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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, give my brother some advice for this police encounter! POST: My brother has run into some minor trouble with the law, and I was hoping that Reddit might be able to give him some advice. I asked him to write up a brief synopsis of what happened:**** ----- I was pulled over for driving with my left taillight out. There were three passengers in my car, for a total of four people. There was no weed in the car, no one was high, and no one had smoked in the car since around 4 that afternoon. There was, however, a pipe and a grinder out of sight in the middle console of my car. The officer approached my car, and we had the following conversation. OFFICER: I pulled you over because you were driving with a taillight out. MATT: I'm sorry, officer. I know it's out, I'm working on getting it fixed as quickly as possible. OFFICER: Is there anything in the car that I should know about? MATT: No, officer. OFFICER: Would you mind if I searched, then? MATT: I'm sorry, officer, but I never consent to searches. OFFICER: Why? MATT: It's within my rights as a citizen. At this point, the officer says nothing else and walks away. One of my friends overhears him calling in a canine unit. However, he never informed any us that he would do so. He wrote me a citation for the taillight, and I signed/dated the bottom of it. However, he did not give it to me until after the canine unit arrived. The officer then instructed me and each of my passengers to leave the car, then proceeded to search each of us "for weapons" (even though I said that I refused to consent to a search) before the drug dog began to sniff my car. After he told me that the dog alerted on my car, I told him where the pipe and grinder were. He then confiscated them, searched the rest of my car, wrote a citation for the pipe and grinder, then gave me the citation for the taillight. TL;DR: . Assistant:	pulled over for tail light out, did not consent to search, drug dogs called anyway, given paraphernalia charge in TN for grinder and pipe	pulled over for tail light out, did not consent to search, drug dogs called anyway, given paraphernalia charge in TN for grinder and pipe	3,418
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, thinking about portraying PFC Bradley Manning for Halloween, good idea or bad idea? POST: For Halloween this year, I am considering going as Private First Class Bradley Manning (if you don't know who he is, Google the name). It's certainly not your typical Halloween costume by any means, but I usually don't do the typical thing. I want to represent Bradley in good taste while offering information to my friends and co-workers about the history of what lead up to the charges against him, the current state of the trial, info about Wikileaks and what we have learned from the various leaks, Julian Assange and the allegations against him, etc. I only intend on dressing up at work and at home on Halloween so as to not be viewed as impersonating a soldier or breaking the uniform law in any way. I'm not going to force my opinion onto anyone, just offer only the facts if asked. There has been some controversial costumes worn in the past, so I don't have any reason to believe that it would be taken the wrong way, but I also don't want to tread on taboo or anything that might offend or upset anyone at my work place. TL;DR: . Assistant:	So Reddit, am I off my rocker in wanting to be Bradley Manning for Halloween or shall I go for it?	So Reddit, am I off my rocker in wanting to be Bradley Manning for Halloween or shall I go for it?	4,350
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my LDR GF[19 F] - Jealous Feelings Are Stirrin' POST: I am currently in a Long Distance Relationship with my girlfriend. We're both in the US going to college on opposite sides of the country. We were high school sweethearts and have made it through almost 2 full years of college. We have a very loving relationship and I'm very happy to be in a relationship with her. My girlfriend (let's call her Sue) is in a sorority and is very active in it. She recently went to a dance they call Formal, and had a blast. It's custom to take a date to these things, and since I wasn't there she took someone whose friends were going but otherwise wasn't technically allowed into the dance. I didn't have a problem with it because I figured they would just hang out with their separate friend groups once in the dance. Sue told me that's exactly what happened and how she even got stood up by the guy - he kind of just showed up with his friends at the dance instead of meeting up beforehand. I was glad she had a good time despite that. I just checked Facebook and Sue has a new profile picture. It's her and the guy from last night. She is laughing and having a good time, with her hands on his back, and he's doing a somewhat funny face. It's a cute picture, but for some reason her having another guy in her Facebook profile picture makes me uncomfortable. I scrolled through some of her other pictures and this guy turns up on more than one occasion, even before the dance. I want to ask her if it's the same guy, but she is currently in a dance performance (not the same as the Formal she went to last night) so she is unreachable. Normally I'm not very jealous at all, but seeing that picture just made me sad and feel like I was being replaced for some reason. My question is, is there any reason for me to be jealous? If not, please talk some sense into me! We've also been getting in a bunch of small arguments lately so I'd rather handle this in the easiest, most un-confrontational manner. I don't want to fight over this if it's nothing. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My LDR GF set her profile picture as her with another guy. I'm getting jealous feelings, how should I handle it?	My LDR GF set her profile picture as her with another guy. I'm getting jealous feelings, how should I handle it?	4,204
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (20F) girlfriend and I (20m) split up 2 months ago. Saw her by chance today and she wants to hang out before she moves. POST: I'll keep this short as possible, anyways, I went to a restaurant tonight with my brother and when we got inside I saw my ex sitting at a table, to try and make it as less awkward as possible, I asked to be seated on there other side, so I wouldn't have to be "around" her. I order my food and step outside for a cigarette and as soon as I do that, she comes outside to talk to me. We chat for a little and she explains that she didn't want things to be weird and that she thought the reason o switched tables was because she assumed I hated her, which isn't true. So we talk for a little and she then tells me That's she is moving soon because mom got a new job. She then says that she would like to hang out one last time before she leaves. I am uneasy about this, so my question is, should I do it or not? TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, we saw each other and she wants to hang out. Don't know what to do	girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, we saw each other and she wants to hang out. Don't know what to do	4,254
