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My british boyfriend is not affectionate enough during our weekends together, even though I love him and enjoy his company. Not sure how to approach the situation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I feel my british boyfriend [27 M] from 3 months is not enough affectionate with me [27 F]. I am from south america\n\nPOST: Hello, I am from south america living in England. Just a small comment regarding my relationship with a british guy. We live in different cities so we can only meet on weekends, but while I enjoy displaying affection toward him (hugs, kisses) he is usually more reserved, and also a bit quiet (unless he had a couple of pints...). I feel I really like him, but I frequently doubt he may feel the same way, especially if he struggles to express it. He does plan a lot about our weekends together, booking places and looking for walks, museums, etc! but when we are together I don't feel he is affectionate enough :( I am running a bit tired of it, especially since requires a lot of effort to move constantly to meet each other. You think it may be a cultural difference of some sort? Did anyone went through a similar situation?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My british boyfriend is not affectionate enough during our weekends together, even though I love him and enjoy his company. Not sure how to approach the situation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I feel my british boyfriend [27 M] from 3 months is not enough affectionate with me [27 F]. I am from south america\n\nPOST: Hello, I am from south america living in England. Just a small comment regarding my relationship with a british guy. We live in different cities so we can only meet on weekends, but while I enjoy displaying affection toward him (hugs, kisses) he is usually more reserved, and also a bit quiet (unless he had a couple of pints...). I feel I really like him, but I frequently doubt he may feel the same way, especially if he struggles to express it. He does plan a lot about our weekends together, booking places and looking for walks, museums, etc! but when we are together I don't feel he is affectionate enough :( I am running a bit tired of it, especially since requires a lot of effort to move constantly to meet each other. You think it may be a cultural difference of some sort? Did anyone went through a similar situation?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: british boyfriend is too reserved, doubting if he feels the same as me or it's just a cultural difference<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 months pregnant into a 6 month relationship with boyfriend; it has caused some problems and don't know how to get through this rough spot or if we can work it out. I need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 months pregnant into a 6 month relationship with boyfriend; it has caused some problems and don't know how to get through this rough spot or if we can work it out. I need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: found out i'm 2 months pregnant, he isn't happy about it, i want to keep the baby, not sure if i can do it on my own. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 months pregnant into a 6 month relationship with boyfriend; it has caused some problems and don't know how to get through this rough spot or if we can work it out. I need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 months pregnant into a 6 month relationship with boyfriend; it has caused some problems and don't know how to get through this rough spot or if we can work it out. I need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I just found out i am 2 months pregnant and my boyfriend isn't happy about it. we have a lot of problems now and i want to keep the baby. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 months pregnant into a 6 month relationship with boyfriend; it has caused some problems and don't know how to get through this rough spot or if we can work it out. I need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: found out i'm 2 months pregnant, he isn't happy about it, i want to keep the baby, not sure if i can do it on my own. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 6 months, I just found out recently that I am 2 months pregnant and he isn't happy about it.\n\nPOST: Some background information: I moved 400 miles away from my family and bought a house about 2 years ago. Just bought a new car at the beginning of this year. i have been doing good financially. after expenses, i save 700 each month, have 15,000 savings. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. I just found out for sure that i am almost 2 months pregnant. I found out about a week ago, and told him a few days ago. He wasn't very happy about the news and it caused some problems. I am not sure where things are going to go from here. what do i do? I want to keep the baby, but not sure if i can do it on my own. I want him around, i really love him. he loves me too, but neither of us wanted kids right now and it is putting a strain on our relationship. He knows i would never consider abortion, and that i wouldn't be able to give the baby up for adoption. how do we get through this? is there anything i should or shouldnt say to him? should i wait until he is ready to talk about it?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I just found out i am 2 months pregnant and my boyfriend isn't happy about it. we have a lot of problems now and i want to keep the baby. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Returned broken used computer, company re-packaged version with new price sticker, that wasnt what I wanted. How can companies get away with stuff like this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned broken used computer, company re-packaged version with new price sticker, that wasnt what I wanted. How can companies get away with stuff like this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a broken CPU from Fry's, and they just sealed it up and sold it to me. Was it because they didnt want to bother checking?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Returned a broken CPU to Fry's, told the lady it was broken, she put a new price tag on it and stuck it back on the shelf.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a broken CPU to Fry's, told the lady it was broken, she put a new price tag on it and stuck it back on the shelf.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned broken used computer, company re-packaged version with new price sticker, that wasnt what I wanted. How can companies get away with stuff like this?<|endoftext|>

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Returned a broken CPU to Fry's, told the lady it was broken, she put a new price tag on it and stuck it back on the shelf.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a broken CPU to Fry's, told the lady it was broken, she put a new price tag on it and stuck it back on the shelf.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a processor. CPU was broken. CPU was returned. CPU was returned. CPU was sold.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Returned broken used computer, company re-packaged version with new price sticker, that wasnt what I wanted. How can companies get away with stuff like this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned broken used computer, company re-packaged version with new price sticker, that wasnt what I wanted. How can companies get away with stuff like this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a processor. CPU was broken. CPU was returned. CPU was returned. CPU was sold.<|endoftext|>

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Returned a broken CPU from Fry's, and they just sealed it up and sold it to me. Was it because they didnt want to bother checking?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a broken CPU from Fry's, and they just sealed it up and sold it to me. Was it because they didnt want to bother checking?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a processor. CPU was broken. CPU was returned. CPU was returned. CPU was sold.<|endoftext|>

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Returned a broken CPU to Fry's, told the lady it was broken, she put a new price tag on it and stuck it back on the shelf.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a broken CPU to Fry's, told the lady it was broken, she put a new price tag on it and stuck it back on the shelf.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How can some companies (like Frye's) get away with stuff like this? Or what are some horrible retail repackaging stories you have?\n\nPOST: This just popped into my head after reading a couple of other threads, and I got curious. A couple years ago I bought something used from Fry's. A processor, I think. Yes, I know it's stupid. That's what I told my dad, too (I was building him a PC at the time but he wanted to cut corners). Anyway, we get it home, and the computer doesnt turn on. After unplugging and plugging in everything and swapping stuff out with another machine, we figured out the CPU was what was messing it up. So the next day, I return the processor. I was asked what was wrong, and I replied with "It doesn't work." And even pointed out some physical flaws in the CPU. The girl who took the CPU was like "Ok!" and just printed out another price sticker on it, sealed it up, and set it back on the shelf. I was like wtf. So how can companies do this? You bring back something that is broken, and they just resell it. Is it because they dont want to have to take the time to deal with checking for themselves and would rather deal with the return?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Returned a broken CPU from Fry's, and they just sealed it up and sold it to me. Was it because they didnt want to bother checking?<|endoftext|>

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Lost a bunch of weight, want to stay active by playing like a kid, but hate running. What are some other activities that look like they'd be fun to do and not a chore?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Lost a bunch of weight, want to stay active by playing like a kid, but hate running. What are some other activities that look like they'd be fun to do and not a chore?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Anybody get a lot of exercise through playing active games like you did when you were a kid, instead of just "working out"?<|endoftext|>

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I want to stay active but hate running - does anyone have any experience with doing things I used to do as a child that were fun instead?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to stay active but hate running - does anyone have any experience with doing things I used to do as a child that were fun instead?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have overweight/somewhat fit husband and I want to stay active, but hate running, want to stay active by playing childhood games. Thoughts?<|endoftext|>

