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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Real TIFU when I was using snapchat with my gf since i'm overseas. It was fun while it lasted and stupid me decided to use the shower back n forth until I eventually gave in and decided to do the dirty deed.\n\nAs I was sending a video of me playing with my monkey, my hands were wet and my phone being touch screen. Decided to automatically click 'My Story' and post it within a second. I hastily rushed to take it off as I didn't know how so I asked my gf and ended up taking it within a couple minutes. Still a couple of friends saw it and they were eating dinner at the time but couldn't. Thats what they get :P"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Real TIFU when I was using snapchat with my gf since i'm overseas. It was fun while it lasted and stupid me decided to use the shower back n forth until I eventually gave in and decided to do the dirty deed.\n\nAs I was sending a video of me playing with my monkey, my hands were wet and my phone being touch screen. Decided to automatically click 'My Story' and post it within a second. I hastily rushed to take it off as I didn't know how so I asked my gf and ended up taking it within a couple minutes. Still a couple of friends saw it and they were eating dinner at the time but couldn't. Thats what they get :P"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. It's been a long-distance relationship (we met online) but we've spent time together in person and are madly in love and want to spent the rest of our lives together. I recently started attending college and my boyfriend and I were so excited because we had been planning on him moving out there with me (he attended trade school and is now working and has the flexibility to move). He has purchased an apartment and a plane ticket and is planning to come out here at the end of October. \n\nMy parents, however, are completely against it. They've gone overboard (my mom threw away everything in my room back home, she's trying to convince my dad to sell my car, and she's trying to get me to pay for everything entirely on my own i.e. insurance and whatnot). \n\nMy mom and I were always friends and my dad was the mean one, but the roles have flipped, even though my dad is still against it too. They are concerned I'll begin to completely ignore my friends and not get involved with anything (I'm in music ensembles, the cycling club, and the residence hall senate).\n\nHe completely refuses to wait any longer, which I fully understand. At home, he has only one real friend due to everything being expensive in New York City so he doesn't like going out with people. He isn't close with his family and is just very lonely. He will not wait any longer to move, regardless of what my parents will do.\n\nI don't want to completely ruin my relationship with my parents, I mean, they're my parents and they've given up a lot for me over the past 18 years. But I also couldn't imagine my life without my boyfriend. My parents want me to have the \"college experience,\" even though I feel like they are the ones that are messing that up. They call me daily and cause me to cry, which then causes me to lock myself up in my room and not spend time with my friends.\n\nI love my boyfriend and I don't want to lose him. And I don't want my children to not know their grandparents. What the hell do I do :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. It's been a long-distance relationship (we met online) but we've spent time together in person and are madly in love and want to spent the rest of our lives together. I recently started attending college and my boyfriend and I were so excited because we had been planning on him moving out there with me (he attended trade school and is now working and has the flexibility to move). He has purchased an apartment and a plane ticket and is planning to come out here at the end of October. \n\nMy parents, however, are completely against it. They've gone overboard (my mom threw away everything in my room back home, she's trying to convince my dad to sell my car, and she's trying to get me to pay for everything entirely on my own i.e. insurance and whatnot). \n\nMy mom and I were always friends and my dad was the mean one, but the roles have flipped, even though my dad is still against it too. They are concerned I'll begin to completely ignore my friends and not get involved with anything (I'm in music ensembles, the cycling club, and the residence hall senate).\n\nHe completely refuses to wait any longer, which I fully understand. At home, he has only one real friend due to everything being expensive in New York City so he doesn't like going out with people. He isn't close with his family and is just very lonely. He will not wait any longer to move, regardless of what my parents will do.\n\nI don't want to completely ruin my relationship with my parents, I mean, they're my parents and they've given up a lot for me over the past 18 years. But I also couldn't imagine my life without my boyfriend. My parents want me to have the \"college experience,\" even though I feel like they are the ones that are messing that up. They call me daily and cause me to cry, which then causes me to lock myself up in my room and not spend time with my friends.\n\nI love my boyfriend and I don't want to lose him. And I don't want my children to not know their grandparents. What the hell do I do :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. It's been a long-distance relationship (we met online) but we've spent time together in person and are madly in love and want to spent the rest of our lives together. I recently started attending college and my boyfriend and I were so excited because we had been planning on him moving out there with me (he attended trade school and is now working and has the flexibility to move). He has purchased an apartment and a plane ticket and is planning to come out here at the end of October. \n\nMy parents, however, are completely against it. They've gone overboard (my mom threw away everything in my room back home, she's trying to convince my dad to sell my car, and she's trying to get me to pay for everything entirely on my own i.e. insurance and whatnot). \n\nMy mom and I were always friends and my dad was the mean one, but the roles have flipped, even though my dad is still against it too. They are concerned I'll begin to completely ignore my friends and not get involved with anything (I'm in music ensembles, the cycling club, and the residence hall senate).\n\nHe completely refuses to wait any longer, which I fully understand. At home, he has only one real friend due to everything being expensive in New York City so he doesn't like going out with people. He isn't close with his family and is just very lonely. He will not wait any longer to move, regardless of what my parents will do.\n\nI don't want to completely ruin my relationship with my parents, I mean, they're my parents and they've given up a lot for me over the past 18 years. But I also couldn't imagine my life without my boyfriend. My parents want me to have the \"college experience,\" even though I feel like they are the ones that are messing that up. They call me daily and cause me to cry, which then causes me to lock myself up in my room and not spend time with my friends.\n\nI love my boyfriend and I don't want to lose him. And I don't want my children to not know their grandparents. What the hell do I do :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a newly single mother of 3. I am behind in rent, my vehicle isn't insured right now due to lack of money, our cable and Internet will be canceled within the next few days, and every other bill is now behind due to lack of money. I'm doing what I can with what I can but quickly realizing that I'm drowning. I have been looking for a new and higher paying job for months, with no success (though I have a lot of experience to provide). Reddit, what can I do to help keep my family afloat? I need to make more money and fast!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a newly single mother of 3. I am behind in rent, my vehicle isn't insured right now due to lack of money, our cable and Internet will be canceled within the next few days, and every other bill is now behind due to lack of money. I'm doing what I can with what I can but quickly realizing that I'm drowning. I have been looking for a new and higher paying job for months, with no success (though I have a lot of experience to provide). Reddit, what can I do to help keep my family afloat? I need to make more money and fast!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a newly single mother of 3. I am behind in rent, my vehicle isn't insured right now due to lack of money, our cable and Internet will be canceled within the next few days, and every other bill is now behind due to lack of money. I'm doing what I can with what I can but quickly realizing that I'm drowning. I have been looking for a new and higher paying job for months, with no success (though I have a lot of experience to provide). Reddit, what can I do to help keep my family afloat? I need to make more money and fast!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before the summer started I met a very intelligent, kind man at a local bar. We were instantly very interested/attracted to one another, but I soon realized that he had a lot of baggage from past relationships. He had been cheated on by two other girls, who he promptly cheated on in return. He told me that for 7 years, he didn't have a girlfriend, just FWBs here and there for awhile. After a month of dating, I went on an overseas trip to visit family. He stayed in town and promptly cheated on me with one of his old FWBs. Something seemed off, so I broke up with him(only AFTER breaking up with him did he tell me about is FWB). He was pretty harsh during the breakup, telling me that he didn't mean to hurt anyone by it, and saying that it was no big deal. When I came back to town, three months later, he texted me out of the blue, asking me to hang out with him. I ignored his message. But I miss him, a lot. I want to get back with him. All my friends/family warned me about him, but I just don't give a fuck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before the summer started I met a very intelligent, kind man at a local bar. We were instantly very interested/attracted to one another, but I soon realized that he had a lot of baggage from past relationships. He had been cheated on by two other girls, who he promptly cheated on in return. He told me that for 7 years, he didn't have a girlfriend, just FWBs here and there for awhile. After a month of dating, I went on an overseas trip to visit family. He stayed in town and promptly cheated on me with one of his old FWBs. Something seemed off, so I broke up with him(only AFTER breaking up with him did he tell me about is FWB). He was pretty harsh during the breakup, telling me that he didn't mean to hurt anyone by it, and saying that it was no big deal. When I came back to town, three months later, he texted me out of the blue, asking me to hang out with him. I ignored his message. But I miss him, a lot. I want to get back with him. All my friends/family warned me about him, but I just don't give a fuck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before the summer started I met a very intelligent, kind man at a local bar. We were instantly very interested/attracted to one another, but I soon realized that he had a lot of baggage from past relationships. He had been cheated on by two other girls, who he promptly cheated on in return. He told me that for 7 years, he didn't have a girlfriend, just FWBs here and there for awhile. After a month of dating, I went on an overseas trip to visit family. He stayed in town and promptly cheated on me with one of his old FWBs. Something seemed off, so I broke up with him(only AFTER breaking up with him did he tell me about is FWB). He was pretty harsh during the breakup, telling me that he didn't mean to hurt anyone by it, and saying that it was no big deal. When I came back to town, three months later, he texted me out of the blue, asking me to hang out with him. I ignored his message. But I miss him, a lot. I want to get back with him. All my friends/family warned me about him, but I just don't give a fuck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before the summer started I met a very intelligent, kind man at a local bar. We were instantly very interested/attracted to one another, but I soon realized that he had a lot of baggage from past relationships. He had been cheated on by two other girls, who he promptly cheated on in return. He told me that for 7 years, he didn't have a girlfriend, just FWBs here and there for awhile. After a month of dating, I went on an overseas trip to visit