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Roommate gets angry when I spend free weekends with girlfriend. Feels I should be spending more time doing things he wants to do. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate gets angry when I spend free weekends with girlfriend. Feels I should be spending more time doing things he wants to do. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate is passive and expects me to be his side piece without reciprocating friendship. I don't feel like I owe him an explanation for his behavior, and I feel like I'm being ignored. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My roommate is a dick to me over little things, and I'm not sure whether to tell him to his face or just ignore it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My roommate is a dick to me over little things, and I'm not sure whether to tell him to his face or just ignore it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate is passive and expects me to be his side piece without reciprocating friendship. I don't feel like I owe him an explanation for his behavior, and I feel like I'm being ignored. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Roommate gets angry when I spend free weekends with girlfriend. Feels I should be spending more time doing things he wants to do. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate gets angry when I spend free weekends with girlfriend. Feels I should be spending more time doing things he wants to do. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend and roommate is losing interest in me and I don't know if I should be concerned or give him the benefit of the doubt.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My roommate is a dick to me over little things, and I'm not sure whether to tell him to his face or just ignore it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My roommate is a dick to me over little things, and I'm not sure whether to tell him to his face or just ignore it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend and roommate is losing interest in me and I don't know if I should be concerned or give him the benefit of the doubt.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Roommate is passive and expects me to be his side piece without reciprocating friendship. I don't feel like I owe him an explanation for his behavior, and I feel like I'm being ignored. What should I do?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Overall, coherent - but sentences do not flow well, making summary hard to read\n\n" }, { "text": " My best friend and roommate is losing interest in me and I don't know if I should be concerned or give him the benefit of the doubt.", "policy": "sup4_t0.7", "note": "Overall, coherent - implies that the author is afraid that their friendship with their best friend/roommate is fading" } ]

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My best friend and roommate is losing interest in me and I don't know if I should be concerned or give him the benefit of the doubt.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend and roommate is losing interest in me and I don't know if I should be concerned or give him the benefit of the doubt.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate is passive and expects me to be his side piece without reciprocating friendship. I don't feel like I owe him an explanation for his behavior, and I feel like I'm being ignored. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate gets angry when I spend free weekends with girlfriend. Feels I should be spending more time doing things he wants to do. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Need Advice\n\nPOST: So, here is my issue Reddit. I (m/27) have been friends with my roommate (m/28) for the last eight years, seven of which we have spent as roommates. He is a nice enough guy, but in the last year we've been beginning to grow apart. He really likes to party, get drunk and smoke a lot of weed, and I can't really do that... also, I've started seeing somebody. It's been just under a year and we're head over heals in love. The gf (f/25) and I are not in the same location currently, however, so we split weekends traveling to each other. This has caused a bit of friction between my roommate and I. He gets super offended that I spend my free time with her and not with him (though, I've invited him to join us in doing activities like hiking, biking and beach trips. I know it's hard to be a third wheel, but he's made zero attempt. I've always made attempts with his girlfriends in the past. He is currently single). Now I get "lectures" every time it's my turn to travel. "Don't ignore your friends, man". I don't feel that I'm ignoring them; I still hang out with friends, I just do it on my own terms now. I do things that I think are fun. When he makes an effort to do something I like to do, too, I join. When he makes no effort, I don't join. I already know, relationship or not, that when the lease is up I will not be renewing with him. How should I handle his passive "lectures" and confrontations, Reddit? Am I completely off base in this? I have a great relationship and I love this girl. I don't want to cut my friend, but it feels like he's expecting me to be his lackey without reciprocating friendship. I feel like I don't really owe him any explanation -- if he's not man enough to come to me to my face but, rather, complains about me behind my back, do I really owe him the courtesy he's not extending me?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My roommate is a dick to me over little things, and I'm not sure whether to tell him to his face or just ignore it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend of one year cheated on me. I want to move in with him and I'm worried about our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend of one year cheated on me. I want to move in with him and I'm worried about our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend of one year cheated on me. I want to move in with him and I'm worried about our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My relationship has gotten a little rocky, and I'm trying to figure out if moving in with him is worth it or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My relationship has gotten a little rocky, and I'm trying to figure out if moving in with him is worth it or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My relationship has gotten a little rocky, and I'm trying to figure out if moving in with him is worth it or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My relationship has gotten a little rocky, and I'm trying to figure out if moving in with him is worth it or not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend has made out with a girl a year ago while we were dating. I've been cheating on him with other people. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend of one year cheated on me. I want to move in with him and I'm worried about our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend of one year cheated on me. I want to move in with him and I'm worried about our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend has made out with a girl a year ago while we were dating. I've been cheating on him with other people. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23M] of one year, can't figure out how healthy our relationship is.\n\nPOST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend has made out with a girl a year ago while we were dating. I've been cheating on him with other people. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long-distance girlfriend has trouble making friends, gets upset about it, anything I say angers her. Don't know what I'm supposed to do in these situations.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long-distance girlfriend has trouble making friends, gets upset about it, anything I say angers her. Don't know what I'm supposed to do in these situations.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend gets upset about the fact that she doesn't have a lot of friends and gets really mad when I try to console/help/suggest. What am I supposed to say?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Girlfriend has some problems with social interaction and I can't help her or say anything to make her feel better without her getting mad at me. How to fix this problem?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n---------------\nSummary doesn't mention the LDR.\n\nWith 'How to fix this problem?', the summary implies the purpose of the post is helping her find friends, when in fact the author posted for advice on how to communicate with gf on this issue without offending or upsetting. " }, { "text": " Girlfriend gets upset about the fact that she doesn't have a lot of friends and gets really mad when I try to console/help/suggest. What am I supposed to say?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n-----------\n\nSummary doesn't mention the LDR." } ]

