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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is going on vacation without me. He's always been the free spirit and likes to travel and be away from home. I'm jealous but I don't want to act on it because I don't want to seem like a cling<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend's going on another vacation without me. He thinks spending time apart is a good thing for our relationship. I beg to differ.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends without me. I want to go along, but don't know if I should say something first or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends without me. I want to go along, but don't know if I should say something first or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is going on vacation without me. He's always been the free spirit and likes to travel and be away from home. I'm jealous but I don't want to act on it because I don't want to seem like a cling<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends, without me. I feel jealous (and shitty about being left behind). Should I say anything?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends, without me. I feel jealous (and shitty about being left behind). Should I say anything?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is going on vacation without me. He's always been the free spirit and likes to travel and be away from home. I'm jealous but I don't want to act on it because I don't want to seem like a cling<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends without me. I want to go along, but don't know if I should say something first or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends without me. I want to go along, but don't know if I should say something first or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend's going on another vacation without me. He thinks spending time apart is a good thing for our relationship. I beg to differ.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends, without me. I feel jealous (and shitty about being left behind). Should I say anything?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends, without me. I feel jealous (and shitty about being left behind). Should I say anything?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends without me. I want to go along, but don't know if I should say something first or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends, without me. I feel jealous (and shitty about being left behind). Should I say anything?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends, without me. I feel jealous (and shitty about being left behind). Should I say anything?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] is going on another vacation without me [F24]. His sister and a couple of their friends are going. Why can I? Am I being clingy?\n\nPOST: I've been feeling really down lately, so I figured I'd ask for other opinions on this. He's [M26] and I'm [F24]. We've been in a serious relationship for about eight months. This afternoon, my boyfriend non-chalantly informed me that he'd be gone for a week because he's going on vacation with his sister and a couple of their friends. He said they were going to Atlantis (sp?) in the Bahamas in a couple of weeks. I've never heard of the place, so I don't know anything about it. I'll admit that I'm jealous because I want to go and spend time with him. But I didn't want to invite myself, so I didn't say anything. He did the same thing on July 4th -- which we didn't get to spend together because he went on a trip with his sister and their friends to Northern Michigan; where they spent a long weekend celebrating on the lake. It's not like we had any plans or anything, but it would've been nice to get invited along, especially since it was a holiday. He always encourages me to travel and spend time with my friends, which I do. But, I want to travel and spend time WITH HIM. When we're together, we get along great and he treats me really well. I just wish he'd take me along sometimes instead of leaving me behind. He really values his freedom and independence, so I'm kinda afraid to say anything. My friends think I should invite myself along but I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Should I just let this go or should I say something to him? Last time I tried talking to him about this, he told me he wouldn't mind if I went on a vacation with my friends without him. Ugh.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend's going on another vacation without me. He thinks spending time apart is a good thing for our relationship. I beg to differ.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I like this girl we're both 14 and she knows I like her but she just says that I'm just a brother to her how exacly should I show her that we'd be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl we're both 14 and she knows I like her but she just says that I'm just a brother to her how exacly should I show her that we'd be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl I were best friends she know I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so I cant see how it could be weird, I want to show her that I like her and she'd like<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

liked this girl for two years but she says I'm like a brother how do I show her that we would be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: liked this girl for two years but she says I'm like a brother how do I show her that we would be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl she knows I like her but she says I'm like a brother to her, want to show her that we would be good together and how I could do it but I don't know how, what would you guys do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

liked this girl for two years but she says I'm like a brother how do I show her that we would be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: liked this girl for two years but she says I'm like a brother how do I show her that we would be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl I were best friends she know I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so I cant see how it could be weird, I want to show her that I like her and she'd like<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I like this girl we're both 14 and she knows I like her but she just says that I'm just a brother to her how exacly should I show her that we'd be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl we're both 14 and she knows I like her but she just says that I'm just a brother to her how exacly should I show her that we'd be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: liked this girl for two years but she says I'm like a brother how do I show her that we would be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I like this girl she knows I like her but she says I'm like a brother to her, want to show her that we would be good together and how I could do it but I don't know how, what would you guys do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl she knows I like her but she says I'm like a brother to her, want to show her that we would be good together and how I could do it but I don't know how, what would you guys do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl I were best friends she know I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so I cant see how it could be weird, I want to show her that I like her and she'd like<|endoftext|>

