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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. " }, { "text": " How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say \"no thanks\" via text?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Too vague. Who is the guy, and what is his relationship to the author? " } ]

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Clear. " }, { "text": " I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay, if not a bit vague. I assume author needs advice on how to turn someone down gently. " } ]

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "This is clear." }, { "text": " How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say \"no thanks\" via text?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "This is pretty clear but it would help to know if the \"him\" and \"interested in\" is referring to a romantic relationship." } ]

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Not-so-close fiend kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like she did it to get back at him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My teammate kissed me but I'm not sure if it's normal or if it's just something we do here in Morocco. Is this weird? Or is that normal?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama. Not sure if its weird or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama. Not sure if its weird or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: a teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I'm worried it's some weird "normal" thing that girls do in Morocco<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama. Not sure if its weird or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama. Not sure if its weird or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Not-so-close fiend kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like she did it to get back at him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama. Not sure if its weird or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama. Not sure if its weird or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My teammate kissed me but I'm not sure if it's normal or if it's just something we do here in Morocco. Is this weird? Or is that normal?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

a teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I'm worried it's some weird "normal" thing that girls do in Morocco<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: a teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I'm worried it's some weird "normal" thing that girls do in Morocco<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Not-so-close fiend kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I feel like she did it to get back at him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My teammate kissed me but I'm not sure if it's normal or if it's just something we do here in Morocco. Is this weird? Or is that normal?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My teammate kissed me but I'm not sure if it's normal or if it's just something we do here in Morocco. Is this weird? Or is that normal?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [18 M] teammate [19 F] just kissed me (in the cheek) in front of her boyfriend[23 M] and I feel like I'm being dragged into their drama.\n\nPOST: So I have a paper to writewith a teammate from the class that I wouldn't really describe as a friend, the closest we got to friends is walk together after class if we're headed the same way. So we had planned to meet in the lab to work on our paper, and she came late (a friend told me because she had an argument with her boyfriend, but I didn't really pay attention to it) After about to hours her boyfriend comes in and tells her to go somewhere with him as they planned and she seemed to be really upset with him but for some reason she decided she'll go anyway. She left the lab before he did and on her way out she leaned in and kissed me goodbye. I saw him right after she did and he didn't seem very comfortable. Is this weird? Or is it just some normal thing that people do? To clarify, I live in Morocco,a nd kissing you close friends in the cheek is pretty common here, the boyfriend is an American exchange student,a nd the girl and I are Moroccan\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: a teammate kissed me in front of her boyfriend and I'm worried it's some weird "normal" thing that girls do in Morocco<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

permanently dismissed from college, finally found my passion, would like to eventually have degree to go further in career, how do I get back into college after being permanently dismissed?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: permanently dismissed from college, finally found my passion, would like to eventually have degree to go further in career, how do I get back into college after being permanently dismissed?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Dropped out of University, went to work at station, realize I love it, want to stay in the field where I can contribute, how do I get back into school?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

University dismissed me. I realized later that I want to pursue my career. How am I ever going to get back into school and get my degree?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: University dismissed me. I realized later that I want to pursue my career. How am I ever going to get back into school and get my degree?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Failed horribly as a student and now have a chance to get back in school. How to get back into school when I permanently lose my spot?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: permanently dismissed from college, finally found my passion, would like to eventually have degree to go further in career, how do I get back into college after being permanently dismissed?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Failed horribly as a student and now have a chance to get back in school. How to get back into school when I permanently lose my spot?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

