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I’m only a month and a half into my first real job after graduating, and I’m already questioning if it’s the right fit for me. It feels weird to say that because I don’t even know exactly why I feel this way. Maybe I’m just reacting to the hard tasks and finding myself wanting to avoid them, but at the same time, I know these challenges are supposed to help me grow.
I just don’t feel like I belong here, and I don’t feel like I enjoy it. What really gets to me is the guilt. I’ve always thought about a job as a place where I’d learn and grow, not just earn a paycheck. But now that I’m here, it’s like I don’t want it as much as I thought I would, and that’s hard to accept. I know I’m privileged to even have a job right now, and that thought only makes the guilt heavier. I’m stuck in this mix of feeling lost, guilty, and unsure of where to go from here. | r/adultingph | post | r/adultingph | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYbGF1RlRJRDdBdmszdnI4dzRWVHNpZEN0TjRzb2o4RFRxdzJ1NFA5alplem9ZRHNRd2d3cHp5VU1kd0tTTXl5VWVNZ3JaYkFxWmdDZ0N0d2xrcEl5bEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaT0JSVnVvMVV6ZTZTUHJXZ3p4QlR2UVVLOWc1R09Gck9RVHAxellVYTJOSG9XVWY5Y0xlT2dkRWVuNDJuVFc1dVlDQnlmZ0hPU0FxSHdpMXVIdTN6ZFhZemxXYVhjcnJQS241MzVXY0RWZXoxR2lsMUpDWkJRQUpDVXZtRndWTjA2X1M0LTQ1bUxhRkJsVmp1ZllCWjhJNktoQThWWkJ2SkNDanpSaG1OVFZUT0lYNkh4dlVia0ViNWpIZUxVR0pnbkdVaDVrWFlXSXBOcDhFQXFOVzBJQT09 | 856 |
37 m4f
Nothing serious. Merced ca Dry/wet/or mature.
Male looking female. Northern California. I’ve noticed that something like this is very hard to find. It’s something I’ve always loved. | r/adultnursing | post | r/adultnursing | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYX0RuT2ZNWjQ5UVdDOFQzcHJ6LW9kdEdZUm1HT0xmUzJJbEtsVEZpRVJEdHR6TzZtLUpjblRyYVEzbEN6R1BZRGszb0RnUER6b1ZPQVJPRGZmdGNLb3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaT1JGR3Uxa3ZlR0x4emNROE9aLXQ3WWlWeWplTmxPb0RJblhzVmxxWktITEZoVU16WE84VExUa1p6S0oxOUxPb0xZbU03SFZCTzJEVEU3Nmp3OU1xSlFfakhnWGJKbTRZVGNqQzQzUzA4UW1DSnZMYnJCQ2NFaElFcWxLRDRQaXdiNmV2NFpmV2xCdFVRMGJXeTkzMkpwSnc5UFhxRHBTUlZldU9kWWZ6ZEdzTGZjaTNFQ3E0dExHUVNCcy1DSU1JclBoc3pEQ0FYWU90dUF1SmdHSWxndz09 | 857 |
Hello everyone, trying this again since I found a potential partner and things didnt work out. like the title says I'm 22 M, 5'11" white and am looking for a nursing partner. I've been told I'm cute, am blonde and have a decent physique - slim but athletic:) I'm hoping to find a nice lady/girl who enjoys the intimacy of the adult nursing and the connection that is formed from it. I've had one relationship before with some level of adult nursing but now I want to fully explore and commit to an anr relationship. I'm open to both dry and wet nursing as well! Im terrible at introductions but I'd love to chat so feel free to ask me any questions! Hope to hear from you soon:) | r/adultnursing | post | r/adultnursing | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYanN0R1NWZ1hrY3RwNnlZNTB3R0h6NHh3bXJ5SWdnLTE3LXlFN3BpUWl5TENKa1dJTDFIb3Z4UTU1ZFJRWC1VRVV3QlhVWEJYTkp3WnZPSjZrUFFic1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaai1nSWhqR0FrUkZtSGdmUm1femt1VHl1ZEJ1SGhvMmdNREJ1YXVtS1FIRER6WWk1RVI3c3M3cUcwN3pTRTJuY1RWd2E4Sm9rZEtaNVNkeHdNWENMUWQzSkVfZTgwejN1dkJjejVieFMxZ3llbnlIeUFhcVRVV2pnU2Qwdk15R2d3SVFIbnlna3V5c2EtS2UxUExXdkxXY3VlVmxVTnp4eWhBbTdWTFdNb0I5NWNabWZITVZnbjNnd3FCTXNsM1hUMl9aSnpVU3pEYWlTV3llMmxpdzhIQT09 | 858 |
Hello there! Hope your day is going well. I work as a health care professional. I am 6’1” tall, have short black hair, light brown skin, brown eyes. I am single. I consider myself to be easy going, very respectful, considerate and a good listener. I am bit of a nerd so I basically all nerdy things are my jam. I love talking on various topics related to science, culture, politics and religion.
I am very respectful of all religions and ethnicities. My hobbies are photography, reading, hiking and playing drums, and watching documentaries of all sorts. This is just a short introduction about myself. I would love to interact further and share more about myself if someone is interested.
I am looking forward to connect with a woman who would like to form a meaningful friendship/relationship based over the mutual liking of Adult nursing. I really like both the emotional bonding and the erotic aspect of adult nursing. In my opinion Adult nursing can be quite nurturing ,fulfilling, and therapeutic between two consenting adults. I believe It can be a great experience, with the emotional and physical warmth it provides to both consenting partners.
I completely understand that a bond like this requires getting to know the other person well, and I am willing to be patient and be good friends first.
Of course, I love to worship breasts! Kissing them all over, caressing them, softly biting the nipples and just overall admiring breasts in every way is heavenly and extremely arousing, but I also want to connect with the woman rather than just focus on their breasts.
I am open to both dry and wet suckling. That being said, please feel free to message me and ask me anything without hesitation. I have always craved and fantasised for adult nursing. Never realised that it was such a niche fetish. For me, it’s about the feeling of affection and warmth that I get while latching onto a soft and warm bosom with my lips and nursing from a woman who genuinely cares and enjoys nursing. I am not hell bent about the fact that the woman should be lactating. Lactation is like the cherry on top! It’s rather the emotional and physical bond that forms while nursing, that entices me the most. In my opinion, adult nursing is one of the most affectionate, yet erotic, forms of physical intimacy.
I believe that comfort is of prime importance, be it any kind of friendship/relationship. So, I am willing to answer any questions you might have for me and clear your queries. Shoot me a message if you feel like this something you would want too. Look forward to hearing from you. Have a great day ahead! | r/adultnursing | post | r/adultnursing | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYcFp6UEFBSFhWeEVmSVozWkY1WHRBbEtPVkZoN0xnX1lHd1hZWFlEcGVHR21ROWJpRmt6ZXA0ZTc0bWE2UG83SDhfSmZycWZubjZHSF9XMmt3ZmttS2xQWmpJbTNWTlhUWUlHWWxjcFhEbjg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRadXlsTVhKRUpUdlhodXlsUy1jWUdTNlhnd0lSalVROGFabTI3eHdSaEQ4dE9GNThaSGY2VE9rVmdvZW5YMEhXOUd0cFFLU2I0RFVfZElVOFN0aGV2ZGFTUV9DN3B5Mzh4REEzTzJ1NzNMQ1M4Sy1GZVo4cFBqcU1Ta1Q3UGdpOFVIZWhOTzh3UGJQUTNPODNtaHZYTVZvc2daQ3RPQmptVkl0SncwV2FLX2JjZVNzZUFJaV8xR2NYb2RpTmRHeHZjdS03d3VRSGVqRXFpVkpiMnVnUUxrUT09 | 859 |
Hello everyone, trying this again since I found a potential partner and things didnt work out. like the title says I'm 22 M, 5'11" white and am looking for a nursing partner. I've been told I'm cute, am blonde and have a decent physique - slim but athletic:) I'm hoping to find a nice lady/girl who enjoys the intimacy of the adult nursing and the connection that is formed from it. I've had one relationship before with some level of adult nursing but now I want to fully explore and commit to an anr relationship. I'm open to both dry and wet nursing as well! Im terrible at introductions but I'd love to chat so feel free to ask me any questions! Hope to hear from you soon:) | r/adultnursingpersonals | post | r/AdultNursingPersonals | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYam1KNHloRWpWekt4bWdBRmo5SFBDUXYxb0JhLXYyQ25FRTh6XzVuVi03VUxYZF9wMlRsYVdlS3FYWjJqMjBLdmRQNFNJRmtOdkVmVlZDbzVvMXBQTFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaWC1WWGVXY2hOVGJNMFpBcmZIZG0zRTdqNU9yWHdRQm8xcG5JckpDei1EU0F6Y2hnejBvQ052blRzN1lTSWV3LUhJTDVXMkMwU2dnc2hBRTV5VUtQZE5tZzdPR2RRU0hGQTBfNG14XzU0SlRVYm5fdkVDSVJIQmJ5S2VHbElNV19xbDFtNGV2WHB0YmtKREJudi1jVDFvSkFXR3ZtWDZISFdjWTFKV2JsWnkxb2ZaMXZ3cDVuTFNjZ1ZyTVIzX1hCc1ktckxLX3ZQV3hUX2JZcjdzZV9uVC0wemRwd0x6WWJfdy16YnRpZU1UVT0= | 860 |
[removed] | r/adultselfharm | post | r/AdultSelfHarm | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYcEV4ME9QWDdhQ3Mzc2tpS2RKelRjcVJuMFRPako0UnJRc2hLVU9JdVhkNzFoWmx4Y1RzdWJ2SXBWT191YzBJdzRRT2hjVjFWeTlHMzRQZVlPUzloZUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaSXZtUGRSbkZjalljalh4VzJUR3piLWpZV19ZTzJEMy1aTEVSRFhUNzNEQVVYTmZUaGxSSTJDTzBnVXVrTGFnaGlPMUNKNGQtdUhyeVBUVjctYTVoUzBxZXlFLVJmeHkxWGJIZVRIQ1FsVk5JeXZwMWRJRWx1cVVYb2E4WkNkamgwQmdKeFVRMzdvS1h0OU5uc3owNm51MkVzY1dTU3B2TEJGSUc2OTlMTDE4PQ== | 861 |
Never get your hopes up it will never happen | r/adultsnew | post | r/adultsnew | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYMTVLUS13VXFzNS1YN2l0S3owWHJ6WmRKeWxXNi0wSVVkVHgxeW1QejFRVnNBaS1Gb2dIS2hfY3pnMUdJUHB4VDV2Y3NUTDFWVU1EOXZOTkRYQmh3NTBBdVFncS1mVFFQZU1NTDdwb2pvVTg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaSnpUZUJILXRfTUNPbjhiSGI2LXJLazV3aFZnSVJFMDdGa0E1VmlFNnd0RzdOR3BpYkFXcjg4MXZnUDVrX3JFS09ZSy1Ba2NwdlVmRnU5UGlTUlhlcDRGclNSZGdlTlRwYmUyUURGeDFhSGNUZ2I3S2ljamlSOV9wYlliLW82THdPOW12RU1xbUxPVnlCa2JrWVhHb1hlbkphQXkxZXprVDlzdHhuVkFvTXVraEdScHVYMl9qQkE3WEtiSXoxZVhx | 863 |
Given away like $3k worth already fuck Pfizer tryna charge these outrageous prices | r/adultsnew | post | r/adultsnew | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYdXhkOERQVnh3dkVMT3dNcW5ZTHdDUVlUTGIzbklMeG9icVNpT05UeXNBMWthNmRIZzBnMFIxX3FfTXJTRWpmbXRheU5jYnFNX2Z5dDh4Zmt2dGw3NWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaUjRoWGI2R1FxQXBZeExiT0x1RkVmTWR5TEhXY0lCWXJpem9iMnVmV1pNRzRLdlVTR0FWbTJnY3NnQm0wWW1WZEVweFZzRW9VX2dCemlQZS1JQW1tV01sUzl1bnh3dTRHM3R1S1hsZTlrSWhUZ3Z2VXNYQTJZT0FnbUhMbHVyN3B4empQLUZhcUVvSHdSYThKOTk4OGlMSVRLd0ZFclFBV3Y0dkE5WDhGc3ROazZsdTF2dWhLaU94dVRxOGl6dXJx | 864 |
No bio no name, just more pictures of her. | r/adultsnew | post | r/adultsnew | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYUl9ERGN0MGR5YkhZeWlUdjJxMXBKR0NieTBMRWVXTXU3UUlwQUJxUVU3ZnVHam1QaW54Q2o1N05jdUNNMklUZ1VEVUgyTGkzYVFmWW51TnBhWnlTb19tYzBXa2tyRGVKU1BVVDVhRVlVS289 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRabnhvSUMyOVBxVXNwbjN3Sl9HbUhYb1pFQjNNQ3paT1dOdE5uWHFJX0l3QXFERjBzZnRHY3JYVGFKc2Z1dEg3RzRDQTVqWFdpMWVMelFqM05iNUFIY05wZEJGdFlyMXk1RFdDV3pvRUQ2ZmpnZGxBbWJLS0JiNU9JMDJiRDhCX0FLZy1tZ1lpWnNzRkhuUElsTGd3Y1dHSTlhbzN3T2RuRUVoUzZWMWFGQ0JkSTRoU3ZJTzkzd1p3ZlpOYTUzRllXSGJPTm9DaEtMN1RvLUpCakJaRDlqQT09 | 865 |
So we finally started talking, it’s all a normal conversation and shit we get to know about each other. I ask her what she likes doing and she responds with her hobbies and then “sexy games”. I ask her what “sexy games” are and she responds with “something I used to play with my ex”. 😭 Im like so sexual pics? And she says yeah and if I want to play. 💀 I tell her we should get to know each other more and see each other irl. She then says she wants to pink up and she wants to see what she’s working with first. 💀 I told her again that we need to know each other more if we finna do that and then she leaves me on read. 😭
Why can’t people be normal bruh. | r/adultsnew | post | r/adultsnew | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYRUFGWTlsazh1WVd5cUVRNk5reW5sSGlNdm9PeFJBVFU0MW96bXd0ODEyM2ZYZFJ4WEdtMVo0RHN1VTVrUmZFTmpybElVbjcwaUowdFJ4ZXMydHJEdFFKejZRQnV3Tl9jdDUzcWItMTc3M0k9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaMEFqenJhWVlFVXd0aFJheFdRNWRlb3RqYm5HaWV0YzN6MVEycl9mTmJFQ1A2VDdfTkk2RHp2Ml9mMW1iaFF3eGNkeUhHTFp3ZGFGWVNEZWhTUkItaXhSLXpPSkxkOHM3M3lxUklxWG90LVZvTkpSZUZmZ0FwN052ZDJ5WGJsSmFUMFZyMks2bTZiQVlta3cySl9UTldqdTJLUGNXSjZsd3VUV21YdTNBeUYwPQ== | 866 |
[deleted] | r/adultsurvivors | post | r/adultsurvivors | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYejE1cEo3dUNYRl9yT3lLZ1BMWXAxTGpDemtTeURHSWVkRk1mSmIyU2d3OV9JZHRSSDBBcVFjNUI3MkNsOHBmTS1xYkVxcVFtNlp6VXB2RjRBcEJjSkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaXzVHYkt4aThxaXYzejM2cVhVSkFySUJ5Z3J6bDlOZjBWWElfSUgtbHkxV3BTSm5JSHlWOHNaT0diRGluazR4MWNpMTJyZjdSdWxVRFFUZG1zdWZTcno1eExJRkdYUTNCQkdnZkxVTXNTcjZpcVpITkxLbzN2dklHSk1ZUDU1V2pSZm92Z0NseGlvNXkzMUNDVkJjS1ZIYlFVWTRrd3ZBS0JPVkw4YUxXZVowPQ== | 867 |
I am a rape survivor, and I just realized that, subsequent to my Rape (he was not the perpetrator), I entered a relationship that was eventually sexually abusive.
I am in awe of my inability to see people for who they are. It's a bit of a shame.
He changed so quickly from being someone that I could rely on and lean into and be weak around, to someone who is addicted to cocaine and did things to me sexually and brought up topics during sex that I repeatedly told him I didn't like. He comforted me in the aftermath of my rape in a way that was so new and so healing that I didn't realize he could even be abusive.
He healed me from one thing but subjected me to another. What is this? | r/adultsurvivors | post | r/adultsurvivors | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYYndJSFp0bXAteHp4MTFFckF1d3EtUm92dGg4YWJCNmFOeW13Q2tJWl9pYnlNdGR0U0JiSWZpaTk4ZFRiNXVJRGJiQWsxWl9ySGhuTG9uRU1XS1lkYTQ4NnZwVHdtMGl2Qk85WDJsM1ZyRXc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaY0lzMEp0RE1vcmhXM21tbHJQejVfWXhBZ2dwWUFfZHpZUlhPY3NwbDBMMUhsVjl4QjZVU2lLdzdxNWNYNFRPbk9xOXpVQ2lRQ3FpUnpRTXVMbVQ2UGpnOXFaajEzM09SaHlBN0h1SC1wcE91cDFaQmlaNmxGblJNelpyc3NOU2EycC1lYW82dXdRSU9rU25aNmpKd05nd3djOXhYcTUtbW5vanE2Z0dsUzBjTjJZdWYzQlU5RzBsdmJnWUk5NXBv | 868 |
Hi everybody! So I’m about to launch my new tattooing project and I’m looking for a good date this month. I’m thinking this date, what do you think?