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I like this girl we're both 14 and she knows I like her but she just says that I'm just a brother to her how exacly should I show her that we'd be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl we're both 14 and she knows I like her but she just says that I'm just a brother to her how exacly should I show her that we'd be good together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Brother zoned\n\nPOST: I've been friends with this girl for 6+ years were like best friends we can tell eachother anything I've liked her for about 2 ish years now she knows I like her but she just says that I'm like a brother to her so it would just be weird, personally I don't see why it would be weird we would be good together everyone thinks that well everyone but her, we're both 14 and I were going to be going to the same highschool (I moved schools for a year) and I want to show her or some how get her to see that we'd be good together how exacly would you think I should do that?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl she knows I like her but she says I'm like a brother to her, want to show her that we would be good together and how I could do it but I don't know how, what would you guys do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I feel uncomfortable with it and want him to stop. Am I being ridiculous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I feel uncomfortable with it and want him to stop. Am I being ridiculous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend subbed to r/gonewild girl's subreddit. He downloads her pictures and frequently downloads them in front of me. Makes me uncomfortable and I don't know how to tell him how it makes me feel.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I feel uncomfortable with it and want him to stop. Am I being ridiculous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I feel uncomfortable with it and want him to stop. Am I being ridiculous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit and frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me feel insecure. Am I being ridiculous for feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I feel uncomfortable with it and want him to stop. Am I being ridiculous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I feel uncomfortable with it and want him to stop. Am I being ridiculous?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's sub who posts daily and he downloads and views her picture often. I hate it and wish he wouldn't do it. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Boyfriend subbed to r/gonewild girl's subreddit. He downloads her pictures and frequently downloads them in front of me. Makes me uncomfortable and I don't know how to tell him how it makes me feel.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend subbed to r/gonewild girl's subreddit. He downloads her pictures and frequently downloads them in front of me. Makes me uncomfortable and I don't know how to tell him how it makes me feel.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's sub who posts daily and he downloads and views her picture often. I hate it and wish he wouldn't do it. What do?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Boyfriend subbed to r/gonewild girl's subreddit. He downloads her pictures and frequently downloads them in front of me. Makes me uncomfortable and I don't know how to tell him how it makes me feel.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Lacking in conciseness. But ok.\n\n---------------\n\nThe stated purpose is incorrect - \"I don't know how to tell him how it makes me feel\" - when in fact the author wants opinions on whether her feelings are warranted or not. " }, { "text": " Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit and frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me feel insecure. Am I being ridiculous for feeling this way?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n\n---------------\n\nThe summary says this makes the author feel insecure, though she doesn't specifically say this in the text (she says 'uncomfortable' and 'upset')." } ]

