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Hello /r/relationships I am a 22yo student with my 22yo live in boyfriend of almost 3 years our relationship started out great, but in the past few months I have noticed a significant change in my boyfriend. He has started shrinking away from my touch and barely speaks to me anymore. He will usually come home from work around the same time I am home from school and sit on his computer with headphones on until dinner and then he silently cooks then retreats to the headphones & computer until bedtime then goes to bed. If I try and help with dinner he will shoo me away and if I approach him on the computer he doesn't like me touching or leaning on him. I will admit I am no saint as I sit on our large couch with my laptop when I get home but I feel like anytime I try and initiate a conversation or sex he totally shuts it down and it makes me feel super unattractive. It finally came to a head last night as we put dishes away and I asked him what was wrong and he finally broke down and said he was bored. I asked him to elaborate and he said that he loves his work and workouts and they are so very fun, but hates coming home because its boring. I sat him down and he says that if it continues like the way it is then he wants no part in it, but that he doesn't want to give up on us. I was trying unsuccessfully to not cry during this talk but he made no contact with me on the couch until the end where he gave me a hug. That night we both went to bed and he read a book and then rolled over and fell asleep and I put my feet up to him and hugged him but he went to bed. Today I only saw him briefly as I got home from school and he left for a night job he has but he barely talked to me and didn't kiss me or anything I am freaking out at this and I really don't know what to do and its really scary. I am kind of a mess and probably left out lots of stuff that I can clarify if need be.

I am in a relationship with my boyfriend that has changed from "Bored" into "Not Interested"

My BF is bored and doesn't want to be him because he loves his work and workouts.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello /r/relationships I am a 22yo student with my 22yo live in boyfriend of almost 3 years our relationship started out great, but in the past few months I have noticed a significant change in my boyfriend. He has started shrinking away from my touch and barely speaks to me anymore. He will usually come home from work around the same time I am home from school and sit on his computer with headphones on until dinner and then he silently cooks then retreats to the headphones & computer until bedtime then goes to bed. If I try and help with dinner he will shoo me away and if I approach him on the computer he doesn't like me touching or leaning on him. I will admit I am no saint as I sit on our large couch with my laptop when I get home but I feel like anytime I try and initiate a conversation or sex he totally shuts it down and it makes me feel super unattractive. It finally came to a head last night as we put dishes away and I asked him what was wrong and he finally broke down and said he was bored. I asked him to elaborate and he said that he loves his work and workouts and they are so very fun, but hates coming home because its boring. I sat him down and he says that if it continues like the way it is then he wants no part in it, but that he doesn't want to give up on us. I was trying unsuccessfully to not cry during this talk but he made no contact with me on the couch until the end where he gave me a hug. That night we both went to bed and he read a book and then rolled over and fell asleep and I put my feet up to him and hugged him but he went to bed. Today I only saw him briefly as I got home from school and he left for a night job he has but he barely talked to me and didn't kiss me or anything I am freaking out at this and I really don't know what to do and its really scary. I am kind of a mess and probably left out lots of stuff that I can clarify if need be. TL;DR:

I am in a relationship with my boyfriend that has changed from "Bored" into "Not Interested"<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello /r/relationships I am a 22yo student with my 22yo live in boyfriend of almost 3 years our relationship started out great, but in the past few months I have noticed a significant change in my boyfriend. He has started shrinking away from my touch and barely speaks to me anymore. He will usually come home from work around the same time I am home from school and sit on his computer with headphones on until dinner and then he silently cooks then retreats to the headphones & computer until bedtime then goes to bed. If I try and help with dinner he will shoo me away and if I approach him on the computer he doesn't like me touching or leaning on him. I will admit I am no saint as I sit on our large couch with my laptop when I get home but I feel like anytime I try and initiate a conversation or sex he totally shuts it down and it makes me feel super unattractive. It finally came to a head last night as we put dishes away and I asked him what was wrong and he finally broke down and said he was bored. I asked him to elaborate and he said that he loves his work and workouts and they are so very fun, but hates coming home because its boring. I sat him down and he says that if it continues like the way it is then he wants no part in it, but that he doesn't want to give up on us. I was trying unsuccessfully to not cry during this talk but he made no contact with me on the couch until the end where he gave me a hug. That night we both went to bed and he read a book and then rolled over and fell asleep and I put my feet up to him and hugged him but he went to bed. Today I only saw him briefly as I got home from school and he left for a night job he has but he barely talked to me and didn't kiss me or anything I am freaking out at this and I really don't know what to do and its really scary. I am kind of a mess and probably left out lots of stuff that I can clarify if need be. TL;DR: I am in a relationship with my boyfriend that has changed from "Bored" into "Not Interested"<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello /r/relationships I am a 22yo student with my 22yo live in boyfriend of almost 3 years our relationship started out great, but in the past few months I have noticed a significant change in my boyfriend. He has started shrinking away from my touch and barely speaks to me anymore. He will usually come home from work around the same time I am home from school and sit on his computer with headphones on until dinner and then he silently cooks then retreats to the headphones & computer until bedtime then goes to bed. If I try and help with dinner he will shoo me away and if I approach him on the computer he doesn't like me touching or leaning on him. I will admit I am no saint as I sit on our large couch with my laptop when I get home but I feel like anytime I try and initiate a conversation or sex he totally shuts it down and it makes me feel super unattractive. It finally came to a head last night as we put dishes away and I asked him what was wrong and he finally broke down and said he was bored. I asked him to elaborate and he said that he loves his work and workouts and they are so very fun, but hates coming home because its boring. I sat him down and he says that if it continues like the way it is then he wants no part in it, but that he doesn't want to give up on us. I was trying unsuccessfully to not cry during this talk but he made no contact with me on the couch until the end where he gave me a hug. That night we both went to bed and he read a book and then rolled over and fell asleep and I put my feet up to him and hugged him but he went to bed. Today I only saw him briefly as I got home from school and he left for a night job he has but he barely talked to me and didn't kiss me or anything I am freaking out at this and I really don't know what to do and its really scary. I am kind of a mess and probably left out lots of stuff that I can clarify if need be. TL;DR: My BF is bored and doesn't want to be him because he loves his work and workouts.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend has always been a little ADD but it seems to be worse lately and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. We both recently got video game systems and have been buying games. I'll buy a few games if there is a sale or something but for the most part I try to stick to a small number of unplayed games. He on the other hand now has three video games systems and probably 20-30 games for each system. The other day he bought two more games and was agonizing over the decision because he "didn't really want either one of them." I finally asked why he's even buying them? He has so many he hasn't played. He said he gets bored easily. It just seemed to be causing him a lot of stress trying to make a decision on a game, when it's not like he even needs to buy any. He hasn't finished any of the ones he has. The ADD part, honestly, isn't the most attractive thing in the world. If someone can't sit down and play a video game for more than 30 minutes at a time because of their lack of attention span... it's just not attractive. He doesn't read books either for this reason. The other issue is, he's always complaining about money and he has thousands of dollars in unplayed video games, still buying more in what seems to be a compulsive manner. I'm pretty responsible with money, I do spend money on myself from time to time and I'm not psycho about it, but I don't blow money I don't have or even money that I do have. He just seems to spend whatever on whoever, even stuff for his kid which the kid plays with one time and then discards and he will just turn around and buy something else for the kid. Am I being crazy? After all, it's his money, so I don't know why it bothers me so much.

BF of 4 years seems to be suffering from ADD and spends too much money on video games, I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. Am I right to be bothered by this?

boyfriend has ADD and seems to be buying games constantly and has thousands of unspent dollars. is it wrong of me to feel this way or am I overreacting?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend has always been a little ADD but it seems to be worse lately and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. We both recently got video game systems and have been buying games. I'll buy a few games if there is a sale or something but for the most part I try to stick to a small number of unplayed games. He on the other hand now has three video games systems and probably 20-30 games for each system. The other day he bought two more games and was agonizing over the decision because he "didn't really want either one of them." I finally asked why he's even buying them? He has so many he hasn't played. He said he gets bored easily. It just seemed to be causing him a lot of stress trying to make a decision on a game, when it's not like he even needs to buy any. He hasn't finished any of the ones he has. The ADD part, honestly, isn't the most attractive thing in the world. If someone can't sit down and play a video game for more than 30 minutes at a time because of their lack of attention span... it's just not attractive. He doesn't read books either for this reason. The other issue is, he's always complaining about money and he has thousands of dollars in unplayed video games, still buying more in what seems to be a compulsive manner. I'm pretty responsible with money, I do spend money on myself from time to time and I'm not psycho about it, but I don't blow money I don't have or even money that I do have. He just seems to spend whatever on whoever, even stuff for his kid which the kid plays with one time and then discards and he will just turn around and buy something else for the kid. Am I being crazy? After all, it's his money, so I don't know why it bothers me so much. TL;DR:

BF of 4 years seems to be suffering from ADD and spends too much money on video games, I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. Am I right to be bothered by this?<|endoftext|>

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boyfriend has ADD and seems to be buying games constantly and has thousands of unspent dollars. is it wrong of me to feel this way or am I overreacting?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend has always been a little ADD but it seems to be worse lately and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. We both recently got video game systems and have been buying games. I'll buy a few games if there is a sale or something but for the most part I try to stick to a small number of unplayed games. He on the other hand now has three video games systems and probably 20-30 games for each system. The other day he bought two more games and was agonizing over the decision because he "didn't really want either one of them." I finally asked why he's even buying them? He has so many he hasn't played. He said he gets bored easily. It just seemed to be causing him a lot of stress trying to make a decision on a game, when it's not like he even needs to buy any. He hasn't finished any of the ones he has. The ADD part, honestly, isn't the most attractive thing in the world. If someone can't sit down and play a video game for more than 30 minutes at a time because of their lack of attention span... it's just not attractive. He doesn't read books either for this reason. The other issue is, he's always complaining about money and he has thousands of dollars in unplayed video games, still buying more in what seems to be a compulsive manner. I'm pretty responsible with money, I do spend money on myself from time to time and I'm not psycho about it, but I don't blow money I don't have or even money that I do have. He just seems to spend whatever on whoever, even stuff for his kid which the kid plays with one time and then discards and he will just turn around and buy something else for the kid. Am I being crazy? After all, it's his money, so I don't know why it bothers me so much. TL;DR: BF of 4 years seems to be suffering from ADD and spends too much money on video games, I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. Am I right to be bothered by this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend has always been a little ADD but it seems to be worse lately and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. We both recently got video game systems and have been buying games. I'll buy a few games if there is a sale or something but for the most part I try to stick to a small number of unplayed games. He on the other hand now has three video games systems and probably 20-30 games for each system. The other day he bought two more games and was agonizing over the decision because he "didn't really want either one of them." I finally asked why he's even buying them? He has so many he hasn't played. He said he gets bored easily. It just seemed to be causing him a lot of stress trying to make a decision on a game, when it's not like he even needs to buy any. He hasn't finished any of the ones he has. The ADD part, honestly, isn't the most attractive thing in the world. If someone can't sit down and play a video game for more than 30 minutes at a time because of their lack of attention span... it's just not attractive. He doesn't read books either for this reason. The other issue is, he's always complaining about money and he has thousands of dollars in unplayed video games, still buying more in what seems to be a compulsive manner. I'm pretty responsible with money, I do spend money on myself from time to time and I'm not psycho about it, but I don't blow money I don't have or even money that I do have. He just seems to spend whatever on whoever, even stuff for his kid which the kid plays with one time and then discards and he will just turn around and buy something else for the kid. Am I being crazy? After all, it's his money, so I don't know why it bothers me so much. TL;DR: boyfriend has ADD and seems to be buying games constantly and has thousands of unspent dollars. is it wrong of me to feel this way or am I overreacting?<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. We recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. --- --- I finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). --- He claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not **MORE** important, it's incredibly..necessary. --- Lately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me... I cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. --- --- Well, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that **all** of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they **all** cheated on him. --- So now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities.

Boyfriend is lonely and has a busy schedule. He doesn't want to have sex anymore and it's a major source of stress and conflict. He won't seek help and I'm trying not to be selfish but I don't know how to deal with it.

Boyfriend won't have sex because he's depressed. I want to know what I can do to make him feel better about himself.

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Boyfriend is lonely and has a busy schedule. He doesn't want to have sex anymore and it's a major source of stress and conflict. He won't seek help and I'm trying not to be selfish but I don't know how to deal with it.<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend won't have sex because he's depressed. I want to know what I can do to make him feel better about himself.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. We recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. --- --- I finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). --- He claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not **MORE** important, it's incredibly..necessary. --- Lately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me... I cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. --- --- Well, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that **all** of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they **all** cheated on him. --- So now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities. TL;DR: Boyfriend is lonely and has a busy schedule. He doesn't want to have sex anymore and it's a major source of stress and conflict. He won't seek help and I'm trying not to be selfish but I don't know how to deal with it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I have busy schedules and three kids ranging in age. I am in college full time and I work part-time. He works full time on 12-hour weekend night shifts. We recently moved in together and had sex maybe once a week, twice at times. Now, I am lucky if I have sex once a month for any acceptable length of time. --- --- I finally brought it up to him just a few hours ago and told him that I understand we're busy, but we need time for sex. I value sex highly in my relationship because frankly, I love to have sex and I hate masturbating (probably because it's all I do now). --- He claims he just doesn't feel happy enough to want to have sex and that he'd rather sleep and it has nothing to do with me (true enough but what person won't take that personally?). He also was offended because he thinks that I believe sex is more important than our connection. And while it's not **MORE** important, it's incredibly..necessary. --- Lately, he's even been going to bed without so much as touching me and a few times just slept on the couch without saying a word to me... I cannot do a sexless relationship. It's just who I am. I love being touched and bonding physically. --- --- Well, fast forward a few hours when I'm preparing for sleep when he blurts out 3 or 4 names of his exes. He tells me that **all** of them apparently have had this *exact* conversation with him in this *exact* context before they **all** cheated on him. --- So now, here I am knowing that he's just going to distance himself from me even more and that every time I approach the subject, I'm a selfish asshole because he must be depressed, right? But he won't seek help and I don't think I can stay in a relationship where I'll never have sex just because he lived a carefree life up until now and has new responsibilities. TL;DR: Boyfriend won't have sex because he's depressed. I want to know what I can do to make him feel better about himself.<|endoftext|>

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**BACKGROUND** As the title says, our campus has had over 35 campus building evacuations in recent weeks. Initially individual buildings were emptied as threats were found written in bathroom stalls. About four days ago the threats began to arrive by email via anonymous remailers. That is also when multiple buildings began being threatened at once as well as when some of our dorms were first targeted. A fairly up to date list of threats, times, and targets is at [this link.]( The most recent article posted online with additional info is [here.]( Our campus police are working with the FBI, local law enforcement, US DOJ, and regional Joint Terrorism Task Force are all working on the case and we must have every bomb sniffing dog for 250 miles on call - those dogs are champs! A student has started a blog to collect information in one spot [here.] I don't post that though as anything more than a place to find info on when and where each of the threats are, and don't vouch for any of the analysis posted there. The posts are only covering publicly released information and so are necessarily incomplete. **QUESTIONS** I'm not expecting any of you to come up with a solution. Rather, I'm curious if anyone has stories of similar experiences or knows of other things we might do here. In particular, when the dorms were threatened the anxiety among our undergraduates notably elevated. Rumors of similar threats being made at Virginia Tech before the shootings there have surfaced, but those of of more prone to actually use our google-fu than believe rumors have come up empty when trying to find information on this. Are we missing something there? Related, do any of you know of instances where repeated threats were used to learn about the police response in advance of something more serious? Thanks for reading and sharing any ideas you have. Just had our first threats on a weekend earlier this evening and less than an hour after those cleared, we had our first seven building at once threat which is being cleared as I write this.

University of Pittsburgh campus has received 35 bomb threats in recent weeks, anything from the hive mind? Stories of similar experiences or know of other ways we might be doing this right?

University of Pittsburgh received 35 bomb threats in recent weeks, any wisdom from the hive mind?*

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **BACKGROUND** As the title says, our campus has had over 35 campus building evacuations in recent weeks. Initially individual buildings were emptied as threats were found written in bathroom stalls. About four days ago the threats began to arrive by email via anonymous remailers. That is also when multiple buildings began being threatened at once as well as when some of our dorms were first targeted. A fairly up to date list of threats, times, and targets is at [this link.]( The most recent article posted online with additional info is [here.]( Our campus police are working with the FBI, local law enforcement, US DOJ, and regional Joint Terrorism Task Force are all working on the case and we must have every bomb sniffing dog for 250 miles on call - those dogs are champs! A student has started a blog to collect information in one spot [here.] I don't post that though as anything more than a place to find info on when and where each of the threats are, and don't vouch for any of the analysis posted there. The posts are only covering publicly released information and so are necessarily incomplete. **QUESTIONS** I'm not expecting any of you to come up with a solution. Rather, I'm curious if anyone has stories of similar experiences or knows of other things we might do here. In particular, when the dorms were threatened the anxiety among our undergraduates notably elevated. Rumors of similar threats being made at Virginia Tech before the shootings there have surfaced, but those of of more prone to actually use our google-fu than believe rumors have come up empty when trying to find information on this. Are we missing something there? Related, do any of you know of instances where repeated threats were used to learn about the police response in advance of something more serious? Thanks for reading and sharing any ideas you have. Just had our first threats on a weekend earlier this evening and less than an hour after those cleared, we had our first seven building at once threat which is being cleared as I write this. TL;DR:

University of Pittsburgh campus has received 35 bomb threats in recent weeks, anything from the hive mind? Stories of similar experiences or know of other ways we might be doing this right?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **BACKGROUND** As the title says, our campus has had over 35 campus building evacuations in recent weeks. Initially individual buildings were emptied as threats were found written in bathroom stalls. About four days ago the threats began to arrive by email via anonymous remailers. That is also when multiple buildings began being threatened at once as well as when some of our dorms were first targeted. A fairly up to date list of threats, times, and targets is at [this link.]( The most recent article posted online with additional info is [here.]( Our campus police are working with the FBI, local law enforcement, US DOJ, and regional Joint Terrorism Task Force are all working on the case and we must have every bomb sniffing dog for 250 miles on call - those dogs are champs! A student has started a blog to collect information in one spot [here.] I don't post that though as anything more than a place to find info on when and where each of the threats are, and don't vouch for any of the analysis posted there. The posts are only covering publicly released information and so are necessarily incomplete. **QUESTIONS** I'm not expecting any of you to come up with a solution. Rather, I'm curious if anyone has stories of similar experiences or knows of other things we might do here. In particular, when the dorms were threatened the anxiety among our undergraduates notably elevated. Rumors of similar threats being made at Virginia Tech before the shootings there have surfaced, but those of of more prone to actually use our google-fu than believe rumors have come up empty when trying to find information on this. Are we missing something there? Related, do any of you know of instances where repeated threats were used to learn about the police response in advance of something more serious? Thanks for reading and sharing any ideas you have. Just had our first threats on a weekend earlier this evening and less than an hour after those cleared, we had our first seven building at once threat which is being cleared as I write this. TL;DR: University of Pittsburgh campus has received 35 bomb threats in recent weeks, anything from the hive mind? Stories of similar experiences or know of other ways we might be doing this right?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **BACKGROUND** As the title says, our campus has had over 35 campus building evacuations in recent weeks. Initially individual buildings were emptied as threats were found written in bathroom stalls. About four days ago the threats began to arrive by email via anonymous remailers. That is also when multiple buildings began being threatened at once as well as when some of our dorms were first targeted. A fairly up to date list of threats, times, and targets is at [this link.]( The most recent article posted online with additional info is [here.]( Our campus police are working with the FBI, local law enforcement, US DOJ, and regional Joint Terrorism Task Force are all working on the case and we must have every bomb sniffing dog for 250 miles on call - those dogs are champs! A student has started a blog to collect information in one spot [here.] I don't post that though as anything more than a place to find info on when and where each of the threats are, and don't vouch for any of the analysis posted there. The posts are only covering publicly released information and so are necessarily incomplete. **QUESTIONS** I'm not expecting any of you to come up with a solution. Rather, I'm curious if anyone has stories of similar experiences or knows of other things we might do here. In particular, when the dorms were threatened the anxiety among our undergraduates notably elevated. Rumors of similar threats being made at Virginia Tech before the shootings there have surfaced, but those of of more prone to actually use our google-fu than believe rumors have come up empty when trying to find information on this. Are we missing something there? Related, do any of you know of instances where repeated threats were used to learn about the police response in advance of something more serious? Thanks for reading and sharing any ideas you have. Just had our first threats on a weekend earlier this evening and less than an hour after those cleared, we had our first seven building at once threat which is being cleared as I write this. TL;DR: University of Pittsburgh received 35 bomb threats in recent weeks, any wisdom from the hive mind?*<|endoftext|>

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Hi Reddit, This is my first post on reddit ever, so please excuse me if I'm not doing this correctly. I met a very nice girl on plenty of fish about 4 months ago. We get a long great and we have both developed feelings for each other. We spend everyday with each other and were both very happy and content with the way things are going. I haven't been in many relationships before and my last one was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 years so the dynamics of seeing someone on a consistent basis is very new to me. During the first month of my new relationship we abstained from actual sex, we did however mess around and fore play with in the first 2 weeks of being together. After about a month into this relationship we started to have actual sex on a consistent and regular basis, (4-5 times a week). This has been the same up until about 2 weeks ago. I noticed she seems to not want it as much now, isn't as intimate with me and doesn't seem as interested. I asked her about this and she says she wants sex less for the build up for when we do have it. She assures me this is the only reason why we are having sex less, however she has a high sex drive, but wants to abstain. So I'm left a little confused, she has a high sex drive, we had a lot of good sex in the beginning however that has dropped off and now she wants to wait 2-3 days per "session" per say. The whole scenario is making me slightly insecure because it happened all of a sudden, or seemed too. What I'm trying to ask is - is this a normal thing for a relationship with the information I posted above? I'm posting due to my lack of experience with regular, consistent relationships in terms of sex. Is it normal for the amount of sex you have to slow down a few months in?

With gf for 4 months, had lots of sex at the start of our relationship. Now she wants it less, says because the build up makes it more passionate.

Girlfriend has a high sex drive, wants to abstain from sex for build up to sex. Is this normal for a "normal" relationship or is it a sign she wants sex more?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, This is my first post on reddit ever, so please excuse me if I'm not doing this correctly. I met a very nice girl on plenty of fish about 4 months ago. We get a long great and we have both developed feelings for each other. We spend everyday with each other and were both very happy and content with the way things are going. I haven't been in many relationships before and my last one was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 years so the dynamics of seeing someone on a consistent basis is very new to me. During the first month of my new relationship we abstained from actual sex, we did however mess around and fore play with in the first 2 weeks of being together. After about a month into this relationship we started to have actual sex on a consistent and regular basis, (4-5 times a week). This has been the same up until about 2 weeks ago. I noticed she seems to not want it as much now, isn't as intimate with me and doesn't seem as interested. I asked her about this and she says she wants sex less for the build up for when we do have it. She assures me this is the only reason why we are having sex less, however she has a high sex drive, but wants to abstain. So I'm left a little confused, she has a high sex drive, we had a lot of good sex in the beginning however that has dropped off and now she wants to wait 2-3 days per "session" per say. The whole scenario is making me slightly insecure because it happened all of a sudden, or seemed too. What I'm trying to ask is - is this a normal thing for a relationship with the information I posted above? I'm posting due to my lack of experience with regular, consistent relationships in terms of sex. Is it normal for the amount of sex you have to slow down a few months in? TL;DR:

With gf for 4 months, had lots of sex at the start of our relationship. Now she wants it less, says because the build up makes it more passionate.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, This is my first post on reddit ever, so please excuse me if I'm not doing this correctly. I met a very nice girl on plenty of fish about 4 months ago. We get a long great and we have both developed feelings for each other. We spend everyday with each other and were both very happy and content with the way things are going. I haven't been in many relationships before and my last one was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 years so the dynamics of seeing someone on a consistent basis is very new to me. During the first month of my new relationship we abstained from actual sex, we did however mess around and fore play with in the first 2 weeks of being together. After about a month into this relationship we started to have actual sex on a consistent and regular basis, (4-5 times a week). This has been the same up until about 2 weeks ago. I noticed she seems to not want it as much now, isn't as intimate with me and doesn't seem as interested. I asked her about this and she says she wants sex less for the build up for when we do have it. She assures me this is the only reason why we are having sex less, however she has a high sex drive, but wants to abstain. So I'm left a little confused, she has a high sex drive, we had a lot of good sex in the beginning however that has dropped off and now she wants to wait 2-3 days per "session" per say. The whole scenario is making me slightly insecure because it happened all of a sudden, or seemed too. What I'm trying to ask is - is this a normal thing for a relationship with the information I posted above? I'm posting due to my lack of experience with regular, consistent relationships in terms of sex. Is it normal for the amount of sex you have to slow down a few months in? TL;DR: With gf for 4 months, had lots of sex at the start of our relationship. Now she wants it less, says because the build up makes it more passionate.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, This is my first post on reddit ever, so please excuse me if I'm not doing this correctly. I met a very nice girl on plenty of fish about 4 months ago. We get a long great and we have both developed feelings for each other. We spend everyday with each other and were both very happy and content with the way things are going. I haven't been in many relationships before and my last one was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 years so the dynamics of seeing someone on a consistent basis is very new to me. During the first month of my new relationship we abstained from actual sex, we did however mess around and fore play with in the first 2 weeks of being together. After about a month into this relationship we started to have actual sex on a consistent and regular basis, (4-5 times a week). This has been the same up until about 2 weeks ago. I noticed she seems to not want it as much now, isn't as intimate with me and doesn't seem as interested. I asked her about this and she says she wants sex less for the build up for when we do have it. She assures me this is the only reason why we are having sex less, however she has a high sex drive, but wants to abstain. So I'm left a little confused, she has a high sex drive, we had a lot of good sex in the beginning however that has dropped off and now she wants to wait 2-3 days per "session" per say. The whole scenario is making me slightly insecure because it happened all of a sudden, or seemed too. What I'm trying to ask is - is this a normal thing for a relationship with the information I posted above? I'm posting due to my lack of experience with regular, consistent relationships in terms of sex. Is it normal for the amount of sex you have to slow down a few months in? TL;DR: Girlfriend has a high sex drive, wants to abstain from sex for build up to sex. Is this normal for a "normal" relationship or is it a sign she wants sex more?<|endoftext|>

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Hi everyone! So a little background before I get into the situation itself – my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half and moved in with each other back in June of this year. We have had the typical issues everyone does when it comes to roommates (cleaning, chore division, watching our money closely, etc.) and things are looking up for us. We’ve had some tough times together but we always managed to pull through. Now the current thing I need advice with: she has depression and anxiety. I knew when we started dating this would be something I’d have to learn and work with since I do not have either nor have dated someone with them. This explains why it’s hard for her to do simple tasks such as going to get her car registered without me, or simply asking for help from a store clerk. This also affects our relationship to a degree when it comes to us trying to explain our feelings or when I suggest her to help around the house or tell me how she feels. This has also affected our sex life which before was constant like every week or every other day but has now lowered to once every month or so. I do not understand anxiety and depression, and it’s hard for me to forget about it when I set off on her a bit with things, but I always apologize after and she understands so everything is forgiven. Is anyone in a relationship or was in one with someone who had anxiety and depression? How did you cope with it and work with them? Is there anything I can do to help?

What advice do you have on being with someone who has anxiety and depression?

I get anxiety and depression and it is causing me problems in my relationship. Advice on coping with it?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi everyone! So a little background before I get into the situation itself – my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half and moved in with each other back in June of this year. We have had the typical issues everyone does when it comes to roommates (cleaning, chore division, watching our money closely, etc.) and things are looking up for us. We’ve had some tough times together but we always managed to pull through. Now the current thing I need advice with: she has depression and anxiety. I knew when we started dating this would be something I’d have to learn and work with since I do not have either nor have dated someone with them. This explains why it’s hard for her to do simple tasks such as going to get her car registered without me, or simply asking for help from a store clerk. This also affects our relationship to a degree when it comes to us trying to explain our feelings or when I suggest her to help around the house or tell me how she feels. This has also affected our sex life which before was constant like every week or every other day but has now lowered to once every month or so. I do not understand anxiety and depression, and it’s hard for me to forget about it when I set off on her a bit with things, but I always apologize after and she understands so everything is forgiven. Is anyone in a relationship or was in one with someone who had anxiety and depression? How did you cope with it and work with them? Is there anything I can do to help? TL;DR:

What advice do you have on being with someone who has anxiety and depression?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi everyone! So a little background before I get into the situation itself – my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half and moved in with each other back in June of this year. We have had the typical issues everyone does when it comes to roommates (cleaning, chore division, watching our money closely, etc.) and things are looking up for us. We’ve had some tough times together but we always managed to pull through. Now the current thing I need advice with: she has depression and anxiety. I knew when we started dating this would be something I’d have to learn and work with since I do not have either nor have dated someone with them. This explains why it’s hard for her to do simple tasks such as going to get her car registered without me, or simply asking for help from a store clerk. This also affects our relationship to a degree when it comes to us trying to explain our feelings or when I suggest her to help around the house or tell me how she feels. This has also affected our sex life which before was constant like every week or every other day but has now lowered to once every month or so. I do not understand anxiety and depression, and it’s hard for me to forget about it when I set off on her a bit with things, but I always apologize after and she understands so everything is forgiven. Is anyone in a relationship or was in one with someone who had anxiety and depression? How did you cope with it and work with them? Is there anything I can do to help? TL;DR: What advice do you have on being with someone who has anxiety and depression?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi everyone! So a little background before I get into the situation itself – my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half and moved in with each other back in June of this year. We have had the typical issues everyone does when it comes to roommates (cleaning, chore division, watching our money closely, etc.) and things are looking up for us. We’ve had some tough times together but we always managed to pull through. Now the current thing I need advice with: she has depression and anxiety. I knew when we started dating this would be something I’d have to learn and work with since I do not have either nor have dated someone with them. This explains why it’s hard for her to do simple tasks such as going to get her car registered without me, or simply asking for help from a store clerk. This also affects our relationship to a degree when it comes to us trying to explain our feelings or when I suggest her to help around the house or tell me how she feels. This has also affected our sex life which before was constant like every week or every other day but has now lowered to once every month or so. I do not understand anxiety and depression, and it’s hard for me to forget about it when I set off on her a bit with things, but I always apologize after and she understands so everything is forgiven. Is anyone in a relationship or was in one with someone who had anxiety and depression? How did you cope with it and work with them? Is there anything I can do to help? TL;DR: I get anxiety and depression and it is causing me problems in my relationship. Advice on coping with it?<|endoftext|>

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Well, this happened about ten years ago, but whatever. So, at the time, I had just start dating a girl that I've known for a very long time. Things are going great. We have good chemistry and we hang out in coffee shops and that kinda stuff. She's artistic, and I'm playing it totally cool. We decide to start a relationship and I ask her to go to prom. **HERE COMES THE FUCK UP:** The day of prom, I put on my tux and look in the mirror. I look like fucking James Bond about to go to a swanky cocktail party. Brimming with confidence, I could have made ScarJo blush. I pick her up, and she's wearing a killer green dress. I'm on my game and things are going swimmingly. So, we get to prom and we are waiting in line for pictures. At this point, I can do no wrong and pretty much feel like the king of the world (Yeah, that *is* a Titanic reference). Then it happened. My asshole betrayed me. Without warning, I fart so audibly that there was no way of saying it wasn't me. I pretty much broke bad while breaking wind. No plausible deniability here. The worst part is that now we are just sitting there, in some hotel lobby, while my vicious stench fills the room. I'm painfully trying to hide my embarrassment as my date and I sit in silence. Fortunately, we had a great time and went on to date her for a couple more years. A few months later, she brought it up and we laughed really hard. She was a good sport about it.

TIFU by farting loud on prom date. Now, we're in hotel room, trying to hide stench of farting. Date laughed at me afterwards. Good times.

farted loudly while on prom date. Date and I are sitting in hotel room like rejects awaiting execution. Good times ensued.

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TIFU by farting loud on prom date. Now, we're in hotel room, trying to hide stench of farting. Date laughed at me afterwards. Good times.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Well, this happened about ten years ago, but whatever. So, at the time, I had just start dating a girl that I've known for a very long time. Things are going great. We have good chemistry and we hang out in coffee shops and that kinda stuff. She's artistic, and I'm playing it totally cool. We decide to start a relationship and I ask her to go to prom. **HERE COMES THE FUCK UP:** The day of prom, I put on my tux and look in the mirror. I look like fucking James Bond about to go to a swanky cocktail party. Brimming with confidence, I could have made ScarJo blush. I pick her up, and she's wearing a killer green dress. I'm on my game and things are going swimmingly. So, we get to prom and we are waiting in line for pictures. At this point, I can do no wrong and pretty much feel like the king of the world (Yeah, that *is* a Titanic reference). Then it happened. My asshole betrayed me. Without warning, I fart so audibly that there was no way of saying it wasn't me. I pretty much broke bad while breaking wind. No plausible deniability here. The worst part is that now we are just sitting there, in some hotel lobby, while my vicious stench fills the room. I'm painfully trying to hide my embarrassment as my date and I sit in silence. Fortunately, we had a great time and went on to date her for a couple more years. A few months later, she brought it up and we laughed really hard. She was a good sport about it. TL;DR: TIFU by farting loud on prom date. Now, we're in hotel room, trying to hide stench of farting. Date laughed at me afterwards. Good times.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Well, this happened about ten years ago, but whatever. So, at the time, I had just start dating a girl that I've known for a very long time. Things are going great. We have good chemistry and we hang out in coffee shops and that kinda stuff. She's artistic, and I'm playing it totally cool. We decide to start a relationship and I ask her to go to prom. **HERE COMES THE FUCK UP:** The day of prom, I put on my tux and look in the mirror. I look like fucking James Bond about to go to a swanky cocktail party. Brimming with confidence, I could have made ScarJo blush. I pick her up, and she's wearing a killer green dress. I'm on my game and things are going swimmingly. So, we get to prom and we are waiting in line for pictures. At this point, I can do no wrong and pretty much feel like the king of the world (Yeah, that *is* a Titanic reference). Then it happened. My asshole betrayed me. Without warning, I fart so audibly that there was no way of saying it wasn't me. I pretty much broke bad while breaking wind. No plausible deniability here. The worst part is that now we are just sitting there, in some hotel lobby, while my vicious stench fills the room. I'm painfully trying to hide my embarrassment as my date and I sit in silence. Fortunately, we had a great time and went on to date her for a couple more years. A few months later, she brought it up and we laughed really hard. She was a good sport about it. TL;DR: farted loudly while on prom date. Date and I are sitting in hotel room like rejects awaiting execution. Good times ensued.<|endoftext|>

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What do you do when you live an area where there are very few jobs in your field, but your spouse's industry is thriving? I live near a moderately large city (I’d prefer not to reveal). It's nowhere near as big as SF, LA, DC, or NY, but it’s still a well-populated area. I have been an editor my entire life. I moved to the region because my husband got a great job in the tech field, and he has a prosperous career here. I lived here for five months before I found an editing job, and I was elated to get it. I worked there for two years and then a few months ago, I got laid off with zero warning. The company wasn't doing well financially and had to let me go. They gave me a great letter of recommendation, I have awesome work samples and a fantastic resume, etc. etc. BUT it is taking me forever to find another job. I am almost afraid to look at the job listing sites every morning because I know I'll just be constantly disappointed. It's not that I don't hear back from most of the jobs I apply for (though that is the case), it's that there are RARELY any jobs posted that are relevant to my skill set. Plain and simple, this is not an area where publishing or web media thrives. Most jobs here are tech-related. I don't have the qualifications to work in the software industry. I want to work. I check 10 job websites every day, and I include telecommuting jobs in my search. I am just beginning to dread looking at job listing sites though. I feel like I'll never get a job in my field as long as we live here. I don't want to be an unemployed housewife the rest of my life. If I wasn't married, I'd be very open to moving to a different city, but I am, so it's not on the table.

I live in an area where there are few jobs in my field, but my husband's industry is thriving. I am very worried I will never find a job in my field again.

What can I do to get a job that has a high potential to find me? I am a married woman with a family to support. My husband's industry is thriving, but mine isn't.

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I live in an area where there are few jobs in my field, but my husband's industry is thriving. I am very worried I will never find a job in my field again.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: What do you do when you live an area where there are very few jobs in your field, but your spouse's industry is thriving? I live near a moderately large city (I’d prefer not to reveal). It's nowhere near as big as SF, LA, DC, or NY, but it’s still a well-populated area. I have been an editor my entire life. I moved to the region because my husband got a great job in the tech field, and he has a prosperous career here. I lived here for five months before I found an editing job, and I was elated to get it. I worked there for two years and then a few months ago, I got laid off with zero warning. The company wasn't doing well financially and had to let me go. They gave me a great letter of recommendation, I have awesome work samples and a fantastic resume, etc. etc. BUT it is taking me forever to find another job. I am almost afraid to look at the job listing sites every morning because I know I'll just be constantly disappointed. It's not that I don't hear back from most of the jobs I apply for (though that is the case), it's that there are RARELY any jobs posted that are relevant to my skill set. Plain and simple, this is not an area where publishing or web media thrives. Most jobs here are tech-related. I don't have the qualifications to work in the software industry. I want to work. I check 10 job websites every day, and I include telecommuting jobs in my search. I am just beginning to dread looking at job listing sites though. I feel like I'll never get a job in my field as long as we live here. I don't want to be an unemployed housewife the rest of my life. If I wasn't married, I'd be very open to moving to a different city, but I am, so it's not on the table. TL;DR: I live in an area where there are few jobs in my field, but my husband's industry is thriving. I am very worried I will never find a job in my field again.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: What do you do when you live an area where there are very few jobs in your field, but your spouse's industry is thriving? I live near a moderately large city (I’d prefer not to reveal). It's nowhere near as big as SF, LA, DC, or NY, but it’s still a well-populated area. I have been an editor my entire life. I moved to the region because my husband got a great job in the tech field, and he has a prosperous career here. I lived here for five months before I found an editing job, and I was elated to get it. I worked there for two years and then a few months ago, I got laid off with zero warning. The company wasn't doing well financially and had to let me go. They gave me a great letter of recommendation, I have awesome work samples and a fantastic resume, etc. etc. BUT it is taking me forever to find another job. I am almost afraid to look at the job listing sites every morning because I know I'll just be constantly disappointed. It's not that I don't hear back from most of the jobs I apply for (though that is the case), it's that there are RARELY any jobs posted that are relevant to my skill set. Plain and simple, this is not an area where publishing or web media thrives. Most jobs here are tech-related. I don't have the qualifications to work in the software industry. I want to work. I check 10 job websites every day, and I include telecommuting jobs in my search. I am just beginning to dread looking at job listing sites though. I feel like I'll never get a job in my field as long as we live here. I don't want to be an unemployed housewife the rest of my life. If I wasn't married, I'd be very open to moving to a different city, but I am, so it's not on the table. TL;DR: What can I do to get a job that has a high potential to find me? I am a married woman with a family to support. My husband's industry is thriving, but mine isn't.<|endoftext|>

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Yesterday, I finally became that girl who goes into the bathroom to cry while at work. I work at a domestic violence shelter, and normally I'm pretty capable of brushing things off. I'm somewhat ashamed to say that it was not secondhand truama that led me to weep in the bathroom stall like a little girl, but my coworkers. It had been a rough day, which are pretty normal around here, but it was a tolerable level of rougness. My patience was wearing thin and I just wanted to go to the support group for advocates and take a breather. Unfortunately, my coworker decided at that time to demand that I clean one of the recently vacated rooms. Not just clean it, but DEEP clean it. I'm not talking clean-it-like-your-parents-are-coming-home-after-a-weekend-away type clean. I mean, she wanted it hospital-grade clean. She wanted to be able to perform surgery on any surface of that room. The checklist she gave me- handwritten of course- had at least thirty tasks on it. For a dorm-sized room. I lost it, guys. I just completely lost my shit. I told her that I would be happy to help clean that room, but she was absolutely off her rocker if she thought I was going to spend the next four hours cleaning by myself. She was incensed at my apparent refusal, and though I tried to reiterate that I would do it, but not alone, she started screaming for the lead advocate to put me in my place. Well, the lead advocate just didn't want to deal with the situation and told me to just do it. I was absolutely frustrated, appalled, and overwhelmed. And so...I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I went and cleaned the stupid room.

My coworker and I got into a fight about the room I was supposed to clean and I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I cleaned it.

Coworker thinks it's okay to ask me to clean a room she thinks is a dumpster, so I cried. Then I cleaned it.

