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https://www.wikihow.com/Measure-Stride-Length | How to Measure Stride Length | To measure your stride length, start by marking a starting place on the floor. Stand on the starting place, then count 10 natural steps. Once you reach the last step, mark the spot on the floor where the edge of your shoe is. Next, use a measuring tape to measure the distance between the two spots on the floor that you've marked. Then, divide the distance by 10 to find your length per stride. For an even more accurate measurement, repeat this process 2-3 times and take the average. | Locate a pedometer to count your steps. A pedometer is a small device used to count the number of steps taken. You can use a pedometer that clips to your clothing, or try using a pedometer phone app. You can purchase a pedometer at most sporting stores or online. Most smartphones nowadays come with a step tracking feature. You can also download pedometer apps from your app store. Run or walk a known distance and track your number of steps. Pick a distance such as 100 metres (330 ft) or 1 mile (1.6 km), and turn your pedometer on. As you move, the pedometer will automatically keep track of your steps. For instance, it may take you 112 steps to walk 100 metres (330 ft). You may complete 1 mile (1.6 km) in about 2,000 steps. Divide your total distance by the number of steps. When you know your total number of steps, divide the distance you walked or ran by the number of steps listed on your pedometer. This number is your stride length. If you jogged a total of 100 metres (330 ft) in 112 steps, your stride length is 0.89 metres (2.9 ft). If you walked 1 mile (1.6 km) in 2,000 steps, your stride length is 2.64 feet (0.80 m). There are 5,280 feet (1,610 m) in a mile, so divide that by 2,000 to find your stride length. Pick a starting place and mark it with an item. You can draw a line with sidewalk chalk on your driveway, mark your spot with a pen, or use any household object to indicate your place. Take 10 natural steps forward starting with your right foot. Count your steps from 1 to 10 as you walk forward. For best results, try not to overthink your foot placement and walk normally. Make a mark in front of your right foot after 10 steps. If you used sidewalk chalk to mark your starting point, draw another line at the edge of your shoe. If you used an object (such as a pen) to mark your starting point, drop another object at the tip of your right foot. This mark indicates your stopping place. Measure the distance between your starting and stopping point. Start your measurements where you took your first step, and use a ruler, yardstick, or measuring tape to find the distance to your last step. Use the smaller units of measurement on your measuring device, such as inches or centimeters (instead of feet or meters). Round your measurements to the closest inch or centimeter. For example, the distance may be 180.3 inches (458 cm), which rounds down to 180 inches (460 cm). Have a friend help hold your tape measure if you need a hand. Divide your distance in inches or centimeters by 10. Once you have the total number of inches or centimeters, you are 1 calculation away from determining your stride length. Divide your distance, and the number you get is your stride length! For instance, if your distance is 180 in (460 cm), you will get 18 in (46 cm) after you divide by 10. Your stride length is 18 in (46 cm) or 1.5 ft (0.46 m). Repeat this 2-3 times to find an accurate average. If you want to ensure your measurements are as accurate as possible, repeat the process a few more times, and average the numbers together. To calculate your average, add up the total of all your stride lengths, and divide them by the total number of times measured. Measure your height to the closest centimeter. Stand with your back straight against the wall, and make a small mark at the crown of your head with a pencil. Grab a tape measure, and measure the distance from your mark to the floor. Round your measurement to the closest centimeter. If you don't want to make a mark on the wall, stick your pencil at the crown of your head (eraser end), and back away from the wall with your pencil still in place. Then, measure from your pencil to the floor. Grab a friend to help if you are having trouble measuring your height yourself. Your height may be 165 cm (65 in), for example. Multiply your height by 0.413 to find stride length for females. Estimating stride length by height is a quick way to find an approximation, but this method is not the most accurate for individual stride lengths. When you get your calculation, round your number to the nearest centimeter. If your height measured to 165 cm (65 in), multiply this by 0.413 for a total of 68.15 cm (26.83 in), which rounds to 68 cm (2.23 ft). Multiply your height by 0.415 to determine stride length for males. The estimation is slightly different for men than for women, so use this number for your calculations rather than 0.413. Be sure to round your calculations to the nearest whole centimeter. For height measurements of 165 cm (65 in) multiplied by 0.415, your stride length is 68.475 cm (26.959 in), which rounds to 69 cm (2.26 ft). | Locate a pedometer to count your steps. Run or walk a known distance and track your number of steps. Divide your total distance by the number of steps. Pick a starting place and mark it with an item. Take 10 natural steps forward starting with your right foot. Make a mark in front of your right foot after 10 steps. Measure the distance between your starting and stopping point. Divide your distance in inches or centimeters by 10. Repeat this 2-3 times to find an accurate average. Measure your height to the closest centimeter. Multiply your height by 0.413 to find stride length for females. Multiply your height by 0.415 to determine stride length for males. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Business-Development-Manager | How to Become a Business Development Manager | To become a business development manager, start by learning about the job, which entails long work hours, a lot of travel, and networking with clients. Additionally, work on developing strong interpersonal and presentation skills since working with people is the main part of the job. If this sounds like the right opportunity for you, then obtain a Bachelor's degree and get 5 years experience in business before applying for an entry level job. However, you may want to pursue your Masters of Business Administration to make yourself a stronger candidate. | Look into typical work schedules. A business development manager is a high-ranking executive who has to work long hours and travel often. They are responsible for networking and visiting clients to make them feel valued. Though that may not sound like a drawback to you right now, remember that the entire process of becoming a business development manager takes years. How do you picture your home life in 10 to 15 years? If you want to be settled down, think twice before going down this road. Reflect on your interpersonal skills. Business development managers need excellent people skills to keep regular contact with potential and existing clients. This type of work requires strong public relations and presentation skills. You also need to be able to convince them your company knows what it's doing. If people around you enjoy your presence and value your input, you may have the right personality for the job. Job functions as a business development manager can include overseeing the work of fellow employees. A typical workday may entail some level of human resource duties such as conducting training sessions and workshops. The job demands strong organizational skills and analytical abilities in addition to leadership skills. The field requires extensive knowledge and familiarity in how business operations work and to be able to understand, analyze and develop business strategies when working with clients. Figure out which sector you want to work in. All large corporations have business development managers, so you have the opportunity to work in a variety of industries. Do a search on a job listings website for “Business Development Manager” and see what comes up. This will give you an idea of the industries that hire one, or even a team of business development managers. While you're there, see what the typical minimum and preferred qualifications are so you can start gearing your resume toward the job now. Think about the required education. For an entry-level job, you need a bachelor's degree and at least 5 years' experience in the industry. Take courses in business and management. After high school, you need to take business courses, preferably at a four year university. Your academic advisers will be able to give you advice for being a competitive business graduate specific the job market in your area. Begin considering the MBA or another higher degree sooner rather than later. You don't need to get the MBA straight out of undergraduate, however. Since you will need several years' experience in business, it is not a bad idea to get that out of the way and pay back some school loans. Since you are now rubbing shoulders with current and future business leaders, make connections and be on friendly terms with people you meet. You don't know how you will be able to help each other down the road. Do an internship while in school. At some point in the final years of your undergraduate degree, you should do an internship. This can easily be completed over a summer break, but many are also offered during each semester. This will give you an insight into the everyday workings of an actual business. It will also develop important contacts that will help you when you are applying for jobs and boost your resume. Develop a specialization. You should have an area of industry you want to work in, but you also need to specialize in an area of business to get an entry level job. A good route to go for becoming a business development manager is human resources management and teaching. These will give you the tool kit for becoming a good manager later on. Register with a professional association. There are numerous business development manager professional associations. Since there are so many, find out which ones are more prominent to have an opportunity to network with more people. These are also a great source of the latest business training techniques and other resources. Look for internships and part-time jobs. Unfortunately, 'entry level' jobs are no longer for people without experience. You need to get some experience as a full-time employee under your belt before you're ready to apply for business development manager positions. Seek out limited, part-time positions, internships, and apprenticeships first. Apply for entry-level jobs. After getting a few real world applications of your degree on your resume, you should be ready for a full-time job. These can be found on job websites. You should also apply with any companies you with which you've interned in the past. You already have a relationship with them - just make sure it's a good one! Look around for promotion opportunities. Since it is less common and expected to spend your entire career in one company in the 21st century, moving up the ladder may mean getting on a different one. Use the connections you have made a long the way to look around for job opportunities along the way. But don't jump ship a few months after getting that first job. Establish some longevity to demonstrate your loyalty to businesses you want to apply to work for one day. Practice your presentation in job interviews. The business world likes its applicants to mirror formality and give flashy presentation in interviews. It's time to break out your suit, even if you are unsure if that will be everyday attire in the job. For more tips on acing a business job interview see this guide. Work on the basic skills. Some companies employ multiple business development managers. At that point, each individual may not perform all areas typically assigned to someone in position. However, the basics apply to everyone in the early stages of their career. You won't get to the point where you only need to worry about, say, client satisfaction if you weren't capable of doing it all. Get used to developing strategies. This refers to determining which opportunities for expansion you should pursue and how you should do so. Potential clients may fall into your lap, but if your company is not prepared to handle their business, it will be detrimental to you. On the other hand, if there is an ideal company for you to do business with that is not necessarily looking for partnership, you may have to strategize a way to entice them. Practicing your sales skills. This aspect of business never goes away. You will always be looking at businesses to see what they are lacking, and try to sell to them. Your numbers will speak for themselves, making it easier for you to get promoted. Practice interpersonal skills and maintaining business relationships. More important than gaining new business is keeping the old. Though it is normal for business to go out the door on a regular basis, you should do everything you can to make your clients feel important. Go see them in person and take them to dinner. Make sure they are up-to-speed on all the latest developments at your company. | Look into typical work schedules. Reflect on your interpersonal skills. Figure out which sector you want to work in. Think about the required education. Take courses in business and management. Do an internship while in school. Develop a specialization. Register with a professional association. Look for internships and part-time jobs. Apply for entry-level jobs. Look around for promotion opportunities. Practice your presentation in job interviews. Work on the basic skills. Get used to developing strategies. Practicing your sales skills. Practice interpersonal skills and maintaining business relationships. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Tell-if-It%27s-an-Acquaintance,-Friend,-Crush,-or-Love | How to Tell if It's an Acquaintance, Friend, Crush, or Love | To tell if someone is a friend or a crush, see if your conversations are relaxed and casual, which probably means you're talking to a friend. When you talk to a crush, they may appear nervous or excitable because they're trying to make you like them back. If you're still unsure, ask a good friend if they know how the person feels about you. You could also try writing down a list of pros and cons to decide whether they're a friend or crush. For example, they may be a crush if they flirt with you or make eye contact across the room for long periods of time. However, they're probably a good friend if they treat other friends the same way and behave calmly when they're around you. | Notice the amount of eye contact. People's eyes can be very expressive and tell a lot about how they're feeling toward those around them. Friends will make eye contact with each other during conversation to show interest and respect. Someone with a crush on you will make repeated eye contact with you whether in a conversation or not. A crush may hold eye contact for a few seconds, and then look away from shyness, and find your gaze again later. Dilated pupils are another indication of a crush. Someone who's in love with you will feel totally comfortable locking gazes for extended periods of time. Gauge proximity. The amount of space people choose to place between themselves and others can be an indicator of their perceived relationships with those around them. Someone who is your friend will stand or sit closer to you than an acquaintance. A person with a crush on you will stand near you, lean toward you, and look for reasons to get closer to you- whether it's intentionally walking past you at a close range, or leaning in closer than necessary to talk to you. People who are in love will stand or sit very close together- perhaps their hips touch when standing side by side or their knees touch when sitting across from one another. Monitor movement. Our movements, whether conscious or unconscious, can convey lots of different meanings about how we feel about those around us. Friends will tilt their heads while in conversations with other friends to show that they're listening. They may touch each other in light, casual ways on the hand or arm. Someone with a crush will look for reasons to touch the other person, often in a playful and flirty way. They may seem fidgety or nervous, and may subconsciously begin to copy the movements of their crush. Someone who is in love with you will seem very comfortable and secure around you. They may touch you using gentle, caressing gestures. Pay attention to posture. The way a person stands (or sits) when they're around you may give you some clues as to how they feel about you. A friend will stand with his or her shoulders and face pointing toward you. If sitting, he or she will uncross his or her legs to show that he or she is open to you. His or her palms may be open toward you as well, another sign of receptivity. When someone has a crush on you, they stand tall and slightly stick their chest out. Additionally, they will point their toes and hips toward you, as a sign of wanting to move toward you (both figuratively and literally). Recognize vocal tone. The inflection and quality of a person's voice will change subconsciously depending on the feelings they have toward you. Listen to how someone talks in general, and compare it with they sound when talking to you individually. A friend's voice will remain constant, with little to no change in pitch or tone. A crush's voice will have a playful and flirtatious quality to it. Women use a higher pitch to accentuate their femininity. Men use a lower pitch, but alter the pitch, almost to a “sing-song” tone, to both highlight masculinity, and make a woman feel at ease. People who are in love will alter their voices to match their partners'. Men talk in a higher pitch and women a lower one to show that they are connected as one. Think about how casual your conversations are. A conversation between friends is usually casual and comfortable. Both you and your friend ask and answer questions equally, and may or may not make future plans to hang out. Notice how much they talk about themselves. If someone has a crush, they will talk a lot about themselves, both from nerves and as a way to “humble-brag.” They will also ask about you, and agree enthusiastically with what you say to make it seem like you have things in common. Analyze how intimate your conversations are. If someone is in love with you, they will open up to you in intimate ways. You may find out about their deep insecurities and fears, childhood, family dynamics, important personal values, and vision for the future. They may plan future vacations, or invite you to meet family. Reflect on your relationship. Take some time in a quiet place simply to think about your feelings toward the person in question, and your interactions with them. Some questions to consider are: How long have you known this person? How frequently do you see or talk to them? Is the communication equitable? What is the level of intimacy shared (either physically or conversationally)? How would you characterize your time together? Do you both seem to enjoy being together? Make a list. If you're trying to determine whether someone is a friend or a crush, make a “Friend/Crush” list. If you're figuring out whether someone is in love with you, make a “Like/Love” list. Like a Pro/Con list, record any specific behavior that would indicate how they feel about you. Having a visual aid way may give you more insight into how they feel. Ask a trusted friend for help. Sometimes our feelings toward someone can cloud our judgment in assessing their behavior. A friend can offer an honest, objective observation of the relationship, and will be less likely to allow personal feelings to affect their understanding. Express your feelings first. If you're asking someone to open up to you, then you need to be upfront with them as well. If you're looking for honesty, you need to show you're capable of reciprocating. People are more likely to be direct with you if you're direct with them. Start with a sentence like, "I want you to know that I feel____________about you/our relationship. I'm hoping you'll be just as honest and share your feelings about me." Ask in a tactful, non-threatening way. Explain that you're simply trying to gain some insight and clarity in your relationship, and that you respect their feelings no matter what. It's important for your partner to know that they can open up to you, without an abrasive reaction. Try saying something like, "I want you to know that I will completely honor and respect your answer, even if it's not the one I want to hear." Be prepared for the consequences. There's a chance you and your partner may be on two different wavelengths in terms of your relationship. Their answer may sting a little. Take some time to decide how you want to proceed in the relationship, knowing exactly how your partner feels about you. | Notice the amount of eye contact. Gauge proximity. Monitor movement. Pay attention to posture. Recognize vocal tone. Think about how casual your conversations are. Notice how much they talk about themselves. Analyze how intimate your conversations are. Reflect on your relationship. Make a list. Ask a trusted friend for help. Express your feelings first. Ask in a tactful, non-threatening way. Be prepared for the consequences. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Rag-Rug | How to Make a Rag Rug | To braid a rag rug, first cut your fabric into strips of equal width. Knot 3 strips together at the top, then braid the strips, crossing the left and right over the middle repeatedly. Continue adding strips to your braid by cutting a slit into the end of one strip and slicing another slit into the beginning of the new strip. Slide the end of the first strip into the slit of the second and thread the rest of the second through the slit on the first. As you work, coil your braid into a circular spiral. Then, when your rug is the right size, sew the coiled edges together and tack down the ends. | Get a non-slip, rubber rug mat. It is a rubber mesh-like mat that people place under rugs to keep them from slipping. You can usually find them alongside the other rug-making supplies in an art store, or in the home-improvement section of a store. Cut the mat down to the desired size. Non-slip rubber mats for rugs come in rolls, so you will need to cut yours down to the right size. You can make your rug a square or a rectangle. You can even cut it into a shape, such as a crescent moon or heart. Cut your fabric into thin strips. Stack several pieces of cotton fabric together, then cut it into 1 by 5-inch (2.54 by 12.7-centimeter) strips. You can use all one color, but using two or three will make your rug look more interesting. Consider using one solid color and one coordinating pattern. Using a rotary cutter will make cutting the fabric strips faster and easier. Pull a fabric strip through two of the holes in the mat. Use a pair of tweezers to pull the fabric strip down through one hole and out the other. Make sure that the strip crosses under the corner between two squares; don't cross it under the actual square itself. Tie the two ends of the strip together, if desired. You don't have to do this, but it will make your rug more durable and prevent the strips from falling out. Repeat the process for the rest of the holes and strips until the rug is filled. Start at one end of the rug and work your way to the other in rows. If you are making a shape, such as a heart, start at the center of the rug and work your way outward. Choose fabric to use as your base and as your scraps. Your base fabric should be sturdy and already cut to the size and shape you want your rug to be. A towel will work great for this, but you can also use canvas. For your scrap fabric, choose something that doesn't fray much, such as jersey or cotton. If your base fabric isn't hemmed, take a moment to do so now. Your scrap fabric doesn't have to match. Try using coordinating patterns and colors! Draw parallel guidelines on your base fabric, then set it aside. The lines should run across the width of your fabric. The closer together you make these lines, the denser your rug will be; keep in mind that you'll also need to use more fabric as well. About 1 inch (2.54 centimeters) apart would be a good place to start. Use a dressmaker's pen and a ruler for this. The lines will disappear when you wash the fabric. If you are making a round or oval rug, draw rings inside the rug, like ripples, instead. Do not draw guidelines on your scrap fabric. Cut your scrap fabric into small, skinny rectangles. You will be sewing these onto a larger piece of fabric to make a shaggy rug. The rectangles can be whatever size you want them to be, but 4 by 1 inches (10.16 to 2.54 centimeters) is a good place to start. Cut your fabric a few pieces at a time. They way, the rectangles will all come out the same size. Lay down the first few fabric scraps across the first parallel line. The scraps need to be centered on the line, so that you have 2 inches (5.08 centimeters) sticking out to each side. Overlap each scrap by a small amount—no more than ¼ inch (0.64 centimeter). The first scrap needs to be right up against the edge of the base fabric. Sew the scraps down using your sewing machine. Use a straight stitch and a thread color that either matches your base fabric or coordinates with the scraps. Backstitch across the first scrap a few times, then sew straight down, using the parallel line as a guide. Add a few more scraps and continue sewing. Keep adding and overlapping scraps to the parallel line until you reach the bottom of the rug. Backstitch a few times across the last scrap. Trim off the excess thread. Fold the scraps to the side to reveal the next parallel line. If you started on the left side of the rug, you should fold the scraps to the left. If you started on the right side, you should fold them to the right. You have to do this to get the scraps out of the way. If you don't, you will accidentally sew them down when you do the next row. Sew down the next row of scraps using the same method as before. Now that you have to scraps out of the way, sew down more scraps to the next parallel line. Remember to overlap them and to backstitch at the start and end of your sewing. When you finish that row, fold the scraps over and do the next one. Keep going until you reach the opposite end of the rug. Finish the rug. Once you have all of the scraps attached, go over your rug and snip off any loose or hanging threads. Your rug is now ready to use! Cut your fabric into strips. How wide you cut the strips is up to you, but they should all be the same width. Something around 1½ inches (cc centimeters) wide would be ideal. You can use any type of fabric you want for this, but old bed sheets or t-shirts work exceptionally well. If you are using plain cotton bed sheets, cut a notch into the fabric first, then tear it. If you are using t-shirts, cut the strips in one, continuous strand, starting from the bottom hem and finishing under the armpits. Knot three strips together at the top. Pin the strips to something that can hold them steady while you work, such as the couch. You can also secure a safety pin to the end, then use a hook to attach it to a cabinet knob or handle. Braid the strips together tightly. Simply cross the left and right strip over the middle one. From time to time, coiling the braid as you work so that you can see how your rug is forming. Join two strips together, as needed. Cut a slit in the end of the first strip, and the beginning of the next strip. Slide the end of the first strip into the slit of the second strip. Next, thread the rest of the second strip through the slit on the first strip. Tug on the two strips to tighten the knot. Continue braiding until you get the size you want, then secure the end with a pin. Coil your braid into a circular spiral as you braid it. Once you get the size of rug you want, secure the strips together with a sewing pin or a safety pin. Cut off the excess strips. Fold the end of the braid onto itself and stitch it down. Go back to where you started the braid. Remove the safety pin, then fold the knot against the braid. Sew the knot to the braid by hand or using a large, loose zigzag stitch on your sewing machine. If you are using a sewing machine, backstitch at the start of your sewing. Sew the rug into a spiral. Begin to wrap the rug into a spiral, sewing the two edges together. Once again, you can do this by hand or on a sewing machine. If you are using a sewing machine, be sure to use a loose, large zigzag stitch. When you reach the last 2 inches (5.08 centimeters), stop. Finish the rug by tucking and sewing the end down. Fold the end of the braid against itself by 1 inch (2.54 centimeters). Continue sewing the braid to the rest of the rug, sandwiching the end inside. Knot and snip the thread when you are done. If you are using a sewing machine, remember to backstitch at the end of your sewing. Cut a piece of cardboard into a rectangle to use as a base. The rectangle needs to be 4 inches (10.16 centimeters) taller and 4 inches (10.16 centimeters) wider than you want the finished rug to be. It would be easiest if you use a box cutter, but you can use scissors too. Cut evenly-spaced slits into the narrow edges of the cardboard. Cut 2-inch (5.08-centimeter) long slits into the narrow ends of the cardboard. Start and finish making the slits 2 inches (5.08 centimeters) from the each side of your cardboard. Space the slits ½ inch (1.27 centimeters) apart the rest of the way. Use a ruler to make your lines nice and straight. Make sure that the top and bottom slits align. You are leaving a 2-inch (5.08-centimeter) gap on both sides of the cardboard for strength and durability. Cut your fabric into strips. Cotton fabric from old (but clean!) bed sheets will work the best for this, but you can use other types too. Cut the fabric into 2-inch (5.08-centimeter) strips. If you are using cotton, you can save time by cutting a notch into the fabric first, then tearing it. If you are repurposing a t-shirt, cut the strips in one, continuous strand, starting from the bottom hem and finishing under the armpits. Insert both ends of your strips into each slit on the loom. Take your first strip. Place one end into the first slit on the top of the cardboard, and the other end on the first slit on the bottom. Do this for all of the slits. Make sure that you have an even amount of fabric hanging out of the slits. Wrap a piece of tape around a new strip, and begin to weave it. Choose a new strip of fabric to begin weaving with. Wrap a piece of tape around the end (preferably masking) to make it nice and stiff. Weave it over and under across the vertical strips on your cardboard, starting from the left. When you get to the opposite (right) end, pull on the weaving strip until you have a 6-inch (15.24-centimeter) long tail. Weave your way back to the left side. This time, weave in the opposite direction. If you finished weaving under on the first row, begin weaving over on the second row, and vice-versa. When you complete the second row, push it up against the first one so that it is straight and snug. Don't pull, otherwise your rug will curve inward. Continue weaving back and forth, joining strips as needed. Cut a vertical slit into the end of your first strip, and the beginning of the next strip. Slide the end of the first strip into slit of the second strip. Next, pull the entire second strip through the slit on the first strip. Tug on the strips to tighten them. Tie the ends of the weaving strips to the fringe when you are done. When you reach the bottom row of slits, stop. Cut your weaving strip until it is about 6 inches (15.24 centimeters) long. Pull the strip closest to the edge out of its cardboard slit, then tie the two together in a tight, double knot. Repeat the process for the top. Cut the fringes. Flip the loom over so that you can see the back. Hold the fringes down with one hand as you cut across them. How short you make them is up to you. Remember to trim the fringe that you tied to the weaving strips as well. Remove the rug from the loom. Your rug is now ready to use! Cut your fabric into 1-inch (2.54-centimeter) strips. Regular cotton fabric from a bed sheet will work the best. It would be even better if you use a duvet cover, however; this way you can cut the fabric in one, continuous strip. If you are using old t-shirts, cut the fabric in one continuous strip, starting from the bottom hem. Join the fabric strips together. Cut a vertical slit into the end of one strip, and the beginning of another. Slide the end of the first strip through the slit on the second strip. Push the opposite end of the second strip through the slit on the first strip. Pull on the second strip to tighten the knot. Do this for all of your strips until you have one, continuous strip. Roll your strip into a ball to prevent it from tangling. If you cut the fabric in one continuous strip, you don't have to do this. Create a magic circle with 6 single crochets inside of it. If you don't know to how to do a magic circle, do 2 chain stitches, then 6 single crochets into the second chain. Join the first and last single crochets with a slip stitch. Use the large, chunky crochet hooks meant for t-shirt yarn. For this method, the last slip stitch does not count as a stitch. Do a single crochet increase in each stitch. Begin round 2 with a chain stitch. Next, do 2 single crochets in each stitch. Join the first and last stitches together with a slip stitch. Do a single crochet increase in every other stitch. Begin round 3 with a chain stitch. Do 2 single crochets in the first stitch, and 1 single crochet in the next. Repeat this pattern for the rest of the round. Join with a slip stitch. Continue making rounds with increasing stitches until you get your rug size. Always begin your rounds with a chain stitch. Follow up with 2 single crochets in the first stitch. Next, increase the number of single crochets with each round. Close each round with a slip stitch. For example: Round 4: Ch 1, 2 sc in first stitch, 1 sc for next 2 stitches, repeat for round, then join with sl st. Round 5: Ch 1, 2 sc in first stitch, 1 sc for next 3 stitches, repeat for round, then join with sl st. Round 6: Ch 1, 2 sc in first stitch, 1 sc for next 4 stitches, repeat for round, then join with sl st. Finish your rug with a single crochet in every stitch. Begin with a chain stitch. Do 1 single crochet into every stitch. Join the first and last single crochets with a slip stitch. Do a final chain stitch, then tie the end off. Cut off any excess fabric yarn. Weave the tail ends of the fabric into the rug. It would be easiest to do this with a smaller crochet hook. Weave in the tail on the outer edge of the rug first, then do the center. | Get a non-slip, rubber rug mat. Cut the mat down to the desired size. Cut your fabric into thin strips. Pull a fabric strip through two of the holes in the mat. Tie the two ends of the strip together, if desired. Repeat the process for the rest of the holes and strips until the rug is filled. Choose fabric to use as your base and as your scraps. Draw parallel guidelines on your base fabric, then set it aside. Cut your scrap fabric into small, skinny rectangles. Lay down the first few fabric scraps across the first parallel line. Sew the scraps down using your sewing machine. Add a few more scraps and continue sewing. Fold the scraps to the side to reveal the next parallel line. Sew down the next row of scraps using the same method as before. Finish the rug. Cut your fabric into strips. Knot three strips together at the top. Braid the strips together tightly. Join two strips together, as needed. Continue braiding until you get the size you want, then secure the end with a pin. Fold the end of the braid onto itself and stitch it down. Sew the rug into a spiral. Finish the rug by tucking and sewing the end down. Cut a piece of cardboard into a rectangle to use as a base. Cut evenly-spaced slits into the narrow edges of the cardboard. Cut your fabric into strips. Insert both ends of your strips into each slit on the loom. Wrap a piece of tape around a new strip, and begin to weave it. Weave your way back to the left side. Continue weaving back and forth, joining strips as needed. Tie the ends of the weaving strips to the fringe when you are done. Cut the fringes. Remove the rug from the loom. Cut your fabric into 1-inch (2.54-centimeter) strips. Join the fabric strips together. Create a magic circle with 6 single crochets inside of it. Do a single crochet increase in each stitch. Do a single crochet increase in every other stitch. Continue making rounds with increasing stitches until you get your rug size. Finish your rug with a single crochet in every stitch. Weave the tail ends of the fabric into the rug. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Draft-a-Purchase-and-Sale-Agreement | How to Draft a Purchase and Sale Agreement | To draft a purchase and sale agreement, start by identifying the purchaser and seller by name and include a description of the property being sold. Also, be sure to explain what closing costs, such as loans or fees, will be paid by the buyer and which will be paid by the seller. In the body of the document, lay the terms of the sale agreement, including any circumstances that would make the agreement void. To end the document, state a deadline for the buyer to accept and close the sale. Then, have your document looked at by a qualified real estate attorney to look for any errors or missing elements. | Format the document. You should type up the purchase and sale agreement so that it is legible. You don't want the other side to claim that you hid information using small fonts, so set the font to a readable size and style. Times New Roman 12 point works for many people. If you are going to use your sale and purchase agreement more than once, then set it up as a template. Include blank lines for information that will change from contract to contract, such as the name of the purchaser and the purchase price. Insert a title. At the top of the page, you should center the title between the left- and right-hand margins. Title your document something like “Purchase and Sale Agreement” or “Agreement to Purchase Real Estate.” Identify the parties to the sale. You need to identify the purchaser and the seller at the start of your agreement. You could include blank lines for their names or insert a brief paragraph like the following: “[Insert the name of purchaser] ('Purchaser'), offers and agrees to purchase from [insert the name of seller] ('Seller'), upon the terms and conditions set forth herein, the property legally described as [insert legal description].” Add the legal description of property. You need to accurately describe the property in your agreement, so find the legal description of property, which is on the deed. You can get a copy of the deed at your county's Recorder of Deeds office. See Get a Legal Description of Property for more information. State the purchase price. You can write: “The purchase price shall be [insert price]. After earnest money is credited, the remaining balance shall be paid by Purchaser at closing.” Identify any earnest money deposited. Earnest money is a form of security deposit. It is how you show the seller that you are serious about buying the property. Without depositing earnest money, a potential buyer could claim to be interested in any number of homes, effectively removing them from the market. You should include a clause describing the amount of earnest money to be deposited and the deadline for depositing it. Sample language could read: “Earnest money in the amount of [insert amount] shall be paid to the Escrow Agent, [insert the name of agent and the address], in the form of check or money order. Purchaser shall deliver payment to Escrow Agent no later than 5:30 pm, five (5) calendar days after Seller's acceptance of this agreement.” You should also clarify that the earnest money will be credited to the purchase price. Describe the financing. You need to identify the purchaser's source of financing and ask for proof that they qualify for the financing. Generally, sufficient proof will be a letter from the purchaser's bank or lender. For example, if the buyer is using cash, then include the following: “This is a cash offer. The balance of the purchase price will be paid at closing by certified check.” You can also ask that the purchaser include a verification letter stating that funds are available. If the purchaser is getting a loan, then identify the loan type (e.g., VA, FHA, conventional, etc.) Also ask for a letter about the loan status and give a deadline for receiving the letter. List items included in the sale. A home may come with personal property inside or “fixtures.” Fixtures are improvements made on the property that cannot be removed, such as bookshelves installed in the wall or a fireplace. You should identify any fixtures or items that will be sold with the property, such as: wall-to-wall carpeting attached light fixtures and bulbs attached mirrors heating and cooling equipment plumbing fixtures ceiling fans doors windows, screens, and storm windows built-in kitchen appliances security systems window treatments awnings fencing Identify items not included in the sale. If there is anything the seller is taking with them, then be sure to list it in the purchase and sale agreement. For example, you might want to take your kitchen appliances with you. If so, be sure to list them. Also identify any leased items in the house. The purchaser needs to know that you don't own them. State whether the sale is conditioned on the buyer selling their home. This is an important provision. It is often unrealistic to expect someone to purchase a home if they can't sell their current home. By including this provision, the purchaser can get out of the purchase if they can't sell their home. Alternately, the offer might not be contingent on the buyer selling their home. Either way, explain the situation: “This offer is contingent upon the sale and close of Purchaser's property located at [insert location] within [insert number] days.” “This offer is not contingent upon the sale or close of property owned by Purchaser.” State what closing costs the seller must pay. Generally, the seller needs to pay any existing loans or liens. Also, the seller pays real estate commissions, title insurance policy with the buyer to receive benefit, and the balance on any leased items that remain on the property. The seller shall also transfer any existing rental or lease deposits to the purchaser at closing. Explain what closing costs the buyer must pay. The buyer can pay the deed and deed of trust recording fees, association transfer fees, transfer taxes, insurance (hazard and other), purchaser's settlement fees, and its own loan expenses. Explain who pays the taxes. The house might sell in the middle of the tax year. Accordingly, you might want to prorate the taxes. You should explain whether taxes will be prorated and what the proration will be based on. For example, you can base the proration on the previous year's taxes, an agreed upon amount, or the most current county information. Warn the buyer to get an Inspection. An inspection is a standard part of any home purchase. You should include a clause where the purchaser acknowledges that he or she has been advised to have the home inspected. Sample language could read: “Purchaser acknowledges that it has been recommended that Purchaser hire, at Purchaser's own expense, the services of a professional inspector to inspect the property.” You can then include a space for the purchaser to initial. State whether the sale is contingent on an inspection. Sometimes the purchaser will want the added protection of getting an inspection before finalizing the agreement. If so, you should state that the sale is contingent on the property inspection. You could write, “This offer is contingent upon Purchaser, at Purchaser's expense, obtaining a property inspection and reports. The inspection may include the structural, mechanical, pest, and physical conditions relating to the property. Written notice shall be provided to Seller or Seller's agent within five business days of acceptance of this agreement.” The purchaser may also waive the inspection. If so, include a line for the purchaser to initial their agreement to waive inspection. Identify options if the inspection is unsatisfactory. You might get back a bad inspection report. In this situation, the purchaser might not to want to go through with the sale as is. Accordingly, you should explain options that each side can take: The purchaser could accept the condition. The seller could correct the condition and provide an inspector's certification that the condition has been corrected. The purchaser and seller will negotiate a settlement. The seller does nothing and the agreement becomes null and void within a certain number of days after the seller receives the inspection reports. Recommend that the purchaser get a survey. You can include a provision where the buyer acknowledges that he or she has been advised to have a survey performed. If the purchaser decides to waive a survey, then you can include that information. Ask the purchaser to place their initials beside any waiver. List the seller's representations. A “representation” is a statement of fact which the seller warrants is true at the time of contracting. If the fact turns out to be false, then the buyer can usually cancel the contract or sue. You should list the seller's representations. The following are typical representations: there are no violations of zoning, fire, or building codes the building is not in a floodplain or a Special Flood Hazard Area there are no boundary line disputes there are no violations of setback lines, easements, or property boundary lines Describe the deed conveyed. Generally, the seller will transfer a general warranty deed to the purchaser. With a warranty deed, the seller is basically promising that they are the rightful owner of the property and that they have the right to transfer title. They also warrant that no one has a better claim to title. If these promises are false, then the buyer can sue for compensation. Sample language could read: “Seller will convey to Purchaser good and marketable title by a valid general warranty deed.” Describe how “risk of loss” passes. The building might burn down between the date you sign a contract and the date you actually close. Who bears the risk? With a risk of loss provision, you can explain who bears the risk of an accident. A sample clause could read: “Seller is responsible for any loss or damage to the property before closing.” Include a dispute resolution clause. If there is a dispute between the two parties, then they may end up in court. However, you can also choose ahead of time to resolve your dispute using mediation. You should include an agreement to mediate in the purchase and sale agreement. Sample language could read: “Any dispute arising out of, or relating to, this agreement will be submitted to a private mediation service. Any cost of mediation will be shared equally between Seller and Purchaser.” Identify the time for acceptance and closing. The offer to sell doesn't last indefinitely. Instead, there is usually a deadline for acceptance. There is also a deadline for closing. You should include these dates in your purchase and sale agreement. For example, you could write: “This offer is void if not accepted by Seller in writing on or before [insert time and date]. Closing of the sale shall take place [insert number of days] after Purchaser's receipt of an abstract showing marketable title in Seller or title insurance binder showing insurable title in Seller. This offer is made at [location] this [insert date].” Insert a signature line for the purchaser beneath this statement. Add the acceptance by seller. You also need a provision where the seller explicitly states that it agrees to the contract. If the seller needs to pay a brokerage fee, then include that information here. Sample language could read: “The foregoing offer to purchase real estate is hereby accepted in accordance with the terms and conditions specified above. The undersigned hereby agrees to pay a brokerage fee of [insert fee amount] to [insert name of the broker] in accordance with the existing listing contract.” Then insert the date and a line for the seller's signature. Show your draft agreement to an attorney. This article describes a basic purchase and sale agreement. Your needs may vary. To understand if anything is missing, you should show your draft to a qualified real estate attorney. You can find a real estate attorney by contacting your local or state bar association and getting a referral. Once you have the name of someone, call and schedule a meeting. Ask ahead of time how much the attorney charges. | Format the document. Insert a title. Identify the parties to the sale. Add the legal description of property. State the purchase price. Identify any earnest money deposited. Describe the financing. List items included in the sale. Identify items not included in the sale. State whether the sale is conditioned on the buyer selling their home. State what closing costs the seller must pay. Explain what closing costs the buyer must pay. Explain who pays the taxes. Warn the buyer to get an Inspection. State whether the sale is contingent on an inspection. Identify options if the inspection is unsatisfactory. Recommend that the purchaser get a survey. List the seller's representations. Describe the deed conveyed. Describe how “risk of loss” passes. Include a dispute resolution clause. Identify the time for acceptance and closing. Add the acceptance by seller. Show your draft agreement to an attorney. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Changes-to-a-Western-Union-Money-Transfer | How to Make Changes to a Western Union Money Transfer | To make changes to your Western Union money transfer, try using the “Contact Us” section on Western Union's website. Select the “Chat with us” option, then provide your personal information to the customer care agent. Once your identity has been verified, you can ask them about making changes to your transfer. Alternatively, you can make changes by phone. Click the “Call us” option on Western Union's website to get the correct phone number. After you call, verify your personal identity with the agent. Then, you can request changes to your money transfer. Remember to call from the same number you used to set up the transfer, otherwise Western Union won't be able to process your request by phone. | Open the Western Union website. This site will provide you with the most up to date information concerning your money transfer. You will want to go here to chat with a Customer Care representative. They will have the authority to make the changes you need or provide alternative instructions where necessary. Click "Contact Us" at the very bottom of the webpage. Most web pages have a series of links at the bottom of the page such as "About us" or "Careers". Within this series of links (almost like fine print) you will find a "Contact us" link. This link will provide you with the most up to date methods of contacting Western Union. If you are using a cell phone or tablet the webpage may be different. If you cannot find a "Contact us" link, try viewing the full version of the website on a desktop. You may see a link at the bottom reading "View full site". Click "Chat with us" in the middle of the page. This will open up another window in which a text chat will begin. A Customer Care representative will be with you after you provide the required information. They will want to help you as quickly as possible. Be ready to give them any pertinent information. Sometimes the chat will open but not show up. Try viewing other tabs or open windows to find the chat window if it does not show up immediately. Chat is only available during certain times of the day. You may need to try again at a different time of the day if you find the "Chat with us" link is unavailable or inoperative. Enter the requested information into the form. This is usually your name and email address. You may also need to tell them why you are contacting them. This will help get you to the right Customer Care agent. Agents are trained with different specialities. Make sure you choose the right reason for your chat. If for whatever reason you make an incorrect decision here, you may be able to correct it during the chat. Even if you choose the wrong reason, the chat agent will tell you which choice is appropriate for your visit. They may even transfer you if you ask. Provide any verification information to the Customer Care representative. Most likely they will want to know your full name, email address, telephone number, recipient's name, and the Money Transfer Control Number (MTCN). Most of this will already be on your receipt or copy of the transfer form. Request changes to the money transfer as needed. After authenticating your identity, you may ask them to change your money transfer request. Certain elements may not be changed depending on their security protocols. You may need to ask for a refund and create a new money transfer. Contact the recipient of the money transfer. Let them know changes are being made. These changes may tie up the money transfer for a short time while systems are updated. Open the Western Union website. This site will provide you with the most up to date information concerning your money transfer. You will want to go here to chat with a Customer Care representative. They will have the authority to make the changes you need or provide alternative instructions where necessary. Click "Contact Us" at the very bottom of the webpage. Most web pages have a series of links at the bottom of the page such as "About us" or "Careers". Within this series of links (almost like fine print) you will find a "Contact us" link. This link will provide you with the most up to date methods of contacting Western Union. If you are using a cell phone or tablet the webpage may be different. If you cannot find a "Contact us" link, try viewing the full version of the website on a desktop. You may see a link at the bottom reading "View full site". Click "Call us" on the right side of the page. This will provide you with the most appropriate phone number to call. When you call, you will be able to speak with a Customer Care agent in your area. There may be a queue and you may need to wait for an available representative. Be sure to have everything you used to process your money transfer and the receipt. This will speed up processing the request. If the phone number looks odd, it may not be appropriate for your country. You may need to check that the Western Union website is the website the company uses for your country by inspecting the internet address (e.g., in the UK, ".com" is replaced by ".co.uk"). Call the number listed from the phone number you used on the money transfer. You must call from the same phone number used to register the transfer. This is a security feature. If you do not remember the number, refer back to your receipt. If you no longer have access to that number, you will not be able to update your money transfer over the phone. You will have to do so in person. Provide any verification information to the Customer Care representative. Most likely they will want to know your full name, email address, telephone number, recipient's name, and the Money Transfer Control Number (MTCN). Most of this will already be on your receipt or copy of the transfer form. Request changes to the money transfer as needed. After authenticating your identity, you may ask them to change your money transfer request. Certain elements may not be changed depending on their security protocols. You may need to ask for a refund and create a new money transfer. If they are not accepting money transfer requests over the phone, you may need to go online or to a local agency to complete the request. Contact the recipient of the money transfer. Let them know changes are being made. These changes may tie up the money transfer for a short time while systems are updated. Go back to the Western Union agency the transfer originated from. If you do not remember where this was, look at your receipt. There should be an address on the receipt for reference. With this you can find the agency the transfer originated from. If the agency is closed, you will need to come back another time. You may consider calling Western Union by phone or via internet chat instead. If you have all of your documentation, you may be able to go to a different location to process your changes. At the top of the Western Union webpage is a link to "Find Location". Use this link to find out if an alternate location is available to your. Bring your receipt and identification with you. You want to bring everything you need to verify your identity. This will include basically everything you used when you first setup the money transfer. You will also need your receipt and any carbon copy forms. These will include all information pertinent to the request. Wait in line to meet a Customer Care representative. There is no "quick" line for money transfer changes. In fact, money transfer changes can be more involved than an initial money transfer order. This means that you will need to account for the time waiting in line when you decide when you will want to update your money transfer. Show your receipt and all verification information to the representative. When a Customer Care representative is ready to assist you be sure to have all documentation ready. If you left it in the car--or worse, on the bus--you will need to retrieve your documentation and come back. You may even be moved to the back of the line. Have all documentation ready including your identification, telephone number, and receipt ready to hand to the representative. Request changes to the money transfer as needed. After authenticating your identity, you may ask them to change your money transfer request. Certain elements may not be changed depending on their security protocols. You may need to ask for a refund and create a new money transfer. Contact the recipient of the money transfer. Let them know changes are being made. These changes may tie up the money transfer for a short time while systems are updated. | Open the Western Union website. Click "Contact Us" at the very bottom of the webpage. Click "Chat with us" in the middle of the page. Enter the requested information into the form. Provide any verification information to the Customer Care representative. Request changes to the money transfer as needed. Open the Western Union website. Click "Contact Us" at the very bottom of the webpage. Click "Call us" on the right side of the page. Call the number listed from the phone number you used on the money transfer. Provide any verification information to the Customer Care representative. Request changes to the money transfer as needed. Go back to the Western Union agency the transfer originated from. Bring your receipt and identification with you. Wait in line to meet a Customer Care representative. Show your receipt and all verification information to the representative. Request changes to the money transfer as needed. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Compliment-People | How to Compliment People | If you want to compliment someone, think of something that you genuinely like about that person. Be as specific as possible and try to look the person in the eye when you compliment them so they'll know you're being sincere. Your compliment could be something about their character, or it could be more casual, like what they're wearing or the way they've styled their hair. For instance, you might say, “Your new sweater is so cute! I love that color on you.” or “You're always really kind, and that means a lot to me.” | Be genuine. When you say compliments that you don't mean, people can almost always tell. If you really mean the thing you say, they'll be much more likely to believe you and feel good about what you say. Try to look someone in the eye when you compliment them. This helps show that you mean what you're saying. Being specific in your compliment will also make that compliment sound more genuine. For example, saying "That sweater looks nice on you" isn't nearly as nice sounding as "Your eyes just sparkle when you wear that color". Be respectful. Make sure what you're saying to someone isn't offensive, even if you "mean it to be a compliment". If your compliment is based on their race or their physical appearance, you're venturing into dangerous territory. If your compliment comes with a qualifier (ex. "You look nice for a..."), you probably should just keep it to yourself. For example, telling a woman that she looks so pretty when she wears makeup (which implies that she isn't pretty normally). Another example would be racist compliments, such as saying that a guy is "smart for a black dude". Time compliments carefully. There are some compliments which are inappropriate in certain situations. Make sure you look at the context of what's going on before you compliment someone. For example, complimenting a female coworker on her appearance after she's just given a presentation is demeaning and belittles the hard work she just put in. If you're complimenting someone on doing something very well, such as preparing a meal or giving a great presentation, you should try to do it at the time, in front of everyone else. Having witnesses validates the compliment and gives the receiver a feeling of respect. Don't make it about you. Don't turn a compliment towards someone into a conversation about you. This makes you seem self-centered, and like you only complimented them to fish compliments for yourself or make the conversation about you. For example, don't say something like "You did such a good job with that thing last week. I couldn't have done that. I'm rubbish at it." Let it come in the moment. The best way to ensure that you sound genuine is to compliment someone when the positive thought comes to you. Basically: speak your mind! If you want to say something nice to someone, just do it instead of planning it out. Focus on things they control. When you're complimenting someone, it's best to focus on complimenting things that are under their control (such as their personality, their accomplishments, etc.). This will help them to feel secure in that positive feedback, rather than creating worry that they might lose the thing that other people find valuable. For example: "I love how you interact with little kids. You're so patient!" or "You did a great job on that poster! I just can't stop looking at it!" Focus the compliment on them. You want to actually compliment them, not some inanimate object. For example,"You look fabulous in that sweater!" is better than, "I like how that sweater looks on you." Look for things that they value. If you're trying to come up with something to compliment someone on, try to look at the things that you know they value. Look back on your interactions with them and think about things they talked about, or just pay more attention to this in the future. For example, if you notice your girlfriend looking sadly at another girl's clothes and saying that she wished she could dress like that, tell her how much you love how she dresses and that you didn't even notice the other girl. Look for things that they struggle with. Another indicator you can look at is what someone struggles with. If they're trying to lose weight, praise their hard work and determination (but not the loss of weight itself). If they put a ton of effort into a report, praise them for the quality. Compliment a stranger. Avoid overly familiar compliments, like compliments about their sexual characteristics. Compliment things they obviously take pride in, such as a very nice coat, a well-kept car, or a hand-made accessory. Compliment their actions or something you witness, such as after you see them be very nice to a cashier. This removes most of the creep factor. Example: "Thank you for being so kind with that man. It's hard to be patient in that situation. I'm really impressed with how you handled it." Compliment a romantic interest. Don't compliment expecting anything in return. Just because you're nice to someone doesn't mean they owe you anything. They don't even owe it to you to be flattered by the compliment. Compliment them with your actions. In romance, doing something nice for someone can often be more effective than saying something nice to someone. Sometimes, just telling them how attractive you find them is enough. Especially if they're already dating you. Example: "I love it when you smile. It just lights up the whole room." Compliment a coworker. Keep it appropriate. Awkward work compliments can bring on all sorts of trouble. Use the grandma test: if you wouldn't say it to your grandmother, don't say it to your coworker. Shoot for compliments on their work. This can also help avoid awkwardness. Compliment them to or in front of your boss. This shows not only how much you mean it but that you think they are worthy of even higher commendation. Example: "Hey, Mr. Banks, did you see how Sally handled that last customer? You would have been so proud. Some of the best customer service I've ever seen." | Be genuine. Be respectful. Time compliments carefully. Don't make it about you. Let it come in the moment. Focus on things they control. Focus the compliment on them. Look for things that they value. Look for things that they struggle with. Compliment a stranger. Compliment a romantic interest. Compliment a coworker. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Do-a-Backward-Roll | How to Do a Backward Roll | With a little bit of practice, you can learn how to do a backward roll. Start in a squat position. Hold your hands close to your body with your palms facing up toward the ceiling at shoulder height. Next, tuck your chin into your chest and roll back on your heels. As you roll backward, keep your knees tucked into your chest. Shift your weight from your lower back to your upper back and hands. Then, straighten your arms to help lift up your hips. This will roll your body over your head, helping you land on your feet. | Try rocking back. Start in a squat position. Hold your hands close to the body with the palms flat towards the ceiling. They should be shoulder height. Drop your butt down like you are sitting. Roll back while lifting your legs straight. That should put the pressure on your hands and your shoulders. Roll forward again. As you get used to the exercise, start pushing with your hands to lift yourself off the floor a little bit. You are working yourself up to being able to push yourself over without hurting your neck. Try putting the mats in a V. One way you can learn to master the backward roll is to set up your mat in a V shape. This helps you to protect your neck and learn how to roll in a straight line. To do a backward roll, you need enough abdominal strength to lift your legs and hips over your head. You also need enough arm strength to push your body over and protect your neck. Use a wedge. One way to learn the basic movement of a backward roll is to use a wedge. Sit on the higher end of a wedge. Hold your hands close to your body. Face the palms flat towards the ceiling. Tuck the chin. Roll backwards down the wedge. Reach for the mat while keeping your hands close to your shoulders. Kick your toes over your head to roll yourself. Land on your feet. Use a spotter. If you are still unable to complete the roll, ask someone to spot you. The spotter stands to your side. As you roll back into your backward roll, the spotter will grab your hips. They lift your hips as they help guide your body over while keeping the pressure off your neck. Spotters help you learn correct hand placement. They also can help you build enough arm strength to push yourself off the ground. Start in a squat position. Start with your knees together and your back straight. Your thighs should be parallel to the floor. Hold your hands out in front of you if you need help balancing. As you begin master the backward roll, start trying to begin in a standing position. Hold your palms facing the ceiling. Bend your arms close to your body. Place your palms facing towards the ceiling just above your shoulders. Tuck your chin to your chest like you are looking at your bellybutton. This is called having "pizza hands." Your hands are flat like you are carrying two pizzas in them. Drop your butt. From the squat position, drop your butt down by bending your legs. Push back with your heels. You'll start to roll onto your back. Another way to think about dropping down is to treat it like you are sitting down. Make sure that your back is rounded as you fall back onto it. Keep your legs together. Don't let them separate. Push with your hands and shoulders. As you roll backwards, keep your knees tucked to your chest. Roll quickly enough so that you get some momentum. Your weight needs to shift from your lower back to your upper back then to your hands. As the knees and legs start to go over your head, push with your arms and shoulders. Drive the backward roll by moving your toes over your head, not by throwing your neck and head backwards. You should engage your hands and arms when your body rolls towards your neck. You always want to protect the neck and head. If you've kept your hands in the flat position, they should easily make contact with the floor so you can push yourself over. Your hands will be flat against the floor while your elbows will be pointing towards the ceiling. Straighten your arms. As you straighten your arms, your hips will start to lift up. This will roll your body over your head. Land on your feet. If you land on your knees, try tucking yourself into a tighter ball. | Try rocking back. Try putting the mats in a V. Use a wedge. Use a spotter. Start in a squat position. Hold your palms facing the ceiling. Drop your butt. Push with your hands and shoulders. Straighten your arms. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Clean-Wallpaper | How to Clean Wallpaper | If you need to clean vinyl of vinyl-coated wallpaper, mix about 2 tbsp of mild, clear dish soap into a bucket of warm water. Dip a soft cloth or sponge into the soapy water, wring out excess water, and gently wipe the surface of the wallpaper in a circular motion from top to bottom. After you clean one section, wipe down that same section with a new cloth dipped in plain water. If your wallpaper is plain paper, dust it regularly with a dry sponge and spot-clean it when necessary, but avoid getting it wet. | Determine your wallpaper type. Figure out what kind of wallpaper you have on your walls. Vinyl wallpaper is not difficult to clean. Coated fabric wallpaper is sometimes covered with an acrylic or vinyl covering that is easily washable. Plain paper wallpaper should not get wet. If possible, you should spot-clean it. You can scrub vinyl wallpaper, but you need to make sure that you don't clean with anything abrasive. You wouldn't want to use a rough sponge, for example. Clean walls that don't have protective coating with a dry sponge. A dry sponge, which contains no moisture, gently gets rid of the dirt on your wallpaper. Clean the wallpaper. Mix a small amount of dish soap, about two table spoons worth, with warm water in a bucket. Use clear soap to avoid staining the wallpaper with colored detergent. Dip a soft cloth or sponge in the cleaning solution. Wring out the excess cleaner into the bucket. Test the cleaning solution by dabbing a bit of it on an inconspicuous area. If it doesn't damage the wallpaper, start the cleaning process. Wipe the surface from the top to the bottom. Clean in the direction of the vertical seams. Clean one section at a time in a circular motion. Don't overuse soap. Using a large amount of soap will make dirt stick to walls. You may not want to use scrubbing pads because they are usually too harsh for wallpaper Testing the cleaning solution in a small, hidden area prevents you from damaging the entire wall in case the cleaner turns out to be destructive. The surface near the baseboards is rarely noticeable to others, and is a good spot to test. Rinse and dry the wallpaper. This is where the second bucket comes in. Using the water from that bucket and a new cloth, rinse each section with clean water. Don't use too much water; you don't want to end up with damp walls. With a terry-cloth towel, dry the surface immediately after to prevent the wallpaper from soaking up too much moisture and tearing. Use a vacuum cleaner. The most efficient method for removing dust from your walls is vacuuming. Attach a wall brush extension to your vacuum before you start. Depending on the length of your extension, you may want to use a ladder to reach the higher spots of your wall. This extension will keep you from scratching your walls. Begin at the top of the wall and do a few sections at a time. Gently brush until you have completed the entire wall. As long as you don't rub your vacuum on the wallpaper, you can generally use the vacuum on fabric wallpaper. Dust with a broom. Find a cloth, preferably a micro fiber dusting cloth, and put it over a broom. Swipe the broom over the wall from left to right. This method will help you reach the dusty corners of your walls. Move the broom, clearing dust as you go, from the top of the wall to the bottom. You want to make sure that you leave no surface untouched. If dust builds up on the floor, sweep it up. Dust with a cloth. Wipe the walls directly with it. If your walls are high, you may want to get a step ladder in order to reach the corners. Start at the top and clear off the dust that you see. As you move down, make sure that your cloth has not become too dirty. A dirty cloth will smudge your walls. Remove crayon marks. Use a putty knife and scrape away the excess crayon. Any loose bits that stick out should be ripped away. Once the surface is cleared, place paper towels over the stain. Now, press an iron set to its lowest heat on top of the stain. Wait for a minute, until the residual crayon seeps into the towels. Remove the towels and the stain should come off. If you have washable wallpaper, then you should spray a washcloth with the solution you used to clean the walls. Then, gently wipe the stains until they disappear. Remove finger prints. Find an art gum eraser. With this eraser, gently rub at the wall. The eraser should absorb the oil and dirt left by fingerprints. If you have vinyl wallpaper, you can use soap and water to wash these prints away. Create a dish soap and water solution in a bowl. Put a cloth into the bowl to wet it. Then, use the cloth to wash the prints off the wall. You can use a piece of bread to clear the wall. Take a piece of bread and leave it on the prints for a minute. Then, remove the bread from the wall. The gluten in the bread should remove the stains from the wallpaper. Remove grease spots. First, place paper towels over stains. Run a iron on a low heat setting over the paper towels. The grease should seep into the paper towels. Remove the towels to dislodge the stains. Talcum powder can also work. Pour talcum powder on a washcloth. Apply talcum powder onto the wall with the cloth. Let the powder sit for 10 minutes. Remove the powder from the wall with a dry sponge or brush. Remove red wine stains. Wet a rag with dish soap and peroxide. Using the rag, apply this combination to the wall. The combination should stick to stain. Leave it there for five minutes. Use a damp towel to wipe off the stain, then dry the area with a paper towel. If this does not work, then you can attempt to get rid of the stain with sodium percarbonate cleaner that will whiten the spot. Dip a rag into this cleaner and then put it on the stain for four to six minutes. Then remove the rag, the stain should be gone. With a wet clean cloth or towel, clear the spot. Dry the spot afterwards by patting at it with a dry cloth. | Determine your wallpaper type. Clean the wallpaper. Rinse and dry the wallpaper. Use a vacuum cleaner. Dust with a broom. Dust with a cloth. Remove crayon marks. Remove finger prints. Remove grease spots. Remove red wine stains. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Cure-a-Viral-Infection-with-Home-Remedies | How to Cure a Viral Infection with Home Remedies | To cure a viral infection with home remedies, try eating foods that are known to help fight infection. For example, foods high in Vitamin C, like berries, watermelon, and oranges, can fight infections and lower fevers. Foods high in zinc can also help to fight colds, like beef, chicken, yogurt, and beans. Try drinking an herbal tea, like chamomile, licorice leaf, or echinacea. In addition to eating a healthy diet, make sure you get plenty of rest and drink lots of water to give your body the energy it needs to recover. Another way to treat your infection is to inhale steam, which can help soothe your sinuses. Just fill a bowl with boiling water, drape a towel over your head, and lean over the bowl. You can also add a few drops of an essential oil to the water to make it more effective. | Let the fever do its work. It is not well appreciated by most, but fevers are one of the body's main defenses against infections. Let a fever run as long as possible without too much discomfort. Fever is most often a symptom of an infection but can also be caused by inflammatory conditions, thyroid disease, cancer, vaccines and some drugs. Temperature is regulated by a small gland located in the center of the brain, the hypothalamus. The thyroid gland also plays a role in body temperature. Body temperature can vary throughout the day, but a normal temperature is considered 98.6 degrees F or 37 degrees C. During an infection, the infecting agent (bacteria, virus) produce temperature-increasing substances called pyrogens. Some pyrogens are also induced by the immune system. These pyrogens tell the hypothalamus to increase body temperature. This in turn, stimulates the immune system to be more effective at fighting off an infection. Higher body temperature is believed to kill off infectious agents as well. , For adults, most fevers are not dangerous and you can let the fever “run its course”. If the fever is sustained at over 103 degrees F (39.4 degrees C) or higher for more than 12 to 24 hours, consider calling a physician. Be cautious about higher fevers. While you can allow a fever to run its course, there are limits to how high you should let a fever go: For infants younger than four months old with a rectal temperature of 100.4 degrees F (38 degrees C) or higher, immediately call your physician for advice. For children of any age, if their rectal temperature is 104 degrees F (40 degrees C) or higher, immediately call your physician for advice. Any child six months or older with a fever of 103 degrees F (39.4 degrees C) by measuring on the forehead, ear or armpit, should also be seen. Seek immediate medical care if fever is experienced with severe symptoms. It is recommended that if your child has any fever along with any of the following symptoms, call your doctor (or emergency services) as soon as possible: Looks sick or has no appetite Is very fussy Is drowsy Has obvious signs of infection (pus, discharge, streaky rashes) Has a seizure Has a sore throat, a rash, a headache, a stiff neck, an earache In very young infants, if the soft area on the top of baby's skull is bulging Take a lukewarm bath. Start off by drawing a lukewarm bath. Have the person with a fever get in and relax while the temperature of the water slowly drops. Because the temperature of the water drops slowly, the person cools down slowly as well. You don't want the water too cool because you don't want to drop the body temperature too fast. Wear wet socks. This treatment is a traditional naturopathic approach. The theory is that cold feet stimulate an increase in circulation and an increased response from the immune system. The result is that the body expends heat and ends up drying the socks and cooling the body. This treatment can relieve chest congestion as well. The wool socks, by the way, serve as insulation. This method works best overnight. Use a pair of cotton socks long enough to cover the ankles. They should be pure cotton because cotton absorbs a lot of water. Thoroughly wet the socks in cold running tap water. Wring out all excess water and put the socks on. Cover these cotton socks with wool socks. The wool socks should be pure wool because this supplies excellent insulation. The person wearing the socks should be covered with a blanket and rest in bed for the rest of the night. Most kids will be pretty cooperative because they should begin to feel cooler within a few short minutes. Cool the head, neck, ankles and the wrists. Take one or two hand towels and fold along the longer axis. Soak the towels in either very cold water, or, if desired, ice water. Wring out the excess water and wrap the towel around your head, around your neck, around your ankles or around your wrists. Don't use the towels over more than two areas. That is, use the towel around your head and your ankles OR around your neck and your wrists. Otherwise, you may cool down TOO much. The cool or cold towels draw heat out of the body and can lower the body temperature. Repeat when the towel is dry or not cool enough anymore to give relief. This can be repeated as often as needed. Get plenty of rest. While it is not always easy, getting rest and staying restful is important in getting over a viral infection. Your body's immune system is trying to do the necessary work. It can't do this successfully if you are using energy for work, school or taking care of someone else. So, stay home from work, keep children home from school and keep your activity level low and as easy as you can. Feed your body with light foods. You probably have heard the phrase “Feed a cold, starve a fever” A recent article in Scientific American agrees -- except you don't really want to go so far as to “starve” the fever-- you just don't want to waste the body's energy with digestion when that energy should be used to control the infection. Try chicken broth or chicken soup with just some rice and some vegetables. , Focus on fresh fruit rich in vitamin C. Eat plenty of fresh fruit such as berries, watermelon, oranges and cantaloupe. These fruit are also rich in vitamin C, which can help fight infections and lower fevers. Eat yogurt. Try either plain or flavored yogurt that contains “active cultures” of bacteria. These intestinal bacteria have been shown to be essential for a functional immune system. Include protein in your meal. Make sure you include a good and easily digested source of protein such as scrambled eggs or chicken. For example, you can add a few pieces of meat to your chicken broth. Avoid heavy and fried foods. Avoid foods that are heavy, fatty or oily like barbecued or fried foods. Avoid spicy foods like chicken wings, pepperoni, or sausages too. These are too hard on your system when you're ill. Try the BRAT diet. The BRAT diet is often recommended, especially after a stomach virus. This consists of gentle and easy-to-digest foods, including: B ananas R ice A pplesauce T oast (whole grain). Eat foods rich in zinc. Zinc has been shown to reduce the length of time one has a cold. Food sources of zinc include seafood (oysters, king crab, lobster), beef, chicken (dark meat), yogurt, beans and nuts (cashews, almonds). Drink plenty of water. Fever can lead to dehydration and you want to make sure you avoid this. It will only make you feel worse. Kids (and you) might enjoy frozen popsicles as well, but you do want to avoid too much sugar. Try making popsicles from herbal teas such as chamomile or elderberry. Frozen Italian ices or frozen yogurt or sherbet may be good choices as well. But don't forget plain water! Try an oral rehydration solution such as Pedialyte or CeraLyte. You may want to consider using an oral rehydration solution for young children like CeraLyte, Pedialyte. Call your physician before you do, and ask their advice. Be prepared with a list of symptoms and about how much your child has been eating, drinking and how high their fever has been. Also keep track of how often you have to change diapers or, for an older child, how often they have to urinate. Keep breastfeeding your baby. If your baby is suffering from a viral infection, it's a good idea to continue breastfeeding as much as possible. This provides food, water and comfort to your baby. Monitor for signs of dehydration. Call your physician for advice even if you are just seeing the signs of mild dehydration, especially in babies. These can progress to more serious dehydration pretty quickly. Some symptoms of mild dehydration include: Dry, sticky mouth. In a baby, look for dry lips or crustiness around the lips/eyes. Also look for “lip-smacking” behavior. More sleepiness, fussiness or tiredness than usual. Thirst: This is hard to tell in a small infant, but the “lip smacking” behavior or pursing her lips as if she is feeding may be a clue. Decreased urine output: Check an infant's diapers. They should need to be changed at least every three hours. If the diaper is dry after 3 hours, this may indicate some dehydration. Keep pushing fluids and check after another hour. If the diaper is still dry, call your physician. Check the color of urine. The darker the urine, the more dehydrated the baby or child may be. Constipation: Check for bowel movements as well, especially when you're checking the diaper for urine. Few or no tears when crying Dry skin: Gently pinch the back of the baby's hand, just pinching the loose skin. Well-hydrated babies have skin that bounces right back. Dizziness or lightheadedness Boost your immune system with high doses of vitamin C. Orthomolecular medicine has found that vitamin C is important in stimulating the immune system. In one study, asymptomatic adults came down with the flu. They were given 1000 mg of vitamin C on an hourly basis for six consecutive doses. They then received 1000 mg three times daily as long as they were symptomatic. Their reported flu and cold symptoms were reduced by 85% compared to a placebo. Take 1000 mg of vitamin C every hour for six hours. Then take 1000 mg three times a day until you don't feel your symptoms anymore. Increase your intake of vitamin D3. Vitamin D3 is an important vitamin that stimulates the immune system. If you are not already taking vitamin D3 supplements regularly, there is a high probability that you may be deficient in vitamin D. This could be measured with 25-hydroxyvitamin D blood levels. But when a flu hits, there is no time to do this. For adults: Take 50,000 IU of vitamin D3 on the first day you feel sick. Then take the same amount every day for the next three days. Reduce the vitamin D3 dose slowly over the next few days to 5000 IU daily. In schoolchildren, another study showed that 1200 IU of vitamin D3 reduced the incidence of influenza by 67% compared to a control group that did not take any vitamin D3 supplement. Try coconut oil. Coconut oil has medium chain fatty acids that have antiviral, antibacterial, antifungal and antiparasitic effects without having side effects. The main ingredient in coconut oil is lauric acid, a medium chain saturated fatty acid. It inserts itself into the viral outer membrane and causes a rupture and death of the influenza virus without harming the human host of the virus. Take one to two tablespoons of coconut oil three times per day. Mix it in warm orange juice or take it with a meal. Usually within one to two days, the virus will be eliminated. Symptoms often disappear within one day, when normally it would have taken five to seven days to recover from a flu, Try drinking herbal tea. Plants get viruses too, so it does make some evolutionary sense that plants have developed antiviral substances. You can buy these herbs in teabags. If you have them at hand, add one teaspoon of dried herb for every cup of water. Use half a teaspoon for children. Steep in boiled water for five minutes and flavor as desired with lemon and honey. Be sure to let the tea cool down. Avoid adding milk--dairy products tend to increase congestion. Don't use these teas with infants, except under the advice of a physician. Try an herbal tea made from the following herbs: Chamomile: Chamomile is safe for children and has anti-viral properties. , Oregano: Oregano is also safe for children (but make it as a weak tea) and has antiviral properties. , Thyme: Thyme is safe for children (as a weak tea) and has antiviral properties. , Olive leaf: This is safe for children (as a weak tea) and has antiviral properties. Elderberry: This is safe for children (as a tea or as a juice) and has antiviral properties. , Licorice leaf: Licorice leaf is safe for children (as a weak tea) and has antiviral properties. , Echinacea: This is safe for children (as a weak tea) and has antiviral properties. , Use a neti pot. A neti pot can be used to wash out a stuffy nose. It is a device that looks somewhat like a teapot. You use it to pour water into your nose to flush out your nasal cavities. Choose your essential oils. The herbs that can be used to make teas are also good choices for essential oil treatments. These include: chamomile, elderberry, licorice root, Echinacea, olive root, thyme and oregano. Combine an equal number of drops of your chosen oils. The TOTAL number of drops should be nine to ten at the most. In a separate bowl, add one and a half cups of very warm distilled water. Don't use water that is so hot that you scald the delicate nasal tissues. Add six tablespoons of finely ground unprocessed sea salt. Stir to dissolve the salt. The salt is included to help ensure that the nasal tissue is protected. Add the essential oils and mix thoroughly. Add the liquid to your neti pot. Bend forward over a sink, turning your head to one side. Slowly pour the solution through the nasal cavities to clean them. Use a diffuser. This method can be very useful, especially if more than one member of your family has a sinus infection or respiratory infection. Choose your oils from among chamomile, elderberry, licorice root, Echinacea, olive root, thyme and oregano. Or, you can make your own unique mixture. Follow the manufacturer's instructions using the diffuser. Most use about a half cup of water with three to five drops of essential oils. Anyone with a sinus infection should sit as close as possible to the diffuser. Use the old-fashioned method of steaming. In this method, all you need is water and your chosen essential oils or mixture of oils. You'll boil water to create steam, which you'll breathe through your nose. Pour water (distilled is best, but tap water is fine) until the bottom of the pot has about two inches of water. Heat the water to boiling, turn off the heat and add eight to ten drops of essential oils. Stir. You can either leave the pot on the stove or take it off. Just be careful, whichever you decide. Cover your head with a towel and breathe in the steam through your nose. You can also breathe through your mouth, especially if you have a sore throat or a throat infection. Do this as long as the steam is rising. Repeat if desired by reheating the water. The same solution can be used over and over until all the water is gone. Breathe in herb-infused steam. Take the old-fashioned method of breathing steam and add herbs to the water. Pour water (distilled is best, but tap water is fine) until the bottom of the pot has about two inches of water. Heat the water to boiling, turn off the heat and add two teaspoons of oregano and two teaspoons of basil. If you want, you can add a pinch of cayenne pepper. Just be careful! Cover your head with a towel and breathe in the steam through your nose. You can also breathe in through your mouth, especially if you have a sore throat or a throat infection. Do this as long as the steam is rising. Repeat if desired by reheating the water. See your doctor if your immune system is compromised. With most common viruses and with most healthy adults, viral infections clear without additional treatment. If, however, an individual's immune system is compromised, a doctor should be called as soon as any symptoms of infection occur. Immune compromise can occur in the very young, older individuals, those infected with HIV/AIDs, individuals who have had an organ transplant and cancer patients going through chemotherapy. Watch for these common symptoms of viral infections: Fever Joint aches and pains Sore throat Headache Nausea, vomiting, diarrhea Skin rash Fatigue Nasal congestion Call a doctor immediately if the common symptoms worsen. If any of the common viral infection symptoms becomes severe, call a physician immediately. If a physician is not available, call for emergency services. Seek immediate medical care if you experience certain severe symptoms. If you experience any of the following symptoms at any time, go to your nearest emergency room. Any change in your alertness or level of consciousness Chest pain A deep chest cough that produces wet or liquid yellow, green or brownish phlegm (discharge) Lethargy or unresponsiveness to stimuli (sounds, light, touch) Any form of seizure Any shortness of breath, wheezing, or any difficulty breathing A stiff or sore neck, or a severe headache Yellowing of the skin or the sclera (the whites of the eyes) Get vaccinated. Specific treatment always depends on the specific virus. There are hundreds of different viruses that are known to infect humans. Many can be largely prevented with vaccination, such as influenza, chicken pox, shingles and others. Talk with your doctor about getting vaccinated against certain viruses. Visit your doctor if you don’t get relief from home remedies. If you experience symptoms that you think may be a viral infection for more than 48 hours without getting relief from the approaches listed, make an appointment to see your doctor as soon as possible. Many viral infections, like the common cold (rhinoviruses), the flu (influenza virus), measles (rubeola) or mononucleosis (Epstein-Barr virus, or EBV), require primarily supportive treatment. Other viruses cause serious, life-threatening diseases such as cancer and Ebola. Some persistent viruses cause long-term disorders including hepatitis, HSV and varicella-zoster (causing chickenpox and shingles) and HIV. Ask about antiviral drugs. Until relatively recently, there were no effective antiviral drugs. That is changing, with more antiviral drugs being introduced. Antiviral therapy is important for certain infections, including infections with herpes viruses (HSVs), cytomegaloviruses (CMVs) and the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV). Another approach to treating viral infection is to use interferons. These are natural substances (cytokines) released from infected cells which function to block various facets of viral replication. Use of the interferons is particularly important in the treatment of the hepatitis viruses (B and C), Kaposi's sarcoma associated with HIV infection, and a sexually transmitted infection called condyloma acuminata, which results in genital warts. | Let the fever do its work. Be cautious about higher fevers. Seek immediate medical care if fever is experienced with severe symptoms. Take a lukewarm bath. Wear wet socks. Cool the head, neck, ankles and the wrists. Get plenty of rest. Feed your body with light foods. Focus on fresh fruit rich in vitamin C. Eat yogurt. Include protein in your meal. Avoid heavy and fried foods. Try the BRAT diet. Eat foods rich in zinc. Drink plenty of water. Try an oral rehydration solution such as Pedialyte or CeraLyte. Keep breastfeeding your baby. Monitor for signs of dehydration. Boost your immune system with high doses of vitamin C. Increase your intake of vitamin D3. Try coconut oil. Try drinking herbal tea. Use a neti pot. Use a diffuser. Use the old-fashioned method of steaming. Breathe in herb-infused steam. See your doctor if your immune system is compromised. Call a doctor immediately if the common symptoms worsen. Seek immediate medical care if you experience certain severe symptoms. Get vaccinated. Visit your doctor if you don’t get relief from home remedies. Ask about antiviral drugs. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Work-in-the-USA-as-a-Canadian-Citizen | How to Work in the USA as a Canadian Citizen | If you're working for a Canadian company and want to transfer to one of its US offices, apply for an L1 visa. Otherwise, to work in the US as a Canadian citizen, get hooked up with a US employer. If you have a college education and are in a “specialty occupation,” like engineering or medicine, they can help you get an H-1B visa. Having this visa allows you to apply for permanent residency. A US employer can also help you get a TN1 visa. This visa, which also requires you to work in a specific field, can be easier and faster to get, but doesn't allow you to seek residency. | Qualify for an H-1B visa. This type of visa is much sought after as it can be issued for full time or part time employment for individuals who possess a “specialty occupation”. A specialty occupation is a role that requires the skills of a professional. You should have at least a bachelor's degree or its equivalent, or relevant work experience. In addition, the process can be complicated and you may need an attorney to navigate the process. Accountants, computer analysts, web programmers, web designers, and engineers can all quality for an H-1B visa. U.S. Congress allots 65,000 H-1B visas a year for specialty professionals who receive job offers from U.S. companies or organizations. There are also 20,000 H-1B visas for individuals with advanced degrees, such as M.D., J.D., MBA, and Ph.D. If you are a Canadian with a medical degree, a law degree, or another graduate degree, you may be eligible for one of the 20,000 H-1B visas. This gives you a leg up, as you will not be put into the general pool of applicants, competing for one of 65,000 visas. If you are a Canadian fashion model, you can also work in the U.S. on an H-1B visa. As a fashion model, you do not need to have a bachelor's degree, but you need to demonstrate “distinguished merit or ability”. You will need to be nationally or internationally known and have achieved a high level of recognition or achievement in the fashion modeling industry. If you are a Canadian owner of a U.S. company, you can sponsor yourself for a H-1B visa if you have a bachelor's degree or higher in a specialized field. For example, a Canadian with a law degree who founded a U.S. specialty law firm can then sponsor herself for an H-1B and work as a lawyer at her own company. Ask your US employer to apply for the visa for you. Once you receive a job offer from a U.S. employer, your employer will apply for the H-1B visa on your behalf. The employer will be the legal petitioner and you, as the employee, will be the beneficiary. Your employer will file a Labor Condition Application (LCA) with the U.S. Department of Labor. The LCA determines how much you are going to be paid, based on the minimum salary or wage for Canadians working in the U.S. Once your employer receives a certified LCA, she will complete a Petition for Nonimmigrant Worker form to the United States Citizenship and Immigration Service (USCIS). Your employer will send in the completed petition, as well as the certified LCA and any necessary fees and documents to the USCIS for processing. Supply the necessary documents for the application. You will need to provide official documentation to your U.S. employer to process the application. Your employer will also need to provide detailed information about your position at the company in the application. The necessary documents you will need to provide include: Sponsorship/job offer from the employer Copy of your current resume Copy of your Canadian passport Copies of your degrees, certificates, transcripts (if applicable) Employment reference letters from previous employers (if applicable) Copy of any professional development course certificates (if applicable) Professional license (if applicable) If you already live in the U.S., you can provide the following documentation: Copy of your US social security number, if you have one Copy of the front and back of the I-94 card Copies of any prior H1B approval notices of J1 forms If you are changing employers and are currently on H1B status, or are applying for an extension of stay with the same employer, provide a copy of your most recent pay stubs or a letter from your current employer verifying your employment. Discuss the payment of the application fee with your employer. Most U.S. employers will pay the application fee and the fee for the visa. However, you should discuss the payment of the fees before you complete the application. File the application by April 1st of the year you would like to work in the U.S. It usually takes two months for the application process to go through. So to ensure you are set to work in the U.S. for the fiscal year, your employer should file the application by April 1st. The earliest start date for an employee with an H-1B visa is October 1st of that fiscal year, or six months from the start of the fiscal year. If you would like to start working for your employer before October 1st, you should talk to your employer about applying for other visas, like the TN1, to fill the time gap. Re apply for the visa after one year working in the U.S. The H-1B visa is valid for up to three years, and can be renewed for another three years. You must leave after six years in the United States for one year but after one year you can re-apply for a new H-1B. This visa is also unique in that it allows for “dual intent”, which means you can apply for permanent residency status while on the visa. Other work visas, like TN1, do not permit dual intent. If you apply for an employment based green card while you have a H-1B visa, you can extend the visa indefinitely. Qualify for a TN1 visa. The TN1 visa is modeled after the H1B visa, so it can only be used when your employer is based in the US. Though the application process is simplified with the TN1 visa, you must work in a specified profession that qualifies you for a TN1 visa. Accountants, architects, graphic designers, urban planners, medical professionals, and scientific professionals with bachelor degrees or higher education are all considered valid professions for this visa. A list of professions covered by NAFTA can be found here. The TN1 is only granted to employers, and if you need a visa for more than one employer, you will need to file multiple visa applications. If you are self-employed, you will not qualify for this visa category. Understand the advantages and disadvantages of the TN1 visa. TN1 visas are valid for three years and are often more likely to be approved than an H-1B visa. The application period for a TN1 visa can also be fast tracked by applying for the visa at the US border. But TN1 visas also have several potential disadvantages, including: This visa is given to individuals with specialized skills and you may not qualify for the visa because your profession is not recognized by NAFTA as “specialized”. Under this visa, you must demonstrate your intention to return to Canada once the TN1 visa expires. For your first TN1 visa, you likely do not have to demonstrate your intention to return when you reapply. But if you have been on the TN1 visa for six to nine years, and are seeking another three year visa, you may be required to show you still intend to return to Canada at some point. You will need to provide documents showing you still maintain ties to Canada, such as bank account statements, a provincial driver's license, real estate ownership, or having a spouse or other family living in Canada. With a TN1 visa, it is also more difficult to apply for an employment-based green card. There is no “dual intent” allowed with this visa and you must always demonstrate an “intent to return”. If you apply for a U.S. green card while you have a TN1 visa, this could be seen as a violation of your visa agreement and you may lose your visa. Apply for the visa in person at the border for a lower fee and faster processing. The application fee at the border is significantly lower than applying through the USCIS, and the decision to grant or deny the visa is made on the spot at the border. If you are denied the visa, you will learn the reason for the denial right away and attempt to correct it as soon as possible. You will need to carry the following documents with you to the U.S. border to apply for the TN1 visa: A description of your position with a US employer. It should include a description of why it is a professional occupation, recognized by NAFTA, and that the position is temporary. It should also confirm you are a direct employee and note your salary level. Proof of your qualifications, such as a copy of your degree, certificate, or transcripts A copy of your current resume A copy of your Canadian passport A copy of your social security number, if applicable A copy of your employment contract Details of your foreign address or place of residence Discuss applying for the TN1 visa through USCIS with your employer. A TN1 visa application done through the USCIS will take at least two months to process, the fee is much higher and if you are denied, it will take more time and money to re apply via the USCIS. Talk with your U.S. employer about applying for the visa at the border, rather than the USCIS. If your employer insists on applying for the visa through the USCIS, you will need to supply the following documentation: Sponsorship/job offer from the employer A copy of your current resume Copy of your Canadian passport Copies of your degrees, certificates, transcripts (if applicable) Employment reference letters from previous employers (if applicable) Copy of any professional development course certificates (if applicable) Professional license (if applicable) If you already live in the U.S., you can provide the following documentation: Copy of your US social security number, if you have one Copy of the front and back of the I-94 card Ask your employer about the payment of the application fee. Most U.S. employers will pay the application fee and the fee for the visa. However, you should discuss the payment of the fees before you complete the application. Qualify for the L1 visa. This visa is for intra company transfers. This is when a Canadian manager or executive who works at an affiliated Canadian office is transferred to one of the company's U.S. offices. The employer must be conducting business in the U.S. and have an existing relationship with the Canadian company (affiliate, subsidiary, parent company, etc.). You must work at the affiliated company for at least one continuous year and be going to the U.S. to be a manager or executive to qualify for an L1 visa. You can also qualify for an L1 visa if you are going to the U.S. to set up an affiliate company. A Canadian company can send a manager or executive to establish a U.S. office. But the Canadian employer must demonstrate that there is a physical space for the new office, the employee has been a manager or executive for one continuous year, and the new U.S. office will support an executive or managerial position within one year of the L1 visa being issued. Understand the benefits of the L1 visa. An L1 visa is ideal for executive employees looking to establish a U.S. office of a Canadian company without having to go through a lengthy application process. As well, the spouses and unmarried children under 21 years old of L1 visa holders can come to the U.S. for the duration of the employee's stay. Once you have an L1 visa, your spouse can also work legally in the U.S. Keep in mind you can re apply for the L1 visa after one year for a maximum of seven years. After seven years in the U.S., you are not eligible to apply for another L1 visa. Complete a blanket petition. Your organization may establish an intracompany relationship between a U.S. office and a Canadian office by filing a blanket petition with the USCIS. You are eligible for a blanket petition if: The petitioner and the qualifying organization are involved in commercial trade or services. The petitioner has an office in the U.S. that has been conducting business for at least one year. The petitioner has three or more domestic and foreign subsidiaries, affiliates, or branches. The petitioner and the organization has obtained at least 10 L-1 approvals in the previous 12 months, has U.S. subsidiaries or affiliates with sales of at least $25 million, or has a workforce in the U.S. of at least 1,000 employees. Get your employer to complete Form I-129S. This form can be found here. Your employer should then send you the completed form, along with a copy of the approved blanket petition. You will then present these documents to the consular office to complete the L1 visa application. You can also present your L1 visa application at the U.S. border to a U.S. Customs and Border Protection Officer for approval. Complete the application process if you are a Canadian athlete participating in a specific event in the U.S. If you are going to be in the United States for an extended period of time as an athlete at a specific sporting event, you can apply for a temporary work visa (P1 visa). You will need to provide the following documents to the Canadian Embassy: A printed copy of the DS-160 Confirmation Page with legible bar code A valid passport (at least 6 months) Older passports containing any previous visas Documents proving your previous legal status in the U.S. Reciprocity fee (if applicable) Original or copy of Notice of Approval (Form I-797A or I-797B) Letter from the U.S. employer explaining the work you are doing, the amount of time you are spending in the U.S. and your salary/wage Copy of Petition for a Nonimmigrant Worker (Form I-129, found here ), as completed by employer and filed with D.H.S. Evidence of qualifications (original or certified copy) Proof of ties or a residence in a country outside the U.S. Follow the application process if you are on an artist exchange or are considered a culturally unique artist. If you are staying in the United States as a paid artist by a U.S. organization, you can apply for a temporary work visa (P2 visa, P3 visa) by submitting these documents to the Canadian Embassy. A printed copy of the DS-160 Confirmation Page with legible bar code A valid passport (at least 6 months) Older passports containing any previous visas Documents proving previous legal status in U.S. Reciprocity fee (if applicable) Original or copy of Notice of Approval (Form I-797A or I-797B) Letter from the U.S. employer explaining the work you are doing, the amount of time you are spending in the U.S. and your salary/wage Copy of Petition for a Nonimmigrant Worker (Form I-129, found here ), as completed by employer and filed with D.H.S. Evidence of qualifications (original or certified copy) Proof of ties or a residence in a country outside the U.S. Complete the application if you are a temporary worker in nursing or agriculture. Nurses who are Canadian citizens and are working in the United States for a U.S. organization or client who is a U.S. citizen can apply for an H1A visa. Canadian agricultural workers who have a job offer from a company based in the U.S. can apply for the H2 visa. The required documents for both visas are: A printed copy of the DS-160 Confirmation Page with legible bar code A valid passport (at least 6 months) Older passports containing any previous visas Documents substantiating previous legal status in U.S. Reciprocity fee (if applicable) Original or copy of Notice of Approval (Form I-797A or I-797B) Letter from the U.S. employer explaining the work you are doing, the amount of time you are spending in the U.S. and your salary/wage, as well as a recent paystub or payslip Copy of the Petition for a Nonimmigrant Worker (Form I-129, found here ), as completed by your employer and filed with D.H.S. A copy of your approved Labor Condition Application (LCA) Evidence of qualifications (original or certified copy). The Canadian Embassy may refuse to issue you a H-1B visa if your education and work experience are only based in a country other than the United States or Canada. If you do not have U.S. or Canadian work or education experience, you should apply for the visa from your country of residence. Apply for a temporary work visa if you are in a religious occupation. If you are a non-U.S. citizen who is going to work in the United States in a religious occupation or role, you can apply for the R1 visa. You will need to provide the following documents to the Canadian Embassy: A printed copy of the DS-160 Confirmation Page with legible bar code A valid passport (at least 6 months) Older passports containing any previous visas Documents substantiating previous legal status in U.S. Reciprocity fee (if applicable) Physical proof of membership in the religious organization Physical proof of the organization's tax exempt status An official letter from the organization explaining your employment and the duration of your stay in the U.S. You must demonstrate you have work experience in your home country with the same religious organization you are going to represent in the U.S. Copy of the Petition for a Nonimmigrant Worker (Form I-129, found here ), as completed by your employer and filed with D.H.S. Original or copy of Notice of Approval (Form I-797A or I-797B) Keep in mind the Canadian Embassy may refuse to issue you a H-1B visa if your education and work experience are only based in a country other than the United States or Canada. If you do not have U.S. or Canadian work or education experience, you should apply for the visa from your country of residence. | Qualify for an H-1B visa. Ask your US employer to apply for the visa for you. Supply the necessary documents for the application. Discuss the payment of the application fee with your employer. File the application by April 1st of the year you would like to work in the U.S. Re apply for the visa after one year working in the U.S. Qualify for a TN1 visa. Understand the advantages and disadvantages of the TN1 visa. Apply for the visa in person at the border for a lower fee and faster processing. Discuss applying for the TN1 visa through USCIS with your employer. Ask your employer about the payment of the application fee. Qualify for the L1 visa. Understand the benefits of the L1 visa. Complete a blanket petition. Get your employer to complete Form I-129S. Complete the application process if you are a Canadian athlete participating in a specific event in the U.S. Follow the application process if you are on an artist exchange or are considered a culturally unique artist. Complete the application if you are a temporary worker in nursing or agriculture. Apply for a temporary work visa if you are in a religious occupation. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Breed-Molly-Fish | How to Breed Molly Fish | To breed molly fish, start by setting up a 15-30 gallon tank for them that includes decorations, a substrate, and freshwater plants. Then, purchase male and female molly fish so you have no more than 2 fish per 10 gallons of tank space. After you introduce the fish to the tank, wait for them to mate. When you notice a female fish with a bloated belly, transfer it to a different tank before it gives birth to protect it and its fry. Finally, after the female gives birth in 3-5 weeks, transfer it back to the main tank and keep the fry separated. | Allow the fish to mate with one another. Mollies are hierarchical fish. Whichever male has the biggest fins and boldest colors leads the way. This means the ideal combination of male and female fish is one male for multiple females. You may see the male under the female; this is how the fish copulate. If their mating is successful, their babies should be born in about 3 to 5 weeks. Remove the female from the aquarium before birthing begins. Place the female in a separate “nurser” tank if possible. The male fish often chases around the female, wishing to copulate more, and this could cause stress on the pregnancy. You'll be able to tell the molly is pregnant by a very distended belly. If the “nurser” tank is not possible, consider using an aquarium net breeder, which is essentially a mesh cube with plastic edges, to protect the mother and baby fish. Removing the mother from the main aquarium is also to protect the fry. Molly fish often cannibalize their babies. Don't wait too close to the birth date. Stressed mollies may have more aborted births and stillborn. Reintroduce the female into the main aquarium. The female may eat her own young, so it's best to move her back with the other fish for the safety of the fry. Roughly once per month, however, the mother may need to be re-segregated since female molly fish can retain multiple fertilized eggs for nearly half a year. Feed the fry. Use ground fish food of the same type that you feed to your adult mollies. Flake food should be used as a primary base. Supplement the normal meals with a broad variety of denser meals. Various worms are great for molly fish. Grindal worms, black worms, and blood worms work well. Brine shrimp, live or frozen, are a preferred source of food. Molly fish even eat algae, which is their primary food in the wild. Wait for the fish to mature. It will take around nearly two months to be able to tell males and females apart. Once they've doubled in size, it's probably safe to introduce them into the main tank with the rest of the fish. Another good way to tell if they're safe to interact with the other fish is if they are too big to fit into the other fishes mouths. Separate the males and the females. Once you know the gender of the mollies, you'll need to ensure more breeding doesn't take place. They will, in fact, breed between brothers and sisters. Try to separate the male and female fish before they are eight weeks old, which is when they reach sexual maturity. Purchase an aquarium/tank. You'll need a tank that holds around 15g – 30g water (56L-113L). In general, molly fish do better with larger fish tanks and more room to swim around. Smaller tanks may create a variety of problems: Less swimming room to get away from aggressive fish, which creates stress Harder to clean, which can lead to sickness Place any decorations in the aquarium. Choose such decorations as rocks, air filters and decorative gravel. In general, molly fish should have enough room to swim around quite freely, but also enough decorations to hide from bully fish. The less aggressive fish will more around in the tank to hide from bully fish. If there aren't enough hiding spots, the fish could become stressed. Anchor freshwater plants below the substrate. The substrate should provide the base to your tank, but also serve potential nutrients to any plants inside the aquarium. In general, the substrate should be comprised of two levels: The top level should be 2 inches of something sturdy, like sand, pebbles, or gravel. The bottom level should be 1-2 inches of nutrient-rich material. Fill the tank with water near the top. Up to 2 inches (4cm) under the brim of the tank is ideal. The water should be warm – 78-82° F (25-27° C) – so the molly fish are comfortable, like they would be in tropical waters. Do not overfill the tank or put in cold water. An aquarium heater will probably be necessary. Replace water on a fairly regimented schedule. Daily minimal water changes, or up to 30% per week, are recommend. Avoid aquarium salt. Some molly fish are brackish, which means they have a varying requirement for freshwater and saltwater. There is a fairly large debate, however, about whether or not they need marine salt in the aquarium. Some experts contend most molly fish never see salty or brackish waters, and it's not necessary for the water. Some sources indicate that approximately one Tbsp per five gallons of water is good. The addition of salt may act as a healing attribute, a way to overcome slightly dirty water. If you buy an exotic breed of molly, you may want to consult with an expert to be sure you can go completely without salt. Install the filter according to the instructions. Ultimately, the water should have a fairly neutral Ph level between 7 and 8. Some experts recommend increasing the Ph by just a bit, to 8.4 After the tank is filled, adjustments to the filter and water may be necessary. Allow the tank to cycle before adding the fish. It is best to allow the tank to cycle , because the water is lacking beneficial bacteria, which leaves fish susceptible to illness and disease. Carefully monitor your aquarium if you can't wait before adding your fish. Choose how many mollies you want. Generally, a good fit for the fish is a couple mollies per 10 gallon tank. They need ample room to swim around and, if you end up with multiple fry, room to hide from the more aggressive fish. If you want more than just a couple, you should use the recommended larger tank. Purchase your mollies. Go to your local pet store and pick male and female fish. While there are several varieties of molly fish, they are extremely easy to breed because all colors are the same species, and all males and females breed with one another. Some recommend getting the subspecies of mollies for quicker breeding. You can ask the employees at the store for help, or you can do it yourself. Male molly have a gonopodium, a long stick-like fin used to fertilize the female, on his lower half. Female molly have a softer, fan-shaped anal fin, which is also on the lower half of the body. Transfer your fish to the tank. Set the bag of fish in the tank for 10-15 minutes, to allow the water to become the same temperature. Release the fish into the aquarium/tank by using a net to get the fish from the bag. Do not introduce the water from the bag into the tank. Feed the other fish before adding in the new mollies. You don't want them to think the mollies are food. | Allow the fish to mate with one another. Remove the female from the aquarium before birthing begins. Reintroduce the female into the main aquarium. Feed the fry. Wait for the fish to mature. Separate the males and the females. Purchase an aquarium/tank. Place any decorations in the aquarium. Anchor freshwater plants below the substrate. Fill the tank with water near the top. Avoid aquarium salt. Install the filter according to the instructions. Allow the tank to cycle before adding the fish. Choose how many mollies you want. Purchase your mollies. Transfer your fish to the tank. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Have-a-Daily-Routine | How to Have a Daily Routine | Sticking to a daily routine can be tough, but you can keep yourself on task through careful planning and motivation. On a typical day, write down everything you do with the exact times you start and finish each task, no matter how small. Once you have an outline of what you do in a day, cross out any unproductive tasks, like looking at social media, and replace them with more productive activities, like studying or exercising. While you want to keep your schedule productive, it's important to make time for 15 to 30 minute breaks every once in a while to relax and keep yourself motivated. If you lose track of time easily, make a music playlist with motivational music that changes genres once it's time to start a new task. | Spend a day recording everything you do. Carry around a planner, notebook, or mobile phone with a calendar app. Write down the start and end times for every activity, no matter how small. At the end of the day you'll have a list telling you exactly how you spent the day. If today is not a typical day for you, make another list tomorrow, or even one for each day of the week. Reduce unwanted activities from your day. The goal is to tweak your actual schedule to form your daily routine, instead of trying to invent a completely new plan for your day. Look over your list of activities for the day your record. Decide which ones you'd like to spend less time on, such as procrastination or social media. Cross out some of these activities from your list. Write down productive activities to replace unproductive ones. Count the amount of time saved by removing the unproductive activities from your day. Write down activities that could fill that time, such as work, studying, housecleaning, or other productive activities. Arrange your day into a schedule. Using the schedule from your actual day, and the list of changes you'd like to make, write down a routine you can follow. You can rearrange activities into any order you like, but don't change the amount of time they take. If it took you thirty minutes to have breakfast today, assume it will take you thirty minutes tomorrow as well. For new activities you're adding to the schedule, guess how long they'll take, then allow about 1/3 more time than you guessed. Set aside enough time for sleep. Most adults need 7–8 hours of sleep a night to stay alert and high-functioning. Children and teenagers often require 9 hours or more. Schedule a bedtime and wake up time that gives you plenty of sleep, or your daily routine will not be sustainable. Make time for breaks and interruptions. If your rough draft of a routine is chock full of activity from the moment you wake up until the time you go to bed, you'll probably burn out or fall behind the first time something unexpected happens. Adjust your schedule to allow for at least one 30–60 minute chunk of free time if possible, and several 5–15 minute breaks in between productive activities. Try out the routine for a day. Give the schedule you wrote down a test spin. Do your best to follow the routine exactly. If you do not, write down what you did differently from the schedule, and why. Change your schedule based on your experience. Sit down at the end of the day and look at your schedule. If one of your time estimates turned out to be unrealistic, allow more time for that activity and cut something less important out of your day. If you finished an activity more than 20 minutes early, allow less time for it in your schedule. Finally, if the order you did your activities was inconvenient or didn't feel right, try shuffling the activities in a different order. Repeat until you can follow the schedule. Try following your schedule again after making changes. If you are having trouble doing so, continue to make adjustments and keep trying. If you are having trouble following the routine, read the advice below. Adjust to your natural rhythm. Each person's body has a different natural schedule, or circadian rhythm, that helps determine when that person feels tired or alert. Try to create a routine that uses your most alert times of day for activities that require mental and physical effort, and give yourself time to relax during the times of day when you feel tired or have trouble thinking. For advice on discovering or adjusting your natural rhythm, talk to a doctor, or get a rough idea with an online survey. Find a way to start your day. If your mornings feel rushed or confused, they may be the weak point in your daily routine. Experiment with different options until you come up with a very specific routine that you can start every day with: Start the day out with a glass of water to rehydrate and wake up, followed by coffee or tea if you drink it. Use a stretching or light exercise routine to wake yourself up. The sun salute is a popular example in yoga. Have the same breakfast ready each day, or at least decide what you're eating for breakfast the night before. Think about your routine twice a day. Take at least 10 minutes each morning to look ahead to your day. If you have an extra obligation today, a temporary source of stress in your life, or another reason today is unusual, decide which activities can be skipped today if you need to. At the end of the day, look back and think about how that decision went, and whether you could improve your routine. Find activities that refresh you. You should have at least a couple 5–15 minute breaks scheduled even in the busiest day, to refresh yourself and get you ready for the rest of your routine. If you tend to feel stressed during these breaks, or if they suck you in and end up taking much longer than they should, find a different activity. Here are some suggestions: Light exercise, such as walking or jogging, can refresh and energize. A fun activity with a clear end time makes it harder to overextend your break. For instance, find a 15-minute podcast episode, or read one chapter of a book. If you're exhausted, lie down with your eyes closed or meditate to regain your strength. Set an alarm clock if an urgent task is coming up. Motivate yourself with sound. If you often lose track of time, set an alarm on your mobile phone or watch whenever you begin an activity, so you know when to move on to the next one. You can use music instead as a more pleasant motivation, organizing your music into playlists or categories based on the type of task you're working on. For example: Choose non-distracting music with a steady beat when you need to concentrate. Choose calm music when you're relaxing, or working on low-key personal projects. Choose loud, energetic music if you're tired and really need a boost. Prevent procrastination. Get rid of distractions in your work area. If you work on a computer and procrastinate online, block websites that waste your time. Use electronic productivity tools. There are all kinds of tools out there that can motivate you, remind you, or give you virtual rewards for staying productive. Try HabitRPG if you are motivated by games, or any number of calendar programs to remind you of the next task. Avoid disruptions to your sleep schedule. Blue light from electronic screens can prevent your body from releasing sleep hormones. Minimize computer, phone, and television use late at night, or install Flux to change the color of your screen at night. Caffeine, alcohol, and other drugs can also make it much harder to get a restful night of sleep. | Spend a day recording everything you do. Reduce unwanted activities from your day. Write down productive activities to replace unproductive ones. Arrange your day into a schedule. Set aside enough time for sleep. Make time for breaks and interruptions. Try out the routine for a day. Change your schedule based on your experience. Repeat until you can follow the schedule. Adjust to your natural rhythm. Find a way to start your day. Think about your routine twice a day. Find activities that refresh you. Motivate yourself with sound. Prevent procrastination. Use electronic productivity tools. Avoid disruptions to your sleep schedule. |
