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How often you communicate with each one?	1irq
My older sister I talked to you, like almost every day. Um, you know, she's always there to know shoulder to cry on or, you know, if I'm in a bind, and I need some money, she's always willing to help me out. She can watch the kids if I need to go somewhere. If she's, she's my rock. younger than I mean, we talked maybe every other week. Let us know what each other is up to. Maybe we'll go to dinner.	0id
So, quite a bit closer to your older sister than younger sister. Any mental health history with either sister.	1irq
Um, my older sister was depressed and has a lot of anxiety when she was young, because she dealt with more of my dad that I did	0id
Okay. So does your older sister or your younger sister for that matter? know that you're? You're here?	1irq
Oh, my older sister does my older sister I haven't spoken to her this week yet.	0id
So are you planning on telling her?	4crq
Yeah, I don't see why not. Maybe it'll kind of humanize her a little bit. Like, I'm not as bad as person She thinks I am	6cd
Do you feel a need to make a positive impression on them?	11orq
No, but I think sometimes it's easier. It's easier. It's easier. You're not being the bad sister.	10od
That's how you believe you're viewed.	5yq
Yeah. by her by her.	7ack
All right. How about grandparents?	1irq
My dad's family they don't really know about.	0id
Any mental health history that the grandparents are aware of.	1irq
I mean, the one grandma that was still alive, she had like some kind of dementia or something and then all timers dementia	0id
How about aunts, uncles, cousins? Hey babe. No,	1irq
I had a lot of cousins. A lot of cousins in and out of the house at various points in the even in the day, sometimes I leave for school, there'd be a certain set of cousins. They're coming from school completely different set.	0id
have contact with them? Um,	1irq
do like social media and stuff. I mean, they're all spread out over the country now. But, you know, I keep in contact with them as much as I can.	0id
about children?	1irq
I have two children.	0id
Okay, tell me about them.	1irq
Um, they are the loves of my life.	0id
which sister	1irq
my older sister she watches them when I'm off okay	0id
so.	7ack
you want to kindergarten and the other in	0id
the second grade you mentioned when can you gardens a son	4crq
She comes home with like they have like not the merits but like well referrals. She likes to be kind of a pushover. Not pushover but like a bully at school or boy. I've gotten several calls from the principal and our teachers saying she pushed another kid Oh, get another kid asked if he could have A piece of paper and she yelled and screamed. You know, she comes home and I feel I'll yell at her. Do you like this? Do you like me yelling at you? Why would you yell at somebody else?	6cd
This problem worry, behavior.	4crq
Well, yeah, I mean, I got in trouble in school too. When? I mean, not when I was her age. I was kind of better at school when I was in her age, but I don't want to go down the same path.	6cd
Sure, a little worried about that. Yeah.	4crq
Um, I see them. I mean, why I work so I don't see the one on there. They go to daycare, but sometimes if I like go out to a party or something where I know some stuff that's gonna be there or there's parties over at my house where I know some stuff that's going to be there. I dropped off with my sister.	6cd
When you say stuff to so clear, you mean drugs.	1irq
Yeah. drugs, alcohol. Yeah, I'd rather my kids not see me like that. So I say,	0id
so you're protecting them from that. Oh yeah yeah	7ack
Hello. Sam How you are doing?	2gt
I'm good. HOw are you?	2gt
Yeah. My boss sent me over.	7ack
your boss said, Sure?	4crq
she wants you to come over and talk about your relationship with your coworkers?	1irq
Um, I think more just so that, you know, my ideas were just kind of higher than what they could really Understand, so maybe learn how to like how to talk to other people so that they can understand me.	0id
Okay, what would you mean by higher, like, your ideas	4crq
are higher, you know, just a little bit more intelligent, you know, I'm just at a level that other people can't always reach to, you just, you know, like just a little bit higher, sometimes a lot higher, but just on this team, they just couldn't understand, you know, my language or what I was saying, and it couldn't see the vision that I had.	6cd
Okay, so they were unable to reach your level of expression for this was like a project you're working on? And your boss recognized this difference, and thought that, that the counselor may be helpful. Yeah?	1irq
Yeah. Yeah. Um, I think it's good, you know, so that my boss is happy that I went, but I think it could also be useful in the sense of, you know, other people are jealous of me a lot, and they just can't really relate to me. So it might be, you know, great to learn how to relate, you know, like, kind of understand what they're going through at their level.	0id
Again, you stay at their level. So are you meaning again, that they're kind of below you with skills?	4crq
yeah, they're just they haven't they haven't accomplished as much they have, you know, they don't know as many people, they're not hanging out with those prestigious ranks, you know, they haven't been educated to the quality that I have been. So they just sometimes it's hard for them to understand where I'm coming from, or you know, what I can see happening.	6cd
Okay, so counseling can help you bridge that gap to go to communicate more effectively.	3gc
Yeah, so I think you know, so I can even better you know, I'm here but I want to be like here.	3gc
When you say you're here at the first level,	3gc
maybe like a seven but I want to like blow it out. The park, you know, like if 10 is here, I want to be higher than that.	3gc
How would you plan on accomplishing that?	1irq
Well, you know, I'm always getting recruited for these really prestigious classes and to speak places and people are always calling I'm a really large social media presence when people are constantly asking me for advice, you know, just about everything, because, you know, I've just accomplished so much that I can really help people because I just, you know, I've just been really lucky to just be good at so many things.	0id
