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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My grandmother was diagnosed with stage four cancer. I feel helpless." }, { "assistant": "Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. That is awful and makes me sad. Have you talked to anyone about it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I have spoken to our minister about the situation. It's hard to watch her go through this and there isn't much I can do. I can just love and take care of her." }, { "assistant": "That's what you need to focus on is just giving her all of your love, she will cherish it. I'm so sorry you're going through this, I hope that you can find peace with the situation.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you for the kind words. It gives me hope for the future. " }, { "assistant": "I am glad, I hope you have a great day today!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10850_conv:21700
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My wife and I have been together for 7 years. Last night she went out with her friends but I know she would never cheat on me." }, { "assistant": "Wow, that's so cool of you. You really trust her", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Absolutely, she's always been good to me and has never given me reason to not trust her. " }, { "assistant": "I really admire your love life. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10850_conv:21701
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I lost a loved one last week, I felt like I was loosing my breath" }, { "assistant": "Are you ok? That's absolutely devastating. I hope you have people to confide in right now.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, my friends have been there for me. Not really easy though" }, { "assistant": "I hope things get better for you, you seem to be a good soul. I pray for your lose.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10851_conv:21702
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't eat carbs but I am still fat :( how come i am the only one that have to pass through this ?" }, { "assistant": "I'm sorry to hear that. While diet is most of it, exercise can play a role too. How active is your lifestyle?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes I just feel jealous that I am not seeing any improvements in my weight loss program" }, { "assistant": "I know it might seem like empty words from a stranger but just keep at it. Try as hard as you can to stay positive you will see results, trust me.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10851_conv:21703
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I applied for a home loan and I'm waiting to hear back on it. The waiting is driving me up a wall." }, { "assistant": "can't you place a call to them?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I have. It's taking them extra long for some reason. All the scrutiny is making me run circles." }, { "assistant": "I just think you should just be optimistic and patient", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I will try, thank you." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10852_conv:21704
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Wow, policy recently changed at work, not due to anything I did, and they are now paying me extra money!" }, { "assistant": "That's amazing! Congratulations. What was the policy that changed?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They changed how they pay per diem for long term stays. They used to pay a percentage, but now they still pay the full amount." }, { "assistant": "Well that's great for you. Everybody loves a little extra money!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I know, praise God!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10852_conv:21705
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I asked a friend I'd had for a very long time to be in my wedding. She agreed and then completely disappeared from my life." }, { "assistant": "I'm sorry that's rough. Did you ever find out why?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No, I didn't. I even offered to pay for everything for her since she had to travel. I guess she wasn't as good of a friend as I thought." }, { "assistant": "I guess not, but I hope you still had (or will have if it hasn't happened yet) a great wedding!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10853_conv:21706
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "A man followed me as I was walking home last night. I walked really fast to avoid him catching up with me." }, { "assistant": "That is really scary. Did he ever catch up with you?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No. I got home safe and sound." }, { "assistant": "Thank goodness. Do you know who he was?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I have no idea who he was. Just some stranger." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10854_conv:21708
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I worked hard at winning a competition and ended up losing to my coworker, it made me pretty upset." }, { "assistant": "How close did you lose by? I bet at the next competition, you'll wipe the floor with them.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I lost by underselling 40 boxes. I still am a bit upset that my coworker got it instead. Thank you, I hope so!" }, { "assistant": "Understandable, when you put so much work into something only to be eclipsed by someone else. Not a good feeling.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10854_conv:21709
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My father passed away over the winter and we are huge baseball fans. This is the first season not watching games with him." }, { "assistant": "Oh my goodness that is so sad, I am sorry to hear about your father. Are you handling him being gone okay?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I am but baseball has kind of thrown it out of sorts. We really enjoyed going to games together when I was growing up." }, { "assistant": "I understand completely. I hope that you can enjoy going to more games, and carry on his spirit when you go.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I always try. Thank you for lending an ear." }, { "assistant": "Always!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10855_conv:21710
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I sneezed on my coworker by accident yesterday! She was horrified and doesn't talk to me anymore." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! That is really embarrassing. Hopefully she can move on from it and you can laugh about it one day.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I hope so too! For now however it's awkward and embarrassing." }, { "assistant": "At least it wasn't something you did on purpose. I'm sure it will blow over!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10855_conv:21711
