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{
"en": "And out of my own frustration of my role and responsibility of building him up as a man to fit into these guidelines and these structures that are defining this man box, I would find myself saying things like, \"Just go in your room. ",
"ja": "ใใใฆ่ชๅใฎๆฏๅญใใใ็ทใใใใ่ฒใฆใใจใใใ็ถ่ฆชใจใใฆใฎ่ฒฌไปปใใ็ก็ใซๆใใใใจใใใจใใ ใใ ใ่
นใ็ซใฃใฆใใฆใใคใ่จใฃใฆใใพใใฎใงใใใ้จๅฑใซๆปใใชใใโใ"
} |
{
"en": "Just go on, go on in your room. ",
"ja": "ใใใใๆปใใใ ใ"
} |
{
"en": "Sit down, get yourself together and come back and talk to me when you can talk to me like a --\" what? ",
"ja": "ๅคงไบบใใๅบงใฃใฆใ้ ญใๅทใใใฆใใใใพใ่ฉฑใซๆฅใใจใใฏใใใฃใจใไฝใใใใ่ฉฑใใชใใใจ๏ผใ"
} |
{
"en": "(Audience: Man.) Like a man. ",
"ja": "๏ผ่ฆณๅฎขใใ็ทใใใใ๏ผใใใใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And he's five years old. ",
"ja": "ๆฏๅญใฏใพใ 5ๆญณใชใฎใซใ"
} |
{
"en": "And as I grow in life, I would say to myself, \"My God, what's wrong with me? ",
"ja": "็งใๅนผใ้ ใฏใใใๆใใพใใใๅใฎใฉใใใใใชใใใ ใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "What am I doing? Why would I do this?\" ",
"ja": "ไฝใงใ ใใใใจ่ใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And I think back. ",
"ja": "ๆฏๅญใใใใฃใๆใฏใ"
} |
{
"en": "I think back to my father. ",
"ja": "็ถใฎใใจใๆใๅบใใพใใ"
} |
{
"en": "There was a time in my life where we had a very troubled experience in our family. ",
"ja": "็ง้ใฎๅฎถๆใฏใใจใฆใ่พใ็ต้จใใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "My brother, Henry, he died tragically when we were teenagers. ",
"ja": "็งใใพใ 10ไปฃใฎใใใๅ
ๅผใฎใใณใชใผใไบกใใชใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "We lived in New York City, as I said. ",
"ja": "ๅฝๆ็งใใกๅฎถๆใฏใ"
} |
{
"en": "We lived in the Bronx at the time, and the burial was in a place called Long Island, it was about two hours outside of the city. ",
"ja": "ใใญใณใฏในใซไฝใใงใใฆใ่ฌๅใ่กใใใใญใณใฐใขใคใฉใณใใฏใๅฎถใใ2ๆ้ใใใ้ขใใฆใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And as we were preparing to come back from the burial, the cars stopped at the bathroom to let folks take care of themselves before the long ride back to the city. ",
"ja": "่ฌๅใ็ตใใๅฎถใซๆปใๆบๅใใใใใฎๅ
ใฎ้ทใ้ใฎใใ่ใใใฟใใชใซใใคใฌใๆธใพใใฆใใใใใจใ่ปใๅใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And the limousine empties out. ",
"ja": "ๆฏใๅงๅฆนใชใฉใฏใ"
} |
{
"en": "My mother, my sister, my auntie, they all get out, but my father and I stayed in the limousine, and no sooner than the women got out, he burst out crying. ",
"ja": "ใชใ ใธใณใใ้ใใพใใใใ็ถใจ็งใฏๆฎใฃใฆใใพใใใๅฅณๆง้ใใใฎๅ ดใๅปใใจใ็ช็ถ็ถใๆณฃใๅบใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "He didn't want cry in front of me, but he knew he wasn't going to make it back to the city, and it was better me than to allow himself to express these feelings and emotions in front of the women. ",
"ja": "็งใซ่ฆใใใใใชใใฃใใงใใใใใใใฎใพใพใงใฏๅธฐใ้ใซๆณฃใใฆใใพใใจๆใฃใใฎใงใใใใๅฅณ้ใฎๅใงๆฒใใใใใใฏใๆฏๅญใฎๅใฎๆนใใพใใ ใจ่ใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And this is a man who, 10 minutes ago, had just put his teenage son in the ground -- something I just can't even imagine. ",
"ja": "ใใใ็ทๆงใงใใใปใใฎ10ๅๅใซใ่ชๅใฎๆฏๅญใใๅ่ฌใใใฐใใใ็งใซใฏ่ใใใใชใใใจใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "The thing that sticks with me the most is that he was apologizing to me for crying in front of me, and at the same time, he was also giving me props, lifting me up, for not crying. ",
