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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story of how my plan for a petty revenge accidentally got my victim arrested.\n\nSo I met an old bully at a night club a year or two ago, and he came up to me and tried to be all pally, despite the fact that he made a few years of my life hell. I told him to fuck off, and went on with my partying, but his mere presence ruined my night, so I planned some petty revenge.\n\nI knew the owner of the club, and some of the guards, so I told a guard that I thought he might be dealing drugs in the bathrooms to get him thrown out. Little did I know that he was selling drugs in the bathrooms, and things get a bit out of hand.\n\nThe guards check it out, and realize that he is selling drugs, so they try to stop him. He punches one guard and locks himself in one of the stalls (and even though he is in the bathroom he does not think of flushing the drugs).\n\nThe police comes and while arresting him, he breaks one of their noses. He was charged and convicted of aggravated assault, assaulting a public official, resisting arrest, selling cocaine, ecstasy, amphetamines and weed."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, and on a throwaway account because boyfriend and I are both redditors. \n\nMy boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We met online and talked for a few months before meeting up, and it was amazing. I didn't agree to be his girlfriend until a few months after we became an official 'thing' due to trust issues I have from being in a prior relationship where I was cheated on. My boyfriend understands these problems as he was cheated on as well, and swore to never lie to me or cheat on me (in writing, lol). \n\nWe had sex 8 days ago on my birthday, and he was my first. He says I was his first as well. \n\nHowever, upon my random stalking of old reddit posts of his (I do this when I'm missing him), I found that he posted on a subreddit asking for advice on how to get custom condoms sent to his house because 'blah blah brands give me the red ring of death'. I can't understand any other reason as to why he would have done this other than the fact that he had sex with the girl he was with before and lied to me. This also confuses me because he said they never even kissed or held hands but were a 'thing' for nearly a year. The post was a year ago. \n\nHe's sleeping right now and I've texted and called him (he's a heavy sleeper). It's 1:00 a.m. my time and I can't even focus on anything other than being miserable right now. How do I proceed? Should I even entertain his possible explanation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, and on a throwaway account because boyfriend and I are both redditors. \n\nMy boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We met online and talked for a few months before meeting up, and it was amazing. I didn't agree to be his girlfriend until a few months after we became an official 'thing' due to trust issues I have from being in a prior relationship where I was cheated on. My boyfriend understands these problems as he was cheated on as well, and swore to never lie to me or cheat on me (in writing, lol). \n\nWe had sex 8 days ago on my birthday, and he was my first. He says I was his first as well. \n\nHowever, upon my random stalking of old reddit posts of his (I do this when I'm missing him), I found that he posted on a subreddit asking for advice on how to get custom condoms sent to his house because 'blah blah brands give me the red ring of death'. I can't understand any other reason as to why he would have done this other than the fact that he had sex with the girl he was with before and lied to me. This also confuses me because he said they never even kissed or held hands but were a 'thing' for nearly a year. The post was a year ago. \n\nHe's sleeping right now and I've texted and called him (he's a heavy sleeper). It's 1:00 a.m. my time and I can't even focus on anything other than being miserable right now. How do I proceed? Should I even entertain his possible explanation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post, and on a throwaway account because boyfriend and I are both redditors. \n\nMy boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We met online and talked for a few months before meeting up, and it was amazing. I didn't agree to be his girlfriend until a few months after we became an official 'thing' due to trust issues I have from being in a prior relationship where I was cheated on. My boyfriend understands these problems as he was cheated on as well, and swore to never lie to me or cheat on me (in writing, lol). \n\nWe had sex 8 days ago on my birthday, and he was my first. He says I was his first as well. \n\nHowever, upon my random stalking of old reddit posts of his (I do this when I'm missing him), I found that he posted on a subreddit asking for advice on how to get custom condoms sent to his house because 'blah blah brands give me the red ring of death'. I can't understand any other reason as to why he would have done this other than the fact that he had sex with the girl he was with before and lied to me. This also confuses me because he said they never even kissed or held hands but were a 'thing' for nearly a year. The post was a year ago. \n\nHe's sleeping right now and I've texted and called him (he's a heavy sleeper). It's 1:00 a.m. my time and I can't even focus on anything other than being miserable right now. How do I proceed? Should I even entertain his possible explanation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okie doke, so I'm 21 and just getting into this whole \"adult\" gig and I have been looking at various credit card options for their rewards programs. I really want the TD Bank cc, but being a whippersnapper they won't quite approve me (great credit, the only real knock on it is that I don't have enough lines of credit). Anyway, so I got another CC that had preapproved me and will be receiving it shortly. Is there any reason not to use it for literally every purchase I would normally use my debit for and pay it off every month? I know the point is they make money when you don't and when you overspend, but I'm super tight with my money, have a few grand saved and a job lined up and literally no expenses that my current graduate assistantship doesn't pay for (with about $400 left over each month). My main point is, am I missing some sort of caveat to credit card usage that would discourage this? My line of credit is up to like $3000 or so and I can't even fathom hitting that, but could cover it easily if I did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okie doke, so I'm 21 and just getting into this whole \"adult\" gig and I have been looking at various credit card options for their rewards programs. I really want the TD Bank cc, but being a whippersnapper they won't quite approve me (great credit, the only real knock on it is that I don't have enough lines of credit). Anyway, so I got another CC that had preapproved me and will be receiving it shortly. Is there any reason not to use it for literally every purchase I would normally use my debit for and pay it off every month? I know the point is they make money when you don't and when you overspend, but I'm super tight with my money, have a few grand saved and a job lined up and literally no expenses that my current graduate assistantship doesn't pay for (with about $400 left over each month). My main point is, am I missing some sort of caveat to credit card usage that would discourage this? My line of credit is up to like $3000 or so and I can't even fathom hitting that, but could cover it easily if I did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okie doke, so I'm 21 and just getting into this whole \"adult\" gig and I have been looking at various credit card options for their rewards programs. I really want the TD Bank cc, but being a whippersnapper they won't quite approve me (great credit, the only real knock on it is that I don't have enough lines of credit). Anyway, so I got another CC that had preapproved me and will be receiving it shortly. Is there any reason not to use it for literally every purchase I would normally use my debit for and pay it off every month? I know the point is they make money when you don't and when you overspend, but I'm super tight with my money, have a few grand saved and a job lined up and literally no expenses that my current graduate assistantship doesn't pay for (with about $400 left over each month). My main point is, am I missing some sort of caveat to credit card usage that would discourage this? My line of credit is up to like $3000 or so and I can't even fathom hitting that, but could cover it easily if I did."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I can't explain why but throughout my childhood my parents harassed me when I cried.\n\nBoth my mother and father would laugh at me and call me names. I was only about 5 years old.\n\nI cried when I was hurt or when I sad and would laugh and call me a \"faker\". When I didn't stop they would get angry and I'd get spanked until I shut up.\n\nI stopped crying at about 8 years old. I just never did it because I didn't want to get in trouble.\n\nMy parents were nicer too. They didn't laugh at me or spank me.\n\nWhen I was 13 my mom died from leukemia. It was really sad, and I did cry when my dad told me she was going to die. I cried so loud the neighbors called the cops. My voice was sore when I said goodbye to her.\n\nAfter that it was just my dad and I. He didn't really know how to raise me. Mom usually did that while he worked. He started beating me when I got into trouble, and wouldn't stop until I didn't cry anymore.\n\nLife wasn't easy. My grades were bad and I was kicked out of school for poor grades. \n\nBut I'm 18 now, and is been almost a year since he's hurt me. I cry when I'm sad now, and it's awesome.\n\nI'm not weak, I'm not faking. I'm sad, and I'm crying, and I feel better after."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I can't explain why but throughout my childhood my parents harassed me when I cried.\n\nBoth my mother and father would laugh at me and call me names. I was only about 5 years old.\n\nI cried when I was hurt or when I sad and would laugh and call me a \"faker\". When I didn't stop they would get angry and I'd get spanked until I shut up.\n\nI stopped crying at about 8 years old. I just never did it because I didn't want to get in trouble.\n\nMy parents were nicer too. They didn't laugh at me or spank me.\n\nWhen I was 13 my mom died from leukemia. It was really sad, and I did cry when my dad told me she was going to die. I cried so loud the neighbors called the cops. My voice was sore when I said goodbye to her.\n\nAfter that it was just my dad and I. He didn't really know how to raise me. Mom usually did that while he worked. He started beating me when I got into trouble, and wouldn't stop until I didn't cry anymore.\n\nLife wasn't easy. My grades were bad and I was kicked out of school for poor grades. \n\nBut I'm 18 now, and is been almost a year since he's hurt me. I cry when I'm sad now, and it's awesome.\n\nI'm not weak, I'm not faking. I'm sad, and I'm crying, and I feel better after."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I can't explain why but throughout my childhood my parents harassed me when I cried.\n\nBoth my mother and father would laugh at me and call me names. I was only about 5 years old.\n\nI cried when I was hurt or when I sad and would laugh and call me a \"faker\". When I didn't stop they would get angry and I'd get spanked until I shut up.\n\nI stopped crying at about 8 years old. I just never did it because I didn't want to get in trouble.\n\nMy parents were nicer too. They didn't laugh at me or spank me.\n\nWhen I was 13 my mom died from leukemia. It was really sad, and I did cry when my dad told me she was going to die. I cried so loud the neighbors called the cops. My voice was sore when I said goodbye to her.\n\nAfter that it was just my dad and I. He didn't really know how to raise me. Mom usually did that while he worked. He started beating me when I got into trouble, and wouldn't stop until I didn't cry anymore.\n\nLife wasn't easy. My grades were bad and I was kicked out of school for poor grades. \n\nBut I'm 18 now, and is been almost a year since he's hurt me. I cry when I'm sad now, and it's awesome.\n\nI'm not weak, I'm not faking. I'm sad, and I'm crying, and I feel better after."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Aside from this, we don't really have any other problems.\n\nHe works 8 hours a day in a factory and also is a dancer at weekend nights. Besides, he goes to university (Product design. I study there too) and whatever little amount of free times he (we) get is spent studying or working on our designs.\nWe attend school at night and three times a week he also trains so seeing each other during weekdays is out of the question.\n\nWe also live with our respective parents, which limits even further the quality of our time together. We end up seeing each other maybe once every two weeks, and due to our family circumstances, get to have sex maybe once every three weeks.\n\nThis has come up several times already, and I don't want him to give up what he does because of me, because I know he will regret it later on. I don't work currently and even so, I have little free time as well, but I can make do and arrange my schedule to see him.\n\nYesterday he told me there was this cultural festival in our town, and he and his friends were scheduled to dance there. I am not invited to go with him. Said we could meet an hour before the festival for coffee, and I'd have to travel 1.5 hr each way to see him for an hour. I said I wasn't up for that since I have to study today, and that it made me sad that we could only see each other when he had a couple hours leftover from all his activities. \n\nSo here's the thing, I understand that the \"I don't have time\" situation is real, but it still makes me sad. He says he feels it as well and is tired of never being free, but that \"it will pass\". I know it won't pass unless he gives something up, but I don't want to be the reason he does.\n\nI am asking you here, reddit, not to tell me to break up with him, that option is already being considered. I just need advice on how to word this to him and work it out without directly and simply breaking up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Aside from this, we don't really have any other problems.\n\nHe works 8 hours a day in a factory and also is a dancer at weekend nights. Besides, he goes to university (Product design. I study there too) and whatever little amount of free times he (we) get is spent studying or working on our designs.\nWe attend school at night and three times a week he also trains so seeing each other during weekdays is out of the question.\n\nWe also live with our respective parents, which limits even further the quality of our time together. We end up seeing each other maybe once every two weeks, and due to our family circumstances, get to have sex maybe once every three weeks.\n\nThis has come up several times already, and I don't want him to give up what he does because of me, because I know he will regret it later on. I don't work currently and even so, I have little free time as well, but I can make do and arrange my schedule to see him.\n\nYesterday he told me there was this cultural festival in our town, and he and his friends were scheduled to dance there. I am not invited to go with him. Said we could meet an hour before the festival for coffee, and I'd have to travel 1.5 hr each way to see him for an hour. I said I wasn't up for that since I have to study today, and that it made me sad that we could only see each other when he had a couple hours leftover from all his activities. \n\nSo here's the thing, I understand that the \"I don't have time\" situation is real, but it still makes me sad. He says he feels it as well and is tired of never being free, but that \"it will pass\". I know it won't pass unless he gives something up, but I don't want to be the reason he does.