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend gets upset about the fact that she doesn't have a lot of friends and gets really mad when I try to console/help/suggest. What am I supposed to say?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend gets upset about the fact that she doesn't have a lot of friends and gets really mad when I try to console/help/suggest. What am I supposed to say?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend has some problems with social interaction and I can't help her or say anything to make her feel better without her getting mad at me. How to fix this problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long-distance girlfriend has trouble making friends, gets upset about it, anything I say angers her. Don't know what I'm supposed to do in these situations.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long-distance girlfriend has trouble making friends, gets upset about it, anything I say angers her. Don't know what I'm supposed to do in these situations.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long-distance girlfriend gets mad at me if I say anything that will make her feel better. When I try to offer advice/comfort she ignores me and gets angry. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend gets upset about the fact that she doesn't have a lot of friends and gets really mad when I try to console/help/suggest. What am I supposed to say?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend gets upset about the fact that she doesn't have a lot of friends and gets really mad when I try to console/help/suggest. What am I supposed to say?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long-distance girlfriend gets mad at me if I say anything that will make her feel better. When I try to offer advice/comfort she ignores me and gets angry. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

long-distance girlfriend has trouble making friends, gets upset about it, anything I say angers her. Don't know what I'm supposed to do in these situations.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long-distance girlfriend has trouble making friends, gets upset about it, anything I say angers her. Don't know what I'm supposed to do in these situations.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend has some problems with social interaction and I can't help her or say anything to make her feel better without her getting mad at me. How to fix this problem?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Girlfriend has some problems with social interaction and I can't help her or say anything to make her feel better without her getting mad at me. How to fix this problem?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n---------------\n\nWith 'How to fix this problem?', the summary implies the purpose of the post is helping her find friends, when in fact the author posted for advice on how to communicate with gf on this issue without offending or upsetting. " }, { "text": " long-distance girlfriend gets mad at me if I say anything that will make her feel better. When I try to offer advice/comfort she ignores me and gets angry. What do?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3", "note": "The reference to 'if I say anything that will make her feel better' is unclear and confusing - she shouldn't get mad at this if she is actually feeling better as the sentence implies. The next sentence in the summary clears up the confusion.\n\n--------------\n\nSummary omits the main point - gf's troubles making friends. " } ]

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend has some problems with social interaction and I can't help her or say anything to make her feel better without her getting mad at me. How to fix this problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend has some problems with social interaction and I can't help her or say anything to make her feel better without her getting mad at me. How to fix this problem?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend has problems socially, I can't seem to say anything right when she gets upset about it\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. I'm in a long-distance relationship with a girl (21) I really love. She's sweet and funny and pretty and smart and all of that. She has a few friends (some of them don't treat her very well, unfortunately) but feels like she should have more; or at least feels insecure and inferior because she doesn't have more friends. At times she gets really upset about that, and she gets upset because she feels that no one likes her and that people in her classes ignore her or think she's stupid or act like she's really weird (I don't know if people actually do act like that toward her or not since I'm not actually there). When she gets upset about it there seems to be nothing at all I can say that will make her feel better. I also can't seem to say anything that won't get her angry with me. If I just say things like "I'm sorry, that really sucks" she eventually rips me a new one for not caring about her or not being able to understand because I have more friends than she does. If I say something like "well those people are bitches and they're missing out because you're awesome", at best she'll just say "no, it's my fault, there must be something wrong with me" and at worst she'll say that AND get mad at me. If I try to console AND offer advice like "no, you're totally likeable/smart/nice/whatever, but maybe you just need to be more assertive/put yourself out there more/etc" she gets mad and says I'm insensitive. Any of these will usually lead to her saying things like "fuck you" and telling me to leave her alone. What am I supposed to say?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long-distance girlfriend gets mad at me if I say anything that will make her feel better. When I try to offer advice/comfort she ignores me and gets angry. What do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a janitor at a small town public school. A teacher I met recently and have a crush on seems very interested in me. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Very interested in a girl at work; don't know how to approach it based on what she's given me so far and, perhaps, considering the culture in our workplace.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been having a crush on a teacher at work for a few weeks, would like some advice on how to proceed and if she or anyone would even be interested, if at all.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [23M] am unsure of how to proceed with a girl [F~23] at work.\n\nPOST: Hi everyone. I [M23] am a janitor at a small town public school. She's a teacher [F 20-something] I met very recently. I find I think about her all the time and am unsure if this okay on professional as well as personal levels. As to the former, she's obviously a bit higher than me on the totem pole, if you will. What do you think? Should the help ever become romantically involved with faculty? I know we've connected at least once: she made a lovely sound of approval when I was pretending not to look at her in passing. That was our first contact. Then, the other day, she stayed pretty late into my (evening) shift, seemingly JUST to meet me and let me know which room was hers. Wishful thinking, maybe. For what it's worth, I've since altered my routine so that I can see her daily and at a good time. (More than happy to plan my whole day around those eyes...) If you guessed I'm a little shy, you're correct. We haven't traded many words yet, just pleasant greetings and goodnights. She's very kind. I only wish I could know how much of it, if any, is enthusiasm toward me, personally. Anyway, please advise. I'm all kinds of nervous and excited, unsure of how to proceed, and not entirely sure if she or anyone would even want me to.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a new girl at work, would like to know what it would be like if we were to become romantically interested.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?", "policy": "ref", "note": "\"Not as good person BF\"?\nShe has a new BF who's not as good as author?" }, { "text": " My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "Give her a chance -- ex wants to get back together?" } ]