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: First post- down 32 lbs since Jan 1st. Looking for help on new milestones. POST: Good day r/Loseit! First post, I had contemplated posting my journey prior to this but I got caught up with other things and didn't see at as entirely necessary but now that I made my previous milestone I am looking for advice/help/suggestions for the future. I started Jan 1st at a weight of 286 lbs and being in the Military I had to get my act together...or else! I shook my head at myself in the mirror and got to it. I started small and slow, running short distances at slow speed, rode the bike and eliptical for lower impact exercise. I'm now up to a consistent mid-8 mile split when I do my daily three mile and that feels good. Long story short, lost 32 lbs by the time I had my Physical Fitness weigh in and cut a considerable amount from the mid section. Wearing a belt I hadn't been able to fit since Senior yr in college, granted it's on the last hole... but the one I had been wearing is on the opposite end of the spectrum so I'll take a win where I can get one. 286 to 254 in roughly 3 1/2 months. Lost roughly 4- 4 1/2 on the waist. My issue now. Since that milestone I've sort of lost my willpower. I haven't stopped running altogether but nowhere near what I was doing prior to the weigh in. Put on about 4-6 lbs but it's holding steady... which is great considering the amount of crap has made it's weight into my diet again. My next goal is to lose around another 25-30 prior to early August for my friends wedding and ultimately I'd like to finish the yr at around 225-230 and about 15%. I'm around 260 and about 21% right now and would like help getting motivated again as well as healthy ways to lean out and lose weight the correct way. Thanks for reading. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Lost 32 LBS since New Yrs. Previous goal met need healthy ways to motivate and lose to make the next set.	Lost 32 LBS since New Yrs. Previous goal met need healthy ways to motivate and lose to make the next set.	1,705
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it right for a coach to pull someone out of a championship? POST: Hi folks! So here's the situation: My brother was going to participate in a championship meet in his high school for a 4-man relay team, but had the coach replace him for someone else. Now the thing is, the other kid was late an hour from when he was supposed to meet the team. My brother inquired about why he got pulled from the race, and the coach said it's because the other kid has a faster time. Now does that really send the right message for a team? "I can show up anytime I want because I have a faster time then all of you."? Shouldn't discipline and team respect be precedented over time? My brother is really upset about this and I wanna know Reddit's opinion on this. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Brother got pulled out of a championship just because the other kid who was faster showed up--though was late. Is that right or fucked up?	Brother got pulled out of a championship just because the other kid who was faster showed up--though was late. Is that right or fucked up?	4,060
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my ex girlfriend [17 F] of two years, broke up a week ago and i really miss her POST: My ex and I broke up because of too many arguments. After the first year and half we were constantly arguing and we broke up and got back 3 times. This is the fourth time. We have many experiences together and many memories that are just hard to let go. I miss her so much i really want us to get back but I don't know if i should go for it or not. I know that I'm still young. But I've never felt this way towards someone. Because i miss her so much we ended up talking one day. The conversation was going fine then we started talking about us. She said the only reason she broke up is because of the constant arguments and we never seem to stop arguing, she said that she is happy because there are no more arguments but she said that she misses being with me. I feel that way too. I really want her back but i just don't know what to do. Should I go with the no contact rule? I'm afraid she will move on really quickly. Also i forgot to add that the arguments are both because of my insecurities and jealousy and her anger and not wanting to lose an argument. I just really miss her. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Miss my girlfriend after a break up. We have broken up and gotten back several times, but i dont know if i should try to get her back.	Miss my girlfriend after a break up. We have broken up and gotten back several times, but i dont know if i should try to get her back.	3,780
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/m] Thinking of breaking up with [22/f] of 2 years, has all her belongings at mine. Need advice POST: Hello sub. Throwaway for obvious reasons. This has been a long time coming and maybe I've been delaying it for a while now, but I'm feeling like this relationship isn't going to work out. I still do care deeply for her, but now I don't believe we are right for each other. She's an absolutely great person but we have our differences, not just what we like but our morals, values and culture. We've had talks about this before and I always believed if we tried to accommodate to each others likings we would be fine. But I'm now worn out, I'm frankly tired of trying to like the things that she likes and loosing time and money for things that I would want to do (She's not really keen in my interests though she has tried). She's been away for holidays for a while now and has left all her belongings at mine as I agreed to help her move out to a new place when she got back. She would be staying at mine until then (few weeks) This was before I felt like we needed to break up. I too went overseas for holidays for a while and I had time to think for myself. I need your thoughts on what to do sub. I did promise I'd help her move out and don't really want to break up while she doesn't have a place to stay. There's also a few celebrations coming up that I don't think I would be able to celebrate with her, I feel horrible..but I'm thinking of telling her today after work. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Relationship not working out, gf left belongings at mine while overseas and I promised I would help her move. Don't feel like breaking up while she doesn't have anywhere to stay.	Relationship not working out, gf left belongings at mine while overseas and I promised I would help her move. Don't feel like breaking up while she doesn't have anywhere to stay.	2,350
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: lesson: "you're doomed! DOOOOOMED! MWAHAHA!" is not the way to resolve a problem with your wife. POST: on my journey between work and finding carhartt beanies and home, I called my wife 2 times detailing my location and actions. BUT "well I don't know where you've been!" well fuckin guess. I've been out makin drug deals and fucking blond girls. that's why there's 40 minutes unaccounted for, and that's why I've got 4 hats and an early 90s skate deck; it was all an ingenious plot to TRICK you! MWAHAHAHAHAHA! you're doomed! DOOOOOOMED! or maybe I was trying to find the hat I like, and ended up in a conversation with the dude that sold me the hats. thank you for listening, and actually, this transcript is very accurate; I threw my arms in the air and said,"i tricked you! you're doomed! DOOOOMED! MWAHAHA!" to say the least, it was not received well. TL;DR: . Assistant:	you're doomed! DOOOOOOMED! MWAHAHA!!" is not something that will ever be taken well by probably anyone...	you're doomed! DOOOOOOMED! MWAHAHA!!" is not something that will ever be taken well by probably anyone...	1,264
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my SO [17 F] 18 Months, Girlfriend got an AVO on me, think we can work it out. POST: So me and my girlfriend broke up on valentines day because of a really heavy fight, not physical just an emotional one, and things didn't really turn out well and we screamed at each other and tore each other apart verbally and she hit her head on a wall and went to hospital and the police thought it was me who hit her but i didn't. So the police filed and AVO on me and i went to court and heaps of hatred came out of that towards her, but now we have been talking a lot lately and tying to make us work because we made each other really happy for the duration of our relationship and I'm not really sure what to do with it, like i love her and want the best for her and but i don't really wanna deal with the shit off my friends and family if i do get back with her because she's made my life hell over the past couple of months. We dated for 18 months and she made me heaps happy and made me feel loved for a long time and recently I've been pretty unhappy, so i feel if i get back with her everything will be good and ill be happy again, we've met up and were happy again just sorting everything out, I go to court again this monday to get the avo revoked because she has told the police i didn't do anything, but none of my friends can give me a proper answer on what to do. So Reddit, i ask for your help, what do i do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend and i broke up, she got an avo on me and made my life hell, want to get start fresh, need advice.	Girlfriend and i broke up, she got an avo on me and made my life hell, want to get start fresh, need advice.	2,050