"ja": "ไธ็ชๅฟใซๆฎใฃใฆใใใฎใฏใ็งใฎๅใงๆณฃใใใฎใใ็ถใ่ฌใฃใใใจใงใใใใใฆไธกๆใๅทฎใๅบใใฆใ็งใๆณฃใใชใใใใซใๆฑใไธใใฆใใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "I come to also look at this as this fear that we have as men, this fear that just has us paralyzed, holding us hostage to this man box. ",
"ja": "ใใฎใใใซ็ทๆงใฏใใ็ทๆงใใใใใฎๅฎ็พฉใใใๅคใใไบใๆใใใใใใซใๆณฃใใใๆใใๆณฃใใชใใฎใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "I can remember speaking to a 12-year-old boy, a football player, and I asked him, I said, \"How would you feel if, in front of all the players, your coach told you you were playing like a girl?\" ",
"ja": "ใใใใใฐไปฅๅใ12ๆญณใฎใใใใใผใซ้ธๆใซใ่ใใใใจใใใใพใใใๅใฎใใจใใณใผใใใใใผใ ๅ
จๅกใฎๅใงใๅฅณใฟใใใจ่จใฃใใใฉใๆใ๏ผใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Now I expected him to say something like, I'd be sad; I'd be mad; I'd be angry, or something like that. ",
"ja": "ๆฒใใใจใ่
นใ็ซใคใจใ็ญใใใจๆใฃใฆใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "No, the boy said to me -- the boy said to me, \"It would destroy me.\" ",
"ja": "ใใฎ็ทใฎๅญใฏใใใ่จใฃใใฎใงใใใ็ใใฆ่กใใชใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And I said to myself, \"God, if it would destroy him to be called a girl, what are we then teaching him about girls?\" ",
"ja": "็งใฏใใๆใใพใใใๅฅณๅผใฐใใใใใใจใ็ทๅญใฏ็ใใฆใใใชใใฎใชใใ็ทๅญใซใฉใใใฃใฆใๅฅณๅญใฎใใจๆใใใใใงใใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "(Applause) It took me back to a time when I was about 12 years old. ",
"ja": "๏ผๆๆ๏ผใ็งใ12ๆญณใใใใฎใจใใฏใใฉใใ ใฃใใงใใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "I grew up in tenement buildings in the inner city. ",
"ja": "ใใญใณใฏในใฎในใฉใ ่ก่ฟใใฎใ"
} |
{
"en": "At this time we're living in the Bronx, and in the building next to where I lived there was a guy named Johnny. ",
"ja": "ๅฎใขใใผใใงๆฎใใใฆใใพใใใ้ฃใซไฝใใธใงใใผใฏใ"
} |
{
"en": "He was about 16 years old, and we were all about 12 years old -- younger guys. ",
"ja": "16ๆญณใใใใงใใใใใ็ง้ใฏๅผๅใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And he was hanging out with all us younger guys. ",
"ja": "ใใใฟใใชใง้ใใงใใพใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And this guy, he was up to a lot of no good. ",
"ja": "ใธใงใใผใฏไธ่ฏใ ใฃใใฎใงใ"
} |
{
"en": "He was the kind of kid who parents would have to wonder, \"What is this 16-year-old boy doing with these 12-year-old boys?\" ",
"ja": "่ฆช้ใฏๅฟ้
ใใฆใใพใใใใใฉใใช้ใณใใใฆใใใฎใ ใใ๏ผใใฃใฆใญใ"
} |
{
"en": "And he did spend a lot of time up to no good. ",
"ja": "ๆชใใฐใใใใฆใใใธใงใใผใฏใ"
} |
{
"en": "He was a troubled kid. ",
"ja": "ๅ้กๅ
ๆฑใใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "His mother had died from a heroin overdose. ",
"ja": "ๆฏ่ฆชใใใญใคใณไธญๆฏใงไบกใใชใใ"
} |
{
"en": "He was being raised by his grandmother. ",
"ja": "็ฅๆฏใซ่ฒใฆใใใใฎใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "His father wasn't on the set. ",
"ja": "็ถ่ฆชใฏใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "His grandmother had two jobs. ",
"ja": "็ฅๆฏใฏใใฃใจไปไบใงใ"
} |
{
"en": "He was home alone a lot. ",
"ja": "ใธใงใใผใฏๅฎถใซไธไบบใผใฃใกใ"
} |
{
"en": "But I've got to tell you, we young guys, we looked up to this dude, man. ",
