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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been going out for three months, and jive really well (it's only a little creepy). He makes me so happy, when I'm not miserable. \n\nI can't wait to see him all day, and when I finally do I just get sad. Sometimes I just start crying, and he tries really hard to get me to tell him why and I just can't.\n\nHe's not a bad guy. Sure, not the most sensitive thing in the world, but he really just wants me to be happy.\n\nI know this isn't very specific, but I think I just don't know what questions to ask myself to figure it out.\n\nThis is my first serious relationship and I don't want to screw it up with my own insecurities or crazy behavior (like randomly crying, wtf? I'm not that kind of girl).\n\nI could really use your help.\n\n-\n*EDIT – More Details*\n\nI feel like I'm the only one who compromises.\n\nI hate that he never helps with \"women's work\" – laundry, cooking. He'll just complain about how he needs to get his clothes washed or how hungry he is. Even when I'm sick, he doesn't pull his weight.\n\nHe lives in my house, but he does have his own place.\n\nI have *no idea* how to ask for small behavioral changes/compromises without sounding like a total bitch.\n\nI never say no to him, which just makes me feel like a sap. He has no problems saying no to me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been going out for three months, and jive really well (it's only a little creepy). He makes me so happy, when I'm not miserable. \n\nI can't wait to see him all day, and when I finally do I just get sad. Sometimes I just start crying, and he tries really hard to get me to tell him why and I just can't.\n\nHe's not a bad guy. Sure, not the most sensitive thing in the world, but he really just wants me to be happy.\n\nI know this isn't very specific, but I think I just don't know what questions to ask myself to figure it out.\n\nThis is my first serious relationship and I don't want to screw it up with my own insecurities or crazy behavior (like randomly crying, wtf? I'm not that kind of girl).\n\nI could really use your help.\n\n-\n*EDIT – More Details*\n\nI feel like I'm the only one who compromises.\n\nI hate that he never helps with \"women's work\" – laundry, cooking. He'll just complain about how he needs to get his clothes washed or how hungry he is. Even when I'm sick, he doesn't pull his weight.\n\nHe lives in my house, but he does have his own place.\n\nI have *no idea* how to ask for small behavioral changes/compromises without sounding like a total bitch.\n\nI never say no to him, which just makes me feel like a sap. He has no problems saying no to me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been going out for three months, and jive really well (it's only a little creepy). He makes me so happy, when I'm not miserable. \n\nI can't wait to see him all day, and when I finally do I just get sad. Sometimes I just start crying, and he tries really hard to get me to tell him why and I just can't.\n\nHe's not a bad guy. Sure, not the most sensitive thing in the world, but he really just wants me to be happy.\n\nI know this isn't very specific, but I think I just don't know what questions to ask myself to figure it out.\n\nThis is my first serious relationship and I don't want to screw it up with my own insecurities or crazy behavior (like randomly crying, wtf? I'm not that kind of girl).\n\nI could really use your help.\n\n-\n*EDIT – More Details*\n\nI feel like I'm the only one who compromises.\n\nI hate that he never helps with \"women's work\" – laundry, cooking. He'll just complain about how he needs to get his clothes washed or how hungry he is. Even when I'm sick, he doesn't pull his weight.\n\nHe lives in my house, but he does have his own place.\n\nI have *no idea* how to ask for small behavioral changes/compromises without sounding like a total bitch.\n\nI never say no to him, which just makes me feel like a sap. He has no problems saying no to me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been going out for three months, and jive really well (it's only a little creepy). He makes me so happy, when I'm not miserable. \n\nI can't wait to see him all day, and when I finally do I just get sad. Sometimes I just start crying, and he tries really hard to get me to tell him why and I just can't.\n\nHe's not a bad guy. Sure, not the most sensitive thing in the world, but he really just wants me to be happy.\n\nI know this isn't very specific, but I think I just don't know what questions to ask myself to figure it out.\n\nThis is my first serious relationship and I don't want to screw it up with my own insecurities or crazy behavior (like randomly crying, wtf? I'm not that kind of girl).\n\nI could really use your help.\n\n-\n*EDIT – More Details*\n\nI feel like I'm the only one who compromises.\n\nI hate that he never helps with \"women's work\" – laundry, cooking. He'll just complain about how he needs to get his clothes washed or how hungry he is. Even when I'm sick, he doesn't pull his weight.\n\nHe lives in my house, but he does have his own place.\n\nI have *no idea* how to ask for small behavioral changes/compromises without sounding like a total bitch.\n\nI never say no to him, which just makes me feel like a sap. He has no problems saying no to me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been going out for three months, and jive really well (it's only a little creepy). He makes me so happy, when I'm not miserable. \n\nI can't wait to see him all day, and when I finally do I just get sad. Sometimes I just start crying, and he tries really hard to get me to tell him why and I just can't.\n\nHe's not a bad guy. Sure, not the most sensitive thing in the world, but he really just wants me to be happy.\n\nI know this isn't very specific, but I think I just don't know what questions to ask myself to figure it out.\n\nThis is my first serious relationship and I don't want to screw it up with my own insecurities or crazy behavior (like randomly crying, wtf? I'm not that kind of girl).\n\nI could really use your help.\n\n-\n*EDIT – More Details*\n\nI feel like I'm the only one who compromises.\n\nI hate that he never helps with \"women's work\" – laundry, cooking. He'll just complain about how he needs to get his clothes washed or how hungry he is. Even when I'm sick, he doesn't pull his weight.\n\nHe lives in my house, but he does have his own place.\n\nI have *no idea* how to ask for small behavioral changes/compromises without sounding like a total bitch.\n\nI never say no to him, which just makes me feel like a sap. He has no problems saying no to me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\n\nI am asking on behalf of my girlfriend because English is not her first language.\n\nSo basically she was asked by her best friend’s boyfriend to help him propose, we are all flying out to Sri Lanka for a holiday later this year. He wasn't coming but he wants to show up and surprise his gal and then freaking propose to her.\n\nBut here's the kicker, my girlfriend already knows that the girl is likely to refuse the proposal. Apparently she already asked her back in April \"what would you do if your boyfriend proposed to you?\" and the girl said she'd say no because she's not sure if the guy is the right man for her. \n\nMy girlfriend has no idea what to do, what should she do given this sticky situation.\n\nAdditionally I SWEAR I read something like this cropping up in a very popular /r/relationships post before but i just can't find it anywhere. Can anyone provide a link?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\n\nI am asking on behalf of my girlfriend because English is not her first language.\n\nSo basically she was asked by her best friend’s boyfriend to help him propose, we are all flying out to Sri Lanka for a holiday later this year. He wasn't coming but he wants to show up and surprise his gal and then freaking propose to her.\n\nBut here's the kicker, my girlfriend already knows that the girl is likely to refuse the proposal. Apparently she already asked her back in April \"what would you do if your boyfriend proposed to you?\" and the girl said she'd say no because she's not sure if the guy is the right man for her. \n\nMy girlfriend has no idea what to do, what should she do given this sticky situation.\n\nAdditionally I SWEAR I read something like this cropping up in a very popular /r/relationships post before but i just can't find it anywhere. Can anyone provide a link?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\n\nI am asking on behalf of my girlfriend because English is not her first language.\n\nSo basically she was asked by her best friend’s boyfriend to help him propose, we are all flying out to Sri Lanka for a holiday later this year. He wasn't coming but he wants to show up and surprise his gal and then freaking propose to her.\n\nBut here's the kicker, my girlfriend already knows that the girl is likely to refuse the proposal. Apparently she already asked her back in April \"what would you do if your boyfriend proposed to you?\" and the girl said she'd say no because she's not sure if the guy is the right man for her. \n\nMy girlfriend has no idea what to do, what should she do given this sticky situation.\n\nAdditionally I SWEAR I read something like this cropping up in a very popular /r/relationships post before but i just can't find it anywhere. Can anyone provide a link?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\n\nI am asking on behalf of my girlfriend because English is not her first language.\n\nSo basically she was asked by her best friend’s boyfriend to help him propose, we are all flying out to Sri Lanka for a holiday later this year. He wasn't coming but he wants to show up and surprise his gal and then freaking propose to her.\n\nBut here's the kicker, my girlfriend already knows that the girl is likely to refuse the proposal. Apparently she already asked her back in April \"what would you do if your boyfriend proposed to you?\" and the girl said she'd say no because she's not sure if the guy is the right man for her. \n\nMy girlfriend has no idea what to do, what should she do given this sticky situation.\n\nAdditionally I SWEAR I read something like this cropping up in a very popular /r/relationships post before but i just can't find it anywhere. Can anyone provide a link?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\n\nI am asking on behalf of my girlfriend because English is not her first language.\n\nSo basically she was asked by her best friend’s boyfriend to help him propose, we are all flying out to Sri Lanka for a holiday later this year. He wasn't coming but he wants to show up and surprise his gal and then freaking propose to her.\n\nBut here's the kicker, my girlfriend already knows that the girl is likely to refuse the proposal. Apparently she already asked her back in April \"what would you do if your boyfriend proposed to you?\" and the girl said she'd say no because she's not sure if the guy is the right man for her. \n\nMy girlfriend has no idea what to do, what should she do given this sticky situation.\n\nAdditionally I SWEAR I read something like this cropping up in a very popular /r/relationships post before but i just can't find it anywhere. Can anyone provide a link?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys,\n\nI am asking on behalf of my girlfriend because English is not her first language.\n\nSo basically she was asked by her best friend’s boyfriend to help him propose, we are all flying out to Sri Lanka for a holiday later this year. He wasn't coming but he wants to show up and surprise his gal and then freaking propose to her.\n\nBut here's the kicker, my girlfriend already knows that the girl is likely to refuse the proposal. Apparently she already asked her back in April \"what would you do if your boyfriend proposed to you?\" and the girl said she'd say no because she's not sure if the guy is the right man for her. \n\nMy girlfriend has no idea what to do, what should she do given this sticky situation.\n\nAdditionally I SWEAR I read something like this cropping up in a very popular /r/relationships post before but i just can't find it anywhere. Can anyone provide a link?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have no problem with women (or men or anyone in between) dressing as skimpily or as conservatively as they desire to. Men and women should dress however the hell they want.\n\nThese days, it is common for both men and women to dress lightly, though the skintight leggings trend hasn't taken hold of the male gender (yet). All that being said, it's only annoying to me when someone dresses so skimpily and is offended at being noticed. [No, I have not been called out or anything and no I don't stare - I'm just referring to discussions about it on the internet.]\n\nI'm not talking about long, creepy stares. That's not cool. Guys that do that should know better. But if you're wearing ass-flattering yoga pants and a see-through shirt, don't get annoyed if someone glances at you.\n\nThe same would go for guys in revealing attire. If girls quickly glance at you as you walk by, don't be offended about it.\n\nCat calls and stuff like that are totally unacceptable. I'm just talking about the nearly-impossible-to-cure glance mechanism that almost all guys are built with. We have a sixth sense for curves.\n\nI've tried walking around looking up all the time to avoid looking at people by accident, but it's exhausting.\n\nThankfully, I don't think many women are offended by casual glances. And maybe even fewer are than I think. But with the Tumblr culture spreading these days, it's hard to know what people are thinking."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have no problem with women (or men or anyone in between) dressing as skimpily or as conservatively as they desire to. Men and women should dress however the hell they want.\n\nThese days, it is common for both men and women to dress lightly, though the skintight leggings trend hasn't taken hold of the male gender (yet). All that being said, it's only annoying to me when someone dresses so skimpily and is offended at being noticed. [No, I have not been called out or anything and no I don't stare - I'm just referring to discussions about it on the internet.]\n\nI'm not talking about long, creepy stares. That's not cool. Guys that do that should know better. But if you're wearing ass-flattering yoga pants and a see-through shirt, don't get annoyed if someone glances at you.\n\nThe same would go for guys in revealing attire. If girls quickly glance at you as you walk by, don't be offended about it.\n\nCat calls and stuff like that are totally unacceptable. I'm just talking about the nearly-impossible-to-cure glance mechanism that almost all guys are built with. We have a sixth sense for curves.\n\nI've tried walking around looking up all the time to avoid looking at people by accident, but it's exhausting.\n\nThankfully, I don't think many women are offended by casual glances. And maybe even fewer are than I think. But with the Tumblr culture spreading these days, it's hard to know what people are thinking."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have no problem with women (or men or anyone in between) dressing as skimpily or as conservatively as they desire to. Men and women should dress however the hell they want.\n\nThese days, it is common for both men and women to dress lightly, though the skintight leggings trend hasn't taken hold of the male gender (yet). All that being said, it's only annoying to me when someone dresses so skimpily and is offended at being noticed. [No, I have not been called out or anything and no I don't stare - I'm just referring to discussions about it on the internet.]\n\nI'm not talking about long, creepy stares. That's not cool. Guys that do that should know better. But if you're wearing ass-flattering yoga pants and a see-through shirt, don't get annoyed if someone glances at you.\n\nThe same would go for guys in revealing attire. If girls quickly glance at you as you walk by, don't be offended about it.