissed on it.\n\nThey made sure to wipe off the more obvious fluids, but didn't rinse the thing out. Instead, they stuck it back into Dave's case and watched as it was loaded into the storage section under the bus. There, the mouthpiece sat. Did I mention it was May? It was fucking May. For 5 hours, that mouthpiece sat roasting in shit and piss and semen like a fetish-loving prostitute in the trunk of a car. When the bus finally stopped, Dave took it out and played his trombone as if not a single thing was wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The main story that stuck with me involved my roommate and this guy that everyone in the band absolutely hated. For the life of me, I can't remember his name, so I'll call him \"Dave\". Dave apparently was an asshole to everyone and if there's anything to take away from this story, it's to not piss off band geeks.\n\nMy roommate's high school band was traveling by bus to a school in a different city for a competition. Dave had been messing with the people in band all week and as a band member himself, would be accompanying them to the competition. The bus ride was going to take around 4-5 hours and a group of trombone guys (including my roommate) decided it would be a great opportunity to get back at Dave. They sneaked into the band room, opened Dave's trombone case, and stole his mouthpiece.\n\nOne by one, the guys took turns jacking off into it. One of the them stuck it up his ass. Another pissed on it.\n\nThey made sure to wipe off the more obvious fluids, but didn't rinse the thing out. Instead, they stuck it back into Dave's case and watched as it was loaded into the storage section under the bus. There, the mouthpiece sat. Did I mention it was May? It was fucking May. For 5 hours, that mouthpiece sat roasting in shit and piss and semen like a fetish-loving prostitute in the trunk of a car. When the bus finally stopped, Dave took it out and played his trombone as if not a single thing was wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The main story that stuck with me involved my roommate and this guy that everyone in the band absolutely hated. For the life of me, I can't remember his name, so I'll call him \"Dave\". Dave apparently was an asshole to everyone and if there's anything to take away from this story, it's to not piss off band geeks.\n\nMy roommate's high school band was traveling by bus to a school in a different city for a competition. Dave had been messing with the people in band all week and as a band member himself, would be accompanying them to the competition. The bus ride was going to take around 4-5 hours and a group of trombone guys (including my roommate) decided it would be a great opportunity to get back at Dave. They sneaked into the band room, opened Dave's trombone case, and stole his mouthpiece.\n\nOne by one, the guys took turns jacking off into it. One of the them stuck it up his ass. Another pissed on it.\n\nThey made sure to wipe off the more obvious fluids, but didn't rinse the thing out. Instead, they stuck it back into Dave's case and watched as it was loaded into the storage section under the bus. There, the mouthpiece sat. Did I mention it was May? It was fucking May. For 5 hours, that mouthpiece sat roasting in shit and piss and semen like a fetish-loving prostitute in the trunk of a car. When the bus finally stopped, Dave took it out and played his trombone as if not a single thing was wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (21 f) have been living on my own for the last year in an apartment with some roommates. I am currently enrolled at a prestigious private college, and am maintaining a 3.7 GPA while I've been living out of a drawer at my boyfriend's place. He provides little distraction from my dream of graduating with my two bachelor degrees in a year and a half. I have been dating my boyfriend (22) for two years, and we have been discussing our future and the possibility of moving in together since November. He has asked me to pick out a ring, and I anticipate him asking me at any time.\nI come from an extremely conservative family (think \"Southern Belle\" mentality), and I knew I wouldn't be met with a hug and cheers. But while I was alone with my father for a four hour car ride yesterday, and he starting saying the most hurtful things to me. Like I said, I anticipated this. but now the pain I'm feeling is more so than I imagined :/ he said:\n- you learned nothing from the lessons I taught you as a child.\n- you don't know right from wrong.\n- you're being incredibly selfish (mom wants to help me decorate, but won't because she morally opposes the move).\n- he's just going to take advantage of you.\n- any man who is good enough for you will protect your reputation.\n- think of your grandparents.\n- you made a promise and now you're breaking it (he claims I promised that I wouldn't get engaged or married until I graduated, and he considers this the same thing. I don't remember that conversation in the least bit.\n\nAnyway Reddit. I just want an outside view of his comments. I'm very hurt and depressed that he's taken it so hard and is trying to give me a guilt trip. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (21 f) have been living on my own for the last year in an apartment with some roommates. I am currently enrolled at a prestigious private college, and am maintaining a 3.7 GPA while I've been living out of a drawer at my boyfriend's place. He provides little distraction from my dream of graduating with my two bachelor degrees in a year and a half. I have been dating my boyfriend (22) for two years, and we have been discussing our future and the possibility of moving in together since November. He has asked me to pick out a ring, and I anticipate him asking me at any time.\nI come from an extremely conservative family (think \"Southern Belle\" mentality), and I knew I wouldn't be met with a hug and cheers. But while I was alone with my father for a four hour car ride yesterday, and he starting saying the most hurtful things to me. Like I said, I anticipated this. but now the pain I'm feeling is more so than I imagined :/ he said:\n- you learned nothing from the lessons I taught you as a child.\n- you don't know right from wrong.