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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
been talking to girl for 2 weeks, she has quite a few other guy friends. Should I be worried when she goes to hang out with them? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to girl for 2 weeks, she has quite a few other guy friends. Should I be worried when she goes to hang out with them? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have been dating an amazing girl for two and a half weeks, we has a lot of guy friends so I am worried about her hanging out with them, should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girl I have known for two weeks hangs out with other guy friends that she claims to only be talking to me when we hang out. Should I be worried?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl I have known for two weeks hangs out with other guy friends that she claims to only be talking to me when we hang out. Should I be worried?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have been dating an amazing girl for two and a half weeks, we has a lot of guy friends so I am worried about her hanging out with them, should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " Girl I have known for two weeks hangs out with other guy friends that she claims to only be talking to me when we hang out. Should I be worried?", "policy": "sup4_t0.7", "note": "Ok" }, { "text": " been talking to girl for 2 weeks, she has quite a few other guy friends. Should I be worried when she goes to hang out with them? Should I say something?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Ok --------------------------- B and D say the same thing. It's unclear if one is better than the other, though I think B fits the style of the post better." } ]
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
been talking to girl for 2 weeks, she has quite a few other guy friends. Should I be worried when she goes to hang out with them? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to girl for 2 weeks, she has quite a few other guy friends. Should I be worried when she goes to hang out with them? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl I have known for two weeks hangs out with other guy friends that she claims to only be talking to me when we hang out. Should I be worried?<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " Should I be worried if the girl I have talking to for a little over two weeks hangs out with her other guy friends if its just him and her? Should I say something?", "policy": "ref", "note": "Ok" }, { "text": " been talking to girl for 2 weeks, she has quite a few other guy friends. Should I be worried when she goes to hang out with them? Should I say something?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Ok --------------------------- B and D say the same thing. It's unclear if one is better than the other, though I think B fits the style of the post better." } ]
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
been talking to girl for 2 weeks, she has quite a few other guy friends. Should I be worried when she goes to hang out with them? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been talking to girl for 2 weeks, she has quite a few other guy friends. Should I be worried when she goes to hang out with them? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Should I be worried if the girl I have talking to for a little over two weeks hangs out with her other guy friends if its just him and her? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Should I be worried if the girl I have talking to for a little over two weeks hangs out with her other guy friends if its just him and her? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Should I be worried if the girl I have talking to for a little over two weeks hangs out with her other guy friends if its just him and her? Should I say something?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [19M] with [18F] that I have been talking to for two and a half weeks, should I be worried if she hangs out with other guy friends? Should I say something?\n\nPOST: Around two weeks ago I began talking to this girl. Everything has gone great, we can talk easy and when we hang out its a blast, but she does have quite a few other guy friends. She tells me that I am the only one she is "talking to" and that I should believe her but like i said I have only known her for around two weeks so I am a little worried when she goes to hang out with them. She is a very pretty girl and quite a few guys blow up her phone, some she texts some she just ignores. Should I be worried when she hangs out with them? Especially if it is just her and him??? Should I say something? We have discussed dating before\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl I have known for two weeks hangs out with other guy friends that she claims to only be talking to me when we hang out. Should I be worried?<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_44fnn2", "post": "I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it.\n\nThat being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here.\n\nI don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings.\n\nI think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. \n\nAs everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.", "title": "My [20M] \"standards\" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " I am not attracted physically or sexually to my friend, but I think she deserves the best I can offer, any thoughts or advice on how to get over my standards?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Does \"the best I can offer\" mean that the author thinks they should be in a relationship despite the lack of attraction? \n\nA little confusing. " }, { "text": " My own insecurity, \"standards\" and lack of a 100% physical/sexual attraction seem to prevent me from pursuing anything with a girl I feel very emotionally compatible with and have mutual \"feelings\" for.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay, except I'm not sure what the point is. I assume author wants affirmation of these \"standards.\"" } ]
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My own insecurity, "standards" and lack of a 100% physical/sexual attraction seem to prevent me from pursuing anything with a girl I feel very emotionally compatible with and have mutual "feelings" for.<|endoftext|>
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I am not attracted physically or sexually to my friend, but I think she deserves the best I can offer, any thoughts or advice on how to get over my standards?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My own insecurity, "standards" and lack of a 100% physical/sexual attraction seem to prevent me from pursuing anything with a girl I feel very emotionally compatible with and have mutual "feelings" for.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am not attracted physically or sexually to my friend, but I think she deserves the best I can offer, any thoughts or advice on how to get over my standards?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I have very strict standards for what I want in a relationship, and it prevents me from being attracted to my friend, even though I think she's amazing.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have very strict standards for what I want in a relationship, and it prevents me from being attracted to my friend, even though I think she's amazing.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a 20 year old guy who has a crush on a girl who is 18, and I feel guilty, but am terrified of the prospect of pursuing anything serious with her because I don't think I'm physically/sexually attracted to<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " I have very strict standards for what I want in a relationship, and it prevents me from being attracted to my friend, even though I think she's amazing.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Too out of context. Why does author feel the need to be attracted to this friend? " }, { "text": " My own insecurity, \"standards\" and lack of a 100% physical/sexual attraction seem to prevent me from pursuing anything with a girl I feel very emotionally compatible with and have mutual \"feelings\" for.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay, except I'm not sure what the point is. I assume author wants affirmation of these \"standards.\"" } ]
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My own insecurity, "standards" and lack of a 100% physical/sexual attraction seem to prevent me from pursuing anything with a girl I feel very emotionally compatible with and have mutual "feelings" for.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My own insecurity, "standards" and lack of a 100% physical/sexual attraction seem to prevent me from pursuing anything with a girl I feel very emotionally compatible with and have mutual "feelings" for.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have very strict standards for what I want in a relationship, and it prevents me from being attracted to my friend, even though I think she's amazing.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I'm a 20 year old guy who has a crush on a girl who is 18, and I feel guilty, but am terrified of the prospect of pursuing anything serious with her because I don't think I'm physically/sexually attracted to<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a 20 year old guy who has a crush on a girl who is 18, and I feel guilty, but am terrified of the prospect of pursuing anything serious with her because I don't think I'm physically/sexually attracted to<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am not attracted physically or sexually to my friend, but I think she deserves the best I can offer, any thoughts or advice on how to get over my standards?<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " I have very strict standards for what I want in a relationship, and it prevents me from being attracted to my friend, even though I think she's amazing.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Too out of context. Why does author feel the need to be attracted to this friend? " }, { "text": " I am not attracted physically or sexually to my friend, but I think she deserves the best I can offer, any thoughts or advice on how to get over my standards?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Does \"the best I can offer\" mean that the author thinks they should be in a relationship despite the lack of attraction? \n\nA little confusing. " } ]
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I have very strict standards for what I want in a relationship, and it prevents me from being attracted to my friend, even though I think she's amazing.<|endoftext|>
