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My boyfriend is the passive type, more into cuddling than sex. I love him dearly and we have a great emotional bond. In short, he has a low sex drive. I've been told that young guys always want sex, and he used to at the beginning of our relationship (we ended up waiting) but after a lot of arguments I understand his reasons. However, I feel this need for physical validation. His compliments are rarely physical though he is trying. It's very hard for me to not take his LL personally. Like, am I just really ugly? I know his reasons are valid, but I need help for the bad days, like today. Any advice?
Boyfriend has good reasons for his low sex drive, but I keep taking it personally and it's been hurting our relationship. Need advice to feel at ease.
I need help with not taking my boyfriend's low sex drive personally.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is the passive type, more into cuddling than sex. I love him dearly and we have a great emotional bond. In short, he has a low sex drive. I've been told that young guys always want sex, and he used to at the beginning of our relationship (we ended up waiting) but after a lot of arguments I understand his reasons. However, I feel this need for physical validation. His compliments are rarely physical though he is trying. It's very hard for me to not take his LL personally. Like, am I just really ugly? I know his reasons are valid, but I need help for the bad days, like today. Any advice? TL;DR:
Boyfriend has good reasons for his low sex drive, but I keep taking it personally and it's been hurting our relationship. Need advice to feel at ease.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is the passive type, more into cuddling than sex. I love him dearly and we have a great emotional bond. In short, he has a low sex drive. I've been told that young guys always want sex, and he used to at the beginning of our relationship (we ended up waiting) but after a lot of arguments I understand his reasons. However, I feel this need for physical validation. His compliments are rarely physical though he is trying. It's very hard for me to not take his LL personally. Like, am I just really ugly? I know his reasons are valid, but I need help for the bad days, like today. Any advice? TL;DR: Boyfriend has good reasons for his low sex drive, but I keep taking it personally and it's been hurting our relationship. Need advice to feel at ease.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is the passive type, more into cuddling than sex. I love him dearly and we have a great emotional bond. In short, he has a low sex drive. I've been told that young guys always want sex, and he used to at the beginning of our relationship (we ended up waiting) but after a lot of arguments I understand his reasons. However, I feel this need for physical validation. His compliments are rarely physical though he is trying. It's very hard for me to not take his LL personally. Like, am I just really ugly? I know his reasons are valid, but I need help for the bad days, like today. Any advice? TL;DR: I need help with not taking my boyfriend's low sex drive personally.<|endoftext|>
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Today I was looking at my AT&T wireless bill for the first time in a few months and I noticed a $9.99 monthly charge for the following: Horoscopegenie Alert Short Code 27140 ID 35603 Provider Wisemedia US I'm the last person to subscribe to any of these moronic services, much less a horoscope one, but this was under my girlfriend's number on our shared account, and she actually puts some stock into horoscope stuff and of the two of us is definitely the one to point the finger at. Anyway, she's already in one hell of a mood tonight but I asked her about it. She denies ever signing up for it and gets all huffy and defensive despite my attempt to explain that I don't care. Whatever. So I called AT&T customer service and inquire. Apparently the subscription started some time in February. I explain that neither of us subscribed, and **I'm told that these providers can sign people up without their consent by sending a message unsolicited** and if the receiver doesn't reply "Stop" then they keep coming. I express my utter disbelief and ask some more questions to clarify, and the rep insists that yes, the provider can send you an SMS out of the blue signing you up. I demand that the charges be removed (they do so, including the 3rd month that they normally wouldn't) and I inquire how I can put a block on any subscription SMS services going forward. They have a couple of options, one is $5/month and allows all sorts of custom blocking of all sorts of things, and another free option that blocks ALL phone-based purchases (including app store) using a PIN that I'm supposedly prompted for to authorize them. I'm not pleased that they're putting an additional PIN on top of my Apple App Store password, but it seems the only option. So yeah, WTF? Can I really get signed up for subscription SMS services without requesting them in the first place?
AT&T tells me I can be subscribed to short-code SMS services without my consent/initialization by ignoring the initial message. Is this true?
AT&T has some kind of subscription short-code SMS service, I don't know what to do about it since I'm not in the mood for their f$&%ing horoscopes.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Today I was looking at my AT&T wireless bill for the first time in a few months and I noticed a $9.99 monthly charge for the following: Horoscopegenie Alert Short Code 27140 ID 35603 Provider Wisemedia US I'm the last person to subscribe to any of these moronic services, much less a horoscope one, but this was under my girlfriend's number on our shared account, and she actually puts some stock into horoscope stuff and of the two of us is definitely the one to point the finger at. Anyway, she's already in one hell of a mood tonight but I asked her about it. She denies ever signing up for it and gets all huffy and defensive despite my attempt to explain that I don't care. Whatever. So I called AT&T customer service and inquire. Apparently the subscription started some time in February. I explain that neither of us subscribed, and **I'm told that these providers can sign people up without their consent by sending a message unsolicited** and if the receiver doesn't reply "Stop" then they keep coming. I express my utter disbelief and ask some more questions to clarify, and the rep insists that yes, the provider can send you an SMS out of the blue signing you up. I demand that the charges be removed (they do so, including the 3rd month that they normally wouldn't) and I inquire how I can put a block on any subscription SMS services going forward. They have a couple of options, one is $5/month and allows all sorts of custom blocking of all sorts of things, and another free option that blocks ALL phone-based purchases (including app store) using a PIN that I'm supposedly prompted for to authorize them. I'm not pleased that they're putting an additional PIN on top of my Apple App Store password, but it seems the only option. So yeah, WTF? Can I really get signed up for subscription SMS services without requesting them in the first place? TL;DR:
AT&T tells me I can be subscribed to short-code SMS services without my consent/initialization by ignoring the initial message. Is this true?<|endoftext|>
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AT&T has some kind of subscription short-code SMS service, I don't know what to do about it since I'm not in the mood for their f$&%ing horoscopes.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Today I was looking at my AT&T wireless bill for the first time in a few months and I noticed a $9.99 monthly charge for the following: Horoscopegenie Alert Short Code 27140 ID 35603 Provider Wisemedia US I'm the last person to subscribe to any of these moronic services, much less a horoscope one, but this was under my girlfriend's number on our shared account, and she actually puts some stock into horoscope stuff and of the two of us is definitely the one to point the finger at. Anyway, she's already in one hell of a mood tonight but I asked her about it. She denies ever signing up for it and gets all huffy and defensive despite my attempt to explain that I don't care. Whatever. So I called AT&T customer service and inquire. Apparently the subscription started some time in February. I explain that neither of us subscribed, and **I'm told that these providers can sign people up without their consent by sending a message unsolicited** and if the receiver doesn't reply "Stop" then they keep coming. I express my utter disbelief and ask some more questions to clarify, and the rep insists that yes, the provider can send you an SMS out of the blue signing you up. I demand that the charges be removed (they do so, including the 3rd month that they normally wouldn't) and I inquire how I can put a block on any subscription SMS services going forward. They have a couple of options, one is $5/month and allows all sorts of custom blocking of all sorts of things, and another free option that blocks ALL phone-based purchases (including app store) using a PIN that I'm supposedly prompted for to authorize them. I'm not pleased that they're putting an additional PIN on top of my Apple App Store password, but it seems the only option. So yeah, WTF? Can I really get signed up for subscription SMS services without requesting them in the first place? TL;DR: AT&T tells me I can be subscribed to short-code SMS services without my consent/initialization by ignoring the initial message. Is this true?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Today I was looking at my AT&T wireless bill for the first time in a few months and I noticed a $9.99 monthly charge for the following: Horoscopegenie Alert Short Code 27140 ID 35603 Provider Wisemedia US I'm the last person to subscribe to any of these moronic services, much less a horoscope one, but this was under my girlfriend's number on our shared account, and she actually puts some stock into horoscope stuff and of the two of us is definitely the one to point the finger at. Anyway, she's already in one hell of a mood tonight but I asked her about it. She denies ever signing up for it and gets all huffy and defensive despite my attempt to explain that I don't care. Whatever. So I called AT&T customer service and inquire. Apparently the subscription started some time in February. I explain that neither of us subscribed, and **I'm told that these providers can sign people up without their consent by sending a message unsolicited** and if the receiver doesn't reply "Stop" then they keep coming. I express my utter disbelief and ask some more questions to clarify, and the rep insists that yes, the provider can send you an SMS out of the blue signing you up. I demand that the charges be removed (they do so, including the 3rd month that they normally wouldn't) and I inquire how I can put a block on any subscription SMS services going forward. They have a couple of options, one is $5/month and allows all sorts of custom blocking of all sorts of things, and another free option that blocks ALL phone-based purchases (including app store) using a PIN that I'm supposedly prompted for to authorize them. I'm not pleased that they're putting an additional PIN on top of my Apple App Store password, but it seems the only option. So yeah, WTF? Can I really get signed up for subscription SMS services without requesting them in the first place? TL;DR: AT&T has some kind of subscription short-code SMS service, I don't know what to do about it since I'm not in the mood for their f$&%ing horoscopes.<|endoftext|>
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Ok so I'm a young male and live with my family. I'll be going to college in the fall, my life was going on pretty smooth. But now my older sister got pregnant. She won't get an abortion (parents are Catholic but I'm atheist) The guy is a low-life person, and I don't know if they'll get married or what will happen. But my dad always argued and yelled at my sister because my sis and the guy went behind his back many times. Like one time, my sis. took the car to school but ditched with him and she somehow messed up the car and it cost alot to repair it. Fast forward some years my parents think she isn't seeing this guy but she is. So today my father found out she was pregnant , the thing is that he had to find out himself. Here is some info about my sis.: She was somewhat rebellious, she got accepted to an okay college but stopped going and my dad found out she stopped attending. She is currently going to a community college to get a certificate. She is also working part time. But she made my parents believe she was going to work, but IDK where she went and this happened today. Also so far I am unsure how far she is into the pregnancy. But it seems about 3 or more months. I am a good son (don't get into trouble, smart student (magnet HS), accepted to a tier 1 univ. with a good scholarship (almost all of it). Can someone tell me what is going to happen??? Also my family is poor and CANNOT afford another mouth.. Also my mom is out of work for about 2 moths due to an injury. I am scared shitless about how this can potentially mess up my plans.
Sister is pregnant, parents think she is cheating on my father, I am scared shitless.
Mom is pregnant, Dad found out, wondering what will happen.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok so I'm a young male and live with my family. I'll be going to college in the fall, my life was going on pretty smooth. But now my older sister got pregnant. She won't get an abortion (parents are Catholic but I'm atheist) The guy is a low-life person, and I don't know if they'll get married or what will happen. But my dad always argued and yelled at my sister because my sis and the guy went behind his back many times. Like one time, my sis. took the car to school but ditched with him and she somehow messed up the car and it cost alot to repair it. Fast forward some years my parents think she isn't seeing this guy but she is. So today my father found out she was pregnant, the thing is that he had to find out himself. Here is some info about my sis.: She was somewhat rebellious, she got accepted to an okay college but stopped going and my dad found out she stopped attending. She is currently going to a community college to get a certificate. She is also working part time. But she made my parents believe she was going to work, but IDK where she went and this happened today. Also so far I am unsure how far she is into the pregnancy. But it seems about 3 or more months. I am a good son (don't get into trouble, smart student (magnet HS), accepted to a tier 1 univ. with a good scholarship (almost all of it). Can someone tell me what is going to happen??? Also my family is poor and CANNOT afford another mouth.. Also my mom is out of work for about 2 moths due to an injury. I am scared shitless about how this can potentially mess up my plans. TL;DR:
Sister is pregnant, parents think she is cheating on my father, I am scared shitless.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok so I'm a young male and live with my family. I'll be going to college in the fall, my life was going on pretty smooth. But now my older sister got pregnant. She won't get an abortion (parents are Catholic but I'm atheist) The guy is a low-life person, and I don't know if they'll get married or what will happen. But my dad always argued and yelled at my sister because my sis and the guy went behind his back many times. Like one time, my sis. took the car to school but ditched with him and she somehow messed up the car and it cost alot to repair it. Fast forward some years my parents think she isn't seeing this guy but she is. So today my father found out she was pregnant, the thing is that he had to find out himself. Here is some info about my sis.: She was somewhat rebellious, she got accepted to an okay college but stopped going and my dad found out she stopped attending. She is currently going to a community college to get a certificate. She is also working part time. But she made my parents believe she was going to work, but IDK where she went and this happened today. Also so far I am unsure how far she is into the pregnancy. But it seems about 3 or more months. I am a good son (don't get into trouble, smart student (magnet HS), accepted to a tier 1 univ. with a good scholarship (almost all of it). Can someone tell me what is going to happen??? Also my family is poor and CANNOT afford another mouth.. Also my mom is out of work for about 2 moths due to an injury. I am scared shitless about how this can potentially mess up my plans. TL;DR: Sister is pregnant, parents think she is cheating on my father, I am scared shitless.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok so I'm a young male and live with my family. I'll be going to college in the fall, my life was going on pretty smooth. But now my older sister got pregnant. She won't get an abortion (parents are Catholic but I'm atheist) The guy is a low-life person, and I don't know if they'll get married or what will happen. But my dad always argued and yelled at my sister because my sis and the guy went behind his back many times. Like one time, my sis. took the car to school but ditched with him and she somehow messed up the car and it cost alot to repair it. Fast forward some years my parents think she isn't seeing this guy but she is. So today my father found out she was pregnant, the thing is that he had to find out himself. Here is some info about my sis.: She was somewhat rebellious, she got accepted to an okay college but stopped going and my dad found out she stopped attending. She is currently going to a community college to get a certificate. She is also working part time. But she made my parents believe she was going to work, but IDK where she went and this happened today. Also so far I am unsure how far she is into the pregnancy. But it seems about 3 or more months. I am a good son (don't get into trouble, smart student (magnet HS), accepted to a tier 1 univ. with a good scholarship (almost all of it). Can someone tell me what is going to happen??? Also my family is poor and CANNOT afford another mouth.. Also my mom is out of work for about 2 moths due to an injury. I am scared shitless about how this can potentially mess up my plans. TL;DR: Mom is pregnant, Dad found out, wondering what will happen.<|endoftext|>
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I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. By seeing each other I mean, we hang out, go on dates, we are affectionate, i've met his friends, and we have sex. We do all the normal thing that people in a relationship do; But, for some unknown reason he won't make it official (boyfriend/girlfriend). I have brought this up twice to him thinking he would pick up on me wanting to be able to actually call him my boyfriend, as childish as that may sound, but both times he just kinda tells me it's not going to change anything so what's the big deal. I mean it's not just about being able to call him my boyfriend it's also about feeling like its finally okay to have deeper feelings for him without being "clingy". (if that makes sense) so basically my question is, how do I get this fella to get what I'm saying and make it official. Or do you think I am holding my breath for nothing. Because honestly this is the longest I've seen a guy without us being in a relationship..
I've been seeing a guy for 4 months and he won't call it official. How do I get him to?
how do I get my guy to actually make it official, or not?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. By seeing each other I mean, we hang out, go on dates, we are affectionate, i've met his friends, and we have sex. We do all the normal thing that people in a relationship do; But, for some unknown reason he won't make it official (boyfriend/girlfriend). I have brought this up twice to him thinking he would pick up on me wanting to be able to actually call him my boyfriend, as childish as that may sound, but both times he just kinda tells me it's not going to change anything so what's the big deal. I mean it's not just about being able to call him my boyfriend it's also about feeling like its finally okay to have deeper feelings for him without being "clingy". (if that makes sense) so basically my question is, how do I get this fella to get what I'm saying and make it official. Or do you think I am holding my breath for nothing. Because honestly this is the longest I've seen a guy without us being in a relationship.. TL;DR:
I've been seeing a guy for 4 months and he won't call it official. How do I get him to?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. By seeing each other I mean, we hang out, go on dates, we are affectionate, i've met his friends, and we have sex. We do all the normal thing that people in a relationship do; But, for some unknown reason he won't make it official (boyfriend/girlfriend). I have brought this up twice to him thinking he would pick up on me wanting to be able to actually call him my boyfriend, as childish as that may sound, but both times he just kinda tells me it's not going to change anything so what's the big deal. I mean it's not just about being able to call him my boyfriend it's also about feeling like its finally okay to have deeper feelings for him without being "clingy". (if that makes sense) so basically my question is, how do I get this fella to get what I'm saying and make it official. Or do you think I am holding my breath for nothing. Because honestly this is the longest I've seen a guy without us being in a relationship.. TL;DR: I've been seeing a guy for 4 months and he won't call it official. How do I get him to?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. By seeing each other I mean, we hang out, go on dates, we are affectionate, i've met his friends, and we have sex. We do all the normal thing that people in a relationship do; But, for some unknown reason he won't make it official (boyfriend/girlfriend). I have brought this up twice to him thinking he would pick up on me wanting to be able to actually call him my boyfriend, as childish as that may sound, but both times he just kinda tells me it's not going to change anything so what's the big deal. I mean it's not just about being able to call him my boyfriend it's also about feeling like its finally okay to have deeper feelings for him without being "clingy". (if that makes sense) so basically my question is, how do I get this fella to get what I'm saying and make it official. Or do you think I am holding my breath for nothing. Because honestly this is the longest I've seen a guy without us being in a relationship.. TL;DR: how do I get my guy to actually make it official, or not?<|endoftext|>
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To make a long story short i have recently ended things with my gf of 4 years. its been just over a month apart and my only regret was not doing it sooner. it has been a long time coming and no matter what i did i just could not be happy and was mentally checked out of that relationship for a year, maybe even more. i started a new job recently and met this girl there. she knew when i started that i had a gf and would only talk to me at work for a couple of minutes a day. she never flirted with me but our conversations began to increase over time and it is clear that there is a connection. this co worker knew how long me and my ex were going out and knows that i was never fully committed to my ex and now she has started talking and texting a lot more. she is now talking much more and openly flirting with me and i definitely want to ask this girl out. the problem i am having is that she knows i was in this relationship for 4 years and she knows that i have only been out of it for a little over a month. i really do want to ask her out on a date, but i dont know when a good time would be. i dont want her to think that she is just a rebound and i also dont want her to think that i am an asshole that gets over someone that quickly, but she has been initiating texts during and after work for the past 2 weeks now and i dont want her to think i am not interested. it seems almost too obvious that she wants me to ask her out. i am just having trouble with timing, especially with valentines day right around the corner. should i ask her out before valentines day, ask her out for valentines day, or wait even longer like june or july to not give her the wrong impression. thank you for your help in advance! also i am fully aware of the risks about dating a coworker and am more than willing to take them for a chance of going on a date with her.
just broke up with gf and want to ask out a coworker, but not sure when and dont want to give wrong impression.
recently broke up with gf of 4 years and want to ask someone out, but not sure when and how to ask out/do it correctly
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To make a long story short i have recently ended things with my gf of 4 years. its been just over a month apart and my only regret was not doing it sooner. it has been a long time coming and no matter what i did i just could not be happy and was mentally checked out of that relationship for a year, maybe even more. i started a new job recently and met this girl there. she knew when i started that i had a gf and would only talk to me at work for a couple of minutes a day. she never flirted with me but our conversations began to increase over time and it is clear that there is a connection. this co worker knew how long me and my ex were going out and knows that i was never fully committed to my ex and now she has started talking and texting a lot more. she is now talking much more and openly flirting with me and i definitely want to ask this girl out. the problem i am having is that she knows i was in this relationship for 4 years and she knows that i have only been out of it for a little over a month. i really do want to ask her out on a date, but i dont know when a good time would be. i dont want her to think that she is just a rebound and i also dont want her to think that i am an asshole that gets over someone that quickly, but she has been initiating texts during and after work for the past 2 weeks now and i dont want her to think i am not interested. it seems almost too obvious that she wants me to ask her out. i am just having trouble with timing, especially with valentines day right around the corner. should i ask her out before valentines day, ask her out for valentines day, or wait even longer like june or july to not give her the wrong impression. thank you for your help in advance! also i am fully aware of the risks about dating a coworker and am more than willing to take them for a chance of going on a date with her. TL;DR:
just broke up with gf and want to ask out a coworker, but not sure when and dont want to give wrong impression.<|endoftext|>
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recently broke up with gf of 4 years and want to ask someone out, but not sure when and how to ask out/do it correctly<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To make a long story short i have recently ended things with my gf of 4 years. its been just over a month apart and my only regret was not doing it sooner. it has been a long time coming and no matter what i did i just could not be happy and was mentally checked out of that relationship for a year, maybe even more. i started a new job recently and met this girl there. she knew when i started that i had a gf and would only talk to me at work for a couple of minutes a day. she never flirted with me but our conversations began to increase over time and it is clear that there is a connection. this co worker knew how long me and my ex were going out and knows that i was never fully committed to my ex and now she has started talking and texting a lot more. she is now talking much more and openly flirting with me and i definitely want to ask this girl out. the problem i am having is that she knows i was in this relationship for 4 years and she knows that i have only been out of it for a little over a month. i really do want to ask her out on a date, but i dont know when a good time would be. i dont want her to think that she is just a rebound and i also dont want her to think that i am an asshole that gets over someone that quickly, but she has been initiating texts during and after work for the past 2 weeks now and i dont want her to think i am not interested. it seems almost too obvious that she wants me to ask her out. i am just having trouble with timing, especially with valentines day right around the corner. should i ask her out before valentines day, ask her out for valentines day, or wait even longer like june or july to not give her the wrong impression. thank you for your help in advance! also i am fully aware of the risks about dating a coworker and am more than willing to take them for a chance of going on a date with her. TL;DR: just broke up with gf and want to ask out a coworker, but not sure when and dont want to give wrong impression.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To make a long story short i have recently ended things with my gf of 4 years. its been just over a month apart and my only regret was not doing it sooner. it has been a long time coming and no matter what i did i just could not be happy and was mentally checked out of that relationship for a year, maybe even more. i started a new job recently and met this girl there. she knew when i started that i had a gf and would only talk to me at work for a couple of minutes a day. she never flirted with me but our conversations began to increase over time and it is clear that there is a connection. this co worker knew how long me and my ex were going out and knows that i was never fully committed to my ex and now she has started talking and texting a lot more. she is now talking much more and openly flirting with me and i definitely want to ask this girl out. the problem i am having is that she knows i was in this relationship for 4 years and she knows that i have only been out of it for a little over a month. i really do want to ask her out on a date, but i dont know when a good time would be. i dont want her to think that she is just a rebound and i also dont want her to think that i am an asshole that gets over someone that quickly, but she has been initiating texts during and after work for the past 2 weeks now and i dont want her to think i am not interested. it seems almost too obvious that she wants me to ask her out. i am just having trouble with timing, especially with valentines day right around the corner. should i ask her out before valentines day, ask her out for valentines day, or wait even longer like june or july to not give her the wrong impression. thank you for your help in advance! also i am fully aware of the risks about dating a coworker and am more than willing to take them for a chance of going on a date with her. TL;DR: recently broke up with gf of 4 years and want to ask someone out, but not sure when and how to ask out/do it correctly<|endoftext|>
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Hey /r/Askwomenadvice! I am going out to sea for two months and am looking to discuss ideas about a potential interactive countdown. This relationship is a year and 7 months old. Last year I hand wrote 60 letters that had a positivity quote at the end of each letter. They were all envelop sealed and dangled by fishing line from a pool noodle for her to open, one per day. As the time has come again, I am looking for some insight on potential things to do that might be fun for her while I am away. She is a deserving, honest SO that deserves the world.. Can you help a guy out?!
Looking for ideas for a possible interactive countdown for a long time girlfriend. I am looking for idea for a good play to do while I am away.
I am going to be away from my SO for two months, trying to create a mixing pot of ideas on a countdown that I could give her.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey /r/Askwomenadvice! I am going out to sea for two months and am looking to discuss ideas about a potential interactive countdown. This relationship is a year and 7 months old. Last year I hand wrote 60 letters that had a positivity quote at the end of each letter. They were all envelop sealed and dangled by fishing line from a pool noodle for her to open, one per day. As the time has come again, I am looking for some insight on potential things to do that might be fun for her while I am away. She is a deserving, honest SO that deserves the world.. Can you help a guy out?! TL;DR:
Looking for ideas for a possible interactive countdown for a long time girlfriend. I am looking for idea for a good play to do while I am away.<|endoftext|>
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I am going to be away from my SO for two months, trying to create a mixing pot of ideas on a countdown that I could give her.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey /r/Askwomenadvice! I am going out to sea for two months and am looking to discuss ideas about a potential interactive countdown. This relationship is a year and 7 months old. Last year I hand wrote 60 letters that had a positivity quote at the end of each letter. They were all envelop sealed and dangled by fishing line from a pool noodle for her to open, one per day. As the time has come again, I am looking for some insight on potential things to do that might be fun for her while I am away. She is a deserving, honest SO that deserves the world.. Can you help a guy out?! TL;DR: Looking for ideas for a possible interactive countdown for a long time girlfriend. I am looking for idea for a good play to do while I am away.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey /r/Askwomenadvice! I am going out to sea for two months and am looking to discuss ideas about a potential interactive countdown. This relationship is a year and 7 months old. Last year I hand wrote 60 letters that had a positivity quote at the end of each letter. They were all envelop sealed and dangled by fishing line from a pool noodle for her to open, one per day. As the time has come again, I am looking for some insight on potential things to do that might be fun for her while I am away. She is a deserving, honest SO that deserves the world.. Can you help a guy out?! TL;DR: I am going to be away from my SO for two months, trying to create a mixing pot of ideas on a countdown that I could give her.<|endoftext|>
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I have a 5 month old male puppy. He likes to bark. He's pitbull mix and he already has one of the loudest barks I've heard in my life. My other dog never barks, so I'm not sure how to deal with it. Sometimes I can interrupt him (I'm working on conditioning a positive interrupter) but sometimes not. The two main situations that I see as frustrating are: - when I leave him in the car (in a cage, with a water bowl, all car doors open, me in sight) and he sits there watching me train my other dog, he barks constantly. He turns into a monotonous, one-bark-a-second barking machine. He only does this if I'm working with the other dog, if they're both in the car he's quiet. So far I've "handled" this by ignoring him, and throwing him treats and giving him attention when he's quiet, but it doesn't seem to be working and it's getting seriously frustrating. I've teached him to be passive when I work with Lady in the house (he will lay on his bed and watch) but it doesn't work when whe're anywhere else but at home. - When he's aroused for some reason. If we are somewhere where there are other dogs (in puppy class for example) he will just verbalize his exitement. Half of the time he's not even barking at the other dogs, he can sit with eye contact but still keep barking. Or he can heel with eye contact but still keep barking. Like how the hell do I interrupt that? I thought of teaching him to speak on cue, since that would enable me to teach him to be quiet on cue. But I'm afraid he will start barking for attention and just bark all the time. Does anyone have experience with this?
Barky dog barks a lot. Is barking too self-reinforcing to get rid off by putting it on cue?
My dog barks all the time in a car with me in it, should I teach him to be quiet and be on cue?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a 5 month old male puppy. He likes to bark. He's pitbull mix and he already has one of the loudest barks I've heard in my life. My other dog never barks, so I'm not sure how to deal with it. Sometimes I can interrupt him (I'm working on conditioning a positive interrupter) but sometimes not. The two main situations that I see as frustrating are: - when I leave him in the car (in a cage, with a water bowl, all car doors open, me in sight) and he sits there watching me train my other dog, he barks constantly. He turns into a monotonous, one-bark-a-second barking machine. He only does this if I'm working with the other dog, if they're both in the car he's quiet. So far I've "handled" this by ignoring him, and throwing him treats and giving him attention when he's quiet, but it doesn't seem to be working and it's getting seriously frustrating. I've teached him to be passive when I work with Lady in the house (he will lay on his bed and watch) but it doesn't work when whe're anywhere else but at home. - When he's aroused for some reason. If we are somewhere where there are other dogs (in puppy class for example) he will just verbalize his exitement. Half of the time he's not even barking at the other dogs, he can sit with eye contact but still keep barking. Or he can heel with eye contact but still keep barking. Like how the hell do I interrupt that? I thought of teaching him to speak on cue, since that would enable me to teach him to be quiet on cue. But I'm afraid he will start barking for attention and just bark all the time. Does anyone have experience with this? TL;DR:
Barky dog barks a lot. Is barking too self-reinforcing to get rid off by putting it on cue?<|endoftext|>
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My dog barks all the time in a car with me in it, should I teach him to be quiet and be on cue?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a 5 month old male puppy. He likes to bark. He's pitbull mix and he already has one of the loudest barks I've heard in my life. My other dog never barks, so I'm not sure how to deal with it. Sometimes I can interrupt him (I'm working on conditioning a positive interrupter) but sometimes not. The two main situations that I see as frustrating are: - when I leave him in the car (in a cage, with a water bowl, all car doors open, me in sight) and he sits there watching me train my other dog, he barks constantly. He turns into a monotonous, one-bark-a-second barking machine. He only does this if I'm working with the other dog, if they're both in the car he's quiet. So far I've "handled" this by ignoring him, and throwing him treats and giving him attention when he's quiet, but it doesn't seem to be working and it's getting seriously frustrating. I've teached him to be passive when I work with Lady in the house (he will lay on his bed and watch) but it doesn't work when whe're anywhere else but at home. - When he's aroused for some reason. If we are somewhere where there are other dogs (in puppy class for example) he will just verbalize his exitement. Half of the time he's not even barking at the other dogs, he can sit with eye contact but still keep barking. Or he can heel with eye contact but still keep barking. Like how the hell do I interrupt that? I thought of teaching him to speak on cue, since that would enable me to teach him to be quiet on cue. But I'm afraid he will start barking for attention and just bark all the time. Does anyone have experience with this? TL;DR: Barky dog barks a lot. Is barking too self-reinforcing to get rid off by putting it on cue?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a 5 month old male puppy. He likes to bark. He's pitbull mix and he already has one of the loudest barks I've heard in my life. My other dog never barks, so I'm not sure how to deal with it. Sometimes I can interrupt him (I'm working on conditioning a positive interrupter) but sometimes not. The two main situations that I see as frustrating are: - when I leave him in the car (in a cage, with a water bowl, all car doors open, me in sight) and he sits there watching me train my other dog, he barks constantly. He turns into a monotonous, one-bark-a-second barking machine. He only does this if I'm working with the other dog, if they're both in the car he's quiet. So far I've "handled" this by ignoring him, and throwing him treats and giving him attention when he's quiet, but it doesn't seem to be working and it's getting seriously frustrating. I've teached him to be passive when I work with Lady in the house (he will lay on his bed and watch) but it doesn't work when whe're anywhere else but at home. - When he's aroused for some reason. If we are somewhere where there are other dogs (in puppy class for example) he will just verbalize his exitement. Half of the time he's not even barking at the other dogs, he can sit with eye contact but still keep barking. Or he can heel with eye contact but still keep barking. Like how the hell do I interrupt that? I thought of teaching him to speak on cue, since that would enable me to teach him to be quiet on cue. But I'm afraid he will start barking for attention and just bark all the time. Does anyone have experience with this? TL;DR: My dog barks all the time in a car with me in it, should I teach him to be quiet and be on cue?<|endoftext|>
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My GF and I have been together, on and off, for around 3 years. We've had some significant breakups during that time, but always got together again. She's always been clear that she's past the point of wanting to have children, and up until now I've always been perfectly happy with remaining child-free. I've never been particularly bothered about the idea of having kids and I've always reassured her that her and her two cats were enough for me. Recently, though, a lot of friends around my age, and a couple of cousins, too, have started families. The more I go and visit these people and their newborns, and the more I've started to really look at how it affects them and changes their attitude to the world, the more I find myself thinking that I actually would quite like to be a dad. In fact I'd very much like to be a dad. A couple of weeks ago a mutual friend of ours gave birth to her first child, and my GF burst into tears at the news — partly out of happiness (she cries when very happy) and partly because she knows that she's not going to be in a place to have kids (her words, not mine). She's about to start an art school course — following her dream to become an artist — and has no intention of starting a family, ever. At the time I wasn't really sure how I felt about the whole thing, so I reassured her that I loved her and that it didn't matter. But now I'm realising that it does, and I don't know how to address it with her. Bonus complication: she's just moved home and obviously that's been stressful. I partly want to just keep this to myself but I know she'll be able to tell that it's bothering me. We don't do well when we keep things from each other. I'll be seeing her tonight and this is eating away at me. Do I address this now, or do I keep it under my hat for the time being?
GF of 3y is considering having kids, I'd like to be a dad. What do.
My GF has no intention of having kids and when I told her I was thinking of being a dad, she was crying and the thought of her having to deal with the birth of her first child ate away at me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My GF and I have been together, on and off, for around 3 years. We've had some significant breakups during that time, but always got together again. She's always been clear that she's past the point of wanting to have children, and up until now I've always been perfectly happy with remaining child-free. I've never been particularly bothered about the idea of having kids and I've always reassured her that her and her two cats were enough for me. Recently, though, a lot of friends around my age, and a couple of cousins, too, have started families. The more I go and visit these people and their newborns, and the more I've started to really look at how it affects them and changes their attitude to the world, the more I find myself thinking that I actually would quite like to be a dad. In fact I'd very much like to be a dad. A couple of weeks ago a mutual friend of ours gave birth to her first child, and my GF burst into tears at the news — partly out of happiness (she cries when very happy) and partly because she knows that she's not going to be in a place to have kids (her words, not mine). She's about to start an art school course — following her dream to become an artist — and has no intention of starting a family, ever. At the time I wasn't really sure how I felt about the whole thing, so I reassured her that I loved her and that it didn't matter. But now I'm realising that it does, and I don't know how to address it with her. Bonus complication: she's just moved home and obviously that's been stressful. I partly want to just keep this to myself but I know she'll be able to tell that it's bothering me. We don't do well when we keep things from each other. I'll be seeing her tonight and this is eating away at me. Do I address this now, or do I keep it under my hat for the time being? TL;DR:
GF of 3y is considering having kids, I'd like to be a dad. What do.<|endoftext|>
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My GF has no intention of having kids and when I told her I was thinking of being a dad, she was crying and the thought of her having to deal with the birth of her first child ate away at me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My GF and I have been together, on and off, for around 3 years. We've had some significant breakups during that time, but always got together again. She's always been clear that she's past the point of wanting to have children, and up until now I've always been perfectly happy with remaining child-free. I've never been particularly bothered about the idea of having kids and I've always reassured her that her and her two cats were enough for me. Recently, though, a lot of friends around my age, and a couple of cousins, too, have started families. The more I go and visit these people and their newborns, and the more I've started to really look at how it affects them and changes their attitude to the world, the more I find myself thinking that I actually would quite like to be a dad. In fact I'd very much like to be a dad. A couple of weeks ago a mutual friend of ours gave birth to her first child, and my GF burst into tears at the news — partly out of happiness (she cries when very happy) and partly because she knows that she's not going to be in a place to have kids (her words, not mine). She's about to start an art school course — following her dream to become an artist — and has no intention of starting a family, ever. At the time I wasn't really sure how I felt about the whole thing, so I reassured her that I loved her and that it didn't matter. But now I'm realising that it does, and I don't know how to address it with her. Bonus complication: she's just moved home and obviously that's been stressful. I partly want to just keep this to myself but I know she'll be able to tell that it's bothering me. We don't do well when we keep things from each other. I'll be seeing her tonight and this is eating away at me. Do I address this now, or do I keep it under my hat for the time being? TL;DR: GF of 3y is considering having kids, I'd like to be a dad. What do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My GF and I have been together, on and off, for around 3 years. We've had some significant breakups during that time, but always got together again. She's always been clear that she's past the point of wanting to have children, and up until now I've always been perfectly happy with remaining child-free. I've never been particularly bothered about the idea of having kids and I've always reassured her that her and her two cats were enough for me. Recently, though, a lot of friends around my age, and a couple of cousins, too, have started families. The more I go and visit these people and their newborns, and the more I've started to really look at how it affects them and changes their attitude to the world, the more I find myself thinking that I actually would quite like to be a dad. In fact I'd very much like to be a dad. A couple of weeks ago a mutual friend of ours gave birth to her first child, and my GF burst into tears at the news — partly out of happiness (she cries when very happy) and partly because she knows that she's not going to be in a place to have kids (her words, not mine). She's about to start an art school course — following her dream to become an artist — and has no intention of starting a family, ever. At the time I wasn't really sure how I felt about the whole thing, so I reassured her that I loved her and that it didn't matter. But now I'm realising that it does, and I don't know how to address it with her. Bonus complication: she's just moved home and obviously that's been stressful. I partly want to just keep this to myself but I know she'll be able to tell that it's bothering me. We don't do well when we keep things from each other. I'll be seeing her tonight and this is eating away at me. Do I address this now, or do I keep it under my hat for the time being? TL;DR: My GF has no intention of having kids and when I told her I was thinking of being a dad, she was crying and the thought of her having to deal with the birth of her first child ate away at me.<|endoftext|>
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So this morning on my way to school taking a shortcut through a neighborhood where the roads had not been salted what so ever, and it it was pretty icy out, I was driving as slowly and carefully as I could. Turning the corner the car start slipping and went right in to a ditch. I would have been just fine with this, but this ditch just so happened to have a line of freaking boulders in it and almost destroyed my car's engine, the front right tire about to pop off and axle/bumper damage. So because the people who live there put those rocks there's am I able to sue them for the damages? I remember something about even if someone is trespassing you still have to protect them from man made disasters.
I was driving down a neighborhood street and the car went into a ditch and the car's engine got smashed. Can I sue the people who put the boulders there?
Took a wrong turn, car got stuck in a ditch by a line of boulders. Am i able to sue the people who put those boulders there?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this morning on my way to school taking a shortcut through a neighborhood where the roads had not been salted what so ever, and it it was pretty icy out, I was driving as slowly and carefully as I could. Turning the corner the car start slipping and went right in to a ditch. I would have been just fine with this, but this ditch just so happened to have a line of freaking boulders in it and almost destroyed my car's engine, the front right tire about to pop off and axle/bumper damage. So because the people who live there put those rocks there's am I able to sue them for the damages? I remember something about even if someone is trespassing you still have to protect them from man made disasters. TL;DR:
I was driving down a neighborhood street and the car went into a ditch and the car's engine got smashed. Can I sue the people who put the boulders there?<|endoftext|>
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Took a wrong turn, car got stuck in a ditch by a line of boulders. Am i able to sue the people who put those boulders there?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this morning on my way to school taking a shortcut through a neighborhood where the roads had not been salted what so ever, and it it was pretty icy out, I was driving as slowly and carefully as I could. Turning the corner the car start slipping and went right in to a ditch. I would have been just fine with this, but this ditch just so happened to have a line of freaking boulders in it and almost destroyed my car's engine, the front right tire about to pop off and axle/bumper damage. So because the people who live there put those rocks there's am I able to sue them for the damages? I remember something about even if someone is trespassing you still have to protect them from man made disasters. TL;DR: I was driving down a neighborhood street and the car went into a ditch and the car's engine got smashed. Can I sue the people who put the boulders there?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this morning on my way to school taking a shortcut through a neighborhood where the roads had not been salted what so ever, and it it was pretty icy out, I was driving as slowly and carefully as I could. Turning the corner the car start slipping and went right in to a ditch. I would have been just fine with this, but this ditch just so happened to have a line of freaking boulders in it and almost destroyed my car's engine, the front right tire about to pop off and axle/bumper damage. So because the people who live there put those rocks there's am I able to sue them for the damages? I remember something about even if someone is trespassing you still have to protect them from man made disasters. TL;DR: Took a wrong turn, car got stuck in a ditch by a line of boulders. Am i able to sue the people who put those boulders there?<|endoftext|>
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Please read the entire description. I would like to join the dating pool, but I know I can't ignore school or, in the summer, work. Everything associated w/ dating seems to be designed to kill romance before it even starts. Some examples- not knowing if someone you'd like to date is already seeing another person; asking someone out without sounding creepy; how soon is too soon to let the other person know [more] intimate details about myself [other] issues that might be contributing to this situation: Depression- One bad time can make me feel horrible for the rest of the day Anxiety- I can , and have, magnify the consequences of everyday mistakes to unrealistic levels Asperger's Syndrome/ Autism Spectrum Disorder- I always pay close attention to details [i.e. CNN's not an acronym b/c acronyms can be pronounced as words]. Many every day things didn't come naturally to me. While I recognize that emotions are part of being a healthy person, I usually like to keep them at arm's length b/c I likely will continue to experience them more intensely than someone who's not on the Autistic Spectrum. On a related note I tend to think by focusing on logically- the facts come first when I make decisions. Lastly, I commonly feel a little detached from my surroundings.
I'm 22 [m], I have Asperger's Syndrome and I want to date, but I don't think I can.
I'm 22, am a male, from the UK, and I've never been on a date. I need advice on how to proceed.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Please read the entire description. I would like to join the dating pool, but I know I can't ignore school or, in the summer, work. Everything associated w/ dating seems to be designed to kill romance before it even starts. Some examples- not knowing if someone you'd like to date is already seeing another person; asking someone out without sounding creepy; how soon is too soon to let the other person know [more] intimate details about myself [other] issues that might be contributing to this situation: Depression- One bad time can make me feel horrible for the rest of the day Anxiety- I can, and have, magnify the consequences of everyday mistakes to unrealistic levels Asperger's Syndrome/ Autism Spectrum Disorder- I always pay close attention to details [i.e. CNN's not an acronym b/c acronyms can be pronounced as words]. Many every day things didn't come naturally to me. While I recognize that emotions are part of being a healthy person, I usually like to keep them at arm's length b/c I likely will continue to experience them more intensely than someone who's not on the Autistic Spectrum. On a related note I tend to think by focusing on logically- the facts come first when I make decisions. Lastly, I commonly feel a little detached from my surroundings. TL;DR:
I'm 22 [m], I have Asperger's Syndrome and I want to date, but I don't think I can.<|endoftext|>
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I'm 22, am a male, from the UK, and I've never been on a date. I need advice on how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Please read the entire description. I would like to join the dating pool, but I know I can't ignore school or, in the summer, work. Everything associated w/ dating seems to be designed to kill romance before it even starts. Some examples- not knowing if someone you'd like to date is already seeing another person; asking someone out without sounding creepy; how soon is too soon to let the other person know [more] intimate details about myself [other] issues that might be contributing to this situation: Depression- One bad time can make me feel horrible for the rest of the day Anxiety- I can, and have, magnify the consequences of everyday mistakes to unrealistic levels Asperger's Syndrome/ Autism Spectrum Disorder- I always pay close attention to details [i.e. CNN's not an acronym b/c acronyms can be pronounced as words]. Many every day things didn't come naturally to me. While I recognize that emotions are part of being a healthy person, I usually like to keep them at arm's length b/c I likely will continue to experience them more intensely than someone who's not on the Autistic Spectrum. On a related note I tend to think by focusing on logically- the facts come first when I make decisions. Lastly, I commonly feel a little detached from my surroundings. TL;DR: I'm 22 [m], I have Asperger's Syndrome and I want to date, but I don't think I can.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Please read the entire description. I would like to join the dating pool, but I know I can't ignore school or, in the summer, work. Everything associated w/ dating seems to be designed to kill romance before it even starts. Some examples- not knowing if someone you'd like to date is already seeing another person; asking someone out without sounding creepy; how soon is too soon to let the other person know [more] intimate details about myself [other] issues that might be contributing to this situation: Depression- One bad time can make me feel horrible for the rest of the day Anxiety- I can, and have, magnify the consequences of everyday mistakes to unrealistic levels Asperger's Syndrome/ Autism Spectrum Disorder- I always pay close attention to details [i.e. CNN's not an acronym b/c acronyms can be pronounced as words]. Many every day things didn't come naturally to me. While I recognize that emotions are part of being a healthy person, I usually like to keep them at arm's length b/c I likely will continue to experience them more intensely than someone who's not on the Autistic Spectrum. On a related note I tend to think by focusing on logically- the facts come first when I make decisions. Lastly, I commonly feel a little detached from my surroundings. TL;DR: I'm 22, am a male, from the UK, and I've never been on a date. I need advice on how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
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I've been dating my GF for about 2 months now. Before we were in a relationship it was a great time all around, we had lots of fun and went out together at least twice a week. She's a very busy person with schooling, volunteers, work and friends but we were getting along great. I have been in the dating pool for a few months now and have dated lots of people, none have ever clicked as well as this girl and I did. On our 8th date I asked her if she'd like to be exclusive, she said she did, we both seemed to really like eachother and that made me pretty stoked. Well, since then we've seen each other twice for like a grand total of four hours. She's busy and I knew that going into it, but on top of her being busy, she doesn't seem to want to try and organize anything in general. Since we've started dating I've asked her if she wanted to hang out 5 times in 2 weeks, she's said she is busy 4 of those times and has only agreed once. She will apologize for not being able to hang out but won't try to reschedule. It makes me feel fairly rejected and I'm not happy with it at all. I've stopped asking her to hang out in hopes that she'll be the one to initiate it and nothing has happened yet. Earlier today I was particularly wanting to be flirty and try to engage something so I texted her, "You still owe me that kiss" (she does) and she replied "I'm sorry". I haven't even responded to it because it feels like it's just on a loop. I can't ask her to change her life and I don't want to make her feel bad about it. How do I go about fixing this? Do I talk to her and say that I need her to be more clear about when she can spend time with me? Isn't that demanding? I'm honestly pretty terrible at relationships and I really don't want to act like an asshole.
New girlfriend has a full life already, I don't feel like there's room for me and I don't know what is okay to do or say.
GF doesn't seem to want to hang out anymore, it's not working. I'm frustrated and don't know how to fix it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been dating my GF for about 2 months now. Before we were in a relationship it was a great time all around, we had lots of fun and went out together at least twice a week. She's a very busy person with schooling, volunteers, work and friends but we were getting along great. I have been in the dating pool for a few months now and have dated lots of people, none have ever clicked as well as this girl and I did. On our 8th date I asked her if she'd like to be exclusive, she said she did, we both seemed to really like eachother and that made me pretty stoked. Well, since then we've seen each other twice for like a grand total of four hours. She's busy and I knew that going into it, but on top of her being busy, she doesn't seem to want to try and organize anything in general. Since we've started dating I've asked her if she wanted to hang out 5 times in 2 weeks, she's said she is busy 4 of those times and has only agreed once. She will apologize for not being able to hang out but won't try to reschedule. It makes me feel fairly rejected and I'm not happy with it at all. I've stopped asking her to hang out in hopes that she'll be the one to initiate it and nothing has happened yet. Earlier today I was particularly wanting to be flirty and try to engage something so I texted her, "You still owe me that kiss" (she does) and she replied "I'm sorry". I haven't even responded to it because it feels like it's just on a loop. I can't ask her to change her life and I don't want to make her feel bad about it. How do I go about fixing this? Do I talk to her and say that I need her to be more clear about when she can spend time with me? Isn't that demanding? I'm honestly pretty terrible at relationships and I really don't want to act like an asshole. TL;DR:
New girlfriend has a full life already, I don't feel like there's room for me and I don't know what is okay to do or say.<|endoftext|>
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GF doesn't seem to want to hang out anymore, it's not working. I'm frustrated and don't know how to fix it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been dating my GF for about 2 months now. Before we were in a relationship it was a great time all around, we had lots of fun and went out together at least twice a week. She's a very busy person with schooling, volunteers, work and friends but we were getting along great. I have been in the dating pool for a few months now and have dated lots of people, none have ever clicked as well as this girl and I did. On our 8th date I asked her if she'd like to be exclusive, she said she did, we both seemed to really like eachother and that made me pretty stoked. Well, since then we've seen each other twice for like a grand total of four hours. She's busy and I knew that going into it, but on top of her being busy, she doesn't seem to want to try and organize anything in general. Since we've started dating I've asked her if she wanted to hang out 5 times in 2 weeks, she's said she is busy 4 of those times and has only agreed once. She will apologize for not being able to hang out but won't try to reschedule. It makes me feel fairly rejected and I'm not happy with it at all. I've stopped asking her to hang out in hopes that she'll be the one to initiate it and nothing has happened yet. Earlier today I was particularly wanting to be flirty and try to engage something so I texted her, "You still owe me that kiss" (she does) and she replied "I'm sorry". I haven't even responded to it because it feels like it's just on a loop. I can't ask her to change her life and I don't want to make her feel bad about it. How do I go about fixing this? Do I talk to her and say that I need her to be more clear about when she can spend time with me? Isn't that demanding? I'm honestly pretty terrible at relationships and I really don't want to act like an asshole. TL;DR: New girlfriend has a full life already, I don't feel like there's room for me and I don't know what is okay to do or say.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been dating my GF for about 2 months now. Before we were in a relationship it was a great time all around, we had lots of fun and went out together at least twice a week. She's a very busy person with schooling, volunteers, work and friends but we were getting along great. I have been in the dating pool for a few months now and have dated lots of people, none have ever clicked as well as this girl and I did. On our 8th date I asked her if she'd like to be exclusive, she said she did, we both seemed to really like eachother and that made me pretty stoked. Well, since then we've seen each other twice for like a grand total of four hours. She's busy and I knew that going into it, but on top of her being busy, she doesn't seem to want to try and organize anything in general. Since we've started dating I've asked her if she wanted to hang out 5 times in 2 weeks, she's said she is busy 4 of those times and has only agreed once. She will apologize for not being able to hang out but won't try to reschedule. It makes me feel fairly rejected and I'm not happy with it at all. I've stopped asking her to hang out in hopes that she'll be the one to initiate it and nothing has happened yet. Earlier today I was particularly wanting to be flirty and try to engage something so I texted her, "You still owe me that kiss" (she does) and she replied "I'm sorry". I haven't even responded to it because it feels like it's just on a loop. I can't ask her to change her life and I don't want to make her feel bad about it. How do I go about fixing this? Do I talk to her and say that I need her to be more clear about when she can spend time with me? Isn't that demanding? I'm honestly pretty terrible at relationships and I really don't want to act like an asshole. TL;DR: GF doesn't seem to want to hang out anymore, it's not working. I'm frustrated and don't know how to fix it.<|endoftext|>
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So after school today, my girlfriend gave me her phone for a bit while she was away. I was messing around on it for a bit then being the nosy teenage boy that I am, I went to her oldest message on her phone which was from around earlier this year and saw her sexts... It really tore me up. I knew I shouldn't have went through it and knew that I was on going to end up hurt. I don't really know what to do. It's not even something current. We all have a past and she's told me that she's not happy with some of the things that she's done in the past and I accept that. I've done some things too that I'm not proud of. I know I am being unfair because I've done this too but it's hurting me a lot knowing that some she wants some other guys dick in her wet pussy. We're both in love with each other and I really do love this girl with all my heart, I just need some help on trying to look past this instead of letting it get to me. Any thoughts?
Went through my GF's phone and saw her past sexts. I'm hurting a lot and don't know what to do.
Went through my gf's phone and saw her past sexts conversation and am broken up over it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So after school today, my girlfriend gave me her phone for a bit while she was away. I was messing around on it for a bit then being the nosy teenage boy that I am, I went to her oldest message on her phone which was from around earlier this year and saw her sexts... It really tore me up. I knew I shouldn't have went through it and knew that I was on going to end up hurt. I don't really know what to do. It's not even something current. We all have a past and she's told me that she's not happy with some of the things that she's done in the past and I accept that. I've done some things too that I'm not proud of. I know I am being unfair because I've done this too but it's hurting me a lot knowing that some she wants some other guys dick in her wet pussy. We're both in love with each other and I really do love this girl with all my heart, I just need some help on trying to look past this instead of letting it get to me. Any thoughts? TL;DR:
Went through my GF's phone and saw her past sexts. I'm hurting a lot and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Went through my gf's phone and saw her past sexts conversation and am broken up over it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So after school today, my girlfriend gave me her phone for a bit while she was away. I was messing around on it for a bit then being the nosy teenage boy that I am, I went to her oldest message on her phone which was from around earlier this year and saw her sexts... It really tore me up. I knew I shouldn't have went through it and knew that I was on going to end up hurt. I don't really know what to do. It's not even something current. We all have a past and she's told me that she's not happy with some of the things that she's done in the past and I accept that. I've done some things too that I'm not proud of. I know I am being unfair because I've done this too but it's hurting me a lot knowing that some she wants some other guys dick in her wet pussy. We're both in love with each other and I really do love this girl with all my heart, I just need some help on trying to look past this instead of letting it get to me. Any thoughts? TL;DR: Went through my GF's phone and saw her past sexts. I'm hurting a lot and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So after school today, my girlfriend gave me her phone for a bit while she was away. I was messing around on it for a bit then being the nosy teenage boy that I am, I went to her oldest message on her phone which was from around earlier this year and saw her sexts... It really tore me up. I knew I shouldn't have went through it and knew that I was on going to end up hurt. I don't really know what to do. It's not even something current. We all have a past and she's told me that she's not happy with some of the things that she's done in the past and I accept that. I've done some things too that I'm not proud of. I know I am being unfair because I've done this too but it's hurting me a lot knowing that some she wants some other guys dick in her wet pussy. We're both in love with each other and I really do love this girl with all my heart, I just need some help on trying to look past this instead of letting it get to me. Any thoughts? TL;DR: Went through my gf's phone and saw her past sexts conversation and am broken up over it.<|endoftext|>
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I drove my scion tc 2005 through a really big puddle yesterday. I didn't realize that it was so high but after i got through it my car's accelerator wouldn't accelerate. Then i turned off my car and tried turning it back on and it sounded like it wouldn't turn over. However, my power is still on but when i turn the key to turn it on the power seems to stutter and won't turn on. I pushed it into a parking lot and figured that maybe the wires needed to dry or something but i tried it again a full day later and it is still doing the same thing. So if anyone knows what happened to my car and what i could do to fix it. I would prefer not taking it to a shop if i can help it. I would greatly appreciate any help! Thanks guys
drove my car through a puddle and now it won't start even after waiting a day to see if the wires need to dry out.