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a bonfire on cement POST: My boyfriend and my dog and I were having a bonfire in the backyard. There's a nice cemented area with a firepit in the middle of it and benches around it. Now, this fire pit has gotten a ton of use, and it's gotten to the point where the bottom of it has melted through. We decided for this bonfire, we'd just move the fire pit out of the way and have the fire on the cement with metal from the fire pit surrounding the perimeter. Well we get about two hours into our bonfire, and my boyfriend is standing about a foot away from the fire with his back turned towards it, and I got up to refill our dog's water bowl. As I'm walking away I hear a full explosion. I turn and I see the entire cemented area and benches surrounded by fire and embers. I then see my boyfriend run out of the fire with embers all over the back of his shirt, and I see my dog running away from where he was sitting under the benches. My boyfriend stops drops and rolls in the grass and I'm chasing after my dog trying to make sure he's okay and to keep him away from the area because the entire cemented area and benches has flaming logs all over it. For a few moments I was convinced we would be spending the night in the hospital, but we got really really lucky and everyone was fine. We were extremely lucky that my dog was under one of the benches and protected from falling flaming debris, and also that my boyfriend had his back to the fire and escaped with only a ruined shirt and pants. So what happened? After a some panicking and some puppy wrangling, we were able to assess the situation. In case you weren't aware, cement expands when overheated. Basically the cement over expanded, shattered, shot up, and caused the entire bonfire to shoot up as well. We feel pretty stupid about what we let happen. TL;DR: . Assistant:	The moral of the story is that cement explodes when overheated. Don't have a bonfire on it. Also make sure your fire extinguishers work.	The moral of the story is that cement explodes when overheated. Don't have a bonfire on it. Also make sure your fire extinguishers work.	3,106
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU: trying to fix the xbox app on windows 10 POST: So this started 2 days ago and only just finished (almost) fixing it. bit of background I'm a bit of a gamer and got windows 10 free upgrade deal with it seeing as i had minecraft pc already i got the windows 10 beta thing. This starts with me getting a code for the beta from a mac user so a friend can have a game that we can play (long story with that so wont go into details here may do in comments) so after giving the code I try to open the xbox app in hopes of finding my friends xbox id (so we can do multiplayer) fastforward slightly, this is after me trying to force the xbox app to log out and log in again, im in a remote service session with microsoft support, they try everything from refreshing the windows store to reinstalling the xbox app nothing works so then they go to start a windows re-imaging process (basically reinstalling the os) before they get chance to do anything they get disconnected, I wait about 10-20 mins letting my net settle because wi-fi for me can be funny, nothing. I end up having to make sure they cant re-connect because I have to go to a friends to do some minecraft recording (modded minecraft not windows 10 edition). Yesterday I reinstalled windows 10 from the image I made myself a few days prior, thinking that it would be the pro edition i thought nothing of it, did a few things around the house while it was installing and updating got back and realised it was the home edition, at first i thought nothing of it tried to do some modded minecraft and it ran at what felt like negative frames per second. thought something was up and found out that home couldn't give enough ram for what i was needing so i ended up reinstalling windows 7 ultimate to get it to windows 10 pro (via free upgrade thing) but that produced problems because i didnt have a product key that would work (i used to run windows loader to get the keys to work and used it to install windows 7 on friends and families machines) thankfully I found a windows 10 disc that has pro on and ended up using that. TL;DR: . Assistant:	xbox app broke, microsoft suport made it worse, installed wrong version of windows untill i got the right one today, took 3 days to do all of it	xbox app broke, microsoft suport made it worse, installed wrong version of windows untill i got the right one today, took 3 days to do all of it	3,555
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hi Reddit. I said something inappropriate around my family. Please tell me what YOU said. HOW DID YOU DEAL WITH BEING BANISHED FROM THE FAMILY? POST: Tonight I was at dinner with my dad and step mom. My dad is way older than my step mom. I asked my step mom if she married my dad while she was in college or before she started college. My brother replied for her and said "while she was in elementary school". As a joke and everyone laughed. I got excited because I...I'm lame and something inappropriate slipped out... Along the lines of....my dad having a white van....hiding candy in it.....driving around schools....doing things....it got worse as I kept talking. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me. It's like I don't have a filter. I THOUGHT IT WAS FUNNY. Anyway, everyone just exchanged awkward glances and my brother said "wow, sometimes you shouldn't be invited to dinner." And my step mom said I was "disgusting". I decided to just be quiet the whole night and eat lots of cheesecake. I don't know if I could have said something to fix the situation. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Please tell me what you said that was super awkward and retarded and how you dealt with the responses of your loved ones. Are you still allowed to come to dinner?	Please tell me what you said that was super awkward and retarded and how you dealt with the responses of your loved ones. Are you still allowed to come to dinner?	56
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26F] need help with dating and finding a good LTR. Tell me what to do. POST: I've spent my life focusing on more serious endeavors and the last 4 years have been used to study for a degree, volunteer to boost my resume and so on. So most of my choices and actions were to set myself up for the future. Now I have never had a serious relationship and don't know where to start! I've no regular hobbies to meet men, my friends are also having trouble with dating and my closest friends have also been perpetually single so they can't introduce me to anyone. I have very little planned for the next 3 weeks and now I'm going to let you all tell me what to do. I mean within reason. What actions should I take to meet some nice eligible men? Throw your suggestions at me! TL;DR: . Assistant:	No clue how to date or meet men. Allowing redditers to treat my love life like an interactive story or create your own adventure game. Tell me what to do.	No clue how to date or meet men. Allowing redditers to treat my love life like an interactive story or create your own adventure game. Tell me what to do.	939
