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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He cannot. Make sure your doctor and nurses know who you do/do not want in the delivery room.
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
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I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
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Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
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Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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No he can not, there is NO legal remedy, to allow himself to be in the room if you say no. Be sure to tell hospital staff that he absolutely, under no circumstances is allowed in the room until you give the okay. Tell them that they may need security to enforce this because he has already said he is going to force his way in.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
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He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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He cannot. Make sure your doctor and nurses know who you do/do not want in the delivery room.
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
I'd like to add that you should tell your nurse if you feel like you need support after you and the baby leave. They will have access via a case worker to all of the local programs for things you may need as well as any domestic violence information. Let them know as soon as you check in. And as others have said he cannot force his way in. The medical team will have your back 100% along with hospital security and the police department. If you feel like he might be a danger PLEASE let them know for everyone's safety. There are different protocols for annoying people versus might bring a gun people
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
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No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
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He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
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Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No he can not, there is NO legal remedy, to allow himself to be in the room if you say no. Be sure to tell hospital staff that he absolutely, under no circumstances is allowed in the room until you give the okay. Tell them that they may need security to enforce this because he has already said he is going to force his way in.
Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
He cannot. Make sure your doctor and nurses know who you do/do not want in the delivery room.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No he can not, there is NO legal remedy, to allow himself to be in the room if you say no. Be sure to tell hospital staff that he absolutely, under no circumstances is allowed in the room until you give the okay. Tell them that they may need security to enforce this because he has already said he is going to force his way in.
A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
He cannot. Make sure your doctor and nurses know who you do/do not want in the delivery room.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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A lot of people have already covered this, but the doctor/nurses in the L&D ward have been down this road many, many times. There is also security at the hospital - and not usually a fat guy with a billy club, but off-duty cops who absolutely take zero shit. One call from your delivery room nurse and there should be several police there to "escort" your baby daddy right out the front door. Source: wife was an L&D nurse for years.
He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
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Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
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Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
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