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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I went on a date with this insanely beautiful, intelligent, funny, overall amazing woman a few weeks ago. It went really well, and I liked her a lot. She told me from the start that she was married and in an open relationship, and I wasn't phased by that really. I think that I didn't care because I hadn't fully thought through what it would mean to \"date\" someone in an open relationship. \n\nSo now that I'm about to go on a second date with her, I'm freaking out a little about how I'm expected to act. Do I treat her like any other girl I'd date and say cute things and let myself have feelings for her? Or do I try to avoid that and treat it as a sexual relationship only? On the first date, we ended up making out a lot, and I wasn't sure whether I was supposed to invite her back to my place or whether it was too soon, so I said goodnight. I guess this time I invite her back? And then it's just sexual from here out? I've had meaningless sex with guys and that's easy enough, but I'm worried I might not be able to separate feelings with a girl, because they make my heart go pitter patter. Any insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I went on a date with this insanely beautiful, intelligent, funny, overall amazing woman a few weeks ago. It went really well, and I liked her a lot. She told me from the start that she was married and in an open relationship, and I wasn't phased by that really. I think that I didn't care because I hadn't fully thought through what it would mean to \"date\" someone in an open relationship. \n\nSo now that I'm about to go on a second date with her, I'm freaking out a little about how I'm expected to act. Do I treat her like any other girl I'd date and say cute things and let myself have feelings for her? Or do I try to avoid that and treat it as a sexual relationship only? On the first date, we ended up making out a lot, and I wasn't sure whether I was supposed to invite her back to my place or whether it was too soon, so I said goodnight. I guess this time I invite her back? And then it's just sexual from here out? I've had meaningless sex with guys and that's easy enough, but I'm worried I might not be able to separate feelings with a girl, because they make my heart go pitter patter. Any insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I went on a date with this insanely beautiful, intelligent, funny, overall amazing woman a few weeks ago. It went really well, and I liked her a lot. She told me from the start that she was married and in an open relationship, and I wasn't phased by that really. I think that I didn't care because I hadn't fully thought through what it would mean to \"date\" someone in an open relationship. \n\nSo now that I'm about to go on a second date with her, I'm freaking out a little about how I'm expected to act. Do I treat her like any other girl I'd date and say cute things and let myself have feelings for her? Or do I try to avoid that and treat it as a sexual relationship only? On the first date, we ended up making out a lot, and I wasn't sure whether I was supposed to invite her back to my place or whether it was too soon, so I said goodnight. I guess this time I invite her back? And then it's just sexual from here out? I've had meaningless sex with guys and that's easy enough, but I'm worried I might not be able to separate feelings with a girl, because they make my heart go pitter patter. Any insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom works at an old navy for something upwards of almost ten years. Over the span of her working their they have been lingering in and out of being abusive employers. Not that this isn't something I wouldn't expect out of a big corporation, something happened recently that I'm close to positive should be lawsuit worthy or something in my mom's favor. \n\nThe other day on the clock my mom was cleaning one of the bathrooms and while taking the garbage out there was a faced up syringe under some paper towels! She found out after jabbing her hand with the syringe and noticed that there was preexisting blood on this syringe! She was then brought to the hospital (obviously) to be screened for all sorts of diseases and had the option of starting intense medications to prevent the microscopic chance of that needle being contaminated with HIV though the medications would make her very ill. All old navy did about the situation was lock the bathrooms so the public can't use them.\n\nIs there anything about this situation that my mom can use in her favor? She didn't turn the syringe over to Old Navy because they were being very nonchalant and dismissive about the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom works at an old navy for something upwards of almost ten years. Over the span of her working their they have been lingering in and out of being abusive employers. Not that this isn't something I wouldn't expect out of a big corporation, something happened recently that I'm close to positive should be lawsuit worthy or something in my mom's favor. \n\nThe other day on the clock my mom was cleaning one of the bathrooms and while taking the garbage out there was a faced up syringe under some paper towels! She found out after jabbing her hand with the syringe and noticed that there was preexisting blood on this syringe! She was then brought to the hospital (obviously) to be screened for all sorts of diseases and had the option of starting intense medications to prevent the microscopic chance of that needle being contaminated with HIV though the medications would make her very ill. All old navy did about the situation was lock the bathrooms so the public can't use them.\n\nIs there anything about this situation that my mom can use in her favor? She didn't turn the syringe over to Old Navy because they were being very nonchalant and dismissive about the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom works at an old navy for something upwards of almost ten years. Over the span of her working their they have been lingering in and out of being abusive employers. Not that this isn't something I wouldn't expect out of a big corporation, something happened recently that I'm close to positive should be lawsuit worthy or something in my mom's favor. \n\nThe other day on the clock my mom was cleaning one of the bathrooms and while taking the garbage out there was a faced up syringe under some paper towels! She found out after jabbing her hand with the syringe and noticed that there was preexisting blood on this syringe! She was then brought to the hospital (obviously) to be screened for all sorts of diseases and had the option of starting intense medications to prevent the microscopic chance of that needle being contaminated with HIV though the medications would make her very ill. All old navy did about the situation was lock the bathrooms so the public can't use them.\n\nIs there anything about this situation that my mom can use in her favor? She didn't turn the syringe over to Old Navy because they were being very nonchalant and dismissive about the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So first a little bit of backstory to put things into context: I recently started university and got along well with a girl. I subsequently asked her out for dinner to which she accepted. It wasn't explicitly mentioned that it was a date but I guess I assumed it was implied which probably was a bad idea. The \"date\" went extremely well and I did have a wonderful time with her and although I really do like her, I get the impression it's one sided.\n\nDuring the date, I told her that I considered this a date and whatnot and well I feel like I've put my foot in my mouth. How do I now tell her that I don't really care what happens and I would rather keep her as a friend than be awkward around each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to begin by saying I don't want any answers that just say 'break up', I want some actual advice on the situation and how to make it work, without having to break up. I believe this issue can be fixed, I'd just like some ideas as to how.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been together for around three months. We're genuinely happy in the relationship, except for one gaping problem that has arisen in the last month.\n\nHe's taken on a new job, one that requires him to work six days a week between 2pm and 8:30pm (sometimes starting a little earlier). This means we usually only have one day to meet up per week because I have uni most mornings, and the physically demanding nature of the job means he's usually too tired to do anything when he arrives home at night.\n\nIn fact, sometimes we only see each other once every two weeks, if he gets called into work on his day off, or if he makes plans to see his friends/family. \n\n(and before anyone says anything, i know for a fact that he's not seeing somebody else. i won't get into it here but we can rule that one out)\n\nI'm not gonna lie, I hate this. He hates it too. We love being around each other. We're generally really happy in our relationship, and at the risk of sounding needy, I'd spend every waking moment of every day with him if I could. But surely wanting to see your boyfriend more than once a week, or once every two weeks, is not too much to ask?! We're not a long-distance relationship, in fact we only live 10 minutes from each other, so we'd love to try and fix this.\n\nAny ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me a female 21yr and my cousin female 23yr have been best friends for a long time (were neighbors too). My cousin has always been wilder than me and although I do love her she is much more manipulative and she dates many guys. \nA few months back I met one of her guy friends and we hit it off, I have never felt that connection with someone. She immediately prohibited me from seeing him because he was ' hers\". Anyways we went back to my place, my cousin got drunk and danced that night, I stayed up talking with him and he told me he liked me because I was sweet. We started talking after that and eventually started seriously dating. I started to really fall for him and we spent almost everyday together. We never had sex because I wanted to wait.