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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've got two problems at the moment, both inter-related.\n\n* First, The Job Posting:\n\nThanks to corporate-speak, it's extremely hard to come across as genuine in a business context. I'm looking for people who enjoy IT, and take a lot of pride in what they do. I'm looking for the sort of people to whom \"good enough\" isn't. How do I let these sort of people that they want to work with me? How do I let them know that my company knows \"pride\" isn't just a buzzword for \"watching the bottom line\"?\n\n* Second, The Candidates:\n\nI'm pretty new to management. There are a lot of people who are far more experienced at talking themselves up than I am at figuring them out. It's easy enough to hire someone qualified, you can test for that with a well-executed test environment. The problem is that will only tell you what they're capable of, not how much you have to fight them to do anything. \n\nWe're an IT company in the small/medium business market, our clients don't generally have piles of cash to blow on new servers. There are times I'll have to hand someone a 3-year old server and some extra RAM and say \"The client's budget fell through this year but they still need an upgrade, see how well you can polish this turd.\" The kind of person I'm looking for isn't just gonna say \"This thing sucks\". They're gonna say \"This thing sucks, but it's gonna gleam anyway because it's *my* fuckin' turd.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've got two problems at the moment, both inter-related.\n\n* First, The Job Posting:\n\nThanks to corporate-speak, it's extremely hard to come across as genuine in a business context. I'm looking for people who enjoy IT, and take a lot of pride in what they do. I'm looking for the sort of people to whom \"good enough\" isn't. How do I let these sort of people that they want to work with me? How do I let them know that my company knows \"pride\" isn't just a buzzword for \"watching the bottom line\"?\n\n* Second, The Candidates:\n\nI'm pretty new to management. There are a lot of people who are far more experienced at talking themselves up than I am at figuring them out. It's easy enough to hire someone qualified, you can test for that with a well-executed test environment. The problem is that will only tell you what they're capable of, not how much you have to fight them to do anything. \n\nWe're an IT company in the small/medium business market, our clients don't generally have piles of cash to blow on new servers. There are times I'll have to hand someone a 3-year old server and some extra RAM and say \"The client's budget fell through this year but they still need an upgrade, see how well you can polish this turd.\" The kind of person I'm looking for isn't just gonna say \"This thing sucks\". They're gonna say \"This thing sucks, but it's gonna gleam anyway because it's *my* fuckin' turd.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've got two problems at the moment, both inter-related.\n\n* First, The Job Posting:\n\nThanks to corporate-speak, it's extremely hard to come across as genuine in a business context. I'm looking for people who enjoy IT, and take a lot of pride in what they do. I'm looking for the sort of people to whom \"good enough\" isn't. How do I let these sort of people that they want to work with me? How do I let them know that my company knows \"pride\" isn't just a buzzword for \"watching the bottom line\"?\n\n* Second, The Candidates:\n\nI'm pretty new to management. There are a lot of people who are far more experienced at talking themselves up than I am at figuring them out. It's easy enough to hire someone qualified, you can test for that with a well-executed test environment. The problem is that will only tell you what they're capable of, not how much you have to fight them to do anything. \n\nWe're an IT company in the small/medium business market, our clients don't generally have piles of cash to blow on new servers. There are times I'll have to hand someone a 3-year old server and some extra RAM and say \"The client's budget fell through this year but they still need an upgrade, see how well you can polish this turd.\" The kind of person I'm looking for isn't just gonna say \"This thing sucks\". They're gonna say \"This thing sucks, but it's gonna gleam anyway because it's *my* fuckin' turd.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about naked pics or anything overtly sexual, but a friend of my boyfriend's contacted him on Valentine's day. She's single.\n\nShe knows me and that we're in a relationship, but I don't know if she necessarily respects that. While this wouldn't have bothered me if it were one of his long-time friends who sent it, she isn't super close with him. She also has had a history of (in my opinion) acting flirtatious with him and crossing some lines with her behavior, and a couple times, being really disrespectful toward me when I saw her in person. I get the impression that she's sneaky and manipulative - I think she has an agenda - but my boyfriend disagrees and thinks she's innocent and just trying to be friends.\n\nIn any case, a while back, I got pretty uncomfortable with her behavior, so I asked him to set some firmer boundaries with her. He did, and he actually ended up going a step further and distancing himself from her as a friend. They only talk every now and then, and she's not happy about that - she tries to contact him a lot, and posts a lot of passive aggressive posts on social media. I think she blames me for losing her friendship with him - which isn't necessarily untrue, but the reason I intervened was because of the way she was choosing to act in the first place. \n\nBut back to the current situation: to make it worse, he didn't tell me about the message even though we were on a trip together on valentine's day. He usually tells me if he hears from her, so it's weird that he didn't mention it this time. Should i consider this to be a red flag? And either way, how should I approach this? Keeping silent about it is just making me mad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about naked pics or anything overtly sexual, but a friend of my boyfriend's contacted him on Valentine's day. She's single.\n\nShe knows me and that we're in a relationship, but I don't know if she necessarily respects that. While this wouldn't have bothered me if it were one of his long-time friends who sent it, she isn't super close with him. She also has had a history of (in my opinion) acting flirtatious with him and crossing some lines with her behavior, and a couple times, being really disrespectful toward me when I saw her in person. I get the impression that she's sneaky and manipulative - I think she has an agenda - but my boyfriend disagrees and thinks she's innocent and just trying to be friends.\n\nIn any case, a while back, I got pretty uncomfortable with her behavior, so I asked him to set some firmer boundaries with her. He did, and he actually ended up going a step further and distancing himself from her as a friend. They only talk every now and then, and she's not happy about that - she tries to contact him a lot, and posts a lot of passive aggressive posts on social media. I think she blames me for losing her friendship with him - which isn't necessarily untrue, but the reason I intervened was because of the way she was choosing to act in the first place. \n\nBut back to the current situation: to make it worse, he didn't tell me about the message even though we were on a trip together on valentine's day. He usually tells me if he hears from her, so it's weird that he didn't mention it this time. Should i consider this to be a red flag? And either way, how should I approach this? Keeping silent about it is just making me mad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about naked pics or anything overtly sexual, but a friend of my boyfriend's contacted him on Valentine's day. She's single.\n\nShe knows me and that we're in a relationship, but I don't know if she necessarily respects that. While this wouldn't have bothered me if it were one of his long-time friends who sent it, she isn't super close with him. She also has had a history of (in my opinion) acting flirtatious with him and crossing some lines with her behavior, and a couple times, being really disrespectful toward me when I saw her in person. I get the impression that she's sneaky and manipulative - I think she has an agenda - but my boyfriend disagrees and thinks she's innocent and just trying to be friends.\n\nIn any case, a while back, I got pretty uncomfortable with her behavior, so I asked him to set some firmer boundaries with her. He did, and he actually ended up going a step further and distancing himself from her as a friend. They only talk every now and then, and she's not happy about that - she tries to contact him a lot, and posts a lot of passive aggressive posts on social media. I think she blames me for losing her friendship with him - which isn't necessarily untrue, but the reason I intervened was because of the way she was choosing to act in the first place. \n\nBut back to the current situation: to make it worse, he didn't tell me about the message even though we were on a trip together on valentine's day. He usually tells me if he hears from her, so it's weird that he didn't mention it this time. Should i consider this to be a red flag? And either way, how should I approach this? Keeping silent about it is just making me mad."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been well over six weeks since she (f 19) dumped me (m 19) and flew to another country to study over the break. But the new university semester is starting next week and I just know that we will eventually cross paths.\n\nWe dated for about a year and she was my best friend ever since we were first years. We had some trust issues and other trivial fights about her friends and her constant need to go partying and clubbing. I prefer quiet nights at home rather dark night clubs with crap music and drunks. I loved her very much but I was pushing her away with my distrust and paranoia. She couldn't handle it so she left me. She broke my heart.\n\nI study Engineering and Physics and she studies Law and Arts, so we'll unlikely bump into each other around campus. However the problem is that we are both apart of many common clubs and societies at uni. We are also executives for 2 certain societies, so I will inevitably see her board meeting and events. I don't know what to do. I don't think I will be able to face her. \n\nShould I skip out on these events and meetings? Should I attend? What do I do?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been well over six weeks since she (f 19) dumped me (m 19) and flew to another country to study over the break. But the new university semester is starting next week and I just know that we will eventually cross paths.\n\nWe dated for about a year and she was my best friend ever since we were first years. We had some trust issues and other trivial fights about her friends and her constant need to go partying and clubbing. I prefer quiet nights at home rather dark night clubs with crap music and drunks. I loved her very much but I was pushing her away with my distrust and paranoia. She couldn't handle it so she left me. She broke my heart.\n\nI study Engineering and Physics and she studies Law and Arts, so we'll unlikely bump into each other around campus. However the problem is that we are both apart of many common clubs and societies at uni. We are also executives for 2 certain societies, so I will inevitably see her board meeting and events. I don't know what to do. I don't think I will be able to face her. \n\nShould I skip out on these events and meetings? Should I attend? What do I do?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been well over six weeks since she (f 19) dumped me (m 19) and flew to another country to study over the break. But the new university semester is starting next week and I just know that we will eventually cross paths.\n\nWe dated for about a year and she was my best friend ever since we were first years. We had some trust issues and other trivial fights about her friends and her constant need to go partying and clubbing. I prefer quiet nights at home rather dark night clubs with crap music and drunks. I loved her very much but I was pushing her away with my distrust and paranoia. She couldn't handle it so she left me. She broke my heart.\n\nI study Engineering and Physics and she studies Law and Arts, so we'll unlikely bump into each other around campus. However the problem is that we are both apart of many common clubs and societies at uni. We are also executives for 2 certain societies, so I will inevitably see her board meeting and events. I don't know what to do. I don't think I will be able to face her. \n\nShould I skip out on these events and meetings? Should I attend? What do I do?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week TIFU. Tuesday Night 2am.\n\nSo I was with my new friend with benefits in my apartment and we were wondering what to do. I asked her if she wanted to smoke a joint and maybe have some sexy time while high. She was up for it but she told me she doesn't smoke often and she get a huge feeling and I told her I'm the same.\n\nWe get to the balcony (I live on the 3rd floor) and smoke it and relax while talking. After 15 min or so, I ask her if she want to go inside and have a little bit of fun. She agrees to it and I go back toward the window-door. The thing is hard to pull. so I decide to go ham and try as hard as I can. but it doesn't move. You see, she closed the 3rd \"Window-door\" and this one need to have the little handle inside pushed for it to unlock. So we are trapped !\n\nShe tells me if I have any way to contact somebody. I pull out my phone and say \"yes im going to contact my landlord. hes going to be pissed but he lives in the same building so it should be alright\". At the same time, I realize I reset my phone to default the same day and still didn't put the contacts back into it. I also recently moved to the city so I don't have any friends to contact.\n\nSo we are locked out on my balcony, on the 3rd floor, high as fuck, at 2am in the morning without any way to contact anybody and we are starting to freeze (it was like 5 outside and we didn't bring warm clothes)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week TIFU. Tuesday Night 2am.\n\nSo I was with my new friend with benefits in my apartment and we were wondering what to do. I asked her if she wanted to smoke a joint and maybe have some sexy time while high. She was up for it but she told me she doesn't smoke often and she get a huge feeling and I told her I'm the same.\n\nWe get to the balcony (I live on the 3rd floor) and smoke it and relax while talking. After 15 min or so, I ask her if she want to go inside and have a little bit of fun. She agrees to it and I go back toward the window-door. The thing is hard to pull. so I decide to go ham and try as hard as I can. but it doesn't move. You see, she closed the 3rd \"Window-door\" and this one need to have the little handle inside pushed for it to unlock. So we are trapped !\n\nShe tells me if I have any way to contact somebody. I pull out my phone and say \"yes im going to contact my landlord. hes going to be pissed but he lives in the same building so it should be alright\". At the same time, I realize I reset my phone to default the same day and still didn't put the contacts back into it. I also recently moved to the city so I don't have any friends to contact.