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My coworker and I got into a fight about the room I was supposed to clean and I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I cleaned it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Yesterday, I finally became that girl who goes into the bathroom to cry while at work. I work at a domestic violence shelter, and normally I'm pretty capable of brushing things off. I'm somewhat ashamed to say that it was not secondhand truama that led me to weep in the bathroom stall like a little girl, but my coworkers. It had been a rough day, which are pretty normal around here, but it was a tolerable level of rougness. My patience was wearing thin and I just wanted to go to the support group for advocates and take a breather. Unfortunately, my coworker decided at that time to demand that I clean one of the recently vacated rooms. Not just clean it, but DEEP clean it. I'm not talking clean-it-like-your-parents-are-coming-home-after-a-weekend-away type clean. I mean, she wanted it hospital-grade clean. She wanted to be able to perform surgery on any surface of that room. The checklist she gave me- handwritten of course- had at least thirty tasks on it. For a dorm-sized room. I lost it, guys. I just completely lost my shit. I told her that I would be happy to help clean that room, but she was absolutely off her rocker if she thought I was going to spend the next four hours cleaning by myself. She was incensed at my apparent refusal, and though I tried to reiterate that I would do it, but not alone, she started screaming for the lead advocate to put me in my place. Well, the lead advocate just didn't want to deal with the situation and told me to just do it. I was absolutely frustrated, appalled, and overwhelmed. And so...I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I went and cleaned the stupid room. TL;DR: My coworker and I got into a fight about the room I was supposed to clean and I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I cleaned it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Yesterday, I finally became that girl who goes into the bathroom to cry while at work. I work at a domestic violence shelter, and normally I'm pretty capable of brushing things off. I'm somewhat ashamed to say that it was not secondhand truama that led me to weep in the bathroom stall like a little girl, but my coworkers. It had been a rough day, which are pretty normal around here, but it was a tolerable level of rougness. My patience was wearing thin and I just wanted to go to the support group for advocates and take a breather. Unfortunately, my coworker decided at that time to demand that I clean one of the recently vacated rooms. Not just clean it, but DEEP clean it. I'm not talking clean-it-like-your-parents-are-coming-home-after-a-weekend-away type clean. I mean, she wanted it hospital-grade clean. She wanted to be able to perform surgery on any surface of that room. The checklist she gave me- handwritten of course- had at least thirty tasks on it. For a dorm-sized room. I lost it, guys. I just completely lost my shit. I told her that I would be happy to help clean that room, but she was absolutely off her rocker if she thought I was going to spend the next four hours cleaning by myself. She was incensed at my apparent refusal, and though I tried to reiterate that I would do it, but not alone, she started screaming for the lead advocate to put me in my place. Well, the lead advocate just didn't want to deal with the situation and told me to just do it. I was absolutely frustrated, appalled, and overwhelmed. And so...I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I went and cleaned the stupid room. TL;DR: Coworker thinks it's okay to ask me to clean a room she thinks is a dumpster, so I cried. Then I cleaned it.<|endoftext|>

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Hey reddit fans, here is my dilemma. My wife and I are going through a mostly amicable divorce. Things have been wrong for a while and while she loves me she is no longer in Love with me. She started hinting at this last fall and I have been blind to it as I do love her and tell her that still to today. Here is my dilemma; She found an old high school fuck buddy on Facebook. He too is in a failing relationship but has not had the talk with his wife. To keep the level of scrutiny he is under down he had her create a fake profile on Facebook as a member of the opposite sex so their most innocent of daily banter is hidden, less obvious. She came clean to me about 6 weeks ago about him when I caught her chatting him (I am a service technician and turned screen sharing on on her CPU). He has 4 children with his current wife and a previous; so that she can surreptitiously be part of their lives he has pushed them to friend her fake profile. When we, as a family, took our children to a Sox game this past week, I posted an image of us on Facebook and tagged her. The following morning he went off on her and she unfriended me. I love this woman and want her in my life (loser) but she is killing me.

Wife is cheating on me with a guy she has known for years, but has a kid with. He is in a failing relationship with his wife and has to create a fake profile on Facebook so their kid can friend her. Am I stupid for not getting the hint and doing something about it?

Wife is cheating on me with a high school fuck buddy and I dont know if it is a bad idea to include her in all of our family photos and the Facebook posts of me and the kids.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit fans, here is my dilemma. My wife and I are going through a mostly amicable divorce. Things have been wrong for a while and while she loves me she is no longer in Love with me. She started hinting at this last fall and I have been blind to it as I do love her and tell her that still to today. Here is my dilemma; She found an old high school fuck buddy on Facebook. He too is in a failing relationship but has not had the talk with his wife. To keep the level of scrutiny he is under down he had her create a fake profile on Facebook as a member of the opposite sex so their most innocent of daily banter is hidden, less obvious. She came clean to me about 6 weeks ago about him when I caught her chatting him (I am a service technician and turned screen sharing on on her CPU). He has 4 children with his current wife and a previous; so that she can surreptitiously be part of their lives he has pushed them to friend her fake profile. When we, as a family, took our children to a Sox game this past week, I posted an image of us on Facebook and tagged her. The following morning he went off on her and she unfriended me. I love this woman and want her in my life (loser) but she is killing me. TL;DR:

Wife is cheating on me with a guy she has known for years, but has a kid with. He is in a failing relationship with his wife and has to create a fake profile on Facebook so their kid can friend her. Am I stupid for not getting the hint and doing something about it?<|endoftext|>

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Wife is cheating on me with a high school fuck buddy and I dont know if it is a bad idea to include her in all of our family photos and the Facebook posts of me and the kids.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit fans, here is my dilemma. My wife and I are going through a mostly amicable divorce. Things have been wrong for a while and while she loves me she is no longer in Love with me. She started hinting at this last fall and I have been blind to it as I do love her and tell her that still to today. Here is my dilemma; She found an old high school fuck buddy on Facebook. He too is in a failing relationship but has not had the talk with his wife. To keep the level of scrutiny he is under down he had her create a fake profile on Facebook as a member of the opposite sex so their most innocent of daily banter is hidden, less obvious. She came clean to me about 6 weeks ago about him when I caught her chatting him (I am a service technician and turned screen sharing on on her CPU). He has 4 children with his current wife and a previous; so that she can surreptitiously be part of their lives he has pushed them to friend her fake profile. When we, as a family, took our children to a Sox game this past week, I posted an image of us on Facebook and tagged her. The following morning he went off on her and she unfriended me. I love this woman and want her in my life (loser) but she is killing me. TL;DR: Wife is cheating on me with a guy she has known for years, but has a kid with. He is in a failing relationship with his wife and has to create a fake profile on Facebook so their kid can friend her. Am I stupid for not getting the hint and doing something about it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit fans, here is my dilemma. My wife and I are going through a mostly amicable divorce. Things have been wrong for a while and while she loves me she is no longer in Love with me. She started hinting at this last fall and I have been blind to it as I do love her and tell her that still to today. Here is my dilemma; She found an old high school fuck buddy on Facebook. He too is in a failing relationship but has not had the talk with his wife. To keep the level of scrutiny he is under down he had her create a fake profile on Facebook as a member of the opposite sex so their most innocent of daily banter is hidden, less obvious. She came clean to me about 6 weeks ago about him when I caught her chatting him (I am a service technician and turned screen sharing on on her CPU). He has 4 children with his current wife and a previous; so that she can surreptitiously be part of their lives he has pushed them to friend her fake profile. When we, as a family, took our children to a Sox game this past week, I posted an image of us on Facebook and tagged her. The following morning he went off on her and she unfriended me. I love this woman and want her in my life (loser) but she is killing me. TL;DR: Wife is cheating on me with a high school fuck buddy and I dont know if it is a bad idea to include her in all of our family photos and the Facebook posts of me and the kids.<|endoftext|>

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I currently live in Texas and I plan on going to university in England, and I think I want to stay there for a while. Before I go to university, though, I wanted to plan a road trip across the US. Obviously this is going to be expensive and I plan on saving money (I already have a lot saved up), but I'm still unsure of the route. I've lived in a couple different places and I've traveled a lot inside the US, but there's still a lot that I haven't seen. I want to make the route as short as possible while still visiting the places I want. So, in your opinion, should I try and go mostly places that mean something to me from my childhood, or should I try to go mostly to places that I've never seen?

In my road trip across the US, should I try to revisit childhood memories, or should I go places that I've never been?

What's the best route for a road trip across the US? Should I go places that mean something to me from my childhood, or should I try to go places I've never seen?

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In my road trip across the US, should I try to revisit childhood memories, or should I go places that I've never been?<|endoftext|>

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What's the best route for a road trip across the US? Should I go places that mean something to me from my childhood, or should I try to go places I've never seen?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I currently live in Texas and I plan on going to university in England, and I think I want to stay there for a while. Before I go to university, though, I wanted to plan a road trip across the US. Obviously this is going to be expensive and I plan on saving money (I already have a lot saved up), but I'm still unsure of the route. I've lived in a couple different places and I've traveled a lot inside the US, but there's still a lot that I haven't seen. I want to make the route as short as possible while still visiting the places I want. So, in your opinion, should I try and go mostly places that mean something to me from my childhood, or should I try to go mostly to places that I've never seen? TL;DR: In my road trip across the US, should I try to revisit childhood memories, or should I go places that I've never been?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I currently live in Texas and I plan on going to university in England, and I think I want to stay there for a while. Before I go to university, though, I wanted to plan a road trip across the US. Obviously this is going to be expensive and I plan on saving money (I already have a lot saved up), but I'm still unsure of the route. I've lived in a couple different places and I've traveled a lot inside the US, but there's still a lot that I haven't seen. I want to make the route as short as possible while still visiting the places I want. So, in your opinion, should I try and go mostly places that mean something to me from my childhood, or should I try to go mostly to places that I've never seen? TL;DR: What's the best route for a road trip across the US? Should I go places that mean something to me from my childhood, or should I try to go places I've never seen?<|endoftext|>

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I've never felt like I've fucked up this bad before. I've faced layoffs, college, military service, crippling debt, marriage. Despite any questionable decision related to any of these and more, I've been able to pick myself up and kept moving forward. But, then again, I've never lost someone I've ever loved before Two years ago I met a woman that challenged my perspective on pretty much everything. I didn't agree with everything she said or believed in and I got to impart some of my hard earned wisdom too, but ... I became a different person from having met her. I found excitement in living, trying, and growing again. Passion became a staple in my day-to-day routine. We maintained a long distance relationship and didn't see each other often, but when we did, I had a hard time imagining wanting to spend that time with anyone else. ... Long story short. She's since cut me out of her life. She married a guy on a whim that she knew for less than a month and has made her new-found priorities clear. It's been over a month since I've heard from her and I feel the absence, aching, and longing every day. I'm finding it hard to enjoy even the smallest things she introduced to my life. I feel like I'm scuba diving scuba diving, I feel suspended, a spectator in my life, and it takes concerted effort and concentration to breathe. I knew when I met her she was something special, but I was afraid to give up my life, what I had built, and take a chance on her. Every day for the past month, I've felt like that was the biggest mistake I've made in my life. I see no way of ever getting her back. I know I'll have to move on, but I don't know how. I don't know how to let go. As an INTJ and Cancer, letting go isn't my strong suit. In the meantime, I'm suffering, suffocating on regret, and I just want to feel alive again, not hollow and aching. I want to like myself again, like I did when I was with her.

The girl I loved married someone else. I feel like not risking everything to be with her when I had the chance was a huge mistake. Now I'm left with a void in my chest, crippling self doubt, and I don't know how to make any of it better.

I'm struggling to let go of someone that took me on a great ride and to enjoy what I have left with someone who made me do things I still can't fully understand. I feel like I'm suffocating and need to hear some good advice.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've never felt like I've fucked up this bad before. I've faced layoffs, college, military service, crippling debt, marriage. Despite any questionable decision related to any of these and more, I've been able to pick myself up and kept moving forward. But, then again, I've never lost someone I've ever loved before Two years ago I met a woman that challenged my perspective on pretty much everything. I didn't agree with everything she said or believed in and I got to impart some of my hard earned wisdom too, but... I became a different person from having met her. I found excitement in living, trying, and growing again. Passion became a staple in my day-to-day routine. We maintained a long distance relationship and didn't see each other often, but when we did, I had a hard time imagining wanting to spend that time with anyone else.... Long story short. She's since cut me out of her life. She married a guy on a whim that she knew for less than a month and has made her new-found priorities clear. It's been over a month since I've heard from her and I feel the absence, aching, and longing every day. I'm finding it hard to enjoy even the smallest things she introduced to my life. I feel like I'm scuba diving scuba diving, I feel suspended, a spectator in my life, and it takes concerted effort and concentration to breathe. I knew when I met her she was something special, but I was afraid to give up my life, what I had built, and take a chance on her. Every day for the past month, I've felt like that was the biggest mistake I've made in my life. I see no way of ever getting her back. I know I'll have to move on, but I don't know how. I don't know how to let go. As an INTJ and Cancer, letting go isn't my strong suit. In the meantime, I'm suffering, suffocating on regret, and I just want to feel alive again, not hollow and aching. I want to like myself again, like I did when I was with her. TL;DR:

The girl I loved married someone else. I feel like not risking everything to be with her when I had the chance was a huge mistake. Now I'm left with a void in my chest, crippling self doubt, and I don't know how to make any of it better.<|endoftext|>

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I'm struggling to let go of someone that took me on a great ride and to enjoy what I have left with someone who made me do things I still can't fully understand. I feel like I'm suffocating and need to hear some good advice.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've never felt like I've fucked up this bad before. I've faced layoffs, college, military service, crippling debt, marriage. Despite any questionable decision related to any of these and more, I've been able to pick myself up and kept moving forward. But, then again, I've never lost someone I've ever loved before Two years ago I met a woman that challenged my perspective on pretty much everything. I didn't agree with everything she said or believed in and I got to impart some of my hard earned wisdom too, but... I became a different person from having met her. I found excitement in living, trying, and growing again. Passion became a staple in my day-to-day routine. We maintained a long distance relationship and didn't see each other often, but when we did, I had a hard time imagining wanting to spend that time with anyone else.... Long story short. She's since cut me out of her life. She married a guy on a whim that she knew for less than a month and has made her new-found priorities clear. It's been over a month since I've heard from her and I feel the absence, aching, and longing every day. I'm finding it hard to enjoy even the smallest things she introduced to my life. I feel like I'm scuba diving scuba diving, I feel suspended, a spectator in my life, and it takes concerted effort and concentration to breathe. I knew when I met her she was something special, but I was afraid to give up my life, what I had built, and take a chance on her. Every day for the past month, I've felt like that was the biggest mistake I've made in my life. I see no way of ever getting her back. I know I'll have to move on, but I don't know how. I don't know how to let go. As an INTJ and Cancer, letting go isn't my strong suit. In the meantime, I'm suffering, suffocating on regret, and I just want to feel alive again, not hollow and aching. I want to like myself again, like I did when I was with her. TL;DR: The girl I loved married someone else. I feel like not risking everything to be with her when I had the chance was a huge mistake. Now I'm left with a void in my chest, crippling self doubt, and I don't know how to make any of it better.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've never felt like I've fucked up this bad before. I've faced layoffs, college, military service, crippling debt, marriage. Despite any questionable decision related to any of these and more, I've been able to pick myself up and kept moving forward. But, then again, I've never lost someone I've ever loved before Two years ago I met a woman that challenged my perspective on pretty much everything. I didn't agree with everything she said or believed in and I got to impart some of my hard earned wisdom too, but... I became a different person from having met her. I found excitement in living, trying, and growing again. Passion became a staple in my day-to-day routine. We maintained a long distance relationship and didn't see each other often, but when we did, I had a hard time imagining wanting to spend that time with anyone else.... Long story short. She's since cut me out of her life. She married a guy on a whim that she knew for less than a month and has made her new-found priorities clear. It's been over a month since I've heard from her and I feel the absence, aching, and longing every day. I'm finding it hard to enjoy even the smallest things she introduced to my life. I feel like I'm scuba diving scuba diving, I feel suspended, a spectator in my life, and it takes concerted effort and concentration to breathe. I knew when I met her she was something special, but I was afraid to give up my life, what I had built, and take a chance on her. Every day for the past month, I've felt like that was the biggest mistake I've made in my life. I see no way of ever getting her back. I know I'll have to move on, but I don't know how. I don't know how to let go. As an INTJ and Cancer, letting go isn't my strong suit. In the meantime, I'm suffering, suffocating on regret, and I just want to feel alive again, not hollow and aching. I want to like myself again, like I did when I was with her. TL;DR: I'm struggling to let go of someone that took me on a great ride and to enjoy what I have left with someone who made me do things I still can't fully understand. I feel like I'm suffocating and need to hear some good advice.<|endoftext|>

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For anyone interested, here was my original post: The comments on that post were very helpful, and I thank you. As a followup, I had sent her an email, explaining my feelings which basically were: - I like her - I thought we have potential - I can understand / appreciate / respect her desire to take a step back. I also gave her an out, just in case that step back was her really wanting to end it, but wanting to be more gentle or nice. I asked for clarification on what "not hang out as much as we do" meant to her. She responded by complementing my thoughtfulness and communication, but suggested that we hang out once a month as friends until she can figure out her feelings. Is there anyone who can interpret this for me ? ;) On the one hand, I'm glad she didn't take the out. I guess that means she's really still unsure, and thinks there might be some potential. On the other hand, hanging out once a month as friends makes me sad. I definitely don't want to smother her or come off as clingy, but it feels pretty hard to go from hanging out at least a couple of times a week (and having the desire to hang out more and push the relationship forward) to once a month as friends. My plan right now is to go ahead with it for a month, maybe two, see if anything changes at all between us. If there are positive signs, great, if not, I might have to move on I think. I can't go 6 months seeing someone I care about only once a month, and treating someone I want to and have kissed as just a friend.

SO of couple months is taking a step back, but saying she wants to be friends. Can't tell if she really wants to end it. Is this a good idea? Anyone with experience here?

Is hanging out once a month as friends really the end of it, or can we go back to hanging out at least a couple of times a week if she's still unsure of her feelings?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For anyone interested, here was my original post: The comments on that post were very helpful, and I thank you. As a followup, I had sent her an email, explaining my feelings which basically were: - I like her - I thought we have potential - I can understand / appreciate / respect her desire to take a step back. I also gave her an out, just in case that step back was her really wanting to end it, but wanting to be more gentle or nice. I asked for clarification on what "not hang out as much as we do" meant to her. She responded by complementing my thoughtfulness and communication, but suggested that we hang out once a month as friends until she can figure out her feelings. Is there anyone who can interpret this for me? ;) On the one hand, I'm glad she didn't take the out. I guess that means she's really still unsure, and thinks there might be some potential. On the other hand, hanging out once a month as friends makes me sad. I definitely don't want to smother her or come off as clingy, but it feels pretty hard to go from hanging out at least a couple of times a week (and having the desire to hang out more and push the relationship forward) to once a month as friends. My plan right now is to go ahead with it for a month, maybe two, see if anything changes at all between us. If there are positive signs, great, if not, I might have to move on I think. I can't go 6 months seeing someone I care about only once a month, and treating someone I want to and have kissed as just a friend. TL;DR:

SO of couple months is taking a step back, but saying she wants to be friends. Can't tell if she really wants to end it. Is this a good idea? Anyone with experience here?<|endoftext|>

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Is hanging out once a month as friends really the end of it, or can we go back to hanging out at least a couple of times a week if she's still unsure of her feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For anyone interested, here was my original post: The comments on that post were very helpful, and I thank you. As a followup, I had sent her an email, explaining my feelings which basically were: - I like her - I thought we have potential - I can understand / appreciate / respect her desire to take a step back. I also gave her an out, just in case that step back was her really wanting to end it, but wanting to be more gentle or nice. I asked for clarification on what "not hang out as much as we do" meant to her. She responded by complementing my thoughtfulness and communication, but suggested that we hang out once a month as friends until she can figure out her feelings. Is there anyone who can interpret this for me? ;) On the one hand, I'm glad she didn't take the out. I guess that means she's really still unsure, and thinks there might be some potential. On the other hand, hanging out once a month as friends makes me sad. I definitely don't want to smother her or come off as clingy, but it feels pretty hard to go from hanging out at least a couple of times a week (and having the desire to hang out more and push the relationship forward) to once a month as friends. My plan right now is to go ahead with it for a month, maybe two, see if anything changes at all between us. If there are positive signs, great, if not, I might have to move on I think. I can't go 6 months seeing someone I care about only once a month, and treating someone I want to and have kissed as just a friend. TL;DR: SO of couple months is taking a step back, but saying she wants to be friends. Can't tell if she really wants to end it. Is this a good idea? Anyone with experience here?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For anyone interested, here was my original post: The comments on that post were very helpful, and I thank you. As a followup, I had sent her an email, explaining my feelings which basically were: - I like her - I thought we have potential - I can understand / appreciate / respect her desire to take a step back. I also gave her an out, just in case that step back was her really wanting to end it, but wanting to be more gentle or nice. I asked for clarification on what "not hang out as much as we do" meant to her. She responded by complementing my thoughtfulness and communication, but suggested that we hang out once a month as friends until she can figure out her feelings. Is there anyone who can interpret this for me? ;) On the one hand, I'm glad she didn't take the out. I guess that means she's really still unsure, and thinks there might be some potential. On the other hand, hanging out once a month as friends makes me sad. I definitely don't want to smother her or come off as clingy, but it feels pretty hard to go from hanging out at least a couple of times a week (and having the desire to hang out more and push the relationship forward) to once a month as friends. My plan right now is to go ahead with it for a month, maybe two, see if anything changes at all between us. If there are positive signs, great, if not, I might have to move on I think. I can't go 6 months seeing someone I care about only once a month, and treating someone I want to and have kissed as just a friend. TL;DR: Is hanging out once a month as friends really the end of it, or can we go back to hanging out at least a couple of times a week if she's still unsure of her feelings?<|endoftext|>

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Ok so this girl and I have been good friends for a while now, we are also coworkers. Everyone at work has asked if we we are a thing before, she is extremely flirtatious, when we are hanging out she always cuddles up close to me , she lays her head on my shoulder and lets me put my arm around her. having lunch the other day she started caressing my knee. I've told her I like her before and she told me she has a boyfriend so we can't do anything but then she continues to do all the same things. I don't want to try anything if she honestly isn't interested but it really seems like she is.

Girl is extremely flirty with me, given we have a mutual workplace crush on each other, she has a boyfriend, don't want to ruin friendship but don't know what to do.

woman I like is flirting with me but she has a boyfriend and I don't want to push it. What do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok so this girl and I have been good friends for a while now, we are also coworkers. Everyone at work has asked if we we are a thing before, she is extremely flirtatious, when we are hanging out she always cuddles up close to me, she lays her head on my shoulder and lets me put my arm around her. having lunch the other day she started caressing my knee. I've told her I like her before and she told me she has a boyfriend so we can't do anything but then she continues to do all the same things. I don't want to try anything if she honestly isn't interested but it really seems like she is. TL;DR:

Girl is extremely flirty with me, given we have a mutual workplace crush on each other, she has a boyfriend, don't want to ruin friendship but don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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woman I like is flirting with me but she has a boyfriend and I don't want to push it. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok so this girl and I have been good friends for a while now, we are also coworkers. Everyone at work has asked if we we are a thing before, she is extremely flirtatious, when we are hanging out she always cuddles up close to me, she lays her head on my shoulder and lets me put my arm around her. having lunch the other day she started caressing my knee. I've told her I like her before and she told me she has a boyfriend so we can't do anything but then she continues to do all the same things. I don't want to try anything if she honestly isn't interested but it really seems like she is. TL;DR: Girl is extremely flirty with me, given we have a mutual workplace crush on each other, she has a boyfriend, don't want to ruin friendship but don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok so this girl and I have been good friends for a while now, we are also coworkers. Everyone at work has asked if we we are a thing before, she is extremely flirtatious, when we are hanging out she always cuddles up close to me, she lays her head on my shoulder and lets me put my arm around her. having lunch the other day she started caressing my knee. I've told her I like her before and she told me she has a boyfriend so we can't do anything but then she continues to do all the same things. I don't want to try anything if she honestly isn't interested but it really seems like she is. TL;DR: woman I like is flirting with me but she has a boyfriend and I don't want to push it. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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Here is my idea. I have never been good at finances. Im recently out of college (6 months) make a reasonable income and am still being (for lack of better term) financially stupid. This new year is it. Ive started using YNAB and plan on becoming as avid about my finances as I am the gym. The problem I have always had is I tend to feel ashamed by my finances. So I am looking for someone that is willing to take January 1st and change their financial future. Lets work together to help and prod each other in the right direction. It worked for me going to the gym, It should work here. There is no financial commitment here, just two people helping each other mentally. Just like AA. Ideally someone in the same position (recent college grad, student loan debt, cc debt, and active night life) would be best, but anyone willing will do. If this already exists point me in the right direction, if not Im willing to see if this will work.

Looking to setup a financial partner to help each other take steps in the right direction.

The goal is to allow each other to be financially responsible and mentally healthy.

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Looking to setup a financial partner to help each other take steps in the right direction.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here is my idea. I have never been good at finances. Im recently out of college (6 months) make a reasonable income and am still being (for lack of better term) financially stupid. This new year is it. Ive started using YNAB and plan on becoming as avid about my finances as I am the gym. The problem I have always had is I tend to feel ashamed by my finances. So I am looking for someone that is willing to take January 1st and change their financial future. Lets work together to help and prod each other in the right direction. It worked for me going to the gym, It should work here. There is no financial commitment here, just two people helping each other mentally. Just like AA. Ideally someone in the same position (recent college grad, student loan debt, cc debt, and active night life) would be best, but anyone willing will do. If this already exists point me in the right direction, if not Im willing to see if this will work. TL;DR: Looking to setup a financial partner to help each other take steps in the right direction.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here is my idea. I have never been good at finances. Im recently out of college (6 months) make a reasonable income and am still being (for lack of better term) financially stupid. This new year is it. Ive started using YNAB and plan on becoming as avid about my finances as I am the gym. The problem I have always had is I tend to feel ashamed by my finances. So I am looking for someone that is willing to take January 1st and change their financial future. Lets work together to help and prod each other in the right direction. It worked for me going to the gym, It should work here. There is no financial commitment here, just two people helping each other mentally. Just like AA. Ideally someone in the same position (recent college grad, student loan debt, cc debt, and active night life) would be best, but anyone willing will do. If this already exists point me in the right direction, if not Im willing to see if this will work. TL;DR: The goal is to allow each other to be financially responsible and mentally healthy.<|endoftext|>

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For a little back story, this girl and I are both in a post bac for medical school with conditional acceptances, but different programs at the same school. We have crossed paths before, but haven't had classes with one another. I asked her out over spring break and we went out about 4 times in a week all lasting a very long time (10-12 hrs a date). Furthest we have gotten intimately is making out once on the third date, and her kissing me good bye on our last date 2 weeks ago. Basically, now every time I ask her out she says she busy studying which could be true since our program ends soon and we are both super busy, but I just feel like if you like someone you'll find time for them. Texting has always been very terse and I have always initiated. I recently texted her today something stupid with no response and feel like maybe its time to just cut communication for awhile and focus on school until after her MCAT which is at the end of May. She said she doesn't want the reason for her not to get into medical school to be because she didn't study enough, but can people really study all day and not take breaks or is she just not interested anymore and just trying to find a way out. I mean if anyone should know how busy she is, I should since both our programs take up a lot of time.

Every time I ask out this girl she says she busy studying, but I am really trying to see if she is really. Texting is slow, should I just cut off communication until after her MCAT and move on with my life?

go out with girl a lot, she is busy studying during our courses, not sure if she still likes me or if its time to cut communication and focus on school.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For a little back story, this girl and I are both in a post bac for medical school with conditional acceptances, but different programs at the same school. We have crossed paths before, but haven't had classes with one another. I asked her out over spring break and we went out about 4 times in a week all lasting a very long time (10-12 hrs a date). Furthest we have gotten intimately is making out once on the third date, and her kissing me good bye on our last date 2 weeks ago. Basically, now every time I ask her out she says she busy studying which could be true since our program ends soon and we are both super busy, but I just feel like if you like someone you'll find time for them. Texting has always been very terse and I have always initiated. I recently texted her today something stupid with no response and feel like maybe its time to just cut communication for awhile and focus on school until after her MCAT which is at the end of May. She said she doesn't want the reason for her not to get into medical school to be because she didn't study enough, but can people really study all day and not take breaks or is she just not interested anymore and just trying to find a way out. I mean if anyone should know how busy she is, I should since both our programs take up a lot of time. TL;DR:

Every time I ask out this girl she says she busy studying, but I am really trying to see if she is really. Texting is slow, should I just cut off communication until after her MCAT and move on with my life?<|endoftext|>

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go out with girl a lot, she is busy studying during our courses, not sure if she still likes me or if its time to cut communication and focus on school.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For a little back story, this girl and I are both in a post bac for medical school with conditional acceptances, but different programs at the same school. We have crossed paths before, but haven't had classes with one another. I asked her out over spring break and we went out about 4 times in a week all lasting a very long time (10-12 hrs a date). Furthest we have gotten intimately is making out once on the third date, and her kissing me good bye on our last date 2 weeks ago. Basically, now every time I ask her out she says she busy studying which could be true since our program ends soon and we are both super busy, but I just feel like if you like someone you'll find time for them. Texting has always been very terse and I have always initiated. I recently texted her today something stupid with no response and feel like maybe its time to just cut communication for awhile and focus on school until after her MCAT which is at the end of May. She said she doesn't want the reason for her not to get into medical school to be because she didn't study enough, but can people really study all day and not take breaks or is she just not interested anymore and just trying to find a way out. I mean if anyone should know how busy she is, I should since both our programs take up a lot of time. TL;DR: Every time I ask out this girl she says she busy studying, but I am really trying to see if she is really. Texting is slow, should I just cut off communication until after her MCAT and move on with my life?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For a little back story, this girl and I are both in a post bac for medical school with conditional acceptances, but different programs at the same school. We have crossed paths before, but haven't had classes with one another. I asked her out over spring break and we went out about 4 times in a week all lasting a very long time (10-12 hrs a date). Furthest we have gotten intimately is making out once on the third date, and her kissing me good bye on our last date 2 weeks ago. Basically, now every time I ask her out she says she busy studying which could be true since our program ends soon and we are both super busy, but I just feel like if you like someone you'll find time for them. Texting has always been very terse and I have always initiated. I recently texted her today something stupid with no response and feel like maybe its time to just cut communication for awhile and focus on school until after her MCAT which is at the end of May. She said she doesn't want the reason for her not to get into medical school to be because she didn't study enough, but can people really study all day and not take breaks or is she just not interested anymore and just trying to find a way out. I mean if anyone should know how busy she is, I should since both our programs take up a lot of time. TL;DR: go out with girl a lot, she is busy studying during our courses, not sure if she still likes me or if its time to cut communication and focus on school.<|endoftext|>

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I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of "emotionally shut off" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. As far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say "I love you" when they said it to me I would just say "I know." My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well. Our relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. I have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually "IN" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of "I know" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. So what do you think my fellow redditors?

I am scared to tell my boyfriend that I love him for fear of his typical reply of "I know" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward.

Currently in a healthy relationship with an amazing person but I think I love him. Should I tell him or should I leave it alone?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of "emotionally shut off" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. As far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say "I love you" when they said it to me I would just say "I know." My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well. Our relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. I have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually "IN" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of "I know" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. So what do you think my fellow redditors? TL;DR:

I am scared to tell my boyfriend that I love him for fear of his typical reply of "I know" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward.<|endoftext|>

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Currently in a healthy relationship with an amazing person but I think I love him. Should I tell him or should I leave it alone?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of "emotionally shut off" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. As far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say "I love you" when they said it to me I would just say "I know." My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well. Our relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. I have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually "IN" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of "I know" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. So what do you think my fellow redditors? TL;DR: I am scared to tell my boyfriend that I love him for fear of his typical reply of "I know" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of "emotionally shut off" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. As far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say "I love you" when they said it to me I would just say "I know." My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well. Our relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. I have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually "IN" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of "I know" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. So what do you think my fellow redditors? TL;DR: Currently in a healthy relationship with an amazing person but I think I love him. Should I tell him or should I leave it alone?<|endoftext|>

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I'm going away for a year to study abroad and yesterday my boyfriend admitted that he doesn't see a future with me and that he doubts I'm the one but he still loves me. I love him too and I know the future is uncertain at this age but I wanted a future and it seems he doesn't. We can't imagine life without each other right now but I need advice on whether we should end things now because they can't be the same or if I should stay with him hoping a great couple months will change his mind. Maybe not about long distance but about getting back together when I'm back.

Boyfriend says he wants to stay together until the end of the semester but doesn't see a future with me right now. Need advice on whether to end things now or keep hoping for a great couple months.

Boyfriend doesn't see a future with me but still loves me and wants to stay together until the end of the semester. Should we break up now or hope he changes his mind?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm going away for a year to study abroad and yesterday my boyfriend admitted that he doesn't see a future with me and that he doubts I'm the one but he still loves me. I love him too and I know the future is uncertain at this age but I wanted a future and it seems he doesn't. We can't imagine life without each other right now but I need advice on whether we should end things now because they can't be the same or if I should stay with him hoping a great couple months will change his mind. Maybe not about long distance but about getting back together when I'm back. TL;DR:

Boyfriend says he wants to stay together until the end of the semester but doesn't see a future with me right now. Need advice on whether to end things now or keep hoping for a great couple months.<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend doesn't see a future with me but still loves me and wants to stay together until the end of the semester. Should we break up now or hope he changes his mind?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm going away for a year to study abroad and yesterday my boyfriend admitted that he doesn't see a future with me and that he doubts I'm the one but he still loves me. I love him too and I know the future is uncertain at this age but I wanted a future and it seems he doesn't. We can't imagine life without each other right now but I need advice on whether we should end things now because they can't be the same or if I should stay with him hoping a great couple months will change his mind. Maybe not about long distance but about getting back together when I'm back. TL;DR: Boyfriend says he wants to stay together until the end of the semester but doesn't see a future with me right now. Need advice on whether to end things now or keep hoping for a great couple months.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm going away for a year to study abroad and yesterday my boyfriend admitted that he doesn't see a future with me and that he doubts I'm the one but he still loves me. I love him too and I know the future is uncertain at this age but I wanted a future and it seems he doesn't. We can't imagine life without each other right now but I need advice on whether we should end things now because they can't be the same or if I should stay with him hoping a great couple months will change his mind. Maybe not about long distance but about getting back together when I'm back. TL;DR: Boyfriend doesn't see a future with me but still loves me and wants to stay together until the end of the semester. Should we break up now or hope he changes his mind?<|endoftext|>

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**The texts:** Him: at least my mom thinks I'm cute me: I think you're cute ;) Him: You're nice AND pretty? Haha but probably just being really nice. Him: I meant like girls aren't attracted to me (at least hot ones like you) so obviously you aren't either and just being nice... Come on now! You're too good for me. Him: I wish you weren't too good for me. Me: Um I do think you're cute though? Him: Why do girls do this. Leading me on. Him: You're so smart and you're so hot and you're so pretty every guy is after you. Him: Please stop being so nice....... **Background:** I met this guy at the bar over the weekend and it was fireworks at first sight. I literally stumbled upon the most handsome, athletic, tall, smart man ever. He is essentially my DREAM GUY. We exchanged numbers over a few drinks at the bar before I had to leave early because of work the next day. We've been talking for about two days when I get the following texts. At first, when he started talking about his mom, I thought he was joking. So I went along with it. But then it kind of morphed. This is a 27 year old man. Does NOT live with his mother. Has a stable career. Has friends. Seriously can't find anything wrong with him from a distance. Everyone gets insecure and everyone feels inadequate sometimes but these texts were just straight up alarming to me. It showed how insecure and self conscious he was... and he was trying to make the whole conversation about how sucky he was but how great I was. Kind of scares me. I feel like this is a red flag but I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. I came here to see what your opinions were. (x-post /r/twoxchromosomes)

thought met dream guy but i got a series of red flag texts... don't know if i should end things

I'm super insecure and this guy's super attractive. What do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **The texts:** Him: at least my mom thinks I'm cute me: I think you're cute ;) Him: You're nice AND pretty? Haha but probably just being really nice. Him: I meant like girls aren't attracted to me (at least hot ones like you) so obviously you aren't either and just being nice... Come on now! You're too good for me. Him: I wish you weren't too good for me. Me: Um I do think you're cute though? Him: Why do girls do this. Leading me on. Him: You're so smart and you're so hot and you're so pretty every guy is after you. Him: Please stop being so nice....... **Background:** I met this guy at the bar over the weekend and it was fireworks at first sight. I literally stumbled upon the most handsome, athletic, tall, smart man ever. He is essentially my DREAM GUY. We exchanged numbers over a few drinks at the bar before I had to leave early because of work the next day. We've been talking for about two days when I get the following texts. At first, when he started talking about his mom, I thought he was joking. So I went along with it. But then it kind of morphed. This is a 27 year old man. Does NOT live with his mother. Has a stable career. Has friends. Seriously can't find anything wrong with him from a distance. Everyone gets insecure and everyone feels inadequate sometimes but these texts were just straight up alarming to me. It showed how insecure and self conscious he was... and he was trying to make the whole conversation about how sucky he was but how great I was. Kind of scares me. I feel like this is a red flag but I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. I came here to see what your opinions were. (x-post /r/twoxchromosomes) TL;DR:

thought met dream guy but i got a series of red flag texts... don't know if i should end things<|endoftext|>

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I'm super insecure and this guy's super attractive. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **The texts:** Him: at least my mom thinks I'm cute me: I think you're cute ;) Him: You're nice AND pretty? Haha but probably just being really nice. Him: I meant like girls aren't attracted to me (at least hot ones like you) so obviously you aren't either and just being nice... Come on now! You're too good for me. Him: I wish you weren't too good for me. Me: Um I do think you're cute though? Him: Why do girls do this. Leading me on. Him: You're so smart and you're so hot and you're so pretty every guy is after you. Him: Please stop being so nice....... **Background:** I met this guy at the bar over the weekend and it was fireworks at first sight. I literally stumbled upon the most handsome, athletic, tall, smart man ever. He is essentially my DREAM GUY. We exchanged numbers over a few drinks at the bar before I had to leave early because of work the next day. We've been talking for about two days when I get the following texts. At first, when he started talking about his mom, I thought he was joking. So I went along with it. But then it kind of morphed. This is a 27 year old man. Does NOT live with his mother. Has a stable career. Has friends. Seriously can't find anything wrong with him from a distance. Everyone gets insecure and everyone feels inadequate sometimes but these texts were just straight up alarming to me. It showed how insecure and self conscious he was... and he was trying to make the whole conversation about how sucky he was but how great I was. Kind of scares me. I feel like this is a red flag but I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. I came here to see what your opinions were. (x-post /r/twoxchromosomes) TL;DR: thought met dream guy but i got a series of red flag texts... don't know if i should end things<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **The texts:** Him: at least my mom thinks I'm cute me: I think you're cute ;) Him: You're nice AND pretty? Haha but probably just being really nice. Him: I meant like girls aren't attracted to me (at least hot ones like you) so obviously you aren't either and just being nice... Come on now! You're too good for me. Him: I wish you weren't too good for me. Me: Um I do think you're cute though? Him: Why do girls do this. Leading me on. Him: You're so smart and you're so hot and you're so pretty every guy is after you. Him: Please stop being so nice....... **Background:** I met this guy at the bar over the weekend and it was fireworks at first sight. I literally stumbled upon the most handsome, athletic, tall, smart man ever. He is essentially my DREAM GUY. We exchanged numbers over a few drinks at the bar before I had to leave early because of work the next day. We've been talking for about two days when I get the following texts. At first, when he started talking about his mom, I thought he was joking. So I went along with it. But then it kind of morphed. This is a 27 year old man. Does NOT live with his mother. Has a stable career. Has friends. Seriously can't find anything wrong with him from a distance. Everyone gets insecure and everyone feels inadequate sometimes but these texts were just straight up alarming to me. It showed how insecure and self conscious he was... and he was trying to make the whole conversation about how sucky he was but how great I was. Kind of scares me. I feel like this is a red flag but I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. I came here to see what your opinions were. (x-post /r/twoxchromosomes) TL;DR: I'm super insecure and this guy's super attractive. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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I'm a 23 year old male that have been dating a girl (also 23) for 4 months, we have "been official" for three months. This girl was my first, she took my virginity. She lost her virginity at 16 and has had more than ten partners. I have no issues with that. For the first few weeks I was unable to orgasm due to nervousnes and unfamiliarity. This resolved itself. The last month or so she has been unable to reach orgasm, due to stress. She assures me that the sex is still good and that she has a psychological cap preventing her from coming. While I accept the possibility that she isn't happy with the sex, I do believe her. Well now two days in a row we have been in bed with me fingering her followed by her feeling "satisfied" (She certainly enjoyed it but didn't climax) and interrupting the cuddling, not returning the favour. Both times she barely touched me. It hurt me a lot and the second time I expressed my feelings to her. She claims that sometimes you give and sometimes you get, and that it is natural for one partner to please the other without expecting something in return. That it is okay sometimes to be selfish. This has worked well in her previous relationships and has felt natural. She said she wanted to focus on her to be able to relax completely to make it easier for her to come. I told her that it was the fact that she didn't explain this to me that bothered me, that my expectations were off and therefore I became hurt and disappointed. After thinking about it some more I think that is not the case though. I have been trying to wrap my head around the idea but I can't really see myself not taking offence when someone doesn't offer to return the favor. To me it feels like someone saying "I can't be bothered wasting energy on you". I have been very emotional lately due to stress over work and sickness (I have a middle ear inflammation and a cold). Am I overreacting? Is it normal in relationships to have one-sided sexual pleasure?

Girl and I have been having sex for three months, I orgasm regularly, she doesn't orgasm. I feel hurt, I feel disappointed and frustrated. Is this normal?

