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hit:12359_conv:24718
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I let my cousin look after my dog whilst I went on vacation this summer. " }, { "assistant": "Oh nice, how did it go?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It went well, my dog came back happy and healthy. My cousin did well to pay off my trust. " }, { "assistant": "Thats great! Glad it worked out for you and your dog was safe! I hear so many bad stories about people loosing pets.", "user": null } ]
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hit:1235_conv:2470
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have an important job interview and i am nervous about it." }, { "assistant": "Oh! What is it for? Just remember to think of all your good qualities and the interviewers :)", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It is just for an awesome job i have always dream to have it." }, { "assistant": "Cool! What industry is it in? I hope you get the job!", "user": null } ]
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hit:1235_conv:2471
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am not in the best city and walking around the other night for a nice walk- someone kept following me." }, { "assistant": "What city are in right now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "In a city in michigan. One of the top dangerous cities in the USA" }, { "assistant": "Oh well, be carreful.Make sure nobody is following you.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Can't always be helped. That is why I don't walk at night a lot- or heck even during the day" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:12360_conv:24720
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I ruined my friends wedding because of my drunken behavior" }, { "assistant": "Haha I bet it wasn't that bad....was it", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yea I saw video of my inexcusably drunk behavior. I feel so ashamed that I haven't been able to look my friend in the eye since then." }, { "assistant": "OK now I'm curious...what the hell did you do", "user": null } ]
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hit:12360_conv:24721
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I never thought I'd say it but these days I'm just stoked waking up and living the dream...I'm fully self-employed and answer to NOBODY and I have full autonomy of time, making more money than I did my previous crappy job...it's great" }, { "assistant": "You must feel so content at this point. It must have taken a lot of hard work to get to this point!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes you have no idea...still grinding it out everyday but it's totally worth it" }, { "assistant": "I am glad that it is finally paying off! Keep it up because independence is the sweetest thing. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:12361_conv:24723
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "sadly we got word our grandmothers canceris back" }, { "assistant": "That is unfortunate, is it possible to go through chemotherapy again?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "im not sure she is really old " }, { "assistant": "I hope everything works out for you ", "user": null } ]
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hit:12362_conv:24724
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My 12 year old lab just passed away. He was my buddy and I am really upset about losing him." }, { "assistant": "That is so sad. Dogs become part of the family so when something like that happens it is like losing a family member", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It really is. I am just so broken up over it." }, { "assistant": "I am so sorry for your loss, within time you will heal. Just try to cherish the memories that you was left with, Think about all the good times", "user": null } ]
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hit:12362_conv:24725
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My daughter had a school project that I helped her assemble, after we was done with it she informed she wanted it on wheels. Sometimes kids can be such a pain." }, { "assistant": "Yeah, I have a doughter as well and understand. I guess kids will be kids!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Lol. Yes they will be. Just would have been nice to know she wanted it on wheels at the beginning of the project" }, { "assistant": "The things they do make no sense. Kid logic!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12363_conv:24726
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friend called me out for being noisy and rude at the dinner last night. It was a rude awakening for me." }, { "assistant": "Uh oh, do you think you were being rowdy?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Looks like it. And I was making everyone else feel uncomfortable too. i feel so ashamed that I made my own friends feel uneasy. " }, { "assistant": "It's Ok. Everyone can chang ein life. Do you drink too much?", "user": null } ]
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hit:12363_conv:24727
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "my roommate will not clean anything." }, { "assistant": "Oh my, sounds like you have the dreaded roommate situation on your hands. Have you tried talking to him? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yes, but his actions do not listen to me." }, { "assistant": "I see, if you're in college, try talking to your Resident Advisor about it. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:12364_conv:24728
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Next week, I am going in work trip to New York. I can't wait to go." }, { "assistant": "That will be nice. Are you going to have some free time?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, I am going to have some free time. I am also given 150 dollars that I can use for my free time." }, { "assistant": "You could get a nice dinner with that. Have fun.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12364_conv:24729
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was cut off this morning on the way to work. It caused me to crash into the ditch. I am so mad." }, { "assistant": "Is the car terribly damaged?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I had to get it towed to the shop. We will see how bad it is. " }, { "assistant": "I hope it will be ok. Were you late for your work?", "user": null } ]