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "There are a couple barn cats that live on my property. One likes to bring dead mice to my front door!" }, { "assistant": "I think it's so weird that cats do that. It's like they are bringing us trophies or something!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I know! He does it all the time. I'm glad he's catching mice, but I don't need to see the bodies!" }, { "assistant": "Yeah I would be a little horrified too if my cat did that! I'm dying of laughter thinking about your situation.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10857_conv:21714
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I am very certain about my girl's love for me" }, { "assistant": "That's so sweet. It's good to have that kind of faith in your relationships.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yes we have been together for 5 years now" }, { "assistant": "Congratulations. I hope you stay happy always.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10857_conv:21715
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I lost my cat and can't find her. She just disappeared one day and I don't know where she is." }, { "assistant": "have you called any rescue center yet?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes and they said they have no record of a cat that matches her description. I miss her terribly." }, { "assistant": "Lets hope it will trace the house back", "user": null } ]
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hit:10858_conv:21717
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "after quitting school for two years I am finally going back" }, { "assistant": "Oh wow, good for you. That education will help you the rest of your life! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yeah I hope so it's exciting and scary at the same time" }, { "assistant": "It can be frightening, especially with all those new classmates and teachers. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10859_conv:21718
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I saw my boyfriend speaking to his ex girlfriend at the store. The way she looked at him made me so mad. " }, { "assistant": "Oh man, I would have been really frustrated. Does she know he is dating you now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Of course, our town is so small. However, I could be letting my imagination get in the way. Gosh, her smirk is what made it worse." }, { "assistant": "It's never fun to see your significant other around someone they used to date. At least he is with you now and I'm sure you have nothing to worry about!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10859_conv:21719
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I had to go to the car dealer to buy a new vehicle several years ago. I always get so nervous when I have to talk to the dealers." }, { "assistant": "I totally understand the anxiety. You never know if they are baiting you or actually giving you a good deal. Did you get a new car?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Exactly. I always end up feeling like I'm getting ripped off. I did end up forcing my husband, who is better at deals, to come with me and we got a Jeep!" }, { "assistant": "I'm so happy you were able to get a dependable vehicle. I always have someone come with me as well. It's nice to have a second pair of eyes.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10860_conv:21720
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm having difficulties when I think about my father. He died one year ago and it's still hurting very much." }, { "assistant": "I'm so sorry to hear about that, it must be awful. Do you have friends and family that you can talk to about this? ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you for your kindness. My brother is around to listen but he lives a very busy life so it's hard to find someone to turn to." }, { "assistant": "When my relatives have died, it helps me to remember the good times, and makes me smile instead of being sad", "user": null } ]
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hit:10862_conv:21724
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I had a friend that was always there for me, he took me as a sister, I missed him" }, { "assistant": "Aw, he sounded like such a great friend! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Oh yeah, but he died last month" }, { "assistant": "I am so sorry, that is so tragic. At least you have some good memories with him. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10863_conv:21727
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When I met my girlfriend she had a 5 year old son. We have been together for years now and I consider him as my own child. " }, { "assistant": "That is so sweet. I really commend people who treat kids like their own, it's so important for a kid to grow up feeling like they have a lot of people in their corner. I have a stepdaughter myself.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "You know then how it feels to have a child that is not your own yet accept them and love them unconditionally. You're awesome!" }, { "assistant": "Yes, it's true in life too when you grow up, sometimes the best family has nothing to do with blood relations.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10864_conv:21728
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My 5 year old stated Kindergarten last week. She was really nervous and a bit scared so when I went to leave her she cried and clung to me. Her teacher pulled her away but she had ahold of my shirt and ended up pulling it down and exposing my bra and chest." }, { "assistant": "Oh no now that's a sticky situation! How'd you manage?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I ran yanked her hands off, said I love you, and ran for it! To make matters worse Kindergarteners meet in the cafeteria for breakfast and becuase it was the first day I was exposed to a bunch of 5 year olds and their parents. I was mortified even though I don't think many noticed because of all the choas and crying kids." }, { "assistant": "Yeah hopefully all the hoopla over the first day distracted everyone. I am sorry that happened to you though.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10864_conv:21729
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I just totaled my car recently. I had it for well over a decade, it was like a part of me." }, { "assistant": "Oh man, I am sorry! I have been there, it sucks! Are you okay though?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I got a little whiplash but other than that I am fine. My pride is wounded though, I will really miss that car." }, { "assistant": "I am glad you are okay. I wrecked my favorite car 3 years ago and I still miss it.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10865_conv:21730
