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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a relative who has never been very bright and always acted very childish; would cry if you upset her even slightly and was always screaming at her parents. She does well in school but emotionally she seems stunted and has extreme mood swings (laughing one second and immediately crying the next). When she was 15 we all assumed she would grow out of it. She is now 18 and remains the same. Employers won't even consider hiring her.\n\nWe have our suspicions of the cause; *she was molested as a child by her father and at least one kid that we know of.*\n\nHer family can't afford a therapist to send her to. We might be able to help get her to a doctor, but what exactly can be done? We're all worried she will never be mentally prepared to work a job or live on her own. When she dates other guys she freaks out when they try to get close to her and breaks up with them."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a relative who has never been very bright and always acted very childish; would cry if you upset her even slightly and was always screaming at her parents. She does well in school but emotionally she seems stunted and has extreme mood swings (laughing one second and immediately crying the next). When she was 15 we all assumed she would grow out of it. She is now 18 and remains the same. Employers won't even consider hiring her.\n\nWe have our suspicions of the cause; *she was molested as a child by her father and at least one kid that we know of.*\n\nHer family can't afford a therapist to send her to. We might be able to help get her to a doctor, but what exactly can be done? We're all worried she will never be mentally prepared to work a job or live on her own. When she dates other guys she freaks out when they try to get close to her and breaks up with them."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a relative who has never been very bright and always acted very childish; would cry if you upset her even slightly and was always screaming at her parents. She does well in school but emotionally she seems stunted and has extreme mood swings (laughing one second and immediately crying the next). When she was 15 we all assumed she would grow out of it. She is now 18 and remains the same. Employers won't even consider hiring her.\n\nWe have our suspicions of the cause; *she was molested as a child by her father and at least one kid that we know of.*\n\nHer family can't afford a therapist to send her to. We might be able to help get her to a doctor, but what exactly can be done? We're all worried she will never be mentally prepared to work a job or live on her own. When she dates other guys she freaks out when they try to get close to her and breaks up with them."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-husband and I get along pretty well when it comes to things concerning our kids. I live an hour away from them and sometimes I feel a little left out of decision making/discipline. Since they primarily live with their dad and his wife, I let a lot of it slide.\n\nTwo years ago it became known to me that my children (then 5 and 7) were being left home alone after school. I made a huge stink about it and childcare was arranged for them. However, since then, there have still been incidents where they are left alone anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours. Once they were even left home all day while both dad and step mom were at work. There was also an incident where my younger child called 911 and hung up because they had just learned about it in school and he didn't fully understand what would happen. A police officer showed up, fortunately the step mom also showed up about 15 minutes later so the kids weren't taken away.\n\nThe fact that this is still occurring really frustrates and infuriates me. I'm frustrated because my ex-husband and his wife see nothing wrong with this kind of neglect. The fact that they think it's ok infuriates me. I understand that children begin to show signs of maturity, enough to be left home alone, around the age of 10. But I feel that even so, a 9, almost 10 year old, should not be left in charge of a 7 year old who worries and is uncomfortable being left alone. \n\nI would really like some advice and perspective. Am I blowing things out of proportion and overreacting? Should I let this go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-husband and I get along pretty well when it comes to things concerning our kids. I live an hour away from them and sometimes I feel a little left out of decision making/discipline. Since they primarily live with their dad and his wife, I let a lot of it slide.\n\nTwo years ago it became known to me that my children (then 5 and 7) were being left home alone after school. I made a huge stink about it and childcare was arranged for them. However, since then, there have still been incidents where they are left alone anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours. Once they were even left home all day while both dad and step mom were at work. There was also an incident where my younger child called 911 and hung up because they had just learned about it in school and he didn't fully understand what would happen. A police officer showed up, fortunately the step mom also showed up about 15 minutes later so the kids weren't taken away.\n\nThe fact that this is still occurring really frustrates and infuriates me. I'm frustrated because my ex-husband and his wife see nothing wrong with this kind of neglect. The fact that they think it's ok infuriates me. I understand that children begin to show signs of maturity, enough to be left home alone, around the age of 10. But I feel that even so, a 9, almost 10 year old, should not be left in charge of a 7 year old who worries and is uncomfortable being left alone. \n\nI would really like some advice and perspective. Am I blowing things out of proportion and overreacting? Should I let this go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-husband and I get along pretty well when it comes to things concerning our kids. I live an hour away from them and sometimes I feel a little left out of decision making/discipline. Since they primarily live with their dad and his wife, I let a lot of it slide.\n\nTwo years ago it became known to me that my children (then 5 and 7) were being left home alone after school. I made a huge stink about it and childcare was arranged for them. However, since then, there have still been incidents where they are left alone anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours. Once they were even left home all day while both dad and step mom were at work. There was also an incident where my younger child called 911 and hung up because they had just learned about it in school and he didn't fully understand what would happen. A police officer showed up, fortunately the step mom also showed up about 15 minutes later so the kids weren't taken away.\n\nThe fact that this is still occurring really frustrates and infuriates me. I'm frustrated because my ex-husband and his wife see nothing wrong with this kind of neglect. The fact that they think it's ok infuriates me. I understand that children begin to show signs of maturity, enough to be left home alone, around the age of 10. But I feel that even so, a 9, almost 10 year old, should not be left in charge of a 7 year old who worries and is uncomfortable being left alone. \n\nI would really like some advice and perspective. Am I blowing things out of proportion and overreacting? Should I let this go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-husband and I get along pretty well when it comes to things concerning our kids. I live an hour away from them and sometimes I feel a little left out of decision making/discipline. Since they primarily live with their dad and his wife, I let a lot of it slide.\n\nTwo years ago it became known to me that my children (then 5 and 7) were being left home alone after school. I made a huge stink about it and childcare was arranged for them. However, since then, there have still been incidents where they are left alone anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours. Once they were even left home all day while both dad and step mom were at work. There was also an incident where my younger child called 911 and hung up because they had just learned about it in school and he didn't fully understand what would happen. A police officer showed up, fortunately the step mom also showed up about 15 minutes later so the kids weren't taken away.\n\nThe fact that this is still occurring really frustrates and infuriates me. I'm frustrated because my ex-husband and his wife see nothing wrong with this kind of neglect. The fact that they think it's ok infuriates me. I understand that children begin to show signs of maturity, enough to be left home alone, around the age of 10. But I feel that even so, a 9, almost 10 year old, should not be left in charge of a 7 year old who worries and is uncomfortable being left alone. \n\nI would really like some advice and perspective. Am I blowing things out of proportion and overreacting? Should I let this go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-husband and I get along pretty well when it comes to things concerning our kids. I live an hour away from them and sometimes I feel a little left out of decision making/discipline. Since they primarily live with their dad and his wife, I let a lot of it slide.