Girlfriend receiving pleasure without returning. Is it normal to sometimes want pleasure from your partner without offering to return the favour?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 23 year old male that have been dating a girl (also 23) for 4 months, we have "been official" for three months. This girl was my first, she took my virginity. She lost her virginity at 16 and has had more than ten partners. I have no issues with that. For the first few weeks I was unable to orgasm due to nervousnes and unfamiliarity. This resolved itself. The last month or so she has been unable to reach orgasm, due to stress. She assures me that the sex is still good and that she has a psychological cap preventing her from coming. While I accept the possibility that she isn't happy with the sex, I do believe her. Well now two days in a row we have been in bed with me fingering her followed by her feeling "satisfied" (She certainly enjoyed it but didn't climax) and interrupting the cuddling, not returning the favour. Both times she barely touched me. It hurt me a lot and the second time I expressed my feelings to her. She claims that sometimes you give and sometimes you get, and that it is natural for one partner to please the other without expecting something in return. That it is okay sometimes to be selfish. This has worked well in her previous relationships and has felt natural. She said she wanted to focus on her to be able to relax completely to make it easier for her to come. I told her that it was the fact that she didn't explain this to me that bothered me, that my expectations were off and therefore I became hurt and disappointed. After thinking about it some more I think that is not the case though. I have been trying to wrap my head around the idea but I can't really see myself not taking offence when someone doesn't offer to return the favor. To me it feels like someone saying "I can't be bothered wasting energy on you". I have been very emotional lately due to stress over work and sickness (I have a middle ear inflammation and a cold). Am I overreacting? Is it normal in relationships to have one-sided sexual pleasure? TL;DR:

Girl and I have been having sex for three months, I orgasm regularly, she doesn't orgasm. I feel hurt, I feel disappointed and frustrated. Is this normal?<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend receiving pleasure without returning. Is it normal to sometimes want pleasure from your partner without offering to return the favour?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 23 year old male that have been dating a girl (also 23) for 4 months, we have "been official" for three months. This girl was my first, she took my virginity. She lost her virginity at 16 and has had more than ten partners. I have no issues with that. For the first few weeks I was unable to orgasm due to nervousnes and unfamiliarity. This resolved itself. The last month or so she has been unable to reach orgasm, due to stress. She assures me that the sex is still good and that she has a psychological cap preventing her from coming. While I accept the possibility that she isn't happy with the sex, I do believe her. Well now two days in a row we have been in bed with me fingering her followed by her feeling "satisfied" (She certainly enjoyed it but didn't climax) and interrupting the cuddling, not returning the favour. Both times she barely touched me. It hurt me a lot and the second time I expressed my feelings to her. She claims that sometimes you give and sometimes you get, and that it is natural for one partner to please the other without expecting something in return. That it is okay sometimes to be selfish. This has worked well in her previous relationships and has felt natural. She said she wanted to focus on her to be able to relax completely to make it easier for her to come. I told her that it was the fact that she didn't explain this to me that bothered me, that my expectations were off and therefore I became hurt and disappointed. After thinking about it some more I think that is not the case though. I have been trying to wrap my head around the idea but I can't really see myself not taking offence when someone doesn't offer to return the favor. To me it feels like someone saying "I can't be bothered wasting energy on you". I have been very emotional lately due to stress over work and sickness (I have a middle ear inflammation and a cold). Am I overreacting? Is it normal in relationships to have one-sided sexual pleasure? TL;DR: Girl and I have been having sex for three months, I orgasm regularly, she doesn't orgasm. I feel hurt, I feel disappointed and frustrated. Is this normal?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 23 year old male that have been dating a girl (also 23) for 4 months, we have "been official" for three months. This girl was my first, she took my virginity. She lost her virginity at 16 and has had more than ten partners. I have no issues with that. For the first few weeks I was unable to orgasm due to nervousnes and unfamiliarity. This resolved itself. The last month or so she has been unable to reach orgasm, due to stress. She assures me that the sex is still good and that she has a psychological cap preventing her from coming. While I accept the possibility that she isn't happy with the sex, I do believe her. Well now two days in a row we have been in bed with me fingering her followed by her feeling "satisfied" (She certainly enjoyed it but didn't climax) and interrupting the cuddling, not returning the favour. Both times she barely touched me. It hurt me a lot and the second time I expressed my feelings to her. She claims that sometimes you give and sometimes you get, and that it is natural for one partner to please the other without expecting something in return. That it is okay sometimes to be selfish. This has worked well in her previous relationships and has felt natural. She said she wanted to focus on her to be able to relax completely to make it easier for her to come. I told her that it was the fact that she didn't explain this to me that bothered me, that my expectations were off and therefore I became hurt and disappointed. After thinking about it some more I think that is not the case though. I have been trying to wrap my head around the idea but I can't really see myself not taking offence when someone doesn't offer to return the favor. To me it feels like someone saying "I can't be bothered wasting energy on you". I have been very emotional lately due to stress over work and sickness (I have a middle ear inflammation and a cold). Am I overreacting? Is it normal in relationships to have one-sided sexual pleasure? TL;DR: Girlfriend receiving pleasure without returning. Is it normal to sometimes want pleasure from your partner without offering to return the favour?<|endoftext|>

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It just seems like everyone I know has at least had a "thing" with someone by this point. I've made out with a girl once (who later told me that was a mistake) and I feel like girls always reject me or only see me as a friend. Which is perfectly acceptable, but I'm starting to get upset that I've never had any kind of relationship. I just got rejected by a girl who I thought was into me and I've been feeling bad ever since. I just don't know what's wrong with me. I guess I'm a little bit skinny (I work out regularly though), but I shower every day, dress pretty well, all that stuff.

I've had very bad luck with girls my whole life and I don't know how to get my confidence up

I feel bad about not having a relationship experience, even though I've never had one.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It just seems like everyone I know has at least had a "thing" with someone by this point. I've made out with a girl once (who later told me that was a mistake) and I feel like girls always reject me or only see me as a friend. Which is perfectly acceptable, but I'm starting to get upset that I've never had any kind of relationship. I just got rejected by a girl who I thought was into me and I've been feeling bad ever since. I just don't know what's wrong with me. I guess I'm a little bit skinny (I work out regularly though), but I shower every day, dress pretty well, all that stuff. TL;DR:

I've had very bad luck with girls my whole life and I don't know how to get my confidence up<|endoftext|>

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I feel bad about not having a relationship experience, even though I've never had one.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It just seems like everyone I know has at least had a "thing" with someone by this point. I've made out with a girl once (who later told me that was a mistake) and I feel like girls always reject me or only see me as a friend. Which is perfectly acceptable, but I'm starting to get upset that I've never had any kind of relationship. I just got rejected by a girl who I thought was into me and I've been feeling bad ever since. I just don't know what's wrong with me. I guess I'm a little bit skinny (I work out regularly though), but I shower every day, dress pretty well, all that stuff. TL;DR: I've had very bad luck with girls my whole life and I don't know how to get my confidence up<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It just seems like everyone I know has at least had a "thing" with someone by this point. I've made out with a girl once (who later told me that was a mistake) and I feel like girls always reject me or only see me as a friend. Which is perfectly acceptable, but I'm starting to get upset that I've never had any kind of relationship. I just got rejected by a girl who I thought was into me and I've been feeling bad ever since. I just don't know what's wrong with me. I guess I'm a little bit skinny (I work out regularly though), but I shower every day, dress pretty well, all that stuff. TL;DR: I feel bad about not having a relationship experience, even though I've never had one.<|endoftext|>

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Our best friends have a son who has the same age as our son, almost 3. They play a lot together. 6 months ago their son started hitting our son regularly while playing, and a few months ago this turned into biting. He recently even drew blood. Our friends say that this only happens with our son, so he "must be provoking it somehow". We don't see any such provoking happening. We've seen a change in their social interaction though: previously their son was the clear leader and our son copied everything their son did; now our son is inventing activities on his own as well when they play. This is clearly frustrating him. (Also, he hits his little sister too, but they say that is just normal sibling behavior and they may be right.) The hitting happens routinely (seemingly); he threateningly raises his hand when someone comes too close to him, he then hits them on the head repeatedly when they are too close. The biting happens out of blue, for example when they sit next to each other on the sofa. Their attitude is that we should not make such a big deal out of it, because doing so would only encourage the hitting and the biting. They simply tell him in a low voice not to hit or to bite. We don't know what is best to do, but clearly, whatever they do is not working. We have now told them that we want our kids to stop playing with each other for a while. Last time they played, blood was drawn and it made me feel sick to my stomach. Our son has now started biting us too. It feels like he might be copying the behavior (but there is no way of knowing of course). I am looking for advice, not only how to handle these two children, but also how to handle such a situation in a way that does not destroy our friendship. No parent likes being told by others what to do with their child, and we have already noticed the tension it creates when we talk about this.

Best friends' son hitting and biting our son, we want to make it stop, best friends find the whole thing silly and say it's not serious, advice?

Best friends 3-year old raised his hand and hit our son in the head when playing, our son now bites and hits us too. What should we do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Our best friends have a son who has the same age as our son, almost 3. They play a lot together. 6 months ago their son started hitting our son regularly while playing, and a few months ago this turned into biting. He recently even drew blood. Our friends say that this only happens with our son, so he "must be provoking it somehow". We don't see any such provoking happening. We've seen a change in their social interaction though: previously their son was the clear leader and our son copied everything their son did; now our son is inventing activities on his own as well when they play. This is clearly frustrating him. (Also, he hits his little sister too, but they say that is just normal sibling behavior and they may be right.) The hitting happens routinely (seemingly); he threateningly raises his hand when someone comes too close to him, he then hits them on the head repeatedly when they are too close. The biting happens out of blue, for example when they sit next to each other on the sofa. Their attitude is that we should not make such a big deal out of it, because doing so would only encourage the hitting and the biting. They simply tell him in a low voice not to hit or to bite. We don't know what is best to do, but clearly, whatever they do is not working. We have now told them that we want our kids to stop playing with each other for a while. Last time they played, blood was drawn and it made me feel sick to my stomach. Our son has now started biting us too. It feels like he might be copying the behavior (but there is no way of knowing of course). I am looking for advice, not only how to handle these two children, but also how to handle such a situation in a way that does not destroy our friendship. No parent likes being told by others what to do with their child, and we have already noticed the tension it creates when we talk about this. TL;DR:

Best friends' son hitting and biting our son, we want to make it stop, best friends find the whole thing silly and say it's not serious, advice?<|endoftext|>

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Best friends 3-year old raised his hand and hit our son in the head when playing, our son now bites and hits us too. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Our best friends have a son who has the same age as our son, almost 3. They play a lot together. 6 months ago their son started hitting our son regularly while playing, and a few months ago this turned into biting. He recently even drew blood. Our friends say that this only happens with our son, so he "must be provoking it somehow". We don't see any such provoking happening. We've seen a change in their social interaction though: previously their son was the clear leader and our son copied everything their son did; now our son is inventing activities on his own as well when they play. This is clearly frustrating him. (Also, he hits his little sister too, but they say that is just normal sibling behavior and they may be right.) The hitting happens routinely (seemingly); he threateningly raises his hand when someone comes too close to him, he then hits them on the head repeatedly when they are too close. The biting happens out of blue, for example when they sit next to each other on the sofa. Their attitude is that we should not make such a big deal out of it, because doing so would only encourage the hitting and the biting. They simply tell him in a low voice not to hit or to bite. We don't know what is best to do, but clearly, whatever they do is not working. We have now told them that we want our kids to stop playing with each other for a while. Last time they played, blood was drawn and it made me feel sick to my stomach. Our son has now started biting us too. It feels like he might be copying the behavior (but there is no way of knowing of course). I am looking for advice, not only how to handle these two children, but also how to handle such a situation in a way that does not destroy our friendship. No parent likes being told by others what to do with their child, and we have already noticed the tension it creates when we talk about this. TL;DR: Best friends' son hitting and biting our son, we want to make it stop, best friends find the whole thing silly and say it's not serious, advice?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Our best friends have a son who has the same age as our son, almost 3. They play a lot together. 6 months ago their son started hitting our son regularly while playing, and a few months ago this turned into biting. He recently even drew blood. Our friends say that this only happens with our son, so he "must be provoking it somehow". We don't see any such provoking happening. We've seen a change in their social interaction though: previously their son was the clear leader and our son copied everything their son did; now our son is inventing activities on his own as well when they play. This is clearly frustrating him. (Also, he hits his little sister too, but they say that is just normal sibling behavior and they may be right.) The hitting happens routinely (seemingly); he threateningly raises his hand when someone comes too close to him, he then hits them on the head repeatedly when they are too close. The biting happens out of blue, for example when they sit next to each other on the sofa. Their attitude is that we should not make such a big deal out of it, because doing so would only encourage the hitting and the biting. They simply tell him in a low voice not to hit or to bite. We don't know what is best to do, but clearly, whatever they do is not working. We have now told them that we want our kids to stop playing with each other for a while. Last time they played, blood was drawn and it made me feel sick to my stomach. Our son has now started biting us too. It feels like he might be copying the behavior (but there is no way of knowing of course). I am looking for advice, not only how to handle these two children, but also how to handle such a situation in a way that does not destroy our friendship. No parent likes being told by others what to do with their child, and we have already noticed the tension it creates when we talk about this. TL;DR: Best friends 3-year old raised his hand and hit our son in the head when playing, our son now bites and hits us too. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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My friend never got a parenting plan in place right away after separating from her daughters father. Now she's is struggling with him to agree. Right now they have a verbal agreement in place that there child (age 3) will reside one week at mom's and one week at dad's rotating. This has worked up until dad decided to take a night job and doesn't get off until one in the morning. Mom has had daughter stay at her house during these times he works, but dad is showing up and trying to pick her up at 1am. Also note dad is trying to put her in a over night day care instead of allowing her to stay with mom. She has now filed in the courts and is awaiting mediation to try and reach an agreement. In Colorado, if he places her in day care over night what would stop mom from picking her up. Again there is no custody papers in place legally. Also would it look bad on her in court if she does this. My opinion is the child is better off with a parent rather than a third party, but again it was a verbally agreed parenting plan.

friend separated from daughters father and is struggling to reach agreement upon child's residency. waiting for mediation to resolve custody, would it look bad in court if mom were to pick up child over night?

friend separated from daughters father and is struggling to reach agreement on childs care. filing in courts for mediations vs day care place. Would this look bad in court?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend never got a parenting plan in place right away after separating from her daughters father. Now she's is struggling with him to agree. Right now they have a verbal agreement in place that there child (age 3) will reside one week at mom's and one week at dad's rotating. This has worked up until dad decided to take a night job and doesn't get off until one in the morning. Mom has had daughter stay at her house during these times he works, but dad is showing up and trying to pick her up at 1am. Also note dad is trying to put her in a over night day care instead of allowing her to stay with mom. She has now filed in the courts and is awaiting mediation to try and reach an agreement. In Colorado, if he places her in day care over night what would stop mom from picking her up. Again there is no custody papers in place legally. Also would it look bad on her in court if she does this. My opinion is the child is better off with a parent rather than a third party, but again it was a verbally agreed parenting plan. TL;DR:

friend separated from daughters father and is struggling to reach agreement upon child's residency. waiting for mediation to resolve custody, would it look bad in court if mom were to pick up child over night?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend never got a parenting plan in place right away after separating from her daughters father. Now she's is struggling with him to agree. Right now they have a verbal agreement in place that there child (age 3) will reside one week at mom's and one week at dad's rotating. This has worked up until dad decided to take a night job and doesn't get off until one in the morning. Mom has had daughter stay at her house during these times he works, but dad is showing up and trying to pick her up at 1am. Also note dad is trying to put her in a over night day care instead of allowing her to stay with mom. She has now filed in the courts and is awaiting mediation to try and reach an agreement. In Colorado, if he places her in day care over night what would stop mom from picking her up. Again there is no custody papers in place legally. Also would it look bad on her in court if she does this. My opinion is the child is better off with a parent rather than a third party, but again it was a verbally agreed parenting plan. TL;DR: friend separated from daughters father and is struggling to reach agreement upon child's residency. waiting for mediation to resolve custody, would it look bad in court if mom were to pick up child over night?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend never got a parenting plan in place right away after separating from her daughters father. Now she's is struggling with him to agree. Right now they have a verbal agreement in place that there child (age 3) will reside one week at mom's and one week at dad's rotating. This has worked up until dad decided to take a night job and doesn't get off until one in the morning. Mom has had daughter stay at her house during these times he works, but dad is showing up and trying to pick her up at 1am. Also note dad is trying to put her in a over night day care instead of allowing her to stay with mom. She has now filed in the courts and is awaiting mediation to try and reach an agreement. In Colorado, if he places her in day care over night what would stop mom from picking her up. Again there is no custody papers in place legally. Also would it look bad on her in court if she does this. My opinion is the child is better off with a parent rather than a third party, but again it was a verbally agreed parenting plan. TL;DR: friend separated from daughters father and is struggling to reach agreement on childs care. filing in courts for mediations vs day care place. Would this look bad in court?<|endoftext|>

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This is my story, My uncle asked my family to help him move to another house. We figured he bought a new house and needed help moving, so we came over and started moving. We met him at the new house and unpacked some of his stuff that he had in his truck like bed frames and such. This whole time I see the whole family except my aunt. We go back to the old house to grab the refrigerator and the rest of his things, when I find something odd about the whole moving experience. None of his belongings were packed, his fridge was full of food, none of the clothes were boxed up, and his house looked like a tornado passed through. Thinking it was just a foreclosure, I kept it to myself until I rode home with my parents. I tell my father what I suspect and he finds it odd as well that my aunt was missing. Previously my aunt has been convicted of a travel scam a few years back. I just recently google searched her name to find that she's back at it and got caught about two weeks ago. Not to mention that my uncles house has also been foreclosed.

my uncle moved out of his house, packed all his shit and left the house looking like a tornado passed through.

My uncle asks my aunt to help him move house. He buys a new house and asks us to help him move. We do, but we find out he's been doing some shady stuff with his money and behind his back.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is my story, My uncle asked my family to help him move to another house. We figured he bought a new house and needed help moving, so we came over and started moving. We met him at the new house and unpacked some of his stuff that he had in his truck like bed frames and such. This whole time I see the whole family except my aunt. We go back to the old house to grab the refrigerator and the rest of his things, when I find something odd about the whole moving experience. None of his belongings were packed, his fridge was full of food, none of the clothes were boxed up, and his house looked like a tornado passed through. Thinking it was just a foreclosure, I kept it to myself until I rode home with my parents. I tell my father what I suspect and he finds it odd as well that my aunt was missing. Previously my aunt has been convicted of a travel scam a few years back. I just recently google searched her name to find that she's back at it and got caught about two weeks ago. Not to mention that my uncles house has also been foreclosed. TL;DR:

my uncle moved out of his house, packed all his shit and left the house looking like a tornado passed through.<|endoftext|>

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My uncle asks my aunt to help him move house. He buys a new house and asks us to help him move. We do, but we find out he's been doing some shady stuff with his money and behind his back.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is my story, My uncle asked my family to help him move to another house. We figured he bought a new house and needed help moving, so we came over and started moving. We met him at the new house and unpacked some of his stuff that he had in his truck like bed frames and such. This whole time I see the whole family except my aunt. We go back to the old house to grab the refrigerator and the rest of his things, when I find something odd about the whole moving experience. None of his belongings were packed, his fridge was full of food, none of the clothes were boxed up, and his house looked like a tornado passed through. Thinking it was just a foreclosure, I kept it to myself until I rode home with my parents. I tell my father what I suspect and he finds it odd as well that my aunt was missing. Previously my aunt has been convicted of a travel scam a few years back. I just recently google searched her name to find that she's back at it and got caught about two weeks ago. Not to mention that my uncles house has also been foreclosed. TL;DR: my uncle moved out of his house, packed all his shit and left the house looking like a tornado passed through.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is my story, My uncle asked my family to help him move to another house. We figured he bought a new house and needed help moving, so we came over and started moving. We met him at the new house and unpacked some of his stuff that he had in his truck like bed frames and such. This whole time I see the whole family except my aunt. We go back to the old house to grab the refrigerator and the rest of his things, when I find something odd about the whole moving experience. None of his belongings were packed, his fridge was full of food, none of the clothes were boxed up, and his house looked like a tornado passed through. Thinking it was just a foreclosure, I kept it to myself until I rode home with my parents. I tell my father what I suspect and he finds it odd as well that my aunt was missing. Previously my aunt has been convicted of a travel scam a few years back. I just recently google searched her name to find that she's back at it and got caught about two weeks ago. Not to mention that my uncles house has also been foreclosed. TL;DR: My uncle asks my aunt to help him move house. He buys a new house and asks us to help him move. We do, but we find out he's been doing some shady stuff with his money and behind his back.<|endoftext|>

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Let me start off by saying this is my first post so I apologize if there are any mistakes. Last night my girlfriend told me that she was raped by a guy she was seeing before me. She originally told me 3 months into our relationship that she had lost her virginity to this guy, but, that was all she had said. Yesterday, she gave me the full story. On their first date, he took her to a party, had her drink a ridiculous amount of alcohol, saw that she was passing out, took her to a bedroom and forced himself on her while she was passed out. I thought this was the worst news I could have received but then she told me that she began a relationship with him that lasted for 2 months. She said the relationship consisted of him coming to her house having his way with her, and leaving. This is the part I don't understand. Why would my girlfriend do this? Why would she give consent to her own rapist?!?!? I cannot contemplate that. On top of all this, he has been trying to contact her for the past year. After she left him, she broke all lines of communication with him and changed her phone number. But, he has been finding ways to contact her every couple of months through Facebook and the like. This past Tuesday she received calls and texts from him asking why she stopped talking to him. What disturbs me most is that my girlfriend has obviously been on this guy's mind for over a year and he has taken the time to find her new phone number. What should I do about this guy? Why did my girlfriend not tell me even if she was receiving messages from this asshole for over a year? I just feel like complete shit after hearing this. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated.

Just found out that my girlfriend was raped a couple months before I met her. Her rapist has been trying to contact her for over a year and just started calling her again though she changed her phone number.

Girlfriend was raped a couple months before we started dating. He has been messaging her for over a year and has found her new phone number. I don't know what to do.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me start off by saying this is my first post so I apologize if there are any mistakes. Last night my girlfriend told me that she was raped by a guy she was seeing before me. She originally told me 3 months into our relationship that she had lost her virginity to this guy, but, that was all she had said. Yesterday, she gave me the full story. On their first date, he took her to a party, had her drink a ridiculous amount of alcohol, saw that she was passing out, took her to a bedroom and forced himself on her while she was passed out. I thought this was the worst news I could have received but then she told me that she began a relationship with him that lasted for 2 months. She said the relationship consisted of him coming to her house having his way with her, and leaving. This is the part I don't understand. Why would my girlfriend do this? Why would she give consent to her own rapist?!?!? I cannot contemplate that. On top of all this, he has been trying to contact her for the past year. After she left him, she broke all lines of communication with him and changed her phone number. But, he has been finding ways to contact her every couple of months through Facebook and the like. This past Tuesday she received calls and texts from him asking why she stopped talking to him. What disturbs me most is that my girlfriend has obviously been on this guy's mind for over a year and he has taken the time to find her new phone number. What should I do about this guy? Why did my girlfriend not tell me even if she was receiving messages from this asshole for over a year? I just feel like complete shit after hearing this. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR:

Just found out that my girlfriend was raped a couple months before I met her. Her rapist has been trying to contact her for over a year and just started calling her again though she changed her phone number.<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend was raped a couple months before we started dating. He has been messaging her for over a year and has found her new phone number. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me start off by saying this is my first post so I apologize if there are any mistakes. Last night my girlfriend told me that she was raped by a guy she was seeing before me. She originally told me 3 months into our relationship that she had lost her virginity to this guy, but, that was all she had said. Yesterday, she gave me the full story. On their first date, he took her to a party, had her drink a ridiculous amount of alcohol, saw that she was passing out, took her to a bedroom and forced himself on her while she was passed out. I thought this was the worst news I could have received but then she told me that she began a relationship with him that lasted for 2 months. She said the relationship consisted of him coming to her house having his way with her, and leaving. This is the part I don't understand. Why would my girlfriend do this? Why would she give consent to her own rapist?!?!? I cannot contemplate that. On top of all this, he has been trying to contact her for the past year. After she left him, she broke all lines of communication with him and changed her phone number. But, he has been finding ways to contact her every couple of months through Facebook and the like. This past Tuesday she received calls and texts from him asking why she stopped talking to him. What disturbs me most is that my girlfriend has obviously been on this guy's mind for over a year and he has taken the time to find her new phone number. What should I do about this guy? Why did my girlfriend not tell me even if she was receiving messages from this asshole for over a year? I just feel like complete shit after hearing this. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: Just found out that my girlfriend was raped a couple months before I met her. Her rapist has been trying to contact her for over a year and just started calling her again though she changed her phone number.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me start off by saying this is my first post so I apologize if there are any mistakes. Last night my girlfriend told me that she was raped by a guy she was seeing before me. She originally told me 3 months into our relationship that she had lost her virginity to this guy, but, that was all she had said. Yesterday, she gave me the full story. On their first date, he took her to a party, had her drink a ridiculous amount of alcohol, saw that she was passing out, took her to a bedroom and forced himself on her while she was passed out. I thought this was the worst news I could have received but then she told me that she began a relationship with him that lasted for 2 months. She said the relationship consisted of him coming to her house having his way with her, and leaving. This is the part I don't understand. Why would my girlfriend do this? Why would she give consent to her own rapist?!?!? I cannot contemplate that. On top of all this, he has been trying to contact her for the past year. After she left him, she broke all lines of communication with him and changed her phone number. But, he has been finding ways to contact her every couple of months through Facebook and the like. This past Tuesday she received calls and texts from him asking why she stopped talking to him. What disturbs me most is that my girlfriend has obviously been on this guy's mind for over a year and he has taken the time to find her new phone number. What should I do about this guy? Why did my girlfriend not tell me even if she was receiving messages from this asshole for over a year? I just feel like complete shit after hearing this. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: Girlfriend was raped a couple months before we started dating. He has been messaging her for over a year and has found her new phone number. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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Evening all! I am a librarian. I love my job and it's exactly what I have wanted to do since about age 17. My position requires me to do a lot of things like visit schools (I'm a teen librarian) purchase books and video games, plan programs do community outreach etc. A huge thing in our community is school outreach. The big boss is really pushing all librarians to be present in the community in organizations and especially schools. My immediate boss doesn't find that important. She told me that visiting schools is a time suck. ----------- Particularly with one school program we have. I won't name what it is but essentially we try to make it as easy as possible for teachers to get material from the library. Once a week we will take all of the requests and a librarian will deliver books to the school/pick up library books. Every youth librarian has set schools that they regularly go to. I am the contact for three middle schools and one HS. Unfortunately, the teachers are *very* frustrated with me because my boss doesn't want me delivering these books. So, I got a volunteer to help me out. Unfortunately again, my volunteer isn't working out. She can't put in the commitment to visit these schools once a week resulting in overdue books and fines for teachers. ---------- I feel like I'm stuck a little between a rock and a hard place because my immediate boss doesn't want me to do these school visits but the big boss is really pushing and encouraging community outreach. I want to make myself present in the schools so they are comfortable contacting me for homework help and things like that. I've tried talking to my supervisor many times and she still thinks that my time is more useful elsewhere. EDIT: All the librarians that go to elementary schools are in our youth department. I am the adult department so I have a different boss. Boss in the youth department is very encouraging with school visits.

boss doesn't want me to do school visits but the big boss is really pushing and encouraging them. I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place.

I am a librarian. I love my job and I want to be present in the community but my boss doesn't like that I'm visiting schools. I love my job and can't do anything else. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.

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boss doesn't want me to do school visits but the big boss is really pushing and encouraging them. I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Evening all! I am a librarian. I love my job and it's exactly what I have wanted to do since about age 17. My position requires me to do a lot of things like visit schools (I'm a teen librarian) purchase books and video games, plan programs do community outreach etc. A huge thing in our community is school outreach. The big boss is really pushing all librarians to be present in the community in organizations and especially schools. My immediate boss doesn't find that important. She told me that visiting schools is a time suck. ----------- Particularly with one school program we have. I won't name what it is but essentially we try to make it as easy as possible for teachers to get material from the library. Once a week we will take all of the requests and a librarian will deliver books to the school/pick up library books. Every youth librarian has set schools that they regularly go to. I am the contact for three middle schools and one HS. Unfortunately, the teachers are *very* frustrated with me because my boss doesn't want me delivering these books. So, I got a volunteer to help me out. Unfortunately again, my volunteer isn't working out. She can't put in the commitment to visit these schools once a week resulting in overdue books and fines for teachers. ---------- I feel like I'm stuck a little between a rock and a hard place because my immediate boss doesn't want me to do these school visits but the big boss is really pushing and encouraging community outreach. I want to make myself present in the schools so they are comfortable contacting me for homework help and things like that. I've tried talking to my supervisor many times and she still thinks that my time is more useful elsewhere. EDIT: All the librarians that go to elementary schools are in our youth department. I am the adult department so I have a different boss. Boss in the youth department is very encouraging with school visits. TL;DR: boss doesn't want me to do school visits but the big boss is really pushing and encouraging them. I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Evening all! I am a librarian. I love my job and it's exactly what I have wanted to do since about age 17. My position requires me to do a lot of things like visit schools (I'm a teen librarian) purchase books and video games, plan programs do community outreach etc. A huge thing in our community is school outreach. The big boss is really pushing all librarians to be present in the community in organizations and especially schools. My immediate boss doesn't find that important. She told me that visiting schools is a time suck. ----------- Particularly with one school program we have. I won't name what it is but essentially we try to make it as easy as possible for teachers to get material from the library. Once a week we will take all of the requests and a librarian will deliver books to the school/pick up library books. Every youth librarian has set schools that they regularly go to. I am the contact for three middle schools and one HS. Unfortunately, the teachers are *very* frustrated with me because my boss doesn't want me delivering these books. So, I got a volunteer to help me out. Unfortunately again, my volunteer isn't working out. She can't put in the commitment to visit these schools once a week resulting in overdue books and fines for teachers. ---------- I feel like I'm stuck a little between a rock and a hard place because my immediate boss doesn't want me to do these school visits but the big boss is really pushing and encouraging community outreach. I want to make myself present in the schools so they are comfortable contacting me for homework help and things like that. I've tried talking to my supervisor many times and she still thinks that my time is more useful elsewhere. EDIT: All the librarians that go to elementary schools are in our youth department. I am the adult department so I have a different boss. Boss in the youth department is very encouraging with school visits. TL;DR: I am a librarian. I love my job and I want to be present in the community but my boss doesn't like that I'm visiting schools. I love my job and can't do anything else. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.<|endoftext|>

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I feel that out of principle I should be refunded the adoption fee since the agency's foster home infected the kittens with the parasite. Both cats were born in the foster home and there are 20 other cats. Do I have any legal right to ask for the fee back? Or help with the cost of treating? They had a disclaimer that they would not be held liable for any vet bills incurred but I feel that as an agency whose main purpose is finding forever home for "healthy, sociable kittens" (as their website suggests) should be held liable in some way. Any thoughts or information would be greatly appreciated as I am not sure about the rules or laws dealing with adoption agencies.

Adopted kittens have parasite. Want to know if I can get reimbursed from the agency.

Adopted kittens from an agency. Two days later after explosive diarrhea all over my apartment they are diagnosed with Giardia. I need advice on dealing with the agency.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I feel that out of principle I should be refunded the adoption fee since the agency's foster home infected the kittens with the parasite. Both cats were born in the foster home and there are 20 other cats. Do I have any legal right to ask for the fee back? Or help with the cost of treating? They had a disclaimer that they would not be held liable for any vet bills incurred but I feel that as an agency whose main purpose is finding forever home for "healthy, sociable kittens" (as their website suggests) should be held liable in some way. Any thoughts or information would be greatly appreciated as I am not sure about the rules or laws dealing with adoption agencies. TL;DR:

Adopted kittens have parasite. Want to know if I can get reimbursed from the agency.<|endoftext|>

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Adopted kittens from an agency. Two days later after explosive diarrhea all over my apartment they are diagnosed with Giardia. I need advice on dealing with the agency.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I feel that out of principle I should be refunded the adoption fee since the agency's foster home infected the kittens with the parasite. Both cats were born in the foster home and there are 20 other cats. Do I have any legal right to ask for the fee back? Or help with the cost of treating? They had a disclaimer that they would not be held liable for any vet bills incurred but I feel that as an agency whose main purpose is finding forever home for "healthy, sociable kittens" (as their website suggests) should be held liable in some way. Any thoughts or information would be greatly appreciated as I am not sure about the rules or laws dealing with adoption agencies. TL;DR: Adopted kittens have parasite. Want to know if I can get reimbursed from the agency.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I feel that out of principle I should be refunded the adoption fee since the agency's foster home infected the kittens with the parasite. Both cats were born in the foster home and there are 20 other cats. Do I have any legal right to ask for the fee back? Or help with the cost of treating? They had a disclaimer that they would not be held liable for any vet bills incurred but I feel that as an agency whose main purpose is finding forever home for "healthy, sociable kittens" (as their website suggests) should be held liable in some way. Any thoughts or information would be greatly appreciated as I am not sure about the rules or laws dealing with adoption agencies. TL;DR: Adopted kittens from an agency. Two days later after explosive diarrhea all over my apartment they are diagnosed with Giardia. I need advice on dealing with the agency.<|endoftext|>

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I don't know how many of you are familar with the show but its a fun listen late at night that I used to enjoy but ever since the new host (George Noory) it has gotten to the point where I cringe about the topics being discussed. During High School and College I remeber staying up doing homework listening to Art Bell discuss awesome topics and generally making me want to further explore things that we being discussed. But most of all it was a fun experience and I looked forward to it every night getting my antenna just in the right position to catch the signal and hear they were going to have open lines. They used to have on Scientist from respected colleges, MIT teachers, philosophers, Artist, theoretical physicist, and the occasional crazy. But lately it has got to point where I can't even listen for a few minutes because of the topics being discussed. Even though the schedule on the site says certain topics somehow they change it last minute or the guest calls out. Over the last months they included 1. A Rep from The Christian Network discussing how Muslims are infilterating America and planning to take over the justice system 2. A Tea Party talking head discussing how , if needed , we need to take up arms against the federal goverement. 3. Minutemen discussing Anchor babies and how America is dying due to the influx of immigrants and thier diseases. 4. Obama being a Muslim 5. And just general Fear mongering, buy gold now , anti-Vaccine, anti-muslim, rhetoric. It feels like im listening to Glenn Beck radio news hour or something.

CoCoAAM is being taken over by right wing nutjobs and I don't know what we can do.

I don't like the topics being discussed at Coast to Coast AM. I want to try and talk to the host's boss about changing the topic or leaving the show.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know how many of you are familar with the show but its a fun listen late at night that I used to enjoy but ever since the new host (George Noory) it has gotten to the point where I cringe about the topics being discussed. During High School and College I remeber staying up doing homework listening to Art Bell discuss awesome topics and generally making me want to further explore things that we being discussed. But most of all it was a fun experience and I looked forward to it every night getting my antenna just in the right position to catch the signal and hear they were going to have open lines. They used to have on Scientist from respected colleges, MIT teachers, philosophers, Artist, theoretical physicist, and the occasional crazy. But lately it has got to point where I can't even listen for a few minutes because of the topics being discussed. Even though the schedule on the site says certain topics somehow they change it last minute or the guest calls out. Over the last months they included 1. A Rep from The Christian Network discussing how Muslims are infilterating America and planning to take over the justice system 2. A Tea Party talking head discussing how, if needed, we need to take up arms against the federal goverement. 3. Minutemen discussing Anchor babies and how America is dying due to the influx of immigrants and thier diseases. 4. Obama being a Muslim 5. And just general Fear mongering, buy gold now, anti-Vaccine, anti-muslim, rhetoric. It feels like im listening to Glenn Beck radio news hour or something. TL;DR:

CoCoAAM is being taken over by right wing nutjobs and I don't know what we can do.<|endoftext|>

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I don't like the topics being discussed at Coast to Coast AM. I want to try and talk to the host's boss about changing the topic or leaving the show.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know how many of you are familar with the show but its a fun listen late at night that I used to enjoy but ever since the new host (George Noory) it has gotten to the point where I cringe about the topics being discussed. During High School and College I remeber staying up doing homework listening to Art Bell discuss awesome topics and generally making me want to further explore things that we being discussed. But most of all it was a fun experience and I looked forward to it every night getting my antenna just in the right position to catch the signal and hear they were going to have open lines. They used to have on Scientist from respected colleges, MIT teachers, philosophers, Artist, theoretical physicist, and the occasional crazy. But lately it has got to point where I can't even listen for a few minutes because of the topics being discussed. Even though the schedule on the site says certain topics somehow they change it last minute or the guest calls out. Over the last months they included 1. A Rep from The Christian Network discussing how Muslims are infilterating America and planning to take over the justice system 2. A Tea Party talking head discussing how, if needed, we need to take up arms against the federal goverement. 3. Minutemen discussing Anchor babies and how America is dying due to the influx of immigrants and thier diseases. 4. Obama being a Muslim 5. And just general Fear mongering, buy gold now, anti-Vaccine, anti-muslim, rhetoric. It feels like im listening to Glenn Beck radio news hour or something. TL;DR: CoCoAAM is being taken over by right wing nutjobs and I don't know what we can do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know how many of you are familar with the show but its a fun listen late at night that I used to enjoy but ever since the new host (George Noory) it has gotten to the point where I cringe about the topics being discussed. During High School and College I remeber staying up doing homework listening to Art Bell discuss awesome topics and generally making me want to further explore things that we being discussed. But most of all it was a fun experience and I looked forward to it every night getting my antenna just in the right position to catch the signal and hear they were going to have open lines. They used to have on Scientist from respected colleges, MIT teachers, philosophers, Artist, theoretical physicist, and the occasional crazy. But lately it has got to point where I can't even listen for a few minutes because of the topics being discussed. Even though the schedule on the site says certain topics somehow they change it last minute or the guest calls out. Over the last months they included 1. A Rep from The Christian Network discussing how Muslims are infilterating America and planning to take over the justice system 2. A Tea Party talking head discussing how, if needed, we need to take up arms against the federal goverement. 3. Minutemen discussing Anchor babies and how America is dying due to the influx of immigrants and thier diseases. 4. Obama being a Muslim 5. And just general Fear mongering, buy gold now, anti-Vaccine, anti-muslim, rhetoric. It feels like im listening to Glenn Beck radio news hour or something. TL;DR: I don't like the topics being discussed at Coast to Coast AM. I want to try and talk to the host's boss about changing the topic or leaving the show.<|endoftext|>

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Things have been great between the two of us, though there has been a significant source of stress that was making life much harder the last month, and is slightly ongoing. Long story short, she got out of her abusive relationship and we never officially said it but we somehow ended up dating and we have become very close. However, I recently learned that she feels we spend too much time together. Or to quote "a few times a week would be fine but he wants to all the time". We're both in university, in the same class and live very near to one another so naturally I see her everyday. On 99% of nights we will sleep in the same bed either at my place or hers. During the day we generally eat lunch together and then the rest of the day we spend apart. Now, I was actually thinking we had been spending too much together anyway...and now hearing this just leads me to question why she didn't say anything, or still hasn't said anything? Should I take the initiative and bring up a conversation about it? Something like "I enjoy your company but I've been feeling like you're getting a little smothered and need your space a little more." Or should I just speak through my actions and begin giving her more space and not seeing her as often? Without the talking. Which would be more effective? And which would reflect better on me. I'd assume talking would be good, being adults and all...but in this case it seems like actions may speak louder than words.

GF wants to talk about me spending too much time together...but hasn't said anything. I don't know how to approach the situation.