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my best friend [25 M] of 6 years; Moved to city to live with best friend; best friend ditches me. How to respond? POST: So I recently moved to a new city with my best friend. I've been crashing on his couch for a while (2 months?) now. We're both currently looking for work (he doesn't have to pay rent since his grandparents bought him the place). Anyways, I moved to the city beforehand with the explicit intent to live with him and told him that I wouldn't move to the city unless we were going to live together and we we were able to find a space to live together (this was way before I moved). Lo' and behold a few months later and I find him not wanting to live together. He's nice enough to let me stay with him and says I can stay as long as I want, but he no longer wants to live together. It's kind of frustrating for me because I'm not as wealthy as he is, and I don't have a place to go (additionally, I don't have a relationship with my family so I can't go back to them or anything). Basically I've got not fall backs. I'm kind of upset with my friend in this regard. Part of it is obviously my fault. I guess I shouldn't have been so trusting and formed a fallback, but I am a little upset that he's changed his mind. Am I in the right in that regard? TL;DR: . Assistant:	How do I react to my best friend about him suddenly changing his mind to live with me? Should I talk to him about it or just leave it up in the air?	How do I react to my best friend about him suddenly changing his mind to live with me? Should I talk to him about it or just leave it up in the air?	4,764
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: i really want to accept gay marriage. POST: hey reddit, before you read any further, please understand that i truly do wish others happiness in their lives and i have nothing against people being gay...whatever makes you happy makes you happy! a great friend of mine is actually a lesbian and has been with her partner for many many years! that being said, i was raised catholic (i understand that many of you are atheist, i have no judgement that is your choice, as being catholic is mine..it's important to me! please respect that). I try so hard to just accept gay marriage, but in the back of my head im screaming no no no! i have no issues with gay people being together, it is just the marriage that i apparently have an issue against...not even the people! i love them people! it's so confusing and i dont know why i am like that :S it truly does not make sense to me...any advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	i'm love gay people, a great friend of mine is a lesbian, i don't mind gay people dating, i am opposed to gay marriage..why?	i'm love gay people, a great friend of mine is a lesbian, i don't mind gay people dating, i am opposed to gay marriage..why?	5,438
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I ask my friend[22F] If I[21F] will be allowed a plus one for her wedding? POST: Backstory: Bekkah and I have been friends for 3 years and she was the nanny to my daughter for over a year. She is very religious and because of this she is in a huge rush to get married (a different issue all together) and is having a wedding with little to no money. She is having children at the ceremony but not at the reception and although my daughter was invited to the ceremony I declined and said that she would probably cause a commotion and I thought it would be best if she stayed at home. Although I did offer to dress my daughter up and for Bekkah and I to do photos before or after the ceremony which Bekkah was more than happy with. The issue I am having is that even though it hasn't been officially said I don't think she is giving me a plus one. I do not know ANY of her friends and family or her fiance's so I will be all by myself during the ceremony and the reception. Even if I had chosen to bring my daughter to the ceremony, I would still be alone at the reception, where the socializing happens, as children are not allowed. The invites haven't been sent out but she did mention that "there would be a few tables of random friends" when I expressed that I wouldn't know anyone there. That hurt. Because of this I am assuming there will be no plus one. I understand that they are tight on money but honestly I am not sure if I even want to go to a 4 hour long reception and eat dinner so I can socialize with a bunch of strangers and get a total of 5 seconds to see my friend. We are close and I want to support her on her special day but it feels sort of tacky to ask to bring a plus one but then again I feel it is sort of tacky to not include one in my invite. Maybe I am wrong. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My friend is getting married and it looks like I won't be receiving a plus one. I don't know anyone else who will be attending.	My friend is getting married and it looks like I won't be receiving a plus one. I don't know anyone else who will be attending.	2,143
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] feel terrible about something I did that is probably pretty minor. Should I tell my boyfriend [25M] about it? POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I have had minor crushes in the past and I have told him about them, and he was okay with it. A few months ago I developed a crush on a guy in my classes. I looked him up on Facebook and saw that he liked one of my favorite bands. I have one of their band t-shirts and I like to wear it out in public because I love when someone makes a positive comment about it. I was excited when I saw that he liked the band and decided to wear it to class. I wanted to talk to him about the band because I was excited to meet someone who likes it, but I guess a part of me also wanted him to be impressed/attracted to me. I would NEVER do anything remotely romantic or sexual with him, though. He didn't notice, so I wore the shirt again a few weeks later. He noticed that time and complimented me on the shirt, and I immediately felt extremely guilty and basically cut off the conversation after saying "it's one of my favorite bands." I feel like I cheated in some way and I've been beating myself up over it for weeks. Should I tell my boyfriend about this, or do you think it's too minor of a situation/it would do more harm than good? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Wore a band t-shirt to sort of impress someone I have a crush on but I am also in a long-term relationship. I feel very guilty. Should I tell my boyfriend?	Wore a band t-shirt to sort of impress someone I have a crush on but I am also in a long-term relationship. I feel very guilty. Should I tell my boyfriend?	5,212
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] wondering how to proceed with asking out a girl [16F] POST: Okay, so I'm not really the kind of guy who's too open about feelings and relationships and all that, but there is this girl who I see at school and sit next to in class that I really like. We share one class together, sit next to each other and often have conversations. We don't really see each other outside of class, walking in the halls and all that, but when I walk into class and sit down, she will ask me how I am and I will return the question. She seems generally cheerful to see me, but I don't know if this is in a romantic way or if I'm just being hopeful. I really like her and would like to ask her on a date, but I'm not sure how to proceed. I know how to cook and was considering asking her to dinner (and then cooking said dinner). I also have had no previous relationships so I'm not sure if this is a good thing to do (dinner), and I'm not sure how to ask her. Help me please. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girl I share a class with and have a friendly relationship with. I want to ask her to dinner (my cooking), but I don't know if I should or how to ask. 1st potential girlfriend. Super nervous. Help.	Girl I share a class with and have a friendly relationship with. I want to ask her to dinner (my cooking), but I don't know if I should or how to ask. 1st potential girlfriend. Super nervous. Help.	1,246