\n\nTwo years ago it became known to me that my children (then 5 and 7) were being left home alone after school. I made a huge stink about it and childcare was arranged for them. However, since then, there have still been incidents where they are left alone anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours. Once they were even left home all day while both dad and step mom were at work. There was also an incident where my younger child called 911 and hung up because they had just learned about it in school and he didn't fully understand what would happen. A police officer showed up, fortunately the step mom also showed up about 15 minutes later so the kids weren't taken away.\n\nThe fact that this is still occurring really frustrates and infuriates me. I'm frustrated because my ex-husband and his wife see nothing wrong with this kind of neglect. The fact that they think it's ok infuriates me. I understand that children begin to show signs of maturity, enough to be left home alone, around the age of 10. But I feel that even so, a 9, almost 10 year old, should not be left in charge of a 7 year old who worries and is uncomfortable being left alone. \n\nI would really like some advice and perspective. Am I blowing things out of proportion and overreacting? Should I let this go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-husband and I get along pretty well when it comes to things concerning our kids. I live an hour away from them and sometimes I feel a little left out of decision making/discipline. Since they primarily live with their dad and his wife, I let a lot of it slide.\n\nTwo years ago it became known to me that my children (then 5 and 7) were being left home alone after school. I made a huge stink about it and childcare was arranged for them. However, since then, there have still been incidents where they are left alone anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours. Once they were even left home all day while both dad and step mom were at work. There was also an incident where my younger child called 911 and hung up because they had just learned about it in school and he didn't fully understand what would happen. A police officer showed up, fortunately the step mom also showed up about 15 minutes later so the kids weren't taken away.\n\nThe fact that this is still occurring really frustrates and infuriates me. I'm frustrated because my ex-husband and his wife see nothing wrong with this kind of neglect. The fact that they think it's ok infuriates me. I understand that children begin to show signs of maturity, enough to be left home alone, around the age of 10. But I feel that even so, a 9, almost 10 year old, should not be left in charge of a 7 year old who worries and is uncomfortable being left alone. \n\nI would really like some advice and perspective. Am I blowing things out of proportion and overreacting? Should I let this go?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I got really drunk with my friends and roommates (I invited my girlfriend, but she wanted to get up early the next day so she declined). There was this girl there and one drink led to another, and we wound up having incoherent, drunken sex. When I sobered up, I felt genuinely terrible about the whole thing. \n\nHere's the thing, I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend about what happened. After all, I was so drunk I can barely recall the details. To make matters more complicated, we had a discussion in the past about how open or exclusive our relationship should be (she was out of state for the summer). What she said was \"I like you a lot, but I won't stop you from seeing anyone else. If that's what you want, then go ahead.\" Granted, this was in the context of her time away, but the tone of it still has me feeling all uncertain of how to approach this. On the one hand, we are exclusive, so this is definitely a breach of that. On the other hand, she's okay with threesomes. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should tell her or not. If I tell her, I don't know how much it will bother her. On the other hand, if I don't tell her and she somehow finds out, I'm sure that would be far worse for our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I got really drunk with my friends and roommates (I invited my girlfriend, but she wanted to get up early the next day so she declined). There was this girl there and one drink led to another, and we wound up having incoherent, drunken sex. When I sobered up, I felt genuinely terrible about the whole thing. \n\nHere's the thing, I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend about what happened. After all, I was so drunk I can barely recall the details. To make matters more complicated, we had a discussion in the past about how open or exclusive our relationship should be (she was out of state for the summer). What she said was \"I like you a lot, but I won't stop you from seeing anyone else. If that's what you want, then go ahead.\" Granted, this was in the context of her time away, but the tone of it still has me feeling all uncertain of how to approach this. On the one hand, we are exclusive, so this is definitely a breach of that. On the other hand, she's okay with threesomes. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should tell her or not. If I tell her, I don't know how much it will bother her. On the other hand, if I don't tell her and she somehow finds out, I'm sure that would be far worse for our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I got really drunk with my friends and roommates (I invited my girlfriend, but she wanted to get up early the next day so she declined). There was this girl there and one drink led to another, and we wound up having incoherent, drunken sex. When I sobered up, I felt genuinely terrible about the whole thing. \n\nHere's the thing, I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend about what happened. After all, I was so drunk I can barely recall the details. To make matters more complicated, we had a discussion in the past about how open or exclusive our relationship should be (she was out of state for the summer). What she said was \"I like you a lot, but I won't stop you from seeing anyone else. If that's what you want, then go ahead.\" Granted, this was in the context of her time away, but the tone of it still has me feeling all uncertain of how to approach this. On the one hand, we are exclusive, so this is definitely a breach of that. On the other hand, she's okay with threesomes. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should tell her or not. If I tell her, I don't know how much it will bother her. On the other hand, if I don't tell her and she somehow finds out, I'm sure that would be far worse for our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I got really drunk with my friends and roommates (I invited my girlfriend, but she wanted to get up early the next day so she declined). There was this girl there and one drink led to another, and we wound up having incoherent, drunken sex. When I sobered up, I felt genuinely terrible about the whole thing. \n\nHere's the thing, I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend about what happened. After all, I was so drunk I can barely recall the details. To make matters more complicated, we had a discussion in the past about how open or exclusive our relationship should be (she was out of state for the summer). What she said was \"I like you a lot, but I won't stop you from seeing anyone else. If that's what you want, then go ahead.\" Granted, this was in the context of her time away, but the tone of it still has me feeling all uncertain of how to approach this. On the one hand, we are exclusive, so this is definitely a breach of that. On the other hand, she's okay with threesomes. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should tell her or not. If I tell her, I don't know how much it will bother her. On the other hand, if I don't tell her and she somehow finds out, I'm sure that would be far worse for our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I got really drunk with my friends and roommates (I invited my girlfriend, but she wanted to get up early the next day so she declined). There was this girl there and one drink led to another, and we wound up having incoherent, drunken sex. When I sobered up, I felt genuinely terrible about the whole thing. \n\nHere's the thing, I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend about what happened. After all, I was so drunk I can barely recall the details. To make matters more complicated, we had a discussion in the past about how open or exclusive our relationship should be (she was out of state for the summer). What she said was \"I like you a lot, but I won't stop you from seeing anyone else. If that's what you want, then go ahead.\" Granted, this was in the context of her time away, but the tone of it still has me feeling all uncertain of how to approach this. On the one hand, we are exclusive, so this is definitely a breach of that. On the other hand, she's okay with threesomes. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should tell her or not. If I tell her, I don't know how much it will bother her. On the other hand, if I don't tell her and she somehow finds out, I'm sure that would be far worse for our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last weekend I got really drunk with my friends and roommates (I invited my girlfriend, but she wanted to get up early the next day so she declined). There was this girl there and one drink led to another, and we wound up having incoherent, drunken sex. When I sobered up, I felt genuinely terrible about the whole thing. \n\nHere's the thing, I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend about what happened. After all, I was so drunk I can barely recall the details. To make matters more complicated, we had a discussion in the past about how open or exclusive our relationship should be (she was out of state for the summer). What she said was \"I like you a lot, but I won't stop you from seeing anyone else. If that's what you want, then go ahead.\" Granted, this was in the context of her time away, but the tone of it still has me feeling all uncertain of how to approach this. On the one hand, we are exclusive, so this is definitely a breach of that. On the other hand, she's okay with threesomes. \n\nI'm just not sure if I should tell her or not. If I tell her, I don't know how much it will bother her. On the other hand, if I don't tell her and she somehow finds out, I'm sure that would be far worse for our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother [65F] thinks that my husband is cheating on me because he said that he had a \"girlfriend\". Even I'm not sure if he's cheating on me or not anymore. My husband used to send me such loving messages everyday. He would send at least 1 everyday, but since has stopped. He thinks I'm going to cheat on him because my mother told me to look around for someone new because of his \"girlfriend\" comment. I am not going to cheat on him. I rather be a wife to someone I love in good times and in bad times, than be a wife to someone I don't have feelings for but may have a lot of money. \n\nMy husband may have stopped sending me loving messages because I didn't say too much when my mother said that I should leave my husband because of his \"girlfriend\". I really miss those loving messages that he sends. I don't know what to do about my mother and her perception of my husband. My husband shouldn't have made a joke like that to make me jealous, which didn't make me jealous. I don't know if I can trust my husband if he doesn't tell me that he loves me at least once per day. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother [65F] thinks that my husband is cheating on me because he said that he had a \"girlfriend\". Even I'm not sure if he's cheating on me or not anymore. My husband used to send me such loving messages everyday. He would send at least 1 everyday, but since has stopped. He thinks I'm going to cheat on him because my mother told me to look around for someone new because of his \"girlfriend\" comment. I am not going to cheat on him. I rather be a wife to someone I love in good times and in bad times, than be a wife to someone I don't have feelings for but may have a lot of money. \n\nMy husband may have stopped sending me loving messages because I didn't say too much when my mother said that I should leave my husband because of his \"girlfriend\". I really miss those loving messages that he sends. I don't know what to do about my mother and her perception of my husband. My husband shouldn't have made a joke like that to make me jealous, which didn't make me jealous. I don't know if I can trust my husband if he doesn't tell me that he loves me at least once per day. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother [65F] thinks that my husband is cheating on me because he said that he had a \"girlfriend\". Even I'm not sure if he's cheating on me or not anymore. My husband used to send me such loving messages everyday. He would send at least 1 everyday, but since has stopped. He thinks I'm going to cheat on him because my mother told me to look around for someone new because of his \"girlfriend\" comment. I am not going to cheat on him. I rather be a wife to someone I love in good times and in bad times, than be a wife to someone I don't have feelings for but may have a lot of money. \n\nMy husband may have stopped sending me loving messages because I didn't say too much when my mother said that I should leave my husband because of his \"girlfriend\". I really miss those loving messages that he sends. I don't know what to do about my mother and her perception of my husband. My husband shouldn't have made a joke like that to make me jealous, which didn't make me jealous. I don't know if I can trust my husband if he doesn't tell me that he loves me at least once per day. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother [65F] thinks that my husband is cheating on me because he said that he had a \"girlfriend\". Even I'm not sure if he's cheating on me or not anymore. My husband used to send me such loving messages everyday. He would send at least 1 everyday, but since has stopped. He thinks I'm going to cheat on him because my mother told me to look around for someone new because of his \"girlfriend\" comment. I am not going to cheat on him. I rather be a wife to someone I love in good times and in bad times, than be a wife to someone I don't have feelings for but may have a lot of money. \n\nMy husband may have stopped sending me loving messages because I didn't say too much when my mother said that I should leave my husband because of his \"girlfriend\". I really miss those loving messages that he sends. I don't know what to do about my mother and her perception of my husband. My husband shouldn't have made a joke like that to make me jealous, which didn't make me jealous. I don't know if I can trust my husband if he doesn't tell me that he loves me at least once per day. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother [65F] thinks that my husband is cheating on me because he said that he had a \"girlfriend\". Even I'm not sure if he's cheating on me or not anymore. My husband used to send me such loving messages everyday. He would send at least 1 everyday, but since has stopped. He thinks I'm going to cheat on him because my mother told me to look around for someone new because of his \"girlfriend\" comment. I am not going to cheat on him. I rather be a wife to someone I love in good times and in bad times, than be a wife to someone I don't have feelings for but may have a lot of money. \n\nMy husband may have stopped sending me loving messages because I didn't say too much when my mother said that I should leave my husband because of his \"girlfriend\". I really miss those loving messages that he sends. I don't know what to do about my mother and her perception of my husband. My husband shouldn't have made a joke like that to make me jealous, which didn't make me jealous. I don't know if I can trust my husband if he doesn't tell me that he loves me at least once per day. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother [65F] thinks that my husband is cheating on me because he said that he had a \"girlfriend\". Even I'm not sure if he's cheating on me or not anymore. My husband used to send me such loving messages everyday. He would send at least 1 everyday, but since has stopped. He thinks I'm going to cheat on him because my mother told me to look around for someone new because of his \"girlfriend\" comment. I am not going to cheat on him. I rather be a wife to someone I love in good times and in bad times, than be a wife to someone I don't have feelings for but may have a lot of money. \n\nMy husband may have stopped sending me loving messages because I didn't say too much when my mother said that I should leave my husband because of his \"girlfriend\". I really miss those loving messages that he sends. I don't know what to do about my mother and her perception of my husband. My husband shouldn't have made a joke like that to make me jealous, which didn't make me jealous. I don't know if I can trust my husband if he doesn't tell me that he loves me at least once per day. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway because my bf is an active redditor.\n\nwe've been dating for two years and i'm kind of at the end of my rope. my boyfriend is genuinely one of the nicest people i know. he's so romantic, so sweet, and in every other situation in our relationship we work perfectly. but his friends are ruining our relationship. \n\nhe's been friends with this same group of guys since high school, and they're all.really misogynistic, for lack of a better word. their opinions of women are pretty awful. my boyfriend is the first guy in the group to get a girlfriend (go figure!) and he's never been shitty or misogynistic towards me.except for when he's around his friends. he'll slap my ass in front of them even though he knows it makes me uncomfortable, he calls me demeaning names, that sort of thing. it's really degrading. his friends find it really amusing. \n\ni've told him in private that i don't really like him doing this, it's so out of character for him, etc. and he promised me that he's only joking. how do i convince him to stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway because my bf is an active redditor.