My scion tc 2005 is refusing to start. Help?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I drove my scion tc 2005 through a really big puddle yesterday. I didn't realize that it was so high but after i got through it my car's accelerator wouldn't accelerate. Then i turned off my car and tried turning it back on and it sounded like it wouldn't turn over. However, my power is still on but when i turn the key to turn it on the power seems to stutter and won't turn on. I pushed it into a parking lot and figured that maybe the wires needed to dry or something but i tried it again a full day later and it is still doing the same thing. So if anyone knows what happened to my car and what i could do to fix it. I would prefer not taking it to a shop if i can help it. I would greatly appreciate any help! Thanks guys TL;DR:
drove my car through a puddle and now it won't start even after waiting a day to see if the wires need to dry out.<|endoftext|>
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My scion tc 2005 is refusing to start. Help?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I drove my scion tc 2005 through a really big puddle yesterday. I didn't realize that it was so high but after i got through it my car's accelerator wouldn't accelerate. Then i turned off my car and tried turning it back on and it sounded like it wouldn't turn over. However, my power is still on but when i turn the key to turn it on the power seems to stutter and won't turn on. I pushed it into a parking lot and figured that maybe the wires needed to dry or something but i tried it again a full day later and it is still doing the same thing. So if anyone knows what happened to my car and what i could do to fix it. I would prefer not taking it to a shop if i can help it. I would greatly appreciate any help! Thanks guys TL;DR: drove my car through a puddle and now it won't start even after waiting a day to see if the wires need to dry out.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I drove my scion tc 2005 through a really big puddle yesterday. I didn't realize that it was so high but after i got through it my car's accelerator wouldn't accelerate. Then i turned off my car and tried turning it back on and it sounded like it wouldn't turn over. However, my power is still on but when i turn the key to turn it on the power seems to stutter and won't turn on. I pushed it into a parking lot and figured that maybe the wires needed to dry or something but i tried it again a full day later and it is still doing the same thing. So if anyone knows what happened to my car and what i could do to fix it. I would prefer not taking it to a shop if i can help it. I would greatly appreciate any help! Thanks guys TL;DR: My scion tc 2005 is refusing to start. Help?<|endoftext|>
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I met this girl at our college orientation, and we hit it off pretty well, I enjoyed joking and talking with her throughout the day. I got her number and continued talking with her for a couple days, then asked her out to a dinner. She seemed very hesitant at first and said she would need to bring her cousin, so I said if she was interested at all we could find a time where we were both free. Here is when she tells me that her parents told her she is not allowed to date boys yet, which I found very strange. And get this, her parents do not speak English, so any conversation with them needs to be done through her or Google translate(spanish). We both want to go on a date together, but I don't want to disrespect her parents and get off on a bad note. What should I do? Do i get her to talk with her parents? just pull the old bring friends and just split off from them for a date? Any advice is appreciated, thanks guys.
Both interested in each other, her parents don't speak English and do not want her dating yet. tips?
Girl I'm dating told me her parents don't speak English, and I want her to go on a date with me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met this girl at our college orientation, and we hit it off pretty well, I enjoyed joking and talking with her throughout the day. I got her number and continued talking with her for a couple days, then asked her out to a dinner. She seemed very hesitant at first and said she would need to bring her cousin, so I said if she was interested at all we could find a time where we were both free. Here is when she tells me that her parents told her she is not allowed to date boys yet, which I found very strange. And get this, her parents do not speak English, so any conversation with them needs to be done through her or Google translate(spanish). We both want to go on a date together, but I don't want to disrespect her parents and get off on a bad note. What should I do? Do i get her to talk with her parents? just pull the old bring friends and just split off from them for a date? Any advice is appreciated, thanks guys. TL;DR:
Both interested in each other, her parents don't speak English and do not want her dating yet. tips?<|endoftext|>
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Girl I'm dating told me her parents don't speak English, and I want her to go on a date with me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met this girl at our college orientation, and we hit it off pretty well, I enjoyed joking and talking with her throughout the day. I got her number and continued talking with her for a couple days, then asked her out to a dinner. She seemed very hesitant at first and said she would need to bring her cousin, so I said if she was interested at all we could find a time where we were both free. Here is when she tells me that her parents told her she is not allowed to date boys yet, which I found very strange. And get this, her parents do not speak English, so any conversation with them needs to be done through her or Google translate(spanish). We both want to go on a date together, but I don't want to disrespect her parents and get off on a bad note. What should I do? Do i get her to talk with her parents? just pull the old bring friends and just split off from them for a date? Any advice is appreciated, thanks guys. TL;DR: Both interested in each other, her parents don't speak English and do not want her dating yet. tips?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met this girl at our college orientation, and we hit it off pretty well, I enjoyed joking and talking with her throughout the day. I got her number and continued talking with her for a couple days, then asked her out to a dinner. She seemed very hesitant at first and said she would need to bring her cousin, so I said if she was interested at all we could find a time where we were both free. Here is when she tells me that her parents told her she is not allowed to date boys yet, which I found very strange. And get this, her parents do not speak English, so any conversation with them needs to be done through her or Google translate(spanish). We both want to go on a date together, but I don't want to disrespect her parents and get off on a bad note. What should I do? Do i get her to talk with her parents? just pull the old bring friends and just split off from them for a date? Any advice is appreciated, thanks guys. TL;DR: Girl I'm dating told me her parents don't speak English, and I want her to go on a date with me.<|endoftext|>
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Hello, first off this is a throwaway. I am completely mind fucked and I am still trying to process everything that just happened. I will try and break it down as simple and easy as I can. 1) GF, we will call her T is out of town for a family birthday. I normally would go for a visit to her family however because I do not have off tomorrow, I had to stay behind, no big deal. 2) T(GF) was able to meet up with some old highschool/college friends for a girls night out which was tonight, about 3 hours or so ago. 3) 20 minutes ago I get a message from one of her friends(who I've only met once previously) on Facebook, let's call her C. It says that T(GF) is using me because I am white, T(gf) would much rather be with a black man and then only reason she is with me is because it would "ease her parent's mind." Then the message goes on to say C(friend) will be in town next weekend and she would like to get together and talk about it. 4) T(gf) and I never really talked about exs or prior relationships. Mainly because I don't care to hear about things like that and from what C has said, I'm now extremely curious. 5) Emotions: I'm so fucking confused. If it's true, I'm hurt also for being used. I understand that's a big what if though. What if her friend is just trying to break us up? The first time I met her she said I was cute. 6) About me/us: Light brown hair, blue eyes. 6 feet and 6 inches, those are two separate measurements. Without sounding like a complete douche, I consider myself pretty attractive, I consider both of us better than average on the attractiveness scale. We've been together for 2 years and some change, lived together for 8 months. What in the literal fuck.
GF having a girls night out, meets up with some old friends, friend in town says she's using me because I'm white. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
GF is using me because she said she's not with me because she would rather be with a black man. Friend is calling to meet up. I'm confused.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, first off this is a throwaway. I am completely mind fucked and I am still trying to process everything that just happened. I will try and break it down as simple and easy as I can. 1) GF, we will call her T is out of town for a family birthday. I normally would go for a visit to her family however because I do not have off tomorrow, I had to stay behind, no big deal. 2) T(GF) was able to meet up with some old highschool/college friends for a girls night out which was tonight, about 3 hours or so ago. 3) 20 minutes ago I get a message from one of her friends(who I've only met once previously) on Facebook, let's call her C. It says that T(GF) is using me because I am white, T(gf) would much rather be with a black man and then only reason she is with me is because it would "ease her parent's mind." Then the message goes on to say C(friend) will be in town next weekend and she would like to get together and talk about it. 4) T(gf) and I never really talked about exs or prior relationships. Mainly because I don't care to hear about things like that and from what C has said, I'm now extremely curious. 5) Emotions: I'm so fucking confused. If it's true, I'm hurt also for being used. I understand that's a big what if though. What if her friend is just trying to break us up? The first time I met her she said I was cute. 6) About me/us: Light brown hair, blue eyes. 6 feet and 6 inches, those are two separate measurements. Without sounding like a complete douche, I consider myself pretty attractive, I consider both of us better than average on the attractiveness scale. We've been together for 2 years and some change, lived together for 8 months. What in the literal fuck. TL;DR:
GF having a girls night out, meets up with some old friends, friend in town says she's using me because I'm white. What the fuck am I supposed to do?<|endoftext|>
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GF is using me because she said she's not with me because she would rather be with a black man. Friend is calling to meet up. I'm confused.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, first off this is a throwaway. I am completely mind fucked and I am still trying to process everything that just happened. I will try and break it down as simple and easy as I can. 1) GF, we will call her T is out of town for a family birthday. I normally would go for a visit to her family however because I do not have off tomorrow, I had to stay behind, no big deal. 2) T(GF) was able to meet up with some old highschool/college friends for a girls night out which was tonight, about 3 hours or so ago. 3) 20 minutes ago I get a message from one of her friends(who I've only met once previously) on Facebook, let's call her C. It says that T(GF) is using me because I am white, T(gf) would much rather be with a black man and then only reason she is with me is because it would "ease her parent's mind." Then the message goes on to say C(friend) will be in town next weekend and she would like to get together and talk about it. 4) T(gf) and I never really talked about exs or prior relationships. Mainly because I don't care to hear about things like that and from what C has said, I'm now extremely curious. 5) Emotions: I'm so fucking confused. If it's true, I'm hurt also for being used. I understand that's a big what if though. What if her friend is just trying to break us up? The first time I met her she said I was cute. 6) About me/us: Light brown hair, blue eyes. 6 feet and 6 inches, those are two separate measurements. Without sounding like a complete douche, I consider myself pretty attractive, I consider both of us better than average on the attractiveness scale. We've been together for 2 years and some change, lived together for 8 months. What in the literal fuck. TL;DR: GF having a girls night out, meets up with some old friends, friend in town says she's using me because I'm white. What the fuck am I supposed to do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, first off this is a throwaway. I am completely mind fucked and I am still trying to process everything that just happened. I will try and break it down as simple and easy as I can. 1) GF, we will call her T is out of town for a family birthday. I normally would go for a visit to her family however because I do not have off tomorrow, I had to stay behind, no big deal. 2) T(GF) was able to meet up with some old highschool/college friends for a girls night out which was tonight, about 3 hours or so ago. 3) 20 minutes ago I get a message from one of her friends(who I've only met once previously) on Facebook, let's call her C. It says that T(GF) is using me because I am white, T(gf) would much rather be with a black man and then only reason she is with me is because it would "ease her parent's mind." Then the message goes on to say C(friend) will be in town next weekend and she would like to get together and talk about it. 4) T(gf) and I never really talked about exs or prior relationships. Mainly because I don't care to hear about things like that and from what C has said, I'm now extremely curious. 5) Emotions: I'm so fucking confused. If it's true, I'm hurt also for being used. I understand that's a big what if though. What if her friend is just trying to break us up? The first time I met her she said I was cute. 6) About me/us: Light brown hair, blue eyes. 6 feet and 6 inches, those are two separate measurements. Without sounding like a complete douche, I consider myself pretty attractive, I consider both of us better than average on the attractiveness scale. We've been together for 2 years and some change, lived together for 8 months. What in the literal fuck. TL;DR: GF is using me because she said she's not with me because she would rather be with a black man. Friend is calling to meet up. I'm confused.<|endoftext|>
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[Full story] ( [Update 1] ( So I finally managed to sit face to face with him and get my keys and money back. He still denied the whole relationship with the other chick and went insane when I kept asking for the truth. He got super aggressive and I was both embarrassed but glad that we were in a public place. I've come to terms with what has happened in the past two weeks. I understand that he's projecting the guilt on me by yelling and running away. I also understand that I do not want to be with someone that is not willing to sit down and be mature about relationship issues, let alone someone that cannot stop lying. I wanted to send her an email telling her my side of the story. Not as revenge or anything like that but to let her know the truth. We were still living together until two weeks ago and they've been dating for over two months. Am I crazy for wanting to be honest? I feel this will help get full closure. If he was not able to be honest with me I want to at least be honest with her. I know he'll probably say I'm crazy and a lying bitch (his words to me). But at least I will have my conscience clean.
Boyfriend lied to me about cheating on me. I want to tell her the truth to get closure. Should I?
I [30/F] found out my boyfriend [25M] of two years has been having a parallel relationship. I don't want to date him again.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: [Full story] ( [Update 1] ( So I finally managed to sit face to face with him and get my keys and money back. He still denied the whole relationship with the other chick and went insane when I kept asking for the truth. He got super aggressive and I was both embarrassed but glad that we were in a public place. I've come to terms with what has happened in the past two weeks. I understand that he's projecting the guilt on me by yelling and running away. I also understand that I do not want to be with someone that is not willing to sit down and be mature about relationship issues, let alone someone that cannot stop lying. I wanted to send her an email telling her my side of the story. Not as revenge or anything like that but to let her know the truth. We were still living together until two weeks ago and they've been dating for over two months. Am I crazy for wanting to be honest? I feel this will help get full closure. If he was not able to be honest with me I want to at least be honest with her. I know he'll probably say I'm crazy and a lying bitch (his words to me). But at least I will have my conscience clean. TL;DR:
Boyfriend lied to me about cheating on me. I want to tell her the truth to get closure. Should I?<|endoftext|>
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I [30/F] found out my boyfriend [25M] of two years has been having a parallel relationship. I don't want to date him again.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: [Full story] ( [Update 1] ( So I finally managed to sit face to face with him and get my keys and money back. He still denied the whole relationship with the other chick and went insane when I kept asking for the truth. He got super aggressive and I was both embarrassed but glad that we were in a public place. I've come to terms with what has happened in the past two weeks. I understand that he's projecting the guilt on me by yelling and running away. I also understand that I do not want to be with someone that is not willing to sit down and be mature about relationship issues, let alone someone that cannot stop lying. I wanted to send her an email telling her my side of the story. Not as revenge or anything like that but to let her know the truth. We were still living together until two weeks ago and they've been dating for over two months. Am I crazy for wanting to be honest? I feel this will help get full closure. If he was not able to be honest with me I want to at least be honest with her. I know he'll probably say I'm crazy and a lying bitch (his words to me). But at least I will have my conscience clean. TL;DR: Boyfriend lied to me about cheating on me. I want to tell her the truth to get closure. Should I?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: [Full story] ( [Update 1] ( So I finally managed to sit face to face with him and get my keys and money back. He still denied the whole relationship with the other chick and went insane when I kept asking for the truth. He got super aggressive and I was both embarrassed but glad that we were in a public place. I've come to terms with what has happened in the past two weeks. I understand that he's projecting the guilt on me by yelling and running away. I also understand that I do not want to be with someone that is not willing to sit down and be mature about relationship issues, let alone someone that cannot stop lying. I wanted to send her an email telling her my side of the story. Not as revenge or anything like that but to let her know the truth. We were still living together until two weeks ago and they've been dating for over two months. Am I crazy for wanting to be honest? I feel this will help get full closure. If he was not able to be honest with me I want to at least be honest with her. I know he'll probably say I'm crazy and a lying bitch (his words to me). But at least I will have my conscience clean. TL;DR: I [30/F] found out my boyfriend [25M] of two years has been having a parallel relationship. I don't want to date him again.<|endoftext|>
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Hello all and thank you for taking the time to read this. I have booked a flight with AC live cargo to ship my dog from Toronto to San Franciso on August 10th. I thought I had all my ducks in a row but when I went to get the "international health certificate for dogs and cats" given to me by my regular vet signed by an "official Canadian food inspection agency veterinarian" they laughed at me and said this form is not needed to go to the US. (I do have the rabies vaccination certificate) The CFIA said the health certificate that is required is just a statement from my regular vet stating age, breed, etc of the dog and that it is fit for travel. But my vet has said that people were turned away from traveling to the states because they *did not* have the form I mentioned above. I called the airline and they didn't know if it was the official form or just a statement from the vet. Can somebody please clarify?? Did you require this official "international health certificate for dogs and cats" to send your dog to the US or just a letter and rabies vaccination? Any insight is greatly appreciated! I am leaving in 3 days so time is limited.
what are the exact forms required to ship a dog via cargo to the US from Canada?
My dog is going to the US to Canada without a health certificate from my regular vet. Can somebody help me?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all and thank you for taking the time to read this. I have booked a flight with AC live cargo to ship my dog from Toronto to San Franciso on August 10th. I thought I had all my ducks in a row but when I went to get the "international health certificate for dogs and cats" given to me by my regular vet signed by an "official Canadian food inspection agency veterinarian" they laughed at me and said this form is not needed to go to the US. (I do have the rabies vaccination certificate) The CFIA said the health certificate that is required is just a statement from my regular vet stating age, breed, etc of the dog and that it is fit for travel. But my vet has said that people were turned away from traveling to the states because they *did not* have the form I mentioned above. I called the airline and they didn't know if it was the official form or just a statement from the vet. Can somebody please clarify?? Did you require this official "international health certificate for dogs and cats" to send your dog to the US or just a letter and rabies vaccination? Any insight is greatly appreciated! I am leaving in 3 days so time is limited. TL;DR:
what are the exact forms required to ship a dog via cargo to the US from Canada?<|endoftext|>
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My dog is going to the US to Canada without a health certificate from my regular vet. Can somebody help me?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all and thank you for taking the time to read this. I have booked a flight with AC live cargo to ship my dog from Toronto to San Franciso on August 10th. I thought I had all my ducks in a row but when I went to get the "international health certificate for dogs and cats" given to me by my regular vet signed by an "official Canadian food inspection agency veterinarian" they laughed at me and said this form is not needed to go to the US. (I do have the rabies vaccination certificate) The CFIA said the health certificate that is required is just a statement from my regular vet stating age, breed, etc of the dog and that it is fit for travel. But my vet has said that people were turned away from traveling to the states because they *did not* have the form I mentioned above. I called the airline and they didn't know if it was the official form or just a statement from the vet. Can somebody please clarify?? Did you require this official "international health certificate for dogs and cats" to send your dog to the US or just a letter and rabies vaccination? Any insight is greatly appreciated! I am leaving in 3 days so time is limited. TL;DR: what are the exact forms required to ship a dog via cargo to the US from Canada?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all and thank you for taking the time to read this. I have booked a flight with AC live cargo to ship my dog from Toronto to San Franciso on August 10th. I thought I had all my ducks in a row but when I went to get the "international health certificate for dogs and cats" given to me by my regular vet signed by an "official Canadian food inspection agency veterinarian" they laughed at me and said this form is not needed to go to the US. (I do have the rabies vaccination certificate) The CFIA said the health certificate that is required is just a statement from my regular vet stating age, breed, etc of the dog and that it is fit for travel. But my vet has said that people were turned away from traveling to the states because they *did not* have the form I mentioned above. I called the airline and they didn't know if it was the official form or just a statement from the vet. Can somebody please clarify?? Did you require this official "international health certificate for dogs and cats" to send your dog to the US or just a letter and rabies vaccination? Any insight is greatly appreciated! I am leaving in 3 days so time is limited. TL;DR: My dog is going to the US to Canada without a health certificate from my regular vet. Can somebody help me?<|endoftext|>
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Unlike a lot of TIFU posts I've read recently, this one actually did happen today. I work in a factory that makes mainly motor parts and some medical. I've spent the last few days grinding some shafts down to size for shipping. Every morning I have to top up the coolant tank on the grinder. As we were a man short today, I also had to check the parts being made at the moment were still within tolerance. So first thing I did when I got in today at 8 am was go up to the back of the factory, put the hose into the coolant tank and turn it on, with the intention of checking the first part and then shutting off the hose after about 5 minutes. I think you can see where this is going. Roughly 8.45am, I noticed some coolant in behind one of the machines about halfway down the factory. I looked at it for a few seconds while thinking "Huh. I wonder where that- OH SHIT!!" Started to run towards the grinder and as soon as I stepped clear of the machine I was working on, I was suddenly splashing through a milky white sea of coolant. Ripped the hose out of the tank and spent the next 3 hours cleaning it up with a TINY wet/dry vac that we have just to clean up small oil spills. Needless to say, I'm utterly exhausted, my back is killing me from constantly having to empty the vaccum, and my ears are still burning from the bollocking I got off the boss.
TIFU by flooding half the factory floor with coolant, boss gave me a berzerk for cleaning it up, exhausted and feeling like shit.
TIFU by flooding half the factory floor with coolant. Boss played the hose game and I ruined the whole factory floor cleaning up the mess. Really, really tired.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Unlike a lot of TIFU posts I've read recently, this one actually did happen today. I work in a factory that makes mainly motor parts and some medical. I've spent the last few days grinding some shafts down to size for shipping. Every morning I have to top up the coolant tank on the grinder. As we were a man short today, I also had to check the parts being made at the moment were still within tolerance. So first thing I did when I got in today at 8 am was go up to the back of the factory, put the hose into the coolant tank and turn it on, with the intention of checking the first part and then shutting off the hose after about 5 minutes. I think you can see where this is going. Roughly 8.45am, I noticed some coolant in behind one of the machines about halfway down the factory. I looked at it for a few seconds while thinking "Huh. I wonder where that- OH SHIT!!" Started to run towards the grinder and as soon as I stepped clear of the machine I was working on, I was suddenly splashing through a milky white sea of coolant. Ripped the hose out of the tank and spent the next 3 hours cleaning it up with a TINY wet/dry vac that we have just to clean up small oil spills. Needless to say, I'm utterly exhausted, my back is killing me from constantly having to empty the vaccum, and my ears are still burning from the bollocking I got off the boss. TL;DR:
TIFU by flooding half the factory floor with coolant, boss gave me a berzerk for cleaning it up, exhausted and feeling like shit.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by flooding half the factory floor with coolant. Boss played the hose game and I ruined the whole factory floor cleaning up the mess. Really, really tired.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Unlike a lot of TIFU posts I've read recently, this one actually did happen today. I work in a factory that makes mainly motor parts and some medical. I've spent the last few days grinding some shafts down to size for shipping. Every morning I have to top up the coolant tank on the grinder. As we were a man short today, I also had to check the parts being made at the moment were still within tolerance. So first thing I did when I got in today at 8 am was go up to the back of the factory, put the hose into the coolant tank and turn it on, with the intention of checking the first part and then shutting off the hose after about 5 minutes. I think you can see where this is going. Roughly 8.45am, I noticed some coolant in behind one of the machines about halfway down the factory. I looked at it for a few seconds while thinking "Huh. I wonder where that- OH SHIT!!" Started to run towards the grinder and as soon as I stepped clear of the machine I was working on, I was suddenly splashing through a milky white sea of coolant. Ripped the hose out of the tank and spent the next 3 hours cleaning it up with a TINY wet/dry vac that we have just to clean up small oil spills. Needless to say, I'm utterly exhausted, my back is killing me from constantly having to empty the vaccum, and my ears are still burning from the bollocking I got off the boss. TL;DR: TIFU by flooding half the factory floor with coolant, boss gave me a berzerk for cleaning it up, exhausted and feeling like shit.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Unlike a lot of TIFU posts I've read recently, this one actually did happen today. I work in a factory that makes mainly motor parts and some medical. I've spent the last few days grinding some shafts down to size for shipping. Every morning I have to top up the coolant tank on the grinder. As we were a man short today, I also had to check the parts being made at the moment were still within tolerance. So first thing I did when I got in today at 8 am was go up to the back of the factory, put the hose into the coolant tank and turn it on, with the intention of checking the first part and then shutting off the hose after about 5 minutes. I think you can see where this is going. Roughly 8.45am, I noticed some coolant in behind one of the machines about halfway down the factory. I looked at it for a few seconds while thinking "Huh. I wonder where that- OH SHIT!!" Started to run towards the grinder and as soon as I stepped clear of the machine I was working on, I was suddenly splashing through a milky white sea of coolant. Ripped the hose out of the tank and spent the next 3 hours cleaning it up with a TINY wet/dry vac that we have just to clean up small oil spills. Needless to say, I'm utterly exhausted, my back is killing me from constantly having to empty the vaccum, and my ears are still burning from the bollocking I got off the boss. TL;DR: TIFU by flooding half the factory floor with coolant. Boss played the hose game and I ruined the whole factory floor cleaning up the mess. Really, really tired.<|endoftext|>
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This is going to sound pathetic and it probably is, but hear me out. I went to male only schools(very common in my Asian country) so I've had little to no chance to talk to any girl of my age until few years ago when I entered college. Even then the few times i tried to talk to girls I couldn't really continue any conversations because I was too nervous and they could probably tell. earlier this year though, this girl i barely knew and i got to know each other more because of some school projects and a lil help from the new pokemon game that she is really into. We spend couple hours every week inbetween classes just talking and playing games together. Few weeks ago she asked me to come along with her to visit a big used-game market. We had fun spending few hours looking for stuff but I don't think she invited me as a date but more like i was the only one she knew that liked games she did. I've slowly realized I no longer thought of her as another friend but more like a crush. I know if she doesnt have feelings for me our friendship might be ruined or at least be a bit awkward but I'm willing to take that risk over sulking on the internet about it forever. But the thing is.. I don't know how to ask her out and tell her how i feel. What am i supposed to say? Just telling it to her straight forward sounds a bit... silly. I've a feeling she'd find that situation extremely awkward no matter what.
Got to know a girl very briefly and have some mutual interest in each other. Want to ask her out but don't know how to tell her how i feel without her being offended or awkward.
A girl i barely knew and got to know a few years ago asked me to go visit a big used-game market with her. Want to ask her out but don't know how to tell her how i feel without making it awkward or
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is going to sound pathetic and it probably is, but hear me out. I went to male only schools(very common in my Asian country) so I've had little to no chance to talk to any girl of my age until few years ago when I entered college. Even then the few times i tried to talk to girls I couldn't really continue any conversations because I was too nervous and they could probably tell. earlier this year though, this girl i barely knew and i got to know each other more because of some school projects and a lil help from the new pokemon game that she is really into. We spend couple hours every week inbetween classes just talking and playing games together. Few weeks ago she asked me to come along with her to visit a big used-game market. We had fun spending few hours looking for stuff but I don't think she invited me as a date but more like i was the only one she knew that liked games she did. I've slowly realized I no longer thought of her as another friend but more like a crush. I know if she doesnt have feelings for me our friendship might be ruined or at least be a bit awkward but I'm willing to take that risk over sulking on the internet about it forever. But the thing is.. I don't know how to ask her out and tell her how i feel. What am i supposed to say? Just telling it to her straight forward sounds a bit... silly. I've a feeling she'd find that situation extremely awkward no matter what. TL;DR:
Got to know a girl very briefly and have some mutual interest in each other. Want to ask her out but don't know how to tell her how i feel without her being offended or awkward.<|endoftext|>
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A girl i barely knew and got to know a few years ago asked me to go visit a big used-game market with her. Want to ask her out but don't know how to tell her how i feel without making it awkward or<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is going to sound pathetic and it probably is, but hear me out. I went to male only schools(very common in my Asian country) so I've had little to no chance to talk to any girl of my age until few years ago when I entered college. Even then the few times i tried to talk to girls I couldn't really continue any conversations because I was too nervous and they could probably tell. earlier this year though, this girl i barely knew and i got to know each other more because of some school projects and a lil help from the new pokemon game that she is really into. We spend couple hours every week inbetween classes just talking and playing games together. Few weeks ago she asked me to come along with her to visit a big used-game market. We had fun spending few hours looking for stuff but I don't think she invited me as a date but more like i was the only one she knew that liked games she did. I've slowly realized I no longer thought of her as another friend but more like a crush. I know if she doesnt have feelings for me our friendship might be ruined or at least be a bit awkward but I'm willing to take that risk over sulking on the internet about it forever. But the thing is.. I don't know how to ask her out and tell her how i feel. What am i supposed to say? Just telling it to her straight forward sounds a bit... silly. I've a feeling she'd find that situation extremely awkward no matter what. TL;DR: Got to know a girl very briefly and have some mutual interest in each other. Want to ask her out but don't know how to tell her how i feel without her being offended or awkward.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is going to sound pathetic and it probably is, but hear me out. I went to male only schools(very common in my Asian country) so I've had little to no chance to talk to any girl of my age until few years ago when I entered college. Even then the few times i tried to talk to girls I couldn't really continue any conversations because I was too nervous and they could probably tell. earlier this year though, this girl i barely knew and i got to know each other more because of some school projects and a lil help from the new pokemon game that she is really into. We spend couple hours every week inbetween classes just talking and playing games together. Few weeks ago she asked me to come along with her to visit a big used-game market. We had fun spending few hours looking for stuff but I don't think she invited me as a date but more like i was the only one she knew that liked games she did. I've slowly realized I no longer thought of her as another friend but more like a crush. I know if she doesnt have feelings for me our friendship might be ruined or at least be a bit awkward but I'm willing to take that risk over sulking on the internet about it forever. But the thing is.. I don't know how to ask her out and tell her how i feel. What am i supposed to say? Just telling it to her straight forward sounds a bit... silly. I've a feeling she'd find that situation extremely awkward no matter what. TL;DR: A girl i barely knew and got to know a few years ago asked me to go visit a big used-game market with her. Want to ask her out but don't know how to tell her how i feel without making it awkward or<|endoftext|>
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So we have been dealing with various issues over the past year and a half. I will say that mostly we like being together, probably eighty percent of the time, but we have also had major conflicts and have frequently talked about breaking up. Most of our issues involve trust, communication, money and cultural issues (I'm a white american and she is asian). She feels that the only way to move forward with the relationship is to get married. Once we're married the discussion of breaking up will go away, because we have made a commitment, and we will be forced to solve our other issues. We have discussed this some and I kind of see her reasoning but we both agree this could be difficult and there's no guarantee it will work. From my perspective you should get married after you have solved all the relationship problems, not before, but I also understand in her culture it's a little bit different. People tend to get married fast there and work out all the issues afterwards. She has basically given me an ultimatum that either we need to get married and really commit to solving our problems or we should just break up. In her mind 18 months is plenty of time to make a decision, again, here in America 18 months is nothing. I'm wondering what other people think of this. Is marriage a good idea or not? I care about this person and I don't want to lose her but I really feel like I'm not ready for marriage yet and this doesn't seem like the right way to go about it to me.
My girlfriend wants to get married to solve our problems and I don't see it working.
My girlfriend and I have been having serious issues and she wants to get married to solve the problems, I'm not ready for marriage yet and think we should break up.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we have been dealing with various issues over the past year and a half. I will say that mostly we like being together, probably eighty percent of the time, but we have also had major conflicts and have frequently talked about breaking up. Most of our issues involve trust, communication, money and cultural issues (I'm a white american and she is asian). She feels that the only way to move forward with the relationship is to get married. Once we're married the discussion of breaking up will go away, because we have made a commitment, and we will be forced to solve our other issues. We have discussed this some and I kind of see her reasoning but we both agree this could be difficult and there's no guarantee it will work. From my perspective you should get married after you have solved all the relationship problems, not before, but I also understand in her culture it's a little bit different. People tend to get married fast there and work out all the issues afterwards. She has basically given me an ultimatum that either we need to get married and really commit to solving our problems or we should just break up. In her mind 18 months is plenty of time to make a decision, again, here in America 18 months is nothing. I'm wondering what other people think of this. Is marriage a good idea or not? I care about this person and I don't want to lose her but I really feel like I'm not ready for marriage yet and this doesn't seem like the right way to go about it to me. TL;DR:
My girlfriend wants to get married to solve our problems and I don't see it working.<|endoftext|>
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My girlfriend and I have been having serious issues and she wants to get married to solve the problems, I'm not ready for marriage yet and think we should break up.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we have been dealing with various issues over the past year and a half. I will say that mostly we like being together, probably eighty percent of the time, but we have also had major conflicts and have frequently talked about breaking up. Most of our issues involve trust, communication, money and cultural issues (I'm a white american and she is asian). She feels that the only way to move forward with the relationship is to get married. Once we're married the discussion of breaking up will go away, because we have made a commitment, and we will be forced to solve our other issues. We have discussed this some and I kind of see her reasoning but we both agree this could be difficult and there's no guarantee it will work. From my perspective you should get married after you have solved all the relationship problems, not before, but I also understand in her culture it's a little bit different. People tend to get married fast there and work out all the issues afterwards. She has basically given me an ultimatum that either we need to get married and really commit to solving our problems or we should just break up. In her mind 18 months is plenty of time to make a decision, again, here in America 18 months is nothing. I'm wondering what other people think of this. Is marriage a good idea or not? I care about this person and I don't want to lose her but I really feel like I'm not ready for marriage yet and this doesn't seem like the right way to go about it to me. TL;DR: My girlfriend wants to get married to solve our problems and I don't see it working.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we have been dealing with various issues over the past year and a half. I will say that mostly we like being together, probably eighty percent of the time, but we have also had major conflicts and have frequently talked about breaking up. Most of our issues involve trust, communication, money and cultural issues (I'm a white american and she is asian). She feels that the only way to move forward with the relationship is to get married. Once we're married the discussion of breaking up will go away, because we have made a commitment, and we will be forced to solve our other issues. We have discussed this some and I kind of see her reasoning but we both agree this could be difficult and there's no guarantee it will work. From my perspective you should get married after you have solved all the relationship problems, not before, but I also understand in her culture it's a little bit different. People tend to get married fast there and work out all the issues afterwards. She has basically given me an ultimatum that either we need to get married and really commit to solving our problems or we should just break up. In her mind 18 months is plenty of time to make a decision, again, here in America 18 months is nothing. I'm wondering what other people think of this. Is marriage a good idea or not? I care about this person and I don't want to lose her but I really feel like I'm not ready for marriage yet and this doesn't seem like the right way to go about it to me. TL;DR: My girlfriend and I have been having serious issues and she wants to get married to solve the problems, I'm not ready for marriage yet and think we should break up.<|endoftext|>
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I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!!
My receptionist cheated with my bf. I want her fired. Is that ethical? It shows distrust and lack of respect for the workplace on her part and I no longer trust her, nor do I have a receptionist that I can function fully with, yet my overhead pays her wage.
I know a receptionist that had a casual affair with my boyfriend, so I want her out of my salon. I'm afraid it will affect the salon and my coworkers, who I can't communicate with. I feel it's not fair to ask her to leave, and I want to tell the owner, but I would rather not have her here.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR:
My receptionist cheated with my bf. I want her fired. Is that ethical? It shows distrust and lack of respect for the workplace on her part and I no longer trust her, nor do I have a receptionist that I can function fully with, yet my overhead pays her wage.<|endoftext|>
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I know a receptionist that had a casual affair with my boyfriend, so I want her out of my salon. I'm afraid it will affect the salon and my coworkers, who I can't communicate with. I feel it's not fair to ask her to leave, and I want to tell the owner, but I would rather not have her here.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR: My receptionist cheated with my bf. I want her fired. Is that ethical? It shows distrust and lack of respect for the workplace on her part and I no longer trust her, nor do I have a receptionist that I can function fully with, yet my overhead pays her wage.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR: I know a receptionist that had a casual affair with my boyfriend, so I want her out of my salon. I'm afraid it will affect the salon and my coworkers, who I can't communicate with. I feel it's not fair to ask her to leave, and I want to tell the owner, but I would rather not have her here.<|endoftext|>
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Brief background: My fiancé, P, hasn't had a real job since 2011. His mother owns a cleaning company for which he works ~12 hours a week. I work 40+ hours a week and love my job. He blames his lack of motivation to find work on his severe anxiety/depression as well as a medical condition that causes him some discomfort and pain. He was just recently diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis. I believe that he is in pain and suffers mentally, but he is only 27. I am worried that he will not want to work for the rest of his life. We have been engaged for 4 years because we don't have enough money to buy a house and get married. I'm wondering if there is anything I can do or say to motivate him to look for work that will not sound insensitive. Every time I bring up the idea of finding full time work, he just says that he doesn't want a laborer job (where we live, there are tons of factories and steel mills constantly looking for laborers...they often pay well too). I love him, he is my high school sweetheart. We have been together since I was 15 and he was 16 and we are very best friends. I don't want him to think I am insensitive to his medical conditions, but I feel like I can't do it all on my own.
Fiance is very sick and won't start looking for a job, I want to show him I'm not insensitive but I don't know how.
Fiance is made of glass because of common medical issues. He has no motivation to look for full time work. What can I say/do to help
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Brief background: My fiancé, P, hasn't had a real job since 2011. His mother owns a cleaning company for which he works ~12 hours a week. I work 40+ hours a week and love my job. He blames his lack of motivation to find work on his severe anxiety/depression as well as a medical condition that causes him some discomfort and pain. He was just recently diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis. I believe that he is in pain and suffers mentally, but he is only 27. I am worried that he will not want to work for the rest of his life. We have been engaged for 4 years because we don't have enough money to buy a house and get married. I'm wondering if there is anything I can do or say to motivate him to look for work that will not sound insensitive. Every time I bring up the idea of finding full time work, he just says that he doesn't want a laborer job (where we live, there are tons of factories and steel mills constantly looking for laborers...they often pay well too). I love him, he is my high school sweetheart. We have been together since I was 15 and he was 16 and we are very best friends. I don't want him to think I am insensitive to his medical conditions, but I feel like I can't do it all on my own. TL;DR:
Fiance is very sick and won't start looking for a job, I want to show him I'm not insensitive but I don't know how.<|endoftext|>
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Fiance is made of glass because of common medical issues. He has no motivation to look for full time work. What can I say/do to help<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Brief background: My fiancé, P, hasn't had a real job since 2011. His mother owns a cleaning company for which he works ~12 hours a week. I work 40+ hours a week and love my job. He blames his lack of motivation to find work on his severe anxiety/depression as well as a medical condition that causes him some discomfort and pain. He was just recently diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis. I believe that he is in pain and suffers mentally, but he is only 27. I am worried that he will not want to work for the rest of his life. We have been engaged for 4 years because we don't have enough money to buy a house and get married. I'm wondering if there is anything I can do or say to motivate him to look for work that will not sound insensitive. Every time I bring up the idea of finding full time work, he just says that he doesn't want a laborer job (where we live, there are tons of factories and steel mills constantly looking for laborers...they often pay well too). I love him, he is my high school sweetheart. We have been together since I was 15 and he was 16 and we are very best friends. I don't want him to think I am insensitive to his medical conditions, but I feel like I can't do it all on my own. TL;DR: Fiance is very sick and won't start looking for a job, I want to show him I'm not insensitive but I don't know how.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Brief background: My fiancé, P, hasn't had a real job since 2011. His mother owns a cleaning company for which he works ~12 hours a week. I work 40+ hours a week and love my job. He blames his lack of motivation to find work on his severe anxiety/depression as well as a medical condition that causes him some discomfort and pain. He was just recently diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis. I believe that he is in pain and suffers mentally, but he is only 27. I am worried that he will not want to work for the rest of his life. We have been engaged for 4 years because we don't have enough money to buy a house and get married. I'm wondering if there is anything I can do or say to motivate him to look for work that will not sound insensitive. Every time I bring up the idea of finding full time work, he just says that he doesn't want a laborer job (where we live, there are tons of factories and steel mills constantly looking for laborers...they often pay well too). I love him, he is my high school sweetheart. We have been together since I was 15 and he was 16 and we are very best friends. I don't want him to think I am insensitive to his medical conditions, but I feel like I can't do it all on my own. TL;DR: Fiance is made of glass because of common medical issues. He has no motivation to look for full time work. What can I say/do to help<|endoftext|>
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Hi, everyone. I was hoping reddit might be able to help me on this one. I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me that I can compile into one larger video to ask my girlfriend to prom. I'm really hoping that some redditors out there might have connections. The four I'm really looking at are: Zach Braff, Weird Al, Chad Kroeger, Morgan Freeman, and Neil Tyson. I've got a bit of time to work on this, so there's no pressure on time. Even if anyone has an email address of any good celebrities (or bad ones!) or a phone number to call, that's great!
I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me to ask my girlfriend to prom.
I'm looking for celebrities to ask my girlfriend to prom for me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, everyone. I was hoping reddit might be able to help me on this one. I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me that I can compile into one larger video to ask my girlfriend to prom. I'm really hoping that some redditors out there might have connections. The four I'm really looking at are: Zach Braff, Weird Al, Chad Kroeger, Morgan Freeman, and Neil Tyson. I've got a bit of time to work on this, so there's no pressure on time. Even if anyone has an email address of any good celebrities (or bad ones!) or a phone number to call, that's great! TL;DR:
I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me to ask my girlfriend to prom.<|endoftext|>
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I'm looking for celebrities to ask my girlfriend to prom for me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, everyone. I was hoping reddit might be able to help me on this one. I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me that I can compile into one larger video to ask my girlfriend to prom. I'm really hoping that some redditors out there might have connections. The four I'm really looking at are: Zach Braff, Weird Al, Chad Kroeger, Morgan Freeman, and Neil Tyson. I've got a bit of time to work on this, so there's no pressure on time. Even if anyone has an email address of any good celebrities (or bad ones!) or a phone number to call, that's great! TL;DR: I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me to ask my girlfriend to prom.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, everyone. I was hoping reddit might be able to help me on this one. I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me that I can compile into one larger video to ask my girlfriend to prom. I'm really hoping that some redditors out there might have connections. The four I'm really looking at are: Zach Braff, Weird Al, Chad Kroeger, Morgan Freeman, and Neil Tyson. I've got a bit of time to work on this, so there's no pressure on time. Even if anyone has an email address of any good celebrities (or bad ones!) or a phone number to call, that's great! TL;DR: I'm looking for celebrities to ask my girlfriend to prom for me.<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend and I had been going through a rough patch recently. There were a lot of issues we'd been trying to work through. These include: He was smoking weed a lot and it made it difficult for me to talk to him or have serious conversations. I have significantly less sexual need or desire than he does which was causing frustration. And most recently a male friend of mine tried to hit on me, though nothing happened. We talked through all of these issues, and while things obviously weren't instantly better, we wanted to work through them. The next day I was accepted into a very competitive research fellowship. It would mean I'd be gone for 12 weeks across the country and I'd be leaving in a month. There was a stipend attached and we both agreed it would be foolish for me to not accept the offer. We then decided that because things were so rocky and we would not have much time together in person to fix everything, that breaking up now would be the best solution. This was about 36ish hours ago, and I just started my period. I can't help but think that the issues we had leaning up to this were amplified by my hormones. I don't know how he feels about everything, and I'm not even 100% sure how I feel and now I'm not sure what to do about it.
Boyfriend and I broke up after a rough patch in our relationship, I just started my period and now I'm not sure how to feel about it
Boyfriend and I broke up because of issues that were not immediately resolved. He's going to be away for a year, I'm leaving in a month. I just started my period and am wondering if my hormones might have influenced the breakup.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I had been going through a rough patch recently. There were a lot of issues we'd been trying to work through. These include: He was smoking weed a lot and it made it difficult for me to talk to him or have serious conversations. I have significantly less sexual need or desire than he does which was causing frustration. And most recently a male friend of mine tried to hit on me, though nothing happened. We talked through all of these issues, and while things obviously weren't instantly better, we wanted to work through them. The next day I was accepted into a very competitive research fellowship. It would mean I'd be gone for 12 weeks across the country and I'd be leaving in a month. There was a stipend attached and we both agreed it would be foolish for me to not accept the offer. We then decided that because things were so rocky and we would not have much time together in person to fix everything, that breaking up now would be the best solution. This was about 36ish hours ago, and I just started my period. I can't help but think that the issues we had leaning up to this were amplified by my hormones. I don't know how he feels about everything, and I'm not even 100% sure how I feel and now I'm not sure what to do about it. TL;DR:
Boyfriend and I broke up after a rough patch in our relationship, I just started my period and now I'm not sure how to feel about it<|endoftext|>
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Boyfriend and I broke up because of issues that were not immediately resolved. He's going to be away for a year, I'm leaving in a month. I just started my period and am wondering if my hormones might have influenced the breakup.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I had been going through a rough patch recently. There were a lot of issues we'd been trying to work through. These include: He was smoking weed a lot and it made it difficult for me to talk to him or have serious conversations. I have significantly less sexual need or desire than he does which was causing frustration. And most recently a male friend of mine tried to hit on me, though nothing happened. We talked through all of these issues, and while things obviously weren't instantly better, we wanted to work through them. The next day I was accepted into a very competitive research fellowship. It would mean I'd be gone for 12 weeks across the country and I'd be leaving in a month. There was a stipend attached and we both agreed it would be foolish for me to not accept the offer. We then decided that because things were so rocky and we would not have much time together in person to fix everything, that breaking up now would be the best solution. This was about 36ish hours ago, and I just started my period. I can't help but think that the issues we had leaning up to this were amplified by my hormones. I don't know how he feels about everything, and I'm not even 100% sure how I feel and now I'm not sure what to do about it. TL;DR: Boyfriend and I broke up after a rough patch in our relationship, I just started my period and now I'm not sure how to feel about it<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I had been going through a rough patch recently. There were a lot of issues we'd been trying to work through. These include: He was smoking weed a lot and it made it difficult for me to talk to him or have serious conversations. I have significantly less sexual need or desire than he does which was causing frustration. And most recently a male friend of mine tried to hit on me, though nothing happened. We talked through all of these issues, and while things obviously weren't instantly better, we wanted to work through them. The next day I was accepted into a very competitive research fellowship. It would mean I'd be gone for 12 weeks across the country and I'd be leaving in a month. There was a stipend attached and we both agreed it would be foolish for me to not accept the offer. We then decided that because things were so rocky and we would not have much time together in person to fix everything, that breaking up now would be the best solution. This was about 36ish hours ago, and I just started my period. I can't help but think that the issues we had leaning up to this were amplified by my hormones. I don't know how he feels about everything, and I'm not even 100% sure how I feel and now I'm not sure what to do about it. TL;DR: Boyfriend and I broke up because of issues that were not immediately resolved. He's going to be away for a year, I'm leaving in a month. I just started my period and am wondering if my hormones might have influenced the breakup.<|endoftext|>
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I was curious if there are any married couples in here that are in a consensual open relationship due to stability and/or financial reasons...maybe kids are involved, not enough money to move out, etc... and wanted to know how it is working for you? My wife (31) and I (31) with 2 children are on our last leg of the marriage and not sure if it will end up being fixed. I am sole income provider, she is a SAHM. Outside of our marriage being in a bad place, everything else in our life is fantastic (home is nice, low mortgage, great neighborhood, kids are very happy, good school system, etc..) so the idea of selling the home and splitting everything honestly sounds horrible given we likely wouldn't hop into a "better" financial situation in terms of rent/mortgage for either of us, plus having to fund this place and another place isn't very plausible. So just wondering if others have been through it and how it has worked or not worked for you.
I am curious about the open relationship/mutual monogamy of people who are married to each other, to see if it is a viable option for stability or financial reasons.
Considering open relationship. Curious what others think who have gone through it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was curious if there are any married couples in here that are in a consensual open relationship due to stability and/or financial reasons...maybe kids are involved, not enough money to move out, etc... and wanted to know how it is working for you? My wife (31) and I (31) with 2 children are on our last leg of the marriage and not sure if it will end up being fixed. I am sole income provider, she is a SAHM. Outside of our marriage being in a bad place, everything else in our life is fantastic (home is nice, low mortgage, great neighborhood, kids are very happy, good school system, etc..) so the idea of selling the home and splitting everything honestly sounds horrible given we likely wouldn't hop into a "better" financial situation in terms of rent/mortgage for either of us, plus having to fund this place and another place isn't very plausible. So just wondering if others have been through it and how it has worked or not worked for you. TL;DR:
I am curious about the open relationship/mutual monogamy of people who are married to each other, to see if it is a viable option for stability or financial reasons.<|endoftext|>
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Considering open relationship. Curious what others think who have gone through it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was curious if there are any married couples in here that are in a consensual open relationship due to stability and/or financial reasons...maybe kids are involved, not enough money to move out, etc... and wanted to know how it is working for you? My wife (31) and I (31) with 2 children are on our last leg of the marriage and not sure if it will end up being fixed. I am sole income provider, she is a SAHM. Outside of our marriage being in a bad place, everything else in our life is fantastic (home is nice, low mortgage, great neighborhood, kids are very happy, good school system, etc..) so the idea of selling the home and splitting everything honestly sounds horrible given we likely wouldn't hop into a "better" financial situation in terms of rent/mortgage for either of us, plus having to fund this place and another place isn't very plausible. So just wondering if others have been through it and how it has worked or not worked for you. TL;DR: I am curious about the open relationship/mutual monogamy of people who are married to each other, to see if it is a viable option for stability or financial reasons.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was curious if there are any married couples in here that are in a consensual open relationship due to stability and/or financial reasons...maybe kids are involved, not enough money to move out, etc... and wanted to know how it is working for you? My wife (31) and I (31) with 2 children are on our last leg of the marriage and not sure if it will end up being fixed. I am sole income provider, she is a SAHM. Outside of our marriage being in a bad place, everything else in our life is fantastic (home is nice, low mortgage, great neighborhood, kids are very happy, good school system, etc..) so the idea of selling the home and splitting everything honestly sounds horrible given we likely wouldn't hop into a "better" financial situation in terms of rent/mortgage for either of us, plus having to fund this place and another place isn't very plausible. So just wondering if others have been through it and how it has worked or not worked for you. TL;DR: Considering open relationship. Curious what others think who have gone through it.<|endoftext|>
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My friend and I met originally in high school and back then I was a spastic annoying little child. Since then I have matured grown a couple feet and definitely not changed too much. She and I definitely would butt heads jokingly in high school all the time, but we spent a lot of time together during it and definitely didn't try to avoid each other, but we weren't that close. We have always had a lot of similar interests, and connected easily. Over the past year we really reconnected and have been spending lots more times together. we are both busy adults so when time permits it at least we spend time together. We talk a lot and I have really been trying to taking things further, but to no avail. At one point we had an awkward night out that was similar to a date. I ended up kissing her and she freaked out and we didn't talk for 3 days and she had told me to leave and that it freaked her out. After a few weeks we left that in the past and are still close. I am positive that she freaked out only because she isn't used to that sort of thing and it wasn't because it was me in particular. Anyways I have been been doing my best to get closer, and last night 2 other close mutual friends, her and I had a night of games and drinking that ended up with her and I spending the night cuddled up together her couch. It was nothing sexual and we both kind of acted like nothing happened. Anyways to sum all that up I'm just confused and need an outside perspective. Any advice would be appreciated.
I need some outside advice on how to take my serious and close friend and my awkward self further than we have been.