Okay, so it sounds like you're you have a lot of stress.	5yq
Yeah, yeah.	7ack
And maybe, from your understanding that people were just getting jealous because you seem to succeed in so many things.	11orq
Yeah. You know, like, sometimes people just, it's hard to admit that you're just not as good or like you can't do it. Maybe you don't want to admit that I think I make them uncomfortable because I can.	10od
So calcium help you to relate to them in a way that so how would they have a more productive way? How would they describe you? You know, given this level of difference on this, you're talking about how would they describe you, if I were to ask them, if I could ask them. Could you describe sample?	1irq
Would they say? I think they would say that I have a lot of people that look up to me that I'm excellent at my job that, you know, like, I should really be vice Vice President, if not president, but I mean, I don't own the company. But I should really have a more significant position. that a lot of the presentations that are happening that I could probably do, but they don't want to, you know, other people need opportunities, but it would, it would be clear for everyone if I just did them.	0id
Would It be easier?	5yq
Yeah, you know, easier, better, more people. It would just be it would be a great presentation if I did it. So we'll just cut away all the other stuff.	7ack
All those stuff. That's what your coworkers would include?	5yq
Yeah,	7ack
yeah. Things that maybe detract from them.	3gc
Right. Like if you know, if I was doing the sales pitches, we could blow it out of the park. I mean, we'd be multimillionaires by now. So You know, it would get rid of all that, you know, the grunt work type of stuff, if I just did it myself,	0id
does it frustrates you that you're not calling for every task?	1irq
You're not recognized sometimes, but I've gotten really good at reminding people that they shouldn't be calling on me for every task. Because I'm, you know, sometimes you just have to show them, you know, I'm better than that person, or I could do it better. And I'm really good at that type of communication. So I've been able to secure a lot of positions that weren't given to me at first, because they realize like, Oh, she's better at it. So they can see your talent.	0id
So they recognize you most of the time.	4crq
No I mean most of the time. Yeah	6cd
How long have you been with this particular employer?	1irq
Um, maybe like six months, six months, maybe? Eight months. Okay.	0id
Can you tell me about the job you've had prior like what happened there?	1irq
an AI algorithm. They, so I got it, I got it to a really, you know, large leadership position. And then, you know, the other VP couldn't really see, see what I was going for. She couldn't relate to me and she, you know, she, she wasn't from the same type of like collegiate backgrounds that was kind of an issue. So I just outgrew what they had to offer. And then this company came in and made this tremendous offer with the you know, it was just, it was just fantastic. So I just had to make a move that was more strategic for me. And you know, that I could that I could even reach more. You know, I didn't I didn't want to be satisfied there.	0id
You want to you want to shoot higher. You want to accomplish something greater?	5yq
Yeah.	7ack
more. So more stuff. You've already achieved some level of popularity.	5yq
Yeah.	7ack
Alright, so your last ploy or the one before the place you work now, you just outgrew that. Can you tell me how that interaction went? Like? Did you quit? Or did they encourage you to leave? Like, what happened to kind of the last moments of that job?	1irq
Um, well, I mean,	3gc
They just said I you know, I talked too much or something like that, or I think there was an issue with somebody I was working with or something. But it was really it was another situation that just didn't. We just we weren't, we weren't communicating well, but in the end I had to do what was best for me. So because afterwards they were calling me and trying to get me back, but I was already here so that I wasn't gonna go back there.	0id
You predicted that when you left	1irq
Yeah, it was like you're gonna you're gonna miss me cuz I'm the reason this company is flourishing.	0id
So what did you tell them when they offered you	1irq
the chargeback that I was had gotten a phenomenal job and it was way better and that they lost it and they could just deal with it.	0id
So you rejected them at that point, okay.	4crq
I think it's strongly encouraged. I think she has a promotion for me in mind. So it's probably just to set me up for that.	10od
So she's trying to help you for the future. Another advancement. So Sam, I'm going to get you on the calendar is to see a counselor open later this week. Is that work for you? okay? That does. So I'll get you set up for that. I really appreciate you taking the time with me it was helpful origin to see a counselor and we'll go from there.	5yq
Yeah. Sure. Thank you	7ack
So I want to switch gears a little to social relationships. Be like romantic partners, friends, co workers. Anybody notable in that realm you can tell me about	1irq
I have a few friends but mainly have I meet friends as I move around a lot you know if I can't pay rent at one place another friend will offer me to stay at their house but by the time we get there, there's like seven other people. You know, they'll be my friends until I move again. I mean, some of them are strong friends. Some of them are weak or friends that are you know, on friends because I'm there.	0id
close friends. Yeah.	1irq
One or two.	0id
One or two?	5yq
Yeah.	7ack
How often you talk with them?	1irq
One I live with my doctor every day. And the other one you know talk about every other day.	0id
Have any romantic interest?	1irq
Um, I mean, I have I've had a few boyfriends but they get kind of annoyed because I make them do everything and you know that's how I guess guys see me now cuz I don't want to do certain things like clean or pickoff or just tell me you know I'm in pain because my accident I still went sometimes I'm in pain. Can you do this and like I'll be lazy or they call me. Whatever.	0id

