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Been cheated on 4 times, have been in 4 real long term relationships. How do/did you get over it and how do/did you move on when you've been hurt time and time again by your significant other who always swears<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Skyped a girl, showed genitals, deletes her/blocks her, feels so fucking guilty to a point of wanting to die, wants to be honest with girlfriend, how do i break it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Skyped a girl, showed genitals, deletes her/blocks her, feels so fucking guilty to a point of wanting to die, wants to be honest with girlfriend, how do i break it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: deleted skype chat with potential lover while she was on a trip, now feeling insanely guilty and lost. how do i tell her without screwing everything up?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I skyped a girl I met. Didn't do anything sexual and deleted her. How do I tell my girlfriend without hurting us?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I skyped a girl I met. Didn't do anything sexual and deleted her. How do I tell my girlfriend without hurting us?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: deleted skype chat with potential lover while she was on a trip, now feeling insanely guilty and lost. how do i tell her without screwing everything up?<|endoftext|>

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Skyped a girl, showed genitals, deletes her/blocks her, feels so fucking guilty to a point of wanting to die, wants to be honest with girlfriend, how do i break it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Skyped a girl, showed genitals, deletes her/blocks her, feels so fucking guilty to a point of wanting to die, wants to be honest with girlfriend, how do i break it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I skyped a girl I had met via skype. I did nothing sexual with her, just dropped the britches for a brief second. Now I'm afraid that I may have hurt her feelings and will never speak to her<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I skyped a girl I met. Didn't do anything sexual and deleted her. How do I tell my girlfriend without hurting us?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I skyped a girl I met. Didn't do anything sexual and deleted her. How do I tell my girlfriend without hurting us?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I skyped a girl I had met via skype. I did nothing sexual with her, just dropped the britches for a brief second. Now I'm afraid that I may have hurt her feelings and will never speak to her<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

deleted skype chat with potential lover while she was on a trip, now feeling insanely guilty and lost. how do i tell her without screwing everything up?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: deleted skype chat with potential lover while she was on a trip, now feeling insanely guilty and lost. how do i tell her without screwing everything up?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I skyped a girl I had met via skype. I did nothing sexual with her, just dropped the britches for a brief second. Now I'm afraid that I may have hurt her feelings and will never speak to her<|endoftext|>

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Skyped a girl, showed genitals, deletes her/blocks her, feels so fucking guilty to a point of wanting to die, wants to be honest with girlfriend, how do i break it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Skyped a girl, showed genitals, deletes her/blocks her, feels so fucking guilty to a point of wanting to die, wants to be honest with girlfriend, how do i break it out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I screwed up [M/18] and am so afraid about the fallout [F/18]\n\nPOST: While my girlfriend was on a trip (at the time we had been dating for about 2 months), I skyped this girl I had met around March from across the world. Never met the girl, but we chatted occasionally. Well, I fucked up. She asked to see my nether regions and I complied, doing nothing sexual, just dropping the britches for a brief second. Now, directly after, I deleted her, blocked her, and felt so FUCKING guilty, to a point i wanted to just bend over and die. I'm not the kind of guy who would ever consider cheating on my girlfriend, because truly, she is my first love. But, I don't know how to break this out to her without screwing us up. I fucked up, I know it, and it hurts me to no measurable extent thinking about how I may have hurt her. It was the biggest mistake I can ever think of and will never again do something so completely stupid and thoughtless. How do i go about telling her about it? Honesty is so important to both of us, but I'm so scared. Please help /relationships. ;(\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I skyped a girl I met. Didn't do anything sexual and deleted her. How do I tell my girlfriend without hurting us?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: guy in local pub won't leave us alone. Thinks we're friends, but we're not. How do we make him go away?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub is becoming a place where we want to be together, but then our bar friend starts to insinuate he is a disability and wants to hang out with us.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Our local pub has become a fun place for a guy to hang out with us, it's not working. How do we get away from this guy?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub has become a fun place for a guy to hang out with us, it's not working. How do we get away from this guy?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub has become a bar with a disability that our bar friend has gotten into and is trying to get with us. This is awkward and we don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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guy in local pub won't leave us alone. Thinks we're friends, but we're not. How do we make him go away?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: guy in local pub won't leave us alone. Thinks we're friends, but we're not. How do we make him go away?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub has become a fun place for a guy to hang out with us, it's not working. How do we get away from this guy?<|endoftext|>

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Our local pub is becoming a place where we want to be together, but then our bar friend starts to insinuate he is a disability and wants to hang out with us.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub is becoming a place where we want to be together, but then our bar friend starts to insinuate he is a disability and wants to hang out with us.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub has become a bar with a disability that our bar friend has gotten into and is trying to get with us. This is awkward and we don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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guy in local pub won't leave us alone. Thinks we're friends, but we're not. How do we make him go away?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: guy in local pub won't leave us alone. Thinks we're friends, but we're not. How do we make him go away?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub has become a bar with a disability that our bar friend has gotten into and is trying to get with us. This is awkward and we don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Our local pub has become a fun place for a guy to hang out with us, it's not working. How do we get away from this guy?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub has become a fun place for a guy to hang out with us, it's not working. How do we get away from this guy?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [25/F] with my SO [32 M] and our fiercely annoying bar friend\n\nPOST: We frequent our local pub, which we like very much when we get to sit outside on our own. It's a compact area where we can have personal chats with no one else present, for the most part. There is a guy who is also a local and he has started to join us while we have a drink together. At first we were accommodating and nice to him, but it has become obvious that it has become a much more meaningful relationship to him than it has to us. He has started to insinuate nights out and time together that we are not comfortable with. It is affecting every time we go to this place for alone time. This guy is nice but we unfortunately gave him the impression that we're cool with him, but now we think he has a disability and its gotten too much. Now we don't know how to get away from him. We have tried saying we like being in this place on our own, and this completely goes over his head. What do we do now? We don't want to be mean.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Our local pub is becoming a place where we want to be together, but then our bar friend starts to insinuate he is a disability and wants to hang out with us.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

girlfriend went to college and found new group of friends. Seldom calls except for once in morning or night. She threatened to break up with me if I don't be happier.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend went to college and found new group of friends. Seldom calls except for once in morning or night. She threatened to break up with me if I don't be happier.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend has gone to college and wont talk to me till I learn to be happy without her. I need to learn how to be happy without her in my life<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend went to college and tells me i need to learn to be happy without her so she wont leave me, she will break up with me if i dont. Help!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend went to college and tells me i need to learn to be happy without her so she wont leave me, she will break up with me if i dont. Help!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend went to college and found new group of friends. Seldom calls except for once in morning or night. She threatened to break up with me if I don't be happier.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend went to college and tells me i need to learn to be happy without her so she wont leave me, she will break up with me if i dont. Help!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend went to college and tells me i need to learn to be happy without her so she wont leave me, she will break up with me if i dont. Help!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF of 9 months goes to college, tells me i can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her, now says she will break up with me if I don't get over my sadness.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " girlfriend has gone to college and wont talk to me till I learn to be happy without her. I need to learn how to be happy without her in my life", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n---------------\n\nDoesn't mention gf has new friends while OP does not.\n\nThe summary's statement of the threat is incorrect - she will split with him.\n\n" }, { "text": " Girlfriend went to college and tells me i need to learn to be happy without her so she wont leave me, she will break up with me if i dont. Help!", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "'so she wont leave me' is confusing here. Otherwise she will leave me?" } ]

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend went to college and tells me i need to learn to be happy without her so she wont leave me, she will break up with me if i dont. Help!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend went to college and tells me i need to learn to be happy without her so she wont leave me, she will break up with me if i dont. Help!<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend has gone to college and wont talk to me till I learn to be happy without her. I need to learn how to be happy without her in my life<|endoftext|>

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girlfriend went to college and found new group of friends. Seldom calls except for once in morning or night. She threatened to break up with me if I don't be happier.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend went to college and found new group of friends. Seldom calls except for once in morning or night. She threatened to break up with me if I don't be happier.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF of 9 months goes to college, tells me i can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her, now says she will break up with me if I don't get over my sadness.<|endoftext|>

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[ { "text": " girlfriend has gone to college and wont talk to me till I learn to be happy without her. I need to learn how to be happy without her in my life", "policy": "sup4_bo8_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n---------------\n\nDoesn't mention gf has new friends while OP does not.\n\nThe summary's statement of the threat is incorrect - she will split with him.\n\n" }, { "text": " GF of 9 months goes to college, tells me i can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her, now says she will break up with me if I don't get over my sadness.", "policy": "sup4_ppo_rm3", "note": "Ok\n\n---------------\n\nThis is not in the text: ' tells me i can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her'." } ]

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

GF of 9 months goes to college, tells me i can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her, now says she will break up with me if I don't get over my sadness.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF of 9 months goes to college, tells me i can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her, now says she will break up with me if I don't get over my sadness.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Girlfriend [F18] goes to college and tells me [M17] i have can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her\n\nPOST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girlfriend has gone to college and wont talk to me till I learn to be happy without her. I need to learn how to be happy without her in my life<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend disinterested in making our house a functioning home, making me resent him for it. I have to make our household purchases. How do I stop resenting him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend disinterested in making our house a functioning home, making me resent him for it. I have to make our household purchases. How do I stop resenting him?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend and I have differing views on the needs of our household - how do I stop resenting him for it?<|endoftext|>