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hit:12365_conv:24731
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My license got lost in the mail and I had to go back to the dmv to get a new one." }, { "assistant": "That sucks, it takes so long for them to arrive!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It does and the wait at the dmv is always long. I was so irritated." }, { "assistant": "Hope everything works out for you!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12366_conv:24732
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I wish that Summer wasn't almost over." }, { "assistant": "I feel that, even though I prefer Winter", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I like the fall, but the change does make me a bit sad. It's a growing older type of thing." }, { "assistant": "I get that, but all seasons are good, you miss the ones that it is not", "user": null } ]
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hit:12366_conv:24733
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I cannot wait for the new super smash bros, it is gonna be amazing" }, { "assistant": "Is that a game ?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It is, you have never heard of it?" }, { "assistant": "No, I'm sure I'm a bit older than you.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12367_conv:24734
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am jealous of my coworker, he is very smart and athletic" }, { "assistant": "you can train and get better", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I can, but I cannot get any smarter" }, { "assistant": "i thin yyouca you just have to believe in yursef", "user": null } ]
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hit:12367_conv:24735
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i went to see the boo of mormon ans i did not think it was that ood" }, { "assistant": "Why is that?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i just did not think it came together well overall" }, { "assistant": "I get that, too bad we cannot refund movies", "user": null } ]
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hit:12368_conv:24736
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My dad just graduated college!" }, { "assistant": "Nice! You must be so proud of him to achieve such a milestone! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I am! He is such an amazing man." }, { "assistant": "He must be for his children to seem him as an inspiration! ", "user": null } ]
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hit:12368_conv:24737
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "The summer hurricane violently ripped through my neighborhood and destroyed everything in its path. " }, { "assistant": "Oh god! Is everyone you care about OK?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, I am thankful for that. But devastated that my house and property have been swept away overnight. " }, { "assistant": "Man, i am so sorry, i could not imagine.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12369_conv:24738
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I can't get myself to throw away my late dogs toys, despite them being so old and torn up. " }, { "assistant": "Do you find value in them still?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I suppose, sentimental value more than monetary value. " }, { "assistant": "I think you should keep them instead of throwing them away.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12369_conv:24739
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Ew what a gross wound my brother had." }, { "assistant": "How did he get it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He crashed his bike and cut it up badly, it was disgusting." }, { "assistant": "I hope it wasn't too painful for him and he disinfected and bandaged that wound up.", "user": null } ]
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hit:1236_conv:2472
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am so ashamed. I wasted 300 on an exercise bike" }, { "assistant": "Oh wow. Well are you going to use it? Why are you ashamed?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I never use it and I don't think I ever will" }, { "assistant": "Why did you buy it then?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "To lose weight obviously. Id rather have surgery." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:1236_conv:2473
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friends threw a party for me when I got promoted at work. I couldn't believe it." }, { "assistant": "Wow that's awesome. Congratulations", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you! It meant a lot." }, { "assistant": "Did you like the food?", "user": null } ]
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hit:12370_conv:24740
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "We had someone break into our hom." }, { "assistant": "Oh my god! Are you ok? was anyone home? Did they take anything important?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We are okay and thankfully we were not home. They went through everything, but didn't take anything. " }, { "assistant": "That's weird. I am happy you have your possesions.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12370_conv:24741
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Someone is visiting me soon and i can't wait!" }, { "assistant": "Who is it? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "My mom, she is amazing." }, { "assistant": "I bet she is! I am so glad you get to see her. Mom's are awesome!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12371_conv:24742
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I found out my storage unit burned down and I had lost several irreplaceable items" }, { "assistant": "Was the fire set by someone or an accident?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was an accident at the storage faciltiy" }, { "assistant": "That's horrible, i am sorry!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12371_conv:24743
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i'm grateful for my life" }, { "assistant": "That is good. It is nice to focus on the positives", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yep everything is just going good right now" }, { "assistant": "I am glad to hear that. I hope it keeps staying that way", "user": null } ]