family. He stayed in town and promptly cheated on me with one of his old FWBs. Something seemed off, so I broke up with him(only AFTER breaking up with him did he tell me about is FWB). He was pretty harsh during the breakup, telling me that he didn't mean to hurt anyone by it, and saying that it was no big deal. When I came back to town, three months later, he texted me out of the blue, asking me to hang out with him. I ignored his message. But I miss him, a lot. I want to get back with him. All my friends/family warned me about him, but I just don't give a fuck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before the summer started I met a very intelligent, kind man at a local bar. We were instantly very interested/attracted to one another, but I soon realized that he had a lot of baggage from past relationships. He had been cheated on by two other girls, who he promptly cheated on in return. He told me that for 7 years, he didn't have a girlfriend, just FWBs here and there for awhile. After a month of dating, I went on an overseas trip to visit family. He stayed in town and promptly cheated on me with one of his old FWBs. Something seemed off, so I broke up with him(only AFTER breaking up with him did he tell me about is FWB). He was pretty harsh during the breakup, telling me that he didn't mean to hurt anyone by it, and saying that it was no big deal. When I came back to town, three months later, he texted me out of the blue, asking me to hang out with him. I ignored his message. But I miss him, a lot. I want to get back with him. All my friends/family warned me about him, but I just don't give a fuck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before the summer started I met a very intelligent, kind man at a local bar. We were instantly very interested/attracted to one another, but I soon realized that he had a lot of baggage from past relationships. He had been cheated on by two other girls, who he promptly cheated on in return. He told me that for 7 years, he didn't have a girlfriend, just FWBs here and there for awhile. After a month of dating, I went on an overseas trip to visit family. He stayed in town and promptly cheated on me with one of his old FWBs. Something seemed off, so I broke up with him(only AFTER breaking up with him did he tell me about is FWB). He was pretty harsh during the breakup, telling me that he didn't mean to hurt anyone by it, and saying that it was no big deal. When I came back to town, three months later, he texted me out of the blue, asking me to hang out with him. I ignored his message. But I miss him, a lot. I want to get back with him. All my friends/family warned me about him, but I just don't give a fuck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just checked my credit score. Instead of the usual 679, I see 587. I start freaking at see that I have a collection agency after me for $679. T-Mobile sent me to collections on a phone that I returned to them months ago. I called them multiple times months ago after I got collection notices about it. The last rep I spoke to, probably 3 months ago, told me they received the phone back and all was fine. Then I check my credit score today, and this. I'M FUCKING BEYOND LIVID\n\nWhat do I do? If I dispute it and they remove me from collections, will my credit go back to 679?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just checked my credit score. Instead of the usual 679, I see 587. I start freaking at see that I have a collection agency after me for $679. T-Mobile sent me to collections on a phone that I returned to them months ago. I called them multiple times months ago after I got collection notices about it. The last rep I spoke to, probably 3 months ago, told me they received the phone back and all was fine. Then I check my credit score today, and this. I'M FUCKING BEYOND LIVID\n\nWhat do I do? If I dispute it and they remove me from collections, will my credit go back to 679?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just checked my credit score. Instead of the usual 679, I see 587. I start freaking at see that I have a collection agency after me for $679. T-Mobile sent me to collections on a phone that I returned to them months ago. I called them multiple times months ago after I got collection notices about it. The last rep I spoke to, probably 3 months ago, told me they received the phone back and all was fine. Then I check my credit score today, and this. I'M FUCKING BEYOND LIVID\n\nWhat do I do? If I dispute it and they remove me from collections, will my credit go back to 679?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just checked my credit score. Instead of the usual 679, I see 587. I start freaking at see that I have a collection agency after me for $679. T-Mobile sent me to collections on a phone that I returned to them months ago. I called them multiple times months ago after I got collection notices about it. The last rep I spoke to, probably 3 months ago, told me they received the phone back and all was fine. Then I check my credit score today, and this. I'M FUCKING BEYOND LIVID\n\nWhat do I do? If I dispute it and they remove me from collections, will my credit go back to 679?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just checked my credit score. Instead of the usual 679, I see 587. I start freaking at see that I have a collection agency after me for $679. T-Mobile sent me to collections on a phone that I returned to them months ago. I called them multiple times months ago after I got collection notices about it. The last rep I spoke to, probably 3 months ago, told me they received the phone back and all was fine. Then I check my credit score today, and this. I'M FUCKING BEYOND LIVID\n\nWhat do I do? If I dispute it and they remove me from collections, will my credit go back to 679?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just checked my credit score. Instead of the usual 679, I see 587. I start freaking at see that I have a collection agency after me for $679. T-Mobile sent me to collections on a phone that I returned to them months ago. I called them multiple times months ago after I got collection notices about it. The last rep I spoke to, probably 3 months ago, told me they received the phone back and all was fine. Then I check my credit score today, and this. I'M FUCKING BEYOND LIVID\n\nWhat do I do? If I dispute it and they remove me from collections, will my credit go back to 679?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dumb question, i know. I am just a spoiled/depressed 21 year old college student. Lost my job and gf about a month or two ago and removed a ton of contacts on facebook and in my phone of people I never talk to. There are a lot of cute girls at my college but I still have some shyness left from high school. I think I am pretty good looking compared to most guys and the way I dress looks good as well. I came off as a creeper in high school and have stopped since I started college. I need more friends because I only have a couple that I actually talk to often. I always go to this game room at my college where people come in to either hangout or work on homework and usually sit in the massage chair for a good half an hour. I want to talk to some of the girls in there but my shyness just gets in the way and I feel like I am invisible to everyone. I don't know how to strike up a conversation and I don't want to come off as a creep. Most of the girls i notice are either doing homework or messing around on their laptops and I don't want to bother them. I do love giving compliments but have yet to give them to any girls. I would also love a girlfriend with the same interests as me but I have tried dating website and only young girls or unattractive girls are into me which i think is weird. Even the nerds that talk about really geeky stuff have friends that are girls. Am i missing something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dumb question, i know. I am just a spoiled/depressed 21 year old college student. Lost my job and gf about a month or two ago and removed a ton of contacts on facebook and in my phone of people I never talk to. There are a lot of cute girls at my college but I still have some shyness left from high school. I think I am pretty good looking compared to most guys and the way I dress looks good as well. I came off as a creeper in high school and have stopped since I started college. I need more friends because I only have a couple that I actually talk to often. I always go to this game room at my college where people come in to either hangout or work on homework and usually sit in the massage chair for a good half an hour. I want to talk to some of the girls in there but my shyness just gets in the way and I feel like I am invisible to everyone. I don't know how to strike up a conversation and I don't want to come off as a creep. Most of the girls i notice are either doing homework or messing around on their laptops and I don't want to bother them. I do love giving compliments but have yet to give them to any girls. I would also love a girlfriend with the same interests as me but I have tried dating website and only young girls or unattractive girls are into me which i think is weird. Even the nerds that talk about really geeky stuff have friends that are girls. Am i missing something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dumb question, i know. I am just a spoiled/depressed 21 year old college student. Lost my job and gf about a month or two ago and removed a ton of contacts on facebook and in my phone of people I never talk to. There are a lot of cute girls at my college but I still have some shyness left from high school. I think I am pretty good looking compared to most guys and the way I dress looks good as well. I came off as a creeper in high school and have stopped since I started college. I need more friends because I only have a couple that I actually talk to often. I always go to this game room at my college where people come in to either hangout or work on homework and usually sit in the massage chair for a good half an hour. I want to talk to some of the girls in there but my shyness just gets in the way and I feel like I am invisible to everyone. I don't know how to strike up a conversation and I don't want to come off as a creep. Most of the girls i notice are either doing homework or messing around on their laptops and I don't want to bother them. I do love giving compliments but have yet to give them to any girls. I would also love a girlfriend with the same interests as me but I have tried dating website and only young girls or unattractive girls are into me which i think is weird. Even the nerds that talk about really geeky stuff have friends that are girls. Am i missing something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dumb question, i know. I am just a spoiled/depressed 21 year old college student. Lost my job and gf about a month or two ago and removed a ton of contacts on facebook and in my phone of people I never talk to. There are a lot of cute girls at my college but I still have some shyness left from high school. I think I am pretty good looking compared to most guys and the way I dress looks good as well. I came off as a creeper in high school and have stopped since I started college. I need more friends because I only have a couple that I actually talk to often. I always go to this game room at my college where people come in to either hangout or work on homework and usually sit in the massage chair for a good half an hour. I want to talk to some of the girls in there but my shyness just gets in the way and I feel like I am invisible to everyone. I don't know how to strike up a conversation and I don't want to come off as a creep. Most of the girls i notice are either doing homework or messing around on their laptops and I don't want to bother them. I do love giving compliments but have yet to give them to any girls. I would also love a girlfriend with the same interests as me but I have tried dating website and only young girls or unattractive girls are into me which i think is weird. Even the nerds that talk about really geeky stuff have friends that are girls. Am i missing something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dumb question, i know. I am just a spoiled/depressed 21 year old college student. Lost my job and gf about a month or two ago and removed a ton of contacts on facebook and in my phone of people I never talk to. There are a lot of cute girls at my college but I still have some shyness left from high school. I think I am pretty good looking compared to most guys and the way I dress looks good as well. I came off as a creeper in high school and have stopped since I started college. I need more friends because I only have a couple that I actually talk to often. I always go to this game room at my college where people come in to either