I have been trying to get closer to my friend but I don't know if it is worth it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend and I met originally in high school and back then I was a spastic annoying little child. Since then I have matured grown a couple feet and definitely not changed too much. She and I definitely would butt heads jokingly in high school all the time, but we spent a lot of time together during it and definitely didn't try to avoid each other, but we weren't that close. We have always had a lot of similar interests, and connected easily. Over the past year we really reconnected and have been spending lots more times together. we are both busy adults so when time permits it at least we spend time together. We talk a lot and I have really been trying to taking things further, but to no avail. At one point we had an awkward night out that was similar to a date. I ended up kissing her and she freaked out and we didn't talk for 3 days and she had told me to leave and that it freaked her out. After a few weeks we left that in the past and are still close. I am positive that she freaked out only because she isn't used to that sort of thing and it wasn't because it was me in particular. Anyways I have been been doing my best to get closer, and last night 2 other close mutual friends, her and I had a night of games and drinking that ended up with her and I spending the night cuddled up together her couch. It was nothing sexual and we both kind of acted like nothing happened. Anyways to sum all that up I'm just confused and need an outside perspective. Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR:
I need some outside advice on how to take my serious and close friend and my awkward self further than we have been.<|endoftext|>
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I have been trying to get closer to my friend but I don't know if it is worth it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend and I met originally in high school and back then I was a spastic annoying little child. Since then I have matured grown a couple feet and definitely not changed too much. She and I definitely would butt heads jokingly in high school all the time, but we spent a lot of time together during it and definitely didn't try to avoid each other, but we weren't that close. We have always had a lot of similar interests, and connected easily. Over the past year we really reconnected and have been spending lots more times together. we are both busy adults so when time permits it at least we spend time together. We talk a lot and I have really been trying to taking things further, but to no avail. At one point we had an awkward night out that was similar to a date. I ended up kissing her and she freaked out and we didn't talk for 3 days and she had told me to leave and that it freaked her out. After a few weeks we left that in the past and are still close. I am positive that she freaked out only because she isn't used to that sort of thing and it wasn't because it was me in particular. Anyways I have been been doing my best to get closer, and last night 2 other close mutual friends, her and I had a night of games and drinking that ended up with her and I spending the night cuddled up together her couch. It was nothing sexual and we both kind of acted like nothing happened. Anyways to sum all that up I'm just confused and need an outside perspective. Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR: I need some outside advice on how to take my serious and close friend and my awkward self further than we have been.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend and I met originally in high school and back then I was a spastic annoying little child. Since then I have matured grown a couple feet and definitely not changed too much. She and I definitely would butt heads jokingly in high school all the time, but we spent a lot of time together during it and definitely didn't try to avoid each other, but we weren't that close. We have always had a lot of similar interests, and connected easily. Over the past year we really reconnected and have been spending lots more times together. we are both busy adults so when time permits it at least we spend time together. We talk a lot and I have really been trying to taking things further, but to no avail. At one point we had an awkward night out that was similar to a date. I ended up kissing her and she freaked out and we didn't talk for 3 days and she had told me to leave and that it freaked her out. After a few weeks we left that in the past and are still close. I am positive that she freaked out only because she isn't used to that sort of thing and it wasn't because it was me in particular. Anyways I have been been doing my best to get closer, and last night 2 other close mutual friends, her and I had a night of games and drinking that ended up with her and I spending the night cuddled up together her couch. It was nothing sexual and we both kind of acted like nothing happened. Anyways to sum all that up I'm just confused and need an outside perspective. Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR: I have been trying to get closer to my friend but I don't know if it is worth it.<|endoftext|>
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My marriage has slowly deteriorated over the last year. To be honest, I don't love her anymore. She is verbally abusive, threatened physical harm to myself as well to others. No one really knows the extent of her behaviors. She puts a good face on with her co-workers and facebook friends. My wife has said extremely hurtful things to me. Some of the things she has said just this past week: 1. I hate you. 2. I wish you would get into a car accident and die. 3. You're horrible at your job, that's why you can't get a promotion. You're retarded. 4. Nobody likes you, that's why you don't have any friends. (I do have friends, or at least had them. She alienated them with her behavior by being rude to them. They straight up told me that's why they never call or come over.) She also nags me constantly about stupid stuff that she does herself. Such as leaving the door unlocked, forgetting to put toilet paper on the roll, etc. I have also caught her looking up how to order suicide bags on the computer. I've dealt with her crap for a long time and I'm by far no angel, but now she is starting to treat our 2 year old daughter the same way. She calls her retarded, asshole, etc. She puts all of these charming facebook posts about our daughter and family, but acts differently in our home like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. I told her tonight that if she verbally threatens myself or our daughter again, I was going to file a restraining order against her and kick her out of the house. Right now I'm sleeping in a spare bedroom. I've tried to get her to go to counseling in the past but she refuses. Any advice would be appreciated. I want a divorce, but I'm worried the extent of how my daughter would be victimized when I'm not there.
Wife is verbally abusive and threatens harm. Considering a divorce but feel like I'm held hostage to protect daughter.
I [34 M] want to divorce my [33 F] wife of 10 years. She is verbally abusive, threatening physical harm to myself, and leaving our 2 year old daughter the same way.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My marriage has slowly deteriorated over the last year. To be honest, I don't love her anymore. She is verbally abusive, threatened physical harm to myself as well to others. No one really knows the extent of her behaviors. She puts a good face on with her co-workers and facebook friends. My wife has said extremely hurtful things to me. Some of the things she has said just this past week: 1. I hate you. 2. I wish you would get into a car accident and die. 3. You're horrible at your job, that's why you can't get a promotion. You're retarded. 4. Nobody likes you, that's why you don't have any friends. (I do have friends, or at least had them. She alienated them with her behavior by being rude to them. They straight up told me that's why they never call or come over.) She also nags me constantly about stupid stuff that she does herself. Such as leaving the door unlocked, forgetting to put toilet paper on the roll, etc. I have also caught her looking up how to order suicide bags on the computer. I've dealt with her crap for a long time and I'm by far no angel, but now she is starting to treat our 2 year old daughter the same way. She calls her retarded, asshole, etc. She puts all of these charming facebook posts about our daughter and family, but acts differently in our home like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. I told her tonight that if she verbally threatens myself or our daughter again, I was going to file a restraining order against her and kick her out of the house. Right now I'm sleeping in a spare bedroom. I've tried to get her to go to counseling in the past but she refuses. Any advice would be appreciated. I want a divorce, but I'm worried the extent of how my daughter would be victimized when I'm not there. TL;DR:
Wife is verbally abusive and threatens harm. Considering a divorce but feel like I'm held hostage to protect daughter.<|endoftext|>
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I [34 M] want to divorce my [33 F] wife of 10 years. She is verbally abusive, threatening physical harm to myself, and leaving our 2 year old daughter the same way.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My marriage has slowly deteriorated over the last year. To be honest, I don't love her anymore. She is verbally abusive, threatened physical harm to myself as well to others. No one really knows the extent of her behaviors. She puts a good face on with her co-workers and facebook friends. My wife has said extremely hurtful things to me. Some of the things she has said just this past week: 1. I hate you. 2. I wish you would get into a car accident and die. 3. You're horrible at your job, that's why you can't get a promotion. You're retarded. 4. Nobody likes you, that's why you don't have any friends. (I do have friends, or at least had them. She alienated them with her behavior by being rude to them. They straight up told me that's why they never call or come over.) She also nags me constantly about stupid stuff that she does herself. Such as leaving the door unlocked, forgetting to put toilet paper on the roll, etc. I have also caught her looking up how to order suicide bags on the computer. I've dealt with her crap for a long time and I'm by far no angel, but now she is starting to treat our 2 year old daughter the same way. She calls her retarded, asshole, etc. She puts all of these charming facebook posts about our daughter and family, but acts differently in our home like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. I told her tonight that if she verbally threatens myself or our daughter again, I was going to file a restraining order against her and kick her out of the house. Right now I'm sleeping in a spare bedroom. I've tried to get her to go to counseling in the past but she refuses. Any advice would be appreciated. I want a divorce, but I'm worried the extent of how my daughter would be victimized when I'm not there. TL;DR: Wife is verbally abusive and threatens harm. Considering a divorce but feel like I'm held hostage to protect daughter.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My marriage has slowly deteriorated over the last year. To be honest, I don't love her anymore. She is verbally abusive, threatened physical harm to myself as well to others. No one really knows the extent of her behaviors. She puts a good face on with her co-workers and facebook friends. My wife has said extremely hurtful things to me. Some of the things she has said just this past week: 1. I hate you. 2. I wish you would get into a car accident and die. 3. You're horrible at your job, that's why you can't get a promotion. You're retarded. 4. Nobody likes you, that's why you don't have any friends. (I do have friends, or at least had them. She alienated them with her behavior by being rude to them. They straight up told me that's why they never call or come over.) She also nags me constantly about stupid stuff that she does herself. Such as leaving the door unlocked, forgetting to put toilet paper on the roll, etc. I have also caught her looking up how to order suicide bags on the computer. I've dealt with her crap for a long time and I'm by far no angel, but now she is starting to treat our 2 year old daughter the same way. She calls her retarded, asshole, etc. She puts all of these charming facebook posts about our daughter and family, but acts differently in our home like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. I told her tonight that if she verbally threatens myself or our daughter again, I was going to file a restraining order against her and kick her out of the house. Right now I'm sleeping in a spare bedroom. I've tried to get her to go to counseling in the past but she refuses. Any advice would be appreciated. I want a divorce, but I'm worried the extent of how my daughter would be victimized when I'm not there. TL;DR: I [34 M] want to divorce my [33 F] wife of 10 years. She is verbally abusive, threatening physical harm to myself, and leaving our 2 year old daughter the same way.<|endoftext|>
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I've been seeing this girl for about a month now, and we've had sex multiple times. She's had a very active sexual history, but she was recently tested and she's clean apart from HPV. We are keeping it casual, which means we're okay with each other sleeping with other people, but I still wanted to keep things safe. I asked her to use condoms when sleeping with other guys (I always use a condom when having sex with her) so that I could feel safe about this whole arrangement, but she protested. She takes birth control, and her logic is that she takes it for a reason - so she can have unprotected sex and not worry about pregnancy. I explained that my request was not because I was worried about pregnancy, but because I was worried about some random guy lying to her about being clean and giving her something nasty, therefore putting me at risk. She said it shouldn't matter anyway, since I use a condom, and I told her that condoms are great at protecting girls from guys but not so great the other way around (simply due to the logistics of the whole thing). We're planning to talk about this more, but I wanted to run it by you guys for some second opinions. Am I being unreasonable by asking her to use condoms when sleeping with other guys? She says she really dislikes the feeling of condoms and much prefers bareback, which I totally get, but they make super-thin condoms nowadays. I also get that she takes birth control for a reason, but I feel like this is a discussion about STIs and not pregnancy at all. I don't feel like birth control and condoms have anything to do with each other for the topic that I'm concerned about (STIs).
Girl I'm seeing doesn't seem to take precautions when having sex with other guys, so I asked her to use condoms. She says she doesn't like the feeling of condoms, but I feel like this discussion is about pregnancy, not STIs. Am I being unreasonable?
Girl I'm dating doesn't like condoms, and I want to know if that's reasonable.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been seeing this girl for about a month now, and we've had sex multiple times. She's had a very active sexual history, but she was recently tested and she's clean apart from HPV. We are keeping it casual, which means we're okay with each other sleeping with other people, but I still wanted to keep things safe. I asked her to use condoms when sleeping with other guys (I always use a condom when having sex with her) so that I could feel safe about this whole arrangement, but she protested. She takes birth control, and her logic is that she takes it for a reason - so she can have unprotected sex and not worry about pregnancy. I explained that my request was not because I was worried about pregnancy, but because I was worried about some random guy lying to her about being clean and giving her something nasty, therefore putting me at risk. She said it shouldn't matter anyway, since I use a condom, and I told her that condoms are great at protecting girls from guys but not so great the other way around (simply due to the logistics of the whole thing). We're planning to talk about this more, but I wanted to run it by you guys for some second opinions. Am I being unreasonable by asking her to use condoms when sleeping with other guys? She says she really dislikes the feeling of condoms and much prefers bareback, which I totally get, but they make super-thin condoms nowadays. I also get that she takes birth control for a reason, but I feel like this is a discussion about STIs and not pregnancy at all. I don't feel like birth control and condoms have anything to do with each other for the topic that I'm concerned about (STIs). TL;DR:
Girl I'm seeing doesn't seem to take precautions when having sex with other guys, so I asked her to use condoms. She says she doesn't like the feeling of condoms, but I feel like this discussion is about pregnancy, not STIs. Am I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>
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Girl I'm dating doesn't like condoms, and I want to know if that's reasonable.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been seeing this girl for about a month now, and we've had sex multiple times. She's had a very active sexual history, but she was recently tested and she's clean apart from HPV. We are keeping it casual, which means we're okay with each other sleeping with other people, but I still wanted to keep things safe. I asked her to use condoms when sleeping with other guys (I always use a condom when having sex with her) so that I could feel safe about this whole arrangement, but she protested. She takes birth control, and her logic is that she takes it for a reason - so she can have unprotected sex and not worry about pregnancy. I explained that my request was not because I was worried about pregnancy, but because I was worried about some random guy lying to her about being clean and giving her something nasty, therefore putting me at risk. She said it shouldn't matter anyway, since I use a condom, and I told her that condoms are great at protecting girls from guys but not so great the other way around (simply due to the logistics of the whole thing). We're planning to talk about this more, but I wanted to run it by you guys for some second opinions. Am I being unreasonable by asking her to use condoms when sleeping with other guys? She says she really dislikes the feeling of condoms and much prefers bareback, which I totally get, but they make super-thin condoms nowadays. I also get that she takes birth control for a reason, but I feel like this is a discussion about STIs and not pregnancy at all. I don't feel like birth control and condoms have anything to do with each other for the topic that I'm concerned about (STIs). TL;DR: Girl I'm seeing doesn't seem to take precautions when having sex with other guys, so I asked her to use condoms. She says she doesn't like the feeling of condoms, but I feel like this discussion is about pregnancy, not STIs. Am I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been seeing this girl for about a month now, and we've had sex multiple times. She's had a very active sexual history, but she was recently tested and she's clean apart from HPV. We are keeping it casual, which means we're okay with each other sleeping with other people, but I still wanted to keep things safe. I asked her to use condoms when sleeping with other guys (I always use a condom when having sex with her) so that I could feel safe about this whole arrangement, but she protested. She takes birth control, and her logic is that she takes it for a reason - so she can have unprotected sex and not worry about pregnancy. I explained that my request was not because I was worried about pregnancy, but because I was worried about some random guy lying to her about being clean and giving her something nasty, therefore putting me at risk. She said it shouldn't matter anyway, since I use a condom, and I told her that condoms are great at protecting girls from guys but not so great the other way around (simply due to the logistics of the whole thing). We're planning to talk about this more, but I wanted to run it by you guys for some second opinions. Am I being unreasonable by asking her to use condoms when sleeping with other guys? She says she really dislikes the feeling of condoms and much prefers bareback, which I totally get, but they make super-thin condoms nowadays. I also get that she takes birth control for a reason, but I feel like this is a discussion about STIs and not pregnancy at all. I don't feel like birth control and condoms have anything to do with each other for the topic that I'm concerned about (STIs). TL;DR: Girl I'm dating doesn't like condoms, and I want to know if that's reasonable.<|endoftext|>
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I dont really know what to say, it's such a first world problem. I've seriously got my dream job right now and it's the fucking best. I worked my ass off to get this job and to get to this point in my life. I worked my fucking ass off and the job is fucking awesome. On top of that, I live rent free in the most amazing place. I worked my ass off to get this place too. like seriously harder than I have ever worked for anything. And yet, I'm still unhappy. I love my job so much that when I get home, I just can't wait to go to work. I have 7 hours of free time before bed and I just end up sitting there doing nothing. Everything I've ever done as a hobby before, everything I ever did in my spare time before, is now being fulfilled by my current job but yet, I have still have to endure 7 hours of solitude doing nothing because I can only handle so much fun. So It's really fucking weird to complain about. And how the fuck is anyone going to be able to relate to that? I just feel so goddamn lonely about that. And then on top of all that, i dont know where I am with my life relationship-wise. I'm 24. I've slept with so many women, and im pretty sure im a sex-addict. I've just been chasing the same feeling of love that I had with my first highschool sweetheart girlfriend. Everything since then has been unfufilling. So I've tried online dating, but theres clearly a systemic problem in my relationships that I need to address. Look, I don't know what I'm doing by writing here. I just need to get this off my chest. I've got seriously everything I've ever wanted, but somehow I've got nothing. Please help me.
I've got everything I've ever wanted, but still feel really empty. How do you cope with a lack of a life?
I've got everything I've ever wanted, but I have nothing to feel happy about.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I dont really know what to say, it's such a first world problem. I've seriously got my dream job right now and it's the fucking best. I worked my ass off to get this job and to get to this point in my life. I worked my fucking ass off and the job is fucking awesome. On top of that, I live rent free in the most amazing place. I worked my ass off to get this place too. like seriously harder than I have ever worked for anything. And yet, I'm still unhappy. I love my job so much that when I get home, I just can't wait to go to work. I have 7 hours of free time before bed and I just end up sitting there doing nothing. Everything I've ever done as a hobby before, everything I ever did in my spare time before, is now being fulfilled by my current job but yet, I have still have to endure 7 hours of solitude doing nothing because I can only handle so much fun. So It's really fucking weird to complain about. And how the fuck is anyone going to be able to relate to that? I just feel so goddamn lonely about that. And then on top of all that, i dont know where I am with my life relationship-wise. I'm 24. I've slept with so many women, and im pretty sure im a sex-addict. I've just been chasing the same feeling of love that I had with my first highschool sweetheart girlfriend. Everything since then has been unfufilling. So I've tried online dating, but theres clearly a systemic problem in my relationships that I need to address. Look, I don't know what I'm doing by writing here. I just need to get this off my chest. I've got seriously everything I've ever wanted, but somehow I've got nothing. Please help me. TL;DR:
I've got everything I've ever wanted, but still feel really empty. How do you cope with a lack of a life?<|endoftext|>
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I've got everything I've ever wanted, but I have nothing to feel happy about.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I dont really know what to say, it's such a first world problem. I've seriously got my dream job right now and it's the fucking best. I worked my ass off to get this job and to get to this point in my life. I worked my fucking ass off and the job is fucking awesome. On top of that, I live rent free in the most amazing place. I worked my ass off to get this place too. like seriously harder than I have ever worked for anything. And yet, I'm still unhappy. I love my job so much that when I get home, I just can't wait to go to work. I have 7 hours of free time before bed and I just end up sitting there doing nothing. Everything I've ever done as a hobby before, everything I ever did in my spare time before, is now being fulfilled by my current job but yet, I have still have to endure 7 hours of solitude doing nothing because I can only handle so much fun. So It's really fucking weird to complain about. And how the fuck is anyone going to be able to relate to that? I just feel so goddamn lonely about that. And then on top of all that, i dont know where I am with my life relationship-wise. I'm 24. I've slept with so many women, and im pretty sure im a sex-addict. I've just been chasing the same feeling of love that I had with my first highschool sweetheart girlfriend. Everything since then has been unfufilling. So I've tried online dating, but theres clearly a systemic problem in my relationships that I need to address. Look, I don't know what I'm doing by writing here. I just need to get this off my chest. I've got seriously everything I've ever wanted, but somehow I've got nothing. Please help me. TL;DR: I've got everything I've ever wanted, but still feel really empty. How do you cope with a lack of a life?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I dont really know what to say, it's such a first world problem. I've seriously got my dream job right now and it's the fucking best. I worked my ass off to get this job and to get to this point in my life. I worked my fucking ass off and the job is fucking awesome. On top of that, I live rent free in the most amazing place. I worked my ass off to get this place too. like seriously harder than I have ever worked for anything. And yet, I'm still unhappy. I love my job so much that when I get home, I just can't wait to go to work. I have 7 hours of free time before bed and I just end up sitting there doing nothing. Everything I've ever done as a hobby before, everything I ever did in my spare time before, is now being fulfilled by my current job but yet, I have still have to endure 7 hours of solitude doing nothing because I can only handle so much fun. So It's really fucking weird to complain about. And how the fuck is anyone going to be able to relate to that? I just feel so goddamn lonely about that. And then on top of all that, i dont know where I am with my life relationship-wise. I'm 24. I've slept with so many women, and im pretty sure im a sex-addict. I've just been chasing the same feeling of love that I had with my first highschool sweetheart girlfriend. Everything since then has been unfufilling. So I've tried online dating, but theres clearly a systemic problem in my relationships that I need to address. Look, I don't know what I'm doing by writing here. I just need to get this off my chest. I've got seriously everything I've ever wanted, but somehow I've got nothing. Please help me. TL;DR: I've got everything I've ever wanted, but I have nothing to feel happy about.<|endoftext|>
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So, my boyfriend has been really busy lately and hasn't had anytime for me at all. I told him how I felt and he told me he'd try to make more time for me. As time went on, nothing got better, and I started to feel as though I was a burden to him. I know he's been really stressed out lately, what with his family, school, and me. I told him that I'm adding to his stress and suggested that we take a break. We didn't get to finish our conversation because his dad made him get off of the phone. I'm not sure if I did the right thing.
Boyfriend has been really busy lately and hasn't made time for me. I told him that I'm adding to his stress and suggested a break. He didn't finish our conversation. I don't know what to do now.
My boyfriend and I took a break, but now it seems as though we broke up. I don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, my boyfriend has been really busy lately and hasn't had anytime for me at all. I told him how I felt and he told me he'd try to make more time for me. As time went on, nothing got better, and I started to feel as though I was a burden to him. I know he's been really stressed out lately, what with his family, school, and me. I told him that I'm adding to his stress and suggested that we take a break. We didn't get to finish our conversation because his dad made him get off of the phone. I'm not sure if I did the right thing. TL;DR:
Boyfriend has been really busy lately and hasn't made time for me. I told him that I'm adding to his stress and suggested a break. He didn't finish our conversation. I don't know what to do now.<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend and I took a break, but now it seems as though we broke up. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, my boyfriend has been really busy lately and hasn't had anytime for me at all. I told him how I felt and he told me he'd try to make more time for me. As time went on, nothing got better, and I started to feel as though I was a burden to him. I know he's been really stressed out lately, what with his family, school, and me. I told him that I'm adding to his stress and suggested that we take a break. We didn't get to finish our conversation because his dad made him get off of the phone. I'm not sure if I did the right thing. TL;DR: Boyfriend has been really busy lately and hasn't made time for me. I told him that I'm adding to his stress and suggested a break. He didn't finish our conversation. I don't know what to do now.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, my boyfriend has been really busy lately and hasn't had anytime for me at all. I told him how I felt and he told me he'd try to make more time for me. As time went on, nothing got better, and I started to feel as though I was a burden to him. I know he's been really stressed out lately, what with his family, school, and me. I told him that I'm adding to his stress and suggested that we take a break. We didn't get to finish our conversation because his dad made him get off of the phone. I'm not sure if I did the right thing. TL;DR: My boyfriend and I took a break, but now it seems as though we broke up. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Hi everyone, been reading for awhile and I would really enjoy some advice. :) Using a throwaway because i'm not sure if my bf reads this sub haha. I [20f] started dating my boyfriend [20m] about 2 years ago, he's my first real relationship and I love him more than anything. He's been great, we have a lot of common interests, great sex life, I just feel like something is missing. Like I said he is my first real relationship and coming with that, he was my first kiss, first everything. I've changed a lot in the last couple of years, most importantly he has significantly raised my self-esteem in the time we've been dating. I'm a lot more outspoken and just not afraid of going out or meeting new people anymore. For example, a year ago I would be terrified of even posting this... Haha. That's all great and for that I love him even more but I can't help but miss dating... The excitement that comes with it and just feeling really desired again... I feel like he is comfortable and doesn't need to 'woo' me as much, I don't need the wooing, but it would be nice every so often! I know he's tired from work and all but so am I, yet I can find the time to bake him cookies, make dinner, tidy the house, be pleasant when he gets home etc. i'm not ready to be a doting housewife at age 20 with an unappreciative partner :( It's really difficult to even begin to bring this up to him without feeling like i'm attacking him. I love him more than anything, we've talked extensively about our future, kids and the like. We're both just trying to work hard now to make our future as awesome as possible, and I can't imagine him with anyone else. :( Has anyone else ever felt this way? What did you do? Sorry if this doesn't 'flow' very nicely, just kind of typing what i'm thinking. I'll answer whatever questions anyone has, thanks!
I [20f] love my boyfriend [20m] but the excitement I used to get from dating is missing. What can I do?
Dated boy for 2 years, loved him and still love him, still want to date him, but can't find the time or energy to flirt like I used to.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi everyone, been reading for awhile and I would really enjoy some advice. :) Using a throwaway because i'm not sure if my bf reads this sub haha. I [20f] started dating my boyfriend [20m] about 2 years ago, he's my first real relationship and I love him more than anything. He's been great, we have a lot of common interests, great sex life, I just feel like something is missing. Like I said he is my first real relationship and coming with that, he was my first kiss, first everything. I've changed a lot in the last couple of years, most importantly he has significantly raised my self-esteem in the time we've been dating. I'm a lot more outspoken and just not afraid of going out or meeting new people anymore. For example, a year ago I would be terrified of even posting this... Haha. That's all great and for that I love him even more but I can't help but miss dating... The excitement that comes with it and just feeling really desired again... I feel like he is comfortable and doesn't need to 'woo' me as much, I don't need the wooing, but it would be nice every so often! I know he's tired from work and all but so am I, yet I can find the time to bake him cookies, make dinner, tidy the house, be pleasant when he gets home etc. i'm not ready to be a doting housewife at age 20 with an unappreciative partner :( It's really difficult to even begin to bring this up to him without feeling like i'm attacking him. I love him more than anything, we've talked extensively about our future, kids and the like. We're both just trying to work hard now to make our future as awesome as possible, and I can't imagine him with anyone else. :( Has anyone else ever felt this way? What did you do? Sorry if this doesn't 'flow' very nicely, just kind of typing what i'm thinking. I'll answer whatever questions anyone has, thanks! TL;DR:
I [20f] love my boyfriend [20m] but the excitement I used to get from dating is missing. What can I do?<|endoftext|>
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Dated boy for 2 years, loved him and still love him, still want to date him, but can't find the time or energy to flirt like I used to.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi everyone, been reading for awhile and I would really enjoy some advice. :) Using a throwaway because i'm not sure if my bf reads this sub haha. I [20f] started dating my boyfriend [20m] about 2 years ago, he's my first real relationship and I love him more than anything. He's been great, we have a lot of common interests, great sex life, I just feel like something is missing. Like I said he is my first real relationship and coming with that, he was my first kiss, first everything. I've changed a lot in the last couple of years, most importantly he has significantly raised my self-esteem in the time we've been dating. I'm a lot more outspoken and just not afraid of going out or meeting new people anymore. For example, a year ago I would be terrified of even posting this... Haha. That's all great and for that I love him even more but I can't help but miss dating... The excitement that comes with it and just feeling really desired again... I feel like he is comfortable and doesn't need to 'woo' me as much, I don't need the wooing, but it would be nice every so often! I know he's tired from work and all but so am I, yet I can find the time to bake him cookies, make dinner, tidy the house, be pleasant when he gets home etc. i'm not ready to be a doting housewife at age 20 with an unappreciative partner :( It's really difficult to even begin to bring this up to him without feeling like i'm attacking him. I love him more than anything, we've talked extensively about our future, kids and the like. We're both just trying to work hard now to make our future as awesome as possible, and I can't imagine him with anyone else. :( Has anyone else ever felt this way? What did you do? Sorry if this doesn't 'flow' very nicely, just kind of typing what i'm thinking. I'll answer whatever questions anyone has, thanks! TL;DR: I [20f] love my boyfriend [20m] but the excitement I used to get from dating is missing. What can I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi everyone, been reading for awhile and I would really enjoy some advice. :) Using a throwaway because i'm not sure if my bf reads this sub haha. I [20f] started dating my boyfriend [20m] about 2 years ago, he's my first real relationship and I love him more than anything. He's been great, we have a lot of common interests, great sex life, I just feel like something is missing. Like I said he is my first real relationship and coming with that, he was my first kiss, first everything. I've changed a lot in the last couple of years, most importantly he has significantly raised my self-esteem in the time we've been dating. I'm a lot more outspoken and just not afraid of going out or meeting new people anymore. For example, a year ago I would be terrified of even posting this... Haha. That's all great and for that I love him even more but I can't help but miss dating... The excitement that comes with it and just feeling really desired again... I feel like he is comfortable and doesn't need to 'woo' me as much, I don't need the wooing, but it would be nice every so often! I know he's tired from work and all but so am I, yet I can find the time to bake him cookies, make dinner, tidy the house, be pleasant when he gets home etc. i'm not ready to be a doting housewife at age 20 with an unappreciative partner :( It's really difficult to even begin to bring this up to him without feeling like i'm attacking him. I love him more than anything, we've talked extensively about our future, kids and the like. We're both just trying to work hard now to make our future as awesome as possible, and I can't imagine him with anyone else. :( Has anyone else ever felt this way? What did you do? Sorry if this doesn't 'flow' very nicely, just kind of typing what i'm thinking. I'll answer whatever questions anyone has, thanks! TL;DR: Dated boy for 2 years, loved him and still love him, still want to date him, but can't find the time or energy to flirt like I used to.<|endoftext|>
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This had happened about 6 months ago where I was close friends with a couple (let's call them Matt and Sarah] who eventually married. I was invited to the wedding as well. Anyway, after about a few months, they had a pretty bad divorce where the divorce courts had dragged it on for several more months. When it came down to this, rumors began to spread about who was at fault. Sarah [25F] came to me for support, as she did not have anyone to turn to, which I believed. At the same time, Matt text me asking about Sarah and whether I was approached by her or if she was at my place (just for visiting nothing more). I did not respond as I felt that there was immense tension since Sarah avoided any contact with Matt since he would continually stalk her. Over the months, she was getting bombarded with text messages about how he loves her or that he threatened to kill he cat. It was very sporadic in what he was trying to say. Anyway, I just wanted to avoid getting in between them, so I just focused on one side rather than mediate. Also, I agreed with her points that the guy had a severe gambling problem (but that's another story). Getting to the point, I have been invited by another friend (Peter/29M) to his wedding and Matt is going to be attending. Not sure if Peter knows about my falling out with Matt, but I intend to go. I just want to avoid unnecessary conflict given that it was rumoured at first that Sarah left Matt for me (which was entirely false and now has a public relationship with someone else after and I was in a committed relationship even after their breakup).
I was in the middle of two friends breaking up and now one of them is coming to a mutual friend's wedding and I did not side with him. What do I do?
Do I go to a wedding where one of the people is going to be in the same wedding?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This had happened about 6 months ago where I was close friends with a couple (let's call them Matt and Sarah] who eventually married. I was invited to the wedding as well. Anyway, after about a few months, they had a pretty bad divorce where the divorce courts had dragged it on for several more months. When it came down to this, rumors began to spread about who was at fault. Sarah [25F] came to me for support, as she did not have anyone to turn to, which I believed. At the same time, Matt text me asking about Sarah and whether I was approached by her or if she was at my place (just for visiting nothing more). I did not respond as I felt that there was immense tension since Sarah avoided any contact with Matt since he would continually stalk her. Over the months, she was getting bombarded with text messages about how he loves her or that he threatened to kill he cat. It was very sporadic in what he was trying to say. Anyway, I just wanted to avoid getting in between them, so I just focused on one side rather than mediate. Also, I agreed with her points that the guy had a severe gambling problem (but that's another story). Getting to the point, I have been invited by another friend (Peter/29M) to his wedding and Matt is going to be attending. Not sure if Peter knows about my falling out with Matt, but I intend to go. I just want to avoid unnecessary conflict given that it was rumoured at first that Sarah left Matt for me (which was entirely false and now has a public relationship with someone else after and I was in a committed relationship even after their breakup). TL;DR:
I was in the middle of two friends breaking up and now one of them is coming to a mutual friend's wedding and I did not side with him. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
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Do I go to a wedding where one of the people is going to be in the same wedding?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This had happened about 6 months ago where I was close friends with a couple (let's call them Matt and Sarah] who eventually married. I was invited to the wedding as well. Anyway, after about a few months, they had a pretty bad divorce where the divorce courts had dragged it on for several more months. When it came down to this, rumors began to spread about who was at fault. Sarah [25F] came to me for support, as she did not have anyone to turn to, which I believed. At the same time, Matt text me asking about Sarah and whether I was approached by her or if she was at my place (just for visiting nothing more). I did not respond as I felt that there was immense tension since Sarah avoided any contact with Matt since he would continually stalk her. Over the months, she was getting bombarded with text messages about how he loves her or that he threatened to kill he cat. It was very sporadic in what he was trying to say. Anyway, I just wanted to avoid getting in between them, so I just focused on one side rather than mediate. Also, I agreed with her points that the guy had a severe gambling problem (but that's another story). Getting to the point, I have been invited by another friend (Peter/29M) to his wedding and Matt is going to be attending. Not sure if Peter knows about my falling out with Matt, but I intend to go. I just want to avoid unnecessary conflict given that it was rumoured at first that Sarah left Matt for me (which was entirely false and now has a public relationship with someone else after and I was in a committed relationship even after their breakup). TL;DR: I was in the middle of two friends breaking up and now one of them is coming to a mutual friend's wedding and I did not side with him. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This had happened about 6 months ago where I was close friends with a couple (let's call them Matt and Sarah] who eventually married. I was invited to the wedding as well. Anyway, after about a few months, they had a pretty bad divorce where the divorce courts had dragged it on for several more months. When it came down to this, rumors began to spread about who was at fault. Sarah [25F] came to me for support, as she did not have anyone to turn to, which I believed. At the same time, Matt text me asking about Sarah and whether I was approached by her or if she was at my place (just for visiting nothing more). I did not respond as I felt that there was immense tension since Sarah avoided any contact with Matt since he would continually stalk her. Over the months, she was getting bombarded with text messages about how he loves her or that he threatened to kill he cat. It was very sporadic in what he was trying to say. Anyway, I just wanted to avoid getting in between them, so I just focused on one side rather than mediate. Also, I agreed with her points that the guy had a severe gambling problem (but that's another story). Getting to the point, I have been invited by another friend (Peter/29M) to his wedding and Matt is going to be attending. Not sure if Peter knows about my falling out with Matt, but I intend to go. I just want to avoid unnecessary conflict given that it was rumoured at first that Sarah left Matt for me (which was entirely false and now has a public relationship with someone else after and I was in a committed relationship even after their breakup). TL;DR: Do I go to a wedding where one of the people is going to be in the same wedding?<|endoftext|>
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Hello reddit First of all, Sorry for my English . I [30m] have a girlfriend [29f] who is a really nice girl. We've been together for the last 2 1/2 years. We were friends before that and I really love her. But I am not in love with her. To be completely honest, I never was. At the beginning, I was alone, far away from home , family and friends, she was in love with me and I was sexually attracted to her, so I though "why not"? Her family is now like my 2nd family, we even work together. But My heart truly belongs to someone else. An ex [30f] that I broke because I had to move out of town. We reconnected recently and we both feel in love. Sex with this one was amazing and passionate even after 3 years. On the other hand, the sex with my current girlfriend is only "acceptable". Not bad, but not amazing. I feel we cannot establish a deep emotional connection, no matter how hard we try. M idea is to break up with my current girlfriend to get back with my ex. Even if I believe this is the honest thing to do, it is extremely painful. We've shared 2.5 amazing years and, even if I am not in love with her, I really care about her and I know that breaking up will make she suffer a lot. In addition, I am afraid of losing her family friendship. So, as you can imagine, i am suffering a lot and having 2nd thoughts. Not sure if I end this relationship to pursue the love of my life or if I stay with this lovely girl with I have a really comfortably relationship, although I am not in love with her. Any thoughts? Thanks
My girlfriend is a great person, but I am not in love with her. I want to break up with her to be with my ex. But I don't know if I am right.
not in love with current girlfriend. In love with my ex. What should I do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello reddit First of all, Sorry for my English. I [30m] have a girlfriend [29f] who is a really nice girl. We've been together for the last 2 1/2 years. We were friends before that and I really love her. But I am not in love with her. To be completely honest, I never was. At the beginning, I was alone, far away from home, family and friends, she was in love with me and I was sexually attracted to her, so I though "why not"? Her family is now like my 2nd family, we even work together. But My heart truly belongs to someone else. An ex [30f] that I broke because I had to move out of town. We reconnected recently and we both feel in love. Sex with this one was amazing and passionate even after 3 years. On the other hand, the sex with my current girlfriend is only "acceptable". Not bad, but not amazing. I feel we cannot establish a deep emotional connection, no matter how hard we try. M idea is to break up with my current girlfriend to get back with my ex. Even if I believe this is the honest thing to do, it is extremely painful. We've shared 2.5 amazing years and, even if I am not in love with her, I really care about her and I know that breaking up will make she suffer a lot. In addition, I am afraid of losing her family friendship. So, as you can imagine, i am suffering a lot and having 2nd thoughts. Not sure if I end this relationship to pursue the love of my life or if I stay with this lovely girl with I have a really comfortably relationship, although I am not in love with her. Any thoughts? Thanks TL;DR:
My girlfriend is a great person, but I am not in love with her. I want to break up with her to be with my ex. But I don't know if I am right.<|endoftext|>
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not in love with current girlfriend. In love with my ex. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello reddit First of all, Sorry for my English. I [30m] have a girlfriend [29f] who is a really nice girl. We've been together for the last 2 1/2 years. We were friends before that and I really love her. But I am not in love with her. To be completely honest, I never was. At the beginning, I was alone, far away from home, family and friends, she was in love with me and I was sexually attracted to her, so I though "why not"? Her family is now like my 2nd family, we even work together. But My heart truly belongs to someone else. An ex [30f] that I broke because I had to move out of town. We reconnected recently and we both feel in love. Sex with this one was amazing and passionate even after 3 years. On the other hand, the sex with my current girlfriend is only "acceptable". Not bad, but not amazing. I feel we cannot establish a deep emotional connection, no matter how hard we try. M idea is to break up with my current girlfriend to get back with my ex. Even if I believe this is the honest thing to do, it is extremely painful. We've shared 2.5 amazing years and, even if I am not in love with her, I really care about her and I know that breaking up will make she suffer a lot. In addition, I am afraid of losing her family friendship. So, as you can imagine, i am suffering a lot and having 2nd thoughts. Not sure if I end this relationship to pursue the love of my life or if I stay with this lovely girl with I have a really comfortably relationship, although I am not in love with her. Any thoughts? Thanks TL;DR: My girlfriend is a great person, but I am not in love with her. I want to break up with her to be with my ex. But I don't know if I am right.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello reddit First of all, Sorry for my English. I [30m] have a girlfriend [29f] who is a really nice girl. We've been together for the last 2 1/2 years. We were friends before that and I really love her. But I am not in love with her. To be completely honest, I never was. At the beginning, I was alone, far away from home, family and friends, she was in love with me and I was sexually attracted to her, so I though "why not"? Her family is now like my 2nd family, we even work together. But My heart truly belongs to someone else. An ex [30f] that I broke because I had to move out of town. We reconnected recently and we both feel in love. Sex with this one was amazing and passionate even after 3 years. On the other hand, the sex with my current girlfriend is only "acceptable". Not bad, but not amazing. I feel we cannot establish a deep emotional connection, no matter how hard we try. M idea is to break up with my current girlfriend to get back with my ex. Even if I believe this is the honest thing to do, it is extremely painful. We've shared 2.5 amazing years and, even if I am not in love with her, I really care about her and I know that breaking up will make she suffer a lot. In addition, I am afraid of losing her family friendship. So, as you can imagine, i am suffering a lot and having 2nd thoughts. Not sure if I end this relationship to pursue the love of my life or if I stay with this lovely girl with I have a really comfortably relationship, although I am not in love with her. Any thoughts? Thanks TL;DR: not in love with current girlfriend. In love with my ex. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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So early on in our relationship (we've been together for 3 or 4 years now) I was confused about my sexuality and as a result I didn't know if I was attracted to her or not. I thought that if I acted really shitty towards her I would be able to get her to break up with me and save her even more pain later on down the road (not the best logic on my part). However she didn't and we've still been dating and I've recently come to better terms with my sexuality (I'm either bisexual or pansexual, still not quite sure which one yet) and our relationship has been in a great place for a while (except for the occasional downturn but that happens to every relationship) and we want to get married to each other and have kids, etc. Recently she's been asking if I've ever thought about doing anything with another guy to which I've said no. She's mentioned that she wouldn't mind if I was (we're both really open-minded and she's bisexual also, typically being attracted to girls) but I'm not sure if I'm comfortable sharing that part of myself with her yet or if she'll truly understand.
I'm not sure if I should come out to my girlfriend of 3+ years (who's bisexual, I'm pansexual) because I'm not sure how she will react.
Was a shitty human being, tried to have gf break up with me due to confused feelings, now in a good place and don't know if I should come out to her
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So early on in our relationship (we've been together for 3 or 4 years now) I was confused about my sexuality and as a result I didn't know if I was attracted to her or not. I thought that if I acted really shitty towards her I would be able to get her to break up with me and save her even more pain later on down the road (not the best logic on my part). However she didn't and we've still been dating and I've recently come to better terms with my sexuality (I'm either bisexual or pansexual, still not quite sure which one yet) and our relationship has been in a great place for a while (except for the occasional downturn but that happens to every relationship) and we want to get married to each other and have kids, etc. Recently she's been asking if I've ever thought about doing anything with another guy to which I've said no. She's mentioned that she wouldn't mind if I was (we're both really open-minded and she's bisexual also, typically being attracted to girls) but I'm not sure if I'm comfortable sharing that part of myself with her yet or if she'll truly understand. TL;DR:
I'm not sure if I should come out to my girlfriend of 3+ years (who's bisexual, I'm pansexual) because I'm not sure how she will react.<|endoftext|>
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Was a shitty human being, tried to have gf break up with me due to confused feelings, now in a good place and don't know if I should come out to her<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So early on in our relationship (we've been together for 3 or 4 years now) I was confused about my sexuality and as a result I didn't know if I was attracted to her or not. I thought that if I acted really shitty towards her I would be able to get her to break up with me and save her even more pain later on down the road (not the best logic on my part). However she didn't and we've still been dating and I've recently come to better terms with my sexuality (I'm either bisexual or pansexual, still not quite sure which one yet) and our relationship has been in a great place for a while (except for the occasional downturn but that happens to every relationship) and we want to get married to each other and have kids, etc. Recently she's been asking if I've ever thought about doing anything with another guy to which I've said no. She's mentioned that she wouldn't mind if I was (we're both really open-minded and she's bisexual also, typically being attracted to girls) but I'm not sure if I'm comfortable sharing that part of myself with her yet or if she'll truly understand. TL;DR: I'm not sure if I should come out to my girlfriend of 3+ years (who's bisexual, I'm pansexual) because I'm not sure how she will react.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So early on in our relationship (we've been together for 3 or 4 years now) I was confused about my sexuality and as a result I didn't know if I was attracted to her or not. I thought that if I acted really shitty towards her I would be able to get her to break up with me and save her even more pain later on down the road (not the best logic on my part). However she didn't and we've still been dating and I've recently come to better terms with my sexuality (I'm either bisexual or pansexual, still not quite sure which one yet) and our relationship has been in a great place for a while (except for the occasional downturn but that happens to every relationship) and we want to get married to each other and have kids, etc. Recently she's been asking if I've ever thought about doing anything with another guy to which I've said no. She's mentioned that she wouldn't mind if I was (we're both really open-minded and she's bisexual also, typically being attracted to girls) but I'm not sure if I'm comfortable sharing that part of myself with her yet or if she'll truly understand. TL;DR: Was a shitty human being, tried to have gf break up with me due to confused feelings, now in a good place and don't know if I should come out to her<|endoftext|>
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We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.
Girlfriend and I have a great relationship but he won't stop masturbating. Not sure what to do. Looking for ACTUAL advice.
I'm in therapy and can't get my internet to work. I love my boyfriend. He wants more. I don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice. TL;DR:
Girlfriend and I have a great relationship but he won't stop masturbating. Not sure what to do. Looking for ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>
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I'm in therapy and can't get my internet to work. I love my boyfriend. He wants more. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice. TL;DR: Girlfriend and I have a great relationship but he won't stop masturbating. Not sure what to do. Looking for ACTUAL advice.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me. About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off. We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time. He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do? He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more? I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice. TL;DR: I'm in therapy and can't get my internet to work. I love my boyfriend. He wants more. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Original post here for reference: So.. today, with the advise of my parents we decided to see a counsellor this morning, mainly as some sort of indication for my part that I'm trying to work through it all and do the best for my family and not throw everything to the wind in haste. This has legal implications to it as well, by New Zealand law when a couple go through a divorce the courts will order us to have counselling. Did not go well at all, and she's come forward professing she's made her mind up and admitted she is having an affair and that she's leaving me. She also had a sexual encounter with her just like I had suspected deep down and just how everyone here said she would. Feel somewhat liberated that I know the full story and she's finally being honest about her actions. I've documented the entire debacle and have a lawyer booked for tomorrow morning. I realise I should have seen this coming, and I was stupid to even think we could fix it, but I honestly loved her so so much and this is absolutely breaking my heart. I feel so humiliated. I'm receiving lots of good support from my family and friends, have a good lawyer booked for first thing tomorrow. Thank you all for your kind words, and effort in helping me see the whole thing for what it is.
Arranged for counselling with wife, she admitted she was and has cheated (just this week while she was away), broke it off with me, seeing lawyers tomorrow, feeling like an idiot for thinking for a second it might be fixed, but also a bit better knowing the full story and having a conclusion regarding our relationship.
Wife cheated, I'm devastated and I'm not sure how to deal with it. EDIT: I feel extremely fortunate that my family and friends are taking a bit more of an interest in this. This was a very difficult thing to come to terms with, but I think I see the light at the end of the tunnel.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Original post here for reference: So.. today, with the advise of my parents we decided to see a counsellor this morning, mainly as some sort of indication for my part that I'm trying to work through it all and do the best for my family and not throw everything to the wind in haste. This has legal implications to it as well, by New Zealand law when a couple go through a divorce the courts will order us to have counselling. Did not go well at all, and she's come forward professing she's made her mind up and admitted she is having an affair and that she's leaving me. She also had a sexual encounter with her just like I had suspected deep down and just how everyone here said she would. Feel somewhat liberated that I know the full story and she's finally being honest about her actions. I've documented the entire debacle and have a lawyer booked for tomorrow morning. I realise I should have seen this coming, and I was stupid to even think we could fix it, but I honestly loved her so so much and this is absolutely breaking my heart. I feel so humiliated. I'm receiving lots of good support from my family and friends, have a good lawyer booked for first thing tomorrow. Thank you all for your kind words, and effort in helping me see the whole thing for what it is. TL;DR:
Arranged for counselling with wife, she admitted she was and has cheated (just this week while she was away), broke it off with me, seeing lawyers tomorrow, feeling like an idiot for thinking for a second it might be fixed, but also a bit better knowing the full story and having a conclusion regarding our relationship.<|endoftext|>
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Wife cheated, I'm devastated and I'm not sure how to deal with it. EDIT: I feel extremely fortunate that my family and friends are taking a bit more of an interest in this. This was a very difficult thing to come to terms with, but I think I see the light at the end of the tunnel.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Original post here for reference: So.. today, with the advise of my parents we decided to see a counsellor this morning, mainly as some sort of indication for my part that I'm trying to work through it all and do the best for my family and not throw everything to the wind in haste. This has legal implications to it as well, by New Zealand law when a couple go through a divorce the courts will order us to have counselling. Did not go well at all, and she's come forward professing she's made her mind up and admitted she is having an affair and that she's leaving me. She also had a sexual encounter with her just like I had suspected deep down and just how everyone here said she would. Feel somewhat liberated that I know the full story and she's finally being honest about her actions. I've documented the entire debacle and have a lawyer booked for tomorrow morning. I realise I should have seen this coming, and I was stupid to even think we could fix it, but I honestly loved her so so much and this is absolutely breaking my heart. I feel so humiliated. I'm receiving lots of good support from my family and friends, have a good lawyer booked for first thing tomorrow. Thank you all for your kind words, and effort in helping me see the whole thing for what it is. TL;DR: Arranged for counselling with wife, she admitted she was and has cheated (just this week while she was away), broke it off with me, seeing lawyers tomorrow, feeling like an idiot for thinking for a second it might be fixed, but also a bit better knowing the full story and having a conclusion regarding our relationship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Original post here for reference: So.. today, with the advise of my parents we decided to see a counsellor this morning, mainly as some sort of indication for my part that I'm trying to work through it all and do the best for my family and not throw everything to the wind in haste. This has legal implications to it as well, by New Zealand law when a couple go through a divorce the courts will order us to have counselling. Did not go well at all, and she's come forward professing she's made her mind up and admitted she is having an affair and that she's leaving me. She also had a sexual encounter with her just like I had suspected deep down and just how everyone here said she would. Feel somewhat liberated that I know the full story and she's finally being honest about her actions. I've documented the entire debacle and have a lawyer booked for tomorrow morning. I realise I should have seen this coming, and I was stupid to even think we could fix it, but I honestly loved her so so much and this is absolutely breaking my heart. I feel so humiliated. I'm receiving lots of good support from my family and friends, have a good lawyer booked for first thing tomorrow. Thank you all for your kind words, and effort in helping me see the whole thing for what it is. TL;DR: Wife cheated, I'm devastated and I'm not sure how to deal with it. EDIT: I feel extremely fortunate that my family and friends are taking a bit more of an interest in this. This was a very difficult thing to come to terms with, but I think I see the light at the end of the tunnel.<|endoftext|>
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*Posting from alternate account, as some of our mutual friends know my main username.* My good friend (Let's call her Alice. Obviously, that isn't her real name.) had what I would describe as a mental breakdown of sorts during the end of summer/early autumn 2014. She is currently seeking treatment in an outpatient facility several states away from the state in which we grew up (and the state in which I happen to live). We're in the US, but I'm not sure that matters. The sole means by which I am able to contact Alice are letters or postcards. I believe she is able to write back, but possibly hasn't due to the expense of postage/stationery (she's quite well-liked, and from talking with our mutual friends, it's likely she's gotten a good deal of mail so far.) I haven't received any letters from her in the five months she's been in treatment. I'm actually pretty hurt that she hasn't written back. I know she *can*--she's written at least one letter to her former roommate, though I have no idea what information the letter contained. I find it difficult to deal with her absence. It's really just now hitting me (Thanksgiving/Christmas/New Years' distracted me a bit). It's not unusual for the two of us to go a few weeks without texting due to that we haven't lived in the same city in nearly 6 years. I miss her presence in my life. What sort of resources exist for friends of people who are in treatment for lengthy periods of time? I would love self-help book recommendations, if any such books exist. I imagine this would be similar to coping with the absence of an incarcerated friend/family member--just not as serious.
Good friend is essentially institutionalized for 15 months. Looking for resources for learning how to cope with her absence. Are there any good book resources out there for my situation?
Friend of 9 years has been in treatment for over a year. I'm having trouble coping with her absence.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: *Posting from alternate account, as some of our mutual friends know my main username.* My good friend (Let's call her Alice. Obviously, that isn't her real name.) had what I would describe as a mental breakdown of sorts during the end of summer/early autumn 2014. She is currently seeking treatment in an outpatient facility several states away from the state in which we grew up (and the state in which I happen to live). We're in the US, but I'm not sure that matters. The sole means by which I am able to contact Alice are letters or postcards. I believe she is able to write back, but possibly hasn't due to the expense of postage/stationery (she's quite well-liked, and from talking with our mutual friends, it's likely she's gotten a good deal of mail so far.) I haven't received any letters from her in the five months she's been in treatment. I'm actually pretty hurt that she hasn't written back. I know she *can*--she's written at least one letter to her former roommate, though I have no idea what information the letter contained. I find it difficult to deal with her absence. It's really just now hitting me (Thanksgiving/Christmas/New Years' distracted me a bit). It's not unusual for the two of us to go a few weeks without texting due to that we haven't lived in the same city in nearly 6 years. I miss her presence in my life. What sort of resources exist for friends of people who are in treatment for lengthy periods of time? I would love self-help book recommendations, if any such books exist. I imagine this would be similar to coping with the absence of an incarcerated friend/family member--just not as serious. TL;DR:
Good friend is essentially institutionalized for 15 months. Looking for resources for learning how to cope with her absence. Are there any good book resources out there for my situation?<|endoftext|>
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Friend of 9 years has been in treatment for over a year. I'm having trouble coping with her absence.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: *Posting from alternate account, as some of our mutual friends know my main username.* My good friend (Let's call her Alice. Obviously, that isn't her real name.) had what I would describe as a mental breakdown of sorts during the end of summer/early autumn 2014. She is currently seeking treatment in an outpatient facility several states away from the state in which we grew up (and the state in which I happen to live). We're in the US, but I'm not sure that matters. The sole means by which I am able to contact Alice are letters or postcards. I believe she is able to write back, but possibly hasn't due to the expense of postage/stationery (she's quite well-liked, and from talking with our mutual friends, it's likely she's gotten a good deal of mail so far.) I haven't received any letters from her in the five months she's been in treatment. I'm actually pretty hurt that she hasn't written back. I know she *can*--she's written at least one letter to her former roommate, though I have no idea what information the letter contained. I find it difficult to deal with her absence. It's really just now hitting me (Thanksgiving/Christmas/New Years' distracted me a bit). It's not unusual for the two of us to go a few weeks without texting due to that we haven't lived in the same city in nearly 6 years. I miss her presence in my life. What sort of resources exist for friends of people who are in treatment for lengthy periods of time? I would love self-help book recommendations, if any such books exist. I imagine this would be similar to coping with the absence of an incarcerated friend/family member--just not as serious. TL;DR: Good friend is essentially institutionalized for 15 months. Looking for resources for learning how to cope with her absence. Are there any good book resources out there for my situation?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: *Posting from alternate account, as some of our mutual friends know my main username.* My good friend (Let's call her Alice. Obviously, that isn't her real name.) had what I would describe as a mental breakdown of sorts during the end of summer/early autumn 2014. She is currently seeking treatment in an outpatient facility several states away from the state in which we grew up (and the state in which I happen to live). We're in the US, but I'm not sure that matters. The sole means by which I am able to contact Alice are letters or postcards. I believe she is able to write back, but possibly hasn't due to the expense of postage/stationery (she's quite well-liked, and from talking with our mutual friends, it's likely she's gotten a good deal of mail so far.) I haven't received any letters from her in the five months she's been in treatment. I'm actually pretty hurt that she hasn't written back. I know she *can*--she's written at least one letter to her former roommate, though I have no idea what information the letter contained. I find it difficult to deal with her absence. It's really just now hitting me (Thanksgiving/Christmas/New Years' distracted me a bit). It's not unusual for the two of us to go a few weeks without texting due to that we haven't lived in the same city in nearly 6 years. I miss her presence in my life. What sort of resources exist for friends of people who are in treatment for lengthy periods of time? I would love self-help book recommendations, if any such books exist. I imagine this would be similar to coping with the absence of an incarcerated friend/family member--just not as serious. TL;DR: Friend of 9 years has been in treatment for over a year. I'm having trouble coping with her absence.<|endoftext|>
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In January I separated from my wife after 10 years of marriage, we've got 6 year old twins and they now live half the time with her, half with me. She's recently got into hooking up with guys via app based social networks (Blendr I think), she's not interested in a relationship but just wants to have fun and sex. Usually she'll have the guys come over to her place when I've got the kids. When she first started doing this, a month ago, she confided to me that she was concerned about her safety, I suggested she consider using a different location than her home because it also exposes the kids to any risk, but she went ahead and met guys at her home anyway. Last night she told me she currently has 4 guys on the go, one came over the night before and she had sex with him whilst another was hiding in the garden watching through the window. Just to be clear the kids are with me whilst this is all happening (as far as I'm aware). Now for me it's a bit challenging to hear all this because of my history with her: it's still relatively recently that we separated, we rarely had sex and she never orgasmed. So it's clear she's now exploring her sexuality and enjoying her freedom, which she has every right to. When she tells me about this stuff I just get floored by it, full of my own feelings. She's telling me all this and kind of asking "is this OK?". So should I be concerned about her and the kids safety? What advice can I give her? I'm thinking the biggest risk is that one of these guys turns up uninvited and won't leave. Luckily she lives on a street with a lot of good people she could call on for help. One idea I've had is to send her [this article]( which talks about responding to threats of violence.