\n- you're being incredibly selfish (mom wants to help me decorate, but won't because she morally opposes the move).\n- he's just going to take advantage of you.\n- any man who is good enough for you will protect your reputation.\n- think of your grandparents.\n- you made a promise and now you're breaking it (he claims I promised that I wouldn't get engaged or married until I graduated, and he considers this the same thing. I don't remember that conversation in the least bit.\n\nAnyway Reddit. I just want an outside view of his comments. I'm very hurt and depressed that he's taken it so hard and is trying to give me a guilt trip. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (21 f) have been living on my own for the last year in an apartment with some roommates. I am currently enrolled at a prestigious private college, and am maintaining a 3.7 GPA while I've been living out of a drawer at my boyfriend's place. He provides little distraction from my dream of graduating with my two bachelor degrees in a year and a half. I have been dating my boyfriend (22) for two years, and we have been discussing our future and the possibility of moving in together since November. He has asked me to pick out a ring, and I anticipate him asking me at any time.\nI come from an extremely conservative family (think \"Southern Belle\" mentality), and I knew I wouldn't be met with a hug and cheers. But while I was alone with my father for a four hour car ride yesterday, and he starting saying the most hurtful things to me. Like I said, I anticipated this. but now the pain I'm feeling is more so than I imagined :/ he said:\n- you learned nothing from the lessons I taught you as a child.\n- you don't know right from wrong.\n- you're being incredibly selfish (mom wants to help me decorate, but won't because she morally opposes the move).\n- he's just going to take advantage of you.\n- any man who is good enough for you will protect your reputation.\n- think of your grandparents.\n- you made a promise and now you're breaking it (he claims I promised that I wouldn't get engaged or married until I graduated, and he considers this the same thing. I don't remember that conversation in the least bit.\n\nAnyway Reddit. I just want an outside view of his comments. I'm very hurt and depressed that he's taken it so hard and is trying to give me a guilt trip. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (21 f) have been living on my own for the last year in an apartment with some roommates. I am currently enrolled at a prestigious private college, and am maintaining a 3.7 GPA while I've been living out of a drawer at my boyfriend's place. He provides little distraction from my dream of graduating with my two bachelor degrees in a year and a half. I have been dating my boyfriend (22) for two years, and we have been discussing our future and the possibility of moving in together since November. He has asked me to pick out a ring, and I anticipate him asking me at any time.\nI come from an extremely conservative family (think \"Southern Belle\" mentality), and I knew I wouldn't be met with a hug and cheers. But while I was alone with my father for a four hour car ride yesterday, and he starting saying the most hurtful things to me. Like I said, I anticipated this. but now the pain I'm feeling is more so than I imagined :/ he said:\n- you learned nothing from the lessons I taught you as a child.\n- you don't know right from wrong.\n- you're being incredibly selfish (mom wants to help me decorate, but won't because she morally opposes the move).\n- he's just going to take advantage of you.\n- any man who is good enough for you will protect your reputation.\n- think of your grandparents.\n- you made a promise and now you're breaking it (he claims I promised that I wouldn't get engaged or married until I graduated, and he considers this the same thing. I don't remember that conversation in the least bit.\n\nAnyway Reddit. I just want an outside view of his comments. I'm very hurt and depressed that he's taken it so hard and is trying to give me a guilt trip. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (21 f) have been living on my own for the last year in an apartment with some roommates. I am currently enrolled at a prestigious private college, and am maintaining a 3.7 GPA while I've been living out of a drawer at my boyfriend's place. He provides little distraction from my dream of graduating with my two bachelor degrees in a year and a half. I have been dating my boyfriend (22) for two years, and we have been discussing our future and the possibility of moving in together since November. He has asked me to pick out a ring, and I anticipate him asking me at any time.\nI come from an extremely conservative family (think \"Southern Belle\" mentality), and I knew I wouldn't be met with a hug and cheers. But while I was alone with my father for a four hour car ride yesterday, and he starting saying the most hurtful things to me. Like I said, I anticipated this. but now the pain I'm feeling is more so than I imagined :/ he said:\n- you learned nothing from the lessons I taught you as a child.\n- you don't know right from wrong.\n- you're being incredibly selfish (mom wants to help me decorate, but won't because she morally opposes the move).\n- he's just going to take advantage of you.\n- any man who is good enough for you will protect your reputation.\n- think of your grandparents.\n- you made a promise and now you're breaking it (he claims I promised that I wouldn't get engaged or married until I graduated, and he considers this the same thing. I don't remember that conversation in the least bit.\n\nAnyway Reddit. I just want an outside view of his comments. I'm very hurt and depressed that he's taken it so hard and is trying to give me a guilt trip. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Got a new job. Trained with co-worker, we're friends, he's cool. Hang out sometimes. Drink after work with other co-workers. Briefly think he likes me. No idea if he does. Don't really entertain the thought. \n\nWork there for 3 weeks, briefly see co-worker daily, always nice interactions.