https://www.wikihow.life/Measure-a-Room | How to Measure a Room | To measure the floors of a room, measure the length and width of the room at the widest parts with a tape measure. Then, multiply these numbers together to find the area of the room in square feet. If there are any rectangular recesses in the room, like a closet or bathroom, repeat this process add everything together to determine the total floor area. | Make a drawing of the floor plan in the room you are measuring. You will use this drawing to record your measurements. The drawing does not have to be to scale, but the more accurate it is, the more useful it'll be. Since you are just measuring floors, including windows and doorways should not matter. Include all areas involved in your project. For example, if you're putting in flooring and have a walk-in closet you are also flooring, draw the closet. In this hypothetical drawing, there is a bathroom on the right (which is a separate room, so it is not drawn) and a bay window to the left (shown with a half circle). Measure the length and width of the room’s main area. To calculate the area of a room, use the standard (Length) x (Width) = Area formula. Measure the maximum length and width at the widest points of the room. This is important and will help you get the correct measurements. Move any items or furniture in the way of your measuring tape. Having a friend hold the end of the tape could help. Right now, you are only measuring the main area. Ignore bay windows and separate areas like bathrooms for this step. Multiply the length and the width to get the main area’s measurement. Use a calculator to ensure this measurement is accurate. For instance, if the room is 12 feet wide and 12 feet long, the area of the floor is 144 square feet. Your result is the measurement of the total floor area. Record this number on your drawing. Measure the length and width of any square or rectangular recesses. These often include closets or bathrooms that you are part of a flooring or tile project. Measuring square or rectangular recesses is the same as measuring the main area of the room. Measure the width and length of the recess, then multiply the length and width to find the area of the recess. Write down the result in the recess area of your drawing. Repeat this step if there are multiple recesses in the room. Calculate the area of any round recesses. Measure the longest length (usually through the center) and width of the recess. Do not measure further than the edge of the main area you already measured. Next, divide the length by two. Then, multiply this number by the width. Now, multiply the total by pi (3.14). Lastly, divide the area in half. Record the number in the recess area of your drawing. Now you have the area of the U-shaped protrusion in the room. The area in a bay window recess should only be included as part of the area of the room if it has a floor (rather than a seat) and the ceiling is at least seven feet or 2.13 m high. Add all of the areas together to get the total floor area. Add the areas of all recesses to the main floor area. Now, you have the total square footage of your floor, and you can purchase carpet, flooring, or other materials accordingly. Make a drawing of all walls you need to measure. Include doors and windows in your drawing as well. Leave enough room in the drawing to write down measurements. Measure the width and height of the wall. To calculate the area of a wall, use the standard (Width) x (Height) = Area formula. Using a measuring tape, measure the width and height of the wall. Since walls can be tall, you might want to ask a friend or neighbor for help holding the measuring tape. Record the measurements on your drawing. Multiply the length and width together. Using a calculator, multiply the length and width. This will equal the total square footage of the wall. Write this number down. Measure the length and width of any doors, fixtures, or windows. Record the length and width of any doors or windows on your drawing. Multiply the length and width of any doors, fixtures, or windows. Use a calculator to multiply the length and width of any doors or windows present. Record each individual total. These measurements indicate the square footage of any doors, windows, or fixtures. Add the total areas of any doors, fixtures, or windows. This only applies to walls that have more than one door, fixture, or window. Write this number down. Subtract the total from step six from the total wall square footage. Use a calculator for this step, too. This number equals the square footage of the wall, and you can use this square footage to buy paint or wallpaper. Measure the length and the width of a square or rectangular room. Use the standard 2(Length + Width) = Perimeter formula to find the perimeter of a room. Using a measuring tape, find the length and width of the room. Add the length and the width, then multiply the answer by two. Use a calculator to make sure your addition and multiplication is accurate. Once you add the length and the width, multiply that total by two. This will calculate the perimeter of the room. Measure an irregularly shaped room manually. If the room you are measuring is not a square or rectangular, you will need to measure each individual side of the room's perimeter. Work your way around the room's perimeter with a measuring tape, recording the length of each side of the room. Add all the measurements together. Use a calculator to add up every measurement you took of the irregularly shaped room. The result of this calculation is the length of the perimeter of the room. Calculate the floor area. This is described in method one. If the ceiling is flat, by calculating the floor area, you now have your ceiling area as well. For rectangular and square rooms with flat ceilings, the area of the floor is the same as the ceiling's area. If you have any extra parts of the ceiling that stick out or cave in, continue on to step two. Measure any additions to the ceiling area separately. This step only applies to ceilings that are not flat. Many ceilings also have alcoves and window bays that stick out; measure the width and depth of any alcoves or window bays. Record all measurements. A ceiling that slopes or has recesses or variation of any kind will have a larger surface area than the floor, so keep that in mind when buying materials (i.e. buy a little extra). Ceilings can be difficult to reach. If you are measuring a ceiling, ask a friend for assistance. You will probably need a ladder to reach the ceiling for measurement. Add extra ceiling measurements to the area of the room. Add all additional measurements to the number calculated in step one. Write the total down. Measure the area of any skylights. If you don't have skylights on the ceiling, skip this step. Ceilings sometimes have skylights, and the area of these must be subtracted from the total ceiling area calculated in step three. Measure the length and width of a skylight to get its area. Then, multiple the length and the width. Now, you have the area of the skylight. Subtract the area of the skylight from the ceiling area. Subtract the number calculated in step four from the total area of the ceiling. The result of this calculation is the square footage of your ceiling. | Make a drawing of the floor plan in the room you are measuring. Measure the length and width of the room’s main area. Multiply the length and the width to get the main area’s measurement. Measure the length and width of any square or rectangular recesses. Calculate the area of any round recesses. Add all of the areas together to get the total floor area. Make a drawing of all walls you need to measure. Measure the width and height of the wall. Multiply the length and width together. Measure the length and width of any doors, fixtures, or windows. Multiply the length and width of any doors, fixtures, or windows. Add the total areas of any doors, fixtures, or windows. Subtract the total from step six from the total wall square footage. Measure the length and the width of a square or rectangular room. Add the length and the width, then multiply the answer by two. Measure an irregularly shaped room manually. Add all the measurements together. Calculate the floor area. Measure any additions to the ceiling area separately. Add extra ceiling measurements to the area of the room. Measure the area of any skylights. Subtract the area of the skylight from the ceiling area. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Get-Vaseline-out-of-Your-Hair | How to Get Vaseline out of Your Hair | To get vaseline out of your hair, first remove as much of it as you can by blotting it with paper towel. Once you've gotten some of the vaseline out, try sprinkling cornstarch or baking soda on your hair, which will absorb the excess oil. Then, wash your hair with warm water and a clarifying shampoo to remove the powder. If you still have vaseline in your hair after this, you can shampoo and rinse it a second time to get more of it out. Finally, make sure to apply a conditioner to restore the natural oils to your hair. | Blot your hair with paper towels. Take a few paper towels and press them on the hair that's coated with Vaseline. Dab and blot with the paper towels to remove the excess Vaseline. Ensure that you don't rub the paper towels which would work the petroleum deeper into your hair. If you're trying to get Vaseline out of your own hair, you may want to ask a friend to help you blot the areas you can't see yourself such as the back of your head. Sprinkle cornstarch, baking soda, or cornmeal powder into the hair. Once you've removed the excess Vaseline, coat the greasy hair with cornstarch, baking soda, or cornmeal powder. Use paper towels or your fingers to lightly pat the powder into your hair so the greasy area is completely coated. Avoid using baby powder or crushed talc. If you accidentally inhale them, the talc will cause respiratory problems. Wash your hair with warm water and clarifying shampoo. While you can use your regular shampoo to try to remove the Vaseline, use 1 that's labeled deep-cleansing or clarifying. These stronger shampoos are made to strip hair and styling products from your hair. Don't use cold water to wash your hair since this can make the Vaseline clump and thicken. Shampoo and rinse your hair again. Once you've rinsed out the cornstarch and clarifying shampoo, shampoo your hair 1 more time. Rinse the hair with warm water to remove even more Vaseline. Keep rinsing until the water runs clear instead of cloudy or soapy. Apply a conditioner and rinse it out. Because clarifying shampoos can strip your hair of its natural oils and dry it out, use a moisturizing conditioner. Follow the product instructions, then rinse the conditioner out with cool water to seal the hair cuticle. For example, some conditioners will direct you to massage it into wet hair for a few minutes and then let the conditioner rest in your hair for a few more minutes before you rinse it out. Blot your hair dry and comb your hair. Press towels against your wet hair to blot most of the moisture. Don't rub or pull on your hair to avoid damaging it. Once your hair is damp, use a comb to detangle it. You shouldn't feel any Vaseline in your hair or on the comb. Repeat the process in 12 to 24 hours if necessary. If your hair still feels greasy and you don't think you got all of the Vaseline out, wait 12 to 24 hours. Then apply more cornstarch to the greasy areas, wash your hair with clarifying shampoo, rinse it out, and condition your hair. Remember to blot your hair dry and let it finish drying on its own. Massage your hair with oil for 10 minutes before you shampoo. To make the shampoo more effective at removing the Vaseline, get oil from your pantry. Rub 2 tablespoons (30 ml) of coconut oil, olive oil, jojoba oil, baby oil, or almond oil into the greasy part of your hair. Then wash your hair a few times with a clarifying shampoo. Massaging the oil will work it deep into the Vaseline-coated hair. This will make the clarifying shampoo more effective at lifting the Vaseline. If you choose to use coconut oil, make sure you warm it in the microwave just long enough for it to melt. This usually takes 15-20 seconds. Use a skin-safe grease or adhesive remover. Buy a product that's safe to use on your skin such as Goo Gone. These removers are designed to dilute and lift grease and may be able to break down the oil in the petroleum. Squirt about 1 teaspoon (4.9 ml) of the product into your hand and rub it through the greasy area. Rinse off the remover with warm water until the water runs clear. Although the remover should be safe for your skin, ensure that it doesn't get into your eyes, nose, or ears. Use liquid dish soap with degreaser to cut through the oil. Squirt a few spoonfuls of the liquid dish soap into the palms of your hands and rub it through the greasy hair. Rinse the soap out with warm water until the water runs clear and there aren't any bubbles. Consider using a conditioner after using the dish soap because the dish soap will strip your hair of its natural oils. Be careful not to get any detergent in your eyes. Try using a detachable shower head to rinse your hair. This way you can hold it up to your scalp and use your free hand to shield your eyes. | Blot your hair with paper towels. Sprinkle cornstarch, baking soda, or cornmeal powder into the hair. Wash your hair with warm water and clarifying shampoo. Shampoo and rinse your hair again. Apply a conditioner and rinse it out. Blot your hair dry and comb your hair. Repeat the process in 12 to 24 hours if necessary. Massage your hair with oil for 10 minutes before you shampoo. Use a skin-safe grease or adhesive remover. Use liquid dish soap with degreaser to cut through the oil. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Write-Policies-and-Procedures-for-Your-Business | How to Write Policies and Procedures for Your Business | To write policies and procedures for your business, start by making a list of all the policies and procedures that you think deserve formal outlining and direction. Then, divide all of the policies into categories, like safety, scheduling, and benefits, and write them out using an outline format. You should also include appropriate consequences for breaking each policy. To write your procedures, start by breaking each procedure down into several steps. Then, outline the steps using active, easy-to-understand language. | Make a list of goals. As a manager or business owner, you know best the goals for your company. Consider things like sales goals, goals for employees and management, and where you would like to see your business a few years down the road. Try to make your goals not only as specific as possible, but also attainable and worthy of working towards. For example, set financial goals that are within probability for your business, and set goals for employee performance that are achievable through following the policies and procedures you will set. Once you've set the goals, make sure you are ready to commit to them as a business owner or manager. Setting goals is an important first step in crafting policies and procedures. Of course, following through is equally as important. Write down a list of tasks and procedures. Think about the day-to-day happenings and duties in your business. Write down each task that would need to be done each day to keep things running smoothly. Consider the following: what tasks will need formal outlining or directions? Which procedures will need to be done consistently the same way? Rather than focusing on menial tasks that won't need much instruction, focus on the bigger picture items. Create a list of possible problems and their potential solutions. Policies exist in business to keep things running smoothly and to hold employees and managers to certain standards of performance. Think about the problems that could arise if there are no policies in place. This will help you come up with the policies themselves. While thinking of potential issues, come up with brief ideas for how you might solve or correct them. Think of issues surrounding the day-to-day activities of your business, such a financials, interactions between employees and customers, and employee behavior and conduct. Make a list of policy categories. Once you have considered different possible issues you want your policies to address, come up with categories for them. For example, you might use categories like safety, scheduling, conduct, pay, benefits, vacation or leave, and discrimination. When it comes time to compile a manual, having policies already separated into categories will help you organize the manual and keep these sections together. It will also help you decide what is most important, and be able to address those things in more detail. Use an outline format to detail different policies under each category. Outlines allow you to explore deeper aspects of each policy or category, adding in stipulations and specifics as you go. Use numbers to order each section or category. Start with a brief, shorthand outline. Later, once you've gone through once and written down all your initial ideas, you can go back through and lengthen the sections accordingly. Come up with appropriate consequences for breaking policy. Policies allow your business to function properly while holding employees and management to certain standards. They also will serve as a written document that outlines how to handle things when the policy is disrupted or broken. This is especially important when and if any action needs to be taken following the disruption. Policies, when written in a formal document, can outline any legal rights and obligations of your employees and of the company. In the US, this includes information regarding the Americans with Disabilities Act, taxes, and laws that prohibit discrimination and harassment in the workplace. Make sure you include information on applicable federal and state laws when crafting your policies. Have clear policies regarding termination. Should you ever have to fire an employee for breaking policies, the written policies themselves will serve as evidence if that employee argues they were terminated unfairly. Make sure you have a section in your policies regarding what will constitute termination. You should also have policies regarding hiring. For example, you might require background checks prior to employment, or a probationary period after hiring before employment becomes permanent. Make sure you outline and set these terms clearly. Use clear, active language. Make sure you write all policies clearly and in such a way that could not be misunderstood or misconstrued. If there are other interpretations of the policy, consider rewriting it. For example, instead of saying something like “Some circumstances may allow for extra sick days,” you might say something like “Extra sick days can only be approved at the explicit consent of the manager on duty.” Determine which tasks need detailed, outlined procedures. Not every average task or incident will need detailed instructions for handling or carrying out. Prioritize the tasks or procedures that need to be done with consistency, such as payroll or scheduling. When deciding which procedures to outline in detail, consider the following: is the procedure lengthy or complex? Would the consequences of doing it incorrectly be severe? Have there been recent important changes implemented to it? Does the procedure require any extensive or important paperwork? Are employees frequently confused by it? Collect necessary information for each procedure. Before you can detail the procedure, you will need to know every step and aspect of it. Consider employee questions that have been raised in the past, and issues you may have already encountered. Even once you have all the information, you will want to stick to the basics when writing the procedure itself. Think about what the reader or employee will need to be able to understand and carry out the procedure. Use all information to write clear procedures. Use an active voice when writing the procedures themselves. Try to avoid being too wordy. Make sure you aren't using language that isn't easily understood, including any jargon that an employee might not understand yet. For example, rather than saying “The pay stubs must then be filed with accounting,” you might say something like “File the pay stubs with accounting.” Include a section on anti-discrimination policies. All business owners in the US must adhere to certain anti-discriminatory policies set forth by the government. Make sure you include information on these policies along with how you expect employees to adhere to them as well. Equal opportunity employment information should be included within the policies, as well as the Americans with Disabilities Act, and policies against harassment. You can find information in this through the US Small Business Administration. Make sure your policies are legal. Through the US Small Business Administration, and the Bureau of Economic and Business Affairs, make sure any and all policies you have set forth are legal and fair. The US Department of State offers great online resources for all business owners to find the information they need. You might consider having a business attorney look over your policies before mandating them to your employees. As a business owner, having a lawyer you can consult with on a regular basis is a good tool. Have employees sign any new drafts of your policies and procedures. New hires should be required to agree to and sign the policies and procedures document, as well as be given a copy of them for reference. In addition, any changes made should be re-signed by all employees. This will assure they are held to these policies should any legal action be taken by either party in the future. Minors cannot legally agree to contracts. Make sure if you are hiring anyone under the age of 18, they have written permission from a guardian to enter into the contract, as their parent or guardian could legally cancel the contract. Organize information into a logical order. Start with the more encompassing issues, then narrow down into the smaller ones. For example, rather than starting with the category of compensation, you might start the manual with the category of hiring processes or eligibility. Consider opening the manual with a description of your company's goals, as you originally outlined them. Write a cohesive, clear paragraph or two that briefly overviews the manual, what your employees can expect from the company, and what the company expects of them. Use the outlining style to create subcategories within the manual. Use a table of contents once you're finished to allow for quick reference. Use images, charts, or diagrams. Some people are more visual than others, so having diagrams, charts, or images in your manual can help different types of employees grasp the concepts in it. These types of images can simplify different procedures and policies alike. For example, you might make a chart or table that lists different position titles and their duties as a quick point of reference. You could also use a table that includes questions and answers for employees to use and reference as needed. Make the manual accessible to all employees. Ideally, new employees will receive a copy of the manual upon hire, and existing employees will get new copies when any revisions are made. You might consider having employees sign a contract stating that they understand the things outlined in the manual, and agree to them. Keep copies of the manual on hand at your place of business, as well as digital copies for you to access and revise as needed. The goal is to make sure these policies and procedures are both understood and carried out properly, and should issues arise, the manual can be there to guide the course of action. | Make a list of goals. Write down a list of tasks and procedures. Create a list of possible problems and their potential solutions. Make a list of policy categories. Use an outline format to detail different policies under each category. Come up with appropriate consequences for breaking policy. Have clear policies regarding termination. Use clear, active language. Determine which tasks need detailed, outlined procedures. Collect necessary information for each procedure. Use all information to write clear procedures. Include a section on anti-discrimination policies. Make sure your policies are legal. Have employees sign any new drafts of your policies and procedures. Organize information into a logical order. Use images, charts, or diagrams. Make the manual accessible to all employees. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Start-a-Conversation-with-a-Stranger | How to Start a Conversation with a Stranger | To start a conversation with a stranger, make eye contact with them and smile as you approach them so you appear friendly. Begin the conversation with small talk, like saying "I can't believe it's raining so much." Alternatively, look for a sign that they have something in common with you, such as remarking "I like your bike. I have the same one. What year is it?" If you're at a social event, get the host or a mutual friend to introduce you to the stranger you want to talk to, then introduce yourself. | Make eye contact before you approach. Eye contact shows interest and connection. If the person meets your gaze, you're off to a good start. Smile warmly, and make your way towards them. If they look away or appear disinterested, try making eye contact with someone else. Catch the person's eye, but don't glance away too quickly or stare them down. Hold eye contact for less than 2 seconds. Examine the person’s body language. Approach someone who has their arms and legs uncrossed and isn't busy or distracted by something (or someone) else. Once you start talking, notice whether the person is leaning toward you and actively engaged in conversation with you. Keep monitoring their body language as you speak. You might find that you focus so much on how you feel and come across that you miss cues about how the other person feels. Shift gears and start paying attention to how they look and if they appear comfortable. Make small talk if you want to build the conversation. It might be awkward if you open your conversation with a very personal question or deep inquiry. Start gradually by making some small talk. Comment about the weather, ask them about their weekend (or plans for the upcoming weekend), and be genuinely curious about their response. You can comment about the simplest thing and build a conversation off of that. For example, say, “I can't believe it's raining so much! I think I'll have to buy an industrial strength umbrella at this rate!” Ask open-ended questions to learn more about the person. Whether you're talking to a stranger in the doctor's office, the checkout person at the grocery store, or a cute guy or girl you see on the airplane, one of the best ways to start a conversation is by using open-ended questions. You want to get to know them, but don't lead with a personal question. Keep it light and casual. For example, if you're talking to a grocery clerk, ask them, “Have you tried this food before? What did you think?” Give the person a compliment if you like something about them. Most people enjoy receiving compliments, so this is a great way to start talking to someone. Notice something you like about the person and say something nice. Compliments make people feel good and more open to talking. Say, “I love your purse. It goes so well with your outfit.” If you want to be a little flirty, comment on the person's eyes, smile, or hair. Say, “You have a really pretty smile” or, “I love the color of your hair.” Disclose a little about yourself if you want to make them feel comfortable. Don't go into a long story about your ex or your boring workday. Instead, reveal a little about yourself to get the conversation started. Talking about yourself will show that you're open and will encourage the other person to be open, too. For example, say, “I'm getting a dog today and I'm so excited. Do you have any pets?” Find something that you have in common. One of the quickest ways to get to know somebody new is by finding a common interest. There might be something you notice off the bat (like that they're wearing a hat from the university you attended) or you might ask about their hobbies if you see a pair of boxing gloves or a gym bag. Then, build upon what you share. For example, say, “I like your bike! I have the same one. What year is it?” You can also say, “How old is your dog? I have a puppy at home – they've got so much energy!” Be respectful of physical boundaries. Avoid touching someone you've just met, unless the situation calls for it. For example, if you've just been introduced to someone, a friendly handshake is fine. However, going in for a hug is usually not appropriate. People may also feel uncomfortable if you stand too close to them or crowd them. Even if you're trying to offer someone physical assistance, ask their permission before touching them. For example, if you see someone trip and fall, ask, “Do you need help getting up? Can I take your hand?” Walk away from an unsuccessful attempt. Some strangers will be happy to talk to you while others may want their space. If someone appears clearly disinterested, moves away from you, or gives you short, one-word answers, it's probably time to move on. Try talking to someone else, instead. You can thank the person for their time and move away from them. Try mingling to see where you feel most comfortable. Most people attend social events to have a good time. Your opportunities should be plentiful to talk to people as most will be open to conversing with others. Try mingling and finding someone you want to talk to one-on-one. It's likely that social opportunities will arise without much effort. Talk to someone who easily engages you and makes you feel comfortable. Ask the host or a mutual friend to introduce you to people. Having a mutual friend can make a party or social event much easier. If you know someone there, have them introduce you to a new person and tell you a bit about them. This can help break the ice and give you an 'in' with another partygoer. You can ask the person how they know your friend or how they met. For example, your mutual friend might say, “Aya, this is Annie. You both enjoy mountain biking and I thought you should meet.” Ask questions related to the event. The social event itself can provide a good starting point for conversations. Ask someone how they knew about the event or who else they know there. You can also ask logistical questions, such as, “Do you know what time things kick off?” or, “What time does the speaker come on? It's my first time here.” Go up to someone and ask, “How did you hear about this party?” or, “It's hard to get an invite here. Who else do you know?” Gather around food or drinks. There's a reason why people meet up over food, as food naturally brings people together. If you're at a social event and want to talk to someone new, get to know them near the food table or ask to sit (or stand) next to them while eating together. It's easy to comment on food and create a conversation around it. Ask someone if they want a drink and go get it for them or stand next to them in the food line and strike up a conversation about the food. For example, you can say, “I really like this drink. What do you think?” You can also say, “Wow, have you tried the bread? I recommend having a slice. What do you think they seasoned it with?” Join in on an activity that other people are doing together. If you see some people about to start a game or go do an activity, ask to join in. Breaking off into a smaller group of people can help you feel more comfortable and make speaking to someone specific easier. For example, if people are going to go watch a television show or a video clip together, go along. Then, ask someone, “What other television shows do you watch?” and find some commonalities to talk about. Offer some help. If someone looks lost and you know the area, offer to help them navigate. Giving some help is not only a kind thing to do, it can also open up a conversation. Maybe you and the person are going the same direction and can walk together. Whether it's someone who looks lost or another person who needs help with their groceries, be willing to lend a hand. It might lead to making a new friend. Ask them where they’re from. Especially if you're in a big city or somewhere that gets regular visitors, asking someone where they're from can be a great conversation opener. Learning someone's story of how they came to live or vacation there is almost always interesting and is a talking point you can build upon. For example, if you're at a concert, ask the person next to you where they're from. Maybe they traveled a long distance to get there or they randomly showed up. Use humor to make them laugh. Humor is one of the easiest ways to connect with people, especially if they're strangers. People tend to feel more open and comfortable when laughing. Point out something funny happening around you and share the experience with someone you don't know. Say a joke, make a comment, or show them something funny that you noticed. Join in with an activity. If you're in a public space with lots of people, get involved with an event or gathering of people. For example, if there's a drum circle, join in and make some music. If you see a street performer, stop and watch with other people. Not only can these be fun experiences, they can also bring you together with other people who have stopped. Then, initiate a conversation over a shared experience. Attend free concerts and food festivals. See what events happen in your community and show up with the intent of meeting people. Comment about something work-related. When meeting someone in a professional context, try to keep it work-related and professional at first. You might not want to get buddy-buddy with them upfront as this might look and feel unprofessional, especially if you're in a professional setting. Talk about work and any things you have in common. For example, you can say, “We're on the same project together. Hi, I'm Trevor.” Give positive feedback to someone. If you notice good work from somebody, comment on it. If you agree with somebody, say so out loud. If you're in a meeting, then talk to the person after the meeting to agree with them or discuss things further. For example, say, “I loved your presentation. I usually get bored, but yours was interesting and informative. Where did you find your videos?” Ask for advice. If you know that the person is an expert in an area that you'd like to know more about, ask them for information or helpful tips. Most people enjoy sharing their knowledge with others, and are pleased when people take an interest in what they do. For example, you might say, “Wow, you really know a lot about photo editing. Can you recommend some good software for a beginner?” Keep away from unprofessional topics that might turn the person off. There are certain topics that are rude or distasteful to bring up with a stranger, especially in a professional context. For example, don't go up to a woman and remark on her pregnancy. Stay away from political affiliation, religion, appearance (including weight), or overly personal disclosures (like that you're getting a divorce or that your uncle just died). Keep conversations neutral and not controversial. Choose neutral topics of interest, such as work-related events, conferences, and mutual friends. | Make eye contact before you approach. Examine the person’s body language. Make small talk if you want to build the conversation. Ask open-ended questions to learn more about the person. Give the person a compliment if you like something about them. Disclose a little about yourself if you want to make them feel comfortable. Find something that you have in common. Be respectful of physical boundaries. Walk away from an unsuccessful attempt. Try mingling to see where you feel most comfortable. Ask the host or a mutual friend to introduce you to people. Ask questions related to the event. Gather around food or drinks. Join in on an activity that other people are doing together. Offer some help. Ask them where they’re from. Use humor to make them laugh. Join in with an activity. Comment about something work-related. Give positive feedback to someone. Ask for advice. Keep away from unprofessional topics that might turn the person off. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Discipline-a-4-Year-Old | How to Discipline a 4 Year Old | To discipline a 4 year-old, start by establishing rules with your child. At most, you should create 4 or 5 clear rules that, if broken, will have consequences, like going to "time-out" or having to go to the "naughty chair." Keep in mind that corporal punishment, like spanking, is not effective and can be very damaging for children. You can also prevent the need for discipline by keeping your child entertained with toys, games, and stories and by sectioning off spaces where they are likely to get into trouble. | Set up your home to prevent the need to discipline. You can create an environment in your home that saves you and your child from the needing to work on discipline unless it is necessary. By setting your home up so that it is safe and child-friendly, you will prevent having to create too many rules or say “no” too often throughout the day. Use child-proofing devices to keep cupboards closed. Close doors to rooms where young children won't be safe if they are on their own. Use child-proof barriers or gates to block unsafe areas like stairs. Have lots of things for children to play with. Young children love to play, and playing is important to their healthy development. You don't need to have expensive toys – children can have a wonderful play time with cardboard boxes, inexpensive toys, or pots and pans. Sometimes the simplest things can spark children's imagination, so if you cannot afford expensive toys, do not feel guilty. Bring toys and snacks with you when you leave home. Children can misbehave when they are bored or hungry. Be sure that you leave home with toys your child enjoys playing with and with snacks that are healthy and appealing. Work with your child to create age-appropriate rules. Children who are four years old will probably enjoy being active participants in creating rules. Take the time to work with your child to make rules that are reasonable. This will help your child to have a clear sense of your expectations. Because they participated in creating the rules, they will be more willing to follow them and you will be helping them to learn self-control. Choose rules carefully and don’t make too many rules. Children this age will be overwhelmed if there are too many rules to remember. A four-year-old might ignore rules if there are too many, or could feel frustrated and act out that frustration trying to follow too many rules. Work with caregivers to help them understand the rules you and your child have agreed upon. Do not use punishment especially corporal punishment. It used to be more common to teach children how to act by punishing undesirable behaviour. Experts in early childhood development brain scientists, education experts, and psychologists now agree that punishment is not the best way to help children learn desirable behaviours. Children grow up healthier and happier when they are disciplined using more positive methods. The science is in on the efficacy of corporal punishment: spanking or otherwise hitting children, including young children, does not work and has all kinds of negative effects. Reliable scientific studies have shown that spanking or other forms of hitting children can alter their brain development, predispose them to mood disorders later in life, and actually keep them from learning how to control their own behaviour. Understand why children misbehave. Young children might misbehave because they are hungry, tired, or bored. Or, they might not understand the rules that you have set out for them. Children might also misbehave because they are confused or because they do not want to stop doing something. If a child asks you questions about the rules you have set up, then that is a clue that they do not understand what is expected of them. Take the time to help the child understand what is expected of them. Use clear and simple language, and be prepared to patiently repeat the information now and later on. Be flexible. Four-year-olds need you to be flexible and patient. It is absolutely normal for children this age to not be able to follow rules all the time. When children make mistakes, the best tactic is to be supportive instead of angry. When a mistake happens, turn this into a learning opportunity for you and your child. Talk with your child about what she or he can learn from the experience and why it is important for them to follow the rule in the future. Be supportive and respectful when your four-year-old makes a mistake. Children this age are not capable of acting perfectly. They are learning what rules are and how to follow them – making mistakes is a normal and important part of the learning process. If your child makes a mistake for example, going into a bedroom and waking up a family member who is sleeping, even though the rule is to allow that person to sleep in after working late understand that your child is truly not capable of doing things perfectly. Affection for their family member might overwhelm their desire to follow the rules at this age. Patiently talking with your child is the best approach. Be consistent with rules. Kids need consistency so it's clear to them what is and isn't okay. If you allow something one day and not the next, a four-year-old can easily be confused. This confusion can lead to behaviour that you see as misbehaviour but is just your child's response to a situation that they do not understand. If you decide that after-preschool snacks should be fruit or vegetables only, when you have allowed candy or other treats in the past, then be sure to talk with your child about the change and then stick to your plan. Going back to cookies and milk will confuse your child. Four-year-olds who are confused about a rule might start to ignore a rule. Remember that this is not the child's fault. It is important to be consistent so that your child is able to understand what is expected of them. Share stories about rules and routines. Four-year-olds love stories, and stories are an important way for young children to learn about themselves, others, and the world. Stories can help children to cope with the feelings they have and help them to know that they are not the only one who has a particular type of experience. Sharing stories with young children can help them to feel that their caregivers understand how they feel. One classic children's book about rules is “Where The Wild Things Are,” by Maurice Sendak. The main character, Max, breaks the rules in this book. Children may enjoy discussing this story and applying Max's situation to their own life experiences. Guide children to change their behaviour. When you need to intervene to help a child to change her or his behavior, start by giving the child the time she or he needs to respond. Your voice should be calm and firm, and you should go to your child and bend over so that the two of you can communicate directly with eye contact. Then tell your child what you would like her or him to stop doing, and what she or he should do instead. If your child will need to stop doing something they enjoy, make sure to prepare them for the change. For example, let them know that bedtime is coming in five minutes so that they have the time they need to prepare for the change. Use age-appropriate "consequences. " The most effective use of consequences is combined with reasoning, or verbally helping the child understand and connect his actions to the given consequences. However, this is not enough. Consequences must be consistent and followed through with in order to be effective in changing behavior. "Time-outs" or using a " time-out stool " are popular ways to help children understand consequences and to calm down when they have misbehaved. Choose four or five rules that, if broken, will result in the child having to sit in a calm boring spot for a "time-out" or time on the "naughty chair." Make sure the child understands in advance what rules will result in a time-out. Each time the child breaks one of the rules, assign them in a calm and neutral manner - to their time-out space. Experts recommend no more than one minute per year of a child's age for time-outs (i.e., a maximum of four minutes for a four-year-old). When the time-out is finished, praise your child for successfully completing their time-out. Another possible "consequence" some parents use is removing the object or stopping the activity involved in the child's undesirable behavior. Remove the object temporarily or stop an activity and move on to doing something else. If you choose to use consequences, then make sure to follow the child's undesirable behavior immediately with the consequence. Four-year-olds are not able to "connect the dots" otherwise. Give positive feedback for a job well done. When your child cooperates, always be sure to praise him or her. All children, but especially young children, benefit from having their accomplishments praised. This builds their self-confidence, but is also a positive way of reinforcing the correct behavior. | Set up your home to prevent the need to discipline. Have lots of things for children to play with. Bring toys and snacks with you when you leave home. Work with your child to create age-appropriate rules. Choose rules carefully and don’t make too many rules. Do not use punishment especially corporal punishment. Understand why children misbehave. Be flexible. Be consistent with rules. Share stories about rules and routines. Guide children to change their behaviour. Use age-appropriate "consequences. Give positive feedback for a job well done. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Money-As-a-Webcam-Model | How to Make Money As a Webcam Model | To make money as a webcam model, start by joining a webcam site that uses a tipping system so you can make your profit. While you're comparing websites, choose the one that gives you a larger percentage of the profits. When you set up your profile, try to incorporate keywords that a lot of viewers are looking for, like, “Curvy,” “Busty,” and “Cute,” to help attract your target audience. You should also try to let your fun, playful personality shine through, which is equally important to creating your own brand. When your viewers comment on your streams, try to respond to them as much as possible and perform their requests if you feel comfortable to encourage them to tip you and come back for more. You can also make your videos look more professional by getting a good quality camera and studio lighting when you can afford it. | Find a site that hosts streaming webcam videos. Many sites host videos but keep in mind that all of them take a percentage of what you make. Therefore, it's a good idea to shop around and find the best deal overall. Don't be fooled by the phrase "make up to X amount," as that just tells you what the top earners are making. Instead, look at what percentage they take from your overall tips. It's also smart to look at reviews of each site. You may find that some sites are considered better because they offer better traffic or less restrictive rules. Sites can take anywhere from 20% to 70% of the profits. Review the token or tipping system. Before deciding on a site, take a look at how its tipping system works. Many sites work on a token system, where customers buy tokens and then spend them on live webcam videos like yours. However, typically these systems aren't 1-to-1 with any currency, meaning 1 token doesn't equal $1 USD or whatever currency you're using. It's a good idea to figure out the tipping system so you know what you're making when the tokens roll in. Set up your home studio with a webcam and lighting. You can start out with just your computer or phone's camera and basic home lighting. However, the better quality you have, the more likely you are to draw customers. Think about your background and what you want your customers to see when you go live. For instance, if you want to set a romantic mood, try softly lighting up your face and then having candles in the background. Pick a unique screen name to distinguish yourself from other models. A screen name can help set your brand. For instance, choose a fun and cutesy nickname if that's how you plan to act on camera. If you're more into music or art, you may want to focus on that. In the end, though, the most important thing is it must be unique. You may not want to use your real first name when setting up a screen name. While webcamming is generally safe, using any real information can give bad guys tips on how to find you offline and things like blackmailing and doxing can happen if you're not careful. Block out countries or states if your website allows it. If you're going to be on the internet, you must come to terms with the fact that people you know may see you. However, to make it easier on you, some sites allow you to block access from certain countries, so you're less likely to be seen by someone you know. That way, you can block access to the state you live in or the country. Add descriptions to your profile to help with search results. Many customers are looking for particular things. You can use physical descriptions, such as "curvy," "thick," and/or "busty." You can also add words that describe what you'd like to do on your channel, such as "flirting," "playing music," and/or "eating." Try to come up with a brand and stick with it. For instance, maybe you want to focus on playing artsy music most of the time with a little bit of sexual fantasy on the side. Focus on words that would draw users to your channel, such as "guitar," "acoustic," or "playing naked." Set up a wishlist on a website like Amazon. While tips are the main way you'll make money, you can also be rewarded in other ways, such as when customers buy items off your wishlist and send them to you. You can put anything you want on your wishlist, set it to public, and then post it on your profile. Make sure to keep your address private when creating the list. Also, it's a good idea to set up a PO box to help keep your own address anonymous. Decide what you're willing to do before you go live. You need to have boundaries, as customers will ask you to do all kinds of things. You can say "no" to whatever you want, but you should decide ahead of time what you feel okay doing and what you don't feel okay doing. For instance, you may be willing to do partial nudity but not full nudity. You may be willing to perform certain sexual acts but not others, or you may decide you don't want to do any kind of sexual act at all. There's a niche out there for every kind of channel, but in general, you tend to get more money if you are willing to do more. Stay on for at least 2-3 hours each time you get on. If you just log on for an hour and go offline, you're less likely to draw people in. Traffic can increase at odd times, so you should commit to several hours in hopes of hitting the site when traffic is higher. After working a while, you will likely be able to gauge better when traffic is going to be higher. Focus on your personality to draw people in. Looks are far less important than your personality. No matter what you look like, someone out there will find you attractive. However, most successful webcammers gain followers by being themselves and engaging customers in conversations. You can have a "hook," like putting on makeup, reading books, or even eating, but you can also just sit and chat with people. Think of the people on the other end as your friends and just chat to the camera like you're chatting to them. Use your customers' responses to keep the conversation going! When they respond to what you're saying by text, read it out loud and respond on camera. Watch your customers' requests to increase your chances of tips. While you're online, your customers may make requests of you. Some of these may be sexual, though not all of them will be. For instance, some people may want you to do something as simple as sing a song. Depending on the website, customers may pay more to go to a private chat. You still have control over what you do, though! Develop relationships with your customers. You don't have to (or probably even want to, for safety's sake) give out your number or home address. However, you will likely develop regular customers who visit often. While webcamming is sexual, it's also just about hanging out with a group of people for several hours. Talk to them and respond to their questions as much as you're able. Try not to get discouraged when you don't make as many tips. It takes time to build up followers, and you're going to have days when you don't make anything at all. However, if you're consistently having those days, you may want to rethink how you're running your channel. Have fun while you're on camera. Try not to look like you're bored out of your mind! That turns customers off. On the other hand, trying too hard can be just as much of a turnoff. Generally, customers are looking for real people just being themselves so just enjoy yourself and have fun! If you're not a bouncy, flirty person, that's fine! However, you should show some enthusiasm for what you're doing. Treat your customers with kindness, as if you're talking to a friend. That is, the people who get on these sites tend to either by dedicated to their work or unhappily married. The common factor is they're lonely! So try things like asking how their day is going or what was good about work. Most of the time, they just want to feel like they're getting attention from somewhere. Curate an online presence off the webcam sites. You could set up social media sites dedicated to your webcam work to engage customers and expand your followers. It also helps to set up a personal website , particularly if you want to sell items on the side, as the webcam site may not allow you to sell items. Keep in mind, though, that the more expand your web presence, the more likely people you know are to find you. Work with other webcam models to increase traffic. While it can be difficult to make friends in the industry, working or even living with other webcam models can make it easier on you. For one thing, doing videos together will get you more views and higher traffic, as customers are always interested in something different. Plus, you can share lighting and other background equipment as needed. Try talking to other models in their shows. However, keep in mind that because the industry is so competitive, it may take a while to find other people who are receptive to the idea. You could also try finding people on social media and online forums. Sharing rent and other expenses will help keep your bills low. Run contests to drive traffic and tips. Contests can be anything you want them to be. For instance, you can pledge to write a song for the highest bidder or run a contest to see if you should cut your hair or not. Have people vote for either side by tipping you so that you make money off the contest! Of course, it has to be something you're willing to do and something that intrigues your customer base. Raffle off items to earn extra money. The items can be whatever you want, from something they see on camera all the time (a candle) to even things like a date or your underwear. You can also sell items on the side, such as photo sets or videos. Capitalize on what your customers seem to want! To raffle an item, show it on your live video. Ask people to bid, and at the end, ask the highest bidder to pay you on the site in tokens. Then get their address privately to send the item to them. | Find a site that hosts streaming webcam videos. Review the token or tipping system. Set up your home studio with a webcam and lighting. Pick a unique screen name to distinguish yourself from other models. Block out countries or states if your website allows it. Add descriptions to your profile to help with search results. Set up a wishlist on a website like Amazon. Decide what you're willing to do before you go live. Stay on for at least 2-3 hours each time you get on. Focus on your personality to draw people in. Watch your customers' requests to increase your chances of tips. Develop relationships with your customers. Try not to get discouraged when you don't make as many tips. Have fun while you're on camera. Treat your customers with kindness, as if you're talking to a friend. Curate an online presence off the webcam sites. Work with other webcam models to increase traffic. Run contests to drive traffic and tips. Raffle off items to earn extra money. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Apply-Rolled-Roofing | How to Apply Rolled Roofing | To apply rolled roofing, you'll need your roof measurements, a broom, chalk to mark lines, a razor blade to cut the material, roofing cement, nails, and a hammer to hold down the material. Visit your local hardware store and ask for enough rolled roofing to fit the area of your roof. At home, you'll need to lay out all the roofing on the ground, and use a razor to cut it into sections that will fit on your roof. When you're ready to lay it, use a broom to clean off the roof's surface. Once that's done, you can apply roofing cement to the area and press down the rolled roofing. To secure the squares, you'll need to hammer nails along the edge of each roofing piece. Then, you'll repeat this process until your entire roof is covered. | Measure your roof to find out how much material you need. If you can, get a friend or someone else to help you. Use a long measuring tape. If your roof is rectangular or square on either side, it's easy to work out the measurements. Measure the length and width and multiply them to find the area of the roof. If your roof is not uniform and has different sections of different sizes, measure 1 section at a time. Multiply each length and width to find the area of each section. Add the section areas together to find the total area of the roof. Get an extra 5-10% of material to account for overhangs and overlap. Purchase the appropriate amount of rolled roofing. Go to your local hardware or building supplies store and ask for enough rolled roofing to fit the area of your roof. Rolled roofing comes in rolls, much like carpet. You can cut the roll to fit corners and other areas. Take proper safety precautions when you're on your roof. For safety purposes, it's a good idea to have someone with you when you're walking around on a roof. Never go up on your roof when it's wet or if rain is forecast. Roofs become very slippery when wet. Even when it's dry, watch your footing and move slowly when walking on a slanted roof. Wear footwear with proper grip on the soles. Don't go up on your roof with canvas shoes or sneakers on. Clean the roof before starting the roofing. Before you apply your rolled roofing, you should make sure it's free of excess dirt, grime, or any other substance. Use a brush to sweep away any leaves and dirt or use a leaf blower to blow debris from the top down to the edges. If you can, hose down the roof from the ground or a ladder. Wear long pants, work gloves, and shoes with deep ridges so they have a good grip. Never go on top of the roof to hose it. Hose it from a safe area where you are in no danger of falling from the roof. Make sure your roof is completely dry before installing your roofing. Have a friend with you to help or alert other people in case you lose your footing on the roof. If you have gutters, clear them out with gloves and a bucket. Lay all of your materials out on the floor. So you don't get confused later in the process, it's a good idea to take stock of all your items before you start. Roll out the roofing sheets and lay them flat on the ground. Place bricks in the corner to keep it down and reduce resistance later. If you're doing this in the winter, roll your roofing sheets out in a garage. Cold weather damages roofing sheets. Cut pieces into 12–18 feet (3.7–5.5 m) sections and lay them out flat in your yard. Let them flatten in the sun for a day. If the temperature drops below 45 °F (7 °C), keep the roofing in your garage or inside. Mark a chalk line to identify the end of your first layer. Using a measuring tape, measure 35 inches (89 cm) up from the bottom of the roof and make a mark with chalk. The measurement of 35 inches (89 cm) is the default measurement used by most roofing professionals. Use a ruler or meter stick to draw the chalk line across the roof. Avoid using eaves as guides as they are not necessarily placed at the same height across the roof. Apply roofing cement to the roof. Use a trowel to scoop up the roofing cement. Spread the roofing cement along the edges of your roof so it's about ⁄ 8 – ⁄ 4 inch (3.2–6.4 mm) thick. You can get roofing cement at the local hardware or building supplies store. Apply the cement in stages. Do the bottom part of the roof before you start working on that section, apply it to the middle before you start working there, and so on. Use the chalk lines as the borders of each section. Always wear gloves when working with roofing cement. Read the instructions on the side of the roofing cement container before you begin. Cut the rolled roofing to the right size using a razor knife. The rolled roofing should reach the chalk line when you lay it down and should stretch from 1 side of the roof to the other. You'll need to use plenty of pressure with the razor knife to cut the rolled roofing material. Place the first layer of rolled roofing on the roof. As you place the rolled roofing down, stretch it to get rid of wrinkles and creasing. Push the rolled roofing down into the wet cement to secure it to the roof. The first layer should cover the roof as far as the chalk line. Hammer nails into the rolled roofing to secure it. Make sure you use a strong hammer and 1 inch (2.5 cm) roofing nails. Hammer the nails in at 10 inches (25 cm) intervals across the roof. Ensure that you hammer the nails properly into the roof, don't leave the nails sticking up above the layer. Be careful when working with a hammer and nails on a roof. Make sure you have a stable grip on the roof. Measure and mark another chalk line above the first layer. Use your measuring tape again to measure up 32 inches (81 cm) above the first layer. The shorter length is because you'll be laying part of the second layer on top of the first layer. Draw the chalk line across the length of the roof. Apply roofing cement and secure the second layer to the roof. Get your trowel and another scoop of cement and apply it on the roof below the second chalk line. Once the cement is spread across the roof, it's time to place the second layer down. As mentioned above, place the first 6 inches (15 cm) of the second layer on top of the first layer. When nailing the second layer into the roof, make sure you nail the first and second layers together. Repeat this process for the rest of the roof. Cover the nails with cement to secure them in place. When you have all of your layers applied and your roof is covered in rolled roofing, use cement to cover your nails. This will seal the nails into the rolled roofing. Trim the edges of the layers and seal the edges. Use your razor knife to remove any excess rolled roofing. Take special note of the corners and edges of the roof. When you're finished trimming, test the edges to see if you can lift them. If you can lift the edges, use some more cement to seal them in place. Clean the rolled roofing before you finish. Have another look at the roofing and use a brush to remove any excess dirt or other materials. There shouldn't be that much dirt on the roof at this point of the process. Once the roof is clean, you're finished. | Measure your roof to find out how much material you need. Purchase the appropriate amount of rolled roofing. Take proper safety precautions when you're on your roof. Clean the roof before starting the roofing. Lay all of your materials out on the floor. Mark a chalk line to identify the end of your first layer. Apply roofing cement to the roof. Cut the rolled roofing to the right size using a razor knife. Place the first layer of rolled roofing on the roof. Hammer nails into the rolled roofing to secure it. Measure and mark another chalk line above the first layer. Apply roofing cement and secure the second layer to the roof. Cover the nails with cement to secure them in place. Trim the edges of the layers and seal the edges. Clean the rolled roofing before you finish. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Learn-Japanese | How to Learn Japanese | If you want to speak Japanese, start by watching Japanese movies or TV shows that fit your interests. You can also listen to Japanese audio learning CDs, which will help you get familiar with basic vocabulary words and pronunciation. Then, download flashcards from the internet to help you study vocabulary and simple phrases. If you'd like more guidance, try attending a local Japanese language class. | Learn the Japanese writing systems. Japanese language has four writing systems, each of which is composed of different characters. This may sound like a lot to learn, but every word in Japanese, regardless of which writing system it comes from, is pronounced with some combination of only 46 basic sounds. Sorting out the different writing systems and their uses is an important part of learning Japanese. Here's a brief overview: Hiragana is a Japanese syllabary, phonetic characters that make up one Japanese writing system. Unlike the English alphabet, each character stands for one syllable, which may include a vowel and a consonant sound. Katakana is also a syllabary, most often used for foreign words or onomatopoeic sounds (like bang or squeak). Together, hiragana and katakana account for the entire range of sounds in the Japanese language. Kanji are Chinese characters that were adopted as a Japanese writing system. Whereas hiragana and katakana are simply phonetic letters, kanji are ideograms, characters which have meaning. There are thousands of kanji characters, with about 2000 in common use. Hiragana and katakana were derived from these characters. The same 46 sounds that are used to pronounce hiragana and katakana are also used to pronounce kanji. The Latin alphabet is used in Japanese to write acronyms, company names, and other words for aesthetic reasons. Called Romaji ("Roman letters"), Japanese can also be written in Latin letters. This is not done in Japan, but it is used by beginning Japanese speakers to "spell out" Japanese characters. However, there are many sounds in Japanese which are difficult to express in Latin letters, and many homonyms (many more than English) which become confusing. Therefore, students of Japanese are encouraged to begin learning Japanese characters as soon as possible, and avoid using Latin letters as a crutch. Practice Japanese pronunciation. The 46 sounds in the Japanese language are composed of one of five vowel sounds or a combination of a vowel and a consonant, with the exception of one sound composed of only a consonant. Vowel sounds are not inflected (unlike in English, where "a" in apple vs ace are different). You can start practicing pronunciation by learning how to pronounce each character in hiragana and katakana. See this site for examples of how to pronounce the sounds. Focus on the intonation of the different sounds. Variations on the sounds change the meaning of the words you speak. A long syllable may have a completely different meaning from the same sound made shorter ("o" vs. "oo"). Learn variations on the basic sounds. Japanese characters may add marks to indicate that they should be pronounced slightly differently, sometimes changing the meaning of the words they make up. This similar to "s" sometimes sounding like "z" in English. Hard consonant sounds are pronounced with a hard stop in between two sounds. Long vowel sounds, pronounced by holding the vowel sound for an extra beat, are distinguished from short sounds, indicating a different word. Get to know Japanese grammar. Knowing a few basic grammatical rules will help you start understanding Japanese and creating your own sentences. Japanese grammar is simple and flexible, so it's easy to string words together in a way that makes sense. The subject is optional and may be omitted. The predicate is always at the end of the sentence. Nouns do not have gender. Most also don't have separate plural forms. Verbs do not change according to the subject (he/she/it). They also don't change according to number (singular/plural, like I/we or he/they). Particles, which mark words as subject, object, etc., always follow the word to which they relate. Personal pronouns (I, you, etc.) differ according to the level of politeness and formality that is needed in each situation. Get audio learning software. After learning the basics, it's time to get some outside instruction so you can improve your skills. If you are learning Japanese for fun because you like Japanese culture such as manga and anime or for travel, an audio learning CD might be all you need. Just spending an hour a day can build up grammar usage and teach you simple stock phrases and useful vocabulary. Listen to the software during your commute to work or have it ready on your portable music player for lunch and breaks or walks in the park. It isn't necessary to learn the reading and writing to enjoy the language and culture, so if you plan on taking a short trip to Japan, knowing a few useful phrases will be more practical than cramming obscure characters into your brain. Sign up for classes. If you are learning for business or you want to live in Japan, consider enrolling in a college level course, an intensive language program, or online classes. Learning to read and write will be crucial to your long term success, and having a mentor during the early stages is ideal for developing good study habits and asking all the questions you will have about Japanese language and culture. Study the writing systems. Begin studying all four writing styles early on if literacy is important for your purpose of learning the language. Hiragana and katakana can be learned in a few weeks, and you can use them to write anything you want in Japanese. Around 2,000 kanji are currently in common use in Japanese, so it typically takes several years to learn, but it's worth it if you want to actually be able to understand and speak Japanese. Use flashcards to learn vocabulary and simple phrases. They can be used while waiting for a meeting, on a train, and so on. Some free cards can be found on the web to get you started, or you can buy higher quality cards at most college bookstores or online. To practice kanji, look for cards that show stroke order (how to write the character) represented in calligraphy on one side and have example compound words on the other side. You can pick up a pack of blank 3x5 cards to make your own flash cards with exactly what you want to learn. Participate in class discussions and activities. Do all of your homework, raise your hand a lot, and be as involved as you can to make the most of language classes. If you don't, your skills will not improve. Join a Japanese language conversation group. Conversation groups abound and are usually easily found with a simple Internet search or phone call to your local civic center or library. Train your ears to pick out what is being said. Even if you don't understand it, try to repeat what was said so you can begin to pick it apart and develop comprehension. Make Japanese friends with whom you can regularly practice. Lots of Japanese people want to learn English, so you may be able to find some who are willing to help you in exchange for help in English. Simply having friends to trade notes with can help everyone improve their abilities. Do things with your friends that involve language but aren't "study time." If your Japanese friends haven't lived in your country very long, show them around town. Go sightseeing. Remember, you have to blow off steam regularly or you'll get stressed out about all those Kanji you have to memorize. Having fun is the best way to accomplish two goals at the same time. On the days when you don't have outings, call up a friend every day and have a half-hour conversation during which you speak only Japanese. The more practice you get, the faster you will improve. Consume Japanese media. Whether it's the newspaper, a novel, a movie, or a show, read or watch Japanese language media every day. There is lots of TV content on the internet, from comedy to game shows to drama. Find something which fits your interests and learning will be much easier. Japanese newspapers will expose you to the most practical vocabulary and grammar. As you improve, read novels, which will give you a warmer style of writing. Mix things up by watching classic Japanese films and anime without subtitles, or with Japanese character subtitles. Comic books (Manga) can make good reading material, but be aware that the level of sophistication varies greatly. A more mature, literary comic might be good practice (especially since the illustrations help you understand what you are reading), something intended for smaller children is likely to be full of sound effects and slang. Be careful about repeating what you've read in a comic book. Study in Japan. This is simply the best way to practically apply what you have learned and learn more. It's a very exciting and unpredictable experience to immerse yourself in another culture, even for a short period. Even if you have researched exhaustively, actually experiencing a place will expose you to things you could never have imagined. If you're enrolled in a college or university, ask about programs to study in Japan. This is one of the best ways to gain long-term exposure to Japanese language, and you may be eligible for financial aid. Don't be discouraged if you do not understand everything that is said to you or you can't read or write as well as you expected. It takes many years to become fluent in another language. The intricacies and nuances of the Japanese language make it difficult to master, but they are also part of its beauty. | Learn the Japanese writing systems. Practice Japanese pronunciation. Learn variations on the basic sounds. Get to know Japanese grammar. Get audio learning software. Sign up for classes. Join a Japanese language conversation group. Make Japanese friends with whom you can regularly practice. Consume Japanese media. Study in Japan. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Find-Rich-Men | How to Find Rich Men | To find rich men, consider working in industries like art, antiques, luxury cars, jets, and yachts where you're most likely to meet them. Charity events like silent auctions, golf tournaments, polo matches, and anything involving a cultural or medical institution are also excellent places to meet wealthy men. Additionally, try hanging out at upscale bars, lounges, and restaurants to increase your chances. | Watch their number grow. While wealth is a relative concept, many associate it with being a “millionaire.” Knowing the precise number of single millionaire men in the U.S., or the world for that matter, isn't a figure easily determined. What is clear, however, is that the overall number of millionaires is rising. In fact, 1 out of every 13 households (all kinds) in the U.S. has at least $1 million in assets. One out of every 100 has at least $25 million in assets. How are they making their money? In a variety of ways. Extremely wealthy men are often in business, working at hedge funds and in other areas of finance and investing. A growing number of men are making extreme amounts of money as tech and web entrepreneurs. And real estate; media, sports and entertainment; oil and gas; and other business ventures continue to be lucrative and popular areas. There are also a large number of men making very good money in medicine, dentistry, the law, engineering, and, one mustn't forget, in corner offices serving as CEOs. Take a closer look at who they are. In general, they work close to 60- to 80-hour weeks and are often self-made, wealthy men. They did well in school, took calculated risks, and have a long-term plan. They're also high energy, visionary and extremely confident. Many live surprisingly modestly, are generally upbeat and recognize they're not the smartest person in the room, at least not on every issue, so they surround themselves with people who can help them fill in the gaps, and to fulfill their vision. Yet their confidence frequently bleeds into narcissistic behavior, and they often lack empathy for others. Feeling a sense of entitlement isn't foreign to them either. Learn what they want in a woman. Not all men are the same, obviously, but there are some generalities. They gravitate toward fit, attractive women who are well dressed. They have a tendency to feel entitled (there's that word again) to “arm candy” or a woman who can plan social schedules, play hostess and the like. Yet when surveyed, roughly 90% of men who are high-achieving and considered either successful or highly successful want a woman with a brain and who is also successful. Some say, in fact, there's been a significant shift toward brains over beauty. Research shows that when men occupy a higher social standing than women, they tend to choose young and beautiful women as partners. When they are more equal in social standing, intelligence, kindness and a good sense of humor rise to the top. Either way, they can also see a gold-digger a mile away, some say; it's not in their nature to be gullible. If it were, many wouldn't be where they are in life. Additionally, according to one study, 75% of wealthy men also have sex more frequently and have more sexual partners than men with less money. Discover where they live. The wealthy in general are concentrated on the coasts. California, Florida and the northeast are particularly popular spots. Rich, single men are a bit more scattered, and there are a few surprises. According to a study done by a market research firm, these are the top 10 cities in which to find them: 1) the San Francisco Bay area, 2) Anchorage, AK, 3) Washington, D.C./Baltimore, 4) Sheboygan, WI, 5) Naples, FL, 6) Minneapolis/St.Paul, 7) Rochester, MN, 8) Boston, 9) Fort Walton Beach, FL and 10) Dallas. Move close to where they live. While you may not be able to afford the most exclusive neighborhoods or buildings, you can find something not terribly far from where the real money resides. Get as close as you can. Or settle for a shoe in the box, right in the middle. In doing so, you'll be running errands, walking your dog, jogging, drinking your coffee, etc., in the same areas. In doing so, you're absorbing the culture and meeting people. This provides opportunities to become more relaxed amongst the rich and to be noticed at no (more) additional cost to you. If you can't afford to move, simply start getting your groceries in upscale neighborhoods. Drive your car to the high-end park for your morning jog and so forth. Look the part. If you want to be rich, you need to [look] rich. If you don't look and act the part, you likely won't close the deal. You want your look to be sexy but not so much that it crosses the line into looking sleazy. Sexy but sophisticated is the way to go, investing in only a few classic pieces that can be worn with a variety of other things. Look for them at consignment shops and online at websites like eBay. Also invest in 1-2, second-hand and versatile designer handbags. Accessories such as jewelry are also important, but these are more easily faked. Pearls are classic, for instance, and don't need to be real, and a pair of cubic zirconium stud earrings and a matching necklace will never go out of style and won't cost a fortune. Know the dress code of any event you attend and make sure you adhere to it. If you're not sure, it's always best to be a bit overdressed than underdressed. Avoid over-tanning, wearing too much makeup, and coloring your hair in ways that looks unnatural as it's not generally a classy look. Talk their talk. Even if you may not have been educated in finance or political theory, you need to be well versed in the things rich men discuss. Since they are often big players in business and politics, gain knowledge in these areas through reading newspapers daily – particularly the New York Times and The Wall Street Journal – in addition to local political and business publications. When you're unfamiliar with terms, concepts and historical contexts, look them up online. Being able to hold an intelligent conversation will help you stand out from others, and there will be many others. Also spend time learning about the things the rich enjoy, such as horse racing, sailing, the arts, fine jewelry, various cuisines, luxury cars, etc. Act like money doesn’t matter. The surest way to be dismissed as a gold-digger is to start asking him questions about the size of his bank account(s). The second surest way is to ask how much something he owns cost. The third surest way is to ask how much something he buys you cost. Avoid these topics … as you would with anyone else. Additionally, be very careful when asking around about how much a man is worth as your snooping could very easily make its way back to him. Work in the right industries or professions. Considering they work 60-to-80 hour weeks, one way to meet them is to work with them, near them or for them. If you have an M.B.A all the better as this will qualify you for jobs in many of the industries in which they work. Alternatively, consider areas in which they spend their money, such as the sale of art; antiques; luxury cars, jets, homes and yachts. Also think of areas such as interior design, personal training, architecture, nursing, jobs at charitable organizations, and those at country clubs and so forth that will expose you to a large pool of wealthy men. Stay away from jobs, however, in which you will wear a uniform as it can create a psychological barrier between you and the rich men you want to meet. Attend charity events. Charity balls, silent auctions, golf tournaments, polo matches, and anything involving a cultural or medical institution are excellent places to meet rich men. Often the less familiar the cause the richer the donors as the filthy rich often take pride in supporting charities few have heard of. Now, because you often either have to be invited to these events or because tickets can cost over a thousand dollars, the way to get in is to volunteer, particularly in fundraising. This provides you a sneak peek at the guest list, an invitation and the chance to meet people. To find out about these events, search for charities online in your city or in cities nearby. To learn the largest donors to various causes, look at the Chronicle of Philanthropy. Go to the right sporting events. Men love sports. Rich men particularly love golf, polo, horse racing, sailing, skiing and tennis. Learn how these sports are played. Familiarize yourself with the best players, the most prestigious events and locations, and the current news in the sports. Also consider joining your local racquet club and learn to play tennis, get lessons in golfing, take boating lessons and so forth not only for exposure to the rich but also to show you know how to do the kinds of things the rich do. Hang out at upscale bars, lounges and restaurants. When rich men decide to dine, go out for a night on the town or travel, they expect the best so will only go to the finest establishments. That's where you'll want to be. Posh hotel bars and the bars of 4-star steakhouses, where they'll have a drink before eating, are excellent places to position yourself. For the more shy rich man, look for the swanky lounge in exclusive neighborhoods. Don't go with a gaggle of girlfriends and never with another male; instead, go with one or two of your friends instead. Go to gallery openings. Rich men buy homes, as in plural, which require art to adorn the walls. This, along with social invitations they naturally receive in this area, means they attend many art exhibits, openings and auctions. Start by attending free openings (after you've read up about art history) and then move on to becoming a member of museums (it's not very expensive and gives you access to a variety of events). Volunteer at strategic places. Just as with charity events, volunteers are needed at many places like hospitals, political and socially oriented nonprofit organizations, museums and the like that will potentially put you into direct contact with wealthy men. Don't, for instance, underestimate the wealth of physicians in the United States. Specialists in areas like urology, gastroenterology, invasive cardiology and surgical orthopedics make about $400,000-500,000/year on average. Hospital administrators can make over a million per year. Join a wealthy dating website or app, or hire a professional. There are several websites that claim to help the wealthy find mates, or the non-wealthy find rich mates. The top ones are MillionaireMatch.com, SeekingMillionaires.com, Onluxy.com and SugarDaddie.com (though this one is a bit suspect and should be regarded as such). There are also a number of “millionaire matchmakers” whom you can hire to set you up with the wealthy. There's no guarantee you'll be accepted by the matchmaker, so work toward having everything else in place first to increase your success rate before going this route. | Watch their number grow. Take a closer look at who they are. Learn what they want in a woman. Discover where they live. Move close to where they live. Look the part. Talk their talk. Act like money doesn’t matter. Work in the right industries or professions. Attend charity events. Go to the right sporting events. Hang out at upscale bars, lounges and restaurants. Go to gallery openings. Volunteer at strategic places. Join a wealthy dating website or app, or hire a professional. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Trypophobia | How to Overcome Trypophobia | To overcome trypophobia, try to reduce your anxiety by meditating, doing some yoga, or simply taking a hot shower. If you feel up to it, you can try exposure therapy by looking at images that make you uncomfortable for as long as you can stand. Additionally, you can write down your thoughts and feelings about the images to help you understand the effects of your phobia. It might also help to talk to a friend or family member about your fear, since talking about something can help reduce its impact. | Understand trypophobia. People who have trypophobia suffer from an irrational fear of clusters of holes. Some examples of triggers include bubbles, lotus flowers, and aerated chocolate. Trypophobes report nausea, trembling, and severe anxiety when confronted with their triggers. Unlike some phobias that may dominate people's thoughts, trypophobia seems only to affect sufferers when they see holes. Know that trypophobia may have an evolutionary basis. Although little is known about the origins of trypophobia, some scientists have speculated that the phobia may have an evolutionary basis. Some venomous or poisonous animals have clustered hole patterns on their skin, so the reactions that some people have may be a survival response. For example, the blue-ringed octopus, and several venomous snakes have visual features that may help explain trypophobia. Identify your triggers. It is important you know what types of clusters of holes trigger your anxiety and other negative effects so that you can begin to confront these objects. Make a list of all of the things that seem to set off your trypophobia and how you react to them. For example, are you bothered by bubbles or anything resembling bubbles? Do honeycomb patterns bother you or just actual honeycombs? Are you upset by certain animals because of the patterns on their skin? Try to identify as many triggers as possible. Try to describe how your triggers make you feel as well. Do you get nauseous? Do you feel anxious? Do you tremble? Identify the specific reactions that you have to your triggers. If one type of clustered hole pattern is scarier to you than another, try ranking the items on your list. That way you can start by dealing with the least frightening one on your list and work your way up. Try to discover the underlying causes of your fear. Some people can trace their trypophobia to an event, which may help you to understand and deal with your fear. Think back to when your trypophobia started. Do you remember when you first discovered that clusters of holes are revolting or frightening to you? Like all phobias, there isn't just one answer. For everyone, it is different. Try to discover what it is that disturbs you, whether it's a bad memory, a bad experience, or just simply disgust. Educate yourself. One way to reduce the anxiety caused by an irrational fear is to learn the truth about the thing that you are afraid of. By educating yourself about the source of your fear, you can demystify it. Learning more about a source of fear is a very effective way to overcome it. For example, if you feel anxious when you see a lotus pod, learn more about the lotus and why it develops clusters of holes. What purpose do they serve? Learning about the reason for the clustered holes will help you to confront the source of your fear and perhaps even appreciate the shape for the function it serves. Confront your fears. While your first reaction to a clustered hole pattern may be to get away from it or shut your eyes and try to think of something else, this will only reinforce your fear. Instead, force yourself to confront the source of your fear and the way it makes you feel. This type of therapy is known as exposure therapy and it is the most effective way to treat a phobia, but it requires repeated exposure. Over time, you should become less sensitive to the things that trigger your anxiety. For example, if you come face to face with a cluster of holes that causes you to feel anxious, take a deep breath and then examine your feelings. What does the object make you want to do? How does it make you feel? What is irrational about your feelings? Try writing out your response to trigger objects and reframing them as normal thoughts and feelings toward the object. For example, you might record something like, “I feel nauseous and anxious when I see a honeycomb. It make me want to throw up.” Then, recognize that this thought is irrational and rewrite your reaction as it should be if you did not have the phobia. For example, “I feel amazed by the pattern of the honeycomb and I want to eat the honey.” Practice yoga, meditation, or another relaxation technique. If your anxiety is just too severe to confront the object at first, try using a relaxation technique to reduce your anxiety. Yoga and meditation are great techniques for relaxation, but you might also try progressive muscle relaxation, deep breathing, or simply take a long soothing shower. Find something that works for you and use it to help you deal with anxiety from your triggers. Consider taking a yoga or meditation class to learn some basics exercises that you can use a on a daily basis. Take good care of yourself. Exercise, healthy food, and adequate are all important components of good mental health. Your trypophobia may be taking a toll on you, so it is important to put extra effort into maintaining your health. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, and adequate sleep can also help to keep your anxiety under control. Make sure that you are devoting enough time to meeting your basic needs for exercise, food, and sleep every day. Aim for 30 minutes of exercise per day. Eat a balanced diet of healthy whole foods like fruit, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins. Get 7-9 hours of sleep per night. Determine if you need to seek help from a mental health therapist. If your fear of holes has become so intense that it is interfering with your ability to carry out normal activities and enjoy your life, you should seek the help of a licensed mental health therapist. For example, if you start avoiding certain activities due to your fear, then it is time to get help. Other signs that you may need to seek help include: feeling disabled, panicky, or depressed because of your fear feeling like your fear is unreasonable dealing with the fear for more than 6 months Understand what you can expect from a mental health therapist. A therapist can help you to better understand your trypophobia and help you find ways to minimize its impact on your life. Keep in mind that dealing with a profound fear takes time and effort. It can take a while before your fears become manageable, but some people see a dramatic improvement in just 8-10 therapy sessions. Some of the strategies that your therapist might use include: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy If you are afraid of holes, you may have certain thought processes that intensify your fear. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a method that therapists use to get you to challenge your thoughts and identify the emotions associated with those thoughts. For example, you may think to yourself, “I can't go outside because I might see a flower that has holes in it.” Your therapist will challenge you to realize that this thought is unrealistic, perhaps by pointing out that the flower can't hurt you. Then, you will be challenge to revise the thought so that it is more realistic, such as, “I might see a flower with holes in it if I go outside, but it can't hurt me. I can always look away if it bothers me.” Exposure Therapy If you are afraid of holes, you may start avoiding certain situations, activities, and places that intensify your fear. Exposure therapy will force you to confront that fear head on. In this type of therapy, your therapist will either ask you to imagine that you are in the situation you have been avoiding or they will ask you to actually put yourself into the situation. For example, if you have been avoiding going outside because you are afraid you might see something with holes in it, your therapist may ask you to imagine that you are outside and surrounded by holes. Later, your therapist may challenge you to actually go outside and look at things with holes in them. Medications If your fear of holes is causing you to have severe anxiety or panic attacks, your therapist may refer you to a psychiatrist who can prescribe medicine that may help you. Keep in mind that the medicines used to treat anxiety associated with fear will only reduce your anxiety temporarily. They will not take care of the root cause. Discuss your fear of holes with someone you trust. It's always good to talk to someone about your fears or anxiety. Try to open up to someone about your fear to start dealing with it. Talk to a family member, a friend, or a counselor about your fear and how it affects you in your daily life. Consider joining an online forum if you don't feel comfortable sharing your fear with any of your family or friends just yet. You may find that others have similar concerns and experiences that may help you to feel less alone. They may also suggest methods that they've used for dealing with the stress associated with trypophobia. | Understand trypophobia. Know that trypophobia may have an evolutionary basis. Identify your triggers. Try to discover the underlying causes of your fear. Educate yourself. Confront your fears. Practice yoga, meditation, or another relaxation technique. Take good care of yourself. Determine if you need to seek help from a mental health therapist. Understand what you can expect from a mental health therapist. Discuss your fear of holes with someone you trust. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Open-a-Car-Dealership | How to Open a Car Dealership | To open a car dealership, start by performing a market analysis to evaluate customer demand and determine what type of dealership would do well. Next, add up the costs of starting the business, such as the vehicle inventory and employee payroll, and secure financing from a bank. Then, fill out an application with the state authority to secure a license to sell cars. If you are building a dealership from scratch, you'll also need building permits from the city. | Perform market research. The first step in any business venture is to determine if there is a demand for your product or service. Once you determine the demand, you need to consider how your company might attract some of that customer demand. Determine the number of cars sold in your area. Assume, for example, that the typical car buyer is willing to visit a dealership within 10 miles (16.1 km) of their home. Try to determine the number of cars sold within a 10-mile radius of your proposed car dealership. Assume that 50,000 cars are sold in that area each year. Once you know the total number of cars, research those purchases by category. For example, how many cars are purchased, compared to trucks? What percentage of the cars sold are new, and how many are used? You may even be able to determine the number of cars by model (Honda, Ford, etc.) Assess the existing car dealers in the market. Say, for example, that 3,000 new Hondas are sold in your area each year. You're considering a Honda dealership. How many existing Honda dealers are in your area? Of the Hondas sold, how many were purchased by consumers who went online and bought a new car from a dealership located out of town? This analysis will help you determine if there is a need for a new dealership in your market. Determine your ideal customer. Every business needs to identify their ideal customer. Your ideal customer is a summary of the traits that your best customers have in common. When you identify the ideal customer, you can design your business to meet their needs. Look at the age, gender, occupation, and income level of the customers you are trying to attract. Assume that you want to open a Honda dealership. Do some research to determine the type of people who buy a Honda. You may find that the ideal Honda customer is a male between the ages of 27 and 50 years old. That customer is a white-collar professional with an above-average level of income. The Honda customer has owned a Honda previously or has a family member who owns a Honda. Many car dealers build relationships with customers by selling cars and providing a service department. Some customers go back to the car dealer to get service on their vehicle. Find out where the ideal Honda customer gets their car serviced. Do they go to their dealership, or to their local repair shop? This information can help you create a service department that will attract customers. Calculate the size of your market. The goal of your dealership market research is to determine if there is sufficient demand for your product. Ultimately, you need to know the dollar amount of sales for your product, and estimate how much of that customer demand you can attract. Assume that 3,000 new Hondas are sold in your area each year. You're also considering selling used Hondas, which generate 2,000 in sales each year. The size of your market is 5,000 Hondas. Based on your research of existing car dealers and customer demand, you believe that your new dealership can attract 20% of the existing Honda car market. That 20% figure would mean (5,000 new and used car sales multiplied by 20% = 1,000 car sales). Assume that the average profit per car (considering both new and used) is $500. If your dealership sold 1,000 cars, the business would generate (1,000 cars X $500 = $500,000 in profit). In addition, you estimate that your service department would create a $300,000 profit. The total profit for your dealership would total $800,000. Consider opening a franchise for your business. Nearly all of the larger car dealerships are franchises. In this arrangement, you are the franchisee who pays a fee to the franchisor. You also sign a franchise agreement to operate your business. To open your Honda dealership, you would need to complete a long process to become a franchisee. Honda would require you to provide extensive financial disclosures to determine if you have the financial means to open and operate a Honda dealership. The franchisor (Honda) grants you the right to use the Honda logo and other marketing tools to operate a franchise. You will participate in local advertising and promotion of Honda cars. The franchisor will also agree on a process to supply your dealership with Honda cars. If you enter into an agreement with a popular car brand, it gives your car dealership credibility in the marketplace. That credibility can help you generate sales. However, the franchise agreement includes many restrictions on how you can advertise and sell their cars. To comply with the franchise agreement, you need to follow the requirements. Decide on selling new cars, used cars, or both. If you sell both new and used cars, you have the opportunity to serve two types of consumers. Selling to both markets, however, will require a larger investment of time and money. If you sell used cars, you will attract customers who want to spend less money on a vehicle. Instead of buying the $25,000 new car, for example, they may buy a $15,000 used car. Used cars typically require more service and maintenance. As you sell more used cars, you may be able to grow your service business. A growing number of customers shop for cars online. When a customer enters your dealership, they may have checked 4 or 5 dealerships to price a particular car. You may find heavy competition for new car sales, in particular. In order to drive total car sales, you may need a used car sales department. Assess the need for a service department. Everyone needs to get his or her car serviced eventually. Operating a service department is a great way to build a relationship with a car owner. You can develop relationships with customers who bought their vehicle somewhere else. If you do a great job on their car, they may buy their next car from you. The need for service on your car can be stressful. It's inconvenient to be without a car while it is being repaired. Your great customer service can help reduce that anxiety. After you service someone's car, stay in touch with the customer. Promote your car sales and service through emails and mailers. Your efforts will increase your chances of selling the customer a car in the future. Add up the costs needed to start your car dealership. The typical car dealership may require millions of dollars to open and operate. Your biggest cost will be your inventory of cars. Floorplan refers to the cost of the vehicles you have on your car lot. In addition to the cost of your floorplan, you'll need to buy or lease property. You'll build or renovate buildings on the property for your showroom and possibly for a repair department. If you operate a franchise, you will pay the car company an initial franchise fee. Once you're operating, you'll pay annual fees for your franchise agreement. Car dealers also have to constantly train employees on new car features, so that they can explain those features to customers. You incur large costs for training. Decide on how you will finance the cost of your dealership. Financing your dealership is a huge commitment. You'll need to think carefully about how you will find the money to open your dealership. Most car dealerships finance their floorplan through a bank. The cars on the lot serve as collateral for the floorplan loan. A dealership may also incur huge costs to design and build its showroom and repair center. In addition to car inventory, you may need to hire dozens of employees. You'll need cash to meet payroll each month. If you borrow money, you'll need to provide sufficient collateral for your loan. You may need to pledge personal assets as collateral to obtain your loan. The bank will also need to see detailed financial projections. These projections will explain how your business will generate a profit and repay the bank loan. Consider the regulatory requirement to start and operate your dealership. Your state, county, or city will have requirements to operate your dealership. Many of these rules are set up to protect the consumers who are making a large investment in buying a car. Your state will require you to obtain a license to sell cars as your primary business. While individuals can sell cars to each other, a car dealer who sells many cars a year will need a license to operate. To build your dealership, you will need to get building permits from your city or county. Your state will require you to have several forms of insurance to operate your dealership. One type of required insurance is a surety bond. This bond is put in place to protect the car buyer from any fraud related to a car purchase. | Perform market research. Determine your ideal customer. Calculate the size of your market. Consider opening a franchise for your business. Decide on selling new cars, used cars, or both. Assess the need for a service department. Add up the costs needed to start your car dealership. Decide on how you will finance the cost of your dealership. Consider the regulatory requirement to start and operate your dealership. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Calculate-Mortgage-Insurance-(PMI) | How to Calculate Mortgage Insurance (PMI) | To calculate mortgage insurance (PMI), identify the purchase price of the home and the loan-to-value ratio by taking the amount of money you borrowed on the loan and dividing it by the value of your property. Next, determine the mortgage insurance rate by using a table on a lender's website. Then, multiply the loan amount by the mortgage insurance rate to calculate PMI. To determine the monthly payment amount, divide the annual payment by 12. | Find the purchase price. Even if you are just beginning to look for a home, you probably already have a good idea about the price of the home you can afford to purchase. The purchase price of the home will help you determine your loan-to-value ratio. Determine the loan-to-value (LTV) ratio. The loan-to-value ratio is a simple way for lenders and insurance agents to calculate how much you've paid and how much you owe. The LTV ratio is calculated by taking the amount of money you borrowed on the loan and dividing it by the value of your property. The higher the LTV, the more your mortgage insurance will cost. For the purposes of this article, let's assume a loan amount of $225,000. Say you're buying a house that costs $250,000 and you've put 10% down on the house, or $25,000. Because you've only paid 10%, and 90% is still outstanding, your loan is $225,000 and your loan-to-value ratio is 90 percent. Determine the terms of the loan. The type and length of your loan can also play a factor in the mortgage insurance amount. Shorter loans require lower rates of the mortgage insurance. However, a 30 year loan is the most popular time period. Similarly, fixed loans cost less than adjustable-rate loans. If you have a Federal Housing Association (FHA) loan, you will have a type of insurance called Mortgage Insurance Premium (MIP) instead of PMI. This is still a type of mortgage insurance, but the structure of the loan is slightly different. Be sure to read the terms of the loan carefully to understand how MIP might be calculated for you. Determine the mortgage insurance rate. PMI fees vary, depending on the size of the down payment and the loan, from around 0.3 percent to 1.15 percent of the original loan amount per year. The easiest way to determine the rate is to use a table on a lender's website. If you are already working with a lender, you can use the one on your lender's website. If you do not yet have a lender, you can still find a calculator online to estimate the rate. One such calculator can be found at mgic.com/ratefinder. Do the math. The good news is that calculating mortgage insurance is easy. After you know the numbers, all you need to do is multiply and divide to determine the amount of mortgage insurance. First, determine the annual mortgage insurance amount. Do this by multiplying the loan amount by the mortgage insurance rate. Here, if the remaining value of your loan was $225,000 and the mortgage insurance rate was.0052 (or.52%) then: $225,000 x.0052 = $1170. Your annual mortgage insurance payment would be $1170. To determine the monthly payment amount, divide the annual payment by 12: $1170 / 12 = $97.50/month. You can add your monthly mortgage insurance amount to your principal, interest, taxes, and insurance payment to determine your total monthly house payment. Understand that your mortgage insurance will "fall off" if you build up enough equity in your home. You don't need mortgage insurance indefinitely. Once you've built up 20% equity in your home (i.e. your LTV is 80%) you can request to cancel your mortgage insurance. Keep in mind that lenders won't automatically cancel your mortgage insurance until your equity reaches about 22% based on the original appraisal of the home. Don't wait for the lender to cancel the insurance for you. Do it yourself once you reach a 20% equity stake in your home. The lender will need an appraiser or real estate agent to give them a valuation before the insurance can be canceled. If you have an FHA loan, you need to have paid 22% of the mortgage before you can cancel the insurance. You also need to have made five years of monthly payments before it can be removed. Know that your credit score will also affect your mortgage insurance. Just like your credit score affects your ability to get approval for loans, it also may affect your ability to get good rates on mortgage insurance rates. Those with lower credit scores may not get rates as favorable as those with high credit scores. Understand that some lenders may waive MI altogether if the buyer agrees to a higher interest rate. Some lenders will allow you to purchase a mortgage without insurance if you agree to pay more interest on the life of the loan. Anywhere from.75 to 1 basis points more is normal, depending on the down payment. This is a tradeoff. Most people will pay more money in the long run, since the interest rate hike applies for the whole mortgage. Again, the mortgage insurance only lasts until the buyer has pumped enough equity into the home. You'll most likely end up paying more if you make this tradeoff. At the same time, this tradeoff does come with one perk. The payments you make on your interest are tax deductible, whereas the payments you make on insurance premiums are not, unless you took out your mortgage after Jan 1, 2007 and your Annual Gross Income (AGI) does not exceed $109,000. If you fit this category, you can reduce your AGI by 12 times your monthly PMI payment. So in these parameters, it is deductible. Know the difference between prepaid insurance and monthly insurance. Figure out if your lender is asking you to pay one sum, up-front, or will stagger your insurance in monthly premiums. Paying your premiums monthly has the benefit of a smaller initial cost as well, and they are harder to forget. Remember, you should request to cancel your mortgage insurance after you've reached a 20 or 22% equity stake in your home. You may forget to do so if you make an up-front payment. | Find the purchase price. Determine the loan-to-value (LTV) ratio. Determine the terms of the loan. Determine the mortgage insurance rate. Do the math. Understand that your mortgage insurance will "fall off" if you build up enough equity in your home. Know that your credit score will also affect your mortgage insurance. Understand that some lenders may waive MI altogether if the buyer agrees to a higher interest rate. Know the difference between prepaid insurance and monthly insurance. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Be-an-Office-Manager | How to Be an Office Manager | To be an office manager, work on developing excellent organizational skills since you'll be responsible for keeping records and maintaining a clean, organized office. Also, make sure you have great verbal and written communication skills, which will help you be an effective leader and communicate with your employees. As an office manager, you'll be working with multiple departments and dealing with a variety of projects, so work on being able to adapt to new situations and multitask effectively. | Keep a clean office. As the office manager, the cleanliness and safety of the office and your employees are your responsibility. This means getting an outside maintenance company to regularly clean the office or working with an internal cleaning crew to keep things clean. Answer phone calls and respond to emails and voicemails. One of your main responsibilities as an office manager will be to answer and respond to customer and client phone calls. This means taking messages and delivering the messages to the appropriate people in your office. It will also mean answering questions and solving problems for the rest of your internal office staff. Recruit and onboard new employees. As an office manager, it may be your responsibility to interview and recruit new employees. If you have to do this as part of your responsibilities, it's important that you build a process and get all the necessary paperwork signed and filled out by new hires. It might also be your duty as an office manager to train new hires and get them acclimated to the office. Maintain an office budget. You may be tasked with creating and maintaining an office budget. This can range from simple office supplies like ink, paper, and pens to more complex expenses like payroll, utilities, equipment, and money for office design upgrades. Think of all of your potential expenses throughout the year and come up with a realistic estimate of how much everything will cost. You can ask to see previous year's budgets to understand what yours should consist of. Handle customer complaints and comments. If there is a serious customer complaint, you may have to resolve it. When you do get feedback from clients, it's also important that you communicate it to the other departments in your office so that they can adjust their operations accordingly. If you see a reoccurring complaint, you know it's a common problem that may need greater action, like a change in the way you do things. Create emergency procedures and follow regulations. Another way to ensure office safety is by making sure that everything is up to code and that there are no healthy or safety hazards in your office. If there are no emergency procedures in place in case of an emergency like fire or flood, you should work with management to develop them. You may also be tasked with training employees on how to evacuate the building and stay safe in case of such an emergency. Develop stellar communication. To be a good office manager, you'll need to develop clear and concise written and verbal communication in your office. As the leader, people will be looking up to you to set the standards for communication. Make sure that all of your commands are clear and try to be as detailed as possible when giving people instructions. Good communication also means being clear and concise in emails. Avoid shorthand and be detailed in your emails. Miscommunication between employees can create chaos and hurt your offices' productivity. Step in when employees have disagreements and resolve the problem. Be able to adapt and multitask. Being agile and goal-oriented will help you as an office manager. Often, you'll be involved with multiple departments and could be contributing to more than one project at once. Roll with the punches and be ready to problem-solve any issues that your team might come across. As office manager, you'll need to drive your team to the end goal and that means dealing with any unexpected problems that could arise. Don't get bogged down and frustrated because it will set the mood for the rest of the office. Handle one thing at a time and troubleshoot issues as they come. Stay organized. It's important that all of the projects that you're involved in stay separated and organized because you'll most likely take part in multiple projects simultaneously. As the manager, people will be relying on you to properly archive information and manage it in a way that is transparent to the other people working on the project. Keep good records, log everything you can, keep lists of what you need to do, and make sure that your staff has access to the information they need. Each project should have a dedicated folder and sometimes contain subfolders so that you can quickly and easily access information. Keep a calm, positive attitude. A good office manager is calm under pressure and is constantly a source of motivation to their employees in the office. The more volatile your management style, the more chaotic the office will be. Keep a professional demeanor when it comes to your employees and clients, and be there for employees that need help or motivation. Graduate high school or get your GED. Typically, office manager positions require a minimum of a high school degree or a GED. If you want to be an office manager, make sure that you graduate high school first or take a course to get your GED. Attain a higher degree. If you want to improve the chances of getting considered, an associate or bachelor's degree in business administration will make you stand out. If you want to be an office manager in a highly specialized or technical industry, a bachelor's or master's degree in that industry will vastly improve your chances of getting the job. Get experience working in an office. Many office managers start as administrative or office assistants. To improve your chances of landing an office manager job, try to get experience ordering supplies, assisting another office administrator, doing customer service, performing facilities maintenance, or managing a team. These skills will transfer to an office manager role. Talk to your HR department to get promoted to office manager. If you already work in an office and there's a vacancy for an office manager position, you should schedule a meeting with HR and see if you can apply for the job. Some companies would rather hire office managers internally and this can be the opportunity you need to get your foot in the door. Search online for job openings. Look at popular job boards and search for office manager positions. Try to find positions in industries that you already have experience in to maximize the chances of landing the job. Submit your application and resume. Your resume should highlight any professional skills that you have and any technical, organizational, or administrative skills that you possess. Experience maintaining office equipment like database systems, computers, printers, and phones will come in handy. Analytical, finance, organization, and management skills are also beneficial for an office manager. Think of times when you had to organize and manage people in school projects if you don't have professional experience. Go on interviews. When you interview, you'll likely be asked about your conflict resolution, organizational, and financial skills. Be ready to answer any applicable questions that could be thrown your way and make sure to emphasize your administrative knowledge and skill. If you're interviewing for an office manager in a highly technical field like medicine or engineering, be ready to answer any technical questions that may be thrown your way. | Keep a clean office. Answer phone calls and respond to emails and voicemails. Recruit and onboard new employees. Maintain an office budget. Handle customer complaints and comments. Create emergency procedures and follow regulations. Develop stellar communication. Be able to adapt and multitask. Stay organized. Keep a calm, positive attitude. Graduate high school or get your GED. Attain a higher degree. Get experience working in an office. Talk to your HR department to get promoted to office manager. Search online for job openings. Submit your application and resume. Go on interviews. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Fix-a-Locked-Steering-Wheel | How to Fix a Locked Steering Wheel | To fix a locked steering wheel, put the key in the ignition and apply gentle but constant pressure in the direction you turn the key to start the vehicle. If the key doesn't turn, keep applying gentle pressure, but start to gently to the wheel as will. The wheel will only move in 1 direction. Keep trying to gently turn the key and the wheel at the same time until the wheel unlocks. | Insert the key into the ignition. Your steering wheel is likely locked because there was a bit of force on the wheel as you turned the car off last. Unlocking it will require using the ignition key in the same way you would when starting the vehicle. Insert the key into the ignition and see if it will turn. If the key will turn and start the vehicle, the wheel will unlock with the ignition cylinder. Turn the key gently. If the key and wheel both remain locked in place, you will need to apply pressure to the key in the direction you would usually turn it. Be careful not to apply the pressure too high up on the body of the key, as that may cause the key to twist or even break while inside the key hole. Instead, apply firm but gentle pressure until the ignition comes unlocked. If you do need to contact an automotive locksmith, it will be much more expensive to repair an ignition cylinder with a broken key inside. Apply pressure to the steering wheel. The steering wheel is locked in place using a pin on one side. When locked, the wheel will not be able to move in either direction freely, but one side will not allow any movement whatsoever (the side with the locking pin). Determine which direction the wheel cannot move, then apply pressure in the other direction while turning the key with your other hand. It is the process of turning the key while applying pressure to the wheel simultaneously that will unlock the steering wheel. The wheel will only move slightly in the direction opposite the pin, but won't move at all in the wrong direction. Do not shake or rock the wheel. You may be tempted to shake the wheel back and forth while attempting to unlock it, but doing so will actually decrease your chances of successfully unlocking the wheel. Instead, apply steady pressure in one direction on the wheel until it unlocks. Shaking the wheel back and forth could damage the locking pin and likely won't unlock the wheel. Pull the key out slightly before turning it. If the key is beginning to wear out it may not be able to turn in the ignition. You may still be able to engage the pins needed to start the vehicle by inserting the key in all the way, then pulling it back out slightly. Try to pull the key back out 1/16 of an inch, or approximately the width of a nickel, then attempt to turn it again. If this works, the key is likely over worn. You should still replace the key as soon as you can before it stops working. Turn the wheel and the key at once to unlock it. It may take a few tries, but if you apply pressure to the wheel in the right direction while simultaneously turning the key, it will unlock both, allowing the wheel to move freely and the vehicle to start. While it may take a fair amount of pressure, do not force either the wheel or the ignition to turn if they seem like they won't. It may result in breaking the steering pin, your key, or other internal components. Once the two are unlocked, the vehicle is able to be driven. If the steering wheel does not unlock, you will need to trouble shoot the problem. Use a small dose of electrical cleaner in the key hole. If the ignition cylinder has seized, spraying a small amount of electrical cleaner into the key hole may lubricate it enough to turn. Be careful not to spray too much into the key hole. A few short squirts should suffice. Once done, insert the key and turn it back and forth gently to work the lubricant in. If this works, you may need to replace the ignition cylinder soon as it gets progressively worse. Spray canned air into the ignition. Debris caught in the ignition can prevent the key from turning, which will prevent the steering wheel from unlocking. Purchase canned air from a local retail or office supply store and insert the straw from the nozzle directly into the key hole. It should only take a few short sprays to clean out any debris. Put on eye protection before spraying canned air into the key hole to prevent debris from getting into your eyes. Gently slide the key in and out a number of times. If there was any debris stuck to the key when you inserted it, it may have gotten caught in the pins of the ignition cylinder. Insert the key completely, then slide it back out. Repeat the process a few times to try to move any debris that may be caught in the cylinder. If this works, the issue will likely continue to occur until the debris is cleaned out from the ignition cylinder. Use canned air to clean out the lock cylinder if this method worked. Ensure the key is not bent or damaged. If your key won't turn when you insert it into the ignition it may be because the key has been damaged. Rounded or chipped teeth on the key will no longer engage the pins in the ignition cylinder to the depth necessary to spin it. Any of these could result in the key failing to turn in the ignition, which will also prevent the wheel from being unlocked. You will need a replacement key if the key is too damaged to turn the ignition cylinder. Do not copy a damaged key. A replacement will have to be cut by a dealership that works with vehicles of your make and model. Purchase a new ignition lock assembly. Ignition assemblies are easily replaced in most vehicles and can be done at home by most hobby mechanics. Before getting started, you will need to order a replacement assembly from your local auto parts store. Be sure to give them the exact year, make and model of your vehicle to get the correct replacement part. Purchase a new ignition lock assembly prior to the removal of a failed assembly. Compare the two and verify the replacement is an identical match before attempting reinstallation. Remove the cover over the ignition. Generally, most vehicles have a split-plastic housing that covers the steering column and ignition lock assembly. Remove this plastic cover by first adjusting the tilt-wheel to its lowest position and then removing the fasteners holding the cover in place. In some vehicles, the cover will include the portion above and below the steering wheel, while in others the ignition cover will be separate. If it's not equipped with an adjustable steering column, remove the steering column support brace under the dashboard and allow the column to hang. Remove the fasteners from the column cover, separate the two halves and remove the plastic. Use an Allen wrench to release the ignition assembly. Identify the ignition assembly and remove any trim components that prevent access to the ignition wire harness connector and tumbler release hole. Insert a 9/32” Allen wrench into the release hole while turning the ignition key backward. Use the ignition key to pull the entire assembly out by pulling it toward the passenger side of the car. Take care to unplug the ignition switch wire connector as you remove the ignition cylinder. Make sure the new ignition switch is well-greased. Once the ignition assembly is removed, compare the new switch and ensure they match. New ignition switches come pre-lubed from the factory ready to install. Verify the presence of grease on all external moving parts and ensure the new key fits and that the cylinder rotates smoothly in both directions. If the ignition cylinder is not properly greased, apply liquid graphite or similar grease to the cylinder. Purchase grease at your local auto parts store if necessary. Ensure that the internal lock pins can move freely. You can make sure the internal lock pins move properly by inserting the key completely in and out of the keyhole several times. The key should not get caught or stuck on its way into our out of the key hole. Sticking lock pins are lubricated using powdered graphite that is applied directly inside the keyhole. Graphite comes in small tubes designed to “squirt” the powder with enough force to reach the back of any keyhole. It can be added when needed. Slide the cylinder into place and reconnect the switch plug. When satisfied the new assembly matches the old one and is properly lubricated, slide the cylinder into position and make sure it is locked in place. Reconnect the switch plug and reinstall any trim components previously removed. Rotate the cylinder forward using the key until you head it click into place. Be sure to plug the ignition wire switch into the new cylinder before sliding it into place. Start the engine to ensure the steering wheel lock disengages. Before securing the steering column (if disconnected) and plastic cover, check to make sure the engine will start and steering wheel lock will /disengage. Do so by inserting the key and turning it while applying pressure to the wheel in the opposite direction of the lock pin. Steering column bolts usually have torque specifications which are located in the vehicle's repair manual, in the specification section. If no torque specs are found, tighten bolts firmly using a long handled ratchet for leverage. Column bolts must be secure to ensure they don't vibrate loose while driving. | Insert the key into the ignition. Turn the key gently. Apply pressure to the steering wheel. Do not shake or rock the wheel. Pull the key out slightly before turning it. Turn the wheel and the key at once to unlock it. Use a small dose of electrical cleaner in the key hole. Spray canned air into the ignition. Gently slide the key in and out a number of times. Ensure the key is not bent or damaged. Purchase a new ignition lock assembly. Remove the cover over the ignition. Use an Allen wrench to release the ignition assembly. Make sure the new ignition switch is well-greased. Ensure that the internal lock pins can move freely. Slide the cylinder into place and reconnect the switch plug. Start the engine to ensure the steering wheel lock disengages. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Use-Coconut-Oil-for-Your-Hair | How to Use Coconut Oil for Your Hair | To use coconut oil for your hair, start by rubbing the oil into your hair with your fingers and massaging it all over in sections. Once your hair is coated, cover it with a shower cap or some plastic wrap to keep the coconut oil from dripping out. Then, leave the oil in your hair for between 1 and 8 hours so that the strands absorb the coconut oil. Finally, wash your hair with shampoo twice to get all the oil out, then use your normal conditioner. Repeat this process once a week to protect your hair from damage and add shine. | Select virgin or refined coconut oil. Any coconut oil will work, whether it's labeled for hair or cooking. There are many types, however, so use this guide to find a quality oil: A *"virgin," "extra-virgin," or "unrefined" label means the coconut oil has no added chemicals. A high quality virgin coconut oil should be pure white when solid, and clear when liquid. A "refined" or unlabeled product has probably gone through an industrial process. There are high- and low-quality examples, but they are difficult to evaluate without researching the brand. These tend to have a more mild scent. Check the label for extraction information. Either type of oil can be extracted from the coconut in one of several ways. This is a little technical, and you can skip it without much harm done. For those interested in finding the perfect brand, here's a breakdown: "Centrifuged" oils tend to have a more mild scent, and little risk of damage. "Expeller-pressed" or "cold-pressed" oils range from mild to strong scented. Low-quality examples may have heat damage, which cause unpleasant burnt scents. "Direct Micro Expelled" (DME) oil tends to be high-quality, and created directly by coconut farmers. This may be difficult to find. Melt the oil (optional). Virgin coconut oil melts at 76ºF (24ºC), so in temperate weather it may already melt as you apply it to your hair. If you prefer handling liquid oil, spoon about 2–3 tablespoons (30–45mL) coconut oil into a bowl. Place the bowl in a larger container and pour hot tap water into the larger container, until it reaches halfway up the bowl. The oil should turn liquid within a few minutes. Do not microwave the oil. While this probably won't make it less effective, it can make the oil dangerously hot. Brush your hair. Knots and tangles will make applying the oil more difficult. Prevent water damage. As a pre-wash conditioner, coconut oil reduces hygral fatigue, or swollen, damaged hair caused by water exposure. It may also reduce damage caused by brushing and heat-treating wet hair. Massage a small amount of coconut oil onto the roots of your hair, and drag it down throughout all your hair. Make sure you use an old towel and no clothes as coconut oil stains clothes and towels. Leave the oil in for 10–20 minutes first to treat damaged hair as well. Keep it under a shower cap or plastic bag to prevent dripping and keep it warm. Wash and condition your hair as usual. Although your hair will be more resistant to damage, it won't be invulnerable. When convenient, avoid brushing and heat-drying wet hair to reduce damage. Prevent tearing. As a leave-in conditioner, coconut oil reduces damage caused by brushing or handling wet hair, and adds shine. Start with a pea-sized amount, and saturate the ends. Work your way up, adding a light layer to the middle and nothing at all to the roots. Add a little more if necessary, but not so much that your hair feels greasy. Leave this in as long as you like. This technique will restore some strength to chemically treated hair, heat-damaged hair, and dry Afro-textured hair. If you have frizzy hair, this will tame your curls in the short term. However, since coconut oil penetrates the hair, your hair will frizz again over time. Mineral oil is more effective for this purpose, although it will not restore strength. Restore strength and shine. A heavy application of coconut oil can restore strength and shine to dry, damaged hair. About once a week or whenever convenient, set aside some time for a big treatment. To start out, rub in the oil with your fingers, or dip a pastry brush into liquid oil. Massage it over all of your hair, focusing on dry or damaged areas. If you have thick or long hair, section it first and apply the oil in sections. Tie up your hair. After a heavy application, tie your hair up and keep it under a shower cap, plastic bag, or plastic wrap. Add heat (optional). Optionally, use a thermal cap or a steamer for 10–30 minutes to increase absorption. You may also need a plastic cap to prevent burning and heat damage. Leave the oil in for 1–8 hours. Coconut oil might be the best oil ever at soaking into your hair. After just one hour, your hair can absorb about 15% of its weight in oil. If you have severely damaged hair, leave the oil in for six hours to increase this to about 25%. Wash your hair. After you're finished with the heavy application, wash your hair twice and use conditioner to remove all the oil from your scalp and hair. The absorbed coconut oil will remain inside the hair shaft, protecting it from further damage. Fight scalp infections with coconut oil. Rubbing in coconut oil can be highly effective at fighting certain types of scalp infections, called dermatophytes. Symptoms include a swollen scalp, abscesses on the scalp, or hair loss that leaves black dots of broken hair on the scalp. Always talk to a doctor first when dealing with a serious medical problem. Talk to a doctor first if you already apply medication to your scalp. Apply coconut anise sprays to head lice. If you have head lice and prescription treatment (permethrin) has failed to get rid of them, a spray of coconut and anise may do the trick. As always, a conversation with your doctor is a good first step. Avoid using coconut oil to treat dandruff. Although some people use coconut oil for dandruff, this is generally a bad idea. Dandruff is usually caused by fungus that feeds on your scalp's natural oils. Adding more natural oil may just increase the food supply. Try a mineral oil instead, or other treatments. | Select virgin or refined coconut oil. Check the label for extraction information. Melt the oil (optional). Brush your hair. Prevent water damage. Prevent tearing. Restore strength and shine. Tie up your hair. Add heat (optional). Leave the oil in for 1–8 hours. Wash your hair. Fight scalp infections with coconut oil. Apply coconut anise sprays to head lice. Avoid using coconut oil to treat dandruff. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Paid-Blogging-Job | How to Get a Paid Blogging Job | To get a paid blogging job, ask major blogs if they are hiring and include links to your blog and other articles you have written. Otherwise, you can apply to positions on freelance job websites like ProBlogger where it's easier to find clients. You can also ask for referrals from friends you've made through your blog, or you can put a “Hire Me” page in your blog so clients can come directly to you. | Create your own blog. Maintaining your own personal blog will help you gain experience in the blogging field in two ways. Eventually, you'll amass a portfolio of writing pieces that you can then show off to prospective clientele. You'll also increase your own web presence, which is an absolute necessity if you ever hope to network your way into a paid blogging gig. There are numerous host sites to choose from. Many of them are free, but offer services from a low premium. Blogger and Wordpress are the two most popular blogging outlets on the web. You can start your blog in a matter of minutes on both, purchase domain names at a low premium or even get a free site address under their banner (e.g. yourblogname.wordpress.com ). Find a niche. Choose a subject for your blog that interests you, so you can be motivated to generate content for your blog consistently. If you become known as an expert on something that interests you, then you'll find blogging jobs that fit that subject. You'll enjoy them more in the long run. We all think that being versatile, a jack-of-all-trades, or a blogging Renaissance man will help us appeal to a larger audience. Yet, in many cases, people in search of bloggers want someone with a narrow expertise. They want someone who can thoughtfully comment on the latest board games, the newest jet propulsion engine, or innovations in cosmetics. You'll want to market yourself just like people market products. Some of the most basic blogging "categories" or genres are gaming, politics, food, fashion, movies, books, cars, or business. Make sure your niche fits into a larger category. You don't want to pick a subject that is so narrow that no one will care. Blog in your spare time. While you want quality material on your blog, you also need quantity. It may take you several weeks or several months for you to develop your blogging skills, to set up a routine, and to gain a web presence, but you can do it. There is no magic number for how many blog posts you should have in order to become a successful blogger. Some like posting every day because it sets a productive routine. Others post once a week. Find a routine that works well for you, but make sure that your readers know what to expect. Every post is like a doorway. How many doorways into your blog do you want prospective readers to have? Write for your audience. Since blog readers read differently than newspaper or even book readers, you want to be sure that you are doing everything you can to catch their attention. Make sure that your blog is “scannable”. Can the reader get the gist of your blog piece by quickly scrolling across the page? Are there keywords? Have you bolded or emphasized the most important lines of the text? Have you used illustrations that make it easier to understand the material at a glance? There are numerous techniques that you can employ. Get the word out. In order to attract readers and develop a following, you may want to advertise your blog using various forms of social media. Submit your blog to blog directories or post links to your blog articles on social media websites. Examples of social media websites you can use for this purpose are Digg, Twitter, and Facebook. Embed a gadget on your blog that allows people to subscribe to your blog posts. People can then receive emails or notifications when you publish new content, and can also help you attract a consistent audience, or followers. Volunteer your blogging services to large blogs with many followers. Blogging for a website or for another blog that receives a lot of traffic will help your name become more recognizable. If a reader likes your piece, they'll search out your other writings. Verify that the blog you contribute to allows you to include your name and a link back to your own blog in return for your guest post. If the blog is popular, receives a lot of web traffic, or has a large following, you'll be publicizing your blog in the process. Volunteer work can turn into higher-paying blog jobs, if you're lucky and your content is solid. There are online services like www.volunteerbloggers.com that will help link you to other bloggers with similar interests. Network with other bloggers. Involving yourself in the blogging community and engaging in online discussions about blog posts and blogging can help you develop relationships with bloggers who may eventually connect you with paid blogging jobs. Follow Twitter feeds for large blogs and bloggers, participate in blogging forums, or comment on specific blog posts about relevant topics you are knowledgeable about. Send inquiries about blogging positions to major blogs. Blogs with a large following that publish fresh content daily usually have a large staff of contributing writers. Ask the editor or hiring manager if freelance blogging opportunities are available, and include links to your personal blog and to other articles you have had published on other blogs or websites. Apply for blogging positions on freelance job websites. There are a variety of websites dedicated solely to open freelance writing positions, such as ProBlogger and FreelanceSwitch. Both sites are free to use. Just create a profile and add samples of your work. Be sure to emphasize your niche market. Be sure to relate how the materials you normally cover in your blog reflect the interests of the blog. Most blog job websites ask for writing samples. Tailor your chosen writing samples to position you are applying for. Use your blogging network to seek referrals. Other bloggers you have built a rapport with may be able to guide you toward paid blogging jobs. Or they might refer you to bloggers they know personally who currently hiring bloggers. They call it “networking” for a reason. You will slowly create an online community that can help you find paid blogging positions. Use your blog to get work. Most blogging sites have a separate “hire me” link where you can solicit your services. In many cases, this works really well. The client will have a good understanding of your skills and your niche market by simply visiting and perusing your blog. Then they can click over to offer you employment. Don't be afraid to promote yourself on your own blog and your ability to blog for others. Emphasize your writing style and fields of "expertise". Blog consistently for the same outlet. If you can, try to write several pieces for the same blogging outlet. You'll quickly learn what they want out of their blogging presence. You'll spend less time on the administrative side of the blogosphere and more time writing. Doing so might also provide you with a steady income. | Create your own blog. Find a niche. Blog in your spare time. Write for your audience. Get the word out. Volunteer your blogging services to large blogs with many followers. Network with other bloggers. Send inquiries about blogging positions to major blogs. Apply for blogging positions on freelance job websites. Use your blogging network to seek referrals. Use your blog to get work. Blog consistently for the same outlet. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Soft-Taco | How to Make a Soft Taco | To make a soft taco, start by heating up some tortillas in the microwave or between slightly damp paper towels in the oven. Then, top the tortillas with meat, like chicken, followed by vegetables like lettuce, tomatoes, and onions. You can also put cheese, salsa, pico de gallo, and sour cream on your tacos. Finally, fold the tortillas over and wrap the ends in aluminum foil so nothing falls out when you're eating them. | Cook the meat in a skillet. When it is well cooked, then add the seasoning so this avoids drawing out juices. Heat the tortillas in the microwave or between slightly dampened dish towels or paper towels in an oven (Don't dry them out. ). Put meat in tortilla first, then add all the raw vegetables like lettuce, tomatoes, and the salsa. Then add the cheese (or you may like to melt the cheese over the meat in the microwave or such) and sour cream into the soft tortilla shell. Fold the tops of the tortillas together, tuck into a wrapper to avoid dripping juices and enjoy this delicious dish! Finished. | Cook the meat in a skillet. Heat the tortillas in the microwave or between slightly dampened dish towels or paper towels in an oven (Don't dry them out. Put meat in tortilla first, then add all the raw vegetables like lettuce, tomatoes, and the salsa. Then add the cheese (or you may like to melt the cheese over the meat in the microwave or such) and sour cream into the soft tortilla shell. Fold the tops of the tortillas together, tuck into a wrapper to avoid dripping juices and enjoy this delicious dish! Finished. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems | How to Manage a Horse with Breathing Problems | If you have a horse with breathing problems, you should contact your vet to see if the issue is allergies or something else like an infection. It's common for horses to get allergies from molds and allergens in their environment, and if that's the case with your horse, your vet can recommend a respiration supplement to give your horse or let you know what changes you should make to its environment. While you follow your vet's treatment plan, try to let your horse out as much as possible to give it some fresh air. You should also clean out its stable once or twice a week, vacuuming any areas that share the same air space as the stables, too. | Contact your veterinarian if the problem has become an ongoing issue. Your vet will do a thorough exam, and possibly blood work to ensure that there is no long-standing infection/inflammation, and to assess internal organ health. If your vet suspects allergies, they may suggest allergy testing, which can be something as simple as a blood draw or skin testing. In skin testing, vets will inject small amounts of suspected allergens under the skin and observing the body's reactions. The skin testing is normally done in a specialty clinic or teaching hospital. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/34\/Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\/v4-460px-Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems-Step-1Bullet1.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/34\/Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\/aid90828-v4-728px-Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems-Step-1Bullet1.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":"728","bigHeight":"546","licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"} Begin treatment if your mare has tested positive for common molds and common allergens. Molds and allergens are commonly found in the dust, hay, and the rest of the horse's environment, so this diagnosis is by no means uncommon. Listen to your vet for recommended treatments/environmental changes that may help alleviate her condition, listed below. Try administering a respiration supplement recommended by your vet. A respiration supplement, designed to ease breathing, can help in some cases. One such product is called "Tri-Hist", which is an antihistamine available by prescription only. Turn the horse out as much as possible, especially if she is confined to her stall or a barn most of the day. A little fresh air is good for the respiration. A mare stuck in the barn all day, breathing in the same stale air, might be more prone to breathing problems. Fully muck out the stable once or twice a week. Cleaning up after your mares and offering them a tidy living arrangement is a boon both psychologically and for health reasons. Use dustless bedding. Rubber matting is best but usually needs a small amount of absorbent bedding on top, such as wood shavings. Another useful bedding for allergy cases is cardboard ripped into small pieces. It's very absorbent and easy to manage. Feed haylage or soak hay for a few minutes. This helps to cut down the normal dust/pollens that are present in dried hay. Soak only long enough to get the hay thoroughly wet, as soaking any longer can actually reduce the starch and sugars that are normally present in the hay, which are needed for proper nutrition. If you happen to have an overweight or laminitic horse, you may want to soak the hay in water for a bit longer, as reduced starch and sugar can be a good thing. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/a\/ad\/Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems-Step-7Bullet1.jpg\/v4-460px-Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems-Step-7Bullet1.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/a\/ad\/Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems-Step-7Bullet1.jpg\/aid90828-v4-728px-Manage-a-Horse-with-Breathing-Problems-Step-7Bullet1.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":"728","bigHeight":"546","licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>License: <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\" class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/\">Creative Commons<\/a><br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"} Make sure all feed is mold free. A simple exam of the hay prior to feeding should be sufficient in determining if the hay is clean. Feed from the ground level. This process prevents excess dust and other irritants from being inhaled while your horse is eating. Ensure that there is proper ventilation in the stable. You can leave the stable door open and use a stall chain instead. Vacuum the rafters, walls, and window ledges in the stables regularly. During your vacuuming, include any room that shares the same air space as the stables (e.g. the tack room). Build the muck heap and hay store area downwind. Bagged bedding and haylage are safe to store near the horses. Water your pasture in a very dry season, to prevent it going dusty. Use a product to reduce or absorb ammonia. There are several such products available at your local feed store. Feed hay or alfalfa cubes instead of mixes, as they have less dust. There are also many "complete" pelleted diets available these days, and although they can get expensive, they are totally dust free. If you choose to go to a complete diet, be sure that the diet doesn't have any of the allergens that she is allergic to. | Contact your veterinarian if the problem has become an ongoing issue. Begin treatment if your mare has tested positive for common molds and common allergens. Try administering a respiration supplement recommended by your vet. Turn the horse out as much as possible, especially if she is confined to her stall or a barn most of the day. Fully muck out the stable once or twice a week. Use dustless bedding. Feed haylage or soak hay for a few minutes. Make sure all feed is mold free. Feed from the ground level. Ensure that there is proper ventilation in the stable. Vacuum the rafters, walls, and window ledges in the stables regularly. Build the muck heap and hay store area downwind. Water your pasture in a very dry season, to prevent it going dusty. Use a product to reduce or absorb ammonia. Feed hay or alfalfa cubes instead of mixes, as they have less dust. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Prevent-Canine-Periodontal-Disease | How to Prevent Canine Periodontal Disease | The best way to prevent canine periodontal disease is to get your dog's teeth checked by your vet twice a year. Additionally, switch to a dog food formulated for dental care, which is an easy way to protect your dog's teeth. Similarly, give your dog chew toys and dental treats to help keep its teeth clean. If you're worried your dog is at risk, you can brush its teeth daily with a dog toothbrush and dog toothpaste. | Take your dog to the vet for a professional cleaning. One important step in preventing periodontal disease is taking your dog to get oral checkups and cleaning by the vet. Depending on the state of your dog's mouth, you may want to schedule quarterly or half-yearly checks. Oral cleanings help reduce bacteria that can lead to periodontal disease. Examine your dog’s mouth. Examine your dog's mouth by lifting his lips. If you see any tartar build up, gingivitis, or any other sign of periodontal disease, make an appointment with your veterinarian to have the mouth examined and to schedule a tooth cleaning. You cannot remove the tartar from the teeth on your own. Your dog will need to be anesthetized and special tools will be used to remove this concrete hard substance from the teeth and below the gum line. Brush your dog’s teeth. One of the best ways to prevent periodontal disease is to brush your dog's teeth. This process is simpler than it may seem. You will need to purchase a dog toothbrush, which can be either an actual brush or a finger brush, or a child's soft toothbrush. You also need a dog toothpaste. To get your dog used to having their teeth brush, start by putting a dab of the toothpaste on your finger to let the dog taste it. Then you can put another dab on your finger and rub it in a circular motion along the outside of the teeth. It may take a few days for the dog to let you rub your fingers along his teeth. Once he does, you can over a few days slowly introduce the brush with toothpaste into the dog's mouth. The process of brushing should only take less than a minute since you will mainly concentrate on the outer tooth surfaces. Do not use human toothpaste because the fluoride in it can be toxic to dogs, and do not use baking soda because dog's shouldn't swallow that either. Anything you brush your dog's teeth with will be swallowed. Buy dog toothpaste that is made so it can be safely swallowed. Use an oral rinse or gel. Oral rinses and gels contain chlorhexidine or zinc. You can place the rinse or gel in your dog's water bowl. You can also wipe them on your dog's teeth to help control plaque. Since the rinse or gel can be added to the dog's water or wiped on the teeth, the products are safe to swallow. These are best used in conjunction with tooth brushing and regular dental cleanings by your veterinarian. Do not use these products if your dog has medical conditions unless you consult your veterinarian first. Feed your dog dental food. You can start feeding your dog food specifically designed to help with dental care. These specialty foods have built in product or particle sizes which either mechanically or chemically remove plaque. These feeds can be kibble or rawhide type chews. They will be labeled specifically as dental food or designed to clean dog's teeth and prevent plaque on the bag. Examples of dental food include the Science Diet Oral Care by Hill's Pet Nutrition, Iams Chunk Dental Defense Diet, and Purina Pro Plan Veterinary Diets Canine dry dog food. Check the Veterinary Oral Health Council's list of accepted products for further options. Look for dental foods that have the VOHC seal. This means the food has been tested by the Veterinary Oral Health Council for its effectiveness in cleaning teeth and preventing plaque. If your dog has a medical condition, do not use unless your veterinarian okay's it for your dog. Give your dog chew toys. If your dog loves to chew, you can purchase toys that are specifically designed to help rub the plaque off your dog's teeth. You can also give your dog dental treats to help clean his teeth. Many of these dental treats and toys are labeled on the bag to specifically treat tartar build up and plaque. Dental treats and toys are sold at all pet stores and most supercenters. Examples include Greenies band, Tartar Shield Soft Rawhide Chews, and Purina Busy HeartyHide Chew Treats. If you use chewing toys, make sure to wash them frequently to remove any bacteria. Never let your dog chew bones, hooves, antlers, ice cubes, or any other item that may break his teeth. Check for bad breath. One of the most common signs of periodontal disease is bad breath. Your dog should not have bad breath. Dog breath is not normal for your pet. This may be an early warning sign for periodontal disease. Look for gum abnormalities. Another sign of periodontal disease is problems with the gums. Check your dog's gums carefully, looking for anything out of the ordinary. Your dog's gums should be a healthy pink color. Your dog's gums may bleed if he has periodontal disease. Look for red, swollen gums. This may mean your dog has gingivitis. Check for any yellow-brown crust near the gums. This is tartar build up. Notice any thick dark brown crust near the gums. This is calculus, a concrete hard substance. Monitor for any mouth pain. If your dog has periodontal disease, he may exhibit signs of mouth pain. This may include whining or other noises of pain when eating or when someone touches his mouth. Your dog may have difficulty chewing food, especially hard food. This may lead to a decrease in his appetite. Look for any loose or missing teeth that might be causing pain. Your dog may lose weight due to mouth pain or a decreased appetite. Diagnose periodontal disease. You need to take your dog to the vet to get an oral checkup. The vet will check the gums, looking for abnormalities. The vet will probably perform an x-ray to try to help diagnose the disease because the majority of periodontal symptoms are beneath the gum line. Your vet may do other kinds of imaging tests to look for tooth density and bone support. Your vet will also check the health of the root. Treat periodontal disease. Treatment for the periodontal disease depends on the stage your dog's periodontal disease is at. There are four stages of periodontal disease. Your vet will look at your dog's particular care and suggest a treatment plan tailored to his periodontal disease. Early stages of gum disease can be treated by a thorough cleaning by the vet. Your dog will be put under anesthesia for this. For moderate periodontal disease, a cleaning may be combined with a gel treatment. The vet will focus on cleaning between the gum and tooth and reducing the size of the pocket along the gumline. Treatment may require removal of the affected tissue that surrounds the tooth root and bone. The worst stage of periodontal disease requires removal of the tooth. Learn what periodontal disease is. Periodontal disease is the process that happens when bacteria and leftover food bits in the mouth mix with saliva to form plaque, which adheres to the surface of the teeth. If this plaque is not removed, within 24 hours it mixes with minerals in the saliva to form tartar. The body responds to this by sending inflammatory cells to fight the bacteria, which in turn causes gum inflammation. The gums become reddened and swollen in response. As the process continues, the bacteria in the plaque sends out enzymes which damage the gums and destroy tooth supporting structures. This will cause infections deep in the tooth roots and eventually lead to tooth loss. | Take your dog to the vet for a professional cleaning. Examine your dog’s mouth. Brush your dog’s teeth. Use an oral rinse or gel. Feed your dog dental food. Give your dog chew toys. Check for bad breath. Look for gum abnormalities. Monitor for any mouth pain. Diagnose periodontal disease. Treat periodontal disease. Learn what periodontal disease is. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Money-as-a-College-Student | How to Make Money as a College Student | To make money as a college student, consider tutoring other students or offering your services as a note-taker, typist, or proofreader. You can also visit your campus Career Center to apply for internships or enter academic competitions that offer monetary prizes. If you're interested in a more traditional job, apply to your school's work study program or venture off-campus to look for part-time work like babysitting, being a shop clerk, or waiting tables! | Apply for new scholarships and grants. A lot of students think that they are only eligible for funding when they initially apply for admission. This is a mistake! There are often new scholarship opportunities for upperclassmen, though they aren't always widely advertised. You may also be able to apply for external scholarships or grants, which are offered from groups outside of your school. Begin by scoping out bulletin boards on campus and paying careful attention to email announcements. You can also search online for new funding opportunities, and there are apps that you can download for free (or for very little, such as the app Scholly, available for just $.99) that can help you tailor your search. Offer your services as a tutor. One of the best ways to learn a subject is to teach it. By becoming a tutor, you can hone your own knowledge of your field of study, perform a valuable service to others, and earn some needed cash—it's a win-win scenario for everyone involved! You can often get paid through your school to tutor other students in classes you have completed and done well in, or you can advertise your own services to your fellow classmates. To find tutoring opportunities, meet with your advisor or your professors, or go to the campus tutoring center. Get paid to take notes. You are hopefully already taking careful, thorough notes in your classes for your own benefit. Why not make your efforts pay out double? It's fairly common for students who need special arrangements because of learning disabilities to be assigned a (usually anonymous) note-taker for their classes. These positions are usually compensated—you can often make up to $10 an hour for every hour of class.You'll take careful notes, type them up, and email or drop them off at disability services, where they will be passed on to the students who need them. Watch for emails asking for note-takers. Once a fellow students' needs are documented, disability services will contact the professors and ask for volunteers in the class to take notes, and your professor will in turn email the class. You can also upload your notes to a platform like Stuvia, where you can earn money by selling your notes to other classmates. Advertise your services yourself. You can also contact disability services directly to see if they have a need for note-takers in the courses you are taking, or you can advertise your services yourself to your fellow classmates. If you advertise yourself, make sure that you aren't violating class or university policy. Proofread your classmates' essays. If you excel at writing and editing, you can hone your skills and get paid for it at the same time by offering to proofread your classmates' papers for a reasonable fee. Spread the word among your friends and roommates, and consider posting fliers which advertise your services. Study the honor code carefully. If you do get work proofreading, be careful about how you offer feedback and make suggestions for revision. You should be very familiar with your school's honor code and rules regarding plagiarism. Double-check the particular professor's policy about sharing written work with others, too. Some professors assign take-home essays that are more like exams, and they forbid students from talking to one another during the writing process. If you rewrite, instead of proofread, someone else's paper, you both could be brought up on academic fraud charges, and you could face serious consequences, to include being expelled. Take advantage of your strong typing and computer skills. If you are a fast and accurate typist, if you are great at creating interesting presentations with sophisticated graphics, or if you excel at creating tables and graphs to represent data, you may be able to get paid to teach and help other students with their assignments and hone your own skills at the same time. Visit Career Services. Most campuses have a Career Services office which counsels students on job market possibilities, and which helps prepare them for applying and interviewing as they near graduation. Don't think, however, that you should only use this resource as a senior. You can often find advertisements for paid internships and part-time work in your field of study at the Career Services office. Finding these opportunities early in your studies will not only help you excel in your field and build up your resume, but can add some much needed cash to your wallet while you learn. Enter academic competitions. You can pretty regularly find advertisements for essay contests and scholarly competitions (such as science or engineering competitions) which offer cash prizes for the top performers. Be on the lookout for these opportunities by regularly checking the bulletin boards around campus (begin by looking in academic departments and the library), going through your email carefully, and by going directly to your advisor and/or professors to see if they know of any such competitions for which you may be a good fit. Even if you don't win, you'll get experience in your field, make connections, and build up your portfolio or work. Apply for work study. Even if you weren't awarded work study when you first applied to your school, you may be able to apply now. Make an appointment at the financial aid office to see if you can still apply (or reapply, if your financial situation has recently changed). There are all sorts of jobs available on campus, from working in the dining halls, to performing administrative work in academic departments, and even working at campus theaters, where you'll have access to free performances or movies! See if your college participates in the Federal Work Study Program. This program provides part-time work opportunities for students with financial aid, and guarantees that you'll be paid at least the federal minimum wage. Whenever possible, the positions available are relevant to your area of study and are civic-minded, aimed to serve the public interest. Become an RA. If you live in the dorms, are an active participant in dorm and campus activities, have a good grade point average, and enjoy working with and counseling others, then becoming an RA (resident assistant) could be a great opportunity for you. While you may not bring home an additional pay-check for being an RA, you'll usually get either free or greatly reduced room and board, which will then free up money for your other expenses. At some schools, though, you may receive a stipend as an RA. Become a guinea pig. Scope out bulletin boards on campus for advertisements looking for volunteers for psychology studies or medical experiments. These usually pay a flat rate, though at some schools, you could make up to $20 an hour doing something as simple (and possibly as interesting!) as filling out questionnaires. Verify that the experiment is safe. Before you agree to participate, make sure that the experiment was approved by an Institutional Review Board or a Human Subjects Participant Program. This will help ensure that your rights and physical and mental well-being are protected. Look for off-campus research trials. If you can't find opportunities to participate in research on campus, go to the US Government's official clinical trial website to find legit trials in your area. You can also visit the webpages of local hospitals to see if they are looking for participants. Sell your textbooks at the end of the term. One of your biggest expenses may be the cash you have to set aside for textbooks. You can usually get a good chunk of your money back at the end of the term by selling back your books. Campus bookstores will sometimes buy back books, but many campuses also allow independent companies to set up shop at the end of the term. You can also scope out used bookstores in the area to see if they buy used books. To improve your odds of being able to sell a book (or fetch a good price for it), take care of your books throughout the semester, and avoid marking up the pages with notes and highlighters. Become an organizational guru. It's hard to succeed in school (or at at any job!) if your work materials are a messy nightmare. Spend some time developing your organizational skills, and then advertise your services to your fellow classmates, and possibly even your professors. Offer to help your clients go through their files (either paper or electronic), and help them come up with a method for sorting and arranging their work that they can manage on their own. Offer your cleaning and laundering services. College student usually aren't known for keeping spotless rooms or staying on top of their laundry. If you don't mind doing either of these tasks, and if you can stand the mess and stink, consider getting paid to clean dorm rooms or do laundry for your lazier classmates. Open a salon in your dorm room (or make house calls). If you are talented at doing nails, hair, or make-up, consider advertising your services to your classmates, especially before big events like sorority formals or Valentine's Day. Research what local salons charge for services, and then undercut their prices to the point where you'll still be making a profit, but will be an affordable option for your fellow classmates. Open a snack-shop. It's not a secret that college students get the munchies! If you're good at baking (or even just scoping out good deals on prepackaged snack items), take advantage of your classmates' perpetual hunger. Post fliers with tantalizing pictures of your baked goods, or visit the library and other hot study spots at key points in the term, such as midterm and finals week. If you're a night owl, then you're sure to find students on the prowl for a good snack in the wee hours of Friday and Saturday (or even Thursday, at some party schools!). If you decide to sell to the night crowd, though, it's a smart, safe move to work with a partner. Set up a recycling center on your dorm room floor. If you live in a state which accepts bottle redemptions, you can make easy money by collecting and returning soda cans. Consider making a small investment in a large plastic garbage bin, line it with a sturdy plastic bag, and decorate it with signs: “Place your used soda cans here!”. Place the bin outside your dorm, and then all you'll have to do is sort through it before bringing it to the redemption center. Make sure that you aren't violating dorm policy by doing this. So long as it's allowed, you may also be able to go through any other recycling bins that are set up on campus. Seek out tip jobs. As a college student, having access to quick cash is extremely helpful. Look for part-time job opportunities that will allow you to walk away with cash in hand at the end of your shift. Serving or tending bar in restaurants, working as a hotel or restaurant valet, delivering food (which usually requires you to have your own car and insurance), or doing street performance are good options. Get a part-time job at a local shop. Hit the pavement and check out the local businesses around your area. You may be able to find part-time work that fits around your school schedule. While you should check the classifieds regularly for posted job ads, understand that not all businesses use these, and you may have better luck if you inquire in person about possible job openings. Be prepared with a copy of your resume and look presentable when you first go to the shop. Don't pop in on your way home from the gym! That won't leave a good impression! Visit a temp agency. The process of finding an available job can be simplified by enlisting the help of a temp agency. They can sort through all the ads for you, and already have established relationships with local businesses. While the agency will take a portion of your wages, temp jobs tend to pay fairly well, and you can be clear about what your availability is around your class schedule. Another advantage of working through an agency is that you can turn down work if you are having a particularly busy week or month at school. Baby-sit or nanny for local families. If you are responsible and good with children, you can often find steady work as a baby-sitter or nanny. Research the going rates in your area; as a college student, you may be able to demand a higher rate, particularly if you are an education major (or psychology, pre-med or nursing student, have certification in CPR and/or first-aid, etc.). In some cities, you may be able to make up to $15 an hour. Consider signing up with professional baby-sitting services. These businesses screen and run back-ground checks on their sitters. Many parents are more comfortable placing their children in the care of sitters who have been vetted through this process. Advertise your baby-sitting business on campus. You may also consider offering your services to your professors. If you are their current student, they may not feel comfortable (or be allowed to) hire you, but they may be able to recommend you to other of their friends and colleagues. Negotiate additional tasks for extra pay. If you are already spending time in a home taking care of children, you may be able to make some extra cash by going above and beyond. For example, you can offer to do laundry and wash dishes for an extra fee (perhaps $10 more) on top of your regular baby-sitting rate. Work with children in other ways. If baby-sitting isn't your thing, you may find fulfilling and lucrative work by tutoring or coaching elementary or high school students. Contact the local schools to see if they have children who might benefit from your services or to see if they have part-time coaching positions available. You may also be able to find these sorts of jobs by going to local organizations like the YMCA or YWCA. Work with animals. If you connect better with animals than people, then you may be able to find work that puts you in contact with our non-human friends, which will be good for both your mental and your financial health. Advertise your services as a dog walker or pet sitter. You can place fliers (dog-parks and local veterinarians are great places to start) or advertise on-line, but don't overlook the importance of networking with people you know. You may even want to think about opening a pooper-scooper business. Cleaning up Fido's business is no one's favorite chore, but armed with gloves and the proper tools, it's an easy enough job. You'll also be provided with steady work! Get paid to work outside. If you're young and strong and like to be outside, then starting a business in which you do yard work or landscaping could be right up your alley. Be able to switch up your services as the seasons change: have access to a lawn-mower and weed-whacker in the warmer months, and switch out to warm clothes and a shovel once the cold hits. If it snows a lot where you live, buying a snow-blower could be a solid investment. If you're an early bird, you may be able to make money by offering to scrape the ice off cars in the early hours before people have to go to work. You may be able to find several clients in your own neighborhood or at a single apartment complex. Use your vehicle to your advantage. If you own your own car, are insured, and have a good driving record, then there are various ways you can put your car to work for you. You may be able to find work delivering papers, driving fellow students (to the airport, to run errands or go to appointments off-campus), or you can even open up your own delivery service. For example, you can get paid to grocery shopping for those who are home-bound while you stock up for your own pantry. If you have a truck, you probably already know that you (or rather, it) is in high demand, especially come moving in/out day on campus: offer your services as a mover—for a fee, of course! House sit. Do you know anyone who is planning to take a long vacation, or has your professor mentioned their plans to travel overseas on their sabbatical? If so, you may be the perfect candidate to house-sit. This is a particularly great gig: you usually won't be asked to do much more than watch over the home, collect mail, water the plants, perform yard work as necessary, and perhaps care for pets. Beyond that, though, you'll get to live in a home that's probably far nicer than yours for a few days or even weeks. Network to find house-sitting opportunities. Let your family, friends, and professors know about your availability to house-sit. It's usually best to try to find a friend-of-a-friend (or a coworker or boss of a friend or parent, etc.) Your immediate friends and family members may expect you to help out for free and be insulted at your request for payment. Sell blood and/or plasma. Why not perform a valuable service for others while getting paid at the same time? Depending upon whether you are giving blood or plasma, you can usually make in the range of $20-45 per “donation”. You will need to meet certain eligibility requirements before you'll be allowed to donate, though, and there are limits to how often you can donate. Read up on the American Red Cross's donation guidelines before you commit, or check in with the hospital or clinic where you'll be donating. Sell your gently used clothes to consignment shops. Take a careful look at your closet; how much of it do you regularly wear? How much of it still fits? How much of it is still in style? There's a good chance that you have a decent amount of money tied up in your wardrobe. Pull out any items that are still in good condition, make sure they are clean and wrinkle-free, and then take them to a local consignment shop. You should be able to walk away with cash in hand. Just try not to spend it all on new clothes while you're there—unless, of course, that's why you wanted the extra money in the first place! Sell your stuff online. If there isn't a good consignment shop nearby (or if you think you may be able to make more by selling your items yourself), you may want to consider selling your no-longer-wanted-or-needed possessions online. Craigslist and eBay are two popular sites to try. Think about offering up your clothes, shoes, bags, accessories, exercise equipment, and/or electronic equipment. So long as it's in decent condition, you can usually find a buyer for nearly any item. You'll want to take high resolution pictures of your items, and be sure to offer a clear, complete description of the item. If you have warranty information, manuals, or brochures that accompany the items, you may have better luck making a sell. Have a yard sale. You can also set up shop in your own yard (or drive-way, or garage). Many areas have active yard sale scenes, and it takes minimal work for you to be able to meet up with those who are looking for great deals. Post fliers around your neighborhood, and remember to place an ad in your local paper if they advertise garage/yard sales. Be willing to negotiate with buyers, and don't set your expectations too high when you set your prices. At best, you may only be able to fetch 25% of the original price you paid for an item. Write online. If you are good with the written word, you should be able to find plenty of opportunities to write (or edit others' work) online. Search for freelance writing and editing gigs. The rates for these jobs vary: you may be paid by the word, be offered a flat rate for a project, or in some cases can be paid an hourly rate. You typically won't be able to retain copyright over your work or collect royalties, however. Even so, by doing freelance work you can build a portfolio and make valuable connections which may later pay off with more stable job opportunities. Start your own blog or website. If you want your work to remain your own, and if you want the freedom to write about whatever topics interest you, you can think about creating your own website or blog. If you get enough followers, you can start to bring in revenue through advertising. You'll only make a few cents per click on the ads on your page, but with enough followers, this can add up for you over time. Start a YouTube channel. If you prefer visual media and are great at creating videos which are funny or informative, you may also be able to make money by creating a YouTube channel with advertising. See our related wikiHow on how to earn money on YouTube. Turn your hobbies into a business. Do you love do-it-yourself projects? Are you able to knit, crochet, work with wood, or craft hand-made jewelry? If so, you may find a good client base by setting up shop on sites like eBay or Etsy. You'll need a PayPal account, a good camera to take quality pictures of your crafts, and a way to organize your orders. Perform paid administrative work. If you have basic computer skills and don't mind doing repetitive work, you may be able to find work stuffing envelopes, doing data entry, or working as a telemarketer from your home. These jobs typically can be done in your spare time and require minimal training from the employing company. Make the most of your time online. If you already spend too much time surfing or shopping online, you may be able to find a way to turn your time-wasting past time into a profitable venture. There are various business which offer you small amounts of money to take surveys (such as iPoll.com), download apps or listen to music. The money you'll be able to make will probably only amount to pocket change—you'll be offered a few cents to a few dollars per task—but it can add up over the course of time, and will certainly help you feel less guilty about the occasional latte splurge. Design an app. There's a lot of potential money to be made in the mobile app business. If you've got an idea for a great new app that can either provide people with a fun diversion or help them organize their life or learn in creative new ways, you may be sitting on potentially lucrative idea. There are many tutorials available which offer helpful advice, and you can even create an app if you lack coding experience. See our related wikiHow on how to create an app. Rent a room. If you rent or own off-campus, you can free up a large chunk of cash by cutting down on your share of rent and utility expenses by finding a roommate. Carefully screen applicants—it may be a good idea to begin searching for a roommate among your friends and classmates. Be sure to draw up an agreement between the two of you outlining how bills will be handled, and make sure you aren't violating your current lease if you bring in an additional person to your home. Save money on books. Books are a large expense for any college student, but it's not a good idea to forego purchasing them at all. There are, however, various ways to potentially save hundreds on your book costs over the course of the school year. Once your reading list is available, begin by checking the prices in the campus bookstore, but them look elsewhere for better deals. Look for used books. You can usually find cheaper options (both new and used) online or by going to local used bookstores, who often buy books from students at the end of the term. Given that professors often use the same texts from term to term, you may be able to score much cheaper versions of the book. You may even be able to check the text out for free from the campus or local library. See if you can use an older edition. If your professor has assigned a newer edition of a text, you may be able to get buy with an older (cheaper) edition of the text. Publishers often make very few changes from edition to edition, and the only thing that may vary is the page numbers or the occasional addition of a new reading. Double-check with your professor to see if an older edition will work for you before you commit to buying. Rent or share textbooks. You may also be able to rent your textbooks for a much reduced cost, or you can split the cost of a pricey book with a classmate or roommate who is enrolled in the same course. If you do this, make sure that you have a clear schedule for when each of you will access to the book. Carry cash only. You may be able to spend less by limiting yourself to only paying for items with cash. Put your debit and credit cards away, or tuck them in corner of your wallet to only be brought out for emergencies. When you cash your check or make a withdrawal, take out enough to last you for the month, if possible. This way, you can avoid having to make repeat trips to the ATM. At an average fee of $3 per withdrawal, the fees can really add up. Avoid carrying all of your cash when you go out, though. Take just what you think you'll need. Save on food on campus. If you live on campus, you may be required to purchase a dining plan. If so, select the most economical plan (be honest about how often you'll be willing or able to go to the cafeteria). Then, whatever plan you have, take full advantage of it: avoid skipping meals so that you won't need to purchase food later; and if you're allowed, take fruit or leftovers so that you'll have snacks available throughout the day. Also, scope out events on campus which offer free food. If you have a work study with the dining hall or catering services, you may be able to take home free food. Opt out of your dining plan. If you are able to, you may be able to save more money by opting out of a dining plan and buying your groceries yourself. Shop at discount grocery stores or buy in bulk from stores like Costco. While you get more bang for your buck when you buy in bulk, your tab can be pretty high. You can work around this problem by having a friend or roommate go in with you on purchases. Save on clothes. Sure you want to look good, but you don't have to spend a lot to stay on trend. Consider simplifying your wardrobe: build a solid base of classics that you can easily mix and match. Buy all of your clothes second-hand or commit to only buying items on sale. You can also swap clothes with your friends to keep things fresh. Barter your services with friends. Do you spend more than you'd like getting your hair and nails done each month? Do you have a friend who can't resist the pastries at the coffee shop or who pays for a personal trainer? Think about what both you and your friends spend money on, and then see if there's a way for you to barter and trade services with each other in order to save money. For example, in exchange for doing your hair before a big date, you can offer to supply your friend with some fresh-baked goodies. Reduce your transportation costs. The costs associated with commuting to and from school (or across town as you run errands) can be quite high. In an effort to save money on gas, insurance, and parking, try to take public transportation as much as possible. Your school may have discounted bus passes available for students, or you may be able to arrange to carpool with your fellow students to classes or for supply runs. Cut out luxuries. You may think that you can't live without your cable or Starbucks, but be honest with yourself. It's probably just the caffeine you need, and not the $4 latte. Make your coffee at home, consider cutting out the cable and switching to free or cheaper tv options (such as NetFlix or Hulu), and hold off on upgrading to the newest, shiniest electronic gadgets. By going without luxuries, you'll of course free up money, but you'll also come to enjoy and appreciate them more once you can truly be able to afford them again. Take advantage of student discounts. Before you head out to a local restaurant or museum, do some quick research to see if they offer discounts for students. As a student, you can often get free admission or great deals with your student identification. Look for free entertainment. How much money do you currently spend going out to movies, bars, or clubs? While it's important that you have a social life and find ways to relax when you aren't hitting the books, you don't have to spend a lot of cash (or any!) to have a good time in your free time. Actually read the fliers and posters around campus, which advertise free, fun, and/or interesting activities and lectures. You may be able to see plays and concerts on campus, attend lectures from important thinkers, or go to university-sponsored parties all for free with your student ID. Consider joining one or more of the clubs on campus. Besides being able to meet new and interesting people, some of them have regular activities (like movie nights) or even take service trips over school breaks. These are usually funded in part or sometimes completely through donations or through fund-raising efforts. | Apply for new scholarships and grants. Offer your services as a tutor. Get paid to take notes. Watch for emails asking for note-takers. Advertise your services yourself. Proofread your classmates' essays. Study the honor code carefully. Take advantage of your strong typing and computer skills. Visit Career Services. Enter academic competitions. Apply for work study. See if your college participates in the Federal Work Study Program. Become an RA. Become a guinea pig. Verify that the experiment is safe. Look for off-campus research trials. Sell your textbooks at the end of the term. Become an organizational guru. Offer your cleaning and laundering services. Open a salon in your dorm room (or make house calls). Open a snack-shop. Set up a recycling center on your dorm room floor. Seek out tip jobs. Get a part-time job at a local shop. Visit a temp agency. Baby-sit or nanny for local families. Consider signing up with professional baby-sitting services. Advertise your baby-sitting business on campus. Negotiate additional tasks for extra pay. Work with children in other ways. Work with animals. Get paid to work outside. Use your vehicle to your advantage. House sit. Network to find house-sitting opportunities. Sell blood and/or plasma. Sell your gently used clothes to consignment shops. Sell your stuff online. Have a yard sale. Write online. Start your own blog or website. Start a YouTube channel. Turn your hobbies into a business. Perform paid administrative work. Make the most of your time online. Design an app. Rent a room. Save money on books. Look for used books. See if you can use an older edition. Rent or share textbooks. Carry cash only. Save on food on campus. Opt out of your dining plan. Save on clothes. Barter your services with friends. Reduce your transportation costs. Cut out luxuries. Take advantage of student discounts. Look for free entertainment. Consider joining one or more of the clubs on campus. |
https://www.wikihow-fun.com/Be-a-Bike-Punk | How to Be a Bike Punk | To be a bike punk, you'll need a bike, either new or used, that's customized to show off your unique personality. For example, you could paint it your favorite color, decorate it with cool stickers, or put a basket on it. Once you have a bike, try to use it as your main form of transportation. You can also meet up with other bike punks and go riding together. Additionally, if you want to dress like a typical bike bunk, wear skinny jeans that are rolled up so your socks are showing. | Buy a bike. Of course, you can borrow one from a friend, but how will you be able to call it your own? A bike punk values their bicycle almost as much as their own life. Do not steal a bike. Only go out and buy a really expensive bicycle if you are serious about this. Lock it up. You earn extreme credibility if you find one in the trash or at a thrift store/flea market and do something unique to make it your own. You can paint it and add accessories (baskets, flowers, horns (literal animal horns), fake fur, bells, etc.). If you are talented with welding and inventing contraptions, use these skills to create out-of-the-ordinary tandem, tall, oblong, and unique bikes. Get Committed. Sell, give, or burn your car away. If you don't have one already even better. Bike punks don't drive internal combustion engines without extreme guilt and malice. Learn bicycle safety. This cannot be stressed enough. be careful of driver doors swinging open, "right hooks", cars turning at intersections, and being visible at night. Red flashing LED lights clipped on your bag are always de rigueur. The bicycle is your primary form of transportation. Even if your destination is 10 miles (16 km) away, bike there. Some of the most hardcore of bike punks have ridden across the state, and even country. Bicycle rain or shine. While it is desirable to bicycle in the warmth and sunshine, a bike punk will move through rain, sleet, and snow. Critical Mass. Every last Friday of every month, the Critical Mass ritual occurs in cities all over the world. Find out when your city has it and where people convene. There, you will meet fellow bicycle enthusiasts. If you live in a small town, ride to the nearest city to participate. If this is not possible, then create your own form of bicycle activism and bicycle communities. Optional: Clothing. Well, clothing is optional. Bike punks consider themselves to be persons of different subcultures, mostly left of the dial. This includes: nudists, hippies, hipsters, punks, homeless people, utterly insane, etc. You can see that these all overlap at one point or another. Tight pants are recommended, usually rolled up past the ankles displaying socks and shoes. Unique hair is a must, be it dreadlocks, spunky colors, or fun hats/helmets. | Buy a bike. Get Committed. Learn bicycle safety. The bicycle is your primary form of transportation. Bicycle rain or shine. Critical Mass. Optional: |
https://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-a-Fear-of-Sex | How to Overcome a Fear of Sex | To overcome your fear of sex, practice pleasuring yourself so you can get to know your own body before opening up to someone else. You can also practice kissing, massaging, and touching with a willing partner to make you more comfortable before you move onto intercourse. If you're in a relationship, explain your feelings to your partner and ask them to take things at your speed. Try not to compare yourself to other people, since everyone's sexual journey is unique. If you ever feel uncomfortable during sexual activity, don't be afraid to tell your partner that you want to stop, since it's important that you feel in control. | Face your fear. Determine what you are afraid of and challenge it. When it comes to being fearful of sex, you need to know what has caused you to be afraid. Identifying specific fears will help you focus on finding a solution. Sit down and make a list of the things you fear about sex. For example, you may not know how to approach the subject, you might be afraid of doing something wrong, or you're embarrassed of how you look naked. Challenge your fears by listing possible solutions to resolve your fears. For example, if you don't know how to approach the subject with someone, ask a trusted friend how they do it, or find someone who does it well and model his behavior. Even watching a romantic movie might help. If you are afraid of doing something wrong, you need to study the subject and figure out what techniques work best for you. Preparation and knowledge will lessen any fear. Educate yourself on human anatomy and physiology. The structure and function of the human body have been studied for centuries. There are volumes of information you can refer to if you are unaware of some or all parts of the female or male anatomy. If your fear is related to not knowing enough about a woman's and man's external genitalia, then it is time to get educated. The female genitalia includes: the vagina, a tubular organ connecting the genitals with the uterus; the uterus, a hollow muscular organ where a fetus grows during pregnancy; the vulva includes all the visible external aspects (mons pubis, labia majora, labia minora, clitoris, urethra, vaginal vestibule, perineal body); glans, the tip of the clitoris that is a highly sensitive organ. The male genitalia includes: the penis, cylindrical mass of penile tissue; the testes, oval, glandular organs contained inside the skin pouch called the scrotum; glans, the structure at the tip of the penis. The four stages of sexual response are: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and refractory period. An orgasm is a genital reflex governed by the nerves in the spinal cord and is experienced differently by women and men. Once you understand the basic structure and function of relevant body parts, you will feel more in command of yourself and your fears about sexual activity. Make a plan of action. Most fears are conquered by devising a plan of action. Overcoming a fear of sex is no exception. Identify what your main objectives are, set up steps to take and follow your plan. Make a list of the things you fear. Is your fear related to the possible sexual encounter you might have during a date? Therefore, does the thought of asking someone on a date scare you? Are you concerned with looking good, having bad breath, or sweating too much? Approach your dilemma one step at a time. For example, if you are afraid to ask someone on a date, start by first asking a stranger what time it is. Although you won't be asking the person on a date or to have a sexual encounter, you will gain experience approaching someone and asking them a question. This is the first step toward your goal. Working toward a solution will help lessen your fear. Creating a plan of action helps you feel like you can do something to improve your situation. Practice. To overcome a fear of sex you need to gradually work your way through the process. Research indicates that overcoming a fear is aided when a person faces the fear in an imagined situation or a live experience. Developing a positive habit is the desired goal. Learn how to please yourself. Determine what feels good to you by touching yourself, imagining an interaction with someone, or using sexual accessories designed to arouse. With a willing participant, build your experience over time in the areas of communicating your feelings, holding hands, kissing, massage, sexual touching and eventually intercourse. Do not pressure yourself into doing too much too soon. This may only add to the fear you are feeling. Be open with your emotions. When communicating with someone you care about be kind and caring and show them you are emotionally open. Sex is an emotional experience, so be mindful of this when speaking and when spoken to. If you are physically or emotionally uncomfortable in any way, tell the person you are with and take the time you need to get to a place of comfort. For example, if you feel rushed or physically ill say, “I've got to stop right here. I'm not comfortable.” Avoid jumping into sexual situations too quickly. The results could be dangerous. You can still be emotionally open with someone and show discretion about how far you will allow yourself to be involved. Remember to have fun. Sexual interactions are supposed to be enjoyable so relax and engage in the excitement of it all. Focusing on having fun will distract you from being fearful. Lightening the mood during a sexual encounter will allow you to feel free. For example, be playful and silly and laugh at yourself. It will set you both at ease. Address your physical functioning. The human body is amazing. Yours is unique and needs to be taken care of so you will have confidence with your sexual abilities. Eating right, getting an appropriate amount of sleep, and exercising will help you maintain great health and a positive sense of yourself. Certain drugs and alcohol will affect your physical functioning. Avoid them to eliminate lingering fear. If you do have difficulty getting and maintaining an erection, see a doctor who is specifically trained to manage these issues. Erectile dysfunction is usually attributed to a poor blood supply to the penis. Eating foods that promote good vascular health and following a healthy-heart related plan may help the condition. A diet high in vegetables and fruits, whole grains, fiber, lean meats, and low-fat dairy products is recommended. Relax your expectations to improve performance. Placing undue pressure upon yourself does not work to your advantage. If you have a fear of not being able to perform and meet your partner's needs, then you must adjust your mindset. Men tend to be competitive about many things in life, which isn't always healthy. It becomes a problem when it causes you so much stress during a sexual encounter that you are more focused on “winning” than on enjoying each other's company. Being overly focused on winning indicates you seek high levels of external validation. Shift your thinking toward the sharing aspects of your interaction. This will move your focus from yourself to the experience itself and your partner. Don't judge yourself. Your self-worth is not dependent upon your sexual performance. You are an entire person with many positive qualities and abilities. Don't let one aspect of your life define you. Write a list of some of your positive attributes, and how they benefit you and the people around you. Improve your emotional vocabulary. It is a common struggle to figure out how you feel and communicate it clearly to someone. Frustration can set in when you don't know what you feel. You may be afraid of saying the wrong thing or not saying what you really mean. Start by writing about the feelings you are having. Writing helps to organize your thoughts about your fears and clarifies what you are feeling. Your writing doesn't have to be perfect. The important thing to do is to pull your emotions up from your subconscious to acknowledge them, and then you can process them. If there is something you want to tell someone, rehearse it ahead of time. Visualize yourself meeting with the person and having a good conversation. Don't feel pressured to give your feelings a label. You don't need to give everything a perfect name in order for it to be real. Perhaps you feel a little unsteady and a bit nervous and excited, but a little nauseous at the same time. This may translate to feeling love or infatuation for someone. It can be confusing. Make sure you are safe. A woman's primary concern when engaging in any sexual activities is her safety. Taking precautions will help alleviate your fears toward being emotionally or physically harmed. Whether you have a fear of getting pregnant, of losing your virginity, or your parents finding out, securing your safety will help manage all of them. You have control over your body. Avoid those things that cause you to lose control like alcohol or drugs. Make sure you feel comfortable and are ready for sexual activity. Always make sure someone knows where you are when there is a potential to engage in sexual activity with someone. Guard against pregnancy by using a form of birth control. The fear of getting pregnant can motivate you to make good choices. Don't compare yourself to others. Competing or comparing yourself to others in a group can be dangerous. Becoming sexually active is a turning point for everyone. You must resist the pressures of trying to fit in or make someone like you by offering sexual favors. Your sexual development is a very personal and unique part of your life. It is your experience so you must take ownership of it. Don't allow others to negatively influence your decisions. You must learn to set boundaries with confidence, which will help fight off any fears you have. For example, someone shows you a lot of attention and you end up dating. Your affection grows for the person, but not as fast as the person would like. They say to you, “I'm really interested in a lot of people and I thought we would be having sex by this point. When are we going to have sex? Don't you like me?” An effective response would be, “I like you a lot and I'm enjoying the fact that we are getting closer. I appreciate that you've been patient with me. However, my choice to have sex with you will never be something I rush into. If you need to date someone else, then I have no other choice but to let you go.” Assert your right to say, “no. ” Sexual assault, dating or domestic violence, and stalking are very serious matters. As a woman, or anyone, you must be clear about your intentions when faced with a possible sexual encounter. You have the ability to stop an interaction at any time. When you say, “No!” and “Stop” it means “Stop!” Look out for yourself as if you were looking out for your best friend. If you sense danger in any situation, always follow your intuition. Be comfortable with changing your plans, your mind, and those you date. Trust your instincts. The important thing to remember is you must trust the person you are with so you can make clear, well-informed decisions. Find a therapist. If you are avoiding sexual contact and the thought of having sex causes you to feel excessive and unreasonable anxiety or panic, you should seek help from a professional therapist. This may be signs of a phobia rather than a normal fear response. The physical symptoms of a phobia include: sweating, shaking, feeling lightheaded, and having difficulty breathing. A counselor can help you manage these symptoms and the condition. See a therapist if you have sexual abuse in your history, which may hinder your enjoyment of sexual activity. Talking with a counselor and processing those traumas will lead to a positive relationship with others. Learn relaxation techniques. When everyone relaxes, everyone benefits. Approaching an intimate situation with a sense of calm will stave off fear, and enhance your enjoyment. Relaxation techniques include guided imagery, biofeedback, and breathing exercises. These will help you lower the stress and fear you feel. Use these techniques prior to interacting with someone. Guided imagery involves focusing on calming images and can be done by yourself or with help from a therapist. Biofeedback is a technique that trains you to lower your heart rate and blood pressure, which are associated with fear. Breathing exercises help to calm the nervous system associated with the fight-or-flight response, which is triggered when you feel fear. If fear takes a hold of you when you are with someone in an intimate situation, pause and take a minute to breath and tap into the relaxation skills you have learned. Challenge your negative thoughts. Your thoughts affect your emotions. There is a tendency to overestimate the negative outcomes before you experience them, and underestimate your ability to cope with and manage a situation. These thoughts are imbalanced and need to be challenged. For example, you are extremely nervous and afraid that you will throw up on your date when you are kissing. Challenge the thought by saying, “You cannot predict the future and you have never thrown up on anyone. If you feel nauseous excuse yourself and go to the bathroom. You can handle it.” You are stronger than you think. If you feel you lack adequate coping skills, improve them. For example, take notice of the way you effectively cope with another type of fear in your life and apply the same technique. Also, observe how someone you admire copes with difficult situations. Ask them for suggestions that you can implement. Use positive self-talk to calm your thoughts and nerves. For example, if you feel your fear, anxiety or stress increase, tell yourself, “You are fine. This is going to be fun. You are not going to be embarrassed. Have a good time.” | Face your fear. Educate yourself on human anatomy and physiology. Make a plan of action. Practice. Be open with your emotions. Remember to have fun. Address your physical functioning. Relax your expectations to improve performance. Improve your emotional vocabulary. Make sure you are safe. Don't compare yourself to others. Assert your right to say, “no. Find a therapist. Learn relaxation techniques. Challenge your negative thoughts. |
https://www.wikihow.health/Lose-Weight-Without-Dieting | How to Lose Weight Without Dieting | To lose weight without dieting, start by drinking plenty of fluids, which can prevent you from snacking when you aren't hungry. It's also important to sleep 7-9 hours each night, since sleeping less than 6 hours per night increases your risk for weight gain and obesity. Engage in 150 minutes of cardio exercise every week to support your weight loss when you're not dieting. You can also include 1-3 days of strength training to increase your metabolic rate, which allows you to burn more calories when you're at rest. | Set realistic goals. If your plan is to make small lifestyle changes instead of going on a diet, you may not lose as much weight or may lose weight more slowly compared to others that are counting calories or are following a diet. Set small weight loss goals for yourself each week or month. Weight loss might be easier to tackle if you have small goals to meet more often instead of one large, long-term goal. Goals that are too hefty can result in failure to stay on the program. Setting smaller, realistic goals is crucial to success. Although it's not likely you'll lose large amounts of weight each week without dieting, it's not safe to try to lose more than 1–2 pounds weekly. Losing more than that may mean you're not eating enough, which could lead to nutrient deficiencies as you're most likely not eating enough food to provide you with all the essential nutrients you need. Make a list of lifestyle changes you can make. Although weight loss doesn't require you to go on a "diet" or count calories or restrict your food intake, it may require you to make a few lifestyle changes. These are small changes you can make in a variety of areas your life to help you achieve your goals. They can be made slowly, at the pace that is comfortable for you. Lifestyle changes should be something you feel comfortable changing or altering long-term. Reverting back to old habits may cause you to gain weight back. Ideas for some small changes to begin with include: taking the stairs instead of the elevator, drinking less or giving up soda, going to the gym 2–3 times a week, or eating more fruits and vegetables. Note that lifestyle changes should not feel like a "diet." If they do, they might not be sustainable long-term or be something you enjoy doing. Write up a meal plan. Even without following a specific diet, writing up a personalized meal plan may help you lose weight. You can design your own plan, whether you want to count calories, monitor carbs, or focus on protein. Use your meal plan to design your own easy-to-follow and enjoyable eating pattern. Ideally, consult a Dietitian for a customized meal plan that takes into account all of your medical history and preferences. Plan for a few days or an entire week of meals. Make sure to include breakfast, lunch, dinner and any snacks. You can also use your meal plan to write up a corresponding grocery list. This will help make your trip to the store more efficient. If you're not planning on following any specific diet plan, it's still essential to aim for a healthy, well-balanced diet. Include all five food groups most days in your meal plan. Get enough fluids. Drinking adequate amounts of clear, sugar-free fluids daily can help you stay properly hydrated throughout the day. When you're dehydrated, many times your body sends hunger-like signals that may trigger you to eat. Extra snacking from this can make weight loss more difficult or slow. Aim to drink about 64 oz or 2 L of fluids daily. This general rule of thumb is a good place to start. However, you may notice you need slightly more or less depending on your weight and activity level. Keep a water bottle handy. Having a reusable bottle around can help you keep track of how much you're drinking throughout the day. Get adequate rest each night. Sleeping at least 7–9 hours a night is recommended to help support weight loss in addition to a healthy lifestyle. Studies have shown that those who get less than 6 hours of sleep per night are at higher risk for being overweight and gaining weight. Go to bed early and make sure to turn off all lights, TVs, cell phones or computers. This may help you sleep more soundly. Eat a balanced diet. Eating a well-balanced diet doesn't mean you have to be restrictive with your diet. However, it's important to eat foods from all five food groups so that you're consuming a variety of vitamins, minerals and other nutrients essential to your overall health. Include a source of lean protein at each meal. Protein helps keep you satisfied longer and may help promote weight loss. Aim to have 3–4 oz (a portion about the size of your palm) of any of the following: beef, pork, seafood, dairy products, poultry, eggs, legumes or tofu. Include fruits and vegetables at all meals. These foods are low-calorie and nutrient dense (meaning they contain a whole host of vitamins, minerals, fiber and antioxidants). Including these at each meal may help you reduce the overall amount of calories you consume without actually dieting. It's recommended to make half your meals or half of your plate a fruit or vegetable. Choose 100% whole grains when possible. These grains are higher in fiber and other nutrients compared to refined grains and are important for your health. Include a serving or two (1/2 cup or 1 oz) most days. Whole grains include: quinoa, 100% whole wheat bread, brown rice, oats or 100% whole grain pasta. This is where moderation comes into play. You may treat yourself, but make sure that falls into the category of "variety" and not just constant splurging. Snack healthy. One common reason people give up on diets is because they feel hungry throughout the day. Including healthy snacks can help keep you satisfied throughout the day and help manage your hunger. It can also help you maintain a speedy metabolism throughout the day. Include 1–2 snacks daily if you need it. Most snacks should fall between 100–200 calories. Higher calorie snacks may not promote weight loss. Snack as needed. If you're not feeling hungry or it is close to your planned meal time, it might be wise to pass on your snack. Healthy snacks to try include: 1/2 cup cottage cheese and fruit, 2 oz of low-sodium beef jerky, 1–2 ounces of cheese, and carrots and hummus. Indulge in moderation. Being able to enjoy favorite foods or the occasional treat is important when you're finding a healthy eating pattern to maintain long-term. Even with the occasional sweet treat or indulgent meal, you can still lose weight. Schedule in a dinner out, a sweet treat, or alcoholic drink into your meal plan. Make sure items like these aren't popping up frequently. Otherwise weight loss may prove to be more difficult. If planning on splurging a little, try to make other changes in your day or week to compensate a little. Maybe you go to the gym or take an extra walk or skip your afternoon snack. Talk to you doctor. Set up an appointment to talk to your doctor about your weight loss goals. They may be able to guide you toward a healthy and safe weight and let you know if weight loss is safe for you. In addition, your doctor may be able to give you tools to help you lose weight. Many doctors use prescription appetite suppressants to induce weight loss in some people. These medications may not be safe or appropriate for everyone, so your doctor will most likely give you a physical prior to prescribing you the medication. Although weight loss medications may work without following a specific diet, you will see the best results when you combine medication with diet and exercise. Increase baseline activity. Baseline activity refers to your normal, day-to-day activities: walking to the car, going to the store or doing household chores. Increasing your baseline activity may help support your weight loss. Baseline activity does not burn as many calories as planned exercise (like going for a 30 minute jog). However, it does burn a small amount of calories and has been shown to improve mood and increase energy. Include more baseline activities such as: parking farther away, taking the stairs instead of the elevator, or standing during commercial breaks. Avoid sedentary behavior as much as possible. Try to not sit or lay down to watch TV or use the computer for long periods of time. Add in aerobic exercise. Cardio exercises or aerobic activity burns the most calories per minute. Adding in regular cardio to your week can help support your weight loss - especially when you're not dieting. It's recommended to perform at least 150 minutes or about 2 1/2 hours of moderate-intensity aerobic activity each week. To see additional results, increase your activity as needed or try adding in vigorous-intensity activity (which burns more calories per minute) Cardio activities include: running/walking, biking, hiking, using the elliptical or going to a aerobic dance class. Consult a personal trainer who is accredited to create a custom exercise plan that takes into account all of your goals and limitations/injuries. Incorporate strength training. Although cardio burns a significant amount of calories, strength training can also help burn calories and support weight loss. Include 1–3 days of strength training each week. Strength training is crucial to weight control. This type of exercise helps build and support muscle mass which may increase your metabolic rate or how many calories you burn throughout the day. Muscle is active tissue that consumes calories throughout the day — whether you worked out or not. Include exercises such as: weight lifting, isometric exercises like yoga or pilates, or use resistance bands/tubes. | Set realistic goals. Make a list of lifestyle changes you can make. Write up a meal plan. Get enough fluids. Get adequate rest each night. Eat a balanced diet. Snack healthy. Indulge in moderation. Talk to you doctor. Increase baseline activity. Add in aerobic exercise. Incorporate strength training. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Fall-Asleep-when-You-Are-Worried-About-Not-Falling-Asleep | How to Fall Asleep when You Are Worried About Not Falling Asleep | If you are worried about not falling asleep, you can make the process easier by doing a relaxing activity like reading, stretching, or working on a craft, 30 minutes before bed. Create a relaxing routine that isn't overstimulating and will prepare your mind and body for sleep. For some extra help getting rid of your worries, try indulging in a truly relaxing activity like meditating or deep breathing exercises. You should also avoid bright lights and limit your screen time for those 30 minutes to maintain your natural circadian rhythm. If possible, remove all clocks from your bedroom, because not only will the light disrupt your circadian rhythm, but watching the clock will only make your anxiety worse. | Keep a journal. Try thinking about everything that bothers you and putting it on paper every day. Divide your worries into things you have already dealt with and things that you have a plan for dealing with. While you write, imagine that you are physically removing all these worries from your mind and placing them on the paper. This will help you put your worries away at the end of the day. Try not to leave any of your worries completely unresolved. If you can't deal with them before bed, make a simple plan for when and how you will deal with them so that you won't have to think about it while you are lying in bed. If you worry about things that you cannot solve or influence, like global warming or your children's well being on a school trip, write those down as well and tell yourself that you are discarding them as you write them down. Do not write in your journal right before bedtime. You want to give your mind a bit of time to relax and forget about the worries that you have written down. You can also try keeping track of your daily habits, including foods you ate and the amount of exercise you got, in your journal. This may help you recognize patterns of habits that are good or bad for your sleep. Calm your mind with exercise. Exercise is good for your body and your mind! If you suffer from anxiety, try incorporating at least 30 minutes of physical activity into your daily routine. This simple lifestyle change can help your body cope with stress. Try to avoid stimulating exercises right you go to bed. It is best to give your body a few hours to wind down between your workout and your bedtime. Confront your worries. If your mind is racing with anxieties or obsessive thoughts, sometimes the best thing to do is to acknowledge their existence and actively work to dismiss them. The next time you find yourself worrying about something for no reason, take control by telling yourself that it is an obsessive thought and encouraging yourself to rise above it. Then distract your mind from the thought by finding a task or another thought to occupy yourself with. It may help if you repeat a mantra to yourself. Try something like: "I am having an obsessive thought about _____. There is no need for me to worry about _____, so I will think about _____ instead. It may also help to take a moment to analyze your worries and think about all of the reasons why they are not productive things to worry about. You can try incorporating something like "It is not worth my time to worry about _____ because _____" into your mantra. If you encounter a legitimate worry that genuinely requires action, focus your energy on brainstorming possible solutions to the problem, instead of ruminating about all of the bad things that might happen. Once you have come up with a solution, tell yourself, "I no longer need to worry about _____ because I have made a plan for dealing with it." Desensitize yourself to the unknown. If you are worrying about the uncertainty of the future, try repeating the worry to yourself several times. As you do so, tell yourself that you don't know what will happen in the future, and that you're okay with that uncertainty. Eventually your mind will become more comfortable with the thought you are having and will move on to other thoughts. Let yourself be emotional. Your worries may stem in part from your resistance to showing other emotions, such as anger or sadness. Don't be afraid to talk about your feelings, or to cry when you feel sad. Releasing your emotions like this will help you feel much better! While it's important to acknowledge your emotions, it's also important not to allow yourself to dwell on negative feelings, as this can lead to more anxiety. Once you've acknowledged how you're feeling, try to do something to lift your emotions. If you're in bed, try thinking about something that makes you happy to improve your mood. Get treatment for depression and anxiety disorders. Many people who suffer from chronic insomnia also suffer from clinical depression or an anxiety disorder. While doctors do not know for sure if one causes the other, there does seem to be some correlation. If you can manage the symptoms of your depression or anxiety, either with drugs or with therapy, you may have a much easier time falling asleep. Seek therapy for chronic insomnia. You might benefit from cognitive behavioral therapy if you have a difficult time falling asleep on a regular basis, even if you don't suffer from depression or anxiety as well. This kind of treatment will help you recognize the causes of your insomnia and change your thinking patterns to help you fall asleep more easily. Establish a relaxing routine. It is important to get your body accustomed to a regular sleep schedule, particularly if you tend to have a hard time falling asleep. Try going to sleep and waking up at the same time every day. Following a regular routine for at least 30 minutes before your bedtime will help your mind and body prepare for sleep. Your routine should be relaxing. Try to choose something that will help you keep your mind off of the worries of your day, but will not overstimulate you. Reading, playing a game, stretching, or working on a craft project are all great options. Find one that is enjoyable for you. If you need some extra help getting rid of your worries, give yourself some time right before bed to indulge in an activity that you find truly relaxing. You can try meditating , taking a hot bath, practicing progressive muscle relaxation , or doing deep breathing exercises. Everyone is different, so try some different activities to find one that helps you reduce your overall anxiety. Unplug and dim the lights. Exposure to bright lights late in the day can disrupt your natural circadian rhythm. Try to avoid watching television or using your computer for at least 30 minutes before you go to bed. It's also best to begin dimming the lights in your house several hours before you go to bed so that your body realizes it is nighttime. If possible, rid your room of sleep-disrupting lights from electronics like clocks and televisions. If you wake up in the middle of the night, avoid turning all of the lights on, as this may make your body think it is time to be active. To enhance your body's natural circadian rhythm, try to expose yourself to as much natural light as possible during the day. Don't obsess over sleep. While it is important to get adequate sleep, it is also important to recognize that one poor night of sleep will not cause you any harm. If you can't sleep, try reminding yourself that you will still be fine the next day instead of dwelling on the consequences of sleep deprivation. Watching the clock will only worsen your anxiety, so avoid doing so at all costs. While the occasional poor night of sleep will not harm your health, chronic sleeplessness might, so seek medical help if you have chronic insomnia. Distract yourself. Sometimes your brain just needs to focus on something relaxing in order to fall asleep. If you find your mind dwelling on your worries, redirect your thinking by practicing one of the following exercises: Think about a happy memory or a favorite story and silently rehearse the story to yourself in as much detail as possible. You can also focus on an everyday object and attempt to describe it to yourself in vivid detail. Focus all of your attention on the natural rhythm of your breath and try to visualize your breath entering and exiting each part of your body. Busy your brain by trying to think of as many items that fit into a certain category as possible. For example, you could attempt to name all animals whose name starts with the letter A. Get up if you can't sleep. If you have been lying in bed for a long time and are unable to fall asleep, it's better to get up than to lie there worrying. Try moving to a different room and engaging in a relaxing activity, such as knitting or reading, until you feel tired. Remember to keep the lights as dim as possible and to avoid dwelling on the negative consequences of not getting enough sleep. Prepare your body for sleep. Some people find it helpful to take a warm shower, bath, or sauna before bed. This triggers your body's natural response to cool itself, which will help you fall asleep. Try using soothing aromatic bath oils such as lavender. It is also important to wear comfortable pajamas that are made of a material that will wick moisture away from your body, like cotton. This will help keep you comfortable throughout the night. Make your room comfortable. For the best sleeping conditions, your room should be cool, dark, and quiet. You can use a fan or white noise machine to help drown out outside noises if you like. You should also make sure your mattress, bedding, and pillow are comfortable. Some people respond well to keeping the bed area tidy, too. Make your bed with a set of new or freshly washed plain matching bed sheets. In choosing the bedding go for a quiet colour, without any patterns, and for natural, skin friendly fibers. A fresh, tidy and comfortable bed would encourage sleep or at least make your tossing and turning less irksome. Designate your bed as a place for sleeping. If you never do other activities in your bed, your brain will associate it with sleep, which should make it easier for you to fall asleep when you are there. Avoid activities like watching television, working, and using your phone in your bed. It's best not to perform these activities in your bedroom at all, but if you must, sit in a chair or on a sofa instead of on the bed. Remove all non-sleep-related items from the immediate vicinity of the bed. This means plates, magazines, your laptop, etc. Reduce the items on the night table to a few vitals: an alarm clock, a reading lamp, one book, a glass of water. | Keep a journal. Calm your mind with exercise. Confront your worries. Desensitize yourself to the unknown. Let yourself be emotional. Get treatment for depression and anxiety disorders. Seek therapy for chronic insomnia. Establish a relaxing routine. Unplug and dim the lights. Don't obsess over sleep. Distract yourself. Get up if you can't sleep. Prepare your body for sleep. Make your room comfortable. Designate your bed as a place for sleeping. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Stop-a-Dog-from-Pulling-on-Its-Leash | How to Stop a Dog from Pulling on Its Leash | To stop a dog from pulling on its leash, stop and refuse to move in the direction it's pulling to teach it that pulling is ineffective. As soon as your dog stops pulling, begin walking again. Repeat this method throughout the walk. Alternatively, if this doesn't work, use a head halter on your dog, which turns your dog's head around to face you whenever it pulls on the leash. You could also put a harness on your dog, which clips to the collar and wraps around its belly, as this will give you more control over the dog's movements. | Use a proper collar. Be sure that your dog has a comfortable collar that fits it properly. The collar shouldn't be so tight that it is choking the dog, but should be tight enough so that it does not slide up and down the dog's neck. You should be able to slide your hand between the dog's neck and collar when it is secured in place. Many people choose to use a harness instead of a collar. The harness disperses the pressure to the dog's back rather than its neck. This will allow you to train your dog to walk on a leash without having to rely on the choking feeling the dog gets when pulling at its leash. Use the right leash. When using this method for training your dog not to pull, make sure you do not use a retractable leash. This will defeat the entire purpose of the exercise. Use a standard chain or cloth leash. Stop and stand still. Whenever your dog pulls, stop and stand still (be a tree). No matter how hard your dog pulls, don't let it go in the direction it wants to go. The reason for this is that if the dog pulls, and you follow it, the dog is learning that pulling is a very effective way to get somewhere. It might help to attach the leash to your belt loop using a carabiner. This prevents the dog from getting ahead. It's also far easier to stand still with your hips getting pulled than your arm. Wait for the dog to respond. Wait until the dog does anything that loosens the leash. The dog might stop pulling by leaning back, sitting, or changing direction. As soon as the leash loosens, you can start walking again. You can encourage the dog to loosen the leash by calling it back to you. Repeat for the duration of the walk. This method requires a lot of patience! You're trying to teach the dog that pulling gets it nowhere. You have to be consistent and timely. A variation of this method is to walk in the opposite direction whenever your dog pulls. Do some basic clicker training. In order for this method to be effective, you need your dog to respond to the clicker. Every time the dog obeys a command, click the clicker and give your dog a treat. Be consistent with the clicker so that your dog associates the sound with treats. Lead the dog. On the walk, stay ahead of your dog at all times. This will ensure that the dog learns to follow you rather than the other way around. Click and drop a treat. As the dog catches up to you, click the clicker and drop a treat on the ground before the dog passes you. If the dog does not immediately respond to the clicker, give it a verbal command to stop. If the dog responds, click and drop a treat. If the dog does not stop upon your command, do not give the dog a treat. This will ensure the dog does not associate negative behaviors with treats or the clicker. Repeat. Keep repeating this process on your walk. This exercise will train the dog to pay attention to you. Moreover, it will ensure that it learns to stay next to or behind you when walking on its leash. Get a head halter for your dog. The lease attaches to straps around the dog's muzzle so that when the dog pulls, its head will be forced around, facing you. Attaching the leash to the dog's muzzle automatically redirects its focus toward you. Use a choke collar. When training your dog, try using a slip or choke collar under the supervision of a trained expert. These collars will tighten around the dog's neck if they pull on the leash, effectively choking them. Using these collars for training will help your dog associate pulling with being choked. While these collars can effective for training a dog, many experts argue that they are dangerous or unnecessary. It is recommended that you never use a choke collar unless under the direct supervision of animal behaviorist. These collars work by using negative reinforcement. Most dog training experts suggest that your dog will respond better to positive reinforcement that it will to negative reinforcement- so keep that in mind when considering using this training tool. These collars are for training only. Never leave this collar on your dog or use it as a substitute for their regular collar. These collars are controversial, so consider the arguments for or against choke collars before deciding to try this method. Try a halti dog harness. These harnesses attach to the dog's collar with a clip and are fastened across the dog's underbelly. It works through attaching your leash to the front chest strap, which means you will gain more control over your dog. When your dog pulls on its leash, it will be guided back towards you, naturally and gently discouraging him from pulling. The leash attachment at the chest prevents putting any pressure on your dog's throat and neck, which is especially important as this could cause tracheal damage. Wear the dog out. Run the dog to tire it out before attaching the leash and going for a walk. A tired dog is far more manageable and will be more responsive to your commands during the walk. Try playing fetch in the yard for 10 minutes before going on a walk. Use positive reinforcement. End training sessions on a happy success moment. Don't end it when he/she is messing up. Success is continuing to make progress. Never allow the dog to remain unhappy at the end of your training session. | Use a proper collar. Use the right leash. Stop and stand still. Wait for the dog to respond. Repeat for the duration of the walk. Do some basic clicker training. Lead the dog. Click and drop a treat. Repeat. Get a head halter for your dog. Use a choke collar. Try a halti dog harness. Wear the dog out. Use positive reinforcement. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Mulch | How to Make Mulch | To make mulch, start by raking up leaves from your yard and collecting them into a large pile. Then, use a rake or leaf blower to spread them out into a thin layer that's 2 inches thick. Next, mow over the leaves a few times with your lawnmower to chop the leaves into small pieces. Once the leaves are cut up into roughly dime-sized pieces, add grass clippings, pine needles, or shredded paper to the mulch. Finally, use the mulch right away or store it under a tarp until you need it. | Collect leaves. Many homes have leafy trees and plants that provide a great mulch source, and leaf mulch is a good all-purpose mulch for your garden. You can either gather leaves by raking up ones that fall in the autumn, or collect the leaves that you prune off plants. Avoid using the leaves from walnut and eucalyptus trees, as these can prevent other plants from growing. Rake the leaves into a pile. Use a rake or leaf blower to amass all your leaves into a large pile. To prevent damage to the lawnmower blades, pile the leaves on a flat section of lawn. Spread the leaves out into a layer that's no more than 2 inches (5 cm) thick. Use a shovel and wheelbarrow to collect all the leaves if you don't have a rake or leaf blower. Shred the leaves with a lawnmower. Once the leaves are all piled together in a thin layer, turn on your lawnmower and mow over the pile a few times to chop the leaves into smaller pieces. Continue shredding until the pieces are dime-sized. Shredding the leaves will help them to decompose in the garden, and this will provide the soil with nutrients. You can also use an electric leaf shredder to chop the leaves. Use hedge trimmers to manually shred the leaves if you don't have anything else. Use the mulch right away and store extras. Once the leaves have been shredded, they're ready to use as mulch in the garden. Extra mulch can be stored in a ventilated barrel, a large bag with air holes, or spread out on a tarp and covered from the elements. Once the leaf mulch is ready, you can also combine it with other mulch materials from around the yard. The longer the mulch is stored, the more nutrients it will lose. Mulch that is stored in low or no ventilation areas will begin to ferment and release high pH toxins, which are deadly to plants. Chop up tree branches, bark, and trimmings. Wood also makes great mulch, and you can make wood or bark mulch from organic matter from around the yard. Go around your house and collect fallen branches, bark, or tree trimmings that you pruned from your plants. Put on safety glasses and process the wood and bark through a wood chipper to make a mulch. Bark and wood mulch can be used on its own or combined with leaf mulch. Wood mulch is ideal for established gardens and plants, but shouldn't be used with young plants. You can rent a wood chipper from a hardware store if you don't have one of your own. Wood decomposes more slowly than leaves, so this would be a good mulch for long term use. Collect grass clippings to add to the mulch. Grass clippings make an ideal addition to leaf mulch, though they aren't as effective when used alone. After mowing your lawn, rake up the grass clippings. Mix the clippings in with the leaf mulch and use a spade or pitchfork to mix them together. If your mower has a bag to collect grass, simply pour the contents of the bag into the leaf mulch when you're done. Rake up pine needles for your mulch. Like grass clippings, fallen pine needles can also be mixed with leaf mulch. Pine mulch is best used with acid-loving plants. Rake up needles from around your yard and combine them with the leaf mulch using a shovel or pitchfork. Repurpose shredded paper. Newspaper and other types of paper from around the house can also be recycled and turned into mulch. Collect the paper and use an electric shredder or scissors to shred the paper into small pieces. Combine the paper shreds with the leaf mulch and use as normal. Mulch in summer and winter. In summer, mulch will help your gardens retain moisture and keep the roots cool. In winter, the mulch will protect the plants from frost and help to keep the soil warm. Summer mulches will decay over time, but winter mulch should be removed in spring. Ideal summer mulches include leaf mulch, leaf mulch mixtures, and compost. Ideal winter mulches include pine needles, straw, and bark. Remove old winter mulch. In the spring when you start gardening again, remove the winter mulch that protected the gardens during colder weather. You can add the removed mulch to your compost pile. Winter mulches don't decompose as quickly as summer mulches, so it's important to remove them in summer so you can add more nutrient-rich mulches to the soil. Pull out weeds. Before adding mulch to the garden, go around and pull out all the weeds you find in the bed. Otherwise, the mulch will protect the weeds and allow them to thrive. This will also create unwanted competition for the plants you're actually trying to grow. Add several inches of mulch to your gardens. Apply the mulch after you've finished planting in spring, or when you finish preparing the garden for winter. Use a shovel or rake to spread a 2- to 6-inch (5- to 15-cm) layer of mulch over the garden bed: In shadier areas, use 2 to 3 inches (5 to 8 cm) of mulch In sunny areas, use 3 to 4 inches (8 to 10 cm) of mulch In really hot and sunny areas, use up to 6 inches (15 cm) of mulch. Make a well around the base of the plants. After you spread the mulch out over the garden bed, use your hand or a spade to pull the mulch away from the base of the plants. This is especially important in shady areas, because it will protect the plants from mold, rot, and insects. Providing some distance between the plant and the mulch will also allow air to circulate the plant, providing ventilation that is essential for healthy growth. Leave 1 to 2 inches (2.5 to 5 cm) of space between the mulch and the base of the plants, or enough room so the mulch isn't touching the plants. | Collect leaves. Rake the leaves into a pile. Shred the leaves with a lawnmower. Use the mulch right away and store extras. Chop up tree branches, bark, and trimmings. Collect grass clippings to add to the mulch. Rake up pine needles for your mulch. Repurpose shredded paper. Mulch in summer and winter. Remove old winter mulch. Pull out weeds. Add several inches of mulch to your gardens. Make a well around the base of the plants. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Store-Comic-Books | How to Store Comic Books | To store comic books, start by sealing them in comic book bags, which you can buy online or at your local comic or hobby shop. Additionally, to prevent creases, place a piece of acid-free cardboard backing in the bag with the comic. Next, place your books upright in an acid-free, dry cardboard or plastic box or in a filing cabinet. If the comic is rare or valuable, invest in a hard shell case. | Protect comic books in plastic book bags. Wrapping your collection in comic book bags will be more than enough to maintain its condition. Buy bags at your local comic or hobby shop or purchase them online, and when you do, keep these three main comic book sizes in mind: Current (1980 to present) size: 6 7/8″ x 10 1/2″ Silver Age (1950 to 1980) size: 7 1/8″ x 10 1/2″ Golden Age (pre-1950) size: 7 3/4” x 10 1/2” Prevent creases in bagged books with cardboard backing. Cardboard backing can also be bought at most comic and hobby shops. Be sure to verify the backing you buy is acid free. Cardboard that has acid won't likely give your comics superpowers – expect damage instead. Seal away rare comics in hard shell cases. Hard shell cases are going to cost you a couple dollars apiece, if not more. Because of this, it's only really worth it to store rare or valuable comics in containers like these. Buy these cases from comic and hobby shops. Hard shell cases will be easier and safer to display. You may be able to attach an adhesive hook to the case so you can display the comic on a wall. Safeguard the value of comics with certification and slabbing. To have this done, you'll need to send your comic in to a recognized authority in rare and vintage comics, like Certified Guarantee Company. Your comic will be returned to you safely encased in plastic with its condition certified by an expert. Each certified, slabbed comic should have a protective hologram and barcode. Should these be tampered with or damaged, the certification is invalidated. Store regular editions in cardboard boxes. Cardboard is cheap and fairly durable as long as its kept dry, which makes it ideal for your less important books. Slide bagged books into boxes so they're standing upright. Avoid acid treated cardboard and packing too many books in a box, as both can cause damage. Generally, you want enough space left in a box so you can comfortably separate comics with your fingers to read titles, but not so much space that the comics are loosely upright. Use a bookend or a suitable paper weight to hold comics in place for boxes with too few comics. Damage may occur if you allow books to flop around in the boxes. Use plastic containers in place of cardboard for valuable comics. Plastic containers will generally offer you a little more protection than cardboard. These are also more resilient to water damage, and some may even offer an airtight seal to protect your comics from the elements. Comic books should be stored in plastic containers similar to cardboard ones: upright and firmly, but not tightly, packed. Keep books out of sunlight and away from the elements. Sunlight causes pages to yellow and ink to fade. Too much moisture or dry heat, on the other hand, causes paper to warp or become brittle. A cool, dry, dark storage location will keep your comic books in the best condition for the longest time. Avoid stacking containers and storing them on the floor. Damage frequently occurs to comics when piled high stacks of containers collapse. Avoid stacking if it can be helped. Keep containers of comics off the floor with pallets and milk crates to prevent potential water damage. Even cement that is dry throughout the year will conduct cold and draw moisture to your books. Handle comics with clean hands, always. If you're a collector, this needs to be your golden rule. After all, an errant speck of dirt or smudge of chocolate could drastically reduce the value of your collectible. Similarly, have any friends or prospective buyers wash their hands before touching comics. You may feel self-conscious making this simple request. Remember, you spent a lot of time and effort building your collection. Try saying, “This one's pretty rare, would you mind washing your hands first?” Control the storage environment. Temperatures that are too hot or cold could damage the glue in the binding of some comics or cause the quality of the paper to change unnaturally. Humidity, as you probably already know, is another enemy your comic book must be protected from. A dehumidifier in your comic book storage room is a great way of ensuring low humidity, which is ideal for book health. An indoor storage location might be best if you're concerned about the condition of your collection. It'll be much easier for you to control the climate. Keep books in a filing cabinet. A filing cabinet keep your bagged and backing boarded collection well-organized and protected from damage. If you have a filing cabinet with a lock, comic books stored inside will also be less likely to be stolen. Lock away ultra-valuable titles in safety deposit boxes. These books should still be bagged and boarded, at minimum. Though if a comic is rare enough to be kept in a safety deposit box, you should really look into having that beauty certified and slabbed. | Protect comic books in plastic book bags. Prevent creases in bagged books with cardboard backing. Seal away rare comics in hard shell cases. Safeguard the value of comics with certification and slabbing. Store regular editions in cardboard boxes. Use plastic containers in place of cardboard for valuable comics. Keep books out of sunlight and away from the elements. Avoid stacking containers and storing them on the floor. Handle comics with clean hands, always. Control the storage environment. Keep books in a filing cabinet. Lock away ultra-valuable titles in safety deposit boxes. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Rangoli-with-Flowers | How to Make Rangoli with Flowers | To make rangoli with flowers, use chalk to draw the outline of your rangoli, which is typically in the shape of a flower. If you're unsure where to put it, try drawing it on the ground next to your porch, or on the floor inside your home if the weather is bad. Once the drawing is complete, select at least 3 colors of flowers for your design. When you've chosen your flowers, remove the stems so you're only left with the heads. Afterwards, place one type of flower in each section of your design, making sure that there are no gaps. You can tear petals off flowers if you need additional color to fill in spaces. Finish your design by placing candles in the center and at the corners of your rangoli. | Create or print the design for your rangoli. Search for ideas online if you're unsure of what you'd like your rangoli to look like. Most designs are geometric or resemble a large flower, though some are very complex and represent Hindu goddesses (especially Lakshmi). If you find a design online that you like, you can print it off to copy later, or start drawing your own unique idea either by hand or on the computer. Symmetry can also be a big component of rangoli. North India values large, flowing designs, whereas the Tamil version focuses on intricacy and symmetry. Whichever way you choose to go, make sure to pick a pattern that you love! One of the lovely things about rangoli is that it can be any size you'd like, and it can follow simple or complex patterns. Practice sketching the design before you draw it on the ground. If you're designing your own rangoli rather than printing one from the computer to trace, it's a great idea to practice drawing the design a few times before you commit to it. Use paper and pencil to sketch out the design and add any additional flourishes you'd like. Keep in mind that you'll be drawing the rangoli in chalk, which can smear easily, so practice creating your design from the top down if you can. This will make it less likely that you'll rub the chalk away with your hand or arm as you complete the design. Choose a location for the rangoli where it can be enjoyed. Traditionally, rangoli are placed on the ground near the entrance to a home. If you have a front porch, put the rangoli just outside the front door and off to the side so it's out of the way of foot traffic. If you live somewhere where the weather is rainy or windy, you may want to draw the rangoli inside. Try placing it inside the house near the front door or the entrance to a sitting room. Make sure to leave enough space for people to walk by it. If you're putting the rangoli inside and have pets, you may want to make your rangoli on top of a table or somewhere it'll be out of reach. Use chalk to draw the outline of your rangoli on the ground. Once you've decided on a design and practiced it a few times, lightly sketch out the design on the ground. On the smaller side, rangoli have a 1 ft (12 in) diameter, but they can be as big as 3 ft (36 in) across. Take your time and enjoy the process! The chalk will end up being covered by the flowers, but the design will help you put those flowers in the right places to create your beautiful flower rangoli. Choose 3 or more colors or types of flowers for your design. Depending on what's available to you either from your own garden or from the store, choose a variety of flowers to fill your rangoli. Orange, yellow, white, red, purple, and green are common options. Mums, daisies, roses, and even peonies are great types of flowers to use. Each section of your rangoli will be decorated with a different type or color of flower. Even within a section, you could create lines and patterns by alternating the colors. Trim the stems off of the flowers you intend to use whole. Cut away the stems and any green leaves attached to your flowers so that just the head is left. Keep the types and colors of flowers separated so that it's easier to access them once you start laying them out. Wait to gather and trim the flowers until the day you make your rangoli. That will keep your flowers looking fresh and vibrant for longer. Pick the individual petals from flowers to use as a loose decoration. Roses and daisies have beautiful petals that you can pick off to fill in gaps in your rangoli design. When using loose petals, keep in mind where your rangoli is going to be located. Petals are easily blown away by wind or a fast-opening door. You may have to warn your family to be more cautious around the rangoli because there isn't a way to secure them to the ground. It's okay if the petals are a little uneven in size—they'll all be mixing together in the design and chances are that no one will notice. Fill the entire rangoli design with alternating colors and types of flowers. Place one type of flower in each section of the rangoli. Don't leave any gaps between the different kinds of flowers—you shouldn't be able to see the floor through the petals and flowers. For example, if you create a flower-shaped rangoli, the center of the flower could be filled with red rose petals, which could then be circled by yellow mums, and each petal of the design could be filled with a separate type of flower. Place candles around the rangoli to finalize the design. Candles are generally placed in the center and corners of the rangoli design. Put them on stands or in clay pots, and light them when the sun goes down. Never leave lit candles unattended! Make sure to blow them out when you go to bed or leave the house. Enjoy your rangoli for several days or for the entire course of Diwali. Because you're using live flowers, the rangoli won't last forever. Enjoy it for 2 to 3 days, or until the flowers start to wilt. If you made the rangoli for Diwali, leave it in place for the entire celebration and replace any wilting or browned flowers with fresh ones. Take the time to straighten up the flowers and petals if they get out of place. This will keep the design looking nice for the entire time it's on display. | Create or print the design for your rangoli. Practice sketching the design before you draw it on the ground. Choose a location for the rangoli where it can be enjoyed. Use chalk to draw the outline of your rangoli on the ground. Choose 3 or more colors or types of flowers for your design. Trim the stems off of the flowers you intend to use whole. Pick the individual petals from flowers to use as a loose decoration. Fill the entire rangoli design with alternating colors and types of flowers. Place candles around the rangoli to finalize the design. Enjoy your rangoli for several days or for the entire course of Diwali. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-Acne-Scars-Naturally | How to Get Rid of Acne Scars Naturally | To get rid of acne scars naturally, try soaking a cotton ball with lemon juice and applying that directly to your scar 1-2 times a day. However, keep in mind that you shouldn't expose lemon juice-treated skin to sunlight, as it could result in bleaching. If you are able to find a Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioner in your area, try mixing half a teaspoon of Radix arnebiae with 1-2 tablespoons of castor oil. Then, massage the mixture into your scar tissue 3-4 times a day. Other ways to remove acne scars naturally include pressing aloe vera gel, lavender oil, St John's wort oil, or green tea bags to your scars for 10-15 minutes. To treat your acne scars medically, ask your dermatologist about treatment options. | Use hydroquinone and sunscreen to lighten your scars. Visit your local pharmacy or check online for a bleaching cream that helps diminish your acne scars. Apply the lotion over any obvious acne scars, rub sun lotion overtop, and go outside as you normally would. If you don't notice any difference in 4 weeks, contact a dermatologist for help. Use this treatment whenever you go out into direct sunlight. Make sure you're using a strong sunscreen that has at least 15 SPF. Treat developing keloids with compression bandages. Bad cases of acne can result in keloids, or large, raised sections of tissue. To get rid of them, stick a tight compression bandage over the affected skin for an entire day. Change the bandage each day, and continue this process for at least 6 months. Cryosurgery and corticosteroid injections are more intensive treatment options for keloids. Give your acne scars time to heal. If you don't want to invest in extra products and treatments, allow time to fade your scars. Monitor your scars over several months and see if you notice any improvement. While time can fade discolored skin, you may need professional treatment to fix and remove indented scars. Don’t use vitamin E to treat your scars. Only use products and treatments that are recommended by dermatologists and the medical community. Note that products containing vitamin E, like vitamin E oil, won't make your acne scars lighten or disappear. Prevent future acne scars by washing your face. Clean your face on a regular basis, using a benzoyl peroxide-based cleanser. Use your hands to rub a blueberry-sized amount of cleanser into your skin. When you're finished, use a fresh towel to blot away any extra water and cleanser. You can also prevent acne by not touching your face that much. Don't use exfoliating brushes or a washcloth to clean your face, as this can irritate your skin. Get an acne-cleansing facial to lighten your scars. Schedule an appointment with your local spa or health network. During this session, professionals will clean your skin to remove extra oil. While there's no guarantee that you'll see instant results, this type of facial may be a good option if you have a busier lifestyle. Schedule dermabrasion to remove or lessen your scars. Ask your dermatologist if dermabrasion could be an effective solution for skin. The treatment isn't very intensive and involves an aesthetician buffing away the upper layer of the skin with a wire brush. While this may not get rid of your deep acne scars, they may look less obvious when the procedure is done. Dermabrasion is good for removing surface scars. Dermabrasion can be pretty pricey and may cost over $1,000. Get a chemical peel to get rid of the old, scarred skin. Schedule an appointment with an aesthetician to get a chemical peel, which may get rid of your acne scarring. Depending on the severity of your scars, you can get a light, medium, or deep chemical peel. Don't be surprised or alarmed if your skin is a bit swollen or red afterward, as this is very normal. Be careful when you go outside after getting a chemical peel, as your peeled skin may be extra-sensitive in direct sunlight. On average, chemical peels cost a little under $700. Receive micro-needling treatment to heal your skin naturally. Consult with a dermatologist to see if you'd be a good candidate for micro-needling, which, as the name suggests, involves an aesthetician poking your skin with small needles. This “poking” helps improve your skin's collagen production, which makes your skin look healthier overall. Overall, the procedure will only take a half-hour. You'll need at least 4 micro-needling treatments before you see major results. Microneedling treatment costs can vary, so you'll have to ask a skincare professional for a specific quote. You may be able to use a portable device to to give yourself micro-needling treatment at home. Ask your dermatologist if laser resurfacing or therapy is an option. See if your dermatologist will perform a basic laser resurfacing treatment, which involves the dermatologist numbing your skin and getting rid of any damaged, scarred skin. If you'd prefer a more heavy-duty procedure, schedule an appointment for fractional laser therapy, which doesn't damage the top of your skin. Both procedures have a pretty short recovery time, and it shouldn't take more than 10 days for your skin to get back to normal. Your skin heals more quickly after fractional laser therapy since your dermatologist won't actually be hurting your skin at all. Laser resurfacing is a simple procedure, and your dermatologist may be able to do it in a single visit. Ask your dermatologist or healthcare professional what the average cost for these treatments are, as they tend to vary. Opt for tissue fillers as a temporary fix. Talk to your dermatologist or dermatologist and see if you qualify for a soft tissue filling treatment. This process involves injecting fat or collagen in your scars, which helps make your skin look smoother and fuller. This treatment works best for scars with dips or dents, as it helps make your skin look smoother. You may need multiple treatments, as soft tissue fillers aren't permanent. This treatment may cost at least $690. See a dermatologist if you have really severe acne. Most mild cases of acne can be managed with natural remedies and over-the-counter treatments. However, more severe cases can be hard to treat and are more likely to leave scars. Talk to your dermatologist about using prescription medications to heal your acne and prevent further scarring. If you suddenly develop acne as an adult, see your dermatologist. This may be a sign of a more serious underlying condition. Call your dermatologist if home remedies don’t improve your scars. If you've been trying natural and over-the-counter remedies on your scars and you aren't satisfied with the results, your dermatologist may be able to help. Make an appointment with them to discuss other treatment options. Your dermatologist can examine your scars and help you determine which treatments might be most effective. They can also help you weigh the risks and benefits of each possible treatment. Some of the more severe scars can also be painful as they are growing. It's not uncommon for people with severe acne to experience depression. If you think you may be depressed, let your doctor know. They can help you get the treatment and support you need. Get medical help if you have a bad reaction to a skin product. Even natural remedies can cause allergic reactions or irritation sometimes. If you experience symptoms such as redness, rash, itching, or pain while using any medication or home remedy for your scars, stop using the treatment right away. Call your dermatologist if the symptoms don't clear up on their own within 3 weeks. You should also see your dermatologist if you develop a rash that is extremely painful or uncomfortable, appears suddenly, grows or spreads to other parts of your body, or affects your face or genitals. Seek emergency medical care if you experience symptoms of a severe allergic reaction, such as difficulty breathing, a rapid heartbeat, faintness or confusion, or swelling of your face, throat, or tongue. Get advice from your dermatologist before trying herbal remedies or dietary supplements. Some of these treatments can interact badly with other medications or supplements, or they may cause problems if you have certain medical conditions. | Use hydroquinone and sunscreen to lighten your scars. Treat developing keloids with compression bandages. Give your acne scars time to heal. Don’t use vitamin E to treat your scars. Prevent future acne scars by washing your face. Get an acne-cleansing facial to lighten your scars. Schedule dermabrasion to remove or lessen your scars. Get a chemical peel to get rid of the old, scarred skin. Receive micro-needling treatment to heal your skin naturally. Ask your dermatologist if laser resurfacing or therapy is an option. Opt for tissue fillers as a temporary fix. See a dermatologist if you have really severe acne. Call your dermatologist if home remedies don’t improve your scars. Get medical help if you have a bad reaction to a skin product. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Live-A-Happy-Life | How to Live A Happy Life | If you want to live a happy life, keep yourself healthy by drinking plenty of water and eating a nutritious diet that includes all of the major food groups. Additionally, you should stay active by incorporating strength-training exercises, like weight-lifting, into your workout at least twice a week. For the best results, combine strength-training with 75 to 150 minutes of aerobic exercise each week. In terms of your mindset, look for the humor in everyday situations and spend time with positive people, so you can think positively more often. To reduce stress and improve your mood, try a relaxation technique where you breathe in for 5 seconds, hold your breath for 5 seconds, and then exhale slowly for 5 seconds. | Reduce negative self-talk. Everyone engages in negative self-talk at some point or another. While some people may find it motivating, studies show that it actually contributes to stress, depression, and poor coping skills. Learning how to identify negative self-talk can help you catch yourself when you're thinking poorly of yourself, which can make it easier to then consciously engage in a more positive way of thinking. Some common forms of negative self-talk include: Filtering - this behavioral problem involves ignoring or "filtering out" all the positive aspects of your life or a given situation, and instead focusing on only the negative aspects. An example might be overlooking everything you accomplished at work and instead focusing on the one problem you were unable to successfully resolve. Personalizing - this entails blaming yourself for everything that happens. It can also involve interpreting any situational criticism as something that you are or should be blamed for. An example of this might involve hearing that your friends can't make it to a party and assuming that they canceled their plans to avoid seeing you. Catastrophizing - this means automatically preparing for or expecting the worst possible scenario. An example of this might be assuming that the rest of your day will go wrong because of one minor setback early in your day. Polarizing - this involves seeing things, people, and situations as always good or always bad. An example might be assuming that because you had an off day at work, you are automatically a bad employee. Think positive. Thinking positively does not mean that you ignore the bad or unpleasant things in life. It simply means that you approach every situation in life, both good and bad, with a positive outlook and a productive mindset. You can work on engaging in positive thinking in little ways every day. To start thinking more positively, try to: identify the things you think negatively about, and recognize why evaluate your thoughts and feelings throughout the day seek humor in everyday situations and allow yourself to smile or laugh even when you're upset live a healthy lifestyle spend time with positive people (and avoid negative people as much as possible) be gentle with yourself - a good rule for yourself is to avoid thinking things about yourself that you would not say to another person try to find the positive aspects of negative situations envision a more positive future for yourself, and determine what you'll need to do to make that vision a reality Practice mindfulness. Mindfulness involves developing an awareness of where you are, what you are doing, and what you are sensing/feeling in the present moment. Practicing mindfulness can reduce stress, manage anxiety and depression, and improve your mood. Focus on your breathing. Become aware of the physical sensation of each breath passing through your nostrils, the rising and falling of your abdomen, and the feeling of your legs and feet on the chair or floor. Meditate. Activities that promote meditation, including an extended peaceful prayer, yoga, Tai Chi, or spiritual reflection, actually change an area of your brain called the insula, which is involved in your experience of empathy/understanding others. Developing your empathy muscles (helping others) will help you lead a happier life. Try to engage your senses in everything you do. When you eat, look at your food for a moment and smell it. You may want to consider feeling it with your hands to experience the tactile sensation of your food. Try to anticipate what it will taste like, and chew slowly to savor the experience. Eat a healthy diet. What you eat can have a huge impact on how you feel. It's not enough to avoid bad foods. You should also be getting vitamins and nutrients from all of the major food groups, and avoiding overeating or under-eating. Most adults need 1.5 to 2 cups of fresh fruit or 100% fruit juice every day. Adults should eat between 2.5 and 3 cups of fresh vegetables every day. Choose whole grains instead of refined grains. Adults should eat six to eight ounces of whole grains every day, depending on your age, gender, and activity level. Eat a variety of protein foods every day. Adults typically need between 5 and 6.5 ounces of lean protein, including seafood, poultry/eggs, tofu, beans, nuts, and seeds. Choose low-fat or fat-free dairy products, including milk, yogurt, cheese, or soymilk. Adults typically need three cups of dairy every day. Drink enough water each day. General guidelines for living in a temperate climate suggest that men should drink three liters of water each day, and women should drink 2.2 liters. If you live in a hot environment, however, or if you live a very active lifestyle (especially if you exercise regularly), you should increase your water intake to account for the water lost in sweat. Manage stress in your life. You cannot avoid stressful situations, but you can find ways to relieve your stress. You can use relaxation techniques, such as meditation, visualization, tai chi, yoga, and deep breathing. Practice deep breathing by breathing in and out from your diaphragm (below the ribcage), instead of taking shallow breaths from your chest. Try to develop a pattern of deep breathing, like counting to five on a slow inhalation, holding your breath for five seconds, and exhaling slowly for five seconds. Practice meditation by sitting in a comfortable position away from anything that might distract you. Use deep breathing and try to focus only on your breath, letting go of any thoughts that pass through your mind without judging them or engaging with them. Use visualization to calm your mind and put yourself in a better mood. Combine deep breathing with an imagined image of something calming, such as a relaxing place or situation. Cultivate a healthy lifestyle. In addition to eating a healthy diet, it's important to live a healthy and active lifestyle. How well you care for your body in your early and middle years can have a big impact on your health later in life. Exercise regularly. Experts recommend getting at least 150 minutes each week of moderate aerobic activity, or at least 75 minutes per week of strenuous aerobic activity. Try to incorporate strength-training exercises (like lifting weights or using weight resistance) at least twice each week for a well-rounded workout. Avoid smoking, and quit if you are currently a smoker. You can use smoking cessation products like nicotine gum or patches, and you may find it helpful to attend a support group or recruit the help of your friends/family. Practice safe sex by always using condoms and engaging in monogamous, exclusive relationships. Determine what you value most. Everyone has things that are important in life, but what do you ultimately value above all else? Don't think about physical, tangible things. Instead, focus on what you want in your life that will give your life a sense of meaning and purpose. Some commonly valued elements of a meaningful life include : faith family friendship/connections with others compassion excellence generosity/service to others Find a career that challenges you. Personal growth can give you a tremendous sense of meaning and purpose. One of the best and most-fulfilling ways to accomplish this is by finding a career that challenges you to grow and develop as a person. Figure out what you're passionate about doing. You might begin this by examining what your values are. Do you value compassion and generosity? Perhaps a career helping other people might be personally fulfilling for you. Push yourself out of your comfort zone. Just because you are getting by at your job, it does not mean that you derive any real satisfaction or fulfillment from it. Try finding ways to pursue your passion through volunteer work, and if you like it, see if there is any way you can transition into doing that work professionally on a full-time basis. Having a fulfilling career will most likely give you a greater sense of purpose and fulfillment than having a lot of money would. You need to be financially secure, of course, but it's more important to live with a sense of purpose than to acquire meaningless wealth. Consider pursuing a spiritual life. Being spiritual may mean a religious life for some people, but spirituality does not require any organized religion. It's entirely possible to live a spiritual life without ever identifying as religious, though some people find religion itself to be quite fulfilling. Practice self-reflection every day. Learn to control and take responsibility for your thoughts, words, and actions. Find ways to increase your compassion for others. Work to help others in need, no matter what their circumstances might be. Try to maintain hope and a positive attitude, even during stressful or tragic situations. Engage with nature. The natural world can be tremendously calming, and many people find that being in nature gives them a sense of spiritual happiness. Try going for walks in the woods, contemplating the landscape whenever you are outdoors. You can also bring nature to you by planting a garden or growing flowering plants in your home or yard. Find a sense of community. Belonging to some kind of community is an important component of mental health. It can also help give you a sense of purpose and meaning in your life. Even introverted individuals often find that being a part of some larger community is fulfilling and enjoyable. Find groups that share a cause you're passionate about. Try volunteering with likeminded people for some kind of shared cause. Join a book club. You'll get to interact with people who share your interests while also bonding over works of art. Confront your struggles. It may seem easier to avoid the challenges in life than to face them head-on. But avoiding your problems will only lead to more problems down the road, which may result in your feeling a lack of control. The best way to deal with challenge and struggle in your life is to acknowledge it and face it. Don't avoid dealing with your problems. Address them as they arise, and recognize that a given problem needs your attention. Think about the times you've faced your problems in the past. You no doubt walked away with a greater sense of purpose and a stronger sense of confidence. Remember this as you approach new and bigger problems, and take comfort in this fact. Accept what you have, not what you want. One of the best ways to feel content with the conditions of your life (no matter how challenging) is to practice accepting your situation as it is. Though you may wish things were easier (like having more money, a more secure job, or even better health), dwelling on what you don't have will not make living in the present any easier. Remember that without hard times, you would not have as much appreciation for the good times. Accepting your life the way it is right now is the only way you can truly appreciate everything you have. Be grateful for the people in your life, no matter how difficult your life's circumstances may be at the moment. Recognize that everyone has similar struggles in some form or another. No life is without difficulty, but it is through perseverance and mindfulness that life becomes joyous and meaningful. Try to see problems as opportunities. It's not always easy to see the silver lining in unfortunate or challenging situations. But the reality of the situation is that struggle often leads to new insights about yourself, a new perspective on life, and even a renewed sense of purpose. It will not be easy to see your problems as an opportunity for growth, but with mindfulness and a lot of practice, you'll quickly see that you do actually grow and develop from living through your challenges. Recognize and always remember that life is full of meaning. Just because you are going through a hard time (like being unemployed or losing a loved one), or even suffering physical/medical ailments (like chronic illness or the loss of a limb), it does not mean that your life is without meaning. Try to use the problems in your life to motivate you. Perhaps living with a medical condition might give you the opportunity to join others in raising awareness of that condition, or even working towards finding a cure. Know that even if a given problem doesn't work out favorably, you'll still have grown as a person and developed more confidence as a result of facing your problems and trying to learn from them. Practice gratitude. Everyone has countless things to be grateful for in life, but in the chaos of day-to-day life, it can be easy to forget to practice gratitude. Increasing your gratitude in every situation and circumstance in life can help you feel better, and may help you find a greater sense of purpose. Write a letter to someone you appreciate (a parent, a friend, your romantic partner, etc.) and let that person know why you appreciate them. Thank that person for everything they've done for you, and let them know that you value their friendship. Keep a journal of things you're grateful for. You can write about the big things in life, of course, but carry your journal around every day and write about the little things, too. Perhaps a hot latte prepared perfectly at your favorite cafe was what you needed to feel better on a gray, rainy day. Often it's the little things that can have a tremendous impact on your day-to-day life. Take time to dwell on pleasant places and things you encounter. Allow yourself to stop what you're doing and watch the sunset, or slow down your walk through the park to enjoy the colors of the leaves around you. Share good news and joyous occasions with others in your life. Studies have shown that sharing good news with someone you care about can actually increase your joy, and it allows your friend to engage with you in your moment of happiness. Identify and use constructive feedback. It can be hard to hear what other people think of your performance, but learning how to identify and use the constructive feedback that you receive can help you to develop your skills and work towards a happier life. Keep in mind that criticism can be constructive or non-constructive. For example, if after giving a presentation someone tells you that you made a bunch of mistakes and that it was really boring, then this is not constructive. This statement is mean and it does not offer an opportunity for you to improve your next presentation. However, if a classmate tells you that she really liked your presentation, but sometimes had a hard time following along because you were talking kind of fast, then this is constructive feedback. You received a compliment and can use this information to improve on your next presentation. If you receive feedback that upsets you, try to take some time for yourself before you do or say anything about it. Take a walk, call up a friend, or do something else to distract yourself. Wait until you are feeling less emotional to think about ways that you can use the feedback to improve yourself. Be forgiving of yourself and others. Forgiveness is one of the hardest things to offer to someone who has hurt you. It can be even more difficult to forgive yourself when you've done something upsetting. However, harboring anger, resentment, or even guilt can be incredibly damaging to your sense of self, your mental health/wellbeing, and the relationships in your life. We all make mistakes, and we often learn from those mistakes. That's what makes someone a stronger, more caring individual. Forgiving others doesn't mean you have to necessarily forget others' wrongdoings. It also doesn't mean you should make yourself a doormat that other people walk all over. It simply means recognizing that someone (including yourself) made a mistake, hoping that something was learned from that mistake, and letting go of anger and resentment. It's often easy to forgive others for their mistakes, but hard to forgive yourself. Don't hold yourself to an unfair standard that you wouldn't hold others to. Accept yourself as someone who is trying his or her best, and try to learn any lessons you can from your mistakes. Cultivate compassion. Living compassionately will help you be a better friend, a more caring person, and an overall happier individual. In fact, studies show that practicing genuine compassion and love towards others can also give you greater insight into how and why other people live and think. See yourself in others, and try to see others in yourself. Your experiences are ultimately not so different from others' experiences, and everyone desires happiness, health, and affection. Offer genuine warmth, humor, and friendliness to everyone around you. Try smiling at others. It may be the little boost that someone needed to get through a difficult moment. Everyone has hurdles to overcome. We're learning through life every day, so it's natural that everyone will occasionally make mistakes. Practice genuine gratitude to others. This extends beyond being grateful when someone does something nice to you. Learn to appreciate the patience, love, and efforts of everyone in your life, including those who work with you or for you. | Reduce negative self-talk. Think positive. Practice mindfulness. Eat a healthy diet. Manage stress in your life. Cultivate a healthy lifestyle. Determine what you value most. Find a career that challenges you. Consider pursuing a spiritual life. Find a sense of community. Confront your struggles. Accept what you have, not what you want. Try to see problems as opportunities. Practice gratitude. Identify and use constructive feedback. Be forgiving of yourself and others. Cultivate compassion. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Install-a-Gas-Dryer | How to Install a Gas Dryer | To install a gas dryer, start by turning off the electrical breakers and the gas valve, which are usually located in the garage or basement. Next, put thread compound on the pipe ends and connect the dryer to the gas pipe in the wall, tightening the connections with an adjustable wrench. Then, connect the dryer to a vent and secure it with hose clamps or foil tape. Finally, attach the power cord and move the dryer into place before turning the gas and power back on. | Check the voltage on the dryer. Most new gas dryers use 120 volts of electricity. Make sure your home supports this. Some older homes only offer 110 volt service, while most modern homes are equipped to support 240 volt service. Check your circuit breaker to make sure you have two columns of 120 volt circuits. If you're not sure what to look for, ask a qualified electrician to look at your circuit breaker and make sure that your home can handle a 120 volt dryer. Make sure you have a compatible exhaust vent. The vent on your dryer needs to match up with the one in the wall in your laundry room. Most exhaust vents are 4 inches (10.16 cm) in diameter. If the vent in your dryer does not match the one on your wall, you should be able to purchase a vent adapter or transition pipe at a hardware or home supply store. Check that there is a gas line in your laundry room. Your gas dryer will need an appropriate gas hookup. The gas line should have a supply valve in the same room where you intend to install the dryer, preferably within 6 feet (1.8 m) of the unit. If there is no gas pipe in the laundry room, you will have to have one installed by a qualified technician. Turn off the breakers and gas valve. The breakers can be turned off at the main breaker panel. The location of this varies from home to home, but they are usually found in the garage or basement for houses and in utility closets or bedrooms for condos and apartments. The gas valve can be turned off at the supply valve for the dryer's gas pipe, or at the main gas service shutoff valve. The location of the main shut off valve varies from home to home. In many homes, the gas valve can be turned off by using a 12 to 15 inch (30.5 to 38.1 cm) adjustable wrench. Turn the valve until the tang (handle you attach the wrench to) is perpendicular to the pipe. If you are unsure of how to turn off the gas valve, contact your gas supplier. Put thread compound on the threaded pipe ends. Before connecting the piping on your dryer to the gas pipe in your wall, you will need to coat all threaded connecting pieces with a pipe thread compound. This will help create a good seal between the pipe components and prevent dangerous gas leaks. Look for a pipe thread compound designed for use with liquid petroleum gas (LPG) at your hardware or home supply store. Attach a pipe connector. Fasten a flexible connector with stainless steel fittings to the gas pipe on the dryer. These are sometimes included when you purchase a dryer, or you can find them at your local hardware store. Explain what you are doing and the store employee should be able to help you find what you're looking for. You may need an adapter to attach the 3/4 inch (1.9 cm) end of the pipe connector to the 3/8 inch (1 cm) pipe end on the dryer. Make sure your connector is long enough to connect your dryer to the pipe in your wall. Do not attempt to reuse an old pipe connector! If you are replacing a previously installed gas dryer, throw away the old connector and replace it with a new one. Connect the dryer to the wall pipe. Once you've hooked the pipe connector to the pipe on the dryer, connect the other end to the gas pipe in your wall. The gas pipe should have a threaded valve component attached to it. You will be attaching your pipe connector to the valve component. If you have older gas fixtures in your home, you may wish to replace the old valve with a modern-style ball valve designed for use with gas. If you choose to do this, you will have to shut off the gas at the main service valve first. You will probably need an adapter to attach the connection pipe to the valve. Tighten all the connections. Use a pair of adjustable wrenches to tighten the connections between all the gas line components. Take care not to over-tighten and torque the pipes or strip the threads. Check for gas leaks with a dish soap solution. Make a solution of one part water and one part mild dish detergent. Spread a thin coating on the connectors between the various gas pipe components. Then, switch on the gas at the dryer supply valve. If you see bubbles forming on the connectors, this means there are leaks in your gas line. If you do see leaks, turn off the gas, carefully tighten your connections, and try again. To be extra certain that there are no leaks, you can rent a gas leak detector from your local hardware store. Never attempt to test for gas leaks with an open flame! Turn off the gas. Shut the gas off again at the dryer supply valve. Leave the gas off until the full installation is complete. Attach a vent hose. You'll need a venting system, but you'll have to choose between two types. There is rigid venting, which comprises a hard metal tube that works for distances no greater than 40 feet (12.2 m). There is also semi-rigid venting, which uses a flexible hose that works for no more than 20 feet (6.1 m). In general, rigid venting is best for dryer vents that are installed at floor level. If you need to attach your dryer to a vent above floor level, you may need a semi-rigid vent hose. Or, if you use a rigid vent hose, you can attach a pair of elbow-shaped bends to the top (where the hose connects to the wall) and the bottom (where the hose connects to the dryer). Dryer vent hoses should be 4 inches (10.16 cm) in diameter. Use a metal vent hose rather than plastic or vinyl, as these are a fire hazard. Secure the vent with a hose clamp. Make sure the connections at both ends of the vent hose are secure. You can do this with hose clamps, duct tape, or foil tape. However, hose clamps are the most secure option, as tape can eventually dry out and lose its adhesive properties. Check your outside duct opening. Make sure that it is clear of lint and other blockages, and that the vent hood is still in place. Carefully clean out any buildup. Attach the power cord. If your dryer does not come with a cord, buy a power cord which is suitable for the dryer you have purchased. You will also need a strain relief to keep the cord from becoming damaged. The appropriate cord and strain relief type should be listed in the manufacturer's manual. Install the strain relief at the power cord through-hole. Open the terminal block access cover and attach the ends of the power cord to the appropriate terminals. Tightly secure the ends of the power cord and the strain relief with the screws, and then replace the terminal cover. Move the dryer into its final position. It should be several inches away from the wall. It should also not be located in an area that is overly cold, as this can inhibit the dryer's function. If you are using a flexible or semi-rigid exhaust vent hose, take extra care not to crush the hose between the dryer and the wall. Level the dryer. Keeping your dryer level will ensure that it is stable. Get a basic level and check it side to side and front to back, at all four corners, and at the center. If necessary, adjust the lengths of the legs on the dryer to make it completely level. Turn the breakers and gas back on. You should now be ready to use your new dryer. | Check the voltage on the dryer. Make sure you have a compatible exhaust vent. Check that there is a gas line in your laundry room. Turn off the breakers and gas valve. Put thread compound on the threaded pipe ends. Attach a pipe connector. Connect the dryer to the wall pipe. Tighten all the connections. Check for gas leaks with a dish soap solution. Turn off the gas. Attach a vent hose. Secure the vent with a hose clamp. Check your outside duct opening. Attach the power cord. Move the dryer into its final position. Level the dryer. Turn the breakers and gas back on. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Keep-Your-Neighborhood-Clean | How to Keep Your Neighborhood Clean | To keep your neighborhood clean, help pick up litter in the streets, bushes, and gutters. You can also help by picking up your pet's waste with a plastic bag and throwing it away. If you want to make a greater change, try organizing a neighborhood-wide clean-up. Contact your local government to rent cleaning supplies and focus on one project, like weeding, landscaping, painting over graffiti, or picking up trash at a park. | Add plants. One way to beautify your home is to plant trees or flowers around your house to add to the landscape. You don't need to go all-out with an ornate display. A bed of brightly-colored flowers, or some small bushes, can really enhance the natural beauty of your home. Aside from looking good, plants take in carbon dioxide from the air and expel oxygen, making for a more breathable atmosphere. Be sure to trim branches from bushes and trees if they begin to obstruct public walkways and paths. Mow your lawn. Longer grass doesn't look good on a lawn, so help out the neighborhood by keeping yours neat and trim. Use a lawnmower regularly to keep your grass from getting too long, and trim the sides with an edger. Good lawn work will also involve pulling out weeds and take care of ugly brown patches. Don't ignore those parts of lawn care. Maintain your sidewalks. In most towns, property owners are responsible for keeping the sidewalks clean and clear. Make sure you clean up any debris so people can walk easily in front of your home. During the winter, it is important to keep the sidewalk in front of your home clear of snow. Many municipalities, especially cities, will fine property owners who do not keep their sidewalks clean and clear. A little bit of effort on your part will not only help your neighborhood clean, but prevent you from having to pay a fine. Keep your storm drains clear. The point of storm drains is to gather run-off from rainwater to prevent flooding and keep that water in local waterways. Make sure trash and other debris doesn't get caught in the drain. You don't want those items clogging the drain, preventing better flow, or flowing into local rivers and streams. Here are some other ways to keep them clean: When putting your trash and recycling out, make sure that the lids are on tightly and that they won't get knocked over. Don't blow or rake leaves and lawn clippings into the street. Avoid using salt or sand on your driveway. When the snow thaws, the sand and salt will slow into the storm drain and pollute the waterways. Avoid using fertilizers, pesticides, and herbicides on your lawns. When it rains, these can flow into the storm drain too. Pick up litter. Litter, trash that people drop all around the ground, is an eyesore. Worse, it can be harmful to children, animals, and the rest of the environment. If you see some trash on the ground around your neighborhood, don't assume someone else will take care of it. Be proactive in taking care of where you live. Consider having a clean-up day where you and your friends go around your block and pick up trash. Pay attention to lawns, bushes, and gutters. This is where most trash tends to collect. Pick up after your pets. If you have pets that go for walks, especially dogs, make sure you pick up their poop. Nobody wants to see it, smell it, or even accidentally step in it. Follow your pets with a plastic bag to clean up after them, and make sure you throw the bag away in a trash bin. Leaving your pets' waste behind can lead to the spread of disease and promote the spread of flies. Create a community garden. Just like plants can improve your home's beauty, a common garden is a nice way for you and your neighbors to add some greenery. Gather some people in your area who would be interested and available in helping to take care of a common neighborhood garden. Figure out the kinds of plants you want there, and look for an open space where you'll be able to grow things. Be sure to take care of the plants. Work as a community to take care of the garden; don't rely on just one or two people to keep it flourishing. Herb and vegetable gardens are a great way to give back to your community. This way, you can help your neighbors put food on their tables. Adopt a highway. Roadways and other areas like them can sometimes get left behind in clean-up efforts. Help make sure that trash and other debris is picked up from along the side of the road with a highway adoption group. Your business, social group, or other organization will agree to clean up a stretch of road in exchange for having your name put on a sign identifying you as the ones who did the clean-up. Every state, county, and town government can have a particular set of rules for adoption and what it means. Make sure you check the process for applying and maintaining your highway. Some cities also allow you to adopt bus stops as well. Report graffiti. Graffiti, painting on walls and other public places, is illegal in many locations, and an eyesore. If you notice this kind of artwork on a public building or structure, report it to the local authorities. If you see graffiti on a local business, or other private property, talk to the property owner about cleaning it up. You may even be able to do it yourself. If you see someone doing graffiti, do not confront them about it. Tell the property owner or a local authority. Talk to your neighbors about a clean-up effort. Anything you do in your area will be a group effort, so you'll need others to join in. When you get to know your neighbors, you'll probably discover that you notice many of the same issues in your neighborhood. Agreeing on what you need to do is a good first step to starting a clean-up program. At this first stage, consider the roles some people will play in organizing, advertising, gathering supplies, and doing any of the things necessary to get the effort put together. Don't be afraid to talk to pre-existing community groups. Service organizations like the Shiners or Boy and Girl Scouts will probably be interested in helping to keep the neighborhood looking nice. Anti-crime organizations like Neighborhood Watch will probably be willing to deal with the aftermath of crimes like graffiti. Talk to your local government. Many towns and cities want to encourage citizen clean-up efforts. Not only can they help in getting the word out for your effort, but some will be willing to provide supplies, including brooms, rakes, shovels, gloves, and trash bags, as well as paint and paint supplies for dealing with graffiti, and even an industrial-sized dumpster for depositing trash. There is strength in numbers. Have several people contact your local government. You can also try putting together a poll. Plan your event. You should want to have a clear idea of what you want to accomplish during your clean-up. Make sure you are properly equipped, and have a clear sense of how many people will be helping and what you intend to do. You don't want to think too big, like cleaning up the entire town. Instead, focus on picking up trash in a contained area like an alley, weed removal and landscaping for an abandoned field, or painting over graffiti. You'll want something you and your team can accomplish in a day or a few hours, to make sure you get the task done. Consider your location. Make sure that you will have a place for trash, and for people to park or arrive at the site easily. Be careful not to tie up traffic or cause trouble for other people in the area. Gather your supplies. Make sure you have the right materials necessary to do the clean-up properly. If you are cleaning up a location, for example, make sure you have rakes, brooms, and shovels, as well as trash bags to hold what you pick up. Consider if you need heavy equipment, and make sure someone there is trained and licensed to use it. In all cases, you should have a first-aid kit handy. If you are potentially going to deal with hazardous chemicals, you definitely need a plan for gathering those items and depositing them in the proper location. Make sure you are familiar with your town or city's collection center, and are properly equipped for dealing with those items. Publicize what you are doing. People won't know they can help if you don't tell them about the effort. Post flyers around your neighborhood, and post messages on social media to your network of friends, and see who wants to come and help. The more the merrier. If you do post flyers, remember to take them down after the clean-up. You don't want them staying there until they fall off and become litter. Perform the clean-up. This is where you do whatever needs to be done for your clean-up. Once you have planned your effort, show up and get to work. Make sure someone is able to supervise the effort, help people get where they need to go, and keep an eye on the progress you make. Avoid working alone, if possible. If there are young children or teens, make sure that they work in groups and have a trusted adult chaperoning them. Wrap up your event. When you finish the project, make sure you pick up all your extra trash. You should leave the location cleaner than when you found it, and make sure everything is disposed of properly. Once you are finished, consider some way to thank everyone who took part. A small pizza or ice cream party, or even just hanging out a bar (if you're all of age) afterward can be a fun way to celebrate your success. Think about your next event. Chances are your neighborhood will always have something else that you can do to help. Think about what worked or didn't work about this clean-up effort, and find ways to improve for next time. | Add plants. Mow your lawn. Maintain your sidewalks. Keep your storm drains clear. Pick up litter. Pick up after your pets. Create a community garden. Adopt a highway. Report graffiti. Talk to your neighbors about a clean-up effort. Talk to your local government. Plan your event. Publicize what you are doing. Perform the clean-up. Wrap up your event. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-Hemorrhoids-Naturally | How to Get Rid of Hemorrhoids Naturally | To get rid of hemorrhoids naturally, try soaking a clean cotton cloth in warm water and applying it to your hemorrhoids for 10 to 15 minutes. For the best results, repeat the process 4 to 5 times a day. Alternatively, try an ice pack in place of the warm compress if you need cooling relief. You can also apply a cotton pad soaked in witch hazel after a bowel movement, which may help shrink your hemorrhoids by reducing the swelling. Whichever treatment you use, make sure to clean yourself thoroughly after using the restroom to avoid any further irritation. If you find sitting uncomfortable, try using a foam or doughnut cushion to relieve some of the pressure from your hemorrhoids. | Take warm baths to soothe your hemorrhoid. If you don't want to take a full bath, you can take a Sitz bath, where you sit in a few inches of water. Add about 1 cup of Epsom salts to a full bathtub and 2-3 tablespoons of Epsom salts for a few inches of water in the tub. Keep the water warm, but not too hot. Repeat 2-3 times a day. Using Epsom salts may also speed up the healing process. Apply a warm compress for pain relief and comfort. Get a clean, cotton wash cloth and soak it in warm (not hot) water. Apply the compress directly to the hemorrhoids for about 10-15 minutes. Repeat 4-5 times a day. This should offer some soothing comfort. Shrink the hemorrhoids with an astringent. You can use a cotton pad soaked in witch hazel after a bowel movement. Witch hazel acts as an astringent and may help reduce swelling. Repeat as often as needed--at least 4-5 times a day. Clean yourself thoroughly after using the restroom. After having a bowel movement, be sure that you clean yourself completely to avoid irritation. You might want to use baby wipes or a pre-moistened toilet paper product rather than dry toilet paper to clean yourself. Apply an ice pack for 5-10 minutes to relieve swelling and pain. An ice pack may help reduce your hemorrhoidal swelling but it should not be left on for too long; limit the ice pack use to 5-10 minutes at most each time. Sit on a cushion to relieve the pressure on your hemorrhoids. Find a foam cushion or a doughnut cushion to sit on. This can help relieve some of the pressure associated with hemorrhoids. While this will not aid in "curing" your hemorrhoids, it may help ease your discomfort and make them easier to live with. Keep in mind that hemorrhoids are caused by too much pressure on your veins. Avoid excessive strain during bowel movements. Allow gravity to help, but let your bowels do most of the work. If nothing happens, put it off for an hour or so, and try again but most importantly, don't strain and force a bowel movement that isn't happening naturally. Stay hydrated to help keep your stool soft. Increase your water consumption to at least 8-10 8 oz glasses each day. Stool (feces) contain significant amounts of water—and the more water a stool contains, the softer it will be, which makes it easier to pass. Consume more fiber in your diet to bulk up your stools. Fiber helps keep water in the stool and bulks it up so that it passes through the rectum and anus more easily--and in the case of hemorrhoids, with less pain. Good sources of fiber include: Seeds -- One hand full of chia seeds will ensure you will get enough fiber. Whole grains-- include brown rice, barley, corn, rye, bulgur wheat, kasha (buckwheat) and oatmeal Fruits, especially with the rinds Vegetables (especially leafy vegetables like Swiss chard, collard greens, spinach, lettuces, beet greens) Beans and legumes-- be aware that for some, eating beans and legumes can increase intestinal gas Avoid laxatives because they weaken your bowels. Laxatives can be habit forming and can also weaken the bowels, potentially leading to chronic constipation. If you do feel as though you need a laxative, try an herbal laxative instead. Senna and Psyllium are herbal laxative options. Senna is a natural and gentle stool softener. You can take senna as tablets (follow manufacturer's instructions) or as a nightly tea. You can also try psyllium fiber as found in Metamucil. Psyllium is a natural bulking agent. Exercise regularly to improve your circulation. The exercise can be aerobic, endurance, cardiovascular, or even just walking. Exercise makes your heart stronger, thus increasing the efficiency of your cardiovascular system. During exercise, you will also have high circulation thus removing your hemorrhoids (as these are basically blood sacks, caused by sedentary lifestyle and weak cardiovascular system) Go to the bathroom as soon as you feel the urge to go. Don't wait once you feel the urge to have a bowel movement; go as soon as you can, but don't sit and try for too long waiting—sitting is also associated with an increased risk of hemorrhoids. Put yourself on a regular restroom schedule. See if you can arrange a regular time to have a bowel movement without interruptions around the same time every day. This tends to make bowel bleeding movements easier, and it turns out that having regular bowel movements is a great predictor of overall good health. Try baby teething gel to relieve your pain. It may sound a bit odd, but if the hemorrhoids are very painful and uncomfortable, use a tiny bit of baby teething gel on the area. The gel contains a local antiseptic that can decrease the pain and discomfort. Use topical pain and itch-relieving products to soothe hemorrhoids. Gently clean your anal area with warm water and carefully pat dry. Then apply a small amount of aloe vera gel or an ointment such as Preparation H to help with hemorrhoid pain and/or discomfort. Apply as often as needed. Hemorrhoid relief ointments such as Preparation H usually contain petroleum jelly, mineral oil, shark liver oil and phenylephrine, which acts as a decongestant and helps shrink the hemorrhoid. Aloe vera gel contains components that have been shown to inhibit infection and help in healing minor wounds. Avoid steroid creams as they can damage the delicate tissue around a hemorrhoid. Take an over-the-counter pain reliever for extreme discomfort. If you have persistent discomfort, you may want to consider taking an over-the-counter pain reliever such as acetaminophen, aspirin, or ibuprofen. These can help you feel more comfortable and may aid in swelling reduction as well. As always, check with your care provider to ensure that it is safe to take a medication that you do not normally take. See your doctor for extreme pain, excessive bleeding, or persistent hemorrhoids. Typically, hemorrhoids go away within of week of starting home treatment. If yours doesn't start improving or immediately comes back, then it's best to talk to your doctor about it. Additionally, you may need additional treatments if your hemorrhoids are causing extreme pain or excessive bleeding. Don't ignore these symptoms. Let your doctor know that you've been experiencing symptoms of a hemorrhoid, as well as how you've been caring for it. Seek immediate care if you feel faint, lightheaded, or dizzy. While you likely have nothing to worry about, these symptoms may be a sign of a more serious condition. It's best to get checked by a doctor to make sure you're okay. If you do need treatment, your doctor will provide it for you. Call your doctor for a same day appointment or visit an urgent care center. Let them know your symptoms first started with a hemorrhoid. Talk to your doctor if you’re over 40 and notice rectal bleeding. Although rectal bleeding is typical with hemorrhoids, it may also be a sign of anal cancer or colon cancer. Try not to worry because it's likely it's just your hemorrhoids. However, your doctor can examine you and provide a proper diagnosis so you get the right treatment. If you notice frequent rectal bleeding, monitor your bowel movements for changes in color, consistency, and frequency. Report what you observe to your doctor to help with your diagnosis, as anal or colon cancer might cause these kinds of changes. Expect your doctor to do a visual exam and possibly a finger exam. After discussing your symptoms with you, your doctor will likely do a visual examination to check for hemorrhoids. If you have may have an internal hemorrhoid, they might do a quick finger exam, where they feel the area with a gloved finger. This will help them make a diagnosis. Your doctor may make a diagnosis based solely on your symptoms. The exam won't hurt, but you might feel a little uncomfortable. Although hemorrhoids can feel embarrassing, they're totally normal and most people have them at some point. Your doctor has likely seen a lot of hemorrhoids, so there's no need to be embarrassed. Talk to your doctor about additional treatments for severe hemorrhoids. If your hemorrhoids won't go away or are significantly impacting your life, your doctor may recommend getting a medical procedure to help you heal. Most of these procedures are minimally invasive. The most common ways to treat severe hemorrhoids include: Ligation, which involves tying a rubber band around the base of the hemorrhoid to cut off the blood flow. Injection of a chemical solution designed to shrink the hemorrhoid without causing you pain. Cauterization to heat the hemorrhoid until it hardens and stops causing symptoms. Hemorrhoid stapling, which blocks blood flow to an internal hemorrhoid so it shrinks. Hemorrhoidectomy, which is the surgical removal of a severe hemorrhoid that's interfering with your daily function. | Take warm baths to soothe your hemorrhoid. Apply a warm compress for pain relief and comfort. Shrink the hemorrhoids with an astringent. Clean yourself thoroughly after using the restroom. Apply an ice pack for 5-10 minutes to relieve swelling and pain. Sit on a cushion to relieve the pressure on your hemorrhoids. Avoid excessive strain during bowel movements. Stay hydrated to help keep your stool soft. Consume more fiber in your diet to bulk up your stools. Avoid laxatives because they weaken your bowels. Exercise regularly to improve your circulation. Go to the bathroom as soon as you feel the urge to go. Put yourself on a regular restroom schedule. Try baby teething gel to relieve your pain. Use topical pain and itch-relieving products to soothe hemorrhoids. Take an over-the-counter pain reliever for extreme discomfort. See your doctor for extreme pain, excessive bleeding, or persistent hemorrhoids. Seek immediate care if you feel faint, lightheaded, or dizzy. Talk to your doctor if you’re over 40 and notice rectal bleeding. Expect your doctor to do a visual exam and possibly a finger exam. Talk to your doctor about additional treatments for severe hemorrhoids. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Fake-Sick-to-Stay-Home-from-School | How to Fake Sick to Stay Home from School | If you're trying to fake sick to stay home from school, mention the night before that you aren't feeling well. Go to bed early, especially if you usually try to stay up late. The next morning, pretend to vomit, act lethargic, or pick at your breakfast to show your parents you still aren't feeling well. Once they agree to let you stay home, keep a low profile and don't leave your house. Just relax and enjoy your free off day! | Begin to show slight symptoms the night before. If you are planning on staying home the next day, tell your mom or dad that you don't feel well the night before. Don't tell them too early the day before, because some illnesses tend to go away overnight as a stomach ache does. Aim for starting your symptoms after 6:30 P.M. or after dinnertime. If you've been ill before with a virus or bug, repeat those symptoms; it will seem less like you are faking. But remember that you can't get the same bug twice! If you've been to see someone who had a cold or some other illness, replicate those symptoms so it seems as though you caught it from them. Use blush or cheek stain. If you are planning on faking a fever or bad cold, use a bright pink blush or cheek stain on your cheeks and nose to make your face look flushed. Act slightly clumsy, as this will make you look ill or tired. Don't do something you want to. Your parents will believe you more if you sacrifice something you like to do as well as the thing you don't like (school). Don't finish eating half of your favorite meal at dinnertime. When your parent(s) ask what's wrong, tell them that your stomach hurts. Make sure you hide snacks in your room so you can miss a meal so they think you are sick because you're "not feeling well.” If you have plans with friends, cancel going out with them. Ask to be excused from family time or don't watch your favorite TV show. Start but then don’t finish your homework. This will cover the fact that you're trying to stay home from school, while giving you a reason to stay home the next day. If you normally do your homework at night, get started on it but put your head down periodically so that they see you're not feeling well and it's interfering with your work. If you usually do your homework on time, continue to do it to make it look like you were intending to go to school, but halfway through, complain about feeling ill. By not finishing your homework, they'll have another excuse to keep you from school. This works best if you have parents who care about your grades. Go to bed early. Choosing to actually go to bed early will be a red flag, especially if you usually try to stay up later than you're allowed. Don't say anything or just say you're not feeling well and need to lie down. Alternatively, try to catch your parents' attention by just walking by them or out of the room and head straight for your bed. If you feel like you really are sick, but so mild that your parents wouldn't even listen, exaggerate your symptoms. (For example, nauseated becomes I'm about to throw up ) Some studies say that you feel like what you think, so that might be an awesome plan which your parents can't foil! Remember: this devious step only works if you are getting sick in reality, so don't just go for this one if you're not sick. This is a strengthener for your saying for the next morning! Don't brush your teeth. If your parents notice, they'll probably come into your room to remind you. At that point, they'll probably wonder what's wrong, and you can tell them that you're not feeling well. Appear impatient, maybe even cranky, and eager to go to bed. Don't act too cranky, though, you want your parents' sympathy for being sick, not punishment for being rude! Wake up in the middle of the night. Wake yourself and your parents up around 1:00 A.M. and tell them you're not feeling well. If you're pretending to have stomach issues, tell them you just threw up (having left some fake vomit in the toilet). Force tears (if you can) to make it seem real that you're sick. Try and make it realistic though! Think of a pet dying or something sad to make yourself cry. Pull at the bottom of your eyelids until it hurts then blink hard a few times; you should get watery eyes. For flu or sore throat symptoms, cough or clear your throat loudly enough for them to hear in their bedrooms. Rub your face vigorously right before they come in to look red and appropriately ill. Stay up through the night. This gives you bags underneath your eyes, and you will have a legitimate reason to have a day off. Purple or gray eye shadow works too to look like you have bags. Go to bed an hour or two later than you usually fall asleep. This may make small bags underneath your eyes or make them slightly puffy. Try to get at least four hours of sleep if you don't want to be too sleep-deprived for your sick day off. Wake up before your parents and quietly make fake vomit. Put it in the toilet and pretend to throw up. If this doesn't wake them up, go get them and tell them what just "happened". Be reluctant to get dressed. Don't volunteer to get yourself ready for school. Instead, act like it is a difficult task for you to perform. Slowly dress, but not too slowly. Skip a button on your shirt, don't comb your hair properly, and don't tie your shoelaces properly (or even at all). Have droopy eyes. Think of something sad and let your eyes water and droop. You can also rub them to give that slightly bloodshot look. Fake bags under your eyes. Even if you got enough sleep the night before and don't have natural bags under your eyes, there's an easy way to fake it. Take yours or your mom's light lavender or blueish eyeshadow. Mix in some water to make the color fade into a more natural tint. Rub it in well, but still make it noticeable. You could also take some vaseline and rub it under your eyes. You could also try adding some kind of pale makeup to make sure your parents know you are ill. Pick at your breakfast. A lack of appetite is especially symptomatic of not feeling well. Your parents will be especially concerned if you love breakfast, or if they made your favorite breakfast treat. Sneak an extra snack when your parents aren't looking. You'll probably get hungry. Protest if they suggest you stay home. When your parents decide to let you stay home, don't just shrug and agree. Protest their decision (but only if you didn't have to convince them first). This reinforces the fact that you really are sick. Say, "But Mom, I'm going to have so much work to make up!" or "But I have a math test today!" If your parents know you don't care about tests, say "But I have band practice, or art class" or something they know you enjoy. Do not overdo it. Don't randomly state that you want to do a test if they know you don't care. This can backfire unless you're careful. Don't beg excessively to stay home, or your parents might know you are faking it. Fake having a rash. An allergic reaction or another kind of contagious rash will definitely keep you home. First, scratch your chest lots until it's bright red. Try to keep a circular pattern to make it look more realistic. Finally try to combine the "rash" with something else like a runny nose or a headache. Fake having a fever. If you do a good job at seeming sick, your parents will probably want to take your temperature. Be ready, though, to act quickly and fake having a fever. Ask to go to the bathroom before they take your temperature. Make sure you have a cup with you. Fill it with warm water to drink and rinse through your mouth, especially under your tongue. This will raise the temperature of your mouth. Be sure to flush the toilet before you turn on the sink, just so your parents don't get too suspicious! Note: this only works if they check it under your tongue, obviously. If the thermometer is one that goes in your ear, try to get it before your temperature's taken and hold it to something warm, like a radiator or a light bulb. If your parents are the kind that just feel your forehead, frequently rub it rapidly when they're not looking, or take a blow dryer and heat your face and say your forehead feels warm. Put warm water in your armpits, forehead, and cheeks. It makes you warm and looks like you have been sweating. You're aiming for a temperature that is above 99 degrees (37 Celsius) but lower than 103 degrees (39.4 Celsius). If it's below 99 degrees then it doesn't count as a fever, if it's 103 degrees you'll likely be taken to the doctor's right away. Fake a migraine. It's very easy to fake a migraine because there's no way of knowing if you're telling the truth or not. By just faking the symptoms, your parents will believe you. Light and most sounds should bother you. Pretend you're annoyed by them. Say that only one specific area of your head hurts, for example over your right eyebrow. This is essential if you want to fake a migraine. Touch your forehead every now and then and frown when doing so. Say that you feel dizzy and can't see very well. While walking slowly, suddenly stop, close your eyes and "regain balance" by holding onto something or someone. Ask your parents if they could lower their voice a little. If it's the day before the day you want to skip school, go take a nap and turn off all the lights, or if you're just chilling at home, turn off the lights closest to you and lie down on the nearest couch or chair. Ask for medicine such as ibuprofen, but don't actually take it. Fake having diarrhea. This can work great especially after having breakfast. Run suddenly to the bathroom. Spend some time in the bathroom, flush the toilet, and spray a ton of air freshener to cover up the smell that isn't really there. You can also try your hand at making fake diarrhea. Fake having pink eye. Pink eye is super-common and also super-contagious! You'll definitely be staying at home if anyone suspects that you have pink eye. Get red lipstick (most likely in your mom's purse) and some Vaseline and rub them along the lips of one eye. Be sure to only do this for one eye though, since pink eye does not usually infect both. Fake having a stomachache, nausea, or cramps. Other than your word, the only other real symptom for these are vomiting, which you can also fake pretty easily. After eating a meal, start complaining that you feel sick. If your parents aren't looking, stick your finger down your throat (but not too far), and you will start retching but not vomiting. When you feel as though you might actually throw up, quickly remove your fingers. Use this technique sparingly, though, you don't want to hurt yourself. Have fake vomit ready to complete the effect. Get oatmeal and water, run to the bathroom, put the oatmeal and water in your mouth, then spit it in the toilet and show your parents. You can also fake a vomiting incident by pouring fake vomit on your floor (or on your bed if you want it to be more believable). In the morning say that you don't remember it and act apologetic to whoever has to clean it up. Be careful with making people clean it up, because if they look at it too closely they're might realize that it's not actually vomit. If you've started having your period, tell your parents you have cramps or it's that time of the month. Your dad probably won't want to even talk about it, and your mom will understand. Neither of them will be able to disprove it. Fake having a cold or the flu. There are many cold and flu that are easy to mimic. These are also highly contagious conditions, so your parents will probably not want to send you to school and infect your classmates. Blow your nose in a bunch of tissues and throw them on the floor or on your nightstand/on your bed. Then your parents will think you have a runny nose and they will not let you go to school if you have that much of a cold. Breathe only through your mouth, as if your nose is stuffed. If you're not in the same room as they, and they ask you something, hold your nose slightly when you talk. Wear many layers of clothing. This makes it look as though you have the chills and are freezing. Sneeze loudly, then sniffle in front of your parents. Do this also when they're not in the same room but can overhear you from wherever they are. Stretch your lips to make them look chapped and twist your nose to make it red. Mention that your “bones hurt” or that you have lots of aches and pains all over. Fake having a sore throat. Be careful not to make it seem like you have strep throat, though, as this can land you in the doctor's office. When walking around keep your mouth open and your throat to become dry. Avoid eating and drinking. Suck on red colored cough drops to make your throat look red. Grimace when you swallow. Speak in a deep, croaky tone and constantly take sips of water. Say that you feel a bit scratchy in your throat, or that it feels like you're swallowing glass. Manage your parents’ expectations. Chances are your parents will check on you during your day home to either make sure you're not faking, or to see if you're feeling better. If your parents are at home with you, then just pretend to sleep and be sure to act accordingly when they check in on you. If your parents are at work, call to check-in with them. This will make you seem responsible, and not seem like you're having fun. If they call to check on you from work, wait for the phone to ring three or three and a half times before you answer, and sound as tired as you can. Show signs of improvement. If you do stay home, pretend to sleep a lot and gradually start "getting better". Around mid-day, remove one or two of your symptoms. If you don't show any signs of improvement towards the end of the day, your parents might want to take you to the doctor, who will see that there's no illness to be found. If you think your parents will take you to the doctor, try to phase out the sickness or just admit it. Keep a low profile. You're supposed to be home sick in bed, remember?! Don't leave or get caught outside of the house. If a neighbour or friend of your parents sees you, they might tell. Be sure to put away any games before your parents come home. If they see you've been having fun, they'll suspect that you were faking the whole time. Clear out your internet history so that they won't know you were playing on the internet during the day. Don't forget to especially clear this search from your history. Do not save bookmarks or download items on your computer; parents will notice that you did these things during your “sick day.” Delete this page from your browser history, so your parents won't see it and question you. Get permission to go the nurse. Depending on your school, you'll have to get permission from your teacher to go to the nurse's office. Nurses can be tough and are usually good at spotting fakers because they see them basically every day. It can be easier to fool them, though, if you plan to make two visits at different points in the day. Wait about an hour to two hours after the school day starts, then ask your teacher if you can go to the bathroom. After taking a little longer than usual, go back to class and tell her/him you threw up and need to go to the nurse. Ask the nurse if you can just "lay down. " Start with simple requests like these rather than bluntly stating "I want to go home." When you first get to the nurse, tell them that you don't feel well, that you are dizzy, or feel like you want to sleep. Ask if you can rest a little while before going back to class. This makes it seem like you don't necessarily want to go home, and are trying to make it through the school day rather than faking it. Pretend to fall asleep. This will lend realism to your story and make it seem like you really don't feel well. Don't overdo it with fake snoring, though, just keep it simply by covering your face with the pillow or a rag. This will also make it seem like you're sensitive to light (migraine symptom), and seem like you are indeed trying to sleep it off. Rig any medical tests. The nurse might want to run a few medical tests on you to confirm your story. If your nurse wants to take your blood pressure, hold your breath while he/she is taking it. This helps to lower your blood pressure and make it seem like you are, indeed, ill. Tell your nurse that you threw up; they most likely won't question that. Your nurse will also most like want to take your temperature. Be prepared for an oral thermometer by rinsing your mouth with hot water right before you go see them, or by running around a little so that you can raise your body temperature and appear to be feverish. Make a second visit to the nurse. If your nurse sends you back to class, don't worry! This just means that you'll be paying a second visit which gets you out of class and this time will get you sent home for good. Tell the nurse that you're tried but are still not feeling well and that you are "too sick to concentrate." These are golden words. Say that you're starting to feel some of the above symptoms for the flu, nausea, etc. Keep it simple. Don't overdo it by over-exaggerating symptoms or listing too many. Just say that you feel "bad," "have a headache," and "can't concentrate in class because it hurts." It will be tempting to ask her to call your parents, but don't do it!. This will be a red flag for her that you're trying to go home rather than really feeling sick. If you know someone who is already sick, say that you had recently hung out with them. Especially if the nurse knows that he/she is sick, you can act as though you caught whatever bug they had. | Begin to show slight symptoms the night before. Don't do something you want to. Start but then don’t finish your homework. Go to bed early. Wake up in the middle of the night. Stay up through the night. Wake up before your parents and quietly make fake vomit. Be reluctant to get dressed. Fake bags under your eyes. Pick at your breakfast. Protest if they suggest you stay home. Fake having a rash. Fake having a fever. Fake a migraine. Fake having diarrhea. Fake having pink eye. Fake having a stomachache, nausea, or cramps. Fake having a cold or the flu. Fake having a sore throat. Manage your parents’ expectations. Show signs of improvement. Keep a low profile. Get permission to go the nurse. Ask the nurse if you can just "lay down. Pretend to fall asleep. Rig any medical tests. Make a second visit to the nurse. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Write-a-Promissory-Note | How to Write a Promissory Note | To write a promissory note, start by writing down the agreement, being sure to include the amount of the loan, by when it needs to be repaid, and the interest you'll charge. You should also include what will happen is a payment is missed or late, or if the person defaults on the loan. After they have been informed of your right to transfer or cancel the debt, have the borrower sign the note. | Meet the required elements to create an enforceable promissory note. In order to be enforceable, the note must include certain elements. Without any these you may not be able to collect the money you loaned out. The amount of the loan — the amount that is borrowed and owed. Repayment dates — the date payments are due or the loan must be repaid. Interest rate — the rate charged or paid on borrowed money. Interest rates are calculated in terms of annual percentage rate or APR. Amount after interest has been applied or PI (principle + interest). The Pledge of Security Agreement or Collateral hold. List any goods or services and the value used as a guarantee of the debt to be paid. Terms for late or missed payments, if applicable. Default terms — what will happen if the borrower fails to repay in a timely manner. Signature Write down the terms of the agreement. These are the terms that the borrower and lender have agreed upon covering each of the required elements above. You can find free forms to download by doing an Internet search under "promissory note forms." You may want to include a repayment schedule with specific due dates in the note if there are going to be monthly or weekly payments. Decide on a secured or unsecured promissory note for repayment. A secured promissory note requires the borrower to provide goods, property, or services as collateral, in the event the borrower defaults on the debt. The value of the collateral should be equal to or greater than the principal of the debt. An unsecured promissory note requires no collateral to borrow. Good to excellent credit is required to get an unsecured loan. Perfect the security of your loan. If you have a secured promissory note, this means the person borrowing money has agreed that the lender has the right to collateral (such as property) if the borrower defaults. To make sure the lender gets paid, he can file a financing statement (Form UCC1) to "perfect" his interest, meaning he has priority over others (such as those who want to collect on unsecured loans) to collect if the debtor defaults or files for bankruptcy. UCC forms differ by state and must be filed with your state's Secretary of State. The form should include a description of the collateral and its value. Make the promissory note enforceable. If it is not signed, for example, the note will not hold up in court. The body of the document must include: Legal names of all parties that have a vested interest in the transaction. Address and phone numbers of each party involved, including the lender. The signature of the borrower and a witness. The lender's signature may or may not be required. The requirement varies by state. Purpose — what the money will be used for. This requirement will also vary by state. Inform the borrower of the right to transfer clause. The borrower has a right to be informed that the note can be transferred by the lender to another party. The original terms and agreement will remain effective, but the debt will be payable to a different party. Inform the borrower of the right to cancel. Most states require that a borrower have three days to cancel the note (not take out the loan) after they sign the promissory note. There is a form the borrower signs that informs them of this right. When the loan is paid back, issue a Release of Promissory Note. This signifies the end of both parties' commitments under the note. A release can help prevent future disputes and lawsuits. If there was collateral that secured the promissory note, make sure that any liens are cancelled or terminated. Write demand letters if the note is not paid by the due date. The language in the letter should reference harsh legal action if the borrower does not pay what is owed. Make sure you include a date that the borrower must pay to avoid legal action and loss of collateral if it is a secured note. Demand the collateral if a secured note is not paid. Default of payments on debts by a secured note requires the borrower to forfeit the items in lieu of payment. You may need to go to court to collect on the loan or the collateral if it is not paid by the due date. Take the borrower to small claims court. If you are owed a modest sum, such as $5,000 or less, then this is an inexpensive option. You will have a better chance of receiving some of the funds owed on an unsecured note without having to pay high court and attorney fees. | Meet the required elements to create an enforceable promissory note. Write down the terms of the agreement. Decide on a secured or unsecured promissory note for repayment. Perfect the security of your loan. Make the promissory note enforceable. Inform the borrower of the right to transfer clause. Inform the borrower of the right to cancel. When the loan is paid back, issue a Release of Promissory Note. Write demand letters if the note is not paid by the due date. Demand the collateral if a secured note is not paid. Take the borrower to small claims court. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Pretend-to-Be-a-Girl | How to Pretend to Be a Girl | Pretending to be a girl is about acting the part as much as dressing feminine. In addition to feminine clothes, wear a wig and apply some makeup to bring out your feminine side. If you have a lot of facial hair, you'll probably want to shave. Speak with a higher voice and laugh with a soft giggle to disguise your deep voice. When you're walking around, sway your hips slightly and take lighter steps. You should also sit with your ankles or legs crossed rather than spreading them. Try to smile a lot, which women tend to do more than men. | Get a wig or style your hair. If you have long hair already, then you can just style it. If your hair is short, then you may want to get a wig to enhance your feminine look. When you are choosing a wig, make sure that you purchase one that is high quality if you want your look to be more convincing. A poor quality wig may not look as good. If you are dressing up for a drag show or play, then you can go with an over the top wig, such as something that is ultra-long, styled like a bee hive, or dyed an unnatural color. If you just want to see what it feels like to dress as a girl, then try curling your hair, using a flat iron for a pin-straight look, or braiding your hair. Long hair will help you to look feminine and it can also provide some coverage from masculine features such as a square jaw, but having long hair is not absolutely necessary if you are just dressing up to see how it feels. If you have short hair, then you can also try styling it in a feminine way. For example, you can use mousse and curl the longer pieces, or wear an accessory, such as a headband or barrette. Put on makeup. Makeup can help to accentuate your features and give your face a more feminine appearance. If you have never worn makeup before, then you may need to watch some tutorials on how to apply it. Try checking Youtube for some basic makeup application tutorials. If you just want to get a feel for what it is like to wear makeup or if you want to try to pass as a girl, then stick with a light layer of foundation, some light eye shadow and mascara, and a nude or pink lipstick. If you want something more dramatic, such as for a drag show, then you can put on a heavy layer of foundation, black eyeliner, fake lashes, and some bold red lipstick. Wear women’s clothing. Wearing women's clothing is an essential part of looking like a girl. Lots of girls wear unisex clothing, such as pants, jeans, and t-shirts. However, dresses are your best bet for drag shows because they are flashier. If you just want to get a feel for what it is like to dress as a girl, then wearing a dress or a skirt with a girl's top will give you a better idea. Choose a style that flatters you and shows off your best features. For example, you can choose a short skirt if you want to show off your legs, or a sleeveless top if you want to show off your arms. If you are going for an exaggerated look, such as for a drag show or theater production, then you might want to choose something flashy, ultra-feminine, or elaborate. For example, you could go with a sequined dress, a fluffy tulle skirt, or a hot pink evening gown. If you are interested in dressing as a girl to pass as a girl, then try to choose clothing that is in style. Wearing current trends may help make it easier for you to pass as a woman. Add some accessories. Earrings, necklaces, bracelets, scarves, and other accessories can help to enhance your feminine look. Choose an accessory that complements your outfit and that makes you feel pretty. If you are dressing up with the intention of trying to pass as a girl or see how it feels, then you could go with a simple pair of pearl earrings or a dainty gold necklace. If you are going for a more dramatic look, such as for a drag show or theater production, then go for some long dangling earrings, a long glittering costume jewelry necklace, or a lots of bangle bracelets. Slip on some women’s shoes. Shoes are an essential part of your look. Select some women's shoes that go with your outfit and that you will feel comfortable wearing. High heels are ultra-feminine, but they can be difficult to walk in. You will probably need to practice walking in them before you go out in public. If you are dressing up for drag or a play, then high heels may provide the most dramatic effect. Just make sure that you can walk in them without falling! If you are experimenting with women's clothing because you want to see how it feels or possible pass as a woman in public, then try starting out with some ballet flats, some low heel dress shoes, or a fashionable pair of sandals. Make sure that your toenails are painted if you will be baring your toes. Shave facial hair, legs, and armpits. Getting rid of excess facial hair, armpit hair, and leg hair is crucial when dressing as a woman. Having visible facial hair can be a dead giveaway, so make sure that you give yourself a close shave before you start making the transformation. If you don't want to shave your armpits, then just make sure that you are wearing something that covers them completely, such as a long-sleeve or ¾ length sleeve top. If you don't want to shave your legs, then you can also go with some opaque tights. Wear two pairs for extra coverage. Tuck your penis. Tucking your penis back is an important part of passing as a girl. To tuck your penis, pull it back towards your buttock and between your legs. Then, put on two pairs of form-fitting panties to help keep it in place. Another option is to use a gaff. You can buy or make a gaff. To make a gaff, cut the elastic waistband off of a pair of pantyhose and then cut the top off of a sock. Thread the waistband through the sock so that the sock is centered. To use a gaff, slip your legs through the two openings in the elastic and pull it up like a pair of underwear. As you do so, tuck your penis back. Then, adjust the gaff as needed and put on your panties. The gaff will help to keep your penis tucked back. Put on a bra. Wearing a bra is an essential part of looking like a girl. Choose a bra that fits around your chest comfortably. Measure your chest around the widest part to see what size bra you will need. For example, if your chest is 38 inches around, then purchase a bra that is a size 38. The cup sizes are lettered, such as A, B, C, D, etc. A is on the smaller end while a D cup is on the larger end. You can choose any cup size you like, but keep in mind that choosing a large cup size may make it hard to fit into some clothing. To play it safe, go for a B or C cup. However, if you are dressing up for a drag show or as part of a play, then you may want to go for a larger bra size. You will also need to stuff the cups. You can stuff the bra with socks, tissues, balloons filled with a few ounces of water, or special silicone bra pads. Wear slimming undergarments. Wearing slimming undergarments or shapewear can help you to get a smoother curvier figure. These garments can also help to taper your waist, which will help to make you look more feminine. Try wearing a corset or girdle, a pair of shapewear shorts, or a pair of pantyhose with a high waist. Consider wearing hip or butt padding. If you don't have much fat on your hips or buttocks, then wearing a padded undergarment or adding padding to your undergarments can help you to achieve a curvier look. You can purchase pre-padded undergarments or just slip some padding into your underwear or pantyhose. For a drag show or play, you may want a more exaggerated figure. Try using more padding or even a pillow to create the appearance of curvy hips and big butt. Practice your walk. While there is no one way to walk like a girl, you may want to practice walking in a more feminine way. Instead of taking straight, hard strides, try to walk with a bit of a sway to your hips and lightness in your step. If you are just trying to experiment with what walking like a girl is like, then just aim for some slight movement in your hips as you take each step. Unless you are going for an over-the-top walk, such as for a drag show, don't place your feet directly in front of each other as this can make your walk look too exaggerated. Sit with your ankles or legs crossed. A masculine way of sitting is with legs spread wide and arms out to take up more space. Instead, keep your knees together and your elbows in close to your body. You can cross your ankles or cross your knees if you feel comfortable doing so. This seated position will help to give you a more feminine appearance. You can also fold your hands on your lap or place them gently on the table in front of you. Try not to slouch while sitting. Instead, keep your back straight or lean forward and rest your elbows daintily upon the table. Adjust your voice. Women tend to have higher voices than men and this can give you away as a man dressing up like a woman. If you have a deep voice, then you may want to practice speaking at a higher octave. However, keep in mind that some women have deeper voices, so try not to feel self-conscious if your voice is a little deeper than some other women's voices. If you are dressing as a woman for a drag show or play, then you can either use your normal voice or go with an over-the-top girl voice. Smile and laugh often. Women tend to smile and laugh more than men. Smiling and laughing more often can help you to appear more feminine, so try to smile and laugh a lot. Unless it is part of your drag show or character, you don't need to wear a big grin constantly or laugh all of the time. If you are just trying to get a feel for more feminine mannerisms, then try to smile and laugh a little more than you usually would. If you are having trouble doing a feminine laugh, try a soft giggle instead. Make your voice a little higher, but don't make it sound like Minnie Mouse. | Get a wig or style your hair. Put on makeup. Wear women’s clothing. Add some accessories. Slip on some women’s shoes. Shave facial hair, legs, and armpits. Tuck your penis. Put on a bra. Wear slimming undergarments. Consider wearing hip or butt padding. Practice your walk. Sit with your ankles or legs crossed. Adjust your voice. Smile and laugh often. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Cut-Bamboo | How to Cut Bamboo | To cut bamboo, start by preparing your stalks by putting masking tape where you are going to cut to stop the wood from splintering. Next, use a sharp pruner to cut bamboo that is less than 1 inch in diameter. If the bamboo is thicker, use a fine toothed saw. Then, find the nodes, which are areas that have 2 rings close together, use mineral oil to lubricate the bamboo, and cut at an angle of 45 degrees between the nodes. | Choose your stalks. If you are using bamboo for a project, you should generally choose green wood because it's easier to use. If it's cold outside, you will want to heat the bamboo stalks so they won't split. Put masking tape where you are going to cut. It can stop the wood from splintering. Use a sharp pruner to cut bamboo that is less than 1-inch in diameter. If it's more than that, you should use a sharp handsaw. Pick one with straight teeth or it will tear the plant's fibers. Use your measuring tape, or formal project plans, to determine how wide a piece of bamboo you need. Find bamboo of approximately that thickness, understanding that bamboo does not come in uniform diameters. Find the nodes. Most people use or cut the stem of the bamboo plant because this is the part that grows above ground. It usually grows straight. The stems contain nodes that strengthen it. That's the purpose they serve to the plant. The number of nodes may differ, depending on the type of bamboo. You can find nodes by looking for areas that have two rings positioned closely together. The lower ring of the node is called the sheath ring, and the upper one is called the stem ring. Most bamboo is hollow inside. The thickness of the wall differs depending on the species of bamboo. One bamboo species is almost solid. Lubricate the bamboo before cutting it, this will make it easier to cut through. It must be cut an angle of 45 degrees between the nodes. Make sure to work in a room temperature environment with room temperature tools to again prevent splitting. Mineral oil is often used to lubricate bamboo. Pick the right cutting instrument. If you're using small amounts of bamboo for something like a small home decorative project, simply roll a sharp knife through the bamboo stalk. Bamboo can be cut precisely using a fine wood saw or a metal saw. As it is a fibrous material, you should be careful at the end of the cut to avoid splits. Go slow at the end. Take out a relatively sharp knife. Always chop the bamboo diagonally. You can make your cut with shears for bamboo stalks 1 inch (2.54 cm) or less in diameter. For thicker pieces, use a saw. If the project is larger, you'll need a table and a very sharp handsaw. Position the part you want to cut over the edge and grasp the stalk on the table. Now, simply saw the end of the bamboo off. It's also possible to drill through bamboo. For pieces thicker than one inch, use a fine toothed saw and a stable work area as well as a way to secure both ends of the bamboo (masking tape works great). Then you secure the two ends to the work space and mark where you want to cut and then... cut it. Consider using a clamp on the workbench to hold the stalk. If you wrap the section of bamboo that goes in the clamp with a towel, this will prevent the clamp from marring the surface of your wood. Cut the bamboo stalks. Perhaps you want to cut bamboo stalks to put in a decorative vase. This is not very difficult to do. Take a bamboo stalk, and make sure that it is not diseased or damaged. Find the nodes on the stalk. These look like rings. You want to make sure there are 4-6 nodes. Use a sharp knife to cut the lowest node. Cut at a 45-degree angle, and make sure your knife is sharp enough so the cut is clean and not jagged. Select a joint on the stalk and slice just above it. Take off any leafy shoots from the bottom of the stalks. Don't forget to water your bamboo stalks, even if you then put them in a decorative vase. Make sure you change the water once a week and don't put the bamboo in direct sunlight. Do keep it in a bright room, though. Groom bamboo branches. Let's say you have a bamboo grove in your yard. It's important to groom the bamboo so it remains healthy. Bamboo canes usually survive about 10 years. Once they've reached the end of that life cycle, it's a good idea to remove them so new bamboo can grow. You will want to prune the bamboo after the 3rd to 5th growing season. Pruning works best when it's not the shooting season. To cut down a bamboo stalk completely, most hacksaws should do the trick. Wear safety gear and take great caution when dealing with sharp instruments. Always cut above a node. Start cutting at ground level. Don't forget to cut the stump down so no one will trip over it. Generally, don't remove more than one-third of the canes in the grove. Use a horizontal cut at ground level to remove the dead, damaged stalks. Top the bamboo. It's also possible to cut away the upper portion of bamboo. This will create a lusher appearance as the bamboo won't grow upward anymore. With the hacksaw, cut about 1/4 of an inch above the node. When you cut the top of bamboo canes, new leaves will grow on the top. Some people tie the bamboo stalks together with garden twine, and them lop all of the tops off at once so leaves will grow and make the clump look bushy. Transplant bamboo stalks to clone them. Pick bamboo that is younger than 3-years-old to transplant. If you already have a bamboo plant in a pot or in the landscape, it's simple to propagate by cutting sections of the stem and replanting them, a method called culm-segment cutting. The sections of bamboo develop new roots creating a clone of the parent plant. Try to cut from the stalk's middle. You need at least two full internodes in the middle and two half internodes on either end. Internodes are the section between two nodes. Cut a bamboo cane into sections containing two to three nodes, the places along a bamboo cane where the leaves grow from. Use a sharp knife to do this. Look for the bamboo to flair out and have a slight division in it to find a node. Cut as many culm sections for replanting as bamboo plants you want to grow. Each section will grow into a new plant. Add a couple extra to make up for potential loss, rot or failure to set root. Cut the foliage off the culm cutting with a pair of clippers. Plant the cane. Dig a hole in the ground or fill a 6-inch nursery pot with potting soil. Plant the culm section in the soil with one or two nodes covered. Position the culm cutting so that it is vertical or at a 45-degree angle in the pot or planting bed. Keep the soil damp by watering when the top of the dirt feels dry to the touch. The best time to transplant bamboo cuttings is in the fall at the beginning of the rainy season. Take advantage of the wet months to get your bamboo cuttings started. If you plant in spring or summer, keep the culm sections well-watered. Don't let them dry out or the roots are likely to die or simply fail to form. True bamboo is part of a grass family. Keep the bamboo moist, and only transplant bamboo in warm weather. There is another plant frequently grown as a house plant called lucky bamboo. It's not bamboo at all. Don't get this confused with regular bamboo or your cutting and planting efforts will not work. | Choose your stalks. Find the nodes. Lubricate the bamboo before cutting it, this will make it easier to cut through. Pick the right cutting instrument. Cut the bamboo stalks. Groom bamboo branches. Top the bamboo. Transplant bamboo stalks to clone them. Plant the cane. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Aching-in-Your-Bones | How to Stop Aching in Your Bones | Aching in your bones can be a sign of many serious conditions, so you should schedule an appointment with your doctor to find out the underlying cause. In the meantime, you can take over-the-counter anti-inflammatory medications, such as naproxen, ibuprofen, and aspirin, to get relief from any pain or discomfort. However, you should always make sure these don't interfere with any other medication you may be taking. You can also try applying a hot or cold compress, like an ice pack or hot water bottle, to your aching bones to numb the area and reduce swelling. Alternatively, you can get a gentle massage for pain and stress relief. | See a doctor to determine the cause of your pain. Aching bones can be more than just an annoyance. Pain in your bones can be a sign of a serious underlying condition, so talk to your doctor right away if you are having bone pain. Potential causes of aching bones include: Paget's Disease of the Bone Solid Tissue Cancer Sickle Cell Disease Multiple Myeloma Osteomalacia (softening of the bones, often caused by a vitamin D deficiency during a time of bone growth) Other cancers such as breast or prostate cancer. Bone pain from cancer may start with a dull or deep ache that may come and go at first, but gradually becomes persistent. Leukemia Fractures (including hairline fractures) Overuse or overexertion Arthritis Obesity Osteoporosis (bone pain is not common with this condition, but it is possible) Talk to your doctor about your symptoms. Your doctor can provide a more specific diagnosis and treatment plan if you let him or her know about the symptoms you have been experiencing. Pay attention to exactly when and how your bones hurt, and be prepared to answer your doctor's questions, like: Where does it hurt? When does it hurt? At night? During the day? Does the pain move, or stay in one place? How long have you been experiencing aching bones? Have the aches gotten worse? Have you been experiencing any other symptoms? Have your doctor run certain tests. Some examinations and tests can help determine what is causing your aching bones, and how to treat them. These tests may include: Blood draws (such as for a CBC, or “Complete Blood Count”) X-rays of your bone(s) A CT or MRI scan Assessment of your hormone levels Urine studies Dexa scan Calcium, phosphorus, and vitamin D levels Take anti-inflammatory medications. A variety of anti-inflammatory medications, including common non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) are very effective at controlling pain caused by aching bones. Your doctor can suggest one or more for you to take. Many over-the-counter options are available, but always use them as directed by the label or your doctor. Common anti-inflammatory medications include: Acetaminophen Naproxen Ibuprofen Aspirin Get plenty of vitamin D. It is critical to get an adequate intake of vitamin D so that your body can build and maintain strong, healthy bones. You can ensure you are getting enough vitamin D in a number of ways. The amount of vitamin D a person needs varies by age, but ranges from 400-800 International Units (IU) per day. Those with osteoporosis or women past menopause will need 800 international units of vitamin D daily Vitamin D supplements are available at pharmacies, supermarkets, health stores, and many other locations. You can also eat foods high in vitamin D, including: oily fish (salmon, mackerel, sardines), egg yolks, fortified cereals and breads, and many milks and yogurts. Getting adequate exposure to sunlight is important, because your body needs it to help process vitamin D. However, overexposure may be harmful, so talk to your doctor about how much sunlight exposure you should have. Get plenty of calcium. The mineral calcium is essential to form and maintain strong bones (as well as for brain and muscle health). If you have aching bones, the pain may be linked to a calcium deficiency. In any case, you should ensure that you are getting an adequate amount of calcium in your diet. The amount of calcium a person needs per day varies widely by age. For example, infants need between 200-260 mg, children 700-1000 mg, and teenagers 1300 mg. Many adults need around 1000 mg a day; however, women over 50 need 1200 mg a day. Postmenopausal women and those with osteoporosis need to take 1200 mg of calcium every day divided in two or three doses. Calcium supplements are available at pharmacies, supermarkets, health stores, and many other locations. You can also eat foods high in calcium, including: dairy products (milk, yogurt, cheese), kale, broccoli, fish with soft, edible bones (such as salmon and sardines), and certain fortified foods (including some grains, breads, cereals, pastas, juices, etc.). Take antibiotics. In some cases, aching bones may be caused by an infection. In other cases, an infection may be linked to an underlying cause for which aching bones are also a symptom. If your doctor determines that your bone pain is related to an infection, he or she may prescribe antibiotics to combat it. Make sure to take the antibiotics exactly as prescribed by your doctor, and for as long as you are told to. You should continue to take the antibiotics as long as you are told to, even if the pain or other symptoms disappear. This helps to ensure that the infection is completely eradicated. Take hormone treatments. Hormones are special molecules that help regulate organs and behavior. In some cases, aching bones can be caused by or linked to a deficiency of one or more hormones. Your doctor will run tests to see if this is the case for you. If it is, he or she may prescribe a treatment plan (often hormone injections) to make up for this deficiency, and ultimately ease your aches. Always carefully follow your doctor's instructions regarding hormone treatments. Try heat or cold. Applying heat or cold to your aching bones can be a simple and effective way to manage pain. Heat will increase blood flow to the sore area, soothing it as a result. Cold will provide relief by numbing the sore area, and reducing any swelling. You can choose whichever method feels best to you, or alternate between the two. You can apply heat or cold to the aching area using several methods. Apply a cold pack (available at pharmacies and many other stores) to the aching area. Make sure to put a towel over your skin to protect it, rather than just setting the cold pack directly on the site of pain. Apply a homemade ice pack (put some ice cubes in a sealed plastic bag) to the aching area. Make sure to put a towel over your skin to protect it, rather than just setting the ice pack directly on the site of pain. Wrap warm towels around the aching area. Put a sock filled with uncooked rice in the microwave for one minute to form a quick and easy heat pack. Make sure to put a towel over your skin to protect it, rather than just setting the rice heat pack directly on the site of pain. Take a warm bath or shower. Try physical therapy. In some cases, your aching bones may be caused by overuse, overexertion, or poor posture. Physical therapy treatments may help ease your aches, and encourage you to move, sit, and stand properly. Talk to your doctor or physical therapist about developing a program to help you. Get a massage. Massage therapy can provide overall pain and stress relief, and some research indicates that it can specifically help ease aching bones in some cases. Ask your doctor or physical therapist to recommend a massage therapist; he or she may know one that specializes in easing bone aches. Try acupuncture. Acupuncture (a treatment in which a patient's skin is punctured by thin needles at precise points on the body) is thought to be an effective pain reliever in many cases. Its effectiveness for treating bone aches is unclear, although some research indicates it may help some causes, such as osteoarthritis. Consider herbal treatments. A variety of herbal treatments are traditionally thought to ease pain and/or to have anti-inflammatory properties. The effectiveness of herbal treatments—generally, or to treat aching bones in particular—has not been well-studied in many cases. However, you may investigate one or more herbal treatments instead of or in addition to other methods to relief bone pain (look for them at supermarkets, pharmacies or herbal and health stores). White willow bark has effects that are similar to aspirin's. Some research indicates that turmeric has an anti-inflammatory effect. Green tea has long been recognized as an antioxidant and now as an anti-inflammatory as well. Research indicates that a substance in chili peppers known as capsaicin has an anti-inflammatory effect. Always talk to your doctor about your plans to take any herbal supplement or treatment, since they can have side effects or interfere with other medications you are taking. | See a doctor to determine the cause of your pain. Talk to your doctor about your symptoms. Have your doctor run certain tests. Take anti-inflammatory medications. Get plenty of vitamin D. Get plenty of calcium. Take antibiotics. Take hormone treatments. Try heat or cold. Try physical therapy. Get a massage. Try acupuncture. Consider herbal treatments. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Impossible-People | How to Deal With Impossible People | If someone is being impossible, you can deal with them by detaching yourself from the situation. In the heat of the moment, try to stay calm and accept that you'll never win in an argument with an impossible person since they think they're always right. They feel that your opinion doesn't matter, so remove yourself emotionally from the situation and treat it with indifference so you can protect yourself. Try to redirect the conversation away from arguing with silence or by humoring the person and listening to their complaints. Consider asking them a thought-provoking question like “Why do you feel this way?” as a way of engaging in the conversation while politely illuminating their irrationality. | Don’t get defensive. Stay calm, and be aware that you will never win in an argument with an impossible person—they are referred to as "impossible" for a reason. In the impossible person's mind, you are the problem, and nothing you say can convince the person to see your side of the story. They feel that your opinion doesn't matter because you are guilty, regardless. Think about what you are going to say before you say it and what your goal for the conversation is. Don't just react impulsively because the other person offended you. You don't have to defend yourself to this person. Use “I” statements instead of “you” statements. For example, don't say, “You are wrong.” Try something like, “I feel like that statement may not be the whole truth.” This helps you speak your mind without putting them on the defensive. Detach, disassociate and defuse. Staying calm in the heat of the moment is paramount to your personal preservation. Spitting angry words, reacting with extreme emotions such as crying, will only stimulate impossible people to do more of the difficult behavior. Don't take the reactions of impossible people personally, and don't allow yourself to become emotionally charged in reaction to him or her. Remove yourself emotionally from the situation, and treat it with indifference. The goal is to not allow yourself to get emotionally involved in the conversation, keep the person at a distance and not let the words make you feel bad. Redirect the situation or conversation to something positive by focusing on something other than what the argument started about. Talk about the weather, fishing, the impossible person's family—really anything that will distract from the argument and is not likely to cause further conflict. Consider the fact that anything you do or say while angry can be used against you. Unless you don't mind hearing about an angry comment years from now, then let it go. Impossible people want you to say something to prove that you're the bad guy. Do not judge this person as right or wrong even if they seem irrational. Judging is likely to only make you feel worse. Avoid arguing with them. If possible, don't disagree with impossible people. Find ways to be agreeable or ignore them. Arguing will only get you emotionally invested in the situation and trigger your fight or flight responses. This will make it harder for you to think clearly and respond appropriately. Impossible people are looking for a fight, so when you agree with them or some truth in their statement, you are no longer giving them what they want. If you are called a "jerk," for example, go ahead and acknowledge a time when you acted badly. This corrects an overgeneralization. Realize you probably can’t have a reasonable conversation. Having a civilized conversation with the impossible person is unlikely—at least with you. Recall every time you tried in the past to have a civilized discussion about your relationship with the person. You were probably blamed for everything instead. Use silence or try to humor the person whenever you can. Know that you cannot "fix" impossible people. These people cannot and do not listen to reason. Avoid getting cornered into an argument. Don't deal with the person one-on-one. Always suggest that a third party be brought in. If the person refuses, demand it. Ignore them. Impossible people want attention, so once they realize you won't give them what they want, they will move onto someone else who will react to them. Stay out of their business, out of their way and avoid talking to or about them. Impossible peoples' outbursts are like a child's tantrum. Pay them no mind unless the outbursts becomes disruptive, dangerous or threatening. Do your best to avoid angering impossible people or giving them a reason to lose their temper. Ask a thought-provoking question. Asking the impossible individual or the group you are dealing with a question regarding the issue, such as, "What is the problem?" or "Why do you feel this way?" can be helpful. It shows that you are engaged in the conversation and willing to find the source of the disagreement. Rephrasing the impossible person's position to illuminate irrationality can encourage an individual to come to a better conclusion. Know that the impossible individual may respond to the question by attempting to complicate everything with name-calling, blaming, changing the subject or other behaviors. Take a breather. If the person you're talking with is getting on your last nerve, then you need to step away from the immediate situation. They might just want to get a rise out of you, so show them that they have no effect on you. Walking away or handling another task so you can calm down is a good idea. Count to ten silently if you need to. If the person is still being impossible, then just ignore him. That person will eventually back down if he notices that he's not aggravating you. Be confident. State your views with confidence and look the person in the eye when communicating with them. You do not want to appear weak to one of these people. If you look at the ground or over their shoulder, she could interpret this as weak. You want to be reasonable but not timid. Adjust your strategy. Sometimes you can't leave the situation, so treat it like a game. Learn the impossible person's strategy, and develop counter strategies ahead of time. Eventually you'll find what works and what doesn't, plus you'll probably feel better as you realize you're three steps ahead, outwitting them at every turn. Just remember your ultimate goal is to help free yourself mentally, not become the person's master. If the impossible person comes up to you and whispers something negative around others thinking you won't want to respond and create a scene, then say out loud, “Do you really want to talk about this here?” This may surprise them and discourage them from showing negativity to an entire group. Always consider the possible consequences of your actions if your plan doesn't go as expected so you can prepare for those, too. If the impossible person still finds a way to get to you, then don't feel bad. Just make a note of what happened and devise new strategies for next time. Impossible people aren't so impossible when you can predict what the person is going to say or do next. Check your body language. Become aware of your positioning, how you move and your facial expressions when around these people. We reveal a lot of our emotions non-verbally. You don't want to reveal your own feelings unknowingly. Also, this will help you maintain your own sense of calm, and may have a calming effect on the impossible person in the process. You can use mindfulness to become more aware of your body, which will allow you to monitor your body language more easily. Speak softly, and move as calmly as possible. Try a technique called "slow talk." By reducing your talking speed by 1/3, you will sound clearer and calmer. You can practice slow talk by reading aloud at a deliberately slow pace. Avoid confrontational body language, such as eye contact for long periods of time, aggressive gestures, pointing or standing directly in front of the person face-to-face. Keep a neutral expression on your face, don't shake your head and stay out of the person's personal space. Consider that it might be a question of compatibility. Even if a person seems to get along with everybody else, they could be an impossible person for you. Some people simply clash or don't get along together well. There may be nothing wrong with either of you but together you just bring out the worst in each other. When an impossible person makes a statement like, "Everyone else likes me," they are trying to shift the blame onto you. How they interact with others is irrelevant, since there is a problem with the way the two of you interact. Remember that blaming does not alter facts. Avoid picking up “impossible” traits. You tend to pick up on the behavior of those around you. For this reason, you could find yourself adopting the very traits that you dislike on accident. You may engage in the same manipulative and irrational behavior in response to the impossible person. Catch yourself when you start to do this, and make a deliberate attempt not to mimic the offending traits. Consider what you can learn. Impossible people offer valuable life experiences. After dealing with impossible people, you will be able to get along with most other people easier. Try to keep perspective, and realize that what may seem crazy to you may be another person's only way of coping. Try to view these interactions as a way to build strengths such as flexibility, grace, and tolerance. Never be misled by a person's age, intelligence or station in life when determining her maturity level. Be prepared for emotional mood swings. If you successfully convince an impossible person that they made a mistake, then they may suddenly have an emotional meltdown. Instead of believing they are right all the time, they will decide that if they can't be right now, then they will always be wrong. This is a coping mechanism to elicit sympathy from others. Some impossible people will use erratic behavior in order to surprise and confuse. It's possible they didn't even expect it either. Resist the urge to let this kind of unpredictable behavior intimidate you. Don't let these people confuse you by acting like they are being persecuted. If they genuinely feel bad for something they did, respond positively but don't give them encouragement to manipulate you this way. Focus on the positive. Many people have some redeeming traits, so try to think of something. There might be something the person does well, or maybe there was a time you were able to connect with her. If you can't think of anything positive, then make a statement to yourself like, “All life is precious” or "God/The Universe loves her" to help keep yourself under control—even if you don't love or value them yourself. Talk to someone. If you know someone who will be understanding of the situation (good friend, relative, counselor, etc.), talk to that person about it. They will probably understand you, and it will definitely help you feel better. It is best if the listener doesn't know the impossible person personally and is not involved in the same situations (for example, not a co-worker). Vent in a journal or online community if you need to. Sharing your feelings, whether to another person or in a journal, will help you avoid ruminating on negative emotions. Preserve your self-esteem. Maintaining a positive self-image in the face of someone who portrays you as a bad person takes effort. Instead of listening to what the impossible person says, focus on the people who validate you and make you feel good. Realize that the impossible person wants to hurt you to make themself feel better. Understand that the impossible person is the problem—not you. This may be difficult because impossible people are good at shifting the blame and making you feel like it is your fault. But if you accept responsibility for your mistakes and flaws and try to improve yourself, there's a very good chance that you are not the impossible person. When they makes a statement designed to hurt you, realize that all they want is for others to say that they're awesome. Know that you don't require validation like that. If the insults have no basis in fact, just dismiss them. You are not as bad as the impossible person would like you and everyone else to believe. Protect your privacy. Impossible people will often find ways to use personal information, even if it seems petty and small, against you. They can fabricate entire stories and paint you as being an awful person based on a simple comment you made. As specialists in manipulation, impossible people are also very good at getting you to open up and tell them things. Don't tell impossible people anything personal, even if they seem normal or act like a friend to you at times. Things you say or share in confidence can suddenly come back to haunt you unexpectedly in your personal or professional life. Be the opposite of them. Be a “possible” person—make yourself and your life an example of tolerance, patience, humility and kindness. Always try to be the reasonable one. Consider all sides of the story before coming to conclusions. Just as bad behavior can influence us negatively, behaving like a tolerant, patient and kind person can sometimes influence another for the better. Recognize that you aren't perfect. You don't have to do everything right all the time, but do try your best. Be respectful, and if you don't receive respect in return, then understand that it's the impossible person's problem and not yours. You will have good days and bad days just like with everything else in your life. Don't focus on them. Even if you cannot avoid impossible people in your daily life, don't think about them on your "off" time. Remember that stressing about the person all the time is the same as giving them your precious time when they don't even care about you. Do other activities and make new friends; that way you aren't wasting time by thinking about what the person said or did constantly. Turn your thoughts to what you do want in your life, rather than what you don't want. This helps you stay focused on the positive instead of the negative. Know that you may be dealing with an emotional abuser. Emotional abusers can cripple you with their words and actions. They use tactics such as humiliation, negating, criticizing, domination, blaming, demanding and emotional distancing to make you codependent on them. Never let what emotional abusers say define who you are. Know that the things they say and do are from unresolved childhood or past issues that they are projecting onto you. The best thing to do is to be kind and friendly even though the impossible person may act like a jerk to receive negative attention. If the person is lonely but doesn't know how to get attention, then they will appreciate what you are doing and change. If the person is just a natural jerk who loves to make others mad, then what you are doing will enrage the person because they can't figure out how to make you mad. Eventually the person will leave you alone. In some cases, a person who exhibits these behaviors is a sociopath. A sociopath may initially seem very charming, but they soon become controlling, abusive, and egocentric. Since they lack empathy, they don't care about you. Set boundaries. State the rules about what is and is not okay in the relationship. Determine that neither of you will bring up certain subjects, events, people or behave in a certain way. It may be beneficial to sit down with the impossible person, and let them know what is and is not okay and what will happen if boundaries are crossed. Allow them to make the choice to follow the rules or not. Write down some thoughts, and get your wants and needs right in your head. Sit down with the person and start talking. If they interrupt, stop them and continue your talk until you are done. Be honest. Give ultimatums if you must, but focus on the benefits of staying and changing the bad behavior. If you decide to stay in a personal relationship with an impossible person, then keep to yourself as often as possible. Find and focus on a hobby , join a support group or focus on your religion. Make sure to follow up with consequences if boundaries are crossed. Don't let anything slide. If you said you'd be out the door, then out you go. Part ways. Eventually, you will need to separate yourself from an impossible person. Even if they are a family member, you will probably need to leave at some point. A long-term relationship with an impossible person is not healthy. Remove the person from your life as soon as you can. Stay away after you leave the impossible person. No matter how much you love the person or if they try to convince you they have changed, don't go back. If you can't leave or make the impossible person leave right now, then leave the relationship mentally until you can do it physically. Severing your relationship with an impossible person can be painful in the beginning but will be liberating once you can move past old habits. Try to figure out what bothers you about the person. We all have certain aspects of our personality that others can describe in a few words. Some people are clingy, controlling, play the victim, passive-aggressive, overly dramatic or super competitive. If you can describe what it is about the impossible person's personality that clashes with yours, you may be able to pinpoint specific ways to deal with him. Clinging types are insecure and can be desperate for affection and love because they feel weak and idolize stronger people. Controlling types are often critical perfectionists who need to be right and often blame others for their behavior. Competitive types always want to win and often use any type of relationship, conversation or activity as a contest to prove they're better at something. Passive-aggressive people express their hostilities indirectly by subtly pushing other people's buttons. An example is the line, "Don't worry about me, I'm fine," when you know that if you go on with whatever you were doing, there will be problems to deal with later. Know what doesn’t work. Some things work better for certain types of people, while others won't. It may take some trial and error to figure out what is and is not going to work with the impossible person. It is also possible that there is nothing you can do to make dealing with her easier most of the time. Avoiding clinging types will only make them try harder. However, rejecting them openly can turn them into an enemy. If you remain aloof, then their feelings get hurt. For a controlling type, you can't prove that you are right and they are wrong. They always have to be right no matter what, and doing a better job won't help get critical perfectionists off your back. People who are very competitive will use what they see as weakness against you, so don't show emotion around them. If you stand up to them and try to win, then they tend to either abandon you or never let it go. Don't agree with complainers or try to appease them. They'll just get angry about something else. Victims want you to feel sorry for them. Don't offer sympathy, and don't let them use excuses either. Be practical and offer to help in other ways. Find out what works. You can work with certain personality types to help deal with the negative aspects. Use their strengths to help solve conflict and interrelationship stress and downplay weaknesses. Dealing with some personalities this way may produce very positive outcomes. Deal with clingy, controlling and competitive types. Understand why certain types of people act the way they do. People who are clinging need guidance and responsibility to help them gain confidence. Those who are controlling are often insecure and afraid of their own inadequacy. Competitive types of people care a lot about their self-image, so they can usually be very nice and generous after they win. Show clingy types how to do things and then let them figure it out. Don't let them try to convince you that they shouldn't try something because you would do better. Seek out situations where you need help and ask them. Don't be intimidated or let what controlling types say get to you. Acknowledge when you do a good job but don't argue with them if they say otherwise. You can just let competitive types win. If you are having a discussion they won't back down on, acknowledge their position and ask for time to do more research. Deal with self-important people, complainers or victims. Understand that self-important people just need to feel like people are listening to them. People who complain a lot usually have a lot of internalized anger from unresolved issues, and often also need people to listen. Those who play the victim always have bad things happen to them so that they have an excuse for why they haven't achieved something. If you're dealing with a self-important person, then just hear them out. Put up with people who complain a lot, acknowledge how they feel and try to stay away as often as possible. Overlook the reason victims are late or causing problems and react as you normally would to someone else without an excuse. You can offer advice but don't get emotionally engaged. Deal with histrionic and passive-aggressive types. Histrionic personality types live for attention, and will frequently go to great lengths in order to get it. They have to live in the right neighborhood, wear the right clothes and send their kids to the right schools. Passive-aggressive people are often hostile because they don't know how to express their wants and needs effectively. Regardless of sex or gender, histrionic people are often referred to as "drama queens”. Avoid getting caught up in the drama and emotional rollercoaster these people bring with them. Listen but keep your distance. Deal with passive-aggressive people by being very specific about the behaviors and situations that may be an issue. Then practice addressing the problem by being nonreactive to the hostility. Set boundaries, and encourage the person to express wants and needs as well as how to ask for things assertively. | Don’t get defensive. Detach, disassociate and defuse. Avoid arguing with them. Realize you probably can’t have a reasonable conversation. Ignore them. Ask a thought-provoking question. Take a breather. Be confident. Adjust your strategy. Check your body language. Consider that it might be a question of compatibility. Avoid picking up “impossible” traits. Consider what you can learn. Be prepared for emotional mood swings. Focus on the positive. Talk to someone. Preserve your self-esteem. Protect your privacy. Be the opposite of them. Don't focus on them. Know that you may be dealing with an emotional abuser. Set boundaries. Part ways. Try to figure out what bothers you about the person. Know what doesn’t work. Find out what works. Deal with clingy, controlling and competitive types. Deal with self-important people, complainers or victims. Deal with histrionic and passive-aggressive types. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Decide-if-You-Are-Attracted-to-Someone | How to Decide if You Are Attracted to Someone | If you're not sure whether you're attracted to someone, you can know for sure by examining your subconscious behavior and processing your feelings. Take some time to ask yourself how often you think about the person and if you can't control it. If you're not attracted to someone, you probably won't think of them very often. When you're around this person, take note if your heart rate rises since your body will naturally have a physical reaction to someone you are attracted to. While your physical response to someone says a lot about your feelings, you should also reflect on their character and whether they're someone you admire. Think about their positive qualities and identify any behaviors or attributes they have that might be dealbreakers. | Note how often you think about the person. When you are attracted to a person, you may find yourself thinking about them more often than you think about anyone else and doing so beyond your control. When you are not attracted to someone, you will likely be indifferent. Ask yourself the following questions: Do I frequently find myself wanting to be where they are? Am I disappointed when they do not return my text messages or phone calls? Note changes in your physical appearance. If you care a lot about your physical appearance, especially if it is more than usual, you are likely attracted to the person. You are demonstrating that you care how they feel about your appearance, and you probably care how they feel about you. Here are a few questions to ask yourself: Do I care more about how my hair looks? Do I spend more time deciding what clothing to wear? Am I wearing more perfume or cologne? Monitor your physical reaction. Sometimes figuring out if you are attracted to someone is very easy because you have an immediate physical response that seems to grow within you and is sometimes felt in your mind, body, and heart. This may include nervousness or a feeling of having butterflies in your stomach (fluttering). Note your heart rate and check your palms when you think about the person or when they are around you. Without even being aware of it, when are attracted to someone you will act differently when they are around. The primary reason is because you feel self-conscious and you want to make a good impression. This may sound strange, but believe it or not, as human beings we are drawn to others based upon their natural odor. Just like you may be attracted to a person's physical characteristics, odor can foster attraction. Additionally, odor can cause you to remember events and think fondly about a person and the time that you spent together. Process your feelings. Sometimes your emotions about another person can be so strong that they become completely overwhelming and you immediately know that something special is happening. When trying to figure out if you are attracted to someone, simply start out by asking yourself how happy you are to see the person. This can be an indicator of attraction. Laughing at all of the person's jokes can be an indication of attraction. Smiling frequently can also be an indication of attraction. Examine your physical preferences. Be honest with yourself and think about whether or not you have any physical preferences. If you prefer someone who is tall, then you may not be attracted to someone who is short. Make a list of your preferences. Physical attractiveness is subjective and what one person finds physically appealing is not always universal. You must gaze at the person's overall appearance to figure out if you like what you see. Physical appearance can include facial features (such as eyes, nose, lips, cheekbones), hygiene, hairstyle, attire, and anything else that affects their overall appearance. You cannot always make a sweeping statement about your preference because you can absolutely be attracted to someone who is the exact opposite of what you usually find attractive. However, sometimes your personal preference will be an overriding factor. Identify any deal breakers. For instance, there are some people who do not find people who smoke attractive. While this is not a physical characteristic, it is certainly something that can affect overall attractiveness. Examine the person’s character. Think about positive qualities and characteristics that you like about the person, such as humor, loyalty, compassion, or creativity. Think of specific examples because those examples will give you a glimpse into your future relationship. Pay attention to whether or not the person is trustworthy. Notice if the person is happy for you when good things happen in your life. Think about the person’s altruism. How the person interacts with other people and whether or not they are kind is important. Most people find this type of person attractive because if they are kind to others they will likely be kind to you. Examples of altruism is volunteering to help those less fortunate and being available to help friends. Spend quality time together. Participating in activities together will give you an opportunity to figure out whether or not you like the person and also what you like about them. Actively listen to the person. Listening is an important skill that can help you understand other people and relate to them better. Ask open-ended questions that require them to really open up and talk. For example, you can ask: “Tell me about your childhood and how you became the person you are today.” Build a bond. Participating in a stressful task together is known to build a bond. Consider organizing a volunteer project, or doing something new and exciting together, such as rock climbing or rafting. People who go through a stressful experience together tend to form stronger relationships, but if the event is too overwhelming it may have the opposite effect. Learn cues related to attraction. Both men and women provide physical cues when they are attracted to another person. Major signs are dilated pupils, lifted shoulders, and feet pointed towards you. Women sometimes play with their hair, tilt their head, or become coy when they are attracted to someone. Men sometimes smile, sway, stretch, or gaze when they are attracted to someone. Share your feelings. Sometimes the best thing to do is just be honest and tell the person about your attraction to them. Be prepared for rejection and do not take it personal if they do not return your affection. As discussed, there are many factors involved in attractiveness and you are sure to find someone else who thinks that you are attractive. Pursue a healthy relationship. A stable and healthy relationship requires that you value and appreciate each other. It is best when the attraction is mutual, but if that is not the case, consider moving on before you become too emotionally involved. | Note how often you think about the person. Note changes in your physical appearance. Monitor your physical reaction. Process your feelings. Examine your physical preferences. Identify any deal breakers. Examine the person’s character. Think about the person’s altruism. Spend quality time together. Build a bond. Learn cues related to attraction. Share your feelings. Pursue a healthy relationship. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Finance-a-Used-Car | How to Finance a Used Car | To finance a used car, start by getting a copy of your credit report to know if you're in a good position to borrow money and negotiate rates. Next, if you've had a credit or savings account with the same bank for a number of years, ask about their rates. Even if you don't have a high credit score, you may still be able to get a direct loan through online lenders, though they may have more restrictions than a bank. No matter which type of loan you choose, make sure to get rates from multiple lenders so you can compare and pick the best one. | Request a copy of your credit report. Knowing your credit score will give you a good idea of what kind of rates and terms you'll potentially be offered. In the United States, you're entitled to one free copy of your credit report every year. Check your report for errors or inaccuracies that could be affecting your credit score. If you have a credit score of 680 or above, you're a prime borrower and should be able to get the best possible rates. The higher your score, the lower the rate you can potentially negotiate with lenders. Contact local banks and credit unions. If you have had a credit or savings account with the same bank for a number of years, start there when looking for a direct car loan. Your history as a customer may get you better rates. Branch out to other banks in your area. Credit unions often have more forgiving loan terms and fewer restrictions. Banks typically won't do a direct car loan for a car purchased from a private owner or an independent dealership. In those situations, you may need to try to take out a personal loan. This is also true if you're buying a collector or exotic car. Try online lenders. If you're not a prime borrower, it's still possible to get a direct loan for a used car. There are a number of online lenders who are willing to finance used cars for people with less than stellar credit. Since online lenders have less overhead, they typically will offer you a lower rate than you could get from a brick-and-mortar bank or credit union. These loans may come with more restrictions than the direct loan you could get from a bank with better credit. For example, they may not finance cars more than five years old, or cars with over 100,000 miles. Get rates from multiple lenders. Before you choose a loan, apply for several so you can compare the rates offered. Many banks and lending companies have a pre-approval process that won't affect your credit. Multiple offers may give you the opportunity to negotiate for a better deal. For example, if you got a better rate from a different bank than from your own bank, you could get your bank to match that rate to get your business. Complete a loan application. Once you've decided which lender you want to use for your financing, you'll typically have to fill out a full loan application. Many lenders give you the option to complete the application online. You'll need to provide basic identification information, such as your driver's license and Social Security numbers. You also may need to provide basic financial information regarding your income and debts. If you've had some credit problems in the past, you may want to go into a bank and apply for the loan in person so you can talk to a lending agent. Your loan agreement will include basic requirements that the car must meet. As long as the car meets these requirements, you can use the financing to purchase the car. Negotiate with the dealer. In most cases, you're going to secure direct or "blank check" financing before you find the specific car you want to buy. Having financing already secured puts you in a stronger position to get the best price from the dealer. When you bring your own financing, you're saving the dealer a lot of costs. Ask if there's a discount available for that. Since you're buying a used car, have it inspected before you buy it and go over the car's history. The car is a better buy if it's had fewer owners and never been in an accident. Give the dealer your blank check. Lender policies vary, but in most cases you'll get a check for the exact amount of your car, or a blank check that's worth any amount up to the maximum amount your lender has approved. When you buy a car using direct financing, you still must maintain full coverage insurance on the car. Your loan agreement will include information on the minimum amounts of coverage you must maintain. Research interest rates. Dealers have special financing offers available throughout the year. Especially if you're not picky about the make or model of your car, shop around and see who has the best deal. Know your credit score and how qualified you are for different offers. Typically the best offers are only available for prime borrowers with credit in the 700s or higher. If you're trading in an old car, look for dealer offers to double the price on a trade-in, or pay a minimum amount for any trade-in regardless of its condition. Choose your car. If you've done your research, you have a few dealerships in mind. You should be able to evaluate their inventory online before you go visit in person. Find the best car for you, looking at overall price. Dealers may advertise monthly payment amounts rather than total price. This can be a way to charge you a higher interest rate. Dealers typically will finance any car on their lot, so you may have more variety to choose from if you use dealer financing than you would if you used direct financing. However, this might not necessarily be a good thing – you still need to check the car's history and have it inspected before you buy. Offer a sizable down payment. Cars depreciate in value. If you're buying a used car, you want to finance as little of the total price of the car as possible. A down payment of 10 to 20 percent of the purchase price of the car typically will get you the best rates. A sizable down payment can help you avoid being underwater on your loan – meaning you owe more for the car than it is worth. This is particularly important to avoid when you're financing a used car, which could develop mechanical problems relatively quickly. Apply for financing through the dealer. You'll need basic identification information as well as information about your income and employment to complete the financing application at the dealership. It may take a few minutes, but in most cases the dealer will have a financing offer available for you that day. Then they'll call you back into an office to discuss the terms you've been offered. The finance company may require additional documents from you, such as pay stubs to verify income. If the dealer mentions any of these, make sure you get copies to the dealer as soon as possible so as not to jeopardize your financing offer. Negotiate the deal. If you've done your research and know your credit score, you may be able to get better terms from the dealer than what you're initially offered. Review each term and see if you can improve it. For example, you typically want the shortest term loan, since it will usually have the lowest interest rates. But dealers often focus on the amount of the monthly payment. Financing for a shorter term does mean a higher monthly payment, but it will save you money overall. Use cash for extras. Dealers tend to tack on extra fees, including sales tax, registration fees, and document or destination fees. You also may end up paying extra for dealer warranties, especially for a used car. The dealer typically has no problem rolling these extra fees into your financing, but there's no point in paying interest on fees and tax. Pay that out of pocket if you can. Exhaust all other options. If you need a car and have had credit problems or have an extremely low credit score, BHPH financing is available for you. However, due to the high rates you should consider this only as a last resort. There are some franchised dealerships, particularly Ford and Chevy dealerships, who are willing to work with customers who have bad credit. It may be possible for you to get a loan there. It wouldn't be the best rates, but it you would still pay less than you would at a BHPH lot. If you have a relative with a good credit score, you might find out if they are willing to co-sign on the loan with you. That could get you a better rate or make traditional lenders more willing to work with you. This option can be especially valuable if you're young and don't have much, if any, credit history. Ask if the dealer reports to credit bureaus. Because BHPH lots finance the car themselves, they don't always report to credit bureaus. If you have bad credit or no credit, you want the payments you make for your car reported so you can start to rebuild your credit. You may have to visit several lots before you find one that reports to credit bureaus, but be persistent. Research the car thoroughly. Any car you buy from a BHPH lot typically is sold "as is." Some of these cars may have mechanical problems, and the lot may not be required to disclose those problems before you buy the car. Demand a Carfax or similar car history report so you can see how many owners the car has had and whether it's been in an accident. These lots typically have older cars, so they've likely had several owners – but a car that's changed hands several times in the past few years may be a red flag. Take the car to a reputable mechanic before you buy it and have them conduct a thorough inspection. If there are any major repairs that need to be made, you may be able to convince the lot to make those repairs before you purchase the car. Negotiate with the dealer. BHPH dealers often present the price of a car – and the financing terms – as though they are non-negotiable, but that's typically not true. Even though you may not be in the best bargaining position, you can still try to get a better deal. The more of a down payment you can make, the better your terms typically will be. These lots often specialize in low down payments, but that doesn't mean you can't pay more. If you're buying a car at a BHPH lot, your down payment should be as high as possible to keep you from ending up underwater – try to aim for somewhere between 40 and 60 percent down. Make your payments on time. You typically won't have to make payments for a long term, but it's essential to make every payment on time if you want to rebuild your credit. Some BHPH lots will repossess a car after as few as one missed payment. Some BHPH lots require you to make a trip to the lot with your payment. Depending on how the financing is structured, you may be required to make weekly or bi-monthly payments. If you have a checking account and the lot offers automatic payments, sign up for them so you won't have to worry about it. At most BHPH lots, you won't pay any less if you pay the loan off early. Ask about this when you buy the car. If the lot is reporting to the credit bureau and you won't save any money by paying the loan off early, just keep making the payments on time. All those payments will reflect well on your credit score. | Request a copy of your credit report. Contact local banks and credit unions. Try online lenders. Get rates from multiple lenders. Complete a loan application. Negotiate with the dealer. Give the dealer your blank check. Research interest rates. Choose your car. Offer a sizable down payment. Apply for financing through the dealer. Negotiate the deal. Use cash for extras. Exhaust all other options. Ask if the dealer reports to credit bureaus. Research the car thoroughly. Negotiate with the dealer. Make your payments on time. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Remove-Kool-Aid-from-Skin | How to Remove Kool Aid from Skin | To remove Kool Aid from skin, all you'll need is some toothpaste. If the stain is on your hands, wash them as you normally would, but use toothpaste instead of soap. If the stain is on your upper lip, put a small amount of toothpaste on a damp cloth. Then, gently dab the stain until it comes off. If you don't have any toothpaste, try these methods with alternative stain removers, such as olive oil or dish soap. If you've gotten Kool Aid in your hair, mix your chosen stain remover with some shampoo and wash your hair normally. | Make toothpaste your first choice. Toothpaste is generally considered the best method for removing Kool Aid. If you have toothpaste on hand, use that before trying other means. Stain removal or whitening toothpastes are probably your best option as they're designed to remove set in stains on teeth and will act similarly on your hands. Look for toothpaste that contains blue covarine, as this has the most immediate effect. You don't need to leave the toothpaste in any longer than it takes to remove the stain. Consider oils. If toothpaste is unavailable, try oils. While not generally recommended to treat Kool Aid stains specifically, oils are often useful for removing dye from skin. They might be helpful for Kool Aid as well. The following oils may help remove Kool Aid: Olive oil Vegetable oil Baby oil Try kitchen products. Yet again, kitchen products are not recommended for Kool Aid specifically but have been shown effective at removing dyes. Make sure you dilute any acidic kitchen products, like vinegar or those containing citrus fruit, with water before using them on your skin and avoid contact with cuts or sores. If toothpaste is unsuccessful, you may want to try some of the following kitchen products: Lemon juice Salt Vinegar Try dish washing soap. As a strong dish soap is used to remove stains from dishes, using a small amount of dish soap on your hands may successfully remove Kool Aid stains. If other means do not work, try simply washing your hands with warm water and dish soap. Wash your hands. If the Kool Aid stain is on your hands, you should wash your hands. Do so like you would normally wash your hands, but use the stain remover you chose instead of hand soap. Run your hands under clean water. Let your hands get wet before turning off the tap. Be careful, however, as the Kool Aid may drip when wet and you don't want to stain your sink. It might be a good idea to lay a washable cloth towel or paper towel down on the sink while you wash your hands. Lather your hands with the strain remover. Once your hands are wet, apply whatever stain removal method you chose and lather your hands. Make sure you get between your fingers and the back of your hands. Lather your hands for about 20 seconds. It can help to hum the "Happy Birthday" song twice to keep track. Rinse your hands thoroughly and pat dry. Remove stains from the upper lip. Oftentimes, Kool Aid gets stained on the upper lip. This is sometimes referred to as a "Kool Aid mustache" and is fairly easy to remove. Add a small amount of the stain remover to a damp washcloth. If you're using something more acidic, like vinegar or lemon juice, you only need to add a few drops as any more could irritate your skin. Gently dab your upper lip with the washcloth until the Kool Aid comes off. Rinse off your upper lip with cool water and then pat dry. Remove stains from the hairline. Oftentimes, people use Kool Aid to dye their hair and end up staining their hairline. If this is the case with you, you can mix in your chosen stain remover with your regular shampoo and take a shower. Be careful to rinse your hair thoroughly, especially if you used something like toothpaste which can be hard to get out of hair. You might want to do one wash using the stain remover along with your shampoo and then another wash with plain shampoo. Get Kool Aid out of clothing. If you also got Kool Aid on your clothes, it may not easily come out in a normal washer cycle. There are other tricks to get Kool Aid out of clothes, however. Add liquid laundry detergent to the stained area before putting the clothing through the washer. Then, rinse it off with cool water. Make sure the water is cold and not warm, as warm water could cause colors to bleed. Run the clothing through a washer. The strain should be gone when it comes out of the washing cycle. Remove Kool Aid from carpet. If Kool Aid spilled on the carpet, this can be difficult to get out. Water, dishwashing liquid, and vinegar can remove Kool Aid from carpeting. Mix together two cups of cool water, one tablespoon of dishwashing liquid, and one tablespoon of white vinegar. Clean the Kool Aid from the carpet using a washcloth. Blot at the stain until it's absorbed or removed. Wet a washcloth with clean, cold water and blot the spot on the carpet to remove the solution used to remove the stain. Clean Kool Aid off furniture. Use the same solution to clean Kool Aid off furniture as you used for the carpeting. Blot at the spot where the stain was until it's absorbed and then use a clean, damp washcloth to remove the cleaning solution. | Make toothpaste your first choice. Consider oils. Try kitchen products. Try dish washing soap. Wash your hands. Remove stains from the upper lip. Remove stains from the hairline. Get Kool Aid out of clothing. Remove Kool Aid from carpet. Clean Kool Aid off furniture. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Adopt-a-Dog-from-Overseas | How to Adopt a Dog from Overseas | To adopt a dog from overseas, you'll first need to find an international adoption agency to work with. A simple way to start is by connecting with the Humane Society International. Next, check the legal requirements for your country, which might include veterinary exams, fees, vaccinations, and quarantine periods. Most countries will also require a health certificate to travel with the dog. | Make sure you have adequate funds to adopt a dog overseas. Adopting a dog overseas is not cheap. In addition to an adoption fee, there are costs like travel, veterinarian exams, and fines and fees for transporting a dog in or out of the country. On average, it can cost anywhere between $150 and $2,000 to adopt a dog overseas. Make sure you can get this money together before committing to the adoption process. Seek out international adoption agencies. You may find a dog you want to adopt while traveling overseas. For example, you may find a stray you want to take in or meet a dog at a local shelter. However, if you simply want to adopt a dog in need from another country, you will have to find an agency to work with that will help you find a dog that works for you. Try seeing if there is a branch of the Humane Society operating in the country where you're thinking of adopting a dog. You can also look into Humane Society International, which can help pair you with dogs in need from a variety of countries. There are also organizations that can help with cost of transportation, if that's an issue. The nonprofit Pilots N' Paws, for example, works with pilots and other airline officials to help with transportation costs. Agencies in some countries will also work to spay and neuter stray dog to help get them adopted out of the country. This is especially common in small island nations. Consider your lifestyle. If you're thinking of adopting a dog, whether from overseas or locally, you should always consider your lifestyle first. Do you truly have time for the responsibility? If you're going to put the time and money into adopting a dog overseas, make sure you are up for the task first. Do you have the time and money to dedicate to a dog? Can you provide a rescue dog with the time and attention it will need? Rescue dogs may have special needs, and if you're transporting a dog from another country the transition may be rough. Be honest with yourself as to whether you have the extra time necessary to care for a rescue dog. Many dogs from other countries are mixed breeds, meaning that they tend to be healthier and less susceptible to diseases than some purebred dogs. If you already found a dog to adopt, think about whether that dog's personality matches with your lifestyle. A very energetic dog, for example, may not work great for you if you tend to stay in a lot and live in a small building. However, if the dog in question is more of a couch potato, it may be a good match for you. Visit the dog first if possible. The best way to tell if a rescue dog works for you is to visit in person. Interacting with the dog will help you tell whether you and the dog are able to bond. If a trip to the country where you're adopting is possible, make this trip first. It's always better to meet a dog in person before committing to an adoption. If you can't meet the dog in person, read as much about it as you can prior to adopting. You may also be able to video chat or call the agency to discuss the dog further. The more information you have, the more likely you will be to find a dog that matches your lifestyle. Check legal requirements for your country. When you're ready to start the process of adopting your dog, start by checking regulations in your country. Requirements in terms of veterinary exams, fees, and quarantine periods vary greatly between countries. If you're working with an international adoption agency, someone there should be able to walk you through the process. You can usually find the information online through a website associated with your government. Organizations like the Centers for Disease Control provide information on overseas adoption for many different countries. Get a health exam from a local vet. Most countries require a health certificate that will travel with the dog from their native country to their new home. When your dog travels through customs, a veterinarian or customs worker will need to view this certificate to assure your dog is healthy and will not bring any contagious diseases into your country. Locate a reputable local vet to perform a basic exam on your dog. Have them fill out any required paperwork assuring your dog's health. If you're working with an adoption agency, they may have their own vet that provides exams and health certificates. Always check requirements in your own country in regards to paperwork. Some countries may not require a veterinary exam, or may require more than one exam before a dog may enter the country. Get proof of rabies vaccination when bringing a dog into the United States. Rabies is still a problem in the United States. While rabies has been more or less eradicated in countries like Australia, there are still cases of rabies in the US each year. When bringing a dog into the United States, you are required to get your dog a rabies vaccination. If your dog has never been vaccinated before, it needs to be vaccinated at least 30 days before arriving in the United States. Many import requirements will need at least 2 rabies vaccines, so if you are adopting a puppy under a year old, you may need to get them a booster to be compliant. You will need a certificate that includes information regarding you and your dog, such as your name and address, a description of your dog, the date of the vaccination, and so on. The vet that performs the vaccination can fill out this certificate. Puppies cannot be vaccinated until they're at least three months old. Therefore, a puppy will have to be at least four months old before it can enter the United States. If you're trying to adopt a puppy younger than this, you may need to wait before officially completing the adoption. Deal with screwworm issues, if necessary. Screwworm is a parasite that is an issue in certain countries. If you're bringing a dog into the United States from a country where screwworm is an issue, you will need a certification stating your dog is screwworm free. Screwworm is present in countries such as Kenya, Iraq, Jamaica, Peru, and Nigeria. You can find a full list of countries where screwworm is an issue on the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website. You need to have a certificate filled out by a full-time salaried veterinarian stating your dog has been inspected for screwworm and is screwworm free. This certificate should be filled out at least 5 days before your dog has been shipped to the United States. Get your dog a microchip when moving to an EU country. Microchips are small chips embedded into your dog's skin that provide identification in the event your dog gets lost. Not all countries require microchips. For EU countries, however, a microchip is required for all dogs entering the country. Your dog will need to be microchipped before you travel into an EU country. You will also need documentation verifying your dog has been microchipped. Check specific regulations for the country where you're traveling. Some countries will accept any type of microchip while other countries require specific brands of microchips for entry. Check the type of microchip to make sure your dog is complaint, and so that your vet knows what type of scanner to use when checking your dog. Check with your airline about flying a dog overseas. If you're taking a dog back with you from vacation, or bringing a dog back after visiting, talk to your airline. Make sure you're allowed to bring your dog on the plane and figure out the cost and requirements for air travel with a dog. Airlines often charge extra for you to bring a dog with you. It can cost anywhere between $200 and $2,000 to transport a dog from overseas. If cost is an issue, reach out to a charity organization like Pilots N' Paws to see if they can help with some of the cost. If you're already working with an adoption agency, they may be able to have the dog transported for you at a reduced rate. Some companies, such as Potcakes in Turks and Caicos, have vacationer fly puppies back with them to their home city to meet their adopted family. Check with your adopting organization to see if a program like this is an option. Find alternative modes of transportation. If it's not possible to have a dog on an airplane with you, you may be able to check the dog as baggage or unaccompanied cargo. The dog would still be on the plane, but not in the cabin with you. Explore these options if your airline does not allow dogs on the plane. Undergo an airport inspection, if required. The majority of countries will have some form of airport inspection. This is usually conducted by a veterinarian at the airport. The purpose is to make sure your dog is disease free before it enters your country. You may also have to present paperwork, such as a proof of rabies vaccination, at this point. Make sure you have your paperwork ready to go when you meet with an airport veterinarian. You want to make sure you enter the country when the airport vet is ready to conduct an inspection. Some airports may not have vets on staff all the time, so getting your dog past customs may require some waiting. Contact your state animal health officials once you get home. Local regulations for overseas pets vary, even within the same country. Once you and your dog get home, contact state animal health officials. They can help you complete any remaining paperwork to finalize the adoption process. | Make sure you have adequate funds to adopt a dog overseas. Seek out international adoption agencies. Consider your lifestyle. Visit the dog first if possible. Check legal requirements for your country. Get a health exam from a local vet. Get proof of rabies vaccination when bringing a dog into the United States. Deal with screwworm issues, if necessary. Get your dog a microchip when moving to an EU country. Check with your airline about flying a dog overseas. Find alternative modes of transportation. Undergo an airport inspection, if required. Contact your state animal health officials once you get home. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Use-Quotation-Marks | How to Use Quotation Marks | To use quotation marks, put quotes around any dialogue and always use a comma before or after the quotation, depending on where the sentence ends. For example, you could write: “It's time to go,” she said. Or you could write: Jillian said, "It's time to go." Also, be sure to use quotation marks if you're writing a direct quote from a source. For instance: Pollen states in his book, “You can eat whatever you want as long as you make it yourself.” Along with these situations, you should also put quotation marks around the titles of poems, short stories, book chapters, articles, essays, and plays. | Capitalize the first letter of a direct quote from a source. If you are quoting directly from a source, such as a book, article, or journal, always use one pair of quotations around the quote and capitalize the first letter of the direct quote. Do this if you are quoting a complete sentence. For example, you may write: Pollen states in his book, “You can eat whatever you want as long as you make it yourself.” In Othello by William Shakespeare, Iago says in Act II, scene iii, “Reputation is an idle and most false imposition; oft got without merit and lost without deserving.” Put a comma before a full quote. Whenever you use quotation marks around a full quote, place a comma or a colon before the first, or open, quotation mark. The comma or colon does not go in the quotation mark, just before it. This will let the reader know a quote is coming. For example: Shakespeare notes in his diary, “I am the poor man's playwright.” Pollen recommends, “Eat food. Mostly plants.” Lowercase quoted material that appears mid-sentence. If you are quoting a source within a sentence, not at the end of a sentence, lowercase the first letter of the quote. You can do this if you are using a partial quote of a longer quote in a sentence. For example, you may write: Pollen advocates for taking responsibility for one's food choices, for eating “whatever you want as long as you make it yourself,” a tall order for some. Include punctuation in the quote inside the quotation marks. Commas, periods, exclamation marks, dashes, and question marks that appear in the quote should all go inside the quotation marks. For example: Othello notes, “For she has eyes and she chose me.” Pollen asks the question, “Why don't we get to know our food?” The last line of the poem “Sestina: Altaforte” by Ezra Pound states, “Hell blot black for always the thought 'Peace'!” Put quotation marks around common sayings. Familiar sayings should be demarcated with quotation marks. Cliches can also go in quotation marks. For example: Everyone knows the saying, “What goes in must come out.” One is reminded of the familiar phrase, “It takes one to know one.” Use quotation marks to emphasize a word or phrase. These are also known as scare quotes. Scare quotes are not used often. But they can be used to emphasize a word or phrase in a sentence in a mocking or annoyed tone. For example: She did not want to bring up his “issue” in mixed company. The “in depth discussion” of the problem felt insufficient at best. Put quotation marks around the dialogue only. Quotation marks are essential for notating dialogue, as they signal to the reader the words are being spoken. You should use quotation marks around dialogue in a novel, short story, or poem. For example: “Where is my cat?” the woman screamed. I demanded, “Let me see her.” Lowercase the word after the quotation mark. Always lowercase the word that follows the close quotation mark, or the second quotation mark. Do this if the speaker attribution appears after the quoted phrase. For example: “What time is it?” the man asked. “Chop, chop,” she said. Use a comma before a speaker attribution. Place a comma before speaker attributions like “he said,” “she said,” “they said,” “we yelled,” etc. This will signal to the reader there is about to be dialogue. For example: He said, “I can't make ballet class tonight, son.” They yelled, “You hooligans!” “We're late,” she said to her sister. “Tell me you love me, “ he said to his lover. Include commas and periods in the quotation marks. Any commas or periods that are part of the sentence should be included in the quotation marks, even if the original quotation does not have a comma or a period. For example: “The best way to eat food,” Pollen argues, “is to make it yourself.” (From the original quote, “The best way to eat food is to make it yourself at home, whenever you can.”) “The best investments today,” according to Smith, “are commodities and emerging-market stocks.” (From the original quote, “The best investments today are commodities and emerging-market stocks, not domestic stocks and bonds.” Put single quotation marks around quotes within quotations. If you are quoting a phrase that already has quotation marks, change the quotation marks in the phrase to single quotation marks. Single quotation marks appear as ''. For example: “So he said to me, 'You're going to be a great success,' and I believed him.” Use quotation marks for the titles of poems, short stories, and chapters in a book. Put one set of quotation marks around these titles to off set it properly. Only put quotations around the title, not the author's name. For example, if you were citing the poem One Art by Elizabeth Bishop, it would appear as “One Art” by Elizabeth Bishop. If you were citing the short story Ironhead by Aimee Bender, it would appear as “Ironhead” by Aimee Bender. If you were citing the chapter The Boy Who Lived from Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone by J.K. Rowling, it would appear as “The Boy Who Lived” from Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone by J.K. Rowling. Put quotation marks on the titles of articles and essays. Always use quotation marks when citing the title of an article or essay in a journal, magazine, or online publication. Capitalize all of the words that are not articles in the title and use one set of quotation marks around the title only. For example, if you were citing the article The President Wants to Keep Us in the Dark by Marc Decosta, it would appear as “The President Wants to Keep Us in the Dark” by Marc Decosta. If you were citing the essay The Fourth State of Matter by Jo Ann Beard, it would appear as “The Fourth State of Matter” by Jo Ann Beard. Use quotation marks for television episodes and song titles. For example, if you were talking about an episode of Friends called The One With the Blackout, it would appear as “The One With the Blackout.” If you were discussing the song Tangled Up in Blue by Bob Dylan, it would appear as “Tangled Up in Blue” by Bob Dylan. Apply quotation marks to the title of a play. Plays should always be cited with quotation marks. For example, if you were discussing the play The Crucible by Arthur Miller, it would appear as “The Crucible” by Arthur Miller. Do not use italics or underline the title of plays. If you are citing a collection of plays by the same playwright, for example, The Collected Plays of Arthur Miller, you would use italics for the title, not quotation marks: The Collected Plays of Arthur Miller. Do not include punctuation in the quotation marks when quoting a title. Do not put punctuation that is part of the sentence in the quotation marks with the title. Only include punctuation that is already part of the title in the quotation marks. For example: Did you like “The Crucible”? I read “Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?” by Edward Albee on the train today. | Capitalize the first letter of a direct quote from a source. Put a comma before a full quote. Lowercase quoted material that appears mid-sentence. Include punctuation in the quote inside the quotation marks. Put quotation marks around common sayings. Use quotation marks to emphasize a word or phrase. Put quotation marks around the dialogue only. Lowercase the word after the quotation mark. Use a comma before a speaker attribution. Include commas and periods in the quotation marks. Put single quotation marks around quotes within quotations. Use quotation marks for the titles of poems, short stories, and chapters in a book. Put quotation marks on the titles of articles and essays. Use quotation marks for television episodes and song titles. Apply quotation marks to the title of a play. Do not include punctuation in the quotation marks when quoting a title. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Write-in-Third-Person | How to Write in Third Person | To write in third person, refer to people or characters by name or use third person pronouns like he, she, it; his, her, its; him, her, it; himself, herself, itself; they; them; their; and themselves. Avoid first and second person pronouns completely. For academic writing, focus on a general viewpoint rather than a specific person's to keep things in third person. In other types of writing, you can write in third person by shifting your focus from character to character or by focusing on a single character. | Use third person for all academic writing. For formal writing, such as research and argumentative papers, use the third person. Third person makes your writing more objective and less personal. For academic and professional writing, this sense of objectivity allows the writer to seem less biased and, therefore, more credible. Third person helps the writing stay focused on facts and evidence instead of personal opinion. Use the correct pronouns. Third person refers to people “on the outside.” You either write about someone by name or use third person pronouns. Third person pronouns include: he, she, it; his, her, its; him, her, it; himself, herself, itself; they; them; their; themselves. Names of other people are also considered appropriate for third person use. Example: “ Smith believes differently. According to his research, earlier claims on the subject are incorrect.” Avoid first person pronouns. First person refers to a point of view in which the writer says things from his or her personal perspective. This point of view makes things too personal and opinionated. You should avoid first person in an academic essay. First person pronouns include: I, me, my, mine, myself, we, us, our, ours, ourselves. The problem with first person is that, academically speaking, it sounds too personalized and too subjective. In other words, it may be difficult to convince the reader that the views and ideas being expressed are unbiased and untainted by personal feelings. Many times, when using first person in academic writing, people use phrases like "I think," "I believe," or "in my opinion." Incorrect example: “Even though Smith thinks this way, I think his argument is incorrect.” Correct example: “Even though Smith thinks this way, others in the field disagree.” Avoid second person pronouns. Second person refers to point of view that directly addresses the reader. This point of view shows too much familiarity with the reader since you speak to them directly like you know them. Second person should never be used in academic writing. Second person pronouns include: you, your, yours, yourself. One main problem with second person is that it can sound accusatory. It runs to risk of placing too much responsibility on the shoulders of the reader specifically and presently reading the work. Incorrect example: “If you still disagree nowadays, then you must be ignorant of the facts.” Correct example: “Someone who still disagrees nowadays must be ignorant of the facts.” Refer to the subject in general terms. Sometimes, a writer will need to refer to someone in indefinite terms. In other words, they may need to generally address or speak about a person. This is usually when the temptation to slip into the second person “you” comes into play. An indefinite third person pronoun or noun is appropriate here. Indefinite third person nouns common to academic writing include: the writer, the reader, individuals, students, a student, an instructor, people, a person, a woman, a man, a child, researchers, scientists, writers, experts. Example: “In spite of the challenges involved, researchers still persist in their claims.” Indefinite third person pronouns include: one, anyone, everyone, someone, no one, another, any, each, either, everybody, neither, nobody, other, anybody, somebody, everything, someone. Incorrect example: "You might be tempted to agree without all the facts." Correct example: “ One might be tempted to agree without all the facts.” Watch out for singular and plural pronoun use. One mistake that writers often make when writing in third person is accidentally switching into a plural pronoun when the subject should be singular. This is usually done in an attempt to avoid the gender-specific “he” and “she” pronouns. The mistake here would be to use the plural “they” pronoun in place. Incorrect example: “The witness wanted to offer anonymous testimony. They' were afraid of getting hurt if their name was spread.” Correct example: “The witness wanted to offer anonymous testimony. He or she was afraid of getting hurt if his or her name was spread.” Shift your focus from character to character. When using third person omniscient perspective, the narrative jumps around from person to person instead of following the thoughts, actions, and words of a single character. The narrator knows everything about each character and the world. The narrator can reveal or withhold any thoughts, feelings, or actions. For instance, a story may include four major characters: William, Bob, Erika, and Samantha. At various points throughout the story, the thoughts and actions of each character should be portrayed. These thoughts can occur within the same chapter or block of narration. Example: “William thought that Erika was lying, but he still wanted to believe that she had a good reason for doing so. On the other hand, Samantha believed that Erika was lying and felt jealous about the fact that Tony wanted to think well of the other girl at all.” Writers of omniscient narratives should be conscious of “head-hopping” — that is, shifting character perspectives within a scene. While this does not technically break the rules of Third Person Omniscience, it is widely considered a hallmark of narrative laziness. Reveal any information you want. With third person omniscient view, the narration is not limited the inner thoughts and feelings of any character. Along with inner thoughts and feelings, third person omniscient point of view also permits the writer to reveal parts of the future or past within the story. The narrator can also hold an opinion, give a moral perspective, or discuss animals or nature scenes where the characters are not present. In a sense, the writer of a third person omniscient story is somewhat like the “god” of that story. The writer can observe the external actions of any character at any time, but unlike a limited human observer, the writer can also peek into the inner workings of that character at will, as well. Know when to hold back. Even though a writer can reveal any information he or she chooses to reveal, it may be more beneficial to reveal some things gradually. For instance, if one character is supposed to have a mysterious aura, it would be wise to limit access to that character's inner feelings for a while before revealing his or her true motives. Avoid use of the first person and second person pronouns. Active dialog should be the only time that first person pronouns like “I” and “we” should appear. The same goes for second person pronouns like “you.” Do not use first person and second person points of view in the narrative or descriptive portions of the text. Correct example: Bob said to Erika, “I think this is creepy. What do you think?” Incorrect example: I thought this was creepy, and Bob and Erika thought so, too. What do you think? Pick a single character to follow. When writing in third person limited perspective, a writer has complete access to the actions, thoughts, feelings, and belief of a single character. The writer can write as if the character is thinking and reacting, or the writer can step back and be more objective. The thoughts and feelings of other characters remain an unknown for the writer throughout the duration of the text. There should be no switching back and forth between characters for this specific type of narrative viewpoint. Unlike first person, where the narrator and protagonist are the same, third person limited puts a critical sliver of distance between protagonist and narrator. The writer has the choice to describe one main character's nasty habit — something she wouldn't readily reveal if the narration were left entirely to her. Refer to the character's actions and thoughts from the outside. Even though the focus remains on one character, the writer still needs to treat that character as a separate entity. If the narrator follows the character's thoughts, feelings, and internal dialogue, this still needs to be in third person. In other words, do not use first person pronouns like “I,” “me,” “my,” “we,” or “our” outside of dialog. The main character's thoughts and feelings are transparent to the writer, but that character should not double as a narrator. Correct example: “Tiffany felt awful after the argument with her boyfriend.” Correct example: “Tiffany thought, “I feel awful after that argument with my boyfriend.” Incorrect example: “I felt awful after the argument with my boyfriend.” Focus on other characters' actions and words, not their thoughts or feelings. The writer is as limited to just the protagonist's thoughts and feelings with this point of view. However, with this point of view, other characters can be described without the protagonist noticing it. The narrator can anything the protagonist can; she just can't get into the other character's head. Note that the writer can offer insight or guesses regarding the thoughts of other characters, but those guesses must be presented through the perspective of the main character. Correct example: “Tiffany felt awful, but judging by the expression on Carl's face, she imagined that he felt just as bad if not worse.” Incorrect example: “Tiffany felt awful. What she didn't know was that Carl felt even worse.” Do not reveal any information your main character would not know. Although the narrator can step back and describe the setting or other characters, it has to be anything the viewpoint character can see. Do not bounce around from one character to one character within one scene. The external actions of other characters can only be known when the main character is present to view those actions. Correct example: “Tiffany watched from the window as Carl walked up to her house and rang the doorbell.” Incorrect example: “As soon as Tiffany left the room, Carl let out a sigh of relief.” Jump from character to character. With episodically limited third person, also referred to as third person multiple vision, the writer may have a handful of main characters whose thoughts and perspectives take turns in the limelight. Use each perspective to reveal important information and move the story forward. Limit the amount of pov characters you include. You don't want to have too many characters that confuse your reader or serve no purpose. Each pov character should have a specific purpose for having a unique point of view. Ask yourself what each pov character contributes to the story. For instance, in a romance story following two main characters, Kevin and Felicia, the writer may opt to explain the inner workings of both characters at different moments in the story. One character may receive more attention than any other, but all main characters being followed should receive attention at some point in the story. Only focus on one character's thoughts and perspective at a time. Even though multiple perspectives are included in the overall story, the writer should focus on each character one at a time. Multiple perspectives should not appear within the same narrative space. When one character's perspective ends, another character's can begin. The two perspectives should not be intermixed within the same space. Incorrect example: “Kevin felt completely enamored of Felicia from the moment he met her. Felicia, on the other hand, had difficulty trusting Kevin.” Aim for smooth transitions. Even though the writer can switch back and forth between different character perspectives, doing so arbitrarily can cause the narrative to become confusing for the narrative. In a novel-length work, a good time to switch perspective is at the start of a new chapter or at a chapter break. The writer should also identify the character whose perspective is being followed at the start of the section, preferably in the first sentence. Otherwise, the reader may waste too much energy guessing. Correct example: “Felicia hated to admit it, but the roses Kevin left on her doorstep were a pleasant surprise.” Incorrect example: “The roses left on the doorstep seemed like a nice touch.” Understand who knows what. Even though the reader may have access to information viewed from the perspective of multiple characters, those characters do not have the same sort of access. Some characters have no way of knowing what other characters know. For instance, if Kevin had a talk with Felicia's best friend about Felicia's feelings for him, Felicia herself would have no way of knowing what was said unless she witnessed the conversation or heard about it from either Kevin or her friend. Follow the actions of many characters. When using third person objective, the writer can describe the actions and words of any character at any time and place within the story. There does not need to be a single main character to focus on. The writer can switch between characters, following different characters throughout the course of the narrative, as often as needed. Stay away from first person terms like “I” and second person terms like “you” in the narrative, though. Only use first and second person within dialog. Do not attempt to get into directly into a character's head. Unlike omniscient pov where the narrator looks into everyone's head, objective pov doesn't look into anyone's head. Imagine that you are an invisible bystander observing the actions and dialog of the characters in your story. You are not omniscient, so you do not have access to any character's inner thoughts and feelings. You only have access to each character's actions. Correct example: “After class, Graham hurriedly left the room and rushed back to his dorm room.” Incorrect example: “After class, Graham raced from the room and rushed back to his dorm room. The lecture had made him so angry that he felt as though he might snap at the next person he met.” Show but don't tell. Even though a third person objective writer cannot share a character's inner thoughts, the writer can make external observations that suggest what those internal thoughts might be. Describe what is going on. Instead of telling the reader that a character is angry, describe his facial expression, body language, and tone of voice to show that he is mad. Correct example: “When no one else was watching her, Isabelle began to cry.” Incorrect example: “Isabelle was too prideful to cry in front of other people, but she felt completely broken-hearted and began crying once she was alone.” Avoid inserting your own thoughts. The writer's purpose when using third person objective is to act as a reporter, not a commentator. Let the reader draw his or her own conclusions. Present the actions of the character without analyzing them or explaining how those actions should be viewed. Correct example: “Yolanda looked over her shoulder three times before sitting down.” Incorrect example: “It might seem like a strange action, but Yolanda looked over her shoulder three times before sitting down. This compulsive habit is an indication of her paranoid state of mind.” | Use third person for all academic writing. Use the correct pronouns. Avoid first person pronouns. Avoid second person pronouns. Refer to the subject in general terms. Watch out for singular and plural pronoun use. Shift your focus from character to character. Reveal any information you want. Avoid use of the first person and second person pronouns. Pick a single character to follow. Refer to the character's actions and thoughts from the outside. Focus on other characters' actions and words, not their thoughts or feelings. Do not reveal any information your main character would not know. Jump from character to character. Only focus on one character's thoughts and perspective at a time. Aim for smooth transitions. Understand who knows what. Follow the actions of many characters. Do not attempt to get into directly into a character's head. Show but don't tell. Avoid inserting your own thoughts. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Diagnose-Canine-Anal-Sac-Problems | How to Diagnose Canine Anal Sac Problems | To diagnose canine anal sac problems, observe your dog for common symptoms, such as anus irritation, pain during defecation, foul-smelling pus or stickiness around the anus, sensitivity to its rear end being touched or looked at, and waxy secretion from the anus. If you notice any of these symptoms, take your dog to the vet to get examined. Until you get to a vet, you can try applying a warm salt water poultice to your dog's anal sacs to offer it some relief, but stop if it's getting distressed. | Locate your dog's anal sacs. Look for two sacs on either side of your dog's anus, at the "twenty past eight" position on a clock face. The sacs should each be the size of a small grape and sit just underneath the skin. Your dog's anal sacs drain out onto his feces through small ducts. When your dog needs to toilet, the squeezing action forces a few drops of the smelly secretion out of the sacs and onto each bowel movement. Watch for symptoms of anal sac problems. You'll probably notice that your dog is uncomfortable, especially when he needs to defecate. Common signs that your dog is impacted or has an infection include: Irritation around the anus: Your dog may stop and suddenly look at his rear end, or sit down and start licking his bottom. Pain during defecation: Your dog may yelp or try to stop while he defecates if he feels pain. The anal sacs become hot and tender during an infection. Change in behavior: With an infection, your dog might become grumpy if you try to look near his rear end or he might refuse to eat. Your dog is in pain and fears you will touch the tender area. Stickiness around the anus: If the anal sac ruptures, you'll see foul-smelling blood-stained pus that might be yellow-green. Once this bursts, your dog will probably start feeling more comfortable since pressure is released, although your dog will still need antibiotics from the vet. Watch for perianal pain. If you notice your dog dragging his rear end along the ground (scooting), he may be trying to relieve irritation. This may mean that your dog has perianal irritation instead of anal sac problems. Dragging his bottom or scooting might also mean your dog is suffering from allergies, parasitic infection or migrating tapeworm egg packets. Consider whether your dog has anal sac cancer. Your dog may be suffering from advanced untreated anal sac cancer if you notice hard swelling near the anus. This hard swelling can push against the side of the rectum, making it difficult for your dog to defecate. Your dog may strain, and spend a lot of time emptying his bowel. If your dog has anal sac cancer, he may lose weight (because of secondary tumors in the liver) or cough (because of secondary tumors in his lungs). Swelling and difficulty defecating can also be caused by constipation or prostrate problems. It's best to get your dog thoroughly examined by the veterinarian if you suspect cancer. Get your dog examined. If you think your dog has anal sac problems, the veterinarian will need to examine your dog's rectum. The vet will check for signs of pain or swelling by gently applying pressure. This will empty the sacs and the vet can check the secretion for symptoms like abnormal yellow-green or smelly discharge. If your dog is experiencing the early stage of infection, it might be difficult to make a diagnosis. The vet may have to send a sample of the secretion away for bacterial testing. Look for signs of impaction. Once you've determined your dog has an anal sac problem, check for impaction which is the most common problem. Impaction happens when the anal sacs make more secretion than they drain away. This also increases the pressure in the anal sac. Check the dog's secretion for small pieces of a waxy substance. This waxy secretion can block the anal gland duct, causing pressure to build up. This stretches the anal sac which is uncomfortable for your dog. Impaction can happen when your dog is secreting normally, but for some reason it's not secreted out onto the feces (which might happen when your dog has diarrhea). Determine if your dog has an anal sac infection. You'll probably notice that your dog becomes sensitive about having his rear end touched or looked at. When you do look, you may notice foul discharge. If the infection gets worse or is left untreated, a painful abscess (collection of pus) will form in the sac. Pressure buildup may cause the abscess to burst through the skin. If this happens, you'll see blood-stained pus around your dog's bottom and raw skin where the skin has split or ruptured. Get veterinary care if this happens. Infections are commonly caused by bacteria that travel through ducts connecting the rectum to the anal sacs. Get your dog tested for anal sac cancer. The early stages of cancer are often symptom free, but your vet might notice an unusual anal sac during a routine check up. A cancerous sac might be larger or harder than a healthy, softly swollen sac. If cancer is suspected, the vet will sedate or anesthetize your dog before taking a gloved finger to gently examine the inside of the rectum. This lets the vet compare the size and consistency of the sacs. X-rays and ultrasounds are used to check the chest and abdomen for secondary spread of cancer. The vet will remove the suspicious anal sac and send it away for testing to confirm if your dog has cancer. Give your dog some relief. While you're waiting for a veterinary appointment, you can comfort your dog by applying a warm salt water poultice to the area. Only do this if the skin has not broken. Since the area is sore, don't be surprised if your dog tries to bite or is distressed when you try to apply the poultice. If he is distressed, stop and wait for the appointment. To stop your dog from licking this sensitive area, cover his bottom with a pair of boxer shorts or put a buster collar on him. | Locate your dog's anal sacs. Watch for symptoms of anal sac problems. Watch for perianal pain. Consider whether your dog has anal sac cancer. Get your dog examined. Look for signs of impaction. Determine if your dog has an anal sac infection. Get your dog tested for anal sac cancer. Give your dog some relief. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Cook-Bok-Choy | How to Cook Bok Choy | To cook bok choy, start by cutting off the end of the stem that's holding the leaves together. Then, separate the bok choy into smaller pieces. Next, heat some oil in a pan over medium-high heat and add the bok choy. Let it cook for 1-2 minutes until the stems start to become translucent. Then, pour some water or broth in the pan and cover it. Let the bok choy cook for another minute before serving. | Prepare the bok choy. You can use any kind of bok choy you like for this recipe, including baby, mature, or Shanghai bok choy. To prepare the bok choy: Cut off the very end of the stem that's keeping the leaves together. Separate the bok choy, but leave the center leaf bulb intact. Wash the leaves and stems by running them under cold water. Make sure you rub the bottom of the stem well to remove dirt from around where the roots were. Pat dry with a clean towel. If you aren't using baby bok choy, cut the leaves off the stems, keeping the two pieces separate. Cut the leaves and stems into one-inch (2.5-cm) chunks. Baby bok choy is already bite-sized and has more tender stems, so it doesn't have to be cut up. Mince the garlic and (optional) ginger. Peel the skin off the cloves of garlic and the fresh ginger. With a sharp knife, carefully mince the garlic and ginger together. You can also use a microplane grater or garlic press to mince these two ingredients. To peel garlic more easily, shake the cloves in a tin can for 10 seconds to loosen the skin. Cook the garlic and ginger. Heat a wok or sauté pan over medium–high heat and add your cooking oil. Add the garlic and ginger and cook until they become fragrant and turn a light golden brown, about two minutes. Don't cook the ginger and garlic for too long, because the garlic will burn quickly and become bitter. The best oils for this dish are peanut, vegetable, or canola. Add the bok choy. Start by cooking the stems first if you're working with Shanghai or mature bok choy. Cook them for one to two minutes, until the stems start to become translucent. Add the leaves and toss the bok choy in the oil for 15 seconds. Pour in the vegetable broth. Then cover the bok choy with a lid and cook it for one minute. Remove the pan from the heat after that time and remove the lid. Instead of vegetable broth, you can also use beef or chicken broth, water, white wine, or rice wine vinegar. Season and serve. You can season the bok choy with salt, pepper, and red pepper flakes, to taste. Toss the bok choy to coat it with the seasoning, then transfer it to a large serving platter. This recipe makes enough to serve about four people. Steam the bok choy. Run the bok choy under cold water to wash off dirt. You can cut the baby bok choy in half lengthwise, if you wish, but you can also leave it whole. Steam the bok choy for about six minutes, or until the base is tender and can easily be pierced with a fork or knife. There are many ways you can steam greens, including: With an electric steamer. Fill the bottom with water as recommended by the manufacturer. Replace the steamer basket, then put in the bok choy. Put the lid on and turn the machine on. With a saucepan and steamer insert. Fill a saucepan with an inch (2.5 cm) of water. Place the metal steamer insert into the bottom of the pan. If the water comes up through the holes in the steamer bottom, pour some out. Bring the water to a boil, then place the steamer basket full of bok choy into the bottom and put the lid back on. Mince and cook the garlic and ginger. Peel the garlic and ginger. Then mince them using a sharp knife, garlic press, or microplane grater. Heat the oil over medium heat in a small frying pan. Add the garlic and ginger and cook for one minute. Remove the pan from the heat. Mix the dressing together. In a small bowl, whisk together the sugar, sesame oil, soy sauce, and lemon juice. When the ingredients are combined, whisk them into the garlic and ginger mixture. Toss the salad and serve with sesame seeds. Remove the bok choy from the steamer and transfer it to a large bowl. Pour the dressing over top, and toss to coat the bok choy. Sprinkle the toasted sesame seeds onto the bok choy. Divide the salad into four portions and serve. Heat the grill and make the miso butter. You can use an electric grill, charcoal grill, or barbecue. Heat it on medium–high heat. To make the miso butter, simply mix the miso and butter together in a small bowl with a fork. You can also use margarine or coconut oil as an alternative to the butter. Prepare the bok choy. Cut the leaves off the stems of the bok choy. Cut the stems in half lengthwise. Wash the stems and leaves under cold running water, and then pat them dry with a towel. Cut the leaves into long strips and set them aside in a heat-proof bowl. Use a butter knife to coat the bok choy stems with the miso butter. Grill the bok choy stems. Place the bok choy stems cut-side down on the grill and close the lid. Cook for about five minutes, then use tongs or a metal spatula to flip them over. Cook for another five or six minutes, until both sides are golden brown, tender, and slightly crispy. Wilt the leaves. Drizzle oil and lemon juice over the bok choy leaves and toss to coat. Remove the stems from the grill and place them on top of the leaves. Let the grilled bok choy sit on the leaves for a few moments before serving. This will wilt the leaves and make them tender and warm. Season with salt and pepper before serving. Add salt and pepper to taste, then divide the grilled bok choy into four servings. Finished. | Prepare the bok choy. Mince the garlic and (optional) ginger. Cook the garlic and ginger. Add the bok choy. Pour in the vegetable broth. Season and serve. Steam the bok choy. Mince and cook the garlic and ginger. Mix the dressing together. Toss the salad and serve with sesame seeds. Heat the grill and make the miso butter. Prepare the bok choy. Grill the bok choy stems. Wilt the leaves. Season with salt and pepper before serving. Finished. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Pack-Liquid-and-Gels-on-a-Plane | How to Pack Liquid and Gels on a Plane | To pack liquid and gels on a plane, you can place them in either your carry-on or checked luggage. However, if you want to pack them in your carry-on, they must be less than 3.4 ounces. If they're over that size, you'll need to transfer them to travel containers that hold 3.4 ounces or less. Either way, put the containers in a clear, resealable 1-quart bag before packing them in your carry-on. You'll be required to take the bag out during the security screening process. Store larger liquid and gel items in your checked baggage. Essential liquid and gel items, like baby food or medication, do not need to be placed in a plastic bag, but you do need to pack them in your carry-on bag so they're easily accessible. These items will likely require closer inspection, so keeping them within easy reach will make the security screening easier and faster. | Determine what luggage you’re bringing. Odds are that you plan on bringing a carry-on bag to keep handy during the flight. Now decide whether you are packing enough items overall to warrant checking in additional baggage to be held in cargo. Rules regarding non-essential liquids and gels differ between carry-ons and checked baggage, so figure out what your options are. Non-essential liquids and gels (as well as aerosols, creams, and pastes) include: foods, beverages, cosmetics, toiletries, and inspect repellents. Use your checked baggage for large items. If you are bringing both a carry-on and checked baggage, sort your liquids and gels by size. Check the size of each container that you intend to bring. Pack any container larger than 3.4 ounces (100 ml/g) in your checked baggage. You can also pack smaller containers here if you don't need them during the flight. The size of the container is the determining factor, not the amount of liquid/gel left inside. So pack large containers in your checked baggage even if they're almost empty. If possible, always use the original container describing what the product is, since unmarked containers may require closer inspection. This may lead to longer waits, confiscation, or even refusing your admittance. If you wish to use any of these items in-flight (like, say, toothpaste), purchase another size that is 3.4 ounces (100 ml/g) or smaller. Store carry-on items in a clear bag. First, make sure that all of the non-essential liquids and gels that you intend to pack in your carry-on do not exceed 3.4 ounces (100 ml/g). If they do, purchase smaller sizes. Next, use a single clear, resealable 1-quart (1 L) bag to store them within your carry-on. Only one bag is allowed per person. If your 1-quart bag doesn't fit all of your liquids and gels, use your checked baggage to pack those you won't need inflight. If all you have is a carry-on, reevaluate what you're bringing and leave behind whatever can be purchased at your destination. Each passenger is entitled to one 1-quart bag, so if you're travelling with someone else and they have room in theirs, utilize their bag, too. During passenger screening, you will be asked to remove your 1-quart bag from your carry-on for inspection. Rules specify that the bag must be clear in order to speed up this process. Prevent leaks and spills. Air pressure can affect your containers' lids and seals, so consider repackaging liquids and gels whose containers have weak or problematic seals. Search online or in stores for a 3-1-1 compliant kit. Use a funnel to pour each liquid or gel into one of the kit's clear tubes and seal it with the corresponding cap. As long as the new containers are 3-1-1 compliant, it's okay to transport liquids in a container without a label. Just expect the possibility of a closer inspection of each liquid during screening. As an alternative, you could remove the cap of the original container and use plastic wrap to create an additional seal before screwing the cap back on. As an added measure, you can pack each container in its own sandwich bag to prevent a bigger mess should one start to leak. Keep essential items separate. If you need to bring medication, baby formula, breast milk, or baby food, do not include these in your 1-quart (1 L) bag for non-essential items. However, expect these items to possibly require closer inspection by security. So pack them so they are accessible and can be easily removed before screening begins. The size of the container does not matter with essential items. So don't worry if it is higher than 3.4 ounces (100 ml/g). Security may also wish to inspect any accessories, such as syringes, IV bags, pumps, or milk warmers. Pack these for easy removal, as well. Inform the screeners. When it's your turn to go through screening, inform the agents right away that you have medication and/or liquid containers that hold more than 3.4 ounces (100 ml/g). Also let them know if you have accessories that go along with it. Expect the agents to inspect your essential items by: Visual inspection X-ray screening Testing small samples Let them know if you don’t want X-rays. First, keep in mind that the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has concluded that liquids and medications exposed to X-rays are still safe to take afterward. However, if radiation from X-rays is still a concern for you, be aware that it is your right to refuse X-ray screenings for medication, breast milk, and baby formula. If desired, tell the agents that you don't wish this when you present these items. Refusing X-rays may lead to other security measures. This could include a pat-down and/or a closer inspection of your other belongings. Shop with the return-trip in mind. If you have checked baggage, this is less of a concern, since you can pack liquids and gels weighing more than 3.4 ounces (100 ml/g) in that. However, if you only have a carry-on, remember that any liquid or gel souvenirs that you purchase must be that size or less. Also keep in mind that they will have to fit into your single 1-quart (1 L) bag for non-essential liquids and gels. Limit your purchases by size and quantity accordingly. Also keep this in mind when deciding on what non-essential items to bring on the flight there. To make room for the return-trip, consider only bringing items that you can jettison at the end of your stay. Ship items home. Make packing for the return trip that much easier by shipping liquid and gel souvenirs separately. Ask retailers if they offer shipping themselves. If not, bring your purchases to a parcel service like UPS, FedEx, or DHL to pack and ship your items home. If you are travelling internationally, be aware that your items may be subject to customs fees upon delivery, depending on the item and countries in question. Shop duty-free. If you are travelling internationally, consider saving any souvenir shopping for liquids and gels for the flight back. Make your purchases before your flight at the duty-free stores located within the airport's secure area. These items are exempt from carry-on rules, as long as: The sealed, clear security bag provided by the store at the time of purchase has not been opened or otherwise tampered with. You keep your receipt for inspection. The item was bought within the last 48 hours. | Determine what luggage you’re bringing. Use your checked baggage for large items. Store carry-on items in a clear bag. Prevent leaks and spills. Keep essential items separate. Inform the screeners. Let them know if you don’t want X-rays. Shop with the return-trip in mind. Ship items home. Shop duty-free. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Remove-Wrong-Shoe-Polish | How to Remove Wrong Shoe Polish | Before you remove the wrong color polish from your shoes, wipe the shoes down with a soft, damp cloth. Rub the cloth in the saddle soap in a circular motion to create a lather. Next, apply the lathered soap to the shoe, still working in a circular motion. Use a second cloth to wipe the lather away as you work. You should see streaks of the old polish coming off onto the second cloth. | Remove the laces from your shoes. Since you'll be using soap to remove the old shoe polish, any suds that get on your shoe laces could leave them discolored. It's best to remove these before you start, then replace them after your shoes are re-polished and dried. Wipe down your shoes with a soft, damp cloth. Just like using soap on your skin, it will spread more evenly if your shoe is already damp before you apply it. You don't want to get your shoes too wet, though, as it will affect the leather. Rub your wet cloth across the top of a tin of saddle soap to create a lather. Saddle soap is used to clean and condition different types of leather, and it's perfect for cleaning shoes. Swirl the cloth in a circular motion to get the best suds. You may need to re-wet your cloth during the process so the soap has enough water to create a lather. If you have a dauber brush, which is a small soap brush often found in leather cleaning kits, you can use it to apply the saddle soap instead of using the cloth. Wet the brush, swirl it in the saddle soap, then buff the brush onto the shoe. Apply the saddle soap to the shoe in a circular motion. Try to work the soap into the leather so it penetrates the layers of old polish. Wipe away the leather with a clean cloth. You don't want to leave soap on your shoes, as this will cause the leather to become dull and dried-out. As you wipe away the lather, you should see streaks of the old polish coming off on the clean cloth. Cover your work surface with a cloth or a newspaper. Polishing your shoes has a tendency to get messy, and shoe polish can be hard to clean off of certain surfaces. Save yourself the trouble by laying down newspaper or an old towel or sheet before you get started. Choose the right color polish for your shoe. If you're not sure what color you need, you can use a neutral (or uncolored) polish. This will help restore some of the shine to your shoes, although it won't cover any marks or faded spots. If you want to use a colored polish but you're not sure which one you should choose, visit a high-end shoe store that specializes in leather shoes and ask for a professional opinion. Apply a thin layer of conditioner to the shoes and let it sit for 10-20 minutes. You can apply leather conditioner with your hands or with a cloth. Apply the conditioner all over the shoes, then allow it to absorb into the leather for at least 10 minutes. A little shoe conditioner goes a long way, but it's essential to help moisturize your shoe leather to keep it healthy longer. You can get leather conditioner at a shoe store or a specialty leather shop. Dip a soft, clean cloth into the polish and apply it to the shoe. You don't need much shoe polish, especially on light-colored leather. Buff the cloth onto the shoes in a circular motion, then allow the polish to dry for about 15 minutes. If you think your shoes need more polish, apply a second thin coat before the first one has dried completely. Brush your shoes vigorously with a shoe shine brush. After the polish has dried, brush your shoes with a horsehair shine brush. This will help remove any excess polish, and will also create a nice shine on your shoes. Many shoe polish kits come with a brush, although you may need to purchase one from a specialty shoe store. Give the toe and heel of your shoe a spit shine. You don't actually have to use saliva for this - just wet a cotton ball or pad, then squeeze out any excess water. Add a little polish to the cotton, then use small circular motions to polish the toe and heel of your shoe. The longer you work, the shinier your shoes will look. | Remove the laces from your shoes. Wipe down your shoes with a soft, damp cloth. Rub your wet cloth across the top of a tin of saddle soap to create a lather. Apply the saddle soap to the shoe in a circular motion. Wipe away the leather with a clean cloth. Cover your work surface with a cloth or a newspaper. Choose the right color polish for your shoe. Apply a thin layer of conditioner to the shoes and let it sit for 10-20 minutes. Dip a soft, clean cloth into the polish and apply it to the shoe. Brush your shoes vigorously with a shoe shine brush. Give the toe and heel of your shoe a spit shine. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Diagnose-Lumps-in-Guinea-Pigs | How to Diagnose Lumps in Guinea Pigs | Finding a lump on your guinea pig can be scary, but getting it checked out by a vet will give you more peace of mind. It could be one of a few things, like an abscess, skin tumor, or cyst. Look around its head and neck for abscesses, which can be soft or firm and rise up from under the skin. A lump on your guinea pig's back could be a cyst, which contains skin oils and is often the size of a pea. A lump on your pet's tail or chest may be a skin tumor. Sometimes, a lump will make your pet feel so ill that it won't want to eat. It can also make your guinea pig uncomfortable enough that it won't want to be held or play. Whether your guinea pig exhibits these signs or not, it's still important to visit the vet so they can run tests to determine the exact cause and treatment for the lump. | Look for abscesses on the head and neck. Abscesses under the skin are very common in guinea pigs. They are the body's attempt to 'wall off' an infection and keep it from spreading. Abscesses can form either after a bite from another guinea pig, or if something rough and sharp (e.g., straw) goes through the skin. They can form anywhere on a guinea pig's body, but the most common locations are the head and neck. An abscess in the neck could be a swelling of the lymph node in that area. Lymph nodes are small glands that help the body fight infection. An abscess can feel firm or soft. Identify abscesses in your guinea pig’s mouth and jaw. Abscesses can also form in the mouth or jaw of a guinea pig. Abscesses in these areas can become large very quickly. Your guinea pig may look fine on one day, then have a large abscess the next day. When you handle your guinea pig, gently open its mouth to see the abscess. If the abscess is in the jaw, you will see a large bump along your guinea pig's jawline. Examine your guinea pig’s back for cysts. Guinea pigs can get several types of cysts, with the most common being a sebaceous cyst. Sebaceous cysts contain oil from the skin glands that produce oil (sebaceous glands). Sebaceous cysts are typically located on a guinea pig's back and near the rump, but can form in other places as well. Although they can become very large, cysts are usually about the size of a pea. Cysts become a problem if they become large. Check for tumors on the tail and chest. Tumors can also form lumps. For example, a lump on your guinea pig's tail could indicate a skin tumor called trichofolliculoma. A lump on the chest could indicate another type of cancer called lymphosarcoma. A female guinea pig can develop a mammary tumor, which you would see as a lump on the belly. Lipomas are tumors made up of fat cells. There are no specific places where you would look for a lipoma on your guinea pig. Your guinea pig may have several lipomas at one time. Detect a decreased appetite. Sometimes, a lump can make a guinea pig feel so bad that it doesn't want to eat. For example, if your guinea pig is not eating its meals and doesn't want any tasty treats, check its mouth for an abscess. Even if your guinea pig wants to eat, the size of the abscess in its mouth or jaw could make it difficult to chew food. Sometimes, a guinea pig will stop eating right before an abscess ruptures (an abscess can sometimes rupture on its own). Smell your guinea pig’s breath. When you hold your guinea pig, take a quick sniff of its breath. If your guinea pig has a mouth abscess, its breath will probably smell quite unpleasant. The unpleasant smell would be due to infection. Along with bad breath, you may also notice drooling. Observe changes in behavior. An abscess can be very uncomfortable for a guinea pig. If your guinea pig squeals with pain when you pick it up, seems really tired, or doesn't want to play with you, it could have an abscess. You may also notice your guinea pig heavily grooming the area of the abscess. Take your guinea pig to your vet. If you see a lump on your guinea pig's body, schedule an appointment with your vet. Your vet will perform different tests to determine the cause of the lump. Do not delay in taking your guinea pig to your vet—if the lump is an abscess, it could make your guinea pig very sick by overwhelming your guinea pig's natural defenses against bad bacteria. Explain your guinea pig’s history. During your appointment, give your vet as much information as you can about your guinea pig. For example, talk about your guinea pig's overall health and when you first noticed the lump. In addition, provide information about your guinea pig's diet, living environment, and if it has cagemates. Your vet will use the information you provide to come up with a diagnosis. Therefore, the more information you provide, the better. Allow your vet to examine your guinea pig. A physical examination will give your vet important clues about what caused the lump to form. Your vet will weigh your guinea pig, look it over from head to toe, and listen to its heart and lungs. Your vet will pay special attention to the area of the lump. Allow your vet to perform additional testing. Your vet may want to run some extra tests to confirm the diagnosis of the lump. One type of test is called fine needle aspiration (FNA), during which your vet will use a small needle to withdraw a fluid sample from the lump. Your vet will look at this fluid under the microscope to detect different cell types (e.g., fat cells, white blood cells). Another type of test is a biopsy, which would help your vet diagnose a tumor. Your vet would need to sedate or anesthetize your guinea for FNA or a biopsy. A fluid sample from the lump can be useful for identifying bacteria. The test to identify bacteria is called a 'culture.' | Look for abscesses on the head and neck. Identify abscesses in your guinea pig’s mouth and jaw. Examine your guinea pig’s back for cysts. Check for tumors on the tail and chest. Detect a decreased appetite. Smell your guinea pig’s breath. Observe changes in behavior. Take your guinea pig to your vet. Explain your guinea pig’s history. Allow your vet to examine your guinea pig. Allow your vet to perform additional testing. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Backpack | How to Make a Backpack | To make a simple drawstring backpack, start by cutting out two rectangles of cotton or canvas and sewing 1/4 inch seams on three sides of each piece. Then, fold down the top edges twice and sew them down to create a casing for the drawstring. Next, sew the pieces together with the right sides facing inward, making sure to leave gaps at the bottom corners. Afterwards, flip the bag inside out and thread a piece of cord through the casing on each side. Finally, tie the ends together, and pull each one through the gap in the bottom corners. | Cut two 12 by 14-inch (30.48 by 35.56-centimeter) rectangles out of fabric. You can use any type of fabric you want, but cotton, linen, or canvas would be best, because they are durable. You can make this bag bigger/smaller. Use the same measurements for the casing and the seam allowances, however. Fold and press three of the edges down by ¼ inch (0.64 centimeter). Place one of the pieces of fabric down, with the wrong side facing you. Fold both of the long edges and one of the narrow edges down by ¼ inch (0.64 centimeter). Press them flat with an iron; be sure to use a heat setting suitable for the fabric you are working with. Repeat this step for the other piece of fabric. Use sewing pins to keep the fabric in place as you fold and iron it. Top stitch the three folded edges down using a sewing machine. Repeat this step for the other piece of fabric. Do not sew the two fabric pieces together just yet. Make the casing by folding the top, raw edge down twice. Fold the top, raw edge down by ½ inch (1.27 centimeters) and press it flat with an iron. Fold it down again by 2 inches (5.08 centimeters), and press it flat again. Repeat this step for the other piece of fabric. This will make the casing for the cord to go through. Make sure that you are folding towards the wrong side of the fabric. Use sewing pins to hold the fabric in place as you fold and iron it. Topstitch the casing down, as close to the bottom edge as possible. You can use a color that matches the color of your fabric, or a contrasting one for a more interesting design. Do this for both pieces of fabric. Sew the two fabric pieces together. Pin the fabric pieces together, with the right sides facing inward. Starting just below the casing, sew all the way around the side, bottom, and side edges of the bag, using a ⅝-inch (0.59-centimeter) seam allowance. Leave a 1-inch (2.54-centimeter) wide gap at each bottom corner. If you forget to do this, that's okay. Simply use a seam ripper to undo some of the stitching at each bottom corner. You'll be using these gaps to slide the cording through. Turn the bag inside out, and press it flat with an iron. Use something thin, such as a pair of scissors, a chopstick, or knitting needle to push out the seams first. This will give you a neater finish. Be sure to press all the side edges as well as the top casing. Thread the cords through the casings. Attach a safety pin to one of the 58-inch (147.32-centimeter) long cords. Starting from the front-left hole, pull the cord all the way around the bag, until it comes out the back-left hole. Repeat this step with the other cord, but start at the front-right side, and finish at the back-right side. For a fancier touch, use grosgrain ribbon. Choose a color that nicely contrasts with your fabric. Knot the cords together. Take the two cords on the left side of the bag, and knot the ends together. Repeat this with the two cords on the right side of the bag. Turn the bag inside out and pull the cords through the gaps you left earlier at the bottom corners. Pull the left cord through the left gap, and the right cord through the right gap. The knots should be resting just outside the seam. Stitch the gaps close. Be sure to go back and forth over the gap a few times to hold the cords in place. Use a ⅝-inch (0.59-centimeter) seam allowance as before. A zigzag stitch will be the best for this. Turn the bag right-side-out. It is now ready to use! To close the back, simply scrunch the top of the bag shut along the cord. Use the two cords as straps. Keep in mind that this bag is delicate, and that it won't hold up to heavy things, like text books. Cut your pieces out of durable fabric, such as canvas. You can also make your backpack out of cotton or linen, but it may not be as durable. To make things easier later on, consider labeling the pieces with some dressmaker's chalk. Here are the pieces you need to cut: Body: two 44 by 50-centimeter (17.32 by 19.69-inch) rectangles Base: one 17 by 36-centimeter (6.7 by 14.18-inch) rectangle Flap: two 24 by 24-centimeter (9.45 by 9.45-inch) squares Shoulder straps: two 10 by 66-centimeter (3.94 by 25.99-inch) strips Handle strap: one 10 by 24-centimeter (3.94 by 9.45-inch) strip Round the corners of the flap pieces. Pin the two flap pieces together, with the right sides facing in. Use a glass and a pen to draw the curves first, then cut them out with a pair of scissors. Sew the two flap pieces together using a 1-centimeter (0.4-inch) seam allowance. Sew along both of the side edges and the curved, bottom edge. Leave the top, straight edge open, so that you can turn the flap inside out. Cut little notches into the curved edges. Be careful not to cut into the stitching. This will help reduce bunching and bulk when you turn the flap inside-out. Turn the flap right-side-out, press it flat with an iron, then topstitch the edges. After you turn the flap inside out, use something thin and slender, like a pair of scissors, a chopstick, or a knitting needle, to push out the curves. Press the edges of the flap down with an iron using a heat setting suitable for the fabric. When you are done, topstitch all the way around the flap, about 6 millimeters (0.24 inches) from the edge. You can use a matching thread color, or a contrasting one. For a fancier touch, pin some bias tape all the way around the edges, then top stitch it down. You can topstitch the top, raw edge this time around, if you want to. Fold the edges of the shoulder and handle strips in by 1 centimeter (0.4 inch), then press them flat with an iron. Turn the strips so that the wrong sides are facing you. Fold and press each of the long edges by 1 centimeter (0.4 inch). Do this for both of the shoulder straps and the handle strap. Leave the narrow edges alone. Fold, press, and topstitch the shoulder and handle straps. Fold each of the strips in half, lengthwise. The folded edges should now be on the inside, and the right-side of the fabric should now be on the outside. Pin the edges in place, then topstitch along them, about 6 millimeters (0.24 inch) away from the edge. Do this for both of the shoulder strap pieces and the handle strap. Pin and sew the body pieces together, leaving a 3-centimeter (1.19-inch) gap on each side for the cording. Pin the two body pieces together, with the right sides facing each other. Starting from the top-left corner, stitch down 5 centimeters (1.97 inches) along the long edge. Leave a 3-centimeter (1.19-inch) long gap, then continue sewing the rest of the way down to the bottom corner. Repeat for the right side. Use a 1-centimeter (0.4-inch) seam allowance. Do not sew along the bottom edge of the bag. Press the seam allowances open. An easy way to do this is to turn the body piece inside out, and turn it so that one of the seams is on the ironing board. Run the iron through the tube, pressing the seam allowances open and flat. Repeat this for the other seam allowance, then turn the back inside out again so that the wrong side of the fabric is facing you. Fold the top edge of the bag down twice to make the casing. Fold and press the top edge of the bag down by 1 centimeter (0.4 inch) first. Then, fold it down by 4 centimeters (1.58 inches), and press it again. Make sure that you are folding evenly all the way around the top edge of the bag. Topstitch along the bottom edge of the casing, then turn the bag inside out. Sew as close to the bottom edge as you can—about 6 millimeters (0.24 inch). seam allowance. Use a color that matches your fabric; for a more interesting design, use a contrasting color. When you are done, turn the back inside out, so that all of the seams are on the inside, and the right side of the fabric is facing you. Pin the shoulder straps and the handle strap to the top of the bag. Make sure that the bag is turned inside-out first, so that the right side of the fabric is facing you. Then: Pin the shoulder straps 13 centimeters (5.12 inches) apart, just below the casing. The top edges should be facing top of the bag, and the bottom edges should be facing the bottom of the bag. Pin the ends of the handle strap between the shoulder straps. The ends of the handle should be facing the top of the bag, and the loop of the handle should be facing the bottom of the bag. Pin the flap on top of the shoulder and handle straps. Position the flap so that the top, raw edge is just below the casing, and aligned with the raw edges of the straps. The raw edge should facing the top of the bag, and the curved edge should be facing the bottom of the bag. Stitch the flap in place, then fold flap upwards, and topstitch it again. Use a 1-centimeter (0.4-inch) seam allowance both times. Pin the ends of the shoulder straps to the bottom of the bag, 18 centimeters (7.09 inches) apart. Make sure that you are only pinning them to the back of the bag. Do not pin them through both layers of fabric, or you won't be able to attach the base. Cut the corners of the base piece so that you get a rounded rectangle. Fold the base into fourths. Use a glass to trace a curve on top of the loose (not folded) corner. Cut along the line that you drew, then unfold the base. You'll get a rounded rectangle. Turn the back inside-out again, then pin the base to the bottom, and sew it in place. Turn the bag inside-out so that the wrong side of the fabric is facing you. Pin the base to the bottom of the bag. The long edges of the base should be at the front/back of the bag. The short edges of the base should be at the sides of the bag. Stitch the base in place using a 1-centimeter (0.4-inch) seam allowance. Thread the cords through the casing. Attach a safety pin to one of the 1-meter (1.1-yard) long cords. Starting from the front-left hole, pull the cord all the way through the front and back casing, until it comes out the back-left hole. Repeat this step with the other cord, but for the other side; start at the front-right side, and finish at the back-right side. The bag will close at the left and right sides, like a drawstring bag or pouch. Knot the ends of the cords together. Take both of the cords on the left side of the bag, and knot the ends together. Repeat with the two cords on the right side of the bag. Snip off any loose threads. Go over your bag, and snip off any loose or excess threads. Your bag is done, and ready to use! If you want, you can attach a snap to the flap and front of the bag. Follow the instructions that come with the snap you are using, as each one will be a little different. Cut your fabric pieces out of sturdy fabric, such as canvas. You can also use another type of heavy-duty fabric. To keep yourself organized, label the different pieces using a dressmaker's chalk or pen. Listed below are the pieces you need to cut and their measurements. You can make a bigger backpack if you want, but keep the proportions and seam allowances the same. Front panel: 12½ by 14½-inch (31.75 by 36.83-centimeter) rectangle Back panel: 12½ by 15½-inch (31.75 by 39.37-centimeter) rectangle 2 zipper panels: 3 by 17-inch (7.62 by 43.18 centimeter) strip 1 side panel: 4½ by 30-inch (11.43 by 76.2 centimeter) strip 2 long straps: 6½ by 25-inch (16.51 by 63.5-centimeter) strip 2 short straps: 4 by 6-inch (10.16 by 15.24-centimeter) rectangle 1 handle strap: 3 by 6-inch (7.62 by 15.24-centimeter) rectangle Shape the top of your front and back panels. Pin the two panels together, so that the top, narrow edges align. The back panel will be a little longer. Fold the panels in half lengthwise, then cut the top into a large curve. When you unfold it, the top should be arched, just like a real backpack. Unpin the panels when you are done. Shape the bottom corners of your front and back panels. Pin the two panels together again, but this time, align the bottom, straight edges. Fold the panels in half lengthwise, then cut the bottom corners at a curve. Don't make the curve as big as you did for the top. Unfold, and unpin the panels when you are done, and set them aside. Use a glass and a dressmaker's chalk or pen to trace the curve. Fold the straps. Take one of the long straps, and fold it in half lengthwise with the wrong sides facing together. Press it flat with an iron using a heat setting suitable for the fabric you are working with. Tuck the long edges inside, all the way to the crease. Press the strap flat again. Do this for both of the shoulder straps, the short straps, and the handle strap. Topstitch both of the long edges down. If you need to, pin the strap shut with sewing pins. Topstitch along both of the long edges using a thread color that matches your fabric. Do this for the both of the shoulder straps, the short straps, and handle strap. Set the straps aside when you are done. Cut the back panel into two parts. Find the top center of your back panel. Measure down 4 to 4½ inches (10.16 to 11.43 centimeters), then cut straight across. You will end up with two pieces: a curved top piece and a rectangular bottom piece. The top piece will be referred to as "Part A." The bottom piece will be referred to as "Part B." Place the long straps on top of "Part B. " Make sure that the right side of the fabric is facing you, then place the shoulder straps on top. They need to be about 1 to 2 inches (2.54 to cc centimeters) away from the side edges. Make sure that the top edges of the straps are aligned with the straight, top edge of Part B, and that you are pinning the straps to the right side of the fabric. Pin Part A face down on top of the shoulder straps and Part B. Make sure that the bottom, straight edge of Part A is aligned with the top, straight edge of Part B. The wrong side of Part A should be facing you. Sew Part A, Part B, and the straps together. Use a ½-inch (1.27-centimeter) seam allowance and a straight stitch. Remove the pins as you sew. Flatten the back panel, then topstitch the seam down. Fold Part A up, so that you can see the entire back panel. Fold the seam down against Part B, and press it flat with an iron. Topstitch the seam down to Part B; you will be going right over the shoulder straps. Assemble the bottom straps. Fold the short straps in half widthwise. Slide a backpack strap adjuster onto each strap, so that the bars are nestled in the folds. Pin the bottom straps to the back panel, and sew them in place. Turn the back panel so that the right side of the fabric is facing you. Pin the bottom straps to the bottom of the back panel; make sure that the raw edges align. Also, make sure that the bottom straps align with the shoulder straps. Topstitch them in place using a ½-inch (1.27-centimeter) seam allowance. Finish the shoulder straps. Fold the raw, bottom ends of the shoulder straps twice: first by ¼-inch (0.64-centimeter), then by ½-inch (1.27-centimeter). Topstitch the folded edge down. When you are done, thread each strap through the corresponding strap adjusted at the bottom of the bag. Attach the handle to the top of the back panel. Find the center of the back panel, then pin the handle to the top. Make the raw edges of the handle align with the top edge of the panel. The ends of the handle need to be about 3 inches (7.62 centimeters) apart. Stitch the ends down using a ½-inch (1.27-centimeter) seam allowance. Pin the two zipper panels together, then sew them together along one of the long edges. Pin the two zipper panels together with the right sides facing in. Sew along one of long edges using a ⅝-inch (0.59-centimeter) seam allowance. Press seam open, then baste zipper on top of seam. Open the panels, so that the wrong side of the fabric is facing you, then use an iron to press the seam open. Baste the zipper on top of the seam. Make sure that wrong sides of the fabric and zipper are facing you; the right side of the zipper should be facing the seam. It may seem like you won't be able to use the zipper because of the seam. Don't worry, you will open the seam later so that you can use the zipper. Topstitch the zipper in place. Sew the left and right sides of the zipper down first, then the top and bottom. Be sure to sew across the top and bottom a few times so that it is nice and strong. Open the seam on top of the zipper using a seam ripper. Turn the zipper panel so that the right side of the fabric is facing you. Find the top and bottom stitching for the zipper. Open the seam between those two spots using a seam ripper. You should now be able to open and close your zipper! Be careful not to rip the top and bottom stitching that are holding the zipper in place. Once you are done, cut off any excess zipper, if needed. Sew the side panel to the zipper panel to make a loop. Pin the narrow ends of the side panel to the narrow ends of the zipper panel to make a loop; make sure that the right sides are facing each other. Sew the narrow ends shut using a ½-inch (1.27-centimeter) seam allowance. If you'd like a neater finish: press the seams down against the side panel (away from the zipper panel), then topstitch it in place. Pin the loop to the front of the bag, with the right sides together. To ensure that your bag comes out even: find the top and bottom center of your front. Mark it with a pen or pin. Find the center of your zipper panel and the center of your side panel, and make a mark as well. Align these marks while pinning the loop to the front panel. When you are done, pin the back panel in place as well. Make sure that the wrong side of the back panel is facing you. Sew the loop in place. Use a ½-inch (1.27-centimeter) seam allowance, and remove the pins as you go. To prevent bunching, cut small slits into the seam at the corns. Be careful not to cut into the stitching! Snip off any loose threads, then turn your backpack inside out. Your bag is now ready to use! | Cut two 12 by 14-inch (30.48 by 35.56-centimeter) rectangles out of fabric. Fold and press three of the edges down by ¼ inch (0.64 centimeter). Top stitch the three folded edges down using a sewing machine. Make the casing by folding the top, raw edge down twice. Topstitch the casing down, as close to the bottom edge as possible. Sew the two fabric pieces together. Turn the bag inside out, and press it flat with an iron. Thread the cords through the casings. Knot the cords together. Turn the bag inside out and pull the cords through the gaps you left earlier at the bottom corners. Stitch the gaps close. Turn the bag right-side-out. Cut your pieces out of durable fabric, such as canvas. Round the corners of the flap pieces. Sew the two flap pieces together using a 1-centimeter (0.4-inch) seam allowance. Turn the flap right-side-out, press it flat with an iron, then topstitch the edges. Fold the edges of the shoulder and handle strips in by 1 centimeter (0.4 inch), then press them flat with an iron. Fold, press, and topstitch the shoulder and handle straps. Pin and sew the body pieces together, leaving a 3-centimeter (1.19-inch) gap on each side for the cording. Press the seam allowances open. Fold the top edge of the bag down twice to make the casing. Topstitch along the bottom edge of the casing, then turn the bag inside out. Pin the shoulder straps and the handle strap to the top of the bag. Pin the flap on top of the shoulder and handle straps. Stitch the flap in place, then fold flap upwards, and topstitch it again. Pin the ends of the shoulder straps to the bottom of the bag, 18 centimeters (7.09 inches) apart. Cut the corners of the base piece so that you get a rounded rectangle. Turn the back inside-out again, then pin the base to the bottom, and sew it in place. Thread the cords through the casing. Knot the ends of the cords together. Snip off any loose threads. Cut your fabric pieces out of sturdy fabric, such as canvas. Shape the top of your front and back panels. Shape the bottom corners of your front and back panels. Fold the straps. Topstitch both of the long edges down. Cut the back panel into two parts. Place the long straps on top of "Part B. Pin Part A face down on top of the shoulder straps and Part B. Sew Part A, Part B, and the straps together. Flatten the back panel, then topstitch the seam down. Assemble the bottom straps. Pin the bottom straps to the back panel, and sew them in place. Finish the shoulder straps. Attach the handle to the top of the back panel. Pin the two zipper panels together, then sew them together along one of the long edges. Press seam open, then baste zipper on top of seam. Topstitch the zipper in place. Open the seam on top of the zipper using a seam ripper. Sew the side panel to the zipper panel to make a loop. Pin the loop to the front of the bag, with the right sides together. Sew the loop in place. Snip off any loose threads, then turn your backpack inside out. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Count-Money-Fast | How to Count Money Fast | If you're looking for a fast way to count large stacks of money, start by sorting your bills in stacks of 1's, 5's, 10's, and so on, then adjust the bills so they're all facing the same direction. Next, pick up one stack and grab the top bill with your dominant thumb and pointer finger to make sure it's only a single bill. Then, count the bills as you transfer them from one hand to the other, and wrap a rubber band around each stack of 50 bills of the same denomination. Finally, add up all the banded stacks and leftover bills to get the total value. | Separate your stacks by denomination. For quick counting, the first thing you should do is create a stack of all of your 1s, all of your 5s, all of your 10s, all of your 20s, and so on. Gather all of your bills into one big stack and then go through it one bill at a time and put each one in the stack with its respective denomination. Adjust the bills so that they’re all facing the same direction. Do this while or after you separate your bills into different stacks. This may make counting faster and easier, and also keeps your money more organized. Count each bill as you pass it from one hand to the other. Pick up one stack and hold it in your nondominant hand. Grab the top bill with your dominant thumb and pointer finger to make sure it's only 1 bill. Then place the bill down on a flat surface in front of you while you count it. Continue to grab and move the bills one at a time while counting by the denomination. For example, if you're counting a stack of 5 dollar bills, think or say “5, 10, 15, 20,” as you grab and place the first 4 bills onto the flat surface. Wrap a rubber band around a stack once you reach 50 bills. Secure and set aside each stack of 50 bills of the same denomination. This is easy if you're counting 1s, because you'll just stop once you've reached 50. It's helpful to know the monetary value of 50 of each denomination beforehand so that you know when to stop. If you're counting 5 dollar bills, stop when you get to $250. If you're counting 10 dollar bills, stop when you get to $500. If you're counting 20 dollar bills, stop when you get to $1,000. Add up all banded stacks and leftover bills. Continue banding each stack of 50 bills and setting them aside. Once you're out of bills, add each stack together starting with the higher denominations and then add any leftover bills afterward. It may be easier and faster to use a calculator at this point. For example, if you have 3 stacks of 20s, 2 stacks of 10s, 5 stacks of 5s and 23 loose 1 dollar bills, your math would look like this: 1,000 + 1,000 + 1,000 + 500 + 500 + 250 + 250 + 250 + 250 + 250 + 23 = 5,273. Separate the coins by denomination. Divide your pile of change into multiple piles that represent every denomination you have. For instance, you may have a pile of quarters, a pile of dimes, a pile of nickels, and a pile of pennies once you're done sorting. Count out a certain dollar amount and arrange it into a stack. In one pile, start counting as you make a stack of coins. Once you reach a dollar amount that's easy to add and won't cause your stack to tower too high, set it aside. The dollar amount will vary for each denomination. For example, each stack of quarters may be worth $2 (8 coins) while each stack of pennies may only be worth $0.10 (10 coins). Make identical stacks out of the remaining coins. Using the initial stack as a model, make identical stacks out of the rest of the coins in that specific denomination pile. There's no need to keep track of monetary value while you do this; just focus on creating stacks with the same exact number of coins as the first one. If you have extra coins that don't quite complete one stack, organize them into a stack and set them aside nearby. Add the stacks and extra coins together. Once you've made stacks out of all of the coins in a denomination, count them by their monetary value to add them together. Then, add on the value of the extra coins and write the total down. For example, if you have 9 stacks of 8 quarters (worth $2), think or say, “2, 4 6, 8, 10, 12, 14, 16, 18” while you count the stacks. If you have 3 extra quarters, your math will look like this: $18.00 + $0.75 = $18.75. Add all denomination piles together. Once you've written a total for each denomination pile, add them up on a sheet of paper or by using a calculator. This is the total value of all of your coins. For example, if your quarter pile is worth $18.75, your dime pile is worth $11.60, your nickel pile is worth $3.15, and your penny pile is worth $1.33, then your math will look like this: $18.75 + $11.60 + $3.15 + $1.33 = $34.83. Use your fingers to count in groups of 5. Hold a stack of bills that are all the same denomination in your hand folded in half vertically so that all 4 corners are facing down. Secure the folded stack on either side with your thumb and pointer finger. Then, count as you rotate using each of your fingers and your thumb from the other hand to strike down against the folded stack and unfold 1 bill at a time. Pull down the 1st bill in the folded stack with your thumb, the 2nd with your pointer finger, the 3rd bill with your middle finger, the 4th with your ring finger, and the 5th with your pinky. Start again until you've pulled down and counted the whole stack. Pull each bill from your grip with your opposite thumb. Use your thumb to hold a stack of bills that have the same denomination folded vertically in one hand with the corners facing up. Hold the back of the stack on the other side with your opposite pointer finger. Then use your thumb on this same hand to press down on the front of the first bill and pull it out from underneath the other thumb's grasp by swiping laterally. Count while swiping each bill this way. Pass banded bills from one hand to the other. Wrap a rubber band around the middle of a stack of bills that share the same denomination. Place the stack horizontally on a flat surface in front of you. Place your left hand on the left side of the stack with only your pointer and middle fingers extended. Grab the stack by the top right corner with your right hand and slide your right thumb to the left to pass 1 bill over. Count as you alternate between using your left pointer and left middle finger to grab each bill. | Separate your stacks by denomination. Adjust the bills so that they’re all facing the same direction. Count each bill as you pass it from one hand to the other. Wrap a rubber band around a stack once you reach 50 bills. Add up all banded stacks and leftover bills. Separate the coins by denomination. Count out a certain dollar amount and arrange it into a stack. Make identical stacks out of the remaining coins. Add the stacks and extra coins together. Add all denomination piles together. Use your fingers to count in groups of 5. Pull each bill from your grip with your opposite thumb. Pass banded bills from one hand to the other. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Get-an-Illinois-I-Pass | How to Get an Illinois I Pass | To get an Illinois I-PASS, go to the Illinois Tollway website to put in an order. You'll need to provide your email address, name, address, and driver's license number. Additionally, you'll need to enter a record for each vehicle that you'll use your I-PASS with, and fill your I-PASS account with money by connecting it to a debit card. After filling out all your information, you should receive your new I-PASS in a couple weeks. | Use the Internet. You can order your I-PASS over the Internet with a few bits of information and a credit card. To order online, go to the Illinois Tollway website. Click the Online button at the top. Create an account by entering your email. You will be asked to verify your email address by clicking on the link they send you. Do so and proceed with your order. Enter the number of transponders you need, and whether this is a personal or business account. Fill out your personal information, including your name, address, city, state, zip, phone, and your driver's license number. Enter a record for each vehicle that you will use your transponder(s) with. If you use a transponder on an unregistered vehicle, you'll be fined, so make sure you include all vehicles that might share a transponder, even if you don't plan on using it regularly. Fill up your transponder with money. There is a $10 refundable deposit for the transponder itself, and a minimum of $40 for tolls. Your transponder will automatically debit credit card when it falls below the minimum threshold, which is the greater of 10 percent of your monthly average I-PASS usage or $10.00. Replenishment amounts range from $40 to $1,000. Fill out your credit card info, and allow 14 business days for processing and delivery. Call 800-UC-IPASS (800-824-7277). Representatives at the Customer Call Center can answer questions and take orders seven days a week. Hours are Monday through Friday from 6 AM to 10 PM, and on weekends from 8 AM to 5 PM. To avoid peak call times, call Tuesday through Friday after 6 PM, or during the weekend. Please allow 14 business days for processing and delivery. Jewel-Osco. Pick up an I-PASS transponder on your next visit to the grocery store. Nearly 200 Jewel-Osco locations in Illinois provide I-PASS and I-PASS gift cards. Jewel-Osco applies a $2.90 service charge per transponder. Road Ranger. Passenger or commercial truck transponders also are available at three Road Ranger locations in Northwest Illinois. Gift cards are not available at Road Ranger locations. Activate your transponder. Activation is required for transponders obtained at a Jewel-Osco or Road Ranger location. Activation instructions are included in the transponder box. Once activated, transponders are ready for use within 24 hours in Illinois and within 48 hours in other states that accept I-PASS. You may activate your transponder online or by phone (800-926-6500). Download the PDF here. Complete the I-PASS application and mail it with payment. It is $50 to open an automatic replenishment accounts ($10 refundable deposit/$40 prepaid tolls). Manual replenishment of accounts requires a $60 payment ($20 refundable deposit/$40 prepaid tolls). Make checks or money orders payable to the Illinois Tollway. Submit application and payment to: I-PASS P.O. Box 5225 Lisle, IL 60532 Allow 14 business days for processing and delivery. Download the application en Español here. Walk on up. I-PASS services are available weekdays at these eight locations at the following times: Weekdays 7 AM to 6 PM[7]
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https://www.wikihow.com/Resolve-Conflict-in-Marriage | How to Resolve Conflict in Marriage | Resolving conflict in marriage is a normal part of every day life, so if you're having a disagreement with your spouse, don't worry. You can resolve almost every argument by talking the problem out and keeping your cool to avoid saying something hurtful. If something's bothering you, find a good time to talk when both of you are well-rested and able to focus. Sit down face-to-face, and introduce the problem so your spouse knows what's bothering you. For instance, you could say, “I wish you would clean up the kitchen. When you leave it messy, I feel like you don't appreciate how hard I clean.” Make sure to listen actively to your spouse to show you respect their feelings. Above all, don't raise your voice or call your spouse names, as this will make things worse. If you're too angry to talk rationally, go for a walk and return to the discussion later. Once everyone's had their say, work to come up with a solution you're both happy with. | Find a good time to talk. Talk with your spouse when both of you are well-rested and able to focus. Don't try to solve problems when one or both of you are distracted, tired, or hungry. For instance, if your spouse has just come home from work, give them some time to unwind before you bring up something that's bothering you. Sit down and face each other. Stay calm by sitting down to talk, instead of pacing around the room. Make eye contact with your spouse. Making eye contact shows your spouse that you're listening to them and care what they have to say. It also helps you feel more connected to each other. Discuss the conflict. Tell your spouse what's bothering you. Speak calmly and avoid rambling. If you're arguing about an issue that seems minor on the surface, try to figure out what the underlying problem is. For instance, you could say, “I wish you would clean up the kitchen after you're finished cooking. When you leave it messy, I feel like you don't appreciate how hard I work to keep the place clean.” Avoid pointing fingers. Don't throw accusations at your spouse. This will make them feel defensive, and your argument could turn into a full-blown fight. Instead, tell them how you feel and what you think. It's also a good idea to steer clear of the words “always” and “never.” For example, instead of saying, “You never tell me when you're going to be working late,” say, “I feel unimportant to you when you work overtime and don't text me.” Listen actively. Keep an open mind as you listen to your spouse. Pay attention to their body language as well as their words. Make sure you understand what they're saying by mirroring their statements. For example, if your spouse says, “I just need time alone sometimes,” you could mirror that statement by saying, “So you feel like you can unwind and relax best by yourself, is that right?” Compromise. Work with your spouse to find a solution you're both happy with. If you can't find a compromise that works for both of you, try taking turns with your preferred solutions. For instance, if your spouse prefers to use the dishwasher and you would rather wash dishes by hand, try using each method on alternate weeks. Compromise means that sometimes you will get your way, while other times your spouse will get their way. Keep your cool. Don't raise your voice, call your spouse names, or get sarcastic. Acting nasty will put a stop to any productive discussion you might have had. If you feel your temper rising, call a time-out and regain your composure before continuing the conversation. If you're getting too angry to talk rationally, go somewhere by yourself and take a few deep breaths, or blow off steam by taking a walk around the block. Focus on the issue at hand. Argue about one thing at a time. Don't drag unrelated issues or old grudges into the conversation. Leave the past where it belongs – behind you. If you've already forgiven your spouse for something, don't dredge it up again as ammunition for your current argument. For instance, if you're arguing about how often to mow the lawn, don't bring up an old disagreement about where your kids should go to school. Avoid hitting below the belt. Stay civil and polite. Some things, like name-calling or picking at your spouse's insecurities, should remain off-limits during an argument. If you're angry enough that you want to say something to hurt your spouse, step away and cool down by yourself. For example, if your husband makes a rash decision, resist the urge to call him "stupid" or "an idiot." Even if you feel it's true in the moment, it will only make communication and conflict resolution even harder. Ask your spouse to explain their perspective so that you can understand why they made the decision. Then you can calmly discuss the issue including input from both of you. Don't jump to conclusions. Give your spouse the benefit of the doubt. Don't put words in their mouth or look for reasons to assume the worst. Make sure you understand what they're saying before you answer them. For example, your spouse tells you they need some space and you assume they are trying to leave the marriage. Ask for clarification. "Space" could simple mean more time and room to think things over. If something is bothering you, address it. Don't spend time by yourself stewing over what may have been an innocent action or remark. Avoid picking at your spouse for little things. Learn to distinguish between real problems and minor issues you can ignore. If your spouse has a few habits that are annoying but harmless, reconsider whether you really need to argue about them. For example, if your husband likes to move some pillows to a different chair when he comes home from work, don't nag him over it. Putting the pillows back is easier than fighting. Appreciate your spouse. Focus on your spouse's good traits, both big and small, and don't be shy about giving them a sincere compliment every now and then. When your spouse does something thoughtful for you, thank them. For example, you could say something like, “Thanks so much for making dinner when I get home late. That makes my evenings a lot more relaxing.” Let your spouse make mistakes. No one is perfect, and your spouse will make mistakes just like anyone else. You wouldn't like it if someone held your past mistakes against you, so don't hold your spouse's slip-ups against them, either. Spend quality time together. Don't let months or years of marriage make you lose sight of the reasons you married your spouse. Make a habit of going on dates, trying new things, and having fun together. Choose activities you both like, such as taking a stroll to enjoy the weather or working on a hobby you share. Stay away from people who try to control your marriage. Don't listen to friends or family members who offer you bad advice or try to influence you for the worse. If someone tries to meddle in your marriage, tell them politely but firmly that your relationships are your own business. Avoid trying to win every argument. Choose happiness over being right. We all want to win arguments, but needing to defeat the other person all the time will destroy your relationship. If you're arguing about something trivial, or if you think you really might be wrong, let your spouse win the argument. | Find a good time to talk. Sit down and face each other. Discuss the conflict. Avoid pointing fingers. Listen actively. Compromise. Keep your cool. Focus on the issue at hand. Avoid hitting below the belt. Don't jump to conclusions. Avoid picking at your spouse for little things. Appreciate your spouse. Let your spouse make mistakes. Spend quality time together. Stay away from people who try to control your marriage. Avoid trying to win every argument. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Become-Ambidextrous | How to Become Ambidextrous | To become ambidextrous, start by trying to write a few lines with your non-dominant hand each day. Choose a pen that flows easily for writing and grip it gently. After you've been doing this for a while, write out the alphabet using upper case, lower case, and cursive letters each day. If you want to build more strength in your non-dominant hand, lift weights with it or use it to mix ingredients while cooking. Finally, consider brushing your teeth or eating with a spoon using your non-dominant hand so you get used to it performing everyday tasks. | Do exercises to strengthen your non-dominant hand and fingers. Your non-dominant hand is most likely a lot less strong than your dominant hand, which makes it harder at first to become ambidextrous. Lift some light weights with your non-dominant hand every other day, with a focus on keeping a tight grip to work your hands rather than your arms. Use heavier weights as you go to continue strengthening your hand. Lifting weights is one of the best ways to strengthen your hand, but you can also use a grip exerciser to work out your hand. You may also benefit from juggling or simply tossing a ball up into the air with your non-dominant hand. This will make you more comfortable using that hand while also developing better hand-eye coordination. Use your non-dominant hand to work the computer mouse. There are lots of benefits to switching your mouse hand, but one of the main benefits is that it increases the dexterity in your non-dominant hand. Simply move your ordinary mouse over to the opposite side of the computer and use it as you normally would from here on out. You can also opt to invest in an “ambidextrous” mouse from a tech store, but it's much simpler to just use an ordinary mouse. Start performing small daily tasks with your non-dominant hand. Use your non-dominant hand to do things like brush your teeth, open doors, put on accessories, or clean up around your home. Do this as consistently as you can to make using your non-dominant hand feel less awkward. Try to do as much as you can with your non-dominant hand, such as applying soap and shampoo when you bathe. You may not realize it, but you probably do most of these small tasks with your dominant hand. Make sure to brush your teeth correctly when using your non-dominant hand. If you're not comfortable brushing with this hand, you may inadvertently underbrush. If you play an instrument, try playing with your non-dominant hand instead of your ordinary method of playing. Eat and cook with your non-dominant hand after a few days. Use your non-dominant hand to move pots and pans, to stir food, and to serve it. Hold your silverware with your non-dominant hand and use it to move the food to your mouth. You may have to do this slowly at first to avoid dropping the food, but it will get easier with time! It's best to spend a few days getting used to performing small tasks with your non-dominant hand first, since cooking with boiling water or other heated materials can be a bit more dangerous. Tie your dominant hand behind your back to be even more immersive. This method will force you to exclusively use your non-dominant hand to do everything. This is a great way to make your mind and body quickly adapt to using this hand, but you may want to do it after a few days of practice first. The easiest way to do this would be tie your dominant wrist with rope , then tie the other end of that rope to the belt loop on the back of a pair of pants. This is a bit difficult to do by yourself, so you may need to have someone help you. Hold a pen or pencil with your non-dominant hand the same way you would with the other hand. Write with your good hand in the mirror to see how it would look writing with your other hand. This gives you a clear visual cue to the method and helps your brain to picture the same action for your non-dominant hand. Then, practice holding the pen or pencil with your non-dominant hand so that it feels more comfortable. Don't "claw" your hand. It may be tempting to grasp the pen as tightly as possible, causing your hand to ball up like a claw, but this will only stop you from writing effectively and can end up hurting your hand. Start by tracing the alphabet with your non-dominant hand. Start with lowercase letter and once the feeling becomes natural, you should then switch to uppercase. This will “introduce” your other hand to the ordinary movements involved in writing in a very easy way. Aim to produce straight lines and clean curves, but don't worry if you make a lot of mistakes at first. Perform this practice routine for at least 10 minutes a day until you feel comfortable making clean movements. Your hand may strain at the beginning, but just take a break and try again later. The tension will eventually go away. Be sure to trace out the alphabet using your non-dominant hand in lowercase, uppercase, and cursive letters (if you know cursive). Move on to writing letters without tracing and drawing simple shapes. Pin down some paper and start drawing butterflies, vases, symmetrical objects, letters, shapes, and whatnot. Although you may think your writing is awful at first, write a couple of lines every day from the start. You will only get better with practice! It may be helpful to buy a handwriting book designed for children and follow along with the exercises. Using your non-dominant hand to color in a coloring book is also a good idea. As you do this, pay attention to which letters you struggle with the most and spend some extra time practicing them. Practice writing your name and full sentences. Your name will be the writing movement that you're probably most familiar with, so it's a very good set of letters to practice on. Try writing out a 3- to 5-sentence paragraph every day to get more comfortable with writing at length with your non-dominant hand. Don't keep writing the same paragraph every day. Write a different one every day so your non-dominant hand doesn't get used to one paragraph only. Be sure to practice writing every day to improve your skills. Practice these techniques daily for at least a month , maybe longer. Soon, you'll be writing much more comfortably with your non-dominant hand, with very few mistakes. Try keeping a daily journal that you write in exclusively with your non-dominant hand. | Do exercises to strengthen your non-dominant hand and fingers. Use your non-dominant hand to work the computer mouse. Start performing small daily tasks with your non-dominant hand. Eat and cook with your non-dominant hand after a few days. Tie your dominant hand behind your back to be even more immersive. Hold a pen or pencil with your non-dominant hand the same way you would with the other hand. Start by tracing the alphabet with your non-dominant hand. Move on to writing letters without tracing and drawing simple shapes. Practice writing your name and full sentences. Be sure to practice writing every day to improve your skills. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Game | How to Make a Game | To make a video game, start by downloading a game creation program, like GameMaker Studio or Unity 3D, which will create the game coding for you. Then, come up with a storyline that gives players choices to make, such as a hunt for a treasure that you can get to from multiply paths. Additionally, create characters for your game, including the player and some villains. Once you've added these elements, playtest the game a few times and look for ways to make it more interesting, exciting, and functional. | Decide what genre your game will be. Choosing a theme will narrow your focus when planning and designing the game. To pick a genre, consider what types of games you like to play, what the goal or mission of the game will be, and what you want the user experience to be like. For example, if you like games you can play with a group of people, you might make a multiplayer online role-playing game. Create a compelling storyline that has multiple paths players can take. The most important part of a video game is telling a story that captures the interest of the player. Brainstorm the overarching problem that players are trying to solve and build off of that. Make sure there are multiple ways to “win” the game to provide more entertainment for the players. For example, if you want the goal of the game to be finding a pot of gold, create characters like an evil leprechaun who's trying to protect the pot and a storyline of events that might happen throughout the player's journey, like the appearance of a magical rainbow. Add increasing levels of difficulty to keep players engaged. You don't want the game to end as soon as a player accomplishes the first goal. Keep the game going by incorporating new challenges throughout the story, along with different levels that players can unlock as they go along. Having a beginner's level along with more advanced levels also means more people can play your game. It won't exclude any players. You can create different levels for the same goal, or make levels get progressively harder throughout the story. For example, you can have a beginner's option and an advanced option for trying to slay the evil leprechaun. Or you can make the first step, like finding the leprechaun, easier, then make the next step, like getting inside his lair, a little more difficult, and so on. Lay out your video game with a storyboard. Before you jump into coding and development, you need to have a clearly defined plan and vision for how your game will run and what it will look like. Create a storyboard by sketching out the major scenes of your game in each frame, along with details on what will happen in that scene. Place the images in order of occurrence in the game. Include details like what actions the characters will take in each scene, what the background should look like, whether there will be any special effects or sounds, etc. For instance, using the leprechaun example, 1 frame might be searching the woods for the leprechaun's cave. The storyboard would have a description of the woods, what animals or elements the character might run into, and whether the character can run, jump, or even swing from the trees. The more in-depth your storyboard is, the easier the development stage will be, since you'll be more prepared. Download an easy-to-use program if you’re a beginner. You don't have to be able to code to create a video game. There are “drag and drop” programs available where you simply insert your storyline, characters, actions, rewards, etc., and the software writes the code for you. This allows your to focus on the storytelling and concept, rather than the technical details and coding. GameMaker Studio and Unity 3D are 2 of the most popular programs for video game development. Choose a free version of one of these programs if you're on a budget. Keep in mind that the free versions will have limited options and features. Learn how to code if you want a more custom or complex game. Coding allows you complete freedom as far as customization and unique features go. You can use online classes or tutorials to teach yourself the basics to start building your game. Some of the common programming languages used in designing games are JavaScript, HTML5, ActionScript 3, C++, or Python. After you master the basics, learn the application programming interface (API) for your coding language. This basically is a set of instructions for how your code will interact with other software or programs. Open-source game development programs also provide extra support and sample code for creating games. For example, if you want your character to climb the wall of the leprechaun's cave, you can find a pre-made coding sequence for a climbing motion, then tweak it to fit your game. Create a prototype of your game focusing on the core features. Think of this like a rough draft of your game. Don't stress over tiny details, like what color the earrings your character is wearing are. Instead, work on building the main components of the game, like what happens when a player catches the leprechaun or how many pots of gold they have to find to advance to the next level. Keep your prototype as simple as possible if you're a beginner. You can always build on it later. Be open to new ideas that come to you as you build your game and also be willing to let go of things you thought would work but don't. Playtest the game and make any final tweaks. Once you've built a prototype of your game, it's time to actually play it to see how it works. Go through each part and level thoroughly, checking all of the different features and player pathways. If something doesn't run smoothly or if you have ideas for improvement, jot them down so you can go back later and correct them. You can also have your friends and family to playtest the game. Ask them for honest feedback about their experience. Don't just test for functionality. Test for how fun the game is, too! If it's boring or slow, brainstorm ways to make it more exciting, like by adding more challenges or special effects. You can do as many rounds of playtesting as necessary until you're satisfied with your finished game. Come up with a concept for your game that’s simple yet addicting. The key to a successful mobile game is one that's easy to understand and play, yet interesting and challenging enough to keep the user coming back. Outline a basic idea or story, then brainstorm how to make it “never-ending,” like by adding different levels, challenges, and goals. For example, if your game is going to be shooting down stray meteorites, incorporate harder levels where the meteorites start falling faster, or set a goal for the player where they can unlock a new launcher if they shoot 15 meteorites in 5 seconds. Think about the games that are most popular or that you like the most when you're brainstorming. What do you like about them? How can you use the best aspects in your own game? Decide which platform you want to use based on features and budget. The 2 primary platforms are either iOS (which is what iPhones use) or Android. While similar in some ways, each platform differs in how much freedom you have as a developer along with how much money you'll spend or make. For instance, Android allows you more flexibility with custom functions and features because it's an open-source platform. iOS tends to be easier to develop apps on since its programming language (Swift) is less involved than Android's (Java). You'll have a better chance of making more money if you use iOS. The App Store generates almost double the revenue of Android's equivalent, which is Google Play. You can build for both iOS and Android, but it will be more expensive since each one has its own coding structure and requirements. If you want to use both platforms, it's best to start with just one since you have limited time and resources. Once you develop the game for that platform, you can convert it to be compatible with the other. Design your game using colorful graphics and mobile-specific features. Once you have your concept, figure out how you want it to look and run. Vibrant, bold graphics tend to look best on small smartphone or tablet screens. You'll also want to take advantage of all the fun functions of mobile devices, like tilting the phone to steer a car or swiping with your finger to swing a sword. Add sound effects to enhance the experience for the user. You can include anything from fun background music to the sound of a cheering crowd whenever the player scores a goal, for instance. You can design your graphics with software like Photoshop, or hire a graphic designer if you want more professional-looking images. Check your platform's design requirements first. You can find the list on either Google Play or the App Store. Build your app with a development program or open-source framework. Beginners can use a “drag and drop” program to create your game without actually having to code anything. And if you do know how to code, use open-source framework, like Phaser, which can provide support, plugins, and blueprints for building your game. One of the most popular game development programs is GameSalad, which lets you build fully functioning 2D games without writing a single line of code. While “drag and drop” programs are easy and convenient, they'll also limit how much customization and control you have. Consider outsourcing the development step to make your life easier if you're not an experienced coder or developer. It's worth the extra cost to have a professionally-designed product. Monetize your game if you want to generate revenue. The top way to make money from your app is by charging a fee to download it or a monthly subscription rate. But if you want to offer a free game, you can still monetize it by adding things like in-app purchases, premium content, or ads. You can try offering what's known as a “freemium” app. People can download your gaming app for free, but then pay for more advanced features or a better experience. In-app purchases might include buying coins so your character can have new clothes, for example, or paying to play the game without ads. There are different ad services you can choose from. For instance, a popular option for Android apps is Google AdMob. Be careful not to overdo it with ads. You don't want to frustrate players or disrupt their gaming experience. Submit your finished game to the platform’s reviewing body. If you developed your game for iOS, you'll use the App Store. If you used Android, you'll upload to Google Play. The companies will review your game and determine if it's acceptable to be included in their app stores. Getting your game approved by Google is much easier than by Apple. Once you submit to Google Play, your game could be live in just a few hours. To upload an app on Google Play, you have to sign up for a Google Play Developer account which costs $25. To submit an app to Apple, you need to enroll in the iOS Developer Program, which is $99 a year. If your game isn't accepted, make any necessary changes based on the feedback you receive, then re-submit as many times as you'd like. You can appeal a rejection to Apple's App Review Board if you feel it was unfair. Design a board game if you want old-fashioned fun. The sky's the limit when it comes to creating a board game. Consider how many players you want to have, what the objective and rules will be, and how players can win the game. And feel free to get creative with decorating the board and game pieces themselves. If you need some inspiration, incorporate elements from your favorite board games. For example, if you love Monopoly, include a buying and selling element in your own game. Use any materials you'd like to construct the physical game. The board could be made of cardboard, wood, or even fabric, for example. You can also repurpose an old board game. Cover the board with paper and decorate it yourself and use the pawns for your new game, too. Come up with a party game if you're hosting an event. Getting your guests engaged in a game is a great way to fill any potential downtime during a party. Think about the demographic of your guests. If they're a range of ages and interests, create a game that everyone can play and that doesn't require a specific skill or athletic ability, for instance. Match the game to the theme of the party. For example, if it's an undersea party, make a play on “pin the tail on the donkey” with “pin the fin on the mermaid” instead. If your guests enjoy alcoholic beverages, consider starting a drinking game. For instance, have everyone try to balance a spoon on their nose. Whenever your spoon drops, you have to take a drink. Invent a road trip game if you’re bored on a long car ride. Not only will a fun car game help pass the time on a 10-hour trip if you're the passenger, it will also help keep you awake if you're the driver. Come up with an activity that either doesn't use any props or that involves the sights and scenery you're passing, so even the driver can play along. For example, look for every letter in the alphabet on signs as you drive by. Start with the “A” you saw on the Taco Bell sign, then the “B” on “Exit 4B,” and so on. Avoid games where you have to write or read or that take up a lot of space. Those are difficult to play in the car. Use cards if you want to make a portable game you can play anywhere. Card games are a great, on-the-go alternative to bulky board games. Come up with one that just requires 1 deck of cards so you don't need to carry around any extra props. For instance, brainstorm a variation of a classic game like Go Fish or Solitaire. Try to keep the rules as simple as possible. When card games get too complicated or involved, they can be frustrating and not as fun. You can also create a game where you can play it by yourself with 1 deck, for instance, or add a second deck for multiple players. That way you can really play anytime, anywhere! | Decide what genre your game will be. Create a compelling storyline that has multiple paths players can take. Add increasing levels of difficulty to keep players engaged. Lay out your video game with a storyboard. Download an easy-to-use program if you’re a beginner. Learn how to code if you want a more custom or complex game. Create a prototype of your game focusing on the core features. Playtest the game and make any final tweaks. Come up with a concept for your game that’s simple yet addicting. Decide which platform you want to use based on features and budget. Design your game using colorful graphics and mobile-specific features. Build your app with a development program or open-source framework. Monetize your game if you want to generate revenue. Submit your finished game to the platform’s reviewing body. Design a board game if you want old-fashioned fun. Come up with a party game if you're hosting an event. Invent a road trip game if you’re bored on a long car ride. Use cards if you want to make a portable game you can play anywhere. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Be-Genuine | How to Be Genuine | It's important to be genuine so people will like you for who you really are. Be yourself and don't worry too much about what other people think of you. Hang around with people who encourage you to be yourself and who you feel comfortable around, instead of people who are obsessed with their image or being better than everyone else. It can sometimes be difficult, but try to avoid comparing yourself to other people, since everyone has their own journey and struggles. Make sure you're honest with yourself and with other people, so they'll get to know the real you. | Spend some time self-indulgently thinking about who you really are. Not the façade you put on before you walk into any given group of people, not even the image you give your family, or your closest friends. Get alone and meditate on you. Who are you when you're alone? If it sparks your interest, try meditating. It can reduce your stress levels to enable better mental clarity. This may enable you to see yourself in a clearer manner. Let go of what society says is acceptable. Everyday we see images of what is "okay." It changes constantly (which proves it doesn't really exist). To be you, you must give up trying to live up to some non-existent standard. There's no more being a prep or a jock or a hipster and there's just being. Labels are the way society defines us. There's no more carrying that Coach purse because it says "Coach" on it. You need a better reason than that! Throw away your aspirations of fitting into any select group, clique, or social class. If the genuine you is what they are looking for, they will come calling later, when you have established your true identity. Make a list of truths about yourself. Unfortunately, in today's world we're so bombarded with what society expects of us that sometimes we don't even know who we are. We spend years (sometimes decades, sometimes entire lifetimes) molding ourselves to fit someone else's idea of who we should be, burying who we really are under layers of fluff and masks. Take a minute to write down what actually feels like you. It can be things you do, things you are, or things you think -- it could be anything, so long as it's true. When you have a list of a dozen or so things (as simple as "I am happier in flip flops" or "I seek adventure above all else"), post it somewhere you'll run into it often. Then, when you go to make a comment or when you're reviewing your day, you can see if your behavior is in line with you who really are. Odds are you'll come up with some things you do/say/think that aren't true to you. Think about your own family history and culture. We may not always like where we come from, but there is no escaping the influence our history has on who and what we are. Many people spend a lot of time and effort escaping their past, such as changing the spelling of their names to sound more politically correct, or giving other people too much power to reshape them culturally. Where do you come from? After all, your parents shaped you greatly and your grandparents shaped them. Think about the following: Your upbringing. What do you remember most vividly about it? How was it different than most people's? Your location. How did that shape you? What hobbies and personality traits do you have because of it? Your likes and dislikes. How many of them are shared with your family? How many do you have because of your family? Fire your toxic friends. It's a natural human inclination to strive to be surrounded by people...even when those people drain us. But to really be genuine, to rediscover a you that is happy and natural, those people that leave you exhausted after interacting with them have to be cut out. That's all there is to it. Give yourself thirty seconds to think about it and you'll know exactly who they are. There are people in the world that just aren't good for us. It's hard to cut them out, especially when we feel like we're being cruel. But it's important not to view this behavior as selfish. Sure, it's in your best interest -- but if you don't act in your best interest, no one will. You're not being selfish, you're being logical. Forget all the hyped up latest trends unless they fit the genuine you. They last a matter of months -- why would you want to cycle through identities that quickly? Look at your own style and preferences. If a T-shirt and jeans are you, fanfrickin'tastic. Quit the games now. It's easy to think we're honest and sincere -- but in order to function tactfully and appropriately with others, it seems like we've inserted mind games into everyday interactions. That little white lie we tell Gina about how people actually like her, how we hint at asking for something from a friend because we think it's bad manners to ask for too many favors, etc. We're not being us -- we're being who people think we should be. Gotta cut that out. The two main sticklers are people-pleasing and avoidance. If you find yourself sacrificing your happiness to please others, that first one describes you. And if you avoid saying or doing things simply because they'd be frowned upon or they might be potentially embarrassing, that's the second. Those little voices inside our heads stopping us aren't us -- they're a part of us that's very much so taught and inorganic. Decide what it means to be "genuine. " This may not be as easy as it seems, considering the immense influence the media has on us all. Sure, we are all unique individuals, but few, if any, people have absolute resistance to the persuasive influence of advertisers, the media, and peer pressure to conform. Because it's so difficult, decide what genuine means to you. The beauty of it is that you get to choose. Does being genuine mean pursuing your own fashion? Does it mean saying whatever crosses your mind? Does it mean showing your emotions, whatever they are? Does it mean ignoring what's popular? There are many takes on this concept -- what speaks to you? Spend time with those who charge you up. If you've gotten rid of your toxic friends (we all have 'em), this shouldn't be too hard. Who do you crave hanging out with? Who always makes you feel good about yourself? And then think about this: who is the person you are afterward? We all have versions of ourselves. Some are "worse" than others, as they can't all be the same. The idea here is to bring out the best you and to make that "best you" a constant. And the best you is naturally genuine, obviously. Wake up! You know the phrase "stop and smell the roses?" Kinda like that. Tons of us go around in a technology-induced stupor, barely doing the thing we call living. We're unaware of how we come off, how we actually feel, how we influence others, etc. So wake up! Pay attention the world around you. Stop right now and look around your environment. Note 4 things you didn't notice before. Crazy how your mind just sifts out stimuli, huh? There's so much going on in our heads sometimes it's hard to realize we're playing those games we talked about, especially when we've been playing them since we were babies. If it would help, start watching other people. How are they placating others? How do they phrase things? How do they position their bodies? Once you notice other people not saying and doing what they mean/want, you can notice similar patterns in yourself, waking yourself up. Get vulnerable. When you abandon the mind games and socially acceptable behavior, you're bound to feel vulnerable. You'll no longer be employing those same defense mechanisms that kept you so comfortable before. Scary stuff, man. But when you feel vulnerable, know that it's a good thing and that it will go away. You just gotta get used to being honest and showing how you really feel. There is a time and a place for everything. If you're sitting in chemistry class and you get a text from your mom yelling at you and you feel like crying, it's definitely best to hold back the tears and finish the test. Know your priorities here. If Jenn said something that upset you, don't start chewing her out if you're upset. Being vulnerable doesn't mean jumping to conclusions! It's still important to employ a level of rationality. Be honest. This one's a tough one. Obviously to be genuine you have to be honest, but how do you stay honest without causing others pain? For example, doctors are instructed not to berate obese patients for their weight, and take a more respectful approach to health. You can strike a balance of honesty and compassion. Let's take the classic example of, " Do I look fat in this ?" Instead of outright saying, "Yep. You do," try something like, "I don't like the way it tugs at your waist." You're still being honest (it's not a good look), but you're placing the focus on the outfit instead of on the person. If you're going to criticize someone's actions, compliment them also, so they don't think you're hating on them personally. For example, "I'm surprised that a thoughtful and educated person like you would say something so antagonistic towards Muslims." Know your impact. It's easy to walk around the world not realizing how even the tiniest mood we have can have repercussions. A friend is going through a hard time when we're super busy and we sort of give them the brush-off. We flirt with someone in front of a person who has a crush on us. To the same token, your genuineness will be impactful on those around you. If you use your powers for good, you can start a positive ripple effect all over the place. You know that person who walks into the room and it lights up? How their passion and being just seem contagious? That's being genuine. That's 100% them. That stuff is powerful. Your impact can be the same. Look how you want to look. Let's set up the scene: The apocalypse has happened. Everyone you know is gone. You take refuge in a city that has been abandoned, able to do whatever you please. Literally every door is open to you. Now, where do you do your shopping? What do you look like when you look in the mirror? That's the real you (minus the angst and the gun-wielding). Some people take pride in thinking they're pretty. They like make-up, they like doing their hair, they like nice clothes. That's fine. Others don't. That's also fine. If you want to wear overalls and not comb your hair, more power to you. If you want to carry that Coach purse and buy expensive make-up, more power to you. Just make sure you're doing it for yourself. Get real. So many of us are busy self-presenting—conveying the image we want to convey instead of who we actually are. We make sure we come off as macho or ladylike or intellectual or anti-conformist. Drop it! Put your true self out there. If you feel something, feel it. Most of us are guilty of trying to look "cool." That's not genuine. If you spent the afternoon playing bridge with Grandma, talk about how you spent the afternoon playing bridge with Grandma. You've nothing to hide. That's just exhausting work anyway. Connect with one person at a time. When you're speaking in front of a large group of people, it's tempting to scan the audience, glazing over the entire surface. And lots do. But a better way is to make eye contact with one person at a time, drawing them in fully. Imagine Barack Obama locking eyes with you! Dang. He sees you. He's real. Instead of robotically going over the motions, he's actually making direct contact. The same sentiment should be applied to your life. The next time you're in a group of people, concentrate on one at a time. You can't fully appreciate a person and extend your true self when you're trying to accommodate more than one person. Not only will you be able to be genuine, but that other person will be left spellbound by your social skills. Work on becoming a good listener and validating people's feelings. These skills can help you connect with people in a more genuine way. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Flattering, gossiping, or otherwise saying something just to fit in is as disingenuous as it gets. We're all guilty of this at one time or another, even if we have good intentions (we don't want to embarrass ourselves, etc.). The only thing you can do is be aware of your desires and behaviors and address them as honestly as you possibly can. There are going to be haters. Some people will be put off by your honesty and your tell-it-like-it-is mentality. As long as you're not cruel about it, it's their beef to have. Most people, hopefully, will appreciate your candor. Few people are ballsy enough to get real. Smile when the smile is natural. Don't paste on a camouflage smile to fit a situation. The same goes for the whole range of emotions; if you are going to show the world the real you, the world should see all of it. That way, when you do, it'll matter that much more. The same broad sentiment applies to activities. If you don't want to do it, don't do it! If you don't feel like drinking, don't drink. If you don't want to spend a night in the club, don't. If you'd rather do something the group isn't feeling, so be it. There are better ways to spend your time, be it alone or with a different group of friends. Lose the power pose. It's tempting, in talking to others, to assert our power, be it verbally or through our body language. We square our shoulders, close off our bodies, and make people come to us. Drop the act. That's another one of those games. There can't be any concern for our image or our pride when we're aiming to be genuine. When you meet someone, be warm. They're not a threat to you unless they have a gun pointed at your head. And if that's the case, square shoulders won't get you anywhere. Displaying confidence is a good thing. However, there's a line between confidence that's natural and confidence that's a display. If you feel completely relaxed, your confidence is right where it should be. Don't make it a contest. There's no need to bust out the tape measure when you're talking to someone. When someone starts dropping names, don't bite. This is a game they're playing that's disingenuous and a total indicator of their low self-worth. Shame. Resist the urge to one up them with your story on how you chilled with Snoop Lion at the bus stop. Unfortunately, plenty of us are guilty of trying to make ourselves look good when we meet people. We absolutely bomb by coming off as full of ourselves or trying too hard or being a bit of a braggart by displaying our achievements. That's not exactly how interaction works. The next time someone says, "Yeah, I just got a sweet promotion," just congratulate them and move on. That's all you need do. Don't force it. Sometimes there are people that we just don't jive with. That we're incapable of really being genuine with because interacting with them just seems...fake. If you run into this situation, don't force it. That person may not be meant to be in your life right now, and that's fine. Maybe later, maybe never, but definitely not right now. Give genuine compliments. If you were to die tomorrow, odds are you'd have some sort of regret that you didn't tell someone how much you cared about them. It'd be a shame to live like that, so lose the restraint! Let people know how much you appreciate them. You'll get it back in return too! If you find yourself giving out fake compliments to get conversation going or asking for things for a different purpose than actually needing those things, those are clues that your behavior isn't genuine. Give it time. It's possible you may need to get a feel for the other person first. Reflect on you. Now that you've spent some time rewiring your actions with people and the world at large, take a moment to reflect on it. What do you struggle with? What can you see is already changing? Think about a couple times you were genuine today and a couple of times you could've improved. What can you aim for tomorrow? If it would help, make a list of people you consider genuine. Sometimes it's hard to see our behavior for what it actually is—it's a lot easier to emulate someone else! Look in the mirror at the beginning of every day. Consider that this is what every one who looks at you will see, then resolve to let them see you as you really are. When you get it, it'll be totally freeing and feel like you're home. Recognize when you need to be more tactful. Sometimes, bluntness can hurt. Recognize that some people are a little more fragile than others, so handle their feelings with care. Make it clear that even if they did something wrong, you still appreciate them and think they're great. When in doubt, err on the side of kindness. Kind words can be genuine. For example, "Yeah, I'm disappointed that our plans fell through, because I was looking forward to them. But I'm not mad at you, and I hope we can still enjoy our evening together." | Spend some time self-indulgently thinking about who you really are. Let go of what society says is acceptable. Make a list of truths about yourself. Think about your own family history and culture. Fire your toxic friends. Quit the games now. Decide what it means to be "genuine. Spend time with those who charge you up. Wake up! Get vulnerable. Be honest. Know your impact. Look how you want to look. Get real. Connect with one person at a time. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Smile when the smile is natural. Lose the power pose. Don't make it a contest. Don't force it. Give genuine compliments. Reflect on you. Recognize when you need to be more tactful. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Save-a-Newborn-Puppy-with-a-Cleft-Palate | How to Save a Newborn Puppy with a Cleft Palate | To save a newborn puppy with a cleft palate, examine the puppy for other defects and consider separating it from the rest of the litter if it seems underdeveloped or if the mother rejects it. Next, create a 24-hour care schedule that includes tube feedings every 2-3 hours. Be sure to burp the puppy after each feeding and massage it to help it eliminate. Finally, have the puppy examined by a vet to discuss treatment and surgery options. | Identify the palate early. As soon as the puppies are born, rub a finger on the top of their mouths. If you feel an indentation in their upper palate, it may be a cleft palate. Frequent sneezing and a “runny” nose after nursing may also indicate a cleft palate. If you notice that puppies are not suckling or if they are unable to eat, it is most likely a cleft palate. Puppies with cleft palates often will latch to their mother's nipple, but they will be unable to suckle. Go to the vet. The vet will be able to determine how severe the palate is and whether it is a hard or soft palate cleft. The vet can also provide you with supplies for tube feeding the puppy. Puppies with cleft palates often have other defects as well. Make sure the vet does a full examination to catch any other potentially problematic issues. Determine if the puppy needs to be separated from their litter. If the puppy is underdeveloped in other ways, they may be at risk if left with the litter. In some cases, you may be able to let the puppy remain with the litter. This is ideal, because puppies cannot regulate their own temperature and the heat from the mother dog keeps them warm. You might separate them if: The puppy is too small and you're worried they will be crushed by the other puppies The mother dog rejects the puppy and refuses to feed or warm them. Create a 24-hour care schedule. Puppies with cleft palates require around-the-clock care if they are to survive. This is because the puppies need to be fed by hand every two to three hours (including nighttime). If you have to separate the puppy from its litter, you will also have to keep the puppy warm and help them eliminate by hand. Since cleft palate surgeries typically occur around the three month mark, you will need to continue your care schedule around the clock until the surgery occurs. Watch for signs of pneumonia. Depending on the severity of the cleft palate, the puppy may be at risk for pneumonia or other respiratory diseases. These may be caused by the accidental inhalation of milk into their nose or lungs. You can prevent this by tube feeding the puppy instead of nursing or bottle feeding the puppy. Take the puppy to the vet immediately if you notice symptoms such as: Sneezing Coughing Nasal congestion and runny nose Labored breathing Weigh the puppy. How much you feed the puppy will depend on how much they weigh. If you are using a brand of puppy milk replacer, they may have directions on the side of the box. Otherwise, you can follow these general guidelines: If they are under eight ounces of weight, you should feed them one cc of milk per ounce of weight. If they are between 8 and 24 ounces, you should feed them one and a half cc of milk per ounce of weight. If they are over 28 ounces, you should feed them one ounce of milk per pound of weight. Prepare the puppy milk substitute. You can buy powdered or premade puppy milk replacer at a pet store, vet's office, or online. You can also make your own. Prepare the milk substitute according to its directions, and place it in the microwave to heat it up for 3 to 5 seconds. Make sure that the milk is warm, but not hot, before feeding the puppy. You can make homemade puppy milk substitute by mixing 10 ounces of goats milk, one tablespoon light corn syrup, one cup of plain white whole milk yogurt, and one egg yolk. Always use whole (not low-fat) dairy products. Just Born, Nurturall, and Esbilac are all commercial brands of puppy milk. You can buy these in pre-prepared cans or in powder form. If you cannot get puppy milk replacer or make a homemade substitute in the first 24 hours, you can use pedialyte instead. This is not a long term solution, however. Fill the syringe. In general, you should use a 12 cc feeding syringe (or a syringe without the needle). Using the measurements on the side, fill it with the proper amount of milk substitute based on the puppy's weight. Attach a feeding tube to the syringe. This is a long tube that will be placed down the puppy's esophagus. Once you have attached it, draw a little formula through the tube until a drop or two comes out the other side. Place this tube in the puppy's mouth. They may suck on the end of the tube, helping you slowly guide the tube to the back of their throat. If you have never tube fed a puppy before, ask your vet to show you how to properly do this part. Your vet may be able to provide you with a feeding tube, and they can mark on the tube exactly how far the tube should go. Press down on the syringe slowly. Lay the puppy on your lap with one hand behind the puppy's head. Hold the syringe vertical above the puppy's head, and slowly press down on the plunger. If you go too quickly, the milk might go up into their nose or they might get air in their stomach. If you notice milk dribbling out of their nose or mouth, stop. Once you are done, pinch the end of the tube, and quickly remove it from the puppy's mouth. Burp the puppy. Hold the puppy up against your shoulder, with their belly against your shoulder and their head on your shoulder. Gently pat their back until they burp. This will help release any air that accidentally got in their stomachs during tube feeding. Massage the puppy to help them eliminate. Typically, the mother licks the puppy to help the puppy relieve themselves before or after nursing. In the mother's place, you will have to do this instead. Take a warm, damp washcloth, cottonball or tissue. Gently rub around the puppy's genitals and anus until they urinate and defecate. If you cannot get the puppy to eliminate after nursing, you might try doing this beforehand. Repeat every two to four hours. Newborns may need to be fed every two hours for the first week or two. After that, you can start feeding them every three to four hours. By the time they're 12 ounces, you can start feeding them every five hours. Find an experienced animal hospital. Not all vets perform cleft palate surgery. If yours does not, find a local animal hospital that not only performs these surgeries but has a high success rate. Some dogs might require multiple surgeries, but with an experienced surgeon, this chance decreases. Ask your vet for a referral. They will probably know of an animal hospital that can help. Cleft palate surgeries are very difficult on young animals, and your vet will probably want to wait until they are three to four months old. Some surgeries may not take place until the puppy is eight or nine months old. Monitor the cleft palate. Some cleft palates may close on their own. If your vet advises you to wait until the puppy is older, you should check the palate frequently to see how it is healing. If you think that the palate is growing wider, you should call the vet to consider your options. Protect their mouths after surgery. Your puppy will likely be required to wear an Elizabethan collar for one or two weeks after the surgery. This is to protect their mouths. In addition, you should avoid giving them toys, hard foods, treats, or other objects that they will put into their mouth. If you notice the puppy playing with their sutures or chewing on something they shouldn't, try to distract them. Call their name, clap your hands, or pick them up and remove them from that spot. This can help prevent a second surgery. Feed them soft foods. To protect their sutures, you will not be able to feed them hard kibble, treats, or other foods for at least two weeks. Do not feed them any food that they have to chew. Your vet will have specific instructions for their post-surgery diet. If they have a soft palate cleft, you can feed them canned food for two weeks. If they have a hard palate cleft, you will need to blend their food. You will need to feed them by hand or by feeding tube. | Identify the palate early. Go to the vet. Determine if the puppy needs to be separated from their litter. Create a 24-hour care schedule. Watch for signs of pneumonia. Weigh the puppy. Prepare the puppy milk substitute. Fill the syringe. Attach a feeding tube to the syringe. Press down on the syringe slowly. Burp the puppy. Massage the puppy to help them eliminate. Repeat every two to four hours. Find an experienced animal hospital. Monitor the cleft palate. Protect their mouths after surgery. Feed them soft foods. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Rock-Candy | How to Make Rock Candy | To make rock candy, first wet a wooden skewer and roll it in granulated sugar. Set the skewer aside to dry. Then, bring 1 cup (240 mL) of water to a boil over medium heat. Gradually stir in 2 cups of granulated sugar until all of the sugar dissolves, then remove the pan from the heat. Add 1 tablespoon (15 mL) of food coloring, as well as ½ teaspoon (2 ½ mL) of candy oil, also know as flavoring oil. Let the mixture cool for 10 minutes, then pour it into a clean jar. Now, pinch a clothespin over the end of the sugar-coated skewer, and insert the skewer into the jar so the clothespin is resting across the top. Cover the top of the jar loosely with plastic wrap, and set it aside for 3 to 5 days. Once the rock candy has reached the size you want, remove it from the jar and place it in a new, empty jar to dry. | Heat 2 cups (473 ml) water in a microwave or a pot, bringing it to a boil. Get an adult to help you if you're not allowed to use the stove--boiling water can be extremely dangerous if you spill it on yourself. If you don't have access to a stove, you can use a microwave instead. Combine the sugar and water in a microwave-safe glass and heat it for two minutes on high. Stir the sugar water and microwave for another 2 minutes. Stir the mixture a third time and the sugar should dissolve almost entirely into the water. Use purified water if possible. The sugar can attach to impurities in the tap water and create a crust that will prevent water from evaporating and prevent the crystals from growing on your string instead. Make sure you handle the pot or microwave-safe glass with hot pads or oven mitts so you don't burn yourself. Stir in the 4 cups (946 g) of sugar in 1/2 cup (118 g) increments. Stir with a spoon after each addition until the sugar is dissolved into the water. As the water becomes more saturated with sugar, it will take longer for it to dissolve in the water. It may take as long as two minutes for the sugar to dissolve. Stir the solution until the water is clear. If the solution is cloudy or you find the sugar stops dissolving, turn the heat up so the water reaches a vigorous boil. Hot water has a higher saturation point than cool water, so turning up the heat should allow you to mix in the rest of the sugar. Remove the solution from the heat and allow it to cool for 15-20 minutes. You don't want any undissolved sugar to remain on the bottom of the pot. If undissolved sugar ends up in the jar or glass where you grow the rock candy, crystals will attach to the undissolved sugar and not to your string or stick. If you have undissolved sugar that didn't mix with the boiling water, you may want to pour the solution through a strainer and only retain the liquid. The solution you have made is a super-saturated solution, meaning the water has absorbed more sugar than it would have absorbed at room temperature. As the solution cools, the water saturation point of the water will become lower, and it will no longer be able to hold the amount of sugar. The dissolved sugar will be unable to stay in liquid form, and will instead crystallize on the string or stick you provide. Add food coloring and/or flavoring if you don't want plain rock candy. Try to coordinate the color to the flavor--blue with blueberry, red with strawberry, purple with grape--so the flavor is clear. Make sure you stir the solution thoroughly so the flavor and color is evenly distributed. You only need a few drops of flavoring, but try to make the solution dark with color for the best results. Try mixing in drink mix, like Kool-Aid, for color and flavor. Try adding a splash of fruit juice for lemon, lime, orange, or other fruity flavored candy. Try different extracts like peppermint, strawberry, vanilla, or even banana. Pour the solution into a large glass or jar where you plan to grow your rock candy crystals. The glass or jar should be tall and cylindrical and made of glass--plastic may melt when you pour in the hot solution. Fill the glass almost to the top. Make sure the glass is clean and contains no dust particles. Even dust can give the sugar crystals something to cling to, and you only want them to settle and grow on your string or stick. Cover the glass with a piece of wax or parchment paper to prevent dust from settling on the top of the solution. This recipe, since it uses only one large jar of glass, yields one candy. If you want to make multiple small candies or do not have a large jar, you can divide the solution into smaller jars. The yield would then be as many as your jars. Tie one end of a string around the middle of a pencil and tie a weight (such as a paperclip) to the other end. The paperclip will act as a weight and keep your string hanging straight down so it doesn't touch the sides. The string should be about 2/3 as long as the glass is deep--it should not be long enough that the weight will touch the bottom of the glass. This will give your crystals plenty of space to grow. Touching or hanging too close to the bottom or sides of the glass could make your crystals smaller or misshapen. Use a string made from natural fiber, like twine or cotton. Fishing twine or nylon string are too smooth and it will be difficult for the sugar crystals to find crevices to cling to and grow. You can also use a washer or screw to weight the string, or even another piece of rock candy, which may help your crystals grow faster. The pencil should be long enough that it can rest on the top of the glass without falling in. You can also use a butter knife, skewer, or popsicle stick instead. A butter knife or popsicle stick may be more stable, as they can lay flat on top of the glass and won't roll. Dip the string in the glass of sugar/water solution, remove it, and lay on a piece of wax paper to dry. Lay the string out straight, since it will become stiff as it dries. As the water evaporates, you will see a few crystals form on the string. These are seed crystals and they will help larger crystals grow around these points. You must make sure the string is completely dry before you proceed to the next step and be very careful not to knock off any of the seed crystals when you place the string in the solution. You can skip this step or try to speed it along by wetting the string and rolling it in granulated sugar (just make sure the string is completely dry before you put it in the glass and the sugar isn't falling off), but making seed crystals will make your rock candy grow faster and increase your chances of success in growing crystals. Lower the string into the glass of sugar/water solution, resting the pencil on the top of the glass. The string should hang straight down and never come in contact with the bottom or sides of the glass. Cover the solution with a paper towel. You don't want to seal the glass with something that will keep the air out, like plastic wrap, as evaporation is an essential part of this process. As the water evaporates, the remaining solution becomes more saturated with sugar, and the water must force the sugar out. The sugar molecules will collect on the string, forming your rock candy crystals. Tape the pencil to the jar to keep it from rolling or moving while your crystals form. Place the glass somewhere safe, where it will remain undisturbed. For the biggest crystals, look for a cool, dark space, where the water will evaporate slowly, giving the crystals lots of time to grow. If you want to grow crystals quickly, but don't care if they get big, put the glass in a sunny spot so that the water evaporates quickly. Vibrations can negatively affect your crystal growth. Keep your glass off the ground (and away form the vibrations of people walking on the floor) and away from sources of music or noise, like a stereo or television. Wait one week for crystals to form. Don't touch or tap the glass, or you may disturb the crystal growth and even cause some to fall off the string. After a week you should see big, smooth crystals on the string. Carefully remove the string from the solution and lay it on wax paper to dry. Snip the paperclip off with scissors. If the rock candy is stuck to the glass, run some hot water on the bottom of the glass. This should loosen the sugar enough so that you can pull your candy out without damaging it. Wet a skewer or popsicle stick with water and roll it in granulated sugar. The granulated sugar will become seed crystals, which give the dissolved sugar something to cling to and a point at which to start crystallizing. The seed crystals make it easier for the rock candy to grow and may speed up the process by giving crystallizing sugar an easy target for attachment. Allow the skewers to dry completely before proceeding to the next step. If the sugar isn't firmly stuck to the wood, it may fall off in the glass and the crystallization will occur on the sugar on the bottom of the glass and not on your skewer. Hold the skewer in the middle of the glass so that it is not touching the sides and the tip does not touch the bottom of the glass. If the skewer touches the glass, it may impede the crystal growth, or your stick of rock candy may get stuck to the bottom or sides. Try to keep the tip of the skewer about 1 inch (2.5 cm) from the bottom of the glass. Pinch the dry end of the skewer with the clothespin and rest the clothespin across the top of the glass. The skewer should be pinched in the middle of the clothespin, as close to the spring as possible. You can use an extra large clothes pin if the glass has a wide mouth. Your skewer should be held securely by the clothespin and still be in the very center of the glass. Cover the glass with a paper towel. You can tear a little hole for the skewer to poke through the towel. Place the glass somewhere safe, where it will remain undisturbed. Music, television, or lots of activity can cause vibrations that may disturb your crystals or cause them to fall off the stick. For the best growth, store the glass in a cool or room-temperature spot away from noise and lots of foot traffic. Wait one to two weeks for your rock candy to be ready. Resist the urge to touch or tap the glass, as this could knock your crystals off the stick. When you are happy with the amount of crystals (or they just don't seem to be growing any bigger), carefully remove the skewer and rest it on wax paper to dry. If there is a crust on top of the surface of the water, use a butter knife to gently break through the crystals, avoiding the crystals near your skewer. If the rock candy is stuck to the glass, run some hot water on the bottom of the glass. This should loosen the sugar enough so that you can pull your candy out safely without damaging it. Finished. | Heat 2 cups (473 ml) water in a microwave or a pot, bringing it to a boil. Stir in the 4 cups (946 g) of sugar in 1/2 cup (118 g) increments. Remove the solution from the heat and allow it to cool for 15-20 minutes. Add food coloring and/or flavoring if you don't want plain rock candy. Pour the solution into a large glass or jar where you plan to grow your rock candy crystals. Tie one end of a string around the middle of a pencil and tie a weight (such as a paperclip) to the other end. Dip the string in the glass of sugar/water solution, remove it, and lay on a piece of wax paper to dry. Lower the string into the glass of sugar/water solution, resting the pencil on the top of the glass. Place the glass somewhere safe, where it will remain undisturbed. Wait one week for crystals to form. Carefully remove the string from the solution and lay it on wax paper to dry. Wet a skewer or popsicle stick with water and roll it in granulated sugar. Hold the skewer in the middle of the glass so that it is not touching the sides and the tip does not touch the bottom of the glass. Pinch the dry end of the skewer with the clothespin and rest the clothespin across the top of the glass. Place the glass somewhere safe, where it will remain undisturbed. Wait one to two weeks for your rock candy to be ready. Finished. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Apply-for-Global-Entry | How to Apply for Global Entry | To apply for Global Entry, you'll need a passport and valid ID, a clean criminal record, and no outstanding warrants in your name. If you meet these requirements, first sign up for an account with login.gov using your name, address, birthday, and Social Security number. After you sign up, submit an application on the Department of Homeland Security website and pay the $100 application fee. Once you've received your approval, you have 30 days to sign up for your interview. | Apply only if you haven’t been convicted of a criminal offense. Individuals who have been convicted of a criminal offense are not eligible for the Global Entry program. Similarly, people who have violated customs or immigrations laws in any country are disqualified. Make sure that your criminal history is clear before applying. Make sure that there are no outstanding warrants in your name. Individuals with outstanding warrants, or who are currently the subject of a criminal investigation, can't apply for Global Entry. If you suspect that a search or arrest warrant may be out in your name, visit your local courthouse and inquire about it at the clerk's desk. The clerk will provide you with the information. You will not be detained or arrested if there is an active warrant in your name. If you have a lawyer, they can also look into this information for you. Obtain a passport and a valid ID card. Make sure that you have all the documents you need before starting your Global Entry application. You must have a valid, up-to-date passport and a valid I.D. card, such as a driver's license. If you are a lawful permanent resident of the U.S., make sure that you have your updated permanent resident card. If you are missing a required document, renew or replace it before starting your application. Sign up at https://login.gov. Before applying for Global Entry, you must first create an account at login.gov, a shared authentication program that provides U.S. citizens with online access to federal services. Apply for an account with the higher level of security by providing your full name, address, date of birth, and Social Security number. The lower security account requires only your email address, password and a phone number, but it provides access to fewer government services. Login to your login.gov account to start the application. Once you are signed into your login.gov account, access the Department of Homeland Security's website at https://ttp.cbp.dhs.gov/. Click on the "Get started" link. Consent to the terms and conditions to proceed. This step previously required applicants to create a Global Online Enrollment System (GOES) account. Fill out the application carefully. It is important to take your time when filling out your Global Entry application. Any false or incomplete information may lead to your ineligibility in the program. Double check each line before transmitting the application. Pay the $100 fee with a credit card or electronic bank transfer. A non-refundable fee of $100 is required when applying for Global Entry. You must pay this fee when you submit your application in order for it to be reviewed and considered. A secure payment can be completed immediately through the website by way of a credit card payment or electronic bank transfer. Wait for conditional approval by mail or email. There is no standard timeline for the approval of a Global Entry application. If your application is conditionally approved, a notice will be sent to you, prompting you to schedule an interview for the next leg of the process. Be patient during this waiting period as there is no way to trace your application or check up on its status. Schedule the interview within 30 days of your conditional approval. Set up your Global Entry interview by logging into your login.gov account. Click on the "schedule interview" button and choose the Trusted Traveler Enrollment Center located closest to you. Note the time of the interview slot you are assigned, and reschedule it though the same screen if necessary. Most Trusted Traveler Enrollment Centers are located in airports. You must schedule the interview within 30 days of the date on your approval letter. The actual interview can take place later. Bring all the required documents to your interview. On the day of your interview, bring your passport or permanent resident card as well as another form of government I.D., like a driver's license. Bring a proof of your current residence, such as a heating bill with your name and address on it. You should also bring a printed copy of your approval letter. Prepare for typical Global Entry interview questions. Be truthful and serious when answering questions during your interview, and avoid jokes or sarcasm. For instance, answer a question like, "Why do you want to join this program?" by saying that you want to have faster trips through airport security. A typical interview may also include questions like: "What is your profession?" "Who is your employer?" "Have you ever encountered a problem at customs or border patrol?" "Have you ever been arrested?" Be prepared for a photo. If your application is approved on the spot, your photo will be taken for your Global Entry I.D. card. Keep this in mind when you get ready for your interview if you want to style your hair, clothing, or makeup a certain way. Avoid wearing a hat for your I.D. picture. | Apply only if you haven’t been convicted of a criminal offense. Make sure that there are no outstanding warrants in your name. Obtain a passport and a valid ID card. Sign up at https://login.gov. Login to your login.gov account to start the application. Fill out the application carefully. Pay the $100 fee with a credit card or electronic bank transfer. Wait for conditional approval by mail or email. Schedule the interview within 30 days of your conditional approval. Bring all the required documents to your interview. Prepare for typical Global Entry interview questions. Be prepared for a photo. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Annoy-Argumentative-People | How to Annoy Argumentative People | One of the easiest ways to annoy an argumentative person is to refuse to argue back. For example, if they try to push their point of view on you, say something like, “I understand why you would think that, but I don't really see it that way.” If they raise their voice, keep yourself calm and quiet to show them that you won't let your emotions get the better of you. Alternatively, if you want to really annoy the person, demand proof for any argument they make. Hopefully they'll get annoyed and give up the fight! If you want to show them how petty they are, try pointing out every time they use bad grammar until they give up arguing. | Don't argue. It can seem difficult to avoid being drawn into a debate. When faced with a very argumentative person, it is important to remind yourself that your antagonist does not likely want to hear your opinion. Nothing you say will be convincing enough to settle the argument, and an argumentative person will likely not admit it even if they are wrong. Save yourself a headache and just say you're not going to debate the topic. Avoid hot topics. When talking to an argumentative person, it's best to keep the conversation as trivial as possible. If a topic comes up that often causes disagreements or that many people debate, like gun control or abortion, say that you do not want to talk about it or that topic doesn't interest you. Change the subject. If you sense an argument coming, instead of disagreeing try to steer the conversation in a different direction. Stay calm. Don't let yourself get riled up. Letting an argumentative person see that the argument is getting your emotions going will likely give him the sense of victory or superiority he secretly craves and urge him to keep arguing. If you appear to be unaffected by the disagreement, the other person will feel unsatisfied with the results. Eventually he may even give up arguing with you and seek out a more excitable target. Keep your voice quiet. When one person raises their voice, the other feels compelled to be louder. Speaking quietly may even make you seem wiser, which will annoy your opponent. Look bored. Check your watch or the messages on your phone. Let him know you have more important things to do and excuse yourself. Disputes give argumentative people a sense of superiority. By displaying your lack of interest in discussing the topic you will seem superior yourself. Agree without agreeing. Say something like, "You're probably right, but I like my way." Once you have done this there is nothing left to argue about. You can also nod your head without agreeing. Let him state his opinion and then move the conversation onward as though an agreement was made. Make noises of agreement without agreeing. This helps to slow down his statements and keep the conversation low-key. Tell him he is wrong. Don't back this up with any facts that can be debated. Just tell him he is wrong and refuse to provide any further explanation. Nothing will anger an argumentative person more than hearing they are wrong, especially if they are right. Demand proof. Even if the other person's argument seems to be valid, demand proof for any claims that they make. Refuse to debate the issue further until he proves his claim to you. Try to create as much legwork as possible for your antagonist. Make it too exhausting and time consuming to continue to have an argument with you. Point out bad grammar. If your opponent happens to use words incorrectly while arguing, be sure to stop him and point it out. This will not only disrupt his momentum while speaking, but make him feel intellectually inferior as well. The more nitpicky and irrelevant your "corrections" are, the better. You know, they send you a three-paragraph argument and you answer with "You're" when they use "Your". Patronize him. Be as condescending as possible to make yourself seem superior. For example, you can offer to use smaller words so he can understand you better. Roll your eyes. Look up and to one side and slowly move your eyes until you see the opposite side of the room. It helps to shake your head slightly while rolling the eyes. This expression will show that you find your opponent ridiculous and stupid. Cite ridiculous, irrelevant sources. Cite movies, television shows, or other completely unrelated figures as authoritative voices. Quoting song lyrics also works great. This method is very difficult to combat as he will first have to figure out whether you are serious or not before he can come up with a response. For example, if someone is trying to start an argument of American foreign policy, a possible response could be, "Well, as Billy Joel said, 'We didn't start the fire.'" Point out pettiness. If the argument is over something that is not important, be sure to point out that your antagonist is blowing it out of proportion due to their mean nature. Argumentative people like to act as though every argument is important because it is really just about being right. If you show your opponent how their arguing can be viewed as a fault in their character, it may make them more reluctant to engage you further. Make it personal. Forget whatever topic the argument might be about and focus on becoming insulting and rude. For example, if you begin to lose a debate about poverty you could say, "You should spend less time worrying about poverty and more time figuring out a new hair style." This kind of attack does nothing for winning the actual argument , but hurling insults can often quiet down and humiliate aggressive opponent. Of course, it could also end up turning into a physical fight, so watch out. Stay calm. Argumentative people will often argue out of a desire to see an emotional response from their opponent. Don't show if the interaction is making you upset or angry. Smile. Show your antagonist you aren't going to let an argument bring you down. Sometimes that's all an angry, argumentative person is looking to do. Ask questions. Instead of trying to convince an argumentative person to see things your way, ask them questions to explain their viewpoint. Often this can help you get to root of the argument. For example you can ask "What is your reasoning behind that idea?" Aside from not having to justify your own position to your opponent, you are allowing them an opportunity to vent and feel their voice is heard. Many times this will be enough to calm an argumentative person, even if it doesn't resolve the disagreement. Know when to walk away. If you feel a situation is not going to be resolved in a positive manner, just step away from it. You can always pick up the topic again at a later time when you feel it can be discussed in a reasonable manner. | Don't argue. Avoid hot topics. Stay calm. Look bored. Agree without agreeing. Tell him he is wrong. Demand proof. Point out bad grammar. Patronize him. Cite ridiculous, irrelevant sources. Point out pettiness. Make it personal. Stay calm. Ask questions. Know when to walk away. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Cornbread | How to Make Cornbread | To make cornbread, start by mixing 1 cup of cornmeal, 3/4 cups of flour, 1 tablespoon of sugar, 1.5 teaspoons of baking powder, and 1/2 teaspoon of baking soda in a bowl. Melt 6 tablespoons of butter, then add them to a bowl with two large eggs and 1.5 cups of butter milk. Then, combine the two mixtures and stir until there are no dry spots. Pour the mixture into a greased baking pan and cook at 425 °F for 15-20 minutes. | Preheat the oven to 425ºF. While the oven is heating, grease an 8-inch baking pan with butter or cooking spray. If you don't have an 8-inch pan, you can also use a 9x1-1/2-inch round baking pan, or 10-inch cast-iron skillet. Make sure to grease the bottom and sides of whatever pan you choose to use. Instead of greasing the pan, you can also add a tablespoon of butter to whatever pan you are using and stick the pan in the preheated oven for about three minutes. When the butter is melted, take it out of the oven and swirl it around. Using a hot pan helps to make the edges of the cornbread crispy and the butter serves to increase the flavor of the cornbread. Mix your dry ingredients in a large bowl. Add the cornmeal to the bowl along with the all-purpose flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. Mix all of these ingredients together so that the texture is even and smooth throughout. You can vary the amount of sugar you add to your recipe. Some people like sweeter cornbread, while others like to skip over the sugar entirely. Mix your wet ingredients together. Crack two large eggs into a medium bowl. Use a fork to beat them until they are smooth. Add the buttermilk to the eggs. In a separate container, melt six tablespoons of butter. When the butter is melted, add it to the egg and buttermilk mixture and whisk all of these ingredients together. If you do not have any buttermilk, you can instead combine two eggs with one cup of milk and 1/4 a cup of melted butter or cooking oil. Stir this all together. Combine the wet and dry ingredients. You can add the buttermilk mixture to the cornmeal mixture all at once. Use a spatula to get any lingering drips of buttermilk into the bowl. Fold the ingredients together until there are no more dry spots. In particular, make sure there are no pockets of cornmeal left at the bottom of the mixture. Don't try to get out all of the lumps however--the batter should be lumpy. Over mixing the batter can actually lead to a tough texture so stop stirring as soon as all of the dry spots have been removed. Pour the mixture into your baking pan of choice. Use a spatula to make sure you get all of the batter into the pan. Place the pan into the heated oven, making sure to note the time that you put it in. If you chose to heat your pan in the oven but notice that it has gotten cool, stick it back in the oven for another couple of minutes before removing it and pouring the batter in. Bake your cornbread for 15 to 20 minutes. Keep in mind that every oven is different so you will want to keep an eye on your cornbread to make sure that it doesn't burn. The cornbread will be ready when the top becomes a crisp golden-brown. To make sure that the center is cooked all the way through, insert a toothpick into the center of the cornbread. If it comes out clean (no batter clings to it), your cornbread is done. Remove your cornbread from the oven. Place your cornbread on a stovetop or potholder and let it cool for five to ten minutes. Once it has cooled, use a serrated knife to cut the cornbread into pieces. The serrated knife works to cut the cornbread without making it crumble and fall apart. Finished. Spice up your cornbread. Give your baked goods a kick with the addition of some jalapenos. Nothing heats up a meal like a side of this delicious cornbread. Try a sweet corn recipe. If you prefer a sweet side to your chili, try out some delicious sweet corn cornbread. It will be a hit with adults and kids alike. Give gluten free cornbread a try. Just because you are gluten-free doesn't mean that you have to pass on the cornbread when it makes its way around the dinner table. Make some mini cornbread muffins. If you happen to be making mini bowls of chili as an appetizer, what could possibly go better than mini cornbread muffins? These are also great to eat as a quick snack. | Preheat the oven to 425ºF. Mix your dry ingredients in a large bowl. Mix your wet ingredients together. Combine the wet and dry ingredients. Pour the mixture into your baking pan of choice. Bake your cornbread for 15 to 20 minutes. Remove your cornbread from the oven. Finished. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Do-Donuts | How to Do Donuts | To spin donuts in a front-wheel drive car, put your car into hill-climbing gear, turn the steering wheel to one side, and floor the throttle. As your car turns, yank on the handbrake to begin spinning the back wheels. Sustain the donuts for longer by releasing the accelerator and brake, then press down on the throttle and pull up the brake again as your car starts to lose power. To finish, let go of the accelerator and turn your steering wheel straight. | Put your car into first gear. This method only works for cars that have a manual transmission, as you will need to use the clutch. Pull the gear shift, either next to your steering wheel or your right leg, and shift it to first gear. Then gradually press on the accelerator and drive forward slowly. As your car picks up some speed (15-20 mph) begin to turn your steering wheel in the direction you want your donut to go. Note: this step is not about making the donut, but about positioning your car so that you are ready to do so. Only turn your steering wheel 45 degrees while making one slow, large circle with your car. Continue making the large circle a few times while you get used to how your car feels and the way it turns. Turn your steering wheel so you tighten the circle. It is important that this step and the following step be done one right after another, fairly quickly. Continue to press gradually on your accelerator. Turn your steering wheel so that it is positioned somewhere between a 45-90 degree angle (in the same direction as before). As you are turning the steering wheel, press all the way down on your clutch and engage your hand brake. Your car's rear wheels will begin to lock up as your car begins to skid. Floor the accelerator and release the clutch and hand brake. It is important that this step and the previous step be done one right after another, fairly quickly. As your car's rear wheels lock, and your car begins to skid, floor the accelerator. At the same time you are flooring your accelerator, you should also release both the clutch and the hand brake. If you have enough speed, your car should now begin to spin and perform a donut. Decelerate slowly after one to two donuts. After you have completed between one to two donuts, bring your car back to normal speed by lifting up on the accelerator. As you are slowing down, begin to turn your wheel back to the straight forward position. You will want to aim your car in the direction of an open space of blacktop. After you have the car under control, press on the clutch and shift your car back into park. Shift your car into first gear. Shift into first gear if your car has a manual transmission. Go into hill-climbing gear if your car has an automatic transmission. The gear shift is located either next to your steering wheel or your right leg. As you are shifting your car into gear, turn your steering wheel completely in one direction. Press on your accelerator. Floor the accelerator and your car should begin to turn in one direction. As the car is sliding, yank the hand brake to begin the rear-wheel slide. Manage both the power and the brake. To keep the car spinning and gliding on the rear wheels, you will have to continuously press on the accelerator and lift the hand brake. After you have done so once, let off the accelerator slightly, and let the hand brake go. When your car begins to lose power, and therefore some of the spin, press on the throttle again, and lift the hand brake. Be careful not to rev your engine too much in first gear. If you do this more than 5-6 times it can start to damage your engine. To stop the donuts, simply let off the accelerator slightly, while jerking your steering wheel back to the center position. Press on the clutch and brake as you shift back into park. Shift your car into reverse gear. This method only works with cars that have a manual transmission as you will need to use the clutch. Start by turning your steering wheel to one direction. As you do this, shift your car into reverse. The gear shift should be located either next to your steering wheel or right leg. Begin to back your car up. First press the clutch. As you do this, floor the accelerator. Once the accelerator is floored, let up from the clutch. Your car will begin to lurch backwards, as the front wheels begin to lose grip and start to slide. The front will start to rotate around the back wheels. Back off the throttle slightly. Hold the accelerator at a constant, medium-strength position. Turn your wheel sharply. After your car begins to slide on the back wheels, jerk your steering wheel all the way to the opposite direction. The donuts that are produced will generate severe pressure against your body (lateral G force). Once you have completed the donuts, bring your steering wheel back to the center position and lower the accelerator down so you are at around 20 mph. You may have to jerk the wheel slightly back-and-forth to maintain control of the car. Press down on the clutch and brake as you shift your car back into park. Turn off the traction control on your car before you do any donuts. This is key, otherwise the tires might lock up and not spin properly. Put your key in the ignition, and turn to start your car. While your car is still in park, turn off traction control. There is generally a button on the left or right side of the steering wheel allowing you to disable traction control. See your owner's manual if there is no such button. Do not turn off traction control before you start your car. The default setting for traction control is "ON." This means that traction control will turn on after the ignition starts. A light is likely to appear on your dashboard above your steering wheel calling your attention to the fact that traction control has been turned off. Do not worry about this light, as it will disappear once you finish spinning donuts, and turn traction control back on. Find a clear open space to spin donuts. The surface of the space should ideally be blacktop rather than grass or dirt. It is best to spin donuts on a barren parking lot, or back road. Make sure that you have enough space, not just for your car, but for when it begins to spin in circles. You should also make sure that the surrounding space does not have any houses, trees, or other obstructions. Though you can also do donuts in snowy areas, avoid icy or slick areas as these can present a safety hazard. Check the tread on your tires. You do not want to spin donuts with tires that are already worn down, and/or need replacing. To check the tread, perform the "penny test." Take a penny and place it in one of the tire's tread ribs. Make sure Lincoln's head is facing down. If the tread rib covers the entire head, you have enough tread on your tire to safely spin donuts. If the head is more than halfway showing, you should think about replacing your tires. You can either do this yourself by purchasing tires online or visiting your nearest car care professional. Maintain your car's fluids. Make sure that your oil has been recently changed. You should also change your power steering and brake fluids. These are critically important, as spinning donuts puts a tremendous amount of pressure on your car. You need to make sure it is in top shape before you take it out. Please visit your nearest car care professional or use the following links to change your car's fluids: How to Change the Oil in Your Car How to Flush Power Steering Fluid How to Refill Brake Fluid You should also perform an overall check on your car's mechanical components. Check your engine, transmission, muffler, etc. to make sure they are in tip-top shape. Visit: How to Do a Maintenance Inspection for Your Car. Bring some friends along with you. Generally speaking, spinning donuts is safe. However, in case of an emergency, you should always have people on standby. This could be a couple of friends or relatives who are willing to go out with you. Have them stand far away from where you are spinning donuts. This way there is no chance that they can get hurt, and therefore, will be able to call someone in case of an emergency. Make sure your phone is charged before you go out, as well as your friends' phones. Have your local sheriff's office and emergency personnel phone numbers on hand in the event of an emergency. | Put your car into first gear. Turn your steering wheel so you tighten the circle. Floor the accelerator and release the clutch and hand brake. Decelerate slowly after one to two donuts. Shift your car into first gear. Press on your accelerator. Manage both the power and the brake. Shift your car into reverse gear. Begin to back your car up. Turn your wheel sharply. Turn off the traction control on your car before you do any donuts. Find a clear open space to spin donuts. Check the tread on your tires. Maintain your car's fluids. Bring some friends along with you. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Empathize | How to Empathize | If you want to deepen your ability to empathize with someone else, pretend that you're the other person for a little while. If they're telling you a story, ask questions about how they felt, and imagine yourself feeling those things. For instance, if your friend is telling you a story about something that made them angry, imagine if that had happened to you. If you start to feel angry too, then you're feeling empathy! | Get in touch with your own emotions. To feel emotions along with someone else, you've got to be able to feel them in yourself. Are you tuned in to your feelings? Do you notice when you're feeling happy, sad, angry or afraid? Do you let these feelings rise to the surface, and do you express them? If you tend to tamp down your emotions instead of allowing them to be part of your life, work on letting yourself feel a bit more deeply. It's pretty common to push aside negative feelings. For example, it's more fun to distract yourself with TV or go to the bar than it is to sit down and think about something upsetting that happened. But pushing feelings aside creates a disconnect, a lack of familiarity. When you can't express your own sadness, how can you expect to feel someone else's? Take time every day to let your emotions surface. Instead of hurriedly blocking out negative feelings, think them through. Be angry and afraid, and deal with the feelings in a healthy way, like by crying , or writing your thoughts down , or discussing how you feel with a friend. Listen carefully. Hear what the person is saying, and notice the inflection in their voice. Observe all the little clues that belie a way that someone is feeling. Maybe her lip is trembling and her eyes are glistening. Maybe it's more subtle - she's looking down a lot, or she seems vacant. Put yourself aside and absorb the person's story. Set aside judgement while you listen. If you find yourself remembering a disagreement you had, or feeling critical about the person's choices, or feeling anything that takes you out of the moment, struggle to reorient yourself into listening mode. Pretend that you're the other person. Have you ever read a moving story that was so engaging, you forgot yourself? For a few minutes there, you became that character, and you knew exactly how it would feel to see your father for the first time in 10 years or lose your love to someone else. Feeling empathy in a person isn't so different. When you're listening to someone and really trying to understand, a moment will come when you start feeling what the other person is feeling. You'll see a glimpse of what it means to be them. Don't be afraid to feel uncomfortable. Empathy can be painful! It hurts to absorb someone else's pain, and it takes effort to engage on such a deep level. Perhaps that's why empathy is on the decline - it's just easier to keep conversations light, to stay safely self-contained. If you want to be more empathetic, you can't shy away from people's feelings. Realize that they're going to have an effect on you and that you might come away feeling different. But you'll have a deeper understanding of the other person, a foundation on which to build a more solid connection. Show the other person you feel for them. Ask questions that show you're listening. Use body language that shows you're engaged: make eye contact , lean in a little, don't fidget. Nod, shake your head, or smile when it's appropriate to do so. These are all ways to show your empathy in the moment, to build trust with the person who is sharing feelings with you. If you seem distracted , look away, or give other cues that you're not listening or you aren't interested, the person will probably close up and stop sharing. Another way to show empathy is to share yourself, too. Making yourself as vulnerable as the other person is can build trust and mutual connection. Let down your guard and get into the conversation. Use your empathy to help other people. Being empathetic toward someone is a learning experience, and it's good to let the knowledge you gained influence your future actions. Maybe that means standing up for someone who gets bullied a lot , because you understand him better now. It might change the way you behave next time you meet someone new, or your views on certain social or political issues. Let empathy influence the way you move through the world. Be open to learning more about what you don't understand. Empathy stems from the desire to know more about other people, other experiences. Get curious about what life is like for people who aren't you. Make it a point to learn as much as you can about other things every day. Here are a few ways to act on your curiosity: Travel more. When you go to places you've never visited, make a point of spending time with people who live there and getting to know more about the way of life. Talk to strangers. If you find yourself sitting next to someone on a bus, strike up a conversation instead of burying your nose in a book. Get out of your regular routine. If you tend to hang out with the same people and go to the same places all of the time, mix it up and start meeting new people. Expand your world a little. Try harder to empathize with people you don't like. If you notice areas where your empathy is lacking, make it a point to change how you feel, or at least gain a greater understanding of people and groups you don't like. The moment you feel repelled by someone, ask yourself why. Decide that instead of avoiding or badmouthing that person, you're going to put yourself in their shoes. Find out what you can learn by being empathetic toward people you don't like. Remember that even if you don't reach some kind of agreement, you can still feel empathetic. It's possible to feel empathy for someone you actively dislike. And who knows, once you open yourself up a bit, you might find reasons to change your mind about the person. Make a point to ask people how they feel. This is a simple way to generate instances of empathy on a daily basis. Instead of considering emotional talk off-limits, ask people about their emotions more often, and really listen to their responses. This doesn't mean that every conversation has to get deep, solemn and philosophical. But asking people how they feel can help you engage more fully, and really see the person you're talking to. The other side of the coin is to respond more truthfully when someone asks you how you feel. Instead of saying "Great!" when you actually feel down, why not express the truth? See what happens when you put your emotions out there a bit more instead of keeping them contained. and watch more fiction. Read Absorbing a lot of stories, in the form of novels, films, and other media is a good way to develop your sense of empathy. Studies show that reading literary fiction actually improves your ability to empathize in real life. It helps you get in the habit of imagining what life would be like if you were someone else. The catharsis of laughing or crying along with character can help you be more emotionally open with people. Practice empathy with someone you trust. If you're having trouble knowing whether you're empathetic, try practicing empathy with someone else. Make sure the person knows that you want to work on this, so they'll understand if you don't hit just the right note. Ask the person to tell you how they feel, and practice all the steps above to feel along with them. Then tell the person how you feel as a result of what they told you. See if the feelings matched up. If the person expressed sadness, and you felt sad when they were talking, then you read their emotions correctly. If the feelings didn't match up, you may need to spend more time getting in tune with your own emotions and practice recognizing emotions in other people. See it as sharing someone's emotions. Empathy is the ability to feel with someone. It requires you to go below the surface and experience the same emotions someone else is experiencing. It's easy to get empathy mixed up with sympathy, which is when you pity someone for their misfortune, and perhaps act on that feeling to try to help. But empathy runs deeper: rather than feeling for someone, you feel with them. For example, let's say your sister begins to cry as she tells you that her boyfriend just broke up with her. As you watch the tears roll down her face and listen to her describe what happened, you feel your own throat start to tighten. You don't just feel sorry for her, you feel sad, too. That's empathy. Another way to look at empathy is to see it as a shared understanding, an ability to project yourself into someone else's experience. The idea of trying to walk a mile in someone else's shoes is a description of feeling empathy. Being empathetic means sharing in any kind of emotion - it doesn't have to be a negative one. Being empathetic is being tuned in to all of a person's feelings and emotions so that you get a sense of what it's like to be that person. Realize you can feel it for anyone. You don't have to have a similar background to someone else to feel empathy for them. It's not about having a shared understanding because you've been there, too. In fact, you can feel empathy for people with whom you have nothing in common. Being empathetic is about experiencing what someone else is feeling - whatever it is. It doesn't have to be something you've felt before. This means you can feel empathy for anyone. A young person can empathize with an elderly person in a nursing home, even though she has clearly never had that experience. A rich person can empathize with someone who is homeless, even if he has always been privileged to have a roof over his head and plenty to eat. You can feel empathy for a stranger on the train you're watching from across the aisle. To put it another way, being empathetic doesn't mean imagining what life must be like for someone - it means actually feeling what life is like for that person on an emotional level. See that you don't have to agree with someone to empathize with them. In fact, it's still possible to be empathetic toward someone if you completely disagree with their views and don't even like them very much. The person you don't like is still human and has the same range of emotions as you. It might not be easy to do, but you can still empathize with that person's pain and suffering, just as you would for someone you love. For example, let's say your neighbor is on the opposite end of the political spectrum from you, and he brings up views you think you are completely wrong at every opportunity. But if you saw him get hurt, you'd come to his aid. It might be even more important to develop the ability to empathize with people you don't like. Empathy helps us see each other as people in need of love and consideration, no matter what. It creates the possibility of peace. Forget the "do unto others" rule. George Bernard Shaw said, “Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you—they might have different tastes.” The "Golden Rule" doesn't really apply when it comes to empathy, because it doesn't help you understand what it's like to be someone else. Being empathetic means opening yourself to someone else's point of view, someone else's "tastes," instead of imposing your own experiences and ideas. Thinking about how you'd like to be treated can serve as a good starting point for respectful and conscientious , but to be empathetic, you have to go a little deeper. It's difficult to do, and it might even feel uncomfortable. But the more you do it, the deeper your understanding of the people around you will be. See why empathy matters. Empathy improves quality of life on both a personal and social level. It helps you feel more connected to the people around you and creates a sense of shared meaning. What's more, humans' ability to experience empathy for people different from them leads to big social gains. It helps individuals and groups get past racism, homophobia, sexism, classism, and other social problems. It's the foundation of social cooperation and mutual aid. Without empathy, where would we be? A recent study showed that the empathy level among college students has dropped 40% over the last 20 - 30 years. This suggests that empathy is, at least in part, something that can be learned or unlearned. By getting in touch with your sense of empathy and making it a priority every day, you can improve your ability to be empathetic - and see how your life improves as a result. | Get in touch with your own emotions. Listen carefully. Pretend that you're the other person. Don't be afraid to feel uncomfortable. Show the other person you feel for them. Use your empathy to help other people. Be open to learning more about what you don't understand. Try harder to empathize with people you don't like. Make a point to ask people how they feel. and watch more fiction. Practice empathy with someone you trust. See it as sharing someone's emotions. Realize you can feel it for anyone. See that you don't have to agree with someone to empathize with them. Forget the "do unto others" rule. See why empathy matters. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Who-Happens-to-Be-a-Co-Worker | How to Deal With Your Ex Boyfriend Who Happens to Be a Co Worker | It can be awkward if your ex-boyfriend is your co-worker, but if you keep interactions brief and stay civil, you can make it work. When you first break up, find ways to tweak your work schedule so you don't have to see each other. For instance, try taking your lunch at a different time or requesting a shift change with your boss. If you can't avoid each other, keep your interactions brief and work-related. Even if wounds are still fresh, try to avoid bad-mouthing your ex or spreading gossip, since this will just make things more awkward. To distract yourself, try making some new friends at work. You could take a new coworker out to lunch or invite some coworkers to your yoga class after work. | Think about what you want. When you were happily coupled with a coworker, navigating the workplace after the breakup was the furthest thing from your mind. Now that it's a reality, you need to consider how you want things to be. Take a moment to jot down how you would ideally like to interact with your ex moving forward. Are you okay with being friends with your ex or would you much rather avoid them as much as possible? How your interactions look moving forward will probably depend on how the relationship ended and the cause of the breakup. Consider which work activities will be impacted by your interactions with your ex. How do think those activities will need to change as you end your relationship? Talk with them about a game plan. You've already had the “talk,” but now the two of you need to reach an agreement about how to handle workplace interactions. Luckily, you already know what you want. You just need to negotiate with your ex to come up with a friendly agreement. You might bring up the subject by saying, “We work together and I don't want the breakup to affect us professionally. How do you want to handle things?” The two of you might decide that one of you will switch project teams to reduce contact or you might avoid each other at after-work gatherings. Save the details of the split for non-work friends. Your close pals at work may have enjoyed the relationship when it was at its best, but they'll likely feel the pressure once the 2 of you have split. Ease the tension by leaving personal conversations for unbiased friends. Avoid talking about what caused the breakup or your ex with your coworkers. Identify 1 or 2 good friends who don't work with you. Turn to them for support after the breakup. Keep interactions brief and work-related. A good rule-of-thumb is to keep any interactions between you and your ex to a bare minimum, especially in the days and weeks following the breakup. Conduct any personal discussions between the two of you outside of work. Spending too much time together or talking about anything beyond work could heighten tension and put your professionalism in jeopardy. Imagine your boss is watching. Whenever you're around your ex at the workplace, imagine you're your boss is observing your every move. Doing this will ensure that you don't say or do anything that reflects poorly on your personal or professional reputation. Avoid badmouthing your ex at work. When the emotional wounds are still fresh, it can be tempting to make critical remarks about your ex in the workplace. You may even find yourself judging their efforts at work, although you never saw any issue before. Skip the criticisms, as they'll only make you the bad guy. Instead, show your professional integrity by finding something nice to say about your ex's work. For instance, you might share with a coworker, “I really admire the creativity John has brought to the table on this project.” Speaking highly of your ex will earn you the respect of the entire office. Plus, you'll feel pretty good about yourself, too. Avoid going overboard when complimenting your ex at work--otherwise, everyone may think you're still into them. Stay cool if your ex starts dating another co-worker. There's a good chance that your ex will move on after your breakup, and they might move on with another person at the office. Such a circumstance will likely test your strength of character. However, keep in mind that others will be watching you closely—don't give them any reason to doubt your professionalism. To reduce the bad energy, avoid your ex and their new lover as much as possible. When you must interact, keep it brief. If you must, use your lunch breaks to vent to an unbiased friend or journal about your feelings to release tension. Make adjustments to your routine. When you and your ex were still together, you may have blended your work schedules and activities to suit one another. Now, you'll need to re-establish your routine. Find ways to tweak your schedule so that you can avoid your ex. For instance, maybe the two of you always got coffee at the shop on the corner before heading to work. You might go to a different coffee shop, catch up with an old friend before work or add 15 extra minutes to your morning workout instead. If you took lunch together outside on a bench, you might take your lunch a half hour later or in a different location to avoid your ex. Request a new department or team. No matter how hard you try, it can get complicated to continue working side by side with someone you used to date. If a change of scenery sounds attractive, you might consider switching to a new department or team within your company. Changing to a new department or team may help you develop skills you are lacking, which can look great on your resume. You do not need to let anyone know that the change in your relationship is the cause of your transfer. Change shifts. Sometimes, you'd much rather avoid your ex than try to keep your cool in their presence. If you are a shift worker, you may be able to avoid your ex altogether by swapping to a new shift. Talk to your supervisor about making a switch. Tell them you think a shift change will help improve your focus and productivity, which is probably true. Make new friends at work who aren’t friendly with your ex. It's really hard to not bump into your ex during lunch break or at after-work cocktails when the two of your share the same social circle. Try to branch out and expand your social circle a bit. This doesn't mean ditching your old friends, but it will give you more opportunities to socialize without your ex being present. Take your coworker up on their offer to check out the new Thai restaurant after work or suggest that you and a few coworkers join a class at your nearest gym. | Think about what you want. Talk with them about a game plan. Save the details of the split for non-work friends. Keep interactions brief and work-related. Imagine your boss is watching. Avoid badmouthing your ex at work. Stay cool if your ex starts dating another co-worker. Make adjustments to your routine. Request a new department or team. Change shifts. Make new friends at work who aren’t friendly with your ex. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Give-a-Girl-a-Hickey | How to Give a Girl a Hickey | When you're having a passionate moment with a girl, make sure she's okay with you giving her a hickey, since they can be uncomfortable for some people. Test the waters by kissing down to her neck, and as you're kissing the spot where you want to give her a hickey, open your mouth slightly. If she's okay with it, gently inhale on the spot, sucking it lightly into your mouth. Hold your mouth there for 20-30 sections as you deliver the hickey, and then continue kissing her neck in other spots as the hickey forms. | Know what a hickey is. A hickey is a bruise left behind in the heat of passion. You'll create a hickey by gently breaking blood vessels through the suction of lips against sensitive skin. This is a mark of love, and a visible display that you've been intimate with someone. Be aware of the implications! Give a hickey only with consent. You are leaving a noticeable mark on someone's neck, here, so you should be sure that she's into it before you go for the hickey. Of course, it might spoil the mood to ask, "Do you mind if I give you a hickey?" Consider that she might be embarrassed by this love-mark: she may not want her friends, family, or teachers to know that she is sexually or romantically active, and she may feel the need to hide the spot with makeup or a scarf. Some people proudly display their hickeys, while others are mortified. A hickey is a playful mark of possession – a brand of passion. In general, a girlfriend or emotionally-involved partner will be more receptive to a hickey than someone you met that night. Consider whether a hickey is necessarily the "goal" of your encounter with this girl. It can be fun to give or receive a hickey, in the heat of the moment, but you shouldn't put all of your focus on bruising and "branding" her. Take your time, and make her feel amazing! Give her a hickey in the heat of the moment. Don't just suck on her neck without any buildup. The hickey is best delivered during a heated make-out or lovemaking session, in the height of passion, when it feels the most sensual. Wait until you've been kissing this girl for at least a few minutes. If you are having sex, the hickey is even more appropriate, and any pain from the mark will be wrapped up into the experience. Be aware that pain can be a serious mood-killer for some people. It's not for everyone! Move your lips slowly down the girl’s neck. Whether you are making love or just making out, nibble her neck and give her light kisses. Most hickeys are given on the neck, as a result of the delicate pressure of the lips on the sensitive skin. There is no "right" or "wrong" part of the neck. However, she'll be able to hide it more easily if it's low, near her collarbone, or high on the neck, such that it falls beneath her hair. The neck may be the most popular spot, but you can technically give a hickey to any area of sensitive skin. For a less visible and more intimate mark, try giving her a hickey on the top of her breast or the inside of her upper thigh. Open your mouth, slightly. As you are kissing her neck, form a circle with your lips on the spot of your choice. Do not slobber – just keep kissing, and prepare to give her the hickey. Use your best judgment on how long to build up before the hickey. If the two of you are very intimate, then it won't seem too strange to get into kissing her neck for a while. Don't just spend a few minutes kissing the same spot! Kiss all over her neck and face, and consider lightly nibbling her skin. Add some variety and make it interesting. Deliver the hickey. Create suction by inhaling lightly as you kiss the area. Breathe out through your nose and in through your mouth to slightly increase the force of the suction. Keep your mouth in the same place for up to 30 seconds to deliver the hickey. You can also try biting her neck with the tips of your teeth, extremely gently, in a sort of "love-nip." Test the waters by nibbling her neck, Be very careful not to hurt her! Stop if she asks you to stop. Consent is not a one-time promise – it is a constantly-changing agreement. If she decides that she's no longer comfortable with the situation, then it is your responsibility as a decent human being to back off and respect her wishes. Check for a hickey. The spot that you sucked should be red and slightly swollen. If the redness disappears over the next minute, you can try again. Suck in slightly harder, this time, so that you break blood vessels on the surface of the skin. Tell her about the hickey. Be considerate. She may not want the world to know that she has a hickey. She may at least want to hide the mark in certain situations – like when she's around her parents. For her sake, and yours, give her a heads-up so that she can conceal the hickey with makeup, a scarf, or a high collar. | Know what a hickey is. Give a hickey only with consent. Give her a hickey in the heat of the moment. Move your lips slowly down the girl’s neck. Open your mouth, slightly. Deliver the hickey. Check for a hickey. Tell her about the hickey. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Homemade-Laundry-Spray-Starch-with-Cornstarch | How to Make Homemade Laundry Spray Starch with Cornstarch | Making homemade laundry spray starch with cornstarch is a natural, easy way to keep your clothes looking crisp and wrinkle-free. For a simple cornstarch spray, fill a jar with 1 pint of warm water. Add 1 heaping tablespoon of cornstarch, secure the lid on the jar, and shake the mixture until the cornstarch dissolves. If you want the spray to have a fragrance, add a drop or two of essential oil. Pour the mixture into a spray bottle, and store it with your laundry supplies for 2 to 3 months. When you're ready to use your starch spray, shake the spray bottle, mist the fabric, and run an iron over it. | Fill a jar with the water. To make the starch spray, you'll need a jar with a lid that is larger than a pint (473 ml). Open the jar, and add 1 pint of distilled warm water. You can make the spray in a bowl if you prefer. However, you'll have to mix it by hand rather than shake it to combine the ingredients. You can use tap water for the spray, but it's better to use distilled, especially if you have hard water. Add the cornstarch and shake the jar. Once the water is in the jar, sprinkle in 1 heaping tablespoon (8 to 10 g) of cornstarch. Secure the lid on the jar, and shake the mixture vigorously to combine the water and cornstarch. You don't have to be precise with the amount of cornstarch. As long as it's approximately 1 generous tablespoon (8 to 10 g), the spray will be effective. Sprinkle in the essential oil. If you want the spray to have a fragrance, add 1 to 2 drops of your favorite essential oil to the jar. Shake it again to ensure that the oil is fully incorporated. You can use any essential oil with a fragrance that you like. Lemon and lavender are particularly nice, though. Pour the mixture into a spray bottle. When the spray is fully mixed, carefully pour it into a spray bottle. Label the bottle so you know what it is and store it with your laundry supplies. You may have an easier time transferring the spray to the bottle if you use a funnel. The spray typically lasts for two to three months, though it may start to degrade. Discard it if you notice it becoming discolored or developing mold. Heat the water in a pan. Pour 2 cups (473 ml) of water into a small saucepan, and place it on the stove. Turn the heat to medium-high, and allow the water to heat. You can use distilled or tap water for the spray. Mix in the cornstarch and bring the mixture to a boil. As the water is heating, add 1 tablespoon (8 g) of cornstarch to the pan. Use a whisk to mix it into the water, and allow the mixture to come a boil, which should take 5 to 7 minutes. Remove the pan from the heat. By heating the mixture, you allow the cornstarch to melt into the water so you don't have to worry about it separating as much. Stir in the vinegar. After you've taken the pan off the heat, add 1 teaspoon (5 ml) of vinegar to the pan. Use the whisk to fully incorporate it into the cornstarch mixture. Vinegar naturally disinfects clothing, which is ideal if you're using the starch spray between washes. Add the essential oil. If you want your starch spray to have a pleasant scent, you can also mix in some essential oil. Use 10 drops of your favorite oil, and whisk it into the mixture so it's evenly distributed. Use an essential oil with a fragrance that you like. Lavender, grapefruit, or rosemary are good options. Transfer the mixture to a spray bottle. When the spray is completely mixed, carefully pour it into a spray bottle. For best results, keep your homemade starch spray in a cool, dark spot. The spray should keep for 2 to 4 months. Shake the spray before each use. The cornstarch in a homemade spray has a tendency to settle at the bottom of the spray bottle when it's sitting on the shelf. Before using the spray always give the bottle a good shake to ensure that the ingredients are mixed. The cornstarch is less likely to separate if you use the heated method to make it, but it's still a good idea to shake it before each use. Mist the fabric with the spray. Lay the item of clothing or fabric that you want to smooth out on flat surface. Lightly spray the item with the cornstarch mixture across the entire surface. A little bit of the spray goes a long way so don't oversaturate your fabric. Run an iron over the fabric. After you've applied the spray, run your iron over the fabric to smooth it as you normally would. Work until you've removed all of the wrinkles and added whatever creases you'd like to the fabric. Be careful when using a hot iron. It's easy to burn yourself. | Fill a jar with the water. Add the cornstarch and shake the jar. Sprinkle in the essential oil. Pour the mixture into a spray bottle. Heat the water in a pan. Mix in the cornstarch and bring the mixture to a boil. Stir in the vinegar. Add the essential oil. Transfer the mixture to a spray bottle. Shake the spray before each use. Mist the fabric with the spray. Run an iron over the fabric. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Access-YouTube-at-School | How to Access YouTube at School | One way you can access YouTube at school is by using Google Translate to trick the school's website blocker. To make your computer think it's using a Google page instead of YouTube, go to translate.google.com in your web browser and change the language on the left-hand box to anything except “Detect language.” On the right-hand box, change the language to English, or any other language you can read. However, make sure that the left and right boxes aren't set to the same language since this will lead to an error. Then, open the YouTube video you want to watch in a different browser window and copy the URL. Once you have the URL, paste it into the left-hand box in Google Translate and click the link that appears in the right-hand box to watch your video. | Open a tab with Google Translate. Visit translate.google.com in your web browser. By loading a webpage using Google Translate, you are essentially tricking your browser into thinking that you're looking at a Google page instead of the actual page. You can use this to bypass blocks on virtually any site, including YouTube. Some of the more popular filters will block Google Translate. If this is the case, see one of the methods below. Change the language above the left-hand field. You can change this to any language except "Detect language". Change the language above the right-hand field. Set this to your language so that the page can still be read. You will receive an error if you try to translate into the same language, so set it to another language. Copy the video URL. Open the video you want to watch in another browser tab or window and copy the URL from the address bar. Paste the link into the left-hand box on the Google Translate page. Take out the word edufilter from the link if it is present. Click the link that appears in the right-hand box. You will notice that the Google Translate bar is present at the top of the page. This is what is tricking the website blocker. Make sure to leave the bar open while watching the video. Open a search engine on your computer at home. Chances are that most sites that list available proxies are also blocked at your school. Building a list at home will help you find more sites to use. Search for "proxy list". A proxy site is a site that fetches the blocked website for you, and displays it through the proxy site. This means that the filter software never actually sees you going to the blocked site (YouTube), just the proxy site. Find a website that lists a lot of available proxies. Your search result should list quite a few sites that index available proxy sites. Make a list of a dozen proxy sites to try. Your school's network administrators actively block new proxy websites as they appear, meaning that a large number of the sites you find will already not work. Grab sites from multiple different proxy lists. Email the list to yourself or write it down. You just need to be able to access your list from the school's computer. Visit the first site on your list. If it is blocked, move on to the next site until you find one that is unblocked. Enter . youtube.com into the URL field. Click the button to open the site. Wait for YouTube to load. A proxy will increase the time it takes for sites to load since the traffic has to be routed through the proxy server. This means videos will take longer than normal to play. Also, make sure that your proxy doesn't block scripts, or else YouTube won't load. Understand which phones can do this. You will need a smartphone with tethering enabled through the carrier. Many 3G plans in the US allow tethering automatically. Using your phone as the network connection will bypass any restrictions placed on the school network. Open the Settings app on your iPhone or Android. Open the Portable Hotspot/Tethering section. Android - Tap "More" in the "Wireless & Networks" section. Tap "Tethering & portable hotspot". iOS - Tap "Personal Hotspot". Turn on your phone's hotspot. Android - Check the "Portable Wi-Fi Hotspot" box. iOS - Toggle the "Personal Hotspot" toggle on. Get the wireless password. Android - Tap "Set up Wi-Fi hotspot". Check the "Show password" box. iOS - Tap "Wi-Fi Password". Connect to the hotspot on the computer. Click the computer's wireless network icon and select your mobile phone from the list of available networks. Enter the password to connect to the network. Connect your phone to the computer via USB if it doesn't have wireless. After connecting your phone to the computer, you should be able to select it by clicking on the network icon in your system tray (Windows) or menubar (OS X). Search for the video. Since YouTube.com is blocked, search for the video through a search engine like Google. One of the first links should be a link to that video's site on YouTube. Copy the URL. Copy the whole URL for the video. The URL should look like "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xxxxxxxx". The Xs will be random letters and numbers. Find a video download service. There are multiple websites that allow you to download YouTube videos. Search for "YouTube downloader." Copy the URL of the video into the URL bar of the video downloader. Click the download button. The first time you visit a site that downloads videos, you will have to run a Java script. Only do this if you trust the site. Check reviews online to see if others feel the site is safe. It is possible that your network will not allow you to run the Java script when prompted. If this is the case, then you may not be able to download the videos at school. Download the video. A list of download options will appear. These are the different filetypes and video qualities that you can pick from. The most widely compatible filetypes are FLV and MP4. You may need to have a special video player program installed to view the downloaded files. A video player like VLC Player should be able to play any file you download. The numbers followed by "P" in the download list indicate the video quality. For the best looking videos, download 480P or higher. If you just want the audio from a video, download the MP3 version. This will not contain any video, but can be listened to on any MP3 player or computer. Press Windows Key+R at the same time and type in CMD in the run box that opens. Type in ipconfig in the black CMD screen, and hit enter. Check the IP. For example: 222.222.0.0 (Yours will be different.) Go on Google.com and search My IP. Go to Windows key + R again and type in ping YouTube.com in the run box. After this put on the Google search your IP. E.G: 222.222.0.0 and will take you to the homepage of YouTube. Find an alternate portal. For educational videos, sites such as TeacherTube , SchoolTube ,and safeshare.tv offer alternatives to YouTube. These sites are often unblocked by school networks, as the content is monitored and is all educational. If your teachers use any alternative services, use those to reduce the risk of being caught on web monitoring services. Use one with an SSL certificate. To tell if a website has an SSL certificate, its URL should say https rather than http, or there is a green padlock icon next to the URL. This allows encryption to prevent being caught if the internet you are using is monitored. Search for your video using a search engine. Look for the video hosted on a site other than YouTube. There's a chance that this site will not be blocked by the network. Be careful when visiting unknown sites, as some contain viruses and other malware. Some other options that may preserve your privacy are duckduckgo.com or startpage.com | Open a tab with Google Translate. Change the language above the left-hand field. Change the language above the right-hand field. Copy the video URL. Paste the link into the left-hand box on the Google Translate page. Click the link that appears in the right-hand box. Open a search engine on your computer at home. Search for "proxy list". Find a website that lists a lot of available proxies. Make a list of a dozen proxy sites to try. Email the list to yourself or write it down. Visit the first site on your list. Enter . Wait for YouTube to load. Understand which phones can do this. Open the Settings app on your iPhone or Android. Open the Portable Hotspot/Tethering section. Turn on your phone's hotspot. Get the wireless password. Connect to the hotspot on the computer. Connect your phone to the computer via USB if it doesn't have wireless. Search for the video. Find a video download service. Download the video. Press Windows Key+R at the same time and type in CMD in the run box that opens. Type in ipconfig in the black CMD screen, and hit enter. Check the IP. Go on Google.com and search My IP. After this put on the Google search your IP. Find an alternate portal. Search for your video using a search engine. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Reuse-Plastic-Bottles-for-Your-Garden | How to Reuse Plastic Bottles for Your Garden | There are many ways you can reuse your plastic bottles in your garden. You can make a watering can from a large plastic jug simply by poking holes in the lid and filling it with water. Alternatively, decorate a large plastic bottle and cut a large hole in the side to make a birdhouse. To make a bird feeder, cut a hole in each side of a bottle, one a couple of inches higher than the other hole. Then, slide a small wooden spoon through the holes with the business end at the larger hole. Fill the bottle with bird feed so it will drain out into the spoon. | Make a self-watering planter. Take a two-liter bottle and poke small holes in the upper half. Then, cut the bottle in half, making sure all the holes are in the upper portion of the bottle. Poke a hole in the bottle top and thread a piece of felt or cotton fabric through the bottle top. Finish the self-watering planter. Turn the top of the bottle upside down and place it in the bottom of the bottle. The fabric should be long enough to touch the bottom of the bottle and long enough to have some sticking up into the top. Add enough water to the bottom of the bottle for the fabric to get plenty wet. Fill the top with soil, making sure the fabric is in the soil. This will help set up the self-watering plant. Create hanging baskets. You can make small or large hanging baskets from bottles, depending on the size of bottles or jugs you use. Start by removing the slanted top of the bottle or the part of the bottle with the handle. The hanger should be uniform and smooth all around, with no handles or sloping. Finish the hanging basket. Use something sharp to make holes in three to four places equidistant apart around the top edge of the planter. Using string or yarn, pull the yarn through the holes. Make sure to make a knot on the inside so the yarn or string doesn't slip through. When you finish, the yarn or string should be secure enough that the hanger doesn't fall. Tie the yarn or string together at the top. Place on a hook. You can paint the bottle before planting it to add a creative touch. Make a plant container. Turn a two liter or 20 ounce bottle sideways. Cut the bottle in half. Use both halves to make two planters. Cut small drainage holes into the bottom. Fill with soil and plant flowers or herbs inside. You can paint the outside of the planters to decorate your garden. Make a garden scoop. Use a craft knife to remove the bottom of the bottle. Then, on one side, cut an angled line up and stop right below the handle. Do the same on the other side. Cut across the top between the two cuts on the sides to remove the piece of plastic. Turn larger plastic jugs and smaller plastic bottles into garden scoops and shovels. This can help dig holes, transport soil from the bag to your garden, or scoop compost and mulch. This works better with bottles that have handles. This should give you a scoop-shaped bottle you can use in your garden. Use it as a water jug. Take a larger plastic jug, like a two-liter or gallon one, and turn it into a watering can. Take the cap and poke multiple holes into it. Fill the jug with water, and then tip it over to water the plants. If you have a very delicate plant that needs a specific amount of water, you can use a smaller water bottle and turn it into a watering can in the same way. Don't make the holes too large. Smaller holes will prevent the water from coming out too fast. The holes should be larger than a pin hole but not larger than a pencil. You want to be able to control the flow of water. Use it as an irrigation tube. You can use an small plastic bottle as an irrigation tube for your plants. Take a 16 or 20 ounce plastic bottle and poke small holes throughout its sides so water can seep out. Then plant the bottle all the way into the ground closely to the plant, leaving just the top of the bottle visible. Pour water in the top of the bottle whenever you want to water the plant. The bottle will slowly disperse through the length of the bottle along the roots of the plant. Create a mini greenhouse. Use a two-liter bottle to create a mini greenhouse around your already planted seedling. Cut the wider end of the bottle off. Place the bottle in the dirt around where your seedling is already planted. Make sure the cut end is pushed down into the soil firmly so it doesn't blow away and will provide the best benefits for your seedling. Make sure to leave the top off the bottle so the seedling gets air. Make a bird house with a two liter or large plastic jug. Cut a round circle in the side of the bottle near the bottom. Make sure the hole is big enough for a bird to get through. Find a wooden or plastic stick for the bird to sit land on. Cut another smaller hole that is the same size of the stick. Place the stick in the hole and make sure it is secure. Fill the bottle with hay or other nest material. You can paint and decorate the outside of the bottle anyway you'd like. Place wire around the top of the bottle to make a hook to hang it if you wish. Make a bird feeder with a 20 ounce bottle. Use a small craft knife to cut a small hole into the bottle about four inches from the bottom. On a different side, you can cut another hole higher. Now cut holes out directly across from these holes so there are matching holes on each side. Finish the bird feeder. Take two wooden spoons and slip them through the holes. This will provide a place for the bird to rest and a tray for the food to come out. Fill the bottle with bird food and replace the cap. Attach floral wire or some other kind of wire around the neck of the bottle so you can hang it up. Create a wind decoration. Use the bottom of 16 ounce, 20 ounce, or two liter bottles to make a lovely garden decoration. Cut away the rest of each bottle, leaving only the “feet” on the bottom. The feet make the shape of a plastic flower. Poke one hole in one of the "flower petals" and place string, fishing line, or something similar through the holes. Make sure the type of string or line fits snugly into the holes. If the pieces won't stay, you may need to put a little glue around the hole so the plastic flowers won't move. To construct the whole decoration, you can place one of the strung "flowers" on each line or string three or four on the same string. Hang multiple in a row together for a dangling wind decoration. Try getting clear and green bottles for variety, or paint them like flowers for extra decoration. | Make a self-watering planter. Finish the self-watering planter. Create hanging baskets. Finish the hanging basket. Make a plant container. Make a garden scoop. Use it as a water jug. Use it as an irrigation tube. Create a mini greenhouse. Make a bird house with a two liter or large plastic jug. Make a bird feeder with a 20 ounce bottle. Finish the bird feeder. Create a wind decoration. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Contain-Dust-During-Demolition-and-Remodeling | How to Contain Dust During Demolition and Remodeling | Home renovations can make a lot of dust, but if you prepare your space and set up dust barriers, you should be able to contain the mess. Before you start renovations, box up as many small decorative items as you can to protect them. Then, lay thick tarps or sheets over larger furniture, like couches and chairs. To protect your floors, you can lay down 6-mil polyethylene plastic sheets and tape the edges to the wall to secure them. You'll also want to tape this over vents and air conditioning units so dust doesn't get in them. To keep the mess under control, try to clean up as much dust as you can with a shop vacuum at the end of each day. | Remove personal items and objects. Start by clearing the area of any items or objects that you do not want to get dusty. Box them up and put them in another room in your home or in a storage unit. Leaving them in the space will only allow them to collect dust during the demolition and remodeling. You should also remove small furniture and decorative items on the walls so they do not get dusty. Cover furniture in the space with thick tarps or sheets. If there are items of furniture that have to stay in the space or cannot be moved, make sure you cover them with thick tarps or sheets. Use tape to attach the tarps or sheets to the bottom of the furniture so they are fully covered and protected from dust. Have one door open as the only entrance and exit. Close all the doors in the space except one. You can use the one open door as the sole entrance and exit. Keep all the other doors closed so dust can not blow out into other areas of your home. Tape the doors shut, sealing them on the top and bottom, so the dust is contained. Put plastic sheets down on the floors. Lay down 6-mil polyethylene plastic sheets on the floor. Tape them down with masking tape, making sure there is a 6 inches (15 cm) overlap on the sheets. You can then put a layer of foam-board insulation to protect the floors from dust and debris. Plywood would also work well. Hang plastic sheets on the walls and baseboards. Protect the walls from dust by hanging 6-mil polyethylene plastic sheets from the ceiling to the floor. Secure the plastic sheets with masking tape. Attach plastic sheets to the baseboards using painter's tape. You should also cover all closed doors with plastic sheets. You can then add a layer of plywood or foam-board insulation on the walls and doors to protect them from dust. Use a zip wall for the open doorway. A zip wall is a specially made plastic sheet that zips open and closed. Hang the zip wall over the doorway that will act as the entrance and exit. This way, you can zip the door open and closed as you come and go, preventing dust from entering the rest of the house. You should also place sticky mats by the doorway so the dust on your shoes can be contained on the mats and does not get in the rest of the house. Block off vents in the space with plastic. If you have a heating or air conditioning unit that runs through vents in the room, block off the vents with plastic so dust does not get in. Use tape to secure the plastic over the vents. If there is a return vent in the space, you may have to shut off the system for one to two hours while the work is being done. This will prevent dust from circulating in the house. Depressurize the area with a fan. Place a small fan near a window at the far end of the work area and face it outward. Make sure the fan and window frame are sealed with plastic. Tape the plastic to the sides of the fan so just the blades are exposed. Then, leave the fan on during construction to draw air into the work area and prevent dust from drifting into other areas of your home. Do not place the fan by an open window so it can blow the dust outside. This can taint the air outside and blow dust onto your neighbors. Keep dusty work outside as much as possible. Cut wood and sand drywall outside so the dust does not get indoors. Avoid doing these jobs indoors, as this can create more dust. When you cut wood or sand drywall, attach a dust-collecting vacuum to your power tools. This will help to minimize dust circulating as you work. Get an air scrubber. An air scrubber helps to capture dust when it is airborne. It sucks in the dusty air, filters it, and blows it outside. Depending on how much dust you have, you may need to replace the filter regularly so the dust is safe to blow outside. You can rent a portable air scrubber for $150-$200 USD a week. You can also invest in an air scrubber if you plan to do a lot of demolition and remodeling. They can be pricey, around $980 USD, but they tend to last for a long time and are the best option for removing dust effectively. Run the air scrubber while you work. Air scrubbers run on electricity. They can be plugged into an outlet and left running while you are working. They will refresh the air and suck up the dust as it becomes airborne. At the end of the work day, check the filter in the air scrubber. If it is covered in dust and dirt, you may need to change it so you can have a fresh one in for the next work day. Clean the area with a shop vacuum at the end of the day. Keep the dust under control by doing a thorough vacuum of the work area at the end of each day. Use the shop vacuum to blow the dust off of surfaces and into dust collection bags. You can also try misting the filter with water to help trap fine dust in the vacuum as you use it to clean the area. Make sure you clean and brush off the filters in the shop vacuum once you are done so it is ready to use the following day. Do a major clean when the remodeling is finished. Once the demolition and remodeling is done, make sure you do a deep clean of the area. Plan for about six hours to remove any remaining dust and debris in the area. Use the air scrubber as well as the shop vacuum to get rid of the dust so the space is clean. Remove the plastic sheets and plywood once you clean out the dust. Then, do a final vacuum of the area once the sheets have been removed to get rid of any remaining dust. | Remove personal items and objects. Cover furniture in the space with thick tarps or sheets. Have one door open as the only entrance and exit. Put plastic sheets down on the floors. Hang plastic sheets on the walls and baseboards. Use a zip wall for the open doorway. Block off vents in the space with plastic. Depressurize the area with a fan. Keep dusty work outside as much as possible. Get an air scrubber. Run the air scrubber while you work. Clean the area with a shop vacuum at the end of the day. Do a major clean when the remodeling is finished. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Stock-Broker-in-Canada | How to Become a Stock Broker in Canada | To become a stock broker in Canada, start by earning a bachelor's degree in finance, economics, or business. Next, consider pursuing a master's degree in business administration or finance. While this isn't required to work at a firm, it will help you stand out from other candidates and it's usually required if you plan to work up to an executive level. Then, apply for an open position at the firm of your choice. Once you're hired, you'll need to take a beginner's investment course and pass a written exam in order to get your license. | Enroll in high school courses in economics, business, and math. If you know in high school that you want to be a stockbroker, you can start taking classes to fulfill that goal. Classes in economics and business, especially will set you on the right track towards understanding the essentials. Obtain a finance, economics, or business degree from a university or college. A degree in one of these fields will help to give you the edge you need to succeed. However, you do not absolutely need a degree in the field, as gaining experience and sales or investing can be accepted in place of a degree. Nonetheless, the college degree is the surer and quicker option to a stockbroker career. Try landing an internship while in college. If possible, you can gain experience in the field with an internship at a financial company. Oftentimes, these internships are not paid, but they may help you land a job later. You can search for internships on major job websites, such as Monster or Indeed, but your school will also often post internships on their website or have lists available in the department office. Not all internships are unpaid, so as an added benefit, you can make some money while going to school. Try landing summer positions at different companies so you gain a wide range of experience. Don't wait to start looking until the summer, though; all the good positions will already be filled. Get a master's degree. Though a bachelor's degree is sufficient to work in the field, a master's degree will help you stand out from other candidates. One helpful degree is a master's in business administration. A degree in finance is also good. Though a master's degree isn't required to enter a firm, many firms require you to have one if you want to get into the upper positions. Therefore, it's a good idea to go ahead and get one if you are planning to make a career as a Stockbroker. However, although you may want a degree to advance, you don't necessarily need it before you enter the firm. You can work on it as you advance in your career. Build the right skill set. You must have or develop certain skills to be a stockbroker. You must have good communication skills. Essentially, a stockbroker is a salesperson, so you must be able to use your communication skills to pitch a sale. It helps if you are naturally gregarious, but you can develop these skills. If you are lacking in these skills, try making communication a secondary focus in your education. Take speech and debate classes to help build up your communication skills. You can also learn communication skills in customer-service jobs, such as retail work. You'll also need to be detail-oriented, be good at math, be able to make decisions, and be able to take the lead on projects. You could develop some of these skills through a basic-level accounting job, such as being detail-oriented and good at math. Pick a firm that will train you. The best firms will offer training to you so that you can become a full-fledged stockbroker. In addition, they will sponsor you for your registration as a member in one of the investment regulatory associations. Mainly, on the job you'll learn things such as how to sell to customers. You may also learn how to analyze securities. The firm will definitely give you information on what the firm offers in the way of products. You'll usually be able to learn different skills by going through different departments. Choose the right size firm. If you want personal attention, you need to pick a smaller firm that will let you get to know more people. However, if you're more interested in a high-powered career, you should pick a firm with better name recognition, which means a larger firm. A smaller firm may offer more room for advancement, while a larger firm may offer more competitive salaries. In some ways, you may have an easier time building a client base at a larger firm, because the name is more recognizable, and clients will trust you more. However, you may have more competition bringing those clients in from workers on the same level. Decide if a particular regulatory body is important to you. For instance, some firms use the Mutual Funds Dealers Association of Canada (MFDA), while others use the Investment Industry Regulatory Organization of Canada (IIROC). The IIROC allows its members to offer a wider range of investments, so if that's important to you, make sure you choose a company that is registered with the IIROC. For instance, firms that deal with the MFDA primarily are allowed to manage mutual funds, while firms licensed with the IIROC work with all types of securities from stocks and bonds to options and futures. The IIROC is licensed for all of Canada, while the MFDA is licensed for Alberta, British Columbia, Nova Scotia, Ontario, Saskatchewan, New Brunswick and Manitoba, though it is working on Newfoundland Labrador. However, licensing with the IIROC can be a bit more difficult. Do your research. Before you ever land an interview, you need to know the ins and outs of the company. Read the company's website, recent news, and the "About Us" page to see what the company is about and what it values. Use that information to your advantage in the interview. Prepare for the interview ahead of time. Read the job description thoroughly, and match up your experience with the job description. Look at the list of skills they want and make sure you know which experience from your past you'll use to show how you have that skill. Make sure to read between the lines. For instance, "flexible" may mean they want you to work hours outside of the normal work week, while "proactive" means they want you to take initiative on projects. Also, be ready for a personality tests. Many firms screen clients to find out if they are sufficiently extroverted for this type of job. Sell yourself. As a stockbroker, you need to have skills as a salesperson. You will basically sell your clients on stocks and your firm. Therefore, in your interview, you need to be able to sell yourself to prove you are able to work as a salesperson. Show your best qualities. When you are trying to sell yourself, give the person the best version of you. Don't try to downplay your good qualities by adding in bad qualities. Instead, talk about what you do best. For instance, you could say, "I have excellent math skills. I aced every math class I took in college, and I've since kept books for my uncle's company." You don't need to include the fact that you don't necessarily enjoy the math side, which would bring negativity into the conversation. Highlight your communication skills. As noted, you need strong communication skills to succeed in this field. Not only do you need to bring up your skills in your interview, you need to talk about specific examples where you showcased them. For example, you could say, "I have always had strong oral communication skills, which I have improved by taking communication courses throughout my college career. In fact, I once used my skills to talk the president of the university into allowing our department to change buildings on campus." You also need to showcase your skills during the interview. Be confident, direct, and to the point when answering questions. Try not to ramble. Take the beginner's investment course. The official investment course, officially called the Investment Representative Training Course, is offered by Canadian Securities Institute (CSI). It's a 30-day course. You should only take the course when told to do so by your employer. This course will help you with the basics of investing. It's designed to help new employees learn how to work with customers. You don't start this course until you have an employer because your employer is supposed to provide some of the training for it. Pass an exam. Each licensing board will require you to pass an exam to become registered. For instance, the MFDA requires that you pass the Canadian Investment Funds Course Exam, the Canadian Securities Course Exam, or the Investment Funds in Canada Course Exam. These exams are set by the CSI, with the exception of the first one, which is set by the IFSE Institute. You can be exempted from the exams if you have have enough experience. You only need a year of investment management experience if you've earned a CFA charter or 2 years if you haven't. The Canadian Securities Course Exam is preceded by a course. You take it online at your own pace, and then take the exam at the end. The course provides study materials, quizzes, and podcasts to help you learn. The exam is actually broken down into two exams. The first covers the Canadian marketplace and economy, types, pricing and trades of fixed-income securities, equity transactions, reading a corporation's financial statement, and derivatives. The second covers how to analyze, portfolio management, mutual funds, taxation laws, different types of funds (such as mutual funds and hedge funds), and working with different types of clients. You have a year to finish the course and take the exams. You can take the exam on the computer or on paper. The Investment Funds in Canada is also an online course followed by an exam. This course only requires a single exam, which covers the basics of the mutual funds marketplace, communicating with clients, the basics of investment products and portfolios, and other basics of mutual funds, such as how to analyze and manage them. The Canadian Investment Funds Course is another course followed by an exam. You complete the course online, though you take the exam on paper. It has one exam that covers your responsibilities as a registered broker, different types of investments, retirement, the economy, taxation, and how to make recommendations. Find a sponsoring mutual fund dealer. Basically, if you haven't already found a position, you need to do so now. You must find a dealer that is willing to hire you and therefore, sponsor you. Check job listings for entry-level positions that will provide this sponsorship. You must be sponsored by a firm to be officially registered, and you're not allowed to trade until you do. Expect a trial period. After you complete your training and exams, you will be given a trial period to start building a client base. This trial period can be anywhere from half a year to 2 years. During that time period, you will be expected to bring in a certain number of clients or to meet certain sales goals. If you fail to meet those goals, you'll likely be terminated. Cold call clients. The first way to build a client base is to make cold calls. A cold call is making a call when the client hasn't shown interest first. When cold-calling, your first call should be to open up communication and begin earning the client's trust. Don't try to make a sale on the first call, but do give the client a few pointers about up and coming stocks, though keep your best-kept secrets to yourself. Also, build a relationship. Ask about the client's needs and wants in a stockbroker. In turn, sell yourself. Help your client know what you focus on, whether it's retirement funds or better cash flow. Make sure to set a time for another call. If you go ahead and set a time, you're already asking the person to make a small commitment, and it gives your potential client time to think about what you've said. Just don't pressure them too much, as it could leave a bad taste in their mouth. In turn, they may badmouth you to other people. Use a list of screened clients. That is, use a list of clients that have already shown some interest in a brokerage firm. You firm may already have such lists, but you can also obtain them from marketing firms. Just as when cold-calling, you want to build a relationship with your client before trying to make a hard sell. Use your network. Don't be afraid to ask your friends and family if they want to invest with you. Similarly, use people you know to get referrals for other potential clients. These types of connections will help you get your foot in the door with other people. Give seminars. Seminars can also help garner a client base. Basically, you design a seminar that you think people would be interested in, such as the basics of building a retirement fund. You advertise the course in newspapers, on the internet, and on the radio, and then you give the course. In addition to providing the information you say you will, you can give a small pitch on why your firm is a good choice for planning a retirement, which can help you gain clients. Expect constant pressure to succeed. After your trial period is over and you are hired on as a full broker, you will still be expected to meet certain goals regularly. This job is high-pressured, so be ready to be on the ball all the time. | Enroll in high school courses in economics, business, and math. Obtain a finance, economics, or business degree from a university or college. Try landing an internship while in college. Get a master's degree. Build the right skill set. Pick a firm that will train you. Choose the right size firm. Decide if a particular regulatory body is important to you. Do your research. Prepare for the interview ahead of time. Sell yourself. Highlight your communication skills. Take the beginner's investment course. Pass an exam. Find a sponsoring mutual fund dealer. Expect a trial period. Cold call clients. Use a list of screened clients. Use your network. Give seminars. Expect constant pressure to succeed. |
https://www.wikihow.health/Soak-Tired-Feet | How to Soak Tired Feet | To soak tired feet, fill a tub or bowl with hot water from a kettle or pitcher, but make sure the water isn't too hot so you don't scald your skin. You can also add extra ingredients, like peppermint, epsom salts, and lemon, to help soothe your feet and reduce inflammation. You should soak your feet for between 10 and 30 minutes for the best experience. While you're soaking your feet, try dimming the lights and listening to calm music for a relaxing atmosphere. You can also exfoliate your feet with a pumice stone or foot file to remove any dead skin and leave your feet feeling fresh. | Get a good foot tub. Find a sturdy bowl or basin that is large enough to comfortably soak your feet in. If you're serious about pampering your feet, you can also invest in an electric foot bath with features like bubbles, heat, and vibration. Place the tub in front of a comfortable chair, with a towel underneath to catch any spills. Set a relaxing atmosphere. Lighting and sound can have profound effects on mood. To create a calm, spa-like atmosphere, dim the lights- bright, harsh lighting will ruin the relaxing vibe you're going for. Choose soothing background music, like classical music or white noise. Music has been proven to enhance relaxation and restore harmony between mind and body. Fill the foot bath. Avoid filling up your foot bath at your bathtub or sink, as you will then have to transport it to your relaxation area. Instead, add water to the foot tub with a pitcher or kettle to make things easier and to prevent spills. You can adjust the temperature to your liking by slowly adding boiling water and then cold water, alternating between the two until the bath is just right. If you are using an electric foot bath, make sure to leave the machine unplugged until after you have filled it with water to avoid the risk of an electrical shock. Choose soothing ingredients. There are a host of ingredients that can be added to a foot soak to help and soothe tired feet. Scour your kitchen cupboards or visit a health food store to find the perfect additions to your foot bath. Some of the best, foot-friendly ingredients are: peppermint, which can invigorate skin and muscles and reduce inflammation vinegar, which can help treat foot fungus, odor, and athlete's foot epsom salts, which can relieve muscle pain, tension and joint inflammation lemon, which can be energizing Add some aromatherapy oils. Aromatherapy is believed to treat ailments and relieve stress through the use of fragrant, essential oils. In addition to their healing potential, essential oils can make your foot soak especially indulgent. For a relaxing effect, try vanilla or lavender essential oils, which have been shown to be calming. Consult with a doctor first if you have one of the following conditions: a lung condition, such as asthma, respiratory allergies, chronic lung disease; skin allergies; or pregnancy (some oils may cause uterine contractions). Shop for pre-made foot soaks. An easy alternative to DIY foot soaks is to purchase one at a bath and body boutique, pharmacy or department store. Look for products that include soothing ingredients like epsom salts or peppermint, and have fun shopping around for scents that you enjoy. Bath "bombs" or "fizzies" are popular foot soak options that you can watch dissolve as you enjoy their soothing properties. Check the water temperature and immerse your feet. Test out the water before you soak your feet- the temperature should be between 92° to 100 °F (37.8 °C). Anything above 104° F is considered unsafe, especially for people with certain conditions, such as poor circulation and pregnancy. Immerse your feet and soak them for 10 to 30 minutes, depending on your comfort level. Relax and enjoy the experience! While you are soaking your feet, you could entertain yourself by reading a book or magazine or by simply closing your eyes and listening to the background music. Exfoliate your feet. Exfoliating your feet removes dead skin and leaves feet feeling smooth and refreshed. Use a pumice stone or foot file to slough away rough skin. You can also use an exfoliating scrub, or make one of your own by combining some of the following natural, ingredients: Sugar and baby oil Epsom salt and lavender oil Salt and mineral oil Dry your feet and add the final touches. After exfoliating, rinse your feet thoroughly. Dry them gently with a towel. Trim your toenails if necessary and apply a rich, moisturizing lotion to feet; lotions that contain synthetic urea are especially good for dry feet. As a final, pampering touch, put on a comfortable pair of socks or slippers. | Get a good foot tub. Set a relaxing atmosphere. Fill the foot bath. Choose soothing ingredients. Add some aromatherapy oils. Shop for pre-made foot soaks. Check the water temperature and immerse your feet. Exfoliate your feet. Dry your feet and add the final touches. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Decorate-a-Large-Living-Room | How to Decorate a Large Living Room | The best way to decorate a large living room is to emphasize lighting by opening the curtains during the day and turning on multiple lamps in the evening. Pick warm-colored furniture and accessories and add rough textures to make your living room cozy. Then, hang well-tailored detailed curtains 20 inches above the top of your window and use big pieces of wall art to fill up wall space. Finally, lay down a big patterned rug underneath the coffee table to encourage conversation. | Take a quiz online to find your style. Go online and simply search “Decor Style Quizzes” in order to get some direction. These quizzes will determine your personal style by having you choose between different rooms, accessories, and pieces of furniture. As you take the quiz, reflect on whether or not you could see yourself relaxing and/or entertaining guests in each space. Some styles that these quizzes may determine you have include: Happy modern Warm industrial Eclectic collector Classic glam Keep in mind that a single style may not fit your tastes. Feel free to mix and match elements to create a unique, but cohesive, style. Look online and in magazines for inspiration. Buy some interior decorating magazines and cut out any rooms, furniture pieces, and accessories in the magazines that you like and then make a collage or scrapbook out of the clippings. Search your specific decor style on sites like Pinterest and save any pins that you like to your “Decor Style” board. This should help you develop a clearer sense of style. Include your specific style in your Pinterest search. For example, search “modern style large living room” or “traditional style large living room.” Go through what you already own before you purchase new pieces. You likely already own several furniture pieces and accessories that fit your style, so go through your home and make note of what you enjoy having and what you'd like to replace. Get rid of the pieces that don't fit your vision and purchase new pieces that stay true to your style. If you can't afford to get several new pieces at once, keep your current furniture and accessories and replace one at a time over the course of several months. To save money, consider changing the pieces you can without replacing them. For instance, you could paint an old boring dresser that you have a bright color or change the upholstery on your dining room chairs to better fit your style. You can also repurpose items to fit your needs. For instance, instead of buying a new coffee table, make one out of crates or a large trunk. Match your decor to your personality and lifestyle. As you're trying to determine your style, consider who you are and what kind of life you live. For instance, if you're always planning your next trip and are passionate about seeing the world, you may want to go for a boho world-traveler theme that incorporates bright worldly colors, antique furniture, and organic textures, such as wooden stools and leather poufs. Some other styles you may consider include: Top-notch tastemaker: classic designer pieces, neutral backdrop, and high-tech gadgets. Life of the party: bold colors, playful accessories, and mixed patterns. Avoid displaying breakable items and using fabrics that stain easily if you have pets or children. Emphasize lighting. Since your living room is big, it probably can't be lit properly with just one central light source. During the day, take advantage of windows and keep the curtains or blinds open. Use 2-3 unique lamps near the corners of the room to enhance the central light source and make the evenings feel cozy for guests. Consider keeping 2 identical table lamps on side tables located on either side of your biggest couch. Then, put a floor lamp that is made of the same materials, or contains the same colors, in a corner on the other side of the room. If you have a fireplace but don't use it, fill it with candles and light them for extra brightness and ambience. Use a warm color palette. Cool colors, such as blues and greens, tend to visually expand space. Since you want to do the opposite, go with a warmer color palette that includes reds, oranges, and/or yellows. Get curtains, lamps, wall art, and throw pillows and blankets in these colors. For example, you could get a set of solid mahogany curtains and 2-3 apricot throw pillows that have mahogany appliques or tassels on them. Add in rough textures to warm up your large space. Texture is important because it adds dimension to a space, which is especially important when you have a lot to work with. Specifically, rough textures help a room feel more intimate and grounded, so try to incorporate several rough-textured pieces into your living room. Toss a few wool throw pillows onto your couch and/or keep a tree branch candle holder centered on your coffee table to add in some rough texture. To create a focal point, choose a textured couch or a large chair paired with a jute ottoman. Lay a large patterned rug on your living room floor. A large patterned rug can split up space and add personality to your room. Place it near your main sitting space underneath the coffee table and between or underneath your couches. Once again, choose patterns, textures, and colors that fit with your personal decor style, and make sure the size of the rug is proportionate to the size of the space. Consider getting a unique Persian or oriental rug, such as a Kazak rug or an Aubusson rug. These are typically very colorful and detailed. Go with well-tailored detailed curtains. It can be challenging to bring warmth and comfort to a large space, but the right window treatment can certainly help. Purchase curtains that are well-tailored and made of a fabric that has unique details to make your living room feel inviting. Pick colors and textures that fit with your specific style. For instance, you may choose a red, orange, and purple aztec pattern for your curtains if your style is laid back boho, or you might choose a simple black and white geometric pattern if your style is more modern. For a bold, but polished, look, layer sheer curtains under a heavier panel. Hang your curtains about 20 inches (51 cm) above your window. Especially if you have vaulted ceilings, allow your curtains to take up as much of the wall as possible to fill up the space. Position your curtain rod about 20 inches (51 cm) above the top of your window, or about halfway between the top of the window and the ceiling, to bring a bold attractiveness to your living room. Decorate the walls with artwork. You'll likely have a lot of large, blank wall space to fill in your living room. Get a couple large scale art pieces that really stand out to you. Make sure they go along with the rest of your decor, whether it's classic, modern, or another style. Wall art can fill up some of that overwhelming wall space and provide your room with a warm ambiance. If your style is more traditional, go for a classic portrait or landscape painting. If you want to keep the decor more modern, go for an abstract piece that displays interesting shapes and colors. To create a gallery wall, arrange 3 or more paintings, drawings, or photographs on a single wall. Use accessories in groups of 3. To tie everything together, spread identical accessories around your living room. This works best in groups of 3 because it isn't too many of one thing, but it helps the room to look relatively uniform and cohesive. Put 1 throw pillow on 1 couch, another identical throw pillow on a 2nd couch, and then a 3rd one on a big chair. You can also do this with small book shelves, lamps, and more. Put plants in the corners. Use tall potted plants and/or trees to fill up any spaces in the room that still feel bare. The corners are typically a great place for these kinds of plants. This may bring a refreshing earthiness to the room and also help break up the vertical space. Make sure you choose a plant that does well indoors with little sunlight, or go with a location that's near a couple of windows. Feel free to choose a faux plant, if desired. Anchor the room with pieces of furniture that are big and tall. Since you have a big room, you'll need some big and tall furniture to match it. These larger pieces will anchor the room and make the size of it not quite as noticeable or distracting. Get a large sectional sofa, a big coffee table, and/or a piano to fill up horizontal space and a tall bookcase or armoire to fill the vertical space. Put dividing pieces in the center of the room. One of the best ways to fill a large room is to use furniture to divide the space and designate different parts of the room for different activities. Place decorative screens and consoles near the center of the room to help make all activity spaces in the room feel desirable. One of the best places for a console is right up against the back edge of a couch. However, you shouldn't divide up the space if you plan to use for a single purpose. Use multiple pieces to create several sitting areas. Seating options don't need to all be close to each other. Instead, get more furniture than you normally would and make use of the space. With these pieces, create sitting areas for large groups, small groups, and couples. Consider getting 3 couches, adding several sitting chairs, and/or getting 1 hard and 1 soft coffee table. Make a larger sitting area with a sofa and a few chairs, but then add in some window nooks and card tables as well for pairs to utilize. Create a reading nook in the corner of the room with a comfortable chair, side table, and lamp. This gives the corner a purpose in addition to making the room feel fuller. Keep sitting furniture away from the walls. In order to avoid having large blank walls, you may be tempted to push your couch up against one of the walls in your living room. However, if you do this with your sitting furniture, people may feel awkward when they try to talk across the room to others. Bring your couches and chairs closer together so that conversation flows comfortably. Arrange furniture around a focal point. By positioning your furniture around a focal point, you can make the space feel cohesive and create a nice flow in the room. Arrange your furniture around one of your bigger, more interesting pieces of furniture, or around an attractive feature of the room, such as a fireplace. | Take a quiz online to find your style. Look online and in magazines for inspiration. Go through what you already own before you purchase new pieces. Match your decor to your personality and lifestyle. Emphasize lighting. Use a warm color palette. Add in rough textures to warm up your large space. Lay a large patterned rug on your living room floor. Go with well-tailored detailed curtains. Hang your curtains about 20 inches (51 cm) above your window. Decorate the walls with artwork. Use accessories in groups of 3. Put plants in the corners. Anchor the room with pieces of furniture that are big and tall. Put dividing pieces in the center of the room. Use multiple pieces to create several sitting areas. Keep sitting furniture away from the walls. Arrange furniture around a focal point. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Deal-with-an-Obsessed-Ex-Lover | How to Deal with an Obsessed Ex Lover | Having an obsessed ex-lover can be both frustrating and possibly scary. But by being firm and using avoidance strategies, you can deal with it. Be clear with your ex that your relationship is over so there isn't any confusion that you might get back together. For example, use direct language like, “Listen, Chris, our relationship ended weeks ago and I'm trying to move on.” You can also work to actively avoid your ex by cutting off contact with them. Remove them from your social media and don't respond to text messages or phone calls. Try to stay away from your ex by changing your routine if they keep trying to run into you. For instance, if they keep showing up at your favorite coffee shop, find a new one. | Don’t let the breakup drag on. Trying to let your ex down easy can backfire. Don't be tempted to go back to someone because you feel sorry for him or her, or because you don't want to hurt him/her. If you want to break up with someone, it's best for both of you to just do it and move on. Be clear that the relationship has ended. If you are dealing with an ex that will not leave you alone, you need to be extra clear that the relationship really is over. Be kind, but firm. Otherwise the ex might assume that the relationship is still ongoing, or might imagine that you will get back together at some point. Try making unambiguous statements such as: “[Insert person's name], our relationship ended a month ago. I need to move on with my life.” Avoid statements like “I need to focus on myself right now,” or “I don't have time for a relationship right now,” because these can suggest that the relationship could begin again some time in the future. If you have already tried to break up with your ex and he or she did not get it, try again, making sure to be absolutely clear. Try saying something like: “When we talked last time, I wanted it to be clear that we are no longer in a relationship, but I don't think you understood me. We are not in a relationship. Do you understand now?” Let others know that the relationship is over. Tell your family and friends (especially any friends that you and your ex have in common) that you have broken up. The more public the information is, the more “real” it will appear to your ex. It you broke up quietly and without telling others, your ex might interpret it as a sign that you are still interested, and become obsessed with getting you back. Don’t make contact with your ex. An obsessive ex may try to initiate contact with you, such as calling or texting you, sending you gifts, etc. If you reciprocate the contact, even to say “leave me alone,” the ex may interpret it as a sign that you are still interested. The best technique for dealing with an obsessive ex is to avoid all contact. It is best to leave calls, texts, emails, etc. unanswered. Just ignore or delete them. If your ex sends you gifts or other items, do not acknowledge or return them. Just toss them out. Remove the ex from your contact and friends lists on social media. Because they create large networks of contacts, social media can make it difficult to deal with an obsessed ex. Your ex might try to contact you via your social media profiles, or through any mutual friends'. The best thing you can do is remove your ex from your social media contact lists: you don't want him/her to be in touch with you, and you won't want to see your ex's social media content. Stay away from your ex. Avoiding physical contact can be an effective way of dealing with an obsessive ex. If he or she does not have the chance to see you, the obsession will hopefully come to an end. This may mean that you have to change your behavior patterns or the places you frequent. For instance, if you think you will run into your ex at a particular coffee shop you frequent, you may want to find a different one to visit. This can be frustrating, but on the plus side, you get to explore some new places and get a fresh start. Recognize when the situation escalates. If you feel as though your obsessive ex has gone so far as to become a stalker, the situation might be dangerous. When this happens, you may need to seek outside help. Stalking is different than obsession because it involves a long-term pattern of harassment or abuse. Legally, stalking occurs when someone repeatedly (twice or more) comes near you or contacts you when you have asked him/her or not to, or made threats (verbal, written, or implied) that have caused you fear or the worry of harm. If you are the victim of stalking, contact the police. Stalking is illegal in all states. Common signs of stalking include when your ex: Follows you Loiters near your home, workplace, or other area that you frequent Installs surveillance equipment in your home, car, etc., or threatens to install it Contacts you through inappropriate means, such as calling your boss to discuss your relationship Verbally harasses or abuses you, leaves obscene messages, or makes any other kind of inappropriate contact Harasses you or people close to you online through comments on social media, hacking your social media or email accounts, etc. Harms your pet Vandalizes or destroys your personal property Physically or sexually assaults you Does any of the above to your family members, friends, coworkers, or others who know you Get an order of protection if you need it. A protective order is issued by a court to prevent someone from contacting you. If your ex breaks the rules of this protective order, he or she can be arrested and fined or imprisoned. If your ex poses any kind of danger to you or others around you, contact authorities in your area about getting an order of protection. Laws governing these orders vary from location to location, but you can find out more about your options by contacting: The police A lawyer A legal aid service A community service specializing in domestic abuse Contact the police if there is any sign of a threat. Whether or not you have an order of protection, if your ex puts you or someone close to you in danger, contact the police immediately. Even if the police do not seem to think the situation is a problem, be persistent in letting them know about your ex's stalking behavior. Explain the seriousness of the situation, and refer to any past reports. Get a police report as evidence. If you are being stalked by your ex, contact the police with a full explanation of what is happening. It's important to get an official police report, which can help if you have to file for a protection order or press legal charges later. Document the stalking behavior as thoroughly as possible. Save copies of harassing emails, text messages, social media posts, etc. Take screenshots of things such as Facebook posts or tweets, since the user may delete them later. If your ex shows up to your home or place of work, document the day and time it occurs. Keep a record of every time you are harassed by your ex so that you will have evidence if you need to pursue legal action. Get support from others. Letting others know about the situation will help protect you. You might feel embarrassed or scared to tell other people about a stalking ex, but supportive friends, family, and community organizations will understand. They can also help you watch for any signs that your ex is trying to contact you, give you a place to stay if you want to get away, provide emotional support, and help in many other ways. If you are worried about your safety at your place of work or school, let your HR representative or school counselor know. Most companies have protocols in place to help protect you, such as offering a security person to escort you to your car or removing your ex from the premises if s/he shows up. Understand that the situation is not your fault. Anyone can be victimized by a stalker, so it is not your fault if your obsessive ex becomes a dangerous problem. Even if you feel like you lead your ex on, his or her stalking behavior is not your fault, so contact authorities for help. | Don’t let the breakup drag on. Be clear that the relationship has ended. Let others know that the relationship is over. Don’t make contact with your ex. Remove the ex from your contact and friends lists on social media. Stay away from your ex. Recognize when the situation escalates. Get an order of protection if you need it. Contact the police if there is any sign of a threat. Get a police report as evidence. Get support from others. Understand that the situation is not your fault. |