Cancer rising with the Moon in the 10th of Career in Aries with Mars in the 2nd of money. It is also night chart and the best benefic, Venus is in angular house in 7th. The ruler in the 10th of reputation and career. The ruler of the 2nd in the 5th of creativity. | r/advancedastrology | post | r/Advancedastrology | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYcS1Wd1hXTUstZHp6RjBMYnZZRG1XRTBBcHQwaUJ0dTF2Q2ZYT2ttbjRvRHlFcFNzcnVITmxRRzhSX1NPQkNha1NvaHM4Z3NNN1h3RkxEdVlMdkR6Y2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaN2hmaVV6THZET0NiTF9LdWswZkxJS2hWeDZKRmpGRkpfS1FYbDJYS0M0VUlCUGtUWGFlb0xoWkNkZTN3WHVGQ21iQm1WMXVTZnJTWlhnVjRKZ2l4dVJNa0FBNUZJWmtlWXo1NFVBRkl1WFhndDV3N1ZyTzBTSE5nZXNydHFuYkhYTWVEa0FyQ0hnTkFNM0pOWXhFd1JicGhDV0tINHdPbW44R29tMXRicy1lc1lBVk9KcUNTODk1SU0wSW9GcnpYSjBudWpMdW1KWEZ1dFFNWU52c0hodz09 | 871 |
I have a business with 1 client, they pay me to run fitness classes and give maybe 1 extra class a year in the seniors niche and the seniors pay a small fee.
How tf do I scale from here | r/advancedentrepreneur | post | r/advancedentrepreneur | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYZ1VQOHlGd181WTFab3BxOW1XY08wMGYtSVpsdktBU2xLNHdBcVVYNWs3bjZ3TlZSb2pCUWppajNoUmVmRXh0Qnk2a2VYVzdtcVhTX0R3RXNMTTBuNzlhQ3VDUURQeGxjTG1hTl9BMjJMZFk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaa0tHT0RZUDBOSXN2UTRubWlUaGktN09NSFJ2Y1pMWlZYQl9zaHhtdVlRUW4yM2FMc216ZlJTaklMbnZBejBTV3lmeTl0UGUzcDRudWNabENMZHRORy1hb3pXbWlUckh4ME41STRDa1Q1N0pxVnh2LTBpMUgwWmxaSVhyWnE1cTRraXhDUERkdzhqWURyMWFnSDdIcXlxOGFWdlRBcWhOMkdUYkU2OUdDak1tRlhMdFNpc1EzTFc0OThNWU1XUS10VDczYzdLLXhYUG0tWXlsbUk3eFBVdz09 | 872 |
Like how the metal parts are details | r/advancedgunpla | post | r/advancedGunpla | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYaGtTV3FsMlA3QUl3bGpWQkNPN0FuWUFzRENLUDBDNmx6bGdxRG5xN0dJNFVubkpCdHFFX2dHVzNmX1NRT05IcG0xY0ltYkhGck5yRDE2WnY4dnMwNjNKNWJCSENSSFg1R3ZSbDljcFgxVDg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRabFdxVU5hdU5xQ3V3ZmQ0MHhOSzhLdHh6S3N1RldzbVIxWEpvMzFWWmhVdkFkNGdDMzdDeW1kYU51aHdsWFp5V25wSVBXNGdsMkk4RG9fa29FcFpZWE1oUklyQmZGdmZLd0RSQ1BZaTBXX21IU2wzdDJmMVBhMUpJeHEtd05FUXVBcUxOa3NtVlZjVHkyMVNGZU5ydEZwdnFCTVBvWWhaTnNuNjBlQWRkT3Vvdjd1WWNfcHFEcnFobXJFbG5qSDFLRDdtX3VfajNudFdPYTc0dU9NUGVkdz09 | 873 |
[removed] | r/advancedrunning | post | r/AdvancedRunning | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYODhjYldRVi1RNGpwRHRicllNQmJ1cVV0Tkh4NEs0YmFFU1JMQWdqMHRfLURNZ3NCakxyZEVnZkYyeU13cC1hM2FWcFZOU042SW45ZWt5RTRWQ0xnWmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRaTUZvS2duNzR3alBRbnNtNE9udzFxM0ZZLTRlVmVyUnBtWlZpSk5leEE5dDZjaUE3VEowZVoxTzhmbW1kMW40UUROaHdkRmJtWFRLdmh0WDVmRExyUHpKVzM2dmt0dDNEZTdOeXNmNlJ1dXQ2d1pVaFdsaklWbC16MkVIUW50SUd1cEwtMWNoeUtsZWRBSkd0WFRZcE93YnlKRDROa2swZjd2V3UtckRibEZzWk81UXItWlowb1NfdC1Gc2tZNmpO | 874 |
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What the title says. I’ve been always so anxious and guilty for taking time to not do work. It sucks | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYSkEtUU5zOXNXYWk1WDJ2UTRCcTFjZFJRejhzTVBfaWVjVmhDQVppaEVRZ2xJakZtMXM2dk9KM3M2blgzeXhUTnN4UVloTU9xUVJhdi1lLTFMNFUyUzR5YnFwQ3hZcXdGVFB5RU10eVc3dGs9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhUHJ5SW50VTJEQWdRNDdOU19Mc2docDJwZ2VrTGYydnd1QzN4UWc5N0dpcmpPRjNKZU9Ra2tHdjJlWUo3bmJzbEZmM2NiWkRNUEpEOVZXR1B6S0N3T05xaTJ5RUY4LTNmaVo1N0R5LVNUaEVtYktxUnE4TFVqNGNEaklhbEk2TGR5NVMza0YyQXRiSUFUcEo2bHpFVlI3U2RaODY2R05GcTF2eTcwVms1d0pIbWpDaVpNbWYtZVVaMUFldHNIaWg5WnQ1elUxdUM3VGNCd053Q2NWUU9MZz09 | 893 |
My husband and I have been married for 4 years now. We've been too busy to file the paperwork work to legally change my name but we put on the marriage certificate that I'll change my last name to his, so my question is how do we go about it now? We live in California | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYbEVZUlU2eXJHUGZrSm9tOWJKVUtHTGJJNWJOdWtIc2F4U1ZiSHh1WTRKRlZMTlJsZjB1YjhJS2hsUk5BTXN5X2ZndzJPLXYtYjMzWDhEaXkwMGlSaWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhS3RsLUoySHA2Q2gxSlV5N0MwVHhYWkZxTF80Rk9EUFBmVmc2OFVtd3ZvUFJ6YUx5LV9hc3BWcFpfdDFMc1c4NXIyU2xmTlh1V0s2bk5MV1F0NVVjZXdULTZxUnFxUUowS3RfUXJ4bEVqa3B6U1Zqc3EzTHNPM2o1aF9iSFVaMW9SWi10RnlWbTZwbVJzTkNhaHpUR1Z3PT0= | 894 |
Does anyone know a good way of writing/making a story? In the sense of any good websites or methods that are good with keeping it organized. I want it to be organized and net. Also In a format in that’s easy to write and or types. Any tips? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYTlBoUk5xUmJzcW1DZ0twODl3UXFOU09Gb3RvT0cxWjNQWVAzTXZGV3NwYjI1bGhPcWNXV0ZtWENMRzlJeVlUY216S09NYzEwNHE3bm1zZ3EteFVCeEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhdi11RVJzUmo0WEZjVzdGUjRCd3dYOHJZSGlsbWxVZjlsb25RWC04ZFhhM2czUzluUm8zdjBMeUlYellRdmZUVTlFWGZPMnBEMDhRSTd6MWd2MnlWdkVmaDNOTXhrdHFXb1hpaG9QWkM1R2FOZUlSa1JfMHlLTlVUeGlaVFV4Z2h3RV85T3o2cnFCT2pBLXNGZ09JeGpIZG50ZjIyTE9QMlNabGRRYkJ0YlVvPQ== | 895 |
So I made out with 2 girls at a party both different days and they both gave me their snaps and I texted them both and they both left me delivered since yesterday like those days just didn’t happen for them or something how can they just move on like that I get so attached so fast why? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYd3czSzRVT21rLUZSMXpuay1MQldkZ2lKa25XOTQ3TFVnQXJrdmk4bnRGTDQyUWdERG1jM3l1M2FvQTJRdTJoRHhVVTl4QTBURGl2MFc4OGtLczZNU2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhMXdyUm04eVFMV1pwV2l5SjlmV3VFbExldUU3b1lmNmU3ZUJOOW5rS2wyazgzaml2aEFmeXBveHpzaEtwR2ROSXlMRk5lemhlT0tPRVZoQ3hZY0V0TWlyR1pJdld6b1oteklWbVBxYUNsbHd6eWZaRWJMVEVnNGdfQldrUmhHNUlXSjZpTXZxUlF1SVpMVTRzTjRLdEdzaXBKRXBudzY3QXgxUU8tR0k0WlJBPQ== | 896 |
basically, i rlly love this show and i don't want to get disappointed... my girlfriend got tickets for both and im really looking forward to !!! im going to the texas show's this 5th december ☺️☺️ opinions? experiences? anyone already went? let me know guys !!! love n peace | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYQjdYZnlnRHFPWUpmS285VUp6X1ZhaHlpenVkX0ZKSFpPSFJVckFic19teldLLXprZkJCWWR2QVVlbVlDd2lkVEhPNkd3N3hBNWdGUjRfRDNWcXFZWWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhRldlVXo4VVBMWmFnU2lwLWdnSTVfWkpIMTdoYnZCeXlzU0ZOVWJOR2RxQXJEbG5sRGs5SlJQSjFZWjhqc1V0QzBtUFRsTFRlSWplczk5b1NMc2FXNEVEWW5WaGJ4TVRsUngzVnNHeU5rc1JqWWVvTTFLRnFmMTB1cjhjejNSLXBvdklrM1dETjRZZWxVTnlEVl9HOEc2ZVdlVHNKcHVmcHRONG5laFpZMXUzNTlFdFFuTVp0d1hJbzV3c3lTYy1k | 897 |
Wlw relationship: gf who is 7 years older, i am 22, cusses me out and tells me her reactions are valid bcz relationship isnt working. Is this okay? I have a lot of love for her but getting cussed and being told that i dont deserve anything is hurtful, but she comes back everytime too. Is it valid? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYTDlUWEgyY1hIcnVVZHRLNHJ5eVM1cklFc1Z4b2RWRXhPV2NOZ2J4bFVCQXNOMHIyMm5rNmw2WnNuRWNWWVBhUE9td2J0UHYzX3BUT0tFNDBSb2tzV3lhUGhhXy1Qd2F2UERBaDNLdGxYbVU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhWWpNRHBsaUh3NTU2Rk1lVnhycDU4NXZ1Y3JULWlDR3lkR05qNUtPVTJtdmh4blB6YnZxN3BNWjUtUXU2Z2RuRTI4S2ZpbWMtX19QdURxZG9LSnNlZkhtdFpzOEFsN09nYnQyLTJIVndFdUlPSmtfOS1WTy1keXJyLXBBOGk0eFd5VnJTdk1sMnRNUXZiQjllbXhHVFdZdjA3V2RWVDZ6UGxOMHdsU2tMeHZERGkwRGtiNXlFcmNYTWVlcjN3MzY0 | 898 |
Lately I’ve been really lonely,I have bad thoughts in my head that lead to s h ..how bad is it to keep my mind busy by meeting with random men?for some reason it’s the only thing that keeps my mind busy and I get physical closeness out of it..I don’t sleep with them the most I do is kissing and that also makes me feel disgusted sometimes but still does it makes me a whore? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYUzlXTk5zSnozMWk5Q3BDMzRkSnZPV3NzTTRnTlItcUNWazc5UGtaZnVBLWhhZkp0UjY1a3ZkczhGMDlWekRscUtOSGEyS0N6bnNjcWVxWF84TDlhVHo5N3lVNHpwMFJOOTlENGs1YURzLWM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhUWlINXNTc1A1ZC1WNWs1UGhqQWlQdGN1bnFZeVdGQlVFaWdrbV95anNXZGROUkNCbGp5dERFNHNyaEJMNTdvLUsyem8wampYM3lHOVRFbFdpSndrNVpOU2RVYzhDTW1hMi05Mks4WWp5QlhEd2VjY3ItVnVNaU0wX1p4SHBFZWczeDZfb2EtRDF2YS1tblhJM3g2YXFOWVhocjBvblFuRHNCVUluQVNzSGl5bko0RlBENVJMWlFISkFqVnpvaU1K | 899 |
hi all, the title is pretty self explanatory. just looking for some thoughts /opinions on working at either of these places.. could one be better than the other? why? i was always under the impression a dental office would be better in terms of pay and environment.. are the two pretty similar?
i’ve been a medical assistant for 3 years. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYNVdlOWF0LTVyZ0RiVmZfcWpOUzRCM3ZSWVFfbUU3enBMRklUWl9EQnJNTTVKRGg3ZnpLanFkQlduNUs2cFhINzdMemt1WFVuaDdzUFFzWGtxUWVqYWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhcXpITUExMm5FbzlIeDloMXM0bEdTblJ4eW9qdVVfM2pQeDVTTWlXTjNGRFFvSnVfOXc0amRYdEZqQi16MWF6N2J1WmNPY2ZmT2hlUDMzUXhxbHRYd2M0X3hHLVFwUWxRYkxyUUp3QkdqNWFYWUdKWlgyUHZxU3FxWGNLblBtSk54NTlOeUJrcVFFUU1wTGpQLUxUdkdoQTVUMF80VVA0cHd3SHdyVkpWanJCR1VlYndzUWpraWc4SFhObzB3aTdtQTYxX3E0cW5zMlRFUW1mVFd0OU5MQT09 | 900 |
My whole entire mental health feels like it's gonna go to shit because I just got into three massive arguments on here and I fear being kicked out of my comfort space because people are saying I'm lying when I'm not and I fear being banned. Just everything is going terribly I'm starting to think maybe I should.
Edit:yeah I'm taking a break this post also attracted homophobes and transphobes basing thier shit off my bio💀 | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYNXNVNmZ3ZU9lNkd1dUdpWmFuMTNwbTdaMENEenBCZWN1Z3NPVmo2bVlFWXBvcnVrbVo5bUhBdVZWVUJxOXhxRUZZdlBOM2k1eldJdXB5YXE0NkRST2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhR1ZoZFg4bFY3Z3NpQk5xbDRCa3RjRnRVU2prSGI5dmdoM1BTOXA4LWI3XzR6Q0lyd0s5empIdEpKd2p6dWJmWUxod1RiOFFocXJMd1BlRU5sUFdWTGwzXzh6VUZFVnE3OWFFY1A2bzFNWHVqVVBqSmxXZnBMU2VfSFR0UmFWbGJzMWJaOGpTZ3JFczlzelFjeUx0bDBvclo5Z3pLNzRzRXhqcUF1X1l2VlV4NExYOTVfd3I1a2l4TExKcXh6S2FI | 901 |
been seeing an amazing guy for 3 months. Amazing body, great career, owns a beautiful home, amazing family, no kids, no crazy ex's, great cook, romantic and thoughtful, AMAZING in bed.
I cannot help but believe it's too good to be true. He's in his late 30s and never lived with any of his ex's. I ask myself why. I've asked him why and he's said he's picky. Every time we see each other it just gets better and better.
Am I crazy to think this is too good!?!!!?????? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYa1hqcGtIbnI2c2t3R0dncmVrOG42eU1FLVpaOG9LZmc1UTRQTFJNZDk2dTdiZTFzOGNWSGZNcnh0WGF6emRNeUdIYVZhVmdldFpPQm9IZmVzRXpyVnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhbEJOV3owa1pLSUNCLV9LMGFiN0dmM2o1aVYzdjVEWWdIWWswWUhubjA4TmwyZTFkNDhXZ200YmpQV1RUQzFUODZnd1d1b2E3U1g0aERZUGswWHFmSmVaMHVNdVMyYldqb3ZYTk5vSk9PYkpVWGxyZHNPTkg3dVlmX2dGYXhaZVpGMjRXSmM0N0RwdjFLR0E1V1lNQ21hT3dpamcwMEM5X2JlVEYtX1pySFFvPQ== | 902 |
In high-school I (18m) told a friend I was thinking about asking a girl to prom. Unbeknownst to me she told the girl this information. I ended up asking someone else.
I remember seeing her uploading a snap to her story in tears. I felt terrible, I didn't know she was aware that I may ask her, we were lunch table friends at most.
Fast forward I'm 27 we snap daily and occasionally have a conversation, I still feel terrible that I made her feel that way.