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30F] in love with my [27M] gay friend. Should I spoil friendship and disclose feelings? POST: Let me keep this succinct and sweet. Perhaps best with bullet points - me and said friend work in the same lab (both graduate students doing short-term projects, I'm affiliated with the university, he's a visiting student) - became interested in him because, as per his body language, he seemed interested in me (and he is pretty much my type physically speaking) - didn't realize he was gay until I finally struck up a conversation with him (he appears very hetero in terms of almost everything) and he made it abundantly clear (didn't make it abundantly clear because I expressed interest but just in context of our conversations) - got to know him A LOT better (spending more time together than before) and realized he's even my type, personality-wise - he seems to like me a lot back but only as a friend - he leaves for Germany at the end of this coming week - I want to tell him how I really feel but I'm afraid this will not only spoil our friendship, but he'll think I've only been hanging out with him because of my feelings for him (and ergo, spoil friendship) TL;DR: . Assistant:	30 y/o female in love with her 27 y/o gay male friend who is leaving for Germany in a week. Should I disclose feelings or not?	30 y/o female in love with her 27 y/o gay male friend who is leaving for Germany in a week. Should I disclose feelings or not?	2,332
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I need help. I can't stop hurting myself. POST: Throw away for reasons. Also, I apologize for how long this is; I just need to get it out. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm depressed, can't stop cutting myself, feel like I'm going crazy, and I don't know how to get better.	I'm depressed, can't stop cutting myself, feel like I'm going crazy, and I don't know how to get better.	5,999
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: She [18,F] just isn't into me[18,M], even though I can't stop thinking about her. How can I stay close to her AND her new boyfriend, without feeling bad? POST: Classic situation, friends for a LONG time (for 13 years, we are both 18). Boy goes to senior prom with girl, asks girl out, rejected, dejected, good night. Only the next day do I realize how seriously bad I feel. She has 2 proms. Mine which was yesterday and her other friend's (let's call him Pat). I sweet talk her, I mean seriously. I tell her how much she means to me, how I feel, and how I want the whole "more than friends shebang." Cheesy, you betcha. She stepped back from us slow dancing as I said this and from her face I could just tell it was going to be a "let him down easy" moment. We are now just as good friends as before but I now know she is crazy about Pat. THE TWIST: I'm part of a group of friends who is seeing her off next week for their prom. I shouldn't be so selfish. She is my friend and I value that so much and she is happy with this guy who is actually nice. I feel like such shit though. I know I should just move on; she just does not see me as anything more than a good friend. But I can't do it. I'm such a hopeless romantic, really. I do not want to "give up" on a relationship. I'm crazy about her guys. How can I hang around with her and Pat to stay close to her, but not feel like crap everytime I do? Any other advice is also greatly appreciated. Thank you. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I got rejected by a longtime friend. I don't want to give up loving her though. She just does not see me as anything more than a friend.	I got rejected by a longtime friend. I don't want to give up loving her though. She just does not see me as anything more than a friend.	6,316
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Ex-girlfriend[26F]with who I live broke up with Me [22M] two days ago for her ex. I now saw them both home. I am going insane. POST: Me and my girlfriend lived with each other for 2 years. About a 4 weeks ago she told me that she wants to meet with her ex [who left her for HIS [reboud ex] as friends, and that she did not see him for four years. I should have said no right then, but I didnt want to seem like a controlling person. Now she broke up with me. Basically on last Saturday she told me she doesnt love me, but she wants to keep trying for a few months. Naturally I agreed, as I still very much love her. Now on Friday she said she wants to quit. Now it is Saturday [week since she told me she doesnt love me] and I came home to find her and the deucheshigfuckingcockbag in her room. Now the worst part is, that I still live here. I have a bedroom where all my stuff [computer] is and I live in this cave. Why dont I leave you ask? Well moving out is not a easy process, esecially before a payday [monthly here]and she owns me money. She ows me a large sum of money, to which we had agreed that will be payed by rent [I will live here, I will not pay rent until the debt is settled]. As working night shifts only, I do not know how to exist during the night, especially now that I hear them moving over the apartment. It is the worst I have ever felt in my life. What also makes me very sad is that the breakup came incredibly fast. Not a week ago we were in a Zoo and had a great day. And now she dumps we. We had a quaint relashionship, almost no arguments, etc. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Gf met with her ex, then dumped me and two days after she dumped me she has him over. I still live with her.	Gf met with her ex, then dumped me and two days after she dumped me she has him over. I still live with her.	1,378
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Need some help. POST: So, last July I moved in with my boyfriend... And I had to leave my beautiful 5 year old chocolate lab behind in my hometown with some family. It's killing me to be away from her. We currently live in the basement of someone else's house, and they aren't fussy about having another dog around. We planned on moving out of the house this summer and getting our own apartment.. The thing is, animal friendly apartments are hard to come by around here, and me and my boyfriend both work 7 on 7 off and wouldn't get to see her for a week at a time. Even before I left she was always inside moping, I felt so guilty. I know she's happy where she is now, always going hunting and playing with other dogs, but due to past experiences (being forced to part with animals I loved, promising to take care of a rescue and being unable to do so) I feel obligated to take her with me. What would you do in my situation? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm struggling between taking my pet away from the people who are watching her (she loves it there) or keeping her with me in an apartment.	I'm struggling between taking my pet away from the people who are watching her (she loves it there) or keeping her with me in an apartment.	4,391
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have 90 days until my downstairs neighbour, who I've had to get a restraining order against is evicted. If you were me, what would you do? POST: Basically, I've had to get an AVO (Apprehended Violence Order) against my downstairs neighbour. We live in a really old building with little to no insulation, so noise travels really easily. But he takes offense to the smallest things at really random times (11am, Sunday morning, being on the phone with my Dad and wandering around the apartment was cause for a 7 minute tirade in the stairwell about how I'm a dumb white cunt who's always walking around. I don't know if he expects me to teleport or hover between rooms, but unfortunately, I can't do either. He's threatened me a couple of times (raised fist, prevented me from exiting the building, tried to kick down my apartment door the other day) the last time he did it, I'd been watching TV with a few friends (normal volume) - no-one else has ever witnessed these events before and they encouraged me to call the police. Police suggested I get an AVO, and so I did. Next day, I call the real estate and say basically, okay, look. I need to leave or this guy does, because I am terrified of him, and this seems to be escalating. They decide to evict him (he's being served papers today) but with 90 days notice, I'm basically going to have to live with an enraged junkie for three months. So, I'm not sure what I can do to either protect myself, should I just move out and bear the cost of breaking lease five months early.. Do I get a new giant bro housemate, because my current one has basically fucked off to her friends house and left me to deal with the whole mess... or do you guys have another idea? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girl vs Junkie - asked to be released from my lease, they decided to evict him instead. But not for 90 days. What to do?	Girl vs Junkie - asked to be released from my lease, they decided to evict him instead. But not for 90 days. What to do?	4,227