\n\nCo-worker invites me over to hang and stay the night. That sounds like code to me, so I mentioned I thought he was cool and that I'm not keen on staying the night because seeing other guy. Never brought up this guy before. Pretty personal to be sharing at work, my dating escapades. Co-worker must not have figured it out or stalked me online enough.\n\nCo-worker is sad. Short sentences, suggests we don't hang out. Feel like I did something wrong. Mention the convo is weird, we \"reset\" and he invites me over again. This time another friend of his is coming. I've met him, we all get along very well. So everything is fixed right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Got a new job. Trained with co-worker, we're friends, he's cool. Hang out sometimes. Drink after work with other co-workers. Briefly think he likes me. No idea if he does. Don't really entertain the thought. \n\nWork there for 3 weeks, briefly see co-worker daily, always nice interactions.\n\nCo-worker invites me over to hang and stay the night. That sounds like code to me, so I mentioned I thought he was cool and that I'm not keen on staying the night because seeing other guy. Never brought up this guy before. Pretty personal to be sharing at work, my dating escapades. Co-worker must not have figured it out or stalked me online enough.\n\nCo-worker is sad. Short sentences, suggests we don't hang out. Feel like I did something wrong. Mention the convo is weird, we \"reset\" and he invites me over again. This time another friend of his is coming. I've met him, we all get along very well. So everything is fixed right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I failed a math last semester, but just found out- today- that I have to take it immediately again. Summer classes start tomorrow.\n\nI already have summer classes to take, and am going to be doing the online math class before/after those. \n\nThe problem is an email I got:\n\n> I would like to have an on-line meeting on Tuesday, June 14 at 8:30 p.m. using my virtual office\n\nMy other summer classes don't last that long. I'd rather not spend another 9 hours on campus after that. I live off-campus, 30min commute on a good day. \n\nThe biggest thing is that my internet speeds are ass. Just, pure ass. It takes an hour to load a 20min youtube vid at 144p. [Speedtest.net says my internet is worse than 98% of the US.] It's a data softcap. I get 10G of the regular speeds (1mbps) a month. Once that 10 gigs of data is used, it's back to ass speeds.\n\nHowever, I do get unlimited internet from 12am-5am (which sometimes starts at 10:30? or 11? sometimes 3am?).\n\nThe local library closes at 8pm.\n\nI don't know what to do, or what to tell the professor."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I failed a math last semester, but just found out- today- that I have to take it immediately again. Summer classes start tomorrow.\n\nI already have summer classes to take, and am going to be doing the online math class before/after those. \n\nThe problem is an email I got:\n\n> I would like to have an on-line meeting on Tuesday, June 14 at 8:30 p.m. using my virtual office\n\nMy other summer classes don't last that long. I'd rather not spend another 9 hours on campus after that. I live off-campus, 30min commute on a good day. \n\nThe biggest thing is that my internet speeds are ass. Just, pure ass. It takes an hour to load a 20min youtube vid at 144p. [Speedtest.net says my internet is worse than 98% of the US.] It's a data softcap. I get 10G of the regular speeds (1mbps) a month. Once that 10 gigs of data is used, it's back to ass speeds.\n\nHowever, I do get unlimited internet from 12am-5am (which sometimes starts at 10:30? or 11? sometimes 3am?).\n\nThe local library closes at 8pm.\n\nI don't know what to do, or what to tell the professor."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I failed a math last semester, but just found out- today- that I have to take it immediately again. Summer classes start tomorrow.\n\nI already have summer classes to take, and am going to be doing the online math class before/after those. \n\nThe problem is an email I got:\n\n> I would like to have an on-line meeting on Tuesday, June 14 at 8:30 p.m. using my virtual office\n\nMy other summer classes don't last that long. I'd rather not spend another 9 hours on campus after that. I live off-campus, 30min commute on a good day. \n\nThe biggest thing is that my internet speeds are ass. Just, pure ass. It takes an hour to load a 20min youtube vid at 144p. [Speedtest.net says my internet is worse than 98% of the US.] It's a data softcap. I get 10G of the regular speeds (1mbps) a month. Once that 10 gigs of data is used, it's back to ass speeds.\n\nHowever, I do get unlimited internet from 12am-5am (which sometimes starts at 10:30? or 11? sometimes 3am?).\n\nThe local library closes at 8pm.\n\nI don't know what to do, or what to tell the professor."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know her almost 2 years now and we have been good friends.\n\nI recently told her how i feel about her, she just smiled and told me that she wanna talk with me about that after her trip to \"summer-splash\".\n\nI havnt seen her ever since then and we havnt chatted either.\n\nIm gonna meet her tomorrow at a birthday-party and i dont rly know how to react.\n\nShould I talk with her or just act like always(friends).\n\nI mean, i got this feeling that she likes me as well cause she just smiled and huged me. i generally thought that she likes me more as well"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know her almost 2 years now and we have been good friends.\n\nI recently told her how i feel about her, she just smiled and told me that she wanna talk with me about that after her trip to \"summer-splash\".\n\nI havnt seen her ever since then and we havnt chatted either.\n\nIm gonna meet her tomorrow at a birthday-party and i dont rly know how to react.\n\nShould I talk with her or just act like always(friends).\n\nI mean, i got this feeling that she likes me as well cause she just smiled and huged me. i generally thought that she likes me more as well"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know her almost 2 years now and we have been good friends.\n\nI recently told her how i feel about her, she just smiled and told me that she wanna talk with me about that after her trip to \"summer-splash\".