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I am not attracted physically or sexually to my friend, but I think she deserves the best I can offer, any thoughts or advice on how to get over my standards?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have very strict standards for what I want in a relationship, and it prevents me from being attracted to my friend, even though I think she's amazing.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am not attracted physically or sexually to my friend, but I think she deserves the best I can offer, any thoughts or advice on how to get over my standards?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My own insecurity, "standards" and lack of a 100% physical/sexual attraction seem to prevent me from pursuing anything with a girl I feel very emotionally compatible with and have mutual "feelings" for.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My own insecurity, "standards" and lack of a 100% physical/sexual attraction seem to prevent me from pursuing anything with a girl I feel very emotionally compatible with and have mutual "feelings" for.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [20M] "standards" prevent me from being attracted enough to pursue anything serious with my friend [18F]\n\nPOST: I really don't want to sound like a bad person, I do my best to be the best that I can to everybody. I really like this girl, personality-wise, we're pretty similar, we've spend a decent amount of time together over the past few months, and we are planning to spend Valentine's Day together (she asked if we could, and since we're friends, why not. We both acknowledge we have feelings for each other) and I am looking forward to it. That being said, for some reason, I'm put off by the idea of a relationship with her. She's a great girl, I REALLY enjoy being around her, because she reminds me a lot of the things about myself that I like without any of the things that I dislike. With that being said, I've always had very strict standards for what I'm looking for in relationships, and that isn't the case here. I don't want to make it sound like I don't think she's good enough, because I actually sit here thinking about how she deserves the best she can get, and I know that I may not be the best for her simply because I am so on the fence about my feelings. I think her personality is amazing, but I'm not fully attracted to her physically. Like, I'm not sure if I am, as shitty as that sounds. I know relationships need compatibility, and attraction, in all ways, and if I'm not physically or sexually attracted to this girl, anything I try to pursue beyond friendship is bound to fail. As everybody can probably tell by now, I kind of feel guilty about all this. I haven't tried to pursue anything because I don't want to string her along in case I can't follow through, but even the idea that it **COULD** happen has been going through my head over and over.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a 20 year old guy who has a crush on a girl who is 18, and I feel guilty, but am terrified of the prospect of pursuing anything serious with her because I don't think I'm physically/sexually attracted to<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Best Friend is acting like he's having a panic attack and doesn't want any help, but keeps calling me and ignoring my help. Help?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Best Friend is acting like he's having a panic attack and doesn't want any help, but keeps calling me and ignoring my help. Help?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend has been acting really weird lately and he's been calling for help and I've been ignoring him and getting nowhere. How can I help him?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Friend has been crying out for attention with a bunch of random things, I try to ask how I can help him, but get nowhere with it. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend has been crying out for attention with a bunch of random things, I try to ask how I can help him, but get nowhere with it. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend has been acting really weird and acting out calls for help and I don't know what to do to help him/stop it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Friend has been crying out for attention with a bunch of random things, I try to ask how I can help him, but get nowhere with it. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend has been crying out for attention with a bunch of random things, I try to ask how I can help him, but get nowhere with it. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend has been acting really weird lately and he's been calling for help and I've been ignoring him and getting nowhere. How can I help him?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My best friend has been acting really weird and acting out calls for help and I don't know what to do to help him/stop it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend has been acting really weird and acting out calls for help and I don't know what to do to help him/stop it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My [16F] Best Friend [17M] has been doing these weird "calls for help" and I don't know what to do\n\nPOST: My friend of 4 years (Ricky) has been acting really weird. Lately he's been acting like there's something wrong with him... he'll have like panic attacks (which from what I remember he's never had the problem before) and he'll call himself crazy and all these other weird things. He called me today and he was breathing heavily and freaking out. I tried to tell him to calm down, but that got nowhere and he just hung up. He texted me right after saying "I'm having the panicky shit again and you have helped me before." I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked him what to do, he didn't respond with any help, just said please. I told him to get a paper bag and start to breath into it to which he responded with "You're not helping The time I need you and you aren't helping." I tried to call him, but he ignored it and said he didn't want to talk. I told him I couldn't read his mind and he needed to tell me how to help, but he just said "Goodnight. Sorry for bothering you." I didn't respond. He's been doing these weird cries for attention lately to were he'll bring me into expected me to help, but when I ask him what to do, he just ignores it and it becomes frustrating. A few days ago we were into an argument and he said "I was stressed last year and was going crazy" and I kind of went off and told him "Oh yeah, you were so crazy, all you do is cry out for attention." Of course he left right there. I get I'm being a shitty friend, I do want to help him, I just don't know how. Asking him gets me nowhere, so I figured maybe Reddit could help me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend has been acting really weird lately and he's been calling for help and I've been ignoring him and getting nowhere. How can I help him?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks who I'm comfortable with, but don't know where I stand with him.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks who I'm comfortable with, but don't know where I stand with him.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Seeing a great guy for just over a month, have slept with him twice but wondering whether to ask if he's seeing/sleeping with other women.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks, not sure where I stand with him sexually/how I feel about the prospect of him seeing other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks, not sure where I stand with him sexually/how I feel about the prospect of him seeing other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Seeing a great guy for just over a month, have slept with him twice but wondering whether to ask if he's seeing/sleeping with other women.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Slept with a guy, am not sure how to go about this and ask him to see other girls/sleeping with girls without it sounding clingy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Slept with a guy, am not sure how to go about this and ask him to see other girls/sleeping with girls without it sounding clingy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks who I'm comfortable with, but don't know where I stand with him.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks, not sure where I stand with him sexually/how I feel about the prospect of him seeing other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks, not sure where I stand with him sexually/how I feel about the prospect of him seeing other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks who I'm comfortable with, but don't know where I stand with him.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks, not sure where I stand with him sexually/how I feel about the prospect of him seeing other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks, not sure where I stand with him sexually/how I feel about the prospect of him seeing other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Slept with a guy, am not sure how to go about this and ask him to see other girls/sleeping with girls without it sounding clingy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Slept with a guy, am not sure how to go about this and ask him to see other girls/sleeping with girls without it sounding clingy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Slept with a guy, am not sure how to go about this and ask him to see other girls/sleeping with girls without it sounding clingy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [23 F] struggling to work out the next move with [27 M]. Where next?\n\nPOST: I've been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks that I met on OKC. It actually took a lot of persuading on his part, but we hung out and it turns out he's pretty sweet. We've seen each other roughly once a week over the past month or so which has been lovely, and I'm starting to feel comfortable with him. I would increase the frequency of the dates but we agreed to take it slowly. I also work and am in the middle of sorting out a very important masters application, which takes up all of my free time in the week. We slept together on the third & fourth dates, which I now realise may have been a mistake for a few reasons. I'm not sure where I stand with him, and now I'm too shy to ask. I don't think it's a purely sexual thing but I'm thinking sex probably shouldn't have come into the equation so soon. I don't want restrict him to seeing just me as we're only going to be going on our fifth date at the weekend, but I don't know how comfortable I feel with him potentially seeing/sleeping with other women. How do I bring this up without seeming too clingy?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Seeing a great guy for just over a month, have slept with him twice but wondering whether to ask if he's seeing/sleeping with other women.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My girlfriend makes us text all day long even when we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her. What can I do to get her to stop?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even when we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her. What can I do to get her to stop?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend makes us text all day long, even if we run out of things to text about. And she reads too much into my text messages.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My girlfriend makes us text all day long even when we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her. What can I do to get her to stop?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even when we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her. What can I do to get her to stop?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads way too much into my texts.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My girlfriend texts too much even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads way too much into the things I text her. What's the best way to deal with this?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend texts too much even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads way too much into the things I text her. What's the best way to deal with this?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend makes us text all day long, even if we run out of things to text about. And she reads too much into my text messages.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My girlfriend texts too much even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads way too much into the things I text her. What's the best way to deal with this?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend texts too much even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads way too much into the things I text her. What's the best way to deal with this?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads too much into the things I text her.\n\nPOST: My girlfriend (21/F) of just about a year and I (22/M) text all day long. Even if we have nothing to talk about. It can go back and forth "Yup." "Mhm," etc. We have BlackBerrys so if she sees that I read that message and I don't respond, she'll get mad. I've tried to talk to her about this but she says that everyone has pet peeves and this is one of hers. That means that if I read the message I have to respond even if I have nothing to say. This bothers me. I've tried to talk to her about it but she says "Oh so you don't want to talk to me? I don't know about you but I can't go all day without talking to you." The texting thing bothers me because obviously I want to just relax sometimes and do things on my own. Also because by the time we do our nightly phone call, we have nothing to talk about because we already know everything about each other's days. This eventually turns into a fight about how we each have nothing to say. Additionally, she reads WAY too into my texts. I'll respond something like "Ok." and she'll think I'm pissed. Or if I don't sound happy through text messages, she'll start answering in one word texts just because she needs to be mad too or something.