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I'm not physically attracted to my girlfriend but love her and want to be with her. However she wants that I love her physically which is exhausting for me. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not physically attracted to my girlfriend but love her and want to be with her. However she wants that I love her physically which is exhausting for me. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't find her sexually attractive at all. I love her but I cannot give her what she needs physically. We argue a lot. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I love my girlfriend but don't find her physically attractive. We fight a lot and she is very emotional. I don't feel I can continue but she really loves me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I love my girlfriend but don't find her physically attractive. We fight a lot and she is very emotional. I don't feel I can continue but she really loves me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't find my girlfriend attractive but love her with all my heart. She is very emotional and needs physical love to be happy. I can't give her this.<|endoftext|>

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I don't find my girlfriend attractive but love her with all my heart. She is very emotional and needs physical love to be happy. I can't give her this.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't find my girlfriend attractive but love her with all my heart. She is very emotional and needs physical love to be happy. I can't give her this.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't find her sexually attractive at all. I love her but I cannot give her what she needs physically. We argue a lot. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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I'm not physically attracted to my girlfriend but love her and want to be with her. However she wants that I love her physically which is exhausting for me. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm not physically attracted to my girlfriend but love her and want to be with her. However she wants that I love her physically which is exhausting for me. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't find my girlfriend attractive but love her with all my heart. She is very emotional and needs physical love to be happy. I can't give her this.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I don't find her sexually attractive at all. I love her but I cannot give her what she needs physically. We argue a lot. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't find her sexually attractive at all. I love her but I cannot give her what she needs physically. We argue a lot. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.\n\nPOST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also love her and even think about having a family with her. She was very hurt by a failed 12 year marriage where she was cheated on while he also didn't want to have sex with her. However, I - subconciously - avoid physical contact as much as possible. I just don't find her attractive, she isn't my type. Additionally, I'm not very social or emotional (picture: IT geek) and I don't require physical contact as much as she does. I never had a real girlfriend or felt loved by another person. I'm a total emotional cripple. I can actively bring myself to perform physical acts of love but this - being a conscious act - just isn't enough for her. I don't want to leave her but we argue at least twice a week and she is very emotional - she is a **high sensitive person** (check Wikipedia). She cries all the time, shouts and is extremely aggressive since she fears that I'm going to leave her. She tries to use guilt as a mean to hold me, to force me to give her what she wants. These fights hurt me very much. They hurt me so much that I get physically ill. Last night we argued until 1 AM and she said, that I'm her last chance for a relationship and she invested so much, since she is already 30. I can feel that she is deeply hurt by her previous marriage but I can't give her what she needs. I don't want to hurt her anymore. I want to give her the physical love she needs, but can't.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I love my girlfriend but don't find her physically attractive. We fight a lot and she is very emotional. I don't feel I can continue but she really loves me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

a guy keeps messaging my wife asking for pictures and sending her his phone number. Should I tell his girlfriend about this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: a guy keeps messaging my wife asking for pictures and sending her his phone number. Should I tell his girlfriend about this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy is sending wife messages on facebook asking for pictures. I don't know the people, don't know if its me or her and don't want her to get blamed for his problems. Should I tell her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

there is a guy who is sending my wife flirtatious messages asking for pictures and she's ignoring him. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?<|endoftext|>

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Guy sending my wife raunchy facebook messages is in a serious committed relationship and loves preaching against cheaters. Torn on weather I should show her what he has been doing.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: there is a guy who is sending my wife flirtatious messages asking for pictures and she's ignoring him. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy sending my wife raunchy facebook messages is in a serious committed relationship and loves preaching against cheaters. Torn on weather I should show her what he has been doing.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Guy sending my wife raunchy facebook messages is in a serious committed relationship and loves preaching against cheaters. Torn on weather I should show her what he has been doing.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy sending my wife raunchy facebook messages is in a serious committed relationship and loves preaching against cheaters. Torn on weather I should show her what he has been doing.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy is sending wife messages on facebook asking for pictures. I don't know the people, don't know if its me or her and don't want her to get blamed for his problems. Should I tell her?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " Guy is sending wife messages on facebook asking for pictures. I don't know the people, don't know if its me or her and don't want her to get blamed for his problems. Should I tell her?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "What people?" }, { "text": " there is a guy who is sending my wife flirtatious messages asking for pictures and she's ignoring him. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "The author has a wife and girlfriend?" } ]

