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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: We've been seeing one another for a little over a month now, but have been hanging out for a significantly larger period of time. We've got tons in common, we run, we mountain bike, we're both climbers and we're competitive enough at each of these to push one another et c. and all those activities are great, it's just that for us, they aren't really dates, they're more like workouts. \n\nwe've effectively gone on half a date. once. We got dinner at a place that I like by my apartment and intended to go to a really cool local spot that ended up closing early for that day. (Haven't had time to go back)\n\nWe try to come up with date ideas, but a lot of more standard things(Movies, dinner) don't seem to work well, both of us hate sitting still for long periods of time unless it's after something pretty intense (take that to mean what you will). I was thinking a hike to a mountain top with a good sunset and maybe a picnic (plus a mandatory night time hike back, yay for headlamps) but honestly, if I burn that, I'm totally out of ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: We've been seeing one another for a little over a month now, but have been hanging out for a significantly larger period of time. We've got tons in common, we run, we mountain bike, we're both climbers and we're competitive enough at each of these to push one another et c. and all those activities are great, it's just that for us, they aren't really dates, they're more like workouts. \n\nwe've effectively gone on half a date. once. We got dinner at a place that I like by my apartment and intended to go to a really cool local spot that ended up closing early for that day. (Haven't had time to go back)\n\nWe try to come up with date ideas, but a lot of more standard things(Movies, dinner) don't seem to work well, both of us hate sitting still for long periods of time unless it's after something pretty intense (take that to mean what you will). I was thinking a hike to a mountain top with a good sunset and maybe a picnic (plus a mandatory night time hike back, yay for headlamps) but honestly, if I burn that, I'm totally out of ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: We've been seeing one another for a little over a month now, but have been hanging out for a significantly larger period of time. We've got tons in common, we run, we mountain bike, we're both climbers and we're competitive enough at each of these to push one another et c. and all those activities are great, it's just that for us, they aren't really dates, they're more like workouts. \n\nwe've effectively gone on half a date. once. We got dinner at a place that I like by my apartment and intended to go to a really cool local spot that ended up closing early for that day. (Haven't had time to go back)\n\nWe try to come up with date ideas, but a lot of more standard things(Movies, dinner) don't seem to work well, both of us hate sitting still for long periods of time unless it's after something pretty intense (take that to mean what you will). I was thinking a hike to a mountain top with a good sunset and maybe a picnic (plus a mandatory night time hike back, yay for headlamps) but honestly, if I burn that, I'm totally out of ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: We've been seeing one another for a little over a month now, but have been hanging out for a significantly larger period of time. We've got tons in common, we run, we mountain bike, we're both climbers and we're competitive enough at each of these to push one another et c. and all those activities are great, it's just that for us, they aren't really dates, they're more like workouts. \n\nwe've effectively gone on half a date. once. We got dinner at a place that I like by my apartment and intended to go to a really cool local spot that ended up closing early for that day. (Haven't had time to go back)\n\nWe try to come up with date ideas, but a lot of more standard things(Movies, dinner) don't seem to work well, both of us hate sitting still for long periods of time unless it's after something pretty intense (take that to mean what you will). I was thinking a hike to a mountain top with a good sunset and maybe a picnic (plus a mandatory night time hike back, yay for headlamps) but honestly, if I burn that, I'm totally out of ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: We've been seeing one another for a little over a month now, but have been hanging out for a significantly larger period of time. We've got tons in common, we run, we mountain bike, we're both climbers and we're competitive enough at each of these to push one another et c. and all those activities are great, it's just that for us, they aren't really dates, they're more like workouts. \n\nwe've effectively gone on half a date. once. We got dinner at a place that I like by my apartment and intended to go to a really cool local spot that ended up closing early for that day. (Haven't had time to go back)\n\nWe try to come up with date ideas, but a lot of more standard things(Movies, dinner) don't seem to work well, both of us hate sitting still for long periods of time unless it's after something pretty intense (take that to mean what you will). I was thinking a hike to a mountain top with a good sunset and maybe a picnic (plus a mandatory night time hike back, yay for headlamps) but honestly, if I burn that, I'm totally out of ideas."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months now. We were each others first serious relationship (lasted about 1.5 years). After we broke up, we still had a lot of contact and still cared about each other, even slept together after the breakup. \n\nSo about 2 months ago, he let me know that he slept with someone else while we were broken up. of course I'm devastated and upset, confused all that stuff. Then, not a week later, he landed himself in rehab for doing cocaine.\n\n It was very hard for me to talk to him when he would call because I was still heartbroken over him sleeping with another girl, but he was also my best friend and I want him to be happy and healthy. So I was 100% supportive and his mom even called me a few times to talk to me! \n\nThen, he gets out of rehab, doesn't call for a month, I had to hear from his mom that he even got out, and out of the blue he texts me \"Hi\". We had a VERY short texting conversation, mostly because he would respond with one word/two word answers?! \n\nAfter that I never talked to him/he never talked to me. Then, he posts on instagram (lol) a random pic, with hashtags like #ihatethistown #ihatemyex #butilovemyfriends \n\nIm obviously embarrassed because ALL our mutual friends have seen it and he's acting very immature. Can someone please help me on how I should handle this?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months now. We were each others first serious relationship (lasted about 1.5 years). After we broke up, we still had a lot of contact and still cared about each other, even slept together after the breakup. \n\nSo about 2 months ago, he let me know that he slept with someone else while we were broken up. of course I'm devastated and upset, confused all that stuff. Then, not a week later, he landed himself in rehab for doing cocaine.\n\n It was very hard for me to talk to him when he would call because I was still heartbroken over him sleeping with another girl, but he was also my best friend and I want him to be happy and healthy. So I was 100% supportive and his mom even called me a few times to talk to me! \n\nThen, he gets out of rehab, doesn't call for a month, I had to hear from his mom that he even got out, and out of the blue he texts me \"Hi\". We had a VERY short texting conversation, mostly because he would respond with one word/two word answers?! \n\nAfter that I never talked to him/he never talked to me. Then, he posts on instagram (lol) a random pic, with hashtags like #ihatethistown #ihatemyex #butilovemyfriends \n\nIm obviously embarrassed because ALL our mutual friends have seen it and he's acting very immature. Can someone please help me on how I should handle this?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months now. We were each others first serious relationship (lasted about 1.5 years). After we broke up, we still had a lot of contact and still cared about each other, even slept together after the breakup. \n\nSo about 2 months ago, he let me know that he slept with someone else while we were broken up. of course I'm devastated and upset, confused all that stuff. Then, not a week later, he landed himself in rehab for doing cocaine.\n\n It was very hard for me to talk to him when he would call because I was still heartbroken over him sleeping with another girl, but he was also my best friend and I want him to be happy and healthy. So I was 100% supportive and his mom even called me a few times to talk to me! \n\nThen, he gets out of rehab, doesn't call for a month, I had to hear from his mom that he even got out, and out of the blue he texts me \"Hi\". We had a VERY short texting conversation, mostly because he would respond with one word/two word answers?! \n\nAfter that I never talked to him/he never talked to me. Then, he posts on instagram (lol) a random pic, with hashtags like #ihatethistown #ihatemyex #butilovemyfriends \n\nIm obviously embarrassed because ALL our mutual friends have seen it and he's acting very immature. Can someone please help me on how I should handle this?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months now. We were each others first serious relationship (lasted about 1.5 years). After we broke up, we still had a lot of contact and still cared about each other, even slept together after the breakup. \n\nSo about 2 months ago, he let me know that he slept with someone else while we were broken up. of course I'm devastated and upset, confused all that stuff. Then, not a week later, he landed himself in rehab for doing cocaine.\n\n It was very hard for me to talk to him when he would call because I was still heartbroken over him sleeping with another girl, but he was also my best friend and I want him to be happy and healthy. So I was 100% supportive and his mom even called me a few times to talk to me! \n\nThen, he gets out of rehab, doesn't call for a month, I had to hear from his mom that he even got out, and out of the blue he texts me \"Hi\". We had a VERY short texting conversation, mostly because he would respond with one word/two word answers?! \n\nAfter that I never talked to him/he never talked to me. Then, he posts on instagram (lol) a random pic, with hashtags like #ihatethistown #ihatemyex #butilovemyfriends \n\nIm obviously embarrassed because ALL our mutual friends have seen it and he's acting very immature. Can someone please help me on how I should handle this?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months now. We were each others first serious relationship (lasted about 1.5 years). After we broke up, we still had a lot of contact and still cared about each other, even slept together after the breakup. \n\nSo about 2 months ago, he let me know that he slept with someone else while we were broken up. of course I'm devastated and upset, confused all that stuff. Then, not a week later, he landed himself in rehab for doing cocaine.\n\n It was very hard for me to talk to him when he would call because I was still heartbroken over him sleeping with another girl, but he was also my best friend and I want him to be happy and healthy. So I was 100% supportive and his mom even called me a few times to talk to me! \n\nThen, he gets out of rehab, doesn't call for a month, I had to hear from his mom that he even got out, and out of the blue he texts me \"Hi\". We had a VERY short texting conversation, mostly because he would respond with one word/two word answers?! \n\nAfter that I never talked to him/he never talked to me. Then, he posts on instagram (lol) a random pic, with hashtags like #ihatethistown #ihatemyex #butilovemyfriends \n\nIm obviously embarrassed because ALL our mutual friends have seen it and he's acting very immature. Can someone please help me on how I should handle this?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months now. We were each others first serious relationship (lasted about 1.5 years). After we broke up, we still had a lot of contact and still cared about each other, even slept together after the breakup. \n\nSo about 2 months ago, he let me know that he slept with someone else while we were broken up. of course I'm devastated and upset, confused all that stuff. Then, not a week later, he landed himself in rehab for doing cocaine.\n\n It was very hard for me to talk to him when he would call because I was still heartbroken over him sleeping with another girl, but he was also my best friend and I want him to be happy and healthy. So I was 100% supportive and his mom even called me a few times to talk to me! \n\nThen, he gets out of rehab, doesn't call for a month, I had to hear from his mom that he even got out, and out of the blue he texts me \"Hi\". We had a VERY short texting conversation, mostly because he would respond with one word/two word answers?! \n\nAfter that I never talked to him/he never talked to me. Then, he posts on instagram (lol) a random pic, with hashtags like #ihatethistown #ihatemyex #butilovemyfriends \n\nIm obviously embarrassed because ALL our mutual friends have seen it and he's acting very immature. Can someone please help me on how I should handle this?