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my boyfriend doesn't care about keeping our house in a good state, so I end up paying for many of the "unnecessary" purchases. How do I stop this resentment?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend doesn't care about keeping our house in a good state, so I end up paying for many of the "unnecessary" purchases. How do I stop this resentment?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend and I have differing views on the needs of our household - how do I stop resenting him for it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend doesn't feel like he "needs" to make our house a functioning home. He refuses to contribute financially, but I have to make all our purchases. How do I stop resenting him for his disinterest?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend doesn't feel like he "needs" to make our house a functioning home. He refuses to contribute financially, but I have to make all our purchases. How do I stop resenting him for his disinterest?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend disinterested in making our house a functioning home, making me resent him for it. I have to make our household purchases. How do I stop resenting him?<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend doesn't feel like he "needs" to make our house a functioning home. He refuses to contribute financially, but I have to make all our purchases. How do I stop resenting him for his disinterest?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend doesn't feel like he "needs" to make our house a functioning home. He refuses to contribute financially, but I have to make all our purchases. How do I stop resenting him for his disinterest?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend and I have differing views on the needs of our household - how do I stop resenting him for it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend doesn't feel like he "needs" to make our house a functioning home. He refuses to contribute financially, but I have to make all our purchases. How do I stop resenting him for his disinterest?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend doesn't feel like he "needs" to make our house a functioning home. He refuses to contribute financially, but I have to make all our purchases. How do I stop resenting him for his disinterest?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: How do I [26F] stop resenting my boyfriend [43M] of four years?\n\nPOST: My live-in boyfriend - let's call him Allen - and I have a good relationship. We share interests, are able to communicate well, support each other and are very much in love. However, I feel that as time passes I am beginning to resent certain things that I am struggling to let go. Allen doesn't care much about keeping house, for example, which means I make most purchases for the home, big and small - I research and shop around for everything from our sofa to pillows to laundry detergent. If we run out of coffee filters and I don't restock, he uses paper towels. When it got over 100 degrees this summer, he went to Starbucks every day until I bought us an AC unit and fans. I am a somewhat particular consumer, so I don't mind having the responsibility of making purchases, but the fact is that I end up paying for all these items. He will sometimes split the cost with me if it is a large purchase, but I have to ask. Other purchases he deems "unnecessary" - for example, I have wanted to replace his set of smelly, stained, 6+ year old comforters since we met, but he insists they are fine. Similarly, our (not cheap) TV sat on top of milk crates for two years until I broke down and bought a media console. His disinterest in making our house a functioning home has the combined effect of making me resentful both for his unequal financial contribution and the fact that I feel like an interloper in his life. I feel like I have nagged him about this issue enough, and how can I ask him to pay for things he doesn't feel he "needs"? If I simply stop purchasing household items it becomes a game of chicken that I always lose - he is willing to wash his hair with hand soap: I am not. I have tried to simply "let it go", but it's hard to forget about something you're confronted with on a daily basis. What do I do?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: my boyfriend doesn't care about keeping our house in a good state, so I end up paying for many of the "unnecessary" purchases. How do I stop this resentment?<|endoftext|>

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Things have been great with crush, and I'm hoping to take things to the next level, but neither of us can talk on the phone consistently, so I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Things have been great with crush, and I'm hoping to take things to the next level, but neither of us can talk on the phone consistently, so I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Talking to girl for 2 months, haven't had consistent or regular communication - should I call her/when I can call her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I've been talking to a girl for two months, and we both want to hang out more, but we're too busy to really talk on the phone in the present. Should I ask her when it's best to call, or do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been talking to a girl for two months, and we both want to hang out more, but we're too busy to really talk on the phone in the present. Should I ask her when it's best to call, or do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl and I have feelings for each other, but haven't really defined the relationship. Want to call her but don't know what the best time/advice is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been talking to a girl for two months, and we both want to hang out more, but we're too busy to really talk on the phone in the present. Should I ask her when it's best to call, or do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Things have been great with crush, and I'm hoping to take things to the next level, but neither of us can talk on the phone consistently, so I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girl and I have feelings for each other, but haven't really defined the relationship. Want to call her but don't know what the best time/advice is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl and I have feelings for each other, but haven't really defined the relationship. Want to call her but don't know what the best time/advice is.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Talking to girl for 2 months, haven't had consistent or regular communication - should I call her/when I can call her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I've been talking to a girl for two months, and we both want to hang out more, but we're too busy to really talk on the phone in the present. Should I ask her when it's best to call, or do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I've been talking to a girl for two months, and we both want to hang out more, but we're too busy to really talk on the phone in the present. Should I ask her when it's best to call, or do<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Talking to girl for 2 months, haven't had consistent or regular communication - should I call her/when I can call her?<|endoftext|>

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Things have been great with crush, and I'm hoping to take things to the next level, but neither of us can talk on the phone consistently, so I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Things have been great with crush, and I'm hoping to take things to the next level, but neither of us can talk on the phone consistently, so I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [17m] want to know when works best for calling her [17f], but it's supposedly "lame" and "weak" to ask a girl that. What do I do?\n\nPOST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost two months, and things have been going great - we have a lot of things in common, we've really hit it off (in-person and through texting), and we've both expressed strong interest through mutual friends. We've also talked about our interest in each other briefly. However, we haven't really defined the relationship. I'm trying to invite her to a movie in a couple of weeks (after talking about hanging out soon, that was the soonest that we could both do something) where I'm thinking about going for holding hands; maybe even talking about "us." Until then, I feel like it'd be wise build more of a base to our communication. By that, I mean to talk more on the phone. We've talked once on the phone already, but neither of us have consistent schedules, so we've missed each other a few times. She doesn't like talking to me in front of her parents, because they're pretty intrusive in our communication sometines, so that's always something to consider. We're both pretty busy people, so it's not always convenient to talk on the phone. Should I ask her before calling her? I'd like to call her right now, but I don't know if she can talk at the moment. I called her twice yesterday, and I really wanted to talk to her, but I didn't want to keep trying and be annoying. I also didn't want to put her on the spot by asking if she couldn't talk now and could just talk later. That night, she apologized about not answering (she was out for dinner when I called), but it didn't really help me with knowing when I should call her in the future. My friends said that it'd be weak/lame to ask her if I can call or when I can call, so I just don't know what to do.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl and I have feelings for each other, but haven't really defined the relationship. Want to call her but don't know what the best time/advice is.<|endoftext|>

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single mother's ex-husband is trying to get child support reduced by hiding his money. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country trip beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: single mother's ex-husband is trying to get child support reduced by hiding his money. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country trip beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: asshole is taking single mother to court during a planned out-of-the-country trip, will the court allow a continuance?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

single mother's ex-husband is trying to get child support reduced by hiding his money. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country trip beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: single mother's ex-husband is trying to get child support reduced by hiding his money. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country trip beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother's ex-husband is trying to get child support reduced. Will a court offer a continuance if there was an out of country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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ex-husband is a jerk, trying to get child support reduced, has money to pay but is clever about hiding how much he makes. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex-husband is a jerk, trying to get child support reduced, has money to pay but is clever about hiding how much he makes. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: single mother's ex-husband is trying to get child support reduced by hiding his money. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country trip beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother's ex-husband is trying to get child support reduced. Will a court offer a continuance if there was an out of country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: asshole is taking single mother to court during a planned out-of-the-country trip, will the court allow a continuance?<|endoftext|>

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ex-husband is a jerk, trying to get child support reduced, has money to pay but is clever about hiding how much he makes. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex-husband is a jerk, trying to get child support reduced, has money to pay but is clever about hiding how much he makes. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: asshole is taking single mother to court during a planned out-of-the-country trip, will the court allow a continuance?<|endoftext|>

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ex-husband is a jerk, trying to get child support reduced, has money to pay but is clever about hiding how much he makes. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: ex-husband is a jerk, trying to get child support reduced, has money to pay but is clever about hiding how much he makes. Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Will a court offer a continuance if there was a planned out of the country vacation beforehand?\n\nPOST: Smart people of Reddit: I have a friend who is a single mother. The ex-husband does not pay his child support (3 kids) and is now trying to get his child support reduced. He has the money to pay it, but he is clever about hiding how much he makes. He even put his new wife's name on the house so it would look like he didn't own it. Anyway, he's going to take her to court to lower the child support while she's on a (way in advance planned) out of the country trip. Yes, he's an asshole. Does she have any chance of a continuation on this?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Single mother's ex-husband is trying to get child support reduced. Will a court offer a continuance if there was an out of country vacation beforehand?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm leaving to spend a month apart from my current GF who I really like, worried about the malnourishment of our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm leaving to spend a month apart from my current GF who I really like, worried about the malnourishment of our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriends interests don't match mine, I'm leaving for a month and want to know if this is going to be detrimental to a promising relationship later down the line.<|endoftext|>