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

there is a guy who is sending my wife flirtatious messages asking for pictures and she's ignoring him. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: there is a guy who is sending my wife flirtatious messages asking for pictures and she's ignoring him. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy is sending wife messages on facebook asking for pictures. I don't know the people, don't know if its me or her and don't want her to get blamed for his problems. Should I tell her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

there is a guy who is sending my wife flirtatious messages asking for pictures and she's ignoring him. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: there is a guy who is sending my wife flirtatious messages asking for pictures and she's ignoring him. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: a guy keeps messaging my wife asking for pictures and sending her his phone number. Should I tell his girlfriend about this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

a guy keeps messaging my wife asking for pictures and sending her his phone number. Should I tell his girlfriend about this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: a guy keeps messaging my wife asking for pictures and sending her his phone number. Should I tell his girlfriend about this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?\n\nPOST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how hot she is, asking for pictures etc. I'm used to it. I'm not the jealous type and she usually handles it herself, so it doesn't really bother me. One guy in particular bothered me. Neither me or my wife know the guy, but we have many mutual friends. He did the usual "you're so beautiful, please send pics" routine. She just ignored him so he started with "why don't you like me? Are you not attracted to me". She responded, telling him thanks for the compliment but she's happily married and not interested. He didn't get the hint and told her how it was his birthday and asked her to "just play a little". He even sent her his phone number. At this point, she came to me and asked me to intervene. I did, he never responded to me or sent her another message. After browsing through his Facebook, I got irritated. He has a lot of posts talking about his hatred of cheaters and fake people and how much he loves his girlfriend. So my first thought upon seeing his hipocrasy was to screen cap his conversation and sent it to her, to show what a piece of shit she is with. On one hand, its not my business and I don't really care since I don't know either of these people. On the other, I would want to know if it was happening to me. I just don't want me or my wife getting blamed for his problems.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy sending my wife raunchy facebook messages is in a serious committed relationship and loves preaching against cheaters. Torn on weather I should show her what he has been doing.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I've put on so much weight my husband and I are struggling with our relationship and I feel we are unable to even be in the same room together. We don't have our own kids yet but I still want to be a good father<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've put on so much weight my husband and I are struggling with our relationship and I feel we are unable to even be in the same room together. We don't have our own kids yet but I still want to be a good father<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: getting knocked up by and marrying (practically) a stranger yields expected results. Nothing is overly horrible, but it's not fantastic either. Would you stick it out anyway?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and husband drifting apart, don't know if it's because sex and life goals are incompatible or if I'm being controlling and I just need to learn how to stop being an asshole.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and husband drifting apart, don't know if it's because sex and life goals are incompatible or if I'm being controlling and I just need to learn how to stop being an asshole.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: getting knocked up by and marrying (practically) a stranger yields expected results. Nothing is overly horrible, but it's not fantastic either. Would you stick it out anyway?<|endoftext|>

