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One time, when I was around 11, and my brother was around 8, making 'Helen' 9, we were spending Christmas with my grandparents. She had a christmas tree set up, and had several presents under it. When we see it, my brother gets all excited. He still believes in santa. My aunt then tells my brother to move away from the tree, because it's not for him or me. She gives my cousin 3 toys, and when she starts to hand my cousin candy, my brother reaches out for some. He assumed since Helen got so many gifts, that one of them was for him. She swatted his hand away, telling him "Don't touch that! It's not for you!" at that point im outside with my mother, who is seeing red at this point.
My father takes my aunt aside and says "-name of aunt here- we should go, it's not appropriate for you to give Helen toys, and not my children." She then goes on a rant, screaming about how I got Helen's mother a present for Christmas, and not her. My mom loses it, yelling about how awful my aunt is, and telling my father that we need to leave. As we're leaving, my aunt is cussing us out, calling my mom a slut (The first time I ever heard that word)
Needless to say, we haven't seen her since.
So, who else has weird and awful extended family?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My aunt hates everyone in my family except one of her nieces. Anyone else have weird extended family?<|endoftext|> | [
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One time, when I was around 11, and my brother was around 8, making 'Helen' 9, we were spending Christmas with my grandparents. She had a christmas tree set up, and had several presents under it. When we see it, my brother gets all excited. He still believes in santa. My aunt then tells my brother to move away from the tree, because it's not for him or me. She gives my cousin 3 toys, and when she starts to hand my cousin candy, my brother reaches out for some. He assumed since Helen got so many gifts, that one of them was for him. She swatted his hand away, telling him "Don't touch that! It's not for you!" at that point im outside with my mother, who is seeing red at this point.
My father takes my aunt aside and says "-name of aunt here- we should go, it's not appropriate for you to give Helen toys, and not my children." She then goes on a rant, screaming about how I got Helen's mother a present for Christmas, and not her. My mom loses it, yelling about how awful my aunt is, and telling my father that we need to leave. As we're leaving, my aunt is cussing us out, calling my mom a slut (The first time I ever heard that word)
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One time, when I was around 11, and my brother was around 8, making 'Helen' 9, we were spending Christmas with my grandparents. She had a christmas tree set up, and had several presents under it. When we see it, my brother gets all excited. He still believes in santa. My aunt then tells my brother to move away from the tree, because it's not for him or me. She gives my cousin 3 toys, and when she starts to hand my cousin candy, my brother reaches out for some. He assumed since Helen got so many gifts, that one of them was for him. She swatted his hand away, telling him "Don't touch that! It's not for you!" at that point im outside with my mother, who is seeing red at this point.
My father takes my aunt aside and says "-name of aunt here- we should go, it's not appropriate for you to give Helen toys, and not my children." She then goes on a rant, screaming about how I got Helen's mother a present for Christmas, and not her. My mom loses it, yelling about how awful my aunt is, and telling my father that we need to leave. As we're leaving, my aunt is cussing us out, calling my mom a slut (The first time I ever heard that word)
Needless to say, we haven't seen her since.
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One time, when I was around 11, and my brother was around 8, making 'Helen' 9, we were spending Christmas with my grandparents. She had a christmas tree set up, and had several presents under it. When we see it, my brother gets all excited. He still believes in santa. My aunt then tells my brother to move away from the tree, because it's not for him or me. She gives my cousin 3 toys, and when she starts to hand my cousin candy, my brother reaches out for some. He assumed since Helen got so many gifts, that one of them was for him. She swatted his hand away, telling him "Don't touch that! It's not for you!" at that point im outside with my mother, who is seeing red at this point.
My father takes my aunt aside and says "-name of aunt here- we should go, it's not appropriate for you to give Helen toys, and not my children." She then goes on a rant, screaming about how I got Helen's mother a present for Christmas, and not her. My mom loses it, yelling about how awful my aunt is, and telling my father that we need to leave. As we're leaving, my aunt is cussing us out, calling my mom a slut (The first time I ever heard that word)
Needless to say, we haven't seen her since.
So, who else has weird and awful extended family?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My aunt gave my cousin presents but not me and my brother. We get upset. She and my mother get into a fight. She calls my mom a slut. Haven't seen her since.<|endoftext|> | [
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"post": "Now I'm not upset about receiving the cats under the fact that it is a rescue of them. The owner has a story that she is moving and can't have more then one cat. The mother of the kittens is 8mo old and she \"got loose\" and became pregnant. Three white kittens and two black and white like the mother later she decides to get rid of all but one. She set up an adoption for the mother that fell through and decided she would keep 2 white and the other white kitten was adopted. Picking up our black and white kitten she tells us she plans on setting the mother and the left over black/white kitten \"free\" (parking lot kittie status). This is why I feel upset, she upgraded to 2 white kittens from her own 8mo old cat when she can only have one cat. She explained her story like a victim and all I can think is, \"wtf keep your damn cat give us all kitties we can find them homes\". To top it off the mother is skin and bones. No logic in this. Is my anger normal?",
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
And, I haven't known whether to just leave it be or to say something (if so, what?) or to move on (if so, how?).\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend seems to have been keeping me on the hook with strange behavior of late. I'm not sure if I should just give up or move on?<|endoftext|> | [
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"note": "Unclear connection between the various points. Causes confusion.\n\n-------------------\n\nFB is unclear here (neither follow back or Facebook fit). \n\nLacks detail, especially as to the purpose of the post - seeking advice on what to do. "
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
And, I haven't known whether to just leave it be or to say something (if so, what?) or to move on (if so, how?).\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: knew him 5 weeks, 2 weeks actually together; have been separated for 8 months but contact is recently sporadic and I just can't tell if I'm just being strung along. need outside perspective.<|endoftext|> | [
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
And, I haven't known whether to just leave it be or to say something (if so, what?) or to move on (if so, how?).\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is FB dropping sporadic 'I miss you' messages and I feel strung along. Is he just keeping me on the hook?<|endoftext|> | [
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
And, I haven't known whether to just leave it be or to say something (if so, what?) or to move on (if so, how?).\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | Boyfriend is FB dropping sporadic 'I miss you' messages and I feel strung along. Is he just keeping me on the hook?<|endoftext|> | [
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
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"text": " Guy I haven't seen in close to 8 months is sending me random texts and emails. Is he keeping me on the hook or is he just being distant?",
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
And, I haven't known whether to just leave it be or to say something (if so, what?) or to move on (if so, how?).\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | knew him 5 weeks, 2 weeks actually together; have been separated for 8 months but contact is recently sporadic and I just can't tell if I'm just being strung along. need outside perspective.<|endoftext|> | [
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
And, I haven't known whether to just leave it be or to say something (if so, what?) or to move on (if so, how?).\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy I haven't seen in close to 8 months is sending me random texts and emails. Is he keeping me on the hook or is he just being distant?<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 448 | TITLE: [23/f] Is he (26/m) just keeping me on the hook?\n\nPOST: What's going on here? It started out as a summer thing. We left it unfinished and ambiguous b/c he got his first military assignment 3,000 miles away. It's been 8 months since we've seen each other. We called and texted everyday for 3 months and then frequently for 2. We tried to arrange visits (he offered to fly me), but our schedules have made it really tough and those fell through.
Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
And, I haven't known whether to just leave it be or to say something (if so, what?) or to move on (if so, how?).\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend seems to have been keeping me on the hook with strange behavior of late. I'm not sure if I should just give up or move on?<|endoftext|> | [
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
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Now it's really irregular. He often doesn't respond, but occasionally calls randomly. Or he'll be mia then text me unsolicited "Awkwadoodle, I wanted to tell you I was leaving, but wasn't allowed. I've missed you. Hope you're well, and hopefully me being home and safe is enough." It sounds like BS, but it's not that unlikely. Only thing, I hardly know what he's up to anyways lately that I wouldn't even know if he was gone.
It's just frustrating. I feel strung along sometimes, but what's the point if he has no reason to suspect we'll see each other. And, for me, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Like, 8 months later after only 5 weeks of even knowing each other?! Also, I wonder if this isn't just obsession because he's out of reach, and we parted in the height of a honey moon period. I feel like there's something here, and I'm willing to give it a try. But I don't like feeling like this.
And, I haven't known whether to just leave it be or to say something (if so, what?) or to move on (if so, how?).\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend seems to have been keeping me on the hook with strange behavior of late. I'm not sure if I should just give up or move on?<|endoftext|> | [
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The night before she asked what we were and I said I had no idea but I'm not seeing someone else and she said she wasn't either. I know her prior dating history was one boyfriend who lasted about a year and half and they broke up about 6 months ago. Now she met my parents, I met hers, and we kissed. That's the gist of our intimacy besides the occasional talking about sex and building tension. So now I really put my eggs in the basket with this girl and she kind of just tore me down. I haven't ever been in a "serious" relationship so I'm kind of just figuring out what to do. She said maybe that we moved a little to fast too?
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The night before she asked what we were and I said I had no idea but I'm not seeing someone else and she said she wasn't either. I know her prior dating history was one boyfriend who lasted about a year and half and they broke up about 6 months ago. Now she met my parents, I met hers, and we kissed. That's the gist of our intimacy besides the occasional talking about sex and building tension. So now I really put my eggs in the basket with this girl and she kind of just tore me down. I haven't ever been in a "serious" relationship so I'm kind of just figuring out what to do. She said maybe that we moved a little to fast too?
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The night before she asked what we were and I said I had no idea but I'm not seeing someone else and she said she wasn't either. I know her prior dating history was one boyfriend who lasted about a year and half and they broke up about 6 months ago. Now she met my parents, I met hers, and we kissed. That's the gist of our intimacy besides the occasional talking about sex and building tension. So now I really put my eggs in the basket with this girl and she kind of just tore me down. I haven't ever been in a "serious" relationship so I'm kind of just figuring out what to do. She said maybe that we moved a little to fast too?
Anyway she wants to be friends and still see each other and I THINK she said see where is goes. It's just after being built up like that I'm emotionally confused really of what I should do. Should I stick around and see what happens?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl I like tells me she wants to be friends and we still see each other but no longer like each other. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 371 | TITLE: Me [19M] and her [18F] had a falling out after dating for 5 days\n\nPOST: So I really don't understand where I went wrong. The girl I really like who actually initially came on to me told me the other day that she "just wanted to be friends", "didn't want to be tied down to one guy right now", and "didn't want any of the stress of having to deal with a relationship".
The night before she asked what we were and I said I had no idea but I'm not seeing someone else and she said she wasn't either. I know her prior dating history was one boyfriend who lasted about a year and half and they broke up about 6 months ago. Now she met my parents, I met hers, and we kissed. That's the gist of our intimacy besides the occasional talking about sex and building tension. So now I really put my eggs in the basket with this girl and she kind of just tore me down. I haven't ever been in a "serious" relationship so I'm kind of just figuring out what to do. She said maybe that we moved a little to fast too?
Anyway she wants to be friends and still see each other and I THINK she said see where is goes. It's just after being built up like that I'm emotionally confused really of what I should do. Should I stick around and see what happens?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl I like tells me she wants to be friends and we still see each other but no longer like each other. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> | [
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The night before she asked what we were and I said I had no idea but I'm not seeing someone else and she said she wasn't either. I know her prior dating history was one boyfriend who lasted about a year and half and they broke up about 6 months ago. Now she met my parents, I met hers, and we kissed. That's the gist of our intimacy besides the occasional talking about sex and building tension. So now I really put my eggs in the basket with this girl and she kind of just tore me down. I haven't ever been in a "serious" relationship so I'm kind of just figuring out what to do. She said maybe that we moved a little to fast too?
Anyway she wants to be friends and still see each other and I THINK she said see where is goes. It's just after being built up like that I'm emotionally confused really of what I should do. Should I stick around and see what happens?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a girl really liked her went on dates and hung out everyday for 5 days. wants to just be friends but is attracted to me and thinks i'm cute<|endoftext|> | [
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The night before she asked what we were and I said I had no idea but I'm not seeing someone else and she said she wasn't either. I know her prior dating history was one boyfriend who lasted about a year and half and they broke up about 6 months ago. Now she met my parents, I met hers, and we kissed. That's the gist of our intimacy besides the occasional talking about sex and building tension. So now I really put my eggs in the basket with this girl and she kind of just tore me down. I haven't ever been in a "serious" relationship so I'm kind of just figuring out what to do. She said maybe that we moved a little to fast too?
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"text": " met a girl really liked her went on dates and hung out everyday for 5 days. wants to just be friends but is attracted to me and thinks i'm cute",
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The night before she asked what we were and I said I had no idea but I'm not seeing someone else and she said she wasn't either. I know her prior dating history was one boyfriend who lasted about a year and half and they broke up about 6 months ago. Now she met my parents, I met hers, and we kissed. That's the gist of our intimacy besides the occasional talking about sex and building tension. So now I really put my eggs in the basket with this girl and she kind of just tore me down. I haven't ever been in a "serious" relationship so I'm kind of just figuring out what to do. She said maybe that we moved a little to fast too?
Anyway she wants to be friends and still see each other and I THINK she said see where is goes. It's just after being built up like that I'm emotionally confused really of what I should do. Should I stick around and see what happens?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: met a girl really liked her went on dates and hung out everyday for 5 days. wants to just be friends but is attracted to me and thinks i'm cute<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 445 | TITLE: Strange mood swings and aggression with my mom causing family relationship issues...Not like that ಠ_ಠ\n\nPOST: 21/M...and no, this is not THAT kind of relationship. My connections with my family have gotten somewhat screwy. I guess the length of time is all my life.