Do I apologize? Is that weird? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYSmtSeHF6eUN3bnlPMDBVZFQ2MHo1Sk9BUHhxNVBIZE9iSWgyeElXamVELVg0ZXVfU19oUUJtcFRDQVB5alBkRWh0Q3ozWkFadUEwWEZ2ZGVEZ21fT1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhOWs1SGVLeWJMVjhKT3pKWmFYSVkwRjAxN292Uk9Nai1CVVpIYlRmRDFvMWhmVmp3QWVWYzg3Ti14cXBSejA3anU5dXQ1a2J1WDZHRnlQeXcwUFFfLWFfUHdQQWVpM2Q0YURKNWM5eHloNncydlVvWEtmdVJ5RHdVM1hIbTNlTG5QdzEtLWNVUkl2YVR3NkdYbjNUYWthbkNKdnQ4Q1BSZ0VpOF9rQmhhRUFBPQ== | 903 |
We have been dating for 9 months, but live 8 hours away. Her daughter's birthday is in 2 weeks, should I drive 8 hours to go to it? We are seeing each other again the following weekend out of town in Florida going to a concert. I think the 13th birthday party is important for anyone so feel I should be there in support. I know my GF doesn't care but I think it's important for a single mother and that it's her daughters 13th. Any mom's out there have any suggestions? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYa2o3aHJTVnBpZm9CTll2TGJhendYQTN4ODRxdk1zbmk1STliOUZBal8zNXd4ZWNWRENWWVRCVExoMHUzTVFiTmh2ZUxZdEZXZEctUmo2NkNObXNMeW02UW9lZHdoS21hN25mc3E3eVBqVVk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhVWtHYUpidUE0NWdZQzFtcVFSOVBCaFFKSTNIeE1jbkNSMC1jV1hkUlBaODVRR0FLeTdGY1l3RktsLTl4ZENadUFPWE1TbGlJZmR2N09LbF93UFUzZkxoODB0SjhldzhxVHRMVDdKV3RYRjVTVk9wbGhpMHFzOEUtbWRYcldsY2YxNGR0bDVWLVNkbFJadklhbkFVQXY0TXdVWlFveC1MdG5XM1ctZTV1TmtRbDYwcWZnbEZ5ZTVaNzR6UU5Ea3pQ | 904 |
Husband's fog bit me because I was having a panic attack. Left a pretty sizeable hole in my leg. He claims that I kicked him. I was kicking our mattress so maybe I did, I don't really know. I wasn't exactly aware of my surroundings at the time. I would never intentionally hurt the dog. I got scared and he said he wanted to either shoot the dog or give him away. I didn't want him to. Thought about going somewhere but that would mean leaving my cats here which I don't want to for their safety so i didn't. Don't know what to do. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYUFdoTFFiOFZlV1Z2aWJpa1ZuZTFVak5Cam9Wd1pMT0hWNjhaU1dCUjlaQmJseHh3b1RCejYxS2NhRXVJR094MUhYVFk2WlNnQk03dWdQZ19SRW5NUl92N0ZpdTBpQnVtR3d0bWpMb1dxc0k9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhaF9hYzU4b0UzRW9nQ0M4d3VwZS0wNGxwMkxNMlF4dFFMcVhvVVFPRjNKTjQ3dnRNVmNkYWxDZkJ0MVlyTW5GaVN6YTdKVzJaYURoNThwUjVKWkkwcDM0S3ZLMU81UkhSRGxPeVYxUGpINjF1LUw1VHNDdE5scXlWSXdNWVRmdGhjTWNPSkFhS21tVDdtMWdJamZzZGpPOWZzTlRSRXFjUTk1R0lqZ1F0YVM4PQ== | 905 |
Basically I downloaded a dating app called TanTan and got matched up with someone and they asked me to add them on WhatsApp. I was just messing around so I added them but I never really talked too much. Today I got back from vacation and they asked me if I was home and I said yes. They immediately said that they will get an Uber to my place in which I rejected. I received a phone call threatening to kill me and WhatsApp videos of a person being stabbed to death and they said that it would happen to me if I didn’t pay 400 pounds. What should I do? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYbTBWaldadXZuS3lzTTNWanRNSmc3YklWdHBDcWdRdkIzMl9WTmcyemxaNEg3My1vblZHY19lcTFFV3Mza2t1QnRmdGZzTE9hNllvYllFQnJvaTBJMnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhZXNuNC1mdmZjaHEyTHEySll0aDVuX3pnZTJFVXl6SUdtWjdiVUZlVnFZSG5NYUdKQ1FudEJJakdvOHpyMlRNTHo3RU04LXMxQm96WEJfSThYZEp4dm9iUmFveHZrVjZZZklqZ1E2ckJZQWpNNVRZZGVqdHJrU3FEQjQ3ZWZNQWR6M0hBT2RLRkM4bU16Q3kwOXhrNkVyTWJJbEs3eWwybjlibEZESHZGOUdvREZpT2gxWU1RTmhjejFKMjZkTEZT | 906 |
After some advice on how to deal with a girl regularly popping up in my dreams, every time it makes me miss her and want to reach out when I know I shouldn't. It messes with my head and isn't helping me move on to the point where I know she's moved on and I'm stuck here thinking about her constantly and it's not letting me build a connection with anyone else because I miss her alot. What can I do to get over this? It's been a few months and I know things are done between us but why can't I move on even talk to other girls? I can't reach out to her so dealing with unresolved feelings isn't an option. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYbjJWS3hWNy1RUjhBMy0wdEQtUmFJMzJ3UmxUVkE1SEU5eW1QZW56N00wRVhmV3NmeVp4dzhReVg0VHhsTExtaW0xcTBtOUpYdVBHQkpoWHAyS3VfeHNIbzQzUkhjRlRhVEo1QVBVUXF6SjQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhUHNzVnNOaDhaNWlYZUNJNDA1Z0F1eXloTGRaT29OVDB4ajhGSkhVcEVOSzhrMldOaVBBWmJsY1Q3amZmX29Qc3o4cHZmMjJncUprUUxZNmU4LUVPam1TbHlxa2RWTmtfQUZIT2ZGX09fTkJaMTZ1X3NXanQxbHhGMmdrUWJZaXJwX0FzVlRZanpaWW1ONU9IaFdFRTk3RVBfSjh4U1ZJc1ZCUmdOM1JKeGNZPQ== | 907 |
i came home after a long time , i had gained weight because i was depressed in college, also i came a little late because i missed the attendence criteria by 0.5 percent so i had to stay and attend more classes. so when i came home i couldnt sleep at night because of my routine in hostel, my father saw that i was awake at 3am in the morning and startred yelling at me , telling me that ive spoilt my health that im a good for nothing im dumb , i cant even attend classes i failed my competitive exam and im going to private college which is expensive and all i do i spent money. he said a son like me is a curse | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYZFkyMzhYZTJuRmFxeFFFX0toUnhkQ1hIVGNvSE55aVFBcXlpWFloNTlqRlRxQU1SeFhjMzI0TDJybTlGZHQ0a2FYT0N1cWgyc0NleERlbTVzdTZSdkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhVUNaSWd6b2paaVZyYXRtSUJ3ZGw3NEtqYjEyUXJIQXl1dzFYQ3pwLWFhVUc2SU1YaGJONGt0QmpEVjJId0FVb0FYNXFCcjd3QUdUTVh5TmNlUGFEVGhPYjdCN0l4VjR1MmM0MGx4dDBBR1o3MjVJdGJBOFkyMGZ3UWJ3dU1OMkNWSUlER2R2b1lDQ2c3Vm5YU0JNY09iQW1CVDZ5VHlEb0pwWnhWS0lHUXNFdWZxZm1aY3JnendLTUVaMVhyU3Zf | 908 |
I just recently got out of an abusive relationship (for real this time) and I find myself missing him. I know this is likely due to trauma bonding, but I can’t seem to stop myself of thinking about him.
I don’t feel like I can talk to any family or friends, I got a lot of slack for taking him back the countless times I did in the past, and a lot of my relationships deteriorated because of it. Well that and his systematic isolation.
I don’t know how to cope. I haven’t spoken to him and I won’t, but I’m spiraling. I don’t know what to do next and I’m scared. I don’t want to get hurt again or even possibly die. I need help. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYMUZ6U2cyVDYtWUg5d083bGlZbEtZVURXRDU2SnZBWHJsTUhaS21YSkxGMnI0Vm84ZFN0WWhFY181ek9KQUhTby03VjFWcHVuUVYtZVpnb083Q1kzQnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhQ3V1WGo3N28yZEpPV3BUZVRnUnhzTV9MSi1Zb3hQTHFVRTV1eS1ocUVOaTgzNjBDUXR2ZmVMalY1TFJRTXBfclJLc1F3Y1NEM25OSk5OQzhLUDZ0cTN1U3lkZWlnZ1lOb3h6SjNCNUJZOFhRNGZwcnhNcVJ4RHlyQWVDUUJqYzR4WVRlb0xNTmd3U3h2LXN5TDV3c3FqM1p0UmhtN1IzNzdHUGR3T3Nkam1zPQ== | 909 |
I live in a 1bed apartment with a window ac unit in the living room. When I go to sleep it’s as if my body temperature skyrockets and I am a sweaty mess unless the room is extremely cold I have always been this way. Unfortunately the cold air doesn’t always cool my room down, on top of my apartment heat is automatic so I can’t control that either. I have 2 fans in the room basically on me that helps sometimes. The AC unit is on 24/7. But seems like at night maybe the heat kicks on?
Anyone know tricks/tips for getting the apt colder or tricking my body ? I’ve tried the hot shower to get my body to cool down but it only works temporarily.
Thanks! | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYQ2k0MUdVMmVvbnYyQlZ2R3ByMUZoR3E3emhKWGhnd2xLdGRQVlBNZDJBVWlMQ2ZMYnBpelQ1RTdXdEFqaXNJT3JwTmZQNGJJWVk5N20wVVZtb0xDWGExc1FiTlFFclNJcE5YZ0t3MzFxTWc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhYmJCVEJjTllmNDJ3cjMwaWtBckNnamF0S1BvZ25nR0x6SWUxa0xxUEdCZTdpN21IbU9oeVhGRW1ldlFRYUVKV3NhYnE5VzFqX3JVSHE2c2NmT2NxdGtrR3RnWmRMYjliQUR0Vm9IS0NFRDFZRVkxWC1OVExDWmk2UFVRcUlPMWlWcVNGYmtVTkN5UEV0M0xvX3J6dlR5Q2dOVG5Lb2FwNG0wUWlUQVBndHVBPQ== | 910 |
Ok so here's the deal. I need mom's to answer this. I am dating someone who lives 8 hours from me. Her daughter's 13th is coming up and she has a silent disco party set up for her. How important is the 13th party for a mom/daughter? I don't have kids and feel that it's an important bday. We are going out of town together the weekend after also. Is this something you think I shoudl go to? I will preface this by saying my GF probably really doesn't care but I feel it's important to be there to be in support. Keep in mind our relationship has really blossomed in that we feel our future is us. What say you? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYc2c0XzdZanFzc3VXWXlIdGI3eGRMeTJRdTg5bVY1bkNPYXhFQnp5ajFvZ0F6cURMZF9pOU5STjN3S2p3UXNrcThqUUVSYzFtcEhaZHVJaUgybXEyN1RIbUJ1cGJwaVhpMENRRGoxaEJDYkk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRha01ITjRJdjRsRm1DWEFKRndrMjl0aVVkMXEtank2WTh3Ty1jNG52MEljZEw1ZGE3c3htODhYdVZsRElfQ0VrSHRNYU5mQ19IV2M5cmFYVWtuTlRMZi1OZGpvVmJ0VjBJQW40NXZJUjRSdnNibkRRRE9MSWx3UWt6ME01TDZabGNDaEVsdzFuV3RQV3d2cG1WQUlkcVZzSmM4Z3Y3bFpGTjlIZ2FrVnNra0d3dEdva2NkSl9HQmpHM3N2Sm15VEFwMC05RTV1cGliek5oaUkwd2w0R05VQT09 | 911 |
I've spoken to BF about how I don't like them using the F slur because they're not LGBTQ+. My other roomie used to say the N w0rd, ofc it upset me because I am also black lmfao. Their friend group is just horrible people who make fun of others. My bf is so sweet to me so I told him I dont like how he says it and makes fun of disabled people. I told him to put himself in their shoes. He said he gets it and apologized but still does it.
Is there anything I can do today forward? Like its making me upset to the point i've considered moving out and just avoiding it but I don't really want to. This is my home too. I just feel like I'm not being listened to :( | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYOU0xd0RTZTY4SGJUdGZCQ0ptSmdBRDA2M1cyTXE1WUtyR3JSbFhybk9LQ21aaXJhcDBJQklVWUdYWnl1SGFtanppaTBidGdrRHEwYm4xLV9senV4SXR2b0o4ZnUzT2xRcjBlLUphSkF5X3c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhdDRydnU1NDhRY29td1V1dXgwZzVmUURKU2FnTXIxVWw0eEo0NUpEc1dYdG5qTWVBQ3NmbEU0VTZablU4RXZlb1hPX09weVpGZUluRmtPTzZ6b0tfRDk0WFV6YzlRWnVoWk93OW10X2VvZXZkV3JUdXByVnA5SDdzMnFReXN4UFNlcGd1TGJ3aEo0ZU5HMGpIS3Vyc2NVM1FaQUg1d0gyRHJ5dGczNUl4Nng3UU5jWjhmN1lTMUw3aDNoT2ZhQkdhRWFNQ2wwSElQSUdINlBhdVFPTkxqUT09 | 912 |
I've been coughing nonstop daily for the past 2 months and I don't know what to do, I'm taking cough drops nonstop, but they're still not helping it go away permanently. I didn't randomly catch this, my mother got sick and I did too unfortunately but it hasn't gone away. I'm 17 with no drivers license or anyone to take me to the doctor. It can be difficult to breathe especially at night and it feels like I have miscues stuck in my throat. It'll go away, then come back. I've thrown up twice during the sickness and have to constantly blow my nose.
If you have ANY suggestions on medicine I can order that has a reasonable price or anything I can take that can help this go away please let me know!! | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYWHdzX1VadjJLT2lHeVNBMGpPajVxUkVQa0R3SzVPYWphWkcyTUdtRFIzNWc0bmFpZ0NwTl9Nbi1aS2FhWk1zTWw0cHBEWXdyMmRseG1FUWs3TkwyeXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhVEVaR2EyaWE4M2J5R3c1VWdnWDhsbmlhNDJEMWVLRWJVTkhZdVM4bG9TbzQzRzJWOWNUSmY3QWU4ZnZVdkh2V1dmWW9BOXpzdmhNdG90Q2w0ck9NSVJTekpEQUE2NVRCRWpreUhJbkRVREJIV0pDaU4xenVRZ0tuVTBjblRoaTk1ZFAxRjNkNHdsaTNNQWtQOTQydjg4dmVDOTNhOEp3SzdVSDVQcnZ0V2tiR1NHbUFmQzdGNURtNTdwaEUxU29QYzhBbUxZUnVQclB5dEJqaGZ2a0xRdz09 | 913 |
Im 18F and in college and I honestly have no idea what I want to do in my future. For years my dread job was to join the Air Force but my senior year of high school I was diagnosed with a sleeping disorder and can no longer do what I was like to do I in any way. I last minute realized I needed to go to college but due to going through 1-3 years of hs with sleep problems I didn’t have good enough grades for a for year. I now go to a 2 year for business and I hate it. I feel however that I’m restricted on what I can and can’t do because of how behind I am in school from high school. I guess I’m just wondering how long it took before you got your life together and knew what you wanted? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYeEtteFJtU2hXcFkzbHJfRXFmT0hUSE1EOTEwaDZocEt2MnI0RWZvcGQ5TVN4bnJWaUVISUVUMU5UYlFZOGxNa255RjVFU0VwTVFJbjlBQ0NwRTd0N0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhOV9zaU1ERFpkT2tOR1FBZ2wxaDJKbm1jTXdidjhQakI4Smx0N2ZxdE1TczFDTDhtc3ZScEs4Z0pGNWZHRnRGdHlsNFliV2RseEpuZUFzRlFELUJuVWxOTzEweFFTeXRDSFVqUmZhTGJhTS1qUF9QaVFoLUpudTVBQkdlelR6Y2J5WHptcHF0SGVveUlBSlhXZDlYQlkyLUxuOTQxRGhWdFd4QjhtaHF0ZldoeENMWHpjb1E0SDdKLXNYQ1lLVFUwRWlWTHllYUJDTXlpaVFwcUV4cHRlQT09 | 914 |
So im in a program where they help you look for a job or volunteer. I have been having health issues with my pancreas and enzymes.
I have been missing volunteer days to go to many different appointments but the thing is the coaches in the program im in say ive been missing way too many days. Because of my HEALTH.
Then on December 13th im getting surgery to have some stones removed from my ovaries which will be taking 2 months to heal and recover.
I told my coaches but they say oh it doesnt take too long to heal. They think its going to be a laser surgery but no they are going to CUT ME OPEN!! It WILL take a while to heal but they dont understand that!!