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Husband and I are in a growing apart. No love, no sex, no common interests (except weed and tv). I want more than this. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Husband and I are in a growing apart. No love, no sex, no common interests (except weed and tv). I want more than this. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've put on so much weight my husband and I are struggling with our relationship and I feel we are unable to even be in the same room together. We don't have our own kids yet but I still want to be a good father<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Husband and I are in a growing apart. No love, no sex, no common interests (except weed and tv). I want more than this. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Husband and I are in a growing apart. No love, no sex, no common interests (except weed and tv). I want more than this. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and husband drifting apart, don't know if it's because sex and life goals are incompatible or if I'm being controlling and I just need to learn how to stop being an asshole.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Husband and I are in a growing apart. No love, no sex, no common interests (except weed and tv). I want more than this. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Husband and I are in a growing apart. No love, no sex, no common interests (except weed and tv). I want more than this. What to do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: getting knocked up by and marrying (practically) a stranger yields expected results. Nothing is overly horrible, but it's not fantastic either. Would you stick it out anyway?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Me and husband drifting apart, don't know if it's because sex and life goals are incompatible or if I'm being controlling and I just need to learn how to stop being an asshole.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Me and husband drifting apart, don't know if it's because sex and life goals are incompatible or if I'm being controlling and I just need to learn how to stop being an asshole.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [30F] with my husband [32M] together 10- married 8- 2 kids- struggling with growing apart- don't know what to do about our relationship?\n\nPOST: We met in college. Got pregnant after two weeks and now two kids and 10 years later I am starting to have doubts. Both of us have put on at least 100 pounds and neither of us are really attracted to one another anymore. We've tried COUNTLESS diets together to no avail, and as terrible as it sounds, I don't hate my body and wish he didn't either. (I don't hate his either! But he does and the lack of confidence is a turn off) It goes deeper than sex though- we have no common interests and work opposite schedules to avoid putting the kids in daycare and only ever see each other after 9pm at the earliest and when we do get together it's to watch tv. Again. He has no other interests than weed and tv. I've tried "forcing" him to branch out and go out on family adventures but it usually just ends in him bitching the whole time. On the same note, he really wishes I was more interested in weed or wrestling or sports but I just can't get into it. Finally, we are dirt poor and while he still makes more than me, I've gone from minimum wage to twice as much in ten years while he is still working for the exact same amount with no ambitions of ever moving on. I am starting to see this as a major turn offend wish that he was driven or had goals. I don't fault him, but find that it's incompatible to my life plans. There are countless more things separating us (our incompatible sexual preferences, our incompatible parenting styles, etc.) The problem is that despite our differences, he has always been totally supportive and loving and amazing showing infinite forgiveness and compassion. He stuck by me through unemployment and mental illness. He tells me how important I am to him and how much he loves me regularly which makes wanting something more all the more guilt-inducing. Please feel free to just tell me what an asshole I'm being. Maybe that's what I need to get over myself. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've put on so much weight my husband and I are struggling with our relationship and I feel we are unable to even be in the same room together. We don't have our own kids yet but I still want to be a good father<|endoftext|>

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Someone is stealing our food, we need to catch him first or we're gonna have to break down doors. Anyone know how to do that or know a booby trap?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone is stealing our food, we need to catch him first or we're gonna have to break down doors. Anyone know how to do that or know a booby trap?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: food is stolen, how can we catch our friend who is stealing it without using a booby trap or locking our door?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Roommate is stealing food from our apartment, we want to catch him but we want to know who did it so we can get closure.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate is stealing food from our apartment, we want to catch him but we want to know who did it so we can get closure.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: food is stolen, how can we catch our friend who is stealing it without using a booby trap or locking our door?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Roommate is stealing food from our apartment, we want to catch him but we want to know who did it so we can get closure.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate is stealing food from our apartment, we want to catch him but we want to know who did it so we can get closure.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone is stealing our food, we need to catch him first or we're gonna have to break down doors. Anyone know how to do that or know a booby trap?<|endoftext|>

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Someone is stealing our food and we want to catch him. Suggestions on booby traps or cheap spy equipment?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone is stealing our food and we want to catch him. Suggestions on booby traps or cheap spy equipment?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone is stealing our food, we need to catch him first or we're gonna have to break down doors. Anyone know how to do that or know a booby trap?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Someone is stealing our food and we want to catch him. Suggestions on booby traps or cheap spy equipment?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone is stealing our food and we want to catch him. Suggestions on booby traps or cheap spy equipment?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: food is stolen, how can we catch our friend who is stealing it without using a booby trap or locking our door?<|endoftext|>