Recent revelation from a third party that my girlfriend feels we spend too much time together. What should I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things have been great between the two of us, though there has been a significant source of stress that was making life much harder the last month, and is slightly ongoing. Long story short, she got out of her abusive relationship and we never officially said it but we somehow ended up dating and we have become very close. However, I recently learned that she feels we spend too much time together. Or to quote "a few times a week would be fine but he wants to all the time". We're both in university, in the same class and live very near to one another so naturally I see her everyday. On 99% of nights we will sleep in the same bed either at my place or hers. During the day we generally eat lunch together and then the rest of the day we spend apart. Now, I was actually thinking we had been spending too much together anyway...and now hearing this just leads me to question why she didn't say anything, or still hasn't said anything? Should I take the initiative and bring up a conversation about it? Something like "I enjoy your company but I've been feeling like you're getting a little smothered and need your space a little more." Or should I just speak through my actions and begin giving her more space and not seeing her as often? Without the talking. Which would be more effective? And which would reflect better on me. I'd assume talking would be good, being adults and all...but in this case it seems like actions may speak louder than words. TL;DR:

GF wants to talk about me spending too much time together...but hasn't said anything. I don't know how to approach the situation.<|endoftext|>

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Recent revelation from a third party that my girlfriend feels we spend too much time together. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things have been great between the two of us, though there has been a significant source of stress that was making life much harder the last month, and is slightly ongoing. Long story short, she got out of her abusive relationship and we never officially said it but we somehow ended up dating and we have become very close. However, I recently learned that she feels we spend too much time together. Or to quote "a few times a week would be fine but he wants to all the time". We're both in university, in the same class and live very near to one another so naturally I see her everyday. On 99% of nights we will sleep in the same bed either at my place or hers. During the day we generally eat lunch together and then the rest of the day we spend apart. Now, I was actually thinking we had been spending too much together anyway...and now hearing this just leads me to question why she didn't say anything, or still hasn't said anything? Should I take the initiative and bring up a conversation about it? Something like "I enjoy your company but I've been feeling like you're getting a little smothered and need your space a little more." Or should I just speak through my actions and begin giving her more space and not seeing her as often? Without the talking. Which would be more effective? And which would reflect better on me. I'd assume talking would be good, being adults and all...but in this case it seems like actions may speak louder than words. TL;DR: GF wants to talk about me spending too much time together...but hasn't said anything. I don't know how to approach the situation.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things have been great between the two of us, though there has been a significant source of stress that was making life much harder the last month, and is slightly ongoing. Long story short, she got out of her abusive relationship and we never officially said it but we somehow ended up dating and we have become very close. However, I recently learned that she feels we spend too much time together. Or to quote "a few times a week would be fine but he wants to all the time". We're both in university, in the same class and live very near to one another so naturally I see her everyday. On 99% of nights we will sleep in the same bed either at my place or hers. During the day we generally eat lunch together and then the rest of the day we spend apart. Now, I was actually thinking we had been spending too much together anyway...and now hearing this just leads me to question why she didn't say anything, or still hasn't said anything? Should I take the initiative and bring up a conversation about it? Something like "I enjoy your company but I've been feeling like you're getting a little smothered and need your space a little more." Or should I just speak through my actions and begin giving her more space and not seeing her as often? Without the talking. Which would be more effective? And which would reflect better on me. I'd assume talking would be good, being adults and all...but in this case it seems like actions may speak louder than words. TL;DR: Recent revelation from a third party that my girlfriend feels we spend too much time together. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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I'm not sure if there's a bunch of pessimists on the subreddit; I haven't visited here much. So, please, if you're going to be negative don't respond. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. In the past, I have never pictured myself ending up with anyone, I always ran away or avoided relationship situations. When I met him, something inside of me melted. He is everything I secretly wanted but was too afraid to find. He just appeared when I least expected it and I couldn't be happier. Anyways, fast forward to now. He's going to college to become a shipping merchant, working in the engine room. When he graduates, he will have a job that requires him to work a month on/month off. He is doing this to pursue his dream of having enough money and time to travel. What we both want in our futures is to travel. I know some of you may be thinking I'm naive or fooling myself, but I know that this is the love of my life. It doesn't make sense to be with anyone else. Being with him is right. The only thing is, is that I'm afraid that I won't be able to handle being alone for a month at a time. I know that in order to be with him this is how it would have to be. Basically, either handle being apart so we can be together, or not have him at all. I can't imagine a life without him. I know it's a ways down the road, but this is the only thing that could tear us apart, and I don't want that to happen. We have reached the point in our relationship where we see each other in one another's futures; it just makes sense. I don't want to lose him because being apart is something I'm not able to handle. Basically, any advice/similar stories/anything would be helpful.

Boyfriend and I are going to be apart for a month. I'm afraid it will break us apart.

My boyfriend and I are going to college and I'm scared that I'll be able to handle being apart for months at a time.

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Boyfriend and I are going to be apart for a month. I'm afraid it will break us apart.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend and I are going to college and I'm scared that I'll be able to handle being apart for months at a time.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm not sure if there's a bunch of pessimists on the subreddit; I haven't visited here much. So, please, if you're going to be negative don't respond. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. In the past, I have never pictured myself ending up with anyone, I always ran away or avoided relationship situations. When I met him, something inside of me melted. He is everything I secretly wanted but was too afraid to find. He just appeared when I least expected it and I couldn't be happier. Anyways, fast forward to now. He's going to college to become a shipping merchant, working in the engine room. When he graduates, he will have a job that requires him to work a month on/month off. He is doing this to pursue his dream of having enough money and time to travel. What we both want in our futures is to travel. I know some of you may be thinking I'm naive or fooling myself, but I know that this is the love of my life. It doesn't make sense to be with anyone else. Being with him is right. The only thing is, is that I'm afraid that I won't be able to handle being alone for a month at a time. I know that in order to be with him this is how it would have to be. Basically, either handle being apart so we can be together, or not have him at all. I can't imagine a life without him. I know it's a ways down the road, but this is the only thing that could tear us apart, and I don't want that to happen. We have reached the point in our relationship where we see each other in one another's futures; it just makes sense. I don't want to lose him because being apart is something I'm not able to handle. Basically, any advice/similar stories/anything would be helpful. TL;DR: Boyfriend and I are going to be apart for a month. I'm afraid it will break us apart.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm not sure if there's a bunch of pessimists on the subreddit; I haven't visited here much. So, please, if you're going to be negative don't respond. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. In the past, I have never pictured myself ending up with anyone, I always ran away or avoided relationship situations. When I met him, something inside of me melted. He is everything I secretly wanted but was too afraid to find. He just appeared when I least expected it and I couldn't be happier. Anyways, fast forward to now. He's going to college to become a shipping merchant, working in the engine room. When he graduates, he will have a job that requires him to work a month on/month off. He is doing this to pursue his dream of having enough money and time to travel. What we both want in our futures is to travel. I know some of you may be thinking I'm naive or fooling myself, but I know that this is the love of my life. It doesn't make sense to be with anyone else. Being with him is right. The only thing is, is that I'm afraid that I won't be able to handle being alone for a month at a time. I know that in order to be with him this is how it would have to be. Basically, either handle being apart so we can be together, or not have him at all. I can't imagine a life without him. I know it's a ways down the road, but this is the only thing that could tear us apart, and I don't want that to happen. We have reached the point in our relationship where we see each other in one another's futures; it just makes sense. I don't want to lose him because being apart is something I'm not able to handle. Basically, any advice/similar stories/anything would be helpful. TL;DR: My boyfriend and I are going to college and I'm scared that I'll be able to handle being apart for months at a time.<|endoftext|>

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What a fun morning it's been, Reddit! I wake up to a message from friend A telling me that friend J found my Reddit account last night and was going though all of my posts/comments last night with other friends on TeamSpeak. ...wtf, seriously? What happened is, I'm in a certain video game club at my school and the members all kind of suck in that way that video game club members tend to do. My boyfriend is the best player at this game in the club, so he's very nerd popular. Apparently the other nerds thought it would be fun to read through BF's Reddit posts since they're weird and they know his username, and they found me through one of those comments. Now look, I'm not stupid, I know that nothing you post on the internet is private. But I like Reddit because it's (fairly) anonymous, and I could talk to strangers about things that I don't want to / feel comfortable talking to my real life friends about. Mental health issues, drug stuff, relationship stuff, etc. I just never thought that someone I actually knew would go as far as to find my profile and read through it all. I deleted my posts and comments that I didn't want known to literally everyone because apparently I don't have any privacy. COOL. Y'all nerds fucking suck.

Reddit's not anonymous and I just found out that my boyfriend's nerdfriends know exactly what kind of weird shit I post.

Nerds found my identity through my Reddit account and went through all my comments to find out my thoughts on gaming, my life, and my personal struggles.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: What a fun morning it's been, Reddit! I wake up to a message from friend A telling me that friend J found my Reddit account last night and was going though all of my posts/comments last night with other friends on TeamSpeak. ...wtf, seriously? What happened is, I'm in a certain video game club at my school and the members all kind of suck in that way that video game club members tend to do. My boyfriend is the best player at this game in the club, so he's very nerd popular. Apparently the other nerds thought it would be fun to read through BF's Reddit posts since they're weird and they know his username, and they found me through one of those comments. Now look, I'm not stupid, I know that nothing you post on the internet is private. But I like Reddit because it's (fairly) anonymous, and I could talk to strangers about things that I don't want to / feel comfortable talking to my real life friends about. Mental health issues, drug stuff, relationship stuff, etc. I just never thought that someone I actually knew would go as far as to find my profile and read through it all. I deleted my posts and comments that I didn't want known to literally everyone because apparently I don't have any privacy. COOL. Y'all nerds fucking suck. TL;DR:

Reddit's not anonymous and I just found out that my boyfriend's nerdfriends know exactly what kind of weird shit I post.<|endoftext|>

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Nerds found my identity through my Reddit account and went through all my comments to find out my thoughts on gaming, my life, and my personal struggles.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: What a fun morning it's been, Reddit! I wake up to a message from friend A telling me that friend J found my Reddit account last night and was going though all of my posts/comments last night with other friends on TeamSpeak. ...wtf, seriously? What happened is, I'm in a certain video game club at my school and the members all kind of suck in that way that video game club members tend to do. My boyfriend is the best player at this game in the club, so he's very nerd popular. Apparently the other nerds thought it would be fun to read through BF's Reddit posts since they're weird and they know his username, and they found me through one of those comments. Now look, I'm not stupid, I know that nothing you post on the internet is private. But I like Reddit because it's (fairly) anonymous, and I could talk to strangers about things that I don't want to / feel comfortable talking to my real life friends about. Mental health issues, drug stuff, relationship stuff, etc. I just never thought that someone I actually knew would go as far as to find my profile and read through it all. I deleted my posts and comments that I didn't want known to literally everyone because apparently I don't have any privacy. COOL. Y'all nerds fucking suck. TL;DR: Reddit's not anonymous and I just found out that my boyfriend's nerdfriends know exactly what kind of weird shit I post.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: What a fun morning it's been, Reddit! I wake up to a message from friend A telling me that friend J found my Reddit account last night and was going though all of my posts/comments last night with other friends on TeamSpeak. ...wtf, seriously? What happened is, I'm in a certain video game club at my school and the members all kind of suck in that way that video game club members tend to do. My boyfriend is the best player at this game in the club, so he's very nerd popular. Apparently the other nerds thought it would be fun to read through BF's Reddit posts since they're weird and they know his username, and they found me through one of those comments. Now look, I'm not stupid, I know that nothing you post on the internet is private. But I like Reddit because it's (fairly) anonymous, and I could talk to strangers about things that I don't want to / feel comfortable talking to my real life friends about. Mental health issues, drug stuff, relationship stuff, etc. I just never thought that someone I actually knew would go as far as to find my profile and read through it all. I deleted my posts and comments that I didn't want known to literally everyone because apparently I don't have any privacy. COOL. Y'all nerds fucking suck. TL;DR: Nerds found my identity through my Reddit account and went through all my comments to find out my thoughts on gaming, my life, and my personal struggles.<|endoftext|>

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I'll start with my own tale of awkward woe. I'm still on good terms with an ex-girlfriend of mine from a year or two back, and she recently went out of her way to arrange a meeting between myself and one of her coworkers. It wasn't supposed to really be anything serious, and it was more of a group gathering at a local bar with some mutual friends where I could potentially work a little magic and see where things go. Normally this would be no big deal, but I did not anticipate the fact that my ex would spend three days before our little gathering talking me up to this chick. I also did not anticipate that she would come over to my house an hour before the meet and explain to me that she had done this. I'm not exactly the most confident person on the best of days, and something about this knowledge completely drained my determination to succeed. So I did not succeed. At all. In fact, it was probably the poorest showing on a group-arranged-meetup-thing in my life. The bar was filled with a bunch of townie fucks, my friends spent most of their time sitting at our table awkwardly texting other people and trying to avoid direct eye contact with anyone they didn't know, and in four hours there were maybe five whole minutes in which we had the opportunity to speak to one another without some sort of interruption by either her friends or mine (which I squandered with my impending lack of self-confidence). It was pretty terrible, and after maybe an hour or so I was nicely drunk and content to sit back and have one of those moments where it seems as if life itself is ebbing and flowing around you and there is little else but to sit like a stone and watch it happen.

I went on a first date with an ex who managed to make me dread every second of it, and then proceeded to spend the rest of our time together in a near-empty bar.

ex convinced a group of people to go on a date with me, I failed miserably, friends spent most of the time trying not to laugh.

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I went on a first date with an ex who managed to make me dread every second of it, and then proceeded to spend the rest of our time together in a near-empty bar.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll start with my own tale of awkward woe. I'm still on good terms with an ex-girlfriend of mine from a year or two back, and she recently went out of her way to arrange a meeting between myself and one of her coworkers. It wasn't supposed to really be anything serious, and it was more of a group gathering at a local bar with some mutual friends where I could potentially work a little magic and see where things go. Normally this would be no big deal, but I did not anticipate the fact that my ex would spend three days before our little gathering talking me up to this chick. I also did not anticipate that she would come over to my house an hour before the meet and explain to me that she had done this. I'm not exactly the most confident person on the best of days, and something about this knowledge completely drained my determination to succeed. So I did not succeed. At all. In fact, it was probably the poorest showing on a group-arranged-meetup-thing in my life. The bar was filled with a bunch of townie fucks, my friends spent most of their time sitting at our table awkwardly texting other people and trying to avoid direct eye contact with anyone they didn't know, and in four hours there were maybe five whole minutes in which we had the opportunity to speak to one another without some sort of interruption by either her friends or mine (which I squandered with my impending lack of self-confidence). It was pretty terrible, and after maybe an hour or so I was nicely drunk and content to sit back and have one of those moments where it seems as if life itself is ebbing and flowing around you and there is little else but to sit like a stone and watch it happen. TL;DR: I went on a first date with an ex who managed to make me dread every second of it, and then proceeded to spend the rest of our time together in a near-empty bar.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll start with my own tale of awkward woe. I'm still on good terms with an ex-girlfriend of mine from a year or two back, and she recently went out of her way to arrange a meeting between myself and one of her coworkers. It wasn't supposed to really be anything serious, and it was more of a group gathering at a local bar with some mutual friends where I could potentially work a little magic and see where things go. Normally this would be no big deal, but I did not anticipate the fact that my ex would spend three days before our little gathering talking me up to this chick. I also did not anticipate that she would come over to my house an hour before the meet and explain to me that she had done this. I'm not exactly the most confident person on the best of days, and something about this knowledge completely drained my determination to succeed. So I did not succeed. At all. In fact, it was probably the poorest showing on a group-arranged-meetup-thing in my life. The bar was filled with a bunch of townie fucks, my friends spent most of their time sitting at our table awkwardly texting other people and trying to avoid direct eye contact with anyone they didn't know, and in four hours there were maybe five whole minutes in which we had the opportunity to speak to one another without some sort of interruption by either her friends or mine (which I squandered with my impending lack of self-confidence). It was pretty terrible, and after maybe an hour or so I was nicely drunk and content to sit back and have one of those moments where it seems as if life itself is ebbing and flowing around you and there is little else but to sit like a stone and watch it happen. TL;DR: ex convinced a group of people to go on a date with me, I failed miserably, friends spent most of the time trying not to laugh.<|endoftext|>

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Hello, advice givers, help a girl out? Context: Me and this boy (we'll call him J) have been casually sleeping together for about six months. We're in sixth form together and see each other pretty much every day. I'd just come out of a difficult two year relationship with J's friend D (D and J aren't close by any stretch of the imagination). It was fun - I didn't want anything emotional and J was happy with our arrangements. We went though periods of seeing other people - I was seeing a girl for a few weeks and he saw a friend of mine for a few weeks too - but it never worked out and we always ended back in bed together. Now here's my dilemma. One night I was talking to him about why it hadn't worked out between him and my friend. We were both a bit drunk, and he admitted that it was because he fancied me but knew I wasn't big on the whole emotional attachment thing. Well, this threw me because I had been trying not to admit to myself that I liked J for a while - I'd been trying to keep it strictly sexual with him, nothing emotional because that's how people get hurt. I stupidly admitted this to him and he suggested that we become 'exclusive friends with benefits' - ie, we don't shag anyone else but each other. Thing is, it's not just sexual anymore- he knows a lot about me, things that would put any normal teenage lad off (I have a history of mental illness and a dysfunctional family that I'm not wild about people meeting) and we talk a lot about pretty much everything. He frequently says that we are 'basically a couple' and dislikes that I want to keep it secret. I think J wants more from this, and. I don't know how to handle it. I like the boy, I do - but I feel like he wants more than I was expecting.

Boy wants more than I'm willing to give him. How do I approach this?

M/17 acting like we're a couple. I thought this was just about sex. How do I handle this?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, advice givers, help a girl out? Context: Me and this boy (we'll call him J) have been casually sleeping together for about six months. We're in sixth form together and see each other pretty much every day. I'd just come out of a difficult two year relationship with J's friend D (D and J aren't close by any stretch of the imagination). It was fun - I didn't want anything emotional and J was happy with our arrangements. We went though periods of seeing other people - I was seeing a girl for a few weeks and he saw a friend of mine for a few weeks too - but it never worked out and we always ended back in bed together. Now here's my dilemma. One night I was talking to him about why it hadn't worked out between him and my friend. We were both a bit drunk, and he admitted that it was because he fancied me but knew I wasn't big on the whole emotional attachment thing. Well, this threw me because I had been trying not to admit to myself that I liked J for a while - I'd been trying to keep it strictly sexual with him, nothing emotional because that's how people get hurt. I stupidly admitted this to him and he suggested that we become 'exclusive friends with benefits' - ie, we don't shag anyone else but each other. Thing is, it's not just sexual anymore- he knows a lot about me, things that would put any normal teenage lad off (I have a history of mental illness and a dysfunctional family that I'm not wild about people meeting) and we talk a lot about pretty much everything. He frequently says that we are 'basically a couple' and dislikes that I want to keep it secret. I think J wants more from this, and. I don't know how to handle it. I like the boy, I do - but I feel like he wants more than I was expecting. TL;DR:

Boy wants more than I'm willing to give him. How do I approach this?<|endoftext|>

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M/17 acting like we're a couple. I thought this was just about sex. How do I handle this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, advice givers, help a girl out? Context: Me and this boy (we'll call him J) have been casually sleeping together for about six months. We're in sixth form together and see each other pretty much every day. I'd just come out of a difficult two year relationship with J's friend D (D and J aren't close by any stretch of the imagination). It was fun - I didn't want anything emotional and J was happy with our arrangements. We went though periods of seeing other people - I was seeing a girl for a few weeks and he saw a friend of mine for a few weeks too - but it never worked out and we always ended back in bed together. Now here's my dilemma. One night I was talking to him about why it hadn't worked out between him and my friend. We were both a bit drunk, and he admitted that it was because he fancied me but knew I wasn't big on the whole emotional attachment thing. Well, this threw me because I had been trying not to admit to myself that I liked J for a while - I'd been trying to keep it strictly sexual with him, nothing emotional because that's how people get hurt. I stupidly admitted this to him and he suggested that we become 'exclusive friends with benefits' - ie, we don't shag anyone else but each other. Thing is, it's not just sexual anymore- he knows a lot about me, things that would put any normal teenage lad off (I have a history of mental illness and a dysfunctional family that I'm not wild about people meeting) and we talk a lot about pretty much everything. He frequently says that we are 'basically a couple' and dislikes that I want to keep it secret. I think J wants more from this, and. I don't know how to handle it. I like the boy, I do - but I feel like he wants more than I was expecting. TL;DR: Boy wants more than I'm willing to give him. How do I approach this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, advice givers, help a girl out? Context: Me and this boy (we'll call him J) have been casually sleeping together for about six months. We're in sixth form together and see each other pretty much every day. I'd just come out of a difficult two year relationship with J's friend D (D and J aren't close by any stretch of the imagination). It was fun - I didn't want anything emotional and J was happy with our arrangements. We went though periods of seeing other people - I was seeing a girl for a few weeks and he saw a friend of mine for a few weeks too - but it never worked out and we always ended back in bed together. Now here's my dilemma. One night I was talking to him about why it hadn't worked out between him and my friend. We were both a bit drunk, and he admitted that it was because he fancied me but knew I wasn't big on the whole emotional attachment thing. Well, this threw me because I had been trying not to admit to myself that I liked J for a while - I'd been trying to keep it strictly sexual with him, nothing emotional because that's how people get hurt. I stupidly admitted this to him and he suggested that we become 'exclusive friends with benefits' - ie, we don't shag anyone else but each other. Thing is, it's not just sexual anymore- he knows a lot about me, things that would put any normal teenage lad off (I have a history of mental illness and a dysfunctional family that I'm not wild about people meeting) and we talk a lot about pretty much everything. He frequently says that we are 'basically a couple' and dislikes that I want to keep it secret. I think J wants more from this, and. I don't know how to handle it. I like the boy, I do - but I feel like he wants more than I was expecting. TL;DR: M/17 acting like we're a couple. I thought this was just about sex. How do I handle this?<|endoftext|>

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My girlfriend left to work out of state for the summer a couple weeks ago. We spoke the day before and she told me, essentially, that she is not pushing herself as much as she should because being in a relationship is making her too complacent. So she is putting us on pause until the end of summer so she can develop independence and regain motivation. I love her more than I thought I would. She means the world to me and it was very hard to hear this. Regardless, I supported her for doing this because it will help her to cultivate happiness and strengthen our relationship. Love isn't always about you, it's for them. After getting off the phone, I cried harder than I have in a long time. It feels like a lifeline just got separated from me. But it's also been a realization of how much I really care and love this girl and I want to make this last for as long as possible. I know she loves me very much and we tell each other as often as we can, I just fear she will change her feelings towards me by the end of summer. I just have so many questions about myself, her, love and the future of our relationship. There's so much uncertainty that I am trying to cope with. I turned to reddit because I don't know who to turn to to talk about this. Your thoughts/shared experiences are much appreciated.

Girlfriend of 8 months put our relationship on pause so she can regain motivation and independence. Having some serious questions about our future and love relationship. Need advice/feedback.

girlfriend of 8 months decided to put relationship on pause with me because she is bored and lack motivation. Need advice on how to cope/make things last for as long as possible.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend left to work out of state for the summer a couple weeks ago. We spoke the day before and she told me, essentially, that she is not pushing herself as much as she should because being in a relationship is making her too complacent. So she is putting us on pause until the end of summer so she can develop independence and regain motivation. I love her more than I thought I would. She means the world to me and it was very hard to hear this. Regardless, I supported her for doing this because it will help her to cultivate happiness and strengthen our relationship. Love isn't always about you, it's for them. After getting off the phone, I cried harder than I have in a long time. It feels like a lifeline just got separated from me. But it's also been a realization of how much I really care and love this girl and I want to make this last for as long as possible. I know she loves me very much and we tell each other as often as we can, I just fear she will change her feelings towards me by the end of summer. I just have so many questions about myself, her, love and the future of our relationship. There's so much uncertainty that I am trying to cope with. I turned to reddit because I don't know who to turn to to talk about this. Your thoughts/shared experiences are much appreciated. TL;DR:

Girlfriend of 8 months put our relationship on pause so she can regain motivation and independence. Having some serious questions about our future and love relationship. Need advice/feedback.<|endoftext|>

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girlfriend of 8 months decided to put relationship on pause with me because she is bored and lack motivation. Need advice on how to cope/make things last for as long as possible.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend left to work out of state for the summer a couple weeks ago. We spoke the day before and she told me, essentially, that she is not pushing herself as much as she should because being in a relationship is making her too complacent. So she is putting us on pause until the end of summer so she can develop independence and regain motivation. I love her more than I thought I would. She means the world to me and it was very hard to hear this. Regardless, I supported her for doing this because it will help her to cultivate happiness and strengthen our relationship. Love isn't always about you, it's for them. After getting off the phone, I cried harder than I have in a long time. It feels like a lifeline just got separated from me. But it's also been a realization of how much I really care and love this girl and I want to make this last for as long as possible. I know she loves me very much and we tell each other as often as we can, I just fear she will change her feelings towards me by the end of summer. I just have so many questions about myself, her, love and the future of our relationship. There's so much uncertainty that I am trying to cope with. I turned to reddit because I don't know who to turn to to talk about this. Your thoughts/shared experiences are much appreciated. TL;DR: Girlfriend of 8 months put our relationship on pause so she can regain motivation and independence. Having some serious questions about our future and love relationship. Need advice/feedback.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend left to work out of state for the summer a couple weeks ago. We spoke the day before and she told me, essentially, that she is not pushing herself as much as she should because being in a relationship is making her too complacent. So she is putting us on pause until the end of summer so she can develop independence and regain motivation. I love her more than I thought I would. She means the world to me and it was very hard to hear this. Regardless, I supported her for doing this because it will help her to cultivate happiness and strengthen our relationship. Love isn't always about you, it's for them. After getting off the phone, I cried harder than I have in a long time. It feels like a lifeline just got separated from me. But it's also been a realization of how much I really care and love this girl and I want to make this last for as long as possible. I know she loves me very much and we tell each other as often as we can, I just fear she will change her feelings towards me by the end of summer. I just have so many questions about myself, her, love and the future of our relationship. There's so much uncertainty that I am trying to cope with. I turned to reddit because I don't know who to turn to to talk about this. Your thoughts/shared experiences are much appreciated. TL;DR: girlfriend of 8 months decided to put relationship on pause with me because she is bored and lack motivation. Need advice on how to cope/make things last for as long as possible.<|endoftext|>

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I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning. Should I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it.

upstairs neighbor is super sensitive about certain things, should I ask him if its a problem before causing trouble for myself or wait and see if he complains before acting?

neighbor keeps making noise when running treadmill early in the morning, should I ask him to quiet down, or wait until he gets the message?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning. Should I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it. TL;DR:

upstairs neighbor is super sensitive about certain things, should I ask him if its a problem before causing trouble for myself or wait and see if he complains before acting?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning. Should I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it. TL;DR: upstairs neighbor is super sensitive about certain things, should I ask him if its a problem before causing trouble for myself or wait and see if he complains before acting?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning. Should I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it. TL;DR: neighbor keeps making noise when running treadmill early in the morning, should I ask him to quiet down, or wait until he gets the message?<|endoftext|>

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My wife has been looking forward to putting on a [Mord Sith]( costume for about 6 months now. She had a costumer lined up from Etsy, she thought, and the costume was to be delivered around 15-Aug. The costumer sent us some fabric samples that were just unacceptable, the first being a sort of fire-engine red, and the second being the correct shade of red but SHINY. I can't say anything silly like "price is not a consideration" but I hate to see my wife sad so I'd love to get any help I can to make her DragonCon dream come true. Do you know anyone, or have the skill yourself, to make a costume that would closely resemble a leather body suit? The original plan was some sort of lycra/spandex thing with bits of leather or leather analog. It needs to be blood red but not SHINY and not BRIGHT. All suggestions appreciated!!

My wife's costume-maker has failed to meet her expectations and I need your help to make a costume that closely resembles a leather body suit.

My wife's costumer flaked out and I need help finding one who can work quickly.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife has been looking forward to putting on a [Mord Sith]( costume for about 6 months now. She had a costumer lined up from Etsy, she thought, and the costume was to be delivered around 15-Aug. The costumer sent us some fabric samples that were just unacceptable, the first being a sort of fire-engine red, and the second being the correct shade of red but SHINY. I can't say anything silly like "price is not a consideration" but I hate to see my wife sad so I'd love to get any help I can to make her DragonCon dream come true. Do you know anyone, or have the skill yourself, to make a costume that would closely resemble a leather body suit? The original plan was some sort of lycra/spandex thing with bits of leather or leather analog. It needs to be blood red but not SHINY and not BRIGHT. All suggestions appreciated!! TL;DR:

My wife's costume-maker has failed to meet her expectations and I need your help to make a costume that closely resembles a leather body suit.<|endoftext|>

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My wife's costumer flaked out and I need help finding one who can work quickly.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife has been looking forward to putting on a [Mord Sith]( costume for about 6 months now. She had a costumer lined up from Etsy, she thought, and the costume was to be delivered around 15-Aug. The costumer sent us some fabric samples that were just unacceptable, the first being a sort of fire-engine red, and the second being the correct shade of red but SHINY. I can't say anything silly like "price is not a consideration" but I hate to see my wife sad so I'd love to get any help I can to make her DragonCon dream come true. Do you know anyone, or have the skill yourself, to make a costume that would closely resemble a leather body suit? The original plan was some sort of lycra/spandex thing with bits of leather or leather analog. It needs to be blood red but not SHINY and not BRIGHT. All suggestions appreciated!! TL;DR: My wife's costume-maker has failed to meet her expectations and I need your help to make a costume that closely resembles a leather body suit.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife has been looking forward to putting on a [Mord Sith]( costume for about 6 months now. She had a costumer lined up from Etsy, she thought, and the costume was to be delivered around 15-Aug. The costumer sent us some fabric samples that were just unacceptable, the first being a sort of fire-engine red, and the second being the correct shade of red but SHINY. I can't say anything silly like "price is not a consideration" but I hate to see my wife sad so I'd love to get any help I can to make her DragonCon dream come true. Do you know anyone, or have the skill yourself, to make a costume that would closely resemble a leather body suit? The original plan was some sort of lycra/spandex thing with bits of leather or leather analog. It needs to be blood red but not SHINY and not BRIGHT. All suggestions appreciated!! TL;DR: My wife's costumer flaked out and I need help finding one who can work quickly.<|endoftext|>

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Look. This girl and I have been best friends for years. She's one of the few people in this world that I can feel completely comfortable around and seems to truly accept me for who I am. She's hilarious, remarkably intelligent, and understanding all at the same time. Over the past two years or so I've been fighting this feeling, one completely different than anything I've felt before. I've dated before, I've had girlfriends, but this just seems so beyond that. I tried blowing this feeling off as stupid and meaningless, but honestly... I think that I love her. I'm so reluctant to even use that term. I'm seventeen for Christs sake, who am I to know what love even is, I've never been in love before. I care for her, and value our friendship above so much, that I wouldn't want to do anything to take that away, yet at the same time, I don't know what to do, or if I should tell her, or what.

I think I'm in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do, or if I should tell her or what.

My best friend and I have been best friends for years, and I feel like I'm in love with her. I don't know what to do.

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I think I'm in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do, or if I should tell her or what.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Look. This girl and I have been best friends for years. She's one of the few people in this world that I can feel completely comfortable around and seems to truly accept me for who I am. She's hilarious, remarkably intelligent, and understanding all at the same time. Over the past two years or so I've been fighting this feeling, one completely different than anything I've felt before. I've dated before, I've had girlfriends, but this just seems so beyond that. I tried blowing this feeling off as stupid and meaningless, but honestly... I think that I love her. I'm so reluctant to even use that term. I'm seventeen for Christs sake, who am I to know what love even is, I've never been in love before. I care for her, and value our friendship above so much, that I wouldn't want to do anything to take that away, yet at the same time, I don't know what to do, or if I should tell her, or what. TL;DR: My best friend and I have been best friends for years, and I feel like I'm in love with her. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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It's been 5 months and all of a sudden I've found myself admitting that I do miss her. eurgh! We weren't really good for each other, we connected on certain things especially on a physical level (sex). She had really bad insecurities, which led to her doing a lot of stupid things that I even tried to help her through, but it just didn't work. Since I was 16 I've been in three 2 year relationships and and one-1 year relationship, each right after the other. I realised this is a lot, and that I depend on the female company too much. So over the last 5 months I've focused on friends, new hobbies and planning a holiday. I've hung out with a few girls but honestly with all the bad stuff, me and my ex had certain connections I don't think I'll find in anyone else. She really could have been the one guys. It's sad. How long does this last?

My ex has been gone for 5 months, and I'm unsure how much longer I should be.

5 months, how long do I wait, and if 10 years I'm just over her?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It's been 5 months and all of a sudden I've found myself admitting that I do miss her. eurgh! We weren't really good for each other, we connected on certain things especially on a physical level (sex). She had really bad insecurities, which led to her doing a lot of stupid things that I even tried to help her through, but it just didn't work. Since I was 16 I've been in three 2 year relationships and and one-1 year relationship, each right after the other. I realised this is a lot, and that I depend on the female company too much. So over the last 5 months I've focused on friends, new hobbies and planning a holiday. I've hung out with a few girls but honestly with all the bad stuff, me and my ex had certain connections I don't think I'll find in anyone else. She really could have been the one guys. It's sad. How long does this last? TL;DR:

My ex has been gone for 5 months, and I'm unsure how much longer I should be.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It's been 5 months and all of a sudden I've found myself admitting that I do miss her. eurgh! We weren't really good for each other, we connected on certain things especially on a physical level (sex). She had really bad insecurities, which led to her doing a lot of stupid things that I even tried to help her through, but it just didn't work. Since I was 16 I've been in three 2 year relationships and and one-1 year relationship, each right after the other. I realised this is a lot, and that I depend on the female company too much. So over the last 5 months I've focused on friends, new hobbies and planning a holiday. I've hung out with a few girls but honestly with all the bad stuff, me and my ex had certain connections I don't think I'll find in anyone else. She really could have been the one guys. It's sad. How long does this last? TL;DR: My ex has been gone for 5 months, and I'm unsure how much longer I should be.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It's been 5 months and all of a sudden I've found myself admitting that I do miss her. eurgh! We weren't really good for each other, we connected on certain things especially on a physical level (sex). She had really bad insecurities, which led to her doing a lot of stupid things that I even tried to help her through, but it just didn't work. Since I was 16 I've been in three 2 year relationships and and one-1 year relationship, each right after the other. I realised this is a lot, and that I depend on the female company too much. So over the last 5 months I've focused on friends, new hobbies and planning a holiday. I've hung out with a few girls but honestly with all the bad stuff, me and my ex had certain connections I don't think I'll find in anyone else. She really could have been the one guys. It's sad. How long does this last? TL;DR: 5 months, how long do I wait, and if 10 years I'm just over her?<|endoftext|>

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Have any of you folks worked or had someone you know worked in Wal-Mart? If you/ they did, pause and give a brief thought of how you were treated in there. I don't know about but I know three people I knew were treated harshly and get paid to nearly little amount. My Mom had to endure stress by staying after hours because she works hard and strictly. Her paycheck is just only around $400 per month for a full time job. Her breaks only lasted 15 minutes and she can't just rush things up. My sister only applied to a different Wal-Mart for part-time only(she goes to college) and she only has a choice by either stay after hours and screw-up her school time schedule, or work in normal hours. Obviously she picked for normal hours but for the pas 2 months, she still hasn't received her paycheck, TWICE. Now on to my friend, he needs money so he can pay up for health care to his ill mother and if possible, get accepted to a local college. The man works 18 hours a day and never takes breaks, his only source of food is just a bottle of water, nothing else. I'm very tired to see my family endure hell. My sister recently snapped after she got home. She is still not payed. Luckily my mom quit and now works as a high school custodian and she has no regrets. As for my friend...I have no idea. So Reddit, I want to boycott Wal-Mart because it's not fair if our money we spend does not go towards the hard working employees who provided us help and assistance. I know I will get downvoted for saying this but I need your help to boycott Wal-Mart. If the people you know or yourself had endured this problem, then you might understand what I'm saying.

Want's to boycott Wal-Mart because I had loved ones worked in there and were treated very harshly while we customers do not know the truth.

Tell me how you and/ or a family member were treated in Wal-Mart.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Have any of you folks worked or had someone you know worked in Wal-Mart? If you/ they did, pause and give a brief thought of how you were treated in there. I don't know about but I know three people I knew were treated harshly and get paid to nearly little amount. My Mom had to endure stress by staying after hours because she works hard and strictly. Her paycheck is just only around $400 per month for a full time job. Her breaks only lasted 15 minutes and she can't just rush things up. My sister only applied to a different Wal-Mart for part-time only(she goes to college) and she only has a choice by either stay after hours and screw-up her school time schedule, or work in normal hours. Obviously she picked for normal hours but for the pas 2 months, she still hasn't received her paycheck, TWICE. Now on to my friend, he needs money so he can pay up for health care to his ill mother and if possible, get accepted to a local college. The man works 18 hours a day and never takes breaks, his only source of food is just a bottle of water, nothing else. I'm very tired to see my family endure hell. My sister recently snapped after she got home. She is still not payed. Luckily my mom quit and now works as a high school custodian and she has no regrets. As for my friend...I have no idea. So Reddit, I want to boycott Wal-Mart because it's not fair if our money we spend does not go towards the hard working employees who provided us help and assistance. I know I will get downvoted for saying this but I need your help to boycott Wal-Mart. If the people you know or yourself had endured this problem, then you might understand what I'm saying. TL;DR:

Want's to boycott Wal-Mart because I had loved ones worked in there and were treated very harshly while we customers do not know the truth.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Have any of you folks worked or had someone you know worked in Wal-Mart? If you/ they did, pause and give a brief thought of how you were treated in there. I don't know about but I know three people I knew were treated harshly and get paid to nearly little amount. My Mom had to endure stress by staying after hours because she works hard and strictly. Her paycheck is just only around $400 per month for a full time job. Her breaks only lasted 15 minutes and she can't just rush things up. My sister only applied to a different Wal-Mart for part-time only(she goes to college) and she only has a choice by either stay after hours and screw-up her school time schedule, or work in normal hours. Obviously she picked for normal hours but for the pas 2 months, she still hasn't received her paycheck, TWICE. Now on to my friend, he needs money so he can pay up for health care to his ill mother and if possible, get accepted to a local college. The man works 18 hours a day and never takes breaks, his only source of food is just a bottle of water, nothing else. I'm very tired to see my family endure hell. My sister recently snapped after she got home. She is still not payed. Luckily my mom quit and now works as a high school custodian and she has no regrets. As for my friend...I have no idea. So Reddit, I want to boycott Wal-Mart because it's not fair if our money we spend does not go towards the hard working employees who provided us help and assistance. I know I will get downvoted for saying this but I need your help to boycott Wal-Mart. If the people you know or yourself had endured this problem, then you might understand what I'm saying. TL;DR: Want's to boycott Wal-Mart because I had loved ones worked in there and were treated very harshly while we customers do not know the truth.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Have any of you folks worked or had someone you know worked in Wal-Mart? If you/ they did, pause and give a brief thought of how you were treated in there. I don't know about but I know three people I knew were treated harshly and get paid to nearly little amount. My Mom had to endure stress by staying after hours because she works hard and strictly. Her paycheck is just only around $400 per month for a full time job. Her breaks only lasted 15 minutes and she can't just rush things up. My sister only applied to a different Wal-Mart for part-time only(she goes to college) and she only has a choice by either stay after hours and screw-up her school time schedule, or work in normal hours. Obviously she picked for normal hours but for the pas 2 months, she still hasn't received her paycheck, TWICE. Now on to my friend, he needs money so he can pay up for health care to his ill mother and if possible, get accepted to a local college. The man works 18 hours a day and never takes breaks, his only source of food is just a bottle of water, nothing else. I'm very tired to see my family endure hell. My sister recently snapped after she got home. She is still not payed. Luckily my mom quit and now works as a high school custodian and she has no regrets. As for my friend...I have no idea. So Reddit, I want to boycott Wal-Mart because it's not fair if our money we spend does not go towards the hard working employees who provided us help and assistance. I know I will get downvoted for saying this but I need your help to boycott Wal-Mart. If the people you know or yourself had endured this problem, then you might understand what I'm saying. TL;DR: Tell me how you and/ or a family member were treated in Wal-Mart.<|endoftext|>

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Here's a break from the normal romantic relationship issues: I am a relatively new attorney. I have been practicing for a while, and while I am absolutely in love with my job, I hate networking. I have no problems about talking with other attorneys. I've met some fantastic mentors over a beer at conferences and other events. But I find it very hard to relate to others who are not attorneys. Specifically, I got a call from an acquaintance who is a financial planner, asking if we could meet up for lunch some time. My bullshit detector went off -- I have not spoken to him for several months, aside from passing along a name of a friend who opened her own law practice and does a lot of trusts/wills work. I have had only four interactions with this guy over the last 4 years. The last one was when he invited me to his office while I was in the area for coffee, and to catch up. After being ushered into a conference room, he showed up with another co-worker of his and the first words out of his mouth were, "So how can we help you today?" In my mind, I was pissed. I felt invited under false pretenses. I don't like being hoodwinked like that -- being invited for a friendly chat and that chat being abruptly changed to an attempted sell I don't really want to go to lunch with him. I know that if I do, he's going to try to pitch me his financial services, which I do not need, and do not want. My fiance and I are planning to move across the country when she finishes law school, so even then, his services really wouldn't be needed. What is the best way to cordially nip this in the bud? I have already said I would meet with him next week for lunch under pressure but I really don't want to, and honestly can't afford to take the time away from work.

Financial services guy I've met 4 times wants to sell me services, I don't want them. Need a kind, diplomatic way to either turn down lunch (ideally) or decline his services.

I am a new attorney and I don't want to be sold to by a financial planner. How do I tell him I'm not interested without beating him over the head?