hangout or work on homework and usually sit in the massage chair for a good half an hour. I want to talk to some of the girls in there but my shyness just gets in the way and I feel like I am invisible to everyone. I don't know how to strike up a conversation and I don't want to come off as a creep. Most of the girls i notice are either doing homework or messing around on their laptops and I don't want to bother them. I do love giving compliments but have yet to give them to any girls. I would also love a girlfriend with the same interests as me but I have tried dating website and only young girls or unattractive girls are into me which i think is weird. Even the nerds that talk about really geeky stuff have friends that are girls. Am i missing something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dumb question, i know. I am just a spoiled/depressed 21 year old college student. Lost my job and gf about a month or two ago and removed a ton of contacts on facebook and in my phone of people I never talk to. There are a lot of cute girls at my college but I still have some shyness left from high school. I think I am pretty good looking compared to most guys and the way I dress looks good as well. I came off as a creeper in high school and have stopped since I started college. I need more friends because I only have a couple that I actually talk to often. I always go to this game room at my college where people come in to either hangout or work on homework and usually sit in the massage chair for a good half an hour. I want to talk to some of the girls in there but my shyness just gets in the way and I feel like I am invisible to everyone. I don't know how to strike up a conversation and I don't want to come off as a creep. Most of the girls i notice are either doing homework or messing around on their laptops and I don't want to bother them. I do love giving compliments but have yet to give them to any girls. I would also love a girlfriend with the same interests as me but I have tried dating website and only young girls or unattractive girls are into me which i think is weird. Even the nerds that talk about really geeky stuff have friends that are girls. Am i missing something?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is kind of insane behavior. \n\nI moved out six weeks ago. I was paying rent, but I couldn't live with someone who went through my shit like I was 14. \n\nI saved enough to get a studio apartment. I am fully employed, go to school part time, and am single. So I am pretty focused on my own stuff at the moment. I got a kitten, but that isn't the point of contention. \n\nMy mom insisted my room be decorated to her standards, which included making the bed every day with 20 pillows arranged like the magazine picture. It drove me insane. \n\nI am a really minimalistic person. I like color, funky prints, but I don't want a clutter of knick-nacks. \n\nSo when I moved out, I took my sheets and the pillow I slept on, but left the rest of it. I got a comforter, and just have two pillows on there. I sleep on those. The bed doesn't look \"magazine perfect\" but its easy. I make my bed every day. \n\nI am like my dad [60m] and want things to be nice, neat, and clutter free. I don't keep tons of things I don't need or use. I am just very simple in that regard. Even my fashion sense is pretty straight forward. \n\nHowever, my mom keeps coming to visit me and bringing pillows and other things for my home that I don't want. Some of the stuff was cute (there was a pillow with a bull dog on it I kept.) But I don't want frilly floral things all over the house. \n\nI paid for the furniture myself and I can afford everything. But she is literally trying to fill my house with things I don't need. I told her to take it back or I would donate what I didn't want. I ended up taking a huge amount (5 large garbage bags full) of shit she brought me. And she still continues to do it. \n\nIDK what the fuck is going on, but she keeps thinking the space is her space. I am not sure what to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is kind of insane behavior. \n\nI moved out six weeks ago. I was paying rent, but I couldn't live with someone who went through my shit like I was 14. \n\nI saved enough to get a studio apartment. I am fully employed, go to school part time, and am single. So I am pretty focused on my own stuff at the moment. I got a kitten, but that isn't the point of contention. \n\nMy mom insisted my room be decorated to her standards, which included making the bed every day with 20 pillows arranged like the magazine picture. It drove me insane. \n\nI am a really minimalistic person. I like color, funky prints, but I don't want a clutter of knick-nacks. \n\nSo when I moved out, I took my sheets and the pillow I slept on, but left the rest of it. I got a comforter, and just have two pillows on there. I sleep on those. The bed doesn't look \"magazine perfect\" but its easy. I make my bed every day. \n\nI am like my dad [60m] and want things to be nice, neat, and clutter free. I don't keep tons of things I don't need or use. I am just very simple in that regard. Even my fashion sense is pretty straight forward. \n\nHowever, my mom keeps coming to visit me and bringing pillows and other things for my home that I don't want. Some of the stuff was cute (there was a pillow with a bull dog on it I kept.) But I don't want frilly floral things all over the house. \n\nI paid for the furniture myself and I can afford everything. But she is literally trying to fill my house with things I don't need. I told her to take it back or I would donate what I didn't want. I ended up taking a huge amount (5 large garbage bags full) of shit she brought me. And she still continues to do it. \n\nIDK what the fuck is going on, but she keeps thinking the space is her space. I am not sure what to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is kind of insane behavior. \n\nI moved out six weeks ago. I was paying rent, but I couldn't live with someone who went through my shit like I was 14. \n\nI saved enough to get a studio apartment. I am fully employed, go to school part time, and am single. So I am pretty focused on my own stuff at the moment. I got a kitten, but that isn't the point of contention. \n\nMy mom insisted my room be decorated to her standards, which included making the bed every day with 20 pillows arranged like the magazine picture. It drove me insane. \n\nI am a really minimalistic person. I like color, funky prints, but I don't want a clutter of knick-nacks. \n\nSo when I moved out, I took my sheets and the pillow I slept on, but left the rest of it. I got a comforter, and just have two pillows on there. I sleep on those. The bed doesn't look \"magazine perfect\" but its easy. I make my bed every day. \n\nI am like my dad [60m] and want things to be nice, neat, and clutter free. I don't keep tons of things I don't need or use. I am just very simple in that regard. Even my fashion sense is pretty straight forward. \n\nHowever, my mom keeps coming to visit me and bringing pillows and other things for my home that I don't want. Some of the stuff was cute (there was a pillow with a bull dog on it I kept.) But I don't want frilly floral things all over the house. \n\nI paid for the furniture myself and I can afford everything. But she is literally trying to fill my house with things I don't need. I told her to take it back or I would donate what I didn't want. I ended up taking a huge amount (5 large garbage bags full) of shit she brought me. And she still continues to do it. \n\nIDK what the fuck is going on, but she keeps thinking the space is her space. I am not sure what to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them.\n\nWe'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them.\n\nWe'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them.\n\nWe'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I need some advice from you.\nAbout three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I need some advice from you.\nAbout three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, I need some advice from you.\nAbout three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a normal, friendly person with solid social skills, but I'm also a late bloomer sexually. I had sex for the first time four years ago with \"Ben\", a guy I was friendly with and had a crush on. We hooked up and it was great, but then he immediately started ignoring me and we never really spoke again. It was really irritating at the time but I wasn't heartbroken by any stretch of the imagination. \n\nFlash forward four years. I haven't had any sexual or romantic relationships since Ben. Then about eight months ago, Ben randomly liked my new profile picture. Ever since then I've been thinking about him a lot and I'm really not sure why. I haven't messaged him or even looked at his profile, but I have this little fantasy where I run into him in my new town and he asks me to meet him for dinner. \n\nI'm posting here because I'm super confused about why I'm so fixated on the idea of this guy who treated me pretty disrespectfully, and who I never really had any emotional attachment to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a normal, friendly person with solid social skills, but I'm also a late bloomer sexually. I had sex for the first time four years ago with \"Ben\", a guy I was friendly with and had a crush on. We hooked up and it was great, but then he immediately started ignoring me and we never really spoke again. It was really irritating at the time but I wasn't heartbroken by any stretch of the imagination. \n\nFlash forward four years. I haven't had any sexual or romantic relationships since Ben. Then about eight months ago, Ben randomly liked my new profile picture. Ever since then I've been thinking about him a lot and I'm really not sure why. I haven't messaged him or even looked at his profile, but I have this little fantasy where I run into him in my new town and he asks me to meet him for dinner. \n\nI'm posting here because I'm super confused about why I'm so fixated on the idea of this guy who treated me pretty disrespectfully, and who I never really had any emotional attachment to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a normal, friendly person with solid social skills, but I'm also a late bloomer sexually. I had sex for the first time four years ago with \"Ben\", a guy I was friendly with and had a crush on. We hooked up and it was great, but then he immediately started ignoring me and we never really spoke again. It was really irritating at the time but I wasn't heartbroken by any stretch of the imagination. \n\nFlash forward four years. I haven't had any sexual or romantic relationships since Ben. Then about eight months ago, Ben randomly liked my new profile picture. Ever since then I've been thinking about him a lot and I'm really not sure why. I haven't messaged him or even looked at his profile, but I have this little fantasy where I run into him in my new town and he asks me to meet him for dinner. \n\nI'm posting here because I'm super confused about why I'm so fixated on the idea of this guy who treated me pretty disrespectfully, and who I never really had any emotional attachment to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been \"official\" for three months, dating for five months. He is still friends with his most recent and \"big\" ex. I have hung out with her at a couple of parties and we even had dinner together just the two of us a couple weeks ago to get to know each other better. She has been really nice to me and told me she is happy that he found me, wants us to be friends, etc, etc. Both of them have assured me that there are no residual feelings and I have no reason to doubt them- that isn't the issue here. \n\nThe issue is that I feel insecure with all of the history/interest that they share that he and I don't share. For example, they dated for 2 years, traveled internationally together, have the same friend group, have a lot of the same interests like mountain biking, going to music festivals (e.g. Bonnaroo), and they are even working together on some local events (e.g. planning a TEDx). \n\nHe and I get a long really well, communicate well, and have even done a 6 day trip to the Mexican jungle together, but I can't help but feel intimidated by all the aspects that they share that he and I don't. It makes me feel kind of like the odd man out? For instance this summer they will probably go (with other people) on mountain biking trips- something I am just not into. I hesitate to bring this up to him, because there isn't really anything he can \"do\" about it. \n\nSo, how do I stop feeling insecure about this and start feeling better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been \"official\" for three months, dating for five months. He is still friends with his