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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a year since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up. We were together for a bit less than a year and a half, but we were close friends for a few years before that. She was my first love (I'd had previous relationships but this was the first serious one, and the first one where I actually believed I loved her. We spent loads of time together and I went all out for her, dates, gifts, riding my bike 7 miles to see one of her volleyball tournaments, and the like. After 6 months we slept together, we were both virgins. It was a very amazing relationship. We had our ups and downs, but after we broke up it was a terrible experience for both of us. I felt like she was using me for sex, which was probably not the case, but that's what it felt like. I felt as if I was over her for a few months after we broke up, although, recently I started thinking about her a lot. A few dreams here and there really cemented her back into my head. I'm going crazy again, and I just don't know what to do. Any advice for my situation?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a year since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up. We were together for a bit less than a year and a half, but we were close friends for a few years before that. She was my first love (I'd had previous relationships but this was the first serious one, and the first one where I actually believed I loved her. We spent loads of time together and I went all out for her, dates, gifts, riding my bike 7 miles to see one of her volleyball tournaments, and the like. After 6 months we slept together, we were both virgins. It was a very amazing relationship. We had our ups and downs, but after we broke up it was a terrible experience for both of us. I felt like she was using me for sex, which was probably not the case, but that's what it felt like. I felt as if I was over her for a few months after we broke up, although, recently I started thinking about her a lot. A few dreams here and there really cemented her back into my head. I'm going crazy again, and I just don't know what to do. Any advice for my situation?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a year since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up. We were together for a bit less than a year and a half, but we were close friends for a few years before that. She was my first love (I'd had previous relationships but this was the first serious one, and the first one where I actually believed I loved her. We spent loads of time together and I went all out for her, dates, gifts, riding my bike 7 miles to see one of her volleyball tournaments, and the like. After 6 months we slept together, we were both virgins. It was a very amazing relationship. We had our ups and downs, but after we broke up it was a terrible experience for both of us. I felt like she was using me for sex, which was probably not the case, but that's what it felt like. I felt as if I was over her for a few months after we broke up, although, recently I started thinking about her a lot. A few dreams here and there really cemented her back into my head. I'm going crazy again, and I just don't know what to do. Any advice for my situation?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a year since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up. We were together for a bit less than a year and a half, but we were close friends for a few years before that. She was my first love (I'd had previous relationships but this was the first serious one, and the first one where I actually believed I loved her. We spent loads of time together and I went all out for her, dates, gifts, riding my bike 7 miles to see one of her volleyball tournaments, and the like. After 6 months we slept together, we were both virgins. It was a very amazing relationship. We had our ups and downs, but after we broke up it was a terrible experience for both of us. I felt like she was using me for sex, which was probably not the case, but that's what it felt like. I felt as if I was over her for a few months after we broke up, although, recently I started thinking about her a lot. A few dreams here and there really cemented her back into my head. I'm going crazy again, and I just don't know what to do. Any advice for my situation?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account for obvious reasons.\n\nI had a casual boyfriend that lasted in HS about a month, if not less. He broke up with me due to him not being a great person. I moved on many years ago and have zero interest of rekindling anything. However every year he tries to befriend me and message me on FB around the time we started dating, but it never works. This year, I decided to hear him out since I figured there had to be a reason to his persistence for OVER FIVE YEARS. Because who does that!? Maybe he wanted to apologize for some terrible stuff he did when we dated. Nope, he just wanted to tell me how much he loves me and regrets leaving me. It's not an attempt at a booty call either. I just laugh to myself and admittedly feel great hearing he can't get over me since I completely forgot about him until he messaged me again this year. I've been rude/blunt with his past attempts to talk to me and blocked. It just boggles my mind that he keeps trying. I removed his block due to mutual friends, and he isn't a threat to me.\n\n Has anyone else ever had this experience? I mainly just wanted to see other people's experiences with clingy ex's and how they dealt with them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account for obvious reasons.