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Lost a bunch of weight, want to stay active by playing like a kid, but hate running. What are some other activities that look like they'd be fun to do and not a chore?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Lost a bunch of weight, want to stay active by playing like a kid, but hate running. What are some other activities that look like they'd be fun to do and not a chore?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have overweight/somewhat fit husband and I want to stay active, but hate running, want to stay active by playing childhood games. Thoughts?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I want to stay active but hate running - does anyone have any experience with doing things I used to do as a child that were fun instead?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to stay active but hate running - does anyone have any experience with doing things I used to do as a child that were fun instead?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Anybody get a lot of exercise through playing active games like you did when you were a kid, instead of just "working out"?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Anybody get a lot of exercise through playing active games like you did when you were a kid, instead of just "working out"?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Anybody get a lot of exercise through playing active games like you did when you were a kid, instead of just "working out"?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have overweight/somewhat fit husband and I want to stay active, but hate running, want to stay active by playing childhood games. Thoughts?<|endoftext|>

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Lost a bunch of weight, want to stay active by playing like a kid, but hate running. What are some other activities that look like they'd be fun to do and not a chore?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Lost a bunch of weight, want to stay active by playing like a kid, but hate running. What are some other activities that look like they'd be fun to do and not a chore?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Getting active by playing like a kid?\n\nPOST: I've lost about 8 lbs in the last couple months through diet changes, but I know I need exercise as well. However, I really, really hate running! Yesterday my husband and I picked up a frisbee and went to a park to throw it around, and it felt like surprisingly good exercise. I started thinking maybe I could stay active by doing things I used to do as a kid - shoot hoops, kick a soccer ball around, play tag - has anyone had any success doing this sort of thing? I figure I'd still be doing stretching & lifting for other aspects of fitness, and maybe the occasional jog, but it sounds so much more fun to just go out and play.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to stay active but hate running - does anyone have any experience with doing things I used to do as a child that were fun instead?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " childhood friend and I have been flirting over past year, but she's backing off now after a year. Unsure if we should keep pursuing or not.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "If she's backing off, then is it still \"we\" or just author who'll do the pursuing?" }, { "text": " I enjoy her company, and exploring her body, she enjoys both until she leaves my place. Neither want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?", "policy": "ref", "note": "Both = author's company and sex?\nUntil what -- once gone she's distant?\nSo it's FWB?" } ]

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I enjoy her company, and exploring her body, she enjoys both until she leaves my place. Neither want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I enjoy her company, and exploring her body, she enjoys both until she leaves my place. Neither want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: childhood friend and I have been flirting over past year, but she's backing off now after a year. Unsure if we should keep pursuing or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Friend for most of our lives. She wants a fwb type relationship with me but now is backing off. Still want to be there and enjoy her company. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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childhood friend and I have been flirting over past year, but she's backing off now after a year. Unsure if we should keep pursuing or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend for most of our lives. She wants a fwb type relationship with me but now is backing off. Still want to be there and enjoy her company. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: childhood friend and I have been flirting over past year, but she's backing off now after a year. Unsure if we should keep pursuing or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Longtime childhood friend wants a fwb relationship but now seems scared and isn't sure if we're on the same page.<|endoftext|>

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I enjoy her company, and exploring her body, she enjoys both until she leaves my place. Neither want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Longtime childhood friend wants a fwb relationship but now seems scared and isn't sure if we're on the same page.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I enjoy her company, and exploring her body, she enjoys both until she leaves my place. Neither want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Friend for most of our lives. She wants a fwb type relationship with me but now is backing off. Still want to be there and enjoy her company. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend for most of our lives. She wants a fwb type relationship with me but now is backing off. Still want to be there and enjoy her company. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Longtime childhood friend wants a fwb relationship but now seems scared and isn't sure if we're on the same page.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Friend for most of our lives. She wants a fwb type relationship with me but now is backing off. Still want to be there and enjoy her company. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend for most of our lives. She wants a fwb type relationship with me but now is backing off. Still want to be there and enjoy her company. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I enjoy her company, and exploring her body, she enjoys both until she leaves my place. Neither want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Longtime childhood friend wants a fwb relationship but now seems scared and isn't sure if we're on the same page.<|endoftext|>

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childhood friend and I have been flirting over past year, but she's backing off now after a year. Unsure if we should keep pursuing or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Longtime childhood friend wants a fwb relationship but now seems scared and isn't sure if we're on the same page.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.\n\nPOST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a couple shortly before that. She came back down about a year later and ended up being with another guy. He treated her bad and eventually after some years she finally ended it. It's been almost a year since then. We've been flirting over the past year, but about 2 months ago she really became interested in a fwb type relationship. I was okay with that and it was awesome even though it never quite got to the point of full on sex. About 3 weeks ago though she started making excuses, cancelling times to meet, etc. Now she's saying that she's feeling pressured and isn't sure if we're on the same page since she doesn't want a relationship and she thinks I do. I'll admit, it would be nice but it's not needed. I just enjoy her company in general. She says that when we get physical she's great with it until she leaves, then she "crashes emotionally". I told her I'm okay with just being there since I do just enjoy her company and the fwb part was just a plus. Yes, I do love her. Both as a friend and a woman. Yes, she means a lot to me. Yes, it feels like I just got sucker punched but I still saw it coming. Yes, she has some stuff to work through with her family using a lot of her time and still wonders if I would hurt her emotionally. I still want to be there because I'm maybe blinded because it feels so right to us both when we're together.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: childhood friend and I have been flirting over past year, but she's backing off now after a year. Unsure if we should keep pursuing or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My gf has no female friends at school, and would like to hang out with my friends when we get back from summer. Should I be concerned?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My gf has no female friends at school, and would like to hang out with my friends when we get back from summer. Should I be concerned?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend keeps saying she has female friends but I have none, want her to have her own female friends so she can have some space. Is this a problem?<|endoftext|>

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my gf has no friends that are girls and I'm worried that will lead to her depending on me and my friends for all companionship. That worries me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my gf has no friends that are girls and I'm worried that will lead to her depending on me and my friends for all companionship. That worries me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend keeps saying she has female friends but I have none, want her to have her own female friends so she can have some space. Is this a problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My gf has no female friends at school, and would like to hang out with my friends when we get back from summer. Should I be concerned?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My gf has no female friends at school, and would like to hang out with my friends when we get back from summer. Should I be concerned?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my gf has no friends that are girls and I'm worried that will lead to her depending on me and my friends for all companionship. That worries me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

girl I'm with has no female friends at all, and may want to hang out with my friends. Should I be concerned or is this not a problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I'm with has no female friends at all, and may want to hang out with my friends. Should I be concerned or is this not a problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend keeps saying she has female friends but I have none, want her to have her own female friends so she can have some space. Is this a problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

girl I'm with has no female friends at all, and may want to hang out with my friends. Should I be concerned or is this not a problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I'm with has no female friends at all, and may want to hang out with my friends. Should I be concerned or is this not a problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My gf has no female friends at school, and would like to hang out with my friends when we get back from summer. Should I be concerned?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

girl I'm with has no female friends at all, and may want to hang out with my friends. Should I be concerned or is this not a problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I'm with has no female friends at all, and may want to hang out with my friends. Should I be concerned or is this not a problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my gf [18 F] for 6 months, but I'm worried about her lack of female friends. Is this a problem?\n\nPOST: So I've been dating this girl for a while, and I really like her. She's smart, fun to be around, and gets along great with my friends, problem is, she seems to have no friends of her own... She goes to school out of state, and says she has a lot of female friends in her home state but at least at university, she only had one female friend and she has transferred out now. This is concerning for me because it's summer now, but when we get back, she'll have no female friends, and probably want to hang with my friends. Which is ok, but I'd prefer for her to have her own friends, so that I can have a bit more space. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Or is this a non-issue?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my gf has no friends that are girls and I'm worried that will lead to her depending on me and my friends for all companionship. That worries me.<|endoftext|>

