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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In January 2010, my ex husband tried to blackmail me into signing green card documents several months after I had moved home to the US and cut off all contact with him. He did not have my phone number and I blocked him from my facebook and made it completely private. I had not yet filed for divorce due to fear of his gangster militia-owning family.\n\nI was in a Costa Rican jungle with no internet at the time and he sent crazy rambling messages to every person who was on my friends list (he made a fake girl's account to friend them while he was still a 'friend'), everyone on their friend lists, everyone connected to my boss- including his extended family, and all of my linked in connections. He especially targeted my then 10 year old sister and her friends and their parents. \n\nAccording to him, I apparently stole $300,000 from his family (pfft. I supported his dumb ass), was a prostitute specializing in Saudi gangbangs, and flew to Jordan for secret abortions, among many other schizophrenic accusations. That's zero percent true by the way. The only 'real' thing he had in me was a fully clothed BJ video taken while we were married. That, along with all of my professional contacts, were on an iPod touch that he 'lost' shortly before I left. \n\nAs you can imagine, it was a massively embarrassing incident for my family and I so I deleted everything. About a year later, I found out that he only stopped after my mom gave him money. \n\nNow I have some new friends in a new city and I'm looking into upgrading to a new job, but people view me with suspicion when they find that I'm not online. Should I start over with just new people and keep my friends list private? What about linked in? I'm terrified of another incident or of people hearing these accusations and thinking them to be true. I'm now 30 and a stable professional, btw." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So honest question, am i giving too much? We;ve been dating for about 5 months, and heres what ive done. I kinda enjoy the day, so i think thats why i give a lil too much\n\nIm not really a poem/card romantic guy, but still i like details, so i gave her a lil valentines lollipop on monday. Then today, i gave her a some roses and another lollipop (i know, quality over quantity, but that lollipop was too awesome to not give it to her)\n\nAnd now, im taking her out for a nice dinner i cooked, and i want to give her a lil book i made for her since long time ago. But i feel that book is a lil too much, i mean, its special and i want her to have it, but i wouldnt want it to get buried under all the other stuff.\n\nIs this too much? Any opinions? plan B is just saving it for another day." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So honest question, am i giving too much? We;ve been dating for about 5 months, and heres what ive done. I kinda enjoy the day, so i think thats why i give a lil too much\n\nIm not really a poem/card romantic guy, but still i like details, so i gave her a lil valentines lollipop on monday. Then today, i gave her a some roses and another lollipop (i know, quality over quantity, but that lollipop was too awesome to not give it to her)\n\nAnd now, im taking her out for a nice dinner i cooked, and i want to give her a lil book i made for her since long time ago. But i feel that book is a lil too much, i mean, its special and i want her to have it, but i wouldnt want it to get buried under all the other stuff.\n\nIs this too much? Any opinions? plan B is just saving it for another day." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So honest question, am i giving too much? We;ve been dating for about 5 months, and heres what ive done. I kinda enjoy the day, so i think thats why i give a lil too much\n\nIm not really a poem/card romantic guy, but still i like details, so i gave her a lil valentines lollipop on monday. Then today, i gave her a some roses and another lollipop (i know, quality over quantity, but that lollipop was too awesome to not give it to her)\n\nAnd now, im taking her out for a nice dinner i cooked, and i want to give her a lil book i made for her since long time ago. But i feel that book is a lil too much, i mean, its special and i want her to have it, but i wouldnt want it to get buried under all the other stuff.\n\nIs this too much? Any opinions? plan B is just saving it for another day." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So honest question, am i giving too much? We;ve been dating for about 5 months, and heres what ive done. I kinda enjoy the day, so i think thats why i give a lil too much\n\nIm not really a poem/card romantic guy, but still i like details, so i gave her a lil valentines lollipop on monday. Then today, i gave her a some roses and another lollipop (i know, quality over quantity, but that lollipop was too awesome to not give it to her)\n\nAnd now, im taking her out for a nice dinner i cooked, and i want to give her a lil book i made for her since long time ago. But i feel that book is a lil too much, i mean, its special and i want her to have it, but i wouldnt want it to get buried under all the other stuff.\n\nIs this too much? Any opinions? plan B is just saving it for another day." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So honest question, am i giving too much? We;ve been dating for about 5 months, and heres what ive done. I kinda enjoy the day, so i think thats why i give a lil too much\n\nIm not really a poem/card romantic guy, but still i like details, so i gave her a lil valentines lollipop on monday. Then today, i gave her a some roses and another lollipop (i know, quality over quantity, but that lollipop was too awesome to not give it to her)\n\nAnd now, im taking her out for a nice dinner i cooked, and i want to give her a lil book i made for her since long time ago. But i feel that book is a lil too much, i mean, its special and i want her to have it, but i wouldnt want it to get buried under all the other stuff.\n\nIs this too much? Any opinions? plan B is just saving it for another day." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So honest question, am i giving too much? We;ve been dating for about 5 months, and heres what ive done. I kinda enjoy the day, so i think thats why i give a lil too much\n\nIm not really a poem/card romantic guy, but still i like details, so i gave her a lil valentines lollipop on monday. Then today, i gave her a some roses and another lollipop (i know, quality over quantity, but that lollipop was too awesome to not give it to her)\n\nAnd now, im taking her out for a nice dinner i cooked, and i want to give her a lil book i made for her since long time ago. But i feel that book is a lil too much, i mean, its special and i want her to have it, but i wouldnt want it to get buried under all the other stuff.\n\nIs this too much? Any opinions? plan B is just saving it for another day." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's cringe worthy and embarassing. \n\nSister 1: age 39. Constantly takes selfies where she is pouting and doing this squinty eyes thing which she thinks makes her look sexy. Literally piles on the (prostitute) makeup for no reason other than to do this for 'likes' and 'wow ur so pretty' \n\nPart of what makes this sad is that she was. I'll be straight up honest about 60lb and 15 years ago she was. Now it just oozes desperation. It comes across vacant and desperate. \n\nThe one time I picked her up about it she reacted really badly and accuses me of picking on her. One of her friends commented on a photo 'Jesus!' In reference to level of blue eye makeup, bleach blonde hair and red lipstick. She did literally look an awful fright. \n\nNow sister two, the nauseating one. Constantly refers to her new boyfriend as 'the bub.' 'The bub wants his dinner by six. Fat chance lol lol lol!' It's so twee and shite. All her statuses are.\n\nI know I'm just being mean and I'm sure they would have a few things to say to me but I literally just needed to get that off my chest. \n\n'" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's cringe worthy and embarassing. \n\nSister 1: age 39. Constantly takes selfies where she is pouting and doing this squinty eyes thing which she thinks makes her look sexy. Literally piles on the (prostitute) makeup for no reason other than to do this for 'likes' and 'wow ur so pretty' \n\nPart of what makes this sad is that she was. I'll be straight up honest about 60lb and 15 years ago she was. Now it just oozes desperation. It comes across vacant and desperate. \n\nThe one time I picked her up about it she reacted really badly and accuses me of picking on her. One of her friends commented on a photo 'Jesus!' In reference to level of blue eye makeup, bleach blonde hair and red lipstick. She did literally look an awful fright. \n\nNow sister two, the nauseating one. Constantly refers to her new boyfriend as 'the bub.' 'The bub wants his dinner by six. Fat chance lol lol lol!' It's so twee and shite. All her statuses are.\n\nI know I'm just being mean and I'm sure they would have a few things to say to me but I literally just needed to get that off my chest. \n\n'" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's cringe worthy and embarassing. \n\nSister 1: age 39. Constantly takes selfies where she is pouting and doing this squinty eyes thing which she thinks makes her look sexy. Literally piles on the (prostitute) makeup for no reason other than to do this for 'likes' and 'wow ur so pretty' \n\nPart of what makes this sad is that she was. I'll be straight up honest about 60lb and 15 years ago she was. Now it just oozes desperation. It comes across vacant and desperate. \n\nThe one time I picked her up about it she reacted really badly and accuses me of picking on her. One of her friends commented on a photo 'Jesus!' In reference to level of blue eye makeup, bleach blonde hair and red lipstick. She did literally look an awful fright. \n\nNow sister two, the nauseating one. Constantly refers to her new boyfriend as 'the bub.' 'The bub wants his dinner by six. Fat chance lol lol lol!' It's so twee and shite. All her statuses are.\n\nI know I'm just being mean and I'm sure they would have a few things to say to me but I literally just needed to get that off my chest. \n\n'" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's cringe worthy and embarassing. \n\nSister 1: age 39. Constantly takes selfies where she is pouting and doing this squinty eyes thing which she thinks makes her look sexy. Literally piles on the (prostitute) makeup for no reason other than to do this for 'likes' and 'wow ur so pretty' \n\nPart of what makes this sad is that she was. I'll be straight up honest about 60lb and 15 years ago she was. Now it just oozes desperation. It comes across vacant and desperate. \n\nThe one time I picked her up about it she reacted really badly and accuses me of picking on her. One of her friends commented on a photo 'Jesus!' In reference to level of blue eye makeup, bleach blonde hair and red lipstick. She did literally look an awful fright. \n\nNow sister two, the nauseating one. Constantly refers to her new boyfriend as 'the bub.' 