\n\nCat calls and stuff like that are totally unacceptable. I'm just talking about the nearly-impossible-to-cure glance mechanism that almost all guys are built with. We have a sixth sense for curves.\n\nI've tried walking around looking up all the time to avoid looking at people by accident, but it's exhausting.\n\nThankfully, I don't think many women are offended by casual glances. And maybe even fewer are than I think. But with the Tumblr culture spreading these days, it's hard to know what people are thinking."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have no problem with women (or men or anyone in between) dressing as skimpily or as conservatively as they desire to. Men and women should dress however the hell they want.\n\nThese days, it is common for both men and women to dress lightly, though the skintight leggings trend hasn't taken hold of the male gender (yet). All that being said, it's only annoying to me when someone dresses so skimpily and is offended at being noticed. [No, I have not been called out or anything and no I don't stare - I'm just referring to discussions about it on the internet.]\n\nI'm not talking about long, creepy stares. That's not cool. Guys that do that should know better. But if you're wearing ass-flattering yoga pants and a see-through shirt, don't get annoyed if someone glances at you.\n\nThe same would go for guys in revealing attire. If girls quickly glance at you as you walk by, don't be offended about it.\n\nCat calls and stuff like that are totally unacceptable. I'm just talking about the nearly-impossible-to-cure glance mechanism that almost all guys are built with. We have a sixth sense for curves.\n\nI've tried walking around looking up all the time to avoid looking at people by accident, but it's exhausting.\n\nThankfully, I don't think many women are offended by casual glances. And maybe even fewer are than I think. But with the Tumblr culture spreading these days, it's hard to know what people are thinking."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have no problem with women (or men or anyone in between) dressing as skimpily or as conservatively as they desire to. Men and women should dress however the hell they want.\n\nThese days, it is common for both men and women to dress lightly, though the skintight leggings trend hasn't taken hold of the male gender (yet). All that being said, it's only annoying to me when someone dresses so skimpily and is offended at being noticed. [No, I have not been called out or anything and no I don't stare - I'm just referring to discussions about it on the internet.]\n\nI'm not talking about long, creepy stares. That's not cool. Guys that do that should know better. But if you're wearing ass-flattering yoga pants and a see-through shirt, don't get annoyed if someone glances at you.\n\nThe same would go for guys in revealing attire. If girls quickly glance at you as you walk by, don't be offended about it.\n\nCat calls and stuff like that are totally unacceptable. I'm just talking about the nearly-impossible-to-cure glance mechanism that almost all guys are built with. We have a sixth sense for curves.\n\nI've tried walking around looking up all the time to avoid looking at people by accident, but it's exhausting.\n\nThankfully, I don't think many women are offended by casual glances. And maybe even fewer are than I think. But with the Tumblr culture spreading these days, it's hard to know what people are thinking."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have no problem with women (or men or anyone in between) dressing as skimpily or as conservatively as they desire to. Men and women should dress however the hell they want.\n\nThese days, it is common for both men and women to dress lightly, though the skintight leggings trend hasn't taken hold of the male gender (yet). All that being said, it's only annoying to me when someone dresses so skimpily and is offended at being noticed. [No, I have not been called out or anything and no I don't stare - I'm just referring to discussions about it on the internet.]\n\nI'm not talking about long, creepy stares. That's not cool. Guys that do that should know better. But if you're wearing ass-flattering yoga pants and a see-through shirt, don't get annoyed if someone glances at you.\n\nThe same would go for guys in revealing attire. If girls quickly glance at you as you walk by, don't be offended about it.\n\nCat calls and stuff like that are totally unacceptable. I'm just talking about the nearly-impossible-to-cure glance mechanism that almost all guys are built with. We have a sixth sense for curves.\n\nI've tried walking around looking up all the time to avoid looking at people by accident, but it's exhausting.\n\nThankfully, I don't think many women are offended by casual glances. And maybe even fewer are than I think. But with the Tumblr culture spreading these days, it's hard to know what people are thinking."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a confession to make: I swiped the only chair in my house from my college's throw-out pile when they got all new furniture for the common rooms. \n\nExhibit A:\n\nThis is literally the only chair in my house and it's a piece of crap, I generally use that pillow as an extra cushion but that gets bothersome after a while. Seriously, my boyfriend and I eat in bed and our guests generally sit on the floor on piles of blankets (which is actually kind of hilarious when it devolves into drunken bouts of ghost tag). I am living off student loans and don't have a whole lot of money so I've been avoiding spending the cash on a good chair. However, with the hours I spend at my desk studying I'm starting to aggravate my back problems from a car accident a few years ago. Since I am a terrible procrastinator I put off studying until the last minute and frequently find myself pulling all-nighters wherein I sit at this chair for upwards of 12+ hours at a time trying to cram as much knowledge into my brain as possible and cursing myself for NEVER. LEARNING. MY. LESSON. A lesson that has been even more difficult to learn since I've discovered reddit. Damn you hilarious, addiction-stirring, tear jerking, whistleblowing, cat loving, trolls, DAMN YOU TO SMITHEREENS. But not really. Please don't be under heavy load. *I need you.*\n\nI've been looking into buying one of those kneeling chairs since I've heard they've got a pretty ergonomic design and Lisa Simpson has one. I also like the thought of taking away my option to lean back and \"rest my eyes,\" because that generally leads to snoring which is not conducive to learning. They're pretty expensive though so I wanted to ask you guys to see if A) they're worth the money and B) they're a practical choice for someone with such devastatingly awful study habits. \n\nNote: I am only asking for chair advice, not magical reddit altruism (save that for someone who needs it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a confession to make: I swiped the only chair in my house from my college's throw-out pile when they got all new furniture for the common rooms. \n\nExhibit A:\n\nThis is literally the only chair in my house and it's a piece of crap, I generally use that pillow as an extra cushion but that gets bothersome after a while. Seriously, my boyfriend and I eat in bed and our guests generally sit on the floor on piles of blankets (which is actually kind of hilarious when it devolves into drunken bouts of ghost tag). I am living off student loans and don't have a whole lot of money so I've been avoiding spending the cash on a good chair. However, with the hours I spend at my desk studying I'm starting to aggravate my back problems from a car accident a few years ago. Since I am a terrible procrastinator I put off studying until the last minute and frequently find myself pulling all-nighters wherein I sit at this chair for upwards of 12+ hours at a time trying to cram as much knowledge into my brain as possible and cursing myself for NEVER. LEARNING. MY. LESSON. A lesson that has been even more difficult to learn since I've discovered reddit. Damn you hilarious, addiction-stirring, tear jerking, whistleblowing, cat loving, trolls, DAMN YOU TO SMITHEREENS. But not really. Please don't be under heavy load. *I need you.*\n\nI've been looking into buying one of those kneeling chairs since I've heard they've got a pretty ergonomic design and Lisa Simpson has one. I also like the thought of taking away my option to lean back and \"rest my eyes,\" because that generally leads to snoring which is not conducive to learning. They're pretty expensive though so I wanted to ask you guys to see if A) they're worth the money and B) they're a practical choice for someone with such devastatingly awful study habits. \n\nNote: I am only asking for chair advice, not magical reddit altruism (save that for someone who needs it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a confession to make: I swiped the only chair in my house from my college's throw-out pile when they got all new furniture for the common rooms. \n\nExhibit A:\n\nThis is literally the only chair in my house and it's a piece of crap, I generally use that pillow as an extra cushion but that gets bothersome after a while. Seriously, my boyfriend and I eat in bed and our guests generally sit on the floor on piles of blankets (which is actually kind of hilarious when it devolves into drunken bouts of ghost tag). I am living off student loans and don't have a whole lot of money so I've been avoiding spending the cash on a good chair. However, with the hours I spend at my desk studying I'm starting to aggravate my back problems from a car accident a few years ago. Since I am a terrible procrastinator I put off studying until the last minute and frequently find myself pulling all-nighters wherein I sit at this chair for upwards of 12+ hours at a time trying to cram as much knowledge into my brain as possible and cursing myself for NEVER. LEARNING. MY. LESSON. A lesson that has been even more difficult to learn since I've discovered reddit. Damn you hilarious, addiction-stirring, tear jerking, whistleblowing, cat loving, trolls, DAMN YOU TO SMITHEREENS. But not really. Please don't be under heavy load. *I need you.*\n\nI've been looking into buying one of those kneeling chairs since I've heard they've got a pretty ergonomic design and Lisa Simpson has one. I also like the thought of taking away my option to lean back and \"rest my eyes,\" because that generally leads to snoring which is not conducive to learning. They're pretty expensive though so I wanted to ask you guys to see if A) they're worth the money and B) they're a practical choice for someone with such devastatingly awful study habits. \n\nNote: I am only asking for chair advice, not magical reddit altruism (save that for someone who needs it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a confession to make: I swiped the only chair in my house from my college's throw-out pile when they got all new furniture for the common rooms. \n\nExhibit A:\n\nThis is literally the only chair in my house and it's a piece of crap, I generally use that pillow as an extra cushion but that gets bothersome after a while. Seriously, my boyfriend and I eat in bed and our guests generally sit on the floor on piles of blankets (which is actually kind of hilarious when it devolves into drunken bouts of ghost tag). I am living off student loans and don't have a whole lot of money so I've been avoiding spending the cash on a good chair. However, with the hours I spend at my desk studying I'm starting to aggravate my back problems from a car accident a few years ago. Since I am a terrible procrastinator I put off studying until the last minute and frequently find myself pulling all-nighters wherein I sit at this chair for upwards of 12+ hours at a time trying to cram as much knowledge into my brain as possible and cursing myself for NEVER. LEARNING. MY. LESSON. A lesson that has been even more difficult to learn since I've discovered reddit. Damn you hilarious, addiction-stirring, tear jerking, whistleblowing, cat loving, trolls, DAMN YOU TO SMITHEREENS. But not really. Please don't be under heavy load. *I need you.*\n\nI've been looking into buying one of those kneeling chairs since I've heard they've got a pretty ergonomic design and Lisa Simpson has one. I also like the thought of taking away my option to lean back and \"rest my eyes,\" because that generally leads to snoring which is not conducive to learning. They're pretty expensive though so I wanted to ask you guys to see if A) they're worth the money and B) they're a practical choice for someone with such devastatingly awful study habits. \n\nNote: I am only asking for chair advice, not magical reddit altruism (save that for someone who needs it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a confession to make: I swiped the only chair in my house from my college's throw-out pile when they got all new furniture for the common rooms. \n\nExhibit A:\n\nThis is literally the only chair in my house and it's a piece of crap, I generally use that pillow as an extra cushion but that gets bothersome after a while. Seriously, my boyfriend and I eat in bed and our guests generally sit on the floor on piles of blankets (which is actually kind of hilarious when it devolves into drunken bouts of ghost tag). I am living off student loans and don't have a whole lot of money so I've been avoiding spending the cash on a good chair. However, with the hours I spend at my desk studying I'm starting to aggravate my back problems from a car accident a few years ago. Since I am a terrible procrastinator I put off studying until the last minute and frequently find myself pulling all-nighters wherein I sit at this chair for upwards of 12+ hours at a time trying to cram as much knowledge into my brain as possible and cursing myself for NEVER. LEARNING. MY. LESSON. A lesson that has been even more difficult to learn since I've discovered reddit. Damn you hilarious, addiction-stirring, tear jerking, whistleblowing, cat loving, trolls, DAMN YOU TO SMITHEREENS. But not really. Please don't be under heavy load. *I need you.*\n\nI've been looking into buying one of those kneeling chairs since I've heard they've got a pretty ergonomic design and Lisa Simpson has one. I also like the thought of taking away my option to lean back and \"rest my eyes,\" because that generally leads to snoring which is not conducive to learning. They're pretty expensive though so I wanted to ask you guys to see if A) they're worth the money and B) they're a practical choice for someone with such devastatingly awful study habits. \n\nNote: I am only asking for chair advice, not magical reddit altruism (save that for someone who needs it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a confession to make: I swiped the only chair in my house from my college's throw-out pile when they got all new furniture for the common rooms. \n\nExhibit A:\n\nThis is literally the only chair in my house and it's a piece of crap, I generally use that pillow as an extra cushion but that gets bothersome after a while. Seriously, my boyfriend and I eat in bed and our guests generally sit on the floor on piles of blankets (which is actually kind of hilarious when it devolves into drunken bouts of ghost tag). I am living off student loans and don't have a whole lot of money so I've been avoiding spending the cash on a good chair. However, with the hours I spend at my desk studying I'm starting to aggravate my back problems from a car accident a few years ago. Since I am a terrible procrastinator I put off studying until the last minute and frequently find myself pulling all-nighters wherein I sit at this chair for upwards of 12+ hours at a time trying to cram as much knowledge into my brain as possible and cursing myself for NEVER. LEARNING. MY. LESSON. A lesson that has been even more difficult to learn since I've discovered reddit. Damn you hilarious, addiction-stirring, tear jerking, whistleblowing, cat loving, trolls, DAMN YOU TO SMITHEREENS. But not really. Please don't be under heavy load. *I need you.