What should I do? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYekRxcHpsTDM2R25UWDVwRmt2bUhyUzhKUlRhVnRhZ0EzN3BNc1pZTTZTbHI2RVFvZ2ltY3NQaDhPRGFqSDlJNFBqa1RsS0pqRTUwOW9RRGZ4Z01xT3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRha1Q1eC10TzA2Ylk3XzN5NlFwVk9SUXNoenNqUUN2TGhkcmptT2d1ZFNOWlZSQWJiREgtYnFUSEZ4VzBzYmhnc2VaN01vdjYweE84eDJoeWc0QmEzaDJmd1lYNW1yMzNQbnh3SDZJMXRUU1AwR3gtdzBfbnBTZXZZODg4U2lrR004di11eGpMRGRmckF4dFk0LUhkZHF2QWpRcmJrMGMyc0VFSm9rXzY1UFFjcXRpNkhNSy0xbUVnNU54UXFKSDZ1Z0d2Q3lwbXpyX2NKQ0tKZGgyRjB0Zz09 | 915 |
My best friend and I are both women in our 30s. I've known her for several years. We are both part of the same multiple organizations and we hang out frequently. She is such an amazing, generous, intelligent, funny, athletic and caring person which is why I'm not surprised I started having feelings for her. I have never in my life had feelings for another female and still prefer men. But for some reason, I can't seem to get rid of these feelings of attraction. Someone suggested telling her how I feel to get it off my chest however, I refuse to risk our friendship and I might be a little Chickens*** lol. Her relationship status is complicated and I wouldn't want to get involved anyway. I truly enjoy being around her in general and don't want to stop. How do I lose these feelings without losing my best friend? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYejZXM2pjcVh6Yk5MSE51U285NzFTZGRDOFdjMnVaU3p3Yl9JVFB4azNyOU9BTDdpLXRvVS1BTm82MXpuaUdmaFQyYnZlWmd2OWVCTzF6UExSa0VWbDhzMUM3QzZQcDEway1oWnc5bnFubFU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhb3FpZmxZbmdRZlp0cV9aRldURV8xZDZaYUlyei02U2lUaXpuZW0tZXVqRTNsbzEwR2JXQXY0WUliWVRlZlRJd2lRYkQ3dkpOUDVyRkdMSEE2Ym43bWNFVmk0LTNyVmQzWElMRTU4REd3WW1LenBnTjVZS3l2SGZmSG1ub2pPZU8wcW9NUlk5OHI4TC05ejJldzNYNjhzcmw2eUVlVE5kcVZnRXNZQ2h5enhHQVo2c0tRU1A1NmJSb3ZqN0c0VEZS | 916 |
So basically I’m 20, have no goals in life, currently in community college but not sure about my major, have a part time job I passionately dislike, and also I hate myself very much. Should I join the military? I feel like it could maybe set me straight, and I dunno maybe develop me as a person. I know that it’s very hard but maybe I should? It’s probably a crazy idea. I’m not physically fit or active and I’m 4’11 and 100 pounds I’m not sure I would do much in a fight. I’ve never even held a gun before and I have depression which will probably worsen because of the tough treatment.
Please tell me your honest thoughts and be brutal if you have to. Sometimes I have these ideas that I think would be good for me but to everybody else it sounds crazy so maybe this is one of them. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYZ2hzdl8xbDBsalpCS2tJU0s1aXRlSGVITDN4emZYNHZNOWtjOHlHanBzakxPRXNCd2twUXdQNXM2QVlXOW5ZM3hNOVh5Q1B0ME1WdVBXZGNwd2VRSThwRi00bkdWVFNzMldGcFgtb2VVZmc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhRHgzbEFIUmlWWEpNMUZCdVBMdUlndGhCWTJyaVNPNHhiazVPN0toS1I2NXpzaE90b016cmVjdHpQcUIzQ2tDQnk4YlRwU1dKQmdPM2NNRkVsMHU2MEh2VWZWbXE4RFFyTlRNbVgxbVhyX0tESFJ6SzY3ZENVX0ttcEpQak0tTGJtRkJHWHZCazlINU5nR0J1bHlCdzdLQ2kzUlB4NTRkSFJMeHZ0T2tmcUxJPQ== | 917 |
So basically this girl asked me out, and I let her know I didn't wanna date her, but she kept pressuring me and I'm not good with pressure, so I caved, and now I'm dating her, but I REALLY don't, I've dated her before and it was awful. Its just I don't know how to tell her without her getting cray cray and stalking me again, and if your wondering why I even am still talking to her it's because I wanted to make sure she was okay as she was doing a lot of SH, which is another reason why I can't just say "let's break up" as I'm worried she'll do something, and just in case someone's gonna wonder, this all happened today. But seriously I can NOT do this, I can't handle dating someone right now, I have a bunch of trauma to sort out first plus I need to mature up. I'm genuinely not ready for a relationship, if I was I wouldn't have broken up with my exs | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYWTZjUktjX3Q3aE9aa2tUVDRXbllGa1FwM1A1aFJZSmhTZFNxYmZvbXBKYzltaDRDbWJ4SmJVYm9HOVJQV3o2T3RJZURjUktfLWVTc3B5NkZPWVpMUzZkNjAxTUxjcU9ZUFR1TS1IWDVRX1E9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhS3lqUjM5dXdwaFlvbW5JLWRpTlhYd3ZvYWZSdHZ5LU5yOUU1QTNaaVBZdGxpNDRGenBJR2ZzdnlJU1V1eDI4MGxQVnFRUm1tYU9sWF9JeEJVLWZna3JTaGRtbElCU25ock1vZmZTbTlnb2dudno3WVlkbU02SmpHeGlwTVp5YkhoM2JkT2NPTHp4Y2tIV2U3WTV4WVVUXzN1dS1qN0F1M1htSmFDYlc2czJFYzl3Vkk1VmtERW9XcGJKaXBfQkl0d2ZlRktZV2FlMHRFQ2Zja1BxVHFpUT09 | 918 |
I'm 24f, and I've been single pretty much forever. I've never really dated. I get compliments from people on my looks, mostly from other women, but when it comes to guys, I can't seem to attract the kind of men I'm into. I don't really develop crushes based on looks alone, apart from wanting them to be at least my height but I get interested in men based on who they are, the way they talk, act, and I tend to crush on people who are a few years older, like ten years older than me. I'll invest so much time thinking about these guys, hoping they'll notice me, but then I end up wasting too much time on a crush. There have been a few men who showed interest, but they just weren't my type. I'm putting myself out there, but it feels like I'm missing something. I'm honestly so tired of being single, but I also don't want to embarrass myself or show interest only to get turned down. How do I navigate this? Would love to hear any advice or similar experiences | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYUTJxWklLelpNdjAwNXZvY0FCZkRIbzJLWFRhcDFlUnR3amNFa2NGR0l6WUlqNDRhZmNUTGFxQkNLNmRaaktLZl9rc0ZvTlVLdEFULUVKQmFFUEluM2FMSDNYNmVMc1o0VVpKdXZ4dnloVm89 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhck1BY1ZQMFpFNGxtcGxZWEtZQkFVd1M2YW92a2l6WGRrd0dNU1UwMS0zY0pUYVcwa1BheDBmQjl4NEZWZXF2VGpLOVFtS1hWYkFlSDRqQ1ZWYllSclBaWkp4Z3V6NHZBLW1TX2ZXa3Nzc01lcGVDRVcyT0pfS1RCcjhhaUU1Y3N1R2N2MnQ5ZWdWYWJ0S2MxSnJhWjBTd05uVGFxNE1UMUJTQndZbWd0Nk9kVlpYWWkxcUhqZ1pubzUydVd6eXlW | 919 |
My friend moved in with me and a few other people recently. His feet smell so bad that if he walks through a room it can smell horribly the next day. I told him this when we lived a few years ago but he dismissed it as me being mean. I was very direct and possibly harsh as I was fed up with it.
Another roommate and I recently went to buy him some for powders and sprays. He does use them occasionally, but either not all the time or maybe enough product.
It's not something any of us can ignore, it's incredibly strong and offensive to the point where we are starting to avoid him at times. His feet are the main problem, but I think his hygiene is poor as well. We all have diagnosed depression and I know someone will suggest this being the cause, but this is how things are when things are good for him. When he's depressed it's even worse.
How do we kindly talk to him about this without seeming like we are ganging up on him? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYVG1xYXlhN09lUThYamUzQUdmdkRXR2NKUW9FZTRJaTkxRWdMcFpKd1NUUzMycDFNZmw1RzVEbzg3Nm50TkhBTVdKZElEWDJOU1YyX3FrbDZNRExxcEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhSzZUUDdmaDY4bFhnb0JqYldISUFTZ1NPRWl1T0c1bVFjTk4xSEJ1cDB2enUtc1dLN19nU2ZfcG1WLWVVeVFmeUptU2g1cDZZTG5QcHg5Y1Juemo5anFWWWJtdzNJeE40UXVlVGRweVNVM2VqRENVS2FwWTFRTjYxTWxRdHZXdWcxT3djSUNkd0xPNmlhN25ubGF4U2MwQTNTM2Y0cDlOejgzeUk2MUg0VUhUQlZIZ1FKUkNLYzJKM0xlVUZXbHhBLTlkbjlTZEV2U1VtYVRxaUp0WXpkQT09 | 920 |
I live in a duplex. My neighboour caught the duplex on fire by not properly disposing of a lit cigarette a few months ago. Firetrucks and everything showed up, said a couple more minutes the whole house would be gone.
The area they smoke in is a wooden storage area that connects to both of our back doors with a thin wooden wall separating us. You can climb over this wall into the other unit.
After the fire, the landlord told them they can't smoke in there anymore for obvious reasons. The landlord just sold the place, and now they're smoking back there again. I am concerned that they will start the house on fire again. It is not in the lease so they have every right to do this.
I was thinking of a smoke detector back there that I wouldn't shut off for a couple hours. I can't hear it inside too well so shouldn't really annoy me lol. Is there any other ways I can fuck with them to get them to stop? I asked previously and they aren't very cooperative. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYb0JkZGxBT1FHX18zMHo2ZDhYLXM2QUNXWnduZkZDUXhueGVISHRxSjEyUWYtaWtuRG4xU2d6WVBPTGFCdGdZRmlldTBKck4ta21rUmQ4emVjTkg5cFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRheElvR1pyM29KWndndVZESHZkdXF1RDR2bnQwX3RXVmZrMGdoX0NWNXBmMUN3VWZGM3pQM1M5NFNOMzgzM3JCb0ZTSmZwVm9IdmU3bnZ1cG96YVBlQklfR1MwM3NtT2NFR1p6YnRIS3VwczdQVmMwRkllYlYtQW92RXBQSFFEc2lGVV91cG5UdmQxZVlqU3M3c1VPVmFVMGZFMUNZcUswOEd2ZHpLdHBXS2xlcjRZSEhBNklHQUNzekFGTEU0a2otOWdwSFlFNmtka0g5bHQ5dGJaVmdyQT09 | 921 |
Background: So this is a weird one and I’m not sure where to go about this. My (17) little brother (15) is just starting to get into the “exploring” stages. So he’s started using Safari for more personal reasons, however, he doesn't seem to know that incognito is even an option. Additionally, my family is very open with our phones and we often use each others for searching things up.
Main dilemma: Most times when I use my brother’s phone I pull up to things I don't want to know he’s looking it. Do I just stop using his all altogether? Or is there a way I can bring this up without overly embarrassing him? I’ve also wondered if knowing that incognito is there will help him in the long run.
Additionally, please keep in mind my brother is diagnosed with autism on the lower side of the spectrum.
Sorry if this isn't what normally goes here, I’m very flustered by these experiences and could use some insight. Thank you, Reddit. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYSTJWV09wLXRuaXpwS2JqSUk3Tm1hajNyOTJUOHIxUHQ4NVZ1V3hWeG56TjNBSmo1UWxhVkFTekpZMnlUa1dKSkxuT0l4azN3ejNqdFlhNzZJYm1ISXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRheWl4M3IyLUt0c043U0NPc2hUdGRTb1JJWUc4NjF4eHVaNnV3U25nQ2pnX3JiVHd1UHgtak5qVUlfTXVrLVc3dnB0UXB2aHVSdFlaZW1PeG5UVzdvOHk4M3VtR1hMVzE5TDNQNFN4bThLY1pCM2NSUzV1SldZdTdfQjVFOEltZFdVZEFfREZzVE9vRWdVaVpFYzFpY0o0M3RTbG05MktycjE5cFc2SnptNGxtZGtUQ2hqVlpac0NpM3F6UGY1Yzg0ZVNMd3BURXhoWFh6REtJbU9VOU52UT09 | 922 |
tw for mentions of sucidal ideations,
Ok, to put it simply me and my ex broke up a few weeks ago, she broke it off due to poor mental health and other personal issues, I tried to reassure her I would be willing to work through those issues with her but she insisted this was the best for both of us so I respected her wishes.
over the past weeks we've had minimal contact which has been going fine up until yesterday (my birthday), she wished me a happy birthday and awkward small talk followed, when she Dm'd me I couldn't help but glance at her account and saw a few posts and reposts implying she was thinking of ending her life, nothing extreme, pretty cryptic ,very out of character and enough to make me worried, I remind her that I was always here if she needed me and went about my life, but I can't shake the thought.
she continues reposting these cryptic crys for help, my question is, is there a course of action I should be taking or should I trust her circle to help her?
edit: I just found out my birthday is the aniversary of her friends death, oh my lord | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYM0hKZm9iRUFLalNJaTM1VmhqbUd1RDNTTmg3aHUxQnRpY0xURDVza1pya1k5RmZWczEtVVBSWmJkektnZ3RoU3BrMTEyOXdBYkpOMkw0M1BmYkQxNTNSU3FmTUNNdEhVaUdrSloxOWRFb3c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhNll6V2tJd0lMMzFLTThxWHBPUUdVb1NkSWh2VzlZdUlHUjhyS0kzSzVHZmRsbnNnTjBCcnJkRG4zZTVXZG9HRUtDWVZTREc5eWlHR0RrYTRFa0R6ZXI4QWlTa2t2djhwc2FfS2lQdktsNzdEUFhOR3k3RFhqbWFXNWZiUlE0ekUwY2pLMmY5ZERlQlRzajEwamhaekFpSkZmZTNEMUZKY2ZsOTBLT1laRUlRPQ== | 923 |
Hey, first time poster. Recently I matched up with someone on tinder and we hit things off really quickly. Same fave bands, same taste in movies and music. Similar industry goals (she wants to be a manager for musicians and I wanna work in post production for films and television) there’s very little we don’t see eye to eye on. Up until last week we spoke every day and every night and we never argued about anything. On Wednesday last week I offered her a bit of quietness so she could lock in and study without me distracting her and she graciously accepted. Then all of a sudden she goes fully offline and hasn’t posted anything, hasn’t responded to any messages and as far as i know she’s just disappeared. We were planning our first date for the Saturday that just passed but she disappeared before anything was set in stone. Obviously the thought of getting ghosted is real but the fact she hasn’t posted anything insta note or story is odd to me. I hope for her own well being she’s not injured or sick and she just lost interest in me but I’m really hurt from this and I keep constantly thinking about her and if I messed up. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYXzFheGtNbnctYTN2LXM1Qm9IOVBtR28taVJEdVFKZ1ZKcjVMaFZ1UVV3WmV2VG55cnpJYUxYZHdoSjN2WlVnRVpDb0JRbTJDcUZqZ21aUmZVeHNwNFQ0T2JvMXczSGRQWG1wVXBpV1BoLW89 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhc0d4TG56NjlQNUd2WU5lVUlfemNVMElJWlJSQ19VZ0h6OVZ0VHdmSG5KNG5zbjJldzVnR3pLNWlKeEE2b09nTG44UzVzeWN4NTFQQTQ2V1c3U2Rkclh6RFd4NlYtWFZ0RTY5OEI1Y2RtUWpTYUNaM0NKNDZhTHJUVjVvS2kzVVNlZGFoS3RhYk5WN0xiMVEwT25nZ3JTWEp2VHUtYzBrZXhfZFZNVEpmZGdZPQ== | 924 |
I 17f have this impending sense of emptiness. It feels like there’s a gap in my life but I can’t place the feeling of it, I don’t know if that makes sense.
I always think I know how to solve my apathy/distress/etc but it never works. I feel rejected by people in my life when nothing has happened and I feel so many ways all the time like what the fuck is happening to me? I’m wildly insecure, I’m exhausted, and it feels like I’m losing when nothing is technically wrong; I want to have sex but I also want to just cry and I can’t really do either it feels like I’m thinking too much.
I’m currently on an SSRI and in therapy but like I feel so weird. Something minor happens in my life or even just my head (a small event or realization) and it’s like all of a sudden I feel like I need to cry all day but the second I’m alone I’m empty again. I don’t know what to do.
My therapist thinks I have borderline personality disorder. Maybe I do. But something feels off all the time and I’m constantly trying to soothe myself; I’m always doing something wrong or impulsive to make the ache subside but it doesn’t seem to work. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYWTNYSXJ3RjlyQWREcWdRU2FSOEtVUTdSRjJwVHpsRWx0eGFscnN5NF92U1lmTXhpcDBFSUIwdVVkdG96Nk0xamxzV1JFWWhEc29lX3BuZE1VQmlaU2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhTVVMQWJfMVFZQU96SGdXQUE5MWFVM2JaY1JYT3hOME02cnBEcFZTUjFETEpjM1paUS1GZm1BZWRVWjJSZnVtUGhGZUU1Y19DdTRHMjBvVDkwSjlHZDB0SkR6SXNCcEFpQ1pobjFpRkVCOUJKcHNiUzRhdGd2MFp1R0x4VzdQUjN3LXlPb25FcGpwVVlEUGVvRGxBLTZ1N3JxZFotUG5QbHpVRjNjMUFkUHY0PQ== | 925 |
Throw away account for obvi reasons also please don't judge me to hard (I know how this sounds) I have no one else to turn to or talk to about this and i need to get it off my chest. I (17F) keep having dreams about my (45M) dance teacher. My dance teacher is a conventionally attractive man as well as I've always been into older guys so i feel like the world is just working against me. I started dancing at this new studio about 1 year ago and we only have one teacher and it's him. I've danced my whole life and have only had female teacher's so this was new for me when i switched studios, he's a great teacher and has helped my dance career so much but I can't stop finding him attractive and I don't know what to do. I've been doing my best to try and get over how i feel but i keep having sexual dreams about him that feel extremely real and when i wake up i feel so guilty. Most of the time they happen the night after i have class with him especially if he touched me in someway to correct me. Its always innocent and normally a light touch on my arm or leg. I just don't know what to do and i feel awful that i feel like this but the feeling wont seem to go away and I'm just hopeful someone can give me some advice or help me with this. Thank you. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYekR5dlExdnMzOWM0ZTRpSGtiVUk0MGlWLUdkZjZaQzdLd19jd1ZWX1pXYzdHYnhTMHA0cVNlcEVIWXFKLVhyZ0YtTmc1TFlrOGw4RXdfbjhYdTZPMG1RMHFod1BHMXh4dWU5VHlBWnU2eDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhdWFTTllXeUZ3a1F4b3JoeHFFSVU0cm5oSU5LVV9YVUs4THZVMlJPZkRDejVtNkxNMC1YS3A4aXpjU0JBVmEzUEZTbHF6X1c3bXl4Z1VMYVRhcW91N3dTZFp4M3ZENXRfTnpCMl9uY3NKZVlEdFRTMTlzc1VOcl9GSkMyVTRmcnZzem1odllON2dJS2FMVzdtd1kyWHJ0UUhvTnMtN2w4TWZheExvamU2amszUU9tUUJ0elQwVlZtZ0dEb2JLMnc1Y1d1Ui1pNHNpTEExeDB5TWtYRzRXdz09 | 926 |
Me (M18) and my Girl best friend (F20) have known each other for 4 years now and are incredibly close. We met on Tinder (yeah I know it’s kinda weird for a 14 and 16 year old to be on Tinder) but yeah we got along super well but ended breaking it off before meeting due to distance. After that we didn’t talk for about half a year until she messaged me telling me that no guy has a personality like me and we begun talking again until she wanted to call which I was uncomfortable with at that time. We still talked everyday for a year until I met my ex which ended up making me cut her off. After me and my ex broke up I contacted her again and we’ve been talking daily ever since.