How often you communicate with each one?

1irq

My older sister I talked to you, like almost every day. Um, you know, she's always there to know shoulder to cry on or, you know, if I'm in a bind, and I need some money, she's always willing to help me out. She can watch the kids if I need to go somewhere. If she's, she's my rock. younger than I mean, we talked maybe every other week. Let us know what each other is up to. Maybe we'll go to dinner.

0id

So, quite a bit closer to your older sister than younger sister. Any mental health history with either sister.

1irq

Um, my older sister was depressed and has a lot of anxiety when she was young, because she dealt with more of my dad that I did

0id

Okay. So does your older sister or your younger sister for that matter? know that you're? You're here?

1irq

Oh, my older sister does my older sister I haven't spoken to her this week yet.

0id

So are you planning on telling her?

4crq

Yeah, I don't see why not. Maybe it'll kind of humanize her a little bit. Like, I'm not as bad as person She thinks I am

6cd

Do you feel a need to make a positive impression on them?

11orq

No, but I think sometimes it's easier. It's easier. It's easier. You're not being the bad sister.

10od

That's how you believe you're viewed.

5yq

Yeah. by her by her.

7ack

All right. How about grandparents?

1irq

My dad's family they don't really know about.

0id

Any mental health history that the grandparents are aware of.

1irq

I mean, the one grandma that was still alive, she had like some kind of dementia or something and then all timers dementia

0id

How about aunts, uncles, cousins? Hey babe. No,

1irq

I had a lot of cousins. A lot of cousins in and out of the house at various points in the even in the day, sometimes I leave for school, there'd be a certain set of cousins. They're coming from school completely different set.

0id

have contact with them? Um,

1irq

do like social media and stuff. I mean, they're all spread out over the country now. But, you know, I keep in contact with them as much as I can.

0id

about children?

1irq

I have two children.

0id

Okay, tell me about them.

1irq

Um, they are the loves of my life.

0id

which sister

1irq

my older sister she watches them when I'm off okay

0id

so.

