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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway for personal reasons.\n\nAnyways, story time! I dumped my girlfriend of four years. She cheated on me with a guy she met a few weeks ago on the day of my friend's birthday. \n\nBackstory: \nMy ex-girlfriend and I played plenty of League of Legends during our four years and we grew to like the game a lot. I, however, started playing less and less when I felt the need to start working and earning an income to support myself and my parents. She, on the other hand, is working on her Master's degree, which means I don't usually get to visit her often because of my work's overtime (I'm a temporary employee, trying to get permanent status), chores, and other stuff.\n\nSo on my friend's birthday, I was going to pick her up to meet my friends, but she didn't state that she was free until two hours before the party. I was waiting in line at the bakery picking up the cake for my friend, so I told her that I won't be able to make it and that she should find other plans (she was hanging out with the guy in the morning watching anime). After we discussed this, it took over an hour to pick up the cake and my friends, and we still got to the restaurant late (so picking her up would have made it alter).\n\nFast forward to the end of the night, she messaged me and said that she was watching the World Championships with the guy and his friends. Around the third or fourth game, she was dropped off at home and we just conversed from there. But the truth was that she went to the guy's house and they. y'know. \n\nAnywho, I found out because I usually pry into her stuff in front of her while hanging with her (curiosity kills the cat). I basically read the conversation she had with her best friend about what they did and etc etc.\n\nAnd that was it. \n\nI wish the two of them the best of luck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway for personal reasons.\n\nAnyways, story time! I dumped my girlfriend of four years. She cheated on me with a guy she met a few weeks ago on the day of my friend's birthday. \n\nBackstory: \nMy ex-girlfriend and I played plenty of League of Legends during our four years and we grew to like the game a lot. I, however, started playing less and less when I felt the need to start working and earning an income to support myself and my parents. She, on the other hand, is working on her Master's degree, which means I don't usually get to visit her often because of my work's overtime (I'm a temporary employee, trying to get permanent status), chores, and other stuff.\n\nSo on my friend's birthday, I was going to pick her up to meet my friends, but she didn't state that she was free until two hours before the party. I was waiting in line at the bakery picking up the cake for my friend, so I told her that I won't be able to make it and that she should find other plans (she was hanging out with the guy in the morning watching anime). After we discussed this, it took over an hour to pick up the cake and my friends, and we still got to the restaurant late (so picking her up would have made it alter).\n\nFast forward to the end of the night, she messaged me and said that she was watching the World Championships with the guy and his friends. Around the third or fourth game, she was dropped off at home and we just conversed from there. But the truth was that she went to the guy's house and they. y'know. \n\nAnywho, I found out because I usually pry into her stuff in front of her while hanging with her (curiosity kills the cat). I basically read the conversation she had with her best friend about what they did and etc etc.\n\nAnd that was it. \n\nI wish the two of them the best of luck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway for personal reasons.\n\nAnyways, story time! I dumped my girlfriend of four years. She cheated on me with a guy she met a few weeks ago on the day of my friend's birthday. \n\nBackstory: \nMy ex-girlfriend and I played plenty of League of Legends during our four years and we grew to like the game a lot. I, however, started playing less and less when I felt the need to start working and earning an income to support myself and my parents. She, on the other hand, is working on her Master's degree, which means I don't usually get to visit her often because of my work's overtime (I'm a temporary employee, trying to get permanent status), chores, and other stuff.\n\nSo on my friend's birthday, I was going to pick her up to meet my friends, but she didn't state that she was free until two hours before the party. I was waiting in line at the bakery picking up the cake for my friend, so I told her that I won't be able to make it and that she should find other plans (she was hanging out with the guy in the morning watching anime). After we discussed this, it took over an hour to pick up the cake and my friends, and we still got to the restaurant late (so picking her up would have made it alter).\n\nFast forward to the end of the night, she messaged me and said that she was watching the World Championships with the guy and his friends. Around the third or fourth game, she was dropped off at home and we just conversed from there. But the truth was that she went to the guy's house and they. y'know. \n\nAnywho, I found out because I usually pry into her stuff in front of her while hanging with her (curiosity kills the cat). I basically read the conversation she had with her best friend about what they did and etc etc.\n\nAnd that was it. \n\nI wish the two of them the best of luck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway for personal reasons.\n\nAnyways, story time! I dumped my girlfriend of four years. She cheated on me with a guy she met a few weeks ago on the day of my friend's birthday. \n\nBackstory: \nMy ex-girlfriend and I played plenty of League of Legends during our four years and we grew to like the game a lot. I, however, started playing less and less when I felt the need to start working and earning an income to support myself and my parents. She, on the other hand, is working on her Master's degree, which means I don't usually get to visit her often because of my work's overtime (I'm a temporary employee, trying to get permanent status), chores, and other stuff.\n\nSo on my friend's birthday, I was going to pick her up to meet my friends, but she didn't state that she was free until two hours before the party. I was waiting in line at the bakery picking up the cake for my friend, so I told her that I won't be able to make it and that she should find other plans (she was hanging out with the guy in the morning watching anime). After we discussed this, it took over an hour to pick up the cake and my friends, and we still got to the restaurant late (so picking her up would have made it alter).\n\nFast forward to the end of the night, she messaged me and said that she was watching the World Championships with the guy and his friends. Around the third or fourth game, she was dropped off at home and we just conversed from there. But the truth was that she went to the guy's house and they. y'know. \n\nAnywho, I found out because I usually pry into her stuff in front of her while hanging with her (curiosity kills the cat). I basically read the conversation she had with her best friend about what they did and etc etc.\n\nAnd that was it. \n\nI wish the two of them the best of luck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway for personal reasons.\n\nAnyways, story time! I dumped my girlfriend of four years. She cheated on me with a guy she met a few weeks ago on the day of my friend's birthday. \n\nBackstory: \nMy ex-girlfriend and I played plenty of League of Legends during our four years and we grew to like the game a lot. I, however, started playing less and less when I felt the need to start working and earning an income to support myself and my parents. She, on the other hand, is working on her Master's degree, which means I don't usually get to visit her often because of my work's overtime (I'm a temporary employee, trying to get permanent status), chores, and other stuff.\n\nSo on my friend's birthday, I was going to pick her up to meet my friends, but she didn't state that she was free until two hours before the party. I was waiting in line at the bakery picking up the cake for my friend, so I told her that I won't be able to make it and that she should find other plans (she was hanging out with the guy in the morning watching anime). After we discussed this, it took over an hour to pick up the cake and my friends, and we still got to the restaurant late (so picking her up would have made it alter).\n\nFast forward to the end of the night, she messaged me and said that she was watching the World Championships with the guy and his friends. Around the third or fourth game, she was dropped off at home and we just conversed from there. But the truth was that she went to the guy's house and they. y'know. \n\nAnywho, I found out because I usually pry into her stuff in front of her while hanging with her (curiosity kills the cat). I basically read the conversation she had with her best friend about what they did and etc etc.\n\nAnd that was it. \n\nI wish the two of them the best of luck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway for personal reasons.\n\nAnyways, story time! I dumped my girlfriend of four years. She cheated on me with a guy she met a few weeks ago on the day of my friend's birthday. \n\nBackstory: \nMy ex-girlfriend and I played plenty of League of Legends during our four years and we grew to like the game a lot. I, however, started playing less and less when I felt the need to start working and earning an income to support myself and my parents. She, on the other hand, is working on her Master's degree, which means I don't usually get to visit her often because of my work's overtime (I'm a temporary employee, trying to get permanent status), chores, and other stuff.\n\nSo on my friend's birthday, I was going to pick her up to meet my friends, but she didn't state that she was free until two hours before the party. I was waiting in line at the bakery picking up the cake for my friend, so I told her that I won't be able to make it and that she should find other plans (she was hanging out with the guy in the morning watching anime). After we discussed this, it took over an hour to pick up the cake and my friends, and we still got to the restaurant late (so picking her up would have made it alter).\n\nFast forward to the end of the night, she messaged me and said that she was watching the World Championships with the guy and his friends. Around the third or fourth game, she was dropped off at home and we just conversed from there. But the truth was that she went to the guy's house and they. y'know. \n\nAnywho, I found out because I usually pry into her stuff in front of her while hanging with her (curiosity kills the cat). I basically read the conversation she had with her best friend about what they did and etc etc.