Ex is regularly fucking random guys in my kids home and starting to get more adventurous, should I be concerned for the safety of the kids & what advice can I give her?
ex wife is hooking up with random guys, I don't know if I should be concerned, any advice?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In January I separated from my wife after 10 years of marriage, we've got 6 year old twins and they now live half the time with her, half with me. She's recently got into hooking up with guys via app based social networks (Blendr I think), she's not interested in a relationship but just wants to have fun and sex. Usually she'll have the guys come over to her place when I've got the kids. When she first started doing this, a month ago, she confided to me that she was concerned about her safety, I suggested she consider using a different location than her home because it also exposes the kids to any risk, but she went ahead and met guys at her home anyway. Last night she told me she currently has 4 guys on the go, one came over the night before and she had sex with him whilst another was hiding in the garden watching through the window. Just to be clear the kids are with me whilst this is all happening (as far as I'm aware). Now for me it's a bit challenging to hear all this because of my history with her: it's still relatively recently that we separated, we rarely had sex and she never orgasmed. So it's clear she's now exploring her sexuality and enjoying her freedom, which she has every right to. When she tells me about this stuff I just get floored by it, full of my own feelings. She's telling me all this and kind of asking "is this OK?". So should I be concerned about her and the kids safety? What advice can I give her? I'm thinking the biggest risk is that one of these guys turns up uninvited and won't leave. Luckily she lives on a street with a lot of good people she could call on for help. One idea I've had is to send her [this article]( which talks about responding to threats of violence. TL;DR:
Ex is regularly fucking random guys in my kids home and starting to get more adventurous, should I be concerned for the safety of the kids & what advice can I give her?<|endoftext|>
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ex wife is hooking up with random guys, I don't know if I should be concerned, any advice?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In January I separated from my wife after 10 years of marriage, we've got 6 year old twins and they now live half the time with her, half with me. She's recently got into hooking up with guys via app based social networks (Blendr I think), she's not interested in a relationship but just wants to have fun and sex. Usually she'll have the guys come over to her place when I've got the kids. When she first started doing this, a month ago, she confided to me that she was concerned about her safety, I suggested she consider using a different location than her home because it also exposes the kids to any risk, but she went ahead and met guys at her home anyway. Last night she told me she currently has 4 guys on the go, one came over the night before and she had sex with him whilst another was hiding in the garden watching through the window. Just to be clear the kids are with me whilst this is all happening (as far as I'm aware). Now for me it's a bit challenging to hear all this because of my history with her: it's still relatively recently that we separated, we rarely had sex and she never orgasmed. So it's clear she's now exploring her sexuality and enjoying her freedom, which she has every right to. When she tells me about this stuff I just get floored by it, full of my own feelings. She's telling me all this and kind of asking "is this OK?". So should I be concerned about her and the kids safety? What advice can I give her? I'm thinking the biggest risk is that one of these guys turns up uninvited and won't leave. Luckily she lives on a street with a lot of good people she could call on for help. One idea I've had is to send her [this article]( which talks about responding to threats of violence. TL;DR: Ex is regularly fucking random guys in my kids home and starting to get more adventurous, should I be concerned for the safety of the kids & what advice can I give her?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In January I separated from my wife after 10 years of marriage, we've got 6 year old twins and they now live half the time with her, half with me. She's recently got into hooking up with guys via app based social networks (Blendr I think), she's not interested in a relationship but just wants to have fun and sex. Usually she'll have the guys come over to her place when I've got the kids. When she first started doing this, a month ago, she confided to me that she was concerned about her safety, I suggested she consider using a different location than her home because it also exposes the kids to any risk, but she went ahead and met guys at her home anyway. Last night she told me she currently has 4 guys on the go, one came over the night before and she had sex with him whilst another was hiding in the garden watching through the window. Just to be clear the kids are with me whilst this is all happening (as far as I'm aware). Now for me it's a bit challenging to hear all this because of my history with her: it's still relatively recently that we separated, we rarely had sex and she never orgasmed. So it's clear she's now exploring her sexuality and enjoying her freedom, which she has every right to. When she tells me about this stuff I just get floored by it, full of my own feelings. She's telling me all this and kind of asking "is this OK?". So should I be concerned about her and the kids safety? What advice can I give her? I'm thinking the biggest risk is that one of these guys turns up uninvited and won't leave. Luckily she lives on a street with a lot of good people she could call on for help. One idea I've had is to send her [this article]( which talks about responding to threats of violence. TL;DR: ex wife is hooking up with random guys, I don't know if I should be concerned, any advice?<|endoftext|>
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Okay so here's the scoop. I've never been to a strip club, and last night, after going to a bar and getting locked on then shut down alongside a good amount of laughter my friends thought I needed a pick me up. So they took me to a strip club in phoenix. I sat alone in front of tables, occasionally dropping ones as the dancer looked my way, what I believed to be socially acceptable plus a little more. A girl came up and grabbed my arm and took me away for a dance. It was awful she asked what I wanted and I said I didn't know, she commented on my shyness and the Flynn's arcade shirt I was wearing and began to dance on me. Things got uncomfortable quick. She could tell I was tense and didn't know what to do. She looked at me again, told me to relax... at this point I got really into it. She straddled me, we kept light chatter, I gave her 10 and 20 more after she finished and I was kind of sad when she got up. Either she's an actress as well or that was somewhat enjoyable for her too... I went back to sit at the same table as before. Less interested in the girl that was dancing for my ones before, now even looking more pathetic as I pondered the pointless short relationship or lack of one I just briefly had. Later that same girl walks up to me, asking if I'm okay, she was worried she didn't do so well (it was her second day) and she thought I was upset. "Just tired, waiting, and don't really want to go home right now" It's then when it happened. She asked for MY number. All I could say were things like "is this for real?" and "I don't even know anything about you" ... Her: "We can get to know each other.. how about you take me for coffee sometime?" And she took my number, commented on my Interstella phone background and called me to be sure I had hers. She texted me wanting to make plans for later this week.
and closing thought: What do you think the chances are that she legitimately wants to get to know me? I've asked what she's like, things she enjoys and she just says that I can find all that out on my own. BUT I'M SCARED. What if she's trying to scam me for
A stripper gave me her number, she got me drunk and I left her number on my phone. I need advice on what to do with this information. I feel humiliated and I'm sad that I haven't made any progress on our relationship.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so here's the scoop. I've never been to a strip club, and last night, after going to a bar and getting locked on then shut down alongside a good amount of laughter my friends thought I needed a pick me up. So they took me to a strip club in phoenix. I sat alone in front of tables, occasionally dropping ones as the dancer looked my way, what I believed to be socially acceptable plus a little more. A girl came up and grabbed my arm and took me away for a dance. It was awful she asked what I wanted and I said I didn't know, she commented on my shyness and the Flynn's arcade shirt I was wearing and began to dance on me. Things got uncomfortable quick. She could tell I was tense and didn't know what to do. She looked at me again, told me to relax... at this point I got really into it. She straddled me, we kept light chatter, I gave her 10 and 20 more after she finished and I was kind of sad when she got up. Either she's an actress as well or that was somewhat enjoyable for her too... I went back to sit at the same table as before. Less interested in the girl that was dancing for my ones before, now even looking more pathetic as I pondered the pointless short relationship or lack of one I just briefly had. Later that same girl walks up to me, asking if I'm okay, she was worried she didn't do so well (it was her second day) and she thought I was upset. "Just tired, waiting, and don't really want to go home right now" It's then when it happened. She asked for MY number. All I could say were things like "is this for real?" and "I don't even know anything about you"... Her: "We can get to know each other.. how about you take me for coffee sometime?" And she took my number, commented on my Interstella phone background and called me to be sure I had hers. She texted me wanting to make plans for later this week. TL;DR:
and closing thought: What do you think the chances are that she legitimately wants to get to know me? I've asked what she's like, things she enjoys and she just says that I can find all that out on my own. BUT I'M SCARED. What if she's trying to scam me for<|endoftext|>
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A stripper gave me her number, she got me drunk and I left her number on my phone. I need advice on what to do with this information. I feel humiliated and I'm sad that I haven't made any progress on our relationship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so here's the scoop. I've never been to a strip club, and last night, after going to a bar and getting locked on then shut down alongside a good amount of laughter my friends thought I needed a pick me up. So they took me to a strip club in phoenix. I sat alone in front of tables, occasionally dropping ones as the dancer looked my way, what I believed to be socially acceptable plus a little more. A girl came up and grabbed my arm and took me away for a dance. It was awful she asked what I wanted and I said I didn't know, she commented on my shyness and the Flynn's arcade shirt I was wearing and began to dance on me. Things got uncomfortable quick. She could tell I was tense and didn't know what to do. She looked at me again, told me to relax... at this point I got really into it. She straddled me, we kept light chatter, I gave her 10 and 20 more after she finished and I was kind of sad when she got up. Either she's an actress as well or that was somewhat enjoyable for her too... I went back to sit at the same table as before. Less interested in the girl that was dancing for my ones before, now even looking more pathetic as I pondered the pointless short relationship or lack of one I just briefly had. Later that same girl walks up to me, asking if I'm okay, she was worried she didn't do so well (it was her second day) and she thought I was upset. "Just tired, waiting, and don't really want to go home right now" It's then when it happened. She asked for MY number. All I could say were things like "is this for real?" and "I don't even know anything about you"... Her: "We can get to know each other.. how about you take me for coffee sometime?" And she took my number, commented on my Interstella phone background and called me to be sure I had hers. She texted me wanting to make plans for later this week. TL;DR: and closing thought: What do you think the chances are that she legitimately wants to get to know me? I've asked what she's like, things she enjoys and she just says that I can find all that out on my own. BUT I'M SCARED. What if she's trying to scam me for<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so here's the scoop. I've never been to a strip club, and last night, after going to a bar and getting locked on then shut down alongside a good amount of laughter my friends thought I needed a pick me up. So they took me to a strip club in phoenix. I sat alone in front of tables, occasionally dropping ones as the dancer looked my way, what I believed to be socially acceptable plus a little more. A girl came up and grabbed my arm and took me away for a dance. It was awful she asked what I wanted and I said I didn't know, she commented on my shyness and the Flynn's arcade shirt I was wearing and began to dance on me. Things got uncomfortable quick. She could tell I was tense and didn't know what to do. She looked at me again, told me to relax... at this point I got really into it. She straddled me, we kept light chatter, I gave her 10 and 20 more after she finished and I was kind of sad when she got up. Either she's an actress as well or that was somewhat enjoyable for her too... I went back to sit at the same table as before. Less interested in the girl that was dancing for my ones before, now even looking more pathetic as I pondered the pointless short relationship or lack of one I just briefly had. Later that same girl walks up to me, asking if I'm okay, she was worried she didn't do so well (it was her second day) and she thought I was upset. "Just tired, waiting, and don't really want to go home right now" It's then when it happened. She asked for MY number. All I could say were things like "is this for real?" and "I don't even know anything about you"... Her: "We can get to know each other.. how about you take me for coffee sometime?" And she took my number, commented on my Interstella phone background and called me to be sure I had hers. She texted me wanting to make plans for later this week. TL;DR: A stripper gave me her number, she got me drunk and I left her number on my phone. I need advice on what to do with this information. I feel humiliated and I'm sad that I haven't made any progress on our relationship.<|endoftext|>
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Long story short I am 25 and have had a phobia of driving for as long as I can remember. At 18 I moved out with my SO to another state and I am finally about to get my Learner's Permit. My family (Mom and siblings mostly) just don't understand this. My parents did nothing to help me learn how to drive. They never once had the time to take me learning every time I'd ask, and they didn't have the money for Driver's Ed so I ended up not learning and getting over my phobia. My family thinks I am stupid for getting my Learner's Permit because at 18 you can just take the driving test and get your full license, but I'm not ready for that because **I HAVE NO PRACTICE**. I don't want to practice with my SO illegally and my family is like "Who cares! Everyone practices illegally! Just get your license!". My Mom knows I am not listening to them and getting my permit anyways and she keeps saying "Now you can drive your siblings everywhere next time you visit" ect, even though I mentioned that with your permit you need a licensed driver in the car. They are acting like I am a goody 2 shoes because I don't want to do shit illegally. I am visiting them next month and I usually stay for around 2 weeks, and I know the entire time my Mom is going to act pissy with me because I **still** can't drive anywhere by myself. This is the same woman who's Driver's license expired 20 years ago. How am I going to get them off my back?
my family thinks I'm an idiot for getting my learner's permit and disregarding their advice and doesn't understand that I don't want to drive illegally. They are driving me crazy. Help!
Family thinks I am a goody 2 shoes for not wanting to drive illegally with my Learner's Permit. How am I going to get them off my back?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short I am 25 and have had a phobia of driving for as long as I can remember. At 18 I moved out with my SO to another state and I am finally about to get my Learner's Permit. My family (Mom and siblings mostly) just don't understand this. My parents did nothing to help me learn how to drive. They never once had the time to take me learning every time I'd ask, and they didn't have the money for Driver's Ed so I ended up not learning and getting over my phobia. My family thinks I am stupid for getting my Learner's Permit because at 18 you can just take the driving test and get your full license, but I'm not ready for that because **I HAVE NO PRACTICE**. I don't want to practice with my SO illegally and my family is like "Who cares! Everyone practices illegally! Just get your license!". My Mom knows I am not listening to them and getting my permit anyways and she keeps saying "Now you can drive your siblings everywhere next time you visit" ect, even though I mentioned that with your permit you need a licensed driver in the car. They are acting like I am a goody 2 shoes because I don't want to do shit illegally. I am visiting them next month and I usually stay for around 2 weeks, and I know the entire time my Mom is going to act pissy with me because I **still** can't drive anywhere by myself. This is the same woman who's Driver's license expired 20 years ago. How am I going to get them off my back? TL;DR:
my family thinks I'm an idiot for getting my learner's permit and disregarding their advice and doesn't understand that I don't want to drive illegally. They are driving me crazy. Help!<|endoftext|>
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Family thinks I am a goody 2 shoes for not wanting to drive illegally with my Learner's Permit. How am I going to get them off my back?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short I am 25 and have had a phobia of driving for as long as I can remember. At 18 I moved out with my SO to another state and I am finally about to get my Learner's Permit. My family (Mom and siblings mostly) just don't understand this. My parents did nothing to help me learn how to drive. They never once had the time to take me learning every time I'd ask, and they didn't have the money for Driver's Ed so I ended up not learning and getting over my phobia. My family thinks I am stupid for getting my Learner's Permit because at 18 you can just take the driving test and get your full license, but I'm not ready for that because **I HAVE NO PRACTICE**. I don't want to practice with my SO illegally and my family is like "Who cares! Everyone practices illegally! Just get your license!". My Mom knows I am not listening to them and getting my permit anyways and she keeps saying "Now you can drive your siblings everywhere next time you visit" ect, even though I mentioned that with your permit you need a licensed driver in the car. They are acting like I am a goody 2 shoes because I don't want to do shit illegally. I am visiting them next month and I usually stay for around 2 weeks, and I know the entire time my Mom is going to act pissy with me because I **still** can't drive anywhere by myself. This is the same woman who's Driver's license expired 20 years ago. How am I going to get them off my back? TL;DR: my family thinks I'm an idiot for getting my learner's permit and disregarding their advice and doesn't understand that I don't want to drive illegally. They are driving me crazy. Help!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short I am 25 and have had a phobia of driving for as long as I can remember. At 18 I moved out with my SO to another state and I am finally about to get my Learner's Permit. My family (Mom and siblings mostly) just don't understand this. My parents did nothing to help me learn how to drive. They never once had the time to take me learning every time I'd ask, and they didn't have the money for Driver's Ed so I ended up not learning and getting over my phobia. My family thinks I am stupid for getting my Learner's Permit because at 18 you can just take the driving test and get your full license, but I'm not ready for that because **I HAVE NO PRACTICE**. I don't want to practice with my SO illegally and my family is like "Who cares! Everyone practices illegally! Just get your license!". My Mom knows I am not listening to them and getting my permit anyways and she keeps saying "Now you can drive your siblings everywhere next time you visit" ect, even though I mentioned that with your permit you need a licensed driver in the car. They are acting like I am a goody 2 shoes because I don't want to do shit illegally. I am visiting them next month and I usually stay for around 2 weeks, and I know the entire time my Mom is going to act pissy with me because I **still** can't drive anywhere by myself. This is the same woman who's Driver's license expired 20 years ago. How am I going to get them off my back? TL;DR: Family thinks I am a goody 2 shoes for not wanting to drive illegally with my Learner's Permit. How am I going to get them off my back?<|endoftext|>
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Last night I was with a friend whom I haven't seen in quite a long time. We ended up sitting in my car alone parked in a neighborhood on the street near his house so we could talk. As I began explaining some stuff, I started tearing up and he noticed. Not much longer after that, I went into full blown crying mode. I never do that in front people. Never used to, I mean. So he kept trying to comfort me and calm me down, but I just wouldn't stop shaking. I kept saying "why me, why me, why me" over and over like I was in a daze. Eventually, he runs out my passenger side door and I think he's running away because I'm crying over him or something. I was though, partly. We both knew that. I attempt to call out his name before he can get any farther, but he wasn't in fact running away. He was running around my car to the driver's door to open it. As soon as he opened it and I stepped out, he embraced me like no one ever has before and let me cry it all out.
I was really upset and crying over a friend last night and he held me and comforted me. I never cry in front of people, never have.
Friend helped me get over a breakup, then proceeded to hug me and do anything he could to help me get over it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Last night I was with a friend whom I haven't seen in quite a long time. We ended up sitting in my car alone parked in a neighborhood on the street near his house so we could talk. As I began explaining some stuff, I started tearing up and he noticed. Not much longer after that, I went into full blown crying mode. I never do that in front people. Never used to, I mean. So he kept trying to comfort me and calm me down, but I just wouldn't stop shaking. I kept saying "why me, why me, why me" over and over like I was in a daze. Eventually, he runs out my passenger side door and I think he's running away because I'm crying over him or something. I was though, partly. We both knew that. I attempt to call out his name before he can get any farther, but he wasn't in fact running away. He was running around my car to the driver's door to open it. As soon as he opened it and I stepped out, he embraced me like no one ever has before and let me cry it all out. TL;DR:
I was really upset and crying over a friend last night and he held me and comforted me. I never cry in front of people, never have.<|endoftext|>
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Friend helped me get over a breakup, then proceeded to hug me and do anything he could to help me get over it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Last night I was with a friend whom I haven't seen in quite a long time. We ended up sitting in my car alone parked in a neighborhood on the street near his house so we could talk. As I began explaining some stuff, I started tearing up and he noticed. Not much longer after that, I went into full blown crying mode. I never do that in front people. Never used to, I mean. So he kept trying to comfort me and calm me down, but I just wouldn't stop shaking. I kept saying "why me, why me, why me" over and over like I was in a daze. Eventually, he runs out my passenger side door and I think he's running away because I'm crying over him or something. I was though, partly. We both knew that. I attempt to call out his name before he can get any farther, but he wasn't in fact running away. He was running around my car to the driver's door to open it. As soon as he opened it and I stepped out, he embraced me like no one ever has before and let me cry it all out. TL;DR: I was really upset and crying over a friend last night and he held me and comforted me. I never cry in front of people, never have.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Last night I was with a friend whom I haven't seen in quite a long time. We ended up sitting in my car alone parked in a neighborhood on the street near his house so we could talk. As I began explaining some stuff, I started tearing up and he noticed. Not much longer after that, I went into full blown crying mode. I never do that in front people. Never used to, I mean. So he kept trying to comfort me and calm me down, but I just wouldn't stop shaking. I kept saying "why me, why me, why me" over and over like I was in a daze. Eventually, he runs out my passenger side door and I think he's running away because I'm crying over him or something. I was though, partly. We both knew that. I attempt to call out his name before he can get any farther, but he wasn't in fact running away. He was running around my car to the driver's door to open it. As soon as he opened it and I stepped out, he embraced me like no one ever has before and let me cry it all out. TL;DR: Friend helped me get over a breakup, then proceeded to hug me and do anything he could to help me get over it.<|endoftext|>
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A couple weeks ago I used the excuse of studying for test to get my crush's phone number. We studied for the test and hung out a couple of other times after that. In between we texted a lot. Then asked if her she wanted to do a movie night, and she said yes. A week later I text her asking if she still wanted to do movie night that night, and didn't respond. Text her again and she says that she's really busy and has a lot of homework. Didn't respond because it sounds like an excuse that she made up. Then I go to dinner in the caf that night with some mutual friends, and she shows up later and sits directly across from me. While we're at dinner we talked a lot and it wasn't really awkward. I was not going to talk to her for a while and she what she does. But should I just move on, or is she just playing games right now?
Been talking to my crush for two weeks, not sure if she's playing games now.
Talking to girl for two weeks, doesn't respond when asked to hang out, then later stops by my place and sits directly across from me. What should I do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A couple weeks ago I used the excuse of studying for test to get my crush's phone number. We studied for the test and hung out a couple of other times after that. In between we texted a lot. Then asked if her she wanted to do a movie night, and she said yes. A week later I text her asking if she still wanted to do movie night that night, and didn't respond. Text her again and she says that she's really busy and has a lot of homework. Didn't respond because it sounds like an excuse that she made up. Then I go to dinner in the caf that night with some mutual friends, and she shows up later and sits directly across from me. While we're at dinner we talked a lot and it wasn't really awkward. I was not going to talk to her for a while and she what she does. But should I just move on, or is she just playing games right now? TL;DR:
Been talking to my crush for two weeks, not sure if she's playing games now.<|endoftext|>
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Talking to girl for two weeks, doesn't respond when asked to hang out, then later stops by my place and sits directly across from me. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A couple weeks ago I used the excuse of studying for test to get my crush's phone number. We studied for the test and hung out a couple of other times after that. In between we texted a lot. Then asked if her she wanted to do a movie night, and she said yes. A week later I text her asking if she still wanted to do movie night that night, and didn't respond. Text her again and she says that she's really busy and has a lot of homework. Didn't respond because it sounds like an excuse that she made up. Then I go to dinner in the caf that night with some mutual friends, and she shows up later and sits directly across from me. While we're at dinner we talked a lot and it wasn't really awkward. I was not going to talk to her for a while and she what she does. But should I just move on, or is she just playing games right now? TL;DR: Been talking to my crush for two weeks, not sure if she's playing games now.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A couple weeks ago I used the excuse of studying for test to get my crush's phone number. We studied for the test and hung out a couple of other times after that. In between we texted a lot. Then asked if her she wanted to do a movie night, and she said yes. A week later I text her asking if she still wanted to do movie night that night, and didn't respond. Text her again and she says that she's really busy and has a lot of homework. Didn't respond because it sounds like an excuse that she made up. Then I go to dinner in the caf that night with some mutual friends, and she shows up later and sits directly across from me. While we're at dinner we talked a lot and it wasn't really awkward. I was not going to talk to her for a while and she what she does. But should I just move on, or is she just playing games right now? TL;DR: Talking to girl for two weeks, doesn't respond when asked to hang out, then later stops by my place and sits directly across from me. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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I've been upping my miles lately alongside strength training and have noticed that I am constantly hungry even though I hardly stop eating throughout the day. I'm vegetarian, so I focus on getting lots of protein and snack all day long on fruits, nuts, greek yogurt, supplement bars, etc. Last year I went from 210lbs to 140lbs from eating healthy and exercising/running on a regular basis. However, even though I was running a pretty good calorie deficit, I wasn't ever really hungry. Why is this happening now? Especially because I no longer worry about how much I eat and chow down all day. This is becoming a problem because I often have a hard time focusing at work - especially if I run out of snacks. Has anyone else dealt with this? Have any suggestions?
I'm freaking hungry, non-stop, all the time. How do I remedy this without becoming a glutton?
I've lost weight but I'm still hungry. Is it because I'm not eating enough or is it because I'm not eating enough?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been upping my miles lately alongside strength training and have noticed that I am constantly hungry even though I hardly stop eating throughout the day. I'm vegetarian, so I focus on getting lots of protein and snack all day long on fruits, nuts, greek yogurt, supplement bars, etc. Last year I went from 210lbs to 140lbs from eating healthy and exercising/running on a regular basis. However, even though I was running a pretty good calorie deficit, I wasn't ever really hungry. Why is this happening now? Especially because I no longer worry about how much I eat and chow down all day. This is becoming a problem because I often have a hard time focusing at work - especially if I run out of snacks. Has anyone else dealt with this? Have any suggestions? TL;DR:
I'm freaking hungry, non-stop, all the time. How do I remedy this without becoming a glutton?<|endoftext|>
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I've lost weight but I'm still hungry. Is it because I'm not eating enough or is it because I'm not eating enough?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been upping my miles lately alongside strength training and have noticed that I am constantly hungry even though I hardly stop eating throughout the day. I'm vegetarian, so I focus on getting lots of protein and snack all day long on fruits, nuts, greek yogurt, supplement bars, etc. Last year I went from 210lbs to 140lbs from eating healthy and exercising/running on a regular basis. However, even though I was running a pretty good calorie deficit, I wasn't ever really hungry. Why is this happening now? Especially because I no longer worry about how much I eat and chow down all day. This is becoming a problem because I often have a hard time focusing at work - especially if I run out of snacks. Has anyone else dealt with this? Have any suggestions? TL;DR: I'm freaking hungry, non-stop, all the time. How do I remedy this without becoming a glutton?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been upping my miles lately alongside strength training and have noticed that I am constantly hungry even though I hardly stop eating throughout the day. I'm vegetarian, so I focus on getting lots of protein and snack all day long on fruits, nuts, greek yogurt, supplement bars, etc. Last year I went from 210lbs to 140lbs from eating healthy and exercising/running on a regular basis. However, even though I was running a pretty good calorie deficit, I wasn't ever really hungry. Why is this happening now? Especially because I no longer worry about how much I eat and chow down all day. This is becoming a problem because I often have a hard time focusing at work - especially if I run out of snacks. Has anyone else dealt with this? Have any suggestions? TL;DR: I've lost weight but I'm still hungry. Is it because I'm not eating enough or is it because I'm not eating enough?<|endoftext|>
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I got with a girl for 2 and a half years, relationship was healthy but because I'm only very young and so is she (both 19) she left me and got with someone else that lasted a month and then she rang me up saying she is sorry and really made a mistake and wants me back. I was pretty torn up about it at the time but I do remeber how great it was and I kinds do want her back but I just don't know what to do, I feel like it could be the biggest mistake or end up really well and need a second opinion. I do really still like her and we was so close like to the point we could talk about anything almost like it ended in a friendship but we want to get the ball rolling again.
Girl left me and said she wants to get back together but I don't want to ruin the relationship again and don't know what to do.
Got with a girl for 2.5 years, relationship ended we got broken up and came back together. We want to get back together but I don't want to make a mistake and regret it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I got with a girl for 2 and a half years, relationship was healthy but because I'm only very young and so is she (both 19) she left me and got with someone else that lasted a month and then she rang me up saying she is sorry and really made a mistake and wants me back. I was pretty torn up about it at the time but I do remeber how great it was and I kinds do want her back but I just don't know what to do, I feel like it could be the biggest mistake or end up really well and need a second opinion. I do really still like her and we was so close like to the point we could talk about anything almost like it ended in a friendship but we want to get the ball rolling again. TL;DR:
Girl left me and said she wants to get back together but I don't want to ruin the relationship again and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Got with a girl for 2.5 years, relationship ended we got broken up and came back together. We want to get back together but I don't want to make a mistake and regret it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I got with a girl for 2 and a half years, relationship was healthy but because I'm only very young and so is she (both 19) she left me and got with someone else that lasted a month and then she rang me up saying she is sorry and really made a mistake and wants me back. I was pretty torn up about it at the time but I do remeber how great it was and I kinds do want her back but I just don't know what to do, I feel like it could be the biggest mistake or end up really well and need a second opinion. I do really still like her and we was so close like to the point we could talk about anything almost like it ended in a friendship but we want to get the ball rolling again. TL;DR: Girl left me and said she wants to get back together but I don't want to ruin the relationship again and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I got with a girl for 2 and a half years, relationship was healthy but because I'm only very young and so is she (both 19) she left me and got with someone else that lasted a month and then she rang me up saying she is sorry and really made a mistake and wants me back. I was pretty torn up about it at the time but I do remeber how great it was and I kinds do want her back but I just don't know what to do, I feel like it could be the biggest mistake or end up really well and need a second opinion. I do really still like her and we was so close like to the point we could talk about anything almost like it ended in a friendship but we want to get the ball rolling again. TL;DR: Got with a girl for 2.5 years, relationship ended we got broken up and came back together. We want to get back together but I don't want to make a mistake and regret it.<|endoftext|>
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My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last summer. It hurt, but time healed most of the wounds, and I proceeded to meet and date a handful of other girls. That was a big improvement for me, and it's something I'm still proud of. Anyways, my ex-girlfriend and I have basically kept communication going throughout everything, even if it's one text a month. She's been with three people since our breakup, and her most recent breakup I think ended sometime last month. It's since then that we've been talking very often for the first time in months. I'm past the desire to date her again, but there's a part of me that still wants to at least *see* her, I guess. The past couple of weeks has been pretty steady with texts between us. She's gone out of her way to randomly compliment me (while sober and drunk), bring up old nicknames that I've completely forgotten about, and a bunch of nice, casual conversation. Sometime last week though, she really wowed me when she asked me to hang out like three times within a day. That caught me off guard because she hasn't done that since like, God, late last summer? Back then, *I* was the one always asking her to do something and she would either tell me no, or something would come off. Obviously we're now both in two different stages, but I'm still just, like, "what is happening". The kicker is when she asked me to meet her at a bar, and when I said I couldn't, later told me she'd pick me up afterwards! She was drunk, if that means anything. Honestly, if I didn't have to pick up my friend from the airport around the time all this happened, I would have taken up her offer. I'm not desperate for an answer, but I *am* wishing that, just once, I could understand how girls work.
Ex-girlfriend is starting to be friendly again after a long hiatus. She wants to hang out with me and I'm not sure how to proceed without freaking out.
How do girls work? I feel like I can't trust them because they are so quick to use words like "no", "no", and "cancel". I feel like I'm the one who's falling for the guy, and I'm not sure what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last summer. It hurt, but time healed most of the wounds, and I proceeded to meet and date a handful of other girls. That was a big improvement for me, and it's something I'm still proud of. Anyways, my ex-girlfriend and I have basically kept communication going throughout everything, even if it's one text a month. She's been with three people since our breakup, and her most recent breakup I think ended sometime last month. It's since then that we've been talking very often for the first time in months. I'm past the desire to date her again, but there's a part of me that still wants to at least *see* her, I guess. The past couple of weeks has been pretty steady with texts between us. She's gone out of her way to randomly compliment me (while sober and drunk), bring up old nicknames that I've completely forgotten about, and a bunch of nice, casual conversation. Sometime last week though, she really wowed me when she asked me to hang out like three times within a day. That caught me off guard because she hasn't done that since like, God, late last summer? Back then, *I* was the one always asking her to do something and she would either tell me no, or something would come off. Obviously we're now both in two different stages, but I'm still just, like, "what is happening". The kicker is when she asked me to meet her at a bar, and when I said I couldn't, later told me she'd pick me up afterwards! She was drunk, if that means anything. Honestly, if I didn't have to pick up my friend from the airport around the time all this happened, I would have taken up her offer. I'm not desperate for an answer, but I *am* wishing that, just once, I could understand how girls work. TL;DR:
Ex-girlfriend is starting to be friendly again after a long hiatus. She wants to hang out with me and I'm not sure how to proceed without freaking out.<|endoftext|>
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How do girls work? I feel like I can't trust them because they are so quick to use words like "no", "no", and "cancel". I feel like I'm the one who's falling for the guy, and I'm not sure what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last summer. It hurt, but time healed most of the wounds, and I proceeded to meet and date a handful of other girls. That was a big improvement for me, and it's something I'm still proud of. Anyways, my ex-girlfriend and I have basically kept communication going throughout everything, even if it's one text a month. She's been with three people since our breakup, and her most recent breakup I think ended sometime last month. It's since then that we've been talking very often for the first time in months. I'm past the desire to date her again, but there's a part of me that still wants to at least *see* her, I guess. The past couple of weeks has been pretty steady with texts between us. She's gone out of her way to randomly compliment me (while sober and drunk), bring up old nicknames that I've completely forgotten about, and a bunch of nice, casual conversation. Sometime last week though, she really wowed me when she asked me to hang out like three times within a day. That caught me off guard because she hasn't done that since like, God, late last summer? Back then, *I* was the one always asking her to do something and she would either tell me no, or something would come off. Obviously we're now both in two different stages, but I'm still just, like, "what is happening". The kicker is when she asked me to meet her at a bar, and when I said I couldn't, later told me she'd pick me up afterwards! She was drunk, if that means anything. Honestly, if I didn't have to pick up my friend from the airport around the time all this happened, I would have taken up her offer. I'm not desperate for an answer, but I *am* wishing that, just once, I could understand how girls work. TL;DR: Ex-girlfriend is starting to be friendly again after a long hiatus. She wants to hang out with me and I'm not sure how to proceed without freaking out.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last summer. It hurt, but time healed most of the wounds, and I proceeded to meet and date a handful of other girls. That was a big improvement for me, and it's something I'm still proud of. Anyways, my ex-girlfriend and I have basically kept communication going throughout everything, even if it's one text a month. She's been with three people since our breakup, and her most recent breakup I think ended sometime last month. It's since then that we've been talking very often for the first time in months. I'm past the desire to date her again, but there's a part of me that still wants to at least *see* her, I guess. The past couple of weeks has been pretty steady with texts between us. She's gone out of her way to randomly compliment me (while sober and drunk), bring up old nicknames that I've completely forgotten about, and a bunch of nice, casual conversation. Sometime last week though, she really wowed me when she asked me to hang out like three times within a day. That caught me off guard because she hasn't done that since like, God, late last summer? Back then, *I* was the one always asking her to do something and she would either tell me no, or something would come off. Obviously we're now both in two different stages, but I'm still just, like, "what is happening". The kicker is when she asked me to meet her at a bar, and when I said I couldn't, later told me she'd pick me up afterwards! She was drunk, if that means anything. Honestly, if I didn't have to pick up my friend from the airport around the time all this happened, I would have taken up her offer. I'm not desperate for an answer, but I *am* wishing that, just once, I could understand how girls work. TL;DR: How do girls work? I feel like I can't trust them because they are so quick to use words like "no", "no", and "cancel". I feel like I'm the one who's falling for the guy, and I'm not sure what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Been with a girl I'm really into for about a month now. We have pretty good communication but everything still feels so new and fresh. We both probably have things about our past we haven't shared with one another yet. At what point (if ever) does it make sense to bring up stuff like this? In my case it was personal struggles with depression/body image/food issues, some unhealthy relationships in college, etc. I feel like it's part of who I was and may still be a part of who I am. And I care a lot about this girl. But I also don't want to be bummer of the year and bring everything down.
I have a past that I haven't shared with the lady of my dreams. When should I bring it up?
I was really into a girl recently and we have a great connection. But I don't know if it's worth ruining the mood by talking about my past struggles.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Been with a girl I'm really into for about a month now. We have pretty good communication but everything still feels so new and fresh. We both probably have things about our past we haven't shared with one another yet. At what point (if ever) does it make sense to bring up stuff like this? In my case it was personal struggles with depression/body image/food issues, some unhealthy relationships in college, etc. I feel like it's part of who I was and may still be a part of who I am. And I care a lot about this girl. But I also don't want to be bummer of the year and bring everything down. TL;DR:
I have a past that I haven't shared with the lady of my dreams. When should I bring it up?<|endoftext|>
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I was really into a girl recently and we have a great connection. But I don't know if it's worth ruining the mood by talking about my past struggles.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Been with a girl I'm really into for about a month now. We have pretty good communication but everything still feels so new and fresh. We both probably have things about our past we haven't shared with one another yet. At what point (if ever) does it make sense to bring up stuff like this? In my case it was personal struggles with depression/body image/food issues, some unhealthy relationships in college, etc. I feel like it's part of who I was and may still be a part of who I am. And I care a lot about this girl. But I also don't want to be bummer of the year and bring everything down. TL;DR: I have a past that I haven't shared with the lady of my dreams. When should I bring it up?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Been with a girl I'm really into for about a month now. We have pretty good communication but everything still feels so new and fresh. We both probably have things about our past we haven't shared with one another yet. At what point (if ever) does it make sense to bring up stuff like this? In my case it was personal struggles with depression/body image/food issues, some unhealthy relationships in college, etc. I feel like it's part of who I was and may still be a part of who I am. And I care a lot about this girl. But I also don't want to be bummer of the year and bring everything down. TL;DR: I was really into a girl recently and we have a great connection. But I don't know if it's worth ruining the mood by talking about my past struggles.<|endoftext|>
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So today was one of many arguments with my gf of 4 years. She had come to visit with the expectation of taking me to her place to stay the night. I had planned to go with her but change of plans came up and I had to stay the night at home to babysit my little sister as well as pick her up the next morning. This was when my gf was halfway on her way so i decided to tell her when she arrived that we can spend some time around my area and get dinner. The whole time getting dinner, she keeps mentioning how upset she is and how much traffic she had to sit through (405 LA, hour commute with traffic) just to be told that i cant come spend the night. I told her im sorry i cant do anything about it and tried suggesting another night. She keeps saying things related to her still being upset, and while we're in the car, i got annoyed and said "Im sorry!! I cant do anything! Can you atleast enjoy the time we have now?? We couldnt even enjoy dinner!" she got really mad at me and starting saying things like "youre a really shitty boyfriend at comforting me. Im not like this when things dont go your way. All you're doing is getting mad at me for being a little upset. Am i not allowed to be upset??" So idk reddit. This definitely aint the first argument we've had like this. She drove home cuz she was angry after i stepped out of the car out of frustration. What do you guys think?
I had to take my sister to her place instead of my gf's, and when I did, she couldn't handle the traffic. She kept complaining about how upset she was and how much traffic she had to sit through, something she has never done with me. I told her we could spend time around my area to eat dinner and she got really mad at me and told me i was being a shitty boyfriend.
GF says I'm a shitty boyfriend after i cancelled plans for family priorities
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So today was one of many arguments with my gf of 4 years. She had come to visit with the expectation of taking me to her place to stay the night. I had planned to go with her but change of plans came up and I had to stay the night at home to babysit my little sister as well as pick her up the next morning. This was when my gf was halfway on her way so i decided to tell her when she arrived that we can spend some time around my area and get dinner. The whole time getting dinner, she keeps mentioning how upset she is and how much traffic she had to sit through (405 LA, hour commute with traffic) just to be told that i cant come spend the night. I told her im sorry i cant do anything about it and tried suggesting another night. She keeps saying things related to her still being upset, and while we're in the car, i got annoyed and said "Im sorry!! I cant do anything! Can you atleast enjoy the time we have now?? We couldnt even enjoy dinner!" she got really mad at me and starting saying things like "youre a really shitty boyfriend at comforting me. Im not like this when things dont go your way. All you're doing is getting mad at me for being a little upset. Am i not allowed to be upset??" So idk reddit. This definitely aint the first argument we've had like this. She drove home cuz she was angry after i stepped out of the car out of frustration. What do you guys think? TL;DR:
I had to take my sister to her place instead of my gf's, and when I did, she couldn't handle the traffic. She kept complaining about how upset she was and how much traffic she had to sit through, something she has never done with me. I told her we could spend time around my area to eat dinner and she got really mad at me and told me i was being a shitty boyfriend.<|endoftext|>
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GF says I'm a shitty boyfriend after i cancelled plans for family priorities<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So today was one of many arguments with my gf of 4 years. She had come to visit with the expectation of taking me to her place to stay the night. I had planned to go with her but change of plans came up and I had to stay the night at home to babysit my little sister as well as pick her up the next morning. This was when my gf was halfway on her way so i decided to tell her when she arrived that we can spend some time around my area and get dinner. The whole time getting dinner, she keeps mentioning how upset she is and how much traffic she had to sit through (405 LA, hour commute with traffic) just to be told that i cant come spend the night. I told her im sorry i cant do anything about it and tried suggesting another night. She keeps saying things related to her still being upset, and while we're in the car, i got annoyed and said "Im sorry!! I cant do anything! Can you atleast enjoy the time we have now?? We couldnt even enjoy dinner!" she got really mad at me and starting saying things like "youre a really shitty boyfriend at comforting me. Im not like this when things dont go your way. All you're doing is getting mad at me for being a little upset. Am i not allowed to be upset??" So idk reddit. This definitely aint the first argument we've had like this. She drove home cuz she was angry after i stepped out of the car out of frustration. What do you guys think? TL;DR: I had to take my sister to her place instead of my gf's, and when I did, she couldn't handle the traffic. She kept complaining about how upset she was and how much traffic she had to sit through, something she has never done with me. I told her we could spend time around my area to eat dinner and she got really mad at me and told me i was being a shitty boyfriend.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So today was one of many arguments with my gf of 4 years. She had come to visit with the expectation of taking me to her place to stay the night. I had planned to go with her but change of plans came up and I had to stay the night at home to babysit my little sister as well as pick her up the next morning. This was when my gf was halfway on her way so i decided to tell her when she arrived that we can spend some time around my area and get dinner. The whole time getting dinner, she keeps mentioning how upset she is and how much traffic she had to sit through (405 LA, hour commute with traffic) just to be told that i cant come spend the night. I told her im sorry i cant do anything about it and tried suggesting another night. She keeps saying things related to her still being upset, and while we're in the car, i got annoyed and said "Im sorry!! I cant do anything! Can you atleast enjoy the time we have now?? We couldnt even enjoy dinner!" she got really mad at me and starting saying things like "youre a really shitty boyfriend at comforting me. Im not like this when things dont go your way. All you're doing is getting mad at me for being a little upset. Am i not allowed to be upset??" So idk reddit. This definitely aint the first argument we've had like this. She drove home cuz she was angry after i stepped out of the car out of frustration. What do you guys think? TL;DR: GF says I'm a shitty boyfriend after i cancelled plans for family priorities<|endoftext|>
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Hi y'all, Just wanted to first say thank you for listening to my rant. This has been going on for awhile now but I don't know how to go around it. I hope that you could give me your insights. My sister and I live in separate countries - she is in a 3rd world country while I live in the States. She likes a lot of stuff here and always asks me to order things from Amazon so she could use it for her leisure and her upcoming business. I would be happy to provide her with my credit card, however, I never really kept track of my expenses neither asked her to pay me back. After all, she is my sister and the same goods that she wants in her country is twice the price. The twist here is that my older sister has a sugar daddy. While he provides her enough money to cover regular trips to United States, expensive meals, a budget for her expenses, she still asks me to buy things for her. It's hard for me since I don't make half as much. I currently live in one of highest cost of living cities in United States and I just want to save as much as possible. I also have a frugal personality and don't need much in my life. The hardest part for me is knowing that my sister is equally generous to me. She would buy me nice clothes, take me to high end restaurants, and take good care of me whenever she visits. So in the end, I feel like an ass if I refuse to pay for my sister but in the same time, I feel torn having to spend on expensive goods.
My sister and I live in different countries. She wants expensive things and I want to save as much as possible.
How do I tell my sister that I'm frugal and buy her expensive things but at the same time don't want to feel like a cheap ass?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi y'all, Just wanted to first say thank you for listening to my rant. This has been going on for awhile now but I don't know how to go around it. I hope that you could give me your insights. My sister and I live in separate countries - she is in a 3rd world country while I live in the States. She likes a lot of stuff here and always asks me to order things from Amazon so she could use it for her leisure and her upcoming business. I would be happy to provide her with my credit card, however, I never really kept track of my expenses neither asked her to pay me back. After all, she is my sister and the same goods that she wants in her country is twice the price. The twist here is that my older sister has a sugar daddy. While he provides her enough money to cover regular trips to United States, expensive meals, a budget for her expenses, she still asks me to buy things for her. It's hard for me since I don't make half as much. I currently live in one of highest cost of living cities in United States and I just want to save as much as possible. I also have a frugal personality and don't need much in my life. The hardest part for me is knowing that my sister is equally generous to me. She would buy me nice clothes, take me to high end restaurants, and take good care of me whenever she visits. So in the end, I feel like an ass if I refuse to pay for my sister but in the same time, I feel torn having to spend on expensive goods. TL;DR:
My sister and I live in different countries. She wants expensive things and I want to save as much as possible.<|endoftext|>
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How do I tell my sister that I'm frugal and buy her expensive things but at the same time don't want to feel like a cheap ass?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi y'all, Just wanted to first say thank you for listening to my rant. This has been going on for awhile now but I don't know how to go around it. I hope that you could give me your insights. My sister and I live in separate countries - she is in a 3rd world country while I live in the States. She likes a lot of stuff here and always asks me to order things from Amazon so she could use it for her leisure and her upcoming business. I would be happy to provide her with my credit card, however, I never really kept track of my expenses neither asked her to pay me back. After all, she is my sister and the same goods that she wants in her country is twice the price. The twist here is that my older sister has a sugar daddy. While he provides her enough money to cover regular trips to United States, expensive meals, a budget for her expenses, she still asks me to buy things for her. It's hard for me since I don't make half as much. I currently live in one of highest cost of living cities in United States and I just want to save as much as possible. I also have a frugal personality and don't need much in my life. The hardest part for me is knowing that my sister is equally generous to me. She would buy me nice clothes, take me to high end restaurants, and take good care of me whenever she visits. So in the end, I feel like an ass if I refuse to pay for my sister but in the same time, I feel torn having to spend on expensive goods. TL;DR: My sister and I live in different countries. She wants expensive things and I want to save as much as possible.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi y'all, Just wanted to first say thank you for listening to my rant. This has been going on for awhile now but I don't know how to go around it. I hope that you could give me your insights. My sister and I live in separate countries - she is in a 3rd world country while I live in the States. She likes a lot of stuff here and always asks me to order things from Amazon so she could use it for her leisure and her upcoming business. I would be happy to provide her with my credit card, however, I never really kept track of my expenses neither asked her to pay me back. After all, she is my sister and the same goods that she wants in her country is twice the price. The twist here is that my older sister has a sugar daddy. While he provides her enough money to cover regular trips to United States, expensive meals, a budget for her expenses, she still asks me to buy things for her. It's hard for me since I don't make half as much. I currently live in one of highest cost of living cities in United States and I just want to save as much as possible. I also have a frugal personality and don't need much in my life. The hardest part for me is knowing that my sister is equally generous to me. She would buy me nice clothes, take me to high end restaurants, and take good care of me whenever she visits. So in the end, I feel like an ass if I refuse to pay for my sister but in the same time, I feel torn having to spend on expensive goods. TL;DR: How do I tell my sister that I'm frugal and buy her expensive things but at the same time don't want to feel like a cheap ass?<|endoftext|>
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EDIT: Sorry I didn't get to finish my story, the bf came in to try again. Long story short...it was too late, moment over. As a disclaimer, we have sex at least 5 times a week, so it's not like things are bad... Tonight, however, he comes in, I'm a little loopy and tired. Lays down and says to hop on. I asked if we could cuddle for a minute first and let him know that he'd have to pull out since the bc is off. That sparked his fear of "is it gonna start, will there be blood?!" I assured him no, but in my efforts to lighten the mood I got giggly and started rambling and telling jokes that just aren't sexy. It was so awkward at that point, we parted ways and he went into the other room. He came back in after I started this post, dropped his pants, and said to try again. Tried, but there wasn't a boner to be had, lady or man.
Had awkward sex with questionable partner and was overcome with embarrassment. What embarrassing/sad/funny moment did you have where you almost had sex but didn't?
Had sex with my bf, didn't have a boner, what are your embarrassing moments that made you almost have sex instead of actually having it?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: EDIT: Sorry I didn't get to finish my story, the bf came in to try again. Long story short...it was too late, moment over. As a disclaimer, we have sex at least 5 times a week, so it's not like things are bad... Tonight, however, he comes in, I'm a little loopy and tired. Lays down and says to hop on. I asked if we could cuddle for a minute first and let him know that he'd have to pull out since the bc is off. That sparked his fear of "is it gonna start, will there be blood?!" I assured him no, but in my efforts to lighten the mood I got giggly and started rambling and telling jokes that just aren't sexy. It was so awkward at that point, we parted ways and he went into the other room. He came back in after I started this post, dropped his pants, and said to try again. Tried, but there wasn't a boner to be had, lady or man. TL;DR:
Had awkward sex with questionable partner and was overcome with embarrassment. What embarrassing/sad/funny moment did you have where you almost had sex but didn't?<|endoftext|>
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Had sex with my bf, didn't have a boner, what are your embarrassing moments that made you almost have sex instead of actually having it?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: EDIT: Sorry I didn't get to finish my story, the bf came in to try again. Long story short...it was too late, moment over. As a disclaimer, we have sex at least 5 times a week, so it's not like things are bad... Tonight, however, he comes in, I'm a little loopy and tired. Lays down and says to hop on. I asked if we could cuddle for a minute first and let him know that he'd have to pull out since the bc is off. That sparked his fear of "is it gonna start, will there be blood?!" I assured him no, but in my efforts to lighten the mood I got giggly and started rambling and telling jokes that just aren't sexy. It was so awkward at that point, we parted ways and he went into the other room. He came back in after I started this post, dropped his pants, and said to try again. Tried, but there wasn't a boner to be had, lady or man. TL;DR: Had awkward sex with questionable partner and was overcome with embarrassment. What embarrassing/sad/funny moment did you have where you almost had sex but didn't?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: EDIT: Sorry I didn't get to finish my story, the bf came in to try again. Long story short...it was too late, moment over. As a disclaimer, we have sex at least 5 times a week, so it's not like things are bad... Tonight, however, he comes in, I'm a little loopy and tired. Lays down and says to hop on. I asked if we could cuddle for a minute first and let him know that he'd have to pull out since the bc is off. That sparked his fear of "is it gonna start, will there be blood?!" I assured him no, but in my efforts to lighten the mood I got giggly and started rambling and telling jokes that just aren't sexy. It was so awkward at that point, we parted ways and he went into the other room. He came back in after I started this post, dropped his pants, and said to try again. Tried, but there wasn't a boner to be had, lady or man. TL;DR: Had sex with my bf, didn't have a boner, what are your embarrassing moments that made you almost have sex instead of actually having it?<|endoftext|>
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My grandma and I have always been on good terms, and I was very close with her as a child. We live five minutes from each other though and only visit on birthdays or special occasions. I hate that because I love her very much and we get along so well. I just had lunch with just her today for the first time ever, and it made me realize how amazing she is and how lucky I am. But I'm terrified to get super close because I know she won't always be here. I can't imagine losing her now, but to lose her when I'm super close to her? It'd be devastating. I've lost many people in my life, but it was always guilt that I had to deal with. I lost my great grandfather at 8, and still to this day I'm a mess from it. I never was taught how to grieve the loss of my favorite person. I've lost family friends, as well and it was hard but I wasn't deeply attached to them. I lost my grandfather a couple years ago, and I was very sad but we also weren't very close. He was very active in my life, but as a teenager growing up in the technology age, I didn't want anything to do with his farm or simple lifestyle too much. It was more of a burden to me. I didn't visit him when he was sick, and then he died. So it was just pure guilt and self disgust. It's easier for me to distance myself away from people to protect myself. It's easier for me to get over guilt. But I don't want to do that now. I had a great lunch with my grandma, but now I'm so sad thinking that one day I won't have her. How do I stop this from interfering with our relationship? How do I stop thinking and worrying about the day I'll have to say goodbye?