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend makes us text all day long even if we have nothing to talk about. She also reads way too much into my texts.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Best friend and I have been hooking up consistently for the past 3 months, now we have developed feelings and want to go back to how we used to be before. Advice?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Best friend and I have been hooking up consistently for the past 3 months, now we have developed feelings and want to go back to how we used to be before. Advice?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend and I have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed emotional attachment and want to go back to how we were before. What is the best way to go back to how we were?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My best friend and I have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed emotional attachment and want to go back to how we were before. What is the best way to go back to how we were?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend and I have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed emotional attachment and want to go back to how we were before. What is the best way to go back to how we were?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been hooking up consistently with my best friend and have developed emotional attachment. Need advice on how to go back to how we used to be before.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Best friend and I have been hooking up consistently for the past 3 months, now we have developed feelings and want to go back to how we used to be before. Advice?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Best friend and I have been hooking up consistently for the past 3 months, now we have developed feelings and want to go back to how we used to be before. Advice?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been hooking up consistently with my best friend and have developed emotional attachment. Need advice on how to go back to how we used to be before.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Friends with benefits turned into feelings, dating not an option. How to go back to friendship in least amount of pain possible.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friends with benefits turned into feelings, dating not an option. How to go back to friendship in least amount of pain possible.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend and I have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed emotional attachment and want to go back to how we were before. What is the best way to go back to how we were?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Friends with benefits turned into feelings, dating not an option. How to go back to friendship in least amount of pain possible.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friends with benefits turned into feelings, dating not an option. How to go back to friendship in least amount of pain possible.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] have been hooking up consistently for the past three months and have developed an emotional attachment and want to go back to how we used to be. Need advice\n\nPOST: We have always joked and been flirtatious with each other, but this past summer we ended up hooking up one night and have done it almost every day since then. We now live in different cities because of school, but we recently came to the realization that we have developed attachment/feelings for each other. For example if we go out in our friend group, one of us would get really upset if the other went home with someone else. What is the best way to go back to how we were before, because there is no way because of complications that we could ever date. I've gotten suggestions from friends ranging from cutting off contact completely for a while, just talking every once in a while, and just trying to talk often without hooking up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have been hooking up consistently with my best friend and have developed emotional attachment. Need advice on how to go back to how we used to be before.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
When a university says it's #1 at something or is ranked in anything, check the source because there's a very possible chance it's fake<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: When a university says it's #1 at something or is ranked in anything, check the source because there's a very possible chance it's fake<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't believe everything you read on the school's website. It's all fake and the school will sell you something you don't want to buy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
When a university says it's #1 at something or is ranked in anything, check the source because there's a very possible chance it's fake<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: When a university says it's #1 at something or is ranked in anything, check the source because there's a very possible chance it's fake<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: College is marketing a site for a fake site. It's not a legit site and its on every single website that you could possibly look at.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Don't trust the school's website, especially if they're selling a "best college" fact. Or if you're looking at a school, consider checking out their marketing materials.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't trust the school's website, especially if they're selling a "best college" fact. Or if you're looking at a school, consider checking out their marketing materials.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: College is marketing a site for a fake site. It's not a legit site and its on every single website that you could possibly look at.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Don't believe everything you read on the school's website. It's all fake and the school will sell you something you don't want to buy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't believe everything you read on the school's website. It's all fake and the school will sell you something you don't want to buy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: College is marketing a site for a fake site. It's not a legit site and its on every single website that you could possibly look at.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Don't trust the school's website, especially if they're selling a "best college" fact. Or if you're looking at a school, consider checking out their marketing materials.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't trust the school's website, especially if they're selling a "best college" fact. Or if you're looking at a school, consider checking out their marketing materials.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't believe everything you read on the school's website. It's all fake and the school will sell you something you don't want to buy.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Don't trust the school's website, especially if they're selling a "best college" fact. Or if you're looking at a school, consider checking out their marketing materials.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't trust the school's website, especially if they're selling a "best college" fact. Or if you're looking at a school, consider checking out their marketing materials.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: To students looking at colleges, this is for you\n\nPOST: The number one thing I'm starting to advocate for people looking at schools is don't believe everything you read on the school's website. Especially if it has to do with rank. The university I go to was featured on this "blog": Looks good right? Well that's a fake site owned by a bunch of for-profit universities. You go to the site, you see which college you should go to on the sidebar, it lists off a bunch of for-profit schools like the Art Institute of Pittsburgh. Then you think hmm, the site **is** called **bestcollegevalues.com** so if I want an art degree I should go there. Here's the part that pisses me off most about this, most schools on that list are whoring out this "fact" as if its worth it's weight in gold. I mean shit, we had a feature in the local newspaper because we were on the list. All that we're doing is helping the website's SEO rank by linking to it, which validates it and makes people think its a credible site... I brought this fact up to a few people and they said that it doesn't matter and that the head of marketing thinks its very important we advertise this fact constantly. So now we're hyping the crap out of this thing and it's fake. it's all over the school and it will most definitely be sent out on marketing materials as well.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the college subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: When a university says it's #1 at something or is ranked in anything, check the source because there's a very possible chance it's fake<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_3v2mq3", "post": "Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7\", Weight: 150 lbs.\n\nAbout two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.)\n\nNow, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury.\n\nWhat are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?", "title": "Correcting an old nose injury", "subreddit": "AskDocs", "site": null, "article": null }
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Injured my nose in a car accident two years ago. Looking to get the resulting breathing issues and slightly crooked appearance corrected now. Would like to avoid plastic surgery if possible.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Injured my nose in a car accident two years ago. Looking to get the resulting breathing issues and slightly crooked appearance corrected now. Would like to avoid plastic surgery if possible.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had nose injury two years ago, still have slight crookedness and breathing issues. Considering pursuing plastic surgery to correct both of these issues.<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " Had nose injury two years ago, still have slight crookedness and breathing issues. Considering pursuing plastic surgery to correct both of these issues.", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3", "note": "Okay, except it seems like it lacks a question. Does author want advice? " }, { "text": " Got injured nose two years ago. I've had breathing issues since then and am considering plastic surgery to correct the slight crookedness. What else should I be considering?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "Okay. " } ]
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Got injured nose two years ago. I've had breathing issues since then and am considering plastic surgery to correct the slight crookedness. What else should I be considering?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got injured nose two years ago. I've had breathing issues since then and am considering plastic surgery to correct the slight crookedness. What else should I be considering?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had nose injury two years ago, still have slight crookedness and breathing issues. Considering pursuing plastic surgery to correct both of these issues.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Got injured nose two years ago. I've had breathing issues since then and am considering plastic surgery to correct the slight crookedness. What else should I be considering?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got injured nose two years ago. I've had breathing issues since then and am considering plastic surgery to correct the slight crookedness. What else should I be considering?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Injured my nose in a car accident two years ago. Looking to get the resulting breathing issues and slightly crooked appearance corrected now. Would like to avoid plastic surgery if possible.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_3v2mq3", "post": "Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7\", Weight: 150 lbs.\n\nAbout two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.)\n\nNow, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury.\n\nWhat are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?", "title": "Correcting an old nose injury", "subreddit": "AskDocs", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " Had nose injury two years ago, still have slight crookedness and breathing issues. Considering pursuing plastic surgery to correct both of these issues.", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3", "note": "Okay, except it seems like it lacks a question. Does author want advice? " }, { "text": " Was in car accident two years ago. My nose still has slight crookedness. Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "\"Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.\" - Hilariously incorrect. I don't think the author wants those problems. " } ]