most recent and \"big\" ex. I have hung out with her at a couple of parties and we even had dinner together just the two of us a couple weeks ago to get to know each other better. She has been really nice to me and told me she is happy that he found me, wants us to be friends, etc, etc. Both of them have assured me that there are no residual feelings and I have no reason to doubt them- that isn't the issue here. \n\nThe issue is that I feel insecure with all of the history/interest that they share that he and I don't share. For example, they dated for 2 years, traveled internationally together, have the same friend group, have a lot of the same interests like mountain biking, going to music festivals (e.g. Bonnaroo), and they are even working together on some local events (e.g. planning a TEDx). \n\nHe and I get a long really well, communicate well, and have even done a 6 day trip to the Mexican jungle together, but I can't help but feel intimidated by all the aspects that they share that he and I don't. It makes me feel kind of like the odd man out? For instance this summer they will probably go (with other people) on mountain biking trips- something I am just not into. I hesitate to bring this up to him, because there isn't really anything he can \"do\" about it. \n\nSo, how do I stop feeling insecure about this and start feeling better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been \"official\" for three months, dating for five months. He is still friends with his most recent and \"big\" ex. I have hung out with her at a couple of parties and we even had dinner together just the two of us a couple weeks ago to get to know each other better. She has been really nice to me and told me she is happy that he found me, wants us to be friends, etc, etc. Both of them have assured me that there are no residual feelings and I have no reason to doubt them- that isn't the issue here. \n\nThe issue is that I feel insecure with all of the history/interest that they share that he and I don't share. For example, they dated for 2 years, traveled internationally together, have the same friend group, have a lot of the same interests like mountain biking, going to music festivals (e.g. Bonnaroo), and they are even working together on some local events (e.g. planning a TEDx). \n\nHe and I get a long really well, communicate well, and have even done a 6 day trip to the Mexican jungle together, but I can't help but feel intimidated by all the aspects that they share that he and I don't. It makes me feel kind of like the odd man out? For instance this summer they will probably go (with other people) on mountain biking trips- something I am just not into. I hesitate to bring this up to him, because there isn't really anything he can \"do\" about it. \n\nSo, how do I stop feeling insecure about this and start feeling better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: BACKGROUND info on her. She has daddy issues and has a case of depression. Doesn't seem like she is able to open up, afraid of being settled. Tells me she feels claustrophobic.\n\nI've been dating her for just over a month and today we were about to have sex and went through foreplay and I couldn't get a hard on because I just wanted feeling it. She took this as it was her fault I couldn't get it and lost all mood and blamed it on herself and I told her it wasn't but because I was nervous a bit because I liked her. She then tells me she hasn't gone down this road in a relationship before, she is afraid because she might ruin it and what not. She tells me either we can just be friends and have no more kissing/sex or we can just have sex and no emotion with it. She tells me if I pick the sex one then I have to be okay with her getting with other guys and I'm not okay with that because I like her and truly would be jealous. It's just a part of me. We then laid in bed for a solid 20 minutes silent and then I broke the silence and I could tell my her body position she was closing herself off. By the end the mood became more cheerful, we went through some old photos of us. BUT at the end of the night when I left, there was no goodbye kiss, just a solid goodbye. I feel sad because I really really like this girl and she is my prom date too which is in a month and if things go south I just feel like I can't emotional be around her because it will hurt me too much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: BACKGROUND info on her. She has daddy issues and has a case of depression. Doesn't seem like she is able to open up, afraid of being settled. Tells me she feels claustrophobic.\n\nI've been dating her for just over a month and today we were about to have sex and went through foreplay and I couldn't get a hard on because I just wanted feeling it. She took this as it was her fault I couldn't get it and lost all mood and blamed it on herself and I told her it wasn't but because I was nervous a bit because I liked her. She then tells me she hasn't gone down this road in a relationship before, she is afraid because she might ruin it and what not. She tells me either we can just be friends and have no more kissing/sex or we can just have sex and no emotion with it. She tells me if I pick the sex one then I have to be okay with her getting with other guys and I'm not okay with that because I like her and truly would be jealous. It's just a part of me. We then laid in bed for a solid 20 minutes silent and then I broke the silence and I could tell my her body position she was closing herself off. By the end the mood became more cheerful, we went through some old photos of us. BUT at the end of the night when I left, there was no goodbye kiss, just a solid goodbye. I feel sad because I really really like this girl and she is my prom date too which is in a month and if things go south I just feel like I can't emotional be around her because it will hurt me too much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: BACKGROUND info on her. She has daddy issues and has a case of depression. Doesn't seem like she is able to open up, afraid of being settled. Tells me she feels claustrophobic.\n\nI've been dating her for just over a month and today we were about to have sex and went through foreplay and I couldn't get a hard on because I just wanted feeling it. She took this as it was her fault I couldn't get it and lost all mood and blamed it on herself and I told her it wasn't but because I was nervous a bit because I liked her. She then tells me she hasn't gone down this road in a relationship before, she is afraid because she might ruin it and what not. She tells me either we can just be friends and have no more kissing/sex or we can just have sex and no emotion with it. She tells me if I pick the sex one then I have to be okay with her getting with other guys and I'm not okay with that because I like her and truly would be jealous. It's just a part of me. We then laid in bed for a solid 20 minutes silent and then I broke the silence and I could tell my her body position she was closing herself off. By the end the mood became more cheerful, we went through some old photos of us. BUT at the end of the night when I left, there was no goodbye kiss, just a solid goodbye. I feel sad because I really really like this girl and she is my prom date too which is in a month and if things go south I just feel like I can't emotional be around her because it will hurt me too much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: BACKGROUND info on her. She has daddy issues and has a case of depression. Doesn't seem like she is able to open up, afraid of being settled. Tells me she feels claustrophobic.\n\nI've been dating her for just over a month and today we were about to have sex and went through foreplay and I couldn't get a hard on because I just wanted feeling it. She took this as it was her fault I couldn't get it and lost all mood and blamed it on herself and I told her it wasn't but because I was nervous a bit because I liked her. She then tells me she hasn't gone down this road in a relationship before, she is afraid because she might ruin it and what not. She tells me either we can just be friends and have no more kissing/sex or we can just have sex and no emotion with it. She tells me if I pick the sex one then I have to be okay with her getting with other guys and I'm not okay with that because I like her and truly would be jealous. It's just a part of me. We then laid in bed for a solid 20 minutes silent and then I broke the silence and I could tell my her body position she was closing herself off. By the end the mood became more cheerful, we went through some old photos of us. BUT at the end of the night when I left, there was no goodbye kiss, just a solid goodbye. I feel sad because I really really like this girl and she is my prom date too which is in a month and if things go south I just feel like I can't emotional be around her because it will hurt me too much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: BACKGROUND info on her. She has daddy issues and has a case of depression. Doesn't seem like she is able to open up, afraid of being settled. Tells me she feels claustrophobic.\n\nI've been dating her for just over a month and today we were about to have sex and went through foreplay and I couldn't get a hard on because I just wanted feeling it. She took this as it was her fault I couldn't get it and lost all mood and blamed it on herself and I told her it wasn't but because I was nervous a bit because I liked her. She then tells me she hasn't gone down this road in a relationship before, she is afraid because she might ruin it and what not. She tells me either we can just be friends and have no more kissing/sex or we can just have sex and no emotion with it. She tells me if I pick the sex one then I have to be okay with her getting with other guys and I'm not okay with that because I like her and truly would be jealous. It's just a part of me. We then laid in bed for a solid 20 minutes silent and then I broke the silence and I could tell my her body position she was closing herself off. By the end the mood became more cheerful, we went through some old photos of us. BUT at the end of the night when I left, there was no goodbye kiss, just a solid goodbye. I feel sad because I really really like this girl and she is my prom date too which is in a month and if things go south I just feel like I can't emotional be around her because it will hurt me too much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: BACKGROUND info on her. She has daddy issues and has a case of depression. Doesn't seem like she is able to open up, afraid of being settled. Tells me she feels claustrophobic.\n\nI've been dating her for just over a month and today we were about to have sex and went through foreplay and I couldn't get a hard on because I just wanted feeling it. She took this as it was her fault I couldn't get it and lost all mood and blamed it on herself and I told her it wasn't but because I was nervous a bit because I liked her. She then tells me she hasn't gone down this road in a relationship before, she is afraid because she might ruin it and what not. She tells me either we can just be friends and have no more kissing/sex or we can just have sex and no emotion with it. She tells me if I pick the sex one then I have to be okay with her getting with other guys and I'm not okay with that because I like her and truly would be jealous. It's just a part of me. We then laid in bed for a solid 20 minutes silent and then I broke the silence and I could tell my her body position she was closing herself off. By the end the mood became more cheerful, we went through some old photos of us. BUT at the end of the night when I left, there was no goodbye kiss, just a solid goodbye. I feel sad because I really really like this girl and she is my prom date too which is in a month and if things go south I just feel like I can't emotional be around her because it will hurt me too much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for close to a year now. We are both from India originally, but both of our families immigrated to Canada when we were kids. \n\nSo the topic came up while we were talking about our past relationships with a group of friends. We started talking about interracial relationships, and I mentioned how I had never been in a serious relationship with someone outside my race. Everyone got curious when I stated this, and asked me what the reason was. I responded saying I was unwilling to have a relationship with someone without a similar background to myself, primarily because I feel there would be too many differences to overcome for it to work. I understand it works with many couples, however personally I feel this would not be the case for myself. \n\nAfter my response, everyone, including my girlfriend, remarked how they felt that was really racist for me to say, and that