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hit:1045_conv:2091
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I feel so bad about what I did. " }, { "assistant": "What happened?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I lied to my dad. " }, { "assistant": "At least you feel bad about it?", "user": null } ]
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hit:10463_conv:20927
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Did it take a long time to complete?" }, { "assistant": "Not too long, maybe 15 minutes? The nurses commented that they were really happy they didn't have to wait on me to do it in the office lol", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That's awesome! I am glad it didn't take long, because those have been a pain in the past for me." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10464_conv:20928
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I work in a building that has parts of it under construction and our senior staff is offering tours. I'm a little worried about tripping and falling on something if I take a tour through the live construction zone. " }, { "assistant": "I can certainly relate to you, it could be a safety hazard.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I agree! I think if I do it, i need to buy some closed-toe shoes and make sure I'm wearing the correct clothing. " }, { "assistant": "That's a smart move, that would reduce the risk of injury.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10464_conv:20929
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "It is hard to make a decision to take a new job when you have been with one employer for a long time." }, { "assistant": "I agree. Do you find yourself in that situation right now? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, I feel like I need new experiences but I feel a sense of loyalty to my current employer." }, { "assistant": "That's very kind of you to be so considerate. Hopefully the right choice will make itself obvious to you in the near future. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I agree, I want to keep growing in my career." }, { "assistant": "Well good luck to you! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you, I appreciate it!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10465_conv:20930
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Looking to get this new job in my area." }, { "assistant": "Great, I hope you get it.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Me too, been researching everything I can about them so I am ready for it." }, { "assistant": "What type of job is it?", "user": null } ]
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hit:10465_conv:20931
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "How can a mother do that to a child?" }, { "assistant": "Oh no, do what?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I\"I was told from a little girl that my greatgrand parents farm would one day come to me. I believed it all my life and never questioned it. Momma sold it out from under me 2 months ago.\"." }, { "assistant": "That's terrible, hope you weren't counting on it for fincancial reasons", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No but my heart was in that farm. I had to sell my cows and I had bottle raised them all and had had them for 6 years." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10466_conv:20932
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm installing a new dishwasher in my kitchen today!" }, { "assistant": "That is great! Are you doing it yourself or are you hiring someone to help you out? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm doing it myself! I've never done it, but I watched a bunch of YouTube videos, so I feel like I'm ready to tackle this job!" }, { "assistant": "That sounds exciting, it is always nice to have new kitchen appliances! I hope all goes well", "user": null } ]
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hit:10466_conv:20933
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have been feeling a little lonely lately " }, { "assistant": "I'm sorry to hear that! Maybe you can find a local club so you can meet people with similar interests!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That sounds like a great idea! I would love to just dance and shake off all these bad vibes! :) " }, { "assistant": "That sounds like fun! And a great cure for loneliness! ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10467_conv:20934
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Hello! I was really worried about my son the other day." }, { "assistant": "Oh no, what was wrong?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He came home from school and said it was a bad day. He seemed very down." }, { "assistant": "Aw, did it turn out okay?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It did. I made him his favorite dinner and we talked about how some days will just be worse than others." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10467_conv:20935
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When we were trying to buy our first home, our financing fell through." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! That had to be frustrating. I hope it wasn't too close to closing.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was a couple weeks out. We had to switch lenders and it took another six months to find a place." }, { "assistant": "I hope you still found a great home! The home buying process is certainly frustrating.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10468_conv:20936
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am very sad, my mother recently passed away from a heart attack" }, { "assistant": "Oh no. I'm so sorry. I totally understand how you feel. Mine passed away a few years ago, It's very difficult", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I am very lucky to a have a great boyfriend, has has been very supportive and is helping me pull myself together. " }, { "assistant": "It definitely helps to have a lot of support around you. Take care of yourself through this very difficult time.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10469_conv:20938
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Yesterday, I walked around with makeup smeared all over my face. I wish someone had told me." }, { "assistant": "Oh my goodness! I did that after swimming one day. I was so busy getting the kids dressed that I forgot to clean my face. Black mascara all down my cheeks.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Did anyone tell you? I completely forgot I even had it on until I got home." }, { "assistant": "No and I went to the grocery store and the library like that! No one said a word. It was so embarrassing.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10469_conv:20939
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My son was potty training when he was 2 and he ran out at a party without his pants on! My jaw dropped and I couldn't hide my red face!" }, { "assistant": "Were there other parents there? I think that anyone who has kids would understand.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No, they were a bunch of single people that my husband works with. They all laughed about it, but I was humiliated. It is funny to think back on now." }, { "assistant": "I can understand being humiliated in the moment. Thankfully most kids grow out of that phase!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, he is older now and would never do that. He is such a funny kid though. I was glad when that phase passed!" }, { "assistant": "2 year olds don't know any better. And when everyone laughs, it can make them want to do it again.", "user": null } ]
