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nnpoji | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | I'm starting a wrongful death lawsuit (USA) and wondering how often should I expect updates from my lawyer? I've never sued or done anything with a lawyer so am just hoping to get other lawyer's perspective on what's normal frequency. Of course I'm chomping at the bit to find out what's new and happening now and what happens next, etc, but I don't want to be that person. the person/murderer we're suing was convicted by a jury and my lawyer, who's on %, has just filed for probate for us so were very early stages. Its been a bit over a week since we last communicated. | gzvn45n | gzvp78y | 1,622,301,804 | 1,622,302,886 | 3 | 8 | ---
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nnpoji | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | I'm starting a wrongful death lawsuit (USA) and wondering how often should I expect updates from my lawyer? I've never sued or done anything with a lawyer so am just hoping to get other lawyer's perspective on what's normal frequency. Of course I'm chomping at the bit to find out what's new and happening now and what happens next, etc, but I don't want to be that person. the person/murderer we're suing was convicted by a jury and my lawyer, who's on %, has just filed for probate for us so were very early stages. Its been a bit over a week since we last communicated. | gzx4oi6 | gzvn45n | 1,622,329,479 | 1,622,301,804 | 5 | 3 | Wrongful death suits take a long time, and there’s frequent “downtime” where you may not hear anything. I sued a company for wrongful death 20 years ago. It took almost 4 years to even receive a settlement offer from the defendant. | ---
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nnpoji | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | I'm starting a wrongful death lawsuit (USA) and wondering how often should I expect updates from my lawyer? I've never sued or done anything with a lawyer so am just hoping to get other lawyer's perspective on what's normal frequency. Of course I'm chomping at the bit to find out what's new and happening now and what happens next, etc, but I don't want to be that person. the person/murderer we're suing was convicted by a jury and my lawyer, who's on %, has just filed for probate for us so were very early stages. Its been a bit over a week since we last communicated. | gzvzasd | gzx4oi6 | 1,622,308,062 | 1,622,329,479 | 3 | 5 | At a minimum, you should expect to hear from them when anything meaningful happens with the case. Personally, I speak with the client whenever something happens, and if nothing is happening with the case for an extended period of time (3-4 weeks), I will make a point to send an email/letter, or have a quick call, just to let them know nothing is going on. Not wanting to be “that person” is nice, but remember, your lawyer works for you. So, if you really feel the need to call, call. Now, how often should that be? Hard to say. What I would suggest is whenever you speak with the attorney ask, “when would you expect for me to hear from you again?” They should be able to give you a pretty good idea of when the next development should be. Give the attorney a chance to report back to you after that, and if don’t, you are certainly entitled to call them. | Wrongful death suits take a long time, and there’s frequent “downtime” where you may not hear anything. I sued a company for wrongful death 20 years ago. It took almost 4 years to even receive a settlement offer from the defendant. | 0 | 21,417 | 1.666667 |
zxkz7h | legaladvice_train | 0.89 | A furniture company spelled my name incorrectly and won't grant a warranty check now -- what can I do? (US) I bought a moderately expensive couch from a Large Retailer, let's call them Slob's Pisscount Burniture for the sake of anonymity. Couch came with a five-year warranty. Three years in, a contractor at my house snags it with a tool and it sustains a small tear. I file a claim and it's approved, yay. They offer me 50% of the couch's value in cash as they are not able to replace it. I approve but when the check comes, it's for the wrong name -- not even a name, but a word (think if my name was Jack Smith, the check says Hack Smith) so I contact the claims company (a third-party) and they tell me they need Slob's to verify my identity. I call Slob's and they tell me someone spelled my name wrong in the system and that I need to bring my ID to Slob's so they can correct it internally and send the right check. I bring it and they verify it -- the salesperson who verifies it literally sold me the couch and remembers me. They mark my name down. Then the insurer tells me that they \*appear to have sold the couch to a different person named Hack Smith\* and that they can't issue me the payment because...it's not my couch. I sent them a photo of myself on the couch. They refuse to budge. Aside from changing my name to Hack Smith, what can I do here? Neither company will help me at this point and I honestly think they think I'm trying to defraud them. | j224uyj | j22d8rp | 1,672,281,378 | 1,672,285,257 | 26 | 37 | Have you tried depositing the check to Hack Smith at an ATM or with a teller? | Do you still have the check? If so: 1. Use mobile or ATM deposit. You'll only have issues if the issuing company disputes the deposit. 2. Endorse as "Jack Smith for Hank Smith." Your signature is your adoption of the identity and you're not defrauding anyone. Side note: Why didn't you get the contractor to chip in? | 0 | 3,879 | 1.423077 |
zxkz7h | legaladvice_train | 0.89 | A furniture company spelled my name incorrectly and won't grant a warranty check now -- what can I do? (US) I bought a moderately expensive couch from a Large Retailer, let's call them Slob's Pisscount Burniture for the sake of anonymity. Couch came with a five-year warranty. Three years in, a contractor at my house snags it with a tool and it sustains a small tear. I file a claim and it's approved, yay. They offer me 50% of the couch's value in cash as they are not able to replace it. I approve but when the check comes, it's for the wrong name -- not even a name, but a word (think if my name was Jack Smith, the check says Hack Smith) so I contact the claims company (a third-party) and they tell me they need Slob's to verify my identity. I call Slob's and they tell me someone spelled my name wrong in the system and that I need to bring my ID to Slob's so they can correct it internally and send the right check. I bring it and they verify it -- the salesperson who verifies it literally sold me the couch and remembers me. They mark my name down. Then the insurer tells me that they \*appear to have sold the couch to a different person named Hack Smith\* and that they can't issue me the payment because...it's not my couch. I sent them a photo of myself on the couch. They refuse to budge. Aside from changing my name to Hack Smith, what can I do here? Neither company will help me at this point and I honestly think they think I'm trying to defraud them. | j22d8rp | j227yfx | 1,672,285,257 | 1,672,282,762 | 37 | 14 | Do you still have the check? If so: 1. Use mobile or ATM deposit. You'll only have issues if the issuing company disputes the deposit. 2. Endorse as "Jack Smith for Hank Smith." Your signature is your adoption of the identity and you're not defrauding anyone. Side note: Why didn't you get the contractor to chip in? | Just do a mobile deposit. My spouse has checks deposited in my account. Her name is not on the account. If you go thia route, wait 30 days before you spend the money. | 1 | 2,495 | 2.642857 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczo0bl | iczkv9i | 1,655,675,138 | 1,655,673,627 | 285 | 185 | This sounds really really sketchy. From previous posts, sounds like they are trying to use you to get a discount for first time home buyer. You won't get to use that later on life when YOU want to buy a home. No adult needs to borrow 5k from a child to buy a house if things are on the up and up | I would not trust anyone who is willing to take 5k from their minor child and then put them on the line for a mortgage. I really hope you get some good advice here but IMO this is an AVOID situation. No decent parent does this. | 1 | 1,511 | 1.540541 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczo0bl | iczjiic | 1,655,675,138 | 1,655,672,971 | 285 | 9 | This sounds really really sketchy. From previous posts, sounds like they are trying to use you to get a discount for first time home buyer. You won't get to use that later on life when YOU want to buy a home. No adult needs to borrow 5k from a child to buy a house if things are on the up and up | Do you have $5,000? In many places they could just take it. Are they going to use your "good credit" to get a better interest rate? Are you going to be on the mortgage as well as the deed? Where are you located? | 1 | 2,167 | 31.666667 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczjiic | iczkv9i | 1,655,672,971 | 1,655,673,627 | 9 | 185 | Do you have $5,000? In many places they could just take it. Are they going to use your "good credit" to get a better interest rate? Are you going to be on the mortgage as well as the deed? Where are you located? | I would not trust anyone who is willing to take 5k from their minor child and then put them on the line for a mortgage. I really hope you get some good advice here but IMO this is an AVOID situation. No decent parent does this. | 0 | 656 | 20.555556 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczxe5d | iczjiic | 1,655,679,839 | 1,655,672,971 | 128 | 9 | No don’t do this. Putting your name on the house is likely a pretense to use YOUR first time homeowner benefits. There are special deals available to people the first time they buy a house. If your parents put your name on this mortgage they will use those benefits and in ten years you won’t be able to use them when you want to buy your own house. | Do you have $5,000? In many places they could just take it. Are they going to use your "good credit" to get a better interest rate? Are you going to be on the mortgage as well as the deed? Where are you located? | 1 | 6,868 | 14.222222 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczxe5d | iczq9ec | 1,655,679,839 | 1,655,676,229 | 128 | 4 | No don’t do this. Putting your name on the house is likely a pretense to use YOUR first time homeowner benefits. There are special deals available to people the first time they buy a house. If your parents put your name on this mortgage they will use those benefits and in ten years you won’t be able to use them when you want to buy your own house. | Is your mom borrowing the money or requesting a gift. Typically the contract to buy includes a question is any part of the down payment borrowed. Some lenders won't touch it if they answer yes. Sometimes they can get a loan at higher interest rate. So if it's a gift, I don't think you have any liability with the home. You gave your mom money she spent it, end of story. If it's a loan and she lies on the contract she's in trouble if they find out. You were under 18 any liability on your part seems minimal. | 1 | 3,610 | 32 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczjiic | id00nqo | 1,655,672,971 | 1,655,681,547 | 9 | 56 | Do you have $5,000? In many places they could just take it. Are they going to use your "good credit" to get a better interest rate? Are you going to be on the mortgage as well as the deed? Where are you located? | If you want to gift your mother $5000 to put as a down payment, that is a decision if you can givw up 5k and/or get something intangible out of it (ie a better place for you to live while you are living with her). There is no tax implications to a straight gift of $5k. You don't even have to report it. If your mother just wants you on the mortgage, say hell no. They are using your credit as leverage to get the loan or a better rate. No matter how you set up this "trust" you will be liable for the full cost of the house. Even if you're *only* on the deed, getting 50% equity isn't worth the headache. Most parents would give you all the benefits anyway without all the liabilities. As for tax rates, home ownership does nothing (usually) for your income tax. You will owe property taxes, but that is part of the monthly payments. There are programs that help people buy their first house. If you are an "owner" on your mother's house, you won't qualify for it later down the road when you want to buy your own house. | 0 | 8,576 | 6.222222 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id00nqo | iczq9ec | 1,655,681,547 | 1,655,676,229 | 56 | 4 | If you want to gift your mother $5000 to put as a down payment, that is a decision if you can givw up 5k and/or get something intangible out of it (ie a better place for you to live while you are living with her). There is no tax implications to a straight gift of $5k. You don't even have to report it. If your mother just wants you on the mortgage, say hell no. They are using your credit as leverage to get the loan or a better rate. No matter how you set up this "trust" you will be liable for the full cost of the house. Even if you're *only* on the deed, getting 50% equity isn't worth the headache. Most parents would give you all the benefits anyway without all the liabilities. As for tax rates, home ownership does nothing (usually) for your income tax. You will owe property taxes, but that is part of the monthly payments. There are programs that help people buy their first house. If you are an "owner" on your mother's house, you won't qualify for it later down the road when you want to buy your own house. | Is your mom borrowing the money or requesting a gift. Typically the contract to buy includes a question is any part of the down payment borrowed. Some lenders won't touch it if they answer yes. Sometimes they can get a loan at higher interest rate. So if it's a gift, I don't think you have any liability with the home. You gave your mom money she spent it, end of story. If it's a loan and she lies on the contract she's in trouble if they find out. You were under 18 any liability on your part seems minimal. | 1 | 5,318 | 14 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczxk8y | id00nqo | 1,655,679,924 | 1,655,681,547 | 4 | 56 | If you assume the best intentions here would be the problem if she needs 5k to do this