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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and 'Andy' met at university and were good friends for the four years we were there. Every holiday he would be terrible keeping in touch, sometimes to the point that I'd be surprised that he'd ask me out for a pint or whatever once term started again.\n\nI accepted early on that his communication just sucked and that was fine, we'd carry on being friends regardless. \n\nThen came the end of university and we went our seperate ways, him promising he would make an effort to keep in touch.\n\nI'd send him a message every now and again (after he'd come back from holiday, when he moved to a new city etc.) but never heard anything back, apart from a thank you for the birthday card I sent. \n\nI figured, he's busy, I'll give him time to get back to me (usually several weeks), before I'd try again to strike up a conversation.\n\nThe other week I saw he was online on facebook so figured I'd try one last time, asking how his new Masters course was going and mentioning that I'd been trying to get in touch, was his phone broken or something. \n\nHe saw it immediately (thank you for that feature) but didn't get back to me. \n\nAgain, I waited over a week for some response - nothing.\n\nI think I'm just going to have to accept that he isn't committed to making this friendship last and I need some advice on how to handle it. It's making me feel low, confused and a little worthless.\n\nI realise he is terrible at communicating but from my view that is no reason to ignore a friend for several months without any apparent reason.\n\nHas anyone been through anything similar? I'd really like some advice on how to get through this, or what may be going through his head? \n\nTbh I'm starting to get to the point where I wonder if I even want to try and keep a friendship alive with someone who apparently has no time for me. \n\n*Side note - just in case anyone is wondering, there was never any romantic/sexual things between us - he has a very long term girlfriend who he's super in love with and I'm gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been seeing each other for about eight months, and we are constantly fighting due to our issues in communication, expectations and general understanding of each other. She's constantly pushing me to do things at her pace, asking why I'm taking so long or just generally seeing me as very passive aggressive. I'm constantly asking her to slow down, give me time to think things out, and to not always be in such a rush to do the next thing. \n\nThings generally blow up once a month and we get into these big fights about how we are just fundamentally different. We then try to work on our differences, but they just seem too difficult to overcome.\n\nI really love her and think she's amazing but I sometimes feel like I'm holding her back. I feel like she needs someone who actually enjoys being out there with people, enjoys singing and dancing with her in the streets, and someone who isn't so inhibited.\n\nI'm not sure what to do anymore. I'm tired of having fights about things that seem fundamentally different."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been seeing each other for about eight months, and we are constantly fighting due to our issues in communication, expectations and general understanding of each other. She's constantly pushing me to do things at her pace, asking why I'm taking so long or just generally seeing me as very passive aggressive. I'm constantly asking her to slow down, give me time to think things out, and to not always be in such a rush to do the next thing. \n\nThings generally blow up once a month and we get into these big fights about how we are just fundamentally different. We then try to work on our differences, but they just seem too difficult to overcome.\n\nI really love her and think she's amazing but I sometimes feel like I'm holding her back. I feel like she needs someone who actually enjoys being out there with people, enjoys singing and dancing with her in the streets, and someone who isn't so inhibited.\n\nI'm not sure what to do anymore. I'm tired of having fights about things that seem fundamentally different."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been seeing each other for about eight months, and we are constantly fighting due to our issues in communication, expectations and general understanding of each other. She's constantly pushing me to do things at her pace, asking why I'm taking so long or just generally seeing me as very passive aggressive. I'm constantly asking her to slow down, give me time to think things out, and to not always be in such a rush to do the next thing. \n\nThings generally blow up once a month and we get into these big fights about how we are just fundamentally different. We then try to work on our differences, but they just seem too difficult to overcome.\n\nI really love her and think she's amazing but I sometimes feel like I'm holding her back. I feel like she needs someone who actually enjoys being out there with people, enjoys singing and dancing with her in the streets, and someone who isn't so inhibited.\n\nI'm not sure what to do anymore. I'm tired of having fights about things that seem fundamentally different."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been seeing each other for about eight months, and we are constantly fighting due to our issues in communication, expectations and general understanding of each other. She's constantly pushing me to do things at her pace, asking why I'm taking so long or just generally seeing me as very passive aggressive. I'm constantly asking her to slow down, give me time to think things out, and to not always be in such a rush to do the next thing. \n\nThings generally blow up once a month and we get into these big fights about how we are just fundamentally different. We then try to work on our differences, but they just seem too difficult to overcome.\n\nI really love her and think she's amazing but I sometimes feel like I'm holding her back. I feel like she needs someone who actually enjoys being out there with people, enjoys singing and dancing with her in the streets, and someone who isn't so inhibited.\n\nI'm not sure what to do anymore. I'm tired of having fights about things that seem fundamentally different."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been seeing each other for about eight months, and we are constantly fighting due to our issues in communication, expectations and general understanding of each other. She's constantly pushing me to do things at her pace, asking why I'm taking so long or just generally seeing me as very passive aggressive. I'm constantly asking her to slow down, give me time to think things out, and to not always be in such a rush to do the next thing. \n\nThings generally blow up once a month and we get into these big fights about how we are just fundamentally different. We then try to work on our differences, but they just seem too difficult to overcome.\n\nI really love her and think she's amazing but I sometimes feel like I'm holding her back. I feel like she needs someone who actually enjoys being out there with people, enjoys singing and dancing with her in the streets, and someone who isn't so inhibited.\n\nI'm not sure what to do anymore. I'm tired of having fights about things that seem fundamentally different."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been seeing each other for about eight months, and we are constantly fighting due to our issues in communication, expectations and general understanding of each other. She's constantly pushing me to do things at her pace, asking why I'm taking so long or just generally seeing me as very passive aggressive. I'm constantly asking her to slow down, give me time to think things out, and to not always be in such a rush to do the next thing. \n\nThings generally blow up once a month and we get into these big fights about how we are just fundamentally different. We then try to work on our differences, but they just seem too difficult to overcome.\n\nI really love her and think she's amazing but I sometimes feel like I'm holding her back. I feel like she needs someone who actually enjoys being out there with people, enjoys singing and dancing with her in the streets, and someone who isn't so inhibited.\n\nI'm not sure what to do anymore. I'm tired of having fights about things that seem fundamentally different."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been talking and hanging out pretty frequently for the past month or so. We are both considering making this an \"official relationship\" at some point, but we are just wanting to take it slow and get a feel for our interpersonal dynamics before making a step like that. \n\nWe enjoy mostly all of the same things, we get along really well, and we have great conversations and physical chemistry. However, me and him don't really share a lot of laughter or have any particular \"fun\". We do plenty of things that are very enjoyable for the both of us, like hiking, people watching, discussing art, smoking trees, etc. But there seems to be something missing in the \"fun\" factor. \n\nHe is pretty introverted and told me right off the bat that he can be shy when getting to know someone new. I think this might have something to do with the lack of a social-spark (for lack of a better term). I am usually a very bubbly and extroverted person, I know that I make people laugh a lot and I always have fun when I am around people. But when I am with him, the dynamics are just pretty mellow/personal/serious.\n\nDo you guys have tips on how I can develop this aspect of our relationship? Is it just something that comes in time? Or do you see this as a personal incompatibility?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been talking and hanging out pretty frequently for the past month or so. We are both considering making this an \"official relationship\" at some point, but we are just wanting to take it slow and get a feel for our interpersonal dynamics before making a step like that. \n\nWe enjoy mostly all of the same things, we get along really well, and we have great conversations and physical chemistry. However, me and him don't really share a lot of laughter or have any particular \"fun\". We do plenty of things that are very enjoyable for the both of us, like hiking, people watching, discussing art, smoking trees, etc. But there seems to be something missing in the \"fun\" factor. \n\nHe is pretty introverted and told me right off the bat that he can be shy when getting to know someone new. I think this might have something to do with the lack of a social-spark (for lack of a better term). I am usually a very bubbly and extroverted person, I know that I make people laugh a lot and I always have fun when I am around people. But when I am with him, the dynamics are just pretty mellow/personal/serious.\n\nDo you guys have tips on how I can develop this aspect of our relationship? Is it just something that comes in time? Or do you see this as a personal incompatibility?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been talking and hanging out pretty frequently for the past month or so. We are both considering making this an \"official relationship\" at some point, but we are just wanting to take it slow and get a feel for our interpersonal dynamics before making a step like that. \n\nWe enjoy mostly all of the same things, we get along really well, and we have great conversations and physical chemistry. However, me and him don't really share a lot of laughter or have any particular \"fun\". We do plenty of things that are very enjoyable for the both of us, like hiking, people watching, discussing art, smoking trees, etc. But there seems to be something missing in the \"fun\" factor. \n\nHe is pretty introverted and told me right off the bat that he can be shy when getting to know someone new. I think this might have something to do with the lack of a social-spark (for lack of a better term). I am usually a very bubbly and extroverted person, I know that I make people laugh a lot and I always have fun when I am around people. But when I am with him, the dynamics are just pretty mellow/personal/serious.\n\nDo you guys have tips on how I can develop this aspect of our relationship? Is it just something that comes in time? Or do you see this as a personal incompatibility?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been talking and hanging out pretty frequently for the past month or so. We are both considering making this an \"official relationship\" at some point, but we are just wanting to take it slow and get a feel for our interpersonal dynamics before making a step like that. \n\nWe enjoy mostly all of the same things, we get along really well, and we have great conversations and physical chemistry. However, me and him don't really share a lot of laughter or have any particular \"fun\". We do plenty of things that are very enjoyable for the both of us, like hiking, people watching, discussing art, smoking trees, etc. But there seems to be something missing in the \"fun\" factor. \n\nHe is pretty introverted and told me right off the bat that he can be shy when getting to know someone new. I think this might have something to do with the lack of a social-spark (for lack of a better term). I am usually a very bubbly and extroverted person, I know that I make people laugh a lot and I always have fun when I am around people. But when I am with him, the dynamics are just pretty mellow/personal/serious.\n\nDo you guys have tips on how I can develop this aspect of our relationship? Is it just something that comes in time? Or do you see this as a personal incompatibility?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been talking and hanging out pretty frequently for the past month or so. We are both considering making this an \"official relationship\" at some point, but we are just wanting to take it slow and get a feel for our interpersonal dynamics before making a step like that. \n\nWe enjoy mostly all of the same things, we get along really well, and we have great conversations and physical chemistry. However, me and him don't really share a lot of laughter or have any particular \"fun\". We do plenty of things that are very enjoyable for the both of us, like hiking, people watching, discussing art, smoking trees, etc. But there seems to be something missing in the \"fun\" factor. \n\nHe is pretty introverted and told me right off the bat that he can be shy when getting to know someone new. I think this might have something to do with the lack of a social-spark (for lack of a better term). I am usually a very bubbly and extroverted person, I know that I make people laugh a lot and I always have fun when I am around people. But when I am with him, the dynamics are just pretty mellow/personal/serious.\n\nDo you guys have tips on how I can develop this aspect of our relationship? Is it just something that comes in time? Or do you see this as a personal incompatibility?