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Someone is stealing our food and we want to catch him. Suggestions on booby traps or cheap spy equipment?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Someone is stealing our food and we want to catch him. Suggestions on booby traps or cheap spy equipment?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Good cheap ways to find person stealing our food?\n\nPOST: Basically, someone is stealing our food. There's 4 of us living in the apartment, and the only suspect there is our 4th roommate that we barely ever see. But he seems like a really nice easy going guy so we don't suspect him. That leaves our friends who are coming in and out of our apartment. It's kinda a Seinfeld scenario where people will just come busting in. And occasionally we will forget to lock the door when we leave, and by occasionally I mean pretty often, and this is probably when they steal our food. We already caught one friend taking seasonings and stuff without asking so he's our primary suspect. Anyway, any suggestions on how to catch the guy? Locking the door is the main solution of course, but we kinda wanna know who did it so we can have closure. So any booby trap ideas, or cheap spy equipment suggestions would be awesome.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Roommate is stealing food from our apartment, we want to catch him but we want to know who did it so we can get closure.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

SO of 7 years does not want me spending time w/ friends, even though we live close to his Uni. Am I being selfish for asking to spend time w/ my friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: SO of 7 years does not want me spending time w/ friends, even though we live close to his Uni. Am I being selfish for asking to spend time w/ my friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: SO wants me to be at work all the time and doesn't want to hangout with my close friends. Am I a selfish person for wanting some time to myself?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " SO wants me to be at work all the time and doesn't want to hangout with my close friends. Am I a selfish person for wanting some time to myself?", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n------------------\n\nThis is completely off: 'SO wants me to be at work all the time'\n\nThe rest of the summary lacks coherence and fails to capture the text. " }, { "text": " My SO doesn't want to spend time with my friends and I don't know how to make him change his mind and make the time together beneficial. Am I being selfish for wanting time together?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "Summary seems to conflate two problems - SO joining in more with OP's friends and spending time together just the two of them. 'Beneficial' is a cold word for relationships.\n\n-----------------\n\nSummary only touches on the lesser of the two main points in the text (mixing with friends). It says nothing about boyfriend's problem with her wanting to see friends at weekends." } ]

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My SO doesn't want to spend time with my friends and I don't know how to make him change his mind and make the time together beneficial. Am I being selfish for wanting time together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO doesn't want to spend time with my friends and I don't know how to make him change his mind and make the time together beneficial. Am I being selfish for wanting time together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: SO wants me to be at work all the time and doesn't want to hangout with my close friends. Am I a selfish person for wanting some time to myself?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My SO always guilt me into staying home whenever I wanted to hang with my friends even though I only have the 2 days weekend to chill/see friends & family<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO always guilt me into staying home whenever I wanted to hang with my friends even though I only have the 2 days weekend to chill/see friends & family<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: SO of 7 years does not want me spending time w/ friends, even though we live close to his Uni. Am I being selfish for asking to spend time w/ my friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My SO always guilt me into staying home whenever I wanted to hang with my friends even though I only have the 2 days weekend to chill/see friends & family<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO always guilt me into staying home whenever I wanted to hang with my friends even though I only have the 2 days weekend to chill/see friends & family<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO doesn't want to spend time with my friends and I don't know how to make him change his mind and make the time together beneficial. Am I being selfish for wanting time together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My SO always guilt me into staying home whenever I wanted to hang with my friends even though I only have the 2 days weekend to chill/see friends & family<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO always guilt me into staying home whenever I wanted to hang with my friends even though I only have the 2 days weekend to chill/see friends & family<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: SO wants me to be at work all the time and doesn't want to hangout with my close friends. Am I a selfish person for wanting some time to myself?<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " My SO doesn't want to spend time with my friends and I don't know how to make him change his mind and make the time together beneficial. Am I being selfish for wanting time together?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "Summary seems to conflate two problems - SO joining in more with OP's friends and spending time together just the two of them. 'Beneficial' is a cold word for relationships.\n\n-----------------\n\nSummary only touches on the lesser of the two main points in the text (mixing with friends). It says nothing about boyfriend's problem with her wanting to see friends at weekends." }, { "text": " SO of 7 years does not want me spending time w/ friends, even though we live close to his Uni. Am I being selfish for asking to spend time w/ my friends?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "Unclear connection between OP's friends and the proximity of SO's uni." } ]

