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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
This is an insane threat. Absolutely no one is entitled to watch you give birth.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
He can’t try all he wants but he can’t force his way in. You can be registered as “unknown” so no one can call and ask if you’re there. If he comes to say “I’m here for so and so” they will say they don’t have anyone by that name. Hospitals are good at protecting you when it comes to that
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell the nurse she will handle it. If he’s there whisper it to the nurse
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
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Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
No one has the right to be in the room with you. It doesn’t matter what claims they might make. It’s no different than if you were having a surgical procedure. This is just a bullying tactic. Be clear with staff that you are being threatened and do not want anyone in that you haven’t expressly invited to support you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Most hospitals let you register as private. This means they won’t tell anyone you are there, or give any updates, room info, etc. If possible, don’t tell him when or which hospital you go to until you are ready to see him. If you already have a hospital picked out, let them know now that you do not want him there. Tell your doctors and nurses as soon as you arrive, they will help you.
This is an insane threat. Absolutely no one is entitled to watch you give birth.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Tell the nurse she will handle it. If he’s there whisper it to the nurse
Most hospitals let you register as private. This means they won’t tell anyone you are there, or give any updates, room info, etc. If possible, don’t tell him when or which hospital you go to until you are ready to see him. If you already have a hospital picked out, let them know now that you do not want him there. Tell your doctors and nurses as soon as you arrive, they will help you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Most hospitals let you register as private. This means they won’t tell anyone you are there, or give any updates, room info, etc. If possible, don’t tell him when or which hospital you go to until you are ready to see him. If you already have a hospital picked out, let them know now that you do not want him there. Tell your doctors and nurses as soon as you arrive, they will help you.
Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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This is an insane threat. Absolutely no one is entitled to watch you give birth.
Tell the nurse she will handle it. If he’s there whisper it to the nurse
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t try all he wants but he can’t force his way in. You can be registered as “unknown” so no one can call and ask if you’re there. If he comes to say “I’m here for so and so” they will say they don’t have anyone by that name. Hospitals are good at protecting you when it comes to that
With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
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Tell the nurse she will handle it. If he’s there whisper it to the nurse
With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
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Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
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He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
With that level of entitlement, I totally understand why you don't want him there. L&D wards are locked down. Unless you want him there, he's not allowed. You can also register as private so if he thinks you're in labor and calls around, he won't be able to find you.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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He can’t try all he wants but he can’t force his way in. You can be registered as “unknown” so no one can call and ask if you’re there. If he comes to say “I’m here for so and so” they will say they don’t have anyone by that name. Hospitals are good at protecting you when it comes to that
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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Tell the nurse she will handle it. If he’s there whisper it to the nurse
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
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No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
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Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
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No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
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No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
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No, as all others have said the man has no leg to stand on. However, this sounds like a major red flag to me. Are you two in a relationship? I hope you will be safe after you deliver. Please make sure you are with someone for support and I would suggest not being alone with him.
He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
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Tell the nurse she will handle it. If he’s there whisper it to the nurse
He can’t try all he wants but he can’t force his way in. You can be registered as “unknown” so no one can call and ask if you’re there. If he comes to say “I’m here for so and so” they will say they don’t have anyone by that name. Hospitals are good at protecting you when it comes to that
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Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
He can’t try all he wants but he can’t force his way in. You can be registered as “unknown” so no one can call and ask if you’re there. If he comes to say “I’m here for so and so” they will say they don’t have anyone by that name. Hospitals are good at protecting you when it comes to that
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He can’t try all he wants but he can’t force his way in. You can be registered as “unknown” so no one can call and ask if you’re there. If he comes to say “I’m here for so and so” they will say they don’t have anyone by that name. Hospitals are good at protecting you when it comes to that
No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
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Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
He can’t try all he wants but he can’t force his way in. You can be registered as “unknown” so no one can call and ask if you’re there. If he comes to say “I’m here for so and so” they will say they don’t have anyone by that name. Hospitals are good at protecting you when it comes to that
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
Tell the nurse she will handle it. If he’s there whisper it to the nurse
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Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
Tell him to go ahead and get a lawyer. He still can't force his way in. You're the patient, and have every right to decide who you want to have in that room with you. Make your wishes known to your doctor and delivery team, and they'll make sure he's not admitted to the room.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
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Ha! No, no he can't. Even if you were married to him, you have the right to refuse him entry for *your* medical procedure.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
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Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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No he can not, there is NO legal remedy, to allow himself to be in the room if you say no. Be sure to tell hospital staff that he absolutely, under no circumstances is allowed in the room until you give the okay. Tell them that they may need security to enforce this because he has already said he is going to force his way in.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
He cannot. Make sure your doctor and nurses know who you do/do not want in the delivery room.
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He cannot do it . You have the right to tell the nurses not to let him in and they won’t . Regardless of what he says .
No. He can not. This is YOUR medical procedure NOT a spectator sport. No judge will sign off on this. Just don’t inform him of when and where you go into labor. Call him after you have delivered..or better yet when you go home..to Ohio. Good luck.