'The bub wants his dinner by six. Fat chance lol lol lol!' It's so twee and shite. All her statuses are.\n\nI know I'm just being mean and I'm sure they would have a few things to say to me but I literally just needed to get that off my chest. \n\n'" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's cringe worthy and embarassing. \n\nSister 1: age 39. Constantly takes selfies where she is pouting and doing this squinty eyes thing which she thinks makes her look sexy. Literally piles on the (prostitute) makeup for no reason other than to do this for 'likes' and 'wow ur so pretty' \n\nPart of what makes this sad is that she was. I'll be straight up honest about 60lb and 15 years ago she was. Now it just oozes desperation. It comes across vacant and desperate. \n\nThe one time I picked her up about it she reacted really badly and accuses me of picking on her. One of her friends commented on a photo 'Jesus!' In reference to level of blue eye makeup, bleach blonde hair and red lipstick. She did literally look an awful fright. \n\nNow sister two, the nauseating one. Constantly refers to her new boyfriend as 'the bub.' 'The bub wants his dinner by six. Fat chance lol lol lol!' It's so twee and shite. All her statuses are.\n\nI know I'm just being mean and I'm sure they would have a few things to say to me but I literally just needed to get that off my chest. \n\n'" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's cringe worthy and embarassing. \n\nSister 1: age 39. Constantly takes selfies where she is pouting and doing this squinty eyes thing which she thinks makes her look sexy. Literally piles on the (prostitute) makeup for no reason other than to do this for 'likes' and 'wow ur so pretty' \n\nPart of what makes this sad is that she was. I'll be straight up honest about 60lb and 15 years ago she was. Now it just oozes desperation. It comes across vacant and desperate. \n\nThe one time I picked her up about it she reacted really badly and accuses me of picking on her. One of her friends commented on a photo 'Jesus!' In reference to level of blue eye makeup, bleach blonde hair and red lipstick. She did literally look an awful fright. \n\nNow sister two, the nauseating one. Constantly refers to her new boyfriend as 'the bub.' 'The bub wants his dinner by six. Fat chance lol lol lol!' It's so twee and shite. All her statuses are.\n\nI know I'm just being mean and I'm sure they would have a few things to say to me but I literally just needed to get that off my chest. \n\n'" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just starting to talk about wedding plans with the family and the subject of the rehearsal dinner came up. FMIL was talking about doing a small and very fancy dinner, like 100/per person and only invite 30 ish people. I have a VERY large family, 30 people probably wouldn't be able to include all of my immediate family and wedding party. FMIL insists that you don't need to invite all immediate family but that's a whole different issue.\n\nFH and I had been talking about doing a very casual thing that everyone was invited to. My friend did that at her wedding, they got fast casual catering in a park and played lawn games. I liked the idea because there will probably be about 150 people in town for the wedding, all of whom I will want to hang out with. There just wont be enough time to see and talk to everyone very much at the reception so I like the idea of having multiple events throughout the weekend that anyone/everyone can go to. When I expressed this to FMIL and my sister they both said it would be super tacky to do as the rehearsal dinner. \n\nSo random people in the internet, what do you think? Tacky?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just starting to talk about wedding plans with the family and the subject of the rehearsal dinner came up. FMIL was talking about doing a small and very fancy dinner, like 100/per person and only invite 30 ish people. I have a VERY large family, 30 people probably wouldn't be able to include all of my immediate family and wedding party. FMIL insists that you don't need to invite all immediate family but that's a whole different issue.\n\nFH and I had been talking about doing a very casual thing that everyone was invited to. My friend did that at her wedding, they got fast casual catering in a park and played lawn games. I liked the idea because there will probably be about 150 people in town for the wedding, all of whom I will want to hang out with. There just wont be enough time to see and talk to everyone very much at the reception so I like the idea of having multiple events throughout the weekend that anyone/everyone can go to. When I expressed this to FMIL and my sister they both said it would be super tacky to do as the rehearsal dinner. \n\nSo random people in the internet, what do you think? Tacky?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just starting to talk about wedding plans with the family and the subject of the rehearsal dinner came up. FMIL was talking about doing a small and very fancy dinner, like 100/per person and only invite 30 ish people. I have a VERY large family, 30 people probably wouldn't be able to include all of my immediate family and wedding party. FMIL insists that you don't need to invite all immediate family but that's a whole different issue.\n\nFH and I had been talking about doing a very casual thing that everyone was invited to. My friend did that at her wedding, they got fast casual catering in a park and played lawn games. I liked the idea because there will probably be about 150 people in town for the wedding, all of whom I will want to hang out with. There just wont be enough time to see and talk to everyone very much at the reception so I like the idea of having multiple events throughout the weekend that anyone/everyone can go to. When I expressed this to FMIL and my sister they both said it would be super tacky to do as the rehearsal dinner. \n\nSo random people in the internet, what do you think? Tacky?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just starting to talk about wedding plans with the family and the subject of the rehearsal dinner came up. FMIL was talking about doing a small and very fancy dinner, like 100/per person and only invite 30 ish people. I have a VERY large family, 30 people probably wouldn't be able to include all of my immediate family and wedding party. FMIL insists that you don't need to invite all immediate family but that's a whole different issue.\n\nFH and I had been talking about doing a very casual thing that everyone was invited to. My friend did that at her wedding, they got fast casual catering in a park and played lawn games. I liked the idea because there will probably be about 150 people in town for the wedding, all of whom I will want to hang out with. There just wont be enough time to see and talk to everyone very much at the reception so I like the idea of having multiple events throughout the weekend that anyone/everyone can go to. When I expressed this to FMIL and my sister they both said it would be super tacky to do as the rehearsal dinner. \n\nSo random people in the internet, what do you think? Tacky?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just starting to talk about wedding plans with the family and the subject of the rehearsal dinner came up. FMIL was talking about doing a small and very fancy dinner, like 100/per person and only invite 30 ish people. I have a VERY large family, 30 people probably wouldn't be able to include all of my immediate family and wedding party. FMIL insists that you don't need to invite all immediate family but that's a whole different issue.\n\nFH and I had been talking about doing a very casual thing that everyone was invited to. My friend did that at her wedding, they got fast casual catering in a park and played lawn games. I liked the idea because there will probably be about 150 people in town for the wedding, all of whom I will want to hang out with. There just wont be enough time to see and talk to everyone very much at the reception so I like the idea of having multiple events throughout the weekend that anyone/everyone can go to. When I expressed this to FMIL and my sister they both said it would be super tacky to do as the rehearsal dinner. \n\nSo random people in the internet, what do you think? Tacky?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Just starting to talk about wedding plans with the family and the subject of the rehearsal dinner came up. FMIL was talking about doing a small and very fancy dinner, like 100/per person and only invite 30 ish people. I have a VERY large family, 30 people probably wouldn't be able to include all of my immediate family and wedding party. FMIL insists that you don't need to invite all immediate family but that's a whole different issue.\n\nFH and I had been talking about doing a very casual thing that everyone was invited to. My friend did that at her wedding, they got fast casual catering in a park and played lawn games. I liked the idea because there will probably be about 150 people in town for the wedding, all of whom I will want to hang out with. There just wont be enough time to see and talk to everyone very much at the reception so I like the idea of having multiple events throughout the weekend that anyone/everyone can go to. When I expressed this to FMIL and my sister they both said it would be super tacky to do as the rehearsal dinner. \n\nSo random people in the internet, what do you think? Tacky?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I go to school together and I'm taking a monstrous load this semester with 7 classes. I was saving this thanksgiving break to finish up working on homework before going into finals week. Her grandfather got sick last Saturday and she went home from school to visit him. They took him to the hospital this Wednesday where he was diagnosed, but died last night. She asked me to visit him on Wednesday, but I was busy doing homework and told her I'd stop by on Sunday. I didn't know how serious his condition was. We spoke on the phone last night and she was upset that her grandpa didn't get to see me one last time before he died. Some of the things she said implied I chose homework over her family.\n\nI feel like an idiot for not going earlier. I just realized I'm worry about stuff that won't matter in 2 weeks, instead of doing something for the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I visited her family this morning and they all seemed a little upset with me. For context: We're both Indian so family is extremely important for both of us. I've been sitting here all day depressed because I didn't want to start off our life together on this foot. \n\n.Is there any coming back from this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I go to school together and I'm taking a monstrous load this semester with 7 classes. I was saving this thanksgiving break to finish up working on homework before going into finals week. Her grandfather got sick last Saturday and she went home from school to visit him. They took him to the hospital this Wednesday where he was diagnosed, but died last night. She asked me to visit him on Wednesday, but I was busy doing homework and told her I'd stop by on Sunday. I didn't know how serious his condition was. We spoke on the phone last night and she was upset that her grandpa didn't get to see me one last time before he died. Some of the things she said implied I chose homework over her family.