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I'm going to spend a month apart from my GF due to a work trip, and I'm worried about the relationship starting off malnourished.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm going to spend a month apart from my GF due to a work trip, and I'm worried about the relationship starting off malnourished.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriends interests don't match mine, I'm leaving for a month and want to know if this is going to be detrimental to a promising relationship later down the line.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm going to spend a month apart from my GF due to a work trip, and I'm worried about the relationship starting off malnourished.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am worried about starting off a potentially malnourished relationship with my girlfriend of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip I'm about to go on in a few days.<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriends interests don't match mine, I'm leaving for a month and want to know if this is going to be detrimental to a promising relationship later down the line.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriends interests don't match mine, I'm leaving for a month and want to know if this is going to be detrimental to a promising relationship later down the line.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am worried about starting off a potentially malnourished relationship with my girlfriend of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip I'm about to go on in a few days.<|endoftext|>

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I'm leaving to spend a month apart from my current GF who I really like, worried about the malnourishment of our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm leaving to spend a month apart from my current GF who I really like, worried about the malnourishment of our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am worried about starting off a potentially malnourished relationship with my girlfriend of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip I'm about to go on in a few days.<|endoftext|>

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I'm going to spend a month apart from my GF due to a work trip, and I'm worried about the relationship starting off malnourished.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm going to spend a month apart from my GF due to a work trip, and I'm worried about the relationship starting off malnourished.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [26 F] am worried about risking a malnourished relationship with my GF of 2 weeks due to a month long work trip\n\nPOST: Just over a month ago I met a woman I really like. We usually speak for at least 2 hours a day and we see each other whenever we can. Although we've never made it "official", I think it's safe to say we crossed that boundary a couple of weeks ago. So far she seems like the ying to my yang. We're both Intelligent (I actually rarely admit I am), but our interests oppose. I'm the logical, scientific kind and she's the creative, free spirit kind. A scientist and an artist don't sound like a couple who should get on really well, but we do. However, as fate would have it, I'm leaving to work at another faculty for a month in another country in a few days. I'm worried about whether spending so much time apart so early on is going to be detrimental to our relationship. We're still exploring each other as people and I worry that if this doesn't happen now, then it could lead to problems further down the line. I guess what I'm saying is that the relationship could start off malnourished. Does anybody else have any advice or experience they would be willing to share?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm leaving to spend a month apart from my current GF who I really like, worried about the malnourishment of our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have two options. Stay in town with current girlfriend and keep shitty job OR move back to home town, get a potentially better job, and a potentially better relationship, but break up with current girlfriend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have two options. Stay in town with current girlfriend and keep shitty job OR move back to home town, get a potentially better job, and a potentially better relationship, but break up with current girlfriend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Living with gf of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to my home town, would be breaking off current gf and starting new relationship with friend.<|endoftext|>

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I have two options. Stay in town with current girlfriend and keep shitty job OR move back to home town, get a potentially better job, and a potentially better relationship, but break up with current girlfriend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have two options. Stay in town with current girlfriend and keep shitty job OR move back to home town, get a potentially better job, and a potentially better relationship, but break up with current girlfriend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Living with girlfriend, part time job, still in town, not sure if I should move out or if my current gf would be okay with me leaving our relationship to start a new one.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Living with gf of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to my home town, would be breaking off current gf and starting new relationship with friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Living with gf of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to my home town, would be breaking off current gf and starting new relationship with friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I live in a city 2 hours away from my home town, I'm considering getting a job there, and she has a boyfriend<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have two options. Stay in town with current girlfriend and keep shitty job OR move back to home town, get a potentially better job, and a potentially better relationship, but break up with current girlfriend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I live in a city 2 hours away from my home town, I'm considering getting a job there, and she has a boyfriend<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Living with gf of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to my home town, would be breaking off current gf and starting new relationship with friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Living with gf of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to my home town, would be breaking off current gf and starting new relationship with friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22 M] living with my with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, looking for job opportunities closer to family and friend [23 F].\n\nPOST: I am a recent college graduate now. I planned to graduate in the summer last year, but ended up having to take an additional class and push my graduation date back to December. I accepted a full time position at a company doing some less technical work than what I went to college for, but I needed a good position in town and this is what I took. I met my current girlfriend in college, and I did not have a place to live lined up so we decided to just move in together. We had only been dating 9 or so months when we moved in, though we were definitely close enough, and I haven't had any complaints so far. I finished my class in December, have my degree, but I'm still employed in town and still living with my girlfriend. I've recently determined that this job sucks more than I initially thought, and I'm thinking of ditching this college town. The gf still has another year of school to complete (graduation estimated summer 2016). This leads me to point two. If I were to get a job in my home town I have little doubt that this would cause my current girlfriend and I to break up. I've had a long friendship with a girl [23 F] mentioned in title. There was a time the summer before I went away to college where this girl had a boyfriend but we fooled around. This was 5 years ago, we've maintained our friendship, and never physically acted on anything else. She is going to graduate this summer and will likely stay in town. Now is the time to mention that, while I live about 2 hours away from my home town I do visit family and friends relatively often (about once a month) and every time I visit I see my friend. When I do visit I spend the majority of an evening with this friend, and I'll be the first to admit that this is largely emotional cheating. She has a boyfriend as well, though it seems to be a mutual agreement that if I do ever come to town permanently we would start an official relationship and break it off with our current partners.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Living with girlfriend, part time job, still in town, not sure if I should move out or if my current gf would be okay with me leaving our relationship to start a new one.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Tried to make a reference to Star Wars, it backfired and the kid heard that daddy isn't really daddy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Tried to make a reference to Star Wars, it backfired and the kid heard that daddy isn't really daddy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Made a Luke reference in front of a four year old and ended up mis-informing the entire family that he wasn't really Daddy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Meant to make a Star Wars joke reference, ended up telling a four year old he was a fatherless bastard.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Meant to make a Star Wars joke reference, ended up telling a four year old he was a fatherless bastard.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Made a Luke reference in front of a four year old and ended up mis-informing the entire family that he wasn't really Daddy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Meant to make a Star Wars joke reference, ended up telling a four year old he was a fatherless bastard.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Meant to make a Star Wars joke reference, ended up telling a four year old he was a fatherless bastard.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told a four year old that I don't think he was his daddy, ended up embarrassing himself and his entire family.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Tried to make a reference to Star Wars, it backfired and the kid heard that daddy isn't really daddy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Tried to make a reference to Star Wars, it backfired and the kid heard that daddy isn't really daddy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU by calling a four year old a bastard\n\nPOST: This happened on Halloween two or three years ago. I was at the door handing out candy while my wife took the kids trick-or-treating. Sometimes the kids really don't bother with costumes, but other times whole families really get into it. That was definitely the case with one Star Wars family. Mom looked awesome as Princess Leia, dad was properly suited up as a decently menacing Darth Vader, and their four-ish year old son was a credible Luke, complete with the mop of dirty blonde hair. Adorable. I always like to say something to the kids, especially if they've made an effort, rather than just tossing the fun size Snickers into their bags, so I crouch down to the kid and start talking. "Is that your lightsaber?" "Can you use the Force?" And then to kid around a bit, I point at dad and try to crack a joke about the whole "Luke, I AM YOUR FATHER" line. But what ends up tumbling out of my mouth to the kid is "You know, I don't really think he's your father." Jaws drop, silence ensues, as the kid sits there speechless as it sinks in that I had really botched the movie reference and the whole family actually just heard me tell the kid that Daddy isn't really Daddy. After an uncomfortably long moment they quickly turned and stepped off the porch into the night while I slunk back inside.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Told a four year old that I don't think he was his daddy, ended up embarrassing himself and his entire family.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Old friend whom I haven't spoken to in years desperately needs medical help. Her mother reached out to me as a sort of last resort because she wasn't speaking to her family. How can I help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Old friend whom I haven't spoken to in years desperately needs medical help. Her mother reached out to me as a sort of last resort because she wasn't speaking to her family. How can I help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Old highschool friend who recently started doing drugs and is depressed is reaching out to me for help. How can I reconnect with her and help her get the help she so desperately needs?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Friend's mother reached out to me to help her daughter, who is depressed, get the help she needs. How can I help and reconnect with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend's mother reached out to me to help her daughter, who is depressed, get the help she needs. How can I help and reconnect with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: best friend with depression/anorexia reached out to me for help after I failed to be there for her through her depression. how can I reconnect with her and help her get the treatment she needs?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Old friend whom I haven't spoken to in years desperately needs medical help. Her mother reached out to me as a sort of last resort because she wasn't speaking to her family. How can I help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Old friend whom I haven't spoken to in years desperately needs medical help. Her mother reached out to me as a sort of last resort because she wasn't speaking to her family. How can I help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: best friend with depression/anorexia reached out to me for help after I failed to be there for her through her depression. how can I reconnect with her and help her get the treatment she needs?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Old friend whom I haven't spoken to in years desperately needs medical help. Her mother reached out to me as a sort of last resort because she wasn't speaking to her family. How can I help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Old friend whom I haven't spoken to in years desperately needs medical help. Her mother reached out to me as a sort of last resort because she wasn't speaking to her family. How can I help?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend's mother reached out to me to help her daughter, who is depressed, get the help she needs. How can I help and reconnect with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