and or your credit or name on it and is unable to do so then the odds of her defaulting are also high and would harm your credit. Even if it was just about the 5k when would you get that back in 50 years when they sell. That isn't to say don't do it at all, just don't expect it back. If 5k would have gotten my mom into a home I would have done it even if I didn't get it back. | If you want to gift your mother $5000 to put as a down payment, that is a decision if you can givw up 5k and/or get something intangible out of it (ie a better place for you to live while you are living with her). There is no tax implications to a straight gift of $5k. You don't even have to report it. If your mother just wants you on the mortgage, say hell no. They are using your credit as leverage to get the loan or a better rate. No matter how you set up this "trust" you will be liable for the full cost of the house. Even if you're *only* on the deed, getting 50% equity isn't worth the headache. Most parents would give you all the benefits anyway without all the liabilities. As for tax rates, home ownership does nothing (usually) for your income tax. You will owe property taxes, but that is part of the monthly payments. There are programs that help people buy their first house. If you are an "owner" on your mother's house, you won't qualify for it later down the road when you want to buy your own house. | 0 | 1,623 | 14 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0bjmw | iczjiic | 1,655,687,450 | 1,655,672,971 | 26 | 9 | You can't enter into a contract as a minor so you can't be on the loan until you are 18. If you are willing to give them the money with no expectation that you will be repaid or receive any benefit from it then do it. If it is money you are saving for a car or college it is extremely unfair of them to ask you to give that to them. Also, if they aren't able to come up with a 3% downpayment and / or closing costs then they are also not in a position to maintain the property and do repairs and upgrades as needed. It just doesn't sound like a win for you. | Do you have $5,000? In many places they could just take it. Are they going to use your "good credit" to get a better interest rate? Are you going to be on the mortgage as well as the deed? Where are you located? | 1 | 14,479 | 2.888889 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczq9ec | id0bjmw | 1,655,676,229 | 1,655,687,450 | 4 | 26 | Is your mom borrowing the money or requesting a gift. Typically the contract to buy includes a question is any part of the down payment borrowed. Some lenders won't touch it if they answer yes. Sometimes they can get a loan at higher interest rate. So if it's a gift, I don't think you have any liability with the home. You gave your mom money she spent it, end of story. If it's a loan and she lies on the contract she's in trouble if they find out. You were under 18 any liability on your part seems minimal. | You can't enter into a contract as a minor so you can't be on the loan until you are 18. If you are willing to give them the money with no expectation that you will be repaid or receive any benefit from it then do it. If it is money you are saving for a car or college it is extremely unfair of them to ask you to give that to them. Also, if they aren't able to come up with a 3% downpayment and / or closing costs then they are also not in a position to maintain the property and do repairs and upgrades as needed. It just doesn't sound like a win for you. | 0 | 11,221 | 6.5 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0bjmw | iczxk8y | 1,655,687,450 | 1,655,679,924 | 26 | 4 | You can't enter into a contract as a minor so you can't be on the loan until you are 18. If you are willing to give them the money with no expectation that you will be repaid or receive any benefit from it then do it. If it is money you are saving for a car or college it is extremely unfair of them to ask you to give that to them. Also, if they aren't able to come up with a 3% downpayment and / or closing costs then they are also not in a position to maintain the property and do repairs and upgrades as needed. It just doesn't sound like a win for you. | If you assume the best intentions here would be the problem if she needs 5k to do this and or your credit or name on it and is unable to do so then the odds of her defaulting are also high and would harm your credit. Even if it was just about the 5k when would you get that back in 50 years when they sell. That isn't to say don't do it at all, just don't expect it back. If 5k would have gotten my mom into a home I would have done it even if I didn't get it back. | 1 | 7,526 | 6.5 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0bjmw | id0a7g4 | 1,655,687,450 | 1,655,686,717 | 26 | 2 | You can't enter into a contract as a minor so you can't be on the loan until you are 18. If you are willing to give them the money with no expectation that you will be repaid or receive any benefit from it then do it. If it is money you are saving for a car or college it is extremely unfair of them to ask you to give that to them. Also, if they aren't able to come up with a 3% downpayment and / or closing costs then they are also not in a position to maintain the property and do repairs and upgrades as needed. It just doesn't sound like a win for you. | They would have to set up a legal trust as you r a minor. That alone is not in your best interest as they would set themselves up with control (safe guards can be put in place but you would need a lawyer acting on your behalf, who quite frankly would advise you againt the whole thing I imagine). | 1 | 733 | 13 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0fl53 | iczjiic | 1,655,689,692 | 1,655,672,971 | 11 | 9 | If your name is on a mortgage, your debt-to-income ratio would likely make it difficult for you to obtain a mortgage for a house of your own down the road, if you’re making an average wage. If they default on the mortgage, your credit will be fucked and it may be impossible for you to even lease an apartment for 7 years. If they pass away unexpectedly, you will be obligated to pay the mortgage payments or risk foreclosure and destruction of your credit. Once you do have a career and a decent income, they could claim they can’t pay anymore knowing you are able to and will make the payments in order to keep your credit clean. Don’t do it. It’s an extremely risky thing that could very negatively impact your financial future for a very long time. Their anger will be much easier to take than the stress of that, I promise. | Do you have $5,000? In many places they could just take it. Are they going to use your "good credit" to get a better interest rate? Are you going to be on the mortgage as well as the deed? Where are you located? | 1 | 16,721 | 1.222222 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0fl53 | iczq9ec | 1,655,689,692 | 1,655,676,229 | 11 | 4 | If your name is on a mortgage, your debt-to-income ratio would likely make it difficult for you to obtain a mortgage for a house of your own down the road, if you’re making an average wage. If they default on the mortgage, your credit will be fucked and it may be impossible for you to even lease an apartment for 7 years. If they pass away unexpectedly, you will be obligated to pay the mortgage payments or risk foreclosure and destruction of your credit. Once you do have a career and a decent income, they could claim they can’t pay anymore knowing you are able to and will make the payments in order to keep your credit clean. Don’t do it. It’s an extremely risky thing that could very negatively impact your financial future for a very long time. Their anger will be much easier to take than the stress of that, I promise. | Is your mom borrowing the money or requesting a gift. Typically the contract to buy includes a question is any part of the down payment borrowed. Some lenders won't touch it if they answer yes. Sometimes they can get a loan at higher interest rate. So if it's a gift, I don't think you have any liability with the home. You gave your mom money she spent it, end of story. If it's a loan and she lies on the contract she's in trouble if they find out. You were under 18 any liability on your part seems minimal. | 1 | 13,463 | 2.75 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczxk8y | id0fl53 | 1,655,679,924 | 1,655,689,692 | 4 | 11 | If you assume the best intentions here would be the problem if she needs 5k to do this and or your credit or name on it and is unable to do so then the odds of her defaulting are also high and would harm your credit. Even if it was just about the 5k when would you get that back in 50 years when they sell. That isn't to say don't do it at all, just don't expect it back. If 5k would have gotten my mom into a home I would have done it even if I didn't get it back. | If your name is on a mortgage, your debt-to-income ratio would likely make it difficult for you to obtain a mortgage for a house of your own down the road, if you’re making an average wage. If they default on the mortgage, your credit will be fucked and it may be impossible for you to even lease an apartment for 7 years. If they pass away unexpectedly, you will be obligated to pay the mortgage payments or risk foreclosure and destruction of your credit. Once you do have a career and a decent income, they could claim they can’t pay anymore knowing you are able to and will make the payments in order to keep your credit clean. Don’t do it. It’s an extremely risky thing that could very negatively impact your financial future for a very long time. Their anger will be much easier to take than the stress of that, I promise. | 0 | 9,768 | 2.75 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0a7g4 | id0fl53 | 1,655,686,717 | 1,655,689,692 | 2 | 11 | They would have to set up a legal trust as you r a minor. That alone is not in your best interest as they would set themselves up with control (safe guards can be put in place but you would need a lawyer acting on your behalf, who quite frankly would advise you againt the whole thing I imagine). | If your name is on a mortgage, your debt-to-income ratio would likely make it difficult for you to obtain a mortgage for a house of your own down the road, if you’re making an average wage. If they default on the mortgage, your credit will be fucked and it may be impossible for you to even lease an apartment for 7 years. If they pass away unexpectedly, you will be obligated to pay the mortgage payments or risk foreclosure and destruction of your credit. Once you do have a career and a decent income, they could claim they can’t pay anymore knowing you are able to and will make the payments in order to keep your credit clean. Don’t do it. It’s an extremely risky thing that could very negatively impact your financial future for a very long time. Their anger will be much easier to take than the stress of that, I promise. | 0 | 2,975 | 5.5 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0h7jl | id12gog | 1,655,690,584 | 1,655,703,952 | 6 | 7 | NOOOOOO. DO NOT DO THIS. YOU WILL BE SADDLED WITH THIS HOUSE AND WHEN SHE DEFAULTS ON THE MORTGAGE IT WILL RUIN YOUR CREDIT. There is a reason your mom can't get a mortgage. You have plenty of time to build your credit. A parent should not be asking a minor for a house down payment. Keep working hard, save and get your education. In a few years you will have a fantastic nest egg to put down on something that will only be yours. | Sounds like the ferengi rule of acquisition "exploitation begins at home". Refuse to do it and see the reaction. It is not right to ask a 17 year old to sign a contract, commit 5k to a down payment, etc. I wouldn't do it. Edit to add link to rules of acquisition: https://memory-beta.fandom.com/wiki/Ferengi\_Rules\_of\_Acquisition | 0 | 13,368 | 1.166667 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczq9ec | id12gog | 1,655,676,229 | 1,655,703,952 | 4 | 7 | Is your mom borrowing the money or requesting a gift. Typically the contract to buy includes a question is any part of the down payment borrowed. Some lenders won't touch it if they answer yes. Sometimes they can get a loan at higher interest rate. So if it's a gift, I don't think you have any liability with the home. You gave your mom money she spent it, end of story. If it's a loan and she lies on the contract she's in trouble if they find out. You were under 18 any liability on your part seems minimal. | Sounds like the ferengi rule of acquisition "exploitation begins at home". Refuse to do it and see the reaction. It is not right to ask a 17 year old to sign a contract, commit 5k to a down payment, etc. I wouldn't do it. Edit to add link to rules of acquisition: https://memory-beta.fandom.com/wiki/Ferengi\_Rules\_of\_Acquisition | 0 | 27,723 | 1.75 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id12gog | iczxk8y | 1,655,703,952 | 1,655,679,924 | 7 | 4 | Sounds like the ferengi rule of acquisition "exploitation begins at home". Refuse to do it and see the reaction. It is not right to ask a 17 year old to sign a contract, commit 5k to a down payment, etc. I wouldn't do it. Edit to add link to rules of acquisition: https://memory-beta.fandom.com/wiki/Ferengi\_Rules\_of\_Acquisition | If you assume the best intentions here would be the problem if she needs 5k to do this and or your credit or name on it and is unable to do so then the odds of her defaulting are also high and would harm your credit. Even if it was just about the 5k when would you get that back in 50 years when they sell. That isn't to say don't do it at all, just don't expect it back. If 5k would have gotten my mom into a home I would have done it even if I didn't get it back. | 1 | 24,028 | 1.75 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id12gog | id0meaq | 1,655,703,952 | 1,655,693,482 | 7 | 3 | Sounds like the ferengi rule of acquisition "exploitation begins at home". Refuse to do it and see the reaction. It is not right to ask a 17 year old to sign a contract, commit 5k to a down payment, etc. I wouldn't do it. Edit to add link to rules of acquisition: https://memory-beta.fandom.com/wiki/Ferengi\_Rules\_of\_Acquisition | Please don’t do this. I’m 28 and trying to get credit has been a nightmare for me just bc I was irresponsible around 18 with money. Doing this has so many risks to ruin your credit and trying to get credit has legit been one of the hardest