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hit:1046_conv:2092
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Recently, I just received an unexpected bonus at work. It was given to me for working extra hard on a project!" }, { "assistant": "how, how are you going to spend it? or are you a saver?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I am a saver. I plan to put it in my emergency fund just in case!" }, { "assistant": "thats a good choice", "user": null } ]
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hit:1046_conv:2093
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I saw a spider and i got scared" }, { "assistant": "Eek! I hate spiders! Did you kill it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i tried but he got away." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! That's too bad. Now you will have to keep an eye out for it!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10470_conv:20940
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Hey there, I had an embarrassing situation today.." }, { "assistant": "Oh, I'm sorry to hear that! It can be tough when we feel that we have lost face in front of others.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was at the grocery store when I noticed my fly was undone!" }, { "assistant": "Well, let's pretend that no one noticed! Either that, if someone noticed, perhaps they smiled when they thought \"Wow, I've had that happen before, too\" ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10470_conv:20941
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "It wasn't easy recently when I told a friend I needed to stay home from going out for food and some entertainment because it wasn't something I could afford." }, { "assistant": "I am sorry to hear that. I hope your financial situation improves in the future.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I do, too! Though, when you are caretaking for a parent, I realize it will be a very long time before that happens." }, { "assistant": "I believe that you will be in a better situation soon.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10471_conv:20942
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was rather nervous the other night when I was waiting to sing at a concert." }, { "assistant": "Oh wow! How did it go?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well people said they liked it, so I was glad, but I don't really think I sing that great." }, { "assistant": "I'm sure you did great! I'd be a ball of nerves too, though.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thanks! It's not something I do very often so yeah, I was quite anxious about it." }, { "assistant": "Haha but you survied, Go you!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Oh yeah, I got through it, which is the main thing!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10471_conv:20943
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A few months ago I found some old family pictures. It made me miss old times" }, { "assistant": "Were they from when you were a kid?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They were. It made me miss all my cousins and Aunts and Uncles who've passed. " }, { "assistant": "I know what you mean. I sure miss my departed loved ones.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10472_conv:20944
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm so mad at my neighbor! He's working on his home and dropped nails in the street." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! Does he do that a lot?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Not really, but I was so annoyed when I came out this morning to a flat tire on my car." }, { "assistant": "I would be also. You should try to get him to fix your tire. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10472_conv:20945
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Last year my grandmother passed away. It's still hard to cope with" }, { "assistant": "Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. Losing a family member is so hard.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It is. I still can't look at old pictures of her. " }, { "assistant": "I miss my grandmother every day. I hope things get easier for you over time.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm sorry. Thanks, That's really nice." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10473_conv:20946
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband convinced me that it was a good move." }, { "assistant": "What was a good move?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Changing jobs after 16 years at one place." }, { "assistant": "Oh wow that is a long time. Why did you change your job?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We were under new managment and the new supervisor was mean to everyone. I didn't even want to go there on a daily basis." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10474_conv:20948
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I went out for dinner the other night and it was at a really fancy restaurant. I knocked my drink over by accident." }, { "assistant": "Hey a similar thing happened to me! I hope no one saw!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was a full glass, and it spilled all over the table." }, { "assistant": "Ooops! I'm sorry to hear that. I'll tell you what though, it happens to the best of us! It's just a drink.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10474_conv:20949
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was trying to get to a loaf of bread in the fridge, and I knocked over a full tub of my mother in law's chicken corn chowder!" }, { "assistant": "That must have been messy. Were you able to get it all cleaned up?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah but now the kitchen smells like milky soup! My mother in law is going to be a little peeved too, oops." }, { "assistant": "I'm sure she's done something like that in the past herself though.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah but you'd never know for sure haha!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10475_conv:20950
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When I was a teenager I went tandem skydiving. This involved a total stranger being strapped to my back and jumping out of a plane. Thinking back on it now, I had to put a lot of trust that that dude wasn't a psycho murderer." }, { "assistant": " Wow that definitely sounds like a crazy situation!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Haha yea it does now. Back then it seemed so reasonable." }, { "assistant": "Way to live vicariously!", "user": null } ]
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hit:1047_conv:2095
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I had to teach an inservice class at work. I went over all of my notes very carefully" }, { "assistant": "Did it go well for you then?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Quite well. I was ready for any question that was asked of me." }, { "assistant": "It's great when it works out that way, I hate presenting.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10486_conv:20972