7ack

you want to kindergarten and the other in

0id

the second grade you mentioned when can you gardens a son

4crq

She comes home with like they have like not the merits but like well referrals. She likes to be kind of a pushover. Not pushover but like a bully at school or boy. I've gotten several calls from the principal and our teachers saying she pushed another kid Oh, get another kid asked if he could have A piece of paper and she yelled and screamed. You know, she comes home and I feel I'll yell at her. Do you like this? Do you like me yelling at you? Why would you yell at somebody else?

6cd

This problem worry, behavior.

4crq

Well, yeah, I mean, I got in trouble in school too. When? I mean, not when I was her age. I was kind of better at school when I was in her age, but I don't want to go down the same path.

6cd

Sure, a little worried about that. Yeah.

4crq

Um, I see them. I mean, why I work so I don't see the one on there. They go to daycare, but sometimes if I like go out to a party or something where I know some stuff that's gonna be there or there's parties over at my house where I know some stuff that's going to be there. I dropped off with my sister.

6cd

When you say stuff to so clear, you mean drugs.

1irq

Yeah. drugs, alcohol. Yeah, I'd rather my kids not see me like that. So I say,

0id

so you're protecting them from that. Oh yeah yeah

7ack

Hello. Sam How you are doing?

2gt

I'm good. HOw are you?

2gt

Yeah. My boss sent me over.

7ack

your boss said, Sure?

4crq

she wants you to come over and talk about your relationship with your coworkers?

1irq

Um, I think more just so that, you know, my ideas were just kind of higher than what they could really Understand, so maybe learn how to like how to talk to other people so that they can understand me.

0id

Okay, what would you mean by higher, like, your ideas

4crq

are higher, you know, just a little bit more intelligent, you know, I'm just at a level that other people can't always reach to, you just, you know, like just a little bit higher, sometimes a lot higher, but just on this team, they just couldn't understand, you know, my language or what I was saying, and it couldn't see the vision that I had.

6cd

Okay, so they were unable to reach your level of expression for this was like a project you're working on? And your boss recognized this difference, and thought that, that the counselor may be helpful. Yeah?

1irq

Yeah. Yeah. Um, I think it's good, you know, so that my boss is happy that I went, but I think it could also be useful in the sense of, you know, other people are jealous of me a lot, and they just can't really relate to me. So it might be, you know, great to learn how to relate, you know, like, kind of understand what they're going through at their level.

0id

Again, you stay at their level. So are you meaning again, that they're kind of below you with skills?

4crq

yeah, they're just they haven't they haven't accomplished as much they have, you know, they don't know as many people, they're not hanging out with those prestigious ranks, you know, they haven't been educated to the quality that I have been. So they just sometimes it's hard for them to understand where I'm coming from, or you know, what I can see happening.

6cd

Okay, so counseling can help you bridge that gap to go to communicate more effectively.

3gc

Yeah, so I think you know, so I can even better you know, I'm here but I want to be like here.

3gc

When you say you're here at the first level,

3gc

maybe like a seven but I want to like blow it out. The park, you know, like if 10 is here, I want to be higher than that.

3gc

How would you plan on accomplishing that?

1irq

Well, you know, I'm always getting recruited for these really prestigious classes and to speak places and people are always calling I'm a really large social media presence when people are constantly asking me for advice, you know, just about everything, because, you know, I've just accomplished so much that I can really help people because I just, you know, I've just been really lucky to just be good at so many things.

0id

Okay, so it sounds like you're you have a lot of stress.

5yq

Yeah, yeah.

7ack

And maybe, from your understanding that people were just getting jealous because you seem to succeed in so many things.

11orq

Yeah. You know, like, sometimes people just, it's hard to admit that you're just not as good or like you can't do it. Maybe you don't want to admit that I think I make them uncomfortable because I can.

10od

So calcium help you to relate to them in a way that so how would they have a more productive way? How would they describe you? You know, given this level of difference on this, you're talking about how would they describe you, if I were to ask them, if I could ask them. Could you describe sample?

1irq

Would they say? I think they would say that I have a lot of people that look up to me that I'm excellent at my job that, you know, like, I should really be vice Vice President, if not president, but I mean, I don't own the company. But I should really have a more significant position. that a lot of the presentations that are happening that I could probably do, but they don't want to, you know, other people need opportunities, but it would, it would be clear for everyone if I just did them.