At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: have mood swings around mom, I don't know if this is normal or if I'm going to end up killing her...or both...<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | Relationship with mother has become odd - feeling constant aggression towards her for no reason. No, I'm not sleeping with her *ಠ_ಠ*<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Relationship with mother has become odd - feeling constant aggression towards her for no reason. No, I'm not sleeping with her *ಠ_ಠ*<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: have mood swings around mom, I don't know if this is normal or if I'm going to end up killing her...or both...<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | I've been feeling angry and frustrated at my mom lately, and it's causing family problems. Has anyone been in this situation and if so what did you do?<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been feeling angry and frustrated at my mom lately, and it's causing family problems. Has anyone been in this situation and if so what did you do?<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: February-ish mood swings and aggression towards my mom, not directed at anyone else in family. Wondering if it's normal or if there's anything I can do about it.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 443 | TITLE: Strange mood swings and aggression with my mom causing family relationship issues...Not like that ಠ_ಠ\n\nPOST: 21/M...and no, this is not THAT kind of relationship. My connections with my family have gotten somewhat screwy. I guess the length of time is all my life.
At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: February-ish mood swings and aggression towards my mom, not directed at anyone else in family. Wondering if it's normal or if there's anything I can do about it.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 445 | TITLE: Strange mood swings and aggression with my mom causing family relationship issues...Not like that ಠ_ಠ\n\nPOST: 21/M...and no, this is not THAT kind of relationship. My connections with my family have gotten somewhat screwy. I guess the length of time is all my life.
At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Relationship with mother has become odd - feeling constant aggression towards her for no reason. No, I'm not sleeping with her *ಠ_ಠ*<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | February-ish mood swings and aggression towards my mom, not directed at anyone else in family. Wondering if it's normal or if there's anything I can do about it.<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: February-ish mood swings and aggression towards my mom, not directed at anyone else in family. Wondering if it's normal or if there's anything I can do about it.<|endoftext|> | [
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At the moment I live at home, part time job full time student. I live less than 10 minutes from campus so I saw no point in burning off 8,000$ to live with some asshole I'd wind up murdering. My family is still together, one sister, mother, and father.
My problem is this: lately I've been feeling unexplainable anger/frustration/irritation, and all around shitty around my own mother. This had started about 6 months ago, and has been a constant mood swing roller coaster since then. Sometimes I don't want to see or hear her, other times I'm fine. This is bothersome because it isn't directed towards anyone else in my family.
An example of this would be last week: my mother and sister went on vacation in Florida for a little over a week. I was with my father for that duration. No problems, no mood swings, etc. When she comes home, instead of it being nice to see her, I'm immediately from a good mood to "meh".
I'm asking now if this sort of backwards Oedipus complex is normal or if anyone has had something like this happen before? If I can't figure it out I'm thinking about going to go see my campus counselor or something. My mother has always been someone I've never felt aggressive towards, and now all of a sudden I feel hostile towards her everytime I'm in the same room.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: have mood swings around mom, I don't know if this is normal or if I'm going to end up killing her...or both...<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | boyfriend doesn't seem to give a crap about our anniversary even though we've been together for almost a year, not sure if this means he doesn't care/want to commit.<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend doesn't seem to give a crap about our anniversary even though we've been together for almost a year, not sure if this means he doesn't care/want to commit.<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend says our anniversary isn't significant, doesn't do anything romantic but I'm the only female in his life apart from his mother and cousins. What does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given?<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
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] | 317 | TITLE: My boyfriend [25M] doesn't think our anniversary holds any significance.. [19F]. I normally wouldn't be upset, but what does this mean?\n\nPOST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy.
Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend hasn't cared for our anniversary even though he knows we love each other and is the only female in his family apart from his mom and cousins. What does this mean?<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
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] | 317 | TITLE: My boyfriend [25M] doesn't think our anniversary holds any significance.. [19F]. I normally wouldn't be upset, but what does this mean?\n\nPOST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy.
Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend says our anniversary isn't significant, doesn't do anything romantic but I'm the only female in his life apart from his mother and cousins. What does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given?<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
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] | 317 | TITLE: My boyfriend [25M] doesn't think our anniversary holds any significance.. [19F]. I normally wouldn't be upset, but what does this mean?\n\nPOST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy.
Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend doesn't seem to give a crap about our anniversary even though we've been together for almost a year, not sure if this means he doesn't care/want to commit.<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | boyfriend doesn't seem to give a crap about our anniversary even though we've been together for almost a year, not sure if this means he doesn't care/want to commit.<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend doesn't seem to give a crap about our anniversary even though we've been together for almost a year, not sure if this means he doesn't care/want to commit.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 313 | TITLE: My boyfriend [25M] doesn't think our anniversary holds any significance.. [19F]. I normally wouldn't be upset, but what does this mean?\n\nPOST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy.
Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend hasn't cared for our anniversary even though he knows we love each other and is the only female in his family apart from his mom and cousins. What does this mean?<|endoftext|> | [
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"post": "It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy.\n\nWtf? \n\nhe always implies eventual marriage, says things like \"in 10 years..\" we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary. \n\nAnyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.",
"title": "My boyfriend [25M] doesn't think our anniversary holds any significance.. [19F]. I normally wouldn't be upset, but what does this mean?",
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | Boyfriend says our anniversary isn't significant, doesn't do anything romantic but I'm the only female in his life apart from his mother and cousins. What does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given?<|endoftext|> | [
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Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend says our anniversary isn't significant, doesn't do anything romantic but I'm the only female in his life apart from his mother and cousins. What does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given?<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 322 | TITLE: My boyfriend [25M] doesn't think our anniversary holds any significance.. [19F]. I normally wouldn't be upset, but what does this mean?\n\nPOST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy.
Wtf?
he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary.
Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend hasn't cared for our anniversary even though he knows we love each other and is the only female in his family apart from his mom and cousins. What does this mean?<|endoftext|> | [
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
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] | 376 | TITLE: TIFU by microwaving chicken for lunch\n\nPOST: So this happened a little over a year ago but it almost happened again so thought I'd share my story!
I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by microwaving chicken for lunch and getting chicken sparks and popping everywhere. Should've went number 2!<|endoftext|> | [
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | microwaved chicken for lunch and almost set my work on fire. Also didn't take advantage of loud noises to freely go number 2!!<|endoftext|> | [
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: microwaved chicken for lunch and almost set my work on fire. Also didn't take advantage of loud noises to freely go number 2!!<|endoftext|> | [
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by microwaving chicken for lunch and getting chicken sparks and popping everywhere. Should've went number 2!<|endoftext|> | [
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Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | microwaved chicken for lunch and almost set my work on fire. Also didn't take advantage of loud noises to freely go number 2!!<|endoftext|> | [
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: microwaved chicken for lunch, didn't check baggie for wrapping paper, threw in microwave, chicken went up in smoke, co worker tried to burn it<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 372 | TITLE: TIFU by microwaving chicken for lunch\n\nPOST: So this happened a little over a year ago but it almost happened again so thought I'd share my story!
I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by microwaving chicken for lunch and getting chicken sparks and popping everywhere. Should've went number 2!<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 372 | TITLE: TIFU by microwaving chicken for lunch\n\nPOST: So this happened a little over a year ago but it almost happened again so thought I'd share my story!