Now we get to the problem she has a bf (who cheated on her) and they’re very distant she sees him once a month and told me before that talking to me feels “different” then talking to him. She also has admitted that I’m more than just a friend for her. I’ve had feelings for her ever since we met but something always got in the way of even meeting her. Now we’re at a point where I feel like she has feelings but feels like she can’t meet up with because of her boyfriend who she doesn’t want to dump. Whenever I try to talk to her about this she dodges the topic and it makes me insane | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYWGg5R2JUNW9yNlVraDlpQUYtWkhOQ1hEXzZfSVVYdzRKSUJaWWhySUxFeTk2bjhCX3MtYWxGcC1PeVh6dHZzQm9TRFB5Mi1XOVRNN0IzMVFqSGZEUVJTUGU2X0lBajhTZl9SWUUwQ3dXMk09 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRha1d5SXlYMFRjYXQyc1Rfd2NNOVRaQ0pBbHZXMEY0Y003Zy1uQmh5bUI3WDVyNVQ0UWYycGhjY29ITWlfeDB6SmhCZmdaOWNUTkhCenZJdThnXzVrWmI5ckRZeXNqUjBRdHd2YTFocnVvOGgwVkVrcjAxSzQ5SURwckNaYTA4Mlp1Y2hWNmI3WjNfWmFJVW8td1h4V1BSZXYtV25aTWYzZU1MOExYRTE1cS01MWtwdmlxdnRsVnJrNHJrZWhGcFJDV3YtemxraXFMRkNpY1ltVXlUbFk5dz09 | 927 |
My (30F) mother recently told me that her Uncle "John" (my Grandpa's brother), who I saw at Christmas for most of my childhood, used to watch her and my aunts shower through a basement window when they were teens. This same Great Uncle is known for sending silly birthday cards to everyone with old photos of themselves photoshopped into cartoons. No big deal, right? Except, I realized with horror, for the past 15 years I've been getting cards with photos of myself as a 13-16 year old. Not only does John have high-school-age photos of me saved on his computer, which I did not give him or consent to, but he doesn't seem to have any photos of me as a baby or an adult with a spouse and kids. Only a prepubescent girl.
I feel sick everytime I get one of those creepy-ass cards from him in the mail. I want to tell my family to not share my new address with him, or reach out myself and tell him to stop contacting me. But I know this will make waves. I don't think the men in my family know(?) The women actually victimized by him laugh the shower thing off like it's no big deal. "He's a bit of a strange bird." He is still well-liked and respected in the family, and to my knowledge nobody has ever confronted him before. John also has daughters and granddaughters, and I don't know if they have any similar experiences.
Would I be out of line to speak up? Is this my fight to fight, or not?
| r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYdHNHWU90d2tYbHk2TVJIS2xfd3JTQm1RSW5hZlVSbGVSUmc0VE9ZcWpSZFVUUEpwdm9LZks1Q1MyY2xqdHlXVm11QTFsVTZOZDExaFotQm9nOW53VHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhcFByT1B5TFppM2hpOTdjeVFaMGJUT3NxT3ZweGU3UnB4VlBZYU40MUJlM0NrbEZ4VmhheHJSTDB6aTlaMU5KQkdVQW02cmMycElUeTdZQ1d3TEJEZnJnaW02bTZ1RFZmNnNldk1wbl9xU21YMkRzem5tV180eGV5VXMxcnlHeEI4VWV1c3hMNFVvcXFia3BKeXk2aFphN3c3aG5mM3VsZm1tMG5Oa2ZIVWNTN1BVTkFqZTlvN3Rra0hhdHpBSlZpMFBCQmlvT25YdGM2RExUT0t6UGUtUT09 | 928 |
I (28M) met a girl (26F) out for a drink last night. Although we only had one drink, we spent time talking for over 2 hours before walking her to her car, hugging her, and kissing her good night. We actually kissed a few times last night. I had been drinking by the time I met up with her, wasn’t drunk, but she was stone sober.
She asked me to go on a walk with her today. I was tired, not feeling it. Regardless, I pushed through. Strike while the iron is hot, right? I asked tons of questions, and I gave her my number. We hugged goodbye and she texted that she had an awesome time. For someone who claims to have crippling anxiety, she seemed to open up and was very comfortable talking with me.
We are kinda similar, kinda not. She’s super Christian and never even dated before, despite being attractive, and even possibly a virgin. She wants kids, evidently from her profile. I am leaning towards no on that for me. Also I feel like I am more wild than her, I have dated **a lot** and never have just one drink on a Saturday night, if I have decided to drink. She has some of the qualities I’m looking for, but 1) I dont know if she likes me just because I make more money, she thinks I’m cute, and I’m tall 2) I feel like if she saw my wilder side she would be turned away 3) I feel like she’s holier than me 4) I personally didn’t feel as much of a connection today and unsure if I want to pursue it. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYMDBnVkFsV3BONTdmMmRRUmFTNWVzc1YxeUFyR3FkRC1QVzJ0bGE5TEtzQUhuUzhwb09YVXdMXzF5NFBNQktiV2FiNGhGZTBDVE9mUVljZF8xa3ZlSkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhZFhyUnVFaF9ZenF4UnFWOERYeGlSNmNMYkNPdWEtd0l3clg1aEdTMlhISjY3UnkyNzg0V3IzcVhWOUJEMGl3bUtrdzNzWGJobmpMSE1TXzQ1OWZvVDNJcmI3a0RkS2JfWVpLcVJ2MWFzSWRjeEJJZVdoX0F3TENyN3BsRmhfVHNoZjFYSnVtVVFpckRqYm8xa1puRzlTTnlPemFnTUVvX055XzRGMzNtcDZHLUpFdWFSV0pXU3JoVDFZT3pZaU5TeXFXaHZDYVBZTmN3eVZZdWdhVGI3Zz09 | 929 |
I've tired to communicate my feelings, but it ends up in a fight.
My family (parents, siblings, aunts, cousins, etc) go on a few trips a year to my aunt and uncle's second home in Cozumel, Mexico (they bought a house a few years ago). I have not been invited. My parents pay for my sister (mid-30s) to go on the trips, and explains she needs the trip because of how her mental health makes her life unpleasant. I'm grateful for my life, but it goes without saying raising kids is exhausting and sometimes unappreciated, and although I have a well paying job, it's one that I dislike, and doesn't provide much money to allow me to "treat myself" often. I don't have the means right now to take myself on vacation, but my parents would be able to pay for me to join theirs. My last vacation was about ten years ago. I've had trips to visit family, and attend weddings, but otherwise, I have not had a "beach R&R" vacation since 2016.
I really don't think it's a "me" issue. Outside of the trips, I see my family often and I have a very close relationship with my parents and sister. I'm usually the one asked to host events and always being asked to helping everyone.
I'm happy for my sister to have these opportunities, but I would like to also. It's starting to get to me and I'm hurt. I do a lot for everyone, but they're not looking out for me. What can I say when they tell me they're going on a trip, and taking my sister, because she needs it more?
| r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYT3RkSGJpR2VtQmVwb1FTaXpwRGZlZHBIdjFncXh0dFNSQnF5eUVsTGRQeWs0Y1l5ZU9hVjJWeEc1V01McWRtZzl5T1RWVkdNWl85dHA5MnBFNVRQTFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhUHg4ZnMzR2NfVEhiOVV6RUFsNV8xSEtMQ1dXUXhiZC1QcnJLWFY3bzJiVFE0dFpOWDg0TXlsMUh1NEtkYUtBX25rQWlYb1lHMW9BMzVseXhhVGYyZl9DRmpkVDQzLVNwWll3VU96RC0xWlk2WTBmaWo0N3gzN1QxOW1ZNllHRlZ0SjVCQ2Frd0FHUmRhNEUwS01VN3hxMnRXUVdOTUt4T0txZ0h6dUFLM2FyUDkxdWNFbWEtM0czb1BaWGFmYVcx | 930 |
I used to feel my emotions so strongly, extremely strong and on a physical level, heart pain when upset, nausea when jealous but now it’s just, nothing, I don’t cry, I don’t get upset I get angry but I don’t feel angry I can just tell by my tone of voice, I don’t care about anything anymore, I would say it sucks but, I don’t really care? Idk want to feel things again but if I had to live the rest of my life like this it would make no difference to me because I simply do not care? Even when I cry it won’t be a build up of feeling sad it’s just an instant cry out of nowhere for about 2 seconds or at most 2 minutes if that.
I don’t know if this is relevant but cocaine and mdma (all stimulants) do not work for me and definitely do not give me euphoria.
What can I do to bring them back? I’m genuinely curious if it’s an issue with me producing dopamine or something similar idk tho not an expert
(Edit) I’m also not too sure if this is relevant but since this started happening I’ve also noticed myself getting dumber? Not massively but just less intelligent, forgetful and also just kind of sloppy in my behaviour, I was incredible at hiding things and lying (I had an amazing memory) but now it’s all kind of gone the opposite, im a terrible liar terrible at hiding things and I’m always late for absolutely everything. I could think of excuses and story’s ext on the spot and was very fast at thinking now I’m just kind of slow with brain fog. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYRDUxVU5VQU9VVGNfYVNLaE96ZUVTTGljLXlYVlVpRjBvLVVEREc1dGJrSXBsb05EbHR3OTRpLTJ3QjF5bVpZN0ZsVmZlSGszdjd1OTVkYWNwbVlFelE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhcmhZZmx4RVp5c2Z1dF9IQi05c0M5eUNXU1hQVzF6d29qS1B1ckRWdXpmaVJ0LVRyMWM2YmwtTE9haVpfdjFLMlZKaHJpYjJjT0EzSHBfX0FxaVFYdGN3TTFJTlJGSVFsSHpBZlo5UGRKR0h2SmRpQ0NqUDUxMDlPTWlmRVZSTkpUY1BiRjF0dlBUSG9JUENKWm4zNERsSjc2OHA5SnY5U21DUFFzblVmcjk4PQ== | 931 |
There was a guy I was talking to from a dating app (I’m 27 F, he’s 31 M) who for context we connected about a year ago, talked for a couple weeks but he cancelled on our plans to hangout. We got on well at the beginning but our differences in communication styles led to problems. I like communication over text and get anxious if someone doesn’t answer or text before a date to confirm, and he’s not really a texter. So we ended up stopping communication because of these differences, and I ended up reaching back out a couple of weeks ago to see if we could reconnect. We did and it was really nice at first, though I got the impression he was lovebombing a bit, telling me he’d never connected with anyone as quickly, complimenting my body, making plans to meet, etc. but he cancelled again and the communication started getting spotty again, but he told me he wasn’t losing interest and was just busy at work. But he made no plans to meet again, and when I asked him about it, he said he needed to feel comfortable and that my desire for communication was overwhelming him. He kept saying that my asking him to communicate more made him pull away, but I feel like if he communicated more and was warmer and more understanding, I wouldn’t have felt so stressed and anxious. In the end, he ended up blocking me I think ultimately it’s probably good because this situation caused so much stress, but my question is, what’s this guys deal? Why did he keep cancelling? Is he just not interested or did I get played? And how do I avoid situations like this in the future | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYcjdQN1FhaHJ4eFVYUDkwcmZ5Ymd3c1RqLXktZ2tlMlVfUnVjTXFmd1BQY29KbEVtbjR0ZDZJNzhSZFR1eU1mLVVudnpPcE43RUppdTdCTGxOcWloVWhvQUN0bmRyVXZvWnBmdlM1Wm1CWFE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhOEhrZE12aEhVUDlWOTdqVVF5Vlo0M0hUQzVMdGNXbFdGTkk5NnRnWE5BeU85WXFvYzdrTzVsUURFWDRPX2FnVkZiTVNHQ3NJb3ZlTy0zTXdKS3Zyb1hqTGN4Z0FOREtpa3ZoRGtMampMdjB3ZGtYWVFlS09zTkNoSjlhTWJhMXJNWE5iWXIxSzBYa3JSMVd0R2pfV080RnlsNUtxQi1UUUhIRjJBeDJrTUo4PQ== | 932 |
My (17m) brother (31m) is hardcore religious. By hardcore, I mean every phone call segues effortlessly from perfectly casual to "the second coming is hear and the world needs to get right with God."
As for that caveat I'd mentioned? He unfortunately suffers with schizophrenia. Honestly, it's sad and honestly horiffic as hell, because everyday occurances or perfectly innocent media can be percieved as demonic and indicative of something evil, and that kind of paranoia is hell on your quality of life.
In a very stark contrast, I'm a fuggin' atheist, kind of a nerd for science, a metalhead, into gory horror movies, hate being judged, probably bi, etc. Point being, I'ma weird fuckin' dude with a lot to criticize by conservative Christian standards, and probably a prime candidate to burn in hell in a lot of people's eyes.
While I lie and say I believe, it is a hard fucking front to maintain. Amidst these *hour* long conversations almost daily, there's always that underlying message of people not like him are less moral and need to be saved. Like I'm some damsel in distress in need of saving from "the wrong path."
Here's the gist of it: 1. Religion means a lot to him and gives him purpose. 2. I wanna hear what makes him happy. 3. It does the *opposite* and causes him literal distress and a genuine feeling of fear and being in danger. 4. I feel judged for simply being a fallable human like anyone else. 5. For some reason have a huge aversion of religion. 6. From what I've been told, him knowing this about me would fuck him up.
What the hell do I do?? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYY2FhanlJVTR5REFFX1dJSkhPVExlZ0JEb1pRdHJJdGpYNDFZRVpzbzRqZHlCNXBYMGNULVdvM0d1endWbjR3MnVoMnhoQmtkN1lLLVhZczBWN3ktY0RERXdSbUJUMTNwLTV6V05OeHF5Y3c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhWFAwd3A2ZzV1ZXBRQlhGRFBTMEJTU1VhLWJWaHFHLXhGc3RIWlVOWXZOSW9QYmg2VzhhSUctUndNcTc1OXdiMlRNcEV6bVE4VEgxcTk0LVJUazBRellONDctNk4wUDRzaWpQb2hySWp0M1Y4Unl5VGR3Vm9nWTRHS3Izb1J1MWZJVjk0SDBlWGxxS2VnZHdCbURvLUJCSVhfSlVvNndidHQyTHozRVR2WHlvWUw4b2I5TDllTHdBQ3FxQUkxcTVqZkJ5V1B2X2JHUUR4dlZuR1Q2UmFqdz09 | 933 |
This is the first time I ever come onto Reddit asking for advice, so bear with me if I don't make any sense. but essentially, I've been talking and friends with this boy for a little over a year and we've hit it off. I've found myself getting strong feelings for him, which would be the first time I ever have for anybody. He's been nothing but sweet to me and has always treated me with such respect that nowadays is rare. however, I'm in a situation. essentially, he's a BIG flirt. When I say flirt, I mean he calls me "princess", "adorable", "cute", basically any pet name you could name. and when he started this after only about 2 months of knowing each other, I initially thought he liked me. So in turn I confessed my feelings for him a few months back, but he says he doesn't love me. which I could understand since we had barely known each other. well, he hasn't stopped and it's only gotten worse. he says things like "Let's cuddle" or "I'll carry you like a princess". Which makes me fall only harder for him and wish he loved me. I wish I could know what goes on in his mind and why he says all these things despite denying that he loves me. I asked him when I had confessed why he was such a flirt and if he was scared of relationships. he explained to me that he had been in a 4-year relationship and was left heartbroken after being cheated on, and I understand that. But, this was a while ago and I want to know why he continues being a flirt and acting so romantic toward me as if I was his girlfriend. And if there's even a flicker of hope that he could love me back. I want him to love me, but with what he's told me it always makes me doubt it. Yet his flirts never stop and they're every day. So, help, please! | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYN2hDYzVTYW1FTGNSLWJCVGZWOTZHSUcySGpaSG5fY0lvNXM4UEFMdGJaYk1adTFDWmNuSnJtS0JaTW1VWWVvbnNFam1DdTNwUE4xallpdmVIS05sbVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhMjZWVWhyNGZJSTBFT3gtODNQNlhIS1FteVY0UUNnTWx4RGdMajFCdXA1V2VmaW5BdGlQSC1zR0huWWcxY3oxSUp1c2NLNUxxVDNvcEdWR0lfcU1zbnZaY2hDdW5ITGJTZ1dhaXdGaW55dWcyMGFaTTF6QktaR3Z4bVBPM3lYOURUbzJqZk5KT3lJdnREMUIyVUFGMnNXM1Z2RGZWWml1dWhtRHZKaklHaWVMbTJtZUZVbEJ0UlFHajgxaHg3Skht | 934 |
I'm currently 19 yo Male and in my second year of college. Quite honestly no one except me knows this not even my parents, but since Reddit is anonymous I don't mind saying it here. I've taken a gap semester this past semester and plan to enroll back into my classes starting In Spring. The reason for me to take a gap semester was so that I could figure some things out for myself and try and understand what I wanted to do. the semester ends in the next 6-8 weeks and I still haven't figured anything out. I'm not happy with my major even though there is very solid money in the field. I just don't find it as enjoyable as I thought it would be. My major is Computer Science and I know that If I do well in the field there is quite a bit of money for me here, but I want more than that.