0id

Would It be easier?

5yq

Yeah, you know, easier, better, more people. It would just be it would be a great presentation if I did it. So we'll just cut away all the other stuff.

7ack

All those stuff. That's what your coworkers would include?

5yq

Yeah,

7ack

yeah. Things that maybe detract from them.

3gc

Right. Like if you know, if I was doing the sales pitches, we could blow it out of the park. I mean, we'd be multimillionaires by now. So You know, it would get rid of all that, you know, the grunt work type of stuff, if I just did it myself,

0id

does it frustrates you that you're not calling for every task?

1irq

You're not recognized sometimes, but I've gotten really good at reminding people that they shouldn't be calling on me for every task. Because I'm, you know, sometimes you just have to show them, you know, I'm better than that person, or I could do it better. And I'm really good at that type of communication. So I've been able to secure a lot of positions that weren't given to me at first, because they realize like, Oh, she's better at it. So they can see your talent.

0id

So they recognize you most of the time.

4crq

No I mean most of the time. Yeah

6cd

How long have you been with this particular employer?

1irq

Um, maybe like six months, six months, maybe? Eight months. Okay.

0id

Can you tell me about the job you've had prior like what happened there?

1irq

an AI algorithm. They, so I got it, I got it to a really, you know, large leadership position. And then, you know, the other VP couldn't really see, see what I was going for. She couldn't relate to me and she, you know, she, she wasn't from the same type of like collegiate backgrounds that was kind of an issue. So I just outgrew what they had to offer. And then this company came in and made this tremendous offer with the you know, it was just, it was just fantastic. So I just had to make a move that was more strategic for me. And you know, that I could that I could even reach more. You know, I didn't I didn't want to be satisfied there.

0id

You want to you want to shoot higher. You want to accomplish something greater?

5yq

Yeah.

7ack

more. So more stuff. You've already achieved some level of popularity.

5yq

Yeah.

7ack

Alright, so your last ploy or the one before the place you work now, you just outgrew that. Can you tell me how that interaction went? Like? Did you quit? Or did they encourage you to leave? Like, what happened to kind of the last moments of that job?

1irq

Um, well, I mean,

3gc

They just said I you know, I talked too much or something like that, or I think there was an issue with somebody I was working with or something. But it was really it was another situation that just didn't. We just we weren't, we weren't communicating well, but in the end I had to do what was best for me. So because afterwards they were calling me and trying to get me back, but I was already here so that I wasn't gonna go back there.

0id

You predicted that when you left

1irq

Yeah, it was like you're gonna you're gonna miss me cuz I'm the reason this company is flourishing.

0id

So what did you tell them when they offered you

1irq

the chargeback that I was had gotten a phenomenal job and it was way better and that they lost it and they could just deal with it.

0id

So you rejected them at that point, okay.

4crq

I think it's strongly encouraged. I think she has a promotion for me in mind. So it's probably just to set me up for that.

10od

So she's trying to help you for the future. Another advancement. So Sam, I'm going to get you on the calendar is to see a counselor open later this week. Is that work for you? okay? That does. So I'll get you set up for that. I really appreciate you taking the time with me it was helpful origin to see a counselor and we'll go from there.

5yq

Yeah. Sure. Thank you

7ack

So I want to switch gears a little to social relationships. Be like romantic partners, friends, co workers. Anybody notable in that realm you can tell me about

1irq

I have a few friends but mainly have I meet friends as I move around a lot you know if I can't pay rent at one place another friend will offer me to stay at their house but by the time we get there, there's like seven other people. You know, they'll be my friends until I move again. I mean, some of them are strong friends. Some of them are weak or friends that are you know, on friends because I'm there.

0id

close friends. Yeah.

1irq

One or two.

0id

One or two?

5yq

Yeah.

7ack

How often you talk with them?

1irq

One I live with my doctor every day. And the other one you know talk about every other day.

0id

Have any romantic interest?

1irq

Um, I mean, I have I've had a few boyfriends but they get kind of annoyed because I make them do everything and you know that's how I guess guys see me now cuz I don't want to do certain things like clean or pickoff or just tell me you know I'm in pain because my accident I still went sometimes I'm in pain. Can you do this and like I'll be lazy or they call me. Whatever.

0id