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Seeing each other = dating, so she's two-timing other guy?" }, { "text": " My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "Give her a chance -- ex wants to get back together?" } ]

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My ex-gf and I are still close friends and I want to know if I should still give her a chance or not, and if what I'm doing is right or wrong.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Staying close friends with ex or should I just forget about her and move on/not talk to her even though we're still close friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been texting and hanging out with ex a lot after break up, she's also in a relationship, now she has a new boyfriend and we are seeing each other again but I don't know if I should keep talking to her or anything<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Is staying close friends with my ex the right thing to do?\n\nPOST: I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, I'm 19 she's 20 (the year above me). We were fine until she moved to university and we sort of slowly drifted apart from each other without either of us noticing. Last August, we both realised we'd failed to talk to each other about issues and I had become kind of emotionally blank to some of her feelings. We kind of broke up to prevent that from happening again. Bits and pieces and stuff happened and things, but eventually we both went back (or in my case moved to) universities but not together. The thing was since just before we go together we had been texting and we texted every night since then up until we broke up. At the start of our university terms, we texted a little bit because we were still friends and stuff and we slowly texted more and more and we met up for something and it was okay and awkward at the same time. In December I came back home for a week for the first time and every night was torture, I think having time to stop (university was kind of hectic) meant all my missing her and stuff kind of came together at once. I ended up in a phone conversation with her and confessing how much I missed her, at which point she told me she had a boyfriend of two months (although she said it was to "get over me", he doesn't make her feel amazing (like I did) and he had "been around"). Since then she has been working for exams so we have only texted when she can, which is still often and stuff, but then she told me this new boyfriend is breaking up with her at some point because he is moving to London. We are also meeting up to catch up and stuff. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and my ex still talk almost like we did when we were together but no relationship/emotional stuff, she has new but not as good person boyfriend, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I grow bored with relationships after several years. Do I live a boring but stable life or risk alienating the people I love because I crave the thrill of change?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I grow bored with relationships after several years. Do I live a boring but stable life or risk alienating the people I love because I crave the thrill of change?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm afraid I will end up alone and I don't know what I should do to change this. I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid he will lose interest and I won't be able to find someone else.<|endoftext|>

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I grow bored with relationships after several years. Do I live a boring but stable life or risk alienating the people I love because I crave the thrill of change?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I grow bored with relationships after several years. Do I live a boring but stable life or risk alienating the people I love because I crave the thrill of change?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm afraid I will end up alone and I don't know what I should do to change this. I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid he will lose interest and I won't be able to find someone else.<|endoftext|>

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I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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I grow bored with relationships after several years. Do I live a boring but stable life or risk alienating the people I love because I crave the thrill of change?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I grow bored with relationships after several years. Do I live a boring but stable life or risk alienating the people I love because I crave the thrill of change?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm afraid I will end up alone and I don't know what I should do to change this. I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid he will lose interest and I won't be able to find someone else.<|endoftext|>

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I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I grow bored with relationships after several years. Do I live a boring but stable life or risk alienating the people I love because I crave the thrill of change?<|endoftext|>

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I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm afraid I will end up alone and I don't know what I should do to change this. I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid he will lose interest and I won't be able to find someone else.<|endoftext|>

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I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I grow bored with relationships after several years. Do I live a boring but stable life or risk alienating the people I love because I crave the thrill of change?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm afraid I will end up alone and I don't know what I should do to change this. I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid he will lose interest and I won't be able to find someone else.<|endoftext|>