*\n\nI've been looking into buying one of those kneeling chairs since I've heard they've got a pretty ergonomic design and Lisa Simpson has one. I also like the thought of taking away my option to lean back and \"rest my eyes,\" because that generally leads to snoring which is not conducive to learning. They're pretty expensive though so I wanted to ask you guys to see if A) they're worth the money and B) they're a practical choice for someone with such devastatingly awful study habits. \n\nNote: I am only asking for chair advice, not magical reddit altruism (save that for someone who needs it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel like I'm dealing with one of those complex emotional situations that seem SUPER obvious to someone who's uninvolved, and could use an outside opinion. It's always tricky, but I'll try to keep this as succinct as I can, and truly appreciate your time/responses. Thank you!\n\n*Background:* I'm a 21 year old guy. My girlfriend and I broke up in January. She's a gorgeous blonde, and I'm a computer nerd. but we hit it off and were absolutely in love. We dated for 2 1/2 years, my longest relationship by a mile. Left on very good terms, with the option of dating again in the future wide open. We're just both in our early 20's, and didn't want to mess it up. we felt married. We still love one-another, and very sporadically keep in touch. She's an extremely attractive girl, and managed to find a new guy pretty quickly. He's gorgeous, and she's pretty happy. I've had other partners since we split, but haven't dated.\n\n*The Situation:* A mutual friend is throwing a huge party this Saturday. It should be a good time. There will be drinks, LOTS of pretty girls, and I'd really like to go. But my ex is attending. with her new squeeze. Sometimes, I feel like if I saw them together it'd be really hard for me, and that attending would be a terrible idea. Other times, I feel like I'd be able to shake his hand, meet the guy, be polite and nice, and act like it's no biggie. Plus there will be girls to meet, and I haven't been looking very hard since we split.\n\n*The Question/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel like I'm dealing with one of those complex emotional situations that seem SUPER obvious to someone who's uninvolved, and could use an outside opinion. It's always tricky, but I'll try to keep this as succinct as I can, and truly appreciate your time/responses. Thank you!\n\n*Background:* I'm a 21 year old guy. My girlfriend and I broke up in January. She's a gorgeous blonde, and I'm a computer nerd. but we hit it off and were absolutely in love. We dated for 2 1/2 years, my longest relationship by a mile. Left on very good terms, with the option of dating again in the future wide open. We're just both in our early 20's, and didn't want to mess it up. we felt married. We still love one-another, and very sporadically keep in touch. She's an extremely attractive girl, and managed to find a new guy pretty quickly. He's gorgeous, and she's pretty happy. I've had other partners since we split, but haven't dated.\n\n*The Situation:* A mutual friend is throwing a huge party this Saturday. It should be a good time. There will be drinks, LOTS of pretty girls, and I'd really like to go. But my ex is attending. with her new squeeze. Sometimes, I feel like if I saw them together it'd be really hard for me, and that attending would be a terrible idea. Other times, I feel like I'd be able to shake his hand, meet the guy, be polite and nice, and act like it's no biggie. Plus there will be girls to meet, and I haven't been looking very hard since we split.\n\n*The Question/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel like I'm dealing with one of those complex emotional situations that seem SUPER obvious to someone who's uninvolved, and could use an outside opinion. It's always tricky, but I'll try to keep this as succinct as I can, and truly appreciate your time/responses. Thank you!\n\n*Background:* I'm a 21 year old guy. My girlfriend and I broke up in January. She's a gorgeous blonde, and I'm a computer nerd. but we hit it off and were absolutely in love. We dated for 2 1/2 years, my longest relationship by a mile. Left on very good terms, with the option of dating again in the future wide open. We're just both in our early 20's, and didn't want to mess it up. we felt married. We still love one-another, and very sporadically keep in touch. She's an extremely attractive girl, and managed to find a new guy pretty quickly. He's gorgeous, and she's pretty happy. I've had other partners since we split, but haven't dated.\n\n*The Situation:* A mutual friend is throwing a huge party this Saturday. It should be a good time. There will be drinks, LOTS of pretty girls, and I'd really like to go. But my ex is attending. with her new squeeze. Sometimes, I feel like if I saw them together it'd be really hard for me, and that attending would be a terrible idea. Other times, I feel like I'd be able to shake his hand, meet the guy, be polite and nice, and act like it's no biggie. Plus there will be girls to meet, and I haven't been looking very hard since we split.\n\n*The Question/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel like I'm dealing with one of those complex emotional situations that seem SUPER obvious to someone who's uninvolved, and could use an outside opinion. It's always tricky, but I'll try to keep this as succinct as I can, and truly appreciate your time/responses. Thank you!\n\n*Background:* I'm a 21 year old guy. My girlfriend and I broke up in January. She's a gorgeous blonde, and I'm a computer nerd. but we hit it off and were absolutely in love. We dated for 2 1/2 years, my longest relationship by a mile. Left on very good terms, with the option of dating again in the future wide open. We're just both in our early 20's, and didn't want to mess it up. we felt married. We still love one-another, and very sporadically keep in touch. She's an extremely attractive girl, and managed to find a new guy pretty quickly. He's gorgeous, and she's pretty happy. I've had other partners since we split, but haven't dated.\n\n*The Situation:* A mutual friend is throwing a huge party this Saturday. It should be a good time. There will be drinks, LOTS of pretty girls, and I'd really like to go. But my ex is attending. with her new squeeze. Sometimes, I feel like if I saw them together it'd be really hard for me, and that attending would be a terrible idea. Other times, I feel like I'd be able to shake his hand, meet the guy, be polite and nice, and act like it's no biggie. Plus there will be girls to meet, and I haven't been looking very hard since we split.\n\n*The Question/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel like I'm dealing with one of those complex emotional situations that seem SUPER obvious to someone who's uninvolved, and could use an outside opinion. It's always tricky, but I'll try to keep this as succinct as I can, and truly appreciate your time/responses. Thank you!\n\n*Background:* I'm a 21 year old guy. My girlfriend and I broke up in January. She's a gorgeous blonde, and I'm a computer nerd. but we hit it off and were absolutely in love. We dated for 2 1/2 years, my longest relationship by a mile. Left on very good terms, with the option of dating again in the future wide open. We're just both in our early 20's, and didn't want to mess it up. we felt married. We still love one-another, and very sporadically keep in touch. She's an extremely attractive girl, and managed to find a new guy pretty quickly. He's gorgeous, and she's pretty happy. I've had other partners since we split, but haven't dated.\n\n*The Situation:* A mutual friend is throwing a huge party this Saturday. It should be a good time. There will be drinks, LOTS of pretty girls, and I'd really like to go. But my ex is attending. with her new squeeze. Sometimes, I feel like if I saw them together it'd be really hard for me, and that attending would be a terrible idea. Other times, I feel like I'd be able to shake his hand, meet the guy, be polite and nice, and act like it's no biggie. Plus there will be girls to meet, and I haven't been looking very hard since we split.\n\n*The Question/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel like I'm dealing with one of those complex emotional situations that seem SUPER obvious to someone who's uninvolved, and could use an outside opinion. It's always tricky, but I'll try to keep this as succinct as I can, and truly appreciate your time/responses. Thank you!\n\n*Background:* I'm a 21 year old guy. My girlfriend and I broke up in January. She's a gorgeous blonde, and I'm a computer nerd. but we hit it off and were absolutely in love. We dated for 2 1/2 years, my longest relationship by a mile. Left on very good terms, with the option of dating again in the future wide open. We're just both in our early 20's, and didn't want to mess it up. we felt married. We still love one-another, and very sporadically keep in touch. She's an extremely attractive girl, and managed to find a new guy pretty quickly. He's gorgeous, and she's pretty happy. I've had other partners since we split, but haven't dated.\n\n*The Situation:* A mutual friend is throwing a huge party this Saturday. It should be a good time. There will be drinks, LOTS of pretty girls, and I'd really like to go. But my ex is attending. with her new squeeze. Sometimes, I feel like if I saw them together it'd be really hard for me, and that attending would be a terrible idea. Other times, I feel like I'd be able to shake his hand, meet the guy, be polite and nice, and act like it's no biggie. Plus there will be girls to meet, and I haven't been looking very hard since we split.\n\n*The Question/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company in the DC area. The company has multiple contracts in the area. I like my company but not my contract/job - for a variety of reasons but mostly because management is not the best.\n\nI applied to another job with the same company but with a different contract in a different area of DC. The job I am in now is my first job out of college and I've only been there 7 months. \n\nI did a phone interview with the recruiter and he asked why I wanted to switch to a new contract so soon. I told him things like \"I want a more team/people oriented job\" and \"I'll be wrapping up the project I was hired to do\" (which are both very true). I of course left out the major part which was that management at my contract is terribly unorganized.\n\nLater that same day, my boss came down to my office and asked a lot of questions - \"how are you?\" \"do you like your job?\" and said things like \"I want to get a couple people down here to form a team to help you\" and \"I have some exciting new projects for you when you are done with this one.\" Basically addressing everything I told the recruiter.\n\nSo I'm pretty sure the hiring manager at the other contract told him they received an application from me.\n\nI won't lie if he directly asks me if I applied to another job but I'm not going to bring it up independently either.\n\nHowever, I'm kind of worried he might purposely ruin my chances of getting the job at the other contract. He has a lot of friends there involved in the hiring process and if he were to tell them he really needs me to stay they would probably go with what he wants. Clearly they told him pretty quickly (within 2 hours of receiving my resume) that I applied.\n\nI realize there is not much I can do but do you have any advice for me in this scenario?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company in the DC area. The company has multiple contracts in the area. I like my company but not my contract/job - for a variety of reasons but mostly because management is not the best.\n\nI applied to another job with the same company but with a different contract in a different area of DC. The job I am in now is my first job out of college and I've only been there 7 months. \n\nI did a phone interview with the recruiter and he asked why I wanted to switch to a new contract so soon. I told him things like \"I want a more team/people oriented job\" and \"I'll be wrapping up the project I was hired to do\" (which are both very true). I of course left out the major part which was that management at my contract is terribly unorganized.\n\nLater that same day, my boss came down to my office and asked a lot of questions - \"how are you?\" \"do you like your job?\" and said things like \"I want to get a couple people down here to form a team to help you\" and \"I have some exciting new projects for you when you are done with this one.\" Basically addressing everything I told the recruiter.\n\nSo I'm pretty sure the hiring manager at the other contract told him they received an application from me.\n\nI won't lie if he directly asks me if I applied to another job but I'm not going to bring it up independently either.\n\nHowever, I'm kind of worried he might purposely ruin my chances of getting the job at the other contract. He has a lot of friends there involved in the hiring process and if he were to tell them he really needs me to stay they would probably go with what he wants. Clearly they told him pretty quickly (within 2 hours of receiving my resume) that I applied.\n\nI realize there is not much I can do but do you have any advice for me in this scenario?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company in the DC area. The company has multiple contracts in the area. I like my company but not my contract/job - for a variety of reasons but mostly because management is not the best.\n\nI applied to another job with the same company but with a different contract in a different area of DC. The job I am in now is my first job out of college and I've only been there 7 months. \n\nI did a phone interview with the recruiter and he asked why I wanted to switch to a new contract so soon. I told him things like \"I want a more team/people oriented job\" and \"I'll be wrapping up the project I was hired to do\" (which are both very true). I of course left out the major part which was that management at my contract is terribly unorganized.\n\nLater that same day, my boss came down to my office and asked a lot of questions - \"how are you?\" \"do you like your job?\" and said things like \"I want to get a couple people down here to form a team to help you\" and \"I have some exciting new projects for you when you are done with this one.\" Basically addressing everything I told the recruiter.\n\nSo I'm pretty sure the hiring manager at the other contract told him they received an application from me.\n\nI won't lie if he directly asks me if I applied to another job but I'm not going to bring it up independently either.\n\nHowever, I'm kind of worried he might purposely ruin my chances of getting the job at the other contract. He has a lot of friends there involved in the hiring process and if he were to tell them he really needs me to stay they would probably go with what he wants. Clearly they told him pretty quickly (within 2 hours of receiving my resume) that I applied.\n\nI realize there is not much I can do but do you have any advice for me in this scenario?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company in the DC area. The company has multiple contracts in the area. I like my company but not my contract/job - for a variety of reasons but mostly because management is not the best.\n\nI applied to another job with the same company but with a different contract in a different area of DC. The job I am in now is my first job out of college and I've only been there 7 months. \n\nI did a phone interview with the recruiter and he asked why I wanted to switch to a new contract so soon. I told him things like \"I want a more team/people oriented job\" and \"I'll be wrapping up the project I was hired to do\" (which are both very true). I of course left out the major part which was that management at my contract is terribly unorganized.\n\nLater that same day, my boss came down to my office and asked a lot of questions - \"how are you?\" \"do you like your job?