\n\nI am asking you here, reddit, not to tell me to break up with him, that option is already being considered. I just need advice on how to word this to him and work it out without directly and simply breaking up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Aside from this, we don't really have any other problems.\n\nHe works 8 hours a day in a factory and also is a dancer at weekend nights. Besides, he goes to university (Product design. I study there too) and whatever little amount of free times he (we) get is spent studying or working on our designs.\nWe attend school at night and three times a week he also trains so seeing each other during weekdays is out of the question.\n\nWe also live with our respective parents, which limits even further the quality of our time together. We end up seeing each other maybe once every two weeks, and due to our family circumstances, get to have sex maybe once every three weeks.\n\nThis has come up several times already, and I don't want him to give up what he does because of me, because I know he will regret it later on. I don't work currently and even so, I have little free time as well, but I can make do and arrange my schedule to see him.\n\nYesterday he told me there was this cultural festival in our town, and he and his friends were scheduled to dance there. I am not invited to go with him. Said we could meet an hour before the festival for coffee, and I'd have to travel 1.5 hr each way to see him for an hour. I said I wasn't up for that since I have to study today, and that it made me sad that we could only see each other when he had a couple hours leftover from all his activities. \n\nSo here's the thing, I understand that the \"I don't have time\" situation is real, but it still makes me sad. He says he feels it as well and is tired of never being free, but that \"it will pass\". I know it won't pass unless he gives something up, but I don't want to be the reason he does.\n\nI am asking you here, reddit, not to tell me to break up with him, that option is already being considered. I just need advice on how to word this to him and work it out without directly and simply breaking up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So to not beat around the bush basically looking for help/advice in how to best handle the problem.\n\nI had trouble maintaining an erection while first being with her. For some reason condoms have always made me feel like I lose 80% of sensation which is a big buzz kill but the only protection we have atm. She's also a larger girl which makes positioning difficult. \n\nThis is what scares me the most. I've only been with a handful of women and the only time I've ever had performance problems was with one other larger woman. I attributed that first time to being on a rebound from my shambles of a marriage not to mention she really wasn't that good of a person.\n\nBut now I'm with a larger girl and having the same problem. this frightens the hell out of me because she's an amazing person. I am truly attracted to her but when the condom became an issue I took it off and it was great, stayed hard, made her orgasm. But stopped because it made her too nervous.\n\nI don't want to scare her off because of the issue. Her weight really doesn't factor into who I want to be with but if I can't perform I know she's going to think that's why.\n\nI guess im just mostly conflicted about my feelings because with that first larger woman I couldn't.just couldn't have sex. But now I did with this woman that I really care for but not without complications. any objective thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So to not beat around the bush basically looking for help/advice in how to best handle the problem.\n\nI had trouble maintaining an erection while first being with her. For some reason condoms have always made me feel like I lose 80% of sensation which is a big buzz kill but the only protection we have atm. She's also a larger girl which makes positioning difficult. \n\nThis is what scares me the most. I've only been with a handful of women and the only time I've ever had performance problems was with one other larger woman. I attributed that first time to being on a rebound from my shambles of a marriage not to mention she really wasn't that good of a person.\n\nBut now I'm with a larger girl and having the same problem. this frightens the hell out of me because she's an amazing person. I am truly attracted to her but when the condom became an issue I took it off and it was great, stayed hard, made her orgasm. But stopped because it made her too nervous.\n\nI don't want to scare her off because of the issue. Her weight really doesn't factor into who I want to be with but if I can't perform I know she's going to think that's why.\n\nI guess im just mostly conflicted about my feelings because with that first larger woman I couldn't.just couldn't have sex. But now I did with this woman that I really care for but not without complications. any objective thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So to not beat around the bush basically looking for help/advice in how to best handle the problem.\n\nI had trouble maintaining an erection while first being with her. For some reason condoms have always made me feel like I lose 80% of sensation which is a big buzz kill but the only protection we have atm. She's also a larger girl which makes positioning difficult. \n\nThis is what scares me the most. I've only been with a handful of women and the only time I've ever had performance problems was with one other larger woman. I attributed that first time to being on a rebound from my shambles of a marriage not to mention she really wasn't that good of a person.\n\nBut now I'm with a larger girl and having the same problem. this frightens the hell out of me because she's an amazing person. I am truly attracted to her but when the condom became an issue I took it off and it was great, stayed hard, made her orgasm. But stopped because it made her too nervous.\n\nI don't want to scare her off because of the issue. Her weight really doesn't factor into who I want to be with but if I can't perform I know she's going to think that's why.\n\nI guess im just mostly conflicted about my feelings because with that first larger woman I couldn't.just couldn't have sex. But now I did with this woman that I really care for but not without complications. any objective thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. Last week, it hit me almost overnight that I had to end things. I don't want to, but I feel like I have to. All day last Sunday my boyfriend was annoying me. He wasn't doing anything wrong, just everything he did annoyed me. When I got home it hit me that I didn't feel the same way and I literally had a panic attack. All week I have had awful anxiety about it. I can't shake this feeling that I've falle out of love with him. I don't think it is his fault, he has been fine. He doesn't abuse me or disrespect me. I think I've just come to realize that I can't make myself feel the same way about him as I used to. \n\nLast night when we had sex, I felt like I was having sex with a stranger. I just wanted it to be over. I feel crazy because three weeks ago I was so happy with him and was so in love, and now I have these thoughts and I don't know if it is a lapse in judgment, or if love can change and fade so quickly. The thought of ending it makes me cry and cry, leaves my heart feeling like it is on fire. Like I'm a failure for being with someone three years with nothing to show for it. I can't stop thinking about the thought of him with someone else, or the thought of him no longer in my life and it is so incredibly upsetting. I feel like I am in this limbo. Like I love him, but not enough to marry him or spend my life with him. \n\nOn Valentine's Day we went to a hockey game and all day he was so nice, so loving. But I just kept thinking to myself that this wasn't right. Like yes he loves me, but I don't feel as in love with him as he does with me. \n\nHas anybody else felt like this? Did I fall out of love, or am I just out of the honeymoon stage? After my panic attack last week I went to the doctor and got on lexapro, and I just keep trying to tell myself that I'm depressed and that it isn't my boyfriend but I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. Last week, it hit me almost overnight that I had to end things. I don't want to, but I feel like I have to. All day last Sunday my boyfriend was annoying me. He wasn't doing anything wrong, just everything he did annoyed me. When I got home it hit me that I didn't feel the same way and I literally had a panic attack. All week I have had awful anxiety about it. I can't shake this feeling that I've falle out of love with him. I don't think it is his fault, he has been fine. He doesn't abuse me or disrespect me. I think I've just come to realize that I can't make myself feel the same way about him as I used to. \n\nLast night when we had sex, I felt like I was having sex with a stranger. I just wanted it to be over. I feel crazy because three weeks ago I was so happy with him and was so in love, and now I have these thoughts and I don't know if it is a lapse in judgment, or if love can change and fade so quickly. The thought of ending it makes me cry and cry, leaves my heart feeling like it is on fire. Like I'm a failure for being with someone three years with nothing to show for it. I can't stop thinking about the thought of him with someone else, or the thought of him no longer in my life and it is so incredibly upsetting. I feel like I am in this limbo. Like I love him, but not enough to marry him or spend my life with him. \n\nOn Valentine's Day we went to a hockey game and all day he was so nice, so loving. But I just kept thinking to myself that this wasn't right. Like yes he loves me, but I don't feel as in love with him as he does with me. \n\nHas anybody else felt like this? Did I fall out of love, or am I just out of the honeymoon stage? After my panic attack last week I went to the doctor and got on lexapro, and I just keep trying to tell myself that I'm depressed and that it isn't my boyfriend but I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. Last week, it hit me almost overnight that I had to end things. I don't want to, but I feel like I have to. All day last Sunday my boyfriend was annoying me. He wasn't doing anything wrong, just everything he did annoyed me. When I got home it hit me that I didn't feel the same way and I literally had a panic attack. All week I have had awful anxiety about it. I can't shake this feeling that I've falle out of love with him. I don't think it is his fault, he has been fine. He doesn't abuse me or disrespect me. I think I've just come to realize that I can't make myself feel the same way about him as I used to. \n\nLast night when we had sex, I felt like I was having sex with a stranger. I just wanted it to be over. I feel crazy because three weeks ago I was so happy with him and was so in love, and now I have these thoughts and I don't know if it is a lapse in judgment, or if love can change and fade so quickly. The thought of ending it makes me cry and cry, leaves my heart feeling like it is on fire. Like I'm a failure for being with someone three years with nothing to show for it. I can't stop thinking about the thought of him with someone else, or the thought of him no longer in my life and it is so incredibly upsetting. I feel like I am in this limbo. Like I love him, but not enough to marry him or spend my life with him. \n\nOn Valentine's Day we went to a hockey game and all day he was so nice, so loving. But I just kept thinking to myself that this wasn't right. Like yes he loves me, but I don't feel as in love with him as he does with me. \n\nHas anybody else felt like this? Did I fall out of love, or am I just out of the honeymoon stage? After my panic attack last week I went to the doctor and got on lexapro, and I just keep trying to tell myself that I'm depressed and that it isn't my boyfriend but I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. Last week, it hit me almost overnight that I had to end things. I don't want to, but I feel like I have to. All day last Sunday my boyfriend was annoying me. He wasn't doing anything wrong, just everything he did annoyed me. When I got home it hit me that I didn't feel the same way and I literally had a panic attack. All week I have had awful anxiety about it. I can't shake this feeling that I've falle out of love with him. I don't think it is his fault, he has been fine. He doesn't abuse me or disrespect me. I think I've just come to realize that I can't make myself feel the same way about him as I used to. \n\nLast night when we had sex, I felt like I was having sex with a stranger. I just wanted it to be over. I feel crazy because three weeks ago I was so happy with him and was so in love, and now I have these thoughts and I don't know if it is a lapse in judgment, or if love can change and fade so quickly. The thought of ending it makes me cry and cry, leaves my heart feeling like it is on fire. Like I'm a failure for being with someone three years with nothing to show for it. I can't stop thinking about the thought of him with someone else, or the thought of him no longer in my life and it is so incredibly upsetting. I feel like I am in this limbo. Like I love him, but not enough to marry him or spend my life with him. \n\nOn Valentine's Day we went to a hockey game and all day he was so nice, so loving. But I just kept thinking to myself that this wasn't right. Like yes he loves me, but I don't feel as in love with him as he does with me. \n\nHas anybody else felt like this? Did I fall out of love, or am I just out of the honeymoon stage? After my panic attack last week I went to the doctor and got on lexapro, and I just keep trying to tell myself that I'm depressed and that it isn't my boyfriend but I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. Last week, it hit me almost overnight that I had to end things. I don't want to, but I feel like I have to. All day last Sunday my boyfriend was annoying me. He wasn't doing anything wrong, just everything he did annoyed me. When I got home it hit me that I didn't feel the same way and I literally had a panic attack. All week I have had awful anxiety about it. I can't shake this feeling that I've falle out of love with him. I don't think it is his fault, he has been fine. He doesn't abuse me or disrespect me. I think I've just come to realize that I can't make myself feel the same way about him as I used to. \n\nLast night when we had sex, I felt like I was having sex with a stranger. I just wanted it to be over. I feel crazy because three weeks ago I was so happy with him and was so in love, and now I have these thoughts and I don't know if it is a lapse in judgment, or if love can change and fade so quickly. The thought of ending it makes me cry and cry, leaves my heart feeling like it is on fire. Like I'm a failure for being with someone three years with nothing to show for it. I can't stop thinking about the thought of him with someone else, or the thought of him no longer in my life and it is so incredibly upsetting. I feel like I am in this limbo. Like I love him, but not enough to marry him or spend my life with him. \n\nOn Valentine's Day we went to a hockey game and all day he was so nice, so loving. But I just kept thinking to myself that this wasn't right. Like yes he loves me, but I don't feel as in love with him as he does with me. \n\nHas anybody else felt like this? Did I fall out of love, or am I just out of the honeymoon stage? After my panic attack last week I went to the doctor and got on lexapro, and I just keep trying to tell myself that I'm depressed and that it isn't my boyfriend but I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. Last week, it hit me almost overnight that I had to end things. I don't want to, but I feel like I have to. All day last Sunday my boyfriend was annoying me. He wasn't doing anything wrong, just everything he did annoyed me. When I got home it hit me that I didn't feel the same way and I literally had a panic attack. All week I have had awful anxiety about it. I can't shake this feeling that I've falle out of love with him. I don't think it is his fault, he has been fine. He doesn't abuse me or disrespect me. I think I've just come to realize that I can't make myself feel the same way about him as I used to. \n\nLast night when we had sex, I felt like I was having sex with a stranger. I just wanted it to be over. I feel crazy because three weeks ago I was so happy with him and was so in love, and now I have these thoughts and I don't know if it is a lapse in judgment, or if love can change and fade so quickly. The thought of ending it makes me cry and cry, leaves my heart feeling like it is on fire. Like I'm a failure for being with someone three years with nothing to show for it. I can't stop thinking about the thought of him with someone else, or the thought of him no longer in my life and it is so incredibly upsetting. I feel like I am in this limbo. Like I love him, but not enough to marry him or spend my life with him. \n\nOn Valentine's Day we went to a hockey game and all day he was so nice, so loving. But I just kept thinking to myself that this wasn't right. Like yes he loves me, but I don't feel as in love with him as he does with me. \n\nHas anybody else felt like this? Did I fall out of love, or am I just out of the honeymoon stage? After my panic attack last week I went to the doctor and got on lexapro, and I just keep trying to tell myself that I'm depressed and that it isn't my boyfriend but I don't know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all!