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

SO of 7 years does not want me spending time w/ friends, even though we live close to his Uni. Am I being selfish for asking to spend time w/ my friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: SO of 7 years does not want me spending time w/ friends, even though we live close to his Uni. Am I being selfish for asking to spend time w/ my friends?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 7 years, does not want me spending time w/ friends\n\nPOST: I have seriously had it. A little background, I work for a firm that requires me to be at work Mon - Fri, 7am to 12/1am and have little time to myself, to hang out w/ friends or to spend w/ my SO. My SO is a student and even though we live close to his Uni, he stays on campus and we rarely see during the week. I try to be as available to my SO as possible but occasionally would want to go out w/ my friends (I only have 3 close ones) to chat. However, my SO would not have any of that. He always complains that he sacrifices his weekend so he could spend all 2 days w/ me and he would end up guilting me into staying at home, even when it is boring AF. I don't know what to do. Am I selfish for wanting some time w/ my friends? Also, am I supposed to be grateful he is willing to spend time with me? Another thing is we stay in a 1-room apartment so whenever my friends wanted to come over, he would LEAVE. He could stay in the same room and not contribute to the conversation but he would never stay (as I don't mind doing when his friends come over but he always asks me to leave). And whenever I suggest he hangs out at some bar/restaurant and come back later in the day, he would complain that he didn't wanna do so and grumble about me running him out of the house.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My SO doesn't want to spend time with my friends and I don't know how to make him change his mind and make the time together beneficial. Am I being selfish for wanting time together?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Sister scared me outside, beat on window, I attacked her from underneath her bed. Sister asked her bf what scary thing he was afraid of.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me outside, beat on window, I attacked her from underneath her bed. Sister asked her bf what scary thing he was afraid of.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My sis scared me, I scared her boyfriend, she ran away, I laughed because she is a weird sister.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Sister scared me, I ran under her bed seeking revenge, she told her boyfriend that being pulled under the bed was her worst fear, I took the opportunity to scare the shit out of her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me, I ran under her bed seeking revenge, she told her boyfriend that being pulled under the bed was her worst fear, I took the opportunity to scare the shit out of her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me out of my wits by beating on window, I crawled under her bed and yanked her ankles under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laughed and told her to watch her feet.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Sister scared me, I ran under her bed seeking revenge, she told her boyfriend that being pulled under the bed was her worst fear, I took the opportunity to scare the shit out of her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me, I ran under her bed seeking revenge, she told her boyfriend that being pulled under the bed was her worst fear, I took the opportunity to scare the shit out of her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me outside, beat on window, I attacked her from underneath her bed. Sister asked her bf what scary thing he was afraid of.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Sister scared me out of my wits by beating on window, I crawled under her bed and yanked her ankles under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laughed and told her to watch her feet.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me out of my wits by beating on window, I crawled under her bed and yanked her ankles under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laughed and told her to watch her feet.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me outside, beat on window, I attacked her from underneath her bed. Sister asked her bf what scary thing he was afraid of.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Sister scared me out of my wits by beating on window, I crawled under her bed and yanked her ankles under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laughed and told her to watch her feet.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me out of my wits by beating on window, I crawled under her bed and yanked her ankles under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laughed and told her to watch her feet.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My sis scared me, I scared her boyfriend, she ran away, I laughed because she is a weird sister.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Sister scared me, I ran under her bed seeking revenge, she told her boyfriend that being pulled under the bed was her worst fear, I took the opportunity to scare the shit out of her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Sister scared me, I ran under her bed seeking revenge, she told her boyfriend that being pulled under the bed was her worst fear, I took the opportunity to scare the shit out of her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, what is one of the most amusing coincidental moments you have ever been apart of or witnessed?\n\nPOST: When I was nine years old, I was left home alone with my sister. I can't remember exactly what happened, but something had startled me that was outside the house before my parents left. My sister knew this and being the wonderful sister she is, decided to scare me. I was on the computer in a room where the computer was positioned close to a window. She snuck outside and beat on the window, making me scream and run to my room. She came back inside the house, laughing hysterically. I was pissed, as she knew I was already on edge, so I decided to get her back. My sister called her boyfriend to laugh about and she walked into her bathroom for a moment. I took this opportunity to crawl under her bed. When she walked back into her room, she asked her boyfriend what the most terrifying thing to him was. He answered and then I can only assume that he asked her the same question. Her answer was this, "Probably if someone grabbed me from underneath my bed and pulled me under." At this point I was having a hard time holding back laughter. She was sitting on her bed with her feet on the floor. So, I did what any little sister seeking revenge would do. I grabbed her ankles, screamed as loud as I could and yanked her feet under the bed. She screamed and ran away while I laid under the bed, laughing my ass off.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My sis scared me, I scared her boyfriend, she ran away, I laughed because she is a weird sister.<|endoftext|>

