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such as these take the First Step?
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By going back in our own drinking histories, we showed
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them that years before we realized it we were out of control,
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that our drinking even then was no mere habit, that it was
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indeed the beginning of a fatal progression.
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TWELVE AND TWELVE, P. 23
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Greater than Ourselves
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If a mere code of morals or a better philosophy of life were
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sufficient to overcome alcoholism, many of us would have
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recovered long ago. But we found that such codes and
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philosophies did not save us, no matter how much we tried.
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We could wish to be moral, we could wish to be
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philosophically comforted, in fact, we could will these things
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with all our might, but the power needed for change wasn't
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there. Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were
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not sufficient; they failed utterly.
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Lack of power: That was our dilemma. We had to find a
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power by which we could live -- and it had to be a Power
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greater than ourselves.
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ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, PP.44-45
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Our Protective Mantle
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Almost every newspaper reporter who covers A.A.
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complains, at first, of the difficulty of writing his story
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without names. But he quickly forgets this difficulty when he
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realizes that here is a group of people who care nothing for
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acclaim.
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Probably this is the first time in his life he has ever reported
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on an organization that wants no personalized publicity.
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Cynic though he may be, this obvious sincerity quickly
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transforms him into a friend of A.A.
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Moved by the spirit of anonymity, we try to give up our
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natural desires for personal distinction as A.A. members,
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both among fellow alcoholics and before the general public.
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As we lay aside these very human aspirations, we believe
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that each of us takes part in the weaving of a protective
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mantle which covers our whole Society and under which we
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may grow and work in unity.
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Vision Beyond Today
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Vision is, I think, the ability to make good estimates, both for
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the immediate and for the more distant future. Some might
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feel this sort of striving to be heresy against "One day at a
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time." But that valuable principle really refers to our mental
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and emotional lives and means chiefly that we are not
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foolishly to repine over the past nor wishfully to daydream
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about the future.
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As individuals and as a fellowship, we shall surely suffer if
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we cast the whole job of planning for tomorrow onto a
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fatuous idea of providence. God's real providence has
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endowed us human beings with a considerable capability for
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foresight, and He evidently expects us to use it. Of course,
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we shall often miscalculate the future in whole or in part, but
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that is better than to refuse to think at all.
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TWELVE CONCEPTS, P. 43
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Forgiveness
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Through the vital Fifth Step, we began to get the feeling that
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we could be forgiven, no matter what we had thought or
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done.
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Often it was while working on this Step with our sponsors or
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spiritual advisers that we first felt truly able to forgive others,
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no matter how deeply we felt they had wronged us.
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Our moral inventory had persuaded us that allround
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forgiveness was desirable, but it was only when we
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resolutely tackled Step Five that we inwardly knew we'd be
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able to receive forgiveness and give it, too.
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TWELVE AND TWELVE, P. 57-58
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Two Authorities
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Many people wonder how A.A. can function under a seeming
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anarchy. Other societies have to have law and force and
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sanction and punishment, administered by authorized
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people. Happily for us, we found that we need no human
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authorities which are far more effective. One is benign, the
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other malign.
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There is God, our Father, who very simply says, "I am waiting
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for you to do my will." The other authority is named John
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Barlicorn, and he says, "You had better do God's will or I will
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kill you."
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The A.A. Traditions are neither rules, regulations, nor laws.
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We obey them willingly because we want to. Perhaps the
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secret of their power lies in the fact that these life-giving
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communications spring out of living experience and are
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rooted in love.
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Running the Whole Show
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Most people try to live by self-propulsion. Each person is like
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an actor who wants to run the whole show and is forever
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trying to arrange the lights, the scenery and the rest of the
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players in his own way. If his arrangements would only stay
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put, if only people would do as he wished, the show would be
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great.
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What usually happens? The show doesn't come off very well.
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Admitting he may be somewhat at fault, he is sure that other
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people are more to blame. He becomes angry, indignant, selfpitying.
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Is he not really a self-seeker even when trying to be useful?
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Is he not a victim of the delusion that he can wrest
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satisfaction and happiness out of this world if only he
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manages well?
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ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, PP. 60-61
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Results of Prayer
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As the doubter tries the process of prayer, he should begin
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to add up the results. If he persists, he will almost surely find
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more serenity, more tolerance, less fear, and less anger. He
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