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This guy and I have been talking and hanging out pretty frequently for the past month or so. We are both considering making this an \"official relationship\" at some point, but we are just wanting to take it slow and get a feel for our interpersonal dynamics before making a step like that. \n\nWe enjoy mostly all of the same things, we get along really well, and we have great conversations and physical chemistry. However, me and him don't really share a lot of laughter or have any particular \"fun\". We do plenty of things that are very enjoyable for the both of us, like hiking, people watching, discussing art, smoking trees, etc. But there seems to be something missing in the \"fun\" factor. \n\nHe is pretty introverted and told me right off the bat that he can be shy when getting to know someone new. I think this might have something to do with the lack of a social-spark (for lack of a better term). I am usually a very bubbly and extroverted person, I know that I make people laugh a lot and I always have fun when I am around people. But when I am with him, the dynamics are just pretty mellow/personal/serious.\n\nDo you guys have tips on how I can develop this aspect of our relationship? Is it just something that comes in time? Or do you see this as a personal incompatibility?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been dating this girl for a few years, and it looks like each time we have a deep discussion on our relationship, I say the wrong thing.\n\nThis has happen numerous times before and I could use some help fixing this. \n\nEarlier on the relationship, I would say the first thing that comes to my mind. Keep in mind that this was our first serious relationship for both of us, so we don't have much experience. This doesn't end well as I usually don't say the right thing to cheer her up. It gets even worse when we fight, as I usually end up saying something I don't mean. I try be better and learn to never text when I'm angry and try to calm myself down before replying. \n\nNow, it seems like I still don't thinks through enough and say the wrong thing. Or like recently today, I over share a little too much and it freak her out. So I know it's a big question, but how does one not say the wrong thing as much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been dating this girl for a few years, and it looks like each time we have a deep discussion on our relationship, I say the wrong thing.\n\nThis has happen numerous times before and I could use some help fixing this. \n\nEarlier on the relationship, I would say the first thing that comes to my mind. Keep in mind that this was our first serious relationship for both of us, so we don't have much experience. This doesn't end well as I usually don't say the right thing to cheer her up. It gets even worse when we fight, as I usually end up saying something I don't mean. I try be better and learn to never text when I'm angry and try to calm myself down before replying. \n\nNow, it seems like I still don't thinks through enough and say the wrong thing. Or like recently today, I over share a little too much and it freak her out. So I know it's a big question, but how does one not say the wrong thing as much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been dating this girl for a few years, and it looks like each time we have a deep discussion on our relationship, I say the wrong thing.\n\nThis has happen numerous times before and I could use some help fixing this. \n\nEarlier on the relationship, I would say the first thing that comes to my mind. Keep in mind that this was our first serious relationship for both of us, so we don't have much experience. This doesn't end well as I usually don't say the right thing to cheer her up. It gets even worse when we fight, as I usually end up saying something I don't mean. I try be better and learn to never text when I'm angry and try to calm myself down before replying. \n\nNow, it seems like I still don't thinks through enough and say the wrong thing. Or like recently today, I over share a little too much and it freak her out. So I know it's a big question, but how does one not say the wrong thing as much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been dating this girl for a few years, and it looks like each time we have a deep discussion on our relationship, I say the wrong thing.\n\nThis has happen numerous times before and I could use some help fixing this. \n\nEarlier on the relationship, I would say the first thing that comes to my mind. Keep in mind that this was our first serious relationship for both of us, so we don't have much experience. This doesn't end well as I usually don't say the right thing to cheer her up. It gets even worse when we fight, as I usually end up saying something I don't mean. I try be better and learn to never text when I'm angry and try to calm myself down before replying. \n\nNow, it seems like I still don't thinks through enough and say the wrong thing. Or like recently today, I over share a little too much and it freak her out. So I know it's a big question, but how does one not say the wrong thing as much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been dating this girl for a few years, and it looks like each time we have a deep discussion on our relationship, I say the wrong thing.\n\nThis has happen numerous times before and I could use some help fixing this. \n\nEarlier on the relationship, I would say the first thing that comes to my mind. Keep in mind that this was our first serious relationship for both of us, so we don't have much experience. This doesn't end well as I usually don't say the right thing to cheer her up. It gets even worse when we fight, as I usually end up saying something I don't mean. I try be better and learn to never text when I'm angry and try to calm myself down before replying. \n\nNow, it seems like I still don't thinks through enough and say the wrong thing. Or like recently today, I over share a little too much and it freak her out. So I know it's a big question, but how does one not say the wrong thing as much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been dating this girl for a few years, and it looks like each time we have a deep discussion on our relationship, I say the wrong thing.\n\nThis has happen numerous times before and I could use some help fixing this. \n\nEarlier on the relationship, I would say the first thing that comes to my mind. Keep in mind that this was our first serious relationship for both of us, so we don't have much experience. This doesn't end well as I usually don't say the right thing to cheer her up. It gets even worse when we fight, as I usually end up saying something I don't mean. I try be better and learn to never text when I'm angry and try to calm myself down before replying. \n\nNow, it seems like I still don't thinks through enough and say the wrong thing. Or like recently today, I over share a little too much and it freak her out. So I know it's a big question, but how does one not say the wrong thing as much?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a little background first, I've been seeing this girl for five months now, and we are (or were) pretty close (we said \"I love you\" and all that). We're both students, and at the end of last semester she failed two of her classes. As a result, it was uncertain that she could come back at all. Now she's back, but still not totally certain if she can stay, it depends on if she can raise her technical GPA by a certain amount. My problem is this: since she got back, it's felt like she's drifting away from me. When I met her at the bus stop there was no kiss, not even a \"hey, good to see ya!\", and she says she's too stressed about school to think about \"us\" right now. I'm trying to give her a bit of space at the moment, since I'm sure pestering her would just aggravate the situation, but I don't know what to do moving forward. If she does have to leave I want our last few weeks together to be a good memory, and if she gets to stay I want things to get back to normal. I really do love this girl and I'm terrified of losing her. Any advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a little background first, I've been seeing this girl for five months now, and we are (or were) pretty close (we said \"I love you\" and all that). We're both students, and at the end of last semester she failed two of her classes. As a result, it was uncertain that she could come back at all. Now she's back, but still not totally certain if she can stay, it depends on if she can raise her technical GPA by a certain amount. My problem is this: since she got back, it's felt like she's drifting away from me. When I met her at the bus stop there was no kiss, not even a \"hey, good to see ya!\", and she says she's too stressed about school to think about \"us\" right now. I'm trying to give her a bit of space at the moment, since I'm sure pestering her would just aggravate the situation, but I don't know what to do moving forward. If she does have to leave I want our last few weeks together to be a good memory, and if she gets to stay I want things to get back to normal. I really do love this girl and I'm terrified of losing her. Any advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a little background first, I've been seeing this girl for five months now, and we are (or were) pretty close (we said \"I love you\" and all that). We're both students, and at the end of last semester she failed two of her classes. As a result, it was uncertain that she could come back at all. Now she's back, but still not totally certain if she can stay, it depends on if she can raise her technical GPA by a certain amount. My problem is this: since she got back, it's felt like she's drifting away from me. When I met her at the bus stop there was no kiss, not even a \"hey, good to see ya!\", and she says she's too stressed about school to think about \"us\" right now. I'm trying to give her a bit of space at the moment, since I'm sure pestering her would just aggravate the situation, but I don't know what to do moving forward. If she does have to leave I want our last few weeks together to be a good memory, and if she gets to stay I want things to get back to normal. I really do love this girl and I'm terrified of losing her. Any advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a little background first, I've been seeing this girl for five months now, and we are (or were) pretty close (we said \"I love you\" and all that). We're both students, and at the end of last semester she failed two of her classes. As a result, it was uncertain that she could come back at all. Now she's back, but still not totally certain if she can stay, it depends on if she can raise her technical GPA by a certain amount. My problem is this: since she got back, it's felt like she's drifting away from me. When I met her at the bus stop there was no kiss, not even a \"hey, good to see ya!\", and she says she's too stressed about school to think about \"us\" right now. I'm trying to give her a bit of space at the moment, since I'm sure pestering her would just aggravate the situation, but I don't know what to do moving forward. If she does have to leave I want our last few weeks together to be a good memory, and if she gets to stay I want things to get back to normal. I really do love this girl and I'm terrified of losing her. Any advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a little background first, I've been seeing this girl for five months now, and we are (or were) pretty close (we said \"I love you\" and all that). We're both students, and at the end of last semester she failed two of her classes. As a result, it was uncertain that she could come back at all. Now she's back, but still not totally certain if she can stay, it depends on if she can raise her technical GPA by a certain amount. My problem is this: since she got back, it's felt like she's drifting away from me. When I met her at the bus stop there was no kiss, not even a \"hey, good to see ya!\", and she says she's too stressed about school to think about \"us\" right now. I'm trying to give her a bit of space at the moment, since I'm sure pestering her would just aggravate the situation, but I don't know what to do moving forward. If she does have to leave I want our last few weeks together to be a good memory, and if she gets to stay I want things to get back to normal. I really do love this girl and I'm terrified of losing her. Any advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a little background first, I've been seeing this girl for five months now, and we are (or were) pretty close (we said \"I love you\" and all that). We're both students, and at the end of last semester she failed two of her classes. As a result, it was uncertain that she could come back at all. Now she's back, but still not totally certain if she can stay, it depends on if she can raise her technical GPA by a certain amount. My problem is this: since she got back, it's felt like she's drifting away from me. When I met her at the bus stop there was no kiss, not even a \"hey, good to see ya!\", and she says she's too stressed about school to think about \"us\" right now. I'm trying to give her a bit of space at the moment, since I'm sure pestering her would just aggravate the situation, but I don't know what to do moving forward. If she does have to leave I want our last few weeks together to be a good memory, and if she gets to stay I want things to get back to normal. I really do love this girl and I'm terrified of losing her. Any advice would be welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My divorced 23 year old Sister (on my Stepdad's side ) who lives in Germany has 2 daughters, aged 2 and 4.we'll call her Mary. She's been dating a man for a few months and has become pregnant with twins with her new man.\n\nMary and her ex are currently in a custody battle, with the usual stuff flying back and forth, he claims she treats the children like animals, leaving them in their own filth and refusing to change their dirty clothes - she claims he threatens to kill her and the kids whenever he gets angry, hard to tell who is telling the truth and who is lying in these situations.\n\nMary's sister sides with the ex, they've got a strained relationship, always trying to make the other seem like a bad mother so her testimony is suspect.\n\nAnyways, on to the dilemna, Social Services have stepped in and taken Mary's children, according to Mary they will be in care until a decision is made on who the kids will live with, is this a likeley scenario in Germany, or is it more likely that she is actually an unfit mother? Mary doesn't seem to be doing anything towards regaining custody of her kids, after 2 weeks she finally told me she'd arrange an appointment with a lawyer, she has no clue what her rights are in this situation and doesn't seem to be in any hurry to fight for her children - she just bought a new house with her new man, in preperation for the twins arrival.