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Looking for a creative date spot for the next date with a guy I really like. I'd like to make it a transportation-themed date - would love suggestions!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looking for a creative date spot for the next date with a guy I really like. I'd like to make it a transportation-themed date - would love suggestions!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Going on 4th date with a guy I really like, need ideas for transportation-themed date ideas. Need to avoid potential awkwardness due to his interest in transportation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Going on 4th date with a guy I really like, need ideas for transportation-themed date ideas. Need to avoid potential awkwardness due to his interest in transportation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Going on 4th date with a guy I really like, need ideas for transportation-themed date ideas. Need to avoid potential awkwardness due to his interest in transportation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm going on a very long-distance date with a guy, and I want a transportation-themed date spot. Help me find a creative date spot!<|endoftext|>

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I've been on some dates with a great guy and need some advice and suggestions for making the next one transportation-themed. Thanks!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been on some dates with a great guy and need some advice and suggestions for making the next one transportation-themed. Thanks!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm going on a very long-distance date with a guy, and I want a transportation-themed date spot. Help me find a creative date spot!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Looking for a creative date spot for the next date with a guy I really like. I'd like to make it a transportation-themed date - would love suggestions!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looking for a creative date spot for the next date with a guy I really like. I'd like to make it a transportation-themed date - would love suggestions!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm going on a very long-distance date with a guy, and I want a transportation-themed date spot. Help me find a creative date spot!<|endoftext|>

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I've been on some dates with a great guy and need some advice and suggestions for making the next one transportation-themed. Thanks!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been on some dates with a great guy and need some advice and suggestions for making the next one transportation-themed. Thanks!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Looking for a creative date spot for the next date with a guy I really like. I'd like to make it a transportation-themed date - would love suggestions!<|endoftext|>

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I've been on some dates with a great guy and need some advice and suggestions for making the next one transportation-themed. Thanks!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been on some dates with a great guy and need some advice and suggestions for making the next one transportation-themed. Thanks!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Seeking Advice for Unique Date Ideas!\n\nPOST: I could use help in finding a creative date spot! I'm heading into my 4th date with a guy that I *really* like. I've dated enough to know when there's long term potential, and it's definitely there. I don't want to over think anything or scare him away with over-sentimentality, but I want to show him that I care enough to go out of my comfort zone for him - say, like, writing to a group of internet strangers for dating advice. He's into urban planning and transportation. We live in DC, and I would like to arrange the next date to be transportation-themed (if that makes any sense). There's a restaurant inside Union Station that could be fun, but beyond that I'm stumped. Is this too cheesy? Too soon? I would appreciate your thoughts and suggestions for date locations!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Going on 4th date with a guy I really like, need ideas for transportation-themed date ideas. Need to avoid potential awkwardness due to his interest in transportation.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Hung out with ex and mentioned hooking up with a chick, she took it to heart and left right away. Feeling like an ass for hurting her feelings.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Hung out with ex and mentioned hooking up with a chick, she took it to heart and left right away. Feeling like an ass for hurting her feelings.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Talked to my ex gf about being on Tinder, mentioned hooking up with another girl, ex took it really hard and left right away. Don't know what to do now.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

