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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I remained with my girl after a long distance relationship" }, { "assistant": "That's great. I never did a long distance one. But my brother did, and it was about 400 miles.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I feel his pain, it sucks at times. It makes you cherish the moments you do have together though!" }, { "assistant": "She was a keeper though, I'm sure it was worth it for him.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I hope it ends up the same way for me also, all the best to your brother!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10779_conv:21558
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've been abroad for a while traveling but soon I'm going back to the US!" }, { "assistant": "good for you. where have you been?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I've been in Mexico." }, { "assistant": "what'd you do there?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was waiting on my wife until she can come with me to the US (getting her papers ready)." }, { "assistant": "oh I see. do you have kids together", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "well, it's time. I'm going to ask the girl of my dreams out on a date" }, { "assistant": "That's a good idea!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yep, and I know she'll say yes. she has to" }, { "assistant": "Hopefully!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "because I'm the hottest piece of butt this side of the world!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10780_conv:21560
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "So, I'm a musician and I recently had a really gratifying situation" }, { "assistant": "Great, what happend?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was playing drums with my friend's dad! He's really well versed." }, { "assistant": "Cool, I never played the drums. My band teacher in middle school tried to discourage playing the drums cause there are no notes!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "THERE ARE NOTES. But what really left an impression was that he was pleased with my amateurish ability. (You should absolutely pick up drums they're so much fun and a great aerobic exercise)" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10781_conv:21563
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "it's time. I'm ready to go on the hardest mountain climb I've ever done" }, { "assistant": "sounds like a good adventure! where are you going to climb?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Everest. and I'm ready to face my death if need be" }, { "assistant": "well hopefully you won't die. be careful and make sure you have fun!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "oh yeah I'll try to remind myself of that" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10782_conv:21564
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I had always colored my hair at home but had a wedding comeing up so I wanted to finally get it done professionally." }, { "assistant": "I hope it turned out great. Did you find a good hairdresser to do your hair?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No! It was terrible, I wanted light brown and when I got up from the chair it was so blonde. I was to upset to even say anything." }, { "assistant": "Oh, I'm so sorry that happened to you. I really hope you were able to get the color fixed eventually.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10782_conv:21565
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I get sentimental around Christmas. Christmases with my parents were the best but now they're gone." }, { "assistant": "Oh I'm so sorry to hear that, how long have they been gone.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I lost my dad a couple of years ago and my mother followed a year later. It is sometimes hard to get through Christmas without nostalgia." }, { "assistant": "Oh wow....I hope you can get through it.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10783_conv:21566
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "One time I got pantsed in PE class. The other girls thought I should lose my pants while we were playing dodgeball." }, { "assistant": "That must have been embarrassing. Did the girls get in trouble for it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't remember. I was pretty numbed out." }, { "assistant": "I would have switched schools if I were you. I would hate to have to be with bullies like that", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "My parents made me go to a private school, actually. But I did convince them to let me go to public for Senior year, though." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10784_conv:21569
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My mom found my weed when I was younger" }, { "assistant": "Did she punish you?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Oh boy, she yelled and carried on. I couldn't hide my shame" }, { "assistant": "I hope she didn't make you feel too bad about it! People make mistakes when they're young.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10785_conv:21571
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "oh boy....I just screwed my whole life up and I want to die" }, { "assistant": "That's terrible. Hopefully things right themselves for you soon.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "ugh I just want to crawl into a hole. my whole school knows too" }, { "assistant": "The plus side about schools is that someone else will do something that everyone will focus on soon enough.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "well unless someone ELSE farts right in their crush's cute face while her mouth was open" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10786_conv:21573
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "One time my friend dropped something heavy on my favorite guitar" }, { "assistant": "Was the guitar okay?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It had a huge dent but, sounded fine. I was pretty mad but, I could tell it was an accident" }, { "assistant": "I stepped on my uncle's fishing pole, kinda hard to tell if it catches fish worse or not.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10788_conv:21576
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "The most awful time of my life was when my wife went to jail for a month. I'm glad it's all over." }, { "assistant": "holy cow! Why did she go to jail?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Some old stuff from 2 years before but court was appointed this late!" }, { "assistant": "I'm glad y'all were able to make it through such a hard time.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10788_conv:21577