https://www.wikihow.life/Clean-a-Water-Dispenser | How to Clean a Water Dispenser | To clean a water dispenser, unplug the cooler from the wall and remove the bottle. Use a sponge to wipe down the top of the water cooler. Then, mix 1 tablespoon of bleach into a gallon of water, and fill the inner reservoir of the cooler to the top with this mixture. Let it stand for 2-5 minutes before rinsing the water through the “cool” tap. Fill and rinse the reservoir 4 times with plain water to flush out the cleaning mixture. Clean the drip tray and replace the water bottle to finish cleaning the dispenser. | Pour one gallon of water into a bucket. This step is the same whether you're using a bleach or a vinegar solution. Consider a bucket with a handle, or one that is easy to manage. It's best if none of the bleach solution spills out of the container and onto the floor, or your clothes. Make the bleach solution. Add 1 tablespoon of bleach to every gallon of water that you choose to use. If possible, use an unscented bleach, as it'll be easier to flush the smell out towards the end. Mix the solution gently. Use disposable gloves if available (a recommended precaution, but not necessary). Be sure to do this in a space where you can afford to spill some, such as in a large sink. Make the vinegar solution. For the mixture, you'll need only undiluted vinegar and a bucket. To ease the scent of the vinegar, you can choose to add a tablespoon or two of lemon juice. Mix in one part white vinegar for every three parts water. So if using a gallon of water, use 1/3 of a gallon (5 1/3 cups) of white vinegar. If including the lemon juice, add it after mixing the water and vinegar. As a word of caution, using vinegar is only about 80-90 percent as effective as using chlorine bleach to disinfect anything. While bottled water contains a very small amount of bacteria, it's possible for this amount to grow over time if not sanitized totally. Unplug the water cooler from the wall, and remove the bottle. Make sure there's no other electronics plugged into the same outlet, or near the area where you've chosen to clean your water cooler. This avoids any possibility, however small, of water meeting live electricity. Wet a sponge to clean the inner surface of the water cooler with the cleaning solution. Let it stand for 2-5 minutes (but no more to avoid wear and tear), then drain the solution through the tap (the cool temperature one if there are two) and into a separate container. Drain this container down a sink or toilet. Rinse out the remaining cleaning solution. Fill the inner reservoir with water four times and pour it out through the (cooler temperature) tap and into a bucket. Be thorough in this to make sure no bleach or vinegar taste is left behind. Lift off the drip tray and scrub well. Wash both the tray and the screen (if present) and rinse both in clean tap water before returning them to the dispenser. Be sure to dry thoroughly so as not to leave moisture in any tight spaces. Wash your hands well, and dry the new bottle with a towel. Be sure to wash your hands before manipulating the bottle again. Remove the cap and place the new bottle. Ensure a snug fit, and watch for air bubbles rising to the top of the bottle, indicating the bottle has made a seal with the dispenser. Check that it works. Fill a glass of water, try both faucets if your dispenser has them. Taste the water to make sure no unpleasant taste has been left behind. | Pour one gallon of water into a bucket. Make the bleach solution. Make the vinegar solution. Unplug the water cooler from the wall, and remove the bottle. Wet a sponge to clean the inner surface of the water cooler with the cleaning solution. Rinse out the remaining cleaning solution. Lift off the drip tray and scrub well. Wash your hands well, and dry the new bottle with a towel. Remove the cap and place the new bottle. Check that it works. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Treat-Canine-Tick-Problems | How to Treat Canine Tick Problems | If your dog has ticks, run a tick comb through its fur and inspect it after each pass. If you find ticks on the comb, drown them in rubbing alcohol or soapy water. You should also wash your dog with flea and tick shampoo to kill any ticks you might have missed. Let the shampoo sit for 10 minutes before rinsing it out. If you find any ticks embedded in your dog, you should take it to a vet so you don't risk breaking part of the tick off under its skin. Your vet can also check for any signs of infection and prescribe appropriate medication for your dog. | Use a tick comb to remove ticks that aren't embedded. Start on your dog's head and slowly pull the comb through its fur. Check the comb after each pass to make sure there aren't any ticks on it. If you remove any ticks, drown them in rubbing alcohol or soapy water. This is the best natural alternative for removing ticks. However, it won't remove ticks that are embedded under the skin. Wash your dog with flea and tick shampoo to kill loose ticks. Place your dog in a tub or bucket, then wet its fur with warm water. Apply the flea and tick shampoo, then work it up into a lather. Let it sit for about 10 minutes, or as directed on the label. Then, rinse your pup with warm water until all of the shampoo is gone. Finally, dry your dog with a towel. This treatment doesn't work on embedded ticks. In addition to killing the ticks on your pet, the shampoo will protect your pet from ticks for up to 2 weeks. Make sure you protect your pet's eyes and ears when you apply the shampoo, as the shampoo can irritate these areas. Most flea and tick shampoos contain pyrethrin as an active ingredient, which is a pesticide. Remove embedded ticks with a tick hook or tweezers. Latch onto the tick using a tool for removing ticks or a simple pair of tweezers. Then, slowly pull the tick straight out of your dog's skin, without squeezing the body of the flea. Be careful not to twist or squish the tick's body as you remove it, as you don't want any pieces to break off under your pet's skin. Don't try to burn the tick or remove it with vaseline. This may cause the tick to become distressed, which might make it release its stomach contents under your dog's skin. If you think any part of the tick has broken off, take your pet to the vet immediately. Once you have removed the tick, clean the bite area with rubbing alcohol, or soap and water. Then, apply a dab of triple antibiotic ointment. Dispose of ticks in alcohol or soapy water. You should dispose of the tick properly so it does not spread disease or infection to you or your pet. Submerse the ticks in alcohol or soapy water, then place them in a bag or container. Wrap the container or bag with tape and put it in the garbage. Do not crush the tick with your fingers, as this will only increase the risk of infection for you and your pet. Take your dog to the vet to have an embedded tick removed safely. When ticks bite your pet, they embed their bodies under the skin. An embedded tick can be the size of a pinpoint or a grape, and you may even see its legs sticking out. It's best to get your vet to remove an embedded tick, as it's easy to leave a piece of the tick's body behind. An embedded tick means your dog is at risk for a tick-borne illness, so it needs to get checked by a vet. Call your vet for a same-day appointment, as quickly removing the tick is the best way to prevent an infection from developing. Visit your vet to have your dog examined. Tick-borne illnesses need to be diagnosed and treated by a vet. If they're not treated properly, they can worsen and cause complications in your pet. Fortunately, your vet can do a simple blood test to find out if your pet is ill. Then, they'll offer a treatment plan. Call your vet as soon as you suspect your dog may have been bitten by a tick. Don't wait for your dog to show signs of illness, as it may not have symptoms until it's very ill. Get a prescription for a broad-spectrum antibiotic to treat tick-borne illnesses. Tick-borne illnesses are all typically treated with antibiotics, which is why you need to visit your vet. Depending on the type and severity of your dog's infection, their treatment regimen will typically range from 10 days to 28 days. Doxycycline is the most common antibiotic for treating canine tick infections, but your vet may prescribe a different antibiotic. Expect your vet to provide additional treatments if your dog is very ill. Most dogs will only need an antibiotic, but your pet may need additional treatment if its infection has reached an advanced stage. Fortunately, your vet can provide more treatments to help your pup recover. For example, they may administer the following treatments: Anti-inflammatories or corticosteroids to reduce inflammation, swelling, and pain in your pet's body. A blood transfusion to treat anemia caused by blood loss as a result of the bite. Nutritional support if your dog has been losing weight or is having trouble eating. Administer the antibiotic as directed by your vet. Follow the directions given to you by your vet, and make sure you read the paperwork that comes with your dog's medication. You will likely give your dog the medication orally once or twice a day. You may be able to hide the pill in food to get your dog to swallow it. Give your dog probiotics daily to restore healthy gut bacteria. Since antibiotics kill all bacteria, your dog's healthy gut bacteria will likely die while you're treating the infection. Keep your dog's gut healthy by feeding it probiotics every day. The easiest way to do this is to give your dog yogurt at least once a day. You can add the yogurt to your dog's food, squeeze the yogurt into the dog's mouth with a syringe, or give your dog frozen pieces of yogurt as a treat. Take your dog in for check ups to make sure reinfection doesn't occur. Your dog's infection should respond to the antibiotic, and you'll likely see improvements in your dog's health a few days into treatment. However, the infection can come back, even months after a successful treatment. Make sure you're taking your dog to the vet for regular monthly checkups so that your vet will catch a reinfection early. If a reinfection occurs, your vet will prescribe a new treatment for your dog. Your vet will tell you when you can stop worrying about a possible reinfection. Check your dog's coat daily for small bumps or lumps. Run your hands over and through your dog's coat, feeling for any small lumps or bumps. Make sure you smooth over areas prone to ticks, such as your dog's muzzle, face, ears, paws, armpits, groin, and between their toes. Pay special attention to dark, moist or hidden areas. Ticks prefer to latch on in these areas, so check them twice. Part your pet's fur to examine any lumps or bumps you find. Look closely to see if the lump or bump is brown or black, which may indicate a tick has embedded in your dog's skin. An embedded tick can range from the size of a pinpoint up to the size of a grape. You may also see the tick's legs sticking out of the bump. Wetting your dog's coat may make it easier to part their fur to confirm a small lump is a tick. You may also groom a long haired dog so you can better see their skin, making it easier to smooth them down for ticks. Take your dog to the vet if you're unsure about a bump. Unfortunately, your dog can start to come down with an infection as soon as 3-6 hours after a tick bite. If you find a bump that could possibly be a tick, take your pet to the vet to make sure. If your pet is sick, your vet will be able to provide prompt treatment. Apply spot-on products to prevent and kill ticks. Part your pet's fur between its shoulder blades just below its neck. Then, squeeze one dose of the spot-on tick product directly onto the pup's skin. Keep an eye on your dog for the next few hours to make sure it doesn't somehow lick the medicine off. Look for spot-on products that contain pyrethrin, permethrin, fipronil, or imidacloprid. Additionally, make sure the product is licensed to work against ticks. It's best to ask your vet which tick treatment is right for your dog. Use tick spray to kill and prevent ticks. Take your pet to a well-ventilated area before applying the spray. Then, spray all parts of your pet, including between their toes, in their armpits, and in their groin area. When you get to your dog's face, use a cotton ball to apply the spray rather than spraying it directly on your pet. Spritz a bit of the treatment onto the cotton ball, then dab it on your pet's face. Keep the spray out of your dog's eyes, nose, and mouth. Tick sprays usually contain permethrin or fipronil to kill the ticks. Some dogs hate getting sprayed because of the noise the can makes. If your dog resists tick spray, it may be best to try a different product. Apply tick powder for tick prevention. Check the label on the product to make sure it is made to kill ticks and fleas. Then, take your dog to a well ventilated area, as the powder can be irritating to your pet's mouth or lungs if it's inhaled. Next, sprinkle a small amount of powder onto your dog and rub it into the dog's skin. Work in small patches until your pup is fully treated. However, avoid its face and eyes. You will need to apply the powder once a week to kill and repel ticks. Get your pup vaccinated against ticks. Your vet can administer an annual tick vaccination during a vet appointment, which can added an extra level of protection. They can also vaccinate your pup against lyme disease, which is a common tick-borne illness. However, the vaccinations aren't 100% effective, so it's best to combine them with other treatments. Ask your vet if a vaccination is right for your pet. Put a tick collar around your dog's neck. Look for tick collars that contain active ingredients like amitraz or flumethrin, which deter and kill ticks. Follow the directions on the packaging to place the collar around your pet's neck. Replace the collar as directed or earlier if it falls off. Make sure the collar fits snuggly around your dog's neck so it works properly. Watch for skin irritation under your dog's tick collar. If your pet experiences irritation, consider using a different approach for tick prevention. Collars that contain amitraz last about one month, while collars that contain flumethrin are effective for about eight months. Keep your dog indoors, especially during late-spring through early fall. Ticks are most active during the warmer months, so your dog is most at risk during late-spring, summer, and early fall. Keep your dog inside as much as you can during this time of the year. Additionally, let your dog walk and play in safer areas, such as on the sidewalk, turf, or very short grass. This will limit your pet's exposure to ticks. Play with your dog indoors so it gets exercise. Additionally, this will help prevent boredom. Look for a local dog park that has a good playing area for your pup. Trim your lawn, bushes, and trees to minimize hiding spots for ticks. Dense shrubbery and foliage gives ticks a place to live, putting you and your pup at risk. Keep your lawn manicured by trimming back trees and bushes and mowing often. Sweep up any debris, such as cut grass or leaves, and remove it immediately. Ticks are also common in woodland areas, and there's not much you can do to prevent ticks in the woods. Your best line of defense is to do daily tick checks. | Use a tick comb to remove ticks that aren't embedded. Wash your dog with flea and tick shampoo to kill loose ticks. Remove embedded ticks with a tick hook or tweezers. Dispose of ticks in alcohol or soapy water. Take your dog to the vet to have an embedded tick removed safely. Visit your vet to have your dog examined. Get a prescription for a broad-spectrum antibiotic to treat tick-borne illnesses. Expect your vet to provide additional treatments if your dog is very ill. Administer the antibiotic as directed by your vet. Give your dog probiotics daily to restore healthy gut bacteria. Take your dog in for check ups to make sure reinfection doesn't occur. Check your dog's coat daily for small bumps or lumps. Part your pet's fur to examine any lumps or bumps you find. Take your dog to the vet if you're unsure about a bump. Apply spot-on products to prevent and kill ticks. Use tick spray to kill and prevent ticks. Apply tick powder for tick prevention. Get your pup vaccinated against ticks. Put a tick collar around your dog's neck. Keep your dog indoors, especially during late-spring through early fall. Trim your lawn, bushes, and trees to minimize hiding spots for ticks. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Romance-a-Girl | How to Romance a Girl | To romance a girl, start by asking her questions about herself and talking to her about the things she cares about, like art or music. If you can, make her laugh to reduce any tension and make your flirting feel more casual. When you're with her, try not to get distracted by other people or by your phone, because that can make her feel unimportant. Finally, don't be shy about complimenting her, but be honest and don't exaggerate, or she might think that you're not being genuine. | Figure out what she likes and converse about it. No girl wants to hear only about you and your interests. In fact, it's much easier to win her over if you spend the majority of the conversation chatting about what she's into. You don't need to discuss "girly" topics. The barrier between men and women has been reduced significantly in the last decade. It's your responsibility to figure out what she's into and always digging deeper. If you're really stuck on conversation topics, you can always start with larger discussion points and narrow it down. You might start by asking her about her hobbies or job aspirations. Once you bridge that initial gap, she'll open up about those topics, giving you room to investigate deeper. If she says she's into sailing, you can follow up with a barrage of other questions about that particular interest. Figure out who taught her how to sail or where she enjoys sailing. This could open up conversations about her experiences growing up, her love for nature, and more. Give her honest compliments. Everyone loves to receive a compliment, especially one that's original and specific to the individual. There's definitely a wrong way to compliment a woman; anything that you've heard in the movies will come across as corny or superficial. But if you learn how to compliment her properly without being too excessive, you'll make it clear that you're interested. Remember the four major guidelines to giving compliments: Be succinct. If you speak for too long, you might talk yourself into a hole or worse, embarrass her. Don't exaggerate. There's no need to call her the most amazing woman on Earth. Your compliments will work if they seem real and genuine, not extreme. Be as specific as possible. Telling a girl that she's "beautiful" or "awesome" will do very little for you. If you've observed her behavior and listened to her conversations, then you'll have a good basis for real compliments. Don't be excessive. If you throw out a couple compliments over the course of one date or interaction, you'll be in good shape. Anything more than that might seem a little desperate, and each compliment will lose impact. Make her laugh. Laughter is a healing medicine, and there's no better way to break any tension than a shared moment of levity. It's also a great way to prove that you're paying attention to her, as most moments of laughter come as a direct response to a conversation point. Humor is also extremely flirtatious, so you'll be tapping into that if you're trying to make her laugh. Even if you don't think of yourself as a particularly funny person, there are still ways to make her laugh. Try the "push-pull" technique. This essentially requires that you "push" her away by deeming yourself unworthy of her. If paired with a nice compliment, though, you'll be simultaneously "pulling" her toward you by expressing your interest. This will make things feel playful. A good example of the "push-pull technique might be: "You're a pretty cool girl, too bad you're stuck with me." Prove you're glad to be with her. Anytime you disconnect from the conversation, whether this is poor listening or diverting attention away from her, you lose your charm factor. Being charming with a woman often just requires proper attention, making it no different than any conversation you'd have with another person. Respond directly to her reactions. Nod when she nods, laugh along with her, and mirror her behavior without copying her completely. This should be a fairly natural thing, but if you're having trouble being charming, be as sensitive as possible to her mannerisms. Dress well. Don't underestimate the power of your attire. Although fashion sense isn't everything, wearing sharp clothes will prove your respect for your girl and show off your social mobility. If you wear clothes that showcase your style and personality, you'll also get a nice positive mental boost. This will help you carry yourself with more confidence. Because you're in the initial stages of the relationship, you'll both be trying to impress. If she'll get dressed up for you, then you definitely have to meet her in your own dressing up. For a dinner date, especially if you live in an urban location, you'll probably want to wear some sort of jacket. This could be a blazer or a sport coat; whatever you'd prefer. In certain situations, a full suit and tie may even be appropriate. If you're going out at night, it's better to overdress. You can shed the coat and let your date wear it if it gets too cold. If you're worried about looking overdressed, it's hard to go wrong with a fitted collared shirt, jeans/khakis, and a nice pair of shoes. It's a tried and true look, and it's one that strikes a nice balance between formal and comfortable. Make sure that the shirt isn't wrinkled and that your pants are clean and without any rips. For the shoes, you'll want to be sitting in some place between your weekend sneakers and dress shoes. Be hygienic. While being clean is always important, you definitely don't want to skip any steps when getting clean before a big date. It's definitely not enough to cover up your stench with body spray and cologne. Because you'll be spending an entire night with her, you'll want to cover all of your bases in respect to your hygiene. Some steps that you might miss include: Floss every day. Your dentist will definitely thank you for this one. This extra step will not only help prevent gum disease, but will also dramatically improve the smell of your breath. Getting an electric toothbrush isn't a bad idea either. Wash your feet. Doing this every day will help eliminate the need for more dramatic measures, like foot odor spray. This will require more than simply letting your feet soak in water, though. Get a wash cloth, rubbing between your toes and on the bottoms of your feet. Change your sheets and pillowcase weekly, if not more. This is one that many guys forget about. It's important even if she doesn't come over to your place afterwards. Clean sheets will help you eliminate acne, or worse, bacne. Pick a great spot to start. It's important to have a clear plan for your first date, especially if the plan involves multiple locations. You'll definitely impress her if you've plotted out some ideas for the entirety of the night, and it'll feel more like an adventure. Make sure that you've chosen a place with great atmosphere. This might include music selection, decor, and noise level; make sure you don't go to a place where you won't be able to hear her talk. Seating is huge for a first date. Your best bet is to find somewhere with bar stools, even if you're doing a full dinner. You'll be closer to her and both of you will be able to be more physically animated. Couches also work well, and a table can be fine. Try to avoid booths if you can. You'll sink into them, and it's easy to get stuck. While dinner and drinks are fairly common for a first date, there's no need to limit yourself to just that. Bar trivia nights have a great deal of potential, as both of you can unleash your knowledge about a wide range of topics. You'll also be working together as a team, which will ally you from the beginning. Bowling is both competitive and extremely calming, and you can engage in some friendly competition. For the more daring, cooking and salsa classes might be an exciting first step. Eliminate any extra stress. Your date will definitely fall flat if you enter with an excess of anxiety. You don't want to bring all your personal issues into a date. It'll make it difficult to ask her about her interests or keep up a positive attitude. Try reducing this stress by meditating or exercising, if you have time. If you're stressed out about the date itself, there are ample ways to reduce those negative feelings. You don't want to sabotage the experience from the get-go. Make a list of deal-breakers and deal-makers. It's helpful to have a mental list of what you want from this particular date. Talk it out with a friend, especially one who has dating experience. And above all, make sure you're telling yourself that the date will go well. You'll never enjoy the experience if you don't believe that you will. Be public with her. If you're projecting your relationship into the world, then you've definitely crossed a threshold of seriousness. This isn't just making out in public. Displaying your relationship with hand-holding or cuddling while with friends will prove that you're ready to be intimate with her. It also makes it clear to anyone around that you and her are together. No one will try anything with you or her, meaning that you're in it together. This also might mean being "public" with your relationship using the internet. Posting photos with each other is definitely a step in your relationship. Because a great deal of socialization occurs on Facebook and Instagram now, it's important that if you're serious about your relationship, you aren't afraid to be share photos featuring the girl that you're seeing. Impress her friends. After a few dates, she'll definitely be mentioning you to your friends, especially if things are going well. It's only a matter of time before you meet them, and you have to be prepared to impress. It shouldn't feel very different from your initial date with her. Dress well, ask questions about her friends' interests, and be charismatic without schmoozing. It's very important not to be too touchy with her around her girlfriends. They may not be comfortable seeing you two all over each other. It should feel different to socialize with her friends, and you have to be sensitive to them, as well as her. If you treat them like friends, then they'll slowly become your friends. Even though her friends will probably have temperaments that align closely to hers, you definitely don't want to offend them. Avoid inflammatory topics like politics on the first meeting. You also shouldn't get too graphic or offensive. She might have an inappropriate sense of humor, but you don't know if her friends will. It's best to play it safe and leave the filthy stuff at the door. Make her feel comfortable. Once you've gotten past the initial stages of dating, she'll have made it clear that she's interested in you. At this point, you can worry less about impressing her and more about making her trust you. Soon enough, she will look to you to protect her from emotional harm. If you don't have the capacity to care for her, then your relationship probably won't progress into anything more than a casual fling. She'll be able to trust you if she knows that you've been listening to her. This means that you'll be able to remember a wide variety of details about her past or her current troubles. If she doesn't feel that you're really paying attention to her, then she'll quickly push you away. Remember that if you listen to her, she'll want to listen to you as well. Define the relationship. If you're planning on actually things to the next level, you'll have to talk about your future as a couple. While the DTR conversation can be a daunting one, there's no way to move from casual dating to a more sustainable relationship without having it. Here are some tips for figuring out "the talk." Remember that there is no right or wrong way to have this conversation. Assess how long it has been, as well as how often you see each other. This is where you can find some clarity. If you only see each other once or twice a week, then you may not feel the rush to talk. If you talk or see each other every day, however, you might want to move the DTR talk up sooner. If you're both on the same page about sex, then you'll probably be able to prolong the talk for longer. When one of you wants to wait, however, this might make the talk more immediate. Remember that if you haven't decided that you're exclusive, you aren't exclusive. When you do talk, make sure that you're blunt with your terms. "Serious" and "casual" have different definitions for everyone. Make sure that you're not just asking her about what she wants; it's also important that you also state what you want. You want to stand up for yourself without being insensitive. Remember that the DTR talk is ongoing. Even though you may have come up with a temporary agreement about the state of your relationship, things will change over time. As long as you're honest with each other about shifts in your relationship, no one will feel deceived. | Figure out what she likes and converse about it. Give her honest compliments. Make her laugh. Prove you're glad to be with her. Dress well. Be hygienic. Pick a great spot to start. Eliminate any extra stress. Be public with her. Impress her friends. Make her feel comfortable. Define the relationship. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Remove-Dog-Saliva-Stains | How to Remove Dog Saliva Stains | To remove dog saliva stains, try using a vinegar solution. First, combine 1/4 cup of vinegar, 1 cup of water, and 1 teaspoon each of mild detergent and baking soda. Spray the solution onto fabrics and let it sit for 15 minutes, then wipe it off with a damp cloth. If you're washing hard surfaces, spray on the solution and wipe away the stain with a damp cloth. If the stained item isn't water safe, use rubbing alcohol. Spray a small amount of the alcohol onto the stain, then dab it away with a dry cloth. If the area feels hard after you've cleaned it, fluff it up with a soft brush. | Mix together vinegar, water, baking soda, and mild dish detergent. Combine 1/4 cup of white vinegar with a teaspoon each of dish detergent and baking soda. Sprinkle in the baking soda slowly so the solution doesn't fizz too violently, then top it off with a cup (240 mL) of cold water. Combine the ingredients in a clean spray bottle so you can easily apply the solution to the stain. Hot water can cook the proteins in dog saliva and make it set, so use cold water instead. Use the solution on water-safe clothing, upholstery, and hard surfaces. Your vinegar solution will work well for washable fabrics, water-safe upholstery , carpeting , windows, floors, and walls. However, stay on the safe side and check your tags for care instructions before attempting stain removal. You should also test the solution on an inconspicuous spot before treating the stain. Furniture tags typically include letter codes. W stands for water-safe, S means solvent cleaners only (no water), WS means either will do, and X means vacuum only or have the piece professionally cleaned. If your furniture tag has an S, use alcohol or a store-bought solvent cleaner. If you can't find a letter code, don't use water just to stay on the safe side. Spray the cleaning solution onto the stain. If your item is water-safe, spray it lightly with the solution without soaking it. When treating a fabric stain, let the solution sit for up to 15 minutes. For hard surfaces, there's no need to let the solution sit. If you don't have a spray bottle, dab the stain with an absorbent white cloth soaked in the solution. The vinegar solution could case a colored cloth's dye to bleed onto your fabric, so use a white one instead. Wipe away the solution with a damp cloth. Wet a clean white cloth with cold water, then wring out excess water. For fabrics, blot the stain with it to flush out the vinegar solution. For hard surfaces, just wipe away the vinegar solution. Dry the spot and repeat the process, if necessary. Allow the spot to air dry or dab it with a cloth to quicken the drying process. Once it's dry, inspect the stain. If necessary, repeat the process until the stain has disappeared. Apply 70% isopropyl alcohol to the stain. If your item isn't water-safe, lightly spray the drool spot with rubbing alcohol. Apply the alcohol with an absorbent white cloth if you don't have a spray bottle. Microsuede or microfiber , for instance, have the look of suede, but are easier to clean. However, these and other upholstery fabrics often fall into the S, or solvents only, category. If you have them handy or feel like running to the store, you could also just use alcohol-based furniture cleaning wipes. Blot the stain with a clean, dry cloth. Use a white cloth instead of a colored one to prevent dye from bleeding onto your fabric. Try not to rub hard into the stain. Instead, blot the spot gently to lift the stain out of the fabric. Fluff the treated area with a soft brush. You might find that microfiber or microsuede fabric feels stiff after you've cleaned it. A quick, gentle fluff with a soft bristled brush, nail brush, or toothbrush will do the trick. Blot silk carefully with a small amount of rubbing alcohol. Apply a tiny amount of alcohol with a dry white cloth, and dab the spot slowly and carefully to avoid damaging the fabric. Cleaning silk can be tricky, and you'll need to check the care instructions and test first in an inconspicuous area. If your silk garment is labelled dry clean only, it's best to bring it to a professional. Clean velvet with lemon juice and baking soda. Pour two tablespoons of baking soda into a bowl, then add enough lemon juice to create a foamy paste. Wet a soft, white cloth with the foam, then use it to lightly blot the stain. Use the gentlest touch possible, and don't rub the solution into the velvet pile. Give the spot three to five hours to dry. You can also use a fan to quicken the drying process. Use a commercial cleaner for leather and suede. Store-bought cleaning wipes or solutions are your best choice for leather furniture and car seats. Cleaning suede is even trickier than leather, so commercial products and professional cleaning are the safest choices. If you're feeling bold, you can lightly dab suede with white vinegar, let it dry, then brush it with a suede brush. | Mix together vinegar, water, baking soda, and mild dish detergent. Use the solution on water-safe clothing, upholstery, and hard surfaces. Spray the cleaning solution onto the stain. Wipe away the solution with a damp cloth. Dry the spot and repeat the process, if necessary. Apply 70% isopropyl alcohol to the stain. Blot the stain with a clean, dry cloth. Fluff the treated area with a soft brush. Blot silk carefully with a small amount of rubbing alcohol. Clean velvet with lemon juice and baking soda. Use a commercial cleaner for leather and suede. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Thicken-Paint | How to Thicken Paint | To thicken latex wall paint, add a thickening agent, which you can buy at a home improvement store, to the paint according to the instructions provided. Then, stir the agent into the paint with a paint stick. For acrylic paints, try adding a medium like Liquitex or Golden to your paint. You can also try mixing in some modeling paste, but bear in mind that it dries white so it might change the paint's color. Additionally, stir in a little sand or sawdust to give your acrylic paint more texture. | Buy a thickening agent. You can buy a thickening agent for your paint from a local home improvement store. Most thickening agents for latex paint are made with water-soluble hydroxyethyl cellulose which works well with the latex. Make sure the thickening agent says it works with latex paint. Add the thickening agent to the paint. Read the directions on the bottle of thickening agent to find out how much to use. Typically you will add it by the tablespoon depending on how much paint you have. For the best result, add a smaller amount than called for, and then slowly add more until you get the thickness you need. Adding more than the manufacturer's recommended amount can cause the paint to crack and peel when applied to the wall. Stir the paint. Use a paint stick to slowly stir the thickening agent into the paint. The paint will thicken as you stir. If the paint still isn't thick enough, add more thickening agent in small amounts as you stir. Test the paint. Paint a small part of the wall to test the thickness of the paint. Let this paint dry completely before checking the results. The paint should not have cracks or be peeling in any way. If the paint looks great and has an even color, you can finish painting the rest of the wall. Gather the materials needed. You will need cornstarch, water, a pot, tempera paint, and a sealable container to make your paint thicker. Have these materials ready when you begin this project. Heat cornstarch and water. Add 4 teaspoons of cornstarch to 3 cups of water in a pot. Mix them together until they're combined. Heat the mixture on low heat stirring frequently. Stir until the cornstarch has dissolved and the mixture becomes smooth and thick. Cool the mixture. When the mixture is smooth and thick, remove it from the heat and allow it to cool. Stir the mixture after it has completely cooled. Add the cornstarch mixture to the paint. Slowly add the cornstarch mixture to the tempera paint stirring occasionally. Use a spoon to add the cornstarch mixture or slowly pour it into the paint. Add the cornstarch mixture until the paint reaches the thickness you desire. Store the extra cornstarch mixture. Use a sealable container to store any extra cornstarch mixture. You can use the cornstarch thickening agent to make tempera paint thicker in the future. Purchase a medium to add to your paints. Many art stores carry house brand paint additives that are designed to be mixed with acrylic paints. Liquitex and Golden are two popular manufactures of painting medium additives. Look for a matte or gel medium that dries clear to maintain the color of your paints. Mix a small amount of the medium with your paint. Stir the paint and test the thickness on a small sample paper. Blow dry the sample and observe the color and thickness of your brush stroke. Add more medium if you desire a thicker paint. Use a texture gel to add body to your paint. Many gel compounds contain additives to mimic sand or stucco. Combine the texture gel with your paint to give the paint a textured feel. You can experiment with adding sand or sawdust in small amounts to add additional texture. Mix modeling paste into the paint. Work a small amount of modeling paste to add thickness to your paints that will show up in your brushstrokes. Modeling paste dries white and may alter the colors of your paints. Combine beeswax and turpentine to create a paste. Mix 1 part beeswax with 3 parts turpentine. Stir the turpentine into the beeswax until an even mixture is formed Work the paste into your paint to achieve the desired thickness. Mix the paint and paste directly on your palate. Use a commercial paint medium. Visit your local art store and browse the selection of oil paint mediums. There are many commercial paint mediums that add texture or thickness to paints. Choose your medium based on the look you desire for your painting; some mediums can change the gloss or color of the paint. Combine the medium with the paint according to the package instructions. Adjust the amount of medium you add to your paints until you reach the desired consistency. | Buy a thickening agent. Add the thickening agent to the paint. Stir the paint. Test the paint. Gather the materials needed. Heat cornstarch and water. Cool the mixture. Add the cornstarch mixture to the paint. Store the extra cornstarch mixture. Purchase a medium to add to your paints. Use a texture gel to add body to your paint. Mix modeling paste into the paint. Combine beeswax and turpentine to create a paste. Work the paste into your paint to achieve the desired thickness. Use a commercial paint medium. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Lyft-Driver | How to Become a Lyft Driver | To become a Lyft driver, you'll need to be at least 21 years old, have a valid driver's license and in-state car insurance, and have a 4-door car that's in good condition and newer than 2004. If you don't have your own car, you can pay to rent a car through a company that's partnered with Lyft. You'll also need to have a clean driving record and be able to pass a background check. If you meet all of the requirements, fill out an application on Lyft's website to get started. | Pass the driver requirements. You'll need to be at least 21 years of age to drive for Lyft. In addition, you'll have to complete a background check and a driver's record check. In the past three years, you shouldn't have more than three moving violations, such as traffic light violations. You shouldn't have any major violations, such as reckless driving. In the last seven years, you should have no drug-related infractions or DUIs. In addition, you can't have any driving felonies, such as a hit-and-run. In the past seven years, you shouldn't have committed any violent crimes, sexual offenses, thefts, property damage, felonies or drug related offenses. Make sure you have a valid license. You'll need a valid driver's license for your state, as well as one year of driving experience in the United States. If you recently moved and hope to drive for Lyft, you should go to the DMV and get a license. If you recently moved and got a new in-state license, you will need to prove that you have one year of driving experience. You could take a photograph of your old driver's license before trading it in for your new in-state license. Get in-state car insurance. Your automotive insurance should be in-state and your name should be on the policy. In addition, you must be insured to the level of the state minimum. The name on your insurance policy has to match the vehicle you want to drive for Lyft. Ensure your car is up to snuff. You'll need a four door car that is in good condition. In particular, your car should have all of the safety features, no major damage and should be clean. It should meet the following specifications: It should be a 2004 or newer model. All seatbelts in good working condition. Good tire tread depth. You should be able to fit a penny within all parts of the tread. Four doors that are in good working order. There has to be a handle on each of the four doors that is accessible from the outside. All lights in good working order. Signals, high beams, hazards, turn signals, brake lights, fog beams and other lights should be functioning. Working A/C and heating. Windows that roll up and down and in good condition. No obstruction of the field of vision, such as cracks in the windshield. The body of the car must be in good condition. Working mufflers and tailpipe. Seat adjustments work properly. Horn works. No issues with the engine, transmission, suspension, steering or brakes of the vehicle. Apply for the express drive program if you don’t own a car. If you have all of the requirements except for a car, you can still drive for Lyft! You can drive for one of the car rental companies that have arrangements with Lyft, such as Hertz or Enterprise, for example. This can be a good way to try out the job, although you may want to own your own car for this job eventually, given the rental costs. It may cost in the range of $150-250 per week to rent a car to drive for Lyft. Get a mobile app. You need a smartphone for this job, since you will get your jobs by looking at the Lyft mobile app. In particular, you'll need at least an iPhone 4 with an iOS 9.0+ operating system. If you use an Android device, it should be running at least a 6.0+ operating system. Create a Lyft account. On your smartphone or personal computer, go to the Lyft website. You will need to enter your first and last name, email address, city and phone number. At this stage, you can also get a rough estimate of how much you could make based on your city and the number of hours you plan to drive. Fill out the basic information on the Lyft website. After creating your account, you will be asked to fill out basic information that Lyft will use to perform a background check, driver's record check, identity check, vehicle check and make sure you meet the driver's requirements. Lyft will contact you about the status of your application. Pass the welcome ride. If you pass the online application process, you will get an email from a Lyft mentor. A Lyft mentor is an experienced Lyft driver who will test your suitability for the position. You will set up a meeting with the Lyft mentor. At the meeting, you'll have to take the mentor for a drive. At this stage, you may want to ask the mentor a few questions about their experience of driving for Lyft and try to get a few tips. The mentor will take a photograph of you, your car and license, which they will send to Lyft on your behalf. Download the Lyft application. Open the App store on your smartphone. Open search and type “Lyft.” Click on “Get” to download the mobile application. Once the App is downloaded to your phone, you should see a steering wheel in the top right corner. Tap on the steering wheel to get to the driver's side of the application. Enter your banking information into the driver dashboard. In order to get paid from Lyft, you'll need to enter your banking information into the driver dashboard on your Lyft account. Although you can do this from a mobile phone, you may prefer to enter this information on a computer. You'll need to enter your bank's routing and account numbers. If you look for the routing number on a personal check, it is the 9-digit code on the lower left corner. You'll see the account number on the right side of the check. It is a 13-digit code. Lyft will only transfer money to a checking account. Determine “prime time” hours. Since you can make more money per hour by driving during “prime time,” you'll want to determine when “prime time” is scheduled in your city. Typically, “prime time” is scheduled for late at night when people are coming back from the bars. The early mornings are also typically “prime time,” since many people will be using the app to get to work. Figure out the most lucrative times of year. The most lucrative times of year to make money in your region will vary depending on the local economy. So it helps to know when tourists begin coming to your city or town, for example, as well as when major festivals or events take place. Learn from the local driving community. Talk to other Lyft drivers. Join a social networking site for Lyft or Uber drivers in your area, such as a Facebook group. Ask for tips from more experienced drivers, such as how to get the most lucrative trips and the best tips. Practice good customer service. Since passengers will be rating their experience in your car, you'll need to practice friendly, positive customer service. Lyft is known for offering a friendly, upbeat passenger experience, so you should be prepared to chat and drive. Being friendly should help not only with your tips but also with your ratings, which influence how many rides you get. | Pass the driver requirements. Make sure you have a valid license. Get in-state car insurance. Ensure your car is up to snuff. Apply for the express drive program if you don’t own a car. Get a mobile app. Create a Lyft account. Fill out the basic information on the Lyft website. Pass the welcome ride. Download the Lyft application. Enter your banking information into the driver dashboard. Determine “prime time” hours. Figure out the most lucrative times of year. Learn from the local driving community. Practice good customer service. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Smoke-Cheese | How to Smoke Cheese | To smoke cheese over a grill, first slice the cheese and put it on a grate over a large pan of ice. Then, put it on a hot grill that's fired with special wood chips to create flavorful smoke. Finally, smoke the cheese for 30 minutes-6 hours, turning it every 15-30 minutes and keeping it on the grill until it has a dark smoke ring around the edges. Alternatively, you can smoke cheese by putting it into a refrigerator with wood chips heated by a hot plate to create the smoke. Give your cheese 1-6 hours in the fridge, flipping it once to get smoke rings on both sides. | Wait for a cool day. Cheese must be "cold smoked," to prevent melting. This is easiest to accomplish if the air temperature is no higher than 60 °F (16 °C), even with the methods we'll use to keep temperatures low. If you do try this on a warm day, start with a small batch to minimize mess and lost cheese from melting. The store-bought cold smoker method is best for warm days. Cut a cheese of your choice. Any cheese can be smoked, unless it is so soft it will fall through the grate. Gouda, cheddar, and Gruyère are all common options. For fully smoked cheese, use pieces no larger than 4" x 4" by 2" (10cm x 10cm x 5cm), so the smoke can penetrate through the entire piece of cheese. If you prefer cheese with a smoky rind and soft interior, use larger pieces. Dry the cheese and bring to room temperature. Unwrap your cheese and leave it in the refrigerator overnight. Remove from the refrigerator the next day and leave it until it reaches room temperature. This will cause some moisture to evaporate, making it easier to develop the smoky rind. Wipe off moisture from the cheese surface using a paper towel. There's some disagreement among cheese-smokers over this step. Some people prefer to keep the cheese chilled or even frozen before smoking. Others dislike the texture changes that come with freezing, and may even prefer the convenience of skipping the refrigeration step and just leaving the cheese out at room temperature for one or two hours. Consider buying a cold smoker. You can purchase a "cold smoker" attachment or adapter for your hot smoker, or a standalone cold smoker. These range in cost from about $35 to well over $100. However, once the cold smoker is set up, smoking is simple and risk of melting the cheese is low. Some cold smoker attachments are small, low-heat devices with special wood dust fuel. These can be placed at the bottom of the hot smoker, and used as directed. Other cold smoker attachments are additional compartments that attach to your hot smoker. If not created by the same company, you may need to attach the two together yourself. Some models only require a drill, nut, and bolt to achieve this, but find out before you buy. Either way, once you set the cold smoker up, cook the cheese over wood chips or wood pellets for 1–6 hours, turning at least once, then remove and refrigerate for 1–4 weeks before eating. See the "hot smoker" section for more tips. Alternatively, make your own cold smoker. Continue on to one of the sections below, depending on the tools you have available: There are two ways to MacGyver an ordinary (hot) smoker or closable grill to make your own cold smoker. You can use a pan of ice, or you can build your own mini smoke source from a tin can. Both are described in the "hot smoker" section. If you do not have any type of smoker or grill and do not want to buy one, you can attempt to smoke the cheese in a spare refrigerator over a hot plate. This can be a successful smoker, but is difficult to control and requires extra attention to fire safety. Smoke cheese over a pan of ice. The simplest way to keep your cheese cool in a hot smoker or grill is to place a large pan of ice. Put a grate over the pan for the cheese to rest on, then skip down to the "Light a flavorful smoke source" step. If you don't have room for the ice pan, or you are concerned about the moisture slowing the smoking down, try the next step instead. If you have the space, fill a colander with ice instead and put it over a pan to catch drips. This makes it easier to replace the ice. Read the section on preparing the cheese if you haven't already. Alternatively, use a tin can. Take a clean, sturdy tin can, such as a soup can holding at least 10 oz. (300 mL). You'll use this as an undersize chimney starter, keeping the fire small and low-temperature. If you have a large smoker, you may need to use a larger coffee can instead to get enough smoke density. Light a flavorful smoke source. If using ice, start the fire as normal, using three or four small charcoal briquettes (or an electric smoker's heating element). Use a pan of flavorful wood chips or pellets directly over the heat to create the smoke. (See the tips section below for advice on flavors.) If you are using the tin can, there are two options available: Tin can method A: fill half the can with charcoal briquettes. Fill the next ¼ of the can with water-soaked wood chips, then the rest of the can with dry woodchips. Tin can method B: Punch a hole in the can near the upper rim. Stick a brand-new , soldering iron into this hole, then fill about half the can with wood pellets (no charcoal necessary). Plug in the soldering iron to start the fire. Never use a soldering iron that has been used for soldering, or the smoke will contain toxic chemicals. Arrange the vents. Adjust the air vents until plenty of smoke is produced, but the wood is burning slow and steady. Add the cheese. With the smoke source at the base of the smoker or grill, add the cheese pieces over the top grate. Close the smoker or grill. If the day is windy, you can cover the closed device with a tarp to keep the smoke inside. Check the cheese frequently. With these methods, it's a smart idea to check the cheese every 15 to 20 minutes, especially the first time you try it. Look for the following problems and correct them: Maintain the fire by adding more charcoal every 30–40 minutes, or more wood chips or pellets whenever they run low. (Include both wet and dry wood chips if using tin can method A.) If the cheese develops sweat beads, it is getting close to melting. Narrow the air vents or cool the cheese using the methods below. If using an ice pan, replace ice water with fresh ice. On a cool day with a low fire, this may not be necessary. Smoke for 0.5 to 6 hours, turning occasionally. Cheese absorbs flavors easily, and does not need to be smoked as long as meat does. Turn the cheese over every 15–30 minutes, or at least once during the smoking process. Wait until the cheese has developed a darker "smoke ring" around its edges before removing from heat. Soft cheese in a warm smoker can be finished in as little as 30 minutes, if you prefer a light flavor. One or two hours is more common. Thick blocks of hard cheese smoked on a cold winter day may take as long as 4–6 hours. For your first attempt, 3 hours or less is recommended to avoid overpowering the original cheese flavor. Let the cheese cure before eating. Remove the cheese and wrap it in wax paper or parchment paper. Keep it in the refrigerator for at least a week so the smoke flavor mellows into a more attractive taste. Often, the cheese tastes better after two to four weeks refrigerated. Do not wrap the cheese in plastic. If you want to prevent it drying out, wrap in wax paper, then place in an unsealed plastic bag. Set aside a refrigerator to use only for smoking. This refrigerator may develop an ineradicable smoky flavor, and needs to be completely empty. This should be kept in an area without nearby fire hazards, such as a garage or basement with concrete floors and no flammable materials nearby. The refrigerator does not need to be functional. Refer to the "preparing the cheese" instructions at the top of the page before you continue. Place a hot plate at the bottom of the refrigerator. Place a hot plate on the bottom of the fridge, preferably one with a temperature control. Add a wood chip pan. Place a small bread pan, tin can, or other heat-safe container over the hot plate. Fill it with wood chips or wood pellets intended for smoking, or taken from a source of pure wood with no toxic additives. See the tips section for advice on wood flavors. Place a pan of ice on the middle rack. Above the hot plate, fill a large container with ice. This will keep the cheese cool and prevent it from melting. Begin to smoke the cheese. Lay the cheese pieces on the upper rack of the refrigerator. Turn on the hot plate to a low setting and shut the refrigerator door. Smoke the cheese for 1–6 hours, checking regularly. Check every 10–15 minutes for these problems and correct them if necessary: If the ice has melted, replace the ice water with fresh ice. If the cheese develops sweat beads, turn off the hot plate until the cheese cools down. Once the cheese develops a smoke ring around the edge, flip it over. Once the smoke ring is on both sides, remove from the setup and turn off the hot plate. Refrigerate the cheese. Wrap in wax paper and refrigerate for at least a week for best flavor. Some cheeses taste best after two to four weeks for smoking. Don't give up on a nasty-tasting cheese directly from the smoker – er, the refrigerator. The flavor often improves dramatically. | Wait for a cool day. Cut a cheese of your choice. Dry the cheese and bring to room temperature. Consider buying a cold smoker. Alternatively, make your own cold smoker. Smoke cheese over a pan of ice. Alternatively, use a tin can. Light a flavorful smoke source. Arrange the vents. Add the cheese. Check the cheese frequently. Smoke for 0.5 to 6 hours, turning occasionally. Let the cheese cure before eating. Set aside a refrigerator to use only for smoking. Place a hot plate at the bottom of the refrigerator. Add a wood chip pan. Place a pan of ice on the middle rack. Begin to smoke the cheese. Smoke the cheese for 1–6 hours, checking regularly. Refrigerate the cheese. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Reduce-Stress | How to Reduce Stress | To reduce your stress, get 8 hours of sleep every night and practice relaxing your body through daily exercise and weekly massage. Techniques like deep breathing exercises, guided meditation, and practicing yoga can also help you reduce physical and mental stress in the moment and during your day. If you're not sure where your stress is coming from, try journaling for 20 minutes every day to get down to the root cause of your stress. Then, take action to reduce those triggers or avoid them altogether! | Exercise. Just 30 to 45 minutes of exercise three times a week can make you feel much healthier and in control of your own life. Studies have shown that exercise can relieve stress, reduce depression and improve your cognitive function. Exercise also releases endorphins, chemicals that trigger positive feelings. Here are some great ways to exercise: Take up running. Running releases endorphins and can make you feel great after you do it. Try setting a goal for yourself, like running a 5k or 10k race. This will keep you motivated and make you feel more capable of meeting and tackling challenges. Join a pool and swim a mile every other day. Immersing yourself in water will make you feel stronger and will wash away any of your stressful thoughts. This is also a good activity if you have any joint or muscle pain. Take a yoga class. Yoga is not only great for you physically, but it will help you learn to regulate your breath and your mind's wanderings. Join a team sport, like bowling, volleyball, or softball. You'll be able to make new friends and workout at the same time. In other words, you get the benefits of socialization AND exercising in one go. Take up hiking. You'll feel less stressed if you spend more time in nature and exposed to fresh air. Get a massage. Massage therapy can help reduce stress. A massage is a great way to relax and to minimize the physical and emotional tension you are experiencing. You can give yourself a massage by massaging your neck, forearms, and palms, ask a friend to give you a massage, or even go to a professional masseuse. A professional massage can be pricey, but well worth it. A masseuse will literally be able to knead some of the stress out of your body. Check to see if massage therapy is covered by your insurance plan. Massaging is also great foreplay. If you have a willing significant other, ask him to massage your feet or back, and see where it takes you. Eat well. Maintaining the right diet is the key to reducing stress. Well-nourished bodies are better able to cope with the physical and emotional side effects of stress. Moreover, stress has been correlated with overeating; people tend to seek high-calorie, high-fat foods when they feel stressed. If you want to reduce the stress in your life, then you should pay particular attention to your diet. Here's how to do it: Eat a healthy breakfast. Breakfast really is the most important meal of the day, so take the time to eat healthy carbs like oatmeal, proteins like lean turkey or ham, and a healthy portion of fruits and vegetables. Eat three balanced meals a day. Not skipping meals no matter how busy or stressed you are will help stabilize your routine and give you more energy. Make time for healthy snacks that will keep your energy high throughout the day. Carry an apple, banana, or bag of almonds. Avoid snacks that will make you feel unhealthy and lethargic, like a sugary snack or a soda. Minimize your caffeine, alcohol, and sugar intake. Caffeine, alcohol, and sugar may give you a temporary boost but often result in energy and mood crashes later on. Cutting back on these things may also help you sleep more soundly. Help lower your stress levels by swapping caffeinated, sugary, and alcoholic drinks for water or herbal teas to keep your body hydrated. Incorporate stress-relieving herbs and teas into your daily regimen. A number of herbs and teas can have a calming effect and reduce stress-induced insomnia, anxiety or anger. Always make sure to consult your physician or other health practitioner before using any new herbs or supplements. The most common herbs and teas used for stress relief include: Chamomile - The chamomile plant has been popular because of its wide range of healing properties and its easy availability. Perhaps most commonly ingested as a tea, chamomile is often used to relieve stress-induced symptoms, such as insomnia and upset stomachs. Passionflower - Passionflower plants have been used to treat sleep disorders, anxiety, and gastrointestinal problems. Recent research has suggested that passionflower can be as effective as prescriptive chemical drugs in treating anxiety. Passionflower is usually ingested as a tea. Lavender - Research has shown that lavender can produce calming, soothing, and sedative effects when its scent is inhaled. For this reason, lavender is often used in aromatherapy oils, teas, soaps, bath gels and lotions, among many other commercial products. Valerian root - Valerian root can be used to treat anxiety and insomnia, although it should not be used for longer than one month. Improve your sleep schedule. Sleep is simply too important to shortchange and sacrifice. Improving your sleep schedule will go a long way in helping you reduce stress, since sleep affects your memory, judgment, and mood. Research has shown that most Americans would be happier, healthier, and safer if they slept an extra 60-90 minutes each night. Most people need 7-9 hours of sleep a day to get a healthy night's sleep. Sleeping too much or not enough can make you feel groggy and unable to deal with your responsibilities. Try to get the same amount of sleep every night. Don't sleep five hours a day during the week and then sleep ten hours a day on weekends, or you will feel even more unbalanced and tired. Go to bed and wake up around the same time every day. This will make your routine even more regular, and it will become easier for you to go to bed and wake up. Spend an hour decompressing in bed before you actually go to sleep. Read or listen to calming music, or write in your journal. Don't watch TV or look at your phone, as it can be harder to wind down and get your mind and body into sleep mode. Tune in to your body regularly. Most people separate their physical selves from their mental selves. However, it can be useful to take a moment and check in with and mentally scan your body to understand how stress is affecting it. Lie on your back or sit with your feet on the floor. Start at your toes and work your way up to your scalp, noticing how your body feels and where there is any tension. Don't work to change anything or loosen up those tense areas, just be aware of them. For a couple of minutes, lie resting and breathing into all areas of your body, from top to bottom. Imagining the breath flowing into each body part as you come to it. Decompress. Place a warm heat wrap or cloth around your neck and shoulders for 10 minutes as you shut your eyes. Try to relax your face, neck and shoulders. You can also use a tennis ball or Acuball to then massage those head, neck, and shoulder muscles where many of us hold our tension. Place the ball between your back and the wall or the floor, depending on what is easiest and most comfortable for you. Lean against the ball and apply gentle pressure to your back for up to 30 seconds. Then, move the ball to another area to decompress that particular spot. Read. Reading is a great way to calm your mind and to gain knowledge. It's also a wonderful way to wake up your mind in the morning and to help yourself fall asleep at night. Whether you're reading historical fiction or a steamy romance, being absorbed in another world will help you relax your mind. Even just six minutes of reading can help reduce your stress level by two-thirds. If it helps, you can read with calming classical music in the background before you go to bed. Keep a good light source nearby to protect your eyes, but dim the lights around you as you read to make yourself more calm and ease yourself into relaxation and rest. If you love reading and want to make it more social, join a book club. This is a great way to encourage yourself to read and make friends in the process. Again, you can hit two birds with one stone here to reduce your stress level: do something you love and have meaningful interactions with others. Think positively. Become a positive thinker and to take more pleasure in your everyday interactions. Psychologists have shown that optimists and pessimists often face the same setbacks and challenges but the optimist copes with these in a better manner. Think everyday about 3 small things that you are grateful for; this will help remind you of all of the positive elements of your life even when you're feeling stressed. Positive thinking can help you keep a little perspective. Laugh more. Laughing has been proven to reduce stress. Many physicians, like Patch Adams, believe that humor can positively impact recovery from illnesses and surgeries. Studies have even shown that the very act of smiling can improve your mood and make you feel happier. Laughing releases endorphins, brain chemicals that enhance your mood. Using humor allows you to take back your power. Humor allows us to look at things in a different light. It may turn whatever is stressing you out on its head. It often pokes fun of authority. It may give you a novel way of seeing what is bothering you. Laughter and humor is a deep and powerful tool to see life differently. Practice deep breathing. Focusing on deepening your breath is one way to invoke the relaxation response to stress. Deep breathing is also known as diaphragmatic breathing, abdominal breathing, belly breathing, and paced respiration. Deep breathing encourages full oxygen exchange, meaning the trade of incoming fresh oxygen for outgoing carbon dioxide.This helps to slow the heartbeat and stabilize or even lower blood pressure. Begin by finding a quiet and comfortable place to sit or lie down. Take a normal breath or two to settle yourself. Then try a deep breath: breathe in slowly through your nose, allowing your chest and lower belly to expand as you fill your lungs. Let your abdomen expand fully. Don't hold it back, as many of us tend to do. Now breathe out slowly through your mouth (or your nose, if that feels more natural). Once you feel comfortable doing this after a few practice rounds, move on to the regular form of breath focus. As you sit with your eyes closed, complement your deep breathing with helpful imagery and perhaps a focus word or phrase that helps you relax. Why doesn't shallow breathing have the same effect? Shallow breathing in fact does the opposite by limiting the motion of the diaphragm. When we breath shallowly, the lower lungs don't get a full share of oxygenated air, which can cause you to feel short of breath and anxious. Practice mindfulness. Mindfulness exercises are ways of paying attention to the present moment in order to help people adjust how they think and feel about their experiences. Mindfulness helps people manage and reduce stress and often uses techniques like meditation, breathing and yoga. Try meditating if you can't make it to a course on mindfulness or a yoga class. You can meditate anywhere and for as long as you like. Meditating for just 20 minutes a day can reduce your stress greatly. All you have to do is find a comfortable seat in a quiet place, put your hands in a comfortable position, close your eyes, and focus on your breathing. Focus on being present and relaxed in your body, and notice every breath and small ache you feel. Work on clearing your mind of any negative or stressful thoughts; this can be the hardest part. And, most importantly: breathe. If you find your mind wandering, focus on counting your inhales and exhales. Try meditating right after you wake up or to wind down before bed. Let go (at least a little bit! ). Recognize that you can't control everything. There will always be stressful elements in your life, but you can minimize the stress in your life by eliminating what you can and learning to cope with the rest. It can be helpful to consult your journal and review all of the things you are stressing over but can't control, including traffic, who your boss and coworkers are, economic ups and downs, etc. It's not easy to realize that you can't control anything but you may find it empowering in the end. For example, in this process you will realize that the only thoughts and behaviors you can control are your own. You can't control what your boss thinks about you or what your in-laws say; instead, what you CAN control are your responses and reactions to them. You will thus gain a new appreciation for who you are and what you're capable of. Address stressful situations head-on. Instead of avoiding or putting off dealing with your stressors, why not face them directly? Though you may not be able to single-handedly eliminate all of the things that are stressing you out, you may be able to alleviate them to some degree and, most importantly, prevent them from worsening and having increasingly adverse effects on your mental and physical well-being. Address any stressful situations in the workplace. If you feel overworked or undervalued, talk to your boss in a calm and reasonable manner. If you feel that you're over-committed at work, find a way to do half an hour less work a day, perhaps by cutting out distractions or unnecessary breaks in your work flow. Look for solutions that will help you reduce that particular stressor without adding any additional stress. Learn how to be assertive to communicate your needs so that they are taken seriously. Address any relationships that are causing you stress. If you're stressed out about the state of your relationship with a partner, family member or friend, it's best to start a conversation than to wait around to see what happens. The sooner you open up about the stress the relationship is causing you, the sooner you can begin to resolve it. Address the "little things" that need doing. Sometimes it can be the smallest things that add to our daily stress as they build up and remain undone. If you're feeling like you're starting to "sweat the small stuff", deal with these things directly. Make a to-do list of the little things (such as needing to change your oil to making a dentist appointment) that are nagging you and see how many you can get done in a month. Creating a checklist can be very motivating; you'll get to see the list get shorter as you check items off. Get organized. Getting organized, planning ahead and being prepared can reduce stress levels. One of the first key steps is to keep a day planner that lists all of your appointments, meetings, and anything else you have scheduled, such as a yoga class or class trip. This will help you know what your days look like each week and month. In so doing, you'll have a better sense of what you need to do and how to plan for these things. Organize your short-term plans. If you're stressed at the thought of an upcoming trip, try to hammer out the details as early as you can so there are no x-factors. Knowing what's ahead will give you a sense of control and help you better manage any unforeseen circumstances. Organize your space. If you declutter your space , then your life will feel more organized and manageable. This may take some effort, but the benefits will outweigh the time you spend on getting everything right. Get rid of things you no longer use or need (such as old clothes, electronics or small appliances) and rearrange your space to make it as functional as possible. Try to maintain an organized and clean living space. Spend 10-15 minutes each night throwing out anything you don't need, cleaning, and putting everything back in its place. A clean and clear space can help make a clear mind. Take control of your commitments. While there are a lot of commitments you cannot control, there are a lot that you can. All too often, people say "yes" to things that do not bring pleasure, or cause undue anxiety, or take away from more important commitments. One reason that many people feel stressed out is because they feel over-committed and like they don't have enough time to pursue their interests or spend time with their loved ones. Make appointments for yourself. This is something parents especially need to do--put aside time for one's self rather than children, community, church group, or whatever. Whether that is to go on a hike, take a hot bubble bath, or meet up with a friend--this is important time to put aside. Distinguish between "shoulds" and "musts". You must file your taxes on time, for instance. But feeling you should make homemade treats for your child's pre-school class may make you feel guilty when you simply do not have the time to make Pintrest-worthy food--if the children are perfectly happy with carrot sticks and ranch dip, why not opt for something simpler? Think about what you absolutely have to do and prioritize that over things that you "should" or would do in an ideal situation. Learn how to say "no." If your friend is always throwing parties that are crowded and cause you anxiety, skip the next one. It's okay - and sometimes necessary - to say "no" sometimes. Know your limits and stick to them. Taking on more than you can handle is one definite way to increase your stress. Make a "To-Don't List". Sometimes there is so much focus on tasks, it makes the day a never-ending hum of activity. Try making a list of what to remove from your schedule. For instance: If you have to work late on Thursday, if you can avoid making dinner that night, do so. You have to help your parents clean out the garage this weekend. You will end up tired and sweaty, so going skateboarding with your friends will likely be out. Maybe you can go next week. You have a big test coming up. That may mean you have to go to the gym for a half hour, not for two hours. Make time for relaxation. Make time to relax for at least an hour each day, especially in the morning and in the evening before bed. Write it into your planner so that you don't end up skipping out on it. Everyone needs time to recharge their batteries. Do something you enjoy every day, whether it be a short play of the piano, stargazing, or doing a puzzle. Such activities will remind you of some of the things you like about your life. Use problem-solving techniques. Instead of thinking "X, Y, and Z are really stressing me out," shift your focus to what you can do to alleviate these problems. Shifting your perspective from the problem itself to what you are going to do about it can help you reassert control over your life. For example, if you know that traffic stresses you out because it is boring and wastes your time, ask yourself what you can do to change your experience of being in traffic. Come up with a range of solutions (such as listening to music or books on tape or getting a co-worker to carpool with you) and try them out. Assess methodically which is working best for you. Framing stressors as problems implies that they are things that can be solved, like a puzzle or math question. Surround yourself with positive social support. Research has shown that people who experience major life stresses, such as the loss of a partner or job, come out the other side of the ordeal more easily if they have a network of friends and family on whom they can draw and rely. Spend your time with people who are positive forces in your life, who make you feel appreciated, valued, and confident and encourage you to be your best possible self. Minimize your interactions with people who stress you out. If someone in your life is stressing you out all the time, then you're probably better off without that person. Of course, you may not be able to cut off a stress-inducing coworker, but you can certainly try to minimize your interactions with people who stress you out on a daily basis. Avoid individuals who are negative and who make you feel inadequate. Negativity breeds stress. Try minimize your contact with all of the negative people in your life. Someone who is not supportive of you may in fact cause you greater stress than if you were simply alone. Identify the causes of your stress. Before you can move forward, you need to be able to identify the causes of your stress. Take some time to be alone and get out a notepad or journal. List everything that may be contributing to your feelings of stress. Once you have a better sense of what is causing your stress, you can make changes that will help you cope with it. Consult a stress inventory. A stress inventory can help you assess your stress. The Holmes-Rahe Life Stress Inventory is widely used in the psychology and psychiatric fields. This list contains 43 stressful life events that can impact your mental and physical well-being from severely stressful events, such as the loss of a spouse or a divorce to less stressful events, like vacations and minor violations of the law (e.g., jaywalking or parking tickets). It is important to note, however, that all individuals feel stress in different ways and deal with life events differently. While a stress inventory may be useful in helping you identify some causes of stress, it may not list everything you're experiencing or may assign values that don't jive with your own experience. Journaling - even for just 20 minutes a day - has been proven to help people in many areas of their lives. Journaling has been correlated with reduced stress and an improved immune system. Further, writing helps you keep track of your personal behavior and emotional patterns. It can also help you resolve conflict and know yourself better. Begin by considering the root causes of your stress. You may think you're stressed because of your low salary, but the real root cause may be that you're generally dissatisfied at your job and are uncertain about what career path to pursue. Or what if you get stressed when your husband buys a new gadget? Are you mad specifically about the gadget or is your stress coming from bigger concerns about your family's growing debt? Evaluate your personal relationships. Are the relationships in your life helping you be a better person and cope effectively with stressors? Or are these relationships instead causing added stress? Assess the frequency of your stress. Are you stressed because of a specific situation or are you in a permanent state of stress? Stress because a coworker failed to get his project done for a meeting, for example, is different than if you are feeling stressed from the moment you wake up to when you go to bed. If you are in a constant state of stress, there may be a more serious underlying condition to your stress. In this case, you should consult a mental health professional for guidance and advice. You can also start learning how to deal with anxiety by reading up on the different coping strategies that are out there. Rank the causes of your stress. This will help you determine what is stressing you out the most. Ranking your stressors will also determine where you should focus your energies in order to proactively reduce your stress. For instance, traffic might be at number 10, whereas financial concerns are at the top of the list. Design a game plan to reduce the stress in your life. To reduce stress, you have to be methodical and thoughtful. If you're really determined to reduce or even eliminate the stress in your life, then you have to take directed and specific actions to alleviate certain stressors. Start with the little things on the bottom of the ranked list you created and see if you can address them one by one. For example, you could make traffic time less stressful by leaving earlier, bringing along your favorite music or getting books on tape to listen to in the car. You could also consider alternative transport options, like a carpool or public transit. Work your way up the list to find ways to address all of the different aspects of your life that stress you out. Some may be easier to cope with than others. For example, it might not be so simple to remove the stress of money as to make your commute more enjoyable. However, you can still plan to take proactive measures wherever possible, such as consulting with a financial advisor. Even the act of reflecting on your stress can be empowering and stress-relieving. Consider making a Stress Management Worksheet for each of your stressors. This will help you understand each stressor individually and how it impacts your life. It can also help you think of and commit to a few ways to addressing that stressor. For example, you can write down how you plan to cope with a specific stressor from a more positive perspective. The worksheet also helps you focus on your more general experiences of stress as well and asks you to commit to listing a few key ways in which to plan to treat your self better and engage in some self-care. Reflect with the help of others. You don't have to deal with your stress alone. You'll feel much better if you open up to a friend, family member, or even a professional. If you share your feelings, chances are that you'll be able to get some helpful feedback and a fresh perspective on your problems. In addition, the very act of talking about your stress - saying the words out loud - might help you clarify what exactly it is that you are struggling with. Talk to a close friend or family member about your stress and stress management techniques. It's likely that people around you have had to cope with stress at some point in their lives, so you'll not only be able to open up, but you'll gain some insight as well. Know when to get help. If you constantly feel overwhelmed by every aspect of your life, you may benefit from seeing a mental health professional. If you're so stressed that you can barely sleep, eat, or think straight, then it's time to seek help. | Exercise. Get a massage. Eat well. Incorporate stress-relieving herbs and teas into your daily regimen. Improve your sleep schedule. Tune in to your body regularly. Decompress. Read. Think positively. Laugh more. Practice deep breathing. Practice mindfulness. Let go (at least a little bit! Address stressful situations head-on. Get organized. Take control of your commitments. Make time for relaxation. Use problem-solving techniques. Surround yourself with positive social support. Identify the causes of your stress. Assess the frequency of your stress. Rank the causes of your stress. Design a game plan to reduce the stress in your life. Reflect with the help of others. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Write-a-Research-Introduction | How to Write a Research Introduction | To introduce your research paper, use the first 1-2 sentences to describe your general topic, such as “women in World War I.” Include and define keywords, such as “gender relations,” to show your reader where you're going. Mention previous research into the topic with a phrase like, “Others have studied…”, then transition into what your contribution will be and why it's necessary. Finally, state the questions that your paper will address and propose your “answer” to them as your thesis statement. | Announce your research topic. You can start your introduction with a few sentences which announce the topic of your paper and give an indication of the kind of research questions you will be asking. This is a good way to introduce your readers to your topic and pique their interest. The first few sentences should act as an indication of a broader problem which you will then focus in on more closely in the rest of your introduction, leading to your specific research questions. In scientific papers this is sometimes known as an "inverted triangle", where you start with the broadest material at the start, before zooming in on the specifics. The sentence "Throughout the 20th century, our views of life on other planets have drastically changed" introduces a topic, but does so in broad terms. It provides the reader with an indication of the content of the essay and encourages them to read on. Consider referring to key words. When you write a research paper for publication you will be required to submit it along with a series of key words which give a quick indication of the areas of research you are addressing.You may also have certain key words in your title which you want to establish and emphasise in your introduction. For example, if you were writing a paper about the behaviour of mice when exposed to a particular substance, you would include the word "mice", and the scientific name of the relevant compound in the first sentences. If you were writing a history paper about the impact of the First World War on gender relations in Britain, you should mention those key words in your first few lines. Define any key terms or concepts. It may be necessary for you to clarify any key terms or concepts early on in your introduction. You need to express yourself clearly throughout your paper so if you leave an unfamiliar term or concept unexplained you risk your readers not having a clear understanding of your argument. This is especially important if you are attempting to develop a new conceptualization that uses language and terminology your readers may be unfamiliar with. Introduce the topic through an anecdote or quotation. If you are writing a humanities or social science essay you can find more literary ways to begin your introduction and announce the topic of your paper. It is common for humanities essays in particular to begin with an illustrative anecdote or quotation that points to the topic of the research. This is a variation of the "inverted triangle" technique and can generate interest in your paper in a more imaginative way and demonstrate an engaging writing style. If you use an anecdote ensure that is short and highly relevant for your research. It has to function in the same way as an alternative opening, namely to announce the topic of your research paper to your reader. For example, if you were writing a sociology paper about re-offending rates among young offenders, you could include a brief story of one person whose story reflects and introduces your topic. This kind of approach is generally not appropriate for the introduction to a natural or physical sciences research paper where the writing conventions are different. Include a brief literature review. Depending on the overall length of your paper, it will be necessary to include a review of the existing literature already published in the field. This is an important element of your paper which demonstrates that you have a strong knowledge and understanding of the debates and scholarship in your area. You should aim to indicate that you have a broad knowledge, but that you are engaging in the specific debates most relevant to your own research. It is important to be concise in the introduction, so provide an overview on recent developments in the primary research rather than a lengthy discussion. You can follow the "inverted triangle" principle to focus in from the broader themes to those to which you are making a direct contribution with your paper. A strong literature review presents important background information to your own research and indicates the importance of the field. Use the literature to focus in on your contribution. A concise but comprehensive literature review can be a very effective way to frame your own research paper. As you develop your introduction, you can move from the literature to focus in on your own work and its position relevant to the broader scholarship. By making clear reference to existing work you can demonstrate explicitly the specific contribution you are making to move the field forward. You can identify a gap in the existing scholarship and explain how you are addressing it and moving understanding forward. Elaborate on the rationale of your paper. Once you have framed your work within a broader context you can elaborate more fully on the rationale of your research and its particular strengths and importance. The rationale should clearly and concisely indicate the value of your paper and its contribution to the field. Try to go beyond saying that you are filling a gap in the scholarship and emphasise the positive contribution of your work. For example, if you are writing a scientific paper you could stress the merits of the experimental approach or models you have used. Stress what is novel in your research and the significance of your new approach, but don't give too much detail in the introduction. A stated rationale could be something like: "the study evaluates the previously unknown anti-inflammatory effects of a topical compound in order to evaluate its potential clinical uses". State your research questions. Once you have indicated where your research sits in the field and the general rationale for your paper, you can specify the research questions the paper addresses. The literature review and rationale frames your research and introduces your research question. This question should be developed fluently from the earlier parts of the introduction and shouldn't come as a surprise to the reader. The research question or questions generally come towards the end of the introduction, and should be concise and closely focused. The research question might recall some of the key words established in the first few sentences and the title of your paper. An example of a research question could be "what were the consequences of the North American Free Trade Agreement on the Mexican export economy?" This could be honed further to be specific by referring to a particular element of the Free Trade Agreement and the impact on a particular industry in Mexico, such as clothing manufacture. A good research question should shape a problem into a testable hypothesis. Indicate your hypothesis. After you have specified your research questions you need to give a clear and concise articulation of your hypothesis, or your thesis statement. This is a statement which indicates your essay will make a specific contribution and have a clear result rather than just covering a broader topic. You should make it clear briefly how you came to this hypothesis in a way which references your discussion of the existing literature. If possible try to avoid using the word "hypothesis" and rather make this implicit in your writing. This can make your writing appear less formulaic. In a scientific paper, giving a clear one-sentence overview of your results and their relation to your hypothesis makes the information clear and accessible. An example of a hypothesis could be "mice deprived of food for the duration of the study were expected to become more lethargic than those fed normally". Outline the structure of your paper. In some cases the final part of an introduction to a research paper will be a few lines that provide an overview of the structure of the body of the paper. This could simply give an outline of how you have organised the paper and how it is broken down into sections. This is not always necessary and you should pay attention to the writing conventions in your discipline. In a natural sciences paper, for example, there is a fairly rigid structure which you will be following. A humanities or social science paper will most likely present more opportunities to deviate in how you structure your paper. | Announce your research topic. Consider referring to key words. Define any key terms or concepts. Introduce the topic through an anecdote or quotation. Include a brief literature review. Use the literature to focus in on your contribution. Elaborate on the rationale of your paper. State your research questions. Indicate your hypothesis. Outline the structure of your paper. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Write-Your-First-Book | How to Write Your First Book | To write your first book, choose a topic or genre that you're passionate about, which will make writing a lot easier. Once you know what you want to write about, outline the plot or structure of your book so you have something to refer to as you write. Your outline should include descriptions of major events and characters in your story. After you make an outline, come up with a writing schedule, like writing 300 words per day, and try your best to stick with it. Writing a book takes time, so don't get discouraged if you feel like you're not getting anywhere at first. | Choose a subject you’re passionate about. Writing a book is a significant undertaking that will require a lot of time and energy. Choosing a subject you know and care about will help propel you through the daunting process. Explore your passions and interests when choosing a topic and make sure you have something important to express on the matter. Choose a genre that you love to read and have explored in depth, whether it's horror, romance, or political intrigue. Choose a genre that others will find interesting as well. You'll also find it easiest to write in a genre you're familiar with, since you'll have a good grasp of the common tropes and conventions of the genre. If you're writing non-fiction, make sure that you have a level of expertise and credibility on the subject. Read similar books. You should read other similar books within your genre both before and during your writing process. Read these books with a critical perspective, noting which aspects of the author's style you like and which you would do differently. Doing this will keep you connected to the reader's perspective throughout your writing. It will also keep you aware of what has already been said on the subject so you can produce an original work of your own. Make notes while you read so that you can keep track of your reactions and observations. You might keep a notebook or journal on hand as you read, use sticky notes, or start a document on your computer where you can make notes. Outline your plot or structure. The plot of your book will likely change as you go through the writing process. Still, it's good to begin with a rough outline of the major events and points of interest you wish to emphasize. Focus on how your content can be organized to best achieve your book's purpose, whether it's to entertain, inform, or titillate your reader. You can take note of valuable plot sub-points, methods of describing imagery, or how the dialogue is developed. Don't focus too heavily on chronology or dividing the content into chapters with your initial outline. You can consider these aspects before writing but a general plot outline should come first. For non-fiction books, outline the core concepts you are trying to express in the book and fit specific examples and plot devices underneath them as subpoints. There are a lot of different outlining techniques out there, for both fiction and non-fiction. If you're not sure where to start, do a quick online search for “book outline templates.” You can also try more specific search terms, like “romance novel outline template.” One popular outline style is the Freytag Model, which allows you to diagram the plot structure of a work of fiction. Do an online search for “Freytag Model” or “Freytag's Pyramid” to find templates and resources for making this kind of outline. Outline your characters or major events. If you are writing a fiction novel, your characters will be critical to conveying the story. Start by outlining their function in the story, whether they are protagonists, antagonists, neutral, supporting, or ancillary to the main plot. Then develop more specific characteristics pertaining to their function in the story like their personalities. Developing backstories for your characters, even if those stories don't factor into the actual content of the book, will help you conceptualize how they might react to plot points or interact with each other. Try to make your characters realistic so they will be relatable, even if your book does not take place in a realistic setting. If you do have a mythical-type setting, like a world with dragons, try to consider how real people would react in that environment. If you're not writing fiction, then key events may be the major “players” in your book. Spend time early on familiarizing yourself with the major events or concepts that form the core of your book, since this will help you think through your book's organizational scheme. Establish a writing routine. Writing a book will take time, especially when it's your first. Don't expect to complete it all in a few sittings or to consistently churn out a large quantity of pages each time you write. Set aside a regular amount of time to work on your book on a daily or weekly basis so you stay on track. If you feel like you're on a roll and churning out a lot of material at a given time, try to make the most of it and write as much as you possibly can. Try to set up a specific place to do your writing that is free from distractions including other work. Set a daily or weekly goal. You could start with 300 words per day or one chapter per week. Take a notepad with you wherever you go. If you are engrossed in the writing process, it's likely that new ideas will come to you at random and unexpected times and you'll want to jot them down. Determine what writing tools work for you. Some people write best on a computer word processor, while others feel most comfortable drafting everything out by hand. Experiment around with different writing tools and decide what works best for you before you set out to write your book. You may find book writing programs, such as Scrivener FastPencil, to be helpful. Many of these programs offer features that allow you to organize multiple forms of information about your project within a single file. Establish a bond with the reader. Try to imagine that you're speaking with your reader and seeing their reaction. Focus on making your writing understandable and interesting from their perspective and keep this in mind throughout the writing process. It's important to express your writing in your own unique voice. Your readers should feel like they know you personally after reading it. Avoid verbosity. It may be tempting to describe characters, scenes, and events with excessively flowery language and ancillary details. With everything you describe in your writing, ask yourself how it furthers the reader's understanding of the content and what information you're trying to convey. Be especially careful to avoid using flowery descriptions as filler material to add more pages. If you're finding yourself short on content, go back to your outline and see if you can develop the plot more instead. Find a proofreader. Ask someone you trust to review your writing as often as possible. You shouldn't feel as if you need to wait until you're completely done with the book to get feedback but you should show them a completed chapter or section rather than just a few pages. If you don't know someone who can proofread your book, try asking around in an online writing community. Try to find several readers who might have diverse perspectives. For example, find another person who often reads books in your genre and one who does not so you can get a comprehensive idea of how the book is experienced by readers. Revise your work. Revision is an essential part of the writing process. Once you've completed a draft of your book and asked a proofreader to look at it, it's time to polish your work. Read over your book carefully and incorporate any helpful feedback you've received from your readers. This is also a good time to trim out any filler or unnecessary material and fix any errors you and your readers previously overlooked. You may find it helpful to take a break from the book for a few days or even a couple weeks, so that you can come back to it with a fresh perspective. Try making a reverse outline of your book so that you can get a better understanding of its structure after you've done the bulk of the writing. You may discover ways to reorganize your material and improve the flow of the book. Research options before writing. Finding a publisher can take a long time, especially when you're a novice writer. If you're determined to get your book published, you'll want to research what companies might be open to publishing a novice author in your particular genre. Send proposal letters to publishers outlining your idea. You can include a chapter or a few pages with this as a sample. Include a marketing plan. When you apply for publication, you'll need more than simply a finished book. Publishers are interested in how your book can make money for them and thus will want to understand who would buy it and how it would be marketed. The structure of a publishing marketing plan will vary significantly based on the kind of book you're writing but you should start by researching what other publishing marketing proposals look like online. For a free guide to developing marketing materials and a publication plan, visit http://www.thecreativepenn.com/2009/02/20/award-winning-marketing-plan/. Creating a social media page and supporting graphic material is a great way to demonstrate your marketing strategy in your proposal and create some buzz around the publication before you make your proposal. Consider e-publication. Websites like Amazon, Lulu, CreateSpace, and BookSurge offer e-publication options, some of which are free of charge. E-publication is ideal for first time authors because it will involve minimal overhead and marketing. E-publication will require special formatting of your manuscript. The formatting standards will depend on which platform you use so make sure you look for those requirements. Note that e-publication usually reaches a smaller audience, achieves lower sales, and will not afford your book the prestige of print publication. You also won't have a publishing company to market your book. | Choose a subject you’re passionate about. Read similar books. Outline your plot or structure. Outline your characters or major events. Establish a writing routine. Determine what writing tools work for you. Establish a bond with the reader. Avoid verbosity. Find a proofreader. Revise your work. Research options before writing. Include a marketing plan. Consider e-publication. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Feed-a-Corn-Snake | How to Feed a Corn Snake | If you plan to feed your corn snake live rodents, choose an animal that is no more than 1.5 times the size of the snake's midsection. Use forceps or tongs to lower the prey into the tank to remove your chances of getting bit, and dangle the mouse just above the snake's head until it strikes. Stay in the room until the snake starts to eat to ensure the prey does not injure your snake, then give the snake privacy while it finishes its meal. If the snake doesn't eat the rodent after 1-2 hours, remove the prey and place it in a separate cage with a food and water source, then try again the next day. | Choose between frozen and live rodents. While some people think that using live prey seems more natural, most captive bred snakes have never had live or wild-caught prey. Live prey is more expensive and less convenient to purchase and store. More importantly, live rodents can injure, or even kill, your pet by biting or scratching, and can spread diseases or parasites. If you caught your pet snake in the wild, it might reject thawed rodents and only want to eat live prey. Check with your pet store to make sure your store-bought corn snake was raised on thawed rodents. Whether a snake has been raised on live prey is typically listed on its description, or a store employee can let you know. If you need to feed your corn snake live prey, don't leave the room. You'll need to make sure the live rodent doesn't injure your snake. If an hour or two has passed and the snake has not eaten, remove the prey, place it in another cage with a food and water source, and try again the next day. Choose the right sized rodent. In general, do not feed your corn snake anything larger than 1.5 times the size of its midsection. If your corn snake is a hatchling, feed it thawed pinkies, or mice that have not yet grown fur. Feed your hatchling one to two pinkies per week. As it grows, switch to fuzzies, which are mice that have just started to grow fur. Start with one per week, and eventually progress to two as your snake matures. Check the size of your baby snake's midsection to determine the size of their prey. If it's a very small hatchling, pinky parts are also available. Casually observe your snake on a regular basis so you can get to know its behavior. Look for when it moves around its cage as if it were hunting, and begin to structure your feeding time by gauging when your snake looks hungry. Feed your snake about once per week. When your corn snake is a baby, you will need to feed it once every five to seven days. When it's an adult, you will need to feed it every seven to 10 days. Make sure you get your feed from a good source. Big name pet stores tend to carry frozen rodents from good sources. Buying in bulk from a pet chain or an only reptile or snake society can save you money. You can see if your area has a local herpetologist, or reptile expert, or herpetology society. Consider consulting with them, or alternatively a local veterinarian, about local bulk frozen rodent buying options. Handle your snake’s prey with forceps, tweezers, or tongs. Forceps and similar tools reduce the risk of snakebites by keeping your hands a safe distance from they prey and your snake's mouth. If you do touch your snake's prey, or if you have a pet rodent, wash your hands before feeding your snake or putting your hands in its habitat. Otherwise, you'll smell like prey and run the risk of getting bit. Put a frozen mouse into a plastic baggie. If it's not already individually bagged, put a frozen mouse into a bag. Heat up about 2 cups of water on the stove or in the microwave. Place the mouse in the bag into the water and let it sit for ten to fifteen minutes, or until thawed.. Ensure that the water is not boiling, or you might melt the plastic baggie. Don't thaw a mouse using a microwave or stove. If it cooks, your snake might reject it or get sick from eating it. To check if it's ready, poke the mouse's abdomen in a few places. If there are no hard spots, the mouse is ready for feeding. The time it takes for the mouse to thaw depends on its size. Smaller mice will thaw sooner than large mice. Decide whether to feed your snake in its vivarium or in a feeding tub. Some snake owners prefer to feed their snakes in a special feeding tub. This will condition your snake not to expect food when you put your hands into its habitat, thus reducing the risk of bites. The feeding tub should be a container that can comfortably enclose your snake and fit into the vivarium. If you use a feeding tub, place your snake into the tub before feeding, feed it, then once it has swallowed the mouse place the snake and feeding tub into the vivarium. Let it slither out of the tub back into the vivarium on its own time instead of lifting the snake out of the feeding tub to put it back into its habitat. Dangle the mouse into your snake’s vivarium or feeding tub. Whether you opt to feed your snake when it's in its vivarium or using a feeding tub, the process is basically the same. Use your forceps or tongs to dangle the mouse by the tail about 5 inches (12.7 cm) from your snake's head. Give it a few shakes, as snakes prefer moving targets. The snake should strike within a minute or so. Once the snake grabs the mouse, let it go immediately. Give your snake some privacy. Corn snakes prefer to eat in the dark and, especially with new owners, are most comfortable eating alone. Once your snake has grabbed the mouse, close the vivarium or cover the feeding tub (making sure there's still air flow) and leave the room, closing the door behind you. After a few feeds, the snake may be comfortable eating in front of you, but make sure to leave him/her alone for the first few feeds or if it is a hatchling. Think about when a snake is eating in the wild: it can't really defend itself or quickly escape danger while it's swallowing prey. Because eating is such a vulnerable time, some snakes, especially hatchlings, need to get used to you and decide that you're not a threat before they'll eat in front of you. Don’t handle your snake after feeding it. Give your snake time to digest its food. Handling it while it's digesting can cause regurgitation and other problems. Make sure to wait two days after feeding time before handling your snake. In addition, avoid handling your snake the day that you feed it. Handling it too much just before feeding time can also stress your snake out, which will reduce its appetite. Maintain warm and cool temperature zones. Snake habitats need to have a temperature gradient, which means one end needs to be warm and the other cool. This helps them maintain their body temperature, and is particularly important during digestion. Temperature imbalance can result in your snake refusing to eat or regurgitating. Use heat lamps and an accurate thermometer to maintain temperatures of 80 to 86 degrees on the warm side and no less than 65 degrees on the cool side. Make sure there are plenty of hiding places in both temperature zones. Your snake might harm itself if there's only one hiding place and it doesn't leave that zone to regulate its temperature. Consider if your snake is shedding if it doesn’t eat. If your snake doesn't want to eat, but doesn't appear to be stressed and the temperature is right, it might be because it's about to shed. Check to see if its skin is dull, eyeballs are bluish. If so, your snake is preparing to shed and will not eat during the shedding process. It will resume eating normally as soon as it's completely shed its skin. If your snake refuses food but is not shedding, stressed, and the temperature is correct, consult a veterinarian. | Choose between frozen and live rodents. Choose the right sized rodent. Feed your snake about once per week. Make sure you get your feed from a good source. Handle your snake’s prey with forceps, tweezers, or tongs. Put a frozen mouse into a plastic baggie. Decide whether to feed your snake in its vivarium or in a feeding tub. Dangle the mouse into your snake’s vivarium or feeding tub. Give your snake some privacy. Don’t handle your snake after feeding it. Maintain warm and cool temperature zones. Consider if your snake is shedding if it doesn’t eat. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Use-an-Incubator-to-Hatch-Eggs | How to Use an Incubator to Hatch Eggs | Before using an incubator to hatch eggs, sterilize the incubator with a diluted bleach solution, plug it in, and add warm water to the humidity pan. At least 24 hours before incubating eggs, calibrate the temperature of the incubator, to make sure it will stay stable. Let the fertile eggs come to room temperature, then place them in the incubator. Turn the eggs 3 times a day for 18 days, then stop turning them in preparation for hatching. You can remove the chicks from the incubator 3 days after they hatch to allow them time to dry completely. | Find or purchase an incubator. You will need the directions to the particular type and model you plan to use. The directions given here are for a basic incubator that is affordable for most hobbyists. Since there are different types of incubators, it's important to have the correct directions for your specific incubator. Be aware that the least inexpensive incubators will have only manual controls. This means that you will need to diligently monitor temperature, turning, and humidity many times a day. Pricier models have automatic controls for these processes, which require you to do a little less - though still daily - monitoring. If the incubator did not come with written instructions, look for the serial number on the incubator and the manufacturer's name. Check the manufacturer's website for directions or contact the company's customer service department by phone or email to obtain directions. Clean the incubator. Carefully wipe or vacuum off any visible dust or debris from all the surfaces of the incubator. Then wipe down all surfaces with a clean cloth or sponge dipped in a diluted bleach solution (mix 20 drops of household bleach in 1 quart of water.) Use gloves to protect your hands from the bleach and wring the cloth or sponge out before wiping down the incubator. Allow the incubator to air dry thoroughly before plugging it in for use. This cleaning step is particularly necessary if you bought the incubator second-hand or if you had it stored away somewhere, collecting dust. Keep in mind that sanitation is highly important. Diseases can be transmitted through the eggshell to the developing embryo. Place the incubator in an area with little to no temperature fluctuation. Ideal room conditions are 70-75 degrees Fahrenheit. Avoid placing the incubator near a window, air vent, or any other area that experiences air flow or drafts. Plug the incubator's cord into an electric outlet. Make sure you don't plug the cord into an outlet where it could easily detach, or where children might be able to unplug it. Check as well that that particular outlet is working. Add warm water to the incubator's humidity pan. Consult the directions for the incubator to confirm the correct amount of water to add. Calibrate the incubator's temperature. You must calibrate the incubator to ensure the temperate is correct and stable at least 24 hours prior to incubating any eggs. Make sure to adjust the incubator's thermometer so that it will measure the temperature around where the center of an egg will reach in the incubator. Adjust the heat source until the temperature reads between 99 and 102 degrees Fahrenheit (37.2 and 38.9 degrees Celsius). Getting the correct incubator temperature is very important. Low temperatures can keep the embryos from developing, while overly high temperatures can kill the embryos and cause abnormalities. Wait 24 hours to re-check the temperature again. The temperature should still be within the target range. Do not add eggs if the temperature has fluctuated outside of the target range as the eggs will not hatch properly. Obtain fertile eggs for hatching. You will want to incubate the eggs within 7 to 10 days after they have been laid. Viability decreases as the eggs age. Don't attempt to incubate eggs you bought from a supermarket. The eggs sold in stores are infertile and will not hatch. Locate hatcheries or farmers in your area who sell eggs for hatching. You will need to get eggs that are produced by hens in a flock with a male bird, or else the eggs may not be fertile. Contact your local agricultural extension office if you have difficulty finding an egg source. The office may have recommendations for local poultry farmers. Consider how many eggs you want to incubate. Note that it is very rare for all of the incubated eggs to hatch and that certain species have higher viability than others. You should expect about 50-75% of the fertile eggs will hatch, although it possible that this could be higher. Store eggs in cartons at 40 to 70 degrees F (4.5 to 21.1 degrees C) until ready to incubate. Rotate the eggs daily by propping up different ends of the carton each day or carefully turning over the carton. Wash your hands before touching the eggs for placement in the incubator. You should always wash your hands whenever handling the eggs or incubator after you have disinfected it. This will keep any bacteria from potentially transferring to the eggs or their environment. Warm the fertile eggs to room temperature. Allowing the eggs to warm up will decrease the amount and duration of temperature fluctuation in the incubator after you've added the eggs. Mark each side of the eggs with a pencil. Lightly draw the symbol of your choice on one side and then a different symbol on the other side. Marking the eggs in this manner will help you remember the egg turning sequence. Many people use X and O to indicate each side of the egg. Place the eggs carefully into the incubator. Make sure the eggs are lying on their sides. The larger end of each egg should be slightly higher than the pointy end. This is important as the embryos can become misaligned if the pointy end is higher and may have difficult pipping, or breaking through the shell, when it comes time to hatch. Make sure the eggs are evenly spaced out and not too near the incubator's edges or the heat source. Allow the incubator's temperature to drop after adding the eggs. The temperature will temporarily lower after you've introduced the eggs into the incubator, but it should readjust if you've calibrated the incubator correctly. Don't increase the temperature to compensate for this fluctuation. Doing so could damage or kill your embryos. Record the day and how many eggs you've incubated on a calendar. You should be able to estimate your hatch date based on average incubation times for the bird species you want to hatch. For example, chicken eggs typically take 21 days to hatch, whereas many duck varieties and peafowl may take 28 days. Turn the eggs at least three times daily. Rotating the eggs and changing their position helps mitigate the effects of any temperature fluctuations. The rotation also helps mimic the behavior of a brooding hen. Turn eggs an odd number of times each day. This way, the symbol on the eggs will change every day after you turn the eggs, making it easy to see whether or not you've turned the eggs yet for that day. As you do your daily turns, check to see if any eggs are cracked or spoiled. Remove these promptly and dispose of them in the garbage. Move eggs around to different positions in the incubator. Stop turning the eggs during the last three days of incubation, as, at this point, the eggs will soon hatch and turning is no longer necessary. Adjust the humidity levels in the incubator. Humidity should be around 45 to 50 percent throughout incubation, except during the last three days when you will want to raise it to 65 percent. You may need higher or lower humidity levels depending on the type of eggs you wish to hatch. Consult your hatchery or the available literature on hatching your particular species of bird. Measure the humidity level in the incubator. Using a wet bulb thermometer or hygrometer, take a reading of the humidity level. Be sure as well to record the temperature in the incubator using a dry bulb thermometer. To find the relative temperature between the wet bulb and dry bulb temperature readings, consult a psychrometric chart online or in a book. Replenish the water in the water pan regularly. Filling up the pan helps maintain the desired level of humidity. If the water depletes, the humidity level will drop too low. Always add warm water. You can also add a sponge to the water pan if you want to increase the humidity. Ensure the incubator has adequate ventilation. There should be openings on the sides and top of the incubator to allow air flow. Check to make sure these are at least partially opened. You will need to increase the amount of ventilation once the chicks begin to hatch. Candle the eggs after 7 to 10 days. Candling the eggs is when you use a light source to view how much space the embryo occupies within an egg. After 7 to 10 days, you should see the development of the embryo. Candling allows you to remove eggs with embryos that are not viable. Find a tin can or a box that can fit over a light bulb. Cut a hole in the can or box that is smaller in diameter than an egg. Turn on the light bulb. Take one of the incubated eggs and hold it over the hole. You should see a cloudy mass if the embryo is developing. The embryo will increase in size as you near the hatch date. If the egg appears clear, the embryo has not developed or the egg may never have been fertile in the first place. Remove any eggs that do not show a developing embryo from the incubator. These are eggs are not viable and will not hatch. Prepare for the hatch. Stop turning and rotating eggs three days prior to the estimated hatch date. Most viable eggs will hatch within a 24-hour period. Place cheesecloth under the egg tray prior to hatching. The cheesecloth will help catch bits of eggshell and other matter during and after the eggs hatch. Increase the humidity level in the incubator. You want the humidity level to be at 65%. Add more water or a sponge to the water pan to increase the humidity. Leave the incubator closed until after the chicks hatch. Do not open once the chicks are three days from hatching. Remove dry chicks to a prepared area. It's important to leave chicks in the incubator until they are completely dry. This can take four to six hours. You can leave the chicks in the incubator an additional 1 to 2 days, but you will want to lower the temperature to 95 degrees Fahrenheit (35 degrees Celsius). Remove empty shells from the incubator and clean it. Once the incubator is clean, you can start the process all over again! | Find or purchase an incubator. Clean the incubator. Place the incubator in an area with little to no temperature fluctuation. Plug the incubator's cord into an electric outlet. Add warm water to the incubator's humidity pan. Calibrate the incubator's temperature. Wait 24 hours to re-check the temperature again. Obtain fertile eggs for hatching. Wash your hands before touching the eggs for placement in the incubator. Warm the fertile eggs to room temperature. Mark each side of the eggs with a pencil. Place the eggs carefully into the incubator. Allow the incubator's temperature to drop after adding the eggs. Record the day and how many eggs you've incubated on a calendar. Turn the eggs at least three times daily. Adjust the humidity levels in the incubator. Ensure the incubator has adequate ventilation. Candle the eggs after 7 to 10 days. Find a tin can or a box that can fit over a light bulb. Turn on the light bulb. Remove any eggs that do not show a developing embryo from the incubator. Prepare for the hatch. Place cheesecloth under the egg tray prior to hatching. Increase the humidity level in the incubator. Leave the incubator closed until after the chicks hatch. Remove dry chicks to a prepared area. Remove empty shells from the incubator and clean it. |
https://www.wikihow.com/Eat-Pizza | How to Eat Pizza | To eat most pizza, pick up a slice by the crust and fold it slightly in a U-shape, then take a bite from the pointed end of the pizza slice. This will keep the cheese and toppings from sliding off of the slice when you take a bite. If your pizza has a lot of toppings, like a Chicago-style pizza, use a knife and fork to enjoy it without making a mess. When you reach the crust, you can eat it plain or dip it in your favorite sauce, like ranch or extra marinara. If you want to save a nice cheesy piece for your last bite, try eating the crust of your pizza first instead of last. | Hold the pizza by the crust if it’s firm and crispy. This is the most popular way to eat a pizza. If the crust is thick and crispy enough to hold the weight of the toppings and cheese, simply lift it up and put the point of the slice into your mouth. From there, you can eat away and enjoy all of the toppings! For thin slices of pizza, this technique won't be as effective because the end of the slice will flop down. In that case, hold the pizza a little higher than usual to catch the end of the slice in your mouth. Do the “New York Fold” to keep the cheese from falling off. Take the sides of the pizza and fold them to meet, creating “U” shape with the crust. Most New Yorkers claim that this is the best way to eat a pizza because it keeps the cheese in place and makes the pizza easier to eat while standing or walking. This technique also has the added bonus of protecting the roof of your mouth from getting burnt on the hot cheese. Use your thumb, index, and middle finger to bend the crust for added stability. If you want to eat your slice without folding it in half, but it keeps flopping down at the end, you can prop it up by “crimping” the crust. Put your thumb and middle finger under the center of the crust, and use your index finger to push down on the center of the crust, making a “V” shape. You can also support the end of the pizza with your free hand to guide it into your mouth while you crimp the crust. Once you reach the middle of the slice you should be able to hold it up by the crust! Make a “pizza wallet” to keep Neapolitan pizza from losing its toppings. Some pizza chefs recommend folding the end of the slice up to the crust and then folding the slice in half to make a sort of pocket out of the pizza. This keeps the toppings on the slice and ensures that you get a ton of flavor in every bite! After the slice is folded, you can eat from any side. Most people recommend starting with the crust to keep the wallet from falling apart. Eat the crust first to save the cheesiest parts for the end. There's nothing worse than a dry crust on a pizza, so you can eat the crust first to ensure that you get some sauce, cheese, and toppings with it. Start at the crust and work your way to the point of the slice to save the cheesiest and sauciest parts of the slice for the final bite. This tends to be a bit messier than other techniques, so make sure to have some napkins on hand for cleanup! Use a fork and knife if you have a lot of toppings on your pizza. Most pizza enthusiasts will tell you to avoid the knife and fork at all costs, but sometimes they're unavoidable. For Chicago style or deep dish pizzas, cutting up the slice into smaller pieces with a knife and fork allows you to get a little bit of crust, sauce, cheese, and toppings in every bite. This is also the cleanest method for eating pizza and would probably be best if you're at an important dinner or out on a date. Most pizzas won't be served with a fork and knife, so be sure to ask the waiter or waitress to bring some utensils for you! Save the crust to dip into your favorite sauce. It's popular in the U.S. to order extra marinara, ranch, or garlic sauce with pizza. Once you reach the crust, dip the end of the slice into your extra sauce, or tear it into pieces before dipping to avoid double dipping if you're sharing. Be sure to let the sauce drip off of the crust before you pop it into your mouth. Otherwise, you might end up with sauce all over your shirt. Eat the entire pizza on your own. In Italy, most pizzas are “personal” pizzas, not for sharing between a table. The smaller pies are served extremely hot and personalized with your favorite toppings for you to enjoy. If you can't finish your pizza, that's okay! However, most pizza places in Italy won't allow you to take your leftovers home. Use a fork and a knife to cut the pizza into smaller pieces. Italian pizzas are rarely served pre-sliced, but they'll come with a fork and a knife for cutting the pizza. You can make slices, or cut bite-sized pieces to pop into your mouth. For Neapolitan pizza places in Italy, it's customary to eat the entire pizza with a fork and knife, not your hands. Pick up Roman slices and fold them if the crust is crispy. In Rome specifically, once you have your pizza cut, you can pick it up and eat the individual slices however you want. The crusts are thinner and crispy, which makes them perfect for eating with your hands. Be careful! Italian pizzas are served extremely hot, so you might want to wait a second for the crust to cool after you slice it. Order “pizza al taglio” if you’re on the go. Most pizza places will service pizza al taglio, or pizza by the slice. They'll cut off a slice from a big pizza and serve it to you at a to-go window. It's acceptable to eat this pizza with your hands while walking around. The shape and size of the pizza slices will depend on the restaurant making them. Some of them can be really big, so be prepared for a full meal! Eat an appetizer pizza by holding it if you’re at a restaurant. Some Italian restaurants offer whole pizzas as an appetizer for the table to share. If that's the case, you can grab a slice and hold or fold it to eat it. Try to stick to one slice until everyone in the table has gotten a piece. If you're wearing nice clothes and worried about dropping some toppings on yourself, you can use a fork and a knife to eat your pizza, as long as there are appetizer plates for you to set the slice on. Show your manners by eating pizza with a fork and knife if you’re at a business meal. In any formal dinner setting where pizza is the main entree, rest the slice on your plate and use the fork and knife to cut it into smaller pieces. Avoid picking up the slice with your hands, which can be unnecessarily messy. This will keep you from getting sauce and toppings on your clothes or face while eating, and is easier for talking while eating. Follow the host’s lead if you’re unsure of how to eat your slice. In a formal dinner setting, if you don't know the proper etiquette for eating your food, you can always look to the host to see what's acceptable. When the pizza gets to the table, let the host take their piece first, which will give you time to make note of what they do. Try to avoid staring at them while they eat, which can be considered rude. Instead, focus on getting your pizza onto your plate and then glance at them to see how they're eating it. Keep your pizza opinions personal to avoid conflict. Depending on where you're from, the right way to eat pizza might be a controversial topic. If you're at dinner and someone is eating pizza differently than you would, avoid making comments about it. Follow the host's lead and eat the way they're eating to be polite. If someone makes a comment about the way that you eat pizza, take it in stride. Many people have strong opinions on the right way to eat a pizza because of where they're from. Just remember, all that matters is that you're enjoying the delicious slice in front of you! | Hold the pizza by the crust if it’s firm and crispy. Do the “New York Fold” to keep the cheese from falling off. Use your thumb, index, and middle finger to bend the crust for added stability. Make a “pizza wallet” to keep Neapolitan pizza from losing its toppings. Eat the crust first to save the cheesiest parts for the end. Use a fork and knife if you have a lot of toppings on your pizza. Save the crust to dip into your favorite sauce. Eat the entire pizza on your own. Use a fork and a knife to cut the pizza into smaller pieces. Pick up Roman slices and fold them if the crust is crispy. Order “pizza al taglio” if you’re on the go. Eat an appetizer pizza by holding it if you’re at a restaurant. Show your manners by eating pizza with a fork and knife if you’re at a business meal. Follow the host’s lead if you’re unsure of how to eat your slice. Keep your pizza opinions personal to avoid conflict. |
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