I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: microwaved chicken for lunch, didn't check baggie for wrapping paper, threw in microwave, chicken went up in smoke, co worker tried to burn it<|endoftext|> | [
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | TIFU by microwaving chicken for lunch with deli foil paper. Chicken started sparking and popping and then caught on fire.<|endoftext|> | [
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by microwaving chicken for lunch with deli foil paper. Chicken started sparking and popping and then caught on fire.<|endoftext|> | [
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I used to work in a small pharmacy. Many times for lunch I would bring rice from home and then pick up some chicken from QFC by my work. Usually I get a 8 piece and eat it over a couple of days. They usually put the chicken in a small box thingy lined with paper. On one particular day I decided to just order a thigh and drum. Since it was only two pieces they didn't put it in a box, they put it in a small paper bag instead.
Well I'm at work and lunch time comes around and I need to piss like a race horse! I throw the chicken in the microwave, hit quick minute, and head on over the bathroom. I pee and head back to eat my chicken. But when I return, there was smoke everywhere, my chicken baggie was on the floor, and my co-worker was desperately hitting at it with a binder. Turned out the chicken was wrapped in deli foil paper, or whatever it was called! I never opened the bag to look into it before I threw it in the micro! So the whole time I was peeing, the chicken in the microwave was sparking and popping and eventually caught on fire! With all that noise, I should've gone number 2!!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: microwaved chicken for lunch and almost set my work on fire. Also didn't take advantage of loud noises to freely go number 2!!<|endoftext|> | [
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She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | told my girlfriend to meet up with me but I forgot she was coming because I was wasted and she got mugged.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 44 | ref | sup4_bo256_rm3 | ref--sup4_bo256_rm3 | TITLE: Stupid drunk night ruining things with my (25M) new girlfriend (24F) of 3 months\n\nPOST: I started dating this girl a few months ago. She just moved to my city. There's another city nearby but across the border that I go to a lot. I was there with my friends last weekend and had way too much to drink. We went out for a bite and I was texting my girlfriend and told her to join us there but not really expecting her to because she hasn't crossed the border there yet and it can be kind of intimidating for people who don't do it often I guess, especially since the city is known for crime. Anyways we were there for hours, I was fucking hammered and completely forgot that she might even show up, she wasn't texting me anymore so we went home.
She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: told my girlfriend to meet up with me but I forgot she was coming because I was wasted and she got mugged.<|endoftext|> | [
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She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got wasted and stupidly left my new girlfriend alone to deal with a gunpoint robbery last weekend. Now we're at each other's throats and it's driving a wedge between us. What can I do?<|endoftext|> | [
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She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got wasted with new girlfriend, got robbed, carjacked, and she didn't know where I was, now she's mad at me and it's driving a rift between us.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 394 | TITLE: Stupid drunk night ruining things with my (25M) new girlfriend (24F) of 3 months\n\nPOST: I started dating this girl a few months ago. She just moved to my city. There's another city nearby but across the border that I go to a lot. I was there with my friends last weekend and had way too much to drink. We went out for a bite and I was texting my girlfriend and told her to join us there but not really expecting her to because she hasn't crossed the border there yet and it can be kind of intimidating for people who don't do it often I guess, especially since the city is known for crime. Anyways we were there for hours, I was fucking hammered and completely forgot that she might even show up, she wasn't texting me anymore so we went home.
She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got wasted with new girlfriend, got robbed, carjacked, and she didn't know where I was, now she's mad at me and it's driving a rift between us.<|endoftext|> | [
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She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got wasted and stupidly left my new girlfriend alone to deal with a gunpoint robbery last weekend. Now we're at each other's throats and it's driving a wedge between us. What can I do?<|endoftext|> | [
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She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got wasted with new girlfriend, got robbed, carjacked, and she didn't know where I was, now she's mad at me and it's driving a rift between us.<|endoftext|> | [
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She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | told my girlfriend to meet up with me but I forgot she was coming because I was wasted and she got mugged.<|endoftext|> | [
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She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I got wasted, went out with my friends, girlfriend showed up, got robbed and lost her phone and purse, she's pissed at me and it's driving a wedge between us. What do I do?<|endoftext|> | [
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She did end up going to meet us and parked her car and got robbed at gunpoint and lost her purse and phone. She didn't know where I was exactly and didn't know my number so she couldn't find me and she spent the whole night dealing with the police and then trying to get back home without ID. She's pissed that I didn't tell her it was a bad area, she's not constantly bringing it up or anything but she is very obviously annoyed with me. I feel fucking horrible about it and it's really driving a wedge between us. Is there anything I can do? I want to make it up to her or at least get things back to normal but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got wasted and stupidly left my new girlfriend alone to deal with a gunpoint robbery last weekend. Now we're at each other's throats and it's driving a wedge between us. What can I do?<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | I used a can of spray powder on my gooch, upside-down can shot out freezing spray...effectively ice blasting my undercarriage. Searing pain ensued.<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I used a can of spray powder on my gooch, upside-down can shot out freezing spray...effectively ice blasting my undercarriage. Searing pain ensued.<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Tried using spray powder on my undercarriage. It turned out to be a lot worse than I thought. Ice blasting is a bad idea.<|endoftext|> | [
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I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
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I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Unintentionally exploded my undercarriage while ice blasting some searing pain with my gold bond spray powder. May never, by all things good in this world, do it again.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 340 | TITLE: TIFU by ice-blasting my undercarriage (nsfw-ish)\n\nPOST: A few days ago I spent a long day working outside, with lots of walking and getting in and out of a vehicle. I consistently wear compression shorts (under armour) as underwear. well this is worn a bit and got bunched up in the crease of my groin and thigh. The last hour of work I neglected repositioning, and just kept going. The chafe monster got me good. Raw as could be right on my gooch.
When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ice blasting my undercarriage while wearing compression shorts, caused a searing pain that only got worse due to my tense body.<|endoftext|> | [
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I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
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] | 28 | ref | sup4_ppo_rm3 | ref--sup4_ppo_rm3 | TITLE: TIFU by ice-blasting my undercarriage (nsfw-ish)\n\nPOST: A few days ago I spent a long day working outside, with lots of walking and getting in and out of a vehicle. I consistently wear compression shorts (under armour) as underwear. well this is worn a bit and got bunched up in the crease of my groin and thigh. The last hour of work I neglected repositioning, and just kept going. The chafe monster got me good. Raw as could be right on my gooch.