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Do you ever think you know someone and then you go to their house and find out their a HOARDER@" }, { "assistant": "Woah, I never had that happen to me.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It came as a total shock! She would have been the last person I thought would be a hoarder" }, { "assistant": "Yes, we can truly not judge people because unless you are very close with a person you can't know their full story!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10789_conv:21578
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "It was really tough to watch my father struggle with cancer. When he got the diagnosys I was devastated for him." }, { "assistant": "I am sure that was difficult. How is he now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He passed away. At least he is no longer in pain." }, { "assistant": "I am so sorry for your loss. It can be a relief to know he isn't in pain. I felt the same way when I lost my Aunt last year. She was like a mom to me.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10789_conv:21579
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My son wanted the tips of his new hair curt dyed blonde to start school." }, { "assistant": "How did the school feel about it? Don't they have strict rules about that?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It didn't seem that it would be a problem, since it wasn't a crazy color. But, we ended up in the salon after I turned it orange by mistake lol." }, { "assistant": "That's funny and unfortunate at the same time. I really hope your son was okay and not too traumatised by the experience!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They fixed it, but I am sure he won't let mom try to play hair stylist again. I was so embarassed when I went to the salon lol." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10790_conv:21581
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "We took a big leap of faith with our teenage son this weekend. We left him home overnight alone for the first time." }, { "assistant": "Wow, that would have scared me, how did it go?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It went great! He's such a responsible kid, and we felt confident he would treat our home with respect and wouldn't have a party or anything like that!" }, { "assistant": "that's good I have 2 teenage daughters and dread the idea of leaving them by themselves", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't blame you. It's definitely hard to do. It's good for them to know that you are relying on them to do the right thing though." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10791_conv:21582
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have been a teacher for over 10 years. But have only taught the little kids. This year my district moved me up to the high school." }, { "assistant": "That's a really big change, are you nervous?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was- Monday was my first day. My goal was not to make a fool out myself." }, { "assistant": "10 years of teaching experience, I'm sure you'll end up having a great year! Don't stress too much.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10792_conv:21585
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I got into a fight with my brother this weekend. I said some things I shouldn't have said. " }, { "assistant": "if you regret what you did you should go apologise for you said to him!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I did apologize but I still can't shake the feeling that I went too far. I'm not proud of how I acted at all. " }, { "assistant": "i hope he can forgive you and help you forget about what you said.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10793_conv:21586
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was so naive and trusting in the past and people took advantage of me a lot. I'm a lot more careful now." }, { "assistant": "you'll need to be careful around me then. I'm the type of person who takes advantage of people", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I am careful around everybody. But I appreciate the warning." }, { "assistant": "yeah but maybe we'll fall in love instead?", "user": null } ]
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hit:10793_conv:21587
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "well, I have faith that everything will turn out okay today. it's a big day" }, { "assistant": "Why? What's happening today? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "getting the results back on whether I have lymphoma or not. but I've been having positive dreams all week and know I'll be ok" }, { "assistant": "Oh, my goodness. I really hope you're right and that the results come out negative.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "don't you mean positive?? are you trying to jinx me??" }, { "assistant": "You want cancer results to come out negative for cancer, not positive for it.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "ohh....well good to know, I should tell my doctor that" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10795_conv:21590
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i play in a band and recently we had a concert and played to the most appreciative audience ever" }, { "assistant": "thats amazing. where was the concert? and how many people were participated?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "well, it was a rock concert, and there was so many people over 1000!" }, { "assistant": "cool!! even i wanted to learn guitar.. but have no time for it", "user": null } ]
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hit:10795_conv:21591
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i kept my friend's wallet which he'd forgotten at m y place and i felt trustful" }, { "assistant": "did he came back to take it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "no. whenever we meet i will handover to him" }, { "assistant": "you are a trustworthy person, glad he forgot it at your place not somewhere else", "user": null } ]
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hit:10796_conv:21592