\nAll behind my cousins back. \nI know its is wrong what I did and take full responsibility on what happens after.\nWell first ( at around 8 months) he turned out to be a total different person than I had once believed. He eventually was totally different and started growing extremely distant.\nI became very attached and it really hurt me.So we broke up.\nBut, now is when things get weird. He began speaking to my cousin once more, and I thought it was very harmless because she is not his type.\nWe all decided to go out on Thursday ( his best friend 23yr Male, him, my cousin and I) although I knew this was a bad situation I was getting myself into. He ended up being with her the whole night. I drank too much and of course that didn't end well. I kissed his best friend, fell on my *, I told him he was a terrible person and even cried a bit? ( Which is really out of my character)\n\nNow him and my cousin are going out more often. \nWhile I, have to sit back and say nothing. \nIt is really hard to see them together and I do not know what to do?\nI know I should have not lied in the first place and I wonder why he is doing this? \nWhat is the best thing I can do?\nShut up and deal with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me a female 21yr and my cousin female 23yr have been best friends for a long time (were neighbors too). My cousin has always been wilder than me and although I do love her she is much more manipulative and she dates many guys. \nA few months back I met one of her guy friends and we hit it off, I have never felt that connection with someone. She immediately prohibited me from seeing him because he was ' hers\". Anyways we went back to my place, my cousin got drunk and danced that night, I stayed up talking with him and he told me he liked me because I was sweet. We started talking after that and eventually started seriously dating. I started to really fall for him and we spent almost everyday together. We never had sex because I wanted to wait.\nAll behind my cousins back. \nI know its is wrong what I did and take full responsibility on what happens after.\nWell first ( at around 8 months) he turned out to be a total different person than I had once believed. He eventually was totally different and started growing extremely distant.\nI became very attached and it really hurt me.So we broke up.\nBut, now is when things get weird. He began speaking to my cousin once more, and I thought it was very harmless because she is not his type.\nWe all decided to go out on Thursday ( his best friend 23yr Male, him, my cousin and I) although I knew this was a bad situation I was getting myself into. He ended up being with her the whole night. I drank too much and of course that didn't end well. I kissed his best friend, fell on my *, I told him he was a terrible person and even cried a bit? ( Which is really out of my character)\n\nNow him and my cousin are going out more often. \nWhile I, have to sit back and say nothing. \nIt is really hard to see them together and I do not know what to do?\nI know I should have not lied in the first place and I wonder why he is doing this? \nWhat is the best thing I can do?\nShut up and deal with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me a female 21yr and my cousin female 23yr have been best friends for a long time (were neighbors too). My cousin has always been wilder than me and although I do love her she is much more manipulative and she dates many guys. \nA few months back I met one of her guy friends and we hit it off, I have never felt that connection with someone. She immediately prohibited me from seeing him because he was ' hers\". Anyways we went back to my place, my cousin got drunk and danced that night, I stayed up talking with him and he told me he liked me because I was sweet. We started talking after that and eventually started seriously dating. I started to really fall for him and we spent almost everyday together. We never had sex because I wanted to wait.\nAll behind my cousins back. \nI know its is wrong what I did and take full responsibility on what happens after.\nWell first ( at around 8 months) he turned out to be a total different person than I had once believed. He eventually was totally different and started growing extremely distant.\nI became very attached and it really hurt me.So we broke up.\nBut, now is when things get weird. He began speaking to my cousin once more, and I thought it was very harmless because she is not his type.\nWe all decided to go out on Thursday ( his best friend 23yr Male, him, my cousin and I) although I knew this was a bad situation I was getting myself into. He ended up being with her the whole night. I drank too much and of course that didn't end well. I kissed his best friend, fell on my *, I told him he was a terrible person and even cried a bit? ( Which is really out of my character)\n\nNow him and my cousin are going out more often. \nWhile I, have to sit back and say nothing. \nIt is really hard to see them together and I do not know what to do?\nI know I should have not lied in the first place and I wonder why he is doing this? \nWhat is the best thing I can do?\nShut up and deal with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not happy in the place where I live. I want to move to a new city, in a country not too far away (it takes <1h to fly there from here). I broke up with the girl I love for a month ago, for reasons I don't even really understand (i.e. that I am an idiot). We have been together for 3 years. \n\nNow I want to convince her to move with me, and that we move together. She has her friends here, where I have none. But we both love eachother. What is the best way to go around theese things? Has anyone else had a similar situation, what did you do and how did it turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not happy in the place where I live. I want to move to a new city, in a country not too far away (it takes <1h to fly there from here). I broke up with the girl I love for a month ago, for reasons I don't even really understand (i.e. that I am an idiot). We have been together for 3 years. \n\nNow I want to convince her to move with me, and that we move together. She has her friends here, where I have none. But we both love eachother. What is the best way to go around theese things? Has anyone else had a similar situation, what did you do and how did it turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not happy in the place where I live. I want to move to a new city, in a country not too far away (it takes <1h to fly there from here). I broke up with the girl I love for a month ago, for reasons I don't even really understand (i.e. that I am an idiot). We have been together for 3 years. \n\nNow I want to convince her to move with me, and that we move together. She has her friends here, where I have none. But we both love eachother. What is the best way to go around theese things? Has anyone else had a similar situation, what did you do and how did it turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not happy in the place where I live. I want to move to a new city, in a country not too far away (it takes <1h to fly there from here). I broke up with the girl I love for a month ago, for reasons I don't even really understand (i.e. that I am an idiot). We have been together for 3 years. \n\nNow I want to convince her to move with me, and that we move together. She has her friends here, where I have none. But we both love eachother. What is the best way to go around theese things? Has anyone else had a similar situation, what did you do and how did it turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not happy in the place where I live. I want to move to a new city, in a country not too far away (it takes <1h to fly there from here). I broke up with the girl I love for a month ago, for reasons I don't even really understand (i.e. that I am an idiot). We have been together for 3 years. \n\nNow I want to convince her to move with me, and that we move together. She has her friends here, where I have none. But we both love eachother. What is the best way to go around theese things? Has anyone else had a similar situation, what did you do and how did it turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not happy in the place where I live. I want to move to a new city, in a country not too far away (it takes <1h to fly there from here). I broke up with the girl I love for a month ago, for reasons I don't even really understand (i.e. that I am an idiot). We have been together for 3 years. \n\nNow I want to convince her to move with me, and that we move together. She has her friends here, where I have none. But we both love eachother. What is the best way to go around theese things? Has anyone else had a similar situation, what did you do and how did it turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically my SO and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is fantastic, very open and honest. But, around a week ago we were sat talking on the sofa and he took his phone out to show me a photo of his cat. While he was scrolling i noticed a photo of a scantily dressed unidentified female in his camera roll. He clicked on it and was like \"wtf?\" and I was just speechless. Couldn't say anything, didn't know what to say or do. \n\nInstantly he said that he didn't know how that got there and was really confused. He genuinely looked really upset and confused by the situation. I said maybe he accidentally saved it from some website or w/e. He said that he didn't know and couldn't remember watching or looking at porn of said image. I pretty much shut down and just couldn't say anything else for a while. Eventually he tried to talk to me and apologised for me feeling so shitty and said that it was understandable I was upset. I was very upset, but managed to hold my shit together. We had a talk about it and I pretty much said that I knew he wouldn't do anything like that to me etc. \n\nAnd to be honest I really can't see him cheating on me and having a picture of her on his phone or anything like that. And it wouldn't bother me if it was just an image from porn. But I can't help but feel upset and uneasy about it. I have a lot of doubt in my head, and I don't know if it's unfounded. He's never given me a reason to doubt him before. And I know I probably shouldn't now. \n\nAm I crazy to feel hurt?