\n\nWe are ignorant as to how the German custody system works, as we live in the UK but we need to know whether or not my Mother and Stepfather can step in and request custody, does anybody have any experience with the German social care system?\n\nIdeally we want the kids to go back to their Mother, as we have no evidence that she is an unfit mother, but if it is permanent and not temporary and she is just lying to save face, we have a loving home waiting in the UK for them.\n\nI am a 21 year old female, my Husband wrote this for me because I have dyslexia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My divorced 23 year old Sister (on my Stepdad's side ) who lives in Germany has 2 daughters, aged 2 and 4.we'll call her Mary. She's been dating a man for a few months and has become pregnant with twins with her new man.\n\nMary and her ex are currently in a custody battle, with the usual stuff flying back and forth, he claims she treats the children like animals, leaving them in their own filth and refusing to change their dirty clothes - she claims he threatens to kill her and the kids whenever he gets angry, hard to tell who is telling the truth and who is lying in these situations.\n\nMary's sister sides with the ex, they've got a strained relationship, always trying to make the other seem like a bad mother so her testimony is suspect.\n\nAnyways, on to the dilemna, Social Services have stepped in and taken Mary's children, according to Mary they will be in care until a decision is made on who the kids will live with, is this a likeley scenario in Germany, or is it more likely that she is actually an unfit mother? Mary doesn't seem to be doing anything towards regaining custody of her kids, after 2 weeks she finally told me she'd arrange an appointment with a lawyer, she has no clue what her rights are in this situation and doesn't seem to be in any hurry to fight for her children - she just bought a new house with her new man, in preperation for the twins arrival.\n\nWe are ignorant as to how the German custody system works, as we live in the UK but we need to know whether or not my Mother and Stepfather can step in and request custody, does anybody have any experience with the German social care system?\n\nIdeally we want the kids to go back to their Mother, as we have no evidence that she is an unfit mother, but if it is permanent and not temporary and she is just lying to save face, we have a loving home waiting in the UK for them.\n\nI am a 21 year old female, my Husband wrote this for me because I have dyslexia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My divorced 23 year old Sister (on my Stepdad's side ) who lives in Germany has 2 daughters, aged 2 and 4.we'll call her Mary. She's been dating a man for a few months and has become pregnant with twins with her new man.\n\nMary and her ex are currently in a custody battle, with the usual stuff flying back and forth, he claims she treats the children like animals, leaving them in their own filth and refusing to change their dirty clothes - she claims he threatens to kill her and the kids whenever he gets angry, hard to tell who is telling the truth and who is lying in these situations.\n\nMary's sister sides with the ex, they've got a strained relationship, always trying to make the other seem like a bad mother so her testimony is suspect.\n\nAnyways, on to the dilemna, Social Services have stepped in and taken Mary's children, according to Mary they will be in care until a decision is made on who the kids will live with, is this a likeley scenario in Germany, or is it more likely that she is actually an unfit mother? Mary doesn't seem to be doing anything towards regaining custody of her kids, after 2 weeks she finally told me she'd arrange an appointment with a lawyer, she has no clue what her rights are in this situation and doesn't seem to be in any hurry to fight for her children - she just bought a new house with her new man, in preperation for the twins arrival.\n\nWe are ignorant as to how the German custody system works, as we live in the UK but we need to know whether or not my Mother and Stepfather can step in and request custody, does anybody have any experience with the German social care system?\n\nIdeally we want the kids to go back to their Mother, as we have no evidence that she is an unfit mother, but if it is permanent and not temporary and she is just lying to save face, we have a loving home waiting in the UK for them.\n\nI am a 21 year old female, my Husband wrote this for me because I have dyslexia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My divorced 23 year old Sister (on my Stepdad's side ) who lives in Germany has 2 daughters, aged 2 and 4.we'll call her Mary. She's been dating a man for a few months and has become pregnant with twins with her new man.\n\nMary and her ex are currently in a custody battle, with the usual stuff flying back and forth, he claims she treats the children like animals, leaving them in their own filth and refusing to change their dirty clothes - she claims he threatens to kill her and the kids whenever he gets angry, hard to tell who is telling the truth and who is lying in these situations.\n\nMary's sister sides with the ex, they've got a strained relationship, always trying to make the other seem like a bad mother so her testimony is suspect.\n\nAnyways, on to the dilemna, Social Services have stepped in and taken Mary's children, according to Mary they will be in care until a decision is made on who the kids will live with, is this a likeley scenario in Germany, or is it more likely that she is actually an unfit mother? Mary doesn't seem to be doing anything towards regaining custody of her kids, after 2 weeks she finally told me she'd arrange an appointment with a lawyer, she has no clue what her rights are in this situation and doesn't seem to be in any hurry to fight for her children - she just bought a new house with her new man, in preperation for the twins arrival.\n\nWe are ignorant as to how the German custody system works, as we live in the UK but we need to know whether or not my Mother and Stepfather can step in and request custody, does anybody have any experience with the German social care system?\n\nIdeally we want the kids to go back to their Mother, as we have no evidence that she is an unfit mother, but if it is permanent and not temporary and she is just lying to save face, we have a loving home waiting in the UK for them.\n\nI am a 21 year old female, my Husband wrote this for me because I have dyslexia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My divorced 23 year old Sister (on my Stepdad's side ) who lives in Germany has 2 daughters, aged 2 and 4.we'll call her Mary. She's been dating a man for a few months and has become pregnant with twins with her new man.\n\nMary and her ex are currently in a custody battle, with the usual stuff flying back and forth, he claims she treats the children like animals, leaving them in their own filth and refusing to change their dirty clothes - she claims he threatens to kill her and the kids whenever he gets angry, hard to tell who is telling the truth and who is lying in these situations.\n\nMary's sister sides with the ex, they've got a strained relationship, always trying to make the other seem like a bad mother so her testimony is suspect.\n\nAnyways, on to the dilemna, Social Services have stepped in and taken Mary's children, according to Mary they will be in care until a decision is made on who the kids will live with, is this a likeley scenario in Germany, or is it more likely that she is actually an unfit mother? Mary doesn't seem to be doing anything towards regaining custody of her kids, after 2 weeks she finally told me she'd arrange an appointment with a lawyer, she has no clue what her rights are in this situation and doesn't seem to be in any hurry to fight for her children - she just bought a new house with her new man, in preperation for the twins arrival.\n\nWe are ignorant as to how the German custody system works, as we live in the UK but we need to know whether or not my Mother and Stepfather can step in and request custody, does anybody have any experience with the German social care system?\n\nIdeally we want the kids to go back to their Mother, as we have no evidence that she is an unfit mother, but if it is permanent and not temporary and she is just lying to save face, we have a loving home waiting in the UK for them.\n\nI am a 21 year old female, my Husband wrote this for me because I have dyslexia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My divorced 23 year old Sister (on my Stepdad's side ) who lives in Germany has 2 daughters, aged 2 and 4.we'll call her Mary. She's been dating a man for a few months and has become pregnant with twins with her new man.\n\nMary and her ex are currently in a custody battle, with the usual stuff flying back and forth, he claims she treats the children like animals, leaving them in their own filth and refusing to change their dirty clothes - she claims he threatens to kill her and the kids whenever he gets angry, hard to tell who is telling the truth and who is lying in these situations.\n\nMary's sister sides with the ex, they've got a strained relationship, always trying to make the other seem like a bad mother so her testimony is suspect.\n\nAnyways, on to the dilemna, Social Services have stepped in and taken Mary's children, according to Mary they will be in care until a decision is made on who the kids will live with, is this a likeley scenario in Germany, or is it more likely that she is actually an unfit mother? Mary doesn't seem to be doing anything towards regaining custody of her kids, after 2 weeks she finally told me she'd arrange an appointment with a lawyer, she has no clue what her rights are in this situation and doesn't seem to be in any hurry to fight for her children - she just bought a new house with her new man, in preperation for the twins arrival.\n\nWe are ignorant as to how the German custody system works, as we live in the UK but we need to know whether or not my Mother and Stepfather can step in and request custody, does anybody have any experience with the German social care system?\n\nIdeally we want the kids to go back to their Mother, as we have no evidence that she is an unfit mother, but if it is permanent and not temporary and she is just lying to save face, we have a loving home waiting in the UK for them.\n\nI am a 21 year old female, my Husband wrote this for me because I have dyslexia."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know this guy through friends & friends of friends. Met him a year or so ago. Never went on a date or have hung out together just us. Only the one time I met him was with my other friends. A few months ago he messaged me on fb and we would talk off and on. The last few days our chats got flirty (and sometimes naughty) and he's saying how we should hang out/watch a movie together (yes, I know we won't really be watching much of the movie but I am not complaining lol).\n\nI have some time off due to the holidays and I know he does too so I suggested we hang out tonight. He said yes, so I told him to let me know when and where and then he never responds. why would he talk about it all the time if he didn't actually want to? I was thinking he could just be nervous since he mentioned it's been a long time since being with someone and I know I am because it's also been awhile for me but I'll get over it. \n\nI am not expecting a relationship out of this, if it gets to that point I would be open to it but it's not really in my plans for right now and I am not really sure about his plans for a relationship yet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know this guy through friends & friends of friends. Met him a year or so ago. Never went on a date or have hung out together just us. Only the one time I met him was with my other friends. A few months ago he messaged me on fb and we would talk off and on. The last few days our chats got flirty (and sometimes naughty) and he's saying how we should hang out/watch a movie together (yes, I know we won't really be watching much of the movie but I am not complaining lol).\n\nI have some time off due to the holidays and I know he does too so I suggested we hang out tonight. He said yes, so I told him to let me know when and where and then he never responds. why would he talk about it all the time if he didn't actually want to? I was thinking he could just be nervous since he mentioned it's been a long time since being with someone and I know I am because it's also been awhile for me but I'll get over it. \n\nI am not expecting a relationship out of this, if it gets to that point I would be open to it but it's not really in my plans for right now and I am not really sure about his plans for a relationship yet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know this guy through friends & friends of friends. Met him a year or so ago. Never went on a date or have hung out together just us. Only the one time I met him was with my other friends. A few months ago he messaged me on fb and we would talk off and on. The last few days our chats got flirty (and sometimes naughty) and he's saying how we should hang out/watch a movie together (yes, I know we won't really be watching much of the movie but I am not complaining lol).\n\nI have some time off due to the holidays and I know he does too so I suggested we hang out tonight. He said yes, so I told him to let me know when and where and then he never responds. why would he talk about it all the time if he didn't actually want to? I was thinking he could just be nervous since he mentioned it's been a long time since being with someone and I know I am because it's also been awhile for me but I'll get over it. \n\nI am not expecting a relationship out of this, if it gets to that point I would be open to it but it's not really in my plans for right now and I am not really sure about his plans for a relationship yet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know this guy through friends & friends of friends. Met him a year or so ago. Never went on a date or have hung out together just us. Only the one time I met him was with my other friends. A few months ago he messaged me on fb and we would talk off and on. The last few days our chats got flirty (and sometimes naughty) and he's saying how we should hang out/watch a movie together (yes, I know we won't really be watching much of the movie but I am not complaining lol).