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I deteriorated a friendship, never apologised, we made up, but I feel like I need to apologise to truly fix it, should I?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I deteriorated a friendship, never apologised, we made up, but I feel like I need to apologise to truly fix it, should I?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I said some things to a friend two years ago, we haven't spoken since and i'm wondering if I should apologise.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Accidentally said some mean things to a friend a few years ago, we continue to talk but not in the same way. Should I apologise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Accidentally said some mean things to a friend a few years ago, we continue to talk but not in the same way. Should I apologise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Said some things about a friend two years ago, we haven't talked since, wondering if I should apologise. Should I even bother despite having a good relationship now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Said some things about a friend two years ago, we haven't talked since, wondering if I should apologise. Should I even bother despite having a good relationship now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Said some things about a friend two years ago, we haven't talked since, wondering if I should apologise. Should I even bother despite having a good relationship now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I said some things to a friend two years ago, we haven't spoken since and i'm wondering if I should apologise.<|endoftext|>

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I deteriorated a friendship, never apologised, we made up, but I feel like I need to apologise to truly fix it, should I?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I deteriorated a friendship, never apologised, we made up, but I feel like I need to apologise to truly fix it, should I?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Said some things about a friend two years ago, we haven't talked since, wondering if I should apologise. Should I even bother despite having a good relationship now?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Accidentally said some mean things to a friend a few years ago, we continue to talk but not in the same way. Should I apologise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I deteriorated a friendship, never apologised, we made up, but I feel like I need to apologise to truly fix it, should I?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Accidentally said some mean things to a friend a few years ago, we continue to talk but not in the same way. Should I apologise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Accidentally said some mean things to a friend a few years ago, we continue to talk but not in the same way. Should I apologise?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I (22m) said some disparaging things to a friend (19f) two years ago. I never apologised but a few months later we continued to talk, our relationship has never recovered to that original point, should I apologise?\n\nPOST: I was going through a bad patch in my life, about two years ago. I was the typical loser, failed College (UK), no job etc, while she was doing the complete opposite. I told her that I disliked being around her because of this, she told me she was sorry but she wouldn't change and it was not her problem (rightly so). Four months later I said hello to her on Facebook she responded and we just continued to talk but I never brought the past up and neither did she. To be honest, straight away I wondered if I should apologise but as time went on it felt weirder to bring it up again. Anytime we talk it's always me who instigates the conversation. I feel as if there's this distance between us still and i'm wondering what to do. I was thinking saying something like, "do you remember two years ago when I said some stuff to you, I never apologised, I shouldn't have said what I said, I was going through a bad time but it doesn't excuse it. So I just wanted to say I am sorry."\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I said some things to a friend two years ago, we haven't spoken since and i'm wondering if I should apologise.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

19 years old, general savings account and Roth IRA both used to invest in Vanguard TR 2060. Am I doing it right?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 years old, general savings account and Roth IRA both used to invest in Vanguard TR 2060. Am I doing it right?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 y/o male, started contributing to Roth IRA with Vanguard and general savings account. Will graduate debt free.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

19 y/o male, started contributing to Roth IRA with Vanguard and general savings account. Will graduate debt free.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 y/o male, started contributing to Roth IRA with Vanguard and general savings account. Will graduate debt free.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 y/o, Roth IRA. Should I contribute as much as possible to two accounts to help pay off my student loans and graduate debt free?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

19 years old with Roth IRA and general savings account. Is that a good strategy for someone my age to contribute to the TR 2060?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 years old with Roth IRA and general savings account. Is that a good strategy for someone my age to contribute to the TR 2060?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 y/o male, started contributing to Roth IRA with Vanguard and general savings account. Will graduate debt free.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

19 years old with Roth IRA and general savings account. Is that a good strategy for someone my age to contribute to the TR 2060?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 years old with Roth IRA and general savings account. Is that a good strategy for someone my age to contribute to the TR 2060?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 y/o, Roth IRA. Should I contribute as much as possible to two accounts to help pay off my student loans and graduate debt free?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

19 years old, general savings account and Roth IRA both used to invest in Vanguard TR 2060. Am I doing it right?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 years old, general savings account and Roth IRA both used to invest in Vanguard TR 2060. Am I doing it right?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 years old with Roth IRA and general savings account. Is that a good strategy for someone my age to contribute to the TR 2060?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

19 years old, general savings account and Roth IRA both used to invest in Vanguard TR 2060. Am I doing it right?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 years old, general savings account and Roth IRA both used to invest in Vanguard TR 2060. Am I doing it right?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 19 year old and Roth IRA\n\nPOST: Hey everyone, long time lurker here needing some advice. I've done some reading but this is my first time doing any type of investing so I want to make sure I'm not screwing anything up. I just set up two accounts with Vanguard, one of them being a Roth IRA and the other is just a general savings account. Both of these accounts will be used to contribute to Vanguard's TR 2060. Is this a good strategy for somebody my age? I currently make around $500-600 a month working part-time and plan on contributing as much as possible to these two accounts. Fortunately, my parents are able to cover most of my expenses and if nothing tragic happens, I should be able to graduate debt free. Anyways, just want to thank this sub for being a great source of info. You guys are great!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the personalfinance subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 19 y/o, Roth IRA. Should I contribute as much as possible to two accounts to help pay off my student loans and graduate debt free?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Bought exhaust 4 months ago, have not received shipment progress info/I paid for it myself. Am I justified in demanding a refund?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "The summary should say what the exhaust is for. The \"/I paid for it myself\" is confusing, and probably unnecessary. " }, { "text": " Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, haven't received any progress/info regarding shipment despite being called back multiple times regarding the purchase. Can I get a refund or do I have legitimate grounds to walk in and demand my money back?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "The passive voice in this sentence is confusing: \"being called back multiple times regarding the purchase\". If the author is receiving many calls from the seller, how is he/she deprived of any information regarding delivery? The final question suggests two courses of action that appear to be one and the same.\n\n---------------\n\nThe summary should say what the exhaust is for." } ]

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, haven't received any progress/info regarding shipment despite being called back multiple times regarding the purchase. Can I get a refund or do I have legitimate grounds to walk in and demand my money back?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, haven't received any progress/info regarding shipment despite being called back multiple times regarding the purchase. Can I get a refund or do I have legitimate grounds to walk in and demand my money back?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought exhaust 4 months ago, have not received shipment progress info/I paid for it myself. Am I justified in demanding a refund?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Bought exhaust 4 months ago, haven't been called back to ship progress/info despite having a receipt for purchase. Do I have any legitimate grounds to demand a refund and what can I do in the event they refuse?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought exhaust 4 months ago, haven't been called back to ship progress/info despite having a receipt for purchase. Do I have any legitimate grounds to demand a refund and what can I do in the event they refuse?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, haven't received any progress/info regarding shipment despite being called back multiple times regarding the purchase. Can I get a refund or do I have legitimate grounds to walk in and demand my money back?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Bought a car exhaust 4 months ago, still have not received it. Owner of store will not call back regarding shipment info. Can I get a refund?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought a car exhaust 4 months ago, still have not received it. Owner of store will not call back regarding shipment info. Can I get a refund?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought exhaust 4 months ago, have not received shipment progress info/I paid for it myself. Am I justified in demanding a refund?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Bought exhaust 4 months ago, haven't been called back to ship progress/info despite having a receipt for purchase. Do I have any legitimate grounds to demand a refund and what can I do in the event they refuse?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought exhaust 4 months ago, haven't been called back to ship progress/info despite having a receipt for purchase. Do I have any legitimate grounds to demand a refund and what can I do in the event they refuse?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought a car exhaust 4 months ago, still have not received it. Owner of store will not call back regarding shipment info. Can I get a refund?<|endoftext|>

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{ "id": "t3_4h7u5h", "post": "I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a \"No Tax\" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. \n\nFast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. \n\nDo I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote \"Paid\" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund?\n\nSide note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.", "title": "(TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?", "subreddit": "legaladvice", "site": null, "article": null }