University dismissed me. I realized later that I want to pursue my career. How am I ever going to get back into school and get my degree?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: University dismissed me. I realized later that I want to pursue my career. How am I ever going to get back into school and get my degree?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Dropped out of University, went to work at station, realize I love it, want to stay in the field where I can contribute, how do I get back into school?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: permanently dismissed from college, finally found my passion, would like to eventually have degree to go further in career, how do I get back into college after being permanently dismissed?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Life and Irony and growing up.\n\nPOST: I will try and be brief. Ive been at University for many years now and have never been a great student. I only truly went to college because I thought that's just what was expected of me. I failed time and time again and switched majors as well. Well I was dismissed for a year and came back because "I had figured it out" and for a year and a half I made decent grades and did better, but then I quickly realized I hated computer programming, it made me sick to my stomach. And after this semester I will be permanently dismissed from my University. Ironically, I have recently started working at the NBC station in my city and I have realized that I love it (the irony part is that I was a journalism student years ago and failed miserably at it) and that this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and that I now have clear direction and goals for my education. I will need a degree to move on to bigger and better news markets and I realize that this is what I want and I would be willing to put in the sacrifice to make that happen. SO my plan is going to be to become great at my job and show them that I really want to be there and become a valuable asset to them. But, how am I ever going to get back into school in the future after being permanently dismissed from my current university?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: University dismissed me. I realized later that I want to pursue my career. How am I ever going to get back into school and get my degree?<|endoftext|>

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Husband's lying has become a huge issue in our marriage. Need to know how to combat it so that I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. Looking for helpful material.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Husband's lying has become a huge issue in our marriage. Need to know how to combat it so that I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. Looking for helpful material.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need help making my husband stop gaslighting me. He's a compulsive liar and it's starting to ruin our relationship. What can I do to combat it?<|endoftext|>

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I need help making my husband stop gaslighting me. He's a compulsive liar and it's starting to ruin our relationship. What can I do to combat it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need help making my husband stop gaslighting me. He's a compulsive liar and it's starting to ruin our relationship. What can I do to combat it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My husband is a lying narcissistic gaslighter but he's mine and I love him. How do I beat him at his own game?<|endoftext|>

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I need help making my husband stop gaslighting me. He's a compulsive liar and it's starting to ruin our relationship. What can I do to combat it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need help making my husband stop gaslighting me. He's a compulsive liar and it's starting to ruin our relationship. What can I do to combat it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need to know how to stop my husband from gaslighting me so that I can be happy in our marriage. Looking for a way to do it.<|endoftext|>

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Husband's lying has become a huge issue in our marriage. Need to know how to combat it so that I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. Looking for helpful material.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Husband's lying has become a huge issue in our marriage. Need to know how to combat it so that I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. Looking for helpful material.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My husband is a lying narcissistic gaslighter but he's mine and I love him. How do I beat him at his own game?<|endoftext|>

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Husband's lying has become a huge issue in our marriage. Need to know how to combat it so that I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. Looking for helpful material.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Husband's lying has become a huge issue in our marriage. Need to know how to combat it so that I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. Looking for helpful material.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [F34] need to know how to stop husband's [M34] gaslighting\n\nPOST: Married 3 years, second marriage for us both. We have 4 kids, two are mine, two are his. I love him and despite what I'm about to say, he's a great guy. Successful and smart and affectionate and loyal. He's an amazing father and we have a really fun life. I have long known he was a compulsive liar but it always seemed to be little things that didn't matter (what he ate for lunch, what he said in a text to his mother, etc). His lying has become a major issue in our marriage though. I don't trust a thing he says. It's causing huge insecurities for me in the relationship. He's finally started making efforts to be blunt and honest with me and I'm feeling hopeful. He is saying things I never thought I'd hear from him. (I'm not delusional, I know what I'm dealing with here.) Today I learned a new word: gas lighting. Holy crap this guy has a masters degree in it. I don't think he does it on purpose though. I'm not leaving him so I need to know how to combat this crap so I'm not stuck playing this stupid game. I looked online but all I see are ways to spot the tactics, no advice on how to combat it. Can anyone provide a link to helpful material or share their experiences and insight?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need to know how to stop my husband from gaslighting me so that I can be happy in our marriage. Looking for a way to do it.<|endoftext|>

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