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Financial services guy I've met 4 times wants to sell me services, I don't want them. Need a kind, diplomatic way to either turn down lunch (ideally) or decline his services.<|endoftext|>

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I am a new attorney and I don't want to be sold to by a financial planner. How do I tell him I'm not interested without beating him over the head?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here's a break from the normal romantic relationship issues: I am a relatively new attorney. I have been practicing for a while, and while I am absolutely in love with my job, I hate networking. I have no problems about talking with other attorneys. I've met some fantastic mentors over a beer at conferences and other events. But I find it very hard to relate to others who are not attorneys. Specifically, I got a call from an acquaintance who is a financial planner, asking if we could meet up for lunch some time. My bullshit detector went off -- I have not spoken to him for several months, aside from passing along a name of a friend who opened her own law practice and does a lot of trusts/wills work. I have had only four interactions with this guy over the last 4 years. The last one was when he invited me to his office while I was in the area for coffee, and to catch up. After being ushered into a conference room, he showed up with another co-worker of his and the first words out of his mouth were, "So how can we help you today?" In my mind, I was pissed. I felt invited under false pretenses. I don't like being hoodwinked like that -- being invited for a friendly chat and that chat being abruptly changed to an attempted sell I don't really want to go to lunch with him. I know that if I do, he's going to try to pitch me his financial services, which I do not need, and do not want. My fiance and I are planning to move across the country when she finishes law school, so even then, his services really wouldn't be needed. What is the best way to cordially nip this in the bud? I have already said I would meet with him next week for lunch under pressure but I really don't want to, and honestly can't afford to take the time away from work. TL;DR: Financial services guy I've met 4 times wants to sell me services, I don't want them. Need a kind, diplomatic way to either turn down lunch (ideally) or decline his services.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here's a break from the normal romantic relationship issues: I am a relatively new attorney. I have been practicing for a while, and while I am absolutely in love with my job, I hate networking. I have no problems about talking with other attorneys. I've met some fantastic mentors over a beer at conferences and other events. But I find it very hard to relate to others who are not attorneys. Specifically, I got a call from an acquaintance who is a financial planner, asking if we could meet up for lunch some time. My bullshit detector went off -- I have not spoken to him for several months, aside from passing along a name of a friend who opened her own law practice and does a lot of trusts/wills work. I have had only four interactions with this guy over the last 4 years. The last one was when he invited me to his office while I was in the area for coffee, and to catch up. After being ushered into a conference room, he showed up with another co-worker of his and the first words out of his mouth were, "So how can we help you today?" In my mind, I was pissed. I felt invited under false pretenses. I don't like being hoodwinked like that -- being invited for a friendly chat and that chat being abruptly changed to an attempted sell I don't really want to go to lunch with him. I know that if I do, he's going to try to pitch me his financial services, which I do not need, and do not want. My fiance and I are planning to move across the country when she finishes law school, so even then, his services really wouldn't be needed. What is the best way to cordially nip this in the bud? I have already said I would meet with him next week for lunch under pressure but I really don't want to, and honestly can't afford to take the time away from work. TL;DR: I am a new attorney and I don't want to be sold to by a financial planner. How do I tell him I'm not interested without beating him over the head?<|endoftext|>

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First time poster, I'm not sure if this belongs here but it sure felt good and I'll keep it as short as possible I grew up in a very small town and when I was in elementary school, from the ages of about 10-12 years old I was bullied. The bullying was extreme and was done by the "cool" boys of my class. As a young girl, being called many names by boys at such a young age really made a dent in my self esteem. With the support of my family I was able to move on and live life while ignoring the tormenting I recieved daily for the last couple years of elementary school. Since it was such a small town most of these little shits ended up going to the same high school as me. Of course I shed the baby fat and became super hot near the end of my high school career as well as saving up enough money to pay for a nice Jeep wrangler that I drove to school everyday. In the last year of high school you only have to take 3 classes per semester, which leaves you with a spare period. I made this my final period so that I could drive home earlier everyday, I also shared this time slot with one of my peers who happened to be involved in the teasing I recieved in my younger years. Since I had this sweet ride and he assumed we were all "buddy buddy" he ended up asking for a ride home. I made an excuse and said I didn't drive that day (but of course I did). I ended up pulling out of the parking lot as he was crossing to the other side. I dont usually hold grudges but it felt so good to wave goodbye to that Asshole on one of the final days of school knowing that he had to wait an hour to catch the bus.

asshole bullies young me then asks for a ride home. I waved him goodbye in the parking lot.

I'm a bitch to bullies, the bullied back, the bullies get their ass kicked.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First time poster, I'm not sure if this belongs here but it sure felt good and I'll keep it as short as possible I grew up in a very small town and when I was in elementary school, from the ages of about 10-12 years old I was bullied. The bullying was extreme and was done by the "cool" boys of my class. As a young girl, being called many names by boys at such a young age really made a dent in my self esteem. With the support of my family I was able to move on and live life while ignoring the tormenting I recieved daily for the last couple years of elementary school. Since it was such a small town most of these little shits ended up going to the same high school as me. Of course I shed the baby fat and became super hot near the end of my high school career as well as saving up enough money to pay for a nice Jeep wrangler that I drove to school everyday. In the last year of high school you only have to take 3 classes per semester, which leaves you with a spare period. I made this my final period so that I could drive home earlier everyday, I also shared this time slot with one of my peers who happened to be involved in the teasing I recieved in my younger years. Since I had this sweet ride and he assumed we were all "buddy buddy" he ended up asking for a ride home. I made an excuse and said I didn't drive that day (but of course I did). I ended up pulling out of the parking lot as he was crossing to the other side. I dont usually hold grudges but it felt so good to wave goodbye to that Asshole on one of the final days of school knowing that he had to wait an hour to catch the bus. TL;DR:

asshole bullies young me then asks for a ride home. I waved him goodbye in the parking lot.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a bitch to bullies, the bullied back, the bullies get their ass kicked.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First time poster, I'm not sure if this belongs here but it sure felt good and I'll keep it as short as possible I grew up in a very small town and when I was in elementary school, from the ages of about 10-12 years old I was bullied. The bullying was extreme and was done by the "cool" boys of my class. As a young girl, being called many names by boys at such a young age really made a dent in my self esteem. With the support of my family I was able to move on and live life while ignoring the tormenting I recieved daily for the last couple years of elementary school. Since it was such a small town most of these little shits ended up going to the same high school as me. Of course I shed the baby fat and became super hot near the end of my high school career as well as saving up enough money to pay for a nice Jeep wrangler that I drove to school everyday. In the last year of high school you only have to take 3 classes per semester, which leaves you with a spare period. I made this my final period so that I could drive home earlier everyday, I also shared this time slot with one of my peers who happened to be involved in the teasing I recieved in my younger years. Since I had this sweet ride and he assumed we were all "buddy buddy" he ended up asking for a ride home. I made an excuse and said I didn't drive that day (but of course I did). I ended up pulling out of the parking lot as he was crossing to the other side. I dont usually hold grudges but it felt so good to wave goodbye to that Asshole on one of the final days of school knowing that he had to wait an hour to catch the bus. TL;DR: asshole bullies young me then asks for a ride home. I waved him goodbye in the parking lot.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First time poster, I'm not sure if this belongs here but it sure felt good and I'll keep it as short as possible I grew up in a very small town and when I was in elementary school, from the ages of about 10-12 years old I was bullied. The bullying was extreme and was done by the "cool" boys of my class. As a young girl, being called many names by boys at such a young age really made a dent in my self esteem. With the support of my family I was able to move on and live life while ignoring the tormenting I recieved daily for the last couple years of elementary school. Since it was such a small town most of these little shits ended up going to the same high school as me. Of course I shed the baby fat and became super hot near the end of my high school career as well as saving up enough money to pay for a nice Jeep wrangler that I drove to school everyday. In the last year of high school you only have to take 3 classes per semester, which leaves you with a spare period. I made this my final period so that I could drive home earlier everyday, I also shared this time slot with one of my peers who happened to be involved in the teasing I recieved in my younger years. Since I had this sweet ride and he assumed we were all "buddy buddy" he ended up asking for a ride home. I made an excuse and said I didn't drive that day (but of course I did). I ended up pulling out of the parking lot as he was crossing to the other side. I dont usually hold grudges but it felt so good to wave goodbye to that Asshole on one of the final days of school knowing that he had to wait an hour to catch the bus. TL;DR: I'm a bitch to bullies, the bullied back, the bullies get their ass kicked.<|endoftext|>

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I'm engaged. I have been for 9 months. I'm supposed to get married 9 months from now. I'm calling off my wedding because I'm not ready. I don't want to lose him or leave him, but I am not ready to get married. I've been going through a lot of family stuff and a lot of soul searching; trying to figure out who I am independently. I've been in relationships basically since I was 15. I'm afraid that I'll never know if I can stand on my own. I'm afraid I'll always be dependent on other people. I'm scared something will happen to my future husband and I won't have the tools I need to stand alone. Am I incredibly selfish? Am I being smart? Should he stick around if he loves me? I love him. I don't know what to do or what he should do. I'm miserable and confused.

don't want to get married, but don't know if I want to be single forever.

Would you wait for the person you love to be ready to get married even if you already have a wedding in the works, and you're ready yourself?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm engaged. I have been for 9 months. I'm supposed to get married 9 months from now. I'm calling off my wedding because I'm not ready. I don't want to lose him or leave him, but I am not ready to get married. I've been going through a lot of family stuff and a lot of soul searching; trying to figure out who I am independently. I've been in relationships basically since I was 15. I'm afraid that I'll never know if I can stand on my own. I'm afraid I'll always be dependent on other people. I'm scared something will happen to my future husband and I won't have the tools I need to stand alone. Am I incredibly selfish? Am I being smart? Should he stick around if he loves me? I love him. I don't know what to do or what he should do. I'm miserable and confused. TL;DR:

don't want to get married, but don't know if I want to be single forever.<|endoftext|>

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Would you wait for the person you love to be ready to get married even if you already have a wedding in the works, and you're ready yourself?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm engaged. I have been for 9 months. I'm supposed to get married 9 months from now. I'm calling off my wedding because I'm not ready. I don't want to lose him or leave him, but I am not ready to get married. I've been going through a lot of family stuff and a lot of soul searching; trying to figure out who I am independently. I've been in relationships basically since I was 15. I'm afraid that I'll never know if I can stand on my own. I'm afraid I'll always be dependent on other people. I'm scared something will happen to my future husband and I won't have the tools I need to stand alone. Am I incredibly selfish? Am I being smart? Should he stick around if he loves me? I love him. I don't know what to do or what he should do. I'm miserable and confused. TL;DR: don't want to get married, but don't know if I want to be single forever.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm engaged. I have been for 9 months. I'm supposed to get married 9 months from now. I'm calling off my wedding because I'm not ready. I don't want to lose him or leave him, but I am not ready to get married. I've been going through a lot of family stuff and a lot of soul searching; trying to figure out who I am independently. I've been in relationships basically since I was 15. I'm afraid that I'll never know if I can stand on my own. I'm afraid I'll always be dependent on other people. I'm scared something will happen to my future husband and I won't have the tools I need to stand alone. Am I incredibly selfish? Am I being smart? Should he stick around if he loves me? I love him. I don't know what to do or what he should do. I'm miserable and confused. TL;DR: Would you wait for the person you love to be ready to get married even if you already have a wedding in the works, and you're ready yourself?<|endoftext|>

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When you have no friends how do you do to make new? i mean most people make new friends because they meet the friends of the friends, of the GF, BF..etc but when you have literally no one not even a cousin, if you try to make a friend he/she will find it weird that you know no one for the personal story i immigrated in another country and i always swore that i would never return to my native country which is a mix between a prison and a mental assylum... years after, i'm alone with no friends or family and for the first time since i immigrated i returned to this "country" that i still hate, just to stay with my childhood friends.. how pathetic is that? still it was not too bad because i made new friends (the famous friends of friends) had some fun but still no sane person can live there for a long time without losing a part of his mental sanity all of them dream of immigrating too because it's hell on earth there but it's nearly impossible of course after that i returned to the country confused.. i don't know what to do? if i stay in my original country, i will live a pathetic life with friends that are becoming more and more depressed because they live in a difficult country, if i stay in the country i currently live in (which i really like) i stay alone the ideal would be to make friends in this country but it seem a difficult task for me...

only have friends from my childhood, never made a new friend in 5 years, not sure how to make new friends

what should i do ?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When you have no friends how do you do to make new? i mean most people make new friends because they meet the friends of the friends, of the GF, BF..etc but when you have literally no one not even a cousin, if you try to make a friend he/she will find it weird that you know no one for the personal story i immigrated in another country and i always swore that i would never return to my native country which is a mix between a prison and a mental assylum... years after, i'm alone with no friends or family and for the first time since i immigrated i returned to this "country" that i still hate, just to stay with my childhood friends.. how pathetic is that? still it was not too bad because i made new friends (the famous friends of friends) had some fun but still no sane person can live there for a long time without losing a part of his mental sanity all of them dream of immigrating too because it's hell on earth there but it's nearly impossible of course after that i returned to the country confused.. i don't know what to do? if i stay in my original country, i will live a pathetic life with friends that are becoming more and more depressed because they live in a difficult country, if i stay in the country i currently live in (which i really like) i stay alone the ideal would be to make friends in this country but it seem a difficult task for me... TL;DR:

only have friends from my childhood, never made a new friend in 5 years, not sure how to make new friends<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When you have no friends how do you do to make new? i mean most people make new friends because they meet the friends of the friends, of the GF, BF..etc but when you have literally no one not even a cousin, if you try to make a friend he/she will find it weird that you know no one for the personal story i immigrated in another country and i always swore that i would never return to my native country which is a mix between a prison and a mental assylum... years after, i'm alone with no friends or family and for the first time since i immigrated i returned to this "country" that i still hate, just to stay with my childhood friends.. how pathetic is that? still it was not too bad because i made new friends (the famous friends of friends) had some fun but still no sane person can live there for a long time without losing a part of his mental sanity all of them dream of immigrating too because it's hell on earth there but it's nearly impossible of course after that i returned to the country confused.. i don't know what to do? if i stay in my original country, i will live a pathetic life with friends that are becoming more and more depressed because they live in a difficult country, if i stay in the country i currently live in (which i really like) i stay alone the ideal would be to make friends in this country but it seem a difficult task for me... TL;DR: only have friends from my childhood, never made a new friend in 5 years, not sure how to make new friends<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When you have no friends how do you do to make new? i mean most people make new friends because they meet the friends of the friends, of the GF, BF..etc but when you have literally no one not even a cousin, if you try to make a friend he/she will find it weird that you know no one for the personal story i immigrated in another country and i always swore that i would never return to my native country which is a mix between a prison and a mental assylum... years after, i'm alone with no friends or family and for the first time since i immigrated i returned to this "country" that i still hate, just to stay with my childhood friends.. how pathetic is that? still it was not too bad because i made new friends (the famous friends of friends) had some fun but still no sane person can live there for a long time without losing a part of his mental sanity all of them dream of immigrating too because it's hell on earth there but it's nearly impossible of course after that i returned to the country confused.. i don't know what to do? if i stay in my original country, i will live a pathetic life with friends that are becoming more and more depressed because they live in a difficult country, if i stay in the country i currently live in (which i really like) i stay alone the ideal would be to make friends in this country but it seem a difficult task for me... TL;DR: what should i do ?<|endoftext|>

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I'm going away to visit a friend whom I met on here from Australia this week. She is in a relationship, but still acts very strange towards me. She will want to stay up and fall asleep on skype, complain about music her boyfriend listens to and of how much she wishes he would be more like me. It's weird, it just seems like she has a thing for me, even though she is in this so-so seeming relationship with someone else. Some of my female friends suggested that she might be intimidated about a long distance thing or might even be wondering herself how I may feel about her. Also 1. She knows who I have dated before. And 2. She is self-conscious about her looks. 3. She hates being alone I say that because some of my friends said if they were in an iffy relationship and some much more awesome guy came around, they would be hesitant to do anything without knowing how he felt towards them. Should I say something to her just to clear the air and see how things go? Or leave it alone while I see her? We are going to be together for 7 days.

Going away to visit friend who is in a relationship, she acts weird towards me despite her being in a relationship. Should I say something to clear the air to see if things work out?

I think I may be insinuating something to my long-distance friend during our 7-day visit this week, should I say something or leave it alone until I see her?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm going away to visit a friend whom I met on here from Australia this week. She is in a relationship, but still acts very strange towards me. She will want to stay up and fall asleep on skype, complain about music her boyfriend listens to and of how much she wishes he would be more like me. It's weird, it just seems like she has a thing for me, even though she is in this so-so seeming relationship with someone else. Some of my female friends suggested that she might be intimidated about a long distance thing or might even be wondering herself how I may feel about her. Also 1. She knows who I have dated before. And 2. She is self-conscious about her looks. 3. She hates being alone I say that because some of my friends said if they were in an iffy relationship and some much more awesome guy came around, they would be hesitant to do anything without knowing how he felt towards them. Should I say something to her just to clear the air and see how things go? Or leave it alone while I see her? We are going to be together for 7 days. TL;DR:

Going away to visit friend who is in a relationship, she acts weird towards me despite her being in a relationship. Should I say something to clear the air to see if things work out?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm going away to visit a friend whom I met on here from Australia this week. She is in a relationship, but still acts very strange towards me. She will want to stay up and fall asleep on skype, complain about music her boyfriend listens to and of how much she wishes he would be more like me. It's weird, it just seems like she has a thing for me, even though she is in this so-so seeming relationship with someone else. Some of my female friends suggested that she might be intimidated about a long distance thing or might even be wondering herself how I may feel about her. Also 1. She knows who I have dated before. And 2. She is self-conscious about her looks. 3. She hates being alone I say that because some of my friends said if they were in an iffy relationship and some much more awesome guy came around, they would be hesitant to do anything without knowing how he felt towards them. Should I say something to her just to clear the air and see how things go? Or leave it alone while I see her? We are going to be together for 7 days. TL;DR: Going away to visit friend who is in a relationship, she acts weird towards me despite her being in a relationship. Should I say something to clear the air to see if things work out?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm going away to visit a friend whom I met on here from Australia this week. She is in a relationship, but still acts very strange towards me. She will want to stay up and fall asleep on skype, complain about music her boyfriend listens to and of how much she wishes he would be more like me. It's weird, it just seems like she has a thing for me, even though she is in this so-so seeming relationship with someone else. Some of my female friends suggested that she might be intimidated about a long distance thing or might even be wondering herself how I may feel about her. Also 1. She knows who I have dated before. And 2. She is self-conscious about her looks. 3. She hates being alone I say that because some of my friends said if they were in an iffy relationship and some much more awesome guy came around, they would be hesitant to do anything without knowing how he felt towards them. Should I say something to her just to clear the air and see how things go? Or leave it alone while I see her? We are going to be together for 7 days. TL;DR: I think I may be insinuating something to my long-distance friend during our 7-day visit this week, should I say something or leave it alone until I see her?<|endoftext|>

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Not to long ago, I moved across the country to go to school in a subject I wasn't really good at (family pressure, but that's a separate issue). I started doing very poorly (Cs) and had a great deal of difficulty. During this time I made only one real friend. Anyone, on one of our school projects I was having so much difficulty with the problems. With a deadline imminent and a desire to appease my parents I copied some of his work without explicit permission. Long story short we got caught and received some pretty sever point deductions. I ended up doing worse in the class than if I had just gotten the questions wrong, but more importantly my friend now hates me. I apologized profusely and emailed the professor accepting responsibility, but he refuses to award my friend back his points. Right now, I'm living with some relatives for the break, but I'm terrified of moving back in to my dorm knowing I fucked things up for both of us. I really don't know how to go about fixing this.

I fucked up by copying my friend's work. I don't know how to fix it.

Fucked up in class for a good amount of time, didn't get the grades I should have from a book I copied without permission. Now they won't let me back in my dorm, I'm being terrified to move in.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Not to long ago, I moved across the country to go to school in a subject I wasn't really good at (family pressure, but that's a separate issue). I started doing very poorly (Cs) and had a great deal of difficulty. During this time I made only one real friend. Anyone, on one of our school projects I was having so much difficulty with the problems. With a deadline imminent and a desire to appease my parents I copied some of his work without explicit permission. Long story short we got caught and received some pretty sever point deductions. I ended up doing worse in the class than if I had just gotten the questions wrong, but more importantly my friend now hates me. I apologized profusely and emailed the professor accepting responsibility, but he refuses to award my friend back his points. Right now, I'm living with some relatives for the break, but I'm terrified of moving back in to my dorm knowing I fucked things up for both of us. I really don't know how to go about fixing this. TL;DR:

I fucked up by copying my friend's work. I don't know how to fix it.<|endoftext|>

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Fucked up in class for a good amount of time, didn't get the grades I should have from a book I copied without permission. Now they won't let me back in my dorm, I'm being terrified to move in.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Not to long ago, I moved across the country to go to school in a subject I wasn't really good at (family pressure, but that's a separate issue). I started doing very poorly (Cs) and had a great deal of difficulty. During this time I made only one real friend. Anyone, on one of our school projects I was having so much difficulty with the problems. With a deadline imminent and a desire to appease my parents I copied some of his work without explicit permission. Long story short we got caught and received some pretty sever point deductions. I ended up doing worse in the class than if I had just gotten the questions wrong, but more importantly my friend now hates me. I apologized profusely and emailed the professor accepting responsibility, but he refuses to award my friend back his points. Right now, I'm living with some relatives for the break, but I'm terrified of moving back in to my dorm knowing I fucked things up for both of us. I really don't know how to go about fixing this. TL;DR: I fucked up by copying my friend's work. I don't know how to fix it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Not to long ago, I moved across the country to go to school in a subject I wasn't really good at (family pressure, but that's a separate issue). I started doing very poorly (Cs) and had a great deal of difficulty. During this time I made only one real friend. Anyone, on one of our school projects I was having so much difficulty with the problems. With a deadline imminent and a desire to appease my parents I copied some of his work without explicit permission. Long story short we got caught and received some pretty sever point deductions. I ended up doing worse in the class than if I had just gotten the questions wrong, but more importantly my friend now hates me. I apologized profusely and emailed the professor accepting responsibility, but he refuses to award my friend back his points. Right now, I'm living with some relatives for the break, but I'm terrified of moving back in to my dorm knowing I fucked things up for both of us. I really don't know how to go about fixing this. TL;DR: Fucked up in class for a good amount of time, didn't get the grades I should have from a book I copied without permission. Now they won't let me back in my dorm, I'm being terrified to move in.<|endoftext|>

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When I was 8 years old I was put in foster care for neglect. Of course all the questions were asked about my life alone with my father. I told the truth about everything. Yes, i was left alone for long periods of time and when i did have a babysitter they would be unsuitable to take care of a child. Yes i was exposed to seeing a lot of alcohol and some drugs. I knew all these where bad things. But they wouldnt leave me alone when i told them that i had never been innapropriately touched by anyone. They were sure of it and for a year and a half i was systematically prodded and encouraged to tell them what they wanted to know. Everyone from therapists to social workers and childrens advocated told me it was ok to tell and even tried to supply me with details i might have forgotten or tried to hide. In the end i finally got tired of it all and just told them what they wanted. This led to me testifying in court and my father being put away for something he did not do. The 80's were sort of a wild west for DAs when it came to high profile busts so i know they strived for every case that they could. Are there any other redditors that have been in a similar situation. How do you cope with the fact that you lied for someone else? Has it ever made you think that maybe you were molested and just buried it in you memories?

8 yr old boy falsely accused of molestation by foster care staff & was forced to tell truth in court. Wondering if there are any other redditors in similar shoes.

8 year old lied about being molested to foster care/CPS to try and get him put away. Other redditors experience similar things and wonder why they did it?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When I was 8 years old I was put in foster care for neglect. Of course all the questions were asked about my life alone with my father. I told the truth about everything. Yes, i was left alone for long periods of time and when i did have a babysitter they would be unsuitable to take care of a child. Yes i was exposed to seeing a lot of alcohol and some drugs. I knew all these where bad things. But they wouldnt leave me alone when i told them that i had never been innapropriately touched by anyone. They were sure of it and for a year and a half i was systematically prodded and encouraged to tell them what they wanted to know. Everyone from therapists to social workers and childrens advocated told me it was ok to tell and even tried to supply me with details i might have forgotten or tried to hide. In the end i finally got tired of it all and just told them what they wanted. This led to me testifying in court and my father being put away for something he did not do. The 80's were sort of a wild west for DAs when it came to high profile busts so i know they strived for every case that they could. Are there any other redditors that have been in a similar situation. How do you cope with the fact that you lied for someone else? Has it ever made you think that maybe you were molested and just buried it in you memories? TL;DR:

8 yr old boy falsely accused of molestation by foster care staff & was forced to tell truth in court. Wondering if there are any other redditors in similar shoes.<|endoftext|>

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8 year old lied about being molested to foster care/CPS to try and get him put away. Other redditors experience similar things and wonder why they did it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When I was 8 years old I was put in foster care for neglect. Of course all the questions were asked about my life alone with my father. I told the truth about everything. Yes, i was left alone for long periods of time and when i did have a babysitter they would be unsuitable to take care of a child. Yes i was exposed to seeing a lot of alcohol and some drugs. I knew all these where bad things. But they wouldnt leave me alone when i told them that i had never been innapropriately touched by anyone. They were sure of it and for a year and a half i was systematically prodded and encouraged to tell them what they wanted to know. Everyone from therapists to social workers and childrens advocated told me it was ok to tell and even tried to supply me with details i might have forgotten or tried to hide. In the end i finally got tired of it all and just told them what they wanted. This led to me testifying in court and my father being put away for something he did not do. The 80's were sort of a wild west for DAs when it came to high profile busts so i know they strived for every case that they could. Are there any other redditors that have been in a similar situation. How do you cope with the fact that you lied for someone else? Has it ever made you think that maybe you were molested and just buried it in you memories? TL;DR: 8 yr old boy falsely accused of molestation by foster care staff & was forced to tell truth in court. Wondering if there are any other redditors in similar shoes.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When I was 8 years old I was put in foster care for neglect. Of course all the questions were asked about my life alone with my father. I told the truth about everything. Yes, i was left alone for long periods of time and when i did have a babysitter they would be unsuitable to take care of a child. Yes i was exposed to seeing a lot of alcohol and some drugs. I knew all these where bad things. But they wouldnt leave me alone when i told them that i had never been innapropriately touched by anyone. They were sure of it and for a year and a half i was systematically prodded and encouraged to tell them what they wanted to know. Everyone from therapists to social workers and childrens advocated told me it was ok to tell and even tried to supply me with details i might have forgotten or tried to hide. In the end i finally got tired of it all and just told them what they wanted. This led to me testifying in court and my father being put away for something he did not do. The 80's were sort of a wild west for DAs when it came to high profile busts so i know they strived for every case that they could. Are there any other redditors that have been in a similar situation. How do you cope with the fact that you lied for someone else? Has it ever made you think that maybe you were molested and just buried it in you memories? TL;DR: 8 year old lied about being molested to foster care/CPS to try and get him put away. Other redditors experience similar things and wonder why they did it?<|endoftext|>

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I have been married for 8 years, we are pretty happy, have sex 4 times a week, but I think my husband is thinking about cheating on me, or wishing he could. I have known him a long time, I know when he is lying, and the "new office girl" is making him a fibber. Here are my concerns; 1) When he is more involved with someone at work than he should be he is more prone to bringing up that person over and over again in conversation, the new girl has been brought up A LOT recently. 2) He will say rude things about the women in his office, I think in an attempt to make me think he's not interested, but this is how I know who the attractive girls at his job are. For example, the new girl has been called "gap tooth" even though I have seen her facebook and I know that yes, she does have a gap in her teeth, but the rest of her is adorable. So freaking lame of him. 3) He will suddenly get VERY enthusiastic about having sex. Last week he was all about my boobs suddenly. I have good sized breasts but they are mostly ignored as he is an ass man. New girl happens to have large breasts as well, and I dont think it's a coincidence that this girl with big boobs starts working there and all of sudden my husband is all about my breasts. All of this kind of crap annoys me to no end, I feel like when he is having sex with me, he is probably thinking about her, and that makes me want to punch him. So, my question is this...When men have sex with their wife, are they usually thinking about someone else? I mean, how much of this nonsense should I put up with? I dont think he would straight up cheat on me, but the thought of him thinking about her while having sex with me just makes me angry, but I don't know if it should make me angry or if hes just being a guy. I'm confused, can you tell?

My husband is thinking about another woman, I'm worried he wants to cheat on me. What should I do?

My husband talks incessantly about the new girl at his job, and it's pissing me off.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been married for 8 years, we are pretty happy, have sex 4 times a week, but I think my husband is thinking about cheating on me, or wishing he could. I have known him a long time, I know when he is lying, and the "new office girl" is making him a fibber. Here are my concerns; 1) When he is more involved with someone at work than he should be he is more prone to bringing up that person over and over again in conversation, the new girl has been brought up A LOT recently. 2) He will say rude things about the women in his office, I think in an attempt to make me think he's not interested, but this is how I know who the attractive girls at his job are. For example, the new girl has been called "gap tooth" even though I have seen her facebook and I know that yes, she does have a gap in her teeth, but the rest of her is adorable. So freaking lame of him. 3) He will suddenly get VERY enthusiastic about having sex. Last week he was all about my boobs suddenly. I have good sized breasts but they are mostly ignored as he is an ass man. New girl happens to have large breasts as well, and I dont think it's a coincidence that this girl with big boobs starts working there and all of sudden my husband is all about my breasts. All of this kind of crap annoys me to no end, I feel like when he is having sex with me, he is probably thinking about her, and that makes me want to punch him. So, my question is this...When men have sex with their wife, are they usually thinking about someone else? I mean, how much of this nonsense should I put up with? I dont think he would straight up cheat on me, but the thought of him thinking about her while having sex with me just makes me angry, but I don't know if it should make me angry or if hes just being a guy. I'm confused, can you tell? TL;DR:

My husband is thinking about another woman, I'm worried he wants to cheat on me. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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My husband talks incessantly about the new girl at his job, and it's pissing me off.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been married for 8 years, we are pretty happy, have sex 4 times a week, but I think my husband is thinking about cheating on me, or wishing he could. I have known him a long time, I know when he is lying, and the "new office girl" is making him a fibber. Here are my concerns; 1) When he is more involved with someone at work than he should be he is more prone to bringing up that person over and over again in conversation, the new girl has been brought up A LOT recently. 2) He will say rude things about the women in his office, I think in an attempt to make me think he's not interested, but this is how I know who the attractive girls at his job are. For example, the new girl has been called "gap tooth" even though I have seen her facebook and I know that yes, she does have a gap in her teeth, but the rest of her is adorable. So freaking lame of him. 3) He will suddenly get VERY enthusiastic about having sex. Last week he was all about my boobs suddenly. I have good sized breasts but they are mostly ignored as he is an ass man. New girl happens to have large breasts as well, and I dont think it's a coincidence that this girl with big boobs starts working there and all of sudden my husband is all about my breasts. All of this kind of crap annoys me to no end, I feel like when he is having sex with me, he is probably thinking about her, and that makes me want to punch him. So, my question is this...When men have sex with their wife, are they usually thinking about someone else? I mean, how much of this nonsense should I put up with? I dont think he would straight up cheat on me, but the thought of him thinking about her while having sex with me just makes me angry, but I don't know if it should make me angry or if hes just being a guy. I'm confused, can you tell? TL;DR: My husband is thinking about another woman, I'm worried he wants to cheat on me. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been married for 8 years, we are pretty happy, have sex 4 times a week, but I think my husband is thinking about cheating on me, or wishing he could. I have known him a long time, I know when he is lying, and the "new office girl" is making him a fibber. Here are my concerns; 1) When he is more involved with someone at work than he should be he is more prone to bringing up that person over and over again in conversation, the new girl has been brought up A LOT recently. 2) He will say rude things about the women in his office, I think in an attempt to make me think he's not interested, but this is how I know who the attractive girls at his job are. For example, the new girl has been called "gap tooth" even though I have seen her facebook and I know that yes, she does have a gap in her teeth, but the rest of her is adorable. So freaking lame of him. 3) He will suddenly get VERY enthusiastic about having sex. Last week he was all about my boobs suddenly. I have good sized breasts but they are mostly ignored as he is an ass man. New girl happens to have large breasts as well, and I dont think it's a coincidence that this girl with big boobs starts working there and all of sudden my husband is all about my breasts. All of this kind of crap annoys me to no end, I feel like when he is having sex with me, he is probably thinking about her, and that makes me want to punch him. So, my question is this...When men have sex with their wife, are they usually thinking about someone else? I mean, how much of this nonsense should I put up with? I dont think he would straight up cheat on me, but the thought of him thinking about her while having sex with me just makes me angry, but I don't know if it should make me angry or if hes just being a guy. I'm confused, can you tell? TL;DR: My husband talks incessantly about the new girl at his job, and it's pissing me off.<|endoftext|>

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Throwaway account for obvious reasons... My mother and I haven't ever really had the best of relationships. No abuse, no feuds, nothing bad, we just don't really connect nearly enough, and have small quarrels occasionally. She cares about me, though, and puts up with insane hours working a dead-end job and sometimes two to provide for me. (My Father is still part of the equation, no divorce or anything and works too, just not as much, and we have a similar relationship.) My Mother has battled with depression since her youth and the death of her first husband (no kids) many years ago from AIDs related diseases. She is stuck with her job and gets paid somewhat poorly for her hours and hours working night shifts and weekends. She has gained weight over the years, and isn't as bad as she used to be, but it seems she is headed back over the edge. I find her eating leftover cakes and such, and I have no authority to tell her not to do this, or scold her, as I have done regrettable things in my academic career and she always has ammunition with which to guilt me out of talking about her eating. I'm worried about her very much, as she got poor results on a cholesterol test of some sort (I'm no doctor, I just hear discussions between my parents) and heart issues run in her side of the family. Her father died of a heart attack at 54 and she always gravely remarks on how she's got him by 3 years so far and wonders how much longer she'll get, hinting a sense of recognition at her lack of health concerns. She could be doing a lot of damage to herself, and I don't know what to do about it. She tells me to take her to the gym, but that won't stop her eating habbits, and she knows that. I love her very much, despite our relationship's flaws, and I want to help, but I have no idea how. Please help me, reddit community, I need you.

Mother has gained weight over the years despite miserable job, inattentive parenting, unhealthy diet. Need help to intervene without scolding/rocking her back to health.

Mother is overweight and struggling with depression, has gained weight over the years even though she works hard. Need help getting her to lose weight. Help please reddit, thanks!!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Throwaway account for obvious reasons... My mother and I haven't ever really had the best of relationships. No abuse, no feuds, nothing bad, we just don't really connect nearly enough, and have small quarrels occasionally. She cares about me, though, and puts up with insane hours working a dead-end job and sometimes two to provide for me. (My Father is still part of the equation, no divorce or anything and works too, just not as much, and we have a similar relationship.) My Mother has battled with depression since her youth and the death of her first husband (no kids) many years ago from AIDs related diseases. She is stuck with her job and gets paid somewhat poorly for her hours and hours working night shifts and weekends. She has gained weight over the years, and isn't as bad as she used to be, but it seems she is headed back over the edge. I find her eating leftover cakes and such, and I have no authority to tell her not to do this, or scold her, as I have done regrettable things in my academic career and she always has ammunition with which to guilt me out of talking about her eating. I'm worried about her very much, as she got poor results on a cholesterol test of some sort (I'm no doctor, I just hear discussions between my parents) and heart issues run in her side of the family. Her father died of a heart attack at 54 and she always gravely remarks on how she's got him by 3 years so far and wonders how much longer she'll get, hinting a sense of recognition at her lack of health concerns. She could be doing a lot of damage to herself, and I don't know what to do about it. She tells me to take her to the gym, but that won't stop her eating habbits, and she knows that. I love her very much, despite our relationship's flaws, and I want to help, but I have no idea how. Please help me, reddit community, I need you. TL;DR:

Mother has gained weight over the years despite miserable job, inattentive parenting, unhealthy diet. Need help to intervene without scolding/rocking her back to health.<|endoftext|>

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Mother is overweight and struggling with depression, has gained weight over the years even though she works hard. Need help getting her to lose weight. Help please reddit, thanks!!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Throwaway account for obvious reasons... My mother and I haven't ever really had the best of relationships. No abuse, no feuds, nothing bad, we just don't really connect nearly enough, and have small quarrels occasionally. She cares about me, though, and puts up with insane hours working a dead-end job and sometimes two to provide for me. (My Father is still part of the equation, no divorce or anything and works too, just not as much, and we have a similar relationship.) My Mother has battled with depression since her youth and the death of her first husband (no kids) many years ago from AIDs related diseases. She is stuck with her job and gets paid somewhat poorly for her hours and hours working night shifts and weekends. She has gained weight over the years, and isn't as bad as she used to be, but it seems she is headed back over the edge. I find her eating leftover cakes and such, and I have no authority to tell her not to do this, or scold her, as I have done regrettable things in my academic career and she always has ammunition with which to guilt me out of talking about her eating. I'm worried about her very much, as she got poor results on a cholesterol test of some sort (I'm no doctor, I just hear discussions between my parents) and heart issues run in her side of the family. Her father died of a heart attack at 54 and she always gravely remarks on how she's got him by 3 years so far and wonders how much longer she'll get, hinting a sense of recognition at her lack of health concerns. She could be doing a lot of damage to herself, and I don't know what to do about it. She tells me to take her to the gym, but that won't stop her eating habbits, and she knows that. I love her very much, despite our relationship's flaws, and I want to help, but I have no idea how. Please help me, reddit community, I need you. TL;DR: Mother has gained weight over the years despite miserable job, inattentive parenting, unhealthy diet. Need help to intervene without scolding/rocking her back to health.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Throwaway account for obvious reasons... My mother and I haven't ever really had the best of relationships. No abuse, no feuds, nothing bad, we just don't really connect nearly enough, and have small quarrels occasionally. She cares about me, though, and puts up with insane hours working a dead-end job and sometimes two to provide for me. (My Father is still part of the equation, no divorce or anything and works too, just not as much, and we have a similar relationship.) My Mother has battled with depression since her youth and the death of her first husband (no kids) many years ago from AIDs related diseases. She is stuck with her job and gets paid somewhat poorly for her hours and hours working night shifts and weekends. She has gained weight over the years, and isn't as bad as she used to be, but it seems she is headed back over the edge. I find her eating leftover cakes and such, and I have no authority to tell her not to do this, or scold her, as I have done regrettable things in my academic career and she always has ammunition with which to guilt me out of talking about her eating. I'm worried about her very much, as she got poor results on a cholesterol test of some sort (I'm no doctor, I just hear discussions between my parents) and heart issues run in her side of the family. Her father died of a heart attack at 54 and she always gravely remarks on how she's got him by 3 years so far and wonders how much longer she'll get, hinting a sense of recognition at her lack of health concerns. She could be doing a lot of damage to herself, and I don't know what to do about it. She tells me to take her to the gym, but that won't stop her eating habbits, and she knows that. I love her very much, despite our relationship's flaws, and I want to help, but I have no idea how. Please help me, reddit community, I need you. TL;DR: Mother is overweight and struggling with depression, has gained weight over the years even though she works hard. Need help getting her to lose weight. Help please reddit, thanks!!<|endoftext|>

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We've been long distance for a while, but I was finally able to go visit him and make plans to move there. Things are all going fine while I'm there and he lets me on his laptop and doesn't mind, unfortunately my curiosity got the better of me and I went snooping. There was a reason I went snooping though, because I'd seen him comment on a girls facebook a couple of times asking to kiss, being each others and <3's ect. When I confronted him about it, it was played off as a close friendship. He's got a lot of females friends so I didn't question it. But then I found a receipt online for a sexy dress he'd bought her. Then the shit hit the fan. He'd never met her but was ''just playfully flirting'' and didn't really like her. I left to calm down and it took a lot of thinking. I want to forgive him for what he's done, but I need to see her nudes, I need to see what she done. I know it sounds insane but in my mind it's something I need to know before I can move on. He dodged it a lot and said he'd deleted them, I said he could get them from the recycling bin. He said he'd cleared that. So I said he could do a system refresh, he argued it would delete everything, after I proved it wouldn't he agreed to do it. Mid way through he stopped and said the dates mean he can't do it as it was too long ago (more than a month less than 3 months) I don't really know where to go from here, the girl knew about me and flirted a lot, I want to see her to help but now I feel like she's won, she got the gifts she wanted, she only had to send a few nudes and I'm just left feeling empty.