\n\nI feel like an idiot for not going earlier. I just realized I'm worry about stuff that won't matter in 2 weeks, instead of doing something for the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I visited her family this morning and they all seemed a little upset with me. For context: We're both Indian so family is extremely important for both of us. I've been sitting here all day depressed because I didn't want to start off our life together on this foot. \n\n.Is there any coming back from this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I go to school together and I'm taking a monstrous load this semester with 7 classes. I was saving this thanksgiving break to finish up working on homework before going into finals week. Her grandfather got sick last Saturday and she went home from school to visit him. They took him to the hospital this Wednesday where he was diagnosed, but died last night. She asked me to visit him on Wednesday, but I was busy doing homework and told her I'd stop by on Sunday. I didn't know how serious his condition was. We spoke on the phone last night and she was upset that her grandpa didn't get to see me one last time before he died. Some of the things she said implied I chose homework over her family.\n\nI feel like an idiot for not going earlier. I just realized I'm worry about stuff that won't matter in 2 weeks, instead of doing something for the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I visited her family this morning and they all seemed a little upset with me. For context: We're both Indian so family is extremely important for both of us. I've been sitting here all day depressed because I didn't want to start off our life together on this foot. \n\n.Is there any coming back from this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I go to school together and I'm taking a monstrous load this semester with 7 classes. I was saving this thanksgiving break to finish up working on homework before going into finals week. Her grandfather got sick last Saturday and she went home from school to visit him. They took him to the hospital this Wednesday where he was diagnosed, but died last night. She asked me to visit him on Wednesday, but I was busy doing homework and told her I'd stop by on Sunday. I didn't know how serious his condition was. We spoke on the phone last night and she was upset that her grandpa didn't get to see me one last time before he died. Some of the things she said implied I chose homework over her family.\n\nI feel like an idiot for not going earlier. I just realized I'm worry about stuff that won't matter in 2 weeks, instead of doing something for the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I visited her family this morning and they all seemed a little upset with me. For context: We're both Indian so family is extremely important for both of us. I've been sitting here all day depressed because I didn't want to start off our life together on this foot. \n\n.Is there any coming back from this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I go to school together and I'm taking a monstrous load this semester with 7 classes. I was saving this thanksgiving break to finish up working on homework before going into finals week. Her grandfather got sick last Saturday and she went home from school to visit him. They took him to the hospital this Wednesday where he was diagnosed, but died last night. She asked me to visit him on Wednesday, but I was busy doing homework and told her I'd stop by on Sunday. I didn't know how serious his condition was. We spoke on the phone last night and she was upset that her grandpa didn't get to see me one last time before he died. Some of the things she said implied I chose homework over her family.\n\nI feel like an idiot for not going earlier. I just realized I'm worry about stuff that won't matter in 2 weeks, instead of doing something for the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I visited her family this morning and they all seemed a little upset with me. For context: We're both Indian so family is extremely important for both of us. I've been sitting here all day depressed because I didn't want to start off our life together on this foot. \n\n.Is there any coming back from this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I go to school together and I'm taking a monstrous load this semester with 7 classes. I was saving this thanksgiving break to finish up working on homework before going into finals week. Her grandfather got sick last Saturday and she went home from school to visit him. They took him to the hospital this Wednesday where he was diagnosed, but died last night. She asked me to visit him on Wednesday, but I was busy doing homework and told her I'd stop by on Sunday. I didn't know how serious his condition was. We spoke on the phone last night and she was upset that her grandpa didn't get to see me one last time before he died. Some of the things she said implied I chose homework over her family.\n\nI feel like an idiot for not going earlier. I just realized I'm worry about stuff that won't matter in 2 weeks, instead of doing something for the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. I visited her family this morning and they all seemed a little upset with me. For context: We're both Indian so family is extremely important for both of us. I've been sitting here all day depressed because I didn't want to start off our life together on this foot. \n\n.Is there any coming back from this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [19/M] am an introverted and shy nerd and met this girl during the first day of college. She technically was my first girl best friend (I hardly used to talk to girls before).\n\nOur friendship has been going on strong for 2 years but 1 year in and I started developing feelings for her. I resisted telling it to her because I didn't want to risk the friendship.\n\nBut, a year later and I feel like I should just open myself out to her. Because, I have nothing to lose.\n\nThing is I have never proposed to a girl in my entire life. I have no clue how people are supposed to express their feelings for the ones they love. \n\nDo I just go to her and tell her that I love her and ask her if she loves me back? Is that how it is done? \n\nI am really sorry if this post is too dumb but I have no social life (most of my time is taken up by programming) and so no clue how things work in real life." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [19/M] am an introverted and shy nerd and met this girl during the first day of college. She technically was my first girl best friend (I hardly used to talk to girls before).\n\nOur friendship has been going on strong for 2 years but 1 year in and I started developing feelings for her. I resisted telling it to her because I didn't want to risk the friendship.\n\nBut, a year later and I feel like I should just open myself out to her. Because, I have nothing to lose.\n\nThing is I have never proposed to a girl in my entire life. I have no clue how people are supposed to express their feelings for the ones they love. \n\nDo I just go to her and tell her that I love her and ask her if she loves me back? Is that how it is done? \n\nI am really sorry if this post is too dumb but I have no social life (most of my time is taken up by programming) and so no clue how things work in real life." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [19/M] am an introverted and shy nerd and met this girl during the first day of college. She technically was my first girl best friend (I hardly used to talk to girls before).\n\nOur friendship has been going on strong for 2 years but 1 year in and I started developing feelings for her. I resisted telling it to her because I didn't want to risk the friendship.\n\nBut, a year later and I feel like I should just open myself out to her. Because, I have nothing to lose.\n\nThing is I have never proposed to a girl in my entire life. I have no clue how people are supposed to express their feelings for the ones they love. \n\nDo I just go to her and tell her that I love her and ask her if she loves me back? Is that how it is done? \n\nI am really sorry if this post is too dumb but I have no social life (most of my time is taken up by programming) and so no clue how things work in real life." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [19/M] am an introverted and shy nerd and met this girl during the first day of college. She technically was my first girl best friend (I hardly used to talk to girls before).\n\nOur friendship has been going on strong for 2 years but 1 year in and I started developing feelings for her. I resisted telling it to her because I didn't want to risk the friendship.\n\nBut, a year later and I feel like I should just open myself out to her. Because, I have nothing to lose.\n\nThing is I have never proposed to a girl in my entire life. I have no clue how people are supposed to express their feelings for the ones they love. \n\nDo I just go to her and tell her that I love her and ask her if she loves me back? Is that how it is done? \n\nI am really sorry if this post is too dumb but I have no social life (most of my time is taken up by programming) and so no clue how things work in real life." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [19/M] am an introverted and shy nerd and met this girl during the first day of college. She technically was my first girl best friend (I hardly used to talk to girls before).\n\nOur friendship has been going on strong for 2 years but 1 year in and I started developing feelings for her. I resisted telling it to her because I didn't want to risk the friendship.\n\nBut, a year later and I feel like I should just open myself out to her. Because, I have nothing to lose.\n\nThing is I have never proposed to a girl in my entire life. I have no clue how people are supposed to express their feelings for the ones they love. \n\nDo I just go to her and tell her that I love her and ask her if she loves me back? Is that how it is done? \n\nI am really sorry if this post is too dumb but I have no social life (most of my time is taken up by programming) and so no clue how things work in real life." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [19/M] am an introverted and shy nerd and met this girl during the first day of college. She technically was my first girl best friend (I hardly used to talk to girls before).\n\nOur friendship has been going on strong for 2 years but 1 year in and I started developing feelings for her. I resisted telling it to her because I didn't want to risk the friendship.\n\nBut, a year later and I feel like I should just open myself out to her. Because, I have nothing to lose.\n\nThing is I have never proposed to a girl in my entire life. I have no clue how people are supposed to express their feelings for the ones they love. \n\nDo I just go to her and tell her that I love her and ask her if she loves me back? Is that how it is done? \n\nI am really sorry if this post is too dumb but I have no social life (most of my time is taken up by programming) and so no clue how things work in real life." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I live on the second floor of an apartment complex there are two other apartments on my floor as well. For some reason the people directly below me have twice in one day complained about me and my wife washing day and night and waking their newborn. \n\nThe guy came up here once and asked me to keep it down I said we weren't washing(had no idea what he meant yet) but we will try to be more quiet. I went to work that afternoon come back later that night and there's a note taped to my door. \n\nThe note said \"we know you have a washer and a dryer upstairs please stop washing all day and night we have a newborn baby who just had surgery and it keeps waking him\" Now I definitely don't have a washer and dryer up here and it's kind of pissing me off that I already told this dude once it wasn't me. Do I just knock on his door and explain myself or leave it be?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I live on the second floor of an apartment complex there are two other apartments on my floor as well. For some reason the people directly below me have twice in one day complained about me and my wife washing day and night and waking their newborn. \n\nThe guy came up here once and asked me to keep it down I said we weren't washing(had no idea what he meant yet) but we will try to be more quiet. I went to work that afternoon come back later that night and there's a note taped to my door. \n\nThe note said \"we know you have a washer and a dryer upstairs please stop washing all day and night we have a newborn baby who just had surgery and it keeps waking him\" Now I definitely don't have a washer and dryer up here and it's kind of pissing me off that I already told this dude once it wasn't me. Do I just knock on his door and explain myself or leave it be?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I live on the second floor of an apartment complex there are two other apartments on my floor as well. For some reason the people directly below me have twice in one day complained about me and my wife washing day and night and waking their newborn. \n\nThe guy came up here once and asked me to keep it down I said we weren't washing(had no idea what he meant yet) but we will try to be more quiet. I went to work that afternoon come back later that night and there's a note taped to my door. \n\nThe note said \"we know you have a washer and a dryer upstairs please stop washing all day and night we have a newborn baby who just had surgery and it keeps waking him\" Now I definitely don't have a washer and dryer up here and it's kind of pissing me off that I already told this dude once it wasn't me. Do I just knock on his door and explain myself or leave it be?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I live on the second floor of an apartment complex there are two other apartments on my floor as well. For some reason the people directly below me have twice in one day complained about me and my wife washing day and night and waking their newborn. \n\nThe guy came up here once and asked me to keep it down I said we weren't washing(had no idea what he meant yet) but we will try to be more quiet. I went to work that afternoon come back later that night and there's a note taped to my door. \n\nThe note said \"we know you have a washer and a dryer upstairs please stop washing all day and night we have a newborn baby who just had surgery and it keeps waking him\" Now I definitely don't have a washer and dryer up here and it's kind of pissing me off that I already told this dude once it wasn't me. Do I just knock on his door and explain myself or leave it be?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I live on the second floor of an apartment complex there are two other apartments on my floor as well. For some reason the people directly below me have twice in one day complained about me and my wife washing day and night and waking their newborn. \n\nThe guy came up here once and asked me to keep it down I said we weren't washing(had no idea what he meant yet) but we will try to be more quiet. I went to work that afternoon come back later that night and there's a note taped to my door. \n\nThe note said \"we know you have a washer and a dryer upstairs please stop washing all day and night we have a newborn baby who just had surgery and it keeps waking him\" Now I definitely don't have a washer and dryer up here and it's kind of pissing me off that I already told this dude once it wasn't me. Do I just knock on his door and explain myself or leave it be?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I live on the second floor of an apartment complex there are two other apartments on my floor as well. For some reason the people directly below me have twice in one day complained about me and my wife washing day and night and waking their newborn. \n\nThe guy came up here once and asked me to keep it down I said we weren't washing(had no idea what he meant yet) but we will try to be more quiet. I went to work that afternoon come back later that night and there's a note taped to my door. \n\nThe note said \"we know you have a washer and a dryer upstairs please stop washing all day and night we have a newborn baby who just had surgery and it keeps waking him\" Now I definitely don't have a washer and dryer up here and it's kind of pissing me off that I already told this dude once it wasn't me. Do I just knock on his door and explain myself or leave it be?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! so I have been dating this girl since mid-November. She was great at the beginning, so thoughtful and intitive and would always listen to me. However, lately, she seems to have a severe lack of respect for my opinions. She has a lot of personal issues as well as family issues, and despite my constant support for her and giving some advice, whenever I say it, she gets very frustrated and angry at me.over the past few months I have really been holding back most of my opinions and how this has been making me feel. To top it off her mother is a total freak and doesnt let anyone inside their home who isn't family. I've had to for the past 5 months, drive half an hour to her house then another half hour back to my place to hang out with her. Never has she paid me any money for my gas and although she expresses her gratitude with words, when I say I can't afford a trip to get her this week she guilts me into feeling terrible about not being able to see her. I want to break up with her but on the other hand, I don't. I'm on a gap year between high school and college and before I met this girl I was severely depressed because all of my friends have gone away to college, leaving me alone in my small town. Her and I tonight had a long talk about how I feel and decided to put off the conversation to tomorrow on what to do. \n\nMy first thoughts were to break up but now since we decided to wait, i feel alone already. Im afraid of losing the one friend ive had this entire time, and since all of my friends ive known for years are going to school away, I know mentally and emotionally it'd be so hard for me to be home here without anyone to see. I really don't know what to do and I wanted the advice of reddit. Also, if we were to break up, whats any advice to help me from feeling so alone and depressed?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! so I have been dating this girl since mid-November. She was great at the beginning, so thoughtful and intitive and would always listen to me. However, lately, she seems to have a severe lack of respect for my opinions. She has a lot of personal issues as well as family issues, and despite my constant support for her and giving some advice, whenever I say it, she gets very frustrated and angry at me.over the past few months I have really been holding back most of my opinions and how this has been making me feel. To top it off her mother is a total freak and doesnt let anyone inside their home who isn't family. I've had to for the past 5 months, drive half an hour to her house then another half hour back to my place to hang out with her. Never has she paid me any money for my gas and although she expresses her gratitude with words, when I say I can't afford a trip to get her this week she guilts me into feeling terrible about not being able to see her. I want to break up with her but on the other hand, I don't. I'm on a gap year between high school and college and before I met this girl I was severely depressed because all of my friends have gone away to college, leaving me alone in my small town. Her and I tonight had a long talk about how I feel and decided to put off the conversation to tomorrow on what to do. \n\nMy first thoughts were to break up but now since we decided to wait, i feel alone already. Im afraid of losing the one friend ive had this entire time, and since all of my friends ive known for years are going to school away, I know mentally and emotionally it'd be so hard for me to be home here without anyone to see. I really don't know what to do and I wanted the advice of reddit. Also, if we were to break up, whats any advice to help me from feeling so alone and depressed?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! so I have been dating this girl since mid-November. She was great at the beginning, so thoughtful and intitive and would always listen to me. However, lately, she seems to have a severe lack of respect for my opinions. She has a lot of personal issues as well as family issues, and despite my constant support for her and giving some advice, whenever I say it, she gets very frustrated and angry at me.over the past few months I have really been holding back most of my opinions and how this has been making me feel. To top it off her mother is a total freak and doesnt let anyone inside their home who isn't family. I've had to for the past 5 months, drive half an hour to her house then another half hour back to my place to hang out with her. Never has she paid me any money for my gas and although she expresses her gratitude with words, when I say I can't afford a trip to get her this week she guilts me into feeling terrible about not being able to see her. I want to break up with her but on the other hand, I don't. I'm on a gap year between high school and college and before I met this girl I was severely depressed because all of my friends have gone away to college, leaving me alone in my small town. Her and I tonight had a long talk about how I feel and decided to put off the conversation to tomorrow on what to do. \n\nMy first thoughts were to break up but now since we decided to wait, i feel alone already. Im afraid of losing the one friend ive had this entire time, and since all of my friends ive known for years are going to school away, I know mentally and emotionally it'd be so hard for me to be home here without anyone to see. I really don't know what to do and I wanted the advice of reddit. Also, if we were to break up, whats any advice to help me from feeling so alone and depressed?