"ja": "ใงใ็ง้ใฎ้ใงใฏใๅฐๆฌใใใฆใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "He was cool. He was fine. ",
"ja": "ใใใใใงๆ ผๅฅฝ่ฏใใธใงใใผใฏใ"
} |
{
"en": "That's what the sisters said, \"He was fine.\" ",
"ja": "ๅฅณใฎๅญใใใใขใใฆใ"
} |
{
"en": "He was having sex. ",
"ja": "ๆไบบใใใใฎใงใ"
} |
{
"en": "We all looked up to him. ",
"ja": "ๆงใใฎ็ใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "So one day, I'm out in front of the house doing something -- just playing around, doing something -- I don't know what. ",
"ja": "ใใๆฅใๅฎถใฎๅคใงใไฝใใใใฆ้ใใงใใใจใ"
} |
{
"en": "He looks out his window; he calls me upstairs; he said, \"Hey Anthony.\" ",
"ja": "ใธใงใใผใ้จๅฑใฎ็ชใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "They called me Anthony growing up as a kid. ",
"ja": "็งใฎใใใฏใใผใ ใงใ"
} |
{
"en": "\"Hey Anthony, come on upstairs.\" ",
"ja": "ใใขใณใฝใใผใใจๅผใถใฎใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Johnny call, you go. ",
"ja": "ๆฅใใจ่จใใใใฎใงใ"
} |
{
"en": "So I run right upstairs. ",
"ja": "ๆฅใใงไธใใฃใฆ่กใใจใ"
} |
{
"en": "As he opens the door, he says to me, \"Do you want some?\" ",
"ja": "ใใๅใใใใใใจ่ใใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Now I immediately knew what he meant. ",
"ja": "ใใใซไฝใๅใใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Because for me growing up at that time, and our relationship with this man box, \"Do you want some?\" meant one of two things: sex or drugs -- and we weren't doing drugs. ",
"ja": "ๅฝๆๅฐๅนดใ ใฃใ็งใฎใใ็ทใใใใ่กๅใ่ใใใจใใใใใ๏ผใใจ่ใใใๅ ดๅใใปใใฏในใใใฉใใฏใงใใใใฉใใฐใฏใใฃใฆใใพใใใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Now my box, my card, my man box card, was immediately in jeopardy. ",
"ja": "ใใใจใ็งใฎใ็ทใใใใใฏใ็ชฎๅฐใซ็ซใใใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Two things: One, I never had sex. ",
"ja": "็งใฏใปใใฏในใๆช็ต้จใ ใฃใใ"
} |
{
"en": "We don't talk about that as men. ",
"ja": "ใใใฏ็ทๅๅฃซใง่ฉฑใใพใใใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "You only tell your dearest, closest friend, sworn to secrecy for life, the first time you had sex. ",
"ja": "ใใปใฉใฎ่ฆชๅใงใชใใใฐใๅไฝ้จใฎ่ฉฑใฏใใชใใ"
} |
{
"en": "For everybody else, we go around like we've been having sex since we were two. ",
"ja": "ๅใๅใใฆใ ใใจ่จใไบบใฏใ"
} |
{
"en": "There ain't no first time. ",
"ja": "ใใใฆใๅใคใใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "(Laughter) The other thing I couldn't tell him is that I didn't want any. ",
"ja": "๏ผ็ฌใ๏ผใใใใใใฉใกใใๅซใจ่จใใฎใใ"
} |
{
"en": "That's even worse. We're supposed to always be on the prowl. ",
"ja": "็ทใจใใฆใฏๆฅใใใใใใจใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Women are objects, especially sexual objects. ",
"ja": "ๅฅณใฏใใคใ็ทใซใจใฃใฆใๆง็ๅฏพ่ฑกใชใฎใงใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Anyway, so I couldn't tell him any of that. ",
"ja": "็งใฏ่ฟทใฃใฆใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "So, like my mother would say, make a long story short, I just simply said to Johnny, \"Yes.\" ",
"ja": "็ตๅฑใธใงใใผใซใฏใใใใใใใจใ ใ่จใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "He told me to go in his room. ",
"ja": "ๅฝผใฎ้จๅฑใซ่กใใจใ"
} |
{
"en": "I go in his room. On his bed is a girl from the neighborhood named Sheila. ",
"ja": "ใใใใซ่ฟๆใฎใทใงใคใฉใใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "She's 16 years old. ",