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved into my current place a little over a year ago, and it's been pretty good. My roommate's been awesome - she's never late with rent, does her share of the chores without being asked/reminded and does them well (and sometimes does more than her share), etc. And in general, she's just a super cool girl, and we've become friends as well as roommates. We renewed the lease for another year about 2 months ago.\n\nRecently, I realized that I'm falling for her, and falling hard. In so many ways, she's exactly what I want in a girlfriend. But there's no chance for me to ever have a relationship with her - she's lesbian, and she has a girlfriend. \n\nI'm hoping there's a way for me to stop myself from falling in love with her. I can't really do no contact - I live with her after all, and flat out moving out would be a pretty big financial blow to me. Is there anything I can do, or do I just have to tough it out for the next 10 months?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved into my current place a little over a year ago, and it's been pretty good. My roommate's been awesome - she's never late with rent, does her share of the chores without being asked/reminded and does them well (and sometimes does more than her share), etc. And in general, she's just a super cool girl, and we've become friends as well as roommates. We renewed the lease for another year about 2 months ago.\n\nRecently, I realized that I'm falling for her, and falling hard. In so many ways, she's exactly what I want in a girlfriend. But there's no chance for me to ever have a relationship with her - she's lesbian, and she has a girlfriend. \n\nI'm hoping there's a way for me to stop myself from falling in love with her. I can't really do no contact - I live with her after all, and flat out moving out would be a pretty big financial blow to me. Is there anything I can do, or do I just have to tough it out for the next 10 months?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved into my current place a little over a year ago, and it's been pretty good. My roommate's been awesome - she's never late with rent, does her share of the chores without being asked/reminded and does them well (and sometimes does more than her share), etc. And in general, she's just a super cool girl, and we've become friends as well as roommates. We renewed the lease for another year about 2 months ago.\n\nRecently, I realized that I'm falling for her, and falling hard. In so many ways, she's exactly what I want in a girlfriend. But there's no chance for me to ever have a relationship with her - she's lesbian, and she has a girlfriend. \n\nI'm hoping there's a way for me to stop myself from falling in love with her. I can't really do no contact - I live with her after all, and flat out moving out would be a pretty big financial blow to me. Is there anything I can do, or do I just have to tough it out for the next 10 months?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have our own small physical contacts that we both enjoy. I like it when she lays on my chest, she likes it when I squeeze her legs, things like that. I also like it when my hair is squeezed with a tight fist (put not pulled after the grab). I had told her I liked the feeling of that before, but never asked her to do it directly. One day when I was laying in her lap I asked if she would squeeze my hair, and she said no. When I asked her why not, she did not respond.\n\nI was a little hurt by her denial of my simple request, not because she didn't squeeze my hair, but because she wasn't willing to do something I though it felt good, with out a justification as to why. I don't actually like to squeeze her legs, I find it painful after an extended period (she knows it hurts, I've told her), but I do it because she likes it.\n\nUntil now, I had never specifically asked for any of this kind of physical contact, but once I told her directly about my desires, she actively avoids it now.\n\nWas I wrong to ask that of her?\n\nWas my request unreasonable?\n\nShould I feel hurt by her denial?\n\nWas I expecting something I shouldn't?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have our own small physical contacts that we both enjoy. I like it when she lays on my chest, she likes it when I squeeze her legs, things like that. I also like it when my hair is squeezed with a tight fist (put not pulled after the grab). I had told her I liked the feeling of that before, but never asked her to do it directly. One day when I was laying in her lap I asked if she would squeeze my hair, and she said no. When I asked her why not, she did not respond.\n\nI was a little hurt by her denial of my simple request, not because she didn't squeeze my hair, but because she wasn't willing to do something I though it felt good, with out a justification as to why. I don't actually like to squeeze her legs, I find it painful after an extended period (she knows it hurts, I've told her), but I do it because she likes it.\n\nUntil now, I had never specifically asked for any of this kind of physical contact, but once I told her directly about my desires, she actively avoids it now.\n\nWas I wrong to ask that of her?\n\nWas my request unreasonable?\n\nShould I feel hurt by her denial?\n\nWas I expecting something I shouldn't?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have our own small physical contacts that we both enjoy. I like it when she lays on my chest, she likes it when I squeeze her legs, things like that. I also like it when my hair is squeezed with a tight fist (put not pulled after the grab). I had told her I liked the feeling of that before, but never asked her to do it directly. One day when I was laying in her lap I asked if she would squeeze my hair, and she said no. When I asked her why not, she did not respond.\n\nI was a little hurt by her denial of my simple request, not because she didn't squeeze my hair, but because she wasn't willing to do something I though it felt good, with out a justification as to why. I don't actually like to squeeze her legs, I find it painful after an extended period (she knows it hurts, I've told her), but I do it because she likes it.\n\nUntil now, I had never specifically asked for any of this kind of physical contact, but once I told her directly about my desires, she actively avoids it now.\n\nWas I wrong to ask that of her?\n\nWas my request unreasonable?\n\nShould I feel hurt by her denial?\n\nWas I expecting something I shouldn't?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been unemployed (or without full time employment) since graduating in December of 2010. In September of 2011 my loans became due. I tried to deal with them then by staggering payments and trying to get an economic forbearance, but they would have none of if. Yesterday I called them again to try to work out a payment plan and they told me that the loan has been \"charged off\", and that I would have to deal with Chase's collections branch. They (the collections office) told me that the loan was now due in full. They added that no payment options were available aside from full payment, financing would have to be obtained through an outside party. I have no credit, I have no job, there is no one that is going to loan me 50K right now. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do at this point. \n\nside info: this is two private student loans, my wife co-signed, I own a house that I'm afraid will have a lien put on."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been unemployed (or without full time employment) since graduating in December of 2010. In September of 2011 my loans became due. I tried to deal with them then by staggering payments and trying to get an economic forbearance, but they would have none of if. Yesterday I called them again to try to work out a payment plan and they told me that the loan has been \"charged off\", and that I would have to deal with Chase's collections branch. They (the collections office) told me that the loan was now due in full. They added that no payment options were available aside from full payment, financing would have to be obtained through an outside party. I have no credit, I have no job, there is no one that is going to loan me 50K right now. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do at this point. \n\nside info: this is two private student loans, my wife co-signed, I own a house that I'm afraid will have a lien put on."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been unemployed (or without full time employment) since graduating in December of 2010. In September of 2011 my loans became due. I tried to deal with them then by staggering payments and trying to get an economic forbearance, but they would have none of if. Yesterday I called them again to try to work out a payment plan and they told me that the loan has been \"charged off\", and that I would have to deal with Chase's collections branch. They (the collections office) told me that the loan was now due in full. They added that no payment options were available aside from full payment, financing would have to be obtained through an outside party. I have no credit, I have no job, there is no one that is going to loan me 50K right now. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do at this point. \n\nside info: this is two private student loans, my wife co-signed, I own a house that I'm afraid will have a lien put on."