things for me in the past 10 years. House, some apartments, vehicles, credit cards, loans, all that and more rely so heavily on credit and it’s so hard to build up if you don’t have the right ways to do so. And it’s even harder the lower it is and the more negative stuff you have on it when you start actually trying to use it. Seems like a lot of people on here are saying the same thing so it might need to be your answer. I understand it may be hard to tell your mom no with something like this but it just doesn’t seem right and will do you more harm than good. | 1 | 10,470 | 2.333333 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id12gog | id0a7g4 | 1,655,703,952 | 1,655,686,717 | 7 | 2 | Sounds like the ferengi rule of acquisition "exploitation begins at home". Refuse to do it and see the reaction. It is not right to ask a 17 year old to sign a contract, commit 5k to a down payment, etc. I wouldn't do it. Edit to add link to rules of acquisition: https://memory-beta.fandom.com/wiki/Ferengi\_Rules\_of\_Acquisition | They would have to set up a legal trust as you r a minor. That alone is not in your best interest as they would set themselves up with control (safe guards can be put in place but you would need a lawyer acting on your behalf, who quite frankly would advise you againt the whole thing I imagine). | 1 | 17,235 | 3.5 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id10lm0 | id12gog | 1,655,702,576 | 1,655,703,952 | 2 | 7 | Not a lawyer but as I recall minors cannot enter into contracts, which I believe would be required for someone to make use of first time home buyer benefits. Hopefully someone with legal experience can weigh in specifically on this point. | Sounds like the ferengi rule of acquisition "exploitation begins at home". Refuse to do it and see the reaction. It is not right to ask a 17 year old to sign a contract, commit 5k to a down payment, etc. I wouldn't do it. Edit to add link to rules of acquisition: https://memory-beta.fandom.com/wiki/Ferengi\_Rules\_of\_Acquisition | 0 | 1,376 | 3.5 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | iczq9ec | id0h7jl | 1,655,676,229 | 1,655,690,584 | 4 | 6 | Is your mom borrowing the money or requesting a gift. Typically the contract to buy includes a question is any part of the down payment borrowed. Some lenders won't touch it if they answer yes. Sometimes they can get a loan at higher interest rate. So if it's a gift, I don't think you have any liability with the home. You gave your mom money she spent it, end of story. If it's a loan and she lies on the contract she's in trouble if they find out. You were under 18 any liability on your part seems minimal. | NOOOOOO. DO NOT DO THIS. YOU WILL BE SADDLED WITH THIS HOUSE AND WHEN SHE DEFAULTS ON THE MORTGAGE IT WILL RUIN YOUR CREDIT. There is a reason your mom can't get a mortgage. You have plenty of time to build your credit. A parent should not be asking a minor for a house down payment. Keep working hard, save and get your education. In a few years you will have a fantastic nest egg to put down on something that will only be yours. | 0 | 14,355 | 1.5 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0h7jl | iczxk8y | 1,655,690,584 | 1,655,679,924 | 6 | 4 | NOOOOOO. DO NOT DO THIS. YOU WILL BE SADDLED WITH THIS HOUSE AND WHEN SHE DEFAULTS ON THE MORTGAGE IT WILL RUIN YOUR CREDIT. There is a reason your mom can't get a mortgage. You have plenty of time to build your credit. A parent should not be asking a minor for a house down payment. Keep working hard, save and get your education. In a few years you will have a fantastic nest egg to put down on something that will only be yours. | If you assume the best intentions here would be the problem if she needs 5k to do this and or your credit or name on it and is unable to do so then the odds of her defaulting are also high and would harm your credit. Even if it was just about the 5k when would you get that back in 50 years when they sell. That isn't to say don't do it at all, just don't expect it back. If 5k would have gotten my mom into a home I would have done it even if I didn't get it back. | 1 | 10,660 | 1.5 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0h7jl | id0a7g4 | 1,655,690,584 | 1,655,686,717 | 6 | 2 | NOOOOOO. DO NOT DO THIS. YOU WILL BE SADDLED WITH THIS HOUSE AND WHEN SHE DEFAULTS ON THE MORTGAGE IT WILL RUIN YOUR CREDIT. There is a reason your mom can't get a mortgage. You have plenty of time to build your credit. A parent should not be asking a minor for a house down payment. Keep working hard, save and get your education. In a few years you will have a fantastic nest egg to put down on something that will only be yours. | They would have to set up a legal trust as you r a minor. That alone is not in your best interest as they would set themselves up with control (safe guards can be put in place but you would need a lawyer acting on your behalf, who quite frankly would advise you againt the whole thing I imagine). | 1 | 3,867 | 3 |
vg4k7v | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My mother is asking me to help pay with a down payment on a house, but I'm not 18 yet. Can this cause any issues later down the road? I'm not a technical wizard regarding the economy and money management, but I'm 16 years old & I also have a job that makes a decent wage considering its entry-level. To sum up, the texts I got, basically asked if I would like to help with a down payment for a house. They said it would be less than $5000, and they could put my name on the house as well as theirs. According to them, it would help my credit score. They also noted we would each put up half. Past that, they said I would have to set up a legal trust due to me being under the age of 18, but the half would be yours at 18. My questions here are: Can this cause more harm than good? Does this give me any more liabilities down the road? Can this increase my tax rates? Any other noteworthy advice on this topic would be great, thanks! | id0meaq | id0a7g4 | 1,655,693,482 | 1,655,686,717 | 3 | 2 | Please don’t do this. I’m 28 and trying to get credit has been a nightmare for me just bc I was irresponsible around 18 with money. Doing this has so many risks to ruin your credit and trying to get credit has legit been one of the hardest things for me in the past 10 years. House, some apartments, vehicles, credit cards, loans, all that and more rely so heavily on credit and it’s so hard to build up if you don’t have the right ways to do so. And it’s even harder the lower it is and the more negative stuff you have on it when you start actually trying to use it. Seems like a lot of people on here are saying the same thing so it might need to be your answer. I understand it may be hard to tell your mom no with something like this but it just doesn’t seem right and will do you more harm than good. | They would have to set up a legal trust as you r a minor. That alone is not in your best interest as they would set themselves up with control (safe guards can be put in place but you would need a lawyer acting on your behalf, who quite frankly would advise you againt the whole thing I imagine). | 1 | 6,765 | 1.5 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihr95a2 | ihr737g | 1,658,864,762 | 1,658,863,980 | 1,291 | 62 | Not a lawyer, but you need more information on why the cops took the car. Was it reported stolen? Did they give you a case number? What did the warrant say? | Definitely consult with a lawyer, but maybe there is a civil claim that could be made against the accused? Hope someone can help.. good luck | 1 | 782 | 20.822581 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrh7f1 | ihr737g | 1,658,867,801 | 1,658,863,980 | 593 | 62 | Not a lawyer but it doesn't look like the other commenters are either. You need to get a lawyer. If the warrant didn't name you as the owner of the car, I would think the police would have needed a new warrant. They could legally seize the criminal's car but not your car. | Definitely consult with a lawyer, but maybe there is a civil claim that could be made against the accused? Hope someone can help.. good luck | 1 | 3,821 | 9.564516 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrbqm9 | ihrh7f1 | 1,658,865,737 | 1,658,867,801 | 17 | 593 | You need to consult an attorney. A criminal defense attorney would be a good start since it was taken as evidence. They probably have experience with similar situations and if they can't help you directly, can probably refer you to someone who can. | Not a lawyer but it doesn't look like the other commenters are either. You need to get a lawyer. If the warrant didn't name you as the owner of the car, I would think the police would have needed a new warrant. They could legally seize the criminal's car but not your car. | 0 | 2,064 | 34.882353 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrkwqp | ihsprmn | 1,658,869,220 | 1,658,886,773 | 179 | 198 | You're getting people telling you to get an attorney and are ignoring that you can't afford one. Try your local state rep/congressperson. They have constituent services and may have a way to help you get your car back or at least find out why you can't get it back. | CA Lawyer. Not your lawyer. This is not legal advice. You can try making a claim against the state for compensation. https://www.dgs.ca.gov/ORIM/Services/Page-Content/Office-of-Risk-and-Insurance-Management-Services-List-Folder/File-a-Government-Claim You May also qualify for state compensation as the victim of a crime. https://victims.ca.gov/ Good luck. Edit to add: Do you have comprehensive auto coverage? They should cover “loss of use” of your insured vehicle. | 0 | 17,553 | 1.106145 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihsprmn | ihrnf5v | 1,658,886,773 | 1,658,870,200 | 198 | 107 | CA Lawyer. Not your lawyer. This is not legal advice. You can try making a claim against the state for compensation. https://www.dgs.ca.gov/ORIM/Services/Page-Content/Office-of-Risk-and-Insurance-Management-Services-List-Folder/File-a-Government-Claim You May also qualify for state compensation as the victim of a crime. https://victims.ca.gov/ Good luck. Edit to add: Do you have comprehensive auto coverage? They should cover “loss of use” of your insured vehicle. | I saw where you said you can't afford a lawyer, I don't know where you are but there may be a legal aid group that could a assist or civil rights lawyer that could work pro Bono. You could also reach out to the Institute for Justice , no guarantee they will help but this sounds like the sort of thing they deal with. | 1 | 16,573 | 1.850467 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihsprmn | ihs33ru | 1,658,886,773 | 1,658,876,617 | 198 | 95 | CA Lawyer. Not your lawyer. This is not legal advice. You can try making a claim against the state for compensation. https://www.dgs.ca.gov/ORIM/Services/Page-Content/Office-of-Risk-and-Insurance-Management-Services-List-Folder/File-a-Government-Claim You May also qualify for state compensation as the victim of a crime. https://victims.ca.gov/ Good luck. Edit to add: Do you have comprehensive auto coverage? They should cover “loss of use” of your insured vehicle. | Not a lawyer. Contact your county/district attorney. I had personal property seized as evidence a few years ago, and, after several attempts to get it back, i was able to get in contact with DA and he set up a meeting between himself, a local judge, and me. He explained the circumstances, and the judge issued an order to release my property on the spot. | 1 | 10,156 | 2.084211 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihsprmn | ihr737g | 1,658,886,773 | 1,658,863,980 | 198 | 62 | CA Lawyer. Not your lawyer. This is not legal advice. You can try making a claim against the state for compensation. https://www.dgs.ca.gov/ORIM/Services/Page-Content/Office-of-Risk-and-Insurance-Management-Services-List-Folder/File-a-Government-Claim You May also qualify for state compensation as the victim of a crime. https://victims.ca.gov/ Good luck. Edit to add: Do you have comprehensive auto coverage? They should cover “loss of use” of your insured vehicle. | Definitely consult with a lawyer, but maybe there is a civil claim that could be made against the accused? Hope someone can help.. good luck | 1 | 22,793 | 3.193548 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihsp6zn | ihsprmn | 1,658,886,517 | 1,658,886,773 | 59 | 198 | Dude: are you in the Bay Area? If so, the East Bay Community Law Center will help you, for free or cheap, and they are very good lawyers. Also, if you live in Barbara Lee's district, she is a very responsive and helpful US Representative. I respect her immensely. Go to her web page, there's a form you can fill out. Good luck. | CA Lawyer. Not your lawyer. This is not legal advice. You can try making a claim against the state for compensation. https://www.dgs.ca.gov/ORIM/Services/Page-Content/Office-of-Risk-and-Insurance-Management-Services-List-Folder/File-a-Government-Claim You May also qualify for state compensation as the victim of a crime. https://victims.ca.gov/ Good luck. Edit to add: Do you have comprehensive auto coverage? They should cover “loss of use” of your insured vehicle. | 0 | 256 | 3.355932 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihsprmn | ihrbqm9 | 1,658,886,773 | 1,658,865,737 | 198 | 17 | CA Lawyer. Not your lawyer. This is not legal advice. You can try making a claim against the state for compensation. https://www.dgs.ca.gov/ORIM/Services/Page-Content/Office-of-Risk-and-Insurance-Management-Services-List-Folder/File-a-Government-Claim You May also qualify for state compensation as the victim of a crime. https://victims.ca.gov/ Good luck. Edit to add: Do you have comprehensive auto coverage? They should cover “loss of use” of your insured vehicle. | You need to consult an attorney. A criminal defense attorney would be a good start since it was taken as evidence. They probably have experience with similar situations and if they can't help you directly, can probably refer you to someone who can. | 1 | 21,036 | 11.647059 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihs84qj | ihsprmn | 1,658,878,899 | 1,658,886,773 | 13 | 198 | You could also contact your local City Council members, make a "public comment," come to the Council meetings and bring pictures of the car and make a stink (be respectable). At least you might get a better answer. | CA