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years, most of it long distance. After some periods where things were rough, I thought we had settled into a place where we cared about each other. Lately, he's been really busy, and we don't really talk anymore, and he's not there for me to lean on. I try to be there for him, but I guess he doesn't really like talking about his problems. \n\nAnyway, I feel really neglected, and whenever I bring it up, it turns into a fight. He's really defensive and refuses to see my perspective. I guess I'm just at a point where it's better to expect nothing (and have nothing) than to expect someone to be there for me (and be disappointed). \n\nI guess I'm still reeling, since it just happened, but I'm just wondering what my next step should be, and how I can feel ok again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years, most of it long distance. After some periods where things were rough, I thought we had settled into a place where we cared about each other. Lately, he's been really busy, and we don't really talk anymore, and he's not there for me to lean on. I try to be there for him, but I guess he doesn't really like talking about his problems. \n\nAnyway, I feel really neglected, and whenever I bring it up, it turns into a fight. He's really defensive and refuses to see my perspective. I guess I'm just at a point where it's better to expect nothing (and have nothing) than to expect someone to be there for me (and be disappointed). \n\nI guess I'm still reeling, since it just happened, but I'm just wondering what my next step should be, and how I can feel ok again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years, most of it long distance. After some periods where things were rough, I thought we had settled into a place where we cared about each other. Lately, he's been really busy, and we don't really talk anymore, and he's not there for me to lean on. I try to be there for him, but I guess he doesn't really like talking about his problems. \n\nAnyway, I feel really neglected, and whenever I bring it up, it turns into a fight. He's really defensive and refuses to see my perspective. I guess I'm just at a point where it's better to expect nothing (and have nothing) than to expect someone to be there for me (and be disappointed). \n\nI guess I'm still reeling, since it just happened, but I'm just wondering what my next step should be, and how I can feel ok again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years, most of it long distance. After some periods where things were rough, I thought we had settled into a place where we cared about each other. Lately, he's been really busy, and we don't really talk anymore, and he's not there for me to lean on. I try to be there for him, but I guess he doesn't really like talking about his problems. \n\nAnyway, I feel really neglected, and whenever I bring it up, it turns into a fight. He's really defensive and refuses to see my perspective. I guess I'm just at a point where it's better to expect nothing (and have nothing) than to expect someone to be there for me (and be disappointed). \n\nI guess I'm still reeling, since it just happened, but I'm just wondering what my next step should be, and how I can feel ok again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years, most of it long distance. After some periods where things were rough, I thought we had settled into a place where we cared about each other. Lately, he's been really busy, and we don't really talk anymore, and he's not there for me to lean on. I try to be there for him, but I guess he doesn't really like talking about his problems. \n\nAnyway, I feel really neglected, and whenever I bring it up, it turns into a fight. He's really defensive and refuses to see my perspective. I guess I'm just at a point where it's better to expect nothing (and have nothing) than to expect someone to be there for me (and be disappointed). \n\nI guess I'm still reeling, since it just happened, but I'm just wondering what my next step should be, and how I can feel ok again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years, most of it long distance. After some periods where things were rough, I thought we had settled into a place where we cared about each other. Lately, he's been really busy, and we don't really talk anymore, and he's not there for me to lean on. I try to be there for him, but I guess he doesn't really like talking about his problems. \n\nAnyway, I feel really neglected, and whenever I bring it up, it turns into a fight. He's really defensive and refuses to see my perspective. I guess I'm just at a point where it's better to expect nothing (and have nothing) than to expect someone to be there for me (and be disappointed). \n\nI guess I'm still reeling, since it just happened, but I'm just wondering what my next step should be, and how I can feel ok again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex partner [35M] and I [24F] broke up approx 3 months ago, remaining amicable after the split, I'd pop over a couple of times a week maybe to see him and the two cats that we got together. \n\nThis week he asked if there is hope of a reconciliation, and I said that there isn't. I do care about him, but the bottom line is, our break up is for the best as we want/need different things. He said he still loves me so thought it best I stayed away so that he can get over me, because he's finding it difficult - of course, I said that would be fine.\n\nAs I mentioned before, we got two cats together that when I left, lived with him as they always had. It may sound silly, but they're more than pets, they were our babies.\n\nTwo days ago, I got a call from him, absolutely distraught, telling me that the smaller of the two cats had been hit by a car and killed. I dropped everything and went to help him, took charge of retrieving the cat etc, and stayed over for the night where we sat up til the morning, weeping and looking at pictures and videos of her (sounds dramatic I know - but she was our baby).\n\nAs of right now, he's still very upset. More upset than I've ever seen him. Although we're no longer romantically involved, I still care for him and it kills me to see him so upset. When we found her little body he knelt over her saying 'no, no - I can't lose two of my girls in one week'.\n\n I want to be there for him to support him, but I don't want to give him false hope that there's a 'reunited in grief' situation. He's very fragile right now and I'm really unsure how I should handle it, any advice would be appreciated. \n\nThank you for reading."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex partner [35M] and I [24F] broke up approx 3 months ago, remaining amicable after the split, I'd pop over a couple of times a week maybe to see him and the two cats that we got together. \n\nThis week he asked if there is hope of a reconciliation, and I said that there isn't. I do care about him, but the bottom line is, our break up is for the best as we want/need different things. He said he still loves me so thought it best I stayed away so that he can get over me, because he's finding it difficult - of course, I said that would be fine.\n\nAs I mentioned before, we got two cats together that when I left, lived with him as they always had. It may sound silly, but they're more than pets, they were our babies.\n\nTwo days ago, I got a call from him, absolutely distraught, telling me that the smaller of the two cats had been hit by a car and killed. I dropped everything and went to help him, took charge of retrieving the cat etc, and stayed over for the night where we sat up til the morning, weeping and looking at pictures and videos of her (sounds dramatic I know - but she was our baby).\n\nAs of right now, he's still very upset. More upset than I've ever seen him. Although we're no longer romantically involved, I still care for him and it kills me to see him so upset. When we found her little body he knelt over her saying 'no, no - I can't lose two of my girls in one week'.\n\n I want to be there for him to support him, but I don't want to give him false hope that there's a 'reunited in grief' situation. He's very fragile right now and I'm really unsure how I should handle it, any advice would be appreciated. \n\nThank you for reading."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex partner [35M] and I [24F] broke up approx 3 months ago, remaining amicable after the split, I'd pop over a couple of times a week maybe to see him and the two cats that we got together. \n\nThis week he asked if there is hope of a reconciliation, and I said that there isn't. I do care about him, but the bottom line is, our break up is for the best as we want/need different things. He said he still loves me so thought it best I stayed away so that he can get over me, because he's finding it difficult - of course, I said that would be fine.\n\nAs I mentioned before, we got two cats together that when I left, lived with him as they always had. It may sound silly, but they're more than pets, they were our babies.\n\nTwo days ago, I got a call from him, absolutely distraught, telling me that the smaller of the two cats had been hit by a car and killed. I dropped everything and went to help him, took charge of retrieving the cat etc, and stayed over for the night where we sat up til the morning, weeping and looking at pictures and videos of her (sounds dramatic I know - but she was our baby).\n\nAs of right now, he's still very upset. More upset than I've ever seen him. Although we're no longer romantically involved, I still care for him and it kills me to see him so upset. When we found her little body he knelt over her saying 'no, no - I can't lose two of my girls in one week'.\n\n I want to be there for him to support him, but I don't want to give him false hope that there's a 'reunited in grief' situation. He's very fragile right now and I'm really unsure how I should handle it, any advice would be appreciated. \n\nThank you for reading."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex partner [35M] and I [24F] broke up approx 3 months ago, remaining amicable after the split, I'd pop over a couple of times a week maybe to see him and the two cats that we got together. \n\nThis week he asked if there is hope of a reconciliation, and I said that there isn't. I do care about him, but the bottom line is, our break up is for the best as we want/need different things. He said he still loves me so thought it best I stayed away so that he can get over me, because he's finding it difficult - of course, I said that would be fine.\n\nAs I mentioned before, we got two cats together that when I left, lived with him as they always had. It may sound silly, but they're more than pets, they were our babies.\n\nTwo days ago, I got a call from him, absolutely distraught, telling me that the smaller of the two cats had been hit by a car and killed. I dropped everything and went to help him, took charge of retrieving the cat etc, and stayed over for the night where we sat up til the morning, weeping and looking at pictures and videos of her (sounds dramatic I know - but she was our baby).\n\nAs of right now, he's still very upset. More upset than I've ever seen him. Although we're no longer romantically involved, I still care for him and it kills me to see him so upset. When we found her little body he knelt over her saying 'no, no - I can't lose two of my girls in one week'.\n\n I want to be there for him to support him, but I don't want to give him false hope that there's a 'reunited in grief' situation. He's very fragile right now and I'm really unsure how I should handle it, any advice would be appreciated. \n\nThank you for reading."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex partner [35M] and I [24F] broke up approx 3 months ago, remaining amicable after the split, I'd pop over a couple of times a week maybe to see him and the two cats that we got together. \n\nThis week he asked if there is hope of a reconciliation, and I said that there isn't. I do care about him, but the bottom line is, our break up is for the best as we want/need different things. He said he still loves me so thought it best I stayed away so that he can get over me, because he's finding it difficult - of course, I said that would be fine.\n\nAs I mentioned before, we got two cats together that when I left, lived with him as they always had. It may sound silly, but they're more than pets, they were our babies.\n\nTwo days ago, I got a call from him, absolutely distraught, telling me that the smaller of the two cats had been hit by a car and killed. I dropped everything and went to help him, took charge of retrieving the cat etc, and stayed over for the night where we sat up til the morning, weeping and looking at pictures and videos of her (sounds dramatic I know - but she was our baby).\n\nAs of right now, he's still very upset. More upset than I've ever seen him. Although we're no longer romantically involved, I still care for him and it kills me to see him so upset. When we found her little body he knelt over her saying 'no, no - I can't lose two of my girls in one week'.\n\n I want to be there for him to support him, but I don't want to give him false hope that there's a 'reunited in grief' situation. He's very fragile right now and I'm really unsure how I should handle it, any advice would be appreciated. \n\nThank you for reading."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex partner [35M] and I [24F] broke up approx 3 months ago, remaining amicable after the split, I'd pop over a couple of times a week maybe to see him and the two cats that we got together. \n\nThis week he asked if there is hope of a reconciliation, and I said that there isn't. I do care about him, but the bottom line is, our break up is for the best as we want/need different things. He said he still loves me so thought it best I stayed away so that he can get over me, because he's finding it difficult - of course, I said that would be fine.\n\nAs I mentioned before, we got two cats together that when I left, lived with him as they always had. It may sound silly, but they're more than pets, they were our babies.\n\nTwo days ago, I got a call from him, absolutely distraught, telling me that the smaller of the two cats had been hit by a car and killed. I dropped everything and went to help him, took charge of retrieving the cat etc, and stayed over for the night where we sat up til the morning, weeping and looking at pictures and videos of her (sounds dramatic I know - but she was our baby).\n\nAs of right now, he's still very upset. More upset than I've ever seen him. Although we're no longer romantically involved, I still care for him and it kills me to see him so upset. When we found her little body he knelt over her saying 'no, no - I can't lose two of my girls in one week'.\n\n I want to be there for him to support him, but I don't want to give him false hope that there's a 'reunited in grief' situation. He's very fragile right now and I'm really unsure how I should handle it, any advice would be appreciated. \n\nThank you for reading."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! \n\nI am in a pretty competitive college program. At the beginning of the year we were all matched up with mentors. People who have been in the business for a while and can offer some guidance. My mentor, Jackie (50f), has been great. We're really similar and get along really well. We've gone out for some drinks and talked about life. She was always super encouraging. \n\nFor the program we have to complete an internship in order to graduate. I was telling Jackie that I didn't want to just apply for anything and there was actually a couple of jobs I was interested in but it would be cutting it close to the internship deadline.\n\nShe was very encouraging and actually kept asking me about why I hadn't applied for her internship yet. She then told me that she would be my backup so that I could apply for the jobs I wanted without worry of not having an internship. \n\nNow I went to interview for her internship and it went really well. There was only one other person interviewing. She told me my answers were perfect and I'd be a great fit. \n\nI recently got an email from her telling me I didn't get the internship and she gave me reasons as to why she offered it to the other candidate. \n\nI understand that I am not going to get every job I apply for nor am I entitled to it. But I am feeling really disappointed and embarrassed. I only applied for a couple of other jobs and I'm feeling like if my own mentor won't even hire me then I don't have a chance. \n\nMy question is: what do I do now? She signed off her email with see you soon but I don't really know how to interact around her. Im feeling really stupid. \n\nMini update: Jackie messaged me a few days ago and offered to take me and the other candidate on as interns. Not sure I want to accept, but just got turned down for another position. Feeling pretty down about the whole job hunt thing right now!