\n\nAnd that was it. \n\nI wish the two of them the best of luck."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I moved out to Northeast Ohio in January 2011. We signed a contract with a reputable home builder in June, 2011 with a delivery date of November 2011. \n\nThrough a bunch of missed promises from the home builder, and outright lies, our home was finally started in November of 2011 with a completion date slated for April 2012. We built in penalties to our contract that stated the builder would pay for our interest only construction loan, if we were to go past the 4/12 date. It has been almost 2 months of the breach, we have not received any payment from the builder.\n\nTo top it off, I just found out somehow the builder convinced the bank that the 10% deposit we put down direct to the builder ( our mistake looking back) that was supposed to go towards the purchase of our lot, was kept by the builder. He is not making any progress on other homes in the area, and we are unable to receive any response from anyone in the office.\n\nI have priced out completion of the home, with other builders in the area, using the same sub contractions, and am coming up 10% short of their asking prices, due to this.\n\nAny advice or direction, or similar experiences would help. I'm at my wits end, and have started the process to engage a lawyer, BUT the home builder obviously has no money left on their end."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I moved out to Northeast Ohio in January 2011. We signed a contract with a reputable home builder in June, 2011 with a delivery date of November 2011. \n\nThrough a bunch of missed promises from the home builder, and outright lies, our home was finally started in November of 2011 with a completion date slated for April 2012. We built in penalties to our contract that stated the builder would pay for our interest only construction loan, if we were to go past the 4/12 date. It has been almost 2 months of the breach, we have not received any payment from the builder.\n\nTo top it off, I just found out somehow the builder convinced the bank that the 10% deposit we put down direct to the builder ( our mistake looking back) that was supposed to go towards the purchase of our lot, was kept by the builder. He is not making any progress on other homes in the area, and we are unable to receive any response from anyone in the office.\n\nI have priced out completion of the home, with other builders in the area, using the same sub contractions, and am coming up 10% short of their asking prices, due to this.\n\nAny advice or direction, or similar experiences would help. I'm at my wits end, and have started the process to engage a lawyer, BUT the home builder obviously has no money left on their end."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I moved out to Northeast Ohio in January 2011. We signed a contract with a reputable home builder in June, 2011 with a delivery date of November 2011. \n\nThrough a bunch of missed promises from the home builder, and outright lies, our home was finally started in November of 2011 with a completion date slated for April 2012. We built in penalties to our contract that stated the builder would pay for our interest only construction loan, if we were to go past the 4/12 date. It has been almost 2 months of the breach, we have not received any payment from the builder.\n\nTo top it off, I just found out somehow the builder convinced the bank that the 10% deposit we put down direct to the builder ( our mistake looking back) that was supposed to go towards the purchase of our lot, was kept by the builder. He is not making any progress on other homes in the area, and we are unable to receive any response from anyone in the office.\n\nI have priced out completion of the home, with other builders in the area, using the same sub contractions, and am coming up 10% short of their asking prices, due to this.\n\nAny advice or direction, or similar experiences would help. I'm at my wits end, and have started the process to engage a lawyer, BUT the home builder obviously has no money left on their end."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I moved out to Northeast Ohio in January 2011. We signed a contract with a reputable home builder in June, 2011 with a delivery date of November 2011. \n\nThrough a bunch of missed promises from the home builder, and outright lies, our home was finally started in November of 2011 with a completion date slated for April 2012. We built in penalties to our contract that stated the builder would pay for our interest only construction loan, if we were to go past the 4/12 date. It has been almost 2 months of the breach, we have not received any payment from the builder.\n\nTo top it off, I just found out somehow the builder convinced the bank that the 10% deposit we put down direct to the builder ( our mistake looking back) that was supposed to go towards the purchase of our lot, was kept by the builder. He is not making any progress on other homes in the area, and we are unable to receive any response from anyone in the office.\n\nI have priced out completion of the home, with other builders in the area, using the same sub contractions, and am coming up 10% short of their asking prices, due to this.\n\nAny advice or direction, or similar experiences would help. I'm at my wits end, and have started the process to engage a lawyer, BUT the home builder obviously has no money left on their end."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! I'm a 25 year-old female. I've always been inclined toward darkness. I've always loved rainy days, graveyards, creepy woods, crows, witchcraft, and other things that people would consider \"spooky.\" I posted about this in /r/SexAdvice, but got no response. I'm curious. Am I on the necrophiliac spectrum?\n\nI've always loved skulls for their aesthetic. But for as long as I can remember, I've always been sexually attracted to skeletons. Notably, The Grim Reaper. I even had a crush on Jack Skellington when I was younger. I've had intense wet dreams about Grim Reaper-like beings. They're always male in my fantasies.\nI'm not attracted to real skeletons, but rather, people dressing up like skeletons. I don't fantasize about rotting corpses, murdering people, or anything like that. I don't get off by thinking about their being dead. But my skeleton fetish has led to some intense zombie fantasies and getting aroused during horror movies.\nIt recently dawned on me that this might be considered necrophilia. Is there a name for this besides WTF?\n\nAdvice? Insights?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! I'm a 25 year-old female. I've always been inclined toward darkness. I've always loved rainy days, graveyards, creepy woods, crows, witchcraft, and other things that people would consider \"spooky.\" I posted about this in /r/SexAdvice, but got no response. I'm curious. Am I on the necrophiliac spectrum?\n\nI've always loved skulls for their aesthetic. But for as long as I can remember, I've always been sexually attracted to skeletons. Notably, The Grim Reaper. I even had a crush on Jack Skellington when I was younger. I've had intense wet dreams about Grim Reaper-like beings. They're always male in my fantasies.\nI'm not attracted to real skeletons, but rather, people dressing up like skeletons. I don't fantasize about rotting corpses, murdering people, or anything like that. I don't get off by thinking about their being dead. But my skeleton fetish has led to some intense zombie fantasies and getting aroused during horror movies.\nIt recently dawned on me that this might be considered necrophilia. Is there a name for this besides WTF?\n\nAdvice? Insights?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! I'm a 25 year-old female. I've always been inclined toward darkness. I've always loved rainy days, graveyards, creepy woods, crows, witchcraft, and other things that people would consider \"spooky.\" I posted about this in /r/SexAdvice, but got no response. I'm curious. Am I on the necrophiliac spectrum?\n\nI've always loved skulls for their aesthetic. But for as long as I can remember, I've always been sexually attracted to skeletons. Notably, The Grim Reaper. I even had a crush on Jack Skellington when I was younger. I've had intense wet dreams about Grim Reaper-like beings. They're always male in my fantasies.\nI'm not attracted to real skeletons, but rather, people dressing up like skeletons. I don't fantasize about rotting corpses, murdering people, or anything like that. I don't get off by thinking about their being dead. But my skeleton fetish has led to some intense zombie fantasies and getting aroused during horror movies.\nIt recently dawned on me that this might be considered necrophilia. Is there a name for this besides WTF?\n\nAdvice? Insights?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! I'm a 25 year-old female. I've always been inclined toward darkness. I've always loved rainy days, graveyards, creepy woods, crows, witchcraft, and other things that people would consider \"spooky.\" I posted about this in /r/SexAdvice, but got no response. I'm curious. Am I on the necrophiliac spectrum?\n\nI've always loved skulls for their aesthetic. But for as long as I can remember, I've always been sexually attracted to skeletons. Notably, The Grim Reaper. I even had a crush on Jack Skellington when I was younger. I've had intense wet dreams about Grim Reaper-like beings. They're always male in my fantasies.\nI'm not attracted to real skeletons, but rather, people dressing up like skeletons. I don't fantasize about rotting corpses, murdering people, or anything like that. I don't get off by thinking about their being dead. But my skeleton fetish has led to some intense zombie fantasies and getting aroused during horror movies.\nIt recently dawned on me that this might be considered necrophilia. Is there a name for this besides WTF?\n\nAdvice? Insights?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi! I'm a 25 year-old female. I've always been inclined toward darkness. I've always loved rainy days, graveyards, creepy woods, crows, witchcraft, and other things that people would consider \"spooky.\" I posted about this in /r/SexAdvice, but got no response. I'm curious. Am I on the necrophiliac spectrum?\n\nI've always loved skulls for their aesthetic. But for as long as I can remember, I've always been sexually attracted to skeletons. Notably, The Grim Reaper. I even had a crush on Jack Skellington when I was younger. I've had intense wet dreams about Grim Reaper-like beings. They're always male in my fantasies.\nI'm not attracted to real skeletons, but rather, people dressing up like skeletons. I don't fantasize about rotting corpses, murdering people, or anything like that. I don't get off by thinking about their being dead. But my skeleton fetish has led to some intense zombie fantasies and getting aroused during horror movies.