Lawyer. Not your lawyer. This is not legal advice. You can try making a claim against the state for compensation. https://www.dgs.ca.gov/ORIM/Services/Page-Content/Office-of-Risk-and-Insurance-Management-Services-List-Folder/File-a-Government-Claim You May also qualify for state compensation as the victim of a crime. https://victims.ca.gov/ Good luck. Edit to add: Do you have comprehensive auto coverage? They should cover “loss of use” of your insured vehicle. | 0 | 7,874 | 15.230769 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihsprmn | ihrvkuf | 1,658,886,773 | 1,658,873,456 | 198 | 10 | CA Lawyer. Not your lawyer. This is not legal advice. You can try making a claim against the state for compensation. https://www.dgs.ca.gov/ORIM/Services/Page-Content/Office-of-Risk-and-Insurance-Management-Services-List-Folder/File-a-Government-Claim You May also qualify for state compensation as the victim of a crime. https://victims.ca.gov/ Good luck. Edit to add: Do you have comprehensive auto coverage? They should cover “loss of use” of your insured vehicle. | Did you receive a title from the dealer and transfer it to your name and get new plates and registration. Your next steps are very dependent on your answer to this. If you did not get the title from the dealer then your best case is likely against the dealer. If you did get a title and were able to register the car then you'll likely have to deal with law enforcement and the government. If you did get a title but never transferred into your name and registered the car then the resolution gets a bit more complicated. | 1 | 13,317 | 19.8 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrkwqp | ihr737g | 1,658,869,220 | 1,658,863,980 | 179 | 62 | You're getting people telling you to get an attorney and are ignoring that you can't afford one. Try your local state rep/congressperson. They have constituent services and may have a way to help you get your car back or at least find out why you can't get it back. | Definitely consult with a lawyer, but maybe there is a civil claim that could be made against the accused? Hope someone can help.. good luck | 1 | 5,240 | 2.887097 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrbqm9 | ihrkwqp | 1,658,865,737 | 1,658,869,220 | 17 | 179 | You need to consult an attorney. A criminal defense attorney would be a good start since it was taken as evidence. They probably have experience with similar situations and if they can't help you directly, can probably refer you to someone who can. | You're getting people telling you to get an attorney and are ignoring that you can't afford one. Try your local state rep/congressperson. They have constituent services and may have a way to help you get your car back or at least find out why you can't get it back. | 0 | 3,483 | 10.529412 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihr737g | ihrnf5v | 1,658,863,980 | 1,658,870,200 | 62 | 107 | Definitely consult with a lawyer, but maybe there is a civil claim that could be made against the accused? Hope someone can help.. good luck | I saw where you said you can't afford a lawyer, I don't know where you are but there may be a legal aid group that could a assist or civil rights lawyer that could work pro Bono. You could also reach out to the Institute for Justice , no guarantee they will help but this sounds like the sort of thing they deal with. | 0 | 6,220 | 1.725806 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrnf5v | ihrbqm9 | 1,658,870,200 | 1,658,865,737 | 107 | 17 | I saw where you said you can't afford a lawyer, I don't know where you are but there may be a legal aid group that could a assist or civil rights lawyer that could work pro Bono. You could also reach out to the Institute for Justice , no guarantee they will help but this sounds like the sort of thing they deal with. | You need to consult an attorney. A criminal defense attorney would be a good start since it was taken as evidence. They probably have experience with similar situations and if they can't help you directly, can probably refer you to someone who can. | 1 | 4,463 | 6.294118 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihr737g | ihs33ru | 1,658,863,980 | 1,658,876,617 | 62 | 95 | Definitely consult with a lawyer, but maybe there is a civil claim that could be made against the accused? Hope someone can help.. good luck | Not a lawyer. Contact your county/district attorney. I had personal property seized as evidence a few years ago, and, after several attempts to get it back, i was able to get in contact with DA and he set up a meeting between himself, a local judge, and me. He explained the circumstances, and the judge issued an order to release my property on the spot. | 0 | 12,637 | 1.532258 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihs33ru | ihrbqm9 | 1,658,876,617 | 1,658,865,737 | 95 | 17 | Not a lawyer. Contact your county/district attorney. I had personal property seized as evidence a few years ago, and, after several attempts to get it back, i was able to get in contact with DA and he set up a meeting between himself, a local judge, and me. He explained the circumstances, and the judge issued an order to release my property on the spot. | You need to consult an attorney. A criminal defense attorney would be a good start since it was taken as evidence. They probably have experience with similar situations and if they can't help you directly, can probably refer you to someone who can. | 1 | 10,880 | 5.588235 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrvkuf | ihs33ru | 1,658,873,456 | 1,658,876,617 | 10 | 95 | Did you receive a title from the dealer and transfer it to your name and get new plates and registration. Your next steps are very dependent on your answer to this. If you did not get the title from the dealer then your best case is likely against the dealer. If you did get a title and were able to register the car then you'll likely have to deal with law enforcement and the government. If you did get a title but never transferred into your name and registered the car then the resolution gets a bit more complicated. | Not a lawyer. Contact your county/district attorney. I had personal property seized as evidence a few years ago, and, after several attempts to get it back, i was able to get in contact with DA and he set up a meeting between himself, a local judge, and me. He explained the circumstances, and the judge issued an order to release my property on the spot. | 0 | 3,161 | 9.5 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrbqm9 | ihsp6zn | 1,658,865,737 | 1,658,886,517 | 17 | 59 | You need to consult an attorney. A criminal defense attorney would be a good start since it was taken as evidence. They probably have experience with similar situations and if they can't help you directly, can probably refer you to someone who can. | Dude: are you in the Bay Area? If so, the East Bay Community Law Center will help you, for free or cheap, and they are very good lawyers. Also, if you live in Barbara Lee's district, she is a very responsive and helpful US Representative. I respect her immensely. Go to her web page, there's a form you can fill out. Good luck. | 0 | 20,780 | 3.470588 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihsp6zn | ihs84qj | 1,658,886,517 | 1,658,878,899 | 59 | 13 | Dude: are you in the Bay Area? If so, the East Bay Community Law Center will help you, for free or cheap, and they are very good lawyers. Also, if you live in Barbara Lee's district, she is a very responsive and helpful US Representative. I respect her immensely. Go to her web page, there's a form you can fill out. Good luck. | You could also contact your local City Council members, make a "public comment," come to the Council meetings and bring pictures of the car and make a stink (be respectable). At least you might get a better answer. | 1 | 7,618 | 4.538462 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihsp6zn | ihrvkuf | 1,658,886,517 | 1,658,873,456 | 59 | 10 | Dude: are you in the Bay Area? If so, the East Bay Community Law Center will help you, for free or cheap, and they are very good lawyers. Also, if you live in Barbara Lee's district, she is a very responsive and helpful US Representative. I respect her immensely. Go to her web page, there's a form you can fill out. Good luck. | Did you receive a title from the dealer and transfer it to your name and get new plates and registration. Your next steps are very dependent on your answer to this. If you did not get the title from the dealer then your best case is likely against the dealer. If you did get a title and were able to register the car then you'll likely have to deal with law enforcement and the government. If you did get a title but never transferred into your name and registered the car then the resolution gets a bit more complicated. | 1 | 13,061 | 5.9 |
w8s5y5 | legaladvice_train | 0.99 | I bought a car and a week later the police seized it as evidence because of things the previous owner did. I'm getting the runaround from the police, the dealership and my insurance. What can I do? My location is California. I brought a car and a week after I bought it the police came here with a warrant and they seized the car. The warrant was related to the previous owner not me. The police won't tell me why they took it just that it could be a year or years before I get the car back. I bought the car from a licensed dealership, not directly from the previous owner and the dealership said they brought the car legally so it's not their problem. My insurance company says I need to deal with the police. I paid over $6000 for the car and I either need the money back or the car back. What can I do if the police, the dealership and my insurance refuse to help? I have never had something like this happen to me and I'm lost. | ihrvkuf | ihs84qj | 1,658,873,456 | 1,658,878,899 | 10 | 13 | Did you receive a title from the dealer and transfer it to your name and get new plates and registration. Your next steps are very dependent on your answer to this. If you did not get the title from the dealer then your best case is likely against the dealer. If you did get a title and were able to register the car then you'll likely have to deal with law enforcement and the government. If you did get a title but never transferred into your name and registered the car then the resolution gets a bit more complicated. | You could also contact your local City Council members, make a "public comment," come to the Council meetings and bring pictures of the car and make a stink (be respectable). At least you might get a better answer. | 0 | 5,443 | 1.3 |
rvd1ys | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | My school stripped search girls to check for drugs, is it legal? Hi, I am in high school and we have a problem with people (girls and guys) vaping in the bathroom. Here’s what happened: Me and my friend went to use the bathroom during lunch and this teacher stopped us and said we weren’t allowed, so we went back to the cafeteria. But I am on a high strength laxative so if I need to go I need to go, so I walked back into the bathroom and the teacher had three girls pulled aside. She told me to leave and I told her I’m going to the bathroom so I went in a stall. Once I was in the bathroom, she started telling these girls to lift their bras (to check for vapes) and she touched one of the girls butts to “check”. And then one of the girls refused and she said “fine then pull your whole tit out” -they are not searching any guys- -also there wasn’t a vape on these girls- Is this legal? And what do you suggest to do? | hr5cj7l | hr4ogcy | 1,641,257,054 | 1,641,247,275 | 632 | 530 | I would suggest the girls who were searched talk to a lawyer. If they can find one who has experience in education law that would be best, but talking to almost any lawyer would be a good first step. Students have greatly restricted civil rights, but they still have civil rights. The events you relate are shocking, and it is probably not legal to strip search a student (see Safford v Redding). | These events as described are shocking in a way that makes one wonder if there is missing information or context. Certainly anyone treated in this manner should speak with their parents and then perhaps administration or district. As someone who witnessed it, you’re free to do the same. But you likely lack a complete story or understanding. | 1 | 9,779 | 1.192453 |
rvd1ys | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | My school stripped search girls to check for drugs, is it legal? Hi, I am in high school and we have a problem with people (girls and guys) vaping in the bathroom. Here’s what happened: Me and my friend went to use the bathroom during lunch and this teacher stopped us and said we weren’t allowed, so we went back to the cafeteria. But I am on a high strength laxative so if I need to go I need to go, so I walked back into the bathroom and the teacher had three girls pulled aside. She told me to leave and I told her I’m going to the bathroom so I went in a stall. Once I was in the bathroom, she started telling these girls to lift their bras (to check for vapes) and she touched one of the girls butts to “check”. And then one of the girls refused and she said “fine then pull your whole tit out” -they are not searching any guys- -also there wasn’t a vape on these girls- Is this legal? And what do you suggest to do? | hr7j2hn | hr6830r | 1,641,301,751 | 1,641,270,533 | 130 | 11 | In addition to all the other reasons this is terrible (strip search, conducted in a public place, involved touching the student), as an educator two things that stood out to me is that there wasn’t a second adult present and the search was conducted by a teacher rather than an administrator. I have, as an administrator, occasionally had to conduct a search of a student’s backpack or locker. Doing so is a big deal - there is paperwork, parents are notified and, depending on the circumstances, a call to legal may be in order. These tasks would never be left to a classroom teacher. Additionally, any time a search of a student’s locker or backpack is conducted, there is always a second administrator present as a witness. The stakes are too high, and the liability too great not to have a second pair of eyes who can document what occurred. This classroom teacher performed a hands-on, strip search of students on her own? With no witnesses? I wouldn’t agree to assist in such a thing even if a ruling majority of the Supreme Court was physically in the room confirming that everything was legal. I strongly suspect that the officials at the school would be horrified to discover what this teacher did. In my school, the teacher would be fired immediately and we would call the police to file charges. | Location? | 1 | 31,218 | 11.818182 |