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hit:12372_conv:24744
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My 15 year old stole a family members bank card number and overdrawn the account by $500. I was so mad I asked him about it and he had the nerve to lie to me even with the proof that I needed" }, { "assistant": "Ugh teenagers can be so troublesome some times! I hope you made him realize what he did was wrong. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Oh I did. I was always told that newborn years was the worse but raising know it all teens is the worse, makes me miss the newborn stage" }, { "assistant": "Yup, but what I don't like about that age is having to stay up all night!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12372_conv:24745
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I sheltered an injured owl and nursed him back to health before setting him free." }, { "assistant": "Helping animals sometimes brings great pleasure. You did a good deed", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you. I gave me great satisfaction to care for him though I felt a bit sad when I had to let him go home. " }, { "assistant": "Awe. Ya it doesn't take much to get attached to something that you are nursing back to health", "user": null } ]
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hit:12373_conv:24746
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My boyfriend took me to a cat cafe today because he knows I like cats" }, { "assistant": "That sounds like a cool place to go! Can you bring your cat there?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't think so? They have cats there up for adoption from the local shelter. You can have coffee and pet them." }, { "assistant": "That is so cool! We adopted a cat from a shelter and he is the best cat!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12373_conv:24747
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My son just took his first steps." }, { "assistant": "Nice! You must be so proud! How old is he?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was so proud! He is 13 months." }, { "assistant": "What an angel! I'm looking forward to starting my own family too.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12374_conv:24748
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I found myself shocked today by my roommate." }, { "assistant": "What did they do?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They left a mess in the toilet and didn't flush it!" }, { "assistant": "Ewww. Adults should know better than that. I think I would have been grossed out", "user": null } ]
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hit:12374_conv:24749
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was going through some old photos the other day and also came across a bunch of stuff that my kids have made me through the years, It brought back so many great memories" }, { "assistant": "That's wonderful! I bet it was a nice trip down memory lane.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It sure was! Some of the stuff I had forgotten about, so it was great coming across all those things" }, { "assistant": "Memories are the most precious thing we can have in life I think.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12375_conv:24750
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A friend that I had during college came to visit me last week. I was not expecting him to contact me. It has been at least ten years that we didn't see each other." }, { "assistant": "Wow that's been a long time. Did you two have a good time together?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, we had a great time. We are planning to see each other this week." }, { "assistant": "That's great that you two reconnected like it! I'm happy for you.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12375_conv:24751
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Walked in my kitchen this morning and there was a huge spider in the sink." }, { "assistant": "What did you do?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I grabbed a spatula to kill it, but it had already disappeared!" }, { "assistant": "It is ok. Most spider are not dangerous. What is it a big one?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, it seemed big at the time, but I hadn't had my coffee yet, so I can't be sure." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:12376_conv:24752
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was eating with some friends, and over trusted a fart smh" }, { "assistant": "What did your friends do?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Laughed and got me some new pants" }, { "assistant": "On no. Was this at a public place?", "user": null } ]
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hit:12376_conv:24753
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I failed my drivers license exam because I didnt pay attention to oncoming traffic. I was so mad." }, { "assistant": "Oh no, when can you take it again?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "In about a week. I passed everything. It was on the way back. I got too excited." }, { "assistant": "Dang that is unfortunate!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Oh well. I just have to wait. " }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:12377_conv:24754
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Someone is coming to visit me i never expectied too!" }, { "assistant": "Hey that's great! How long has it been?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Too long, like years." }, { "assistant": "Dang. I bet you're gonna have some good times together!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12377_conv:24755
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am so nervous right now. I......I don't know what to do" }, { "assistant": "Whats going to happen?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I heard a loud crash in my backyard. I think it's the aliens." }, { "assistant": "Oh gosh, i think it was just a tree falling i bet.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No. I looked out the window and they literally said...\"it's the aliens\"" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:12378_conv:24757