"ja": "16ๆญณใฎๅฝผๅฅณใฏใ"
} |
{
"en": "She's nude. ",
"ja": "่ฃธใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "She's what I know today to be mentally ill, higher-functioning at times than others. ",
"ja": "ๅฝๆใฏ็ฅใใชใใฃใใฎใงใใใใทใงใคใฉใฏ็ฅ็้ๅฎณใใใฃใใฎใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "We had a whole choice of inappropriate names for her. ",
"ja": "ๅฝผๅฅณใใฒใฉใไพฎ่พฑใใฆใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Anyway, Johnny had just gotten through having sex with her. ",
"ja": "ใธใงใใผใฏใปใใฏในใใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Well actually, he raped her, but he would say he had sex with her. ",
"ja": "ใฌใคใใซ่ฟใ็ถๆณใงใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Because, while Sheila never said no, she also never said yes. ",
"ja": "ใทใงใคใฉใฏๆญใใชใใฃใใจ่จใใฎใงใใใใใ่จฑใใฆใใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "So he was offering me the opportunity to do the same. ",
"ja": "ใใใฆ็งใใใใจ่จใใฎใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "So when I go in the room, I close the door. ",
"ja": "้จๅฑใซๅ
ฅใฃใฆใใขใ้ใใใจใ"
} |
{
"en": "Folks, I'm petrified. ",
"ja": "็งใฏๅใใชใใชใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "I stand with my back to the door so Johnny can't bust in the room and see that I'm not doing anything, and I stand there long enough that I could have actually done something. ",
"ja": "ใใใฆใธใงใใผใๅ
ฅใฃใฆๆฅใชใใใใซใใใขใ่ไธญใงๆผใใใฆใใพใใใใใชใใฎ้ทใ้ไฝใใใชใใงใ"
} |
{
"en": "So now I'm no longer trying to figure out what I'm going to do; I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to get out of this room. ",
"ja": "ใใขใฎๆใซ็ซใฃใฆ่ใใฆใใใฎใฏใใฉใใใฃใฆ้จๅฑใๅบใใใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "So in my 12 years of wisdom, I zip my pants down, I walk out into the room, and lo and behold to me, while I was in the room with Sheila, Johnny was back at the window calling guys up. ",
"ja": "ใพใ 12ๆญณใฎ็งใฏใใบใใณใฎใใฃใใฏใไธใใใฆใ้จๅฑใๅบใใฎใงใใใใใจใฉใใงใใใใใทใงใคใฉใจ้จๅฑใซใใๆใใธใงใใผใฏไปฒ้ใๅผใใ ใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "So now there's a living room full of guys. ",
"ja": "ใชใใณใฐใฏไบบใใใใใใใฆใ"
} |
{
"en": "It was like the waiting room in the doctor's office. ",
"ja": "็
้ขใฎๅพ
ๅๅฎคใฎใใใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "And they asked me how was it, and I say to them, \"It was good,\" and I zip my pants up in front of them, and I head for the door. ",
"ja": "ๆๆณใ่ใใใใฎใงใใใใใฃใใใจ่จใฃใฆใใใพใใใใใใใใใฃใใฏใไธใใฆใ็้ขใซๅใใฃใใฎใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Now I say this all with remorse, and I was feeling a tremendous amount of remorse at that time, but I was conflicted, because, while I was feeling remorse, I was excited, because I didn't get caught. ",
"ja": "ไปใๅพๆใใฆใใพใใๅฝๆใฏใใฃใจๅพๆใใฆใใพใใใๅใใใฌใชใใฃใใใจใฏใๅฌใใใฃใใฎใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "But I knew I felt bad about what was happening. ",
"ja": "ๆชใใใจใใใๆฐๅใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "This fear, getting outside the man box, totally enveloped me. ",
"ja": "ใ็ทใใใใใชใใใจใใใใจใไธๅฎใซใชใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "It was way more important to me, about me and my man box card than about Sheila and what was happening to her. ",