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Had nose injury two years ago, still have slight crookedness and breathing issues. Considering pursuing plastic surgery to correct both of these issues.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Had nose injury two years ago, still have slight crookedness and breathing issues. Considering pursuing plastic surgery to correct both of these issues.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Was in car accident two years ago. My nose still has slight crookedness. Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_3v2mq3", "post": "Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7\", Weight: 150 lbs.\n\nAbout two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.)\n\nNow, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury.\n\nWhat are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?", "title": "Correcting an old nose injury", "subreddit": "AskDocs", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " Was in car accident two years ago. My nose still has slight crookedness. Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "\"Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.\" - Hilariously incorrect. I don't think the author wants those problems. " }, { "text": " Got injured nose two years ago. I've had breathing issues since then and am considering plastic surgery to correct the slight crookedness. What else should I be considering?", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "Okay. " } ]
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Got injured nose two years ago. I've had breathing issues since then and am considering plastic surgery to correct the slight crookedness. What else should I be considering?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got injured nose two years ago. I've had breathing issues since then and am considering plastic surgery to correct the slight crookedness. What else should I be considering?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Was in car accident two years ago. My nose still has slight crookedness. Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_3v2mq3", "post": "Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7\", Weight: 150 lbs.\n\nAbout two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.)\n\nNow, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury.\n\nWhat are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?", "title": "Correcting an old nose injury", "subreddit": "AskDocs", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " Injured my nose in a car accident two years ago. Looking to get the resulting breathing issues and slightly crooked appearance corrected now. Would like to avoid plastic surgery if possible.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Okay, except it seems like it ought to have a question. \"Any tips?\" " }, { "text": " Was in car accident two years ago. My nose still has slight crookedness. Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3", "note": "\"Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.\" - Hilariously incorrect. I don't think the author wants those problems. " } ]
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Injured my nose in a car accident two years ago. Looking to get the resulting breathing issues and slightly crooked appearance corrected now. Would like to avoid plastic surgery if possible.<|endoftext|>
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Was in car accident two years ago. My nose still has slight crookedness. Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Injured my nose in a car accident two years ago. Looking to get the resulting breathing issues and slightly crooked appearance corrected now. Would like to avoid plastic surgery if possible.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Correcting an old nose injury\n\nPOST: Age: 36, Sex: Male, Height: 5'7", Weight: 150 lbs. About two years ago, I was in a car accident and injured my nose. I'm not sure if it was technically broken, but it became swollen and slightly crooked. I visited an ENT in a timely manner and made an another appointment with that doctor to have my nose reset. However, I never actually went through with the procedure because of insurance issues. (My car and medical insurers both stated that it was the others' responsibility.) Now, my nose still remains slightly crooked. I've also been having breathing issues and recurrent nosebleeds since the injury. I was told by the ENT I originally went to that I had a deviated septum that was worsened by the injury. What are my options for correcting the injury now, two years after I incurred it? Correcting the breathing issues are my priority, but I'd also like to correct the slight crookedness if possible. My understanding is that plastic surgery could accomplish both of these things, but I'd like to keep whatever is done to a minimum and avoid that route. Is there anything else I should be considering?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskDocs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Was in car accident two years ago. My nose still has slight crookedness. Seeking advice on how to correct the injury so I can have breathing issues and eventually have a deviated septum.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_2aa32p", "post": "I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub.\nMy dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about.\n\nFast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore.\n\nHe has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister.\n\nWhat can I/we do? We feel hopeless. We dont see a way out of this...", "title": "Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My dad is a very angry violent man who has been destroying my house for the last few days. My family fears for our lives, We dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My dad is a very angry violent man who has been destroying my house for the last few days. My family fears for our lives, We dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My father is threatening to kill me and my family if I don't stop involve the police and he doesnt pay for our bills. What can I/we do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My father is destroying my familys house and my family is broke. He is unstable and violent. He wants a divorce. What can we do?<|endoftext|>
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My violent abusive father is threatening to divorce, beat the shit out of my sister and I, and is spending all of my familys savings to do so. What can I/we do to ensure that we dont become homeless?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My father is destroying my familys house and my family is broke. He is unstable and violent. He wants a divorce. What can we do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My violent abusive father is threatening to divorce, beat the shit out of my sister and I, and is spending all of my familys savings to do so. What can I/we do to ensure that we dont become homeless?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My dad is a very angry violent man who has been destroying my house for the last few days. My family fears for our lives, We dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My dad is a very angry violent man who has been destroying my house for the last few days. My family fears for our lives, We dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My violent abusive father is threatening to divorce, beat the shit out of my sister and I, and is spending all of my familys savings to do so. What can I/we do to ensure that we dont become homeless?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My father is destroying my familys house and my family is broke. He is unstable and violent. He wants a divorce. What can we do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My father is destroying my familys house and my family is broke. He is unstable and violent. He wants a divorce. What can we do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My dad is a very angry violent man who has been destroying my house for the last few days. My family fears for our lives, We dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_2aa32p", "post": "I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub.\nMy dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about.\n\nFast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore.\n\nHe has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister.\n\nWhat can I/we do? We feel hopeless. We dont see a way out of this...", "title": "Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My father is destroying my familys house and my family is broke. He is unstable and violent. He wants a divorce. What can we do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My father is destroying my familys house and my family is broke. He is unstable and violent. He wants a divorce. What can we do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Im(M24) not sure what to do. My Father(M54) is literally destroying my family's house. He is very unstable and has a history of being violent. (xpost r/domesticabuse)\n\nPOST: I dont know where to post this and I am sorry if this is the wrong sub. My dad was an alcoholic during my childhood and beat my sister and I when we were children. This stopped when he stopped drinking which was when I was around 11. He has always punched holes in walls or destroyed things around the house when he got mad. He has mellowed out a bit since I graduated high school and its mostly due to him smoking more weed than anyone I have ever even heard about. Fast forward to this month. He is retired and he doesnt and has pretty much never cared about my family. He spent most of this months retirement check on comic books, comic figurines, weed, and Muscle car parts. My mom got angry because that has left us with less than 200$ for the entire rest of this month. He flipped out about us not having more money and threatened to beat the fuck out of my sister and threw a newly bought comic figurine at the wall. He also said that he wants my mom, my sister, and I out of his life and out of his house. He told my mom today that he wants a divorce and he whipped his tv remote at his very large and expensive Tv and figurines around it. He said he isnt paying for anything for the three of us anymore. He has always been very angry and unstable. He owns lots of guns and the last time he went nuts several years ago to lit a fire in my backyard and threw a can of gasoline on it. The fire was next to my house and my mom and I barely managed to put it out before it caught the house on fire. I am afraid for the lives of my sister, my mom and myself. He has spent all of my familys savings and my sister and I are both in school and have very little money. My mom doesnt want me involving the police but I am afraid that if I do not then I will come home one day and be shot along with my mom and sister. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My father is threatening to kill me and my family if I don't stop involve the police and he doesnt pay for our bills. What can I/we do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Godmother just died. Family is trying to take anything they can get out of it. Feeling like shit about it.<|endoftext|>
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My godmother died and I'm a beneficiary out of family contributions, I'm happy but money wasn't a thing I cared about<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just died. Family is trying to take anything they can get out of it. Feeling like shit about it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My godmother died and I'm a beneficiary out of family contributions, I'm happy but money wasn't a thing I cared about<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Godmother just died. No more suffering, worry, etc. I'm happy but family is selfish and tries to take anything they can.<|endoftext|>