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm hoping to get a big bonus at work" }, { "assistant": "Oh I hope you get it! It can really help out or just be a splurge ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah it is nice to be able to go out and just spend a little money!" }, { "assistant": "Definitely, it's good to work for a company that does that too", "user": null } ]
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hit:12379_conv:24758
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "The place I ate at for lunch today only had a \"B\" rating for cleanliness, etc. on their health inspection. I never ate at a place that had less than an \"A.\" But I ate there anyway since there wasn't anything else close by, and it smelled good and was cheap, and I'm poor.. I just know my stomach is going to be churning later" }, { "assistant": "a 'B'? Hmm, well you know how it is, hope your stomach feels better!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, you know what they say. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Wish I could afford better, but I'm a broke college student. I guess the bright side is the bad food won't be in my body for long.." }, { "assistant": "You'll be fine, next time just look and see how clean their bathrooms are, it gives you a good idea how their kitchens are!", "user": null } ]
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hit:1237_conv:2474
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Some kids aren't as fortunate as mine." }, { "assistant": "Can you explain more?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I can afford to buy my kids things. I always donate their old stuff instead of selling it." }, { "assistant": "Donate is good thing to do. Great", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I try to give back." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:1237_conv:2475
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Yesterday, I saw a woman in the bus that her lollipop felt on the floor. She took the lollipop, clean it, remove a hair that was on it and put it back in her mounth." }, { "assistant": "That is so disgusting!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I start to watch in the other direction because I was going to throw up." }, { "assistant": "I probably would have done the same thing.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12380_conv:24760
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My favorite time of the year is during the holidays. My family gets together and talks about our lives. It is such a merry time." }, { "assistant": "That's wonderful. I also love the holidays. It's the perfect time for families.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah it is so peaceful drinking egg nogg and watching logs burn in the fire. I can't wait for the holidays." }, { "assistant": "Sounds like heaven! I am also looking forward to them too.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12380_conv:24761
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My brother finally got into law school!" }, { "assistant": "That's awesome. You must be so proud of him.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, very much so! He worked very hard for it." }, { "assistant": "The LSAT is no joke. He must have studied very hard.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12381_conv:24762
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am getting to go to my favorite cupcake bakery on Monday!" }, { "assistant": "What kind of cupcake do you like from there?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I love the Snickers one!" }, { "assistant": "Those are so tasty, are you excited?", "user": null } ]
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hit:12381_conv:24763
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Feeling so good about my drivers license test." }, { "assistant": "Awesome! I hope you do well! When do you take it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm taking it in three weeks it's my first try." }, { "assistant": "You will do great, just stay confident!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12382_conv:24764
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm not sure if my boyfriend wants to get married yet. I won't rush him though." }, { "assistant": "Communication is key, have you talked to him about it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, but it doesn't seem like he's in a rush. He's 35 though...." }, { "assistant": "Age doesn't amtter, show him you are ready.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12382_conv:24765
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I went to an old part of town and these guys really scared me." }, { "assistant": "Oh no, next time you should bring a friend to be safe.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I know that's smart i should not have gone alone." }, { "assistant": "It's okay, you got out fine this time!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12383_conv:24766
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My coworker in the cubicle next to me is always talking! He really bothers me." }, { "assistant": "What does he normally talk about?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Dumb stuff that has nothing to do with work!" }, { "assistant": "Oh yeah, that really is a waste of time", "user": null } ]
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hit:12383_conv:24767
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I had a date last night" }, { "assistant": "Nice! Did you have a good time?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah! I was pretty nervous, but it went fairly well." }, { "assistant": "Thats good. Stay confident and let things happen naturally!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12384_conv:24769
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My wife and I have been together for 5 years" }, { "assistant": "Gratz. What's the secret?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Just staying faithful. That girl is so loyal I love her so much. " }, { "assistant": "Good to hear, glad you guys are happy!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Hey thank you! She would never cheat on me and I have faith in that. I would NEVER EVER do the same." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:12385_conv:24771