\nSo I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is totally wonderful except he is so clingy. \n\nWhen ever we are alone he is always cuddling me too close and holding me and it feels suffocating. When we are in public he is always trying to hug me from behind and constantly kissing me. He will always try to kiss me on the neck in public and it is driving me nuts! I hate pda. hate it. Its driving me crazy. I have tried to get him to stop but if I mention anything he'll pout and walk behind me. If I get irritated when we're alone he'll ask me if he is a clingy boyfriend and i'll say yes, he will giggle and tell me he's ok with that. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I think I'll explode at him one day.\n\nWhy is he doing this? and how can I make him stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all!\nSo I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is totally wonderful except he is so clingy. \n\nWhen ever we are alone he is always cuddling me too close and holding me and it feels suffocating. When we are in public he is always trying to hug me from behind and constantly kissing me. He will always try to kiss me on the neck in public and it is driving me nuts! I hate pda. hate it. Its driving me crazy. I have tried to get him to stop but if I mention anything he'll pout and walk behind me. If I get irritated when we're alone he'll ask me if he is a clingy boyfriend and i'll say yes, he will giggle and tell me he's ok with that. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I think I'll explode at him one day.\n\nWhy is he doing this? and how can I make him stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all!\nSo I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is totally wonderful except he is so clingy. \n\nWhen ever we are alone he is always cuddling me too close and holding me and it feels suffocating. When we are in public he is always trying to hug me from behind and constantly kissing me. He will always try to kiss me on the neck in public and it is driving me nuts! I hate pda. hate it. Its driving me crazy. I have tried to get him to stop but if I mention anything he'll pout and walk behind me. If I get irritated when we're alone he'll ask me if he is a clingy boyfriend and i'll say yes, he will giggle and tell me he's ok with that. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I think I'll explode at him one day.\n\nWhy is he doing this? and how can I make him stop?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Full disclosure: I stole the title of this post from a Modest Mouse song.\n\nBackground: I had relationship end at the beginning of this year (got dumped). I have been dating a fair amount recently, exclusively through apps like Tinder, OKcupid, and Hinge (meeting people to date in person is quite difficult, as I'm sure many of you know). I dated one person for about a month, but then broke it off with her, as she made some really inappropriate comments to me that raised some red flags.\n\nOther than that, I have not been on any second dates, by my own choosing. In my experience, internet dating (when you're looking for something beyond hooking up) is incredibly inefficient and mentally taxing. I just haven't been interested in hanging out with my dates a second time, mostly due to feeling a lack of connection on my end, though I'm sure the feeling was mutual for some of the dates.\n\nLo and behold, I finally meet someone in person who I am incredibly interested in, and she's taken. I don't know how long she has been dating her boyfriend, but it's off limits as far as I'm concerned. I *do* think she has a little crush on me as well (have caught furtive glances from her, we make each other laugh frequently), and that if she was single, I would have a chance to date her.\n\nMy emotions are running wild - I am incredibly bummed out that I won't have a chance to get to know her better and hang out one on one, and I don't think I have the patience to go back to online dating, for the time being.\n\nI should disclose that many of my friends say that I'm too picky when it comes to relationships. Part of me thinks that's a good thing, part of me thinks they are right and that I'll never meet someone due to my high standards.\n\nI'm sure many have been in this situation before. Does anyone have advice on how to overcome this kind of heartache?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Full disclosure: I stole the title of this post from a Modest Mouse song.\n\nBackground: I had relationship end at the beginning of this year (got dumped). I have been dating a fair amount recently, exclusively through apps like Tinder, OKcupid, and Hinge (meeting people to date in person is quite difficult, as I'm sure many of you know). I dated one person for about a month, but then broke it off with her, as she made some really inappropriate comments to me that raised some red flags.\n\nOther than that, I have not been on any second dates, by my own choosing. In my experience, internet dating (when you're looking for something beyond hooking up) is incredibly inefficient and mentally taxing. I just haven't been interested in hanging out with my dates a second time, mostly due to feeling a lack of connection on my end, though I'm sure the feeling was mutual for some of the dates.\n\nLo and behold, I finally meet someone in person who I am incredibly interested in, and she's taken. I don't know how long she has been dating her boyfriend, but it's off limits as far as I'm concerned. I *do* think she has a little crush on me as well (have caught furtive glances from her, we make each other laugh frequently), and that if she was single, I would have a chance to date her.\n\nMy emotions are running wild - I am incredibly bummed out that I won't have a chance to get to know her better and hang out one on one, and I don't think I have the patience to go back to online dating, for the time being.\n\nI should disclose that many of my friends say that I'm too picky when it comes to relationships. Part of me thinks that's a good thing, part of me thinks they are right and that I'll never meet someone due to my high standards.\n\nI'm sure many have been in this situation before. Does anyone have advice on how to overcome this kind of heartache?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Full disclosure: I stole the title of this post from a Modest Mouse song.\n\nBackground: I had relationship end at the beginning of this year (got dumped). I have been dating a fair amount recently, exclusively through apps like Tinder, OKcupid, and Hinge (meeting people to date in person is quite difficult, as I'm sure many of you know). I dated one person for about a month, but then broke it off with her, as she made some really inappropriate comments to me that raised some red flags.\n\nOther than that, I have not been on any second dates, by my own choosing. In my experience, internet dating (when you're looking for something beyond hooking up) is incredibly inefficient and mentally taxing. I just haven't been interested in hanging out with my dates a second time, mostly due to feeling a lack of connection on my end, though I'm sure the feeling was mutual for some of the dates.\n\nLo and behold, I finally meet someone in person who I am incredibly interested in, and she's taken. I don't know how long she has been dating her boyfriend, but it's off limits as far as I'm concerned. I *do* think she has a little crush on me as well (have caught furtive glances from her, we make each other laugh frequently), and that if she was single, I would have a chance to date her.\n\nMy emotions are running wild - I am incredibly bummed out that I won't have a chance to get to know her better and hang out one on one, and I don't think I have the patience to go back to online dating, for the time being.\n\nI should disclose that many of my friends say that I'm too picky when it comes to relationships. Part of me thinks that's a good thing, part of me thinks they are right and that I'll never meet someone due to my high standards.\n\nI'm sure many have been in this situation before. Does anyone have advice on how to overcome this kind of heartache?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Full disclosure: I stole the title of this post from a Modest Mouse song.\n\nBackground: I had relationship end at the beginning of this year (got dumped). I have been dating a fair amount recently, exclusively through apps like Tinder, OKcupid, and Hinge (meeting people to date in person is quite difficult, as I'm sure many of you know). I dated one person for about a month, but then broke it off with her, as she made some really inappropriate comments to me that raised some red flags.\n\nOther than that, I have not been on any second dates, by my own choosing. In my experience, internet dating (when you're looking for something beyond hooking up) is incredibly inefficient and mentally taxing. I just haven't been interested in hanging out with my dates a second time, mostly due to feeling a lack of connection on my end, though I'm sure the feeling was mutual for some of the dates.\n\nLo and behold, I finally meet someone in person who I am incredibly interested in, and she's taken. I don't know how long she has been dating her boyfriend, but it's off limits as far as I'm concerned. I *do* think she has a little crush on me as well (have caught furtive glances from her, we make each other laugh frequently), and that if she was single, I would have a chance to date her.\n\nMy emotions are running wild - I am incredibly bummed out that I won't have a chance to get to know her better and hang out one on one, and I don't think I have the patience to go back to online dating, for the time being.\n\nI should disclose that many of my friends say that I'm too picky when it comes to relationships. Part of me thinks that's a good thing, part of me thinks they are right and that I'll never meet someone due to my high standards.\n\nI'm sure many have been in this situation before. Does anyone have advice on how to overcome this kind of heartache?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Full disclosure: I stole the title of this post from a Modest Mouse song.\n\nBackground: I had relationship end at the beginning of this year (got dumped). I have been dating a fair amount recently, exclusively through apps like Tinder, OKcupid, and Hinge (meeting people to date in person is quite difficult, as I'm sure many of you know). I dated one person for about a month, but then broke it off with her, as she made some really inappropriate comments to me that raised some red flags.\n\nOther than that, I have not been on any second dates, by my own choosing. In my experience, internet dating (when you're looking for something beyond hooking up) is incredibly inefficient and mentally taxing. I just haven't been interested in hanging out with my dates a second time, mostly due to feeling a lack of connection on my end, though I'm sure the feeling was mutual for some of the dates.\n\nLo and behold, I finally meet someone in person who I am incredibly interested in, and she's taken. I don't know how long she has been dating her boyfriend, but it's off limits as far as I'm concerned. I *do* think she has a little crush on me as well (have caught furtive glances from her, we make each other laugh frequently), and that if she was single, I would have a chance to date her.\n\nMy emotions are running wild - I am incredibly bummed out that I won't have a chance to get to know her better and hang out one on one, and I don't think I have the patience to go back to online dating, for the time being.\n\nI should disclose that many of my friends say that I'm too picky when it comes to relationships. Part of me thinks that's a good thing, part of me thinks they are right and that I'll never meet someone due to my high standards.\n\nI'm sure many have been in this situation before. Does anyone have advice on how to overcome this kind of heartache?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Full disclosure: I stole the title of this post from a Modest Mouse song.\n\nBackground: I had relationship end at the beginning of this year (got dumped). I have been dating a fair amount recently, exclusively through apps like Tinder, OKcupid, and Hinge (meeting people to date in person is quite difficult, as I'm sure many of you know). I dated one person for about a month, but then broke it off with her, as she made some really inappropriate comments to me that raised some red flags.\n\nOther than that, I have not been on any second dates, by my own choosing. In my experience, internet dating (when you're looking for something beyond hooking up) is incredibly inefficient and mentally taxing. I just haven't been interested in hanging out with my dates a second time, mostly due to feeling a lack of connection on my end, though I'm sure the feeling was mutual for some of the dates.\n\nLo and behold, I finally meet someone in person who I am incredibly interested in, and she's taken. I don't know how long she has been dating her boyfriend, but it's off limits as far as I'm concerned. I *do* think she has a little crush on me as well (have caught furtive glances from her, we make each other laugh frequently), and that if she was single, I would have a chance to date her.\n\nMy emotions are running wild - I am incredibly bummed out that I won't have a chance to get to know her better and hang out one on one, and I don't think I have the patience to go back to online dating, for the time being.\n\nI should disclose that many of my friends say that I'm too picky when it comes to relationships. Part of me thinks that's a good thing, part of me thinks they are right and that I'll never meet someone due to my high standards.\n\nI'm sure many have been in this situation before. Does anyone have advice on how to overcome this kind of heartache?