\n\nI havnt seen her ever since then and we havnt chatted either.\n\nIm gonna meet her tomorrow at a birthday-party and i dont rly know how to react.\n\nShould I talk with her or just act like always(friends).\n\nI mean, i got this feeling that she likes me as well cause she just smiled and huged me. i generally thought that she likes me more as well"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know her almost 2 years now and we have been good friends.\n\nI recently told her how i feel about her, she just smiled and told me that she wanna talk with me about that after her trip to \"summer-splash\".\n\nI havnt seen her ever since then and we havnt chatted either.\n\nIm gonna meet her tomorrow at a birthday-party and i dont rly know how to react.\n\nShould I talk with her or just act like always(friends).\n\nI mean, i got this feeling that she likes me as well cause she just smiled and huged me. i generally thought that she likes me more as well"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know her almost 2 years now and we have been good friends.\n\nI recently told her how i feel about her, she just smiled and told me that she wanna talk with me about that after her trip to \"summer-splash\".\n\nI havnt seen her ever since then and we havnt chatted either.\n\nIm gonna meet her tomorrow at a birthday-party and i dont rly know how to react.\n\nShould I talk with her or just act like always(friends).\n\nI mean, i got this feeling that she likes me as well cause she just smiled and huged me. i generally thought that she likes me more as well"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know her almost 2 years now and we have been good friends.\n\nI recently told her how i feel about her, she just smiled and told me that she wanna talk with me about that after her trip to \"summer-splash\".\n\nI havnt seen her ever since then and we havnt chatted either.\n\nIm gonna meet her tomorrow at a birthday-party and i dont rly know how to react.\n\nShould I talk with her or just act like always(friends).\n\nI mean, i got this feeling that she likes me as well cause she just smiled and huged me. i generally thought that she likes me more as well"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A friend and I were talking about the Occupy Wall Street movement and the presence of business in government. After much back-and-forthing of ideals and motivations and background of the movement, he ending the conversation by saying:\n\n\"This is stupid anyways. What's the point of getting all up in arms over it? Protesting is not going to do anything at all. It's best to just let the government take its natural course and fall apart just like all the other governments. We're just regular people. We can't do anything\". \n\nThis, of course, spawned an entirely NEW argument, but it got me thinking.\n\n-Is this apathetic attitude popular among people? (I'm around college kids all day, so I'm in a bubble). \n-Is it better to let the government just \"run its course\"?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A friend and I were talking about the Occupy Wall Street movement and the presence of business in government. After much back-and-forthing of ideals and motivations and background of the movement, he ending the conversation by saying:\n\n\"This is stupid anyways. What's the point of getting all up in arms over it? Protesting is not going to do anything at all. It's best to just let the government take its natural course and fall apart just like all the other governments. We're just regular people. We can't do anything\". \n\nThis, of course, spawned an entirely NEW argument, but it got me thinking.\n\n-Is this apathetic attitude popular among people? (I'm around college kids all day, so I'm in a bubble). \n-Is it better to let the government just \"run its course\"?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A friend and I were talking about the Occupy Wall Street movement and the presence of business in government. After much back-and-forthing of ideals and motivations and background of the movement, he ending the conversation by saying:\n\n\"This is stupid anyways. What's the point of getting all up in arms over it? Protesting is not going to do anything at all. It's best to just let the government take its natural course and fall apart just like all the other governments. We're just regular people. We can't do anything\". \n\nThis, of course, spawned an entirely NEW argument, but it got me thinking.\n\n-Is this apathetic attitude popular among people? (I'm around college kids all day, so I'm in a bubble). \n-Is it better to let the government just \"run its course\"?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was a kid (6 years old) my grandpa went to America and brought me a teddy bear as a gift. I fell in love with him instantly and brought him everywhere I went. I had clothes for him (even some knitted by my mom). My parents even bought him a little backpack and I used to pack him the same stuff I packed in mine for school (little books labeled \"math\" and such). I used to think of him as my pal and everybody knew him at my school (even the teachers, and they also loved him). \n\nOne sad day, when I was 12, I went out to the swimming pool with my grandpa and on the way back I realized I didn't have him anymore. We frantically looked everywhere, but he was gone. We went back to the swimming pool but could not find him. I became a very sad little kid. I put some signs around the neighbourhood but people only laughed at me (which I can now understand a bit). The next 2 years, my mom and dad travelled to America as well (for family reasons) and looked for \"Sito\" (the teddy bear's name I invented) with no success. \n\nThe Christmas after, my grandpa, seeing me so sad, found a teddy bear which was similar (not really) and gave it to me with a letter from Santa saying that \"he (Sito) went to the North Pole to meet him (Santa) and to have a change of looks\". Of course I knew the truth but I appreciated my grandpa doing that for me. \n\nNowadays (I'm 28 now) I have (maybe not) got over it, but I still look in ebay every now and then just in case. Until it occured to me that maybe Reddit could help me. It's