[ { "text": " Bought exhaust 4 months ago, have not received shipment progress info/I paid for it myself. Am I justified in demanding a refund?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "The summary should say what the exhaust is for. The \"/I paid for it myself\" is confusing, and probably unnecessary. " }, { "text": " Bought exhaust 4 months ago, haven't been called back to ship progress/info despite having a receipt for purchase. Do I have any legitimate grounds to demand a refund and what can I do in the event they refuse?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n----------------\nThe summary should say what the exhaust is for." } ]

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Bought exhaust 4 months ago, haven't been called back to ship progress/info despite having a receipt for purchase. Do I have any legitimate grounds to demand a refund and what can I do in the event they refuse?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought exhaust 4 months ago, haven't been called back to ship progress/info despite having a receipt for purchase. Do I have any legitimate grounds to demand a refund and what can I do in the event they refuse?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought exhaust 4 months ago, have not received shipment progress info/I paid for it myself. Am I justified in demanding a refund?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Bought a car exhaust 4 months ago, still have not received it. Owner of store will not call back regarding shipment info. Can I get a refund?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought a car exhaust 4 months ago, still have not received it. Owner of store will not call back regarding shipment info. Can I get a refund?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: (TO) Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, have not been called back regarding shipment progress/info. Can I get a refund?\n\nPOST: I live in Toronto, Canada and I bought a $800 exhaust from an aftermarket parts dealer (which I will not name) back in early January 2016. I paid in full on my Debit card because it was part of a "No Tax" sale. I bought the part personally from the owner in the store and he said it would be a couple weeks for shipment. I called in mid-February and some random employee said he didn't know anything about my shipment, but that he would take my info down and have the owner call me back when he got back from vacation. Fast forward to this morning, I called back inquiring about my shipment...another random employee answers and tells me he knows absolutely nothing about my exhaust and that he would take my info again and have the owner call me back at 1:00pm when he got back in from lunch. I don't receive a call for the rest of the day and at this point I'm fed up and I want my money back. There is nothing convincing me that this purchase will end well. Do I have legitimate grounds to walk into the store and demand a full refund? I have a printed receipt and the original invoice that the owner wrote "Paid" on with pen, and I can definitely go into my bank records and find the proof of purchase. Is there any way that the store can refuse a refund even though I haven't received anything? If they attempt to refuse, can I argue back to get a refund? Side note: I understand that you need to be patient but I feel like my money has been stolen and I won't be receiving my product in the near future. I don't plan on going in there and blasting them, I'm content will walking in and respectfully asking for my money back.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Bought an exhaust 4 months ago, haven't received any progress/info regarding shipment despite being called back multiple times regarding the purchase. Can I get a refund or do I have legitimate grounds to walk in and demand my money back?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My gf has told me she doesn't feel she deserves me because I'm *too* much for her. Is there anything I can do to help her feel better about herself?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My gf has told me she doesn't feel she deserves me because I'm *too* much for her. Is there anything I can do to help her feel better about herself?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend feels guilty for not doing everything she feels she might have been able to do. I'd like to help her to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm a 18 year old guy with a gf my age who is in love with her, but she feels like she doesn't deserve a romantic partner. Need advice on how to help her feel valid without making her feel guilty<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a 18 year old guy with a gf my age who is in love with her, but she feels like she doesn't deserve a romantic partner. Need advice on how to help her feel valid without making her feel guilty<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My gf has told me she doesn't feel she deserves me because I'm *too* much for her. Is there anything I can do to help her feel better about herself?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm with a girl who has told me she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me, and that sometimes that thought keeps from enjoying our relationship. How can I make her feel better without putting her on a pedestal?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm with a girl who has told me she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me, and that sometimes that thought keeps from enjoying our relationship. How can I make her feel better without putting her on a pedestal?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a 18 year old guy with a gf my age who is in love with her, but she feels like she doesn't deserve a romantic partner. Need advice on how to help her feel valid without making her feel guilty<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm a 18 year old guy with a gf my age who is in love with her, but she feels like she doesn't deserve a romantic partner. Need advice on how to help her feel valid without making her feel guilty<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend feels guilty for not doing everything she feels she might have been able to do. I'd like to help her to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a 18 year old guy with a gf my age who is in love with her, but she feels like she doesn't deserve a romantic partner. Need advice on how to help her feel valid without making her feel guilty<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend feels guilty for not doing everything she feels she might have been able to do. I'd like to help her to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm with a girl who has told me she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me, and that sometimes that thought keeps from enjoying our relationship. How can I make her feel better without putting her on a pedestal?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm with a girl who has told me she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me, and that sometimes that thought keeps from enjoying our relationship. How can I make her feel better without putting her on a pedestal?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [19 F] of 2 months, She has told me that she genuinely doesn't feel like she deserves me. Is there anything I can do to help?\n\nPOST: I'm 18 years old and she's actually my first girlfriend. I know "putting her on a pedestal" is a really common wrong thing guys my age do, so I'm trying to avoid it while still complimenting her and telling her how much she means to me. I've been doing my best to be really patient and understanding with her, which probably doesn't totally help because she feels guilty after she realizes she hasn't acted well. Am I pandering to her too much? Is there anything I can do to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way? I'd hate for something as silly as this to get in between us because we make each other extremely happy. Thanks in advance for the help!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend feels guilty for not doing everything she feels she might have been able to do. I'd like to help her to improve her self esteem so she doesn't feel this way.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I can't develop strong feelings for my new GF because of her imperfections, and when she's gone I miss her intensely.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: When my ex and GF are together I focus on her imperfections, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.<|endoftext|>

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I have had depression for a long time. I nitpick all of my girlfriends, but when they are gone, I don't like being alone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had depression for a long time. I nitpick all of my girlfriends, but when they are gone, I don't like being alone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm just using my current gf of a month in most ways, and miss her when she's away. How can I stop this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I can't develop strong feelings for my new GF because of her imperfections, and when she's gone I miss her intensely.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I can't develop strong feelings for my new GF because of her imperfections, and when she's gone I miss her intensely.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm just using my current gf of a month in most ways, and miss her when she's away. How can I stop this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had depression for a long time. I nitpick all of my girlfriends, but when they are gone, I don't like being alone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: When my ex and GF are together I focus on her imperfections, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm just using my current gf of a month in most ways, and miss her when she's away. How can I stop this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm just using my current gf of a month in most ways, and miss her when she's away. How can I stop this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: When my ex and GF are together I focus on her imperfections, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had depression for a long time. I nitpick all of my girlfriends, but when they are gone, I don't like being alone.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [17 F] of a month, Focus on all of her imperfections when we're together, but when she's gone I miss her intensely.\n\nPOST: I used to be a pretty big loner before me and my ex had gotten together, but now i think that i'm possibly scared of being alone. I was in a relationship of 2+ years, and it went bad quick. I ended up heart broken and depressed. Since being broken up with my ex of 2+ years i've become depressed, and i've done all the things to do to help get over it, and to move on, but none of them have made any real impacts. Life for the most part has just become very drab, and mind dulling boring to me. I was never able to develop any strong feelings for the next girl I dated. I'd be with her, and i'd just think about the things i wish were different about her, and then when she was gone I would think that I missed her. But I couldn't develop any feelings for her. Now I'm dating a new girl. I think my current GF is beautiful, and i think she's pretty great all around. However, when we're together i just focus on her imperfections, the same as I did with my previous girlfriend. I feel like i'm just using her in a lot of ways as company.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I can't develop strong feelings for my new GF because of her imperfections, and when she's gone I miss her intensely.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Step-Aunt Stealing from me after my Grandparents' deaths, lawyer says I have to stop removing personal property from the house for the auction. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Step-Aunt Stealing from me after my Grandparents' deaths, lawyer says I have to stop removing personal property from the house for the auction. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandma died, Grandpa put me in charge of selling his personal property, and gave me full power of attorney. His daughter stole half of the money I should have gotten from the sale of something. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Step-Aunt Stealing from me after my Grandparents' deaths, lawyer says I have to stop removing personal property from the house for the auction. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Step-Aunt Stealing from me after my Grandparents' deaths, lawyer says I have to stop removing personal property from the house for the auction. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandpa's brother bought his tractor for a small amount of money. Step-Aunt stole half of the proceeds and is trying to tell me to stop removing items from the house for it's upcoming auction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Grandpa's brother bought his tractor for a small amount of money. Step-Aunt stole half of the proceeds and is trying to tell me to stop removing items from the house for it's upcoming auction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandpa's brother bought his tractor for a small amount of money. Step-Aunt stole half of the proceeds and is trying to tell me to stop removing items from the house for it's upcoming auction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandma died, Grandpa put me in charge of selling his personal property, and gave me full power of attorney. His daughter stole half of the money I should have gotten from the sale of something. What do?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Grandpa sold his personal possessions at an estate auction, Step-Aunt stole all of it and is trying to tell me I am to stop removing items from his house.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "ok\n\n(sounds like grandpa is still alive)\n\nstep-aunt stole money from tractor sale" }, { "text": " Grandma died, Grandpa put me in charge of selling his personal property, and gave me full power of attorney. His daughter stole half of the money I should have gotten from the sale of something. What do?", "policy": "ref", "note": "ok\n\n(sounds like grandpa is still alive)" } ]