best friend with depression/anorexia reached out to me for help after I failed to be there for her through her depression. how can I reconnect with her and help her get the treatment she needs?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: best friend with depression/anorexia reached out to me for help after I failed to be there for her through her depression. how can I reconnect with her and help her get the treatment she needs?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Old highschool friend who recently started doing drugs and is depressed is reaching out to me for help. How can I reconnect with her and help her get the help she so desperately needs?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Friend's mother reached out to me to help her daughter, who is depressed, get the help she needs. How can I help and reconnect with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend's mother reached out to me to help her daughter, who is depressed, get the help she needs. How can I help and reconnect with her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [22F] with my old highschool best friend [22 F] she's depressed and her mother reached out to me for help\n\nPOST: Okay bear with me through the backstory & I hope this is the right place to post this. My friend, let's call her Ella, and I were best friends through high school and the first year and a half or so of college. We started going down separate roads mid-sophomore yearish where I stopped smoking weed and started living a much healthier/responsible lifestyle while she dropped out of uni and started getting in to more heavier drugs. We kept in contact via social media & texting some times, but she moved around a bit for a boy and a dead-end job before moving back in to the area, so I never really saw her much - I think we met for lunch a couple times. Ella also has dealt with depression and anorexia for as long as I've known her and it doesn't help that she has a poor relationship with her parents. Flash forward to this morning and I got a facebook message from her mother (let's call her Betty) saying how worried she was about Ella and how Ella hasn't been talking with the family lately, how Ella is not in a good place physically/mentally or anything, & how worried she is for her only daughter's health. I chatted with Betty about how we've not spoken in a while but I would do what I can & she thanked me. I messaged Ella trying to figure out how to help her (she had posted a facebook update about how her family wasn't supporting her earlier today) and it seems to stem from medical help. Although she's covered by their insurance, Ella is under 90lbs and desperately needs serious treatment but cannot afford it. At the moment, I'm messaging her just trying to be there for her and trying to help find solutions, despite the fact that we've not spoken in ~a year. \n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Old highschool friend who recently started doing drugs and is depressed is reaching out to me for help. How can I reconnect with her and help her get the help she so desperately needs?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend traveling alone on a 3hr plane ride with another guy. Idk if I am jealous or not. Wondering if this is a general concern most redditors would have.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend traveling alone on a 3hr plane ride with another guy. Idk if I am jealous or not. Wondering if this is a general concern most redditors would have.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl has close guy friend who shows both of us respect, wants to go on a 3hr plane ride for a shopping trip together, not sure if I'm jealous or standard concern?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend of 3yr is in a committed relationship travelling to another city for girly time with another guy. Not sure if I should be concerned.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 3yr is in a committed relationship travelling to another city for girly time with another guy. Not sure if I should be concerned.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl has close guy friend who shows both of us respect, wants to go on a 3hr plane ride for a shopping trip together, not sure if I'm jealous or standard concern?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

GF is going to another city for a night with another guy and I'm not cool with it. Not sure if I am jealous or just a general concern most redditors would have and not sure how to approach.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF is going to another city for a night with another guy and I'm not cool with it. Not sure if I am jealous or just a general concern most redditors would have and not sure how to approach.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girl [26 F] 3yr committed, traveling with another guy?\n\nPOST: Gday all, A little history, my girlfriend is a bit of a tomboy, she grew up with only her dad car racing/boat racing/male activities etc so she's always gotten on better with guys than girls. Few months a go she became real close with one of her male friends, this guys pretty respectful often asks me first if i mind them both going out doing xyz together, I often get invited out with them also. This guy also is pretty feminine, reads woman mags, in to fashion, shopping etc, some of my own male friends have asked if his actually gay - which he claims his not. So my girlfriend wants to go to another city for a night or two with this guy to do 'girly' stuff as she puts it, they have better shops, better arty style places as we live in a smallish town. I am kinda jealous she spends so much time with another guy, almost more than with me some days. But I also know what it's like to have friends in your life you can chill with like that. I'm not comfortable with her going away on a ~3hr plane ride to another city with a guy, if it was a girl I would be far less concerned. She asked me in front of him if I would mind and I straight up said I'm not too hot on the idea. He said he respects that and won't push it. She also admitted if the tables were turned she would have the same response as me, but only because i don't have super close girl friends. Not sure if I am being jealous or this is a general concern most redditors would have. As a male i would not travel 1 on 1 with another girl who was in a committed relationship. What are your thoughts Reddit?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girl has close guy friend who shows both of us respect, wants to go on a 3hr plane ride for a shopping trip together, not sure if I'm jealous or standard concern?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: "It's none of your business"\n\nPOST: 19F here. I've been dating my boyfriend (20) for almost three years now. Lately if he tells me he has to go somewhere, I'll ask him where, he'll say "it's none of your business". Or just in general, he'll tell me he has to do something, and when I ask about it, he'll tell me it's none of my business. This bugs me a little, but am I wrong for being bothered? I don't understand why he'd tell me he has to do something and then tell me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Nothing too big, not much of a deal breaker, just wanted to know if I'm wrong or over-exaggerating for being bothered by it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Boyfriend tells me to mind my own business after he tells me he has to do something and I ask about it. Am I wrong for being bothered by this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: "It's none of your business"\n\nPOST: 19F here. I've been dating my boyfriend (20) for almost three years now. Lately if he tells me he has to go somewhere, I'll ask him where, he'll say "it's none of your business". Or just in general, he'll tell me he has to do something, and when I ask about it, he'll tell me it's none of my business. This bugs me a little, but am I wrong for being bothered? I don't understand why he'd tell me he has to do something and then tell me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Nothing too big, not much of a deal breaker, just wanted to know if I'm wrong or over-exaggerating for being bothered by it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Boyfriend tells me to mind my own business after he tells me he has to do something and I ask about it. Am I wrong for being bothered by this?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: "It's none of your business"\n\nPOST: 19F here. I've been dating my boyfriend (20) for almost three years now. Lately if he tells me he has to go somewhere, I'll ask him where, he'll say "it's none of your business". Or just in general, he'll tell me he has to do something, and when I ask about it, he'll tell me it's none of my business. This bugs me a little, but am I wrong for being bothered? I don't understand why he'd tell me he has to do something and then tell me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Nothing too big, not much of a deal breaker, just wanted to know if I'm wrong or over-exaggerating for being bothered by it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend says he has to do something when I ask, then tells me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Am I over-exaggerating or is he right?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: "It's none of your business"\n\nPOST: 19F here. I've been dating my boyfriend (20) for almost three years now. Lately if he tells me he has to go somewhere, I'll ask him where, he'll say "it's none of your business". Or just in general, he'll tell me he has to do something, and when I ask about it, he'll tell me it's none of my business. This bugs me a little, but am I wrong for being bothered? I don't understand why he'd tell me he has to do something and then tell me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Nothing too big, not much of a deal breaker, just wanted to know if I'm wrong or over-exaggerating for being bothered by it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

boyfriend tells me he has to do something, and then tells me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Am I wrong to be bothered?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: "It's none of your business"\n\nPOST: 19F here. I've been dating my boyfriend (20) for almost three years now. Lately if he tells me he has to go somewhere, I'll ask him where, he'll say "it's none of your business". Or just in general, he'll tell me he has to do something, and when I ask about it, he'll tell me it's none of my business. This bugs me a little, but am I wrong for being bothered? I don't understand why he'd tell me he has to do something and then tell me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Nothing too big, not much of a deal breaker, just wanted to know if I'm wrong or over-exaggerating for being bothered by it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend tells me he has to do something, and then tells me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Am I wrong to be bothered?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: "It's none of your business"\n\nPOST: 19F here. I've been dating my boyfriend (20) for almost three years now. Lately if he tells me he has to go somewhere, I'll ask him where, he'll say "it's none of your business". Or just in general, he'll tell me he has to do something, and when I ask about it, he'll tell me it's none of my business. This bugs me a little, but am I wrong for being bothered? I don't understand why he'd tell me he has to do something and then tell me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Nothing too big, not much of a deal breaker, just wanted to know if I'm wrong or over-exaggerating for being bothered by it.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: boyfriend says he has to do something when I ask, then tells me to mind my own business when I ask about it. Am I over-exaggerating or is he right?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28M] and her [31F] - A little advice in moving this forward\n\nPOST: I met her online. We've been out on four dates in three weeks, I stayed at her place on Friday night and had a lot of fun. I really like her, she likes me (I think?!?) - this is my first serious attempt at a relationship in a few years and I am fucking nervous as hell at this point that I'll fuck up by being too attached or wanting to make too many plans too quickly. Help me reddit! How should I proceed with grace here to take this to the next level of seriousness. She was going out with her girlfriends last night for dinner and I messaged her that if she didn't have plans afterwards we could chill and watch a movie but she never got back to me. I had also suggested when I left her place yesterday that we could do something today but she's out with her girls. Am I just freaking out about nothing at all (I don't even know what I am freaking out about)? I had my heart broken really badly four years ago and I've been very careful about committing my feelings to someone since then, so this is all unfamiliar and scary territory for me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