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "What caused you to be freaked out over the finished basement? Sounds good all around." }, { "assistant": "I was just scared because my parents and I had always been in rooms next to each other and now they were ALL the way downstairs. Thinking back it was a pretty silly thing to be afraid about.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well, actually, I think that makes sense considering you were a kid and you were use to them being with you upstairs." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10486_conv:20973
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "On Saturday, I was able to go to the park and enjoy nature." }, { "assistant": "Was it really nice out? I love being able to go out and just listen to the sounds of the outdoors.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes. I usually have so many things to do. And this day, I could enjoy it." }, { "assistant": "That's great! I hope it was an all around good day for you.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10487_conv:20974
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband got a raise at work this week! I was so impressed with him. " }, { "assistant": "Thats's great! I bet he's been working really hard.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He has. His work place has really started to recognize all the hard work he does around there which makes me so proud of him." }, { "assistant": "It feels really good to be recognized for your efforts!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10487_conv:20975
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I watched a movie the other night with my kids, they really enjoyed it and we had a lot of cute conversation about it." }, { "assistant": "What was the movie? I'm always looking for something new to watch with my kids!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It's called Ponyo. They've been singing a song from it for the last couple of days." }, { "assistant": "I will have to check it out! Thanks for the suggestion. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10488_conv:20976
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I recently had to go interview for a job I knew I was under qualified for, so I was fairly nervous going in." }, { "assistant": "I'd have been nervous too. Did you find out if you got the job?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "The interview went pretty well, and I did end up getting the job, but I'm gonna have a lot of on the job training to do." }, { "assistant": "That's awesome. I'm so happy for you.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10488_conv:20977
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "The other day I was looking through some old photo albums." }, { "assistant": "Wow, that must of been a trip. How did it make you feel?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It brought back lots of good memories :)" }, { "assistant": "Awesome, I've gone through old albums like that before as well, and it always makes me feel good.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10489_conv:20978
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When I was younger, in a lapse of judgement, I stole chocolate bars from a shop I used to work in. I was caught. I felt terrible. It wasn't like me at all. I wish I could undo my actions." }, { "assistant": "I think many children including myself stole things before they were taught it was wrong to steel.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That's true. I wasn't really a child though! I was at university! We all have little devils inside us, I suppose." }, { "assistant": "I would not beat yourself up over the mistake. We all make mistakes even when we are older and should know better. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you, that means a lot." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:1048_conv:2096
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have to take this long road trip soon, my car is making this weird noise and I'm not sure if I should still go on it. I'm worried it might break down on me." }, { "assistant": "You should take it somewhere then", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't have the money for it but this person is counting on me for this trip, I'm stuck in a hard place." }, { "assistant": "You need to save up then", "user": null } ]
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hit:1048_conv:2097
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was grateful when my dad helped me buy a car. He was there the entire time" }, { "assistant": "Did he give you tips for getting the best deal?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He did, he helped me a lot that way" }, { "assistant": "That's really sweet, I'm happy for you", "user": null } ]
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hit:10490_conv:20980
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My mom sent me a package the other day that had a bunch of my old comics in it the other day. It was a real trip to go through them all, it brought back a lot of memories." }, { "assistant": "That sounds really great! Do you like them as much as you remembered?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "A lot of them were still pretty good, but I think my fondness for them largely hinges on my memories of reading them as a kid." }, { "assistant": "haha, I felt the same when I read some of my old baby sitter's club books", "user": null } ]
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hit:10490_conv:20981
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My son's pediatrician told me to call Early Intervention because he's delayed in talking." }, { "assistant": "Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Do they have any idea what the cause may be yet?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Not at all. I'm hoping he'll catch up soon. The appointment is set for next week and I'm pretty nervous." }, { "assistant": "I hope it's nothing too serious. My younger brother had the same problem early on, but he turned out to just be a slow developer.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10491_conv:20982
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My toddler son has been so exhausting lately. Luckily, his grandparents were able to take him for an overnight the other night which was a nice break." }, { "assistant": "I totally know how you feel. I have 2 kids and they were a handful as toddlers.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah I have a 9 month old as well and I never would have thought that the baby would be the easy one! I'm so thankful I live close enough to family that they can watch them from time to time." }, { "assistant": "I know right? Grandparents are the best lol", "user": null } ]
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hit:10492_conv:20984
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I found out that a friend of mine from high school passed away recently." }, { "assistant": "I'm sorry to hear that, are you alright?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I'm doing okay. It hit pretty hard because we were pretty close back then, but had drifted apart the last few years. I wish I hadd taken the time to do more with him." }, { "assistant": "That's understandable, life goes so fast that it's easy to lose touch with people you care about. All I can do is try to limit that occurrence.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10492_conv:20985