Afraid to get close to my grandma because I am afraid to lose her one day and don't know how to deal with grief.
I'm too scared to get close to my grandma because she'll eventually pass away. How do I stop this from interfering with our relationship?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My grandma and I have always been on good terms, and I was very close with her as a child. We live five minutes from each other though and only visit on birthdays or special occasions. I hate that because I love her very much and we get along so well. I just had lunch with just her today for the first time ever, and it made me realize how amazing she is and how lucky I am. But I'm terrified to get super close because I know she won't always be here. I can't imagine losing her now, but to lose her when I'm super close to her? It'd be devastating. I've lost many people in my life, but it was always guilt that I had to deal with. I lost my great grandfather at 8, and still to this day I'm a mess from it. I never was taught how to grieve the loss of my favorite person. I've lost family friends, as well and it was hard but I wasn't deeply attached to them. I lost my grandfather a couple years ago, and I was very sad but we also weren't very close. He was very active in my life, but as a teenager growing up in the technology age, I didn't want anything to do with his farm or simple lifestyle too much. It was more of a burden to me. I didn't visit him when he was sick, and then he died. So it was just pure guilt and self disgust. It's easier for me to distance myself away from people to protect myself. It's easier for me to get over guilt. But I don't want to do that now. I had a great lunch with my grandma, but now I'm so sad thinking that one day I won't have her. How do I stop this from interfering with our relationship? How do I stop thinking and worrying about the day I'll have to say goodbye? TL;DR:
Afraid to get close to my grandma because I am afraid to lose her one day and don't know how to deal with grief.<|endoftext|>
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I'm too scared to get close to my grandma because she'll eventually pass away. How do I stop this from interfering with our relationship?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My grandma and I have always been on good terms, and I was very close with her as a child. We live five minutes from each other though and only visit on birthdays or special occasions. I hate that because I love her very much and we get along so well. I just had lunch with just her today for the first time ever, and it made me realize how amazing she is and how lucky I am. But I'm terrified to get super close because I know she won't always be here. I can't imagine losing her now, but to lose her when I'm super close to her? It'd be devastating. I've lost many people in my life, but it was always guilt that I had to deal with. I lost my great grandfather at 8, and still to this day I'm a mess from it. I never was taught how to grieve the loss of my favorite person. I've lost family friends, as well and it was hard but I wasn't deeply attached to them. I lost my grandfather a couple years ago, and I was very sad but we also weren't very close. He was very active in my life, but as a teenager growing up in the technology age, I didn't want anything to do with his farm or simple lifestyle too much. It was more of a burden to me. I didn't visit him when he was sick, and then he died. So it was just pure guilt and self disgust. It's easier for me to distance myself away from people to protect myself. It's easier for me to get over guilt. But I don't want to do that now. I had a great lunch with my grandma, but now I'm so sad thinking that one day I won't have her. How do I stop this from interfering with our relationship? How do I stop thinking and worrying about the day I'll have to say goodbye? TL;DR: Afraid to get close to my grandma because I am afraid to lose her one day and don't know how to deal with grief.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My grandma and I have always been on good terms, and I was very close with her as a child. We live five minutes from each other though and only visit on birthdays or special occasions. I hate that because I love her very much and we get along so well. I just had lunch with just her today for the first time ever, and it made me realize how amazing she is and how lucky I am. But I'm terrified to get super close because I know she won't always be here. I can't imagine losing her now, but to lose her when I'm super close to her? It'd be devastating. I've lost many people in my life, but it was always guilt that I had to deal with. I lost my great grandfather at 8, and still to this day I'm a mess from it. I never was taught how to grieve the loss of my favorite person. I've lost family friends, as well and it was hard but I wasn't deeply attached to them. I lost my grandfather a couple years ago, and I was very sad but we also weren't very close. He was very active in my life, but as a teenager growing up in the technology age, I didn't want anything to do with his farm or simple lifestyle too much. It was more of a burden to me. I didn't visit him when he was sick, and then he died. So it was just pure guilt and self disgust. It's easier for me to distance myself away from people to protect myself. It's easier for me to get over guilt. But I don't want to do that now. I had a great lunch with my grandma, but now I'm so sad thinking that one day I won't have her. How do I stop this from interfering with our relationship? How do I stop thinking and worrying about the day I'll have to say goodbye? TL;DR: I'm too scared to get close to my grandma because she'll eventually pass away. How do I stop this from interfering with our relationship?<|endoftext|>
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Hi r/relationships, I've been dating my girlfriend since September or October. We spent a lot of time together over the last week or so, and I'm sure I appeared distant or removed. In fact, I was wrestling with doubts I was having about our relationship since we've reached a point where it no longer feels new or exciting - ie its different from the initial 'high' associated with meeting someone new. I've recently begun to wonder if I'd not be happier going out on dates again and trying to meet someone new. Also, my relationships recently have petered out after the initial and exciting 5-month period. Anyway, my girlfriend asked me if anything was up and I told her that I'd been wrestling with some doubts about us (and mild seasonal depression) because I didnt want to be dishonest. She thanked me for telling her what was on my mind, but now our interactions are different and I can sense that she is a little more skeptical, maybe, about us. I feel like I've shattered our relationship's placidity and I'm wondering what I should do now.
My girlfriend asked me if anything was wrong with our relationship, and I told her I was struggling with some doubts. Now our interactions are different, and I don't know what to do.
I was wrestling with doubts about our relationship, asked if anything was up, now our interactions are different and I feel like I've shattered our relationship's placidity.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi r/relationships, I've been dating my girlfriend since September or October. We spent a lot of time together over the last week or so, and I'm sure I appeared distant or removed. In fact, I was wrestling with doubts I was having about our relationship since we've reached a point where it no longer feels new or exciting - ie its different from the initial 'high' associated with meeting someone new. I've recently begun to wonder if I'd not be happier going out on dates again and trying to meet someone new. Also, my relationships recently have petered out after the initial and exciting 5-month period. Anyway, my girlfriend asked me if anything was up and I told her that I'd been wrestling with some doubts about us (and mild seasonal depression) because I didnt want to be dishonest. She thanked me for telling her what was on my mind, but now our interactions are different and I can sense that she is a little more skeptical, maybe, about us. I feel like I've shattered our relationship's placidity and I'm wondering what I should do now. TL;DR:
My girlfriend asked me if anything was wrong with our relationship, and I told her I was struggling with some doubts. Now our interactions are different, and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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I was wrestling with doubts about our relationship, asked if anything was up, now our interactions are different and I feel like I've shattered our relationship's placidity.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi r/relationships, I've been dating my girlfriend since September or October. We spent a lot of time together over the last week or so, and I'm sure I appeared distant or removed. In fact, I was wrestling with doubts I was having about our relationship since we've reached a point where it no longer feels new or exciting - ie its different from the initial 'high' associated with meeting someone new. I've recently begun to wonder if I'd not be happier going out on dates again and trying to meet someone new. Also, my relationships recently have petered out after the initial and exciting 5-month period. Anyway, my girlfriend asked me if anything was up and I told her that I'd been wrestling with some doubts about us (and mild seasonal depression) because I didnt want to be dishonest. She thanked me for telling her what was on my mind, but now our interactions are different and I can sense that she is a little more skeptical, maybe, about us. I feel like I've shattered our relationship's placidity and I'm wondering what I should do now. TL;DR: My girlfriend asked me if anything was wrong with our relationship, and I told her I was struggling with some doubts. Now our interactions are different, and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi r/relationships, I've been dating my girlfriend since September or October. We spent a lot of time together over the last week or so, and I'm sure I appeared distant or removed. In fact, I was wrestling with doubts I was having about our relationship since we've reached a point where it no longer feels new or exciting - ie its different from the initial 'high' associated with meeting someone new. I've recently begun to wonder if I'd not be happier going out on dates again and trying to meet someone new. Also, my relationships recently have petered out after the initial and exciting 5-month period. Anyway, my girlfriend asked me if anything was up and I told her that I'd been wrestling with some doubts about us (and mild seasonal depression) because I didnt want to be dishonest. She thanked me for telling her what was on my mind, but now our interactions are different and I can sense that she is a little more skeptical, maybe, about us. I feel like I've shattered our relationship's placidity and I'm wondering what I should do now. TL;DR: I was wrestling with doubts about our relationship, asked if anything was up, now our interactions are different and I feel like I've shattered our relationship's placidity.<|endoftext|>
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I’m a long-time lurker, and this is my first post. Here’s my story: I was born in Taiwan and legally came to California on a visitor visa with my family when I was only 3. While we were here, my parents decided to raise me in the US because they believed there were more opportunities for me, in terms of school and work. I began taking classes in a public school when I was 5. Sometime during elementary school, the visa was on the brink of expiring, so I was sent to Mexico to register for a student visa. Once I returned, everything was fine and dandy until a few years later when some legislation passed (I don’t remember exactly what year it was) that forced my student visa to black out unless I attended a private school. My parents didn’t have enough money to send me to one, so they kept me in a public school and decided that I can return to Taiwan when I graduate high school. This is when I officially became an illegal immigrant. Fast forward to Sophomore year of high school, when I asked my parents about going abroad for a high school trip. I was shocked to find out I was an illegal immigrant. I was very naïve back then, so I didn’t think much of it. Luckily for me, the AB 540 law was available for me to continue to college. I am now a 22 year old college graduate, unable to get a job, and unable to get a driver’s license. I now have a tough decision to make. I can (1) return to a country where I can barely communicate with anyone who has greater than a kindergarten level vocabulary, (2) marry a US citizen and naturalize, or (3) hope for the Dream Act to pass. I want to stay in the US, but I feel like I’m wasting my time here if (2) or (3) doesn’t happen within the next few years. Do I have any other options? I’d like to find a pro bono lawyer to give me advice if at all possible, but I don’t know where I can find one. Hence, I’m asking Reddit.
I’m an illegal immigrant, and am stuck in a foreign country. What’s the best way to get out?
Retired illegal immigrant living in the US who wants to return to Taiwan to graduate high school. Can’t get a driver’ license because I’m an illegal immigrant.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I’m a long-time lurker, and this is my first post. Here’s my story: I was born in Taiwan and legally came to California on a visitor visa with my family when I was only 3. While we were here, my parents decided to raise me in the US because they believed there were more opportunities for me, in terms of school and work. I began taking classes in a public school when I was 5. Sometime during elementary school, the visa was on the brink of expiring, so I was sent to Mexico to register for a student visa. Once I returned, everything was fine and dandy until a few years later when some legislation passed (I don’t remember exactly what year it was) that forced my student visa to black out unless I attended a private school. My parents didn’t have enough money to send me to one, so they kept me in a public school and decided that I can return to Taiwan when I graduate high school. This is when I officially became an illegal immigrant. Fast forward to Sophomore year of high school, when I asked my parents about going abroad for a high school trip. I was shocked to find out I was an illegal immigrant. I was very naïve back then, so I didn’t think much of it. Luckily for me, the AB 540 law was available for me to continue to college. I am now a 22 year old college graduate, unable to get a job, and unable to get a driver’s license. I now have a tough decision to make. I can (1) return to a country where I can barely communicate with anyone who has greater than a kindergarten level vocabulary, (2) marry a US citizen and naturalize, or (3) hope for the Dream Act to pass. I want to stay in the US, but I feel like I’m wasting my time here if (2) or (3) doesn’t happen within the next few years. Do I have any other options? I’d like to find a pro bono lawyer to give me advice if at all possible, but I don’t know where I can find one. Hence, I’m asking Reddit. TL;DR:
I’m an illegal immigrant, and am stuck in a foreign country. What’s the best way to get out?<|endoftext|>
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Retired illegal immigrant living in the US who wants to return to Taiwan to graduate high school. Can’t get a driver’ license because I’m an illegal immigrant.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I’m a long-time lurker, and this is my first post. Here’s my story: I was born in Taiwan and legally came to California on a visitor visa with my family when I was only 3. While we were here, my parents decided to raise me in the US because they believed there were more opportunities for me, in terms of school and work. I began taking classes in a public school when I was 5. Sometime during elementary school, the visa was on the brink of expiring, so I was sent to Mexico to register for a student visa. Once I returned, everything was fine and dandy until a few years later when some legislation passed (I don’t remember exactly what year it was) that forced my student visa to black out unless I attended a private school. My parents didn’t have enough money to send me to one, so they kept me in a public school and decided that I can return to Taiwan when I graduate high school. This is when I officially became an illegal immigrant. Fast forward to Sophomore year of high school, when I asked my parents about going abroad for a high school trip. I was shocked to find out I was an illegal immigrant. I was very naïve back then, so I didn’t think much of it. Luckily for me, the AB 540 law was available for me to continue to college. I am now a 22 year old college graduate, unable to get a job, and unable to get a driver’s license. I now have a tough decision to make. I can (1) return to a country where I can barely communicate with anyone who has greater than a kindergarten level vocabulary, (2) marry a US citizen and naturalize, or (3) hope for the Dream Act to pass. I want to stay in the US, but I feel like I’m wasting my time here if (2) or (3) doesn’t happen within the next few years. Do I have any other options? I’d like to find a pro bono lawyer to give me advice if at all possible, but I don’t know where I can find one. Hence, I’m asking Reddit. TL;DR: I’m an illegal immigrant, and am stuck in a foreign country. What’s the best way to get out?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I’m a long-time lurker, and this is my first post. Here’s my story: I was born in Taiwan and legally came to California on a visitor visa with my family when I was only 3. While we were here, my parents decided to raise me in the US because they believed there were more opportunities for me, in terms of school and work. I began taking classes in a public school when I was 5. Sometime during elementary school, the visa was on the brink of expiring, so I was sent to Mexico to register for a student visa. Once I returned, everything was fine and dandy until a few years later when some legislation passed (I don’t remember exactly what year it was) that forced my student visa to black out unless I attended a private school. My parents didn’t have enough money to send me to one, so they kept me in a public school and decided that I can return to Taiwan when I graduate high school. This is when I officially became an illegal immigrant. Fast forward to Sophomore year of high school, when I asked my parents about going abroad for a high school trip. I was shocked to find out I was an illegal immigrant. I was very naïve back then, so I didn’t think much of it. Luckily for me, the AB 540 law was available for me to continue to college. I am now a 22 year old college graduate, unable to get a job, and unable to get a driver’s license. I now have a tough decision to make. I can (1) return to a country where I can barely communicate with anyone who has greater than a kindergarten level vocabulary, (2) marry a US citizen and naturalize, or (3) hope for the Dream Act to pass. I want to stay in the US, but I feel like I’m wasting my time here if (2) or (3) doesn’t happen within the next few years. Do I have any other options? I’d like to find a pro bono lawyer to give me advice if at all possible, but I don’t know where I can find one. Hence, I’m asking Reddit. TL;DR: Retired illegal immigrant living in the US who wants to return to Taiwan to graduate high school. Can’t get a driver’ license because I’m an illegal immigrant.<|endoftext|>
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Background: Found my boyfriend's online dating profile on his phone and I'm at a lost on how to bring up the subject. I feel upset, sad, and angry, but I don't want to project these feelings into an argument. I just want to communicate that his actions hurt me, is unacceptable in a relationship, and thus, I will probably ultimately end things as I clearly have trust issues with him based on my own actions; I don't want to point fingers or play a blame game as I realize my actions are not conducive to a healthy relationship either. I will give him a chance to explain himself, but I just really can't fathom an excuse that would make his actions okay in my books. I need help on how to go about this confrontation in a mature manner. I have a terrible time with confrontations, but I am the worse when I have to instigate it. I often freeze up, choke over my words and lose my train of thought. Or I'll end up rambling too much and go off-topic. **What are some tips/suggestions you guys have to confront someone in a manner that is effective yet non-accusatory? This could be timing, location, tone, choice of words, etc.
Need to confront boyfriend about shady behavior; I have a difficult time doing so in a non-threatening manner. Need tips/suggestions.
I'm frustrated with my boyfriend's behavior and need help on how to confront him in a non-blaming, non-abusive manner.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Background: Found my boyfriend's online dating profile on his phone and I'm at a lost on how to bring up the subject. I feel upset, sad, and angry, but I don't want to project these feelings into an argument. I just want to communicate that his actions hurt me, is unacceptable in a relationship, and thus, I will probably ultimately end things as I clearly have trust issues with him based on my own actions; I don't want to point fingers or play a blame game as I realize my actions are not conducive to a healthy relationship either. I will give him a chance to explain himself, but I just really can't fathom an excuse that would make his actions okay in my books. I need help on how to go about this confrontation in a mature manner. I have a terrible time with confrontations, but I am the worse when I have to instigate it. I often freeze up, choke over my words and lose my train of thought. Or I'll end up rambling too much and go off-topic. **What are some tips/suggestions you guys have to confront someone in a manner that is effective yet non-accusatory? This could be timing, location, tone, choice of words, etc. TL;DR:
Need to confront boyfriend about shady behavior; I have a difficult time doing so in a non-threatening manner. Need tips/suggestions.<|endoftext|>
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I'm frustrated with my boyfriend's behavior and need help on how to confront him in a non-blaming, non-abusive manner.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Background: Found my boyfriend's online dating profile on his phone and I'm at a lost on how to bring up the subject. I feel upset, sad, and angry, but I don't want to project these feelings into an argument. I just want to communicate that his actions hurt me, is unacceptable in a relationship, and thus, I will probably ultimately end things as I clearly have trust issues with him based on my own actions; I don't want to point fingers or play a blame game as I realize my actions are not conducive to a healthy relationship either. I will give him a chance to explain himself, but I just really can't fathom an excuse that would make his actions okay in my books. I need help on how to go about this confrontation in a mature manner. I have a terrible time with confrontations, but I am the worse when I have to instigate it. I often freeze up, choke over my words and lose my train of thought. Or I'll end up rambling too much and go off-topic. **What are some tips/suggestions you guys have to confront someone in a manner that is effective yet non-accusatory? This could be timing, location, tone, choice of words, etc. TL;DR: Need to confront boyfriend about shady behavior; I have a difficult time doing so in a non-threatening manner. Need tips/suggestions.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Background: Found my boyfriend's online dating profile on his phone and I'm at a lost on how to bring up the subject. I feel upset, sad, and angry, but I don't want to project these feelings into an argument. I just want to communicate that his actions hurt me, is unacceptable in a relationship, and thus, I will probably ultimately end things as I clearly have trust issues with him based on my own actions; I don't want to point fingers or play a blame game as I realize my actions are not conducive to a healthy relationship either. I will give him a chance to explain himself, but I just really can't fathom an excuse that would make his actions okay in my books. I need help on how to go about this confrontation in a mature manner. I have a terrible time with confrontations, but I am the worse when I have to instigate it. I often freeze up, choke over my words and lose my train of thought. Or I'll end up rambling too much and go off-topic. **What are some tips/suggestions you guys have to confront someone in a manner that is effective yet non-accusatory? This could be timing, location, tone, choice of words, etc. TL;DR: I'm frustrated with my boyfriend's behavior and need help on how to confront him in a non-blaming, non-abusive manner.<|endoftext|>
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So my (31M) girlfriend (26F) recently returned from a 4 week backpacking trip through Thialand and Lao with some friends. I had planned on joining them but financial issue stopped that. So she wanted the trip to be a life changing spiritual trip, but it fell short of that. Turned into mostly a tourism spring break kinda trip. So while travelling she met a group of guys from the UK who had all been traveling south east Asia. Some longer than others. 2 of them had saved up enough money to quit their jobs and live the dream of being a free soul. Another hadn't really saved any money and was just winging it. She became very close to these guys during the trip. Eventually she had to return home while they all kept travelling. So all of this happened back in February, and it's now June. She has been entertaining the idea of saving enough money to quit her job and move to Australia. Stay there long enough and save money to hop over to New Zealand. Then do the same there, and finish off in the UK where she meets up with some of these guys she met on her trip. All said and done the trip should only take 3-4 years... We've been together for 18 months, we live together and are pretty happy. While she was gone for those 4 weeks I was an emotional mess. Just so sad and depressed. I don't really know how to deal with this. She has basically given our relationship an unspecified expiration date. I do love her, but I don't know how well I can cope with the separation for 3-4 years. Really looking for advice on how I should be reacting to this.
GF of 18 months caught the travel bug. Wants to move to Australia, then new Zealand, then the UK. With or without me. What should I do? How would a normal person react in this situation?
Girlfriend travelled the world, met a bunch of friends from overseas, now she wants to go back to the UK to live. I'm not sure how to deal with this.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my (31M) girlfriend (26F) recently returned from a 4 week backpacking trip through Thialand and Lao with some friends. I had planned on joining them but financial issue stopped that. So she wanted the trip to be a life changing spiritual trip, but it fell short of that. Turned into mostly a tourism spring break kinda trip. So while travelling she met a group of guys from the UK who had all been traveling south east Asia. Some longer than others. 2 of them had saved up enough money to quit their jobs and live the dream of being a free soul. Another hadn't really saved any money and was just winging it. She became very close to these guys during the trip. Eventually she had to return home while they all kept travelling. So all of this happened back in February, and it's now June. She has been entertaining the idea of saving enough money to quit her job and move to Australia. Stay there long enough and save money to hop over to New Zealand. Then do the same there, and finish off in the UK where she meets up with some of these guys she met on her trip. All said and done the trip should only take 3-4 years... We've been together for 18 months, we live together and are pretty happy. While she was gone for those 4 weeks I was an emotional mess. Just so sad and depressed. I don't really know how to deal with this. She has basically given our relationship an unspecified expiration date. I do love her, but I don't know how well I can cope with the separation for 3-4 years. Really looking for advice on how I should be reacting to this. TL;DR:
GF of 18 months caught the travel bug. Wants to move to Australia, then new Zealand, then the UK. With or without me. What should I do? How would a normal person react in this situation?<|endoftext|>
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Girlfriend travelled the world, met a bunch of friends from overseas, now she wants to go back to the UK to live. I'm not sure how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my (31M) girlfriend (26F) recently returned from a 4 week backpacking trip through Thialand and Lao with some friends. I had planned on joining them but financial issue stopped that. So she wanted the trip to be a life changing spiritual trip, but it fell short of that. Turned into mostly a tourism spring break kinda trip. So while travelling she met a group of guys from the UK who had all been traveling south east Asia. Some longer than others. 2 of them had saved up enough money to quit their jobs and live the dream of being a free soul. Another hadn't really saved any money and was just winging it. She became very close to these guys during the trip. Eventually she had to return home while they all kept travelling. So all of this happened back in February, and it's now June. She has been entertaining the idea of saving enough money to quit her job and move to Australia. Stay there long enough and save money to hop over to New Zealand. Then do the same there, and finish off in the UK where she meets up with some of these guys she met on her trip. All said and done the trip should only take 3-4 years... We've been together for 18 months, we live together and are pretty happy. While she was gone for those 4 weeks I was an emotional mess. Just so sad and depressed. I don't really know how to deal with this. She has basically given our relationship an unspecified expiration date. I do love her, but I don't know how well I can cope with the separation for 3-4 years. Really looking for advice on how I should be reacting to this. TL;DR: GF of 18 months caught the travel bug. Wants to move to Australia, then new Zealand, then the UK. With or without me. What should I do? How would a normal person react in this situation?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my (31M) girlfriend (26F) recently returned from a 4 week backpacking trip through Thialand and Lao with some friends. I had planned on joining them but financial issue stopped that. So she wanted the trip to be a life changing spiritual trip, but it fell short of that. Turned into mostly a tourism spring break kinda trip. So while travelling she met a group of guys from the UK who had all been traveling south east Asia. Some longer than others. 2 of them had saved up enough money to quit their jobs and live the dream of being a free soul. Another hadn't really saved any money and was just winging it. She became very close to these guys during the trip. Eventually she had to return home while they all kept travelling. So all of this happened back in February, and it's now June. She has been entertaining the idea of saving enough money to quit her job and move to Australia. Stay there long enough and save money to hop over to New Zealand. Then do the same there, and finish off in the UK where she meets up with some of these guys she met on her trip. All said and done the trip should only take 3-4 years... We've been together for 18 months, we live together and are pretty happy. While she was gone for those 4 weeks I was an emotional mess. Just so sad and depressed. I don't really know how to deal with this. She has basically given our relationship an unspecified expiration date. I do love her, but I don't know how well I can cope with the separation for 3-4 years. Really looking for advice on how I should be reacting to this. TL;DR: Girlfriend travelled the world, met a bunch of friends from overseas, now she wants to go back to the UK to live. I'm not sure how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>
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I've been working at a liquor store for about 8 months, not the best job in the world but after months of unemployment I took what I could get. I get paid 8.50 an hour, no overtime, no holiday pay. The weird stuff started right away, my boss didn't want me to fill out a W4, and didn't take the usual 2 forms of ID. Also, I get paid in handwritten checks, with no stubs, but 3 numbers written on the memo line which I guess are the taxes - as far as I know, because I never filed a W4 I have no idea what's being withheld or if its really going to the government, reading a scam thread the other day freaked me out. One of my main problems is what I have to do, this guy employs probably 15 people, and I seem to get all the odd jobs, like sorting tax documents to immediately throw away when they're past whatever amount of time you're forced to store them. For 2 stores, 4 years worth of invoices, at 8.50 an hour. I routinely work 50+ hours a week, 67 a week this month with no overtime. All these things I've suffered in silence because my friend, who manages one of the stores got me the job, and really didn't want me to mess up his "Reputation" with the boss. Today might be the straw that broke the camels back. They informed me I had to clean 2 bathrooms at the store my friend manages, that none of the employees have cleaned in the last 5 years. It is ridiculously disgusting, filled with moldy liquor boxes infested with centipedes, and toilets caked brown from 5 years of shit. I haven't done it. I know when the boss gets here he's going to flip shit, and I don't think I can stand it without going off on him and quitting this time. I need to be making money, but its getting to be too much. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
My work situation is starting to suck, my boss has been flagrantly violating both laws & common courtesy, and I don't think I can take it anymore.
boss treats me like shit, doesn't pay me for many hours of overtime, feel like im just going to snap and quit, not sure its such a bad idea
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been working at a liquor store for about 8 months, not the best job in the world but after months of unemployment I took what I could get. I get paid 8.50 an hour, no overtime, no holiday pay. The weird stuff started right away, my boss didn't want me to fill out a W4, and didn't take the usual 2 forms of ID. Also, I get paid in handwritten checks, with no stubs, but 3 numbers written on the memo line which I guess are the taxes - as far as I know, because I never filed a W4 I have no idea what's being withheld or if its really going to the government, reading a scam thread the other day freaked me out. One of my main problems is what I have to do, this guy employs probably 15 people, and I seem to get all the odd jobs, like sorting tax documents to immediately throw away when they're past whatever amount of time you're forced to store them. For 2 stores, 4 years worth of invoices, at 8.50 an hour. I routinely work 50+ hours a week, 67 a week this month with no overtime. All these things I've suffered in silence because my friend, who manages one of the stores got me the job, and really didn't want me to mess up his "Reputation" with the boss. Today might be the straw that broke the camels back. They informed me I had to clean 2 bathrooms at the store my friend manages, that none of the employees have cleaned in the last 5 years. It is ridiculously disgusting, filled with moldy liquor boxes infested with centipedes, and toilets caked brown from 5 years of shit. I haven't done it. I know when the boss gets here he's going to flip shit, and I don't think I can stand it without going off on him and quitting this time. I need to be making money, but its getting to be too much. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR:
My work situation is starting to suck, my boss has been flagrantly violating both laws & common courtesy, and I don't think I can take it anymore.<|endoftext|>
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boss treats me like shit, doesn't pay me for many hours of overtime, feel like im just going to snap and quit, not sure its such a bad idea<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been working at a liquor store for about 8 months, not the best job in the world but after months of unemployment I took what I could get. I get paid 8.50 an hour, no overtime, no holiday pay. The weird stuff started right away, my boss didn't want me to fill out a W4, and didn't take the usual 2 forms of ID. Also, I get paid in handwritten checks, with no stubs, but 3 numbers written on the memo line which I guess are the taxes - as far as I know, because I never filed a W4 I have no idea what's being withheld or if its really going to the government, reading a scam thread the other day freaked me out. One of my main problems is what I have to do, this guy employs probably 15 people, and I seem to get all the odd jobs, like sorting tax documents to immediately throw away when they're past whatever amount of time you're forced to store them. For 2 stores, 4 years worth of invoices, at 8.50 an hour. I routinely work 50+ hours a week, 67 a week this month with no overtime. All these things I've suffered in silence because my friend, who manages one of the stores got me the job, and really didn't want me to mess up his "Reputation" with the boss. Today might be the straw that broke the camels back. They informed me I had to clean 2 bathrooms at the store my friend manages, that none of the employees have cleaned in the last 5 years. It is ridiculously disgusting, filled with moldy liquor boxes infested with centipedes, and toilets caked brown from 5 years of shit. I haven't done it. I know when the boss gets here he's going to flip shit, and I don't think I can stand it without going off on him and quitting this time. I need to be making money, but its getting to be too much. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: My work situation is starting to suck, my boss has been flagrantly violating both laws & common courtesy, and I don't think I can take it anymore.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been working at a liquor store for about 8 months, not the best job in the world but after months of unemployment I took what I could get. I get paid 8.50 an hour, no overtime, no holiday pay. The weird stuff started right away, my boss didn't want me to fill out a W4, and didn't take the usual 2 forms of ID. Also, I get paid in handwritten checks, with no stubs, but 3 numbers written on the memo line which I guess are the taxes - as far as I know, because I never filed a W4 I have no idea what's being withheld or if its really going to the government, reading a scam thread the other day freaked me out. One of my main problems is what I have to do, this guy employs probably 15 people, and I seem to get all the odd jobs, like sorting tax documents to immediately throw away when they're past whatever amount of time you're forced to store them. For 2 stores, 4 years worth of invoices, at 8.50 an hour. I routinely work 50+ hours a week, 67 a week this month with no overtime. All these things I've suffered in silence because my friend, who manages one of the stores got me the job, and really didn't want me to mess up his "Reputation" with the boss. Today might be the straw that broke the camels back. They informed me I had to clean 2 bathrooms at the store my friend manages, that none of the employees have cleaned in the last 5 years. It is ridiculously disgusting, filled with moldy liquor boxes infested with centipedes, and toilets caked brown from 5 years of shit. I haven't done it. I know when the boss gets here he's going to flip shit, and I don't think I can stand it without going off on him and quitting this time. I need to be making money, but its getting to be too much. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: boss treats me like shit, doesn't pay me for many hours of overtime, feel like im just going to snap and quit, not sure its such a bad idea<|endoftext|>
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So around over two years ago, for my girlfriends birthday, I gave her this soft toy bunny rabbit. Now she loves soft toys (weird I know but whatever) so that's why I gave it to her. She loved it so much and said she always hugs it when she's unhappy and she misses me, as it reminds her of me. Now recently, things have gone to shit. She wanted a "break" (I'll explain later) and I didn't handle it well. I was a mess. I was lost and hurt and confused. Anyway, she said she wants to give me this toy back so I could feel comforted the same way when I feel bad. I refused initially but eventually took it. Now the past few days I found out what really was on her mind and why she wanted a "break" or essentially break-up. There was another guy in the equation and I think she had fallen for him. That's another story if you want me to elaborate. Anyway, my dilemma is, she wants that soft toy back now. She has been calling me over forty times for it and I just ignored her. She's messaged me many times as well but again, I didn't reply. I didn't want her to have it - where will it go? On her bed with some other guy? I just feel I've been treated so unfairly in the whole situation and I don't know what to do...
Gave my girlfriend this soft toy for her birthday two years ago. She loved it so much and hugs it all the time. She gave it back to me when she had a "break" (not really break-up) with me. Now she wants the same toy back. I want it. She wants it back.
Girlfriend gave me a soft toy for her birthday two years ago. It's now a full two years later and she wants it back. I love it and don't want to lose it. She's been calling me over 40 times over the past couple of months. I ignored her. She messaged me many times. I ignored her. Now she wants it back.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So around over two years ago, for my girlfriends birthday, I gave her this soft toy bunny rabbit. Now she loves soft toys (weird I know but whatever) so that's why I gave it to her. She loved it so much and said she always hugs it when she's unhappy and she misses me, as it reminds her of me. Now recently, things have gone to shit. She wanted a "break" (I'll explain later) and I didn't handle it well. I was a mess. I was lost and hurt and confused. Anyway, she said she wants to give me this toy back so I could feel comforted the same way when I feel bad. I refused initially but eventually took it. Now the past few days I found out what really was on her mind and why she wanted a "break" or essentially break-up. There was another guy in the equation and I think she had fallen for him. That's another story if you want me to elaborate. Anyway, my dilemma is, she wants that soft toy back now. She has been calling me over forty times for it and I just ignored her. She's messaged me many times as well but again, I didn't reply. I didn't want her to have it - where will it go? On her bed with some other guy? I just feel I've been treated so unfairly in the whole situation and I don't know what to do... TL;DR:
Gave my girlfriend this soft toy for her birthday two years ago. She loved it so much and hugs it all the time. She gave it back to me when she had a "break" (not really break-up) with me. Now she wants the same toy back. I want it. She wants it back.<|endoftext|>
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Girlfriend gave me a soft toy for her birthday two years ago. It's now a full two years later and she wants it back. I love it and don't want to lose it. She's been calling me over 40 times over the past couple of months. I ignored her. She messaged me many times. I ignored her. Now she wants it back.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So around over two years ago, for my girlfriends birthday, I gave her this soft toy bunny rabbit. Now she loves soft toys (weird I know but whatever) so that's why I gave it to her. She loved it so much and said she always hugs it when she's unhappy and she misses me, as it reminds her of me. Now recently, things have gone to shit. She wanted a "break" (I'll explain later) and I didn't handle it well. I was a mess. I was lost and hurt and confused. Anyway, she said she wants to give me this toy back so I could feel comforted the same way when I feel bad. I refused initially but eventually took it. Now the past few days I found out what really was on her mind and why she wanted a "break" or essentially break-up. There was another guy in the equation and I think she had fallen for him. That's another story if you want me to elaborate. Anyway, my dilemma is, she wants that soft toy back now. She has been calling me over forty times for it and I just ignored her. She's messaged me many times as well but again, I didn't reply. I didn't want her to have it - where will it go? On her bed with some other guy? I just feel I've been treated so unfairly in the whole situation and I don't know what to do... TL;DR: Gave my girlfriend this soft toy for her birthday two years ago. She loved it so much and hugs it all the time. She gave it back to me when she had a "break" (not really break-up) with me. Now she wants the same toy back. I want it. She wants it back.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So around over two years ago, for my girlfriends birthday, I gave her this soft toy bunny rabbit. Now she loves soft toys (weird I know but whatever) so that's why I gave it to her. She loved it so much and said she always hugs it when she's unhappy and she misses me, as it reminds her of me. Now recently, things have gone to shit. She wanted a "break" (I'll explain later) and I didn't handle it well. I was a mess. I was lost and hurt and confused. Anyway, she said she wants to give me this toy back so I could feel comforted the same way when I feel bad. I refused initially but eventually took it. Now the past few days I found out what really was on her mind and why she wanted a "break" or essentially break-up. There was another guy in the equation and I think she had fallen for him. That's another story if you want me to elaborate. Anyway, my dilemma is, she wants that soft toy back now. She has been calling me over forty times for it and I just ignored her. She's messaged me many times as well but again, I didn't reply. I didn't want her to have it - where will it go? On her bed with some other guy? I just feel I've been treated so unfairly in the whole situation and I don't know what to do... TL;DR: Girlfriend gave me a soft toy for her birthday two years ago. It's now a full two years later and she wants it back. I love it and don't want to lose it. She's been calling me over 40 times over the past couple of months. I ignored her. She messaged me many times. I ignored her. Now she wants it back.<|endoftext|>
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I recently was invited to help with a production that was coming up at my school, and there I ended up talking a lot to this guy who I had had classes with in the past but hadn't really talked to often. He asked if I wanted to hang out some time, and I said sure. My female friend who knows him better than I do said that he was just a funny guy and was messing with me, but apparently he was serious and we ended up getting some lunch and stayed a pretty long time talking and such. I had a really good time hanging out with him. We've decided to hang out again, but at this point I'm not sure in which way we are hanging out. Basically, I don't want to jump the gun and assume this guy is into me if he's just looking for a friend. I'm interested in him, but if he doesn't feel the same I don't think I would have an issue just being his friend. I would enjoy his company either way. When we got food we paid separately, and the word "date" was never said. However, he did pick me up, and it was planned several days in advance. We've texted back and forth now and then since we hung out a week ago. I'd like to show him I'm interested in him by flirting a little, but I'm afraid to weird him out. In the past year there was a guy I thought seemed really into me when actually all he wanted was friendship, so I don't want to mess up again. How do I tell in what way we're hanging out? I know I could just ask, but I really don't want to weird him out or anything by looking like I assumed it was a date.
Need advice on figuring out if I'm hanging out with someone in a platonic or romantic way.
Was invited to hang out with a guy. We got lunch and talked a lot. We're hanging out again, but not sure in what way we are. How do I tell if I'm just hanging out with a friend or if I'm interested?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I recently was invited to help with a production that was coming up at my school, and there I ended up talking a lot to this guy who I had had classes with in the past but hadn't really talked to often. He asked if I wanted to hang out some time, and I said sure. My female friend who knows him better than I do said that he was just a funny guy and was messing with me, but apparently he was serious and we ended up getting some lunch and stayed a pretty long time talking and such. I had a really good time hanging out with him. We've decided to hang out again, but at this point I'm not sure in which way we are hanging out. Basically, I don't want to jump the gun and assume this guy is into me if he's just looking for a friend. I'm interested in him, but if he doesn't feel the same I don't think I would have an issue just being his friend. I would enjoy his company either way. When we got food we paid separately, and the word "date" was never said. However, he did pick me up, and it was planned several days in advance. We've texted back and forth now and then since we hung out a week ago. I'd like to show him I'm interested in him by flirting a little, but I'm afraid to weird him out. In the past year there was a guy I thought seemed really into me when actually all he wanted was friendship, so I don't want to mess up again. How do I tell in what way we're hanging out? I know I could just ask, but I really don't want to weird him out or anything by looking like I assumed it was a date. TL;DR:
Need advice on figuring out if I'm hanging out with someone in a platonic or romantic way.<|endoftext|>
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Was invited to hang out with a guy. We got lunch and talked a lot. We're hanging out again, but not sure in what way we are. How do I tell if I'm just hanging out with a friend or if I'm interested?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I recently was invited to help with a production that was coming up at my school, and there I ended up talking a lot to this guy who I had had classes with in the past but hadn't really talked to often. He asked if I wanted to hang out some time, and I said sure. My female friend who knows him better than I do said that he was just a funny guy and was messing with me, but apparently he was serious and we ended up getting some lunch and stayed a pretty long time talking and such. I had a really good time hanging out with him. We've decided to hang out again, but at this point I'm not sure in which way we are hanging out. Basically, I don't want to jump the gun and assume this guy is into me if he's just looking for a friend. I'm interested in him, but if he doesn't feel the same I don't think I would have an issue just being his friend. I would enjoy his company either way. When we got food we paid separately, and the word "date" was never said. However, he did pick me up, and it was planned several days in advance. We've texted back and forth now and then since we hung out a week ago. I'd like to show him I'm interested in him by flirting a little, but I'm afraid to weird him out. In the past year there was a guy I thought seemed really into me when actually all he wanted was friendship, so I don't want to mess up again. How do I tell in what way we're hanging out? I know I could just ask, but I really don't want to weird him out or anything by looking like I assumed it was a date. TL;DR: Need advice on figuring out if I'm hanging out with someone in a platonic or romantic way.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I recently was invited to help with a production that was coming up at my school, and there I ended up talking a lot to this guy who I had had classes with in the past but hadn't really talked to often. He asked if I wanted to hang out some time, and I said sure. My female friend who knows him better than I do said that he was just a funny guy and was messing with me, but apparently he was serious and we ended up getting some lunch and stayed a pretty long time talking and such. I had a really good time hanging out with him. We've decided to hang out again, but at this point I'm not sure in which way we are hanging out. Basically, I don't want to jump the gun and assume this guy is into me if he's just looking for a friend. I'm interested in him, but if he doesn't feel the same I don't think I would have an issue just being his friend. I would enjoy his company either way. When we got food we paid separately, and the word "date" was never said. However, he did pick me up, and it was planned several days in advance. We've texted back and forth now and then since we hung out a week ago. I'd like to show him I'm interested in him by flirting a little, but I'm afraid to weird him out. In the past year there was a guy I thought seemed really into me when actually all he wanted was friendship, so I don't want to mess up again. How do I tell in what way we're hanging out? I know I could just ask, but I really don't want to weird him out or anything by looking like I assumed it was a date. TL;DR: Was invited to hang out with a guy. We got lunch and talked a lot. We're hanging out again, but not sure in what way we are. How do I tell if I'm just hanging out with a friend or if I'm interested?<|endoftext|>
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I'm dating a girl who has a many interest and things she wants to. Meanwhile I am simply down to do the things she suggests and things that she wants because there are very few things that I would do on my own (We have been together 3 months). She wants to do thing I want but there isn't much that I want which concerns her. It makes her feel like I might resent her for making the relationship be about about her. This is not true and I the love the fact that she has new things to do. How can I comfort her with this, or give her things that I may want to do with her.
My Gf wants to do more things for me but I am happy just doing things that she enjoys.
I have no hobbies and can't come up with things to do with my girlfriend.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm dating a girl who has a many interest and things she wants to. Meanwhile I am simply down to do the things she suggests and things that she wants because there are very few things that I would do on my own (We have been together 3 months). She wants to do thing I want but there isn't much that I want which concerns her. It makes her feel like I might resent her for making the relationship be about about her. This is not true and I the love the fact that she has new things to do. How can I comfort her with this, or give her things that I may want to do with her. TL;DR:
My Gf wants to do more things for me but I am happy just doing things that she enjoys.<|endoftext|>
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I have no hobbies and can't come up with things to do with my girlfriend.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm dating a girl who has a many interest and things she wants to. Meanwhile I am simply down to do the things she suggests and things that she wants because there are very few things that I would do on my own (We have been together 3 months). She wants to do thing I want but there isn't much that I want which concerns her. It makes her feel like I might resent her for making the relationship be about about her. This is not true and I the love the fact that she has new things to do. How can I comfort her with this, or give her things that I may want to do with her. TL;DR: My Gf wants to do more things for me but I am happy just doing things that she enjoys.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm dating a girl who has a many interest and things she wants to. Meanwhile I am simply down to do the things she suggests and things that she wants because there are very few things that I would do on my own (We have been together 3 months). She wants to do thing I want but there isn't much that I want which concerns her. It makes her feel like I might resent her for making the relationship be about about her. This is not true and I the love the fact that she has new things to do. How can I comfort her with this, or give her things that I may want to do with her. TL;DR: I have no hobbies and can't come up with things to do with my girlfriend.<|endoftext|>
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I just came back from meeting with her and I'm fuming, so I will be as coherent as I can. Throwaway account in use. My best friend and I have been like sisters since high school. We are also both engaged. Both our weddings are far away, but there was no doubt in my mind that she was going to be my maid of honor and I was going to be hers, as we had talked about it several times over the years. Cut to today when we had lunch. After some alcohol, she informed me that there was "not going to be room for me in her bridal party" but that I was "still invited to the event and it would still be a good time." I'm crushed! I understand that it's her wedding and she needs to do what is going to make her happy, but that doesn't change the fact that I am deeply hurt that one of my oldest, closest friends doesn't consider me close enough to even make me a bridesmaid. Moreover, she made it sound like I was only invited to the wedding at all because she felt bad. This is so out of left field that I feel like I need an explanation as to why she would cut me out this way, but I'm afraid of looking like a bitch who's trying to ruin her wedding or make her do something she doesn't want to do.
My best friend of fifteen years has decided not to include me in her bridal party and it sounds like she might not even want me at the wedding. Am I justified in asking her for an explanation?
My best friend cut me out of her wedding plans because she felt bad and I think it's a sign of how much she hates me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just came back from meeting with her and I'm fuming, so I will be as coherent as I can. Throwaway account in use. My best friend and I have been like sisters since high school. We are also both engaged. Both our weddings are far away, but there was no doubt in my mind that she was going to be my maid of honor and I was going to be hers, as we had talked about it several times over the years. Cut to today when we had lunch. After some alcohol, she informed me that there was "not going to be room for me in her bridal party" but that I was "still invited to the event and it would still be a good time." I'm crushed! I understand that it's her wedding and she needs to do what is going to make her happy, but that doesn't change the fact that I am deeply hurt that one of my oldest, closest friends doesn't consider me close enough to even make me a bridesmaid. Moreover, she made it sound like I was only invited to the wedding at all because she felt bad. This is so out of left field that I feel like I need an explanation as to why she would cut me out this way, but I'm afraid of looking like a bitch who's trying to ruin her wedding or make her do something she doesn't want to do. TL;DR:
My best friend of fifteen years has decided not to include me in her bridal party and it sounds like she might not even want me at the wedding. Am I justified in asking her for an explanation?<|endoftext|>
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My best friend cut me out of her wedding plans because she felt bad and I think it's a sign of how much she hates me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just came back from meeting with her and I'm fuming, so I will be as coherent as I can. Throwaway account in use. My best friend and I have been like sisters since high school. We are also both engaged. Both our weddings are far away, but there was no doubt in my mind that she was going to be my maid of honor and I was going to be hers, as we had talked about it several times over the years. Cut to today when we had lunch. After some alcohol, she informed me that there was "not going to be room for me in her bridal party" but that I was "still invited to the event and it would still be a good time." I'm crushed! I understand that it's her wedding and she needs to do what is going to make her happy, but that doesn't change the fact that I am deeply hurt that one of my oldest, closest friends doesn't consider me close enough to even make me a bridesmaid. Moreover, she made it sound like I was only invited to the wedding at all because she felt bad. This is so out of left field that I feel like I need an explanation as to why she would cut me out this way, but I'm afraid of looking like a bitch who's trying to ruin her wedding or make her do something she doesn't want to do. TL;DR: My best friend of fifteen years has decided not to include me in her bridal party and it sounds like she might not even want me at the wedding. Am I justified in asking her for an explanation?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just came back from meeting with her and I'm fuming, so I will be as coherent as I can. Throwaway account in use. My best friend and I have been like sisters since high school. We are also both engaged. Both our weddings are far away, but there was no doubt in my mind that she was going to be my maid of honor and I was going to be hers, as we had talked about it several times over the years. Cut to today when we had lunch. After some alcohol, she informed me that there was "not going to be room for me in her bridal party" but that I was "still invited to the event and it would still be a good time." I'm crushed! I understand that it's her wedding and she needs to do what is going to make her happy, but that doesn't change the fact that I am deeply hurt that one of my oldest, closest friends doesn't consider me close enough to even make me a bridesmaid. Moreover, she made it sound like I was only invited to the wedding at all because she felt bad. This is so out of left field that I feel like I need an explanation as to why she would cut me out this way, but I'm afraid of looking like a bitch who's trying to ruin her wedding or make her do something she doesn't want to do. TL;DR: My best friend cut me out of her wedding plans because she felt bad and I think it's a sign of how much she hates me.<|endoftext|>
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Back Story: I have known this girl since about 7th grade and have been crushing on her since I was a freshman. We went to homecoming with her but due to my lack of experience with girls I did not handle it right when I wanted to take things a bit more seriously. Basically I was way to immature to be in a relationship (didn't help that I was 4'9" with a face that looked like it had just been molested by mosquitoes). Fast forward to junior year I had another chance to be with but fucked it up royally, AGAIN. After we graduated I went off and joined the USN and she went to college. She and I kept in contact for pretty much all my four years of my enlistment. During that time she had met someone else, lets call him "Jackass". She has been on and off with Jackass now for about two and a half years; not a very stable relationship looking from the outside in and all of her friends agree with me, she just cant seem to drop him. I have been running situations through my mind trying to think of the best way to tell her how I feel. So my question is this: Should I tell her while she is still with Jackass or wait till things go south with them. If she is truly happy with Jackass, I don't want to tell her how I feel while she is still him and ruin our friendship, possibly breaking them up in the process (home-wrecking is not my forte). If I wait too long I fear I will placed in the dreaded friend zone. Neither option sounds very appealing to me. Hopefully you guys/gals can help me find another path to success that doesn't require burning some bridges.
Crush on girl for years, get close to (possibly) unstable relationship with another guy. Need advice on how best to tell her without ruining friendship/reputation.
Crush on girl for 3 years has been on and off with her boyfriend for 2.5 years, want to tell her how I feel and possibly ruin her life.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Back Story: I have known this girl since about 7th grade and have been crushing on her since I was a freshman. We went to homecoming with her but due to my lack of experience with girls I did not handle it right when I wanted to take things a bit more seriously. Basically I was way to immature to be in a relationship (didn't help that I was 4'9" with a face that looked like it had just been molested by mosquitoes). Fast forward to junior year I had another chance to be with but fucked it up royally, AGAIN. After we graduated I went off and joined the USN and she went to college. She and I kept in contact for pretty much all my four years of my enlistment. During that time she had met someone else, lets call him "Jackass". She has been on and off with Jackass now for about two and a half years; not a very stable relationship looking from the outside in and all of her friends agree with me, she just cant seem to drop him. I have been running situations through my mind trying to think of the best way to tell her how I feel. So my question is this: Should I tell her while she is still with Jackass or wait till things go south with them. If she is truly happy with Jackass, I don't want to tell her how I feel while she is still him and ruin our friendship, possibly breaking them up in the process (home-wrecking is not my forte). If I wait too long I fear I will placed in the dreaded friend zone. Neither option sounds very appealing to me. Hopefully you guys/gals can help me find another path to success that doesn't require burning some bridges. TL;DR:
Crush on girl for years, get close to (possibly) unstable relationship with another guy. Need advice on how best to tell her without ruining friendship/reputation.<|endoftext|>
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Crush on girl for 3 years has been on and off with her boyfriend for 2.5 years, want to tell her how I feel and possibly ruin her life.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Back Story: I have known this girl since about 7th grade and have been crushing on her since I was a freshman. We went to homecoming with her but due to my lack of experience with girls I did not handle it right when I wanted to take things a bit more seriously. Basically I was way to immature to be in a relationship (didn't help that I was 4'9" with a face that looked like it had just been molested by mosquitoes). Fast forward to junior year I had another chance to be with but fucked it up royally, AGAIN. After we graduated I went off and joined the USN and she went to college. She and I kept in contact for pretty much all my four years of my enlistment. During that time she had met someone else, lets call him "Jackass". She has been on and off with Jackass now for about two and a half years; not a very stable relationship looking from the outside in and all of her friends agree with me, she just cant seem to drop him. I have been running situations through my mind trying to think of the best way to tell her how I feel. So my question is this: Should I tell her while she is still with Jackass or wait till things go south with them. If she is truly happy with Jackass, I don't want to tell her how I feel while she is still him and ruin our friendship, possibly breaking them up in the process (home-wrecking is not my forte). If I wait too long I fear I will placed in the dreaded friend zone. Neither option sounds very appealing to me. Hopefully you guys/gals can help me find another path to success that doesn't require burning some bridges. TL;DR: Crush on girl for years, get close to (possibly) unstable relationship with another guy. Need advice on how best to tell her without ruining friendship/reputation.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Back Story: I have known this girl since about 7th grade and have been crushing on her since I was a freshman. We went to homecoming with her but due to my lack of experience with girls I did not handle it right when I wanted to take things a bit more seriously. Basically I was way to immature to be in a relationship (didn't help that I was 4'9" with a face that looked like it had just been molested by mosquitoes). Fast forward to junior year I had another chance to be with but fucked it up royally, AGAIN. After we graduated I went off and joined the USN and she went to college. She and I kept in contact for pretty much all my four years of my enlistment. During that time she had met someone else, lets call him "Jackass". She has been on and off with Jackass now for about two and a half years; not a very stable relationship looking from the outside in and all of her friends agree with me, she just cant seem to drop him. I have been running situations through my mind trying to think of the best way to tell her how I feel. So my question is this: Should I tell her while she is still with Jackass or wait till things go south with them. If she is truly happy with Jackass, I don't want to tell her how I feel while she is still him and ruin our friendship, possibly breaking them up in the process (home-wrecking is not my forte). If I wait too long I fear I will placed in the dreaded friend zone. Neither option sounds very appealing to me. Hopefully you guys/gals can help me find another path to success that doesn't require burning some bridges. TL;DR: Crush on girl for 3 years has been on and off with her boyfriend for 2.5 years, want to tell her how I feel and possibly ruin her life.<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend "Ben" and I have been together for almost two years. While we live together and have what most would consider to be a pretty happy, normal relationship (no fights, no major conflict) I can't seem to shake one major insecurity: his "buddy" Amber. They've never dated or even had a flirtatious relationship, but I feel like if he thought he stood a chance Ben would be with this girl in a flash. First of all she's tall, long curly hair, runner's body and basically dudes falling all over her. But the bigger deal is that Amber is Ben's total match friend wise. He's a gunsmith and serious enthusiast, she's not only into it but knows almost as much as he does about firearms and has been shooting for years. She hunts and skis like him and owns all of the same "toys" my BF does: dirt bikes, a street bike, and she also has a boat. They both dig bourbon and beer and are basically best guy friends except for, well, she's not a guy. While Amber is super nice to me and I don't feel like she's out to get Ben, it still hurts my feelings when they spend time together. They'll head to the shooting range together or work on the bikes in our garage and they'll spend hours. The first Christmas present under our tree this year was the one Ben picked out and wrapped for Amber. Granted, it was a silly gag gift that he wrapped in photocopy paper and drew a bow on top, but he was so excited about giving it to her. I once joked I was lucky Ben and Amber hadn't hooked up by the time I came onto the scene and Ben's brother replied with "like she'd date him anyway!" Instead of saying something like he wouldn't or wasn't interested, all Ben added was "yeah it's gonna take someone pretty fucking phenomenal to nail that girl down." WTF? Thanks, right? I don't feel like there's any possibility of cheating happening, but I still feel like I'm my own boyfriend's second choice. How do I deal?