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Grandma died, Grandpa put me in charge of selling his personal property, and gave me full power of attorney. His daughter stole half of the money I should have gotten from the sale of something. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandma died, Grandpa put me in charge of selling his personal property, and gave me full power of attorney. His daughter stole half of the money I should have gotten from the sale of something. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandpa sold his personal possessions at an estate auction, Step-Aunt stole all of it and is trying to tell me I am to stop removing items from his house.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Grandpa's brother bought his tractor for a small amount of money. Step-Aunt stole half of the proceeds and is trying to tell me to stop removing items from the house for it's upcoming auction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandpa's brother bought his tractor for a small amount of money. Step-Aunt stole half of the proceeds and is trying to tell me to stop removing items from the house for it's upcoming auction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandpa sold his personal possessions at an estate auction, Step-Aunt stole all of it and is trying to tell me I am to stop removing items from his house.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Step-Aunt Stealing from me after my Grandparents' deaths, lawyer says I have to stop removing personal property from the house for the auction. What do I do?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "missing context between \"step-aunt stealing\" to \"removing personal property from the house\"" }, { "text": " Grandpa sold his personal possessions at an estate auction, Step-Aunt stole all of it and is trying to tell me I am to stop removing items from his house.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "ok\n\n(sounds like grandpa still alive)" } ]

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Step-Aunt Stealing from me after my Grandparents' deaths, lawyer says I have to stop removing personal property from the house for the auction. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Step-Aunt Stealing from me after my Grandparents' deaths, lawyer says I have to stop removing personal property from the house for the auction. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Please Help - Step-Aunt Stealing From Me After Grandma's Death\n\nPOST: I live in Fairview, MI. and I really need some advice here. I was an unpaid live-in caregiver for my Grandma and Step-Grandpa for the last two years. Grandma died in July so Grandpa decided to move in with his sister and auction off all his personal property. He put me in charge of his estate, we filed the paperwork granting me full power of attorney, and he moved in with his sister. He has Alzheimer's so his daughter (my Step-Aunt) took over his finances (although I still have full power of attorney). It was agreed between my Grandpa, his daughter, and I would receive half of the proceeds from both the auction and any other personal property sold. The reasons being that I took care of them for two years, ppoured the entirety of my savings into their finances to bail them out of a bad financial spot back when I first moved in, and that I deserved some sort of inheritance when my Grandma passed. This is where things get messed up. My Grandpa's brother bought his tractor from him for $2500. I was supposed to receive half. He sent the money to my step-aunt who was supposed to mail my half to me. She kept the whole amount instead, supposedly to help pay Grandpa's debts. Not only that but she's now trying to tell me that her lawyer says I'm to stop removing items from the house for the auction. I don't know what to do here Reddit. Where do I stand legally? Help please? I probably would have just washed my hands of this but the situation with my Grandparents left me destitute and the job market here is nil. I desperately need that money to survive through the winter until I can start a seasonal job next spring.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Grandpa sold his personal possessions at an estate auction, Step-Aunt stole all of it and is trying to tell me I am to stop removing items from his house.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: i was supposed to go to college, dropped out after 5 years, and now i'm 24 and i'm having trouble figuring out what i want to do with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to go back to school but i'm troubled with anxiety, weed, alcohol, and finding it hard to be confident with myself.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Was a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser, dropped out, and went back to school, but still smoke, drink, and be scared of the world. how do i go back to school after i'm this weird 24 year old?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: i was supposed to go to college, dropped out after 5 years, and now i'm 24 and i'm having trouble figuring out what i want to do with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Was a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser, dropped out, and went back to school, but still smoke, drink, and be scared of the world. how do i go back to school after i'm this weird 24 year old?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to go back to school but i'm troubled with anxiety, weed, alcohol, and finding it hard to be confident with myself.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Was a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser, dropped out, and went back to school, but still smoke, drink, and be scared of the world. how do i go back to school after i'm this weird 24 year old?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a loser aaand i'm 24 now, so i need to figure out what i want to do with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: i was supposed to go to college, dropped out after 5 years, and now i'm 24 and i'm having trouble figuring out what i want to do with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a loser aaand i'm 24 now, so i need to figure out what i want to do with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to go back to school but i'm troubled with anxiety, weed, alcohol, and finding it hard to be confident with myself.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I'm at a weird point in life\n\nPOST: 6 years ago (when i was 18) I went into college scared to be myself, and that made it hard to know what i wanted to go to school for. i was planning on majoring in engineering, but only because that's what my dad did, and i have a knack for math. i did not even think about what i was interested in. anyway, at college i was able to make friends and study damn hard and things went okay for 5 semesters or so. i slowly lost that groove, fueled by an alcohol and weed problem, and i found that i could not get myself to classes. this was embarrassing, and that made it hard to socialize, which made it harder to go to class, which was even more embarrassing.....yeeeahh. so things tumbled and my bad habits worsened, and suddenly i'm rendered into a fat, lazy, socially awkward loser. I dropped out since i thought maybe if i came home i'd "find myself", or fix my problems, or get a job. Nope. two years go by of hiding from my respected high school friends, getting drunk by myself every night, and doing nothing all day. Eventually i sock up the courage to get a job, but only at my uncle's lumber shop. i reconnected with my friends from HS, but only the close two or three bros. and i was able to get a grip on my drinking, but only a grip. i still toked up a couple times a day. a few months ago my dad, 60 years old, was diagnosed with a rare cancer, and will only have 5-10 years of life left. now i find myself pressured to figure out what i want to do with my life so i can move on and make my dad proud. but i still smoke, i still drink, and i'm still scared of the world. how do i go back to school when i'm this weird 24 year old?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a loser aaand i'm 24 now, so i need to figure out what i want to do with my life.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend is treating me like I'm not important to her even though she's making more profit off of her customers than me. She's been very rude recently.<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a relationship that is falling apart because she is getting more attention from her customers than I do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is treating me like I'm not important to her even though she's making more profit off of her customers than me. She's been very rude recently.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a relationship that is falling apart because she is getting more attention from her customers than I do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My girlfriend and I just recently got back together...she works at a strip club and I feel like she treats her customers better than she treats me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend and I just recently got back together...she works at a strip club and I feel like she treats her customers better than she treats me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a relationship that is falling apart because she is getting more attention from her customers than I do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My girlfriend and I just recently got back together...she works at a strip club and I feel like she treats her customers better than she treats me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend and I just recently got back together...she works at a strip club and I feel like she treats her customers better than she treats me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend acts rude/ignores me when she's stressed/has other emotional problems, making me feel less important to her than her customers. Need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend acts rude/ignores me when she's stressed/has other emotional problems, making me feel less important to her than her customers. Need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a relationship that is falling apart because she is getting more attention from her customers than I do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend acts rude/ignores me when she's stressed/has other emotional problems, making me feel less important to her than her customers. Need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a relationship that is falling apart because she is getting more attention from her customers than I do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend acts rude/ignores me when she's stressed/has other emotional problems, making me feel less important to her than her customers. Need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend acts rude/ignores me when she's stressed/has other emotional problems, making me feel less important to her than her customers. Need some advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is treating me like I'm not important to her even though she's making more profit off of her customers than me. She's been very rude recently.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My girlfriend and I just recently got back together...she works at a strip club and I feel like she treats her customers better than she treats me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend and I just recently got back together...she works at a strip club and I feel like she treats her customers better than she treats me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f]\n\nPOST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me before we got together that she used to be a stripper, but didn't want that lifestyle anymore. Recently we broke up for about a month and she went back to being a stripper. I have no problem with her choice of profession. So heres the problem. We just recently got back together and she doesn't want to have any sexual contact with me (other than kissing and hugging) for a while. That bothers me because I feel like she gives more attention/physical attention to her clients than she does me. It makes me feel less important to her than the money she's getting from her customers. Another problem we are having is that she's been stressed out lately about her living situation and life in general and her attitude towards me reflects these emotions. She yells at me..and just generally has a rude attitude towards me because of her situation. It really bothers me because she says she only acts this way because she's stressed, but when she goes to work I'm pretty sure she doesn't treat her customers the same way. Again making me feel less than them. So am I being too uptight about the situation or maybe over thinking it to much? If anyone could give me some advice that would be great.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is treating me like I'm not important to her even though she's making more profit off of her customers than me. She's been very rude recently.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

