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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this sounds terrible, but not everything is black and white.\n\nI'm in a long distance relationship which wasn't long distance for like 4 years before it became long distance. We're pretty set on making it work and if we did, we have a pretty solid future planned out where we can live the life we both want. We're really solid when we're together and even when we're apart we're aware that at the end of the day it just works and it will work when we're reunited. That being said, the long distance is tough and there have been times where we've been on and off.\n\nThats where the other guy comes in. He started off as a really good friend and we've been growing closer for the last 6 months or so. I know this is going to sound ridiculous to others because I couldn't even imagine feeling this way about something considering how set I thought I was with my boyfriend. Anyways we've connected on so many levels. We also know that in the future we want very different things and there's some circumstances that make it pretty clear that we wouldn't work together. He acknowledges this and tells me that he wouldn't want me to ever leave my boyfriend because he can't personally give me what I want in my future where my boyfriend can. I also wouldn't fit in with his future.\nWe've had lots of discussions about this and he just reiterates that he realizes that it's not going to be easy seeing me with my boyfriend but he would rather have sometime together now and deal with that later than give up what we have now because like I said we're just so good together. I can't let myself give it up either. \nI know my boyfriend is my future. I know that we are compatible as hell and I do love him. I just didn't realize it was possible to feel this way about two people. \nI know I'm going to get a lot of flack, but please try not to be judgemental. I just don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this sounds terrible, but not everything is black and white.\n\nI'm in a long distance relationship which wasn't long distance for like 4 years before it became long distance. We're pretty set on making it work and if we did, we have a pretty solid future planned out where we can live the life we both want. We're really solid when we're together and even when we're apart we're aware that at the end of the day it just works and it will work when we're reunited. That being said, the long distance is tough and there have been times where we've been on and off.\n\nThats where the other guy comes in. He started off as a really good friend and we've been growing closer for the last 6 months or so. I know this is going to sound ridiculous to others because I couldn't even imagine feeling this way about something considering how set I thought I was with my boyfriend. Anyways we've connected on so many levels. We also know that in the future we want very different things and there's some circumstances that make it pretty clear that we wouldn't work together. He acknowledges this and tells me that he wouldn't want me to ever leave my boyfriend because he can't personally give me what I want in my future where my boyfriend can. I also wouldn't fit in with his future.\nWe've had lots of discussions about this and he just reiterates that he realizes that it's not going to be easy seeing me with my boyfriend but he would rather have sometime together now and deal with that later than give up what we have now because like I said we're just so good together. I can't let myself give it up either. \nI know my boyfriend is my future. I know that we are compatible as hell and I do love him. I just didn't realize it was possible to feel this way about two people. \nI know I'm going to get a lot of flack, but please try not to be judgemental. I just don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this sounds terrible, but not everything is black and white.\n\nI'm in a long distance relationship which wasn't long distance for like 4 years before it became long distance. We're pretty set on making it work and if we did, we have a pretty solid future planned out where we can live the life we both want. We're really solid when we're together and even when we're apart we're aware that at the end of the day it just works and it will work when we're reunited. That being said, the long distance is tough and there have been times where we've been on and off.\n\nThats where the other guy comes in. He started off as a really good friend and we've been growing closer for the last 6 months or so. I know this is going to sound ridiculous to others because I couldn't even imagine feeling this way about something considering how set I thought I was with my boyfriend. Anyways we've connected on so many levels. We also know that in the future we want very different things and there's some circumstances that make it pretty clear that we wouldn't work together. He acknowledges this and tells me that he wouldn't want me to ever leave my boyfriend because he can't personally give me what I want in my future where my boyfriend can. I also wouldn't fit in with his future.\nWe've had lots of discussions about this and he just reiterates that he realizes that it's not going to be easy seeing me with my boyfriend but he would rather have sometime together now and deal with that later than give up what we have now because like I said we're just so good together. I can't let myself give it up either. \nI know my boyfriend is my future. I know that we are compatible as hell and I do love him. I just didn't realize it was possible to feel this way about two people. \nI know I'm going to get a lot of flack, but please try not to be judgemental. I just don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this sounds terrible, but not everything is black and white.\n\nI'm in a long distance relationship which wasn't long distance for like 4 years before it became long distance. We're pretty set on making it work and if we did, we have a pretty solid future planned out where we can live the life we both want. We're really solid when we're together and even when we're apart we're aware that at the end of the day it just works and it will work when we're reunited. That being said, the long distance is tough and there have been times where we've been on and off.\n\nThats where the other guy comes in. He started off as a really good friend and we've been growing closer for the last 6 months or so. I know this is going to sound ridiculous to others because I couldn't even imagine feeling this way about something considering how set I thought I was with my boyfriend. Anyways we've connected on so many levels. We also know that in the future we want very different things and there's some circumstances that make it pretty clear that we wouldn't work together. He acknowledges this and tells me that he wouldn't want me to ever leave my boyfriend because he can't personally give me what I want in my future where my boyfriend can. I also wouldn't fit in with his future.\nWe've had lots of discussions about this and he just reiterates that he realizes that it's not going to be easy seeing me with my boyfriend but he would rather have sometime together now and deal with that later than give up what we have now because like I said we're just so good together. I can't let myself give it up either. \nI know my boyfriend is my future. I know that we are compatible as hell and I do love him. I just didn't realize it was possible to feel this way about two people. \nI know I'm going to get a lot of flack, but please try not to be judgemental. I just don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I let my uncle use my bike and he was drunk. The bike is a very expensive road bike that I spent 2 years as a mechanic building. I was moving and had my Bmx and Road bike (the one that I'm talking about) out and he wanted to take it for a spin. He a few as the day was hot but he seemed fine riding my bmx bike. We then thought taking a spin around the block after a long day would be fun. I took the bmx bike and let him use my road bike as he liked it and wanted a bigger bike that fit him better. We go around the block and I end up making it back home before him. As soon as I get back I hear a loud crash (Yup he fell). He checked the bike out and walked it back slowly. He hurt his pinky, my bike seemed to be ok in the dark but once I went to store it, it had a flat and the brake lever/ shifters were bent and the frame had some scratches also bar tape was ripped. Today I went to get a new tube and noticed there was more damage. He hasn't said anything about the damage to the bike. This past weekend his twin brother was mad at me for even letting him using it. This is what I don't get, why am I the one that messed up for letting him use my bike. It seems like the blame always gets redirected to those that are not at blame"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I let my uncle use my bike and he was drunk. The bike is a very expensive road bike that I spent 2 years as a mechanic building. I was moving and had my Bmx and Road bike (the one that I'm talking about) out and he wanted to take it for a spin. He a few as the day was hot but he seemed fine riding my bmx bike. We then thought taking a spin around the block after a long day would be fun. I took the bmx bike and let him use my road bike as he liked it and wanted a bigger bike that fit him better. We go around the block and I end up making it back home before him. As soon as I get back I hear a loud crash (Yup he fell). He checked the bike out and walked it back slowly. He hurt his pinky, my bike seemed to be ok in the dark but once I went to store it, it had a flat and the brake lever/ shifters were bent and the frame had some scratches also bar tape was ripped. Today I went to get a new tube and noticed there was more damage. He hasn't said anything about the damage to the bike. This past weekend his twin brother was mad at me for even letting him using it. This is what I don't get, why am I the one that messed up for letting him use my bike. It seems like the blame always gets redirected to those that are not at blame"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I let my uncle use my bike and he was drunk. The bike is a very expensive road bike that I spent 2 years as a mechanic building. I was moving and had my Bmx and Road bike (the one that I'm talking about) out and he wanted to take it for a spin. He a few as the day was hot but he seemed fine riding my bmx bike. We then thought taking a spin around the block after a long day would be fun. I took the bmx bike and let him use my road bike as he liked it and wanted a bigger bike that fit him better. We go around the block and I end up making it back home before him. As soon as I get back I hear a loud crash (Yup he fell). He checked the bike out and walked it back slowly. He hurt his pinky, my bike seemed to be ok in the dark but once I went to store it, it had a flat and the brake lever/ shifters were bent and the frame had some scratches also bar tape was ripped. Today I went to get a new tube and noticed there was more damage. He hasn't said anything about the damage to the bike. This past weekend his twin brother was mad at me for even letting him using it. This is what I don't get, why am I the one that messed up for letting him use my bike. It seems like the blame always gets redirected to those that are not at blame"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I let my uncle use my bike and he was drunk. The bike is a very expensive road bike that I spent 2 years as a mechanic building. I was moving and had my Bmx and Road bike (the one that I'm talking about) out and he wanted to take it for a spin. He a few as the day was hot but he seemed fine riding my bmx bike. We then thought taking a spin around the block after a long day would be fun. I took the bmx bike and let him use my road bike as he liked it and wanted a bigger bike that fit him better. We go around the block and I end up making it back home before him. As soon as I get back I hear a loud crash (Yup he fell). He checked the bike out and walked it back slowly. He hurt his pinky, my bike seemed to be ok in the dark but once I went to store it, it had a flat and the brake lever/ shifters were bent and the frame had some scratches also bar tape was ripped. Today I went to get a new tube and noticed there was more damage. He hasn't said anything about the damage to the bike. This past weekend his twin brother was mad at me for even letting him using it. This is what I don't get, why am I the one that messed up for letting him use my bike. It seems like the blame always gets redirected to those that are not at blame"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I let my uncle use my bike and he was drunk. The bike is a very expensive road bike that I spent 2 years as a mechanic building. I was moving and had my Bmx and Road bike (the one that I'm talking about) out and he wanted to take it for a spin. He a few as the day was hot but he seemed fine riding my bmx bike. We then thought taking a spin around the block after a long day would be fun. I took the bmx bike and let him use my road bike as he liked it and wanted a bigger bike that fit him better. We go around the block and I end up making it back home before him. As soon as I get back I hear a loud crash (Yup he fell). He checked the bike out and walked it back slowly. He hurt his pinky, my bike seemed to be ok in the dark but once I went to store it, it had a flat and the brake lever/ shifters were bent and the frame had some scratches also bar tape was ripped. Today I went to get a new tube and noticed there was more damage. He hasn't said anything about the damage to the bike. This past weekend his twin brother was mad at me for even letting him using it. This is what I don't get, why am I the one that messed up for letting him use my bike. It seems like the blame always gets redirected to those that are not at blame"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I let my uncle use my bike and he was drunk. The bike is a very expensive road bike that I spent 2 years as a mechanic building. I was moving and had my Bmx and Road bike (the one that I'm talking about) out and he wanted to take it for a spin. He a few as the day was hot but he seemed fine riding my bmx bike. We then thought taking a spin around the block after a long day would be fun. I took the bmx bike and let him use my road bike as he liked it and wanted a bigger bike that fit him better. We go around the block and I end up making it back home before him. As soon as I get back I hear a loud crash (Yup he fell). He checked the bike out and walked it back slowly. He hurt his pinky, my bike seemed to be ok in the dark but once I went to store it, it had a flat and the brake lever/ shifters were bent and the frame had some scratches also bar tape was ripped. Today I went to get a new tube and noticed there was more damage. He hasn't said anything about the damage to the bike. This past weekend his twin brother was mad at me for even letting him using it. This is what I don't get, why am I the one that messed up for letting him use my bike. It seems like the blame always gets redirected to those that are not at blame"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my girlfriends uncle, lets call him Bob had texted my girlfriend that he had an old couch we might want for our new apartment. We drove to his house (about a 5 to 10 minute drive) to check it out. While there he offered us a matching chair and ottoman, as well as other odds and ends such as a space heater and a coffee table. All this stuff was in his garage not being used. \n\nThe couch was a little beat up but ultimately because it was free we decided to take it as well as the chair and ottoman. Luckily my gf has brother who drives a large truck so we were able to arrange for him to help us drive the couch back to our new place.\n\nWhen we go back to the apartment with the couch it took us a good hour to get the couch to the door and attempt to get it in. We had to take it up a staircase to get it to our door. After trying to get it through the door with finally took the hinges off to attempt for more space and ultimately failed. The couch spent the night on its side on our covered balcony.