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm kind of in a sticky situation...Any assistance would be appreciated..... POST: So our subdivision is consisted of a bunch of racist assholes....It's a pretty well off upper-middle class area. My "situation" begins from the community facilities area (where the pool, basketball, tennis courts are). They implemented a really retarded security gate feature, that requires an electronic keycard. Now the entering process with the card is really annoying to me as the gate never opens, and it just beeps.. So I just jump over it...There's 2 gates, one gate for sidewalk opening and another for cars to pass through....It has security cameras (god forbid someone trespasses to play tennis or what have you)...So apparently they caught "me" and "a companion" opening the car part of the gate on camera.. Pictures were taken and distributed to all residents, but someone out of honesty replied saying it was "us." Now the board of directory is claiming that the gate was tampered with and all this exaggerated bullshit, even though many people pass through the same way, but we have no proof...they are denying access and claiming to bill "us" of damages....Judging by videos/pictures they can't necessarily "convict" it to be us... because "I" haven't confessed to be any part of it... Now bear in mind there has been many robberies in our neighborhood, I've been robbed for at least a grand of things in my garage including mail...yet they chose to add security to an unnecessary area.. Now what can I do in my defense? They are not buying that we didn't do anything in terms of damage, it's pretty evident that nothing was necessarily damaged, just the gate was yanked open....It is a huge metal gate that's magnet retracted....So in my defense what can I say/do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Opened a gate the incorrect way, apparently "damaged", Home owners Ass. refusing us access and billing us damages...	Opened a gate the incorrect way, apparently "damaged", Home owners Ass. refusing us access and billing us damages...	3,878
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Consolidating debt, good idea? POST: Hi Guys, I have 5 credit cards with roughly 10k debt total. One of these cards charges me about $100 per month in finance charges as it has $6,000 on it. I have 4 other cards that have 4,000 combined. One has 1,500, one has 1,000, one has 1,100 and the last one has 400. Anyways, I'm tired of the finance charge from the biggest card and have applied for a personal loan to consolidate my debt. I was denied for my $10,000 loan and offered a $5,000 loan as they could only offer a loan for what I currently make per month. I talked to my parents and they are willing to SIGN for the loan and I'll be a co-borrower so their credit will get me the full loan. Their credit score is around 750. Before they go into the bank, I just wanted to make sure I'm doing the right thing. I'll pay about $300 per month for 36 months for this loan. I plan on paying it off much faster but can't afford to do an 18 month loan where I get stuck with $600 per month at the minimum. Any tips for this? Is this a good idea? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Consolidating 10k worth of debt. Parents will sign for the loan and they have near perfect credit. Good idea?	Consolidating 10k worth of debt. Parents will sign for the loan and they have near perfect credit. Good idea?	3,853
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [21 M] has cancer, and I [20 F] am not sure what to do. Please help. POST: The issue here involves more than just cancer. My boyfriend, Eli, has stage II lymphoma, along with other health problems. He was supposed to die at the age of 16, but he's still alive. I met him at work and we got close pretty fast. I would never leave someone over the fact that they have cancer. However, he does not talk to me very often. Sometimes, we go days without texting. Sometimes, we go weeks without seeing each other. He says he's always busy with friends or family, and it makes me feel like he doesn't want to see me. It makes me really sad to know that he has such a limited time, but he doesn't seem to want to spend it with me. That might be selfish, and I hate myself for being upset by this. I will always be there to support him, but I guess what I'm asking is if we'd make better friends? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend has cancer, so I'm afraid to leave. But I go long periods of time without seeing or talking to him.	My boyfriend has cancer, so I'm afraid to leave. But I go long periods of time without seeing or talking to him.	3,000
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Is my therapist just flirting and leading me on so I keep coming back? POST: A little background, I've been to a few therapists before and none have really helped. I decided I go to another and just try it again. My dad just picked one out and she happened to be a really hot, young woman. And I am only 17, but I have a full grown beard, I workout and I'm big, and everyone I know says I don't look my age. Anyway I've been seeing her once a week for the last 4-5 weeks now, one time twice a week. Every time I'm there she'll mention something sexual, ask me how old I am with a cute smile (even though I've told her several times), and shit like that. I don't really look her in the eye much, but when I do she's either checking me out (usually staring at my arms, chest, or my dick), or she'll put on a cute smile if I look at here eyes. I saw her today and she did the same thing. But today she got up several times to hand me things, and every time she'd bend over in front of me. She also told me to try out this breathing exercise and she grabbed her chest and said, "breathe in and out like this" and smiled at me. Before I left she did say, "don't just come here to see me! I want you to get better. I want you to trust me and talk to me so you feel like you're getting the best out of this! Ok?" and smiled like she usually does again. Which is funny she mentioned that because I haven't been feeling like she's been helping, but I don't have really anyone else to talk to and it's nice going there. As I was leaving, she has one of those big ass tube tv's in the lobby, and I noticed her looking at my ass and she motioned to her coworker to look over. Honestly I don't know if she's just toying and leading me on so I keep coming back, or she's just naturally flirty like that and she really means what she says. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Therapist acts sexual and flirty with me, which I don't mind she's hot and nice to me, but is she just leading me on so I keep coming back?	Therapist acts sexual and flirty with me, which I don't mind she's hot and nice to me, but is she just leading me on so I keep coming back?	6,062