I want to live my life to the fullest, while still being able to enjoy my wants with great financial stability. Not only this, but my friends are all horrible influences on me and everyone is super fake. I only have about 2-to 3 real friends who would have my back over anything and vice versa. I genuinely want to make a real change in my life so I can start living rather than just existing. I've been partying more often than I should be, but I have cut down a lot in the past month. I just feel so lost and don't know how to flip my life around. I just deleted all my social media and I am just going to be on my own for a while and try and continue to figure things out. I have been so fucking stressed over this because I simply just don't know what I'm doing and I've felt like this for the past few years. If anyone has gone through the same struggle and came out of it do you have any advice on how to get out of this slump? Also, if anyone reading this is going through a similar struggle then I hope you can find a way out of it as well. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYbjRKXzhGM3JVY2lrN25aejVxZWQ0NE1TdlFXQXdMckVFTmUzcEtKMjZaWXl5b3o4eFduQzZfNzhTd0pZSnU2b21Pd0YxeFQzY3h4enRCcGFWMHBWOEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhTFJtTU9JeHdlVXNVcEc5NEtNbkZIejB3NzNkQ2pqRWsyMWlwOXVoWU1qZWVOSlcyV0xnZWFPWXdjM0tMaGdSTUNGWmRqVnBnUm9fY2NaTmsyTUpOUlRqRlVkQ1lkODFFNkVtS3NHT2psWUZDckZXamlpcUpWZ3NrVzVTdDROelA1U25mbkFQaHhPWlFSazBBZEk3V081R0ZRaFFob21IVDVLZEhxX1BQOURWZzRORDJSX1ZjaldzWlZTQjZsOVVSVGR0TDl0aE9ZSUdlUmhZX2QzS3RIdz09 | 935 |
This year is my senior year of high school. Everything was perfect until about a month ago where I get a call from my friend which resulted in her staying with us. This was only meant to be a week but, she is still here a month later.
What is even worse is that ever since she started living with me, my friends have been super distant. Out of the group of 13 friends, I was the only one not invited to a halloween party because they were at 'max capacity'. Everyone was talking about it all week coming up to halloween and right in front of me. When I said I wasn't invited, everyone said it was a mistake and to check with the host but they said 'sorry, max capacity. you'll be at the top of the list next time!'. I was really confused because I heard that other people will be bringing more people. But, I have been speculating that my friend staying at my house has been saying things about my family behind my back. My friends have never acted this way and I am not acting any different. They just don't really care what I have to say anymore.
My friend at my house has blatantly said comment that are outright not okay and has been disrespectful to my parents and me. It would totally not be out of bounds for her either to go spoiling all my house life problems to everyone around her, even though I said that I would keep her secrets. I know she is in a bad situation right now so I have given her grace but, there are some things I can't let go.
I don't really know what to do. This is my senior year and the people I was going to go on vacation with are now people I can't trust at all. I feel like they are all judging me for every word I say, trying to find any way to exclude me and I hate it. They are friendly to my face but idk if they are being fake or not (I'm not very good at social ques)
Does anyone have any advise for me to make them jealous? I want to build a social media platform so they want to be friends with me, I just need to get better content! | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYYVdZT29sdHFTOXBIN2Q0Q2djOXlVR1RzRDl1LXYyWUtocXpNTlc5Y0RkOWZubHpuVzlQaHFob1g1LVJOck1KOF9zVlVialR6dHZRdjFwVm5YUWJOckE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhYzlsNzYtbnREQi12ZXJaYWowYnZZbU1SVmk2VVh4MnQ1cFNjdXRYVDZlenhCOU5vM00xSTVTUDRNazQyYnV0MTQxYUMtWkU0XzlpY2pJbzVwTHJ6c1VpWmZnZld4VHRkdURmVThybXVuZjhDUGhuWmE2cUlVS1hqTUVqblp5UWFwd182RUU5Y09VTU55eGQ0YU8tTkcxSlAzNWRRcEUyUjZzdy1rMDJBZTY0PQ== | 936 |
I (F24) am feeling incredibly left out and jealous by two friends of mine hanging out without me. I am a part of a volunteer group and I grew very close to another girl (let’s call her friend 1) in the group. I felt as though we had so much in common, had a lot of fun together, and had a deep connection. For personal reasons, she had to volunteer a on a different night so I didn’t see her as often.
Another girl (let’s call her friend 2) joined the group and I started a friendship with her, but I felt as though she primarily would talk about herself when we hung out and wasn’t interested in asking about me or getting to know me. Ultimately I felt as though I was investing more and I was just a sounding board to her.
Anyways, these two girls, friend 1 and friend 2, have become friends and have been hanging out constantly and posting each other on instagram and I can’t help but feel excluded, hurt and jealous. I’ve been invited a couple times but am mostly left out, and friend 1 has been ignoring my texts (I don’t reach out to her often, because I feel rejected from when I’ve been ignored), and I know she is bad at responding, but given the situation and I know she is always texting friend 2, it hurts even more now. I guess I don’t understand why she would rather be around friend 2 over me, and why friend 2 is a wonderful friend to her, but isn’t to me. I’ve had to mute them on instagram because it is making me feel sick to my stomach. I’m trying to focus on my other relationships, but this is hurting me today. I am mostly hurt by friend 1, she still comments nice things on my instagram and says hi to me and is super sweet, but I suppose we didn’t have the connection I thought she did and she has found in friend 2.
Any advice on how to proceed would be much appreciated especially since I don’t plan on leaving my volunteer group, so avoiding them or not seeing them isn’t really an option.
Thank you | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYNG1JaW8xQmFnY3JyY0tVS3h2d3RfZV85MWxfTFVlYktIdGc3aGpxQV94XzgyQVlLZk1yVzVvVU9kelZKekh5WXlGVjVuRk5ILXE0d2hIRW84eDFGZThDaUg2eEcxZENrTXR4anZCN3JwYVE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhYzdhbFhiZ2haUUNjeGFvalVkNlZmY3VfRWFVWF92TVBCS1hTbUoxdVZEaklPV29Hc3VPWUwzTmUwYVl4LWpYdENyZnhfNE1nLW9rOWVUTU9KN3dlS3R3azV2UEllXzZWVEF5Y05hWk53NUlNdWpTdGpGT3hjeEROaVBVX0pBVFZwNmdHcFdiLVFxanpEXzFlYmt1dlhJV1gzNERMNU5zVFZVWENhZ1JDeDJzPQ== | 937 |
Before I start I just wanted to say that my issue doesn’t sound as important as a ton of posts I have seen. However my own mind is once again eating me alive and I don’t know what to do.
I have been friends with this one girl (online) for over a year. Let’s call her N. N and I really hit it off because we shared the same common interests. N and I really hit it off we did a ton of things together such as FaceTime for hours on end, play video games, text everyday all day, and so much more. She was genuinely becoming a super important person in my life.
As of recently N and I are not as close as we used to be. One could say because we are busy but this time last year even when we were busy we still would find time for each other but now it’s like she doesn’t even exist to me. The only time we ever text is if she replies to my instagram notes or if she sends me a video. We used to text all the time every day multiple times a day now we text once a week if even that.
A few months ago, before we stopped talking as much as we did I started to develop a crush on the girl. She never knew and I honestly doubt she does because I never told her. However I knew she didn’t like me back because she had a crush on someone else. The person she had a crush on let’s call her J.
J is honestly a horrible person to sum things up and doesn’t care about N at all. 3 days before christmas J blocked N and N didn’t get over it until early last month. I was the only one there for N through all of it and it was honestly hell watching someone I liked go half crazy over someone who wouldn’t get payed to treat her decently.
N’s mental health was through the roof, and it was all because she got blocked which brings me to my predicament. N has obviously found someone else because of one of her playlists on Spotify. She never ever texts me and recently she texted me just to tell me she found someone. Im actually trying so hard not to just end it all because I could have confessed maybe?? I mean it’s not like she would have liked me back I don’t even think I’m her “type” or whatever.
I want to block N so that I can move on but I’m scared her mental health is going to go down the gutter. But then again mine is lower as ever because of my own feelings with her so does it even matter? Would I be a bad person to block her or should I just do it. I shouldn’t let someone make me feel this way on MY CELLULAR DEVICE anyway, good day. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYY0dkTDdRMzlMNW4td3g5ZmNfNmlDU3BXU1Z3ZmxRODkyOFJjTEVaaU5IbXVxaW43Zy1UcVBPaDMzeUNpM191TldKOXNMT2RxejdEbnkzelIxekFscGhhZG1FbEZjTGlFREtzTm8yRi1KZWs9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhNU82VUdPZkF4QnRIak4xQjR0NjZUUDB5Z0EyNGRVb0RjMWU2Z1lPdDhCRFVlcGxzdy1VSl9FdzFVOUNZZWtYcVhpSzVhbHZRcEFTUVVERGVRQ0lTUjVRclFyWlU1bFhVVzFLLVNfaUhocmZlMWs1NmVfTFBKMTFxRVRYdWJGYW9ZOU1NbnNMVERkVHpDUkZUTVdlalN3PT0= | 938 |
My, 25F, sister and her best friend, both 22F, have been friends for nearly 10 years. At first she was like a little sister but along the way her and I have become really close. There were times my sister was not always around and she had always been sort of a needy friend, but because I loved her so much I would be there for her during the times where my sister hasn't.
We all became extremely close and at times her and I have been even closer than her and my sister. But during the last few years I have started feeling like there is a distance between us. I feel like I fall second best to my sister.
I started dating a guy 3 years ago who lived an hour away from all of us. When we got more serious I would stay with him for multiple days to a week at a time. Because I know how emotional she can be, I would intentionally make sure I spent time with her any time I came into town. I would come over and cook for her, I would plan drinking nights, get togethers, etc
But I got wind that she vented to another friend of ours that she felt like we (me and my sister) never initiated any of our hang outs.
She began asking me if my sister was going to things that I invited her to, and if she wasn't she wouldn't go. This has happened so many times I stopped inviting her to things.
There was once where we all had plans to go to EDC (music festival) and me and her were talking about how excited we were to go. My sister told her in that moment that she didn't think she was gonna go. She paused and thought and turned to me and told me she wouldn't be going anymore. I called her out on it that it was BS and she said it was only because she wanted to hang out with ALL of us so it wouldn't be the same.(she wouldn't have done this if it was ME who canceled though)
We threw a party for her boyfriend where I did the decorating, bought all the food, COOKED the food, planned the entire thing and she vented to him that she felt like she did all the work (she ONLY paid for the decorations)
Ever since her boyfriend has left for the military(he was part of our friend group) she never comes around. And when she does it's with him, and it's obvious she's ready to leave the whole time. She complains if she's bored but then NEVER contributes to plans or suggestions.
All of this combined has made me become really distant with her.
The most recent event, she read my answers in a self help/ self esteem book and got upset at some of my answers about the people in my life because they didn't include her, so told her it was because the people I did talk about were closer. and then blamed it on ME that we didn't talk.
This was so selfish to me that I really just feel like ending the friendship. The problem is, my sister recently had a baby and so she comes over a lot, our families have become intertwined because they don't have anyone else except her and her mom. We spend holidays and all birthdays together. Her mom and I have talked about planning a trip to South Korea in the next few years. And she and my sister and each others only true friends, plus she is very needy and emotional and despite all the things I said I feel as though it would devastate her. I know that I should communicate with her how I feel, but I just don't see the point in begging anyone to like me more or want to be my friend. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYUC1ZbExUbk5xVEFFUHhLSHNaLXN1RjBTbWcyTE01Z3VidUdtdXJFdi03X09BWnR4N2IyR0lKUDJUQ0NsdlRjRmNvdU9DVkMyWmZiSjlZYnFWV0d1OWtDaXRoSXQ1bEVBX2d6czI5WmdfZDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhclhjdGtiTnR0UTdRaE0wZU9qNXlMcUpDUlY4OGZYNjZxaHViVXl1M0lUOGFUX1R3WWlMd2djaWpydUlCZU03TWhyalhxbU9vQlJWdVJXSmZ4X2JqdWdKdWg0T3NoX3RoZDhFUWU0aExGcmlGdmw4THFieXJoZ3NZbTd1a0VVeGsxRVBQeEc1VTdaSktOV0lGNUhpX2JDMlFJd0I3QzFtUEN4TjJ0ZXc3VHJadGcwUVliRjVJMjRTZjdQaG9FM2t2 | 939 |
Rather long story but bare with me. I (M) met this girl at work, and the first time I saw her she was new so I introduced myself and tried talking to her. At first she seemed awkward and made the conversation weird and I stopped talking to her.
A few months go by, I noticed little hints of interest but honestly I wasn't very attracted to her and never talked to her. One day out of bordem I crack a joke to her as we're in the elevator and she extends the conversation but I don't take much of it. Then there was some course we had to take for work and we were the only 2 that hadn't completed it. She then tries to make conversation with me about it, we have small conversations.
Then one day we're having a pizza party, im sitting at a table by myself and she moves over to sit next to me to talk. We talk a bit and we leave work but we both take the train. At first we talked on the way to the train but go our separate ways because our trains go different directions. But the next time she comes to my side of the tracks to talk with ne until my train comes. This continued for about 2 months, we'd leave work and talk on the way to the train and she'd come to my side of the tracks to talk. She even made a lunch for me and told me she wasn't even coming to work that day but wanted to give me the food. During this time I began to develop feelings for her because I liked her personality and she was so sweet. Then she got a schedule change and I almost never saw her. But whenever I did see her her interest level seemed extremely high.
I put a note with my phone number in her work box, she calls but on a work phone(private number). I found this out because one day as im walking home she's drives by me and gets out of her car to talk to me, she even says she kept the note. I ask for her number and ask her out to a date, she says yes, but she says she's busy until a specific date. I saw her at work a few days later, I probably made a mistake not sitting next to her but I did say hi to her and she started asking me about my day. So, and maybe i did wrong here, I waited until that specific date to follow up with her, it was a week later. I call she misses the call but I send a text apologizing for the late follow up and say because I assumed she'd be busy until then and ask her if we're still on... no response. She calls me while im working, but I miss it, I call her back a few hours later when im off, call gets declined.
Next time I see her in person I try to sit by her this time, she moves away, and when I tried to talking to her she seemed very distant and uninterested. But the next time I see her in person she comes up to me to say "hi" but based on the previous occurances I think she's just not interested so I just flatly say hi back and walk away. She seemed hurt by this, as I hear her tell someone I hurt her feelings. I feel bad about it and think about giving her another chance. Time goes by, I see her again in person and again her eyes light up she smiles and excitedly tells me about her day. We text a bit about work after. The text conversations are good she replies quick and enthusiastically, emojis, jokes, the lot.
Things get a bit more personal she sends me a tiktok, but it was very late and I don't respond until the next day. We text again on Thanksgiving (Canadian) again very good conversation but she leaves me hanging. I win an award and sent it to her, no response for almost a week, but her response was sweet, but damn, 4 days?? Im ngl i was pretty annoyed and text her back the day after, thanking her but jokingly mentioning how long it took her to respond. No response or explanation. Then I saw her in person and again her eyes widen, she smiles and stops when I say hi, I was in a rush and told her I had to go. Just a few days ago I text her wishing her a happy holiday, she responds a few hours later, again no dry text, emojis, everything. I respond a few hours later, I was legitimately busy, and she doesn't respond to that text for twice as long. I then asked her her plans and bam, no response for days now. Is there more to it or is just not interested anymore? This battle in my head has been having my mind spinning for the past 3 days now lol. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYbTNoZXl1TFVFaTk1WGtBSDBZTmRsbGVsS05rODhLYzVuU0FRTF9XWWdKaEJfaUlKRlZJQmFsTTJBV0hoRnRfbTBmTENncXNCSWpUSThRaEV4cWVuRzFUWlp1bnJZSkdKSjBTV3NyMHBwWDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhUmFrclZCcGFlOU1ZeFhxeHRZblhRUUZOZ3lJLXE2MGlUbHhvRnMtZkx6SEdoOGNPTFg0UHZFaldlUkl4bXBXUHA1eC1MQUpWbEJKakVGVDV1NVVJVERVSWYzUGFrcUU2bFYzWTdoTDhmczZGRXNrX0ZBdGVnRTY5eW92ZFJWclQ0ZWFCSl9tQVNiN09FLWh0QTFrX1JaQW5hMHpLdjN6Q0FjUUtIMlY3cENkOVJkQTFhLUZxUThXSnRlTVFxbzFD | 940 |
*Long backstory hence involves bit of trauma dump*
My (17F) brother has always been a narsacist. He used to be my idol when i was very young, however as we started to fall apart during his teenage years(i would be 7 or 8 maybe) i started seeing how he would emotionally manipulate me whenever he needed something. I was an attention deprived younger sibling, because of many reasons, and one of my parents was quite abusive, so the manipulation used to work. He was the most loved one, and i would never hear the end of it. I was born to my parents a bit late in their age, so i would hear how other family members used to shower love at him, but couldnt for me, because they are too old or too busy now.