\n\nSomeone (i'm honestly not sure who) told Bob that we couldn't get it in our apartment and it spent the night outside. He was furious. He was super mad that we ruined the couch and wants it put back in his garage. Am I wrong in thinking that he has no say in the fate of this couch and I just want to call goodwill or salvation army or just someone to take this couch.\n\nReturning the couch requires cooperation of the gf's brother becuase he has the truck. It also requires at least 3 people to help get it down the stairs and into the truck. It's a huge pain in the ass and I just want to say, \"hey man, fuck your couch\".\n\nWhat can I do about mediating his desire to have the couch that he gave us back with the reality that my back and arms are dead from carrying it yesterday and I really have no strong desire to return the damn couch. Who is being unreasonable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my girlfriends uncle, lets call him Bob had texted my girlfriend that he had an old couch we might want for our new apartment. We drove to his house (about a 5 to 10 minute drive) to check it out. While there he offered us a matching chair and ottoman, as well as other odds and ends such as a space heater and a coffee table. All this stuff was in his garage not being used. \n\nThe couch was a little beat up but ultimately because it was free we decided to take it as well as the chair and ottoman. Luckily my gf has brother who drives a large truck so we were able to arrange for him to help us drive the couch back to our new place.\n\nWhen we go back to the apartment with the couch it took us a good hour to get the couch to the door and attempt to get it in. We had to take it up a staircase to get it to our door. After trying to get it through the door with finally took the hinges off to attempt for more space and ultimately failed. The couch spent the night on its side on our covered balcony.\n\nSomeone (i'm honestly not sure who) told Bob that we couldn't get it in our apartment and it spent the night outside. He was furious. He was super mad that we ruined the couch and wants it put back in his garage. Am I wrong in thinking that he has no say in the fate of this couch and I just want to call goodwill or salvation army or just someone to take this couch.\n\nReturning the couch requires cooperation of the gf's brother becuase he has the truck. It also requires at least 3 people to help get it down the stairs and into the truck. It's a huge pain in the ass and I just want to say, \"hey man, fuck your couch\".\n\nWhat can I do about mediating his desire to have the couch that he gave us back with the reality that my back and arms are dead from carrying it yesterday and I really have no strong desire to return the damn couch. Who is being unreasonable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my girlfriends uncle, lets call him Bob had texted my girlfriend that he had an old couch we might want for our new apartment. We drove to his house (about a 5 to 10 minute drive) to check it out. While there he offered us a matching chair and ottoman, as well as other odds and ends such as a space heater and a coffee table. All this stuff was in his garage not being used. \n\nThe couch was a little beat up but ultimately because it was free we decided to take it as well as the chair and ottoman. Luckily my gf has brother who drives a large truck so we were able to arrange for him to help us drive the couch back to our new place.\n\nWhen we go back to the apartment with the couch it took us a good hour to get the couch to the door and attempt to get it in. We had to take it up a staircase to get it to our door. After trying to get it through the door with finally took the hinges off to attempt for more space and ultimately failed. The couch spent the night on its side on our covered balcony.\n\nSomeone (i'm honestly not sure who) told Bob that we couldn't get it in our apartment and it spent the night outside. He was furious. He was super mad that we ruined the couch and wants it put back in his garage. Am I wrong in thinking that he has no say in the fate of this couch and I just want to call goodwill or salvation army or just someone to take this couch.\n\nReturning the couch requires cooperation of the gf's brother becuase he has the truck. It also requires at least 3 people to help get it down the stairs and into the truck. It's a huge pain in the ass and I just want to say, \"hey man, fuck your couch\".\n\nWhat can I do about mediating his desire to have the couch that he gave us back with the reality that my back and arms are dead from carrying it yesterday and I really have no strong desire to return the damn couch. Who is being unreasonable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my girlfriends uncle, lets call him Bob had texted my girlfriend that he had an old couch we might want for our new apartment. We drove to his house (about a 5 to 10 minute drive) to check it out. While there he offered us a matching chair and ottoman, as well as other odds and ends such as a space heater and a coffee table. All this stuff was in his garage not being used. \n\nThe couch was a little beat up but ultimately because it was free we decided to take it as well as the chair and ottoman. Luckily my gf has brother who drives a large truck so we were able to arrange for him to help us drive the couch back to our new place.\n\nWhen we go back to the apartment with the couch it took us a good hour to get the couch to the door and attempt to get it in. We had to take it up a staircase to get it to our door. After trying to get it through the door with finally took the hinges off to attempt for more space and ultimately failed. The couch spent the night on its side on our covered balcony.\n\nSomeone (i'm honestly not sure who) told Bob that we couldn't get it in our apartment and it spent the night outside. He was furious. He was super mad that we ruined the couch and wants it put back in his garage. Am I wrong in thinking that he has no say in the fate of this couch and I just want to call goodwill or salvation army or just someone to take this couch.\n\nReturning the couch requires cooperation of the gf's brother becuase he has the truck. It also requires at least 3 people to help get it down the stairs and into the truck. It's a huge pain in the ass and I just want to say, \"hey man, fuck your couch\".\n\nWhat can I do about mediating his desire to have the couch that he gave us back with the reality that my back and arms are dead from carrying it yesterday and I really have no strong desire to return the damn couch. Who is being unreasonable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my girlfriends uncle, lets call him Bob had texted my girlfriend that he had an old couch we might want for our new apartment. We drove to his house (about a 5 to 10 minute drive) to check it out. While there he offered us a matching chair and ottoman, as well as other odds and ends such as a space heater and a coffee table. All this stuff was in his garage not being used. \n\nThe couch was a little beat up but ultimately because it was free we decided to take it as well as the chair and ottoman. Luckily my gf has brother who drives a large truck so we were able to arrange for him to help us drive the couch back to our new place.\n\nWhen we go back to the apartment with the couch it took us a good hour to get the couch to the door and attempt to get it in. We had to take it up a staircase to get it to our door. After trying to get it through the door with finally took the hinges off to attempt for more space and ultimately failed. The couch spent the night on its side on our covered balcony.\n\nSomeone (i'm honestly not sure who) told Bob that we couldn't get it in our apartment and it spent the night outside. He was furious. He was super mad that we ruined the couch and wants it put back in his garage. Am I wrong in thinking that he has no say in the fate of this couch and I just want to call goodwill or salvation army or just someone to take this couch.\n\nReturning the couch requires cooperation of the gf's brother becuase he has the truck. It also requires at least 3 people to help get it down the stairs and into the truck. It's a huge pain in the ass and I just want to say, \"hey man, fuck your couch\".\n\nWhat can I do about mediating his desire to have the couch that he gave us back with the reality that my back and arms are dead from carrying it yesterday and I really have no strong desire to return the damn couch. Who is being unreasonable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically my girlfriends uncle, lets call him Bob had texted my girlfriend that he had an old couch we might want for our new apartment. We drove to his house (about a 5 to 10 minute drive) to check it out. While there he offered us a matching chair and ottoman, as well as other odds and ends such as a space heater and a coffee table. All this stuff was in his garage not being used. \n\nThe couch was a little beat up but ultimately because it was free we decided to take it as well as the chair and ottoman. Luckily my gf has brother who drives a large truck so we were able to arrange for him to help us drive the couch back to our new place.\n\nWhen we go back to the apartment with the couch it took us a good hour to get the couch to the door and attempt to get it in. We had to take it up a staircase to get it to our door. After trying to get it through the door with finally took the hinges off to attempt for more space and ultimately failed. The couch spent the night on its side on our covered balcony.\n\nSomeone (i'm honestly not sure who) told Bob that we couldn't get it in our apartment and it spent the night outside. He was furious. He was super mad that we ruined the couch and wants it put back in his garage. Am I wrong in thinking that he has no say in the fate of this couch and I just want to call goodwill or salvation army or just someone to take this couch.\n\nReturning the couch requires cooperation of the gf's brother becuase he has the truck. It also requires at least 3 people to help get it down the stairs and into the truck. It's a huge pain in the ass and I just want to say, \"hey man, fuck your couch\".\n\nWhat can I do about mediating his desire to have the couch that he gave us back with the reality that my back and arms are dead from carrying it yesterday and I really have no strong desire to return the damn couch. Who is being unreasonable?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm (18,m) and my girlfriend (18,f) have been together for about a year now. We face a huge obstacle that is her father. He is EXTREMELY protective of her daughter as well as an asshole (which I will explain later). He doesn't let my girl have any sort of social life. She's not allowed to see friends, not allowed to leave the house, and of course not allowed to see me (he isn't aware of our relationship) which is beginning to hurt me really badly. I feel depressed every now and then since I am never able to see her. The last time I saw her was a month ago during our high school graduation ceremony :S.\n\nHer dad is overprotective but he's also a big asshole. On many countless occasions my girl and her mother, who is very chill, have tried convincing dad to loosen up but to no avail. It always ends up in the dad going berserk and arguments arising, causing my girl and her mother to cry every time they try. needless to say, the answer is always no.\n\nAs her boyfriend, I feel really helpless just sitting here. I can't do anything. Her father would literally murder me if he found out I was dating his daughter but I believe her mother is supportive of us. Is there anything I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm (18,m) and my girlfriend (18,f) have been together for about a year now. We face a huge obstacle that is her father. He is EXTREMELY protective of her daughter as well as an asshole (which I will explain later). He doesn't let my girl have any sort of social life. She's not allowed to see friends, not allowed to leave the house, and of course not allowed to see me (he isn't aware of our relationship) which is beginning to hurt me really badly. I feel depressed every now and then since I am never able to see her. The last time I saw her was a month ago during our high school graduation ceremony :S.\n\nHer dad is overprotective but he's also a big asshole. On many countless occasions my girl and her mother, who is very chill, have tried convincing dad to loosen up but to no avail. It always ends up in the dad going berserk and arguments arising, causing my girl and her mother to cry every time they try. needless to say, the answer is always no.\n\nAs her boyfriend, I feel really helpless just sitting here. I can't do anything. Her father would literally murder me if he found out I was dating his daughter but I believe her mother is supportive of us. Is there anything I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm (18,m) and my girlfriend (18,f) have been together for about a year now. We face a huge obstacle that is her father. He is EXTREMELY protective of her daughter as well as an asshole (which I will explain later). He doesn't let my girl have any sort of social life. She's not allowed to see friends, not allowed to leave the house, and of course not allowed to see me (he isn't aware of our relationship) which is beginning to hurt me really badly. I feel depressed every now and then since I am never able to see her. The last time I saw her was a month ago during our high school graduation ceremony :S.\n\nHer dad is overprotective but he's also a big asshole. On many countless occasions my girl and her mother, who is very chill, have tried convincing dad to loosen up but to no avail. It always ends up in the dad going berserk and arguments arising, causing my girl and her mother to cry every time they try. needless to say, the answer is always no.\n\nAs her boyfriend, I feel really helpless just sitting here. I can't do anything. Her father would literally murder me if he found out I was dating his daughter but I believe her mother is supportive of us. Is there anything I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm (18,m) and my girlfriend (18,f) have been together for about a year now. We face a huge obstacle that is her father. He is EXTREMELY protective of her daughter as well as an asshole (which I will explain later). He doesn't let my girl have any sort of social life. She's not allowed to see friends, not allowed to leave the house, and of course not allowed to see me (he isn't aware of our relationship) which is beginning to hurt me really badly. I feel depressed every now and then since I am never able to see her. The last time I saw her was a month ago during our high school graduation ceremony :S.\n\nHer dad is overprotective but he's also a big asshole. On many countless occasions my girl and her mother, who is very chill, have tried convincing dad to loosen up but to no avail. It always ends up in the dad going berserk and arguments arising, causing my girl and her mother to cry every time they try. needless to say, the answer is always no.\n\nAs her boyfriend, I feel really helpless just sitting here. I can't do anything. Her father would literally murder me if he found out I was dating his daughter but I believe her mother is supportive of us. Is there anything I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm (18,m) and my girlfriend (18,f) have been together for about a year now. We face a huge obstacle that is her father. He is EXTREMELY protective of her daughter as well as an asshole (which I will explain later). He doesn't let my girl have any sort of social life. She's not allowed to see friends, not allowed to leave the house, and of course not allowed to see me (he isn't aware of our relationship) which is beginning to hurt me really badly. I feel depressed every now and then since I am never able to see her. The last time I saw her was a month ago during our high school graduation ceremony :S.\n\nHer dad is overprotective but he's also a big asshole. On many countless occasions my girl and her mother, who is very chill, have tried convincing dad to loosen up but to no avail. It always ends up in the dad going berserk and arguments arising, causing my girl and her mother to cry every time they try. needless to say, the answer is always no.