\" and said things like \"I want to get a couple people down here to form a team to help you\" and \"I have some exciting new projects for you when you are done with this one.\" Basically addressing everything I told the recruiter.\n\nSo I'm pretty sure the hiring manager at the other contract told him they received an application from me.\n\nI won't lie if he directly asks me if I applied to another job but I'm not going to bring it up independently either.\n\nHowever, I'm kind of worried he might purposely ruin my chances of getting the job at the other contract. He has a lot of friends there involved in the hiring process and if he were to tell them he really needs me to stay they would probably go with what he wants. Clearly they told him pretty quickly (within 2 hours of receiving my resume) that I applied.\n\nI realize there is not much I can do but do you have any advice for me in this scenario?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company in the DC area. The company has multiple contracts in the area. I like my company but not my contract/job - for a variety of reasons but mostly because management is not the best.\n\nI applied to another job with the same company but with a different contract in a different area of DC. The job I am in now is my first job out of college and I've only been there 7 months. \n\nI did a phone interview with the recruiter and he asked why I wanted to switch to a new contract so soon. I told him things like \"I want a more team/people oriented job\" and \"I'll be wrapping up the project I was hired to do\" (which are both very true). I of course left out the major part which was that management at my contract is terribly unorganized.\n\nLater that same day, my boss came down to my office and asked a lot of questions - \"how are you?\" \"do you like your job?\" and said things like \"I want to get a couple people down here to form a team to help you\" and \"I have some exciting new projects for you when you are done with this one.\" Basically addressing everything I told the recruiter.\n\nSo I'm pretty sure the hiring manager at the other contract told him they received an application from me.\n\nI won't lie if he directly asks me if I applied to another job but I'm not going to bring it up independently either.\n\nHowever, I'm kind of worried he might purposely ruin my chances of getting the job at the other contract. He has a lot of friends there involved in the hiring process and if he were to tell them he really needs me to stay they would probably go with what he wants. Clearly they told him pretty quickly (within 2 hours of receiving my resume) that I applied.\n\nI realize there is not much I can do but do you have any advice for me in this scenario?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company in the DC area. The company has multiple contracts in the area. I like my company but not my contract/job - for a variety of reasons but mostly because management is not the best.\n\nI applied to another job with the same company but with a different contract in a different area of DC. The job I am in now is my first job out of college and I've only been there 7 months. \n\nI did a phone interview with the recruiter and he asked why I wanted to switch to a new contract so soon. I told him things like \"I want a more team/people oriented job\" and \"I'll be wrapping up the project I was hired to do\" (which are both very true). I of course left out the major part which was that management at my contract is terribly unorganized.\n\nLater that same day, my boss came down to my office and asked a lot of questions - \"how are you?\" \"do you like your job?\" and said things like \"I want to get a couple people down here to form a team to help you\" and \"I have some exciting new projects for you when you are done with this one.\" Basically addressing everything I told the recruiter.\n\nSo I'm pretty sure the hiring manager at the other contract told him they received an application from me.\n\nI won't lie if he directly asks me if I applied to another job but I'm not going to bring it up independently either.\n\nHowever, I'm kind of worried he might purposely ruin my chances of getting the job at the other contract. He has a lot of friends there involved in the hiring process and if he were to tell them he really needs me to stay they would probably go with what he wants. Clearly they told him pretty quickly (within 2 hours of receiving my resume) that I applied.\n\nI realize there is not much I can do but do you have any advice for me in this scenario?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got to known this girl, Annie during my exchange in Spain. She had a boyfriend back in her home country and they had just started their relationship 2 months prior to the exchange.\n\nAnyway, we started to hang out alot and eventually she started to stay over at my place almost every week. One night, we finally had sex even though i knew she had a boyfriend. I felt really bad but i kept justifying to myself that it was her boyfriend's fault for neglecting her. We only ever had sex once.\n\nFast forward to present, where we had parted ways, she is coming to my country to visit me but i cant stop feeling that i had done a very very terrible thing. we still keep in constant contact after the exchange. Right now, the guilt is killing me and i had promised to show her around when she comes over. I know i have done a really really terrible thing by cheating with a girl who has a boyfriend. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got to known this girl, Annie during my exchange in Spain. She had a boyfriend back in her home country and they had just started their relationship 2 months prior to the exchange.\n\nAnyway, we started to hang out alot and eventually she started to stay over at my place almost every week. One night, we finally had sex even though i knew she had a boyfriend. I felt really bad but i kept justifying to myself that it was her boyfriend's fault for neglecting her. We only ever had sex once.\n\nFast forward to present, where we had parted ways, she is coming to my country to visit me but i cant stop feeling that i had done a very very terrible thing. we still keep in constant contact after the exchange. Right now, the guilt is killing me and i had promised to show her around when she comes over. I know i have done a really really terrible thing by cheating with a girl who has a boyfriend. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got to known this girl, Annie during my exchange in Spain. She had a boyfriend back in her home country and they had just started their relationship 2 months prior to the exchange.\n\nAnyway, we started to hang out alot and eventually she started to stay over at my place almost every week. One night, we finally had sex even though i knew she had a boyfriend. I felt really bad but i kept justifying to myself that it was her boyfriend's fault for neglecting her. We only ever had sex once.\n\nFast forward to present, where we had parted ways, she is coming to my country to visit me but i cant stop feeling that i had done a very very terrible thing. we still keep in constant contact after the exchange. Right now, the guilt is killing me and i had promised to show her around when she comes over. I know i have done a really really terrible thing by cheating with a girl who has a boyfriend. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got to known this girl, Annie during my exchange in Spain. She had a boyfriend back in her home country and they had just started their relationship 2 months prior to the exchange.\n\nAnyway, we started to hang out alot and eventually she started to stay over at my place almost every week. One night, we finally had sex even though i knew she had a boyfriend. I felt really bad but i kept justifying to myself that it was her boyfriend's fault for neglecting her. We only ever had sex once.\n\nFast forward to present, where we had parted ways, she is coming to my country to visit me but i cant stop feeling that i had done a very very terrible thing. we still keep in constant contact after the exchange. Right now, the guilt is killing me and i had promised to show her around when she comes over. I know i have done a really really terrible thing by cheating with a girl who has a boyfriend. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got to known this girl, Annie during my exchange in Spain. She had a boyfriend back in her home country and they had just started their relationship 2 months prior to the exchange.\n\nAnyway, we started to hang out alot and eventually she started to stay over at my place almost every week. One night, we finally had sex even though i knew she had a boyfriend. I felt really bad but i kept justifying to myself that it was her boyfriend's fault for neglecting her. We only ever had sex once.\n\nFast forward to present, where we had parted ways, she is coming to my country to visit me but i cant stop feeling that i had done a very very terrible thing. we still keep in constant contact after the exchange. Right now, the guilt is killing me and i had promised to show her around when she comes over. I know i have done a really really terrible thing by cheating with a girl who has a boyfriend. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got to known this girl, Annie during my exchange in Spain. She had a boyfriend back in her home country and they had just started their relationship 2 months prior to the exchange.\n\nAnyway, we started to hang out alot and eventually she started to stay over at my place almost every week. One night, we finally had sex even though i knew she had a boyfriend. I felt really bad but i kept justifying to myself that it was her boyfriend's fault for neglecting her. We only ever had sex once.\n\nFast forward to present, where we had parted ways, she is coming to my country to visit me but i cant stop feeling that i had done a very very terrible thing. we still keep in constant contact after the exchange. Right now, the guilt is killing me and i had promised to show her around when she comes over. I know i have done a really really terrible thing by cheating with a girl who has a boyfriend. What should i do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, we've been together 10 years. Since I was 17 and he was 16. Basically, I just don't get why he won't ask me to marry him. Even if we're engaged for a long time, I don't mind. I just want to be able to say he's my fiance. I think that the term boyfriend if just too small a word after 10 years don't you? Am I wrong? We've had fights about this and he says he'd definitely want to marry me but first I need to grow up a little. I can explain, I am still kind of immature at a lot of things. I can't cook, I barely do our laundry (his mom does it mostly, but I do it at times too), in my defense, I work and she doesn't so I don't find it *that* big of a deal. Is it? I still haven't committed myself to school 100%, I've failed a few classes (currently retaking them). Are all these things deal breakers? I want to better myself but, again, it's for the childish reason of getting him to propose and then what if, after being the \"perfect housewife\", he doesn't propose? I hate this way of thinking. \n\nI hate the obsession people have on weddings. The amount of peer pressure I get makes me ask this stupid question. I just wish people would mind their own business. So what if we're not married? WHAT IS THE BIG FUCKING DEAL? I would like to ask that to myself as well. I honestly don't even feel like I'm ready to get married for the same reasons he probably won't ask me to marry him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, we've been together 10 years. Since I was 17 and he was 16. Basically, I just don't get why he won't ask me to marry him. Even if we're engaged for a long time, I don't mind. I just want to be able to say he's my fiance. I think that the term boyfriend if just too small a word after 10 years don't you? Am I wrong? We've had fights about this and he says he'd definitely want to marry me but first I need to grow up a little. I can explain, I am still kind of immature at a lot of things. I can't cook, I barely do our laundry (his mom does it mostly, but I do it at times too), in my defense, I work and she doesn't so I don't find it *that* big of a deal. Is it? I still haven't committed myself to school 100%, I've failed a few classes (currently retaking them). Are all these things deal breakers? I want to better myself but, again, it's for the childish reason of getting him to propose and then what if, after being the \"perfect housewife\", he doesn't propose? I hate this way of thinking. \n\nI hate the obsession people have on weddings. The amount of peer pressure I get makes me ask this stupid question. I just wish people would mind their own business. So what if we're not married? WHAT IS THE BIG FUCKING DEAL? I would like to ask that to myself as well. I honestly don't even feel like I'm ready to get married for the same reasons he probably won't ask me to marry him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, we've been together 10 years. Since I was 17 and he was 16. Basically, I just don't get why he won't ask me to marry him. Even if we're engaged for a long time, I don't mind. I just want to be able to say he's my fiance. I think that the term boyfriend if just too small a word after 10 years don't you? Am I wrong? We've had fights about this and he says he'd definitely want to marry me but first I need to grow up a little. I can explain, I am still kind of immature at a lot of things. I can't cook, I barely do our laundry (his mom does it mostly, but I do it at times too), in my defense, I work and she doesn't so I don't find it *that* big of a deal. Is it? I still haven't committed myself to school 100%, I've failed a few classes (currently retaking them). Are all these things deal breakers? I want to better myself but, again, it's for the childish reason of getting him to propose and then what if, after being the \"perfect housewife\", he doesn't propose? I hate this way of thinking. \n\nI hate the obsession people have on weddings. The amount of peer pressure I get makes me ask this stupid question. I just wish people would mind their own business. So what if we're not married? WHAT IS THE BIG FUCKING DEAL? I would like to ask that to myself as well. I honestly don't even feel like I'm ready to get married for the same reasons he probably won't ask me to marry him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, we've been together 10 years. Since I was 17 and he was 16. Basically, I just don't get why he won't ask me to marry him. Even if we're engaged for a long time, I don't mind. I just want to be able to say he's my fiance. I think that the term boyfriend if just too small a word after 10 years don't you? Am I wrong? We've had fights about this and he says he'd definitely want to marry me but first I need to grow up a little. I can explain, I am still kind of immature at a lot of things. I can't cook, I barely do our laundry (his mom does it mostly, but I do it at times too), in my defense, I work and she doesn't so I don't find it *that* big of a deal. Is it? I still haven't committed myself to school 100%, I've failed a few classes (currently retaking them). Are all these things deal breakers? I want to better myself but, again, it's for the childish reason of getting him to propose and then what if, after being the \"perfect housewife\", he doesn't propose? I hate this way of thinking. \n\nI hate the obsession people have on weddings. The amount of peer pressure I get makes me ask this stupid question. I just wish people would mind their own business. So what if we're not married? WHAT IS THE BIG FUCKING DEAL? I would like to ask that to myself as well. I honestly don't even feel like I'm ready to get married for the same reasons he probably won't ask me to marry him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, we've been together 10 years. Since I was 17 and he was 16. Basically, I just don't get why he won't ask me to marry him. Even if