plenty of interracial relationships work in the real world. After we got home, my girlfriend was especially angry with me, stating how she felt that was a complete bigoted view to have. I tried explaining that it wasn't because I believed my race was superior or whatever else, just that I felt everything from food to religion, to cultural values would be too different to fully overcome. She was unwilling to accept that however. \n\nSince that night, it has been tense between my friends, girlfriend, and myself. I can tell my girlfriend is still pissed at me. How should I approach this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for close to a year now. We are both from India originally, but both of our families immigrated to Canada when we were kids. \n\nSo the topic came up while we were talking about our past relationships with a group of friends. We started talking about interracial relationships, and I mentioned how I had never been in a serious relationship with someone outside my race. Everyone got curious when I stated this, and asked me what the reason was. I responded saying I was unwilling to have a relationship with someone without a similar background to myself, primarily because I feel there would be too many differences to overcome for it to work. I understand it works with many couples, however personally I feel this would not be the case for myself. \n\nAfter my response, everyone, including my girlfriend, remarked how they felt that was really racist for me to say, and that plenty of interracial relationships work in the real world. After we got home, my girlfriend was especially angry with me, stating how she felt that was a complete bigoted view to have. I tried explaining that it wasn't because I believed my race was superior or whatever else, just that I felt everything from food to religion, to cultural values would be too different to fully overcome. She was unwilling to accept that however. \n\nSince that night, it has been tense between my friends, girlfriend, and myself. I can tell my girlfriend is still pissed at me. How should I approach this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for close to a year now. We are both from India originally, but both of our families immigrated to Canada when we were kids. \n\nSo the topic came up while we were talking about our past relationships with a group of friends. We started talking about interracial relationships, and I mentioned how I had never been in a serious relationship with someone outside my race. Everyone got curious when I stated this, and asked me what the reason was. I responded saying I was unwilling to have a relationship with someone without a similar background to myself, primarily because I feel there would be too many differences to overcome for it to work. I understand it works with many couples, however personally I feel this would not be the case for myself. \n\nAfter my response, everyone, including my girlfriend, remarked how they felt that was really racist for me to say, and that plenty of interracial relationships work in the real world. After we got home, my girlfriend was especially angry with me, stating how she felt that was a complete bigoted view to have. I tried explaining that it wasn't because I believed my race was superior or whatever else, just that I felt everything from food to religion, to cultural values would be too different to fully overcome. She was unwilling to accept that however. \n\nSince that night, it has been tense between my friends, girlfriend, and myself. I can tell my girlfriend is still pissed at me. How should I approach this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before getting into my current relationship I was burned in my last 2, only relevant to this situation because my current girlfriend knew all about it and how it's affected me semi long term when it comes to trust.\n\nI have known my girlfriend for years as she is my younger sisters old best friend. Her and her last long term boyfriend of about 4ish years (I THINK) would linger in each others lives up until she met me, or so she says. He was abusive and hit her (twice), degraded her, cheated on her, didn't let her have friends, made her stay in the house while he went out to drink etc. etc. etc. I spoil and treat her the absolute complete opposite of the way that he did. Last night while we were sitting on the couch she was going through her emails and I noticed she sent an attachment to herself. When I asked her to open it she did and it was a picture she saved off of Instagram, before deleting it from her Instagram, of her and the exbf that I described above kissing while on vacation from about 2 years ago.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't know if I am overreacting. I asked her why she did that and she said \"I am a hoarder, I save everything\" but when I didn't buy that explanation she got overly emotional and angry because she knows I am a no bullshit kind of guy and she knows to me this is some bullshit. It was on her Instagram prior to her deleting it.there are other pictures of them together on Instagram that she left up but she saved this specific one to her email and then deleted it from Instagram. I am so confused, I feel like I am getting played yet again. I don't know what to do because I do love her but it's so early in a relationship for that kind of shit it makes me think they're either still lingering in each others lives or she isn't over him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before getting into my current relationship I was burned in my last 2, only relevant to this situation because my current girlfriend knew all about it and how it's affected me semi long term when it comes to trust.\n\nI have known my girlfriend for years as she is my younger sisters old best friend. Her and her last long term boyfriend of about 4ish years (I THINK) would linger in each others lives up until she met me, or so she says. He was abusive and hit her (twice), degraded her, cheated on her, didn't let her have friends, made her stay in the house while he went out to drink etc. etc. etc. I spoil and treat her the absolute complete opposite of the way that he did. Last night while we were sitting on the couch she was going through her emails and I noticed she sent an attachment to herself. When I asked her to open it she did and it was a picture she saved off of Instagram, before deleting it from her Instagram, of her and the exbf that I described above kissing while on vacation from about 2 years ago.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't know if I am overreacting. I asked her why she did that and she said \"I am a hoarder, I save everything\" but when I didn't buy that explanation she got overly emotional and angry because she knows I am a no bullshit kind of guy and she knows to me this is some bullshit. It was on her Instagram prior to her deleting it.there are other pictures of them together on Instagram that she left up but she saved this specific one to her email and then deleted it from Instagram. I am so confused, I feel like I am getting played yet again. I don't know what to do because I do love her but it's so early in a relationship for that kind of shit it makes me think they're either still lingering in each others lives or she isn't over him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before getting into my current relationship I was burned in my last 2, only relevant to this situation because my current girlfriend knew all about it and how it's affected me semi long term when it comes to trust.\n\nI have known my girlfriend for years as she is my younger sisters old best friend. Her and her last long term boyfriend of about 4ish years (I THINK) would linger in each others lives up until she met me, or so she says. He was abusive and hit her (twice), degraded her, cheated on her, didn't let her have friends, made her stay in the house while he went out to drink etc. etc. etc. I spoil and treat her the absolute complete opposite of the way that he did. Last night while we were sitting on the couch she was going through her emails and I noticed she sent an attachment to herself. When I asked her to open it she did and it was a picture she saved off of Instagram, before deleting it from her Instagram, of her and the exbf that I described above kissing while on vacation from about 2 years ago.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't know if I am overreacting. I asked her why she did that and she said \"I am a hoarder, I save everything\" but when I didn't buy that explanation she got overly emotional and angry because she knows I am a no bullshit kind of guy and she knows to me this is some bullshit. It was on her Instagram prior to her deleting it.there are other pictures of them together on Instagram that she left up but she saved this specific one to her email and then deleted it from Instagram. I am so confused, I feel like I am getting played yet again. I don't know what to do because I do love her but it's so early in a relationship for that kind of shit it makes me think they're either still lingering in each others lives or she isn't over him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before getting into my current relationship I was burned in my last 2, only relevant to this situation because my current girlfriend knew all about it and how it's affected me semi long term when it comes to trust.\n\nI have known my girlfriend for years as she is my younger sisters old best friend. Her and her last long term boyfriend of about 4ish years (I THINK) would linger in each others lives up until she met me, or so she says. He was abusive and hit her (twice), degraded her, cheated on her, didn't let her have friends, made her stay in the house while he went out to drink etc. etc. etc. I spoil and treat her the absolute complete opposite of the way that he did. Last night while we were sitting on the couch she was going through her emails and I noticed she sent an attachment to herself. When I asked her to open it she did and it was a picture she saved off of Instagram, before deleting it from her Instagram, of her and the exbf that I described above kissing while on vacation from about 2 years ago.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't know if I am overreacting. I asked her why she did that and she said \"I am a hoarder, I save everything\" but when I didn't buy that explanation she got overly emotional and angry because she knows I am a no bullshit kind of guy and she knows to me this is some bullshit. It was on her Instagram prior to her deleting it.there are other pictures of them together on Instagram that she left up but she saved this specific one to her email and then deleted it from Instagram. I am so confused, I feel like I am getting played yet again. I don't know what to do because I do love her but it's so early in a relationship for that kind of shit it makes me think they're either still lingering in each others lives or she isn't over him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before getting into my current relationship I was burned in my last 2, only relevant to this situation because my current girlfriend knew all about it and how it's affected me semi long term when it comes to trust.\n\nI have known my girlfriend for years as she is my younger sisters old best friend. Her and her last long term boyfriend of about 4ish years (I THINK) would linger in each others lives up until she met me, or so she says. He was abusive and hit her (twice), degraded her, cheated on her, didn't let her have friends, made her stay in the house while he went out to drink etc. etc. etc. I spoil and treat her the absolute complete opposite of the way that he did. Last night while we were sitting on the couch she was going through her emails and I noticed she sent an attachment to herself. When I asked her to open it she did and it was a picture she saved off of Instagram, before deleting it from her Instagram, of her and the exbf that I described above kissing while on vacation from about 2 years ago.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't know if I am overreacting. I asked her why she did that and she said \"I am a hoarder, I save everything\" but when I didn't buy that explanation she got overly emotional and angry because she knows I am a no bullshit kind of guy and she knows to me this is some bullshit. It was on her Instagram prior to her deleting it.there are other pictures of them together on Instagram that she left up but she saved this specific one to her email and then deleted it from Instagram. I am so confused, I feel like I am getting played yet again. I don't know what to do because I do love her but it's so early in a relationship for that kind of shit it makes me think they're either still lingering in each others lives or she isn't over him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before getting into my current relationship I was burned in my last 2, only relevant to this situation because my current girlfriend knew all about it and how it's affected me semi long term when it comes to trust.