\n\nI had a casual boyfriend that lasted in HS about a month, if not less. He broke up with me due to him not being a great person. I moved on many years ago and have zero interest of rekindling anything. However every year he tries to befriend me and message me on FB around the time we started dating, but it never works. This year, I decided to hear him out since I figured there had to be a reason to his persistence for OVER FIVE YEARS. Because who does that!? Maybe he wanted to apologize for some terrible stuff he did when we dated. Nope, he just wanted to tell me how much he loves me and regrets leaving me. It's not an attempt at a booty call either. I just laugh to myself and admittedly feel great hearing he can't get over me since I completely forgot about him until he messaged me again this year. I've been rude/blunt with his past attempts to talk to me and blocked. It just boggles my mind that he keeps trying. I removed his block due to mutual friends, and he isn't a threat to me.\n\n Has anyone else ever had this experience? I mainly just wanted to see other people's experiences with clingy ex's and how they dealt with them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account for obvious reasons.\n\nI had a casual boyfriend that lasted in HS about a month, if not less. He broke up with me due to him not being a great person. I moved on many years ago and have zero interest of rekindling anything. However every year he tries to befriend me and message me on FB around the time we started dating, but it never works. This year, I decided to hear him out since I figured there had to be a reason to his persistence for OVER FIVE YEARS. Because who does that!? Maybe he wanted to apologize for some terrible stuff he did when we dated. Nope, he just wanted to tell me how much he loves me and regrets leaving me. It's not an attempt at a booty call either. I just laugh to myself and admittedly feel great hearing he can't get over me since I completely forgot about him until he messaged me again this year. I've been rude/blunt with his past attempts to talk to me and blocked. It just boggles my mind that he keeps trying. I removed his block due to mutual friends, and he isn't a threat to me.\n\n Has anyone else ever had this experience? I mainly just wanted to see other people's experiences with clingy ex's and how they dealt with them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account for obvious reasons.\n\nI had a casual boyfriend that lasted in HS about a month, if not less. He broke up with me due to him not being a great person. I moved on many years ago and have zero interest of rekindling anything. However every year he tries to befriend me and message me on FB around the time we started dating, but it never works. This year, I decided to hear him out since I figured there had to be a reason to his persistence for OVER FIVE YEARS. Because who does that!? Maybe he wanted to apologize for some terrible stuff he did when we dated. Nope, he just wanted to tell me how much he loves me and regrets leaving me. It's not an attempt at a booty call either. I just laugh to myself and admittedly feel great hearing he can't get over me since I completely forgot about him until he messaged me again this year. I've been rude/blunt with his past attempts to talk to me and blocked. It just boggles my mind that he keeps trying. I removed his block due to mutual friends, and he isn't a threat to me.\n\n Has anyone else ever had this experience? I mainly just wanted to see other people's experiences with clingy ex's and how they dealt with them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account for obvious reasons.\n\nI had a casual boyfriend that lasted in HS about a month, if not less. He broke up with me due to him not being a great person. I moved on many years ago and have zero interest of rekindling anything. However every year he tries to befriend me and message me on FB around the time we started dating, but it never works. This year, I decided to hear him out since I figured there had to be a reason to his persistence for OVER FIVE YEARS. Because who does that!? Maybe he wanted to apologize for some terrible stuff he did when we dated. Nope, he just wanted to tell me how much he loves me and regrets leaving me. It's not an attempt at a booty call either. I just laugh to myself and admittedly feel great hearing he can't get over me since I completely forgot about him until he messaged me again this year. I've been rude/blunt with his past attempts to talk to me and blocked. It just boggles my mind that he keeps trying. I removed his block due to mutual friends, and he isn't a threat to me.\n\n Has anyone else ever had this experience? I mainly just wanted to see other people's experiences with clingy ex's and how they dealt with them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account for obvious reasons.\n\nI had a casual boyfriend that lasted in HS about a month, if not less. He broke up with me due to him not being a great person. I moved on many years ago and have zero interest of rekindling anything. However every year he tries to befriend me and message me on FB around the time we started dating, but it never works. This year, I decided to hear him out since I figured there had to be a reason to his persistence for OVER FIVE YEARS. Because who does that!? Maybe he wanted to apologize for some terrible stuff he did when we dated. Nope, he just wanted to tell me how much he loves me and regrets leaving me. It's not an attempt at a booty call either. I just laugh to myself and admittedly feel great hearing he can't get over me since I completely forgot about him until he messaged me again this year. I've been rude/blunt with his past attempts to talk to me and blocked. It just boggles my mind that he keeps trying. I removed his block due to mutual friends, and he isn't a threat to me.