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! so I have been dating this girl since mid-November. She was great at the beginning, so thoughtful and intitive and would always listen to me. However, lately, she seems to have a severe lack of respect for my opinions. She has a lot of personal issues as well as family issues, and despite my constant support for her and giving some advice, whenever I say it, she gets very frustrated and angry at me.over the past few months I have really been holding back most of my opinions and how this has been making me feel. To top it off her mother is a total freak and doesnt let anyone inside their home who isn't family. I've had to for the past 5 months, drive half an hour to her house then another half hour back to my place to hang out with her. Never has she paid me any money for my gas and although she expresses her gratitude with words, when I say I can't afford a trip to get her this week she guilts me into feeling terrible about not being able to see her. I want to break up with her but on the other hand, I don't. I'm on a gap year between high school and college and before I met this girl I was severely depressed because all of my friends have gone away to college, leaving me alone in my small town. Her and I tonight had a long talk about how I feel and decided to put off the conversation to tomorrow on what to do. \n\nMy first thoughts were to break up but now since we decided to wait, i feel alone already. Im afraid of losing the one friend ive had this entire time, and since all of my friends ive known for years are going to school away, I know mentally and emotionally it'd be so hard for me to be home here without anyone to see. I really don't know what to do and I wanted the advice of reddit. Also, if we were to break up, whats any advice to help me from feeling so alone and depressed?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! so I have been dating this girl since mid-November. She was great at the beginning, so thoughtful and intitive and would always listen to me. However, lately, she seems to have a severe lack of respect for my opinions. She has a lot of personal issues as well as family issues, and despite my constant support for her and giving some advice, whenever I say it, she gets very frustrated and angry at me.over the past few months I have really been holding back most of my opinions and how this has been making me feel. To top it off her mother is a total freak and doesnt let anyone inside their home who isn't family. I've had to for the past 5 months, drive half an hour to her house then another half hour back to my place to hang out with her. Never has she paid me any money for my gas and although she expresses her gratitude with words, when I say I can't afford a trip to get her this week she guilts me into feeling terrible about not being able to see her. I want to break up with her but on the other hand, I don't. I'm on a gap year between high school and college and before I met this girl I was severely depressed because all of my friends have gone away to college, leaving me alone in my small town. Her and I tonight had a long talk about how I feel and decided to put off the conversation to tomorrow on what to do. \n\nMy first thoughts were to break up but now since we decided to wait, i feel alone already. Im afraid of losing the one friend ive had this entire time, and since all of my friends ive known for years are going to school away, I know mentally and emotionally it'd be so hard for me to be home here without anyone to see. I really don't know what to do and I wanted the advice of reddit. Also, if we were to break up, whats any advice to help me from feeling so alone and depressed?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found a folder in my parents garage while looking for a car charger, home for the summer from college. \n\nIt was labeled with my name, so I opened it up.\nIt was my psychological record from high school. I have Oppositional Defiance Disorder, so I was not surprised to learn I had a file.\n\nWhat did surprise me was this note, put in my a school therapist I met with only once before entering high school, \"Gerrettheferrett shows great promise academically but has several behavioral issues that teachers should take note of. Chief of which is how his aggressive deposition makes him cooperate and collaborate much better with members of the opposite sex. Therefore, whenever possible, gerrettheferrett's teachers should seat him next to female students, and ensure that pair work is done with female classmates.\"\n\nThis note caught me by surprise. But then I thought about it. And it made sense.\n\nI never once sat next to a guy in high school. Every project and group paper I could remember was done alongside a member of the fairer sex.\n\nI even remember once asking to pair up with a male friend of mine, only to be turned down by the teacher who refused to give a reason.\n\nMy finding of this note was one of those moments where all the pieces fall into place. Where you just sit down and say, \"Holy shit. It all makes sense now.\"\n\nLikely because of this, all of my friends from high school are female. I actually don't have any male friends from high school.\n\nI am not really sure what to with this knowledge.\n\nBut, I think its pretty interesting, and I was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience.\n\nThanks for reading. :)" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found a folder in my parents garage while looking for a car charger, home for the summer from college. \n\nIt was labeled with my name, so I opened it up.\nIt was my psychological record from high school. I have Oppositional Defiance Disorder, so I was not surprised to learn I had a file.\n\nWhat did surprise me was this note, put in my a school therapist I met with only once before entering high school, \"Gerrettheferrett shows great promise academically but has several behavioral issues that teachers should take note of. Chief of which is how his aggressive deposition makes him cooperate and collaborate much better with members of the opposite sex. Therefore, whenever possible, gerrettheferrett's teachers should seat him next to female students, and ensure that pair work is done with female classmates.\"\n\nThis note caught me by surprise. But then I thought about it. And it made sense.\n\nI never once sat next to a guy in high school. Every project and group paper I could remember was done alongside a member of the fairer sex.\n\nI even remember once asking to pair up with a male friend of mine, only to be turned down by the teacher who refused to give a reason.\n\nMy finding of this note was one of those moments where all the pieces fall into place. Where you just sit down and say, \"Holy shit. It all makes sense now.\"\n\nLikely because of this, all of my friends from high school are female. I actually don't have any male friends from high school.\n\nI am not really sure what to with this knowledge.\n\nBut, I think its pretty interesting, and I was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience.\n\nThanks for reading. :)" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found a folder in my parents garage while looking for a car charger, home for the summer from college. \n\nIt was labeled with my name, so I opened it up.\nIt was my psychological record from high school. I have Oppositional Defiance Disorder, so I was not surprised to learn I had a file.\n\nWhat did surprise me was this note, put in my a school therapist I met with only once before entering high school, \"Gerrettheferrett shows great promise academically but has several behavioral issues that teachers should take note of. Chief of which is how his aggressive deposition makes him cooperate and collaborate much better with members of the opposite sex. Therefore, whenever possible, gerrettheferrett's teachers should seat him next to female students, and ensure that pair work is done with female classmates.\"\n\nThis note caught me by surprise. But then I thought about it. And it made sense.\n\nI never once sat next to a guy in high school. Every project and group paper I could remember was done alongside a member of the fairer sex.\n\nI even remember once asking to pair up with a male friend of mine, only to be turned down by the teacher who refused to give a reason.\n\nMy finding of this note was one of those moments where all the pieces fall into place. Where you just sit down and say, \"Holy shit. It all makes sense now.\"\n\nLikely because of this, all of my friends from high school are female. I actually don't have any male friends from high school.\n\nI am not really sure what to with this knowledge.\n\nBut, I think its pretty interesting, and I was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience.\n\nThanks for reading. :)" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found a folder in my parents garage while looking for a car charger, home for the summer from college. \n\nIt was labeled with my name, so I opened it up.\nIt was my psychological record from high school. I have Oppositional Defiance Disorder, so I was not surprised to learn I had a file.\n\nWhat did surprise me was this note, put in my a school therapist I met with only once before entering high school, \"Gerrettheferrett shows great promise academically but has several behavioral issues that teachers should take note of. Chief of which is how his aggressive deposition makes him cooperate and collaborate much better with members of the opposite sex. Therefore, whenever possible, gerrettheferrett's teachers should seat him next to female students, and ensure that pair work is done with female classmates.\"\n\nThis note caught me by surprise. But then I thought about it. And it made sense.\n\nI never once sat next to a guy in high school. Every project and group paper I could remember was done alongside a member of the fairer sex.\n\nI even remember once asking to pair up with a male friend of mine, only to be turned down by the teacher who refused to give a reason.\n\nMy finding of this note was one of those moments where all the pieces fall into place. Where you just sit down and say, \"Holy shit. It all makes sense now.\"\n\nLikely because of this, all of my friends from high school are female. I actually don't have any male friends from high school.\n\nI am not really sure what to with this knowledge.\n\nBut, I think its pretty interesting, and I was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience.\n\nThanks for reading. :)" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found a folder in my parents garage while looking for a car charger, home for the summer from college. \n\nIt was labeled with my name, so I opened it up.\nIt was my psychological record from high school. I have Oppositional Defiance Disorder, so I was not surprised to learn I had a file.\n\nWhat did surprise me was this note, put in my a school therapist I met with only once before entering high school, \"Gerrettheferrett shows great promise academically but has several behavioral issues that teachers should take note of. Chief of which is how his aggressive deposition makes him cooperate and collaborate much better with members of the opposite sex. Therefore, whenever possible, gerrettheferrett's teachers should seat him next to female students, and ensure that pair work is done with female classmates.\"\n\nThis note caught me by surprise. But then I thought about it. And it made sense.