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: recently, I just got out of a longish term relationship. Obviously I was upset but alas all my friends came to my rescue. My best guy friend spent a lot of time with me before he left for the summer. He and the rest of my friends and family helped me get over my ex pretty quickly and I can say I'm pretty over the past right now. \n\nThe new problem is that, said friend and I kept in contact. By that I mean, we've been talking the whole past month. He's always been there even when I was dating my ex, and I feel more of a connection with him. I believe I may have developed a crush for my best friend and it's driving me insane. I'm convinced he isnt into me. All my friends, however, think the opposite and are telling me to go for it. I could possibly be idealizing it and I don't want to idealize my best friend. I love our relationship as friends but I can't help wonder if there's more. I'm so very confused right now, should I pursue or should I just keep it the way it is? I don't wanna miss out on an opportunity but I don't want it to be awkward either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: recently, I just got out of a longish term relationship. Obviously I was upset but alas all my friends came to my rescue. My best guy friend spent a lot of time with me before he left for the summer. He and the rest of my friends and family helped me get over my ex pretty quickly and I can say I'm pretty over the past right now. \n\nThe new problem is that, said friend and I kept in contact. By that I mean, we've been talking the whole past month. He's always been there even when I was dating my ex, and I feel more of a connection with him. I believe I may have developed a crush for my best friend and it's driving me insane. I'm convinced he isnt into me. All my friends, however, think the opposite and are telling me to go for it. I could possibly be idealizing it and I don't want to idealize my best friend. I love our relationship as friends but I can't help wonder if there's more. I'm so very confused right now, should I pursue or should I just keep it the way it is? I don't wanna miss out on an opportunity but I don't want it to be awkward either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: recently, I just got out of a longish term relationship. Obviously I was upset but alas all my friends came to my rescue. My best guy friend spent a lot of time with me before he left for the summer. He and the rest of my friends and family helped me get over my ex pretty quickly and I can say I'm pretty over the past right now. \n\nThe new problem is that, said friend and I kept in contact. By that I mean, we've been talking the whole past month. He's always been there even when I was dating my ex, and I feel more of a connection with him. I believe I may have developed a crush for my best friend and it's driving me insane. I'm convinced he isnt into me. All my friends, however, think the opposite and are telling me to go for it. I could possibly be idealizing it and I don't want to idealize my best friend. I love our relationship as friends but I can't help wonder if there's more. I'm so very confused right now, should I pursue or should I just keep it the way it is? I don't wanna miss out on an opportunity but I don't want it to be awkward either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit friends. I need some help. \nSo there my (now ex) girlfriend moved into New highschool. She didn't move houses just schools. There was this boy that ended up befriending her on every social media. FB, Instagram, Twitter. He began liking a lot of her pictures and she liked a few of his. I asked about him, and she said she didn't know him but was just returning the favor to be nice. I didn't think much of it. \n\nFast forward until about 2 days ago. I saw a text pop up on her phone, and it was the same guy. They weren't talking about cheating or anything, just hey what's up and stuff. So I talked to her about it and she ended up telling me that she actually did know him and and talked to him a few times. She told me she thought he was cute, and that he told her friend he liked my girlfriend. so I asked her to unfriend him on everything and she agreed. She did. \n\nToday I saw she again friended him again. I asked her ABout why she did that and she got extremely mad. I told her I was not okay with this given what she has told me and She said to me that \"I don't get to fucking decide what she does\". And then she called me an inconsiderate controlling asshole. I told her we wanted different things in a relationship. \n\nWas it wrong of me? Or was she just not caring about my feelings. Was communicating with this one guy so important that out whole relationship is over? Reddit help me. Was I in the wrong for being controlling? We were dating for 9 months. Was I right for calling off the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit friends. I need some help. \nSo there my (now ex) girlfriend moved into New highschool. She didn't move houses just schools. There was this boy that ended up befriending her on every social media. FB, Instagram, Twitter. He began liking a lot of her pictures and she liked a few of his. I asked about him, and she said she didn't know him but was just returning the favor to be nice. I didn't think much of it. \n\nFast forward until about 2 days ago. I saw a text pop up on her phone, and it was the same guy. They weren't talking about cheating or anything, just hey what's up and stuff. So I talked to her about it and she ended up telling me that she actually did know him and and talked to him a few times. She told me she thought he was cute, and that he told her friend he liked my girlfriend. so I asked her to unfriend him on everything and she agreed. She did. \n\nToday I saw she again friended him again. I asked her ABout why she did that and she got extremely mad. I told her I was not okay with this given what she has told me and She said to me that \"I don't get to fucking decide what she does\". And then she called me an inconsiderate controlling asshole. I told her we wanted different things in a relationship. \n\nWas it wrong of me? Or was she just not caring about my feelings. Was communicating with this one guy so important that out whole relationship is over? Reddit help me. Was I in the wrong for being controlling? We were dating for 9 months. Was I right for calling off the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit friends. I need some help. \nSo there my (now ex) girlfriend moved into New highschool. She didn't move houses just schools. There was this boy that ended up befriending her on every social media. FB, Instagram, Twitter. He began liking a lot of her pictures and she liked a few of his. I asked about him, and she said she didn't know him but was just returning the favor to be nice. I didn't think much of it. \n\nFast forward until about 2 days ago. I saw a text pop up on her phone, and it was the same guy. They weren't talking about cheating or anything, just hey what's up and stuff. So I talked to her about it and she ended up telling me that she actually did know him and and talked to him a few times. She told me she thought he was cute, and that he told her friend he liked my girlfriend. so I asked her to unfriend him on everything and she agreed. She did. \n\nToday I saw she again friended him again. I asked her ABout why she did that and she got extremely mad. I told her I was not okay with this given what she has told me and She said to me that \"I don't get to fucking decide what she does\". And then she called me an inconsiderate controlling asshole. I told her we wanted different things in a relationship. \n\nWas it wrong of me? Or was she just not caring about my feelings. Was communicating with this one guy so important that out whole relationship is over? Reddit help me. Was I in the wrong for being controlling? We were dating for 9 months. Was I right for calling off the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've screwed up. \n\nI've been going out with her about a year and we have lived together about 6 months.\n\nI've told my girlfriend a few times that I would be home by a certain time on nights out by myself and for various reasons ended up being home much later.\n\nIt's happened a few times now and each time she gets more and more angry. \n\nThe first time I just stayed out because I was really drunk and I forgot what I'd told her. When I came home she was really upset and after a few days we made up and I promised to not let it happen again.\n\nThen a few nights ago I went out on my own, told her I'd be home by 1am.\n\nShe was skeptical but I was adamant that she could trust me and I wouldn't do what I did last time.\n\nBut I ended up getting lost, couldn't find the right bus (we're very low on money), then had to wait over an hour for a cab, and ended up getting home at 4am.\n\nNow she says she'll never believe a promise I make etc and she thinks I just went out to a club and didn't give a shit about her etc.\n\nI can't prove that I couldn't get home and I can see why it looks like what she thinks (that I just said fuck it and went out till 4am and took a cab home), even though I know it's not true.\n\nShe's now not talking to me, and last time she was this upset we almost broke up.\n\nHow can I fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've screwed up. \n\nI've been going out with her about a year and we have lived together about 6 months.\n\nI've told my girlfriend a few times that I would be home by a certain time on nights out by myself and for various reasons ended up being home much later.\n\nIt's happened a few times now and each time she gets more and more angry. \n\nThe first time I just stayed out because I was really drunk and I forgot what I'd told her. When I came home she was really upset and after a few days we made up and I promised to not let it happen again.\n\nThen a few nights ago I went out on my own, told her I'd be home by 1am.\n\nShe was skeptical but I was adamant that she could trust me and I wouldn't do what I did last time.\n\nBut I ended up getting lost, couldn't find the right bus (we're very low on money), then had to wait over an hour for a cab, and ended up getting home at 4am.\n\nNow she says she'll never believe a promise I make etc and she thinks I just went out to a club and didn't give a shit about her etc.\n\nI can't prove that I couldn't get home and I can see why it looks like what she thinks (that I just said fuck it and went out till 4am and took a cab home), even though I know it's not true.\n\nShe's now not talking to me, and last time she was this upset we almost broke up.\n\nHow can I fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've screwed up. \n\nI've been going out with her about a year and we have lived together about 6 months.\n\nI've told my girlfriend a few times that I would be home by a certain time on nights out by myself and for various reasons ended up being home much later.\n\nIt's happened a few times now and each time she gets more and more angry. \n\nThe first time I just stayed out because I was really drunk and I forgot what I'd told her. When I came home she was really upset and after a few days we made up and I promised to not let it happen again.\n\nThen a few nights ago I went out on my own, told her I'd be home by 1am.\n\nShe was skeptical but I was adamant that she could trust me and I wouldn't do what I did last time.\n\nBut I ended up getting lost, couldn't find the right bus (we're very low on money), then had to wait over an hour for a cab, and ended up getting home at 4am.\n\nNow she says she'll never believe a promise I make etc and she thinks I just went out to a club and didn't give a shit about her etc.\n\nI can't prove that I couldn't get home and I can see why it looks like what she thinks (that I just said fuck it and went out till 4am and took a cab home), even though I know it's not true.\n\nShe's now not talking to me, and last time she was this upset we almost broke up.\n\nHow can I fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've screwed up. \n\nI've been going out with her about a year and we have lived together about 6 months.\n\nI've told my girlfriend a few times that I would be home by a certain time on nights out by myself and for various reasons ended up being home much later.\n\nIt's happened a few times now and each time she gets more and more angry. \n\nThe first time I just stayed out because I was really drunk and I forgot what I'd told her. When I came home she was really upset and after a few days we made up and I promised to not let it happen again.\n\nThen a few nights ago I went out on my own, told her I'd be home by 1am.\n\nShe was skeptical but I was adamant that she could trust me and I wouldn't do what I did last time.\n\nBut I ended up getting lost, couldn't find the right bus (we're very low on money), then had to wait over an hour for a cab, and ended up getting home at 4am.\n\nNow she says she'll never believe a promise I make etc and she thinks I just went out to a club and didn't give a shit about her etc.\n\nI can't prove that I couldn't get home and I can see why it looks like what she thinks (that I just said fuck it and went out till 4am and took a cab home), even though I know it's not true.\n\nShe's now not talking to me, and last time she was this upset we almost broke up.\n\nHow can I fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've screwed up. \n\nI've been going out with her about a year and we have lived together about 6 months.\n\nI've told my girlfriend a few times that I would be home by a certain time on nights out by myself and for various reasons ended up being home much later.\n\nIt's happened a few times now and each time she gets more and more angry. \n\nThe first time I just stayed out because I was really drunk and I forgot what I'd told her. When I came home she was really upset and after a few days we made up and I promised to not let it happen again.\n\nThen a few nights ago I went out on my own, told her I'd be home by 1am.\n\nShe was skeptical but I was adamant that she could trust me and I wouldn't do what I did last time.\n\nBut I ended up getting lost, couldn't find the right bus (we're very low on money), then had to wait over an hour for a cab, and ended up getting home at 4am.\n\nNow she says she'll never believe a promise I make etc and she thinks I just went out to a club and didn't give a shit about her etc.\n\nI can't prove that I couldn't get home and I can see why it looks like what she thinks (that I just said fuck it and went out till 4am and took a cab home), even though I know it's not true.\n\nShe's now not talking to me, and last time she was this upset we almost broke up.\n\nHow can I fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've screwed up. \n\nI've been going out with her about a year and we have lived together about 6 months.\n\nI've told my girlfriend a few times that I would be home by a certain time on nights out by myself and for various reasons ended up being home much later.\n\nIt's happened a few times now and each time she gets more and more angry. \n\nThe first time I just stayed out because I was really drunk and I forgot what I'd told her. When I came home she was really upset and after a few days we made up and I promised to not let it happen again.\n\nThen a few nights ago I went out on my own, told her I'd be home by 1am.\n\nShe was skeptical but I was adamant that she could trust me and I wouldn't do what I did last time.\n\nBut I ended up getting lost, couldn't find the right bus (we're very low on money), then had to wait over an hour for a cab, and ended up getting home at 4am.\n\nNow she says she'll never believe a promise I make etc and she thinks I just went out to a club and didn't give a shit about her etc.\n\nI can't prove that I couldn't get home and I can see why it looks like what she thinks (that I just said fuck it and went out till 4am and took a cab home), even though I know it's not true.\n\nShe's now not talking to me, and last time she was this upset we almost broke up.