\n\n Has anyone else ever had this experience? I mainly just wanted to see other people's experiences with clingy ex's and how they dealt with them." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nWe were together for 8 months before her mothers unjust hatred of me played too big a part, 6 months later we got back together. That was three months ago. \n\nThe situation:\nWe planned on seeing each other Friday night, for the first time in 2 weeks. She was finishing up college so I was cool with the wait. Well, Friday came and I asked if she could still come, which she replied no. She had some family members coming over and had to be there. I wasn't very happy with this outcome, and asked why she had to be there. She sort of pushed the questions aside.\nSo, I figured I could go and have a beer and chicken fingers with a coworker and her daughter, who is a longtime friend, after I got off work. They live 2 miles away from me, literally. My girlfriend texted, said she was outside my house.\nI called and said I'd be there soon. She said not to, that it was stupid and she's just gonna go watch a movie.\nI told her not to leave, to just stay and I'd be home in 5 minutes. It took some convincing, but it worked. \nSo she was mad, telling me that she felt stupid. I explained that I dropped what I was doing immediately, and was very happy to see her. We then had sex, and then tried to watch a movie. A fantastic movie, I might add. We began being awkward and a little bit of verbal confrontation ensued. She claimed I didn't understand anything, and once again she felt stupid. I told her she was right, and that I don't understand why she was upset. We had sex, and she left. I told her I do love her, and she said she did too. \n\nHere we are, two days later, and she won't talk to me. She seems to really be letting this make a difference in our relationship, and I would like to hear others opinions on why it should. Forgive me for being a total dude about this, but we never fight." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nWe were together for 8 months before her mothers unjust hatred of me played too big a part, 6 months later we got back together. That was three months ago. \n\nThe situation:\nWe planned on seeing each other Friday night, for the first time in 2 weeks. She was finishing up college so I was cool with the wait. Well, Friday came and I asked if she could still come, which she replied no. She had some family members coming over and had to be there. I wasn't very happy with this outcome, and asked why she had to be there. She sort of pushed the questions aside.\nSo, I figured I could go and have a beer and chicken fingers with a coworker and her daughter, who is a longtime friend, after I got off work. They live 2 miles away from me, literally. My girlfriend texted, said she was outside my house.\nI called and said I'd be there soon. She said not to, that it was stupid and she's just gonna go watch a movie.\nI told her not to leave, to just stay and I'd be home in 5 minutes. It took some convincing, but it worked. \nSo she was mad, telling me that she felt stupid. I explained that I dropped what I was doing immediately, and was very happy to see her. We then had sex, and then tried to watch a movie. A fantastic movie, I might add. We began being awkward and a little bit of verbal confrontation ensued. She claimed I didn't understand anything, and once again she felt stupid. I told her she was right, and that I don't understand why she was upset. We had sex, and she left. I told her I do love her, and she said she did too. \n\nHere we are, two days later, and she won't talk to me. She seems to really be letting this make a difference in our relationship, and I would like to hear others opinions on why it should. Forgive me for being a total dude about this, but we never fight." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nWe were together for 8 months before her mothers unjust hatred of me played too big a part, 6 months later we got back together. That was three months ago. \n\nThe situation:\nWe planned on seeing each other Friday night, for the first time in 2 weeks. She was finishing up college so I was cool with the wait. Well, Friday came and I asked if she could still come, which she replied no. She had some family members coming over and had to be there. I wasn't very happy with this outcome, and asked why she had to be there. She sort of pushed the questions aside.\nSo, I figured I could go and have a beer and chicken fingers with a coworker and her daughter, who is a longtime friend, after I got off work. They live 2 miles away from me, literally. My girlfriend texted, said she was outside my house.\nI called and said I'd be there soon. She said not to, that it was stupid and she's just gonna go watch a movie.