\n\nI never once sat next to a guy in high school. Every project and group paper I could remember was done alongside a member of the fairer sex.\n\nI even remember once asking to pair up with a male friend of mine, only to be turned down by the teacher who refused to give a reason.\n\nMy finding of this note was one of those moments where all the pieces fall into place. Where you just sit down and say, \"Holy shit. It all makes sense now.\"\n\nLikely because of this, all of my friends from high school are female. I actually don't have any male friends from high school.\n\nI am not really sure what to with this knowledge.\n\nBut, I think its pretty interesting, and I was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience.\n\nThanks for reading. :)" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found a folder in my parents garage while looking for a car charger, home for the summer from college. \n\nIt was labeled with my name, so I opened it up.\nIt was my psychological record from high school. I have Oppositional Defiance Disorder, so I was not surprised to learn I had a file.\n\nWhat did surprise me was this note, put in my a school therapist I met with only once before entering high school, \"Gerrettheferrett shows great promise academically but has several behavioral issues that teachers should take note of. Chief of which is how his aggressive deposition makes him cooperate and collaborate much better with members of the opposite sex. Therefore, whenever possible, gerrettheferrett's teachers should seat him next to female students, and ensure that pair work is done with female classmates.\"\n\nThis note caught me by surprise. But then I thought about it. And it made sense.\n\nI never once sat next to a guy in high school. Every project and group paper I could remember was done alongside a member of the fairer sex.\n\nI even remember once asking to pair up with a male friend of mine, only to be turned down by the teacher who refused to give a reason.\n\nMy finding of this note was one of those moments where all the pieces fall into place. Where you just sit down and say, \"Holy shit. It all makes sense now.\"\n\nLikely because of this, all of my friends from high school are female. I actually don't have any male friends from high school.\n\nI am not really sure what to with this knowledge.\n\nBut, I think its pretty interesting, and I was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience.\n\nThanks for reading. :)" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me preface this by saying I'm a big guy, 6'1, 220, 21 years old, and a college football (American) player. I'm a good bit stronger than the average guy. A girl worked out at the same gym as me, we've been talking for about a month now. We've hung out twice, by ourselves, and both times see seemed very reserved, even though she's rather out going in public. I've hugged her a couple times and it wasn't that tight, reassuring hug. It was more of an oh hey hug, if that makes sense. I didn't think much of it at the time. We both decided we want to continue with this, but she had something to tell me. She told me she's physically scared of me.\n\n Like I said before, we worked out in the same gym and she knows how strong I am. She said that she's afraid if we ever get too into I could very easily hurt her. She also said the same thing about if we got into an argument. She's 5'4, maybe 115 wearing wet clothes, 20 years old. Now, I would never do that. I told her that I know how strong I am, brought up safe words, but she just didn't seem sold. I know violence isn't an answer and to talk things out. I've never been told this because I'm a really easy going guy and it really took me off guard. \n\n Has anyone else been through something like this? Will her feelings fade with trust or as she gets to know me better? We've known each other for 5 months, but it was rather superficial until we started talking. We talked about previous relationships and she's never been abused, but she has been threatened." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me preface this by saying I'm a big guy, 6'1, 220, 21 years old, and a college football (American) player. I'm a good bit stronger than the average guy. A girl worked out at the same gym as me, we've been talking for about a month now. We've hung out twice, by ourselves, and both times see seemed very reserved, even though she's rather out going in public. I've hugged her a couple times and it wasn't that tight, reassuring hug. It was more of an oh hey hug, if that makes sense. I didn't think much of it at the time. We both decided we want to continue with this, but she had something to tell me. She told me she's physically scared of me.\n\n Like I said before, we worked out in the same gym and she knows how strong I am. She said that she's afraid if we ever get too into I could very easily hurt her. She also said the same thing about if we got into an argument. She's 5'4, maybe 115 wearing wet clothes, 20 years old. Now, I would never do that. I told her that I know how strong I am, brought up safe words, but she just didn't seem sold. I know violence isn't an answer and to talk things out. I've never been told this because I'm a really easy going guy and it really took me off guard. \n\n Has anyone else been through something like this? Will her feelings fade with trust or as she gets to know me better? We've known each other for 5 months, but it was rather superficial until we started talking. We talked about previous relationships and she's never been abused, but she has been threatened." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me preface this by saying I'm a big guy, 6'1, 220, 21 years old, and a college football (American) player. I'm a good bit stronger than the average guy. A girl worked out at the same gym as me, we've been talking for about a month now. We've hung out twice, by ourselves, and both times see seemed very reserved, even though she's rather out going in public. I've hugged her a couple times and it wasn't that tight, reassuring hug. It was more of an oh hey hug, if that makes sense. I didn't think much of it at the time. We both decided we want to continue with this, but she had something to tell me. She told me she's physically scared of me.\n\n Like I said before, we worked out in the same gym and she knows how strong I am. She said that she's afraid if we ever get too into I could very easily hurt her. She also said the same thing about if we got into an argument. She's 5'4, maybe 115 wearing wet clothes, 20 years old. Now, I would never do that. I told her that I know how strong I am, brought up safe words, but she just didn't seem sold. I know violence isn't an answer and to talk things out. I've never been told this because I'm a really easy going guy and it really took me off guard. \n\n Has anyone else been through something like this? Will her feelings fade with trust or as she gets to know me better? We've known each other for 5 months, but it was rather superficial until we started talking. We talked about previous relationships and she's never been abused, but she has been threatened." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me preface this by saying I'm a big guy, 6'1, 220, 21 years old, and a college football (American) player. I'm a good bit stronger than the average guy. A girl worked out at the same gym as me, we've been talking for about a month now. We've hung out twice, by ourselves, and both times see seemed very reserved, even though she's rather out going in public. I've hugged her a couple times and it wasn't that tight, reassuring hug. It was more of an oh hey hug, if that makes sense. I didn't think much of it at the time. We both decided we want to continue with this, but she had something to tell me. She told me she's physically scared of me.\n\n Like I said before, we worked out in the same gym and she knows how strong I am. She said that she's afraid if we ever get too into I could very easily hurt her. She also said the same thing about if we got into an argument. She's 5'4, maybe 115 wearing wet clothes, 20 years old. Now, I would never do that. I told her that I know how strong I am, brought up safe words, but she just didn't seem sold. I know violence isn't an answer and to talk things out. I've never been told this because I'm a really easy going guy and it really took me off guard. \n\n Has anyone else been through something like this? Will her feelings fade with trust or as she gets to know me better? We've known each other for 5 months, but it was rather superficial until we started talking. We talked about previous relationships and she's never been abused, but she has been threatened." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me preface this by saying I'm a big guy, 6'1, 220, 21 years old, and a college football (American) player. I'm a good bit stronger than the average guy. A girl worked out at the same gym as me, we've been talking for about a month now. We've hung out twice, by ourselves, and both times see seemed very reserved, even though she's rather out going in public. I've hugged her a couple times and it wasn't that tight, reassuring hug. It was more of an oh hey hug, if that makes sense. I didn't think much of it at the time. We both decided we want to continue with this, but she had something to tell me. She told me she's physically scared of me.\n\n Like I said before, we worked out in the same gym and she knows how strong I am. She said that she's afraid if we ever get too into I could very easily hurt her. She also said the same thing about if we got into an argument. She's 5'4, maybe 115 wearing wet clothes, 20 years old. Now, I would never do that. I told her that I know how strong I am, brought up safe words, but she just didn't seem sold. I know violence isn't an answer and to talk things out. I've never been told this because I'm a really easy going guy and it really took me off guard. \n\n Has anyone else been through something like this? Will her feelings fade with trust or as she gets to know me better? We've known each other for 5 months, but it was rather superficial until we started talking. We talked about previous relationships and she's never been abused, but she has been threatened." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me preface this by saying I'm a big guy, 6'1, 220, 21 years old, and a college football (American) player. I'm a good bit stronger than the average guy. A girl worked out at the same gym as me, we've been talking for about a month now. We've hung out twice, by ourselves, and both times see seemed very reserved, even though she's rather out going in public. I've hugged her a couple times and it wasn't that tight, reassuring hug. It was more of an oh hey hug, if that makes sense. I didn't think much of it at the time. We both decided we want to continue with this, but she had something to tell me. She told me she's physically scared of me.