When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I used a can of spray powder on my gooch, upside-down can shot out freezing spray...effectively ice blasting my undercarriage. Searing pain ensued.<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ice blasting my undercarriage while wearing compression shorts, caused a searing pain that only got worse due to my tense body.<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | Tried using spray powder on my undercarriage. It turned out to be a lot worse than I thought. Ice blasting is a bad idea.<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Tried using spray powder on my undercarriage. It turned out to be a lot worse than I thought. Ice blasting is a bad idea.<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Unintentionally exploded my undercarriage while ice blasting some searing pain with my gold bond spray powder. May never, by all things good in this world, do it again.<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | Unintentionally exploded my undercarriage while ice blasting some searing pain with my gold bond spray powder. May never, by all things good in this world, do it again.<|endoftext|> | [
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When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Unintentionally exploded my undercarriage while ice blasting some searing pain with my gold bond spray powder. May never, by all things good in this world, do it again.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 348 | TITLE: TIFU by ice-blasting my undercarriage (nsfw-ish)\n\nPOST: A few days ago I spent a long day working outside, with lots of walking and getting in and out of a vehicle. I consistently wear compression shorts (under armour) as underwear. well this is worn a bit and got bunched up in the crease of my groin and thigh. The last hour of work I neglected repositioning, and just kept going. The chafe monster got me good. Raw as could be right on my gooch.
When I got home I went for my gold bond spray powder and went to ease the pain. I shook the can and flipped it to douse my undercarriage. Instead of smooth relief I got the searing pain of 1000 suns in a most delicate space. My bodies reaction was to tense and squeeze like a 4 year old holding in a true.
I only then remembered how when you flip compressed air cans you can blasting a bit of ice out. The ice burn only intensified the chafe pain for a few more days.
While I highly recommend the spray powders...May you never, by all things good in this world, flip the can upside down and use them on your chafing genital area.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Ice blasting my undercarriage while wearing compression shorts, caused a searing pain that only got worse due to my tense body.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 443 | TITLE: TIFU by locking myself out after spending money on wrong things.\n\nPOST: First of all i know i'm stupid. Now to my fuck up: My Mother and Sister left me home alone for two weeks, it was a mutal agreement since they wanted to go on vacation and i didn't. My mom gave me 250 euros which i was supossed to only spend 100 of and another 150 in case of emergancy like this one a guess. I thought sweet i can finally pay off some money i owed friends and the first 175 Euros were gone in the first day ( They left Friday so i had to give it to them now or after the 6 weeks of summer holidays and i thought to myself i can manage with whatever money i got left with no problem) . Then i went ahead and bought a new game on my playstation and i was left with 45 euros. I thought to my self my mom's not gonna be to upset if i spend the rest. That's were my fuck up really happened. When i came back home i realized i locked my self out. So i had to call locksmith (or whatever you call the guy who unlocks it for you) and he charged me 33 Euros and because so nice and again me being stupid gave him a tip so i am left with 15 euros. I was certain that some kind of food had to be at home or whatever to cook but nope only a pizza of things i can actually prepare myself without burning my house down. Well me being once more stupid spend 5 euros of those 15 for fast food alreday. So here i am on my pc left with 10 euros another three weeks at home while pretty much everyone is not in town anymore i know of. At least i got a good life lesson out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: spent money on wrong things, locked myself out, i had to pay 33 Euros to a locksmith and i wasted all the money i had left.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 442 | TITLE: TIFU by locking myself out after spending money on wrong things.\n\nPOST: First of all i know i'm stupid. Now to my fuck up: My Mother and Sister left me home alone for two weeks, it was a mutal agreement since they wanted to go on vacation and i didn't. My mom gave me 250 euros which i was supossed to only spend 100 of and another 150 in case of emergancy like this one a guess. I thought sweet i can finally pay off some money i owed friends and the first 175 Euros were gone in the first day ( They left Friday so i had to give it to them now or after the 6 weeks of summer holidays and i thought to myself i can manage with whatever money i got left with no problem) . Then i went ahead and bought a new game on my playstation and i was left with 45 euros. I thought to my self my mom's not gonna be to upset if i spend the rest. That's were my fuck up really happened. When i came back home i realized i locked my self out. So i had to call locksmith (or whatever you call the guy who unlocks it for you) and he charged me 33 Euros and because so nice and again me being stupid gave him a tip so i am left with 15 euros. I was certain that some kind of food had to be at home or whatever to cook but nope only a pizza of things i can actually prepare myself without burning my house down. Well me being once more stupid spend 5 euros of those 15 for fast food alreday. So here i am on my pc left with 10 euros another three weeks at home while pretty much everyone is not in town anymore i know of. At least i got a good life lesson out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: spent money on new game and fast food, made myself locked out in my parents house and had to call locksmith and have 15 euros of his money to spend.<|endoftext|> | [
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It was great at first, but as we lived together, things started falling apart. We just found we had too many differences in lifestyle, and, being broke, we lived in far too small a place. I ended up having to ask him to leave because he wasn't keeping his end of the bargain while living together (living expenses, doing chores, and respecting other boundaries).
He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
Reddit, what's the best way to try and re-establish communication with him?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | Had to kick cousin/best friend out after living together, and now I'm trying to re-establish communication. Help?<|endoftext|> | [
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It was great at first, but as we lived together, things started falling apart. We just found we had too many differences in lifestyle, and, being broke, we lived in far too small a place. I ended up having to ask him to leave because he wasn't keeping his end of the bargain while living together (living expenses, doing chores, and respecting other boundaries).
He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
Reddit, what's the best way to try and re-establish communication with him?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had to kick cousin/best friend out after living together, and now I'm trying to re-establish communication. Help?<|endoftext|> | [
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He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
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] | 274 | TITLE: How can I re-establish communication with my angry cousin?\n\nPOST: My cousin and I used to be best friends. We were so close that I invited him to move in with me when he was wanting to move out of his parents'.
It was great at first, but as we lived together, things started falling apart. We just found we had too many differences in lifestyle, and, being broke, we lived in far too small a place. I ended up having to ask him to leave because he wasn't keeping his end of the bargain while living together (living expenses, doing chores, and respecting other boundaries).
He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
Reddit, what's the best way to try and re-establish communication with him?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My cousin and I split up because we had too many differences in lifestyle and I had to ask him to leave. I want to try and reconnect and make it work, but he is still angry. What can I do to convince<|endoftext|> | [
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It was great at first, but as we lived together, things started falling apart. We just found we had too many differences in lifestyle, and, being broke, we lived in far too small a place. I ended up having to ask him to leave because he wasn't keeping his end of the bargain while living together (living expenses, doing chores, and respecting other boundaries).
He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
Reddit, what's the best way to try and re-establish communication with him?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My cousin and I had differences in our living arrangement. I ended up asking him to leave. What's the best way to re-establish communication with him?<|endoftext|> | [
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It was great at first, but as we lived together, things started falling apart. We just found we had too many differences in lifestyle, and, being broke, we lived in far too small a place. I ended up having to ask him to leave because he wasn't keeping his end of the bargain while living together (living expenses, doing chores, and respecting other boundaries).
He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
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It was great at first, but as we lived together, things started falling apart. We just found we had too many differences in lifestyle, and, being broke, we lived in far too small a place. I ended up having to ask him to leave because he wasn't keeping his end of the bargain while living together (living expenses, doing chores, and respecting other boundaries).