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I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have had so many relationships but have only ended those relationships prematurely. I have a boyfriend but I am afraid I will end up alone and bored. Help me stop that from happening.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29F] am afraid I will end up alone\n\nPOST: I will try my best to keep this simple. I have a feeling that I won't get many responses that I haven't already spent time thinking about, but I'm feeling a little desperate. The short of things is, my relationships all seem to have a specific expiration date. I've been in a number of long term relationships. I am specifically interested in people who are intelligent and able to hold a good conversation or debate. Things always start off well. I find the newness exhilarating. I always seem to date people with unique hobbies or interests that I am excited to learn about. Yet, it never fails to occur that this doesn't last. I grow increasingly bored and restless and I crave an escape. I've been proposed to more than once. Yet, I've never been married and I've artfully ended every relationship I've had after about two years. I'm very diplomatic and have genuinely remained friends with ALL of my exes. My parents have been married for thirty years and model a beautiful relationship. I truly don't understand why I find myself here. I guess it should also be noted that I change jobs and move frequently (average of every 3 years). The biggest problem now is that I really adore my boyfriend. He is a family friend for many years and I have desired him for a long time. When we began a relationship, I was thrilled. My mom warned me not to hurt him. I love him so much. He is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt by me. Yet, here we are approaching two years and I feel the burning itch of restlessness. I don't know what to do Reddit. Help me. I already notice that I'm unintentionally rehearsing "the speech" in my head but I just want to make this work! We want the same things in life, we get along so well. I know I won't find someone I am more compatible with or who treats me better. I don't know what's missing to make that spark return.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't know how to continue the relationship with my boyfriend when I'm afraid I will end up alone. Any advice would be appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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Gf told me she loves me, I said it back but don't feel the same way. Now in long distance relationship and I think I need to break up with her but feel terrible about it and don't know how.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Gf told me she loves me, I said it back but don't feel the same way. Now in long distance relationship and I think I need to break up with her but feel terrible about it and don't know how.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF and I have been dating for a month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness, I'm not in love with her anymore, but I still want to break up with<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

GF told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness, but I don't feel that strongly about her. I moved out of the country for grad school, and I want to end things,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness, but I don't feel that strongly about her. I moved out of the country for grad school, and I want to end things,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 1 month told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness, I don't feel that strongly about her, I don't want to break up with her, what do I do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Gf told me she loves me, I said it back but don't feel the same way. Now in long distance relationship and I think I need to break up with her but feel terrible about it and don't know how.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Gf told me she loves me, I said it back but don't feel the same way. Now in long distance relationship and I think I need to break up with her but feel terrible about it and don't know how.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 1 month told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness, I don't feel that strongly about her, I don't want to break up with her, what do I do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness, but I don't feel that strongly about her. I moved out of the country for grad school, and I want to end things,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF and I have been dating for a month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness, I'm not in love with her anymore, but I still want to break up with<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Gf told me she loves me, I said it back but don't feel the same way. Now in long distance relationship and I think I need to break up with her but feel terrible about it and don't know how.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Gf told me she loves me, I said it back but don't feel the same way. Now in long distance relationship and I think I need to break up with her but feel terrible about it and don't know how.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] had been together 1 month, she told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness but didn't mean it...\n\nPOST: Sorry about the length, but there is a lot going on here... At the time, I told her "I love you too" because a) We were having sex and I was still inside of her, and I figured it would be really awkward if I said anything different, and b) I assumed I would eventually fall in love with her, so why not just start saying it? That was 6 months ago. We are still dating, but I still do not feel that strongly about her. She is head over heels in love with me, and I'm the first guy she has said "I love you" to. She is really sweet and I really don't want to break her heart, but I feel like breaking up with her is inevitable because, simply put, I'm just not in love with her. To complicate things, I moved out of the country for grad school two months ago, so now we are in a long distance relationship. I will be here for the next 2-3 years year-round. Neither of us have the money for her to visit. She wants to stay together (she always talks about the future, about how when I finish grad school we're going to start our lives together, etc.) and I just can't see that happening. I guess I'm being a little too realistic, but I can't help but think that skyping 3-4 times a week for 3 years is really going to work, especially considering my lack of strong feelings for her. Just writing this is making me realize that I probably need to break up with her, but I feel terrible about it, and wouldn't know how to go about doing it even if I decided that's what I am going to do. If anybody can relate, or has any advice that would be great. __________________________________________________________\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF told me she loved me while we were having sex, I said it back to save awkwardness, but I don't feel that strongly about her. I moved out of the country for grad school, and I want to end things,<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Landlord wants to move a 5th roommate in against our will, refuses to compromise and says he will try to get him out in 2 months. Need help understanding rights/rules.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th roommate in against our will, refuses to compromise and says he will try to get him out in 2 months. Need help understanding rights/rules.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. We refuse and fight for it. They back out and want us to compromise. What do we do?<|endoftext|>