I (F23) constantly feel like I'm what my boyfriend (M28) settled for - even though I know it'll never happen, I think he'd be with his girl best friend in a second if she'd have him.
BF and I are happy but my feelings are hurt that my BF is dating the first girl he's ever dated and he's best friends with.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend "Ben" and I have been together for almost two years. While we live together and have what most would consider to be a pretty happy, normal relationship (no fights, no major conflict) I can't seem to shake one major insecurity: his "buddy" Amber. They've never dated or even had a flirtatious relationship, but I feel like if he thought he stood a chance Ben would be with this girl in a flash. First of all she's tall, long curly hair, runner's body and basically dudes falling all over her. But the bigger deal is that Amber is Ben's total match friend wise. He's a gunsmith and serious enthusiast, she's not only into it but knows almost as much as he does about firearms and has been shooting for years. She hunts and skis like him and owns all of the same "toys" my BF does: dirt bikes, a street bike, and she also has a boat. They both dig bourbon and beer and are basically best guy friends except for, well, she's not a guy. While Amber is super nice to me and I don't feel like she's out to get Ben, it still hurts my feelings when they spend time together. They'll head to the shooting range together or work on the bikes in our garage and they'll spend hours. The first Christmas present under our tree this year was the one Ben picked out and wrapped for Amber. Granted, it was a silly gag gift that he wrapped in photocopy paper and drew a bow on top, but he was so excited about giving it to her. I once joked I was lucky Ben and Amber hadn't hooked up by the time I came onto the scene and Ben's brother replied with "like she'd date him anyway!" Instead of saying something like he wouldn't or wasn't interested, all Ben added was "yeah it's gonna take someone pretty fucking phenomenal to nail that girl down." WTF? Thanks, right? I don't feel like there's any possibility of cheating happening, but I still feel like I'm my own boyfriend's second choice. How do I deal? TL;DR:
I (F23) constantly feel like I'm what my boyfriend (M28) settled for - even though I know it'll never happen, I think he'd be with his girl best friend in a second if she'd have him.<|endoftext|>
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BF and I are happy but my feelings are hurt that my BF is dating the first girl he's ever dated and he's best friends with.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend "Ben" and I have been together for almost two years. While we live together and have what most would consider to be a pretty happy, normal relationship (no fights, no major conflict) I can't seem to shake one major insecurity: his "buddy" Amber. They've never dated or even had a flirtatious relationship, but I feel like if he thought he stood a chance Ben would be with this girl in a flash. First of all she's tall, long curly hair, runner's body and basically dudes falling all over her. But the bigger deal is that Amber is Ben's total match friend wise. He's a gunsmith and serious enthusiast, she's not only into it but knows almost as much as he does about firearms and has been shooting for years. She hunts and skis like him and owns all of the same "toys" my BF does: dirt bikes, a street bike, and she also has a boat. They both dig bourbon and beer and are basically best guy friends except for, well, she's not a guy. While Amber is super nice to me and I don't feel like she's out to get Ben, it still hurts my feelings when they spend time together. They'll head to the shooting range together or work on the bikes in our garage and they'll spend hours. The first Christmas present under our tree this year was the one Ben picked out and wrapped for Amber. Granted, it was a silly gag gift that he wrapped in photocopy paper and drew a bow on top, but he was so excited about giving it to her. I once joked I was lucky Ben and Amber hadn't hooked up by the time I came onto the scene and Ben's brother replied with "like she'd date him anyway!" Instead of saying something like he wouldn't or wasn't interested, all Ben added was "yeah it's gonna take someone pretty fucking phenomenal to nail that girl down." WTF? Thanks, right? I don't feel like there's any possibility of cheating happening, but I still feel like I'm my own boyfriend's second choice. How do I deal? TL;DR: I (F23) constantly feel like I'm what my boyfriend (M28) settled for - even though I know it'll never happen, I think he'd be with his girl best friend in a second if she'd have him.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend "Ben" and I have been together for almost two years. While we live together and have what most would consider to be a pretty happy, normal relationship (no fights, no major conflict) I can't seem to shake one major insecurity: his "buddy" Amber. They've never dated or even had a flirtatious relationship, but I feel like if he thought he stood a chance Ben would be with this girl in a flash. First of all she's tall, long curly hair, runner's body and basically dudes falling all over her. But the bigger deal is that Amber is Ben's total match friend wise. He's a gunsmith and serious enthusiast, she's not only into it but knows almost as much as he does about firearms and has been shooting for years. She hunts and skis like him and owns all of the same "toys" my BF does: dirt bikes, a street bike, and she also has a boat. They both dig bourbon and beer and are basically best guy friends except for, well, she's not a guy. While Amber is super nice to me and I don't feel like she's out to get Ben, it still hurts my feelings when they spend time together. They'll head to the shooting range together or work on the bikes in our garage and they'll spend hours. The first Christmas present under our tree this year was the one Ben picked out and wrapped for Amber. Granted, it was a silly gag gift that he wrapped in photocopy paper and drew a bow on top, but he was so excited about giving it to her. I once joked I was lucky Ben and Amber hadn't hooked up by the time I came onto the scene and Ben's brother replied with "like she'd date him anyway!" Instead of saying something like he wouldn't or wasn't interested, all Ben added was "yeah it's gonna take someone pretty fucking phenomenal to nail that girl down." WTF? Thanks, right? I don't feel like there's any possibility of cheating happening, but I still feel like I'm my own boyfriend's second choice. How do I deal? TL;DR: BF and I are happy but my feelings are hurt that my BF is dating the first girl he's ever dated and he's best friends with.<|endoftext|>
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Hey reddit ! *Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit , I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue !* So recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all ! My mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. Needless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me , so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country , she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ). Recently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad , since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in , I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc... why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years ! I honestly don't know what to do , I'd rather not have any contact with him , but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him.
My biological dad wants to meet up with me after 6+ years of no contact and talk to me , I don't feel any connection with him and don't know what to do !
My bio dad wants to meets up now when he obviously didn't care for me for as long as I remember , I dislike him for the pain he made my mum go through but she still insists on me meeting him.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit! *Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit, I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue!* So recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all! My mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. Needless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me, so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country, she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ). Recently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad, since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in, I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc... why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years! I honestly don't know what to do, I'd rather not have any contact with him, but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him. TL;DR:
My biological dad wants to meet up with me after 6+ years of no contact and talk to me , I don't feel any connection with him and don't know what to do !<|endoftext|>
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My bio dad wants to meets up now when he obviously didn't care for me for as long as I remember , I dislike him for the pain he made my mum go through but she still insists on me meeting him.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit! *Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit, I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue!* So recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all! My mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. Needless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me, so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country, she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ). Recently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad, since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in, I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc... why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years! I honestly don't know what to do, I'd rather not have any contact with him, but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him. TL;DR: My biological dad wants to meet up with me after 6+ years of no contact and talk to me , I don't feel any connection with him and don't know what to do !<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit! *Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit, I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue!* So recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all! My mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. Needless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me, so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country, she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ). Recently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad, since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in, I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc... why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years! I honestly don't know what to do, I'd rather not have any contact with him, but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him. TL;DR: My bio dad wants to meets up now when he obviously didn't care for me for as long as I remember , I dislike him for the pain he made my mum go through but she still insists on me meeting him.<|endoftext|>
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Please help me make sense of this strange situation! About a year after our 2 year relationship ended (he dumped me) I received this message. I don't understand why it needed to be said, and I'm very torn and confused. I just wanted to say thank you for being one of the best girlfriends a guy could ever have. A lot has happened this year, and I'm sorry for the pain I could have caused you. You should never have to change for anyone because you're an incredible person just as you are. I hope you have a great break, and I wish you can forgive me for what I did to you a year ago.
I got a text from an ex in the middle of the night that I don't understand, and I'm very confused and hurt.
I was in a terrible situation, and I'm sorry.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Please help me make sense of this strange situation! About a year after our 2 year relationship ended (he dumped me) I received this message. I don't understand why it needed to be said, and I'm very torn and confused. I just wanted to say thank you for being one of the best girlfriends a guy could ever have. A lot has happened this year, and I'm sorry for the pain I could have caused you. You should never have to change for anyone because you're an incredible person just as you are. I hope you have a great break, and I wish you can forgive me for what I did to you a year ago. TL;DR:
I got a text from an ex in the middle of the night that I don't understand, and I'm very confused and hurt.<|endoftext|>
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I was in a terrible situation, and I'm sorry.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Please help me make sense of this strange situation! About a year after our 2 year relationship ended (he dumped me) I received this message. I don't understand why it needed to be said, and I'm very torn and confused. I just wanted to say thank you for being one of the best girlfriends a guy could ever have. A lot has happened this year, and I'm sorry for the pain I could have caused you. You should never have to change for anyone because you're an incredible person just as you are. I hope you have a great break, and I wish you can forgive me for what I did to you a year ago. TL;DR: I got a text from an ex in the middle of the night that I don't understand, and I'm very confused and hurt.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Please help me make sense of this strange situation! About a year after our 2 year relationship ended (he dumped me) I received this message. I don't understand why it needed to be said, and I'm very torn and confused. I just wanted to say thank you for being one of the best girlfriends a guy could ever have. A lot has happened this year, and I'm sorry for the pain I could have caused you. You should never have to change for anyone because you're an incredible person just as you are. I hope you have a great break, and I wish you can forgive me for what I did to you a year ago. TL;DR: I was in a terrible situation, and I'm sorry.<|endoftext|>
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This is how I've trained since adopting her: I baby gated off the upstairs and basement for the cats, since they spend the most time their anyways. I fed them at the top of the basement stairs so she could see them more regularly and not have it be a big, exciting surprise every time she saw a cat. We've been working on basic commands and potty training. She's a very quick learner and eager to please. Once she had "sit" down, I'd stand back and let her go to the gates on her own. If she started barking or jumped at them, I clapped or made a noise and told her to sit. Rewarded with treat. Preemptively told her to sit before she barked or jumped, rewarded with treat. Now, if I walk into the same room as the babygate she will sit and look at me, even if the cats are there meowing. Awesome. The problem is when the cats come over the babygate. If she's sitting on the couch next to me or my husband, she's cool as a cucumber. Cats can walk right by her and she doesn't flinch. Other than that, she's on a leash, so if she barks or lunges, I can stop her and tell her to sit. My problem is I'm not sure what to do next to get past the leash. I don't think she's trying to bite the cats. Her body language isn't aggressive, but excited and playful. But, I don't really want to find out. I'm not sure how to proceed with training here. My goal is not to leave them unsupervised together, I don't think that's realistic, but I'd like to have my animals all hang out in the living room when I'm home without tension eventually.
My dog sits on the baby gate when the cats are around. I don't know how to proceed with training her to stop chasing cats without causing tension.
training cat on leash, wants to chase cats around the house. Not sure where to go from here. Need advice on how to progress beyond leash training.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is how I've trained since adopting her: I baby gated off the upstairs and basement for the cats, since they spend the most time their anyways. I fed them at the top of the basement stairs so she could see them more regularly and not have it be a big, exciting surprise every time she saw a cat. We've been working on basic commands and potty training. She's a very quick learner and eager to please. Once she had "sit" down, I'd stand back and let her go to the gates on her own. If she started barking or jumped at them, I clapped or made a noise and told her to sit. Rewarded with treat. Preemptively told her to sit before she barked or jumped, rewarded with treat. Now, if I walk into the same room as the babygate she will sit and look at me, even if the cats are there meowing. Awesome. The problem is when the cats come over the babygate. If she's sitting on the couch next to me or my husband, she's cool as a cucumber. Cats can walk right by her and she doesn't flinch. Other than that, she's on a leash, so if she barks or lunges, I can stop her and tell her to sit. My problem is I'm not sure what to do next to get past the leash. I don't think she's trying to bite the cats. Her body language isn't aggressive, but excited and playful. But, I don't really want to find out. I'm not sure how to proceed with training here. My goal is not to leave them unsupervised together, I don't think that's realistic, but I'd like to have my animals all hang out in the living room when I'm home without tension eventually. TL;DR:
My dog sits on the baby gate when the cats are around. I don't know how to proceed with training her to stop chasing cats without causing tension.<|endoftext|>
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training cat on leash, wants to chase cats around the house. Not sure where to go from here. Need advice on how to progress beyond leash training.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is how I've trained since adopting her: I baby gated off the upstairs and basement for the cats, since they spend the most time their anyways. I fed them at the top of the basement stairs so she could see them more regularly and not have it be a big, exciting surprise every time she saw a cat. We've been working on basic commands and potty training. She's a very quick learner and eager to please. Once she had "sit" down, I'd stand back and let her go to the gates on her own. If she started barking or jumped at them, I clapped or made a noise and told her to sit. Rewarded with treat. Preemptively told her to sit before she barked or jumped, rewarded with treat. Now, if I walk into the same room as the babygate she will sit and look at me, even if the cats are there meowing. Awesome. The problem is when the cats come over the babygate. If she's sitting on the couch next to me or my husband, she's cool as a cucumber. Cats can walk right by her and she doesn't flinch. Other than that, she's on a leash, so if she barks or lunges, I can stop her and tell her to sit. My problem is I'm not sure what to do next to get past the leash. I don't think she's trying to bite the cats. Her body language isn't aggressive, but excited and playful. But, I don't really want to find out. I'm not sure how to proceed with training here. My goal is not to leave them unsupervised together, I don't think that's realistic, but I'd like to have my animals all hang out in the living room when I'm home without tension eventually. TL;DR: My dog sits on the baby gate when the cats are around. I don't know how to proceed with training her to stop chasing cats without causing tension.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is how I've trained since adopting her: I baby gated off the upstairs and basement for the cats, since they spend the most time their anyways. I fed them at the top of the basement stairs so she could see them more regularly and not have it be a big, exciting surprise every time she saw a cat. We've been working on basic commands and potty training. She's a very quick learner and eager to please. Once she had "sit" down, I'd stand back and let her go to the gates on her own. If she started barking or jumped at them, I clapped or made a noise and told her to sit. Rewarded with treat. Preemptively told her to sit before she barked or jumped, rewarded with treat. Now, if I walk into the same room as the babygate she will sit and look at me, even if the cats are there meowing. Awesome. The problem is when the cats come over the babygate. If she's sitting on the couch next to me or my husband, she's cool as a cucumber. Cats can walk right by her and she doesn't flinch. Other than that, she's on a leash, so if she barks or lunges, I can stop her and tell her to sit. My problem is I'm not sure what to do next to get past the leash. I don't think she's trying to bite the cats. Her body language isn't aggressive, but excited and playful. But, I don't really want to find out. I'm not sure how to proceed with training here. My goal is not to leave them unsupervised together, I don't think that's realistic, but I'd like to have my animals all hang out in the living room when I'm home without tension eventually. TL;DR: training cat on leash, wants to chase cats around the house. Not sure where to go from here. Need advice on how to progress beyond leash training.<|endoftext|>
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Hey everyone. I've been close friends with a girl from my high school for about three years. I am 18 years old; she is 17. This girl has a crappy home life - she had an awful childhood, her parents are divorcing, and her mom/brother are just complete assholes to her. It is getting to the point where she is drawing a ton of attention to herself because she knows people take pity on her for what she is going through. I know numerous of my friends who have stopped hanging out with her because they can't stand how attention-seeking she is for the trouble in her life. For example, while I was out with some friends, she fb messaged myself and another friend this: She does stuff like this all the time. She'll send us messages asking for help at late hours of the night. She sends these knowing we can't/won't reply because myself and other friends are usually gaming with others or sleeping and aren't checking our phones. In the morning we always reply asking what is happening, and she always gets mad, then she breaks down crying over the phone about something her mom did or her boyfriend said. I'm getting so tired of it. My roommates have told me to tell her to screw off, but honestly I love the girl so much when she's not doing stuff like this. I understand that we all have problems. I personally was in the hospital a month ago for my depression, ptsd, and anxiety from a whole bunch of shit from my life. That's another reason why I feel like I should help her - I understand her own depression, and I can give her help. But I am getting so tired of feeling awful over this. What the hell do I do?
My friend is manipulating me to give her pity and attention, because her home life is shitty. I can't help her because I am getting so tired of her doing all her desperate acts of neediness.
I'm asking for advice on how to help a girl who is manipulating me to give her pity and attention.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey everyone. I've been close friends with a girl from my high school for about three years. I am 18 years old; she is 17. This girl has a crappy home life - she had an awful childhood, her parents are divorcing, and her mom/brother are just complete assholes to her. It is getting to the point where she is drawing a ton of attention to herself because she knows people take pity on her for what she is going through. I know numerous of my friends who have stopped hanging out with her because they can't stand how attention-seeking she is for the trouble in her life. For example, while I was out with some friends, she fb messaged myself and another friend this: She does stuff like this all the time. She'll send us messages asking for help at late hours of the night. She sends these knowing we can't/won't reply because myself and other friends are usually gaming with others or sleeping and aren't checking our phones. In the morning we always reply asking what is happening, and she always gets mad, then she breaks down crying over the phone about something her mom did or her boyfriend said. I'm getting so tired of it. My roommates have told me to tell her to screw off, but honestly I love the girl so much when she's not doing stuff like this. I understand that we all have problems. I personally was in the hospital a month ago for my depression, ptsd, and anxiety from a whole bunch of shit from my life. That's another reason why I feel like I should help her - I understand her own depression, and I can give her help. But I am getting so tired of feeling awful over this. What the hell do I do? TL;DR:
My friend is manipulating me to give her pity and attention, because her home life is shitty. I can't help her because I am getting so tired of her doing all her desperate acts of neediness.<|endoftext|>
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I'm asking for advice on how to help a girl who is manipulating me to give her pity and attention.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey everyone. I've been close friends with a girl from my high school for about three years. I am 18 years old; she is 17. This girl has a crappy home life - she had an awful childhood, her parents are divorcing, and her mom/brother are just complete assholes to her. It is getting to the point where she is drawing a ton of attention to herself because she knows people take pity on her for what she is going through. I know numerous of my friends who have stopped hanging out with her because they can't stand how attention-seeking she is for the trouble in her life. For example, while I was out with some friends, she fb messaged myself and another friend this: She does stuff like this all the time. She'll send us messages asking for help at late hours of the night. She sends these knowing we can't/won't reply because myself and other friends are usually gaming with others or sleeping and aren't checking our phones. In the morning we always reply asking what is happening, and she always gets mad, then she breaks down crying over the phone about something her mom did or her boyfriend said. I'm getting so tired of it. My roommates have told me to tell her to screw off, but honestly I love the girl so much when she's not doing stuff like this. I understand that we all have problems. I personally was in the hospital a month ago for my depression, ptsd, and anxiety from a whole bunch of shit from my life. That's another reason why I feel like I should help her - I understand her own depression, and I can give her help. But I am getting so tired of feeling awful over this. What the hell do I do? TL;DR: My friend is manipulating me to give her pity and attention, because her home life is shitty. I can't help her because I am getting so tired of her doing all her desperate acts of neediness.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey everyone. I've been close friends with a girl from my high school for about three years. I am 18 years old; she is 17. This girl has a crappy home life - she had an awful childhood, her parents are divorcing, and her mom/brother are just complete assholes to her. It is getting to the point where she is drawing a ton of attention to herself because she knows people take pity on her for what she is going through. I know numerous of my friends who have stopped hanging out with her because they can't stand how attention-seeking she is for the trouble in her life. For example, while I was out with some friends, she fb messaged myself and another friend this: She does stuff like this all the time. She'll send us messages asking for help at late hours of the night. She sends these knowing we can't/won't reply because myself and other friends are usually gaming with others or sleeping and aren't checking our phones. In the morning we always reply asking what is happening, and she always gets mad, then she breaks down crying over the phone about something her mom did or her boyfriend said. I'm getting so tired of it. My roommates have told me to tell her to screw off, but honestly I love the girl so much when she's not doing stuff like this. I understand that we all have problems. I personally was in the hospital a month ago for my depression, ptsd, and anxiety from a whole bunch of shit from my life. That's another reason why I feel like I should help her - I understand her own depression, and I can give her help. But I am getting so tired of feeling awful over this. What the hell do I do? TL;DR: I'm asking for advice on how to help a girl who is manipulating me to give her pity and attention.<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend and I are both 18 (M&F). We have been dating for two years come December 29th. We came to reddit to figure out if there are any fellow redditers who are like us. Here is our story.... We used to live together(right before we graduated high school, my boyfriend moved up into my parents garage loft with me) things were definitely hard being young of course and living together. We got into each others "me" space and our relationship started to become really rocky to where it was hard to communicate with one another. During our Thanksgiving break we just both cracked. I needed a break and he went to VA to spend Thanksgiving with his family. That was our first break ever. When he came back we talked things out like mature adults and got on the same page. We both decided it was a good idea that he move somewhere else so we could both work on our relationship and we could have our own space to be able to grow up and mature. So far everything has been much better besides being able to agree on one another's decision making. For instance, last weekend was great we hung out and went on dates like the old days. Well this past week I got surgery and he came to the hospital to visit for a minute. He couldn't be at the hospital during surgery bc he had just started a new position at his company. When I came home I expected for him to want and see me and check in ...but he was tired and went home straight from work.. I was disappointed. I talked to him about it and he understood.
My SO and myself need advice on how to be more considerate of each other's decisions and how to support one another more in our choices. HELP PLEASE! :)
We had a really rough patch in our relationship but we've moved on. We still can't seem to be mature enough to take adult decisions ourselves.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I are both 18 (M&F). We have been dating for two years come December 29th. We came to reddit to figure out if there are any fellow redditers who are like us. Here is our story.... We used to live together(right before we graduated high school, my boyfriend moved up into my parents garage loft with me) things were definitely hard being young of course and living together. We got into each others "me" space and our relationship started to become really rocky to where it was hard to communicate with one another. During our Thanksgiving break we just both cracked. I needed a break and he went to VA to spend Thanksgiving with his family. That was our first break ever. When he came back we talked things out like mature adults and got on the same page. We both decided it was a good idea that he move somewhere else so we could both work on our relationship and we could have our own space to be able to grow up and mature. So far everything has been much better besides being able to agree on one another's decision making. For instance, last weekend was great we hung out and went on dates like the old days. Well this past week I got surgery and he came to the hospital to visit for a minute. He couldn't be at the hospital during surgery bc he had just started a new position at his company. When I came home I expected for him to want and see me and check in...but he was tired and went home straight from work.. I was disappointed. I talked to him about it and he understood. TL;DR:
My SO and myself need advice on how to be more considerate of each other's decisions and how to support one another more in our choices. HELP PLEASE! :)<|endoftext|>
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We had a really rough patch in our relationship but we've moved on. We still can't seem to be mature enough to take adult decisions ourselves.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I are both 18 (M&F). We have been dating for two years come December 29th. We came to reddit to figure out if there are any fellow redditers who are like us. Here is our story.... We used to live together(right before we graduated high school, my boyfriend moved up into my parents garage loft with me) things were definitely hard being young of course and living together. We got into each others "me" space and our relationship started to become really rocky to where it was hard to communicate with one another. During our Thanksgiving break we just both cracked. I needed a break and he went to VA to spend Thanksgiving with his family. That was our first break ever. When he came back we talked things out like mature adults and got on the same page. We both decided it was a good idea that he move somewhere else so we could both work on our relationship and we could have our own space to be able to grow up and mature. So far everything has been much better besides being able to agree on one another's decision making. For instance, last weekend was great we hung out and went on dates like the old days. Well this past week I got surgery and he came to the hospital to visit for a minute. He couldn't be at the hospital during surgery bc he had just started a new position at his company. When I came home I expected for him to want and see me and check in...but he was tired and went home straight from work.. I was disappointed. I talked to him about it and he understood. TL;DR: My SO and myself need advice on how to be more considerate of each other's decisions and how to support one another more in our choices. HELP PLEASE! :)<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I are both 18 (M&F). We have been dating for two years come December 29th. We came to reddit to figure out if there are any fellow redditers who are like us. Here is our story.... We used to live together(right before we graduated high school, my boyfriend moved up into my parents garage loft with me) things were definitely hard being young of course and living together. We got into each others "me" space and our relationship started to become really rocky to where it was hard to communicate with one another. During our Thanksgiving break we just both cracked. I needed a break and he went to VA to spend Thanksgiving with his family. That was our first break ever. When he came back we talked things out like mature adults and got on the same page. We both decided it was a good idea that he move somewhere else so we could both work on our relationship and we could have our own space to be able to grow up and mature. So far everything has been much better besides being able to agree on one another's decision making. For instance, last weekend was great we hung out and went on dates like the old days. Well this past week I got surgery and he came to the hospital to visit for a minute. He couldn't be at the hospital during surgery bc he had just started a new position at his company. When I came home I expected for him to want and see me and check in...but he was tired and went home straight from work.. I was disappointed. I talked to him about it and he understood. TL;DR: We had a really rough patch in our relationship but we've moved on. We still can't seem to be mature enough to take adult decisions ourselves.<|endoftext|>
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I found out my girlfriend had been developing feelings for another guy. I found her secret tumblr and it had all these posts about how she finds his scent so comforting and how she wanted to kiss him really badly. We both know the kid as he is part of our mutual friend group. She didn't act on these urges but I still felt betrayed so I left her. I should add that when I confronted her she adamantly denied these and told me that she wrote those because she was "angry and not thinking rationally". Was that a cop out on her part?
girlfriend of 2 years has secret blog, posts about how she's developing feelings for another, I leave her but dont know if I did the right thing.
Girlfriend admitted to developing feelings for another guy and I left her. Was that a good decision?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I found out my girlfriend had been developing feelings for another guy. I found her secret tumblr and it had all these posts about how she finds his scent so comforting and how she wanted to kiss him really badly. We both know the kid as he is part of our mutual friend group. She didn't act on these urges but I still felt betrayed so I left her. I should add that when I confronted her she adamantly denied these and told me that she wrote those because she was "angry and not thinking rationally". Was that a cop out on her part? TL;DR:
girlfriend of 2 years has secret blog, posts about how she's developing feelings for another, I leave her but dont know if I did the right thing.<|endoftext|>
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Girlfriend admitted to developing feelings for another guy and I left her. Was that a good decision?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I found out my girlfriend had been developing feelings for another guy. I found her secret tumblr and it had all these posts about how she finds his scent so comforting and how she wanted to kiss him really badly. We both know the kid as he is part of our mutual friend group. She didn't act on these urges but I still felt betrayed so I left her. I should add that when I confronted her she adamantly denied these and told me that she wrote those because she was "angry and not thinking rationally". Was that a cop out on her part? TL;DR: girlfriend of 2 years has secret blog, posts about how she's developing feelings for another, I leave her but dont know if I did the right thing.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I found out my girlfriend had been developing feelings for another guy. I found her secret tumblr and it had all these posts about how she finds his scent so comforting and how she wanted to kiss him really badly. We both know the kid as he is part of our mutual friend group. She didn't act on these urges but I still felt betrayed so I left her. I should add that when I confronted her she adamantly denied these and told me that she wrote those because she was "angry and not thinking rationally". Was that a cop out on her part? TL;DR: Girlfriend admitted to developing feelings for another guy and I left her. Was that a good decision?<|endoftext|>
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First of all, thank you guys for reading. I live in Spain. The title may be confusing, let me explain my case: A power supply manufacturer (spanish brand) sends reviewers, youtubers, etc a power supply to review. The power supply costed around 90€, it had 900 w and a 80 plus silver rating (for the people who doesn't know about this: it was pretty good and efficient) The reviews rated the product with a lot of stars and valoration, it was, indeed, a nice product. However, months after that, the reviewers realised that people complained a lot about the quality of this product, and that's when everybody realised the company was sending a very good quality power supply to the reviewers then selling garbage to the public, a completely different power supply which didn't reach 800 w or 80 plus silver. All under the same model name. I contacted the manufacturer about this scam and they replied once with an automated message: "we are sorry that your unit is malfunctioning bla bla bla RMA bla bla bla..." then they didn't respond anymore. What can I do about this? I feel completely scammed and I was afraid to even turn on my PC (all its hardware is pretty new and good) without fearing that it might turn into popcorn. Today I got myself a EVGA Supernova G2 so the trashy power supply is gone, but I still feel scammed. Thank you guys for your advice and patience.
Manufacturer sends reviewers and youtubers a 10/10 product then sells garbage under the same product name.
I bought a power supply based on a review and the company is selling crap units under the same model name. What are my rights?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First of all, thank you guys for reading. I live in Spain. The title may be confusing, let me explain my case: A power supply manufacturer (spanish brand) sends reviewers, youtubers, etc a power supply to review. The power supply costed around 90€, it had 900 w and a 80 plus silver rating (for the people who doesn't know about this: it was pretty good and efficient) The reviews rated the product with a lot of stars and valoration, it was, indeed, a nice product. However, months after that, the reviewers realised that people complained a lot about the quality of this product, and that's when everybody realised the company was sending a very good quality power supply to the reviewers then selling garbage to the public, a completely different power supply which didn't reach 800 w or 80 plus silver. All under the same model name. I contacted the manufacturer about this scam and they replied once with an automated message: "we are sorry that your unit is malfunctioning bla bla bla RMA bla bla bla..." then they didn't respond anymore. What can I do about this? I feel completely scammed and I was afraid to even turn on my PC (all its hardware is pretty new and good) without fearing that it might turn into popcorn. Today I got myself a EVGA Supernova G2 so the trashy power supply is gone, but I still feel scammed. Thank you guys for your advice and patience. TL;DR:
Manufacturer sends reviewers and youtubers a 10/10 product then sells garbage under the same product name.<|endoftext|>
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I bought a power supply based on a review and the company is selling crap units under the same model name. What are my rights?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First of all, thank you guys for reading. I live in Spain. The title may be confusing, let me explain my case: A power supply manufacturer (spanish brand) sends reviewers, youtubers, etc a power supply to review. The power supply costed around 90€, it had 900 w and a 80 plus silver rating (for the people who doesn't know about this: it was pretty good and efficient) The reviews rated the product with a lot of stars and valoration, it was, indeed, a nice product. However, months after that, the reviewers realised that people complained a lot about the quality of this product, and that's when everybody realised the company was sending a very good quality power supply to the reviewers then selling garbage to the public, a completely different power supply which didn't reach 800 w or 80 plus silver. All under the same model name. I contacted the manufacturer about this scam and they replied once with an automated message: "we are sorry that your unit is malfunctioning bla bla bla RMA bla bla bla..." then they didn't respond anymore. What can I do about this? I feel completely scammed and I was afraid to even turn on my PC (all its hardware is pretty new and good) without fearing that it might turn into popcorn. Today I got myself a EVGA Supernova G2 so the trashy power supply is gone, but I still feel scammed. Thank you guys for your advice and patience. TL;DR: Manufacturer sends reviewers and youtubers a 10/10 product then sells garbage under the same product name.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First of all, thank you guys for reading. I live in Spain. The title may be confusing, let me explain my case: A power supply manufacturer (spanish brand) sends reviewers, youtubers, etc a power supply to review. The power supply costed around 90€, it had 900 w and a 80 plus silver rating (for the people who doesn't know about this: it was pretty good and efficient) The reviews rated the product with a lot of stars and valoration, it was, indeed, a nice product. However, months after that, the reviewers realised that people complained a lot about the quality of this product, and that's when everybody realised the company was sending a very good quality power supply to the reviewers then selling garbage to the public, a completely different power supply which didn't reach 800 w or 80 plus silver. All under the same model name. I contacted the manufacturer about this scam and they replied once with an automated message: "we are sorry that your unit is malfunctioning bla bla bla RMA bla bla bla..." then they didn't respond anymore. What can I do about this? I feel completely scammed and I was afraid to even turn on my PC (all its hardware is pretty new and good) without fearing that it might turn into popcorn. Today I got myself a EVGA Supernova G2 so the trashy power supply is gone, but I still feel scammed. Thank you guys for your advice and patience. TL;DR: I bought a power supply based on a review and the company is selling crap units under the same model name. What are my rights?<|endoftext|>
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Hello, Over the past few months I've been all over the place. My girlfriend of over a year and I spend a lot of time together. Because of this my friends have been getting really annoyed because I don't spend as much time with them. I talked to her about this and we decided that I should make an effort to spend more time with them. This made them happy, but then she slowly started to get more angry about me not spending enough time with her. During this time I started to resent her and my friends so I thought I'd get some help. After talking to a therapist (about other things, too), he suggested that I spend more time on myself rather than worrying about what others want. So I've started to do this. Now both parties are growing upset with me. My friends get annoyed because I don't do certain things with them, but it bothers me because these things aren't fun for me. I explain that and they seem to not even care. My girlfriend says our relationship has gotten boring, and it has. I'm deathly afraid she's going to break up with me and this has caused all sorts of emotionally issues. With all of this, I'm very much a recluse. I enjoy doing some things (oddly enough, video games, for example) by myself. I have been going back to neglecting these things and now the resentment has started again. My therapist now says that I'm just maturing more than my friends. I don't know how this works, but whatever. He really hasn't helped me with any of my issues. I should probably see somebody else.
Reddit, please help me find a way to balance hanging out with my friends, my girlfriend while also having alone time. I'm having a lot of issues emotionally because of all of this.
How can I better balance spending time with my girlfriend and my friends while having alone time?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, Over the past few months I've been all over the place. My girlfriend of over a year and I spend a lot of time together. Because of this my friends have been getting really annoyed because I don't spend as much time with them. I talked to her about this and we decided that I should make an effort to spend more time with them. This made them happy, but then she slowly started to get more angry about me not spending enough time with her. During this time I started to resent her and my friends so I thought I'd get some help. After talking to a therapist (about other things, too), he suggested that I spend more time on myself rather than worrying about what others want. So I've started to do this. Now both parties are growing upset with me. My friends get annoyed because I don't do certain things with them, but it bothers me because these things aren't fun for me. I explain that and they seem to not even care. My girlfriend says our relationship has gotten boring, and it has. I'm deathly afraid she's going to break up with me and this has caused all sorts of emotionally issues. With all of this, I'm very much a recluse. I enjoy doing some things (oddly enough, video games, for example) by myself. I have been going back to neglecting these things and now the resentment has started again. My therapist now says that I'm just maturing more than my friends. I don't know how this works, but whatever. He really hasn't helped me with any of my issues. I should probably see somebody else. TL;DR:
Reddit, please help me find a way to balance hanging out with my friends, my girlfriend while also having alone time. I'm having a lot of issues emotionally because of all of this.<|endoftext|>
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How can I better balance spending time with my girlfriend and my friends while having alone time?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, Over the past few months I've been all over the place. My girlfriend of over a year and I spend a lot of time together. Because of this my friends have been getting really annoyed because I don't spend as much time with them. I talked to her about this and we decided that I should make an effort to spend more time with them. This made them happy, but then she slowly started to get more angry about me not spending enough time with her. During this time I started to resent her and my friends so I thought I'd get some help. After talking to a therapist (about other things, too), he suggested that I spend more time on myself rather than worrying about what others want. So I've started to do this. Now both parties are growing upset with me. My friends get annoyed because I don't do certain things with them, but it bothers me because these things aren't fun for me. I explain that and they seem to not even care. My girlfriend says our relationship has gotten boring, and it has. I'm deathly afraid she's going to break up with me and this has caused all sorts of emotionally issues. With all of this, I'm very much a recluse. I enjoy doing some things (oddly enough, video games, for example) by myself. I have been going back to neglecting these things and now the resentment has started again. My therapist now says that I'm just maturing more than my friends. I don't know how this works, but whatever. He really hasn't helped me with any of my issues. I should probably see somebody else. TL;DR: Reddit, please help me find a way to balance hanging out with my friends, my girlfriend while also having alone time. I'm having a lot of issues emotionally because of all of this.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, Over the past few months I've been all over the place. My girlfriend of over a year and I spend a lot of time together. Because of this my friends have been getting really annoyed because I don't spend as much time with them. I talked to her about this and we decided that I should make an effort to spend more time with them. This made them happy, but then she slowly started to get more angry about me not spending enough time with her. During this time I started to resent her and my friends so I thought I'd get some help. After talking to a therapist (about other things, too), he suggested that I spend more time on myself rather than worrying about what others want. So I've started to do this. Now both parties are growing upset with me. My friends get annoyed because I don't do certain things with them, but it bothers me because these things aren't fun for me. I explain that and they seem to not even care. My girlfriend says our relationship has gotten boring, and it has. I'm deathly afraid she's going to break up with me and this has caused all sorts of emotionally issues. With all of this, I'm very much a recluse. I enjoy doing some things (oddly enough, video games, for example) by myself. I have been going back to neglecting these things and now the resentment has started again. My therapist now says that I'm just maturing more than my friends. I don't know how this works, but whatever. He really hasn't helped me with any of my issues. I should probably see somebody else. TL;DR: How can I better balance spending time with my girlfriend and my friends while having alone time?<|endoftext|>
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My Girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. When we got together she was fresh out of a long-term relationship and we worked together, so we agreed to take it slow. We've been exclusive the whole time, and had no serious problems, other than her not fully letting me into her life. I have never met her family, and I have only met about two of her close friends. I have tried to remain patient and understanding, hoping that one day she would get over it and let me in. We love each other and have a great time together, but we've had talks that end up with us "taking a break" to let her go through the processes she needed to be ready for a real relationship. Since we work together it was always really sad and awkward in the office and we couldn't stay apart, so we would be back to where we started in a matter of days. She recently got a new job, and so we don't see each other 40 hours a week anymore. I could sense a distance growing in our conversations and in the little time we spend together, and we finally had the same "I don't know what it is, but something is still holding me back" conversation. She's apologetic and we're both frustrated and sad about it. I want to fight for her because I know we love each other, but I don't know what's best to get her to that place, and I don't want to feel like I'm holding her hostage in this relationship. Do I need to walk away and hope she realizes what she's throwing away? or keep fighting for us?
Girlfriend says something is holding back from letting me in. How do I get her to realize what's holding us back, or do I walk away?
Girlfriend has been taking a break from the relationship and says something is holding her back from letting me in. Need advice on how to keep moving forward and maybe persuade her to let me in.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My Girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. When we got together she was fresh out of a long-term relationship and we worked together, so we agreed to take it slow. We've been exclusive the whole time, and had no serious problems, other than her not fully letting me into her life. I have never met her family, and I have only met about two of her close friends. I have tried to remain patient and understanding, hoping that one day she would get over it and let me in. We love each other and have a great time together, but we've had talks that end up with us "taking a break" to let her go through the processes she needed to be ready for a real relationship. Since we work together it was always really sad and awkward in the office and we couldn't stay apart, so we would be back to where we started in a matter of days. She recently got a new job, and so we don't see each other 40 hours a week anymore. I could sense a distance growing in our conversations and in the little time we spend together, and we finally had the same "I don't know what it is, but something is still holding me back" conversation. She's apologetic and we're both frustrated and sad about it. I want to fight for her because I know we love each other, but I don't know what's best to get her to that place, and I don't want to feel like I'm holding her hostage in this relationship. Do I need to walk away and hope she realizes what she's throwing away? or keep fighting for us? TL;DR:
Girlfriend says something is holding back from letting me in. How do I get her to realize what's holding us back, or do I walk away?<|endoftext|>
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Girlfriend has been taking a break from the relationship and says something is holding her back from letting me in. Need advice on how to keep moving forward and maybe persuade her to let me in.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My Girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. When we got together she was fresh out of a long-term relationship and we worked together, so we agreed to take it slow. We've been exclusive the whole time, and had no serious problems, other than her not fully letting me into her life. I have never met her family, and I have only met about two of her close friends. I have tried to remain patient and understanding, hoping that one day she would get over it and let me in. We love each other and have a great time together, but we've had talks that end up with us "taking a break" to let her go through the processes she needed to be ready for a real relationship. Since we work together it was always really sad and awkward in the office and we couldn't stay apart, so we would be back to where we started in a matter of days. She recently got a new job, and so we don't see each other 40 hours a week anymore. I could sense a distance growing in our conversations and in the little time we spend together, and we finally had the same "I don't know what it is, but something is still holding me back" conversation. She's apologetic and we're both frustrated and sad about it. I want to fight for her because I know we love each other, but I don't know what's best to get her to that place, and I don't want to feel like I'm holding her hostage in this relationship. Do I need to walk away and hope she realizes what she's throwing away? or keep fighting for us? TL;DR: Girlfriend says something is holding back from letting me in. How do I get her to realize what's holding us back, or do I walk away?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My Girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. When we got together she was fresh out of a long-term relationship and we worked together, so we agreed to take it slow. We've been exclusive the whole time, and had no serious problems, other than her not fully letting me into her life. I have never met her family, and I have only met about two of her close friends. I have tried to remain patient and understanding, hoping that one day she would get over it and let me in. We love each other and have a great time together, but we've had talks that end up with us "taking a break" to let her go through the processes she needed to be ready for a real relationship. Since we work together it was always really sad and awkward in the office and we couldn't stay apart, so we would be back to where we started in a matter of days. She recently got a new job, and so we don't see each other 40 hours a week anymore. I could sense a distance growing in our conversations and in the little time we spend together, and we finally had the same "I don't know what it is, but something is still holding me back" conversation. She's apologetic and we're both frustrated and sad about it. I want to fight for her because I know we love each other, but I don't know what's best to get her to that place, and I don't want to feel like I'm holding her hostage in this relationship. Do I need to walk away and hope she realizes what she's throwing away? or keep fighting for us? TL;DR: Girlfriend has been taking a break from the relationship and says something is holding her back from letting me in. Need advice on how to keep moving forward and maybe persuade her to let me in.<|endoftext|>
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Allright reddit, I just moved out to Phoenix AZ about a year ago. I pretty much just picked up and moved so that's where I am at today. However before I moved out here I was talking to this woman and hit it off very well never really hung out with her just talked to her a lot at work and after work. When we decided to hang out and everything she backed down because she found out she was pregnant and she said she was really sorry and didn't expect this because of the other guy who is a douche bad. I still tried to talk to her because I liked her a lot and she didn't understand why I tried because she was pregnant with someone else's kid. This was all a year ago and we still talk quite often when I live 2000 miles away. Fast forward to now a little back ground on the father of her child, the baby was born and he wasn't even there for the birth of his child nor has any par take in his life as of now. She is raising this child alone. Now reddit this is I guess my question or concern, I am struggling out here in Phoenix all by myself don't really have friends and no family out here so I am contemplating on moving back to Michigan. I guess my question is am I moving back because I like this woman and want to be with her and possibly a father to a child that's not even mine. Am I wanting that, does she want that who knows? Am I trying to just help this woman because she is broken is that my weakness and what I like to do? Idk. I like this woman a lot have been keeping in contact with her snapchat her however I just don't know if it would work out because she has a kid with someone else. I guess the same thing happened to me and my dad now who is no my biological father I look at him like he is. So I know it can be done and work because my parents have done so. Thank you reddit even if I get no response it was nice to just let it go from my chest.
Met woman great talking but she got pregnant with another guy kid. contemplating if moving back to state for relationship/father to child not mine. Am I trying to help or is she just looking for attention. Help plz
Met a chick in Phoenix AZ before move. Hit it off and talked really well w/ her. Pregnant w/ another guy. Wondering about moving back home to Michigan if i like this woman.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Allright reddit, I just moved out to Phoenix AZ about a year ago. I pretty much just picked up and moved so that's where I am at today. However before I moved out here I was talking to this woman and hit it off very well never really hung out with her just talked to her a lot at work and after work. When we decided to hang out and everything she backed down because she found out she was pregnant and she said she was really sorry and didn't expect this because of the other guy who is a douche bad. I still tried to talk to her because I liked her a lot and she didn't understand why I tried because she was pregnant with someone else's kid. This was all a year ago and we still talk quite often when I live 2000 miles away. Fast forward to now a little back ground on the father of her child, the baby was born and he wasn't even there for the birth of his child nor has any par take in his life as of now. She is raising this child alone. Now reddit this is I guess my question or concern, I am struggling out here in Phoenix all by myself don't really have friends and no family out here so I am contemplating on moving back to Michigan. I guess my question is am I moving back because I like this woman and want to be with her and possibly a father to a child that's not even mine. Am I wanting that, does she want that who knows? Am I trying to just help this woman because she is broken is that my weakness and what I like to do? Idk. I like this woman a lot have been keeping in contact with her snapchat her however I just don't know if it would work out because she has a kid with someone else. I guess the same thing happened to me and my dad now who is no my biological father I look at him like he is. So I know it can be done and work because my parents have done so. Thank you reddit even if I get no response it was nice to just let it go from my chest. TL;DR:
Met woman great talking but she got pregnant with another guy kid. contemplating if moving back to state for relationship/father to child not mine. Am I trying to help or is she just looking for attention. Help plz<|endoftext|>
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Met a chick in Phoenix AZ before move. Hit it off and talked really well w/ her. Pregnant w/ another guy. Wondering about moving back home to Michigan if i like this woman.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Allright reddit, I just moved out to Phoenix AZ about a year ago. I pretty much just picked up and moved so that's where I am at today. However before I moved out here I was talking to this woman and hit it off very well never really hung out with her just talked to her a lot at work and after work. When we decided to hang out and everything she backed down because she found out she was pregnant and she said she was really sorry and didn't expect this because of the other guy who is a douche bad. I still tried to talk to her because I liked her a lot and she didn't understand why I tried because she was pregnant with someone else's kid. This was all a year ago and we still talk quite often when I live 2000 miles away. Fast forward to now a little back ground on the father of her child, the baby was born and he wasn't even there for the birth of his child nor has any par take in his life as of now. She is raising this child alone. Now reddit this is I guess my question or concern, I am struggling out here in Phoenix all by myself don't really have friends and no family out here so I am contemplating on moving back to Michigan. I guess my question is am I moving back because I like this woman and want to be with her and possibly a father to a child that's not even mine. Am I wanting that, does she want that who knows? Am I trying to just help this woman because she is broken is that my weakness and what I like to do? Idk. I like this woman a lot have been keeping in contact with her snapchat her however I just don't know if it would work out because she has a kid with someone else. I guess the same thing happened to me and my dad now who is no my biological father I look at him like he is. So I know it can be done and work because my parents have done so. Thank you reddit even if I get no response it was nice to just let it go from my chest. TL;DR: Met woman great talking but she got pregnant with another guy kid. contemplating if moving back to state for relationship/father to child not mine. Am I trying to help or is she just looking for attention. Help plz<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Allright reddit, I just moved out to Phoenix AZ about a year ago. I pretty much just picked up and moved so that's where I am at today. However before I moved out here I was talking to this woman and hit it off very well never really hung out with her just talked to her a lot at work and after work. When we decided to hang out and everything she backed down because she found out she was pregnant and she said she was really sorry and didn't expect this because of the other guy who is a douche bad. I still tried to talk to her because I liked her a lot and she didn't understand why I tried because she was pregnant with someone else's kid. This was all a year ago and we still talk quite often when I live 2000 miles away. Fast forward to now a little back ground on the father of her child, the baby was born and he wasn't even there for the birth of his child nor has any par take in his life as of now. She is raising this child alone. Now reddit this is I guess my question or concern, I am struggling out here in Phoenix all by myself don't really have friends and no family out here so I am contemplating on moving back to Michigan. I guess my question is am I moving back because I like this woman and want to be with her and possibly a father to a child that's not even mine. Am I wanting that, does she want that who knows? Am I trying to just help this woman because she is broken is that my weakness and what I like to do? Idk. I like this woman a lot have been keeping in contact with her snapchat her however I just don't know if it would work out because she has a kid with someone else. I guess the same thing happened to me and my dad now who is no my biological father I look at him like he is. So I know it can be done and work because my parents have done so. Thank you reddit even if I get no response it was nice to just let it go from my chest. TL;DR: Met a chick in Phoenix AZ before move. Hit it off and talked really well w/ her. Pregnant w/ another guy. Wondering about moving back home to Michigan if i like this woman.<|endoftext|>
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Just like to start off by saying thanks for taking you time to read this, it won't be very long and I really appreciate any feedback. Firstly, I recently broke up with my ex, about 6 weeks ago, we had a bad breakup. We argued over something silly and this relationship was something dear to me so even though we mutually broke up, it still hurts. Now, fast forward a month forward after we broke up she tells me that she's seeing someone else, I'm not angry at her, I'm just hurt and it feels like she just found an excuse to tell me that she's found someone else, I don't know if it's the rebound or not, that's not my problem, I would have just preferred not to know at all if that makes sense. Anyway, I've unfollowed her on Facebook so I don't see any posts, she hardly tweets besides automatic Instagram posts which I sometimes find myself clicking and it really puts down my mood cause a small part of me misses her. I like to have memories so everything that reminded me of us in my room I've boxed up and put it somewhere safe for looking back in the future. I don't really know how to put it, I knows it been a while but I'm just struggling to get completely over it, and seeing the odd photo post is usually enough to put down my mood a bit. Is there any advice to get over this (we were together for almost 2 and a half years before we broke up)
Me [18M] broke up with my ex, she's seeing someone else and I don't know how to get over it.