been more than 15 years but it's worth a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was a kid (6 years old) my grandpa went to America and brought me a teddy bear as a gift. I fell in love with him instantly and brought him everywhere I went. I had clothes for him (even some knitted by my mom). My parents even bought him a little backpack and I used to pack him the same stuff I packed in mine for school (little books labeled \"math\" and such). I used to think of him as my pal and everybody knew him at my school (even the teachers, and they also loved him). \n\nOne sad day, when I was 12, I went out to the swimming pool with my grandpa and on the way back I realized I didn't have him anymore. We frantically looked everywhere, but he was gone. We went back to the swimming pool but could not find him. I became a very sad little kid. I put some signs around the neighbourhood but people only laughed at me (which I can now understand a bit). The next 2 years, my mom and dad travelled to America as well (for family reasons) and looked for \"Sito\" (the teddy bear's name I invented) with no success. \n\nThe Christmas after, my grandpa, seeing me so sad, found a teddy bear which was similar (not really) and gave it to me with a letter from Santa saying that \"he (Sito) went to the North Pole to meet him (Santa) and to have a change of looks\". Of course I knew the truth but I appreciated my grandpa doing that for me. \n\nNowadays (I'm 28 now) I have (maybe not) got over it, but I still look in ebay every now and then just in case. Until it occured to me that maybe Reddit could help me. It's been more than 15 years but it's worth a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was a kid (6 years old) my grandpa went to America and brought me a teddy bear as a gift. I fell in love with him instantly and brought him everywhere I went. I had clothes for him (even some knitted by my mom). My parents even bought him a little backpack and I used to pack him the same stuff I packed in mine for school (little books labeled \"math\" and such). I used to think of him as my pal and everybody knew him at my school (even the teachers, and they also loved him). \n\nOne sad day, when I was 12, I went out to the swimming pool with my grandpa and on the way back I realized I didn't have him anymore. We frantically looked everywhere, but he was gone. We went back to the swimming pool but could not find him. I became a very sad little kid. I put some signs around the neighbourhood but people only laughed at me (which I can now understand a bit). The next 2 years, my mom and dad travelled to America as well (for family reasons) and looked for \"Sito\" (the teddy bear's name I invented) with no success. \n\nThe Christmas after, my grandpa, seeing me so sad, found a teddy bear which was similar (not really) and gave it to me with a letter from Santa saying that \"he (Sito) went to the North Pole to meet him (Santa) and to have a change of looks\". Of course I knew the truth but I appreciated my grandpa doing that for me. \n\nNowadays (I'm 28 now) I have (maybe not) got over it, but I still look in ebay every now and then just in case. Until it occured to me that maybe Reddit could help me. It's been more than 15 years but it's worth a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, first time post on here and I'm unsure how to handle myself.\n\nAbout last October (in 2013) I broke up with my long time girlfriend. We dated for about 6 years, throughout most of high school and a large portion of college. She was the first girl I dated and I really did care for her. I broke up with her because we were both abusive towards each other, physically (nothing extremely drastic but I have a scar on my arm because of her) and verbally.\n\nWe decided to stay friends after the break up and all seemed to be going well. However, I noticed that almost immediately (within like 2 weeks) after we broke up this guy she met from a club started hitting on her. She claims to have no attraction towards him but anyone with a pair of eyes can see there's a mutual attraction. Now I don't like this guy because he was hitting on her while we were still dating. I just got onto Facebook today to see her and a picture of him together celebrating his 21st birthday.\n\nI know I'm the one that broke it off and it's my fault for doing so, but I can't help but feel.betrayed? Is that normal? How should I handle myself? I feel like I want to punch something, as I still find myself caring for her, but that would only break my hand. I'm at a loss as to what to think/feel and I don't have anyone else around I can talk to about this. So, anyone have any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, first time post on here and I'm unsure how to handle myself.\n\nAbout last October (in 2013) I broke up with my long time girlfriend. We dated for about 6 years, throughout most of high school and a large portion of college. She was the first girl I dated and I really did care for her. I broke up with her because we were both abusive towards each other, physically (nothing extremely drastic but I have a scar on my arm because of her) and verbally.\n\nWe decided to stay friends after the break up and all seemed to be going well. However, I noticed that almost immediately (within like 2 weeks) after we broke up this guy she met from a club started hitting on her. She claims to have no attraction towards him but anyone with a pair of eyes can see there's a mutual attraction. Now I don't like this guy because he was hitting on her while we were still dating. I just got onto Facebook today to see her and a picture of him together celebrating his 21st birthday.\n\nI know I'm the one that broke it off and it's my fault for doing so, but I can't help but feel.betrayed? Is that normal? How should I handle myself? I feel like I want to punch something, as I still find myself caring for her, but that would only break my hand. I'm at a loss as to what to think/feel and I don't have anyone else around I can talk to about this. So, anyone have any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, first time post on here and I'm unsure how to handle myself.