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I needed to get a loan from the bank the other day." }, { "assistant": "Oh really? What was it for?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "For my business. It was stressful at first because they wanted so much information." }, { "assistant": "Oh wow, I can only imagine. Paperwork is not fun. I hope you got it all done eventually!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I brought everything in one big folder and got approved right away." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10866_conv:21732
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I felt so ashamed when I farted in a mall" }, { "assistant": "Thats aweful!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "My friends were there, even my crush. It was so loud" }, { "assistant": "Uhmnnn!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10866_conv:21733
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My wife has been so supportive,we dont keep secrets" }, { "assistant": "That is great, that is the beginning of happiness", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Sure it is,i can vouch for her fidelity" }, { "assistant": "Wow, that is true love", "user": null } ]
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hit:10867_conv:21734
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I found an awesome new gym by my house!" }, { "assistant": "Wow, that's lovely. So you will start keep fit", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes! The classes are great too! I'm thinking of trying yoga!" }, { "assistant": "It will help you, even in blood circulation ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I really want to be healthier so I think this will be great." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10867_conv:21735
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I got so embarrassed when I farted in a mall, my crush was just beside me" }, { "assistant": "Oh no! How did they react?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They all looked at me surprisingly " }, { "assistant": "What did you do? I would just laugh it off.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10868_conv:21736
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My daughter kept talking to me while I was trying to work. I didn't get much done at all." }, { "assistant": "That's a shame, I'm sorry. Does she have anything to keep her occupied while you work?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, plenty of toys, books, TV, pets, homework. It's not easy getting any work done in my house." }, { "assistant": "I believe that, a lot of people think because you're at home that you have time for things other than work.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10868_conv:21737
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "We just got a new puppy! Our old dog passed away recently but this new one is such a pleasure to be around." }, { "assistant": "I am sorry to hear about your dog passing away. But, I'm happy you have a new friend in the new one.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you. Yeah he's been awesome! It feels good to have another animal that needs you." }, { "assistant": "It's good you were able to find new companionship in your new dog. Congratulations on your new pet.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you so much, sorry to brag I just love the little guy." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10869_conv:21738
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i don't like it when my girlfriend goes out without me, I feel insecure and feel like something bad will happen to her" }, { "assistant": "I hear you! Is she going out with her girlfriends?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "a mix of guys and girls but they aren't a responsible group at all, which is what worries me. They don't take care of each other" }, { "assistant": "Ahh, sounds like a tough situation. Maybe you should try letting your girlfriend know how you feel.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I mean I do and she says she will be fine but I just don't like the situation. I know what bad things can happen" }, { "assistant": "She is a grown women so you cant tie her up or she will choke. I hope everything works out for you. ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10870_conv:21740
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i farted in a board meeting" }, { "assistant": "How mortifying! Did anyone hear it? Did it smell?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "well,you could guess the atmosphere changed with a loud bang..lol!" }, { "assistant": "Yikes! I can't even imagine how embarrassing that was.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10870_conv:21741
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My daughter just turned 11 and for her birthday we are taking her to Universal Studios for the first time. She is finally tall enough to ride all the rides." }, { "assistant": "happy riding to your daughter", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thanks! She loves rollercoasters! I can't wait to take her." }, { "assistant": "please do Asap!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10871_conv:21742
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have this boyfriend, he's so nice, I promised not to cheat on him" }, { "assistant": "That's awesome, I hope he returns the favor as well.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Of course .We love each other" }, { "assistant": "That's amazing. Love is absolutely grand. I am happy for you two.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10871_conv:21743
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I've had a rough summer taking care of my kids, they've been so active. But school's starting back up and I'm ready to kick back." }, { "assistant": "Oh yeah, I've been there, I really understand ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank you for your understanding. They're in a camp right now before they go back to school, so I've certainly been relaxing as of late." }, { "assistant": "You will really have enough time to rest", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I think I will too. life is good!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10872_conv:21744
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friend just sent me a box with bath bombs and a spa kit!" }, { "assistant": "That sounds wonderful! Do you get to use them yet?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes! They are awesome and I feel so much better." }, { "assistant": "I haven't had a chance to try bath bombs yet. But my daughter in-law loves them.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10872_conv:21745