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I brought my friend out and he made a complete idiot of himself." }, { "assistant": "Was he drinking heavy? I'm sorry hope the night wasn't too bad.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "he was and yea it was, he completely ruined the night out." }, { "assistant": "I'm sorry to hear that! haha guess he's not invited next time!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12386_conv:24772
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I often get so annoyed having pictures taken of me, and getting asked to smile. I hate my teeth, since they're so big. I wish I had smaller, more natural teeth that other people do.. it makes me so paranoid sometimes." }, { "assistant": "Don't be! You are awesome the way you are!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I appreciate that. And I try to tell myself that imperfections help people stay grounded and kind. But it's still hard not to get so self-conscious about it in everyday life. I almost want to grab something and grind them down!" }, { "assistant": "Our imperfections help us stay unique! Do worry yourself with that, there are so many other things that can get us down and worry us! Just keep being awesome!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12386_conv:24773
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband put together a graduation party for me and I had no idea!" }, { "assistant": "Hey... congratulations to you on both fronts! That sounds like double good news. It was probably fun having your hard work rewarded with seeing the faces of all your loved ones and having them personally congratulate you.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was, I was so thankful to him and I was also thankful to be done with school! " }, { "assistant": "Well, it's good to have you join the workforce in society. You seem like a positive person who can contribute well. Hopefully you find a passion that utilizes your hard-earned degree.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12387_conv:24774
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My son went into a youth challenge program. I am hoping that this will help him become better person and give him the discipline that he needs." }, { "assistant": "Ahh, is he a troublemaker right now? Most of the time, it's the friends they hang out with. Young people are easily influenced by the people around them.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It had alot to do with the crowd he was keeping at school. their habits was rubbing off on him. I tried talking to him several times about it but of course with being the mother he acted like I did not know what I was talking about. He is not just horrible but I knew if something did not change it would have gotten worse" }, { "assistant": "Yes, he needs a firm hand to lead the way out of this kind of behaviours. You need to step up and introduce some strict schedules so he won't have time to do anything bad. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:12387_conv:24775
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I tripped over the sidewalk the other day, thankfully no one was around" }, { "assistant": "Did you get hurt?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Just scraped my knee a little. I'll be fine. But I'm so clumsy all the time it's a bit frustrating." }, { "assistant": "Yeah, gotta be careful one day you might hurt yourself pretty bad", "user": null } ]
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hit:12388_conv:24776
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friend got a new wrangler, i want one so bad" }, { "assistant": "Nice, what year?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "2019 white hard top" }, { "assistant": "Dang, that must look great!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12389_conv:24778
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I had to rely on my own primal instincts and the Universe's subtle signs to guide me when I was homeless" }, { "assistant": "im sorry to hearyou were homeles", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thanks lol it wasn't that bad I had the support of my friends. I'm fully self-employed with my own car, apartment, and sustainable income these days. Total 180!" }, { "assistant": "That is great congrat!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12389_conv:24779
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "we went to the beach and someone left a bunch of dead fish out therer" }, { "assistant": "Interesting...you sure it wasn't fish that washed up on the shore", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "no they had been gutted" }, { "assistant": "Gotcha..hope that didn't ruin your whole day", "user": null } ]
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hit:1238_conv:2477
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Last year my little boy almost failed the second grade. I have been helping him study and can you believe that he passed third grade with an A in every subject. I am beside myself." }, { "assistant": "I am a teacher so I understand. You must be working well with him! Do teachers know what accommodations to make or how to differentiate for him to be successful in the classroom?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I think his teacher last year was very involved and was able to communicate what he needed. I think he has really formed some good habits over the past year. I cant wait to watch him succeed." }, { "assistant": "The amount of pride he will have in himself with speak volumes. Let his new teachers know what works for him. You are his best advocate!", "user": null } ]
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hit:12390_conv:24780
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I felt so embarrassed yesterday." }, { "assistant": "Why, what happened to make you feel that", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I walked out of the bathroom with some toilet paper stuck to my shoe." }, { "assistant": "Nice, I never understood why that's embarassing haha", "user": null } ]
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hit:12391_conv:24782