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Besides what I'm about to say, there is absolutely nothing wrong with our relationship (me 21/m and her, 21/f). I feel there is very strong love between us, and we've pretty much exposed every part of our lives to one another. \n\nShe's a heavy user (not poster, but rather \"stalker\") of social networks. A lot of the time she quickly \"homescreens\" when I look at her using her phone, where I'd catch a glimpse of Facebook/Instagram. When using my PC/iPad, she'd sometimes clear the brower history after use. \n\nIn a relationship where we've agreed to be open about everything, I just find this little thing biting away at me. \n\nShould I just feign ignorance since nothing is wrong? Or should I confront her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Besides what I'm about to say, there is absolutely nothing wrong with our relationship (me 21/m and her, 21/f). I feel there is very strong love between us, and we've pretty much exposed every part of our lives to one another. \n\nShe's a heavy user (not poster, but rather \"stalker\") of social networks. A lot of the time she quickly \"homescreens\" when I look at her using her phone, where I'd catch a glimpse of Facebook/Instagram. When using my PC/iPad, she'd sometimes clear the brower history after use. \n\nIn a relationship where we've agreed to be open about everything, I just find this little thing biting away at me. \n\nShould I just feign ignorance since nothing is wrong? Or should I confront her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Besides what I'm about to say, there is absolutely nothing wrong with our relationship (me 21/m and her, 21/f). I feel there is very strong love between us, and we've pretty much exposed every part of our lives to one another. \n\nShe's a heavy user (not poster, but rather \"stalker\") of social networks. A lot of the time she quickly \"homescreens\" when I look at her using her phone, where I'd catch a glimpse of Facebook/Instagram. When using my PC/iPad, she'd sometimes clear the brower history after use. \n\nIn a relationship where we've agreed to be open about everything, I just find this little thing biting away at me. \n\nShould I just feign ignorance since nothing is wrong? Or should I confront her about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex left me 8 months ago. I'm over that, but whilst digging through my closet I found a bag of her clothes and toiletries. We don't really talk anymore, she pretty much avoids talking to me as much as humanly possible, with the occasional \"I'm just calling to make sure you're not dead\" phone call. She has a book of mine. I just don't really know if the awkward returning of things is necessary. I sort of feel like a dick if I just trashed the stuff, but she's never coming by to pick it up anyway. I guess I'm looking for other peoples's experience with that sort of thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex left me 8 months ago. I'm over that, but whilst digging through my closet I found a bag of her clothes and toiletries. We don't really talk anymore, she pretty much avoids talking to me as much as humanly possible, with the occasional \"I'm just calling to make sure you're not dead\" phone call. She has a book of mine. I just don't really know if the awkward returning of things is necessary. I sort of feel like a dick if I just trashed the stuff, but she's never coming by to pick it up anyway. I guess I'm looking for other peoples's experience with that sort of thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex left me 8 months ago. I'm over that, but whilst digging through my closet I found a bag of her clothes and toiletries. We don't really talk anymore, she pretty much avoids talking to me as much as humanly possible, with the occasional \"I'm just calling to make sure you're not dead\" phone call. She has a book of mine. I just don't really know if the awkward returning of things is necessary. I sort of feel like a dick if I just trashed the stuff, but she's never coming by to pick it up anyway. I guess I'm looking for other peoples's experience with that sort of thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex left me 8 months ago. I'm over that, but whilst digging through my closet I found a bag of her clothes and toiletries. We don't really talk anymore, she pretty much avoids talking to me as much as humanly possible, with the occasional \"I'm just calling to make sure you're not dead\" phone call. She has a book of mine. I just don't really know if the awkward returning of things is necessary. I sort of feel like a dick if I just trashed the stuff, but she's never coming by to pick it up anyway. I guess I'm looking for other peoples's experience with that sort of thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex left me 8 months ago. I'm over that, but whilst digging through my closet I found a bag of her clothes and toiletries. We don't really talk anymore, she pretty much avoids talking to me as much as humanly possible, with the occasional \"I'm just calling to make sure you're not dead\" phone call. She has a book of mine. I just don't really know if the awkward returning of things is necessary. I sort of feel like a dick if I just trashed the stuff, but she's never coming by to pick it up anyway. I guess I'm looking for other peoples's experience with that sort of thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex left me 8 months ago. I'm over that, but whilst digging through my closet I found a bag of her clothes and toiletries. We don't really talk anymore, she pretty much avoids talking to me as much as humanly possible, with the occasional \"I'm just calling to make sure you're not dead\" phone call. She has a book of mine. I just don't really know if the awkward returning of things is necessary. I sort of feel like a dick if I just trashed the stuff, but she's never coming by to pick it up anyway. I guess I'm looking for other peoples's experience with that sort of thing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (27F) is having bedbugs removed from her apartment tomorrow and she is worried about the chemicals being dangerous for her two pet reticulated pythons. Since she lives close by to our work, she is getting some of our friends to help carry the two cages to her office there. She is planning on moving in two weeks, so she would keep the pythons in her office for the two weeks. \n\nI tried telling her the chemicals are really concentrated on the sprayed surfaces and keeping the cages on her balcony for a few hours would more than suffice. I think she thinks that I am unconcerned about her snakes' welfare, which is untrue, and so she is not listening to me. We work in an building (university building) with over 200 people, and she does not want to notify anyone or get approval. I am not helping carry the cages because I do not want to get involved in this. I can tell she is irritated with me. What do I do? I feel like I need to convince her otherwise because she can get into a lot of trouble, and more importantly, if a python were to escape (unlikely, but not impossible) someone can get seriously hurt. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (27F) is having bedbugs removed from her apartment tomorrow and she is worried about the chemicals being dangerous for her two pet reticulated pythons. Since she lives close by to our work, she is getting some of our friends to help carry the two cages to her office there. She is planning on moving in two weeks, so she would keep the pythons in her office for the two weeks. \n\nI tried telling her the chemicals are really concentrated on the sprayed surfaces and keeping the cages on her balcony for a few hours would more than suffice. I think she thinks that I am unconcerned about her snakes' welfare, which is untrue, and so she is not listening to me. We work in an building (university building) with over 200 people, and she does not want to notify anyone or get approval. I am not helping carry the cages because I do not want to get involved in this. I can tell she is irritated with me. What do I do? I feel like I need to convince her otherwise because she can get into a lot of trouble, and more importantly, if a python were to escape (unlikely, but not impossible) someone can get seriously hurt. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (27F) is having bedbugs removed from her apartment tomorrow and she is worried about the chemicals being dangerous for her two pet reticulated pythons. Since she lives close by to our work, she is getting some of our friends to help carry the two cages to her office there. She is planning on moving in two weeks, so she would keep the pythons in her office for the two weeks. \n\nI tried telling her the chemicals are really concentrated on the sprayed surfaces and keeping the cages on her balcony for a few hours would more than suffice. I think she thinks that I am unconcerned about her snakes' welfare, which is untrue, and so she is not listening to me. We work in an building (university building) with over 200 people, and she does not want to notify anyone or get approval. I am not helping carry the cages because I do not want to get involved in this. I can tell she is irritated with me. What do I do? I feel like I need to convince her otherwise because she can get into a lot of trouble, and more importantly, if a python were to escape (unlikely, but not impossible) someone can get seriously hurt. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (27F) is having bedbugs removed from her apartment tomorrow and she is worried about the chemicals being dangerous for her two pet reticulated pythons. Since she lives close by to our work, she is getting some of our friends to help carry the two cages to her office there. She is planning on moving in two weeks, so she would keep the pythons in her office for the two weeks. \n\nI tried telling her the chemicals are really concentrated on the sprayed surfaces and keeping the cages on her balcony for a few hours would more than suffice. I think she thinks that I am unconcerned about her snakes' welfare, which is untrue, and so she is not listening to me. We work in an building (university building) with over 200 people, and she does not want to notify anyone or get approval. I am not helping carry the cages because I do not want to get involved in this. I can tell she is irritated with me. What do I do? I feel like I need to convince her otherwise because she can get into a lot of trouble, and more importantly, if a python were to escape (unlikely, but not impossible) someone can get seriously hurt. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (27F) is having bedbugs removed from her apartment tomorrow and she is worried about the chemicals being dangerous for her two pet reticulated pythons. Since she lives close by to our work, she is getting some of our friends to help carry the two cages to her office there. She is planning on moving in two weeks, so she would keep the pythons in her office for the two weeks. \n\nI tried telling her the chemicals are really concentrated on the sprayed surfaces and keeping the cages on her balcony for a few hours would more than suffice. I think she thinks that I am unconcerned about her snakes' welfare, which is untrue, and so she is not listening to me. We work in an building (university building) with over 200 people, and she does not want to notify anyone or get approval. I am not helping carry the cages because I do not want to get involved in this. I can tell she is irritated with me. What do I do? I feel like I need to convince her otherwise because she can get into a lot of trouble, and more importantly, if a python were to escape (unlikely, but not impossible) someone can get seriously hurt. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend (27F) is having bedbugs removed from her apartment tomorrow and she is worried about the chemicals being dangerous for her two pet reticulated pythons. Since she lives close by to our work, she is getting some of our friends to help carry the two cages to her office there. She is planning on moving in two weeks, so she would keep the pythons in her office for the two weeks. \n\nI tried telling her the chemicals are really concentrated on the sprayed surfaces and keeping the cages on her balcony for a few hours would more than suffice. I think she thinks that I am unconcerned about her snakes' welfare, which is untrue, and so she is not listening to me. We work in an building (university building) with over 200 people, and she does not want to notify anyone or get approval. I am not helping carry the cages because I do not want to get involved in this. I can tell she is irritated with me. What do I do? I feel like I need to convince her otherwise because she can get into a lot of trouble, and more importantly, if a python were to escape (unlikely, but not impossible) someone can get seriously hurt. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi folks,\nI want to give back to Reddit.\nReddit has given me so much and I just want to give back to the community.\n\nIm thinking about setting up a designated email address to provide you guys with, and when I have time I will just spiffy up your resume (I am a hiring manager) and give you tips on the Application Process.\nBefore I do this I just wanted to ask you guys, what do you think? Would this help you or would I be wasting my time?\n\nThere is also the ethical issue of me giving you the upper hand for a short part of any given Application Process- but if you truly are not a good fit for a position then I believe the hiring manager can determine this at the personal interview stage.\n\nI want to get you guys interviews. And hopefully jobs.\n\n99% of the resume's that come in to my business are crap. I hate seeing this, because who knows if this person would be a great hire but they just dont know how to express that on paper? And most people are not to blame, because most people were never properly taught how to write a resume.\n\nI do the hiring for my restaurant, although Ive been told by others in the field that our Application Process trumps most large corporations and research firms and is way more technical than most Application Processes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi folks,\nI want to give back to Reddit.\nReddit has given me so much and I just want to give back to the community.\n\nIm thinking about setting up a designated email address to provide you guys with, and when I have time I will just spiffy up your resume (I am a hiring manager) and give you tips on the Application Process.\nBefore I do this I just wanted to ask you guys, what do you think? Would this help you or would I be wasting my time?\n\nThere is also the ethical issue of me giving you the upper hand for a short part of any given Application Process- but if you truly are not a good fit for a position then I believe the hiring manager can determine this at the personal interview stage.\n\nI want to get you guys interviews. And hopefully jobs.\n\n99% of the resume's that come in to my business are crap. I hate seeing this, because who knows if this person would be a great hire but they just dont know how to express that on paper? And most people are not to blame, because most people were never properly taught how to write a resume.\n\nI do the hiring for my restaurant, although Ive been told by others in the field that our Application Process trumps most large corporations and research firms and is way more technical than most Application Processes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi folks,\nI want to give back to Reddit.\nReddit has given me so much and I just want to give back to the community.\n\nIm thinking about setting up a designated email address to provide you guys with, and when I have time I will just spiffy up your resume (I am a hiring manager) and give you tips on the Application Process.\nBefore I do this I just wanted to ask you guys, what do you think? Would this help you or would I be wasting my time?\n\nThere is also the ethical issue of me giving you the upper hand for a short part of any given Application Process- but if you truly are not a good fit for a position then I believe the hiring manager can determine this at the personal interview stage.\n\nI want to get you guys interviews. And hopefully jobs.\n\n99% of the resume's that come in to my business are crap. I hate seeing this, because who knows if this person would be a great hire but they just dont know how to express that on paper? And most people are not to blame, because most people were never properly taught how to write a resume.\n\nI do the hiring for my restaurant, although Ive been told by others in the field that our Application Process trumps most large corporations and research firms and is way more technical than most Application Processes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's an employee who works for us, I'll call him Dave.\n\nDave is slim build, but sports a large upper body, which is evidence that he works out a lot. he has an EXPLOSIVE attitude problem, and the fact that most of the time he walks around eerily silent gives me a bad feeling about him.\n\n I am a supervisor and was promoted before him. understandably this can be frustrating for someone with less experience to gain a higher position, but the thing is, Dave NEVER does anything to better himself or his standing within the company. He constantly does the bare minimum and will not do anything outside of his position for anyone. He also refuses to take shifts he's not scheduled for unless it's usher (he refuses to work concession or box, which is important for a someone in a supervisor position to do.) He expects that just because he's been there for a long period of time, he's going to get the position. But I digress. \n\nDave tends to \"hold things in;\" things that are bothering him or that he doesn't agree with, and then proceeds to PROJECT his anger and agression out on myself and a number of other managers. He does this by stomping around, breathing hard, and balling up his fists and speaking with severe upward inflections. There's a possible new supervisor position opening up soon because we just lost someone, and I am terrified after he doesn't get it (there's not way he's getting promoted because of the reasons stated earlier, plus his inability to deal with stress without screaming and acting aggressive) That he's going to come in and shoot up the place, or PHYSICALLY hurt someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's an employee who works for us, I'll call him Dave.\n\nDave is slim build, but sports a large upper body, which is evidence that he works out a lot. he has an EXPLOSIVE attitude problem, and the fact that most of the time he walks around eerily silent gives me a bad feeling about him.\n\n I am a supervisor and was promoted before him. understandably this can be frustrating for someone with less experience to gain a higher position, but the thing is, Dave NEVER does anything to better himself or his standing within the company. He constantly does the bare minimum and will not do anything outside of his position for anyone. He also refuses to take shifts he's not scheduled for unless it's usher (he refuses to work concession or box, which is important for a someone in a supervisor position to do.) He expects that just because he's been there for a long period of time, he's going to get the position. But I digress. \n\nDave tends to \"hold things in;\" things that are bothering him or that he doesn't agree with, and then proceeds to PROJECT his anger and agression out on myself and a number of other managers. He does this by stomping around, breathing hard, and balling up his fists and speaking with severe upward inflections. There's a possible new supervisor position opening up soon because we just lost someone, and I am terrified after he doesn't get it (there's not way he's getting promoted because of the reasons stated earlier, plus his inability to deal with stress without screaming and acting aggressive) That he's going to come in and shoot up the place, or PHYSICALLY hurt someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's an employee who works for us, I'll call him Dave.\n\nDave is slim build, but sports a large upper body, which is evidence that he works out a lot. he has an EXPLOSIVE attitude problem, and the fact that most of the time he walks around eerily silent gives me a bad feeling about him.