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "So, I am embarrassed to say, but my daughter got in a ton of trouble the other day." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! Kids do that sometimes. What happened?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "She is 21 and makes her own grown up decision now. And unfortunately got caught up in the wrong crowd." }, { "assistant": "It's hard when they grow up. Hopefully she will learn from her mistakes.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes this is a big life lesson. I was so mad at her. She was in a car where someone had drugs. Charged them all with possession. grrrrrr." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! I would be angry too!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I am so stressed about it now, but I suppose kids just still do stupid stuff even when they are young adults." }, { "assistant": "Yes, they do. It's a season of learning.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10873_conv:21747
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I got all it takes to pass my exams tomorrow" }, { "assistant": "Oh that sounds good! I'm sure you studied lots?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes I am fully prepared" }, { "assistant": "That is excellent news. You must be very proud.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10875_conv:21750
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm leaving on vacation next week. We will be in Florida. I have packed at least 3 bags.. " }, { "assistant": "hey that's not too bad how long are you going for?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Going for a week... Like the old saying, I've packed everything but the kitchen sink. You never know when you will need a certain item." }, { "assistant": "lol hey a week is a reasonable time to pack three backs, I would do the same", "user": null } ]
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hit:10875_conv:21751
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i had the chance to cheat on my girlfriend the other day and I didn't" }, { "assistant": "Wow, how did that almost happen? I would rethink my options.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "someone i was involved with invited me over and they were very persistent... But I did not go" }, { "assistant": "Good keep temptations at a distance. You never want to mess up a good relationship over a one night stnad.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10876_conv:21752
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I hired someone to clean my house last week!" }, { "assistant": "Did they do a good job of cleaning your house?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It ended up yes, I was worried though because I wasn't home." }, { "assistant": "That would make me nervous, you never know if they are looking through your things. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah but they had really good reviews and were reccomended to me by my neighbor." }, { "assistant": "That helps a lot with the peace of mind. I am glad it worked out well for you!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I won't be so worried next time." }, { "assistant": "It is nice when they can build up that trust with you!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10877_conv:21754
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My favorite cake stand that my aunt gave me was stolen." }, { "assistant": "That's a shame. Do you know who stole it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, it was a moving company we hired, but I didn't have a way to prove it." }, { "assistant": "Did they take anything else?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, a few other small items. " }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10877_conv:21755
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I found out recently that my school processed my financial aid paperwork improperly. So I won't be able to attend school this semester." }, { "assistant": "Oh no. That happened to my sister last year. We were able to work out a plan, but she had to get a loan temporarily.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I recently had to declare bankruptcy, so that unfortunately isn't an option for me." }, { "assistant": "That's no fun, but I hope everything works out for next semester.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10878_conv:21756
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I got that raise I asked for. I worked so hard to get it." }, { "assistant": "Ok ,how much raise did you get?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "A substantial one. It feels great!" }, { "assistant": "How much please?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was a thousand bucks. Why you want to apply for my job?" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10878_conv:21757
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Theres this particular staff of mine that i can rely on,others have disappointed me\"" }, { "assistant": "Too bad you've been let down so often. I'm glad your new worker is satisfactory.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "sure he is,i can vouch for his intergrity" }, { "assistant": "It's good to have someone so trustworthy. Congratulations.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10879_conv:21758
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I miss my old neighborhood. I had such fun there as a child." }, { "assistant": "Do you still live nearby?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No, we moved away years ago. Unfortunately, my friends and I aren't in touch anymore." }, { "assistant": "It's good that you have pleasant memories. What was your favorite thing about the neighborhood?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I tried a new grocery shopping service called Shipt last week." }, { "assistant": "Did you like it? What did you buy?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I ordered about $50 worth of groceries, just the basics. But no, they ended up coming late. And, they forgot some items." }, { "assistant": "That's too bad. I hope they didn't charge you for the items they missed.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They adjusted the order and gave me a credit for the mix up. I wasn't too happy. But I might try them again." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10880_conv:21760