\nI told her not to leave, to just stay and I'd be home in 5 minutes. It took some convincing, but it worked. \nSo she was mad, telling me that she felt stupid. I explained that I dropped what I was doing immediately, and was very happy to see her. We then had sex, and then tried to watch a movie. A fantastic movie, I might add. We began being awkward and a little bit of verbal confrontation ensued. She claimed I didn't understand anything, and once again she felt stupid. I told her she was right, and that I don't understand why she was upset. We had sex, and she left. I told her I do love her, and she said she did too. \n\nHere we are, two days later, and she won't talk to me. She seems to really be letting this make a difference in our relationship, and I would like to hear others opinions on why it should. Forgive me for being a total dude about this, but we never fight." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nWe were together for 8 months before her mothers unjust hatred of me played too big a part, 6 months later we got back together. That was three months ago. \n\nThe situation:\nWe planned on seeing each other Friday night, for the first time in 2 weeks. She was finishing up college so I was cool with the wait. Well, Friday came and I asked if she could still come, which she replied no. She had some family members coming over and had to be there. I wasn't very happy with this outcome, and asked why she had to be there. She sort of pushed the questions aside.\nSo, I figured I could go and have a beer and chicken fingers with a coworker and her daughter, who is a longtime friend, after I got off work. They live 2 miles away from me, literally. My girlfriend texted, said she was outside my house.\nI called and said I'd be there soon. She said not to, that it was stupid and she's just gonna go watch a movie.\nI told her not to leave, to just stay and I'd be home in 5 minutes. It took some convincing, but it worked. \nSo she was mad, telling me that she felt stupid. I explained that I dropped what I was doing immediately, and was very happy to see her. We then had sex, and then tried to watch a movie. A fantastic movie, I might add. We began being awkward and a little bit of verbal confrontation ensued. She claimed I didn't understand anything, and once again she felt stupid. I told her she was right, and that I don't understand why she was upset. We had sex, and she left. I told her I do love her, and she said she did too. \n\nHere we are, two days later, and she won't talk to me. She seems to really be letting this make a difference in our relationship, and I would like to hear others opinions on why it should. Forgive me for being a total dude about this, but we never fight." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nWe were together for 8 months before her mothers unjust hatred of me played too big a part, 6 months later we got back together. That was three months ago. \n\nThe situation:\nWe planned on seeing each other Friday night, for the first time in 2 weeks. She was finishing up college so I was cool with the wait. Well, Friday came and I asked if she could still come, which she replied no. She had some family members coming over and had to be there. I wasn't very happy with this outcome, and asked why she had to be there. She sort of pushed the questions aside.\nSo, I figured I could go and have a beer and chicken fingers with a coworker and her daughter, who is a longtime friend, after I got off work. They live 2 miles away from me, literally. My girlfriend texted, said she was outside my house.\nI called and said I'd be there soon. She said not to, that it was stupid and she's just gonna go watch a movie.\nI told her not to leave, to just stay and I'd be home in 5 minutes. It took some convincing, but it worked. \nSo she was mad, telling me that she felt stupid. I explained that I dropped what I was doing immediately, and was very happy to see her. We then had sex, and then tried to watch a movie. A fantastic movie, I might add. We began being awkward and a little bit of verbal confrontation ensued. She claimed I didn't understand anything, and once again she felt stupid. I told her she was right, and that I don't understand why she was upset. We had sex, and she left. I told her I do love her, and she said she did too. \n\nHere we are, two days later, and she won't talk to me. She seems to really be letting this make a difference in our relationship, and I would like to hear others opinions on why it should. Forgive me for being a total dude about this, but we never fight." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\nWe were together for 8 months before her mothers unjust hatred of me played too big a part, 6 months later we got back together. That was three months ago. \n\nThe situation:\nWe planned on seeing each other Friday night, for the first time in 2 weeks. She was finishing up college so I was cool with the wait. Well, Friday came and I asked if she could still come, which she replied no. She had some family members coming over and had to be there. I wasn't very happy with this outcome, and asked why she had to be there. She sort of pushed the questions aside.\nSo, I figured I could go and have a beer and chicken fingers with a coworker and her daughter, who is a longtime friend, after I got off work. They live 2 miles away from me, literally. My girlfriend texted, said she was outside my house.\nI called and said I'd be there soon. She said not to, that it was stupid and she's just gonna go watch a movie.\nI told her not to leave, to just stay and I'd be home in 5 minutes. It took some convincing, but it worked. \nSo she was mad, telling me that she felt stupid. I explained that I dropped what I was doing immediately, and was very happy to see her. We then had sex, and then tried to watch a movie. A fantastic movie, I might add. We began being awkward and a little bit of verbal confrontation ensued. She claimed I didn't understand anything, and once again she felt stupid. I told her she was right, and that I don't understand why she was upset. We had sex, and she left. I told her I do love her, and she said she did too. \n\nHere we are, two days later, and she won't talk to me. She seems to really be letting this make a difference in our relationship, and I would like to hear others opinions on why it should. Forgive me for being a total dude about this, but we never fight." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up recently, not necessarily on bad terms, but it was more her decision that mine. She felt the trust had gone in our relationship and we were arguing quite a lot.\n\nShe genuinely made me so happy and I loved being with her, and had moved cities to be closer. I do think this put strain on the relationship because now that it was no longer long-distance I wanted to see her loads.\n\nI think our main issues were that I was smothering her, I put pressure on her, she felt I didn't trust her (I do!) and that there were other people meddling in our relationship, and her feelings are confused.\n\nAnyway we've given each other space and haven't talked for over a week but we are meeting up to discuss everything. We are broken up and I really want her back. I'd love some advice on what's best to say and how best to approach the situation! Thank you!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up recently, not necessarily on bad terms, but it was more her decision that mine. She felt the trust had gone in our relationship and we were arguing quite a lot.\n\nShe genuinely made me so happy and I loved being with her, and had moved cities to be closer. I do think this put strain on the relationship because now that it was no longer long-distance I wanted to see her loads.\n\nI think our main issues were that I was smothering her, I put pressure on her, she felt I didn't trust her (I do!) and that there were other people meddling in our relationship, and her feelings are confused.\n\nAnyway we've given each other space and haven't talked for over a week but we are meeting up to discuss everything. We are broken up and I really want her back. I'd love some advice on what's best to say and how best to approach the situation! Thank you!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up recently, not necessarily on bad terms, but it was more her decision that mine. She felt the trust had gone in our relationship and we were arguing quite a lot.\n\nShe genuinely made me so happy and I loved being with her, and had moved cities to be closer. I do think this put strain on the relationship because now that it was no longer long-distance I wanted to see her loads.\n\nI think our main issues were that I was smothering her, I put pressure on her, she felt I didn't trust her (I do!) and that there were other people meddling in our relationship, and her feelings are confused.\n\nAnyway we've given each other space and haven't talked for over a week but we are meeting up to discuss everything. We are broken up and I really want her back. I'd love some advice on what's best to say and how best to approach the situation! Thank you!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up recently, not necessarily on bad terms, but it was more her decision that mine. She felt the trust had gone in our relationship and we were arguing quite a lot.\n\nShe genuinely made me so happy and I loved being with her, and had moved cities to be closer. I do think this put strain on the relationship because now that it was no longer long-distance I wanted to see her loads.\n\nI think our main issues were that I was smothering her, I put pressure on her, she felt I didn't trust her (I do!) and that there were other people meddling in our relationship, and her feelings are confused.\n\nAnyway we've given each other space and haven't talked for over a week but we are meeting up to discuss everything. We are broken up and I really want her back. I'd love some advice on what's best to say and how best to approach the situation! Thank you!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up recently, not necessarily on bad terms, but it was more her decision that mine. She felt the trust had gone in our relationship and we were arguing quite a lot.\n\nShe genuinely made me so happy and I loved being with her, and had moved cities to be closer. I do think this put strain on the relationship because now that it was no longer long-distance I wanted to see her loads.\n\nI think our main issues were that I was smothering her, I put pressure on her, she felt I didn't trust her (I do!) and that there were other people meddling in our relationship, and her feelings are confused.\n\nAnyway we've given each other space and haven't talked for over a week but we are meeting up to discuss everything. We are broken up and I really want her back. I'd love some advice on what's best to say and how best to approach the situation! Thank you!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating a great guy for the last 9 months, and for the last month or so I've been getting jealous for no reason and nitpicking him for no reason. I want to stop but I don't know how. \n\nThis is the healthiest relationship I've been in for a long time. He's cute, sweet, fun, successful, and crazy about me-everything I've always wanted in a guy. We're talking about moving in together in the next few months. We communicate really well and I think we both try hard to be good to each other.