"ja": "็งใซใจใฃใฆ้่ฆใ ใฃใใฎใฏใใทใงใคใฉใซๅฏพใใไบใงใฏใชใใ็งใใ็ทใใใใใชใ่กๅใใใใฆใใพใฃใไบใงใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "See collectively, we as men are taught to have less value in women, to view them as property and the objects of men. ",
"ja": "็ทๆงใฏไธ่ฌ็ใซใๅฅณๆงใ่ฆไธใใใใใๅฅณๆงใ็ทๆงใฎๆๆ็ฉใจ่ใใพใใ"
} |
{
"en": "We see that as an equation that equals violence against women. ",
"ja": "ใใใใๅฅณๆงใซๅฏพใใๆดๅใซใชใใฎใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "We as men, good men, the large majority of men, we operate on the foundation of this whole collective socialization. ",
"ja": "็ทๆงใฎๅคงๅคๆฐใฏใใจใฆใ่ณขใ็ใ็ฉใ ใใใ็คพไผๅ
จไฝใฎๆ นๅนนใใ็ทๆงใๆฏ้
ใใฆใใใชใฉใฉใ"
} |
{
"en": "We kind of see ourselves separate, but we're very much a part of it. ",
"ja": "ไบบ้ใๅใใฆ่ใใใฎใ็ทๆงใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "You see, we have to come to understand that less value, property and objectification is the foundation and the violence can't happen without it. ",
"ja": "ใฟใชใใใซๅใใฃใฆๆฌฒใใใฎใฏใๅฅณๆงใซๅฏพใใ่ฆไธใใๆ
ๅบฆใใๅฅณๆงใธใฎๆดๅใ็ใใใจใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "So we're very much a part of the solution as well as the problem. ",
"ja": "ๅ้กใ่ตทใใใฆใใ็ทๆง่ช่บซใใใใฎ่งฃๆฑบใฎ้ตใชใฎใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "The center for disease control says that men's violence against women is at epidemic proportions, is the number one health concern for women in this country and abroad. ",
"ja": "็พ็
็ฎก็ใปใณใฟใผใซใใใจใๅฅณๆงใ็ทๆงใใใฎๆดๅใงใๅฅๅบทใๅฎณใใๅ ดๅใๅคใไบใฏใไธ็็ใชๅ้กใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "So quickly, I'd like to just say, this is the love of my life, my daughter Jay. ",
"ja": "ๆใใๅจใธใงใคใฎใใใซใ่จใฃใฆใใใใไบใใใใพใใ"
} |
{
"en": "The world I envision for her -- how do I want men to be acting and behaving? ",
"ja": "็ทๆงใใฉใ่กๅใใใฐใๅจใๅฎๅฟใงใใใฎใงใใใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "I need you on board. I need you with me. ",
"ja": "ใฟใชใใใ็งใจไธ็ทใซใ"
} |
{
"en": "I need you working with me and me working with you on how we raise our sons and teach them to be men -- that it's okay to not be dominating, that it's okay to have feelings and emotions, that it's okay to promote equality, that it's okay to have women who are just friends and that's it, that it's okay to be whole, that my liberation as a man is tied to your liberation as a woman. (Applause) I remember asking a nine-year-old boy, I asked a nine-year-old boy, \"What would life be like for you, if you didn't have to adhere to this man box?\" ",
"ja": "ๆฏๅญ้ใใฉใ่ฒใฆใใฐใใใฎใใใใฒ่ใใฆไธใใใใใใฆใ็ทใใใใใใใซใฏใๅจๅง็ใงใชใใฆใใใใๆๆ
็ใงใใฃใฆใใใใ็ทๅฅณๅนณ็ญใฎ่ใใงใๅฅณๆงใจไปใๅใฃใฆใ่ฏใใจใๆฏๅญใซๆใใใฎใงใใ็งใ็ทๆงใจใใฆ่ช็ฑใซใชใใฐใใใชใใๅฅณๆงใจใใฆ่ช็ฑใซใชใใพใใ็งใฏใใคใฆ9ๆญณใฎๆฏๅญใซใใใๅฐใญใใใจใใใใพใใใ็ทใใใใซใใ ใใใใซใ็ใใฆใใใจใใใ๏ผใใ"
} |
{
"en": "He said to me, \"I would be free.\" ",
"ja": "ๆฏๅญใฏใ่ช็ฑใซใชใใใใจ่จใใพใใใ"
} |
{
"en": "Thank you folks. ",
"ja": "ใใใใจใใ"
} |
{
"en": "(Applause) So I tried to do a small good thing for my wife. ",
"ja": "๏ผๆๆ๏ผใ็งใฏๅฆปใใกใใฃใจๅใฐใใใใจใใใใงใใ"
} |
{
"en": "It makes me to stand here, the fame, the money I got out of it. ",
"ja": "ใใฎใใใใงใใใซ็ซใฃใฆใใพใใใใใใๅๅฃฐใจใ้ใๅพใใใงใใ"
} |
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