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My godmother died and I'm a beneficiary out of family contributions, I'm happy but money wasn't a thing I cared about<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just died. No more suffering, worry, etc. I'm happy but family is selfish and tries to take anything they can.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My godmother died and I'm a beneficiary out of family contributions, I'm happy but money wasn't a thing I cared about<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Godmother just passed away. Left most of the money to me to help with school. Family is trying to get everything they can out of it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just passed away. Left most of the money to me to help with school. Family is trying to get everything they can out of it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just died. Family is trying to take anything they can get out of it. Feeling like shit about it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Godmother just died. No more suffering, worry, etc. I'm happy but family is selfish and tries to take anything they can.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just died. No more suffering, worry, etc. I'm happy but family is selfish and tries to take anything they can.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just died. Family is trying to take anything they can get out of it. Feeling like shit about it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Godmother just passed away. Left most of the money to me to help with school. Family is trying to get everything they can out of it.<|endoftext|>
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Godmother just died. No more suffering, worry, etc. I'm happy but family is selfish and tries to take anything they can.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just passed away. Left most of the money to me to help with school. Family is trying to get everything they can out of it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just died. No more suffering, worry, etc. I'm happy but family is selfish and tries to take anything they can.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Godmother just passed away. Left most of the money to me to help with school. Family is trying to get everything they can out of it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Godmother just passed away. Left most of the money to me to help with school. Family is trying to get everything they can out of it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Godmother just died.\n\nPOST: I'm not really sure how to take this. Death to me is a very beautiful and joyous time- no more suffering , worrying, etc. Everyone around me is upset or is trying to take all of my godmothers belongings . This to me dishonors her memory and quite frankly sickens me. Today I found out I'm a beneficiary out of the few in my family which will help me finish school. I'm happy but money's never been something that mattered to me. I just wish my family wasn't selfish and trying to take anything they can get out of it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My godmother died and I'm a beneficiary out of family contributions, I'm happy but money wasn't a thing I cared about<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_30c2et", "post": "My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. \n\nSex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. \n\nHe says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.", "title": "My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Boyfriend has low testosterone, I feel unwanted and unattractive. How can I/he get past this? How can we reconnect?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend has low testosterone, I feel unwanted and unattractive. How can I/he get past this? How can we reconnect?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend has low testosterone. sex has dropped to once a week. he says he still loves me and I believe him. what can I/he do to fill that void?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My boyfriend has low testosterone. He says he still loves and cares about me, how can I/he get some kind of spark back in his eyes?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend has low testosterone. He says he still loves and cares about me, how can I/he get some kind of spark back in his eyes?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend has low testosterone. sex has dropped to once a week. he says he still loves me and I believe him. what can I/he do to fill that void?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
BF's low testosterone is getting me down. It might be a while before it bounces back, if at all. What can we do to get that intimacy back in the meantime?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: BF's low testosterone is getting me down. It might be a while before it bounces back, if at all. What can we do to get that intimacy back in the meantime?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: My boyfriend has low testosterone. I feel unwanted and unattractive. What can I/he do?\n\nPOST: My (29F) boyfriend (34M) have been together for 3 years. He used steroids for several years and has now made the decision to quit. He had blood tests done and has found out that he has very low testosterone. Sex has dropped from about 4-5 times a week to once a week if we're lucky, but it's not the lack of sex that is bothering me. He is moody and less engaging and just doesn't seem interested in me at all. I feel like I kiss and cuddle him and beg for his attention but the response I get feels cold and robotic. He says he still loves me and I believe him. I know it's a physical issue that we will have to get through, but I just want to see that sparkle in his eyes once in a while, experience some intimacy (not necessarily sex), and FEEL like he's there with me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend has low testosterone. sex has dropped to once a week. he says he still loves me and I believe him. what can I/he do to fill that void?<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " It's been 4 years since she lost weight and pregnant. I'm no longer physically attracted to her, but I still love her. What should I do?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "\"and pregnant.\" It's hard to tell if the pregnancy is current or was 4 years ago. \n\nWho is the woman and what is the author's relationship to her? " }, { "text": " My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "\"How should we go about it?\" - What, leaving each other? \n\nOtherwise, okay. " } ]
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?<|endoftext|>
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It's been 4 years since she lost weight and pregnant. I'm no longer physically attracted to her, but I still love her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: It's been 4 years since she lost weight and pregnant. I'm no longer physically attracted to her, but I still love her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?", "policy": "ref", "note": "\"Opinions?\" - I assume the author is asking what the options are. " }, { "text": " It's been 4 years since she lost weight and pregnant. I'm no longer physically attracted to her, but I still love her. What should I do?", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "\"and pregnant.\" It's hard to tell if the pregnancy is current or was 4 years ago. \n\nWho is the woman and what is the author's relationship to her? " } ]
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?<|endoftext|>
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It's been 4 years since she lost weight and pregnant. I'm no longer physically attracted to her, but I still love her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: It's been 4 years since she lost weight and pregnant. I'm no longer physically attracted to her, but I still love her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?", "policy": "ref", "note": "\"Opinions?\" - I assume the author is asking what the options are. " }, { "text": " My girlfriend is overweight and has a difficult pregnancy condition (both of which may interfere with her ability to lose weight). Does this mean that I should end the relationship?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": " \"has a difficult pregnancy condition\" - What does this mean? \n\nThis is confusing. Not sure how author got from A - B. \n\n" } ]
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend is overweight and has a difficult pregnancy condition (both of which may interfere with her ability to lose weight). Does this mean that I should end the relationship?<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?", "policy": "ref", "note": "\"Opinions?\" - I assume the author is asking what the options are. " }, { "text": " My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "\"How should we go about it?\" - What, leaving each other? \n\nOtherwise, okay. " } ]
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?<|endoftext|>
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My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend is overweight, has had no success in losing it. Lost attraction to her, but having been holding out hope that things would change. Opinions?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?<|endoftext|>
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[ { "text": " My girlfriend is overweight and has a difficult pregnancy condition (both of which may interfere with her ability to lose weight). Does this mean that I should end the relationship?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": " \"has a difficult pregnancy condition\" - What does this mean? \n\nThis is confusing. Not sure how author got from A - B. \n\n" }, { "text": " My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "\"How should we go about it?\" - What, leaving each other? \n\nOtherwise, okay. " } ]
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?<|endoftext|>
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My girlfriend is overweight and has a difficult pregnancy condition (both of which may interfere with her ability to lose weight). Does this mean that I should end the relationship?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My wife has become physically unattractive, and has a difficult weight loss condition. When is the time to leave? Is it ever? How should we go about it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: When is it time to quit? [34M] w. [32F]\n\nPOST: We've been together for 6 years, and moved in together 4 years ago. We both gained weight after we started dating, and both resolved to lose it. She is now obese, but I managed to stop, and reverse my weight gain. I'm now at around 12% body fat. I am no longer physically attracted to her, and haven't been for the last 4 years. We still have sex 1-2 times a week, but I no longer lust after her and it is starting to feel like a chore. I still love her deeply in a platonic and romantic way, just not in a passionate one. She also has a condition which makes it more difficult to lose weight, and get pregnant. We had hoped to have children soon, but this condition may interfere with her ability to get pregnant, so she resolved to lose the weight first. That was 2 years ago, and while things have not worsened weight wise, they have not improved either. We have tried (and had no major changes with): -Cooking and eating healthy meals together for the last 3 years -Exercise together, and apart (she exercises 3-4 times a week, mostly fitness classes for motivation) -Shared activities for health -Calorie counting\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend is overweight and has a difficult pregnancy condition (both of which may interfere with her ability to lose weight). Does this mean that I should end the relationship?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I outburst at a race issue and people think I am a racist. A man apologizes and my work day is salvaged.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I outburst at a race issue and people think I am a racist. A man apologizes and my work day is salvaged.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Asian guy accused me of being a racist. I was accused of being racist and apologized. Coworker apologized and thanked me profusely.