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I heard on the radio that Beyonce will be performing in my city soon." }, { "assistant": "That's cool. Are you a big fan of her?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes I have enjoyed her music over the years and I like to attend her concerts as well when I can." }, { "assistant": "That msut be exciting then, I hope the tickets aren't too expensive.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10493_conv:20986
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A friend of mine had an pretty serious illness and had to be in the hospital for quite a while. I spent as much time as I could there with him to keep his spirits up." }, { "assistant": "Oh that sucks, I hate seeing friends and family injured or sick. That's very nice of you though that you stayed there with him, youre a good friend.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We've been close for a long time, so it was the least I could do for him. I know he'd do the same for me." }, { "assistant": "Thats awesome, good friends are always there for each other.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10494_conv:20989
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have never been an athletic person, but my parents insisted that I participate in a sport, so I chose softball. I was so excited when I heard the crack of the bat as I hit the ball. It was such a satisfying moment." }, { "assistant": "Oh I know the feeling! I had the same affinity for swimming. My mom said I should give it a try. At first I didn't want to but as I got better I started to love it.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I never became the best player on the field by any means, but it was so nice to not fail completely. We just bought a pool because my children love swimming!" }, { "assistant": "We don't have to be the best to enjoy what we do right?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That's very true and I think it was the mental aspect that was the most encouraging for me. I was driven to succeed and I did it! It was very empowering." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10495_conv:20990
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My daughter starts playing softball this year. I tried playing when I was younger, but the other girls were mean" }, { "assistant": "I had a similar experience playiing little league baseball. How is your daughter feeling about it so far?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "She's extremely excited about it, but I can't help but be a little bit scared for her after my experience." }, { "assistant": "I feel you on that. I don't know if I could let my son play baseball after what I went through. I hope your daughter has a better experience.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10495_conv:20991
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've been pet sitting for my mom the last couple weeks, and my wife decided to come spend the weekend with me last week. It was really nice just to have her with me." }, { "assistant": "That sounds relaxing! Quality alone time is important in a relationship", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It is, and it has been nice for both of us to have some time to relax on our own, but it was really great to spend time with her after being seperate for so long." }, { "assistant": "I can imagine! It's hard being apart, but it makes it that much more exciting to see each other again.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10496_conv:20992
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When we were kids, my older sister pretended to abandon me at the mall because I was being a brat." }, { "assistant": "Oh no, I had a older cousin who did that to me as well. Hopefully she was just giving you tough love or discipline.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I definitely deserved it LOL. I never acted like that again with her!" }, { "assistant": "Yeah it really teaches you! I would always sit down where i was and start crying.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10497_conv:20995
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was walking to a restaurant to meet with some friends, and on my way there I tripped over a tree branch in front of a bunch of people and looked like a total idiot." }, { "assistant": "When you tripped over the branch, did you get hurt?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Only my pride, I fell right on my backside and made a ridiculous noise." }, { "assistant": "I hope you were able to laugh about falling and looking silly and not be too embarrassed?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I'm sure it was pretty funny to watch, and thinking back on it's more amusing then embarrassing." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10498_conv:20996
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I always think I want some \"me\" time, but this weekend my husband and our toddler son were both gone and I actually kind of felt bored and sad!" }, { "assistant": "Yeah it really isn't for everyone, i like my alone time but only for a while. Afterwards i feel alone and wanting to talk to someone.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Exactly. We have an infant daughter, but she goes to bed so early that I had a lot of hours of doing nothing in particular. " }, { "assistant": "Thats the perfect time to just pamper yourself. I cherish those few hours every day!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10499_conv:20998
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Going out to run errands for the first time after having a baby was scary. I was so afraid I would forget something I needed. I was so relieved when we returned home and everything went perfectly smooth." }, { "assistant": "Yeah, I probably would have to leave someone at home with the baby.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was overwhelming, but we made it without too much stress." }, { "assistant": "That's great, the first time for everything is scary.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10499_conv:20999
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was so scared to skydive, but my instructor was great and I was finally able to jump." }, { "assistant": "I bet it felt good to conquer the fear! Would you skydive again?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I think so! If someone I knew really wanted to go." }, { "assistant": "Did you enjoy the experience?", "user": null } ]
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hit:1049_conv:2098
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am happy I survived the weekend." }, { "assistant": "I feel that, sometimes I feel lucky to survive single days!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I usually enjoy the weekends, but not this one." }, { "assistant": "Why this one in particular?", "user": null } ]
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hit:1049_conv:2099
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was very happy when I got accepted into graduate school" }, { "assistant": "That is great, which one?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It is a school in Delaware that is pretty good, I did not expect to get in" }, { "assistant": "When do you start?", "user": null } ]
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hit:104_conv:209