\n\nAbout last October (in 2013) I broke up with my long time girlfriend. We dated for about 6 years, throughout most of high school and a large portion of college. She was the first girl I dated and I really did care for her. I broke up with her because we were both abusive towards each other, physically (nothing extremely drastic but I have a scar on my arm because of her) and verbally.\n\nWe decided to stay friends after the break up and all seemed to be going well. However, I noticed that almost immediately (within like 2 weeks) after we broke up this guy she met from a club started hitting on her. She claims to have no attraction towards him but anyone with a pair of eyes can see there's a mutual attraction. Now I don't like this guy because he was hitting on her while we were still dating. I just got onto Facebook today to see her and a picture of him together celebrating his 21st birthday.\n\nI know I'm the one that broke it off and it's my fault for doing so, but I can't help but feel.betrayed? Is that normal? How should I handle myself? I feel like I want to punch something, as I still find myself caring for her, but that would only break my hand. I'm at a loss as to what to think/feel and I don't have anyone else around I can talk to about this. So, anyone have any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, first time post on here and I'm unsure how to handle myself.\n\nAbout last October (in 2013) I broke up with my long time girlfriend. We dated for about 6 years, throughout most of high school and a large portion of college. She was the first girl I dated and I really did care for her. I broke up with her because we were both abusive towards each other, physically (nothing extremely drastic but I have a scar on my arm because of her) and verbally.\n\nWe decided to stay friends after the break up and all seemed to be going well. However, I noticed that almost immediately (within like 2 weeks) after we broke up this guy she met from a club started hitting on her. She claims to have no attraction towards him but anyone with a pair of eyes can see there's a mutual attraction. Now I don't like this guy because he was hitting on her while we were still dating. I just got onto Facebook today to see her and a picture of him together celebrating his 21st birthday.\n\nI know I'm the one that broke it off and it's my fault for doing so, but I can't help but feel.betrayed? Is that normal? How should I handle myself? I feel like I want to punch something, as I still find myself caring for her, but that would only break my hand. I'm at a loss as to what to think/feel and I don't have anyone else around I can talk to about this. So, anyone have any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, first time post on here and I'm unsure how to handle myself.\n\nAbout last October (in 2013) I broke up with my long time girlfriend. We dated for about 6 years, throughout most of high school and a large portion of college. She was the first girl I dated and I really did care for her. I broke up with her because we were both abusive towards each other, physically (nothing extremely drastic but I have a scar on my arm because of her) and verbally.\n\nWe decided to stay friends after the break up and all seemed to be going well. However, I noticed that almost immediately (within like 2 weeks) after we broke up this guy she met from a club started hitting on her. She claims to have no attraction towards him but anyone with a pair of eyes can see there's a mutual attraction. Now I don't like this guy because he was hitting on her while we were still dating. I just got onto Facebook today to see her and a picture of him together celebrating his 21st birthday.\n\nI know I'm the one that broke it off and it's my fault for doing so, but I can't help but feel.betrayed? Is that normal? How should I handle myself? I feel like I want to punch something, as I still find myself caring for her, but that would only break my hand. I'm at a loss as to what to think/feel and I don't have anyone else around I can talk to about this. So, anyone have any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, first time post on here and I'm unsure how to handle myself.\n\nAbout last October (in 2013) I broke up with my long time girlfriend. We dated for about 6 years, throughout most of high school and a large portion of college. She was the first girl I dated and I really did care for her. I broke up with her because we were both abusive towards each other, physically (nothing extremely drastic but I have a scar on my arm because of her) and verbally.\n\nWe decided to stay friends after the break up and all seemed to be going well. However, I noticed that almost immediately (within like 2 weeks) after we broke up this guy she met from a club started hitting on her. She claims to have no attraction towards him but anyone with a pair of eyes can see there's a mutual attraction. Now I don't like this guy because he was hitting on her while we were still dating. I just got onto Facebook today to see her and a picture of him together celebrating his 21st birthday.\n\nI know I'm the one that broke it off and it's my fault for doing so, but I can't help but feel.betrayed? Is that normal? How should I handle myself? I feel like I want to punch something, as I still find myself caring for her, but that would only break my hand. I'm at a loss as to what to think/feel and I don't have anyone else around I can talk to about this. So, anyone have any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have just under 48 hours to make a decision that could forever alter the course of my life.\n\nI've been offered a financially lucrative position in a beautiful country that I believe I could enjoy living in. Personally, things aren't so great at home, so were it not for my boyfriend, I would be jumping at the offer.\n\nI've been in an on-again/off-again relationship for four years. He was my first kiss, first everything. I fell hard and never really got back up. We recently decided to try dating again after about a year of pretty much dating without the label. however, I don't think a relationship (not just with me, with anyone) is what he wants. I think I pressured him into it.