\n\nAs her boyfriend, I feel really helpless just sitting here. I can't do anything. Her father would literally murder me if he found out I was dating his daughter but I believe her mother is supportive of us. Is there anything I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm (18,m) and my girlfriend (18,f) have been together for about a year now. We face a huge obstacle that is her father. He is EXTREMELY protective of her daughter as well as an asshole (which I will explain later). He doesn't let my girl have any sort of social life. She's not allowed to see friends, not allowed to leave the house, and of course not allowed to see me (he isn't aware of our relationship) which is beginning to hurt me really badly. I feel depressed every now and then since I am never able to see her. The last time I saw her was a month ago during our high school graduation ceremony :S.\n\nHer dad is overprotective but he's also a big asshole. On many countless occasions my girl and her mother, who is very chill, have tried convincing dad to loosen up but to no avail. It always ends up in the dad going berserk and arguments arising, causing my girl and her mother to cry every time they try. needless to say, the answer is always no.\n\nAs her boyfriend, I feel really helpless just sitting here. I can't do anything. Her father would literally murder me if he found out I was dating his daughter but I believe her mother is supportive of us. Is there anything I can do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have much experience when it comes to dating, and I'm now 2 years single. I have problems meeting women so I thought I should give Tinder a shot. \n\nThis night I got matched with my high school crush that I know for 8 years. I always liked her, but she seemed to be out of my league so I never tried asking her out. This match rekindled my hope, but I'm clueless about what I should say.\n\nJust saying \"Hi, how are you?\" is too ordinary, but a pick up line feels awkward to me.\nAny suggestions?\n\n-\n*Update*: I took /u/PirateReject's after a female friend gave me the exact same opinion. \"Hey XX, haven't heard something from you in a long time. How are you?\" seemed to be sufficient. She has seen the message today, but has not yet send a message back. I'll wait 2 days, then move on I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have much experience when it comes to dating, and I'm now 2 years single. I have problems meeting women so I thought I should give Tinder a shot. \n\nThis night I got matched with my high school crush that I know for 8 years. I always liked her, but she seemed to be out of my league so I never tried asking her out. This match rekindled my hope, but I'm clueless about what I should say.\n\nJust saying \"Hi, how are you?\" is too ordinary, but a pick up line feels awkward to me.\nAny suggestions?\n\n-\n*Update*: I took /u/PirateReject's after a female friend gave me the exact same opinion. \"Hey XX, haven't heard something from you in a long time. How are you?\" seemed to be sufficient. She has seen the message today, but has not yet send a message back. I'll wait 2 days, then move on I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have much experience when it comes to dating, and I'm now 2 years single. I have problems meeting women so I thought I should give Tinder a shot. \n\nThis night I got matched with my high school crush that I know for 8 years. I always liked her, but she seemed to be out of my league so I never tried asking her out. This match rekindled my hope, but I'm clueless about what I should say.\n\nJust saying \"Hi, how are you?\" is too ordinary, but a pick up line feels awkward to me.\nAny suggestions?\n\n-\n*Update*: I took /u/PirateReject's after a female friend gave me the exact same opinion. \"Hey XX, haven't heard something from you in a long time. How are you?\" seemed to be sufficient. She has seen the message today, but has not yet send a message back. I'll wait 2 days, then move on I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have much experience when it comes to dating, and I'm now 2 years single. I have problems meeting women so I thought I should give Tinder a shot. \n\nThis night I got matched with my high school crush that I know for 8 years. I always liked her, but she seemed to be out of my league so I never tried asking her out. This match rekindled my hope, but I'm clueless about what I should say.\n\nJust saying \"Hi, how are you?\" is too ordinary, but a pick up line feels awkward to me.\nAny suggestions?\n\n-\n*Update*: I took /u/PirateReject's after a female friend gave me the exact same opinion. \"Hey XX, haven't heard something from you in a long time. How are you?\" seemed to be sufficient. She has seen the message today, but has not yet send a message back. I'll wait 2 days, then move on I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have much experience when it comes to dating, and I'm now 2 years single. I have problems meeting women so I thought I should give Tinder a shot. \n\nThis night I got matched with my high school crush that I know for 8 years. I always liked her, but she seemed to be out of my league so I never tried asking her out. This match rekindled my hope, but I'm clueless about what I should say.\n\nJust saying \"Hi, how are you?\" is too ordinary, but a pick up line feels awkward to me.\nAny suggestions?\n\n-\n*Update*: I took /u/PirateReject's after a female friend gave me the exact same opinion. \"Hey XX, haven't heard something from you in a long time. How are you?\" seemed to be sufficient. She has seen the message today, but has not yet send a message back. I'll wait 2 days, then move on I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have much experience when it comes to dating, and I'm now 2 years single. I have problems meeting women so I thought I should give Tinder a shot. \n\nThis night I got matched with my high school crush that I know for 8 years. I always liked her, but she seemed to be out of my league so I never tried asking her out. This match rekindled my hope, but I'm clueless about what I should say.\n\nJust saying \"Hi, how are you?\" is too ordinary, but a pick up line feels awkward to me.\nAny suggestions?\n\n-\n*Update*: I took /u/PirateReject's after a female friend gave me the exact same opinion. \"Hey XX, haven't heard something from you in a long time. How are you?\" seemed to be sufficient. She has seen the message today, but has not yet send a message back. I'll wait 2 days, then move on I guess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met Adrianna at a conference for businesses in our industry three years ago and we hit it off. We have the same tastes in movies, some in music, and both have an unhealthy obsession in bowling(never thought I'd find a partner as into as I am). We got engaged in September, and everything was going great.\n\nAbout two weeks ago I got a series of pictures and a video from an unknown numbers. I saw it was her ex who was a manipulative, emotionally abusive person, who hurt Adrianna before she finally left. He stalked her for a year after.\n\nThe texts that went with it stated that she was his and I would never be able to please her. Truthfully, the guy's ego was much bigger than his prowess. It also didn't have the desired affect, because I didn't decide to cancel the wedding and never see her again. I am mainly pissed that he released very private pictures of her to someone he doesn't know. I also wonder who else he has sent them too. I've had nudes and had sex pics with a previous girlfriend, but when the relationship ended, I deleted them all(Isn't that what you are supposed to do, just out of courtesy?).\n\nJust so she wouldn't get blind sided, I told Adriana. She has not taken it well. Her first fear was that I would leave. I have told her that I want to spend my life with her, this doesn't change how I view her. She has repeatedly told me I am the best she has had, that her ex doesn't compare. I have told her this isn't a contest, I don't care what they had, just that she is happy with me now. I said \"he is just a sad, jealous, little man who can't stand it you have found happiness and he hasn't.\"\n\nRegardless, I feel like she in on the edge of a breakdown. What can I do to assuage her fears of me leaving? More than anything, I hate he has done this to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met Adrianna at a conference for businesses in our industry three years ago and we hit it off. We have the same tastes in movies, some in music, and both have an unhealthy obsession in bowling(never thought I'd find a partner as into as I am). We got engaged in September, and everything was going great.\n\nAbout two weeks ago I got a series of pictures and a video from an unknown numbers. I saw it was her ex who was a manipulative, emotionally abusive person, who hurt Adrianna before she finally left. He stalked her for a year after.\n\nThe texts that went with it stated that she was his and I would never be able to please her. Truthfully, the guy's ego was much bigger than his prowess. It also didn't have the desired affect, because I didn't decide to cancel the wedding and never see her again. I am mainly pissed that he released very private pictures of her to someone he doesn't know. I also wonder who else he has sent them too. I've had nudes and had sex pics with a previous girlfriend, but when the relationship ended, I deleted them all(Isn't that what you are supposed to do, just out of courtesy?).\n\nJust so she wouldn't get blind sided, I told Adriana. She has not taken it well. Her first fear was that I would leave. I have told her that I want to spend my life with her, this doesn't change how I view her. She has repeatedly told me I am the best she has had, that her ex doesn't compare. I have told her this isn't a contest, I don't care what they had, just that she is happy with me now. I said \"he is just a sad, jealous, little man who can't stand it you have found happiness and he hasn't.\"\n\nRegardless, I feel like she in on the edge of a breakdown. What can I do to assuage her fears of me leaving? More than anything, I hate he has done this to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met Adrianna at a conference for businesses in our industry three years ago and we hit it off. We have the same tastes in movies, some in music, and both have an unhealthy obsession in bowling(never thought I'd find a partner as into as I am). We got engaged in September, and everything was going great.\n\nAbout two weeks ago I got a series of pictures and a video from an unknown numbers. I saw it was her ex who was a manipulative, emotionally abusive person, who hurt Adrianna before she finally left. He stalked her for a year after.\n\nThe texts that went with it stated that she was his and I would never be able to please her. Truthfully, the guy's ego was much bigger than his prowess. It also didn't have the desired affect, because I didn't decide to cancel the wedding and never see her again. I am mainly pissed that he released very private pictures of her to someone he doesn't know. I also wonder who else he has sent them too. I've had nudes and had sex pics with a previous girlfriend, but when the relationship ended, I deleted them all(Isn't that what you are supposed to do, just out of courtesy?).\n\nJust so she wouldn't get blind sided, I told Adriana. She has not taken it well. Her first fear was that I would leave. I have told her that I want to spend my life with her, this doesn't change how I view her. She has repeatedly told me I am the best she has had, that her ex doesn't compare. I have told her this isn't a contest, I don't care what they had, just that she is happy with me now. I said \"he is just a sad, jealous, little man who can't stand it you have found happiness and he hasn't.\"\n\nRegardless, I feel like she in on the edge of a breakdown. What can I do to assuage her fears of me leaving? More than anything, I hate he has done this to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met Adrianna at a conference for businesses in our industry three years ago and we hit it off. We have the same tastes in movies, some in music, and both have an unhealthy obsession in bowling(never thought I'd find a partner as into as I am). We got engaged in September, and everything was going great.\n\nAbout two weeks ago I got a series of pictures and a video from an unknown numbers. I saw it was her ex who was a manipulative, emotionally abusive person, who hurt Adrianna before she finally left. He stalked her for a year after.\n\nThe texts that went with it stated that she was his and I would never be able to please her. Truthfully, the guy's ego was much bigger than his prowess. It also didn't have the desired affect, because I didn't decide to cancel the wedding and never see her again. I am mainly pissed that he released very private pictures of her to someone he doesn't know. I also wonder who else he has sent them too. I've had nudes and had sex pics with a previous girlfriend, but when the relationship ended, I deleted them all(Isn't that what you are supposed to do, just out of courtesy?).\n\nJust so she wouldn't get blind sided, I told Adriana. She has not taken it well. Her first fear was that I would leave. I have told her that I want to spend my life with her, this doesn't change how I view her. She has repeatedly told me I am the best she has had, that her ex doesn't compare. I have told her this isn't a contest, I don't care what they had, just that she is happy with me now. I said \"he is just a sad, jealous, little man who can't stand it you have found happiness and he hasn't.\"\n\nRegardless, I feel like she in on the edge of a breakdown. What can I do to assuage her fears of me leaving? More than anything, I hate he has done this to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met Adrianna at a conference for businesses in our industry three years ago and we hit it off. We have the same tastes in movies, some in music, and both have an unhealthy obsession in bowling(never thought I'd find a partner as into as I am). We got engaged in September, and everything was going great.\n\nAbout two weeks ago I got a series of pictures and a video from an unknown numbers. I saw it was her ex who was a manipulative, emotionally abusive person, who hurt Adrianna before she finally left. He stalked her for a year after.\n\nThe texts that went with it stated that she was his and I would never be able to please her. Truthfully, the guy's ego was much bigger than his prowess. It also didn't have the desired affect, because I didn't decide to cancel the wedding and never see her again. I am mainly pissed that he released very private pictures of her to someone he doesn't know. I also wonder who else he has sent them too. I've had nudes and had sex pics with a previous girlfriend, but when the relationship ended, I deleted them all(Isn't that what you are supposed to do, just out of courtesy?).\n\nJust so she wouldn't get blind sided, I told Adriana. She has not taken it well. Her first fear was that I would leave. I have told her that I want to spend my life with her, this doesn't change how I view her. She has repeatedly told me I am the best she has had, that her ex doesn't compare. I have told her this isn't a contest, I don't care what they had, just that she is happy with me now. I said \"he is just a sad, jealous, little man who can't stand it you have found happiness and he hasn't.\"\n\nRegardless, I feel like she in on the edge of a breakdown. What can I do to assuage her fears of me leaving? More than anything, I hate he has done this to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Met Adrianna at a conference for businesses in our industry three years ago and we hit it off. We have the same tastes in movies, some in music, and both have an unhealthy obsession in bowling(never thought I'd find a partner as into as I am). We got engaged in September, and everything was going great.\n\nAbout two weeks ago I got a series of pictures and a video from an unknown numbers. I saw it was her ex who was a manipulative, emotionally abusive person, who hurt Adrianna before she finally left. He stalked her for a year after.\n\nThe texts that went with it stated that she was his and I would never be able to please her. Truthfully, the guy's ego was much bigger than his prowess. It also didn't have the desired affect, because I didn't decide to cancel the wedding and never see her again. I am mainly pissed that he released very private pictures of her to someone he doesn't know. I also wonder who else he has sent them too. I've had nudes and had sex pics with a previous girlfriend, but when the relationship ended, I deleted them all(Isn't that what you are supposed to do, just out of courtesy?).