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friend is so annoying." }, { "assistant": "what did he do?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He just talks too much." }, { "assistant": "yes, i can see how it can bbe annoying", "user": null } ]
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hit:10500_conv:21000
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't have belief in myself, I have belief in God. I know that what I can't do, God can do." }, { "assistant": "Yes, he is good for finding answers we can't find ourselves.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I also need to reduce my pride. I am too prideful to ask for help in a lot of situations, because I always think I can do it myself." }, { "assistant": "Yep, I do the same thing as well. Sometimes its just best if you let others help you do something.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10501_conv:21002
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A game I'm really looking forward to is coming out this October, and I'm super pumped to play it." }, { "assistant": "Nice, it's been a while since i've anticipated any new games. what game is it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Red Dead Redemption 2. The first one is one of my favorite games of all time, so I can't wait to play the sequel." }, { "assistant": "Hah, i played the first one a ton on ps3, Wish they would release it for pc. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10502_conv:21004
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Verizon sent me a damaged iphone and I returned it. Now they're claiming they never received it! I got charged over 500 dollars for it." }, { "assistant": "That sounds horrible. I would be so mad at them.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was at first, but I think it was hellish mix up. I'm working it out with them now, hopefully they don't nab with that money." }, { "assistant": "The level headed approach will probably accomplish more anyway. I'm sure they have money so I also hope they don't take yours.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I agree haha! Do they need another 500 dollars? Not mine for sure." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10502_conv:21005
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My mom made a cake for my brother's birthday so I can't touch it until he eats first." }, { "assistant": "Sounds fair. How hungry are you right now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Pretty hungry, but the cake looks so good so I want even more. Strawberry shortcake style." }, { "assistant": "Haha I understand. It's like those cartoons where the smell is dragging someone through the air.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10504_conv:21009
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My grandmother passed away 20 years ago. I just found a quilt she made me when I was a baby" }, { "assistant": "Wow what a find, cherish that quilt and keep it safe from harm!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It has holes all in it, but I just can't let it go! It means too much to me." }, { "assistant": "Yeah, and don't repair it! I think it gives it a history and makes it even more valuable.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10505_conv:21010
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm incredibly upset. I just found out my husband has been cheating on me last week." }, { "assistant": "Oh damn, that sucks. Have you guys talked or did you immediately cut him off?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We talked long enough for me to tell him it's over. We can't come back from this, no matter how difficult it will be for me." }, { "assistant": "Man thats terrible, I hope you can forget about him and find someone better.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10506_conv:21013
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I hate to bring this up because of how it makes me look. I just found out my parents have been paying my sister's mortgage. Great for her but I get nothing in my times of need." }, { "assistant": "I get where you're coming from, my mom supports both of my sisters. It can make you feel less important. hopefully you are getting along though?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah totally. I've learned through the years to be almost completely self sufficient. I am happy for my sister but I wonder where I fit in the mix sometimes." }, { "assistant": "I'm sure your parents are proud of your ability to take care of yourself. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I certainly hear about it a lot! haha" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10508_conv:21016
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was challenged to a 2 on 2 pool game with my partner being my friend Joe." }, { "assistant": "Did you and Joe do well?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I did alright, but Joe carried the team and I expected him to due to his pool skills." }, { "assistant": "Being on a team with someone more skilled than you has it advantages, it's good that he lived up to those expectations.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10508_conv:21017
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A friend of mine recently had their bathroom remodeled, and it made me feel like mine looks terrible by comparison." }, { "assistant": "That's reasonable considering how new stuff always looks great and how more fancy stuff may be available and cheap compared to when you made yours.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I just moved into my place last year, and the bathroom is quite outdated. After seeing his though, remodeling it has moved way up my list of things to get done." }, { "assistant": "That's good, it sounds like his bathroom motivated you to take yours to the next level. That's probably good for society.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10509_conv:21018
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I just can't stand it when people make uninformed remarks about a subject. My mom irritated me so bad by doing that the other day." }, { "assistant": "Yes, it's annoying! People should put more thoughts into it before they decide to be so opinionated...", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Agreed! My husband and I did a ton of research on a new puppy we were getting and she still found the worst article she could to act like she knew more than us. " }, { "assistant": "Oh, yes, I know. Some breeds get bad raps and people are so quick to judge! I used to have a pit bull who was a sweetheart!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10509_conv:21019
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "We had to make a BIG move from Hawaii to Nashville when my husband lost a job. We didn't know anybody here but we just had to believe it would turn out okay..." }, { "assistant": "Wow! That is a huge move! How long ago was that and are things going well? Do you miss Hawaii?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It's been almost 3 years and it's been ups and downs. We like it here, but we miss Hawaii like crazy!" }, { "assistant": "I can imagine. Hawaii seems like a beautiful place!", "user": null } ]
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hit:1050_conv:2100