first serious relationship in a few years, nervous about commitment/sudden interest, need advice on how to move forward (and gracefully)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28M] and her [31F] - A little advice in moving this forward\n\nPOST: I met her online. We've been out on four dates in three weeks, I stayed at her place on Friday night and had a lot of fun. I really like her, she likes me (I think?!?) - this is my first serious attempt at a relationship in a few years and I am fucking nervous as hell at this point that I'll fuck up by being too attached or wanting to make too many plans too quickly. Help me reddit! How should I proceed with grace here to take this to the next level of seriousness. She was going out with her girlfriends last night for dinner and I messaged her that if she didn't have plans afterwards we could chill and watch a movie but she never got back to me. I had also suggested when I left her place yesterday that we could do something today but she's out with her girls. Am I just freaking out about nothing at all (I don't even know what I am freaking out about)? I had my heart broken really badly four years ago and I've been very careful about committing my feelings to someone since then, so this is all unfamiliar and scary territory for me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: first serious relationship in a few years, nervous about commitment/sudden interest, need advice on how to move forward (and gracefully)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28M] and her [31F] - A little advice in moving this forward\n\nPOST: I met her online. We've been out on four dates in three weeks, I stayed at her place on Friday night and had a lot of fun. I really like her, she likes me (I think?!?) - this is my first serious attempt at a relationship in a few years and I am fucking nervous as hell at this point that I'll fuck up by being too attached or wanting to make too many plans too quickly. Help me reddit! How should I proceed with grace here to take this to the next level of seriousness. She was going out with her girlfriends last night for dinner and I messaged her that if she didn't have plans afterwards we could chill and watch a movie but she never got back to me. I had also suggested when I left her place yesterday that we could do something today but she's out with her girls. Am I just freaking out about nothing at all (I don't even know what I am freaking out about)? I had my heart broken really badly four years ago and I've been very careful about committing my feelings to someone since then, so this is all unfamiliar and scary territory for me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: We've been on four dates, spent Friday night sleeping at hers, we're moving in the right direction, how do I escalate? I could be a hopeless romantic but I am scared to overdo it.<|endoftext|>

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first serious relationship in a few years, nervous about commitment/sudden interest, need advice on how to move forward (and gracefully)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28M] and her [31F] - A little advice in moving this forward\n\nPOST: I met her online. We've been out on four dates in three weeks, I stayed at her place on Friday night and had a lot of fun. I really like her, she likes me (I think?!?) - this is my first serious attempt at a relationship in a few years and I am fucking nervous as hell at this point that I'll fuck up by being too attached or wanting to make too many plans too quickly. Help me reddit! How should I proceed with grace here to take this to the next level of seriousness. She was going out with her girlfriends last night for dinner and I messaged her that if she didn't have plans afterwards we could chill and watch a movie but she never got back to me. I had also suggested when I left her place yesterday that we could do something today but she's out with her girls. Am I just freaking out about nothing at all (I don't even know what I am freaking out about)? I had my heart broken really badly four years ago and I've been very careful about committing my feelings to someone since then, so this is all unfamiliar and scary territory for me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: first serious relationship in a few years, nervous about commitment/sudden interest, need advice on how to move forward (and gracefully)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28M] and her [31F] - A little advice in moving this forward\n\nPOST: I met her online. We've been out on four dates in three weeks, I stayed at her place on Friday night and had a lot of fun. I really like her, she likes me (I think?!?) - this is my first serious attempt at a relationship in a few years and I am fucking nervous as hell at this point that I'll fuck up by being too attached or wanting to make too many plans too quickly. Help me reddit! How should I proceed with grace here to take this to the next level of seriousness. She was going out with her girlfriends last night for dinner and I messaged her that if she didn't have plans afterwards we could chill and watch a movie but she never got back to me. I had also suggested when I left her place yesterday that we could do something today but she's out with her girls. Am I just freaking out about nothing at all (I don't even know what I am freaking out about)? I had my heart broken really badly four years ago and I've been very careful about committing my feelings to someone since then, so this is all unfamiliar and scary territory for me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: un-worried about a girl and want to take it to the next level, but I'm inexperienced and am not sure how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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first serious relationship in a few years, nervous about commitment/sudden interest, need advice on how to move forward (and gracefully)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28M] and her [31F] - A little advice in moving this forward\n\nPOST: I met her online. We've been out on four dates in three weeks, I stayed at her place on Friday night and had a lot of fun. I really like her, she likes me (I think?!?) - this is my first serious attempt at a relationship in a few years and I am fucking nervous as hell at this point that I'll fuck up by being too attached or wanting to make too many plans too quickly. Help me reddit! How should I proceed with grace here to take this to the next level of seriousness. She was going out with her girlfriends last night for dinner and I messaged her that if she didn't have plans afterwards we could chill and watch a movie but she never got back to me. I had also suggested when I left her place yesterday that we could do something today but she's out with her girls. Am I just freaking out about nothing at all (I don't even know what I am freaking out about)? I had my heart broken really badly four years ago and I've been very careful about committing my feelings to someone since then, so this is all unfamiliar and scary territory for me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: first serious relationship in a few years, nervous about commitment/sudden interest, need advice on how to move forward (and gracefully)<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [28M] and her [31F] - A little advice in moving this forward\n\nPOST: I met her online. We've been out on four dates in three weeks, I stayed at her place on Friday night and had a lot of fun. I really like her, she likes me (I think?!?) - this is my first serious attempt at a relationship in a few years and I am fucking nervous as hell at this point that I'll fuck up by being too attached or wanting to make too many plans too quickly. Help me reddit! How should I proceed with grace here to take this to the next level of seriousness. She was going out with her girlfriends last night for dinner and I messaged her that if she didn't have plans afterwards we could chill and watch a movie but she never got back to me. I had also suggested when I left her place yesterday that we could do something today but she's out with her girls. Am I just freaking out about nothing at all (I don't even know what I am freaking out about)? I had my heart broken really badly four years ago and I've been very careful about committing my feelings to someone since then, so this is all unfamiliar and scary territory for me.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the dating_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How do I take this to the next level of seriousness after two dates and she's out with her girlfriends last night?<|endoftext|>

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I like this girl, she likes me. She wants to travel to Europe in the summer. I'm not sure if I should end things with her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl, she likes me. She wants to travel to Europe in the summer. I'm not sure if I should end things with her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: She wants to go away for a couple of months, I want her to be with me during the summer so we can be together.<|endoftext|>

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Think a girl I like very much is going to go abroad next year. Wondering if I should end it early to save myself pain later.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Think a girl I like very much is going to go abroad next year. Wondering if I should end it early to save myself pain later.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: She wants to go away for a couple of months, I want her to be with me during the summer so we can be together.<|endoftext|>

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Really really like girlfriend. She wants to a semester abroad in August-December. Nothing is certain yet... should I break up with her? I'm at lost.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Really really like girlfriend. She wants to a semester abroad in August-December. Nothing is certain yet... should I break up with her? I'm at lost.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl, she likes me. She wants to travel to Europe in the summer. I'm not sure if I should end things with her.<|endoftext|>

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Really really like girlfriend. She wants to a semester abroad in August-December. Nothing is certain yet... should I break up with her? I'm at lost.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Really really like girlfriend. She wants to a semester abroad in August-December. Nothing is certain yet... should I break up with her? I'm at lost.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: She wants to go away for a couple of months, I want her to be with me during the summer so we can be together.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Think a girl I like very much is going to go abroad next year. Wondering if I should end it early to save myself pain later.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Think a girl I like very much is going to go abroad next year. Wondering if I should end it early to save myself pain later.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Really really like girlfriend. She wants to a semester abroad in August-December. Nothing is certain yet... should I break up with her? I'm at lost.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Think a girl I like very much is going to go abroad next year. Wondering if I should end it early to save myself pain later.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Think a girl I like very much is going to go abroad next year. Wondering if I should end it early to save myself pain later.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I 21M am thinking about breaking up with my Girlfriend 20F of 6 months, is it good reasoning?\n\nPOST: I met this girl last spring at my university, and we have hit it off. I took her virginity, and I believe she has grown attached to me. While I was out of the country in the summer, we managed to keep in touch. We do spend a good amount together, we like each other a lot, and she makes me very happy. We don't really have many problems in the relationship so far, and haven't really argued. However, she wants to do a semester abroad in Europe. This isn't concrete, but if this does go accordingly, she would be gone from next August-December. I know this is really selfish of me, but I want her to go somewhere in the summer, so she will be with me during the year. Should I just save myself a lot of pain later and end things early? I really like her so much, I am just at lost.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I like this girl, she likes me. She wants to travel to Europe in the summer. I'm not sure if I should end things with her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have you stood up to bullies, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have you stood up to bullies, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Has anyone ever stood up to someone that was bullying you, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Have you stood up to bullies, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have you stood up to bullies, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I stood up to bullies many times as a 6 year old, never used physical force. Have you ever stood up to bullies and let them get away with bullying someone?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