\nIt recently dawned on me that this might be considered necrophilia. Is there a name for this besides WTF?\n\nAdvice? Insights?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been the kind of person who doesn't like talking about myself with people I don't know really well. If a co-worker asks me if I did anything the weekend before, I'll probably say something along the lines of \"not really,\" unless I went to a concert or went on a road trip, or something g equally exciting. Sometimes it's because I forgot that anything happened. (I'm a HUGE airhead.) Sometimes it's because I get anxious and answer on auto-pilot. Sometimes, because of the whole airhead with anxiety thing, I have to take a second to remember and that takes too long for conversation with anyone who's not a close friend.\n\nAlternatively, I like forming friendships over common interests, and through in-depth conversations. I could talk about one episode of a tv show for half an hour and not get bored. If I like a song on the radio, I'll try addressing what it is about the song that I like (ie: rhythm, instrument tone, lyrics.) Its through these really specialized conversations, that I grow to trust people. It's through many of these conversations, that I feel comfortable telling someone that I sat outside and drew with chalk, or that I had six margaritas at dinner the night before. More or less, I need to share ideas with a person, before I share what I did in the physical world.\n\nThe problem: is that apparently it's weird to be so mysterious about myself. People assume I don't want to talk to them or get to know them and give up. That's quite the opposite: I DO want to get to know people, it just takes longer than they want. \n\nI'm American born and raised, but it seems, based on my readings, that I don't socialize like an American. But then I have I ask do I socialize in a manner that's socially acceptable in any country? I don't fucking know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been the kind of person who doesn't like talking about myself with people I don't know really well. If a co-worker asks me if I did anything the weekend before, I'll probably say something along the lines of \"not really,\" unless I went to a concert or went on a road trip, or something g equally exciting. Sometimes it's because I forgot that anything happened. (I'm a HUGE airhead.) Sometimes it's because I get anxious and answer on auto-pilot. Sometimes, because of the whole airhead with anxiety thing, I have to take a second to remember and that takes too long for conversation with anyone who's not a close friend.\n\nAlternatively, I like forming friendships over common interests, and through in-depth conversations. I could talk about one episode of a tv show for half an hour and not get bored. If I like a song on the radio, I'll try addressing what it is about the song that I like (ie: rhythm, instrument tone, lyrics.) Its through these really specialized conversations, that I grow to trust people. It's through many of these conversations, that I feel comfortable telling someone that I sat outside and drew with chalk, or that I had six margaritas at dinner the night before. More or less, I need to share ideas with a person, before I share what I did in the physical world.\n\nThe problem: is that apparently it's weird to be so mysterious about myself. People assume I don't want to talk to them or get to know them and give up. That's quite the opposite: I DO want to get to know people, it just takes longer than they want. \n\nI'm American born and raised, but it seems, based on my readings, that I don't socialize like an American. But then I have I ask do I socialize in a manner that's socially acceptable in any country? I don't fucking know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been the kind of person who doesn't like talking about myself with people I don't know really well. If a co-worker asks me if I did anything the weekend before, I'll probably say something along the lines of \"not really,\" unless I went to a concert or went on a road trip, or something g equally exciting. Sometimes it's because I forgot that anything happened. (I'm a HUGE airhead.) Sometimes it's because I get anxious and answer on auto-pilot. Sometimes, because of the whole airhead with anxiety thing, I have to take a second to remember and that takes too long for conversation with anyone who's not a close friend.\n\nAlternatively, I like forming friendships over common interests, and through in-depth conversations. I could talk about one episode of a tv show for half an hour and not get bored. If I like a song on the radio, I'll try addressing what it is about the song that I like (ie: rhythm, instrument tone, lyrics.) Its through these really specialized conversations, that I grow to trust people. It's through many of these conversations, that I feel comfortable telling someone that I sat outside and drew with chalk, or that I had six margaritas at dinner the night before. More or less, I need to share ideas with a person, before I share what I did in the physical world.\n\nThe problem: is that apparently it's weird to be so mysterious about myself. People assume I don't want to talk to them or get to know them and give up. That's quite the opposite: I DO want to get to know people, it just takes longer than they want. \n\nI'm American born and raised, but it seems, based on my readings, that I don't socialize like an American. But then I have I ask do I socialize in a manner that's socially acceptable in any country? I don't fucking know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been the kind of person who doesn't like talking about myself with people I don't know really well. If a co-worker asks me if I did anything the weekend before, I'll probably say something along the lines of \"not really,\" unless I went to a concert or went on a road trip, or something g equally exciting. Sometimes it's because I forgot that anything happened. (I'm a HUGE airhead.) Sometimes it's because I get anxious and answer on auto-pilot. Sometimes, because of the whole airhead with anxiety thing, I have to take a second to remember and that takes too long for conversation with anyone who's not a close friend.\n\nAlternatively, I like forming friendships over common interests, and through in-depth conversations. I could talk about one episode of a tv show for half an hour and not get bored. If I like a song on the radio, I'll try addressing what it is about the song that I like (ie: rhythm, instrument tone, lyrics.) Its through these really specialized conversations, that I grow to trust people. It's through many of these conversations, that I feel comfortable telling someone that I sat outside and drew with chalk, or that I had six margaritas at dinner the night before. More or less, I need to share ideas with a person, before I share what I did in the physical world.\n\nThe problem: is that apparently it's weird to be so mysterious about myself. People assume I don't want to talk to them or get to know them and give up. That's quite the opposite: I DO want to get to know people, it just takes longer than they want. \n\nI'm American born and raised, but it seems, based on my readings, that I don't socialize like an American. But then I have I ask do I socialize in a manner that's socially acceptable in any country? I don't fucking know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been the kind of person who doesn't like talking about myself with people I don't know really well. If a co-worker asks me if I did anything the weekend before, I'll probably say something along the lines of \"not really,\" unless I went to a concert or went on a road trip, or something g equally exciting. Sometimes it's because I forgot that anything happened. (I'm a HUGE airhead.) Sometimes it's because I get anxious and answer on auto-pilot. Sometimes, because of the whole airhead with anxiety thing, I have to take a second to remember and that takes too long for conversation with anyone who's not a close friend.\n\nAlternatively, I like forming friendships over common interests, and through in-depth conversations. I could talk about one episode of a tv show for half an hour and not get bored. If I like a song on the radio, I'll try addressing what it is about the song that I like (ie: rhythm, instrument tone, lyrics.) Its through these really specialized conversations, that I grow to trust people. It's through many of these conversations, that I feel comfortable telling someone that I sat outside and drew with chalk, or that I had six margaritas at dinner the night before. More or less, I need to share ideas with a person, before I share what I did in the physical world.\n\nThe problem: is that apparently it's weird to be so mysterious about myself. People assume I don't want to talk to them or get to know them and give up. That's quite the opposite: I DO want to get to know people, it just takes longer than they want. \n\nI'm American born and raised, but it seems, based on my readings, that I don't socialize like an American. But then I have I ask do I socialize in a manner that's socially acceptable in any country? I don't fucking know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've always been the kind of person who doesn't like talking about myself with people I don't know really well. If a co-worker asks me if I did anything the weekend before, I'll probably say something along the lines of \"not really,\" unless I went to a concert or went on a road trip, or something g equally exciting. Sometimes it's because I forgot that anything happened. (I'm a HUGE airhead.) Sometimes it's because I get anxious and answer on auto-pilot. Sometimes, because of the whole airhead with anxiety thing, I have to take a second to remember and that takes too long for conversation with anyone who's not a close friend.\n\nAlternatively, I like forming friendships over common interests, and through in-depth conversations. I could talk about one episode of a tv show for half an hour and not get bored. If I like a song on the radio, I'll try addressing what it is about the song that I like (ie: rhythm, instrument tone, lyrics.) Its through these really specialized conversations, that I grow to trust people. It's through many of these conversations, that I feel comfortable telling someone that I sat outside and drew with chalk, or that I had six margaritas at dinner the night before. More or less, I need to share ideas with a person, before I share what I did in the physical world.