we're engaged for a long time, I don't mind. I just want to be able to say he's my fiance. I think that the term boyfriend if just too small a word after 10 years don't you? Am I wrong? We've had fights about this and he says he'd definitely want to marry me but first I need to grow up a little. I can explain, I am still kind of immature at a lot of things. I can't cook, I barely do our laundry (his mom does it mostly, but I do it at times too), in my defense, I work and she doesn't so I don't find it *that* big of a deal. Is it? I still haven't committed myself to school 100%, I've failed a few classes (currently retaking them). Are all these things deal breakers? I want to better myself but, again, it's for the childish reason of getting him to propose and then what if, after being the \"perfect housewife\", he doesn't propose? I hate this way of thinking. \n\nI hate the obsession people have on weddings. The amount of peer pressure I get makes me ask this stupid question. I just wish people would mind their own business. So what if we're not married? WHAT IS THE BIG FUCKING DEAL? I would like to ask that to myself as well. I honestly don't even feel like I'm ready to get married for the same reasons he probably won't ask me to marry him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, we've been together 10 years. Since I was 17 and he was 16. Basically, I just don't get why he won't ask me to marry him. Even if we're engaged for a long time, I don't mind. I just want to be able to say he's my fiance. I think that the term boyfriend if just too small a word after 10 years don't you? Am I wrong? We've had fights about this and he says he'd definitely want to marry me but first I need to grow up a little. I can explain, I am still kind of immature at a lot of things. I can't cook, I barely do our laundry (his mom does it mostly, but I do it at times too), in my defense, I work and she doesn't so I don't find it *that* big of a deal. Is it? I still haven't committed myself to school 100%, I've failed a few classes (currently retaking them). Are all these things deal breakers? I want to better myself but, again, it's for the childish reason of getting him to propose and then what if, after being the \"perfect housewife\", he doesn't propose? I hate this way of thinking. \n\nI hate the obsession people have on weddings. The amount of peer pressure I get makes me ask this stupid question. I just wish people would mind their own business. So what if we're not married? WHAT IS THE BIG FUCKING DEAL? I would like to ask that to myself as well. I honestly don't even feel like I'm ready to get married for the same reasons he probably won't ask me to marry him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a little over a year I [19m] have my first female friend [18] who I could not imagine having a relationship with. Neither does she, I think.\nShe has quite a lot of male friends and doesn't like her own gender too much (She does have a few female friends.). She is still hetero and recently broke up with her ex boyfriend.\nAnother male friend of mine [19] is quite popular with the girls and can flirt with any girl he likes (I am rather shy.). He kinos her very often and that makes me feel sad, as I'd like to have that attention, too. I don't want her to like him more than me. I know that's weird and wrong but I can't do anything about it. \nIs it because I don't have any other female friends and neither much success with girls? What can I do to change it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a little over a year I [19m] have my first female friend [18] who I could not imagine having a relationship with. Neither does she, I think.\nShe has quite a lot of male friends and doesn't like her own gender too much (She does have a few female friends.). She is still hetero and recently broke up with her ex boyfriend.\nAnother male friend of mine [19] is quite popular with the girls and can flirt with any girl he likes (I am rather shy.). He kinos her very often and that makes me feel sad, as I'd like to have that attention, too. I don't want her to like him more than me. I know that's weird and wrong but I can't do anything about it. \nIs it because I don't have any other female friends and neither much success with girls? What can I do to change it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a little over a year I [19m] have my first female friend [18] who I could not imagine having a relationship with. Neither does she, I think.\nShe has quite a lot of male friends and doesn't like her own gender too much (She does have a few female friends.). She is still hetero and recently broke up with her ex boyfriend.\nAnother male friend of mine [19] is quite popular with the girls and can flirt with any girl he likes (I am rather shy.). He kinos her very often and that makes me feel sad, as I'd like to have that attention, too. I don't want her to like him more than me. I know that's weird and wrong but I can't do anything about it. \nIs it because I don't have any other female friends and neither much success with girls? What can I do to change it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a little over a year I [19m] have my first female friend [18] who I could not imagine having a relationship with. Neither does she, I think.\nShe has quite a lot of male friends and doesn't like her own gender too much (She does have a few female friends.). She is still hetero and recently broke up with her ex boyfriend.\nAnother male friend of mine [19] is quite popular with the girls and can flirt with any girl he likes (I am rather shy.). He kinos her very often and that makes me feel sad, as I'd like to have that attention, too. I don't want her to like him more than me. I know that's weird and wrong but I can't do anything about it. \nIs it because I don't have any other female friends and neither much success with girls? What can I do to change it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a little over a year I [19m] have my first female friend [18] who I could not imagine having a relationship with. Neither does she, I think.\nShe has quite a lot of male friends and doesn't like her own gender too much (She does have a few female friends.). She is still hetero and recently broke up with her ex boyfriend.\nAnother male friend of mine [19] is quite popular with the girls and can flirt with any girl he likes (I am rather shy.). He kinos her very often and that makes me feel sad, as I'd like to have that attention, too. I don't want her to like him more than me. I know that's weird and wrong but I can't do anything about it. \nIs it because I don't have any other female friends and neither much success with girls? What can I do to change it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a little over a year I [19m] have my first female friend [18] who I could not imagine having a relationship with. Neither does she, I think.\nShe has quite a lot of male friends and doesn't like her own gender too much (She does have a few female friends.). She is still hetero and recently broke up with her ex boyfriend.\nAnother male friend of mine [19] is quite popular with the girls and can flirt with any girl he likes (I am rather shy.). He kinos her very often and that makes me feel sad, as I'd like to have that attention, too. I don't want her to like him more than me. I know that's weird and wrong but I can't do anything about it. \nIs it because I don't have any other female friends and neither much success with girls? What can I do to change it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, I am opening an irrevocable trust for a permanently physically disabled family member. The beneficiary will be living off of this trust for the rest of her life. She is now 30 years old and expects to live into old age. The amount of principal will be $3-4 million. I hope to provide her a sum of $75,000 or more annually to be paid out in monthly increments ($6250 per month). The operating fee for the trust will be approximately 0.7% per year.\n\nI need help on coming up with a financial plan to fit her needs. The number one priority is not to drain the principal. Number 2 is to meet her annual spending needs. Does anyone have experience in overseeing a similar trust? Please help me create a solid investment plan that meets these needs.\n\nEdit: I will be seeing a professional financial planner, but I would like to get as many opinions as possible.\n\nEdit 2: I have lawyers working on the trust documents. I am most concerned with what to do with the money once it is in the trust. Also would like to hear opinions on a larger withdrawal rate of 6% and how that would impact an investment plan."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, I am opening an irrevocable trust for a permanently physically disabled family member. The beneficiary will be living off of this trust for the rest of her life. She is now 30 years old and expects to live into old age. The amount of principal will be $3-4 million. I hope to provide her a sum of $75,000 or more annually to be paid out in monthly increments ($6250 per month). The operating fee for the trust will be approximately 0.7% per year.\n\nI need help on coming up with a financial plan to fit her needs. The number one priority is not to drain the principal. Number 2 is to meet her annual spending needs. Does anyone have experience in overseeing a similar trust? Please help me create a solid investment plan that meets these needs.\n\nEdit: I will be seeing a professional financial planner, but I would like to get as many opinions as possible.\n\nEdit 2: I have lawyers working on the trust documents. I am most concerned with what to do with the money once it is in the trust. Also would like to hear opinions on a larger withdrawal rate of 6% and how that would impact an investment plan."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, I am opening an irrevocable trust for a permanently physically disabled family member. The beneficiary will be living off of this trust for the rest of her life. She is now 30 years old and expects to live into old age. The amount of principal will be $3-4 million. I hope to provide her a sum of $75,000 or more annually to be paid out in monthly increments ($6250 per month). The operating fee for the trust will be approximately 0.7% per year.\n\nI need help on coming up with a financial plan to fit her needs. The number one priority is not to drain the principal. Number 2 is to meet her annual spending needs. Does anyone have experience in overseeing a similar trust? Please help me create a solid investment plan that meets these needs.\n\nEdit: I will be seeing a professional financial planner, but I would like to get as many opinions as possible.\n\nEdit 2: I have lawyers working on the trust documents. I am most concerned with what to do with the money once it is in the trust. Also would like to hear opinions on a larger withdrawal rate of 6% and how that would impact an investment plan."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, I am opening an irrevocable trust for a permanently physically disabled family member. The beneficiary will be living off of this trust for the rest of her life. She is now 30 years old and expects to live into old age. The amount of principal will be $3-4 million. I hope to provide her a sum of $75,000 or more annually to be paid out in monthly increments ($6250 per month). The operating fee for the trust will be approximately 0.7% per year.\n\nI need help on coming up with a financial plan to fit her needs. The number one priority is not to drain the principal. Number 2 is to meet her annual spending needs. Does anyone have experience in overseeing a similar trust? Please help me create a solid investment plan that meets these needs.\n\nEdit: I will be seeing a professional financial planner, but I would like to get as many opinions as possible.\n\nEdit 2: I have lawyers working on the trust documents. I am most concerned with what to do with the money once it is in the trust. Also would like to hear opinions on a larger withdrawal rate of 6% and how that would impact an investment plan."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, I am opening an irrevocable trust for a permanently physically disabled family member. The beneficiary will be living off of this trust for the rest of her life. She is now 30 years old and expects to live into old age. The amount of principal will be $3-4 million. I hope to provide her a sum of $75,000 or more annually to be paid out in monthly increments ($6250 per month). The operating fee for the trust will be approximately 0.7% per year.\n\nI need help on coming up with a financial plan to fit her needs. The number one priority is not to drain the principal. Number 2 is to meet her annual spending needs. Does anyone have experience in overseeing a similar trust? Please help me create a solid investment plan that meets these needs.\n\nEdit: I will be seeing a professional financial planner, but I would like to get as many opinions as possible.\n\nEdit 2: I have lawyers working on the trust documents. I am most concerned with what to do with the money once it is in the trust. Also would like to hear opinions on a larger withdrawal rate of 6% and how that would impact an investment plan."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone, I am opening an irrevocable trust for a permanently physically disabled family member. The beneficiary will be living off of this trust for the rest of her life. She is now 30 years old and expects to live into old age. The amount of principal will be $3-4 million. I hope to provide her a sum of $75,000 or more annually to be paid out in monthly increments ($6250 per month). The operating fee for the trust will be approximately 0.7% per year.\n\nI need help on coming up with a financial plan to fit her needs. The number one priority is not to drain the principal. Number 2 is to meet her annual spending needs. Does anyone have experience in overseeing a similar trust? Please help me create a solid investment plan that meets these needs.\n\nEdit: I will be seeing a professional financial planner, but I would like to get as many opinions as possible.\n\nEdit 2: I have lawyers working on the trust documents. I am most concerned with what to do with the money once it is in the trust. Also would like to hear opinions on a larger withdrawal rate of 6% and how that would impact an investment plan."