\n\nJust so she wouldn't get blind sided, I told Adriana. She has not taken it well. Her first fear was that I would leave. I have told her that I want to spend my life with her, this doesn't change how I view her. She has repeatedly told me I am the best she has had, that her ex doesn't compare. I have told her this isn't a contest, I don't care what they had, just that she is happy with me now. I said \"he is just a sad, jealous, little man who can't stand it you have found happiness and he hasn't.\"\n\nRegardless, I feel like she in on the edge of a breakdown. What can I do to assuage her fears of me leaving? More than anything, I hate he has done this to her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have not seen or spoken to each other in 4 years since she passed on. I said very harsh things to him a few weeks after she died due to him bringing another woman into his life not even a month after his wife of 40+ years died.\n\nI'm really not sure what to say to him, I was extremely close to both of them growing up. With my Father out of the picture most of younger years he was to me, my Father, and my Grandmother was very much my Mother. Him. bring in this new female lieing to us about the type of relationship he had with her hurt me. Very deeply, I felt like he didn't care or love my Grandmother.\n\nI really don't know how to handle seeing him again, nor this other woman. I still feel like he didn't care about my Grandmother at all, he didn't deny it when I yelled at him about it ether."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have not seen or spoken to each other in 4 years since she passed on. I said very harsh things to him a few weeks after she died due to him bringing another woman into his life not even a month after his wife of 40+ years died.\n\nI'm really not sure what to say to him, I was extremely close to both of them growing up. With my Father out of the picture most of younger years he was to me, my Father, and my Grandmother was very much my Mother. Him. bring in this new female lieing to us about the type of relationship he had with her hurt me. Very deeply, I felt like he didn't care or love my Grandmother.\n\nI really don't know how to handle seeing him again, nor this other woman. I still feel like he didn't care about my Grandmother at all, he didn't deny it when I yelled at him about it ether."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have not seen or spoken to each other in 4 years since she passed on. I said very harsh things to him a few weeks after she died due to him bringing another woman into his life not even a month after his wife of 40+ years died.\n\nI'm really not sure what to say to him, I was extremely close to both of them growing up. With my Father out of the picture most of younger years he was to me, my Father, and my Grandmother was very much my Mother. Him. bring in this new female lieing to us about the type of relationship he had with her hurt me. Very deeply, I felt like he didn't care or love my Grandmother.\n\nI really don't know how to handle seeing him again, nor this other woman. I still feel like he didn't care about my Grandmother at all, he didn't deny it when I yelled at him about it ether."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have not seen or spoken to each other in 4 years since she passed on. I said very harsh things to him a few weeks after she died due to him bringing another woman into his life not even a month after his wife of 40+ years died.\n\nI'm really not sure what to say to him, I was extremely close to both of them growing up. With my Father out of the picture most of younger years he was to me, my Father, and my Grandmother was very much my Mother. Him. bring in this new female lieing to us about the type of relationship he had with her hurt me. Very deeply, I felt like he didn't care or love my Grandmother.\n\nI really don't know how to handle seeing him again, nor this other woman. I still feel like he didn't care about my Grandmother at all, he didn't deny it when I yelled at him about it ether."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have not seen or spoken to each other in 4 years since she passed on. I said very harsh things to him a few weeks after she died due to him bringing another woman into his life not even a month after his wife of 40+ years died.\n\nI'm really not sure what to say to him, I was extremely close to both of them growing up. With my Father out of the picture most of younger years he was to me, my Father, and my Grandmother was very much my Mother. Him. bring in this new female lieing to us about the type of relationship he had with her hurt me. Very deeply, I felt like he didn't care or love my Grandmother.\n\nI really don't know how to handle seeing him again, nor this other woman. I still feel like he didn't care about my Grandmother at all, he didn't deny it when I yelled at him about it ether."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have not seen or spoken to each other in 4 years since she passed on. I said very harsh things to him a few weeks after she died due to him bringing another woman into his life not even a month after his wife of 40+ years died.\n\nI'm really not sure what to say to him, I was extremely close to both of them growing up. With my Father out of the picture most of younger years he was to me, my Father, and my Grandmother was very much my Mother. Him. bring in this new female lieing to us about the type of relationship he had with her hurt me. Very deeply, I felt like he didn't care or love my Grandmother.\n\nI really don't know how to handle seeing him again, nor this other woman. I still feel like he didn't care about my Grandmother at all, he didn't deny it when I yelled at him about it ether."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been going out with this girl for about 2 1/2 months and things have been going great. But, she has been saying and/or doing mean things lately. She says that she is joking when she says them but it's like she never says anything nice anymore.\n\nI'll give you a few examples. She says that I'm annoying, I'm stupid, I talk too much and at one point, she said that I made her want to kill herself. She says that she is joking about all this but personally, I just wish it would stop. I hinted at her that I wanted her to be nicer like she used to (she used to say that I was hot, smart, funny, etc.) but she just told me to stop being so sensitive. One instance that really bothered me was when I told her that I didn't go to any parties on Canada Day (I had to help renovate the bathroom), she laughed hysterically over the phone and said that it was hilarious. She then went on to tell me about how she went to this wicked party and how much fun she had. It didn't make me feel good at all.\n\nBottom line is I don't like getting treated this way. She says she's joking but she never really says anything nice to me anymore and it doesn't make me feel good. I try my best to compliment her and make her feel good but I feel like it should be a two-way street. I really like this girl and I want our relationship to go on as long as possible but if I tell her, I feel she'll think I'm overly sensitive, which she told me when I hinted at it before. I need help. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been going out with this girl for about 2 1/2 months and things have been going great. But, she has been saying and/or doing mean things lately. She says that she is joking when she says them but it's like she never says anything nice anymore.\n\nI'll give you a few examples. She says that I'm annoying, I'm stupid, I talk too much and at one point, she said that I made her want to kill herself. She says that she is joking about all this but personally, I just wish it would stop. I hinted at her that I wanted her to be nicer like she used to (she used to say that I was hot, smart, funny, etc.) but she just told me to stop being so sensitive. One instance that really bothered me was when I told her that I didn't go to any parties on Canada Day (I had to help renovate the bathroom), she laughed hysterically over the phone and said that it was hilarious. She then went on to tell me about how she went to this wicked party and how much fun she had. It didn't make me feel good at all.\n\nBottom line is I don't like getting treated this way. She says she's joking but she never really says anything nice to me anymore and it doesn't make me feel good. I try my best to compliment her and make her feel good but I feel like it should be a two-way street. I really like this girl and I want our relationship to go on as long as possible but if I tell her, I feel she'll think I'm overly sensitive, which she told me when I hinted at it before. I need help. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been going out with this girl for about 2 1/2 months and things have been going great. But, she has been saying and/or doing mean things lately. She says that she is joking when she says them but it's like she never says anything nice anymore.\n\nI'll give you a few examples. She says that I'm annoying, I'm stupid, I talk too much and at one point, she said that I made her want to kill herself. She says that she is joking about all this but personally, I just wish it would stop. I hinted at her that I wanted her to be nicer like she used to (she used to say that I was hot, smart, funny, etc.) but she just told me to stop being so sensitive. One instance that really bothered me was when I told her that I didn't go to any parties on Canada Day (I had to help renovate the bathroom), she laughed hysterically over the phone and said that it was hilarious. She then went on to tell me about how she went to this wicked party and how much fun she had. It didn't make me feel good at all.\n\nBottom line is I don't like getting treated this way. She says she's joking but she never really says anything nice to me anymore and it doesn't make me feel good. I try my best to compliment her and make her feel good but I feel like it should be a two-way street. I really like this girl and I want our relationship to go on as long as possible but if I tell her, I feel she'll think I'm overly sensitive, which she told me when I hinted at it before. I need help. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been going out with this girl for about 2 1/2 months and things have been going great. But, she has been saying and/or doing mean things lately. She says that she is joking when she says them but it's like she never says anything nice anymore.\n\nI'll give you a few examples. She says that I'm annoying, I'm stupid, I talk too much and at one point, she said that I made her want to kill herself. She says that she is joking about all this but personally, I just wish it would stop. I hinted at her that I wanted her to be nicer like she used to (she used to say that I was hot, smart, funny, etc.) but she just told me to stop being so sensitive. One instance that really bothered me was when I told her that I didn't go to any parties on Canada Day (I had to help renovate the bathroom), she laughed hysterically over the phone and said that it was hilarious. She then went on to tell me about how she went to this wicked party and how much fun she had. It didn't make me feel good at all.\n\nBottom line is I don't like getting treated this way. She says she's joking but she never really says anything nice to me anymore and it doesn't make me feel good. I try my best to compliment her and make her feel good but I feel like it should be a two-way street. I really like this girl and I want our relationship to go on as long as possible but if I tell her, I feel she'll think I'm overly sensitive, which she told me when I hinted at it before. I need help. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been going out with this girl for about 2 1/2 months and things have been going great. But, she has been saying and/or doing mean things lately. She says that she is joking when she says them but it's like she never says anything nice anymore.\n\nI'll give you a few examples. She says that I'm annoying, I'm stupid, I talk too much and at one point, she said that I made her want to kill herself. She says that she is joking about all this but personally, I just wish it would stop. I hinted at her that I wanted her to be nicer like she used to (she used to say that I was hot, smart, funny, etc.) but she just told me to stop being so sensitive. One instance that really bothered me was when I told her that I didn't go to any parties on Canada Day (I had to help renovate the bathroom), she laughed hysterically over the phone and said that it was hilarious. She then went on to tell me about how she went to this wicked party and how much fun she had. It didn't make me feel good at all.\n\nBottom line is I don't like getting treated this way. She says she's joking but she never really says anything nice to me anymore and it doesn't make me feel good. I try my best to compliment her and make her feel good but I feel like it should be a two-way street. I really like this girl and I want our relationship to go on as long as possible but if I tell her, I feel she'll think I'm overly sensitive, which she told me when I hinted at it before. I need help. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little backstory first. We got engaged over a year ago. We're each other's first everything pretty much. We've always been such a great team, and she is my best friend. Our entire family and circle of friends have been very supportive of our engagement.\n\nSince the engagement we've had a few hostile arguments originating from her confessions of 'intrusive thoughts', things like what if she doesn't find me attractive anymore, that she wonders if I satisfy her, etc. After the arguments she blames these thoughts on an anxiety disorder for which she has ceased treatment, although not without my knowledge.\n\nShe swears these thoughts she shares with me aren't true, that she doesn't really believe those things, that everything is okay. The more of these arguments we have, the more my trust is slowly eroded and I don't know what to believe anymore.\n\nLast night we were enjoying some foreplay, when she started to have an episode of anxiety.\n\nThis happens on occasion, and it naturally puts a stop to any sexy times for quite a while after. It was getting so frequent it started to eat away at my confidence, which just causes more problems in bed.\n\nDuring her most recent bout of intrusive thoughts she told me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore. We ended up crying a lot, having half-hearted sex, and going to bed.\n\nShe swears she still loves me, but why does it feel like she's been pushing me away since the start of our engagement? How can I move past things she's told me that have been, frankly, harmful to my psyche?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little backstory first. We got engaged over a year ago. We're each other's first everything pretty much. We've always been such a great team, and she is my best friend. Our entire family and circle of friends have been very supportive of our engagement.\n\nSince the engagement we've had a few hostile arguments originating from her confessions of 'intrusive thoughts', things like what if she doesn't find me attractive anymore, that she wonders if I satisfy her, etc. After the arguments she blames these thoughts on an anxiety disorder for which she has ceased treatment, although not without my knowledge.\n\nShe swears these thoughts she shares with me aren't true, that she doesn't really believe those things, that everything is okay. The more of these arguments we have, the more my trust is slowly eroded and I don't know what to believe anymore.\n\nLast night we were enjoying some foreplay, when she started to have an episode of anxiety.\n\nThis happens on occasion, and it naturally puts a stop to any sexy times for quite a while after. It was getting so frequent it started to eat away at my confidence, which just causes more problems in bed.\n\nDuring her most recent bout of intrusive thoughts she told me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore. We ended up crying a lot, having half-hearted sex, and going to bed.