grade 1- did nothing, grade 2- hit a bully because he hurt my friend, grades 3-8- never physically confronted a bully, just verbally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: grade 1- did nothing, grade 2- hit a bully because he hurt my friend, grades 3-8- never physically confronted a bully, just verbally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I stood up to bullies many times as a 6 year old, never used physical force. Have you ever stood up to bullies and let them get away with bullying someone?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Has anyone ever stood up to someone that was bullying you, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Has anyone ever stood up to someone that was bullying you, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I stood up to bullies many times as a 6 year old, never used physical force. Have you ever stood up to bullies and let them get away with bullying someone?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

grade 1- did nothing, grade 2- hit a bully because he hurt my friend, grades 3-8- never physically confronted a bully, just verbally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: grade 1- did nothing, grade 2- hit a bully because he hurt my friend, grades 3-8- never physically confronted a bully, just verbally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Have you stood up to bullies, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

grade 1- did nothing, grade 2- hit a bully because he hurt my friend, grades 3-8- never physically confronted a bully, just verbally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: grade 1- did nothing, grade 2- hit a bully because he hurt my friend, grades 3-8- never physically confronted a bully, just verbally.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, have you ever stood up to a bully? If so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally?. Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone? Do you have regrets?\n\nPOST: I was recently wondering if many people have stood up to people that bully them or other people such as friends, classmates etc., and how they stood up to them...or didn't. I have stood up to bullies numerous times as I was the biggest guy in my grades at the time (all in elementary school years 1-8), but when i was younger i would just ignore them and let them bully me. I will try to list out my experiences Chronologically, starting with **grade 1**. I was 6 years old and being bullied by a guy who was backed by a group of his friends for the entire year (they were 2 years older than me). Basically, I never retaliated, even when they went so far as to shove me into the dirt and kick me. **grade 2** I had gained a new best friend that year, and he was being bullied by two kids a grade above us. One day during recess, one of the bullies chased him around and tripped him, causing him to get a bloody nose. I helped my friend up, then walked over to the bully and said something along the lines of "Don't hurt my friend" then punched him once in the chest, causing him to fall down and start crying. **grades 3-8** I never stood up to bullies physically ever again, as i was able to talk them out of bullying people and was probably physically imposing to them as I was the largest guy at my school.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Has anyone ever stood up to someone that was bullying you, and if so, did you use physical force or did you solve the situation verbally? Have you ever let a bully get away with bullying someone?<|endoftext|>

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I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend, and I want to tell her. I feel terrible and confused. Is that something she should know? How should I go about telling her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20M] think I may have cheated on my girlfriend [19F] of 2 years. I feel awful and confused...\n\nPOST: My girlfriend suffered from anxiety. I'll spare the gorey details, but it reached a low last summer. We went nearly a month without even talking because she was too far gone to even talk to me. Before that was about another 2 months of basically the relationship breaking down. I felt powerless. I was afraid she didn't love me, because at that point, she wouldn't open up to me about any of it. That anxiety was contagious and I started feeling like I was going down a road I had been down before. I called it off. I broke up with her, and explained that the relationship had become too taxing. At least I thought I did. I sort of did it in an emotional rush, and I didn't communicate properly. Emotionally, I was in a bad place, but not as bad as her, obviously. However, I was afraid it would be even worse without her, so once I talked to her about that, I said we should talk again in a month, and see how we feel. Days later, I went to a club and a girl came on to me. We went back to my house. I couldn't stop thinking about her. So quickly after she took her clothes off, I ended up telling her to get out, and we never spoke again. We didn't have sex, we didn't do anything. I have no way to contact her and vice versa. The next morning, I felt awful. I wanted to speak with her but we still needed time apart. Some time later, we spoke and she was doing much better. I think she shook herself awake and climbed out of the pit. We got back together. I didn't tell her what made me realize I missed her so much. We're still together and stronger than ever. Her anxiety has died down, and she's very happy, as am I. We closed that chapter long ago. I've been thinking about it a lot recently. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend, and I want to tell her. I feel terrible and confused. Is that something she should know? How should I go about telling her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20M] think I may have cheated on my girlfriend [19F] of 2 years. I feel awful and confused...\n\nPOST: My girlfriend suffered from anxiety. I'll spare the gorey details, but it reached a low last summer. We went nearly a month without even talking because she was too far gone to even talk to me. Before that was about another 2 months of basically the relationship breaking down. I felt powerless. I was afraid she didn't love me, because at that point, she wouldn't open up to me about any of it. That anxiety was contagious and I started feeling like I was going down a road I had been down before. I called it off. I broke up with her, and explained that the relationship had become too taxing. At least I thought I did. I sort of did it in an emotional rush, and I didn't communicate properly. Emotionally, I was in a bad place, but not as bad as her, obviously. However, I was afraid it would be even worse without her, so once I talked to her about that, I said we should talk again in a month, and see how we feel. Days later, I went to a club and a girl came on to me. We went back to my house. I couldn't stop thinking about her. So quickly after she took her clothes off, I ended up telling her to get out, and we never spoke again. We didn't have sex, we didn't do anything. I have no way to contact her and vice versa. The next morning, I felt awful. I wanted to speak with her but we still needed time apart. Some time later, we spoke and she was doing much better. I think she shook herself awake and climbed out of the pit. We got back together. I didn't tell her what made me realize I missed her so much. We're still together and stronger than ever. Her anxiety has died down, and she's very happy, as am I. We closed that chapter long ago. I've been thinking about it a lot recently. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend, who suffers from anxiety. I feel awful and don't know whether or not to tell her. I don't want to hurt her.<|endoftext|>

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I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years. I feel awful and confused. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20M] think I may have cheated on my girlfriend [19F] of 2 years. I feel awful and confused...\n\nPOST: My girlfriend suffered from anxiety. I'll spare the gorey details, but it reached a low last summer. We went nearly a month without even talking because she was too far gone to even talk to me. Before that was about another 2 months of basically the relationship breaking down. I felt powerless. I was afraid she didn't love me, because at that point, she wouldn't open up to me about any of it. That anxiety was contagious and I started feeling like I was going down a road I had been down before. I called it off. I broke up with her, and explained that the relationship had become too taxing. At least I thought I did. I sort of did it in an emotional rush, and I didn't communicate properly. Emotionally, I was in a bad place, but not as bad as her, obviously. However, I was afraid it would be even worse without her, so once I talked to her about that, I said we should talk again in a month, and see how we feel. Days later, I went to a club and a girl came on to me. We went back to my house. I couldn't stop thinking about her. So quickly after she took her clothes off, I ended up telling her to get out, and we never spoke again. We didn't have sex, we didn't do anything. I have no way to contact her and vice versa. The next morning, I felt awful. I wanted to speak with her but we still needed time apart. Some time later, we spoke and she was doing much better. I think she shook herself awake and climbed out of the pit. We got back together. I didn't tell her what made me realize I missed her so much. We're still together and stronger than ever. Her anxiety has died down, and she's very happy, as am I. We closed that chapter long ago. I've been thinking about it a lot recently. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years. I feel awful and confused. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20M] think I may have cheated on my girlfriend [19F] of 2 years. I feel awful and confused...\n\nPOST: My girlfriend suffered from anxiety. I'll spare the gorey details, but it reached a low last summer. We went nearly a month without even talking because she was too far gone to even talk to me. Before that was about another 2 months of basically the relationship breaking down. I felt powerless. I was afraid she didn't love me, because at that point, she wouldn't open up to me about any of it. That anxiety was contagious and I started feeling like I was going down a road I had been down before. I called it off. I broke up with her, and explained that the relationship had become too taxing. At least I thought I did. I sort of did it in an emotional rush, and I didn't communicate properly. Emotionally, I was in a bad place, but not as bad as her, obviously. However, I was afraid it would be even worse without her, so once I talked to her about that, I said we should talk again in a month, and see how we feel. Days later, I went to a club and a girl came on to me. We went back to my house. I couldn't stop thinking about her. So quickly after she took her clothes off, I ended up telling her to get out, and we never spoke again. We didn't have sex, we didn't do anything. I have no way to contact her and vice versa. The next morning, I felt awful. I wanted to speak with her but we still needed time apart. Some time later, we spoke and she was doing much better. I think she shook herself awake and climbed out of the pit. We got back together. I didn't tell her what made me realize I missed her so much. We're still together and stronger than ever. Her anxiety has died down, and she's very happy, as am I. We closed that chapter long ago. I've been thinking about it a lot recently. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend, who suffers from anxiety. I feel awful and don't know whether or not to tell her. I don't want to hurt her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20M] think I may have cheated on my girlfriend [19F] of 2 years. I feel awful and confused...\n\nPOST: My girlfriend suffered from anxiety. I'll spare the gorey details, but it reached a low last summer. We went nearly a month without even talking because she was too far gone to even talk to me. Before that was about another 2 months of basically the relationship breaking down. I felt powerless. I was afraid she didn't love me, because at that point, she wouldn't open up to me about any of it. That anxiety was contagious and I started feeling like I was going down a road I had been down before. I called it off. I broke up with her, and explained that the relationship had become too taxing. At least I thought I did. I sort of did it in an emotional rush, and I didn't communicate properly. Emotionally, I was in a bad place, but not as bad as her, obviously. However, I was afraid it would be even worse without her, so once I talked to her about that, I said we should talk again in a month, and see how we feel. Days later, I went to a club and a girl came on to me. We went back to my house. I couldn't stop thinking about her. So quickly after she took her clothes off, I ended up telling her to get out, and we never spoke again. We didn't have sex, we didn't do anything. I have no way to contact her and vice versa. The next morning, I felt awful. I wanted to speak with her but we still needed time apart. Some time later, we spoke and she was doing much better. I think she shook herself awake and climbed out of the pit. We got back together. I didn't tell her what made me realize I missed her so much. We're still together and stronger than ever. Her anxiety has died down, and she's very happy, as am I. We closed that chapter long ago. I've been thinking about it a lot recently. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend, who suffers from anxiety. I feel awful and don't know whether or not to tell her. I don't want to hurt her.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20M] think I may have cheated on my girlfriend [19F] of 2 years. I feel awful and confused...\n\nPOST: My girlfriend suffered from anxiety. I'll spare the gorey details, but it reached a low last summer. We went nearly a month without even talking because she was too far gone to even talk to me. Before that was about another 2 months of basically the relationship breaking down. I felt powerless. I was afraid she didn't love me, because at that point, she wouldn't open up to me about any of it. That anxiety was contagious and I started feeling like I was going down a road I had been down before. I called it off. I broke up with her, and explained that the relationship had become too taxing. At least I thought I did. I sort of did it in an emotional rush, and I didn't communicate properly. Emotionally, I was in a bad place, but not as bad as her, obviously. However, I was afraid it would be even worse without her, so once I talked to her about that, I said we should talk again in a month, and see how we feel. Days later, I went to a club and a girl came on to me. We went back to my house. I couldn't stop thinking about her. So quickly after she took her clothes off, I ended up telling her to get out, and we never spoke again. We didn't have sex, we didn't do anything. I have no way to contact her and vice versa. The next morning, I felt awful. I wanted to speak with her but we still needed time apart. Some time later, we spoke and she was doing much better. I think she shook herself awake and climbed out of the pit. We got back together. I didn't tell her what made me realize I missed her so much. We're still together and stronger than ever. Her anxiety has died down, and she's very happy, as am I. We closed that chapter long ago. I've been thinking about it a lot recently. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: We broke up, left it open to talk about getting back together in a month. During that time, I got with someone else, which was a pretty cathartic moment when I realized I needed her back.<|endoftext|>