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Landlord wants to move another tenant in a back room of our apartment that we were told was storage. We tell him no. He signs a lease with someone anyway.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move another tenant in a back room of our apartment that we were told was storage. We tell him no. He signs a lease with someone anyway.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th roommate in against our will, refuses to compromise and says he will try to get him out in 2 months. Need help understanding rights/rules.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Landlord wants to move a 5th roommate in against our will, refuses to compromise and says he will try to get him out in 2 months. Need help understanding rights/rules.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th roommate in against our will, refuses to compromise and says he will try to get him out in 2 months. Need help understanding rights/rules.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will, but will only offer us a small compromise. Need advice on how to deal with this situation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Landlord wants to move another tenant in a back room of our apartment that we were told was storage. We tell him no. He signs a lease with someone anyway.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move another tenant in a back room of our apartment that we were told was storage. We tell him no. He signs a lease with someone anyway.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will, but will only offer us a small compromise. Need advice on how to deal with this situation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will, but will only offer us a small compromise. Need advice on how to deal with this situation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will, but will only offer us a small compromise. Need advice on how to deal with this situation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. We refuse and fight for it. They back out and want us to compromise. What do we do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Landlord wants to move another tenant in a back room of our apartment that we were told was storage. We tell him no. He signs a lease with someone anyway.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move another tenant in a back room of our apartment that we were told was storage. We tell him no. He signs a lease with someone anyway.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: My landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. Advice?\n\nPOST: Here's the situation: I move into my place a couple of months ago. Its a nice cheap place and we love it. Anyway in one of our bathrooms there is this random door which they claim is storage and it is not included on our lease. We think its weird, but we don't see in it and figure there is a staircase or something to get into it another way. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. They open the door and its a fully furnished room and they inform us that they plan to move someone in there. We offer to pay a few hundred more and add it to our lease, but they say its not good enough. We instruct them that we are not going to allow them to move anyone in there. Now get to present day. They try to move a guy in there. We tell him and our landlord it is not going to happen. The "new roommate" comes back to us alone and just hardcore rages calling us names and saying he has rights and will pursue legal action. He has signed a lease with landlord already. We go back and forth with the landlord and say that we would be ok with still adding it onto our lease. He agrees for June 15th to start that. Then comes back and says the new guy really needs to stay here and for us to compromise. He only wants to reduce our rent minimally and would still be making a decent profit off the guy staying there. He says he will try to get him out in two months. Then asks us to go talk about it and let us know what he thinks. I've been googling and searching for renter's rights and things of the such, but not been finding much. We are in Los Angeles, CA. I figured reddit knows a lot about this kind of stuff or at least can point me in the right direction because I've never dealt with anything like this before. So help please?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Landlord wants to move a 5th guy in against our will. We refuse and fight for it. They back out and want us to compromise. What do we do?<|endoftext|>

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Can the "Act Independently" clause on a bank's "Certificate of Trust" be used to undermine a trustee prior to a relationship possibly ending?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Can the "Act Independently" clause on a bank's "Certificate of Trust" be used to undermine a trustee prior to a relationship possibly ending?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How can a married couple with a living trust sign a certificate of trust form (without the act independently clause) and remove the other trustee?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

can act independent clause be used to remove a trustee from a trust without that trustee knowing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: can act independent clause be used to remove a trustee from a trust without that trustee knowing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Can a married couple with a living trust act independent to close a trust without the other spouse's knowledge. Or could you be stuck with a co-trustee in the event of a divorce?<|endoftext|>

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Can the "Act Independently" clause on a bank's "Certificate of Trust" be used to undermine a trustee prior to a relationship possibly ending?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Can the "Act Independently" clause on a bank's "Certificate of Trust" be used to undermine a trustee prior to a relationship possibly ending?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: can act independent clause be used to remove a trustee from a trust without that trustee knowing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

can act independent clause be used to remove a trustee from a trust without that trustee knowing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: can act independent clause be used to remove a trustee from a trust without that trustee knowing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How can a married couple with a living trust sign a certificate of trust form (without the act independently clause) and remove the other trustee?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Can a married couple with a living trust act independent to close a trust without the other spouse's knowledge. Or could you be stuck with a co-trustee in the event of a divorce?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Act independent = independently, as in act without consent from spouse?" }, { "text": " Can the \"Act Independently\" clause on a bank's \"Certificate of Trust\" be used to undermine a trustee prior to a relationship possibly ending?", "policy": "ref", "note": "Unclear -- is this a business relationship?" } ]

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Can the "Act Independently" clause on a bank's "Certificate of Trust" be used to undermine a trustee prior to a relationship possibly ending?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Can the "Act Independently" clause on a bank's "Certificate of Trust" be used to undermine a trustee prior to a relationship possibly ending?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Question about certificate of trust & act independently clause. (multiple states)\n\nPOST: In Maryland/USA The bank wants a married couple with a living trust to sign a certificate of trust form. The "Trustees can Act Independently" box was pre-checked. This was in response to a request to fund both spouses retirement accounts from an account in the trust. I've read this is normal to have the act independently clause to avoid issued with locations of trustees and getting everyone together to sign documents. However, this doesn't necessarily apply in this case - we live together. Spouse has had conversations with the financial advisers without me. Our relationship has been a little shaky in recent months. Can this act independently clause be used to close the trust, disperse funds away from the trust, or remove the other trustee out of the trust without a that trustee's knowledge?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the legaladvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Can a married couple with a living trust act independent to close a trust without the other spouse's knowledge. Or could you be stuck with a co-trustee in the event of a divorce?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Girlfriend \"wanted\" to put up decorations for the holidays when she gets paid for them, says I obviously don't care, gives me the silent treatment. Was she being unreasonable?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "Unclear and confusing.\n\n------------\n\nCompletely off." }, { "text": " Girlfriend gets upset that I didn't pay for holiday decorations, we get into an argument, gets silent treatment. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "A little unclear in the final question - not immediately apparent the connection with the rest of the summary." } ]