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i'm always scared that something bad will happen in my life." }, { "assistant": "I think a lot of people feel the same, it's natural. Is there anything in particular that you're scared of happening? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i am always scared that i can't control a lot of things that happens in my life " }, { "assistant": "There is a lot you can't control in life though. If you focus on the things you can control, then it might stop the negative feelings about things you can't control", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "wow, my son has completely let me down today" }, { "assistant": "I'm sorry about that. What did he do?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "he's a senior in highschool, and I just found out that he cheated on his homework and tests. every single one of them, for 4 years" }, { "assistant": "Wow, well he will have to learn his lesson before he will get a job or go to college. That won't work there.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I think I'm going to disown him. like, legally" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I thought my wife had umbilical hernia. Which is a serious health condition. Doctor told her she might die or end up in an ER! " }, { "assistant": "well I mean...does she really? or do you just think she does", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No! The doctor was completely wrong and it was a misdiagnosis which we thought it was but there was also this fear." }, { "assistant": "well you should be more worried about dying in a car accident, because that's 10x more likely. drive safe", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When I was offered the job of my dreams, I knew I had everything I could ever need. I finally felt content in my life." }, { "assistant": "that's great, what kind of job was it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was hired to work at a children's hospital in my city. It really made waking up in the morning worth it every day." }, { "assistant": "That's great, my one son spent time in a childrens hospital and the care was fantastic could not have been happier with them", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have always homeschooled my kids." }, { "assistant": "That's really interesting. Do you think it benefits them learning from you rather than qualified teachers? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well, we put them into the local public schools this year and even though its so scary for me, they are loving it!" }, { "assistant": "I suppose as long as they're happy that's the main thing! It probably benefits them being around other kids their age?", "user": null } ]
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hit:107_conv:214
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Got asked to my boss' office. Thought I was getting bad news but turns out I was offered a promotion." }, { "assistant": "Nice. Did you take it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I definitely did!" }, { "assistant": "Nice did you take it?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have studied and am sure I will pass the test." }, { "assistant": "Good luck! Do your best. you sound well prepapred.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I expect an A." }, { "assistant": "I hope you get it!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "as a writer i prefer to always be alone" }, { "assistant": "I see, being alone can be fulfilling to. It all depends on the kind of person you are.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i agree with you, i get a lot of inspiration when i'm alone." }, { "assistant": "Yes, we can discover our inner worlds whenever we're alone!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I remember I remember when I had my little Labrador puppy. But I had to give her away." }, { "assistant": "why? i had the same thing happening to me with my dog. is she somewhere safe though?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes she is safe. I was pretty young back then and already had another dog. Couldn't keep both unfortunately." }, { "assistant": "that's okay. you can always get yourself another dog.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": " \"Am very happy to have the best family in the world\"." }, { "assistant": "That's amazing, It's always nice to get on with your family! Have you always got on with them? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, we understand ourselves and know our boundaries. we are always happy " }, { "assistant": "that's so nice to hear. I have always been very close with my family too, but I have friends who aren't and it's horrible", "user": null } ]
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hit:10802_conv:21604
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I made a girl pregnant without marrying her, I feel so terrible because I am a very religious person" }, { "assistant": "Well, if you provided for your child's care then you shouldn't feel bad. I mean, this isn't the dark ages.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I need to go and confess my sins if not I won't be able to deal with the burden" }, { "assistant": "I am sorry you feel so bad about it. I sincerely believe God will forgive a truly repentant heart.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Amen" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10802_conv:21605
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I loved going trick or treating with my daughter. It used to get me so eager and excited every year." }, { "assistant": "That's so good. How old is she?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "She just turned 18. She doesn't like to trick or treat as much." }, { "assistant": "I know how you feel. Congrats on raising a young adult", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you. She is wonderful." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I felt comfortable and at ease with a new friend, she took the time to help me learn and be comfortable doing something new." }, { "assistant": "that's really nice - it's always amazing to have friends who you feel comfortable around. What was the new thing your friend made you do? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "She had me go rock climbing with her at her gym. It was so scary at first!" }, { "assistant": "Oh wow! I like getting out of my comfort zone and doing new things, it's such a thrill. Especially rock climbing - I had a friend who made me do it once too", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That is awesome, and it's so rewarding afterwards! I'm glad you got to experience that as well with a friend." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10804_conv:21609