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! \n\nI am in a pretty competitive college program. At the beginning of the year we were all matched up with mentors. People who have been in the business for a while and can offer some guidance. My mentor, Jackie (50f), has been great. We're really similar and get along really well. We've gone out for some drinks and talked about life. She was always super encouraging. \n\nFor the program we have to complete an internship in order to graduate. I was telling Jackie that I didn't want to just apply for anything and there was actually a couple of jobs I was interested in but it would be cutting it close to the internship deadline.\n\nShe was very encouraging and actually kept asking me about why I hadn't applied for her internship yet. She then told me that she would be my backup so that I could apply for the jobs I wanted without worry of not having an internship. \n\nNow I went to interview for her internship and it went really well. There was only one other person interviewing. She told me my answers were perfect and I'd be a great fit. \n\nI recently got an email from her telling me I didn't get the internship and she gave me reasons as to why she offered it to the other candidate. \n\nI understand that I am not going to get every job I apply for nor am I entitled to it. But I am feeling really disappointed and embarrassed. I only applied for a couple of other jobs and I'm feeling like if my own mentor won't even hire me then I don't have a chance. \n\nMy question is: what do I do now? She signed off her email with see you soon but I don't really know how to interact around her. Im feeling really stupid. \n\nMini update: Jackie messaged me a few days ago and offered to take me and the other candidate on as interns. Not sure I want to accept, but just got turned down for another position. Feeling pretty down about the whole job hunt thing right now!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! \n\nI am in a pretty competitive college program. At the beginning of the year we were all matched up with mentors. People who have been in the business for a while and can offer some guidance. My mentor, Jackie (50f), has been great. We're really similar and get along really well. We've gone out for some drinks and talked about life. She was always super encouraging. \n\nFor the program we have to complete an internship in order to graduate. I was telling Jackie that I didn't want to just apply for anything and there was actually a couple of jobs I was interested in but it would be cutting it close to the internship deadline.\n\nShe was very encouraging and actually kept asking me about why I hadn't applied for her internship yet. She then told me that she would be my backup so that I could apply for the jobs I wanted without worry of not having an internship. \n\nNow I went to interview for her internship and it went really well. There was only one other person interviewing. She told me my answers were perfect and I'd be a great fit. \n\nI recently got an email from her telling me I didn't get the internship and she gave me reasons as to why she offered it to the other candidate. \n\nI understand that I am not going to get every job I apply for nor am I entitled to it. But I am feeling really disappointed and embarrassed. I only applied for a couple of other jobs and I'm feeling like if my own mentor won't even hire me then I don't have a chance. \n\nMy question is: what do I do now? She signed off her email with see you soon but I don't really know how to interact around her. Im feeling really stupid. \n\nMini update: Jackie messaged me a few days ago and offered to take me and the other candidate on as interns. Not sure I want to accept, but just got turned down for another position. Feeling pretty down about the whole job hunt thing right now!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! \n\nI am in a pretty competitive college program. At the beginning of the year we were all matched up with mentors. People who have been in the business for a while and can offer some guidance. My mentor, Jackie (50f), has been great. We're really similar and get along really well. We've gone out for some drinks and talked about life. She was always super encouraging. \n\nFor the program we have to complete an internship in order to graduate. I was telling Jackie that I didn't want to just apply for anything and there was actually a couple of jobs I was interested in but it would be cutting it close to the internship deadline.\n\nShe was very encouraging and actually kept asking me about why I hadn't applied for her internship yet. She then told me that she would be my backup so that I could apply for the jobs I wanted without worry of not having an internship. \n\nNow I went to interview for her internship and it went really well. There was only one other person interviewing. She told me my answers were perfect and I'd be a great fit. \n\nI recently got an email from her telling me I didn't get the internship and she gave me reasons as to why she offered it to the other candidate. \n\nI understand that I am not going to get every job I apply for nor am I entitled to it. But I am feeling really disappointed and embarrassed. I only applied for a couple of other jobs and I'm feeling like if my own mentor won't even hire me then I don't have a chance. \n\nMy question is: what do I do now? She signed off her email with see you soon but I don't really know how to interact around her. Im feeling really stupid. \n\nMini update: Jackie messaged me a few days ago and offered to take me and the other candidate on as interns. Not sure I want to accept, but just got turned down for another position. Feeling pretty down about the whole job hunt thing right now!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! \n\nI am in a pretty competitive college program. At the beginning of the year we were all matched up with mentors. People who have been in the business for a while and can offer some guidance. My mentor, Jackie (50f), has been great. We're really similar and get along really well. We've gone out for some drinks and talked about life. She was always super encouraging. \n\nFor the program we have to complete an internship in order to graduate. I was telling Jackie that I didn't want to just apply for anything and there was actually a couple of jobs I was interested in but it would be cutting it close to the internship deadline.\n\nShe was very encouraging and actually kept asking me about why I hadn't applied for her internship yet. She then told me that she would be my backup so that I could apply for the jobs I wanted without worry of not having an internship. \n\nNow I went to interview for her internship and it went really well. There was only one other person interviewing. She told me my answers were perfect and I'd be a great fit. \n\nI recently got an email from her telling me I didn't get the internship and she gave me reasons as to why she offered it to the other candidate. \n\nI understand that I am not going to get every job I apply for nor am I entitled to it. But I am feeling really disappointed and embarrassed. I only applied for a couple of other jobs and I'm feeling like if my own mentor won't even hire me then I don't have a chance. \n\nMy question is: what do I do now? She signed off her email with see you soon but I don't really know how to interact around her. Im feeling really stupid. \n\nMini update: Jackie messaged me a few days ago and offered to take me and the other candidate on as interns. Not sure I want to accept, but just got turned down for another position. Feeling pretty down about the whole job hunt thing right now!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! \n\nI am in a pretty competitive college program. At the beginning of the year we were all matched up with mentors. People who have been in the business for a while and can offer some guidance. My mentor, Jackie (50f), has been great. We're really similar and get along really well. We've gone out for some drinks and talked about life. She was always super encouraging. \n\nFor the program we have to complete an internship in order to graduate. I was telling Jackie that I didn't want to just apply for anything and there was actually a couple of jobs I was interested in but it would be cutting it close to the internship deadline.\n\nShe was very encouraging and actually kept asking me about why I hadn't applied for her internship yet. She then told me that she would be my backup so that I could apply for the jobs I wanted without worry of not having an internship. \n\nNow I went to interview for her internship and it went really well. There was only one other person interviewing. She told me my answers were perfect and I'd be a great fit. \n\nI recently got an email from her telling me I didn't get the internship and she gave me reasons as to why she offered it to the other candidate. \n\nI understand that I am not going to get every job I apply for nor am I entitled to it. But I am feeling really disappointed and embarrassed. I only applied for a couple of other jobs and I'm feeling like if my own mentor won't even hire me then I don't have a chance. \n\nMy question is: what do I do now? She signed off her email with see you soon but I don't really know how to interact around her. Im feeling really stupid. \n\nMini update: Jackie messaged me a few days ago and offered to take me and the other candidate on as interns. Not sure I want to accept, but just got turned down for another position. Feeling pretty down about the whole job hunt thing right now!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both mid 20s, relationship for about 3 years. Cheated on me 2 weeks into the relationship, then fell in love with and secretly tried to get with a musician friend of hers for a year, we're somehow still together.\n\nShe's recently been trying to get back into playing guitar and has a music teacher, someone she met while away at college (so she says). According to her he's married, but she mentioned he's thinking of getting divorced.\n\nHer first lesson was today. She asked for $25 (a small amount for an hour long session) for the session, and seemed surprised when I offered her a ride (she was just going to take the bus). I figured it was just like a four minute drive so it was the least I could do. Turns out they were meeting on a bench in a public park. I thought that was a bit strange.\n\nI was a bit suspicious of this music teacher, just because I know she has a thing for older guys and musicians, so I decided to circle the block just so I could have some idea what he looked like. Things seemed totally fine, so I headed back home. I started getting an odd feeling, so I turned back and went back to the park. I saw the music teacher had his hand on my girlfriend's shoulder, which seemed REALLY sketchy. \n\nI drove off so I could cool down and be rational about things.\n\nI decided to pick her up. I just so happen to get there early and see they're much closer together on the bench, and instead of practicing they were talking and staring out at the park. I pull up and when they notice me they go back to looking through books.\n\nI asked my girlfriend what was up and she got defensive, saying he had never touched her and that they were just talking about a song. I don't know what to believe, I have been feeling more paranoid of late, and my girlfriend did work really, really late for the last couple of nights (last night she didn't get home until 10) so maybe I'm just imagining things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both mid 20s, relationship for about 3 years. Cheated on me 2 weeks into the relationship, then fell in love with and secretly tried to get with a musician friend of hers for a year, we're somehow still together.\n\nShe's recently been trying to get back into playing guitar and has a music teacher, someone she met while away at college (so she says). According to her he's married, but she mentioned he's thinking of getting divorced.\n\nHer first lesson was today. She asked for $25 (a small amount for an hour long session) for the session, and seemed surprised when I offered her a ride (she was just going to take the bus). I figured it was just like a four minute drive so it was the least I could do. Turns out they were meeting on a bench in a public park. I thought that was a bit strange.\n\nI was a bit suspicious of this music teacher, just because I know she has a thing for older guys and musicians, so I decided to circle the block just so I could have some idea what he looked like. Things seemed totally fine, so I headed back home. I started getting an odd feeling, so I turned back and went back to the park. I saw the music teacher had his hand on my girlfriend's shoulder, which seemed REALLY sketchy. \n\nI drove off so I could cool down and be rational about things.\n\nI decided to pick her up. I just so happen to get there early and see they're much closer together on the bench, and instead of practicing they were talking and staring out at the park. I pull up and when they notice me they go back to looking through books.\n\nI asked my girlfriend what was up and she got defensive, saying he had never touched her and that they were just talking about a song. I don't know what to believe, I have been feeling more paranoid of late, and my girlfriend did work really, really late for the last couple of nights (last night she didn't get home until 10) so maybe I'm just imagining things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both mid 20s, relationship for about 3 years. Cheated on me 2 weeks into the relationship, then fell in love with and secretly tried to get with a musician friend of hers for a year, we're somehow still together.\n\nShe's recently been trying to get back into playing guitar and has a music teacher, someone she met while away at college (so she says). According to her he's married, but she mentioned he's thinking of getting divorced.\n\nHer first lesson was today. She asked for $25 (a small amount for an hour long session) for the session, and seemed surprised when I offered her a ride (she was just going to take the bus). I figured it was just like a four minute drive so it was the least I could do. Turns out they were meeting on a bench in a public park. I thought that was a bit strange.\n\nI was a bit suspicious of this music teacher, just because I know she has a thing for older guys and musicians, so I decided to circle the block just so I could have some idea what he looked like. Things seemed totally fine, so I headed back home. I started getting an odd feeling, so I turned back and went back to the park. I saw the music teacher had his hand on my girlfriend's shoulder, which seemed REALLY sketchy. \n\nI drove off so I could cool down and be rational about things.\n\nI decided to pick her up. I just so happen to get there early and see they're much closer together on the bench, and instead of practicing they were talking and staring out at the park. I pull up and when they notice me they go back to looking through books.\n\nI asked my girlfriend what was up and she got defensive, saying he had never touched her and that they were just talking about a song. I don't know what to believe, I have been feeling more paranoid of late, and my girlfriend did work really, really late for the last couple of nights (last night she didn't get home until 10) so maybe I'm just imagining things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both mid 20s, relationship for about 3 years. Cheated on me 2 weeks into the relationship, then fell in love with and secretly tried to get with a musician friend of hers for a year, we're somehow still together.