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was anxious when I applied for grad school, I did not know if I would get in" }, { "assistant": "So what happened?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I got in, I was so excited!" }, { "assistant": "Congratulations!", "user": null } ]
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hit:1050_conv:2101
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have three kids. They are great and so am i" }, { "assistant": "I am glad to hear that, it seems like a lot of work", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "IT is but when parenting is natural to you, its fun and rewarding." }, { "assistant": "that is wht i have heard, i hope it is that way for me", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It will be. Believe in yourself/" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10510_conv:21021
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "It seems funny to me how all my hometown friends are all moving away" }, { "assistant": "Tell me about it. Both of my best friends moved several states away from me.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I've always been content to just stay here. I guess for some people, adventure is nice, but for others there's no place quite like home!" }, { "assistant": "Yeah, I'm content being at my home town aswell.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It's nice to be where you know everyone!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10511_conv:21022
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My Ac went out a month ago. I knew it was gonna be during the summer." }, { "assistant": "Were you able to get it fixed? Things break at the most inopportune times!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Not yet, I'm working on it because it apparently has to be replaced. I did buy multiple floor fans though." }, { "assistant": "Well hopefully that is keeping you a little cool!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10511_conv:21023
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A friend of mine challenged me and said I couldn't eat an entire bag of jelly beans. I'm super competitive and had to prove her wrong. " }, { "assistant": "Oh my, did you get a sugar rush after that? Your dentist must love you.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I had such a sugar rush and then crashed hard after hah! I felt like I had to brush my teeth for an hour that night." }, { "assistant": "That's not surprising, but now your friend knows that you are the undisputed champion.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10512_conv:21024
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "So my neighbor who is elderly has an above ground swimming pool. It's tilting because it wasn't put together properly. It was getting very unsafe" }, { "assistant": "Oh no! That's awful. That could be dangerous too!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes indeed. I stepped in to help not really knowing what I was doing. I screwed up at first a bunch but after all day working on it, I got it fixed!" }, { "assistant": "I bet your neighbor was very appreciative of all of your help. That would have been a daunting task for the elderly neighbor.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah I just didn't want her or her grandkids to hurt themselves. The pool is very important to them." }, { "assistant": "O,h grandparents are the best at spoiling grandchildren! I could understand that being important to her.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10512_conv:21025
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A few months before having my first kiddo, we decided to buy a car. It did very well during the initial inspection, but within a month, it needed several thousand dollars in repairs!" }, { "assistant": "Wow! Do you think whoever inspected it missed something or 3?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Absolutely. The problems should have been easily located by a mechanic. It was so hard and I was livid. We sold the car because we were so frustrated with it." }, { "assistant": "I bet. I wouldn't want to get stuck with a money pit either. I hope your state has a lemon law.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It does, but we got such a good deal on the car that we made a couple of the repairs and were able to recuperate our cost." }, { "assistant": "Excellent. Well there is some silver lining in all of this haha.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10513_conv:21026
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My son is 3 and we've been working on his ABCs lately. " }, { "assistant": "What an exciting time! How's he doing with it so far?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well I didn't think he was really grasping it, but last night I heard him singing a song and it was all his ABCs!" }, { "assistant": "That's awesome! I guess practice does make perfect.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10513_conv:21027
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My youngest sister is about to start her senior year of high school. I'm so proud of everything she has accomplished." }, { "assistant": "Oh that's awesome! I am an only child but I bet it's so cool to watch your siblings grow up like that.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, she's adopted and has been with the family for 14 years now. I always try and help her study when I get the chance, and I'm excited for this new stage of her life." }, { "assistant": "That is amazing and so nice of you!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10514_conv:21028
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am an avid book collector and reader. I recently unpacked all my books and it took me so long!" }, { "assistant": "Ugh! You must have a lot of books! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was super shocked to find out that I have over 300 so far!" }, { "assistant": "Wow! That is incredible! I hope you have somewhere to put them all. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10514_conv:21029
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband and I renewed out wedding vows for our 25th anniversary. It was such a sweet and memory filled day. " }, { "assistant": "Wow! Congratulations! That sounds like a wonderful thing to do. Was it just the two of you?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you. No, my grown children were there. They made a slide show of hubby and I over the years. Brought tears to my eyes. " }, { "assistant": "Aw that is so sweet. That sounds like the most special day. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10516_conv:21032
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Nothing really quite compares to the feeling you get when something exciting is about to happen. I still remember how I felt the days leading up to my wedding." }, { "assistant": "Were you jittery at all? I know I was when I was getting ready for mine,", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was definitely jittery but mostly excited. We'd been engaged for a year and a half and I was ready for the day!" }, { "assistant": "That's awesome. I hope it was an amazing ceremony. Weddings are always so much fun and romantic.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10516_conv:21033