my mom is anti guy and makes anti gay comments around my niece that has a gay uncle. What can I do to stop that and also, what can I do to help my niece so she isn't raised with the anti gay mentality<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my mom is anti guy and makes anti gay comments around my niece that has a gay uncle. What can I do to stop that and also, what can I do to help my niece so she isn't raised with the anti gay mentality<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My mom is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks in front of my niece. I want to help her make a different decision.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

my mom is anti guy and makes anti gay comments around my niece that has a gay uncle. What can I do to stop that and also, what can I do to help my niece so she isn't raised with the anti gay mentality<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my mom is anti guy and makes anti gay comments around my niece that has a gay uncle. What can I do to stop that and also, what can I do to help my niece so she isn't raised with the anti gay mentality<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My mother is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my one year old niece. What can I do to make her stop and stick to her morals?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

my mom is anti guy and makes anti gay comments around my niece that has a gay uncle. What can I do to stop that and also, what can I do to help my niece so she isn't raised with the anti gay mentality<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my mom is anti guy and makes anti gay comments around my niece that has a gay uncle. What can I do to stop that and also, what can I do to help my niece so she isn't raised with the anti gay mentality<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My (20f) mother (47f) is against gay marriage and makes anti gay remarks around my niece (1f).\n\nPOST: Title says it. My mom and brother are both very against gay marriage and express it verbally in front of my one year old niece (my family raises her) who has a gay uncle. It started yesterday when my mom was talking about getting her hair cut. Her stylist had a gay man wash my moms hair. The family was in the car and my mom said, "I hate it when Jessi has that joto (don't know exactly what it means but it's basically an anti gay name for homosexuals) wash my hair!" I told her she needs to stop saying things like that especially in front of the baby. My brother chimed in and said "he is what he is". My mom then said, "I'm not a liberal" to which I replied, "it doesn't mean you have to be judgmental". Then my mom said "it's not me judging" referring to the bible. I told her to stop saying that word or make any kind of anti gay comments in front of the baby because she does have an uncle who is gay. I told her to keep her comments to herself because I don't want the baby to be raised to hate people. We got home and that was the end of the conversation. What can I do? The baby is at that age where she mimics everything we say and I don't want her to learn that word then go and repeat it to her uncle. Not only that, I don't want her to grow up hating people because of sexual orentation. I'm not against gay marriage at all what-so-ever but I'm living in a house that's very anti gay. What can I do, if anything at all, to make my niece stray away from that way of thinking?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My mom and brother are against gay marriage and my mom is very anti gay and makes anti gay comments. The baby has a gay uncle and it's making her anti gay. What can I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with cheating ex (who lived with me for 2 years), we lived together. He owes me half of the expenses he owes. How do I politely ask him to pay?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex (who lived with me for 2 years), we lived together. He owes me half of the expenses he owes. How do I politely ask him to pay?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, we lived together. He owes me half of the bills he owes the apt complex. How do I make him pay?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with cheating ex, how to politely and firmly message him to have him pay for what he owes financially? Have not contacted him in 96 days.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, how to politely and firmly message him to have him pay for what he owes financially? Have not contacted him in 96 days.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex (who lived with me for 2 years), we lived together. He owes me half of the expenses he owes. How do I politely ask him to pay?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with cheating ex, how to politely and firmly message him to have him pay for what he owes financially? Have not contacted him in 96 days.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, how to politely and firmly message him to have him pay for what he owes financially? Have not contacted him in 96 days.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, we lived together. He owes me half of the bills he owes the apt complex. How do I make him pay?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with cheating ex (who lived with me for 2 years), we lived together. He owes me half of the expenses he owes. How do I politely ask him to pay?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex (who lived with me for 2 years), we lived together. He owes me half of the expenses he owes. How do I politely ask him to pay?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, lived together for 2 years. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with cheating ex, lived together for 2 years. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, lived together for 2 years. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, we lived together. He owes me half of the bills he owes the apt complex. How do I make him pay?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Broke up with cheating ex, how to politely and firmly message him to have him pay for what he owes financially? Have not contacted him in 96 days.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, how to politely and firmly message him to have him pay for what he owes financially? Have not contacted him in 96 days.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [26F] Broke up with cheating ex [27M], we lived together. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)\n\nPOST: My ex D, and I lived together for 2 years. Everything went well, we got along awesome. D started to act a little strange, and it turns out D was active on dating sites and you know the rest. He hid all Facebook posts and pictures from me so they wouldn't see them etc... I printed off the evidence, and broke it off and left the house we shared that week. He lived there for 1 month by himself. For the past 2 years the bills would get automatically paid from my account and he would just give me half of that money with half the rent. I got the final bills from the apt complex and the bills got paid automatically. I want him to pay what he owes from that last month he lived there by himself because I don't feel it's fair I pay for him since he was cheating on me. Also, I am 95% sure he will pay what he owes due to past behavior. I was thinking of sending a Message with something like: "Hey D, the final bills arrived and the total you owe is $ X, I attach a scanned copy of the receipts. Please pay the full amount by the Xth(date) at (my paypal). Thanks!" Would this be a good way to phrase it? I haven't contacted him in 96 days at all. I have him blocked everywhere, but I thought about unblocking him on Facebook to send this. Any advice on how to handle this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Broke up with cheating ex, lived together for 2 years. How do I make him pay half of the expenses he owes? I have to break NC and I'm dreading it (96 days NC)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How to end a 10 year marriage with a highly emotional wife who is likely to not understand why I have left. Still want a relationship with my two year old son.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Heading towards ending a relationship with a highly emotional unstable wife with a two year old son. How do I do this smoothly and avoid potential triggers?<|endoftext|>

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How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife, we have a two year old son, I am losing motivation, don't want to make things worse. Need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife, we have a two year old son, I am losing motivation, don't want to make things worse. Need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How to end a 10 year marriage with a highly emotional wife who is likely to not understand why I have left. Still want a relationship with my two year old son.<|endoftext|>

