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And how read will you go? I mean, if we look around this room
1irq
probably like the chairs.
0id
Okay, thanks. Hello. Yeah, you're going to be as kind of brightly pink as these chairs. Oh, yeah. Okay. So out of 100 then how how pink would you say these chairs are
1irq
90 have 100 Okay.
0id
What else you worried is going to happen when we have these conversations, just
1irq
worried to be fake, like say something stupid and not be able to kind of get what I'm trying to say across properly.
0id
Okay, and how stupid out of 100 100 is ridiculously stupid.
1irq
Probably like, similar 90. Okay, I'd say
0id
wow, see worried will happen when you have this conversation. What else might you see on the camera?
1irq
I think you'll probably be able to see that I'm sweating and okay.
0id
And how much will you be sweating?
1irq
Again, 90.
0id
I really think like visibly sweating down the face. Yeah.
3gc
Okay, and what you think will happen the second time around when you stop kind of doing the things you normally do to cope when you maybe start to make eye contact. You're not gripping on something.
1irq
I think it will be even worse. I think Oh, yeah.
10od
How much worse? slightly worse, like twice as bad?
4crq
Twice as bad. Okay. Yeah.
6cd
Okay,
7ack
right. Can you give me your phone number?
1irq
Oh yeah. Should I just use this?
4crq
And yeah, yeah, it's probably best. Okay.
6cd
Okay.
7ack
okay. So
3gc
I was just wondering if I could talk to you about maybe doing my wedding
1irq
photography. Yeah. And what kind of kind of what kind of things you see and how you want it to be like,
0id
I suppose I like lots of shots of our family and our friends quite a lot of natural shots. You know, talking when they're having drinks. And
3gc
yeah. Do you want it? Like, do you kind of see it being outside? Is that something that you're interested in?
1irq
Yeah, shots there's going to be a summer wedding. So we like I like a lot of outdoors shots and if possible, you know, if it's not raining, that would be quite nice and Yeah, quite some arty ones if that's possible.
0id
Yeah. And yeah, that'll be. I've done quite a few things like that before.
3gc
So, have you got anything that you could show me about your past work?
1irq
Yeah, I recently did some shoots outside kind of in like a word environment so that I could show you that maybe it would kind of help with some ideas.
0id
Hi. So I was just wondering if I could speak to you about doing my wedding photography.
1irq
Yeah, yeah. And what kind of thing are you looking at? How do you want it to be like,
0id
and I'd like kind of lots of shots of family and friends and quite a lot of natural shots, you know,
1irq
okay. And are you interested in having things outside maybe and he said it was he wants to It's been natural.
0id
Yeah, cuz it's gonna be a summer wedding and Okay, you know, weather dependent. Of course. Yeah, it would be really great if we could kind of get lots of shots you know, outdoors. Okay. Yeah, people chatting and maybe some quite arty ones as well.
3gc
Yeah.
7ack
Have you got anything that you could show me about your past work?
1irq
Yeah, actually, it's kind of a lot of the things I do are outside and I'm really interested in getting natural shots. So when I could change some of my work, and we could kind of see if we could kind of develop something from that could be quite good. Okay.
0id
Let's pause it there. Okay. Ryan's gonna give you this back now to look up. Okay. And I just want you to watch that. Okay. And then we'll chat about it in a moment. Okay.
3gc
That's weird thing.
3gc
So, if we just go back to the things that you predicted, then you said that you thought you were going to shake visibly shake. Could you see yourself shaking on a video
1irq
Definitely not as much as I thought. I think it's obvious that I'm obviously quite anxious, but I don't think you can tell them shaking that much.
0id
So you said that you were going to shake 90 out of 100? How much shaking Would you say that you saw there?
1irq
And maybe like, less than 30.
0id
Okay. And you said that you were going to go red, or pink as pink as these chairs? 90 out of 100. Did you notice yourself going pink?
1irq
Not really. Actually, definitely less than I thought. Yeah,
0id
not as much.
0id
Okay, you said that you were worried that you were going to say something stupid, you know, at 90 out of 100 Did you know yourself say anything stupid?
1irq
Not really. Yeah. Yeah, thought was gonna be a lot worse than
0id
actually it was. So you thought you were going to be like 90 say something that was 90% stupid. That's really quite strong. I mean, in the end did you pick up in Anything that could be maybe put that as a zero?