\n\nSo we are locked out on my balcony, on the 3rd floor, high as fuck, at 2am in the morning without any way to contact anybody and we are starting to freeze (it was like 5 outside and we didn't bring warm clothes)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is not working for anybody. so there won't be any legal issues dating me. but as far as i know, he is not interested in dating coworkers :(\n\nI don't know if he likes me. He is super-nice to me. He is tough with others, if he have to. I am good looking, i guess. I have seen him checking me out,not in a creepy way or anything. I am really confused\n\nI don't know what to do. He care about me, like i am his little sister.That's scary, i guess he think i am a stupid young girl.i guess i talk too much. I don't want to hookup with him for one night.I feel in love with him on my first day with him. I never felt like this before.\n\nHe is a genius, outgoing, he dated a few girls since i met him. nothing serious. i heard that he was in a five year relationship before!\n\nI always compliment him. maybe too much.maybe He knows that i am flirting with him. I don't know if it's flirting, i feel very secure and comfortable around him, at the same time i get nervous around him for having these thought in my mind, all the time. \n\nThis one time, i had to meet him for a coffee to hand him some files. I asked him as a joke \"is this a date?\". he smiled.\n \nI like my job too. it would be great to have both. :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is not working for anybody. so there won't be any legal issues dating me. but as far as i know, he is not interested in dating coworkers :(\n\nI don't know if he likes me. He is super-nice to me. He is tough with others, if he have to. I am good looking, i guess. I have seen him checking me out,not in a creepy way or anything. I am really confused\n\nI don't know what to do. He care about me, like i am his little sister.That's scary, i guess he think i am a stupid young girl.i guess i talk too much. I don't want to hookup with him for one night.I feel in love with him on my first day with him. I never felt like this before.\n\nHe is a genius, outgoing, he dated a few girls since i met him. nothing serious. i heard that he was in a five year relationship before!\n\nI always compliment him. maybe too much.maybe He knows that i am flirting with him. I don't know if it's flirting, i feel very secure and comfortable around him, at the same time i get nervous around him for having these thought in my mind, all the time. \n\nThis one time, i had to meet him for a coffee to hand him some files. I asked him as a joke \"is this a date?\". he smiled.\n \nI like my job too. it would be great to have both. :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He is not working for anybody. so there won't be any legal issues dating me. but as far as i know, he is not interested in dating coworkers :(\n\nI don't know if he likes me. He is super-nice to me. He is tough with others, if he have to. I am good looking, i guess. I have seen him checking me out,not in a creepy way or anything. I am really confused\n\nI don't know what to do. He care about me, like i am his little sister.That's scary, i guess he think i am a stupid young girl.i guess i talk too much. I don't want to hookup with him for one night.I feel in love with him on my first day with him. I never felt like this before.\n\nHe is a genius, outgoing, he dated a few girls since i met him. nothing serious. i heard that he was in a five year relationship before!\n\nI always compliment him. maybe too much.maybe He knows that i am flirting with him. I don't know if it's flirting, i feel very secure and comfortable around him, at the same time i get nervous around him for having these thought in my mind, all the time. \n\nThis one time, i had to meet him for a coffee to hand him some files. I asked him as a joke \"is this a date?\". he smiled.\n \nI like my job too. it would be great to have both. :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Things have been strained for a long time. We never quite found our relationship footing again after my dad was in an accident and I was a wreck, but the problems we have are long standing ones. He has a lot of anxiety and depression issues that are at the core of a lot of our problems, and we're both extremely stubborn.\n\nI don't feel like I can ask him for things, whether it's money for groceries or shared household goods or for an ear to hear about my day. We get frustrated with each others' foibles and it's eclipsed the good we used to see in each other. Overall, we had a really solid relationship, but over time a million little things seem to have undermined it. I'm happy being content, but he wants the spark we used to have at the beginning, which I think is unreasonable to expect to continue after years. I want to grow and change and develop a life together, but I don't trust him to make changes.\n\nAll that being said, I love him very much, and it hurts me to see him hurting, but I don't know that we can keep going the way we are. We are both hesitant to end things, but I feel like it's the right thing to do. I want to save it, but I also want to end it, and I'm so lost and torn. Maybe if we took a break and reconvened? I don't know what to do. \n\nHow do you know when it's really over?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Things have been strained for a long time. We never quite found our relationship footing again after my dad was in an accident and I was a wreck, but the problems we have are long standing ones. He has a lot of anxiety and depression issues that are at the core of a lot of our problems, and we're both extremely stubborn.\n\nI don't feel like I can ask him for things, whether it's money for groceries or shared household goods or for an ear to hear about my day. We get frustrated with each others' foibles and it's eclipsed the good we used to see in each other. Overall, we had a really solid relationship, but over time a million little things seem to have undermined it. I'm happy being content, but he wants the spark we used to have at the beginning, which I think is unreasonable to expect to continue after years. I want to grow and change and develop a life together, but I don't trust him to make changes.\n\nAll that being said, I love him very much, and it hurts me to see him hurting, but I don't know that we can keep going the way we are. We are both hesitant to end things, but I feel like it's the right thing to do. I want to save it, but I also want to end it, and I'm so lost and torn. Maybe if we took a break and reconvened? I don't know what to do. \n\nHow do you know when it's really over?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Things have been strained for a long time. We never quite found our relationship footing again after my dad was in an accident and I was a wreck, but the problems we have are long standing ones. He has a lot of anxiety and depression issues that are at the core of a lot of our problems, and we're both extremely stubborn.\n\nI don't feel like I can ask him for things, whether it's money for groceries or shared household goods or for an ear to hear about my day. We get frustrated with each others' foibles and it's eclipsed the good we used to see in each other. Overall, we had a really solid relationship, but over time a million little things seem to have undermined it. I'm happy being content, but he wants the spark we used to have at the beginning, which I think is unreasonable to expect to continue after years. I want to grow and change and develop a life together, but I don't trust him to make changes.\n\nAll that being said, I love him very much, and it hurts me to see him hurting, but I don't know that we can keep going the way we are. We are both hesitant to end things, but I feel like it's the right thing to do. I want to save it, but I also want to end it, and I'm so lost and torn. Maybe if we took a break and reconvened? I don't know what to do. \n\nHow do you know when it's really over?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit!\n\nMy SO and I moved from Missouri to Austin, TX after graduation in the hopes of finding work in commercial art (we both have Graphic Design and Illustration degrees). After living here for a couple of months, some of my fears have become realities. We are far too late to really benefit from the huge boom that started in the late 90s, early 00s. At the moment, we are both working on learning web dev, in the case of my SO, and relearning Java OOP, in my case, in the hopes of being more marketable. But there's still a major problem.\n\nThe traffic here is a holy forking NIGHTMARE!\n\nWe heard stories, but it took wasting 2 hours of my life in traffic today to really get to my breaking point. The highways are awful, and they aren't going to fix it any time soon. It would be feasible if we did end up getting jobs as developers later on and managed to find jobs within 5 miles of our house. However, there are so many variables and headaches around it that we're seriously considering just moving away the moment our lease is up.\n\nSo that brings me to a couple of questions:\n\n1. Does Austin offer any real benefit for tech jobs over other US cities? (Other than Oracle is getting ready to build a huge campus here)\n2. Are there any other US cities that are showing the same early signs of growth in the tech industry similar to Austin 10-15 years ago?\n\nSince most of the articles I have read seem to be outdated, or point to cities that have already grown a lot, we're hoping to get firsthand experience from people who live in these unicorn cities. We're also debating on looking for jobs in Dallas and Houston to at least just get away from this horrible traffic asap, but we're also wanting to consider the long game."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit!\n\nMy SO and I moved from Missouri to Austin, TX after graduation in the hopes of finding work in commercial art (we both have Graphic Design and Illustration degrees). After living here for a couple of months, some of my fears have become realities. We are far too late to really benefit from the huge boom that started in the late 90s, early 00s. At the moment, we are both working on learning web dev, in the case of my SO, and relearning Java OOP, in my case, in the hopes of being more marketable. But there's still a major problem.\n\nThe traffic here is a holy forking NIGHTMARE!\n\nWe heard stories, but it took wasting 2 hours of my life in traffic today to really get to my breaking point. The highways are awful, and they aren't going to fix it any time soon. It would be feasible if we did end up getting jobs as developers later on and managed to find jobs within 5 miles of our house. However, there are so many variables and headaches around it that we're seriously considering just moving away the moment our lease is up.\n\nSo that brings me to a couple of questions:\n\n1. Does Austin offer any real benefit for tech jobs over other US cities? (Other than Oracle is getting ready to build a huge campus here)\n2. Are there any other US cities that are showing the same early signs of growth in the tech industry similar to Austin 10-15 years ago?\n\nSince most of the articles I have read seem to be outdated, or point to cities that have already grown a lot, we're hoping to get firsthand experience from people who live in these unicorn cities. We're also debating on looking for jobs in Dallas and Houston to at least just get away from this horrible traffic asap, but we're also wanting to consider the long game."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit!\n\nMy SO and I moved from Missouri to Austin, TX after graduation in the hopes of finding work in commercial art (we both have Graphic Design and Illustration degrees). After living here for a couple of months, some of my fears have become realities. We are far too late to really benefit from the huge boom that started in the late 90s, early 00s. At the moment, we are both working on learning web dev, in the case of my SO, and relearning Java OOP, in my case, in the hopes of being more marketable. But there's still a major problem.\n\nThe traffic here is a holy forking NIGHTMARE!\n\nWe heard stories, but it took wasting 2 hours of my life in traffic today to really get to my breaking point. The highways are awful, and they aren't going to fix it any time soon. It would be feasible if we did end up getting jobs as developers later on and managed to find jobs within 5 miles of our house. However, there are so many variables and headaches around it that we're seriously considering just moving away the moment our lease is up.\n\nSo that brings me to a couple of questions:\n\n1. Does Austin offer any real benefit for tech jobs over other US cities? (Other than Oracle is getting ready to build a huge campus here)\n2. Are there any other US cities that are showing the same early signs of growth in the tech industry similar to Austin 10-15 years ago?\n\nSince most of the articles I have read seem to be outdated, or point to cities that have already grown a lot, we're hoping to get firsthand experience from people who live in these unicorn cities. We're also debating on looking for jobs in Dallas and Houston to at least just get away from this horrible traffic asap, but we're also wanting to consider the long game."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every girl I talk to and try to go out with just doesn't seem to be interested in me. I talk to them. Get their number. Feel as though they want to go out, and then when I try to set up a date, they seem to always be busy or ignore texts. I don't text back for days and NOTHING so I just say \"whelp.\" and let it go. This has happened with about 2 or 3 women so far. It's very frustrating. I have no idea what I'm doing or saying wrong. It's getting to the point where I'm getting depressed over women not being interested in me. Feel as though I have a personality disorder or something.\n\nI work out, groom myself, and I'm sure my looks have nothing to do with it anyway. It would be nice to have an outside opinion without going to my friends about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every girl I talk to and try to go out with just doesn't seem to be interested in me. I talk to them. Get their number. Feel as though they want to go out, and then when I try to set up a date, they seem to always be busy or ignore texts. I don't text back for days and NOTHING so I just say \"whelp.\" and let it go. This has happened with about 2 or 3 women so far. It's very frustrating. I have no idea what I'm doing or saying wrong. It's getting to the point where I'm getting depressed over women not being interested in me. Feel as though I have a personality disorder or something.\n\nI work out, groom myself, and I'm sure my looks have nothing to do with it anyway. It would be nice to have an outside opinion without going to my friends about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every girl I talk to and try to go out with just doesn't seem to be interested in me. I talk to them. Get their number. Feel as though they want to go out, and then when I try to set up a date, they seem to always be busy or ignore texts. I don't text back for days and NOTHING so I just say \"whelp.\" and let it go. This has happened with about 2 or 3 women so far. It's very frustrating. I have no idea what I'm doing or saying wrong. It's getting to the point where I'm getting depressed over women not being interested in me. Feel as though I have a personality disorder or something.\n\nI work out, groom myself, and I'm sure my looks have nothing to do with it anyway. It would be nice to have an outside opinion without going to my friends about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every girl I talk to and try to go out with just doesn't seem to be interested in me. I talk to them. Get their number. Feel as though they want to go out, and then when I try to set up a date, they seem to always be busy or ignore texts. I don't text back for days and NOTHING so I just say \"whelp.