\n\nHow can I fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Starting a new job on wednesday paying AUD $24.11 p/h + 9.5% super, 8 hrs a day with 30 minute lunch break 5 days a week. Its a call centre job, not cold calling. We answer queries from customers about their utility bills etc. The contract for this job is for 6 months (probationary). I have been told that i will be offered an extension on the contract after the 6 months as long as i do my job well and not slack off. I also have family friends in company so lets just say that i will have my contract extended for the purpose of my query. Im also looking to do a networking/system administration certification in the upcoming months (which will cost around $2k, give or take). \nI have roughly $21k owing on personal loan with a 7 year repayment period and $3k owing on a credit card. I want to pay these off as quickly as i possibly can. Currently im paying rent on a place i no longer live at until August 23rd at $193 per week, roughly $85 per month for phone bill and $55 per month for something else (up until the 16th of oct). Currently only paying around $58 per month for the credit card (has been stable around this figure for quite sometime so im thinking this is just the card fee as i dont actually purchase anything with the credit card anymore) and $217 for the loan (i think this is monthly). So presuming the credit card fee stays the same, what would be better to pay off first?\nAny help with this i am really grateful for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Starting a new job on wednesday paying AUD $24.11 p/h + 9.5% super, 8 hrs a day with 30 minute lunch break 5 days a week. Its a call centre job, not cold calling. We answer queries from customers about their utility bills etc. The contract for this job is for 6 months (probationary). I have been told that i will be offered an extension on the contract after the 6 months as long as i do my job well and not slack off. I also have family friends in company so lets just say that i will have my contract extended for the purpose of my query. Im also looking to do a networking/system administration certification in the upcoming months (which will cost around $2k, give or take). \nI have roughly $21k owing on personal loan with a 7 year repayment period and $3k owing on a credit card. I want to pay these off as quickly as i possibly can. Currently im paying rent on a place i no longer live at until August 23rd at $193 per week, roughly $85 per month for phone bill and $55 per month for something else (up until the 16th of oct). Currently only paying around $58 per month for the credit card (has been stable around this figure for quite sometime so im thinking this is just the card fee as i dont actually purchase anything with the credit card anymore) and $217 for the loan (i think this is monthly). So presuming the credit card fee stays the same, what would be better to pay off first?\nAny help with this i am really grateful for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Starting a new job on wednesday paying AUD $24.11 p/h + 9.5% super, 8 hrs a day with 30 minute lunch break 5 days a week. Its a call centre job, not cold calling. We answer queries from customers about their utility bills etc. The contract for this job is for 6 months (probationary). I have been told that i will be offered an extension on the contract after the 6 months as long as i do my job well and not slack off. I also have family friends in company so lets just say that i will have my contract extended for the purpose of my query. Im also looking to do a networking/system administration certification in the upcoming months (which will cost around $2k, give or take). \nI have roughly $21k owing on personal loan with a 7 year repayment period and $3k owing on a credit card. I want to pay these off as quickly as i possibly can. Currently im paying rent on a place i no longer live at until August 23rd at $193 per week, roughly $85 per month for phone bill and $55 per month for something else (up until the 16th of oct). Currently only paying around $58 per month for the credit card (has been stable around this figure for quite sometime so im thinking this is just the card fee as i dont actually purchase anything with the credit card anymore) and $217 for the loan (i think this is monthly). So presuming the credit card fee stays the same, what would be better to pay off first?\nAny help with this i am really grateful for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother has always been a mixed bag. She's borderline mean a lot but I don't want to cut her out. When i was 18 I decided instead of going to law school like my mum wanted me to I went to study to become a teacher. ( I now am a teacher) ever since then she constantly berates me that I \"can do better\" and that I'm going to be poor (even though I have a masters degree-meaning I get paid more then most teachers) she also says \"I'm wasting my life\" and that she \"raised me to be successful, not babysit kids\" she also is mean to my husband who is a teacher-librarian at a elementary school ( I teach high school) she says \" I could have married a more successful man if I wanted to\" it makes me so so fucking sad. I've considered cutting off contact with her but my son loves her ( and she's very good and nice and awesome) with my son. Just not me and my husband. I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother has always been a mixed bag. She's borderline mean a lot but I don't want to cut her out. When i was 18 I decided instead of going to law school like my mum wanted me to I went to study to become a teacher. ( I now am a teacher) ever since then she constantly berates me that I \"can do better\" and that I'm going to be poor (even though I have a masters degree-meaning I get paid more then most teachers) she also says \"I'm wasting my life\" and that she \"raised me to be successful, not babysit kids\" she also is mean to my husband who is a teacher-librarian at a elementary school ( I teach high school) she says \" I could have married a more successful man if I wanted to\" it makes me so so fucking sad. I've considered cutting off contact with her but my son loves her ( and she's very good and nice and awesome) with my son. Just not me and my husband. I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mother has always been a mixed bag. She's borderline mean a lot but I don't want to cut her out. When i was 18 I decided instead of going to law school like my mum wanted me to I went to study to become a teacher. ( I now am a teacher) ever since then she constantly berates me that I \"can do better\" and that I'm going to be poor (even though I have a masters degree-meaning I get paid more then most teachers) she also says \"I'm wasting my life\" and that she \"raised me to be successful, not babysit kids\" she also is mean to my husband who is a teacher-librarian at a elementary school ( I teach high school) she says \" I could have married a more successful man if I wanted to\" it makes me so so fucking sad. I've considered cutting off contact with her but my son loves her ( and she's very good and nice and awesome) with my son. Just not me and my husband. I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of history: I'm 23/m she's 22/f and we have been together on and off for 5-6 years now. This girl is my best friend and I will probably always love her no matter how things end up. She graduates from school in a few months and has this really great chance for a 1yr + internship in Boston, NY, or NJ (we currently live on the western part of the country) and may end up staying out of state beyond the 1yr if she finds a grad school she likes out there. Now the hard thing is that she wants me to move with her to where ever she ends up going and I flat out told her I wasn't comfortable with that *at all!* I don't even feel comfortable with moving in with her right now let alone leaving everything else behind to move across the country. I told her to go if she gets the opportunity because I'll be damned if I'm the thing to hold her back. The hard part about this is that we already tried the long distance thing at the beginning of her schooling 4 years ago and ended up breaking up for the first year that she was gone. She wants to go and would be willing to try the long distance thing again and keeps asking about my thoughts on doing LDR again. She also wants to try even though she seem hopeful it would work based on past experience and quite frankly I don't even want to try a LDR again (horrible shit). Every time she brings it up she basically leaves the decision on me about what we are going to do and I don't know what to do Reddit. Every time I think about it, something in me can't help but start counting down to the (final) end of our relationship even though I don't want it to end. Any advice? (sorry for the giant wall of text) and I will be happy to clarify anything if need be. Thanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of history: I'm 23/m she's 22/f and we have been together on and off for 5-6 years now. This girl is my best friend and I will probably always love her no matter how things end up. She graduates from school in a few months and has this really great chance for a 1yr + internship in Boston, NY, or NJ (we currently live on the western part of the country) and may end up staying out of state beyond the 1yr if she finds a grad school she likes out there. Now the hard thing is that she wants me to move with her to where ever she ends up going and I flat out told her I wasn't comfortable with that *at all!* I don't even feel comfortable with moving in with her right now let alone leaving everything else behind to move across the country. I told her to go if she gets the opportunity because I'll be damned if I'm the thing to hold her back. The hard part about this is that we already tried the long distance thing at the beginning of her schooling 4 years ago and ended up breaking up for the first year that she was gone. She wants to go and would be willing to try the long distance thing again and keeps asking about my thoughts on doing LDR again. She also wants to try even though she seem hopeful it would work based on past experience and quite frankly I don't even want to try a LDR again (horrible shit). Every time she brings it up she basically leaves the decision on me about what we are going to do and I don't know what to do Reddit. Every time I think about it, something in me can't help but start counting down to the (final) end of our relationship even though I don't want it to end. Any advice? (sorry for the giant wall of text) and I will be happy to clarify anything if need be. Thanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little bit of history: I'm 23/m she's 22/f and we have been together on and off for 5-6 years now. This girl is my best friend and I will probably always love her no matter how things end up. She graduates from school in a few months and has this really great chance for a 1yr + internship in Boston, NY, or NJ (we currently live on the western part of the country) and may end up staying out of state beyond the 1yr if she finds a grad school she likes out there. Now the hard thing is that she wants me to move with her to where ever she ends up going and I flat out told her I wasn't comfortable with that *at all!* I don't even feel comfortable with moving in with her right now let alone leaving everything else behind to move across the country. I told her to go if she gets the opportunity because I'll be damned if I'm the thing to hold her back. The hard part about this is that we already tried the long distance thing at the beginning of her schooling 4 years ago and ended up breaking up for the first year that she was gone. She wants to go and would be willing to try the long distance thing again and keeps asking about my thoughts on doing LDR again. She also wants to try even though she seem hopeful it would work based on past experience and quite frankly I don't even want to try a LDR again (horrible shit). Every time she brings it up she basically leaves the decision on me about what we are going to do and I don't know what to do Reddit. Every time I think about it, something in me can't help but start counting down to the (final) end of our relationship even though I don't want it to end. Any advice? (sorry for the giant wall of text) and I will be happy to clarify anything if need be. Thanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened when I was around 12. I found a turtle in my back yard, put it in a box, and brought it inside. From experience and from TV I had developed an understanding that I couldn't *force* an animal to be friends with me. I felt a sense of pride in my maturity for realizing it might take time for this turtle to like me. I covered my floor in newspaper, took him out of the box. Then I went and sat on the floor across the room. I had the fanciful idea that if I was patient enough, the turtle would warm up to me even though I removed it from its natural habitat, family, friends, etc. \n\nI sat there and waited. Sure enough, the turtle began slowly crawling over to me. I was ecstatic but I sat there playing it cool for almost 45 minutes. The turtle made his way across my room inch-by-inch as I daydreamed that he actually wanted to sit in my lap, play with me, etc. \"All it took was a little patience,\" I smugly thought as the turtle finally arrived. As soon as he was close enough to reach me, he stuck out\nhis neck and bit me really hard. Dejected, I put him in the box and took him back outside. So his (defensive) attack, while painfully slow, was effective."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened when I was around 12. I found a turtle in my back yard, put it in a box, and brought it inside. From experience and from TV I had developed an understanding that I couldn't *force* an animal to be friends with me. I felt a sense of pride in my maturity for realizing it might take time for this turtle to like me. I covered my floor in newspaper, took him out of the box. Then I went and sat on the floor across the room. I had the fanciful idea that if I was patient enough, the turtle would warm up to me even though I removed it from its natural habitat, family, friends, etc. \n\nI sat there and waited. Sure enough, the turtle began slowly crawling over to me. I was ecstatic but I sat there playing it cool for almost 45 minutes. The turtle made his way across my room inch-by-inch as I daydreamed that he actually wanted to sit in my lap, play with me, etc. \"All it took was a little patience,\" I smugly thought as the turtle finally arrived. As soon as he was close enough to reach me, he stuck out\nhis neck and bit me really hard. Dejected, I put him in the box and took him back outside. So his (defensive) attack, while painfully slow, was effective."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This happened when I was around 12. I found a turtle in my back yard, put it in a box, and brought it inside. From experience and from TV I had developed an understanding that I couldn't *force* an animal to be friends with me. I felt a sense of pride in my maturity for realizing it might take time for this turtle to like me. I covered my floor in newspaper, took him out of the box. Then I went and sat on the floor across the room. I had the fanciful idea that if I was patient enough, the turtle would warm up to me even though I removed it from its natural habitat, family, friends, etc. \n\nI sat there and waited. Sure enough, the turtle began slowly crawling over to me. I was ecstatic but I sat there playing it cool for almost 45 minutes. The turtle made his way across my room inch-by-inch as I daydreamed that he actually wanted to sit in my lap, play with me, etc. \"All it took was a little patience,\" I smugly thought as the turtle finally arrived. As soon as he was close enough to reach me, he stuck out\nhis neck and bit me really hard. Dejected, I put him in the box and took him back outside. So his (defensive) attack, while painfully slow, was effective."