\n\nFor the last month or so, I've been nitpicking him over small things and getting overly jealous. I'm scared I'm ruining a good thing. This relationship is way healthier than the borderline abusive/toxic ones I have been in in the past. Maybe I'm just used to more drama or I don't know what to do when a relationship is smooth. Every time I snap at him I apologize. He's been really understanding, but I feel like his patience will run out eventually. He gives me a lot of reassurance when I'm feeling insecure or jealous, but I feel like he shouldn't have to. \n\nI just wish I was in more control of my actions. It's freaking me out because I'm worried I'm going to push him away. Any advice would be much appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating a great guy for the last 9 months, and for the last month or so I've been getting jealous for no reason and nitpicking him for no reason. I want to stop but I don't know how. \n\nThis is the healthiest relationship I've been in for a long time. He's cute, sweet, fun, successful, and crazy about me-everything I've always wanted in a guy. We're talking about moving in together in the next few months. We communicate really well and I think we both try hard to be good to each other.\n\nFor the last month or so, I've been nitpicking him over small things and getting overly jealous. I'm scared I'm ruining a good thing. This relationship is way healthier than the borderline abusive/toxic ones I have been in in the past. Maybe I'm just used to more drama or I don't know what to do when a relationship is smooth. Every time I snap at him I apologize. He's been really understanding, but I feel like his patience will run out eventually. He gives me a lot of reassurance when I'm feeling insecure or jealous, but I feel like he shouldn't have to. \n\nI just wish I was in more control of my actions. It's freaking me out because I'm worried I'm going to push him away. Any advice would be much appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating a great guy for the last 9 months, and for the last month or so I've been getting jealous for no reason and nitpicking him for no reason. I want to stop but I don't know how. \n\nThis is the healthiest relationship I've been in for a long time. He's cute, sweet, fun, successful, and crazy about me-everything I've always wanted in a guy. We're talking about moving in together in the next few months. We communicate really well and I think we both try hard to be good to each other.\n\nFor the last month or so, I've been nitpicking him over small things and getting overly jealous. I'm scared I'm ruining a good thing. This relationship is way healthier than the borderline abusive/toxic ones I have been in in the past. Maybe I'm just used to more drama or I don't know what to do when a relationship is smooth. Every time I snap at him I apologize. He's been really understanding, but I feel like his patience will run out eventually. He gives me a lot of reassurance when I'm feeling insecure or jealous, but I feel like he shouldn't have to. \n\nI just wish I was in more control of my actions. It's freaking me out because I'm worried I'm going to push him away. Any advice would be much appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating a great guy for the last 9 months, and for the last month or so I've been getting jealous for no reason and nitpicking him for no reason. I want to stop but I don't know how. \n\nThis is the healthiest relationship I've been in for a long time. He's cute, sweet, fun, successful, and crazy about me-everything I've always wanted in a guy. We're talking about moving in together in the next few months. We communicate really well and I think we both try hard to be good to each other.\n\nFor the last month or so, I've been nitpicking him over small things and getting overly jealous. I'm scared I'm ruining a good thing. This relationship is way healthier than the borderline abusive/toxic ones I have been in in the past. Maybe I'm just used to more drama or I don't know what to do when a relationship is smooth. Every time I snap at him I apologize. He's been really understanding, but I feel like his patience will run out eventually. He gives me a lot of reassurance when I'm feeling insecure or jealous, but I feel like he shouldn't have to. \n\nI just wish I was in more control of my actions. It's freaking me out because I'm worried I'm going to push him away. Any advice would be much appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating a great guy for the last 9 months, and for the last month or so I've been getting jealous for no reason and nitpicking him for no reason. I want to stop but I don't know how. \n\nThis is the healthiest relationship I've been in for a long time. He's cute, sweet, fun, successful, and crazy about me-everything I've always wanted in a guy. We're talking about moving in together in the next few months. We communicate really well and I think we both try hard to be good to each other.\n\nFor the last month or so, I've been nitpicking him over small things and getting overly jealous. I'm scared I'm ruining a good thing. This relationship is way healthier than the borderline abusive/toxic ones I have been in in the past. Maybe I'm just used to more drama or I don't know what to do when a relationship is smooth. Every time I snap at him I apologize. He's been really understanding, but I feel like his patience will run out eventually. He gives me a lot of reassurance when I'm feeling insecure or jealous, but I feel like he shouldn't have to. \n\nI just wish I was in more control of my actions. It's freaking me out because I'm worried I'm going to push him away. Any advice would be much appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been dating a great guy for the last 9 months, and for the last month or so I've been getting jealous for no reason and nitpicking him for no reason. I want to stop but I don't know how. \n\nThis is the healthiest relationship I've been in for a long time. He's cute, sweet, fun, successful, and crazy about me-everything I've always wanted in a guy. We're talking about moving in together in the next few months. We communicate really well and I think we both try hard to be good to each other.