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ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, P. 77 |
To Survive Trials |
In our belief, any scheme of combating alcoholism which |
proposes wholly to shield the sick man from temptation is |
doomed to failure. If the alcoholic tries to shield himself he |
may succeed for a time, but he usually winds up with a |
bigger explosion than ever. We have tried these methods. |
These attempts to do the impossible have always failed. |
Release from alcohol, and not flight from it, is our answer. |
"Faith without works is dead." And how appallingly true for |
the alcoholic! For if an alcoholic fails to perfect and enlarge |
his spiritual life through work and self-sacrifice for others, he |
cannot survive the certain trials and low spots ahead. If he |
does not work, he will surely drink again, and if he drinks, he |
will surely die. Then faith will be dead indeed. |
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS |
Experimenters |
We agnostics liked A.A. all right, and were quick to say that it |
had done miracles. But we recoiled from meditation and |
prayer as obstinately as the scientist who refused to perform |
a certain experiment lest it prove his pet theory wrong. |
When we finally did experiment, and unexpected results |
followed, we felt different; in fact, we knew different; and so |
we were sold on meditation and prayer. And that, we have |
found, can happen to anybody who tries. It has been well |
said that "Almost theonly scoffers at prayer are those who |
never tried it enough." |
TWELVE AND TWELVE, P. 97 |
The A.A. Way in the Home* |
Though an alcoholic does not respond, there is no reason |
why you should neglect his family. You should continue to |
be friendly to them, explaining A.A.'s concept of alcoholism |
and its treatment. If they accept this and also apply our |
principles to their problems, there is a much better chance |
that the head of the family will recover. And even though he |
continues to drink, the family will find life more bearable. |
Unless a new member's family readily expresses a desire to |
live upon spiritual principles, we think he ought not to urge |
them. They will change in time. His better behavior will |
usually convince them far more than his words. |
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS |
* Today, the initiation of the A.A. way of life in the home is |
the central purpose of the Al-Anon Family Groups, of which |
there are (as of 1978) about 15,300 throughout the world. |
These are composed of wives, husbands, and relatives of |
alcoholics. In restoring families to the good life, Al-Anon's |
success has been enormous. |
The Beginning of Humility |
"There are few absolute inherent in the Twelve Steps. Most |
Steps are open to interpretation, based on the experience |
and outlook of the individual. |
"Consequently, the individual is free to start the Steps at |
whatever point he can, or will. God, as we understand Him, |
may be defined as a `Power greater...' or the Higher Power. |
For thousands of members, the A.A. group itself has been a |
`Higher Power' in the beginning. This acknowledgment is |
easy to make if a newcomer knows that most of the members |
are sober and he isn't. |
"His admission is the beginning of humility -- at least the |
newcomer is willing to disclaim that he himself is God. That's |
all the start he needs. If, following this achievement, he will |
relax and practice as many of the Steps as he can, he is sure |
to grow spiritually." |
Carrying the Message |
The wonderful energy the Twelfth Step releases, by which it |
carries our message to the next suffering alcoholic and |
finally translates the Twelve Steps into action upon all our |
affairs, is the payoff, the magnificent reality of A.A. |
Never talk down to an alcoholic from any moral or spiritual |
hilltop; simply lay out the kit of spiritual tools for his |
inspection. Show him how they worked with you. Offer him |
friendship and fellowship. |
The Spiritual Alibi |
Our first attempts at inventories are apt to prove very |
unrealistic. I used to be a champ at unrealistic self-appraisal. |
On certain occasions, I wanted to look only at the part of my |
life which seemed good. Then I would greatly exaggerate |
whatever virtues I supposed I had attained. Next I would |
congratulate myself on the grand job I was doing in A.A. |
Naturally this generated a terrible hankering for still more |
"accomplishments," and still more approval. I was falling |
straight back into the pattern of my drinking days. Here were |
the same old goals -- power, fame, and applause. Besides, I |
had the best alibi known -- the spiritual alibi. The fact that I |
really did have a spiritual objective made this utter nonsense |
seem perfectly right. |
GRAPEVINE, JUNE 1961 |
The Obsession and the Answer |
The idea is somehow, some day, he will control and enjoy his |
drinking is the great obsession of every abnormal drinker. |
The persistence of this illusion is astonishing. Many pursue |
it into the gates of insanity or death. |
Alcoholism, not cancer, was my illness, but what was the |
difference? Was not alcoholism also a consumer of body and |
mind? Alcoholism took longer to do its killing, but the result |
was the same. So, I decided, if there was a great Physician |
who could cure the alcoholic sickness, I had better seek Him |
at once. |
The Language of the Heart |
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