He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
Reddit, what's the best way to try and re-establish communication with him?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had to kick cousin/best friend out after living together, and now I'm trying to re-establish communication. Help?<|endoftext|> | [
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It was great at first, but as we lived together, things started falling apart. We just found we had too many differences in lifestyle, and, being broke, we lived in far too small a place. I ended up having to ask him to leave because he wasn't keeping his end of the bargain while living together (living expenses, doing chores, and respecting other boundaries).
He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
Reddit, what's the best way to try and re-establish communication with him?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | My cousin and I lived together, but I had to ask him to move out because he wasn't respecting boundaries. He moved back home and never apologized for his actions. How do I re-establish communication with him?<|endoftext|> | [
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He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
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It was great at first, but as we lived together, things started falling apart. We just found we had too many differences in lifestyle, and, being broke, we lived in far too small a place. I ended up having to ask him to leave because he wasn't keeping his end of the bargain while living together (living expenses, doing chores, and respecting other boundaries).
He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
Reddit, what's the best way to try and re-establish communication with him?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | My cousin and I lived together, but I had to ask him to move out because he wasn't respecting boundaries. He moved back home and never apologized for his actions. How do I re-establish communication with him?<|endoftext|> | [
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He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
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He moved back home, but never felt that it was fair for me to ask him to leave. I know he is still very angry with me. This was 8 months ago.
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] | 387 | TITLE: How do I [24F] protect myself while not hurting my only friend[22F]?\n\nPOST: Over that past few months I have been having problems psychologically(depression) and financially (to the point of homelessness). Throught this whole time my friend, lets call her Sara, has been going through a break up with her fiancee, who was a really close friend of mine but since the beginning of summer has been ignoring me (lets call her Jane[26F]).
After Sara and Jane broke up, me and Sara have been hanging out, sometimes almost every night, talking and what not. As a bit of back story before Sara started dating Jane, Jane was trying to set me up with Sara. During this time I really started having feelings for Sara, but she really loved Jane. It stung at first, but I was okay with it. Once they broke up and me and Sara started hanging out my feelings for her came back, hard. But since it was only 2 months since they broke I wasn't going to do anything.
So Sara and Jane lived together with another roommate, lets call him Paul. Well they started dating and Sara told me. I just don't know how to handle it, if he makes her happy that is great! But I don't know if I can continue to be around them together. I have no one to talk too about this either and its making it harder.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Old feelings come back after a break up, don't know how to handle it, and don't have anyone to talk too about it.<|endoftext|> | [
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After Sara and Jane broke up, me and Sara have been hanging out, sometimes almost every night, talking and what not. As a bit of back story before Sara started dating Jane, Jane was trying to set me up with Sara. During this time I really started having feelings for Sara, but she really loved Jane. It stung at first, but I was okay with it. Once they broke up and me and Sara started hanging out my feelings for her came back, hard. But since it was only 2 months since they broke I wasn't going to do anything.
So Sara and Jane lived together with another roommate, lets call him Paul. Well they started dating and Sara told me. I just don't know how to handle it, if he makes her happy that is great! But I don't know if I can continue to be around them together. I have no one to talk too about this either and its making it harder.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Old feelings come back after a break up, don't know how to handle it, and don't have anyone to talk too about it.<|endoftext|> | [
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After Sara and Jane broke up, me and Sara have been hanging out, sometimes almost every night, talking and what not. As a bit of back story before Sara started dating Jane, Jane was trying to set me up with Sara. During this time I really started having feelings for Sara, but she really loved Jane. It stung at first, but I was okay with it. Once they broke up and me and Sara started hanging out my feelings for her came back, hard. But since it was only 2 months since they broke I wasn't going to do anything.
So Sara and Jane lived together with another roommate, lets call him Paul. Well they started dating and Sara told me. I just don't know how to handle it, if he makes her happy that is great! But I don't know if I can continue to be around them together. I have no one to talk too about this either and its making it harder.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like my friend even though she loves another friend that she set me up with, how do I not hurt my feelings and still try to help her out?<|endoftext|> | [
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After Sara and Jane broke up, me and Sara have been hanging out, sometimes almost every night, talking and what not. As a bit of back story before Sara started dating Jane, Jane was trying to set me up with Sara. During this time I really started having feelings for Sara, but she really loved Jane. It stung at first, but I was okay with it. Once they broke up and me and Sara started hanging out my feelings for her came back, hard. But since it was only 2 months since they broke I wasn't going to do anything.
So Sara and Jane lived together with another roommate, lets call him Paul. Well they started dating and Sara told me. I just don't know how to handle it, if he makes her happy that is great! But I don't know if I can continue to be around them together. I have no one to talk too about this either and its making it harder.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | I am in a bad situation, gf of ex gf needs to be happy but I am not sure if it's possible to keep her happy.<|endoftext|> | [
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After Sara and Jane broke up, me and Sara have been hanging out, sometimes almost every night, talking and what not. As a bit of back story before Sara started dating Jane, Jane was trying to set me up with Sara. During this time I really started having feelings for Sara, but she really loved Jane. It stung at first, but I was okay with it. Once they broke up and me and Sara started hanging out my feelings for her came back, hard. But since it was only 2 months since they broke I wasn't going to do anything.
So Sara and Jane lived together with another roommate, lets call him Paul. Well they started dating and Sara told me. I just don't know how to handle it, if he makes her happy that is great! But I don't know if I can continue to be around them together. I have no one to talk too about this either and its making it harder.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am in a bad situation, gf of ex gf needs to be happy but I am not sure if it's possible to keep her happy.<|endoftext|> | [
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After Sara and Jane broke up, me and Sara have been hanging out, sometimes almost every night, talking and what not. As a bit of back story before Sara started dating Jane, Jane was trying to set me up with Sara. During this time I really started having feelings for Sara, but she really loved Jane. It stung at first, but I was okay with it. Once they broke up and me and Sara started hanging out my feelings for her came back, hard. But since it was only 2 months since they broke I wasn't going to do anything.
So Sara and Jane lived together with another roommate, lets call him Paul. Well they started dating and Sara told me. I just don't know how to handle it, if he makes her happy that is great! But I don't know if I can continue to be around them together. I have no one to talk too about this either and its making it harder.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | I have been having depression and financial problems and my friend has been going through a break up with her fiancee, both of whom are close friends of mine. How do I protect myself from continuing to be around them both?<|endoftext|> | [
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After Sara and Jane broke up, me and Sara have been hanging out, sometimes almost every night, talking and what not. As a bit of back story before Sara started dating Jane, Jane was trying to set me up with Sara. During this time I really started having feelings for Sara, but she really loved Jane. It stung at first, but I was okay with it. Once they broke up and me and Sara started hanging out my feelings for her came back, hard. But since it was only 2 months since they broke I wasn't going to do anything.
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Basically, she makes just enough money to not qualify for Finical Aid, but not enough to take out a solid student loan. She has been applying for ridiculous scholar ships and just basically freaking out. I don't know too much about the numbers, but she can only take so much out on a loan, and after paying for school, she would only have like $13,000 to live on for a year.