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've tried everything, we've talked about it, I've given her literature to read, I've shown her reddit, and given her suggestions as to how we could improve our sex life. I'm no sex fiend, but I do enjoy having sex more than twice a month. She has no, sex drive. When we do have sex it is un-enjoyable for me, and for her it seems like work. We used to have a great sex life, and everything that entails. But, I cannot do anything to get it back. We've been dating for 4 years and it seems like (to put it in stupid terms) friend zoned. I take her on dates, lay with her before she goes to bed every night, cook for her, and so on. Im not saying I'm perfect, but I don't believe this is right. Am I wrong? Is this how every long term relationship is? This has been going on for about 2.5 years out of the 4 year relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've tried everything, we've talked about it, I've given her literature to read, I've shown her reddit, and given her suggestions as to how we could improve our sex life. I'm no sex fiend, but I do enjoy having sex more than twice a month. She has no, sex drive. When we do have sex it is un-enjoyable for me, and for her it seems like work. We used to have a great sex life, and everything that entails. But, I cannot do anything to get it back. We've been dating for 4 years and it seems like (to put it in stupid terms) friend zoned. I take her on dates, lay with her before she goes to bed every night, cook for her, and so on. Im not saying I'm perfect, but I don't believe this is right. Am I wrong? Is this how every long term relationship is? This has been going on for about 2.5 years out of the 4 year relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've tried everything, we've talked about it, I've given her literature to read, I've shown her reddit, and given her suggestions as to how we could improve our sex life. I'm no sex fiend, but I do enjoy having sex more than twice a month. She has no, sex drive. When we do have sex it is un-enjoyable for me, and for her it seems like work. We used to have a great sex life, and everything that entails. But, I cannot do anything to get it back. We've been dating for 4 years and it seems like (to put it in stupid terms) friend zoned. I take her on dates, lay with her before she goes to bed every night, cook for her, and so on. Im not saying I'm perfect, but I don't believe this is right. Am I wrong? Is this how every long term relationship is? This has been going on for about 2.5 years out of the 4 year relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this guy when I was fifteen, and he's just a few months older than I am. We dated for maybe six or seven months and then he cheated on me, so I broke it off.\n\nWe stopped talking completely for a year and a half or so and I was alright, I hadn't gotten too attached to him, so it didn't bother me a whole lot. After that point, he got in touch with me and we would talk (as friends) on and off for the next year. \n\nI stopped talking to him again about six months ago and now he's been texting me everyday for the last week. During one of the conversations we had he told me that he was still in love with me and that he hated himself for what he did. I told him that I was pretty much over it and that he should forgive himself too.\n\nHe's told me that the girlfriends he's had since then have all reminded him of me and that he has dreams about still dating me.\n\nI told him straight up that we can be friends, but I wont date him again. The only thing wrong with this is that now I feel like I've obligated myself to talking to him whenever he texts me, which opens me up to more conversations about a relationship that happened a really long time ago. It's just awkward and depressing, I feel like I'm holding him back from being happy.\n\np.s. When we have conversations over text, he still calls me sweetie, honey ect."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this guy when I was fifteen, and he's just a few months older than I am. We dated for maybe six or seven months and then he cheated on me, so I broke it off.\n\nWe stopped talking completely for a year and a half or so and I was alright, I hadn't gotten too attached to him, so it didn't bother me a whole lot. After that point, he got in touch with me and we would talk (as friends) on and off for the next year. \n\nI stopped talking to him again about six months ago and now he's been texting me everyday for the last week. During one of the conversations we had he told me that he was still in love with me and that he hated himself for what he did. I told him that I was pretty much over it and that he should forgive himself too.\n\nHe's told me that the girlfriends he's had since then have all reminded him of me and that he has dreams about still dating me.\n\nI told him straight up that we can be friends, but I wont date him again. The only thing wrong with this is that now I feel like I've obligated myself to talking to him whenever he texts me, which opens me up to more conversations about a relationship that happened a really long time ago. It's just awkward and depressing, I feel like I'm holding him back from being happy.\n\np.s. When we have conversations over text, he still calls me sweetie, honey ect."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dated this guy when I was fifteen, and he's just a few months older than I am. We dated for maybe six or seven months and then he cheated on me, so I broke it off.\n\nWe stopped talking completely for a year and a half or so and I was alright, I hadn't gotten too attached to him, so it didn't bother me a whole lot. After that point, he got in touch with me and we would talk (as friends) on and off for the next year. \n\nI stopped talking to him again about six months ago and now he's been texting me everyday for the last week. During one of the conversations we had he told me that he was still in love with me and that he hated himself for what he did. I told him that I was pretty much over it and that he should forgive himself too.\n\nHe's told me that the girlfriends he's had since then have all reminded him of me and that he has dreams about still dating me.\n\nI told him straight up that we can be friends, but I wont date him again. The only thing wrong with this is that now I feel like I've obligated myself to talking to him whenever he texts me, which opens me up to more conversations about a relationship that happened a really long time ago. It's just awkward and depressing, I feel like I'm holding him back from being happy.\n\np.s. When we have conversations over text, he still calls me sweetie, honey ect."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met 21f through a buddy almost two years ago shortly before moving away. We became good pals through facetime and texting pretty regularly. Last May I moved to a new city and we Would facetime daily since I didn't know\nMany people. It was a huge help. She's had a rough couple of months with a family member passing, I was there for her more than the guy she was seeing even though I'm Six hours away. Lately though, I've started to feel more and more like a therapist to her as she often will ask me for advice, what do to and if she can do certain things. \n\nIt's getting to be a bit much for me to the point I just told her how I feel this morning. She has some additional issues which I won't get into but has now\nTold me she feels bad and won't talk about things anymore. I've tried to talk about things I'm excited about and will often not get a reply or the subject will get changed, I show interest in what she is doing when she's excited. Things just seem one sided and I'm getting tired of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met 21f through a buddy almost two years ago shortly before moving away. We became good pals through facetime and texting pretty regularly. Last May I moved to a new city and we Would facetime daily since I didn't know\nMany people. It was a huge help. She's had a rough couple of months with a family member passing, I was there for her more than the guy she was seeing even though I'm Six hours away. Lately though, I've started to feel more and more like a therapist to her as she often will ask me for advice, what do to and if she can do certain things. \n\nIt's getting to be a bit much for me to the point I just told her how I feel this morning. She has some additional issues which I won't get into but has now\nTold me she feels bad and won't talk about things anymore. I've tried to talk about things I'm excited about and will often not get a reply or the subject will get changed, I show interest in what she is doing when she's excited. Things just seem one sided and I'm getting tired of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met 21f through a buddy almost two years ago shortly before moving away. We became good pals through facetime and texting pretty regularly. Last May I moved to a new city and we Would facetime daily since I didn't know\nMany people. It was a huge help. She's had a rough couple of months with a family member passing, I was there for her more than the guy she was seeing even though I'm Six hours away. Lately though, I've started to feel more and more like a therapist to her as she often will ask me for advice, what do to and if she can do certain things. \n\nIt's getting to be a bit much for me to the point I just told her how I feel this morning. She has some additional issues which I won't get into but has now\nTold me she feels bad and won't talk about things anymore. I've tried to talk about things I'm excited about and will often not get a reply or the subject will get changed, I show interest in what she is doing when she's excited. Things just seem one sided and I'm getting tired of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met 21f through a buddy almost two years ago shortly before moving away. We became good pals through facetime and texting pretty regularly. Last May I moved to a new city and we Would facetime daily since I didn't know\nMany people. It was a huge help. She's had a rough couple of months with a family member passing, I was there for her more than the guy she was seeing even though I'm Six hours away. Lately though, I've started to feel more and more like a therapist to her as she often will ask me for advice, what do to and if she can do certain things. \n\nIt's getting to be a bit much for me to the point I just told her how I feel this morning. She has some additional issues which I won't get into but has now\nTold me she feels bad and won't talk about things anymore. I've tried to talk about things I'm excited about and will often not get a reply or the subject will get changed, I show interest in what she is doing when she's excited. Things just seem one sided and I'm getting tired of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met 21f through a buddy almost two years ago shortly before moving away. We became good pals through facetime and texting pretty regularly. Last May I moved to a new city and we Would facetime daily since I didn't know\nMany people. It was a huge help. She's had a rough couple of months with a family member passing, I was there for her more than the guy she was seeing even though I'm Six hours away. Lately though, I've started to feel more and more like a therapist to her as she often will ask me for advice, what do to and if she can do certain things. \n\nIt's getting to be a bit much for me to the point I just told her how I feel this morning. She has some additional issues which I won't get into but has now\nTold me she feels bad and won't talk about things anymore. I've tried to talk about things I'm excited about and will often not get a reply or the subject will get changed, I show interest in what she is doing when she's excited. Things just seem one sided and I'm getting tired of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met 21f through a buddy almost two years ago shortly before moving away. We became good pals through facetime and texting pretty regularly. Last May I moved to a new city and we Would facetime daily since I didn't know\nMany people. It was a huge help. She's had a rough couple of months with a family member passing, I was there for her more than the guy she was seeing even though I'm Six hours away. Lately though, I've started to feel more and more like a therapist to her as she often will ask me for advice, what do to and if she can do certain things. \n\nIt's getting to be a bit much for me to the point I just told her how I feel this morning. She has some additional issues which I won't get into but has now\nTold me she feels bad and won't talk about things anymore. I've tried to talk about things I'm excited about and will often not get a reply or the subject will get changed, I show interest in what she is doing when she's excited. Things just seem one sided and I'm getting tired of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway since he knows my username.\n\nSo my friend (let's call him Jake) left for college a few months ago. Jake has been my best friend for the last couple of years, and I took it pretty hard when he had to leave. He promised to visit every so often, and we still texted/ facebook messaged quite often. We cared a lot about each other; we helped each other with our problems and he was just a lot of fun to be around. \n\nHowever, maybe two or three months after he left, Jake got a girlfriend. \n\nShe seemed really awesome and since this was his first girlfriend, Jake was over the moon. He told me everything about her. And I honestly could not have been happier for him. \n\nIt started getting a little frustrating when Jake would visit, as he would be texting his girlfriend the *entire time.*\n\nNot even exaggerating. I would be talking to him, and he would just nod his head and stare at his phone. \n\nI didn't want to bug him about it; I knew that he was happy about having a girlfriend and they seemed really good together. But slowly, the facebook conversations stopped. He didn't visit anymore. And every single time I tried to talk to Jake, he was with his girlfriend. \n\nThe last conversation I had with him, I asked if he didn't like talking to me anymore, or if he was tired of me. He said no, but we haven't talked since. \n\nI did see him one more time after that over Christmas break at a game night a bunch of my friends were at, but he brought his girlfriend with him and he didn't even look at me. \n\nSince the majority of my friends have left for college, I've been incredibly lonely. Losing my best friend has just made everything worse, and I can't think about him without getting super upset. As far as I know, it wasn't anything I did that made him stop talking to me, but I can't help but feel that it's my fault. How do I get my best friend back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway since he knows my username.\n\nSo my friend (let's call him Jake) left for college a few months ago. Jake has been my best friend for the last couple of years, and I took it pretty hard when he had to leave. He promised to visit every so often, and we still texted/ facebook messaged quite often. We cared a lot about each other; we helped each other with our problems and he was just a lot of fun to be around. \n\nHowever, maybe two or three months after he left, Jake got a girlfriend. \n\nShe seemed really awesome and since this was his first girlfriend, Jake was over the moon. He told me everything about her. And I honestly could not have been happier for him. \n\nIt started getting a little frustrating when Jake would visit, as he would be texting his girlfriend the *entire time.*\n\nNot even exaggerating. I would be talking to him, and he would just nod his head and stare at his phone. \n\nI didn't want to bug him about it; I knew that he was happy about having a girlfriend and they seemed really good together. But slowly, the facebook conversations stopped. He didn't visit anymore. And every single time I tried to talk to Jake, he was with his girlfriend. \n\nThe last conversation I had with him, I asked if he didn't like talking to me anymore, or if he was tired of me. He said no, but we haven't talked since. \n\nI did see him one more time after that over Christmas break at a game night a bunch of my friends were at, but he brought his girlfriend with him and he didn't even look at me. \n\nSince the majority of my friends have left for college, I've been incredibly lonely. Losing my best friend has just made everything worse, and I can't think about him without getting super upset. As far as I know, it wasn't anything I did that made him stop talking to me, but I can't help but feel that it's my fault. How do I get my best friend back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway since he knows my username.