\n\nI have known my girlfriend for years as she is my younger sisters old best friend. Her and her last long term boyfriend of about 4ish years (I THINK) would linger in each others lives up until she met me, or so she says. He was abusive and hit her (twice), degraded her, cheated on her, didn't let her have friends, made her stay in the house while he went out to drink etc. etc. etc. I spoil and treat her the absolute complete opposite of the way that he did. Last night while we were sitting on the couch she was going through her emails and I noticed she sent an attachment to herself. When I asked her to open it she did and it was a picture she saved off of Instagram, before deleting it from her Instagram, of her and the exbf that I described above kissing while on vacation from about 2 years ago.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't know if I am overreacting. I asked her why she did that and she said \"I am a hoarder, I save everything\" but when I didn't buy that explanation she got overly emotional and angry because she knows I am a no bullshit kind of guy and she knows to me this is some bullshit. It was on her Instagram prior to her deleting it.there are other pictures of them together on Instagram that she left up but she saved this specific one to her email and then deleted it from Instagram. I am so confused, I feel like I am getting played yet again. I don't know what to do because I do love her but it's so early in a relationship for that kind of shit it makes me think they're either still lingering in each others lives or she isn't over him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend recently moved to the city and hasn't been dating for a while. I want to go out with him and be his 'wingwoman' to help him find a special lady friend (as does he, I'm not pressing this on him).\n\nI'm in a committed long term relationship of 4.5 years, how do I go out with him in a way that he still seems approachable by other women when my SO can't come too? I worry that people will automatically assume he is my boyfriend when it is just the two of us and that will be no bueno for his chances.\n\nWhat ways can I talk him up or help him break into circles of ladies to talk to? What's the best way to excuse myself when it seems he is hitting it off with someone?\n\nI just want to be a good friend and see him happy, please send me your tips!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend recently moved to the city and hasn't been dating for a while. I want to go out with him and be his 'wingwoman' to help him find a special lady friend (as does he, I'm not pressing this on him).\n\nI'm in a committed long term relationship of 4.5 years, how do I go out with him in a way that he still seems approachable by other women when my SO can't come too? I worry that people will automatically assume he is my boyfriend when it is just the two of us and that will be no bueno for his chances.\n\nWhat ways can I talk him up or help him break into circles of ladies to talk to? What's the best way to excuse myself when it seems he is hitting it off with someone?\n\nI just want to be a good friend and see him happy, please send me your tips!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It began when my uncle asked me to help redecorate the house with the new furniture he got from his friend. Being the good nephew I am, I happily obliged.\n\nNow here's where trouble begins. The furniture my uncle's friends gave to us, still had a lot of stuff in them (mostly clothes). So we had to take out the clothes and put them in garbage bags in order for us to use and carry them. Out of sheer luck, I found a bottle of lube.\n\nThe labelling on the lube said \"*strawberry flavor*\". I don't have much experience with sexual things and so I got really curious. I wanted to smell the lube. Yes you read that right. *I WANTED ITS FRUITY SMELL IN MY NOSTRILS*.\n\nLittle did I know that water-based lube actually has a very watery-like viscosity. Despite it clearly saying that, I still thought it had a lotion-like viscosity. So opened the cap and tried to squirt a bit into my hand.\n\nInstead, a grand deluge of lube came down all over my body and the furniture-the fruity smell pervasive throughout the vicinity. As this was happening, my entire family stood and watched with mixed expressions of horror and confusion. I told them to relax as it was only water-based lube but my clarification only added to their horror.\n\nThey then asked, \"Why did you open it?\" to which I replied nonchalantly, \"I just wanted to smell it.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It began when my uncle asked me to help redecorate the house with the new furniture he got from his friend. Being the good nephew I am, I happily obliged.\n\nNow here's where trouble begins. The furniture my uncle's friends gave to us, still had a lot of stuff in them (mostly clothes). So we had to take out the clothes and put them in garbage bags in order for us to use and carry them. Out of sheer luck, I found a bottle of lube.\n\nThe labelling on the lube said \"*strawberry flavor*\". I don't have much experience with sexual things and so I got really curious. I wanted to smell the lube. Yes you read that right. *I WANTED ITS FRUITY SMELL IN MY NOSTRILS*.\n\nLittle did I know that water-based lube actually has a very watery-like viscosity. Despite it clearly saying that, I still thought it had a lotion-like viscosity. So opened the cap and tried to squirt a bit into my hand.\n\nInstead, a grand deluge of lube came down all over my body and the furniture-the fruity smell pervasive throughout the vicinity. As this was happening, my entire family stood and watched with mixed expressions of horror and confusion. I told them to relax as it was only water-based lube but my clarification only added to their horror.\n\nThey then asked, \"Why did you open it?\" to which I replied nonchalantly, \"I just wanted to smell it.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It began when my uncle asked me to help redecorate the house with the new furniture he got from his friend. Being the good nephew I am, I happily obliged.\n\nNow here's where trouble begins. The furniture my uncle's friends gave to us, still had a lot of stuff in them (mostly clothes). So we had to take out the clothes and put them in garbage bags in order for us to use and carry them. Out of sheer luck, I found a bottle of lube.\n\nThe labelling on the lube said \"*strawberry flavor*\". I don't have much experience with sexual things and so I got really curious. I wanted to smell the lube. Yes you read that right. *I WANTED ITS FRUITY SMELL IN MY NOSTRILS*.\n\nLittle did I know that water-based lube actually has a very watery-like viscosity. Despite it clearly saying that, I still thought it had a lotion-like viscosity. So opened the cap and tried to squirt a bit into my hand.\n\nInstead, a grand deluge of lube came down all over my body and the furniture-the fruity smell pervasive throughout the vicinity. As this was happening, my entire family stood and watched with mixed expressions of horror and confusion. I told them to relax as it was only water-based lube but my clarification only added to their horror.\n\nThey then asked, \"Why did you open it?\" to which I replied nonchalantly, \"I just wanted to smell it.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this lovely guy on tinder (I know, questionable origins) and he's treated me better than anyone I've ever been with. From our very first date he said he was only in the market for casual however, so I've been understandably weary. But regardless of our casual status, we see each other weekly, have Scrabble nights, pig out and watch Netflix. Plus he invited me to his brother's wedding and asked me to go away for the weekend with him, among other very coupley things. Plus he's just so nice to me, always telling me I'm pretty, plus he seems to find my daftness charming (I'm not used to this).\n\nAnyway, in spite of it all, he doesn't want to commit, and he's still on tinder. Apparently he used to be pretty overweight and has had really long dry spells, so he says he wants to make up for lost time. We've only been dating 2 months, but I can feel myself becoming attached. I don't want to let him go though, because he gives me everything I need (beside the title of girlfriend) and I'm scared I won't find another guy as nice as him. I've been with quite a few dudes, and at this point in the relationship they usually fade on me or start to treat me like shit. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should let him go because we want different things at the moment, or if I should stick it out for a little while longer and see if he changes his mind, since it genuinely feels as if he really likes me. Any advice/anecdotes would be greatly welcomed :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this lovely guy on tinder (I know, questionable origins) and he's treated me better than anyone I've ever been with. From our very first date he said he was only in the market for casual however, so I've been understandably weary. But regardless of our casual status, we see each other weekly, have Scrabble nights, pig out and watch Netflix. Plus he invited me to his brother's wedding and asked me to go away for the weekend with him, among other very coupley things. Plus he's just so nice to me, always telling me I'm pretty, plus he seems to find my daftness charming (I'm not used to this).\n\nAnyway, in spite of it all, he doesn't want to commit, and he's still on tinder. Apparently he used to be pretty overweight and has had really long dry spells, so he says he wants to make up for lost time. We've only been dating 2 months, but I can feel myself becoming attached. I don't want to let him go though, because he gives me everything I need (beside the title of girlfriend) and I'm scared I won't find another guy as nice as him. I've been with quite a few dudes, and at this point in the relationship they usually fade on me or start to treat me like shit. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should let him go because we want different things at the moment, or if I should stick it out for a little while longer and see if he changes his mind, since it genuinely feels as if he really likes me. Any advice/anecdotes would be greatly welcomed :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so I play a lot of sports mostly ultimate frisbee, and i recently injured my hip, more specifically, my hip flexor. apparently, this is a common injury for ultimate players, so my coach told me to take some ibuprofen, then stretch it out by using a hard ball of some kind and to put it on the floor. then i would have to put my body weight onto it right where my hip flexor was, then roll it out, however he didn't tell me how ridiculous i would look, so when i actually did it, it looked like i was humping/grinding the ground.\n\ntoday i decided to roll it out; i grabbed a baseball, went upstairs to the guest room, put some headphones in and started doing my thing. since i was getting a bit bored, i started browsing 9gag in attempts to find something entertaining (i know. i know. i should have gone on reddit instead). everything was cool until i was loading a gif of a girl doing something stupid, then i feel a kick to my side. I look up and to my horror, it's my dad and he literally has the weirdest look on his face. he doesn't say a word to me, and just leaves the room."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so I play a lot of sports mostly ultimate frisbee, and i recently injured my hip, more specifically, my hip flexor. apparently, this is a common injury for ultimate players, so my coach told me to take some ibuprofen, then stretch it out by using a hard ball of some kind and to put it on the floor. then i would have to put my body weight onto it right where my hip flexor was, then roll it out, however he didn't tell me how ridiculous i would look, so when i actually did it, it looked like i was humping/grinding the ground.\n\ntoday i decided to roll it out; i grabbed a baseball, went upstairs to the guest room, put some headphones in and started doing my thing. since i was getting a bit bored, i started browsing 9gag in attempts to find something entertaining (i know. i know. i should have gone on reddit instead). everything was cool until i was loading a gif of a girl doing something stupid, then i feel a kick to my side. I look up and to my horror, it's my dad and he literally has the weirdest look on his face. he doesn't say a word to me, and just leaves the room."