Ex/GF of 6 weeks broke up with me 6 weeks ago, I'm not angry at her, I just feel hurt and it hurts more. Thanks, Reddit, I really appreciate it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Just like to start off by saying thanks for taking you time to read this, it won't be very long and I really appreciate any feedback. Firstly, I recently broke up with my ex, about 6 weeks ago, we had a bad breakup. We argued over something silly and this relationship was something dear to me so even though we mutually broke up, it still hurts. Now, fast forward a month forward after we broke up she tells me that she's seeing someone else, I'm not angry at her, I'm just hurt and it feels like she just found an excuse to tell me that she's found someone else, I don't know if it's the rebound or not, that's not my problem, I would have just preferred not to know at all if that makes sense. Anyway, I've unfollowed her on Facebook so I don't see any posts, she hardly tweets besides automatic Instagram posts which I sometimes find myself clicking and it really puts down my mood cause a small part of me misses her. I like to have memories so everything that reminded me of us in my room I've boxed up and put it somewhere safe for looking back in the future. I don't really know how to put it, I knows it been a while but I'm just struggling to get completely over it, and seeing the odd photo post is usually enough to put down my mood a bit. Is there any advice to get over this (we were together for almost 2 and a half years before we broke up) TL;DR:
Me [18M] broke up with my ex, she's seeing someone else and I don't know how to get over it.<|endoftext|>
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Ex/GF of 6 weeks broke up with me 6 weeks ago, I'm not angry at her, I just feel hurt and it hurts more. Thanks, Reddit, I really appreciate it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Just like to start off by saying thanks for taking you time to read this, it won't be very long and I really appreciate any feedback. Firstly, I recently broke up with my ex, about 6 weeks ago, we had a bad breakup. We argued over something silly and this relationship was something dear to me so even though we mutually broke up, it still hurts. Now, fast forward a month forward after we broke up she tells me that she's seeing someone else, I'm not angry at her, I'm just hurt and it feels like she just found an excuse to tell me that she's found someone else, I don't know if it's the rebound or not, that's not my problem, I would have just preferred not to know at all if that makes sense. Anyway, I've unfollowed her on Facebook so I don't see any posts, she hardly tweets besides automatic Instagram posts which I sometimes find myself clicking and it really puts down my mood cause a small part of me misses her. I like to have memories so everything that reminded me of us in my room I've boxed up and put it somewhere safe for looking back in the future. I don't really know how to put it, I knows it been a while but I'm just struggling to get completely over it, and seeing the odd photo post is usually enough to put down my mood a bit. Is there any advice to get over this (we were together for almost 2 and a half years before we broke up) TL;DR: Me [18M] broke up with my ex, she's seeing someone else and I don't know how to get over it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Just like to start off by saying thanks for taking you time to read this, it won't be very long and I really appreciate any feedback. Firstly, I recently broke up with my ex, about 6 weeks ago, we had a bad breakup. We argued over something silly and this relationship was something dear to me so even though we mutually broke up, it still hurts. Now, fast forward a month forward after we broke up she tells me that she's seeing someone else, I'm not angry at her, I'm just hurt and it feels like she just found an excuse to tell me that she's found someone else, I don't know if it's the rebound or not, that's not my problem, I would have just preferred not to know at all if that makes sense. Anyway, I've unfollowed her on Facebook so I don't see any posts, she hardly tweets besides automatic Instagram posts which I sometimes find myself clicking and it really puts down my mood cause a small part of me misses her. I like to have memories so everything that reminded me of us in my room I've boxed up and put it somewhere safe for looking back in the future. I don't really know how to put it, I knows it been a while but I'm just struggling to get completely over it, and seeing the odd photo post is usually enough to put down my mood a bit. Is there any advice to get over this (we were together for almost 2 and a half years before we broke up) TL;DR: Ex/GF of 6 weeks broke up with me 6 weeks ago, I'm not angry at her, I just feel hurt and it hurts more. Thanks, Reddit, I really appreciate it.<|endoftext|>
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i just signed a two year lease with her. i definitely love her but i am concerned we might want different things. i eventually want to move somewhere different, even for a few years (California is top of list) and she doesn't want to leave home or her job. additionally where we just signed is not my favorite locale. it's a quiet community and i am concerned that i might just get bored/anxious living there for such a long term (2 years is long!) maybe this is just me thinking/anticipating the worst but now i feel locked up here until im 30 and i am still unsure if she's the one i want to marry and i KNOW i don't want to live here long term. help ease my fears, reddit...
signed a 2-year lease with my girlfriend and now i'm concerned that we might want different things
signed a 2-year lease with my girlfriend, not my favorite locale, worried and confused.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: i just signed a two year lease with her. i definitely love her but i am concerned we might want different things. i eventually want to move somewhere different, even for a few years (California is top of list) and she doesn't want to leave home or her job. additionally where we just signed is not my favorite locale. it's a quiet community and i am concerned that i might just get bored/anxious living there for such a long term (2 years is long!) maybe this is just me thinking/anticipating the worst but now i feel locked up here until im 30 and i am still unsure if she's the one i want to marry and i KNOW i don't want to live here long term. help ease my fears, reddit... TL;DR:
signed a 2-year lease with my girlfriend and now i'm concerned that we might want different things<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: i just signed a two year lease with her. i definitely love her but i am concerned we might want different things. i eventually want to move somewhere different, even for a few years (California is top of list) and she doesn't want to leave home or her job. additionally where we just signed is not my favorite locale. it's a quiet community and i am concerned that i might just get bored/anxious living there for such a long term (2 years is long!) maybe this is just me thinking/anticipating the worst but now i feel locked up here until im 30 and i am still unsure if she's the one i want to marry and i KNOW i don't want to live here long term. help ease my fears, reddit... TL;DR: signed a 2-year lease with my girlfriend and now i'm concerned that we might want different things<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: i just signed a two year lease with her. i definitely love her but i am concerned we might want different things. i eventually want to move somewhere different, even for a few years (California is top of list) and she doesn't want to leave home or her job. additionally where we just signed is not my favorite locale. it's a quiet community and i am concerned that i might just get bored/anxious living there for such a long term (2 years is long!) maybe this is just me thinking/anticipating the worst but now i feel locked up here until im 30 and i am still unsure if she's the one i want to marry and i KNOW i don't want to live here long term. help ease my fears, reddit... TL;DR: signed a 2-year lease with my girlfriend, not my favorite locale, worried and confused.<|endoftext|>
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Good evening, I studied abroad last semester and I participated in a master student's survey twice (before and after the semester, a span of 4 full months), where the incentive was potentially winning 100 euros. I never win anything and just did it because I was bored and wanted to help, I guess. Today I got an email telling me I actually won, and since the surveys were seemingly legit (pretty involved, 15 minutes each, etc), this then also seems legit to me. But now she wants all my info: name, address, DOB, Bic number, account number, bank key (I don't even know what that one is?), and routing number. I'm not the most well-read on such things, but I'm pretty sure that if she's not real, I'd be f***ed giving her even half of that info. I think her survey was sent through the International Relations Office of my host university, or through some other official, exchange-related conduit. She didn't just randomly email me, I chose to do it and gave her my email during the first survey. I was thinking of asking her to send me a photo of her student ID to verify she's who she says she is, then I really would be willing to send her my info...I could use the money and I had to email my bank details to my host university before, when I was arranging to go on exchange, which makes it seem not so bad. I would really appreciate some input here! Please and thank you!
I did a survey in exchange for potentially winning 100 euros. I won, but now the lady wants all my info.
I'm fine with letting a bunch of crazy people know that I have money because I don't want to lose it, but what about her? I guess I'm worried about how she'll treat me afterwards. I could also just send her the money and she'll be perfectly fine with that, but I'm not sure if I should.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Good evening, I studied abroad last semester and I participated in a master student's survey twice (before and after the semester, a span of 4 full months), where the incentive was potentially winning 100 euros. I never win anything and just did it because I was bored and wanted to help, I guess. Today I got an email telling me I actually won, and since the surveys were seemingly legit (pretty involved, 15 minutes each, etc), this then also seems legit to me. But now she wants all my info: name, address, DOB, Bic number, account number, bank key (I don't even know what that one is?), and routing number. I'm not the most well-read on such things, but I'm pretty sure that if she's not real, I'd be f***ed giving her even half of that info. I think her survey was sent through the International Relations Office of my host university, or through some other official, exchange-related conduit. She didn't just randomly email me, I chose to do it and gave her my email during the first survey. I was thinking of asking her to send me a photo of her student ID to verify she's who she says she is, then I really would be willing to send her my info...I could use the money and I had to email my bank details to my host university before, when I was arranging to go on exchange, which makes it seem not so bad. I would really appreciate some input here! Please and thank you! TL;DR:
I did a survey in exchange for potentially winning 100 euros. I won, but now the lady wants all my info.<|endoftext|>
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I'm fine with letting a bunch of crazy people know that I have money because I don't want to lose it, but what about her? I guess I'm worried about how she'll treat me afterwards. I could also just send her the money and she'll be perfectly fine with that, but I'm not sure if I should.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Good evening, I studied abroad last semester and I participated in a master student's survey twice (before and after the semester, a span of 4 full months), where the incentive was potentially winning 100 euros. I never win anything and just did it because I was bored and wanted to help, I guess. Today I got an email telling me I actually won, and since the surveys were seemingly legit (pretty involved, 15 minutes each, etc), this then also seems legit to me. But now she wants all my info: name, address, DOB, Bic number, account number, bank key (I don't even know what that one is?), and routing number. I'm not the most well-read on such things, but I'm pretty sure that if she's not real, I'd be f***ed giving her even half of that info. I think her survey was sent through the International Relations Office of my host university, or through some other official, exchange-related conduit. She didn't just randomly email me, I chose to do it and gave her my email during the first survey. I was thinking of asking her to send me a photo of her student ID to verify she's who she says she is, then I really would be willing to send her my info...I could use the money and I had to email my bank details to my host university before, when I was arranging to go on exchange, which makes it seem not so bad. I would really appreciate some input here! Please and thank you! TL;DR: I did a survey in exchange for potentially winning 100 euros. I won, but now the lady wants all my info.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Good evening, I studied abroad last semester and I participated in a master student's survey twice (before and after the semester, a span of 4 full months), where the incentive was potentially winning 100 euros. I never win anything and just did it because I was bored and wanted to help, I guess. Today I got an email telling me I actually won, and since the surveys were seemingly legit (pretty involved, 15 minutes each, etc), this then also seems legit to me. But now she wants all my info: name, address, DOB, Bic number, account number, bank key (I don't even know what that one is?), and routing number. I'm not the most well-read on such things, but I'm pretty sure that if she's not real, I'd be f***ed giving her even half of that info. I think her survey was sent through the International Relations Office of my host university, or through some other official, exchange-related conduit. She didn't just randomly email me, I chose to do it and gave her my email during the first survey. I was thinking of asking her to send me a photo of her student ID to verify she's who she says she is, then I really would be willing to send her my info...I could use the money and I had to email my bank details to my host university before, when I was arranging to go on exchange, which makes it seem not so bad. I would really appreciate some input here! Please and thank you! TL;DR: I'm fine with letting a bunch of crazy people know that I have money because I don't want to lose it, but what about her? I guess I'm worried about how she'll treat me afterwards. I could also just send her the money and she'll be perfectly fine with that, but I'm not sure if I should.<|endoftext|>
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Long story short I am 25 and have had a phobia of driving for as long as I can remember. At 18 I moved out with my SO to another state and I am finally about to get my Learner's Permit. My family (Mom and siblings mostly) just don't understand this. My parents did nothing to help me learn how to drive. They never once had the time to take me learning every time I'd ask, and they didn't have the money for Driver's Ed so I ended up not learning and getting over my phobia. My family thinks I am stupid for getting my Learner's Permit because at 18 you can just take the driving test and get your full license, but I'm not ready for that because **I HAVE NO PRACTICE**. I don't want to practice with my SO illegally and my family is like "Who cares! Everyone practices illegally! Just get your license!". My Mom knows I am not listening to them and getting my permit anyways and she keeps saying "Now you can drive your siblings everywhere next time you visit" ect, even though I mentioned that with your permit you need a licensed driver in the car. They are acting like I am a goody 2 shoes because I don't want to do shit illegally. I am visiting them next month and I usually stay for around 2 weeks, and I know the entire time my Mom is going to act pissy with me because I **still** can't drive anywhere by myself. This is the same woman who's Driver's license expired 20 years ago. How am I going to get them off my back?
Family is clueless about my phobia of driving and they don't understand that I want to get my Learner's Permit without driving illegally. How do I get them off my back and convince them otherwise?
my family thinks I'm an idiot for getting my learner's permit and disregarding their advice and doesn't understand that I don't want to drive illegally. They are driving me crazy. Help!
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short I am 25 and have had a phobia of driving for as long as I can remember. At 18 I moved out with my SO to another state and I am finally about to get my Learner's Permit. My family (Mom and siblings mostly) just don't understand this. My parents did nothing to help me learn how to drive. They never once had the time to take me learning every time I'd ask, and they didn't have the money for Driver's Ed so I ended up not learning and getting over my phobia. My family thinks I am stupid for getting my Learner's Permit because at 18 you can just take the driving test and get your full license, but I'm not ready for that because **I HAVE NO PRACTICE**. I don't want to practice with my SO illegally and my family is like "Who cares! Everyone practices illegally! Just get your license!". My Mom knows I am not listening to them and getting my permit anyways and she keeps saying "Now you can drive your siblings everywhere next time you visit" ect, even though I mentioned that with your permit you need a licensed driver in the car. They are acting like I am a goody 2 shoes because I don't want to do shit illegally. I am visiting them next month and I usually stay for around 2 weeks, and I know the entire time my Mom is going to act pissy with me because I **still** can't drive anywhere by myself. This is the same woman who's Driver's license expired 20 years ago. How am I going to get them off my back? TL;DR:
Family is clueless about my phobia of driving and they don't understand that I want to get my Learner's Permit without driving illegally. How do I get them off my back and convince them otherwise?<|endoftext|>
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my family thinks I'm an idiot for getting my learner's permit and disregarding their advice and doesn't understand that I don't want to drive illegally. They are driving me crazy. Help!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short I am 25 and have had a phobia of driving for as long as I can remember. At 18 I moved out with my SO to another state and I am finally about to get my Learner's Permit. My family (Mom and siblings mostly) just don't understand this. My parents did nothing to help me learn how to drive. They never once had the time to take me learning every time I'd ask, and they didn't have the money for Driver's Ed so I ended up not learning and getting over my phobia. My family thinks I am stupid for getting my Learner's Permit because at 18 you can just take the driving test and get your full license, but I'm not ready for that because **I HAVE NO PRACTICE**. I don't want to practice with my SO illegally and my family is like "Who cares! Everyone practices illegally! Just get your license!". My Mom knows I am not listening to them and getting my permit anyways and she keeps saying "Now you can drive your siblings everywhere next time you visit" ect, even though I mentioned that with your permit you need a licensed driver in the car. They are acting like I am a goody 2 shoes because I don't want to do shit illegally. I am visiting them next month and I usually stay for around 2 weeks, and I know the entire time my Mom is going to act pissy with me because I **still** can't drive anywhere by myself. This is the same woman who's Driver's license expired 20 years ago. How am I going to get them off my back? TL;DR: Family is clueless about my phobia of driving and they don't understand that I want to get my Learner's Permit without driving illegally. How do I get them off my back and convince them otherwise?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short I am 25 and have had a phobia of driving for as long as I can remember. At 18 I moved out with my SO to another state and I am finally about to get my Learner's Permit. My family (Mom and siblings mostly) just don't understand this. My parents did nothing to help me learn how to drive. They never once had the time to take me learning every time I'd ask, and they didn't have the money for Driver's Ed so I ended up not learning and getting over my phobia. My family thinks I am stupid for getting my Learner's Permit because at 18 you can just take the driving test and get your full license, but I'm not ready for that because **I HAVE NO PRACTICE**. I don't want to practice with my SO illegally and my family is like "Who cares! Everyone practices illegally! Just get your license!". My Mom knows I am not listening to them and getting my permit anyways and she keeps saying "Now you can drive your siblings everywhere next time you visit" ect, even though I mentioned that with your permit you need a licensed driver in the car. They are acting like I am a goody 2 shoes because I don't want to do shit illegally. I am visiting them next month and I usually stay for around 2 weeks, and I know the entire time my Mom is going to act pissy with me because I **still** can't drive anywhere by myself. This is the same woman who's Driver's license expired 20 years ago. How am I going to get them off my back? TL;DR: my family thinks I'm an idiot for getting my learner's permit and disregarding their advice and doesn't understand that I don't want to drive illegally. They are driving me crazy. Help!<|endoftext|>
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we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more... i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice?
i'm losing weight and becoming fit and don't know how to motivate my bf without hurting his ego. Advice?
i love my boyfriend but he is starting to get less attractive. how can i help him get up and moving towards a healthier lifestyle without hurting his ego?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more... i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice? TL;DR:
i'm losing weight and becoming fit and don't know how to motivate my bf without hurting his ego. Advice?<|endoftext|>
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i love my boyfriend but he is starting to get less attractive. how can i help him get up and moving towards a healthier lifestyle without hurting his ego?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more... i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice? TL;DR: i'm losing weight and becoming fit and don't know how to motivate my bf without hurting his ego. Advice?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more... i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice? TL;DR: i love my boyfriend but he is starting to get less attractive. how can i help him get up and moving towards a healthier lifestyle without hurting his ego?<|endoftext|>
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I've been thinking a lot about Shakespeare's famous sonnet 18,specifically the lines (clears throat): *So long as men can breathe or eyes can see / So long lives this and this gives life to thee.* As a teenager, I thought that Shakespeare, for lack of a better word, had swag. Shakespeare has given IMMORTALITY to his greatest love in a poem and he KNOWS it. AND, at that the time, he was alone in being able to do this, since everybody reads Shakespeare at some point in their lives. But we can ALL do that now, on youtube and vimeo and etc. We can put up our own public message of love, and as long as men can google cats and our eyes can handle r/wtf, this will remain, a googleable testament to the love in our life, be that a person, an animal, a view, an overlooked corner of the city. anything. Reddit,could we get a Sonnet 18 campaign started on youtube? Is this something people would get behind?
Make public declaration of love to someone/something on youtube on Valentine's day, thus giving it immortality, if not the same level of fame as say, Shakespeare.
Think Shakespeare got it right, we can all do that on youtube and we can get a mass public expression of love on Valentine's Day.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been thinking a lot about Shakespeare's famous sonnet 18,specifically the lines (clears throat): *So long as men can breathe or eyes can see / So long lives this and this gives life to thee.* As a teenager, I thought that Shakespeare, for lack of a better word, had swag. Shakespeare has given IMMORTALITY to his greatest love in a poem and he KNOWS it. AND, at that the time, he was alone in being able to do this, since everybody reads Shakespeare at some point in their lives. But we can ALL do that now, on youtube and vimeo and etc. We can put up our own public message of love, and as long as men can google cats and our eyes can handle r/wtf, this will remain, a googleable testament to the love in our life, be that a person, an animal, a view, an overlooked corner of the city. anything. Reddit,could we get a Sonnet 18 campaign started on youtube? Is this something people would get behind? TL;DR:
Make public declaration of love to someone/something on youtube on Valentine's day, thus giving it immortality, if not the same level of fame as say, Shakespeare.<|endoftext|>
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Think Shakespeare got it right, we can all do that on youtube and we can get a mass public expression of love on Valentine's Day.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been thinking a lot about Shakespeare's famous sonnet 18,specifically the lines (clears throat): *So long as men can breathe or eyes can see / So long lives this and this gives life to thee.* As a teenager, I thought that Shakespeare, for lack of a better word, had swag. Shakespeare has given IMMORTALITY to his greatest love in a poem and he KNOWS it. AND, at that the time, he was alone in being able to do this, since everybody reads Shakespeare at some point in their lives. But we can ALL do that now, on youtube and vimeo and etc. We can put up our own public message of love, and as long as men can google cats and our eyes can handle r/wtf, this will remain, a googleable testament to the love in our life, be that a person, an animal, a view, an overlooked corner of the city. anything. Reddit,could we get a Sonnet 18 campaign started on youtube? Is this something people would get behind? TL;DR: Make public declaration of love to someone/something on youtube on Valentine's day, thus giving it immortality, if not the same level of fame as say, Shakespeare.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been thinking a lot about Shakespeare's famous sonnet 18,specifically the lines (clears throat): *So long as men can breathe or eyes can see / So long lives this and this gives life to thee.* As a teenager, I thought that Shakespeare, for lack of a better word, had swag. Shakespeare has given IMMORTALITY to his greatest love in a poem and he KNOWS it. AND, at that the time, he was alone in being able to do this, since everybody reads Shakespeare at some point in their lives. But we can ALL do that now, on youtube and vimeo and etc. We can put up our own public message of love, and as long as men can google cats and our eyes can handle r/wtf, this will remain, a googleable testament to the love in our life, be that a person, an animal, a view, an overlooked corner of the city. anything. Reddit,could we get a Sonnet 18 campaign started on youtube? Is this something people would get behind? TL;DR: Think Shakespeare got it right, we can all do that on youtube and we can get a mass public expression of love on Valentine's Day.<|endoftext|>
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I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks.
Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous
My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:
Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous<|endoftext|>
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My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR: Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR: My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?<|endoftext|>
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I don't know maybe I'm just being dense but I think that it a huge thing to ask of someone, and we've only been dating for 6 months. I've lived in my apartment for four years and my neighbor has been my "friend with benefits" for about as long, on and off as we've been in different relationships. My girlfriend thinks I'm being tempted to cheat by living next to my ex-FWB but that isn't the case at all. To complicate things further, I live in SF and since my rent hasn't been raised at all since I moved in I'm paying way below market value, and rent would at least double if I were to try to find the same apartment in a similar area today so I really don't want to move. My girlfriend suggested that I move in with her (and her 3 roommates) and I absolutely do not want to have roommates again. I'm not really ready to ask her to move in with me yet anyways but she has said that even if she lived here she'd feel uncomfortable about the neighbor. Is there anything I can do to assure her I won't cheat on her or to solve this issue or am I SOL?
ex-FWB wants me to move in with my girlfriend and her roommates but I don't want to live next to my ex-FWB.
ex-FWB wants me to move next to her (and potentially her 3 roommates) but I don't want to because I absolutely do not want to have roommates again.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know maybe I'm just being dense but I think that it a huge thing to ask of someone, and we've only been dating for 6 months. I've lived in my apartment for four years and my neighbor has been my "friend with benefits" for about as long, on and off as we've been in different relationships. My girlfriend thinks I'm being tempted to cheat by living next to my ex-FWB but that isn't the case at all. To complicate things further, I live in SF and since my rent hasn't been raised at all since I moved in I'm paying way below market value, and rent would at least double if I were to try to find the same apartment in a similar area today so I really don't want to move. My girlfriend suggested that I move in with her (and her 3 roommates) and I absolutely do not want to have roommates again. I'm not really ready to ask her to move in with me yet anyways but she has said that even if she lived here she'd feel uncomfortable about the neighbor. Is there anything I can do to assure her I won't cheat on her or to solve this issue or am I SOL? TL;DR:
ex-FWB wants me to move in with my girlfriend and her roommates but I don't want to live next to my ex-FWB.<|endoftext|>
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ex-FWB wants me to move next to her (and potentially her 3 roommates) but I don't want to because I absolutely do not want to have roommates again.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know maybe I'm just being dense but I think that it a huge thing to ask of someone, and we've only been dating for 6 months. I've lived in my apartment for four years and my neighbor has been my "friend with benefits" for about as long, on and off as we've been in different relationships. My girlfriend thinks I'm being tempted to cheat by living next to my ex-FWB but that isn't the case at all. To complicate things further, I live in SF and since my rent hasn't been raised at all since I moved in I'm paying way below market value, and rent would at least double if I were to try to find the same apartment in a similar area today so I really don't want to move. My girlfriend suggested that I move in with her (and her 3 roommates) and I absolutely do not want to have roommates again. I'm not really ready to ask her to move in with me yet anyways but she has said that even if she lived here she'd feel uncomfortable about the neighbor. Is there anything I can do to assure her I won't cheat on her or to solve this issue or am I SOL? TL;DR: ex-FWB wants me to move in with my girlfriend and her roommates but I don't want to live next to my ex-FWB.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know maybe I'm just being dense but I think that it a huge thing to ask of someone, and we've only been dating for 6 months. I've lived in my apartment for four years and my neighbor has been my "friend with benefits" for about as long, on and off as we've been in different relationships. My girlfriend thinks I'm being tempted to cheat by living next to my ex-FWB but that isn't the case at all. To complicate things further, I live in SF and since my rent hasn't been raised at all since I moved in I'm paying way below market value, and rent would at least double if I were to try to find the same apartment in a similar area today so I really don't want to move. My girlfriend suggested that I move in with her (and her 3 roommates) and I absolutely do not want to have roommates again. I'm not really ready to ask her to move in with me yet anyways but she has said that even if she lived here she'd feel uncomfortable about the neighbor. Is there anything I can do to assure her I won't cheat on her or to solve this issue or am I SOL? TL;DR: ex-FWB wants me to move next to her (and potentially her 3 roommates) but I don't want to because I absolutely do not want to have roommates again.<|endoftext|>
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This is a bit complicated, so I will try to make this as understandable as possible. So here goes the story; I basically have to choose between staying with my current girlfriend [f18] and school. Now we have been together for over 2 years, I want to study space electronics next year, the only downside is, it's really far away, it's basiclly 2 days driving. Witch means we have to have a long distance relationship. The bad thing is she doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship. So now I have to choose between the schoolyear and her, I truly love her, and would do anything to keep her. But she refuses to listen to anything I say. Now I think about my future and would like to stay with her. But also I want to work with something I truly enjoy.. So I don't know what to do as of right now...
I [m18] Have to choose between my girlfriend [f18] and what school I want to attend next year. Cause she doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship.
I have to choose between staying with my girlfriend and going to school in a long distance relationship or staying with my girlfriend and going to school in a long distance relationship.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a bit complicated, so I will try to make this as understandable as possible. So here goes the story; I basically have to choose between staying with my current girlfriend [f18] and school. Now we have been together for over 2 years, I want to study space electronics next year, the only downside is, it's really far away, it's basiclly 2 days driving. Witch means we have to have a long distance relationship. The bad thing is she doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship. So now I have to choose between the schoolyear and her, I truly love her, and would do anything to keep her. But she refuses to listen to anything I say. Now I think about my future and would like to stay with her. But also I want to work with something I truly enjoy.. So I don't know what to do as of right now... TL;DR:
I [m18] Have to choose between my girlfriend [f18] and what school I want to attend next year. Cause she doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship.<|endoftext|>
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I have to choose between staying with my girlfriend and going to school in a long distance relationship or staying with my girlfriend and going to school in a long distance relationship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a bit complicated, so I will try to make this as understandable as possible. So here goes the story; I basically have to choose between staying with my current girlfriend [f18] and school. Now we have been together for over 2 years, I want to study space electronics next year, the only downside is, it's really far away, it's basiclly 2 days driving. Witch means we have to have a long distance relationship. The bad thing is she doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship. So now I have to choose between the schoolyear and her, I truly love her, and would do anything to keep her. But she refuses to listen to anything I say. Now I think about my future and would like to stay with her. But also I want to work with something I truly enjoy.. So I don't know what to do as of right now... TL;DR: I [m18] Have to choose between my girlfriend [f18] and what school I want to attend next year. Cause she doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a bit complicated, so I will try to make this as understandable as possible. So here goes the story; I basically have to choose between staying with my current girlfriend [f18] and school. Now we have been together for over 2 years, I want to study space electronics next year, the only downside is, it's really far away, it's basiclly 2 days driving. Witch means we have to have a long distance relationship. The bad thing is she doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship. So now I have to choose between the schoolyear and her, I truly love her, and would do anything to keep her. But she refuses to listen to anything I say. Now I think about my future and would like to stay with her. But also I want to work with something I truly enjoy.. So I don't know what to do as of right now... TL;DR: I have to choose between staying with my girlfriend and going to school in a long distance relationship or staying with my girlfriend and going to school in a long distance relationship.<|endoftext|>
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I (23F)don't seem to be able to balance these two things. I am in love with my boyfriend (30M)and usually when I fall in love, i go obsessed about him and just feel the flow of thoughts about him in my head and every thing else in my life I put aside. We've been together for 3 months. I really hate that and I don't want to ruin my studies because of it. If we are in a fight- of course I can't seem to0 focus on studying. When everything is okay between us, im costantly wondering if we are okay, if there is something. I know a lot of people who are in relationships and weather one day they go bad or not they are able to turn that off in their minds and sit and study. I can't seem to do that, but I really have to. is there anyone who could advice me on how to do it, I am willing to hear and aknowledge each advice. Thank you guys so much
can't balance school and relationship. I really love my boyfriend and can't seem to forget him. How do I turn my mind off and concentrate on school?
I can't seem to focus on studying and I am in love with my boyfriend. I don't know if I can make it so.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I (23F)don't seem to be able to balance these two things. I am in love with my boyfriend (30M)and usually when I fall in love, i go obsessed about him and just feel the flow of thoughts about him in my head and every thing else in my life I put aside. We've been together for 3 months. I really hate that and I don't want to ruin my studies because of it. If we are in a fight- of course I can't seem to0 focus on studying. When everything is okay between us, im costantly wondering if we are okay, if there is something. I know a lot of people who are in relationships and weather one day they go bad or not they are able to turn that off in their minds and sit and study. I can't seem to do that, but I really have to. is there anyone who could advice me on how to do it, I am willing to hear and aknowledge each advice. Thank you guys so much TL;DR:
can't balance school and relationship. I really love my boyfriend and can't seem to forget him. How do I turn my mind off and concentrate on school?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I (23F)don't seem to be able to balance these two things. I am in love with my boyfriend (30M)and usually when I fall in love, i go obsessed about him and just feel the flow of thoughts about him in my head and every thing else in my life I put aside. We've been together for 3 months. I really hate that and I don't want to ruin my studies because of it. If we are in a fight- of course I can't seem to0 focus on studying. When everything is okay between us, im costantly wondering if we are okay, if there is something. I know a lot of people who are in relationships and weather one day they go bad or not they are able to turn that off in their minds and sit and study. I can't seem to do that, but I really have to. is there anyone who could advice me on how to do it, I am willing to hear and aknowledge each advice. Thank you guys so much TL;DR: can't balance school and relationship. I really love my boyfriend and can't seem to forget him. How do I turn my mind off and concentrate on school?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I (23F)don't seem to be able to balance these two things. I am in love with my boyfriend (30M)and usually when I fall in love, i go obsessed about him and just feel the flow of thoughts about him in my head and every thing else in my life I put aside. We've been together for 3 months. I really hate that and I don't want to ruin my studies because of it. If we are in a fight- of course I can't seem to0 focus on studying. When everything is okay between us, im costantly wondering if we are okay, if there is something. I know a lot of people who are in relationships and weather one day they go bad or not they are able to turn that off in their minds and sit and study. I can't seem to do that, but I really have to. is there anyone who could advice me on how to do it, I am willing to hear and aknowledge each advice. Thank you guys so much TL;DR: I can't seem to focus on studying and I am in love with my boyfriend. I don't know if I can make it so.<|endoftext|>
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Okay, so let me start off by saying my English teacher is very opinionated and biased when it comes to grading, and she literally never gives above a 95 on ANYTHING. Now, we were recently assigned a project, and i decided to be partners with one of my friends. However, another guy decided to join since he didn't have a group. Regardless, i told them to start working immediately on the project. The next day, i found out that my friend was going to be gone the weekend before the due date. So far, they have done almost no work. I have done all of my work, but can't do theirs because the teacher said she wouldn't be happy if one person did the work. Also, my grade in the class literally depends on this grade. Anyways, the assignment is due monday, we have only one third complete, we still have to assemble the project too, and i will be gone tomorrow afternoon and Saturday. I have managed to get on the good side of the teacher, but i feel as if she would get really annoyed, and not give me a good grade regardless. What do i do?
My English teacher is very opinionated and biased when it comes to grades and i have no idea how i can compromise for the grade.
Teacher is very opinionated and gives bad grades, i'm going to be gone all weekend.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay, so let me start off by saying my English teacher is very opinionated and biased when it comes to grading, and she literally never gives above a 95 on ANYTHING. Now, we were recently assigned a project, and i decided to be partners with one of my friends. However, another guy decided to join since he didn't have a group. Regardless, i told them to start working immediately on the project. The next day, i found out that my friend was going to be gone the weekend before the due date. So far, they have done almost no work. I have done all of my work, but can't do theirs because the teacher said she wouldn't be happy if one person did the work. Also, my grade in the class literally depends on this grade. Anyways, the assignment is due monday, we have only one third complete, we still have to assemble the project too, and i will be gone tomorrow afternoon and Saturday. I have managed to get on the good side of the teacher, but i feel as if she would get really annoyed, and not give me a good grade regardless. What do i do? TL;DR:
My English teacher is very opinionated and biased when it comes to grades and i have no idea how i can compromise for the grade.<|endoftext|>
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Teacher is very opinionated and gives bad grades, i'm going to be gone all weekend.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay, so let me start off by saying my English teacher is very opinionated and biased when it comes to grading, and she literally never gives above a 95 on ANYTHING. Now, we were recently assigned a project, and i decided to be partners with one of my friends. However, another guy decided to join since he didn't have a group. Regardless, i told them to start working immediately on the project. The next day, i found out that my friend was going to be gone the weekend before the due date. So far, they have done almost no work. I have done all of my work, but can't do theirs because the teacher said she wouldn't be happy if one person did the work. Also, my grade in the class literally depends on this grade. Anyways, the assignment is due monday, we have only one third complete, we still have to assemble the project too, and i will be gone tomorrow afternoon and Saturday. I have managed to get on the good side of the teacher, but i feel as if she would get really annoyed, and not give me a good grade regardless. What do i do? TL;DR: My English teacher is very opinionated and biased when it comes to grades and i have no idea how i can compromise for the grade.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay, so let me start off by saying my English teacher is very opinionated and biased when it comes to grading, and she literally never gives above a 95 on ANYTHING. Now, we were recently assigned a project, and i decided to be partners with one of my friends. However, another guy decided to join since he didn't have a group. Regardless, i told them to start working immediately on the project. The next day, i found out that my friend was going to be gone the weekend before the due date. So far, they have done almost no work. I have done all of my work, but can't do theirs because the teacher said she wouldn't be happy if one person did the work. Also, my grade in the class literally depends on this grade. Anyways, the assignment is due monday, we have only one third complete, we still have to assemble the project too, and i will be gone tomorrow afternoon and Saturday. I have managed to get on the good side of the teacher, but i feel as if she would get really annoyed, and not give me a good grade regardless. What do i do? TL;DR: Teacher is very opinionated and gives bad grades, i'm going to be gone all weekend.<|endoftext|>
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I started dating this girl in January and due to some differences we broke up after two months. About a month ago, we realized how stupid we acted and decided to get back together. We've been dating for 1 month now and the thing that bothers me, is that she messages her FWB a lot. She had a FWB before we started dating. I found that out from her room mate. I didn't go through her phone but I can see every now and then there would be a message popping up from him. We haven't had the exclusivity talk yet. So is this a red flag or am I thinking too much about it?
Dating a girl and she still contacts her old FWB. Is this a red flag? Could there be something going on between them?
Dating a girl who's old friend has a FWB. Is this a red flag, or am I overthinking it?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I started dating this girl in January and due to some differences we broke up after two months. About a month ago, we realized how stupid we acted and decided to get back together. We've been dating for 1 month now and the thing that bothers me, is that she messages her FWB a lot. She had a FWB before we started dating. I found that out from her room mate. I didn't go through her phone but I can see every now and then there would be a message popping up from him. We haven't had the exclusivity talk yet. So is this a red flag or am I thinking too much about it? TL;DR:
Dating a girl and she still contacts her old FWB. Is this a red flag? Could there be something going on between them?<|endoftext|>
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Dating a girl who's old friend has a FWB. Is this a red flag, or am I overthinking it?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I started dating this girl in January and due to some differences we broke up after two months. About a month ago, we realized how stupid we acted and decided to get back together. We've been dating for 1 month now and the thing that bothers me, is that she messages her FWB a lot. She had a FWB before we started dating. I found that out from her room mate. I didn't go through her phone but I can see every now and then there would be a message popping up from him. We haven't had the exclusivity talk yet. So is this a red flag or am I thinking too much about it? TL;DR: Dating a girl and she still contacts her old FWB. Is this a red flag? Could there be something going on between them?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I started dating this girl in January and due to some differences we broke up after two months. About a month ago, we realized how stupid we acted and decided to get back together. We've been dating for 1 month now and the thing that bothers me, is that she messages her FWB a lot. She had a FWB before we started dating. I found that out from her room mate. I didn't go through her phone but I can see every now and then there would be a message popping up from him. We haven't had the exclusivity talk yet. So is this a red flag or am I thinking too much about it? TL;DR: Dating a girl who's old friend has a FWB. Is this a red flag, or am I overthinking it?<|endoftext|>
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So we've been dating for six months and it has been good, we've been through some rough stuff but we have helped each other make it through. I know I love her and care about her and want her to be happy in life. I just don't know how I feel about our relationship. There are times where I feel that I need my independence this summer to build on myself and my future without having to worry about someone else, but I worry about her at the same time. I also feel immense attraction to so many more people around me. It has gotten to the point of slipping anonymous notes into someone's bag when they aren't looking. It may also be pointed out that I haven't had real sex in my relationship since Valentines Day. It has gotten to the point where when we hang out it is pretty much just us getting each other off and I feel like we don't relate on much. This leads her to sort of think that I just want sex out of the relationship, but that isn't it at all. I have always felt that I'm never content with what I have and that once I have something I lose interest, and I've tried to stick it through this time around, but I don't feel the same about the relationship. We're currently on a break because we both mutually felt we needed it. She still loves me extensively and wants to be with me still, but I just don't know if I feel it. I don't know if I'm giving up what I have because I think I could have better or what, but I've been so conflicted. I worry about her if I broke up with her and how it would affect her and I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to stay in a relationship for the sake of not hurting her feelings. What should I do? I know I'll probably just hear the same things I've already thought but it is worth a shot.
Been dating my girlfriend for 6 months, unsure how I feel about the relationship despite loving her. Worried about her feelings and want to stay together despite not being content with current state of things.
been dating my girlfriend for 6 months, don't know how I feel about our relationship, don't want to hurt her feelings. what should I do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we've been dating for six months and it has been good, we've been through some rough stuff but we have helped each other make it through. I know I love her and care about her and want her to be happy in life. I just don't know how I feel about our relationship. There are times where I feel that I need my independence this summer to build on myself and my future without having to worry about someone else, but I worry about her at the same time. I also feel immense attraction to so many more people around me. It has gotten to the point of slipping anonymous notes into someone's bag when they aren't looking. It may also be pointed out that I haven't had real sex in my relationship since Valentines Day. It has gotten to the point where when we hang out it is pretty much just us getting each other off and I feel like we don't relate on much. This leads her to sort of think that I just want sex out of the relationship, but that isn't it at all. I have always felt that I'm never content with what I have and that once I have something I lose interest, and I've tried to stick it through this time around, but I don't feel the same about the relationship. We're currently on a break because we both mutually felt we needed it. She still loves me extensively and wants to be with me still, but I just don't know if I feel it. I don't know if I'm giving up what I have because I think I could have better or what, but I've been so conflicted. I worry about her if I broke up with her and how it would affect her and I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to stay in a relationship for the sake of not hurting her feelings. What should I do? I know I'll probably just hear the same things I've already thought but it is worth a shot. TL;DR:
Been dating my girlfriend for 6 months, unsure how I feel about the relationship despite loving her. Worried about her feelings and want to stay together despite not being content with current state of things.<|endoftext|>
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been dating my girlfriend for 6 months, don't know how I feel about our relationship, don't want to hurt her feelings. what should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we've been dating for six months and it has been good, we've been through some rough stuff but we have helped each other make it through. I know I love her and care about her and want her to be happy in life. I just don't know how I feel about our relationship. There are times where I feel that I need my independence this summer to build on myself and my future without having to worry about someone else, but I worry about her at the same time. I also feel immense attraction to so many more people around me. It has gotten to the point of slipping anonymous notes into someone's bag when they aren't looking. It may also be pointed out that I haven't had real sex in my relationship since Valentines Day. It has gotten to the point where when we hang out it is pretty much just us getting each other off and I feel like we don't relate on much. This leads her to sort of think that I just want sex out of the relationship, but that isn't it at all. I have always felt that I'm never content with what I have and that once I have something I lose interest, and I've tried to stick it through this time around, but I don't feel the same about the relationship. We're currently on a break because we both mutually felt we needed it. She still loves me extensively and wants to be with me still, but I just don't know if I feel it. I don't know if I'm giving up what I have because I think I could have better or what, but I've been so conflicted. I worry about her if I broke up with her and how it would affect her and I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to stay in a relationship for the sake of not hurting her feelings. What should I do? I know I'll probably just hear the same things I've already thought but it is worth a shot. TL;DR: Been dating my girlfriend for 6 months, unsure how I feel about the relationship despite loving her. Worried about her feelings and want to stay together despite not being content with current state of things.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we've been dating for six months and it has been good, we've been through some rough stuff but we have helped each other make it through. I know I love her and care about her and want her to be happy in life. I just don't know how I feel about our relationship. There are times where I feel that I need my independence this summer to build on myself and my future without having to worry about someone else, but I worry about her at the same time. I also feel immense attraction to so many more people around me. It has gotten to the point of slipping anonymous notes into someone's bag when they aren't looking. It may also be pointed out that I haven't had real sex in my relationship since Valentines Day. It has gotten to the point where when we hang out it is pretty much just us getting each other off and I feel like we don't relate on much. This leads her to sort of think that I just want sex out of the relationship, but that isn't it at all. I have always felt that I'm never content with what I have and that once I have something I lose interest, and I've tried to stick it through this time around, but I don't feel the same about the relationship. We're currently on a break because we both mutually felt we needed it. She still loves me extensively and wants to be with me still, but I just don't know if I feel it. I don't know if I'm giving up what I have because I think I could have better or what, but I've been so conflicted. I worry about her if I broke up with her and how it would affect her and I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to stay in a relationship for the sake of not hurting her feelings. What should I do? I know I'll probably just hear the same things I've already thought but it is worth a shot. TL;DR: been dating my girlfriend for 6 months, don't know how I feel about our relationship, don't want to hurt her feelings. what should I do?<|endoftext|>
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I'm currently a freshman, and haven't spent a single sober weekend without going to parties friday/saturday and have made tons of friends through them. I always end up meeting women and talking to them, but i always hit the wall, where i can't think of anything more to talk about, and we just sort of stand there awkwardly until we slowly move away from each other. My friends always find some kind of common ground with the girls they meet at parties, but my interests are a bit....odd with the crowds that go to the house parties. For example, my hobbies include things like audio hardware/android software and hardware/more experimental or "hipster" music(oneohtrix point never or animal collective to name some of the more popular artists i listen to). Do you guys have any good general questions that could keep a conversation going? or any comments i should drop in to give a "clue" of what im trying to go for? thanks in advance for the answers!
I'm a freshman in college, and want to know how to keep a conversation going with a girl at a party, and what i should say to make it more interesting.
how to keep a conversation going, how to keep her interested, and how to pick her up?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm currently a freshman, and haven't spent a single sober weekend without going to parties friday/saturday and have made tons of friends through them. I always end up meeting women and talking to them, but i always hit the wall, where i can't think of anything more to talk about, and we just sort of stand there awkwardly until we slowly move away from each other. My friends always find some kind of common ground with the girls they meet at parties, but my interests are a bit....odd with the crowds that go to the house parties. For example, my hobbies include things like audio hardware/android software and hardware/more experimental or "hipster" music(oneohtrix point never or animal collective to name some of the more popular artists i listen to). Do you guys have any good general questions that could keep a conversation going? or any comments i should drop in to give a "clue" of what im trying to go for? thanks in advance for the answers! TL;DR:
I'm a freshman in college, and want to know how to keep a conversation going with a girl at a party, and what i should say to make it more interesting.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm currently a freshman, and haven't spent a single sober weekend without going to parties friday/saturday and have made tons of friends through them. I always end up meeting women and talking to them, but i always hit the wall, where i can't think of anything more to talk about, and we just sort of stand there awkwardly until we slowly move away from each other. My friends always find some kind of common ground with the girls they meet at parties, but my interests are a bit....odd with the crowds that go to the house parties. For example, my hobbies include things like audio hardware/android software and hardware/more experimental or "hipster" music(oneohtrix point never or animal collective to name some of the more popular artists i listen to). Do you guys have any good general questions that could keep a conversation going? or any comments i should drop in to give a "clue" of what im trying to go for? thanks in advance for the answers! TL;DR: I'm a freshman in college, and want to know how to keep a conversation going with a girl at a party, and what i should say to make it more interesting.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm currently a freshman, and haven't spent a single sober weekend without going to parties friday/saturday and have made tons of friends through them. I always end up meeting women and talking to them, but i always hit the wall, where i can't think of anything more to talk about, and we just sort of stand there awkwardly until we slowly move away from each other. My friends always find some kind of common ground with the girls they meet at parties, but my interests are a bit....odd with the crowds that go to the house parties. For example, my hobbies include things like audio hardware/android software and hardware/more experimental or "hipster" music(oneohtrix point never or animal collective to name some of the more popular artists i listen to). Do you guys have any good general questions that could keep a conversation going? or any comments i should drop in to give a "clue" of what im trying to go for? thanks in advance for the answers! TL;DR: how to keep a conversation going, how to keep her interested, and how to pick her up?<|endoftext|>
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Hi! This might seem very juvenile but due to location issues I have never met my boyfriends family. They are all in town for the 4th since my boyfriend Parker and I live in a very festive 4th of July state. Parker and I have been together for 2 years I am SO nervous. I know his family adores him and he is kind of like their golden boy. All of his siblings are married except for him, and he flat out told me I am the first girl he's ever introduced to his family. He didn't want to ever introduce someone he didn't want to marry. I am really excited but feeling a lot of pressure. I have bought 3 different outfits and feel like I'm 16 getting ready for the prom. I need to chill I would love just some words of comfort and advice.
meeting my boyfriends family tonight and I'm feeling a little nervous.
I'm meeting my boyfriends family and I am freaking out. What do I do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi! This might seem very juvenile but due to location issues I have never met my boyfriends family. They are all in town for the 4th since my boyfriend Parker and I live in a very festive 4th of July state. Parker and I have been together for 2 years I am SO nervous. I know his family adores him and he is kind of like their golden boy. All of his siblings are married except for him, and he flat out told me I am the first girl he's ever introduced to his family. He didn't want to ever introduce someone he didn't want to marry. I am really excited but feeling a lot of pressure. I have bought 3 different outfits and feel like I'm 16 getting ready for the prom. I need to chill I would love just some words of comfort and advice. TL;DR:
meeting my boyfriends family tonight and I'm feeling a little nervous.<|endoftext|>
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I'm meeting my boyfriends family and I am freaking out. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi! This might seem very juvenile but due to location issues I have never met my boyfriends family. They are all in town for the 4th since my boyfriend Parker and I live in a very festive 4th of July state. Parker and I have been together for 2 years I am SO nervous. I know his family adores him and he is kind of like their golden boy. All of his siblings are married except for him, and he flat out told me I am the first girl he's ever introduced to his family. He didn't want to ever introduce someone he didn't want to marry. I am really excited but feeling a lot of pressure. I have bought 3 different outfits and feel like I'm 16 getting ready for the prom. I need to chill I would love just some words of comfort and advice. TL;DR: meeting my boyfriends family tonight and I'm feeling a little nervous.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi! This might seem very juvenile but due to location issues I have never met my boyfriends family. They are all in town for the 4th since my boyfriend Parker and I live in a very festive 4th of July state. Parker and I have been together for 2 years I am SO nervous. I know his family adores him and he is kind of like their golden boy. All of his siblings are married except for him, and he flat out told me I am the first girl he's ever introduced to his family. He didn't want to ever introduce someone he didn't want to marry. I am really excited but feeling a lot of pressure. I have bought 3 different outfits and feel like I'm 16 getting ready for the prom. I need to chill I would love just some words of comfort and advice. TL;DR: I'm meeting my boyfriends family and I am freaking out. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
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I (20F) grew up with my grandparents, who raised me since I was 7 months old. I never talk to my mom or dad, so when my grandmother passed away last week, it really hit me hard. We continued to have a really close relationship even after I moved out of the house at 18. She was my mom, and I lost her last week, and it really sucks. Ever since I started dating my boyfriend (25M) a year and a half ago, I've been as happy as ever. We moved in together 6 months into the relationship. Yes, we have had our fair share of arguments (mostly over silly things), but I'm worried that him not knowing how to be there for me when I really need him will make me resent him. He's very emotionally oblivious and every time I try to talk to him about my grandmother's death I feel like I'm making him uncomfortable and we end up changing the subject. When we do talk about it, I feel like he's uninterested or not paying attention to me, which really frustrates me and then I end up fighting with him about really silly things. And I do feel really bad about being so on edge and sensitive all the time, and I've apologized to him and asked him to just bear with me while I process and deal with all of this. I know I'm going to get through this with time and healing, but the point that I'm at right now really sucks. Outside of my family I really don't have a lot of close friends to help me through this, and I really need my boyfriend's emotional support. It worries me when he doesn't respond well to these emotional needs because it makes me think about how he will deal with whatever other tragedies face us in our future. I guess I just don't know how to deal with this. I've tried talking to him about it and he seems to understand but he still keeps repeating the same behaviors. I love him and want to continue to be with him but right now he's just adding stress to my already super stressful life. How can I help him help me?
Just lost my grandmother who raised me from when I was 7 months old and my boyfriend of a year and a half is having trouble being emotionally there for me. advice, suggestions, help?
My boyfriend is emotionally oblivious and I don't know how to deal with all the stress that comes with being a single mother and grandmother in a relationship.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I (20F) grew up with my grandparents, who raised me since I was 7 months old. I never talk to my mom or dad, so when my grandmother passed away last week, it really hit me hard. We continued to have a really close relationship even after I moved out of the house at 18. She was my mom, and I lost her last week, and it really sucks. Ever since I started dating my boyfriend (25M) a year and a half ago, I've been as happy as ever. We moved in together 6 months into the relationship. Yes, we have had our fair share of arguments (mostly over silly things), but I'm worried that him not knowing how to be there for me when I really need him will make me resent him. He's very emotionally oblivious and every time I try to talk to him about my grandmother's death I feel like I'm making him uncomfortable and we end up changing the subject. When we do talk about it, I feel like he's uninterested or not paying attention to me, which really frustrates me and then I end up fighting with him about really silly things. And I do feel really bad about being so on edge and sensitive all the time, and I've apologized to him and asked him to just bear with me while I process and deal with all of this. I know I'm going to get through this with time and healing, but the point that I'm at right now really sucks. Outside of my family I really don't have a lot of close friends to help me through this, and I really need my boyfriend's emotional support. It worries me when he doesn't respond well to these emotional needs because it makes me think about how he will deal with whatever other tragedies face us in our future. I guess I just don't know how to deal with this. I've tried talking to him about it and he seems to understand but he still keeps repeating the same behaviors. I love him and want to continue to be with him but right now he's just adding stress to my already super stressful life. How can I help him help me? TL;DR:
Just lost my grandmother who raised me from when I was 7 months old and my boyfriend of a year and a half is having trouble being emotionally there for me. advice, suggestions, help?<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend is emotionally oblivious and I don't know how to deal with all the stress that comes with being a single mother and grandmother in a relationship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I (20F) grew up with my grandparents, who raised me since I was 7 months old. I never talk to my mom or dad, so when my grandmother passed away last week, it really hit me hard. We continued to have a really close relationship even after I moved out of the house at 18. She was my mom, and I lost her last week, and it really sucks. Ever since I started dating my boyfriend (25M) a year and a half ago, I've been as happy as ever. We moved in together 6 months into the relationship. Yes, we have had our fair share of arguments (mostly over silly things), but I'm worried that him not knowing how to be there for me when I really need him will make me resent him. He's very emotionally oblivious and every time I try to talk to him about my grandmother's death I feel like I'm making him uncomfortable and we end up changing the subject. When we do talk about it, I feel like he's uninterested or not paying attention to me, which really frustrates me and then I end up fighting with him about really silly things. And I do feel really bad about being so on edge and sensitive all the time, and I've apologized to him and asked him to just bear with me while I process and deal with all of this. I know I'm going to get through this with time and healing, but the point that I'm at right now really sucks. Outside of my family I really don't have a lot of close friends to help me through this, and I really need my boyfriend's emotional support. It worries me when he doesn't respond well to these emotional needs because it makes me think about how he will deal with whatever other tragedies face us in our future. I guess I just don't know how to deal with this. I've tried talking to him about it and he seems to understand but he still keeps repeating the same behaviors. I love him and want to continue to be with him but right now he's just adding stress to my already super stressful life. How can I help him help me? TL;DR: Just lost my grandmother who raised me from when I was 7 months old and my boyfriend of a year and a half is having trouble being emotionally there for me. advice, suggestions, help?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I (20F) grew up with my grandparents, who raised me since I was 7 months old. I never talk to my mom or dad, so when my grandmother passed away last week, it really hit me hard. We continued to have a really close relationship even after I moved out of the house at 18. She was my mom, and I lost her last week, and it really sucks. Ever since I started dating my boyfriend (25M) a year and a half ago, I've been as happy as ever. We moved in together 6 months into the relationship. Yes, we have had our fair share of arguments (mostly over silly things), but I'm worried that him not knowing how to be there for me when I really need him will make me resent him. He's very emotionally oblivious and every time I try to talk to him about my grandmother's death I feel like I'm making him uncomfortable and we end up changing the subject. When we do talk about it, I feel like he's uninterested or not paying attention to me, which really frustrates me and then I end up fighting with him about really silly things. And I do feel really bad about being so on edge and sensitive all the time, and I've apologized to him and asked him to just bear with me while I process and deal with all of this. I know I'm going to get through this with time and healing, but the point that I'm at right now really sucks. Outside of my family I really don't have a lot of close friends to help me through this, and I really need my boyfriend's emotional support. It worries me when he doesn't respond well to these emotional needs because it makes me think about how he will deal with whatever other tragedies face us in our future. I guess I just don't know how to deal with this. I've tried talking to him about it and he seems to understand but he still keeps repeating the same behaviors. I love him and want to continue to be with him but right now he's just adding stress to my already super stressful life. How can I help him help me? TL;DR: My boyfriend is emotionally oblivious and I don't know how to deal with all the stress that comes with being a single mother and grandmother in a relationship.<|endoftext|>
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I started grad school in January while working full-time, but took out loans because I don't exactly have $3200 to drop every three months. I filled out the FAFSA and was granted a little over $10k in loans, so that will last me three semesters. When I am done with school, I should have about 20k in loans. The thing I hate most about loans is that they start accruing interest IMMEDIATELY (already accrued a little over $50). With that said, would it be unwise of me to just start paying off a little now? I have extra income I can throw at it every month. The interest rate on the loan is 5.4%. The only other debt I have is a car loan, but I just refinanced that for around 2.74%.