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit and frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me feel insecure. Am I being ridiculous for feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit and frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me feel insecure. Am I being ridiculous for feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend subbed to r/gonewild girl's subreddit. He downloads her pictures and frequently downloads them in front of me. Makes me uncomfortable and I don't know how to tell him how it makes me feel.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit and frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me feel insecure. Am I being ridiculous for feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's subreddit and frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me feel insecure. Am I being ridiculous for feeling this way?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [21F] SO [24M] of 1 year is subbed to a r/gonewild girl's subreddit who posts daily and he frequently downloads her pictures. I hate it and it makes me uncomfortable.\n\nPOST: Pretty much the title. I'm fine with porn, but am generally very uncomfortable with gonewild, which my boyfriend browses occasionally. But I can't make demands or ask my boyfriend to stop just because it makes me feel insecure. I dislike gonewild because, as is often said by other girls who have this same issue, it's not porn where there's a distance between the girl and the viewer. Also the girls are posting specifically for the attention of guys - my boyfriend included. It's very social and personal and I really dislike it, but whatever. The fact that he is subbed to a *particular* girl and frequently downloads her pictures is just 10x worse. Before people ask, I know he does this because I had to download something on his computer the other day and it automatically opened up to the folder he downloads her pictures to. Her folder is also listed under frequently browsed and under quick access. He's also saved her posts in front of me and downloaded her posts in front of me as well. And sometimes they're not even nude photos. They're just her face with a cute titled post. Ugh. It makes me feel like shit and I hate it. I want to tell him how it makes me feel, and I guess that would help. But I don't think it would be fair for me to ask him to stop even though I really wish he would. And I feel like he'd continue to do it even if he knew it upsets me. I feel like it just doesn't matter how I feel. Am I being ridiculous?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is subbed to a gonewild girl's sub who posts daily and he downloads and views her picture often. I hate it and wish he wouldn't do it. What do?<|endoftext|>

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Met an amazing girl, she moved for work, wants to do long-distance, but I don't feel comfortable with it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met an amazing girl, she moved for work, wants to do long-distance, but I don't feel comfortable with it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to consider long distance relationship, is I'm scared that it will ruin us. How do I convince her that it won't?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm worried long distance will destroy everything we had together. Need advice on how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm worried long distance will destroy everything we had together. Need advice on how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm not ready. Worried that it'll ruin everything we have. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm not ready. Worried that it'll ruin everything we have. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm not ready. Worried that it'll ruin everything we have. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to consider long distance relationship, is I'm scared that it will ruin us. How do I convince her that it won't?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm worried long distance will destroy everything we had together. Need advice on how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm worried long distance will destroy everything we had together. Need advice on how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to consider long distance relationship, is I'm scared that it will ruin us. How do I convince her that it won't?<|endoftext|>

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Met an amazing girl, she moved for work, wants to do long-distance, but I don't feel comfortable with it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met an amazing girl, she moved for work, wants to do long-distance, but I don't feel comfortable with it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm worried long distance will destroy everything we had together. Need advice on how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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Met an amazing girl, she moved for work, wants to do long-distance, but I don't feel comfortable with it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Met an amazing girl, she moved for work, wants to do long-distance, but I don't feel comfortable with it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship\n\nPOST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's beautiful, incredibly smart, and kind. We have very compatible lifestyles and also share common long-term goals. She recently got a job offer on the west coast (I'm on east coast) and it's a great opportunity for her. We agreed she should definitely take it, but I was honest that I like my life / job / family here, and don't intend to leave. She wants to pursue a long distance relationship, which I'm not really comfortable with. I would rather keep the memories we have together, instead of introducing the challenges / frustration of distance, which puts strain on even the strongest relationships. She's sad because I'm not giving it a chance, but I also feel like there's no end in sight. Normally with distance, you know when you'll be back together, but this is all just unknowns. She's been gone for a month now, and I miss her every day. I've never felt like this in my life. She still calls to check in sometimes, and hearing her voice lights up my entire day. I know she wants me to reconsider, but I'm scared that long distance will ruin everything we had. My only past experience with long distance was really negative. The girl ended up being "too busy" to talk for days on end, and eventually turned out she was cheating on me. I know it's not fair to carry that to this new relationship, but I guess I can't get rid of how much that hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wants to try long distance, I'm not ready. Worried that it'll ruin everything we have. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

thinking of breaking up with SO of 2 years. scared of screwing up our school priorities. what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: thinking of breaking up with SO of 2 years. scared of screwing up our school priorities. what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Not sure if I should break up with my SO because I have pressure from school and can't be with him anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have been thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO of 2 years. We both have finals in one month and I'm afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities.<|endoftext|>