\n\nFor the last month or so, I've been nitpicking him over small things and getting overly jealous. I'm scared I'm ruining a good thing. This relationship is way healthier than the borderline abusive/toxic ones I have been in in the past. Maybe I'm just used to more drama or I don't know what to do when a relationship is smooth. Every time I snap at him I apologize. He's been really understanding, but I feel like his patience will run out eventually. He gives me a lot of reassurance when I'm feeling insecure or jealous, but I feel like he shouldn't have to. \n\nI just wish I was in more control of my actions. It's freaking me out because I'm worried I'm going to push him away. Any advice would be much appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a pretty independent guy. I'd say I'm good looking and in pretty decent shape, but my confidence could probably use some work. I'v become very detached in regards to most people. And I'm emotionally unavailable when it comes to most things or people due to my past experiences.\n\nI would like to have a real lasting relationship with someone. It could be sexual or just a plain old friendship. But whenever I hang out with someone we would just have small talk or an awkward silence or something, and then I'll never hear from them again. \n\nI really just need some advice to about how I can make a relationship with someone and gain some of my confidence back." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a pretty independent guy. I'd say I'm good looking and in pretty decent shape, but my confidence could probably use some work. I'v become very detached in regards to most people. And I'm emotionally unavailable when it comes to most things or people due to my past experiences.\n\nI would like to have a real lasting relationship with someone. It could be sexual or just a plain old friendship. But whenever I hang out with someone we would just have small talk or an awkward silence or something, and then I'll never hear from them again. \n\nI really just need some advice to about how I can make a relationship with someone and gain some of my confidence back." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a pretty independent guy. I'd say I'm good looking and in pretty decent shape, but my confidence could probably use some work. I'v become very detached in regards to most people. And I'm emotionally unavailable when it comes to most things or people due to my past experiences.\n\nI would like to have a real lasting relationship with someone. It could be sexual or just a plain old friendship. But whenever I hang out with someone we would just have small talk or an awkward silence or something, and then I'll never hear from them again. \n\nI really just need some advice to about how I can make a relationship with someone and gain some of my confidence back." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a pretty independent guy. I'd say I'm good looking and in pretty decent shape, but my confidence could probably use some work. I'v become very detached in regards to most people. And I'm emotionally unavailable when it comes to most things or people due to my past experiences.\n\nI would like to have a real lasting relationship with someone. It could be sexual or just a plain old friendship. But whenever I hang out with someone we would just have small talk or an awkward silence or something, and then I'll never hear from them again. \n\nI really just need some advice to about how I can make a relationship with someone and gain some of my confidence back." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a pretty independent guy. I'd say I'm good looking and in pretty decent shape, but my confidence could probably use some work. I'v become very detached in regards to most people. And I'm emotionally unavailable when it comes to most things or people due to my past experiences.\n\nI would like to have a real lasting relationship with someone. It could be sexual or just a plain old friendship. But whenever I hang out with someone we would just have small talk or an awkward silence or something, and then I'll never hear from them again. \n\nI really just need some advice to about how I can make a relationship with someone and gain some of my confidence back." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a pretty independent guy. I'd say I'm good looking and in pretty decent shape, but my confidence could probably use some work. I'v become very detached in regards to most people. And I'm emotionally unavailable when it comes to most things or people due to my past experiences.\n\nI would like to have a real lasting relationship with someone. It could be sexual or just a plain old friendship. But whenever I hang out with someone we would just have small talk or an awkward silence or something, and then I'll never hear from them again. \n\nI really just need some advice to about how I can make a relationship with someone and gain some of my confidence back." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay." }