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22/F] gave my number to a guy [23/F] last night...not sure what to do! POST: I met a guy yesterday...and he didn't seem really interested in me at first and was a jerk around my group of friends/in general. There was one point where we were talking and he seemed into me, but he mentioned that he was looking for friends since he's new in town. He asked for my number to see if I wanted to meet up later to go out. I gave him my number thinking "yea, sure! why not" Ended up not meeting up, but I got a text this morning asking to get together before I leave town. Now in retrospect, I realize how giving my number to him may have sent the wrong message...and in all honesty, I have no idea how to respond, especially since how he wasn't very nice at first. I'm always down to getting to know new people, but my friends already were talking about how much of a dick he is. And I agree -but there are a lot of sides to one person, so maybe it was a wrong first impression. But I don't want to meet up and be berated with insults for an hour. Although he was a dick, I understand the vulnerability and courage it takes to put yourself out there...so I don't want to be rude. I was rejected fairly recently, so I understand how it can suck... TL;DR: . Assistant:	gave my number to a guy who seemed like a dick and not into me, but asked to meet up the next morning...kind of curious to see what would happen, but don't want to send the wrong message!	gave my number to a guy who seemed like a dick and not into me, but asked to meet up the next morning...kind of curious to see what would happen, but don't want to send the wrong message!	6,380
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Advice on graduate school? POST: (Let me know if there's a better subreddit for this or if it has been profusely addressed before. I have been browsing this subreddit for a while and have not come across it.) I am 23, recently financially independent, with a degree in Linguistics that by itself doesn't do much, but coupled with a Master's could be quite useful. However, getting my masters would put me about $40,000 in the hole. I just started off, am NOT currently in debt, and don't really want to start my financially independent life by going in debt. When I went to undergrad, my dad paid for everything and I didn't have to worry about financial aid, so I have no idea how it works and have never dealt with the system. My question(s) is/are: 1. I know some people get living stipends and tuition wavers for graduate school. How common is this? Have you done so before? 2. Would you recommend going to graduate school? Right now I am making $23,000 a year and with a degree in speech language pathology could be making significantly more (and it's a field I'm interested in.) Basically ( TL;DR: . Assistant:	), as someone who used to be all sheltered and whatnot, I am asking for help from those of you who have dealt with the woes of not having the money for school, but wanting to go anyway.	), as someone who used to be all sheltered and whatnot, I am asking for help from those of you who have dealt with the woes of not having the money for school, but wanting to go anyway.	6,348
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: me [29m] with my downstairs neighbour [30sf] and her pot smoking habit POST: I purchased a condo about a year and a half ago and have been having an ongoing problem with the lady who lives downstairs. She smokes pot A LOT. She has told me she has a prescription for it; though we do live in an area where smoking pot is illegal. Her living room is immediately below my bathroom/bedroom. The building is old and has poor insulation which therefore means every time she smokes it fills my bathroom (and bedroom) with the smell of pot. When I first moved in I enquires with all the owners at a meeting (very small building and it's not professional managed) and each one claimed they don't smoke pot. I knew someone was lying as it cannot be smelled while outside, only inside my unit. One day I approached my neighbours door for something unrelated and was hit with the smell of pot as soon as I approached. She's since confirmed that she smokes pot but refuses to stop or smoke it outside. Beside the fact that I've never done pot and find the smell disgusting, I'm intending to apply for my city's police department. They have a very strict policy regarding drugs (for example, cutting out family members who do drugs, asking someone who rents to move, etc). I am very concerned that by ignoring this problem and smelling pot all the time I will be affecting my chances of being hired. I do not want to involve police if possible. It's a small building and this would cause a lot of animosity. I am looking for advice on how to escalate this and hopefully come to a resolution. I have already brought it up but she will claim she's not smoking and has no idea why I'm smelling pot. I'm not sure what my next steps should be (formal complaint, written complaint, etc) Any advice in how to approach this and (hopefully) maintain an amicable relationship would be appreciated! TL;DR: . Assistant:	pot smoking neighbour smells up my condo - she will deny she's smoking currently and refuses to stop. Claims she has a prescription. I want to be a cop and want to deal with this peacefully if possible	pot smoking neighbour smells up my condo - she will deny she's smoking currently and refuses to stop. Claims she has a prescription. I want to be a cop and want to deal with this peacefully if possible	832
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Agreed to meetup Saturday but haven't heard from since POST: Hello reddit.. I need some advice. I've been talking with this girl for about 2 weeks now. We went out last weekend and it went great. We were working on setting up another date and she told me that she was concerned about distance (its about a 30 minute drive). I messaged her back and said that i agree with her but there are ways around it. Anyways, after that she messaged me that sue would like to try and said that maybe we could set something up for Saturday (tomorrow) i replied that that sounded great and i was looking forward to it. I havent heard anything since (this was tuesday night). Ive texted her a couple of times just wishing her a good day at work (no more than once a day). I'm not sure what to do. Part of me wants to text her again but its now been about 5 texts since her last response. Any advice would be appreciated! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Went out with girl. She was concerned about distance but decided she wanted to try anyways. Set something up for saturday (no set time etc.) Haven't heard from her sense. 5 texts now with no response	Went out with girl. She was concerned about distance but decided she wanted to try anyways. Set something up for saturday (no set time etc.) Haven't heard from her sense. 5 texts now with no response	508
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your worst real life "hive mind" moment? POST: Here's mine. When I was in third grade, I ended up in the class of one of the coolest teachers I'd had yet. She was funny and witty, she was down to earth, and I didn't hate going to school. Things were great...but it didn't last. There were no warning signs leading up to what happened, it just kind of happened. One day in class, an average day like any other, our teacher engaged another student in conversation during a lesson. My memory is foggy about what led up to the incident, but what happened is burned clearly into my memory. As far as I can remember, she said or asked him something in a joking/sarcastic tone. He stood up and said, "No." And that's when she slapped him across the face. I couldn't believe it. I did what I thought any rational kid would do: I went home and told my mom. And because I was lucky enough to have an involved and caring mom, she took it straight to the principal. Again, it's foggy, but I remember being harrassed by all the other kids who were there that day. I was called a liar by almost everybody. Nobody admitted the truth about what happened, not even the kid who got slapped. He said she patted him on the head. It blew my mind that he would cover for her. But even now, even despite the foggy recollection of everything else that happened before and after, I know the truth. That's when I learned that sheep have the tendency to follow one another, even when they're not headed in the right direction. I was the stray from the herd, and I became the outcast. Because I told the truth. Anybody got a similar story to share about the group mindset gone wrong? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I snitched on my third grade teacher for slapping a student and nobody else owned up. I was shunned. Anything like this happen to you?	I snitched on my third grade teacher for slapping a student and nobody else owned up. I was shunned. Anything like this happen to you?	1,058