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Guy calls me racist for doing my job and I yell at him for race baiting. He realizes his mistake and apologizes the next day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy calls me racist for doing my job and I yell at him for race baiting. He realizes his mistake and apologizes the next day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Asian guy accused me of being a racist. I was accused of being racist and apologized. Coworker apologized and thanked me profusely.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Guy calls me racist for doing my job and I yell at him for race baiting. He realizes his mistake and apologizes the next day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy calls me racist for doing my job and I yell at him for race baiting. He realizes his mistake and apologizes the next day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I outburst at a race issue and people think I am a racist. A man apologizes and my work day is salvaged.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Asian guy accused me of being a racist. I was accused of being racist and apologized. Coworker apologized and thanked me profusely.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Asian guy accused me of being a racist. I was accused of being racist and apologized. Coworker apologized and thanked me profusely.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Asian guy tries to make me look like a racist by calling me names, I ended up doing a good deed to save my day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Guy calls me racist for doing my job and I yell at him for race baiting. He realizes his mistake and apologizes the next day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Guy calls me racist for doing my job and I yell at him for race baiting. He realizes his mistake and apologizes the next day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Asian guy tries to make me look like a racist by calling me names, I ended up doing a good deed to save my day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I outburst at a race issue and people think I am a racist. A man apologizes and my work day is salvaged.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I outburst at a race issue and people think I am a racist. A man apologizes and my work day is salvaged.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness.\n\nPOST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's cards. Every once in a while people will get upset that they have to show their card. Two days ago a guy refused to show his card. We are trained to be polite but insist on seeing the card. Eventually the guy relented and but shoved the card in my face. I am big guy and am used to people trying to act tough around me so I let it go but reminded him that we need to see the card any time he enters the building. He did not like that and we chirped back and forth a few times before he walked off. A few moments later he returned and said, "Ya know as an Asian-American..." I interrupted him. I am a relatively patient man and pray often for humility but I absolutely hate it when people bring race into non-relavent issues. I have never yelled at a stranger before (and I have definitely never done it while on the clock) but with all the race issues going on I had had it, "Shut up! I have no time for your race baiting, get out of here!" He looked shocked but immediately left. I was a bit shaken up for not only loosing my cool, but that I was accused of being a racist. It ruined my day. I could not believe a man would call me a racist for doing my job. I told my manager what had happened in case he decided to complain, my manager gave a good natured laugh at the situation and told me to let it go. When the day finally ended I went home and went straight to bed. Yesterday the man came in and apologized to me. I gave him a hug and thanked him profusely and send him off with a blessing. Thank you for apologizing Asian guy, I really appreciate it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the offmychest subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Asian guy tries to make me look like a racist by calling me names, I ended up doing a good deed to save my day.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I'm a semi-in shape guy who always has been lazy. Now I'm fat and lazy. What's the best way to motivate myself to get moving again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a semi-in shape guy who always has been lazy. Now I'm fat and lazy. What's the best way to motivate myself to get moving again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Diabetic since 13, no motivation to start working out even though I'm healthy. Having a hard time finding motivation to do anything. Help.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I got diabetus. I used to be in shape(ish) and now I've gone beyond lazy and am completely unmotivated to do anything physical. <|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I got diabetus. I used to be in shape(ish) and now I've gone beyond lazy and am completely unmotivated to do anything physical. <|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a semi-in shape guy who always has been lazy. Now I'm fat and lazy. What's the best way to motivate myself to get moving again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I got diabetus. I used to be in shape(ish) and now I've gone beyond lazy and am completely unmotivated to do anything physical. <|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I got diabetus. I used to be in shape(ish) and now I've gone beyond lazy and am completely unmotivated to do anything physical. <|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm lazy and feel miserable all the time despite my girlfriend being very happy with me. Need help figuring out why, and how to get started again.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I'm a semi-in shape guy who always has been lazy. Now I'm fat and lazy. What's the best way to motivate myself to get moving again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a semi-in shape guy who always has been lazy. Now I'm fat and lazy. What's the best way to motivate myself to get moving again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm lazy and feel miserable all the time despite my girlfriend being very happy with me. Need help figuring out why, and how to get started again.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I got diabetus. I used to be in shape(ish) and now I've gone beyond lazy and am completely unmotivated to do anything physical. <|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I got diabetus. I used to be in shape(ish) and now I've gone beyond lazy and am completely unmotivated to do anything physical. <|endoftext|>
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TITLE: [20 M] Diabetic needing some help finding motivation to get started (again).\n\nPOST: As said in the title, I've had diabetes since I was thirteen and up until recently I've been in denial (in a way). All through high school I was semi-in shape. I was running every day because I played lacrosse year-round and now that I'm in college I have no obligations... Anyway, as I keep typing and deleting my little story I just keep feeling shitty because all I'm reading as I type is that I'm lazy. I'm 235 (+-2-3 lbs) and 5'8. My skinniest was 195 in high school, and I'm a fairly stocky fella. I used to be able to jog 2-3 miles at my peak. Now I can't really find it in myself to even wake up early in the morning, even if I do sleep before midnight. Also, I'm not sure if this is a legit reason for my weak-submanly mentality, I have a girlfriend who's satisfied with me in every way physically. Sexytime we're pretty happy, but no matter what happens whenever we look at ourselves in the mirror I feel unhappy with what I'm seeing despite what she says.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the loseit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Diabetic since 13, no motivation to start working out even though I'm healthy. Having a hard time finding motivation to do anything. Help.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My girlfriend and I are having issues. She is a good person. I feel like I'm her therapist, how do I know if it's worth it to continue with me as a person, or if it's better to just move on<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend and I are having issues. She is a good person. I feel like I'm her therapist, how do I know if it's worth it to continue with me as a person, or if it's better to just move on<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: slowly realizing things about the relationship that are not the greatest, sunken cost-fallacy, and most likely long distance.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
slowly realizing things about the relationship that are not the greatest, sunken cost-fallacy, and most likely long distance.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: slowly realizing things about the relationship that are not the greatest, sunken cost-fallacy, and most likely long distance.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance/insecure relationship with girlfriend of 3 years, general intimacy issues, how do I know if it is worth continuing despite these issues and other issues?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: slowly realizing things about the relationship that are not the greatest, sunken cost-fallacy, and most likely long distance.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Long distance relationship still going well despite issues, intimacy issues, and general concerns about the future. What should I do about it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My girlfriend and I are having issues. She is a good person. I feel like I'm her therapist, how do I know if it's worth it to continue with me as a person, or if it's better to just move on<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend and I are having issues. She is a good person. I feel like I'm her therapist, how do I know if it's worth it to continue with me as a person, or if it's better to just move on<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: long distance/insecure relationship with girlfriend of 3 years, general intimacy issues, how do I know if it is worth continuing despite these issues and other issues?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
My girlfriend and I are having issues. She is a good person. I feel like I'm her therapist, how do I know if it's worth it to continue with me as a person, or if it's better to just move on<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My girlfriend and I are having issues. She is a good person. I feel like I'm her therapist, how do I know if it's worth it to continue with me as a person, or if it's better to just move on<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of three years, how do I know if it's worth it to continue in spite of issues and looming longdistance/uncertainty, ideas of sunken cost fallacy, and general intimacy issues\n\nPOST: We have been together for 3 years and things have been largely good between us. I always felt that we had really good communication but I guess this is a thing that can always be improved. Lately I have been noticing little things about her that bother me, generally "sassy", uptight, and I feel like I'm her therapist at times. I am coming to the end of my degree in computer science and am not sure what to do, some part of me says I should stick it out and see if we can come out of this and another says that it might just be dead and I should move on. It is most likely that we will have a period of unknown length of long distance if we stick together. I asked advice of a friend of mine and he says that he feels that she is generally hard on me. To which I agree to some extent, I often feel like there are things that I should say because they are the right thing to say. As a whole the sex has been not great over the last 3 months. And I feel general intimacy is way down and would take a lot of work to bring back up. Contrary to the tone of this post thus far, she has helped me through tough times, she seems very interested in continuing the relationship regardless of all the bumps the last while, and I still believe she is a good person, just sometimes clueless. The overall tone of this post seems to lead towards breaking up, but what is the general consensus on this scenario. Or if /r/relationships is against giving straight up answers, what are important questions I should look into to find realize what I should do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Long distance relationship still going well despite issues, intimacy issues, and general concerns about the future. What should I do about it?<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_38dje9", "post": "Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on.\n\nThis all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, \"hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc\". He responds and then says, \"oh btw James is coming lol\".\n\nFirst I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding.\n\nTo keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some \"life milestones\" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. \n\nI guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?", "title": "I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