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Tell the nurse she will handle it. If he’s there whisper it to the nurse
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
Also, do not let him have a bracelet for the baby. Then he might have more access than you want. Tell the nurses not to give him one, right off.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
Nope, the medical staff are very good at getting rid of unwanted guests.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
No. No one has a right to view your medical procedure at all
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
Absolutely not. This is your medical procedure. He has no custody rights in Ohio until the court declares it so unless you are married. Which depending on how toxic he is, you may want to make him take the extra steps. First he needs to prove the kid exists, which they don’t until you get his birth certificate and social. Then he’ll need to prove paternity to get a court order. He can’t come to the hospital to see the baby unless you let him either. It’d be funny for him to try, he won’t even make it to the labor and delivery floor if you don’t give him a room number. I’m sure the front desk has no problem calling the police either. At the very most, they could maybe (strong maybe) let him see the baby in a separate room IF he had a court order. However, nobody can make you allow him in the room before during or after you give birth. Give baby your last name. You can’t change it after the fact.
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Legally, he can’t force his way. If he’s a bit crazy, He could actually force his way in, but security/police can also escort him out. The hospital will respect your wishes and not let him back if you tell them.
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
As others have said, you have complete control over who is present during your medical procedures. Notify the hospital that you do not want any guests present during your labour or afterward. Maternity departments deal with this regularly. You and your child are entitled to privacy, and the hospital will be able to tell you what protective measures they can take on your behalf. Don't share information where you intend to deliver. You might want to check your phone's location sharing is turned off. Don't post to social media and hide that information from friends or family who might tell him, if that makes you feel more secure. Has he been confrontational like this before? If so, I'm sorry you're going through this. You can always contact the state bar association for a referral to a family lawyer and have a consultation ahead of time (or after the baby is born) regarding your legal rights around the baby, and his.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
Let him get a lawyer and spend the money to try and get in the room. No chance.
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Can my baby daddy force his self into the delivery room? I don’t feel comfortable with him being back there while I’m naked and exposed. I told him he can come in after she’s out and I’m covered up. I live in Ohio but I’ll be delivering in Kentucky. He’s threaten to get a lawyer to try and force his self in.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
Make sure you tell rhe hospital in advance, and have it written down that you can hand to one of the nurses when you check in (I've seen a hospital loose advance check in information, and then try to ask the mom all the registration questions during delivery...). You will not be clear headed at the time, or for a while after, so do the prep work now...
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Absolutely not. Tell the nurses you don’t want him in there. They will make sure he doesn’t. My parents just randomly showed up as I was pushing and I remember the nurse asking me what I wanted to do and I told them they needed to go in the waiting room. The nurses were so good at telling them that they thought it was the hospital’s policy 😉 because they were complaining about it afterwards how they were sent home lol. He also cannot force you to make him sign the birth certificate unless you two are/were married and that can get tricky and might require an attorney’s advice. In most states you have sole, full custody until the bio father has had a DNA test and has filed for visitation/custody with the courts. I raised my infant son from 3 months because his father was an abusive alcoholic and there was no other option. The best way to deal with one of these is facilitate supervised visitation but kind of ignore all the threats until they file. Them filing is when you lawyer up. Just don’t prevent them from visitation unless that’s the advice an attorney has given you. Courts don’t play around with parents who prevent visitation. Keep a log of all your interactions, text messages, etc… Listen to your parental instincts, and the labor and delivery room is not the place to feel nothing short of safe. I wish you the very best!
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
He can hire all the lawyers he wants. If you, the patient, don't want him there, he won't be allowed in.
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He can’t force his way in if he doesn’t know you’re in labor. Simply do not tell him when you go into labor. Tell your nurse that you do not want anyone to know you are a patient, or even any visitors if you wish. You can wait until you are home and surrounded by family/supportive friends to invite him to meet the child.
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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Let him try to get a lawyer. No lawyer is going to take that case.
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
Alert your nurses that you do not want him there and they will comply to your request.
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That is absolutely insane. The hospital will honor your privacy. Just inform them.
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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Like everyone has said, he’s full of shit. I wanted to add to tell your nursing staff and registration that you’d like to be listed as private once you’re admitted. This means that he won’t be able to get your room number from a random front desk person and just show up.
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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No he can not, there is NO legal remedy, to allow himself to be in the room if you say no. Be sure to tell hospital staff that he absolutely, under no circumstances is allowed in the room until you give the okay. Tell them that they may need security to enforce this because he has already said he is going to force his way in.
Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
Talk to the hospital, tell them who all you want in the delivery room and who is not to be there. The last thing that they will want is for you to be stressed out as that will make it harder and endanger not only you but the child. Make it clear to the staff there, and you can do it ahead of time where they have it on file.
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Not a lawyer - but I think you need to know your rights as a patient in a hospital. You can go to them and give them a pic of your ex (and of his family) and say "do not let this man in here." Ask if security can be put nearer to your door. As a woman in a *very* vulnerable state, most hospitals will definitely go out of their way to protect you in ways that they can. Calling security and barring him from the room is definitely one they would be happy to help you put with. * friend gave birth in Kentucky while on a road trip. She said no matter what, don't let her crazy cousin in the room. Cousin was 4 states away, but she had them informed just in case. They asked for pics and names. And she had a person outside her door. Still to this day, I don't know why she had a roadtrip planned in her 3rd trimester.
He can’t force himself anywhere in the hospital. Their main concern will be your health and comfort and the baby’s. If you tell them you don’t want him there they will make sure he’s not there. If he doesn’t want to go, they call the cops.
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