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strength not ordinarily their own. They have found wisdom |
beyond their usual capability. And they have increasingly |
found a peace of mind which can stand firm in the face of |
difficult circumstances. |
TWELVE AND TWELVE |
Back to Work |
It is possible for us to use the alleged dishonesty of other |
people as a plausible excuse for not meeting our own |
obligations. |
Once, some prejudiced friends exhorted me never to go back |
to Wall Street. They were sure that the rampant materialism |
and double-dealing down there would stunt my spiritual |
growth. Because this sounded so high-minded, I continued |
to stay away from the only business that I knew. |
When, finally, my household went broke, I realized I hadn't |
been able to face the prospect of going back to work. So I |
returned to Wall Street, and I have ever since been glad that I |
did. I needed to rediscover that there are many fine people in |
New York's financial district. Then, too, I needed the |
experience of staying sober in the very surroundings where |
alcohol had cut me down. |
A Wall Street business trip to Akron, Ohio, first brought me |
face to face with Dr. Bob. So the birth of A.A. hinged on my |
effort to meet my bread-and-butter responsibilities. |
GRAPEVINE, AUGUST 1961 |
The Way of Strength |
We need not apologize to anyone for depending upon the |
Creator. We have good reason to disbelieve those who think |
spirituality is the way of weakness. For us, it is the way of |
strength. |
The verdict of the ages is that men of faith seldom lack |
courage. They trust their God. So we never apologize for our |
belief in Him. Instead, we try to let Him demonstrate, through |
us, what He can do. |
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, P. 68 |
Our Problem Centers in the Mind |
We know that while the alcoholic keeps away from drink, he |
usually reacts much like other men. We are equally positive |
that once he takes any alcohol whatever into his system, |
something happens, in both the bodily and mental sense, |
which makes it virtually impossible for him to stop. The |
experience of any alcoholic will abundantly confirm this. |
These observations would be academic and pointless if our |
friend never took the first drink, thereby setting the terrible |
cycle in motion. Therefore, the main problem of the alcoholic |
centers in his mind, rather than in his body. |
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, PP. 22-23 |
Obstacles in Our Path |
We live in a world riddled with envy. To a greater or lesser |
degree, everybody is infected with it. From this defect we |
must surely get a warped yet definite satisfaction. Else why |
would we consume so much time wishing for what we have |
not, rather than working for it, or angrily looking for |
attributes we shall never have, instead of adjusting to the |
fact, and accepting it? |
Each of us would like to live at peace with himself and with |
his fellows. We would like to be assured that the grace of |
God can do for us what we cannot do for ourselves. |
We have seen that character defects based upon |
shortsighted or unworthy desires are the obstacles that |
block our path toward these objectives. We now clearly see |
that we have been making unreasonable demands upon |
ourselves, upon others, and upon God. |
TWELVE AND TWELVE |
Spot-Checking |
A spot-check inventory taken in the midst of |
disturbancescan be of very great help in quieting stormy |
emotions. Today's spot check finds its chief application to |
situations which arise in each day's march. The |
consideration of long-standing difficulties had better be |
postponed, when possible, to times deliberately set aside for |
that purpose. |
The quick inventory is aimed at our daily ups and downs, |
especially those where people or new events throw us off |
balance and tempt us to make mistakes. |
TWELVE AND TWELVE PP. 90-91 |
"Privileged People" |
I saw that I had been living too much alone, too much aloof |
from my fellows, and too deaf to that voice within. Instead of |
seeing myself as a simple agent bearing the message of |
experience, I had thought of myself as a founder of A.A. |
How much better it would have been had I felt gratitude |
rather than self-satisfaction -- gratitude that I had once |
suffered the pains of alcoholism, gratitude that a miracle of |
recovery had been worked upon me from above, gratitude for |
the privilege of serving my fellow alcoholics, and gratitude |
for those fraternal ties which bound me ever closer to them |
in a comradeship such as few societies of men have ever |
known. |
Truly did a clergyman say to me, "Your misfortune has |
become your good fortune. You A.A.'s are a privileged |
people." |
GRAPEVINE, JULY 1946 |
The Individual's Rights |
We believe there isn't a fellowship on earth which devotes |
more care to its individual members; surely there is none |
which more jealously guards the individual's right to think, |
talk, and act as he wishes. No A.A. can compel another to do |
anything; nobody can be punished or expelled. |
Our Twelve Steps to recovery are suggestions; the Twelve |
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