\" and let it go. This has happened with about 2 or 3 women so far. It's very frustrating. I have no idea what I'm doing or saying wrong. It's getting to the point where I'm getting depressed over women not being interested in me. Feel as though I have a personality disorder or something.\n\nI work out, groom myself, and I'm sure my looks have nothing to do with it anyway. It would be nice to have an outside opinion without going to my friends about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every girl I talk to and try to go out with just doesn't seem to be interested in me. I talk to them. Get their number. Feel as though they want to go out, and then when I try to set up a date, they seem to always be busy or ignore texts. I don't text back for days and NOTHING so I just say \"whelp.\" and let it go. This has happened with about 2 or 3 women so far. It's very frustrating. I have no idea what I'm doing or saying wrong. It's getting to the point where I'm getting depressed over women not being interested in me. Feel as though I have a personality disorder or something.\n\nI work out, groom myself, and I'm sure my looks have nothing to do with it anyway. It would be nice to have an outside opinion without going to my friends about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every girl I talk to and try to go out with just doesn't seem to be interested in me. I talk to them. Get their number. Feel as though they want to go out, and then when I try to set up a date, they seem to always be busy or ignore texts. I don't text back for days and NOTHING so I just say \"whelp.\" and let it go. This has happened with about 2 or 3 women so far. It's very frustrating. I have no idea what I'm doing or saying wrong. It's getting to the point where I'm getting depressed over women not being interested in me. Feel as though I have a personality disorder or something.\n\nI work out, groom myself, and I'm sure my looks have nothing to do with it anyway. It would be nice to have an outside opinion without going to my friends about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So some background first. My family is a uber health conscious crazy about healthy food and I agree with that for the most part. But I can't just eat healthy food every day without a single bit of sugar. So I go to a fast food place once a month to get my fix. I usually eat it at home in the comfort of my computer playing games till my parents get home, but if they found out they would probably beat me for this. So I got a bright idea to burn the paper bag and wrapper that it comes in and carefully collect those ashes and throw it outside.\n\nI do this once a month and throw the ashes over some little flowers in my backyard. I do this steadily for a few months and nothing goes wrong. Well one day at school we have to take home this fish once a week or so to collect data on its habits. Well I take a fish home every week and then I always take it back to school the next day at 5 in the morning. Well my neighbors see me come home sometimes because they're this amazing old couple who just sits and watches the outdoors together and they probably see me come home with a fish every week or so.\n\nSo every week I take home a fish but since I leave so early they never see the fish leave my house. Then they see me in the afternoons after I come home go outside and spread some ashes over some flowers because in my mind I think ashes are good for plants so I do that, but this old couple thought I was cremating my dead fish and tossing their ashes once a month.\n\nBeing the amazingly nice people they are, after last weeks burning of evidence, they stop by and they're carrying a little fish tank with this beta fish in it and when I open the door they say they saw me spreading the ashes of my fish and hoped this fish would outlive the rest and then they said goodbye and left me there kinda shocked at what just happened. It was then that I realized that they thought my fish were tragically dying every month and that I kept replacing them in hopes of outliving the rest."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So some background first. My family is a uber health conscious crazy about healthy food and I agree with that for the most part. But I can't just eat healthy food every day without a single bit of sugar. So I go to a fast food place once a month to get my fix. I usually eat it at home in the comfort of my computer playing games till my parents get home, but if they found out they would probably beat me for this. So I got a bright idea to burn the paper bag and wrapper that it comes in and carefully collect those ashes and throw it outside.\n\nI do this once a month and throw the ashes over some little flowers in my backyard. I do this steadily for a few months and nothing goes wrong. Well one day at school we have to take home this fish once a week or so to collect data on its habits. Well I take a fish home every week and then I always take it back to school the next day at 5 in the morning. Well my neighbors see me come home sometimes because they're this amazing old couple who just sits and watches the outdoors together and they probably see me come home with a fish every week or so.\n\nSo every week I take home a fish but since I leave so early they never see the fish leave my house. Then they see me in the afternoons after I come home go outside and spread some ashes over some flowers because in my mind I think ashes are good for plants so I do that, but this old couple thought I was cremating my dead fish and tossing their ashes once a month.\n\nBeing the amazingly nice people they are, after last weeks burning of evidence, they stop by and they're carrying a little fish tank with this beta fish in it and when I open the door they say they saw me spreading the ashes of my fish and hoped this fish would outlive the rest and then they said goodbye and left me there kinda shocked at what just happened. It was then that I realized that they thought my fish were tragically dying every month and that I kept replacing them in hopes of outliving the rest."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO (21M) and I (20F) have been together 5 years and talk about marriage somewhat often. We love each other very much and are always happy thinking of our futures together. However, every time I think about our future especially the idea of a wedding, I get worried due to his family. They are emotionally (and on occasion physically) abusive people who take their hatred of each other out on their \"unwanted\" son. They have caused horrible psychological scarring in my SO and I hate being around them. They've never been very kind/receptive to me and I get terrible anxiety whenever I have to be around them. They are your purest form of white trash. SO knows how awful they are and has frankly said that maybe we should just never tell them if/when we get married. Just wondering if anyone out there has had to deal with a similar situation and how to handle the possibility of a wedding without one of the families involved?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO (21M) and I (20F) have been together 5 years and talk about marriage somewhat often. We love each other very much and are always happy thinking of our futures together. However, every time I think about our future especially the idea of a wedding, I get worried due to his family. They are emotionally (and on occasion physically) abusive people who take their hatred of each other out on their \"unwanted\" son. They have caused horrible psychological scarring in my SO and I hate being around them. They've never been very kind/receptive to me and I get terrible anxiety whenever I have to be around them. They are your purest form of white trash. SO knows how awful they are and has frankly said that maybe we should just never tell them if/when we get married. Just wondering if anyone out there has had to deal with a similar situation and how to handle the possibility of a wedding without one of the families involved?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO (21M) and I (20F) have been together 5 years and talk about marriage somewhat often. We love each other very much and are always happy thinking of our futures together. However, every time I think about our future especially the idea of a wedding, I get worried due to his family. They are emotionally (and on occasion physically) abusive people who take their hatred of each other out on their \"unwanted\" son. They have caused horrible psychological scarring in my SO and I hate being around them. They've never been very kind/receptive to me and I get terrible anxiety whenever I have to be around them. They are your purest form of white trash. SO knows how awful they are and has frankly said that maybe we should just never tell them if/when we get married. Just wondering if anyone out there has had to deal with a similar situation and how to handle the possibility of a wedding without one of the families involved?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO (21M) and I (20F) have been together 5 years and talk about marriage somewhat often. We love each other very much and are always happy thinking of our futures together. However, every time I think about our future especially the idea of a wedding, I get worried due to his family. They are emotionally (and on occasion physically) abusive people who take their hatred of each other out on their \"unwanted\" son. They have caused horrible psychological scarring in my SO and I hate being around them. They've never been very kind/receptive to me and I get terrible anxiety whenever I have to be around them. They are your purest form of white trash. SO knows how awful they are and has frankly said that maybe we should just never tell them if/when we get married. Just wondering if anyone out there has had to deal with a similar situation and how to handle the possibility of a wedding without one of the families involved?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO (21M) and I (20F) have been together 5 years and talk about marriage somewhat often. We love each other very much and are always happy thinking of our futures together. However, every time I think about our future especially the idea of a wedding, I get worried due to his family. They are emotionally (and on occasion physically) abusive people who take their hatred of each other out on their \"unwanted\" son. They have caused horrible psychological scarring in my SO and I hate being around them. They've never been very kind/receptive to me and I get terrible anxiety whenever I have to be around them. They are your purest form of white trash. SO knows how awful they are and has frankly said that maybe we should just never tell them if/when we get married. Just wondering if anyone out there has had to deal with a similar situation and how to handle the possibility of a wedding without one of the families involved?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: SO (21M) and I (20F) have been together 5 years and talk about marriage somewhat often. We love each other very much and are always happy thinking of our futures together. However, every time I think about our future especially the idea of a wedding, I get worried due to his family. They are emotionally (and on occasion physically) abusive people who take their hatred of each other out on their \"unwanted\" son. They have caused horrible psychological scarring in my SO and I hate being around them. They've never been very kind/receptive to me and I get terrible anxiety whenever I have to be around them. They are your purest form of white trash. SO knows how awful they are and has frankly said that maybe we should just never tell them if/when we get married. Just wondering if anyone out there has had to deal with a similar situation and how to handle the possibility of a wedding without one of the families involved?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend's parents live about an hour and a half away. We visit them regularly (used to be every other weekend pre-dog). Since adopting Cocoa, we have visited them 3 times (we have had her two months). She comes along. She is great in the car!\n\nThey have a dog, a 3 year old collie/border collie cross. She's a bit neurotic and under socialized. And morbidly obese. She's nice enough I guess, and they're trying to bring down her weight, but they only recently started walking her regularly. I suspect she's pretty under exercised but she's also a pretty lazy dog (maybe because of her weight.) \n\nSo the weird bit. When Cocoa is allowed to approach Roxy after they greet/play and Roxy is panting, she immediately goes for Roxy's tongue and mouth and tries licking/nibbling. She does this so much that Roxy gets agitated and the bickering starts. \n\nNote that we have been pretty slow on the introductions in that we keep them separated most of the visit, let them romp outside to tucker them out off leash (they play hard, but lots of bows and positive body language, so they seem to get along), and have walked them together. They have gotten more used to each other with every visit. They just can't seem to settle when off leash around each other. They have to be physically separated or Roxy will approach Cocoa and Cocoa will keep trying to lick her. I am concerned the nibbling and subsequent romping will lead to aggression; it hasn't so far, but we separate them until they settle again. \n\nI just can't understand why Cocoa wants to lick/nibble Roxy's tongue. She doesn't do this to dogs at the dog park. She's pretty independent and happy to leave other dogs alone. Except Roxy. She kind of fixates and the two just can't rest without us physically intervening.\n\nWhat causes this behavior and is it something I should be worried about or can do something to alleviate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend's parents live about an hour and a half away. We visit them regularly (used to be every other weekend pre-dog). Since adopting Cocoa, we have visited them 3 times (we have had her two months). She comes along. She is great in the car!\n\nThey have a dog, a 3 year old collie/border collie cross. She's a bit neurotic and under socialized. And morbidly obese. She's nice enough I guess, and they're trying to bring down her weight, but they only recently started walking her regularly. I suspect she's pretty under exercised but she's also a pretty lazy dog (maybe because of her weight.) \n\nSo the weird bit. When Cocoa is allowed to approach Roxy after they greet/play and Roxy is panting, she immediately goes for Roxy's tongue and mouth and tries licking/nibbling. She does this so much that Roxy gets agitated and the bickering starts. \n\nNote that we have been pretty slow on the introductions in that we keep them separated most of the visit, let them romp outside to tucker them out off leash (they play hard, but lots of bows and positive body language, so they seem to get along), and have walked them together. They have gotten more used to each other with every visit. They just can't seem to settle when off leash around each other. They have to be physically separated or Roxy will approach Cocoa and Cocoa will keep trying to lick her. I am concerned the nibbling and subsequent romping will lead to aggression; it hasn't so far, but we separate them until they settle again. \n\nI just can't understand why Cocoa wants to lick/nibble Roxy's tongue. She doesn't do this to dogs at the dog park. She's pretty independent and happy to leave other dogs alone. Except Roxy. She kind of fixates and the two just can't rest without us physically intervening.