\n\nShe's recently been trying to get back into playing guitar and has a music teacher, someone she met while away at college (so she says). According to her he's married, but she mentioned he's thinking of getting divorced.\n\nHer first lesson was today. She asked for $25 (a small amount for an hour long session) for the session, and seemed surprised when I offered her a ride (she was just going to take the bus). I figured it was just like a four minute drive so it was the least I could do. Turns out they were meeting on a bench in a public park. I thought that was a bit strange.\n\nI was a bit suspicious of this music teacher, just because I know she has a thing for older guys and musicians, so I decided to circle the block just so I could have some idea what he looked like. Things seemed totally fine, so I headed back home. I started getting an odd feeling, so I turned back and went back to the park. I saw the music teacher had his hand on my girlfriend's shoulder, which seemed REALLY sketchy. \n\nI drove off so I could cool down and be rational about things.\n\nI decided to pick her up. I just so happen to get there early and see they're much closer together on the bench, and instead of practicing they were talking and staring out at the park. I pull up and when they notice me they go back to looking through books.\n\nI asked my girlfriend what was up and she got defensive, saying he had never touched her and that they were just talking about a song. I don't know what to believe, I have been feeling more paranoid of late, and my girlfriend did work really, really late for the last couple of nights (last night she didn't get home until 10) so maybe I'm just imagining things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both mid 20s, relationship for about 3 years. Cheated on me 2 weeks into the relationship, then fell in love with and secretly tried to get with a musician friend of hers for a year, we're somehow still together.\n\nShe's recently been trying to get back into playing guitar and has a music teacher, someone she met while away at college (so she says). According to her he's married, but she mentioned he's thinking of getting divorced.\n\nHer first lesson was today. She asked for $25 (a small amount for an hour long session) for the session, and seemed surprised when I offered her a ride (she was just going to take the bus). I figured it was just like a four minute drive so it was the least I could do. Turns out they were meeting on a bench in a public park. I thought that was a bit strange.\n\nI was a bit suspicious of this music teacher, just because I know she has a thing for older guys and musicians, so I decided to circle the block just so I could have some idea what he looked like. Things seemed totally fine, so I headed back home. I started getting an odd feeling, so I turned back and went back to the park. I saw the music teacher had his hand on my girlfriend's shoulder, which seemed REALLY sketchy. \n\nI drove off so I could cool down and be rational about things.\n\nI decided to pick her up. I just so happen to get there early and see they're much closer together on the bench, and instead of practicing they were talking and staring out at the park. I pull up and when they notice me they go back to looking through books.\n\nI asked my girlfriend what was up and she got defensive, saying he had never touched her and that they were just talking about a song. I don't know what to believe, I have been feeling more paranoid of late, and my girlfriend did work really, really late for the last couple of nights (last night she didn't get home until 10) so maybe I'm just imagining things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both mid 20s, relationship for about 3 years. Cheated on me 2 weeks into the relationship, then fell in love with and secretly tried to get with a musician friend of hers for a year, we're somehow still together.\n\nShe's recently been trying to get back into playing guitar and has a music teacher, someone she met while away at college (so she says). According to her he's married, but she mentioned he's thinking of getting divorced.\n\nHer first lesson was today. She asked for $25 (a small amount for an hour long session) for the session, and seemed surprised when I offered her a ride (she was just going to take the bus). I figured it was just like a four minute drive so it was the least I could do. Turns out they were meeting on a bench in a public park. I thought that was a bit strange.\n\nI was a bit suspicious of this music teacher, just because I know she has a thing for older guys and musicians, so I decided to circle the block just so I could have some idea what he looked like. Things seemed totally fine, so I headed back home. I started getting an odd feeling, so I turned back and went back to the park. I saw the music teacher had his hand on my girlfriend's shoulder, which seemed REALLY sketchy. \n\nI drove off so I could cool down and be rational about things.\n\nI decided to pick her up. I just so happen to get there early and see they're much closer together on the bench, and instead of practicing they were talking and staring out at the park. I pull up and when they notice me they go back to looking through books.\n\nI asked my girlfriend what was up and she got defensive, saying he had never touched her and that they were just talking about a song. I don't know what to believe, I have been feeling more paranoid of late, and my girlfriend did work really, really late for the last couple of nights (last night she didn't get home until 10) so maybe I'm just imagining things."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 3 weeks ago this girl in my class and I started flirting. After a week we kissed, and the following night she took my virginity. Everything was going great. We REALLY liked each other. We texted alot and the following week went to a party and had sex again. She enjoyed herself and told me how much she cared about me and made plans again for this coming weekend. Then, this past Monday, we went out to dinner and to work on a project we were partners for. Everything was normal. We got along fine. The next day, out of the blue, she started acting very distant towards me and has been these past 3 day. We dont joke like we used to and it is pretty awkward.I dont know what this means as she is my first relationship ever. Ive been stressing all week that she doesn't like me anymore, but that doesn't really make sense as she was acting completely normal on Monday. The one thing I can think of is that she got out of a pretty long relationship 3 months ago, so maybe that is just bothering her now?\nWhat should I do? Should I ask her whats wrong? Do you think she isnt into me anymore? I need some help"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 3 weeks ago this girl in my class and I started flirting. After a week we kissed, and the following night she took my virginity. Everything was going great. We REALLY liked each other. We texted alot and the following week went to a party and had sex again. She enjoyed herself and told me how much she cared about me and made plans again for this coming weekend. Then, this past Monday, we went out to dinner and to work on a project we were partners for. Everything was normal. We got along fine. The next day, out of the blue, she started acting very distant towards me and has been these past 3 day. We dont joke like we used to and it is pretty awkward.I dont know what this means as she is my first relationship ever. Ive been stressing all week that she doesn't like me anymore, but that doesn't really make sense as she was acting completely normal on Monday. The one thing I can think of is that she got out of a pretty long relationship 3 months ago, so maybe that is just bothering her now?\nWhat should I do? Should I ask her whats wrong? Do you think she isnt into me anymore? I need some help"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 3 weeks ago this girl in my class and I started flirting. After a week we kissed, and the following night she took my virginity. Everything was going great. We REALLY liked each other. We texted alot and the following week went to a party and had sex again. She enjoyed herself and told me how much she cared about me and made plans again for this coming weekend. Then, this past Monday, we went out to dinner and to work on a project we were partners for. Everything was normal. We got along fine. The next day, out of the blue, she started acting very distant towards me and has been these past 3 day. We dont joke like we used to and it is pretty awkward.I dont know what this means as she is my first relationship ever. Ive been stressing all week that she doesn't like me anymore, but that doesn't really make sense as she was acting completely normal on Monday. The one thing I can think of is that she got out of a pretty long relationship 3 months ago, so maybe that is just bothering her now?\nWhat should I do? Should I ask her whats wrong? Do you think she isnt into me anymore? I need some help"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 3 weeks ago this girl in my class and I started flirting. After a week we kissed, and the following night she took my virginity. Everything was going great. We REALLY liked each other. We texted alot and the following week went to a party and had sex again. She enjoyed herself and told me how much she cared about me and made plans again for this coming weekend. Then, this past Monday, we went out to dinner and to work on a project we were partners for. Everything was normal. We got along fine. The next day, out of the blue, she started acting very distant towards me and has been these past 3 day. We dont joke like we used to and it is pretty awkward.I dont know what this means as she is my first relationship ever. Ive been stressing all week that she doesn't like me anymore, but that doesn't really make sense as she was acting completely normal on Monday. The one thing I can think of is that she got out of a pretty long relationship 3 months ago, so maybe that is just bothering her now?\nWhat should I do? Should I ask her whats wrong? Do you think she isnt into me anymore? I need some help"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 3 weeks ago this girl in my class and I started flirting. After a week we kissed, and the following night she took my virginity. Everything was going great. We REALLY liked each other. We texted alot and the following week went to a party and had sex again. She enjoyed herself and told me how much she cared about me and made plans again for this coming weekend. Then, this past Monday, we went out to dinner and to work on a project we were partners for. Everything was normal. We got along fine. The next day, out of the blue, she started acting very distant towards me and has been these past 3 day. We dont joke like we used to and it is pretty awkward.I dont know what this means as she is my first relationship ever. Ive been stressing all week that she doesn't like me anymore, but that doesn't really make sense as she was acting completely normal on Monday. The one thing I can think of is that she got out of a pretty long relationship 3 months ago, so maybe that is just bothering her now?\nWhat should I do? Should I ask her whats wrong? Do you think she isnt into me anymore? I need some help"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 3 weeks ago this girl in my class and I started flirting. After a week we kissed, and the following night she took my virginity. Everything was going great. We REALLY liked each other. We texted alot and the following week went to a party and had sex again. She enjoyed herself and told me how much she cared about me and made plans again for this coming weekend. Then, this past Monday, we went out to dinner and to work on a project we were partners for. Everything was normal. We got along fine. The next day, out of the blue, she started acting very distant towards me and has been these past 3 day. We dont joke like we used to and it is pretty awkward.I dont know what this means as she is my first relationship ever. Ive been stressing all week that she doesn't like me anymore, but that doesn't really make sense as she was acting completely normal on Monday. The one thing I can think of is that she got out of a pretty long relationship 3 months ago, so maybe that is just bothering her now?\nWhat should I do? Should I ask her whats wrong? Do you think she isnt into me anymore? I need some help"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. As college approaches, the question keeps arising in my head when I should end the relationship. I know I am set on breaking up at some point, we aren't going to college anywhere remotely close, I don't want to do a long-distance relationship, and I don't think I see us getting married. I hate to make a 'deadline' for our relationship so to speak (ex. graduation) but I know it needs to happen sometime.\n\nShe is the kind of person that hates to think about the future so anytime I try to bring up a conversation about the future of our relationship, she shuts down. I know I need to make enough room to adjust to being single before college but I don't know when to do it. I can tell she is more emotionally invested into the relationship than I am at this point. Since we started having sex, things have just gotten more complicated. She is a lot more attached than I am. It's almost like I've just lost the spark.\n\nWhen should we break up? I want to go to prom with her but would it be better to go as friends? or wait till closer to graduation to end it? And how can I do it in a way that won't break her heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. As college approaches, the question keeps arising in my head when I should end the relationship. I know I am set on breaking up at some point, we aren't going to college anywhere remotely close, I don't want to do a long-distance relationship, and I don't think I see us getting married. I hate to make a 'deadline' for our relationship so to speak (ex. graduation) but I know it needs to happen sometime.\n\nShe is the kind of person that hates to think about the future so anytime I try to bring up a conversation about the future of our relationship, she shuts down. I know I need to make enough room to adjust to being single before college but I don't know when to do it. I can tell she is more emotionally invested into the relationship than I am at this point. Since we started having sex, things have just gotten more complicated. She is a lot more attached than I am. It's almost like I've just lost the spark.\n\nWhen should we break up? I want to go to prom with her but would it be better to go as friends? or wait till closer to graduation to end it? And how can I do it in a way that won't break her heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. As college approaches, the question keeps arising in my head when I should end the relationship. I know I am set on breaking up at some point, we aren't going to college anywhere remotely close, I don't want to do a long-distance relationship, and I don't think I see us getting married. I hate to make a 'deadline' for our relationship so to speak (ex. graduation) but I know it needs to happen sometime.\n\nShe is the kind of person that hates to think about the future so anytime I try to bring up a conversation about the future of our relationship, she shuts down. I know I need to make enough room to adjust to being single before college but I don't know when to do it. I can tell she is more emotionally invested into the relationship than I am at this point. Since we started having sex, things have just gotten more complicated. She is a lot more attached than I am. It's almost like I've just lost the spark.