\n\nI have some time off due to the holidays and I know he does too so I suggested we hang out tonight. He said yes, so I told him to let me know when and where and then he never responds. why would he talk about it all the time if he didn't actually want to? I was thinking he could just be nervous since he mentioned it's been a long time since being with someone and I know I am because it's also been awhile for me but I'll get over it. \n\nI am not expecting a relationship out of this, if it gets to that point I would be open to it but it's not really in my plans for right now and I am not really sure about his plans for a relationship yet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know this guy through friends & friends of friends. Met him a year or so ago. Never went on a date or have hung out together just us. Only the one time I met him was with my other friends. A few months ago he messaged me on fb and we would talk off and on. The last few days our chats got flirty (and sometimes naughty) and he's saying how we should hang out/watch a movie together (yes, I know we won't really be watching much of the movie but I am not complaining lol).\n\nI have some time off due to the holidays and I know he does too so I suggested we hang out tonight. He said yes, so I told him to let me know when and where and then he never responds. why would he talk about it all the time if he didn't actually want to? I was thinking he could just be nervous since he mentioned it's been a long time since being with someone and I know I am because it's also been awhile for me but I'll get over it. \n\nI am not expecting a relationship out of this, if it gets to that point I would be open to it but it's not really in my plans for right now and I am not really sure about his plans for a relationship yet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know this guy through friends & friends of friends. Met him a year or so ago. Never went on a date or have hung out together just us. Only the one time I met him was with my other friends. A few months ago he messaged me on fb and we would talk off and on. The last few days our chats got flirty (and sometimes naughty) and he's saying how we should hang out/watch a movie together (yes, I know we won't really be watching much of the movie but I am not complaining lol).\n\nI have some time off due to the holidays and I know he does too so I suggested we hang out tonight. He said yes, so I told him to let me know when and where and then he never responds. why would he talk about it all the time if he didn't actually want to? I was thinking he could just be nervous since he mentioned it's been a long time since being with someone and I know I am because it's also been awhile for me but I'll get over it. \n\nI am not expecting a relationship out of this, if it gets to that point I would be open to it but it's not really in my plans for right now and I am not really sure about his plans for a relationship yet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll make this as brief as possible, there is a lot to it. \n\nI dated her a several years ago for a year, she was cutting her wrists and bulimic and I did everything I could at the age of 15 to help her. \n\nAlso found out she had been sexually abused early in life then again by a boy in middle school.\n\nThere was nothing I could do and it was wearing me down, I was sad a lot of the time so I regrettably cut my ties to her. She still had friends then and was seeing a therapist. \n\nLast year we started talking again and I thought everything had changed from high school. We talked for hours on end it was like we were best friends. \n\nBut then things kind of reverted back. She was still very much depressed and said she wasn't seeing a doctor about it. The closer I got to her, the more things came back and I just couldn't deal with all of that again. \n\nThings fizzled off until a few months ago. \n\nShe has a boyfriend that she is constantly breaking up with and getting back together with. She's told me that he's hurt her and made her do things sexually but she's not explicit. She hints at rape but when I ask she dodges the question. \n\nShe texted me last night saying they broke up. I told her she was sorry that she had to keep going through this and she said it was fine. Then she added \"*he hit me.*\" \n\nI was somewhat stunned, I don't know what I can do, I don't know if she's actually being hurt or if she wants attention (sounds horrible but the more I think about it, the more possible it is).\n\nShe doesn't really have any close friends anymore because she moved to a small school that they send kids to around here who don't quite fit at the public school (where she met her boyfriend).\n\nSomeone, please. *I want to help this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll make this as brief as possible, there is a lot to it. \n\nI dated her a several years ago for a year, she was cutting her wrists and bulimic and I did everything I could at the age of 15 to help her. \n\nAlso found out she had been sexually abused early in life then again by a boy in middle school.\n\nThere was nothing I could do and it was wearing me down, I was sad a lot of the time so I regrettably cut my ties to her. She still had friends then and was seeing a therapist. \n\nLast year we started talking again and I thought everything had changed from high school. We talked for hours on end it was like we were best friends. \n\nBut then things kind of reverted back. She was still very much depressed and said she wasn't seeing a doctor about it. The closer I got to her, the more things came back and I just couldn't deal with all of that again. \n\nThings fizzled off until a few months ago. \n\nShe has a boyfriend that she is constantly breaking up with and getting back together with. She's told me that he's hurt her and made her do things sexually but she's not explicit. She hints at rape but when I ask she dodges the question. \n\nShe texted me last night saying they broke up. I told her she was sorry that she had to keep going through this and she said it was fine. Then she added \"*he hit me.*\" \n\nI was somewhat stunned, I don't know what I can do, I don't know if she's actually being hurt or if she wants attention (sounds horrible but the more I think about it, the more possible it is).\n\nShe doesn't really have any close friends anymore because she moved to a small school that they send kids to around here who don't quite fit at the public school (where she met her boyfriend).\n\nSomeone, please. *I want to help this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll make this as brief as possible, there is a lot to it. \n\nI dated her a several years ago for a year, she was cutting her wrists and bulimic and I did everything I could at the age of 15 to help her. \n\nAlso found out she had been sexually abused early in life then again by a boy in middle school.\n\nThere was nothing I could do and it was wearing me down, I was sad a lot of the time so I regrettably cut my ties to her. She still had friends then and was seeing a therapist. \n\nLast year we started talking again and I thought everything had changed from high school. We talked for hours on end it was like we were best friends. \n\nBut then things kind of reverted back. She was still very much depressed and said she wasn't seeing a doctor about it. The closer I got to her, the more things came back and I just couldn't deal with all of that again. \n\nThings fizzled off until a few months ago. \n\nShe has a boyfriend that she is constantly breaking up with and getting back together with. She's told me that he's hurt her and made her do things sexually but she's not explicit. She hints at rape but when I ask she dodges the question. \n\nShe texted me last night saying they broke up. I told her she was sorry that she had to keep going through this and she said it was fine. Then she added \"*he hit me.*\" \n\nI was somewhat stunned, I don't know what I can do, I don't know if she's actually being hurt or if she wants attention (sounds horrible but the more I think about it, the more possible it is).\n\nShe doesn't really have any close friends anymore because she moved to a small school that they send kids to around here who don't quite fit at the public school (where she met her boyfriend).\n\nSomeone, please. *I want to help this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll make this as brief as possible, there is a lot to it. \n\nI dated her a several years ago for a year, she was cutting her wrists and bulimic and I did everything I could at the age of 15 to help her. \n\nAlso found out she had been sexually abused early in life then again by a boy in middle school.\n\nThere was nothing I could do and it was wearing me down, I was sad a lot of the time so I regrettably cut my ties to her. She still had friends then and was seeing a therapist. \n\nLast year we started talking again and I thought everything had changed from high school. We talked for hours on end it was like we were best friends. \n\nBut then things kind of reverted back. She was still very much depressed and said she wasn't seeing a doctor about it. The closer I got to her, the more things came back and I just couldn't deal with all of that again. \n\nThings fizzled off until a few months ago. \n\nShe has a boyfriend that she is constantly breaking up with and getting back together with. She's told me that he's hurt her and made her do things sexually but she's not explicit. She hints at rape but when I ask she dodges the question. \n\nShe texted me last night saying they broke up. I told her she was sorry that she had to keep going through this and she said it was fine. Then she added \"*he hit me.*\" \n\nI was somewhat stunned, I don't know what I can do, I don't know if she's actually being hurt or if she wants attention (sounds horrible but the more I think about it, the more possible it is).\n\nShe doesn't really have any close friends anymore because she moved to a small school that they send kids to around here who don't quite fit at the public school (where she met her boyfriend).\n\nSomeone, please. *I want to help this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll make this as brief as possible, there is a lot to it. \n\nI dated her a several years ago for a year, she was cutting her wrists and bulimic and I did everything I could at the age of 15 to help her. \n\nAlso found out she had been sexually abused early in life then again by a boy in middle school.\n\nThere was nothing I could do and it was wearing me down, I was sad a lot of the time so I regrettably cut my ties to her. She still had friends then and was seeing a therapist. \n\nLast year we started talking again and I thought everything had changed from high school. We talked for hours on end it was like we were best friends. \n\nBut then things kind of reverted back. She was still very much depressed and said she wasn't seeing a doctor about it. The closer I got to her, the more things came back and I just couldn't deal with all of that again. \n\nThings fizzled off until a few months ago. \n\nShe has a boyfriend that she is constantly breaking up with and getting back together with. She's told me that he's hurt her and made her do things sexually but she's not explicit. She hints at rape but when I ask she dodges the question. \n\nShe texted me last night saying they broke up. I told her she was sorry that she had to keep going through this and she said it was fine. Then she added \"*he hit me.*\" \n\nI was somewhat stunned, I don't know what I can do, I don't know if she's actually being hurt or if she wants attention (sounds horrible but the more I think about it, the more possible it is).\n\nShe doesn't really have any close friends anymore because she moved to a small school that they send kids to around here who don't quite fit at the public school (where she met her boyfriend).\n\nSomeone, please. *I want to help this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll make this as brief as possible, there is a lot to it. \n\nI dated her a several years ago for a year, she was cutting her wrists and bulimic and I did everything I could at the age of 15 to help her. \n\nAlso found out she had been sexually abused early in life then again by a boy in middle school.\n\nThere was nothing I could do and it was wearing me down, I was sad a lot of the time so I regrettably cut my ties to her. She still had friends then and was seeing a therapist. \n\nLast year we started talking again and I thought everything had changed from high school. We talked for hours on end it was like we were best friends. \n\nBut then things kind of reverted back. She was still very much depressed and said she wasn't seeing a doctor about it. The closer I got to her, the more things came back and I just couldn't deal with all of that again. \n\nThings fizzled off until a few months ago. \n\nShe has a boyfriend that she is constantly breaking up with and getting back together with. She's told me that he's hurt her and made her do things sexually but she's not explicit. She hints at rape but when I ask she dodges the question. \n\nShe texted me last night saying they broke up. I told her she was sorry that she had to keep going through this and she said it was fine. Then she added \"*he hit me.*\" \n\nI was somewhat stunned, I don't know what I can do, I don't know if she's actually being hurt or if she wants attention (sounds horrible but the more I think about it, the more possible it is).\n\nShe doesn't really have any close friends anymore because she moved to a small school that they send kids to around here who don't quite fit at the public school (where she met her boyfriend).\n\nSomeone, please. *I want to help this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My \"friend\" of 15 years has made countless life choices that I do not agree with. He's compulsively lied to me our entire relationship but avoided hurting me enough for me to completely cut ties like everyone else.\n\nWhen I left for college he \"anonymously\" stalked and threatened some of my new friends out of jealousy. Our interactions slowly dwindled until he stopped responding to my text messages about 4 months ago. I hear from him last night for the first time and he needs a place to stay because his GF broke up with him because he couldn't keep a job (I'm not even sure he ever had one).\n\nHe may or may not have been in and out of drug addiction. Weed always (which he has definitely dealt, though I don't know to what extent or if he ever got into serious drugs). I know he's abused Rx opiates at some point but beyond that he has not divulged anything to me because he knows I wouldn't approve.\n\nHe says his family won't respond anymore because \n\n*\"I haven't kept promises and they think I'm on drugs- WHICH I'M NOT\"* and that *\"l left my friend's because they all have drug problems.\"*\n\nI have no idea what's true, or why he would have to come back to SE Michigan so suddenly that he has no where to go. He keeps trying to bring up old memories to guilt me into taking him in, but I can't possibly trust him in my home. He says he has his car, some clothes, and less than $40. He slept in his car last night, and is still begging for help.