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so I play a lot of sports mostly ultimate frisbee, and i recently injured my hip, more specifically, my hip flexor. apparently, this is a common injury for ultimate players, so my coach told me to take some ibuprofen, then stretch it out by using a hard ball of some kind and to put it on the floor. then i would have to put my body weight onto it right where my hip flexor was, then roll it out, however he didn't tell me how ridiculous i would look, so when i actually did it, it looked like i was humping/grinding the ground.\n\ntoday i decided to roll it out; i grabbed a baseball, went upstairs to the guest room, put some headphones in and started doing my thing. since i was getting a bit bored, i started browsing 9gag in attempts to find something entertaining (i know. i know. i should have gone on reddit instead). everything was cool until i was loading a gif of a girl doing something stupid, then i feel a kick to my side. I look up and to my horror, it's my dad and he literally has the weirdest look on his face. he doesn't say a word to me, and just leaves the room."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A buddy of mine told me his story a while back so here goes. We'll call him Ethan, because that's his name, and he'd somehow managed to bring an older girl round his house. He was in Year 10 and she was in Year 11 (basically he was 15 she was 16). She asked him if he wanted to 'get off' (not sure if you guys on the other side of the pond use this phrase but she was basically asking if he wanted a handjob) and he replied 'No thanks I can do it by myself'. Much face-palming occurred when he realised what he'd done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A buddy of mine told me his story a while back so here goes. We'll call him Ethan, because that's his name, and he'd somehow managed to bring an older girl round his house. He was in Year 10 and she was in Year 11 (basically he was 15 she was 16). She asked him if he wanted to 'get off' (not sure if you guys on the other side of the pond use this phrase but she was basically asking if he wanted a handjob) and he replied 'No thanks I can do it by myself'. Much face-palming occurred when he realised what he'd done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A buddy of mine told me his story a while back so here goes. We'll call him Ethan, because that's his name, and he'd somehow managed to bring an older girl round his house. He was in Year 10 and she was in Year 11 (basically he was 15 she was 16). She asked him if he wanted to 'get off' (not sure if you guys on the other side of the pond use this phrase but she was basically asking if he wanted a handjob) and he replied 'No thanks I can do it by myself'. Much face-palming occurred when he realised what he'd done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A buddy of mine told me his story a while back so here goes. We'll call him Ethan, because that's his name, and he'd somehow managed to bring an older girl round his house. He was in Year 10 and she was in Year 11 (basically he was 15 she was 16). She asked him if he wanted to 'get off' (not sure if you guys on the other side of the pond use this phrase but she was basically asking if he wanted a handjob) and he replied 'No thanks I can do it by myself'. Much face-palming occurred when he realised what he'd done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A buddy of mine told me his story a while back so here goes. We'll call him Ethan, because that's his name, and he'd somehow managed to bring an older girl round his house. He was in Year 10 and she was in Year 11 (basically he was 15 she was 16). She asked him if he wanted to 'get off' (not sure if you guys on the other side of the pond use this phrase but she was basically asking if he wanted a handjob) and he replied 'No thanks I can do it by myself'. Much face-palming occurred when he realised what he'd done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A buddy of mine told me his story a while back so here goes. We'll call him Ethan, because that's his name, and he'd somehow managed to bring an older girl round his house. He was in Year 10 and she was in Year 11 (basically he was 15 she was 16). She asked him if he wanted to 'get off' (not sure if you guys on the other side of the pond use this phrase but she was basically asking if he wanted a handjob) and he replied 'No thanks I can do it by myself'. Much face-palming occurred when he realised what he'd done."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this girl for several months when I studied abroad. It was fantastic. Unfortunately my time abroad had a expiration date and we broke up just before I left. After trying to drastically limit our communication for several post break-up months, we finally admitted that we still very much had feelings for each other.\n\nThe first couple months of the long distance relationship went amazingly smoothly, but eventually I felt her start to draw away. We would talk and the responses would be more curt, and where we used to waste hours just incessantly texting back and forth, we eventually settled in to a likely more healthy, but slower pattern of communication. She also took to tweeting extremely cryptic things, while for the most part putting on a happy face during our communications.\n\nI deal with some insecurity and depression for which I'm supposed to be taking meds. And her changed behavior gave me some anxiety about the status of our relationship, especially because on facebook she maintained the same active social life, going out with her mostly male friends who had during my time abrouad made their dislike of me very obvious.\n\nHer distance and the tweets deviated enough from her normal behavior that I finally addressed it on Skype, and she eventually admitted that she had these intense feelings of depression and external pressure and was in therapy for her issues, but for the most part refused to elaborate beyond that. \n\nThis conversation happened maybe two months ago, and since then we've gone through different extremes, extremely close and upbeat to distant and withdrawn. I want to help and play a larger role than a supportive voice through her computer screen. I think she for the most part tunes out whatever affirming comments I give her. \n\nWe have days where things are incredible, but then she falls back into a depressive cycle and I feel like white noise against everything else. Are the strategies for reaching someone who can be closed off, especially considering that I can't be physcially there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this girl for several months when I studied abroad. It was fantastic. Unfortunately my time abroad had a expiration date and we broke up just before I left. After trying to drastically limit our communication for several post break-up months, we finally admitted that we still very much had feelings for each other.\n\nThe first couple months of the long distance relationship went amazingly smoothly, but eventually I felt her start to draw away. We would talk and the responses would be more curt, and where we used to waste hours just incessantly texting back and forth, we eventually settled in to a likely more healthy, but slower pattern of communication. She also took to tweeting extremely cryptic things, while for the most part putting on a happy face during our communications.\n\nI deal with some insecurity and depression for which I'm supposed to be taking meds. And her changed behavior gave me some anxiety about the status of our relationship, especially because on facebook she maintained the same active social life, going out with her mostly male friends who had during my time abrouad made their dislike of me very obvious.\n\nHer distance and the tweets deviated enough from her normal behavior that I finally addressed it on Skype, and she eventually admitted that she had these intense feelings of depression and external pressure and was in therapy for her issues, but for the most part refused to elaborate beyond that. \n\nThis conversation happened maybe two months ago, and since then we've gone through different extremes, extremely close and upbeat to distant and withdrawn. I want to help and play a larger role than a supportive voice through her computer screen. I think she for the most part tunes out whatever affirming comments I give her. \n\nWe have days where things are incredible, but then she falls back into a depressive cycle and I feel like white noise against everything else. Are the strategies for reaching someone who can be closed off, especially considering that I can't be physcially there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this girl for several months when I studied abroad. It was fantastic. Unfortunately my time abroad had a expiration date and we broke up just before I left. After trying to drastically limit our communication for several post break-up months, we finally admitted that we still very much had feelings for each other.\n\nThe first couple months of the long distance relationship went amazingly smoothly, but eventually I felt her start to draw away. We would talk and the responses would be more curt, and where we used to waste hours just incessantly texting back and forth, we eventually settled in to a likely more healthy, but slower pattern of communication. She also took to tweeting extremely cryptic things, while for the most part putting on a happy face during our communications.\n\nI deal with some insecurity and depression for which I'm supposed to be taking meds. And her changed behavior gave me some anxiety about the status of our relationship, especially because on facebook she maintained the same active social life, going out with her mostly male friends who had during my time abrouad made their dislike of me very obvious.\n\nHer distance and the tweets deviated enough from her normal behavior that I finally addressed it on Skype, and she eventually admitted that she had these intense feelings of depression and external pressure and was in therapy for her issues, but for the most part refused to elaborate beyond that. \n\nThis conversation happened maybe two months ago, and since then we've gone through different extremes, extremely close and upbeat to distant and withdrawn. I want to help and play a larger role than a supportive voice through her computer screen. I think she for the most part tunes out whatever affirming comments I give her. \n\nWe have days where things are incredible, but then she falls back into a depressive cycle and I feel like white noise against everything else. Are the strategies for reaching someone who can be closed off, especially considering that I can't be physcially there?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted this already in askmen, but here we go:\n\nI've been thinking over a situation I had with my gf and trying to figure out, as the title suggests, if I was being reasonable or overreacting. \n\nThe scenario: We are dates for a somewhat big deal type event at my frat (dressed up and whatnot), we both get buzzed while drinking-> she randomly disappears while we're doing an activity together and I wait for her-> I wait for the better part of 30 min -> I search around everywhere to find her, eventually find her in an empty hallway fixing the collar/clothes of another guy really intimately-> the guy and I have a history and he is a massive d-bag-> I play it cool and tell her I was looking for her, she's still drunk/the d-bag looks caught and like he knew exactly what he was doing, backs off accordingly-> my gf and I go to a private room and I tell her how annoyed I was that I had no idea where she was, that she didn't tell me text or otherwise where she was for 1/2 an hour, only for me to find her being intimate and touching a guy who I dislike a lot-> She starts crying-> after some more crying and her storming off for a bit, we eventually reconcile enough to enjoy the rest of the night.\nNow. Looking back on that night, she says that I overreacted and shouldn't have gotten upset/annoyed and that I partially ruined the night. I think that I shouldn't have had to look for my gf/date forever and then find her with another guy. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted this already in askmen, but here we go:\n\nI've been thinking over a situation I had with my gf and trying to figure out, as the title suggests, if I was being reasonable or overreacting. \n\nThe scenario: We are dates for a somewhat big deal type event at my frat (dressed up and whatnot), we both get buzzed while drinking-> she randomly disappears while we're doing an activity together and I wait for her-> I wait for the better part of 30 min -> I search around everywhere to find her, eventually find her in an empty hallway fixing the collar/clothes of another guy really intimately-> the guy and I have a history and he is a massive d-bag-> I play it cool and tell her I was looking for her, she's still drunk/the d-bag looks caught and like he knew exactly what he was doing, backs off accordingly-> my gf and I go to a private room and I tell her how annoyed I was that I had no idea where she was, that she didn't tell me text or otherwise where she was for 1/2 an hour, only for me to find her being intimate and touching a guy who I dislike a lot-> She starts crying-> after some more crying and her storming off for a bit, we eventually reconcile enough to enjoy the rest of the night.