\n\nWhen should we break up? I want to go to prom with her but would it be better to go as friends? or wait till closer to graduation to end it? And how can I do it in a way that won't break her heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. As college approaches, the question keeps arising in my head when I should end the relationship. I know I am set on breaking up at some point, we aren't going to college anywhere remotely close, I don't want to do a long-distance relationship, and I don't think I see us getting married. I hate to make a 'deadline' for our relationship so to speak (ex. graduation) but I know it needs to happen sometime.\n\nShe is the kind of person that hates to think about the future so anytime I try to bring up a conversation about the future of our relationship, she shuts down. I know I need to make enough room to adjust to being single before college but I don't know when to do it. I can tell she is more emotionally invested into the relationship than I am at this point. Since we started having sex, things have just gotten more complicated. She is a lot more attached than I am. It's almost like I've just lost the spark.\n\nWhen should we break up? I want to go to prom with her but would it be better to go as friends? or wait till closer to graduation to end it? And how can I do it in a way that won't break her heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. As college approaches, the question keeps arising in my head when I should end the relationship. I know I am set on breaking up at some point, we aren't going to college anywhere remotely close, I don't want to do a long-distance relationship, and I don't think I see us getting married. I hate to make a 'deadline' for our relationship so to speak (ex. graduation) but I know it needs to happen sometime.\n\nShe is the kind of person that hates to think about the future so anytime I try to bring up a conversation about the future of our relationship, she shuts down. I know I need to make enough room to adjust to being single before college but I don't know when to do it. I can tell she is more emotionally invested into the relationship than I am at this point. Since we started having sex, things have just gotten more complicated. She is a lot more attached than I am. It's almost like I've just lost the spark.\n\nWhen should we break up? I want to go to prom with her but would it be better to go as friends? or wait till closer to graduation to end it? And how can I do it in a way that won't break her heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. As college approaches, the question keeps arising in my head when I should end the relationship. I know I am set on breaking up at some point, we aren't going to college anywhere remotely close, I don't want to do a long-distance relationship, and I don't think I see us getting married. I hate to make a 'deadline' for our relationship so to speak (ex. graduation) but I know it needs to happen sometime.\n\nShe is the kind of person that hates to think about the future so anytime I try to bring up a conversation about the future of our relationship, she shuts down. I know I need to make enough room to adjust to being single before college but I don't know when to do it. I can tell she is more emotionally invested into the relationship than I am at this point. Since we started having sex, things have just gotten more complicated. She is a lot more attached than I am. It's almost like I've just lost the spark.\n\nWhen should we break up? I want to go to prom with her but would it be better to go as friends? or wait till closer to graduation to end it? And how can I do it in a way that won't break her heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had several relationships in the past but none seem to last more than about six months or so. In each of them I've ended it, primarily because I don't feel the same level of emotional connection to her as she does to me. I've had girls (two) in the past who've told me that they're in love with me but I honestly can't seem to form a genuine attachment to another person. I'm currently seeing a girl who I share so much in common with; we like the same things, have the same hobbies, interests and ideals. She is beautiful and we have an incredible sex life. I greatly admire her and yet. I'm not in love with her. At least I don't think so- I feel like I've seen so many movies where two people are utterly and undeniably in love that maybe my idea of 'love' is distorted by them. Is it just that I'm putting too high a demand upon the connection between her and I?\n\nI guess what I'm struggling with is whether to end this now (and continue my seemingly futile search for a meaningful relationship) or continue with it (and enjoy what is, ultimately, a fun relationship).\n\nSo, r/relationships, how do you define 'love' and how long did it take for you to find a meaningful connection with somebody, or at least come to the realization that that is what you had?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had several relationships in the past but none seem to last more than about six months or so. In each of them I've ended it, primarily because I don't feel the same level of emotional connection to her as she does to me. I've had girls (two) in the past who've told me that they're in love with me but I honestly can't seem to form a genuine attachment to another person. I'm currently seeing a girl who I share so much in common with; we like the same things, have the same hobbies, interests and ideals. She is beautiful and we have an incredible sex life. I greatly admire her and yet. I'm not in love with her. At least I don't think so- I feel like I've seen so many movies where two people are utterly and undeniably in love that maybe my idea of 'love' is distorted by them. Is it just that I'm putting too high a demand upon the connection between her and I?\n\nI guess what I'm struggling with is whether to end this now (and continue my seemingly futile search for a meaningful relationship) or continue with it (and enjoy what is, ultimately, a fun relationship).\n\nSo, r/relationships, how do you define 'love' and how long did it take for you to find a meaningful connection with somebody, or at least come to the realization that that is what you had?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had several relationships in the past but none seem to last more than about six months or so. In each of them I've ended it, primarily because I don't feel the same level of emotional connection to her as she does to me. I've had girls (two) in the past who've told me that they're in love with me but I honestly can't seem to form a genuine attachment to another person. I'm currently seeing a girl who I share so much in common with; we like the same things, have the same hobbies, interests and ideals. She is beautiful and we have an incredible sex life. I greatly admire her and yet. I'm not in love with her. At least I don't think so- I feel like I've seen so many movies where two people are utterly and undeniably in love that maybe my idea of 'love' is distorted by them. Is it just that I'm putting too high a demand upon the connection between her and I?\n\nI guess what I'm struggling with is whether to end this now (and continue my seemingly futile search for a meaningful relationship) or continue with it (and enjoy what is, ultimately, a fun relationship).\n\nSo, r/relationships, how do you define 'love' and how long did it take for you to find a meaningful connection with somebody, or at least come to the realization that that is what you had?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had several relationships in the past but none seem to last more than about six months or so. In each of them I've ended it, primarily because I don't feel the same level of emotional connection to her as she does to me. I've had girls (two) in the past who've told me that they're in love with me but I honestly can't seem to form a genuine attachment to another person. I'm currently seeing a girl who I share so much in common with; we like the same things, have the same hobbies, interests and ideals. She is beautiful and we have an incredible sex life. I greatly admire her and yet. I'm not in love with her. At least I don't think so- I feel like I've seen so many movies where two people are utterly and undeniably in love that maybe my idea of 'love' is distorted by them. Is it just that I'm putting too high a demand upon the connection between her and I?\n\nI guess what I'm struggling with is whether to end this now (and continue my seemingly futile search for a meaningful relationship) or continue with it (and enjoy what is, ultimately, a fun relationship).\n\nSo, r/relationships, how do you define 'love' and how long did it take for you to find a meaningful connection with somebody, or at least come to the realization that that is what you had?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had several relationships in the past but none seem to last more than about six months or so. In each of them I've ended it, primarily because I don't feel the same level of emotional connection to her as she does to me. I've had girls (two) in the past who've told me that they're in love with me but I honestly can't seem to form a genuine attachment to another person. I'm currently seeing a girl who I share so much in common with; we like the same things, have the same hobbies, interests and ideals. She is beautiful and we have an incredible sex life. I greatly admire her and yet. I'm not in love with her. At least I don't think so- I feel like I've seen so many movies where two people are utterly and undeniably in love that maybe my idea of 'love' is distorted by them. Is it just that I'm putting too high a demand upon the connection between her and I?\n\nI guess what I'm struggling with is whether to end this now (and continue my seemingly futile search for a meaningful relationship) or continue with it (and enjoy what is, ultimately, a fun relationship).\n\nSo, r/relationships, how do you define 'love' and how long did it take for you to find a meaningful connection with somebody, or at least come to the realization that that is what you had?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had several relationships in the past but none seem to last more than about six months or so. In each of them I've ended it, primarily because I don't feel the same level of emotional connection to her as she does to me. I've had girls (two) in the past who've told me that they're in love with me but I honestly can't seem to form a genuine attachment to another person. I'm currently seeing a girl who I share so much in common with; we like the same things, have the same hobbies, interests and ideals. She is beautiful and we have an incredible sex life. I greatly admire her and yet. I'm not in love with her. At least I don't think so- I feel like I've seen so many movies where two people are utterly and undeniably in love that maybe my idea of 'love' is distorted by them. Is it just that I'm putting too high a demand upon the connection between her and I?\n\nI guess what I'm struggling with is whether to end this now (and continue my seemingly futile search for a meaningful relationship) or continue with it (and enjoy what is, ultimately, a fun relationship).\n\nSo, r/relationships, how do you define 'love' and how long did it take for you to find a meaningful connection with somebody, or at least come to the realization that that is what you had?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for background- I am one year ahead of her in school, and I'm a rising college sophomore, whereas she just graduated from high school this year. We flirted quite a bit in high school, and I'm pretty damn sure she hinted at wanting me to ask her out, but I was always too scared to do it back then. I hadn't talked to her very frequently since I graduated, but today we hung out with a third, mutual high school friend and we flirted again the whole time, and I remembered how much I like her. \n\nThe thing is, at this point I'm not even afraid of being turned down anymore. I've had more relationship experience in college and I would be okay with rejection. What I'm afraid of is that she would say yes to a date, because we go to colleges in different states now, not close at all, and although I think she is an awesome person I don't want a long distance relationship for 8-9 months before the next summer. Not only that, but I already know that I'll be completely busy for 1.5 of the maybe 5 remaining weeks before we leave for our respective schools. So, I don't know- I feel like we both might feel worse off to know that we'd have to stop dating after practically just starting than if we never started."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for background- I am one year ahead of her in school, and I'm a rising college sophomore, whereas she just graduated from high school this year. We flirted quite a bit in high school, and I'm pretty damn sure she hinted at wanting me to ask her out, but I was always too scared to do it back then. I hadn't talked to her very frequently since I graduated, but today we hung out with a third, mutual high school friend and we flirted again the whole time, and I remembered how much I like her. \n\nThe thing is, at this point I'm not even afraid of being turned down anymore. I've had more relationship experience in college and I would be okay with rejection. What I'm afraid of is that she would say yes to a date, because we go to colleges in different states now, not close at all, and although I think she is an awesome person I don't want a long distance relationship for 8-9 months before the next summer. Not only that, but I already know that I'll be completely busy for 1.5 of the maybe 5 remaining weeks before we leave for our respective schools. So, I don't know- I feel like we both might feel worse off to know that we'd have to stop dating after practically just starting than if we never started."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for background- I am one year ahead of her in school, and I'm a rising college sophomore, whereas she just graduated from high school this year. We flirted quite a bit in high school, and I'm pretty damn sure she hinted at wanting me to ask her out, but I was always too scared to do it back then. I hadn't talked to her very frequently since I graduated, but today we hung out with a third, mutual high school friend and we flirted again the whole time, and I remembered how much I like her. \n\nThe thing is, at this point I'm not even afraid of being turned down anymore. I've had more relationship experience in college and I would be okay with rejection. What I'm afraid of is that she would say yes to a date, because we go to colleges in different states now, not close at all, and although I think she is an awesome person I don't want a long distance relationship for 8-9 months before the next summer. Not only that, but I already know that I'll be completely busy for 1.5 of the maybe 5 remaining weeks before we leave for our respective schools. So, I don't know- I feel like we both might feel worse off to know that we'd have to stop dating after practically just starting than if we never started."