\n\nwe've been dating for two years and i'm kind of at the end of my rope. my boyfriend is genuinely one of the nicest people i know. he's so romantic, so sweet, and in every other situation in our relationship we work perfectly. but his friends are ruining our relationship. \n\nhe's been friends with this same group of guys since high school, and they're all.really misogynistic, for lack of a better word. their opinions of women are pretty awful. my boyfriend is the first guy in the group to get a girlfriend (go figure!) and he's never been shitty or misogynistic towards me.except for when he's around his friends. he'll slap my ass in front of them even though he knows it makes me uncomfortable, he calls me demeaning names, that sort of thing. it's really degrading. his friends find it really amusing. \n\ni've told him in private that i don't really like him doing this, it's so out of character for him, etc. and he promised me that he's only joking. how do i convince him to stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway because my bf is an active redditor.\n\nwe've been dating for two years and i'm kind of at the end of my rope. my boyfriend is genuinely one of the nicest people i know. he's so romantic, so sweet, and in every other situation in our relationship we work perfectly. but his friends are ruining our relationship. \n\nhe's been friends with this same group of guys since high school, and they're all.really misogynistic, for lack of a better word. their opinions of women are pretty awful. my boyfriend is the first guy in the group to get a girlfriend (go figure!) and he's never been shitty or misogynistic towards me.except for when he's around his friends. he'll slap my ass in front of them even though he knows it makes me uncomfortable, he calls me demeaning names, that sort of thing. it's really degrading. his friends find it really amusing. \n\ni've told him in private that i don't really like him doing this, it's so out of character for him, etc. and he promised me that he's only joking. how do i convince him to stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway because my bf is an active redditor.\n\nwe've been dating for two years and i'm kind of at the end of my rope. my boyfriend is genuinely one of the nicest people i know. he's so romantic, so sweet, and in every other situation in our relationship we work perfectly. but his friends are ruining our relationship. \n\nhe's been friends with this same group of guys since high school, and they're all.really misogynistic, for lack of a better word. their opinions of women are pretty awful. my boyfriend is the first guy in the group to get a girlfriend (go figure!) and he's never been shitty or misogynistic towards me.except for when he's around his friends. he'll slap my ass in front of them even though he knows it makes me uncomfortable, he calls me demeaning names, that sort of thing. it's really degrading. his friends find it really amusing. \n\ni've told him in private that i don't really like him doing this, it's so out of character for him, etc. and he promised me that he's only joking. how do i convince him to stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway because my bf is an active redditor.\n\nwe've been dating for two years and i'm kind of at the end of my rope. my boyfriend is genuinely one of the nicest people i know. he's so romantic, so sweet, and in every other situation in our relationship we work perfectly. but his friends are ruining our relationship. \n\nhe's been friends with this same group of guys since high school, and they're all.really misogynistic, for lack of a better word. their opinions of women are pretty awful. my boyfriend is the first guy in the group to get a girlfriend (go figure!) and he's never been shitty or misogynistic towards me.except for when he's around his friends. he'll slap my ass in front of them even though he knows it makes me uncomfortable, he calls me demeaning names, that sort of thing. it's really degrading. his friends find it really amusing. \n\ni've told him in private that i don't really like him doing this, it's so out of character for him, etc. and he promised me that he's only joking. how do i convince him to stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway because my bf is an active redditor.\n\nwe've been dating for two years and i'm kind of at the end of my rope. my boyfriend is genuinely one of the nicest people i know. he's so romantic, so sweet, and in every other situation in our relationship we work perfectly. but his friends are ruining our relationship. \n\nhe's been friends with this same group of guys since high school, and they're all.really misogynistic, for lack of a better word. their opinions of women are pretty awful. my boyfriend is the first guy in the group to get a girlfriend (go figure!) and he's never been shitty or misogynistic towards me.except for when he's around his friends. he'll slap my ass in front of them even though he knows it makes me uncomfortable, he calls me demeaning names, that sort of thing. it's really degrading. his friends find it really amusing. \n\ni've told him in private that i don't really like him doing this, it's so out of character for him, etc. and he promised me that he's only joking. how do i convince him to stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Fake names) Gonna try to keep this brief. I was pretty much hopeless before this year, anti-social etc yada yada. Decided to clean up my life, become normal. Really wanted to prove something to myself and have a girlfriend, mostly for the sake of it. Got with Sarah, who I've been with for six months exactly. I can't really say that at any point I've felt that much for her, I was more in love with having a gf than my gf. \n\nBoth of us have noticed this since then. It's pretty clear that she really likes me and wants this to succeed. I can't open up to her or find that spark in her that resonates with me while she's opening up her heart. We've talked once before about maybe ending it and how we'd try to be closer and that's where we left it, and again much more seriously yesterday, where she pointed out how I've been preferring the company my bff of two years, Lily, to hers for a while, now. \n\nI really didn't notice this, but I'm thinking more and more about it and. Well, I'm falling for my Lily. And in my talk with Sarah yesterday she brought up how apparently Lily's had something for me for basically forever, which I've also been oblivious to. \n\nNow, facing my feelings, I'd really like to be with Lily. I didn't mean for things to end up like this, but I don't know how to break any of this to Sarah. She and Lily are both part of my very close friend group, and aside from that, Sarah's almost universally well liked at my school. I just want to end this with the least feelings hurt, and hopefully with Lily. I'm so fucking lost, any advice at all would be amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Fake names) Gonna try to keep this brief. I was pretty much hopeless before this year, anti-social etc yada yada. Decided to clean up my life, become normal. Really wanted to prove something to myself and have a girlfriend, mostly for the sake of it. Got with Sarah, who I've been with for six months exactly. I can't really say that at any point I've felt that much for her, I was more in love with having a gf than my gf. \n\nBoth of us have noticed this since then. It's pretty clear that she really likes me and wants this to succeed. I can't open up to her or find that spark in her that resonates with me while she's opening up her heart. We've talked once before about maybe ending it and how we'd try to be closer and that's where we left it, and again much more seriously yesterday, where she pointed out how I've been preferring the company my bff of two years, Lily, to hers for a while, now. \n\nI really didn't notice this, but I'm thinking more and more about it and. Well, I'm falling for my Lily. And in my talk with Sarah yesterday she brought up how apparently Lily's had something for me for basically forever, which I've also been oblivious to. \n\nNow, facing my feelings, I'd really like to be with Lily. I didn't mean for things to end up like this, but I don't know how to break any of this to Sarah. She and Lily are both part of my very close friend group, and aside from that, Sarah's almost universally well liked at my school. I just want to end this with the least feelings hurt, and hopefully with Lily. I'm so fucking lost, any advice at all would be amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Fake names) Gonna try to keep this brief. I was pretty much hopeless before this year, anti-social etc yada yada. Decided to clean up my life, become normal. Really wanted to prove something to myself and have a girlfriend, mostly for the sake of it. Got with Sarah, who I've been with for six months exactly. I can't really say that at any point I've felt that much for her, I was more in love with having a gf than my gf. \n\nBoth of us have noticed this since then. It's pretty clear that she really likes me and wants this to succeed. I can't open up to her or find that spark in her that resonates with me while she's opening up her heart. We've talked once before about maybe ending it and how