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "This is going to make me sound like a chicken, but I've got a neighbor whos twice my size and a little bit of a rage case. His fence is falling over into my yard." }, { "assistant": "Uh oh. Dealing with bad neighbors is just the worst! Do you think he'd be mad if you asked him to fix the fence?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I've been going back and forth in my head all day getting ready for this. I'm ready to be firm on it that's for sure. And yes, he will be livid that I'm even looking at him!" }, { "assistant": "I wish you luck and hope everything ends up going well. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you so much, I hope for the best haha." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10517_conv:21035
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "The first time I met my husband I made an absolute fool of myself. I drank way too much." }, { "assistant": "Well, at least he knew what he was getting into right from the start lol.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Haha! Very true, although I don't drink much at all now. He must have seen something he liked about me. I, on the other hand, felt horrible about it." }, { "assistant": "We all have those moments. I'm glad yours worked out so well.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10518_conv:21036
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I had a party last weekend, and I got everything ready a week in advance so it would go well." }, { "assistant": "Nice, gotta be prepared. Hope the party went well. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It went very well, my guests all seemed to have a good time, and we didn't run out of booze or food the wole night!" }, { "assistant": "An endless flow of booze is the key to a successful party, sounds like it was a good time.,", "user": null } ]
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hit:10519_conv:21038
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I just found out I didn't get into the college I wanted to. I'm really disappointed and feel like I should give up" }, { "assistant": "Don't give up! You will find a better place and it will be the perfect fit.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm trying to see that side of it, but it's the only school I wanted to go to" }, { "assistant": "Everything happens for a reason. I think you will realize that and this could be a good thing is disguise.", "user": null } ]
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hit:1051_conv:2102
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was ashamed when I failed my first test in college, I thought I was doing well" }, { "assistant": "It can happen.Were you better prepared for the next one?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was, I am doing well, but at the time I was so scared" }, { "assistant": "It can be a hard lesson to learn but will make you a better student.", "user": null } ]
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hit:1051_conv:2103
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My cousin bought a really pretty shirt that I had been wanting" }, { "assistant": "My cousin bought a really pretty shirt that I had been wanting", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "that is not fun, does that mean you cannot get it now?" }, { "assistant": "No I can but I didn't want her to have it and not me.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "that is no fun, does that mean you cannot buy it now?" }, { "assistant": "No I can but I didn't want her to have it and not me.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10520_conv:21040
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I needed to get rid of some things, so I made a Craigslist post to come to my house and take them." }, { "assistant": "How was the response to your ad? Did you get rid of everything you wanted to?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I did, and luckily the people were honest and didn't take anything else" }, { "assistant": "That's good, people on Craiglist can be pretty shifty sometimes.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10520_conv:21041
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My mom sent my a bunch of stuff from my childhood the other day. It was really nice to see a lot of it." }, { "assistant": "What kind of things did she give you? Were they things that you asked for before?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was mostly old comics and toys she had had in her attic for years. She just wanted to clear out some space, and I was happy to take them off her hands." }, { "assistant": "I would be the same way. I don't trust anyone to hold on to my comics other than myself.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10521_conv:21042
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I grew up in Japan and for some reason my brother and I liked older music. Especially the Beatles. When I hear their songs, I think of him..." }, { "assistant": "Aw, that is so sweet. I am guessing you and your brother were close?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, there were just two kids in the family. He's still in Japan and I'm in Nashville, so we don't see each other much at all." }, { "assistant": "Awww, that is too bad. Hopefully you get to video chat with him", "user": null } ]
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hit:10521_conv:21043
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was at the store last week and slipped on some water on the floor I didn't see. I broke my leg! I was mortified! " }, { "assistant": "Oh, no! That's awful! Are you still in pain?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, I will need to wear the cast for at least another 5 weeks. People are so rude too. They all just stood there and laughed at me!" }, { "assistant": "I can't believe it! How could they? I'm so sorry to hear that...", "user": null } ]
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hit:10522_conv:21044
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've been flipping through some old photo albums and it chokes me up thinking about simpler times." }, { "assistant": "I understand that, going through those albums can really make you think about how peaceful things used to be.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I pay so much attention to these photos, and they evoke all these memories. It brings me down but I guess I just have to keep paying as much attention as possible to those good times." }, { "assistant": "That's the real trick to it, you have to try to move passed all the bad stuff and remember all the good times.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That's true. It takes so much time waiting around for those times to come back, but they won't but they do live on." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10522_conv:21045
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friend had to have a mole biopsied and check for cancer, and they were quite worried about it. Luckily, we found out the other day that it is noncancerous and just needs to be remmoved." }, { "assistant": "That's awesome, what great news! I'm sure your friend was really frightened at the prospect of cancer.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Absolutely, he was pretty scared. I'm just glad it wasn't cancer." }, { "assistant": "Yeah send them my regards. It's a fantastic day when you wake up cancer-free.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10523_conv:21046