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When I was at gym, my pants has torn from behind. I felt bad about it." }, { "assistant": "Oh wow that sucks! Hope it wasn't too embarassing!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was very embarassing. There was people looking at me and other laughing at me." }, { "assistant": "Oh wow I'm sorry! That's not cool, they would be hurt if people were laughing at them", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friend just got a new job" }, { "assistant": "That's great! Where are they working?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Health care place. Except they're earning more than me in the same field, even though I am way more qualified" }, { "assistant": "That's got to be frustrating. Have you thought of maybe working at the same place?", "user": null } ]
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hit:12393_conv:24786
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I got lost in an unfamiliar city last night." }, { "assistant": "That is scary! Hope you did not find yourself in the bad part of town", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was not the best part of town, I had to trust a complete stranger to get me home." }, { "assistant": "That is horrible! I bet a little part of you was scared", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My teenager almost got kicked out of school when he was 16 because he kept getting caught with tobacco after the 5th time they said enough was enough and was really close of kicking him out for the rest of the year" }, { "assistant": "Oh wow! That is intense! I am glad he didn't get kicked out!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Me too! It was a very close call" }, { "assistant": "It sounds like it!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My father in law makes sure I am taken care of and he is the sweetest guy in the world. It makes me feel special." }, { "assistant": "That is amazing. Sounds like you have a really good support system.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah I do with him at least. Do you have people you can count on?" }, { "assistant": "I have a few. It really does help when times are not so great.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I found my grandfathers old watch he used to wear all the time. It really reminds me of him a lot." }, { "assistant": "That is pretty neat especially if it gives you good memories!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It really does. I remember he used to wear it for special occasions and holidays." }, { "assistant": "Now you can carry on that tradition.", "user": null } ]
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hit:12395_conv:24790
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm excited for fall to start, I love layering my clothes" }, { "assistant": "I do too. I wish we could have fall weather longer.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, me too, where I live it really transitions into winter really quickly." }, { "assistant": "Same here and next thing you know it's a blizzard.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My birthday was last week and I thought everyone forgot about me." }, { "assistant": "Oh what happened instead? Did your friends throw you a party?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yep! When I got home they were all there and had planned it all behind my back. It was great!" }, { "assistant": "Wow! What a great surprise! You should thank the person that planned it!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "5" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:12396_conv:24792
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I finally have a job and paid off the last dollar on my student loans today!" }, { "assistant": "That is awesome! I cannot wait until my student loans are paid off!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It is! Its best feeling and is a weight off my shoulders! I am finally content with my finances. " }, { "assistant": "I am happy for you! ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am applying to graduate school and I am a little anxious about it!" }, { "assistant": "Oh, don't be! Just have faith in yourself and be confident that you can make it in. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "The interview is what is making me nervous!" }, { "assistant": "I see, think of it as having a conversation with a friend. It will make it easier! ", "user": null } ]
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hit:12397_conv:24794
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I really want a Chanel bag for Christmas, my friend got one and it's so beautiful." }, { "assistant": "They do have nice bags! I hope you are able to get one!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Me too! They are very pricey, but I've had my eye on the mini rectangle for a long time." }, { "assistant": "They are, but if you save up a little at a time, it won't be that bad!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My son is turning 2 in a few months." }, { "assistant": "Nice! How are you celebrating for him?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We are having a small get together with family and friends and his favorite jumpy place." }, { "assistant": "So cute! Take a lot of photos so he'll be able to see them in the future!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm going to eat sushi for the first time this coming weekend." }, { "assistant": "Yum! Sushi is so good, I'm sure you'll enjoy it! I like the eel roll and spicy tuna roll.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thanks for the recommendations! I'm a bit nervous about it, but I hope I will enjoy it." }, { "assistant": "I'm sure you will! Maybe start with a simple roll like the california roll or ask the waitress for recomendations. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:12399_conv:24798