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i hate when people tell me what to do" }, { "assistant": "Do you hate when anybody tells you what to do, or just figures of authority? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i don't think anyone should have the power or the right to tell you what's good for you if you didn't ask for help." }, { "assistant": "would you feel better if it was in the form of advise, instead of point blank telling you to do something? ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Unlike many of my friends I was confident when I went to job interviews and I always got the job. I guess I was lucky." }, { "assistant": "I think if you're confident in yourself, you can talk yourself into most jobs. You should give yourself more credit and not say you were lucky! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I guess you're right and I appreciate the way you look at this. I did have the right qualifications, so maybe that boosted my confidence." }, { "assistant": "I think so too! I think people should have more confidence in themselves, but you always focus on the negative things more than the positive! ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've been eating pizza almost every day lately and I'm satisfied with it. I have no shame." }, { "assistant": "I'm so jealous, I would eat pizza every day if I could! What's your favourite pizza? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I like any kind honestly. But Hawaiian wins my heart! Pepperoni is good too." }, { "assistant": "I'm not a fan of pineapple on pizza!! Pepperoni is by far my favourite ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "when i left my family's house to study in another city i got upset." }, { "assistant": "I'm sorry to hear that. What are you studying?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i'm studying biomed, it's gonna be worth it." }, { "assistant": "It certainly will.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i am loyal to my wife and i'll always be." }, { "assistant": "That's an amazing attitude. Not many people are like that nowadays.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i don't get it why people cheat and hurt each other, but i suppose because they are never happy with what they have and only feel grateful for it after they lose it." }, { "assistant": "Crazy world we live in.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10810_conv:21621
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Someone slapped me, I got so mad" }, { "assistant": "Oh wow, was in unprovoked? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I didn't step on her intentionally, that was a temper issue" }, { "assistant": "Did you try to apologise before she hit you, or did you not have time? ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My son is starting his senior year. I am finding myself feeling so emotional about it. " }, { "assistant": "You must be having bitter ,sweet emotion.I remember my mom was also emotional when i left boarding school for the first time.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, I have this feeling of excitement for his new adventure, but also worry. And I'm just going to miss him so much, he's a wonderful kid." }, { "assistant": "But you can make arrangements such that you see him every weekend.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't know that he'll appreciate that! Mostly I think I'll look at his childhood pictures for a while and have a good cry." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10813_conv:21626
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i had a fight with my mother and i said a lot of horrible things, i regret doing that." }, { "assistant": "I'm sorry to hear that. Did you apologize?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i did, but everytime i think of how disrespectful i was, i just want to die. i hope he'll forgive me" }, { "assistant": "I think if you're respectful and state what you did wrong and how you'll fix it, she will forgive you.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "So I was in a yoga class last week when something happened..." }, { "assistant": "what happened?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I bent over and my pants ripped!" }, { "assistant": "oh my god, how embarrassing was that? ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My wife have been with me through thick and thin for 30 years" }, { "assistant": "That is extremely loyal! You must have a really happy relationship? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes we have 4 lovely girls, they are all graduates of Ivy league universities. 2 are married " }, { "assistant": "It sounds like you really have had a good life so far! It makes me feel happy hearing good news stories like this ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I studied very hard before exams. I tried to make sure I was always prepared. " }, { "assistant": "That's so nice of you. Hardwork pays", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, being prepared was always important to me. It did pay off as you say." }, { "assistant": "Oh yeah, you must be a brilliant student", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Last year during my birthday, I received a gold necklace" }, { "assistant": "That's so nice. Who was it from?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "From my Grandma, so surprising, " }, { "assistant": "That was really nice of her to get it for you. She must love you very much.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I went to the public toilet and went out with a toilet paper sticking out of my pants..." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! That's awkward. Are you able to laugh about it now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah sure, it was years ago!" }, { "assistant": "Ha, that's good! I've had so many embarrassing things happen. We all have!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've been married for 30 years. I love my husband but I kind of miss the fun of flirting and dating someone new." }, { "assistant": "Oh, maybe that's a sign to bring fun and adventure in your relationship?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Probably so! I am very loyal and I would never cheat on him! He's a good guy. " }, { "assistant": "That's good, there is a lot of ways to make the relationship alive and interesting!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I agree. I've seen what happens when people cheat. It's not pretty!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I missed my good friend's birthday party last month because I was too busy and forgot." }, { "assistant": "That's such a shame! Were you honest with your friend, and did they forgive you? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was honest, they were still upset which makes me feel bad. I tried to make it up to her." }, { "assistant": "If she is that good a friend, I'm sure she'll forgive you soon enough. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I hope that she does, it made me feel awful. But here's to good thinking and positive vibes, she will come around!" }, { "assistant": "sending my positive vibes to you too! Fingers crossed! ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "my cat died last week, and i can't get over it." }, { "assistant": "Oh I'm so sorry. Losing a pet is never an easy thing.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "especially if that pet is the only things that you have." }, { "assistant": "I hope you have some friends and family that you can rely on to cheer you up. I'm sorry about your cat and I hope you know you gave it a good life!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I went skydiving a few years ago. It was a rush!" }, { "assistant": "skydiving is insane to me, how did it go? what reminded you of it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It went really well! I really want to do it again. I went tandem with the instructor and really had to have faith he knew what he was doing!" }, { "assistant": "it's always good to have a professional help with this kind of things, glad you had fun!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Earlier this year I was going through a very hard time with the illness of a family member. Out of the blue, my dog died." }, { "assistant": "That's incredibly sad, I'm so sorry for your loss. How long had you had your dog? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I had him about 7 years. I loved him so much and having him die when he did was more than I could take at that moment. " }, { "assistant": "Do you have close friends and family that can help to support you through this time? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, everyone was great and I am feeling much better now. We did get a new puppy, but I still miss my old dog!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i was shattered by the news today, seeing all those innocent die made me very sad" }, { "assistant": "Oh, No! What caused so many innocent deaths?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "arabic countries always have unfair government and war going on which make me question , why are they doing this?" }, { "assistant": "I think war is universal. The causes are many.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I cooked a big turkey and served it to my in-laws. I embarrassed myself because it was terrible in the end." }, { "assistant": "did they anything mean to you? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No. But I used sugar instead of salt. It wasn't good." }, { "assistant": "oh, it was an accident, and it's alright. as long as you make sure that you use the right seasoning next time. it's all gonna be okay.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've had a slight financial struggle recently. I don't see a way out of it. " }, { "assistant": "How did you get into this situation? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "My girlfriend has gone a little crazy with spending frivolously. " }, { "assistant": "well I think she should be the one to get you out of it! Otherwise perhaps you could see a financial adviser. They might be able to help you consolidate your debts ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I think I've hadhad an epiphany. After not being serious about religion ever, I may have to turn it over to God... " }, { "assistant": "Well I have never heard of God helping with financial situations but perhaps if you pray and scrape together enough money for a ticket to Las Vegas all your troubles will be gone", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Lol... I went to a Christian school. Never cared before but now I'm 47. Maybe He can just give me a quick loan??? " }, { "assistant": "This is a lot to ask for. I recommend going straight to the pope for something of this magnitude", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I sent a parcel to my cousin recently and it never arrived. It cost me $50 " }, { "assistant": "Wow! Some delivery driver must be excited about their latest acquisition! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I did think that it had probably been stolen but I try to see the best in people so I hoped it had just been delayed. That was 2 months ago and it still has not arrived. Maybe it is time to move on" }, { "assistant": "I didn't mean to sound so flippant. That is a lot of money to lose. Was the item itself expensive also?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yes it was a gift for his wedding. I have contacted the delivery service but they have thousands of parcels and it takes a long time to locate a single one. I don't know what to do next" }, { "assistant": "Well, I hope they can trace it for you. Better late than never. I wish you good luck with that! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you for your kind words and wishes" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i am satisfied with my current life." }, { "assistant": "I'm really glad to hear that! That's one of the best feelings I think!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "it is, because being grateful for what you have is better than everything." }, { "assistant": "I very much agree! Being grateful is important, it keeps you level headed and grounded in life!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A tornado hit our home and destroyed it, as well as our car." }, { "assistant": "oh god, that sounds horrifying, are you and your family okay?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes we're okay thankfully no one was hurt, just all our belongings destroyed. We rebuilt and have come a long way since then!" }, { "assistant": "that's great, glad you managed to make everything okay afterwards, that must've been a lot of hard work!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you, it was so scary and awful, I'm glad to come back okay from it!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A 10.2 magnitude volcanic eruption shattered my neoghborhood.I lost a fortune!" }, { "assistant": "Oh, my goodness! Are you and your family safe though?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah ,miraculously1" }, { "assistant": "That's a relief. You have the people who matter safe and sound, the stuff can be replaced in time.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "MY wife racked up a lot of debt on our credit cards which put us in a lot of debt. I am furious with her." }, { "assistant": "Well,shes your wife after all", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, but irresponsible with money. We have a child to provide for together." }, { "assistant": "Thats women for you.Where you frugal with money?