\n\n Like I said before, we worked out in the same gym and she knows how strong I am. She said that she's afraid if we ever get too into I could very easily hurt her. She also said the same thing about if we got into an argument. She's 5'4, maybe 115 wearing wet clothes, 20 years old. Now, I would never do that. I told her that I know how strong I am, brought up safe words, but she just didn't seem sold. I know violence isn't an answer and to talk things out. I've never been told this because I'm a really easy going guy and it really took me off guard. \n\n Has anyone else been through something like this? Will her feelings fade with trust or as she gets to know me better? We've known each other for 5 months, but it was rather superficial until we started talking. We talked about previous relationships and she's never been abused, but she has been threatened." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great.\n\n8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. \n\nSo, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him.\n\n I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly. He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. \n\n My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. \n\nHow can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great.\n\n8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. \n\nSo, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him.\n\n I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly. He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. \n\n My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. \n\nHow can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great.\n\n8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. \n\nSo, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him.\n\n I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly. He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. \n\n My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. \n\nHow can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great.\n\n8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. \n\nSo, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him.\n\n I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly. He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. \n\n My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. \n\nHow can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great.\n\n8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. \n\nSo, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him.\n\n I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly. He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. \n\n My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. \n\nHow can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great.\n\n8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. \n\nSo, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him.\n\n I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly. He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. \n\n My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. \n\nHow can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for a year and a half. My boyfriend hates that I have friends that are guys. He doesnt care if I hang out with girls. His reasoning is hes scared i'm going to leave him for someone else. But the thing is i'm bisexual. I have been in relationships with women. I'm not gonna just not hang out with my male friends because hes insecure. I understand not hanging out with ex's or exlovers, but friends that i have never been with sexually or in a relationship with I should be allowed to hang out with whoever I want. \n\n-\n\nHe said hes not gonna change and i've been in to many controlling relationships that i'm not about to begin another one. I dont know what to do. I love him so much and hes done so much for me but I cant let myself let someone control me like that anymore." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for a year and a half. My boyfriend hates that I have friends that are guys. He doesnt care if I hang out with girls. His reasoning is hes scared i'm going to leave him for someone else. But the thing is i'm bisexual. I have been in relationships with women. I'm not gonna just not hang out with my male friends because hes insecure. I understand not hanging out with ex's or exlovers, but friends that i have never been with sexually or in a relationship with I should be allowed to hang out with whoever I want. \n\n-\n\nHe said hes not gonna change and i've been in to many controlling relationships that i'm not about to begin another one. I dont know what to do. I love him so much and hes done so much for me but I cant let myself let someone control me like that anymore." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for a year and a half. My boyfriend hates that I have friends that are guys. He doesnt care if I hang out with girls. His reasoning is hes scared i'm going to leave him for someone else. But the thing is i'm bisexual. I have been in relationships with women. I'm not gonna just not hang out with my male friends because hes insecure. I understand not hanging out with ex's or exlovers, but friends that i have never been with sexually or in a relationship with I should be allowed to hang out with whoever I want. \n\n-\n\nHe said hes not gonna change and i've been in to many controlling relationships that i'm not about to begin another one. I dont know what to do. I love him so much and hes done so much for me but I cant let myself let someone control me like that anymore." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for a year and a half. My boyfriend hates that I have friends that are guys. He doesnt care if I hang out with girls. His reasoning is hes scared i'm going to leave him for someone else. But the thing is i'm bisexual. I have been in relationships with women. I'm not gonna just not hang out with my male friends because hes insecure. I understand not hanging out with ex's or exlovers, but friends that i have never been with sexually or in a relationship with I should be allowed to hang out with whoever I want. \n\n-\n\nHe said hes not gonna change and i've been in to many controlling relationships that i'm not about to begin another one. I dont know what to do. I love him so much and hes done so much for me but I cant let myself let someone control me like that anymore." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for a year and a half. My boyfriend hates that I have friends that are guys. He doesnt care if I hang out with girls. His reasoning is hes scared i'm going to leave him for someone else. But the thing is i'm bisexual. I have been in relationships with women. I'm not gonna just not hang out with my male friends because hes insecure. I understand not hanging out with ex's or exlovers, but friends that i have never been with sexually or in a relationship with I should be allowed to hang out with whoever I want. \n\n-\n\nHe said hes not gonna change and i've been in to many controlling relationships that i'm not about to begin another one. I dont know what to do. I love him so much and hes done so much for me but I cant let myself let someone control me like that anymore." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for a year and a half. My boyfriend hates that I have friends that are guys. He doesnt care if I hang out with girls. His reasoning is hes scared i'm going to leave him for someone else. But the thing is i'm bisexual. I have been in relationships with women. I'm not gonna just not hang out with my male friends because hes insecure. I understand not hanging out with ex's or exlovers, but friends that i have never been with sexually or in a relationship with I should be allowed to hang out with whoever I want. \n\n-\n\nHe said hes not gonna change and i've been in to many controlling relationships that i'm not about to begin another one. I dont know what to do. I love him so much and hes done so much for me but I cant let myself let someone control me like that anymore." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm not going to go into detail on everything because much of it is side info but basically for the last seven months of this relationship, my girlfriend and I have especially dedicated the anniversary date for us time. We're both busy, me with college and work, her with high school and work, and having at least a day for us a month was something special. I've often taken off work and canceled plans for this time. Well this time, literally last minute, she tells me she's going to a movie alone with another guy *on our anniversary*. Now to many this would mean nothing but I feel completely ignored. She didn't say anything, she didn't talk to me before agreeing to and I feel like she shouldn't be going to movies alone with another guy. She tells me I'm not trusting her but I feel like this isn't right. Am I justified to be upset? She will very frequently make plans and not talk to me about it and just overall do things like she's \"single\" and won't consider me in it until I say something. What do I do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm not going to go into detail on everything because much of it is side info but basically for the last seven months of this relationship, my girlfriend and I have especially dedicated the anniversary date for us time. We're both busy, me with college and work, her with high school and work, and having at least a day for us a month was something special. I've often taken off work and canceled plans for this time. Well this time, literally last minute, she tells me she's going to a movie alone with another guy *on our anniversary*. Now to many this would mean nothing but I feel completely ignored. She didn't say anything, she didn't talk to me before agreeing to and I feel like she shouldn't be going to movies alone with another guy. She tells me I'm not trusting her but I feel like this isn't right. Am I justified to be upset? She will very frequently make plans and not talk to me about it and just overall do things like she's \"single\" and won't consider me in it until I say something. What do I do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm not going to go into detail on everything because much of it is side info but basically for the last seven months of this relationship, my girlfriend and I have especially dedicated the anniversary date for us time. We're both busy, me with college and work, her with high school and work, and having at least a day for us a month was something special. I've often taken off work and canceled plans for this time. Well this time, literally last minute, she tells me she's going to a movie alone with another guy *on our anniversary*. Now to many this would mean nothing but I feel completely ignored. She didn't say anything, she didn't talk to me before agreeing to and I feel like she shouldn't be going to movies alone with another guy. She tells me I'm not trusting her but I feel like this isn't right. Am I justified to be upset? She will very frequently make plans and not talk to me about it and just overall do things like she's \"single\" and won't consider me in it until I say something. What do I do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm not going to go into detail on everything because much of it is side info but basically for the last seven months of this relationship, my girlfriend and I have especially dedicated the anniversary date for us time. We're both busy, me with college and work, her with high school and