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend gets upset that I didn't pay for holiday decorations, we get into an argument, gets silent treatment. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend gets upset that I didn't pay for holiday decorations, we get into an argument, gets silent treatment. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend "wanted" to put up decorations for the holidays when she gets paid for them, says I obviously don't care, gives me the silent treatment. Was she being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend wanted to buy some decorations jointly, I didn't. We got in an argument about who pays for them and she got upset and now we have no decorations and she's not speaking to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wanted to buy some decorations jointly, I didn't. We got in an argument about who pays for them and she got upset and now we have no decorations and she's not speaking to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend gets upset that I didn't pay for holiday decorations, we get into an argument, gets silent treatment. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Girlfriend \"wanted\" to put up decorations for the holidays when she gets paid for them, says I obviously don't care, gives me the silent treatment. Was she being unreasonable?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "Unclear and confusing.\n\n------------\n\nCompletely off." }, { "text": " Girlfriend wanted to buy some decorations jointly, I didn't. We got in an argument about who pays for them and she got upset and now we have no decorations and she's not speaking to me.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Ok" } ]

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend wanted to buy some decorations jointly, I didn't. We got in an argument about who pays for them and she got upset and now we have no decorations and she's not speaking to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wanted to buy some decorations jointly, I didn't. We got in an argument about who pays for them and she got upset and now we have no decorations and she's not speaking to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend "wanted" to put up decorations for the holidays when she gets paid for them, says I obviously don't care, gives me the silent treatment. Was she being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Girlfriend gets upset with me because she wanted to decorate for Halloween. She ends up taking things and puts them in the garage. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Unclear and confusing." }, { "text": " Girlfriend gets upset that I didn't pay for holiday decorations, we get into an argument, gets silent treatment. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "A little unclear in the final question - not immediately apparent the connection with the rest of the summary." } ]

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend gets upset that I didn't pay for holiday decorations, we get into an argument, gets silent treatment. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend gets upset that I didn't pay for holiday decorations, we get into an argument, gets silent treatment. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend gets upset with me because she wanted to decorate for Halloween. She ends up taking things and puts them in the garage. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend wanted to buy some decorations jointly, I didn't. We got in an argument about who pays for them and she got upset and now we have no decorations and she's not speaking to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend wanted to buy some decorations jointly, I didn't. We got in an argument about who pays for them and she got upset and now we have no decorations and she's not speaking to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Another spat with my[M25] girlfriend[23/f]\n\nPOST: Had another row with the girlfriend today. Day was fine, good, dandy, however you want to put it. I had taken her out to eat and then we were going to see a movie, but she tells me she's too tired to go now (she was going to pay for the movie while I got dinner). I say that's fine we'll go home, but she had to get some things from the store first. Well we go to the craft store and she gets the things she needs, but then starts looking at Halloween decorations. We just moved in together and she wanted to decorate for Halloween. We already have a few autumn decorations up. She starts picking up things left and right, she ends up with 5 things in the basket and asks if she should get a sixth. I told her she already had a ton, but it was her money, so if it was important enough to her, go ahead and get it. Well she kinda took a step back and asked why I wasn't paying for any of it. We got in a small argument with my point being that I didn't want to pay for any decorations because I didn't care if we had any up and her argument was she wanted it to look nice for Halloween. So, she puts the stuff back and tells me in passive-aggressive voice that it's fine and I obviously don't care how the house looks for the holidays and proceeds to give me the silent treatment. As we get home, she grabs the decorations she had previously put up and put them in the garage. When I asked why she said that I obviously didn't care, so why should she? So. My question is: was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend gets upset with me because she wanted to decorate for Halloween. She ends up taking things and puts them in the garage. Was she trying to spend my money or was I being unreasonable?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my issues with jealousy and control have reached an all time high and I'm desperate for some solid advice and/or resources before I ruin a wonderful relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm jealous and possessive and am completely helpless to stop it and need help to stop. I'm looking for any and all help! Thank you.<|endoftext|>

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I've been in a relationship for 18 months and I've become a controlling jealous and possessive person, I want to stop and I need advice on what I can do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been in a relationship for 18 months and I've become a controlling jealous and possessive person, I want to stop and I need advice on what I can do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm jealous and possessive and am completely helpless to stop it and need help to stop. I'm looking for any and all help! Thank you.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my issues with jealousy and control have reached an all time high and I'm desperate for some solid advice and/or resources before I ruin a wonderful relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have become a jealous and possessive wreck, I want to stop it but I don't know how. Any advice is appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been in a relationship for 18 months and I've become a controlling jealous and possessive person, I want to stop and I need advice on what I can do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my issues with jealousy and control have reached an all time high and I'm desperate for some solid advice and/or resources before I ruin a wonderful relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have become a jealous and possessive wreck, I want to stop it but I don't know how. Any advice is appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have become a jealous and possessive wreck, I want to stop it but I don't know how. Any advice is appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm jealous and possessive and am completely helpless to stop it and need help to stop. I'm looking for any and all help! Thank you.<|endoftext|>