Long distance partner cheated on me, won't show me nudes or explain why he did it, need to see them or know why he did it before I move on because she got them recently... Help?

long distance boyfriend sort of cheated on me, i found out im not getting what I need/wanted to see. now he wont do anything about it despite saying he would. wat do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been long distance for a while, but I was finally able to go visit him and make plans to move there. Things are all going fine while I'm there and he lets me on his laptop and doesn't mind, unfortunately my curiosity got the better of me and I went snooping. There was a reason I went snooping though, because I'd seen him comment on a girls facebook a couple of times asking to kiss, being each others and <3's ect. When I confronted him about it, it was played off as a close friendship. He's got a lot of females friends so I didn't question it. But then I found a receipt online for a sexy dress he'd bought her. Then the shit hit the fan. He'd never met her but was ''just playfully flirting'' and didn't really like her. I left to calm down and it took a lot of thinking. I want to forgive him for what he's done, but I need to see her nudes, I need to see what she done. I know it sounds insane but in my mind it's something I need to know before I can move on. He dodged it a lot and said he'd deleted them, I said he could get them from the recycling bin. He said he'd cleared that. So I said he could do a system refresh, he argued it would delete everything, after I proved it wouldn't he agreed to do it. Mid way through he stopped and said the dates mean he can't do it as it was too long ago (more than a month less than 3 months) I don't really know where to go from here, the girl knew about me and flirted a lot, I want to see her to help but now I feel like she's won, she got the gifts she wanted, she only had to send a few nudes and I'm just left feeling empty. TL;DR:

Long distance partner cheated on me, won't show me nudes or explain why he did it, need to see them or know why he did it before I move on because she got them recently... Help?<|endoftext|>

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long distance boyfriend sort of cheated on me, i found out im not getting what I need/wanted to see. now he wont do anything about it despite saying he would. wat do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been long distance for a while, but I was finally able to go visit him and make plans to move there. Things are all going fine while I'm there and he lets me on his laptop and doesn't mind, unfortunately my curiosity got the better of me and I went snooping. There was a reason I went snooping though, because I'd seen him comment on a girls facebook a couple of times asking to kiss, being each others and <3's ect. When I confronted him about it, it was played off as a close friendship. He's got a lot of females friends so I didn't question it. But then I found a receipt online for a sexy dress he'd bought her. Then the shit hit the fan. He'd never met her but was ''just playfully flirting'' and didn't really like her. I left to calm down and it took a lot of thinking. I want to forgive him for what he's done, but I need to see her nudes, I need to see what she done. I know it sounds insane but in my mind it's something I need to know before I can move on. He dodged it a lot and said he'd deleted them, I said he could get them from the recycling bin. He said he'd cleared that. So I said he could do a system refresh, he argued it would delete everything, after I proved it wouldn't he agreed to do it. Mid way through he stopped and said the dates mean he can't do it as it was too long ago (more than a month less than 3 months) I don't really know where to go from here, the girl knew about me and flirted a lot, I want to see her to help but now I feel like she's won, she got the gifts she wanted, she only had to send a few nudes and I'm just left feeling empty. TL;DR: Long distance partner cheated on me, won't show me nudes or explain why he did it, need to see them or know why he did it before I move on because she got them recently... Help?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been long distance for a while, but I was finally able to go visit him and make plans to move there. Things are all going fine while I'm there and he lets me on his laptop and doesn't mind, unfortunately my curiosity got the better of me and I went snooping. There was a reason I went snooping though, because I'd seen him comment on a girls facebook a couple of times asking to kiss, being each others and <3's ect. When I confronted him about it, it was played off as a close friendship. He's got a lot of females friends so I didn't question it. But then I found a receipt online for a sexy dress he'd bought her. Then the shit hit the fan. He'd never met her but was ''just playfully flirting'' and didn't really like her. I left to calm down and it took a lot of thinking. I want to forgive him for what he's done, but I need to see her nudes, I need to see what she done. I know it sounds insane but in my mind it's something I need to know before I can move on. He dodged it a lot and said he'd deleted them, I said he could get them from the recycling bin. He said he'd cleared that. So I said he could do a system refresh, he argued it would delete everything, after I proved it wouldn't he agreed to do it. Mid way through he stopped and said the dates mean he can't do it as it was too long ago (more than a month less than 3 months) I don't really know where to go from here, the girl knew about me and flirted a lot, I want to see her to help but now I feel like she's won, she got the gifts she wanted, she only had to send a few nudes and I'm just left feeling empty. TL;DR: long distance boyfriend sort of cheated on me, i found out im not getting what I need/wanted to see. now he wont do anything about it despite saying he would. wat do?<|endoftext|>

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I've been talking to this girl for about a month now, and we've admitted that we both like each other. We're like peas and carrots whenever we go on a date. We've kissed, held hands, and all that good stuff, but my problem is when we aren't together, it's like she doesn't exist until I make plans for our next meet. She never initiates any contact with me unless I am the one to do it first. I'll also say that we've been meeting up about a couple times a week. Whenever I do text her, she replies quickly but with very very short texts. I usually get texts that are "haha, yeah, lol sure, no XD, ok, kk ^ ^ " I don't send long texts either. I was busy all of last weekend so we couldn't see each other. When I was finally free, I texted her to see how her weekend went. "Work haha" was her reply. I'm not expecting her to tell me every single thing that happened during her weekend but it'd be nice to at least some connection with her when we're not together. Do girls want guys to do all the initiating? I've looked into the whole "Girls like to be chased" ordeal, but is this some sort of extreme? Or is this just her not liking to text that much? Should I be trying to contact her a different way? Calling is not a problem for me either, but I'm usually not the type to call someone just to ask about their day and then hang up.

Girl never initiates any conversation with me when we're not together. Makes me feel like she doesn't exist until I initiate contact with her.

Girl doesn't initiate any contact with me unless I initiate first. But she doesn't expect me to text her all the time. How do I get word out faster?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been talking to this girl for about a month now, and we've admitted that we both like each other. We're like peas and carrots whenever we go on a date. We've kissed, held hands, and all that good stuff, but my problem is when we aren't together, it's like she doesn't exist until I make plans for our next meet. She never initiates any contact with me unless I am the one to do it first. I'll also say that we've been meeting up about a couple times a week. Whenever I do text her, she replies quickly but with very very short texts. I usually get texts that are "haha, yeah, lol sure, no XD, ok, kk ^ ^ " I don't send long texts either. I was busy all of last weekend so we couldn't see each other. When I was finally free, I texted her to see how her weekend went. "Work haha" was her reply. I'm not expecting her to tell me every single thing that happened during her weekend but it'd be nice to at least some connection with her when we're not together. Do girls want guys to do all the initiating? I've looked into the whole "Girls like to be chased" ordeal, but is this some sort of extreme? Or is this just her not liking to text that much? Should I be trying to contact her a different way? Calling is not a problem for me either, but I'm usually not the type to call someone just to ask about their day and then hang up. TL;DR:

Girl never initiates any conversation with me when we're not together. Makes me feel like she doesn't exist until I initiate contact with her.<|endoftext|>

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Girl doesn't initiate any contact with me unless I initiate first. But she doesn't expect me to text her all the time. How do I get word out faster?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been talking to this girl for about a month now, and we've admitted that we both like each other. We're like peas and carrots whenever we go on a date. We've kissed, held hands, and all that good stuff, but my problem is when we aren't together, it's like she doesn't exist until I make plans for our next meet. She never initiates any contact with me unless I am the one to do it first. I'll also say that we've been meeting up about a couple times a week. Whenever I do text her, she replies quickly but with very very short texts. I usually get texts that are "haha, yeah, lol sure, no XD, ok, kk ^ ^ " I don't send long texts either. I was busy all of last weekend so we couldn't see each other. When I was finally free, I texted her to see how her weekend went. "Work haha" was her reply. I'm not expecting her to tell me every single thing that happened during her weekend but it'd be nice to at least some connection with her when we're not together. Do girls want guys to do all the initiating? I've looked into the whole "Girls like to be chased" ordeal, but is this some sort of extreme? Or is this just her not liking to text that much? Should I be trying to contact her a different way? Calling is not a problem for me either, but I'm usually not the type to call someone just to ask about their day and then hang up. TL;DR: Girl never initiates any conversation with me when we're not together. Makes me feel like she doesn't exist until I initiate contact with her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been talking to this girl for about a month now, and we've admitted that we both like each other. We're like peas and carrots whenever we go on a date. We've kissed, held hands, and all that good stuff, but my problem is when we aren't together, it's like she doesn't exist until I make plans for our next meet. She never initiates any contact with me unless I am the one to do it first. I'll also say that we've been meeting up about a couple times a week. Whenever I do text her, she replies quickly but with very very short texts. I usually get texts that are "haha, yeah, lol sure, no XD, ok, kk ^ ^ " I don't send long texts either. I was busy all of last weekend so we couldn't see each other. When I was finally free, I texted her to see how her weekend went. "Work haha" was her reply. I'm not expecting her to tell me every single thing that happened during her weekend but it'd be nice to at least some connection with her when we're not together. Do girls want guys to do all the initiating? I've looked into the whole "Girls like to be chased" ordeal, but is this some sort of extreme? Or is this just her not liking to text that much? Should I be trying to contact her a different way? Calling is not a problem for me either, but I'm usually not the type to call someone just to ask about their day and then hang up. TL;DR: Girl doesn't initiate any contact with me unless I initiate first. But she doesn't expect me to text her all the time. How do I get word out faster?<|endoftext|>

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My BF (30m) and I have dated for over a year and half. I hate myself right now. I fell for him so hard and I gave up a lot to be with him (I mean to move closer to him, my time, etc). --------------------------------------------------------------------- There were many red flags that I blatantly ignored. I let myself be treated abusively. He was in a lot of trouble financially at one point so I let him borrow my credit card and some savings (with him telling me he'd pay me back shortly). To this day he never paid me anything even though he owes me thousands. He insists he WILL pay me, but I doubt it. He got a large inheritance last month, so he's quite ok financially now but he still isn't paying me back. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- All I've wanted is to be happy but it just is impossible. He is rude and mean and cruel at times. He's flirted with other women and now he tells me he isn't interested in me anymore. --------------------------------------------------------------------- I know I should feel I am lucky to run away from this person. But I am disgusted with myself for having lost thousands. And I'm so hurt that anyone could treat someone else like that. That he would accept my love and help and now throw it back in my face saying he has no further need for me. It's like he's a sociopath.

BF of 1.5 years has treated me badly and threw me away. I'm so weary of the future.

I am extremely hurt and ashamed. I am so humiliated and angry. How can I get over the pain and move forward?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My BF (30m) and I have dated for over a year and half. I hate myself right now. I fell for him so hard and I gave up a lot to be with him (I mean to move closer to him, my time, etc). --------------------------------------------------------------------- There were many red flags that I blatantly ignored. I let myself be treated abusively. He was in a lot of trouble financially at one point so I let him borrow my credit card and some savings (with him telling me he'd pay me back shortly). To this day he never paid me anything even though he owes me thousands. He insists he WILL pay me, but I doubt it. He got a large inheritance last month, so he's quite ok financially now but he still isn't paying me back. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- All I've wanted is to be happy but it just is impossible. He is rude and mean and cruel at times. He's flirted with other women and now he tells me he isn't interested in me anymore. --------------------------------------------------------------------- I know I should feel I am lucky to run away from this person. But I am disgusted with myself for having lost thousands. And I'm so hurt that anyone could treat someone else like that. That he would accept my love and help and now throw it back in my face saying he has no further need for me. It's like he's a sociopath. TL;DR:

BF of 1.5 years has treated me badly and threw me away. I'm so weary of the future.<|endoftext|>

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I am extremely hurt and ashamed. I am so humiliated and angry. How can I get over the pain and move forward?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My BF (30m) and I have dated for over a year and half. I hate myself right now. I fell for him so hard and I gave up a lot to be with him (I mean to move closer to him, my time, etc). --------------------------------------------------------------------- There were many red flags that I blatantly ignored. I let myself be treated abusively. He was in a lot of trouble financially at one point so I let him borrow my credit card and some savings (with him telling me he'd pay me back shortly). To this day he never paid me anything even though he owes me thousands. He insists he WILL pay me, but I doubt it. He got a large inheritance last month, so he's quite ok financially now but he still isn't paying me back. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- All I've wanted is to be happy but it just is impossible. He is rude and mean and cruel at times. He's flirted with other women and now he tells me he isn't interested in me anymore. --------------------------------------------------------------------- I know I should feel I am lucky to run away from this person. But I am disgusted with myself for having lost thousands. And I'm so hurt that anyone could treat someone else like that. That he would accept my love and help and now throw it back in my face saying he has no further need for me. It's like he's a sociopath. TL;DR: BF of 1.5 years has treated me badly and threw me away. I'm so weary of the future.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My BF (30m) and I have dated for over a year and half. I hate myself right now. I fell for him so hard and I gave up a lot to be with him (I mean to move closer to him, my time, etc). --------------------------------------------------------------------- There were many red flags that I blatantly ignored. I let myself be treated abusively. He was in a lot of trouble financially at one point so I let him borrow my credit card and some savings (with him telling me he'd pay me back shortly). To this day he never paid me anything even though he owes me thousands. He insists he WILL pay me, but I doubt it. He got a large inheritance last month, so he's quite ok financially now but he still isn't paying me back. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- All I've wanted is to be happy but it just is impossible. He is rude and mean and cruel at times. He's flirted with other women and now he tells me he isn't interested in me anymore. --------------------------------------------------------------------- I know I should feel I am lucky to run away from this person. But I am disgusted with myself for having lost thousands. And I'm so hurt that anyone could treat someone else like that. That he would accept my love and help and now throw it back in my face saying he has no further need for me. It's like he's a sociopath. TL;DR: I am extremely hurt and ashamed. I am so humiliated and angry. How can I get over the pain and move forward?<|endoftext|>

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This is a pretty unnecessary post, but I like finding solidarity in your guys' struggles too, so let's have a moment together. We are 33 (!!!) days out and I'm happily getting RSVPs, and people are actually being pretty good about it. So far, no one's left off their name and only a few people haven't told me if they're bringing a guest or not, but that's okay because I can just assume that they are. Except... Back in December I met some more of FH's family--specifically his aunt. He warned me that she hated him and he doesn't know why and that overall no one really likes her. Needless to say, she wasn't much of a pleasant person. She'd ask me about the wedding but then be completely disinterested in my answers. I don't mind if you're not interested, I don't care to not talk about the planning I'm doing, really. It felt like it would have been less rude to just not ask. Anyway, it was clear to me that she was the kind of person who would bring all three kids and her kids boyfriends to the wedding and I am not about having that. So I specifically worded the RSVP cards to say "a total of two seats have been saved in your honor." For. Her. Literally for this woman. Because I knew. Guess who is bringing more than 2 people? SHE IS. I'm so angry about it, I picked that wording FOR YOU, LADYMA'AM. It's just another instance of how inconsiderate she is (from my one meeting with her, I've already racked up quite the list). And since I've only met her once before, I don't really feel right rocking the boat and telling her no, so I feel like I have to just let it slide, but also that kind of screws up everything. Neither FH nor I even like her, no one likes her, why did I even have to invite her. I think I'm going to enlist the help of MoH to tell her what's up.

Lady who hates FH is bringing more than 2 people to the wedding. I had to include her name on my invitations.

Some lady is bringing more than 2 people to a wedding she hates and I'm going to tell her what's up.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a pretty unnecessary post, but I like finding solidarity in your guys' struggles too, so let's have a moment together. We are 33 (!!!) days out and I'm happily getting RSVPs, and people are actually being pretty good about it. So far, no one's left off their name and only a few people haven't told me if they're bringing a guest or not, but that's okay because I can just assume that they are. Except... Back in December I met some more of FH's family--specifically his aunt. He warned me that she hated him and he doesn't know why and that overall no one really likes her. Needless to say, she wasn't much of a pleasant person. She'd ask me about the wedding but then be completely disinterested in my answers. I don't mind if you're not interested, I don't care to not talk about the planning I'm doing, really. It felt like it would have been less rude to just not ask. Anyway, it was clear to me that she was the kind of person who would bring all three kids and her kids boyfriends to the wedding and I am not about having that. So I specifically worded the RSVP cards to say "a total of two seats have been saved in your honor." For. Her. Literally for this woman. Because I knew. Guess who is bringing more than 2 people? SHE IS. I'm so angry about it, I picked that wording FOR YOU, LADYMA'AM. It's just another instance of how inconsiderate she is (from my one meeting with her, I've already racked up quite the list). And since I've only met her once before, I don't really feel right rocking the boat and telling her no, so I feel like I have to just let it slide, but also that kind of screws up everything. Neither FH nor I even like her, no one likes her, why did I even have to invite her. I think I'm going to enlist the help of MoH to tell her what's up. TL;DR:

Lady who hates FH is bringing more than 2 people to the wedding. I had to include her name on my invitations.<|endoftext|>

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Some lady is bringing more than 2 people to a wedding she hates and I'm going to tell her what's up.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a pretty unnecessary post, but I like finding solidarity in your guys' struggles too, so let's have a moment together. We are 33 (!!!) days out and I'm happily getting RSVPs, and people are actually being pretty good about it. So far, no one's left off their name and only a few people haven't told me if they're bringing a guest or not, but that's okay because I can just assume that they are. Except... Back in December I met some more of FH's family--specifically his aunt. He warned me that she hated him and he doesn't know why and that overall no one really likes her. Needless to say, she wasn't much of a pleasant person. She'd ask me about the wedding but then be completely disinterested in my answers. I don't mind if you're not interested, I don't care to not talk about the planning I'm doing, really. It felt like it would have been less rude to just not ask. Anyway, it was clear to me that she was the kind of person who would bring all three kids and her kids boyfriends to the wedding and I am not about having that. So I specifically worded the RSVP cards to say "a total of two seats have been saved in your honor." For. Her. Literally for this woman. Because I knew. Guess who is bringing more than 2 people? SHE IS. I'm so angry about it, I picked that wording FOR YOU, LADYMA'AM. It's just another instance of how inconsiderate she is (from my one meeting with her, I've already racked up quite the list). And since I've only met her once before, I don't really feel right rocking the boat and telling her no, so I feel like I have to just let it slide, but also that kind of screws up everything. Neither FH nor I even like her, no one likes her, why did I even have to invite her. I think I'm going to enlist the help of MoH to tell her what's up. TL;DR: Lady who hates FH is bringing more than 2 people to the wedding. I had to include her name on my invitations.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a pretty unnecessary post, but I like finding solidarity in your guys' struggles too, so let's have a moment together. We are 33 (!!!) days out and I'm happily getting RSVPs, and people are actually being pretty good about it. So far, no one's left off their name and only a few people haven't told me if they're bringing a guest or not, but that's okay because I can just assume that they are. Except... Back in December I met some more of FH's family--specifically his aunt. He warned me that she hated him and he doesn't know why and that overall no one really likes her. Needless to say, she wasn't much of a pleasant person. She'd ask me about the wedding but then be completely disinterested in my answers. I don't mind if you're not interested, I don't care to not talk about the planning I'm doing, really. It felt like it would have been less rude to just not ask. Anyway, it was clear to me that she was the kind of person who would bring all three kids and her kids boyfriends to the wedding and I am not about having that. So I specifically worded the RSVP cards to say "a total of two seats have been saved in your honor." For. Her. Literally for this woman. Because I knew. Guess who is bringing more than 2 people? SHE IS. I'm so angry about it, I picked that wording FOR YOU, LADYMA'AM. It's just another instance of how inconsiderate she is (from my one meeting with her, I've already racked up quite the list). And since I've only met her once before, I don't really feel right rocking the boat and telling her no, so I feel like I have to just let it slide, but also that kind of screws up everything. Neither FH nor I even like her, no one likes her, why did I even have to invite her. I think I'm going to enlist the help of MoH to tell her what's up. TL;DR: Some lady is bringing more than 2 people to a wedding she hates and I'm going to tell her what's up.<|endoftext|>

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I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a "hiatus," and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR. That's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about. I'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone?

Had my heart broken, feeling alone, and scared to move on.

My ex-LDR broke my heart and I need to move on. I have no friends to help, and I'm alone in a big city. How do I do it alone?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a "hiatus," and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR. That's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about. I'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone? TL;DR:

Had my heart broken, feeling alone, and scared to move on.<|endoftext|>

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My ex-LDR broke my heart and I need to move on. I have no friends to help, and I'm alone in a big city. How do I do it alone?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a "hiatus," and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR. That's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about. I'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone? TL;DR: Had my heart broken, feeling alone, and scared to move on.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just had my heart broken a little while ago. This girl [20F] whom I truly thought I was going to spend a lot of my life with was not emotionally honest with me. During our LDR she told me she loved me when she didn't mean it, declared a "hiatus," and got a new boyfriend without telling me. I only expected an answer because she said maybe we could try again. Instead of doing the soul searching she said she needed, she went out of her way to find another LDR. That's the gist of what happened, sorry it's so choppy, I'd rather not rant too much. Anyways, the reason we did an LDR is because I'm out on a co-op. At this point I know she never really cared about me and I should move on, but I can't. I'm honestly worried, I know being human won't guarantee me any form of happiness, including a romantic one. I'm scared because I'm not confident I can find someone I felt that passionately about. I'm still on my co-op. I don't have friends out here, they're all across the country where school is. I have a job, I have hobbies like reading and playing music, and I do what I can to move on. Except I can't, she's on my mind no matter what. All I want to do is forget that I ever met her, but my dumbass heart won't allow it. How do I move on confident that I'll meet someone I can love like I just did? And how do I do it alone? TL;DR: My ex-LDR broke my heart and I need to move on. I have no friends to help, and I'm alone in a big city. How do I do it alone?<|endoftext|>

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Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a couple months now, but in the last month or so I realized I really wasn't happy with it. I was losing attraction to her and losing patience. It was a combination of severe moodiness constantly, just being immature, and disrespect that eventually caused these feelings to come about. Anyway, so I've begun talking to her that we may need to break up because I just don't personally think I can handle it anymore, and that it isn't good for us. Every time she asks me why, I honestly but gently tell her. However, she breaks down crying saying she'll change and she'll try her hardest to make me happy and that she doesn't want to give up. Then, when she gets it together, she'll suddenly bust out sobbing again and say something like, "remember when we danced at your cousin's wedding?" and just keep sobbing. But, we've had this conversation five or six times over the course of our relationship because I've tried to break up with her for doing something not so great, or she's tried to break up with me because I was mad about her for doing these not so great things (won't get into details) and this happens every time. However, this makes me feel like she really, really does care for me and it really makes me wonder if we should break up. Then again, the other half of me is telling me I'm being a bitch for not having the courage and strength to just break up, because I know that if I don't we will have the conversation again in a few months or weeks.

Trying to break up with girlfriend, but she makes it very very difficult

Me and my girlfriend have been struggling in our relationship. I've noticed that she really does care about me and I know that if we do break up, she will change and make me happy. However, I feel like I'm being too unreasonable and I don't know if I'm being too too hard on her or if I'm actually right.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a couple months now, but in the last month or so I realized I really wasn't happy with it. I was losing attraction to her and losing patience. It was a combination of severe moodiness constantly, just being immature, and disrespect that eventually caused these feelings to come about. Anyway, so I've begun talking to her that we may need to break up because I just don't personally think I can handle it anymore, and that it isn't good for us. Every time she asks me why, I honestly but gently tell her. However, she breaks down crying saying she'll change and she'll try her hardest to make me happy and that she doesn't want to give up. Then, when she gets it together, she'll suddenly bust out sobbing again and say something like, "remember when we danced at your cousin's wedding?" and just keep sobbing. But, we've had this conversation five or six times over the course of our relationship because I've tried to break up with her for doing something not so great, or she's tried to break up with me because I was mad about her for doing these not so great things (won't get into details) and this happens every time. However, this makes me feel like she really, really does care for me and it really makes me wonder if we should break up. Then again, the other half of me is telling me I'm being a bitch for not having the courage and strength to just break up, because I know that if I don't we will have the conversation again in a few months or weeks. TL;DR:

Trying to break up with girlfriend, but she makes it very very difficult<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a couple months now, but in the last month or so I realized I really wasn't happy with it. I was losing attraction to her and losing patience. It was a combination of severe moodiness constantly, just being immature, and disrespect that eventually caused these feelings to come about. Anyway, so I've begun talking to her that we may need to break up because I just don't personally think I can handle it anymore, and that it isn't good for us. Every time she asks me why, I honestly but gently tell her. However, she breaks down crying saying she'll change and she'll try her hardest to make me happy and that she doesn't want to give up. Then, when she gets it together, she'll suddenly bust out sobbing again and say something like, "remember when we danced at your cousin's wedding?" and just keep sobbing. But, we've had this conversation five or six times over the course of our relationship because I've tried to break up with her for doing something not so great, or she's tried to break up with me because I was mad about her for doing these not so great things (won't get into details) and this happens every time. However, this makes me feel like she really, really does care for me and it really makes me wonder if we should break up. Then again, the other half of me is telling me I'm being a bitch for not having the courage and strength to just break up, because I know that if I don't we will have the conversation again in a few months or weeks. TL;DR: Trying to break up with girlfriend, but she makes it very very difficult<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a couple months now, but in the last month or so I realized I really wasn't happy with it. I was losing attraction to her and losing patience. It was a combination of severe moodiness constantly, just being immature, and disrespect that eventually caused these feelings to come about. Anyway, so I've begun talking to her that we may need to break up because I just don't personally think I can handle it anymore, and that it isn't good for us. Every time she asks me why, I honestly but gently tell her. However, she breaks down crying saying she'll change and she'll try her hardest to make me happy and that she doesn't want to give up. Then, when she gets it together, she'll suddenly bust out sobbing again and say something like, "remember when we danced at your cousin's wedding?" and just keep sobbing. But, we've had this conversation five or six times over the course of our relationship because I've tried to break up with her for doing something not so great, or she's tried to break up with me because I was mad about her for doing these not so great things (won't get into details) and this happens every time. However, this makes me feel like she really, really does care for me and it really makes me wonder if we should break up. Then again, the other half of me is telling me I'm being a bitch for not having the courage and strength to just break up, because I know that if I don't we will have the conversation again in a few months or weeks. TL;DR: Me and my girlfriend have been struggling in our relationship. I've noticed that she really does care about me and I know that if we do break up, she will change and make me happy. However, I feel like I'm being too unreasonable and I don't know if I'm being too too hard on her or if I'm actually right.<|endoftext|>

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I have always believed that Love was dumb, it took a hold of all my friends and made them act irrationally. I was not into playing that game, that is, until I met him. We were friends instantly, spent all our time together and this continued until now. One month shy of two years. This boy has told me he wants to stay with me but have sex with other people. He has downloaded tinder behind my back, he has random girls on snapchat he talks too, and worst of all I am still madly in love with him and want him to be in my life forever. Love is so messed up. I should know better but I keep trying to reason that he will stop because he knows how badly it upsets me. Its almost compulsive. He is so cute I dont know why he feels like he needs a confidence boost from these random ( truthfully not so cute girls) when I would do anything for him. He always has an excuse and if he doesn't he just gets mad and blows up so there is no chance of a good discussion. We have decided to take a break, not break up. And see how the time apart makes us feel about eachother. I'm still texting him ..even though according to a majority of this subreddit you should stay out of contact with you man. I feel like I'm avoiding doing all the right things to help myself but in reality I feel so lost but in love. I don't want to ruin anything good but if its bad I need to know now and leave this bastard for real. No "break" like Ross and Rachel but an honest to goodness goodbye forever we cant be friends if this continues

Boyfriend interested in other girls but says that he loves me an doesnt want to lose me. Help me before I go crazy!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have always believed that Love was dumb, it took a hold of all my friends and made them act irrationally. I was not into playing that game, that is, until I met him. We were friends instantly, spent all our time together and this continued until now. One month shy of two years. This boy has told me he wants to stay with me but have sex with other people. He has downloaded tinder behind my back, he has random girls on snapchat he talks too, and worst of all I am still madly in love with him and want him to be in my life forever. Love is so messed up. I should know better but I keep trying to reason that he will stop because he knows how badly it upsets me. Its almost compulsive. He is so cute I dont know why he feels like he needs a confidence boost from these random ( truthfully not so cute girls) when I would do anything for him. He always has an excuse and if he doesn't he just gets mad and blows up so there is no chance of a good discussion. We have decided to take a break, not break up. And see how the time apart makes us feel about eachother. I'm still texting him..even though according to a majority of this subreddit you should stay out of contact with you man. I feel like I'm avoiding doing all the right things to help myself but in reality I feel so lost but in love. I don't want to ruin anything good but if its bad I need to know now and leave this bastard for real. No "break" like Ross and Rachel but an honest to goodness goodbye forever we cant be friends if this continues TL;DR:

Boyfriend interested in other girls but says that he loves me an doesnt want to lose me. Help me before I go crazy!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have always believed that Love was dumb, it took a hold of all my friends and made them act irrationally. I was not into playing that game, that is, until I met him. We were friends instantly, spent all our time together and this continued until now. One month shy of two years. This boy has told me he wants to stay with me but have sex with other people. He has downloaded tinder behind my back, he has random girls on snapchat he talks too, and worst of all I am still madly in love with him and want him to be in my life forever. Love is so messed up. I should know better but I keep trying to reason that he will stop because he knows how badly it upsets me. Its almost compulsive. He is so cute I dont know why he feels like he needs a confidence boost from these random ( truthfully not so cute girls) when I would do anything for him. He always has an excuse and if he doesn't he just gets mad and blows up so there is no chance of a good discussion. We have decided to take a break, not break up. And see how the time apart makes us feel about eachother. I'm still texting him..even though according to a majority of this subreddit you should stay out of contact with you man. I feel like I'm avoiding doing all the right things to help myself but in reality I feel so lost but in love. I don't want to ruin anything good but if its bad I need to know now and leave this bastard for real. No "break" like Ross and Rachel but an honest to goodness goodbye forever we cant be friends if this continues TL;DR: Boyfriend interested in other girls but says that he loves me an doesnt want to lose me. Help me before I go crazy!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have always believed that Love was dumb, it took a hold of all my friends and made them act irrationally. I was not into playing that game, that is, until I met him. We were friends instantly, spent all our time together and this continued until now. One month shy of two years. This boy has told me he wants to stay with me but have sex with other people. He has downloaded tinder behind my back, he has random girls on snapchat he talks too, and worst of all I am still madly in love with him and want him to be in my life forever. Love is so messed up. I should know better but I keep trying to reason that he will stop because he knows how badly it upsets me. Its almost compulsive. He is so cute I dont know why he feels like he needs a confidence boost from these random ( truthfully not so cute girls) when I would do anything for him. He always has an excuse and if he doesn't he just gets mad and blows up so there is no chance of a good discussion. We have decided to take a break, not break up. And see how the time apart makes us feel about eachother. I'm still texting him..even though according to a majority of this subreddit you should stay out of contact with you man. I feel like I'm avoiding doing all the right things to help myself but in reality I feel so lost but in love. I don't want to ruin anything good but if its bad I need to know now and leave this bastard for real. No "break" like Ross and Rachel but an honest to goodness goodbye forever we cant be friends if this continues TL;DR: STARTING TO GET CONSIDERED ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE GEM AND I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend (27m) and I (25f) have been together for over 6 years and have built a life together. We've got two dogs together, and we bought a home 3 years ago. By all means, we have our ups and downs, but overall we're happy. Our biggest issue is that I do not want kids (never have) and he does. Albeit not right away. He says he's happy to wait until he's 30-35 to have them. (Please do not offer up the "You'll change your mind" shpeel. I don't need it.) It wasn't an issue when we got together because we were young and children/marriage was so far off that it wasn't a thought. But as I age I feel more and more guilt about my desire to stay childless and stay in the relationship. As I age, I become more confident that I do not want children. I have always been honest about this with him though. I've told him since say one that I do not want children (don't want to have them, don't want to adopt) The more guilt I feel, the more I feel like being with him is taking away from his time to find someone that he really fits with AND wants children. I don't want him to wake up at 35 wanting children, realize that I still do not, and feel like he's wasted all this time with me, waiting for me to change my mind and then start to resent me. We don't really have any other major relationship issues. There's no cheating or abuse or anything. I'm having a hard time bringing this up with him. I keep putting it off because I'm scared and I feel like he's putting off thinking about it or discussing it because everything is good. Everytime I've tried to talk to him about it in the past he's said, "We'll cross that bridge when we come to it." I'm starting to think that we need to have an honest conversation about this though. And I'm terrified of losing him.

My boyfriend of 6 years wants kids in the future. I do not. Feel guilty and scared/concerned. Need advice on how to bring this up without seeming clingy and being dismissed.

My boyfriend of 6 years has always wanted kids in the future and I don't, and I'm afraid of losing him because I'm afraid of being selfish and selfish thinking. Need advice!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend (27m) and I (25f) have been together for over 6 years and have built a life together. We've got two dogs together, and we bought a home 3 years ago. By all means, we have our ups and downs, but overall we're happy. Our biggest issue is that I do not want kids (never have) and he does. Albeit not right away. He says he's happy to wait until he's 30-35 to have them. (Please do not offer up the "You'll change your mind" shpeel. I don't need it.) It wasn't an issue when we got together because we were young and children/marriage was so far off that it wasn't a thought. But as I age I feel more and more guilt about my desire to stay childless and stay in the relationship. As I age, I become more confident that I do not want children. I have always been honest about this with him though. I've told him since say one that I do not want children (don't want to have them, don't want to adopt) The more guilt I feel, the more I feel like being with him is taking away from his time to find someone that he really fits with AND wants children. I don't want him to wake up at 35 wanting children, realize that I still do not, and feel like he's wasted all this time with me, waiting for me to change my mind and then start to resent me. We don't really have any other major relationship issues. There's no cheating or abuse or anything. I'm having a hard time bringing this up with him. I keep putting it off because I'm scared and I feel like he's putting off thinking about it or discussing it because everything is good. Everytime I've tried to talk to him about it in the past he's said, "We'll cross that bridge when we come to it." I'm starting to think that we need to have an honest conversation about this though. And I'm terrified of losing him. TL;DR:

My boyfriend of 6 years wants kids in the future. I do not. Feel guilty and scared/concerned. Need advice on how to bring this up without seeming clingy and being dismissed. <|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend of 6 years has always wanted kids in the future and I don't, and I'm afraid of losing him because I'm afraid of being selfish and selfish thinking. Need advice!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend (27m) and I (25f) have been together for over 6 years and have built a life together. We've got two dogs together, and we bought a home 3 years ago. By all means, we have our ups and downs, but overall we're happy. Our biggest issue is that I do not want kids (never have) and he does. Albeit not right away. He says he's happy to wait until he's 30-35 to have them. (Please do not offer up the "You'll change your mind" shpeel. I don't need it.) It wasn't an issue when we got together because we were young and children/marriage was so far off that it wasn't a thought. But as I age I feel more and more guilt about my desire to stay childless and stay in the relationship. As I age, I become more confident that I do not want children. I have always been honest about this with him though. I've told him since say one that I do not want children (don't want to have them, don't want to adopt) The more guilt I feel, the more I feel like being with him is taking away from his time to find someone that he really fits with AND wants children. I don't want him to wake up at 35 wanting children, realize that I still do not, and feel like he's wasted all this time with me, waiting for me to change my mind and then start to resent me. We don't really have any other major relationship issues. There's no cheating or abuse or anything. I'm having a hard time bringing this up with him. I keep putting it off because I'm scared and I feel like he's putting off thinking about it or discussing it because everything is good. Everytime I've tried to talk to him about it in the past he's said, "We'll cross that bridge when we come to it." I'm starting to think that we need to have an honest conversation about this though. And I'm terrified of losing him. TL;DR: My boyfriend of 6 years wants kids in the future. I do not. Feel guilty and scared/concerned. Need advice on how to bring this up without seeming clingy and being dismissed. <|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend (27m) and I (25f) have been together for over 6 years and have built a life together. We've got two dogs together, and we bought a home 3 years ago. By all means, we have our ups and downs, but overall we're happy. Our biggest issue is that I do not want kids (never have) and he does. Albeit not right away. He says he's happy to wait until he's 30-35 to have them. (Please do not offer up the "You'll change your mind" shpeel. I don't need it.) It wasn't an issue when we got together because we were young and children/marriage was so far off that it wasn't a thought. But as I age I feel more and more guilt about my desire to stay childless and stay in the relationship. As I age, I become more confident that I do not want children. I have always been honest about this with him though. I've told him since say one that I do not want children (don't want to have them, don't want to adopt) The more guilt I feel, the more I feel like being with him is taking away from his time to find someone that he really fits with AND wants children. I don't want him to wake up at 35 wanting children, realize that I still do not, and feel like he's wasted all this time with me, waiting for me to change my mind and then start to resent me. We don't really have any other major relationship issues. There's no cheating or abuse or anything. I'm having a hard time bringing this up with him. I keep putting it off because I'm scared and I feel like he's putting off thinking about it or discussing it because everything is good. Everytime I've tried to talk to him about it in the past he's said, "We'll cross that bridge when we come to it." I'm starting to think that we need to have an honest conversation about this though. And I'm terrified of losing him. TL;DR: My boyfriend of 6 years has always wanted kids in the future and I don't, and I'm afraid of losing him because I'm afraid of being selfish and selfish thinking. Need advice!<|endoftext|>

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Straight off the bat, here's a sentence, word for word, what he said to me: "I'll do whatever it takes to upset your mother even if that includes hurting you." My parents separated just over three years ago and my dad is still very salty about it. He's always been aggressive (yet he denies it) and abusive and when he didn't change, my mom and I decided to get ourselves out of that situation. Mom was picky about where we were moving to because she didn't want to end up putting me in a bad house/neighbourhood. So my dad cracked a fit and said that we were taking too long to leave (3 weeks) and left. He's living with my grandma because he doesn't want to get government assistance to rent his own house and he hates it. Onto the good stuff I guess. - He recently rekindled his relationship with his ex wife (the wife before my mother) and has told me that he's leaving everything in his will to her. - Tells me that his ex wife is more important than his own daughter and has openly admitted that he would drop his plans with me to see her (when I don't see him enough as it is). - Refused to come to my graduation because my mom would be there (in a room of 600+ people, he wouldn't have even bumped into her). - Bails on me for his ex wife. - Whenever we speak on the phone he always has something to say about my mom. This usually ends up in fights because I tell him that I don't want to hear it. When I saw him the other day things got heated and he got angry. I asked him if I were to marry my boyfriend, would he be at the wedding and without even thinking about it, he said no. All because of my mother. He acts like a child and I'm sick of having to deal with his outbursts when he brings up my mom. I feel like he's doing all of this so that I'll start hating her and I'm not really sure what to do about it.

My dad is purposely trying to cause problems with my mom so I'll hate her and I need advice on how to stop it.

my dad is a nasty piece of work and will do anything to upset me because he knows it will bother my mom. How do I get him to grow the hell up and act like an adult?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Straight off the bat, here's a sentence, word for word, what he said to me: "I'll do whatever it takes to upset your mother even if that includes hurting you." My parents separated just over three years ago and my dad is still very salty about it. He's always been aggressive (yet he denies it) and abusive and when he didn't change, my mom and I decided to get ourselves out of that situation. Mom was picky about where we were moving to because she didn't want to end up putting me in a bad house/neighbourhood. So my dad cracked a fit and said that we were taking too long to leave (3 weeks) and left. He's living with my grandma because he doesn't want to get government assistance to rent his own house and he hates it. Onto the good stuff I guess. - He recently rekindled his relationship with his ex wife (the wife before my mother) and has told me that he's leaving everything in his will to her. - Tells me that his ex wife is more important than his own daughter and has openly admitted that he would drop his plans with me to see her (when I don't see him enough as it is). - Refused to come to my graduation because my mom would be there (in a room of 600+ people, he wouldn't have even bumped into her). - Bails on me for his ex wife. - Whenever we speak on the phone he always has something to say about my mom. This usually ends up in fights because I tell him that I don't want to hear it. When I saw him the other day things got heated and he got angry. I asked him if I were to marry my boyfriend, would he be at the wedding and without even thinking about it, he said no. All because of my mother. He acts like a child and I'm sick of having to deal with his outbursts when he brings up my mom. I feel like he's doing all of this so that I'll start hating her and I'm not really sure what to do about it. TL;DR:

My dad is purposely trying to cause problems with my mom so I'll hate her and I need advice on how to stop it.<|endoftext|>

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my dad is a nasty piece of work and will do anything to upset me because he knows it will bother my mom. How do I get him to grow the hell up and act like an adult?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Straight off the bat, here's a sentence, word for word, what he said to me: "I'll do whatever it takes to upset your mother even if that includes hurting you." My parents separated just over three years ago and my dad is still very salty about it. He's always been aggressive (yet he denies it) and abusive and when he didn't change, my mom and I decided to get ourselves out of that situation. Mom was picky about where we were moving to because she didn't want to end up putting me in a bad house/neighbourhood. So my dad cracked a fit and said that we were taking too long to leave (3 weeks) and left. He's living with my grandma because he doesn't want to get government assistance to rent his own house and he hates it. Onto the good stuff I guess. - He recently rekindled his relationship with his ex wife (the wife before my mother) and has told me that he's leaving everything in his will to her. - Tells me that his ex wife is more important than his own daughter and has openly admitted that he would drop his plans with me to see her (when I don't see him enough as it is). - Refused to come to my graduation because my mom would be there (in a room of 600+ people, he wouldn't have even bumped into her). - Bails on me for his ex wife. - Whenever we speak on the phone he always has something to say about my mom. This usually ends up in fights because I tell him that I don't want to hear it. When I saw him the other day things got heated and he got angry. I asked him if I were to marry my boyfriend, would he be at the wedding and without even thinking about it, he said no. All because of my mother. He acts like a child and I'm sick of having to deal with his outbursts when he brings up my mom. I feel like he's doing all of this so that I'll start hating her and I'm not really sure what to do about it. TL;DR: My dad is purposely trying to cause problems with my mom so I'll hate her and I need advice on how to stop it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Straight off the bat, here's a sentence, word for word, what he said to me: "I'll do whatever it takes to upset your mother even if that includes hurting you." My parents separated just over three years ago and my dad is still very salty about it. He's always been aggressive (yet he denies it) and abusive and when he didn't change, my mom and I decided to get ourselves out of that situation. Mom was picky about where we were moving to because she didn't want to end up putting me in a bad house/neighbourhood. So my dad cracked a fit and said that we were taking too long to leave (3 weeks) and left. He's living with my grandma because he doesn't want to get government assistance to rent his own house and he hates it. Onto the good stuff I guess. - He recently rekindled his relationship with his ex wife (the wife before my mother) and has told me that he's leaving everything in his will to her. - Tells me that his ex wife is more important than his own daughter and has openly admitted that he would drop his plans with me to see her (when I don't see him enough as it is). - Refused to come to my graduation because my mom would be there (in a room of 600+ people, he wouldn't have even bumped into her). - Bails on me for his ex wife. - Whenever we speak on the phone he always has something to say about my mom. This usually ends up in fights because I tell him that I don't want to hear it. When I saw him the other day things got heated and he got angry. I asked him if I were to marry my boyfriend, would he be at the wedding and without even thinking about it, he said no. All because of my mother. He acts like a child and I'm sick of having to deal with his outbursts when he brings up my mom. I feel like he's doing all of this so that I'll start hating her and I'm not really sure what to do about it. TL;DR: my dad is a nasty piece of work and will do anything to upset me because he knows it will bother my mom. How do I get him to grow the hell up and act like an adult?<|endoftext|>

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So a little backstory, my father [50s] died when I was 6 and my brother [21] died 2 months ago, also my mother is blind. So basically there's only me and my mother left. Me and my "friends" like to banter a lot, myself included, but never so far So basically I picked up some bread on the way home from school with 3 friends, they asked if they could have some ,and I said something like "Nah it's for the family", then they said stuff like "What family" "I bet you put 4 plates for dinner but then take them away" or "when you ask your mother for your family she says she hasn't seen them" during a minute or two, and all while laughing( hard to translate the jokes into English, but you get the idea ) So yeah they mocked my dead family members and made fun of my mother's disability Needless to say I'm pretty fucking pissed, and also extra pissed because a close friend of mine was amongst the 3, they tried to apologize like rats but I told them to fuck right off. I'm wondering if i'm overreacting. And what I should do. Would appreciate an outside view from adults and such, thanks. Also, excuse any english errors as it isn't my first language

Friends made a really hurtful comment about dead family and my mother, I am super pissed and I don't know what to do or if I am overreacting.