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been setting the trends in my schools and town for some time now, and personally these \"hipsters\" that move in to the fashion territory are literally destroying the fabric of our creativity. If you're a trend starter you know, what you wear or do becomes popular, whether it be intended or not. And these hipsters just steal our style and flash it off like they're king, when it's really US to thank for the new style. So my question to you is: how do you feel about the hipster invasion, and also how you feel about them slowly dying out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been setting the trends in my schools and town for some time now, and personally these \"hipsters\" that move in to the fashion territory are literally destroying the fabric of our creativity. If you're a trend starter you know, what you wear or do becomes popular, whether it be intended or not. And these hipsters just steal our style and flash it off like they're king, when it's really US to thank for the new style. So my question to you is: how do you feel about the hipster invasion, and also how you feel about them slowly dying out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been setting the trends in my schools and town for some time now, and personally these \"hipsters\" that move in to the fashion territory are literally destroying the fabric of our creativity. If you're a trend starter you know, what you wear or do becomes popular, whether it be intended or not. And these hipsters just steal our style and flash it off like they're king, when it's really US to thank for the new style. So my question to you is: how do you feel about the hipster invasion, and also how you feel about them slowly dying out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been setting the trends in my schools and town for some time now, and personally these \"hipsters\" that move in to the fashion territory are literally destroying the fabric of our creativity. If you're a trend starter you know, what you wear or do becomes popular, whether it be intended or not. And these hipsters just steal our style and flash it off like they're king, when it's really US to thank for the new style. So my question to you is: how do you feel about the hipster invasion, and also how you feel about them slowly dying out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been setting the trends in my schools and town for some time now, and personally these \"hipsters\" that move in to the fashion territory are literally destroying the fabric of our creativity. If you're a trend starter you know, what you wear or do becomes popular, whether it be intended or not. And these hipsters just steal our style and flash it off like they're king, when it's really US to thank for the new style. So my question to you is: how do you feel about the hipster invasion, and also how you feel about them slowly dying out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been setting the trends in my schools and town for some time now, and personally these \"hipsters\" that move in to the fashion territory are literally destroying the fabric of our creativity. If you're a trend starter you know, what you wear or do becomes popular, whether it be intended or not. And these hipsters just steal our style and flash it off like they're king, when it's really US to thank for the new style. So my question to you is: how do you feel about the hipster invasion, and also how you feel about them slowly dying out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So several weeks ago, I started talking to this new friend at school and we connected very well. I kinda really like her (I think she knows this, or at least, possibly suspects it), but she has a boyfriend who goes to another school a few hours away. Never met him, and I don't know anything much about him. He isn't brought up much. I don't have any intentions in interfering with their relationship, my first priority is friendship, if say they broke up, then yes, I'd probably try and pursue her. (Just wanted to make my intentions clear to you all.)\n\nSo now I'm trying to walk this fine line between spending time with a friend who I happen to like, while also respecting their relationship and not rustle any feathers. \n\nBut it is tough because she is often very touch-feely with me (rests head on shoulder, rubs my back/shoulder, runs her fingers through my hair, touching my arm, and other intentional touching.) I don't do anything when she does this, I just sit back and enjoy it. But is this normal behavior for somebody you've only know for maybe a couple of weeks? I'd always considered this stuff \"flirty\" but maybe she's just really friendly? One mutual acquaintance of ours even once thought we were dating the way we were sitting together (we were sitting really close and her head was in my shoulder).\n\nAnyways, we've hung out quite a bit during the school year, we've kept in touch over the summer, and already have some plans to hang out with each other over the school year (some of those plans involving us being one on one), with a lot of this initiated by her, but sometimes by me.\n\nAll of this is getting me kinda confused. I like this girl, and I like spending time with her, but I really like our friendship, and I don't want to scare her off with her thinking I'm trying to win her over or something or interfere with her relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So several weeks ago, I started talking to this new friend at school and we connected very well. I kinda really like her (I think she knows this, or at least, possibly suspects it), but she has a boyfriend who goes to another school a few hours away. Never met him, and I don't know anything much about him. He isn't brought up much. I don't have any intentions in interfering with their relationship, my first priority is friendship, if say they broke up, then yes, I'd probably try and pursue her. (Just wanted to make my intentions clear to you all.)\n\nSo now I'm trying to walk this fine line between spending time with a friend who I happen to like, while also respecting their relationship and not rustle any feathers. \n\nBut it is tough because she is often very touch-feely with me (rests head on shoulder, rubs my back/shoulder, runs her fingers through my hair, touching my arm, and other intentional touching.) I don't do anything when she does this, I just sit back and enjoy it. But is this normal behavior for somebody you've only know for maybe a couple of weeks? I'd always considered this stuff \"flirty\" but maybe she's just really friendly? One mutual acquaintance of ours even once thought we were dating the way we were sitting together (we were sitting really close and her head was in my shoulder).\n\nAnyways, we've hung out quite a bit during the school year, we've kept in touch over the summer, and already have some plans to hang out with each other over the school year (some of those plans involving us being one on one), with a lot of this initiated by her, but sometimes by me.\n\nAll of this is getting me kinda confused. I like this girl, and I like spending time with her, but I really like our friendship, and I don't want to scare her off with her thinking I'm trying to win her over or something or interfere with her relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So several weeks ago, I started talking to this new friend at school and we connected very well. I kinda really like her (I think she knows this, or at least, possibly suspects it), but she has a boyfriend who goes to another school a few hours away. Never met him, and I don't know anything much about him. He isn't brought up much. I don't have any intentions in interfering with their relationship, my first priority is friendship, if say they broke up, then yes, I'd probably try and pursue her. (Just wanted to make my intentions clear to you all.)\n\nSo now I'm trying to walk this fine line between spending time with a friend who I happen to like, while also respecting their relationship and not rustle any feathers. \n\nBut it is tough because she is often very touch-feely with me (rests head on shoulder, rubs my back/shoulder, runs her fingers through my hair, touching my arm, and other intentional touching.) I don't do anything when she does this, I just sit back and enjoy it. But is this normal behavior for somebody you've only know for maybe a couple of weeks? I'd always considered this stuff \"flirty\" but maybe she's just really friendly? One mutual acquaintance of ours even once thought we were dating the way we were sitting together (we were sitting really close and her head was in my shoulder).\n\nAnyways, we've hung out quite a bit during the school year, we've kept in touch over the summer, and already have some plans to hang out with each other over the school year (some of those plans involving us being one on one), with a lot of this initiated by her, but sometimes by me.\n\nAll of this is getting me kinda confused. I like this girl, and I like spending time with her, but I really like our friendship, and I don't want to scare her off with her thinking I'm trying to win her over or something or interfere with her relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So several weeks ago, I started talking to this new friend at school and we connected very well. I kinda really like her (I think she knows this, or at least, possibly suspects it), but she has a boyfriend who goes to another school a few hours away. Never met him, and I don't know anything much about him. He isn't brought up much. I don't have any intentions in interfering with their relationship, my first priority is friendship, if say they broke up, then yes, I'd probably try and pursue her. (Just wanted to make my intentions clear to you all.)\n\nSo now I'm trying to walk this fine line between spending time with a friend who I happen to like, while also respecting their relationship and not rustle any feathers. \n\nBut it is tough because she is often very touch-feely with me (rests head on shoulder, rubs my back/shoulder, runs her fingers through my hair, touching my arm, and other intentional touching.) I don't do anything when she does this, I just sit back and enjoy it. But is this normal behavior for somebody you've only know for maybe a couple of weeks? I'd always considered this stuff \"flirty\" but maybe she's just really friendly? One mutual acquaintance of ours even once thought we were dating the way we were sitting together (we were sitting really close and her head was in my shoulder).\n\nAnyways, we've hung out quite a bit during the school year, we've kept in touch over the summer, and already have some plans to hang out with each other over the school year (some of those plans involving us being one on one), with a lot of this initiated by her, but sometimes by me.\n\nAll of this is getting me kinda confused. I like this girl, and I like spending time with her, but I really like our friendship, and I don't want to scare her off with her thinking I'm trying to win her over or something or interfere with her relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So several weeks ago, I started talking to this new friend at school and we connected very well. I kinda really like her (I think she knows this, or at least, possibly suspects it), but she has a boyfriend who goes to another school a few hours away. Never met him, and I don't know anything much about him. He isn't brought up much. I don't have any intentions in interfering with their relationship, my first priority is friendship, if say they broke up, then yes, I'd probably try and pursue her. (Just wanted to make my intentions clear to you all.)\n\nSo now I'm trying to walk this fine line between spending time with a friend who I happen to like, while also respecting their relationship and not rustle any feathers. \n\nBut it is tough because she is often very touch-feely with me (rests head on shoulder, rubs my back/shoulder, runs her fingers through my hair, touching my arm, and other intentional touching.) I don't do anything when she does this, I just sit back and enjoy it. But is this normal behavior for somebody you've only know for maybe a couple of weeks? I'd always considered this stuff \"flirty\" but maybe she's just really friendly? One mutual acquaintance of ours even once thought we were dating the way we were sitting together (we were sitting really close and her head was in my shoulder).\n\nAnyways, we've hung out quite a bit during the school year, we've kept in touch over the summer, and already have some plans to hang out with each other over the school year (some of those plans involving us being one on one), with a lot of this initiated by her, but sometimes by me.\n\nAll of this is getting me kinda confused. I like this girl, and I like spending time with her, but I really like our friendship, and I don't want to scare her off with her thinking I'm trying to win her over or something or interfere with her relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So several weeks ago, I started talking to this new friend at school and we connected very well. I kinda really like her (I think she knows this, or at least, possibly suspects it), but she has a boyfriend who goes to another school a few hours away. Never met him, and I don't know anything much about him. He isn't brought up much. I don't have any intentions in interfering with their relationship, my first priority is friendship, if say they broke up, then yes, I'd probably try and pursue her. (Just wanted to make my intentions clear to you all.)\n\nSo now I'm trying to walk this fine line between spending time with a friend who I happen to like, while also respecting their relationship and not rustle any feathers. \n\nBut it is tough because she is often very touch-feely with me (rests head on shoulder, rubs my back/shoulder, runs her fingers through my hair, touching my arm, and other intentional touching.) I don't do anything when she does this, I just sit back and enjoy it. But is this normal behavior for somebody you've only know for maybe a couple of weeks? I'd always considered this stuff \"flirty\" but maybe she's just really friendly? One mutual acquaintance of ours even once thought we were dating the way we were sitting together (we were sitting really close and her head was in my shoulder).\n\nAnyways, we've hung out quite a bit during the school year, we've kept in touch over the summer, and already have some plans to hang out with each other over the school year (some of those plans involving us being one on one), with a lot of this initiated by her, but sometimes by me.\n\nAll of this is getting me kinda confused. I like this girl, and I like spending time with her, but I really like our friendship, and I don't want to scare her off with her thinking I'm trying to win her over or something or interfere with her relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. The first 6 months we got to spend together, then I had to move away for work 3 months ago. She isn't able to move to me because of her job. We won't be able to see each other for 6 months to a year over the next two years.\n\nI want to break up with her, but I feel I have no real legitimate reason. The only reason is because I'm in another country and I want to spend my last bachelor years living a bachelor life. There's no cheating involved and nobody's really done anything to hurt the other person.\n\nThis sucks because she feels that I'm \"the one.\" I feel horrible because I don't feel the same way about her. To be honest, she's my first real girlfriend. I don't even know what real love's supposed to feel like. She absolutely loves me and would do nothing to hurt me. She even told me a secret of bad experience that had happened to her, thinking I was the one who can help her move on and forget about it. Her whole life she feels she's been around people who don't want her, and she thought I would be different.\n\nIs it inconsiderate of me to end it because I feel like I don't love her as much as she loves me? Should I end this so I can stop leading her on? Or should I suck it up and try to find the love she has for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. The first 6 months we got to spend together, then I had to move away for work 3 months ago. She isn't able to move to me because of her job. We won't be able to see each other for 6 months to a year over the next two years.\n\nI want to break up with her, but I feel I have no real legitimate reason. The only reason is because I'm in another country and I want to spend my last bachelor years living a bachelor life. There's no cheating involved and nobody's really done anything to hurt the other person.\n\nThis sucks because she feels that I'm \"the one.\" I feel horrible because I don't feel the same way about her. To be honest, she's my first real girlfriend. I don't even know what real love's supposed to feel like. She absolutely loves me and would do nothing to hurt me. She even told me a secret of bad experience that had happened to her, thinking I was the one who can help her move on and forget about it. Her whole life she feels she's been around people who don't want her, and she thought I would be different.\n\nIs it inconsiderate of me to end it because I feel like I don't love her as much as she loves me? Should I end this so I can stop leading her on? Or should I suck it up and try to find the love she has for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. The first 6 months we got to spend together, then I had to move away for work 3 months ago. She isn't able to move to me because of her job. We won't be able to see each other for 6 months to a year over the next two years.