\n\nSo I have this offer. This dream job. But on the other hand, I have a chance at stability and finally being with the man I love more than my own life. I've never lived in a foreign country and honestly the thought terrifies me. But. what if I stay here? What if the relationship doesn't work out and I'm left here wondering. what if? for the rest of my life? What if I move and, again, I'm wondering what if? but this time about the relationship?\n\nI really just don't know what to do. I'm so torn. I can't eat or sleep, it's almost some sort of cosmic joke. Why would this offer come right when I have a chance with the person I've dreamed of for years? I just. I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have just under 48 hours to make a decision that could forever alter the course of my life.\n\nI've been offered a financially lucrative position in a beautiful country that I believe I could enjoy living in. Personally, things aren't so great at home, so were it not for my boyfriend, I would be jumping at the offer.\n\nI've been in an on-again/off-again relationship for four years. He was my first kiss, first everything. I fell hard and never really got back up. We recently decided to try dating again after about a year of pretty much dating without the label. however, I don't think a relationship (not just with me, with anyone) is what he wants. I think I pressured him into it.\n\nSo I have this offer. This dream job. But on the other hand, I have a chance at stability and finally being with the man I love more than my own life. I've never lived in a foreign country and honestly the thought terrifies me. But. what if I stay here? What if the relationship doesn't work out and I'm left here wondering. what if? for the rest of my life? What if I move and, again, I'm wondering what if? but this time about the relationship?\n\nI really just don't know what to do. I'm so torn. I can't eat or sleep, it's almost some sort of cosmic joke. Why would this offer come right when I have a chance with the person I've dreamed of for years? I just. I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit, my ex-boyfriend (25) and I (also 25) of a year broke up a few weeks ago. We haven't been completely solid on the radio silence, but have been trying very hard at it. We've been slipping up every 4-5 days or so.\n\nRecently the ex wanted to meet so we can talk. He said that he misses me, or at least he thinks he does. But at the same time, he wonders whether or not he just misses being in a relationship. He isn't sure. He doesn't want me to move on just yet because he fears that once he does figure it out that he misses me it will be too late and Id have moved on. At the time, I was sympathetic and told him Id give him a few weeks to figure it out. I still love him and miss him dearly.\n\nReddit, not knowing is driving me nuts. I can't move forward or backward. I can't heal or hold on. I need to know which direction I'm going.\n\nI've never in my life given an ultimatum to a lover, partly because they don't usually work and partly because that's not really who I am. But in this case, reddit, is it appropriate to give him an ultimatum? Tell him to fish or cut bait? Tell him to make a move or lose squatters rights? I don't know if I can deal with the uncertainty much longer."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit, my ex-boyfriend (25) and I (also 25) of a year broke up a few weeks ago. We haven't been completely solid on the radio silence, but have been trying very hard at it. We've been slipping up every 4-5 days or so.\n\nRecently the ex wanted to meet so we can talk. He said that he misses me, or at least he thinks he does. But at the same time, he wonders whether or not he just misses being in a relationship. He isn't sure. He doesn't want me to move on just yet because he fears that once he does figure it out that he misses me it will be too late and Id have moved on. At the time, I was sympathetic and told him Id give him a few weeks to figure it out. I still love him and miss him dearly.\n\nReddit, not knowing is driving me nuts. I can't move forward or backward. I can't heal or hold on. I need to know which direction I'm going.\n\nI've never in my life given an ultimatum to a lover, partly because they don't usually work and partly because that's not really who I am. But in this case, reddit, is it appropriate to give him an ultimatum? Tell him to fish or cut bait? Tell him to make a move or lose squatters rights? I don't know if I can deal with the uncertainty much longer."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit, my ex-boyfriend (25) and I (also 25) of a year broke up a few weeks ago. We haven't been completely solid on the radio silence, but have been trying very hard at it. We've been slipping up every 4-5 days or so.\n\nRecently the ex wanted to meet so we can talk. He said that he misses me, or at least he thinks he does. But at the same time, he wonders whether or not he just misses being in a relationship. He isn't sure. He doesn't want me to move on just yet because he fears that once he does figure it out that he misses me it will be too late and Id have moved on. At the time, I was sympathetic and told him Id give him a few weeks to figure it out. I still love him and miss him dearly.\n\nReddit, not knowing is driving me nuts. I can't move forward or backward. I can't heal or hold on. I need to know which direction I'm going.\n\nI've never in my life given an ultimatum to a lover, partly because they don't usually work and partly because that's not really who I am. But in this case, reddit, is it appropriate to give him an ultimatum? Tell him to fish or cut bait? Tell him to make a move or lose squatters rights? I don't know if I can deal with the uncertainty much longer."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit, my ex-boyfriend (25) and I (also 25) of a year broke up a few weeks ago. We haven't been completely solid on the radio silence, but have been trying very hard at it. We've been slipping up every 4-5 days or so.\n\nRecently the ex wanted to meet so we can talk. He said that he misses me, or at least he thinks he does. But at the same time, he wonders whether or not he just misses being in a relationship. He isn't sure. He doesn't want me to move on just yet because he fears that once he does figure it out that he misses me it will be too late and Id have moved on. At the time, I was sympathetic and told him Id give him a few weeks to figure it out. I still love him and miss him dearly.