2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coycgor | coygevl | 1,424,992,553 | 1,424,999,642 | 34 | 90 | Your daughter has the same 4th Amendment rights at school as she does anywhere else, but the probable cause/reasonable suspicion standards are pretty lenient for school officials. Read through this for more information, and if you're concerned about adverse action that would affect your daughter more than just being embarrassed, speak with a local attorney. | They have no way to compel her to give the password to them. Tell her if it ever happens again, don't give up the password. Call the school and complain. Make a stink. Escalate to school board if necessary. The principal violated their own policy by keeping the phone past the end of the day. Not to mention he shouldn't be bullying kids like that. Escalating may make this worse for your kid in the sense that her peers may tease her. That happened in my middle/high school when parents caused a fuss. Hopefully not since I'd think most kids would be pissed about this, too. | 0 | 7,089 | 2.647059 |
2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coygevl | coyc9qi | 1,424,999,642 | 1,424,992,221 | 90 | 27 | They have no way to compel her to give the password to them. Tell her if it ever happens again, don't give up the password. Call the school and complain. Make a stink. Escalate to school board if necessary. The principal violated their own policy by keeping the phone past the end of the day. Not to mention he shouldn't be bullying kids like that. Escalating may make this worse for your kid in the sense that her peers may tease her. That happened in my middle/high school when parents caused a fuss. Hopefully not since I'd think most kids would be pissed about this, too. | What was the school policy about phones in the school/student/parent contract you all signed at the beginning of the school year? | 1 | 7,421 | 3.333333 |
2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coybqb8 | coygevl | 1,424,991,304 | 1,424,999,642 | 4 | 90 | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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Report Inaccuracies Here | Author | They have no way to compel her to give the password to them. Tell her if it ever happens again, don't give up the password. Call the school and complain. Make a stink. Escalate to school board if necessary. The principal violated their own policy by keeping the phone past the end of the day. Not to mention he shouldn't be bullying kids like that. Escalating may make this worse for your kid in the sense that her peers may tease her. That happened in my middle/high school when parents caused a fuss. Hopefully not since I'd think most kids would be pissed about this, too. | 0 | 8,338 | 22.5 |
2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coyc9qi | coycgor | 1,424,992,221 | 1,424,992,553 | 27 | 34 | What was the school policy about phones in the school/student/parent contract you all signed at the beginning of the school year? | Your daughter has the same 4th Amendment rights at school as she does anywhere else, but the probable cause/reasonable suspicion standards are pretty lenient for school officials. Read through this for more information, and if you're concerned about adverse action that would affect your daughter more than just being embarrassed, speak with a local attorney. | 0 | 332 | 1.259259 |
2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coycgor | coybqb8 | 1,424,992,553 | 1,424,991,304 | 34 | 4 | Your daughter has the same 4th Amendment rights at school as she does anywhere else, but the probable cause/reasonable suspicion standards are pretty lenient for school officials. Read through this for more information, and if you're concerned about adverse action that would affect your daughter more than just being embarrassed, speak with a local attorney. | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coyc9qi | coybqb8 | 1,424,992,221 | 1,424,991,304 | 27 | 4 | What was the school policy about phones in the school/student/parent contract you all signed at the beginning of the school year? | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coybqb8 | coyjq1z | 1,424,991,304 | 1,425,005,733 | 4 | 14 | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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Report Inaccuracies Here | Author | As the owner of the phone (since your child is a minor) I'd be calling the principal and chewing him out for going through your personal property. I'd bring up the fact that he seems to have violated *his own policies* and demand the phone be returned IMMEDIATELY (as in, bring it to your house RIGHT THIS SECOND) or I'll be going to a few news outlets and calling a lawyer. | 0 | 14,429 | 3.5 |
2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coyv0bl | coyye79 | 1,425,040,632 | 1,425,049,544 | 4 | 9 | I'd call the school board and principal now. Also teach your daughter if they want a password/permission/etc... just to say "I do not feel comfortable giving that information without my parents present, please call them now." | The biggest problem I have with all of the is the schools failure to contact the parent. You could possibly argue about the school's right to confiscate or inspect the phone (depending on the school policy and such) but at a minimum the parent should have been called and informed if the principal found something he felt was inappropriate and also if he was going to hold the phone beyond the end of the school day. There are other points where one would have expected him to call before that but there is no excuse for the parent to have not heard from the school by the end of the school day at the latest. I have problems with the other actions taken by the school as well but the failure to notify the parent is huge. | 0 | 8,912 | 2.25 |
2xac0z | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | My 12-year-old daughter had her phone confiscated at school. The principal then demanded the password and went through the contents. Is this legal? Apparently a kid on the bus told someone that she noticed questionable content on the phone (I actually spoke with the child and her mother. The questionable content turned out to be a pop up on some game they were playing). This morning, my daughter was told to hand over her phone and password. She did, because she didn't know what was going on and didn't want to get in trouble. Later she was called down to the assistant principal's office. He proceeded to tell her he found stuff (he didn't elaborate) in her search history and called her a liar when she told him she didn't know what he was talking about. Throughout all this, no one ever called me. They still haven't, and they still have her phone. She's an honor roll student and has never been in trouble before. She was crying and terrified when she got home. Does the school have a right to do this? It's a public school in Michigan. | coyye79 | coybqb8 | 1,425,049,544 | 1,424,991,304 | 9 | 4 | The biggest problem I have with all of the is the schools failure to contact the parent. You could possibly argue about the school's right to confiscate or inspect the phone (depending on the school policy and such) but at a minimum the parent should have been called and informed if the principal found something he felt was inappropriate and also if he was going to hold the phone beyond the end of the school day. There are other points where one would have expected him to call before that but there is no excuse for the parent to have not heard from the school by the end of the school day at the latest. I have problems with the other actions taken by the school as well but the failure to notify the parent is huge. | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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uydfk7 | legaladvice_train | 0.9 | 15 year old daughter assaulted at school I live in Oregon. My daughter (we'll call her Amy) was attacked by a girl she doesn't know while waiting for the bus after school. The girl who attacked her (we'll call her Dawn) did it because her friend who doesn't like Amy told her to. Dawn walked up and asked Amy if she wanted to fight, Amy said no and turned around, and the girl punched her twice in the back of the head and once in the eye. Amy's eye is purple, even her eyeball is bruised and red, and she has a concussion. Apparently there is a video but the school officer won't let us see it. The school also refuses to tell us the girls name and she is only suspended for the rest of the week (3 days). The girl who told Dawn to attack Amy did not get into any trouble and Amy keeps seeing her at school. My daughter has to see both of them in school next week and keeps having panic attacks. My questions are: Can I press criminal charges against a minor? Why won't the school even tell us the girls real name?? If I hire an attorney, how can I press charges without the girls name? Can the girl who told the other one to hit Amy get into any trouble?? Thank you. I really appreciate this! I was bullied in high school and it has left me with some pretty bad agoraphobia. I really don't want that for my daughter. | ia47qsf | ia3f70t | 1,653,600,585 | 1,653,588,629 | 91 | 38 | Go to the police and take evidence of the assault with you. I'm assuming you have pictures and a medical report. Tell them the school has video, too. If you seek an attorney, try an education attorney or civil rights attorney. Wait and see what the police say first. | >Can I press criminal charges against a minor? Individuals do not "press criminal charges." The police take reports, do an investigation, and it's up to the police to refer a case to a prosecutor and ultimately to the prosecutor to file or not file charges. >Why won't the school even tell us the girls real name?? We don't know. >If I hire an attorney, how can I press charges without the girls name? Again, a private attorney cannot press charges any more than you can. A private attorney can file a civil lawsuit and name the school, who will at some point produce the name of the student, but this will cost you money. >Can the girl who told the other one to hit Amy get into any trouble?? With the school? If they choose to discipline her, yes. With the law? Highly unlikely unless there was something like coercion involved. From a nonlegal perspective, it seems like the most immediate need is to get your kid to a therapist. | 1 | 11,956 | 2.394737 |
uydfk7 | legaladvice_train | 0.9 | 15 year old daughter assaulted at school I live in Oregon. My daughter (we'll call her Amy) was attacked by a girl she doesn't know while waiting for the bus after school. The girl who attacked her (we'll call her Dawn) did it because her friend who doesn't like Amy told her to. Dawn walked up and asked Amy if she wanted to fight, Amy said no and turned around, and the girl punched her twice in the back of the head and once in the eye. Amy's eye is purple, even her eyeball is bruised and red, and she has a concussion. Apparently there is a video but the school officer won't let us see it. The school also refuses to tell us the girls name and she is only suspended for the rest of the week (3 days). The girl who told Dawn to attack Amy did not get into any trouble and Amy keeps seeing her at school. My daughter has to see both of them in school next week and keeps having panic attacks. My questions are: Can I press criminal charges against a minor? Why won't the school even tell us the girls real name?? If I hire an attorney, how can I press charges without the girls name? Can the girl who told the other one to hit Amy get into any trouble?? Thank you. I really appreciate this! I was bullied in high school and it has left me with some pretty bad agoraphobia. I really don't want that for my daughter. | ia47qsf | ia3vc61 | 1,653,600,585 | 1,653,595,275 | 91 | 22 | Go to the police and take evidence of the assault with you. I'm assuming you have pictures and a medical report. Tell them the school has video, too. If you seek an attorney, try an education attorney or civil rights attorney. Wait and see what the police say first. | Call the police and file a report. I guarantee the school did not. Then in writing request that the school maintain the video evidence for the police. Then look for an education attorney - something many people don’t know is that if your child is being bullied and the district is not maintaining a safe environment for your child to learn, they may have to pony up private school tuition. | 1 | 5,310 | 4.136364 |
uydfk7 | legaladvice_train | 0.9 | 15 year old daughter assaulted at school I live in Oregon. My daughter (we'll call her Amy) was attacked by a girl she doesn't know while waiting for the bus after school. The girl who attacked her (we'll call her Dawn) did it because her friend who doesn't like Amy told her to. Dawn walked up and asked Amy if she wanted to fight, Amy said no and turned around, and the girl punched her twice in the back of the head and once in the eye. Amy's eye is purple, even her eyeball is bruised and red, and she has a concussion. Apparently there is a video but the school officer won't let us see it. The school also refuses to tell us the girls name and she is only suspended for the rest of the week (3 days). The girl who told Dawn to attack Amy did not get into any trouble and Amy keeps seeing her at school. My daughter has to see both of them in school next week and keeps having panic attacks. My questions are: Can I press criminal charges against a minor? Why won't the school even tell us the girls real name?? If I hire an attorney, how can I press charges without the girls name? Can the girl who told the other one to hit Amy get into any trouble?? Thank you. I really appreciate this! I was bullied in high school and it has left me with some pretty bad agoraphobia. I really don't want that for my daughter. | ia4eyow | ia3f70t | 1,653,603,797 | 1,653,588,629 | 56 | 38 | Take your bruised daughter down to the police station and make a report. You do not need an attorney to do this. The police can get the video. | >Can I press criminal charges against a minor? Individuals do not "press criminal charges." The police take reports, do an investigation, and it's up to the police to refer a case to a prosecutor and ultimately to the prosecutor to file or not file charges. >Why won't the school even tell us the girls real name?? We don't know. >If I hire an attorney, how can I press charges without the girls name? Again, a private attorney cannot press charges any more than you can. A private attorney can file a civil lawsuit and name the school, who will at some point produce the name of the student, but this will cost you money. >Can the girl who told the other one to hit Amy get into any trouble?? With the school? If they choose to discipline her, yes. With the law? Highly unlikely unless there was something like coercion involved. From a nonlegal perspective, it seems like the most immediate need is to get your kid to a therapist. | 1 | 15,168 | 1.473684 |