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Not sure if I should break up with my SO because I have pressure from school and can't be with him anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have been thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO of 2 years. We both have finals in one month and I'm afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Not sure if I should break up with my SO because I have pressure from school and can't be with him anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

thinking of breaking up with SO of 2 years. scared of screwing up our school priorities. what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: thinking of breaking up with SO of 2 years. scared of screwing up our school priorities. what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I guess what I'm asking is-- if neither of us are being hurt by our current situation however I know I want to end things but don't want to so close to finals... am I being a terrible person for staying?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have been thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO of 2 years. We both have finals in one month and I'm afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities.<|endoftext|>

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I guess what I'm asking is-- if neither of us are being hurt by our current situation however I know I want to end things but don't want to so close to finals... am I being a terrible person for staying?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have been thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO of 2 years. We both have finals in one month and I'm afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I guess what I'm asking is-- if neither of us are being hurt by our current situation however I know I want to end things but don't want to so close to finals... am I being a terrible person for staying?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have been thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO of 2 years. We both have finals in one month and I'm afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities.<|endoftext|>

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thinking of breaking up with SO of 2 years. scared of screwing up our school priorities. what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have been thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO of 2 years. We both have finals in one month and I'm afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] thinking about the timing of a break up with my SO [23M] of 2 years.\n\nPOST: Long story short, I am afraid I am just sticking with our relationship just to not screw up either of our school priorities. We both have finals in less than one month, with a lot of pressure on them (seniors). Our relationship is not stressful in any way for either of us, I have fun with him but I know he's not someone I want to keep dating after I graduate. We have talked about what to do after graduation and I have said I will be somewhere far away and won't have time for an SO. He has said he wants to stay friends and I agree.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: thinking of breaking up with SO of 2 years. scared of screwing up our school priorities. what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " TIFU by thinking I was being funny by saying I thought semen was yummy to my teacher who was most likely in shock.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n-------------------\n\nThe ending of the summary is a little off - giving undue importance to \"who was most likely in shock\"\n" }, { "text": " thought I was being funny and said \"yummy\" when my teacher said \"full of mucus\", teacher was probably in shock and I was also probably in shock.", "policy": "sup4_t0.7", "note": "Confusing lack of details.\n\n---------------------\n\nWithout mentioning semen, the summary fails to convey the problem.\n\n\"I was also probably in shock\" is not something the author states." } ]

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

TIFU by thinking I was being funny by saying I thought semen was yummy to my teacher who was most likely in shock.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by thinking I was being funny by saying I thought semen was yummy to my teacher who was most likely in shock.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: thought I was being funny and said "yummy" when my teacher said "full of mucus", teacher was probably in shock and I was also probably in shock.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " TIFU by thinking I was being funny by saying I thought semen was yummy to my teacher who was most likely in shock.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n-------------------\n\nThe ending of the summary is a little off - giving undue importance to \"who was most likely in shock\"\n" }, { "text": " I wasn't paying attention and class and sarcastically shouted out \"yummy\" when my teacher was talking about the mucus in semen.", "policy": "ref", "note": "The first 'and' should be 'in' but otherwise ok. \n\n---------------\n \n" } ]

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I wasn't paying attention and class and sarcastically shouted out "yummy" when my teacher was talking about the mucus in semen.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I wasn't paying attention and class and sarcastically shouted out "yummy" when my teacher was talking about the mucus in semen.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by thinking I was being funny by saying I thought semen was yummy to my teacher who was most likely in shock.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I wasn't paying attention and class and sarcastically shouted out "yummy" when my teacher was talking about the mucus in semen.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I wasn't paying attention and class and sarcastically shouted out "yummy" when my teacher was talking about the mucus in semen.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Thought about sex, actually meant semen. Teacher asks me if I meant semen. I say yes. Teacher thinks I meant semen and thinks I'm a pervert.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