boyfriend went to visit a baby with his friend instead of me. Likely why I'm so upset is because there is something bigger that is wrong here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend went to visit a baby with his friend instead of me. Likely why I'm so upset is because there is something bigger that is wrong here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend treats me much (but not all) of the same way as his friends and I can't tell if I'm being overly sensitive or if this is just how my bf is.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_38dje9", "post": "Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on.\n\nThis all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, \"hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc\". He responds and then says, \"oh btw James is coming lol\".\n\nFirst I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding.\n\nTo keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some \"life milestones\" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. \n\nI guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?", "title": "I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " boyfriend treats me much (but not all) of the same way as his friends and I can't tell if I'm being overly sensitive or if this is just how my bf is.", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Needs a bit more context.\n\nWill get responses that will help author. " }, { "text": " my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. Implies need for advice. " } ]
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend treats me much (but not all) of the same way as his friends and I can't tell if I'm being overly sensitive or if this is just how my bf is.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_38dje9", "post": "Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on.\n\nThis all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, \"hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc\". He responds and then says, \"oh btw James is coming lol\".\n\nFirst I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding.\n\nTo keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some \"life milestones\" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. \n\nI guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?", "title": "I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " boyfriend treats me much (but not all) of the same way as his friends and I can't tell if I'm being overly sensitive or if this is just how my bf is.", "policy": "sup4_bo256_rm3_6b", "note": "Needs a bit more context.\n\nWill get responses that will help author. " }, { "text": " Boyfriend is more affectionate with his best friend than me and it's driving me crazy. I feel like there are some \"life milestones\" that you should share with your partner and those things should be special.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. Implies need for advice. \n\n\"more affectionate with his best friend than me\" -inaccurate; skews author's story. " } ]
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
boyfriend treats me much (but not all) of the same way as his friends and I can't tell if I'm being overly sensitive or if this is just how my bf is.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend treats me much (but not all) of the same way as his friends and I can't tell if I'm being overly sensitive or if this is just how my bf is.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is more affectionate with his best friend than me and it's driving me crazy. I feel like there are some "life milestones" that you should share with your partner and those things should be special.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_38dje9", "post": "Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on.\n\nThis all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, \"hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc\". He responds and then says, \"oh btw James is coming lol\".\n\nFirst I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding.\n\nTo keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some \"life milestones\" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. \n\nI guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?", "title": "I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " Boyfriend is more affectionate with his best friend than me and it's driving me crazy. I feel like there are some \"life milestones\" that you should share with your partner and those things should be special.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. Implies need for advice. \n\n\"more affectionate with his best friend than me\" -inaccurate; skews author's story. " }, { "text": " boyfriend went to visit a baby with his friend instead of me. Likely why I'm so upset is because there is something bigger that is wrong here.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Needs more context as to why there is \"something bigger that is wrong\".." } ]
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
boyfriend went to visit a baby with his friend instead of me. Likely why I'm so upset is because there is something bigger that is wrong here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend went to visit a baby with his friend instead of me. Likely why I'm so upset is because there is something bigger that is wrong here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is more affectionate with his best friend than me and it's driving me crazy. I feel like there are some "life milestones" that you should share with your partner and those things should be special.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_38dje9", "post": "Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on.\n\nThis all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, \"hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc\". He responds and then says, \"oh btw James is coming lol\".\n\nFirst I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding.\n\nTo keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some \"life milestones\" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. \n\nI guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?", "title": "I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " Boyfriend is more affectionate with his best friend than me and it's driving me crazy. I feel like there are some \"life milestones\" that you should share with your partner and those things should be special.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. Implies need for advice. \n\n\"more affectionate with his best friend than me\" -inaccurate; skews author's story. " }, { "text": " my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. Implies need for advice. " } ]
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend is more affectionate with his best friend than me and it's driving me crazy. I feel like there are some "life milestones" that you should share with your partner and those things should be special.<|endoftext|>
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{ "id": "t3_38dje9", "post": "Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on.\n\nThis all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, \"hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc\". He responds and then says, \"oh btw James is coming lol\".\n\nFirst I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding.\n\nTo keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some \"life milestones\" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. \n\nI guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?", "title": "I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore", "subreddit": "relationships", "site": null, "article": null }
[ { "text": " my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.", "policy": "sup4_bo128_rm3_6b", "note": "Okay. Implies need for advice. " }, { "text": " boyfriend went to visit a baby with his friend instead of me. Likely why I'm so upset is because there is something bigger that is wrong here.", "policy": "ref", "note": "Needs more context as to why there is \"something bigger that is wrong\".." } ]
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend doesn't show any affection to me when we hang out with his friends and I'm getting pissed off. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if it's something else.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I (22f) can't even tell if I'm being overly sensitive anymore\n\nPOST: Hey Reddit, my boyfriend (24) and I have been dating for 2 years and apart from some small stuff we've had a relatively smooth go. However, some things he does drive me absolutely insane and I can't tell anymore if it's just his personality or if something else is going on. This all came to a head yesterday. Someone in his family recently gave birth and we talked about going to visit. I said I wasn't sure if I could go but will keep him posted throughout the day. 3 p.m rolls around and I msg him saying, "hey when are we leaving, what are we bringing etc". He responds and then says, "oh btw James is coming lol". First I was confused and then I was really pissed off. James is his best friend of 10 years. I have no problems with any of his friends but (and we've had this fight before) whenever it is the 3 of us hanging out my boyfriend will show 0 affection. We can't hold hands, can't peck, can't snuggle for too long or even have inside jokes. He says he feels bad because James has never had a girlfriend and has really low self esteem so he doesn't want to rub our relationship in his face. We argued for a bit but he wasn't getting why I so upset so I just stopped responding. To keep this story short, I didn't end up going to see the baby because I feel like we keep having the same argument that is centred around my boyfriend not treating me differently than his friends (if that makes sense). I just feel like there are some "life milestones" or whatever that you should share with your partner and those things should be special. I guess my question is, would anyone else be upset?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend went to visit a baby with his friend instead of me. Likely why I'm so upset is because there is something bigger that is wrong here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Found a stray cat with a broken leg but can't afford to take it to an emergency vet. Any thoughts on a place I could take it that wouldn't just put it down?<|endoftext|>
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found a stray with a broken leg, don't have the money to take it to a vet, any ideas of where I can take it? Thanks!<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Found a stray cat with a broken leg but can't afford to take it to an emergency vet. Any thoughts on a place I could take it that wouldn't just put it down?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: found a stray with a broken leg, don't have the money to take it to a vet, any ideas of where I can take it? Thanks!<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
found a stray with a broken leg, don't have the money to take it to a vet, any ideas of where I can take it? Thanks!<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: found a stray with a broken leg, don't have the money to take it to a vet, any ideas of where I can take it? Thanks!<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Found a stray with a broken leg, don't have enough money to take it to an emergency vet, want to find a cheaper place for it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