\n\nShe swears she still loves me, but why does it feel like she's been pushing me away since the start of our engagement? How can I move past things she's told me that have been, frankly, harmful to my psyche?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little backstory first. We got engaged over a year ago. We're each other's first everything pretty much. We've always been such a great team, and she is my best friend. Our entire family and circle of friends have been very supportive of our engagement.\n\nSince the engagement we've had a few hostile arguments originating from her confessions of 'intrusive thoughts', things like what if she doesn't find me attractive anymore, that she wonders if I satisfy her, etc. After the arguments she blames these thoughts on an anxiety disorder for which she has ceased treatment, although not without my knowledge.\n\nShe swears these thoughts she shares with me aren't true, that she doesn't really believe those things, that everything is okay. The more of these arguments we have, the more my trust is slowly eroded and I don't know what to believe anymore.\n\nLast night we were enjoying some foreplay, when she started to have an episode of anxiety.\n\nThis happens on occasion, and it naturally puts a stop to any sexy times for quite a while after. It was getting so frequent it started to eat away at my confidence, which just causes more problems in bed.\n\nDuring her most recent bout of intrusive thoughts she told me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore. We ended up crying a lot, having half-hearted sex, and going to bed.\n\nShe swears she still loves me, but why does it feel like she's been pushing me away since the start of our engagement? How can I move past things she's told me that have been, frankly, harmful to my psyche?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little backstory first. We got engaged over a year ago. We're each other's first everything pretty much. We've always been such a great team, and she is my best friend. Our entire family and circle of friends have been very supportive of our engagement.\n\nSince the engagement we've had a few hostile arguments originating from her confessions of 'intrusive thoughts', things like what if she doesn't find me attractive anymore, that she wonders if I satisfy her, etc. After the arguments she blames these thoughts on an anxiety disorder for which she has ceased treatment, although not without my knowledge.\n\nShe swears these thoughts she shares with me aren't true, that she doesn't really believe those things, that everything is okay. The more of these arguments we have, the more my trust is slowly eroded and I don't know what to believe anymore.\n\nLast night we were enjoying some foreplay, when she started to have an episode of anxiety.\n\nThis happens on occasion, and it naturally puts a stop to any sexy times for quite a while after. It was getting so frequent it started to eat away at my confidence, which just causes more problems in bed.\n\nDuring her most recent bout of intrusive thoughts she told me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore. We ended up crying a lot, having half-hearted sex, and going to bed.\n\nShe swears she still loves me, but why does it feel like she's been pushing me away since the start of our engagement? How can I move past things she's told me that have been, frankly, harmful to my psyche?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little backstory first. We got engaged over a year ago. We're each other's first everything pretty much. We've always been such a great team, and she is my best friend. Our entire family and circle of friends have been very supportive of our engagement.\n\nSince the engagement we've had a few hostile arguments originating from her confessions of 'intrusive thoughts', things like what if she doesn't find me attractive anymore, that she wonders if I satisfy her, etc. After the arguments she blames these thoughts on an anxiety disorder for which she has ceased treatment, although not without my knowledge.\n\nShe swears these thoughts she shares with me aren't true, that she doesn't really believe those things, that everything is okay. The more of these arguments we have, the more my trust is slowly eroded and I don't know what to believe anymore.\n\nLast night we were enjoying some foreplay, when she started to have an episode of anxiety.\n\nThis happens on occasion, and it naturally puts a stop to any sexy times for quite a while after. It was getting so frequent it started to eat away at my confidence, which just causes more problems in bed.\n\nDuring her most recent bout of intrusive thoughts she told me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore. We ended up crying a lot, having half-hearted sex, and going to bed.\n\nShe swears she still loves me, but why does it feel like she's been pushing me away since the start of our engagement? How can I move past things she's told me that have been, frankly, harmful to my psyche?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little backstory first. We got engaged over a year ago. We're each other's first everything pretty much. We've always been such a great team, and she is my best friend. Our entire family and circle of friends have been very supportive of our engagement.\n\nSince the engagement we've had a few hostile arguments originating from her confessions of 'intrusive thoughts', things like what if she doesn't find me attractive anymore, that she wonders if I satisfy her, etc. After the arguments she blames these thoughts on an anxiety disorder for which she has ceased treatment, although not without my knowledge.\n\nShe swears these thoughts she shares with me aren't true, that she doesn't really believe those things, that everything is okay. The more of these arguments we have, the more my trust is slowly eroded and I don't know what to believe anymore.\n\nLast night we were enjoying some foreplay, when she started to have an episode of anxiety.\n\nThis happens on occasion, and it naturally puts a stop to any sexy times for quite a while after. It was getting so frequent it started to eat away at my confidence, which just causes more problems in bed.\n\nDuring her most recent bout of intrusive thoughts she told me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore. We ended up crying a lot, having half-hearted sex, and going to bed.\n\nShe swears she still loves me, but why does it feel like she's been pushing me away since the start of our engagement? How can I move past things she's told me that have been, frankly, harmful to my psyche?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about six months. We both live in the states but she's in the south and I'm up north. We both studied abroad for a semester and almost immediately fell in love. We have never had an argument nor have had any serious issues. The only \"issue\" we've had was purely out of my own frustration. She's not the best at communicating via social media/text and often forgets to check her phone/respond. Otherwise, we both trust each other 100% and love each other dearly. We both have a year left in college and are doing our best to keep each other happy. \n\nI wanted to get some advice from Reddit on ways to keep our relationship fun and interesting when we would see each other very minimally (~2-3 times at most per semester)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about six months. We both live in the states but she's in the south and I'm up north. We both studied abroad for a semester and almost immediately fell in love. We have never had an argument nor have had any serious issues. The only \"issue\" we've had was purely out of my own frustration. She's not the best at communicating via social media/text and often forgets to check her phone/respond. Otherwise, we both trust each other 100% and love each other dearly. We both have a year left in college and are doing our best to keep each other happy. \n\nI wanted to get some advice from Reddit on ways to keep our relationship fun and interesting when we would see each other very minimally (~2-3 times at most per semester)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about six months. We both live in the states but she's in the south and I'm up north. We both studied abroad for a semester and almost immediately fell in love. We have never had an argument nor have had any serious issues. The only \"issue\" we've had was purely out of my own frustration. She's not the best at communicating via social media/text and often forgets to check her phone/respond. Otherwise, we both trust each other 100% and love each other dearly. We both have a year left in college and are doing our best to keep each other happy. \n\nI wanted to get some advice from Reddit on ways to keep our relationship fun and interesting when we would see each other very minimally (~2-3 times at most per semester)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about six months. We both live in the states but she's in the south and I'm up north. We both studied abroad for a semester and almost immediately fell in love. We have never had an argument nor have had any serious issues. The only \"issue\" we've had was purely out of my own frustration. She's not the best at communicating via social media/text and often forgets to check her phone/respond. Otherwise, we both trust each other 100% and love each other dearly. We both have a year left in college and are doing our best to keep each other happy. \n\nI wanted to get some advice from Reddit on ways to keep our relationship fun and interesting when we would see each other very minimally (~2-3 times at most per semester)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about six months. We both live in the states but she's in the south and I'm up north. We both studied abroad for a semester and almost immediately fell in love. We have never had an argument nor have had any serious issues. The only \"issue\" we've had was purely out of my own frustration. She's not the best at communicating via social media/text and often forgets to check her phone/respond. Otherwise, we both trust each other 100% and love each other dearly. We both have a year left in college and are doing our best to keep each other happy. \n\nI wanted to get some advice from Reddit on ways to keep our relationship fun and interesting when we would see each other very minimally (~2-3 times at most per semester)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for about six months. We both live in the states but she's in the south and I'm up north. We both studied abroad for a semester and almost immediately fell in love. We have never had an argument nor have had any serious issues. The only \"issue\" we've had was purely out of my own frustration. She's not the best at communicating via social media/text and often forgets to check her phone/respond. Otherwise, we both trust each other 100% and love each other dearly. We both have a year left in college and are doing our best to keep each other happy. \n\nI wanted to get some advice from Reddit on ways to keep our relationship fun and interesting when we would see each other very minimally (~2-3 times at most per semester)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was my 21st birthday. My gf went with me to a strip club. first strip club i've ever been to in my life. We both get completely shit faced and head back to her place. Drunk as fuck we both pass out. I woke up in the middle of the night and began to make out with her because i was horny as fuck. and my buzz was wearing off. She began to kiss back and was giving me a HJ. so I figured she wanted it bad. We began to get our sex on and I noticed she was REALLY wet. So dumbass me thinks that i've made her horny as fuck. So here I am thinking i'm the god of sex. and we both finish. Wake up the next morning with a nasty hangover. and i noticed that my hand was covered in something dark and red. At this moment. i realized something horrible. I removed the sheets only to find out she was on her period the whole time. Her sheets, pants, my pants, and pillows were RUINED. What felt like an awesome sex experience turned out to be the worst thing that has ever happened to me. \n\nYour turn Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was my 21st birthday. My gf went with me to a strip club. first strip club i've ever been to in my life. We both get completely shit faced and head back to her place. Drunk as fuck we both pass out. I woke up in the middle of the night and began to make out with her because i was horny as fuck. and my buzz was wearing off. She began to kiss back and was giving me a HJ. so I figured she wanted it bad. We began to get our sex on and I noticed she was REALLY wet. So dumbass me thinks that i've made her horny as fuck. So here I am thinking i'm the god of sex. and we both finish. Wake up the next morning with a nasty hangover. and i noticed that my hand was covered in something dark and red. At this moment. i realized something horrible. I removed the sheets only to find out she was on her period the whole time. Her sheets, pants, my pants, and pillows were RUINED. What felt like an awesome sex experience turned out to be the worst thing that has ever happened to me. \n\nYour turn Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was my 21st birthday. My gf went with me to a strip club. first strip club i've ever been to in my life. We both get completely shit faced and head back to her place. Drunk as fuck we both pass out. I woke up in the middle of the night and began to make out with her because i was horny as fuck. and my buzz was wearing off. She began to kiss back and was giving me a HJ. so I figured she wanted it bad. We began to get our sex on and I noticed she was REALLY wet. So dumbass me thinks that i've made her horny as fuck. So here I am thinking i'm the god of sex. and we both finish. Wake up the next morning with a nasty hangover. and i noticed that my hand was covered in something dark and red. At this moment. i realized something horrible. I removed the sheets only to find out she was on her period the whole time. Her sheets, pants, my pants, and pillows were RUINED. What felt like an awesome sex experience turned out to be the worst thing that has ever happened to me. \n\nYour turn Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was my 21st birthday. My gf went with me to a strip club. first strip club i've ever been to in my life. We both get completely shit faced and head back to her place. Drunk as fuck we both pass out. I woke up in the middle of the night and began to make out with her because i was horny as fuck. and my buzz was wearing off. She began to kiss back and was giving me a HJ. so I figured she wanted it bad. We began to get our sex on and I noticed she was REALLY wet. So dumbass me thinks that i've made her horny as fuck. So here I am thinking i'm the god of sex. and we both finish. Wake up the next morning with a nasty hangover. and i noticed that my hand was covered in something dark and red. At this moment. i realized something horrible. I removed the sheets only to find out she was on her period the whole time. Her sheets, pants, my pants, and pillows were RUINED. What felt like an awesome sex experience turned out to be the worst thing that has ever happened to me. \n\nYour turn Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was my 21st birthday. My gf went with me to a strip club. first strip club i've ever been to in my life. We both get completely shit faced and head back to her place. Drunk as fuck we both pass out. I woke up in the middle of the night and began to make out with her because i was horny as fuck. and my buzz was wearing off. She began to kiss back and was giving me a HJ. so I figured she wanted it bad. We began to get our sex on and I noticed she was REALLY wet. So dumbass me thinks that i've made her horny as fuck. So here I am thinking i'm the god of sex. and we both finish. Wake up the next morning with a nasty hangover. and i noticed that my hand was covered in something dark and red. At this moment. i realized something horrible. I removed the sheets only to find out she was on her period the whole time. Her sheets, pants, my pants, and pillows were RUINED. What felt like an awesome sex experience turned out to be the worst thing that has ever happened to me. \n\nYour turn Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was my 21st birthday. My gf went with me to a strip club. first strip club i've ever been to in my life. We both get completely shit faced and head back to her place. Drunk as fuck we both pass out. I woke up in the middle of the night and began to make out with her because i was horny as fuck. and my buzz was wearing off. She began to kiss back and was giving me a HJ. so I figured she wanted it bad. We began to get our sex on and I noticed she was REALLY wet. So dumbass me thinks that i've made her horny as fuck. So here I am thinking i'm the god of sex. and we both finish. Wake up the next morning with a nasty hangover. and i noticed that my hand was covered in something dark and red. At this moment. i realized something horrible. I removed the sheets only to find out she was on her period the whole time. Her sheets, pants, my pants, and pillows were RUINED. What felt like an awesome sex experience turned out to be the worst thing that has ever happened to me. \n\nYour turn Reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an over-sharer. Simply put. I realized tonight as I was spewing verbal diarrhea YET AGAIN to a friend that some broken part of me thinks the only way to forge meaningful connections with others is to share very personal things. I've taken on this persona of ~broken girl~ and held on to all the pain and hardship in my life so tightly that I forgot that all that pain and hardship doesn't even impact me anymore.