we'd try to be closer and that's where we left it, and again much more seriously yesterday, where she pointed out how I've been preferring the company my bff of two years, Lily, to hers for a while, now. \n\nI really didn't notice this, but I'm thinking more and more about it and. Well, I'm falling for my Lily. And in my talk with Sarah yesterday she brought up how apparently Lily's had something for me for basically forever, which I've also been oblivious to. \n\nNow, facing my feelings, I'd really like to be with Lily. I didn't mean for things to end up like this, but I don't know how to break any of this to Sarah. She and Lily are both part of my very close friend group, and aside from that, Sarah's almost universally well liked at my school. I just want to end this with the least feelings hurt, and hopefully with Lily. I'm so fucking lost, any advice at all would be amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Fake names) Gonna try to keep this brief. I was pretty much hopeless before this year, anti-social etc yada yada. Decided to clean up my life, become normal. Really wanted to prove something to myself and have a girlfriend, mostly for the sake of it. Got with Sarah, who I've been with for six months exactly. I can't really say that at any point I've felt that much for her, I was more in love with having a gf than my gf. \n\nBoth of us have noticed this since then. It's pretty clear that she really likes me and wants this to succeed. I can't open up to her or find that spark in her that resonates with me while she's opening up her heart. We've talked once before about maybe ending it and how we'd try to be closer and that's where we left it, and again much more seriously yesterday, where she pointed out how I've been preferring the company my bff of two years, Lily, to hers for a while, now. \n\nI really didn't notice this, but I'm thinking more and more about it and. Well, I'm falling for my Lily. And in my talk with Sarah yesterday she brought up how apparently Lily's had something for me for basically forever, which I've also been oblivious to. \n\nNow, facing my feelings, I'd really like to be with Lily. I didn't mean for things to end up like this, but I don't know how to break any of this to Sarah. She and Lily are both part of my very close friend group, and aside from that, Sarah's almost universally well liked at my school. I just want to end this with the least feelings hurt, and hopefully with Lily. I'm so fucking lost, any advice at all would be amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Fake names) Gonna try to keep this brief. I was pretty much hopeless before this year, anti-social etc yada yada. Decided to clean up my life, become normal. Really wanted to prove something to myself and have a girlfriend, mostly for the sake of it. Got with Sarah, who I've been with for six months exactly. I can't really say that at any point I've felt that much for her, I was more in love with having a gf than my gf. \n\nBoth of us have noticed this since then. It's pretty clear that she really likes me and wants this to succeed. I can't open up to her or find that spark in her that resonates with me while she's opening up her heart. We've talked once before about maybe ending it and how we'd try to be closer and that's where we left it, and again much more seriously yesterday, where she pointed out how I've been preferring the company my bff of two years, Lily, to hers for a while, now. \n\nI really didn't notice this, but I'm thinking more and more about it and. Well, I'm falling for my Lily. And in my talk with Sarah yesterday she brought up how apparently Lily's had something for me for basically forever, which I've also been oblivious to. \n\nNow, facing my feelings, I'd really like to be with Lily. I didn't mean for things to end up like this, but I don't know how to break any of this to Sarah. She and Lily are both part of my very close friend group, and aside from that, Sarah's almost universally well liked at my school. I just want to end this with the least feelings hurt, and hopefully with Lily. I'm so fucking lost, any advice at all would be amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (Fake names) Gonna try to keep this brief. I was pretty much hopeless before this year, anti-social etc yada yada. Decided to clean up my life, become normal. Really wanted to prove something to myself and have a girlfriend, mostly for the sake of it. Got with Sarah, who I've been with for six months exactly. I can't really say that at any point I've felt that much for her, I was more in love with having a gf than my gf. \n\nBoth of us have noticed this since then. It's pretty clear that she really likes me and wants this to succeed. I can't open up to her or find that spark in her that resonates with me while she's opening up her heart. We've talked once before about maybe ending it and how we'd try to be closer and that's where we left it, and again much more seriously yesterday, where she pointed out how I've been preferring the company my bff of two years, Lily, to hers for a while, now. \n\nI really didn't notice this, but I'm thinking more and more about it and. Well, I'm falling for my Lily. And in my talk with Sarah yesterday she brought up how apparently Lily's had something for me for basically forever, which I've also been oblivious to. \n\nNow, facing my feelings, I'd really like to be with Lily. I didn't mean for things to end up like this, but I don't know how to break any of this to Sarah. She and Lily are both part of my very close friend group, and aside from that, Sarah's almost universally well liked at my school. I just want to end this with the least feelings hurt, and hopefully with Lily. I'm so fucking lost, any advice at all would be amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't think there's anything medically wrong with me, I just fart sometimes, usually when I'm not paying attention. My wife - who has yet to fart in front of me - gets upset whenever this happens. Today she asked me to leave the room when I have to fart because she thinks it's repulsive and doesn't want to hear it. She accused me of doing it on purpose. Sometimes I fart in my sleep and she wakes me up to scold me for it. She wants me to get out of bed and go to the bathroom to fart. How am I supposed to even know that's about to happen? I'm sleeping!\n\nI realize this sounds like I made it up, but I didn't. She's a southern girl, raised to be proper and polite and I'm a northeastern \"redneck.\" I have a very gross family that jokes about farting, boogers, sex and all kinds of things that make her very uncomfortable. I don't want her to lighten up, I just want her to be less angry with me when I have a normal bodily function.\n\nIs this normal? Am I overreacting? I just don't like when she's upset with me. I admittedly laugh when she freaks out about this and that makes it worse."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't think there's anything medically wrong with me, I just fart sometimes, usually when I'm not paying attention. My wife - who has yet to fart in front of me - gets upset whenever this happens. Today she asked me to leave the room when I have to fart because she thinks it's repulsive and doesn't want to hear it. She accused me of doing it on purpose. Sometimes I fart in my sleep and she wakes me up to scold me for it. She wants me to get out of bed and go to the bathroom to fart. How am I supposed to even know that's about to happen? I'm sleeping!\n\nI realize this sounds like I made it up, but I didn't. She's a southern girl, raised to be proper and polite and I'm a northeastern \"redneck.\" I have a very gross family that jokes about farting, boogers, sex and all kinds of things that make her very uncomfortable. I don't want her to lighten up, I just want her to be less angry with me when I have a normal bodily function.\n\nIs this normal? Am I overreacting? I just don't like when she's upset with me. I admittedly laugh when she freaks out about this and that makes it worse."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't think there's anything medically wrong with me, I just fart sometimes, usually when I'm not paying attention. My wife - who has yet to fart in front of me - gets upset whenever this happens. Today she asked me to leave the room when I have to fart because she thinks it's repulsive and doesn't want to hear it. She accused me of doing it on purpose. Sometimes I fart in my sleep and she wakes me up to scold me for it. She wants me to get out of bed and go to the bathroom to fart. How am I supposed to even know that's about to happen? I'm sleeping!\n\nI realize this sounds like I made it up, but I didn't. She's a southern girl, raised to be proper and polite and I'm a northeastern \"redneck.\" I have a very gross family that jokes about farting, boogers, sex and all kinds of things that make her very uncomfortable. I don't want her to lighten up, I just want her to be less angry with me when I have a normal bodily function.\n\nIs this normal? Am I overreacting? I just don't like when she's upset with me. I admittedly laugh when she freaks out about this and that makes it worse."