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i got cheated and broken up with last night I can't believe it. I'm so angry." }, { "assistant": "I'm so sorry, you must feel terrible. It's their loss in the long run.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "thanks but i am so full of rage. My pride has been hurt" }, { "assistant": "I can imagine you're very angry. You'll find someone better.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "The other day I saw a kid at the park fall off his bike. He looked like he was in a lot of pain." }, { "assistant": "oh man that's not good at all! Did he break anything?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No, He was ok. Just scratched up. I helped calm him down." }, { "assistant": "oh that's really nice of you I am glad he's okay", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband is my best friend. I am so glad I get to share life with him." }, { "assistant": "It's awesome to have a partner like that. That's certainly why they call it \"the other half.\"", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, makes day to day life more enjoyable. " }, { "assistant": "I second that. Finding that eternal partner is one of the greatest joys a human being can experience.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It has been a wonderful journey over the last 10 years." }, { "assistant": "Well I toast you to 10 more and beyond.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10881_conv:21763
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My family put me in charge of the thanksgiving turkey. Everything was going right and I was so pleased as punch to be in chage." }, { "assistant": "How did it turn out?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Not good. I dropped it as I was about to serve it. The family dogs got to it almost immediately." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! How awful! Did your Thanksgiving improve?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It did but my face was so red all night." }, { "assistant": "I would be mortified!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10882_conv:21764
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Hello! We just moved to a new area of town." }, { "assistant": "Cool! Where did you move too?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Just across town, not to far. My 10-yr old had to start a new school." }, { "assistant": "Oh, that does not seem like such hard work. It is fun to move into new houses. I like moving around.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I have moved so many times I can't count them. We were worried he wouldn't adjust, but I just knew it would all work out." }, { "assistant": "Oh good! So glad it is all working out. I will come by and say hi one day. Catch you later!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Take care." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10883_conv:21767
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i miss when i was in grade school, i didn't have to pay bills and worry about politics. The good old days" }, { "assistant": "i understand, life can do that to you, and looking back always bring fond memories", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "yeah it really does man." }, { "assistant": "just think, today will be tomorrow's memories when looking back", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I tried shopping at a new discount grocery last week." }, { "assistant": "Oh! Did you find any good deals?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I thought they were good deals, until I got home and smelled some of the meat." }, { "assistant": "Uh oh...Was it tainted? I wouldn't risk it...", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I think it was all expired. It was so gross. I tossed it all." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i just recently registered for a flag football team, i just hope I am good and don't embarass myself" }, { "assistant": "Flag football is so much fun! What position would you like to play?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I would like to be a wide reciever or a corner, I am very tall and feel like I can hold my own. Hopefully." }, { "assistant": "You could certainly bring some physicality to the position with your height. I say go for it!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My grandmother passed away recently. It's been really rough getting by without her, but she left our family her greatest quality, strength." }, { "assistant": "that's really good... I am very sorry for your loss. It sounds cliche but it gets better with time", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "That's not a cliche at all! Thank you I need to hear these things to keep going." }, { "assistant": "you're gonna be okay. It's been five years since I've lost mine. Just keep her close to your heart.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I always will, thank you." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10886_conv:21773
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My friend promised to take care of my pets while I was on vacation." }, { "assistant": "That was so nice of them, what kind of pets?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well, I had 2 dogs, 3 cats, and a hermit crab." }, { "assistant": "Quite the little zoo. What a great friend you have!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes, the hermit crab didn't make it though." }, { "assistant": "I'm so sorry for your loss!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It's okay. He was gross." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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hit:10887_conv:21775
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My child was sick last week. I had to stay home with them." }, { "assistant": "Oh, sorry to hear that. There is something going around these days. I hope they are better now.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They are much better! Since it was nothing serious it was nice to just be able to stay with them, cook good food, and get lots of cuddles." }, { "assistant": "That sounds so sweet . Family time is the best!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "university is starting soon and i never felt more ready in my life" }, { "assistant": "i know me too! Why are you ready?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "because achieving my goals makes me prepared to deal with anything in life!" }, { "assistant": "yeah it does! Great job man I'm proud of you!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i bought all my school supplies for this semester already. I think I am good to go" }, { "assistant": "you are prepared more than ever !", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i hope so! I'm ready to kick butt" }, { "assistant": "that's the spirit! always believe in yourself!", "user": null } ]
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hit:10889_conv:21778