\n\nI could go on for ages about why I think this way and yada yada yada but that's not really the point (And it would be oversharing haha). My main question is this; if I stop oversharing and being the one with all the damage, is it possible that my close friends' opinions of me will change? \n\nSure, they are my friends and I know they love me. But I know if I were in their shoes it would get annoying. I'm just scared that the damage is done and they will always see me as the debbie downer or the one who always has something to complain about. \n\nSo, do you think that it's possible for someone's opinion of someone to change on this level? Should I acknowledge the oversharing to them or should I just work on it internally?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an over-sharer. Simply put. I realized tonight as I was spewing verbal diarrhea YET AGAIN to a friend that some broken part of me thinks the only way to forge meaningful connections with others is to share very personal things. I've taken on this persona of ~broken girl~ and held on to all the pain and hardship in my life so tightly that I forgot that all that pain and hardship doesn't even impact me anymore.\n\nI could go on for ages about why I think this way and yada yada yada but that's not really the point (And it would be oversharing haha). My main question is this; if I stop oversharing and being the one with all the damage, is it possible that my close friends' opinions of me will change? \n\nSure, they are my friends and I know they love me. But I know if I were in their shoes it would get annoying. I'm just scared that the damage is done and they will always see me as the debbie downer or the one who always has something to complain about. \n\nSo, do you think that it's possible for someone's opinion of someone to change on this level? Should I acknowledge the oversharing to them or should I just work on it internally?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an over-sharer. Simply put. I realized tonight as I was spewing verbal diarrhea YET AGAIN to a friend that some broken part of me thinks the only way to forge meaningful connections with others is to share very personal things. I've taken on this persona of ~broken girl~ and held on to all the pain and hardship in my life so tightly that I forgot that all that pain and hardship doesn't even impact me anymore.\n\nI could go on for ages about why I think this way and yada yada yada but that's not really the point (And it would be oversharing haha). My main question is this; if I stop oversharing and being the one with all the damage, is it possible that my close friends' opinions of me will change? \n\nSure, they are my friends and I know they love me. But I know if I were in their shoes it would get annoying. I'm just scared that the damage is done and they will always see me as the debbie downer or the one who always has something to complain about. \n\nSo, do you think that it's possible for someone's opinion of someone to change on this level? Should I acknowledge the oversharing to them or should I just work on it internally?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an over-sharer. Simply put. I realized tonight as I was spewing verbal diarrhea YET AGAIN to a friend that some broken part of me thinks the only way to forge meaningful connections with others is to share very personal things. I've taken on this persona of ~broken girl~ and held on to all the pain and hardship in my life so tightly that I forgot that all that pain and hardship doesn't even impact me anymore.\n\nI could go on for ages about why I think this way and yada yada yada but that's not really the point (And it would be oversharing haha). My main question is this; if I stop oversharing and being the one with all the damage, is it possible that my close friends' opinions of me will change? \n\nSure, they are my friends and I know they love me. But I know if I were in their shoes it would get annoying. I'm just scared that the damage is done and they will always see me as the debbie downer or the one who always has something to complain about. \n\nSo, do you think that it's possible for someone's opinion of someone to change on this level? Should I acknowledge the oversharing to them or should I just work on it internally?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an over-sharer. Simply put. I realized tonight as I was spewing verbal diarrhea YET AGAIN to a friend that some broken part of me thinks the only way to forge meaningful connections with others is to share very personal things. I've taken on this persona of ~broken girl~ and held on to all the pain and hardship in my life so tightly that I forgot that all that pain and hardship doesn't even impact me anymore.\n\nI could go on for ages about why I think this way and yada yada yada but that's not really the point (And it would be oversharing haha). My main question is this; if I stop oversharing and being the one with all the damage, is it possible that my close friends' opinions of me will change? \n\nSure, they are my friends and I know they love me. But I know if I were in their shoes it would get annoying. I'm just scared that the damage is done and they will always see me as the debbie downer or the one who always has something to complain about. \n\nSo, do you think that it's possible for someone's opinion of someone to change on this level? Should I acknowledge the oversharing to them or should I just work on it internally?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an over-sharer. Simply put. I realized tonight as I was spewing verbal diarrhea YET AGAIN to a friend that some broken part of me thinks the only way to forge meaningful connections with others is to share very personal things. I've taken on this persona of ~broken girl~ and held on to all the pain and hardship in my life so tightly that I forgot that all that pain and hardship doesn't even impact me anymore.\n\nI could go on for ages about why I think this way and yada yada yada but that's not really the point (And it would be oversharing haha). My main question is this; if I stop oversharing and being the one with all the damage, is it possible that my close friends' opinions of me will change? \n\nSure, they are my friends and I know they love me. But I know if I were in their shoes it would get annoying. I'm just scared that the damage is done and they will always see me as the debbie downer or the one who always has something to complain about. \n\nSo, do you think that it's possible for someone's opinion of someone to change on this level? Should I acknowledge the oversharing to them or should I just work on it internally?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF has been pushing for marriage and it's hit a breaking point where she broke down and cried, claiming we aren't on the same page when it comes to priorities. She had this plan of being married two years ago, and she told me that she kept waiting and waiting for a proposal, and it never happened, and I feel terrible because I ruined her dream/plan. \n\nMy two reasons for delaying are financial and religious/family. Right now I am still trying to get my career together, working a so/so job and currently enrolled in a masters program. I've read many redditors responses that money should never be a reason not to get married, but this never made much sense to me. Then there is the religious/family issue. Her family is very religious and I am not. And I'm aware of the pressures that are going to come from the family when/if we do marry such as me converting, or pretending like I've converted to satisfy her side of the family (which I really don't want to do), and raising my kids by her religion. \n\nThe religious/family thing certainly scares me, but it's not the biggest thing holding me back. It's really more the financial instability I foresee us going through. But perhaps that's a bad reason not to propose. I really don't know. I'm lost and I can feel a really bad tension between my girlfriend and me. I don't want to lose her. She's my everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF has been pushing for marriage and it's hit a breaking point where she broke down and cried, claiming we aren't on the same page when it comes to priorities. She had this plan of being married two years ago, and she told me that she kept waiting and waiting for a proposal, and it never happened, and I feel terrible because I ruined her dream/plan. \n\nMy two reasons for delaying are financial and religious/family. Right now I am still trying to get my career together, working a so/so job and currently enrolled in a masters program. I've read many redditors responses that money should never be a reason not to get married, but this never made much sense to me. Then there is the religious/family issue. Her family is very religious and I am not. And I'm aware of the pressures that are going to come from the family when/if we do marry such as me converting, or pretending like I've converted to satisfy her side of the family (which I really don't want to do), and raising my kids by her religion. \n\nThe religious/family thing certainly scares me, but it's not the biggest thing holding me back. It's really more the financial instability I foresee us going through. But perhaps that's a bad reason not to propose. I really don't know. I'm lost and I can feel a really bad tension between my girlfriend and me. I don't want to lose her. She's my everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF has been pushing for marriage and it's hit a breaking point where she broke down and cried, claiming we aren't on the same page when it comes to priorities. She had this plan of being married two years ago, and she told me that she kept waiting and waiting for a proposal, and it never happened, and I feel terrible because I ruined her dream/plan. \n\nMy two reasons for delaying are financial and religious/family. Right now I am still trying to get my career together, working a so/so job and currently enrolled in a masters program. I've read many redditors responses that money should never be a reason not to get married, but this never made much sense to me. Then there is the religious/family issue. Her family is very religious and I am not. And I'm aware of the pressures that are going to come from the family when/if we do marry such as me converting, or pretending like I've converted to satisfy her side of the family (which I really don't want to do), and raising my kids by her religion. \n\nThe religious/family thing certainly scares me, but it's not the biggest thing holding me back. It's really more the financial instability I foresee us going through. But perhaps that's a bad reason not to propose. I really don't know. I'm lost and I can feel a really bad tension between my girlfriend and me. I don't want to lose her. She's my everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF has been pushing for marriage and it's hit a breaking point where she broke down and cried, claiming we aren't on the same page when it comes to priorities. She had this plan of being married two years ago, and she told me that she kept waiting and waiting for a proposal, and it never happened, and I feel terrible because I ruined her dream/plan. \n\nMy two reasons for delaying are financial and religious/family. Right now I am still trying to get my career together, working a so/so job and currently enrolled in a masters program. I've read many redditors responses that money should never be a reason not to get married, but this never made much sense to me. Then there is the religious/family issue. Her family is very religious and I am not. And I'm aware of the pressures that are going to come from the family when/if we do marry such as me converting, or pretending like I've converted to satisfy her side of the family (which I really don't want to do), and raising my kids by her religion. \n\nThe religious/family thing certainly scares me, but it's not the biggest thing holding me back. It's really more the financial instability I foresee us going through. But perhaps that's a bad reason not to propose. I really don't know. I'm lost and I can feel a really bad tension between my girlfriend and me. I don't want to lose her. She's my everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF has been pushing for marriage and it's hit a breaking point where she broke down and cried, claiming we aren't on the same page when it comes to priorities. She had this plan of being married two years ago, and she told me that she kept waiting and waiting for a proposal, and it never happened, and I feel terrible because I ruined her dream/plan. \n\nMy two reasons for delaying are financial and religious/family. Right now I am still trying to get my career together, working a so/so job and currently enrolled in a masters program. I've read many redditors responses that money should never be a reason not to get married, but this never made much sense to me. Then there is the religious/family issue. Her family is very religious and I am not. And I'm aware of the pressures that are going to come from the family when/if we do marry such as me converting, or pretending like I've converted to satisfy her side of the family (which I really don't want to do), and raising my kids by her religion. \n\nThe religious/family thing certainly scares me, but it's not the biggest thing holding me back. It's really more the financial instability I foresee us going through. But perhaps that's a bad reason not to propose. I really don't know. I'm lost and I can feel a really bad tension between my girlfriend and me. I don't want to lose her. She's my everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF has been pushing for marriage and it's hit a breaking point where she broke down and cried, claiming we aren't on the same page when it comes to priorities. She had this plan of being married two years ago, and she told me that she kept waiting and waiting for a proposal, and it never happened, and I feel terrible because I ruined her dream/plan. \n\nMy two reasons for delaying are financial and religious/family. Right now I am still trying to get my career together, working a so/so job and currently enrolled in a masters program. I've read many redditors responses that money should never be a reason not to get married, but this never made much sense to me. Then there is the religious/family issue. Her family is very religious and I am not. And I'm aware of the pressures that are going to come from the family when/if we do marry such as me converting, or pretending like I've converted to satisfy her side of the family (which I really don't want to do), and raising my kids by her religion. \n\nThe religious/family thing certainly scares me, but it's not the biggest thing holding me back. It's really more the financial instability I foresee us going through. But perhaps that's a bad reason not to propose. I really don't know. I'm lost and I can feel a really bad tension between my girlfriend and me. I don't want to lose her. She's my everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (24) does not have a good relationship with his parents (40s). They were emotionally and mentally abusive when he was a child, and as an adult, they have made no real effort to get to know the person who their son has become. They have no boundaries with us, and refuse to treat my husband like an adult. Because of this, my husband has no interest in \"fixing\" or \"kindling\" any kind of relationship with them - he just doesn't want a relationship with them, period.