\n\nWhat causes this behavior and is it something I should be worried about or can do something to alleviate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend's parents live about an hour and a half away. We visit them regularly (used to be every other weekend pre-dog). Since adopting Cocoa, we have visited them 3 times (we have had her two months). She comes along. She is great in the car!\n\nThey have a dog, a 3 year old collie/border collie cross. She's a bit neurotic and under socialized. And morbidly obese. She's nice enough I guess, and they're trying to bring down her weight, but they only recently started walking her regularly. I suspect she's pretty under exercised but she's also a pretty lazy dog (maybe because of her weight.) \n\nSo the weird bit. When Cocoa is allowed to approach Roxy after they greet/play and Roxy is panting, she immediately goes for Roxy's tongue and mouth and tries licking/nibbling. She does this so much that Roxy gets agitated and the bickering starts. \n\nNote that we have been pretty slow on the introductions in that we keep them separated most of the visit, let them romp outside to tucker them out off leash (they play hard, but lots of bows and positive body language, so they seem to get along), and have walked them together. They have gotten more used to each other with every visit. They just can't seem to settle when off leash around each other. They have to be physically separated or Roxy will approach Cocoa and Cocoa will keep trying to lick her. I am concerned the nibbling and subsequent romping will lead to aggression; it hasn't so far, but we separate them until they settle again. \n\nI just can't understand why Cocoa wants to lick/nibble Roxy's tongue. She doesn't do this to dogs at the dog park. She's pretty independent and happy to leave other dogs alone. Except Roxy. She kind of fixates and the two just can't rest without us physically intervening.\n\nWhat causes this behavior and is it something I should be worried about or can do something to alleviate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, we had a pretty big argument. She was upset over it, and I asked her repeatedly if there was anything that I could do to help. She said that she was fine and during the week we had tons of fun so I genuinely believed she was fine. The next few days she messaged me telling me that she's horribly sad, and that she can't believe that I let her feel sad when we were together. \n(Oh! Quick note, she lives in a college a few hours away, and comes to visit every other weekend along with her best friend.) \nNow, this isn't the first time she gas done this, this happens weekly, where she does not communicate clearly how she's feeling and what she wants me to do, then she explodes on me. \nI was furious that she would have the nerve to tell me that I didn't try to make her feel better when I had at one point begged for her to tell me how she was really feeling, so I ended things with her compulsively (over text, so a total dick move on my part). She then called me a few seconds later telling me she was sorry and that she was wrong. I told her that I made a super compulsive decision when I \"ended things\" and that I was sorry and didn't mean it at all. That I just acted without thinking.\nEverything was fine and dandy, until recently.\n This is the problem:\nNow she's telling me that she is VERY sad because I broke up with her (even after I apologized to her for doing so, and practically begged her to believe that I didn't mean it) and she says that she is feeling insecure about the relationship because I had \"ended things.\" She wants me to make it up to her by doing this grand gesture for her as a way of showing her that I really do love her (which I do) and to make her secure of this relationship. She wants me to make her feel better. And she's very upset that I have not done it yet.\n\nIs that fair of her? I don't understand how it could be, but maybe I'm wrong. And what can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, we had a pretty big argument. She was upset over it, and I asked her repeatedly if there was anything that I could do to help. She said that she was fine and during the week we had tons of fun so I genuinely believed she was fine. The next few days she messaged me telling me that she's horribly sad, and that she can't believe that I let her feel sad when we were together. \n(Oh! Quick note, she lives in a college a few hours away, and comes to visit every other weekend along with her best friend.) \nNow, this isn't the first time she gas done this, this happens weekly, where she does not communicate clearly how she's feeling and what she wants me to do, then she explodes on me. \nI was furious that she would have the nerve to tell me that I didn't try to make her feel better when I had at one point begged for her to tell me how she was really feeling, so I ended things with her compulsively (over text, so a total dick move on my part). She then called me a few seconds later telling me she was sorry and that she was wrong. I told her that I made a super compulsive decision when I \"ended things\" and that I was sorry and didn't mean it at all. That I just acted without thinking.\nEverything was fine and dandy, until recently.\n This is the problem:\nNow she's telling me that she is VERY sad because I broke up with her (even after I apologized to her for doing so, and practically begged her to believe that I didn't mean it) and she says that she is feeling insecure about the relationship because I had \"ended things.\" She wants me to make it up to her by doing this grand gesture for her as a way of showing her that I really do love her (which I do) and to make her secure of this relationship. She wants me to make her feel better. And she's very upset that I have not done it yet.\n\nIs that fair of her? I don't understand how it could be, but maybe I'm wrong. And what can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few months ago, we had a pretty big argument. She was upset over it, and I asked her repeatedly if there was anything that I could do to help. She said that she was fine and during the week we had tons of fun so I genuinely believed she was fine. The next few days she messaged me telling me that she's horribly sad, and that she can't believe that I let her feel sad when we were together. \n(Oh! Quick note, she lives in a college a few hours away, and comes to visit every other weekend along with her best friend.) \nNow, this isn't the first time she gas done this, this happens weekly, where she does not communicate clearly how she's feeling and what she wants me to do, then she explodes on me. \nI was furious that she would have the nerve to tell me that I didn't try to make her feel better when I had at one point begged for her to tell me how she was really feeling, so I ended things with her compulsively (over text, so a total dick move on my part). She then called me a few seconds later telling me she was sorry and that she was wrong. I told her that I made a super compulsive decision when I \"ended things\" and that I was sorry and didn't mean it at all. That I just acted without thinking.\nEverything was fine and dandy, until recently.\n This is the problem:\nNow she's telling me that she is VERY sad because I broke up with her (even after I apologized to her for doing so, and practically begged her to believe that I didn't mean it) and she says that she is feeling insecure about the relationship because I had \"ended things.\" She wants me to make it up to her by doing this grand gesture for her as a way of showing her that I really do love her (which I do) and to make her secure of this relationship. She wants me to make her feel better. And she's very upset that I have not done it yet.\n\nIs that fair of her? I don't understand how it could be, but maybe I'm wrong. And what can I do to solve this issue?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically.my boyfriend cheated, in my eyes. He got emotionally involved with an ex and I caught him. He was aware I was sensitive about this ex and he disregarded my emotions and continued talking to her in a sexual manner. He has said sorry and promised to stop contacting her and I think he has, to an extent. But he has moved away since for a new job opportunity and wants me to move with him when I'm done with school. Meanwhile I'm constantly worried he is being unfaithful.one of the conditions we made when resolving the lying with his ex was that he would be completely transparent and open with me about things. I thought over communication would help with our long distance and trust issues and he agreed. He promised he would talk to me about where he was and who he's with just so we can build trust and to include me in his day to day life.\n\nBut he's not been as open as he said he would be. He withholds names (I think he thinks I'll freak if he's with a woman) but the fact that he's hiding things is what's bothering me. I just don't know how to stop jumping to conclusions after what happened between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically.my boyfriend cheated, in my eyes. He got emotionally involved with an ex and I caught him. He was aware I was sensitive about this ex and he disregarded my emotions and continued talking to her in a sexual manner. He has said sorry and promised to stop contacting her and I think he has, to an extent. But he has moved away since for a new job opportunity and wants me to move with him when I'm done with school. Meanwhile I'm constantly worried he is being unfaithful.one of the conditions we made when resolving the lying with his ex was that he would be completely transparent and open with me about things. I thought over communication would help with our long distance and trust issues and he agreed. He promised he would talk to me about where he was and who he's with just so we can build trust and to include me in his day to day life.\n\nBut he's not been as open as he said he would be. He withholds names (I think he thinks I'll freak if he's with a woman) but the fact that he's hiding things is what's bothering me. I just don't know how to stop jumping to conclusions after what happened between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically.my boyfriend cheated, in my eyes. He got emotionally involved with an ex and I caught him. He was aware I was sensitive about this ex and he disregarded my emotions and continued talking to her in a sexual manner. He has said sorry and promised to stop contacting her and I think he has, to an extent. But he has moved away since for a new job opportunity and wants me to move with him when I'm done with school. Meanwhile I'm constantly worried he is being unfaithful.one of the conditions we made when resolving the lying with his ex was that he would be completely transparent and open with me about things. I thought over communication would help with our long distance and trust issues and he agreed. He promised he would talk to me about where he was and who he's with just so we can build trust and to include me in his day to day life.\n\nBut he's not been as open as he said he would be. He withholds names (I think he thinks I'll freak if he's with a woman) but the fact that he's hiding things is what's bothering me. I just don't know how to stop jumping to conclusions after what happened between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically.my boyfriend cheated, in my eyes. He got emotionally involved with an ex and I caught him. He was aware I was sensitive about this ex and he disregarded my emotions and continued talking to her in a sexual manner. He has said sorry and promised to stop contacting her and I think he has, to an extent. But he has moved away since for a new job opportunity and wants me to move with him when I'm done with school. Meanwhile I'm constantly worried he is being unfaithful.one of the conditions we made when resolving the lying with his ex was that he would be completely transparent and open with me about things. I thought over communication would help with our long distance and trust issues and he agreed. He promised he would talk to me about where he was and who he's with just so we can build trust and to include me in his day to day life.\n\nBut he's not been as open as he said he would be. He withholds names (I think he thinks I'll freak if he's with a woman) but the fact that he's hiding things is what's bothering me. I just don't know how to stop jumping to conclusions after what happened between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically.my boyfriend cheated, in my eyes. He got emotionally involved with an ex and I caught him. He was aware I was sensitive about this ex and he disregarded my emotions and continued talking to her in a sexual manner. He has said sorry and promised to stop contacting her and I think he has, to an extent. But he has moved away since for a new job opportunity and wants me to move with him when I'm done with school. Meanwhile I'm constantly worried he is being unfaithful.one of the conditions we made when resolving the lying with his ex was that he would be completely transparent and open with me about things. I thought over communication would help with our long distance and trust issues and he agreed. He promised he would talk to me about where he was and who he's with just so we can build trust and to include me in his day to day life.\n\nBut he's not been as open as he said he would be. He withholds names (I think he thinks I'll freak if he's with a woman) but the fact that he's hiding things is what's bothering me. I just don't know how to stop jumping to conclusions after what happened between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically.my boyfriend cheated, in my eyes. He got emotionally involved with an ex and I caught him. He was aware I was sensitive about this ex and he disregarded my emotions and continued talking to her in a sexual manner. He has said sorry and promised to stop contacting her and I think he has, to an extent. But he has moved away since for a new job opportunity and wants me to move with him when I'm done with school. Meanwhile I'm constantly worried he is being unfaithful.one of the conditions we made when resolving the lying with his ex was that he would be completely transparent and open with me about things. I thought over communication would help with our long distance and trust issues and he agreed. He promised he would talk to me about where he was and who he's with just so we can build trust and to include me in his day to day life.\n\nBut he's not been as open as he said he would be. He withholds names (I think he thinks I'll freak if he's with a woman) but the fact that he's hiding things is what's bothering me. I just don't know how to stop jumping to conclusions after what happened between us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yeah, not really sure what to do at this point. I've known this girl for most of my life. We're super close. When we were younger and first met we \"dated\" for a period of time, but back then it was a long distance internet thing and it didn't really mean anything. It ended peacefully, and we've been close friends ever since.\n\nThe thing is, I just don't know what to make of the friendship anymore. I have feelings for the girl, and I try to not let it get in the way, but it's hard sometimes. It hurts me when I see her pursue a love interest only to get played for a fool in the dudes childish games.\n\nThere's time where I feel like maybe the feelings I have might be mutual, but I'm not 100% sure and I don't want to act on it and then make things awkward. We openly flirt and joke around, but I've never really thought more of it than just playfulness between friends that just happen to be of opposite gender.