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I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend, and I want to tell her. I feel terrible and confused. Is that something she should know? How should I go about telling her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20M] think I may have cheated on my girlfriend [19F] of 2 years. I feel awful and confused...\n\nPOST: My girlfriend suffered from anxiety. I'll spare the gorey details, but it reached a low last summer. We went nearly a month without even talking because she was too far gone to even talk to me. Before that was about another 2 months of basically the relationship breaking down. I felt powerless. I was afraid she didn't love me, because at that point, she wouldn't open up to me about any of it. That anxiety was contagious and I started feeling like I was going down a road I had been down before. I called it off. I broke up with her, and explained that the relationship had become too taxing. At least I thought I did. I sort of did it in an emotional rush, and I didn't communicate properly. Emotionally, I was in a bad place, but not as bad as her, obviously. However, I was afraid it would be even worse without her, so once I talked to her about that, I said we should talk again in a month, and see how we feel. Days later, I went to a club and a girl came on to me. We went back to my house. I couldn't stop thinking about her. So quickly after she took her clothes off, I ended up telling her to get out, and we never spoke again. We didn't have sex, we didn't do anything. I have no way to contact her and vice versa. The next morning, I felt awful. I wanted to speak with her but we still needed time apart. Some time later, we spoke and she was doing much better. I think she shook herself awake and climbed out of the pit. We got back together. I didn't tell her what made me realize I missed her so much. We're still together and stronger than ever. Her anxiety has died down, and she's very happy, as am I. We closed that chapter long ago. I've been thinking about it a lot recently. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend, and I want to tell her. I feel terrible and confused. Is that something she should know? How should I go about telling her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [20M] think I may have cheated on my girlfriend [19F] of 2 years. I feel awful and confused...\n\nPOST: My girlfriend suffered from anxiety. I'll spare the gorey details, but it reached a low last summer. We went nearly a month without even talking because she was too far gone to even talk to me. Before that was about another 2 months of basically the relationship breaking down. I felt powerless. I was afraid she didn't love me, because at that point, she wouldn't open up to me about any of it. That anxiety was contagious and I started feeling like I was going down a road I had been down before. I called it off. I broke up with her, and explained that the relationship had become too taxing. At least I thought I did. I sort of did it in an emotional rush, and I didn't communicate properly. Emotionally, I was in a bad place, but not as bad as her, obviously. However, I was afraid it would be even worse without her, so once I talked to her about that, I said we should talk again in a month, and see how we feel. Days later, I went to a club and a girl came on to me. We went back to my house. I couldn't stop thinking about her. So quickly after she took her clothes off, I ended up telling her to get out, and we never spoke again. We didn't have sex, we didn't do anything. I have no way to contact her and vice versa. The next morning, I felt awful. I wanted to speak with her but we still needed time apart. Some time later, we spoke and she was doing much better. I think she shook herself awake and climbed out of the pit. We got back together. I didn't tell her what made me realize I missed her so much. We're still together and stronger than ever. Her anxiety has died down, and she's very happy, as am I. We closed that chapter long ago. I've been thinking about it a lot recently. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I think I may have cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years. I feel awful and confused. Should I tell her? Is it within her "right" to know?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I kissed my best friend during a movie she was watching. She thought I was going to do something else. I didn't want to cause a scene.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I kissed my best friend during a movie she was watching. She thought I was going to do something else. I didn't want to cause a scene.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend kissed me during a movie, I freaked out and almost got caught, don't know if I did, probably did not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Went over to my best friends house (who is a girl), watched a movie with sexual references, kissed her and as things got hot backed off and ran home breaking our friendship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Went over to my best friends house (who is a girl), watched a movie with sexual references, kissed her and as things got hot backed off and ran home breaking our friendship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I kissed my best friend during a movie she was watching. She thought I was going to do something else. I didn't want to cause a scene.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My best friend kissed me during a movie, I freaked out and almost got caught, don't know if I did, probably did not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend kissed me during a movie, I freaked out and almost got caught, don't know if I did, probably did not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Took a best friend's virginity, went to her house, kissed her and got her to have sex with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I kissed my best friend during a movie she was watching. She thought I was going to do something else. I didn't want to cause a scene.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I kissed my best friend during a movie she was watching. She thought I was going to do something else. I didn't want to cause a scene.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Took a best friend's virginity, went to her house, kissed her and got her to have sex with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Went over to my best friends house (who is a girl), watched a movie with sexual references, kissed her and as things got hot backed off and ran home breaking our friendship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Went over to my best friends house (who is a girl), watched a movie with sexual references, kissed her and as things got hot backed off and ran home breaking our friendship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Took a best friend's virginity, went to her house, kissed her and got her to have sex with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Went over to my best friends house (who is a girl), watched a movie with sexual references, kissed her and as things got hot backed off and ran home breaking our friendship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Went over to my best friends house (who is a girl), watched a movie with sexual references, kissed her and as things got hot backed off and ran home breaking our friendship.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: TIFU By Kissing My Best Friend\n\nPOST: So this was a few years back but I definitely still remember it. I was about 16 at the time. My best friend, for privacy let's call her Aly, and I were pretty close. We talked everyday, texted, went out with friends etc. Well all that was about to change. My parents knew hers so if they had to go somewhere and I was bored at home I'd go over to her house since we lived fairly close. One day my parents had a christmas party to attend and I was sitting at home being bored as hell so I decided to give Aly a visit and thought we would watch a movie or something. I got to her house and as usual I was welcomed inside. We decided to go to the basement where there was a projection screen for movies. Coincidentally her parents had something to attend as well so they left about half an hour of me arriving. Now this movie we were watching wasn't exactly clean and so there were sexual references within it. There was this one specific scene which I have to admit turned me on a little. Apparently it effected my friend a little too much and she suddenly came in close. During the heat of the moment I went in as well and it lasted about 5-7 seconds. When we came apart she looked to me and I saw she wanted more. I freaked out and jumped back saying I had to go, almost slipping on the carpet. I went home and thought about what just happened. Maybe I overreacted a little too much, maybe not? She definitely thought so. After that I didn't really go to her house or talk or text her. Thinking back, I still don't know what I should have done but I surely fucked up.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the tifu subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My best friend kissed me during a movie, I freaked out and almost got caught, don't know if I did, probably did not.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any different than I do everyone else and she gives me as much shit as I give her. How can I learn to start doing compliments?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any different than I do everyone else and she gives me as much shit as I give her. How can I learn to start doing compliments?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am extremely harsh to my roomate who is a close friend. How can I become nicer to everyone? How can I learn to compliment other people without sounding like a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I am extremely harsh to my roomate who is a close friend. How can I become nicer to everyone? How can I learn to compliment other people without sounding like a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am extremely harsh to my roomate who is a close friend. How can I become nicer to everyone? How can I learn to compliment other people without sounding like a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How can I learn to give a compliment in a way that doesn't leave everyone involved feeling weird? #manchildproblems<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any different than I do everyone else and she gives me as much shit as I give her. How can I learn to start doing compliments?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any different than I do everyone else and she gives me as much shit as I give her. How can I learn to start doing compliments?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How can I start giving compliments and being more playful with my friends? I have a hard time with compliments because I never tried them before. I want to learn to be more playful.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