work, and having at least a day for us a month was something special. I've often taken off work and canceled plans for this time. Well this time, literally last minute, she tells me she's going to a movie alone with another guy *on our anniversary*. Now to many this would mean nothing but I feel completely ignored. She didn't say anything, she didn't talk to me before agreeing to and I feel like she shouldn't be going to movies alone with another guy. She tells me I'm not trusting her but I feel like this isn't right. Am I justified to be upset? She will very frequently make plans and not talk to me about it and just overall do things like she's \"single\" and won't consider me in it until I say something. What do I do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm not going to go into detail on everything because much of it is side info but basically for the last seven months of this relationship, my girlfriend and I have especially dedicated the anniversary date for us time. We're both busy, me with college and work, her with high school and work, and having at least a day for us a month was something special. I've often taken off work and canceled plans for this time. Well this time, literally last minute, she tells me she's going to a movie alone with another guy *on our anniversary*. Now to many this would mean nothing but I feel completely ignored. She didn't say anything, she didn't talk to me before agreeing to and I feel like she shouldn't be going to movies alone with another guy. She tells me I'm not trusting her but I feel like this isn't right. Am I justified to be upset? She will very frequently make plans and not talk to me about it and just overall do things like she's \"single\" and won't consider me in it until I say something. What do I do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'm not going to go into detail on everything because much of it is side info but basically for the last seven months of this relationship, my girlfriend and I have especially dedicated the anniversary date for us time. We're both busy, me with college and work, her with high school and work, and having at least a day for us a month was something special. I've often taken off work and canceled plans for this time. Well this time, literally last minute, she tells me she's going to a movie alone with another guy *on our anniversary*. Now to many this would mean nothing but I feel completely ignored. She didn't say anything, she didn't talk to me before agreeing to and I feel like she shouldn't be going to movies alone with another guy. She tells me I'm not trusting her but I feel like this isn't right. Am I justified to be upset? She will very frequently make plans and not talk to me about it and just overall do things like she's \"single\" and won't consider me in it until I say something. What do I do?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to NC a little more than a year ago. I have held a single job consistently through the year I have been here, as well as a couple jobs i signed onto over the summer. I have an established residence I have maintained for almost 18 months, and have replaced my drivers license.\n\nI'm not sure what else there is I can do. I don't own a car that I can register to the state, but I pay taxes from income etc. The email i received sounded something like \"We see you have lived here for a year, but you don't live here. I packed up all my belongings and came here. I don't know how much more here I can be. There was also something to the tune of it being my burden to prove that I intend to stay here. How in the hell does someone prove that? It sounds like someone just on a whim decided not to let me through.\n\nI'm sorry about the wall of text. this is a fresh wound and it's got me rattled. I'm just looking for general advice. What should I include in my appeal? Is there some legal precedent i should know or could pursue? I can't help but feel like my financial and educational future were made on a whim, or some undefinable premise." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to NC a little more than a year ago. I have held a single job consistently through the year I have been here, as well as a couple jobs i signed onto over the summer. I have an established residence I have maintained for almost 18 months, and have replaced my drivers license.\n\nI'm not sure what else there is I can do. I don't own a car that I can register to the state, but I pay taxes from income etc. The email i received sounded something like \"We see you have lived here for a year, but you don't live here. I packed up all my belongings and came here. I don't know how much more here I can be. There was also something to the tune of it being my burden to prove that I intend to stay here. How in the hell does someone prove that? It sounds like someone just on a whim decided not to let me through.\n\nI'm sorry about the wall of text. this is a fresh wound and it's got me rattled. I'm just looking for general advice. What should I include in my appeal? Is there some legal precedent i should know or could pursue? I can't help but feel like my financial and educational future were made on a whim, or some undefinable premise." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to NC a little more than a year ago. I have held a single job consistently through the year I have been here, as well as a couple jobs i signed onto over the summer. I have an established residence I have maintained for almost 18 months, and have replaced my drivers license.\n\nI'm not sure what else there is I can do. I don't own a car that I can register to the state, but I pay taxes from income etc. The email i received sounded something like \"We see you have lived here for a year, but you don't live here. I packed up all my belongings and came here. I don't know how much more here I can be. There was also something to the tune of it being my burden to prove that I intend to stay here. How in the hell does someone prove that? It sounds like someone just on a whim decided not to let me through.\n\nI'm sorry about the wall of text. this is a fresh wound and it's got me rattled. I'm just looking for general advice. What should I include in my appeal? Is there some legal precedent i should know or could pursue? I can't help but feel like my financial and educational future were made on a whim, or some undefinable premise." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to NC a little more than a year ago. I have held a single job consistently through the year I have been here, as well as a couple jobs i signed onto over the summer. I have an established residence I have maintained for almost 18 months, and have replaced my drivers license.\n\nI'm not sure what else there is I can do. I don't own a car that I can register to the state, but I pay taxes from income etc. The email i received sounded something like \"We see you have lived here for a year, but you don't live here. I packed up all my belongings and came here. I don't know how much more here I can be. There was also something to the tune of it being my burden to prove that I intend to stay here. How in the hell does someone prove that? It sounds like someone just on a whim decided not to let me through.\n\nI'm sorry about the wall of text. this is a fresh wound and it's got me rattled. I'm just looking for general advice. What should I include in my appeal? Is there some legal precedent i should know or could pursue? I can't help but feel like my financial and educational future were made on a whim, or some undefinable premise." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to NC a little more than a year ago. I have held a single job consistently through the year I have been here, as well as a couple jobs i signed onto over the summer. I have an established residence I have maintained for almost 18 months, and have replaced my drivers license.\n\nI'm not sure what else there is I can do. I don't own a car that I can register to the state, but I pay taxes from income etc. The email i received sounded something like \"We see you have lived here for a year, but you don't live here. I packed up all my belongings and came here. I don't know how much more here I can be. There was also something to the tune of it being my burden to prove that I intend to stay here. How in the hell does someone prove that? It sounds like someone just on a whim decided not to let me through.\n\nI'm sorry about the wall of text. this is a fresh wound and it's got me rattled. I'm just looking for general advice. What should I include in my appeal? Is there some legal precedent i should know or could pursue? I can't help but feel like my financial and educational future were made on a whim, or some undefinable premise." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved to NC a little more than a year ago. I have held a single job consistently through the year I have been here, as well as a couple jobs i signed onto over the summer. I have an established residence I have maintained for almost 18 months, and have replaced my drivers license.\n\nI'm not sure what else there is I can do. I don't own a car that I can register to the state, but I pay taxes from income etc. The email i received sounded something like \"We see you have lived here for a year, but you don't live here. I packed up all my belongings and came here. I don't know how much more here I can be. There was also something to the tune of it being my burden to prove that I intend to stay here. How in the hell does someone prove that? It sounds like someone just on a whim decided not to let me through.\n\nI'm sorry about the wall of text. this is a fresh wound and it's got me rattled. I'm just looking for general advice. What should I include in my appeal? Is there some legal precedent i should know or could pursue? I can't help but feel like my financial and educational future were made on a whim, or some undefinable premise." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been going out for three months, and jive really well (it's only a little creepy). He makes me so happy, when I'm not miserable. \n\nI can't wait to see him all day, and when I finally do I just get sad. Sometimes I just start crying, and he tries really hard to get me to tell him why and I just can't.\n\nHe's not a bad guy. Sure, not the most sensitive thing in the world, but he really just wants me to be happy.\n\nI know this isn't very specific, but I think I just don't know what questions to ask myself to figure it out.\n\nThis is my first serious relationship and I don't want to screw it up with my own insecurities or crazy behavior (like randomly crying, wtf? I'm not that kind of girl).\n\nI could really use your help.\n\n-\n*EDIT – More Details*\n\nI feel like I'm the only one who compromises.\n\nI hate that he never helps with \"women's work\" – laundry, cooking. He'll just complain about how he needs to get his clothes washed or how hungry he is. Even when I'm sick, he doesn't pull his weight.\n\nHe lives in my house, but he does have his own place.\n\nI have *no idea* how to ask for small behavioral changes/compromises without sounding like a total bitch.\n\nI never say no to him, which just makes me feel like a sap. He has no problems saying no to me." }