I was hoping that someone might have been in a similar situation and could help shed some light. Sorry my details suck.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: receptionist won't qualify for financial aid and wants to take out a scholarship ship. How much can she end up paying out of pocket?<|endoftext|> | [
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Basically, she makes just enough money to not qualify for Finical Aid, but not enough to take out a solid student loan. She has been applying for ridiculous scholar ships and just basically freaking out. I don't know too much about the numbers, but she can only take so much out on a loan, and after paying for school, she would only have like $13,000 to live on for a year.
I was hoping that someone might have been in a similar situation and could help shed some light. Sorry my details suck.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Receptionist is leaving work to go to school, but can't get enough money to live off of. She makes just enough not to qualify for Finical Aid.<|endoftext|> | [
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
In the interim, I've been working a ton since graduating. I have plenty of savings. I've been 'angrily single'. One brief hookup, no one else has interested me. I miss her immensely, but I've been good about not bothering her.
Anyway, I've kept tabs on her through mutual friends. She's got a massively painful dental issue which is going to cost a few thousand dollars to fix - one of her teeth has essentially fallen apart but it hasn't gotten infected yet. She basically has a dagger in her mouth cutting up her cheek. Her gov't health insurance won't cover it until it gets worse, is the third (fourth?) hand information I've gotten. She doesn't make a ton of money, very rarely affording to put savings aside every month. She's been very good about preserving what she put aside with her ex, but it was dwindling even as our relationship came to a close.
It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Should I pay for my up-till-now No-Contacted ex's expensive dental procedure that she can't afford? How?<|endoftext|> | [
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
In the interim, I've been working a ton since graduating. I have plenty of savings. I've been 'angrily single'. One brief hookup, no one else has interested me. I miss her immensely, but I've been good about not bothering her.
Anyway, I've kept tabs on her through mutual friends. She's got a massively painful dental issue which is going to cost a few thousand dollars to fix - one of her teeth has essentially fallen apart but it hasn't gotten infected yet. She basically has a dagger in her mouth cutting up her cheek. Her gov't health insurance won't cover it until it gets worse, is the third (fourth?) hand information I've gotten. She doesn't make a ton of money, very rarely affording to put savings aside every month. She's been very good about preserving what she put aside with her ex, but it was dwindling even as our relationship came to a close.
It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother exfiancee is in need of expensive dental work, I want to help but am not sure if I should. Help?<|endoftext|> | [
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"text": " Single mother of ex-fiancee with aanked ~$3k for her expensive dental surgery, should I pay for it?",
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
In the interim, I've been working a ton since graduating. I have plenty of savings. I've been 'angrily single'. One brief hookup, no one else has interested me. I miss her immensely, but I've been good about not bothering her.
Anyway, I've kept tabs on her through mutual friends. She's got a massively painful dental issue which is going to cost a few thousand dollars to fix - one of her teeth has essentially fallen apart but it hasn't gotten infected yet. She basically has a dagger in her mouth cutting up her cheek. Her gov't health insurance won't cover it until it gets worse, is the third (fourth?) hand information I've gotten. She doesn't make a ton of money, very rarely affording to put savings aside every month. She's been very good about preserving what she put aside with her ex, but it was dwindling even as our relationship came to a close.
It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | Single mother exfiancee is in need of expensive dental work, I want to help but am not sure if I should. Help?<|endoftext|> | [
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
In the interim, I've been working a ton since graduating. I have plenty of savings. I've been 'angrily single'. One brief hookup, no one else has interested me. I miss her immensely, but I've been good about not bothering her.
Anyway, I've kept tabs on her through mutual friends. She's got a massively painful dental issue which is going to cost a few thousand dollars to fix - one of her teeth has essentially fallen apart but it hasn't gotten infected yet. She basically has a dagger in her mouth cutting up her cheek. Her gov't health insurance won't cover it until it gets worse, is the third (fourth?) hand information I've gotten. She doesn't make a ton of money, very rarely affording to put savings aside every month. She's been very good about preserving what she put aside with her ex, but it was dwindling even as our relationship came to a close.
It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother exfiancee is in need of expensive dental work, I want to help but am not sure if I should. Help?<|endoftext|> | [
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
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It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother of ex-fiancee with aanked ~$3k for her expensive dental surgery, should I pay for it?<|endoftext|> | [
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
In the interim, I've been working a ton since graduating. I have plenty of savings. I've been 'angrily single'. One brief hookup, no one else has interested me. I miss her immensely, but I've been good about not bothering her.
Anyway, I've kept tabs on her through mutual friends. She's got a massively painful dental issue which is going to cost a few thousand dollars to fix - one of her teeth has essentially fallen apart but it hasn't gotten infected yet. She basically has a dagger in her mouth cutting up her cheek. Her gov't health insurance won't cover it until it gets worse, is the third (fourth?) hand information I've gotten. She doesn't make a ton of money, very rarely affording to put savings aside every month. She's been very good about preserving what she put aside with her ex, but it was dwindling even as our relationship came to a close.
It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother wants expensive dental work from ex-fiancee. I'm 'angrily single'. Should I give it to her? How?<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 484 | TITLE: Should I [24M] pay for my single-mother ex-fiancee's [23F] (with [2F], not mine) costly (~$3k) surgery?\n\nPOST: Hey. I'm a generally a weird dude so I want to collect advice from the internet at large.
I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
In the interim, I've been working a ton since graduating. I have plenty of savings. I've been 'angrily single'. One brief hookup, no one else has interested me. I miss her immensely, but I've been good about not bothering her.
Anyway, I've kept tabs on her through mutual friends. She's got a massively painful dental issue which is going to cost a few thousand dollars to fix - one of her teeth has essentially fallen apart but it hasn't gotten infected yet. She basically has a dagger in her mouth cutting up her cheek. Her gov't health insurance won't cover it until it gets worse, is the third (fourth?) hand information I've gotten. She doesn't make a ton of money, very rarely affording to put savings aside every month. She's been very good about preserving what she put aside with her ex, but it was dwindling even as our relationship came to a close.
It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother of ex-fiancee with aanked ~$3k for her expensive dental surgery, should I pay for it?<|endoftext|> | [
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
In the interim, I've been working a ton since graduating. I have plenty of savings. I've been 'angrily single'. One brief hookup, no one else has interested me. I miss her immensely, but I've been good about not bothering her.
Anyway, I've kept tabs on her through mutual friends. She's got a massively painful dental issue which is going to cost a few thousand dollars to fix - one of her teeth has essentially fallen apart but it hasn't gotten infected yet. She basically has a dagger in her mouth cutting up her cheek. Her gov't health insurance won't cover it until it gets worse, is the third (fourth?) hand information I've gotten. She doesn't make a ton of money, very rarely affording to put savings aside every month. She's been very good about preserving what she put aside with her ex, but it was dwindling even as our relationship came to a close.