\n\nThe problem: is that apparently it's weird to be so mysterious about myself. People assume I don't want to talk to them or get to know them and give up. That's quite the opposite: I DO want to get to know people, it just takes longer than they want. \n\nI'm American born and raised, but it seems, based on my readings, that I don't socialize like an American. But then I have I ask do I socialize in a manner that's socially acceptable in any country? I don't fucking know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl I met on Tinder and I started off pretty hot and heavy. Spent the first night in her dorm when she was in my city. We continued to go on a few dates till she left but she was very conflicted about some things and didn't know what she wanted from me. I'm down for whatever as long as someone is forward about it and she's cool enough that I don't mind it being platonic. At least I think I do.\n\nAfter talking here and there while she was back home, we planned on hanging out before school started back up. I didn't think much of it. We're so far away from each other that I could just forget about her. Eventually she randomly calls me while I'm at work and asks if I want to drive up to her school with her and her mom. Sounds good to me, I like the city and it would be an adventure. We started talking a bit more frequently and then she says this to me.\n\n\"I was thinking about it and I think you're important and I want this to be for a while so dope friends is my plan for now.\"\n\nI ask what important means. She replies;\n\n\"By important I mean that I don't want this to end.\"\n\nFast forward to me going on the trip with them and I start feeling something a bit weird that I haven't felt since my ex. It's like I'm watching someone I used to like, like other people. It's just weird because we're friends and I don't normally feel this way about anyone let alone a friend. I had a great time with her mom and her. I really enjoyed my time with her. Before I left for my train she hugged me and said to come back to visit, it felt genuine. I just don't know why like I feel like the way I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl I met on Tinder and I started off pretty hot and heavy. Spent the first night in her dorm when she was in my city. We continued to go on a few dates till she left but she was very conflicted about some things and didn't know what she wanted from me. I'm down for whatever as long as someone is forward about it and she's cool enough that I don't mind it being platonic. At least I think I do.\n\nAfter talking here and there while she was back home, we planned on hanging out before school started back up. I didn't think much of it. We're so far away from each other that I could just forget about her. Eventually she randomly calls me while I'm at work and asks if I want to drive up to her school with her and her mom. Sounds good to me, I like the city and it would be an adventure. We started talking a bit more frequently and then she says this to me.\n\n\"I was thinking about it and I think you're important and I want this to be for a while so dope friends is my plan for now.\"\n\nI ask what important means. She replies;\n\n\"By important I mean that I don't want this to end.\"\n\nFast forward to me going on the trip with them and I start feeling something a bit weird that I haven't felt since my ex. It's like I'm watching someone I used to like, like other people. It's just weird because we're friends and I don't normally feel this way about anyone let alone a friend. I had a great time with her mom and her. I really enjoyed my time with her. Before I left for my train she hugged me and said to come back to visit, it felt genuine. I just don't know why like I feel like the way I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl I met on Tinder and I started off pretty hot and heavy. Spent the first night in her dorm when she was in my city. We continued to go on a few dates till she left but she was very conflicted about some things and didn't know what she wanted from me. I'm down for whatever as long as someone is forward about it and she's cool enough that I don't mind it being platonic. At least I think I do.\n\nAfter talking here and there while she was back home, we planned on hanging out before school started back up. I didn't think much of it. We're so far away from each other that I could just forget about her. Eventually she randomly calls me while I'm at work and asks if I want to drive up to her school with her and her mom. Sounds good to me, I like the city and it would be an adventure. We started talking a bit more frequently and then she says this to me.\n\n\"I was thinking about it and I think you're important and I want this to be for a while so dope friends is my plan for now.\"\n\nI ask what important means. She replies;\n\n\"By important I mean that I don't want this to end.\"\n\nFast forward to me going on the trip with them and I start feeling something a bit weird that I haven't felt since my ex. It's like I'm watching someone I used to like, like other people. It's just weird because we're friends and I don't normally feel this way about anyone let alone a friend. I had a great time with her mom and her. I really enjoyed my time with her. Before I left for my train she hugged me and said to come back to visit, it felt genuine. I just don't know why like I feel like the way I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl I met on Tinder and I started off pretty hot and heavy. Spent the first night in her dorm when she was in my city. We continued to go on a few dates till she left but she was very conflicted about some things and didn't know what she wanted from me. I'm down for whatever as long as someone is forward about it and she's cool enough that I don't mind it being platonic. At least I think I do.\n\nAfter talking here and there while she was back home, we planned on hanging out before school started back up. I didn't think much of it. We're so far away from each other that I could just forget about her. Eventually she randomly calls me while I'm at work and asks if I want to drive up to her school with her and her mom. Sounds good to me, I like the city and it would be an adventure. We started talking a bit more frequently and then she says this to me.\n\n\"I was thinking about it and I think you're important and I want this to be for a while so dope friends is my plan for now.\"\n\nI ask what important means. She replies;\n\n\"By important I mean that I don't want this to end.\"\n\nFast forward to me going on the trip with them and I start feeling something a bit weird that I haven't felt since my ex. It's like I'm watching someone I used to like, like other people. It's just weird because we're friends and I don't normally feel this way about anyone let alone a friend. I had a great time with her mom and her. I really enjoyed my time with her. Before I left for my train she hugged me and said to come back to visit, it felt genuine. I just don't know why like I feel like the way I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl I met on Tinder and I started off pretty hot and heavy. Spent the first night in her dorm when she was in my city. We continued to go on a few dates till she left but she was very conflicted about some things and didn't know what she wanted from me. I'm down for whatever as long as someone is forward about it and she's cool enough that I don't mind it being platonic. At least I think I do.\n\nAfter talking here and there while she was back home, we planned on hanging out before school started back up. I didn't think much of it. We're so far away from each other that I could just forget about her. Eventually she randomly calls me while I'm at work and asks if I want to drive up to her school with her and her mom. Sounds good to me, I like the city and it would be an adventure. We started talking a bit more frequently and then she says this to me.\n\n\"I was thinking about it and I think you're important and I want this to be for a while so dope friends is my plan for now.\"\n\nI ask what important means. She replies;\n\n\"By important I mean that I don't want this to end.\"\n\nFast forward to me going on the trip with them and I start feeling something a bit weird that I haven't felt since my ex. It's like I'm watching someone I used to like, like other people. It's just weird because we're friends and I don't normally feel this way about anyone let alone a friend. I had a great time with her mom and her. I really enjoyed my time with her. Before I left for my train she hugged me and said to come back to visit, it felt genuine. I just don't know why like I feel like the way I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl I met on Tinder and I started off pretty hot and heavy. Spent the first night in her dorm when she was in my city. We continued to go on a few dates till she left but she was very conflicted about some things and didn't know what she wanted from me. I'm down for whatever as long as someone is forward about it and she's cool enough that I don't mind it being platonic. At least I think I do.\n\nAfter talking here and there while she was back home, we planned on hanging out before school started back up. I didn't think much of it. We're so far away from each other that I could just forget about her. Eventually she randomly calls me while I'm at work and asks if I want to drive up to her school with her and her mom. Sounds good to me, I like the city and it would be an adventure. We started talking a bit more frequently and then she says this to me.\n\n\"I was thinking about it and I think you're important and I want this to be for a while so dope friends is my plan for now.\"\n\nI ask what important means. She replies;\n\n\"By important I mean that I don't want this to end.\"\n\nFast forward to me going on the trip with them and I start feeling something a bit weird that I haven't felt since my ex. It's like I'm watching someone I used to like, like other people. It's just weird because we're friends and I don't normally feel this way about anyone let alone a friend. I had a great time with her mom and her. I really enjoyed my time with her. Before I left for my train she hugged me and said to come back to visit, it felt genuine. I just don't know why like I feel like the way I do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I (M/22) started talking to this girl (F/19) through Tinder while visiting my old university. Turns out I actually had met her about a year ago while I was still in school. We've been hitting it off pretty well via text/Snapchat and while back visiting again I ran into her at a local night club. Things went pretty well but eventually we parted ways. She later texted me asking me to come over but my phone was dead and I didn't see it till morning.\n\nShe seems interested and I'm starting to like this girl. She is definitely my type. I have no idea when I'd see her again. The hang up is my last relationship. I was dating a student and she couldn't handle it and she broke my heart. I'm not sure I can put myself through that again. Essentially what I'm worried about dating someone in a different stage of life, I know I can handle it but I'm not sure I can trust someone else to again.\n\nHow do I figure out whether its worth the risk? Or should I just cut my losses having already learned my lesson?