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Have you ever tried to steam clean an antique rug?" }, { "assistant": "I have not, I feel like it should be done by a professional. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well I figured that out. I cleaned mine last night. They are clean but now they smell horrible!" }, { "assistant": "Oh no! Probably tons of years of dirt caked into the rug. Did you use the right cleaner?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "probably not. I wish I would have just left them dirty. I have them airing out outside now." }, { "assistant": "Maybe the dirt adds to the whole antique feel of them. ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "LOL, yeah! so true." }, { "assistant": "I hope you can find a solution that works for you!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I went down South with a really good group of friends about a month ago and it was the best time. " }, { "assistant": "That must've been fun! What did you guys do?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We went boating and fishing. I had such a good time that when we got back I sent them a photo and wrote a note telling each of them how much I appreciated their friendship. " }, { "assistant": "Oh that sounds like so much fun! sounds like you are very grateful for good friends! ", "user": null } ]
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hit:10890_conv:21781
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "The other day i was in my car with the windows down singing. I didn't know anyone else was around." }, { "assistant": "That sounds like a really lovely way to go somewhere in a car!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Haha I was horrified though. I never sing in front of people." }, { "assistant": "On no! I'm sorry you were embarrassed, but I'm sure it sounded wonderful! ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "i've been working on my game for months now, and i believe in my abilities and i believe that this game will do amazing!" }, { "assistant": "What game do you play?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "i don't play games, i make games." }, { "assistant": "Ohhhh. What kind of game is it?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I have a friend flying in from the other side of the country next week." }, { "assistant": "wow, is it the first time you're gonna see him? is he going to stay at your place?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I saw her last year. She is going to stay here and we are going to go to Disney." }, { "assistant": "sounds like you planned for everything! enjoy yourself! ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I am excited! I sure hope it will be fun!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Next week I'm leaving the company I've worked for for 3 years and taking a totally new position at a new company. I'm nervous! " }, { "assistant": "Thats awesome, never settle for less. Always strive for more!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes this is definitely an upgrade! I'm just going to be the \"new\" person and I really do like my current co-workers. " }, { "assistant": "Well hopefully you can still maintain communication with them. It's normal to be nervous though, just go in confident", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was in the market for a steam cleaner and did tons of research til I chose the best one." }, { "assistant": "That's the best way to do it. Read before you buy.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yep, and I used it yesterday for the first time. My carpets are so clean!" }, { "assistant": "It's amazing how dirty they can get, isn't it.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I know. You just sort of get used to the off color. lol" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Have you ever been overcharged for something you weree told was only one set price?" }, { "assistant": "yes, my internet provider is notorious for that", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yea well I bought a dog from the dog pound and they over charged me by $50 and I was really upside by it." }, { "assistant": "oh wow, did they justify the overcharge? i'd dispute it", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband got a nice raise at work!" }, { "assistant": "That must have been a good thing did y'all celebrate.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We're gonna have to celebrate by making larger student loan payments haha. But we're happy all those long hours are paying off!" }, { "assistant": "hard work should pay off nice to hear about some one getting back after they put in congratulations.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Have you ever let some one borrow you car?" }, { "assistant": "Yeah, my cousin actually borrowed my car to take his driving test", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I let my brother borrow mine and he brought it back and it looked like it had been wrecked and i got real upset with him." }, { "assistant": "I don't blame you! He should have been more responsible.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "4" }, { "assistant": "What?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was taken by surprise this morning when I went out back on my lanai." }, { "assistant": "Omg, what happened?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "A snake was sitting on my table smiling at me." }, { "assistant": "Pesky snakes. Was it a black racer? I see those all the time in my yard.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I don't know what kind it was. I screamed and ran back in my house. Sent my son out to handle him. lol" }, { "assistant": "I would too! lol.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Now every time I go out there I look before I open the door! lol I swear he was smiling at me. lol" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm thinking about owning my first home." }, { "assistant": "That's awesome! Is something holding you back?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well, I've been putting money away for a while now. I've almost got enough for a down payment." }, { "assistant": "Buying a home can be nerve wracking but in the end it's worth it!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I can't wait!" }, { "assistant": "Wishing you luck and here's to finding the perfect home!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Have you ever had a family member everyone else doubted all the time." }, { "assistant": "Sometimes I'm worried that I'm that family member, but I'm not sure what to do to make them have confidence in me.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "M y brother was addicted to drugs for ten years biut this years he cleanded his act up and has been sober for 7 months. I knew he could do it." }, { "assistant": "I'm happy that your brother is in sobriety now. I hope his life recovers.