\n\nHis grandfather died a few weeks ago, and he completely distanced himself from his family during the process. His parents have since then been trying to pull him back into the family, mainly by sending \"We Miss You\" greeting cards and envelopes stuffed with old family photos. \n\nThis morning, I (23) got a voicemail from my husband's father asking me for advice on how to help him \"get through\" to my husband. I have no idea what to say to him, because I don't think there *is* any \"getting through\" to him. He knows what he wants, and at the top of that is to not have a relationship with his parents. \n\nMy husband is already in the process of writing his parents a letter that will explain everything from his side, as well as well as explain what he wants from them, relationship-wise. In the meantime, what do I say to his father (if anything) about \"getting through\" to his son"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (24) does not have a good relationship with his parents (40s). They were emotionally and mentally abusive when he was a child, and as an adult, they have made no real effort to get to know the person who their son has become. They have no boundaries with us, and refuse to treat my husband like an adult. Because of this, my husband has no interest in \"fixing\" or \"kindling\" any kind of relationship with them - he just doesn't want a relationship with them, period.\n\nHis grandfather died a few weeks ago, and he completely distanced himself from his family during the process. His parents have since then been trying to pull him back into the family, mainly by sending \"We Miss You\" greeting cards and envelopes stuffed with old family photos. \n\nThis morning, I (23) got a voicemail from my husband's father asking me for advice on how to help him \"get through\" to my husband. I have no idea what to say to him, because I don't think there *is* any \"getting through\" to him. He knows what he wants, and at the top of that is to not have a relationship with his parents. \n\nMy husband is already in the process of writing his parents a letter that will explain everything from his side, as well as well as explain what he wants from them, relationship-wise. In the meantime, what do I say to his father (if anything) about \"getting through\" to his son"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (24) does not have a good relationship with his parents (40s). They were emotionally and mentally abusive when he was a child, and as an adult, they have made no real effort to get to know the person who their son has become. They have no boundaries with us, and refuse to treat my husband like an adult. Because of this, my husband has no interest in \"fixing\" or \"kindling\" any kind of relationship with them - he just doesn't want a relationship with them, period.\n\nHis grandfather died a few weeks ago, and he completely distanced himself from his family during the process. His parents have since then been trying to pull him back into the family, mainly by sending \"We Miss You\" greeting cards and envelopes stuffed with old family photos. \n\nThis morning, I (23) got a voicemail from my husband's father asking me for advice on how to help him \"get through\" to my husband. I have no idea what to say to him, because I don't think there *is* any \"getting through\" to him. He knows what he wants, and at the top of that is to not have a relationship with his parents. \n\nMy husband is already in the process of writing his parents a letter that will explain everything from his side, as well as well as explain what he wants from them, relationship-wise. In the meantime, what do I say to his father (if anything) about \"getting through\" to his son"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (24) does not have a good relationship with his parents (40s). They were emotionally and mentally abusive when he was a child, and as an adult, they have made no real effort to get to know the person who their son has become. They have no boundaries with us, and refuse to treat my husband like an adult. Because of this, my husband has no interest in \"fixing\" or \"kindling\" any kind of relationship with them - he just doesn't want a relationship with them, period.\n\nHis grandfather died a few weeks ago, and he completely distanced himself from his family during the process. His parents have since then been trying to pull him back into the family, mainly by sending \"We Miss You\" greeting cards and envelopes stuffed with old family photos. \n\nThis morning, I (23) got a voicemail from my husband's father asking me for advice on how to help him \"get through\" to my husband. I have no idea what to say to him, because I don't think there *is* any \"getting through\" to him. He knows what he wants, and at the top of that is to not have a relationship with his parents. \n\nMy husband is already in the process of writing his parents a letter that will explain everything from his side, as well as well as explain what he wants from them, relationship-wise. In the meantime, what do I say to his father (if anything) about \"getting through\" to his son"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (24) does not have a good relationship with his parents (40s). They were emotionally and mentally abusive when he was a child, and as an adult, they have made no real effort to get to know the person who their son has become. They have no boundaries with us, and refuse to treat my husband like an adult. Because of this, my husband has no interest in \"fixing\" or \"kindling\" any kind of relationship with them - he just doesn't want a relationship with them, period.\n\nHis grandfather died a few weeks ago, and he completely distanced himself from his family during the process. His parents have since then been trying to pull him back into the family, mainly by sending \"We Miss You\" greeting cards and envelopes stuffed with old family photos. \n\nThis morning, I (23) got a voicemail from my husband's father asking me for advice on how to help him \"get through\" to my husband. I have no idea what to say to him, because I don't think there *is* any \"getting through\" to him. He knows what he wants, and at the top of that is to not have a relationship with his parents. \n\nMy husband is already in the process of writing his parents a letter that will explain everything from his side, as well as well as explain what he wants from them, relationship-wise. In the meantime, what do I say to his father (if anything) about \"getting through\" to his son"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (24) does not have a good relationship with his parents (40s). They were emotionally and mentally abusive when he was a child, and as an adult, they have made no real effort to get to know the person who their son has become. They have no boundaries with us, and refuse to treat my husband like an adult. Because of this, my husband has no interest in \"fixing\" or \"kindling\" any kind of relationship with them - he just doesn't want a relationship with them, period.\n\nHis grandfather died a few weeks ago, and he completely distanced himself from his family during the process. His parents have since then been trying to pull him back into the family, mainly by sending \"We Miss You\" greeting cards and envelopes stuffed with old family photos. \n\nThis morning, I (23) got a voicemail from my husband's father asking me for advice on how to help him \"get through\" to my husband. I have no idea what to say to him, because I don't think there *is* any \"getting through\" to him. He knows what he wants, and at the top of that is to not have a relationship with his parents. \n\nMy husband is already in the process of writing his parents a letter that will explain everything from his side, as well as well as explain what he wants from them, relationship-wise. In the meantime, what do I say to his father (if anything) about \"getting through\" to his son"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl and I was struggling myself with issues.We connected well and she was curious about me and getting to know me,same for me. The girl I met opened up eventually and said she had some disorder which made it stressful to socialize and do things. It was a bit similar to my issues. I noticed she had trouble maintaining eye contact with me often and would look down or become quiet when she is known for being super outgoing. Is there anything I could do to make her feel more comfortable and try and connect with her more? I dont really know what to do. I have tried complimenting her and she enjoys hearing she looks good or she is great, For example, I have complimented her when she wears a dress and looks nice/pretty and she smiles or says thanks,or even just making her laugh or talking to her. She appreciates it, but I dont know what else I could do and its frustrating. Maybe there is another way to approach this that I dont know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl and I was struggling myself with issues.We connected well and she was curious about me and getting to know me,same for me. The girl I met opened up eventually and said she had some disorder which made it stressful to socialize and do things. It was a bit similar to my issues. I noticed she had trouble maintaining eye contact with me often and would look down or become quiet when she is known for being super outgoing. Is there anything I could do to make her feel more comfortable and try and connect with her more? I dont really know what to do. I have tried complimenting her and she enjoys hearing she looks good or she is great, For example, I have complimented her when she wears a dress and looks nice/pretty and she smiles or says thanks,or even just making her laugh or talking to her. She appreciates it, but I dont know what else I could do and its frustrating. Maybe there is another way to approach this that I dont know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl and I was struggling myself with issues.We connected well and she was curious about me and getting to know me,same for me. The girl I met opened up eventually and said she had some disorder which made it stressful to socialize and do things. It was a bit similar to my issues. I noticed she had trouble maintaining eye contact with me often and would look down or become quiet when she is known for being super outgoing. Is there anything I could do to make her feel more comfortable and try and connect with her more? I dont really know what to do. I have tried complimenting her and she enjoys hearing she looks good or she is great, For example, I have complimented her when she wears a dress and looks nice/pretty and she smiles or says thanks,or even just making her laugh or talking to her. She appreciates it, but I dont know what else I could do and its frustrating. Maybe there is another way to approach this that I dont know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl and I was struggling myself with issues.We connected well and she was curious about me and getting to know me,same for me. The girl I met opened up eventually and said she had some disorder which made it stressful to socialize and do things. It was a bit similar to my issues. I noticed she had trouble maintaining eye contact with me often and would look down or become quiet when she is known for being super outgoing. Is there anything I could do to make her feel more comfortable and try and connect with her more? I dont really know what to do. I have tried complimenting her and she enjoys hearing she looks good or she is great, For example, I have complimented her when she wears a dress and looks nice/pretty and she smiles or says thanks,or even just making her laugh or talking to her. She appreciates it, but I dont know what else I could do and its frustrating. Maybe there is another way to approach this that I dont know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl and I was struggling myself with issues.We connected well and she was curious about me and getting to know me,same for me. The girl I met opened up eventually and said she had some disorder which made it stressful to socialize and do things. It was a bit similar to my issues. I noticed she had trouble maintaining eye contact with me often and would look down or become quiet when she is known for being super outgoing. Is there anything I could do to make her feel more comfortable and try and connect with her more? I dont really know what to do. I have tried complimenting her and she enjoys hearing she looks good or she is great, For example, I have complimented her when she wears a dress and looks nice/pretty and she smiles or says thanks,or even just making her laugh or talking to her. She appreciates it, but I dont know what else I could do and its frustrating. Maybe there is another way to approach this that I dont know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a girl and I was struggling myself with issues.We connected well and she was curious about me and getting to know me,same for me. The girl I met opened up eventually and said she had some disorder which made it stressful to socialize and do things. It was a bit similar to my issues. I noticed she had trouble maintaining eye contact with me often and would look down or become quiet when she is known for being super outgoing. Is there anything I could do to make her feel more comfortable and try and connect with her more? I dont really know what to do. I have tried complimenting her and she enjoys hearing she looks good or she is great, For example, I have complimented her when she wears a dress and looks nice/pretty and she smiles or says thanks,or even just making her laugh or talking to her. She appreciates it, but I dont know what else I could do and its frustrating. Maybe there is another way to approach this that I dont know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi r/relationships. This is a throwaway since my SO knows my reddit name. I'm female, 26, and he is also 26. \n\nA quick run down - we met over 2 years ago, and have been together save one 3 month break ever since. We moved in together in Oct. of this year.\n\nMy question is about how love evolves. This is the first partnership I've been in that I would call love. About 7-8 months in, I knew I was in love - sometimes I felt like my body was exploding from the intensity of the emotions. I'd cry during sex from the overwhelming feelings, he'd cry during sex from the sheer connection. That was incredible.\n\nFast forward to now - we both have stress in our lives (who doesn't though? I believe it is just a part of being human, and not an excuse), which doesn't allow for much 'fun' time. We are time and financially crunched due to being students in high demand fields. Otherwise, things just seem to have lost that explosiveness. We communicate about everything (I've spoken to him about this, actually), our sex life is good, and continues to change and grow.but that magic, that overwhelming feeling of connection is very, very rare now. I haven't felt it in a while - I still have feeling of intense.tenderness.but not that initial \"exploding\" feeling.\n\nSo, my wise friends, does this mean I've fallen out of love? Or that we are evolving from lust/love to actual love? I'm not sure what to think.I can't imagine my life without him in it daily - but I don't want to sell myself (or him.) short. I also don't want to end something that is strong, comfortable, loving, equal, etc etc because I have a Hollywood Idea of what love looks like 2 years down the road. :(\n\nI appreciate all wisdom and insight, and thank you for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi r/relationships. This is a throwaway since my SO knows my reddit name. I'm female, 26, and he is also 26. \n\nA quick run down - we met over 2 years ago, and have been together save one 3 month break ever since. We moved in together in Oct. of this year.