told my fuck buddy ex gf that I hooked up with another chick, turns out it hit her harder than I expected, possibly chased her out of my life<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: told my fuck buddy ex gf that I hooked up with another chick, turns out it hit her harder than I expected, possibly chased her out of my life<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Hung out with ex and mentioned hooking up with a chick, she took it to heart and left right away. Feeling like an ass for hurting her feelings.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Talked to my ex gf about being on Tinder, mentioned hooking up with another girl, ex took it really hard and left right away. Don't know what to do now.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Talked to my ex gf about being on Tinder, mentioned hooking up with another girl, ex took it really hard and left right away. Don't know what to do now.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: told my fuck buddy ex gf that I hooked up with another chick, turns out it hit her harder than I expected, possibly chased her out of my life<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

told my fuck buddy ex gf that I hooked up with another chick, turns out it hit her harder than I expected, possibly chased her out of my life<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: told my fuck buddy ex gf that I hooked up with another chick, turns out it hit her harder than I expected, possibly chased her out of my life<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by being too honest with my ex about a previous hook up with someone else. Feel like an ass now and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Hung out with ex and mentioned hooking up with a chick, she took it to heart and left right away. Feeling like an ass for hurting her feelings.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Hung out with ex and mentioned hooking up with a chick, she took it to heart and left right away. Feeling like an ass for hurting her feelings.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by being too honest with my ex about a previous hook up with someone else. Feel like an ass now and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Talked to my ex gf about being on Tinder, mentioned hooking up with another girl, ex took it really hard and left right away. Don't know what to do now.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Talked to my ex gf about being on Tinder, mentioned hooking up with another girl, ex took it really hard and left right away. Don't know what to do now.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by being too honest with my ex\n\nPOST: Disclaimer: Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I've been drinking. So my ex gf and I who are on good terms and fuck buddies had finished up doing the deed and were laying in bed talking about possibly getting back together in the future and the topic of us both being on Tinder came up. Me, being the single guy I am, had hooked up with a chick on it a few weeks ago (fully protected of course) and didn't think much about it. She on the other hand apparently couldn't bring herself to see anyone else since we broke up 2-3 months ago. Well, my ass just happened to mention that I had hooked up with this other chick, and while to me, it seemed like whatever, my ex took it kind of hard, telling me that she wanted to leave right away so she could go cry. Now I feel like an ass for hurting her since we both still have feelings for each other. I feel like an ass because my ex is someone I really want in my life, and at the time I hooked up with the other chick I was like, shit, I'm single so fuck it I can bang whoever I want! I'm just worried that my ex will be out of my life for good. Dammit why can't I be a better liar/suppressor of truth? Some things are better left unsaid.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: TIFU by being too honest with my ex about a previous hook up with someone else. Feel like an ass now and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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How do I friend-zone this guy who is clearly into me but I don't feel the same way, without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I friend-zone this guy who is clearly into me but I don't feel the same way, without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: guy I'm friends with is a really fun guy, but I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that I'm not interested in him romantically. How do I tell him without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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Morman guy thinks that he and I have some sort of long term thing going, but I am uninterested in all possible ways, and I don't want to be a jerk about friend zoning him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Morman guy thinks that he and I have some sort of long term thing going, but I am uninterested in all possible ways, and I don't want to be a jerk about friend zoning him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't like this guy, I know he likes me, but he's way too oblivious to realize there's no future. I need to friend-zone him but I don't know how to without being a jerk<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Morman guy thinks that he and I have some sort of long term thing going, but I am uninterested in all possible ways, and I don't want to be a jerk about friend zoning him.<|endoftext|>