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "When my dog Buddy died, I was horribly upset." }, { "assistant": "I am sorry that happened . I have 3 dogs myself.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I hope your dogs live as long as Buddy did, he was a good dog." }, { "assistant": "Good dogs are hard to vfind I can imagine how sad that must have been.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Do you like watching movies or reading books?" }, { "assistant": "I enjoy reading.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I love movies and I waited for the past 3 years for the Avengers for movie to get released. I was frantic when it made it to our theater I was overwhelmed." }, { "assistant": "It's cool that you're such a fan though. I hope the movie lived up to your expectations.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "How about our president huh?" }, { "assistant": "I'm not actually in America so I don't share the same joy as you :p", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Lol. There is no joy here. But I think the only way to go is up now." }, { "assistant": "That's always the positive side of hitting rock bottom right?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I took my little cousin to the community pool the other day and it reminded me of when I was in his shoes." }, { "assistant": "Oh, yes I remember those days too so clearly. Such carefree day, right?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes exactly, and cooling considering the summer heat." }, { "assistant": "Yeah, it was like the only thing to do in summer. The whole town comes out and the pool is crowded! Oh, those were the days!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "went to the bathroom and saw something you don't see everyday." }, { "assistant": "What did you see?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Well when I went to wash my hands there was a from on the handle!" }, { "assistant": "A what on the handle?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Sorry I meant frog. He was on the sink handle and I almost touched it!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I enjoy reminiscing on the better times in life." }, { "assistant": "Me too. About friends an d family. Things I got to see and do.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Have you ever wondered why some people get put through trials in life?" }, { "assistant": "Yes. Some more than others. But sometimes I think it's all relative.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was caught cheating on a math test..." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! How did that end?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was kicked out of the class and got a zero on the test" }, { "assistant": "That's not good. I'm sorry that happened to you.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "One of my co-workers got to be a close friend of mine. Then she decided that I was advancing faster than her and sabotaged my job." }, { "assistant": "Oh that is so selfish. Did you try and get back at her?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No, I cut ties because it wasn't worth it to give her the satisfaction of a fight." }, { "assistant": "Thats great, says a lot about the type of person you are, in a good way! I probably would've gone for revenge knowing myself.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I tend to let my better half make all the important decisions in our life." }, { "assistant": "Is it because you trust their judgement or is there a different reason?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes! and he like too. I don't mind because he is pretty smart." }, { "assistant": "That's great that you have that type of relationship with him. My husband and I approach things together and discuss everything, which works great for us. You have to do what works for you and your relationship.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "They're putting up a new playground near my house." }, { "assistant": "That's always a good thing.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, should be nice. I'll be able to walk there with my son." }, { "assistant": "That will be really convenient. There's one near us we like to skateboard to.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I forgot to pay the electric bill last week so a lady came a turned the power off." }, { "assistant": "Oh no! I hate that! So what did you do about it?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I made my late payment as quickly as possible and called my provider to ask them to turn my power on asap. I managed to get it back later that night." }, { "assistant": "Wow, no power at home is terrible. What would we do without electricity?!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My dog really seemed out of it and depressed the other day." }, { "assistant": "Poor dog! Did you find out why? Is it better now?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I thought maybe a bath might make him feel better and boy was I right! afterward he played for like 10 minutes! He is just getting old." }, { "assistant": "Aww, that's cute! I love older dogs, but I know it can be scary sometimes when they show signs of poor health. I'm glad he was okay!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Thank! me too. He's got some years left I think." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I had the worst nightmare last night. I woke up screaming and shaking." }, { "assistant": "Oh! What was it about?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "There was a maniac clown after me and he had a chainsaw. It seemed the faster I ran the closer he got!" }, { "assistant": "I hate clowns! when I try to run I sink into the ground.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was gardening last weekend and have to move pots that have been sitting outside for years. I knew there were spiders!" }, { "assistant": "Oh no! I hate spiders! Were you able to avoid them and move your pots?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I was very careful and scanned what I could see then I got a grip and threw them and kicked them around in the yard. I must have looked nuts!" }, { "assistant": "If people knew it was because of spiders they'd totally understand. I can't stand their creepy crawly bodies!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yep, there is not one spider I like. lol." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My best friend and I haven't been friends for super long, but I believe we will be in each other's lives forever. She's such a great person." }, { "assistant": "I have a friend like that. We lose touch but we will always be great friends.