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't think there's anything medically wrong with me, I just fart sometimes, usually when I'm not paying attention. My wife - who has yet to fart in front of me - gets upset whenever this happens. Today she asked me to leave the room when I have to fart because she thinks it's repulsive and doesn't want to hear it. She accused me of doing it on purpose. Sometimes I fart in my sleep and she wakes me up to scold me for it. She wants me to get out of bed and go to the bathroom to fart. How am I supposed to even know that's about to happen? I'm sleeping!\n\nI realize this sounds like I made it up, but I didn't. She's a southern girl, raised to be proper and polite and I'm a northeastern \"redneck.\" I have a very gross family that jokes about farting, boogers, sex and all kinds of things that make her very uncomfortable. I don't want her to lighten up, I just want her to be less angry with me when I have a normal bodily function.\n\nIs this normal? Am I overreacting? I just don't like when she's upset with me. I admittedly laugh when she freaks out about this and that makes it worse."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't think there's anything medically wrong with me, I just fart sometimes, usually when I'm not paying attention. My wife - who has yet to fart in front of me - gets upset whenever this happens. Today she asked me to leave the room when I have to fart because she thinks it's repulsive and doesn't want to hear it. She accused me of doing it on purpose. Sometimes I fart in my sleep and she wakes me up to scold me for it. She wants me to get out of bed and go to the bathroom to fart. How am I supposed to even know that's about to happen? I'm sleeping!\n\nI realize this sounds like I made it up, but I didn't. She's a southern girl, raised to be proper and polite and I'm a northeastern \"redneck.\" I have a very gross family that jokes about farting, boogers, sex and all kinds of things that make her very uncomfortable. I don't want her to lighten up, I just want her to be less angry with me when I have a normal bodily function.\n\nIs this normal? Am I overreacting? I just don't like when she's upset with me. I admittedly laugh when she freaks out about this and that makes it worse."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't think there's anything medically wrong with me, I just fart sometimes, usually when I'm not paying attention. My wife - who has yet to fart in front of me - gets upset whenever this happens. Today she asked me to leave the room when I have to fart because she thinks it's repulsive and doesn't want to hear it. She accused me of doing it on purpose. Sometimes I fart in my sleep and she wakes me up to scold me for it. She wants me to get out of bed and go to the bathroom to fart. How am I supposed to even know that's about to happen? I'm sleeping!\n\nI realize this sounds like I made it up, but I didn't. She's a southern girl, raised to be proper and polite and I'm a northeastern \"redneck.\" I have a very gross family that jokes about farting, boogers, sex and all kinds of things that make her very uncomfortable. I don't want her to lighten up, I just want her to be less angry with me when I have a normal bodily function.\n\nIs this normal? Am I overreacting? I just don't like when she's upset with me. I admittedly laugh when she freaks out about this and that makes it worse."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been together for a year, he's living 400 km away from me so we see each other every 2- 3 weeks. We recently had some trouble, he was having doubts about us but then changed his mind and states that he does really love me. \nLast night while skyping he told me \"you were skinnier this summer, that used to suit you better, don't get fatter that you are now\".\nI took 3 kg (6.6 lbs) in the last 6 months (hard new uni, problem with friends, new job, new rythm.) \ni've never been skinny or specially fit and I don't think that i will ever be. I used to go to the gym 3 times a week (i loved to go cause i was just going for myself, because i felt no pressure nor obligation to go) and he even got into it himself because he admired how much i liked it. But for the last 3 months I've stopped going.\n\nHe told me that he keeps on telling me to go to the gym but that if i don't go he feels that i don't take him seriously. \nSince he said that i feel that just want to give me orders, to oblige me to change and it kills all motivation.\n\nI understand his point but i don't like his approach to it. How could he approach it to me in a more tactful way?\n\n(please excuse my poor english)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been together for a year, he's living 400 km away from me so we see each other every 2- 3 weeks. We recently had some trouble, he was having doubts about us but then changed his mind and states that he does really love me. \nLast night while skyping he told me \"you were skinnier this summer, that used to suit you better, don't get fatter that you are now\".\nI took 3 kg (6.6 lbs) in the last 6 months (hard new uni, problem with friends, new job, new rythm.) \ni've never been skinny or specially fit and I don't think that i will ever be. I used to go to the gym 3 times a week (i loved to go cause i was just going for myself, because i felt no pressure nor obligation to go) and he even got into it himself because he admired how much i liked it. But for the last 3 months I've stopped going.\n\nHe told me that he keeps on telling me to go to the gym but that if i don't go he feels that i don't take him seriously. \nSince he said that i feel that just want to give me orders, to oblige me to change and it kills all motivation.\n\nI understand his point but i don't like his approach to it. How could he approach it to me in a more tactful way?\n\n(please excuse my poor english)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been together for a year, he's living 400 km away from me so we see each other every 2- 3 weeks. We recently had some trouble, he was having doubts about us but then changed his mind and states that he does really love me. \nLast night while skyping he told me \"you were skinnier this summer, that used to suit you better, don't get fatter that you are now\".\nI took 3 kg (6.6 lbs) in the last 6 months (hard new uni, problem with friends, new job, new rythm.) \ni've never been skinny or specially fit and I don't think that i will ever be. I used to go to the gym 3 times a week (i loved to go cause i was just going for myself, because i felt no pressure nor obligation to go) and he even got into it himself because he admired how much i liked it. But for the last 3 months I've stopped going.\n\nHe told me that he keeps on telling me to go to the gym but that if i don't go he feels that i don't take him seriously. \nSince he said that i feel that just want to give me orders, to oblige me to change and it kills all motivation.\n\nI understand his point but i don't like his approach to it. How could he approach it to me in a more tactful way?\n\n(please excuse my poor english)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been together for a year, he's living 400 km away from me so we see each other every 2- 3 weeks. We recently had some trouble, he was having doubts about us but then changed his mind and states that he does really love me. \nLast night while skyping he told me \"you were skinnier this summer, that used to suit you better, don't get fatter that you are now\".\nI took 3 kg (6.6 lbs) in the last 6 months (hard new uni, problem with friends, new job, new rythm.) \ni've never been skinny or specially fit and I don't think that i will ever be. I used to go to the gym 3 times a week (i loved to go cause i was just going for myself, because i felt no pressure nor obligation to go) and he even got into it himself because he admired how much i liked it. But for the last 3 months I've stopped going.\n\nHe told me that he keeps on telling me to go to the gym but that if i don't go he feels that i don't take him seriously. \nSince he said that i feel that just want to give me orders, to oblige me to change and it kills all motivation.\n\nI understand his point but i don't like his approach to it. How could he approach it to me in a more tactful way?\n\n(please excuse my poor english)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been together for a year, he's living 400 km away from me so we see each other every 2- 3 weeks. We recently had some trouble, he was having doubts about us but then changed his mind and states that he does really love me. \nLast night while skyping he told me \"you were skinnier this summer, that used to suit you better, don't get fatter that you are now\".\nI took 3 kg (6.6 lbs) in the last 6 months (hard new uni, problem with friends, new job, new rythm.) \ni've never been skinny or specially fit and I don't think that i will ever be. I used to go to the gym 3 times a week (i loved to go cause i was just going for myself, because i felt no pressure nor obligation to go) and he even got into it himself because he admired how much i liked it. But for the last 3 months I've stopped going.\n\nHe told me that he keeps on telling me to go to the gym but that if i don't go he feels that i don't take him seriously. \nSince he said that i feel that just want to give me orders, to oblige me to change and it kills all motivation.\n\nI understand his point but i don't like his approach to it. How could he approach it to me in a more tactful way?