My "friends" mocked my dead family members because I was/am only left out of two, and made fun of my mother's disability, need advice.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a little backstory, my father [50s] died when I was 6 and my brother [21] died 2 months ago, also my mother is blind. So basically there's only me and my mother left. Me and my "friends" like to banter a lot, myself included, but never so far So basically I picked up some bread on the way home from school with 3 friends, they asked if they could have some,and I said something like "Nah it's for the family", then they said stuff like "What family" "I bet you put 4 plates for dinner but then take them away" or "when you ask your mother for your family she says she hasn't seen them" during a minute or two, and all while laughing( hard to translate the jokes into English, but you get the idea ) So yeah they mocked my dead family members and made fun of my mother's disability Needless to say I'm pretty fucking pissed, and also extra pissed because a close friend of mine was amongst the 3, they tried to apologize like rats but I told them to fuck right off. I'm wondering if i'm overreacting. And what I should do. Would appreciate an outside view from adults and such, thanks. Also, excuse any english errors as it isn't my first language TL;DR:

Friends made a really hurtful comment about dead family and my mother, I am super pissed and I don't know what to do or if I am overreacting.<|endoftext|>

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My "friends" mocked my dead family members because I was/am only left out of two, and made fun of my mother's disability, need advice.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a little backstory, my father [50s] died when I was 6 and my brother [21] died 2 months ago, also my mother is blind. So basically there's only me and my mother left. Me and my "friends" like to banter a lot, myself included, but never so far So basically I picked up some bread on the way home from school with 3 friends, they asked if they could have some,and I said something like "Nah it's for the family", then they said stuff like "What family" "I bet you put 4 plates for dinner but then take them away" or "when you ask your mother for your family she says she hasn't seen them" during a minute or two, and all while laughing( hard to translate the jokes into English, but you get the idea ) So yeah they mocked my dead family members and made fun of my mother's disability Needless to say I'm pretty fucking pissed, and also extra pissed because a close friend of mine was amongst the 3, they tried to apologize like rats but I told them to fuck right off. I'm wondering if i'm overreacting. And what I should do. Would appreciate an outside view from adults and such, thanks. Also, excuse any english errors as it isn't my first language TL;DR: Friends made a really hurtful comment about dead family and my mother, I am super pissed and I don't know what to do or if I am overreacting.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a little backstory, my father [50s] died when I was 6 and my brother [21] died 2 months ago, also my mother is blind. So basically there's only me and my mother left. Me and my "friends" like to banter a lot, myself included, but never so far So basically I picked up some bread on the way home from school with 3 friends, they asked if they could have some,and I said something like "Nah it's for the family", then they said stuff like "What family" "I bet you put 4 plates for dinner but then take them away" or "when you ask your mother for your family she says she hasn't seen them" during a minute or two, and all while laughing( hard to translate the jokes into English, but you get the idea ) So yeah they mocked my dead family members and made fun of my mother's disability Needless to say I'm pretty fucking pissed, and also extra pissed because a close friend of mine was amongst the 3, they tried to apologize like rats but I told them to fuck right off. I'm wondering if i'm overreacting. And what I should do. Would appreciate an outside view from adults and such, thanks. Also, excuse any english errors as it isn't my first language TL;DR: My "friends" mocked my dead family members because I was/am only left out of two, and made fun of my mother's disability, need advice.<|endoftext|>

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Alright so my bf of 6 and a half years is mad because I went to an anime convention with my sister, her boyfriend, and my other family members? He couldn't come because he couldn't get the day off work because he had just gotten home from a 3 day trip to Vegas he took with his buddies, and when he took that trip not once did I complain, I was a little sad but I sucked it up and told him to have fun and I would be here waiting for him when he gets back. Anyway he texts me if I'm home, it literally took me 5 minutes to reply. When I did he said "answer me when I'm talking to you." This trip only took what a total of 6 hours? He's mad whenever I go out even if it's with my family but God forbid I dare say anything if he goes somewhere :( sucks because I spent a lot of money on gifts for him Now I feel like he won't even accept them and its money wasted. :( he even texted me this: "well this is the last time you're going so I hope you enjoyed it got it?" He's always like this its a drag for me to go somewhere because I know this is how it's gonna be. I told him a while back I might go to Mexico to see my grandparents this December for a week. He said "well don't bother calling or texting me because I don't wanna know anything about it" why the hell is he like this and what can I do?! I can't do anything without him assuming that guys are gonna try to talk to me and I'm sick of it :(

boyfriend is mad because I went to an anime convention with my sister and my other family members.

went out with sister and her boyfriend and other family. He's mad cause I go out with my family. I don't want to go out with my family now cause I'm sick of this.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright so my bf of 6 and a half years is mad because I went to an anime convention with my sister, her boyfriend, and my other family members? He couldn't come because he couldn't get the day off work because he had just gotten home from a 3 day trip to Vegas he took with his buddies, and when he took that trip not once did I complain, I was a little sad but I sucked it up and told him to have fun and I would be here waiting for him when he gets back. Anyway he texts me if I'm home, it literally took me 5 minutes to reply. When I did he said "answer me when I'm talking to you." This trip only took what a total of 6 hours? He's mad whenever I go out even if it's with my family but God forbid I dare say anything if he goes somewhere :( sucks because I spent a lot of money on gifts for him Now I feel like he won't even accept them and its money wasted. :( he even texted me this: "well this is the last time you're going so I hope you enjoyed it got it?" He's always like this its a drag for me to go somewhere because I know this is how it's gonna be. I told him a while back I might go to Mexico to see my grandparents this December for a week. He said "well don't bother calling or texting me because I don't wanna know anything about it" why the hell is he like this and what can I do?! I can't do anything without him assuming that guys are gonna try to talk to me and I'm sick of it :( TL;DR:

boyfriend is mad because I went to an anime convention with my sister and my other family members.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright so my bf of 6 and a half years is mad because I went to an anime convention with my sister, her boyfriend, and my other family members? He couldn't come because he couldn't get the day off work because he had just gotten home from a 3 day trip to Vegas he took with his buddies, and when he took that trip not once did I complain, I was a little sad but I sucked it up and told him to have fun and I would be here waiting for him when he gets back. Anyway he texts me if I'm home, it literally took me 5 minutes to reply. When I did he said "answer me when I'm talking to you." This trip only took what a total of 6 hours? He's mad whenever I go out even if it's with my family but God forbid I dare say anything if he goes somewhere :( sucks because I spent a lot of money on gifts for him Now I feel like he won't even accept them and its money wasted. :( he even texted me this: "well this is the last time you're going so I hope you enjoyed it got it?" He's always like this its a drag for me to go somewhere because I know this is how it's gonna be. I told him a while back I might go to Mexico to see my grandparents this December for a week. He said "well don't bother calling or texting me because I don't wanna know anything about it" why the hell is he like this and what can I do?! I can't do anything without him assuming that guys are gonna try to talk to me and I'm sick of it :( TL;DR: boyfriend is mad because I went to an anime convention with my sister and my other family members.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright so my bf of 6 and a half years is mad because I went to an anime convention with my sister, her boyfriend, and my other family members? He couldn't come because he couldn't get the day off work because he had just gotten home from a 3 day trip to Vegas he took with his buddies, and when he took that trip not once did I complain, I was a little sad but I sucked it up and told him to have fun and I would be here waiting for him when he gets back. Anyway he texts me if I'm home, it literally took me 5 minutes to reply. When I did he said "answer me when I'm talking to you." This trip only took what a total of 6 hours? He's mad whenever I go out even if it's with my family but God forbid I dare say anything if he goes somewhere :( sucks because I spent a lot of money on gifts for him Now I feel like he won't even accept them and its money wasted. :( he even texted me this: "well this is the last time you're going so I hope you enjoyed it got it?" He's always like this its a drag for me to go somewhere because I know this is how it's gonna be. I told him a while back I might go to Mexico to see my grandparents this December for a week. He said "well don't bother calling or texting me because I don't wanna know anything about it" why the hell is he like this and what can I do?! I can't do anything without him assuming that guys are gonna try to talk to me and I'm sick of it :( TL;DR: went out with sister and her boyfriend and other family. He's mad cause I go out with my family. I don't want to go out with my family now cause I'm sick of this.<|endoftext|>

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My girlfriend and I are two fairly fresh out-of-college B.S. majors who currently both work hourly. We've been dating for a little longer than a year, with a small break of about a year and a half. Over the past couple of months, my girlfriend has been getting bouts of emotional distress, leading to crying, sobbing, and long conversations. It's not entirely with regards to the relationship itself, but regarding the future and how uncertain things are. A lot of her friends have been moving away for additional schooling and new professions. Additionally, some of her younger cousins (21, 24) family has been marrying off with and have had multiple children and need a lot of additional financial support from the extended family to make ends meet. Some of these people have houses, white-collar jobs, etc. She's begun to express a deep concern for financially supporting some of her long-term goals in life, such as having children, owning pets, owning a home and having insurance. She'd like to be in a place in which both her and her significant other will be able to support most of the needs of a family with a single income, just in case something happens and one person loses a job and needs time to find one. Both our current career paths have a "it'll get worse before it gets better" scenario going on - with planned increased workloads and more physical demands before increased pay is involved. I've been adamant that I will make a lot of personal sacrifices if need be to make ends meet. The good news is that we're very happy with each other otherwise, we've talked about a lot of other subjects very seriously and the spark is still going quite strong. I don't know what to say or do when she gets this way, and she doesn't seem to know what I can say or do to help her feel more secure. Any help would be appreciated.

Girlfriend is having serious concerns regarding the future relative to her well-being and financial security and needs advice from me on what I can do to help her feel more secure financially.

Girlfriend getting shit-crying and emotional distress regarding the future and financial support of her own and/or significant others needs. Need advice to help her feel less anxious about it all!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend and I are two fairly fresh out-of-college B.S. majors who currently both work hourly. We've been dating for a little longer than a year, with a small break of about a year and a half. Over the past couple of months, my girlfriend has been getting bouts of emotional distress, leading to crying, sobbing, and long conversations. It's not entirely with regards to the relationship itself, but regarding the future and how uncertain things are. A lot of her friends have been moving away for additional schooling and new professions. Additionally, some of her younger cousins (21, 24) family has been marrying off with and have had multiple children and need a lot of additional financial support from the extended family to make ends meet. Some of these people have houses, white-collar jobs, etc. She's begun to express a deep concern for financially supporting some of her long-term goals in life, such as having children, owning pets, owning a home and having insurance. She'd like to be in a place in which both her and her significant other will be able to support most of the needs of a family with a single income, just in case something happens and one person loses a job and needs time to find one. Both our current career paths have a "it'll get worse before it gets better" scenario going on - with planned increased workloads and more physical demands before increased pay is involved. I've been adamant that I will make a lot of personal sacrifices if need be to make ends meet. The good news is that we're very happy with each other otherwise, we've talked about a lot of other subjects very seriously and the spark is still going quite strong. I don't know what to say or do when she gets this way, and she doesn't seem to know what I can say or do to help her feel more secure. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR:

Girlfriend is having serious concerns regarding the future relative to her well-being and financial security and needs advice from me on what I can do to help her feel more secure financially.<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend getting shit-crying and emotional distress regarding the future and financial support of her own and/or significant others needs. Need advice to help her feel less anxious about it all!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend and I are two fairly fresh out-of-college B.S. majors who currently both work hourly. We've been dating for a little longer than a year, with a small break of about a year and a half. Over the past couple of months, my girlfriend has been getting bouts of emotional distress, leading to crying, sobbing, and long conversations. It's not entirely with regards to the relationship itself, but regarding the future and how uncertain things are. A lot of her friends have been moving away for additional schooling and new professions. Additionally, some of her younger cousins (21, 24) family has been marrying off with and have had multiple children and need a lot of additional financial support from the extended family to make ends meet. Some of these people have houses, white-collar jobs, etc. She's begun to express a deep concern for financially supporting some of her long-term goals in life, such as having children, owning pets, owning a home and having insurance. She'd like to be in a place in which both her and her significant other will be able to support most of the needs of a family with a single income, just in case something happens and one person loses a job and needs time to find one. Both our current career paths have a "it'll get worse before it gets better" scenario going on - with planned increased workloads and more physical demands before increased pay is involved. I've been adamant that I will make a lot of personal sacrifices if need be to make ends meet. The good news is that we're very happy with each other otherwise, we've talked about a lot of other subjects very seriously and the spark is still going quite strong. I don't know what to say or do when she gets this way, and she doesn't seem to know what I can say or do to help her feel more secure. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR: Girlfriend is having serious concerns regarding the future relative to her well-being and financial security and needs advice from me on what I can do to help her feel more secure financially.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend and I are two fairly fresh out-of-college B.S. majors who currently both work hourly. We've been dating for a little longer than a year, with a small break of about a year and a half. Over the past couple of months, my girlfriend has been getting bouts of emotional distress, leading to crying, sobbing, and long conversations. It's not entirely with regards to the relationship itself, but regarding the future and how uncertain things are. A lot of her friends have been moving away for additional schooling and new professions. Additionally, some of her younger cousins (21, 24) family has been marrying off with and have had multiple children and need a lot of additional financial support from the extended family to make ends meet. Some of these people have houses, white-collar jobs, etc. She's begun to express a deep concern for financially supporting some of her long-term goals in life, such as having children, owning pets, owning a home and having insurance. She'd like to be in a place in which both her and her significant other will be able to support most of the needs of a family with a single income, just in case something happens and one person loses a job and needs time to find one. Both our current career paths have a "it'll get worse before it gets better" scenario going on - with planned increased workloads and more physical demands before increased pay is involved. I've been adamant that I will make a lot of personal sacrifices if need be to make ends meet. The good news is that we're very happy with each other otherwise, we've talked about a lot of other subjects very seriously and the spark is still going quite strong. I don't know what to say or do when she gets this way, and she doesn't seem to know what I can say or do to help her feel more secure. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR: Girlfriend getting shit-crying and emotional distress regarding the future and financial support of her own and/or significant others needs. Need advice to help her feel less anxious about it all!<|endoftext|>

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So, yes-- stereotypical and cliche scene. I plan on getting tested ASAP- I can't believe she lied though, she is now acting very socipathic, and going on about how if she wants, she will sue me for child support. As for her age, her okcupid profile says one, I googled her number and found she may be younger, had an arrest record, etc. I also browsed on craigslist and noticed she also had a post on there as well-- so- ugh. I don't know what to do at this point. I thought I was going to be meeting someone that could have a positive benefit to my life and didn't evan plan on having sex- it sort of happened. It was instigated by her, and looking back there were tons of tell tell signs that alerted me/red flags. I even had the idea that it was a bit off but I stayed and went for it since I was depressed recently and feeling lonely and having someone give positive happy attention was really a mood elevator. I'm not currently experiencing any of the HIV+ signs. I also think she could be lying, her attitude via the way she's texting seems indicative of this. I don't know. I really don't know. I've always heard stories similar to this, I've read several reddit posts before with people getting STD's..and now..this. My anxiety is at it's most intensive level I've ever felt, I have this deep feeling in my chest. I don't know what's worst, the possibility of being HIV+ or that she mentioned missing her period. What should I do? What can I do? My state has it as a felony to misrepresent being HIV+.. but so what? What can do that do to me now.. I'm fucked, and I know it. I never thought I'd make a post here and yet... :(

girl lied about being HIV+ and now I don't know what to do. What should I do?

HIV+ woman lied about being STD free, said she was HIV+ and missing her period. WHAT DO I DO?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, yes-- stereotypical and cliche scene. I plan on getting tested ASAP- I can't believe she lied though, she is now acting very socipathic, and going on about how if she wants, she will sue me for child support. As for her age, her okcupid profile says one, I googled her number and found she may be younger, had an arrest record, etc. I also browsed on craigslist and noticed she also had a post on there as well-- so- ugh. I don't know what to do at this point. I thought I was going to be meeting someone that could have a positive benefit to my life and didn't evan plan on having sex- it sort of happened. It was instigated by her, and looking back there were tons of tell tell signs that alerted me/red flags. I even had the idea that it was a bit off but I stayed and went for it since I was depressed recently and feeling lonely and having someone give positive happy attention was really a mood elevator. I'm not currently experiencing any of the HIV+ signs. I also think she could be lying, her attitude via the way she's texting seems indicative of this. I don't know. I really don't know. I've always heard stories similar to this, I've read several reddit posts before with people getting STD's..and now..this. My anxiety is at it's most intensive level I've ever felt, I have this deep feeling in my chest. I don't know what's worst, the possibility of being HIV+ or that she mentioned missing her period. What should I do? What can I do? My state has it as a felony to misrepresent being HIV+.. but so what? What can do that do to me now.. I'm fucked, and I know it. I never thought I'd make a post here and yet... :( TL;DR:

girl lied about being HIV+ and now I don't know what to do. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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HIV+ woman lied about being STD free, said she was HIV+ and missing her period. WHAT DO I DO?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, yes-- stereotypical and cliche scene. I plan on getting tested ASAP- I can't believe she lied though, she is now acting very socipathic, and going on about how if she wants, she will sue me for child support. As for her age, her okcupid profile says one, I googled her number and found she may be younger, had an arrest record, etc. I also browsed on craigslist and noticed she also had a post on there as well-- so- ugh. I don't know what to do at this point. I thought I was going to be meeting someone that could have a positive benefit to my life and didn't evan plan on having sex- it sort of happened. It was instigated by her, and looking back there were tons of tell tell signs that alerted me/red flags. I even had the idea that it was a bit off but I stayed and went for it since I was depressed recently and feeling lonely and having someone give positive happy attention was really a mood elevator. I'm not currently experiencing any of the HIV+ signs. I also think she could be lying, her attitude via the way she's texting seems indicative of this. I don't know. I really don't know. I've always heard stories similar to this, I've read several reddit posts before with people getting STD's..and now..this. My anxiety is at it's most intensive level I've ever felt, I have this deep feeling in my chest. I don't know what's worst, the possibility of being HIV+ or that she mentioned missing her period. What should I do? What can I do? My state has it as a felony to misrepresent being HIV+.. but so what? What can do that do to me now.. I'm fucked, and I know it. I never thought I'd make a post here and yet... :( TL;DR: girl lied about being HIV+ and now I don't know what to do. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, yes-- stereotypical and cliche scene. I plan on getting tested ASAP- I can't believe she lied though, she is now acting very socipathic, and going on about how if she wants, she will sue me for child support. As for her age, her okcupid profile says one, I googled her number and found she may be younger, had an arrest record, etc. I also browsed on craigslist and noticed she also had a post on there as well-- so- ugh. I don't know what to do at this point. I thought I was going to be meeting someone that could have a positive benefit to my life and didn't evan plan on having sex- it sort of happened. It was instigated by her, and looking back there were tons of tell tell signs that alerted me/red flags. I even had the idea that it was a bit off but I stayed and went for it since I was depressed recently and feeling lonely and having someone give positive happy attention was really a mood elevator. I'm not currently experiencing any of the HIV+ signs. I also think she could be lying, her attitude via the way she's texting seems indicative of this. I don't know. I really don't know. I've always heard stories similar to this, I've read several reddit posts before with people getting STD's..and now..this. My anxiety is at it's most intensive level I've ever felt, I have this deep feeling in my chest. I don't know what's worst, the possibility of being HIV+ or that she mentioned missing her period. What should I do? What can I do? My state has it as a felony to misrepresent being HIV+.. but so what? What can do that do to me now.. I'm fucked, and I know it. I never thought I'd make a post here and yet... :( TL;DR: HIV+ woman lied about being STD free, said she was HIV+ and missing her period. WHAT DO I DO?<|endoftext|>

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Let's start this off. I was in Provence with my family on vacation. We had just dropped my brothers off at the train station, and they were leaving for their couple month trip through Europe. Of course, being 13, and both my brothers leaving, I'm pretty pissed off, but my parents shrugged it off and we head out for lunch. This restaurant was outdoors. (This is important...) We grabbed a spot under the tents, and it was a kinda nice (kind of greyish) day. We grab our seats, and being bored, I pick up my dad's camera. I just go from picture to picture, refreshing my memory of the trip that is going to end in a day. (Very luckily) I took the camera off of my neck once I was finished, and placed it back on the table, and that's when it happened... I looked up as I placed the camera, and noticed... a tiny black dot in the sky. Confused, I turn my head away, cause I only just caught a glimpse of it, and couldn't care less. And I turn my head... face to the right... and **THWAP**. "What the hell!?" ... I look around... this doesn't make sense to me... until I look down at my shirt. [This]( bitch is sitting on my shirt. A big... fucking... locust... Turns out of all the places it was aiming for, it was straight at my face. I ran, jumped, and screamed through the restaurant, as of course the waiters and the people around, including my parents, all laughed at me. Needless to say, I got made fun of by the waiters, and the memory will always stick with me... of the time a locust flew straight into my face.

I was sitting by my brothers, and I looked up to see a locust fly right into my face.

I'm 13, took a picture of a black locust, and it flew straight into my face.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let's start this off. I was in Provence with my family on vacation. We had just dropped my brothers off at the train station, and they were leaving for their couple month trip through Europe. Of course, being 13, and both my brothers leaving, I'm pretty pissed off, but my parents shrugged it off and we head out for lunch. This restaurant was outdoors. (This is important...) We grabbed a spot under the tents, and it was a kinda nice (kind of greyish) day. We grab our seats, and being bored, I pick up my dad's camera. I just go from picture to picture, refreshing my memory of the trip that is going to end in a day. (Very luckily) I took the camera off of my neck once I was finished, and placed it back on the table, and that's when it happened... I looked up as I placed the camera, and noticed... a tiny black dot in the sky. Confused, I turn my head away, cause I only just caught a glimpse of it, and couldn't care less. And I turn my head... face to the right... and **THWAP**. "What the hell!?"... I look around... this doesn't make sense to me... until I look down at my shirt. [This]( bitch is sitting on my shirt. A big... fucking... locust... Turns out of all the places it was aiming for, it was straight at my face. I ran, jumped, and screamed through the restaurant, as of course the waiters and the people around, including my parents, all laughed at me. Needless to say, I got made fun of by the waiters, and the memory will always stick with me... of the time a locust flew straight into my face. TL;DR:

I was sitting by my brothers, and I looked up to see a locust fly right into my face.<|endoftext|>

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I'm 13, took a picture of a black locust, and it flew straight into my face.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let's start this off. I was in Provence with my family on vacation. We had just dropped my brothers off at the train station, and they were leaving for their couple month trip through Europe. Of course, being 13, and both my brothers leaving, I'm pretty pissed off, but my parents shrugged it off and we head out for lunch. This restaurant was outdoors. (This is important...) We grabbed a spot under the tents, and it was a kinda nice (kind of greyish) day. We grab our seats, and being bored, I pick up my dad's camera. I just go from picture to picture, refreshing my memory of the trip that is going to end in a day. (Very luckily) I took the camera off of my neck once I was finished, and placed it back on the table, and that's when it happened... I looked up as I placed the camera, and noticed... a tiny black dot in the sky. Confused, I turn my head away, cause I only just caught a glimpse of it, and couldn't care less. And I turn my head... face to the right... and **THWAP**. "What the hell!?"... I look around... this doesn't make sense to me... until I look down at my shirt. [This]( bitch is sitting on my shirt. A big... fucking... locust... Turns out of all the places it was aiming for, it was straight at my face. I ran, jumped, and screamed through the restaurant, as of course the waiters and the people around, including my parents, all laughed at me. Needless to say, I got made fun of by the waiters, and the memory will always stick with me... of the time a locust flew straight into my face. TL;DR: I was sitting by my brothers, and I looked up to see a locust fly right into my face.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let's start this off. I was in Provence with my family on vacation. We had just dropped my brothers off at the train station, and they were leaving for their couple month trip through Europe. Of course, being 13, and both my brothers leaving, I'm pretty pissed off, but my parents shrugged it off and we head out for lunch. This restaurant was outdoors. (This is important...) We grabbed a spot under the tents, and it was a kinda nice (kind of greyish) day. We grab our seats, and being bored, I pick up my dad's camera. I just go from picture to picture, refreshing my memory of the trip that is going to end in a day. (Very luckily) I took the camera off of my neck once I was finished, and placed it back on the table, and that's when it happened... I looked up as I placed the camera, and noticed... a tiny black dot in the sky. Confused, I turn my head away, cause I only just caught a glimpse of it, and couldn't care less. And I turn my head... face to the right... and **THWAP**. "What the hell!?"... I look around... this doesn't make sense to me... until I look down at my shirt. [This]( bitch is sitting on my shirt. A big... fucking... locust... Turns out of all the places it was aiming for, it was straight at my face. I ran, jumped, and screamed through the restaurant, as of course the waiters and the people around, including my parents, all laughed at me. Needless to say, I got made fun of by the waiters, and the memory will always stick with me... of the time a locust flew straight into my face. TL;DR: I'm 13, took a picture of a black locust, and it flew straight into my face.<|endoftext|>

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I'm currently a high school senior, and my brother started his first year in college. He recently finished his first semester. My mom has been paying for his college so far (she is a single parent). The only thing she has asked for him to do is to pay for his textbooks, transportation, etc. He has been able to do so because of what he had saved up from allowances basically, which amounted to ~$1000. However, he's out of money and he has not found a job to pay for anything and he refuses to do anything but play games basically. I'm not bashing people playing games, as I spend a large amount of time doing so as well (but I'm a high school student and I do a little bit of part time work), but he does it waaaay too much. He applied to maybe 2-3 places total but it's absolutely insane that he refuses to even help around the house normally or even try to apply to more. We live in an area where there have been job opportunities, and he goes to school where there are jobs nearby as well. He leaves home at around 10 or 11 from Monday through Thursday, so he has mornings and weekends to do a part time job. Recently my mom and stepdad had propositioned him to help my stepdad build his house, and he had accepted, but earlier this morning they got in an argument and my stepdad closed the offer saying that he lacked respect, which wouldn't work in a working situation (especially since it's building things (in the cold) which my brother has no idea how to do). It's really getting on me and my mom's last nerves and I really want to help him, but if we nag at him to do something he won't do it, and if we don't nag at him to do something he won't do it either. Is there any way to change his behavior? I guess my mom could stop paying for college but then there's a chance that he'd just laze around at home and not do anything either. :(

My brother refuses to help around the house or even apply to jobs. My mom is getting really frustrated with it and wants to help but is unable to. What can we do?

My brother refuses to help around the house or even try to apply for jobs. My mom feels threatened by this and is very frustrated. What should we do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm currently a high school senior, and my brother started his first year in college. He recently finished his first semester. My mom has been paying for his college so far (she is a single parent). The only thing she has asked for him to do is to pay for his textbooks, transportation, etc. He has been able to do so because of what he had saved up from allowances basically, which amounted to ~$1000. However, he's out of money and he has not found a job to pay for anything and he refuses to do anything but play games basically. I'm not bashing people playing games, as I spend a large amount of time doing so as well (but I'm a high school student and I do a little bit of part time work), but he does it waaaay too much. He applied to maybe 2-3 places total but it's absolutely insane that he refuses to even help around the house normally or even try to apply to more. We live in an area where there have been job opportunities, and he goes to school where there are jobs nearby as well. He leaves home at around 10 or 11 from Monday through Thursday, so he has mornings and weekends to do a part time job. Recently my mom and stepdad had propositioned him to help my stepdad build his house, and he had accepted, but earlier this morning they got in an argument and my stepdad closed the offer saying that he lacked respect, which wouldn't work in a working situation (especially since it's building things (in the cold) which my brother has no idea how to do). It's really getting on me and my mom's last nerves and I really want to help him, but if we nag at him to do something he won't do it, and if we don't nag at him to do something he won't do it either. Is there any way to change his behavior? I guess my mom could stop paying for college but then there's a chance that he'd just laze around at home and not do anything either. :( TL;DR:

My brother refuses to help around the house or even apply to jobs. My mom is getting really frustrated with it and wants to help but is unable to. What can we do?<|endoftext|>

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My brother refuses to help around the house or even try to apply for jobs. My mom feels threatened by this and is very frustrated. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm currently a high school senior, and my brother started his first year in college. He recently finished his first semester. My mom has been paying for his college so far (she is a single parent). The only thing she has asked for him to do is to pay for his textbooks, transportation, etc. He has been able to do so because of what he had saved up from allowances basically, which amounted to ~$1000. However, he's out of money and he has not found a job to pay for anything and he refuses to do anything but play games basically. I'm not bashing people playing games, as I spend a large amount of time doing so as well (but I'm a high school student and I do a little bit of part time work), but he does it waaaay too much. He applied to maybe 2-3 places total but it's absolutely insane that he refuses to even help around the house normally or even try to apply to more. We live in an area where there have been job opportunities, and he goes to school where there are jobs nearby as well. He leaves home at around 10 or 11 from Monday through Thursday, so he has mornings and weekends to do a part time job. Recently my mom and stepdad had propositioned him to help my stepdad build his house, and he had accepted, but earlier this morning they got in an argument and my stepdad closed the offer saying that he lacked respect, which wouldn't work in a working situation (especially since it's building things (in the cold) which my brother has no idea how to do). It's really getting on me and my mom's last nerves and I really want to help him, but if we nag at him to do something he won't do it, and if we don't nag at him to do something he won't do it either. Is there any way to change his behavior? I guess my mom could stop paying for college but then there's a chance that he'd just laze around at home and not do anything either. :( TL;DR: My brother refuses to help around the house or even apply to jobs. My mom is getting really frustrated with it and wants to help but is unable to. What can we do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm currently a high school senior, and my brother started his first year in college. He recently finished his first semester. My mom has been paying for his college so far (she is a single parent). The only thing she has asked for him to do is to pay for his textbooks, transportation, etc. He has been able to do so because of what he had saved up from allowances basically, which amounted to ~$1000. However, he's out of money and he has not found a job to pay for anything and he refuses to do anything but play games basically. I'm not bashing people playing games, as I spend a large amount of time doing so as well (but I'm a high school student and I do a little bit of part time work), but he does it waaaay too much. He applied to maybe 2-3 places total but it's absolutely insane that he refuses to even help around the house normally or even try to apply to more. We live in an area where there have been job opportunities, and he goes to school where there are jobs nearby as well. He leaves home at around 10 or 11 from Monday through Thursday, so he has mornings and weekends to do a part time job. Recently my mom and stepdad had propositioned him to help my stepdad build his house, and he had accepted, but earlier this morning they got in an argument and my stepdad closed the offer saying that he lacked respect, which wouldn't work in a working situation (especially since it's building things (in the cold) which my brother has no idea how to do). It's really getting on me and my mom's last nerves and I really want to help him, but if we nag at him to do something he won't do it, and if we don't nag at him to do something he won't do it either. Is there any way to change his behavior? I guess my mom could stop paying for college but then there's a chance that he'd just laze around at home and not do anything either. :( TL;DR: My brother refuses to help around the house or even try to apply for jobs. My mom feels threatened by this and is very frustrated. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities). They then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary. And here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700. I could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.

Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.

Am I being charged for an apartment I've not even moved into yet? EDIT: Thanks for the responses guys. I had no idea this would get so much attention. I really appreciate it. I'll have to see if I can get in contact with them again next week.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities). They then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary. And here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700. I could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans. TL;DR:

Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.<|endoftext|>

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Am I being charged for an apartment I've not even moved into yet? EDIT: Thanks for the responses guys. I had no idea this would get so much attention. I really appreciate it. I'll have to see if I can get in contact with them again next week.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities). They then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary. And here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700. I could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans. TL;DR: Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities). They then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary. And here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700. I could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans. TL;DR: Am I being charged for an apartment I've not even moved into yet? EDIT: Thanks for the responses guys. I had no idea this would get so much attention. I really appreciate it. I'll have to see if I can get in contact with them again next week.<|endoftext|>

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Backstory: I was cutting on the highway today and in the lane next to me there was a late teen's or early 20's girl with her keyboard phone open sending a text. As she accelerated to cut on the highway, she didn't put her phone away, so I yelled at her to put it away. She followed me, cut in front of me, and waved her phone, still open, up high with her right hand just to piss me off. Unfortunate for her I have a dashboard camera. Should I send the video to police, or am I just overrating because she tried to piss me off?

caught a girl blatantly texting on the highway thanks to my dashboard camera. should i send it to the cops, or am i overrating it bc she tried to piss me off?

caught teenage girl blatantly texting on highway, dash cam capturing action, should I send video to cops, or am I overrating to be pissed off by her actions?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Backstory: I was cutting on the highway today and in the lane next to me there was a late teen's or early 20's girl with her keyboard phone open sending a text. As she accelerated to cut on the highway, she didn't put her phone away, so I yelled at her to put it away. She followed me, cut in front of me, and waved her phone, still open, up high with her right hand just to piss me off. Unfortunate for her I have a dashboard camera. Should I send the video to police, or am I just overrating because she tried to piss me off? TL;DR:

caught a girl blatantly texting on the highway thanks to my dashboard camera. should i send it to the cops, or am i overrating it bc she tried to piss me off?<|endoftext|>

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caught teenage girl blatantly texting on highway, dash cam capturing action, should I send video to cops, or am I overrating to be pissed off by her actions?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Backstory: I was cutting on the highway today and in the lane next to me there was a late teen's or early 20's girl with her keyboard phone open sending a text. As she accelerated to cut on the highway, she didn't put her phone away, so I yelled at her to put it away. She followed me, cut in front of me, and waved her phone, still open, up high with her right hand just to piss me off. Unfortunate for her I have a dashboard camera. Should I send the video to police, or am I just overrating because she tried to piss me off? TL;DR: caught a girl blatantly texting on the highway thanks to my dashboard camera. should i send it to the cops, or am i overrating it bc she tried to piss me off?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Backstory: I was cutting on the highway today and in the lane next to me there was a late teen's or early 20's girl with her keyboard phone open sending a text. As she accelerated to cut on the highway, she didn't put her phone away, so I yelled at her to put it away. She followed me, cut in front of me, and waved her phone, still open, up high with her right hand just to piss me off. Unfortunate for her I have a dashboard camera. Should I send the video to police, or am I just overrating because she tried to piss me off? TL;DR: caught teenage girl blatantly texting on highway, dash cam capturing action, should I send video to cops, or am I overrating to be pissed off by her actions?<|endoftext|>

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Two weeks ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because I could tell he was pushing me away. (thread [here] There were a lot of other things said, but I think it came down to commitment and wanting to date other people. I left the apartment we shared for two weeks in order to gather my thoughts and strength. However, I love the city we lived in and have some job prospects. Because my name is still on the lease, I've returned temporarily long enough to find another apartment and move my stuff. Based on what he said during our discussion,texts I found sealing my decision to break up with him, I'm pretty sure he's seeing other people. It's strange to me that he's so eager to get back into "the game," but I suppose that's a personal difference. So, I'm curious if any of you wise people have any advice on how to deal with this situation.

broke up with boyfriend of 3 years, returned temporarily, found a new place and need advice on how to deal with the situation.

I've returned temporarily to my old apt who I share with my exbf. I think he's seeing other people, and I want your advice on how to deal with this situation.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Two weeks ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because I could tell he was pushing me away. (thread [here] There were a lot of other things said, but I think it came down to commitment and wanting to date other people. I left the apartment we shared for two weeks in order to gather my thoughts and strength. However, I love the city we lived in and have some job prospects. Because my name is still on the lease, I've returned temporarily long enough to find another apartment and move my stuff. Based on what he said during our discussion,texts I found sealing my decision to break up with him, I'm pretty sure he's seeing other people. It's strange to me that he's so eager to get back into "the game," but I suppose that's a personal difference. So, I'm curious if any of you wise people have any advice on how to deal with this situation. TL;DR:

broke up with boyfriend of 3 years, returned temporarily, found a new place and need advice on how to deal with the situation.<|endoftext|>

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I've returned temporarily to my old apt who I share with my exbf. I think he's seeing other people, and I want your advice on how to deal with this situation.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Two weeks ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because I could tell he was pushing me away. (thread [here] There were a lot of other things said, but I think it came down to commitment and wanting to date other people. I left the apartment we shared for two weeks in order to gather my thoughts and strength. However, I love the city we lived in and have some job prospects. Because my name is still on the lease, I've returned temporarily long enough to find another apartment and move my stuff. Based on what he said during our discussion,texts I found sealing my decision to break up with him, I'm pretty sure he's seeing other people. It's strange to me that he's so eager to get back into "the game," but I suppose that's a personal difference. So, I'm curious if any of you wise people have any advice on how to deal with this situation. TL;DR: broke up with boyfriend of 3 years, returned temporarily, found a new place and need advice on how to deal with the situation.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Two weeks ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because I could tell he was pushing me away. (thread [here] There were a lot of other things said, but I think it came down to commitment and wanting to date other people. I left the apartment we shared for two weeks in order to gather my thoughts and strength. However, I love the city we lived in and have some job prospects. Because my name is still on the lease, I've returned temporarily long enough to find another apartment and move my stuff. Based on what he said during our discussion,texts I found sealing my decision to break up with him, I'm pretty sure he's seeing other people. It's strange to me that he's so eager to get back into "the game," but I suppose that's a personal difference. So, I'm curious if any of you wise people have any advice on how to deal with this situation. TL;DR: I've returned temporarily to my old apt who I share with my exbf. I think he's seeing other people, and I want your advice on how to deal with this situation.<|endoftext|>

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So Reddit, one of my co-workers went on vacay this week. We run a small retail shop and it's delivery week. My boss, in full infinite wisdom, decided to hire a temp for a day to help me haul the inbound delivery - probably 12K+ in booze. Here's the caveat. The boss is paying the temp more than me (15/hr). I feel insulted; its about 2 dollars more an hour than me. Hiring a temp creates more work for me actually as I have to babysit and instruct for half of my day so I feel slightly degraded in that I have all of the knowledge an and yet getting paid less than some person just snatched up off the street. So am I right to be mad, Reddit?

my boss hired a temp to help me with inbound delivery and is paying it more than me. I feel insulted. Am I right?

Boss hired a temp to help me out this week. Bosses paying the temp more than me. Am I right to be mad?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So Reddit, one of my co-workers went on vacay this week. We run a small retail shop and it's delivery week. My boss, in full infinite wisdom, decided to hire a temp for a day to help me haul the inbound delivery - probably 12K+ in booze. Here's the caveat. The boss is paying the temp more than me (15/hr). I feel insulted; its about 2 dollars more an hour than me. Hiring a temp creates more work for me actually as I have to babysit and instruct for half of my day so I feel slightly degraded in that I have all of the knowledge an and yet getting paid less than some person just snatched up off the street. So am I right to be mad, Reddit? TL;DR:

my boss hired a temp to help me with inbound delivery and is paying it more than me. I feel insulted. Am I right?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So Reddit, one of my co-workers went on vacay this week. We run a small retail shop and it's delivery week. My boss, in full infinite wisdom, decided to hire a temp for a day to help me haul the inbound delivery - probably 12K+ in booze. Here's the caveat. The boss is paying the temp more than me (15/hr). I feel insulted; its about 2 dollars more an hour than me. Hiring a temp creates more work for me actually as I have to babysit and instruct for half of my day so I feel slightly degraded in that I have all of the knowledge an and yet getting paid less than some person just snatched up off the street. So am I right to be mad, Reddit? TL;DR: my boss hired a temp to help me with inbound delivery and is paying it more than me. I feel insulted. Am I right?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So Reddit, one of my co-workers went on vacay this week. We run a small retail shop and it's delivery week. My boss, in full infinite wisdom, decided to hire a temp for a day to help me haul the inbound delivery - probably 12K+ in booze. Here's the caveat. The boss is paying the temp more than me (15/hr). I feel insulted; its about 2 dollars more an hour than me. Hiring a temp creates more work for me actually as I have to babysit and instruct for half of my day so I feel slightly degraded in that I have all of the knowledge an and yet getting paid less than some person just snatched up off the street. So am I right to be mad, Reddit? TL;DR: Boss hired a temp to help me out this week. Bosses paying the temp more than me. Am I right to be mad?<|endoftext|>

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I've been married to my husband for 3 years, it's been wonderful, I couldn't ask for a better man to spend my life with. He has always gotten along very well with my friends, one friend in particular, Adam. Adam and I have been close friends for about 7 years, but we grew up in the same small town, and went to the same high school. We never had a sexual relationship, but we were very close, the best of friends. After high school we ended up moving to opposite ends of the country, but still kept in touch and occasionally visited. This past Christmas, my husband had to work. I decided to go visit my parents back in my hometown. Adam was also home visiting family, so we went out to the bar. We had a bit too much to drink and Adam tried to kiss me. I turned him away, and he didn't persist, and I didn't really think anything of it. When I returned home, I felt guilty about what had happened and I told my husband. He was pretty angry, but figured there was nothing really to worry about. Three days later, Adam was killed in a car accident. I've never been more upset in my life, I could barely handle all of the emotion I was feeling. My husband was initially very supportive, and I was so grateful. As soon as I came back from Adam's funeral, my husband began acting strangely whenever I mentioned Adam. At first he'd just ignore me when I began to sob or when I wanted to talk. Then he became angry and would scream at me, and accuse me of having an affair with Adam. That's pretty much how it has been since December. I don't really have anyone here where I live to talk to about my loss, and it's been bothering me. I really need my husband to understand that there was no sexual relationship between Adam and I. One drunken mistake shouldn't erase all of the years of friendship. Every time I try to bring up this issue with my husband, he gets very angry. Am I being unreasonable in trying to talk to him about my feelings on this subject?