It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother exfiancee is in need of expensive dental work, I want to help but am not sure if I should. Help?<|endoftext|> | [
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I'll provide a touch of backstory for the curious. My ex and I were in a relationship for two years. As I approached graduating college (took a break to work) we started firming up plans to live together afterward, which included making effort toward moving her away from her baby-daddy, and gaining full custody. Along with buying a house and all that. It was a lot. That wound up being what drove us apart about a year ago, on Thanksgiving night. We've been No Contact since.
In the interim, I've been working a ton since graduating. I have plenty of savings. I've been 'angrily single'. One brief hookup, no one else has interested me. I miss her immensely, but I've been good about not bothering her.
Anyway, I've kept tabs on her through mutual friends. She's got a massively painful dental issue which is going to cost a few thousand dollars to fix - one of her teeth has essentially fallen apart but it hasn't gotten infected yet. She basically has a dagger in her mouth cutting up her cheek. Her gov't health insurance won't cover it until it gets worse, is the third (fourth?) hand information I've gotten. She doesn't make a ton of money, very rarely affording to put savings aside every month. She's been very good about preserving what she put aside with her ex, but it was dwindling even as our relationship came to a close.
It wouldn't effect me tremendously. I travel, I work out, I drink. I have a minimalistic life. Should I give it to her? How? Cash? Check?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother wants expensive dental work from ex-fiancee. I'm 'angrily single'. Should I give it to her? How?<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | He'd rather wank than have sex, suddenly taking ages to reply to me and I don't feel like enough of a priority.<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: He'd rather wank than have sex, suddenly taking ages to reply to me and I don't feel like enough of a priority.<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend is suddenly ignoring me during sex and not doing anything or responding to my texts anymore but still plans his life. Why is he doing this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
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I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend has suddenly become distant and has been taking a lot longer to reply to texts. Co-ordination is obviously key to our relationship, but seems strange. What could be the cause?<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend is ignoring me, masturbates even when I initiate sex, and seems to be losing interest in me. How can I fix this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | He'd rather wank than have sex, suddenly taking ages to reply to me and I don't feel like enough of a priority.<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: He'd rather wank than have sex, suddenly taking ages to reply to me and I don't feel like enough of a priority.<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend is suddenly ignoring me during sex and not doing anything or responding to my texts anymore but still plans his life. Why is he doing this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | boyfriend is ignoring me, masturbates even when I initiate sex, and seems to be losing interest in me. How can I fix this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend is ignoring me, masturbates even when I initiate sex, and seems to be losing interest in me. How can I fix this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
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Over the last couple of weeks, about half the time when I initiate sex, it only ends in him masturbating. I'll start to give him one and if he was doing something on his phone, sometimes he's continued looking at that for several minutes while ignoring me. When this happens, he doesn't do anything back to me, like finger me or touch me in any way, then gets pissed when I stop and tries to get me to carry on.
He's also suddenly taking a while to reply to texts too. He used to get back to me reasonably quickly but I'm often waiting for nearly an hour or more, all of a sudden.
I recently changed jobs and now have weekends free but he's leaving my house even earlier than he used to so that he can do a sport he recently got back into. The last three times I've tried inviting him to events, he hasn't been able to come as he's busy doing sport things. I also have a sport I enjoy but I feel like I'm far more willing to compromise by choosing to see him rather than do a competition.
Despite this, he is still planning ahead by doing things like booking tickets for events for us that aren't happening for months.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend is suddenly ignoring me during sex and not doing anything or responding to my texts anymore but still plans his life. Why is he doing this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had problems with cheating and tried to rekindle. Now she is going to boot camp for 5 months and lots of long distance ahead.<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend cheated on me, trust is gone, I can't stop thinking about her, but I still want to be with her.<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | I have military problems and girlfriend is in National Guard and I don't know what to do. Should I break up with her? And what do you guys recommend for me to do with this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have military problems and girlfriend is in National Guard and I don't know what to do. Should I break up with her? And what do you guys recommend for me to do with this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is in National Guard and Air Force, we have nothing in common and I'm being torn apart by a bunch of stuff. Need somebody to help me figure out how to move forward or just tell me what to do.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 539 | TITLE: I [20 M] with my [18 F] girlfriend have military problems and other complications.\n\nPOST: Hi guys, don't know where to turn or who to talk to. I just have to let it out for somebody to know. First off we've been dating for a year and a month (half of it being long distance). Just this month I get all this drama that she cheated on me and it looks really bad in her favor. She denies it completely and after all of that trust was built up for a year I feel like I have to believe her. I break up with her after it all went down then I cannot stop thinking about her for 2 weeks. After 2 weeks I decide it's time to give it a shot and try to believe her. We talk about it more and I feel better. I still think about it sometimes but try to avoid it and believe her completely.
Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is in National Guard and Air Force, we have nothing in common and I'm being torn apart by a bunch of stuff. Need somebody to help me figure out how to move forward or just tell me what to do.<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 551 | TITLE: I [20 M] with my [18 F] girlfriend have military problems and other complications.\n\nPOST: Hi guys, don't know where to turn or who to talk to. I just have to let it out for somebody to know. First off we've been dating for a year and a month (half of it being long distance). Just this month I get all this drama that she cheated on me and it looks really bad in her favor. She denies it completely and after all of that trust was built up for a year I feel like I have to believe her. I break up with her after it all went down then I cannot stop thinking about her for 2 weeks. After 2 weeks I decide it's time to give it a shot and try to believe her. We talk about it more and I feel better. I still think about it sometimes but try to avoid it and believe her completely.
Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend cheated on me, trust is gone, I can't stop thinking about her, but I still want to be with her.<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had problems with cheating and tried to rekindle. Now she is going to boot camp for 5 months and lots of long distance ahead.<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have military problems and girlfriend is in National Guard and I don't know what to do. Should I break up with her? And what do you guys recommend for me to do with this?<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: | Girlfriend is in National Guard and Air Force, we have nothing in common and I'm being torn apart by a bunch of stuff. Need somebody to help me figure out how to move forward or just tell me what to do.<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is in National Guard and Air Force, we have nothing in common and I'm being torn apart by a bunch of stuff. Need somebody to help me figure out how to move forward or just tell me what to do.<|endoftext|> | [
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Now we get in this conversation today that has me really torn. She is in the National Guard and I'm in the Air Force. She has to go boot camp this summer and be gone for 5 months. Then when she gets back we get 2 month together then she leaves for college. I'm currently in college about 3 hours away. Then I graduate in two more semesters and get commissioned as an Officer where I will get stationed somewhere far away. She says she'll move with me and go where I go.
The trust in the relationship is kind of low but I still have feelings for her. She gets mad a lot and I put up with it but when we she's in a good mood, I am. We have lots of fun together, but with all of this stuff weighing down on our relationship idk how it will go. We're also really young and have lots of future ahead of us. I have to make a decision soon because I don't want to break up right before it and I don't want to break up during it. Idk what to do at all really. I just feel so lost and broken and I just really need somebody else to tell me something or ask the right questions. I'm being a little bitch about it and keep crying.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend cheated on me, trust is gone, I can't stop thinking about her, but I still want to be with her.<|endoftext|> | [
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