\n\n(please excuse my poor english)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been together for a year, he's living 400 km away from me so we see each other every 2- 3 weeks. We recently had some trouble, he was having doubts about us but then changed his mind and states that he does really love me. \nLast night while skyping he told me \"you were skinnier this summer, that used to suit you better, don't get fatter that you are now\".\nI took 3 kg (6.6 lbs) in the last 6 months (hard new uni, problem with friends, new job, new rythm.) \ni've never been skinny or specially fit and I don't think that i will ever be. I used to go to the gym 3 times a week (i loved to go cause i was just going for myself, because i felt no pressure nor obligation to go) and he even got into it himself because he admired how much i liked it. But for the last 3 months I've stopped going.\n\nHe told me that he keeps on telling me to go to the gym but that if i don't go he feels that i don't take him seriously. \nSince he said that i feel that just want to give me orders, to oblige me to change and it kills all motivation.\n\nI understand his point but i don't like his approach to it. How could he approach it to me in a more tactful way?\n\n(please excuse my poor english)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Everyone,\nI got into a car accident about a year ago in Quebec, i was riding a bike and i hit a car and caused some damage to the car (dented the passenger side door, it's an suv, honda 2013 i think, i felt overquoted on the price of repair), the car's insurance company contacted me later saying i need to pay them 3.5k CAD and then after some back and forth emails, i negotiated the amount down and was willing to pay 2k but they said they wouldn't go lower than 2.6k, but then they stopped sending emails for about 6 months. then they emailed me 1 week ago saying i need to pay the 2.6k or they would send it to their collectors department\nIf anyone could offer some advice or help me figure out what the best course of action is, i would greatly appreciate it.\nI don't have a lot of money but I could pay the 2.6k, it would just be a pain in the ass because i'm saving money to pay my brothers tuition in the states"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Everyone,\nI got into a car accident about a year ago in Quebec, i was riding a bike and i hit a car and caused some damage to the car (dented the passenger side door, it's an suv, honda 2013 i think, i felt overquoted on the price of repair), the car's insurance company contacted me later saying i need to pay them 3.5k CAD and then after some back and forth emails, i negotiated the amount down and was willing to pay 2k but they said they wouldn't go lower than 2.6k, but then they stopped sending emails for about 6 months. then they emailed me 1 week ago saying i need to pay the 2.6k or they would send it to their collectors department\nIf anyone could offer some advice or help me figure out what the best course of action is, i would greatly appreciate it.\nI don't have a lot of money but I could pay the 2.6k, it would just be a pain in the ass because i'm saving money to pay my brothers tuition in the states"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Everyone,\nI got into a car accident about a year ago in Quebec, i was riding a bike and i hit a car and caused some damage to the car (dented the passenger side door, it's an suv, honda 2013 i think, i felt overquoted on the price of repair), the car's insurance company contacted me later saying i need to pay them 3.5k CAD and then after some back and forth emails, i negotiated the amount down and was willing to pay 2k but they said they wouldn't go lower than 2.6k, but then they stopped sending emails for about 6 months. then they emailed me 1 week ago saying i need to pay the 2.6k or they would send it to their collectors department\nIf anyone could offer some advice or help me figure out what the best course of action is, i would greatly appreciate it.\nI don't have a lot of money but I could pay the 2.6k, it would just be a pain in the ass because i'm saving money to pay my brothers tuition in the states"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Everyone,\nI got into a car accident about a year ago in Quebec, i was riding a bike and i hit a car and caused some damage to the car (dented the passenger side door, it's an suv, honda 2013 i think, i felt overquoted on the price of repair), the car's insurance company contacted me later saying i need to pay them 3.5k CAD and then after some back and forth emails, i negotiated the amount down and was willing to pay 2k but they said they wouldn't go lower than 2.6k, but then they stopped sending emails for about 6 months. then they emailed me 1 week ago saying i need to pay the 2.6k or they would send it to their collectors department\nIf anyone could offer some advice or help me figure out what the best course of action is, i would greatly appreciate it.\nI don't have a lot of money but I could pay the 2.6k, it would just be a pain in the ass because i'm saving money to pay my brothers tuition in the states"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Everyone,\nI got into a car accident about a year ago in Quebec, i was riding a bike and i hit a car and caused some damage to the car (dented the passenger side door, it's an suv, honda 2013 i think, i felt overquoted on the price of repair), the car's insurance company contacted me later saying i need to pay them 3.5k CAD and then after some back and forth emails, i negotiated the amount down and was willing to pay 2k but they said they wouldn't go lower than 2.6k, but then they stopped sending emails for about 6 months. then they emailed me 1 week ago saying i need to pay the 2.6k or they would send it to their collectors department\nIf anyone could offer some advice or help me figure out what the best course of action is, i would greatly appreciate it.\nI don't have a lot of money but I could pay the 2.6k, it would just be a pain in the ass because i'm saving money to pay my brothers tuition in the states"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Everyone,\nI got into a car accident about a year ago in Quebec, i was riding a bike and i hit a car and caused some damage to the car (dented the passenger side door, it's an suv, honda 2013 i think, i felt overquoted on the price of repair), the car's insurance company contacted me later saying i need to pay them 3.5k CAD and then after some back and forth emails, i negotiated the amount down and was willing to pay 2k but they said they wouldn't go lower than 2.6k, but then they stopped sending emails for about 6 months. then they emailed me 1 week ago saying i need to pay the 2.6k or they would send it to their collectors department\nIf anyone could offer some advice or help me figure out what the best course of action is, i would greatly appreciate it.\nI don't have a lot of money but I could pay the 2.6k, it would just be a pain in the ass because i'm saving money to pay my brothers tuition in the states"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22F who has been dating this 26M for about a month. We've gone on 3 really awesome dates and have really really hit it off, or so I think. We've both verbalized that we really enjoy spending time together. Nothing sexual has happened beyond just making out yet. \n\nWe had plans last weekend to get together at his place… (I was so excited cause I thought we were finally gonna take things further physically!) but then that morning, he ended up texting me asking if we could postpone until after the New Year. I didn't think much of it - we had both been out of town visiting our families and busy with Christmas, so whatever. I could wait a week.\n\nSo we rescheduled and were planning on hanging out last night, and he texted me yesterday morning yet again asking if we could postpone. He did suggest a specific day next week and settled on plans, so I think it's a good sign that he was at least specific? \n\nBut it's been 2 weeks since we've seen each other which seems weird considering how he keeps talking about how much he likes spending time with me. I'm just wondering if he's losing interest… seeing other women… stringing me along… etc etc? I feel like I can't really question him about it because it's so early on (we've only been on 3 dates and I don't wanna seem clingy!) but it also kinda sucks to feel like I'm super disposable and he's not committing to plans.\n\nShould next week's plans be his last chance? Do you think I should say anything about it if it happens again? Do I even have a place to say anything about it or should I just cut my losses and move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22F who has been dating this 26M for about a month. We've gone on 3 really awesome dates and have really really hit it off, or so I think. We've both verbalized that we really enjoy spending time together. Nothing sexual has happened beyond just making out yet. \n\nWe had plans last weekend to get together at his place… (I was so excited cause I thought we were finally gonna take things further physically!) but then that morning, he ended up texting me asking if we could postpone until after the New Year. I didn't think much of it - we had both been out of town visiting our families and busy with Christmas, so whatever. I could wait a week.