\n\n I am a supervisor and was promoted before him. understandably this can be frustrating for someone with less experience to gain a higher position, but the thing is, Dave NEVER does anything to better himself or his standing within the company. He constantly does the bare minimum and will not do anything outside of his position for anyone. He also refuses to take shifts he's not scheduled for unless it's usher (he refuses to work concession or box, which is important for a someone in a supervisor position to do.) He expects that just because he's been there for a long period of time, he's going to get the position. But I digress. \n\nDave tends to \"hold things in;\" things that are bothering him or that he doesn't agree with, and then proceeds to PROJECT his anger and agression out on myself and a number of other managers. He does this by stomping around, breathing hard, and balling up his fists and speaking with severe upward inflections. There's a possible new supervisor position opening up soon because we just lost someone, and I am terrified after he doesn't get it (there's not way he's getting promoted because of the reasons stated earlier, plus his inability to deal with stress without screaming and acting aggressive) That he's going to come in and shoot up the place, or PHYSICALLY hurt someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [CO] Finally left my increasingly abusive fiancé of 2 1/2 years (by getting him arrested on 3rd degree domestic violence assault and child abuse charges, along with getting him served a permanent protection order, which is now pending the domestic violence case's resolution). Fiancé and I have a child, and after he's convicted and serves his sentence, I fear he will try to file to see her. He has out of control anger issues (destroyed a bunch of stuff and bruised me up on several occasions) and has control issues (isolated me from friends and family stopped me from going to a self help group because he said I was turning into a bitch). This is his second domestic violence offense (the former was 9-10 years ago with a previous significant other).\n\nI thought ICE would put a hold on him when he was initially in custody, but he has bailed out and is out working. I've heard every answer possible from victim advocates, DA, Guardian ad litem. No one has any idea. I called the local immigration detention office more than once, no one ever returned my call. He tells friends that we'll get back together when this is all said and done, I never want to hear from him again, nor do I want him to have any contact with our daughter. Does anyone know (at least) the chances of him getting deported, or even to help him get deported?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [CO] Finally left my increasingly abusive fiancé of 2 1/2 years (by getting him arrested on 3rd degree domestic violence assault and child abuse charges, along with getting him served a permanent protection order, which is now pending the domestic violence case's resolution). Fiancé and I have a child, and after he's convicted and serves his sentence, I fear he will try to file to see her. He has out of control anger issues (destroyed a bunch of stuff and bruised me up on several occasions) and has control issues (isolated me from friends and family stopped me from going to a self help group because he said I was turning into a bitch). This is his second domestic violence offense (the former was 9-10 years ago with a previous significant other).\n\nI thought ICE would put a hold on him when he was initially in custody, but he has bailed out and is out working. I've heard every answer possible from victim advocates, DA, Guardian ad litem. No one has any idea. I called the local immigration detention office more than once, no one ever returned my call. He tells friends that we'll get back together when this is all said and done, I never want to hear from him again, nor do I want him to have any contact with our daughter. Does anyone know (at least) the chances of him getting deported, or even to help him get deported?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [CO] Finally left my increasingly abusive fiancé of 2 1/2 years (by getting him arrested on 3rd degree domestic violence assault and child abuse charges, along with getting him served a permanent protection order, which is now pending the domestic violence case's resolution). Fiancé and I have a child, and after he's convicted and serves his sentence, I fear he will try to file to see her. He has out of control anger issues (destroyed a bunch of stuff and bruised me up on several occasions) and has control issues (isolated me from friends and family stopped me from going to a self help group because he said I was turning into a bitch). This is his second domestic violence offense (the former was 9-10 years ago with a previous significant other).\n\nI thought ICE would put a hold on him when he was initially in custody, but he has bailed out and is out working. I've heard every answer possible from victim advocates, DA, Guardian ad litem. No one has any idea. I called the local immigration detention office more than once, no one ever returned my call. He tells friends that we'll get back together when this is all said and done, I never want to hear from him again, nor do I want him to have any contact with our daughter. Does anyone know (at least) the chances of him getting deported, or even to help him get deported?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 36 (yes, I know, huge age difference, but we've been together for almost a year and it's been going well). I recently broke my leg pretty badly and will be on crutches for the next 2 months and am not allowed to put any weight on it. My boyfriend lives in his own place but has been sleeping over every night to help me before bed and in the morning before he leaves for work. \n\nHe comes home on his lunch break to check on me and help me with lunch, then goes back to work. He works from home and does his own projects at night before coming over when he's done. I appreciate his help because I'm absolutely helpless in these crutches but I'm worried he's beginning to resent me for needing his help. \n\nI've been trying to give him time away from me, trying to get friends to come over and help here and there to give him time to himself but that's only a few times a week. We can't have sex because of my leg/cast, I can only shower occasionally, I cant wear anything but sweat pants. I'm not looking my best lately and I just want to remind him why he loves me. I was just hoping you guys would have ideas/suggestions? Have any of you been in a similar situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So today it finally happened. My ex hit me up after two years. I decided to respond to his \"hey\" to be nice and fix any animosity between us (relationship didnt end well), and see how he was doing and where he was in life. \n\nHe started saying things like \"wow you look so different in your pictures. like in a good way\" and \"is that you in that pic? idk. its someone.\" and its really bothering me. He is acting cold and unfriendly. Any advice? I am feeling a great deal of anxiety waiting for his replies, I can't even sleep. And it kind of hurts how he thinks im barely recognizable. Am I being overly sensitive? Am I reading too much into it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So today it finally happened. My ex hit me up after two years. I decided to respond to his \"hey\" to be nice and fix any animosity between us (relationship didnt end well), and see how he was doing and where he was in life. \n\nHe started saying things like \"wow you look so different in your pictures. like in a good way\" and \"is that you in that pic? idk. its someone.\" and its really bothering me. He is acting cold and unfriendly. Any advice? I am feeling a great deal of anxiety waiting for his replies, I can't even sleep. And it kind of hurts how he thinks im barely recognizable. Am I being overly sensitive? Am I reading too much into it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So today it finally happened. My ex hit me up after two years. I decided to respond to his \"hey\" to be nice and fix any animosity between us (relationship didnt end well), and see how he was doing and where he was in life. \n\nHe started saying things like \"wow you look so different in your pictures. like in a good way\" and \"is that you in that pic? idk. its someone.\" and its really bothering me. He is acting cold and unfriendly. Any advice? I am feeling a great deal of anxiety waiting for his replies, I can't even sleep. And it kind of hurts how he thinks im barely recognizable. Am I being overly sensitive? Am I reading too much into it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in an 8 year relationship with a great, beautiful girl. We have grown up together and we both love each other. She wants to get married, and I would like to get married but I've worried for a very long time about it.\n\nI have a secret desire to be with other women that I find more physically stimulating. I have an obsession with medium to larger boobs and more meat on a female body. My girlfriend's very petite and thin. Though I recognize and acknowledge her beauty, I'm half the time unsatisfied with our intimacy. This is a secret of mine, but she gets frustrated when I lack interest in sex, when sometimes I prefer to watch porn.\n\nBoth she and I are attractive people, but should I let my obsession stand in the way of us getting married? I don't want to divorce or cheat on her. We broke up briefly in the past because of these issues but we got back together because we really love each other and have a very strong emotional bond. Does marriage help kill these desires, or will I always crave this certain body type and live in misery?\n\nAnyone out there go through similar issues?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in an 8 year relationship with a great, beautiful girl. We have grown up together and we both love each other. She wants to get married, and I would like to get married but I've worried for a very long time about it.