\n\nReddit, not knowing is driving me nuts. I can't move forward or backward. I can't heal or hold on. I need to know which direction I'm going.\n\nI've never in my life given an ultimatum to a lover, partly because they don't usually work and partly because that's not really who I am. But in this case, reddit, is it appropriate to give him an ultimatum? Tell him to fish or cut bait? Tell him to make a move or lose squatters rights? I don't know if I can deal with the uncertainty much longer."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit, my ex-boyfriend (25) and I (also 25) of a year broke up a few weeks ago. We haven't been completely solid on the radio silence, but have been trying very hard at it. We've been slipping up every 4-5 days or so.\n\nRecently the ex wanted to meet so we can talk. He said that he misses me, or at least he thinks he does. But at the same time, he wonders whether or not he just misses being in a relationship. He isn't sure. He doesn't want me to move on just yet because he fears that once he does figure it out that he misses me it will be too late and Id have moved on. At the time, I was sympathetic and told him Id give him a few weeks to figure it out. I still love him and miss him dearly.\n\nReddit, not knowing is driving me nuts. I can't move forward or backward. I can't heal or hold on. I need to know which direction I'm going.\n\nI've never in my life given an ultimatum to a lover, partly because they don't usually work and partly because that's not really who I am. But in this case, reddit, is it appropriate to give him an ultimatum? Tell him to fish or cut bait? Tell him to make a move or lose squatters rights? I don't know if I can deal with the uncertainty much longer."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This all happened around three years ago when my older sister gave me her iPhone 3GS because she was upgrading to an iPhone 4. I was pretty stoked to own a smartphone (I had flip phones up until that point) so I immediately went in and explore the features that come with it. Later that night when I got board looking at the main apps I started diving down into Apple's bloatware. Apps like passport, news stand, game center and of course, Voice Memos. \n\nI was not prepared for what I was about to listen to. The first few memos were of my sister (poorly) singing or saying shitting \"thought provoking\" quotes about life. But the last one was different. Expecting more stupid shit, I listened and heard something shocking. My sister's boyfriend (now ex) was talking to her and saying REALLY sexual things to her and you could hear them kiss. Suddenly, she starts to groan as the distinct sound of fucking was heard. This lasted for a full minute (yeah impressive time bud) and I was left incredibly disturbed afterwards. I'll never look at her the same way again.\n\nMaybe next time sis you make sure you've deleted *everything* before you give a phone away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This all happened around three years ago when my older sister gave me her iPhone 3GS because she was upgrading to an iPhone 4. I was pretty stoked to own a smartphone (I had flip phones up until that point) so I immediately went in and explore the features that come with it. Later that night when I got board looking at the main apps I started diving down into Apple's bloatware. Apps like passport, news stand, game center and of course, Voice Memos. \n\nI was not prepared for what I was about to listen to. The first few memos were of my sister (poorly) singing or saying shitting \"thought provoking\" quotes about life. But the last one was different. Expecting more stupid shit, I listened and heard something shocking. My sister's boyfriend (now ex) was talking to her and saying REALLY sexual things to her and you could hear them kiss. Suddenly, she starts to groan as the distinct sound of fucking was heard. This lasted for a full minute (yeah impressive time bud) and I was left incredibly disturbed afterwards. I'll never look at her the same way again.\n\nMaybe next time sis you make sure you've deleted *everything* before you give a phone away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This all happened around three years ago when my older sister gave me her iPhone 3GS because she was upgrading to an iPhone 4. I was pretty stoked to own a smartphone (I had flip phones up until that point) so I immediately went in and explore the features that come with it. Later that night when I got board looking at the main apps I started diving down into Apple's bloatware. Apps like passport, news stand, game center and of course, Voice Memos. \n\nI was not prepared for what I was about to listen to. The first few memos were of my sister (poorly) singing or saying shitting \"thought provoking\" quotes about life. But the last one was different. Expecting more stupid shit, I listened and heard something shocking. My sister's boyfriend (now ex) was talking to her and saying REALLY sexual things to her and you could hear them kiss. Suddenly, she starts to groan as the distinct sound of fucking was heard. This lasted for a full minute (yeah impressive time bud) and I was left incredibly disturbed afterwards. I'll never look at her the same way again.\n\nMaybe next time sis you make sure you've deleted *everything* before you give a phone away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Real TIFU when I was using snapchat with my gf since i'm overseas. It was fun while it lasted and stupid me decided to use the shower back n forth until I eventually gave in and decided to do the dirty deed.\n\nAs I was sending a video of me playing with my monkey, my hands were wet and my phone being touch screen. Decided to automatically click 'My Story' and post it within a second. I hastily rushed to take it off as I didn't know how so I asked my gf and ended up taking it within a couple minutes. Still a couple of friends saw it and they were eating dinner at the time but couldn't. Thats what they get :P"
} |
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