thought I was being funny and said "yummy" when my teacher said "full of mucus", teacher was probably in shock and I was also probably in shock.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: thought I was being funny and said "yummy" when my teacher said "full of mucus", teacher was probably in shock and I was also probably in shock.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Thought about sex, actually meant semen. Teacher asks me if I meant semen. I say yes. Teacher thinks I meant semen and thinks I'm a pervert.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I wasn't paying attention and class and sarcastically shouted out "yummy" when my teacher was talking about the mucus in semen.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I wasn't paying attention and class and sarcastically shouted out "yummy" when my teacher was talking about the mucus in semen.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: thought I was being funny and said "yummy" when my teacher said "full of mucus", teacher was probably in shock and I was also probably in shock.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

TIFU by thinking I was being funny by saying I thought semen was yummy to my teacher who was most likely in shock.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by thinking I was being funny by saying I thought semen was yummy to my teacher who was most likely in shock.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by telling my whole class I thought semen was delicious NSFW\n\nPOST: TIFU by **Idk if this is actually NSFW because I'm talking about things that were discussed in a high school biology class but I thought I'd play it safe** This happened to me back in high school and it's one of those moments that still passes my mind as being excruciatingly embarrassing. So a little info about me: I am a very sarcastic person. Not only that but to make my personality even more annoying, my sarcasm is often undetectable. I've been told even by close friends that they can't tell whether I'm being serious or not. Another thing to add is that, like most people, I usually say things without thinking. Okay I'm realizing now that these are all just excuses for what happened so let me just get on with my story. Oh one more thing that might not matter but I am of the female gender. I was sitting in my high school biology class, bored out of my mind per usual. Focusing has always been super hard for me so I was doodling on my paper instead of taking notes (wow I have so many excuses for myself this is getting ridiculous). Anyways, I had no idea what the teacher was talking about and I was just scribbling away and probably thinking about what I was going to eat for lunch that day. So my selective hearing turned on when I heard my teacher say words like "full of mucus" and other gross words I can't remember. So since I thought I was being hilarious, still looking down at my blank notes, without thinking I said "yummy!". The teacher got silent so I looked up to see that she was talking about the contents of semen. My teacher was probably in shock and it took her a couple seconds to regain her train of thought before she continued teaching.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Thought about sex, actually meant semen. Teacher asks me if I meant semen. I say yes. Teacher thinks I meant semen and thinks I'm a pervert.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Ok --------------- A and D are pretty similar and have different pieces of accurate informatioin, but I think A is more clear and therefore possibly better." }, { "text": " How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say \"no thanks\" via text?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Ok" } ]

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Ok --------------- A and D are pretty similar and have different pieces of accurate informatioin, but I think A is more clear and therefore possibly better." }, { "text": " boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Ok" } ]

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Ok\n\n\n------------------\n\nThe summary states incorrectly that she has moved on from this guy to another - but the text does not say this. Indeed, it seems she was dating the second guy already." }, { "text": " boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Ok" } ]

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay.\n\nWill get responses similar to original post." }, { "text": " How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say \"no thanks\" via text?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Who is him? Husband, Date, etc.? \n\"Is it weird to say \"no thanks\" via text?\" -inappropriate question to previous information." } ]

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay.\n\nWill get responses similar to original post." }, { "text": " boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. " } ]

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. " }, { "text": " How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say \"no thanks\" via text?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Who is him? Husband, Date, etc.? \n\"Is it weird to say \"no thanks\" via text?\" -inappropriate question to previous information." } ]

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. " }, { "text": " I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay, if not a bit vague. I assume author needs advice on how to turn someone down gently. " } ]

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boy asks me out, I go on two dates, afterwards he keeps texting/calling me, but I don't want to see him. how do I tell him this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay, if not a bit vague. I assume author needs advice on how to turn someone down gently. " }, { "text": " How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say \"no thanks\" via text?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Too vague. Who is the guy, and what is his relationship to the author? " } ]

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating?\n\nPOST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

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