How can I learn to give a compliment in a way that doesn't leave everyone involved feeling weird? #manchildproblems<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How can I learn to give a compliment in a way that doesn't leave everyone involved feeling weird? #manchildproblems<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How can I start giving compliments and being more playful with my friends? I have a hard time with compliments because I never tried them before. I want to learn to be more playful.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I am extremely harsh to my roomate who is a close friend. How can I become nicer to everyone? How can I learn to compliment other people without sounding like a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am extremely harsh to my roomate who is a close friend. How can I become nicer to everyone? How can I learn to compliment other people without sounding like a jerk?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How can I start giving compliments and being more playful with my friends? I have a hard time with compliments because I never tried them before. I want to learn to be more playful.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any different than I do everyone else and she gives me as much shit as I give her. How can I learn to start doing compliments?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any different than I do everyone else and she gives me as much shit as I give her. How can I learn to start doing compliments?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [24 M] with my roommate & close friend [26 F] of one year. My friend asked me why I am mean to her. I do not believe I treat her any differently and she gives me as much shit as I give her but I do not really say nice things to anyone. How can I learn to start doing compliments?\n\nPOST: I never got comfortable getting/giving compliments, so i tease people to give that kind of affection. I give and take shit from my friends all the time so no one who hangs out with me is that thin skinned. However, my one friend has asked rhetorically why I am so mean to her though it seemed she was half joking. She was smiling when she said it it but its something I have heard a couple times before from other people. _ I dont feel the need to be super nice but I also really really don't want to be a bully. I tease people much less than I used to and I am more careful not to tease them about something they care about because at some point it does feel like picking on them instead of playful ribbing. But to reiterate I really do not tease that much or that aggressively any more. _ The main problem as I see it is the only feedback I give is negative even if it is given jokingly. It's hard for me to know what's appropriate b/c I would feel super uncomfortable if someone directly complimented me to my face. I have tried giving compliments before but they almost always feel clunky and weirdly serious compared to the rest of what im saying. _ Specifically when I have complimented Sally she has reacted confused and her face looks like it just smelled something awful. I am not looking to specifically treat her any differently but rather how I can learn to become nicer to all of my friends at least to the point that no one thinks I am picking on them. _\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: How can I learn to give a compliment in a way that doesn't leave everyone involved feeling weird? #manchildproblems<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: University brings new friends, but I feel like they've replaced me and she doesn't want to spend her time with me anymore, just them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF started university 3 weeks ago, used to spend quality time with me but now just hangs out with her friends instead and doesn't talk to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend has started university soon, and I feel like I'm being replaced by her new friends. How can I get her to realise that I don't feel I'm important to her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend has started university soon, and I feel like I'm being replaced by her new friends. How can I get her to realise that I don't feel I'm important to her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF started university 3 weeks ago, used to spend quality time with me but now just hangs out with her friends instead and doesn't talk to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend of 19 months just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me. How do I approach her to change her ways?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 19 months just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me. How do I approach her to change her ways?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: GF started university 3 weeks ago, used to spend quality time with me but now just hangs out with her friends instead and doesn't talk to me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: University brings new friends, but I feel like they've replaced me and she doesn't want to spend her time with me anymore, just them.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend has started university soon, and I feel like I'm being replaced by her new friends. How can I get her to realise that I don't feel I'm important to her?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend of 19 months just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me. How do I approach her to change her ways?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of 19 months just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me. How do I approach her to change her ways?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 19 months, she has just started university in the same city as me and I feel her new friends have replaced me.\n\nPOST: There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal! She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this. I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me. She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through. I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though? Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: University brings new friends, but I feel like they've replaced me and she doesn't want to spend her time with me anymore, just them.<|endoftext|>

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My ex-boyfriend was a douchebag, dumped me over text, and now I have feelings for a girl online.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [16/F] was recently dumped by [18/M]- may have a crush on a girl [14/F] now..\n\nPOST: So.. yeah. I dumped him in person, he came crawling back, and dumped me over text the next day. Done with that douchebag. x.x Anyway. That happened about 1-2 weeks ago. Anyway. There's this wonderful girl I've been speaking to online. Granted, she does not have too much time to speak with me, because she lives in Minnesota, and I in Alaska. Plus, she loses her phone a lot. She and I both know we have crushes on each-other- that's been established. I'm just holding back because even though I legitimately care about this girl, I have lots of doubts. I'm worried about this being a rebound- or being viewed as such. She's sweet and awesome, but I'm worried about long-distance. We probably would not be able to see each-other for about four years. And I'm just worried about what society will think. Any ideas?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My ex-boyfriend was a douchebag, dumped me over text, and now I have feelings for a girl online.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [16/F] was recently dumped by [18/M]- may have a crush on a girl [14/F] now..\n\nPOST: So.. yeah. I dumped him in person, he came crawling back, and dumped me over text the next day. Done with that douchebag. x.x Anyway. That happened about 1-2 weeks ago. Anyway. There's this wonderful girl I've been speaking to online. Granted, she does not have too much time to speak with me, because she lives in Minnesota, and I in Alaska. Plus, she loses her phone a lot. She and I both know we have crushes on each-other- that's been established. I'm just holding back because even though I legitimately care about this girl, I have lots of doubts. I'm worried about this being a rebound- or being viewed as such. She's sweet and awesome, but I'm worried about long-distance. We probably would not be able to see each-other for about four years. And I'm just worried about what society will think. Any ideas?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Dumped by douchebag, may have a crush on girl now. Worried about being a rebound, and what society will think.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [16/F] was recently dumped by [18/M]- may have a crush on a girl [14/F] now..\n\nPOST: So.. yeah. I dumped him in person, he came crawling back, and dumped me over text the next day. Done with that douchebag. x.x Anyway. That happened about 1-2 weeks ago. Anyway. There's this wonderful girl I've been speaking to online. Granted, she does not have too much time to speak with me, because she lives in Minnesota, and I in Alaska. Plus, she loses her phone a lot. She and I both know we have crushes on each-other- that's been established. I'm just holding back because even though I legitimately care about this girl, I have lots of doubts. I'm worried about this being a rebound- or being viewed as such. She's sweet and awesome, but I'm worried about long-distance. We probably would not be able to see each-other for about four years. And I'm just worried about what society will think. Any ideas?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

dumped guy, have a crush on girl, not sure if long-distance or what society will think about this. Need help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [16/F] was recently dumped by [18/M]- may have a crush on a girl [14/F] now..\n\nPOST: So.. yeah. I dumped him in person, he came crawling back, and dumped me over text the next day. Done with that douchebag. x.x Anyway. That happened about 1-2 weeks ago. Anyway. There's this wonderful girl I've been speaking to online. Granted, she does not have too much time to speak with me, because she lives in Minnesota, and I in Alaska. Plus, she loses her phone a lot. She and I both know we have crushes on each-other- that's been established. I'm just holding back because even though I legitimately care about this girl, I have lots of doubts. I'm worried about this being a rebound- or being viewed as such. She's sweet and awesome, but I'm worried about long-distance. We probably would not be able to see each-other for about four years. And I'm just worried about what society will think. Any ideas?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: dumped guy, have a crush on girl, not sure if long-distance or what society will think about this. Need help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [16/F] was recently dumped by [18/M]- may have a crush on a girl [14/F] now..\n\nPOST: So.. yeah. I dumped him in person, he came crawling back, and dumped me over text the next day. Done with that douchebag. x.x Anyway. That happened about 1-2 weeks ago. Anyway. There's this wonderful girl I've been speaking to online. Granted, she does not have too much time to speak with me, because she lives in Minnesota, and I in Alaska. Plus, she loses her phone a lot. She and I both know we have crushes on each-other- that's been established. I'm just holding back because even though I legitimately care about this girl, I have lots of doubts. I'm worried about this being a rebound- or being viewed as such. She's sweet and awesome, but I'm worried about long-distance. We probably would not be able to see each-other for about four years. And I'm just worried about what society will think. Any ideas?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationship_advice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Dumped ex-bf, but not sure if I have mutual feelings with new girl. Doubting long-distance/rebound. Need advice, please!<|endoftext|>

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