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I (M/22) started talking to this girl (F/19) through Tinder while visiting my old university. Turns out I actually had met her about a year ago while I was still in school. We've been hitting it off pretty well via text/Snapchat and while back visiting again I ran into her at a local night club. Things went pretty well but eventually we parted ways. She later texted me asking me to come over but my phone was dead and I didn't see it till morning.\n\nShe seems interested and I'm starting to like this girl. She is definitely my type. I have no idea when I'd see her again. The hang up is my last relationship. I was dating a student and she couldn't handle it and she broke my heart. I'm not sure I can put myself through that again. Essentially what I'm worried about dating someone in a different stage of life, I know I can handle it but I'm not sure I can trust someone else to again.\n\nHow do I figure out whether its worth the risk? Or should I just cut my losses having already learned my lesson?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I (M/22) started talking to this girl (F/19) through Tinder while visiting my old university. Turns out I actually had met her about a year ago while I was still in school. We've been hitting it off pretty well via text/Snapchat and while back visiting again I ran into her at a local night club. Things went pretty well but eventually we parted ways. She later texted me asking me to come over but my phone was dead and I didn't see it till morning.\n\nShe seems interested and I'm starting to like this girl. She is definitely my type. I have no idea when I'd see her again. The hang up is my last relationship. I was dating a student and she couldn't handle it and she broke my heart. I'm not sure I can put myself through that again. Essentially what I'm worried about dating someone in a different stage of life, I know I can handle it but I'm not sure I can trust someone else to again.\n\nHow do I figure out whether its worth the risk? Or should I just cut my losses having already learned my lesson?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I (M/22) started talking to this girl (F/19) through Tinder while visiting my old university. Turns out I actually had met her about a year ago while I was still in school. We've been hitting it off pretty well via text/Snapchat and while back visiting again I ran into her at a local night club. Things went pretty well but eventually we parted ways. She later texted me asking me to come over but my phone was dead and I didn't see it till morning.\n\nShe seems interested and I'm starting to like this girl. She is definitely my type. I have no idea when I'd see her again. The hang up is my last relationship. I was dating a student and she couldn't handle it and she broke my heart. I'm not sure I can put myself through that again. Essentially what I'm worried about dating someone in a different stage of life, I know I can handle it but I'm not sure I can trust someone else to again.\n\nHow do I figure out whether its worth the risk? Or should I just cut my losses having already learned my lesson?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I (M/22) started talking to this girl (F/19) through Tinder while visiting my old university. Turns out I actually had met her about a year ago while I was still in school. We've been hitting it off pretty well via text/Snapchat and while back visiting again I ran into her at a local night club. Things went pretty well but eventually we parted ways. She later texted me asking me to come over but my phone was dead and I didn't see it till morning.\n\nShe seems interested and I'm starting to like this girl. She is definitely my type. I have no idea when I'd see her again. The hang up is my last relationship. I was dating a student and she couldn't handle it and she broke my heart. I'm not sure I can put myself through that again. Essentially what I'm worried about dating someone in a different stage of life, I know I can handle it but I'm not sure I can trust someone else to again.\n\nHow do I figure out whether its worth the risk? Or should I just cut my losses having already learned my lesson?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was drunk at a party and went off with a girl from my school. We sorta had sex, it involved a lot of fumbling around and eventually we gave up. I was wearing a condom though (which I opened with my teeth) and I didn't ejaculate. Fast forward two months and she says that she's done 5 pregnancy tests with 3 being positive she had her period for one day last month (apparently this is normal and is called spotting) but she's been to a doctor's and had it confirmed. I haven't seen a test myself but a friend has. Also i'm very sure i'm the only guy she's been with.\n\nAnyway it looks like abortion isn't going to be an option. I'm just worried about the future at the moment, I'm currently doing my A-levels and I do good academically. I don't know if we'll both be kicked out from school but i'm not sure that my plan of going to university is going to pan out. Has anyone got any advice for me right now? I haven't told my parents and it's just my friends that know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was drunk at a party and went off with a girl from my school. We sorta had sex, it involved a lot of fumbling around and eventually we gave up. I was wearing a condom though (which I opened with my teeth) and I didn't ejaculate. Fast forward two months and she says that she's done 5 pregnancy tests with 3 being positive she had her period for one day last month (apparently this is normal and is called spotting) but she's been to a doctor's and had it confirmed. I haven't seen a test myself but a friend has. Also i'm very sure i'm the only guy she's been with.\n\nAnyway it looks like abortion isn't going to be an option. I'm just worried about the future at the moment, I'm currently doing my A-levels and I do good academically. I don't know if we'll both be kicked out from school but i'm not sure that my plan of going to university is going to pan out. Has anyone got any advice for me right now? I haven't told my parents and it's just my friends that know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was drunk at a party and went off with a girl from my school. We sorta had sex, it involved a lot of fumbling around and eventually we gave up. I was wearing a condom though (which I opened with my teeth) and I didn't ejaculate. Fast forward two months and she says that she's done 5 pregnancy tests with 3 being positive she had her period for one day last month (apparently this is normal and is called spotting) but she's been to a doctor's and had it confirmed. I haven't seen a test myself but a friend has. Also i'm very sure i'm the only guy she's been with.\n\nAnyway it looks like abortion isn't going to be an option. I'm just worried about the future at the moment, I'm currently doing my A-levels and I do good academically. I don't know if we'll both be kicked out from school but i'm not sure that my plan of going to university is going to pan out. Has anyone got any advice for me right now? I haven't told my parents and it's just my friends that know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was drunk at a party and went off with a girl from my school. We sorta had sex, it involved a lot of fumbling around and eventually we gave up. I was wearing a condom though (which I opened with my teeth) and I didn't ejaculate. Fast forward two months and she says that she's done 5 pregnancy tests with 3 being positive she had her period for one day last month (apparently this is normal and is called spotting) but she's been to a doctor's and had it confirmed. I haven't seen a test myself but a friend has. Also i'm very sure i'm the only guy she's been with.\n\nAnyway it looks like abortion isn't going to be an option. I'm just worried about the future at the moment, I'm currently doing my A-levels and I do good academically. I don't know if we'll both be kicked out from school but i'm not sure that my plan of going to university is going to pan out. Has anyone got any advice for me right now? I haven't told my parents and it's just my friends that know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was drunk at a party and went off with a girl from my school. We sorta had sex, it involved a lot of fumbling around and eventually we gave up. I was wearing a condom though (which I opened with my teeth) and I didn't ejaculate. Fast forward two months and she says that she's done 5 pregnancy tests with 3 being positive she had her period for one day last month (apparently this is normal and is called spotting) but she's been to a doctor's and had it confirmed. I haven't seen a test myself but a friend has. Also i'm very sure i'm the only guy she's been with.\n\nAnyway it looks like abortion isn't going to be an option. I'm just worried about the future at the moment, I'm currently doing my A-levels and I do good academically. I don't know if we'll both be kicked out from school but i'm not sure that my plan of going to university is going to pan out. Has anyone got any advice for me right now? I haven't told my parents and it's just my friends that know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was drunk at a party and went off with a girl from my school. We sorta had sex, it involved a lot of fumbling around and eventually we gave up. I was wearing a condom though (which I opened with my teeth) and I didn't ejaculate. Fast forward two months and she says that she's done 5 pregnancy tests with 3 being positive she had her period for one day last month (apparently this is normal and is called spotting) but she's been to a doctor's and had it confirmed. I haven't seen a test myself but a friend has. Also i'm very sure i'm the only guy she's been with.\n\nAnyway it looks like abortion isn't going to be an option. I'm just worried about the future at the moment, I'm currently doing my A-levels and I do good academically. I don't know if we'll both be kicked out from school but i'm not sure that my plan of going to university is going to pan out. Has anyone got any advice for me right now? I haven't told my parents and it's just my friends that know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Everything about our relationship is great, except the sex. She told me that to her, it's not very important. It's just not a big deal to her. She said it feels nice, but that's all it really is, I guess. And whenever we do have sex, it's always me to initiate it. \n\nI really don't know how to explain it. we've talked, but nothing changed. We had sex for the first time in 2 weeks (longest we'd ever gone) after talking, but we were drunk, and like always, I was the one to start it. I don't even like to try because I feel I'll just get rejected, which is what happens a lot of the time.