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was walking around with my brother on a Sunday, and I got into a pointless argument with him. I am disappointed that I left myself get caught up in it." }, { "assistant": "I think we all do that with our siblings. I'm sure he knows you still enjoy spending time with him anyway.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes we talked it over and thought about all the good times we have when we get along!" }, { "assistant": "I'm glad you were able to remedy the situation so easily! I think that shows you have a really good relationship with him.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10524_conv:21048
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I took my daughter to see a circus show at Circus Circus in Reno, and that look on her face was priceless." }, { "assistant": "Oh I've been there! So much fun!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'd like to think that I had that same look when I went there at her age." }, { "assistant": "Did you guys play all the carnival games?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Some of them, until she won a stuffed cheeseburger and wouldn't let go of it." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10526_conv:21053
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My one year old just learned how to take off her diaper and she smeared poop all over my leg the other day." }, { "assistant": "Oh my god, I bet you were grossed out but laughing at the same time.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was so gross! She had been eating a chocolate granola bar so I thought it was just chocolate. It is funny now, but I was mortified then!" }, { "assistant": "I really hope that is the last time it happens.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "You and me both!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10527_conv:21054
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am about to become a grandma for the third time. My daughter has two boys already and I'm thinking pink..." }, { "assistant": "Congratulations, that is so exciting!!! I know we should only hope for healthy but I'll keep my fingers crossed for pink :-)", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you! I would love either, but I can't help hoping for a girl to dress up..." }, { "assistant": "Once you see that little face, you'll forget everything else no matter which!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10527_conv:21055
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My mother-law-donated a kidney to her cousin, who was sick." }, { "assistant": "Wow, that was very generous and courageous for her! How are they now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Both patients are doing great, thank goodness! We were so worried." }, { "assistant": "That's great to hear. What a great story. Very inspiring. I'm so happy they are both healthy now.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10528_conv:21056
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've entered an upcoming endurance competition like a tough mudder. I've been going at it for months and I believe I am hyperFOCUSED." }, { "assistant": "you need to rest to the competition", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "There is no time to rest, in fact if I do, I might be waiting 3-4 minutes for a very short response." }, { "assistant": "ahhh ok you do not participate in that competition", "user": null } ]
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hit:10528_conv:21057
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i felt trusting when my dad and my mon care for me" }, { "assistant": "Well as a fellow human being, I agree that when parents care for their children, it creates a lifelasting bond between the two parties.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yes and our parents love us . always can happen whatever thing always they say love you" }, { "assistant": "I also enjoy the love of my human parents and my human family. They take no hesitation in their focus on of their love for me.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10529_conv:21059
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I can't wait! We just bought a car today! Going to pick it up soon! " }, { "assistant": "Oh nice! That is exciting! What kind of car did you get?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "A 2018 Ford Fusion! It's the first brand new car we've evered owned! " }, { "assistant": "Wow, so jealous! You have to give me a ride one day, ok?", "user": null } ]
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hit:1052_conv:2104
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Everything seems to be going wrong, one thing after the other. I feel like I could break down but I have to trust that everything will work out the way it's supposed to." }, { "assistant": "I understand.. i wish life could be eaiser! Im sorry.. whats going on? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "A lot of things, my mom is sick and needs financial help but I can barely afford my rent after my hours were cut. I don't know if I'm going to be able to afford clothes for my daughter for school, all sorts of things." }, { "assistant": "sounds like a lot of stress... i hope things change for you VERY soon! ", "user": null } ]
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hit:1052_conv:2105
[ { "assistant": null, "user": " I am not feeling in a good mood today. " }, { "assistant": "Oh no, I hope you feel better soon. Do you want to talk about it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "thanks im just upset because i had to put my dog to sleep " }, { "assistant": "I'm so sorry. Have you tried reading Rainbow Bridge, that could provide some comfort.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10530_conv:21060
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was stuck on the side of the road when I saw a police officer ride by he slowed down and came back to help me" }, { "assistant": "Yikes, that's a scary situation to be in. I'm glad the officer was able to help you.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yes me too at 5:00 in the country halfway between work and home" }, { "assistant": "That's rough, sometimes you really do have to rely on the kindness of strangers.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "thats true got me to work on time" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10530_conv:21061
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I found out the other day that I didn't get ther job I interviewed for." }, { "assistant": "thats not good did you aplly for any other jobs?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I did, I ended up getting another job I wanted, but I was pretty bummed about losing the other one. The commute would have been much nicer." }, { "assistant": "I see that is very understandle. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10531_conv:21063
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've been laid up all day with an illness so it's good to be talking to someone." }, { "assistant": "That's awful! I hope you feel better soon.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm getting there, feeling better now than early this morning. Thanks for the contact though I'm certainly a social animal." }, { "assistant": "No problem at all. Glad to make you feel somewhat happier :)", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "See I'm feeling great right now! It worked haha!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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