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How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife, we have a two year old son, I am losing motivation, don't want to make things worse. Need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife, we have a two year old son, I am losing motivation, don't want to make things worse. Need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Heading towards ending a relationship with a highly emotional unstable wife with a two year old son. How do I do this smoothly and avoid potential triggers?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son who I love very much and I don't want him to grow up learning that our relationship is what to expect<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife, we have a two year old son, I am losing motivation, don't want to make things worse. Need advice.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son who I love very much and I don't want him to grow up learning that our relationship is what to expect<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son who I love very much and I don't want him to grow up learning that our relationship is what to expect<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Heading towards ending a relationship with a highly emotional unstable wife with a two year old son. How do I do this smoothly and avoid potential triggers?<|endoftext|>

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How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son who I love very much and I don't want him to grow up learning that our relationship is what to expect<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son who I love very much and I don't want him to grow up learning that our relationship is what to expect<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [36M] with my Wife [36F] - How do I end a relationship with a highly unstable wife - we have a two year old son\n\nPOST: Married for 10 years, relationship has always had it's ups and downs. We have separated twice before, but always seem to come back together. The relationship doesn't work, neither of us are happy (no physical contact, fight every day, a lot of unhappiness). I am losing motivation to do anything everyday, I just want out at this stage. I want her to be happy and I want to be happy. We have a 2 year old son who I love very much, I don't want him growing up learning that our relationship is what to expect. While mentally I am not in the relationship - how do I go about actually ending this? I have told her how I feel and she ends up getting extremely angry initially and then comes back with an immediate charm offensive (it is an emotional roller coaster). I feel that as I get closer to walking away the harder it actually becomes. I am sure she can feel the difference in the relationship and responds with trying harder in the short term to makes thing better (which in the past I have fallen for). Any advice, tips on how to end a relationship with a highly emotional wife who is not going to take this well (history of depression, we have done a lot of counselling together which often ended with her in one-on-one sessions due to self-confidence and anger issues). I am in no way perfect myself, but I do worry about her. She has a history of major over reactions to the smallest issues resulting in poor decisions.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How to end a 10 year marriage with a highly emotional wife who is likely to not understand why I have left. Still want a relationship with my two year old son.<|endoftext|>

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26 y/o no GED/Diploma. Making 50k a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 26, no GED/Diploma. Making 50k+ a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!\n\nPOST: Got Home Skooled... kind of. The schooling part ended while I was a pre-teen that got my hands on a\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the Advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 26 y/o no GED/Diploma. Making 50k a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 26, no GED/Diploma. Making 50k+ a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!\n\nPOST: Got Home Skooled... kind of. The schooling part ended while I was a pre-teen that got my hands on a\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the Advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: never went to school, parents wanted me to be a preacher. didn't last. Been working since I was 14 and haven't stopped. My education is entirely based on the jobs I've worked, and my own self interest.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a 26 year old male with no ged/diploma. Making 50k a year and would rather have an education. Advice?!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 26, no GED/Diploma. Making 50k+ a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!\n\nPOST: Got Home Skooled... kind of. The schooling part ended while I was a pre-teen that got my hands on a\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the Advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 26 y/o, no GED or diploma, making half of what I should make and just want an education, advice?<|endoftext|>

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I'm a 26 year old male with no ged/diploma. Making 50k a year and would rather have an education. Advice?!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 26, no GED/Diploma. Making 50k+ a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!\n\nPOST: Got Home Skooled... kind of. The schooling part ended while I was a pre-teen that got my hands on a\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the Advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a 26 year old male with no ged/diploma. Making 50k a year and would rather have an education. Advice?!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 26, no GED/Diploma. Making 50k+ a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!\n\nPOST: Got Home Skooled... kind of. The schooling part ended while I was a pre-teen that got my hands on a\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the Advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: never went to school, parents wanted me to be a preacher. didn't last. Been working since I was 14 and haven't stopped. My education is entirely based on the jobs I've worked, and my own self interest.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 26, no GED/Diploma. Making 50k+ a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!\n\nPOST: Got Home Skooled... kind of. The schooling part ended while I was a pre-teen that got my hands on a\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the Advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

26 y/o no GED/Diploma. Making 50k a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 26, no GED/Diploma. Making 50k+ a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!\n\nPOST: Got Home Skooled... kind of. The schooling part ended while I was a pre-teen that got my hands on a\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the Advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 26 y/o no GED/Diploma. Making 50k a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: 26, no GED/Diploma. Making 50k+ a year, but would rather have an education. Advice?!\n\nPOST: Got Home Skooled... kind of. The schooling part ended while I was a pre-teen that got my hands on a\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the Advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 26 y/o, no GED or diploma, making half of what I should make and just want an education, advice?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Not sure what I(17M) should do regarding the friendship I have with this girl (17F)\n\nPOST: So, to start this all off, this girl and I have been friends for four years, since 8th grade, where we "dated" and then just became really really good friends. Every relationship she had, I'd help her out with and vice versa. Since the start of 2013, we have both gradually shown more interest in the other. We both think the other one is really attractive, and both know that the other thinks that. Also, we both know that if we get alone, we'll end up making out. Each time we have hung out with friends and watch a movie, because we don't have cars, we end up cuddling and getting relatively touchy-feely. Now, I have 2 main problems. Problem One is that she doesn't want a legitimate relationship, or to start a "thing" with anyone, even though we already sorta have something going on. We've established that we're just friends, but she has said that if I initiate something, she wouldn't say no. Also, we're going to Prom together as friends, except I didn't really know we were just going as friends until she told my friend, who told me. Thats the second problem. The second problem is that as of today, she likes another guy, and considers me really clingy but would make out with me if It didn't mean anything. She told all those things to my friend, who told me without her knowing, so she doesn't know that I know these things. Gotta love High School. Also you should know how I feel about her right now: I just want to make out with her at this point, earlier I considered dating her but now since things have become stressful I don't think I could date her. I need a way of telling her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have a friend who seems to like me but doesn't want a relationship, and I don't know how to tell her that if we make out it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.<|endoftext|>

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I'm friends with this girl, we cuddle, and now she likes another dude and wants us to be exclusive. How do I tell her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Not sure what I(17M) should do regarding the friendship I have with this girl (17F)\n\nPOST: So, to start this all off, this girl and I have been friends for four years, since 8th grade, where we "dated" and then just became really really good friends. Every relationship she had, I'd help her out with and vice versa. Since the start of 2013, we have both gradually shown more interest in the other. We both think the other one is really attractive, and both know that the other thinks that. Also, we both know that if we get alone, we'll end up making out. Each time we have hung out with friends and watch a movie, because we don't have cars, we end up cuddling and getting relatively touchy-feely. Now, I have 2 main problems. Problem One is that she doesn't want a legitimate relationship, or to start a "thing" with anyone, even though we already sorta have something going on. We've established that we're just friends, but she has said that if I initiate something, she wouldn't say no. Also, we're going to Prom together as friends, except I didn't really know we were just going as friends until she told my friend, who told me. Thats the second problem. The second problem is that as of today, she likes another guy, and considers me really clingy but would make out with me if It didn't mean anything. She told all those things to my friend, who told me without her knowing, so she doesn't know that I know these things. Gotta love High School. Also you should know how I feel about her right now: I just want to make out with her at this point, earlier I considered dating her but now since things have become stressful I don't think I could date her. I need a way of telling her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a friend who seems to like me but doesn't want a relationship, and I don't know how to tell her that if we make out it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Not sure what I(17M) should do regarding the friendship I have with this girl (17F)\n\nPOST: So, to start this all off, this girl and I have been friends for four years, since 8th grade, where we "dated" and then just became really really good friends. Every relationship she had, I'd help her out with and vice versa. Since the start of 2013, we have both gradually shown more interest in the other. We both think the other one is really attractive, and both know that the other thinks that. Also, we both know that if we get alone, we'll end up making out. Each time we have hung out with friends and watch a movie, because we don't have cars, we end up cuddling and getting relatively touchy-feely. Now, I have 2 main problems. Problem One is that she doesn't want a legitimate relationship, or to start a "thing" with anyone, even though we already sorta have something going on. We've established that we're just friends, but she has said that if I initiate something, she wouldn't say no. Also, we're going to Prom together as friends, except I didn't really know we were just going as friends until she told my friend, who told me. Thats the second problem. The second problem is that as of today, she likes another guy, and considers me really clingy but would make out with me if It didn't mean anything. She told all those things to my friend, who told me without her knowing, so she doesn't know that I know these things. Gotta love High School. Also you should know how I feel about her right now: I just want to make out with her at this point, earlier I considered dating her but now since things have become stressful I don't think I could date her. I need a way of telling her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm friends with this girl, we cuddle, and now she likes another dude and wants us to be exclusive. How do I tell her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction?<|endoftext|>