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I won a 10k race on the weekend" }, { "assistant": "Oh amazing! How long were you training for, and how many people did you beat? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I trained for 2 months and beat 300 people to get the gold. It was a very humid day so everyone struggled but I can only run in my lunch break when it is hottest so I was used to it" }, { "assistant": "That's incredible, well done! I injured my knee a few months back, so haven't been able to run since then. so frustrating", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I have had a few injuries but since seeing a physio therapist I have learnt a lot about injury prevention and recovery. It has changed my life" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "The dog I grew up with died a few years ago. I was really sad about it." }, { "assistant": "Aaawww, I'm sorry you had to go through that", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah I don't live near home any more so I wasn't able to say goodbye. Losing a pet is always pretty hard." }, { "assistant": "It is really hard to deal with Especially if you aren't nearby. Sounds like you really miss your sweet beast! ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm 47 years old and have been taking psychotropic meds for well over 30 years. I'm having more and more trouble with them working properly. It's happening a lot now. I'm at my wits end" }, { "assistant": "Oh I'm sorry you are going through that. Have you tried to go back to your doctor and discuss making some changes?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Oh yes.. We've made quite a few changes over the past few years They don't seem to work like they did in the past Not as well, nor as long. Very scary" }, { "assistant": "I hope that you can find a solution to help with that. Good luck!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thanks for the kind wishes! Hopefully we can find a fix before I slip too far into the abyss... " }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "yesterday i ran into an old friend and i was so surprised he changed a lot." }, { "assistant": "That must have been so nice for both of you. Had he changed for the better?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yes , he just isn't the same anymore, it felt like i'm talking to a completely different person." }, { "assistant": "People do change a lot when they grow up. I met an old school friend the other day, and they were awful now! ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was really disappointed when the bank told us our loan wasn;t approved. Now I can't buy our dream house." }, { "assistant": "Oh that's so sad, i'm really sorry about that. Is it possible to apply for a loan again in the future for the same house? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Not with the same bank. That house will be long gone by then anyway, unfortunately." }, { "assistant": "that's such a shame. I'm sure something similar will come up soon though ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "yesterday at work some guy ran his work truck into our building" }, { "assistant": "oh no, what a nightmare! Was anyone injured? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "no thankfully it was just the cover out front but it destroted it" }, { "assistant": "That's good then, as long as no one waa hurt! was he drunk? ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I trust so easily, I love dating guys that don't go after women" }, { "assistant": "That's cool, a good relationship is based on trust ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Oh yeah, being trustworthy can make both of you go a long way" }, { "assistant": "Have you always been very trusting? ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My neighbor recently had a baby! I brought her and her family a ton of food." }, { "assistant": "I like food. What kind?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I had brought her some chicken for sandwiches, lasagna, hot dogs with buns, Powerade, and also a dessert of strawberry cheesecake." }, { "assistant": "That is a legit lunch. Solid choices. A+ would eat.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I never miss making coffee in the morning and delivering it to my wife in bed." }, { "assistant": "Aw that is very kind of you. I love morning coffee!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "She needs it otherwise she won't get out of bed." }, { "assistant": "Haha! I think a lot of people can probably relate to that. I'm sure she appreciates it!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My daughter called and said she had bad news for me which made me apprehensive. She apparently scratched the car." }, { "assistant": "oh no. How bad was it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was a big scratch but easily fixed with a pain job. She got me anxious over such a nothing thing, though." }, { "assistant": "I can see how it would make you anxious. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Nothing happened to her, which is what counts. She was lucky." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I feel alone most of the time and I kinda enjoy it" }, { "assistant": "Is it because you are surrounded by people most of the time? I get that way sometimes too, so I can relate.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "At work I am, so when I get home I am perfectly fine being alone" }, { "assistant": "It is good that you enjoy your alone time. Sometimes we just need a little \"me-time\".", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I really love being scared, but I'm also a chicken. My friends convinced me to go to a haunted house!" }, { "assistant": "That sounds like so much fun! Were you scared?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was terrified! At first I was so excited, but once we got there I didn't know if I wanted to go in!" }, { "assistant": "My daughter got scared of haunted house once. It was hilarious, but I sympathise with her and you.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My kitten caught a cockroach in my kitchen last night. She then proceeded to try and eat it in front of me which was disgusting." }, { "assistant": "Yuck! At least the cockroach isn't in your kitchen anymore! My cats like to catch mice and bring them to the front door.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That's awful! I had to leave the room, I couldn't watch." }, { "assistant": "I wouldn't have been able to either! It's super gross!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I work at a milk plant and today my coworker left early on me. He's always leaving me with tons of work to do!" }, { "assistant": "Oh I bet that is frustrating! Can you report it to someone?