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such as these take the First Step? |
By going back in our own drinking histories, we showed |
them that years before we realized it we were out of control, |
that our drinking even then was no mere habit, that it was |
indeed the beginning of a fatal progression. |
TWELVE AND TWELVE, P. 23 |
Greater than Ourselves |
If a mere code of morals or a better philosophy of life were |
sufficient to overcome alcoholism, many of us would have |
recovered long ago. But we found that such codes and |
philosophies did not save us, no matter how much we tried. |
We could wish to be moral, we could wish to be |
philosophically comforted, in fact, we could will these things |
with all our might, but the power needed for change wasn't |
there. Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were |
not sufficient; they failed utterly. |
Lack of power: That was our dilemma. We had to find a |
power by which we could live -- and it had to be a Power |
greater than ourselves. |
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, PP.44-45 |
Our Protective Mantle |
Almost every newspaper reporter who covers A.A. |
complains, at first, of the difficulty of writing his story |
without names. But he quickly forgets this difficulty when he |
realizes that here is a group of people who care nothing for |
acclaim. |
Probably this is the first time in his life he has ever reported |
on an organization that wants no personalized publicity. |
Cynic though he may be, this obvious sincerity quickly |
transforms him into a friend of A.A. |
Moved by the spirit of anonymity, we try to give up our |
natural desires for personal distinction as A.A. members, |
both among fellow alcoholics and before the general public. |
As we lay aside these very human aspirations, we believe |
that each of us takes part in the weaving of a protective |
mantle which covers our whole Society and under which we |
may grow and work in unity. |
Vision Beyond Today |
Vision is, I think, the ability to make good estimates, both for |
the immediate and for the more distant future. Some might |
feel this sort of striving to be heresy against "One day at a |
time." But that valuable principle really refers to our mental |
and emotional lives and means chiefly that we are not |
foolishly to repine over the past nor wishfully to daydream |
about the future. |
As individuals and as a fellowship, we shall surely suffer if |
we cast the whole job of planning for tomorrow onto a |
fatuous idea of providence. God's real providence has |
endowed us human beings with a considerable capability for |
foresight, and He evidently expects us to use it. Of course, |
we shall often miscalculate the future in whole or in part, but |
that is better than to refuse to think at all. |
TWELVE CONCEPTS, P. 43 |
Forgiveness |
Through the vital Fifth Step, we began to get the feeling that |
we could be forgiven, no matter what we had thought or |
done. |
Often it was while working on this Step with our sponsors or |
spiritual advisers that we first felt truly able to forgive others, |
no matter how deeply we felt they had wronged us. |
Our moral inventory had persuaded us that allround |
forgiveness was desirable, but it was only when we |
resolutely tackled Step Five that we inwardly knew we'd be |
able to receive forgiveness and give it, too. |
TWELVE AND TWELVE, P. 57-58 |
Two Authorities |
Many people wonder how A.A. can function under a seeming |
anarchy. Other societies have to have law and force and |
sanction and punishment, administered by authorized |
people. Happily for us, we found that we need no human |
authorities which are far more effective. One is benign, the |
other malign. |
There is God, our Father, who very simply says, "I am waiting |
for you to do my will." The other authority is named John |
Barlicorn, and he says, "You had better do God's will or I will |
kill you." |
The A.A. Traditions are neither rules, regulations, nor laws. |
We obey them willingly because we want to. Perhaps the |
secret of their power lies in the fact that these life-giving |
communications spring out of living experience and are |
rooted in love. |
Running the Whole Show |
Most people try to live by self-propulsion. Each person is like |
an actor who wants to run the whole show and is forever |
trying to arrange the lights, the scenery and the rest of the |
players in his own way. If his arrangements would only stay |
put, if only people would do as he wished, the show would be |
great. |
What usually happens? The show doesn't come off very well. |
Admitting he may be somewhat at fault, he is sure that other |
people are more to blame. He becomes angry, indignant, selfpitying. |
Is he not really a self-seeker even when trying to be useful? |
Is he not a victim of the delusion that he can wrest |
satisfaction and happiness out of this world if only he |
manages well? |
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, PP. 60-61 |
Results of Prayer |
As the doubter tries the process of prayer, he should begin |
to add up the results. If he persists, he will almost surely find |
more serenity, more tolerance, less fear, and less anger. He |
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