\n\nI have seen no signs of suicidal ideation, but it is currently my worst fear b/c of a mutual acquaintance of ours who committed suicide in a very similar situation- except he actually had a place to sleep when he did it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My \"friend\" of 15 years has made countless life choices that I do not agree with. He's compulsively lied to me our entire relationship but avoided hurting me enough for me to completely cut ties like everyone else.\n\nWhen I left for college he \"anonymously\" stalked and threatened some of my new friends out of jealousy. Our interactions slowly dwindled until he stopped responding to my text messages about 4 months ago. I hear from him last night for the first time and he needs a place to stay because his GF broke up with him because he couldn't keep a job (I'm not even sure he ever had one).\n\nHe may or may not have been in and out of drug addiction. Weed always (which he has definitely dealt, though I don't know to what extent or if he ever got into serious drugs). I know he's abused Rx opiates at some point but beyond that he has not divulged anything to me because he knows I wouldn't approve.\n\nHe says his family won't respond anymore because \n\n*\"I haven't kept promises and they think I'm on drugs- WHICH I'M NOT\"* and that *\"l left my friend's because they all have drug problems.\"*\n\nI have no idea what's true, or why he would have to come back to SE Michigan so suddenly that he has no where to go. He keeps trying to bring up old memories to guilt me into taking him in, but I can't possibly trust him in my home. He says he has his car, some clothes, and less than $40. He slept in his car last night, and is still begging for help.\n\nI have seen no signs of suicidal ideation, but it is currently my worst fear b/c of a mutual acquaintance of ours who committed suicide in a very similar situation- except he actually had a place to sleep when he did it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My \"friend\" of 15 years has made countless life choices that I do not agree with. He's compulsively lied to me our entire relationship but avoided hurting me enough for me to completely cut ties like everyone else.\n\nWhen I left for college he \"anonymously\" stalked and threatened some of my new friends out of jealousy. Our interactions slowly dwindled until he stopped responding to my text messages about 4 months ago. I hear from him last night for the first time and he needs a place to stay because his GF broke up with him because he couldn't keep a job (I'm not even sure he ever had one).\n\nHe may or may not have been in and out of drug addiction. Weed always (which he has definitely dealt, though I don't know to what extent or if he ever got into serious drugs). I know he's abused Rx opiates at some point but beyond that he has not divulged anything to me because he knows I wouldn't approve.\n\nHe says his family won't respond anymore because \n\n*\"I haven't kept promises and they think I'm on drugs- WHICH I'M NOT\"* and that *\"l left my friend's because they all have drug problems.\"*\n\nI have no idea what's true, or why he would have to come back to SE Michigan so suddenly that he has no where to go. He keeps trying to bring up old memories to guilt me into taking him in, but I can't possibly trust him in my home. He says he has his car, some clothes, and less than $40. He slept in his car last night, and is still begging for help.\n\nI have seen no signs of suicidal ideation, but it is currently my worst fear b/c of a mutual acquaintance of ours who committed suicide in a very similar situation- except he actually had a place to sleep when he did it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My \"friend\" of 15 years has made countless life choices that I do not agree with. He's compulsively lied to me our entire relationship but avoided hurting me enough for me to completely cut ties like everyone else.\n\nWhen I left for college he \"anonymously\" stalked and threatened some of my new friends out of jealousy. Our interactions slowly dwindled until he stopped responding to my text messages about 4 months ago. I hear from him last night for the first time and he needs a place to stay because his GF broke up with him because he couldn't keep a job (I'm not even sure he ever had one).\n\nHe may or may not have been in and out of drug addiction. Weed always (which he has definitely dealt, though I don't know to what extent or if he ever got into serious drugs). I know he's abused Rx opiates at some point but beyond that he has not divulged anything to me because he knows I wouldn't approve.\n\nHe says his family won't respond anymore because \n\n*\"I haven't kept promises and they think I'm on drugs- WHICH I'M NOT\"* and that *\"l left my friend's because they all have drug problems.\"*\n\nI have no idea what's true, or why he would have to come back to SE Michigan so suddenly that he has no where to go. He keeps trying to bring up old memories to guilt me into taking him in, but I can't possibly trust him in my home. He says he has his car, some clothes, and less than $40. He slept in his car last night, and is still begging for help.\n\nI have seen no signs of suicidal ideation, but it is currently my worst fear b/c of a mutual acquaintance of ours who committed suicide in a very similar situation- except he actually had a place to sleep when he did it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My \"friend\" of 15 years has made countless life choices that I do not agree with. He's compulsively lied to me our entire relationship but avoided hurting me enough for me to completely cut ties like everyone else.\n\nWhen I left for college he \"anonymously\" stalked and threatened some of my new friends out of jealousy. Our interactions slowly dwindled until he stopped responding to my text messages about 4 months ago. I hear from him last night for the first time and he needs a place to stay because his GF broke up with him because he couldn't keep a job (I'm not even sure he ever had one).\n\nHe may or may not have been in and out of drug addiction. Weed always (which he has definitely dealt, though I don't know to what extent or if he ever got into serious drugs). I know he's abused Rx opiates at some point but beyond that he has not divulged anything to me because he knows I wouldn't approve.\n\nHe says his family won't respond anymore because \n\n*\"I haven't kept promises and they think I'm on drugs- WHICH I'M NOT\"* and that *\"l left my friend's because they all have drug problems.\"*\n\nI have no idea what's true, or why he would have to come back to SE Michigan so suddenly that he has no where to go. He keeps trying to bring up old memories to guilt me into taking him in, but I can't possibly trust him in my home. He says he has his car, some clothes, and less than $40. He slept in his car last night, and is still begging for help.\n\nI have seen no signs of suicidal ideation, but it is currently my worst fear b/c of a mutual acquaintance of ours who committed suicide in a very similar situation- except he actually had a place to sleep when he did it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My \"friend\" of 15 years has made countless life choices that I do not agree with. He's compulsively lied to me our entire relationship but avoided hurting me enough for me to completely cut ties like everyone else.\n\nWhen I left for college he \"anonymously\" stalked and threatened some of my new friends out of jealousy. Our interactions slowly dwindled until he stopped responding to my text messages about 4 months ago. I hear from him last night for the first time and he needs a place to stay because his GF broke up with him because he couldn't keep a job (I'm not even sure he ever had one).\n\nHe may or may not have been in and out of drug addiction. Weed always (which he has definitely dealt, though I don't know to what extent or if he ever got into serious drugs). I know he's abused Rx opiates at some point but beyond that he has not divulged anything to me because he knows I wouldn't approve.\n\nHe says his family won't respond anymore because \n\n*\"I haven't kept promises and they think I'm on drugs- WHICH I'M NOT\"* and that *\"l left my friend's because they all have drug problems.\"*\n\nI have no idea what's true, or why he would have to come back to SE Michigan so suddenly that he has no where to go. He keeps trying to bring up old memories to guilt me into taking him in, but I can't possibly trust him in my home. He says he has his car, some clothes, and less than $40. He slept in his car last night, and is still begging for help.\n\nI have seen no signs of suicidal ideation, but it is currently my worst fear b/c of a mutual acquaintance of ours who committed suicide in a very similar situation- except he actually had a place to sleep when he did it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We have graduated last spring. We both wanted to stay in the city where our school was, and I found a nice job but he was not able to, so he pretty much begged me to move to his home city (New York), hoping that his employment prospects would be better. \n\nI agreed, and we moved about six months ago. We both have found jobs here right away. At the moment he is living with his parents and I'm renting a studio. We see each other about 3 times per week which is pretty normal I guess for a couple that does not live together. \n\nNow onto the stuff that is bothering me - he never has time to go out with me Friday and Saturday night. BUT he's been going out with his friends/colleagues every Friday/Saturday night since we moved here. I obviously want some time with my boyfriend on those night - I'd like to go somewhere nice and fun with him. I haven't made too many friends yet, and even though I have met some nice people who I like exploring city with I still feel like I should be able to do that with my boyfriend. Now, before you suggest that I should just tag along with my bf and his friends/colleagues, here's the thing - I'm not invited and he told me as much. He thinks it would be awkward if he is also there. \n\nAfter hanging out with his friends on Fridays and Saturdays he always shows up to my apartment - he is usually to drunk to travel to his parents' place. He would come in and then pass out in my bed. The he wakes up early and leaves. Because of these \"sleepovers\" where our only interaction is me helping him get into bed and him trying to drunkenly get me to sleep with him we don't even exchange more than ten words, he tells me that we spend time together every weekend when we really do not since there is no quality time there. As I said I have tried discussing it with him, but he does not see any issue. I need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We have graduated last spring. We both wanted to stay in the city where our school was, and I found a nice job but he was not able to, so he pretty much begged me to move to his home city (New York), hoping that his employment prospects would be better. \n\nI agreed, and we moved about six months ago. We both have found jobs here right away. At the moment he is living with his parents and I'm renting a studio. We see each other about 3 times per week which is pretty normal I guess for a couple that does not live together. \n\nNow onto the stuff that is bothering me - he never has time to go out with me Friday and Saturday night. BUT he's been going out with his friends/colleagues every Friday/Saturday night since we moved here. I obviously want some time with my boyfriend on those night - I'd like to go somewhere nice and fun with him. I haven't made too many friends yet, and even though I have met some nice people who I like exploring city with I still feel like I should be able to do that with my boyfriend. Now, before you suggest that I should just tag along with my bf and his friends/colleagues, here's the thing - I'm not invited and he told me as much. He thinks it would be awkward if he is also there. \n\nAfter hanging out with his friends on Fridays and Saturdays he always shows up to my apartment - he is usually to drunk to travel to his parents' place. He would come in and then pass out in my bed. The he wakes up early and leaves. Because of these \"sleepovers\" where our only interaction is me helping him get into bed and him trying to drunkenly get me to sleep with him we don't even exchange more than ten words, he tells me that we spend time together every weekend when we really do not since there is no quality time there. As I said I have tried discussing it with him, but he does not see any issue. I need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We have graduated last spring. We both wanted to stay in the city where our school was, and I found a nice job but he was not able to, so he pretty much begged me to move to his home city (New York), hoping that his employment prospects would be better. \n\nI agreed, and we moved about six months ago. We both have found jobs here right away. At the moment he is living with his parents and I'm renting a studio. We see each other about 3 times per week which is pretty normal I guess for a couple that does not live together. \n\nNow onto the stuff that is bothering me - he never has time to go out with me Friday and Saturday night. BUT he's been going out with his friends/colleagues every Friday/Saturday night since we moved here. I obviously want some time with my boyfriend on those night - I'd like to go somewhere nice and fun with him. I haven't made too many friends yet, and even though I have met some nice people who I like exploring city with I still feel like I should be able to do that with my boyfriend. Now, before you suggest that I should just tag along with my bf and his friends/colleagues, here's the thing - I'm not invited and he told me as much. He thinks it would be awkward if he is also there. \n\nAfter hanging out with his friends on Fridays and Saturdays he always shows up to my apartment - he is usually to drunk to travel to his parents' place. He would come in and then pass out in my bed. The he wakes up early and leaves. Because of these \"sleepovers\" where our only interaction is me helping him get into bed and him trying to drunkenly get me to sleep with him we don't even exchange more than ten words, he tells me that we spend time together every weekend when we really do not since there is no quality time there. As I said I have tried discussing it with him, but he does not see any issue. I need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We have graduated last spring. We both wanted to stay in the city where our school was, and I found a nice job but he was not able to, so he pretty much begged me to move to his home city (New York), hoping that his employment prospects would be better. \n\nI agreed, and we moved about six months ago. We both have found jobs here right away. At the moment he is living with his parents and I'm renting a studio. We see each other about 3 times per week which is pretty normal I guess for a couple that does not live