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I have a team leader who I can try to report it to but he always seems to brush me off. It's getting old at this point!" }, { "assistant": "I would feel the same way. Perhaps you could mention it to your co-worker nicely and they will take pity on you. ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I wanted to buy a vacuum and finally found it on sale." }, { "assistant": "What kind of vacuum is it? I bought a Dyson recently and I love it!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was a Dyson! I have a regular one, but it was the cordless one. But I was with a friend and she picked it up first. It was the only one!" }, { "assistant": "Those vacuums are amazing and are one of a kind. You should get it!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I will watch for the next sale. I love them too. Still frustrated though that she got to it before me!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was pregnant with my son and my husband would bring me chocolate shakes home every night. I would get so excited for him to be home with it!" }, { "assistant": "That's so sweet Literately. He seems like a nice guy ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He's the best! I had such a craving for chocolate. Plus it didn't hurt that we lived right down the street from Dairy Queen!" }, { "assistant": "Nice! you are a lucky lady. ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am depressed most of the time. Im going to therapy and taking meds. I feel like im broken" }, { "assistant": "Oh I'm sorry that you are going through that. Have you discussed changing your medication up with your doctor?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We have changed it multiple times and nothing is really working. Its so frustrating. I just want myself back and I cant have him" }, { "assistant": "I hope one day you can find a solution and get back to being the old you.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I saw my stepmother for the first time in 15 years since my daddy passed away. It was totally unplanned and It was quite a shock to see her. " }, { "assistant": "Oh wow, It must have been quite an overwhelming experience for both of you", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Most definitely. It brought a lot of pain to the surface that I thought I had gotten past. I seem to be dwelling a bit now. " }, { "assistant": "Congrats because I know you will definitely overcome the pains", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Eventually. There a good memories mixed in there that I can recall fondly too. Sentiment is like that...you can smile while you're crying " }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I provide for a family of 8. It's tiring but rewarding" }, { "assistant": "Wow! The struggle is real. I hope you're not too tired and stressed. I wish you luck for being so selfless! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I love my wife alot, we had a set of twin 3 times in a row so the children are 6 plus myself and her all 8" }, { "assistant": "Do twins run in your family or are you just lucky? I mean that seriously, not sarcastically ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I got lucky :) " }, { "assistant": "That's awesome! You won the kiddo lottery! I wish you all the best of health and happiness!!! ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Hello. I just wanted to say my dog died today and it's been absolutely devastating for me. He was my best friend." }, { "assistant": "that's sad I hate to hear that how long did you have him", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Over 12 years. He was a boxer and was the best dog I've owned. He was the happiest of dogs and totally loyal." }, { "assistant": "I love boxers they are so cool looking do you plan on getting another one?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I finally got promoted! It's been a rough 5 years but I got it!" }, { "assistant": "Oh wow! Congratulations on getting promoted, that is awesome!!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I've had to put up with so much red tape and it finally paid off today! Thank you so much!" }, { "assistant": "I bet, that's usually how it goes, but so glad to hear of your promotion. I bet you're super happy!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I wanted to make my husband feel better since he was sick for a few weeks. I made him soup, rubbed his back, and ran him hot baths." }, { "assistant": "You are the best wife ever! I can't believe how lucky he is!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you! I wanted him to know he is cared about and that I wanted him to feel better. I would want the same done for me!" }, { "assistant": "What did he get sick with? I hope it's not contagious! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He had the flu unfortunately. I'm so glad I didn't end up getting him, but just thankful he is better now!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was to check my name on the list of students that passed, I got so tensed" }, { "assistant": "oh yeah, did you end up passing?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I passed, but it was not easy for me, because the exam so so difficult" }, { "assistant": "I remember those day's and do not miss them", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Someone tried to break into my house last year. I was pretty scared." }, { "assistant": "That's terrifying! Did they catch the guy?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes. Lucky for me he didn't get into the house." }, { "assistant": "I'm so sorry. How are you coping?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It shook me up when it happened but I'm okay now." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I defended my thesis last year, with a raging ear infection." }, { "assistant": "You must have been in so much pain. How did you manage to endure it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Lots of Advil. Thankfully, my adviser had prepared me really well. I wasn't even nervous." }, { "assistant": "It great you were confident despite your illness. It's a sign of good character.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I love camping! I'm going down to the beach this weekend and going to sleep out there for a couple of days!" }, { "assistant": "That is awesome and sounds like so much fun! What are you most excited for?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Getting a tan! My skin has barely seen the sun all summer long, I'm ready to bask in the sunlight!" }, { "assistant": "I can relate! I love to tan and haven't had the chance to yet either!