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 27m Concerning my friend and his ex POST: So, my best friend and former room mate (25m) got dumped by his girlfriend (23f) after they dated for about 2 years. I don't know the exact reasons why but then again I don't need to. She moved across the country right after she ended it, this was approximately four months ago. This past weekend she was back in town visiting and I consider her to be a good friend so I made sure to spend some time with her while she was here. She was very excited when I saw her because she had gotten engaged the night before to her new boyfriend (33m). Since it had happened so recently I was one of the first people she told and not many people know about it yet still. So my question is, should I tell my friend about her new engagement? He's still pretty upset about the break up, I feel like I should say something to him because I don't want him to get blind sided by a shitty status update or something insincere like that but at the same time I feel like it's really not my place to say anything since it's between them and I have nothing to do with it. Should I just keep my mouth shut? Am I making a bigger deal out of this than I need to? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My friend got dumped, not long after that his ex got engaged, he doesn't know yet, should I tell him?	My friend got dumped, not long after that his ex got engaged, he doesn't know yet, should I tell him?	2,490
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I have a question about a really weird experience my friend had that makes no sense, maybe you guys can interpret it. POST: A friend of mine goes to to dance up in Nashville every now and then and recently met an older couple. She says this couple is very friendly and they really get along well. But last Saturday she said that the wife in the couple came up to her and looked terrified and demanded that she talk to my friend in private. The lady goes on to say that she believes in reincarnation and believes that my friends soul and her soul are connected and she goes on to tell my friend that she forgives her for anything she has ever done that might hurt her and then asks my friends forgiveness. She said that their souls being connected was not a bad thing but they had to stop some spirits of some kind. I am in a genuine state of WTF right now and am wondering if you guys have any clue as to what religion or belief system this lady follows. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Crazy lady tells my friend that she believes in reincarnation and thinks that their souls are connected and that they have to stop some evil spirits so nothing bad will happen.	Crazy lady tells my friend that she believes in reincarnation and thinks that their souls are connected and that they have to stop some evil spirits so nothing bad will happen.	1,624
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25/F] with my BF [22 M], we're both visiting his Korean Grandma for first time, help! POST: So my boyfriend's mom just reconnected with her mother who gave her daughter up (my boyfriends mom) when she was like 2 I think. She lives in Tampa and we are heading down to a convention in Orlando this weekend and are going to stop by Tampa to introduce ourselves, at my boyfriend's mom and grandma's request. I'm super nervous!! I know culture etiquette pretty well, I think (advise me on this too anyways!) such as taking my shoes off and such. I was wondering if anyone can give me some advice. I'm a pretty awkward person, even more so when I meet someone new. And even way more so since it's family for my boyfriend. How do I not look like an idiot? I still get nervous around his mom and we've been dating for 7 years now. Also, should I bring her a gift? Flowers? I might be overthinking it. She might not even be that influenced by the Korean culture but I want to be prepared! Last thing I want to do is insult her... I don't know if it matters but I'm white and my boyfriend is Korean. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Meeting Korean Grandma for the first time. Should I bring a gift and how do I not be so awkward/nervous.	Meeting Korean Grandma for the first time. Should I bring a gift and how do I not be so awkward/nervous.	5,126
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: 3 months now... POST: m20, she f20 Broken up for 3 months now. We dated a total of ~6 months of the past year (big break in the middle somewhere) Life isn't getting any better. I've come here before for advice, and I've read plenty, time heals it all... I just feel like things are getting worse. I accidentally think of every day at some point, and always think of before I [finally] go to sleep. It's gotten to the point where I'm suffering from self-diagnosed depression. It probably goes deeper than a relationship, but she definitely is the biggest trigger and catalyst for my depressive mood. It should be noted that I've gone to a psychiatrist recently and she determined I am not severely depressed. TL;DR: . Assistant:	If it's my anxieties of us breaking up and missing her have been getting worse... am I doing something wrong in coping with this?	If it's my anxieties of us breaking up and missing her have been getting worse... am I doing something wrong in coping with this?	5,414
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] was introduced to my roommate's [25 M] crush [23 F] and she's more interested in me. POST: Had a party two weeks ago. Roommate brings over girl he's been crushing on since summer. I wasn't really hitting on her, but the girl and I connected pretty well. Roommate gets drunk and tells me she's fair game when her and her friends leave. Since then we've gone on two dates, and he discovered this last weekend. He gets blackout drunk to the point of belligerence, calls me selfish, self-absorbed, and ultimately victimizes himself. I realize I'm in the wrong for not telling him about the dates, and I plan to apologize for that. But if he was never was in an intimate relationship with her, should I really feel that bad? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Roommate introduces me to crush, her and I hit it off, he's now pissed. Did I fuck up?	Roommate introduces me to crush, her and I hit it off, he's now pissed. Did I fuck up?	3,982
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26f] deleted my ex [32m] off of Facebook After amicable breakup. I want to add him back on... Who do you think? POST: We broke up a little less than two weeks ago. Although the breakup was amicable, it was one sided and I was hurt at the time. I deleted him and all pics of us together. I wasn't thinking, I was just being rash. That was far from what I wanted to do. I don't want to send the message that I wanted to cut him out of my life. Well, he noticed it and bought it up during our last interaction. I explained to him why and said I regretted it immediately after and he simply said to add him back on when I'm ready. Yesterday, I learned that he is upset/bitter about it. And he has been avoiding me. We have a mutual group of friends and they've been taking turn hanging out with each of us individually. I'm thinking it's due to me deleting him (?) or still torn about the breakup. I'm fine, I have no resentment or anger over the breakup. I care for him and I know he made the best choice for him. And I'm happy that he was honest with me rather than dragging me along. My question is, is it okay for me to add him back on so recently after the breakup? TL;DR: . Assistant:	deleted ex off of Facebook immediately after our breakup, he's upset about it and I regretted my action. Should I add him back on?	deleted ex off of Facebook immediately after our breakup, he's upset about it and I regretted my action. Should I add him back on?	6,375