\nNow. Looking back on that night, she says that I overreacted and shouldn't have gotten upset/annoyed and that I partially ruined the night. I think that I shouldn't have had to look for my gf/date forever and then find her with another guy. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted this already in askmen, but here we go:\n\nI've been thinking over a situation I had with my gf and trying to figure out, as the title suggests, if I was being reasonable or overreacting. \n\nThe scenario: We are dates for a somewhat big deal type event at my frat (dressed up and whatnot), we both get buzzed while drinking-> she randomly disappears while we're doing an activity together and I wait for her-> I wait for the better part of 30 min -> I search around everywhere to find her, eventually find her in an empty hallway fixing the collar/clothes of another guy really intimately-> the guy and I have a history and he is a massive d-bag-> I play it cool and tell her I was looking for her, she's still drunk/the d-bag looks caught and like he knew exactly what he was doing, backs off accordingly-> my gf and I go to a private room and I tell her how annoyed I was that I had no idea where she was, that she didn't tell me text or otherwise where she was for 1/2 an hour, only for me to find her being intimate and touching a guy who I dislike a lot-> She starts crying-> after some more crying and her storming off for a bit, we eventually reconcile enough to enjoy the rest of the night.\nNow. Looking back on that night, she says that I overreacted and shouldn't have gotten upset/annoyed and that I partially ruined the night. I think that I shouldn't have had to look for my gf/date forever and then find her with another guy. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted this already in askmen, but here we go:\n\nI've been thinking over a situation I had with my gf and trying to figure out, as the title suggests, if I was being reasonable or overreacting. \n\nThe scenario: We are dates for a somewhat big deal type event at my frat (dressed up and whatnot), we both get buzzed while drinking-> she randomly disappears while we're doing an activity together and I wait for her-> I wait for the better part of 30 min -> I search around everywhere to find her, eventually find her in an empty hallway fixing the collar/clothes of another guy really intimately-> the guy and I have a history and he is a massive d-bag-> I play it cool and tell her I was looking for her, she's still drunk/the d-bag looks caught and like he knew exactly what he was doing, backs off accordingly-> my gf and I go to a private room and I tell her how annoyed I was that I had no idea where she was, that she didn't tell me text or otherwise where she was for 1/2 an hour, only for me to find her being intimate and touching a guy who I dislike a lot-> She starts crying-> after some more crying and her storming off for a bit, we eventually reconcile enough to enjoy the rest of the night.\nNow. Looking back on that night, she says that I overreacted and shouldn't have gotten upset/annoyed and that I partially ruined the night. I think that I shouldn't have had to look for my gf/date forever and then find her with another guy. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted this already in askmen, but here we go:\n\nI've been thinking over a situation I had with my gf and trying to figure out, as the title suggests, if I was being reasonable or overreacting. \n\nThe scenario: We are dates for a somewhat big deal type event at my frat (dressed up and whatnot), we both get buzzed while drinking-> she randomly disappears while we're doing an activity together and I wait for her-> I wait for the better part of 30 min -> I search around everywhere to find her, eventually find her in an empty hallway fixing the collar/clothes of another guy really intimately-> the guy and I have a history and he is a massive d-bag-> I play it cool and tell her I was looking for her, she's still drunk/the d-bag looks caught and like he knew exactly what he was doing, backs off accordingly-> my gf and I go to a private room and I tell her how annoyed I was that I had no idea where she was, that she didn't tell me text or otherwise where she was for 1/2 an hour, only for me to find her being intimate and touching a guy who I dislike a lot-> She starts crying-> after some more crying and her storming off for a bit, we eventually reconcile enough to enjoy the rest of the night.\nNow. Looking back on that night, she says that I overreacted and shouldn't have gotten upset/annoyed and that I partially ruined the night. I think that I shouldn't have had to look for my gf/date forever and then find her with another guy. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted this already in askmen, but here we go:\n\nI've been thinking over a situation I had with my gf and trying to figure out, as the title suggests, if I was being reasonable or overreacting. \n\nThe scenario: We are dates for a somewhat big deal type event at my frat (dressed up and whatnot), we both get buzzed while drinking-> she randomly disappears while we're doing an activity together and I wait for her-> I wait for the better part of 30 min -> I search around everywhere to find her, eventually find her in an empty hallway fixing the collar/clothes of another guy really intimately-> the guy and I have a history and he is a massive d-bag-> I play it cool and tell her I was looking for her, she's still drunk/the d-bag looks caught and like he knew exactly what he was doing, backs off accordingly-> my gf and I go to a private room and I tell her how annoyed I was that I had no idea where she was, that she didn't tell me text or otherwise where she was for 1/2 an hour, only for me to find her being intimate and touching a guy who I dislike a lot-> She starts crying-> after some more crying and her storming off for a bit, we eventually reconcile enough to enjoy the rest of the night.\nNow. Looking back on that night, she says that I overreacted and shouldn't have gotten upset/annoyed and that I partially ruined the night. I think that I shouldn't have had to look for my gf/date forever and then find her with another guy. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been my best friend for 8 years. We started dating when we ended up in the same town again after three years apart, and the friend/relationship side of things has gone really well.\n\nShe was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder at a young age, and has dealt with that, along with an eating disorder stemming from the anxiety and her mother and grandmother generally constantly telling her that her worth is in her beauty, (along with the normal patriarchal stuff telling women that, of course).\n\nI have loved her for a long time, and when we started dating, our sex life was pretty normal, exciting, and we had a really good time. Now, in the last three months, we've had sex four times, and barely messed around more than that. We've also stopped in the middle of sex every time because she got anxious or uncomfortable, or just made it very clear without saying it that she was.\n\nShe tells me that she wants to sleep with me, that she is attracted to me, but I'm terrified that she's with me for our relationship, but just isn't interested in sex with me, but is too anxious to tell me, for fear that I won't be able to handle it. \n\nWe've talked about this many times over the last few months, and now I feel like any time I try to do something sexy, or grab her when we lay down to sleep or touch her sensually, that she's just going to put up with me being close because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Please help me, I need advice, fam."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been my best friend for 8 years. We started dating when we ended up in the same town again after three years apart, and the friend/relationship side of things has gone really well.\n\nShe was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder at a young age, and has dealt with that, along with an eating disorder stemming from the anxiety and her mother and grandmother generally constantly telling her that her worth is in her beauty, (along with the normal patriarchal stuff telling women that, of course).\n\nI have loved her for a long time, and when we started dating, our sex life was pretty normal, exciting, and we had a really good time. Now, in the last three months, we've had sex four times, and barely messed around more than that. We've also stopped in the middle of sex every time because she got anxious or uncomfortable, or just made it very clear without saying it that she was.\n\nShe tells me that she wants to sleep with me, that she is attracted to me, but I'm terrified that she's with me for our relationship, but just isn't interested in sex with me, but is too anxious to tell me, for fear that I won't be able to handle it. \n\nWe've talked about this many times over the last few months, and now I feel like any time I try to do something sexy, or grab her when we lay down to sleep or touch her sensually, that she's just going to put up with me being close because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Please help me, I need advice, fam."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been my best friend for 8 years. We started dating when we ended up in the same town again after three years apart, and the friend/relationship side of things has gone really well.\n\nShe was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder at a young age, and has dealt with that, along with an eating disorder stemming from the anxiety and her mother and grandmother generally constantly telling her that her worth is in her beauty, (along with the normal patriarchal stuff telling women that, of course).\n\nI have loved her for a long time, and when we started dating, our sex life was pretty normal, exciting, and we had a really good time. Now, in the last three months, we've had sex four times, and barely messed around more than that. We've also stopped in the middle of sex every time because she got anxious or uncomfortable, or just made it very clear without saying it that she was.\n\nShe tells me that she wants to sleep with me, that she is attracted to me, but I'm terrified that she's with me for our relationship, but just isn't interested in sex with me, but is too anxious to tell me, for fear that I won't be able to handle it. \n\nWe've talked about this many times over the last few months, and now I feel like any time I try to do something sexy, or grab her when we lay down to sleep or touch her sensually, that she's just going to put up with me being close because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Please help me, I need advice, fam."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been my best friend for 8 years. We started dating when we ended up in the same town again after three years apart, and the friend/relationship side of things has gone really well.\n\nShe was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder at a young age, and has dealt with that, along with an eating disorder stemming from the anxiety and her mother and grandmother generally constantly telling her that her worth is in her beauty, (along with the normal patriarchal stuff telling women that, of course).\n\nI have loved her for a long time, and when we started dating, our sex life was pretty normal, exciting, and we had a really good time. Now, in the last three months, we've had sex four times, and barely messed around more than that. We've also stopped in the middle of sex every time because she got anxious or uncomfortable, or just made it very clear without saying it that she was.\n\nShe tells me that she wants to sleep with me, that she is attracted to me, but I'm terrified that she's with me for our relationship, but just isn't interested in sex with me, but is too anxious to tell me, for fear that I won't be able to handle it. \n\nWe've talked about this many times over the last few months, and now I feel like any time I try to do something sexy, or grab her when we lay down to sleep or touch her sensually, that she's just going to put up with me being close because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Please help me, I need advice, fam."
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