\n\nI have a secret desire to be with other women that I find more physically stimulating. I have an obsession with medium to larger boobs and more meat on a female body. My girlfriend's very petite and thin. Though I recognize and acknowledge her beauty, I'm half the time unsatisfied with our intimacy. This is a secret of mine, but she gets frustrated when I lack interest in sex, when sometimes I prefer to watch porn.\n\nBoth she and I are attractive people, but should I let my obsession stand in the way of us getting married? I don't want to divorce or cheat on her. We broke up briefly in the past because of these issues but we got back together because we really love each other and have a very strong emotional bond. Does marriage help kill these desires, or will I always crave this certain body type and live in misery?\n\nAnyone out there go through similar issues?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in an 8 year relationship with a great, beautiful girl. We have grown up together and we both love each other. She wants to get married, and I would like to get married but I've worried for a very long time about it.\n\nI have a secret desire to be with other women that I find more physically stimulating. I have an obsession with medium to larger boobs and more meat on a female body. My girlfriend's very petite and thin. Though I recognize and acknowledge her beauty, I'm half the time unsatisfied with our intimacy. This is a secret of mine, but she gets frustrated when I lack interest in sex, when sometimes I prefer to watch porn.\n\nBoth she and I are attractive people, but should I let my obsession stand in the way of us getting married? I don't want to divorce or cheat on her. We broke up briefly in the past because of these issues but we got back together because we really love each other and have a very strong emotional bond. Does marriage help kill these desires, or will I always crave this certain body type and live in misery?\n\nAnyone out there go through similar issues?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit,\n\nFirst off, I live in Illinois. I am 23 and graduated college with a BA in mathematics this May. I was not going for this, it just kind of happened. I was originally going for my teaching certificate to teach high school and middle school math. I completed all my classes except for student teach. I did not student teach because I did not pass my content area test (which is math) and you have to pass this before you student teaching. I took the test 5 times with no luck. I think my test stress and general lack of knowledge in math is why I can't pass. Although I know enough about math to get my degree in it. So who knows. Illinois passed a law recently that you can only take the content area test five times. So they are letting me take it one more time if I wanted. I did not take it, and decided just to graduate with my math degree. I always think about trying to take it one more time, or to try to get my certification in another state. My husband and I are willing to move anywhere (although preferable by the beach). I am just afraid that I will never be able to pass the math test and therefore wasting my time. Also, I am not even sure how to start trying to get my certification in another state. I already wasted a lot of time and money taking all the education classes and don't really want to have to take them all again. \n\nI have been working at daycares most my life. But just recently quit because my husband got a job and I hated it. Just a few days ago, I was asked to take this management position of people who sell perfumes and colognes. I have never been a manager, and don't really know if I want to. It pays well and would be a change, but I think my heart is still with teaching. Although, with all that has happens makes me want to yell \"screw teaching\" and forget all about it.\n\nSo my question is, should I continue to try to teach, which is what I always wanted to do, or take this management job? Should I do management for a few years as I try to get my certification?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit,\n\nFirst off, I live in Illinois. I am 23 and graduated college with a BA in mathematics this May. I was not going for this, it just kind of happened. I was originally going for my teaching certificate to teach high school and middle school math. I completed all my classes except for student teach. I did not student teach because I did not pass my content area test (which is math) and you have to pass this before you student teaching. I took the test 5 times with no luck. I think my test stress and general lack of knowledge in math is why I can't pass. Although I know enough about math to get my degree in it. So who knows. Illinois passed a law recently that you can only take the content area test five times. So they are letting me take it one more time if I wanted. I did not take it, and decided just to graduate with my math degree. I always think about trying to take it one more time, or to try to get my certification in another state. My husband and I are willing to move anywhere (although preferable by the beach). I am just afraid that I will never be able to pass the math test and therefore wasting my time. Also, I am not even sure how to start trying to get my certification in another state. I already wasted a lot of time and money taking all the education classes and don't really want to have to take them all again. \n\nI have been working at daycares most my life. But just recently quit because my husband got a job and I hated it. Just a few days ago, I was asked to take this management position of people who sell perfumes and colognes. I have never been a manager, and don't really know if I want to. It pays well and would be a change, but I think my heart is still with teaching. Although, with all that has happens makes me want to yell \"screw teaching\" and forget all about it.\n\nSo my question is, should I continue to try to teach, which is what I always wanted to do, or take this management job? Should I do management for a few years as I try to get my certification?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit,\n\nFirst off, I live in Illinois. I am 23 and graduated college with a BA in mathematics this May. I was not going for this, it just kind of happened. I was originally going for my teaching certificate to teach high school and middle school math. I completed all my classes except for student teach. I did not student teach because I did not pass my content area test (which is math) and you have to pass this before you student teaching. I took the test 5 times with no luck. I think my test stress and general lack of knowledge in math is why I can't pass. Although I know enough about math to get my degree in it. So who knows. Illinois passed a law recently that you can only take the content area test five times. So they are letting me take it one more time if I wanted. I did not take it, and decided just to graduate with my math degree. I always think about trying to take it one more time, or to try to get my certification in another state. My husband and I are willing to move anywhere (although preferable by the beach). I am just afraid that I will never be able to pass the math test and therefore wasting my time. Also, I am not even sure how to start trying to get my certification in another state. I already wasted a lot of time and money taking all the education classes and don't really want to have to take them all again. \n\nI have been working at daycares most my life. But just recently quit because my husband got a job and I hated it. Just a few days ago, I was asked to take this management position of people who sell perfumes and colognes. I have never been a manager, and don't really know if I want to. It pays well and would be a change, but I think my heart is still with teaching. Although, with all that has happens makes me want to yell \"screw teaching\" and forget all about it.\n\nSo my question is, should I continue to try to teach, which is what I always wanted to do, or take this management job? Should I do management for a few years as I try to get my certification?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit,\n\nFirst off, I live in Illinois. I am 23 and graduated college with a BA in mathematics this May. I was not going for this, it just kind of happened. I was originally going for my teaching certificate to teach high school and middle school math. I completed all my classes except for student teach. I did not student teach because I did not pass my content area test (which is math) and you have to pass this before you student teaching. I took the test 5 times with no luck. I think my test stress and general lack of knowledge in math is why I can't pass. Although I know enough about math to get my degree in it. So who knows. Illinois passed a law recently that you can only take the content area test five times. So they are letting me take it one more time if I wanted. I did not take it, and decided just to graduate with my math degree. I always think about trying to take it one more time, or to try to get my certification in another state. My husband and I are willing to move anywhere (although preferable by the beach). I am just afraid that I will never be able to pass the math test and therefore wasting my time. Also, I am not even sure how to start trying to get my certification in another state. I already wasted a lot of time and money taking all the education classes and don't really want to have to take them all again. \n\nI have been working at daycares most my life. But just recently quit because my husband got a job and I hated it. Just a few days ago, I was asked to take this management position of people who sell perfumes and colognes. I have never been a manager, and don't really know if I want to. It pays well and would be a change, but I think my heart is still with teaching. Although, with all that has happens makes me want to yell \"screw teaching\" and forget all about it.\n\nSo my question is, should I continue to try to teach, which is what I always wanted to do, or take this management job? Should I do management for a few years as I try to get my certification?