\n\nI don't know, maybe I'm just crazy and I should just be thankful for the great friendship I have, but part of me isn't sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yeah, not really sure what to do at this point. I've known this girl for most of my life. We're super close. When we were younger and first met we \"dated\" for a period of time, but back then it was a long distance internet thing and it didn't really mean anything. It ended peacefully, and we've been close friends ever since.\n\nThe thing is, I just don't know what to make of the friendship anymore. I have feelings for the girl, and I try to not let it get in the way, but it's hard sometimes. It hurts me when I see her pursue a love interest only to get played for a fool in the dudes childish games.\n\nThere's time where I feel like maybe the feelings I have might be mutual, but I'm not 100% sure and I don't want to act on it and then make things awkward. We openly flirt and joke around, but I've never really thought more of it than just playfulness between friends that just happen to be of opposite gender.\n\nI don't know, maybe I'm just crazy and I should just be thankful for the great friendship I have, but part of me isn't sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yeah, not really sure what to do at this point. I've known this girl for most of my life. We're super close. When we were younger and first met we \"dated\" for a period of time, but back then it was a long distance internet thing and it didn't really mean anything. It ended peacefully, and we've been close friends ever since.\n\nThe thing is, I just don't know what to make of the friendship anymore. I have feelings for the girl, and I try to not let it get in the way, but it's hard sometimes. It hurts me when I see her pursue a love interest only to get played for a fool in the dudes childish games.\n\nThere's time where I feel like maybe the feelings I have might be mutual, but I'm not 100% sure and I don't want to act on it and then make things awkward. We openly flirt and joke around, but I've never really thought more of it than just playfulness between friends that just happen to be of opposite gender.\n\nI don't know, maybe I'm just crazy and I should just be thankful for the great friendship I have, but part of me isn't sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yeah, not really sure what to do at this point. I've known this girl for most of my life. We're super close. When we were younger and first met we \"dated\" for a period of time, but back then it was a long distance internet thing and it didn't really mean anything. It ended peacefully, and we've been close friends ever since.\n\nThe thing is, I just don't know what to make of the friendship anymore. I have feelings for the girl, and I try to not let it get in the way, but it's hard sometimes. It hurts me when I see her pursue a love interest only to get played for a fool in the dudes childish games.\n\nThere's time where I feel like maybe the feelings I have might be mutual, but I'm not 100% sure and I don't want to act on it and then make things awkward. We openly flirt and joke around, but I've never really thought more of it than just playfulness between friends that just happen to be of opposite gender.\n\nI don't know, maybe I'm just crazy and I should just be thankful for the great friendship I have, but part of me isn't sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yeah, not really sure what to do at this point. I've known this girl for most of my life. We're super close. When we were younger and first met we \"dated\" for a period of time, but back then it was a long distance internet thing and it didn't really mean anything. It ended peacefully, and we've been close friends ever since.\n\nThe thing is, I just don't know what to make of the friendship anymore. I have feelings for the girl, and I try to not let it get in the way, but it's hard sometimes. It hurts me when I see her pursue a love interest only to get played for a fool in the dudes childish games.\n\nThere's time where I feel like maybe the feelings I have might be mutual, but I'm not 100% sure and I don't want to act on it and then make things awkward. We openly flirt and joke around, but I've never really thought more of it than just playfulness between friends that just happen to be of opposite gender.\n\nI don't know, maybe I'm just crazy and I should just be thankful for the great friendship I have, but part of me isn't sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yeah, not really sure what to do at this point. I've known this girl for most of my life. We're super close. When we were younger and first met we \"dated\" for a period of time, but back then it was a long distance internet thing and it didn't really mean anything. It ended peacefully, and we've been close friends ever since.\n\nThe thing is, I just don't know what to make of the friendship anymore. I have feelings for the girl, and I try to not let it get in the way, but it's hard sometimes. It hurts me when I see her pursue a love interest only to get played for a fool in the dudes childish games.\n\nThere's time where I feel like maybe the feelings I have might be mutual, but I'm not 100% sure and I don't want to act on it and then make things awkward. We openly flirt and joke around, but I've never really thought more of it than just playfulness between friends that just happen to be of opposite gender.\n\nI don't know, maybe I'm just crazy and I should just be thankful for the great friendship I have, but part of me isn't sure."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I can't seem to get rid of several people I've basically cut out from my life after an issue that's been ongoing for the past couple of years.I'm a junior in uni,\nand freshman and sophomore year I tried to kill myself after being with depression for the better part of my entire life. I failed with both attempts, and after\nthe second I basically gave up on the idea of killing myself so I just kinda live and go to school. \n\nWell, it's approaching the end of junior year and my ex-friends have been getting fairly intrusive in my life. I figured out why a couple of weeks ago, and I told them very plainly sent them a mass text that told them that I was\nfine and they needed to drop it. They ignored my wishes and kept trying to interact with me. About 2 weeks ago I told them that I was done, and I didn't want to see them\never again. I said some nasty shit but it seemed to work and most of them gave up at the time. \n\nFast forward to now, and the same shit has started up again. They're texting and messaging like we're still friends and nothing ever happened. Most people would be like \"cool,\nmy friends listened it's ok now\", but what they did just irritated me even more. I invited over the defacto coordinator of my friends to tell her to butt out. I forgot that I was\nin the process of moving and she noticed, she asked, and I slipped and said I was moving. Now I can't get them from subtley trying to ascertain where I'm moving too.\n\nShould I just block them and ignore them? It's hard for me to just ignore blatant ignorances, but would it be better? I want them to understand that I don't want to deal with them,\nand it's not some plea for attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I can't seem to get rid of several people I've basically cut out from my life after an issue that's been ongoing for the past couple of years.I'm a junior in uni,\nand freshman and sophomore year I tried to kill myself after being with depression for the better part of my entire life. I failed with both attempts, and after\nthe second I basically gave up on the idea of killing myself so I just kinda live and go to school. \n\nWell, it's approaching the end of junior year and my ex-friends have been getting fairly intrusive in my life. I figured out why a couple of weeks ago, and I told them very plainly sent them a mass text that told them that I was\nfine and they needed to drop it. They ignored my wishes and kept trying to interact with me. About 2 weeks ago I told them that I was done, and I didn't want to see them\never again. I said some nasty shit but it seemed to work and most of them gave up at the time. \n\nFast forward to now, and the same shit has started up again. They're texting and messaging like we're still friends and nothing ever happened. Most people would be like \"cool,\nmy friends listened it's ok now\", but what they did just irritated me even more. I invited over the defacto coordinator of my friends to tell her to butt out. I forgot that I was\nin the process of moving and she noticed, she asked, and I slipped and said I was moving. Now I can't get them from subtley trying to ascertain where I'm moving too.\n\nShould I just block them and ignore them? It's hard for me to just ignore blatant ignorances, but would it be better? I want them to understand that I don't want to deal with them,\nand it's not some plea for attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I can't seem to get rid of several people I've basically cut out from my life after an issue that's been ongoing for the past couple of years.I'm a junior in uni,\nand freshman and sophomore year I tried to kill myself after being with depression for the better part of my entire life. I failed with both attempts, and after\nthe second I basically gave up on the idea of killing myself so I just kinda live and go to school. \n\nWell, it's approaching the end of junior year and my ex-friends have been getting fairly intrusive in my life. I figured out why a couple of weeks ago, and I told them very plainly sent them a mass text that told them that I was\nfine and they needed to drop it. They ignored my wishes and kept trying to interact with me. About 2 weeks ago I told them that I was done, and I didn't want to see them\never again. I said some nasty shit but it seemed to work and most of them gave up at the time. \n\nFast forward to now, and the same shit has started up again. They're texting and messaging like we're still friends and nothing ever happened. Most people would be like \"cool,\nmy friends listened it's ok now\", but what they did just irritated me even more. I invited over the defacto coordinator of my friends to tell her to butt out. I forgot that I was\nin the process of moving and she noticed, she asked, and I slipped and said I was moving. Now I can't get them from subtley trying to ascertain where I'm moving too.\n\nShould I just block them and ignore them? It's hard for me to just ignore blatant ignorances, but would it be better? I want them to understand that I don't want to deal with them,\nand it's not some plea for attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Welp. I feel pretty stupid right now and am at a bit of a loss. Met a girl a few weeks ago through a mutual friend, she made it pretty clear that she's interested in me, we spent a couple weeks texting and FB messaging as I was working out of town. I was all excited, arranged a date last week, it went good so went on another one last night, which also went really well. She's nice, pretty, and intelligent, and I do enjoy spending time with her. We laugh and have great conversation. but as soon as we part, I feel like I'm not attracted to her, and her (perceived) flaws come rushing to the forefront of my mind: she has a negative attitude, she has poor posture, she's too short for me, she interrupts. To make matters worse, I realised that I'm still hung up on another girl - pretty much my dream girl - who's already told me she'll only ever see me as a friend. Stupid, right? I thought I'd come to terms with that and moved on months ago. Nope. I'm mentally comparing her to the current girl.\n\nI like this girl and really want to give her a shot, but the only time I feel attraction is when we're together and I think that's due to my own insecurity and need for physical contact. The rest of the time, responding to her feels like a nuisance, thinking about her conjures only her negative traits, and I worry that if I follow this through I'll be settling just for the sake of having a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Welp. I feel pretty stupid right now and am at a bit of a loss. Met a girl a few weeks ago through a mutual friend, she made it pretty clear that she's interested in me, we spent a couple weeks texting and FB messaging as I was working out of town. I was all excited, arranged a date last week, it went good so went on another one last night, which also went really well. She's nice, pretty, and intelligent, and I do enjoy spending time with her. We laugh and have great conversation. but as soon as we part, I feel like I'm not attracted to her, and her (perceived) flaws come rushing to the forefront of my mind: she has a negative attitude, she has poor posture, she's too short for me, she interrupts. To make matters worse, I realised that I'm still hung up on another girl - pretty much my dream girl - who's already told me she'll only ever see me as a friend. Stupid, right? I thought I'd come to terms with that and moved on months ago. Nope. I'm mentally comparing her to the current girl.\n\nI like this girl and really want to give her a shot, but the only time I feel attraction is when we're together and I think that's due to my own insecurity and need for physical contact. The rest of the time, responding to her feels like a nuisance, thinking about her conjures only her negative traits, and I worry that if I follow this through I'll be settling just for the sake of having a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Welp. I feel pretty stupid right now and am at a bit of a loss. Met a girl a few weeks ago through a mutual friend, she made it pretty clear that she's interested in me, we spent a couple weeks texting and FB messaging as I was working out of town. I was all excited, arranged a date last week, it went good so went on another one last night, which also went really well. She's nice, pretty, and intelligent, and I do enjoy spending time with her. We laugh and have great conversation. but as soon as we part, I feel like I'm not attracted to her, and her (perceived) flaws come rushing to the forefront of my mind: she has a negative attitude, she has poor posture, she's too short for me, she interrupts. To make matters worse, I realised that I'm still hung up on another girl - pretty much my dream girl - who's already told me she'll only ever see me as a friend. Stupid, right? I thought I'd come to terms with that and moved on months ago. Nope. I'm mentally comparing her to the current girl.