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I have a friend who seems to like me but doesn't want a relationship, and I don't know how to tell her that if we make out it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Not sure what I(17M) should do regarding the friendship I have with this girl (17F)\n\nPOST: So, to start this all off, this girl and I have been friends for four years, since 8th grade, where we "dated" and then just became really really good friends. Every relationship she had, I'd help her out with and vice versa. Since the start of 2013, we have both gradually shown more interest in the other. We both think the other one is really attractive, and both know that the other thinks that. Also, we both know that if we get alone, we'll end up making out. Each time we have hung out with friends and watch a movie, because we don't have cars, we end up cuddling and getting relatively touchy-feely. Now, I have 2 main problems. Problem One is that she doesn't want a legitimate relationship, or to start a "thing" with anyone, even though we already sorta have something going on. We've established that we're just friends, but she has said that if I initiate something, she wouldn't say no. Also, we're going to Prom together as friends, except I didn't really know we were just going as friends until she told my friend, who told me. Thats the second problem. The second problem is that as of today, she likes another guy, and considers me really clingy but would make out with me if It didn't mean anything. She told all those things to my friend, who told me without her knowing, so she doesn't know that I know these things. Gotta love High School. Also you should know how I feel about her right now: I just want to make out with her at this point, earlier I considered dating her but now since things have become stressful I don't think I could date her. I need a way of telling her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a friend who seems to like me but doesn't want a relationship, and I don't know how to tell her that if we make out it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Not sure what I(17M) should do regarding the friendship I have with this girl (17F)\n\nPOST: So, to start this all off, this girl and I have been friends for four years, since 8th grade, where we "dated" and then just became really really good friends. Every relationship she had, I'd help her out with and vice versa. Since the start of 2013, we have both gradually shown more interest in the other. We both think the other one is really attractive, and both know that the other thinks that. Also, we both know that if we get alone, we'll end up making out. Each time we have hung out with friends and watch a movie, because we don't have cars, we end up cuddling and getting relatively touchy-feely. Now, I have 2 main problems. Problem One is that she doesn't want a legitimate relationship, or to start a "thing" with anyone, even though we already sorta have something going on. We've established that we're just friends, but she has said that if I initiate something, she wouldn't say no. Also, we're going to Prom together as friends, except I didn't really know we were just going as friends until she told my friend, who told me. Thats the second problem. The second problem is that as of today, she likes another guy, and considers me really clingy but would make out with me if It didn't mean anything. She told all those things to my friend, who told me without her knowing, so she doesn't know that I know these things. Gotta love High School. Also you should know how I feel about her right now: I just want to make out with her at this point, earlier I considered dating her but now since things have become stressful I don't think I could date her. I need a way of telling her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Going to prom (as friends) with a girl who likes another guy, who considers me really clingy, doesn't know I know how she feels about me, and wavers between whether she wants me or not. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Not sure what I(17M) should do regarding the friendship I have with this girl (17F)\n\nPOST: So, to start this all off, this girl and I have been friends for four years, since 8th grade, where we "dated" and then just became really really good friends. Every relationship she had, I'd help her out with and vice versa. Since the start of 2013, we have both gradually shown more interest in the other. We both think the other one is really attractive, and both know that the other thinks that. Also, we both know that if we get alone, we'll end up making out. Each time we have hung out with friends and watch a movie, because we don't have cars, we end up cuddling and getting relatively touchy-feely. Now, I have 2 main problems. Problem One is that she doesn't want a legitimate relationship, or to start a "thing" with anyone, even though we already sorta have something going on. We've established that we're just friends, but she has said that if I initiate something, she wouldn't say no. Also, we're going to Prom together as friends, except I didn't really know we were just going as friends until she told my friend, who told me. Thats the second problem. The second problem is that as of today, she likes another guy, and considers me really clingy but would make out with me if It didn't mean anything. She told all those things to my friend, who told me without her knowing, so she doesn't know that I know these things. Gotta love High School. Also you should know how I feel about her right now: I just want to make out with her at this point, earlier I considered dating her but now since things have become stressful I don't think I could date her. I need a way of telling her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have a great friend, we show signs of affection but aren't sure if it's relationship material. I need a way to tell her that if we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Not sure what I(17M) should do regarding the friendship I have with this girl (17F)\n\nPOST: So, to start this all off, this girl and I have been friends for four years, since 8th grade, where we "dated" and then just became really really good friends. Every relationship she had, I'd help her out with and vice versa. Since the start of 2013, we have both gradually shown more interest in the other. We both think the other one is really attractive, and both know that the other thinks that. Also, we both know that if we get alone, we'll end up making out. Each time we have hung out with friends and watch a movie, because we don't have cars, we end up cuddling and getting relatively touchy-feely. Now, I have 2 main problems. Problem One is that she doesn't want a legitimate relationship, or to start a "thing" with anyone, even though we already sorta have something going on. We've established that we're just friends, but she has said that if I initiate something, she wouldn't say no. Also, we're going to Prom together as friends, except I didn't really know we were just going as friends until she told my friend, who told me. Thats the second problem. The second problem is that as of today, she likes another guy, and considers me really clingy but would make out with me if It didn't mean anything. She told all those things to my friend, who told me without her knowing, so she doesn't know that I know these things. Gotta love High School. Also you should know how I feel about her right now: I just want to make out with her at this point, earlier I considered dating her but now since things have become stressful I don't think I could date her. I need a way of telling her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a great friend, we show signs of affection but aren't sure if it's relationship material. I need a way to tell her that if we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Not sure what I(17M) should do regarding the friendship I have with this girl (17F)\n\nPOST: So, to start this all off, this girl and I have been friends for four years, since 8th grade, where we "dated" and then just became really really good friends. Every relationship she had, I'd help her out with and vice versa. Since the start of 2013, we have both gradually shown more interest in the other. We both think the other one is really attractive, and both know that the other thinks that. Also, we both know that if we get alone, we'll end up making out. Each time we have hung out with friends and watch a movie, because we don't have cars, we end up cuddling and getting relatively touchy-feely. Now, I have 2 main problems. Problem One is that she doesn't want a legitimate relationship, or to start a "thing" with anyone, even though we already sorta have something going on. We've established that we're just friends, but she has said that if I initiate something, she wouldn't say no. Also, we're going to Prom together as friends, except I didn't really know we were just going as friends until she told my friend, who told me. Thats the second problem. The second problem is that as of today, she likes another guy, and considers me really clingy but would make out with me if It didn't mean anything. She told all those things to my friend, who told me without her knowing, so she doesn't know that I know these things. Gotta love High School. Also you should know how I feel about her right now: I just want to make out with her at this point, earlier I considered dating her but now since things have become stressful I don't think I could date her. I need a way of telling her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm friends with this girl, we cuddle, and now she likes another dude and wants us to be exclusive. How do I tell her that If we made out, it wouldn't mean anything beyond mutual attraction?<|endoftext|>

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