Paying off loans while I am still in school would be unwise. Is it okay to start?
I have $10k in loans, should I start paying off them at 15% right now?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I started grad school in January while working full-time, but took out loans because I don't exactly have $3200 to drop every three months. I filled out the FAFSA and was granted a little over $10k in loans, so that will last me three semesters. When I am done with school, I should have about 20k in loans. The thing I hate most about loans is that they start accruing interest IMMEDIATELY (already accrued a little over $50). With that said, would it be unwise of me to just start paying off a little now? I have extra income I can throw at it every month. The interest rate on the loan is 5.4%. The only other debt I have is a car loan, but I just refinanced that for around 2.74%. TL;DR:
Paying off loans while I am still in school would be unwise. Is it okay to start?<|endoftext|>
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I have $10k in loans, should I start paying off them at 15% right now?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I started grad school in January while working full-time, but took out loans because I don't exactly have $3200 to drop every three months. I filled out the FAFSA and was granted a little over $10k in loans, so that will last me three semesters. When I am done with school, I should have about 20k in loans. The thing I hate most about loans is that they start accruing interest IMMEDIATELY (already accrued a little over $50). With that said, would it be unwise of me to just start paying off a little now? I have extra income I can throw at it every month. The interest rate on the loan is 5.4%. The only other debt I have is a car loan, but I just refinanced that for around 2.74%. TL;DR: Paying off loans while I am still in school would be unwise. Is it okay to start?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I started grad school in January while working full-time, but took out loans because I don't exactly have $3200 to drop every three months. I filled out the FAFSA and was granted a little over $10k in loans, so that will last me three semesters. When I am done with school, I should have about 20k in loans. The thing I hate most about loans is that they start accruing interest IMMEDIATELY (already accrued a little over $50). With that said, would it be unwise of me to just start paying off a little now? I have extra income I can throw at it every month. The interest rate on the loan is 5.4%. The only other debt I have is a car loan, but I just refinanced that for around 2.74%. TL;DR: I have $10k in loans, should I start paying off them at 15% right now?<|endoftext|>
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**BACKGROUND** As the title says, our campus has had over 35 campus building evacuations in recent weeks. Initially individual buildings were emptied as threats were found written in bathroom stalls. About four days ago the threats began to arrive by email via anonymous remailers. That is also when multiple buildings began being threatened at once as well as when some of our dorms were first targeted. A fairly up to date list of threats, times, and targets is at [this link.]( The most recent article posted online with additional info is [here.]( Our campus police are working with the FBI, local law enforcement, US DOJ, and regional Joint Terrorism Task Force are all working on the case and we must have every bomb sniffing dog for 250 miles on call - those dogs are champs! A student has started a blog to collect information in one spot [here.] I don't post that though as anything more than a place to find info on when and where each of the threats are, and don't vouch for any of the analysis posted there. The posts are only covering publicly released information and so are necessarily incomplete. **QUESTIONS** I'm not expecting any of you to come up with a solution. Rather, I'm curious if anyone has stories of similar experiences or knows of other things we might do here. In particular, when the dorms were threatened the anxiety among our undergraduates notably elevated. Rumors of similar threats being made at Virginia Tech before the shootings there have surfaced, but those of of more prone to actually use our google-fu than believe rumors have come up empty when trying to find information on this. Are we missing something there? Related, do any of you know of instances where repeated threats were used to learn about the police response in advance of something more serious? Thanks for reading and sharing any ideas you have. Just had our first threats on a weekend earlier this evening and less than an hour after those cleared, we had our first seven building at once threat which is being cleared as I write this.
University of Pittsburgh campus has received 35 bomb threats in recent weeks, anything from the hive mind? Stories of similar experiences or know of other ways we might be doing this right?
University of Pittsburgh has had over 35 bomb threats in recent weeks and seeking ideas for various things we can do to respond in advance of future threats...
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **BACKGROUND** As the title says, our campus has had over 35 campus building evacuations in recent weeks. Initially individual buildings were emptied as threats were found written in bathroom stalls. About four days ago the threats began to arrive by email via anonymous remailers. That is also when multiple buildings began being threatened at once as well as when some of our dorms were first targeted. A fairly up to date list of threats, times, and targets is at [this link.]( The most recent article posted online with additional info is [here.]( Our campus police are working with the FBI, local law enforcement, US DOJ, and regional Joint Terrorism Task Force are all working on the case and we must have every bomb sniffing dog for 250 miles on call - those dogs are champs! A student has started a blog to collect information in one spot [here.] I don't post that though as anything more than a place to find info on when and where each of the threats are, and don't vouch for any of the analysis posted there. The posts are only covering publicly released information and so are necessarily incomplete. **QUESTIONS** I'm not expecting any of you to come up with a solution. Rather, I'm curious if anyone has stories of similar experiences or knows of other things we might do here. In particular, when the dorms were threatened the anxiety among our undergraduates notably elevated. Rumors of similar threats being made at Virginia Tech before the shootings there have surfaced, but those of of more prone to actually use our google-fu than believe rumors have come up empty when trying to find information on this. Are we missing something there? Related, do any of you know of instances where repeated threats were used to learn about the police response in advance of something more serious? Thanks for reading and sharing any ideas you have. Just had our first threats on a weekend earlier this evening and less than an hour after those cleared, we had our first seven building at once threat which is being cleared as I write this. TL;DR:
University of Pittsburgh campus has received 35 bomb threats in recent weeks, anything from the hive mind? Stories of similar experiences or know of other ways we might be doing this right?<|endoftext|>
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University of Pittsburgh has had over 35 bomb threats in recent weeks and seeking ideas for various things we can do to respond in advance of future threats...<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **BACKGROUND** As the title says, our campus has had over 35 campus building evacuations in recent weeks. Initially individual buildings were emptied as threats were found written in bathroom stalls. About four days ago the threats began to arrive by email via anonymous remailers. That is also when multiple buildings began being threatened at once as well as when some of our dorms were first targeted. A fairly up to date list of threats, times, and targets is at [this link.]( The most recent article posted online with additional info is [here.]( Our campus police are working with the FBI, local law enforcement, US DOJ, and regional Joint Terrorism Task Force are all working on the case and we must have every bomb sniffing dog for 250 miles on call - those dogs are champs! A student has started a blog to collect information in one spot [here.] I don't post that though as anything more than a place to find info on when and where each of the threats are, and don't vouch for any of the analysis posted there. The posts are only covering publicly released information and so are necessarily incomplete. **QUESTIONS** I'm not expecting any of you to come up with a solution. Rather, I'm curious if anyone has stories of similar experiences or knows of other things we might do here. In particular, when the dorms were threatened the anxiety among our undergraduates notably elevated. Rumors of similar threats being made at Virginia Tech before the shootings there have surfaced, but those of of more prone to actually use our google-fu than believe rumors have come up empty when trying to find information on this. Are we missing something there? Related, do any of you know of instances where repeated threats were used to learn about the police response in advance of something more serious? Thanks for reading and sharing any ideas you have. Just had our first threats on a weekend earlier this evening and less than an hour after those cleared, we had our first seven building at once threat which is being cleared as I write this. TL;DR: University of Pittsburgh campus has received 35 bomb threats in recent weeks, anything from the hive mind? Stories of similar experiences or know of other ways we might be doing this right?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **BACKGROUND** As the title says, our campus has had over 35 campus building evacuations in recent weeks. Initially individual buildings were emptied as threats were found written in bathroom stalls. About four days ago the threats began to arrive by email via anonymous remailers. That is also when multiple buildings began being threatened at once as well as when some of our dorms were first targeted. A fairly up to date list of threats, times, and targets is at [this link.]( The most recent article posted online with additional info is [here.]( Our campus police are working with the FBI, local law enforcement, US DOJ, and regional Joint Terrorism Task Force are all working on the case and we must have every bomb sniffing dog for 250 miles on call - those dogs are champs! A student has started a blog to collect information in one spot [here.] I don't post that though as anything more than a place to find info on when and where each of the threats are, and don't vouch for any of the analysis posted there. The posts are only covering publicly released information and so are necessarily incomplete. **QUESTIONS** I'm not expecting any of you to come up with a solution. Rather, I'm curious if anyone has stories of similar experiences or knows of other things we might do here. In particular, when the dorms were threatened the anxiety among our undergraduates notably elevated. Rumors of similar threats being made at Virginia Tech before the shootings there have surfaced, but those of of more prone to actually use our google-fu than believe rumors have come up empty when trying to find information on this. Are we missing something there? Related, do any of you know of instances where repeated threats were used to learn about the police response in advance of something more serious? Thanks for reading and sharing any ideas you have. Just had our first threats on a weekend earlier this evening and less than an hour after those cleared, we had our first seven building at once threat which is being cleared as I write this. TL;DR: University of Pittsburgh has had over 35 bomb threats in recent weeks and seeking ideas for various things we can do to respond in advance of future threats...<|endoftext|>
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K reddit I'm hoping you can help me with a jam I've found myself in. I own a small web development company (5 employees). Six months ago I hired a new guy, let's call him Fred. Fred interviewed well and had a good resume so I hired him to do some frontend dev. A couple weeks in i noticed he wasn't really fitting in. This is my business and I like to imprint my personality on it. It's important to me that my employees get along and have fun together. We have a company basketball team and generally I enjoy my employees being pretty enthused about sports. Whenever we talked about things like sports games or whatever Fred wouldn't participate. Flash forward i guess there started to be this rumor around the office that Fred was gay because my right hand guy total me that guys had been talking about this for weeks in a meeting. I ask Fred to come into my office and I ask him "there's a rumor going around the office that you're gay. Is there any truth to this?" and Fred goes "Well it's none of your business but i do happen to be gay". I was pretty shocked. When he had first interviewed for the position I had made it pretty clear to him that we were a macho culture at my company and I think if he was homosexual he should have told me at that time. Flash forward another month. Fred was taking a really long time to complete this site and when we finally got it to the customer it was nothing like what they had asked. I decided enough was enough, Fred wasn't producing up to par and he wasn't fitting in with my staff so I fired him. That was a month ago. This morning I receive a letter in the mail and it's subpoena. Fred is suing my company and me personally for discrimination. SO fucking bullshit. When I was younger I was fired from jobs for not fitting into corporate cultures and from my perspective this is exactly what's happened here. Does anyone have any legal advice I can use to fight this suit?
I fired a gay employee from my web development company almost a month ago. He is now suing me for discrimination, do I have any legal advice I can use to fight this suit?
I fired a gay employee and he is suing me and my company for discrimination. Any legal advice I can use to fight this suit?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: K reddit I'm hoping you can help me with a jam I've found myself in. I own a small web development company (5 employees). Six months ago I hired a new guy, let's call him Fred. Fred interviewed well and had a good resume so I hired him to do some frontend dev. A couple weeks in i noticed he wasn't really fitting in. This is my business and I like to imprint my personality on it. It's important to me that my employees get along and have fun together. We have a company basketball team and generally I enjoy my employees being pretty enthused about sports. Whenever we talked about things like sports games or whatever Fred wouldn't participate. Flash forward i guess there started to be this rumor around the office that Fred was gay because my right hand guy total me that guys had been talking about this for weeks in a meeting. I ask Fred to come into my office and I ask him "there's a rumor going around the office that you're gay. Is there any truth to this?" and Fred goes "Well it's none of your business but i do happen to be gay". I was pretty shocked. When he had first interviewed for the position I had made it pretty clear to him that we were a macho culture at my company and I think if he was homosexual he should have told me at that time. Flash forward another month. Fred was taking a really long time to complete this site and when we finally got it to the customer it was nothing like what they had asked. I decided enough was enough, Fred wasn't producing up to par and he wasn't fitting in with my staff so I fired him. That was a month ago. This morning I receive a letter in the mail and it's subpoena. Fred is suing my company and me personally for discrimination. SO fucking bullshit. When I was younger I was fired from jobs for not fitting into corporate cultures and from my perspective this is exactly what's happened here. Does anyone have any legal advice I can use to fight this suit? TL;DR:
I fired a gay employee from my web development company almost a month ago. He is now suing me for discrimination, do I have any legal advice I can use to fight this suit?<|endoftext|>
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I fired a gay employee and he is suing me and my company for discrimination. Any legal advice I can use to fight this suit?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: K reddit I'm hoping you can help me with a jam I've found myself in. I own a small web development company (5 employees). Six months ago I hired a new guy, let's call him Fred. Fred interviewed well and had a good resume so I hired him to do some frontend dev. A couple weeks in i noticed he wasn't really fitting in. This is my business and I like to imprint my personality on it. It's important to me that my employees get along and have fun together. We have a company basketball team and generally I enjoy my employees being pretty enthused about sports. Whenever we talked about things like sports games or whatever Fred wouldn't participate. Flash forward i guess there started to be this rumor around the office that Fred was gay because my right hand guy total me that guys had been talking about this for weeks in a meeting. I ask Fred to come into my office and I ask him "there's a rumor going around the office that you're gay. Is there any truth to this?" and Fred goes "Well it's none of your business but i do happen to be gay". I was pretty shocked. When he had first interviewed for the position I had made it pretty clear to him that we were a macho culture at my company and I think if he was homosexual he should have told me at that time. Flash forward another month. Fred was taking a really long time to complete this site and when we finally got it to the customer it was nothing like what they had asked. I decided enough was enough, Fred wasn't producing up to par and he wasn't fitting in with my staff so I fired him. That was a month ago. This morning I receive a letter in the mail and it's subpoena. Fred is suing my company and me personally for discrimination. SO fucking bullshit. When I was younger I was fired from jobs for not fitting into corporate cultures and from my perspective this is exactly what's happened here. Does anyone have any legal advice I can use to fight this suit? TL;DR: I fired a gay employee from my web development company almost a month ago. He is now suing me for discrimination, do I have any legal advice I can use to fight this suit?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: K reddit I'm hoping you can help me with a jam I've found myself in. I own a small web development company (5 employees). Six months ago I hired a new guy, let's call him Fred. Fred interviewed well and had a good resume so I hired him to do some frontend dev. A couple weeks in i noticed he wasn't really fitting in. This is my business and I like to imprint my personality on it. It's important to me that my employees get along and have fun together. We have a company basketball team and generally I enjoy my employees being pretty enthused about sports. Whenever we talked about things like sports games or whatever Fred wouldn't participate. Flash forward i guess there started to be this rumor around the office that Fred was gay because my right hand guy total me that guys had been talking about this for weeks in a meeting. I ask Fred to come into my office and I ask him "there's a rumor going around the office that you're gay. Is there any truth to this?" and Fred goes "Well it's none of your business but i do happen to be gay". I was pretty shocked. When he had first interviewed for the position I had made it pretty clear to him that we were a macho culture at my company and I think if he was homosexual he should have told me at that time. Flash forward another month. Fred was taking a really long time to complete this site and when we finally got it to the customer it was nothing like what they had asked. I decided enough was enough, Fred wasn't producing up to par and he wasn't fitting in with my staff so I fired him. That was a month ago. This morning I receive a letter in the mail and it's subpoena. Fred is suing my company and me personally for discrimination. SO fucking bullshit. When I was younger I was fired from jobs for not fitting into corporate cultures and from my perspective this is exactly what's happened here. Does anyone have any legal advice I can use to fight this suit? TL;DR: I fired a gay employee and he is suing me and my company for discrimination. Any legal advice I can use to fight this suit?<|endoftext|>
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Had a few nights out on the town recently and I think an overriding feeling of guilt gripped me this morning when I got ready to go to work. I packed my shorts, my Mimimus T10s, tshirt and a pullover in my bag, bought a single ticket on the train forcing myself to run home (~9.5miles). I'm so glad I did it, I feel great (albeit shattered). Managed to cover 9.48miles in 1hour 14mins 11secs, which I think is pretty good going for an irregular runner, I enjoy running but admittedly I'm lazy and I prefer team sports to get my cardio fill. I also managed to PB my 10km time too! [Think this link to my MapMyRun should work]( ps. I know there's the weekly thread for achievements, but I will DEFINITELY forget to submit this on Sunday as I have my final exam on Monday morning for my PostGrad degree haha.
Ran 9.5miles for the 1st time, took 1:14:11, PB'd my 10km time, not a regular runner.
ran a 9.5 mile (each way) to work, ran a 10km. Shitty job, good self image, good self confidence.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Had a few nights out on the town recently and I think an overriding feeling of guilt gripped me this morning when I got ready to go to work. I packed my shorts, my Mimimus T10s, tshirt and a pullover in my bag, bought a single ticket on the train forcing myself to run home (~9.5miles). I'm so glad I did it, I feel great (albeit shattered). Managed to cover 9.48miles in 1hour 14mins 11secs, which I think is pretty good going for an irregular runner, I enjoy running but admittedly I'm lazy and I prefer team sports to get my cardio fill. I also managed to PB my 10km time too! [Think this link to my MapMyRun should work]( ps. I know there's the weekly thread for achievements, but I will DEFINITELY forget to submit this on Sunday as I have my final exam on Monday morning for my PostGrad degree haha. TL;DR:
Ran 9.5miles for the 1st time, took 1:14:11, PB'd my 10km time, not a regular runner.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Had a few nights out on the town recently and I think an overriding feeling of guilt gripped me this morning when I got ready to go to work. I packed my shorts, my Mimimus T10s, tshirt and a pullover in my bag, bought a single ticket on the train forcing myself to run home (~9.5miles). I'm so glad I did it, I feel great (albeit shattered). Managed to cover 9.48miles in 1hour 14mins 11secs, which I think is pretty good going for an irregular runner, I enjoy running but admittedly I'm lazy and I prefer team sports to get my cardio fill. I also managed to PB my 10km time too! [Think this link to my MapMyRun should work]( ps. I know there's the weekly thread for achievements, but I will DEFINITELY forget to submit this on Sunday as I have my final exam on Monday morning for my PostGrad degree haha. TL;DR: Ran 9.5miles for the 1st time, took 1:14:11, PB'd my 10km time, not a regular runner.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Had a few nights out on the town recently and I think an overriding feeling of guilt gripped me this morning when I got ready to go to work. I packed my shorts, my Mimimus T10s, tshirt and a pullover in my bag, bought a single ticket on the train forcing myself to run home (~9.5miles). I'm so glad I did it, I feel great (albeit shattered). Managed to cover 9.48miles in 1hour 14mins 11secs, which I think is pretty good going for an irregular runner, I enjoy running but admittedly I'm lazy and I prefer team sports to get my cardio fill. I also managed to PB my 10km time too! [Think this link to my MapMyRun should work]( ps. I know there's the weekly thread for achievements, but I will DEFINITELY forget to submit this on Sunday as I have my final exam on Monday morning for my PostGrad degree haha. TL;DR: ran a 9.5 mile (each way) to work, ran a 10km. Shitty job, good self image, good self confidence.<|endoftext|>
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Alright, for those who are wondering: This is a junior varsity lacrosse team, and we're all sophomores and freshman (I'm a sophomore.) I just came back from a game of which we should of won 10+ to 0, but instead we barely won in overtime. When we came back to the lockerroom, I was appalled by my guy's behavior: acting like little leaguers who won the biggest tournament in the region. When I threatened extra runs later in the week, one of the more respectful players told me not to be such a child (irony?) I might be at fault there for being a bit of a hard-ass, but dammit I've put up with this shitty attitude for too long. I plan on talking with the coach when I get the chance, but I fear it will not be enough. Can anyone present me the best course of action when it comes to instilling discipline within this group of about 20 undergrad high schoolers? I am one of three captains, but I'm beggining to believe that it's simply a title and nothing more. Please, I need advice before going in blind and appearing like a douche.
High school team might be taking a bad attitude, need help instilling discipline in a team of 20 young adults.
Need help instilling discipline within a team of 20 young people. This is my first time leading a team, so I'm a bit nervous.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright, for those who are wondering: This is a junior varsity lacrosse team, and we're all sophomores and freshman (I'm a sophomore.) I just came back from a game of which we should of won 10+ to 0, but instead we barely won in overtime. When we came back to the lockerroom, I was appalled by my guy's behavior: acting like little leaguers who won the biggest tournament in the region. When I threatened extra runs later in the week, one of the more respectful players told me not to be such a child (irony?) I might be at fault there for being a bit of a hard-ass, but dammit I've put up with this shitty attitude for too long. I plan on talking with the coach when I get the chance, but I fear it will not be enough. Can anyone present me the best course of action when it comes to instilling discipline within this group of about 20 undergrad high schoolers? I am one of three captains, but I'm beggining to believe that it's simply a title and nothing more. Please, I need advice before going in blind and appearing like a douche. TL;DR:
High school team might be taking a bad attitude, need help instilling discipline in a team of 20 young adults.<|endoftext|>
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Need help instilling discipline within a team of 20 young people. This is my first time leading a team, so I'm a bit nervous.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright, for those who are wondering: This is a junior varsity lacrosse team, and we're all sophomores and freshman (I'm a sophomore.) I just came back from a game of which we should of won 10+ to 0, but instead we barely won in overtime. When we came back to the lockerroom, I was appalled by my guy's behavior: acting like little leaguers who won the biggest tournament in the region. When I threatened extra runs later in the week, one of the more respectful players told me not to be such a child (irony?) I might be at fault there for being a bit of a hard-ass, but dammit I've put up with this shitty attitude for too long. I plan on talking with the coach when I get the chance, but I fear it will not be enough. Can anyone present me the best course of action when it comes to instilling discipline within this group of about 20 undergrad high schoolers? I am one of three captains, but I'm beggining to believe that it's simply a title and nothing more. Please, I need advice before going in blind and appearing like a douche. TL;DR: High school team might be taking a bad attitude, need help instilling discipline in a team of 20 young adults.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright, for those who are wondering: This is a junior varsity lacrosse team, and we're all sophomores and freshman (I'm a sophomore.) I just came back from a game of which we should of won 10+ to 0, but instead we barely won in overtime. When we came back to the lockerroom, I was appalled by my guy's behavior: acting like little leaguers who won the biggest tournament in the region. When I threatened extra runs later in the week, one of the more respectful players told me not to be such a child (irony?) I might be at fault there for being a bit of a hard-ass, but dammit I've put up with this shitty attitude for too long. I plan on talking with the coach when I get the chance, but I fear it will not be enough. Can anyone present me the best course of action when it comes to instilling discipline within this group of about 20 undergrad high schoolers? I am one of three captains, but I'm beggining to believe that it's simply a title and nothing more. Please, I need advice before going in blind and appearing like a douche. TL;DR: Need help instilling discipline within a team of 20 young people. This is my first time leading a team, so I'm a bit nervous.<|endoftext|>
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I don't know how much to go into details but... My girlfriend and I have been dating since last summer, and we've known each other for even longer. A lot longer actually. We were in a long distance relationship, her living about 370 miles away. Both our barents were very supportive of us (after we had all met each other), and we had it going nicely. Just recently, we had started getting into more and more serious fights/arguments, and we both just... I really don't know how to get into this, but she said she needed a break, and this killed me. So a couple days ago, I said okay, and her plan was to take a break from me until about her summer break, which is a month from now. My summer break is in about 2 weeks. My mom, who adores us both, had already bought plane tickets for her to come here and she can chill with my brother (15 just for reference) with me, while she leaves to go to the East Coast on her own business. Both our parents are divorced. The only thing is... just tonight we broke up. Things just didn't match up, she said she couldn't handle it anymore but wanted to remain best friends. Reverting back to what we used to be, just best friends. I want us to get back together more than anything, but I still have absolutely no clue how she feels about me. So in approximately 3-4 weeksish, she'll be up where I am and staying overnights. We'll pretty much have the house all to ourselves, and I'm just hoping... I really don't know. I didn't plan this out too well. I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to tackle this or.. should I just let things be and accept the fact? If anymore details are needed, I'll be more than happy to type them out. Thanks everyone in advance!
Girlfriend and I broke up a couple days ago. I'm not sure if we should get back together.
Girlfriend and I broke up a month ago, but plans for summer break are in 3 weeks and I'm wondering if this is a problem.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know how much to go into details but... My girlfriend and I have been dating since last summer, and we've known each other for even longer. A lot longer actually. We were in a long distance relationship, her living about 370 miles away. Both our barents were very supportive of us (after we had all met each other), and we had it going nicely. Just recently, we had started getting into more and more serious fights/arguments, and we both just... I really don't know how to get into this, but she said she needed a break, and this killed me. So a couple days ago, I said okay, and her plan was to take a break from me until about her summer break, which is a month from now. My summer break is in about 2 weeks. My mom, who adores us both, had already bought plane tickets for her to come here and she can chill with my brother (15 just for reference) with me, while she leaves to go to the East Coast on her own business. Both our parents are divorced. The only thing is... just tonight we broke up. Things just didn't match up, she said she couldn't handle it anymore but wanted to remain best friends. Reverting back to what we used to be, just best friends. I want us to get back together more than anything, but I still have absolutely no clue how she feels about me. So in approximately 3-4 weeksish, she'll be up where I am and staying overnights. We'll pretty much have the house all to ourselves, and I'm just hoping... I really don't know. I didn't plan this out too well. I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to tackle this or.. should I just let things be and accept the fact? If anymore details are needed, I'll be more than happy to type them out. Thanks everyone in advance! TL;DR:
Girlfriend and I broke up a couple days ago. I'm not sure if we should get back together.<|endoftext|>
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Girlfriend and I broke up a month ago, but plans for summer break are in 3 weeks and I'm wondering if this is a problem.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know how much to go into details but... My girlfriend and I have been dating since last summer, and we've known each other for even longer. A lot longer actually. We were in a long distance relationship, her living about 370 miles away. Both our barents were very supportive of us (after we had all met each other), and we had it going nicely. Just recently, we had started getting into more and more serious fights/arguments, and we both just... I really don't know how to get into this, but she said she needed a break, and this killed me. So a couple days ago, I said okay, and her plan was to take a break from me until about her summer break, which is a month from now. My summer break is in about 2 weeks. My mom, who adores us both, had already bought plane tickets for her to come here and she can chill with my brother (15 just for reference) with me, while she leaves to go to the East Coast on her own business. Both our parents are divorced. The only thing is... just tonight we broke up. Things just didn't match up, she said she couldn't handle it anymore but wanted to remain best friends. Reverting back to what we used to be, just best friends. I want us to get back together more than anything, but I still have absolutely no clue how she feels about me. So in approximately 3-4 weeksish, she'll be up where I am and staying overnights. We'll pretty much have the house all to ourselves, and I'm just hoping... I really don't know. I didn't plan this out too well. I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to tackle this or.. should I just let things be and accept the fact? If anymore details are needed, I'll be more than happy to type them out. Thanks everyone in advance! TL;DR: Girlfriend and I broke up a couple days ago. I'm not sure if we should get back together.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know how much to go into details but... My girlfriend and I have been dating since last summer, and we've known each other for even longer. A lot longer actually. We were in a long distance relationship, her living about 370 miles away. Both our barents were very supportive of us (after we had all met each other), and we had it going nicely. Just recently, we had started getting into more and more serious fights/arguments, and we both just... I really don't know how to get into this, but she said she needed a break, and this killed me. So a couple days ago, I said okay, and her plan was to take a break from me until about her summer break, which is a month from now. My summer break is in about 2 weeks. My mom, who adores us both, had already bought plane tickets for her to come here and she can chill with my brother (15 just for reference) with me, while she leaves to go to the East Coast on her own business. Both our parents are divorced. The only thing is... just tonight we broke up. Things just didn't match up, she said she couldn't handle it anymore but wanted to remain best friends. Reverting back to what we used to be, just best friends. I want us to get back together more than anything, but I still have absolutely no clue how she feels about me. So in approximately 3-4 weeksish, she'll be up where I am and staying overnights. We'll pretty much have the house all to ourselves, and I'm just hoping... I really don't know. I didn't plan this out too well. I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to tackle this or.. should I just let things be and accept the fact? If anymore details are needed, I'll be more than happy to type them out. Thanks everyone in advance! TL;DR: Girlfriend and I broke up a month ago, but plans for summer break are in 3 weeks and I'm wondering if this is a problem.<|endoftext|>
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Hey all, I'm using a throwaway since my gf uses reddit. My gf and I have been together for 5 years. She is absolutely amazing and perfect and I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone else other than her. She is my life and I spoil her as much as I possibly can. However, there is one tiny thing that's been the cause of a few complaints lately. Her libido has been going down to the point where it is almost non existent. We have sex, but it isn't often anymore. I'm okay with it, sort of, but I'm not going to force her to have sex just for me. I want her to be in the mood for it as well. When we do have sex, I thought it was pretty great, but Idk. We are both each others firsts. We were talking about it the other day and she told me something that made my heart sink and I felt devastated. For about a year, whenever we had sex, she just wasn't aroused. She did it to make me happy. I feel so awful reddit. I don't want to have sex if she doesn't want it. I mean, of course I want sex, it's amazing, but only if she is really wanting it. I suggested we talk to her doctor maybe, or we can set something up with a sex therapist? I don't know. I love her, but I also can't go without sex either...
Gf has lost the desire to have sex with me. I don't want to force it on her. What to do?
Gf isn't aroused in bed, I don't want to just have sex for me, she is okay with that, but I don't want to. Want to figure out what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey all, I'm using a throwaway since my gf uses reddit. My gf and I have been together for 5 years. She is absolutely amazing and perfect and I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone else other than her. She is my life and I spoil her as much as I possibly can. However, there is one tiny thing that's been the cause of a few complaints lately. Her libido has been going down to the point where it is almost non existent. We have sex, but it isn't often anymore. I'm okay with it, sort of, but I'm not going to force her to have sex just for me. I want her to be in the mood for it as well. When we do have sex, I thought it was pretty great, but Idk. We are both each others firsts. We were talking about it the other day and she told me something that made my heart sink and I felt devastated. For about a year, whenever we had sex, she just wasn't aroused. She did it to make me happy. I feel so awful reddit. I don't want to have sex if she doesn't want it. I mean, of course I want sex, it's amazing, but only if she is really wanting it. I suggested we talk to her doctor maybe, or we can set something up with a sex therapist? I don't know. I love her, but I also can't go without sex either... TL;DR:
Gf has lost the desire to have sex with me. I don't want to force it on her. What to do?<|endoftext|>
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Gf isn't aroused in bed, I don't want to just have sex for me, she is okay with that, but I don't want to. Want to figure out what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey all, I'm using a throwaway since my gf uses reddit. My gf and I have been together for 5 years. She is absolutely amazing and perfect and I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone else other than her. She is my life and I spoil her as much as I possibly can. However, there is one tiny thing that's been the cause of a few complaints lately. Her libido has been going down to the point where it is almost non existent. We have sex, but it isn't often anymore. I'm okay with it, sort of, but I'm not going to force her to have sex just for me. I want her to be in the mood for it as well. When we do have sex, I thought it was pretty great, but Idk. We are both each others firsts. We were talking about it the other day and she told me something that made my heart sink and I felt devastated. For about a year, whenever we had sex, she just wasn't aroused. She did it to make me happy. I feel so awful reddit. I don't want to have sex if she doesn't want it. I mean, of course I want sex, it's amazing, but only if she is really wanting it. I suggested we talk to her doctor maybe, or we can set something up with a sex therapist? I don't know. I love her, but I also can't go without sex either... TL;DR: Gf has lost the desire to have sex with me. I don't want to force it on her. What to do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey all, I'm using a throwaway since my gf uses reddit. My gf and I have been together for 5 years. She is absolutely amazing and perfect and I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone else other than her. She is my life and I spoil her as much as I possibly can. However, there is one tiny thing that's been the cause of a few complaints lately. Her libido has been going down to the point where it is almost non existent. We have sex, but it isn't often anymore. I'm okay with it, sort of, but I'm not going to force her to have sex just for me. I want her to be in the mood for it as well. When we do have sex, I thought it was pretty great, but Idk. We are both each others firsts. We were talking about it the other day and she told me something that made my heart sink and I felt devastated. For about a year, whenever we had sex, she just wasn't aroused. She did it to make me happy. I feel so awful reddit. I don't want to have sex if she doesn't want it. I mean, of course I want sex, it's amazing, but only if she is really wanting it. I suggested we talk to her doctor maybe, or we can set something up with a sex therapist? I don't know. I love her, but I also can't go without sex either... TL;DR: Gf isn't aroused in bed, I don't want to just have sex for me, she is okay with that, but I don't want to. Want to figure out what to do.<|endoftext|>
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I was in a bus station with my friend when I saw a young man suffering from down syndrome walk up to the information desk. He asked if there was a bus going in the direction of his house and at first the worker didn't understand him but then he informed him that there was no bus going that way. The young man sat down sadly and a few minutes later a group of workers came up to him. His face brightened when an off duty bus driver said he would take him home. The two men boarded an empty bus and the driver drove him right to his house.
A young man with down syndrome was taken to his home by a bus driver after asking about a bus.
A lost man with down syndrome was driven home in an empty bus by an off duty bus driver
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was in a bus station with my friend when I saw a young man suffering from down syndrome walk up to the information desk. He asked if there was a bus going in the direction of his house and at first the worker didn't understand him but then he informed him that there was no bus going that way. The young man sat down sadly and a few minutes later a group of workers came up to him. His face brightened when an off duty bus driver said he would take him home. The two men boarded an empty bus and the driver drove him right to his house. TL;DR:
A young man with down syndrome was taken to his home by a bus driver after asking about a bus.<|endoftext|>
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A lost man with down syndrome was driven home in an empty bus by an off duty bus driver<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was in a bus station with my friend when I saw a young man suffering from down syndrome walk up to the information desk. He asked if there was a bus going in the direction of his house and at first the worker didn't understand him but then he informed him that there was no bus going that way. The young man sat down sadly and a few minutes later a group of workers came up to him. His face brightened when an off duty bus driver said he would take him home. The two men boarded an empty bus and the driver drove him right to his house. TL;DR: A young man with down syndrome was taken to his home by a bus driver after asking about a bus.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was in a bus station with my friend when I saw a young man suffering from down syndrome walk up to the information desk. He asked if there was a bus going in the direction of his house and at first the worker didn't understand him but then he informed him that there was no bus going that way. The young man sat down sadly and a few minutes later a group of workers came up to him. His face brightened when an off duty bus driver said he would take him home. The two men boarded an empty bus and the driver drove him right to his house. TL;DR: A lost man with down syndrome was driven home in an empty bus by an off duty bus driver<|endoftext|>
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A lot of my good friends are in the process of "moving on" and although I thought it wasn't bothering me, it has. They're in committed relationships and are moving in with their significant others. I haven't had a girlfriend in probably 2 years now. Unfortunately, I was in the habit of comparing myself to them. It was making me depressed and I was constantly on the look out for prospective dates. Not the way to go. Don't let that "forever alone" bullshit bring you down. Do what you love because you love it. You don't need a man or woman to label themselves as your boyfriend or girlfriend and validate the life you live. Seriously folks it's O-K to love what you love. It only brings misery to dwell on your "relationship status", just live your life the way you want. This goes well beyond significant others. It applies to your friends and internet. Don't pick a hobby solely to be a part of a club, please have genuine interest in it. I think a lot of us (myself included) have really forgotten about all this. It's hard when we live in this world of reddit, twitter, facebook, and other social networking shenanigans. I think we're all validation hungry. It may sound simple and does just boil down to that age old advice "Be yourself" and "Don't compare yourself to others." Just like all advice it may be great and you listened but sometimes it just doesn't seem relevant at the time. Took me a while to apply it.
Don't let the 'forever alone' bullshit get to you. Live your life the way you want. Be yourself!
Don't worry about validation, live your life as you want.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A lot of my good friends are in the process of "moving on" and although I thought it wasn't bothering me, it has. They're in committed relationships and are moving in with their significant others. I haven't had a girlfriend in probably 2 years now. Unfortunately, I was in the habit of comparing myself to them. It was making me depressed and I was constantly on the look out for prospective dates. Not the way to go. Don't let that "forever alone" bullshit bring you down. Do what you love because you love it. You don't need a man or woman to label themselves as your boyfriend or girlfriend and validate the life you live. Seriously folks it's O-K to love what you love. It only brings misery to dwell on your "relationship status", just live your life the way you want. This goes well beyond significant others. It applies to your friends and internet. Don't pick a hobby solely to be a part of a club, please have genuine interest in it. I think a lot of us (myself included) have really forgotten about all this. It's hard when we live in this world of reddit, twitter, facebook, and other social networking shenanigans. I think we're all validation hungry. It may sound simple and does just boil down to that age old advice "Be yourself" and "Don't compare yourself to others." Just like all advice it may be great and you listened but sometimes it just doesn't seem relevant at the time. Took me a while to apply it. TL;DR:
Don't let the 'forever alone' bullshit get to you. Live your life the way you want. Be yourself!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A lot of my good friends are in the process of "moving on" and although I thought it wasn't bothering me, it has. They're in committed relationships and are moving in with their significant others. I haven't had a girlfriend in probably 2 years now. Unfortunately, I was in the habit of comparing myself to them. It was making me depressed and I was constantly on the look out for prospective dates. Not the way to go. Don't let that "forever alone" bullshit bring you down. Do what you love because you love it. You don't need a man or woman to label themselves as your boyfriend or girlfriend and validate the life you live. Seriously folks it's O-K to love what you love. It only brings misery to dwell on your "relationship status", just live your life the way you want. This goes well beyond significant others. It applies to your friends and internet. Don't pick a hobby solely to be a part of a club, please have genuine interest in it. I think a lot of us (myself included) have really forgotten about all this. It's hard when we live in this world of reddit, twitter, facebook, and other social networking shenanigans. I think we're all validation hungry. It may sound simple and does just boil down to that age old advice "Be yourself" and "Don't compare yourself to others." Just like all advice it may be great and you listened but sometimes it just doesn't seem relevant at the time. Took me a while to apply it. TL;DR: Don't let the 'forever alone' bullshit get to you. Live your life the way you want. Be yourself!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A lot of my good friends are in the process of "moving on" and although I thought it wasn't bothering me, it has. They're in committed relationships and are moving in with their significant others. I haven't had a girlfriend in probably 2 years now. Unfortunately, I was in the habit of comparing myself to them. It was making me depressed and I was constantly on the look out for prospective dates. Not the way to go. Don't let that "forever alone" bullshit bring you down. Do what you love because you love it. You don't need a man or woman to label themselves as your boyfriend or girlfriend and validate the life you live. Seriously folks it's O-K to love what you love. It only brings misery to dwell on your "relationship status", just live your life the way you want. This goes well beyond significant others. It applies to your friends and internet. Don't pick a hobby solely to be a part of a club, please have genuine interest in it. I think a lot of us (myself included) have really forgotten about all this. It's hard when we live in this world of reddit, twitter, facebook, and other social networking shenanigans. I think we're all validation hungry. It may sound simple and does just boil down to that age old advice "Be yourself" and "Don't compare yourself to others." Just like all advice it may be great and you listened but sometimes it just doesn't seem relevant at the time. Took me a while to apply it. TL;DR: Don't worry about validation, live your life as you want.<|endoftext|>
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I am going through a crisis. My wife of 8 months, cheated on me and has since come back and said she is sorry and can never take it back but wants to go on. I can not relationship-wise forgive her, so she has agreed a divorce would be a good Idea since we decided we would get married again someday anyway. We are still living together in my hometown, far away from her friends and family whom she goes to visit every weekend ( sadly I cannot always go with her. ) I have a job that I cannot easily escape from Our daughter is one years old. And she says she is staying with me, mostly so I can be with her. I try to cope by playing music and trying to act like I am in a good relationship, but she is poison to my heart now, and I am having a hard time accepting the fact of what happens next, or where her feelings are going to lead my already aching heart next.
My wife cheated on me and I cannot forgive her, I need to know how to mend a broken bond with my daughter.
I have a wife who cheated on me, but is willing to go out with me in the future and be with me, how can I deal with this?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am going through a crisis. My wife of 8 months, cheated on me and has since come back and said she is sorry and can never take it back but wants to go on. I can not relationship-wise forgive her, so she has agreed a divorce would be a good Idea since we decided we would get married again someday anyway. We are still living together in my hometown, far away from her friends and family whom she goes to visit every weekend ( sadly I cannot always go with her. ) I have a job that I cannot easily escape from Our daughter is one years old. And she says she is staying with me, mostly so I can be with her. I try to cope by playing music and trying to act like I am in a good relationship, but she is poison to my heart now, and I am having a hard time accepting the fact of what happens next, or where her feelings are going to lead my already aching heart next. TL;DR:
My wife cheated on me and I cannot forgive her, I need to know how to mend a broken bond with my daughter.<|endoftext|>
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I have a wife who cheated on me, but is willing to go out with me in the future and be with me, how can I deal with this?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am going through a crisis. My wife of 8 months, cheated on me and has since come back and said she is sorry and can never take it back but wants to go on. I can not relationship-wise forgive her, so she has agreed a divorce would be a good Idea since we decided we would get married again someday anyway. We are still living together in my hometown, far away from her friends and family whom she goes to visit every weekend ( sadly I cannot always go with her. ) I have a job that I cannot easily escape from Our daughter is one years old. And she says she is staying with me, mostly so I can be with her. I try to cope by playing music and trying to act like I am in a good relationship, but she is poison to my heart now, and I am having a hard time accepting the fact of what happens next, or where her feelings are going to lead my already aching heart next. TL;DR: My wife cheated on me and I cannot forgive her, I need to know how to mend a broken bond with my daughter.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am going through a crisis. My wife of 8 months, cheated on me and has since come back and said she is sorry and can never take it back but wants to go on. I can not relationship-wise forgive her, so she has agreed a divorce would be a good Idea since we decided we would get married again someday anyway. We are still living together in my hometown, far away from her friends and family whom she goes to visit every weekend ( sadly I cannot always go with her. ) I have a job that I cannot easily escape from Our daughter is one years old. And she says she is staying with me, mostly so I can be with her. I try to cope by playing music and trying to act like I am in a good relationship, but she is poison to my heart now, and I am having a hard time accepting the fact of what happens next, or where her feelings are going to lead my already aching heart next. TL;DR: I have a wife who cheated on me, but is willing to go out with me in the future and be with me, how can I deal with this?<|endoftext|>
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Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev
am i a bitch for falling out of love with the perfect person. Should i just keep dating her because... shes perfect.
I think i'm falling out of love with my gf. i feel like its all about her. i dont know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev TL;DR:
am i a bitch for falling out of love with the perfect person. Should i just keep dating her because... shes perfect.<|endoftext|>
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I think i'm falling out of love with my gf. i feel like its all about her. i dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev TL;DR: am i a bitch for falling out of love with the perfect person. Should i just keep dating her because... shes perfect.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev TL;DR: I think i'm falling out of love with my gf. i feel like its all about her. i dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Alright, so I live in a gated community set within another gated community. Naturally, its very secure and with this security comes a lot of rules to follow of you live there. Two of the rules include not hanging clothes outside your house (in the back is fine), and not setting your dogs loose. My neighbor violates these rules a LOT. He uses the empty lots next to and in front of his house to hang his laundry, and set his pitbull out free yesterday. So not only is he being an eyesore, he's endangering us as well. Last night, in the car on the way home, we noticed him leave his pitbull on the sidewalk without a leash, and him walking away. Of course, we called the security. I mean, this guy has explicitly stated that the dog is a fighting pitbull. My mother makes it a point to befriend the maintenance and security people, so she managed to find out from them that not only did our neighbor get mad at them for scolding him FOR LEAVING HIS PITBULL OUT, he also laughed as the dog chased them until they had to hide in a house that was under construction. Please help. I'm now scared to walk my dogs outside, as most of them are small. I should NOT have to feel like this in a bloody gated and slightly expensive community. Oh, and did I mention doesn't even pay HOA fees either?
Neighbor leaves his fighting pitbull out without a leash, laughs at security when they scold him, and doesn't pay HOA fees.
Neighbor has a fighting pitbull, is setting him out, and laughing at the security. Please help me find the words to tell him off.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright, so I live in a gated community set within another gated community. Naturally, its very secure and with this security comes a lot of rules to follow of you live there. Two of the rules include not hanging clothes outside your house (in the back is fine), and not setting your dogs loose. My neighbor violates these rules a LOT. He uses the empty lots next to and in front of his house to hang his laundry, and set his pitbull out free yesterday. So not only is he being an eyesore, he's endangering us as well. Last night, in the car on the way home, we noticed him leave his pitbull on the sidewalk without a leash, and him walking away. Of course, we called the security. I mean, this guy has explicitly stated that the dog is a fighting pitbull. My mother makes it a point to befriend the maintenance and security people, so she managed to find out from them that not only did our neighbor get mad at them for scolding him FOR LEAVING HIS PITBULL OUT, he also laughed as the dog chased them until they had to hide in a house that was under construction. Please help. I'm now scared to walk my dogs outside, as most of them are small. I should NOT have to feel like this in a bloody gated and slightly expensive community. Oh, and did I mention doesn't even pay HOA fees either? TL;DR:
Neighbor leaves his fighting pitbull out without a leash, laughs at security when they scold him, and doesn't pay HOA fees.<|endoftext|>
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Neighbor has a fighting pitbull, is setting him out, and laughing at the security. Please help me find the words to tell him off.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright, so I live in a gated community set within another gated community. Naturally, its very secure and with this security comes a lot of rules to follow of you live there. Two of the rules include not hanging clothes outside your house (in the back is fine), and not setting your dogs loose. My neighbor violates these rules a LOT. He uses the empty lots next to and in front of his house to hang his laundry, and set his pitbull out free yesterday. So not only is he being an eyesore, he's endangering us as well. Last night, in the car on the way home, we noticed him leave his pitbull on the sidewalk without a leash, and him walking away. Of course, we called the security. I mean, this guy has explicitly stated that the dog is a fighting pitbull. My mother makes it a point to befriend the maintenance and security people, so she managed to find out from them that not only did our neighbor get mad at them for scolding him FOR LEAVING HIS PITBULL OUT, he also laughed as the dog chased them until they had to hide in a house that was under construction. Please help. I'm now scared to walk my dogs outside, as most of them are small. I should NOT have to feel like this in a bloody gated and slightly expensive community. Oh, and did I mention doesn't even pay HOA fees either? TL;DR: Neighbor leaves his fighting pitbull out without a leash, laughs at security when they scold him, and doesn't pay HOA fees.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright, so I live in a gated community set within another gated community. Naturally, its very secure and with this security comes a lot of rules to follow of you live there. Two of the rules include not hanging clothes outside your house (in the back is fine), and not setting your dogs loose. My neighbor violates these rules a LOT. He uses the empty lots next to and in front of his house to hang his laundry, and set his pitbull out free yesterday. So not only is he being an eyesore, he's endangering us as well. Last night, in the car on the way home, we noticed him leave his pitbull on the sidewalk without a leash, and him walking away. Of course, we called the security. I mean, this guy has explicitly stated that the dog is a fighting pitbull. My mother makes it a point to befriend the maintenance and security people, so she managed to find out from them that not only did our neighbor get mad at them for scolding him FOR LEAVING HIS PITBULL OUT, he also laughed as the dog chased them until they had to hide in a house that was under construction. Please help. I'm now scared to walk my dogs outside, as most of them are small. I should NOT have to feel like this in a bloody gated and slightly expensive community. Oh, and did I mention doesn't even pay HOA fees either? TL;DR: Neighbor has a fighting pitbull, is setting him out, and laughing at the security. Please help me find the words to tell him off.<|endoftext|>
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I moved to a big city two years ago for a job. I wanted some more city friends so I joined a kickball league and everything was going great. The people (they all go to the same school and were already friends) were fun and easy to talk to and after the game we would hit up a bar and party. I hung out with a couple of them and I even hooked up with one of the girls on the team and we were going on dates. Then one late night at the bar after the games I see a kickball girl in booty shorts and drunkenly ask a fellow kickball friend to do a stupid pose behind her and try to snap a pic because I thought it would really funny. Her boyfriend didn't so he shoved my friend and tried to fight us. Our respective teams intervened and I left the bar. Then I made my apologies to my team for a bad call and went home while they all went back to the bar. I thought that was the end of it. Well today I get an email from the girl I was dating and she has said that she is canceling our date today and no longer sees a future for us because of that nights events and that the team has decided to ask me to no longer play with them since they think the guy will try to fight me again. They don't want that drama. Well fuck me. I wasn't even trying to fight the guy. I deleted the blurry picture in front of him but he still wanted to fight me so now I lose the girl and my new friends over a fucking blurry ass picture? I made a mistake and apologized. Sometimes I feel like either I don't think my mistakes are that big when they are or that other people overreact. Either way I lose.
I fucked up at the bar and now I'm not friends with the girl I was with. I feel like I'm always being blamed for shit.
My friends are trying to kick me out for something I had no hand in and now I'm losing them and my new friends over something they didn't even do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I moved to a big city two years ago for a job. I wanted some more city friends so I joined a kickball league and everything was going great. The people (they all go to the same school and were already friends) were fun and easy to talk to and after the game we would hit up a bar and party. I hung out with a couple of them and I even hooked up with one of the girls on the team and we were going on dates. Then one late night at the bar after the games I see a kickball girl in booty shorts and drunkenly ask a fellow kickball friend to do a stupid pose behind her and try to snap a pic because I thought it would really funny. Her boyfriend didn't so he shoved my friend and tried to fight us. Our respective teams intervened and I left the bar. Then I made my apologies to my team for a bad call and went home while they all went back to the bar. I thought that was the end of it. Well today I get an email from the girl I was dating and she has said that she is canceling our date today and no longer sees a future for us because of that nights events and that the team has decided to ask me to no longer play with them since they think the guy will try to fight me again. They don't want that drama. Well fuck me. I wasn't even trying to fight the guy. I deleted the blurry picture in front of him but he still wanted to fight me so now I lose the girl and my new friends over a fucking blurry ass picture? I made a mistake and apologized. Sometimes I feel like either I don't think my mistakes are that big when they are or that other people overreact. Either way I lose. TL;DR:
I fucked up at the bar and now I'm not friends with the girl I was with. I feel like I'm always being blamed for shit.<|endoftext|>
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My friends are trying to kick me out for something I had no hand in and now I'm losing them and my new friends over something they didn't even do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I moved to a big city two years ago for a job. I wanted some more city friends so I joined a kickball league and everything was going great. The people (they all go to the same school and were already friends) were fun and easy to talk to and after the game we would hit up a bar and party. I hung out with a couple of them and I even hooked up with one of the girls on the team and we were going on dates. Then one late night at the bar after the games I see a kickball girl in booty shorts and drunkenly ask a fellow kickball friend to do a stupid pose behind her and try to snap a pic because I thought it would really funny. Her boyfriend didn't so he shoved my friend and tried to fight us. Our respective teams intervened and I left the bar. Then I made my apologies to my team for a bad call and went home while they all went back to the bar. I thought that was the end of it. Well today I get an email from the girl I was dating and she has said that she is canceling our date today and no longer sees a future for us because of that nights events and that the team has decided to ask me to no longer play with them since they think the guy will try to fight me again. They don't want that drama. Well fuck me. I wasn't even trying to fight the guy. I deleted the blurry picture in front of him but he still wanted to fight me so now I lose the girl and my new friends over a fucking blurry ass picture? I made a mistake and apologized. Sometimes I feel like either I don't think my mistakes are that big when they are or that other people overreact. Either way I lose. TL;DR: I fucked up at the bar and now I'm not friends with the girl I was with. I feel like I'm always being blamed for shit.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I moved to a big city two years ago for a job. I wanted some more city friends so I joined a kickball league and everything was going great. The people (they all go to the same school and were already friends) were fun and easy to talk to and after the game we would hit up a bar and party. I hung out with a couple of them and I even hooked up with one of the girls on the team and we were going on dates. Then one late night at the bar after the games I see a kickball girl in booty shorts and drunkenly ask a fellow kickball friend to do a stupid pose behind her and try to snap a pic because I thought it would really funny. Her boyfriend didn't so he shoved my friend and tried to fight us. Our respective teams intervened and I left the bar. Then I made my apologies to my team for a bad call and went home while they all went back to the bar. I thought that was the end of it. Well today I get an email from the girl I was dating and she has said that she is canceling our date today and no longer sees a future for us because of that nights events and that the team has decided to ask me to no longer play with them since they think the guy will try to fight me again. They don't want that drama. Well fuck me. I wasn't even trying to fight the guy. I deleted the blurry picture in front of him but he still wanted to fight me so now I lose the girl and my new friends over a fucking blurry ass picture? I made a mistake and apologized. Sometimes I feel like either I don't think my mistakes are that big when they are or that other people overreact. Either way I lose. TL;DR: My friends are trying to kick me out for something I had no hand in and now I'm losing them and my new friends over something they didn't even do.<|endoftext|>
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