found a stray with a broken leg, don't have the money to take it to a vet, any ideas of where I can take it? Thanks!<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: found a stray with a broken leg, don't have the money to take it to a vet, any ideas of where I can take it? Thanks!<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Found a stray cat with a broken leg, no idea where to take it for surgery without paying one of the local animal control shelters.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Found a stray cat with a broken leg but can't afford to take it to an emergency vet. Any thoughts on a place I could take it that wouldn't just put it down?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Found a stray cat with a broken leg but can't afford to take it to an emergency vet. Any thoughts on a place I could take it that wouldn't just put it down?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Found a stray with a broken leg, don't have enough money to take it to an emergency vet, want to find a cheaper place for it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Found a stray cat with a broken leg but can't afford to take it to an emergency vet. Any thoughts on a place I could take it that wouldn't just put it down?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Found a stray cat with a broken leg but can't afford to take it to an emergency vet. Any thoughts on a place I could take it that wouldn't just put it down?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: Any cheap solutions for a stray with a broken leg?\n\nPOST: While walking to class today I found a stray that I'm pretty sure was just hit by a car and has a broken rear left leg. I didn't see any blood and it's not like dangling or anything, nor is the bone protruding, but I could tell by the way he was trying to put pressure on it that it's broken. I tried calling our local animal control but "all the lines were busy" and their mailbox was full, so I couldn't leave a message. I'd really like to try to get it somewhere that won't just put it down though, since it's a younger cat and I don't think it's a terrible, messy, nonfixable break. The thing is, I don't think the shelters around here (Pittsburgh area) would do surgery on a stray and I really don't have the money to take it to an emergency vet. I'm not against paying something small for it, but as a broke college student, I don't think I can afford surgery. Any ideas of what I can do or any places I could take it would be great! Thanks!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the cats subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Found a stray cat with a broken leg, no idea where to take it for surgery without paying one of the local animal control shelters.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I really like this girl, but a lot of other good reasons that I should avoid it haven't been enough to stop myself getting more and more involved, and I don't know where to go from here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I really like this girl, but a lot of other good reasons that I should avoid it haven't been enough to stop myself getting more and more involved, and I don't know where to go from here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm getting into girl that I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head. I have no idea how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girl is really irresponsible and just bad news in general, my mind says no but my feelings are getting stronger, really torn and clueless in what to do now<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl is really irresponsible and just bad news in general, my mind says no but my feelings are getting stronger, really torn and clueless in what to do now<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm getting more and more into a girl I really shouldn't be getting into, but I'm getting strong feelings and I don't know how to handle it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I really like this girl, but a lot of other good reasons that I should avoid it haven't been enough to stop myself getting more and more involved, and I don't know where to go from here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I really like this girl, but a lot of other good reasons that I should avoid it haven't been enough to stop myself getting more and more involved, and I don't know where to go from here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm getting more and more into a girl I really shouldn't be getting into, but I'm getting strong feelings and I don't know how to handle it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I'm getting more and more into a girl I really shouldn't be getting into, but I'm getting strong feelings and I don't know how to handle it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm getting more and more into a girl I really shouldn't be getting into, but I'm getting strong feelings and I don't know how to handle it.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm getting into girl that I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head. I have no idea how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girl is really irresponsible and just bad news in general, my mind says no but my feelings are getting stronger, really torn and clueless in what to do now<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl is really irresponsible and just bad news in general, my mind says no but my feelings are getting stronger, really torn and clueless in what to do now<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I really like this girl, but a lot of other good reasons that I should avoid it haven't been enough to stop myself getting more and more involved, and I don't know where to go from here.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girl is really irresponsible and just bad news in general, my mind says no but my feelings are getting stronger, really torn and clueless in what to do now<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl is really irresponsible and just bad news in general, my mind says no but my feelings are getting stronger, really torn and clueless in what to do now<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [20 M] am getting more and more into a girl [21 F] I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head.\n\nPOST: We've been going to the same school for the past two years. She's constantly going clubbing, getting absolutely shitfaced, missing classes, just being really irresponsible in general. She really isn't anything special, not especially pretty or interesting, . Well, somewhere in november last year she started messaging me (we know each other from school). It was pretty obvious she was into me a lot, which she hadn't been before. I, however, didn't really have any interest, although I did like her in the past. But soon I noticed i started liking her again (and I was naive to think it wouldn't go that way). I knew that realistically she's just gonna bring a whole lot of trouble and hurt me if I'd act on it, and gradually stopped messaging her, but she keeps messaging me. Last week I went to a big music festival with my buddies, and I knew she was going to be there too. We cuddled for like half an hour, and one of her friends even told me she talks about me every day, which surprised me to say the least. That didn't really help getting rid of my feelings for her. I've never thought I would ever like a girl like her. I can name a thousand reasons why it's a bad idea to want her, but my feelings are actually getting stronger, so I try my best to follow my conscience, but I don't think this is just gonna go away easily. I think it's also partly because I have never had a girl be genuinely interested in me, or even had sex, and I'm a little ashamed that I don't have the selfrespect to cut it off. I just want to cuddle and hold her you know! Alright, I've tried to keep this short. I have no idea how to deal with this, and it's getting more and more confusing and tiring every day. Has anyone been in this situation before?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm getting into girl that I really shouldn't be getting into, really messing with my head. I have no idea how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I can't trust my girlfriend of 4 months because I've been cheated on time and time again. What do/did you do to get over it and trust again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I can't trust my girlfriend of 4 months because I've been cheated on time and time again. What do/did you do to get over it and trust again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend hasn't done anything really wrong, but I still can't trust her because I've been continuously cheated on. How do I get the fuck over it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I can't trust my girlfriend of 4 months because I've been cheated on time and time again. What do/did you do to get over it and trust again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I can't trust my girlfriend of 4 months because I've been cheated on time and time again. What do/did you do to get over it and trust again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been cheated on 4 times, have been in 4 real long term relationships. How do/did you get over it and how do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
I can't trust my girlfriend of 4 months because I've been cheated on time and time again. What do/did you do to get over it and trust again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I can't trust my girlfriend of 4 months because I've been cheated on time and time again. What do/did you do to get over it and trust again?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Caught in a painful cycle of assuming my partner will cheat even when they have not and now I struggle to trust them even though I've done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girlfriend hasn't done anything really wrong, but I still can't trust her because I've been continuously cheated on. How do I get the fuck over it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend hasn't done anything really wrong, but I still can't trust her because I've been continuously cheated on. How do I get the fuck over it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Been cheated on 4 times, have been in 4 real long term relationships. How do/did you get over it and how do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:
Girlfriend hasn't done anything really wrong, but I still can't trust her because I've been continuously cheated on. How do I get the fuck over it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend hasn't done anything really wrong, but I still can't trust her because I've been continuously cheated on. How do I get the fuck over it?<|endoftext|>
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TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.\n\nPOST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relationships. However, in all 4, I've been cheated on. Some worse than others, but the consistant thing remains that I've been cheated on. Now, I am in a relationship with a great woman who is kind to me, seems honest, and actually cares about me. But no matter how hard I try, I can't get over the fact that I just assume she will cheat on me. It creeps up on me. At first it's a soft voice telling me that she's going to hurt me, and it gets louder and the only way I can silence it is to do horrible things like check her phone texts and Facebook messages. When I do these things, even the most basic of conversations suddenly turn sexual in my head. And anything with a sexual overtone just feels like a betrayal all over again (i.e. the worst thing I've seen is her telling her ex that she had sexual dreams about him). I then just upset and moody and just hurt even though I have no real reason to. I know that looking in her phone and Facebook is a horrible and fucked up thing to do, and I already feel like shit about it, so no lectures please on all of that. I guess the advice I'm looking for is to those that have been cheated on, more than once especially, how do/did you get over it and learn to trust someone again? How do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears they won't cheat?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Caught in a painful cycle of assuming my partner will cheat even when they have not and now I struggle to trust them even though I've done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.<|endoftext|>
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