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Starting yoga recently has left me feeling a ton better about my body and the way I can move!" }, { "assistant": "I really want to try Yoga! Would you say your back feels better? This sounds so fun!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "My lower back feels a ton better since starting yoga, I love it!" }, { "assistant": "I'm jealous! I wish I could try it out for myself. How long have you been doing it now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "For just over a month now! I hope that you try yoga out as well, it's calming and relaxing." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband and I recently got a new puppy! We haven't had a puppy in such a long time." }, { "assistant": "oh that's awesome what kind of puppy did you get?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We got an 8 week old Cane Corso. We have 2 other dogs, but they are getting older, so we thought now would be the perfect time for a new puppy." }, { "assistant": "that's too cool I would love to get a puppy some day", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "So it's been raining a lot lately after being relatively dry. I wanted it at first but now its destroying my garden." }, { "assistant": "That's awesome rain is good", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Rain would be good at first, but like I said it's oversaturated my crops and mold and mildew has set in." }, { "assistant": "oh no. so what do you do in such instance?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I have to just salvage what I can and move on to the next season." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am a little bit uncomfortable with knowing that my Ex has HIV" }, { "assistant": "Oh my goodness thats terrible. How did you find out?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "the sister told me. I think I will go and check my status as well" }, { "assistant": "I believe that's for the best. You should get regularly tested after this. I hope the best for you.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When I was younger I slept in the attic of what everyone thought was a haunted house. There'd be shadowy spectres and sounds all night every night." }, { "assistant": "Omg, sounds creepy", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It sure was. Once a light bulb hanging from the ceiling above my head shattered by itself. I ran out of the house immediately." }, { "assistant": "I am glad you escaped it", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Me too. I don't even believe in ghosts, I just hate anything that might make me believe in them." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I forgot to close my zip after using the washroom and I walked into the boardroom unknowingly" }, { "assistant": "Oh no, the dreaded fly being down for the big meeting. How'd it go?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I didn't realize until the meeting was ended" }, { "assistant": "Uh oh. I hope whoever saw it had a little chuckle then let it go. It's no big deal.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I felt so pity for the children I saw begging for food yesterday" }, { "assistant": "That's truly heartbreaking. Were you able to help them? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Oh yes, I gave them some money, though I had little, really wished I had much" }, { "assistant": "Your heart was in the right place. It sad that children can't be fed in our world today. Maybe one day nobody will have to be hungry.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was on my way home last night. I saw a lady on the side of the road hitchhiking. I wanted to pick her up.." }, { "assistant": "So what happened then", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "My children were in the car so I decided to drive them home. I went back later but she was gone." }, { "assistant": "OK, now I understand. Maybe she later got a ride home", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My kid recited the periodic table of elements to me. It was amazing." }, { "assistant": "Wow! How old is your child? That's very impressive!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "She's only 12! I couldn't do that at her age." }, { "assistant": "Wow! I can't even do that now! I bet you are very proud of her.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My parents always teach my toddler son the worst grammar. It is infuriating. " }, { "assistant": "That's unfortunate. Maybe you can have a chat with them about it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I have tried so many times. They just continue to do it. " }, { "assistant": "That must be so infuriating. I'd get upset if it were me.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I won off a scratch off ticket! I have the absolute worst luck with these things too!" }, { "assistant": "Congratulations! How much did you win?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I won a hundred bucks! This never happens ever!" }, { "assistant": "Hey that's awesome. And you're right it doesn't, so live it up my friend!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm such a dummy, I left a door open in my car overnight and now the battery is dead." }, { "assistant": "This happened to me! Don't feel bad, it happens to people such as us!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah that's true. My wife had to take another car in this morning, I just hope she isn't upset with me." }, { "assistant": "She'll forgive you eventually. You'll never make the same mistake again I promise you that!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That's for sure haha!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was getting excited about my upcoming birthday, I didn't know if my husband had planned a secret party!" }, { "assistant": "Has he given you any hints that he might be planning a party? That would be so much fun to be with all your family and friends in one place to celebrate you!!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He dropped a few but was careful not to ruin the surprise! When I came home on my birthday, 40 people surprised me!" }, { "assistant": "That is a lot of people!! You are loved and appreciated! Now, its time to start planning his suprise birthday", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you! I agree, he deserves a great surprise after this awesome birthday party he planned me!" }, { "assistant": "Husbands can be so thoughtful... You have a good one..", "user": null } ]
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