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I've been in a relationship for 18 months and I've become a controlling jealous and possessive person, I want to stop and I need advice on what I can do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been in a relationship for 18 months and I've become a controlling jealous and possessive person, I want to stop and I need advice on what I can do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: im suffocating in jealousy and desperately need help!\n\nPOST: I am in a fantastic relationship. I am 28 (f) he is 32 (m) and we have been together coming up to 18 months. We live together. I have somewhere along the way gone from a rational human being to being jealous and possessive. I don't know how to stop though I do try. I've always thought too much and let my head get out of control. I've suffered from an eating disorder on and off since I was 7 and would say I am in recovery. I have gained weight which is making me incredibly insecure but I know it happens and will even itself out. My partner is a wonderful man, we love each other dearly and want to have a long, healthy relationship. But I am fast ruining things. And I would love to hear from others in a similar situation. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go out in public because I am so insecure about how I look, I don't want to face the masses of gorgeous women wearing next to nothing and feel completely inadequate (I'm in Australia it's hot here). I see him look at a hot girl and I spiral, it's ridiculous. It's unfair on him. It's gotten to the point where I have zero control over my head and I feel like I'm living in a prison of my own making. I hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm miserable and I'm dragging my wonderful boyfriend down with me. I really do try and I attempt to fake it but it doesn't last long. I want to stop being so jealous and possessive, I want it to no longer be a part of me. I've read article, talked to counsellors, read books. I haven't yet found any solid information and advice so I'm asking here. What has worked for you in the past? What books have helped change your mind set? Please I'm looking for anything that will snap me out of this bs!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have become a jealous and possessive wreck, I want to stop it but I don't know how. Any advice is appreciated.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My partner and I work very different shifts, and it's been taking it's toll on the hope and dreams I had forged while I was unemployed. I don't know how to make myself feel that way anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My partner and I work very different shifts, and it's been taking it's toll on the hope and dreams I had forged while I was unemployed. I don't know how to make myself feel that way anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: After months of being unemployed, I'm having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner. I love him, I don't want to leave him. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I work different shift than my boyfriend, after months of being unemployed, and its taking it's toll on us. What can I do to make us happy again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I work different shift than my boyfriend, after months of being unemployed, and its taking it's toll on us. What can I do to make us happy again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: After months of being unemployed, I'm having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner. I love him, I don't want to leave him. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

After months of being unemployed, I am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner. I love him, and would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but it is taking it's toll on me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: After months of being unemployed, I am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner. I love him, and would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but it is taking it's toll on me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: After months of being unemployed, I'm having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner. I love him, I don't want to leave him. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I work different shift than my boyfriend, after months of being unemployed, and its taking it's toll on us. What can I do to make us happy again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I work different shift than my boyfriend, after months of being unemployed, and its taking it's toll on us. What can I do to make us happy again?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My partner and I work very different shifts, and it's been taking it's toll on the hope and dreams I had forged while I was unemployed. I don't know how to make myself feel that way anymore.<|endoftext|>

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After months of being unemployed, I am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner. I love him, and would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but it is taking it's toll on me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: After months of being unemployed, I am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner. I love him, and would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but it is taking it's toll on me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: After months of being unemployed, I [20/M] am having a hard time working completely different shifts than my partner [21/M]\n\nPOST: To give some background: I love my partner, we've been through hell and back, with each of us playing the demon and the angel in different areas. We've come through that, and are now living exclusively alone, and happy doing so. A long time ago, he moved here from Germany to live with me, and we both worked to live together. However, during the last many, many months, I was unemployed, and he was supporting me. I love him so much for doing that, and because of it, we had many nights laughing, drinking, staying up all night to watch TV shows, and working on our dream. He has a degree in Game Design, and I've been learning the necessary programming language, you see, so we spent many nights talking up our ideas, and laying out a foundation to our dream, which seemed concrete. Now that I'm working, things are rough. He works 3 12-hour shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 6:30pm to 7:00am. I work M-F from 8am-6pm, so obviously we aren't around each other as much as we used to be, and its taking it's toll on me. I love him, and I would never quit my job and leave him supporting me, but its taking it's toll. I want to be around him, I want to have days like we used to. Now, though, I'm waking up before he gets home on Fridays and Mondays, and I'm going to bed before he's ready to. Our hopes and dreams, it seems to me, are dissolving into this monotonous work-life drone. I really don't know what to do, should he look for a different shift or job? Should I drudge through this (like I know I can) until opportunity shows it's face? Or...well, what else?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My partner and I work very different shifts, and it's been taking it's toll on the hope and dreams I had forged while I was unemployed. I don't know how to make myself feel that way anymore.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: question is: If a person who abused you in the past can get help and move on, can they ever have a healthy relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: question is: Abusers *or* people who are currently dating someone who has abused **another** **person** in the past, what are your current relationships like? Are they healthy? Are you happy?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex-boyfriend has been arrested/beaten a few times. I would like to know if it is possible for him to have a good relationship in the future.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: is: Can a person who has been physically, mentally, and verbally abusive later in life ever have a healthy relationship with anyone?<|endoftext|>