uydfk7 | legaladvice_train | 0.9 | 15 year old daughter assaulted at school I live in Oregon. My daughter (we'll call her Amy) was attacked by a girl she doesn't know while waiting for the bus after school. The girl who attacked her (we'll call her Dawn) did it because her friend who doesn't like Amy told her to. Dawn walked up and asked Amy if she wanted to fight, Amy said no and turned around, and the girl punched her twice in the back of the head and once in the eye. Amy's eye is purple, even her eyeball is bruised and red, and she has a concussion. Apparently there is a video but the school officer won't let us see it. The school also refuses to tell us the girls name and she is only suspended for the rest of the week (3 days). The girl who told Dawn to attack Amy did not get into any trouble and Amy keeps seeing her at school. My daughter has to see both of them in school next week and keeps having panic attacks. My questions are: Can I press criminal charges against a minor? Why won't the school even tell us the girls real name?? If I hire an attorney, how can I press charges without the girls name? Can the girl who told the other one to hit Amy get into any trouble?? Thank you. I really appreciate this! I was bullied in high school and it has left me with some pretty bad agoraphobia. I really don't want that for my daughter. | ia4eyow | ia3vc61 | 1,653,603,797 | 1,653,595,275 | 56 | 22 | Take your bruised daughter down to the police station and make a report. You do not need an attorney to do this. The police can get the video. | Call the police and file a report. I guarantee the school did not. Then in writing request that the school maintain the video evidence for the police. Then look for an education attorney - something many people don’t know is that if your child is being bullied and the district is not maintaining a safe environment for your child to learn, they may have to pony up private school tuition. | 1 | 8,522 | 2.545455 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuwe807 | iuvx1xa | 1,667,486,529 | 1,667,478,777 | 219 | 218 | Not a lawyer, retired educator Educational neglect is a good reason to call CPS. A nine year old with no reading skills is a case of educational neglect. PLEASE call CPS | If you’re considering calling CPS, CALL CPS! They’ll sort out whether something is amiss or not and typically provide resources to help get the family back on track. | 1 | 7,752 | 1.004587 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuvx1xa | iuv2ebp | 1,667,478,777 | 1,667,454,744 | 218 | 11 | If you’re considering calling CPS, CALL CPS! They’ll sort out whether something is amiss or not and typically provide resources to help get the family back on track. | you can absolutely call the police over this. depending on how that goes the kids may be placed in the care of a relative or a facility. | 1 | 24,033 | 19.818182 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuvxeqf | iuwe807 | 1,667,478,962 | 1,667,486,529 | 77 | 219 | Children don't have to be enrolled in school they just need to be learning once school age... That's why parents are allowed to homeschool. Calling the police or CPS will open an investigation and then those involved will have to determine if the children are receiving adequate education at home. It is on the parents or guardians to prove they are teaching their children if an investigation is opened and they can get into trouble if they aren't actually teaching their kids. Denying access to medical care based on not believing in medicine is ridiculous. I get some people not believing in NEW vaccines but to not believe in medicine at all is a little ridiculous considering the world we live in and the diseases we have to deal with, that medicine can help, cure or alleviate symptoms of. This should be reported as it is endangerment of a child if a child is sick/injured and the parents are not doing anything about it. | Not a lawyer, retired educator Educational neglect is a good reason to call CPS. A nine year old with no reading skills is a case of educational neglect. PLEASE call CPS | 0 | 7,567 | 2.844156 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuwe807 | iuv2ebp | 1,667,486,529 | 1,667,454,744 | 219 | 11 | Not a lawyer, retired educator Educational neglect is a good reason to call CPS. A nine year old with no reading skills is a case of educational neglect. PLEASE call CPS | you can absolutely call the police over this. depending on how that goes the kids may be placed in the care of a relative or a facility. | 1 | 31,785 | 19.909091 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuxsq9z | iuvxeqf | 1,667,506,002 | 1,667,478,962 | 200 | 77 | as a child welfare worker in Arizona, I would contact the hotline. You can call in information and they will determine if it meets report criteria. You can call 1-888-SOS-CHILD and they will help you from there. | Children don't have to be enrolled in school they just need to be learning once school age... That's why parents are allowed to homeschool. Calling the police or CPS will open an investigation and then those involved will have to determine if the children are receiving adequate education at home. It is on the parents or guardians to prove they are teaching their children if an investigation is opened and they can get into trouble if they aren't actually teaching their kids. Denying access to medical care based on not believing in medicine is ridiculous. I get some people not believing in NEW vaccines but to not believe in medicine at all is a little ridiculous considering the world we live in and the diseases we have to deal with, that medicine can help, cure or alleviate symptoms of. This should be reported as it is endangerment of a child if a child is sick/injured and the parents are not doing anything about it. | 1 | 27,040 | 2.597403 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuxsq9z | iux9l3s | 1,667,506,002 | 1,667,498,692 | 200 | 68 | as a child welfare worker in Arizona, I would contact the hotline. You can call in information and they will determine if it meets report criteria. You can call 1-888-SOS-CHILD and they will help you from there. | I wouldn’t be concerned about whether or not he’ll go to prison. CPS is more concerned about helping the children than punishing the parents. Focus on getting the kids the help they desperately need. | 1 | 7,310 | 2.941176 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuv2ebp | iuxsq9z | 1,667,454,744 | 1,667,506,002 | 11 | 200 | you can absolutely call the police over this. depending on how that goes the kids may be placed in the care of a relative or a facility. | as a child welfare worker in Arizona, I would contact the hotline. You can call in information and they will determine if it meets report criteria. You can call 1-888-SOS-CHILD and they will help you from there. | 0 | 51,258 | 18.181818 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuvxeqf | iuv2ebp | 1,667,478,962 | 1,667,454,744 | 77 | 11 | Children don't have to be enrolled in school they just need to be learning once school age... That's why parents are allowed to homeschool. Calling the police or CPS will open an investigation and then those involved will have to determine if the children are receiving adequate education at home. It is on the parents or guardians to prove they are teaching their children if an investigation is opened and they can get into trouble if they aren't actually teaching their kids. Denying access to medical care based on not believing in medicine is ridiculous. I get some people not believing in NEW vaccines but to not believe in medicine at all is a little ridiculous considering the world we live in and the diseases we have to deal with, that medicine can help, cure or alleviate symptoms of. This should be reported as it is endangerment of a child if a child is sick/injured and the parents are not doing anything about it. | you can absolutely call the police over this. depending on how that goes the kids may be placed in the care of a relative or a facility. | 1 | 24,218 | 7 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuv2ebp | iux9l3s | 1,667,454,744 | 1,667,498,692 | 11 | 68 | you can absolutely call the police over this. depending on how that goes the kids may be placed in the care of a relative or a facility. | I wouldn’t be concerned about whether or not he’ll go to prison. CPS is more concerned about helping the children than punishing the parents. Focus on getting the kids the help they desperately need. | 0 | 43,948 | 6.181818 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuyn3es | iuv2ebp | 1,667,519,882 | 1,667,454,744 | 14 | 11 | Call CPS. Save those children | you can absolutely call the police over this. depending on how that goes the kids may be placed in the care of a relative or a facility. | 1 | 65,138 | 1.272727 |
ykox2k | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | A child, 9 years old, has never been enrolled in school (Arizona) I’m considering calling CPS! My cousins boyfriend has 3 children, the oldest is 9 years old, does not know how to read, and none of them have been enrolled in school, ever. They also are not receiving medical care as their father doesn’t believe in medicine. My cousin and her boyfriend have no job, and mooch off of people to survive. My question is, what are the legal ramifications for what this man has done to his kids? Can he go to Prison for failure to enroll his children? I am very concerned for the health and mental well-being of these children. | iuxu6nb | iuyn3es | 1,667,506,553 | 1,667,519,882 | 7 | 14 | From this site https://www.azleg.gov/ars/15/00803.htm it says; A. It is unlawful for any child who is between six and sixteen years of age to fail to attend school during the hours school is in session, unless either: 2. The child is accompanied by a parent or a person authorized by a parent. I 100% get its neglectful and abusive but double check with cps because if they never was enrolled it may not be counted as truancy because if its by parents permission it may be a loop hole as shit as it is. | Call CPS. Save those children | 0 | 13,329 | 2 |
dsk4zv | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | After renting a house we discovered that the flooring is covered in pet urine. We paid out of pocket to replace the flooring only to discover the urine is soaked through the wood boards under thr carpet when we tore it out. Landlord won't do anything or let us out of lease (pa) When we viewed the house before signing the lease the previous tenant was still here. I have no idea why but for some reason we didn't smell anything at all during the walk thru. The landlord wouldnt allow us access to the house until after the lease was signed. After signing the lease we got the keys and discovered the entire house smelled overwhelming. I immediately rented a rug doctor and scrubbed the floors with every product for pet urin I could find including white vinegar and baking soda. When that did nothing (after 6 days of scrubbing and the landlord not answering my calls or texts) I finally got intouch with the landlord and explained the situation (I have a 3 year old son who I'm not allowing to roll on a carpet covered in piss. Plus we have a dog who is going crazy with the smell). She agreed to pay for pergo flooring for two rooms but if we wanted more done we had to pay for it and we had to do ALL the work. We tore out the carpeting in the dining room last night and discovered the piss was soaked into the wood under the carpet. The landlord wont replace it or let us out of the lease and I cant afford to rip up floor boards in a house in just renting. On top of this we discovered the roof is leaking under the entire length on the left side of the house (the landlord is patching it until she can get someone to replace is in a month). The deadline to be out of our old house is passed so we have all of our belongings in this house and I'm at a total loss about what to do. Ive never dealt with anything like this before and I have no idea what to do. Please help. This is in Pennsylvania. | f6qo25b | f6qa9xh | 1,573,081,665 | 1,573,073,654 | 83 | 60 | You need a landlord-tenant attorney. DO not put any money into this project. You did the removal in good faith and found a major problem. The landlord needs to correct at their cost. You need an attorney to look a the lease and let you know exactly what your rights are. This is is probably beyond the scope of this forum. The landlord might have known there was a major smell issue, did a temp fix to remedy then denied you access so you would not find out the extent of the problem. Its borderline fraud if she knew and was hiding it | If it’s just the floors, a couple coats of Killz will seal it away. If it’s in the drywall and insulation though that won’t help. Since you’ve exposed the subfloor you can likely see the extent of the staining. You can consult with a local tenants rights organization to find out your rights in the situation. Definitely stop spending your money to improve someone else’s house until you do that. | 1 | 8,011 | 1.383333 |