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for background- I am one year ahead of her in school, and I'm a rising college sophomore, whereas she just graduated from high school this year. We flirted quite a bit in high school, and I'm pretty damn sure she hinted at wanting me to ask her out, but I was always too scared to do it back then. I hadn't talked to her very frequently since I graduated, but today we hung out with a third, mutual high school friend and we flirted again the whole time, and I remembered how much I like her. \n\nThe thing is, at this point I'm not even afraid of being turned down anymore. I've had more relationship experience in college and I would be okay with rejection. What I'm afraid of is that she would say yes to a date, because we go to colleges in different states now, not close at all, and although I think she is an awesome person I don't want a long distance relationship for 8-9 months before the next summer. Not only that, but I already know that I'll be completely busy for 1.5 of the maybe 5 remaining weeks before we leave for our respective schools. So, I don't know- I feel like we both might feel worse off to know that we'd have to stop dating after practically just starting than if we never started."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I [19M] very recently started dating a [21F] Foreign Exchange student, very recently being a couple days ago.\n\nWe met at a party. Since two of my roommates are FE i get invited to all the parties FE kids throw. I end up meeting this girl who is 100% out of my league, but with some friends around me and some drinks in me I decide to talk to her casually, not trying to get anything out of it because there was no chance in hell I was going to get with her.\n\nWell eventually the party ends and everyone starts walking back to campus in a big group and she starts walking with me. Eventually we get walking way up ahead of everyone until its just us alone. I don't remember how it came up, but at some point I started singing for her any song that we both knew. Apparently I have a very beautiful singing voice (who knew I had anything going for me?) that she took a liking to. By the time we got back she was asking what I was doing the next day. We ended up having sushi at a local place, and talked about doing something again soon.\n\nThere's a decent language barrier since her English isn't great, but with Google Translate we make it work when there's something we can't get across, plus its hilarious and makes it even more interesting. She's very shy, so I make an effort to do a lot of the talking, which is terrifying for me because I'm also shy and very introverted, but, well, beautiful woman.\n\nAnyways, my last relationship started 6 years ago and lasted 2-3 years, and I haven't dated anyone since. Suffice it to say, I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IM DOING. So as someone who has been out of the game for so long, I really need help with learning how to date again as an adult, as well as advice from anyone who's dated someone from/while in another country."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I [19M] very recently started dating a [21F] Foreign Exchange student, very recently being a couple days ago.\n\nWe met at a party. Since two of my roommates are FE i get invited to all the parties FE kids throw. I end up meeting this girl who is 100% out of my league, but with some friends around me and some drinks in me I decide to talk to her casually, not trying to get anything out of it because there was no chance in hell I was going to get with her.\n\nWell eventually the party ends and everyone starts walking back to campus in a big group and she starts walking with me. Eventually we get walking way up ahead of everyone until its just us alone. I don't remember how it came up, but at some point I started singing for her any song that we both knew. Apparently I have a very beautiful singing voice (who knew I had anything going for me?) that she took a liking to. By the time we got back she was asking what I was doing the next day. We ended up having sushi at a local place, and talked about doing something again soon.\n\nThere's a decent language barrier since her English isn't great, but with Google Translate we make it work when there's something we can't get across, plus its hilarious and makes it even more interesting. She's very shy, so I make an effort to do a lot of the talking, which is terrifying for me because I'm also shy and very introverted, but, well, beautiful woman.\n\nAnyways, my last relationship started 6 years ago and lasted 2-3 years, and I haven't dated anyone since. Suffice it to say, I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IM DOING. So as someone who has been out of the game for so long, I really need help with learning how to date again as an adult, as well as advice from anyone who's dated someone from/while in another country."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I [19M] very recently started dating a [21F] Foreign Exchange student, very recently being a couple days ago.\n\nWe met at a party. Since two of my roommates are FE i get invited to all the parties FE kids throw. I end up meeting this girl who is 100% out of my league, but with some friends around me and some drinks in me I decide to talk to her casually, not trying to get anything out of it because there was no chance in hell I was going to get with her.\n\nWell eventually the party ends and everyone starts walking back to campus in a big group and she starts walking with me. Eventually we get walking way up ahead of everyone until its just us alone. I don't remember how it came up, but at some point I started singing for her any song that we both knew. Apparently I have a very beautiful singing voice (who knew I had anything going for me?) that she took a liking to. By the time we got back she was asking what I was doing the next day. We ended up having sushi at a local place, and talked about doing something again soon.\n\nThere's a decent language barrier since her English isn't great, but with Google Translate we make it work when there's something we can't get across, plus its hilarious and makes it even more interesting. She's very shy, so I make an effort to do a lot of the talking, which is terrifying for me because I'm also shy and very introverted, but, well, beautiful woman.\n\nAnyways, my last relationship started 6 years ago and lasted 2-3 years, and I haven't dated anyone since. Suffice it to say, I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IM DOING. So as someone who has been out of the game for so long, I really need help with learning how to date again as an adult, as well as advice from anyone who's dated someone from/while in another country."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I [19M] very recently started dating a [21F] Foreign Exchange student, very recently being a couple days ago.\n\nWe met at a party. Since two of my roommates are FE i get invited to all the parties FE kids throw. I end up meeting this girl who is 100% out of my league, but with some friends around me and some drinks in me I decide to talk to her casually, not trying to get anything out of it because there was no chance in hell I was going to get with her.\n\nWell eventually the party ends and everyone starts walking back to campus in a big group and she starts walking with me. Eventually we get walking way up ahead of everyone until its just us alone. I don't remember how it came up, but at some point I started singing for her any song that we both knew. Apparently I have a very beautiful singing voice (who knew I had anything going for me?) that she took a liking to. By the time we got back she was asking what I was doing the next day. We ended up having sushi at a local place, and talked about doing something again soon.\n\nThere's a decent language barrier since her English isn't great, but with Google Translate we make it work when there's something we can't get across, plus its hilarious and makes it even more interesting. She's very shy, so I make an effort to do a lot of the talking, which is terrifying for me because I'm also shy and very introverted, but, well, beautiful woman.\n\nAnyways, my last relationship started 6 years ago and lasted 2-3 years, and I haven't dated anyone since. Suffice it to say, I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IM DOING. So as someone who has been out of the game for so long, I really need help with learning how to date again as an adult, as well as advice from anyone who's dated someone from/while in another country."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I [19M] very recently started dating a [21F] Foreign Exchange student, very recently being a couple days ago.\n\nWe met at a party. Since two of my roommates are FE i get invited to all the parties FE kids throw. I end up meeting this girl who is 100% out of my league, but with some friends around me and some drinks in me I decide to talk to her casually, not trying to get anything out of it because there was no chance in hell I was going to get with her.\n\nWell eventually the party ends and everyone starts walking back to campus in a big group and she starts walking with me. Eventually we get walking way up ahead of everyone until its just us alone. I don't remember how it came up, but at some point I started singing for her any song that we both knew. Apparently I have a very beautiful singing voice (who knew I had anything going for me?) that she took a liking to. By the time we got back she was asking what I was doing the next day. We ended up having sushi at a local place, and talked about doing something again soon.\n\nThere's a decent language barrier since her English isn't great, but with Google Translate we make it work when there's something we can't get across, plus its hilarious and makes it even more interesting. She's very shy, so I make an effort to do a lot of the talking, which is terrifying for me because I'm also shy and very introverted, but, well, beautiful woman.\n\nAnyways, my last relationship started 6 years ago and lasted 2-3 years, and I haven't dated anyone since. Suffice it to say, I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IM DOING. So as someone who has been out of the game for so long, I really need help with learning how to date again as an adult, as well as advice from anyone who's dated someone from/while in another country."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says, I [19M] very recently started dating a [21F] Foreign Exchange student, very recently being a couple days ago.\n\nWe met at a party. Since two of my roommates are FE i get invited to all the parties FE kids throw. I end up meeting this girl who is 100% out of my league, but with some friends around me and some drinks in me I decide to talk to her casually, not trying to get anything out of it because there was no chance in hell I was going to get with her.\n\nWell eventually the party ends and everyone starts walking back to campus in a big group and she starts walking with me. Eventually we get walking way up ahead of everyone until its just us alone. I don't remember how it came up, but at some point I started singing for her any song that we both knew. Apparently I have a very beautiful singing voice (who knew I had anything going for me?) that she took a liking to. By the time we got back she was asking what I was doing the next day. We ended up having sushi at a local place, and talked about doing something again soon.\n\nThere's a decent language barrier since her English isn't great, but with Google Translate we make it work when there's something we can't get across, plus its hilarious and makes it even more interesting. She's very shy, so I make an effort to do a lot of the talking, which is terrifying for me because I'm also shy and very introverted, but, well, beautiful woman.\n\nAnyways, my last relationship started 6 years ago and lasted 2-3 years, and I haven't dated anyone since. Suffice it to say, I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IM DOING. So as someone who has been out of the game for so long, I really need help with learning how to date again as an adult, as well as advice from anyone who's dated someone from/while in another country."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Seriousness: He and I have lightly discussed not sleeping with other people, I've met most of his important friends, his coworkers and his parents. So, I do feel like he thinks of me fondly. But he does not make me feel wanted. He only texts me once every other day, we only see each other once a week and he does not seem inclined to change that amount of contact. \n\nHe is an introvert and I don't understand this personality. He says he often gets into relationships where he promises more time to his partner than he feels is realistic. He is quite social, but also needs to recharge alone often and for long periods of time. I want to believe that I'm ok with this, but the longer we stay together the more unimportant I feel. \n\nWe recently planned a 10 day vacation together, bought all of our flights, hotels and car rentals. So, I do feel like he includes me in his immediate future plans. But I do not know if I can bring up the idea of a greater future without scaring him away or making him feel an incredible amount of pressure.\n\nI've brought it up before and though he did say that he wanted more I felt his withdrawal from me after the conversation unfolded. I do not suspect he is being unfaithful. It's not really his style. He was very slow to open up to me and I suspect that is hard for him. So, I don't think juggling another girl is what he is after. But I do not know how to handle how slow things are going and how unwilling he seems to discuss why.\n\nI want to start seeing other people because his need to be alone seems more important to him than him spending time with me and developing our relationship. \n\nShould I see other people? Should I talk about this with him again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Seriousness: He and I have lightly discussed not sleeping with other people, I've met most of his important friends, his coworkers and his parents. So, I do feel like he thinks of me fondly. But he does not make me feel wanted. He only texts me once every other day, we only see each other once a week and he does not seem inclined to change that amount of contact. \n\nHe is an introvert and I don't understand this personality. He says he often gets into relationships where he promises more time to his partner than he feels is realistic. He is quite social, but also needs to recharge alone often and for long periods of time. I want to believe that I'm ok with this, but the longer we stay together the more unimportant I feel. \n\nWe recently planned a 10 day vacation together, bought all of our flights, hotels and car rentals. So, I do feel like he includes me in his immediate future plans. But I do not know if I can bring up the idea of a greater future without scaring him away or making him feel an incredible amount of pressure.\n\nI've brought it up before and though he did say that he wanted more I felt his withdrawal from me after the conversation unfolded. I do not suspect he is being unfaithful. It's not really his style. He was very slow to open up to me and I suspect that is hard for him. So, I don't think juggling another girl is what he is after. But I do not know how to handle how slow things are going and how unwilling he seems to discuss why.