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guy I'm friends with is a really fun guy, but I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that I'm not interested in him romantically. How do I tell him without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Morman guy thinks that he and I have some sort of long term thing going, but I am uninterested in all possible ways, and I don't want to be a jerk about friend zoning him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: guy I'm friends with is a really fun guy, but I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that I'm not interested in him romantically. How do I tell him without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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I don't like this guy, I know he likes me, but he's way too oblivious to realize there's no future. I need to friend-zone him but I don't know how to without being a jerk<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't like this guy, I know he likes me, but he's way too oblivious to realize there's no future. I need to friend-zone him but I don't know how to without being a jerk<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I friend-zone this guy who is clearly into me but I don't feel the same way, without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Morman guy thinks that he and I have some sort of long term thing going, but I am uninterested in all possible ways, and I don't want to be a jerk about friend zoning him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Morman guy thinks that he and I have some sort of long term thing going, but I am uninterested in all possible ways, and I don't want to be a jerk about friend zoning him.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I friend-zone this guy who is clearly into me but I don't feel the same way, without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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guy I'm friends with is a really fun guy, but I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that I'm not interested in him romantically. How do I tell him without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: guy I'm friends with is a really fun guy, but I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that I'm not interested in him romantically. How do I tell him without being a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [17/f] friend-zone a guy (18/m) without being an awful person?\n\nPOST: So there's a guy at my school that I'm kind of friends with, and I've known him for about a year. He asked me to all the school dances, and I went with him because I didn't want to be rude and say no. I know he's into me because he's told me. But I don't feel the same way. I've tried to send him lots of friendship signals, but he's really of oblivious. I want to let him know for sure that we can only be friends sooner rather than later, and I have a lot of reasons besides the fact that I don't like him back. He's really clingy and that's irritating but I hate to be rude. He's also Morman, so he's going to BYU branch and then on a mission trip during college, so I'll be done with my bachelor's degree eons before he is, and I'm an atheist, and I feel really uncomfortable because he keeps inviting me to his church functions. I feel like he's not getting the bigger picture that there is no long or short term future for us, because he keeps dropping hints about how he "wishes we were going to the same college" and those sort of hints. I mean he's a pretty nice guy, but he's way too oblivious to understand that there's no future, and I don't know how to say it without being a complete jerk... so...advice?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I don't like this guy, I know he likes me, but he's way too oblivious to realize there's no future. I need to friend-zone him but I don't know how to without being a jerk<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 1 hot-tempered member + 1 irresponsible member= schism in sports club. Need help confronting/addressing them. Any advice appreciated. <|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm currently working as a board member for a sports club. I have issues with two members. Need help confronting them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 2 members who stepped out of line have created a rift in our sports club. How do I confront them to help ensure our club's survival?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How would you confront your fellow club member/coworker?\n\nPOST: Throwaway account. Redditors I need your help. I'm currently on a board for a sports club at my school. With several other club board members, we allocate and organize finances to attend competitions and plan events. Our finances must be approved by school admins before we can act on it. None of the work we do is paid by the school. This past year, we have had major issues regarding two members who have been stepping out of line and disrespecting us despite our efforts. This has created a slight schism within our club that I want to address because I care a lot about this club and don't want it to dissolve because of personal conflicts. **Member A**: 1. One of the oldest members. A is also talented in the sport so that has earned him respect. 2. **BUT** ANGER ISSUES (i.e. huge argument with school admin-> bad rep for club) 3. Despite his well intentions to contribute more the club, his temper has really deterred any board member from allowing him to make contact with school officials. Meanwhile, he has continued to criticize our efforts. I can't get him to understand that we are a small force that can only do so much. **Member B** 1. Formerly held unofficial position but was removed due to a miscommunication. Costed the club several hundred dollars. Never apologized for his actions. 2. Requested him to do favors for the club because without his help, we wouldn't be able to attend a tournament. He refused and only offered the favor when we held an emergency meeting with the coach regarding this situation. While our coach is not affiliated with the school, we plan on asking our coach for advice. Maybe I'm holding too big of a personal grudge but since these members will be around for at least another year, I want to learn how I can address these issues. Because they obviously don't respect us for work and effort we put in, confronting them is going to be a challenge. How can I give it to them?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: In school. Had major issues with two members. Don't want to bring the club down. How do I confront them?<|endoftext|>

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