\n\nI want to break up with her, but I feel I have no real legitimate reason. The only reason is because I'm in another country and I want to spend my last bachelor years living a bachelor life. There's no cheating involved and nobody's really done anything to hurt the other person.\n\nThis sucks because she feels that I'm \"the one.\" I feel horrible because I don't feel the same way about her. To be honest, she's my first real girlfriend. I don't even know what real love's supposed to feel like. She absolutely loves me and would do nothing to hurt me. She even told me a secret of bad experience that had happened to her, thinking I was the one who can help her move on and forget about it. Her whole life she feels she's been around people who don't want her, and she thought I would be different.\n\nIs it inconsiderate of me to end it because I feel like I don't love her as much as she loves me? Should I end this so I can stop leading her on? Or should I suck it up and try to find the love she has for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. The first 6 months we got to spend together, then I had to move away for work 3 months ago. She isn't able to move to me because of her job. We won't be able to see each other for 6 months to a year over the next two years.\n\nI want to break up with her, but I feel I have no real legitimate reason. The only reason is because I'm in another country and I want to spend my last bachelor years living a bachelor life. There's no cheating involved and nobody's really done anything to hurt the other person.\n\nThis sucks because she feels that I'm \"the one.\" I feel horrible because I don't feel the same way about her. To be honest, she's my first real girlfriend. I don't even know what real love's supposed to feel like. She absolutely loves me and would do nothing to hurt me. She even told me a secret of bad experience that had happened to her, thinking I was the one who can help her move on and forget about it. Her whole life she feels she's been around people who don't want her, and she thought I would be different.\n\nIs it inconsiderate of me to end it because I feel like I don't love her as much as she loves me? Should I end this so I can stop leading her on? Or should I suck it up and try to find the love she has for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. The first 6 months we got to spend together, then I had to move away for work 3 months ago. She isn't able to move to me because of her job. We won't be able to see each other for 6 months to a year over the next two years.\n\nI want to break up with her, but I feel I have no real legitimate reason. The only reason is because I'm in another country and I want to spend my last bachelor years living a bachelor life. There's no cheating involved and nobody's really done anything to hurt the other person.\n\nThis sucks because she feels that I'm \"the one.\" I feel horrible because I don't feel the same way about her. To be honest, she's my first real girlfriend. I don't even know what real love's supposed to feel like. She absolutely loves me and would do nothing to hurt me. She even told me a secret of bad experience that had happened to her, thinking I was the one who can help her move on and forget about it. Her whole life she feels she's been around people who don't want her, and she thought I would be different.\n\nIs it inconsiderate of me to end it because I feel like I don't love her as much as she loves me? Should I end this so I can stop leading her on? Or should I suck it up and try to find the love she has for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. The first 6 months we got to spend together, then I had to move away for work 3 months ago. She isn't able to move to me because of her job. We won't be able to see each other for 6 months to a year over the next two years.\n\nI want to break up with her, but I feel I have no real legitimate reason. The only reason is because I'm in another country and I want to spend my last bachelor years living a bachelor life. There's no cheating involved and nobody's really done anything to hurt the other person.\n\nThis sucks because she feels that I'm \"the one.\" I feel horrible because I don't feel the same way about her. To be honest, she's my first real girlfriend. I don't even know what real love's supposed to feel like. She absolutely loves me and would do nothing to hurt me. She even told me a secret of bad experience that had happened to her, thinking I was the one who can help her move on and forget about it. Her whole life she feels she's been around people who don't want her, and she thought I would be different.\n\nIs it inconsiderate of me to end it because I feel like I don't love her as much as she loves me? Should I end this so I can stop leading her on? Or should I suck it up and try to find the love she has for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my Day 1 post.\n\nBack in 2009 I an 18yr old who was 230lbs 5'10. In the course of a year I lost 60lbs and went down to 170lbs. I was fit, active, and was on track to lean down just like I was when I was a kid and a teenager. Started college and my studies took a toll on my fitness, then came relationships, and ultimately laziness.\n\nI'm now 24 yrs old at 185lbs. Even though it's only 15lbs from my leanest weight as an adult, it actually makes a HUGE difference. I lack muscle and have that stubborn fat that makes me feel \"jiggly.\" \n\nWell, today is ENOUGH! And I will get back on track and start running again, start lifting again, and start eating much more healthier. I graduate in a couple months and I want to LOOK and FEEL my best since it will be the greatest day of my life - and start my young professional life.\n\nI will be using this as my motivational post, to keep me on track and regain that eye of the tiger I once had."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my Day 1 post.\n\nBack in 2009 I an 18yr old who was 230lbs 5'10. In the course of a year I lost 60lbs and went down to 170lbs. I was fit, active, and was on track to lean down just like I was when I was a kid and a teenager. Started college and my studies took a toll on my fitness, then came relationships, and ultimately laziness.\n\nI'm now 24 yrs old at 185lbs. Even though it's only 15lbs from my leanest weight as an adult, it actually makes a HUGE difference. I lack muscle and have that stubborn fat that makes me feel \"jiggly.\" \n\nWell, today is ENOUGH! And I will get back on track and start running again, start lifting again, and start eating much more healthier. I graduate in a couple months and I want to LOOK and FEEL my best since it will be the greatest day of my life - and start my young professional life.\n\nI will be using this as my motivational post, to keep me on track and regain that eye of the tiger I once had."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my Day 1 post.\n\nBack in 2009 I an 18yr old who was 230lbs 5'10. In the course of a year I lost 60lbs and went down to 170lbs. I was fit, active, and was on track to lean down just like I was when I was a kid and a teenager. Started college and my studies took a toll on my fitness, then came relationships, and ultimately laziness.\n\nI'm now 24 yrs old at 185lbs. Even though it's only 15lbs from my leanest weight as an adult, it actually makes a HUGE difference. I lack muscle and have that stubborn fat that makes me feel \"jiggly.\" \n\nWell, today is ENOUGH! And I will get back on track and start running again, start lifting again, and start eating much more healthier. I graduate in a couple months and I want to LOOK and FEEL my best since it will be the greatest day of my life - and start my young professional life.\n\nI will be using this as my motivational post, to keep me on track and regain that eye of the tiger I once had."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my Day 1 post.\n\nBack in 2009 I an 18yr old who was 230lbs 5'10. In the course of a year I lost 60lbs and went down to 170lbs. I was fit, active, and was on track to lean down just like I was when I was a kid and a teenager. Started college and my studies took a toll on my fitness, then came relationships, and ultimately laziness.\n\nI'm now 24 yrs old at 185lbs. Even though it's only 15lbs from my leanest weight as an adult, it actually makes a HUGE difference. I lack muscle and have that stubborn fat that makes me feel \"jiggly.\" \n\nWell, today is ENOUGH! And I will get back on track and start running again, start lifting again, and start eating much more healthier. I graduate in a couple months and I want to LOOK and FEEL my best since it will be the greatest day of my life - and start my young professional life.\n\nI will be using this as my motivational post, to keep me on track and regain that eye of the tiger I once had."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my Day 1 post.\n\nBack in 2009 I an 18yr old who was 230lbs 5'10. In the course of a year I lost 60lbs and went down to 170lbs. I was fit, active, and was on track to lean down just like I was when I was a kid and a teenager. Started college and my studies took a toll on my fitness, then came relationships, and ultimately laziness.\n\nI'm now 24 yrs old at 185lbs. Even though it's only 15lbs from my leanest weight as an adult, it actually makes a HUGE difference. I lack muscle and have that stubborn fat that makes me feel \"jiggly.\" \n\nWell, today is ENOUGH! And I will get back on track and start running again, start lifting again, and start eating much more healthier. I graduate in a couple months and I want to LOOK and FEEL my best since it will be the greatest day of my life - and start my young professional life.\n\nI will be using this as my motivational post, to keep me on track and regain that eye of the tiger I once had."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my Day 1 post.\n\nBack in 2009 I an 18yr old who was 230lbs 5'10. In the course of a year I lost 60lbs and went down to 170lbs. I was fit, active, and was on track to lean down just like I was when I was a kid and a teenager. Started college and my studies took a toll on my fitness, then came relationships, and ultimately laziness.\n\nI'm now 24 yrs old at 185lbs. Even though it's only 15lbs from my leanest weight as an adult, it actually makes a HUGE difference. I lack muscle and have that stubborn fat that makes me feel \"jiggly.\" \n\nWell, today is ENOUGH! And I will get back on track and start running again, start lifting again, and start eating much more healthier. I graduate in a couple months and I want to LOOK and FEEL my best since it will be the greatest day of my life - and start my young professional life.\n\nI will be using this as my motivational post, to keep me on track and regain that eye of the tiger I once had."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all\n\nI'm not really sure what to do right now, this is obviously a throwaway as my fiance nows what my reddit account is. We've been going out for almost 9 years now and got engaged last year.\n\nI'm not sure exactly what to feel, I think my fiance has been very stressed out at work and need to find a way to cope with the stress and I am still unsure why he decided to turn to smoking. He only just started and he thought he could hide it. but it's pretty hard to hide that smell and it's obvious.\n\nSmoking is one of my deal breakers and I really don't know what to do. I told him that I didn't want to and if he wanted we could find other ways to cope with the stress. I really don't want him to get addicted. \n\nI've told him how I feel about it and I'm not sure what to do if this keeps going. We're planning on getting married next year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all\n\nI'm not really sure what to do right now, this is obviously a throwaway as my fiance nows what my reddit account is. We've been going out for almost 9 years now and got engaged last year.\n\nI'm not sure exactly what to feel, I think my fiance has been very stressed out at work and need to find a way to cope with the stress and I am still unsure why he decided to turn to smoking. He only just started and he thought he could hide it. but it's pretty hard to hide that smell and it's obvious.\n\nSmoking is one of my deal breakers and I really don't know what to do. I told him that I didn't want to and if he wanted we could find other ways to cope with the stress. I really don't want him to get addicted. \n\nI've told him how I feel about it and I'm not sure what to do if this keeps going. We're planning on getting married next year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all\n\nI'm not really sure what to do right now, this is obviously a throwaway as my fiance nows what my reddit account is. We've been going out for almost 9 years now and got engaged last year.\n\nI'm not sure exactly what to feel, I think my fiance has been very stressed out at work and need to find a way to cope with the stress and I am still unsure why he decided to turn to smoking. He only just started and he thought he could hide it. but it's pretty hard to hide that smell and it's obvious.\n\nSmoking is one of my deal breakers and I really don't know what to do. I told him that I didn't want to and if he wanted we could find other ways to cope with the stress. I really don't want him to get addicted. \n\nI've told him how I feel about it and I'm not sure what to do if this keeps going. We're planning on getting married next year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all\n\nI'm not really sure what to do right now, this is obviously a throwaway as my fiance nows what my reddit account is. We've been going out for almost 9 years now and got engaged last year.\n\nI'm not sure exactly what to feel, I think my fiance has been very stressed out at work and need to find a way to cope with the stress and I am still unsure why he decided to turn to smoking. He only just started and he thought he could hide it. but it's pretty hard to hide that smell and it's obvious.\n\nSmoking is one of my deal breakers and I really don't know what to do. I told him that I didn't want to and if he wanted we could find other ways to cope with the stress. I really don't want him to get addicted. \n\nI've told him how I feel about it and I'm not sure what to do if this keeps going. We're planning on getting married next year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all\n\nI'm not really sure what to do right now, this is obviously a throwaway as my fiance nows what my reddit account is. We've been going out for almost 9 years now and got engaged last year.\n\nI'm not sure exactly what to feel, I think my fiance has been very stressed out at work and need to find a way to cope with the stress and I am still unsure why he decided to turn to smoking. He only just started and he thought he could hide it. but it's pretty hard to hide that smell and it's obvious.\n\nSmoking is one of my deal breakers and I really don't know what to do. I told him that I didn't want to and if he wanted we could find other ways to cope with the stress. I really don't want him to get addicted. \n\nI've told him how I feel about it and I'm not sure what to do if this keeps going. We're planning on getting married next year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all\n\nI'm not really sure what to do right now, this is obviously a throwaway as my fiance nows what my reddit account is. We've been going out for almost 9 years now and got engaged last year.\n\nI'm not sure exactly what to feel, I think my fiance has been very stressed out at work and need to find a way to cope with the stress and I am still unsure why he decided to turn to smoking. He only just started and he thought he could hide it. but it's pretty hard to hide that smell and it's obvious.