together. \n\nNow onto the stuff that is bothering me - he never has time to go out with me Friday and Saturday night. BUT he's been going out with his friends/colleagues every Friday/Saturday night since we moved here. I obviously want some time with my boyfriend on those night - I'd like to go somewhere nice and fun with him. I haven't made too many friends yet, and even though I have met some nice people who I like exploring city with I still feel like I should be able to do that with my boyfriend. Now, before you suggest that I should just tag along with my bf and his friends/colleagues, here's the thing - I'm not invited and he told me as much. He thinks it would be awkward if he is also there. \n\nAfter hanging out with his friends on Fridays and Saturdays he always shows up to my apartment - he is usually to drunk to travel to his parents' place. He would come in and then pass out in my bed. The he wakes up early and leaves. Because of these \"sleepovers\" where our only interaction is me helping him get into bed and him trying to drunkenly get me to sleep with him we don't even exchange more than ten words, he tells me that we spend time together every weekend when we really do not since there is no quality time there. As I said I have tried discussing it with him, but he does not see any issue. I need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We have graduated last spring. We both wanted to stay in the city where our school was, and I found a nice job but he was not able to, so he pretty much begged me to move to his home city (New York), hoping that his employment prospects would be better. \n\nI agreed, and we moved about six months ago. We both have found jobs here right away. At the moment he is living with his parents and I'm renting a studio. We see each other about 3 times per week which is pretty normal I guess for a couple that does not live together. \n\nNow onto the stuff that is bothering me - he never has time to go out with me Friday and Saturday night. BUT he's been going out with his friends/colleagues every Friday/Saturday night since we moved here. I obviously want some time with my boyfriend on those night - I'd like to go somewhere nice and fun with him. I haven't made too many friends yet, and even though I have met some nice people who I like exploring city with I still feel like I should be able to do that with my boyfriend. Now, before you suggest that I should just tag along with my bf and his friends/colleagues, here's the thing - I'm not invited and he told me as much. He thinks it would be awkward if he is also there. \n\nAfter hanging out with his friends on Fridays and Saturdays he always shows up to my apartment - he is usually to drunk to travel to his parents' place. He would come in and then pass out in my bed. The he wakes up early and leaves. Because of these \"sleepovers\" where our only interaction is me helping him get into bed and him trying to drunkenly get me to sleep with him we don't even exchange more than ten words, he tells me that we spend time together every weekend when we really do not since there is no quality time there. As I said I have tried discussing it with him, but he does not see any issue. I need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We have graduated last spring. We both wanted to stay in the city where our school was, and I found a nice job but he was not able to, so he pretty much begged me to move to his home city (New York), hoping that his employment prospects would be better. \n\nI agreed, and we moved about six months ago. We both have found jobs here right away. At the moment he is living with his parents and I'm renting a studio. We see each other about 3 times per week which is pretty normal I guess for a couple that does not live together. \n\nNow onto the stuff that is bothering me - he never has time to go out with me Friday and Saturday night. BUT he's been going out with his friends/colleagues every Friday/Saturday night since we moved here. I obviously want some time with my boyfriend on those night - I'd like to go somewhere nice and fun with him. I haven't made too many friends yet, and even though I have met some nice people who I like exploring city with I still feel like I should be able to do that with my boyfriend. Now, before you suggest that I should just tag along with my bf and his friends/colleagues, here's the thing - I'm not invited and he told me as much. He thinks it would be awkward if he is also there. \n\nAfter hanging out with his friends on Fridays and Saturdays he always shows up to my apartment - he is usually to drunk to travel to his parents' place. He would come in and then pass out in my bed. The he wakes up early and leaves. Because of these \"sleepovers\" where our only interaction is me helping him get into bed and him trying to drunkenly get me to sleep with him we don't even exchange more than ten words, he tells me that we spend time together every weekend when we really do not since there is no quality time there. As I said I have tried discussing it with him, but he does not see any issue. I need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has always been a bit socially awkward, but it seemed as though he was making great strides. This summer, he went to an acting camp, which he enjoyed tremendously. He ended up friending several of them on Facebook, including a girl whom he told me that he had a crush on. Now, my brother has a tendency to fall hard for girls, and to take it rather badly if they don't require his feelings, so I was a little worried.\n\nToday he left his Facebook up on the computer, and being a nosey older brother, I decided to have a look at what he was messaging this girl, more out of simple curiosity than anything else. Please note that I realize now that this was a bad thing to do, so if you tell me in the comments that I shouldn't have violated his privacy, I already realize that.\n\nI ended up looking at what he had been saying to this girl, and I was kind of disturbed by what I found. He had told this girl that he liked her and asked her out in a very sweet and respectful manner, and she turned him down saying she already had a BF. He talked to her about some other shit for a little while, and then began asking her about her current BF, asked her if she would date him if she weren't with this other guy, and said he was in love (!?) with her. In wasn't too far from being r/creepypms material.\n\nThe girl seemed like a bit of a jerk from what I saw of her, so I'm not too sad that he was shot down, but his behavior struck me as highly inappropriate. She seemed to think so as well, because she seemed shocked by the things he was saying , and expressed a desire for him to stop talking to her. Normally, I would tell my brother that he was being creepy, but since I found this stuff out by snooping through his Facebook, I can't without admitting this.\n\nSo help me Reddit, what should I do? I'm worried he'll say more creepy shit to her. Should I tell him, my parents, my therapist, or just keep quiet? Please give advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has always been a bit socially awkward, but it seemed as though he was making great strides. This summer, he went to an acting camp, which he enjoyed tremendously. He ended up friending several of them on Facebook, including a girl whom he told me that he had a crush on. Now, my brother has a tendency to fall hard for girls, and to take it rather badly if they don't require his feelings, so I was a little worried.\n\nToday he left his Facebook up on the computer, and being a nosey older brother, I decided to have a look at what he was messaging this girl, more out of simple curiosity than anything else. Please note that I realize now that this was a bad thing to do, so if you tell me in the comments that I shouldn't have violated his privacy, I already realize that.\n\nI ended up looking at what he had been saying to this girl, and I was kind of disturbed by what I found. He had told this girl that he liked her and asked her out in a very sweet and respectful manner, and she turned him down saying she already had a BF. He talked to her about some other shit for a little while, and then began asking her about her current BF, asked her if she would date him if she weren't with this other guy, and said he was in love (!?) with her. In wasn't too far from being r/creepypms material.\n\nThe girl seemed like a bit of a jerk from what I saw of her, so I'm not too sad that he was shot down, but his behavior struck me as highly inappropriate. She seemed to think so as well, because she seemed shocked by the things he was saying , and expressed a desire for him to stop talking to her. Normally, I would tell my brother that he was being creepy, but since I found this stuff out by snooping through his Facebook, I can't without admitting this.\n\nSo help me Reddit, what should I do? I'm worried he'll say more creepy shit to her. Should I tell him, my parents, my therapist, or just keep quiet? Please give advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has always been a bit socially awkward, but it seemed as though he was making great strides. This summer, he went to an acting camp, which he enjoyed tremendously. He ended up friending several of them on Facebook, including a girl whom he told me that he had a crush on. Now, my brother has a tendency to fall hard for girls, and to take it rather badly if they don't require his feelings, so I was a little worried.\n\nToday he left his Facebook up on the computer, and being a nosey older brother, I decided to have a look at what he was messaging this girl, more out of simple curiosity than anything else. Please note that I realize now that this was a bad thing to do, so if you tell me in the comments that I shouldn't have violated his privacy, I already realize that.\n\nI ended up looking at what he had been saying to this girl, and I was kind of disturbed by what I found. He had told this girl that he liked her and asked her out in a very sweet and respectful manner, and she turned him down saying she already had a BF. He talked to her about some other shit for a little while, and then began asking her about her current BF, asked her if she would date him if she weren't with this other guy, and said he was in love (!?) with her. In wasn't too far from being r/creepypms material.\n\nThe girl seemed like a bit of a jerk from what I saw of her, so I'm not too sad that he was shot down, but his behavior struck me as highly inappropriate. She seemed to think so as well, because she seemed shocked by the things he was saying , and expressed a desire for him to stop talking to her. Normally, I would tell my brother that he was being creepy, but since I found this stuff out by snooping through his Facebook, I can't without admitting this.\n\nSo help me Reddit, what should I do? I'm worried he'll say more creepy shit to her. Should I tell him, my parents, my therapist, or just keep quiet? Please give advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has always been a bit socially awkward, but it seemed as though he was making great strides. This summer, he went to an acting camp, which he enjoyed tremendously. He ended up friending several of them on Facebook, including a girl whom he told me that he had a crush on. Now, my brother has a tendency to fall hard for girls, and to take it rather badly if they don't require his feelings, so I was a little worried.\n\nToday he left his Facebook up on the computer, and being a nosey older brother, I decided to have a look at what he was messaging this girl, more out of simple curiosity than anything else. Please note that I realize now that this was a bad thing to do, so if you tell me in the comments that I shouldn't have violated his privacy, I already realize that.\n\nI ended up looking at what he had been saying to this girl, and I was kind of disturbed by what I found. He had told this girl that he liked her and asked her out in a very sweet and respectful manner, and she turned him down saying she already had a BF. He talked to her about some other shit for a little while, and then began asking her about her current BF, asked her if she would date him if she weren't with this other guy, and said he was in love (!?) with her. In wasn't too far from being r/creepypms material.\n\nThe girl seemed like a bit of a jerk from what I saw of her, so I'm not too sad that he was shot down, but his behavior struck me as highly inappropriate. She seemed to think so as well, because she seemed shocked by the things he was saying , and expressed a desire for him to stop talking to her. Normally, I would tell my brother that he was being creepy, but since I found this stuff out by snooping through his Facebook, I can't without admitting this.\n\nSo help me Reddit, what should I do? I'm worried he'll say more creepy shit to her. Should I tell him, my parents, my therapist, or just keep quiet? Please give advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has always been a bit socially awkward, but it seemed as though he was making great strides. This summer, he went to an acting camp, which he enjoyed tremendously. He ended up friending several of them on Facebook, including a girl whom he told me that he had a crush on. Now, my brother has a tendency to fall hard for girls, and to take it rather badly if they don't require his feelings, so I was a little worried.\n\nToday he left his Facebook up on the computer, and being a nosey older brother, I decided to have a look at what he was messaging this girl, more out of simple curiosity than anything else. Please note that I realize now that this was a bad thing to do, so if you tell me in the comments that I shouldn't have violated his privacy, I already realize that.\n\nI ended up looking at what he had been saying to this girl, and I was kind of disturbed by what I found. He had told this girl that he liked her and asked her out in a very sweet and respectful manner, and she turned him down saying she already had a BF. He talked to her about some other shit for a little while, and then began asking her about her current BF, asked her if she would date him if she weren't with this other guy, and said he was in love (!?) with her. In wasn't too far from being r/creepypms material.\n\nThe girl seemed like a bit of a jerk from what I saw of her, so I'm not too sad that he was shot down, but his behavior struck me as highly inappropriate. She seemed to think so as well, because she seemed shocked by the things he was saying , and expressed a desire for him to stop talking to her. Normally, I would tell my brother that he was being creepy, but since I found this stuff out by snooping through his Facebook, I can't without admitting this.