\n\nSo my friend (let's call him Jake) left for college a few months ago. Jake has been my best friend for the last couple of years, and I took it pretty hard when he had to leave. He promised to visit every so often, and we still texted/ facebook messaged quite often. We cared a lot about each other; we helped each other with our problems and he was just a lot of fun to be around. \n\nHowever, maybe two or three months after he left, Jake got a girlfriend. \n\nShe seemed really awesome and since this was his first girlfriend, Jake was over the moon. He told me everything about her. And I honestly could not have been happier for him. \n\nIt started getting a little frustrating when Jake would visit, as he would be texting his girlfriend the *entire time.*\n\nNot even exaggerating. I would be talking to him, and he would just nod his head and stare at his phone. \n\nI didn't want to bug him about it; I knew that he was happy about having a girlfriend and they seemed really good together. But slowly, the facebook conversations stopped. He didn't visit anymore. And every single time I tried to talk to Jake, he was with his girlfriend. \n\nThe last conversation I had with him, I asked if he didn't like talking to me anymore, or if he was tired of me. He said no, but we haven't talked since. \n\nI did see him one more time after that over Christmas break at a game night a bunch of my friends were at, but he brought his girlfriend with him and he didn't even look at me. \n\nSince the majority of my friends have left for college, I've been incredibly lonely. Losing my best friend has just made everything worse, and I can't think about him without getting super upset. As far as I know, it wasn't anything I did that made him stop talking to me, but I can't help but feel that it's my fault. How do I get my best friend back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway since he knows my username.\n\nSo my friend (let's call him Jake) left for college a few months ago. Jake has been my best friend for the last couple of years, and I took it pretty hard when he had to leave. He promised to visit every so often, and we still texted/ facebook messaged quite often. We cared a lot about each other; we helped each other with our problems and he was just a lot of fun to be around. \n\nHowever, maybe two or three months after he left, Jake got a girlfriend. \n\nShe seemed really awesome and since this was his first girlfriend, Jake was over the moon. He told me everything about her. And I honestly could not have been happier for him. \n\nIt started getting a little frustrating when Jake would visit, as he would be texting his girlfriend the *entire time.*\n\nNot even exaggerating. I would be talking to him, and he would just nod his head and stare at his phone. \n\nI didn't want to bug him about it; I knew that he was happy about having a girlfriend and they seemed really good together. But slowly, the facebook conversations stopped. He didn't visit anymore. And every single time I tried to talk to Jake, he was with his girlfriend. \n\nThe last conversation I had with him, I asked if he didn't like talking to me anymore, or if he was tired of me. He said no, but we haven't talked since. \n\nI did see him one more time after that over Christmas break at a game night a bunch of my friends were at, but he brought his girlfriend with him and he didn't even look at me. \n\nSince the majority of my friends have left for college, I've been incredibly lonely. Losing my best friend has just made everything worse, and I can't think about him without getting super upset. As far as I know, it wasn't anything I did that made him stop talking to me, but I can't help but feel that it's my fault. How do I get my best friend back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway since he knows my username.\n\nSo my friend (let's call him Jake) left for college a few months ago. Jake has been my best friend for the last couple of years, and I took it pretty hard when he had to leave. He promised to visit every so often, and we still texted/ facebook messaged quite often. We cared a lot about each other; we helped each other with our problems and he was just a lot of fun to be around. \n\nHowever, maybe two or three months after he left, Jake got a girlfriend. \n\nShe seemed really awesome and since this was his first girlfriend, Jake was over the moon. He told me everything about her. And I honestly could not have been happier for him. \n\nIt started getting a little frustrating when Jake would visit, as he would be texting his girlfriend the *entire time.*\n\nNot even exaggerating. I would be talking to him, and he would just nod his head and stare at his phone. \n\nI didn't want to bug him about it; I knew that he was happy about having a girlfriend and they seemed really good together. But slowly, the facebook conversations stopped. He didn't visit anymore. And every single time I tried to talk to Jake, he was with his girlfriend. \n\nThe last conversation I had with him, I asked if he didn't like talking to me anymore, or if he was tired of me. He said no, but we haven't talked since. \n\nI did see him one more time after that over Christmas break at a game night a bunch of my friends were at, but he brought his girlfriend with him and he didn't even look at me. \n\nSince the majority of my friends have left for college, I've been incredibly lonely. Losing my best friend has just made everything worse, and I can't think about him without getting super upset. As far as I know, it wasn't anything I did that made him stop talking to me, but I can't help but feel that it's my fault. How do I get my best friend back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway since he knows my username.\n\nSo my friend (let's call him Jake) left for college a few months ago. Jake has been my best friend for the last couple of years, and I took it pretty hard when he had to leave. He promised to visit every so often, and we still texted/ facebook messaged quite often. We cared a lot about each other; we helped each other with our problems and he was just a lot of fun to be around. \n\nHowever, maybe two or three months after he left, Jake got a girlfriend. \n\nShe seemed really awesome and since this was his first girlfriend, Jake was over the moon. He told me everything about her. And I honestly could not have been happier for him. \n\nIt started getting a little frustrating when Jake would visit, as he would be texting his girlfriend the *entire time.*\n\nNot even exaggerating. I would be talking to him, and he would just nod his head and stare at his phone. \n\nI didn't want to bug him about it; I knew that he was happy about having a girlfriend and they seemed really good together. But slowly, the facebook conversations stopped. He didn't visit anymore. And every single time I tried to talk to Jake, he was with his girlfriend. \n\nThe last conversation I had with him, I asked if he didn't like talking to me anymore, or if he was tired of me. He said no, but we haven't talked since. \n\nI did see him one more time after that over Christmas break at a game night a bunch of my friends were at, but he brought his girlfriend with him and he didn't even look at me. \n\nSince the majority of my friends have left for college, I've been incredibly lonely. Losing my best friend has just made everything worse, and I can't think about him without getting super upset. As far as I know, it wasn't anything I did that made him stop talking to me, but I can't help but feel that it's my fault. How do I get my best friend back?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (or ex now) asked for us to take some time apart. But by time apart, she means time out of relationship. \n\nWe met about 2 months ago and dated for around a month. This was the first relationship for both of us in several years and we were both very excited to start. However, she began feeling too much pressure. She needed time to think if she truly likes/loves me or not and she wasn't able to have that time. \n\nThe strange thing is she wants us to be close friends. She believes that a relationship can only be strongest if two people are very good friends already before establishing the relationship. So she wants to become good friends with me first. We moved along very quickly but she still barely knows who I am and vice versa. Two months isn't exactly enough to get to know someone so deeply. She still wants to spend a lot of time with me. But she doesn't want the burden of a relationship just yet. She said that she doesn't want to be forced to like me just because we're in a relationship. She wants her boyfriend to be her best friend as well.\n\nBut the thing is, she said she wants us to be good friends before we get together again. I also made sure to point out that I'm trying to get back together with her, and she accepted that as well. We only met each other recently but we've grown extremely fond of each other. Just too much stress I guess. \n\nI want to know what to do. I want to know how long I wait before I try again. She didn't give me a time. These things can't be measured in a specific time frame. I really like this girl and she's one of the most amazing people I've ever met. How do I know if we can still work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (or ex now) asked for us to take some time apart. But by time apart, she means time out of relationship. \n\nWe met about 2 months ago and dated for around a month. This was the first relationship for both of us in several years and we were both very excited to start. However, she began feeling too much pressure. She needed time to think if she truly likes/loves me or not and she wasn't able to have that time. \n\nThe strange thing is she wants us to be close friends. She believes that a relationship can only be strongest if two people are very good friends already before establishing the relationship. So she wants to become good friends with me first. We moved along very quickly but she still barely knows who I am and vice versa. Two months isn't exactly enough to get to know someone so deeply. She still wants to spend a lot of time with me. But she doesn't want the burden of a relationship just yet. She said that she doesn't want to be forced to like me just because we're in a relationship. She wants her boyfriend to be her best friend as well.\n\nBut the thing is, she said she wants us to be good friends before we get together again. I also made sure to point out that I'm trying to get back together with her, and she accepted that as well. We only met each other recently but we've grown extremely fond of each other. Just too much stress I guess. \n\nI want to know what to do. I want to know how long I wait before I try again. She didn't give me a time. These things can't be measured in a specific time frame. I really like this girl and she's one of the most amazing people I've ever met. How do I know if we can still work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (or ex now) asked for us to take some time apart. But by time apart, she means time out of relationship. \n\nWe met about 2 months ago and dated for around a month. This was the first relationship for both of us in several years and we were both very excited to start. However, she began feeling too much pressure. She needed time to think if she truly likes/loves me or not and she wasn't able to have that time. \n\nThe strange thing is she wants us to be close friends. She believes that a relationship can only be strongest if two people are very good friends already before establishing the relationship. So she wants to become good friends with me first. We moved along very quickly but she still barely knows who I am and vice versa. Two months isn't exactly enough to get to know someone so deeply. She still wants to spend a lot of time with me. But she doesn't want the burden of a relationship just yet. She said that she doesn't want to be forced to like me just because we're in a relationship. She wants her boyfriend to be her best friend as well.\n\nBut the thing is, she said she wants us to be good friends before we get together again. I also made sure to point out that I'm trying to get back together with her, and she accepted that as well. We only met each other recently but we've grown extremely fond of each other. Just too much stress I guess. \n\nI want to know what to do. I want to know how long I wait before I try again. She didn't give me a time. These things can't be measured in a specific time frame. I really like this girl and she's one of the most amazing people I've ever met. How do I know if we can still work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (or ex now) asked for us to take some time apart. But by time apart, she means time out of relationship. \n\nWe met about 2 months ago and dated for around a month. This was the first relationship for both of us in several years and we were both very excited to start. However, she began feeling too much pressure. She needed time to think if she truly likes/loves me or not and she wasn't able to have that time. \n\nThe strange thing is she wants us to be close friends. She believes that a relationship can only be strongest if two people are very good friends already before establishing the relationship. So she wants to become good friends with me first. We moved along very quickly but she still barely knows who I am and vice versa. Two months isn't exactly enough to get to know someone so deeply. She still wants to spend a lot of time with me. But she doesn't want the burden of a relationship just yet. She said that she doesn't want to be forced to like me just because we're in a relationship. She wants her boyfriend to be her best friend as well.\n\nBut the thing is, she said she wants us to be good friends before we get together again. I also made sure to point out that I'm trying to get back together with her, and she accepted that as well. We only met each other recently but we've grown extremely fond of each other. Just too much stress I guess. \n\nI want to know what to do. I want to know how long I wait before I try again. She didn't give me a time. These things can't be measured in a specific time frame. I really like this girl and she's one of the most amazing people I've ever met. How do I know if we can still work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (or ex now) asked for us to take some time apart. But by time apart, she means time out of relationship. \n\nWe met about 2 months ago and dated for around a month. This was the first relationship for both of us in several years and we were both very excited to start. However, she began feeling too much pressure. She needed time to think if she truly likes/loves me or not and she wasn't able to have that time. \n\nThe strange thing is she wants us to be close friends. She believes that a relationship can only be strongest if two people are very good friends already before establishing the relationship. So she wants to become good friends with me first. We moved along very quickly but she still barely knows who I am and vice versa. Two months isn't exactly enough to get to know someone so deeply. She still wants to spend a lot of time with me. But she doesn't want the burden of a relationship just yet. She said that she doesn't want to be forced to like me just because we're in a relationship. She wants her boyfriend to be her best friend as well.