1irq
Maybe like, less than 10 maybe.
0id
And you said that you thought you were going to be sweating? Yeah. And that you're going to be visibly sweating. Did you? Did you notice yourself sweating in the end?
1irq
Not really. Definitely not as bad as I
0id
thought again, you thought you were going to be like night out, like seriously visibly sweating. So what what score would you actually give it in the end?
1irq
Maybe again, less than 10 I don't think you could tell at all.
0id
Mm hmm. You also said that you thought it was going to be twice as bad when you stop choosing your you know your normal strategies.
10od
Yeah.
7ack
What did you notice watching that video?
1irq
It was actually probably better when I wasn't doing any of those things. I think I looked a lot more natural. And I was able to say what I was trying to say. I think it just come across more personable when I'm not kind of looking down and stuff.
0id
okay that's all for now. Thank you so much for your time
2gt
Today I understand you've been having some difficulty lately.
3gc
Yeah, I would not to call it difficulty.
3gc
No. What would you call it?
1irq
My husband? I'm having a little bit of trouble with anger or something like that. But to me, it's like,
0id
so your husband believes you're having some trouble with anger.
4crq
My husband thinks so. But to me, I'm just fine. He's just a yellow little here and there and, and but he's a man. He's get over it. He's bigger than me stronger than me. I got Look, it's the way I get my point across. That's what I gotta do sometimes.
6cd
I see you have a, you feel like you have a relational style that doesn't match what he he wants, like you're, you're yelling and he's not liking that
3gc
it's how you communicate. If he's not happy with it, that's about it. He's gonna have to deal with it.
3gc
Can you tell me about the the yelling?
1irq
He says this all the time. But to me, it's what I do. If I want him to take the trash out. I tell him to take the trash out. He says I yell at him, we get into a fight over it. Just an argument over it. Nothing serious. But he says it's for everything I do. Getting the kids ready to school for school. He says I yell at the kids. He says, If I can't make anything simple, I can just make a simple request. He says I have to yell at him. I have to start a fight. I say should man up.
0id
So you don't feel like you have a problem with yelling or anger or anything?
5yq
the way you Guess the way I am? has been causing you vague. It's been causing some, some trouble with your husband. Any other trouble?
1irq
Oh, mainly with the husband. You know, I almost got into an argument with the neighbor but we dealt with it. She told my husband, he agreed with her and well, he sent us get help.
0id
Alright, so it's caused you some difficulties that way.
4crq
Sure, really here today because he's asked you to come
4crq
I am here. He's my husband. So I respect him. I want to make him happy. So I said I'll go
6cd
Alright, but Sure. You're really not convinced that you
4crq
I don't see it as a problem.
6cd
Yeah?
4crq
he's more of a problem than I am.
6cd
He's convinced you're not.
3gc
who would your relationship be a little easier without the yelling?
1irq
For him? It would be I guess, but it I think maybe we could try it. I don't know. But it's taught but it's what I do.
0id
Can you tell me about some of the events that you think lead to the yelling?
1irq
He doesn't get what I'm trying to say. It could be something as he wants to do it his way we could be driving. Alright, No, honey, I said we want to go this way. Oh, wait, why are you going that way? No flow. And then we get into a fight in the car. Or okay, honey, that's not how you do two dishes. We started as simple as that. No, you wash out. No, that's not how you do dishes. It could be something like that. We get into an argument. It's just over two simplest things.
0id
And then the argument. How do you find the distribution of like, Who's yelling? Or is it mostly you yelling? Are you both yelling?
1irq
I feel like I have to get my point across. But he's not 100% innocent and messy. And I'm like, it's not my fault. I wouldn't have to yell if you listen to the first time.
0id
Do you ever find yourself planning to get into an argument or is it more spontaneous?
1irq
spontaneous, want to plan to get into anargument with him?
0id
Just kind of happens when
1irq
If he would listen. And we want to be fine so much. Things are fine when he listens. But then he says, I don't know what it is the moment I try to tell him something. It's just it just gets to me.
0id
And that's what leads to the
4crq
we just start yelling just start fighting.
6cd
alRight so this has been causing you some Distress with that relation.
4crq
our relationship could be better, if you will listen more, but yes.
6cd
Do you have any medical conditions?
5yq
Nope.
9on
Do you ever use drugs or alcohol?
5yq
No, not not not alcoholic or drug addict, right? If you try to say that No,
9on