\n\nSmoking is one of my deal breakers and I really don't know what to do. I told him that I didn't want to and if he wanted we could find other ways to cope with the stress. I really don't want him to get addicted. \n\nI've told him how I feel about it and I'm not sure what to do if this keeps going. We're planning on getting married next year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so we got this puppy about 5 months ago. And he's generally a pleasure, he hasn't progressed quite as fast as I'd like training wise but he's not doing too badly considering the limited time we've actually put into his training. The thing is he whines an aweful lot. It's cute sometimes but it's getting rather tiresome other times. \n\nFor example he has a squeekey toy that is basically a ball with a tail on it made of rubber. And he whines at it for more or less no reason. Or if we are getting ready to take him out he starts whining, if he sees another dog while we are out he will whine, if he's within sniffing distance he will keep whining until hes let off the leash to play like in someones backyard, he whines sometimes when we play with him, he whines when he wants attention, he whines when he wants to go outside to potty that one I'm ok with. \n\nAnd he whines at lots of other things. He's very vocal, and while I prefer whining to barking, I'd rather he only whine to go outside. I'm really not sure what to do about it though I've been praising him when hes quite and doing those things and occasionally treating. But I feel the behavior is getting worse not better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so we got this puppy about 5 months ago. And he's generally a pleasure, he hasn't progressed quite as fast as I'd like training wise but he's not doing too badly considering the limited time we've actually put into his training. The thing is he whines an aweful lot. It's cute sometimes but it's getting rather tiresome other times. \n\nFor example he has a squeekey toy that is basically a ball with a tail on it made of rubber. And he whines at it for more or less no reason. Or if we are getting ready to take him out he starts whining, if he sees another dog while we are out he will whine, if he's within sniffing distance he will keep whining until hes let off the leash to play like in someones backyard, he whines sometimes when we play with him, he whines when he wants attention, he whines when he wants to go outside to potty that one I'm ok with. \n\nAnd he whines at lots of other things. He's very vocal, and while I prefer whining to barking, I'd rather he only whine to go outside. I'm really not sure what to do about it though I've been praising him when hes quite and doing those things and occasionally treating. But I feel the behavior is getting worse not better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so we got this puppy about 5 months ago. And he's generally a pleasure, he hasn't progressed quite as fast as I'd like training wise but he's not doing too badly considering the limited time we've actually put into his training. The thing is he whines an aweful lot. It's cute sometimes but it's getting rather tiresome other times. \n\nFor example he has a squeekey toy that is basically a ball with a tail on it made of rubber. And he whines at it for more or less no reason. Or if we are getting ready to take him out he starts whining, if he sees another dog while we are out he will whine, if he's within sniffing distance he will keep whining until hes let off the leash to play like in someones backyard, he whines sometimes when we play with him, he whines when he wants attention, he whines when he wants to go outside to potty that one I'm ok with. \n\nAnd he whines at lots of other things. He's very vocal, and while I prefer whining to barking, I'd rather he only whine to go outside. I'm really not sure what to do about it though I've been praising him when hes quite and doing those things and occasionally treating. But I feel the behavior is getting worse not better."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating sophomore year and are seniors in high school currently, so we almost make two years, however she's been a close friend for four years, so she is an extremely important part of my life. I was admitted to Texas A&M university, with no problem since I've always been studious. She really wanted to go to the same school, but couldn't get in due to not meeting requirements. She made it very clear that she was not following me and genuinely wanted to go to a&m. She has been planning on going to a community college close to my university because it would be easy to transfer, but has recently changed her plans to go to Texas tech, which is hours away. \n\nI am extremely happy for her in every way, but I'm also terrified. I thought she was going to be five minutes away from me, but now she will be hours away. Partying is an inevitability in college, and I want her to be able to let loose, but I would worry constantly. To begin with, she is practically defenseless sober, but if she's drinking she's a sitting duck for whoever wants her.\n\nAnother thing is problems with me. I'm controlling, I'll admit it, but I'm getting better with it. I'll get mad when she's talking to a new male friend, or wanting to hang out with others. Some people I've talked to have called me untrusting and insecure. First, I know with all my heart she would never be unfaithful. Second, I'm the most confident I've been in my life. I know I'm attractive, physically and personality wise, so I don't know how I could have insecurities. \n\nBasically I need help overcoming irrational fears, controllingness, and how to handle a long distance relationship. I do not want to lose this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating sophomore year and are seniors in high school currently, so we almost make two years, however she's been a close friend for four years, so she is an extremely important part of my life. I was admitted to Texas A&M university, with no problem since I've always been studious. She really wanted to go to the same school, but couldn't get in due to not meeting requirements. She made it very clear that she was not following me and genuinely wanted to go to a&m. She has been planning on going to a community college close to my university because it would be easy to transfer, but has recently changed her plans to go to Texas tech, which is hours away. \n\nI am extremely happy for her in every way, but I'm also terrified. I thought she was going to be five minutes away from me, but now she will be hours away. Partying is an inevitability in college, and I want her to be able to let loose, but I would worry constantly. To begin with, she is practically defenseless sober, but if she's drinking she's a sitting duck for whoever wants her.\n\nAnother thing is problems with me. I'm controlling, I'll admit it, but I'm getting better with it. I'll get mad when she's talking to a new male friend, or wanting to hang out with others. Some people I've talked to have called me untrusting and insecure. First, I know with all my heart she would never be unfaithful. Second, I'm the most confident I've been in my life. I know I'm attractive, physically and personality wise, so I don't know how I could have insecurities. \n\nBasically I need help overcoming irrational fears, controllingness, and how to handle a long distance relationship. I do not want to lose this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating sophomore year and are seniors in high school currently, so we almost make two years, however she's been a close friend for four years, so she is an extremely important part of my life. I was admitted to Texas A&M university, with no problem since I've always been studious. She really wanted to go to the same school, but couldn't get in due to not meeting requirements. She made it very clear that she was not following me and genuinely wanted to go to a&m. She has been planning on going to a community college close to my university because it would be easy to transfer, but has recently changed her plans to go to Texas tech, which is hours away. \n\nI am extremely happy for her in every way, but I'm also terrified. I thought she was going to be five minutes away from me, but now she will be hours away. Partying is an inevitability in college, and I want her to be able to let loose, but I would worry constantly. To begin with, she is practically defenseless sober, but if she's drinking she's a sitting duck for whoever wants her.\n\nAnother thing is problems with me. I'm controlling, I'll admit it, but I'm getting better with it. I'll get mad when she's talking to a new male friend, or wanting to hang out with others. Some people I've talked to have called me untrusting and insecure. First, I know with all my heart she would never be unfaithful. Second, I'm the most confident I've been in my life. I know I'm attractive, physically and personality wise, so I don't know how I could have insecurities. \n\nBasically I need help overcoming irrational fears, controllingness, and how to handle a long distance relationship. I do not want to lose this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating sophomore year and are seniors in high school currently, so we almost make two years, however she's been a close friend for four years, so she is an extremely important part of my life. I was admitted to Texas A&M university, with no problem since I've always been studious. She really wanted to go to the same school, but couldn't get in due to not meeting requirements. She made it very clear that she was not following me and genuinely wanted to go to a&m. She has been planning on going to a community college close to my university because it would be easy to transfer, but has recently changed her plans to go to Texas tech, which is hours away. \n\nI am extremely happy for her in every way, but I'm also terrified. I thought she was going to be five minutes away from me, but now she will be hours away. Partying is an inevitability in college, and I want her to be able to let loose, but I would worry constantly. To begin with, she is practically defenseless sober, but if she's drinking she's a sitting duck for whoever wants her.\n\nAnother thing is problems with me. I'm controlling, I'll admit it, but I'm getting better with it. I'll get mad when she's talking to a new male friend, or wanting to hang out with others. Some people I've talked to have called me untrusting and insecure. First, I know with all my heart she would never be unfaithful. Second, I'm the most confident I've been in my life. I know I'm attractive, physically and personality wise, so I don't know how I could have insecurities. \n\nBasically I need help overcoming irrational fears, controllingness, and how to handle a long distance relationship. I do not want to lose this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating sophomore year and are seniors in high school currently, so we almost make two years, however she's been a close friend for four years, so she is an extremely important part of my life. I was admitted to Texas A&M university, with no problem since I've always been studious. She really wanted to go to the same school, but couldn't get in due to not meeting requirements. She made it very clear that she was not following me and genuinely wanted to go to a&m. She has been planning on going to a community college close to my university because it would be easy to transfer, but has recently changed her plans to go to Texas tech, which is hours away. \n\nI am extremely happy for her in every way, but I'm also terrified. I thought she was going to be five minutes away from me, but now she will be hours away. Partying is an inevitability in college, and I want her to be able to let loose, but I would worry constantly. To begin with, she is practically defenseless sober, but if she's drinking she's a sitting duck for whoever wants her.\n\nAnother thing is problems with me. I'm controlling, I'll admit it, but I'm getting better with it. I'll get mad when she's talking to a new male friend, or wanting to hang out with others. Some people I've talked to have called me untrusting and insecure. First, I know with all my heart she would never be unfaithful. Second, I'm the most confident I've been in my life. I know I'm attractive, physically and personality wise, so I don't know how I could have insecurities. \n\nBasically I need help overcoming irrational fears, controllingness, and how to handle a long distance relationship. I do not want to lose this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating sophomore year and are seniors in high school currently, so we almost make two years, however she's been a close friend for four years, so she is an extremely important part of my life. I was admitted to Texas A&M university, with no problem since I've always been studious. She really wanted to go to the same school, but couldn't get in due to not meeting requirements. She made it very clear that she was not following me and genuinely wanted to go to a&m. She has been planning on going to a community college close to my university because it would be easy to transfer, but has recently changed her plans to go to Texas tech, which is hours away. \n\nI am extremely happy for her in every way, but I'm also terrified. I thought she was going to be five minutes away from me, but now she will be hours away. Partying is an inevitability in college, and I want her to be able to let loose, but I would worry constantly. To begin with, she is practically defenseless sober, but if she's drinking she's a sitting duck for whoever wants her.\n\nAnother thing is problems with me. I'm controlling, I'll admit it, but I'm getting better with it. I'll get mad when she's talking to a new male friend, or wanting to hang out with others. Some people I've talked to have called me untrusting and insecure. First, I know with all my heart she would never be unfaithful. Second, I'm the most confident I've been in my life. I know I'm attractive, physically and personality wise, so I don't know how I could have insecurities. \n\nBasically I need help overcoming irrational fears, controllingness, and how to handle a long distance relationship. I do not want to lose this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a year since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up. We were together for a bit less than a year and a half, but we were close friends for a few years before that. She was my first love (I'd had previous relationships but this was the first serious one, and the first one where I actually believed I loved her. We spent loads of time together and I went all out for her, dates, gifts, riding my bike 7 miles to see one of her volleyball tournaments, and the like. After 6 months we slept together, we were both virgins. It was a very amazing relationship. We had our ups and downs, but after we broke up it was a terrible experience for both of us. I felt like she was using me for sex, which was probably not the case, but that's what it felt like. I felt as if I was over her for a few months after we broke up, although, recently I started thinking about her a lot. A few dreams here and there really cemented her back into my head. I'm going crazy again, and I just don't know what to do. Any advice for my situation?"
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a year since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up. We were together for a bit less than a year and a half, but we were close friends for a few years before that. She was my first love (I'd had previous relationships but this was the first serious one, and the first one where I actually believed I loved her. We spent loads of time together and I went all out for her, dates, gifts, riding my bike 7 miles to see one of her volleyball tournaments, and the like. After 6 months we slept together, we were both virgins. It was a very amazing relationship. We had our ups and downs, but after we broke up it was a terrible experience for both of us. I felt like she was using me for sex, which was probably not the case, but that's what it felt like. I felt as if I was over her for a few months after we broke up, although, recently I started thinking about her a lot. A few dreams here and there really cemented her back into my head. I'm going crazy again, and I just don't know what to do. Any advice for my situation?"
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