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Exactly. We may not talk every day, but when we do talk again it's like nothing has changed." }, { "assistant": "That's awesome. Now I miss my friend. lol", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I went to visit my mm last weekend. We enjoyed talking and looking through old photos." }, { "assistant": "Do you guys live far away from each other? I love talking with my mom about her and my childhood.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "We are just a few miles away from eachother. Me too. She also sent me home with some childhood pictures to share with my boyfriend." }, { "assistant": "Aw that's awesome. I bet he enjoyed getting to know your past a little bit better.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Once, I bought this really pretty dress to go on a date. Then the worst thing happened!" }, { "assistant": "Oh no. Did he stand you up?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "No. My mom and I were hanging out sipping on red wine and I decided to try the dress on for her. That's when I tripped and spilled the wine on the front of my dress." }, { "assistant": "That stinks! Were you able to get the stain out?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Nope, the dress was trashed. I had to wear something else. Wasn't as nice as that dress." }, { "assistant": "Was the date at least good?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He was ok. LOL" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My husband is going to accept a new job. He's going to be out of state for two months." }, { "assistant": "That sounds like good news and bad. I hope you will be going with him someday. :)", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm pretty sad, but I have to believe it's the right move for our family" }, { "assistant": "Sometimes our best life experiences are after we make big changes in our life. It sounds like a fun adventure to me. :)", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "It was cloudy outside earlier today but the weather is fickle so I can't count on there being rain." }, { "assistant": "Rain is relaxing to myself, odd ", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yea I like the rain too especially during the summer. I meant that my local weather often seems likely to rain without actually doing so." }, { "assistant": "That's annoying! The weather team has one job. Rain is so relaxing to be used for showering. ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Hey there, I have feelings for this girl" }, { "assistant": "That's a wonderful situation to be in. Are you planning to tell her?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I think so, but it's a little scary" }, { "assistant": "That's understandable, but you won't know her position on the issue until you bring it up. Either way it's your call.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I was going to go see a new movie that came out last weekend." }, { "assistant": "Oh really what movie?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "It was a new comedy movie. But then my babysitter cancelled and I couldn't go." }, { "assistant": "I am so sorry. Were you disappointed?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "This weekend I'm going on a road trip to visit friends who live 8 hours away." }, { "assistant": "I love road trips, sounds like a good time.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "This will be our third year going. I'm hoping that it will be as good as it has in previous years." }, { "assistant": "Hope you have a nice trip, It's good to have things to look forward to. ", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "Last night I just felt like a couch potato and watched some movies." }, { "assistant": "That sounds relaxing! What did you watch", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I watched tears of the sun. Got myself a blanket and popcorn and my favorite animal to cuddle with. it was nice to just veg out." }, { "assistant": "Maybe I'll do that tonight!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I hope you do!" }, { "assistant": "Me too!", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "My puppy just passed away" }, { "assistant": "Oh no! I'm so sorry. What kind of dog was he?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "He was a yorkie. It was so sudden." }, { "assistant": "Aww. Mine is getting pretty old. I'm not looking forward to losing him.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, it's definitely not fun" }, { "assistant": "You think you will get another one?", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I'm a teacher. School starts back for me in two weeks." }, { "assistant": "Oh boy, I guess you'll have your hands full.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Hard to tell how the class will be, that makes me a bit nervous." }, { "assistant": "I could understand that. I don't like crowds so lol.", "user": null } ]
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hit:10925_conv:21851
[ { "assistant": null, "user": "I broke up with my abusive boyfriend of five years." }, { "assistant": "Thats good. Abusive relationships are the worst.", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "They are. I was ashamed that I had stayed in that relationship for so long. But, I met someone who is the complete opposite of him." }, { "assistant": "Great! You deserve it!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Everyone deserves to be happy in whatever capacity that may mean for who they choose to spend their time with." }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "One of cats decided to poop on the tv remote last night, even though I had just changed their litter box. I love him, but that really grossed me out." }, { "assistant": "Yuck. Did you throw the remote out?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "I did, luckily it was a cheap universal remote that I already had a replacement for, but I still don't know what possessed my cat to use the remote instead of the clean litter box." }, { "assistant": "They have a mind of their own some days.", "user": null } ]
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[ { "assistant": null, "user": "So, my boyfriend cam over to help with some yard work." }, { "assistant": "Did you get all of it done?", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yes we did but he will never let me forget that day. I was wearing jeans and was working so hard i didn't realize I had plumbers butt most of the day. I was so horrified!" }, { "assistant": "That's why I wear long shirts. You can work. and not offend anyone!", "user": null }, { "assistant": null, "user": "Yeah, I had one on but it just wan't long enough. Now I have longer shirts!" }, { "assistant": "", "user": null } ]
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