dsk4zv | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | After renting a house we discovered that the flooring is covered in pet urine. We paid out of pocket to replace the flooring only to discover the urine is soaked through the wood boards under thr carpet when we tore it out. Landlord won't do anything or let us out of lease (pa) When we viewed the house before signing the lease the previous tenant was still here. I have no idea why but for some reason we didn't smell anything at all during the walk thru. The landlord wouldnt allow us access to the house until after the lease was signed. After signing the lease we got the keys and discovered the entire house smelled overwhelming. I immediately rented a rug doctor and scrubbed the floors with every product for pet urin I could find including white vinegar and baking soda. When that did nothing (after 6 days of scrubbing and the landlord not answering my calls or texts) I finally got intouch with the landlord and explained the situation (I have a 3 year old son who I'm not allowing to roll on a carpet covered in piss. Plus we have a dog who is going crazy with the smell). She agreed to pay for pergo flooring for two rooms but if we wanted more done we had to pay for it and we had to do ALL the work. We tore out the carpeting in the dining room last night and discovered the piss was soaked into the wood under the carpet. The landlord wont replace it or let us out of the lease and I cant afford to rip up floor boards in a house in just renting. On top of this we discovered the roof is leaking under the entire length on the left side of the house (the landlord is patching it until she can get someone to replace is in a month). The deadline to be out of our old house is passed so we have all of our belongings in this house and I'm at a total loss about what to do. Ive never dealt with anything like this before and I have no idea what to do. Please help. This is in Pennsylvania. | f6qjxi0 | f6qo25b | 1,573,078,928 | 1,573,081,665 | 21 | 83 | Not a lawyer, but you're going to want to check your lease for an acceleration clause or a lease break clause. Some leases (I'm working in PA) are required to have a reasonable exit clause, ie, pay two months rent and lose your security deposit. It may save time and money to pay the penalty, get a new property, and then sue for the rent, security deposit, moving costs, and costs you've spent on the current property. Good luck. | You need a landlord-tenant attorney. DO not put any money into this project. You did the removal in good faith and found a major problem. The landlord needs to correct at their cost. You need an attorney to look a the lease and let you know exactly what your rights are. This is is probably beyond the scope of this forum. The landlord might have known there was a major smell issue, did a temp fix to remedy then denied you access so you would not find out the extent of the problem. Its borderline fraud if she knew and was hiding it | 0 | 2,737 | 3.952381 |
dsk4zv | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | After renting a house we discovered that the flooring is covered in pet urine. We paid out of pocket to replace the flooring only to discover the urine is soaked through the wood boards under thr carpet when we tore it out. Landlord won't do anything or let us out of lease (pa) When we viewed the house before signing the lease the previous tenant was still here. I have no idea why but for some reason we didn't smell anything at all during the walk thru. The landlord wouldnt allow us access to the house until after the lease was signed. After signing the lease we got the keys and discovered the entire house smelled overwhelming. I immediately rented a rug doctor and scrubbed the floors with every product for pet urin I could find including white vinegar and baking soda. When that did nothing (after 6 days of scrubbing and the landlord not answering my calls or texts) I finally got intouch with the landlord and explained the situation (I have a 3 year old son who I'm not allowing to roll on a carpet covered in piss. Plus we have a dog who is going crazy with the smell). She agreed to pay for pergo flooring for two rooms but if we wanted more done we had to pay for it and we had to do ALL the work. We tore out the carpeting in the dining room last night and discovered the piss was soaked into the wood under the carpet. The landlord wont replace it or let us out of the lease and I cant afford to rip up floor boards in a house in just renting. On top of this we discovered the roof is leaking under the entire length on the left side of the house (the landlord is patching it until she can get someone to replace is in a month). The deadline to be out of our old house is passed so we have all of our belongings in this house and I'm at a total loss about what to do. Ive never dealt with anything like this before and I have no idea what to do. Please help. This is in Pennsylvania. | f6qo25b | f6qcoml | 1,573,081,665 | 1,573,074,900 | 83 | 15 | You need a landlord-tenant attorney. DO not put any money into this project. You did the removal in good faith and found a major problem. The landlord needs to correct at their cost. You need an attorney to look a the lease and let you know exactly what your rights are. This is is probably beyond the scope of this forum. The landlord might have known there was a major smell issue, did a temp fix to remedy then denied you access so you would not find out the extent of the problem. Its borderline fraud if she knew and was hiding it | You might reach out to the local housing authority and see if they can be of any assistance. I don't know how much authority they have in Pennsylvania or what their position on cat urine would be. | 1 | 6,765 | 5.533333 |
dsk4zv | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | After renting a house we discovered that the flooring is covered in pet urine. We paid out of pocket to replace the flooring only to discover the urine is soaked through the wood boards under thr carpet when we tore it out. Landlord won't do anything or let us out of lease (pa) When we viewed the house before signing the lease the previous tenant was still here. I have no idea why but for some reason we didn't smell anything at all during the walk thru. The landlord wouldnt allow us access to the house until after the lease was signed. After signing the lease we got the keys and discovered the entire house smelled overwhelming. I immediately rented a rug doctor and scrubbed the floors with every product for pet urin I could find including white vinegar and baking soda. When that did nothing (after 6 days of scrubbing and the landlord not answering my calls or texts) I finally got intouch with the landlord and explained the situation (I have a 3 year old son who I'm not allowing to roll on a carpet covered in piss. Plus we have a dog who is going crazy with the smell). She agreed to pay for pergo flooring for two rooms but if we wanted more done we had to pay for it and we had to do ALL the work. We tore out the carpeting in the dining room last night and discovered the piss was soaked into the wood under the carpet. The landlord wont replace it or let us out of the lease and I cant afford to rip up floor boards in a house in just renting. On top of this we discovered the roof is leaking under the entire length on the left side of the house (the landlord is patching it until she can get someone to replace is in a month). The deadline to be out of our old house is passed so we have all of our belongings in this house and I'm at a total loss about what to do. Ive never dealt with anything like this before and I have no idea what to do. Please help. This is in Pennsylvania. | f6qcoml | f6qjxi0 | 1,573,074,900 | 1,573,078,928 | 15 | 21 | You might reach out to the local housing authority and see if they can be of any assistance. I don't know how much authority they have in Pennsylvania or what their position on cat urine would be. | Not a lawyer, but you're going to want to check your lease for an acceleration clause or a lease break clause. Some leases (I'm working in PA) are required to have a reasonable exit clause, ie, pay two months rent and lose your security deposit. It may save time and money to pay the penalty, get a new property, and then sue for the rent, security deposit, moving costs, and costs you've spent on the current property. Good luck. | 0 | 4,028 | 1.4 |
2w4evw | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | [TX] Landlord won't let us use the toilet. My husband and I rent a house, the landlord lives across the street. He claims that when we use the bathroom it causes pipes to crack in his house. He has now banned us from using all the toilets in the house for an indefinite amount of time. When I told him that's ridiculous, and asked how we were supposed to go to the bathroom he told me "I dunno outside or something" EXCUSE ME , He just told a pregnant woman that she needs to pee in the bushes instead of the bathroom!? Now he wants 2 months rent up front. What the hell do we do? | conh3hl | conh7m1 | 1,424,124,057 | 1,424,124,250 | 31 | 186 | Use the toilets. That guy is nuts. Sounds like he needs to fix his plumbing. | Forbidding you from using the toilets would constitute a breach of the implied warranty of habitability. You should notify him of this breach, in writing, and request that he rectify the situation immediately. If the landlord fails to make needed repair after having been given reasonable notice, you can do any of the following: · terminate the lease · have the condition remedied and deduct from the rent · sue for damages and injunction to do repairs not exceeding $10,000 | 0 | 193 | 6 |
2w4evw | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | [TX] Landlord won't let us use the toilet. My husband and I rent a house, the landlord lives across the street. He claims that when we use the bathroom it causes pipes to crack in his house. He has now banned us from using all the toilets in the house for an indefinite amount of time. When I told him that's ridiculous, and asked how we were supposed to go to the bathroom he told me "I dunno outside or something" EXCUSE ME , He just told a pregnant woman that she needs to pee in the bushes instead of the bathroom!? Now he wants 2 months rent up front. What the hell do we do? | conks3e | conh3hl | 1,424,130,666 | 1,424,124,057 | 38 | 31 | In addition to the steps that /u/grasshoppa1 suggested, I think you should be wary of your landlord in general. This honestly sounds like mental illness manifesting itself. | Use the toilets. That guy is nuts. Sounds like he needs to fix his plumbing. | 1 | 6,609 | 1.225806 |
2w4evw | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | [TX] Landlord won't let us use the toilet. My husband and I rent a house, the landlord lives across the street. He claims that when we use the bathroom it causes pipes to crack in his house. He has now banned us from using all the toilets in the house for an indefinite amount of time. When I told him that's ridiculous, and asked how we were supposed to go to the bathroom he told me "I dunno outside or something" EXCUSE ME , He just told a pregnant woman that she needs to pee in the bushes instead of the bathroom!? Now he wants 2 months rent up front. What the hell do we do? | conks3e | conk312 | 1,424,130,666 | 1,424,129,367 | 38 | 16 | In addition to the steps that /u/grasshoppa1 suggested, I think you should be wary of your landlord in general. This honestly sounds like mental illness manifesting itself. | Piss and shit on his doormat. | 1 | 1,299 | 2.375 |
2w4evw | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | [TX] Landlord won't let us use the toilet. My husband and I rent a house, the landlord lives across the street. He claims that when we use the bathroom it causes pipes to crack in his house. He has now banned us from using all the toilets in the house for an indefinite amount of time. When I told him that's ridiculous, and asked how we were supposed to go to the bathroom he told me "I dunno outside or something" EXCUSE ME , He just told a pregnant woman that she needs to pee in the bushes instead of the bathroom!? Now he wants 2 months rent up front. What the hell do we do? | conkd4o | conks3e | 1,424,129,891 | 1,424,130,666 | 13 | 38 | Wait...is he claiming that the house you are renting/living in pipes crack when you use the bathroom, or his house across the street's pipes crack when you use the bathroom? | In addition to the steps that /u/grasshoppa1 suggested, I think you should be wary of your landlord in general. This honestly sounds like mental illness manifesting itself. | 0 | 775 | 2.923077 |
2w4evw | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | [TX] Landlord won't let us use the toilet. My husband and I rent a house, the landlord lives across the street. He claims that when we use the bathroom it causes pipes to crack in his house. He has now banned us from using all the toilets in the house for an indefinite amount of time. When I told him that's ridiculous, and asked how we were supposed to go to the bathroom he told me "I dunno outside or something" EXCUSE ME , He just told a pregnant woman that she needs to pee in the bushes instead of the bathroom!? Now he wants 2 months rent up front. What the hell do we do? | conk312 | conkzf8 | 1,424,129,367 | 1,424,131,046 | 16 | 27 | Piss and shit on his doormat. | Tell him that if you can't use your own toilets you're gonna use his. Therefore you need keys to his house so that you have toilet access 24/7. You know...like at 3 am. | 0 | 1,679 | 1.6875 |
2w4evw | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | [TX] Landlord won't let us use the toilet. My husband and I rent a house, the landlord lives across the street. He claims that when we use the bathroom it causes pipes to crack in his house. He has now banned us from using all the toilets in the house for an indefinite amount of time. When I told him that's ridiculous, and asked how we were supposed to go to the bathroom he told me "I dunno outside or something" EXCUSE ME , He just told a pregnant woman that she needs to pee in the bushes instead of the bathroom!? Now he wants 2 months rent up front. What the hell do we do? | conkd4o | conkzf8 | 1,424,129,891 | 1,424,131,046 | 13 | 27 | Wait...is he claiming that the house you are renting/living in pipes crack when you use the bathroom, or his house across the street's pipes crack when you use the bathroom? | Tell him that if you can't use your own toilets you're gonna use his. Therefore you need keys to his house so that you have toilet access 24/7. You know...like at 3 am. | 0 | 1,155 | 2.076923 |