\n\nI like this girl and really want to give her a shot, but the only time I feel attraction is when we're together and I think that's due to my own insecurity and need for physical contact. The rest of the time, responding to her feels like a nuisance, thinking about her conjures only her negative traits, and I worry that if I follow this through I'll be settling just for the sake of having a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm admitting I've been very lazy the past 2.5 months. I haven't done any runs. I haven't been to the gym. \n\nI'm most upset about the no running. That was my \"me time\". I recently had a major change in my daily routine. I went from not working or doing anything during the day for the past two years. to being a nanny for 7 weeks from 6am-5pm and then working at a local retail store. to then finding a full time job that is PERFECT for me. \n\nI'm having a really hard time adjusting to the schedule and simply put. I just don't want to do anything when I get home from work. \n\nIts also summer on Long Island and its like a sauna 90% of the days. The air is thick and humid. \n\nI don't know if part of my issue is also that I'm not eating correctly and taking my supplements lately. I'm a gastric bypass patient. Almost 15 months post op. Down 188lbs. I feel like my body is done losing and I think that is also part of my problem. \n\nI feel like I need an ass kicking or a reboot. \n\nI need my mojo back. I need to get back on the pavement. I miss it. My body misses it. My back has been killing me and I know its because I'm not releasing the tension. \n\nI'm just having a hard time getting back into it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm admitting I've been very lazy the past 2.5 months. I haven't done any runs. I haven't been to the gym. \n\nI'm most upset about the no running. That was my \"me time\". I recently had a major change in my daily routine. I went from not working or doing anything during the day for the past two years. to being a nanny for 7 weeks from 6am-5pm and then working at a local retail store. to then finding a full time job that is PERFECT for me. \n\nI'm having a really hard time adjusting to the schedule and simply put. I just don't want to do anything when I get home from work. \n\nIts also summer on Long Island and its like a sauna 90% of the days. The air is thick and humid. \n\nI don't know if part of my issue is also that I'm not eating correctly and taking my supplements lately. I'm a gastric bypass patient. Almost 15 months post op. Down 188lbs. I feel like my body is done losing and I think that is also part of my problem. \n\nI feel like I need an ass kicking or a reboot. \n\nI need my mojo back. I need to get back on the pavement. I miss it. My body misses it. My back has been killing me and I know its because I'm not releasing the tension. \n\nI'm just having a hard time getting back into it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm admitting I've been very lazy the past 2.5 months. I haven't done any runs. I haven't been to the gym. \n\nI'm most upset about the no running. That was my \"me time\". I recently had a major change in my daily routine. I went from not working or doing anything during the day for the past two years. to being a nanny for 7 weeks from 6am-5pm and then working at a local retail store. to then finding a full time job that is PERFECT for me. \n\nI'm having a really hard time adjusting to the schedule and simply put. I just don't want to do anything when I get home from work. \n\nIts also summer on Long Island and its like a sauna 90% of the days. The air is thick and humid. \n\nI don't know if part of my issue is also that I'm not eating correctly and taking my supplements lately. I'm a gastric bypass patient. Almost 15 months post op. Down 188lbs. I feel like my body is done losing and I think that is also part of my problem. \n\nI feel like I need an ass kicking or a reboot. \n\nI need my mojo back. I need to get back on the pavement. I miss it. My body misses it. My back has been killing me and I know its because I'm not releasing the tension. \n\nI'm just having a hard time getting back into it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm admitting I've been very lazy the past 2.5 months. I haven't done any runs. I haven't been to the gym. \n\nI'm most upset about the no running. That was my \"me time\". I recently had a major change in my daily routine. I went from not working or doing anything during the day for the past two years. to being a nanny for 7 weeks from 6am-5pm and then working at a local retail store. to then finding a full time job that is PERFECT for me. \n\nI'm having a really hard time adjusting to the schedule and simply put. I just don't want to do anything when I get home from work. \n\nIts also summer on Long Island and its like a sauna 90% of the days. The air is thick and humid. \n\nI don't know if part of my issue is also that I'm not eating correctly and taking my supplements lately. I'm a gastric bypass patient. Almost 15 months post op. Down 188lbs. I feel like my body is done losing and I think that is also part of my problem. \n\nI feel like I need an ass kicking or a reboot. \n\nI need my mojo back. I need to get back on the pavement. I miss it. My body misses it. My back has been killing me and I know its because I'm not releasing the tension. \n\nI'm just having a hard time getting back into it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm admitting I've been very lazy the past 2.5 months. I haven't done any runs. I haven't been to the gym. \n\nI'm most upset about the no running. That was my \"me time\". I recently had a major change in my daily routine. I went from not working or doing anything during the day for the past two years. to being a nanny for 7 weeks from 6am-5pm and then working at a local retail store. to then finding a full time job that is PERFECT for me. \n\nI'm having a really hard time adjusting to the schedule and simply put. I just don't want to do anything when I get home from work. \n\nIts also summer on Long Island and its like a sauna 90% of the days. The air is thick and humid. \n\nI don't know if part of my issue is also that I'm not eating correctly and taking my supplements lately. I'm a gastric bypass patient. Almost 15 months post op. Down 188lbs. I feel like my body is done losing and I think that is also part of my problem. \n\nI feel like I need an ass kicking or a reboot. \n\nI need my mojo back. I need to get back on the pavement. I miss it. My body misses it. My back has been killing me and I know its because I'm not releasing the tension. \n\nI'm just having a hard time getting back into it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm admitting I've been very lazy the past 2.5 months. I haven't done any runs. I haven't been to the gym. \n\nI'm most upset about the no running. That was my \"me time\". I recently had a major change in my daily routine. I went from not working or doing anything during the day for the past two years. to being a nanny for 7 weeks from 6am-5pm and then working at a local retail store. to then finding a full time job that is PERFECT for me. \n\nI'm having a really hard time adjusting to the schedule and simply put. I just don't want to do anything when I get home from work. \n\nIts also summer on Long Island and its like a sauna 90% of the days. The air is thick and humid. \n\nI don't know if part of my issue is also that I'm not eating correctly and taking my supplements lately. I'm a gastric bypass patient. Almost 15 months post op. Down 188lbs. I feel like my body is done losing and I think that is also part of my problem. \n\nI feel like I need an ass kicking or a reboot. \n\nI need my mojo back. I need to get back on the pavement. I miss it. My body misses it. My back has been killing me and I know its because I'm not releasing the tension. \n\nI'm just having a hard time getting back into it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night I went over to my best friend's place and we were drinking and I eventually got fairly drunk and my gay friend was being a bit suggestive. In my less than ideal state of mind decided well here's my chance to try doing stuff with a guy. \n\nThere was nothing intimate about it at all and he just did oral on me for a few minutes before I tried doing it on him. I stopped after 2 minutes because I kinda realized what I had done.\n\nImmediately I recognized it had been a terrible idea because I have a girlfriend. All I saw it as, was a chance to experiment with a guy in case I don't get the chance in the future if my girlfriend and I who have been together for nearly 3 years now was to be a forever kind of thing.\n\nThough now I am seriously regretting it and he has said that he wouldn't ever tell anyone about it. I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend or not because it was just a one off thing that I don't have any interest in doing again.\n\nI don't think she would take it well at all even though it meant absolutely nothing to me.\n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night I went over to my best friend's place and we were drinking and I eventually got fairly drunk and my gay friend was being a bit suggestive. In my less than ideal state of mind decided well here's my chance to try doing stuff with a guy. \n\nThere was nothing intimate about it at all and he just did oral on me for a few minutes before I tried doing it on him. I stopped after 2 minutes because I kinda realized what I had done.\n\nImmediately I recognized it had been a terrible idea because I have a girlfriend. All I saw it as, was a chance to experiment with a guy in case I don't get the chance in the future if my girlfriend and I who have been together for nearly 3 years now was to be a forever kind of thing.\n\nThough now I am seriously regretting it and he has said that he wouldn't ever tell anyone about it. I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend or not because it was just a one off thing that I don't have any interest in doing again.\n\nI don't think she would take it well at all even though it meant absolutely nothing to me.\n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night I went over to my best friend's place and we were drinking and I eventually got fairly drunk and my gay friend was being a bit suggestive. In my less than ideal state of mind decided well here's my chance to try doing stuff with a guy. \n\nThere was nothing intimate about it at all and he just did oral on me for a few minutes before I tried doing it on him. I stopped after 2 minutes because I kinda realized what I had done.\n\nImmediately I recognized it had been a terrible idea because I have a girlfriend. All I saw it as, was a chance to experiment with a guy in case I don't get the chance in the future if my girlfriend and I who have been together for nearly 3 years now was to be a forever kind of thing.\n\nThough now I am seriously regretting it and he has said that he wouldn't ever tell anyone about it. I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend or not because it was just a one off thing that I don't have any interest in doing again.\n\nI don't think she would take it well at all even though it meant absolutely nothing to me.\n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway, just in case someone sees this. A friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago. A few days later, said friend's brother and ex had sex. It was apparently a one-time thing, and they were both drunk (not an excuse in my book). Normally, I would mind my own damn business, except that my friend recently got back together with this girl. If it was me, and my brother did this, I would want to know. Now, I know his brother, we're not close, but I know him well enough to know that he will never fess up; I highly doubt the girl will, either, but I feel like my friend needs to know about this. \n\n It gets messier. My friend and his brother live together with a few other people, and also work at the same place of business, so somebody will have to move out and get a new job. I just don't see any of it ending well for anybody. The source I heard this from is as reliable as it gets, there is no doubt that it happened. I wish I never would have heard, but I feel as though I now have a responsibility to my friend to let him know. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this incredibly fucked-up situation, and thought I'd ask Reddit for advice. Should I tell him anonymously? I fear he wouldn't believe it from an anonymous source. I'm also worried that the ensuing meltdown could be blamed on me for sticking my nose where it doesn't belong. Thoughts, suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway, just in case someone sees this. A friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago. A few days later, said friend's brother and ex had sex. It was apparently a one-time thing, and they were both drunk (not an excuse in my book). Normally, I would mind my own damn business, except that my friend recently got back together with this girl. If it was me, and my brother did this, I would want to know. Now, I know his brother, we're not close, but I know him well enough to know that he will never fess up; I highly doubt the girl will, either, but I feel like my friend needs to know about this. \n\n It gets messier. My friend and his brother live together with a few other people, and also work at the same place of business, so somebody will have to move out and get a new job. I just don't see any of it ending well for anybody. The source I heard this from is as reliable as it gets, there is no doubt that it happened. I wish I never would have heard, but I feel as though I now have a responsibility to my friend to let him know. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this incredibly fucked-up situation, and thought I'd ask Reddit for advice. Should I tell him anonymously? I fear he wouldn't believe it from an anonymous source. I'm also worried that the ensuing meltdown could be blamed on me for sticking my nose where it doesn't belong. Thoughts, suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway, just in case someone sees this. A friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago. A few days later, said friend's brother and ex had sex. It was apparently a one-time thing, and they were both drunk (not an excuse in my book). Normally, I would mind my own damn business, except that my friend recently got back together with this girl. If it was me, and my brother did this, I would want to know. Now, I know his brother, we're not close, but I know him well enough to know that he will never fess up; I highly doubt the girl will, either, but I feel like my friend needs to know about this. \n\n It gets messier. My friend and his brother live together with a few other people, and also work at the same place of business, so somebody will have to move out and get a new job. I just don't see any of it ending well for anybody. The source I heard this from is as reliable as it gets, there is no doubt that it happened. I wish I never would have heard, but I feel as though I now have a responsibility to my friend to let him know. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this incredibly fucked-up situation, and thought I'd ask Reddit for advice. Should I tell him anonymously? I fear he wouldn't believe it from an anonymous source. I'm also worried that the ensuing meltdown could be blamed on me for sticking my nose where it doesn't belong. Thoughts, suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway, just in case someone sees this. A friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago. A few days later, said friend's brother and ex had sex. It was apparently a one-time thing, and they were both drunk (not an excuse in my book). Normally, I would mind my own damn business, except that my friend recently got back together with this girl. If it was me, and my brother did this, I would want to know. Now, I know his brother, we're not close, but I know him well enough to know that he will never fess up; I highly doubt the girl will, either, but I feel like my friend needs to know about this. \n\n It gets messier. My friend and his brother live together with a few other people, and also work at the same place of business, so somebody will have to move out and get a new job. I just don't see any of it ending well for anybody. The source I heard this from is as reliable as it gets, there is no doubt that it happened. I wish I never would have heard, but I feel as though I now have a responsibility to my friend to let him know. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this incredibly fucked-up situation, and thought I'd ask Reddit for advice. Should I tell him anonymously? I fear he wouldn't believe it from an anonymous source. I'm also worried that the ensuing meltdown could be blamed on me for sticking my nose where it doesn't belong. Thoughts, suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway, just in case someone sees this. A friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago. A few days later, said friend's brother and ex had sex. It was apparently a one-time thing, and they were both drunk (not an excuse in my book). Normally, I would mind my own damn business, except that my friend recently got back together with this girl. If it was me, and my brother did this, I would want to know. Now, I know his brother, we're not close, but I know him well enough to know that he will never fess up; I highly doubt the girl will, either, but I feel like my friend needs to know about this. \n\n It gets messier. My friend and his brother live together with a few other people, and also work at the same place of business, so somebody will have to move out and get a new job. I just don't see any of it ending well for anybody. The source I heard this from is as reliable as it gets, there is no doubt that it happened. I wish I never would have heard, but I feel as though I now have a responsibility to my friend to let him know. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this incredibly fucked-up situation, and thought I'd ask Reddit for advice. Should I tell him anonymously? I fear he wouldn't believe it from an anonymous source. I'm also worried that the ensuing meltdown could be blamed on me for sticking my nose where it doesn't belong. Thoughts, suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ages: 25 male, 24 female\n\nThings are going well. Although we are not \"official\"/boyfriend and girlfriend, we have spent a lot of time together in the last two weeks. Good connection, great sex, we like each other, and I'm pretty sure we're exclusive at this point (official talk about that coming soon), because we've spent every night together.if she's still dating around, they must be 20 minute afternoon dates, or something! Either way:\n\nShe's a foodie; she loves to try new restaurants (often pricey ones), knows *a lot* about different types, styles, ethnicities. She likes exotic and new things in terms of food and frankly, it makes me feel dumb talking to her about food because she knows so much.\n\nI'm a frugal eater. I cook a rice/beans/veggie combo that I put in the fridge and it lasts me for dinner all week. I don't really care about trying new, expensive things every week; as long as I'm eating healthy, I want to spend as little on food as possible. I just don't care about it.\n\nNow, a few weeks in, it's making me uncomfortable going to restaurants and paying a bunch of money. I don't even enjoy the meal; all I think about is \"wow, I could be saving this 30 dollars but instead I'm spending it on an exquisite meal I don't want.\"\n\nI really want to keep spending time with this girl, but I don't want to eat out anymore, or spend money on food. I don't mind treating her every now and then, but I feel like she'd quickly grow bored with my eating habits.\n\nDoes this sound like an irrelevant issue that can be easily worked out? Or is this going to cause problems again and again? If so, should I get out now before spending more time and money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ages: 25 male, 24 female\n\nThings are going well. Although we are not \"official\"/boyfriend and girlfriend, we have spent a lot of time together in the last two weeks. Good connection, great sex, we like each other, and I'm pretty sure we're exclusive at this point (official talk about that coming soon), because we've spent every night together.if she's still dating around, they must be 20 minute afternoon dates, or something! Either way:\n\nShe's a foodie; she loves to try new restaurants (often pricey ones), knows *a lot* about different types, styles, ethnicities. She likes exotic and new things in terms of food and frankly, it makes me feel dumb talking to her about food because she knows so much.\n\nI'm a frugal eater. I cook a rice/beans/veggie combo that I put in the fridge and it lasts me for dinner all week. I don't really care about trying new, expensive things every week; as long as I'm eating healthy, I want to spend as little on food as possible. I just don't care about it.\n\nNow, a few weeks in, it's making me uncomfortable going to restaurants and paying a bunch of money. I don't even enjoy the meal; all I think about is \"wow, I could be saving this 30 dollars but instead I'm spending it on an exquisite meal I don't want.\"\n\nI really want to keep spending time with this girl, but I don't want to eat out anymore, or spend money on food. I don't mind treating her every now and then, but I feel like she'd quickly grow bored with my eating habits.\n\nDoes this sound like an irrelevant issue that can be easily worked out? Or is this going to cause problems again and again? If so, should I get out now before spending more time and money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ages: 25 male, 24 female\n\nThings are going well. Although we are not \"official\"/boyfriend and girlfriend, we have spent a lot of time together in the last two weeks. Good connection, great sex, we like each other, and I'm pretty sure we're exclusive at this point (official talk about that coming soon), because we've spent every night together.if she's still dating around, they must be 20 minute afternoon dates, or something! Either way:\n\nShe's a foodie; she loves to try new restaurants (often pricey ones), knows *a lot* about different types, styles, ethnicities. She likes exotic and new things in terms of food and frankly, it makes me feel dumb talking to her about food because she knows so much.\n\nI'm a frugal eater. I cook a rice/beans/veggie combo that I put in the fridge and it lasts me for dinner all week. I don't really care about trying new, expensive things every week; as long as I'm eating healthy, I want to spend as little on food as possible. I just don't care about it.\n\nNow, a few weeks in, it's making me uncomfortable going to restaurants and paying a bunch of money. I don't even enjoy the meal; all I think about is \"wow, I could be saving this 30 dollars but instead I'm spending it on an exquisite meal I don't want.\"\n\nI really want to keep spending time with this girl, but I don't want to eat out anymore, or spend money on food. I don't mind treating her every now and then, but I feel like she'd quickly grow bored with my eating habits.\n\nDoes this sound like an irrelevant issue that can be easily worked out? Or is this going to cause problems again and again? If so, should I get out now before spending more time and money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n_\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to *there*. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~Rome~ Thailand.\n\n*EEKK* She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here*. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n_\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to *there*. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~Rome~ Thailand.\n\n*EEKK* She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here*. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n_\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to *there*. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~Rome~ Thailand.\n\n*EEKK* She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here*. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n_\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to *there*. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~Rome~ Thailand.\n\n*EEKK* She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here*. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: couple of facts about me:\n\n1.my mom and I don't have the best relationship, and I want to change that\n\n2.my moms always wanted to get a Thai massage, so I said \"what the hell, my treat\"\n\n3.I'm a bit of a horn dog (relevant username)\n\n4.I, like most people, don't think straight when I first wake up\n\n5.I laugh when I'm nervous\n\n_\nToday, I took my mom to get that Thai massage. The thing is, I'm a very stressed man and when she asked me to join her, I thought \"what the hell\" and decided to get a massage of my own, too. I could use a little R&R. My masseuse was this cute Asian lady, who was a gift from the gods at masseusing. Fast forward 20 minutes, I'm out cold\n\nAnyone know that Russel Peters act where he talks about that Thai massage he had? If not, here's the jist: In Thailand, after a massage they \"[finish you off] For whatever reason even before realizing I would be getting a Thai massage today, I was thinking about that act. \n\nI wake up with the Asian rubbing down my inner thighs, and I realize, with every rub she's getting closer to *there*. Obviously she doesn't plan on touching it, but my boner is now about 6 inches farther to my right than she thinks, as my thing was lined in my boxers. Just waking up and all, and being a fucking idiot, I do nothing. I truly think I'm white Russel Peters right now. Well, when in ~Rome~ Thailand.\n\n*EEKK* She got a big handful of something she didn't expect to grab, freaked out and started yelling in *insert language here*. I, now fully awake, start laughing hysterically, 3 feet from my mother, who is now awake and sees this unfold. The manager comes over because I'm a fucking pervert in his eyes and kicks us out on the spot. It's been like 3 hours and I still haven't talked to my mom. Reddit, TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a 4 yr old nephew who is his own person. He's not a fan of playing with most the boys at school cos the play bad guys, and run around with fake guns. He'd rather hang with the teachers or girls, and play their games. Needless to say, the biggest boy in class has started picking on him. The boys birthday is coming up, and he told my nephew he'd get a baby piece of cake, cos he's a baby. On my sisters advice, he told him that's not nice, and to stop. My brother-in-law and myself say he should just ignore him. But now my sis doesn't know rather to have him go to party or not. My nephew wants to, as long as he gets a big kid slice of cake. I adore my little nephew and this breaks my heart, fighting urge to fly 2000 miles a kick a 5yr old. In lieu of that, what's the best advice I can give him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a 4 yr old nephew who is his own person. He's not a fan of playing with most the boys at school cos the play bad guys, and run around with fake guns. He'd rather hang with the teachers or girls, and play their games. Needless to say, the biggest boy in class has started picking on him. The boys birthday is coming up, and he told my nephew he'd get a baby piece of cake, cos he's a baby. On my sisters advice, he told him that's not nice, and to stop. My brother-in-law and myself say he should just ignore him. But now my sis doesn't know rather to have him go to party or not. My nephew wants to, as long as he gets a big kid slice of cake. I adore my little nephew and this breaks my heart, fighting urge to fly 2000 miles a kick a 5yr old. In lieu of that, what's the best advice I can give him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a 4 yr old nephew who is his own person. He's not a fan of playing with most the boys at school cos the play bad guys, and run around with fake guns. He'd rather hang with the teachers or girls, and play their games. Needless to say, the biggest boy in class has started picking on him. The boys birthday is coming up, and he told my nephew he'd get a baby piece of cake, cos he's a baby. On my sisters advice, he told him that's not nice, and to stop. My brother-in-law and myself say he should just ignore him. But now my sis doesn't know rather to have him go to party or not. My nephew wants to, as long as he gets a big kid slice of cake. I adore my little nephew and this breaks my heart, fighting urge to fly 2000 miles a kick a 5yr old. In lieu of that, what's the best advice I can give him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Its a little bit of a long story, but I'll do my best to make this as short as possible. We have been dating for 10 months, almost a year. She has a lot of guy friends, and whenever she hamgs with them I get extremely mad and bothered. We have talked about this before and she doesnt hang with them as much, but still does every so often.\n\nIt urks me to no end when she does, i know the guys she hangs out with they have girlfriends and are trustworthy guys but no matter who it is, it bothers the shit out of me. \n\nOf course there is a lot more to this, but this is just the jist of it. Idk what to do about it. Do i just deal with it and let it be? Its hard for me to that at all anymore :/ i dont want to fight about it either, we have had a lot in the past already. So what should I do.any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Its a little bit of a long story, but I'll do my best to make this as short as possible. We have been dating for 10 months, almost a year. She has a lot of guy friends, and whenever she hamgs with them I get extremely mad and bothered. We have talked about this before and she doesnt hang with them as much, but still does every so often.\n\nIt urks me to no end when she does, i know the guys she hangs out with they have girlfriends and are trustworthy guys but no matter who it is, it bothers the shit out of me. \n\nOf course there is a lot more to this, but this is just the jist of it. Idk what to do about it. Do i just deal with it and let it be? Its hard for me to that at all anymore :/ i dont want to fight about it either, we have had a lot in the past already. So what should I do.any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Its a little bit of a long story, but I'll do my best to make this as short as possible. We have been dating for 10 months, almost a year. She has a lot of guy friends, and whenever she hamgs with them I get extremely mad and bothered. We have talked about this before and she doesnt hang with them as much, but still does every so often.\n\nIt urks me to no end when she does, i know the guys she hangs out with they have girlfriends and are trustworthy guys but no matter who it is, it bothers the shit out of me. \n\nOf course there is a lot more to this, but this is just the jist of it. Idk what to do about it. Do i just deal with it and let it be? Its hard for me to that at all anymore :/ i dont want to fight about it either, we have had a lot in the past already. So what should I do.any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I are on the heavy, heavy rocks. She's moved out and is at her sister's for two weeks now. She keeps my son a lot of the time, but she's good about letting me pick him up after work so I can be with him, then drop him off with her in the morning before I go to work. He's the only thing keeping me sane right now. \n\nThe roughness stems from my own issues. I've been diagnosed with BPD, and needless to say it's rough on relationships. I'm seeking help, and will do everything I can to get my family back. She said that she might do couples counseling with me if she thinks I've made progress with my own personal counselor. \n\nI texted her today to ask about having a party for our son's birthday coming up in a week. She set off one of my triggers (anything that would hurt my son or my relationship with him) and I blew up. I think I really hurt my chances of getting back together with her. When I'm like this, it gets hard for me to think objectively. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I are on the heavy, heavy rocks. She's moved out and is at her sister's for two weeks now. She keeps my son a lot of the time, but she's good about letting me pick him up after work so I can be with him, then drop him off with her in the morning before I go to work. He's the only thing keeping me sane right now. \n\nThe roughness stems from my own issues. I've been diagnosed with BPD, and needless to say it's rough on relationships. I'm seeking help, and will do everything I can to get my family back. She said that she might do couples counseling with me if she thinks I've made progress with my own personal counselor. \n\nI texted her today to ask about having a party for our son's birthday coming up in a week. She set off one of my triggers (anything that would hurt my son or my relationship with him) and I blew up. I think I really hurt my chances of getting back together with her. When I'm like this, it gets hard for me to think objectively. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I are on the heavy, heavy rocks. She's moved out and is at her sister's for two weeks now. She keeps my son a lot of the time, but she's good about letting me pick him up after work so I can be with him, then drop him off with her in the morning before I go to work. He's the only thing keeping me sane right now. \n\nThe roughness stems from my own issues. I've been diagnosed with BPD, and needless to say it's rough on relationships. I'm seeking help, and will do everything I can to get my family back. She said that she might do couples counseling with me if she thinks I've made progress with my own personal counselor. \n\nI texted her today to ask about having a party for our son's birthday coming up in a week. She set off one of my triggers (anything that would hurt my son or my relationship with him) and I blew up. I think I really hurt my chances of getting back together with her. When I'm like this, it gets hard for me to think objectively. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I are on the heavy, heavy rocks. She's moved out and is at her sister's for two weeks now. She keeps my son a lot of the time, but she's good about letting me pick him up after work so I can be with him, then drop him off with her in the morning before I go to work. He's the only thing keeping me sane right now. \n\nThe roughness stems from my own issues. I've been diagnosed with BPD, and needless to say it's rough on relationships. I'm seeking help, and will do everything I can to get my family back. She said that she might do couples counseling with me if she thinks I've made progress with my own personal counselor. \n\nI texted her today to ask about having a party for our son's birthday coming up in a week. She set off one of my triggers (anything that would hurt my son or my relationship with him) and I blew up. I think I really hurt my chances of getting back together with her. When I'm like this, it gets hard for me to think objectively. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I are on the heavy, heavy rocks. She's moved out and is at her sister's for two weeks now. She keeps my son a lot of the time, but she's good about letting me pick him up after work so I can be with him, then drop him off with her in the morning before I go to work. He's the only thing keeping me sane right now. \n\nThe roughness stems from my own issues. I've been diagnosed with BPD, and needless to say it's rough on relationships. I'm seeking help, and will do everything I can to get my family back. She said that she might do couples counseling with me if she thinks I've made progress with my own personal counselor. \n\nI texted her today to ask about having a party for our son's birthday coming up in a week. She set off one of my triggers (anything that would hurt my son or my relationship with him) and I blew up. I think I really hurt my chances of getting back together with her. When I'm like this, it gets hard for me to think objectively. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I are on the heavy, heavy rocks. She's moved out and is at her sister's for two weeks now. She keeps my son a lot of the time, but she's good about letting me pick him up after work so I can be with him, then drop him off with her in the morning before I go to work. He's the only thing keeping me sane right now. \n\nThe roughness stems from my own issues. I've been diagnosed with BPD, and needless to say it's rough on relationships. I'm seeking help, and will do everything I can to get my family back. She said that she might do couples counseling with me if she thinks I've made progress with my own personal counselor. \n\nI texted her today to ask about having a party for our son's birthday coming up in a week. She set off one of my triggers (anything that would hurt my son or my relationship with him) and I blew up. I think I really hurt my chances of getting back together with her. When I'm like this, it gets hard for me to think objectively. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It literally just happened 5 minutes ago. I don't feel good.\nA bit of backstory here. Sometimes while staying up late I would need to use the bathroom. My parents always grill me about why I'm using the bathroom and get super suspicious of what I'm doing every time and it gets on my nerves, so I turned to the ever so elegant solution of using ziplock bags to piss it, sealing them and pouring the piss out next morning down the drain and throwing the bag away. Efficient? No. Unethical? Yes. One night (the night of this post) I needed to use the bathroom. Now next to my bed is a little cardboard storage box filled with things like magazines, books, hats and you guessed it, empty ziplock bags. Now I was being a cheap ass so it was filled with old ziplock bags because the day prior, I was exchanging coins at the local coinstar machine and I like my coins sorted. Anyways I pulled out my plastic bag and began to piss in it. When finished, I would put the bag on the other side of the bed, just incase people walk in and see a bag of piss. Not the best sight. I was moving it over my bed and I felt something warm. At first I thought it was just the piss or something and then I realized a wet sensation on my body and could finally hear dripping noises. Turns out the bag had a small hole in it. So I was panicking, piss being sloshed all over my bed, floor and of course, me, when I managed to stuff the piss filled plastic bag into another ziplock bag. When moving it over again, I realized that same wet-warm feeling. Turns out, THIS bag had a hole as well. More piss everywhere. Yay. After finding a bag that DIDN'T have a hole and putting the first and second bag in there, my bed looked and felt as if I pissed my self and my floor looked as if I took a water gun and went Rambo. My upper body was also covered in piss as well. I'm going to clean this mess up in the morning and just sleep in my desk chair."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It literally just happened 5 minutes ago. I don't feel good.\nA bit of backstory here. Sometimes while staying up late I would need to use the bathroom. My parents always grill me about why I'm using the bathroom and get super suspicious of what I'm doing every time and it gets on my nerves, so I turned to the ever so elegant solution of using ziplock bags to piss it, sealing them and pouring the piss out next morning down the drain and throwing the bag away. Efficient? No. Unethical? Yes. One night (the night of this post) I needed to use the bathroom. Now next to my bed is a little cardboard storage box filled with things like magazines, books, hats and you guessed it, empty ziplock bags. Now I was being a cheap ass so it was filled with old ziplock bags because the day prior, I was exchanging coins at the local coinstar machine and I like my coins sorted. Anyways I pulled out my plastic bag and began to piss in it. When finished, I would put the bag on the other side of the bed, just incase people walk in and see a bag of piss. Not the best sight. I was moving it over my bed and I felt something warm. At first I thought it was just the piss or something and then I realized a wet sensation on my body and could finally hear dripping noises. Turns out the bag had a small hole in it. So I was panicking, piss being sloshed all over my bed, floor and of course, me, when I managed to stuff the piss filled plastic bag into another ziplock bag. When moving it over again, I realized that same wet-warm feeling. Turns out, THIS bag had a hole as well. More piss everywhere. Yay. After finding a bag that DIDN'T have a hole and putting the first and second bag in there, my bed looked and felt as if I pissed my self and my floor looked as if I took a water gun and went Rambo. My upper body was also covered in piss as well. I'm going to clean this mess up in the morning and just sleep in my desk chair."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It literally just happened 5 minutes ago. I don't feel good.\nA bit of backstory here. Sometimes while staying up late I would need to use the bathroom. My parents always grill me about why I'm using the bathroom and get super suspicious of what I'm doing every time and it gets on my nerves, so I turned to the ever so elegant solution of using ziplock bags to piss it, sealing them and pouring the piss out next morning down the drain and throwing the bag away. Efficient? No. Unethical? Yes. One night (the night of this post) I needed to use the bathroom. Now next to my bed is a little cardboard storage box filled with things like magazines, books, hats and you guessed it, empty ziplock bags. Now I was being a cheap ass so it was filled with old ziplock bags because the day prior, I was exchanging coins at the local coinstar machine and I like my coins sorted. Anyways I pulled out my plastic bag and began to piss in it. When finished, I would put the bag on the other side of the bed, just incase people walk in and see a bag of piss. Not the best sight. I was moving it over my bed and I felt something warm. At first I thought it was just the piss or something and then I realized a wet sensation on my body and could finally hear dripping noises. Turns out the bag had a small hole in it. So I was panicking, piss being sloshed all over my bed, floor and of course, me, when I managed to stuff the piss filled plastic bag into another ziplock bag. When moving it over again, I realized that same wet-warm feeling. Turns out, THIS bag had a hole as well. More piss everywhere. Yay. After finding a bag that DIDN'T have a hole and putting the first and second bag in there, my bed looked and felt as if I pissed my self and my floor looked as if I took a water gun and went Rambo. My upper body was also covered in piss as well. I'm going to clean this mess up in the morning and just sleep in my desk chair."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I were seriously in love. We dated for about 7 months. She has a troubled past and was hurt a lot by guys. She wasn't ready for a serious relationship even though she wanted to be and ended it with me. 3 days later she sleeps with a guy she used to see before me. She says it's easier for her to have just a \"physical\" relationship than have both physical and feelings. Hard to explain.\n\nBasically, I'm just really struggling right now. I miss her and I still love her. I'm giving her the space she needs but she still says she misses me. I was starting to try to move on when she texted me saying she misses me. I care so much about this girl even still. I'm in pain but I don't want to lose her for good. Any advice or anything - thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I were seriously in love. We dated for about 7 months. She has a troubled past and was hurt a lot by guys. She wasn't ready for a serious relationship even though she wanted to be and ended it with me. 3 days later she sleeps with a guy she used to see before me. She says it's easier for her to have just a \"physical\" relationship than have both physical and feelings. Hard to explain.\n\nBasically, I'm just really struggling right now. I miss her and I still love her. I'm giving her the space she needs but she still says she misses me. I was starting to try to move on when she texted me saying she misses me. I care so much about this girl even still. I'm in pain but I don't want to lose her for good. Any advice or anything - thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I were seriously in love. We dated for about 7 months. She has a troubled past and was hurt a lot by guys. She wasn't ready for a serious relationship even though she wanted to be and ended it with me. 3 days later she sleeps with a guy she used to see before me. She says it's easier for her to have just a \"physical\" relationship than have both physical and feelings. Hard to explain.\n\nBasically, I'm just really struggling right now. I miss her and I still love her. I'm giving her the space she needs but she still says she misses me. I was starting to try to move on when she texted me saying she misses me. I care so much about this girl even still. I'm in pain but I don't want to lose her for good. Any advice or anything - thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 18 in highschool, there is a girl, let's call her Lena, she transferred in, and I liked her immediately. I showed her to my friend, let's call him John. John proceeds to go behind my back and go after Lena. John and I have been friends for about 9 years or so, but he has always been a bit of a dick.\n\n I've been really salty about it for weeks now, and last night he even invited her to out karaoke night that we do. So I took this chance, and spend the whole night singing songs about how I liked her, Jesse's girl, Mr steal yo girl, he will never love you like I love you etc. I knee John would be mad at me, but he did me wrong 1st right? He actually tried to fight me earlier today. \n\nHere's where it gets interesting, Lena messages me on fb, and asked me what was going on. I told her I had to tell her in person, so she met me at a park near my house and I spilled the beans, I told her how I liked her all year, and how I told John about it and John went after her anyway. We sat at the park and talked for like an hour and a half. When she was leaving she gave me an extra long hug, I could be reading too much into it but it seems that she might like me back. She also told me to call her or text if I wanted to talk. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 18 in highschool, there is a girl, let's call her Lena, she transferred in, and I liked her immediately. I showed her to my friend, let's call him John. John proceeds to go behind my back and go after Lena. John and I have been friends for about 9 years or so, but he has always been a bit of a dick.\n\n I've been really salty about it for weeks now, and last night he even invited her to out karaoke night that we do. So I took this chance, and spend the whole night singing songs about how I liked her, Jesse's girl, Mr steal yo girl, he will never love you like I love you etc. I knee John would be mad at me, but he did me wrong 1st right? He actually tried to fight me earlier today. \n\nHere's where it gets interesting, Lena messages me on fb, and asked me what was going on. I told her I had to tell her in person, so she met me at a park near my house and I spilled the beans, I told her how I liked her all year, and how I told John about it and John went after her anyway. We sat at the park and talked for like an hour and a half. When she was leaving she gave me an extra long hug, I could be reading too much into it but it seems that she might like me back. She also told me to call her or text if I wanted to talk. What should I do?"
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