\n\nMy question is about how love evolves. This is the first partnership I've been in that I would call love. About 7-8 months in, I knew I was in love - sometimes I felt like my body was exploding from the intensity of the emotions. I'd cry during sex from the overwhelming feelings, he'd cry during sex from the sheer connection. That was incredible.\n\nFast forward to now - we both have stress in our lives (who doesn't though? I believe it is just a part of being human, and not an excuse), which doesn't allow for much 'fun' time. We are time and financially crunched due to being students in high demand fields. Otherwise, things just seem to have lost that explosiveness. We communicate about everything (I've spoken to him about this, actually), our sex life is good, and continues to change and grow.but that magic, that overwhelming feeling of connection is very, very rare now. I haven't felt it in a while - I still have feeling of intense.tenderness.but not that initial \"exploding\" feeling.\n\nSo, my wise friends, does this mean I've fallen out of love? Or that we are evolving from lust/love to actual love? I'm not sure what to think.I can't imagine my life without him in it daily - but I don't want to sell myself (or him.) short. I also don't want to end something that is strong, comfortable, loving, equal, etc etc because I have a Hollywood Idea of what love looks like 2 years down the road. :(\n\nI appreciate all wisdom and insight, and thank you for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi r/relationships. This is a throwaway since my SO knows my reddit name. I'm female, 26, and he is also 26. \n\nA quick run down - we met over 2 years ago, and have been together save one 3 month break ever since. We moved in together in Oct. of this year.\n\nMy question is about how love evolves. This is the first partnership I've been in that I would call love. About 7-8 months in, I knew I was in love - sometimes I felt like my body was exploding from the intensity of the emotions. I'd cry during sex from the overwhelming feelings, he'd cry during sex from the sheer connection. That was incredible.\n\nFast forward to now - we both have stress in our lives (who doesn't though? I believe it is just a part of being human, and not an excuse), which doesn't allow for much 'fun' time. We are time and financially crunched due to being students in high demand fields. Otherwise, things just seem to have lost that explosiveness. We communicate about everything (I've spoken to him about this, actually), our sex life is good, and continues to change and grow.but that magic, that overwhelming feeling of connection is very, very rare now. I haven't felt it in a while - I still have feeling of intense.tenderness.but not that initial \"exploding\" feeling.\n\nSo, my wise friends, does this mean I've fallen out of love? Or that we are evolving from lust/love to actual love? I'm not sure what to think.I can't imagine my life without him in it daily - but I don't want to sell myself (or him.) short. I also don't want to end something that is strong, comfortable, loving, equal, etc etc because I have a Hollywood Idea of what love looks like 2 years down the road. :(\n\nI appreciate all wisdom and insight, and thank you for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi r/relationships. This is a throwaway since my SO knows my reddit name. I'm female, 26, and he is also 26. \n\nA quick run down - we met over 2 years ago, and have been together save one 3 month break ever since. We moved in together in Oct. of this year.\n\nMy question is about how love evolves. This is the first partnership I've been in that I would call love. About 7-8 months in, I knew I was in love - sometimes I felt like my body was exploding from the intensity of the emotions. I'd cry during sex from the overwhelming feelings, he'd cry during sex from the sheer connection. That was incredible.\n\nFast forward to now - we both have stress in our lives (who doesn't though? I believe it is just a part of being human, and not an excuse), which doesn't allow for much 'fun' time. We are time and financially crunched due to being students in high demand fields. Otherwise, things just seem to have lost that explosiveness. We communicate about everything (I've spoken to him about this, actually), our sex life is good, and continues to change and grow.but that magic, that overwhelming feeling of connection is very, very rare now. I haven't felt it in a while - I still have feeling of intense.tenderness.but not that initial \"exploding\" feeling.\n\nSo, my wise friends, does this mean I've fallen out of love? Or that we are evolving from lust/love to actual love? I'm not sure what to think.I can't imagine my life without him in it daily - but I don't want to sell myself (or him.) short. I also don't want to end something that is strong, comfortable, loving, equal, etc etc because I have a Hollywood Idea of what love looks like 2 years down the road. :(\n\nI appreciate all wisdom and insight, and thank you for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi r/relationships. This is a throwaway since my SO knows my reddit name. I'm female, 26, and he is also 26. \n\nA quick run down - we met over 2 years ago, and have been together save one 3 month break ever since. We moved in together in Oct. of this year.\n\nMy question is about how love evolves. This is the first partnership I've been in that I would call love. About 7-8 months in, I knew I was in love - sometimes I felt like my body was exploding from the intensity of the emotions. I'd cry during sex from the overwhelming feelings, he'd cry during sex from the sheer connection. That was incredible.\n\nFast forward to now - we both have stress in our lives (who doesn't though? I believe it is just a part of being human, and not an excuse), which doesn't allow for much 'fun' time. We are time and financially crunched due to being students in high demand fields. Otherwise, things just seem to have lost that explosiveness. We communicate about everything (I've spoken to him about this, actually), our sex life is good, and continues to change and grow.but that magic, that overwhelming feeling of connection is very, very rare now. I haven't felt it in a while - I still have feeling of intense.tenderness.but not that initial \"exploding\" feeling.\n\nSo, my wise friends, does this mean I've fallen out of love? Or that we are evolving from lust/love to actual love? I'm not sure what to think.I can't imagine my life without him in it daily - but I don't want to sell myself (or him.) short. I also don't want to end something that is strong, comfortable, loving, equal, etc etc because I have a Hollywood Idea of what love looks like 2 years down the road. :(\n\nI appreciate all wisdom and insight, and thank you for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi r/relationships. This is a throwaway since my SO knows my reddit name. I'm female, 26, and he is also 26. \n\nA quick run down - we met over 2 years ago, and have been together save one 3 month break ever since. We moved in together in Oct. of this year.\n\nMy question is about how love evolves. This is the first partnership I've been in that I would call love. About 7-8 months in, I knew I was in love - sometimes I felt like my body was exploding from the intensity of the emotions. I'd cry during sex from the overwhelming feelings, he'd cry during sex from the sheer connection. That was incredible.\n\nFast forward to now - we both have stress in our lives (who doesn't though? I believe it is just a part of being human, and not an excuse), which doesn't allow for much 'fun' time. We are time and financially crunched due to being students in high demand fields. Otherwise, things just seem to have lost that explosiveness. We communicate about everything (I've spoken to him about this, actually), our sex life is good, and continues to change and grow.but that magic, that overwhelming feeling of connection is very, very rare now. I haven't felt it in a while - I still have feeling of intense.tenderness.but not that initial \"exploding\" feeling.\n\nSo, my wise friends, does this mean I've fallen out of love? Or that we are evolving from lust/love to actual love? I'm not sure what to think.I can't imagine my life without him in it daily - but I don't want to sell myself (or him.) short. I also don't want to end something that is strong, comfortable, loving, equal, etc etc because I have a Hollywood Idea of what love looks like 2 years down the road. :(\n\nI appreciate all wisdom and insight, and thank you for your time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with SO for about 7 years I'm 23(m) she's 21(f) recently we have been on n off over common relationship problems. To make this short we been working things out and she finally managed to get back with me for sure but the fucked up part is there''s this coworker that had feelings for well one night she went ou with a couple friends and he happened to be there. They ended chilling at another coworkers apt and when everyone fell asleep. This guy started pouring his feelings to her and he grabbed her hand n put it in his junk. Thy were drunk and at this point she was confused if she really wanted to be with me or not so she confessed to me that she gave him oral for a few seconds and quickly regretted it and took off home and told this guy that they should not be doing these things and basically cut him off irk what made her do this but she sways she was confused and shr says she realizes she wants only me idk how to feel about this I'm hurt and I don't know if I should take her back I want to believe what's she telling me but idk if half of that could be true."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with SO for about 7 years I'm 23(m) she's 21(f) recently we have been on n off over common relationship problems. To make this short we been working things out and she finally managed to get back with me for sure but the fucked up part is there''s this coworker that had feelings for well one night she went ou with a couple friends and he happened to be there. They ended chilling at another coworkers apt and when everyone fell asleep. This guy started pouring his feelings to her and he grabbed her hand n put it in his junk. Thy were drunk and at this point she was confused if she really wanted to be with me or not so she confessed to me that she gave him oral for a few seconds and quickly regretted it and took off home and told this guy that they should not be doing these things and basically cut him off irk what made her do this but she sways she was confused and shr says she realizes she wants only me idk how to feel about this I'm hurt and I don't know if I should take her back I want to believe what's she telling me but idk if half of that could be true."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with SO for about 7 years I'm 23(m) she's 21(f) recently we have been on n off over common relationship problems. To make this short we been working things out and she finally managed to get back with me for sure but the fucked up part is there''s this coworker that had feelings for well one night she went ou with a couple friends and he happened to be there. They ended chilling at another coworkers apt and when everyone fell asleep. This guy started pouring his feelings to her and he grabbed her hand n put it in his junk. Thy were drunk and at this point she was confused if she really wanted to be with me or not so she confessed to me that she gave him oral for a few seconds and quickly regretted it and took off home and told this guy that they should not be doing these things and basically cut him off irk what made her do this but she sways she was confused and shr says she realizes she wants only me idk how to feel about this I'm hurt and I don't know if I should take her back I want to believe what's she telling me but idk if half of that could be true."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with SO for about 7 years I'm 23(m) she's 21(f) recently we have been on n off over common relationship problems. To make this short we been working things out and she finally managed to get back with me for sure but the fucked up part is there''s this coworker that had feelings for well one night she went ou with a couple friends and he happened to be there. They ended chilling at another coworkers apt and when everyone fell asleep. This guy started pouring his feelings to her and he grabbed her hand n put it in his junk. Thy were drunk and at this point she was confused if she really wanted to be with me or not so she confessed to me that she gave him oral for a few seconds and quickly regretted it and took off home and told this guy that they should not be doing these things and basically cut him off irk what made her do this but she sways she was confused and shr says she realizes she wants only me idk how to feel about this I'm hurt and I don't know if I should take her back I want to believe what's she telling me but idk if half of that could be true."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with SO for about 7 years I'm 23(m) she's 21(f) recently we have been on n off over common relationship problems. To make this short we been working things out and she finally managed to get back with me for sure but the fucked up part is there''s this coworker that had feelings for well one night she went ou with a couple friends and he happened to be there. They ended chilling at another coworkers apt and when everyone fell asleep. This guy started pouring his feelings to her and he grabbed her hand n put it in his junk. Thy were drunk and at this point she was confused if she really wanted to be with me or not so she confessed to me that she gave him oral for a few seconds and quickly regretted it and took off home and told this guy that they should not be doing these things and basically cut him off irk what made her do this but she sways she was confused and shr says she realizes she wants only me idk how to feel about this I'm hurt and I don't know if I should take her back I want to believe what's she telling me but idk if half of that could be true."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with SO for about 7 years I'm 23(m) she's 21(f) recently we have been on n off over common relationship problems. To make this short we been working things out and she finally managed to get back with me for sure but the fucked up part is there''s this coworker that had feelings for well one night she went ou with a couple friends and he happened to be there. They ended chilling at another coworkers apt and when everyone fell asleep. This guy started pouring his feelings to her and he grabbed her hand n put it in his junk. Thy were drunk and at this point she was confused if she really wanted to be with me or not so she confessed to me that she gave him oral for a few seconds and quickly regretted it and took off home and told this guy that they should not be doing these things and basically cut him off irk what made her do this but she sways she was confused and shr says she realizes she wants only me idk how to feel about this I'm hurt and I don't know if I should take her back I want to believe what's she telling me but idk if half of that could be true."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: We've been seeing one another for a little over a month now, but have been hanging out for a significantly larger period of time. We've got tons in common, we run, we mountain bike, we're both climbers and we're competitive enough at each of these to push one another et c. and all those activities are great, it's just that for us, they aren't really dates, they're more like workouts. \n\nwe've effectively gone on half a date. once. We got dinner at a place that I like by my apartment and intended to go to a really cool local spot that ended up closing early for that day. (Haven't had time to go back)\n\nWe try to come up with date ideas, but a lot of more standard things(Movies, dinner) don't seem to work well, both of us hate sitting still for long periods of time unless it's after something pretty intense (take that to mean what you will). I was thinking a hike to a mountain top with a good sunset and maybe a picnic (plus a mandatory night time hike back, yay for headlamps) but honestly, if I burn that, I'm totally out of ideas."
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