\n\nSo help me Reddit, what should I do? I'm worried he'll say more creepy shit to her. Should I tell him, my parents, my therapist, or just keep quiet? Please give advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has always been a bit socially awkward, but it seemed as though he was making great strides. This summer, he went to an acting camp, which he enjoyed tremendously. He ended up friending several of them on Facebook, including a girl whom he told me that he had a crush on. Now, my brother has a tendency to fall hard for girls, and to take it rather badly if they don't require his feelings, so I was a little worried.\n\nToday he left his Facebook up on the computer, and being a nosey older brother, I decided to have a look at what he was messaging this girl, more out of simple curiosity than anything else. Please note that I realize now that this was a bad thing to do, so if you tell me in the comments that I shouldn't have violated his privacy, I already realize that.\n\nI ended up looking at what he had been saying to this girl, and I was kind of disturbed by what I found. He had told this girl that he liked her and asked her out in a very sweet and respectful manner, and she turned him down saying she already had a BF. He talked to her about some other shit for a little while, and then began asking her about her current BF, asked her if she would date him if she weren't with this other guy, and said he was in love (!?) with her. In wasn't too far from being r/creepypms material.\n\nThe girl seemed like a bit of a jerk from what I saw of her, so I'm not too sad that he was shot down, but his behavior struck me as highly inappropriate. She seemed to think so as well, because she seemed shocked by the things he was saying , and expressed a desire for him to stop talking to her. Normally, I would tell my brother that he was being creepy, but since I found this stuff out by snooping through his Facebook, I can't without admitting this.\n\nSo help me Reddit, what should I do? I'm worried he'll say more creepy shit to her. Should I tell him, my parents, my therapist, or just keep quiet? Please give advice!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the correct place to post, but here we go.\nI'm really good friends with this girl (i'm a male), we talk every day for hours (either through text, facebook, skype, or phone calls) and we're both pretty into each other, but that's not the point.\n\nLast night, our conversation took a really heavy turn, where she told me about her family problems. She told me incredibly personal details, which has happened before, but she started saying things that I wasn't sure how to handle. She confided in me that she thought she was the reason her parents got divorced, that she was responsible for her dad being alcoholic, and a shit ton of other stuff.\n\nI told her that no matter what, she has to believe that she isn't the cause of their problems, and that even if her physical family isn't always wonderful, she has a lot of people that care for her very deeply.\nI'm wondering how to proceed with this. We both know almost everything there is to know about each other, and I knew that she had a tough situation at home. I didn't know that she blamed herself, and I want to do everything in my power to make her feel like she's loved.\n\nUnfortunately, we live four hours from each other, so physical contact isn't an option. I've mailed her things before (from inside jokes, she didn't buy flowers for her mom on valentines day, I had them sent to her. She lost her favorite pencil, I bought her a new one. Stuff like that), so that's always an option.\n\nThank you very much for the help in advance. I want to make her feel cared for, and to express how deeply I want her to be happy. I'm not sure if she romantically likes me, but at this point I don't care, I just want her to be happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the correct place to post, but here we go.\nI'm really good friends with this girl (i'm a male), we talk every day for hours (either through text, facebook, skype, or phone calls) and we're both pretty into each other, but that's not the point.\n\nLast night, our conversation took a really heavy turn, where she told me about her family problems. She told me incredibly personal details, which has happened before, but she started saying things that I wasn't sure how to handle. She confided in me that she thought she was the reason her parents got divorced, that she was responsible for her dad being alcoholic, and a shit ton of other stuff.\n\nI told her that no matter what, she has to believe that she isn't the cause of their problems, and that even if her physical family isn't always wonderful, she has a lot of people that care for her very deeply.\nI'm wondering how to proceed with this. We both know almost everything there is to know about each other, and I knew that she had a tough situation at home. I didn't know that she blamed herself, and I want to do everything in my power to make her feel like she's loved.\n\nUnfortunately, we live four hours from each other, so physical contact isn't an option. I've mailed her things before (from inside jokes, she didn't buy flowers for her mom on valentines day, I had them sent to her. She lost her favorite pencil, I bought her a new one. Stuff like that), so that's always an option.\n\nThank you very much for the help in advance. I want to make her feel cared for, and to express how deeply I want her to be happy. I'm not sure if she romantically likes me, but at this point I don't care, I just want her to be happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the correct place to post, but here we go.\nI'm really good friends with this girl (i'm a male), we talk every day for hours (either through text, facebook, skype, or phone calls) and we're both pretty into each other, but that's not the point.\n\nLast night, our conversation took a really heavy turn, where she told me about her family problems. She told me incredibly personal details, which has happened before, but she started saying things that I wasn't sure how to handle. She confided in me that she thought she was the reason her parents got divorced, that she was responsible for her dad being alcoholic, and a shit ton of other stuff.\n\nI told her that no matter what, she has to believe that she isn't the cause of their problems, and that even if her physical family isn't always wonderful, she has a lot of people that care for her very deeply.\nI'm wondering how to proceed with this. We both know almost everything there is to know about each other, and I knew that she had a tough situation at home. I didn't know that she blamed herself, and I want to do everything in my power to make her feel like she's loved.\n\nUnfortunately, we live four hours from each other, so physical contact isn't an option. I've mailed her things before (from inside jokes, she didn't buy flowers for her mom on valentines day, I had them sent to her. She lost her favorite pencil, I bought her a new one. Stuff like that), so that's always an option.\n\nThank you very much for the help in advance. I want to make her feel cared for, and to express how deeply I want her to be happy. I'm not sure if she romantically likes me, but at this point I don't care, I just want her to be happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the correct place to post, but here we go.\nI'm really good friends with this girl (i'm a male), we talk every day for hours (either through text, facebook, skype, or phone calls) and we're both pretty into each other, but that's not the point.\n\nLast night, our conversation took a really heavy turn, where she told me about her family problems. She told me incredibly personal details, which has happened before, but she started saying things that I wasn't sure how to handle. She confided in me that she thought she was the reason her parents got divorced, that she was responsible for her dad being alcoholic, and a shit ton of other stuff.\n\nI told her that no matter what, she has to believe that she isn't the cause of their problems, and that even if her physical family isn't always wonderful, she has a lot of people that care for her very deeply.\nI'm wondering how to proceed with this. We both know almost everything there is to know about each other, and I knew that she had a tough situation at home. I didn't know that she blamed herself, and I want to do everything in my power to make her feel like she's loved.\n\nUnfortunately, we live four hours from each other, so physical contact isn't an option. I've mailed her things before (from inside jokes, she didn't buy flowers for her mom on valentines day, I had them sent to her. She lost her favorite pencil, I bought her a new one. Stuff like that), so that's always an option.\n\nThank you very much for the help in advance. I want to make her feel cared for, and to express how deeply I want her to be happy. I'm not sure if she romantically likes me, but at this point I don't care, I just want her to be happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the correct place to post, but here we go.\nI'm really good friends with this girl (i'm a male), we talk every day for hours (either through text, facebook, skype, or phone calls) and we're both pretty into each other, but that's not the point.\n\nLast night, our conversation took a really heavy turn, where she told me about her family problems. She told me incredibly personal details, which has happened before, but she started saying things that I wasn't sure how to handle. She confided in me that she thought she was the reason her parents got divorced, that she was responsible for her dad being alcoholic, and a shit ton of other stuff.\n\nI told her that no matter what, she has to believe that she isn't the cause of their problems, and that even if her physical family isn't always wonderful, she has a lot of people that care for her very deeply.\nI'm wondering how to proceed with this. We both know almost everything there is to know about each other, and I knew that she had a tough situation at home. I didn't know that she blamed herself, and I want to do everything in my power to make her feel like she's loved.\n\nUnfortunately, we live four hours from each other, so physical contact isn't an option. I've mailed her things before (from inside jokes, she didn't buy flowers for her mom on valentines day, I had them sent to her. She lost her favorite pencil, I bought her a new one. Stuff like that), so that's always an option.\n\nThank you very much for the help in advance. I want to make her feel cared for, and to express how deeply I want her to be happy. I'm not sure if she romantically likes me, but at this point I don't care, I just want her to be happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the correct place to post, but here we go.\nI'm really good friends with this girl (i'm a male), we talk every day for hours (either through text, facebook, skype, or phone calls) and we're both pretty into each other, but that's not the point.\n\nLast night, our conversation took a really heavy turn, where she told me about her family problems. She told me incredibly personal details, which has happened before, but she started saying things that I wasn't sure how to handle. She confided in me that she thought she was the reason her parents got divorced, that she was responsible for her dad being alcoholic, and a shit ton of other stuff.\n\nI told her that no matter what, she has to believe that she isn't the cause of their problems, and that even if her physical family isn't always wonderful, she has a lot of people that care for her very deeply.\nI'm wondering how to proceed with this. We both know almost everything there is to know about each other, and I knew that she had a tough situation at home. I didn't know that she blamed herself, and I want to do everything in my power to make her feel like she's loved.\n\nUnfortunately, we live four hours from each other, so physical contact isn't an option. I've mailed her things before (from inside jokes, she didn't buy flowers for her mom on valentines day, I had them sent to her. She lost her favorite pencil, I bought her a new one. Stuff like that), so that's always an option.\n\nThank you very much for the help in advance. I want to make her feel cared for, and to express how deeply I want her to be happy. I'm not sure if she romantically likes me, but at this point I don't care, I just want her to be happy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On the subject of Retirony, I was just wondering who else felt fate give them last licks on their way out of a job. \n\nSo I've been a dishwasher and janitor at this restaurant/bar all summer. Today was my last night because tomorrow morning I'm going back to school. I got to work and went to go pee, and a man is sitting at the sink in the bathroom, puking, drunk, with two fingers up his nostrils, which are bleeding like a faucet. Turns out, as he explained to me, he had egged the cooks on, trying to get them to make him super hot wings, and kept sending them back for not being hot enough. So he finally gets acceptable wings, and 15 minutes later, this 280 pound, 45 year old jerk is bleeding out of his face and vomiting hot sauce and chicken into the sink. He is now using one hand to stop his nose from bleeding, and the other to grab chicken vomit bits in the sink and throw them in the trash can, which he is mostly missing. I get him a glass of ice water and tell him he can leave. Now I'm gloved up, pouring bleach on *everythingg* and mopping the floor, and of course scooping his chicken out of the sink. When I was done cleaning, I noticed my arms were burning. It occurred to me what this was, it's the hot sauce, which has already been digested once. No matter how much I wash my arms with soap water, ice water, anything I can find, it wont come off. So I just know there's vomit on me. Happy ending though: My boss threw me a 50 at the end of the night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On the subject of Retirony, I was just wondering who else felt fate give them last licks on their way out of a job. \n\nSo I've been a dishwasher and janitor at this restaurant/bar all summer. Today was my last night because tomorrow morning I'm going back to school. I got to work and went to go pee, and a man is sitting at the sink in the bathroom, puking, drunk, with two fingers up his nostrils, which are bleeding like a faucet. Turns out, as he explained to me, he had egged the cooks on, trying to get them to make him super hot wings, and kept sending them back for not being hot enough. So he finally gets acceptable wings, and 15 minutes later, this 280 pound, 45 year old jerk is bleeding out of his face and vomiting hot sauce and chicken into the sink. He is now using one hand to stop his nose from bleeding, and the other to grab chicken vomit bits in the sink and throw them in the trash can, which he is mostly missing. I get him a glass of ice water and tell him he can leave. Now I'm gloved up, pouring bleach on *everythingg* and mopping the floor, and of course scooping his chicken out of the sink. When I was done cleaning, I noticed my arms were burning. It occurred to me what this was, it's the hot sauce, which