\n\nDue to my sexual frustration, it's affecting our relationship, and causing issues that weren't there before. We fight and argue more, I tend to snap very easily at her, and can't really take jokes as well any more. I hate it, because I really do love this girl, and she makes me happy. But I can't keep going like this.\n\nI really don't know what to do. I feel like I come off as like a sex addict or something because I always want to. but that's just because I'm really not satisfied. before the two weeks, it was maybe twice a week. Months before that it was nearly every day, sometimes more than once. It's just been slowly getting worse and worse, I guess. \n\nThe worst part is knowing she doesn't care about it, but it's so important to me. I need the intimacy and physical contact. I need her to initiate it, and I need her to want it. but she just doesn't. And it just makes me so incredibly sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Everything about our relationship is great, except the sex. She told me that to her, it's not very important. It's just not a big deal to her. She said it feels nice, but that's all it really is, I guess. And whenever we do have sex, it's always me to initiate it. \n\nI really don't know how to explain it. we've talked, but nothing changed. We had sex for the first time in 2 weeks (longest we'd ever gone) after talking, but we were drunk, and like always, I was the one to start it. I don't even like to try because I feel I'll just get rejected, which is what happens a lot of the time.\n\nDue to my sexual frustration, it's affecting our relationship, and causing issues that weren't there before. We fight and argue more, I tend to snap very easily at her, and can't really take jokes as well any more. I hate it, because I really do love this girl, and she makes me happy. But I can't keep going like this.\n\nI really don't know what to do. I feel like I come off as like a sex addict or something because I always want to. but that's just because I'm really not satisfied. before the two weeks, it was maybe twice a week. Months before that it was nearly every day, sometimes more than once. It's just been slowly getting worse and worse, I guess. \n\nThe worst part is knowing she doesn't care about it, but it's so important to me. I need the intimacy and physical contact. I need her to initiate it, and I need her to want it. but she just doesn't. And it just makes me so incredibly sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Everything about our relationship is great, except the sex. She told me that to her, it's not very important. It's just not a big deal to her. She said it feels nice, but that's all it really is, I guess. And whenever we do have sex, it's always me to initiate it. \n\nI really don't know how to explain it. we've talked, but nothing changed. We had sex for the first time in 2 weeks (longest we'd ever gone) after talking, but we were drunk, and like always, I was the one to start it. I don't even like to try because I feel I'll just get rejected, which is what happens a lot of the time.\n\nDue to my sexual frustration, it's affecting our relationship, and causing issues that weren't there before. We fight and argue more, I tend to snap very easily at her, and can't really take jokes as well any more. I hate it, because I really do love this girl, and she makes me happy. But I can't keep going like this.\n\nI really don't know what to do. I feel like I come off as like a sex addict or something because I always want to. but that's just because I'm really not satisfied. before the two weeks, it was maybe twice a week. Months before that it was nearly every day, sometimes more than once. It's just been slowly getting worse and worse, I guess. \n\nThe worst part is knowing she doesn't care about it, but it's so important to me. I need the intimacy and physical contact. I need her to initiate it, and I need her to want it. but she just doesn't. And it just makes me so incredibly sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Everything about our relationship is great, except the sex. She told me that to her, it's not very important. It's just not a big deal to her. She said it feels nice, but that's all it really is, I guess. And whenever we do have sex, it's always me to initiate it. \n\nI really don't know how to explain it. we've talked, but nothing changed. We had sex for the first time in 2 weeks (longest we'd ever gone) after talking, but we were drunk, and like always, I was the one to start it. I don't even like to try because I feel I'll just get rejected, which is what happens a lot of the time.\n\nDue to my sexual frustration, it's affecting our relationship, and causing issues that weren't there before. We fight and argue more, I tend to snap very easily at her, and can't really take jokes as well any more. I hate it, because I really do love this girl, and she makes me happy. But I can't keep going like this.\n\nI really don't know what to do. I feel like I come off as like a sex addict or something because I always want to. but that's just because I'm really not satisfied. before the two weeks, it was maybe twice a week. Months before that it was nearly every day, sometimes more than once. It's just been slowly getting worse and worse, I guess. \n\nThe worst part is knowing she doesn't care about it, but it's so important to me. I need the intimacy and physical contact. I need her to initiate it, and I need her to want it. but she just doesn't. And it just makes me so incredibly sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Everything about our relationship is great, except the sex. She told me that to her, it's not very important. It's just not a big deal to her. She said it feels nice, but that's all it really is, I guess. And whenever we do have sex, it's always me to initiate it. \n\nI really don't know how to explain it. we've talked, but nothing changed. We had sex for the first time in 2 weeks (longest we'd ever gone) after talking, but we were drunk, and like always, I was the one to start it. I don't even like to try because I feel I'll just get rejected, which is what happens a lot of the time.\n\nDue to my sexual frustration, it's affecting our relationship, and causing issues that weren't there before. We fight and argue more, I tend to snap very easily at her, and can't really take jokes as well any more. I hate it, because I really do love this girl, and she makes me happy. But I can't keep going like this.\n\nI really don't know what to do. I feel like I come off as like a sex addict or something because I always want to. but that's just because I'm really not satisfied. before the two weeks, it was maybe twice a week. Months before that it was nearly every day, sometimes more than once. It's just been slowly getting worse and worse, I guess. \n\nThe worst part is knowing she doesn't care about it, but it's so important to me. I need the intimacy and physical contact. I need her to initiate it, and I need her to want it. but she just doesn't. And it just makes me so incredibly sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Everything about our relationship is great, except the sex. She told me that to her, it's not very important. It's just not a big deal to her. She said it feels nice, but that's all it really is, I guess. And whenever we do have sex, it's always me to initiate it. \n\nI really don't know how to explain it. we've talked, but nothing changed. We had sex for the first time in 2 weeks (longest we'd ever gone) after talking, but we were drunk, and like always, I was the one to start it. I don't even like to try because I feel I'll just get rejected, which is what happens a lot of the time.\n\nDue to my sexual frustration, it's affecting our relationship, and causing issues that weren't there before. We fight and argue more, I tend to snap very easily at her, and can't really take jokes as well any more. I hate it, because I really do love this girl, and she makes me happy. But I can't keep going like this.\n\nI really don't know what to do. I feel like I come off as like a sex addict or something because I always want to. but that's just because I'm really not satisfied. before the two weeks, it was maybe twice a week. Months before that it was nearly every day, sometimes more than once. It's just been slowly getting worse and worse, I guess. \n\nThe worst part is knowing she doesn't care about it, but it's so important to me. I need the intimacy and physical contact. I need her to initiate it, and I need her to want it. but she just doesn't. And it just makes me so incredibly sad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a week ago saying that she wanted to go on a \"break.\" We both go to the same college and had been dating since the beginning of september. She had just broken up with her boyfriend at home at the beginning of september and we started seeing each other shortly after. Now she wants this \"break\" in order to be able to \"experience being single for a while in college.\" Figured she was just saying it was a \"break\" in order to break up with me without a ton of mess and that she wouldn't really come back, but, lo and behold, every time I have brought up just making a clean break she breaks down crying and begging me not to do that since she says she's afraid of losing me permanently. In any case I kind of feel like she's just screwing around and is holding onto me as a backup, but I still love her. So Reddit, should I break up permanently or should I wait it out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a week ago saying that she wanted to go on a \"break.\" We both go to the same college and had been dating since the beginning of september. She had just broken up with her boyfriend at home at the beginning of september and we started seeing each other shortly after. Now she wants this \"break\" in order to be able to \"experience being single for a while in college.\" Figured she was just saying it was a \"break\" in order to break up with me without a ton of mess and that she wouldn't really come back, but, lo and behold, every time I have brought up just making a clean break she breaks down crying and begging me not to do that since she says she's afraid of losing me permanently. In any case I kind of feel like she's just screwing around and is holding onto me as a backup, but I still love her. So Reddit, should I break up permanently or should I wait it out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a week ago saying that she wanted to go on a \"break.\" We both go to the same college and had been dating since the beginning of september. She had just broken up with her boyfriend at home at the beginning of september and we started seeing each other shortly after. Now she wants this \"break\" in order to be able to \"experience being single for a while in college.