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ex-boyfriend has been arrested/beaten a few times. I would like to know if it is possible for him to have a good relationship in the future.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex-boyfriend has been arrested/beaten a few times. I would like to know if it is possible for him to have a good relationship in the future.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: question is: Abusers *or* people who are currently dating someone who has abused **another** **person** in the past, what are your current relationships like? Are they healthy? Are you happy?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: is: Can a person who has been physically, mentally, and verbally abusive later in life ever have a healthy relationship with anyone?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: question is: Abusers *or* people who are currently dating someone who has abused **another** **person** in the past, what are your current relationships like? Are they healthy? Are you happy?<|endoftext|>

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ex-boyfriend has been arrested/beaten a few times. I would like to know if it is possible for him to have a good relationship in the future.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex-boyfriend has been arrested/beaten a few times. I would like to know if it is possible for him to have a good relationship in the future.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Can a person who abused someone in the past ever have a healthy relationship?\n\nPOST: When I (23F) was in high school, I dated someone who was mentally, physically, and verbally abusive. Luckily, my family was able to help me escape and I have had safe and happy relationships since then. However, sometimes I still think about my ex. Not in a way that I would ever want to get back together, but just wondering where his life is now. I remember when we broke up, before I completely cut off contact, he told me that he was going to start counselling. I'll admit that I occasionally google his name, and found that he has been arrested twice, once for public intoxication and another time for public intoxication and drug possession. I know from a few mutal friends that he was kicked out of his college for beating up another student. I have since lost contact with our former mutal friends, so other than that, I have no idea how he is doing in his life. I mainly wonder if it is possible for him to have a real, healthy relationship in his life. Although I hate him for everything he has done to me, I'd hate for our relationship as 16 year olds to be something that ruins his life forever. So, my\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: question is: If a person who abused you in the past can get help and move on, can they ever have a healthy relationship?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I feel trapped in the relationship and I don't know how to handle it. I love my girlfriend and I want to make things right but I don't know how to talk to her about it or even if I even should.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel trapped in the relationship and I don't know how to handle it. I love my girlfriend and I want to make things right but I don't know how to talk to her about it or even if I even should.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am going away to college and I feel like my relationship is constantly being stressful and I am not sure how to proceed in the best way possible.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend has trust issues, feeling trapped and loosing the love, if I break up with her I would devastate her and I would never forgive myself <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend has trust issues, feeling trapped and loosing the love, if I break up with her I would devastate her and I would never forgive myself <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am going away to college and I feel like my relationship is constantly being stressful and I am not sure how to proceed in the best way possible.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I am going away to college and I feel like my relationship is constantly being stressful and I am not sure how to proceed in the best way possible.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am going away to college and I feel like my relationship is constantly being stressful and I am not sure how to proceed in the best way possible.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel trapped in my relationship and I'm scared to tell her that I'm going to college and I'm going to have to keep her in my life but I feel like I am in a trap<|endoftext|>

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I feel trapped in the relationship and I don't know how to handle it. I love my girlfriend and I want to make things right but I don't know how to talk to her about it or even if I even should.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel trapped in the relationship and I don't know how to handle it. I love my girlfriend and I want to make things right but I don't know how to talk to her about it or even if I even should.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, I feel trapped and like I'm walking on thin ice all the time\n\nPOST: Hey guys, trying my best here so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years now. I do love her, I want the best for her. Recently there has been a lot of tension between us because while I am a senior in high school, she is a junior in high school. Throughout most of the relationship I had been making a mistake: I had not been including her in my life in the same way she included me in hers. It's hard because she cannot drive but I was not letting her meet my friends and family. I turned it around and introduced her to my whole family and grandparents but she still gets mad when I go somewhere without her, even though my family now knows her. So the main problem is that I am soon going off to college, and I feel trapped. I feel as though whenever I go somewhere she will explode on me unless I bring her with me. My older brother is at college and invited me up for the weekend. I am scared to tell her that I'm going away for a weekend because she could verbally abuse me if I don't bring her but if I do bring her she might be disrespectful to my brother or his friends. At this point the relationship is stressing me out so much and I feel trapped. I love her and I only see her twice a week. At this point most of our interactions are negative at some point. I am the kind of person who is scared to upset people but I end up upsetting myself because I just trap myself in situations to please someone else. This is both of our first relationships and she has severe trust issues. I tell her that she can trust me and that is one of the biggest reasons I can't ever bring myself to do anything about it because I don't want to ruin her already damaged trust. This has become the biggest stress in my otherwise currently stress free life (I'm a senior in high school, I am admitted to my first choice university, and school work is at an all time low.) and it's driving me crazy.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel trapped in my relationship and I'm scared to tell her that I'm going to college and I'm going to have to keep her in my life but I feel like I am in a trap<|endoftext|>

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