Anyways, my brother molested me when i was 8 or something. He was forcing me to sit on his lap between his legs, and him being powerful got me to do it as well, but the second i sat down, i felt something poking me(his penis), so i immediately felt something was wrong and protested. He wouldnt let me go, but i kept protesting. He said, "you wont sit on your big brothers lap?", and sounded so innocent(it was to emotionally manipulate me), but i firmly refused. When he finally let go, i saw lust in his eyes. I dont remember what happened next. I didnt tell my mom, cause though protecting myself was my first reaction, i didnt process what happened until i was 13.
I had forgotten about this until after many years, when one of my parents had passed away, and i told it to a relative who was my support system at that time. We discussed this for days, and basically her response consisted of showing me concern, letting me know that she judged his character and hence didnt send her daughter to our house, and further telling me, 'Right now it just happened inside the house, tomorrow if he does that to another women, that would be a problem', and 'if he tries something, trust god, but dont run outside, otherwise he will make a scene, and the family's name will be in dirt'. Ouch? So i am not important enough? My repect doesnt matter much? He did a few more things like kiss me on my lips VERY intimately while i was asleep, and undress himself completely while i was in the room. Both of these when he would be 21 or 22, me being 13 or 14. When i was 7 to 12 yrs old he did other inappropriate stuff which made me very uncomfortable when i was younger like passing comments on me, whistling at me, and some more physical things.
I expected the relative to tell my father, but she used to go quiet everytime i mentioned that man and 'ill behaviour'in one sentence generally in front of dad, and would call me later to tell me, 'think about your father, how will he feel'. The whole family used to push me towards that man to make amends as if it was my fault, and if i would lash out, they would laugh at me.
A few years later i found out that my father did infact not know, and i told him. I thought he understood my feelings because he looked like he did. But a few days later he told me, 'i have told him why you are upset with him'. I played it off cool, but i felt a bit hurt , cause he could atleast have asked.
Then he still persisted in getting me and him to be a fucking 'family' again, but not once FUCKING ASKED him to apologise. I made it very clear that i didnt expect him to cut off ties with that man, cause i understand that he is his son, but he needs to understand that he cant push me towards him like that. He appeared to have understood, but a month later he has started to push me again, his words being, 'he is family', 'after me, he is your only support, ik u feel this way about him right now but you will understand in later years', and that 'he is your brother'. Like no fucking thankyou. They even guilt trip me even though i have made it clear that being in the same room as him makes me feel disgusted and angry. But the fact is, this family, and my father will always love him more, they have proven it on multiple occasions. And honestly it does hurt. Cause you are my fucking father, you should be angry at that man, you should hate him, be disgusted. But you dont.
Everytime that man visits our home, ehich is almost every weekend and holiday, things go horribly for me, cause he takes priority. I am left alone as usual. Like literally alone. And if i voice my feelings, i am 'overreacting'. This is a loop now. And after 'voicing my feelings' turns out fruitless, i wish to be left alone calm myself down, but then they are all over me trying to talk, and how "i am overrreacting". Why cant i fucking hate my family for this.
I really don't understand what to do, or how to handle these people anymore. Everything is fine until that man comes home. From a third person persepctive, what should i do? | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYVE5vZ1o4TUVDSFZfLWtLejlWaUpZZEFCZlRSUWFUZ3dzTWpTN2xDZDRnbVFFVUJvc2JOM1ExUkZZbDl2Qi1fOWR0YXV3ZWlXczdGN3VLSExZUmdCNWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhY2hTU3NSRENxRGxfcnJ4dW5FdXBpa1NUTEVqQ2RIbU05UGhhdTNHUkNDWi1raHRnVlNCZjg0aHRnMEdacElIY1dHeV9tbVhQRVo3Tk5zWWNwbmpEZ3ZiVUVCVXZkdFdXM0xyaHI0S3R0NmhyUzMxbFU3MXRQUldicnJVMGtLSkliWGhMVmNMOXdqMnR0bF9hZG1WVkZ2RjB2bGs1MURfeGtpak1DMUxZTDNINEpnX1ZUajhvbG1zZWVYN295LURLRHlPbk9TTHY3STNTOEhRWVFhRmtkdz09 | 941 |
My girlfriend (32f) and i (33m) have been together for 6 years now. She was in a very bad abusive relationship before meeting me.
We have had a decent relationship for a few years. We started out great. Actually, the first 2 years were amazing. And then something happened during the 3rd year (i really am not sure what) we both have depression and anxiety. Hers comes and goes. Mine has been pretty constant since I was 18 (i forget the medical term atm) but meds and therapy havent helped. It's just something I try to deal with.
We both seem to have short fuses. Hers is extremely short. She gets mad and her tone gets aggressive. (Over the years found this out) I actually had broken up with her once before (around the 3rd year) partially because of the anger/rage her tone gets along with other issues. I just ended up hating my life and hated being around that. We ended up getting back together and things were better for about 3 months, and we slipped back into this pattern that we had again. This happened one more time.
She has never actually hit me, but if I say something sarcastic or something that she doesn't like, she has slapped my arm, or back. A few times (like 3) it's actually hurt/stung and I would tell her, but she would just tell me she didn't slap me hard. If I would say "umm yeah you did, and show her a mark of whatever" she would get irritated with me. It's also EXTREMELY hard to talk to her. It's weird. For quite some time, I can't hold a conversation with her. Like i feel mute when I'm with her. She can talk and talk, but i usually reply with "ok, mmhmm, hmm, oh, yes or no" and I'm not even kidding. But when we go out anywhere I can talk to anyone normally. Even if we hang out with friends and she's there, I can hold a conversation but not behind closed doors. I don't understand it. She's asked me before why I'm like that and the only thing I said was "because I'm depressed and if I act like that out in public people will ask me why. And then I'll have to explain to everyone. You already know I'm depressed. So i don't have to explain it. Sometimes I feel like i have a 2nd life. She hardly knows my hobbies I currently do, and what i like/don't like. Hell, she didn't even know i was creating a card game. (Probably my fault because I feel like i shut her down, or put walls up, but idk why) I've asked her to play games/get into hobbies I like but she refuses. But yet, we watch whatever movies she likes. She doesn't really have any hobbies, but it's like if she doesn't want to do it, then she doesn't have to.
Fast forward a bit. We ended up having a baby. He's almost 2 and he is the best thing that has ever happened in my life (had to throw this in!)
Anyway, tonight, she was making dinner. And I have a sauce that i make to go with the dinner. (I made it last night, and it needed warmed up again) anyway, I asked her if she could warm it up. (I assumed she would know it needed a little water because it was dried up, but not in a "it's dried up because it's bad) anyway, i was in the restroom and she starts screaming my name. I guess the sauce caught fire?
When I came out of the restroom, she said the sauce dried up and caught fire.
This is what was said below
Her: the sauce caught fire
Me: ohh. Umm didn't you add water? (Both of our tones were normal)
Her: (irritated tone) you didn't tell me to add water!!
Me: (sarcastic tone) umm I thought that was common sense to add water since it's dried
Her: (kinda pissed off) you act like i make this shit all the time! (She's the one who does most of the cooking because I'm not nearly as good at she is at cooking)
So she just stared at me, she had a strange look in her eyes. I just, I don't know. It was odd. Like she wanted to scream at the top of her lungs, and also cry maybe?
She kept looking at me just staring and I said "what?" She kept staring so I said it 2 more times. And then she replies with "I'll hurt you!" Now, she's said this before. But when we joke around or are happy. She's never been upset or mad and said it.
It kind of pissed me off and I snipped back saying "NO. You will not"
I was going to make the sauce again. But decided not to. She said "you're not making it now or what?" I told her no and she threw the small pan I had, in the sink. Luckily there wasn't any plates because it would have shattered them. It wasn't like full force, but enough to break a plate.
I know this post probably sound extremely dumb. I feel like it might not be? My depression has been so bad the past few weeks which doesn't help anything. I don't know if this was just something she said, or if it could escalate?
Also, for anyone who is wondering why we don't break up. We have joint bank accounts, a loan in both of our names, a current lease on a house, and my name wasn't on the birth certificate (nurse messed that up) and i fear she would try to get custody of him and i don't want to lose my baby. | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYOXpUTHhVazFmUVE1eUFqd3JFbGlCd0xBNk1IX0RiTmhpMHhqOWxPLUNNXzVGT2dISXBkV2c4Q1Z6aE1YX25JWTYzclRmcGxaRUUyN1BzV2xMSzBDaFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhZHR0NVBJM3pNRXBYdlhDX3dJdG9hZkI1MW8wRFNXb2RTcV9weU1qNVE1X2U5bzVxMnZlbmhjM2R4ZTdFU1lNQUZocE1XSWlhekpHOV9vdHVXdDk1Q1VWUm1TZFVGbjJ1UmlRV3hrRjZQSEV4RXppZ1ZLLVZlMGVzamxUZ0VocmZKQTl0X2luZTFYLTQtdjZNOVVFY2FhcW5pR3FQbWFKa09vQ0hBVUwxdHBNZ1hMTGFGSXpHSXZ4RmFaaFZqbXl6 | 942 |
I (19) am struggling to get through to my mom that she is either in danger or is a danger to herself.
**CONTEXT**
My mom has gone through a lot of bad events in her life (SA, abusive relationships, manipulation, financial scam, etc.). Her and her husband, my dad, are finally getting a divorce after much of my youth watching them be incompatible. My dad for example has anger issues, he's atheist, a party guy and is also neurodivergent. My mom is Christian, socially isolated, doesn't drink and takes things extremely literally. They're both equally hard-headed however. Their brains work so differently though that they've always ended up taking it out on each other. Due to their dynamic she has often villanized him, sometimes fairly for his behaviour, but other times it clouds her judgement on what is conceivable.
Over the last few years my mom has isolated herself and currently maintains no friendships in person. She hasn't really had a friend in the time I've been aware of such things. She spends most of her time indoors watching youtube (often channels like fox news, or videos that discuss the dangers of tech) or in the Summer, outside in her garden/taking walks alone. She has claimed over the last 5 years that her devices have been hacked several times, which may be true, although I've never actually seen it. She often gets upset at features that technology just sort of operates on these days (location tracking, region locking, etc.) and assumes they're always somebody blocking us from using devices.
Due to her always being alone, she tends to spend a lot of time at her window and watching the street, which leads her to pick up on our neighbors' habits. Because they always happen to be outside when she is, she has started theorizing these people are watching her. She has had a real personal vendetta against our tenants, who I do think are doing illegal renovations in the space, but she has come to believe that because the tenant always dyes her hair and never puts her real name on packages that she is a spy for the CIA, paid by my dad to watch her internet use.
I've stopped combating her behaviours as it used to lead to yelling at my brother and I for sabotaging her behind her back. She'd barge in to the room with all these things we had apparently done. She has since stopped this and has somewhat begin to listen, but also has opted to stop telling us about her concerns because she senses we don't entirely believe her. This makes the house tense.
**The "stalker"**
My mom is not super socially aware to be frank. She often mistakes people's ill-intentions for deeply misunderstood individuals and multiple of her partners have been manipulative or abusive. An example of this is the "stalker" she has claimed to have as of recently. I don't know if he exists, but she says "I think I've met him before several times, but he's too shy to come up to me". She says he follows her down the street, and looks into her window when he thinks she isn't looking. She says he drives by all the time and they lock eyes, but she has also said she doesn't know what he looks like "exactly". She would like him to approach her though, she says that the "last time they met years ago he was very attractive". She is always alone when this happens.
I've told her many times that if she is being stalked by a man, that is dangerous. She says he must just be insecure. I note again that she does not really interact with anyone, and does not go anywhere other than around the neighborhood and to the grocery essentially. I don't know where she would have met this man. She says she knows where he works but the business isn't operating anymore, and refuses to reach out to him although she apparently knows all of these details about him.
**My thoughts...**
Her elderly mother constantly suffers from delusions due to old age. Bad delusions. Last time I was there my grandma got stuck on the stairs because she believed she had to go outside with these men in a large van otherwise they'd come for her family. Grandma tells the same story over and over within the span of one conversation. If it's not early onset dementia for my mom I'm suspecting psychosis, possibly due to stress, bipolar or schizoprenia. My mom has said increasingly often that "she is so tired of this, I'm so tired of fighting." I'm concerned about depression. I suffer from BPD, CPTSD and depression myself, so this is not a stretch in terms of genetics. She has also said she was briefly on anti-depressants in the past and was "disappointed" when they took her off them.
*Please help.* I've already tried contacting her family but they're in another country and some of them believe her because she tends to "mask" the stress. Our healthcare system is hot garbage so they'd dismiss her the same day they'd admit her if I called for a psychological evaluation, I know this for fact. She doesn't trust anyone so doctors are out of the picture. I live at home because I'm extremely unwell and can't move out. **TLDR, my mom thinks everyone is watching or hacking her but has a crush on her stalker.** | r/advice | post | r/Advice | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYRHh1eWFIdHJoWGlYY0xVZlUwYmMwdWliMEN4ajR6UVhVV2dqc3NGa0p6d28yZi1SdWtKRnNCWE05VnYzbVhpSDZZWVdXaDBzOTJnZFZQMDF1WEtUM01pSTg4MEt3TU9adFhvTnIyR19JRDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhRWx4dU1ZVUFSLWM1ZjZ2QWdvWmRaZUk4UTB1LXpEM0MyeEs1YTVoUmNCNzZMRDJsRmtDOGNQX3dwblVRUnZ3TGdHeHhMV0wtc3llVzFXUE5wMTZEeFY0V28tbnVuQ28yQ3pMSnYxekZBdWtZaHhBQmc1OU9aZm8tcEw3MFgxTWRSRG5TOXBhck9PQ0RTYV9HLUJJTjBIM3RFRkhzSExRT0JDeFpTSzQwMEhheUlDazMxZVY2RzVuS011QTdteDJK | 943 |
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A typical day of mine (M18) normally starts with waking up, texting a very dear friend of mine throughout the entire day, watching whatever I find on youtube and then wrapping it up by sleeping.
Sounds all good, but it's quite shit when I'm not talking to that one person. After they go to sleep I just find myself in bed rediscovering that I'm a real human with a brain.
From there I get completely lost. I might walk around my kitchen, play timeguessr or geogrid (brilliant games), or simply drain the venom from the snake.
But that's all. It's nothing more than just enough.
I will lose this person one day. And then one day I'll graduate, unable to use studying to give myself a sense of purpose.
I genuinely can't imagine how others keep meaning in their lives. I do enjoy photography, learning about countries, exercising and pretending to be Saul Goodman in the shower but really I've not got much else. Don't really just want my free time to be watching dimitar berbatov highlights and walking around my kitchen table in the dark like a nascar circuit until I'm like 30 n shit.
Generally what I'm asking is how do I feel less like a content potato and more like a satisfied potato.
Thanks for reading.. nerd. | r/adviceforteens | post | r/AdviceForTeens | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYeC1BQjMxY0tQWDlJT3lYcmxmLXUwbkY1UGVtaTRsenluczJuTThlYVJBUHVkSW5oc2huM0ExeXlnMlhJTVlJQnhoeDJoQ0FESUw1N1JZUFF1UmFsY0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhaU9Nd0l5XzBMS3lZU2ktRndvanhtOVNSclZ2Y0lkLXVnSUxOMWZ0aXlNbjl3RWJhSUZQQkFWbmFNUzJfbGVtdkRXZ0ZLdFVJZGZjZWZyektVMVJZR3VoRnpsVmllSy04SktFVTZSbE9MRkc4YWwxVUhxQ2w1ZE1wT3hWZkg3Z1JJU3BmbmIxYWpNZU84ZTZWc1lRSEQ5alZUTUpyRG9jV1BfZnVGOXV2X0NZPQ== | 954 |
First job was in a bank as a field sales officer that sells cc. Never really liked it, desperado lang ma-hire since fresh grad last year. Left the bank 4mos ago without any back-up company na malilipatan.
The problem: Since then, I already received 4 rejections from different companies and feeling a little bit on the ground.
What I’ve tried so far: Still trying to apply pa din sa LinkedIn and Indeed and right now, I’m contemplating if I should pursue BPO na (bilang desperado) kahit na I don’t want to. Any thoughts?