\" Figured she was just saying it was a \"break\" in order to break up with me without a ton of mess and that she wouldn't really come back, but, lo and behold, every time I have brought up just making a clean break she breaks down crying and begging me not to do that since she says she's afraid of losing me permanently. In any case I kind of feel like she's just screwing around and is holding onto me as a backup, but I still love her. So Reddit, should I break up permanently or should I wait it out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a week ago saying that she wanted to go on a \"break.\" We both go to the same college and had been dating since the beginning of september. She had just broken up with her boyfriend at home at the beginning of september and we started seeing each other shortly after. Now she wants this \"break\" in order to be able to \"experience being single for a while in college.\" Figured she was just saying it was a \"break\" in order to break up with me without a ton of mess and that she wouldn't really come back, but, lo and behold, every time I have brought up just making a clean break she breaks down crying and begging me not to do that since she says she's afraid of losing me permanently. In any case I kind of feel like she's just screwing around and is holding onto me as a backup, but I still love her. So Reddit, should I break up permanently or should I wait it out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a week ago saying that she wanted to go on a \"break.\" We both go to the same college and had been dating since the beginning of september. She had just broken up with her boyfriend at home at the beginning of september and we started seeing each other shortly after. Now she wants this \"break\" in order to be able to \"experience being single for a while in college.\" Figured she was just saying it was a \"break\" in order to break up with me without a ton of mess and that she wouldn't really come back, but, lo and behold, every time I have brought up just making a clean break she breaks down crying and begging me not to do that since she says she's afraid of losing me permanently. In any case I kind of feel like she's just screwing around and is holding onto me as a backup, but I still love her. So Reddit, should I break up permanently or should I wait it out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a week ago saying that she wanted to go on a \"break.\" We both go to the same college and had been dating since the beginning of september. She had just broken up with her boyfriend at home at the beginning of september and we started seeing each other shortly after. Now she wants this \"break\" in order to be able to \"experience being single for a while in college.\" Figured she was just saying it was a \"break\" in order to break up with me without a ton of mess and that she wouldn't really come back, but, lo and behold, every time I have brought up just making a clean break she breaks down crying and begging me not to do that since she says she's afraid of losing me permanently. In any case I kind of feel like she's just screwing around and is holding onto me as a backup, but I still love her. So Reddit, should I break up permanently or should I wait it out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had this happen a couple of times now, the most recent was yesterday.\n\nMe and some friends we're clubbing and we have had some drinks. It was about 11pm when I noticed the cute girl from some of the classes I take walk inside, she's a solid 7/10. I am pretty comfortable talking with people in general, even if they're girls I don't (really) know. So I made a small talk with her and within about 15 minutes we shared a kiss, then another and we ended up being with each other for most of the time yesterday night.\n\nI then brought her home, had another kiss and then I went home myself. I told her I would text her but I don't really feel the urge to text her now, I had fun yesterday but I don't like, like her anymore. This has happened about 3 times last month or so. Any advice, thoughts etc. ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had this happen a couple of times now, the most recent was yesterday.\n\nMe and some friends we're clubbing and we have had some drinks. It was about 11pm when I noticed the cute girl from some of the classes I take walk inside, she's a solid 7/10. I am pretty comfortable talking with people in general, even if they're girls I don't (really) know. So I made a small talk with her and within about 15 minutes we shared a kiss, then another and we ended up being with each other for most of the time yesterday night.\n\nI then brought her home, had another kiss and then I went home myself. I told her I would text her but I don't really feel the urge to text her now, I had fun yesterday but I don't like, like her anymore. This has happened about 3 times last month or so. Any advice, thoughts etc. ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had this happen a couple of times now, the most recent was yesterday.\n\nMe and some friends we're clubbing and we have had some drinks. It was about 11pm when I noticed the cute girl from some of the classes I take walk inside, she's a solid 7/10. I am pretty comfortable talking with people in general, even if they're girls I don't (really) know. So I made a small talk with her and within about 15 minutes we shared a kiss, then another and we ended up being with each other for most of the time yesterday night.\n\nI then brought her home, had another kiss and then I went home myself. I told her I would text her but I don't really feel the urge to text her now, I had fun yesterday but I don't like, like her anymore. This has happened about 3 times last month or so. Any advice, thoughts etc. ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had this happen a couple of times now, the most recent was yesterday.\n\nMe and some friends we're clubbing and we have had some drinks. It was about 11pm when I noticed the cute girl from some of the classes I take walk inside, she's a solid 7/10. I am pretty comfortable talking with people in general, even if they're girls I don't (really) know. So I made a small talk with her and within about 15 minutes we shared a kiss, then another and we ended up being with each other for most of the time yesterday night.\n\nI then brought her home, had another kiss and then I went home myself. I told her I would text her but I don't really feel the urge to text her now, I had fun yesterday but I don't like, like her anymore. This has happened about 3 times last month or so. Any advice, thoughts etc. ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had this happen a couple of times now, the most recent was yesterday.\n\nMe and some friends we're clubbing and we have had some drinks. It was about 11pm when I noticed the cute girl from some of the classes I take walk inside, she's a solid 7/10. I am pretty comfortable talking with people in general, even if they're girls I don't (really) know. So I made a small talk with her and within about 15 minutes we shared a kiss, then another and we ended up being with each other for most of the time yesterday night.\n\nI then brought her home, had another kiss and then I went home myself. I told her I would text her but I don't really feel the urge to text her now, I had fun yesterday but I don't like, like her anymore. This has happened about 3 times last month or so. Any advice, thoughts etc. ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had this happen a couple of times now, the most recent was yesterday.\n\nMe and some friends we're clubbing and we have had some drinks. It was about 11pm when I noticed the cute girl from some of the classes I take walk inside, she's a solid 7/10. I am pretty comfortable talking with people in general, even if they're girls I don't (really) know. So I made a small talk with her and within about 15 minutes we shared a kiss, then another and we ended up being with each other for most of the time yesterday night.\n\nI then brought her home, had another kiss and then I went home myself. I told her I would text her but I don't really feel the urge to text her now, I had fun yesterday but I don't like, like her anymore. This has happened about 3 times last month or so. Any advice, thoughts etc. ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Around 3 and a half years together, long distance, but we have lived together for approximately a year in total.\n\nHe's very high strung. I'm a relatively conflict-shy person, I do poorly in them as I'm a \"bottler\" (emotionally) and being an introvert, I am not very good at expressing myself in heated situations. This means that arguments often go overboard. \n\nHe will initiate some argument out of nothing by being insulting, condescending or - most commonly - by telling me that I am annoyed/upset when in fact, I am not. He claims I am pulling \"reverse psychology\" on him whereas I'm just being honest. In short, he's reading into everything I say and takes offense to everything and makes arguments over being offended by something I never said by *thinking* I said it.\n\nSuch disregard really angers me, so I get angry (where in reality I've been fine just a moment ago) and it just builds. It's as though he builds a mountain out of a molehill, and when he's done that, I build a mountain on top.\n\nWe don't talk much. We have different schedules. We might exchange a few words every 2-3 days and then talk properly once a week or less. We see each other every month or every two months.\n\nI'm not bothered with this, I think he's very aggressive online and I prefer waiting until we see each other, but I can't mentally rest when we've had a huge blow-out (over nothing!) and the following days he'll refuse to talk to me. I'll tell him I'm sorry I reacted angrily and he won't say a word back.\n\nI am getting so bored of his attitude, it's sapping my strength away and I can't seem to get it into his head how *damaging* it is. He just seems so convicted in his own world and thinks that by acknowledging anything else, I'm \"pushing him around\". I can't, in any way, say that this is a deal-breaker for me because he KNOWS I won't do anything about it. I feel cornered, in a relationship with a guy I love but don't like."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Around 3 and a half years together, long distance, but we have lived together for approximately a year in total.\n\nHe's very high strung. I'm a relatively conflict-shy person, I do poorly in them as I'm a \"bottler\" (emotionally) and being an introvert, I am not very good at expressing myself in heated situations. This means that arguments often go overboard. \n\nHe will initiate some argument out of nothing by being insulting, condescending or - most commonly - by telling me that I am annoyed/upset when in fact, I am not. He claims I am pulling \"reverse psychology\" on him whereas I'm just being honest. In short, he's reading into everything I say and takes offense to everything and makes arguments over being offended by something I never said by *thinking* I said it.