My husband is angry at me because I grieve over deceased friend. I'm not sure how to talk to him about this without him getting mad.

My husband and I have been close friends for 7 years. After his death, my husband has been very angry and distant, and I need advice on how to talk to him about the subject.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my husband for 3 years, it's been wonderful, I couldn't ask for a better man to spend my life with. He has always gotten along very well with my friends, one friend in particular, Adam. Adam and I have been close friends for about 7 years, but we grew up in the same small town, and went to the same high school. We never had a sexual relationship, but we were very close, the best of friends. After high school we ended up moving to opposite ends of the country, but still kept in touch and occasionally visited. This past Christmas, my husband had to work. I decided to go visit my parents back in my hometown. Adam was also home visiting family, so we went out to the bar. We had a bit too much to drink and Adam tried to kiss me. I turned him away, and he didn't persist, and I didn't really think anything of it. When I returned home, I felt guilty about what had happened and I told my husband. He was pretty angry, but figured there was nothing really to worry about. Three days later, Adam was killed in a car accident. I've never been more upset in my life, I could barely handle all of the emotion I was feeling. My husband was initially very supportive, and I was so grateful. As soon as I came back from Adam's funeral, my husband began acting strangely whenever I mentioned Adam. At first he'd just ignore me when I began to sob or when I wanted to talk. Then he became angry and would scream at me, and accuse me of having an affair with Adam. That's pretty much how it has been since December. I don't really have anyone here where I live to talk to about my loss, and it's been bothering me. I really need my husband to understand that there was no sexual relationship between Adam and I. One drunken mistake shouldn't erase all of the years of friendship. Every time I try to bring up this issue with my husband, he gets very angry. Am I being unreasonable in trying to talk to him about my feelings on this subject? TL;DR:

My husband is angry at me because I grieve over deceased friend. I'm not sure how to talk to him about this without him getting mad.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my husband for 3 years, it's been wonderful, I couldn't ask for a better man to spend my life with. He has always gotten along very well with my friends, one friend in particular, Adam. Adam and I have been close friends for about 7 years, but we grew up in the same small town, and went to the same high school. We never had a sexual relationship, but we were very close, the best of friends. After high school we ended up moving to opposite ends of the country, but still kept in touch and occasionally visited. This past Christmas, my husband had to work. I decided to go visit my parents back in my hometown. Adam was also home visiting family, so we went out to the bar. We had a bit too much to drink and Adam tried to kiss me. I turned him away, and he didn't persist, and I didn't really think anything of it. When I returned home, I felt guilty about what had happened and I told my husband. He was pretty angry, but figured there was nothing really to worry about. Three days later, Adam was killed in a car accident. I've never been more upset in my life, I could barely handle all of the emotion I was feeling. My husband was initially very supportive, and I was so grateful. As soon as I came back from Adam's funeral, my husband began acting strangely whenever I mentioned Adam. At first he'd just ignore me when I began to sob or when I wanted to talk. Then he became angry and would scream at me, and accuse me of having an affair with Adam. That's pretty much how it has been since December. I don't really have anyone here where I live to talk to about my loss, and it's been bothering me. I really need my husband to understand that there was no sexual relationship between Adam and I. One drunken mistake shouldn't erase all of the years of friendship. Every time I try to bring up this issue with my husband, he gets very angry. Am I being unreasonable in trying to talk to him about my feelings on this subject? TL;DR: My husband is angry at me because I grieve over deceased friend. I'm not sure how to talk to him about this without him getting mad.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my husband for 3 years, it's been wonderful, I couldn't ask for a better man to spend my life with. He has always gotten along very well with my friends, one friend in particular, Adam. Adam and I have been close friends for about 7 years, but we grew up in the same small town, and went to the same high school. We never had a sexual relationship, but we were very close, the best of friends. After high school we ended up moving to opposite ends of the country, but still kept in touch and occasionally visited. This past Christmas, my husband had to work. I decided to go visit my parents back in my hometown. Adam was also home visiting family, so we went out to the bar. We had a bit too much to drink and Adam tried to kiss me. I turned him away, and he didn't persist, and I didn't really think anything of it. When I returned home, I felt guilty about what had happened and I told my husband. He was pretty angry, but figured there was nothing really to worry about. Three days later, Adam was killed in a car accident. I've never been more upset in my life, I could barely handle all of the emotion I was feeling. My husband was initially very supportive, and I was so grateful. As soon as I came back from Adam's funeral, my husband began acting strangely whenever I mentioned Adam. At first he'd just ignore me when I began to sob or when I wanted to talk. Then he became angry and would scream at me, and accuse me of having an affair with Adam. That's pretty much how it has been since December. I don't really have anyone here where I live to talk to about my loss, and it's been bothering me. I really need my husband to understand that there was no sexual relationship between Adam and I. One drunken mistake shouldn't erase all of the years of friendship. Every time I try to bring up this issue with my husband, he gets very angry. Am I being unreasonable in trying to talk to him about my feelings on this subject? TL;DR: My husband and I have been close friends for 7 years. After his death, my husband has been very angry and distant, and I need advice on how to talk to him about the subject.<|endoftext|>

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The players involved are my ex-boyfriend (37/m), my current boyfriend (35/m) and I (27/f). I dated my ex-boyfriend for 5 months. I was the dumper. I am with my current boyfriend for almost 7 months. I am very happy and in love. So my question is how bad is it to ask how an ex is doing? I am curious because he's not really good at being happy. He has a bit of a drinking problem and history of depression where he has been on prescription drugs. We don't have a strict no contact policy in place, but we haven't spoken to one another since my birthday back in late September. I didn't bother wishing him a happy xmas or new year's even though I wanted to because I didn't want to send mixed messages. I also love my boyfriend and I don't want to jeopardize the relationship in any way. There's a part of me that feels guilty for leaving the ex and being very happy in my current life. I feel like my guilt would totally disappear if I found out the ex was happy or dating, etc. But there's no way for me to know without contact. Do you think this is just something I am going to have to accept not doing and eventually whatever curiosity I have will disappear? Also any words of advice or criticism you wish to give I welcome.

Curious about my ex's well-being, but worried that my contacting him won't help him or my relationship. Should I just leave it alone?

I am in love with my boyfriends and ex. I have no contact with either one. How bad is it to ask how they are doing?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The players involved are my ex-boyfriend (37/m), my current boyfriend (35/m) and I (27/f). I dated my ex-boyfriend for 5 months. I was the dumper. I am with my current boyfriend for almost 7 months. I am very happy and in love. So my question is how bad is it to ask how an ex is doing? I am curious because he's not really good at being happy. He has a bit of a drinking problem and history of depression where he has been on prescription drugs. We don't have a strict no contact policy in place, but we haven't spoken to one another since my birthday back in late September. I didn't bother wishing him a happy xmas or new year's even though I wanted to because I didn't want to send mixed messages. I also love my boyfriend and I don't want to jeopardize the relationship in any way. There's a part of me that feels guilty for leaving the ex and being very happy in my current life. I feel like my guilt would totally disappear if I found out the ex was happy or dating, etc. But there's no way for me to know without contact. Do you think this is just something I am going to have to accept not doing and eventually whatever curiosity I have will disappear? Also any words of advice or criticism you wish to give I welcome. TL;DR:

Curious about my ex's well-being, but worried that my contacting him won't help him or my relationship. Should I just leave it alone?<|endoftext|>

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I am in love with my boyfriends and ex. I have no contact with either one. How bad is it to ask how they are doing?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The players involved are my ex-boyfriend (37/m), my current boyfriend (35/m) and I (27/f). I dated my ex-boyfriend for 5 months. I was the dumper. I am with my current boyfriend for almost 7 months. I am very happy and in love. So my question is how bad is it to ask how an ex is doing? I am curious because he's not really good at being happy. He has a bit of a drinking problem and history of depression where he has been on prescription drugs. We don't have a strict no contact policy in place, but we haven't spoken to one another since my birthday back in late September. I didn't bother wishing him a happy xmas or new year's even though I wanted to because I didn't want to send mixed messages. I also love my boyfriend and I don't want to jeopardize the relationship in any way. There's a part of me that feels guilty for leaving the ex and being very happy in my current life. I feel like my guilt would totally disappear if I found out the ex was happy or dating, etc. But there's no way for me to know without contact. Do you think this is just something I am going to have to accept not doing and eventually whatever curiosity I have will disappear? Also any words of advice or criticism you wish to give I welcome. TL;DR: Curious about my ex's well-being, but worried that my contacting him won't help him or my relationship. Should I just leave it alone?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The players involved are my ex-boyfriend (37/m), my current boyfriend (35/m) and I (27/f). I dated my ex-boyfriend for 5 months. I was the dumper. I am with my current boyfriend for almost 7 months. I am very happy and in love. So my question is how bad is it to ask how an ex is doing? I am curious because he's not really good at being happy. He has a bit of a drinking problem and history of depression where he has been on prescription drugs. We don't have a strict no contact policy in place, but we haven't spoken to one another since my birthday back in late September. I didn't bother wishing him a happy xmas or new year's even though I wanted to because I didn't want to send mixed messages. I also love my boyfriend and I don't want to jeopardize the relationship in any way. There's a part of me that feels guilty for leaving the ex and being very happy in my current life. I feel like my guilt would totally disappear if I found out the ex was happy or dating, etc. But there's no way for me to know without contact. Do you think this is just something I am going to have to accept not doing and eventually whatever curiosity I have will disappear? Also any words of advice or criticism you wish to give I welcome. TL;DR: I am in love with my boyfriends and ex. I have no contact with either one. How bad is it to ask how they are doing?<|endoftext|>

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I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help. There is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the "perfect girl" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. We go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia. A previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake. The obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed. The more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now...

Too afraid and immature and to ask roommate out, unable to deal with feelings, leading to depression and helplessness.

I love my roommate who may feel the same but she's not exactly the easiest girl to ask for help, and to move out would be a huge change. I am stuck in this situation for a very long time.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help. There is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the "perfect girl" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. We go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia. A previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake. The obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed. The more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now... TL;DR:

Too afraid and immature and to ask roommate out, unable to deal with feelings, leading to depression and helplessness.<|endoftext|>

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I love my roommate who may feel the same but she's not exactly the easiest girl to ask for help, and to move out would be a huge change. I am stuck in this situation for a very long time.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help. There is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the "perfect girl" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. We go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia. A previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake. The obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed. The more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now... TL;DR: Too afraid and immature and to ask roommate out, unable to deal with feelings, leading to depression and helplessness.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know the best place to post this, but I have felt this way for around 6 months and it has been taking it's toll for a while. I stared at this post for an hour not knowing what to say without it sounding petty and pointless. (upon re-reading I know it is full of holes, I'm sorry) All I know is I want help. There is plenty of evidence that she may feel the same about me but the living situation really doesn't cater to my (possibly our) wants. She is incredibly mature but I will save all of the "perfect girl" stories because who cares really. Every day I feel too down to go outside or talk to people, making my friends seem more distant and making me feel even more lonely. We go back home to our families occasionally and when she is here everything is fine, but the moment I am by myself the severe sadness comes back and I feel physically and mentally unable to do anything, resulting in excessive crying and insomnia. A previous breakup has caused me to fear rejection like a monster, and no matter how many times I tell myself how easy it is to just ask her, I panic to a point where i physically shake. The obvious and easy option is seek help or just move out, but we're such good friends that neither of us would want that. As for seeking help, I have scheduled appointments but I either don't show up or just call up and cancel it when I am slightly composed. The more i write the stupider I sound because being only 18 I understand that there's no reason for it to be this serious, if you can even consider it that. In my head I know it isn't hard but I just struggle to cope with the simplest of things now... TL;DR: I love my roommate who may feel the same but she's not exactly the easiest girl to ask for help, and to move out would be a huge change. I am stuck in this situation for a very long time.<|endoftext|>

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I'll go first. I was in the 5th grade, and a girl asked me out over Yahoo! Messanger. She said that lots of guys were after her and that I have to hurry with my decision; I said yes. The relationship went well for the first few days until she got a little too comfortable. She kept slapping me in the face because that was her idea of playing/flirting. I told her to stop but as a kid, she didn't. I got tired of it and broke up with her. Ironically, she slapped me and stormed away. She started telling everyone that she broke up with me because I was ugly and kept slapping her...wow. All the girls at recess kept chasing me everyday and beating the living fuck out of me. Later on, she tried to make me jealous by going out with my best friend and hugging him when I came around. She even wrote poems about me and read them to the class; "AculticFly is so ugly, he looks like the grinch. Blah, blah, blah." I didn't show any interest, so she cut my with a rusty bobby-pin then forced a hug on me, on the last day of school.

Girlfriend/boyfriend keeps slapping me and telling everyone different story; later tries to make me jealous by hugging my best friend; now everyone laughs at me.

Broke up with crazy girlfriend. She told everyone she broke up with me, and went psycho-bitch on me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll go first. I was in the 5th grade, and a girl asked me out over Yahoo! Messanger. She said that lots of guys were after her and that I have to hurry with my decision; I said yes. The relationship went well for the first few days until she got a little too comfortable. She kept slapping me in the face because that was her idea of playing/flirting. I told her to stop but as a kid, she didn't. I got tired of it and broke up with her. Ironically, she slapped me and stormed away. She started telling everyone that she broke up with me because I was ugly and kept slapping her...wow. All the girls at recess kept chasing me everyday and beating the living fuck out of me. Later on, she tried to make me jealous by going out with my best friend and hugging him when I came around. She even wrote poems about me and read them to the class; "AculticFly is so ugly, he looks like the grinch. Blah, blah, blah." I didn't show any interest, so she cut my with a rusty bobby-pin then forced a hug on me, on the last day of school. TL;DR:

Girlfriend/boyfriend keeps slapping me and telling everyone different story; later tries to make me jealous by hugging my best friend; now everyone laughs at me.<|endoftext|>

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Broke up with crazy girlfriend. She told everyone she broke up with me, and went psycho-bitch on me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll go first. I was in the 5th grade, and a girl asked me out over Yahoo! Messanger. She said that lots of guys were after her and that I have to hurry with my decision; I said yes. The relationship went well for the first few days until she got a little too comfortable. She kept slapping me in the face because that was her idea of playing/flirting. I told her to stop but as a kid, she didn't. I got tired of it and broke up with her. Ironically, she slapped me and stormed away. She started telling everyone that she broke up with me because I was ugly and kept slapping her...wow. All the girls at recess kept chasing me everyday and beating the living fuck out of me. Later on, she tried to make me jealous by going out with my best friend and hugging him when I came around. She even wrote poems about me and read them to the class; "AculticFly is so ugly, he looks like the grinch. Blah, blah, blah." I didn't show any interest, so she cut my with a rusty bobby-pin then forced a hug on me, on the last day of school. TL;DR: Girlfriend/boyfriend keeps slapping me and telling everyone different story; later tries to make me jealous by hugging my best friend; now everyone laughs at me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll go first. I was in the 5th grade, and a girl asked me out over Yahoo! Messanger. She said that lots of guys were after her and that I have to hurry with my decision; I said yes. The relationship went well for the first few days until she got a little too comfortable. She kept slapping me in the face because that was her idea of playing/flirting. I told her to stop but as a kid, she didn't. I got tired of it and broke up with her. Ironically, she slapped me and stormed away. She started telling everyone that she broke up with me because I was ugly and kept slapping her...wow. All the girls at recess kept chasing me everyday and beating the living fuck out of me. Later on, she tried to make me jealous by going out with my best friend and hugging him when I came around. She even wrote poems about me and read them to the class; "AculticFly is so ugly, he looks like the grinch. Blah, blah, blah." I didn't show any interest, so she cut my with a rusty bobby-pin then forced a hug on me, on the last day of school. TL;DR: Broke up with crazy girlfriend. She told everyone she broke up with me, and went psycho-bitch on me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm an 18 year old girl. I was raped (I go to counseling for it). Recently I told my best friend, also an 18 year old girl, about the rape. We've been best friends for five years. We'll call her Amanda. I love Amanda. I've spent a ton of time with her family. Her parents buy me Christmas presents, her dogs love me, my parents consider her a second daughter. I would have trusted her with my life. I tell her everything. We are each other's rock, and even though I was in a relationship for a year and a half, I still loved her most of all. She has been incredibly supportive as I dealt with the whole rape thing, and it would have been so much worse without her. But Amanda told our other friend, who we'll call Kathy, that I was raped. And Kathy is someone that we both don't quite trust, who's been flaky in the past, who isn't the best with secrets. She could REALLY fuck things up for me if she talked about it. So she's about the last person I would have chosen to tell about my rape. Yet Amanda told Kathy. When I asked her about it, she said that she feels guilty sometimes that she doesn't trust Kathy more, so she told Kathy in an effort to prove how much she trusted Kathy. When Kathy told me that she knew, I had a sobbing panic attack. I told Amanda I knew what she did, and then I stopped talking to her. I wasn't trying to punish her, but I just could not handle speaking with her. It's been three whole weeks and I still feel strange around Amanda. I'm like a robot around her. Little things she does annoy me. I can't feel natural or relaxed when I'm with her. I keep wanting to cry. It's fucking weird between us now. It feels broken and I know she feels it too. How do I forgive her? I miss her so much, and I miss the way things used to be so much. How do I trust her again and how do I move past this? I don't want to be an angry person who's holding a grudge.

My friend told our other friend about my rape. I'm scared shitless that it's going to fuck things up for me. How do I forgive her?

I was raped and told my friend about it. Now I can't seem to trust her, and I don't know how to forgive her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm an 18 year old girl. I was raped (I go to counseling for it). Recently I told my best friend, also an 18 year old girl, about the rape. We've been best friends for five years. We'll call her Amanda. I love Amanda. I've spent a ton of time with her family. Her parents buy me Christmas presents, her dogs love me, my parents consider her a second daughter. I would have trusted her with my life. I tell her everything. We are each other's rock, and even though I was in a relationship for a year and a half, I still loved her most of all. She has been incredibly supportive as I dealt with the whole rape thing, and it would have been so much worse without her. But Amanda told our other friend, who we'll call Kathy, that I was raped. And Kathy is someone that we both don't quite trust, who's been flaky in the past, who isn't the best with secrets. She could REALLY fuck things up for me if she talked about it. So she's about the last person I would have chosen to tell about my rape. Yet Amanda told Kathy. When I asked her about it, she said that she feels guilty sometimes that she doesn't trust Kathy more, so she told Kathy in an effort to prove how much she trusted Kathy. When Kathy told me that she knew, I had a sobbing panic attack. I told Amanda I knew what she did, and then I stopped talking to her. I wasn't trying to punish her, but I just could not handle speaking with her. It's been three whole weeks and I still feel strange around Amanda. I'm like a robot around her. Little things she does annoy me. I can't feel natural or relaxed when I'm with her. I keep wanting to cry. It's fucking weird between us now. It feels broken and I know she feels it too. How do I forgive her? I miss her so much, and I miss the way things used to be so much. How do I trust her again and how do I move past this? I don't want to be an angry person who's holding a grudge. TL;DR:

My friend told our other friend about my rape. I'm scared shitless that it's going to fuck things up for me. How do I forgive her?<|endoftext|>

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I was raped and told my friend about it. Now I can't seem to trust her, and I don't know how to forgive her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm an 18 year old girl. I was raped (I go to counseling for it). Recently I told my best friend, also an 18 year old girl, about the rape. We've been best friends for five years. We'll call her Amanda. I love Amanda. I've spent a ton of time with her family. Her parents buy me Christmas presents, her dogs love me, my parents consider her a second daughter. I would have trusted her with my life. I tell her everything. We are each other's rock, and even though I was in a relationship for a year and a half, I still loved her most of all. She has been incredibly supportive as I dealt with the whole rape thing, and it would have been so much worse without her. But Amanda told our other friend, who we'll call Kathy, that I was raped. And Kathy is someone that we both don't quite trust, who's been flaky in the past, who isn't the best with secrets. She could REALLY fuck things up for me if she talked about it. So she's about the last person I would have chosen to tell about my rape. Yet Amanda told Kathy. When I asked her about it, she said that she feels guilty sometimes that she doesn't trust Kathy more, so she told Kathy in an effort to prove how much she trusted Kathy. When Kathy told me that she knew, I had a sobbing panic attack. I told Amanda I knew what she did, and then I stopped talking to her. I wasn't trying to punish her, but I just could not handle speaking with her. It's been three whole weeks and I still feel strange around Amanda. I'm like a robot around her. Little things she does annoy me. I can't feel natural or relaxed when I'm with her. I keep wanting to cry. It's fucking weird between us now. It feels broken and I know she feels it too. How do I forgive her? I miss her so much, and I miss the way things used to be so much. How do I trust her again and how do I move past this? I don't want to be an angry person who's holding a grudge. TL;DR: My friend told our other friend about my rape. I'm scared shitless that it's going to fuck things up for me. How do I forgive her?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm an 18 year old girl. I was raped (I go to counseling for it). Recently I told my best friend, also an 18 year old girl, about the rape. We've been best friends for five years. We'll call her Amanda. I love Amanda. I've spent a ton of time with her family. Her parents buy me Christmas presents, her dogs love me, my parents consider her a second daughter. I would have trusted her with my life. I tell her everything. We are each other's rock, and even though I was in a relationship for a year and a half, I still loved her most of all. She has been incredibly supportive as I dealt with the whole rape thing, and it would have been so much worse without her. But Amanda told our other friend, who we'll call Kathy, that I was raped. And Kathy is someone that we both don't quite trust, who's been flaky in the past, who isn't the best with secrets. She could REALLY fuck things up for me if she talked about it. So she's about the last person I would have chosen to tell about my rape. Yet Amanda told Kathy. When I asked her about it, she said that she feels guilty sometimes that she doesn't trust Kathy more, so she told Kathy in an effort to prove how much she trusted Kathy. When Kathy told me that she knew, I had a sobbing panic attack. I told Amanda I knew what she did, and then I stopped talking to her. I wasn't trying to punish her, but I just could not handle speaking with her. It's been three whole weeks and I still feel strange around Amanda. I'm like a robot around her. Little things she does annoy me. I can't feel natural or relaxed when I'm with her. I keep wanting to cry. It's fucking weird between us now. It feels broken and I know she feels it too. How do I forgive her? I miss her so much, and I miss the way things used to be so much. How do I trust her again and how do I move past this? I don't want to be an angry person who's holding a grudge. TL;DR: I was raped and told my friend about it. Now I can't seem to trust her, and I don't know how to forgive her.<|endoftext|>

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Well as you know, I've broke up about 2 months ago and thought i was coping along nicely until i've started to talk with my ex again (long story short: the reason is I still love her and we broke up because i was too scared to face my own problems which relied on her too much up to the point where she actually gave up.). After chatting (she's coming back for summer holidays) over few days it started off as a simple "how you've been and exams" etc. then later she starts giving me these tiny flairs of hope towards me. As for me I was soo glad to see that she still cares about me. (during the 2 months i've learned a lot, what I was doing wrong and should man up a lot. I just have huge self confidence issues, always deny myself of what i'm capable of and doubted myself far too many times). The next day she seemed bit annoyed ( probably to travelling ) like that attitude "yeah, whatever". (and its bit hard to read emotions through chat :/) which was really odd. The latest thing was it snowed yesterday and was saying to her make sure you wear warm clothes getting out of the plane etc. and told her that i had to wear back to my winter clothes. She goes "well i'll just enjoy my stay here while u go do that" after these words i'm just lost. Clearly I don't know what to expect even what to do. So i just replied "hehe yep, Ok gotta go to work bye". Man I care for this girl soo much, it's just my stupid word choice and saying things without even considering the situations has dug me a big hole. Do you guys think we have a chance? What i'm asking is should I just keep on fighting to win her over until she finds another SO? or should I just abandon ship? thank you to whoever reads this post and hope you have an amazing day/night. Any advice is much appreciated :)

started chatting with Ex, who I still love (broke up because of me), gave me flairs of hope then suddenly changes. Should I try to keep my relationship? or just let her go?

I still love my ex and she seems to have a lot of hope that i can change. Should I just fight for her or just let her go?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Well as you know, I've broke up about 2 months ago and thought i was coping along nicely until i've started to talk with my ex again (long story short: the reason is I still love her and we broke up because i was too scared to face my own problems which relied on her too much up to the point where she actually gave up.). After chatting (she's coming back for summer holidays) over few days it started off as a simple "how you've been and exams" etc. then later she starts giving me these tiny flairs of hope towards me. As for me I was soo glad to see that she still cares about me. (during the 2 months i've learned a lot, what I was doing wrong and should man up a lot. I just have huge self confidence issues, always deny myself of what i'm capable of and doubted myself far too many times). The next day she seemed bit annoyed ( probably to travelling ) like that attitude "yeah, whatever". (and its bit hard to read emotions through chat :/) which was really odd. The latest thing was it snowed yesterday and was saying to her make sure you wear warm clothes getting out of the plane etc. and told her that i had to wear back to my winter clothes. She goes "well i'll just enjoy my stay here while u go do that" after these words i'm just lost. Clearly I don't know what to expect even what to do. So i just replied "hehe yep, Ok gotta go to work bye". Man I care for this girl soo much, it's just my stupid word choice and saying things without even considering the situations has dug me a big hole. Do you guys think we have a chance? What i'm asking is should I just keep on fighting to win her over until she finds another SO? or should I just abandon ship? thank you to whoever reads this post and hope you have an amazing day/night. Any advice is much appreciated :) TL;DR:

started chatting with Ex, who I still love (broke up because of me), gave me flairs of hope then suddenly changes. Should I try to keep my relationship? or just let her go?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Well as you know, I've broke up about 2 months ago and thought i was coping along nicely until i've started to talk with my ex again (long story short: the reason is I still love her and we broke up because i was too scared to face my own problems which relied on her too much up to the point where she actually gave up.). After chatting (she's coming back for summer holidays) over few days it started off as a simple "how you've been and exams" etc. then later she starts giving me these tiny flairs of hope towards me. As for me I was soo glad to see that she still cares about me. (during the 2 months i've learned a lot, what I was doing wrong and should man up a lot. I just have huge self confidence issues, always deny myself of what i'm capable of and doubted myself far too many times). The next day she seemed bit annoyed ( probably to travelling ) like that attitude "yeah, whatever". (and its bit hard to read emotions through chat :/) which was really odd. The latest thing was it snowed yesterday and was saying to her make sure you wear warm clothes getting out of the plane etc. and told her that i had to wear back to my winter clothes. She goes "well i'll just enjoy my stay here while u go do that" after these words i'm just lost. Clearly I don't know what to expect even what to do. So i just replied "hehe yep, Ok gotta go to work bye". Man I care for this girl soo much, it's just my stupid word choice and saying things without even considering the situations has dug me a big hole. Do you guys think we have a chance? What i'm asking is should I just keep on fighting to win her over until she finds another SO? or should I just abandon ship? thank you to whoever reads this post and hope you have an amazing day/night. Any advice is much appreciated :) TL;DR: started chatting with Ex, who I still love (broke up because of me), gave me flairs of hope then suddenly changes. Should I try to keep my relationship? or just let her go?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Well as you know, I've broke up about 2 months ago and thought i was coping along nicely until i've started to talk with my ex again (long story short: the reason is I still love her and we broke up because i was too scared to face my own problems which relied on her too much up to the point where she actually gave up.). After chatting (she's coming back for summer holidays) over few days it started off as a simple "how you've been and exams" etc. then later she starts giving me these tiny flairs of hope towards me. As for me I was soo glad to see that she still cares about me. (during the 2 months i've learned a lot, what I was doing wrong and should man up a lot. I just have huge self confidence issues, always deny myself of what i'm capable of and doubted myself far too many times). The next day she seemed bit annoyed ( probably to travelling ) like that attitude "yeah, whatever". (and its bit hard to read emotions through chat :/) which was really odd. The latest thing was it snowed yesterday and was saying to her make sure you wear warm clothes getting out of the plane etc. and told her that i had to wear back to my winter clothes. She goes "well i'll just enjoy my stay here while u go do that" after these words i'm just lost. Clearly I don't know what to expect even what to do. So i just replied "hehe yep, Ok gotta go to work bye". Man I care for this girl soo much, it's just my stupid word choice and saying things without even considering the situations has dug me a big hole. Do you guys think we have a chance? What i'm asking is should I just keep on fighting to win her over until she finds another SO? or should I just abandon ship? thank you to whoever reads this post and hope you have an amazing day/night. Any advice is much appreciated :) TL;DR: I still love my ex and she seems to have a lot of hope that i can change. Should I just fight for her or just let her go?<|endoftext|>

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Hey Reddit, I currently attend uni, and every once in awhile i see this girl around campus and we always make eye contact and it seems like there is something there. The problem: One day i found her twitter on accident (shes friends with a friend of mine from secondary), and while i was browsing it, the unspeakable happened and i accidentally favorited a tweet (i dont follow her). I immediately unfavorited it, and later i tested to see if she got a notification, and it didnt send one. I may be in the clear with the twitter fuck-up, but theres still a chance that she got the notification. Everytime i see her i want to talk to her and introduce myself, but i feel like she knows about my stalking fiasco.

see this girl sometime, but accidently favorited a tweet (dont follow her), but probably in the clear

Should i go for this girl that i think i saw once before?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Reddit, I currently attend uni, and every once in awhile i see this girl around campus and we always make eye contact and it seems like there is something there. The problem: One day i found her twitter on accident (shes friends with a friend of mine from secondary), and while i was browsing it, the unspeakable happened and i accidentally favorited a tweet (i dont follow her). I immediately unfavorited it, and later i tested to see if she got a notification, and it didnt send one. I may be in the clear with the twitter fuck-up, but theres still a chance that she got the notification. Everytime i see her i want to talk to her and introduce myself, but i feel like she knows about my stalking fiasco. TL;DR:

see this girl sometime, but accidently favorited a tweet (dont follow her), but probably in the clear<|endoftext|>

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Should i go for this girl that i think i saw once before?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Reddit, I currently attend uni, and every once in awhile i see this girl around campus and we always make eye contact and it seems like there is something there. The problem: One day i found her twitter on accident (shes friends with a friend of mine from secondary), and while i was browsing it, the unspeakable happened and i accidentally favorited a tweet (i dont follow her). I immediately unfavorited it, and later i tested to see if she got a notification, and it didnt send one. I may be in the clear with the twitter fuck-up, but theres still a chance that she got the notification. Everytime i see her i want to talk to her and introduce myself, but i feel like she knows about my stalking fiasco. TL;DR: see this girl sometime, but accidently favorited a tweet (dont follow her), but probably in the clear<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Reddit, I currently attend uni, and every once in awhile i see this girl around campus and we always make eye contact and it seems like there is something there. The problem: One day i found her twitter on accident (shes friends with a friend of mine from secondary), and while i was browsing it, the unspeakable happened and i accidentally favorited a tweet (i dont follow her). I immediately unfavorited it, and later i tested to see if she got a notification, and it didnt send one. I may be in the clear with the twitter fuck-up, but theres still a chance that she got the notification. Everytime i see her i want to talk to her and introduce myself, but i feel like she knows about my stalking fiasco. TL;DR: Should i go for this girl that i think i saw once before?<|endoftext|>

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hi guys. every so often my roommate goes into my room without me knowing and takes something but he tells me after the fact. I don't really mind him taking things but it's the fact that he goes into my room without asking me and takes stuff. It's a combination of feeling like my personal space is being invaded and less my stuff being taken away. It always leaves me feeling off whenever he does it. I leave my room unlocked as a gesture of feeling secure with them but maybe I should lock my door from now on? I mean I feel like this shouldn't even really be a problem but maybe it's a difference in culture where he is coming from and where I come from? Am I right to feel off about it? Should I just lock my door from now on? Should I just tell him he should ask from now on? Can I just text him this cause talking to him about it would be weird now since it's happened many times already. I'm only here for a couple more months so I'm thinking I should just lock my door and he should get the hint.

roommate takes things without asking me and I feel uncomfortable about it. Should I just lock my door or should I try to talk to him about it?

Roommate steals things and goes into my room without asking me first and I feel like it shouldn't be happening. Am I right to feel like this? Should I just lock my damn door? Should I just tell him he doesn't have to ask me first anymore? Can I just text him this cause talking to him about it would be weird now since it's happened many times already? I'm only here for a couple more months so I'm thinking I should just lock my door and he should get the hint.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hi guys. every so often my roommate goes into my room without me knowing and takes something but he tells me after the fact. I don't really mind him taking things but it's the fact that he goes into my room without asking me and takes stuff. It's a combination of feeling like my personal space is being invaded and less my stuff being taken away. It always leaves me feeling off whenever he does it. I leave my room unlocked as a gesture of feeling secure with them but maybe I should lock my door from now on? I mean I feel like this shouldn't even really be a problem but maybe it's a difference in culture where he is coming from and where I come from? Am I right to feel off about it? Should I just lock my door from now on? Should I just tell him he should ask from now on? Can I just text him this cause talking to him about it would be weird now since it's happened many times already. I'm only here for a couple more months so I'm thinking I should just lock my door and he should get the hint. TL;DR:

roommate takes things without asking me and I feel uncomfortable about it. Should I just lock my door or should I try to talk to him about it?<|endoftext|>

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Roommate steals things and goes into my room without asking me first and I feel like it shouldn't be happening. Am I right to feel like this? Should I just lock my damn door? Should I just tell him he doesn't have to ask me first anymore? Can I just text him this cause talking to him about it would be weird now since it's happened many times already? I'm only here for a couple more months so I'm thinking I should just lock my door and he should get the hint.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hi guys. every so often my roommate goes into my room without me knowing and takes something but he tells me after the fact. I don't really mind him taking things but it's the fact that he goes into my room without asking me and takes stuff. It's a combination of feeling like my personal space is being invaded and less my stuff being taken away. It always leaves me feeling off whenever he does it. I leave my room unlocked as a gesture of feeling secure with them but maybe I should lock my door from now on? I mean I feel like this shouldn't even really be a problem but maybe it's a difference in culture where he is coming from and where I come from? Am I right to feel off about it? Should I just lock my door from now on? Should I just tell him he should ask from now on? Can I just text him this cause talking to him about it would be weird now since it's happened many times already. I'm only here for a couple more months so I'm thinking I should just lock my door and he should get the hint. TL;DR: roommate takes things without asking me and I feel uncomfortable about it. Should I just lock my door or should I try to talk to him about it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hi guys. every so often my roommate goes into my room without me knowing and takes something but he tells me after the fact. I don't really mind him taking things but it's the fact that he goes into my room without asking me and takes stuff. It's a combination of feeling like my personal space is being invaded and less my stuff being taken away. It always leaves me feeling off whenever he does it. I leave my room unlocked as a gesture of feeling secure with them but maybe I should lock my door from now on? I mean I feel like this shouldn't even really be a problem but maybe it's a difference in culture where he is coming from and where I come from? Am I right to feel off about it? Should I just lock my door from now on? Should I just tell him he should ask from now on? Can I just text him this cause talking to him about it would be weird now since it's happened many times already. I'm only here for a couple more months so I'm thinking I should just lock my door and he should get the hint. TL;DR: Roommate steals things and goes into my room without asking me first and I feel like it shouldn't be happening. Am I right to feel like this? Should I just lock my damn door? Should I just tell him he doesn't have to ask me first anymore? Can I just text him this cause talking to him about it would be weird now since it's happened many times already? I'm only here for a couple more months so I'm thinking I should just lock my door and he should get the hint.<|endoftext|>

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OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years. Now, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and "tease" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a "body image" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to "hide" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately). She claims that she doesn't go into private chats or "get off" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him. Reddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just "go with it" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps?

Fiancee likes to "tease" other guys on cam sites, increases her sex drive and claims there is no attachment but there is a precedent and I'm afraid something might happen again. Too risky?

girl wants to "tease" guys online, with only internet access. I'm a little leery. What should I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years. Now, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and "tease" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a "body image" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to "hide" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately). She claims that she doesn't go into private chats or "get off" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him. Reddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just "go with it" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps? TL;DR:

Fiancee likes to "tease" other guys on cam sites, increases her sex drive and claims there is no attachment but there is a precedent and I'm afraid something might happen again. Too risky?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years. Now, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and "tease" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a "body image" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to "hide" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately). She claims that she doesn't go into private chats or "get off" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him. Reddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just "go with it" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps? TL;DR: Fiancee likes to "tease" other guys on cam sites, increases her sex drive and claims there is no attachment but there is a precedent and I'm afraid something might happen again. Too risky?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years. Now, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and "tease" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a "body image" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to "hide" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately). She claims that she doesn't go into private chats or "get off" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him. Reddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just "go with it" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps? TL;DR: girl wants to "tease" guys online, with only internet access. I'm a little leery. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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In recent years I've been coming to the conclusion that the whole concept of money is ridiculous. The idea that whole countries could be in debt seems bizarre somehow. I have some understanding of quantitative easing, and why simply printing money can have many negative effects. But ultimately, we invented money and have the power to create more... how can we run out? New money has to be made anyway, if you imagine the amount that is destroyed; set on fire, put in the washer etc. Or maybe just in a forgotten bank account. It adds up, and it's taken out of circulation, and not spent in a shop who in turn pays staff and so on. Taking in to account the increasing population, that means there is even less to go around. I understand that making everyone a billionaire would just mean massive inflation, so a banana cost $100k. But that's part of what I find so frustrating about it... wouldn't we all just be better off if there was no such thing?

Money is an archaic concept that we have to create, and the way we create it is going to cause problems. Am I wrong?

money is stupid, we create loads of it but there isn't enough to go around and we can't just give everyone a bunch of it

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In recent years I've been coming to the conclusion that the whole concept of money is ridiculous. The idea that whole countries could be in debt seems bizarre somehow. I have some understanding of quantitative easing, and why simply printing money can have many negative effects. But ultimately, we invented money and have the power to create more... how can we run out? New money has to be made anyway, if you imagine the amount that is destroyed; set on fire, put in the washer etc. Or maybe just in a forgotten bank account. It adds up, and it's taken out of circulation, and not spent in a shop who in turn pays staff and so on. Taking in to account the increasing population, that means there is even less to go around. I understand that making everyone a billionaire would just mean massive inflation, so a banana cost $100k. But that's part of what I find so frustrating about it... wouldn't we all just be better off if there was no such thing? TL;DR:

Money is an archaic concept that we have to create, and the way we create it is going to cause problems. Am I wrong?<|endoftext|>

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money is stupid, we create loads of it but there isn't enough to go around and we can't just give everyone a bunch of it<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In recent years I've been coming to the conclusion that the whole concept of money is ridiculous. The idea that whole countries could be in debt seems bizarre somehow. I have some understanding of quantitative easing, and why simply printing money can have many negative effects. But ultimately, we invented money and have the power to create more... how can we run out? New money has to be made anyway, if you imagine the amount that is destroyed; set on fire, put in the washer etc. Or maybe just in a forgotten bank account. It adds up, and it's taken out of circulation, and not spent in a shop who in turn pays staff and so on. Taking in to account the increasing population, that means there is even less to go around. I understand that making everyone a billionaire would just mean massive inflation, so a banana cost $100k. But that's part of what I find so frustrating about it... wouldn't we all just be better off if there was no such thing? TL;DR: Money is an archaic concept that we have to create, and the way we create it is going to cause problems. Am I wrong?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In recent years I've been coming to the conclusion that the whole concept of money is ridiculous. The idea that whole countries could be in debt seems bizarre somehow. I have some understanding of quantitative easing, and why simply printing money can have many negative effects. But ultimately, we invented money and have the power to create more... how can we run out? New money has to be made anyway, if you imagine the amount that is destroyed; set on fire, put in the washer etc. Or maybe just in a forgotten bank account. It adds up, and it's taken out of circulation, and not spent in a shop who in turn pays staff and so on. Taking in to account the increasing population, that means there is even less to go around. I understand that making everyone a billionaire would just mean massive inflation, so a banana cost $100k. But that's part of what I find so frustrating about it... wouldn't we all just be better off if there was no such thing? TL;DR: money is stupid, we create loads of it but there isn't enough to go around and we can't just give everyone a bunch of it<|endoftext|>

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