\n\nSo we rescheduled and were planning on hanging out last night, and he texted me yesterday morning yet again asking if we could postpone. He did suggest a specific day next week and settled on plans, so I think it's a good sign that he was at least specific? \n\nBut it's been 2 weeks since we've seen each other which seems weird considering how he keeps talking about how much he likes spending time with me. I'm just wondering if he's losing interest… seeing other women… stringing me along… etc etc? I feel like I can't really question him about it because it's so early on (we've only been on 3 dates and I don't wanna seem clingy!) but it also kinda sucks to feel like I'm super disposable and he's not committing to plans.\n\nShould next week's plans be his last chance? Do you think I should say anything about it if it happens again? Do I even have a place to say anything about it or should I just cut my losses and move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22F who has been dating this 26M for about a month. We've gone on 3 really awesome dates and have really really hit it off, or so I think. We've both verbalized that we really enjoy spending time together. Nothing sexual has happened beyond just making out yet. \n\nWe had plans last weekend to get together at his place… (I was so excited cause I thought we were finally gonna take things further physically!) but then that morning, he ended up texting me asking if we could postpone until after the New Year. I didn't think much of it - we had both been out of town visiting our families and busy with Christmas, so whatever. I could wait a week.\n\nSo we rescheduled and were planning on hanging out last night, and he texted me yesterday morning yet again asking if we could postpone. He did suggest a specific day next week and settled on plans, so I think it's a good sign that he was at least specific? \n\nBut it's been 2 weeks since we've seen each other which seems weird considering how he keeps talking about how much he likes spending time with me. I'm just wondering if he's losing interest… seeing other women… stringing me along… etc etc? I feel like I can't really question him about it because it's so early on (we've only been on 3 dates and I don't wanna seem clingy!) but it also kinda sucks to feel like I'm super disposable and he's not committing to plans.\n\nShould next week's plans be his last chance? Do you think I should say anything about it if it happens again? Do I even have a place to say anything about it or should I just cut my losses and move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22F who has been dating this 26M for about a month. We've gone on 3 really awesome dates and have really really hit it off, or so I think. We've both verbalized that we really enjoy spending time together. Nothing sexual has happened beyond just making out yet. \n\nWe had plans last weekend to get together at his place… (I was so excited cause I thought we were finally gonna take things further physically!) but then that morning, he ended up texting me asking if we could postpone until after the New Year. I didn't think much of it - we had both been out of town visiting our families and busy with Christmas, so whatever. I could wait a week.\n\nSo we rescheduled and were planning on hanging out last night, and he texted me yesterday morning yet again asking if we could postpone. He did suggest a specific day next week and settled on plans, so I think it's a good sign that he was at least specific? \n\nBut it's been 2 weeks since we've seen each other which seems weird considering how he keeps talking about how much he likes spending time with me. I'm just wondering if he's losing interest… seeing other women… stringing me along… etc etc? I feel like I can't really question him about it because it's so early on (we've only been on 3 dates and I don't wanna seem clingy!) but it also kinda sucks to feel like I'm super disposable and he's not committing to plans.\n\nShould next week's plans be his last chance? Do you think I should say anything about it if it happens again? Do I even have a place to say anything about it or should I just cut my losses and move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22F who has been dating this 26M for about a month. We've gone on 3 really awesome dates and have really really hit it off, or so I think. We've both verbalized that we really enjoy spending time together. Nothing sexual has happened beyond just making out yet. \n\nWe had plans last weekend to get together at his place… (I was so excited cause I thought we were finally gonna take things further physically!) but then that morning, he ended up texting me asking if we could postpone until after the New Year. I didn't think much of it - we had both been out of town visiting our families and busy with Christmas, so whatever. I could wait a week.\n\nSo we rescheduled and were planning on hanging out last night, and he texted me yesterday morning yet again asking if we could postpone. He did suggest a specific day next week and settled on plans, so I think it's a good sign that he was at least specific? \n\nBut it's been 2 weeks since we've seen each other which seems weird considering how he keeps talking about how much he likes spending time with me. I'm just wondering if he's losing interest… seeing other women… stringing me along… etc etc? I feel like I can't really question him about it because it's so early on (we've only been on 3 dates and I don't wanna seem clingy!) but it also kinda sucks to feel like I'm super disposable and he's not committing to plans.\n\nShould next week's plans be his last chance? Do you think I should say anything about it if it happens again? Do I even have a place to say anything about it or should I just cut my losses and move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 22F who has been dating this 26M for about a month. We've gone on 3 really awesome dates and have really really hit it off, or so I think. We've both verbalized that we really enjoy spending time together. Nothing sexual has happened beyond just making out yet. \n\nWe had plans last weekend to get together at his place… (I was so excited cause I thought we were finally gonna take things further physically!) but then that morning, he ended up texting me asking if we could postpone until after the New Year. I didn't think much of it - we had both been out of town visiting our families and busy with Christmas, so whatever. I could wait a week.\n\nSo we rescheduled and were planning on hanging out last night, and he texted me yesterday morning yet again asking if we could postpone. He did suggest a specific day next week and settled on plans, so I think it's a good sign that he was at least specific? \n\nBut it's been 2 weeks since we've seen each other which seems weird considering how he keeps talking about how much he likes spending time with me. I'm just wondering if he's losing interest… seeing other women… stringing me along… etc etc? I feel like I can't really question him about it because it's so early on (we've only been on 3 dates and I don't wanna seem clingy!) but it also kinda sucks to feel like I'm super disposable and he's not committing to plans.\n\nShould next week's plans be his last chance? Do you think I should say anything about it if it happens again? Do I even have a place to say anything about it or should I just cut my losses and move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She and I met three years ago through work. We hit off very well back then, but a month into her working at my job, she started dating a guy. This past August, they broke up due to him cheating on her. We didn't keep in touch over the past three years, except with the occasional Facebook update. We reconnected this past September through a happy hour. She told a co-worker to tell me she was single now, and I ended up going back to her place that night after happy hour. Since then, we've been going several times. Last night, coming back from a date in public transportation, I saw that she and her ex were sending these super long text messages back and forth. I only looked down for a split second and saw his name and the few-lines-long green and gray text boxes.\n\nI figured most people delete the contact info of the person who committed infidelity, so it surprised me when I looked down on her phone and saw his name. We are keeping things pretty casual and organic, so we've not had The Talk or DTR at all, and so she does have every prerogative to speak with him. But it's making me hesitant to have The Talk and I don't know how to talk to her about her ex since she's never personally told me what happened about the relationship (I learned about the infidelity from the co-worker) and I've never asked. I like this girl but I've been hesitant to move forward with anything because I think there's a grieving period after you exit a long term relationship and maybe she's not fully over the guy yet. I've dated a girl in the past who was with someone for three years, broke up, and a month later we started dating, but it ended after several months due to her admitting she wasn't ready. I don't know how to proceed from here."
} |
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