has already been digested once. No matter how much I wash my arms with soap water, ice water, anything I can find, it wont come off. So I just know there's vomit on me. Happy ending though: My boss threw me a 50 at the end of the night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On the subject of Retirony, I was just wondering who else felt fate give them last licks on their way out of a job. \n\nSo I've been a dishwasher and janitor at this restaurant/bar all summer. Today was my last night because tomorrow morning I'm going back to school. I got to work and went to go pee, and a man is sitting at the sink in the bathroom, puking, drunk, with two fingers up his nostrils, which are bleeding like a faucet. Turns out, as he explained to me, he had egged the cooks on, trying to get them to make him super hot wings, and kept sending them back for not being hot enough. So he finally gets acceptable wings, and 15 minutes later, this 280 pound, 45 year old jerk is bleeding out of his face and vomiting hot sauce and chicken into the sink. He is now using one hand to stop his nose from bleeding, and the other to grab chicken vomit bits in the sink and throw them in the trash can, which he is mostly missing. I get him a glass of ice water and tell him he can leave. Now I'm gloved up, pouring bleach on *everythingg* and mopping the floor, and of course scooping his chicken out of the sink. When I was done cleaning, I noticed my arms were burning. It occurred to me what this was, it's the hot sauce, which has already been digested once. No matter how much I wash my arms with soap water, ice water, anything I can find, it wont come off. So I just know there's vomit on me. Happy ending though: My boss threw me a 50 at the end of the night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On the subject of Retirony, I was just wondering who else felt fate give them last licks on their way out of a job. \n\nSo I've been a dishwasher and janitor at this restaurant/bar all summer. Today was my last night because tomorrow morning I'm going back to school. I got to work and went to go pee, and a man is sitting at the sink in the bathroom, puking, drunk, with two fingers up his nostrils, which are bleeding like a faucet. Turns out, as he explained to me, he had egged the cooks on, trying to get them to make him super hot wings, and kept sending them back for not being hot enough. So he finally gets acceptable wings, and 15 minutes later, this 280 pound, 45 year old jerk is bleeding out of his face and vomiting hot sauce and chicken into the sink. He is now using one hand to stop his nose from bleeding, and the other to grab chicken vomit bits in the sink and throw them in the trash can, which he is mostly missing. I get him a glass of ice water and tell him he can leave. Now I'm gloved up, pouring bleach on *everythingg* and mopping the floor, and of course scooping his chicken out of the sink. When I was done cleaning, I noticed my arms were burning. It occurred to me what this was, it's the hot sauce, which has already been digested once. No matter how much I wash my arms with soap water, ice water, anything I can find, it wont come off. So I just know there's vomit on me. Happy ending though: My boss threw me a 50 at the end of the night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On the subject of Retirony, I was just wondering who else felt fate give them last licks on their way out of a job. \n\nSo I've been a dishwasher and janitor at this restaurant/bar all summer. Today was my last night because tomorrow morning I'm going back to school. I got to work and went to go pee, and a man is sitting at the sink in the bathroom, puking, drunk, with two fingers up his nostrils, which are bleeding like a faucet. Turns out, as he explained to me, he had egged the cooks on, trying to get them to make him super hot wings, and kept sending them back for not being hot enough. So he finally gets acceptable wings, and 15 minutes later, this 280 pound, 45 year old jerk is bleeding out of his face and vomiting hot sauce and chicken into the sink. He is now using one hand to stop his nose from bleeding, and the other to grab chicken vomit bits in the sink and throw them in the trash can, which he is mostly missing. I get him a glass of ice water and tell him he can leave. Now I'm gloved up, pouring bleach on *everythingg* and mopping the floor, and of course scooping his chicken out of the sink. When I was done cleaning, I noticed my arms were burning. It occurred to me what this was, it's the hot sauce, which has already been digested once. No matter how much I wash my arms with soap water, ice water, anything I can find, it wont come off. So I just know there's vomit on me. Happy ending though: My boss threw me a 50 at the end of the night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On the subject of Retirony, I was just wondering who else felt fate give them last licks on their way out of a job. \n\nSo I've been a dishwasher and janitor at this restaurant/bar all summer. Today was my last night because tomorrow morning I'm going back to school. I got to work and went to go pee, and a man is sitting at the sink in the bathroom, puking, drunk, with two fingers up his nostrils, which are bleeding like a faucet. Turns out, as he explained to me, he had egged the cooks on, trying to get them to make him super hot wings, and kept sending them back for not being hot enough. So he finally gets acceptable wings, and 15 minutes later, this 280 pound, 45 year old jerk is bleeding out of his face and vomiting hot sauce and chicken into the sink. He is now using one hand to stop his nose from bleeding, and the other to grab chicken vomit bits in the sink and throw them in the trash can, which he is mostly missing. I get him a glass of ice water and tell him he can leave. Now I'm gloved up, pouring bleach on *everythingg* and mopping the floor, and of course scooping his chicken out of the sink. When I was done cleaning, I noticed my arms were burning. It occurred to me what this was, it's the hot sauce, which has already been digested once. No matter how much I wash my arms with soap water, ice water, anything I can find, it wont come off. So I just know there's vomit on me. Happy ending though: My boss threw me a 50 at the end of the night."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. \n\nHowever, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. \n\nI mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever.\n\nSo, my"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. \n\nHowever, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. \n\nI mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever.\n\nSo, my"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. \n\nHowever, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. \n\nI mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever.\n\nSo, my"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed with her. We had some contact since but the last two weeks we barely sent any messages to each other, yet I have been talking to both my kids on phone regularly.\n\nTomorrow I am flying to them for 4 days. As the contact to my wife has become less in the past weeks I think that that is a sign for loosing our relationship. She has not started any chat, always only replies to my messages. Has not called only responded to my calls. \n\nI am not sure how to behave when we will meet. Do I hug her or just say hello? Do I show my feelings that I am sad and want our family back together or do I play the \"life is good\" part? Should I bring her a gift? (Since I left I sent two boxes with presents to them, my wife said thank you but without any comments or sign of joy). Sent her flowers on our 13th wedding anniversary, got only a thank you message in whatsapp. Should I try to talk to her about our relationship or should I leave this topic out as she always tells me not to pressure her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed with her. We had some contact since but the last two weeks we barely sent any messages to each other, yet I have been talking to both my kids on phone regularly.\n\nTomorrow I am flying to them for 4 days. As the contact to my wife has become less in the past weeks I think that that is a sign for loosing our relationship. She has not started any chat, always only replies to my messages. Has not called only responded to my calls. \n\nI am not sure how to behave when we will meet. Do I hug her or just say hello? Do I show my feelings that I am sad and want our family back together or do I play the \"life is good\" part? Should I bring her a gift? (Since I left I sent two boxes with presents to them, my wife said thank you but without any comments or sign of joy). Sent her flowers on our 13th wedding anniversary, got only a thank you message in whatsapp. Should I try to talk to her about our relationship or should I leave this topic out as she always tells me not to pressure her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed with her. We had some contact since but the last two weeks we barely sent any messages to each other, yet I have been talking to both my kids on phone regularly.\n\nTomorrow I am flying to them for 4 days. As the contact to my wife has become less in the past weeks I think that that is a sign for loosing our relationship. She has not started any chat, always only replies to my messages. Has not called only responded to my calls. \n\nI am not sure how to behave when we will meet. Do I hug her or just say hello? Do I show my feelings that I am sad and want our family back together or do I play the \"life is good\" part? Should I bring her a gift? (Since I left I sent two boxes with presents to them, my wife said thank you but without any comments or sign of joy). Sent her flowers on our 13th wedding anniversary, got only a thank you message in whatsapp. Should I try to talk to her about our relationship or should I leave this topic out as she always tells me not to pressure her."
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed with her. We had some contact since but the last two weeks we barely sent any messages to each other, yet I have been talking to both my kids on phone regularly.\n\nTomorrow I am flying to them for 4 days. As the contact to my wife has become less in the past weeks I think that that is a sign for loosing our relationship. She has not started any chat, always only replies to my messages. Has not called only responded to my calls. \n\nI am not sure how to behave when we will meet. Do I hug her or just say hello? Do I show my feelings that I am sad and want our family back together or do I play the \"life is good\" part? Should I bring her a gift? (Since I left I sent two boxes with presents to them, my wife said thank you but without any comments or sign of joy). Sent her flowers on our 13th wedding anniversary, got only a thank you message in whatsapp. Should I try to talk to her about our relationship or should I leave this topic out as she always tells me not to pressure her."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed with her. We had some contact since but the last two weeks we barely sent any messages to each other, yet I have been talking to both my kids on phone regularly.\n\nTomorrow I am flying to them for 4 days. As the contact to my wife has become less in the past weeks I think that that is a sign for loosing our relationship. She has not started any chat, always only replies to my messages. Has not called only responded to my calls. \n\nI am not sure how to behave when we will meet. Do I hug her or just say hello? Do I show my feelings that I am sad and want our family back together or do I play the \"life is good\" part? Should I bring her a gift? (Since I left I sent two boxes with presents to them, my wife said thank you but without any comments or sign of joy). Sent her flowers on our 13th wedding anniversary, got only a thank you message in whatsapp. Should I try to talk to her about our relationship or should I leave this topic out as she always tells me not to pressure her."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed with her. We had some contact since but the last two weeks we barely sent any messages to each other, yet I have been talking to both my kids on phone regularly.\n\nTomorrow I am flying to them for 4 days. As the contact to my wife has become less in the past weeks I think that that is a sign for loosing our relationship. She has not started any chat, always only replies to my messages. Has not called only responded to my calls. \n\nI am not sure how to behave when we will meet. Do I hug her or just say hello? Do I show my feelings that I am sad and want our family back together or do I play the \"life is good\" part? Should I bring her a gift? (Since I left I sent two boxes with presents to them, my wife said thank you but without any comments or sign of joy). Sent her flowers on our 13th wedding anniversary, got only a thank you message in whatsapp. Should I try to talk to her about our relationship or should I leave this topic out as she always tells me not to pressure her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a relative who has never been very bright and always acted very childish; would cry if you upset her even slightly and was always screaming at her parents. She does well in school but emotionally she seems stunted and has extreme mood swings (laughing one second and immediately crying the next). When she was 15 we all assumed she would grow out of it. She is now 18 and remains the same. Employers won't even consider hiring her.\n\nWe have our suspicions of the cause; *she was molested as a child by her father and at least one kid that we know of.*\n\nHer family can't afford a therapist to send her to. We might be able to help get her to a doctor, but what exactly can be done? We're all worried she will never be mentally prepared to work a job or live on her own. When she dates other guys she freaks out when they try to get close to her and breaks up with them."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a relative who has never been very bright and always acted very childish; would cry if you upset her even slightly and was always screaming at her parents. She does well in school but emotionally she seems stunted and has extreme mood swings (laughing one second and immediately crying the next). When she was 15 we all assumed she would grow out of it. She is now 18 and remains the same. Employers won't even consider hiring her.\n\nWe have our suspicions of the cause; *she was molested as a child by her father and at least one kid that we know of.*\n\nHer family can't afford a therapist to send her to. We might be able to help get her to a doctor, but what exactly can be done? We're all worried she will never be mentally prepared to work a job or live on her own. When she dates other guys she freaks out when they try to get close to her and breaks up with them."
} |
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