What advice I need: Just wondering maybe you guys can suggest good companies that are hiring atm around metro or wfh or refer me to your company (BSBA Marketing Management grad btw)
This will be a great help for me & my fam! Thank you so much! :)) | r/adviceph | post | r/adviceph | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYd0FEM3p6ZlpQQkd2aFRWdmJ3VDZaNy1lSF9WTnBvdHZ1NHA0UURzYWJuT3kycW9BZTR6R0tmMmxybnoxVDF0M2FQSjE1S2U1ajdlT0FZNVEySjFsWFlDZ1ppd3M1WllmQjVsVGVaM0tRLXc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhdko5NVFsRGlhT05XcGJwamhTc1dIdWVCaHBzaDBjUTQ2S0RGVmU3b0pBUlBwUGdFTEZ3UmlOUFNES1hRQV9RWnQ0SGZ0THdSVkdzWEJ6Wjd1b25QOUZjYXBlNjRSQVlRNTJ3eDlXS1NRYTZYRXdzLXR6b3BON1JoYUNma3pPQ3Q0Yy00cXcyVmZNNEhpZDRvRUlRSXdtYWh4TS1YV1drdF9CanF2LUdObXpxczZUMGNQNkNacXp1VThCVXJ2cW1ETWhyeG1LNk9DQVZhbjEwTWtvalZyUT09 | 955 |
may katalking stage ako, 3 months na kami nag uusap and okay naman kami actually until now sa online kami nagkakilala and nagkita na rin kami tatlong beses
The problem: recently kasi nagkaka misunderstandings kami and nakikipag communicate ako and ayon parang nasstress siya kapag sinasabi ko tapos now parang may naiiba sa kilos niya parang nagiging distant siya at the same time naman hindi so iniisip ko normal lang and baka ako lang talaga nag ooverthink. Nagkatrust issues kasi ako sakaniya, may nagchat sakaniya na girl tinanong if serious kami or casual ang sabi casual lang daw of course masakit sakin yun. Hindi niya alam na alam ko yun. Hindi rin niya sinabi sakin na may nagchat sakaniya na girl. Tapos may mga times na nagsisinungaling siya sakin dahil ayaw niya ako magtampo sa laro niya or kakalaro niya sa pc pero okay lang naman sakin no need itago chill lang ako sa mga ganyan. Ngayon nga parang may di okay ako na nararamdaman parang nagiging distant siya pero nagcacall pa rin siya araw araw tapos antagal na niya magreply ngayon compared dati tapos kapag magkacall kami lagi siya may kausap or kachat ang hirap niya makausap or makadaldalan recently tapos ayon parang may pagka awkward na. Natry ko siya kausapin tinanong ko if Casual ba kami or serious ang sabi niya seryoso daw siya. Ngyon kasi parang di n sha ganon kadalas magchat or parang excited kausap ako, eh iniisip ko normal lang kasi baka nagiging comfy lang sakin.
What I've tried so far: is ayon nga nakikipagcommunicate ako tinanong ko if minsan ba nagllie sha kasi ayaw niya ako magtampo or magalit sakaniya sabi niya hindi daw
What advice I need: hindi ko na kasi alam gagawin ko ayoko na makipag communicate kasi parang nahihirapan lang siya or what di ko mabasa
parang ako lng din yung nag iisip. Kumbaga ayoko na magsalita nalang kasi parang wala naman din akong that karapatan iniisip ko imirror ko nalang sakaniya ginagawa niya | r/adviceph | post | r/adviceph | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYUEJtV18tQmoxbHI1SXcwTjBEOGRwLXVSV09Mb3FtT3E3UXQtMnpDMHRqQVRBb2pIRzE4cTBIUmpNajBRc0pvQUI2ejFBLWhkLWcxajh4c0lOMlZlU1dVSm5UbXAzLVJhbmQ5Wkp2QWJDRnc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhU0NLdnR3ek5FY2Z2V0ZYbG9xczhEaVF2dHhSNHBzMVBKbkUxb3AyMEhvai01VngwRmJTTlAzYXNDU3VITTRMdlpLYUctNkMzUzA4TVBaTnBWYlpPZmQ3TjNTbGl1VVp6NDNaVkZtTGFIXy1vdV9ta3hhRWJPSnoydTdtN3o5SGZSaXhhRmVTZ295eGZKR29iVmNObDQ2OGlIUXdLYVpjQ1RxcDdNM0JRa0ZNb0hQU0R4Vi01RUR4QnVrUDFuUE9M | 956 |
The problem: ipapabarangay ako ni mama para idiscuss of me moving out dahil ayaw niya ako paalisin kasi wala pa ako binibigay sa bahay and grabe pagka aggressive niya.
What i've tried so far: i explained that were still discussing it and I'm already 21 parehas kami may work.
What advice i needed: How to handle confrontation without crying haha kasi medyo masakit na ipapabarangay dahil i wanna move out of this toxic household.
Addition info: kwento ko nalang. I(21f) is planning to move out maybe next month or next year dahil want ko malapit ako sa work. Im the type of person na if im not satisfied sa work ko aalis ako. Recently i quit my last job dahil non stop sakit and malayo ang workplace.
Now may work na me sa Ortigas but the problem is sobrang layo ng lakaran and very mahingalin akong tao. And thats the main reason why mo-move out ako. My bf's mom is going to abroad soon and will sell the house and that means iiwan na bf ko and kapatid niya and need nila maghanap ng uupahan pero babayaran ng mama ni bf un dahil andyan kapatid niya. She knows I'm going to live with them and she's very welcome about it dahil nasa edad na din ako.
Si mama lang ang problem dahil she's a very toxic person(pero lahat ng tao dito sa bahay ay toxic except my tita bebe and tito) and she's the type na mahilig magdabog, magmura, sisi ng ibang tao, she keeps saying na mas demonyo ako kasi sumasagot na ako sa kanya and nagiging physical(self defense ginawa ko nung binugbog ako) and more. She doesn't have a job and never has a job so tambay siya ever since i was born and puro bisyo pero now nag stop sa bisyo un pero tambay parin and siya yung grabe makapag demand na magambag ako sa bahay pero siya wala.
Yung breadwinner nga namin sa bahay ok na ok sakanya na magmove out ako pero yung mismong tambay hindi. The reason why wala ako ambag sa bills(kuryente and tubig pero nagbabayad ako sa wifi and ulam sometimes) ay dahil it's not my obligation ik it sounds wrong pero my tita let's me not pay the bills and i can give if i wanted to. And besides binabayaran ko utang ko sa lola ko.
Normal ba talaga yung ganyan na ipapabarangay ako? I mean i can handle confrontation dahil sa call center ako nagwowork and Normal yan para sakin pero i can't help but feel hurt dahil mismong mother ko ang nagpapabarangay sakin dahil i wanna grow.. sorry if magulo ako magkwento right now ang dami pumapasok sa isip ko.
EDIT: i forgot to mention, shempre bf and i will pay the bills and i offer to pay half of the rent para hindi mabigat sa bulsa yung mama ni bf. | r/adviceph | post | r/adviceph | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYbzBPQjI2Wk5sSmZqdVJTR1lTTHdndnV3SF9SVktvTzVvVGZCRE9yTkpDaGstMWp4Q3U1QjZOXy1GWVdoWlNDeUF2M25weG43UUlDc0ZGOFItdXdjRUlfNG1IazY2ZFN1OWFOdFAzbGMwUkk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhY2o1SERqVzFzNjl1dzlscmVHYUdnQXI5RnU0Y0RMRlFuUm5CaFowU2E4SFdoVkpzd3ZKYnlFR20yd2FiMFJmcE1JVjA3TzY3LTBJeUdva3FtZjhUcHFuLXd6SFJYc1V0TGg3V1NtYWYtMDJhTEdmQkdhczc3RHBPeTNGM3A1YlJLZnFrOGdpSnJ4azVHTk9Pek5ZcDF0MUU0ZGZMZy1QdjQ5Vk9EWTlXTWVKRklTWFZxdEs0bGtfZjRERkJWWC1sVlltSmthQ3o3YS16Z2tGejMweGlFUT09 | 957 |
Hello everyone di ko na papahabain pa.. background lang, tatay ko ay serial cheater. Nanay ko ay mapagpatawad na tanga sa pag-ibig pero ang reason ay kaming mga anak nya, family business namin pati ang image ng pamilya kaya sya nag-sstay padin.
Problem: May kasambahay kami na parang linta sa papa namin. Kung nasaan si papa, andun din sya. Isang gabi nakita ng kuya ko na pumunta sa likod ng bahay itong si kasambahay tapos yung pinsan naman namin nakita silang dalawa dun din sa likod e madilim doon. Anong agenda nilang dalawa doon? Wala naman ttrabahuhin ang kasambahay sa likod unless mag mekaniko sya o magsalansan sya ng mga sirang gamit sa bodega which is di naman nya trabaho. Yung asawa naman ng kuya ko, aksidente nya nabasa yung convo nila ni papa may malaswa syempre. May mga screenshots na ko pero di sya matibay na ebidensya.
What I've tried so far: Wala pa, planning pa ako to gather all evidences. Kung ako lang masusunod, kayang kaya ko kausapin ng harapan yung babae at yung papa ko kasi nagawa ko na noon ano pa kaya ngayon. Ang kaso, need ko na ng ebidensya para madala sa batas to pag ginusto ng mama ko. As of now, walang alam si mama. Pag nalaman man nya, nakahanda na yung ebidensya, sya na bahala magdecide. Tutal gusto naman ng tatay namin to ang magwatak watak kami. Masira na pamilya namin pero gusto ko makukulong sya or wag na syang babalik sa amin.
What advice I need:
1. Paano mag-install ng hidden camera? Anong affordable na brand kahit yung made in china lang na gumagana? Yung di umiilaw sa gabi kumbaga makikita sila kahit naka night mode pero di nila mahahalata na may camera. Pahingi po ako kahit lazada or tiktok, shopee link basta legit yung shop. Pm nyo nalang po pag di pwede dito sa thread. Hindi ito pang long term use since halata na naman namin katarantaduhan nila at alam namin saan sila nagkikita sa bahay hindi sila takot tbh. aware sila na may nakakapansin pero di sila tumitigil kakapal ng mga mukha.
2. Any apps po na pwede gamitin sa pang-ttrack ng location? kaya ko po iaccess phone ng tatay ko pag hiniram ko.. nahihiram ko din phone nung kasambahay namin kasi hindi naman sila techy pareho. Iniisip ko lang kung pwede ko i-on yung GPS nila pareho para ma-track ko. Tapos pag pumunta sila sa motel ipapa-pulis ko sila with consent ni mama. Sa kabilang banda, baka magbackfire naman sakin kung sakali?
Sorry kung ang desperada ko pero taena lang puro pagloloko nalang ginawa ng tatay ko. Never umunlad yung family business namin sa kagagawan nya. Panay bigay ng pera sa mga babae. Kung kelan umookay na ang negosyo, saka sya nagloloko. Apakahayup nya pati yung health ng mama ko naco-compromise dahil sa kanya.
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The problem: Lately, I don’t know pero feeling lost ako. 25, single. I work as a Digital Marketing in a gambling industry with monthly income ranges 35-40k and quarterly bonus na umaabot minsan sa six digits. 1 year na WFH no time in and time out, hindi rin mahigpit and hindi rin micromanaging yung manager ko, but lately, feeling nalolost ako, feeling ko walang growth dito. Sobrang sanay ko na lang sa work ko, yes comfort zone ko siya. No work friends at all as in pure work lang usapan namin, as in sobrang dalang magkita kaya after a year although marami akong nakukuhang money and yes naka pag save na rin kahit papano, pero it feels like I’m lonely and lost. May desire sa heart ko na mag seek ng new job na mag-eenjoy ako, may communication with other people may time to interact and yung kahit pagod ako masaya pa rin.
What advice I need: The reason why nag wfh ako before, kasi mahirap ang byahe and sobrang liit ng sahod ko from my previous company, kaya I’m grateful nung nakakuha ako ng wfh kahit papano kasi mas naging magaan and hindi siya pahirap, but after a year, unti-unti ko ng nararamdaman na parang ang lonely pala. I’m a very outgoing person, I like to interact with other people. Kaya nung nag wfh ako nagbago ang personality ko, feeling ko nasanay ako na nasa kwarto lang, nasanay akong mag-isa. Nasanay akong walang kausap kundi pure work lang, natuto akong i-entertain yung sarili ko, like while working nanonood ng series or showtime and such para hindi mabored and antukin. Nung una masaya siya na-eenjoy ko siya, pero now parang hindi na. Sa sobrang comfy ko sa work I spend so much my time in social media given na socmed yung work ko isa rin yun sa way of entertainment ko. Pero may desire talaga sa heart ko na mag look ng other job, I want to explore new industry, new company and maka gain ng new knowledge, but ang hirap gawin given na-mahirap makahanap ng work at the same time ang hirap umalis given na rin na okay ang salary and may bonuses pa, hindi naman lahat ng company may opportunity na ganito. Kaya I don’t know what to do.
What I’ve tried so far: Now, I’m starting my life sa apartment ko even though I’m wfh, nag try ako mag live alone para sa growth and freedom to explore things and to make myself a better person, to live independently na hindi umaasa at pa-baby sa parents. I’m the youngest child and sobrang lapit ko sa family ko for 25 years sila lang kasama ko and now lang ako nalayo sa kanila. Nung nasa bahay pa ako namin, gustong gusto ko umalis, pero now na nandito na ako sa apartment iniisip ko naman kakayanin ko ba ‘to? Yes, nasanay akong mag-isa pero sa kwarto ko yun ng bahay namin, nandoon pa parents and mga kapatid ko kahit papano. Now, literal na mag-isa na lang talaga sa apartment. Kapag sa bahay namin malungkot ako gusto ko umalis at mag explore, dito naman now sa apartment na-anxious ako, di ko alam if kakayanin ko ba…
Ang hirap pala maging adult :(( naiiyak ako while writing this habang naka upo sa lamesa ng landlady ko kasi wala pa akong upuan and gamit. | r/adviceph | post | r/adviceph | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYbExlb29EZVAyYmFZa3ZiaTZ0b2pzWHN6WjhvSUhucjlUYUVnSnJBQ3lYVDlwYU8tNXhwQ01pdkptd2tpS0ZLSHl6VENsajloem1fbHJuOGZZblRWVUE2QllITFdiM0NqaWhreEVLU1czWFE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhbHBGSTdpcGlybEYwZ0F1Y1VZY3dPTlJYSmFnTEJnMUtqTC1hRmw1QUFpNHZYR09pOHF4d3VPQkxoc05jcnpYUW03TXRWdG9qNXMyZzk5SFNYak1jUkEtOEl3ajVYWVpoaC0tQ0FFNlVIYU10S0pxdFhjLXNIS3N3bGV6emN2MExNeEtOS3RWcUZVVkk0VkJKb1ZiOUU1MkNsTDB4TkZkUmhHZ2RrUkp2U1pZaDR6VVMxUGJJbUdZZ2hObVRXVzBDSXM0a3VXLTltbzQ1WlhITlUtdTVKdz09 | 959 |
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Gooooday to you all, I am in need of a roleplay partner preferably one who is submissive or a switch. Just know that I am 18+ and looking to only role play with people and characters who are 18+.
I desire to start something one on one or perhaps make a group or join one, after all we are all here for one reason or another lets just make it simple, feel free to DM or message me In character or out of character; I will roleplay in both scenarios and even casual roleplay as long as we are both are happy then that's all that matters. Just don't be afraid to shoot me a message.
Please know that I prefer semi detailed to very detailed posts and lengths, so when coming in to message me know that I have expectations and desires to expand our writing.
I play mostly original characters, but I'm willing to bend on some characters already made in media just talk to me on what you like or want.
My favorite genre of roleplay are Fantasy, adventure, action, medieval, post apocalyptic, supernatural and cyberpunk.
Established worlds I'm willing to play:Fallout, elder scrolls, Harry potter, star wars, Cyberpunk 2077, jurassic park/world. Feel free to ask if I'm willing to do other settings.
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Ran with a more aggressive shade made of 1:1 Nuln Oil Gloss and Contrast Medium. Trying a more detailed style inspired by 80s/90s sci fi anime. | r/aeronauticaimperialis | post | r/AeronauticaImperialis | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYMHp2QlBpMHJuNzJrWWgxV292SFlRMFlKSDBXZ3VxSW1qMW8xakJzbUR6S25xX0hJS2ZwTkE4c3oxem00M1FORUx4ZjFySDBHVkUzNGdiTFV4U0VyY0FyNXFDU2hFSzJJRTZiWEZzR0tySHM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhZGt3ajdwdXBwX2VzTUFHWGgwQzF4Z3dVa3J0OHBodW1FNWhnVXpJRzhtMmxVN0ltcmltaUFMNzNlMDRpaS1CeG5sVTdCVlEtLXFrUUJNdUhBelRLQmc3a3ZnVllxb1Q3NHk3ZDQxaXpLZFZjc0xZSWVWV1lHZHI5bFIzTTBhUjJJdnlPeDVOemdtbG85OE9uWnlybTFkXy0ybTFRYzE4MEtuaXJQR0RBVkZBQjhwUzhHcC02MGxTQm5QR0x3QnFa | 965 |
Finally received the pre-order Pro Lower thru my LGS. Time for the next build! | r/aeroprecision | post | r/AeroPrecision | 2024-11-04 | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRYck10OFdCTU5HdlM0eTNBNjVSR19BdEFIMFJmVTVmanNHbGRHeC1VdTlSNVBPSDV5eXBuREtwYjRBdlVOcWVzYUQyLTNMSEt0R2Fib3NGZHViSkFtX0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5LRlRhYlF4Y19OVEEtUlFJdEE4UHdKUHdHZVNGRjhZYXV4dk1yeVAzV2dTbEtjdDVXdXllVXVPT0dxek52cjdmZWdxWm1Oc2wybjNNM3R6NFNhUUE0dnJWNDRGN3ZJenNONGE1czdkWlExYmlBUjdfcVFwaVExazl2SG5ocjZwRThUMThLQ2lpOW9yRTR2UTdoOHREblJsUkpkQk82NmpJRHg2R2NYZWJxbU1Rc2cwPQ== | 966 |
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