\n\nBut the thing is, she said she wants us to be good friends before we get together again. I also made sure to point out that I'm trying to get back together with her, and she accepted that as well. We only met each other recently but we've grown extremely fond of each other. Just too much stress I guess. \n\nI want to know what to do. I want to know how long I wait before I try again. She didn't give me a time. These things can't be measured in a specific time frame. I really like this girl and she's one of the most amazing people I've ever met. How do I know if we can still work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (or ex now) asked for us to take some time apart. But by time apart, she means time out of relationship. \n\nWe met about 2 months ago and dated for around a month. This was the first relationship for both of us in several years and we were both very excited to start. However, she began feeling too much pressure. She needed time to think if she truly likes/loves me or not and she wasn't able to have that time. \n\nThe strange thing is she wants us to be close friends. She believes that a relationship can only be strongest if two people are very good friends already before establishing the relationship. So she wants to become good friends with me first. We moved along very quickly but she still barely knows who I am and vice versa. Two months isn't exactly enough to get to know someone so deeply. She still wants to spend a lot of time with me. But she doesn't want the burden of a relationship just yet. She said that she doesn't want to be forced to like me just because we're in a relationship. She wants her boyfriend to be her best friend as well.\n\nBut the thing is, she said she wants us to be good friends before we get together again. I also made sure to point out that I'm trying to get back together with her, and she accepted that as well. We only met each other recently but we've grown extremely fond of each other. Just too much stress I guess. \n\nI want to know what to do. I want to know how long I wait before I try again. She didn't give me a time. These things can't be measured in a specific time frame. I really like this girl and she's one of the most amazing people I've ever met. How do I know if we can still work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really love my 25M boyfriend. We've been in a great relationship since the start. We live together. I've now finished school and am unsure of where the whole thing is going. Nothing is really wrong, but I don't feel satisfied. Am I chasing a golden goose? \n\n*Here's what I love about my relationship with him:* \n\n* I love the guy and he loves me\n* My parents and family love him, which is very important to me\n* We agree on all fundamental values & beliefs\n* We talk about getting married in general\n* He makes me laugh\n* He is so smart and caring\n* I trust him with absolutely no reservations \n* He is the kindest, most wonderful person in the world and I've never met anyone who didn't like him \n\n*But* \n\n* Though we've talked about marriage, there's no proposal/engagement/plan with real goals\n* We've been together for so long that I don't remember what it's like to be myself\n* I'm attracted to more than one person outside of the relationship, and that terrifies me\n* I hate it when I feel like I have to drag him to go out and have fun/justify wanting to go out and have fun (like at bars, dancing, etc)\n* He still has 3 more years of school left and that seems like such a long time to wait to settle down\n* I feel like I'm trying to justify being unhappy because our relationship is wonderful on paper and I feel like I'm just a shitty whiner/guilty about wanting something different \n\nSo what do you think? \n\nThis is just what happens to people our age, right? \n\nI'm just a big whiner, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really love my 25M boyfriend. We've been in a great relationship since the start. We live together. I've now finished school and am unsure of where the whole thing is going. Nothing is really wrong, but I don't feel satisfied. Am I chasing a golden goose? \n\n*Here's what I love about my relationship with him:* \n\n* I love the guy and he loves me\n* My parents and family love him, which is very important to me\n* We agree on all fundamental values & beliefs\n* We talk about getting married in general\n* He makes me laugh\n* He is so smart and caring\n* I trust him with absolutely no reservations \n* He is the kindest, most wonderful person in the world and I've never met anyone who didn't like him \n\n*But* \n\n* Though we've talked about marriage, there's no proposal/engagement/plan with real goals\n* We've been together for so long that I don't remember what it's like to be myself\n* I'm attracted to more than one person outside of the relationship, and that terrifies me\n* I hate it when I feel like I have to drag him to go out and have fun/justify wanting to go out and have fun (like at bars, dancing, etc)\n* He still has 3 more years of school left and that seems like such a long time to wait to settle down\n* I feel like I'm trying to justify being unhappy because our relationship is wonderful on paper and I feel like I'm just a shitty whiner/guilty about wanting something different \n\nSo what do you think? \n\nThis is just what happens to people our age, right? \n\nI'm just a big whiner, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really love my 25M boyfriend. We've been in a great relationship since the start. We live together. I've now finished school and am unsure of where the whole thing is going. Nothing is really wrong, but I don't feel satisfied. Am I chasing a golden goose? \n\n*Here's what I love about my relationship with him:* \n\n* I love the guy and he loves me\n* My parents and family love him, which is very important to me\n* We agree on all fundamental values & beliefs\n* We talk about getting married in general\n* He makes me laugh\n* He is so smart and caring\n* I trust him with absolutely no reservations \n* He is the kindest, most wonderful person in the world and I've never met anyone who didn't like him \n\n*But* \n\n* Though we've talked about marriage, there's no proposal/engagement/plan with real goals\n* We've been together for so long that I don't remember what it's like to be myself\n* I'm attracted to more than one person outside of the relationship, and that terrifies me\n* I hate it when I feel like I have to drag him to go out and have fun/justify wanting to go out and have fun (like at bars, dancing, etc)\n* He still has 3 more years of school left and that seems like such a long time to wait to settle down\n* I feel like I'm trying to justify being unhappy because our relationship is wonderful on paper and I feel like I'm just a shitty whiner/guilty about wanting something different \n\nSo what do you think? \n\nThis is just what happens to people our age, right? \n\nI'm just a big whiner, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really love my 25M boyfriend. We've been in a great relationship since the start. We live together. I've now finished school and am unsure of where the whole thing is going. Nothing is really wrong, but I don't feel satisfied. Am I chasing a golden goose? \n\n*Here's what I love about my relationship with him:* \n\n* I love the guy and he loves me\n* My parents and family love him, which is very important to me\n* We agree on all fundamental values & beliefs\n* We talk about getting married in general\n* He makes me laugh\n* He is so smart and caring\n* I trust him with absolutely no reservations \n* He is the kindest, most wonderful person in the world and I've never met anyone who didn't like him \n\n*But* \n\n* Though we've talked about marriage, there's no proposal/engagement/plan with real goals\n* We've been together for so long that I don't remember what it's like to be myself\n* I'm attracted to more than one person outside of the relationship, and that terrifies me\n* I hate it when I feel like I have to drag him to go out and have fun/justify wanting to go out and have fun (like at bars, dancing, etc)\n* He still has 3 more years of school left and that seems like such a long time to wait to settle down\n* I feel like I'm trying to justify being unhappy because our relationship is wonderful on paper and I feel like I'm just a shitty whiner/guilty about wanting something different \n\nSo what do you think? \n\nThis is just what happens to people our age, right? \n\nI'm just a big whiner, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I really love my 25M boyfriend. We've been in a great relationship since the start. We live together. I've now finished school and am unsure of where the whole thing is going. Nothing is really wrong, but I don't feel satisfied. Am I chasing a golden goose? \n\n*Here's what I love about my relationship with him:* \n\n* I love the guy and he loves me\n* My parents and family love him, which is very important to me\n* We agree on all fundamental values & beliefs\n* We talk about getting married in general\n* He makes me laugh\n* He is so smart and caring\n* I trust him with absolutely no reservations \n* He is the kindest, most wonderful person in the world and I've never met anyone who didn't like him \n\n*But* \n\n* Though we've talked about marriage, there's no proposal/engagement/plan with real goals\n* We've been together for so long that I don't remember what it's like to be myself\n* I'm attracted to more than one person outside of the relationship, and that terrifies me\n* I hate it when I feel like I have to drag him to go out and have fun/justify wanting to go out and have fun (like at bars, dancing, etc)\n* He still has 3 more years of school left and that seems like such a long time to wait to settle down\n* I feel like I'm trying to justify being unhappy because our relationship is wonderful on paper and I feel like I'm just a shitty whiner/guilty about wanting something different \n\nSo what do you think? \n\nThis is just what happens to people our age, right? \n\nI'm just a big whiner, right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend of about 2 years is dying from cancer, it's in his lungs, his stomach, intestines, probably his prostate ect. It's literally eating him alive. I knew he was sick when we got together, and we've had a couple of great years, but he had some more scans today because he's been in alot of pain lately. He got bad news, it's overtaken most of one lung and about a quarter of another. I knew this day was coming, I just didn't think it would be here so quickly. and tonight at dinner he looks at me and says I'd understand if you got up and left me, but do it soon if you're going to, so I can go do things if I want to. \nI should point out at this point that we're both brutally honest people, and he's a bit older then me, thus has move savings to go and travel. \nPart of me wants to stay because I do love him and I want to be around for him, but at the same time, I know if I'm here he won't go do things he wants to because I don't get alot of vacation time, and he does, but he won't go anywhere without me. and I'm totally okay with him going without me with his friends, I've said this so many times and he still just shrugs it off. Part of me wants to go. and I feel guilty about it, really guilty about it, because I don't think he'd eat if I wasnt here to bother him into eating dinner.I'm afraid he'd die faster without me, which is both a gift and a curse. I'm so conflicted, and a little hurt that he'd actually say something like that. I helped him recover from a cancer surgery. I don't understand men."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend of about 2 years is dying from cancer, it's in his lungs, his stomach, intestines, probably his prostate ect. It's literally eating him alive. I knew he was sick when we got together, and we've had a couple of great years, but he had some more scans today because he's been in alot of pain lately. He got bad news, it's overtaken most of one lung and about a quarter of another. I knew this day was coming, I just didn't think it would be here so quickly. and tonight at dinner he looks at me and says I'd understand if you got up and left me, but do it soon if you're going to, so I can go do things if I want to. \nI should point out at this point that we're both brutally honest people, and he's a bit older then me, thus has move savings to go and travel. \nPart of me wants to stay because I do love him and I want to be around for him, but at the same time, I know if I'm here he won't go do things he wants to because I don't get alot of vacation time, and he does, but he won't go anywhere without me. and I'm totally okay with him going without me with his friends, I've said this so many times and he still just shrugs it off. Part of me wants to go. and I feel guilty about it, really guilty about it, because I don't think he'd eat if I wasnt here to bother him into eating dinner.I'm afraid he'd die faster without me, which is both a gift and a curse. I'm so conflicted, and a little hurt that he'd actually say something like that. I helped him recover from a cancer surgery. I don't understand men."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend of about 2 years is dying from cancer, it's in his lungs, his stomach, intestines, probably his prostate ect. It's literally eating him alive. I knew he was sick when we got together, and we've had a couple of great years, but he had some more scans today because he's been in alot of pain lately. He got bad news, it's overtaken most of one lung and about a quarter of another. I knew this day was coming, I just didn't think it would be here so quickly. and tonight at dinner he looks at me and says I'd understand if you got up and left me, but do it soon if you're going to, so I can go do things if I want to. \nI should point out at this point that we're both brutally honest people, and he's a bit older then me, thus has move savings to go and travel. \nPart of me wants to stay because I do love him and I want to be around for him, but at the same time, I know if I'm here he won't go do things he wants to because I don't get alot of vacation time, and he does, but he won't go anywhere without me. and I'm totally okay with him going without me with his friends, I've said this so many times and he still just shrugs it off. Part of me wants to go. and I feel guilty about it, really guilty about it, because I don't think he'd eat if I wasnt here to bother him into eating dinner.I'm afraid he'd die faster without me, which is both a gift and a curse. I'm so conflicted, and a little hurt that he'd actually say something like that. I helped him recover from a cancer surgery. I don't understand men."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, sorry for the length.\n\nI need some serious help. My husband and I have been having pretty serious problems with money. It isn't that we are lazy, we are just in a really tight spot. He has tried posting on r/Frugal, but didn't get any advice other than \"don't spend what you don't have to and you'll be fine.\" It isn't that simple for us. We just don't make enough money to pay off all of our bills each month.\n\nBasically, I've gotten very sick recently. I've been out of work for nearly 5 months because I can't stand or walk on my own. We've been saving money where we can. I even got a buzz cut for the sake of saving water and shampoo (not to mention, I couldn't shower by myself). But despite our best efforts, we can't make it. My husband makes about $1,000 a month. Our rent cost us $650, our cell phones cost $70, and utilities usually cost about $70 (with internet). We still have to pay for gas and food. We've been sent to collections because of my medical bills and a credit card (which we haven't been using for nearly 3 years). We still have 7 months on our lease, and can't ask for any money from family, because I have already tapped them out. \n\nPlease, if anyone has any legitimate advice (no \"just be more careful with your money\" advice, please), I would love to hear from you. Anything helps."
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