\n\nI want to start seeing other people because his need to be alone seems more important to him than him spending time with me and developing our relationship. \n\nShould I see other people? Should I talk about this with him again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Seriousness: He and I have lightly discussed not sleeping with other people, I've met most of his important friends, his coworkers and his parents. So, I do feel like he thinks of me fondly. But he does not make me feel wanted. He only texts me once every other day, we only see each other once a week and he does not seem inclined to change that amount of contact. \n\nHe is an introvert and I don't understand this personality. He says he often gets into relationships where he promises more time to his partner than he feels is realistic. He is quite social, but also needs to recharge alone often and for long periods of time. I want to believe that I'm ok with this, but the longer we stay together the more unimportant I feel. \n\nWe recently planned a 10 day vacation together, bought all of our flights, hotels and car rentals. So, I do feel like he includes me in his immediate future plans. But I do not know if I can bring up the idea of a greater future without scaring him away or making him feel an incredible amount of pressure.\n\nI've brought it up before and though he did say that he wanted more I felt his withdrawal from me after the conversation unfolded. I do not suspect he is being unfaithful. It's not really his style. He was very slow to open up to me and I suspect that is hard for him. So, I don't think juggling another girl is what he is after. But I do not know how to handle how slow things are going and how unwilling he seems to discuss why.\n\nI want to start seeing other people because his need to be alone seems more important to him than him spending time with me and developing our relationship. \n\nShould I see other people? Should I talk about this with him again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Seriousness: He and I have lightly discussed not sleeping with other people, I've met most of his important friends, his coworkers and his parents. So, I do feel like he thinks of me fondly. But he does not make me feel wanted. He only texts me once every other day, we only see each other once a week and he does not seem inclined to change that amount of contact. \n\nHe is an introvert and I don't understand this personality. He says he often gets into relationships where he promises more time to his partner than he feels is realistic. He is quite social, but also needs to recharge alone often and for long periods of time. I want to believe that I'm ok with this, but the longer we stay together the more unimportant I feel. \n\nWe recently planned a 10 day vacation together, bought all of our flights, hotels and car rentals. So, I do feel like he includes me in his immediate future plans. But I do not know if I can bring up the idea of a greater future without scaring him away or making him feel an incredible amount of pressure.\n\nI've brought it up before and though he did say that he wanted more I felt his withdrawal from me after the conversation unfolded. I do not suspect he is being unfaithful. It's not really his style. He was very slow to open up to me and I suspect that is hard for him. So, I don't think juggling another girl is what he is after. But I do not know how to handle how slow things are going and how unwilling he seems to discuss why.\n\nI want to start seeing other people because his need to be alone seems more important to him than him spending time with me and developing our relationship. \n\nShould I see other people? Should I talk about this with him again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Seriousness: He and I have lightly discussed not sleeping with other people, I've met most of his important friends, his coworkers and his parents. So, I do feel like he thinks of me fondly. But he does not make me feel wanted. He only texts me once every other day, we only see each other once a week and he does not seem inclined to change that amount of contact. \n\nHe is an introvert and I don't understand this personality. He says he often gets into relationships where he promises more time to his partner than he feels is realistic. He is quite social, but also needs to recharge alone often and for long periods of time. I want to believe that I'm ok with this, but the longer we stay together the more unimportant I feel. \n\nWe recently planned a 10 day vacation together, bought all of our flights, hotels and car rentals. So, I do feel like he includes me in his immediate future plans. But I do not know if I can bring up the idea of a greater future without scaring him away or making him feel an incredible amount of pressure.\n\nI've brought it up before and though he did say that he wanted more I felt his withdrawal from me after the conversation unfolded. I do not suspect he is being unfaithful. It's not really his style. He was very slow to open up to me and I suspect that is hard for him. So, I don't think juggling another girl is what he is after. But I do not know how to handle how slow things are going and how unwilling he seems to discuss why.\n\nI want to start seeing other people because his need to be alone seems more important to him than him spending time with me and developing our relationship. \n\nShould I see other people? Should I talk about this with him again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Seriousness: He and I have lightly discussed not sleeping with other people, I've met most of his important friends, his coworkers and his parents. So, I do feel like he thinks of me fondly. But he does not make me feel wanted. He only texts me once every other day, we only see each other once a week and he does not seem inclined to change that amount of contact. \n\nHe is an introvert and I don't understand this personality. He says he often gets into relationships where he promises more time to his partner than he feels is realistic. He is quite social, but also needs to recharge alone often and for long periods of time. I want to believe that I'm ok with this, but the longer we stay together the more unimportant I feel. \n\nWe recently planned a 10 day vacation together, bought all of our flights, hotels and car rentals. So, I do feel like he includes me in his immediate future plans. But I do not know if I can bring up the idea of a greater future without scaring him away or making him feel an incredible amount of pressure.\n\nI've brought it up before and though he did say that he wanted more I felt his withdrawal from me after the conversation unfolded. I do not suspect he is being unfaithful. It's not really his style. He was very slow to open up to me and I suspect that is hard for him. So, I don't think juggling another girl is what he is after. But I do not know how to handle how slow things are going and how unwilling he seems to discuss why.\n\nI want to start seeing other people because his need to be alone seems more important to him than him spending time with me and developing our relationship. \n\nShould I see other people? Should I talk about this with him again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm finishing up a masters degree in opera singing in Vienna, Austria, and I've been scraping by teaching English these past few years to pay the bills. Now I have another couple of years, probably, before I'm competitive in the singing market, and while teaching English is fine and all, I have a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering. \n\nSo I'm looking to see what the daily work is of the engineers here on reddit is like. What does your day/week look like? What did it look like in the beginning? Anyone out in Europe? What's the work like in Europe? (I assume fewer hours than in the USA) Can engineering be the sort of field where you can go to work, do your stuff, and then leave that work at work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm finishing up a masters degree in opera singing in Vienna, Austria, and I've been scraping by teaching English these past few years to pay the bills. Now I have another couple of years, probably, before I'm competitive in the singing market, and while teaching English is fine and all, I have a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering. \n\nSo I'm looking to see what the daily work is of the engineers here on reddit is like. What does your day/week look like? What did it look like in the beginning? Anyone out in Europe? What's the work like in Europe? (I assume fewer hours than in the USA) Can engineering be the sort of field where you can go to work, do your stuff, and then leave that work at work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm finishing up a masters degree in opera singing in Vienna, Austria, and I've been scraping by teaching English these past few years to pay the bills. Now I have another couple of years, probably, before I'm competitive in the singing market, and while teaching English is fine and all, I have a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering. \n\nSo I'm looking to see what the daily work is of the engineers here on reddit is like. What does your day/week look like? What did it look like in the beginning? Anyone out in Europe? What's the work like in Europe? (I assume fewer hours than in the USA) Can engineering be the sort of field where you can go to work, do your stuff, and then leave that work at work?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Because I live in a very conservative Catholic neighborhood, I cannot come out as either an atheist or as gay. I can't tell anybody I ever knew because of the hatred I would receive as an open individual in this area. Everyone I have ever known has made their hatred towards atheists and homosexuals very clear. This isn't a debate about how much better life will be if I come out: it won't. \n\nI have come to terms with staying in the closet about myself for the next few years until I'm in college and on my own. However, I'm nervous about the fact that nobody actually knows two major things about me. It scares me that at my funeral, they will address me as a religious straight individual, even though I am neither. \n="
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Because I live in a very conservative Catholic neighborhood, I cannot come out as either an atheist or as gay. I can't tell anybody I ever knew because of the hatred I would receive as an open individual in this area. Everyone I have ever known has made their hatred towards atheists and homosexuals very clear. This isn't a debate about how much better life will be if I come out: it won't. \n\nI have come to terms with staying in the closet about myself for the next few years until I'm in college and on my own. However, I'm nervous about the fact that nobody actually knows two major things about me. It scares me that at my funeral, they will address me as a religious straight individual, even though I am neither. \n="
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Because I live in a very conservative Catholic neighborhood, I cannot come out as either an atheist or as gay. I can't tell anybody I ever knew because of the hatred I would receive as an open individual in this area. Everyone I have ever known has made their hatred towards atheists and homosexuals very clear. This isn't a debate about how much better life will be if I come out: it won't. \n\nI have come to terms with staying in the closet about myself for the next few years until I'm in college and on my own. However, I'm nervous about the fact that nobody actually knows two major things about me. It scares me that at my funeral, they will address me as a religious straight individual, even though I am neither. \n="
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Because I live in a very conservative Catholic neighborhood, I cannot come out as either an atheist or as gay. I can't tell anybody I ever knew because of the hatred I would receive as an open individual in this area. Everyone I have ever known has made their hatred towards atheists and homosexuals very clear. This isn't a debate about how much better life will be if I come out: it won't. \n\nI have come to terms with staying in the closet about myself for the next few years until I'm in college and on my own. However, I'm nervous about the fact that nobody actually knows two major things about me. It scares me that at my funeral, they will address me as a religious straight individual, even though I am neither. \n="
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Because I live in a very conservative Catholic neighborhood, I cannot come out as either an atheist or as gay. I can't tell anybody I ever knew because of the hatred I would receive as an open individual in this area. Everyone I have ever known has made their hatred towards atheists and homosexuals very clear. This isn't a debate about how much better life will be if I come out: it won't. \n\nI have come to terms with staying in the closet about myself for the next few years until I'm in college and on my own. However, I'm nervous about the fact that nobody actually knows two major things about me. It scares me that at my funeral, they will address me as a religious straight individual, even though I am neither. \n="
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Because I live in a very conservative Catholic neighborhood, I cannot come out as either an atheist or as gay. I can't tell anybody I ever knew because of the hatred I would receive as an open individual in this area. Everyone I have ever known has made their hatred towards atheists and homosexuals very clear. This isn't a debate about how much better life will be if I come out: it won't. \n\nI have come to terms with staying in the closet about myself for the next few years until I'm in college and on my own. However, I'm nervous about the fact that nobody actually knows two major things about me. It scares me that at my funeral, they will address me as a religious straight individual, even though I am neither. \n="