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Tomorrow might just be scary. Not sure if I should go or not. " }, { "assistant": "Where are you going? I would say if your gut is telling you that it is not good then I would suggest listening to it", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We're going to six flags. I've never ridden a coaster before." }, { "assistant": "Lol. Oh. Coasters are fun. Very exciting!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They seem dangerous to me. Oh well. I might try it. I'll bring an extra pair of undies." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband an I thought we would treat ourself toa nice dinner. I went to take a bite and looked down, thank goodness I did, there was a really nice piece of hair wrapped around my food" }, { "assistant": "A \"really nice\" piece of hair? Yikes. Did you send it back?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I sure did. Told the waiter that I wanted to talk to the manager. When he came out I was real nice about it. Just happy I did not have topay for it" }, { "assistant": "Well good. Hopefully you got your food re-made though. ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am doing so well in school. I amazed myself." }, { "assistant": "That is awesome! What do you go to school for?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm studying psychology and it is so boring I have thought of quitting several times." }, { "assistant": "Well if you are doing so well, I wouldn't quit! Good luck!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm gonna keep going. " }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I found a stray cat and took it home. He was sick and I nursed him back to health." }, { "assistant": "How sweet. How is it now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He;s doing well and he's my buddy for sure." }, { "assistant": "It great that he has a good home then.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I recently lost my job, and am having trouble finding another one. " }, { "assistant": "I feel your pain, that happened to me a few years ago, I ended up having to settle on a job I didn't like just to make ends meet.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Its a scary situation to be in but like you I almost pretty much applying to anything out there! " }, { "assistant": "I hope you find a job, good luck!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Football season is about to start. I used to always watch the opening day games with my dad. I'm halfway across the country now though, and we won't be able to do it in person for a long time. Makes me miss him" }, { "assistant": "Oh dang, that is too bad. Can you guys video call?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Eh, we're not really the type to do that. Especially not him. And it's not worth it. Just a phone call here or there. Just miss the tradition is all. We're big family people" }, { "assistant": "Oh OK, hopefully you have some friends you can bring over and share your traditions.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't know if its weird but I am most comfortable laying in bed watching TV and hanging out from there." }, { "assistant": "I'm right there with you. I've always been a home-body. I don't like going out as much. Sometimes people say millennials and technology have disconnected people too much.. that could be true. But at least we're comfortable doin it.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah for sure, I still like people but not everyday and my fiance is usually enough for me with my animals!" }, { "assistant": "Absolutely. I'm the kind of person that can be around for people a little bit, but get drained by them. I think that's getting more and more common for others. Could you tell me what kind of animals you have real quick!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My 5 year old son is already reading! He picked up on it so fast!" }, { "assistant": "That is awesome, I was an early reader as well! That is a great accomplishment!!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "My daughter was also but I didn't want to put any pressure on him since all kids are so different and it didn't matter. But he astounded me and loves reading and writing. " }, { "assistant": "I hope they both keep the love for reading and writing!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I didn't get the big promotion at work." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! I'm so sorry! Are you able to be up for another one soon?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "There are promotions that come up quite often within my company, so I am hoping for another chance within the month." }, { "assistant": "Oh great! That's sooner than in my company. I know you'll get one. Just keep working hard and good luck!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "SO I dropped my wallet in the train, and when I bent down to pick it up, I accidentally released a loud fart. Worse of it call, there was lady who was sitting and heard it! " }, { "assistant": "It happens to the best of us! I know the lady understands!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I hope so, she pretended not to hear but I know she heard it. It was just so embarrassing and left me red faced! " }, { "assistant": "Maybe you'll never see her again! ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I didn't get a big promotion at work, I worked so hard for it." }, { "assistant": "Sorry to hear that, I know that you probably feel disappointed but there will be other opportunities! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was,but I will try harder next time." }, { "assistant": "Yes, and you will succeed eventually. ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I dont like uncertainty. I like to know what is going to happen." }, { "assistant": "Do you have some uncertainty in you life right now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Im not sure what I want to do career wise." }, { "assistant": "That is really tough. Are you in a career now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, but not in my major." }, { "assistant": "Do you have any opportunity for an internship of some sort? The career advisers from your school may be able to help.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I am done with Uni. Im thinking of going back and getting a different major." }, { "assistant": "I did that myself, and I can tell you it was well worth it. I am much happier now than I ever was. I wish you very good luck on whatever you decide to do!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have been alone for almost 5 years now. " }, { "assistant": "As in living alone or single?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Living alone because my wife passed away. I miss her very much." }, { "assistant": "Oh no. Thats terrible. ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Was walking down the street yesterday and some little twerp ran his skateboard right into me, and he slammed into the back of my knee. It's been throbbing all day and it's swollen. Pretty sure something's messed up. I'm ready for bad news. At least I have insurance now." }, { "assistant": "Oh wow, I'm sorry to hear that! Put your leg up and relax this weekend! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I've been lazing all day. I'm already starting to feel really fat. I want to find that lil chump and ring his neck.. hopefully my insurance covers all I need it to" }, { "assistant": "I hope your insurance does too! Just take care of youself and I hope you feel better soon!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My current employer is having big financials problem. I am afraid that the company will go into bankruptcy." }, { "assistant": "That sounds really frustrating to deal with. You sound like you're self-aware and anticipating the problem, though. Perhaps you've already started preparing to look elsewhere?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I started looking. I have been with this company for so long that I forgot how to write a resume and how to look efficiently for a job." }, { "assistant": "Well, luckily Google is so helpful these days. There's tons of templates out there. It's kind of annoying to deal with, especially because it's being motivated by your company possibly disappearing.. but it won't take long at all to craft a good one, especially because oftentimes the shorter they are, the better", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "First time in a long time I've gotten a haircut that I'm satisfied with. For once my big head doesn't look so big. I actually don't feel too stupid looking!" }, { "assistant": "Nice. Did you find a good hairdresser?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Just some barber who found a way to give me what I like without me being able to say it. That's always been my problem, I have problems describing it, and feel dumb trying to find pictures showing it. I just told him to do what he think would look good.. luckily it worked" }, { "assistant": "That is great.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "my dog is sick we took him into the vet and now we are playing the waiting game" }, { "assistant": "I am sorry to hear that! My dog is a part of the family, so I understand. I hope everything is okay.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yeah it is scary to think we could lose him..." }, { "assistant": "It is scary to think about, I hope for the best!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I loved my previous job." }, { "assistant": "what did you do?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I cared for patients in the emergency room." }, { "assistant": "that is a cool job", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I get to go on vacation with my husband and kids on Monday. I am so excited!" }, { "assistant": "That's great. Where are you going?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We are going to Wisconsin to see my family. We havent seen them since Christmas." }, { "assistant": "Sounds like a great trip. I hope you guys have a fun time.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My daughter is pregnant with her first child. I am optimistic everything will go smoothly." }, { "assistant": "That is exciting. When is she due?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "She is due around Thanksgiving. It will be a great time to give thanks!" }, { "assistant": "Yes it is! Is she having a boy or a girl?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "She's have a girl! I am so excited!" }, { "assistant": "Awww! Congratulations! I hope everything goes smoothly.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Sometimes I feel like I have so much going on that I feel overwhelmed and over ran with anxiety that it makes it hard to stay focused on everything" }, { "assistant": "I totally understand. Life can sometimes seem overwhelming. I have learned to stop, take a deep breath, and do one thing at a time.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That makes sense. I am going to start trying that more" }, { "assistant": "It's just a way to calm the body and the mind. It is SO easy to fall into the trap of anxiety. But falling there doesn't accomplish a thing. Take a breath, focus on one small success, then move to the next. ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friends just recently purchased a brand new, new car smelling, 2019 Honda Civic." }, { "assistant": "Yikes! Bet the car payment is not worth it. lol", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well, for me, I am honestly angry. I look at their success and feel it should be me! " }, { "assistant": "Sometimes jealousy can become us. But most times it does not pay to be that way, cause 9 times out of 10 those kind of people is just living off credit so technically it is not something they own out right", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "You are probably right. I feel like such a terrible friend for feeling that way. Nevertheless, it is a little motivation for me to work that much harder. " }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Just had to tell mom I stole some candies," }, { "assistant": "Woah, hope she doesn't report you! Jk", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I hope so too, but I feel quite guilty regarding it," }, { "assistant": "I see, hope she is able to understand!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My 66-year-old retired dad is having to babysit my brother's kids over the summer, who are under the age of 5. I have to say, he's putting up with it pretty well.\"" }, { "assistant": "He must love his grandkids.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, but he doesn't have a lot of patience.. And he curses a lot!" }, { "assistant": "Ah well, he raised your and your brother so he knows what hes doing.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have hope that I will get into grad school." }, { "assistant": "What are you applying for?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "School Counseling." }, { "assistant": "That sounds interesting, when do you learn if you got in?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I would be a school counselor, so how to deal with issues in school and also development." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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