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit,\n\nFirst off, I live in Illinois. I am 23 and graduated college with a BA in mathematics this May. I was not going for this, it just kind of happened. I was originally going for my teaching certificate to teach high school and middle school math. I completed all my classes except for student teach. I did not student teach because I did not pass my content area test (which is math) and you have to pass this before you student teaching. I took the test 5 times with no luck. I think my test stress and general lack of knowledge in math is why I can't pass. Although I know enough about math to get my degree in it. So who knows. Illinois passed a law recently that you can only take the content area test five times. So they are letting me take it one more time if I wanted. I did not take it, and decided just to graduate with my math degree. I always think about trying to take it one more time, or to try to get my certification in another state. My husband and I are willing to move anywhere (although preferable by the beach). I am just afraid that I will never be able to pass the math test and therefore wasting my time. Also, I am not even sure how to start trying to get my certification in another state. I already wasted a lot of time and money taking all the education classes and don't really want to have to take them all again. \n\nI have been working at daycares most my life. But just recently quit because my husband got a job and I hated it. Just a few days ago, I was asked to take this management position of people who sell perfumes and colognes. I have never been a manager, and don't really know if I want to. It pays well and would be a change, but I think my heart is still with teaching. Although, with all that has happens makes me want to yell \"screw teaching\" and forget all about it.\n\nSo my question is, should I continue to try to teach, which is what I always wanted to do, or take this management job? Should I do management for a few years as I try to get my certification?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit,\n\nFirst off, I live in Illinois. I am 23 and graduated college with a BA in mathematics this May. I was not going for this, it just kind of happened. I was originally going for my teaching certificate to teach high school and middle school math. I completed all my classes except for student teach. I did not student teach because I did not pass my content area test (which is math) and you have to pass this before you student teaching. I took the test 5 times with no luck. I think my test stress and general lack of knowledge in math is why I can't pass. Although I know enough about math to get my degree in it. So who knows. Illinois passed a law recently that you can only take the content area test five times. So they are letting me take it one more time if I wanted. I did not take it, and decided just to graduate with my math degree. I always think about trying to take it one more time, or to try to get my certification in another state. My husband and I are willing to move anywhere (although preferable by the beach). I am just afraid that I will never be able to pass the math test and therefore wasting my time. Also, I am not even sure how to start trying to get my certification in another state. I already wasted a lot of time and money taking all the education classes and don't really want to have to take them all again. \n\nI have been working at daycares most my life. But just recently quit because my husband got a job and I hated it. Just a few days ago, I was asked to take this management position of people who sell perfumes and colognes. I have never been a manager, and don't really know if I want to. It pays well and would be a change, but I think my heart is still with teaching. Although, with all that has happens makes me want to yell \"screw teaching\" and forget all about it.\n\nSo my question is, should I continue to try to teach, which is what I always wanted to do, or take this management job? Should I do management for a few years as I try to get my certification?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met this guy a couple of months ago, however at the time, I didn't really want a relationship but decided to go along with it for fun as he was a really nice guy. It's been a rough couple of months for me in my personal life and I haven't felt comfortable sharing things due to my past serious relationship and getting very hurt from it. We were on holiday a couple of weeks ago and everything seemed to be fine, however this week he went to a party and met a girl who he has been messaging. Now he tells me that he doesn't see a future with me. I am at the stage where I honestly could fall in love with him but I feel I need to hold back because of past experiences and I was under the impression he was moving to Germany in a couple of months from the US and this was just a couple of months of fun. I'm not sure how to let him in, I really want to but I see no point if it's not going to work out? Also, his lack of communication whilst we have been dating has been an issue for me as he can go a couple of days with no communication. Any advice if I should dump him or let him in?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met this guy a couple of months ago, however at the time, I didn't really want a relationship but decided to go along with it for fun as he was a really nice guy. It's been a rough couple of months for me in my personal life and I haven't felt comfortable sharing things due to my past serious relationship and getting very hurt from it. We were on holiday a couple of weeks ago and everything seemed to be fine, however this week he went to a party and met a girl who he has been messaging. Now he tells me that he doesn't see a future with me. I am at the stage where I honestly could fall in love with him but I feel I need to hold back because of past experiences and I was under the impression he was moving to Germany in a couple of months from the US and this was just a couple of months of fun. I'm not sure how to let him in, I really want to but I see no point if it's not going to work out? Also, his lack of communication whilst we have been dating has been an issue for me as he can go a couple of days with no communication. Any advice if I should dump him or let him in?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met this guy a couple of months ago, however at the time, I didn't really want a relationship but decided to go along with it for fun as he was a really nice guy. It's been a rough couple of months for me in my personal life and I haven't felt comfortable sharing things due to my past serious relationship and getting very hurt from it. We were on holiday a couple of weeks ago and everything seemed to be fine, however this week he went to a party and met a girl who he has been messaging. Now he tells me that he doesn't see a future with me. I am at the stage where I honestly could fall in love with him but I feel I need to hold back because of past experiences and I was under the impression he was moving to Germany in a couple of months from the US and this was just a couple of months of fun. I'm not sure how to let him in, I really want to but I see no point if it's not going to work out? Also, his lack of communication whilst we have been dating has been an issue for me as he can go a couple of days with no communication. Any advice if I should dump him or let him in?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My older brother is 7 years older than me, and stayed in our hometown when our family moved as he finished high school. He never went into college, instead he decided to go with a buddy to Alaska and work on fishing vessels for months at a time. We kept in touch every 6 months or so, and he even made the trip cross country to see us for a Thanksgiving in 2005 or so, but he had plans to go back fishing for a season or two and then move to California. \n\nWe haven't heard from him since. We've moved again since then (although a google search for my dad is the first hit) so it could be possible that he couldn't find us, but I don't know. He was never contractually obliged to any fishing company and he sailed out in a few different ports, so inquiring there has been less than helpful. He's originally from My. Vernon, Washington and sailed on fishing vessels specializing in tuna and salmon. He was a cook on the ship. That's all I know for sure.\n\nAre there any resources that are out there for this sort of thing? I don't want to call the police because I don't know if he's missing or what, and there's nothing illegal going on and I don't want to waste anyone's time. I've just realized that I never really knew the guy because of our age difference and I would really, really like to talk to him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My older brother is 7 years older than me, and stayed in our hometown when our family moved as he finished high school. He never went into college, instead he decided to go with a buddy to Alaska and work on fishing vessels for months at a time. We kept in touch every 6 months or so, and he even made the trip cross country to see us for a Thanksgiving in 2005 or so, but he had plans to go back fishing for a season or two and then move to California. \n\nWe haven't heard from him since. We've moved again since then (although a google search for my dad is the first hit) so it could be possible that he couldn't find us, but I don't know. He was never contractually obliged to any fishing company and he sailed out in a few different ports, so inquiring there has been less than helpful. He's originally from My. Vernon, Washington and sailed on fishing vessels specializing in tuna and salmon. He was a cook on the ship. That's all I know for sure.\n\nAre there any resources that are out there for this sort of thing? I don't want to call the police because I don't know if he's missing or what, and there's nothing illegal going on and I don't want to waste anyone's time. I've just realized that I never really knew the guy because of our age difference and I would really, really like to talk to him."
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