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 9 months. She [27f] is my [30m] first girlfriend and we love each other. She has had boyfriends before. I haven't. I haven't had sex either, I've just kissed her.\n\nWe had touched each other before in the sensitive areas. But just recently we had an escalated half-hour of kissing and rubbing. We were both having fun. I rubbed, sucked and kissed her breasts, got on top of her and rubbed her vagina with my hands over her pants (not directly). I tried to make her feel as good as possible and she was squeezing me tight close to her body with all her strength, making noises. Except for her breasts, we were both fully clothed. We stopped before any of us had an orgasm.\n\nAfter we stopped, she was upset and regretful, saying:\n\n> we did something bad (a sin). because we are not married yet.\n\nI told her it is okay and natural, we didn't do anything \"bad\", we are a boyfriend/girlfriend couple. I assured her that I wouldn't want to do \"bad\" things (actual sex) before marriage. (to avoid undesirable consequences, e.g. pregnancy and STDs).\n\nShe has religious beliefs, and I think she is afraid she has committed a big sin. What makes it hard for both of us is that neither her nor I could talk easily to our families/friends about this. This kind of stuff is considered taboo here. Not being able to get help from others makes me feel that I've done something really bad that I'm going to conceal from everyone and regret it for all my life. Like a secret, a baggage that I cannot get rid of. What if we don't get married? I think she has the same worries. My only hope is Reddit. Please help me. :(\n\nWe've kissed and touched before but she hadn't felt bad about it. But this time I sucked her breasts and rubbed her vagina. Maybe I should have slowed down. I just wanted to make her feel good.\n\nHow can I make her feel okay again? How do I feel okay myself? Should I stop seeing her for a while?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 9 months. She [27f] is my [30m] first girlfriend and we love each other. She has had boyfriends before. I haven't. I haven't had sex either, I've just kissed her.\n\nWe had touched each other before in the sensitive areas. But just recently we had an escalated half-hour of kissing and rubbing. We were both having fun. I rubbed, sucked and kissed her breasts, got on top of her and rubbed her vagina with my hands over her pants (not directly). I tried to make her feel as good as possible and she was squeezing me tight close to her body with all her strength, making noises. Except for her breasts, we were both fully clothed. We stopped before any of us had an orgasm.\n\nAfter we stopped, she was upset and regretful, saying:\n\n> we did something bad (a sin). because we are not married yet.\n\nI told her it is okay and natural, we didn't do anything \"bad\", we are a boyfriend/girlfriend couple. I assured her that I wouldn't want to do \"bad\" things (actual sex) before marriage. (to avoid undesirable consequences, e.g. pregnancy and STDs).\n\nShe has religious beliefs, and I think she is afraid she has committed a big sin. What makes it hard for both of us is that neither her nor I could talk easily to our families/friends about this. This kind of stuff is considered taboo here. Not being able to get help from others makes me feel that I've done something really bad that I'm going to conceal from everyone and regret it for all my life. Like a secret, a baggage that I cannot get rid of. What if we don't get married? I think she has the same worries. My only hope is Reddit. Please help me. :(\n\nWe've kissed and touched before but she hadn't felt bad about it. But this time I sucked her breasts and rubbed her vagina. Maybe I should have slowed down. I just wanted to make her feel good.\n\nHow can I make her feel okay again? How do I feel okay myself? Should I stop seeing her for a while?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 9 months. She [27f] is my [30m] first girlfriend and we love each other. She has had boyfriends before. I haven't. I haven't had sex either, I've just kissed her.\n\nWe had touched each other before in the sensitive areas. But just recently we had an escalated half-hour of kissing and rubbing. We were both having fun. I rubbed, sucked and kissed her breasts, got on top of her and rubbed her vagina with my hands over her pants (not directly). I tried to make her feel as good as possible and she was squeezing me tight close to her body with all her strength, making noises. Except for her breasts, we were both fully clothed. We stopped before any of us had an orgasm.\n\nAfter we stopped, she was upset and regretful, saying:\n\n> we did something bad (a sin). because we are not married yet.\n\nI told her it is okay and natural, we didn't do anything \"bad\", we are a boyfriend/girlfriend couple. I assured her that I wouldn't want to do \"bad\" things (actual sex) before marriage. (to avoid undesirable consequences, e.g. pregnancy and STDs).\n\nShe has religious beliefs, and I think she is afraid she has committed a big sin. What makes it hard for both of us is that neither her nor I could talk easily to our families/friends about this. This kind of stuff is considered taboo here. Not being able to get help from others makes me feel that I've done something really bad that I'm going to conceal from everyone and regret it for all my life. Like a secret, a baggage that I cannot get rid of. What if we don't get married? I think she has the same worries. My only hope is Reddit. Please help me. :(\n\nWe've kissed and touched before but she hadn't felt bad about it. But this time I sucked her breasts and rubbed her vagina. Maybe I should have slowed down. I just wanted to make her feel good.\n\nHow can I make her feel okay again? How do I feel okay myself? Should I stop seeing her for a while?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 9 months. She [27f] is my [30m] first girlfriend and we love each other. She has had boyfriends before. I haven't. I haven't had sex either, I've just kissed her.\n\nWe had touched each other before in the sensitive areas. But just recently we had an escalated half-hour of kissing and rubbing. We were both having fun. I rubbed, sucked and kissed her breasts, got on top of her and rubbed her vagina with my hands over her pants (not directly). I tried to make her feel as good as possible and she was squeezing me tight close to her body with all her strength, making noises. Except for her breasts, we were both fully clothed. We stopped before any of us had an orgasm.\n\nAfter we stopped, she was upset and regretful, saying:\n\n> we did something bad (a sin). because we are not married yet.\n\nI told her it is okay and natural, we didn't do anything \"bad\", we are a boyfriend/girlfriend couple. I assured her that I wouldn't want to do \"bad\" things (actual sex) before marriage. (to avoid undesirable consequences, e.g. pregnancy and STDs).\n\nShe has religious beliefs, and I think she is afraid she has committed a big sin. What makes it hard for both of us is that neither her nor I could talk easily to our families/friends about this. This kind of stuff is considered taboo here. Not being able to get help from others makes me feel that I've done something really bad that I'm going to conceal from everyone and regret it for all my life. Like a secret, a baggage that I cannot get rid of. What if we don't get married? I think she has the same worries. My only hope is Reddit. Please help me. :(\n\nWe've kissed and touched before but she hadn't felt bad about it. But this time I sucked her breasts and rubbed her vagina. Maybe I should have slowed down. I just wanted to make her feel good.\n\nHow can I make her feel okay again? How do I feel okay myself? Should I stop seeing her for a while?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 9 months. She [27f] is my [30m] first girlfriend and we love each other. She has had boyfriends before. I haven't. I haven't had sex either, I've just kissed her.\n\nWe had touched each other before in the sensitive areas. But just recently we had an escalated half-hour of kissing and rubbing. We were both having fun. I rubbed, sucked and kissed her breasts, got on top of her and rubbed her vagina with my hands over her pants (not directly). I tried to make her feel as good as possible and she was squeezing me tight close to her body with all her strength, making noises. Except for her breasts, we were both fully clothed. We stopped before any of us had an orgasm.\n\nAfter we stopped, she was upset and regretful, saying:\n\n> we did something bad (a sin). because we are not married yet.\n\nI told her it is okay and natural, we didn't do anything \"bad\", we are a boyfriend/girlfriend couple. I assured her that I wouldn't want to do \"bad\" things (actual sex) before marriage. (to avoid undesirable consequences, e.g. pregnancy and STDs).\n\nShe has religious beliefs, and I think she is afraid she has committed a big sin. What makes it hard for both of us is that neither her nor I could talk easily to our families/friends about this. This kind of stuff is considered taboo here. Not being able to get help from others makes me feel that I've done something really bad that I'm going to conceal from everyone and regret it for all my life. Like a secret, a baggage that I cannot get rid of. What if we don't get married? I think she has the same worries. My only hope is Reddit. Please help me. :(\n\nWe've kissed and touched before but she hadn't felt bad about it. But this time I sucked her breasts and rubbed her vagina. Maybe I should have slowed down. I just wanted to make her feel good.\n\nHow can I make her feel okay again? How do I feel okay myself? Should I stop seeing her for a while?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 9 months. She [27f] is my [30m] first girlfriend and we love each other. She has had boyfriends before. I haven't. I haven't had sex either, I've just kissed her.\n\nWe had touched each other before in the sensitive areas. But just recently we had an escalated half-hour of kissing and rubbing. We were both having fun. I rubbed, sucked and kissed her breasts, got on top of her and rubbed her vagina with my hands over her pants (not directly). I tried to make her feel as good as possible and she was squeezing me tight close to her body with all her strength, making noises. Except for her breasts, we were both fully clothed. We stopped before any of us had an orgasm.\n\nAfter we stopped, she was upset and regretful, saying:\n\n> we did something bad (a sin). because we are not married yet.\n\nI told her it is okay and natural, we didn't do anything \"bad\", we are a boyfriend/girlfriend couple. I assured her that I wouldn't want to do \"bad\" things (actual sex) before marriage. (to avoid undesirable consequences, e.g. pregnancy and STDs).\n\nShe has religious beliefs, and I think she is afraid she has committed a big sin. What makes it hard for both of us is that neither her nor I could talk easily to our families/friends about this. This kind of stuff is considered taboo here. Not being able to get help from others makes me feel that I've done something really bad that I'm going to conceal from everyone and regret it for all my life. Like a secret, a baggage that I cannot get rid of. What if we don't get married? I think she has the same worries. My only hope is Reddit. Please help me. :(\n\nWe've kissed and touched before but she hadn't felt bad about it. But this time I sucked her breasts and rubbed her vagina. Maybe I should have slowed down. I just wanted to make her feel good.\n\nHow can I make her feel okay again? How do I feel okay myself? Should I stop seeing her for a while?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been talking to this girl recently and I have really fallen for her.\n\nWhile we text she seems very into me and we've also moved on to calling each other.\n\nWe've hung out last weekend and she wants to hang out again this weekend.\n\nHowever, whenever i've hung out with her, she's always saying that I should invite my friend or that I should invite more people. \n\nIt seems as if she doesn't want to be with just the two of us. \n\nAm I being used so maybe she could hook up with one of my friends? \n\nOr is she just leading me and will eventually nothing happen between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been talking to this girl recently and I have really fallen for her.\n\nWhile we text she seems very into me and we've also moved on to calling each other.\n\nWe've hung out last weekend and she wants to hang out again this weekend.\n\nHowever, whenever i've hung out with her, she's always saying that I should invite my friend or that I should invite more people. \n\nIt seems as if she doesn't want to be with just the two of us. \n\nAm I being used so maybe she could hook up with one of my friends? \n\nOr is she just leading me and will eventually nothing happen between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been talking to this girl recently and I have really fallen for her.\n\nWhile we text she seems very into me and we've also moved on to calling each other.\n\nWe've hung out last weekend and she wants to hang out again this weekend.\n\nHowever, whenever i've hung out with her, she's always saying that I should invite my friend or that I should invite more people. \n\nIt seems as if she doesn't want to be with just the two of us. \n\nAm I being used so maybe she could hook up with one of my friends? \n\nOr is she just leading me and will eventually nothing happen between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been talking to this girl recently and I have really fallen for her.\n\nWhile we text she seems very into me and we've also moved on to calling each other.\n\nWe've hung out last weekend and she wants to hang out again this weekend.\n\nHowever, whenever i've hung out with her, she's always saying that I should invite my friend or that I should invite more people. \n\nIt seems as if she doesn't want to be with just the two of us. \n\nAm I being used so maybe she could hook up with one of my friends? \n\nOr is she just leading me and will eventually nothing happen between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been talking to this girl recently and I have really fallen for her.\n\nWhile we text she seems very into me and we've also moved on to calling each other.\n\nWe've hung out last weekend and she wants to hang out again this weekend.\n\nHowever, whenever i've hung out with her, she's always saying that I should invite my friend or that I should invite more people. \n\nIt seems as if she doesn't want to be with just the two of us. \n\nAm I being used so maybe she could hook up with one of my friends? \n\nOr is she just leading me and will eventually nothing happen between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been talking to this girl recently and I have really fallen for her.\n\nWhile we text she seems very into me and we've also moved on to calling each other.\n\nWe've hung out last weekend and she wants to hang out again this weekend.\n\nHowever, whenever i've hung out with her, she's always saying that I should invite my friend or that I should invite more people. \n\nIt seems as if she doesn't want to be with just the two of us. \n\nAm I being used so maybe she could hook up with one of my friends? \n\nOr is she just leading me and will eventually nothing happen between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: #[*UPDATE*](\n\n-\n\nAlt account.\n\nI've known her for about 3 months and we've been in a relationship since 1 day after i met her.\n\nWhen we were first hanging out the topic \"school\" came up. I told her i'm a dropout, and have treatment for severe depression 60 hours a week. She immediately asks me to show her my wrists. I don't , since i just met her. She starts rambling about other things, and i forget about it.\n\nLater, she tells me \"kids in africa dont have food, what you've been through is nowhere near that bad, and do you see all of them cutting themselves and posting on tumblr about it?\"\n\nI had a tumblr, was my only way to communicate with people going through the same stuff i went through. When i finally stopped going to school and went to a sociotherapeutic place 60h a week, i met peers there i could talk to.\n\nHere's the thing; she says i should suck it up.\n\n\"Yeah you got bullied, but i've been raped and my parents hate me, do you see me cutting? no. Because i'm strong and you're weak\""
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