\n\nSuch disregard really angers me, so I get angry (where in reality I've been fine just a moment ago) and it just builds. It's as though he builds a mountain out of a molehill, and when he's done that, I build a mountain on top.\n\nWe don't talk much. We have different schedules. We might exchange a few words every 2-3 days and then talk properly once a week or less. We see each other every month or every two months.\n\nI'm not bothered with this, I think he's very aggressive online and I prefer waiting until we see each other, but I can't mentally rest when we've had a huge blow-out (over nothing!) and the following days he'll refuse to talk to me. I'll tell him I'm sorry I reacted angrily and he won't say a word back.\n\nI am getting so bored of his attitude, it's sapping my strength away and I can't seem to get it into his head how *damaging* it is. He just seems so convicted in his own world and thinks that by acknowledging anything else, I'm \"pushing him around\". I can't, in any way, say that this is a deal-breaker for me because he KNOWS I won't do anything about it. I feel cornered, in a relationship with a guy I love but don't like."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Around 3 and a half years together, long distance, but we have lived together for approximately a year in total.\n\nHe's very high strung. I'm a relatively conflict-shy person, I do poorly in them as I'm a \"bottler\" (emotionally) and being an introvert, I am not very good at expressing myself in heated situations. This means that arguments often go overboard. \n\nHe will initiate some argument out of nothing by being insulting, condescending or - most commonly - by telling me that I am annoyed/upset when in fact, I am not. He claims I am pulling \"reverse psychology\" on him whereas I'm just being honest. In short, he's reading into everything I say and takes offense to everything and makes arguments over being offended by something I never said by *thinking* I said it.\n\nSuch disregard really angers me, so I get angry (where in reality I've been fine just a moment ago) and it just builds. It's as though he builds a mountain out of a molehill, and when he's done that, I build a mountain on top.\n\nWe don't talk much. We have different schedules. We might exchange a few words every 2-3 days and then talk properly once a week or less. We see each other every month or every two months.\n\nI'm not bothered with this, I think he's very aggressive online and I prefer waiting until we see each other, but I can't mentally rest when we've had a huge blow-out (over nothing!) and the following days he'll refuse to talk to me. I'll tell him I'm sorry I reacted angrily and he won't say a word back.\n\nI am getting so bored of his attitude, it's sapping my strength away and I can't seem to get it into his head how *damaging* it is. He just seems so convicted in his own world and thinks that by acknowledging anything else, I'm \"pushing him around\". I can't, in any way, say that this is a deal-breaker for me because he KNOWS I won't do anything about it. I feel cornered, in a relationship with a guy I love but don't like."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Around 3 and a half years together, long distance, but we have lived together for approximately a year in total.\n\nHe's very high strung. I'm a relatively conflict-shy person, I do poorly in them as I'm a \"bottler\" (emotionally) and being an introvert, I am not very good at expressing myself in heated situations. This means that arguments often go overboard. \n\nHe will initiate some argument out of nothing by being insulting, condescending or - most commonly - by telling me that I am annoyed/upset when in fact, I am not. He claims I am pulling \"reverse psychology\" on him whereas I'm just being honest. In short, he's reading into everything I say and takes offense to everything and makes arguments over being offended by something I never said by *thinking* I said it.\n\nSuch disregard really angers me, so I get angry (where in reality I've been fine just a moment ago) and it just builds. It's as though he builds a mountain out of a molehill, and when he's done that, I build a mountain on top.\n\nWe don't talk much. We have different schedules. We might exchange a few words every 2-3 days and then talk properly once a week or less. We see each other every month or every two months.\n\nI'm not bothered with this, I think he's very aggressive online and I prefer waiting until we see each other, but I can't mentally rest when we've had a huge blow-out (over nothing!) and the following days he'll refuse to talk to me. I'll tell him I'm sorry I reacted angrily and he won't say a word back.\n\nI am getting so bored of his attitude, it's sapping my strength away and I can't seem to get it into his head how *damaging* it is. He just seems so convicted in his own world and thinks that by acknowledging anything else, I'm \"pushing him around\". I can't, in any way, say that this is a deal-breaker for me because he KNOWS I won't do anything about it. I feel cornered, in a relationship with a guy I love but don't like."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today while walking to the grocery store, I was bothered by everyone from old men in their 60s to frat bros (I live in a college town) shouting obscenities and whistling at me. My default reaction is to have no reaction at all. I kept walking and avoided eye contact.\n\nInside the store there’s a long deli counter. At one end you order hot items and deli meat and at the other end you order sandwiches. A guy about my age (21-23) approached me as I stood in front of the hot items and asked if he could order his sandwich at the hot item end. Given that there’s obviously two sides to the deli, I figured he was doing a poor job of initiating conversation to ask for my number or something. I hardly glanced at him, said “no” in a pretty dismissive tone as I was already annoyed at not being able to walk to the store in peace, and walked away.\n\nAs I was walking to the self-checkout about 10 minutes later, I had to pass the deli again. I saw the guy from earlier telling an employee that this was his first time in the store, no one would take his sandwich order, and that he please needed some help. I felt a slight pang realizing that he was actually asking me for help and being friendly. I’m a bitch."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today while walking to the grocery store, I was bothered by everyone from old men in their 60s to frat bros (I live in a college town) shouting obscenities and whistling at me. My default reaction is to have no reaction at all. I kept walking and avoided eye contact.\n\nInside the store there’s a long deli counter. At one end you order hot items and deli meat and at the other end you order sandwiches. A guy about my age (21-23) approached me as I stood in front of the hot items and asked if he could order his sandwich at the hot item end. Given that there’s obviously two sides to the deli, I figured he was doing a poor job of initiating conversation to ask for my number or something. I hardly glanced at him, said “no” in a pretty dismissive tone as I was already annoyed at not being able to walk to the store in peace, and walked away.\n\nAs I was walking to the self-checkout about 10 minutes later, I had to pass the deli again. I saw the guy from earlier telling an employee that this was his first time in the store, no one would take his sandwich order, and that he please needed some help. I felt a slight pang realizing that he was actually asking me for help and being friendly. I’m a bitch."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today while walking to the grocery store, I was bothered by everyone from old men in their 60s to frat bros (I live in a college town) shouting obscenities and whistling at me. My default reaction is to have no reaction at all. I kept walking and avoided eye contact.\n\nInside the store there’s a long deli counter. At one end you order hot items and deli meat and at the other end you order sandwiches. A guy about my age (21-23) approached me as I stood in front of the hot items and asked if he could order his sandwich at the hot item end. Given that there’s obviously two sides to the deli, I figured he was doing a poor job of initiating conversation to ask for my number or something. I hardly glanced at him, said “no” in a pretty dismissive tone as I was already annoyed at not being able to walk to the store in peace, and walked away.\n\nAs I was walking to the self-checkout about 10 minutes later, I had to pass the deli again. I saw the guy from earlier telling an employee that this was his first time in the store, no one would take his sandwich order, and that he please needed some help. I felt a slight pang realizing that he was actually asking me for help and being friendly. I’m a bitch."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this on /r/askpsychology and I got no answers so I came here. \n\nNote: I just realized I dont even know the age of my dad, hope that shows you how bad the problem is.\n\n-\n\nI have this problem and I've always had it. I dont hate my father and I respect him, but I find him very disgusting and I never told him and I pretend I like him.\n\nI guess it all started in my childhood. I almost never saw him, and when he was home all he did was watch TV and sleep (maybe because he works in a hospital and his job may be exhausting so I dont judge him). I feel I really love my mum and I couldnt live without her but I dont have that feeling for my father (and If you ask me I'd rather never see him. Its uncomfortable for me). So I never developed that feeling for him but I really appreciate what he's done for me (paying the food, my school, now my college, etc). I dont talk to him for more than 1 minute, its only Hello and how are you. I dont know shit about his life and nor does he know about mine.\n\nMy parents are divorced but he comes here almost half the days of the week and he sleeps in my room and I have a very uncomfortable time. To give you an example he walks around the house almost naked (with only underwear clothes) and its fucking disgusting (he's really fat and hairy) but If you tell him something he gets fucking upset like if we are the ones doing something wrong. And when he is in my room he farts, snores (and really loud) and the most fucking disgusting thing is that he scratchs his balls (yeah wtf) all the time and even if you are not looking at him you can tell he is doing because of that fucking sound it makes (because of the hair probably). But I dont find him disgusting only physically, I dislike him as a person too.\n\nI dont hate him, because I dont feel anger, but I really dislike him and he makes me very uncomfortable. And if you asked me I'd rather not see him again (he lives on his department but he comes here really often)."
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