2w4evw | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | [TX] Landlord won't let us use the toilet. My husband and I rent a house, the landlord lives across the street. He claims that when we use the bathroom it causes pipes to crack in his house. He has now banned us from using all the toilets in the house for an indefinite amount of time. When I told him that's ridiculous, and asked how we were supposed to go to the bathroom he told me "I dunno outside or something" EXCUSE ME , He just told a pregnant woman that she needs to pee in the bushes instead of the bathroom!? Now he wants 2 months rent up front. What the hell do we do? | conmhxd | conk312 | 1,424,133,910 | 1,424,129,367 | 20 | 16 | I want to know what you're eating that's causing the pipes to crack when you flush. I've had some impressive burrito shits, but damn! Tell him "no" and explain that indoor plumbing is a part of your lease. It's 2015, not 1715. Move out at the end of your lease, after giving proper notice, because this guy isn't going to get any saner. Take loads of pics and video of every inch of that house before you go so he can't claim you blew it up eating curry. | Piss and shit on his doormat. | 1 | 4,543 | 1.25 |
2w4evw | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | [TX] Landlord won't let us use the toilet. My husband and I rent a house, the landlord lives across the street. He claims that when we use the bathroom it causes pipes to crack in his house. He has now banned us from using all the toilets in the house for an indefinite amount of time. When I told him that's ridiculous, and asked how we were supposed to go to the bathroom he told me "I dunno outside or something" EXCUSE ME , He just told a pregnant woman that she needs to pee in the bushes instead of the bathroom!? Now he wants 2 months rent up front. What the hell do we do? | conmhxd | conkd4o | 1,424,133,910 | 1,424,129,891 | 20 | 13 | I want to know what you're eating that's causing the pipes to crack when you flush. I've had some impressive burrito shits, but damn! Tell him "no" and explain that indoor plumbing is a part of your lease. It's 2015, not 1715. Move out at the end of your lease, after giving proper notice, because this guy isn't going to get any saner. Take loads of pics and video of every inch of that house before you go so he can't claim you blew it up eating curry. | Wait...is he claiming that the house you are renting/living in pipes crack when you use the bathroom, or his house across the street's pipes crack when you use the bathroom? | 1 | 4,019 | 1.538462 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wk1vx | e4wje5a | 1,535,351,627 | 1,535,350,401 | 604 | 116 | You may not have recourse on the GPS problem specifically, but this *does* fall under laws on stalking. File a police report for *that*, and look into getting a restraining order. | Just to consider all possibilities, other than phone devices like Tile could be used if he left one of his in your car, or shares an account and it’s on your keys or in your wallet, and you have the Tile app. I’m sure you would have thought of this, but I thought I’d throw that out there just in case. | 1 | 1,226 | 5.206897 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wk1vx | e4wi60j | 1,535,351,627 | 1,535,348,244 | 604 | 23 | You may not have recourse on the GPS problem specifically, but this *does* fall under laws on stalking. File a police report for *that*, and look into getting a restraining order. | Assuming he is using GPS to track you and not some other method, like a private investigator or otherwise something different- people with joint ownership of a vehicle are allowed to install GPS tracking devices without the knowledge of their spouse or other person on the title. Evidently, you own the car and it's in your name only, he is violating your privacy, but I'm not sure about the recourse available to you, so you should consult a lawyer. That being said: There is no state law that governs the US of GPS trackers. A judge in NJ in 2011 [Kenneth R. VILLANOVA v. INNOVATIVE INVESTIGATIONS, INC] ruled in favor of a wife and her private investigator using a GPS tracker to track the movements of her cheating husband, citing the fact that the installation was done on a car that was joint ownership between both of them- and the fact that the GPS tracker only tracked his movement in public places, where he had no expectation of privacy. Evidently you don't have an expectation of privacy because you've stated you've only been in public areas- but the fact he installed it on a car owned by specifically you, and only you is where he made a mistake, I think. GPS trackers are part of a rapidly changing part of the law, and there's not much case law in the US about their use. Talk to a lawyer about this and definitely get a divorce while you're at it. | 1 | 3,383 | 26.26087 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wifvn | e4wk1vx | 1,535,348,716 | 1,535,351,627 | 20 | 604 | Also have your car checked oit to see if they find something like a tracker | You may not have recourse on the GPS problem specifically, but this *does* fall under laws on stalking. File a police report for *that*, and look into getting a restraining order. | 0 | 2,911 | 30.2 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wrp6e | e4wje5a | 1,535,367,901 | 1,535,350,401 | 331 | 116 | In an unrelated to the legal advice part, you should probably do a sweep of your car, just in case. This will require a bit of sleuthing. Theres two types of GPS trackers basically. The first is where the GPS tracker has a small battery on its own, and can be attached via magnet. If he's texting you a few hours or days later, it might be this. Check the wheel wells and undercarriage of your car. Look closely, in case it's dirty. If he's broke or short on cash, it might be that one. If he has a key, it could be anywhere on the inside as well. The second one is active tracking. It usually requires a subscription service, and can be expensive. It also means it should be wired directly to the battery somehow. The easiest place would Be to plug it in under the driver's side in the data port. Check all your lights and stuff to see if they've been tampered with, as it could have been directly wired to them. If your car is a trash heap like mine is, this would be a good time to clean it out and give a quick look over. | Just to consider all possibilities, other than phone devices like Tile could be used if he left one of his in your car, or shares an account and it’s on your keys or in your wallet, and you have the Tile app. I’m sure you would have thought of this, but I thought I’d throw that out there just in case. | 1 | 17,500 | 2.853448 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wi60j | e4wrp6e | 1,535,348,244 | 1,535,367,901 | 23 | 331 | Assuming he is using GPS to track you and not some other method, like a private investigator or otherwise something different- people with joint ownership of a vehicle are allowed to install GPS tracking devices without the knowledge of their spouse or other person on the title. Evidently, you own the car and it's in your name only, he is violating your privacy, but I'm not sure about the recourse available to you, so you should consult a lawyer. That being said: There is no state law that governs the US of GPS trackers. A judge in NJ in 2011 [Kenneth R. VILLANOVA v. INNOVATIVE INVESTIGATIONS, INC] ruled in favor of a wife and her private investigator using a GPS tracker to track the movements of her cheating husband, citing the fact that the installation was done on a car that was joint ownership between both of them- and the fact that the GPS tracker only tracked his movement in public places, where he had no expectation of privacy. Evidently you don't have an expectation of privacy because you've stated you've only been in public areas- but the fact he installed it on a car owned by specifically you, and only you is where he made a mistake, I think. GPS trackers are part of a rapidly changing part of the law, and there's not much case law in the US about their use. Talk to a lawyer about this and definitely get a divorce while you're at it. | In an unrelated to the legal advice part, you should probably do a sweep of your car, just in case. This will require a bit of sleuthing. Theres two types of GPS trackers basically. The first is where the GPS tracker has a small battery on its own, and can be attached via magnet. If he's texting you a few hours or days later, it might be this. Check the wheel wells and undercarriage of your car. Look closely, in case it's dirty. If he's broke or short on cash, it might be that one. If he has a key, it could be anywhere on the inside as well. The second one is active tracking. It usually requires a subscription service, and can be expensive. It also means it should be wired directly to the battery somehow. The easiest place would Be to plug it in under the driver's side in the data port. Check all your lights and stuff to see if they've been tampered with, as it could have been directly wired to them. If your car is a trash heap like mine is, this would be a good time to clean it out and give a quick look over. | 0 | 19,657 | 14.391304 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wrp6e | e4wifvn | 1,535,367,901 | 1,535,348,716 | 331 | 20 | In an unrelated to the legal advice part, you should probably do a sweep of your car, just in case. This will require a bit of sleuthing. Theres two types of GPS trackers basically. The first is where the GPS tracker has a small battery on its own, and can be attached via magnet. If he's texting you a few hours or days later, it might be this. Check the wheel wells and undercarriage of your car. Look closely, in case it's dirty. If he's broke or short on cash, it might be that one. If he has a key, it could be anywhere on the inside as well. The second one is active tracking. It usually requires a subscription service, and can be expensive. It also means it should be wired directly to the battery somehow. The easiest place would Be to plug it in under the driver's side in the data port. Check all your lights and stuff to see if they've been tampered with, as it could have been directly wired to them. If your car is a trash heap like mine is, this would be a good time to clean it out and give a quick look over. | Also have your car checked oit to see if they find something like a tracker | 1 | 19,185 | 16.55 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wu1ta | e4wje5a | 1,535,371,608 | 1,535,350,401 | 133 | 116 | He could be using your Google location history, make sure that you change your Google password(s) if you have a account or multiple accounts. | Just to consider all possibilities, other than phone devices like Tile could be used if he left one of his in your car, or shares an account and it’s on your keys or in your wallet, and you have the Tile app. I’m sure you would have thought of this, but I thought I’d throw that out there just in case. | 1 | 21,207 | 1.146552 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wi60j | e4wu1ta | 1,535,348,244 | 1,535,371,608 | 23 | 133 | Assuming he is using GPS to track you and not some other method, like a private investigator or otherwise something different- people with joint ownership of a vehicle are allowed to install GPS tracking devices without the knowledge of their spouse or other person on the title. Evidently, you own the car and it's in your name only, he is violating your privacy, but I'm not sure about the recourse available to you, so you should consult a lawyer. That being said: There is no state law that governs the US of GPS trackers. A judge in NJ in 2011 [Kenneth R. VILLANOVA v. INNOVATIVE INVESTIGATIONS, INC] ruled in favor of a wife and her private investigator using a GPS tracker to track the movements of her cheating husband, citing the fact that the installation was done on a car that was joint ownership between both of them- and the fact that the GPS tracker only tracked his movement in public places, where he had no expectation of privacy. Evidently you don't have an expectation of privacy because you've stated you've only been in public areas- but the fact he installed it on a car owned by specifically you, and only you is where he made a mistake, I think. GPS trackers are part of a rapidly changing part of the law, and there's not much case law in the US about their use. Talk to a lawyer about this and definitely get a divorce while you're at it. | He could be using your Google location history, make sure that you change your Google password(s) if you have a account or multiple accounts. | 0 | 23,364 | 5.782609 |
9amb1e | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | I think my husband put a tracking device on my car, what can I do if found? Location is **NJ**. My car's **title is in my name** only. He's made some payments when I was on medical leave from work for a couple of months and put down the down payment, if that matters. **TL;DR:** I have reasons to believe my soon-to-be ex-husband is tracking me. Is this legal? If I was to find the device, what should I do? If you can think of other ways he may know this specific info, please share! **Why I think he's tracking me:** * He's called me up multiple times saying "someone" saw me get off the interstate/parkway at specific exits, saw me at specific stores, etc. in the town he thinks my "new man" (there's NO one) lives in. * He's told me specific times I got to these towns and returned to my new rental house. * I got a new phone and am no longer on his phone plan, and my location is not shared with anyone, so he can't be using my phone to find me. * My ez-pass for toll booths is also a separate account and he does not have access to it. * He has the spare keys to my car, which he denies but his sister told me she saw it in his truck. He's very mechanically inclined and has driven around to find where I'm living, so it's possible that he could've placed something in my car. Edit: New Jersey, because apparently reddit can't identify "NJ" lol | e4wifvn | e4wu1ta | 1,535,348,716 | 1,535,371,608 | 20 | 133 | Also have your car checked oit to see if they find something like a tracker | He could be using your Google location history, make sure that you change your Google password(s) if you have a account or multiple accounts. | 0 | 22,892 | 6.65 |
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